I don’t see my new husband making any real efforts to connect with his children or grandchildren. He's asked me to keep in touch with them. I don’t feel like the family wants me in that role, but he wants me to act like their mother in this way. What is my responsibility here?
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My wife had an affair years ago and I’m now wondering if it’s normal to not deal with those emotions for a long time. And, will it help me to ask about the details seven years later? I worry that it’s too late to bring it up again. I've been okay for years but it continues to hinder my trust for her.
When I married my husband almost 30 years ago, I expected him to oversee our finances and to make wise decisions about money. Whenever we hit the wall financially, my husband would take money out of his 401K to pay for things. He also took his social security early. I don't want to approach my 80's with barely anything to live on.