Wonderful insights and perspectives on parenting, especially as a stay at home mom. We need to celebrate and share these stories more. This is, in my opinion, more aligned with the Savior's gospel than any philosophy of men regarding women in the workplace vs staying at home to raise children. Then you for your insights and testimony!
Oh, and just wait until your kids are teenagers. Talk about opportunities to learn to be more Christlike met with resistance! It's quite intellectually and spiritually stimulating. Not to mention if you have 6 kids ranging from teenager to toddler. Try juggling that while homeschooling them all like my wife does. Nothing is more fulfilling or difficult than something like that.
Great article@
Valiant JonesMay 14, 2026
This is so wise. Laura is lucky to have such parents. This approach she saw in your home will be passed down for generations,
Laurie PollardMay 14, 2026
Oh, Maurine, this is beautiful. Please keep sharing the profound memories in your little pink book!
Laurie PollardMay 14, 2026
What a great story to share, Maurine! It inspires me to live in a way that I can be as sensitive to the Spirit as was our beloved Thomas S. Monson!
Tom WilliamsMay 14, 2026
Maurine: Just a quick commendation for this terrific interview series that you and Scott produce. From the time we were Honors Program students at the U to today, you've always been an inspiration. I hope readers appreciate the work it must take to maintain Meridian's high standards. God bless you both.
Rayline SalazarMay 13, 2026
I am enjoying this video serial so very much! I have learned and understood so much more listening to the various people who have taken time to learn and study about these people and their lives, experiences, and ideas that each blessed the church throughout the years.
StefanieMay 13, 2026
When & where can we see the full?
ShaunaMay 13, 2026
I married late and am an older parent. I pursued 10 years of higher education before finally meeting my husband, 2 masters degrees and work on a PhD. But motherhood has by far, been the most fulfilling, stretching, worthwhile but challenging thing I've ever done. Mom's wear multiple hats at all times, and I have loved sharing whatever "intellectual" knowledge I've gained with my kids, and learning from them. And now that my kids are young adults, I've entered so far at least, the most challenging era of parenting. I wouldn't have missed being a full-time mom for anything in this world. Kids grow so fast, and the days, phases, stages of growth, never come back. Don't miss it-- in my experience, there is nothing even as remotely fulfilling
James Glen WelkerMay 13, 2026
Thank you for reminding us that temporal preparedness goes a very long way in helping us maintaining our spiritual preparedness. If the cupboard is bare, how do we expect to maintain or provide help and support to others!!
Roger DavidsonMay 13, 2026
Thank you so very much for your article. I really appreciate that you would mention Elder Bednar's talk. I have listened to it several times. Again thank you very much
IreneMay 12, 2026
it truly is a Gem
Marci TannerMay 11, 2026
I always LOVE Becky’s articles. They are always so thought provoking and inspirational! They truly make me want to try harder to be a better person. Thank you Becky for your amazing articles. And thank you for publishing them!
Kerry CowleyMay 11, 2026
I've signed up for your October 2026 Turkey tour. When I checked with Morris Travel a few weeks ago, there were still only 16 people signed up and there needs to be a minimum of 25 people for the tour to happen. Do you have friends that are still planning on signing up that will for sure bring the minimum up to 25? If not, I'll start looking again at other tour operators. Your description of Day 3 differs from the Morris website. Are we now flying from Istanbul to Ankara to save almost 5 hours of driving time? Please proofread each day's description more carefully. For example, on Day 16 there are 3 typos: Begin the day at Topkapi Palace, once home to many sultans. Built in the mid-1400’s following the conquest of Istanbul, many sultans have since built more buildings and annexes to create the remarkable palance complex that we will see today. Then stand in awe at the Hagia Sophia—a Christian cathedral, then a mosque, and now a museum echoing centuries of worship. Cap off your journey with a unforgettable visit to the bustling Grand Bazaar one of the world’s oldest and largest covered markets spanning 61 streets with over 4,000 shops! Tonigh we have our farewell dinner rich in flavor and gratitude. Is there any way we can add Istanbul's Basilica Cistern to our itinerary on Day 15 or 16 since it's included in most other guided tours that I've researched? I have little interest in spending much time in the spice or Grand Bazaar and will tour the Cistern on my own if I have to. It is open from 9:00 am to 6:30 pm. The cost at the official ticket site (https://www.passo.com.tr/tr/etkinlik/yerebatan-sarnici-the-basilica-cistern-muze-bileti/11704322) is ₺2,145.00 ($47.28) with a higher nighttime admission fee from 7:30-10 pm. Thanks for your reply.
Herm OlsenMay 11, 2026
Superb! Thanks so much.
Richard GarrisonMay 11, 2026
Becky, what a wonderful, insightful, and thought-provoking article! Thank you so much for sharing these great thoughts and challenges. I so appreciate ALL that you do!
CynthiaMay 11, 2026
Becky, you continue to bless and inspire us! Thank you for this beautiful reminder of setting priorities and doing good continually. I'm so grateful for your wisdom and inspiration! I want to be a better person after reading your articles!!
Janna Stout HallbergMay 11, 2026
I loved this… and needed it! The song you printed the lyrics to, “The Theme from Mahogany” was the one I sang, with a little ensemble I put together, at my Senior Sendoff assembly in High school. It really resonated with me then and still does now! Thank you for the reminder and I want to take your suggestions to heart.. beginning today!
LewisMay 11, 2026
This story provoked in me a great deal of thought. Where am I going? Am I getting lost in the journey? How do I make the journey more meaningful? Am I doing what the Savior would be doing while I am on this journey? These are serious questions, and worthy of serious, thoughtful answers.
I appreciate the care and thought reflected in your articles. You have a gift for taking what seems to be a relatively ordinary experience and using it to help us all become better. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
Carolyn MadsonMay 9, 2026
Pretty harsh comments Michael.
Egotistical, selfish, prideful, haughty, short sighted lie? Really?
The world we live in with social media and texting, girls can become overwhelmed with the negative which leads to poor self image and feeling "less than," I do not know a woman out there, including your wife, who would not enjoy, welcome, and appreciate a loving comment on just how great they are and how beautiful they look. Better go find her and tell her so....she is probably worn out from "raising a family with very good results."
Congratulations. Who is the egotistical one here?
LaWrenMay 9, 2026
Beautifully expressed
Christian eMay 8, 2026
Thank you for this beautiful message! Such deep truths about love, motherhood, and Fhrist.
Heather SmurthwaiteMay 8, 2026
Brother Degn, I've been longing for another of your articles, and this one is especially insightful and tenderly inspiring. I'm going to share it to my family (I have 4 daughters and 4 daughter-in-laws) and my dear sisters and close friends for Mothers Day!
I can't thank you enough!
Joseph gowenMay 8, 2026
What a ridiculous and close-minded article. Of course Mormon culture exists. One must be intentionally obtuse to deny the culture if they have spent any time active in the Church. Leaving Church activity in no way invalidates a person’s lived experience within the Mormon culture.
Robyn GeantilMay 8, 2026
Thank you so much for bringing this to our attention! I have sent it to several grandchildren.
Rhoda AndersonMay 8, 2026
This is truly one of the most beautiful things I've ever read. Thank you so much. I'll be passing this article on to many.
Nancy HardmanMay 8, 2026
Thank you for this new way of seeing. Wonderful wordcraft!
Michael ScrimsherMay 7, 2026
Good article. One comment. Having raised a family with very good results, I consider it very problematic to tell your child that they are "the prettiest little princess (or prince) in the world"... It sets them up for failure, causes arguments at school, and not to mention about all the other parents who told their children that same egotistical, selfish, prideful, haughty short sighted lie....
SusanMay 6, 2026
As a retired nurse/ nurse practitioner, I believe that all health care providers must have the right to refuse to perform any kind of treatment that conflicts with their own moral and ethical values, and/or the Hippocratic oath. We must do no harm.
Chris EpsonMay 6, 2026
And...in the church, what is being done to better support men? "BYU Men's Conference?" Or "Time Out for Men?"
No. Nothing.
Paul RobertsMay 6, 2026
Both Egypt and Meso-America still have the flying serpents. They are a snake that flattens itself in to a wing enabling it to glide very well and to turn. The weaponized fiery (iridescent) flying snakes of NW Saudi peninsula where the 10 tribes were wandering would sweep down from the Acacia trees where the aphids produced the Manna (honey dew like substance that is still to be found there) on to the people bent over gathering it for food. The Jaredites had similar deadly flying serpents probably at the same time likely caused by the same event (The eruption of Thera volcano that caused the Plagues) They resorted to a barren earth tactic of leaving a treeless band from coast to coast across the continent at a line between the cities of Desolation and Bountiful; barren to the North, trees and game to the South. This barren strip lasted for centuries affecting the drought cycles.
To find pictures of them search for [flying snakes][Chrysopelea is a genus of snakes, commonly known as flying snakes or gliding snakes, that belong to the family Colubridae. Chrysopelea species are found in Southeast Asia, and are known for their ability to glide between trees. Flying snakes are mildly venomous, though the venom is dangerous only to their small prey. Wikipedia]
There is nothing mysterious about the snakes, they are bright and iridescent they just don't kill humans any more just mice and small lizards. They are depicted as late as the Mayan civilization on temple staircases.
RaLee HallMay 5, 2026
Your photographs are awesomely beautiful.
Richard FMay 5, 2026
Very excited to see the development and reinterpretation of the great parables of Christ. Good luck to the team!
NondaMay 5, 2026
I searched for the rest of the story and found it here: https://www.chronicleonline.com/weeklies/wakulla_news/lighting-learning-and-kindness-part-two/article_38993b8a-773b-5216-8150-d42355015f75.html
I'm surprised it wasn't posted on Meridian Magazine.
Richard CraycroftMay 4, 2026
Israel may have been a popular invasion route; but moreover, it was the crossroads of the known world. The junction between the continents. Travelers from Europe to Asia or Africa passed through the region. Travelers from Africa to Europe and Asia passed through the region. Travelers from Asia to Europe and Africa passed through the region. It was the center of the known world. And God placed his people there so they could be an influence to the entire known world.
ChristopherMay 4, 2026
Jeff, I appreciate your response. I just hope that you would never say out loud to someone "I believe there were often mistakes and problems on both sides."
This is a narrative that the perpetrators of divorce rely on, and it's incredibly harmful for the victims.
I understand that people want to maintain this narrative, it helps them feel safe. If it's true, then they can't have their entire life turned upside down, unless they also do something wrong.
But it's just not true. Marriage requires two people. But divorce only requires one. And the people who are harmed by divorce don't deserve the scorn of assuming that there must have been problems on both sides. Because there doesn't need to be.
Rochelle HaleMay 4, 2026
It sounds like your father's "innocence was restored." I hope so. It also sounds like you were able to weather the storms during this difficult time in your family. We attend a "Come, Follow Me" study group. Often, friends have shared faith-promoting or special experiences. One wife took me aside and told me that her husband feels bad because he has never had these experiences. This man has been in ward leadership and a seminary and institute teacher. I suggested that he has probably had many experiences, particularly through gospel study, that the rest of us haven't had. One of the earliest miracles I experienced was going on a mission without family support. From the first impressions to serve to arriving in the mission field was about four months. I had some savings, but my bishop told me there were ward members who would make up the difference. Part way through my mission, our expenses were drastically reduced due to an economic depression where I was serving. I had a surplus in my bank account when I returned home. I gave it to the bishop to help another missionary. The amount was roughly equivalent to what I had started with, so I actually had been able to finance most of my mission myself. Another recent miracle was caring for my elderly mother. Her illness was sudden, but we didn't expect her to pass away. Nevertheless, we soon learned we had to address not only her medical care, but housing (she couldn't go home), and possibly a funeral. I was cleaning her apartment one day, after several weeks of earnest prayer and seeking guidance, when a phone call answered several of our questions and gave us direction that we needed in many ways. I know the Lord had directed that "angel" to call me. Later, when we did have to deal with funeral arrangements, I felt led to a certain mortuary. They were so kind from the get-go and walked us through the process. They did not know our budget, but final expenses were almost to the penny exactly what we could spend.
Richard TarinelliMay 3, 2026
I also enjoy the use of maps for gaining insights into travels and worlds. But again Daniel, I appreciate your insights for depth and knowledge which are seldom revealed in the manner of your depth of instruction. Thanks again !
Alex BarclayMay 3, 2026
I once read that one of the reasons it was called the "evil east wind" was because of the large burial ground on the east side of Jerusalem. When the wind blew from the east in hot weather, it smelled bad. I dont know if there is any substance to this
R HollandMay 3, 2026
KFC would never say that Kentucky Fried Chicken will make you sick.
MaryannMay 1, 2026
Oh, so beautiful. Our Savior has prepared a place for us, and we have much to look forward to. I became fascinated with the subject of passing on into the afterlife while reading Dr. Raymond Moodie's books, Life After Life, and the follow-up book he wrote, Reflections on Life After Life. Like the Dr. in this article, Dr. Moodie also experienced countless discussions with those who came back and recounted their near death experiences. I love his books, because he doesn't have a goal to convince anyone. He just shares the stories people have told him over and over again. He said that when he lectured on the subject, people would come up afterwards and share their own experiences, which they often had kept private. They probably are hesitant because of the negative reactions some might have to their experiences. I felt Dr. Moodie was very sincere in recording the experiences shared with him firsthand. I have also read other books on this subject that I recognized as fabrications because of the false information in the books that are out of harmony with what we know from the gospel. Too many have, unfortunately, written falsified accounts in order to get a book published, and often use sensationalistic drama to sell them. It is important that we are led by the spirit to discern the true accounts from falsehood.
Raymond Takashi SwensonMay 1, 2026
I am revisiting this essay in 2026. I remember reading it in Arthur Henry King's book compiling his essays. I recall reading that my original edition of Professor King's essays would be worth hundreds of dollars on the LDS used book market. I see the denigrating comment by Christee Trowbridge. She (I assume it is she) thinks Professor King's opinion about the remarkable nature of Joseph Smith's account of his First Vision have little value. She thus demonstrates her utter ignorance of the remarkable achievements of Professor King internationally in the field of literary analysis and criticism. Miss Trowbridge thinks her opinion of the First Vision account is of greater value than that of Professor King. I have never heard of Ms. Trowbridge or any of her academic achievements in the 13 years since she attached her criticisms of Professor King and of Joseph Smith to this essay. She appears to be ignorant of the writers that Professor King cites in his essay. Professor King writes of how Joseph's account of his experience is utterly lacking in the hallmarks of people who try to arouse emotion and simulate a "spiritual experience". Compared to the thousands of writers he has evaluated in his academic career, Joseph Smith is telling his simple experience of a remarkable event. Latter-day Saints know that Oliver Cowdery was a writer in the 19th century literary tradition that tells readers what they should feel, just from the excerpt from his own writing about the experience of meeting John the Baptist that is appended to Joseph's account of that event. But Joseph was not. Professor King tells us that Joseph's account is superior to most of the literature that he read and taught in his long and distinguished international career. And that is separate and apart from the witness of the Holy Ghost that may come to a prayerful reader who is seeking from answers from God, as Joseph did. ---Raymond Takashi Swenson, JD, LL.M., Lt. Colonel, USAF (Retired).
Joni HiltonMay 1, 2026
I wish the whole world could read this. “Oh that I were an angel… “
Jessica RamptonMay 1, 2026
Wow. I’ve read this out loud twice to help me further embedded into my heart and soul. There’s so much to ponder on, and the Spirit is resting upon me as a tearfully finish studying this. I’ve taken a few notes to brew ruminate on throughout the day— this article is outstanding. Thank you.!
Herm OlsenMay 1, 2026
This is a sweet and compelling account. I also highly recommend Dr. George Ritchie’s book Return From Tomorrow. These accounts lift one’s soul!
JuliannMay 1, 2026
Beautiful. Thank you. I believe.
ScottMay 1, 2026
[Maryann] thank you so much for your comment. I feel the same loss and aching in my soul.
ScottMay 1, 2026
From the survey data I am worried that the primary reason people leave is church history issues and this is not an area that I know enough about to be helpful. Where can we go if we have questions about the church topic essays? These were so difficult to read and my bishop had not read these. Our gospel doctrine teacher who is the wife of the stake president taught on section 132 just a few months back but was also not aware of essays and denied that JS practiced plural marriage with teen agers. I'm at a loss as to what to do.
Elaine SeamanMay 1, 2026
Where are the footnotes? I want to read them as well.
Diane BlakelyMay 1, 2026
I believe this is the most beautiful thing I have ever read!!!
vickie gaspard cloudApril 30, 2026
I think in all of this, there are lessons to be learned. We learned about the beginning and how things progressed. We can all make assumptions, but until we cross over, we won't know in detail everything there is to know. All I know is that we have a loving Heavenly Father who loves us very much and knows that to be like Him, we have to go through things in life that will teach us and help us to come back to Him. For these things, I am truly grateful.
Ray CoteApril 30, 2026
...like wars are rational...
Robert StarlingApril 30, 2026
To JP Gayan: Since we agree that partaking of the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil by Adam and Eve was part of God's plan all along and did not "thwart" the plan, I prefer to praise Mother Eve not for "disobeying God", but rather for following the Plan.
When Satan was confronted by God for his part in the Fall, he said "I've only done what has been done on other worlds." Apparently so did Eve. Hmmmmm
jeffApril 30, 2026
Divorce frequently comes as a "surprise" to the partner that didn't want it. I have known many people who have said they never saw it coming and would have done almost anything to save it if they could have. I have known many people who claimed their spouse came to them one day and announced that they wanted out and the marriage was over in less than 6 months.
The idea that "Divorce has a perpetrator and a victim, in all but the rarest of cases" does not comport with my experience participating and working in the singles community for 16 years. Talk to two people who are in the middle of divorcing each other and you will generally get two very compelling narratives and, if you are honest, you won't be able to discern who is telling the truth and who is not. Generally it is a matter of interpretation more than cold, hard facts. To the extent that I can discern such things, I believe there were often mistakes and problems on both sides. Over half the of reported domestic violence cases are bilateral, involving victimization and perpetration by both partners.
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6485079/#:~:text=Historically%2C%20IPV%20studies%20have%20focused,by%20both%20partners%20%5B37%5D.
In terms of Church leaders, I don't necessarily agree that women are generally not believed or that Bishops identify more with the man. I know that sometimes happens. My experience is generally that divorcing women are treated with compassion and men are treated with suspicion.
Having said that, I really think we need to get away from the idea that church leaders or other members need to take sides or assign fault. That is generally not helpful. In clear cases of abuse, a leader may need to take steps to protect the more vulnerable party. But he should minister to both without judgment. Sometimes when a couple is divorcing, people think they need to discern who is at "fault" so they aren't supporting the "wrong person." Both are children of God and it is not our job to assign fault. I believe in protecting people who may be in danger. I don't think that means Bishops should be expected to be able to tell if one of the two divorcing people is lying or telling the truth. I've been on the wrong end of "not being believed" too, and it was a very difficult time and added insult to injury.
ChristopherApril 30, 2026
"When that marriage ends" is a bizarre euphemism for divorce.
Divorce is not death. It isn't a surprise nor does it come out of nowhere. Divorce has a perpetrator and a victim, in all but the rarest of cases.
This article would be much stronger if its advice distinguished between the two.
Perpetrators of divorce don't usually need to learn to love and accept themselves. In most cases, they have already done that to the point that they harmed the people around them.
NoneApril 30, 2026
Please address the way the church leaders treat you, especially the woman after a divorce, like taking away all your church jobs, which isolates you. The bishop being the priesthood leader tends to identify with and support the the male because of the priesthood. I talked with several women who said they were not believed by their leadership...especially where abuse was the issue .
Alan WakeleyApril 30, 2026
What a marvelous article. I love these sorts of commentaries because they put so much of what we understand scripturally in a clear historical and geographical context. The same occurs when you get to travel to the Holy Land. Thank you, Brother Peterson!
Haze K.April 29, 2026
I am looking forward to meeting Mother Eve and asking for more details about her experience and decision.
I suspect there is more to the story than I can understand or "wrap my head around" at this time.
David CookApril 29, 2026
I agree with the above. Eve did need to partake of the fruit, but she didn't need to be beguiled by Satan and follow his instructions to do so. In the temple presentation of the story, three times it's mentioned that God and Jehovah intended to give Adam and Eve "further instructions." What could these instructions have been other than how to proceed on to mortality? But the intended instructions were never given because Eve and then Adam "jumped the gun" and did it Satan's way. The act was ultimately necessary, but God's plan certainly did not depend on Satan's intervention to succeed.
Vickie MunsonApril 29, 2026
My personal opinion is that the 'church' is about twenty years too late. To go after this podcast now will undoubtedly increase it's viewership. I had never listened to them and the first thing I did was look them up. There were ex-mormons being interviewed that day. The next day there was an active mormon on.
I thought the church didn't want members using the word mormon anymore. If anyone got on that podcast accidentally thinking it was sponsored by the 'church' it would take less than 30 seconds to realize it isn't.
It is interesting they are taking the stance that they are soooo many years later. What are they worried about? I know memberships are declining but doing this may increase members leaving. The people that I listened to on this podcast did not leave the 'church' because of the podcast and now you will have driven so many to check out the podcast that you will increase their viewership and more than likely loose even more members.
Just my opinion. Hopefully I am not sued because of it.
Sally GreenfieldApril 29, 2026
As a cultural anthropologist who grew up attending the LDS church, I strongly and in no uncertain terms object to the claims made in this article.
I am confident that I have forgotten more about how culture works than this author has ever known.
ColinApril 29, 2026
Numerous apostles and prophets have praised Eve for her choice, so we’re in good company in doing so. I see nothing in scripture or prophetic teachings that says the commandment to not partake would be removed later.
Indeed, in placing Adam and Eve in a situation where they must disobey one commandment or another, they were introduced to our own situation — we *are* going to sin in this earth life. Welcome to mortality!
EllieApril 29, 2026
In reply to JP Gayan's comment. The idea that Eve partook of the fruit too early is not scriptural. Better translations of the Bible and other texts from the Dead Sea Scrolls paint a much broader picture of the Fall and Eve's role and help us understand the text as not literal but literary--teaching a principle and message, not recounting a historical cause and effect. Eve, as a symbol of all of us, as a bride is a symbol of the church, took the proverbial fruit--we all chose to enter mortality. Adam as a symbol of Christ upheld God's will and followed us into mortality by being "born" of a mortal woman--taking the fruit offered by Eve. Prior to the fall, Eve as a help-meet or "ally, rescuer, or strength," as the term "ezer" connotes, is a symbol of the Savior's covenant relationship with mankind--Adam--just as much as it is a symbol of a spousal relationship. As most symbols, the polyvalent nature can lead to both Adam and Eve symbolizing multiple things at once.or different things at different times. Eve as a female prototype, Adam as a male prototype. Eve as a type of Christ. Adam as a type of Christ. Both Adam and Eve as representatives of each of us. Unlike English, the Hebrew language holds more depth in one word. We lose much of that once we wrestle it into a static language like English.
WendyApril 29, 2026
I had trouble attending Church for years, and I didn't understand why. I felt I was different from everyone. Church made me anxious. I fidgeted. I struggled to focus. Trying to do what I was "supposed to" was exhausting. Maintaining habits--daily prayer, daily study, consistent effort--wasn't just hard, it was impossible. On top of all that, I felt I couldn't show my personality... can't show my half-shaved head, can't do my makeup too dark, certainly can't wear my spike necklace... I'm already standing out because my husband's a nonmember and my body won't stop fidgeting.
In my late 20s/early 30s I found out two things. One, I have ADHD. Two, Satan is really good at lying to me.
The truth is, we NEED the members who don't fit the mold to be at Church. We need the neurodiverse members, the goth kids, the members with opinions and backgrounds counter to the majority... and we need them to be open about who they are, so all the people who are masking or staying away have the courage to authentically come back.
Zion is NOT just composed of happy Utah pioneer families, with the same polite smiles, and the same rote testimonies, where everyone gets along because everyone is the same. No, Zion is DIVERSE. It's Zion BECAUSE all these people, who the world says don't belong together and can't see eye to eye, have learned how to stand together anyway.
These days, you'll find me at Church every Sunday, with my dark makeup and weird jewelry. I might be in the chapel, quietly playing video games on my phone, to help my brain listen to the speakers. Or, I might have found a secret corner in an empty room, where I can stim and listen via livestream. Or, I might be teaching the youth in my Sunday school class--showing them you do not have to fit a stereotype to fully participate in God's church.
Zion can't be established until we all find the courage to take up our space in it.
Herm OlsenApril 29, 2026
Craig, Excellent article, excellent message. I suspect Eve played a far greater role in the process than previously understood. Thanks for the insights.
JP GayanApril 29, 2026
We do seem to swing a little bit too far to the other side by actually praising Eve for disobeying God. People mistakenly assume that Adam and Eve being obedient was somehow going to thwart God's plan. They were always going to partake of the fruit at some point and leave the Garden of Eden but God intended for them to learn and prepare for a bit longer before starting their mortal journey. A good analogy is a young man who decides to marry his high school sweetheart right after graduating instead of serving a mission first. It was Heavenly father's plan for him to get married and raise a family but Heavenly Father wanted to teach him and prepare him a bit longer before starting that important part of his life.
KathleenApril 29, 2026
I thoroughly enjoy these segments and interviews, with quotes and testimonies. Thank you for providing them.
Steve Densley, Jr.April 28, 2026
Great comment, Nathaniel. I agree that the Lord’s instructions matter. Without them, we wouldn’t know how to be good “keepers of the flock” or “tenders of the garden.” In exploring the meaning of shamar, I hoped to show that commandments are part of that tending: they guide us, shape us, and help us know how to act.
At the same time, the purpose of the article was to open a broader perspective. As I wrote about keeping the commandments, “While it certainly includes what we do and what we refrain from doing, it does not simply mean flawless performance.” The line between tending and neglect isn’t measured by perfect execution but by the direction of the heart and the willingness to keep returning.
I love what D&C 82:8–9 teaches: Commandments are God’s directions for our good. When we follow them, we avoid unnecessary sorrow and experience greater joy. More importantly, as we follow them, we become more Christlike. And because we all fall short, it’s reassuring to remember that we haven’t failed as long as we keep tending, keep returning, and keep growing.
JuelApril 28, 2026
I was raised in the 1940's and 50's farmland of SE Idaho, and my teachers, secular and Church, were honorable people, but taught a harsher, more judgmental, Old Testament view of god. Fortunately, i had a wonderful mother who taught me a softer side. She was one of the most kind, merciful, forgiving, and charitable people I've known, and my paradigm of my Heavenly Parents is that of my parents, only perfect. Apostle Gong said God doesn't look for loopholes to punish us, but to save us. I believe that and appreciate this article.
James StarkApril 28, 2026
Thank you for your well thought-out article. I like your bicycle spoke analogy. The analogy I use is similar. In carpentry a wall is lifted up and trued to the next wall etc. We say "you true up the wall." Also in carpentry, we use squares, straight edges (lines), compasses etc to true up the construction. And everything is measured off of the corner stake (cornerstone). In the church, for me, when we say it is true, we are saying we are built on the foundation of Apostles and Prophets with Jesus Christ being the chief cornerstone. We are lined up on Christ. Thank you again for your thoughtful article. It gave me several things to think about.
Ed JesseeApril 28, 2026
Excellent - spiritually, llinguisticallly and practically
NathanielApril 28, 2026
How can I compliment this article without implying that checking boxes and performance are the most important? More needs to be said about the line between tending and neglect.
Rochelle HaleApril 28, 2026
Some years ago, shortly after the death of Mother Teresa, an apostle said something to the effect he hopes his place in Heaven is as good as hers (referencing all of her humanitarian work). We do not have a monopoly on Christianity, but we do have truth. President Hinckley called for people of other faiths to, "Bring the truth that you have, and let us add to it." It is easy for some people to leave the church or question their testimonies, often with no doctrinal basis. Someone offended them, or there weren't any gluten-free foods served at the ward party. Perhaps a Priest didn't wear a white shirt, or a sister was criticized for wearing pants to church, or a new member felt judged because of his tattoos. Indeed, it is sad, when the baby is thrown out with the bath water, and people leave their faith entirely based on perceived expectations. The doctrine and the love of Christ is often missed when clouded by our mortal or worldly eyes.
R. O.April 27, 2026
The gatekeeping is strong with you, brother
John T. PrinceApril 27, 2026
> But if you apostasize from your faith, you don’t get to keep claiming it. Or at least people should ignore you when you try to.
Is this article meant to be an example of ignoring the people trying to claim the term Mormon? Or will that be left to others to implement?
John T. PrinceApril 27, 2026
> And we would do well to look at such claims the same way Europeans do when Americans claim European identity—with cringe.
> “You’re not Irish. Maybe your great grandparents were Irish, but then they left, and you’ve been in America for a very long time.”
1. To this point I've never heard of someone referring to themselves as "culturally mormon" unless they themselves were members. Seems like there's an enormous difference between "great grandparents were Irish" and someone actually having been shaped by the religion/culture directly as a member for the majority of their own lifetime?
2. The brand confusion with Mormon Stories and SLOMW is not a good representation of the use of the term "cultural mormon" among most former members, I think, so it's unfortunate that this essay groups them together. The majority of former members I know would not want to be mistaken as a member. Many do not consider themselves Mormon anymore on any level, and those that do view themselves as a cultural mormon will almost always qualify it as needed so that there isn't any confusion about their membership status in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Trevor SnellApril 27, 2026
I’ve followed John Dehlin’s work for a long time, and I’m struggling to find instances where he shared verifiably false info. Since he was excommunicated over a decade ago, I’m curious which specific claims were cited as 'false' at that time. Also, if he has updated or removed content over the years, isn't that a sign of trying to be accurate? I’d love to hear your perspective on what he’s gotten wrong."
MaryannApril 27, 2026
Oh, my! Thank you so much for this gentle perspective of what it means to follow our Savior. So many times we get bogged down with our imperfections and become discouraged. I often wonder how many have left church activity because they felt unworthy because of sin or weakness. We all sin, and we are all weak in some way. The important absolute truth is that Jesus stands ready to forgive and to help us continue on His path throughout our lives. We need to accept His love and trust Him. We need to go to him for forgiveness and feel his power. He does not "write us off" no matter how many mistakes we have made, or repeated. He IS with us, and is a merciful God, and is anxious to comfort and cleanse us continually.
NoWayApril 27, 2026
You gain membership through baptism, and you maintain that membership through covenant keeping.
You're going to have to tell that to Gen Z, Christopher. You'd be shocked how many of them aren't wearing their garments and drinking latte while claiming full fellowship. If a 2 list checkbox of 1) baptized and 2) covenant keeping decides who gets to call themselves Mormon then you need to start reporting 500K Mormons exist instead of 18M.
MaryannApril 27, 2026
Since President Nelson was so clear and very firm about the importance of dropping the word "Mormon" as a title for the church, or for individuals in the church, it is disappointing that so many still persist in using it. When he had to repeat this again counsel later, he firmly said that this is not optional. He also said that we need to correct those who speak to us or about us, using the term "Mormon." Of course, we do that with gentleness and a smile. If we all would be obedient to this counsel from a Prophet, it would become understood by the world, and we wouldn't have to keep repeating ourselves. But, most important of all, when we use the full name of the church, it is a declaration that we ARE followers of Jesus Christ.
Bill AltmanApril 27, 2026
Yes—the Church is a religion with doctrine. No one disputes that. But pretending there’s no such thing as “Mormon culture” is just not serious.
There absolutely is a distinct Utah/Intermountain West Mormon culture—shared norms, social expectations, dating dynamics, family structures, even aesthetics. The article itself accidentally admits this, then tries to rename it so it doesn’t “count.” That’s word games, not an argument.
And more importantly:
You don’t get to tell people they lose the right to describe their own lived experience.
If someone grew up Mormon, served, married, dated, struggled, left—those are still Mormon experiences.
Calling something like Mormon Stories “not Mormon” is absurd—it’s literally about people’s lives in and around Mormonism.
“Ex-Mormon” is a valid label, but it doesn’t erase the cultural imprint.
Where the piece really falls apart is this idea that once you leave, you lose any legitimate claim to the label or perspective. That’s not how identity works. If you spent years (or decades) immersed in a system, it shapes you—culturally, socially, psychologically. You don’t just “unsubscribe” from that history.
The “no Mormon culture” claim also collapses under real-world examples:
Mormon royalty absolutely exists socially, whether people like the term or not. Families with status, lineage, or leadership ties often carry influence.
Personal example: I was asked to stop dating someone because I was a convert. Her mother—wife of a former mission president—made it clear I wasn’t acceptable as a son-in-law. That wasn’t “doctrine.” That was culture and hierarchy.
You can’t dismiss that as imaginary while also talking about “pioneer heritage,” “Utah traditions,” and insider norms. That is culture.
Also, the comparison to trademarks (KFC, etc.) is weak.
Religion isn’t a corporation, and identity isn’t owned IP. People don’t need permission to describe their own background.
Bottom line:
The Church defines doctrine.
People define their experiences. Calling that “anti-Mormon” just because it’s critical is a convenient way to dismiss uncomfortable narratives.
Both can exist at the same time. Denying “Mormon culture” doesn’t protect the Church—it just ignores the reality that millions of people have actually lived.
TJApril 27, 2026
I must say your article is an answer to my prayer. When my spouse asked me where my confidence had gone and my head seemed constantly in a state of confusion, I knew somethings were amiss. Prayer, true praying, has changed over time - not aging (as I have been told), not due to my changing circumstances, not due to a difference in my relationships, except perhaps, my relationship with God - learning to pray as I had before with direct questions, more intentionality, and --listening-acting-recording -- heaven's answers.
MaryannApril 25, 2026
We compound the problem when we retaliate with bitterness and unbridled anger. I love Lehi's statement about how we can respond to "mockers" in that "Great and spacious building." He declared: "We heeded them not." There are times we need to speak the truth and can express our displeasure, without entering into contentious arguments. However, sometimes we just need to have faith, and allow the Lord to fight our battles. The Lord's people will survive every weapon Satan uses in his futile attempt to destroy the church.
HelenCApril 25, 2026
Thank you for this. My beloved husband left the Church shortly after his mission in South Africa 46 years ago. He has never even thought of trading on that former life, except when I invite him to share stories with current missionaries. He respects the Church and my dedication to it. He has never had a desire to tear it down.
I do use it in my prayers as I plead for help to persuade him to return because I know just how much Father in Heaven and the Savior love him and because I know that sacrifice counts with Them.
To me, he is a beloved son of God who lost his faith. He does not choose hate nor does he respect those who do.
Kenneth D. WrightApril 25, 2026
I have viewed "dark matter' as "matter unorganized", the matter that the Lord begins the creation process with. Dark matter is dark because it radiates no light. Clearly there is a lot of it because the Lord is continuously creating new worlds beginning with matter unorganized. So, the first commandment is " Let there be light," ... the infusion of the Light of Christ into dark matter which creates a matter which is now organized, radiates light, and is able to obey the commands of God. D&C 88:6-13
HelenCApril 25, 2026
Oh, how I would love this life! Mine feels so mundane, stuck in supporting my family when I “should” be retired. Trying to express gratitude for the health to still do so while resenting it so much!
Maybe I need to rework my prayers to plead for sincerity and trust that He who knows all is good at His job.
Corey D.April 24, 2026
Unfortunate and obviously biased for whatever reason, the comment calling Justice Thomas one of the most divisive personalities in recent times. Interesting the inclusion of the headline/article saying John Dehlin is a member, particularly when another column in Meridians stories this week leaves no doubt that he is not a member.
Paul AndersApril 24, 2026
Well written explanation.
HillaryApril 24, 2026
“Reaches my reaching…” (Where Can I Turn For Peace, hymn #129)
Peter BleakleyApril 24, 2026
What a silly thing to say. 'Your lifetime of experience as a Church member and leader, raised and living in a family and social culture entirely defined by generations of Mormon thought and social norms, counts for absolutely nothing if you start to disagree with us. You have suddenly completely forgotten all of that. You don't know what you are talking about. Your lifetime of experience that means last year you were trusted with senior callings doesn't count for anything any more.' Are you serious?! This is desperate, arrogant and obviously hypocritical. So should we ignore any criticisms Martin Luther and the Protestants made of the Catholic church because they left it? Why do Latter-day Saints now celebrate and make heroes of those people for what they did and said after rejecting Catholicism? Should we ignore the criticisms and opinions and analysis Joseph Smith offered of Methodists and Presbyterians and suchlike because he and his immediate family were members of their churches and community and then chose to leave them? Make this make sense.
Boanerges RubalcavaApril 24, 2026
Instead of "Mormonism" use "Christianity of Christ". This differentiate the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints from the "Historical Christianity" .
Steve Densley, Jr.April 24, 2026
Christian: Yes, I'm aware of how Dehlin has characterized the negotiations. I'm sure there were various positions taken by both sides at various times during the negotiations. Given Dehlin's refusal to change the name of Mormon Stories, and given the need to clarify that he does not represent the Church, a useful way to prevent brand confusion would be for Dehlin to state during this podcast that he is not affiliated with the Church. It's possible that the Church at some point asked for multiple disclaimers but later moderated its position. For example, the Complaint indicates that at one point: "Defendants refused to include a simple disclaimer at the beginning of podcast episodes, either verbally or in writing, acknowledging that Mormon Stories is not affiliated with the Church." (Complaint ¶51.)
Christian ZiebarthApril 23, 2026
Steve, Mormon Stories is saying that the Church is not merely asking that a disclaimer be included, but that the podcast take frequent breaks to air the disclaimer and that the nature of this request is unreasonable to comply with. Do you know about this angle?
AnonymousApril 23, 2026
When I read this statement: ?trusting our Savior to not only deliver us but to raise us to glory with Him," I thought one of Christ's names is "Deliverer" and I have thought for years that this not only means "Delivering FROM" but also "Delivering TO." He is the Deliver to take us to a better place.
First, I want to say that I agree with this article. Mockery of and bigotry against conservative Christian groups is normalized in our society. As Latter Day Saints, we are "particular" even among Christians. We get scorn and suspicion even from people who are supportive of a more generic Christianity. And that hurts.
However, we need to remember that this was foretold about us from the beginning. We are God's "particular" people. As such, Satan is working particularly hard to stir people up against us. We need to be careful that he does not stir us up also, in how we feel and how we respond. It is right and good to stand up for ourselves, but we should strive to remember those standing against us are not truly our "enemy".
I have lived and worked with people who are ardently anti-Mormon all my life. My beloved aunt, "Nana", hates the LDS church with every fiber of her being. She has spent decades trying to tear the Church down and drive as many people away from it as possible. Many in our family see Nana as the enemy.
But the truth is, Nana's life has been one of pain and trauma. She was born in the South, to a troubled family that betrayed her in many ways. When she found the Church, she gave up everything to be part of it--her family, her culture, her home...
When Nana got to Utah, she was treated poorly. Her ward didn't understand her culture, her differences or her depression. She was heavily criticized for working outside the home, for being a "bad" woman/ homemaker, and for pursuing a college education. She felt very alone, betrayed and rejected by those who should love her... it was the trauma of her childhood, repeated and multiplied. She was easy pickings for anti-Mormon groups.
Nana is old now, hurting from a hundred spiritual wounds that never healed. And, honestly.... the majority of people who mock and spit at Latter Day Saints... have more in common with her then not. It may seem like they don't. They may seem big and powerful--successful comedians or journalists or political activists... just prideful jerks. But Satan's favorite targets are those with hidden pain... pain he can make to grow, and fester, until it becomes a weapon he can use.
If you interact with such people, without Christlike love... even if you're justified in standing up for yourself... you risk deepening the wound. By contrast, Christlike love in response to hate will heal them, and heal you too. It may take a lifetime and beyond--Nana's healing won't be complete in this life. But Christlike love starts the process. And if they think you're "simple" or "bland" or "folksy" for responding to them kindly... so what?
Lastly, remember that we aren't alone in being "othered". Racism and islamophobia (and fatphobia, ableism, ect, ect) may be discouraged in "polite society", but "polite society" is only a fraction of the whole... things that aren't "allowed" in middle-class, educated families are alive and well in poor families and among the rich and powerful. Virulent racism... the N word, hate, horrible jokes... that stuff happens every day, in places "polite society" doesn't reach. I've seen it. I've lived in it. So we mustn't get prideful and act like we're the "special victims" of the 21st century.
JimApril 23, 2026
Why wasn't the continuation of this story printed?
John WebbApril 23, 2026
Two things: First, I can't remember which leader of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints said this, but he said, in effect, that nobody could kick the Church down, that they can only kick it up. He said that the Lord had so decreed it. I find it interesting that whenever something like this play is released to the world, there is an increase in convert baptisms.
Second, in the actual Book of Mormon, a prophet named Moroni is worried that people will make a mock of not only his words, but also the words of all the prophets. The Lord responds, saying, "Fools mock, but they shall mourn... my grace is sufficient for the meek... and... for all those who humble themselves before me." (Ether 12:26-27) Those who choose to mock the Savior and His prophets may have their fun now, but there will come a day when they will see what they have missed. They will see the joy and peace that might have been theirs, if they had chosen humility. Then they will mourn, because they missed those opportunities, due to their pride. We can and should hope and pray for them. Still, many will miss the mark. The Father loves them dearly, and weeps for them.
LoraApril 22, 2026
Those writers know that the Church is a soft target. They know that we don't murder our opponents. They dared to mock Islam in an episode of "South Park" and had to make changes in a hurry or face the consequences. I get tired of people thinking that they know who I am or my beliefs based on "Sister Wives" or "Mormon Housewives" or that "Mormon" woman on The Bachelor. Satan is alive and well and working on Broadway.
Raymond Takashi SwensonApril 22, 2026
The rejection of the physical, material resurrection of Christ by most traditional Christians shows that they prefer pagan philosophy to the plain words of the Bible. Dr. N.T. Wright, in his book Surprised by Hope, demonstrates that the Bible affirms the physical resurrection of all mankind through the power of Christ's Atonement, and that the faithful followers of Christ will live on this earth, transformed and made heavenly by God. Many traditional Christians attacked Wright for teaching that these are the simple truths taught by the Bible, and they accused him of teaching a MORMON heretical belief. He responded in the pages of First Things journal that the Mormons read the Bible more carefully than many others.
The fact is, by rejecting the materiality of Christ's resurrected body, and the materiality of the Resurrection of mankind, traditional Christians have rejected the REASON for the resurrection of both Christ and mankind. Christ went to a lot of trouble to break the bonds of death and reunite all mankind with our bodies for eternity. Yet most traditional Christians CRITICIZE THE SAVIOR for putting us back in our bodies for eternity. Protestants and Catholics teach that God MADE A MISTAKE, even as they claim in their creeds that God is omniscient. They think that the philosophies of men are SMARTER than Jesus Christ. They reject the resurrection as vital to our eternal destiny. The demonstrations that Christ gave that he was fully God in his mortal body AND his resurrected body, that his body did not limit his authority over all matter and energy, is rejected by apostate Christianity. And his power as an embodied Son of God shows that the embodied Father is not limited by a body. Indeed, the BODIES of the Father and the Son enable them to FEEL empathy with all of suffering humanity. FEELING is an essential element of LOVE. How can God LOVE us if he does not FEEL with us and for us? And how can God FEEL with us if he has no physical heart, no organs of emotion?
Raymond Takashi SwensonApril 22, 2026
Since the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the principal publisher of the Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ, printing and distributing millions of copies in a hundred languages, it has a strong interest in controlling the use of the unique name "Mormon" especially in connection with any discussion of religious themes. It would be obvious to anyone that, if someone else published a book titled "The Book of Mormon", the Church would have a right to have the courts prohibit such an infringement on the name "Book of Mormon". And as Mormon himself made clear, he was named after the special place where Alma Senior organized the Church of Christ among the Nephites. Mosiah 18:17 and 30 say:
"And they were called the church of God, or the Church of Chrost from that time forward. And it came to pass that whosoever was baptized by the power and authority of God was added to his church. . . . And now it came to pass that all this was done in Mormon, yea, by the waters of Mormon, in the forest that was near the waters of Mormon; yea, the place of Mormon, the waters of Mormon, the forest of Mormon, how beautiful are they to the eyes of them who there came to the knowledge of their Redeemer, yea, and how blessed are they, for they shall sing to his praise forever."
The name Mormon is synonymous with the Church of Christ, both in ancient America and for the Latter-day Saints in our day. We enter the same baptismal covenant as the people who were baptized in the waters of Mormon. The Church associated with Mormon is the Church of Jesus Christ. That identity was established over two thousand years ago, and declared to the world when the Book of Mormon was published in 1830.
Richard GardnerApril 22, 2026
Awesomely said!
Diane PetersonApril 22, 2026
What a magnificent article! Brilliant! Thank you for sharing such profound findings! And now, the need to put those findings to use in my own life!
Ed D.April 22, 2026
In regard to Steve's comment in a reply above "the key issue is not mere word usage, but whether the use, particularly when paired with Church‑associated branding elements such as colors, design motifs, or fonts, could reasonably lead audiences to believe the speaker represents, speaks for, or defines the Church.":
Add to the mix, the fact that Dehlin has himself asserted in his videos that he is a Mormon, despite knowing that he was excommunicated from the Church a decade ago. Taking into consideration 1. Use of LDS Church-like symbols, names associated with the Church, 2. Refusal to include a disclaimer that he does not represent or speak for the Church, and 3. His claim that he is currently a Mormon (implying current membership) all go into weighing the nature of his intentions in and effect of using the the symbology/words.
Amy LondonApril 22, 2026
I had a cousin who moved into a "Mor-Man" (her pronunciation) community (not Utah), and she was at once offended, perhaps because she had greater expectations how how members of the Church should behave. Against my better judgement, she saw the musical, but she again became offended when I suggested that she read the book. She hadn't heard of the ad “You’ve seen the play… now read the book,” and didn't find it amusing. I didn't see this play. I know several people who did. I heard several stories of people who actually joined the Church because they wanted to know more. However, it is rare that we should endorse something that completely maligns our values. Nevertheless, we have our personal agency and judgment. A few years ago another historical musical was very popular. I chose not to see it after hearing some of the lyrics. Sadly, I am sure we will continue to have plays or stories or podcasts that twist history or portray certain religious or ethnic groups in a way that is not entirely factual just to gain an audience or, perhaps, the almighty dollar.
Debrah RoundyApril 22, 2026
That was a beautifully crafted article. The word cloud caught my attention. In the past, long past now, I often heard that we did not hear much of or Lord and Savior in conference. It could not be said with this cloud showing us where the words were - in the open. The article was beautifully written also. Thanks for writing it with care and love.
KathleenApril 22, 2026
When my father-in-law was turning 100, his ward charted 100 ordinances in each area of the temple for his ward birthday celebration. He had been a temple ordinance worker for years and was so touched by the gesture.
K. Chin, Modesto, CAApril 22, 2026
I greatly appreciate this article! It is well written and the details explain and clarify the necessity of our Church's position and current actions to defend it. Additionally, all of the previous comments further elaborate that this is a more complex issue than some may assume. Our Church leaders have attempted to resolve this in amicable, non-contentious ways--as they have counseled all members of the Church to do when issues of concern arise. If anything, taking this matter to court--after attempts have been made to resolve it out of court--is a justified act that follows scriptural teachings. It is reassuring to realize our Church leadership is showing, "they walk their talk!" Expenditures that seek legal redress, before applying less expensive options, benefit no one and no organization. The fact that organizations NOT affiliated with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have chosen not to work amicably to resolve this issue, further demonstrates that they have ulterior and self-promoting reasons for using words, images, typefaces, colors, fonts, etc., that represent our Church. It appears they like the confusion they have caused. Now, this lawsuit will give them a public platform to further ply their misleading trade. This is the opposite of acting in good faith and rather invalidates their claims. Are they afraid their outreach will be hindered without their confusing marketing and advertisement claiming an association with our Church that is erroneous? Indeed, it seems this could very well be their motivation. The Savior, Jesus Christ, must direct His Church in a fallen and contentious world. There is a necessary call--in a time such as this--(the final days before the Savior returns) for His Prophet, members of the First Presidency, and members the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles to have extensive backgrounds in the law after the manner of men. This article points out, we can rest assured the Lord's Prophet is actively protecting His Church and His Name. By their fruits ye shall know them!
L T StuartApril 21, 2026
In response to BH, you are correct on one level. Stepping on the egg itself causes a huge splat or mess which is hard to clean up. If we walk on the eggshell afterward, its sharp edges are painful. So both stepping on the egg itself and the sharp broken edges of the shell are accurate. I've lived it so I understand both parts of the saying.
Teri N.April 21, 2026
This a well written article that very well explains the reality of the situation. Mormon Stories and John Dehlin have long been snakes and wolves in sheep's clothing, not unlike Julie Hanks. When a person carries the Holy Ghost with them, and knows how to listen to the whisperings of the Spirit, they will be quickly taught by that Spirit that these people are working for the adversary, whether intentionally or not. They have led many people astray, or "to the dark side" as many say today. I am grateful for such a good article as this that lays the law and the intention of the Lord's Church out for all to clearly understand *if they will* it to be.
Steve Densley, Jr.April 21, 2026
Leslie: Good questions. I will first respond to your second point by saying that the fact that Dehlin has interviewed a few people who have not left the Church only contributes to the confusion. It can lead people to wonder whether he is fairly representing the Church, as he claims, or attacking it? Regarding your other questions, I'll respond by pasting a response I provided to a Facebook comment like yours: "(1) Trademark law does not require trademark holders to challenge every use of a term; rather, it requires action against uses that create a likelihood of confusion in relevant markets. With respect to third‑party uses of the term “Mormon,” the key issue is not mere word usage, but whether the use, particularly when paired with Church‑associated branding elements such as colors, design motifs, or fonts, could reasonably lead audiences to believe the speaker represents, speaks for, or defines the Church. (2) Regarding the fact that Mormon Stories has been around for 21 years, that is certainly an argument Dehlin will raise. The fact that the Church has shifted away from emphasizing the use of "Mormon" is also an issue he will raise. However, the Church has maintained its rights in the word "Mormon" in a variety of ways. (See my article.) While the Church does not want to create the misperception that it is the "Mormon Church," its association with the word "Mormon" is clear and long-standing, and part of the Church's brand. If an organization does not act to protect that brand, it can be held to have abandoned it. The question of whether the organization has waited too long is difficult to define. There are arguments that will be made on both sides. In the case of Ray Communications, Inc. v. Clear Channel Communications, Inc., the Fourth Circuit Federal Court of Appeals reviewed a case where the plaintiff waited 30 years before filing suit. The court clarified that legal action is not required until the trademark owner knows or should know of a real likelihood of confusion, which is made by weighing the relevant likelihood of confusion factors. The defendant must prove that it suffered actual undue economic or evidentiary prejudice from the delay. But this cannot be made based solely on its longstanding use of the trademark. So these are issues of "fairness" that are not obvious on their face. Arguments will be made by both sides and then will need to be examined by the judge and jury. Alternatively, the arguments will be weighed by the attorneys for both sides, the risks considered, and a settlement reached."
Leslie BoyceApril 21, 2026
If trademark alone was a concern, why didn’t the church take action years ago? And are they going after MWEG as well? Also, John Delhlin doesn’t exclusively interview people who have left the church. Examples Patrick Mason and Dan McClellan.
Shauna SmithApril 21, 2026
“Secret lives of Mormon _____” should be copyright protected too. You contradicted yourself by printed an article about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints legally defending the name “Mormon” yet in the same email you promote an article titled “Secret Life of Mormon Husband.” TV series, Broadway plays, etc. degradingly use the name “Mormon” without sanctions.
Anna KeoghApril 21, 2026
Great article. What is your email address?
GingerApril 20, 2026
I have been praying, for many years, to find an article that describes/articulates, my ‘Walking On Eggshells’ life experiences/relationships, so well. Every word you chose to use-Thank you. I don’t have the words to express how grateful I am.
Carolyn MadsonApril 20, 2026
Made perfect sense to me…I have always heard this expression this way as the article stated.
Enjoyed the article very much. Thank you for including in Meridian..
James S BrownApril 20, 2026
This is a great explanation of how Greek Philosophy hijacked Christianity. Question: What happens if sound reasoning and revelation get together and have progeny? Answer: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
B. HoughtonApril 20, 2026
Doesn't anyone know (apparently they do NOT) that the old saying refers to 'walking on eggs' because one must step very carefully to avoid breaking the eggs. 'Walking on eggshells' makes absolutely no sense.
Charles McClellandApril 20, 2026
There was no need to include the piece at the end on one of the most divisive personalities in our society today (along with a very out dated picture). Very distracting after the preceding uplifting articles.
Suggestion: either publish all comments, not just ones that have been "cherry picked", or none at all.
HelenCApril 20, 2026
My own, sacred experience of leaning on an invisible shoulder while once trapped in despair defies so many known earthly properties of matter that either side of your published argument could be upheld. I’ve always thought of it as a Gift (which it most certainly was) that proved Christ’s physicality and now I see that opinion as a result of my faith in and understanding of LDS doctrine. I can only share its reality with Father, Christ and the Holy Ghost; no-one else was there.
anonymousApril 20, 2026
Under One, John Dehlin is noted as being an ex-member. Under Five, he is noted as being a member...
AliciaApril 17, 2026
Bravo! Maestro. An excellent encore to your previous works that rouse the soul.
JamesApril 17, 2026
Thank you for writing that story by Jeff and those beautiful people in the Congo. They were prepared for the gospel. It touched my heart!
HelenCApril 17, 2026
"Elder David A. Bednar has warned that the Spirit speaks quietly and withdraws quietly. When we distance Him, He recedes—not out of divine sulking, but out of a profound respect for our choice to walk alone."
I have felt this physical desertion. It was merited and noted at the time as the moment when He could no longer stay with me. I didn't feel His return as profoundly but I never want to feel His loss again.
Teri of NCApril 17, 2026
This article was amazing! Thank you!!!
Rochelle HaleApril 17, 2026
I don't pretend to understand the perspective of others, but I do know that Church was the place I wanted to be when I endured some serious challenges or even felt out of place (divorced, single mom, stepmother, etc.). I have used this quote many, many times in the last few weeks. Elder Clark Gilbert quoted Russell M. Nelson at Conference, "The truth is that it is much more exhausting to seek happiness where you can never find it." A story circulated awhile back about a family who was ostracized because of a sick daughter (not contagious). After much contemplation, the father informed the family that they were going back to church. It was their church also, they knew Heavenly Father wanted them to be there, and they were going to hold their heads up high and strive to do all He wanted them to do
GingerApril 17, 2026
Envy is one small reason yes. But you have a larger audience that deals with daily trauma. That is a bigger problem. Trauma makes going to church with the people you just described, painfully unrelatable. They live in a different reality, with different experiences and perspectives. They tend to be narrow-minded, who could learn a lot from the folks who have PTSD, if they choose to see them for who they are and what they have experienced, instead of focusing on their own worldly pursuits.
Sally PalmerApril 17, 2026
New or returning members are not the only ones who need to be reminded that the covenant path is not a parking lot! All of us can use the advice to "press forward" in order to reach our goal of eternal life!
GaleApril 17, 2026
We had six kids and were a happy LDS family. It didn't matter what time church started, we were always slightly late--the baby would have a blowout, or someone couldn't find their shoes. Sometimes I'd work so hard preparing for Sabbath on Saturday, I was bedridden on Sunday. But we were fully involved. It's just that after we would get seated for sacrament meeting, I'd take a good look at my kids and realize how not-great they looked. How moms manage to curl and style their daughters' hair for church, I will never know. I never, ever succeeded with that!
ShaunaApril 16, 2026
Thank you. this fed my soul. It was like manna to me
Robert StarlingApril 16, 2026
So very well said! (and something that needed to be said)
Many people love the song "I Did It My Way", but I dislike it. When it comes to the Gospel, if we are "all in", we're delighted to do it "HIS way", as we're counseld by His prophets.
Ann-Marie JensenApril 16, 2026
Thank you for clarifying the keys restored by Elias and Elijah — a question I’ve had for many years. Your research is thorough and helpful.
MaryannApril 15, 2026
Tone of voice is EVERYTHING in communication, especially in volatile situations. Humor can also deescalate anger quickly. There are times that we need to stand for truth, but unbridled anger will destroy, and even can contradict, our message. We stand for righteousness, but at the same time we are yelling uncontrollably, or condemning, or using sarcasm? We all experience strong emotions that sometimes include anger. We can train ourselves to stop before speaking, and take a moment to think about how we can express our thoughts without making personal attacks. Knee jerk reactions are always dangerous. Even 5 seconds of quiet thought before speaking can help us drop our "weapons."
GaleApril 15, 2026
The appearance of Christ, Elijah, Moses and Elias and the conferring of keys in the Kirtland Temple occurred fittingly on the Jewish holy day of Bikkurim--First Fruits--during Passover week. Passover week contains 3 holy days: the sacrifice of the Paschal lamb, the Feast of Unleavened Bread, and First Fruits--the offering of the first of the spring harvest of grain. Jews could not eat from the first harvest until this offering was made in the temple. It guaranteed a perfect harvest for the coming year and occurred on the day Christ rose from the dead. Through His resurrection, Christ guaranteed a perfect harvest of souls--everyone would be resurrected. The sealing power enables covenants to last eternally.
Joni HiltonApril 15, 2026
Love love love this! Sharing it widely. Many thanks!
SdgApril 15, 2026
Thanks for this well-articulated article. It helped me.see where I fall short. Will be working on that pause so I can be heard with a gentle voice.
Bob MartinApril 15, 2026
I guess I was always skeptical of how one person could change the world until my wonderful wife passed away unexpectedly five moths ago. At her funeral I was expecting maybe 100 people to say goodbye but was pleased to see over 350 people turn up. She was an angel having an earthly experience. We heard stories of how we had changed people's lives for the better, prevented suicides, and other stories that show that in deed one person can make a change.Be kind to each other.
Bob SpielApril 15, 2026
Was Taylor Frankie Paul ever really IN the church? Her lifestyle is totally inconsistent with that of a Latter-day Saint.
Colette DUPREApril 15, 2026
Je suis ravie d avoir vu la vidéo sur le nouveau centre. J habite en France mais c est merveilleux de voir cela meme de loin
Debrah RoundyApril 14, 2026
One comment on the two-piece garment, some of us still enjoy the old style one piece garment that is easy to use squatty-potties in, and has no bulk around the waist. Also, the new full slip is a one-piece garment and very comfortable under dresses especially in hot climates. They can also be worn with special underwear such as period undies and fun and flirty underwear, too.
When the new, two-piece underwear came out, it was near the time when the new period pads came out that stuck to your underwear. Likely many a woman tried them with her new two-piece garments and when the pad quit sticking and fell out --- they just kept walking, and tried not to turn red.
People complain about the lack of fabric choices in the earlier years, but forget that there were no fabric choices to speak of. You had wool, linen, cotton and silk, if you were lucky. If you made the fabric yourself on a loom, it was likely to be sturdy because it had to last.
Enter the new fabrics. I was allergic to my bra fabric, and what a blessing when I got married and put the itchy bra over my garment. A day or so later, I realized to my delight, No more itch.
Last comment. Some years back I was with my daughter in the Bride’s Room of the temple. There were a lot of girls getting married that day and each had just been bestowed the gift of royalty, the garment. The girls, there may have been eight or ten or more, were excitedly running about getting dressed, trying hairdos. make up, and so on. Then I realized, each had on her garment, often nothing else, but they were not ashamed. They had covered their nakedness and were free to be their excited selves in a room filled with other girls equally and beautifully clothed. I felt like I was in a room filled with young, new angels preparing for their weddings, pure and clean, ready to join hands with their husbands-to-be and face the world together. My daughter was one of them! It was truly a sacred moment in my life.
Debrah RoundyApril 14, 2026
I am excited to go and to take my grandkids. I not on the public transportation, there is a free zone where you can get on and off the bus within that area for free. Go to https://www.utahpta.org/files/docs/UTA%20Free%20Fare%20Zone.pdf
I remember the day I first saw the (old and demolished) new Visitor's Center, walking up the long ramp with the walls painted like the universe and then . . . the beautiful statue of the Christus. The AWE! I do not think anything can quite top that.
Wendy PayneApril 14, 2026
Wow. Thank you for this beautiful article and tour--for those of us who live a distance away.
CynthiaApril 13, 2026
What a beautiful truth you have reminded us of! Thank you, Becky, for inspiring your readers to remember who we are and our uniqueness. In this crazy world with social media bombarding us with messages to copy others, your article resonates with truth and beauty. We are beloved children of Heavenly Parents!
LewisApril 13, 2026
What a wonderful, lovely article. It makes you think a lot about who we are, why we are here and what our divine destiny might be. For me, however, it makes me reflect on how, in spite of whatever differences might appear on the surface, we are all children of God, and our obligation is to accept, welcome and love them as our Savior loves us.
LaWrenApril 13, 2026
Beautiful- just like you!
Gordon HensleyApril 13, 2026
I think we should be looking for reasons and opportunities to wear the garment as much as possible, and not be so concerned with a list of the exceptions. It's human nature for everybody to judge everybody else. The only person who is authorized to judge your worthiness is your bishop. When you get down to the basics, the garment was given to cover the bodies of people who had previously spent their entire adult lives as innocent nudists living in a climate-controlled garden. Your street clothing meets that requirement. We could theoretically place the four symbols on the inside of our street clothing and meet those instructions as well as with having a separate layer. I'm wondering if we will introduce a "skirt style" garment for men who wear lava-lava/kilt style clothing?
Lori DriggsApril 12, 2026
I have read this 5 times already and will read it everyday! Thank you for your beautiful insights and writing. So grateful for you sharing your testimony with us, Much love
Rhoda AndersonApril 12, 2026
This is brilliant-- I love that it gets to the crux of how religion and culture and worship are not all the same thing, but have a place in the process... yet, how walking with God is so personal.
HelenCApril 11, 2026
As I seek to change from a transactional to a covenantal relationship with Heavenly Father and our Savior I try to focus on the joy of paying a full tithe, even when finances are tight. I worry far too much about our bills but it never stops me paying that paltry 10% first and with a smile. It just feels so GOOD to give God something He doesn’t need, since it’s sorest all His, anyway.
To quote a line from one of my favorite songs,
“When will they learn that’s not what lovin’ is?
it’s not what you get in return, it’s what you give.”
Michael HogganApril 10, 2026
Interesting that you place Joseph's arrival in Egypt in the 1290s-1270s. Would that mean that Abraham was born around 1500?
Chris PutnamApril 10, 2026
Thank you for such an insightful article on all of the symbolism in this story as it applies to us today!
JuliannApril 10, 2026
My grandfathers garments were one piece to the ankle, to the wrist, and to the throat. Heavy material. We have so many options today. Thank you Lord for being flexible and thoughtful as we take upon us your name.
Loved the sensitive, nonjudgmental tone in this article.
Margaret AndersonApril 9, 2026
How sad it is that you portray a life that does not include marriage and children as a negative. IT IS NOT! The Church has always been a negative place to be for single adults. Singles have to shut out the noise from members/leaders and their "good intentions", "condolences" and "advice" to us singles and find joy in their lives just like everyone else. I am 82 years old single and have loved my single life.
One Sunday in Relief Society we were asked to tell everyone what we thought our talents are. I said that my greatest talent was that I could be a happy, financially successful woman capable of taking care of all her needs. Needless to say, that did not go over well.
CraigApril 9, 2026
My take: the pharaoh who knew not Joseph signified not only a new pharaoh but a new dynasty. This is most likely a reference to Ahmose I as the pharaoh who drove out the Hyksos and enslaved the Hebrews. It was the Horemheb, the last pharaoh of dynasty eighteen, that Moses fled from after killing the overseer. Ramses I and Seti I had relatively short reigns. It was during the reign of Ramses the second that Moses returned to Egypt and led the exodus probably during the latter years of his reign.
Diane BApril 9, 2026
No one has mentioned the protection the garment gives. I knew a man about 40 years ago who worked with gasoline fuel. One day a fire erupted in the building he was working in and the whole place was engulfed in flames. But he was able to walk through the fire and a path was opened before him as he exited the building. He was not burned at all, even though constantly surrounded by fire in the 20 seconds it took him to get out.
Jay BuckleyApril 9, 2026
Besides Abraham and Melchizedek, consider Joseph of Egypt as the possible identity of the Elias sent in 1836 to Kirtland to confer the keys of "the covenant of Abraham.” The Brass Plates were kept by the seed of Joseph. The Book of Mormon is also a record of the seed of Joseph (Lehi from Manasseh and Ishmael from Ephraim). The promises to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob would have passed to Joseph and his sons. Moreover, Joseph of Egypt is also prophesied about in the Book of Mormon connecting him to Joseph Smith Sr and Joseph Smith Jr.
Jan FranciscoApril 9, 2026
This is a subject dear to my heart. Using the commentaries just leads to confusion and vagueness. This article I wrote for the Interpreter Foundation shows a more cohesive and clear picture of who Elias is, all based on the scriptures and the words of Joseph Smith. https://interpreterfoundation.org/journal/elias-prophet-of-the-restoration
PennieApril 8, 2026
I thoroughly enjoy my garments. I think they are comfortable, my clothes have something to glide over so the fit is always better. My bras are more comfortable. There's never a "panty line". I think they are a lot more hygienic than thong panties or the tight fitting bikini panties. That's just the practical side. I am thrilled for having the privilege of clothing my body day and night with a reminder of Christ and mt covenants.
Jonathan AtkinsonApril 8, 2026
We can time shift in the sport world!!
HelenCApril 8, 2026
I was first endowed in 1980 and have enjoyed wearing garments most of the time since then. I say “most” because, due to my own actions, I was denied the privilege of wearing them for several years. Not only did I miss my membership in the Church of Jesus Christ, I also experienced the most severe cold I had endured in my memory! I have no idea if the two events were related but it was an interesting coincidence.
While I am glad we no longer have to search high and low for compatible fashion, I actually enjoyed finding, or creating, clothing that worked. I remember my mother’s best friend telling her, jokingly, to say goodbye to comfort when she began wearing them in the 1960s but her love for the Temple never gave me the impression she felt anything but respect. I looked forward to “my day” and will never forget the sacred experience that came with my first re-donning of the only pair left in the back of my closet when my covenants were restored.
MarciaApril 8, 2026
I agree with Jo!!
Richard GardnerApril 8, 2026
Beautiful article. My thought about the sister who lived in Las Vegas and later served in Gilbert AZ: these are hot places, but not usually humid. I lived in Tucson. Over 100 degrees F. and not a drop of sweat on my brow. I've also lived in humid places, where at only 80F, I'm dripping in sweat.
SusanApril 8, 2026
When I was first endowed, the one piece garnets were the only choice, and they were miserable. I was a convert and no one really gave me any advice about wearing them. The temple matron advised me that any other undergarments would have to be worn over the garment, not under-- not practical at all. Today's two piece garments are much more comfortable and practical, and the use of other undergarments is not so strict. The new styles would be very helpful for hot humid climates.
S RichardsonApril 8, 2026
The need to talk about tithing by itself seems to have diminished as we talk more about temples. It's like the subject has become eclipsed by an even more important subject - spending time in the temple and realizing temple blessings. It's like an even stronger motivation to pay tithing and keep all the covenants.
Marie BarnhurstApril 8, 2026
Thank you for your insights. Temple language is what we must search for and find in all scripture! This is a beautiful article.
RichardApril 8, 2026
Elder Tad R. Callister's book, "The Infinite Atonement" is a definitive work on the depth and reach of the atonement.
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2026
I received my endowments over 50 years ago and have experienced several changes and styles, both for daily wear and to wear during temple service. I came from a non-member family, and my temple preparation came from my Mutual (Young Women) leaders and Relief Society President. It was understood that some modification might be needed in our street clothing in order to wear garments. A year and a half ago I had a health challenge that prevented me from wearing my regular bottom garment style and fabric. I received guidance on special needs items, but before I could order anything (and because I have been wearing garments for years) I found I already had a previous style in my drawer that helped me until I healed. Unfortunately, I have seen a lot of attention to fashion given the "new" garment styles, and I pray our young (and older) women are being taught the full purpose and meaning of wearing this sacred clothing.
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2026
One of the principles my husband and I would never consider NOT doing is paying our tithing. In recent years we have seen relatives of other faiths be turned away from their churches because they could not pay membership dues. This is very sad when people cannot exercise their faith or receive service from others because they have not paid. The payment of tithes is between us, our bishops, and the Lord. No one will be denied membership, and all are welcome in the Church, but it is a simple, but higher principle that we must live to receive a temple recommend. My first experience was as a young teenage convert, when I would literally put I.O.U.s for my tithing in my piggy bank. Fast forward a few years when, through the miracles of tithing, I was able to finance most of my mission myself. During a health issue a few years ago, I felt prompted to take certain measures in our finances. The promptings were strong, yet I believe that direction we received was stronger because we had paid our tithing.
Layne MillerApril 8, 2026
Great insights and article as usual my friend.
Keep them coming!
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2026
For years I tried to keep up with writing in a journal. I have several that start strong only to leave many empty pages. The advent of on-line memories (specifically through FamilySearch) has made a big difference in the testimony-building experiences I write about now and how frequently I write. Testimonies are built AND nurtured step by step. Though we try to eliminate "travelogues" when bearing testimonies on Fast Sunday, our experiences certainly help us understand the power of God in our lives and all that He helps us to do to become the people He wants us to be. My testimony of tithing, as a young teenage convert whose only income was babysitting money, has certainly changed as I have met the challenges but seen great blessings when providing for a family. My testimony has grown by leaps and bounds when I had no answers, but desperately needed guidance, and a step-by-step plan was laid before my eyes. My testimony has grown when others have served me or my family in unexpected ways. My testimony has grown through hymns. I could go on and on. Needless to say, it is so important that we document our testimonies and those things that helped us grow in greater understanding of the gospel and our love for Jesus Christ.
Paul BishopApril 8, 2026
Good article as always, Mark. Like you, I remember when it seemed every third sacrament talk focused on tithing, and I’ve often wondered why it now appears to be such a rare topic. As an adult convert, I’ve been fortunate to develop a steady, enduring testimony of tithing. While I don’t have dramatic stories of last-minute financial rescues, I continue to see clear and consistent blessings from honoring my tithing commitment. With each passing day, I grow more convinced of the positive influence tithing has in my life, and I remain grateful for the opportunity to return to the Lord a portion of what is already His.
Wendy DeVoeApril 8, 2026
To me, it seems absurd that people would view the garnment as a symbol of female oppression in the Church. Men wear the same garnments, with the same expectations!
You know what IS a symbol of misogyny? A secular society that normalizes women's clothing to appeal to the male gaze. Women's clothing is more exposing, more sexualized, and less functional than men's clothing (no pockets?? prone to wear and tear?? prioritizes "prettiness" or "sexiness" over function??). The most insidious part is, society pressures women to obsess over their looks and police their own bodies to be more "appealing"... and to feel "unfeminine" if they don't meet expectations.
It's hard to find "female" clothing that works with garnments, because most female clothing is designed by a society that only values women by their visual appeal.
ArleneApril 7, 2026
Exactly - and just as we want to go visit the place where the Savior walked and the atoning sacrifice happened . . . do we think people from other worlds want to do the same? Yes they do.
ShaunaApril 6, 2026
Thank you --these are wonderful. What a glorious Conference. Continuing revelation is such a blessing!
Tom WilliamsApril 6, 2026
A further evidence of the reality of resurrection was cited in Matthew 27:
"52 And the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose,
53 And came out of the graves after his resurrection, and went into the holy city, and appeared unto many.
While the graves were opened by the earthquake at the moment of the Crucifixion (v. 51), the text specifies that the saints actually entered the city "after his resurrection."
A parallel event occurred in the Americas and was referenced by the Savior when he appeared to the Nephites.
The Jerusalem event is often described by theologians as a "special resurrection" or a precursor to the general Resurrection made possible by Christ.
No doubt the Apostles knew of this "special resurrection," a further evidence of Jesus's divinity and promise, and further proof that He ushered in an era of the uniting of body and spirit, ultimately, for all Mankind.
LisaApril 6, 2026
Love the analogies in this article.
JohnApril 5, 2026
I loved reading this. I used a similar argument, but nowhere close to being as well written , in a paper I wrote for a western religions course at a NZ university in the late 80s. The question... Who founded the Christian Community and why? The university taught that it was Paul. I challenged that position, quoting Nibley, among others, that Jesus organised his Apostles after his resurrection and the resurrection is the turning point and the whole point of the gospel. My tutor gave me a good mark, stating that although she disagreed, I had made a good argument. It still astounds me that they ignore the miraculous change to Peter and the other Apostles. Thank you for the wonderful Easter reminder.
Bob SpielApril 5, 2026
So many beautiful thoughts, Bro. Peterson. Thank you for putting them in writing.
Standing next to the amphitheater in Ephesus some 18 months ago, where 25,000 Romans chanted for two hours, "Great is Diana of the Ephesians" as they tried to silence Paul and his companions, it became more clear than ever what these disciples were up against. Rome was all powerful and all encompassing -- yet fearlessly they taught and testified, because they had seen their risen Lord fearlessly teach and testify. These believers had seen the impossible happen, and knew they were now part of that impossible as well.
Daniel PetersonApril 4, 2026
The editors of "Meridian" might be able to answer these questions; I didn't choose the illustration.
From the look of it, I suspect that it's AI-generated.
Jeff TeichertApril 4, 2026
Thank you Juliann! I appreciate your seeing me.
Cameron DApril 4, 2026
I'm quite shocked at the picture being used as it is 100% incorrect. According to Scripture, it was Mary Magdalene and other women that found the tomb empty (John 20:1). She went and told Peter, they apparently did not care and went home (John 20:6-10). She went back to the tomb and it was Jesus that spoke to her. She believed. The disciples doubted. This image totally contradicts that.
Wanda MaeApril 3, 2026
May I ask who the artist is for the picture you used for your article, The Resurrection was so real, it Transformed ordinary Men into fearless Witnesses. What was the painting name? It really caught my attention in a very positive way.
Thanks,
Wanda
ShaunaApril 3, 2026
thank you--it's nice to have it all in one place
Traci WalkerApril 3, 2026
Oh, thank you. This is all of us. When we feel too empty to even feel like praying, when we feel too exhausted to open our scriptures, he is always there to heal our brokenness. Thanks for your vulnerability. It makes me feel like I am OK. I can hear your parents' eloquence and wisdom in you.
Valerie ShelleyApril 3, 2026
Can you identify the artist and name of the painting you used to illustrate this article? It's fabulous.
LoraApril 2, 2026
I've often wondered what would have happened if Judas had been able to just keep breathing for four more days. Maybe he would have seen his Risen Lord and received His forgiveness. Maybe he would have learned what the Messiah's role really was, redemption from sin and death, not redemption from Rome. Maybe the others would have been able to forgive him, too. Or not. But because he chose despair, we don't know.
JanApril 2, 2026
As a fellow LDS, active in our church for 50 years, what happened to your family and your whole ward sickens me. What is wrong with people that they let hatred and prejudice be their motivating factors?! Can’t everyone just have their own ideas on religion and let others have theirs? Satan has surely taken hold of people’s hearts, and their sanity. I am so sorry this happened to your family and grateful none of your injuries were life threatening. Remember, we know who wins in the end!
Chuck PlaudisApril 2, 2026
Thank you for another connection to Christ from the Old Testament.
Haze K.April 2, 2026
I loved this. What a new, unique thought about why the stone was rolled away and how we all have made our own tombs by not letting go of something.
The most important sentence for me was the last one:
"every life that turns toward Him to step out of the tomb into the light.
Thank you
Kal- El Luke SkywalkerApril 2, 2026
Amen, Amen, Amen.
Robert MartinApril 2, 2026
As a member for over 60 years I have never seen such a growth in the Church. I thought it was only in our ward but it is happening all over the world. The Lord is gathering His sheep before He makes His triumphal return.Ii am looking forward to spending the millennium with Him and my beloved wife and family God bless all the wonderful missionaries.
JuliannApril 1, 2026
Beautiful article, beautiful poem. Thank you for testimony and the hope. You’ve certainly experienced and know how to succor.
JuliannApril 1, 2026
Should be required reading. Excellent article and perfectly articulated. We remember the feeling.
VRWApril 1, 2026
Another beautiful, open article from Kimberly. This article really hits home for me and I am grateful for reading this. The Atonement is very personal in its application and this article helps me see that. Thanks for sharing.
Valiant JonesApril 1, 2026
"I’ll have a home on earth with 2 altars in it: One where you promise to give everything you have to me, and another where I promise to give everything I have to you." What a wonderful insight into this connection between the endowment and sealings. Thank you!
Rochelle HaleApril 1, 2026
When I first heard the announcement, I thought it was an early April Fool's joke, but then I saw reports on several outlets. I have been a teacher in every organization except Elders Quorum. I welcome this change. For years, even prior to "Come, Follow Me," students were encouraged to study the lessons or Conference talks in advance of Sunday meetings. In my observation, this rarely happened, and many people still come expecting the teacher to do all the work. The advent of CFM, and especially during the Pandemic, made it even more appropriate that we take advantage of our at-home-church-supported gospel study. About a month ago our stake instructed each ward to put out a weekly email bulletin with not only Sunday schedules, but a full list of upcoming calendar information, contact information, and more. Granted, there are some who are not comfortable with electronic devices, but with printed manuals and Church magazines, very few should come to class unprepared. Teachers will probably have to confine their lessons to just a few meaningful points. I also see this as a plus as more callings are extended to fill additional teaching spots. We will need to keep chatter and announcements to a minimum and change rooms quickly as needed, especially assisting any brothers or sisters with special needs or visitors.
Joni HiltonMarch 31, 2026
I love learning about cool connections like this! Thank you.
Denise ChristensenMarch 31, 2026
Having the same problem . Can’t get the Exodus 1-6 when we click on the link. Any suggestions.
Haze K.March 31, 2026
Various sources on the numerology of the letter Heh with different assignments of the number
https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/137077/jewish/Heh.htm
https://hebrew4christians.com/Grammar/Unit_One/Aleph-Bet/Hey/hey.html
https://biblicalhebrew.org/aleph-bet
Herm OlsenMarch 31, 2026
Excellent reminder to hear, to listen, to feel what our children are saying. My son loved Star Wars toys, and spent hours in fantasy adventures. I was a busy father with many children and just couldn’t ‘get into’ to the Star Wars stuff Instead, I directed him toward sports - which I loved and he hated. My bad. I regret not ‘watching the ducks’ with my son. Mercifully, he has forgiven me. Sometimes forgiving oneself is the harder task.
Haze K.March 31, 2026
This is one of your articles that I have enjoyed the most.
So well organized and easily understood. Filled with ideas that have not crossed my mind before today. Pointing out each of the seven awakenings and the seven "I will" is so helpful.
"The universe is God’s temple, but your soul is the Holy of Holies He desires to fill... With fire... the fire is not destruction. It is the presence of God."
Knowing all of my weaknesses and flaws I've never considered a comparison of myself to a temple filled with His presence.
Thank you especially for this article
HelenCMarch 31, 2026
Beautifully said. I can scarcely wait to hold my two angels again - almost more than I can wait to be in His arms again. I rely on Him to bring my wandering children and husband still here home with us.
Thank you.
JoMarch 31, 2026
This is a wonderful article for parents and a tangible guide for connecting to our children.Thank you for writing it. It’s also an article that an adult child could weaponize against their parents to estrange themselves because they feel the parent didn’t meet these important measures of parenting, which some therapists are now encouraging adult children to estrange themselves if they had challenges or hurt feelings in their childhood. I am a single mom who raised my children with love and gave them everything I could. I was not perfect, but I stood by them in their challenges and helped them with their homework and tucked them in at night and tried to make good memories together, etc. Now, I have an adult child who has estranged himself and kept me away from my grandchildren because he has hurt feelings from his childhood from some of the things you mentioned that he feels I failed doing, so his therapist has encouraged him to protect his peace and walk away from me without the opportunity for me to listen to his feelings and try to repair. I encourage parents to apply the guidance and advice of this great article. But maybe you might consider writing one for adult children, expressing that parents are not perfect and God wants families to have grace and forgiveness to one another as imperfect humans and that communication goes both ways,etc. Whatever you think would help heal families when adult children estrange themselves from their families who love them. . Thank you for your insights.
Heather SmurthwaiteMarch 30, 2026
It is sweet and delicious to my soul to hear your perspective through your words -- such beautiful comparisons, piercing through our worldly concepts of today, and unveiling the deep meanings of the scriptures.
Bishop Kelly FaucetteMarch 30, 2026
As a Bishop in our ward, we have specifically asked the members to not make such comments to start their talk. I believe that starting with a scripture or a story of Christ is a much better way to start a talk. Good article on how we sometime are asked to do something hard, but I say Harrah for Israel. You can do it.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
Hmmmm....There is a key element missing in this comparison. Barabbas was not free spiritually---that comes only through repentance. Yes, he could walk away and live his life. But that is not the same as being truly saved by our Savior. Escaping consequences is temporary, and only become permanent through repentance and changing our lives through the power of Christ.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
I often read the words of the Sacrament hymns while the Sacrament is passed. It helps me to stay focused, and to really think about the deeper meanings of the lyrics. It has been a wonderful tool to draw me closer to the Savior and to remember Him.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
This article supports the importance of calming down and thinking about what we want to communicate BEFORE having the conversation. Sometimes it only takes a few seconds of thought to soften a message before we speak it. OR---to decide not to say it at all. In the past, I was quick to express my irritation with something trivial my husband said or did. I have come to realize that so many actions don't justify impatience or anger. When we really do need to discuss something important, taking time to calm down will make all the difference in the way we express ourselves, and leads to a peaceful outcome. It is a way we can follow the Savior, and express love.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
These are such excellent suggestions that encourage us to show compassion in the way we speak. Many of this counsel is also applicable to adult relationships. Shaming and punishing are never the solution.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
My son experienced a similar situation. He chose to go to court---the judge made CLEAR to his wife the rules of visitation. That solved the problem, and it was NOT expensive. Perhaps it was some sort of mediation intervention. Since two years have passed since your divorce, I don't believe your actions alone will change your husband's behavior. You definitely need a mediator. You should not be in a position where you have to keep begging for the kid's clothes! After all this time, your husband is still determined to make you miserable. He knows exactly what he is doing. Do some digging and find out if there is a low cost way to settle this. Go prepared with a list of every way he is breaking the visitation agreement. Otherwise, this will continue to bog you down, and you have enough on your shoulders. You will be surprised at how quickly he backs down when he knows you have support and that you will not tolerate his behavior any longer.
SoniaMarch 30, 2026
What is the song Elder Hafen referred to in the podcast?
ShaunaMarch 30, 2026
wow--thank you for a mind blowing and life altering perspective
HelenCMarch 30, 2026
Thank you.
Larry TroxelMarch 30, 2026
Excellent observations and commentary Paul.
Lisa NemrowMarch 30, 2026
I am looking for the podcast for Exodus 1-6 and continue to get the podcast for Genesis. How do I get to Exodus?
Rhoda AndersonMarch 30, 2026
This is really beautiful. Thanks for spelling it out in words that are plain. It's always about relationship.
Corey D.March 29, 2026
Wonderful article with great insight but the bottom line to why there needs to be an atonement is law. Our Heavenly Father is a god of law and order and he would cease to be god if he were not. Law is broken and a price needs to be paid and our Savior paid the price. The atonement was done out of love but it was accomplished through perfect obedience, something we mortals are incapable of doing no matter how great our love may be for Heavenly Father and his son or for each other. You love your daughter, she loves you but you both fell short in the example you shared, for different reasons and different levels of understanding obviously but our Savior covers it all.
MicheleMarch 28, 2026
I've been through this, and when he remarried it became worse as she he let her take the reins. My suggestion is to put the concerns in writing. Can't mistake the written word, it's documentation if needed and it takes even more stress off of you since in a discussion you can be drawn in to an argument if his goal is to get under your skin, conscious of doing so or not.
Angel HerreroMarch 28, 2026
A couple of days ago, my wife and I were released from our missionary responsibilities. As I was going to do my study planning for the week; the Spirit was very clear: Angel, these next few days, please do not forget to review the last week of My Mortal Life. I think that this invitation, I want to share with you all; it will strengthen our testimony as we remember Him! And the Divine Love that has made our salvation possible.
Alvin H. AndrewMarch 27, 2026
I just realized my footnote 1 read rlejst.com. It should be [email protected].
Answering David Cook: I'm sorry, I do not know the answer to that question.
Karen WalkerMarch 26, 2026
Why can't I start the podcast from this page. Have it been put into a different place to begin listening to the podcast?
JBMarch 26, 2026
What incredible insights. My heart thanks you. It seems like, to me, that no matter how much I have repented and asked for forgiveness for my sins, that the consequences of my behavior just keep coming. Generational consequences. I will pray specifically that the healing balm of the Atonement of Jesus Christ will touch those affected.
David CookMarch 26, 2026
Is it possible that the origin story of the Moabites and Ammonites could have been a later invention by the Israelites to malign and discredit their longtime enemies?
Susan SiddowayMarch 26, 2026
This understanding of the Atonement is one of the best I have read. Jesus didn’t suffer for our weaknesses, pain, sorrow…if of our own doing, or that which we did to others, or them to us… but He suffers with us, healing us and them. Thank you for such great insights.
KMSMarch 26, 2026
I am deaf. I need the print out to read. Please, please have the podcasts in print. Thank you.
MegMarch 26, 2026
According to the Word of Wisdom (D&C 89:14,16) all grain is the "staff of life" and should be the foundation of our diet. Along with this we are told to eat wholesome vegetables (herbs) (v. 10) and fruits that are in season (v. 16.) Animal products are to be used sparingly, if at all (v. 12-13.) This advertisement, disguised as an article, is inaccurate and misleading.
KathleenMarch 25, 2026
Thank you for bringing to mind someone that at least I, hardly think about. Your perspective through Barabbas increases my gratitude for our Savior at this wonderful celebratory time of year.
Bruce HallMarch 25, 2026
Very thought provoking and causing introspection- never saw myself in Barabbas- but do now- thanks for the insightful article
Rochelle HaleMarch 25, 2026
I forgot to mention that "As Now We Take the Sacrament" is my favorite hymn. With a few minor word changes, it is an excellent song for a funeral to share a final testimony of Jesus Christ, His teachings, and the way [we] tried to live our lives.
Todd LillywhiteMarch 25, 2026
Thanks for this. I was especially piqued by this thought:
"It is interesting to note that from Adam until Jesus Christ the firstborn son never inherited the covenantal birthright and patriarchal priesthood. This was generally because of their unworthiness or perhaps as we see in the case of Ishmael, they were not born to the first wife. Biblically it was always a younger son who obtained the covenantal priesthood birthright among whom were Abel, Seth, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, and others."
Interestingly, I had noticed a pattern. But, didn't take it so far as to study and find such cinsistency. Very interesting indeed.
Diane BlakelyMarch 25, 2026
For those of us who are very hard of hearing and rely on print, this was a disappointment. I like your lessons, but need the words in print.
Rochelle haleMarch 25, 2026
The sacrament is such an integral part of our Sabbath worship as we draw closer to Christ, reflect on His countless examples, remember our own covenants, and strive to always improve. A few weeks ago we attended a memorial on a Sunday for a relative who passed away. She had been a leader in many civic organizations, was an author and businesswoman, had worked as a realtor, and had become adept at riding motorcycles and flying small planes. Even when she moved to a retirement home, many people depended on her. Friends and colleagues gathered from many states to pay tribute. Because of the schedule we were not able to attend our own church services that day. The gathering for our relative opened with prayer and a blessing on the food, and the meeting was closed in prayer as well. People were considerate and well-groomed as we listened to wonderful stories and tributes. It almost felt like church, but something was definitely missing -- partaking of the sacrament and renewing our covenants. I prayed several times that day that my heart would be in tune with the Lord, that my attitude would be the same as if I had been able to attend church that day. Partaking of the sacrament the following week was even more meaningful.
KirkMarch 25, 2026
Thank you for the article! I experienced a similar sacrament meeting in my Idaho ward when I was a child. It made a big impression! Also, personalization of the pronouns in the sacrament is something I try to do as well. Your article and thoughts resonate with me today.
Lu BrowerMarch 25, 2026
Loved this insightful message. Gives me a whole new perspective. I really appreciate and enjoy this. Thank you
Raymond PineauMarch 24, 2026
Please show me in scripture where the "fruit " is said to be an apple. It is not there.
HelenCMarch 24, 2026
It is so easy to fall into the trap of longing for the past, of becoming lost in “if only”. I know it’s ungrateful and unproductive but it is a “known”. Seeking a new path in the future is so completely unknown, yet it is the only path we have access to.
Thank you for the reminder.
HelenCMarch 24, 2026
As I seek to turn from my transactional relationship with God to a conventual relationship with Him I, too, find myself seeking more temporal rewards than spiritual ones. It’s so easy to focus on the hunger in our bellies rather than on the depth of our desire for the food that never runs out.
Herm OlsenMarch 24, 2026
Beautiful insights. I wish I had been more nurturing as a parent. Thank heaven my wife filled the void.
Kathe GreenMarch 23, 2026
What a blessing to be able to return to God with my sins forgiven, and to have the opportunity to leave the pain of my mistakes behind, through the glorious process of repentance. Thank you for the reminder of the processt, as I continue to aim to be free of the pains of past choices..
Gary StrobleMarch 22, 2026
The men in the illustration have shoes on, but the women are barefoot. Hmm.
SteveMarch 21, 2026
As difficult as addiction and betrayal are, recovery is always possible through the cleansing and healing power of the atonement of Jesus Christ !
SteveMarch 21, 2026
As a former therapist to sexual offenders in prison, I'm glad this podcast helps spouses who survive betrayal trauma recognize that p*rn*graphy has become a coping mechanism for emotional distress and is not the spouse's fault. However, it is important to understand that the viewer objectifies and sexualizes the people in those images. That brings arousal and physical release which activates the "feel good" chemicals of dopamine, epinephrine, and oxytocin. It is essential that the viewer find other coping strategies that will help them develop emotional resilience and strengthen the emotional foundation of their relationships.
Robert JohnsonMarch 21, 2026
God’s Son had pushed the earth apart
And laid my finger on His heart!
Christ’s death split the veil in two,
And let the face of God shine through.
—RMJ (Adapted in 2023 from the 1912 poem Renascence by EDNA ST. VINCENT MILLAY and D&C 138, 88 & 93)
ATONEMENT AND RESURRECTION
Easter asks us a question, is the joy of Sunday worth the pain of Friday? That's what Easter's all about. It's that question. Is the joy of Resurrection Sunday at the Garden Tomb worth the Atoning pain of Friday in Gethsemane and on the cross? Will the joy of our resurrection be worth the painful adversities of life? Jesus and the scriptures and the prophets (and Edna St. Vincent Millay) are going to say, "Yes, yes, it's worth it.
—S. Michael Wilcox (Follow Him podcast New Testament Episode 19 part 2 edited by RMJ)
It is also my testimony that it won’t be easy but it will be worth it. Our hereafter will depend on what we seek after here.
Jeff MorganMarch 21, 2026
A thoughtful and reflective article that offers meaningful insights with clarity and purpose. The message is both uplifting and practical, encouraging readers to apply these principles thoughtfully in everyday life. Herbs in this era are so important for health.
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
PETER’S DENIAL
There are at least two different perspectives we may use to view Peter’s denial of Jesus.
One possibility is that Peter disclaimed his acquaintance with Jesus because Jesus instructed him to do exactly that. To suppose that such a denial was based on cowardice or weakness is contrary to every other example of Peter’s personality and motives reported in the scriptures. In every other instance, Peter acted courageously, even impetuously, in his endorsement and protection of Christ. In fact, he was ready to kill to ensure his Master’s safety a short time earlier in Gethsemane.
It is possible to read the text of the Savior’s declaration to Peter about the latter’s forthcoming denial as an instructional command rather than as a prediction. In other words, Peter may have been told to deny being associated with the Savior. That seems to be the line of reasoning followed by Elder Spencer W. Kimball in a magnificent address at Brigham Young University entitled Peter, My Brother.
[President Kimball said; “Is it possible that there might have been some other reason for Peter’s triple denial? Could he have felt that circumstances justified expediency? When he bore a strong testimony in Caesarea Philippi, he had been told that “they should tell no man that he was Jesus the Christ” (Matthew 16:20).
“When the three Apostles came down from the Mount of Transfiguration, they were again charged implicitly, “Tell the vision to no man, until the Son of man be risen again from the dead” (Matthew 17:9). Could Peter have felt this was not the time to tell of Christ? He had been with his Lord in Nazareth when the Savior was taken by his own people to the brow of the hill, “whereon their city was built, that they might cast him down headlong. But he passing through the midst of them went his way” (Luke 4:29–30). Surely Peter did not think of this escape as cowardice but as wise expediency. Christ’s time was not come.”]
Elder Bruce C. Hafen has written: “Consider … the case of Peter on the night he denied any knowledge of his Master three times in succession. We typically regard Peter as something of a weakling whose commitment was not strong enough to make him rise to the Savior’s defense. But I once heard President Spencer W. Kimball offer an alternative interpretation of Peter’s behavior. In a talk to a BYU audience in 1971 President Kimball, then a member of the Council of the Twelve, said the Savior’s statement that Peter would deny him three times before the cock crowed just might have been a request to Peter, not a prediction. Jesus might have been instructing his chief apostle to deny any association with him in order to ensure strong leadership for the Church after the Crucifixion.
“As President Kimball asked in his talk, who could doubt Peter’s willingness to stand up and be counted? Think of his boldness in striking off the guard’s ear with his sword when the Savior was arrested in Gethsemane. President Kimball did not offer his view as the only interpretation, but he did suggest there is enough justification for it that it should be considered. So what is the answer—was Peter a coward, or was he so crucial to the survival of the Church that he was prohibited from risking his life? … (Believing Heart, 57–58).
Luke 22:61 records that “the Lord turned, and looked upon Peter,” and Peter remembered what Jesus … commanded him to do. Then the scripture notes that “Peter went out, and wept bitterly” (v. 62). Why would the chief apostle go out and weep bitterly if he was obeying an instruction from the Lord? The answer is—because it was simply not in Peter’s constitution, as we read everywhere else in the Gospels, to shy away from anything, in fear or cowardice. It is understandable that he would go out and weep bitter tears at being powerless to help his dearest Friend.
Peter the Rock would be crushed bitterly by the suffering of Jesus that he could not help relieve.
—Verse by Verse, The New Testament, Vol. 1 by Andrew C. Skinner, D. Kelly Ogden
Luke 22:34 In this verse Jesus indicates that Peter will deny (disown) knowing Jesus. It is misleading to state that Peter denied Christ three times. Peter was not asked that night whether or not he believed that Jesus was the Christ; rather, the questions put to Peter had to do with his association with Jesus of Nazareth. Thus, it would be more accurate to say, "Peter denied knowing Jesus" …
—A Companion to Your Study of the New Testament: The Four Gospels by Daniel H. Ludlow
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
God’s Son had pushed the earth apart
And laid my finger on His heart!
Christ’s death split the veil in two,
And let the face of God shine through.
—RMJ (Adapted in 2023 from the 1912 poem Renascence by EDNA ST. VINCENT MILLAY and D&C 138, 88 & 93)
ATONEMENT AND RESURRECTION
Easter asks us a question, is the joy of Sunday worth the pain of Friday? That's what Easter's all about. It's that question. Is the joy of Resurrection Sunday at the Garden Tomb worth the Atoning pain of Friday in Gethsemane and on the cross? Will the joy of our resurrection be worth the painful adversities of life? Jesus and the scriptures and the prophets (and Edna St. Vincent Millay) are going to say, "Yes, yes, it's worth it.
—S. Michael Wilcox (Follow Him podcast New Testament Episode 19 part 2 edited by RMJ)
It is also my testimony that it won’t be easy but it will be worth it. I conclude, where I started, with the theme for today. Our hereafter will depend on what we seek after here. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
What promised joy helped the Savior fulfill His sacrifice for us?
(Hebrews 12:2) “Joy is powerful, and focusing on joy brings God’s power into our lives. As in all things, Jesus Christ is our ultimate exemplar, ‘who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross.’ Think of that! In order for Him to endure the most excruciating experience ever endured on earth, our Savior focused on joy!
“And what was the joy that was set before Him? Surely it included the joy of cleansing, healing, and strengthening us; the joy of paying for the sins of all who would repent; the joy of making it possible for you and me to return home—clean and worthy—to live with our Heavenly Parents and families” (Nelson, “Joy and Spiritual Survival,” 82–83). October Conference 2016
—The New Testament Study Guide: Start to Finish by Thomas R. Valletta
Joy is powerful, and focusing on joy brings God’s power into our lives. As in all things, Jesus Christ is our ultimate exemplar, “who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross.” Think of that! In order for Him to endure the most excruciating experience ever endured on earth, our Savior focused on joy!
President Russell M. Nelson (October Conference 2016)
In Latter-day Saint theology, Jesus Christ endured the agony of the Atonement, focusing on the "joy set before him" (Hebrews 12:2), which was the opportunity to cleanse, heal, and bring all humanity back to the Father. This joy includes redeeming humankind, fulfilling the Father's will, and bringing souls to repentance.
Key aspects of the "joy" that motivated the Savior include:
* Saving Souls: His joy is seeing us receive eternal forgiveness and returning home.
* Our Happiness: The ultimate goal is that we might experience the fullness of joy and have our souls filled with His love.
* Love for Us: The "joy set before him" is, in part, us—the opportunity to rescue and redeem his children.
* The Power to Heal: His sacrifice allows Him to understand our trials and bring us peace.
* Russell M. Nelson has called Jesus the "ultimate exemplar," who endured the most excruciating experience in history by focusing on the joy of making eternal life possible.
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My dear brothers and sisters, the joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
Is it possible that there might have been some other reason for Peter’s triple denial?
Could he have felt that circumstances justified expediency? When he bore a strong testimony in Caesarea Philippi, he had been told that “they should tell no man that he was Jesus the Christ”
(Matthew 16:20).
When the three Apostles came down from the Mount of Transfiguration, they were again charged implicitly, “Tell the vision to no man, until the Son of man be risen again from the dead” (Matthew 17:9). Could Peter have felt this was not the time to tell of Christ? He had been with his Lord in Nazareth when the Savior was taken by his own people to the brow of the hill, “whereon their city was built, that they might cast him down headlong. But he passing through the midst of them went his way” (Luke 4:29–30). Surely Peter did not think of this escape as cowardice but as wise expediency. Christ’s time was not come.
From Peter My Brother by President Kimball
Heather SmurthwaiteMarch 20, 2026
Brother Degn, I absolutely love and delight in how you write -- pure poetry, including choice insights, scriptures, quotes from prophets, and the sheer joy of life!
Thank you for lifting us.
ShaunaMarch 20, 2026
I love Peter--he is one of my heroes. What faith! what courage! what commitment to the Savior--he becomes a fearless witness after the Savior's ascension.. And remember that the Apostles didn't have the gift of the Holy Ghost until after Christ's Resurrection.
And I have always loved Presdient Kimball's passionate defense of Peter. The Lord chose him to lead the Church after His death--need we say more?
ShaunaMarch 20, 2026
wonderful! thank you so much. I needed this as I came home from Church quite "frustrated" last week. It is absolutely true that if we want to be offended we should go to Church and rub up against all the other imperfect Saints. Our echo chambers don't allow for "offense" any more, different opinions, ideas etc. Your essay reminds me of Eugene England's book/essay, "why the Church is as true as the Gospel," but yours is more poetic
Tomorrow is Stake Conference and we have just added 2 new wards and a Branch to our stake--lots of good opportunities to practice "the cosmic dance":)
Kenneth StevensMarch 20, 2026
I recall reading and learning a few years ago that the "cock-crow" was the "name" of the "trumpet call" that Roman soldiers used to inform soldiers when their "night-watch" changed around 2 am. It was a trumpet call and not a bird call.
C. BayMarch 20, 2026
I have so enjoyed this series of essays, written like a mix of Elder Maxwell and Elder Holland with just a pinch of Hugh Nibley and brimming with with hope and testimony.
Oakley EatonMarch 20, 2026
I love the insights of this article. My favorite part was “because we have walked with the One who does” Thank you
Mary AckermanMarch 20, 2026
It was the title. It came into my inbox. I was intrigued, so I brought the essay up and started reading. Interesting that it coincides with a Ward goal to increase joy in our Sacrament Meeting. I love this! I'll go back and catch up on the first four parts. Well done.
L.S.March 19, 2026
One of our granddaughters returned home after 7 months. Of her mission. She had amazing experiences
as she served as a church service missionary to complete her 18 months at home. She became very close to the other service missionaries, and gave a wonderful returned missionary talk in her ward when her time was complete. She is a confident college grad now, married with a bright future!
HelenCMarch 19, 2026
And now I find myself asking, “What cost have I declined as too dear for His Salvation?”
Boanerges RubalcavaMarch 18, 2026
If Issac was a grown man when he was to be sacrificed, then it is even more remarkable
Abraham's faith since he knew that the promise of many descendants was not to be jeopardize. At what age Issac had children?
David C Hobson, BS, DDS, MSMarch 18, 2026
I am an early return missionary. When I served, I simply didn't have the emotional strength to deal with the regular rejections incurred during knocking on doors! Which is how most of my time was spent. I recently made a visit to the chapel in Canada which was the appointed gathering place any time a visiting church authority visited. When I attended a sacrament meeting there, I started getting choked up, and by the time the meeting was half way through, I was visibly sobbing. And had no clue what was going on. As I thought about things further, I realized that 63 years before, President Henry D Moyle had stood at that pulpit and clearly stated that no missionary will ever rise to a greater height in his life than he does on his mission. I was feeling like a failure at the time, and that thought had lain there in my subconscious for over 60 years! In researching the internet, Moyle made that statement widely during his time in the first presidency when speaking to missionaries. I've obtained bachelors, masters, and doctoral degees. I've been blessed financially over my life. I've been successful in many other areas of endeavor. And I'm still struggling to come to terms with the conflicts created by Moyle's statement those many years ago! This comment is not intended for publication, but I'm open to talking with anyone interested in the topic. I don't believe that my experience is unique, and would like to contribute to others who are also struggling with an early return.
Rochelle HaleMarch 18, 2026
We live in an area that is prone to fires during hot weather and when we have high winds. About 6 years ago a fire burned over our local hills and was in walking distance of us, directly behind the home of friends. We packed our car to evacuate if need be for several reasons 1) to get out of harm's way if necessary 2) to drive to check on loved ones 3) to have essentials with us in case we were detoured or couldn't return home 4) for peace of mind. We have been admonished for years about 72-hour kits, but now we ALWAYS keep a bag in our cars because we never know what even short-term emergencies could come up, even in our daily commute and activities.
Elder Russell CannonMarch 18, 2026
Many missionaries that need to come home early take advantage of the opportunity to transfer home as a service missionary. They can complete their 24 or 18 months while still living at home. Their schedule can be flexible to accommodate doctors and counseling appointments. They continue to help others come into Christ by serving them with loving kindness as the savior would.
Donna PenningtonMarch 18, 2026
Wow! Beautiful piece such depth and talent t allowed me to savor what our Savior did for us!! Thank you!
WayneMarch 18, 2026
I am a man betrayed ‘twice’ by my wife. I have taken the counsel of priesthood leadership and tried to live the Doctrine of Christ. I wish there was some attention paid to “men.” It hurts like hell that no one in the Church offers help to the man. Women always help women. I was and have been abandoned by my priesthood leadership.
Teri N.March 18, 2026
Our oldest (daughter) also "went off the deep end". She has her own issues for this. It was a very long 10+ years of dealing with very passive aggressive, deceptive, manipulative behavior while at home, and then once she moved out it exploded. We still had two younger kids at home at the time she finally "ran away" from home (aged 20). This advice is spot on. Keep loving. Keep honoring individual agency. Keep teaching true gospel principles. And take those other kids under young wings during appropriate times and help them navigate what they are seeing their sister do. Not unlike how you teach them to recognize the Holy Ghost as they are growing up. We would help our younger kids recognize how their older sister would claim the happiness she was now feelings, yet also recognize how miserable she actually was, the lack of blessings she experienced (because all blessings are predicated upon obeidence to those laws upon which they are predicated), and the problems in life that her choices brought about. We express how we continue to love her, forgive her, and pray for her, but she has her agency and this is the path she has chosen to learn. The real question for them is: Which path do they want to take to learn? Do they want a lack of joy, to feel such frustration and sadness each day, to have to lie about being happy, and to not have the blessings we all desire? Thankfully, our two younger children learned quickly through her example that that was not the path they wanted. They recognized for themselves how miserable her life was, and that when they chose to keep covenants and follow the Lord, they felt the joy and received the blessings, and that is what they wanted more of. Now, they could have still chosen a different path, so I'm not saying it always turns out this way. But thankfully, this time it did. Both of them are adult, one married, and they all living their temple covenants. Sadly, our oldest (about to turn 36) is still living in the Great and Spacious Building - but through much prayer and personal revelation I have come to understand from the Lord that this is her path, her choice, and that He has His eye on her. Things will turn out as best they can according to what she is willing to live up to. And we will all have peace and great joy over the final outcome on the other side. One thing I was taught: Our Heavenly Parents are not sitting up in heaving being miserable for all eternity over the 1/3 of Their children whom They lost in the war in heaven. Should any of our children end up in less than highest degree of the Celestial Kingdom, it will be ok - we will still have great joy - and they will have the joy they are willing to have - and we can rejoice for they are not in outer darkness and we, who keep our sealing/temple covenants WILL get to see them anytime we wish in eternity (while they will not get to see us anytime they want, because of the choices they made - but His promise to us will still hold, we do get to visit them). All will turn out well in the end. Even the least of the Telestial Kingdom is more glorious than we have the capacity to imagine. ALL will be well and we will all be happy and overjoyed with how things turn out. Meanwhile - keep talking with the younger siblings, help them see the effects of walking away from the covenant path, to remember to honor agency, and to have faith in Christ, not anyone else, and know that in the end (which is what really counts) all will turn out as it should and we'll happily accept it and agree with it! There is ALWAYS hope!
JKMarch 17, 2026
Please Elder Rasband, if you are reading this, FIX the Pathways system. I cannot get in. I've been trying for over two years. There's no one to talk to, there's no way to fix my unique (but probably happening to many others like me) issue. The software programming issues are real and have been a big hinderance. Please help.
Cody HMarch 17, 2026
Thank you for highlighting the changes to the food pyramid! I am glad they finally are beginning to match scientific studies as well as revelation in the Word of Wisdom.
The Word of Wisdom is so much more than the don’ts! It’s interesting to note how the prophets love the Word of Wisdom.
Brigham Young had a lot to say about the Word of Wisdom.
…”I tell them to do so, but give me a piece of Johnny-cake [cornbread]; I would rather have it than their pies and tarts and sweet meats. Let me have something that will sustain nature and leave my stomach and whole system clear to receive the Spirit of the Lord and be free from headache and pains of every kind (DBY, 189) - from Teachings of the Presidents: Brigham Young Chapter 29.
And President Nelson had many anecdotes about good eating, exercise, and moderation.
There’s a really interesting book that dives into the Word of Wisdom called “The Word of Wisdom: Health, Healing, and the Destroying Angel” by a Jordan and Cassidy Gunderson. This book totally changed the way I looked at that D&C 89.
AleceMarch 16, 2026
I have celebrated Passover as a Latter-day Saint for over 40 years—with as many as 150 participants for an EFY program in my Stake to just my husband and I during Covid. I don’t t consider an Easter Season to be fulfilled without celebrating Passover and sharing it with friends and relatives. AND —I also celebrate and teach others about The Feast of Tabernacles in the fall These feasts belong to all if the tribes of Israel!! Celebrating them helps us learn about Christ —who also celebrated these feasts during HIs life on earth.
Glenda PeckhamMarch 16, 2026
This is one of the most beautiful articles I have ever read. It opens a new perspective on following our Father's will and not ours. It truly adds insight on the need to follow our Father as our Savior has done. Thank you!
Jen AshcraftMarch 15, 2026
Jocelyn, thank you for sharing your beautiful experience with Justus. It has brought us so much comfort and joy. You were a bright light to him and he admired you so much. Leading up to the anniversary of his death I was really struggling and was dreading the day. My husband had decided a few months before that we should do his temple work on the anniversary of his death. It was a most remarkable experience and I could feel him and his infectious energy and joy the whole time we were in the temple. That day I had been dreading turned out to be a day of rejoicing for me! I felt his joy and love the whole time! It wasn't a coincidence that you received your endowment that same day. It absolutely makes sense that he would plead to be able to minister to you as a guardian angel. He always cared so deeply for his friends. Thank you for your goodness, your loving and accepting spirit and your beautiful testimony.
Heather OsmondMarch 15, 2026
I am proud to heed the invitation…Here am I send me!
We love you Jocelyn!
SharonMarch 15, 2026
Thank you for sharing your story. It is so inspiring. The Lord’s hand is in the details of our lives. It was not a coincidence that JB’s family was in the temple that day.
Sandi HendersonMarch 15, 2026
So inspiring!! We all are sent to earth for a Heavenly Purpose!!
Trudy BrimbleMarch 15, 2026
Sister Osmond.
You are a light shining in the darkness.
A light that will bring many to Christ. A beacon of hope and love. Shining for the world to see.
So proud of you.
We are all broken, but here’s the best thing, we are loved.
Jesus gave his life because he couldn’t face eternity without us.
Love you. Go get em. ♥️♥️
Trudy Brimble.
Mansfield UK
Marilyn GilletteMarch 14, 2026
Beautiful and so inspiring. Thank you for sharing.
HelenCMarch 13, 2026
My youngest son, George, died from cancer before he could serve. I have felt him doing Missionary work with my father. Maybe he and JB will be companions?
JeffMarch 13, 2026
Thank you!
Lisa EdwardsMarch 13, 2026
Your beautiful testimony really touched me and brought tears. You are such a light to the world and I love your story. I hope that in the future, we can hear more about your experiences on your mission. Thank you so much for sharing your faith!!
BrentMarch 13, 2026
That is a very powerful story and witness of Christ, his power to heal, and the blessings of angels. Thank you for sharing
BeckyMarch 13, 2026
Absolutely inspiring!! Thank you for your testimony of our Savior and for sharing your hope and faith in Christ. You are a great missionary.
Kay Wiemer GerkeMarch 12, 2026
So beautifully written! This is the most effective message I have ever read to motivate others to write and record things that matter about our life experiences. Thank you, Tanya.
Terry DickensMarch 12, 2026
I just read this article, and it truly resonated with me. I recently completed a book of my life experiences—about 80 short chapters reflecting on family, faith, and many meaningful moments from more than 80 years.
It is not a chronological history, but a collection of stories that offer small glimpses into the life I have been blessed to live. My hope is that articles like this will encourage others to record their own experiences and insights to bless their children, grandchildren, and generations yet to come.
KathrynMarch 12, 2026
I was disappointed in this article, but not because I disagree with the basic premise (not celebrating harm to one's enemies). I'm disappointed because it's yet another attack from another angle against very human leaders who are trying their best to defend freedom in our nation and in the global community.
It also felt like the words quoted were in some cases being skewed to prove the author's point. It would have been better to look for and acknowledge the good that's being done instead of jumping on the criticism bandwagon. I believe negative, disparaging words from all sides are ripping our nation apart far more than any leadership actions or policies.
Debbie UllrichMarch 12, 2026
That was so informative, and interesting! Thank you very much for all your research and knowledge--
Lawrence BarryMarch 12, 2026
Well said ,thank you. Since 2013 I have self-published 8 books on my life and family history and given them to my 5 children and 33 grandchildren so they will know who I was, what I believed, what challenges I faced and most importantly my faith and trust in God.
MarciMarch 11, 2026
I always LOVE Becky's articles. She's amazing!!!
CynthiaMarch 11, 2026
Becky, once again you have taught pure doctrine and have uplifted and inspired us!! Thank you for your wonderful example of service among the leprosy affected.
LewisMarch 11, 2026
What a wonderful article, and what beautiful thoughts. It exemplifies the life of the Savior, who spent his entire ministry serving others. I am so grateful for your extraordinary ability to gently guide us along the Savior’s path through these fabulous stories. Thank you for using and sharing your gift.
Mr. WarsawMarch 11, 2026
Great article. Thomas Sharpe's home is still there at 701 Water Street. The original Warsaw House hotel was torn down 1899 and the new new Queen Anne style home was built in 1904. The back part of it home was built in 1860. Still the historic site but none of the original 1840s era Warsaw House still stands. This is from the History of Warsaw by Brian Stutzman.
JoëlMarch 11, 2026
Excellent conseil ️..
Susan KnightMarch 10, 2026
Where do I find previous chapters?
Jane GonzalezMarch 10, 2026
Elder and Sister Rasband’s presentation was wonderful! I truly enjoyed it and the stories for their ancestors was inspiring! Thank you so much!
JuliannMarch 9, 2026
There is so much we can say and so little we can’t say about the temple experience that no one should go in cold and come out confused and clouded. The initiatory ordinance , for the women is a history lesson; that we are now participating in the same basic ordinance that Aron and his sons participated in and you can read it in the book of exodus. The washing and anointing grant us discernment, cleanse us from the blood and sins of this generation ( that’s a huge gift) and then go on to bless us with health of mind and body.and again discernment. Then we are given reasons to help encourage us to wear the garment. . In the endowment we get information that we are told not to share outside of the temple. Keep those sacred. But discuss the garden of Eden; the five laws we covenant/promise to keep; research the temple clothing and why it’s worn. The prayer circle is a way to serve and save those having crisis of health,,crisis of faith, life crisis. All the hand signals are there to remind us and call in our faith on behalf of those who names lie on the alters, alters plural, of the temple. The veil is our opportunity to practice all we just learned in the presence of God the father and then enter into his pre. Sure there are representative in his roll but crossing through that veil is literally crossing into his presence. All that I have shared can be shared and discussed in the Celestial room. Quietly of course. And it can be discussed outside the temple reverently. Just don’t share the few parts you promise not to share.—signs and tokens . We make it way to complicated and way to secretive in our effort to keep it sacred.,
K TaylorMarch 9, 2026
We live in the era of king men as described in the books of Alma and Helaman in the Book of Mormon.
Unfortunately our own President and his supporters have fallen into that terrible trap. I do not believe it will end well. It never does.
Becky LondonMarch 9, 2026
I first went to the temple prior to my mission in 1974. There were no temple prep classes. My parents weren't members, and my Relief Society President shared what she could. My seminary teacher's wife was my escort, and my best friend was married the same day. Was it strange? Yes, Did it affect my testimony? Absolutely not! We couldn't have been expected to learn and understand everything on one visit (or many visits). Fortunately, I was able to attend several more times before departing for my mission. We have seen amazing, inspired changes to temple ceremonies (NOT THE DOCTRINE) over the last several years, many of which were instituted when I served as a temple worker. The endowment is much easier to understand, and we have been given counsel to speak more freely about some aspects of temple worship and instructions. I have also seen friends and family leave the church (or just not go to the temple) after only attending a time or two. We should do more to encourage our young people, have them attend the temple preparation course or review online, help them understand the covenants they will receive, and also help them get excited about doing family history in order to take or submit names to the temple.
Corey D.March 8, 2026
I have liked what has been shared in these articles and feel the same desire to share what I have learned about life, parenting, the church, the spirit, marriage etc., but it's really difficult, whenever we all get together which isn't really very often, the minute I say I'd like to share something or start to relate an experience or something, my children and their spouses, eyes start to roll and there is like this zoning out or immediate transference of their minds to another sphere. The grandkids are another story, the minute they walk in the door they scatter to find a corner and pull out their phones. I just finally decided or should say felt impressed this last year that we just need to get with each grandchild one on one if we can because it's just gonna get harder and harder the older they get, the two oldest grandkids are in college now. We managed last year to take our two oldest granddaughters to dinner for their 18th birthdays and it worked out pretty good, we had a nice time and some good conversations.
Alvin H AndrewMarch 8, 2026
Well said brother Dan. I too have been put off by the glee we are so prone to express at the misfortune and perhaps on occasion the justifiable loss of another human's life. It is a time for quiet, gentle remorse for having to end the life of any of God's children. I often reflect on the magnanimity of Captain Moroni and later Captain Mormon as they tried desperately to preserve the lives of those so intent on ending their lives. They took no joy in what they had to do.
Again, well said. Thank you for reminding us.
Rhoda AndersonMarch 8, 2026
Wow-- great thoughts! Thanks for putting this into words. I'm saving this one in my files!
Corey D.March 8, 2026
A very good article with great introspective and application, very thoughtful and well expressed, thank you.
Bishop Cáit FinneganMarch 8, 2026
My grandmother read the story of Conor Mac Nessa as told in Sullivan's epic poem "The Death of King Conor Mac Nessa." I was 5 years old. I was shaken by it I asked her to read it to me every day. It set my young heart on fire with a love of God that led me to want to follow Christ for life. The poem still stirs my blood. Today I am an old priest and my heart still burns with the same love I heard in that story as a child when my old grandmother read it to me. It was bardic, poetic catechism and it worked. God touches us in many ways. Poetry, story, music and song all are prayer and all open us to hear the Voice of God if we listen. The love of God still shakes the ground we walk on and, if we are sensitive enough to it, it will guide our lives.
KathleenMarch 7, 2026
Another incredible description - your artistic gift. I love this Church history site and felt the spirits of the past and their lives, as we visited and stayed, one Christmas season.
C. BayMarch 6, 2026
I second Paul Bishop's comment. Many of the comments coming from Secretary Hegseth and the president are more appropriate to teenagers playing video games than adults who are blighting or ending real people's lives. Our leaders need to learn the difference.
Norine McClureMarch 6, 2026
When will transcripts of his podcasts be available on-line?
Paul BishopMarch 6, 2026
Thank you for voicing my frustration with the boasting rhetoric as it relates not just to the current situation with Iran, but with so many other incidents domestically. I'd like to rant and rave further, but would end up blunting my point...
Douglas HighamMarch 5, 2026
Thought provoking article, Mark. Thanks for sharing!
C. J.March 5, 2026
My son's friend left the church shortly after she was sealed in the Temple. She was married three days before COVID shut all the Temples down and never got to go back. Many of her friends that were married in the Temple have all left the Church. They all use the Temple as their excuse for leaving and now opening mock the Church as being secretly misogynistic and using the Temple to brainwash women into blindly following the leaders of the Church and that it is only about men having total power over women. The sad part is that I really don't know how they think that and see that conclusion.
I know that my wife was extremely overwhelmed and really struggled with the Temple her first time, but as we kept going back, the more she really saw the true meaning and purpose that women have as Daughters of God and how glorious that is to know.
I really think that the as parents that we really need to be very open and frank as to what goes on in the Temple with our children even more than what is given in the Temple Prep classes. They, especially our daughters, need to know how it strange it will feel the first few times going from us. We need tell them as much as we are are allowed to say (and there is a lot we can too) so that when they go, they are not real surprised by what happens. I grew up in the 1970s-80's in a household (as did my wife and most of my friends) where asking questions about the Temple ceremonies was always met with an answer like "those things are sacred and we don't discuss them outside of the Temple" and nothing more. As Temple going members, we need to do better than our parents did in preparing this generation for Temple worship.
Romney BiddulphMarch 5, 2026
The Restored Church of Jesus Christ believes in the Christianity of the New Testament era. Catholics and Protestants believe in Fourth Century Creedal Christianity. Here are the beliefs of Christians of the New Testament era:
1. Baptism by immersion by the father (who has the authority) of the family
2. Lay, married clergy 1st Timothy 3:2, 4:33. Baptism by proxy for deceased ancestors 1 Corinthians 15:29
4. God and Jesus organized the world, rather than creatio ex nihilo.
5. Belief in a tripartite anthropomorphic Godhead, as witnessed by the Apostle Stephen. Acts 7: 55-56
6. Belief in theosis (that faithful Christians can acquire god-like attributes). 1st Corinthians 8: 5-6. All early Christian leaders believed in theosis.
7. Belief in God’s Plan of Salvation, given by Jesus Christ to the Apostles during the 40 days after His Resurrection. (Sophia Jesu Christi)
8. Belief in sacred esoteric ordinances which allow faithful Christians to ascend to the highest heaven. Cyril, Bishop of Jerusalem, administered these ordinances until 350 AD. (Catechetical Lectures 20 and 23).
9. Belief in Eternal Marriage, as recorded in the Book of the Apostle Philip. 70:20
Temples teach of 3), 4), 5), 6), 7), 8), and 9)
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Alison SelfridgeMarch 5, 2026
I read all your articles. This one is particularly beautiful. Thank you.
Heather KirkMarch 5, 2026
Thank you for sharing this powerful perspective. I think many people can relate to the concept of wanting to keep their relationship with God above the mess of everyday life. Imagine getting a new pair of high-performance hiking shoes but never wearing them on the dusty, rocky trails for fear of getting them dirty or wearing them out. If we don't put those shoes on and get out there to brave the peril and imperfections of the world, we may feel "safe" for a time. But we'll miss out on so much, more than we realize, and more than we would ever choose if we could see the end from the beginning. Thanks for the reminder to take to the trails, brave the climbs, and embrace the dirt, sweat and tears, together with our fellow travelers. The triumph of reaching the summit awaits us all.
Robert M. JohnsonMarch 5, 2026
NO ORDINARY PEOPLE
“... the dullest most uninteresting person you talk to may one day be a creature which, if you saw it now, you would be strongly tempted to worship. . . There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal. . . ”
—C.S. Lewis, (The Weight of Glory)
SEE PEOPLE AS THEY CAN BECOME
We must develop the capacity to see [others] not as they are at present but as they may become when they receive testimonies of the gospel of Christ.
—President Thomas S. Monson (October Conference 2012)
“Each of us is a son or daughter of God, endowed with something of his divine nature. Each is an individual entitled to expression and cultivation of individual talents and deserving of forbearance, of patience, of understanding, of courtesy, of thoughtful consideration.”
—President Gordon B. Hinckley
BECOMING LIKE GOD
(True Evolution - See D&C 50:24)
24 That which is of God is light; and he that receiveth light, and continueth in God, receiveth more light; and that light groweth brighter and brighter until the perfect day.
LIKE A RIVER - A BETTER DEFINITION OF THE NATURAL MAN
(The Evolution Process)
Being a natural man does not mean being born inherently evil or really troublesome or bad people. The natural man means something like natural resources, like a river. We need to shape it and discipline it. Dam it a little bit here or encourage it a little bit there where it might need to be a little bit more free flowing.
[Being a natural man means] working with a wonderful resource that is potentially powerful and a beautiful terrifically constructive thing. [We] have this natural capability [to become like God] and we're supposed to shape it in the way we tame a river and other natural gifts. Don't be to hard on yourself and surely don't be to hard on other people. Steer that natural gift into a wonderful very attractive aspect of a Latter-day Saint's life.
—Elder Jeffery R. Holland (See For Times of Trouble DVD,3)
JuliannMarch 5, 2026
Beautiful insights well articulated. Thank you
Marjorie BriggsMarch 5, 2026
Beautiful story of the history of the city of Nauvoo and it's restoration. I also wept reading this account thank you for bringing back memories from visiting this beautiful city years ago.
HelenCMarch 5, 2026
Thank you gibbing such clear pictures of a place I yet hope to visit, of not in this life, perhaps as I leave for another?
Kent BucknerMarch 4, 2026
The series is interesting BUT...Bro. England begins to mumble and I am constantly adjusting the volume to hear him, and then I have to reduce it because it is too loud. Please speak up and keep the volume constant. Thanks.
ScottMarch 4, 2026
Thank you for sharing your experience with the temple. I too felt the same when I received my endowment in 1976. I wondered then if I was in the wrong place. Fortunately I went on my mission and didn’t worry about it until I came home. Then it was not until 35 years later that I became an ordinance worker in the salt lake temple and memorized the complete endowment that I began to see the endowment as it
was meant. Now with all the changes it is so much more meaningful. Now as a temple prep instructor as well as an ordinance worker this gives me a f different view of those who struggle and how I might help them understand. Thank you for your wisdom and again for sharing. I attended the Billings temple just last week. One of my favorite temples. The workers were so warm my and friendly. Nothing revelatory just a spiritual experience.
Thad HartmanMarch 4, 2026
Brother Peterson, I enjoyed your article. I have been to Nauvoo experienced the nuances of the city and surroundings. What are your thoughts about Nightfall at Nauvoo?
John BurrowsMarch 4, 2026
Great insights, Mark. I think the church of the devil is found in many forms today, but you have made great points that I would agree with. Your stories add greatly to the article and to your strong testimony of Jesus Christ!
Peter FaggMarch 4, 2026
nicely worded and some great avenues of thought. Thanks
JopkinsMarch 4, 2026
Thank you for sharing Thomas Kanes experience. I also have had the privilege of visiting Nauvoo on several occasions. His recap is beautiful.
Sherie SeegmillerMarch 4, 2026
Great insight.
Roberta HarrisMarch 4, 2026
Such a wonderful article! Thank you Mark. Another great one of yours to discuss in our family.
Charles McClellandMarch 4, 2026
I wept as I read this eloquent description of the sacred city of Nauvoo. Thank you Brother Peterson for sharing this article with us - it is a beautiful gift!
Robert DuzettMarch 3, 2026
Amazing stories, and inspired insight! Thank you Brother Stoddard for your article.
Robert ArbuckleMarch 3, 2026
Mark, really enjoy your life’s experiences. Hope you keep sharing them
David A CookMarch 3, 2026
I believe the church of the devil, like Christianity, has many denominations: Any organization, worldview, belief system, or person that puts itself in place of God as the ultimate source of truth and direction as to how to live your life is one of them.
God's church works to build God's eternal family by binding us to Him and each other. That is His "work and glory." Satan's work is the exact opposite: Anything that tries to destroy those relationships is doing the work of the devil.
Paul BishopMarch 3, 2026
Excellent commentary as usual from this contributor...
Robert M. JohnsonMarch 2, 2026
Lot’s wife returned to Sodom
A reading of Luke 17:29–32 suggests that she did not just “look back”; she apparently went back. Interestingly, the Qur’an also refers to Lot’s wife, she being “of those who stayed behind” (Verse by Verse, The Old Testament Vol. 1 by Andrew C. Skinner, D. Kelly Ogden)
Jan KuesterMarch 2, 2026
I appreciate this article but see nothing about Loy’s wife longing for riches, etc.. she has left family behind and as a mother and grandmother I come to the same conclusion as mentioned above as to why Lot’s wife looked back with longing. My heart of love for God and for following His commandments and guidance have my feet on the covenant path but my mother’s heart longs and aches because my children and grandchildren have chosen not to follow the gospel. In any case she was cursed and this is a tragedy.
BarbaraMarch 2, 2026
I, too, suspect this is the reason that Lot's wife looked back - she most likely was grieving the loss of daughters and grandchildren that are now gone.
Rochelle HaleMarch 2, 2026
I covered this section of the lesson in our study group last week. I was impressed to share that we need to be mindful of temptations and snares that lie ahead of us. Leaving the past doesn't necessarily mean we are home free. This could compare to the story of Esau in this week's lesson. Why did he want to give up his birthright? Because the enticements of the world and present circumstances became more important to him and more easily attainable than the promised eternal blessings later on.
Laurisa ReyesMarch 2, 2026
Genesis says nothing about why Lot’s wife looked back. Everything we’ve been taught to believe are assumptions passed down from hundreds of years of tradition and interpretations. What the bible does say is that Lot tried to convince his sons-in-laws to leave Sodom but they thought he was crazy. Sons-in-laws implies DAUGHTERS. Lot & his wife and two younger daughters left but other daughters, married daughters and possibly grandchildren, were left behind. Lot’s wife looked back - possibly because she knew her kids and grandkids were dying. What mother wouldn’t have looked back? It’s far more telling that Lot, a man and a father, did not look back. I think it’s time to look at this story in a whole new light.
RosieMarch 2, 2026
Thank you for the article and thank you for the comments as i never stop comparing myself to others no matter how I try, a true thief of joy. Yes ,I pray the prayer of mercy often. BTW as a young married in Hugh Nibley's ward I would observe him not stopping his scribbling or reading when the sacrament was passed with any degree of observance, but matter of factly and for my learning that none of us are perfect. This helped me avoid worshipping important people. Whitney Houston was wrong, 'loving ourself isn't the greatest love of all', which came out during that era, and humanism would have us worship humans (ourselves and others) if only we are great enough.
Dave MFebruary 28, 2026
Insightful article that makes several relevant points, thanks! But it skates over an increasingly important issue. Decades ago political parties were an opportunity for like-minded people to work together to further their common views and priorities. Now, I think parties are the source of the division and contention that is weakening our society. The parties determine the priorities and position on issues, not the people, and that drives everything to the extremes. The parties' goal is to gain or maintain power by electing party members, rather than support policies that benefit the people. The majority party does everything it can to silence the minority, like gerrymandering, and abandoning the two best principles to come from the Constitution (separate but equal branches of government, and the necessity to compromise). The current US President says he hates his opponents in the other party, and doesn't even pretend to be the President of all the people. I bet everyone in Utah (of both major parties) has family and friends that they love who belong to the other party. So where does this animosity come from? Some clearly from party and elected officials trying to maintain power. A recent university study also showed that social media and comment boards have been infiltrated by paid foreign agitators trying to weaken our society by making outrageous comments on both sides of contentious issues. Whatever the cause, our society is suffering. How about another essay to cover that?
Dave MFebruary 28, 2026
Maryann, I don't think it's correct to say the party supports abortion - I don't belong to that party, but I think the party supports a woman's right to choose whether or not to have an abortion. Some young women are reported to be choosing between abortion and suicide, and that is tragic. The Church supports certain exceptions to abortion bans, and Pres. Oaks teaches that we can't seek to impose our will on others ("Principled accommodation", not specific to the abortion issue). Alma 5:62 reinforces that teaching. I think most people wish there were no abortions, but we don't know others' circumstances. That's why God gives us opposition and moral agency, so we can choose and be judged on our choices by one who is full of grace and truth (not by other equally flawed people).
Corey D.February 27, 2026
One of the solutions or I should say one of the things that would help in our present political problems/stalemates is we need to get away from the idea that there is only two viable parties, we need a good strong third or even fourth party. I have voted 3rd party in a number of presidential elections, knowing full well it was a losing cause but I believe I am under moral obligation to vote for the best candidates as I see fit. The prophet Joseph was unhappy with what he saw politically and formed his own party which had a platform of principles he felt were moral and were in keeping with what our founding fathers had intended.
Michelle LlewellynFebruary 27, 2026
Not sure what fantasy world the author is living in because anyone who has served a full time LDS mission (especially in the USA or Europe) could not swing a dead cat without running into the awkward situation of cohabitation, men and women having children with multiple partners and just how fast an investigator found an excuse to stop taking the discussions when the subjects of keeping and following God's Law of Chastity commitment and their interest in eternal families that can only happen by a man and woman marrying in the temple. It was very discouraging to me when I came home fom my mission in 1999 to realize marriage and family formation the Lord's way was just another of Satan's brilliant tactics to win the war.
And its working!
T. DorenboschFebruary 27, 2026
The church lessonsbook of this week is about Genesis 24-33. Next week is about Genesis 37-41. I hope you will follow the lessonsbook of the church and talk about Genesis.
HelenCFebruary 27, 2026
Thank you for reminding us that personal revelation is an ongoing, fluid gift and that when we experience a brush with darkness we may actually be getting closer to the light.
JuliannFebruary 27, 2026
Having your grandkids share their real life experiences is what’s going to sell this book. Their honest introspection will be a blessing to other kids. I will buy the book and read these shared stories to my grandkids. Thank you.
Rob JamesFebruary 27, 2026
The issue for me is I live overseas now for the past 15 years and there is no LDS church within 600 miles and the church stopped updating online services. So I feel no use to continue on with the church anymore since I probably will never be able to attend one ever again in person. If there was a virtual LDS ward that would be perfect for people in my situation.
Bob SpielFebruary 26, 2026
You blessed my life as a teenager with "I Challenge You, I Promise You." Excited to see how your wisdom can bless my life again...now at the grandpa stage of life. Thank you!
Glen HopkinsonFebruary 26, 2026
Several of the articles are headlined with art that appears to be AI generated. What is your policy of AI art? Do you credit the artists?
Brad BFebruary 26, 2026
This is an inspired parable that will teach the true meaning of "missing the mark." Thank you for sharing. And I thank you for my grandchildren.
Douglas K ThompsonFebruary 26, 2026
Looking at the full tale,
she missed blaming her weakness, and was counseled.
The next attempt she missed blaming the wind, and was counseled.
Another attempt hit the target but not the right mark, more lessons and counsel.
Another mark (cross) drawn, another miss but much closer (a fingers bredth away).
This tale does not end here - it's open to pondering.
Perhaps through humble repentance, continued study, application of lessons learned, perseverance in honing our abilities . . . we will hit the mark someday. Until then, strive to improve every day...
David PreeceFebruary 25, 2026
The article left out a part of the First Presidency admonition that is just as important. It encouraged members to study candidates carefully and to vote for those demonstrating integrity, compassion and service to others — regardless of party affiliation.
JillFebruary 25, 2026
From way back in the 1970s I understand that Pres James E. Faust and also Dr Hugh Nibley were Democrats.
ShaunaFebruary 25, 2026
thank God for Elder Gilbert and President Holland. It broke my heart to read President Holland's lament about BYU to Elder Gilbert, and I'm SO grateful that President Holland came down in 2021 and reset the standard at BYU. No one loved BYU more than him--no one. I'm an alumnus with 2 BYU degrees, and have 2 kids there now. I have a graduate degrtee from another private university and pursued doctoral work at yet another. the author understands academia well. I couldn't understand why there were "critics" of Elder Gilbert, but now I get it. So grateful for the Board of Trustees (leadership of the Church) standing firm on doctrinal orthodoxy and for Elder Gilbert and President Shane Reese, who is personally involved in 50% of BYU faculty hires, and his academic vice president, in the other 50%. I am so grateful that my kids are at BYU now when they are "bowling for a strike." There is no justification for BYU, or other Church sponsored institutions if they don't align with the teachings and doctrines of the Church
Sasha KwapinskiFebruary 25, 2026
When I first arrived at BYU in the early 1970's, there were several big-name Democrats in Utah politics. These included Govs. Calvin Rampton and Scott Matheson. Also, Sen. Frank Moss, and Congress members Jim Matheson (Scott's son), Wayne Owens, and Gunn McKay.
Mary aHunsingerFebruary 25, 2026
Are you aware Presidents Eyring, Uchdorft and Anderson are listed as Independents? Some of us just can’t put our names on either of the two major political parties list without feeling we are endorsing their policies.
MaryannFebruary 24, 2026
I am all for loving everyone, regardless of their political party, but HOW can a member of the church support a party that has REPEATEDLY supported abortion????????? This party will not even modify their stance or engage in ANY compromise. It is unfathomable to many members of the church. And, NO ONE needs to guess which party I am referring to. I do not wish make a personal attack, to persecute, or to harm. However, it is very understandable that many members of the church are shocked at such support.
ColinFebruary 24, 2026
Thank you, thank you! Some articles by otherwise faithful people on this site have vilified "the left," homogenizing a great variety of viewpoints. But in this article I can feel the goodies of your heart and your desire to make peace. Bravo!
David A CookFebruary 24, 2026
The real "culture of fear" comes from the other side. Too many academics and others are afraid of voicing opinions supporting the church's positions lest their careers be harmed. And with good reason.
My question for those within the church who bemoan Elder Gilbert's call is: "Where do you think the call came from?"
If it was the only the choice of a bunch of out-of-touch old men, why do you stay in such an organization? On the other hand, if it was by inspiration from God, why are you complaining?
You are either in a church you don't really believe in, or you are in opposition to apostles and prophets led by Jesus Christ.
MargaretFebruary 24, 2026
WOW! Thank you for this wonderful, heartfelt, insightful and informative article. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I would hope that all would be gracious and try to see another side to everything that is happening in our country. That we will not be blinded by Satan and the evil in the world.
God bless the American people to repent, to turn to Christ and do what needs to be done to preserve our rights, freedoms and our country. The Book of Mormon has the answers for this to happen.
Thank you again!
Douglas NadybalFebruary 23, 2026
All these connections, in plain sight, most of which woosh went right past me. I read the article, now I will study it. I am both impressed and humbled at the same time. Good job ,Mr. Author.
Douglas NadybalFebruary 23, 2026
The way I reason this is that nobody is important in that they are a lynchpin holding things together. Everybody is replaceable and the Lord does not actually need anybody. And even if you have office, the scriptures make it clear that no body part can say to another part, I have no need of thee.
PhilFebruary 23, 2026
Several summers ago we visited the tourist area on the east side of the valley where Brigham s farm was. Showing the original tress etc. they said that Brigham owned black slaves that worked his farm. Today you said Brigham never owned slaves.
FrancineFebruary 22, 2026
I only hope Hagar receives such a marriage in eternity. Someone who has always loved her. Someone who wants her for herself, not as a way to fulfill prophecy. A real marriage.
Corey D.February 21, 2026
There is so much false information out there right now, particularly about the church and church doctrine or practices etc., easily disseminated because of the internet and in some cases disguised as a Come Follow Me podcast. Church History, garments, tithing, Sabbath Observance are just a few of the things that I have been told about or have seen information or podcasts about online that are presented in such a way that unless you are very careful or discerning or do some research or checking into the background of the individuals and/or the information they are presenting/discussing and the sources of that information you could be easily mislead or deceived or influenced.
Corey D.February 21, 2026
Yah, sometimes rules suck, way too often made by people who have no clue or experience in what they are making rules about. Too many horror stories out there about foster care, those kids were blessed and lucky they were in a home like yours, God bless you.
C. BayFebruary 21, 2026
Theirs was indeed a great love story. But why pretend that they were perfect? Renenber that Sarah's generosity selflessness faltered in the face of contempt from Hagar. Her reaction in sending Hagar and Ishmael into the desert to die was less laudable. If we remove her humanity and fallibility, we make her achievements less impressive. When people with mortal weaknesses — like us — do extraordinary things, they're all the more amazing.
Alece ReynoldsFebruary 20, 2026
Once when "clothing" a woman I was proxy for during an Iniatory ordinance in the Preston, England Temple, the woman said to me, from the other side of the Veil, "Oh, my shining garment"! AND -- she said it with complete awe! The garment, according this this angelic receiver of it, is definitely a garment of light!
Alece ReynoldsFebruary 20, 2026
This article is amazing. It reinforces nearly everything I have learned about temple symbolism in the past nearly 60 years!! Wow -- just Wow!
Kristen OpenshawFebruary 20, 2026
We printed a black/white outline poster of our temple and put it on the wall outside the bishop's office, along with rolls of different colored stickers. Each color represented a family history or temple activity. Whenever an activity was engaged in, a sticker by the individuals participating was placed inside the temple outline. It was soon filled with hundreds of colored dots.
On another year we also created a handcart trek poster, moving a miniature handcart and pioneers along the trail as we fulfilled family history and temple activities (miles) throughout the month of July.
AshleyFebruary 20, 2026
In our ward, we are doing something called "Temple Tag". The youth are finding names to do baptisms for in the temple. Then they will "tag" the adults in our ward to complete the other ordinances. The hope is to flood the temple with our ward members and flood heaven, so to speak, with our ancestors.
Valiant JonesFebruary 19, 2026
I love the connection you make between the two episodes on the Susquehanna river recorded in D&C 128. They do, indeed, parallel the temple drama. Great insight!
NancyFebruary 19, 2026
Dear Becky
I look forward to all of your articles! I aspire to be more like you in many ways. Bless you for all that you do! Is there anything you cannot accomplish?
Much love,
Nancy from Montana
Merilee RobertsFebruary 19, 2026
What a wonderful insightful article! I loved it!
LindaFebruary 19, 2026
Great read....good reminders. Thanks for your efforts in conveying such worthwhile principles.
Tom JohnsonFebruary 18, 2026
Thanks, Mark, for a summary, commentary, and perspective.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 18, 2026
Latter-day Saint at their core or children of Christ? Often this comes up in our "Come, Follow Me" study group. I believe there are good people, living all over the world, who are following God to the best of their understanding and cultural beliefs. None of God's children will be denied the opportunity to return to Him. How wonderful will be the day when they can receive the fullness of the gospel, on earth or in the Spirit World. Even the Catholic church changed their belief about children who die without baptism. How blessed we are that, through the Lord's mercy, no one will be denied the blessings of the gospel and the path to Jesus Christ. Eternal love, eternal families, and other things that may lie only in peoples hearts or imaginations are just a short grasp of faith away.
Mary ScoresbyFebruary 18, 2026
Thanks so much for catching that error! It has been corrected.
Don MFebruary 18, 2026
Thank you for this uplifting and insightful article. Although I had a testimony of Christ, I did not find direction in life until I met the missionaries from the Church who taught God’s entire plan of salvation. What a comfort that was to learn of a just, loving and compassionate Heavenly Father.
BrendaFebruary 18, 2026
Thank you! Just what I needed to hear this morning
Brad HancockFebruary 18, 2026
I am having trouble understanding what the third sentence in this article is trying to say. "Our fellow Christian brothers and sisters also see recognize the role it plays in the scriptures, thought they do not identify with it in the same way we do." It seems there is proof reading error, as the way the sentence is constructed does not make sense.
John H WaitingFebruary 18, 2026
Another excellent article. I have known the Stoddard family since Mark was in High School in England in the ‘60s and am privileged to know them
Kay ClavenFebruary 18, 2026
Thankyou for this article, it has helped me feel the beauty of The Book of Mormon, and appreciate the great prophets that left their messages and testimonies. It has helped my testimony, and I felt a calmness that is hard to find in this world. It was so beautifully written.
LindaFebruary 17, 2026
Thank you for this article! I have been a faithful member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints all of my life, and I love it. Although I now live in Utah, I was raised and lived many years in other places, and I know there are many inspired people of different denominations accomplishing great good. Helping each other accomplish good is Christ-like behavior. Thank you for reminding us!
Darrel R. ThompsonFebruary 17, 2026
Insightful article, looking forward to the next. The reading of these words caused me to rethink past parenting efforts. The importance of parenting is sobering, applicable in a way I had not previous considered.
Jackson PembertonFebruary 17, 2026
This is great! Thank you. After "finishing" raising 10 children and then spending 25 years watching the results of our parenting, I say you are spot on. If I had the opportunity to redo my parenting, I would change a few things. First, I would spend a lot more time studying and teaching how Jesus Christ did this and that and why. Second, I would use natural rights as a vehicle to provide myself and my children with the linguistic tools to first understand child/parent conflict, and second, express conflicts in the language of natural processes, showing that law enforcement, courts trials, and punishments are not what they appear to be on the surface, but a natural process of bringing order into chaos. Like the opposing flows of nutrients and waste products across a cell membrane, like the balance of nature. In short, to think celestial by taking the long view, seeing conflict resolution, and discussing alternate ways to do it.
Thanks again - wish you had written me this letter in 1968!
Sasha KwapinskiFebruary 16, 2026
As a single father who raised my children alone over 17 years, I can wholeheartedly say it was worth it. I will be forever grateful to have had the opportunity and for the blessings that came our way.
VjFebruary 16, 2026
I was so lucky raising 6 children in Miami, where the average number of kids is 2, 6 is unheard of! So over all the years raising them (almost 40 since they’re spread out over 20 years:) our family developed quite a reputation but in all that time I only received 1 negative comment, everyone else was really wonderful to us, so blessed!
And it was so worth it!
Heidi StarkFebruary 16, 2026
What a wonderful article! It reminded me of President Holland’s funeral service. It was well done and tender. I can’t wait to see. How elder Gilbert’s humor comes out during talks and his everyday activities! May the Lord be with them all?
Patrick D. DegnFebruary 15, 2026
To all who have shared such kind and encouraging reflections, my sincere thanks; it is a joy to see the core of this message resonate so clearly. To Gregg, however, I’d like to offer a brief word of clarification, as he has—with the best intentions—misread the way I am using the phrase "Chapel Perilous."
You are quite right that in modern psychological and occult circles—especially following Robert Anton Wilson—the phrase has come to suggest a crisis of sanity or the collapse of a “reality tunnel.” If my article were claiming that the House of the Lord is a place of instability or spiritual paranoia, your concern would be more than fair.
My use of the image, however, comes from its older literary and medieval background rather than its twentieth-century psychological afterlife. In Arthurian tradition (including Malory’s Le Morte d’Arthur, which I cited), the Chapel Perilous is a liminal place where the sacred presses into the “waste land”—a haunted frontier where grace insists on drawing near to ruin. The accent there is not on madness but on encounter: the danger lies in the soul’s unpreparedness for holiness, not in God’s unreliability.
So I am not suggesting that the temple is a house of terror. I am suggesting that it is a traveling holiness that comes to find us when we will not move. That is what I meant in the line: “The temple moves precisely because the disciple refuses to.” The image of the Chapel Perilous, in this context, is meant to describe portable sanctity: the way the garment allows the disciple to carry the atmosphere of the temple into the “lone and dreary world,” much as a coal taken from the altar continues to burn even when it has left the altar.
Your warning against any paranoid or occult reading of the temple experience is a needed caution, and I share it. My use of the word “perilous” is a poetic attempt to name the gravity of consecration, not a diagnosis of psychological peril. Here the “peril” is the peril of standing, as C. S. Lewis might say, under the “weight of glory”—the awe and seriousness that always attends the presence of the Divine in a fallen world.
On this, I think we are very much agreed: the temple is the House of the Lord, a place of peace, order, and instruction. My article simply argues that, through covenant and garment, that peace is not meant to remain shut up in a single building. We are invited to carry it with us—into wastes and wildernesses where, left to ourselves, we would never dare go at all.
Corey D.February 15, 2026
A Latter Day Scripture tells us that violence will be one of the signs of the times and that "Zion" will pretty much be the only safe place, see D&C 45:68. We won't have an ark for safety but Zion. In those verses Zion is an actual place, a location which many believe is here in America. Don't want to get political here, not my intent, but many immigrants have come here to the US in order to escape the violence in the countries or areas they have come from, fulfillment of scripture ?
LaWren BoothFebruary 15, 2026
This is a wonderful insight! One of those rare writings that turns a truth inside out for us to see with a new perspective. Makes me even more thankful for the Restoration. No Christian creed comes close to the joy of physical/ spiritual unity you describe here.
You and Donna definitely deserve some kind of an award! 13 children and not all your own flesh and blood. I thought I had it tough with 4 of my own keeping me going crazy. My hat is off to you both - not least because you didn't leave it all to your wife but got in there and did your bit. Well done both of you. As I said before - definitely deserve an award! My recommendation would be Parents of the Year! Thank you for your example.
JpearseFebruary 14, 2026
I must start by saying l love your podcast and value the time and energy you put into all of your efforts. However, this must have been written prior to June 24, 2022 when the Supreme Court overturned Roe v Wade, Planned Parenthood v Casey and Dobbs v Jackson Women’s Health Organization. Unfortunately now we have many women due to medical issues who are unable to receive the life saving abortion care required in many of the states across the country. I hope you will edit out the statement, “The US Congress cannot even pass a law to help an aborted baby born alive.” As well as, “For instance, in our world, aborting a baby is just a choice.”
That is just no longer a true statement. There are at least 11 women who have made public statements about the physical damage caused because they were denied the abortion care required. At least 2 of the 11 women that have made public statements also died. These are just the few women who have been brave enough to speak out about the choice childbearing women face in our country today because the agency to make decisions about THEIR physical bodies was taken away from them. Thank you, a longtime listener who will continue to listen.
GreggFebruary 14, 2026
"Chapel Perilous" is a term with roots in Arthurian legend that has evolved into a metaphor for a profound psychological or spiritual crisis, popularized largely by author Robert Anton Wilson. It represents a "dangerous enclosure"—a testing ground where an individual must confront their own fears, illusions, and sanity to move from one state of consciousness to another.
Here is a breakdown of its origins and meanings:
1. Arthurian Legend Origins
In medieval romance (specifically Thomas Malory's Le Morte d'Arthur), the Chapel Perilous is a haunted, cursed, or enchanted chapel that serves as a trial for knights.
The Lancelot Adventure: Sir Lancelot enters a chapel filled with black-clothed, grinning knights and a corpse, which is actually a trap set by the sorceress Hellawes.
Significance: It is a, liminal space—a threshold between the mortal and spiritual worlds. It tests a knight's bravery, faith, and chastity, often featuring a "perilous cemetery".
Symbolism: It tests whether a hero is worthy of the Holy Grail, emphasizing that inner purity is as necessary as physical prowess.
2. The Psychological/Modern Meaning
Robert Anton Wilson popularized the term in his 1977 book Cosmic Trigger to describe a specific, intense psychological state.
Definition: It is a state where an individual is uncertain whether an experience was caused by a supernatural/external force or was merely a product of their own imagination.
The Result: Wilson argued that one passes through Chapel Perilous by either becoming a hard-core, paranoid believer or a, skeptical agnostic; there is no middle ground.
Initiation: It is often described as a, rite of passage in, consciousness, where one is forced to question their, reality tunnels.
If any of these definations are the way you view LDS TEMPLES you need to speak with your Bishop, and request that you be able to attend a "Temple Prep Class".
Spolier alert: LDS temples are considered the most sacred places of worship on earth, serving as the "House of the Lord" where faithful members enter to make sacred covenants with God, participate in saving ordinances (such as marriage and proxy baptism for the dead), and receive spiritual instruction to strengthen them for life's challenges.
Not a place where atendeees are challenged or tested.
DianeFebruary 14, 2026
Brother Degn! You might be my new favorite contributor! I love your ‘take’ and insights on so many topics!
Arlene BascomFebruary 13, 2026
This is the most thought provoking article I have read in a long time, and it is so delightfully written. thank you for your wonderful way with words, your sense of humor and significant insights.
Paul BishopFebruary 13, 2026
In answer to Kathryn's comment, my wife is always with me not only in Yosemite but everywhere else. We are each other's best friend rarely apart...especially now we are retired. My wife actually introduced me to Yosemite when we spent our honeymoon there. We now return at least once a year and usually twice to experience the different seasons...
Dennis NewboldFebruary 13, 2026
Matthew 6:25 - body more than raiment
Bruno AraujoFebruary 13, 2026
Estou no Brasil, escrevendo em português para agradecer ao autor por esse belo artigo. Foi o conhecimento mais profundo que aprendi sobre o amor do Senhor ao nos vestir. Muito obrigado por suas palavras tão assertivas e reflexivas.
Joni HiltonFebruary 13, 2026
Absolutely love this!
Buffie BarkdullFebruary 13, 2026
I have rarely read anything that has spoken to my soul more profoundly. I will ponder your words for a long time.
M BooneFebruary 13, 2026
I love this! So well expressed. Reading your words made me feel a bit more curious about the lives of my ancestors. I love how connected you felt after doing a little research. It takes just a few minutes to get to know someone better, whether living or dead.
Though I am not in a time of life to give a whole lot to researching, I look forward to taking some bits of time to connect with the lives and stories of those who have gone before me, and to share them with my children. Thank you for sharing your deep feelings of connection with us.
It also made me think about how one day we will meet these ancestors and be able to thank them for the choices they made to bring us good things or teach us truths.
Kerry FarrFebruary 13, 2026
I. LOVE. THIS.
Lately I have been feeling SO thankful that I live in this time - especially for the vast array of fantastic food! The wonderful pioneers had such a limited choice of things to eat. I want to taste all that is available to me! Even the delectable “junk” food in moderation
We are very blessed!
Rochelle HaleFebruary 13, 2026
We have no definitive answer on what we will eat, hear, or see in the hereafter. However, in1928 Elder Orson F. Whitney said, "Does any sane man or woman believe that an all wise God would create an earth like this and place his children upon it to become expert and skillful as farmers, artisans, engineers, bankers, merchants and whatnot, whisk them away to some distant part of the universe, some world beyond the bounds of time and space where they would sit down and twiddle their thumbs and stare somebody out of countenance for a million years." In the same sense, how many of have imagined (as you have) the gold-paved streets, the color of the flowers and trees, etc. we will find in Heaven? A popular movie from thirty years ago depicted a "spirit world" where visitors could eat anything and as much as they desired. In another film, as he was learning his true identity, Peter Pan and his friends enjoyed a repast of wonderful, imaginary "never food" that became real.
Roseanne HarrisFebruary 12, 2026
Awhile back I received criticism on a Facebook post for saying I had a favorite child. We have a blended family, and several of our adult children have experienced great trials, often turning away from family no matter how much we express our love or our desires to help in any way we can. One also experienced difficulties, but we found common ground. Of course we love all of our children, but we somewhat-jokingly say that this particular child has become our favorite because, in spite of some differences, they continue to check in with us, help us, express their love to us, and share what is happening in their life, and we find much joy in our relationship.
MaryannFebruary 12, 2026
I dearly love ALL of my children, but it isn't wrong to have a favorite, as long as you treat each with the same fairness and loving care. In all honesty, how could you NOT have a favorite? In many ways, they are ALL my favorite for their unique qualities.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 12, 2026
These insights made me weep, what a beautiful account of our Father who brings to us everything He can to help us remember who we are. Thank you Brother Degn, once again.
ShayFebruary 12, 2026
God bless you in this endeavor. I can't wait. I love Brother Joseph and Emma is a personal hero of mine. I hope this gets the notoriety and touches the searching and believing world the way The Chosen has.
HelenCFebruary 12, 2026
Without access to all this marvelous scholarship I have always chosen to consider the extant biblical text as meaning that God’s prophets are mortal men, inclined to weakness, and that the enormous losses Noah suffered when everyone and everything he knew was taken from him might explain a temporary failing.
That being said, the violation of sacred space and the attempt to steal the Priesthood does also make sense.
Thank you for your work.
KjcoFebruary 12, 2026
So this may be a stretch but I could not help thinking about those who choose to record the temple ceremonies and hang the garment out for display or dress up in and mock temple clothing. They seem like they have taken a page from Hams book and may reap the same rewards.
TRobFebruary 11, 2026
Silly me - I thought I was beginning to understand the sacred gift and privilege of the holy garment. You have added depth, beauty and poignant physical connection to my understanding.
KathrynFebruary 11, 2026
Did you go to Yosemite and learn these insights alone? Or with someone else with who you could share them? If alone, why didn't you have your wife with you? Marriage is a huge contribution to the Church; why didn't your wife go with you?
ACFebruary 11, 2026
Discovery of the "Ark Tablet": Decoding the Story of the Flood
In 2009 British Museum curator Irving Finkel, an expert on cuneiform inscriptions on clay tablets from ancient Mesopotamia, received for examination and translation what came to be known as the "Ark Tablet" from its owner Douglas Simmonds. The tablet dates from 1900-1700 BCE. This is the only cuneiform tablet with precise instructions as to how to build the Ark described in the early accounts of the flood, best known through later accounts in literature, such as the Epic of Gilgamesh. The Ark Tablet provided instructions for building the Ark in the form of a very large round boat called a coracle. A coracle is a rounded, lightweight boat https://historyofinformation.com/detail.php?id=4060
JanetteFebruary 11, 2026
Beautiful article and such a great reminder!
Jackson PembertonFebruary 11, 2026
Thank you for this insightful treatment of entropy and chaos! The related scriptures are fascinating; like opposition in all things, to act and not be acted upon, etc. The third law of thermodynamics applied to existence reveals a God with exactly the characteristic he has: intelligence, and the power that enables.
I have been working on these same concepts for a few years, based on a idea that came to me as I wrote the Bicentennial feature series for The Freeman; the magazine published by the Foundation for Economic Education in 1976. https://fee.org/people/jackson-pemberton/
The 2nd in the series was about natural rights and the example of a beaver cutting down a tree seemed to say that it had dominion, power, and authority over the tree sufficient for his needs, and that authority could be correctly seen as natural rights in action.
You may be interested in this view of natural rights because it confirms your understanding by grounding it on the basic structure of the universe. https://universalrights.ai/temporal-rights-an-executive-summary/
Thank you again for that treatment of chaos!
Richard GarrisonFebruary 11, 2026
Becky, thanks as always for sharing such inspirational stories and examples of wonderful, God-fearing people that "naturally" live Christ-like lives of giving and service!
Debra OsbornFebruary 11, 2026
This was an outstanding article. Despite cultural differences, your ability to put those men at the dinner in their place was admirable.
JeanFebruary 11, 2026
How true! How true! Thank-you for sharing these lovely stories about Mani, Becky. They are heart-warming and inspirational.
DonnaFebruary 11, 2026
I would love to read this but this article doesn’t continue. Can we only listen? Not practical for me, therefore I have to put it away.
LewisFebruary 11, 2026
What a beautiful reminder of God’s love for all His children. Our Savior welcomed all without exception. Your stories bring to life in such practical ways the gospel principles we must all strive to live by. Thank you for sharing your gift.
Sally MaddocksFebruary 11, 2026
A wonderful article that made my heart swell with love.
MaryannFebruary 10, 2026
I appreciate your wonderful article speaking out for the truth regarding the lives of Latter-day Saint women. However, I am not exhausted by the false representations. First of all, I don't watch them, and secondly, I think the Book of Mormon Prophet, Lehi, gave us an excellent example when he spoke of those who "mock" us from "the great and spacious building. He said: "We heeded them not." Yes, we must stand as examples of faithful LDS women, and also speak the truth boldly. But, I don't think we need to be "exhausted."
Rochelle HaleFebruary 10, 2026
I love looking around our congregation to spot newcomers, new move-ins, or those passing by on vacation. It has not always been easy to go out of my comfort zone. Several years ago I welcomed a new family after praying that I would have the courage to do so. I almost didn't greet them, then the Spirit whispered to me to remember my prayer. They soon were baptized and became a wonderful addition to our ward. My husband and I have met wonderful people when we have attended church while traveling. Once we were clear across the country. I felt impressed to bear my testimony. Afterward the meeting, a family ran to meet us. Their son was currently as a missionary in our ward. Another time we attended a ward in another state and found out the bishop's wife was related to a beloved sister from our ward who had recently passed. The bishop and his wife took us under their wing and greeted us as if we were long-time friends. The wife, also Relief Society President, was particularly kind and included me in Relief Society. A kind man in my mother-in-law's former ward collected and polished small rocks from the beach. He would greet everyone, especially strangers, and hand them a rock as he welcomed us. I still have them.
Mark W MinerFebruary 10, 2026
So insightful, beautiful, and well-written. Thank you, brother.
Lori DriggsFebruary 9, 2026
Your articles have been the highlight of my study this year! Please keep them coming and write a book!
Coreen BousfieldFebruary 9, 2026
Wow, amazing and so beautiful! Thank you so much for blessing those of us who are fortunate enough to read your powerful, meaningful and touching words.
Judy PerryFebruary 9, 2026
On second reading--this OUGHT to be a s
discussion in ALL Temple preparation classes..
And by the way-- I.M.H.O. I believe any couple planning a Temple marriage ought to be required to take PRE-marriage couples counseling prior to marriage as our Catholic brothers and sisters are required in order to be married in their church buildings.
Judy PerryFebruary 9, 2026
WOW!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!
S RichardsonFebruary 9, 2026
"Stone, in this sense, represents continuity and permanence..."
Having spent many days in and on local mountains as well as at Yosemite, I've constantly marveled at how well they have withstood countless eons of natural forces to still be standing tall and strong. It's no coincidence that the temple is called "the mountain of the Lord's house." Though our bodies and minds decline, these "mountains" remind us that some things, including God's promises, never change.
Alan SandersFebruary 9, 2026
In all of the turmoil, political unrest, protests, etc. I am always reminded of what Joseph Smith Taught in the Articles of Faith, particularly number 11, and 12. In looking at any of the mass movements that even members of the church are enlisted in, I believe that we all need to ensure that our actions are in line with what we have been taught. Allow others their agency, obey, honor, and sustain the law.
MaryFebruary 9, 2026
Such an incredible reading! Absolutely beautiful, profound writing. Thank you!
Rhoda AndersonFebruary 9, 2026
Thank you for putting into words the sacred emotional, yet practical, journey of life. Beautiful and enlightening.
Rhoda AndersonFebruary 9, 2026
Wow! What a poetic way of bringing this idea to light! Well written. I'm saving this one in my files to review often.
Corey D.February 9, 2026
A wonderfully relevant article, all the comments are proof of that. You'd be surprised how many folks have had the thought "if I was ever to speak in General Conference". Many years ago in the ward we were in at the time and back in the old 3 hour meeting schedule and at a time when classes had a solo teacher which of course is a big no-one anymore, I was asked last minute to teach the 13-14 yr old SS class because the teacher had not shown up, one girl showed up, we were new in the ward and hardly new anybody, certainly did not know any of the youth, I also found out later this young lady only came to church once in a while so I'm sure she felt pretty out of place, all alone and the teacher is somebody she doesn't know. I went ahead and taught her the lesson. A week or two later one of the Young Women leaders told my wife that this young lady mentioned to her about being the only one in class and she was sure she would just get shuffled into one of the other classes and was surprised when that didn't happen and then said, that was one of the nicest things anybody had ever done for her, made her feel important. I have never forgotten that. My point with this is, God loves us all and knows us perfectly and personally but sometimes, maybe a lot of the time it's hard to feel like we matter or are important to him, that's where we as family members, ward members, neighbors, teachers, leaders, etc, come in, we need to be aware of those around us because oft times how God lets his children know they are important and important to him is through us.
Tammy TaylorFebruary 9, 2026
Wow! Thank you for sharing the “enchantment”! Such beautiful thoughts that take our every day mundane life into a kingdom of light that we can carry with us. Thank you for sharing a bit of royalty that we can keep in our hearts.
D. Jynn JohnsonFebruary 9, 2026
Stunning insights! Beautifully delivered! This is a total game-changer for me after wearing this skin of holiness for nearly 70 years. Thank you!
Corey D.February 9, 2026
A really wonderful, insightful and thought provoking commentary. New insights to think about in regards to Heavenly Father, the temple and the garment, thank you.
Steve DoneganFebruary 9, 2026
As I sit in my quiet house this morning and contemplate the words you’ve written, I realize my life will never be the same. Thank you for being “one of the best books” we’re told in the Doctrine and Covenants to read.
Corey D.February 9, 2026
Well written article, pretty much all your articles have been well written and insightful. One would expect to see a degree in English or Creative Writing in your Bio not a career in Law Enforcement. Well done.
Gary StrobleFebruary 8, 2026
Last two paragraphs repeat.
AyseFebruary 8, 2026
This article is not only amazing, it is so full of the truth about how we all learn best. So well written because it is clear and easy to understand. Thank you for opening my eyes how better to share the Gospel.
Corey D.February 8, 2026
To me, the Book of Moses and particularly Enoch's story is some of the greatest scripture we have and Moses chapter 7 especially verses 28-30 are some of not only the most touching, powerful and inspirational verses there are but some of the greatest poetic literature that exists.
Carolyn MadsonFebruary 8, 2026
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your commitment to this project! For those many of us who love the prophet Joseph, truth and light will gratefully come forth because of you and your team!
Prayers continue for all of you….
Michelle LlewellynFebruary 8, 2026
The most ingenious and insightful general conference talk ever given will be the one directed to the single and childless women in the church over the age of 35, the current YSA cutoff age. Aside from the single, childless man who cries himself to sleep every night questioning his worth and value because he failed to catch a wife, there is no greater example when it comes to church culture definition of a "nobody"
DebbieFebruary 7, 2026
I enjoyed your article and could relate to how you feel. I know you are a very accomplished woman and I enjoy reading your Meridian articles. I will look for your book. You are a leader and loved by many who read here.
Chris ChennaultFebruary 6, 2026
Awesome. Great. Amazing. Thank you so much for this wonderful broadcast. It really helps me in my preparation to lead discussion in Sunday School.
Marcia E.February 6, 2026
Thank you for your vision and inspiration to stand by the side of Joseph! I will share this everyone, and can't wait for the videos to be out there. The influence of Social Media has further destroyed Joseph's reputation, and your efforts will be tremendous in bringing back the balance of truth and light. Thank you Proctors!
DebbieFebruary 6, 2026
Thank you Scot and Maurine! You are just amazing for all that you do!! We are so very blessed!
ColinFebruary 6, 2026
I can only imagine the lens condensation as soon as you move indoors from the cold. Lots of plastic bags in use, no doubt! Good luck with the gear and the shooting.
SiriFebruary 6, 2026
You may feel like you don’t touch people, but I really needed to read this, I have tears because your spirit is so strong. Thank you for bringing this to my heart at this time.
Debbie KentFebruary 6, 2026
This project sounds amazing! Thank you for the heads up, and a bigger Thank You, for loving Brother Joseph and all he sacrificed to bring His truth, as in The Savior, and His gospel truth to the world. May the Spirit guide and protect all who will be involved.
Tracey GrowFebruary 6, 2026
What a project! May you have the strength you need to complete it. Loving Joseph brings joy to know that I can come to love him more.
BrentFebruary 6, 2026
WOW! I’m not sure I have or can find the words I feel about your commitment to this project about Joseph Smith, and your strong commitment to it!
I for one have a strong belief and love for this man, and strongly believe in him and am blown away by the negativity of those who disbelieve in hm.
Simply said, I’m excited to follow along with you in this project, and commend you all in this effort. Thank you!
GayeFebruary 6, 2026
Thank you for your insights ghat apply in so many ways as we interact with adult children and their children, our beloved grandchildren.I would add the granddaughter has two sets of grandparents. If the other grandparents are near, work to develop a positive, cooperative relationship with them. They can also be a source of support for the sweet child. I am so grateful for the wonderful relationship I have with the other grandparents of my grandchildren. I learn from them and rejoice my grandchildren have wonder people who love them. I gained dear friends through our shared grandchildren.
It may be harder in the case of a divorce, but saying whatever disagreements may have occurred in the marriage, we can all agree it wasn't this child's fault and she needs us to work together to be loving, nurturing, protecting adults. Can we do that for her?
This would be much harder in cases of abuse or infidelity, but still as important. If grandparents can find the strength to remove animosity or to model giving grace, while still supporting their child, perhaps it will be possible for that seed to grow.
KathleenFebruary 6, 2026
WOW - he was an incredible Saint, leader and missionary!
Debra WoodsFebruary 5, 2026
Thank you so much for the meaningful message you shared this store - I needed so much! After a stroke in October, I have been in much medical and social teaching to overcome my serious memory and physical backfeeding and have made a remarkable improvement but am still far to go. Because you talked about Enoch, and Zion - words I used to fully understand but now feel confusion by, your choices and personal stories so well expressed fed my understanding greatly - thank you so much as I finally felt ready today to return to read/listen to your magazine again.
Jamie QuistFebruary 5, 2026
Thank you for this article. I enjoy reading about the struggles and faithfulness of the early saints.
ShaunaFebruary 5, 2026
this was super helpful--thank you. we are indeed often looking for the wrong things in relationships. I may share this with my YA children
ShaunaFebruary 5, 2026
thank you. what a wonderful, insightful article about Testimony. When I recently gave a talk on faith, I noted how often the verb exercise is used in conjection with faith--we need to exercise faith. So I love your comments about needing to move with our testimonies, even when they seem weak. They are like a spiritual muscle that needs to be flexed..and let's face it, just like a physical muscle, sometimes we don't want to go to the gym.
MaryannFebruary 4, 2026
Wow! Look at all these comments! Looks like you inspired people with your words! I have always felt annoyed with the idea of "important callings." Callings should NEVER be considered "promotions," or badges of righteousness. I have served in stake callings, and it always grated on my nerves when people would offer "congratulations!" Unless you are also "congratulating" the ward nursery leader, primary teachers, or every other calling, congratulations are inappropriate. Our worth or "importance" is not judged by the callings we receive. There is also a real problem with thinking that we can find personal validation, or greater "points" from God, because we have a certain calling. In fact, if we are looking for a feeling of being more important because of a calling we receive, we are guilty of pride. We serve out of love for God and others, NOT for the gratification of our own pride. I believe we are ALL important, and that we make a much greater difference in the lives of others than we think we do. We are not objective about ourselves, which can cause us to fail to recognize the good we are accomplishing. I often feel like people who attend church and never bare their testimonies vocally ARE baring them by being present week after week. Can't we FEEL the spirit all around us because we are simply with those who share our faith? Simply showing up is a big deal! AND very important.
MaryannFebruary 4, 2026
What a beautiful article! Satan would love to make us believe we don't have a testimony because we have doubts or unanswered questions. Not so! We see so many examples of "enduring to the end" in the scriptures and in our current day-to-day lives. When we feel forgotten by God, confused, or discouraged, THAT is the time we need to keep going. Keep praying, keep reading the scriptures, keep attending church---especially if you have stopped doing those things. It's not over. You CAN begin again. And, as noted here, service is a great way to rekindle our testimony and our spirits. On our darkest days, we can still seek for the Light.
MaryannFebruary 4, 2026
Having three of my seven children leave church activity has been one of the most gut wrenching, painful events of my life. I was very grateful that my son announced this to my husband over the telephone so that I had a chance to calm down. If he had told me this personally, I know I would have become unhinged. HOW does someone who faithfully served a mission, married in the temple, sincerely voiced their testimony many times, served diligently as Elder's Quorum President, fall way and reject the very foundation of Christ's gospel that they were raised with their entire lives? It is inconceivable to me, yet I know many parents are experiencing this. My advice is to avoid any conversation when you first get the news, because it is not going to be pretty. "I love you, and cannot talk about this right now" is sufficient. If you pretend everything is just peachy, you are lying to them and to yourself. We have continued to love and communicate that love to our three children, but it has been a blow you never really "get over." I am watching my beautiful grandchildren grow up without the gospel. One of my granddaughters will be eight this year. My heart is broken that she will not be baptized, or even know about the principle. She will go through her teen years without the strength that comes from church attendance, commitment to the Savior and His gospel, and the gift of the Holy Ghost. We do not argue, debate, or put our children down. We do not drop "hints" that they should return. We just love them, but the loss we feel is indescribable. I survive with the knowledge that they are in the Lord's hands and he loves them. We continue to pray for them, and we will never give up hope.
Elaine PenceFebruary 4, 2026
A recent Come Follow Me lesson focused on God calling people with weaknesses to do His work. There were numerous examples of how He qualifies his children to do what He wants us to do. He promises that if we open our mouths they will be filled. I have also tried to do some of those more public things, writing, YouTubing,etc. because I want so desperately to share what I have experienced in drawing closer to the Savior, experiencing his love, peace and joy. I am consistently reminded of two things. 1. I am making a difference as I BECOME more like Him and I am influencing people that I live and work around on a day to day basis; as I open my mouth it is filled. 2. I should not give up when I fail. That is my time of learning by experience and learning to continue to work and not give up. (Do not be discouraged God is over all) That is how we show faith and then God can "add His power to our efforts" as President Nelson said.
Sherry McMullinFebruary 4, 2026
Dear Kimberly,
Thank you for your sweet encouragement to all of us. My husband and I have been in the nethermost parts of the vineyard for all 60 years of our marriage. We too can claim no leadership positions or public influence. Working in a current mission ,I was asked to prepare a sketch of my life and given
examples of the three members of the mission presidency. Every one of them was daunting - long lists of temple positions, including presidencies, former missions (3 or 4), "high" stake and ward callings,
successful children (we lack those too). It was as if they were saying,
"Look at how much Heavenly Father has honored me."
I hope to be able to write something that might remind them that those of us in the trenches, who seem to have no value, really do.
In one corner where we work with only 30 others,
another missionary said, "I would rather be here doing it than sitting in class talking about it." So true. Perhaps no one else notices and there is no worship or admiration, but Heavenly Father knows and cares.
My favorite scene from To Kill a Mockingbird involves Atticus sitting with his brother in the parlor, knowing that Scout is hiding and listening from the stairs. The brother asks (after one of Scout's antics), "What
are you going to do about her?" Atticus answers, "Scout knows that I know she is trying."
I believe with all my heart that He knows we are trying, even if no one else ever does.
Thank you for your comfort.
RosieFebruary 4, 2026
I think the number of comments says it all.
Now that I'm older I feel so insignificant and struggle with feeling valued as my ability to serve in the church is quite limited as I am a tired caregiver.
Too much of my life has been spent pursuing worth in our church society. If we don't seek for worth in the world, sometimes we seek it in our wards and stakes. However, it might have be a false distraction.
I really wonder if we can ever be a Zion people if we're always name dropping and trying to link to this or that important person in the church; or if we've had 'grand' important spiritual experiences others seemed to have experienced etc. etc.
Zion might just be made up of people aren't trying to be somebody special or who don't really think much of themselves most of the time, but rather focus outwardly.
Do we really believe that it's about 'the one'? We felt inspired to start a youtube channel with inspirational music and have very few views, but I had the thought if only one person is touched and closer to Christ through it, it was worth it.
Thank you for your honest article, it's refreshing.
Sally MaddocksFebruary 4, 2026
Such a well written article. Thank you for reminding us of how our testimonies can ebb and flow
GusleyFebruary 4, 2026
I agree. I generally feel so insignificant. But as I taught a recent lesson to my students about Enoch, I wondered about all the people we don't read about. Enoch was called to be the prophet, but there must have been people within the city who became leaders in their own way to help create unity and build the City of Zion. Those people are not named - perhaps a father, mother, sibling, extended family member - but each helped to build Zion. My name will never be in lights, in scripture, or even in many people's memories, but I am doing my best, and I trust that the Lord is grateful for my efforts, as well.
Yolanda Bassett in Kingwood, TexasFebruary 4, 2026
Thank you sister Kimberly White. In many ways, you told my story. I'm grateful to share that today I know that in spite of me, He has placed in places and line of work where I can have the opportunity to be a light, to reflect The Light, the Savior that I love. My patriarchal blessing tells me that I would have the opportunity to be an influence to those that come within the bounds and in the circle of my acquaintance. Large or small this circle can be, in one way or another, in the Church or at work, I'm blessed to know that I can be an influence for good. We can all be, if we so choose.
Some hours ago I wrote in my journal the answer to the question "What encouraging words would my Heavenly Father and my Savior tell me now as I kneel in prayer? And I wrote: "Look at you, how far you have come! Good for you, good for you. I knew you would because, in your heart, you have always loved me and chosen me. I AM with you forever. I have always loved you and been aware of you" . My heart and tears swelled up and I felt Him near. What a tender mercy! And He does it for each of us, as we seek Him.
Micky BowersFebruary 3, 2026
What an amazing article! There is so much to consider and chew on, I definitely want to be "re-enchanted" and rediscover the wonder of the gospel as a result of what I have read.
Esther SmithFebruary 3, 2026
I follow you. I will read anything you write. You are a gifted, insightful disciple.
T.L. McRaeFebruary 3, 2026
Your words struck a cord with me…someone who feels invisible. We must all know that we are not invisible to God even though, we often feel that way. Your influence goes far beyond a calling in the Church. Just think of that…far beyond, and one day you will see how far. You write well, and I am sure have touched many hearts. Just look at all the comments. God definitely is aware of you and loves you.
Richard GardnerFebruary 3, 2026
Thank you!
NatFebruary 3, 2026
Excellent. Thank you for this touching, honest piece.
Kimberly SmithFebruary 3, 2026
I love reading articles by Patrick Degn. I have taken adult institue classes from him in the past and he is by far the best and most powerful speaker and writer. He opened the scriptures for me that has had a very profound affect on my life. I am eternally grateful for his ability to share the gospel in such a life changing way
BarbFebruary 2, 2026
That was a beautiful article. You put us where we all belong.....together!
JeffFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for writing a personal and important message to the rest of us nobodies.
David MalpasFebruary 2, 2026
Very well written, thanks. I think most of us see something of ourselves in this thoughtful piece. I also think you might underestimate the actual quiet influence you may have on others. I have found that just by living the gospel as best you can (flaws and warts included) people notice. And are quietly, and secretly, influenced. Keep it up. Love the article.
Linnea HoyosFebruary 2, 2026
Kimberly, I agree with you on your main point. Everyone is important to God. After reading your bio though, I have to disagree with your other point. You are somebody important! I've never written a book. I don't have a degree, let alone one in philosophy.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and the wonderful exchange you had with your Father in Heaven. He cares about each of us no matter how unimportant we feel we are in the scheme of things.
David BallifFebruary 2, 2026
Kimberly, Thank you for this beautiful article. You matter to me!
Margaret BourneFebruary 2, 2026
You are so right my good sister. This world and this Church is full of 'nobodies' as you put it. And I am another one. But we are not nobodies because the King of All Creation loves us. And if He is a King, then we must be - have to be - Princesses. And Princesses are not nobodies. They - we - too, are Royal in the most noble sense of the word. Just as He is. And we have infinite possibilities just as He does. Now let that soak in for a minute and then truly appreciate who you really are..
LoraFebruary 2, 2026
Very insightful. You may have already tried Toastmasters as a way to hone your public speaking skills, but it would help you to have a wider audience. The Church is a relatively small field. Just a thought. And for anyone reading this who thinks that Toastmasters is for "professional speakers", no, it's for people who FEAR public speaking. It makes bad speakers good, and good speakers better.
Kandace PrisbreyFebruary 2, 2026
Beautifully said! You have stated a tender truth that we often forget.
Thank you!
Leonard BoydellFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for your article. I think we all have a part in the gospel, big cog or little cog, we are helping to keep things running and progressing. I have been blessed to have many front line callings, up to stake president, but I didn't necessarily feel important because of them, or even up to the job, but I did try to do my best in spite of what I saw as my limited potential or capabilities. I just hoped that somewhere along the way I touched someone's life for good, just as I am sure you do, in your own way, on a regular basis.
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 2, 2026
Enoch was important for Heavenly Father and he was translated, but all the city of Zion was translated, therefore all of them were important. They were translated because of Enoch, and Enoch was translated because of them. He knows you, He loves you, and He cares for you and you and all His children are important for Him and that's the reason He has helpers for YOU.
OldFacilitiesManFebruary 2, 2026
Well I have been waiting for another great article from you. And I am very grateful for this thoughtful and honest contribution. You have a talent for saying what needs to be said. Thanks for sharing this personal experience. I think that “they “ call it being vulnerable. It’s very hard to do thanks for sharing.
Taylor StonelyFebruary 2, 2026
What a great article! What you said mattered to me because I often feel the same way. It’s nice to be reminded of this, so thank you!
Steve DoneganFebruary 2, 2026
I could have written this. I don’t keep a journal as it would be filled with this message. Here’s what I’ve learned: those influential people don’t have time for our neighborhood, they don’t have time for our family, they don’t have time for me. To paraphrase a sign we gave my father: God couldn’t be everywhere, so He created [you]. God can be everywhere, but He loves us when we reach out. Continue to reach out. You’re touching lives others can’t/won’t. You’ve touched mine, and I’m very grateful.
LaurieFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for this article. I have been living with the same unimportant feeling for many years and have had very few leadership callings that usually lasted for a few months. Then I was released because I failed miserably at those too. Your article touched my heart to know that others feel th same way but knowing all of us are important to God, even when we fail, makes me realize that God is the only One whose opinion matters. And He loves us in spite of our imperfections.
DonaldFebruary 2, 2026
Dear Kimberly, far as I can look at, your are a genuine influencer worldwide known within the spreading of the Meridian Magazine...
I really appreciate the way you express your thoughts in so many of your publications that we can refer under your name...
One of your nobodies fans. Donald (Montréal French Quebec)♂️
Lana JohnsonFebruary 2, 2026
I so so so relate to this article! I imagined being a stake relief society president I even thought I had "a prompting" that I would be called! It took "all of 5 seconds", as the saying goes to realize that I was a nobody and would NEVER even be considered let alone be called.. I'm like you never a president but in presidencies...however it's been 7 years since I've had a "formal" calling. The Church doesn't want or need me but my Savior does! There hasn't been a day go by that I haven't done some kind of "president" like service! That's my calling to be anxiously engaged in the Plan of Salvation!!!! I love my "calling " from the Lord- to do what He wants done and to become as He is. I love that my commission is between the Lord and me. He has never once failed me in serving Him... I love the Herbew word Hineni- Here am I willing and available to serve!♥️ that's me!! God is good and God is Love ❤️
ClaireFebruary 2, 2026
This is beautiful! I really needed this today! Thank you for reminding us that each of us is important to God… even me.
Rob ArnoldFebruary 2, 2026
"Nobody's" are persons OF the world! I am a child of God, so therefore I've always been Somebody!
WallyFebruary 2, 2026
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing your sweet experience.
Ken ButlerFebruary 2, 2026
Reminds me of a person I love that said most beef is tough. Most putts don't drop....
Leilani CookFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for this. I'm crying to know that I am important to God, in the better sense of the word-worthy of His attention. You shared a piece of your heart with us. You are wonderful.
RaLee HallFebruary 2, 2026
Kimberly White,
I know you through Meridian Magazine. I recognize your face.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for your words. I wish more new members and others would catch the vision of the importance of callings and how much the Lord needs us to help build his Kingdom. Nothing is too small, from the greeter to the preparer of the Sacrament meeting bulletin. However, I have been released from callings and felt the sting, wondering if I wasn't good enough or if so-and-so leader didn't like me. I currently hold the same calling in both my ward and stake. Our high counselor calls it "non-essential." Nevertheless, I do my best to interact with ward and stake leaders to fulfill my responsibilities. I strive to do my best, as I believe the callings came from the Lord, and to put behind me any thoughts of discouragement or that my service isn't of value to Him.
AftonFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for this. What a wonderful message that I needed to hear. I think we all need to hear the message that God loves us very personally.
AliceFebruary 2, 2026
Right on sister! I feel the same way.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for your words. I wish more people would catch the vision of callings and serving, even if they aren't called, or even if they are asked to be a greeter or building-cleaner. This is something that all of our new members need. The Lord needs all of us and our talents. That being said, our feelings often come into play. Why can't I be called to...? Didn't I do a good job? Was I released because.... didn't like me? I currently hold the same calling in both my ward and stake. Last week at a meeting, our overseeing High Counselor told me (and others who serve in the same capacity in their wards) that my calling is non-essential. I take my calling seriously, and I do my best to engage with others in my ward to accomplish the things I've been called to do. His remark was well-intended, but I still felt that my service was a little behind-the-scenes and not too important. Nevertheless, I strongly believe that my call came through inspiration, and I will continue to do my best to serve the Lord.
K CFebruary 2, 2026
Bless you for saying out loud what most of us think and feel. So glad you had that witness and shared.
CaryFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you, Kimberly. You get it. Thank you for saying it.
HelenCFebruary 2, 2026
Some of the best people I know are, or were, “nobodies”. Like my friend Colette, who died from cancer in her early 60s. Before she died, she went to the Portland, Oregon Temple to release the hundreds of family names she wouldn’t get to take through. My husband knew and loved her and her first husband’s children; my first husband and I and our children knew and loved her and her last husband and their children.
When my oldest daughter died from breast cancer at 41, despite her having left the Church at 18 I felt the need to ask my Home Teachers to give her a blessing while she was in her final coma. She couldn’t object and I needed the peace of trying everything I knew. They did not say she would be healed but that she would heal. Dozens of friends have been impacted by her like and death, including the ones who passed on messages she sent them for me. “Now I understand” was my favorite. Just this weekend her stepson was in ICU, struggling to regain brain function after an error with his insulin caused his blood sugar to drop to 20. When his mother asked if she was there, the brainwave monitor went crazy!
We all have our callings.
DORAFebruary 2, 2026
Be comforted. You matter. You are read. We all are beloved sons and daughters and Heavenly Father has a mission for each of us. Trust Him until the end. Dream big and then do all in your power to make that dream come true. And the Lord will do the rest.
CaraFebruary 2, 2026
Thanks so much for sharing a very personal and inspiring experience that is real
Kathi EatonFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you, Kimberly… Your article touched me more than anything I’ve read in quite awhile. It brought me to tears. How wonderful to know that we are ALL truly important to the most important being in the universe our Heavenly Father!
MimiFebruary 2, 2026
Spirit-filled and confirming. Thank you, Madam important, "nobody".
Ann JFebruary 2, 2026
This is such an imperfect way of saying something so perfect that we all need to hear, know and feel. Thank you for sharing so many of my thoughts and helping me to remember, even if it is just for today, that I am important to him.
Trudy NaylorFebruary 2, 2026
Beautiful. Thank you.
Jan RasmussenFebruary 2, 2026
That was a wonderful article and thank you for writing it. Now that you have said those things out loud you should probably prepare yourself for some leadership positions. I have found the Lord calls those who are willing to serve and then teaches them how. Certainly it is not because they are better or more qualified. I will be looking for more of your articles in the future!
KirkFebruary 2, 2026
I’ve seen myself in these examples of challenging conversations. Thanks for the inspired direction and suggestions. My heart is touched and I’m taking notice of ways I can be better.
LindaFebruary 2, 2026
Welcome to the world of the ‘ninety and nine’. We all feel invisible, and yet we are not. Our reach doesn’t need to be worldwide. In fact, that might truly be to onerous. LOCALLY is how we change the world. Failure is an unworthy word. The right motive at the wrong time might just be the wrong motive….right now. A single woman with no children, in a church of families, is not a failure for not accomplishing that VITAL CALLING. GOD IS IN THE DETAILS of our lives. ‘There is a time and purpose to everything. Breathe and enjoy the joy, the grind and the lessons. I believe we are entering a time of MUCH MORE LEARNING and wrestle. We all will need to lean harder on each other….personally, not globally.
Mark W MinerFebruary 2, 2026
Well- and humbly-written, Kimberly--thanks so much for sharing!
Ami BartholomewFebruary 2, 2026
I read your article. and I love your insight. I think there are many of us who feel like you do, that we are insignificant and unimportant. Thank you for the reminder that we do matter. And that we matter to the most important and influential being in existence. That's not a small thing!
PaulineFebruary 2, 2026
I can relate. Thank you for your insightful message. I believe it’s valuable!
ClaireFebruary 2, 2026
Such a blessing to know!
LindaFebruary 2, 2026
What a fabulous article!!! You have expressed the sentiments of sooooo many in your heartfelt thoughts. THANK YOU!
AshleyFebruary 2, 2026
This was a great article. Thank you.
ChristinaFebruary 2, 2026
This is beautiful. Thank you, Kimberly White. The somebody who just brought tears to my eyes.
AnnFebruary 2, 2026
I’m sitting here in tears after reading this article. I just finished my morning prayer with a feeling of such discouragement that I felt like I couldn’t keep going, though I don’t even know what that would look like. My story is similar to yours, but I struggle with depression and now some memory issues. Everything is hard and I find little joy in my life. Your article touched me and helped me remember that though this life is hard Heavenly Father and Jesus love me too, and I am important to them. Please know that your influence on just me means you have influence, even if it’s only one person at a time. You mean more than you recognize to more people than you know.
Wendy QuirkeFebruary 2, 2026
When your children no longer go to church, should you initiat a conversation or say nothing?
Sally MaddocksFebruary 2, 2026
I think everyone in the church feels this at times. This was a great article to remind me that I am loved and important to God
L. ReyesFebruary 2, 2026
Beautifully said. I know there are times I feel like an utter failure. But I am not a failure in God’s eyes. Romans 8:1 reminds me that as long as I am walking with the spirit, God does not condemn me. Just keep heading in the right direction.
MaryFebruary 2, 2026
You are important to me also! I see and feel such a similarity to you, and it was an absolute delight to read your article. It was the best testimony I could ever had listened to. Thank you! I’m pretty well up there in age, and still keep going and keep trying even though I have not been who I thought I would be. I’m so grateful I read your article! It saved me from more heartache.
JimFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you so much for this wonderful insight. I think all of us at times wonder if what we are doing is acceptable to Him.
SaraFebruary 2, 2026
I love this! And, of course, you never know what influence you have, for instance, here on this platform being willing to share your thoughts. I am finding that having those insightful thoughts and organizing them and writing them out is important to my spiritual development whether anyone else ever benefits. It strengthens my love of God and connection to him, my gospel understanding, and my knowledge of His love for me. Isn’t it beautiful that he speaks to each of us both for our benefit and our ability to share his His love?
Edson LopesFebruary 2, 2026
Heart-warming and motivating. Humbling too. Thanks.
TinaFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for reminding me to listen to God's voice and not the discouraging thoughts of the adversary. I think we all desire to make a difference in the world and we are bombarded with the idea that that only happens on large platforms but the scriptures remind us that by small and simple means are great things brought to pass.
MarkFebruary 2, 2026
Thanks for this article.I sometimes wonder how important I am in the Church. In a small ward, I am hardly ever asked to give a public prayer and have been in my calling for over 4 years. It was great to read this article and knowthat I AM important!
Cornelius PetersonFebruary 2, 2026
I would like to read "If I ever gave a talk in General Conference, I would say…” and started working out what was, I was pretty sure, the most genius and insightful talk of this dispensation."
Thank you for inspiring those invisible among us.
DanFebruary 1, 2026
That jeep with the Mahonri Moriancumur name has a history, it was used to transport LDS servicemen to church during the Vietnam war time-frame.
Corey D.February 1, 2026
Excellent and well written and documented. Living here along the Wasatch Front where housing is a hot topic right now I find the comments on housing interesting and informative, particularly about the size of homes, i.e., square footage. My personal observations have been similar, there is no such thing as a "starter home" anymore. The homes my grandparents lived in, the home I grew up in and our first home were much smaller than the homes many young couples are starting with or getting into now and interestingly we didn't think of them as small. The statements about the cost of medical care and much of that due to control by the Insurance industry were telling. In the 60's, 70's when I was growing up and the first few years we were married in the late 70's, early 80's, there was no such thing as "Health Insurance" or dental or vision insurance. My father had "Insurance" with his company, if there was an accident, like somebody broke a bone or got cut needing stitches or had a baby requiring hospitalization there was insurance available but normal, regular visits to doctor, dentist, optometrist were paid out of pocket, sometimes it might have taken a month or two to pay it off, seems to me from my experience the last 45 yrs or so, contrary to what was said Insurance has caused the price of medical care to go up, not down or be controlled. Growing up, the doctors in town were not rich. Overall though the main premise is true, I know I have a lot more than my parents and grandparents had.
Kathleen ThatcherFebruary 1, 2026
We love your podcasts that are not only informative but so insightful and inspiring. Is there a chart showing the length of lives from Adam to the flood and the overlapping of the lives of the first men? Also are those ‘pure for God’ necklaces available?
Corey D.January 31, 2026
The article is excellent and well written. I'm sure they will disagree but the first two comments in my mind, definitely reflect comment/opinion based off of mainstream media portrayal without an in depth analysis of the two events. Tragic events both but there is much more to both what's happening in Gaza and Minnesota and many other events in the world than what the general media report.
DJJanuary 31, 2026
Thank you. I'm printing so the message doesn't get lost.
Corey D.January 31, 2026
Pretty powerful article Brother Grenny. These types of discussions are the hardest there is. I have two adult children who no longer attend church, one has children and the other doesn't. Both are divorced or in the process of getting divorced. Both I have had situations with that caused very strained relationships and anger, one to this day I don't know why for sure and the other one talking with their Bishop caused problems. We are okay now but it was rough times and still things are somewhat tenuous. I finished in November a service mission with the Transitional Services Office, who I'm sure you are familiar with. You learn you have to be very patient, emphathetic, basically very Christ like dealing with some of the people who come in. Most who came in for help were very thankful but there were those who had a lot of anger for a variety of reasons, some of those were either the religious fanatics (keep in mind mental instability) and those who felt the church owed them or had a bad attitude about the church or had had a bad experience in the church with a leader or leaders or other members or family. You learn to pick your words and phrases and tone of voice very carefully. Thanks for the article and all you do for those who struggle.
AnnieJanuary 31, 2026
I found this illuminating, Plenty of opportunities to apply these relationship skills in everyday life. Thank you.
AnnieJanuary 30, 2026
When my daughter called me from Europe, she had been out of the church for a few years. Her call hightened my anxiety because I knew she had to have a good reason to call from so far away! Then she said, "Mom, I have something to tell you." "Sure, what is it?" I said. "Mom, I'm pregnant," she replied. She was not married and my spirit was screaming at me saying "Be careful! You could lose her forever if you don't stop and think before speaking!" And I did. I took a long breath and said, "Well, Sweetie, are you happy?" Her reply, "Oh, yes! I'm so happy!" told me everything I needed to hear. "Then I'm happy for you!" I replied. And that was it! I averted a disaster by listening to the spirit! We went on discussing the baby's due date and how she was feeling as if the conversation was as natural as breathing. I could have lost her forever if I had not listened to the anxious prompting of the spirit!!! Because I had respoded in that way, I felt confident enough to tell her that she needed to take good care of her body because every thing she took into it would effect the baby. She listened. "No smoking and no drinking! You can irreparbly harm the baby." She listened and followed my advice. That baby is now 25 years old and a college graduate! His mama and I talk on the phone often and we love each other so much!
Daryl GibsonJanuary 30, 2026
All sound advice, sensitively delivered. I would like to hear your suggestions about the daughter's insistence that the church never be spoken of in her presence. Isn't that a bit like insisting that your parents never speak of their jobs, or their friends, or their hobbies, or their social life? It seems like there's room for some give and take. "Hey honey, your Dad just got called as bishop so we won't be able to make Sunday dinner this week." "I'm swamped planning this ward Christmas party. Can we talk later?" "Do you remember your seminary teacher who moved away? She just dropped by to surprise us and said to tell you Hi!" "You're never going to believe who I bumped into at the Temple today."
SaraJanuary 30, 2026
This is incredibly powerful and life changing. Inspiring. We will read it again and share this
JamesJanuary 30, 2026
Thank you for this wonderful and truly helpful article. Two of my four grown and married children have chosen to discontinue participation in church and that is such a hard thing for my wife and I. This article helped me to organize my thoughts and feelings and motivations into more Christlike patterns. Bottom line; I love my children completely and totally independent of their testimonies or lack thereof. They are still awesome and wonderful people. This life is short and eternity is long. Heavenly Father also loves my children and I trust His plan of happiness.
Robert StarlingJanuary 30, 2026
Wow! This is such great counsel on dealing with such important issues! THANK YOU! Almost everyone needs this kind of guidance. Many of us have had these "messy" conversations, and most of us have probably not done well. It is MOST important to express unconditional love, and to invite a continuing dialog. Thanks again for your wisdom and experience in this space.
Tamra DodgeJanuary 30, 2026
Great research of the subject. The many forms of comparison, and reasoning. However, you lost me in the middle when I couldn’t absorb one more data point. I was looking for a conclusion.. a direction… and a reason for ‘why’ .. Reading this was like reading the disclaimer info tucked inside prescriptions. My apologies..
SH- Scott HoskinsJanuary 30, 2026
I dated for what seemed like quite a while before I married, and it really helped me to look at things more objectively. When someone turned me down for a date, I´d smile and give them a sincere ¨Thank you¨. You see, they´d just saved me time, money and heartache. The problem came when asked why I´d thanked them (One even opined that they were ¨out of my league¨) I would tell them that now I could find someone who WOULD like to date me. And that was when I realized that one of the goals of the refusal was to be hurtful, yet another reason not to date that person. It still stung, but it helped.
Becky McIntyreJanuary 29, 2026
We watched Standout yesterday and LOVED it!!! What an incredible person Ben was and is. And what an incredible support network he has from his family, friends, coaches and team mates. I laughed, I cried and I came away wanting to be better - more like Ben!. I have recommended that all my kids and grandkids see the movie. It made me think about my weaknesses and how I can turn them into strengths - with work, grit and perseverance. I am 70 years old and getting ready to turn in mission papers! My husband speaks Spanish fluently and so he wants to go to a Spanish speaking country. Spanish is definitely my weakness! So I just started taking Spanish lessons - this is my challenge - and Ben has inspired me to work harder, to be disobedient to average and to do way more than the class requires. Thanks to everyone who make this inspiring documentary a reality!!
AustinJanuary 28, 2026
There's a very simple answer to this. Your First Amendment rights end at my property line. End of story.
tfJanuary 28, 2026
The Woodcuts were carved by Reuben Hedlock, a member there in Nauvoo. He also went west, and produced some there, I haven't traced every edition.
The picture the author shows at the top of the article has "ENG BY R HEDLOCK" in the small strip under the figures at the bottom. Same on my 1981 large print edition.
The same artist is credited on the No. 2 "Hypochephalus" in my large print edition, it inside the larger circle about 3/4 up the right hand side.
The 1981 large print of facimily No1, does not have Hadlock's credit, but I'm sure Hedlock did it. There was a different, less well done of #1 in my missionay triple dated 1958, but as soon as the missing Joseph Smith paper's scrolls were returned to the church, they saw that Hedlock's woodcut was far surperior, and started using it again since then, in succeeding printings that I've come across.
KathleenJanuary 28, 2026
DITO! I joined the Church at 17, served a mission in Bolivia, and married at 24. I wouldn't change those experiences or the timing, although 'in the day' it was less conventional to serve as a sister missionary and marry later. I have been better prepared for my life's path because of that foundation and am ever so grateful!
Virginia RockwellJanuary 28, 2026
That is wonderful. It is such a rich spiritual musical experience throughout.
Karla CampbellJanuary 28, 2026
Deep and stunningly beautiful! I will read it again and again! I feel the light and truth of your message! Thank you so very much!
CA ShepherdJanuary 28, 2026
This is so inspiring! Thanks so much. I’m printing this and using these recommendations! I have a Grab ‘n Go Binder and commit to updating it!
Lisa ReisingJanuary 28, 2026
I really appreciate this teaching of the symbolic nature of the Creation account - as much as I did when I first heard Brother Degn teach these concepts at BYU Education Week many years ago. The numerous patterns in scripture, in the temple, and in the Earth - there to reveal and elevate the Plan of Salvation - have opened my mind in significant ways as I have learned to see them.
It is true and good that scholarship - letters, language, history - is helpful in our path of learning, but there is something very “artistic” (using the other side of the brain) about seeing the Plan of God for His children in this way, through symbols. It is elevating and exciting to the visions of eternity. It seems to be the preferred way our Lord uses to teach us heavenly things. Thank you so much!
Jamie QuistJanuary 28, 2026
Wow, just wow! So incredibly insightful and beautifully written!
Thank you!
Rochelle HaleJanuary 28, 2026
I live in a relatively mild-weather state, but given the heavy storms across many parts of the country this past week, I was somewhat surprised to see so many shoppers at my big box store. And, yes, the carts were full of the usually toilet paper and cases of water. Who would have thought that last year's horrific winds would bring the loss of so many neighborhoods due to fires??!! We never know when an earthquake might hit. Also, living in a heavy commuter area, it is always a good idea to have supplies at office, school, or in the car in case we can't get home or are delayed. I have printed your list to review my family's preparation.
Kathleen GardinerJanuary 28, 2026
Thank you Brother Degn! This is profound and beautiful and mind expanding!
I loved attending adult classes you have taught and this article reminds me why I loved them so much. Thank you for your ability to see and understand so deeply and for sharing it with us.
David PreeceJanuary 27, 2026
I would like to know how the author applies these constructs to the current situation in Minneapolis. The administration used the racist demonization of legal Somali immigrants to justify the invasion of ICE. This ultimately resulted in the unlawful killing of American citizen and VA nurse Alex Pretti. Hasn't this all been characterized as a "just war?"
Alvin H AndrewJanuary 27, 2026
This is very interesting scholarship.
Interestingly the JST OT Manuscript,Revision 2 replaces the KJV text: "Genesis 5;22-24 And Enoch walked with God after he begat Methuselah three hundred years, and begat sons and daughters; 23 And all the days of Enoch were three hundred sixty and five years; 24 And Enoch walked with God; and he was not; for God took him."
Joseph replaced that reading with the text: "Genesis 5:28 And Enoch and all his people walked with God, And he dwelt in the midst of Zion. And it came to pass, that Zion was not, for God received it up into his own bosom; and from thence went forth the saying, Zion is fled."
This reflects a significantly differing view from existing ancient artifacts. It also is reflected in the Book of Moses in this manner as well, as mentioned in the article.
Richard HolmesJanuary 27, 2026
As one who has always accepted Brigham as a prophet and faithful disciple of Christ, I still agree it was correct for the Church to not authorize his Adam-God teachings until the controversies over them are resolved by the Word of the Lord as promised in Article of Faith 9.
Yet I am convinced the 1916 Doctrinal Exposition that was made the official church doctrine to distance the Church from the Adam-God teachings is also flawed. Discourses, books and other sources are not guaranteed to be the Iron Rod the faith must be built on.
I trust that Brigham was more correct than wrong. But I also trust that the church needs the Word of the Lord to fully resolve the controversy.
Rich BowermanJanuary 27, 2026
Just watched this first episode. What a great beginning! Already looking forward to episode 2!
SusanJanuary 27, 2026
I know this council to be true. I know that when one bears testimony, the Holy Ghost enters the equation. Arguments cease, and a quiet calm replaces tension. So many of my beloved family members are now choosing a different path. Love and covenant living is a testimony, a personal revelation for me that the Lord is in control. As the Holy Ghost bears witness to my heart and soul I feel peace and no one can argue what I am feeling. I am so thankful for the glorious gift of truth made manifest through the Holy Ghost.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 27, 2026
As Adam and Eve were cast out of the Garden, they proclaimed that they would have joy. Not that staying home, staying where it's comfortable, knowing our neighbors, attending church in our own language, etc. isn't fine, but sometimes we must go elsewhere and learn from new experiences. The Lord knows that and will often put us in places for our own growth or where we can help others. I joined the Church in my mid-teens. Some of my friends married right out of high school, others went to work or college, and others married a few years later. Most were active in church and served in callings. With a strong prompting, I served a mission (also in Argentina). I would not trade any of my experiences. I often tell young missionaries now to make the best of their daily experiences as well as birthdays and holidays. These will go down as some of the most memorable of their lives and may set a pattern for their own gospel commitments or family traditions. When I finally married, at almost 25, I thought I was an "old maid," but I looked back to see that I had accomplished all that my friends had, maybe more, and I had gained so much.
RamonaJanuary 27, 2026
Seems pretty selective about the victims. Nothing about the ongoing slaughter of Gazans by the Israeli Government or the ongoing sanctioned detention, deportation, or death of Americans based on their accents or skin color?
Mark StoddardJanuary 27, 2026
Logic leading to logic leading to calm that avoids conflict. Well said. As a missionary in Australia we often went to Fox Valley where the 7th Day Adventists lived. We had to hone our message to be just a message of the Savior and stop. Never bringing anything else up or we'd wade into the Bible-bashing routine which we were determined to avoid. In the end our goal was to smile and shake hands, deliver the message -- usually something we all deeply believed, wish them well or have a prayer and leave as friends. Nothing shows up on the mission report but we knew we had done, as you've stated, spoken soul to soul. That's enough -- even a large step up.
Terry MontagueJanuary 26, 2026
Terrific movie! We went on opening night and sat with a theater full of school wrestling teammates. Everyone applauded.
Nice article John Dye.
Debrah RoundyJanuary 26, 2026
Great article. I especially like the second paragraph, or thereabouts. “Testimony speaks to a different part of the soul. Well said.
RuthJanuary 26, 2026
It makes me so sad that someone would think such terrible things about Brigham Young. I just love that man and I am so grateful for all he did. I wonder If these movies will make a difference to them that think so ill of him or if they even care about the truth.
Mark StoddardJanuary 26, 2026
Sounds terrific, Dan. I'm sure it will be at least the high quality of Witnesses and 6 Days. Excellent.
The comment your referred to by critics of Brigham is mind boggling: "Some seem compelled to open any discussion of Brigham by describing him as “flawed.”" How would we start a discussion on Abraham, Moses, Peter, Paul, and on and on -- with each as "flaw." When referring to a human, to say he or she is flawed is to be redundant and pedantic. AND, didn't Christ refer to such comments as "beam in your eye...?"
LoraJanuary 26, 2026
I am very eager to see "Becoming Brigham" (he's my gr-gr-gr-uncle), but I don't see a link to the video. Is that coming out later?
Doris WilliamsJanuary 26, 2026
Oh, Brother Peterson, thank you, thank you for your scholarship and insight in so many historical presentations and the written word. I loved the movie Six Days in August and all the effort it took to bring it to the screen. I love Brigham. I love Joseph. Needless to say, I love Jesus Christ and this precious restored gospel. I have great respect and love for all our early church leaders and the monumental effort expended to establish this true church on the earth with its saving ordinances and fulness of our Savior's teachings. I greatly value the efforts of our faithful historians and teachers who validate the first fruits of the restoration: our beloved scriptures. Bless all your continued efforts.
Jane GonzalezJanuary 26, 2026
how do we see the video on Meridian magazinez/
Gordon HensleyJanuary 26, 2026
Example 1: When the Centurions came to the Garden of Gethsemane to arrest Jesus, Peter stepped up and cut off the ear of one. Jesus rebuked Peter, then healed the ear of the Roman soldier. Example 2: In response to threats of extermination from enemies of the Saints, Joseph Smith organized the Nauvoo Legion. I believe our choices are somewhere in between. Satan will not stop inspiring persecution of the Saints until he is bound at the Second Coming. There will always be pockets of suffering until then. Do what is needful to protect your families. If this world were the only thing we had to look forward to, life would be a cruel cosmic joke.
Stephen MarshallJanuary 26, 2026
This is a fine tribute to one of the great prophets of the latter days. I look forward to the video series on Brigham Young, which I expect will be just as meaningful as the Interpreter's other great films "Witnesses," "Undaunted," and "Six Days in August." Thank you brother Peterson for your great work!
Susan RoylanceJanuary 26, 2026
Where on Meridian is the video available?
Harold RustJanuary 26, 2026
Thank you again, Brother Peterson, for highlighting another legacy from early "Founding Fathers" ----Joseph and Brigham and so many other good men and women--and allowing us to comfortably rejoice in all the good they pursued and achieved during their lives.
It is interesting to observe common human behavior regarding what they think and/or say about others. For so many of us, if we are in a group of associates and they are disdaining or disparaging another person (whether some one well known or just another classmate), there is a strong tendency not only to think the worst of the person being discussed but to often join in with another specific example of why that person is so "bad". And yet, if just one "respected" member of that group discussion emphasizes a positive experience or observation regarding the "bad" person, the conversation can often turn on a dime into many concurring with the positive descriptions. Conclusion: we are heavily influenced by attitutdes of those right around us----often far beyond what should be accurate, truthful, and uplifting influence when the discourse highlights failings--even when somewhat factual--of others.
So.........thanks for being one of those rare individuals in a crowd who firmly but authoritatively states, "Wait a minute; I would like to share a few real examples of what I admire about that person". Then we all rise to a higher level of what can be our "better self".
Jennie WilstedJanuary 24, 2026
My sincere condolences to the Holland family for the loss of their father. Anything I contribute to build upon his precious character is insufficient. The world truly will never know another Jeffrey Holland he was irreplaceable.
David PreeceJanuary 23, 2026
The administration says ICE can now operate at churches. Sacred sanctuaries.
That doesn’t mean the Constitution vanished.
Yes, DHS can change internal policy. But policy is not permission. ICE still can’t target worship, intimidate congregations, or enter private church spaces without a judge-signed warrant. Administrative ICE warrants don’t authorize that.
And here’s where courts are getting uneasy: there are already reports of agents surveilling services, waiting outside churches, questioning clergy, and making arrests tied to worship attendance. Even when arrests happen “near” churches, the pattern matters. When enforcement chills religious practice, judges step in and the Constitution rules.
That’s the line courts keep drawing:
You can announce it.
You can’t enforce it abusively.
The First Amendment still protects worship. The Fourth Amendment still protects private space. And when enforcement gets sloppy—or strategic—courts shut it down.
Legal to declare. Sketchy to implement. Unconstitutional when abused.
Cheryl CheekJanuary 23, 2026
I saw this movie last night and met Ben Kjar. The movie was both inspirational and down-to-earth. It helped me to see myself differently, and helped me to understand that my weaknesses could actually become a path for transformational change. And he is even more dynamic in person than he was on the screen!
Kenny MazzantiJanuary 23, 2026
In 1838 the Saints in Far West were convinced to give up their firearms to ease tensions with the Missourians. They did so. The end result is that along with church officials being unjustly jailed, homes and crops burned and cattle slaughtered, more than 400 Saints were raped and murdered by Missouri Militia and citizens. Recently, Saints were murdered in Michigan. The church currently has a "no guns on church property" policy so that everyone can feel safe. That policy makes us "soft targets".
"Liken the scriptures unto yourselves" is a great motivational thought. We speak much of Captain Moroni, the Title of Liberty and the 2000 stripling warriors. What did the Nephites do when the Lamanites came to attack? They did not "run, hide, fight back with whatever you can get your hands on" which is the church mass shooter attack policy. They fought back with swords, cimiters, slings, bows and arrows. The armament of that day. They did not submit to the murder and brutality of the Lamanites. They fought back, and were able to do so because they were armed and prepared to protect their families and their liberty.
In a recent Meridian article, the Gadianton Robbers were discussed. What did the Nephites do about that? They went throughout the land and killed them all. Some were captured and given the opportunity to swear an oath of peace. Those that refused were killed.
These are harsh words. Those were harsh times; much like Far West Missouri in 1838. Most LDS people are not prepared to take up arms. Some of us are.
MargaretJanuary 22, 2026
Exactly what I needed to read! I do have chronic dysthymia/depression and two of my bishops feel that the condition and/or the medication I take could be the reason that I don't have any strong impressions or feelings in the temple. Trying to attend monthly with my husband (we live 2 hours from the temple),
AnnieJanuary 22, 2026
I take time to pray before the endowment session. I ask to be alert, awake, attentive, and to learn something new. Then I focus on the instruction. It works for me every time.
CmarieJanuary 22, 2026
So inspiring! Thank you for sharing your gifts of imagery through the collection of scripture verses. Despite my very strong testimony, I too fall victim to "factory falsehood " at times. I will be printing this article for those times and for my friends. The joy we can have and give has no end!
Brenda Hosaflook WellsJanuary 21, 2026
Wow! After reading this article, the “Sabbath rest” is to help me become “whole” again, to find my stability after the world, troubles, and earthly needs affect me throughout the week. Thank you so much for this new perspective and truth!
MGJanuary 21, 2026
Jeff, I haven’t learned yet to set great boundaries. So if I did what you’re suggesting I would get caught up with every man I dated. I think some of us have to be careful being interested in the other person because we get taken advantage of in our vulnerability.
KathleenJanuary 21, 2026
Great Idea!
Linda WestoverJanuary 20, 2026
Some of us do not experience “great” moments because we already have a strong testimony—we don’t need confirmation to build us up. Some also have subtle experiences so often that they don’t recognize them for what they are.
Whatever our personal feelings are, we need to just move forward with faith and confidence.
DTJanuary 20, 2026
Excellent article. I also don’t quite understand and have never heard the theory that the creation is a temple text. But the ideas here are fascinating and clarifying. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and research.
JoanJanuary 20, 2026
Thank you for this article. You have read my mind and my heart and have motivated me to keep going.
JeffJanuary 20, 2026
Man - next time I'm asked to give a talk in church, I might just read this verbatim. Such an important message in our current social climate. Not only is it a reminder of how Christ want's us to live, but also a good benchmark for evaluating the voices we trust - whether they are following Christ's path, or Satan's.
HelenCJanuary 19, 2026
My mother loved the Hebrew Bible! She understood its language and poetry. While a faithful Latter Day Saint, she never felt the same love for the Book of Mormon. It just didn’t “sing” to her in the same way as Isaiah.
Lindsey DixonJanuary 19, 2026
As I read your thoughtful article and identified your clearly marked point of view, my heart sank. It was one-sided, seeing only the evidence of corruption that aligns with your political point of view. Using language like radical left to describe the work of the USAID was divisive, accusing and arrogant. People with left leaning priorities in the church, and out, may differ in their points of view from your own, but grouping and describing them as radical makes it so easy to think of them not as your brother or sister in Christ, but your enemy.
We can agree that the Book of Mormon is describing our day. We can agree that the patterns of secret plans to grab power and wealth are pervasive and oppressive. We must feel the same heaviness and troubled hearts. I see our present gadiantons seezing power the constitution does not afford, hiding terrible abuses of children and gathering illicit weath, and demonizing immigrants. if you open your heart to the Spirit's guidance, and look through His lens, I suspect you will see that satan has no aisle. He is willing to corrupt and destroy from all angles.
He is succeeding beautifully as we gather in tribes of "rightness" with our fingers pointed toward the radicals and sycophants.
Can we call corruption corruption regardless of which tribe it comes from? I fear if we cannot, we will be very surprised to knock on the door of the wedding feast prepared to sup with the Lord, only to hear depart from Me, you never knew me.
Peggy WardJanuary 19, 2026
Thank you --so very, very much. You have turned around my "check-list" world today and I want to sing the Song of Redeeming Love and feel it and see it and see myself and others as the glorious beings we are. I always love what you write, but THIS is a moment of clarity and joy and rising up of my soul even while I clean the bathroom. This is just so very lovingly, beautifully, insightfully written. I cherish this. Thank you
MickeyJanuary 18, 2026
Eating disorders are genetic, metabolic, and neurobiological and not a choice, a sin, or a conscious decision. They happen when the person with the genetics for it enters a negative energy balance. The above information is well-meaning ans will not help cure eating disorders or even prevent them, although it is really important we all understand out divine nature and value.
Karen BensonJanuary 18, 2026
When women are demonized as sinners because Eve ate the fruit first demonstrates a lack of understanding of Eve's inexperience with Satan. Eve was deceived and not having any prior experience with Satan's deceptions could not determine the best course of action to overcome Satan lies. Adam chose to knowingly sin. Both decisions Adam and Eve made shows a very big difference between the two ways Heavenly Father chooses to deal with us if we are deceived or if we choose to sin. The on going discussion trying to show that Eve/ women are the weaker sex is also one of Satan's deceptions. We each have very different roles in this life. Minimizing or demeaning either sex is not of God and feels like another example of Satan's deceptions that we all fall into if we agree with this way of thinking.
I would like to read an article about the 2 different ways Heavenly Father dealt with sinners versus being deceived. I enjoyed finally reading a positive article about Eve's contributions.
Pam BlairJanuary 18, 2026
I love Meridian, but $40 is beyond my budget. I could do $20, but that doesn't seem to be an option. Do you only cater to those above a certain income level, and not to those of us who rely on Social Security? I hope not!
Bill BellJanuary 17, 2026
This makes so much sense. Why is water boiling? Brother says it's because heat was placed under it. Mom says because I'm making chocolate. We ask why is there an earth? Science says because of the big bang. God says I needed a place for my children to live.
Wow! My eyes opened a little.
Robert HagedornJanuary 17, 2026
Is the exegesis of Genesis 1:28--4:1 presented at 2thefirstscandal.blogspot.com worthy of discussion, debate, criticism, and evaluation of validity?
RoyJanuary 17, 2026
Love the picture… first vision from afar! Where could I get a copy to place in my house. I love the perspective of the illustration.
AnonymousJanuary 16, 2026
There are lots of different ways that people can struggle to love their bodies. My wife for example struggles with several autoimmune conditions that cause her body to be very sensitive to outside stimuli from food, temperature, even exercise. Each one basically creates an allergic reaction. This has made it almost impossible for her to lose weight and for us to continue our family. We have tried to get help from doctors in the past but no longer trust them and cannot afford to continue searching so we do the best we can on our own but she is at a low point and I wish I knew how to help her more
Boanerges RubalcavaJanuary 16, 2026
THE IMPORTANCE OF WATERS ABOVE THE FIRMAMENT
I am writing for you my thinking of something that for some time was a little bit difficult to understand. Of course, this is only my understanding, and it is not by any means a doctrine in the church.
First, let’s go to the Bible and Genesis 1:6-8: “And God said, let there be a firmament in the midst of the waters, and let it divide the waters from the waters. And God made the firmament and divide the waters which were under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament: and it was so. And God called the firmament Heaven. And the evening and the morning were the second day.”
If you remember, everything that He was doing was very important for the next creation. But what was that a firmament to divide the waters from the waters? The waters under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament?
Please allow me to explain something about the structure of water, and what really the water is and its behavior. Everybody knows that the chemical formula of water is H2O, which means that it has 2 Hydrogen atoms and one Oxygen atom. This is right, but it is not so simple, since water has some specific properties that make it very peculiar and important for life.
Oxygen is a very electronegative element. This means that Oxygen has a tremendous eagerness for electrons. In the so simple molecule H2O, although in Chemistry compounds are made when the atoms share electrons, in the case of water one electron in each of the two Hydrogen atoms are share with the Oxygen atom, but the share due to the great electronegativity of the Oxygen, the electrons are “more” to the Oxygen than to the Hydrogens, and because of that the molecule of water is a polar molecule, meaning that it has a pole with a residual negative charge in the Oxygen atom (electrons more to the Oxygen) and 2 residual positive charges in each of the Hydrogen atoms (the Protons + with less influence from the electrons which “went” closer to the Oxygen). This makes the water molecule a unique one, since these residual charges are attracted to each other with opposite charges. This makes the structure of water not just H2O, but (H2O)n. This means that water is several molecules a water together, but not a real different molecule, but only loosely bound to each other in what in Chemistry is known as Hydrogen bridges.
The “liquid’ water then is form by several molecules united through these Hydrogen bridges. If the temperature comes lower and lower, the molecules come more and more together, meaning even more molecules come to be bound, this makes that, to be so many more molecules together, this conglomerate of molecules leaves hollows making what we called ICE, and of course because of the hollows ICE is less dense than the “liquid water” and Ice floats in the liquid water (this is unique to water). This is important for life, since when the lakes and rivers are frozen, the water below the Ice remains liquid and therefore life is possible there.
If now we increase the temperature of the liquid water, we break the Hydrogen bridges making the water as just one H2O molecule and this makes the water to evaporate into the air.
Besides the clouds, there is what is called WATER VAPOR in our atmosphere. Clouds are visible masses of tiny liquid water droplets or ice crystals suspended in the atmosphere, formed when invisible WATER VAPOR (the gaseous state of water) cools and condenses onto microscopic particles like dust or salt, a process vital to the Earth's water cycle as vapor rises, cools, and forms clouds that eventually release water as precipitation.
WATER VAPOR is essential for life in this earth, since without it, life cannot exist since the earth would be frozen. WATER VAPOR has a property known as greenhouse gas (ghg) meaning that this molecule because of its chemistry (H2O) absorbs and retains Heat. The heat from the Sun comes to earth and rebound in its Cortex and without the Water Vapor, the heat would escape to the outer space making the earth frozen with no way to maintain life.
Now, I can explain the scripture in Genesis, and we can see the real importance of the Water Vapor (the waters above?) and the firmament dividing this water, from the waters below (seas, lakes rivers). And we can see the tremendous importance for life (earth is not frozen) and the water below the firmament to create life in all its forms.
Patrick D. DegnJanuary 16, 2026
Mark, I know this response is arriving a few years late, but perhaps others may still benefit from your question.
Genesis 1 is called a “temple text” because, in the ancient Near Eastern world, “creation” often means more than God manufacturing raw material from nothing. It means God bringing order out of chaos and shaping the world into a functioning, holy place where He can dwell and rule—very much like the inauguration or dedication of a temple. Read that way, the seven days of Genesis 1 look like a week-long temple inauguration, and the climax is not day 6 (humanity) but day 7. When God “rests,” the point is not that He is tired but that, in temple language, He has taken His seat—He dwells, reigns, and presides in His ordered house.
You can see this pattern throughout the Bible. After the tabernacle is built, “the glory of the Lord filled the tabernacle” (Exodus 25–40), signaling that God has taken up residence. At Solomon’s temple dedication, again “the glory of the Lord filled the house of the Lord” (1 Kings 8; 2 Chronicles 5–7). Ezekiel’s vision of the temple (Ezekiel 40–48) portrays God’s returning presence and the life that flows from His house. Many psalms are steeped in temple theology (for example, Psalms 24; 29; 48; 93; 96–99; 132), presenting the Lord as the enthroned King in His holy dwelling. Isaiah’s call vision (Isaiah 6) places him in the heavenly temple-throne room. Psalm 104 poetically describes God’s ordering of the world in ways that many readers see as resonant with “cosmic temple” imagery—the whole creation as the ordered domain in which God lives and reigns.
Restoration scripture is rich in “temple texts” as well. Lehi’s vision of the tree of life, the allegory of the olive tree in Jacob 5, the dedicatory prayer of the Kirtland Temple in Doctrine and Covenants 109, and the “house of order / house of God” language in Doctrine and Covenants 88:119 all fit into this pattern of God ordering a people and a place for His presence. The creation accounts in the Book of Moses and the Book of Abraham (Pearl of Great Price) also invite us to see creation not merely as a sequence of events in time, but as God preparing and ordering a sacred space and a covenant people for His dwelling.
If you would like a clear and accessible introduction to this line of thought, a very good place to start is John H. Walton’s The Lost World of Genesis One, especially his discussions of the “cosmic temple” and God’s “rest.” BioLogos also offers a concise summary article titled “Creation is the Temple Where God Rests,” which distills many of these ideas in a short, readable form.
To Rita, Jo Ann, Helmut, Craig, Shauna, Linda, and Gary: thank you for your generous and thoughtful comments. It is a blessing to glimpse together how the Lord not only creates worlds, but orders hearts, homes, and communities into temples fit for His presence.
KathleenJanuary 16, 2026
I always felt grateful that I wanted to be at home and could contribute in volunteer situations surrounding what my children were doing. It was and still is a difficult line to walk. Let the Holy Ghost be your individual guide and then one can withstand the unrighteous judgement of others.
ErikpeterhansenJanuary 15, 2026
And people wonder how the Endowment was created from pieces of the ancient Mason ceremonies. Joseph became a Mason as did many leaders of communities. He was enlightened to see the original purposes of these ceremonies. He inquired of the Lord and The Endowment was restored based on revelation brought about by his experiences with masonry. It continues to be refined by revelation.
Kay Wiemer GerkeJanuary 15, 2026
I have not been this moved by reading an article in a very long time. Tanya Neider writes in a way that captures your heart, mind, and soul. Her descriptive style conveys spiritual depth that can only come from a lived dedication to the gospel and an understanding of the most tender human emotions. I agree with her sentiments in every way, and I plan to take her wise advice to record myself and others with purpose. I look forward to her column each month; she is a gifted writer with valuable insights.
JeanJanuary 14, 2026
Thanks. I needed to hear this podcast. Actually, listened to it twice.
LewisJanuary 14, 2026
This is such a wonderful article, as it caused me to reflect on the many wonderful people that have touched my life. It sent me into this beautiful reverie of gratitude for those incredible people that have shaped me. Thank you for sharing your gift.
bob taylorJanuary 14, 2026
pictures - maybe just me, but i detest ai generated pictures - the picture with this article is clearly ai generated - any i strongly feel that when ai is used for this purpose, that the picture should be clearly labeled as such. the same for written articles - when the final product is ai generated, the picture should be labeled as such.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 14, 2026
Thank you for those beautiful insights and reminders. Loved the thought that carrying deformities /imperfections may be a pre-earth prayer answered. And finishing our race used up and worn out can be demonstration of a life well lived. The consequence of Satan and his minions rebellion is that they will never have a body. You reminded us of the privilege it is and that every day is a gift.
Tracey GriwJanuary 14, 2026
As always Vivian illuminates to true nature of Eve (and Adam). Her articles and talks about Eve have truly blessed my life. Thank you for more understanding from this article.
Susan RoylanceJanuary 14, 2026
I love the concept of Adam preparing the earth to receive Eve - their new home.
Linda BosleyJanuary 14, 2026
Thankyou for your beautiful perspective and insights about the gift of body. I loved listening this morning I’m turning 78 in March and have 6 children and all the blessings of posterity that brings. I lived most of my life with the negative perspective about my body; in resistance and feeling it was my burden to bear. The gospel of Jesus Christ has changed my perspective. I’m so thankful that now I can say Amen to everything you shared so beautifully in your message. Sending gratitude and thanks for your work and words. Sincerely Linda
Corey D.January 14, 2026
Excellent, well written, well explained and needed during a time of polarization.
David PreeceJanuary 13, 2026
You've made some excellent points here. It is disheartening to see fellow Latter-day Saints succumb to the conspiracy trap. As an example, surveys found that approximately 18–21% of Latter-day Saints endorsed at least one core QAnon belief—higher than the national average of 15%. There are several factors at play here, some historical, some cultural, and some structural. Persecution memory, moral absolutism, distrust of external authority, and subjective truth-validation can combine in ways that endorse modern conspiracy theories. This unique susceptibility is driven by the impact of these factors than by LDS theology itself. Diverse news sources and objective and rational (sometimes skeptical) analysis combined with a sound scriptural foundation, attention to Apostles and faithful introspection is the conspiracy-avoidance formula.
VickiJanuary 13, 2026
Eternal concepts wonderfully explored in luminously beautiful prose. Well-done!
VickiJanuary 13, 2026
This article is well-written in exalting prose, worthy of the eternal principles discussed. Luminously beautiful!
Josue GonzalezJanuary 13, 2026
I've always been afraid of what my social life will be like in my old age. I know that one day my children will leave home to pursue their dreams. This article has taught me a lot about how to prepare for that day and that loneliness won't be a problem in my life.
HelenCJanuary 13, 2026
I love Brigham’s statement about the quality of Brother Joseph’s works, by which “[we] shall know [him]” (see Matt 7:20)
Danny MarlowJanuary 13, 2026
I thought we could keep politics out of religion
Roberta HarrisJanuary 12, 2026
Thank you once again for a very thought provoking article! I have now decided to try it too by organizing into groups starting from ones in my young years to current church friends. Some time ago we made a list of "pivotal people" who had come into our lives. People who opened up paths to take that we consider life changing. Becky, you have been on that list since our first encounter many years ago. That path changed our lives and ultimately the lives of our family. All because we read about you and your work in India in the Church News. Yes...a pivotal person! Thank you Becky!!
LewisJanuary 12, 2026
What a wonderful story. I was just pondering as we entered the new year how many people had influenced my life. Your article provided a timely push to reach out to them to express thanks for the incredible blessing they had been in my life.
CynthiaJanuary 12, 2026
Becky, I am so inspired by your goal this new year to reach out to friends from the past! Thank you for following the inspiration to make a list of people who have been an influence in your life. What a fabulous idea! I echo your sentiment that God puts us in places at different times so that we might develop these friendships to serve and love. Thank you for your marvelous example!
GraceJanuary 12, 2026
Love your story and article! Yes, we can be a network of pain or joy. My comment is to hopefully lessen your travel sleep troubles. A red infrared light placed on your chest for about 20-25 mins before going to bed will reset your circadian rhythm that night. My Best to You.
Herm OlsenJanuary 12, 2026
This is a lovely, thoughtful reminder of the magnificence of our souls, and of the royal dignity to which we are each entitled. Thank you for sharing these profound truths.
Phil HobbyJanuary 12, 2026
As Moses said to Satan, 'Who art thou? For behold, I am a son of God, in the similitude of his Only Begotten;' (Moses 1:13)
A brilliant article, absolutely outstanding. Thank you Patrick
Doris WilliamsJanuary 11, 2026
Thank you so much, Brother Stoddard for posting this true "gem" about Elder Holland. I laughed and laughed and had to send it to all my family and friends. So many things have been written about Elder Holland, how he affected countless people in so many ways. We are truly going to miss this giant in the service of the Lord.
Tracey growJanuary 9, 2026
This is beautifully written. Thank you for the imagery and the glorious truths.
Corey D.January 9, 2026
One of the best commentaries there is on both our present and past political situation is found in a talk given by Elder George A. Smith, Vol 5 of the Journal of Discourses, pages 60-62, given in 1857. Anyone I have shared that with, I have made the statement, if you were to read his comments without knowing who said it and when it was given you would think it was a talk given more recently, all have agreed. Kind of summed up by Satan in the Temple Endowment presentation, "you can buy anything in this world with money".
Debbie A.January 9, 2026
A beautiful and inspiring remembering! Your elegant words brought joy and purpose back into the mundane! You have awakened our souls and pointed us to the torn veil again and of Him who means everything! You have opened our eyes and hearts as to why we can even now have that brilliant hope... even midst our suffering!
Judy FollettJanuary 9, 2026
My very favorite speaker at General conference was Elder Holland. I loved listening to him, as he held my attention throughout his speaking. What a wonderful man. We will all miss him. I enjoyed Mark's story. Thanks for sharing it.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2026
So beautifully western. Thank you. Much more engaging than C. S. Lewis’ ‘Mere Christianity’.
DianeJanuary 9, 2026
Thank you for this compilation of beautiful messages and the invitation to delve into this year’s study with new eyes.
Douglas LieningJanuary 9, 2026
Well written. Thanks so much for taking the time to express these beliefs. You have brightened my day!
Edson José Martins LopesJanuary 9, 2026
My! What a marvelous, inspiring and exhalting text. It enables us to glimpse into the beauty of our past life, and despite the eerie view of this "factory", it shows us purpose. It makes it clear once more how important the temple is in our life, as a permanent reminder of our origins and future.
Joel MarksJanuary 9, 2026
God bless President Eyring and Elder Uchdorf!
Elisha JonesJanuary 9, 2026
That was absolutely beautiful!
LauraJanuary 9, 2026
I had not realized you were so enraptured with news put out by the MAGA right. The story you describe is inaccurate and unverified. Shocking that this concerns you more than ICE actions, presidential overreach, kidnapping of heads of state, acts of aggression to former allies, disregard for the Constitution, etc. No concern at the immorality, filth and lies coming from the president but willing to believe whatever he says no matter how improbable. Soon his flaxen cords will have us all bound so tightly we will have no freedom, no country.
Mike H.January 8, 2026
We do have to be careful about corruption allegations, I think of the "Pizzagate" hubris that almost ended in tragedy a few years ago. Also, a high up US Administration official announced that ICE was going to be going door to door to hunt down illegal immigrants.Nothing was said about needing a search warrant, or, if they will force there way in if they don't trust you, causing 4th Amendment to the US Constitution concerns.
David SmithJanuary 8, 2026
Your article missed the $64,000 question. Does modern analysis of the remains of the Joseph Smith scrolls match up with what is published in the Book of Abraham in any respect?
Paul BishopJanuary 8, 2026
Great take on a great man...
Eric LarsonJanuary 8, 2026
I'm just gonna say, that secret combinations don't really map that well on to the American left–right ideological spectrum; they don't belong to one or the other side of it. If anything, we've seen in recent events (and the author aptly illustrated) that Gaddiantons serve only themselves and will manipulate whatever systems, ideologies or people-groups they need to reach their goals; to take it all for themselves because they're bigger and stronger and smarter than someone else. The might-makes-right philosophy that seems re-ascendant today didn't turn out so well for Kishkumen or for King David, and it doesn't bode well for the future.
David HarmonJanuary 8, 2026
Nick Shirley has been debunked. His "investigation" is full of lies.
KJBJanuary 8, 2026
Never mind that this scandal began while Trump was president and was investigated by Biden's DOJ. Never mind that the perpetrators were white. Never mind that Shirley deliberately went to these daycare centers when they were closed to create a photo op. Never mind that the state of Minnesota investigated the centers afterwards and found no evidence of wrongdoing. Never mind that Shirley did this for blatantly political reasons and even bragged on Twitter about how he "ended" Tim Walz. Never mind that Shirley was even at the Capitol on January 6th. I hope those centers sue him for slander for two reasons. One, so they can get justice and two, so he and you can do what you do best: whine and cry about what persecuted victims you are. This is why people are leaving the Church: way too many "good members" who treat what is supposed to be the word of God as a social circle while saving their true worship for increasingly extremist right-wing politics. You're entitled to believe in whatever you like, but don't pretend for a moment that you care about what Christ Himself would have said or done.
L. ReyesJanuary 8, 2026
Enjoyed the article and will read your book
Kimberly GibbonsJanuary 7, 2026
For those asking, I found the source of the final quote. It is: Preface to The Gospel of Jesus Christ in the Old Testament, published by the Religious Studies Center (BYU) https://rsc.byu.edu/gospel-jesus-christ-old-testament/preface
KJJanuary 7, 2026
Thank you for the encouragement. I wonder how to go about countering it. We're conditioned by cancel cultures (on both sides) to believe it's the "other side" that's corrupt & not our own. We feel we are somehow protected en masse by group-think of the parties we "fight for." We truly are pawns in their armies.
Even if they do have some talking points or platform stances that match our values, we cannot sell our souls for them. It has become clear we traded one set of tyrants for another, we think they're fighting for us but we're really dying (literally and figuratively) for corrupt powers that be.
When things get scary and depressing, wise people tell children to "look for the helpers." We need to share that with the adults as well. If we look for the helpers, we're looking beyond our fears. We are looking outside of our current embattled spheres. We will gravitate to them. The helpers will be too busy being kind and being peacemakers to be caught up in the politics.
I was a political science major, I used to breath politics. Then I saw how divisive that was and had to develop other hobbies and even seriously question some of my beliefs. Did they match up with the gospel as I read in the scriptures and lived it? Did my party challenge some of the "amicus briefs" the Church filed? Were they peacemakers or calling names aka bullying?
MikeJanuary 7, 2026
Excellent article, but you're missing the forest for the trees.
Elon Musk is one of the robbers. He and DOGE were't actually looking for fraud, they were rampaging through government shutting down anything they could get away with in order to cut enough spending to justify tax breaks for Elon. He also shut down every agency that was conducting criminal investigations of him and his companies. He's solidly in the "letting the guilty and the wicked go unpunished because of their money" camp.
Also that group are thousands of criminals who paid Trump millions of dollars each for pardons from whatever crimes they committed. Most of it was up to billions of dollars of fraud/theft, but quite a few were violent criminals. When fraud is pardoned the criminal gets to keep what they stole and don't have to pay back their victims. Trump also pardoned everyone convicted of storming the capitol based on his lies that the election was stolen, and many of them have since been convicted of new violent crimes.
The scriptures about “usurped power and authority" cover the Trump administration, his judicial appointees, and all the Republicans in Congress who enable him. The administration breaks a new law practically every day and only a few law-respecting judges try to stop him. They say encouraging the military to uphold the Constitution and to disobey illegal orders is treason.
Be cautious with your admiration for Nick Shirley, most of his "investigation" is fraudulent. His "findings" had already been widely investigated with arrests and prosecution already having happened. Shirley visited centers after hours when they were closed, and of course they were empty while they were closed. Or trespassed during business hours and was refused entry because who's going to let random strangers into a daycare with children? His "informant" David Hoch is a many-time failed political candidate and agitator who says he was supplied "research on the child care centers from his contacts at the Capitol.” The Trump admin used the viral video to justify cutting off funding to blue states that didn't vote for him.
It's all part of "corrupted law to punish their innocent ideological opponents".
You seem to be claiming "marxists" are the modern-day gadiantons, but the corruption in the US is all the way up Trump, a former reality TV show host, and his enablers, most of whom came from Fox news to be appointed to political positions of power and glory. His and JD Vance's campaigns were financed by South African oligarchs Elon Musk and Peter Thiel.
Trump turned the capitol building into a golden alter to his ego and has enriched his family by billions of dollars in just a few years. He was an active participant in Epstein's trafficking and is a convicted felon. He has the full support of almost the entire Republican party.
We are in a tough spot as a nation.
Susan AndersonJanuary 7, 2026
I find it hilarious that people are still here in 2026 marveling about the prediction of corruption and secret combinations happening in our leadership as if this nation was not built on these things from the very foundation. How insightful to point out something that has existed since time immemorial and gasp, it is also relevant TODAY! What are we going to actually do about this aside from reading about it and marveling while we wait for Jesus to come save us? Also, shameful to be bringing some overplayed YouTuber who tried to enter into daycares with a camera as if that would ever be permissible or appropriate for a strange man with a camera to walk into a daycare. If that were to ever happen at any place where my child spends their day I would be LIVID. Not a good look LDS Living. I would also like to know what the BoM says about kidnapping a leader of a country and pedophelia. Can we start there perhaps? Could this YouTuber look into the Epstein files for us please?
David NicolJanuary 7, 2026
Any ideas from the Book of Mormon about kidnapping leaders and their wives from other nations and planning to invade and take over other nations (Greenland). It’s not just a Minnesota thing.
John B. HewlettJanuary 7, 2026
Excellent article, thank you for your insight and scholarship. I am saddened by so many of the faithful who have allowed their disdain for the flaws of DJT to cloud their objectivity about the evil and Gadianton corruption in every institution. We need more exposure, more illumination of the wickedness, in an effort to stem the tide of rot, filth and corruption we are being consumed by. Truth is truth, and EVIL is EVIL, and the entire political system is filled with graft, theft, and hypocrisy. Wake up, speak up, and be counted like the young Patriot Nick Shirley who is helping to show many of us the courage and fortitude we should have in exposing this condition.
L. ReyesJanuary 7, 2026
I’ve been saying for years that Latter-day Saints spend far too little time studying the OT. I’ve never once heard anyone bear testimony that “the Bible is true and the word of God.” That we spend one year out of four focusing on the OT results only in a cursory understanding. We skip over and skim through a lot of it. LDS members generally also lack any real knowledge about how the Bible came about, its own history, and why it’s so important.
I enjoy your articles.
LesnKCJanuary 7, 2026
I love this idea, but as a convert who still owns a red-letter edition of the Bible, I'm not comfortable with the color red in this version. I know this seems petty, but the color red was always the words of Jesus Christ. I definitely would purchase this if it were any other color of lettering for the JST.
GBuxtonJanuary 7, 2026
God help us to elect intelligent, wise, honest and truthful people who are committed to following the rule of law and upholding the constitution instead of worrying about their own re-election and falling into disfavor within their own party. Currently, I feel that the "solutions" created by this administration compound many of our nation's problems and are created from misinformation, exaggeration, power-grabbing and revenge politics. We need people of integrity to lead us. I pray that God will influence our elected officials to be the kind of leaders we can trust to do what is right.
Jeff LindsayJanuary 6, 2026
Thanks for the kind responses. Frankly, while the news and prophecies of corruption and secret combinations can be depressing, it is a wonder to me how relevant and insight the Book of Mormon has become on these topics. If the world would pay attention and study the Book of Mormon, they would find powerful evidence just in the secret combination material that the Book of Mormon truly is prophetic and marvelously accurate, complying with the findings of scholarship on how fraud and conspiracies work, their varied forms, and their impact on society. Powerful evidence of authenticity ad divine guidance.
LaWren BoothJanuary 6, 2026
Excellent courageous article!
With America’s 250th anniversary this year… find ways to be involved in your community. Learn about and promote the Constitution. Call your state and federal congressmen with your concerns. Call the Whitehouse switchboard. Financially support and/or campaign for candidates in the mid-term elections. Volunteer with your local county political affiliation in helping with patriotic educational events. Be a precinct leader. Run for county commissioner or school board or support those who do. Attend county, state , or even national conventions. Ask your bishop if you can speak in July in sacrament meeting about the gospel principles that gave birth to our nation and its relationship to the BOM. Teach your children to the ideals of America.
Richard D. GardnerJanuary 6, 2026
Well said! Too many of us are afraid to bring up topics such as this because we don't want to seem "political." But fraud is fraud. Whether daycare fraud or voting fraud, or judges that ignore their sworn duties to keep society safe and let repeat criminals re-offend. All upheld by the media that strive to cover up stories that don't fit their narrative. I too have made the connection to Book of Mormon scriptures about government corruption.
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
I'm all for creating family unity, and one of the best ways to avoid the political divisions is just to agree that you won't talk about that subject. I am really not interested in asking questions, or opening up a discussion, about WHY someone supports abortion on demand, or wants to eliminate the 2nd Amendment, or talk about trans-gender issues. I believe discussing these things is rarely productive or helpful. I think we should be focusing more on how we are alike as children of God, and on the love that binds us together. The world is obsessed with our differences which often puts "diversity" on a pedestal.
Jamie QuistJanuary 6, 2026
Amen! I especially like the idea that the scriptures about the secret combinations aren't meant to depress us, but to call us to action with the gospel, hard work and faith. That it is possible to defeat them.
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
Maurine, I think we have all experienced those feelings of being tired, overwhelmed, and wondering if God is really aware of us. We can also wonder why he doesn't seem to be helping us more. Like our Prophet, Joseph Smith, we cry out, "Oh, God, where art thou?" I felt this way recently, and received my confirmation in the temple that God is watching over and protecting me. The Temple is a wonderful place to intently look for all the ways the Lord shows His love and concern for us.
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
I like to think that, as Spirit Children of God, we had some small part in the creation of the earth upon which we would dwell. As a love of all things green, I hope I got to plant some seeds!
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
I'm with you here 100%, but many of us feel helpless. We pray for our nation, we vote for candidates we feel good about, we take opportunities to speak the truth and to speak out against corruption. Still, illegal actions are continually swept under the rug. Perpetrators are let go, and then commit more crimes again. I continue to pray that the Lord will preserve our freedoms and protect us from our enemies from within and from without, but it seems like there must be something MORE we can do.
Glenda PeckhamJanuary 6, 2026
Thank you for this wonderful article! I have seen too many Saints become complacent and more fearful of offending than being offended by the terrible corruption in our society. This is an excellent wakeup call for righteous people to gain courage and not be intimidated by the louder voices of those who would perpetuate this evil to destroy us and our nation. This should be required ready for all who love our freedom and our country!
Lonnie StradlingJanuary 6, 2026
These have been my same thoughts for years. Thank you Jeff Lindsay for the skill of writing them in a very thoughtful and persuasive manner.
Tom McKnightJanuary 6, 2026
Well done, Jeff. I enjoyed this a lot. Thanks for writing it.
Herm OlsenJanuary 6, 2026
Good on Mr. Shirley for exposing fraud. I wish he would now turn his attention to the corruption in the White House and Congress.
Edson LopesJanuary 6, 2026
It is evident that such corruption is flooding the whole world. Right now, Brazil seems to be a mirror image of what is happening in the US. Corrupt politicians that appoint corrupt judges, etc. The article can be totally applied here, just changing a few names.
Virginia RockwellJanuary 6, 2026
Thanks for this excellent expose. Truly why we have been encouraged to read the Book of Mormon. Also, perhaps why it is so denigrated among other groups, since we know who the father of lies is.
Phil MacLennanJanuary 5, 2026
I found this and the first article insightful. Thanks for them. We used them for discussion in a recent ward council meeting. Can I ask, is the picture of the two youth, also AI generated? We all thought it probably was. The two youth have wonderful countenances.
Curtis RasmussenJanuary 5, 2026
Can't help think of Chuck Colson in context (though not directly tied to your point about the speedy fulfilling prophecy...)
“I know the resurrection is a fact, and Watergate proved it to me. How? Because 12 men testified they had seen Jesus raised from the dead, then they proclaimed that truth for 40 years, never once denying it. Watergate embroiled 12 of the most powerful men in the world—and they couldn’t keep a lie for three weeks.”
I love his logic. It expertly frames the Three and Eight Witnesses (two of whom are ancestors of mine. JosephSmith, Sr., and Hyrum Smith).
So, though not twelve unless you include Joseph, eleven very, very ordinary men, some later estranged, all under enormous pressure never recanted.
People will suffer for what they believe is true, but Colson's intimate observation nails it. They don’t carry known lies to their grave.
LHJanuary 5, 2026
Would also like the details about the portrait of Jesus shown with the article. I don't think I missed seeing the info(?). Thank you very much!
Mark DonaldsonJanuary 5, 2026
Fantastic article! I too have tried to resolve in my mind several times how charity and love are different since both are mentioned together.
The line you wrote stating, "We can exercise charity toward people we have never met, people who post online, or toward politicians and those who support them. WE DON'T HAVE TO LOVE THEM TO HAVE CHARITY FOR THEM." Hit home for me. We don't have to love them, but we do have to show them Patience, Long Suffering, Kindness, etc.
Great insight! Thank You!
Corey D.January 4, 2026
I grew up in the 60's and 70's, I remember all the overpopulation scenario's that were prevalent in the media and sometimes even in education or at the time even so-called experts predicting the new "ice age" and the demise of humankind. Reminds me of a movie from the 70's starring Charlton Heston called Soylent Green, pretty sure that was inspired or motivated by the supposed shortage of food/overpopulation. There is enough food thrown out everyday in every corner of society in the US that could probably feed most of the rest of the world.
Corey D.January 4, 2026
Easier said than done. Especially when the family members viewpoints be it political, religious, social or whatever, particularly religious are what is causing them unhappiness in their lives but they don't see it or don't want to admit it and so they distance themselves from family.
Norine McClureJanuary 4, 2026
Where did you find the closing quote for this lesson?
Mackenzie P. YorkJanuary 2, 2026
This is such an informative and well-written post! I learned a lot from reading it and will definitely be implementing some of these tips in my own life
Haze K.January 2, 2026
You wrote:
"we found this wonderful summary"
But I didn't see a citation as to where you found it.
Please share the reference with us.
Thank you very much
CarolynJanuary 2, 2026
Thank you for this article which is full of reminders…I especially appreciate #9
Amen and Happy New Year!
JamesJanuary 2, 2026
I thought the predominant language in the church is Spanish so I am surprised there is not at least 1 Latin country on this list. Interesting.
Rob ArnoldJanuary 1, 2026
So true. I really miss the OTA weekly of Music and the spoken word. It was a great way to bury the week before and look forward to a new one.
(Professor) Debrah RoundyJanuary 1, 2026
This was a fascinating article. I remember in the 1990's when the first person discovered that each person write in a different Voice Print that was unique to that person.
The study has gone so far since then. I am in awe to see the changes and growth and how it is being used to identify the writer of a document, and even whether a person was speaking with revelation or on his own.
Eventually I used what I knew when checking for plagiarism in my university student's essays. I would compare an essay they had written in a 5-minute Quick Write with no access to the internet, to the essay they had written for, say, a test. If the document style did not match, I would Google for the author. I did not miss.
When I caught 80% of my students and made them redo it, the word got around fast. I transferred to another university and my reputation did not follow me, it beat me there.
Elder Donald GriffithsDecember 30, 2025
As an international Pathway Institute Teacher I experience this globalization in real ways. We don't tell stories of Pioneers but focus our examples and stories to reflect shared cultures. Even images of Christ, children, and disciples are selected to reflect cultural norms.
ShaunaDecember 30, 2025
I agree, President Holland was my BYU President and we have 2 daughters there now. I was moved and thrilled by his 2021 address. He said things that needed to be said, and nobody, but nobody, loved BYU more than President Holland, so he was the best person to deliver it. BYU needed to "clean house" and President Holland had the stature and the credibility to call for change. I was also reminded of a talk from October, 2011 called "we are all Enlisted" aimed at the young men in the Priesthood session. A video has been made called "stay within the lines" https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/video/2012-07-0007-stay-within-the-lines?lang=eng, which is a powerful wake up call to young men preparing for missions. Then Elder Holland says "I'm going to get in your face a little bit" because in part it's the only thing that seems to work. In essence, he reminds young men that God will not be mocked and that if they want to preach repentance on their missions, they need to be morally clean themselves.
The Savior also said many things that others found abrupt, or hard to hear. Surely, it is a sign of our discipleship of we are willing to hear "hard sayings": "For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths." 2 Timothy 4:3-4
L. ReyesDecember 30, 2025
Great and thorough review. Sounds like this book brings hope in a time of too much pessimism.
DumaDecember 30, 2025
Thanks for sharing this. "For the earth is full, and there is enough and to spare ..." "... Any man [may] take of the abundance ..." (Doctrine and Covenants 104:17-18)
Rochelle HaleDecember 29, 2025
As we love and revere all of the Lord’s chosen leaders, we look back with a little humor as we think about many recent General Conferences. We looked forward to announcements of new temples and instruction and counsel from Elder Holland.
My husband first met him when they served at the Institute at the University of Washington. As Jeff was called to other capacities, they stayed in touch from time to time.
About 15 or so years ago we knew we would be in Salt Lake, and my husband made an appointment to visit Elder Holland. Unfortunately, we were notified that he had an appointment out of the country, and our appointment was canceled. Several weeks later we found ourselves in Utah again. We stopped by the office and asked the secretary if we could see Elder Holland. She was about to protest, but Elder Holland recognized my husband’s voice through the open door. He welcomed us in for a short visit. We discussed family and our church callings. As we were leaving, he shook my husband’s hand, but he embraced me in a big hug. My husband said I floated out of the building.
We know that even prophets and apostles are subject to the frailties of life. We will miss Elder Holland, but we are thankful for our Savior Jesus Christ and his eternal purposes for us, especially that families can be together in our Heavenly home.
Janene ZimmermanDecember 28, 2025
This is a beautiful story of a missionary plagued by trauma from his childhood survival. It shows that love can make all the difference in a life that can seem hopeless. Those that intervened and showed that love got him on the right track. He can be a cycle breaker making changes in the trajectory of his life. A miracle here.
AlisonDecember 28, 2025
Many years ago Paul Harvey had a radio broadcast saying the same thing.
Esther SmithDecember 25, 2025
Thank you Maurine! This article is full of light and truth--the Spirit.
I appreciate it.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 24, 2025
Powerful. Thank you.
GayLynDecember 24, 2025
Thank you for this wonderful article. I sat down right before our Christmas Eve dinner and loved the way it got my mind into a great place as we celebrate the birth of Christ. Your insights are inspirational.
Karen Ririe KratzerDecember 23, 2025
At the sacred time when celebrating God’s gift of his beloved son, thank you Sister Linford for your inspired tribute honoring Brother Joseph on his birthday. l have no recollection of not believing his words and miraculous real life experiences leading him to become the first prophet of the restoration of the Church of and gospel of Jesus Christ; thank-you for sharing well known and not often quoted testimonies of the American prophet.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 23, 2025
My apologies to C. C. A. Christensen for spelling his name wrong.
Ronald BennieDecember 23, 2025
You can add my name
Susan RoylanceDecember 22, 2025
Thank you, Robert, for your many contributions to helping others understand and know the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon - through media, and sometimes through external evidences. We appreciate your effort to help spread "light" to the world.
Garfield CookDecember 22, 2025
Thank you for your article. Many have written about this topic, and you have done an excellent job in summarizing what has been said. Your clarification that Christ is "the only spirit child of God whose mortal body was sired by God" is important, because as other prophets have said, the physical body of Michael (Adam) was also sired by God but not in mortality, but in a premortal, paradisiacal state. The same would be true of Eve; and thus, in a real sense we are also the physical offspring of God via Adam and Eve (Luke 3:38).
Ben JonesDecember 20, 2025
I love putting up lights on the trees in front of our house but I also include a life-sized Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus sheltering under the big tree so that all who pass by will know why we celebrate Christmas.
HazelDecember 19, 2025
Reading this really hit home for me. I’ve always been curious about my family’s history, but some topics were never talked about. A few months ago, I started mapping out my family using a genogram, and it completely changed how I see my relatives and even myself. It helped me notice patterns I never realized before, both challenges and strengths. I used Creately's Genogram Maker to create it, and it made the whole process so simple and visual. Honestly, it feels like a small step that opens up a lot of understanding and healing.
A Joyful ConvertDecember 18, 2025
I have felt the same way for years but you put it into words so well. The Spirit can be so strong testifying truth to us in all sorts of situations and when the Holy Ghost fills me with light and truth I get so excited I want to shout out in joy! . Reverence has its place but JOY is meant to be shared with enthusiasm. All things testify of Christ but He doesn’t want pious members of His Church…he wants Joyful ones willing to share it with others. Thank you for this message!
Diana IshamDecember 18, 2025
When you posted this article back on April 5, 2021, you said it was "To be continued…" but I cannot find any continuation of it anywhere. Please let us know what has happened in regards to that continuation of it.
MaryannDecember 18, 2025
I love your expressions of joy! It sounds like you have great happiness in expressing your feelings of love for the Savior in all the wonderful traditions of the season. Perhaps sometimes people discredit the gift giving, the lights all over the house, the perfectly decorated Christmas tree, the never ending food preparation and baking, because they haven't learned to balance the extent of the DOING with their energy available to do it all. I was such a perfectionist that it was exhausting. I have learned to scale wayyy back because I just couldn't do it all without becoming overwhelmed, tired, and sore. We each need to find our own personal balance, and to remember that we CAN celebrate Christmas fully, without overworking. I am reminded of President Oaks' counsel to choose the "best." If we don't have the time or energy to give service during the holidays, maybe it's time to scale back on the lights.
Melanie ClarkDecember 18, 2025
I join you in JOY. Bless you for writing this beautiful tribute to the Savior and His season.
LoraDecember 18, 2025
In 1975, I was 20 years old and the "old maid" of the ward. I could tell because men old enough to be my father would say, "Why isn't a nice girl like you married?" The bishop talked to me about serving a mission, and my mom was furious, because serving a mission was a guarantee of being an old maid. Why? Because the return missionaries were 21 years old and encouraged to marry within six months of their return. A return sister missionary would be 22 1/2, and not a candidate for the available single men.
I love it that sisters can serve missions at the same age as the brothers. Not only are even pretty girls eligible to serve missions, but when they return and marry, we don't have the husband saying, "When I served my mission" and the wife not having that experience. Now they can BOTH say it. I've noticed that the sisters in the church who have served missions have more spiritual confidence and experience than those of us who haven't. This leads to healthier, more equal marriages. What a blessing for everyone!
Sandy BaileyDecember 18, 2025
There can’t be enough Christmas music and your new song is beautiful! Thank you!
ZinaDecember 17, 2025
That was beautiful Lynne. Thank you for sharing.
Linda WestoverDecember 17, 2025
Thanks, Lynne, for sharing your sweet thoughts and the beautiful song!
Your gifts are a blessing for many!!
DHHDecember 17, 2025
Very lovely song, both in message and music. Thank you for that inspiring message.
MargaretDecember 17, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful gift. You are very talented and your faithfulness comes through in this song.
Merry Christmas!
MarciDecember 16, 2025
Oh what a heartbreaking, tender story! I am so glad that it was the Douglas' that were there to help him. And give us all the powerful reminder of the Savior and the Atonement. How grateful I am! Thank you Becky, for this story!
Alexander ForsythDecember 16, 2025
A wonderful testimony!
Diane IrwinDecember 16, 2025
This article brings me JOY! Thank you for being the 'mom' that he needed on his mission. Talk about ministering to THE ONE. I am sure that you were overjoyed to hear from him, and that he had grown in the gospel. I love a story with happy endings!
LewisDecember 16, 2025
God does indeed love His children, no matter how forgotten they may be. The Savior's life was the prime example of seeking the lost, the lonely, the stranger and the foreigner, showing love, compassion and grace without limits. Thank you for this wonderful reminder of His love during this Christmas season
HelenCDecember 16, 2025
Tears. This was most definitely a successful, completed mission!
Janene ZimmermanDecember 16, 2025
This is a beautiful story of a missionary plagued by trauma from his childhood survival. It shows that love can make all the difference in a life that can seem hopeless. Those that intervened and showed that love got him on the right track. He can be a cycle breaker making changes in the trajectory of his life. A miracle here.
Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 16, 2025
Great article and well researched.
ScottDecember 15, 2025
BYU-Hawaii (BYUH) emphasizes peacemaking through its Intercultural Peacebuilding Program, offering a BA and certificate focusing on conflict resolution, cross-cultural leadership, and mediation, leveraging its diverse student body as a "learning laboratory" to train global peacemakers. This is rooted in the university's mission to be a "city on a hill" for Christlike discipleship, equipping students to resolve differences and foster harmony in their communities worldwide.
ShaunaDecember 15, 2025
Sad to see them go, I'm a huge reader and read only physical books, but people like me are becoming rarer and rarer. I'm well aware that Seagull sold a lot of things besides books, but I also see it as a sign of the demise of reading in this country
Charles McClellandDecember 15, 2025
Thank you for this eloquent description of the contentious times we live in and the Church's pro-active efforts to promote civility in our public discourse. We must strive to bring light to this dark world.
Ron BairdDecember 14, 2025
Great article! I worked at Sunrise Animation on this film as a concept artist. I designed most of the tabernacle. Lucky for me there was a traveling tabernacle exhibit in my hometown of SLC while I was working on the assignment and I got to tour it. It definitely influenced how I designed the space.
MaryannDecember 14, 2025
When we believe that we must have an answer right now for everything that we do not yet understand, we are seriously shortchanging ourselves. Instead of focusing on doubt, or lack of understanding, we can focus on all we love and believe. As stated in this article, our faith and understanding begin with building on our relationship with, and love for, our Savior, and also receiving His love. People seem to talk a lot about questions these days, almost glorifying them and placing them on a pedestal. Questions are fine, but if our faith requires a perfect understanding of all things immediately, we may find ourselves forgetting, or not recognizing, the knowledge and testimony we have already received. "Don't dig up in doubt what you planted in faith." This requires humility, patience, and faith.
Corey D.December 14, 2025
We teach and preach a lot about family and marriage in the Church but ultimately it all comes down to personal faith, personal testimony and individual obedience to covenants and commandments and those who do that will receive all that the Father has for them.
Richard GardnerDecember 13, 2025
"When that Family Proclamation was read to the church, and by extension the world, nothing seemed surprising, outlandish or different about it. We couldn’t have dreamed at the time that it would ever be a controversial statement or that it might someday be a core belief that would drive us to the margins of our society"
My mom has made the same comment to me several times. And followed it up with the same conclusion: God knew what was going to happen to our society, and he knew that what seemed normal would become unusual and vice versa, and he told his prophets.
LoraDecember 13, 2025
When my dad married my mom in the 1950's, he thought he was getting a housewife to take care of the home and kids. When Mom got active again in the 1960s, suddenly he had an LDS wife! Let's face it, the Church is like having another career! It's hard on a marriage when one person changes. Especially if one of them is judging the other for not changing, too.
As for eternal blessings, I took care of that after they died. They have both been endowed and I have been sealed to them. As for sealings to their other children, since they are both inactive, I have done what I can and I'll leave the rest to eternity. This is the Lord's Plan of Happiness, not the Plan of Anxiety, so I will trust in the Lord.
Henry B. Eyring shared a story about speaking with an unnamed prophet when he was worried about his family's choices in eternity. The prophet said, "Hal, you're worried about the wrong thing. You just do the best you can, and the family arrangements hereafter will be better than you can imagine." I'm holding him to it.
The best I can do is to show my family how much I love them, which is one way that I can bring the love of the Lord into their lives. The rest is up to the Holy Spirit.
Cynthia DeanDecember 12, 2025
Today's youth truly are astonishingly perceptive when given vocabulary for what they are experiencing. Those I have worked with burst with sudden relief and confidence when they receive the "diagnosis" of Satan's tactics and deceptions. Thank you for validating this concept.
T.F.December 12, 2025
We just have to wait, and trust the Lord's timing. Read Sisten Kristen Oak's interview with Sheri Dew in a recent Church News article. She didn't know why she was still single, and a friend told her to ask for a Priestnood Blessing from her bishop. He told her in the blessing that she should quit her job, or she would never achive her goals (mariage and sealing) in this life. She quit her job, and was soon introduced to Elder (now President) Oaks, who had gone through approximately 2 years of mourning after the death of June, and was ready to re-marry.
Juliann BradshawDecember 12, 2025
What a beautiful, compassionate answer for a difficult situation. To the woman I would say appreciate the fact that your husband has so many good qualities and has been a wonderful husband and father. Never jeopardize the respect his children/grandchildren have for him. Few have what we perceive to be the perfect LDS marriage and family. Whether “in or out” of the Church you personally can build a relationship with God. Then allow the Savior to do his mighty work with your husband and children.
Richard ManwaringDecember 12, 2025
When applied generally, this article can be a good argument for people of any faith who have felt God’s love and power to remain in that faith, whatever doctrinal concerns their religion might present.
Kurt ChristensenDecember 12, 2025
I find the discussion quite interesting, but despite AI's contribution to that, the real work is yet to be done.
Debrah RoundyDecember 11, 2025
Spot on, Just too spot on.
Juliann BradshawDecember 11, 2025
In number 3 I felt authenticity was misdefined. To be authentic is to be honest, real, not wearing a mask for approval, not being a chameleon to please others. An authentic person is not afraid to stand alone even when the crowd has a sheeple mentality. They stand for truth when others capitulate to get along. Authenticity is rare in the world. It’s rare in the Church.
Rochelle HaleDecember 11, 2025
The Disney "You've got a Friend" is very sweet, but now poor Mr. Potato Head doesn't have a mouth. I happened to catch a commercial the other day for a brandname chocolate spread. As the family was preparing breakfast, the relative who had been away comes through the door. It was reminiscent of the Folger's coffee commercials, and I recognized the same jingle playing. I am not a coffee drinker, but it's interesting the lasting impressions that some ads or music will have on us. We appreciate the sentiment, but we also need to be aware.
Craig PetersenDecember 11, 2025
Your two articles are both useful and concerning. Useful because they provide insightful ideas and suggestions. Concerning because they are so insightful and were generated by AI in a fraction of the time it would have taken a human author.
Many books are available about the potential dangers of AI. If you don’t want to sleep at night, read If Anyone Builds It, Everyone Dies by Yudkowsky and Soares. It’s over the top, but provides a chilling scenario. The how is yet to be seen, but AI will dramatically change the world we live in.
Janet FawcettDecember 10, 2025
Nailed it! This is exactly what is happening. Now we have to focus on the antidotes. We know what to do— we just need to be aware and intentional and pay attention! The answer is always Jesus Christ! Get them into the temple early. Protect the home environment. Be fully present and recognize the power of keeping our covenants to bring greater influence of the Spirit and know how to build the connections and teach the truth in loving ways.
Kayleen SmithDecember 9, 2025
Thanks for these uplifting and completely truthful words!!!
Chuck DeWittDecember 9, 2025
The Wentworth Letter is a treasure of Church History and Joseph asked it never to be edited. Yet someone edited the Priesthood Manual version, removing one paragraph some people did not like. Read the entire letter in the Ensign July 2002 and you will see what has been edited out by 2007 and now in our study this year. Learn what Joseph Smith knew and why it was edited. I love our Promised Land
Cynthia Carlson CarlsonDecember 9, 2025
I'm really excited about this, and already hooked! I deeply enjoyed "Leadership and Self-Deception" and "The Anatomy of Peace." Ferrell's books are so readable and relevant. I'm ordering now, for me and Christmas gifts. Thank you! I might have missed this one!
Amy Jo HadlockDecember 9, 2025
I served a mission in Potosi, Bolivia. Some say it’s the tallest city in the world. I remember for the first three days, I felt as if a semi truck had crushed my lungs. I was short of breath I and felt light headed. After 3 days, a miracle occurred and I could breathe. This reminds me of the Lord’s Resurrection, that our bodies can be made glorious and live in the Light and Glory that we now do not now enjoy. The Lord strengthen and sustained me through His Atonement to do His work.
ErinDecember 9, 2025
There was actually a book published by Cedar Fort in response to the Hulu series called The Not-So-Secret Lives Of Real Mormon Wives. It showcases eight LDS women, how they live their lives and, the impact they have on their families and communities. It was later made into a feature length film called women in Christ. The film was beautifully done and very uplifting, but unfortunately, due to lack of advertising I don’t believe was widely seen.
Tamra DodgeDecember 9, 2025
It all boils down to: Be the person you’re looking for. The Law of attraction will take care of the rest.
MaryannDecember 8, 2025
I was a little hesitant to read this article because I thought, "Oh, boy, one more "TO DO' LIST. But, I was very happily surprised that the suggestions had more to do with growing in love ---taking time to be aware of our critical thoughts and lifting them, developing a more loving attitude, focusing more on our Savior and savoring his teachings in the scriptures and in the Temple, and, of course, reaching out in service, perhaps in small ways that don't overwhelm us. These suggestions do take effort, but they are very gentle and lift me instead of burying me under just too much. Thank you, Joni!
MaryannDecember 8, 2025
This is a great message. If you are happy where you currently live, and you have friends and family there, think twice about moving. You may find that the small things that bother you about where you live may be very inconsequential compared to the problems of living and adjusting to a new place. After the death of a spouse, it's also good to wait at least a year before making any big decisions.
MaryannDecember 8, 2025
I appreciate this article, and I would stress that the very good questions suggested are not appropriate to ask unless you have a relationship with the person. I would NOT want to be asked "What is divorce court like?" by someone I don't know very well. If it seems that someone is lonely or doesn't appear to have friends to talk with, we might be tempted to be their sounding board, but we need to be VERY cautious about asking personal questions, no matter how carefully they are phrased. A sister in our ward lost her first baby very close to the end of her pregnancy. I had experienced the same thing years ago. I didn't know her, but I sent her a letter of sympathy, and told her if she ever needed to talk I would be happy to listen, since I had experienced a very similar loss. She chose not to contact me, and that was ok. She had loved ones and others to talk with. I don't think asking her any questions would have been appropriate in this example. Many times people just need a hug and to know that you are praying for them.
Seth StewartDecember 8, 2025
It's both. Lucifer is dastardly. If we think we can do no wrong, we are guaranteed to fall straight into his trap.
VicGDecember 8, 2025
The article poses several important questions near its end, one of them being a challenge as much as a question - “How do we protect the public’s understanding of a faith whose image is shaped more by entertainment than by lived reality?”. Due to the sheer number of these negative “reality shows” the time has arrived, I feel, when we need to jump into the pool and boldly represent who and what we actually are. I’d like to see “The TRUE Lives of Latter-day Saint Wives” - done in a style similar to the many uplifting reality shows aired on the BYU channel. Those shows generally don’t have a fixed character cast (and so are not ego-focused, among other things) but move from life to life, story to story, showing the breadth and depth of lived life. The general appeal of that concept, aired on a high profile network level, may be more publicly contagious than one might think. Maybe I’m naive, but I think there are many who are tiring of the negativity and the sheer hollowness of these other so-called reality epics.
Corey D.December 8, 2025
Well written story Brother Bishop with some great insight and explanations.
Kerry FarrDecember 7, 2025
A great reminder, written so well, Lynne. Thank you
Myrna LiddellDecember 7, 2025
Your “humor” came through quoting Boyd K Packer, suggesting we were absolved from doing Family History research. He was an avid advocate of finding generations of relatives.
Rolf SorensenDecember 7, 2025
We are trying to find Maurine's article from last week about Scotts surgery it was fantastic and wish to print it but cant find it?
Nov 30 2025
Rochelle HaleDecember 6, 2025
I served in the 70s, and I don't recall having any preconceived notions about calling home, receiving mail, etc. We just knew these were part of sacrifice. We could not call home for Mother's Day or Christmas. Mail was difficult, so we learned not to expect packages. Even communication within the mission had some drawbacks, as we had to use landline phones where we lived or go to a public phone, leave notes for our district/zone leaders or send letters to the mission office. Our training included 5 or 6 "flip-chart" discussions, from which we were to teach without much variation. I think the advent of "Preach My Gospel" and the use of phones and iPads have totally changed missionary work (when used correctly). In one area where I served, the idea of food storage or preparedness was just beginning. One Relief Society President spoke at length with my companion and me. My companion's mother was a RS President back home, so my companion said she would ask her for some information. Through snail mail it took several weeks to relay the request, let alone receive a response. My husband and I frequently assist the missionaries assigned to our ward by making phone calls to or sharing testimonies with new friends or those already taking discussions. Often, these calls can be made from one area, while we are home in comfy clothing, just taking a few minutes of our time. I believe technology has been a real boost to missionary work, especially giving access to church videos, cross-referencing scriptures, calling home for emotional support, FamilySearch, etc.
Meghan MainDecember 6, 2025
I am also a Merrill descendant on my mother’s side, I have the family genealogy and I love learning everything I can! I currently reside in Florida but I want to go to the homestead in North Carolina. Fell free to find me on Facebook so we can share genealogy! Meghan Main
Linnea HoyosDecember 5, 2025
Lyle, You are correct. During the Millennium, Christ will reign personally upon the earth, and there will be significant changes in the world.
In terms of determining our final "resting place", the Millennium plays a role in the process of judgment and resurrection. Here's how it ties in:
Resurrection: At the beginning of the Millennium, the righteous will be resurrected. This is often referred to as the "first resurrection." Those who have lived righteously will be brought forth to live with Christ during this time.
Opportunity for Growth: The Millennium will be a time of learning and growth. Those who did not have the opportunity to hear the gospel or fully accept it in this life will have the chance to do so during the Millennium. This period allows for further spiritual progression and preparation for the final judgment.
Final Judgment: After the Millennium, the final judgment will occur. This is when individuals will be assigned to their eternal "resting places", such as the Celestial, Terrestrial, or Telestial Kingdoms, based on their choices, actions, and acceptance of the gospel.
The Millennium provides a unique opportunity for individuals to continue their spiritual journey and prepare for their eternal destiny. It's a time of hope and promise, emphasizing the mercy and justice of God in allowing all His children the chance to return to Him.
R.W. ThoelkeDecember 5, 2025
I think the benefit to writing letters is that you have a record of your activities and feelings. No one can re-read a phone call. Also, for some people, hearing voices can make one more homesick. I served in 1979-80. We made it with letters alone, and now 45 years later those letters bring back so many memories as I read them again. I don't remember being able to call home, although I did once when I was having a really hard time.
Rob McGhieDecember 5, 2025
Great article. I thought the expression “telestial entertainment” and “telestial language” was very good, something we should all take measure of in our lives.
BayDecember 5, 2025
The Articles of Faith are need a cogent summary of restored doctrine that was once known by Christianity and lost, other than the Book of Mormon mention.
What’s missing, though, is one really doctrine (or two intertwined ones): the family and the temple. I’m not sure why this isn’t there as the 14th article!
Maija HeinonenDecember 5, 2025
Wonderful. Thank you very much! The heavens opened up for me just now. Merry Christmas to you all. May God bless you all. Love Maija from Finland.
KathleenDecember 4, 2025
Great ideas for introspection, self-improvement and spiritually strenghthening the most important relationship in our lives. Thank you.
Craig petersenDecember 4, 2025
First comment. The identity of the learned doctor is not provided in the Orson Whitney pamphlet.
The second comment about what happens during the millennium is fascinating and speculative. The celestial will be resurrected during the morning of the first resurrection, so that issue is settled. The telestial aren’t resurrected until the end of the millennium, so they remain in the spirit world.
But what about the terrestrial who are resurrected sometime during the millennium-the afternoon of the first resurrection? Can they progress during the millennium to get their resurrection upgraded to a celestial status? Seems possible.
Your thoughts.
Laura LesebergDecember 4, 2025
As I have faced some of the things you mention (autoimmune disease that ebbs & flows, parent on hospice, etc), I can really relate to this shift in perspective! I love this, and plan to use this phrasing whenever I can.
CraigDecember 4, 2025
Who was this "learned doctor of divinity" that brother Whitney spoke to?
Richard GardnerDecember 4, 2025
On my mission in Brazil in the late 80s (this is pre-email), our letters took 2 to 3 weeks to travel in each direction. And the area presidency forbad calling home, even on Mothers Day and Christmas. Now, missionaries can video chat weekly. It does make me wonder why the rules changed so drastically; was there a benefit to the old rules?
HelenCDecember 4, 2025
Thank you. I know the well-intentioned inquiries often fall short of their mark. When I returned to work after my oldest daughter had died from breast cancer a truly sensitive coworker stepped in front of me as I navigated my way to my desk for the first time in a year. She simply asked, “Would you prefer to talk about it or not?” That allowed me to acknowledge MY need without needing to please her.
LyleDecember 4, 2025
The one thing that as a convert of over 45 years that I don't hear about, if at all, is the millennium.
How does the millennium come into play when helping to determine our final resting place?
In my mind and my way of thinking, there is a thousand year period where I have the opportunity to continue to grow and become the person that I need to be so I can be exalted and live with my eternal father. Am I wrong in thinking this way?
I read so many times where so much emphasis is placed on living the best way now and how only this life determines where we shall place ourselves in the possibilities of our eternal life.
But we fail to mention that 1000 year period where we will live and continue to grow BEFORE we sit with our Father and determine our fate for eternity.
Why? I have so wondered, is this not mentioned to us more often? What am I missing? What don't I know?
Paul BishopDecember 4, 2025
I really appreciated this article and its new perspective asking friends struggling with health problems or difficult personal situations how they 'are doing.' As suggested, using a more generalized question regarding a friend's ongoing experiencing opens the door for a wider, less personally intrusive, conversation. A friend may not want to explain the status of their struggle in the moment due to embarrassment or resentment toward a perceived need to 'report' or give an 'update' on their physical or mental health (as if the questioner was in a position of superiority), but they might be more willing (and possibly grateful) to share their overall experience with the situation they are facing.
Lois WhartonDecember 3, 2025
Thank you, Brandi Hicken! Brilliantly said. I am so sorry for the ugly treatment you have endured. I pray people can be kinder and more Christlike in the future.
Ricardo P.December 3, 2025
This is a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing!
Mark & Maggie MartinezNovember 27, 2025
We absolutely love this article. Thank you Maurine for sharing. So beautifully written. Every soul on earth can relate to this. Maggie and I think about you guys often. You guys have touched the hearts of so many. Praying for the both of you and for Scot's speedy recovery. Love you guys!
Adriana Ovejero RodríguezNovember 27, 2025
Thank you for sharing your story in this article. I needed it today and it resonated with experiences I've had with the Lord's tender mercies.
Prayers for Scott's recovery.
Kerry FarrNovember 27, 2025
Beautiful testimony of God truly being in charge❣️ May we remember, acknowledge, and trust.
Craig PetersenNovember 27, 2025
What a positive, uplifting article. Your family has done and will continue to do so much to promote the Lord’s work. Thank you.
Jim WNovember 27, 2025
This just proves that fashion can be modest and classy at the same time. Based on the imagery from the video, the fashions depicted were down to earth, mostly practical, and there was no shock aspect to them. Kudos to these students for showing how fashion could be.
Corey D.November 26, 2025
Our stake conference for many years was the week before Thanksgiving, one stake conference years ago Elder Vaughn J Featherstone was the visiting general authority. After the opening song and prayer one of the counselors in the stake presidency got up to announce the speakers, as he turned to sit back down Elder Featherstone got up and came to the pulpit and said, as best as I can remember, " I'm going to make some changes to the program, we are going to sing a couple of songs not on the program, they are songs of Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving seems to be almost forgotten anymore but it should be one of our most important and remembered holidays".
Carol HuffNovember 26, 2025
Best wishes and prayers for a quick recovery.
Kayleen [Hunsaker] SmithNovember 26, 2025
So many prayers for your healing during this time of recovery.
So thankful you were home as this happened.
Gratitude = resilience!
BarbNovember 26, 2025
What a beautiful story. I have a brother-in-law who has actually had two open heart surgeries., The first one when he was only 40 and the second one when he was in his mid to late 60s. I wish he had had the opportunity to have read this before his surgeries. I pray that Scott will be back doing his normal things very soon. At 76 years old, my brother-in-law still works part time with a good seemingly healthy heart.
SueNovember 26, 2025
Thankyou Maurine for expressing OUR feelings on the power of gratitude so wonderfully and truthfully. And I say our, because of the experience of my husband passing away at home from a heart attack, and not on our road trip. From the moment I found him the tender mercies came, and the feelings of immense gratitude for our faith and watchcare were embedded into my heart and mind. Gratitude is indeed a protective shield for us. Again thank you for your beautiful and comforting words and prayers for Scott's recovery.
Edi WinbergNovember 26, 2025
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family at this time of recovery for Scott.
Thank you for the beautiful reminder of being Grateful for what we are given and for our trial. Sometimes we forget to be grateful for trials and that is what strengthens us.
Larry TippettsNovember 26, 2025
Thank you, Maurine, for your inspired message to us all in the midst of Scot's surgery. I hope it is shared abundantly on Thanksgiving Day. God bless you.
Marie ButcherNovember 26, 2025
I'm so glad to hear of your gratitude through this very hard and difficult journey, Scot. May you continue to be blessed with healing.
Love,
Marie Butcher
Karla BurkhartNovember 26, 2025
Whenever I sing or hear the song it makes me think of the King singers because every time they sang with Tabernacle choir, we sang that song together. I have loved it for years and I am so glad to see it in our handbook.
john HansonNovember 26, 2025
In Habakkuk 3:17-18, we read: “Though the fig tree shall not blossom…yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation.” (That’s a very different prayer than, “Make my fig tree blossom or else, I’m done with you.)
Powerful thought. But sort of hard to remember in times of trial
HelenCNovember 26, 2025
My far-from-interested next-door neighbor met twice with our missionaries and although he said they “pushed him hard” he was impressed to see young people out in the world, doing something good, “For a change”.
KarinNovember 26, 2025
Thank you for your example of faith and God's power, and thank you for strengthening our faith.
Sending prayers for you, your husband and your family.
So grateful for your daily messages.
HelenCNovember 26, 2025
Though I have little claim to it, I am grateful to call you “friend”. Perhaps we will meet again at the Oregon coast. May your Holidays be filled with love and light.
HelenCNovember 26, 2025
I’ve been struggling with resentment over my circumstances that I just don’t seem to have the energy to handle. Two days ago I realized what I need to pray for is the strength to ENJOY them! I don’t want to rest; I want to work; so I’m praying for more strength and energy, not less responsibility.
What a joyful approach it has proven to be!
Quick healing, Scot.
Mary BellNovember 26, 2025
Beautiful article Maurine. Yes! Gratitude to our Savior for all the wins. He loves us. He loves your Scot, and your whole phenomenal family. I also had full sternotomy open heart surgery. Years later, I haven't felt this good in decades. Recovery was slow-about two years for me-but worth it. I am so, so grateful I went through that experience for many reasons. I am especially glad to feel so much better, and more energetic now. Scot will get there too. Big hugs to you friend!
Wayne ThorntonNovember 26, 2025
Sister Proctor,
Thank you for sharing these intimate and precious looks into your marriage and family. I will add my prayers to others that Scott heals in a textbook perfect and miraculously quick fashion. My level of gratitude has increased today!
Dennis PageNovember 26, 2025
Sorry to hear about your open heart surgery. It was a good article,
Charles McClellandNovember 26, 2025
May the Lord bless you in your healing, Scot. We pray for a rapid recovery. And thank you for this inspirational article, Maurine.
Brent OlsenNovember 26, 2025
Wow! I read your here your there your everywhere, and then this? You’re having open heart surgery! SHEESH! Glad to hear you’re now doing great! Your support group is Fantastic! Hang in there! Blessings to you and your Family!
Paul JonesNovember 26, 2025
Thank you for your profound teaching and good example Maureen and Scot.
Alexander ForsythNovember 26, 2025
General William Booth (founder of the Salvation Army) said: "Some of my best men are women."
Alexander ForsythNovember 26, 2025
Your thoughts and those of others shall bring comfort to those in need of them.
May Scott have a speedy and full recovery.
MaryannNovember 26, 2025
We are seeing so many signs that the Lord truly is hastening His work. The gospel is flooding the earth, and these wonderful young sister missionaries have a great role to play in that divine purpose. Our Prophets have often taught us about the powerful, uplifting influence of women. We are going to see amazing things take place as these sister missionaries go forth to help gather our Heavenly Father's children into His fold.
MaryannNovember 25, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing this experience with us, and for your beautiful testimony of gratitude, and also of the Savior's power to lift our burdens of crippling fear. On a note of encouragement: my father had triple bypass open heart surgery in his 60s, and lived to a ripe old age. I am so grateful to the Lord that we live in a time where such miracles are available to us.
MaryannNovember 25, 2025
My husband had similar experiences serving a mission Ireland in the 60s. It was a very tough mission, and he was involved in only two baptisms while he was there. The people were carefully admonished by their churches about not responding to the missionaries message. Twenty years later, we were able to visit Ireland and some of the people he had known. They were so excited that they had a REAL chapel. It was wonderful and uplifting to see the changes and growth of the church. It is also thrilling to witness the explosive growth of the church in Africa. We can see the Lord's hand and power over the whole earth. In the midst of the challenging times we live in, people will continue to be drawn to the church as they witness the joy and peace that the gospel brings into our lives. We need to find opportunities to tell others what church we belong to, and then we need to set a loving example. These are powerful missionary tools.
Pam Williams PrattNovember 25, 2025
Thank you for this article pointing out such a wonderful, touching hymn. The words of the hymn articulate my feelings exactly at this Thanksgiving time. I shared this article on our family Signal thread. Thank you again!
James Stuart BrownNovember 25, 2025
I am saddened but not surprised that Cincinnati Bearcat fans were disappointed when their team was losing and sought someone to blame. To conflate what they deemed to be poor football refereeing with their distrust of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints seems to follow a dysfunctional flow, but it helps to define bigotry. I hope that true Christians can connect the dots and see that the Church is following the Savior's admonition to return good for evil. Those who cannot recognize or make the connection that we are doing the "Christian thing" are themselves not Christian in word or deed. They have a lot of growing up to do. We, the members of the Church, need to continue to turn the other cheek when necessary, but don't be shy in pointing out that Cincinnati students got 27,000 pounds of love in the form of food. Like so many negative things, sincere people will wake up and want to know more. Events such as this are "filters" that separate the sheep from the goats.
vbNovember 25, 2025
Beautiful lyrics set to an old, evocative folk tune titled O Waly, Waly.
Corey D.November 25, 2025
Thank you Sister Linford for that reminder of our blessings. I recently completed a Service Mission working in the Transistional Services Office at Welfare Square, Transistional Services helps those who are homeless, transient or coming out of the Jail/Prison system with immediate/emergency needs of food and clothing and provide them resources where they can get longer term help. In the spring of 2023 we started to see recently arrived immigrants coming into the office for help, mostly from Venezuela and Latin America, occasionally from Africa and the Middle East and on rare occasion Eastern Europe. It went from maybe 10 or 12 a day in April and May to as many as 60-80 a day during the summer of 2023 and we continued to see regular numbers of immigrants into 2024, the number of immigrants dropped off dramatically starting in Jan of this year for obvious reasons. I speak fluent spanish so I worked a lot with the immigrants from latin america, it was pretty stark the stories some of them would tell about getting here and the things going on in their countries. I was amazed at how many single mom's came in with children and wondered what they had sacrificed or had to do to get here or protect their children. But also listening to the stories of the homeless, those on the precipice of homelessness, those coming out of the jails, really reminded me how blessed I am, how blessed most of us are. So many of Heavenly Fathers's children in need.
Jim, from CANovember 25, 2025
The melody is familiar; I once learned it in high school choir. I believe the title of it was "The Water is Wide". Glad it found its way into our new hymnal!
CarolynNovember 24, 2025
Kathleen, Please go to our Facebook page, you can email or message me and I can send you all the details. We are changing our collection sites, good growing pains. Thanks! I'm excited you want to join us!
MaryannNovember 24, 2025
I hope everyone will read Part 2 that completes this article. Very interesting to contemplate. Thank you.
LW ReyesNovember 24, 2025
The Church’s historical narrative SAINTS revealed how women were encouraged by Joseph Smith & other leaders to offer blessings of healing and support. Yet this practice came to an end, under John Taylor it seems. Does anyone know when/why/how women giving blessings stopped?
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
Great message Michaela!
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
As the mother of six young adult daughters, I can testify that young moms need all the honest praise they can get. Sometimes these words are the paycheck. Being a mom is one tough job-as you have well explained. Hugs, encouragement, noticing the good-it all counts. This is why I wrote my LDS book, The Pursuit of Happi-Nest, to encourage all moms (not just Latter-Day Saints).
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
Love this!!! Thank you!
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
'bananas sold by the tree"!! Ha ha!!!
Verl WNovember 23, 2025
Agreed. Outrage and contempt are twin tools of Satan to destroy peace among peace-seeking people.
Ken MazzantiNovember 22, 2025
The Savior accused the members of the Sanhedrin of relying on the written word, yet denying the power thereof. The prophesied Savior was standing before them testifying of the fact that He was the promised Messiah, but they denied him. There are those who refuse the truth even when it is clearly before them because they lack the humility to accept the facts that prove that their position on religion is not correct or is at best insufficient. The fullness of the gospel of Jesus Christ is available to all those who seek the truth and are willing to humble themselves to accept the truth rather than their own opinion.
Gordon HensleyNovember 22, 2025
Most of the books of the New Testament (the exceptions being the Gospels and the Revelation of John) were put in order not by chronology, but by length.
JillNovember 21, 2025
This is an extremely insightful article and so well written I really appreciate it. I plan on reading it many more times. You have explained the futility in focusing on others wrongs if we want to have compassion, humility and become more like the Savior, and you've done it in a way that really gets at the core of the problem. I'm not a good writer so this comment is not doing justice to your content so let me just conclude with another Thank You!
ShawnNovember 21, 2025
Thank you for this article. I would also like to point out outrage’s close cousin: Contempt. Contempt is the idea that some person or group is utterly beneath you. I will argue that contempt is 100% poisonous and destructive to charity and compassion. Unfortunately it’s everywhere in our world. We can’t call ourselves disciples of Christ if we harbor contempt for Gods children for any reason.
HelenCNovember 21, 2025
I have always thought it expedient to point out that the word “bible” comes from the word “bibliotek” (sp?), meaning “library” and that the book of Revelation is, in and of itself, untouched.
Robert StarlingNovember 21, 2025
Dan, I think you may be on to something. You wrote: "there is a prominent Islamic tradition that a “renewer,” a mujaddid, will appear in each century after Muḥammad to revitalize the faith and provide something of a course correction for the Muslim community."
What might be the effect on the world of Islam if somehow Muslims were to come to view Joseph Smith as a mujaddid?
NolaNovember 21, 2025
Wow, just giving her more of the same that almost killed her is malpractice if nothing but seems more to me like deliberate, abuse, and thinking she was not worthy of living. As a former RN, I would have never administered something that had caused anyone any problems in the past especially oh my goodness right there in the hospital she had had problems and almost died and they gave her a bigger dose. You don’t do that nowadays people go to prison for that
Robert StarlingNovember 21, 2025
Thank you Jeff, for standing up for this obviously persecuted family, and for opposing judicial corruption and malpractice. I hope and pray that others will be motivated to join the fight for basic human rights to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness".
Laurisa R.November 21, 2025
Great article. I’ve often thought the evangelicals’ adamant stand against new scripture, and thus Latter-day Saints, stems from an ignorance of biblical history, where the Bible actually came from and how it came to be. Even we LDS don’t spend enough time learning that and we should. Also bear in mind that the Catholic Bible contains books the Protestant bible does not, and they are worth reading.
James StarkNovember 21, 2025
This is my translation of John 5:39-40: [Ye] search the scriptures; [because] in them ye think ye have eternal life: [however] they are they which testify of me. [But] ye will not come to me, that ye might have life.
All of which is to say, searching the scriptures is all well and good, as long as doing so leads us to Christ. But if not, then we are missing the mark.
Alexander ForsythNovember 21, 2025
The KJV was translated in 1611.
Have all the non English Bibles since then been based on this English Translation?
How can we be sure that all the foreign language translations of the Book of Mormon are accurate; as the Reformed Egyptian gold plates are not available—for consultation?
KathleenNovember 21, 2025
Thank you for your wonderful suggestions. Please post an address to send ornaments.
KathleenNovember 21, 2025
The joy of a silver lining.
KathleenNovember 21, 2025
Great points. I might add the importance of understanding the fall. Those who don't, see no need for a Savior and redemption.
Douglas NadybalNovember 20, 2025
It is a bit of a stretch to say that we came to earth on God's "invitation". I was recently invited to a party, but chose not to go. There was no penalty for not going other than I missed a good time. I was not cast into outer darkness, nor was my progression stopped. If you chose not to come to earth, you by default, aligned yourself with Satan's plan. We all clearly had a decision to make, with the option to stay put was off the table. I'd call it more of a relocation than an invite.
CoyNovember 20, 2025
My hearing is gone, I would like to request the return of the transcript of your podcast. Thank you.
Joyce YoungNovember 20, 2025
Eve had to make a choice from two commandments God gave. If she obeyed one she couldn't obey the other. If she didn't eat the fruit she wouldn't have had seed. She realized that in order to fill one commandment-to multiply and replenish, she had to eat the fruit, thus transgressing the other commandment not to eat the fruit of the tree. She made a wise choice and Adam saw that it was right.
Rochelle HaleNovember 20, 2025
Thank you. I love that we learn about Adam and Eve in so many places. I sometimes get bogged down by the order of creation, but the placement of man and woman are the most important. Sometimes, we hear comments on TV or friends of other faiths malign our first parents; blaming them that we aren't all still in the Garden of Eden. They don't understand that we wouldn't be here at all. We are so blessed to have agency, to have the opportunity to overcome sin, and to have a Savior who loves us. Our first parents paved the way for all of God's children.
JohnNovember 20, 2025
Excellent article.
Priesthood keys (stewardships) are rarely the same. The Lord establishes and grants stewardships that fit the person, couple, leader, or counselor. Look for roles and stewardships that expand the whole rather than those that produce a fake equality.
Eve stands face-to-face with Adam in her saving and progressing role -- but not as a duplicate of Adam. Discover your feminine potential rather than looking for sameness.
AshleyNovember 20, 2025
This is wonderful, thank you! What books or documents did you use as source material here? I would love to look them up and read them as well for myself.
MichelleNovember 20, 2025
SO thrilled to see Part 1 of _You and We_ being shared here. This book is one of the most important books I have read. For me, it pulls together concepts I have been studying for over three decades (including through Arbinger's work that Jim Ferrell led). I have been sharing it with everyone I can. It challenges me to think in elevated ways that I think really can change the world.
For Latter-day Saints, I believe concepts in this book can aid in seeking to create a more Zion-like way of living in relation with each other -- and even with God.
I highly recommend this book. I've already hosted two book club discussions on its concepts and models, and plan to hold more!
SherriNovember 19, 2025
Did you go to latterdaysaintmag.com/podcast? That's where the transcripts are.
LindaNovember 19, 2025
I enjoy your podcast, but I need to have the transcript because I miss a lot. My hearing is not great.
LenoreNovember 19, 2025
I'm glad that it was brought out that Eve did not receive the commandment to not partake of fruit of the Tree of Knowledge. She was not around, in any of the accounts, when Adam received the commandment, and it was Adam who "fell, that men might be."
I love this article's perspective on Eve!
Kristi Lee MortensenNovember 19, 2025
I am totally DEAF. I would have love transcript. Please. Thank you.
Cathi BondNovember 19, 2025
I, too, would like the written words of the broadcast, please to go along with the audio.
Thank you for your uplifting messages!
Karla BurkhartNovember 19, 2025
We love celebrating Hanukkah at our house. You have reminded me that I need to order candles.
GaleNovember 19, 2025
We have barely finished watching the miniseries John Adams years after its release. It is still fresh in our minds and hearts, and this article continues it to another generation. Fascinating!
Sally SmithNovember 19, 2025
What a spectacular symbol of our country. The symbol of blood, sacrifice and giving theree all to create a country so God's work and glory could be restored to the earth!
Mari ToddNovember 18, 2025
Amen!
Kathy SandersNovember 18, 2025
Love this perspective so much. Thank you.
Debbi McCrackenNovember 18, 2025
I love this perspective and have also been studying the role of Eve and the way Hebrew is so expressive of nuanced meaning. Even the little bit of Hebrew I have learned is wonderful!
AnnaNovember 18, 2025
Thank you for that insight! Loved it... and feel there is more to come just as you said. Line upon line, it's amazing to see how the Melchizedek Priesthood keys found in the temple, keys of the knowledge of God, are bringing forth these truths. Our knowledge is expanding.
JaniceNovember 18, 2025
Wow! Just wow! How enlightening to see how understanding the Hebrew changes our perspective.
Diane BlakelyNovember 18, 2025
It would be nice to read this since my hearing is almost nonexistent.
Sasha William KwapinskiNovember 17, 2025
The Book of Mormon affirms that degrees of truth and inspiration are given to the different nations and people of the earth. I have had the opportunity to learn and read about the Baha'i faith (which also claims to be a modern-day religious dispensation) and to give some discussions for local Baha'i groups about commonalities between their faith and ours.
CynthiaNovember 17, 2025
I love your stories about Rising Star Outreach! Thank you for being such an example in being an instrument in the Lord's hands.
Vic G.November 15, 2025
A beautiful essay. Thoughtful consideration of Doctrine and Covenants 130:10-11 answers a longstanding debate as to whether or not there is eternal knowledge progression in the Celestial Kingdom - including the eternal knowledge progression of God. The answer is a resounding ‘yes’! Not only is our personal white stone a key to an infinite repository of knowledge pertaining to the things of higher realms, but the intimate, individual nature of this personal ‘Urim and Thummim’, coupled with our own personal searchings and inquiries, suggests that each of us will possess, at this higher level, a unique, individually tailored, knowledge base - that no two of us will be in possession of the exact same data set(s) in relation to those higher orders. A stunningly beautiful and exquisite doctrine.
KatieNovember 14, 2025
This resurgence of the feminist movement truly saddens me. I am college educated, well-traveled, and religious. I enjoy homemaking, and I had the privilege of being with my kids, going on field trips, volunteering at their schools, and being home when they got home for the major portion of their lives. I am also a business owner, meeting personally with clients on a regular basis. In none of this did I feel the need to demean the contributions of my husband or feel that he was putting me in a lesser category. Most of my friends have worked outside the home while raising their children or developed home-based businesses that are very successful. This "cause" has been ongoing since I was in college (several decades ago), possibly earlier. Women have many rights legally afforded to them, whether single or married. We have come a long way from our sisters in earlier centuries or those still struggle in other nations. If these "feminists" believe that wearing pants or no make-up, swearing and protesting, or belittling others will help reach their intended goals, I offer, "Then what?" There seems to be a cause of the week, so what is the long-term agenda that will make these women happy? I would offer that they consider the rights, privileges, and even blessings that they do have, instead of searching to invent the wheel, especially at the detriment of their own families, co-workers, etc.
Lenet ReadNovember 14, 2025
The Lord used animal sacrifice for centuries to teach of Christ's sacrifice
It is possible He used polygamy as a similitude of Eternal Lives. How else could He teach of that. By having a few men take multiple wives He could bear witness of the great posterity available to those who keep His covenants, but through many generations of time.
MaryannNovember 14, 2025
Thank you so much for your much needed reassurance that plural marriage is NOT required for exaltation in the Celestial Kingdom. Elder Bruce R. McConkie clearly stated this fact in Mormon Doctrine, emphasizing that the Nephites did not practice this principle. I do not believe that any man can even begin to understand the pain and fear that women in the church experience, who have been mislead to believe they will be denied exaltation unless they live this principle. The very thought of being forced to live in this kind of relationship is devastating to a woman's heart and soul, in ways that a man could never comprehend.
MaryannNovember 14, 2025
I feel sure that plural marriage was a true doctrine given to the Prophet, Joseph Smith, for the temporary need to build up the church, and to bring Spirits being born into the Kingdom of God. I am grateful to know scripturally, and also from modern day Apostles (Elder Bruce R. McConkie) that entering into plural marriage is NOT a requirement for exaltation in the Celestial Kingdom. I don't believe that it is possible for a man to understand the depth of pain and fear experienced by women who mistakenly believe they will be forced to live the law of plural marriage. There could be nothing more destructive to a woman's heart or soul.
LindaNovember 14, 2025
Thank you for this article. The world is getting so scary! I'll be glad when the Savior comes again.
JoëlNovember 13, 2025
Ce texte est un changement profond dans ma vie et dans ma vision des choses .. Très content de cette lecture .
David CookNovember 13, 2025
Obedience to God's current commandment is always the highest priority, even when different from what's come before: The Law of Obedience comes first.
Jamil SrourNovember 12, 2025
Tanya, thank you for this beautiful and deeply insightful article. It was an honor to participate in a small way by sharing some of my linguistic and cultural insights. Seeing how you wove those elements into the symbolism of the “tent of my father” was inspiring. Your ability to illuminate the covenant patterns in Nephi’s record enriches the reader’s understanding and strengthens testimony.
Grateful for your work and for the opportunity to contribute, even a little.
— Jamil Srour
RobertNovember 12, 2025
The sad part about polygamy is most people on the outside approach it from the "lust" stand point as opposed to the way God intended it and that taints their understanding of it. Some Church members do the same.
Some key points.
1) Polygamy has been lived while all parties are living in the final generation, the generation of the fullness of times.
2) What God commands, he can revoke.
3) Whether you have 1 wife or multiple, the reward in heaven is the same. Just like Church callings. Whether you are the nursery leader of the Prophet of the Church, if you live a true and faithful life, meaning living the very best that you on a daily basis, and knowing that can change day to day, the reward is the same.
4) Some days living the very best we can could mean barely able to get out of bed due to illness, while other days can mean you are up, working, etc.
RobertNovember 12, 2025
Simply put, the D&C tells us God/Lord can command or revoke. God does not necessarily need to explain or elaborate on why he did command or why he revoked. Rarely does God explain or elaborate.
Our only role is obedience to what God commands or if He revokes, obedience to that.
GaleNovember 12, 2025
I'm pushing 80, and my body is doing me no favors. In the discomfort of my ill health, the news this morning (and almost any morning) is pushing me over the edge and making me wish I had been born in some other era of mortality. At my desk, the thought washed over me: "You knew this was going to happen (all this last days chaos), and now you get to see HOW it happens." I started to calm down, and then I scrolled down to see the image that accompanies this article. I've had six precious babies. I feel blessed and comforted. Thank you. (And this is just from the lede and the image.)
MeijkenNovember 12, 2025
Thank you for sharing these powerful insights. I love the story of Lehi's journey through Nephi's eyes, and this deepens the meaning. I especially like what you and Jamil said about the symbol of the tent. This is so important to consider in our world today and in light of President Nelson's and President Oak's messages about the home and family. Where I live in Virginia, one of the license plates that we can choose from has the phrase, "Peace begins at home." As we focus on fortifying our families spiritually, peace will prevail and flow from our homes to our neighborhoods and further, as Elder Stevenson talks about in his recent conference address. This is what the world needs today - the peace of understanding that we are all children of God with a divine purpose and destiny. This is what you learned under your father's tent and what Nephi learned under his father's tent. I especially love how you point out we will return to our Heavenly Father's "tent" after all.
DonnaNovember 12, 2025
Very illuminating. I now understand the higher motivation. It is a very long article.
Maggie CatheyNovember 12, 2025
I saw this story when I returned from Utah to close my brother's estate. Michael was a Social Worker for the State of Utah. He passed on the 31st of Oct. I sent this to many people in my family. It has helped us
tremendously.
JoëlNovember 11, 2025
J'ai connu beaucoup d'anciens combattants en. difficile situation (guerre d'Algérie), c'est difficile a gérer..
KathleenNovember 11, 2025
Heartwarming and beartifully expressed!
JoAnn BairNovember 11, 2025
Thank you for helping us remember those noble souls on this sacred day.
ShaunaNovember 11, 2025
Thank you for your thoughts and sweet stories. In honor of the 250th anniversary of this country next year, I am reading a 9 volume historical fiction series (Prelude to Glory by Ron Carter, a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints), primarily on the Revolutionary war, but which covers through the War of 1812. I have been floored, and deeply humbled, by the sacrifices, some of which are described in this article, of these citizen soldiers, who gave everything to establish this country. They did indeed starve, had no uniforms, some lacked muskets, had no shelter, except that which they built...and received no pay...even at the end of the war. Some went home after 6 years of fighing and had nothing to show for it, and their families and farms had had to somehow survive without them, and now would have to find a way forward. They rarely revolted and were in awe of Washington, who honestly deserves every accolade he gets.
As David McCullugh says, "Indifference to history isn't just ignorant; it's a form of ingratitude. And the scale of our ignorance seems especially shameful in the face of our unprecedented good fortune. What's so worrisome about the college student who doesn't know that George Washington was the commanding American general at Yorktown is that he also, therefore, has no idea that it was Washington who commanded the Continental Army through eight long years in the struggle for independence. I'm convinced that history encourages, as nothing else does, a sense of proportion about life, gives us a sense of how brief is our time on earth and thus how valuable that time is."
GayeNovember 11, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful post. I attended church this week in a London suburb. They call it Remembrance Day in England. At 11:00, the sacrament meeting paused and we all stood for 2 minutes of silence. It was moving to me to think of my father and father-in-law, my grandfather and beyond who served and fought for our freedom. I thought of my husband's uncle who died crossing the English Channel on Christmas Eve when the transport his unit was on was sunk by U boat. I think of uncles and great uncles who served valiantly and horrible situations. I am grateful for my freedom. I pray that we will always appreciate it so that we can maintain it.
Terry JacobsenNovember 11, 2025
Thank you. From the wife of a veteran who has seen too much.
Linda HuntzingerNovember 10, 2025
What a wonderful man! We will all be blessed by his ministry.
bob taylorNovember 10, 2025
great idea - i had a friend make up a series ot t-shirts for me- "i have decided" on the front, and then some phrase on the back of the shirt - stand up, speak out, go camping, other phrases that caught my attention. had several times when people - strangers, commented on the shirts, asked what i had decided - all i had to do was turn around - they got the message, and gee me a smile for sharing.
JuneNovember 9, 2025
Thank you for this very insightful article. As an Interior Decorator, past tense but always creating in many ways going forward, I am awed in a new way by the term "Creative" (noun), as opposed to and "Engineer", "Teacher", "Mechanic", etc. etc.! In the crafting world, people are referred to as "Makers". But being a "Creative" & more fully understanding its spiritual connection is right up my alley! Thank you for helping me more clearly define myself, after being a daughter of God. Once, after moving from a large home to a smaller apartment, it was chaos everywhere & quite overwhelming. It took me 4 1/2 months to get everything in order & turn the chaos into a really lovely home. It was then that I realized it was a mini act of taking 'matter unorganized' on my human level & creating a beautiful abode, just as the Lord has done in creating worlds without number. Divine creative acts & potential for nurturing beauty everywhere are truly a blessing to be honored & cherished. And I do so now more fully after letting this article soak in & touch my soul. We "Creatives" have a lot to do going forward.
Richard CraycroftNovember 9, 2025
An interesting side note: Joseph Smith was, perhaps, the first major candidate for President of the United States to be assassinated.
Lynn GardnerNovember 9, 2025
Thank you for explaining why I am who I am and why I do what I do!
JeaNette Goates SmithNovember 8, 2025
Wow! There is so much wisdom we can take away from this experience that we can apply in our own lives. Thank you for such thorough research.
Terry RichNovember 8, 2025
Thank you for this thoughtful article. It will certainly enhance my temple experience it truly portrays the depth of God's love for his children and their Eternal destiny.
David A CookNovember 7, 2025
Joseph Smith proved by his life and death that he was not a fraud. Nobody endures what he did then dies for something they know to be false.
Dane BoundsNovember 7, 2025
I've long noticed that Joseph's stay in "Liberty Jail" was a turning point in his life and in the history of the Church in this dispensation. But your article and Spencer McBride's insights give detail and clarity to how that watershed came about. The Prophet became a driven man after his imprisonment and visit to Washington DC. And at the same period, he had to deal with family matters (death of father, care for his mother, wife Emma's struggles with persecution and plural marriage, training future leaders, dealing with apostates, restoring temple covenants, leading an exponentially growing church membership, and dealing with non-members and public officials who did not understand what he was trying to accomplish). What rare challenges this man in his thirties had to deal with! Many thanks for your enlightening article.
Alvin H. AndrewNovember 7, 2025
and where it appears in the History of the Church: https://www.josephsmithpapers.org/paper-summary/history-1838-1856-volume-c-1-2-november-1838-31-july-1842/469
Alvin H. AndrewNovember 7, 2025
The original Wilford Woodruff notes: https://www.josephsmithpapers.org/paper-summary/discourse-20-march-1842-as-reported-by-wilford-woodruff/1
Alvin H. AndrewNovember 7, 2025
The website references for Joseph Smith's teaching of infants was incomplete in the article. Here is the URL for the Times & Seasons: https://www.josephsmithpapers.org/paper-summary/discourse-20-march-as-published-in-times-and-seasons/1?highlight=they%20were%20too%20pure,%20too%20lovely,%20to%20live%20on%20earth
Douglas B. WhitingNovember 7, 2025
The "extermination order" was not a license to kill, as stated in the article. But it was a license to (violently) remove Mormons from the borders of Missouri. At the time of Joseph Smith, the primary definition of "exterminate" was "Literally, to drive from within the limits or borders. Hence, 1. To destroy utterly; to drive away; to extirpate ("to pull or pluck up by the roots; to root out; to eradicate" (vegetation)). Source: Webster's 1828 dictionary.
ShaunaNovember 6, 2025
Fascinating--thank you. Just recently I had some of this pointed out to me. this context will enrich my temple experience even more.
Traci WalkerNovember 6, 2025
Oh thank you for your tender treatment of one of our most beloved doctrines. Until 2 years ago, I had never lost a parent, a sibling, a spouse, or a child. Hope of the next life became very real to me as I buried my dear mother. The covenants that bind me to her are precious beyond compare. We love you - Frank and Traci
TJNovember 5, 2025
How comforting it is to know that even when our timing isn’t “perfect,” the Savior’s always is. I believe that in reaching out to her neighbors and striving to help them feel the Savior’s spirit, this young mother may have opened the way for her neighbor to come and speak with her. As President Nelson reminds us, “The Lord loves effort.” Her time spent preparing and hosting the Christmas party was not wasted, even if the outcome didn’t match her expectations.
Diane IrwinNovember 5, 2025
I LOVE this!!! What a perfect example of ministering as the Savior does. It shows that in the midst of the chaos we can make a difference!
LindaNovember 5, 2025
Thank you for this!! So true!
CraigNovember 5, 2025
To brother Forsyth:
In 1950, Elder LeGrand Richards wrote the book A Marvelous Work and a Wonder. For many years, it was an important resource for understanding the doctrines of the restoration. The book starts with a story extracted from a pamphlet written by an early apostle, Orson F. Whitney:
Many years ago, there came to Salt Lake City a learned doctor of divinity, a member of the Roman Catholic Church…… One day he said to me: “You Mormons are all ignoramuses. You don’t even know the strength of your own position.
This was the point being made: if the Catholic Church is true, then the protestant churches are wrong. If the Catholic Church is false, and the protestants who broke off from them are also wrong. Either way, he argued, the protestants don’t have a leg to stand on. So it’s either Catholics or the church of Jesus Christ to let his Saints.
LorettaNovember 5, 2025
What a tender reminder that we all need to hear. Thank you for sharing.
Tori BlackNovember 4, 2025
What a great idea for a podcast! I love the name and look forward to the episodes.
RianNovember 4, 2025
Susanne, you can find the podcast on Apple, or Spotify. Good luck!!
Lori FinlayNovember 4, 2025
Yay!!!
I"m so thrilled that you are starting this wonderful podcast Michaela. It will be so transformative for sisters in Zion - regardless of where we are in life.
I too, have had to wrestle with the "measure of my creation", as I did not have my own children. However, after very careful study and a lot of prayer, realized that yes, I AM fulfilling the measure of MY creation in my way and my world.
I am on plan H ;) in my life. I would have never imagined that I would come out of retirement at age 61, to pursue my coaching practice empowering women's health and write a best selling, award winning book. I too have had to ponder and pray to gain the confidence that GOD is the one who put these desires in my heart and had lead me each and every step.
Just last week I was introduced to a quote from Brigham Young - “It is the duty of a saint of God to gain all the influence they can on the earth & use it wherever they can”. We as sisters in Zion do have a responsibility to be a light and influence for good regardless of our life circumstance.
I'm grateful for your passion, skill and willingness to take on this great project.
Here's to blessing so many lives!!!
Susanne DavidsonNovember 4, 2025
What a beautiful new podcast! I’ve always followed Scott and Maurine Procter podcast ( but have they stopped as recently there is no podcast for past two or three weeks???) . I know you are their daughter and I so enjoyed this podcast.
Thank you for this uplifting time which makes me think of where am I ( a widow) and what can I do
I look forward to each week listening so can you send me the link where I can find you? So many Thanks.
DJNovember 3, 2025
I just listened to the introduction on Apple. As a 68 year old woman, I look forward to hearing the voices of my sisters; older, younger, and of different backgrounds, and how they have chosen to listen and follow the covenant path.
CommentNovember 3, 2025
24 Wherefore, the Lord commandeth you, when ye shall see these things come among you that ye shall awake to a sense of your awful situation, because of this secret combination which shall be among you; or wo be unto it, because of the blood of them who have been slain; for they cry from the dust for vengeance upon it, and also upon those who built it up.
25 For it cometh to pass that whoso buildeth it up seeketh to overthrow the freedom of all lands, nations, and countries; and it bringeth to pass the destruction of all people,
DJNovember 3, 2025
I love your insights. Thanks for sharing.
DeniseNovember 3, 2025
This is such a BEAUTIFUL article!! Thanks, Lynne!
Sharon ShogrinNovember 3, 2025
For some reason I can get the written version of your Podcast but there is no longer a place to click on so I can hear it.
RosemaryNovember 3, 2025
I can read Scot and Maurine's Come Follow Me podcasts for the past three weeks, but the sound podcasts are not available. This week's I don't see yet at all. Am I doing something wrong?
Gordon HensleyNovember 3, 2025
"Be fruitful and multiply and replenish the Earth" is not just a direct commandment, but may also be a line of programming inserted in the DNA of all living things to enable self-replication. Like "Take in oxygen and expel carbon dioxide."
Ronald BarnesNovember 3, 2025
I have a warped way of looking at things so please bear with me. I grew up in the church in Missouri, well aware of the Extermination Order. When it was rescinded, for me it took away some of the fun of being a 20th Century member in Missouri. I am a product of my time, and I hope the saints who suffered because of it will forgive me.
Ronald BarnesNovember 3, 2025
I have heard and read a lot of "near death" experiences. Some I have questioned, but most of them I have not. There are similarities between many of them, and many are unique, but they all have one thing in common. Every one of them has been individual to the one experiencing them, making each one difficult to dismiss.
BarbaraNovember 3, 2025
When my husband served us the stake young men’s President, he did not bend the rules for my 13 year-old son to go on youth conference, which was held two weeks prior to his 14th birthday. During youth conference, my son was riding a friend‘s brand new bicycle, and when he applied the brakes, they worked so well that he flew over the handlebars of the bicycle and broke his arm. (We never had new bicycles for him to ride, so that was an astonishing discovery for him. Ha ha) He and I were both pretty frustrated that he hadn’t been able to go to youth conference, because basketball tryouts were coming up quickly. He had been a star player in middle school, but he was trying out for a high school team, and doing that with a broken arm did not impress the coaches. He did not make the team. During the next several months, he strengthened his interest in his new guitar. That led him to working on his piano skills more as well. Within a very short time he was blossoming into a promising musician and taught his close friends some skills and they formed a little basement boys band. The musical ability was enough of a blessing, but the strengthening of those friendships and the strengthening of all of their testimonies through their good association and efforts is, in hindsight, a magnificent blessing that came from his dad‘s decision to be exactly obedient to the guidelines at the time, even with his own son.
Bob MartinNovember 3, 2025
My wonderful wife of 57 years Kay died two days ago in an accident I just received a blessing from a member of the Mission Presidency who came to our house. After the blessing I came to my computer and saw this video of Ella Jensen.Great comfort. Many thanks.
Rolf SorensenNovember 2, 2025
we are not able to listen to your podcasts tonight 11/02/2025 this podcasts' seems to be a recurring issue and is disappointing. You folks are just quite the best and we miss listening.
Corey D.November 2, 2025
Thank you for that article, I was deeply touched by the stories and comments. I just this last week finished my service as a missionary with the Transitional Services Office located at Welfare Square and was thinking about my experience and all the people I have met and what I have learned, the things homeless people and newly arrived immigrants and folks coming out of jail and prison and rehab have taught me and then read your article and was greatly moved by it, thank you.
Mindi & Chris HendersonNovember 2, 2025
Are Scott & Maurine okay? We miss them!
Richard CraycroftNovember 1, 2025
The AR-15 is not, by definition, an "assault rifle." It is a semi-automatic rifle. Maybe I'm just nit-picking, but this an article about being factual.
Bradley R. LarsenNovember 1, 2025
I posted the following about 2 days ago. Never showed up in your comments section. I would love to have a private discussion about this issue w/Bro. Densely. It's very important topic. He is welcome to contact me through the email I've provided with this comment.
The other side of the coin regarding conspiracies and those who might look for evidence of such, is the powerful current tendency of people to be triggered into thinking that all conspiracy proposals are crazy and those who push them are nut jobs.
You could level all the critique you marshal about the dangers of promulgating ideas of conspiracies, and how misguided those may be who do so, against people who put their head in the sand about such things.
Your mention of “drug cartels”, “Operation Berkshire, Watergate, the “sinking of the Titanic” is low hanging fruit when it comes to conspiracies. They are all either obvious criminal conspiracies or crazy.
And what does your comment about 265,00 social media posts [appearing} between January and March 2020 related to the COVID-19 pandemic” have to do with what may be the truth of many of the allegations made in these posts? How about nothing. These comments may very well be ‘riffing’ off of very real data and analysis. Should people shut up about these things because not doing so will “lead to disunity and contention in our society”??
Could it be that keeping quiet about these impactful issues may result in far worse damage to society than airing solid information about them, whether promulgated by social media or not? This is a certainty in my view.
I’m curious how you reconcile the general view promoted by your article with D&C 123:13 “Therefore, that we should waste and wear out our lives in bringing to light all the hidden things of darkness, wherein we know them; and they are truly manifest from heaven—”
. . . or with Moroni’s injunction in Ether 8:23-24 regarding the danger of letting secret combinations get above us in the last days. A secret combination is a conspiracy by definition. How do people “awake to a sense of [their] awful situation, because of this secret combination which shall be among you”, if they give into a powerful aversion to talk or even think about such things?? Seems rather wrong-headed to me to fall into this trap.
MaryannNovember 1, 2025
President Nelson's comment regarding the dangers of rehearsing our doubts with others is so valid. So many have left the church because of this very act. Consistently voicing your doubts, questioning the Prophet, or even bashing the church, can become like a contagious plague. I have also noticed an increasing trend of placing our doubts on a pedestal, as if we are so very wise to constantly question truths. I have a testimony that we CAN CHOOSE to believe and trust in our Savior, Jesus Christ, and the doctrines He taught. We CAN CHOOSE to believe that Joseph Smith was a true Prophet of God and that he saw and experienced exactly what he said he did. We CAN CHOOSE to believe we are led by a true Prophet, chosen by God. Many times the strengthening of our faith follows that choosing. Elder Boyd K. Packer instructed missionaries to bare their testimonies of the things they HOPED are true, and told them that the witness of the Holy Ghost would follow, baring witness to the fact that they were speaking the truth. I have personally experienced this in my prayers. Whatever doubts we encounter, we can hold fast to our Savior, be persevering in prayer, church attendance, and feasting on the scriptures. Often, we just need to keep pressing forward, and having the patience to wait for confirmations.
Susan SchumacherNovember 1, 2025
It is with a thankful heart that I read of these experiences. That history has been remembered through written testimony is a gift from God. That witnesses prevail is God‘s way of surrounding us with his love. Thank you for sharing in a masterful prose the undeniable testimony of these regular people blessed by God‘s strength to bring forth the mighty restoration of his church and kingdom upon this earth.
KathleenNovember 1, 2025
Thank you for the refocus! Beautiful parables.
Alexander ForsythOctober 31, 2025
Please provide more details as regards the Catholic Doctor who was quoted at the commencement of this article. Thanks
Valiant JonesOctober 30, 2025
Thank you for this, Scot. You are so often blessed with miracle photo shots. My Great-Great Grandfather, Isaac Laney, survived the Hawn's Mill massacre in spite of 13 bullet holes in his body, so your efforts to remember this now sacred location are special to me and my family.
CoreyOctober 30, 2025
I am once again surprised and intrigued by the similarity in belief between the LDS and Eastern Orthodox!
Pauline HarryOctober 30, 2025
My ancestor is Thomas McBride.
CarolOctober 29, 2025
I love the title of your post!! Christ was out with his people doing good everyday. It has inspired me look for more ways to be among the people and serve them with true love and care as Christ did!
CarolOctober 29, 2025
What a fun 'trick' for Halloween!! The kids will have a story to tell for years and the "ghost" will have a good story to tell too!!
Kerry FarrOctober 29, 2025
So beautifully said, Lynne
This is the true gospel and pure love of Christ in action. If ye had known me❤️
We must minister in each others’ homes and learn each others’ stories to create Zion❣️
Debrah RoundyOctober 28, 2025
I have studied about the holidays for many years. I taught school and taught my children where different traditions came from, so I researched a lot. This was particularily interesting because I learned a lot of new things. Thanks so much for sharing with us you knowledge.
GTOOctober 28, 2025
This is excellent and totally worth the effort you put into it. At the Latter-day Believers YouTube channel, we just published an interview with a former Episcopalian priest who converted. Her husband was a Lutheran minister. They both had master's degrees in divinity and have studied all the greatest theologians. She says the theology in the Book of Mormon is impossible for any of these great religious teachers to achieve. When critics try to match the Book of Mormon with the Spaulding manuscript or View of the Hebrews, etc., they are forced to look at language and style. They can't touch theology.
Juliann BradshawOctober 28, 2025
Lots of good points to ponder. I would suggest you add D&C 123, especially vs 13-15 though. The Book of Mormon is full of warnings, counsel and incidences concerning secret combinations so that we, in this dispensation, awake to our awful situation and become aware of those in secret chambers seeking our destruction.
BayOctober 27, 2025
This is so good! I don't think I've read a more thorough and understandable summary of the causes, mechanisms, dangers, and prevention strategies for conspiracy thinking. Many thanks.
Linda Huntzinger CalhounOctober 27, 2025
Wonderful! wonderful!
ScottHOctober 27, 2025
Someone I care about has become deeply entangled in various conspiracy theories. As institutional trust approaches zero, emotion becomes the gold standard for reality testing. This person now actively seeks conspiracy theories that stoke passion; it's like an addiction. They even become upset when others don't share their passion. I wish I knew what to do.
Richard DahlOctober 26, 2025
A very good article, thank you. I have been in mortality for 88 year and never once have I gone hungry for lack of food, or lacked clothing, or lacked shelter. My needs have always been fulfilled and many of my wants satisfied because of obedience to the law of tithing. As stated in the article the Lord doesn't need our money, but we need His blessings.
Ilunga Mbidi KiluweOctober 24, 2025
This is true! This can apply to men also.
Gary COctober 24, 2025
I would like to offer a minimal perspective of the husband’s point of view here. I have also been accused of these things as a husband. However, in perspective, the marriage needs to dig and find the root cause of the husband’s frustration.
In my experience, my wife didn’t work outside the home. I would come home from a long day’s work frequently and find the home a mess, the baby crying, diaper needing to be changed, etc. You get the picture. Then after helping with home chores I would have little time to unwind from my day. This began to wear heavily on me. Frustration set in. Yes, eventually I because angry. Having the wife’s perspective only here does not contribute to finding the core reason for his frustration.
Please offer up a possible reason for the frustration of the husband. He’s probably a good person who just needs a real partner in his marriage.
Sara GrovesOctober 24, 2025
Thank you for this article. I had no idea of the origins of these holidays. I am one who, though I love seeing the little ones in their cosine, eagerly seek for candy; I had my doubts about the ghoulish holiday. But to learn of the origin of all the others is fascinating. Again, thank you.
AnonymousOctober 23, 2025
This was just what I needed to read. Thank you.
Kim BoslerOctober 23, 2025
“The people who need me, the people who depend upon me . . . there’s nothing like that for giving us a sense of meaning, identity, and purpose,” Erickson said.
Yes. Exactly why transitioning to empty nest can be challenging. It’s then that we realize true happiness is not chasing happiness and always feeling needed but pursuing holiness. Our relationship with God brings joy no matter what stage of life or if we are single or married.
Kathy SandersOctober 23, 2025
I am always so grateful for the promptings to write and know that I need/want to. Your article framed the getting started process in a new way and I thank you! A wise person said to me the other day that, "those who write tell the story". If we don't write our stories, we will be invisible in a generation or two!
MICHAEL R. LOVERIDGE. J. D.October 23, 2025
Inspired hymns truly can strengthen us. I'm particularly moved by the music and lyrics of "Behold The Wounds In Jesus Hands."
This verse, so simply yet eloquently written, is a special reminder to me of the Savior's supreme sacrifice on our behalf:
"We cannot see the love of God,
Which saves us from the Fall,
Yet know that Christ from wood and nails
Built mansions for us all."
MaryannOctober 22, 2025
This movie was intense throughout, and very thought provoking. The main theme is to be true to what you know is right, and to have the courage to speak that truth. Helmut, a 17 year old LDS boy, prays and is strengthened in courage, to the point of being willing to face death for his convictions. Although the movie was fantastic, the torture scenes were just too much for me. The pain suffered by these valiant young men, along with millions of others, and the unbelievable evil that existed brought me to sobs. It wasn't news, of course. I have read many books about WWII and learned about it in school. I am 74, and even after all these years, the unfathomable evil that Hitler and his cohorts engaged in is too much for me to bare.
Ralph Gallini, JDOctober 22, 2025
I went to see this movie yesterday. It was fantastic. I have recommended it to my grandchildren since many of them are young adults and teens. But all should see it. We live in times that are very precarious so we all must be willing to stand for the truth.
Diane BlakelyOctober 22, 2025
I was just contemplating Christ's commandment to love this morning when I opened my computer and found this article. Dynamic!!!
Thanks for expressing your thoughts so well and having the ability to think so deeply.
Juliann BradshawOctober 22, 2025
I clapped at the end of the movie to honor the brave boys and the director willing to bring forth the story. It is a hard watch and will stay with you. The director did not spare the audience the harsh realities of torture and living with fear. How can a government be honored who has to revert to scapegoats, lies and torture? A populace willing to let an entire race be murdered while they themselves have to turn in friends, neighbors and coworkers. What did 16 year old Helmut accomplish? His story is his legacy. We see ourselves in the characters and it indicts or inspires. Would I be so convicted, so brave, so true to my beliefs? Would I put my friends, family and congregation in danger because I felt truth burning in my soul? Are you brave enough to go see this movie? Leave 12 and under home.
Rochelle HaleOctober 21, 2025
I love this! Over the last several years my ward has challenged us to write our life stories using a specific set of questions as a guide, write about meaningful experiences we have had, and write 10 (or more) things that others may not know about us. All of these can be put into a journal format or used for sharing or discussion during FHE or family gatherings, especially with grandchildren or relatives we don't see often. Perhaps my "5" would be: 1) My conversion to the Church, 2) How tithing financed my mission and helped me overcome other financial obstacles, 3) the blessings of family, 4) the blessings of service and callings, 5) How we can be grateful during serious illness or other adversities.
brian stubbsOctober 21, 2025
Many enlightening spots, like Matthew 9:45. If one set to watch over people (an eye) is going astray, then separate yourself, don't go along. Trust God, not another. That would have been useful advice for many ancient Israelites led by errant kings and false prophets. And for Judah in Jesus' day when Judah's leaders were working to destroy the Great Jehovah and his work. And for Latter-Day-Saints when voices lead away individuals or splinter groups from Joseph's day until today, again working against the work of Jehovah and his faithful servants.
J.G. BaileyOctober 21, 2025
Great. I thoroughly enjoyed it, and it answered questions and validated beliefs. Thank you for taking the time to write this.
SandyOctober 21, 2025
Thank you for this inspiring article! I’m motivated to write about my life for my children & grandchildren. I like the idea of writing about joy & meaning of the different homes you’ve lived in.
LewisOctober 20, 2025
A moving story, and a gentle reminder that God loves all His children, wherever they may be. Also a reminder of how God will use us to bless the lives of His children, wherever they may be. I am grateful for the good you and the others at Rising Star are doing and for the gift you have of telling these wonderful stories.
LexaGraemeOctober 19, 2025
That one hits a little too close to home, but far enough away that I can laugh. Poor man!
Karen DavisOctober 18, 2025
I too had a passion for this story when I read the book many years ago. After serving a senior mission in the Baltic (with a German born CES leader) and hearing how the German Saints felt about Helmut it really made me pause. I thought Helmut was a hero, they felt he was a rebel trying to get the church in trouble. And yes, Nazi leaders came to the church to watch and record what was being said in LDS chapels. Both the Brach President & Helmut were doing something right but you still have to admire the one who was willing to die for what he believed was right and standing up against evil. The movie was amazingly well done.
Beverly HoppeOctober 18, 2025
I may have misread the intent of one of the sentences. There is a statement that Huebener enlisted two friends, Rupert Evans and Karl-Heinz Schnibbe to help him. Rupert Evans is an actor who plays the part of Erwin Messenger who is the Nazi investigator. The other friend is named Rudi Wobbe. So Rudi and Karl-Heinz are the church friends that are enlisted to help Helmuth. I want to make sure that the relatives of Rudi receive the credit and thanks for Rudi being a faithful friend.
Yvonne AstonOctober 18, 2025
I would love to watch this and many other films produced by Angel Studios. However, I live in the UK and unless Angel Studios create a dedicated YouTube channel for their films, as I am unable to go to cinemas in the USA, I shall never see them. If Angel were prepared to charge a fee for each film that was added to their YouTube channel, we could pay per film for whatever we wanted to watch.
Gary GaudetOctober 18, 2025
I wanted to clarify the details on the photo. This is actually a photo of the 553rd in Fort Sill, Oklahoma training for Korea. Many of the members of the 553rd deployed with the 213th as reinforcements in the spring of 1952. the photo is from the collection of PFC Donald J Gaudet who was with Charlie Battery of the 213th. I have more photos of the 213th in Korea from Dad's collection.
David SavageOctober 17, 2025
Saw the movie and agree that it is a compelling watch. Still thinking about it long after and wondering what I would do. It is as intense as the trailer depicts. Uncomfortably on the edge of my seat throughout. Be aware that there are complex themes and scenes of beatings and torture. So not for young audiences.
Bryan GerritsenOctober 16, 2025
Great article! Elder Curtis is a fantastic man. This is further evidence of the humble service he has provided for the Church for decades. This is another great contribution to the Church. We love Elder Curtis and his wife, and appreciate his continuing service to the Church. Thank you for this article. What a great addition to Church history!
Melissa MarkhamOctober 16, 2025
Thanks for this glimpse into the heart of our new prophet. I appreciate so much your wisdom and perspective. Thanks for the work you do.
Melissa (Boyer) Markham (My husband, Sammie, and I knew you briefly in the Langley Ward. ) :)
EricOctober 16, 2025
Lorenzo Snow's reduction of the time period between First Presidencies is also recounted in Saints, Volume 3 chapter 5.
Robert HamblinOctober 16, 2025
The reason for the time difference, from years to a few days, between death of the Prophets and formation of a new first Presidency was due to Lorenzo Snow's visitation in the Temple by Christ himself where He told Lorenzo to not wait so long between formation of a new Presidency but to do it right away. This story is in the Priesthood Manuel on the Presidents of the Church some years ago.
CarolOctober 16, 2025
What a beautiful thing to see him through a daughter’s eyes. Thank you Maurine and Jenny for sharing him with us this way.
Terry RichOctober 15, 2025
Thanks for putting together those significant articles sermons and information on the succession of the president of the church. I found them to be significant and Faith for moaning to me.
ShaunaOctober 15, 2025
I'm so grateful to have these amazing, dedicated, talented, selfless and inspired leaders, leading the Church, under the direction of the Lord Jesus Christ. All of these Brethren, including the Quorum of the 12, are such blessings in my life
BillOctober 15, 2025
Great information. Correction is needed however in that the new President of the Church is "set apart" by the other apostles, he is not ordained. He has already been ordained an apostle and that is the office in the priesthood that he retains.
HelenCOctober 15, 2025
Clear and succinct. Thank you.
It brings to my mind the declaration made in the passing of an English monarch:
“The Queen is dead; long live the King!”
No fuss, no muss. Clarity and perfection.
JillOctober 15, 2025
Yes! Yes! Yes! So blessed to have him after President Nelson. God is good!
Britt FranklinOctober 15, 2025
How reassuring it is to be a member of the Church and to have a firm testimony of the divine origin of the Church.
DouglasOctober 14, 2025
Rev. 3:15,16 clearly shows "middle ground" as unacceptable to God.
K.CrapoOctober 14, 2025
A spouse may be unresponsive to their partner because they feel unsettled or uneasy in the relationship—“[their] heart begins to tell [them] things that [their] mind does not know”. When the truth is finally revealed, along with grief or anger, they may also feel relief that they weren’t the crazy one!
S RichardsonOctober 14, 2025
I love the story in the second to last paragraph, about the friend who left the church and later came back after investigating with an open mind and heart. I absolutely agree there is no middle ground regarding the Book of Mormon. There are also many small details in the book that attest to its truthfulness which become apparent only through careful study of it. But God is not going to "hit us over the head" with proofs. He wants us each to come to Him, to ask Him, and to be willing to live with the answer He gives through His Spirit.
Russell CoryellOctober 14, 2025
The book is absolutely not "inspired fiction". There are too many primary sources amongst the conquistadors and the friars attending, including 2nd and 3rd generation of the latter that claimed the Azteca, and the Maya, to list a few, all claim traditions remarkably congruent with Christianity! For example, the Maya practice a form of baptism amongst their children! And, no, these primary accounts have not been debunked, I've read them and have copies of the same - they rise above the level of reasonable doubt. There are many other facets of the book: chiastic structures, place marker phrases ("and it came to pass"), elements of 1st temple period Judaic imagery, including indirect references to the Asherah that scream of it's authenticity. El-Elyon in His infinite wisdom reveals things obliquely and in parable like fashion (as an engineer it is very frustrating). I say to those who do not believe pray and ask for verification. In time, archaeologically we will have the whole truth but until then, I WILL believe, because of the Holy Ghost and my own personal insights which the above only briefly touch upon.
S RichardsonOctober 13, 2025
Other scriptural insights into our pre-mortal existence come from the following:
Alma 13:3-5:
- "In the first place," we were all "on the same standing" (v. 5).
- However, "being left to choose good or evil," some "on account of their exceeding faith and good works" chose good, "exercising exceedingly great faith," and therefore were "called with a holy calling... prepared with, and according to, a preparatory redemption for such." (v. 3)
- Others "would reject the Spirit of God on account of the hardness of their hearts and blindness of their minds," but for which "they might have had as great privilege as their brethren." (v. 4)
- And all of this was "prepared from the foundation of the world, according to the foreknowledge of God." (v. 3,5)
In what would we have had this "exceedingly great faith"? Undoubtedly in Heavenly Father's Plan, that it would work, that the Savior would be successful in His mission! Hence He is referred to as "the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world" (Rev. 13:8), and the War in Heaven was won by relying on "the blood of the Lamb," and "the word of their testimony" (Rev. 12:11), as though the Savior's atonement had already been accomplished.
The Plan was truly glorious, and our faith in it and works related to it continue to see us through the trials of this life.
Bill WrigleyOctober 13, 2025
Not Tennyson; Wordsworth, written about a.d. 1800
Sara VOctober 13, 2025
Doesn’t fit in the category of free speech. Not even close. “Limitations or boundaries to freedom of speech relate to libel, slander, obscenity, pornography, sedition, incitement, fighting words, hate speech, classified information, copyright violation, trade secrets, food labeling, non-disclosure agreements, the right to privacy, dignity, the right to be forgotten, public security, blasphemy and perjury.”
Richard GardnerOctober 13, 2025
Thanks! I have had several of the same thoughts about the importance of understanding where we came from and how it affects us here. Nice to see them all organized into one essay.
Jessica WhotakerOctober 13, 2025
Well said!
Joni HiltonOctober 13, 2025
Love, love, love this! Comprehensive, logical, numerically organized. You must have learned this stuff in your pre-mortal life!
Jimmy MerrellOctober 13, 2025
Jeff, My friend, you are always so eloquent and spot on. We are commanded to love one another regardless. That includes our leaders. I think that if most people dropped the enemy mentality that pervades our Social Media climate we would move closer to each other and become a more Zion People.
PamOctober 13, 2025
Ode on Intimations of Immortality was written by William Wordsworth, not Tennyson.
JoJean LoflinOctober 13, 2025
Just one correction. Ode on Intimations of Immortality was written by Wordsworth, not Tennison.
LauraOctober 13, 2025
Wordsworth wrote Ode Intimations of Immortality, not Tennyson.
Rochelle HaleOctober 13, 2025
My husband and I, and our scripture study group, often have this discussion. Our thoughts are that without a pre-earth existence and promises of eternal life yet to come, "What's the point?" Why live on earth at all if our life will be extinguished and forgotten? Most of us will never be remembered in the history books for our discoveries, inventions, or innovations. God's plan gives us purpose for being, now and forever.
Daryl GibsonOctober 13, 2025
'Every man has two deaths, when he is buried in the ground and the last time someone says his name. In some ways men can be immortal.'
Ernest Hemingway
Susan HansenOctober 13, 2025
It was William Wordsworth who wrote the poem, Intimations of Immortality", not Tennyson.
Diane PetersonOctober 13, 2025
What a great article! Thank you for your thorough and thought-provoking explanation of the doctrine of premortal life, as well as for the snippets of humor that are always sprinkled throughout your articles. They are always both informative and delightful to read.
wwOctober 13, 2025
William Wordsword, not Tennyson wrote the poem. Great article!
wwfOctober 13, 2025
William Wordsworth wrote the poem about A sleep and a forgetting.
Kathy WilsonOctober 13, 2025
Excellent presentation on our eternal nature? However, the poet quoted is Wordsworth, not Tennyson. (Just a tiny nit to pick.)
Abbie VianesOctober 13, 2025
As an adult convert the pre mortal existance made SO much sense to me. The Bible repeatly talks about returning to God - how can one return somewhere one has never been? It was a game changer for me. It made a personal relationship with God accessible.
D. Lynn JohnsonOctober 13, 2025
It was William Wordsworth who said "Our birth..."
Corey D.October 12, 2025
Don't expect anything to get better or change because it's not going to. What was once unacceptable in public has now gone public, celebrities use it openly and regularly in interviews and commentary, politicians at all levels up to and including the president of the United States make no effort to refrain from vulgar and profane language in public discourse. It's openly used in the hallways of our schools with seemingly no effort by teachers or administration to prevent it. Have a granddaughter who is a sweetheart and somewhat sensitive to things, her transistion from elementary school to junior high was rough, one of the reasons was all the bad language and bullying and intimidation, breaks my heart. It's a sign of the times and totally part of Satan's plan to desensitize people to evil.
Rochelle HaleOctober 12, 2025
Over 50 years ago, as a new convert, my ward/school friends quickly took me under their wing and introduced me to early morning seminary. I wanted to be immersed in the gospel quickly, and seminary was the place to be. I can still remember our classroom and a few of the lessons. My family moved, and I had another wonderful seminary teacher and mentor. My husband and I have served as seminary teachers and principals. I am grateful for the inspired innovations and teachings in the current program for the youth of the Church.
Layne MillerOctober 11, 2025
Another great article Mark!
Keep it up!
Layne
Mark StoddardOctober 10, 2025
VERY enjoyable and inspiring article, Paul. Exactly what people need to read about conversion. I find the words, intellectually converted, to be oxymoronic. And the whole idea you had of being open to the Spirit exactly the opposite and real, true path to conversion. We shall have to discuss this more in the Galapagos!!
Robert SpielOctober 10, 2025
This is truly exciting! Can they add a class on turning off social media?
Layne MillerOctober 10, 2025
Well written as usually my good friend.
Keep it up!!
JeffOctober 10, 2025
I grew up in a home where four-letter-words were common place. My father owned a nightclub complete with liquor, gambling and prostitution. It rubbed off on me.
I joined the Church when I was 17 with little or no testimony of its divinity. Somewhere within my being, God saw something of value in me. He has been patient as I have strived to Become as my Savior.
My testimony of God, His Son, Joseph’s vision and the Church I love, has been paramount in my life and my manner of speech has improved. True repentance works.
We as members have to bear the ugly words with love as individuals but, BYU students should not. Opposing schools must teach their fans to be respectful and a fine of $50K won’t do it. Immediate penalties against the opposing teams will work. The fine/penalty must be immediate and impactful.
Rochelle HaleOctober 9, 2025
Conversion, as with our testimonies, is not a once and done deal. It happens over and over, step by step. My family attended various churches growing up. My step aunt and uncle had joined the church, as had a cousin my age on my mom's side. We had missionaries in our home several times, but maybe I never really paid attention. I think my conversion began when I desired what my cousin and some school friends (also members) had. Keeping the Word of Wisdom was not an issue. I firmly believed in paying tithing, but many I.O.U. notes were dropped into my piggy bank until I became fully converted to this principle and realized the blessings of paying tithing. My conversion was influenced by great seminary and youth leaders, friends, and mission companions. I think it was strengthened through my desire to learn and grow in the gospel, and allow myself to be guided by the Holy Ghost. To quote a popular podcast, decades later I am "all in." In a CFM lesson a few weeks ago, counsel was given to the early Saints about how to draw near to the Lord. Among these were to be prayerful, study the scriptures, be temple worthy, etc. Sometimes those who are struggling with their testimonies want some kind of quick fix or miracle answer, but the answers were given almost two hundred years ago. As we practice these things, the Lord will bless our hearts and strengthen our faith and belief in Him and his plan for us.
CarolOctober 9, 2025
This was a very inspirational article to help me to improve my personal history stories!
brian stubbsOctober 8, 2025
Very good, Brother Andrew. I learn much from each of your articles.
Paul BishopOctober 8, 2025
Thx for the correction...As an adult convert, I'm prone to mixing up sound alike names...
J.G. BaileyOctober 8, 2025
I've often received the spirit when reading the word of the prophets and apostles, but never to the degree when hearing them audibly.
jeff simpsonOctober 8, 2025
would that "this is where the people were" be the only reason for going to the synagogue, on the sabbath, be the only reason for Paul to go on the sabbath? that Luke says the same of Paul in Acts 17:2 that he says of Jesus in Luke 4:16, shows that it was more than "where the people were." in Acts 13 Paul is in the synagogue and doesn't speak until asked if he has anything to say, which indicates that to speak was not the only reason. in Acts 16 at Philippi there was no synagogue so they sought a quiet place for prayer, which is worship, showing that to speak to others was not the only reason. might it be because of the commandment, "remember the sabbath day and keep it holy?" Jesus kept His Father's commandments, John 15:10 and Paul says "be imitators of me and i am of Christ, 1Corinthians 11:1
Sally SmithOctober 8, 2025
My heart is full after experiencing the spirit and outpouring of love as I watched the funeral. I am so grateful to be living at this time to know that we have prophets on the earth again.
MaryannOctober 7, 2025
Staying away from church because we are fearful would deny us of the great blessings that come from renewing our Sacrament covenants with the Lord. That would be a far greater tragedy than being shot. "And should we die before our journey's through, happy day, all is well!"
MaryannOctober 7, 2025
Thank you so much for posting these pictures. I can truly feel the love and reverence in the faces of these people for our dear Prophet, President Nelson. None of us will ever forget him and his influence for good in our lives. This photo essay was a wonderful service for those of us who couldn't be there. We thank thee, O God, for a Prophet!
Sherri EinfeldtOctober 7, 2025
I'm related to John Proctor too! Fun small-world :)
Daniel PetersonOctober 6, 2025
No, Donl Peterson wasn't a relative of mine, although I met him a few times. He seems to have been a very good man.
Kaylene ReddOctober 6, 2025
Excellent article. A well-written synopsis of many of the highlights and testimonies from our Church leaders. How much they were needed at this time. Grateful for their inspiration and testimonies.
Thank you, Maurine and Scott, for the good work you do!
Lorena HolmsteadOctober 6, 2025
Thank you for your summary this morning of some of the General Conference talks. Beautifully done! I too feel like there was an outpouring of the Spirit!
Harold RustOctober 6, 2025
In an enriching literary structure you have "enlightened" us about the practical and yet holy approach to understanding so well proclaimed by President Nelson and so well repeated by Elder Bednar in this General Conference. I plan to preserve presentations from both of you.....real keepers.
Harold RustOctober 6, 2025
Reading (or listening to) fundamental principles spoken by prophets and apostles again and again adds greater depth of understanding each time. Your summary here--using their own words in capsulated form---immediately highlighted several concepts and feelings of genuine truths for me even as I had heard (or read) those same truths just one day earlier. Thanks for a great re-enlightenment.
KathleenOctober 5, 2025
Amen! (and it does)
Jary WelkerOctober 4, 2025
I don't mean to nit pick but wasn't the second promise listed in this article from his talk as President of the Quorum of the Twelve given in October 2017 entitled, "The Book of Mormon: What Would Your Life Be Like Without It?" While I have struggled to live up to it, I have always found such strength in those words. His full promise from that talk is, "My dear brothers and sisters, I promise that as you prayerfully study the Book of Mormon every day, you will make better decisions—every day. I promise that as you ponder what you study, the windows of heaven will open, and you will receive answers to your own questions and direction for your own life. I promise that as you daily immerse yourself in the Book of Mormon, you can be immunized against the evils of the day, even the gripping plague of pornography and other mind-numbing addictions."
Charles McClellandOctober 3, 2025
Thank you SO MUCH for this analysis! President Nelson's influence on the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints was transformative.
Stella ShermanOctober 2, 2025
Ofcourse the Church supports our own. We have as you know proper channels like starting with your Bishopric if need be. I'm sure these families already have the support and help they need from not only their Bishopric but members of their Ward and Stake.
TinaaCOctober 2, 2025
I would hope my LDS church supports these victims. I understand go me funds are blessings, I pray that those who were injured will be healed and love and support to those who sustained such significant loss.
T. BarrettOctober 2, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful tribute full of wonderful quotes from President Nelson and scripture. I read everything that comes into my office that you have written and am always enlightened. I just finished the astonishing book "Lucid Dying" on your suggestion.
Lisa EdwardsOctober 2, 2025
Just beautiful...I have tears streaming down my face. Thank you. I love him SO much and am so grateful for all that he taught us.
Kenny MazzantiOctober 2, 2025
Yes, the Gospel of Jesus Christ can bring peace, but it does not make us immune from attack. The Nephites realized this and put "watchmen on the tower". They were not the aggressors, but they did protect themselves from attack. They did actively defend themselves. Praying that you will not be next is great, but the Lord expects us to DO something in case it does happen. Because it did happen to a group of faithful Saints in Michigan we need to take active steps to protect our families from an actual attack. No matter where you live, you may be a target just as the Saints were in Missouri and Illinois. I just returned from Far West where more than 400 Saints were murdered. They lie in unmarked graves. If we are prepared we need not fear. We read is the scriptures, but what to do? I recommend ALL of our leaders read "First 30 Seconds" by Ed Monk. It will give you a realistic, workable plan that can prevent another Michigan style atrocity. We must never be the aggressors, but we must always be the defenders of the innocent. Remember the Title of Liberty. Apply it now.
Debrah RoundyOctober 2, 2025
I have never heard what Debbie said, said quite that way, but I love it, "he told us to eat our spiritual spinach"
Corey D.October 2, 2025
Good article, interesting comments, the phrase/sentence "we should only have one idol-Jesus Christ", I cringe at that usage, I know what was intended but " idol" should never, ever be used in relation to or in reference to our Savior Jesus Christ.
Jason HewlettOctober 2, 2025
I was awakened around 3 AM by some troubling thoughts that linger from the past weekend's tragic events, and began to pray. No longer able to sleep, I got up and am now reading this, thankful it landed in my inbox from the Proctor's work. What wonderful words of comfort you have shared, thank you for putting this into perspective so clearly. I love the preparation part and the promises you have reminded me of here. Grateful for your work and the timeliness of this article.
J.G. BaileyOctober 1, 2025
As a stake and ward missionary for 15-years, I learned...
"To those who have faith, no explanation is necessary, to those without faith, no explanation is possible." St. Thomas Aquinas
Great article.
Nerita Flake PetersonOctober 1, 2025
Even in death, his example strengthens me. I love you President Nelson. Thank you Sister Nelson for your sharing your wonderful partner with all of us.
A N InvestigatorOctober 1, 2025
With all the humility that I can muster, I said the same to a sister missionary years ago.
Carlos RoundyOctober 1, 2025
It is in the darkest hours that the light of Christ shines the brightest.
John EspleyOctober 1, 2025
Elder Bednar was the visiting authority at the Pembroke VA Stake Conference a week after the VA Tech shooting. While no members were killed at that massacre, several members were deeply affected, including the Stake President whose office was on an upper floor in the building where most of the victims were killed. Elder Bednar was assigned to visit several months before the shooting occurred.
JoAnn BairSeptember 30, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful, comforting article. It warmed my heart.
LorioSeptember 30, 2025
Wow, what a story! Most of us have no idea of the faith and courage needed to follow our leaders and do things that seem impossible. The day will probably come that such faith and courage and obedience will be asked of us. May we be strengthening our faith and courage AND trust in the Lord, His program and His leaders here on earth.
LindaSeptember 30, 2025
Beautiful article! I am saving some of President Nelson’s quotes that you used here. I wonder if H. Donl Peterson is your father? He was my Bishop at BYU my freshman year long ago. Wonderful man!
Diane PetersonSeptember 30, 2025
Brother Peterson, Thank you for your beautiful words of comfort and reassurance. Always, you speak with such eloquence and with wise insights making it a pleasure to read and hear your words.
Thank you for your loving tribute to President Nelson. Certainly, he was an inspired prophet and a holy man of God. How blessed we all are to have lived during the tenure of this beloved prophet!
Lyle BurrupSeptember 30, 2025
I am wondering if you might have missed an important point in Brigham Young's statement, if indeed he made it, which we do not know for sure. Taking offense when offense is intended or not puts us in the hands of the adversary to be buffetted by those feelings and thoughts which sometimes turn into bitterness. I remember a ward member sharing a wise statement when we were discussing the Lord's command to forgive those who offend us. He said, "Being bitter is like drinking arsenic and hoping the other person dies." As a counselor I have spend hours talking with members who have been deeply offended and abused. I have noticed that when they reach the point of forgiving (not trusting) the offender, they seem to feel more at peace. That is such a challenging thing to do. I have studied the Lord's statements and injunctions that we forgive others and that we not judge unrighteously, and have concluded that for myself I prefer the peace of mind that comes with letting go of offense. Forgiveness of aomeone who has intentionally or unintentially "offended me" is the gift I of peace of mind and heart I only can give myself. I have put together a document on all the scriptures that teach forgiveness for my clients, and have gained a valuable insight as to why the Savior might, on the cross, be praying for his enemies as He preached, that the Father would forgive the Roman soldiers who tortured him all day long and crucified him. He knew that they would need to repent to be forgiven. But He prayed for their forgiveness anyway. I believe it was so that He could rid his soul of any hurt they caused him so He go to heaven free of the pain that abuse caused him. I believe He wanted to arrive in his Father's presence free of any negative effects of his crucifixion and also the effects of his atornement. I tried praying for someone who had offended me in the same spirit--that he did not know how what he did offended me. And it worked! After convincing the Spirit I was true in my desire, I felt great relief in my heart. it felt like a miracle and I wondered why. The thought that came into my mind was that Christ had paid the price for my pain and if I was willing to turn it back to him, He would carry it for me.
One more point. You might want to review what Positive Psychology has found regarding the positive effects of trauma. (https://posttraumaticgrowthproject.com/)
Rochelle HaleSeptember 30, 2025
How blessed we have been by President Nelson's service. I am the history specialist for our stake. As I was summarizing my notes from our recent stake conference, I noted how many quotes and teachings came from our dear Prophet. He led us through the Pandemic, established the home-centered-church-supported way of study and worship, taught us the importance of seeking personal revelation, daily repentance, thinking Celestial, and so much more. Though a tender time, what a blessing it is to know the Lord's plan for President Nelson and all of us. Death is but a sweet passing to all that Heavenly Father has in store for us.
Joyce PierceSeptember 30, 2025
I was dealing with hip/leg pain for a couple of years, and my husband gave me a priesthood blessing before going to NYC with my daughter. I almost didn't go because it hurt so bad. He sent me off telling me I'd be fine, but I wasn't. The pain was awful and I felt like I was slowing her, and the grandkids down, as we walked miles and miles every day. He was disappointed that the blessing hadn't erased the pain, but I realized later that the blessing had allowed me to endure it. Fortunately, doctors finally figured out I needed a hip replacement and that fixed the problem, but I am grateful for that blessing. They don't always give us what we want at that moment, but we can often see how we were blessed in other ways.
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 30, 2025
What a great article this was. Thank you for sharing all this with us. I know he was a prophet because of the Come Follow Me program.
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 30, 2025
I know President Nelson was a prophet. I really enjoyed this article because I have feared death. Reading this has helped to ease my fear. Thank you.
Lorene CoeSeptember 30, 2025
Very beautiful article. Thank you for sharing. It touched my heart and soul.
Joel MarksSeptember 29, 2025
‘Behold the Man!’
Joel MarksSeptember 29, 2025
‘Behold the Man!’
Ben JonesSeptember 29, 2025
It is indeed sad to see religious faith waning in the US as well as in other parts of the world but just remember that members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints have been able to thrive despite the availability of contraception, abortion, pornography, recreational drugs, liquor, tobacco, coffee, tea, television, movies, the Internet and criticism from other faiths as well as the philosophies of men. There is a vacuum to be filled, and we have a message that resonates with those who are searching for meaning in their lives.
European nations used to be very religious, but they were also constantly fighting with each other, often in the name of their apostate versions of God.
ShaunaSeptember 29, 2025
He was a magnificent prophet of God. I'm so grateful I was on the earth for his tenure. I am writing principles he taught us in my journal and there are so many that immediately spring to mind: think celestial, let God prevail, begin with the end in mind etc. etc. He was a master teacher.
GeorgeannaSeptember 29, 2025
This was a wonderfully written tribute on our beloved late President Nelson. I felt exactly as you, so much so, I plan on including it in my journal. Thank you.
Kevin KSeptember 29, 2025
We should be so very grateful that law enforcement was so close by. This could have been far worse with loss of life.
Thank you to all the police and fireman, EMTs and all so responded.
May our Father in Heaven bless and comfort all those who were there and had to experience this terrible tragedy. Very sad day and very difficult to understand.
PamSeptember 29, 2025
Your mother's challenge with her left hand resulted in the songs she composed that were easier for the left hand to play. Her music is a delight to play for those of us who are perhaps not virtuoso pianists. I have appreciated her music for many years.
GingerSeptember 29, 2025
This is the most beautiful and encompassing article about President Nelson’s teachings and ministry as the prophet that I’ve read since his passing. Thank you for sharing your excellent talents with the world.
Bruce NormanSeptember 29, 2025
Awesome message. This memorial message is second to none, very touching.
CindySeptember 29, 2025
Wonderful wonderful article and summarization of a significant latter day prophets life! I am sitting here bawling for gratitude for his lis who has touched mine in such a special way. I truly “thank Thee, oh God, for THIS prophet”!!!
Nancy PhillipsSeptember 28, 2025
Thank you so much for this piece. I know of many Christians - LDS and otherwise - who support the philosophies and plans of those who want to impose Christian Nationalism upon this country and the world. Christ did not teach aggression. The Holy Ghost is a spirit of peace and gentleness. These teachings of Christian dominion are truly “the philosophies of me, mingled with scripture” and have no place in Christ’s church.
SteveSeptember 28, 2025
Recently, I had to undergo a routine procedure that I knew would create some problems afterwards for me, so I sought a Priesthood blessing beforehand. After the procedure, I quickly realised that the blessing I had sought had not been granted.
As I reviewed everything, I soon realised that I had been blessed - not in the way that I had sought, but in a very different way that I very much needed. So, despite having to endure the problems that I knew would happen as a result of the procedure, which lasted for a couple of months, I was at peace because of the blessing that I did get. Which was ultimately, much more important.
Raman JobSeptember 27, 2025
Superb post! Please publish more like it.
Mae GilmoreSeptember 27, 2025
Thanks for writing this. I needed a reminder that is indeed okay to leave the past in the past!
C.L. KirkhamSeptember 27, 2025
I believe this story shows a dual fulfillment of prophecy, both from the book of Mormon, and also from our living prophet in 2 Nephi, either 27 or 28. There are verses that read “for I the Lord God will show unto the children of men that I am able to do mine own work.
And President Russell M. Nelson (Who IS the Lord’s mouthpiece on the Earth today) has promised us that “between now, and when the Lord comes again, He will do some of His most mighty miracles“
The Lord is hastening His work in HIS very ‘deed’ (covenants to gather scattered Israel), that through our temple covenants with God we may also inherit everything alongside our Savior Jesus Christ if we hold out faithful to the end. I have to believe it is through fulfilled prophecy that Signs of the Times shall be more easily noticed among faithful saints. Make no mistake about it though — His arm, the arm of Jesus Christ, is revealed in this process, and we are commanded to watch for the signs of His coming.
K TaylorSeptember 26, 2025
Could not agree more with this article. Under the current MAGA regime and belief system, there are many religious "conservatives" who are seeking to impose and establish Christianity or, at least their version of it, as the dominant belief and even legal system in this country.
We are very clearly living in the era of the kingmen as described in the books of Alma, Helaman and 3rd Nephi. MAGA and the current regime are very much seeking to impose their will on the masses, engaging in ethnic cleansing and seeking dominance over this nation and other nations around us.
All of which is not following Christ's teachings to love God and our neighbor.
MicheleSeptember 26, 2025
The comments thus far dont seem to recognize most authors have a specific subject to cover rather than the entire history of societal change. In these cases, the subject matter seems to be glossed over, refuted and or denied. While the general point of the comments are valid, the reality exists for the potential of a religious takeover which should not be ignored either. The fact of even a minority engaging in efforts to control beliefs demonstrates it could grow, which is how these things happen: we don't believe they exist or are a threat until they have gained momentum and strength. Change, positive or negative, doesn't happen quickly, but slowly enough to not notice until it is indeed threatening. Our constitution can hang by a thread from either, or both, extremes.
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
Good grief! One bag equals 15 individual (not family) meals, and the price is $100.00. Yet, one of his criticisms about some food storage products is that they are too expensive!
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
Beautiful article. I would add that when we want a certain job, house, or things of that nature, someone ELSE may be praying fervently for the very same thing! We need to humble ourselves to recognize that maybe someone else needed that job more, or was better qualified. There is often more in the equation of our desires than we can see. Our Heavenly Father sees the big picture and he is no respecter of persons. He views the needs of ALL of His children. As far as health issues, that has been a tough one for me because throughout my life I have had dear family members and friends who have struggled with severe health issues. I have been disappointed and confused at times about why the Lord won't relieve their suffering after many years. I realize that it all boils down to trust in Him. There IS a divine purpose in the trials of life, and one day we will completely understand the WHY. We can continue to exercise trust in the Lord, and remember that the day is coming when he will "wipe away all our tears," and there will be no more suffering.
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
I, too, am very touched by Erika Kirk's testimony and commitment to Jesus Christ by embracing forgiveness for Charlie's killer, However, I must say that I would not have been able to do so in just a few days. Forgiveness would require a huge dose of the enabling power of the Savior. Without Him, I would never be able to offer such forgiveness. I am grateful that we do not have to depend on our own strength for such monumental challenges.
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
To commenters Robert and Matt---I agree with you completely.
Marco HansonSeptember 26, 2025
This was very interesting, and I appreciate all the research. As you mention "reflecting on the generations of sacrifice required to engrave the Book of Mormon" -- I've been working for six years now on my own handwritten copy of the Book of Mormon, and one of the many blessings has been a profound appreciation for Nephi, Alma, Mormon and the other recordkeepers. It was so much work!
Phil SnowSeptember 26, 2025
Thanks for your article about the gold plates. Two things come to my mind. My understanding is that the only writers on the plates from which Joseph translated the record were Mormon and then at the very last, Moroni, neither of whom was an "ancient Near-Eastern scribe. But I don't doubt that they learned their craft from their predecessors and learned to "write small."
Kerry FarrSeptember 26, 2025
Great timely information! Thank you.
Robert StarlingSeptember 25, 2025
Very true principles. I was reminded of the lyrics of a 1969 song by the Rolling Stones. "You can't always get what you want,
But if you try sometime you'll find You get what you need."
Funny, sometimes you find truth in the strangest places.
Robert HorspoolSeptember 25, 2025
I found, nor do I find any such happening in the American conservative. True, there are always factions who are small and without much support who espouse more radical ideas, but they are neither a majority nor a problem. It has been the radicalization from wrong thinking leftists that has caused more harm than from conservative religions. I find the writer's premise lacking in merit. While they pay lip service to the religious founding of the Constitution, they forget that without Judeo-Christian ethics, the Constitution fails, as it has been for the past 35 years as America stepped away from religion. We need a restoration to the morals and values of Judeo-Christian ethics, and I see a call for that more than a hostile Christian takeover of government. The fact the writer called the events of Jan. 6 an insurrection tells me enough about their wrong thinking. Truth and honesty needs to be restored as well, not rhetoric and lies.
James R. BrownSeptember 25, 2025
Great arrangement and delivery!
MattSeptember 25, 2025
This author fails to point out that we already have a religious takeover - by the Marxist/Atheist/Darwinists, and we've been living under its oppression for some time.
Ronald BarnesSeptember 24, 2025
Ten generations ago, at least two of my French ancestors married women of the Kaskaskia Indian tribe. This can be proven by my genealogy, but not by my DNA. Although, as far as I know, all of the other lineages that I am descended from do show up in my DNA, my Native American ancestry does not. Lack of proof does not mean proof of lack.
KathleenSeptember 24, 2025
Amen, brother!
LaRae KerrSeptember 23, 2025
What is the name of, and who is the artist for the beautiful picture accompanying this article?
J.G. BaileySeptember 23, 2025
I'm 87-years-old, was raised in an LDS community by a large, loving family. This is what I wanted and intended, but divorce and a melded family has proven otherwise. When asked by Bret Baier of Fox News what kept him awake at night, Elon Musk said it was our birth rated not keeping pace with our death rate. Kudos to anyone spending 4-years time and effort to study this most important topic.
Tony StrongSeptember 22, 2025
So incredible. I really loved this. Thank Carol Rice.
Sarah HinzeSeptember 22, 2025
Thank you for reporting this story. I have been so moved by the outpouring of the spirit of the Lord upon the world as a reaction to Charlie Kirk and his death. It seems to me that we are in a great period of revival as millions worldwide are turning to Jesus and prayer and scriptures as never before. History shows that often a great revival to Jesus comes after a Christian martyr dies, such as the stoning of Stephen when Saul (renamed the apostle Paul) brought forth a great revival to Jesus.
Ezetta B.September 22, 2025
Many people may believe that simply watching General Conference is sufficient for spiritual growth. However, much more is required to truly advance spiritually. The inspired words of latter-day prophets are readily available to us in written form, ensuring that we have constant access to their guidance and teachings.
With these messages at our fingertips, there is no reason to miss out on the lessons and insights intended for us. Like all scripture, it is essential to actively study and ponder these teachings rather than passively consuming them. Only by doing so can we deepen our understanding and strengthen our spiritual foundation.
This perspective, shared by Paul Bishop, serves as a valuable reminder of the need for intentional spiritual effort. Thank you, Paul Bishop, for highlighting the importance of engaging thoughtfully with prophetic messages.
LewisSeptember 22, 2025
I am so grateful for your gift of telling stories that remind us that Heavenly Father forgets no one and will find his lost sheep.
S RichardsonSeptember 22, 2025
I tried an LDS chatbot once and found it provided a wrong answer about a historical fact. When I countered that the answer was wrong, the bot responded with, "Oh, I'm sorry, you're right..." and then continued on with its confident-sounding answers. I've experienced this now with other chatbots covering a variety of subjects. Hence, I'm suspicious of all chatbots. They remind me of know-it-alls who sound confident but sometimes give downright misleading answers.
Jeff LindsaySeptember 22, 2025
Note that I should have said that the murder occurred "in front of the world" rather than "in front of her" because she apparently was not there physically and I don't know if she was watching.
Also, for those who are tempted to follow the conventional path of cringe-worthy disrespect by saying, "Yes, it was wrong to murder Charlie, but he was a racist or something," please have a touch decency and refrain from such slurs based on repeating what you've heard. Listen to his actual message. If that's too difficult, listen to a few minority voices as they respond to Charlie and tell me how you can justify the charge of racism:
https://x.com/thatsKAIZEN/status/1967652741905518882
https://x.com/AlBuffalo2nite/status/1969578204231868619
https://x.com/TONYxTWO/status/1968112224234508373
The slurs on Charlie are unjustified, in spite of being spread by some of the biggest and loudest voices in legacy media and social media.
KathleenSeptember 20, 2025
. . . . and Amen!
Helen PehrsonSeptember 20, 2025
Thanks for sharing such a wonderful story and scripture. It gives us something to think about. Helen
Richard DahlSeptember 19, 2025
Good article, thank you. The quote in Alma 34: 32 is not Alma specking but is Amulek. See the header for chapter 34 and also Alma 34:1.
Amulek is a very interesting person, as he goes from the natural man to a great missionary and disciple of Jesus Christ.
I look forward to meeting him.
HelenCSeptember 19, 2025
Amen
GoetSeptember 18, 2025
I've seen the guns in the museum. I also went to Carthage as a kid, before they cleaned up. I saw the stain of Hyrum's blood on the wood floor and the bullet holes in the door going both ways.
ShaunaSeptember 18, 2025
Thank you. I was never a "young" mom as I didn't marry until my late 30's but I do believe that young mom's need every ounce of support and encouragement we can give them. I try, even with young moms I don't know, to let them know how beautiful their children are, and what a great job they are doing and that there is no work more important. Yesterday, at a store, there were some very loud children, and people were making rude comments instead of seeing if there was something they could do to help. All of us were once little children, and someone raised and put up with us. This is the next generation--try to support those who are raising that generation--such vital work. President Nelson said he became a doctor because he couldn't be a mother. I salute you young moms--keep fighting the good fight--it is SO worth it!
JeaNette Goates SmithSeptember 18, 2025
My husband, Bret, and I served as mission leaders in the Santo Domingo East mission and saw miracles just like the one you write about. Were we so lucky to serve in a country with such a prepared people!
Roger ClaydonSeptember 17, 2025
How are Latter Day Saints outside the United States supposed to regard the USA Constitution? We have our own individual country with its history and founding principles! Also it's own political history!
K OutzenSeptember 17, 2025
Thank you for your reminder to be open about our allegiance to Jesus Christ--even more than we are to the cultural and counter cultural figures who we believe are speaking truth. I thoroughly agree with Vic Grady's comments and those of Val Hemming to this post. We must know where our personal blind spots are! We must see that, as in Book of Mormon stories you pointed out, it was both sides who had lost God & their civilization. We are at that point! Most leaders from both sides are unworthy of our time and certainly not worthy personally of our loyalties, but respect for the office. Our Constitution is worthy of our loyalty, as a God ordained document. Unfortunately, everyone twists its meaning to fit their political views, sapping its power in the process. In a way, sometimes I wish our prophet were our military or political leader as in ancient days just to make it easier. There are a handful of good people who lead, but we MUST NOT try to contort everything they, or our favorite pundits, say to match up with our doctrine. We are deluding ourselves, and worse, others if we do.
JoeSeptember 17, 2025
What a wonderful experience! The Lord is always aware of our needs. When I was a missionary (years ago) I had a similar experience with someone having a dream about me bringing her spiritual “ food”... I shared my experience on this magazine on an article titled “dreams”. The gospel is true!! Missionary work is the best…
Leilani CookSeptember 17, 2025
I LOVE this story! Thank you so much for sharing it with all of us.
HelenCSeptember 17, 2025
Thank you for reminding me that miracles are everywhere, just waiting to be seen, and that this is especially true of our (spiritually) wayward children.
Larry BarrySeptember 17, 2025
Thank you for sharing your inspiring message. My wife and I understand the sorrow of wandering children. 3 of our 5 children have left the church—2 having served in bishoprics—and most of our 33 grandchildren are away from the fold. But we know Heavenly Father and the Savior are aware of them, love them, and will reclaim them in their own time. Trust God—Have Faith❤️
John CampbellSeptember 17, 2025
What a wonderful description of how the Lord works with us to bless others and us at the same time.
CynthiaSeptember 17, 2025
What a beautiful story!! I love how it shows that God loves each of His children; the woman who prayed and waited for 27 days as well as His precious missionary! Thank you for always inspiring us with your articles.
Mary Jo BellSeptember 17, 2025
Thank you!
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 17, 2025
What an inspiring article. I, too, have a lost sheep, and I’ve waited more than 27 days. I pray that the Lord will come and rescue my one.
ColinSeptember 16, 2025
Thanks for your comment, Kathryn. Let me say a bit more. Part of the context of Mr. Kirk's statement is his history of similar statements that go well beyond hiring practices to things that sound awfully close to white supremacy. A few others (there are plenty to choose from, sadly):
"The ‘Great Replacement’ is not a theory, it’s a reality” (on Media Matters). “If I’m dealing with somebody in customer service who’s a moronic Black woman…” "[Juneteenth] threatens the fabric of our country." Etc. But again, there's never an excuse for political violence, which destabilizes society and hurts *everyone* on both sides of the aisle.
SallySeptember 16, 2025
We are experiencing the same evil that happened between the Lamanites and Nephites in our day. If we as a people even in Utah do not heed the First Presidency's admonishment we will soon become like these ancient people and look what happened to them.
Carlos RoundySeptember 16, 2025
in the Book of Mormon, their hatred was greater than their will to live. when it said that they slept on their swords, for tomorrow we shall conquer or die. The spirit of God had completely left their civilization.
KathrynSeptember 16, 2025
A quick response to Colin's assertion that Charlie Kirk engaged in "textbook bigotry." The quote Colin provided was accurate, but taken out of context. It was made in the context of hiring/promotion based on race rather than qualification.
I agree that Charlie could have stated his opinion in a way that was less likely to be misunderstood. But to say his quote was "racist" misses the point he was trying to make about the unfortunately real problem of some organizations hiring or promoting based on race rather than qualification.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 16, 2025
I think Charlie Kirk's death will be a "turning point" for many. His perspective went beyond any one religious denomination, though he was evangelical. He spoke of goodwill and decency, respect for others, common sense, and basic moral values that we all should espouse. He spoke of unity and pride for our country. I am sad that some only heard hatred. I am saddened that, within days of his passing, the naysayers and the finger-pointers have come out. It behooves all of us, regardless of race, culture, gender, or political views, to remember to love our neighbors and seek the common good in all aspects of our lives. Nothing is accomplished by senseless acts of violence.
Vic GradySeptember 16, 2025
Thank you, Maurine, for your, as always, insightful remarks, especially on this subject and at this time. My concerns about the work of Charlie Kirk are not centered on his courageous declarations of common sense morality, at least that portion of it that aligns with our revealed values. He has also made a variety of incendiary remarks, specifically targeting individuals and groups with whom he was at odds. He is, of course, within his freedoms to do that and should be able to do that without any physical repercussions. My concern is that, as Christians ourselves, and more specifically as Latter-day Saints, we are getting, or will get, dragged under the carpet if we are not careful, aligning ourselves with such controversial figures, however much we might agree with their views, and however good they might otherwise be. We need to make it crystal clear to all, including to each other, that we have but one idol - Jesus Christ, the sinless Son of God. To attach ourselves to anyone else is to place, not only, impediments in the way of the Lord’s work, but to intentionally place a beam in our own eyes. Those kinds of adherences are not harmless, I believe. We can begin to “see” less of Christ, and His prophets, as we draw closer and closer to the agenda of an individual. My view is that we in the Lord’s Church should not be “followers” of such individuals, and we should not be _viewed_ as such. Observers - yes; Devotees - no. I don’t think that enough Latter-day Saints have thought that through. I have had a good number of conversations with individuals who are critical of not only Kirk’s religion-based rhetoric (and I recognize that Kirk is but one of many) but critical of religion in general. I have tried to help people unravel the two but it is very difficult. We need to give more thought to the implications of our allegiances, especially in these days of already highly primed sensitivities.
Joel MarksSeptember 16, 2025
How about mentioning in this good, reflective articke, the importance of what Charlie Kirk was teaching, persuading and memoralising! Even God, faith, and country. Unfortunately, thise memorials as well free speech were left out of the feelings article. God bless America and the memory of Charlie Kirk of which we all should strive to emulate in the spirit of Messiah, even Jesus the Christ.
Kathy SandersSeptember 16, 2025
Thank you for this reminder of the great importance of recording the defining moments that change our lives and what and how they defined us so that the lessons are not lost not only to others but to ourselves. I needed to read this and be more intentional and yes even reaching to the future with love for those my story might bless.
RobertSeptember 15, 2025
The important thing to know and understand. Evil has been with us since the beginning and will remain (and increase along with good) until the second coming of the Savior. In this instance, it doesn't matter what religion the kid was, or grew up with. Simply put, the kid choose evil over good, and got into Satans influence. 1/3 of the hosts of heaven, raised with perfect love, perfect teaching perfect parenting choose evil over good; Caine and Abel. Caine choose evil over good; Lamen and Lemuel, both choose evil over good. Judas who worked with the Savior in person choose evil over good. Many others in history and even now choose evil over good. Even adults, parents, and a members currently choose evil, (pride, love of money, pick the sin) over good.
While many talk and comment about what happened along with all the evil things going on in the world, it is important to understand that all of us live in a society where evil will only get vastly worse, not better. As righteousness goes up, so will wickedness. The Savior said that that righteousness and wickedness will co exist until the end, then burned at the end. Parable of the Wheat and the Tares, Matt 13:24-30 then 36:43. Then read Section 86.
In the very end, in terms of this world, good will prevail over evil when the Savior returns in all of his majesty, power and glory to the world. Until then it is important for us to do the very best that we can daily, repent daily, read the scriptures daily, choose righteousness etc. We can't necessarily change evil people especially if they want to commit some violent act, but we can change ourselves.
HelenCSeptember 15, 2025
I cannot imagine the depth of the Robinson’s pain, and I have lost 2 children to cancer! Peace and Love to them all.
WEvansSeptember 15, 2025
Great article; however, the author of the book, "Rage Against the Machine, the Unmaking of Humanity," is not Paul Kingsworth as you have stated. The author is Paul Kingsnorth. Thank you.
HelenCSeptember 15, 2025
And we need to remember, and take into our hearts, that, in the end, good will triumph over evil, so why not start now?
Val Hemming, M.D. Col USAF MC (retired)September 15, 2025
I applaud your essay's plea for an end to violence in our seriously, politically, and culturally divided society. However, I object to your laying the blame to: "the sometimes called leftist or Marxist or merely secular" groups. You seem oblivious to the threats of violence from our U.S. President and his minions. Most of the Proud Boys who attacked our Capitol Building on January 6 were evangelical Christians. As a believing and practicing Latter-day Saint (for all of my 88 years), I felt your essay helped further polarize our vulnerable Latter-day Saint community.
JuliannSeptember 15, 2025
A heartbreaking situation for both the Kirt and Robinson families. Thank you for indicating that Tyler still has a trial to go through. He has not yet been proven guilty or innocent. Both families need our prayers. In the past week I have asked myself what I would do if I were the parent, the roommate, a friend. How do I handle opposite views and opinions?
GingerSeptember 14, 2025
Thank you for sharing this article!
Corey D.September 14, 2025
Great and informative article. I understand and fully expected the kind of response we would see and hear from the church and church leaders and other religious leaders and good people. The Savior taught us to love not only family and friends but even love and pray for our enemies and those who hate us and despise us, it's a tough, hard concept, not easy to do. He also taught and warned that these things would happen and that in the last day's violence and hatred would be rampant just as in olden times, we teach and preach peace, love and kindness but make no mistake it is going to get worse and ultimately end in the Saviors second coming and only then will the world have peace.
David A. HickenSeptember 13, 2025
As we know that there are no coincidences with God, how timely President Nelson’s Time Op-Ed was. Just before a violent and hateful act was perpetrated in Orem (and throughout our land), our dear prophet gave us the Lord’s teachings of self-worth and the worth of every soul.
I heard many commentators and talking heads ponder how we can “turn down the temperature” of political disagreements and especially violence. I shouted at the TV screen several times, “The Prophet of God just told us this last week!”
Oh, may we have listening ears and a willing heart to follow!
Richard GardnerSeptember 13, 2025
Well said.
ToniSeptember 12, 2025
A very valuable message for everyone in a marriage or thinking about getting married. I printed a copy and will also share it with family and friends.
Charles & Jill JohnsonSeptember 12, 2025
We are grateful for our participation in past marriage seminars by you and Nancy! Your article is an inspiration for us. We celebrated our 50th anniversary this week. I know the couple that will take our place tomorrow are going to be greatly blessed. We are hoping to attend in the near future.
Carol AnnSeptember 12, 2025
Charlie was a catalyst for all of us to continue his great work here. Thank you, Charlie, for leading the way! Your cause is now magnified by your life inspiring millions to carry on your mission and great cause for our country’s freedom and family solidarity!
SSeptember 12, 2025
Thank you very much for this article. It honored Charlie Kirk. It also was a great reminder of how to stand up to evil in peaceable ways & to study the Book of Mormon to better strategize against evil.
LisaSeptember 12, 2025
My heart goes out to this poster. We were in the same situation with our daughter just a year or two ago. She was 17 at the time and we too knew that time was running out to get her help before she became a legal adult. We too had tried every other option for years on end.
If there is any chance that the letter writer's daughter also has an eating disorder, this was our ticket to residential treatment that insurance would pay for. Many eating disorder facilities are "dual diagnosis" facilities and work with other issues as long as the eating disorder can be considered a primary presenting problem.
Our daughter was in an eating disorder facility for five weeks until our insurance company cut off funding, and while she wasn't there as long as we hoped, the experience did turn out to be a catalyst for change. She is now almost 18 months out from that experience and while she has a long road still ahead, she has been far more cooperative and willing to accept continued therapy and other treatment since being in residential.
I don't think I've ever had an experience in my life where I felt the hand of the Lord and saw literal miracles happen to the extent that I did during the time we were trying to get our daughter into residential treatment. It was one of the hardest times in my life up to that point. Our daughter was adamant that she would not go to treatment, and it could not legally be forced. My anxiety was through the roof during the months that we tried to get her to accept this help. I was on my knee multiple times a day praying for help. I had several experiences feeling my family members on the other side of the veil near me and had the distinct impression that our whole family on both sides of the veil were rooting for her and for us. We had family, close friends, our bishopric and a few ward leaders praying for us. Our daughter did eventually agree to go to residential, and the way it unfolded was indeed a literal miracle.
Valerie F.September 12, 2025
I am heartbroken for Charlie’s wife, children and other family members. I would be just as devastated had the victim been a liberal/Democrat. All are alike unto God. Whether a person identifies as conservative, liberal or something else, all are God’s precious children.
EvelynSeptember 11, 2025
I am shattered and heartbroken at the murder of Charlie Kirk. I followed him online, listened to him as he spoke with the youth and acknowledged them and countered their thinking no matter what it was. He was kind, thoughtful, respectful. He loved his family, his country but most importantly, he loved his God, our Savior, Jesus Christ. He was a believer and never shied away from his testimony. I admired him for his forthrightness, no matter who he was speaking to. He will be missed. I pray for peace to be with his wife, children and family. It is a sad sad day.
SillieGanderSeptember 11, 2025
How do you deal with two groups of people who do not value each other’s common humanity? What would the Lord have us do?
Juliann BradshawSeptember 11, 2025
We need a thousand more Charlie Kirk’s and instead we have one less. He was a fearless freedom fighter and was killed for exercising his first amendment rights and voicing his opinion. May others rise in his place to keep his legacy alive. Evil must not prevail.
MelanieSeptember 11, 2025
Thank you! Many of my 9 siblings and I have, happy wanders and this article supplied the understanding and nourishment our spirits needed to carry on and trust in the Lord’s plan of agency!!
This article was an answer to much fasting and prayers!
KimSeptember 11, 2025
Best article I have read on marriage in a long time.
ShaunaSeptember 10, 2025
Thank you. I'm always looking for new insights on the creation as it occupies such a pivotal role in the endowment
ShaunaSeptember 10, 2025
Thank you, Br Anderson, you are indeed "Mr. Kirtland." I loved reading these details and am in awe of these early Saints. I am so grateful, in 2025, to be able to do much temple work in our generation, due to the keys that were restored at the Kirtland temple.
ShaunaSeptember 9, 2025
I am an alumnus of BYU and have my 2 children there right now and I am passionate about what a BYU education has to offer. But so often, the classes are large and students can feel lost among the crowd. Learning names, at least in smaller classes, can make all the difference.
BrentSeptember 9, 2025
Although certainly a miraculous event, I do not believe this meteor shower was the inspiration for the hymn "Now Let us Rejoice." The hymn was published in the March 1833 edition of "the Evening and Morning Star," a full 7-8 months before the meteor shower occurred.
Jeff WildSeptember 9, 2025
So much wisdom and comfort. Thank you
Bette Ann HatchSeptember 9, 2025
Thank you so so much for teaching “President Russell M. Nelson 101.” I have loved them all.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 9, 2025
I will never forget my baptism interview over fifty years ago. The interviewing missionary must have thought I was younger than I was, so he brought along a picture book. All was going well until he turned the page to a picture of Joseph Smith and asked if I knew he was a prophet. Did I? Did I even know what a prophet was? I felt like I had a split second to answer. I didn’t want to lie to God, but I was so afraid they wouldn’t let me be baptized. I answered yes, and it changed my life. I testify of every prophet since that time. We are so blessed by the teachings and revelations of our dear Russell M. Nelson. I know with all my heart he is the Lord’s chosen servant at this time.
zeke abramsSeptember 9, 2025
Thank you for this article. I have one teenage daughter, who is the light of my days on Earth. In her teen years, we have become so close in our Friendship and parent/child relationship. She, however, is forever lost in her cell phone. But she will break from that electronic device to be my beloved daughter and in those moments no longer rare as they were, we share a love that simply blows my mind. And I share these things in the name of Jesus Christ... Amen!
Carol AnnSeptember 8, 2025
Profound!!
LarsSeptember 6, 2025
WSJ is no different than so many other mainstream media when it comes to reporting on The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They treat the church as a second class citizen of the media world and not worth of respect or standards. I lost respect for them and the other MSM long ago when they stooped to sensationalism and ridicule of other people's beliefs and sacred ideas.
SandySeptember 6, 2025
Thank you, Christopher, for calling out the WSJ. I appreciate your article, which demands respect for ours and all religions.
Joy An WilkinsonSeptember 6, 2025
Thank you so much for this stern redirect to WSJ. Sensationalized journalism coverage at the cost of propriety is more than just disturbing it’s vulgar. No other faith, (I researched their other articles), was put forth in their articles as damaging as they did to us. Thank you again for your journalistic condemnation of this breach of ethics.
tfSeptember 5, 2025
I shudder every time I see the term "Missionary Tool".
LoraSeptember 5, 2025
If I had a subscription to the Wall Street Journal, I would cancel it and let them know why. They crossed a boundary in the name of "honesty" and as long as subscribers tolerate it, they will continue to do so. They have let us know where their values are. It's up to subscribers to let them know that they won't make money from this kind of behavior. I am very disappointed.
Douglas aSalyerSeptember 5, 2025
Satan is working overtime these days. I don't think we have seen the worst of his work yet. The Saints need to stay close to the Lord in these perilous times.
PatSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you!
Nancy WillisSeptember 4, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you for compiling these meaningful messages of light, truth, and hope from our dear Prophet! I have loved pondering on the Savior's Atonement as I read through President Nelson's words this morning.
David B NormanSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you for President Russell M. Nelson 101. It is a wonderful compilation of his teachings of the blessings of the temple. I recently printed all the talks he has given since becoming our dear prophet, and have enjoyed re-reading them. I am anxious to add this to that volume.
Shawna murphSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you for this article. It was well written and provided incredible insights that should be brought to all our attention- not just those in Utah.
Sara GrovesSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you for this wonderful article. It is a beautiful way to celebrate both our Savior's life and our dear Prophet's life. I looking Girard to the remaining articles. Again, I truly appreciate both the Celebration of our Savior's life and gifts to us as well as our dear Prophet's 101st birthday.
Jenet EricksonSeptember 3, 2025
What a gift you have given us in this beautiful prophetic compilation! Thank you! Looking forward to tomorrow!
Tammy Van CleveSeptember 3, 2025
I love my Heavenly Father so much and for these wonderful leaders he calls to help us.
VelineSeptember 3, 2025
My mother-in-law was one of those women! I'm not sure she hiked Table Rock every other day, but definitely a couple times every summer. And she was very proud of herself the day they passed the boy scouts! She is now 90, and still very active, although not hiking quite so much.
Steve DoneganSeptember 3, 2025
Bro. Peterson - "I make no claim of originality for them." But to put them in one place where they can be found, digested, and integrated into our beings is an "originality" you are known for. And it is appreciated.
Corey D.September 2, 2025
I have heard this many times in my life, my wife and many other parents and grandparents I know take great comfort and solace in these quotes and I have to at various times but I struggle with it lately because of certain doctrinal truths taught in the scriptures, particularly Alma 40-42, Sec 76 and Sec 138. I have children and grandchildren and other relatives and friends that I love dearly and want us all to be together but I don't believe these quotes necessarily mean all will be exalted, saved yes and receive kingdoms and rewards yes, but the Celestial Glory is for the valiant. Great article Brother Peterson, something to think about and contemplate for sure.
ShaunaSeptember 2, 2025
Thank you for the heads up about Br. Nielsen's article. I look forward to reading it. But especially thank you for the citation of Elder Bednar's, March, 2014 article that gives context, and cautions about using a quote from almost 200 years ago, to support a doctrine that seems to violate agency. If we are not "punished for Adam's transgression, " I fail to see how we can be saved by the righteousness and covenants of our parents. And indeed Elder Bednar, gives the quote from Joseph smith, in its entirety, which indicates that "when a father and mother of a family have [been sealed], their children {who have not transgressed}--(italicized in the article) are secured by the seal wherewith the parents have been sealed. " (qtd in March, 2014 Ensign "Faithful parents and wayward Children: sustaining hope while overcoming misunderstanding" by Elder Bednar). I hear the Orson F Whitney quote all the time in classes now, and I have never met a teacher who is familiar with Elder Bednar's direct response. I'm also reminded of a quote from Elder Neal L Andersen in his October, 2012 General Conference address entitled "Trial of your Faith,": "There is an important principle that governs the doctrine of the Church . The doctrine is taught by all 15 members of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve. It is not hidden in an obscure paragraph of one talk." Elder Bednar, concedes that we do not currently completely understand the power of a family sealing, but it cannot override agency and cannot be substituted for personal repentance.
JuliannSeptember 2, 2025
There are many sons and daughters who have wandered away from Church involvement but who are wonderful, compassionate, charitable people and productive, contributing, citizens. Way too many Church members judge non members for breaking the W of W, forgetting that to them it is not a commandment. We can only look in the mirror and ask if our lack of hope in the Atonement of Jesus Christ and our tendency to pass judgement on others doesn’t make us hypocrites. The journey to become Christlike is ongoing for each of us.
HelenCSeptember 2, 2025
As I struggle with my fears over my [doctrinally] wayward children I use information like this to remind me of our Father in Heaven’s total understanding of the laws of both justice and mercy.
I wait on Him.
LindaSeptember 2, 2025
What a beautiful, heartfelt article. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and words.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 2, 2025
"The pain now is part of the happiness then" is another quote attributed to C.S. Lewis.
In Mosiah 18:9, we learn that mourning with others is a covenant we make at baptism.
Alma 28:12 While many thousands of others truly mourn for the loss of their kindred, yet they rejoice and exult in the hope, and even know, according to the promises of the Lord, that they are raised to dwell at the right hand of God, in a state of never-ending happiness.
I am not a mourner or a griever. Do I miss my loved ones who have passed on? Absolutely! Am I sad for those who suffer devastating illness or are even drawn to suicide? Yes! Do I ask many "What if...?" Most assuredly. What if I had called? What if this situation had been different? What could the person in pain have done differently? Was I the best friend, sister, or neighbor that I could have been? Is there something I could have done to prevent a suicide or to offer more comfort during an illness or life challenge?
I sometimes feel guilty that I do not, in a sense, "sit Shiva" as our Jewish friends do. I have not had the "luxury" of leaving all the cares of the world to experience a period of mourning. I do not weep, wail, or become depressed. I have had to be about the business of moving forward (especially after divorce or serious illness). In many cases, I have had to be strong for others who did not have a sense of hope or a real understanding of what life after life might involve, and who did not share the same belief that they could someday see and live with their loved ones again.
For many, deep grief goes on for years and years. After the suicide of a child, one relative sought insight from various religions, counseling, and even psychic readings in an effort to be comforted and to gain some idea of life after death.
We grieve because we love. I don't believe I love less because I do not openly express my mourning. I will never forget the joy of returning to my grandmother's hospital room, as others were leaving, to give her one last hug and whisper words of reassurance. I regret that circumstances were not such that I could do the same when my own mother passed. Nevertheless, I am grateful that my mother's suffering did not continue.
I cannot imagine how our Heavenly Father watched His Son suffer unthinkable things, yet the love of both of them was all for us. We can put our hope in their joyful and eternal plan.
Mary Jo BellSeptember 2, 2025
Thank you for these great insights.
Laura M. BrothersonSeptember 2, 2025
Well said, Sean!! Well done! Thanks for the fabulous review of "And They Were Not Ashamed!" And I definitely wouldn't have thought you would be a "chicken" on this topic, but that's okay too! Many people are! ;)
Rose C.September 1, 2025
SO TRUE! Thank you for helping me see these invitations!
John C. GreeneSeptember 1, 2025
In the temple we are twice admonished to avoid all evil speaking of the Lord’s anointed. But it seems that a significant contingent of Latter-day Saints think there is an exception to that warning that goes: avoid all evil speaking of the Lord’s anointed, unless they deserve it. Hurling the charge of racism at anyone you don’t understand, or don’t like, or disagree with has become de rigueur today. I think it’s an ugly sign of the times and unbecoming of a disciple of Jesus Christ. “Cursed are all those that shall lift up the heel against mine anointed, saith the Lord, and cry they have sinned when they have not sinned before me, saith the Lord, but have done that which was meet in mine eyes, and which I commanded them” (D&C 121:16). Did the Lord command Brigham Young in the matter of the priesthood ban? President Kimball thought so. And so do I. I appreciate Daniel C. Peterson’s defense of Brigham Young.
Ronald BarnesAugust 30, 2025
When working with partial facts, we use assumptions to help us supplement them. Every theory I have read has assumed that the land masses of the Americans have not changed over the past thousands of years. I believe that they have changed, even dramatically, over that time. To me, the narrative of the book does indicate a large area, but not as large as others assume. I base this partly on the geological history of the area. Also, the Indians did not regard distances as the obstacles that we do. The Illini would travel over 400 miles on foot to fight an enemy. Plains Indians would ride horses from Canada into Mexico on raiding parties. Plus, the writers of the Book of Mormon could only write about those populations in the areas where they resided. I’m sure there were populations, even among their own peoples, that they were not aware of.
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 30, 2025
Thank you for the additional insights into Sister Johnson’s thought-provoking talk.
Blayne SouleAugust 29, 2025
Thanks for posting! Very informative.
KathleenAugust 29, 2025
Great article and summation. I believe Sister Johnson's talk will go down as one of the hallmark talks in the Church.
Corey D.August 29, 2025
Ultimately the geographical areas of where the Book of Mormon took place are not the most important, it's the spiritual teachings that set it apart but it does make for interesting, albeit sometimes heated discussion. I myself have always been curious about Joseph Smith's comments (found in Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith) that Lehi and his family landed in Northern Chile, most LDS historians, archaeologists, etc., don't give that much credence. I served my mission in the southern part of Chile back in the 70's, I was serving in a city called Chillan, one evening we had stopped to visit a man who we had left a Book of Mormon with, we asked if he had read any of it and did he have any questions, he said he had started to read it and was intrigued that the Nephites claimed to have come from the Middle East (that was not the usual story at the time for who settled in the New World) but then told us an interesting story about some writings that had been discovered out in the cordillera (Andes) and what he knew or had been told they were arabic writings. I got transfered not long after that and never had a chance to check out the story or possibly go out and see them but have always remembered that incident.
Rochelle HaleAugust 29, 2025
We discussed Sister Johnson's message in Relief Society last week. Two things impressed me as I read the lesson ahead of time. 1. Our spiritual wholeness, faith, and commitment to the covenant path will sustain us through adversity. 2. We will receive total fullness through the grace of Jesus at the time of resurrection of body and spirit (see also CFM lesson D&C93).
The youth presented our Sacrament meeting program last week, and our bishop expanded on an idea by one of the young women. He asked us to imagine a puzzle. We have put most of the pieces together. Those are the foundation of our testimony and gospel truths we know based on our study and experiences. If a few pieces are missing, we shouldn't discard the entire picture or give up on completing it. Those empty spots might be our questions or doubts, things we don't yet fully understand, or trials of life that test and try us.
My faith has sustained me, particularly in the last few years as I have seen loved ones struggle, experienced personal illness and injuries, and let go as loved ones passed to the other side. My faith allows me to continually move forward even when faced with difficult things.
Merilee RobertsAugust 28, 2025
Wow! What a wonderful, enlightening read! Thank you so much for your wonderful article!
MaryannAugust 28, 2025
Three of our seven adult children are not active in the church. However, they ARE active in being wonderful spouses and parents. Even though we yearn for them to come back, we have kept the channels of communication open and shown our love. We do not push in any way. Fortunately, they have not been unkind or argumentative. Although it is heartbreaking to witness some of my grandchildren growing up without the gospel, I am thankful that my children are loving parents to them. I have come to realize that I cannot agonize over this situation. Worrying, fretting, and crying will not help them and it will only exhaust me. I continue to pray for my children, and I know Heavenly Father loves them and blesses them. I also put their names on the temple prayer roll. We CAN have peace when our children pull away from the church, trusting that the Lord will help them, and we must also respect the fact that each one has to choose their own path.
Haze K.August 28, 2025
How is this significantly different than volunteering for the "Find a Grave" website?
CarolynAugust 28, 2025
Rochelle, I'm so glad he was rescued and is ok. You mentioned young people. Our college-age kids are so vulnerable because they are just experiencing the realities that bad things can happen, and mom and dad won't be there to guide them through. There may be slightly different things to emphasize if you live alone or have moved to an area with new risks but a self-assessment is a good first step and reminder.
BikeandrowAugust 28, 2025
Excellent article.
VickieAugust 28, 2025
This is absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
Lane FamilyAugust 27, 2025
Our deepest condolences to the Blackburn family.
GTOAugust 27, 2025
Enlightening in a positive way. Thanks for this!
Debrah RoundyAugust 27, 2025
That story is absolutely hilarious, Thanks for sharing.
Rochelle HaleAugust 27, 2025
Thank you! One of our grandsons was just rescued from an apartment fire. My husband and I were again discussing the importance of being prepared and having an emergency plan, especially for those who live alone, those who have recently moved, and young people living away from home for the first time.
Mark StoddardAugust 27, 2025
No fear of Paul writing a good article. Faith put to action is always the bottom line.
Steve DoneganAugust 27, 2025
This reminds me of a story I read long ago about a girl, 4 or 5 years old, who, when interviewed by her church for baptism, answered one of their questions this way: When the devil would come knocking at the door of my heart, I wasn't strong enough to keep him out. But now, I send Jesus to the door, and He's strong enough!
Rochelle HaleAugust 26, 2025
We were victims of that earthquake, fortunately not severely. The wait until daylight was the longest ever. Then, forget food storage; we shared leftover brownies and whatever we could forage, as neighbors made contributions to our potluck breakfast. We surveyed our own property and assessed the homes of neighbors who were on vacation. The epicenter was just miles from us, but we sustained no serious damage.
Just overnight, we learned of a relative who was trapped in an apartment fire, and fortunately, was rescued with no serious injuries. However, it will be a while before he is able to share his story and why he was unable to escape. We can only imagine his fear.
One of the biggest fears I have faced was how to get answers and find resources to care for my elderly mother's medical and long-term care needs; then, eventually, her memorial.
Life will throw us challenges, some greater than others. With faith, we can face them, sometimes setting new priorities or finding the need to overcome physical limitations, and continue making forward progress in our life journey.
JC CloeAugust 26, 2025
The words of this article were shared with me today. They were the words I needed to hear about fear I've felt the last 24 hours. Thank you!
HelenCAugust 26, 2025
I am in both these places right now:
“It knocks in the late-night worry over a struggling child. It knocks in seasons of financial hardship. . .”
Thank you for the reminder of where to look.
Jennifer SAugust 25, 2025
The sorrow and pain are real when loved ones leave the gospel path. There are so many persuasive voices out there. As with Eve, many are beguiled by the serpent. This article articulates the pain so well but also reminds us that we can have hope because of the Savior. I just listened to The Come Back Podcast with Ashley Stone. Hank Smith was her guest. He suggested asking in prayer how we can help God with His children. Our children have a Savior, and it is not us. I take comfort in that and seek to love them on their journey and to pray for guidance.
Corey D.August 24, 2025
I am almost 70, I have 4 children and 9 grandchildren, only 2 of those children and their families go to church and even then my oldest granddaughter whose parents go to church is really struggling with her faith. One of those children is divorced and one is in the middle of a divorce. I can think of only a handful of families who don't have children, grandchildren or spouses or maybe even the whole family who are not struggling in some way or another with church, life or marriage. I'm not one to easily get discouraged but sometimes it's hard, especially now my two oldest granddaughters have left home and have gone to college, I think about them and what they are going to chose all the time. I believe in my Savior and I believe in miracles, seen a lot of miracles in my life but sometimes it's downright discouraging looking around and seeing so many who are struggling spiritually, especially watching those who don't recognize the path they are headed down.
Corey D.August 22, 2025
Great article. I share the following experience, several years ago my brother was telling me about several teenagers that had taken their own lives in his area, one was in his ward, they were just two of a number of suicides in their area and high school. He was standing in line at the viewing for one of these kids and in front of him was a lady who is one of the counselors at the high school, he said to her, "what the heck is going on", she replied " I don't know, I can't explain it, we talk to them all the time about it, have assemblies, etc, tell them come talk to us, talk with somebody, family, teachers, whoever". I said to my brother maybe that's part of the problem, maybe we are talking to much about it. Not long after that I was talking to a neighbor, who at the time was in the stake presidency and is also a counselor/therapist, works mainly with young adult men 18-25, I told him about the conversation with my brother and asked him what he thought, he said it's interesting you mention that, I just asked my daughter about that the other day, she was a senior in high school at the time, her reply to her dad was, " we are tired of it, it's dark and depressing all the talk of suicide all the time". Interesting and insightful comment coming from a teenager. I think the same applies to all this mental health stuff, there is a line where it goes from reasonable concern to are we creating a problem and certainly if you have the state mandating testing you are very possibly creating problems.
EricAugust 22, 2025
Luke 2:7, which replaces "inn" with "inns." President Nelson spoke about this at a BYU devotional back in December 2002.
To summarize what he said, the word that "inns" comes from connotes a room rather than an entire building like a hotel. Travelers would stay at caravansaries, which could accommodate their animals. A caravansary was shaped like a hollow square or a U, with the courtyard in the center and all the rooms (inns) facing into the courtyard so guests could keep an eye on their animals. Quoting President Nelson:
"Because the guest chambers surrounding the courtyard were filled, Joseph possibly made the decision to care for Mary’s delivery in the center courtyard of a caravansary—among the animals. There, in that lowly circumstance, the Lamb of God was born."
Luke doesn't mention a stable, but he does mention a manger, and what President Nelson says here still fits what Luke's account is telling us.
I think it makes the story better. Jesus was born into an even lower setting than we've always imagined with the stable (I've heard plenty of people suggest that a private stable was actually a better birthplace than a crowded inn). It also makes it easier for the shepherds to find Him, since looking for a baby in a manger at little Bethlehem's caravansary would be far easier than searching all the stables in town.
TraciAugust 22, 2025
:) Love it, thank you Scot and Maurine.
Ronald BarnesAugust 22, 2025
I am 70 years old and grew up in a big city. Often my parents had no idea where I was and were not worried about my safety. We lived in a world where there was little crime and people looked out for each other. As early as kindergarten I walked to and from school alone. Most of the worries that plague parents today didn’t exist. It’s no longer safe to do the things that were safe when I was young. In my youth, 80% to 90% of people went to church on a regular basis. Today only 20% to 10% do. As church attendance has decreased, crime and other dangers have increased. Lack of religion has made a big difference.
Ronald BarnesAugust 22, 2025
And, inasmuch as it shall be expedient, ye must keep the performances and ordinances of God until the law shall be fulfilled which was given unto Moses. (2 Nephi 25:30)
And they also took of the firstlings of their flocks, that they might offer sacrifice and burnt offerings according to the law of Moses; (Mosiah 2:3)
Yea, and the people did observe to keep the commandments of the Lord; and they were strict in observing the ordinances of God, according to the law of Moses; for they were taught to keep the law of Moses until it should be fulfilled. (Alma 30:3)
The ordinances and burnt offerings, under the Law of Moses, were to be performed only by the Levites. We know that Lehi and Ishmael were of the tribes of Ephraim and Manasseh, but we do not know which tribe Zoram belonged to. It is possible that Zoram was a Levite, which would help to explain why God chose him to go with them.
CarolynAugust 22, 2025
After a three week visit from 6 grandchildren, I had one thought after reading this article…
Ain’t it the truth!”
Thanks for the chuckle to start my day.
Haze K.August 21, 2025
Matthew 3:2-6 in your article should read Matthew 2:2-6.
To the best of my limited understanding, of course.
Haze K.August 21, 2025
I wish there had been another option besides a "red-letter" edition, a different color choice, perhaps.
I say this as a convert who regularly used "red letter editions" of the Bible (And I suspect, other investigators and converts as well).
IF you are not acquainted with the "Mainstream Christianity" tradition, Red Letter Bibles have traditionally had the words spoken by Jesus Christ printed in red.
Scot ProctorAugust 21, 2025
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Jessica WhitakerAugust 21, 2025
I have heard much false doctrine in church meetings regarding the Savior's development from our people who are ignorant or slothful of the JST. Thank you!
BeraAugust 20, 2025
Thank you for bringing knowledge of this good book to us
Laurie WhiteAugust 20, 2025
Great article, and very appropriate for our times. Religion is a very personal matter. We can't tell someone what to believe or how to feel. Agency matters. Personal opinion matters.
BKAAugust 20, 2025
As parents of children who have left, as well as siblings, our observations have noticed the polarizing difference in the way those children have been viewed, gossiped about and treated by extended family members and other church members after they leave. This is what has caused the most pain not only for those that left, but for us too. Some really struggle to relate with friends or family who no longer believe the same things as them. It’s a tragedy. Many “non-believers” agonize over their decision to leave. They need love too. And if family gatherings have been or are always centered around religious beliefs, it isn’t hard to understand why those family members/friends/neighbors stop coming around. They begin to feel forgotten and ignored and not valued. Make family time about family, about building relationships. Show them you truly care about them regardless of their changing beliefs. Don’t assume they are lazy learners. It’s easy to point fingers at them because of what some leaders have taught or said that maybe could be worded better. But instead try to remember that Jesus left the 99 for the 1. Love those people hard. And pray for guidance. Because God loves them just as much as the 99. Don’t make your relationship only about church related things. But offer real friendship.
ShelleyAugust 20, 2025
Amen brother. Thank you for your thoughts.
Kate MerrillAugust 20, 2025
As an adult convert with no family accepting or interested in the gospel, I’ve learned to implement “the art of allowing” … allowing loved ones their free agency, their personal faith journey, their preferences in living the lifestyle that suits them. I cry a lot — I pray a lot — I’m sad a lot — and I hold tight to the iron rod as i strive to be an example of Christ’s loving approach to even those who are not (yet?) desiring to have a relationship with Him.
Esther SmithAugust 20, 2025
Thank you Kimberly! I love the way you write--the way you think!
I read this article and said to myself, "This is pure truth made poetic! Hmm... I'll bet it is the same person who wrote Ode to a Perfect Marriage." Yep. Keep writing and blessing us. Love you.
AnonymousAugust 20, 2025
This article doesn’t speak to the most damaging place for this to occur: between husbands and wives. Nothing prepares or helps those finding that relationship strained. Or church leaders casting those families into corners instead of continuing to let them serve in leadership roles where they continue to be uplifted in stewardship and community and service. They get cast aside, denied essential and needed spiritual growth and covenant belonging, and all in the name of inspiration that leaves spouses feeling like they not only lost God in their marriage but at church as well. And where they’re clinging to testimony of a God who stays and who is the only one who can support them as they strive to stay true to covenants and keep their family together, they also start to feel that even God has no space for them because His only revelation to their ward and stake leadership is to also reject and push them out. So when they keep the faith, they’re keeping it all alone, they lose the spiritual intimacy of unity in their marriage, they lose the power of stewardship and belonging at church, they live alone and isolated in a church that believes in revelation and inspiration from God and grappling with the idea that belief fuels of a God who is suddenly silent and removed. They watch with longing all of the things they used to enjoy fully being taken from them with nothing at all they can do about it. They can’t keep their spouse from watching, reading, listening. They can’t give them answers. They can’t force their leaders to see them and continue to include them, to receive revelation on their behalf and stay with them. They can’t pray their way into the hearts or communion with anyone. And every time they try to create it outside of a calling, they get told there’s a calling for that or if they go to church x/y/z, it’s all already there. Because it is. For everyone except them. And they’re doing their part to try and keep it, but because it is designated to come through church and callings and they’re not extended the opportunity of those callings, they have no power to keep it. The temple even starts to feel like a slap in the face, just one more place where you are all alone and there’s nothing you can do about it.
Add to that the constant fear for your children, continually trying to prepare them for a spiritual battle that will come from the very person you are simultaneously teaching them every day to love and respect. Grateful that spouse sees value in the church for them and isn’t dripping their doubts in their direction yet. You still have family prayer and scripture study every night, but you have to be careful what you read and how you speak so you don’t unknowingly strike a cord with whatever your spouse is struggling with at any given time. They’re physically there. But spiritually, they’re spiraling and you’re reeling at the lack of answers and clinging to prayer and the love of God for this person who you love and honor and respect but who is threatening everything you know and hold the most dear.
I can’t imagine Hell itself could be any more difficult.
When you suddenly find yourself a stranger where you used to find home, yet your testimony knows it’s all because of the mistakes that men and women are making without any thought or knowledge or understanding of how much damage they’re doing. When you dig deep and summon the courage to go in hope to your leaders for support and love on your spouse’s behalf and are told it’s your love that will save your spouse and family and sent away alone again, feeling judged and found wanting and not worth the effort. When you ask them to pull your spouse close and give them a way to forget themselves and go to work and be pulled in, and they tell you that you need to back off and leave your spouse alone and then keep you isolated and alone on the outskirts. When belonging feels like you’re sitting down to Thanksgiving dinner, but they didn’t have a place for you at the table. You can prepare and bring food, help clean up, even participate in the entertainment. But you can’t sit at the table. There’s no room at the table. You have no voice at the table. And it’s all them acting on inspiration from God to be that way.
And ironically, your spouse is still there…for now. Estranged, anger building about all the complex issues and questions, hearing the world but staying silent in their marriage … until they can’t any longer and explode at their spouse because no one else even knows what they’re experiencing or seems to care, but their loyalty to their spouse keeps them from speaking out while the silent rejection at church reinforces everything they’re being told to believe. And they’re willing to serve anywhere still because they recognize that the church is doing good things for their youth and really do miss the simple days when they fully enjoyed the sociality without seeing all the things they’ve now seen … and can’t un-see. They now know but wish they didn’t know, even while they are subconsciously biding their time until their kids grow up and realize as they did that it was good for them in their youth but has nothing to offer them as adults. And the ignorant rejection at church reinforces that. And it’s rejection from leaders because no one else even knows their situation or struggles; for all intents and purposes, they’re the perfect, active family that’s lucky enough to never get asked to speak in church or serve in high-commitment callings. No one even realizes they’re not even serving in callings with other couples, they only ever get invited to serve together and therefore alone, a new casualty of decades in Primary because no one is inspired to bring them anywhere else. They show up to set up and clean up at every activity, take their turn cleaning the building, drive the kids to every activity. But on the inside, they’re alone. And the unbelieving spouse starts to skip the second hour, which no one but his spouse realizes or cares about. And the believing spouse struggles every week between keeping it all together for their children to have a fighting chance that their spouse wasn’t strong enough to survive while simultaneously fighting against hating the community that has no place for them at the table, realizing they don’t even recognize what they’re doing or have a clue about the longterm effects or pain and rejection and loss they’re inflicting, trying not to blame their spouse for putting them in that situation, trying not to blame the leaders for putting them in that position, trying not to blame God for leaving them there, struggling to keep holding it together, fearing the day when they can’t and it all blows up and they lose everything — spouse, family, church, God, and everything they’ve loved about themselves and hoped for as they cling with longing to their covenants, the temple, patriarchal blessings, and their convictions from the years when they fully enjoyed it all and were at the table, ignorant of the fact that the feast they were enjoying was preparing them for decades of famine and God knew and gave them all in hopes it would be enough to sustain until He could get them back again.
Even the scriptures become problematic as your few conversations—scattered through the years with your spouse as you try to keep them tethered and think erroneously that maybe you can support and be a helpmeet for them in navigating the onslaught of questions and doubt and displacement and disappointment they’re feeling, that you are grateful every day that you are the only one who knows it about them AND is trying to still hold faith for them — but at scripture study, their questions, doubt, new convictions, questions without answers, all of it starts to seep out to their spouse. And while you try to remain unaffected and strong, you’re crumbling from the inside out and have nowhere to go, no one to say, “Hey! God hasn’t forgotten us and didn’t change His mind about us simply because doubt showed up. But you are treating us like He did and destroying the only thing that can actually save us: a friend, a responsibility, and constant nurturing by the Spirit at church. We’re here! We’ve been here! We don’t want to go anywhere! We need to belong! My spouse needs you to keep letting us belong, letting us forget ourselves and go to work outside of primary and nursery, with other people. We need to know we aren’t being judged and found wanting. We need to know there’s still space at the table. And my spouse’s real answers can only be found at that table, where they keep feeling known and seen and loved by God, where they’re still kneeling and praying in councils and acting on inspiration and seeing God’s hand guiding in undeniable ways that disprove everything the outside voices are telling them is truth. They need to be on Trek and at testimony meetings as Priesthood and Directors at Girls Camp. They need to show up and give Priesthood blessings to the sick, to know when there’s flooding in the basement and help clean up the home of the downtrodden. They need to be at the boating activities and youth activities, laughing and happily enjoying membership without the heaviness of questions. They need to have the mantle of stewardship overriding the isolation of doubt. They need to understand imperfection in leaders because they’re still serving as leaders and recognize their own imperfection, even with their perfect intentions. And they need to keep being surrounded by God’s voice and power, even when they can’t go to the temple because they’re still worthy but can’t say for sure they believe in the Restoration and are struggling to keep believing in God because they’re suddenly doubting everything that gives anything meaning, everything they’ve ever known. They need to be pulled IN and lifted UP, not cast OUT and alone while they spiral DOWN. And their spouse needs that, too. And their children. And every single person who walks this earth. And they are right there within reach. Until they aren’t. When they aren’t, it will be too late to get them back. You have to bring them in while they’re still doubting their doubts or you’ll give power to those doubts by adding personal experience they’ve never known before that will weld those doubts and all the rest Satan is just waiting to throw at them when the welding wand is out and the torch of loss has been fueled, the metal transformed in the wrong direction.”
All this and so much more. No one is speaking to the spouse. And God’s voice feels more faint and distant with every passing day.
David SmithAugust 20, 2025
This essay struck home. Of my seven children, I am only in contact with three of them. Of the other four, three of them I don't even know where they live or have any means to contact them, and that was their choice. This came about from a very messy divorce with their mother who ran off with our home teacher. Only my own powerful testimony that the Church is true, even if some people are not, has kept me active in spite of the loss I feel of my kids. Recently I had my grandmother's movies converted to digital files and have begun sending copies to the family members that I am in contact with and asked them to send copies to the ones I am not in contact with. Maybe it will help eventually.
MelanieAugust 20, 2025
Thank you for addressing this issue of families and loved ones not being able to communicate or be harmonious in our relationships.
This has been weighing on my mind heavily. This article has been an answer to many weeks of fasting and praying, Specifically in gathering my family back into a harmonious environment.
Thank you for the way you approached this. Charity is always the best way to handle such a delicate situation. Have a blessed day!!
JanAugust 20, 2025
Thank you for this thoughtful and helpful piece.
It is comforting and reassuring .i have read it at just the
Right time.
Joel MarksAugust 20, 2025
Amazing insight!!
Randy AndersonAugust 19, 2025
Arguably the most compelling reason Joseph Smith could not have written the BOM is the repeated use of chiasmus, as well.
https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?referer=&httpsredir=1&article=1503&context=msr#:~:text=%EE%80%A0e%20Discovery%20of%20Chiasmus,the%20Old%20and%20New%20Testaments.
Jean Cook RyggAugust 18, 2025
I read this book earlier this year. What an Eye Opener! How awful to be living a big lie - day after day, year after year in N. Korea!
I'm very glad to learn that this couple made it to the USA and have found the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. As I read the book, I kept hoping that they had.
J.G. BaileyAugust 18, 2025
As a boy, I was blessed with a good, righteous family who were close, which is what I expected and hoped for. But it was not to be. I take comfort in President Ezra Taft Benson saying, "You have not failed as a parent, until you fail to try."
CarolynAugust 18, 2025
Thank you for the fresh perspective of this article. It is an excellent reminder of truths we have been taught, but sometimes lose sight of.
So many of us are experiencing this pain of children rejecting the truths of the Gospel that we love and cherish and know to be true. We can’t help but think over and over again, “What did I do wrong? What should I have done differently?...but we had family prayer, scripture study, Family Home Evening.Where is the fulfillment and promises to us as families if we strived to do those things?”...
Discouragement and sadness are difficult to overcome, but something I have recently gained a stronger testimony of is, Eternal Progression. Thank you for addressing this in your talk and article. Heavenly Father loves all of His children and wants us all to return home to Him. It may take longer, even much longer for some, but they will return home to Him. In the meantime, we need to keep extending unconditional love and expressing our love and pride in them in the kind of good people they are and that we are so grateful we are family. I have concentrated on this behavior and attitude this summer, and it has made such a difference.
I am so grateful for Heavenly Father’s love for all of us and the confidence He placed in me to raise and guide this child through mortality.
HelenCAugust 18, 2025
So much comfort. Thank you.
David CookAugust 18, 2025
Great message.
Any chance of getting the source for this response Pres. McKay gave to the question about his oft-quoted statement? "He said failure only occurs when parents and grandparents stop trying to influence for good their children who have strayed."
Rochelle HaleAugust 18, 2025
I appreciate that, in recent years, we have learned that President Nelson's father struggled with alcohol, President Holland was raised in a single-parent home, and Sister Arbuto was a convert to the church whose first marriage was not ideal. The empty chairs are evident in our home. We have seen children, cousins, and others leave the teachings of the gospel. Some are angry; some are just following different paths. We meet on common ground where we are able, and we make sure that our children and others know how much we love them. Nevertheless, we are envious of friends who engage in regular family gatherings, especially for birthdays or holidays. We know, however, that the Lord knows each of His children (they were His before they were ours). We all have weaknesses to overcome and things to learn as we experience our mortal lives. We can take joy in our family and joy in living the principles we know to be true, even though our circumstances may not be the most desirable at this time. A few years ago, President Eyring described a challenge within his own family. In effect, he was counseled, "You are worrying about the wrong thing. You get yourself to the Celestial Kingdom, and your family will be more glorious than you can imagine.
Linda W.August 18, 2025
This is the most concise and comforting article I've ever read concerning the emotional turmoil caused by our loved ones leaving the path we hold so dear! From my own experience I know this is a topic that quietly eats away at our hearts, but that we don't talk about. Thanks to the author for sharing his insight!
R L GibbonsAugust 18, 2025
Can someone with Type 1 diabetes safely use your product?
Ric GarciaAugust 17, 2025
In a world where fake news fill our daily life it is hard to know what is real what is not. As a member of the church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints and a convert I can see truth in this story because of my own personal experiences leaving my country of birth. It is not important if you believe it or not but what is important is to know that God will reward all righteousness from his children and give each and everyone what we have earned during our time on earth. Justice will prevail since Jesus has been appointed as our judge and Saviour.
IsabelAugust 17, 2025
I agree that the blame should not be placed on just one of the spouses. A husband who feels he is always justified in getting angry at his wife has a bigger problem than she does.
BruceAugust 17, 2025
There is so very little to go on with this reader's letter for any of us to make meaningful comments. But I can say that I sympathize with her. I pray the writer of this letter can find the answers she needs.
Dawn O'DellAugust 16, 2025
I've lived this woman's scenario myself. The reality is, no one who actually is a horrible wife will ever have the clarity to admit it even to herself, mush less in a public forum like this. That's not the problem. Get professional counseling, and don't hesitate. If necessary, talk to your bishop about getting help to do this. Issues like these do NOT resolve on their own. Hopefully your husband will see the value in it and agree to attend. If not, go on your own. Your children deserve to have a strong mom who models the ability to develop her own relationship with Heavenly Father and our Savior, including having fun with it. There is no one right way to do this. It is ok to have different opinions than your husband. It is even ok to disagree. Conflict is fine, it is how we identify something that needs work. Contention is not fine. We have two eyes in order to deepen our perspective, and each eye has a slightly different viewpoint. There is nothing wrong in this. It is how we were created. I'm sure that sometimes your husband's tone or his choice of words offends you, too. That's normal. So is the need to apologize and forgive, on both sides. But it is not ok for one spouse to cause the other to believe that they are bad just because they think differently. It's not ok to hold a grudge all day after the other person has sincerely apologized. I recommend reading a book called "Boundaries in Marriage" by Cloud and Townsend. You can likely find it at the public library. Best wishes!
K GrantAugust 16, 2025
I can understand this wife's a situation to a certain degree. I realized that my husband has a strong need to feel respected as a lot of men do. But he was associating my agreeing with him as being respected. So it was hard to have a difference of opinion because he interpreted that according to some of his own triggers. It didn't always matter how I presented the thought it was still challenging. So if that's a similar trigger for this woman's husband, it's helpful to begin with something like..." I'm not saying this to disrespect you, I just have a different way of looking at this "
JeffreyAugust 15, 2025
What an amazing example of courage!
Bill BellAugust 15, 2025
There are endless discussions about this, but it is simple, really. It's a matter of personal integrity. I have promised not to use tea, coffee, alcohol or tobacco, so I don't.
Taylor StonelyAugust 15, 2025
What an eye opening story! Thank you for sharing
HelenCAugust 15, 2025
Thank you for teaching me that courage has a voice and for reminding us that tyranny must be left behind.
Roberta HarrisAugust 15, 2025
Such a poignant story. Thank you for sharing it and how dramatically your lives changed once you escaped that terrible regime. All the best with your dear family now.
Karen BrimhallAugust 15, 2025
What a great story you have given of strength and courage. Freedom is such a sacred commodity. I can’t even imagine what you and your wife endured. Grateful you have hope and the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Maryann TaylorAugust 14, 2025
Beautiful article. At the age of 74, I would like to add that as we get older, the majority of us don't have the same energy we had when we were younger. There needs to be a balance between pushing ourselves unwisely beyond our limits, and accepting the reality of diminished ability to do the things we used to do. I think simplification is the key. While we may not be able to clean someone's house, we can give encouragement through phone calls, texts, and visits. We can listen with love and compassion. We can pray for our ward family and particularly for those who need special help. We each can discover what we can give in various ways, according to our health and capacity. When we feel the Spirit guiding us to take some specific action, we can exercise our faith in the Lord to enable us to press forward. BUT, all things must be done "in wisdom and order," to maintain our well being.
Scot ProctorAugust 14, 2025
Dr. Frogley: Here is the answer from HLTH Code: Most of our ingredients are protein and healthy fats, so there is very little plant matter in our original shake. Our plant-based version is tested to ensure that it's pesticide- and glyphosate-free. Overall, most, but not all of our ingredients are organic, so we don't make that claim. Our product is manufactured in the USA, at a cGMP certified, FDA registered facility following our strict guidelines and specific formulation and ingredient specifications. All of our packaging is BPA-free. Our extensive quality testing ensures identity and safety testing of all of the raw material. Once the final product is produced, it is tested again by a 3rd party lab to validate potency, purity, and ensure that it's free of heavy metals, pesticides/agricultural chemicals, etc. We're proud that our product contains the highest quality ingredients, is free of genetically modified ingredients (non-GMO), and is gluten-free. It is also free of any artificial preservatives, ingredients, colors, flavors or sweeteners...which are very common (unfortunately) in our industry.
Maryann TaylorAugust 14, 2025
My husband and I love to visit old cemeteries, and consider them a sacred place. Reading the markers tells us tender stories about the families, and also very interesting historical events of the time. Many of my ancestors are buried in a cemetery in Preston ID, and I was fortunate enough to visit and to match the names on the gravestones to the many stories my grandmother related to me about her family. Searching my family history has also helped me to know my ancestors more intimately. I feel I know these people who paved the way for me, and who left me such a beautiful legacy. I only hope I can live up to their expectations for their posterity, and that I can joyfully embrace them in the next world.
Maurice McBrideAugust 14, 2025
Great article! The "Ferguson Family Cemetery," as it is usually known, is and always has been for me a sacred place.
Dorothy MillerAugust 14, 2025
I am so glad that you published this article. I was under the impression that FSY replaced EFY. Get the word out, including that the programs have important differences!
Geoff SteurerAugust 14, 2025
Thank you for these powerful reminders! It's amazing how quickly appreciation and humility soften marital interactions.
Dr. Craig FrogleyAugust 14, 2025
Is it organic or filled with glyphosate… a known disruptor of our Microbiome?
Rochelle HaleAugust 14, 2025
This is such an easy and unfortunate trap to fall into. Sadly, it happened to me. I thought I was trying to resolve a computer issue, and it ended up costing me $1500. It could have been much worse. I was at the bank the other day when a customer went to the window in great distress because she realized she had been victimized. We lost my mother and mother-in-law in recent years. We counseled them over and over, "Don't say this on the phone, don't give out personal information, don't do this on your computer." I ended up being the one who was scammed. Thank you for listing many things we can watch for to avoid being victims of this crime.
Judy ShepherdAugust 14, 2025
This needs frequent repetition. So many times I have seen, and investigated, scams that harm well-educated and experienced people. Even sadder, too many vulnerable individuals are scammed out of their meager income and end up without a roof over their head. It has been next to impossible to convince many of these that no one is giving them free money or going to relocate them to the middle east to be spouse of a prince, etc.
RonyaAugust 14, 2025
May I please copy this and send it to my clients? It is very concise and in plain English so that hopefully my clients will understand.
I too was recently the victim of an email hack on my business email. They sent a blast to everyone in my contact list. I had calls and emails from clients that had been gone for years. Some had tried to fill out the form that was sent, but most realized it might be a scam and called me. It was a mess.
Dave HansenAugust 13, 2025
Thank you for making many LDS people aware of what the Church is doing to help those living on the street. Here in Portland, the Church formed a small branch that administers to the needy as much as possible. Often people stop by for free food, clothes or whatever might make their lives a bit easier. Some realize the importance, and continue to adopt a new lifestyle if LDS membership Unfortunately, many just use our property as a restroom, or they can hide to do their addictive proclivities. I believe most folks living in the suburbs have no idea of what these people are going through....the contrast is so stark. It is still important to realize that we are ALL children of our Father in Heaven and deserve help, even if they are crying from the gutter!!!
Seven BaysaAugust 13, 2025
Each season of life has its own rhythm. It's great to know that "Autumn and Winter" of life can be so rewarding!
Rochelle HaleAugust 13, 2025
I joined the church when I was at the crossroads into adulthood and could have followed the social norms of alcohol, coffee, etc. One of my favorite childhood memories is coffee time with my grandfather. He would put a spoonful in my milk, and we would chat. It was the time together, not the coffee, that was important. A friend once asked why God would care what we ate or drank. How glad I am that He does. We have been given a basic foundation. We may still suffer illness or have other challenges, but, in my experience, they are less difficult when striving to obey the Word of Wisdom. We are blessed to have the Lord give us guidance, unlike the 6 o'clock news reports that change so often regarding the popular (and sometimes scientific) views on foods and other substances.
Roberta HarrisAugust 12, 2025
I too am touched Becky by yet another of your heart warming stories about LOVE and GIVING. I am making plans to put something into action this week. Thank you for inspiring me once again to just get on and DO it....so I will have no regrets that I let prime opportunities melt away!
Rochelle HaleAugust 11, 2025
I so appreciate this article and the "five stones" that each of us should be carrying. The Lord should be our shield and protection. However, the Lord has also provided other things for us in times of need. I have seen friends struggle needlessly because they expected healing when they did not avail themselves of medical care, proper nutrition, or perhaps even sleep. They thought the Lord would take care of them when they weren't putting forth the effort. We had a business associate years ago whose second child was born with many challenges and was not expected to live beyond age two. The mother would not accept this diagnosis. She was a faithful, praying woman. She took her son to doctor after doctor, and was proactive in his care. Her boy is now a middle-aged man with a family of his own.
I would also add the stone of ministering and the support that others can give us. There are many things we can do on our own, especially if we have been striving to follow a covenantal path. However, the Lord provides for us in many ways and gives us additional tools, such as the support that comes through ministering and the blessings of the Priesthood. May we all have the courage and faith of David, but the humility to receive additional assistance, guidance, or answers.
Jan WolfAugust 11, 2025
Thank you so very much for putting into words what is in my heart, and making an even new awareness of our Savior’s love for us. This article has made an even deeper sense of gratitude of His great sacrifice. Thank you.
CarolynAugust 10, 2025
Sandra, I just saw your comment. I would suggest you reach out to your local fire department and ask for a referral. If you hear of a department traveling to a disaster area they will have made connections. You can also contact local agencies in the area using Facebook. If you are on the Operation Ornaments Facebook page you can see where we are serving. I can put you in touch with an area or two this year. Contact me at [email protected]
Sylvia AllenAugust 9, 2025
Caring for this earth is important. It is best done through liberty and property rights not control. It is best done through the use of technology and having faith in mankind's ability to solve any problem through the use of freedom.
LaurenAugust 8, 2025
So creepy! But I’m confused. Where’s the rest of the story?
LewisAugust 8, 2025
Thank you once again for reminding us that the small acts of service have impacts far beyond our limited understanding. I am grateful for your gift of telling wonderful stories that inspire. May they have impacts far beyond our understanding.
Richard GarrisonAugust 8, 2025
Becky, you and your great selfless work continue to inspire me!!
Thank you!!
HelenCAugust 8, 2025
Thank you for the reminder that no gift is too small for the Lord to use.
CynthiaAugust 8, 2025
You are such an inspiration to me! Thank you for sharing these beautiful stories and helping me feel to do more. I want to be a giver!!
Aaron SmithAugust 7, 2025
The earth has one purpose: to be a testing ground for God's children in mortality. Without God's children on it, earth would have no divine purpose at all. It will one day be resurrected and celestialized, after the mortal period has ended. The earth has already been saved by God's plan and His Son's Atonement.
Yes, we are to be wise and responsible stewards of all that God gives us. Let us never cross the line into thinking that our purpose is to save the earth, or worse, to worship it, as is the case with many extremists. Our purpose is much greater than anything that extreme environmentalists promote.
Maryann TaylorAugust 7, 2025
Often, when I read the scriptures and something just feels "off," I look down and find a JST footnote that clarifies it all. I am so grateful for this profound blessing in elevating our understanding of the gospel, and applying it in our lives. I am grateful for the prophet, Joseph Smith and for those who worked to include these inspired verses our scriptures.
Maryann TaylorAugust 7, 2025
My husband and I visited Nauvoo and attended the Nauvoo Temple dedication. We have never experienced such a great measure of the Lord's spirit, which filled us with absolute joy and peace. Those profound feelings stayed with us for many days throughout our trip. One night, in the darkness, the Tabernacle Choir gave a special performance and sang in front of the brightly lit temple. People were sitting everywhere on the hillside across the street and also seated in chairs set up for the occasion near the choir. As we listened to the choir fill the air with such sacred, beautiful music on that evening, little fireflies came out and surrounded us. The temple blazed with light, and the Spirit of the Lord was very powerful, and something I will never forget.
Gary LindnerAugust 7, 2025
I purchased a Kindle copy of the Red Letter Edition a few weeks ago and have been reading it instead of the KJV. I’ve almost finished the 4 gospels and feel the Spirit strongly when I read it. I also joy in the truths revealed by the corrections which are easier to appreciate in context with the original KJV.
SygAugust 7, 2025
Glad this is being discussed. And to answer a question posted by Mark, I don't know the Church's answer, but artificial grass comes with its on environmental impact.
Soil is a natural carbon store. Especially if plants are growing in it, slowly taking carbon from the atmosphere and putting it back into the plants and the ground. Removing a large area of planting that is actively locking carbon into the ground releases that locked carbon back into the atmosphere.
Artificial grass creates a large carbon footprint during a journey that includes the manufacturing, transportation and installation of the product. Replacing soil with sand to create a stable bed for artificial grass releases more carbon dioxide stored in the earth. Artificial grass is more likely to cause surface run off after significant rainfall which may contribute to flooding. Artificial grass is made from polyethylene: polypropylene or nylon (polyamide), and fragments from this material can make their way into the soil, and beyond, in the form of microplastic pollution. The shelf life for artificial grass is estimated to be 10-20 years and the product is difficult to reuse. Although it can be recycled, this is not easy and can only be done at specialist plants after a specific cleaning process. Artificial grass is not totally maintenance free. It still needs to be cleaned of litter and moss growth, potentially replacing mowing with vacuuming. We lose the tactile and sensory benefits of real grass. Children are able to sit and play on a soft lawn, make a daisy or dandelion chain, and pluck a blade of grass to whistle with. Artificial grass alternatives, such as natural bark chips, are easy to maintain and provide a softer surface than artificial grass and reduce the possibilities of friction burns.
Alvin H. AndrewAugust 7, 2025
Before anyone objects, it is true that in June 1909, Elder Benjamin F. Cummings was invited to view and handle the New Translation manuscripts at the invitation of Fredrick M. Smith, son of Joseph Smith III. However, he was not able to make any "critical examination" of the manuscripts.
Plus, the link to the JST Red-Letter Editions referred to at the end of the article is:
https://jstrle.com/
JP GayanAugust 7, 2025
The move to solar in Hawaii and other places is primarily financial. Electricity rates in Hawaii are almost double what they are in California, which is already one of the most expensive places for electricity. The environmental benefit is just a nice side bonus.
Haze K.August 7, 2025
I had no idea of the challenges the Church encountered obtaining the JST!
I wish that more members appreciated how recently the blessings of the JST became available to us.
God's blessings on this man and his righteous efforts. Well done, thou good and faithful servant!
ColinAugust 7, 2025
I didn’t realize the Church was doing so much in this area, but it’s great. The whole question of environmental stewardship is one of those things that challenges us: will our loyalties be with our politics, or with the Church? For some people, that’s a tough call, and these days there are more and more issues like that (same-sex marriage, immigration, rule of law, etc.).
MarkAugust 7, 2025
Good article. I have a question. If our church wants to conserve water, then why not install artificial grass at all ward buildings, temples, and all church buildings that have grass?
MicheleAugust 6, 2025
How awful. My family went to eat at a Chinese restaurant where my father serviced the office equipment. I couldn't eat because of the rice grains in the salt shaker. I didn't know that was nothing until later. My father had been called to the office to look at their old fashioned hand crank adding machine. The handle was turning by itself. You guessed it, cockroaches had made a home inside...he didnt tell us until much later.
Corey D.August 6, 2025
Wonderful article. Really made me think about some things, thank you, it's a timely article for me personally.
rkAugust 6, 2025
If you want to increase the birthrate, educational institutions should consider eliminating or getting rid of most college general education requirements that don't help a student in the work force. Pathways is doing this already.
Within the church education system BYU-Provo is especially bad at requiring so many general education classes as well as numerous extra classes for any given major compared to other universities. They also don't easily accept transfer credit. This ends up costing students years before they can graduate and I would argue that these extra classes give them little in return.
Also, we can encourage young adults to go into trades instead of expecting them to attend a university automatically. Their cost is minimal if their is any and even an apprentice gets paid.
Leanne StrongAugust 6, 2025
About the part about kids learning how to keep themselves safe, and associating comfort with safety. Much like how you have always taught children to say, "no! That's not appropriate!" We can also teach kids to say things like, "no! That's not safe!" And, "no! That's not kind!"
However, there are some exceptional situations, in which a child IS allowed to say, "I don't feel comfortable doing that." They do not have to go on that seemingly scary amusement park or carnival ride, as there are likely other rides and activities at that park or carnival, and you're sure to find at least one that your child will enjoy. Your child doesn't have to ride a bike if they don't feel comfortable, as there are many other things that they can do for exercise or fun that don't involve screens (including, but not limited to crafts, helping with baking, running, walking, trampoline, swimming, etc.)
Phil AndrewsAugust 6, 2025
Thanks for sharing this information. I agree with the decision to update that Gospel Topics Essay. I am also one who believes that the 'study it out in your mind' counsel in D.C. 9:8 was meant to apply to personal revelation rather than something that was used by Joseph Smith during either the dictation of the Book of Mormon text or in any of his other scriptural 'translation' work.
BenAugust 6, 2025
Tom Harbour, and his wife Laree, are perhaps the most remarkable people I have ever met. They are always serving other before themselves.
Alvin H AndrewAugust 6, 2025
Thank you for bringing attention to this issue. Change is inevitable. I completely agree with the need for a “change log” especially for items of significance such as you review here.
Corey D.August 6, 2025
I personally know more people, i.e., neighbors, friends, family who no longer believe in organized religion or in many cases don't believe in God than I have ever known in my life. The laws, social norms etc of many countries, especially Europe and most large cities/urban areas anywhere in the world generally favor nonreligious laws, etc. Most movies, tv shows, books, seem to paint religion in a negative or comical way. It's all part of the fulfillment of prophecy though. The Lord's sheep will hear his voice but they will be few in number.
ValAugust 5, 2025
Thank you for giving voice to the difficulties of life and the magic of the Wonderful Plan of our Heavenly Parents. It reminds me of what I heard in an Addiction Recovery meeting:
Justice is giving me what I deserve.
Mercy is not giving me what I deserve.
Grace is giving me what I do not deserve.
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
Your comment that we can get knowledge from others, but not wisdom immediately called the parable of The Ten Virgins to mind. The wise could not share their oil of wisdom because it came from their real experiences of not only learning, but obeying. To gain real wisdom, we must follow our Savior and do the things we see him do in the scriptures.
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
Such a beautiful, encouraging article that applies to all of our trials. I loved the idea that we can shake off the burden of believing that things must be all right "right now!" When we accept that recovery and also growth take time, we can feel more peace. I look forward to the day when we will stand as resurrected beings, perfect in health, and spirit. I am so glad that you're recovered!
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
The temple account of the creation is truly beautiful, and also instructive. For example, God said to divide the light from the darkness a couple of days BEFORE he created the sun, moon, and stars! Interesting to contemplate. I also see God's great love manifested in the order of the creation. Everything man would need was prepared for him beforehand. All this loving, careful planning was for us!
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
Ha! Ha! In a ward council meeting planning an upcoming social event, I was very surprised that potato salad is also a sacred subject! I had no idea that people were so touchy about how potato salad should be prepared. Such competitive behavior is beneath me because I know my recipe is the very best.
Megan TaylorAugust 5, 2025
Another challenge to parenthood I've seen since beginning my 3-child family in 2008 is the rise of technology and social media. For one, baby gear has become incrediy high-tech, giving us the moment-by-moment ability to track our children's progress--but also (in my observation) massively increasing parental anxiety. Younger parents seem to think they need the latest and most expensive gear giving them 24-hour surveillance over their babies, which must be exhausting and unnecessarily stressful. I see articles everywhere describing how moms in the 1980s (my parents' generation) were noticeably happier than moms today, in large part because people parented using their own instincts along with advice from family, friends, and their pediatrician. They weren't bombarded with a thousand social media experts, all shouting a thousand different viewpoints in a competitive online environment. And motherhood was largely conducted in private, not publicly via social media. Though many mothers on social media today are sharing the joy of family life (which is wonderful!), many are also sharing only the highest of highlights, leaving the rest of us mothers with our very normal up-and-down days to feel like our parenting performance is falling woefully short. And many popular mommy influencers are paid handsomely for their work, meaning they can attain a lifestyle out of reach for most parents (leading to feelings of never being able to keep up or give our children what they "deserve"). I think a LOT of this is influencing young couples to delay parenting until they can achieve what is largely unachievable, or to delay parenting because their friends with children are finding modern parenting with its unrealistic standards to be so stressful and disillusioning.
M BrownAugust 5, 2025
Loved this idea of the BOM being a "family history". Can't wait to hear more of your ideas. I'm always on the hunt for ways to make "family history work" pertinent and enjoyable for our ward members.
Steve DoneganAugust 5, 2025
I have a sign that reads: Satan knows your name, but calls you by your sin. God knows your sin, but calls you by your name. Your article, very well written indeed, reminds me of that sign. Thank you.
WallyAugust 4, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you.
Angela GreenfieldAugust 4, 2025
This is magnificent! Thank you so much!
ErikpeterhansenAugust 4, 2025
Beautiful!
MAugust 4, 2025
I am currently homebound with an illness subsequent to a traumatic injury, which doctors haven't been able to explain. I need stories like yours, because I have heard God whisper "Not yet." It helps so much to see the fruits of the hard work and perseverance of others. Thank you. Thank you.
RonAugust 4, 2025
What an inspiring story! And so relevant to so many! I had a similar experience where a surgical incident led to paralysis from the neck down. I was told that I would never walk again. But, through the grace of God and a tough and encouraging wife, I walk again! Thank you for your inspired leadership. We love your magazine!
HeatherAugust 4, 2025
Thanks so much. I love the Savior and the Father and the Holy Ghost with all of me.
You have voiced the comfort and assurance that gave all of us courage to come down here to mortality. We saw what he would do before we came and shouted for joy with all the hosts of heaven. Hallelujah!
Patricia CarrAugust 4, 2025
Such a beautiful article! Thank you so much for this!
JulieAugust 4, 2025
This is so beautiful, perfectly said that brought light to my heart and eyes.
Jason BAugust 4, 2025
This is fantastic! I have been working with my 82-year-old mother to record her memories and am excited to incorporate many of the resources you mentioned here into my questions for her. I am also hoping to learn more about the UN-Game and chat packs to kick start conversations with my family! Thank you.
JamesAugust 4, 2025
Sister White, I really appreciate and needed this article! Many times throughout my life I have cried out in agony for the pain He has gone through for me and my mistakes. Thank you for putting into words I could not!!
David ShafferAugust 4, 2025
Thank you. This was an eye opener, and a mind opener, and a heart opener. Thank you.
Elsie HingstonAugust 4, 2025
Thank you so much for this article! It touched my heart.❤️
Phil LeaningAugust 3, 2025
Richard Bushman said, in Rough Stone Rolling, that Joseph's great achievement, his great "fruit", was the creation of the Mormon people.
Sandra WhiteJuly 31, 2025
I make colorful "Comfort Bears" from fabric scraps; They are simply fronts/backs with stuffing....no face, etc. Would be great to hug for comfort for adult or child that has been tramatized.....if you think this would be helpful to some, do you know where I would send them or how to get them to the area there????
Gail G GrovesJuly 31, 2025
Hello. Love, love your podcasts! May I ask where I might find D&C 77-80? Thank you!
Sarah BurtonJuly 31, 2025
Thank you for your example and wisdom, Maurine. As you diligently strived for healing even while patiently accepting that the precious healing you wanted so desperately had not happened "yet," you set a great example of trusting in God. And you're right--either we can wallow in the misery of their own imperfections...or we can choose to be patient with ourselves, to trust in the Lord, and--encouraged by those gentle rays of positivity and the Spirit--keep plowing forward with hope.
Richard JukesJuly 30, 2025
Very uplifting and hope instilling story! Thank you for your faith and diligence that help inspire us so much.
WallyJuly 30, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you, Maurine.
Robert StarlingJuly 30, 2025
Thank you Maurine, for your message of hope, for so many of us who are "not yet" where we want to be. And your new-ly freed fingers have obeyed your brain and your sweet spirit to express that message so eloquently! As my mama back in Georgia might say, "Good job 'Honey Child'".
hcondonJuly 30, 2025
Stunningly insightful and helpful. Thank you.
Laurel Lee PedersenJuly 30, 2025
What a beautiful explanation of the Priesthood of God the Father, and His Son, Jesus Christ. I was greatly taught and edified.Thank you and love to you, Diana!
AnnaJuly 29, 2025
This has been a fascinating series of articles. Thank you for sharing your experience and insights. I serve as a mission nurse in an area that vulnerable in many ways to both natural and man-made disasters. We are giving missionaries some simple and basic instruction in emergency preparedness, at the direction of the Area Presidency. There was much food for thought in what you shared.
Lynn HughesJuly 29, 2025
Thank you for your scholarship. And heart.
Richard CraycroftJuly 29, 2025
With the children of celebrities, and others, as cited in the article, I often wonder if it is some sort of Munchausen syndrome by proxy.
Debby JarvisJuly 28, 2025
Are there written transcripts of these talks after the fact?
Spc. Storrer.July 27, 2025
I remember the Colonel inspecting the latrines on our base Stuck his in a urinal scraped his fingernails along the upper edge and shoved his dried urine caked nails under our Captains nose yelling, "you call this clean" unfortunately l was the latrine orderly for that inspection I learned very quickly the importance of clean toilets!
RobJuly 27, 2025
Working in the death industry, I have seen people terrified to look at a casket for a deceased loved one. And I have had the privilege of seeing people who have a testimony of the gospel grow over years of obedience to God's commandments, have a quiet assurance, and even happiness that they are going home to God.
There is no middle ground.
In many ways it's a fulfilments of the 10 virgins parable. Those who put forth the effort to receive a testimony are prepared and ready to meet the bridegroom (Christ).
Steve DoneganJuly 26, 2025
Your article - profoundly timed, if I say so myself - reminds me of something I read in an Interpreters Foundation article, "Divinity is perhaps most revealed in the service we give to others, not in miracles" (Newell D. Wright, "A Book of Mormon Metaphor for Young Service Missionaries," July 12, 2025). Thank you for reminding us of our need to support Father's mission (Moses 1:39).
Kathy SandersJuly 26, 2025
Thank you for this article this morning. It was exactly what I needed to read and the very subject I've been wrestling with for a while. Finishing "things" is the bane of my existence some days as it does require the very hard work of... well...work. This inspired me to think about it with new eyes and determination.
AlexanderJuly 25, 2025
This exegesis—or explanation—has greatly expanded my understanding of the Hebrew texts: verbs and nouns.
I will be re-reading this thesis; wishing that I could share it—by email, to others who would appreciate the depth of understanding with the Hebrew term: Elohim.
Diane BashJuly 25, 2025
This is beautifully written, and brings an spiritually insightful voice of reason to some difficult situations.
Cynthia CJuly 25, 2025
Wonderful, inspiring article! I mentor students of all ages and will be able to use these concepts in that volunteer work. Thank you!
SageJuly 25, 2025
That talk has stayed with me all these years as well. At least those two words have: finishers wanted. I am a "Jill of all trades, master of none"-type of person. I've tried very hard to learn to finish. This article beautifully encapsulated the teachings of Jesus that show us the way. Thank you.
Tom McKnightJuly 25, 2025
In accordance with your thesis here, compare this to the Ojibwe tradition of the Creation of Man and Woman according to their Birchbark Scrolls, as related in their ancient Lodge Ceremony. The first 17 pages tell the story; after that are just some of my notes: https://www.youtube.com/live/oU47CgIFDWY My email address is [email protected]
Pam SeamonsJuly 24, 2025
\Very interesting to read and glad they are not forgotten. They all sacrificed so much. My 4th great-grandmother is Mary Knight Slade. She is one who is buried in the pauper section of the Salt Lake Cemetery. Several years ago, a cousin found our relationship to her and after a lot of research found about where her grave sight would be. In 2007, our family purchased a marker to honor and remember her in that pauper field. She is a sister to Joseph Knight SR. and was a member of the original Colesville branch. She passed away about 6 months after arriving in Utah at the age of 78. I have a great deal of admiration for her. Thanks for your work to find others.
Linda Barney StanfordJuly 24, 2025
I am grateful to you for bringing these stories to light so that the lives and contributions of these pioneers will be remembered. Reading this article was a blessing to me today which i hope to share with my family.
Ricky JohnsonJuly 24, 2025
I am not certain why this article was published; it jumps to many conclusions, and it leads readers down the wrong path. Sad and disappointing! Many of its sources are reliable (e.g., Gesenius, Cross, Alter, and Waltke & O’Connor); other sources lack credibility (e.g., Barker Terryl & Fiona Givens) among mainstream biblical scholars (legitimate, universal scholars who know Biblical Hebrew). Barker is a favorite among some Latter-day Saints, but mainstream scholars rarely cite her works! Some of the links to sources are incorrect! Biblical prophets spoke against Baal, Asherah, and other deities. Please take the Hebrew Bible more seriously!
Sharon O'DonnalJuly 24, 2025
I can relate to this article. My husband was a police officer for 35 years. Many times he was was in areas that had no receptiion to call for backup. And many times the Holy Ghost forewarned him of impending danger. I worrird about him, yes, however, i knew he honored his Priesthood and the Holy Ghost would be with him. Because my husband was an example of this very article, i like to think that the young men we know who have become police (including 3 of our own gradsons) is because of his example in living the gospel, honoring his Priesthood, and listening to the Holy Ghost.. And i tell their wives to trust the Holy Ghost to protect their loved one. Thanks for this article. I am looking forward to Part 2.
Regina E. KohutekJuly 23, 2025
Having had 5 dear family members pass away this past year, I am grateful to know that we all get to leave this existence. How dreadful it would be, to not be able to return home. I am so grateful for that Great Plan of Happiness. I am so grateful to have a solid idea where my loved ones are at this time, on their eternal journey. How much do I look forward to embracing them all again. Our loved ones have not vanished; they are just around the corner, out of sight, waiting for us to join them.
Marilynne LinfordJuly 23, 2025
Darlene, You can read about the marker that has been placed at D-7-1 at https://latterdaysaintmag.com/lest-we-forget-paupers-grave-salt-lake-city/. In the article, there is a photo of the marker. Also, there are several mass graves nearby D-7-1. The cemetery office staff may help you find out which plot D your ancestor is in. You can also get access to their archives. We have found them to be very helpful. Thanks for your comment.
Tamara Ellsworth FrancisJuly 23, 2025
Beautifully written and it is so great to know, per our earthly veil, that we surely have so much to look forward to after our mortal experience. I am feeling ever grateful for the Plan of Salvation, repentance, forgiveness, the chance to learn, to grow and become more. May we focus on all the precious things and of course our Redeemer as we continue on our path back to our eternal home.
Darlene HutchisonJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for bringing to light these beautiful stories. I have a relative listed as only being buried in Plot D - no special grave. Inasmuch as these women have a specific grave site identified, is there any movement to place a headstone there so they won't be entirely forgotten? If so, I would like to contribute.
bob taylorJuly 23, 2025
You share a lot of stories - i enjoy almost all of them. to use a much overused word - this is one of the sweetest stories i have read in a long long time. Thank you for posting this story.
AnnaJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for finding and beautifully sharing these tender stories. My family has similar stories that I have found and recorded on Family Search. This is part of the work of salvation--to remember each with love and gratitude.
Susan HansenJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for bringing to light these true stories of courageous and righteous women who will surely be rewarded by their Heavenly Father for being willing to bring to earth so many children and take them to Zion.
SonyaJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for sharing these stories of remarkable pioneers. Very touching and uplifting.
Br & Sister LaneJuly 23, 2025
Our hearts are full of love and prayers for the dear families.
Lexie StatonJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for sharing these women's stories. So inspirational. In a day and age of disbelief, their lives are testaments to the truth of the gospel.
Glenda PeckhamJuly 23, 2025
This is so beautiful! These people were truly wonderful pioneers. Each suffered so much to be with the Saints in the West. The part that touched me most was the loss they suffered of so many children. That had to be the hardest loss of all. Thank you for putting names to these anonymous members of the church.
Richard ScottJuly 23, 2025
Thank you so much for your efforts to research these blessed individuals and sharing their stories so that we might also know them. They put our generation to shame. May we be motivated to deepen our faith in the Savior because we know about them... thank you!
Rodney RossJuly 22, 2025
I know the end of life may not be pleasant, but I look forward to taking that step to the great adventure that is in the next stage of life. I will see so many I have longed to see for so many years. It is all according to the plan.
Michael ScrimsherJuly 22, 2025
A great gospel principle taught in that short story.
Alvin H. AndrewJuly 22, 2025
The Joseph Smith Translation, Red-Letter Editions referred to in this article can be obtained through the website https://jstrle.com/.
Joyce MitchellJuly 22, 2025
I too care deeply about the subject of dying. The life of Hezekiah has been a lesson to me. He plead with the Lord for an extension on His life only to disobey God immediately after it was granted. So I have desired to resolve all issues that would cause me to scrape and scrounge to stay alive, so I will have the peace which surpasses all understanding when death when it comes.
That is one reason I run the free charity: UtahFunerals dot org. It's purpose is not only to invite people to acknowledge their own mortality, through expressing their funeral wishes and body disposition instructions in writing, but the site is also a tool for people in immediate need to price compare at a glance or to find out what they are, and are not, obligated to buy when their loved one passes.
Stuart SpendloveJuly 21, 2025
Brad isn't the only executive producer of The Chosen. Derral Eves: Serving as an executive producer, is also LDS, Eves played a crucial role in the crowdfunding campaign that financed the first season of "The Chosen." His expertise in viral marketing helped the series become the highest-funded crowdfunding TV or film project ever made. Eves has been a strong advocate for the show's vision and has worked closely with Jenkins throughout the production process.
Sean BrothersonJuly 21, 2025
Thank you, Elizabeth, for your interest! I will encourage sharing of ideas from those with experience and ideas to share!
ElizabethJuly 21, 2025
I very much enjoyed your analogy of Nephi's interest in Family History. So looking forward to this new column! I have been doing Family History since 1967 and have been a FH Consultant for about 40 years. Always looking for fresh new ideas to share.
Rochelle HaleJuly 21, 2025
My mother and 3 or 4 friends have passed within the last year or so. I did not mourn my mother's ending journey as her last weeks on earth were extremely difficult, and we needed a miracle or a peaceful transition. We actually received both. More shocking was the sudden passing of a friend who had just been to the doctor with no serious ailments. We mustn't become cavalier or complacent about this inevitable part of our life's journey. Nevertheless, God has given us prayer, faith, and medicinal marvels to be used prudently. It is often difficult to show compassion to those in mourning without using trite phrases. Nevertheless, I believe most of us mean well. We are all up against the clock. Some see this as terrible, while others are excited about what lies ahead.
SusanJuly 21, 2025
I really love the Chosen. It has made the world of the Bible and the apostles and Jesus Christ so much more real to me, and has greatly added depth to my own studies.
BruceJuly 20, 2025
I missed seeing the sun rise until two hours after daylight and an hour before sunset when I moved to the mountains. Both are beautiful in their own way. I trust the Lord will do what is best regardless of what I want.
Laura EvansJuly 19, 2025
Thanks so much, Mark. I enjoyed reading this so much and since I am a journal writer, I probablly write more then anyone wants to read. Somewhere in all that writing I'm sure there are some spiritual experiences. I even had some that the Spirit whispered to me before I joined the church, that made me wonder what was that about. Once the missionaries came to teach us, I could understand what the Spirit wanted me to know. So happy I listened. I'm not perfect yet, but I'm working on it. Maybe I need to go back and read my own journals and highlight some experiences that I had and forgot and put them in a different book.
KathleenJuly 19, 2025
Oh yeah - too true!
PattyJuly 19, 2025
It's special to me that he can be a Latter-day Saint and totally into The Chosen, and that I can be a lover/devotee of Jesus, a non-Evangelical who doesn't identify as "Christian", and get so much deep stuff from watching The Chosen.
Linda BadurekJuly 18, 2025
Thank you, Mark! I’d not read this before so thank you for sending it to me. Like you, journaling has not been my forte! I have had many spiritual experiences and you’ve hit a nerve that needed prodding. I will begin to write them down for my children and grands to read!
Sarah HinzeJuly 18, 2025
The Chosen is a miraculous gift to the world to prepare us for the Second Coming of Jesus Christ. It has certainly brought me closer to Jesus and given me greater clarity and insight into his teachings.
Benita MairsJuly 18, 2025
I appreciate this perspective of the giving tree. While I feel the original message was comparing the Tree to Jesus Christ (and his total sacrifice for God's children), I appreciate that to truly serve God, we must fill our own cup up first and then give from the overflow. Funny you mention a hymn in this article, because the one that's constantly playing in MY head is "Because I Have Been Given Much", I too must give. I am truly grateful for all that I've been given (and worked hard to achieve), and I also know how it feels to be in need. One day my bank account will match the generosity of my heart! Until then, I appreciate the insight here especially in regard to my adult children. Very well written! Thank you!
ScottJuly 18, 2025
This is by far my favorite show. Having that connection of it filming in Utah at the Church’s set and now knowing of Brad's involvement makes it that much sweeter. Thank you for this article.
Alec AndrusJuly 18, 2025
My wife and I have watched The Chosen from the very beginning. We have often discussed the way each episode is portrayed. We are grateful that the show(s) challenge us to accept our Savior in a deeply real manner and to think about the wonder of it all with a new and immediate perspective. I am so grateful for the Chosen.
CaraJuly 18, 2025
Yes, thank you. You express so articulately the problems I have always had with this story. I never understood why people loved it.
Dale CottrellJuly 18, 2025
Excellent article. I have worked as a background actor for 5 seasons now and in the industry for 30. It has been a pleasure to work with The Chosen. There is definitely a good spirit on set.
AprilJuly 18, 2025
I have to speak on this scripture this Sunday! Your writing has inspired me!
Howard CollettJuly 18, 2025
Brad and Dallas have performed miracles to spread Christianity in the 21st Century. It's instructive to the rest of us that they approach their work with the intention of pleasing God, not man.
JoAnne WrightJuly 18, 2025
Great advice. Having lived as am active LDS woman married to a non-LDS man I found that it was like living in two worlds but I chose to act as the catalyst bringing the two worlds together by reaching out and creating chances to find the common threads between the two groups of people. I reframed “sitting alone at church” to the idea that I got to sit by lots of different people and found some treasured friends along the way. The trick really is to look for the commonality. Don’t worry if the ward is worried about you, they are because they love you. Accept their concern-whether well placed or not-as others reaching out from where they are on their path. They may not be able to understand because their life is so different but again, we have more in common than not.
Looking around I could always find someone who I could bless and in turn be blessed- if I got out of my own head. Not always easy to do, but well worth it. I also liked sitting alone so I could focus on worshipping during church. No it isn’t always easy and there was pain at times but I also learned to talk to God about it and there was help offered as I worked through situations to find new perspectives. Each person’s life is its own journey, I hope that whomever is struggling with this now will look for other ways to view life and to fill life with gratitude for all the blessings we receive each day just by breathing! And most importantly that they realize they are not alone. Throughout the history of the church their were couples and families just like ours.
Matthew HawsJuly 18, 2025
There is no doubt in my mind that the hand of the Lord is on those who are making this series possible, from the top to the bottom. Blessings on them all.
DC LunaJuly 18, 2025
I have known Brad Pelo for many years. He is a very good man, father and example. I wish continued success to him on this project. I love the show.
Stephen SaccoJuly 18, 2025
I love The Chosen. About 10 years ago I stumbled across a three and and half hour video on YouTube entitled “The Best ever Movie on The Life of Jesus Christ”. A non member of the Church had found the Bible Stories video vignettes and put all of the ones about the life of Christ in chronological order, free for anyone to watch. I loved the end result. However, I had often made the comment in a positive way, that the dialogue was straight out of the KJV Bible. It is only when I saw the second episode of season one of the The Chosen that it dawned on me that Jesus would have said and done many things and interacted with family and friends in a natural human way.
The Chosen brought the humanity of the Saviour to life without diminishing in the least His identity as the Messiah and only Begotten of the Father. I am certain that Dallas Jenkins and his team are the people spoken about in prophecy by President. Spencer W. Kimball when he spoke about someone who would produce a cinematic bio pic about the Saviour that would touch the hearts and spirits of many of God’s children.
DorisJuly 17, 2025
Wonderful analogy to help our children. And I like the analogy with the Savior. Thank you so much!
Karen BennerJuly 17, 2025
Wow Mark! I loved this article! You have a very heartfelt way with words. Thanks for sharing!
Layne MillerJuly 17, 2025
As usual a wonderful article with much food for thought.
Thanks Mark!
Jan KuesterJuly 17, 2025
Thank you and bless you! Mark, for the past 34 years since I was baptized at age 34 I have struggled to "keep a journal", yet I have been blessed with innumerable spiritual experiences. Because of your words, I, too, am going to begin writing down my "Spiritual Odyssey" and not feel so encumbered by the fearful specter of what I interpreted as journal to be-a publisher ready biography.
AndyJuly 17, 2025
That is a good story Maureen, in that they cheerfully cleaned up but why were they so adamant about your tour not even coming in the building? Not very Christian behavior. What's so special about the building that an innocent, eager, group couldn't respectfully see inside? It's not a temple.
Rochelle HaleJuly 17, 2025
I can count at least half a dozen times when I have had true spiritual experiences. One very prominent moment came during an opening song in Relief Society, and I am taken back to that moment each time I hear that hymn. Several came when I was a young child, long before I joined the Church. I vividly remember the circumstances, though I didn't have the terminology to apply to my experiences until after I heard the gospel. Another was just a little over a year ago, before my mother passed away. Just a few days into her illness, it was very apparent that several things needed to be addressed in addition to her medical care. We did not have the answers, but we moved forward one day at a time. One afternoon, I received a phone call that seemed to come from Heaven and open a path to help us with many of our concerns for our mother's welfare. I do not doubt our sacred spiritual experiences.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 17, 2025
Music and the Spoken Word was such an important part of my mission in the Family History Center in 2001. I would attend every week and could always count on being lifted up and energized by the music and message. I never failed to meet like-mined people from all over the world as we waited for the program to start. I had some amazing experiences with other visitors and had incredible connections every week as I attended.
Scott HoskinsJuly 17, 2025
Thank you for the thougtful commentary on The Giving Tree. For years, I have pointed out the (I thought) rather obvious downsides to this story, only to be told that I didn´t truly understand it. It´s read to children as an example of what they should do. And it´s not a great example.
Paul BishopJuly 17, 2025
Thx, Mark... An excellent, heartfelt essay...
LoraJuly 17, 2025
Messy rooms are a first-world problem brought on by too many possessions. We give gifts to children thinking that it will make them happy (and they do, for a while), but then they just add to the pile. When I was exploring Minimalism right before the Covid shutdown, I was struck by the thought that we admire people who are happy even when they have so little--what if they are happy BECAUSE they have so little? They don't have to spend so much of their lives putting away, organizing, and dealing with STUFF. Embracing minimalism came just in time for me, because Covid ended our business and forced our retirement (good thing we were at retirement age already), but we were ready to live on less income. Buying less saves a lot of money. As for our grandchildren, our financial advisor helped us open accounts for each of them, and instead of gifts, we put the money in there. As they graduate high school, we have been able to give them that money to start them off in life.
Traci WalkerJuly 16, 2025
No surprise here at the Walker house, but still in awe of your many magnified gifts as we get yet another glimpse into the workings of the restored Church of Jesus Christ.
Barry HansenJuly 16, 2025
That makes sense and helps me understand the reasons for the Book of Mormon’s language structure. Thank you not only for this information but also for your personal testimony, which is the most important witness of the book’s veracity.
TreyeshuaJuly 16, 2025
AND is the most common, and sacred word in all scripture.
It is a word that joins without division and contention.
Contention comes from OR thinking. AND is celestial thinking.
Each of our lived experiences is our truth. And, there is only one Truth, Jesus Christ.
LoriJuly 16, 2025
Thank you for this insight into language and translation, and for your powerful and heartfelt testimony of our Savior Jesus Christ and of the Book of Mormon. I note as I write this that the auto correct wants to cut out a few of the “ands” I used. I wasn’t meaning to use so many, but it felt right. This highlights another of the things that reading the Book of Mormon will do to readers- their language and how they put it together often changes.
MauriceJuly 16, 2025
A great article! So many times in our lives have our children innocently remarked on matters of eternal significance which we came to appreciate only much later. The Savior does love and speak to them.
Carol BlackJuly 16, 2025
Thank you!! Another testament of the truth of this sacred scripture! I will no longer skip the word 'and' in my personal readings now that I know that "Joseph Smith preserved that structure to honour the sacred original."
TJJuly 16, 2025
As an English reader of the Book of Mormon, I have often wondered why "and" was cluttering up verses, yet instinctively knew there was a purpose. Jamil, thank you for bringing this understanding of "and" to light. Also, I must add my testimony of the Book of Mormon to yours. "The Book of Mormon is truly another testament of Jesus Christ. I love it. I believe it. I know it is true, both through the Spirit and by the evidence found within its sacred pages."
JoanJuly 15, 2025
Wonderful to get the inside story about the Spoken Word.
You certainly were the right one for the job. I have enjoyed many articles that you have written.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 15, 2025
I greatly appreciate this article, while raising eleven intelligent and headstrong children I found patience and calmness were so essential for them and for me. Sometimes I had to remove myself from the conflict and get above the fray, literally by resorting to a spot where I could view our home from a rock on a nearby canyon wall, the rocks were covered with petroglyphs, put there I surmised by other long ago mothers who were also hoping for wisdom and love. Higher up, the view and the and their calls to each other of "Where's Mom" and "Has anyone seen Mom?" put every thing in perspective and I would gather my wits together, pray for patience and courage and return into the fray.
Wendy RojasJuly 15, 2025
Love this, especially the imagery that the crooked in me will be made straight--not by a sudden cataclysm, but by my turning over my heart to God.
PatJuly 14, 2025
Love your story! ❤️ Fascinating how it all happened. Thanks for sharing.
MaryannJuly 14, 2025
The series: "John Adams" was absolutely wonderful. I felt like a fly on the wall watching Adams, Washington, Jefferson, Franklin, and others lay the foundation of freedom for this great nation. Abigail Adams was John Adams' most valiant and capable counselor. He respected her opinion and leaned heavily upon her. When John served with Franklin as ambassador to France, John and Abigail were separated for years. She took care of the children and ran their farm. I encourage everyone who wants to learn more about these men, that our Heavenly Father raised up, to watch this series. It is very uplifting and instructional.
Valerie RossJuly 14, 2025
Maurine, I did not know that you wrote for "The Spoken Word" but it makes so much sense. You are a talented writer and speaker that has blessed so many of us over the years.
The times we met at the high school with your children, I knew your talent ran very deep. I love Meridian Magazine by the way!
Dell BishopJuly 14, 2025
Terrific article, Maureen...thanks so much for this beautiful, personal story.
Laurel Lee PedersenJuly 14, 2025
Thanks, Maureen, for sharing this. I have loved following you through the years since I taught your beautiful daughter. I appreciated your mom, as she served the Jordan School District, too. What a wonderful legacy you and your family have given the church and the world.
ChristinaJuly 14, 2025
So beautiful! I know that door in the mind where gems are kept. It’s amazing what revelation we can receive when our creativity is focused on the Savior.
Paul BishopJuly 14, 2025
Fantastic article. What a great opportunity and you certainly rose to the occasion. Thx for sharing...
Val JonesJuly 14, 2025
Wow, I didn't know that "The Spoken Word" has had ghost writers, but it makes sense. And it also makes sense that you were one of them. Your writing has blessed so many people in so many ways! Thank you.
Carol JolleyJuly 13, 2025
Thank you for this amazing story. I’m so grateful for their service and miracle. I’m from South Utah and want to learn more about this.
Anna-Sophia McLaughlinJuly 12, 2025
Unfortunately, the recent crackdowns are likely a response to international politics. The Church, though world wide, is for obvious reasons seen as a predominantly American organization.
Joni HiltonJuly 12, 2025
Fantastic article, as usual. This will be great for my Seminary class!
SamJuly 11, 2025
Another great article. Thanks for sharing!
Corey D.July 11, 2025
As one who most of his life has been able to look up at Ben Lomond peak everyday I fully understand the sentiment but it's obvious from scripture that there will be changes to the earth some day but I think also our views and the things that will impress us or get our attention will also be different.
Mary Jean HoltJuly 11, 2025
I loved watching this video, and felt the confirmation of the Holy Ghost that this story was indeed true, and that it was the work of Heavenly Father and faith of these men that made the impossible happen. It brought tears to my eyes! Indeed there were more soldiers that were with them than there were against them!
LewisJuly 11, 2025
Extraordinary stories, and powerful reminders about the source of real truth. It is funny how at times we tend to put our faith in the (very fallible) arm of flesh, in spite of constant warnings to seek truth from above.
Thank you. You have a gift. Please keep writing.
Jeff LindsayJuly 11, 2025
One reader asked why I didn't discuss the "obvious" theory that the crack down in China was retaliation against the U.S. A fair question, but to me, that's not obvious at all. The new restrictions seem to be directed primarily at local members rather than American expatriates, and are not being implemented uniformly across China, at least not at this time.
If the goal were to slap America, I'd expect a nationwide policy to be implemented that did something besides inconveniencing Chinese members of a tiny church that most American politicians don't really care about.
Dave CookJuly 11, 2025
The sad part of these decisions is that there are 3 justices on the Supreme court who either cannot think clearly or are committed to putting their misguided ideology above constitutional principles in spite of their oaths to uphold the constitution.
Dave CookJuly 11, 2025
A quick and useful rejoinder to the claim that there is no truth is to ask the claimant "is that true?"
Credit Greg Koukl
Nadine EdgeworthJuly 11, 2025
We served our senior couple mission in Lyon France Mission and our mission covered Geneva, Switzerland were we served and throughout all Switzerland. We had a lot of missionaries that served there with no problems or restrictions.
S JohnsenJuly 11, 2025
Very well expressed and absolutely correct.
As an aside,there is also compelling empirical evidence of the truthfulness of the.Book of Mormon.
SFJ. PhD psycholigist
DumaJuly 11, 2025
One of my first wake-up calls about the internet was when I searched for "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" and I saw the negative opinions about it. That was decades ago and the detraction has only grown more widespread. The principles contained within it are wonderful, elevating, relevant, and true. Quantity does not equal quality. In addition, so much untruth about it is backed by explanations carefully crafted of legitimate scientific information. It's amazing how many truths can be spun together to construct a lie.
Rita MillerJuly 11, 2025
I would not rely on ChatGPT for medical advice. There are many substantial studies out now that show the Covid shots have caused increases in myocarditis, cancers, and brain disorders, among other serious diseases, around the world. The number of total excess deaths attributable to the mRNA SARS-COV2 injections is in the millions and climbing. This is not a "conspiracy theory", but a scientific fact. The shots should have been targeted to the most vulnerable populations: the elderly and those with several co-morbidities. Instead, they were pushed out to the entire world population. Taking medicine you don't need can be worse than not taking what you do need. Ask any doctor.
CynthiaJuly 11, 2025
I absolutely love your testimony of the power of truth! We know the Savior is filled with grace and truth. Thank you for sharing these vivid examples of truth and untruth and the deadly consequences, whether spiritual or physical, that come when we cannot identify what is true. Bless you for your clarity and courage!
Roberta HarrisJuly 11, 2025
Thank you Becky for more of your writing that really makes us stand back and think! The stories about snakes and false beliefs being perpetuated by those who should know better....many being carefully deceived by the evil one...and have his cunning design to have us believe that now what was bad is good and good is now bad. Such an important reminder to cling to the TRUTH that we know we in the gospel have. You have shown this so creatively in this excellent article.
Thank you!
MichaelJuly 11, 2025
Not just limited to Asian nations, keeping a low profile is appropriate in any country where local laws limit free speech and actions. For many years I lived in a Middle Eastern country where teaching the gospel was not possible. In such circumstances "keep a low profile" can be essential to continued presence and over-zealousness can affect personal Church membership status. Be prudent.
Erika PechacekJuly 10, 2025
A big THANK YOU to all these brave men and the Faith they exhibited. I wish more of our young people were like that. We all need to pray for our government that they will learn RIGHT FROM WRONG and make proper decisions. Reform is needed in the schools so that people will learn to honor Heavenly Father and His son Jesus Christ.
May the Lord watch over this country and guide the people is my prayer.
Harvey HiggsJuly 10, 2025
My wife and I recently returned from a Senior mission. On occasion we worked with the service missionaries. They performed a valuable service to the community and to themselves. Their spiritual growth became evident during 'homecoming' talk in sacrament meeting. A service mission can be a wonderful thing.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
Our city in Washington State was covered with dense ash when a volcano erupted. Many of your tips would also be helpful in that circumstance.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
This article made me think of the example of the prophet, Lehi. He rejoiced that he had obtained a land of promise while he was still yet in the desert. He rejoiced in the promises of the Lord, even while wading through continuous affliction. When we continue to count our blessings and show gratitude to the Lord, it will be much easier to stay "in the green."
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
I think we are going to be surprised when we reach our heavenly home and are shown all of the times the Lord interceded in our behalf. He knows when to call us home, and also when we need to remain. Miracles happen every day, and we can trust the Lord to comfort and strengthen us when a miracle we pray for does not occur.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
I hear so many comments about people who have left the gospel, and it makes me happy to read here a truer picture of the health and growth of the church. We sorrow when our friends choose another path, but we should never get caught in the false belief that the church is dwindling. It is not! The church is alive and well, and will continue to grow. We can all be a part of that growth as we share the blessings and knowledge we have with others.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
Reading your story makes me smile. I am so happy you and your wife, Cathy, found one another! Blessings to you both! Thank you for sharing your experience because I believe it will give many who are discouraged a big dose of hope.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
Love this! The account of the creation in the temple makes it clear that the Lord loves variety; He created hills, mountains, etc. in the very beginning! A completely flat world is definitely not in our future. Yayyy!
HelenCJuly 10, 2025
Thank you for this. Elizabeth Woning has shine a new light on my understanding of the Sacred Power of weakness in our lives.
CarolJuly 9, 2025
It sure was a tender mercy or outright miracle that things happened the way they did and everyone is fine! And the the perpetrator could be caught and held responsible.
Sally SmithJuly 9, 2025
Thank you for this video.
It brought tears to my eyes because miracles are real and a promise was realized.
Terry Bohle MontagueJuly 9, 2025
Love this!
Rochelle HaleJuly 9, 2025
Thank you. I totally agree. I have often pondered the state of non-believers (of any faith), many good people, yet the prevailing idea is "eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die." Why? What purpose would that serve? Why are we even here? Most of us will not go down in the history books, and if so, we might still be minor figures in the pages. I find great purpose in each day of mortality because I know there is an eternal life to come, and a Savior who has paved the way for us.
KrisJuly 9, 2025
I was trying to identify the difference between “pity”and “compassion” and this one chart showed it was “the ability to listen and hear.” I appreciate your encouragement for all of us to listen and hear children better- and it turns out it’s for our benefit!
TamiJuly 9, 2025
I loved this, thank you!
DumaJuly 9, 2025
I think that the example of Korihor nails it for me. He wanted to believe in atheism so badly that he believed the words of an "angel" that told him that there was no God. Thanks for sharing that!
Ronald BarnesJuly 9, 2025
It appeared that my mother was in the early stages of dementia when she was killed in a car crash. Events leading up to the crash, the way it happened, and events that happened afterwards, proved that it was not an accident. The day before, my parents had attended the temple. As they left, my mother remarked, “I have all my women’s work done; now it’s up to the men.” Her mission in life was complete, and she was called home.
Marilyn WilliamsJuly 8, 2025
What a beautiful article! Thank you! Despite many health challenges, I’m inspired to continue to put my left leg in! (I’ll never forget that fabulous analogy!)
DDJuly 8, 2025
I just made a 6000 mile trip across the states. On the last 3 days I drove across Nebraska and south Dakota. It has a beauty of its own, but the last day was going through northeast Wyoming coming across the continental dividend the back side of the Tetons. That is beautiful.
Gordon HensleyJuly 8, 2025
The beauty that is in all our landscapes comes at a price: violent vulcanism and tectonic plate subsidence driven by a fluid mantle. Meteorite impact craters, lunar gravitational tide action, glaciers, cyclones, the spinning iron core at the center of the Earth that creates the magnetic field protecting us from radiation, and even the offset tilt of the rotational axis of the Earth which provides us with seasons. Most extinction of life and premature death of the population comes from these events. Mortal life is so fragile in the face of the natural world. Our perception of beauty will change when we are raised to immortality. A crystal ball paved with gold is the only way we can describe something so beyond our ability to imagine with our primitive senses.
Abbie VianesJuly 8, 2025
I hope you are right!
Clayton RamsayJuly 7, 2025
My father, Jay L Ramsay was part of this story. He didn’t talk much about his experience but he always recognized that there was some Devine intervention with everyone getting home.
Jackie TerryJuly 7, 2025
My father, Martin B. Merrell was also in the 213th. He was shot in the shoulder and spent time in a Japanese hospital. He was a brother-in-law and good friend of Paul Grimshaw.
A. HamptonJuly 7, 2025
This was a timely article for me. It came out while I was on a cross-country road trip with my family, and one of the goals was to meet with my brother-in-law to get permission to do the work for his deceased wife. Unfortunately, the phone number we had for him seemed to no longer work.
My husband's family was complex, since his mother remarried several times. My husband ended up being raised alone by his abusive, schizophrenic father. He joined the church, and together we discussed how best to reconstitute this fractured family, then did the work for his parents and half-brother. But for years he resisted doing the sealing for his parents, along with his own (and his brother's) sealing to them. He struggled to forgive.
When my husband passed away last year, one of my first thoughts was that he went to heal his family on the other side, and that I needed to complete this work as soon as possible. I realized it was time to do my husband's sister, who had passed away just three years ago from COVID. Then I could seal all three deceased siblings to these parents. But I found that with my husband's death, we could not continue with his family's work because we no longer had him as a sibling to consent. Now we had to get permission from a close relative.
God blessed our mission and we were able to locate my children's uncle, have a heart-to-heart talk with him about the changes in our lives, and receive his acceptance to do the ordinances for his late wife. I appreciated this article and its comments because it helped me to know of others' experiences dealing with reluctance to do ordinances for abusive family members. I am further understanding our Father's love and His ability to get things done: healing, reconciliation, and ordinances, whether on this or the other side of the veil. Truly, His perspective and purposes are wider than our own.
Gwen KrumpermanJuly 7, 2025
My father, Paul R. Grimshaw was part of the 213th Field Artillery unit and the story is dear to our family. I recently visited the monument in Cedar City to honor their courage and valiant spirit. Thank you for sharing this with us.
JocelynJuly 7, 2025
I cried, realizing that this was amazing for them, but also possible for all of us as life continues, spiraling into evil in these last days. Our faith in Christ is so powerful through his love for us.
Jary WelkerJuly 7, 2025
What a great story of modern day miracles not at all unlike we read about in the scriptures. Not only can we read them in the Book of Mormon and the Stripling Warriors but also the Old Testament and Elisha the Prophet when he told his young servant what we need to always remember, "Fear not: for they that be with us are more than they that be with them."
Mari oJuly 6, 2025
Finally, articles that speak the gospel language.
Diane Frischknecht Merten in Corvallis, OregonJuly 6, 2025
I am in my 82nd year and have just shared this picture and the article about the man of God that was George Washington with several of my visiting from ages 9 to 16 grandchildren. They also loved it. The words spoken were "Awesome! " "Oh, My now we know why he was so wonderful !" "Yes, he was a great President!" "Heavenly Father really blessed him.!"
Thank you for having this available!!!!
Steve HadlockJuly 6, 2025
This is an excellent article. Very well researched and written. A fascinating summary of true patriots of this nation and dispensation.
Corey D.July 6, 2025
Wonderful article ! Interesting it started out with John Adams and Thomas Jefferson, one time friends and allies who had kind of a falling out but in the later years of their lives restored that friendship and respect. That kind of leadership is sorely lacking in today's political environment, certainly the humility manifested by many of our founding fathers can't be found in our leaders today.
Deborist Benjamin BurkeJuly 6, 2025
Brilliantly written, and well needed article! When teaching primary through out the years, I nearly disassociated when we sang the words: “we are a happy family”! Healing is long and laborious, it comes and goes like an emotional herpes, and at times just as noticeable ! I’m at a point where I’m having a ‘breakout’ and the sores are causing me to want to heal once and for all…do the work, get it over with , let the chips fall where they fall, this article has helped immensely , thank you Paul, and God bless all of us comrades in arms of abusive families ! Deborist
Corey D.July 6, 2025
I have had this painting on my living room wall for many years. About 5-6 yrs ago I came across one that has President Lincoln kneeling in prayer in some trees with a battleground in the distant view, it now hangs on the wall in our computer room, such a distinct contrast to our leaders of today who I doubt ever think to pray.
JJuly 5, 2025
Just want the makers of this movie to know all the production was worth it. Saw a part of it long ago and here I am in 2025 seeing the full movie. It's a really great and lovely one!
Jeff BellJuly 4, 2025
Hey Blaine,
The article is a needed reminder of the importance of sharing why we celebrate the 4th July. Remember, remember.
On my mom's side of the family, Wood, had the propensity to go gray at a young age. That family traits continues in siblings and myself; I started going gray while I was a 9th grade student. I do not see Washington being painted wrong, by this artistic author.
Under formal settings, President Washington wore a powered white wig, as did many of his contemporaries.
Maybe, during the 18th Centruy a 40 year-old men was considered old.
kathleenJuly 3, 2025
Thank you for the wonderful tribute to that great man.
Boanerges RubalcavaJuly 3, 2025
If you love me, keep my commandments. One of the important one is thou shall NOT commit adultery, therefore, having sexual relations out of marriage, is not accepted by the Lord either by married or not married people. And the greatest commandment is to love the Lord and to love our fellowman. So, it is very simple, on one hand we should love one another and for sure we should not judge others, and if you are married it should be the way the Lord commanded us (one man with one woman). If you have been unable to have a companion, pray to the Lord and He would help you. If you have the "orientation" to same sex" (homosexual) or the opposite sex (heterosexual) it is the same: FOLLOW THE LORD AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS. That's all.
ChrisJuly 3, 2025
Love and truth are so important and critical. Thank you for this outstanding article. When integrity and compassion fail in any institution or church, it has lost its way. Moroni knew this when he wrote:
Mormon 8: 36 And I know that ye do walk in the pride of your hearts; and there are none save a few only who do not lift themselves up in the pride of their hearts, unto the wearing of very fine apparel, unto envying, and strifes, and malice, and persecutions, and all manner of iniquities; and your churches, yea, even every one, have become polluted because of the pride of your hearts.
37 For behold, ye do love money, and your substance, and your fine apparel, and the adorning of your churches, more than ye love the poor and the needy, the sick and the afflicted.
Blaine NayJuly 3, 2025
Why does every image of Gorge Washington praying at Valley Forge portray him as an old man? He was in his mid 40s!
KathleenJuly 3, 2025
Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Always enjoy your stories and humor.
ColinJuly 2, 2025
We all hope your recovery is fast and complete!
RozyJuly 2, 2025
These essays are wonderful. I have never understood how SSA is any different from opposite sex attraction for the many women in the church who want to marry and never have the opportunity. These valiant women struggle with keeping the Law of Chastity, and making those horizontal connections too. Feelings of attraction are powerful, but can and must be controlled by everyone. Married men, married women, single men, and single women, and teens of every persuasion must obey the Law of Chastity if we want the blessings of eternity.
I wish we could talk more openly about temptation and sin in our adult quorums and RS. Perhaps if we were more open about it we wouldn't feel so alone and "different".
Paul BishopJuly 2, 2025
Thank you to everyone who has read and commented on this article. When I wrote it I was struggling not just with the subject matter discussed but also with a sense of spiritual isolation. Logically I knew I couldn't be the only individual facing this situation, but because it is rarely discussed openly, it sometimes felt that way. Your heartfelt, at times heart-wrenching, comments have strengthened my testimony and given my family history efforts a new sense of purpose...
Karen BrimhallJuly 2, 2025
Such a sweet story. Sometimes our firemen a placed in crazy circumstances that later they may feel amused by. Saving the bacon. Thanks.
Darla GallewJuly 2, 2025
My eyes have been opened to why I need to start reading the footnotes. Thank you!
Richard GardnerJuly 1, 2025
Well said. A condensed version of this would make a good General Conference talk. Once people understand the doctrine and even the biology of eternal reproduction, it all makes logical sense and they will be less likely to oppose the Church's stands on the issue.
Ronald BarnesJuly 1, 2025
My second daughter’s first marriage lasted 4 years and her second has lasted 7 years so far.
My first daughter’s first marriage lasted 8 years and her second has lasted 13 years so far.
My brother’s first two marriages lasted only a few years each, but his third has lasted 49 years so far.
My wife’s mother’s first marriage lasted less than 2 years, but her second lasted 22 years until she died.
I don’t know how any of them beat the odds, but I’m glad they did.
Carlin BartschiJune 30, 2025
In the mid-1980s we visited Carthage jail with our family and carefully looked around at--and felt the spirit of--that sacred place and relics, including the long-dried blood of Joseph on the floor in front of the window. Not long after the turn of this century my wife and I visited there again with some friends and since it was the friends' first time we were showing them the fateful cell. We approached the window from which Joseph was shot/lept/was killed and looked at the floor. The curator/missionary there said, "If you are looking for Joseph's blood, it is no longer there. President Kimball visited here a couple of years ago and upon seeing the blood still preserved on the floor in-situ, asked that it be cleaned up and varnished over, stating, 'It's time that we let some things heal.'"
SJune 30, 2025
I needed to read this. My mother's family are not members of the Church and both of her parents are deceased. We have done work for her mother, but have been sitting on her father's ordinances for years. She wants nothing to do with it and told me I can do what I want. I have struggled because of the amount of trauma he inflicted on my grandma and mother, which in turn was passed down to me in different ways. I have felt that he doesn't deserve it because of how he was. But I have also felt a gentle nudge here and there that I need to get his work done, and for a long time I resented that feeling. I could no longer deny the prompting - I was starting to feel like Jonah - so my brother & I are going to take his name (among others) to the temple this weekend. I'm still struggling, which is how I stumbled upon this article. Just what I needed to read at just the right time. Thank you.
Judy PerryJune 30, 2025
WOW !!!Thank you for this. I weep for those who leave. As a parent of two gay children who did leave, I was blessed to keep them close and learn from them. This article has exposed other judgements, impatience, and prejudices I still have tendencies to. I will share this going forward. Bless you all who work with the Other Side Community/Program. I love you.
JuliannJune 30, 2025
I admit that I didn’t comprehend all presented but I was cheering throughout the read. Having facilitated four Emotional Resiliance groups I can attest to how difficult true vulnerability and honesty can be. It takes me weeks to recover from my own openness and each time I withdraw from ward association more. Right now I’m concerned about one sister who shared her own addiction struggle and hasn’t been to church since. Why do we feel guilty for having and revealing weaknesses when Church should be a hospital for sinners, not a museum for Saints? I get so tired of hearing about our Ward Family when I for one feel like the Ward Leper. Thank you for such an insightful article. I wish the Liahona would publish it also.
Kathy JensenJune 30, 2025
Beautifully written and such an important message for all of us.
Craig FrogleyJune 30, 2025
Brilliant and insightful, my fr
Ones! Thank you…much to think about and then do!
Ronald BarnesJune 30, 2025
At 70, I tell my children that I'm not old yet, but I am getting there.
RosieJune 30, 2025
Marvelous! I've been through trauma in my marriage that I've had to hide because those things just aren't talked about at church. This powerful essay gives me hope that someday we can have the kind of wards and branches where we talk about our brokenness and help each other become whole, without condemnation, judgement or rejection.
Charles McClellandJune 30, 2025
Thank you for this wonderfully thought provoking, action inducing, uplifting article!
D. Kirk BittonJune 30, 2025
This is an amazing article! Thanks for your candor and inspired thoughts. As I sense my own inadequacy in these areas, I find hope in knowing I’m not alone. Your article has inspired me to do and be better!
Love the necklaces and the connection to the Smith Family! Thank you for bring some to Nauvoo again this year!
Ned ScarisbrickJune 28, 2025
Do we know the context in which spirit children are born (organized) in the Celestial Kingdom?
Richard JukesJune 28, 2025
Superlative rendition and very sentimental portraits/photographs that bring back the very deep feelings of our tender visit there. Thank you so much for sharing!
MaryannJune 28, 2025
The wise phrase, "You don't have to fix her situation" is so freeing! I finally came to this same conclusion regarding a difficult situation with my own family member. We (especially parents or guardians) feel like if we just do the right thing, we can "fix" someone. We can't. We can love them and gently invite them into our lives. We can decide to let go of our frustrations when they don't respond like we want them to. This sister sounds like maybe she is trying too hard. Spending less time with her children indicates she needs to let go of trying to change her step-daughter, and enjoy her children without guilt. Her step-daughter surely feels the step-mom's tension and frustration, which adds fire to her own difficult feelings. Let go, mom! In light of her history, EXPECT her to act out. Then continue to live your own life. This is NOT easy, but will relieve some of the constant frustration.
MaryannJune 28, 2025
This wise counsel from Joni can also be applied to other areas of our lives. Don't compare yourself with others regarding your housekeeping, your appearance, your job, your home, your talents, or any other thing. The outcome of comparing ourselves with one another leads either to pride, or despair. Neither one are good options. There is another wonderful perk when we stop comparing. We can actually rejoice in the accomplishments of those around us.
Susan MorrisJune 28, 2025
Thank you for these eyewitness accounts. I read them and wept as though the martyrdom of Joseph and Hyrum were only yesterday. And thank you for the lines from Eliza R. Snow. I think I see how her poetic phrases informed the beautiful prose that John Taylor later penned in what is now Doctrine and Covenants 135. Praise to the men!
drparkinsonJune 28, 2025
The Church purchased the JST manuscript from the RLDS church. There were about 4000 changes, but about 600 included in our current scriptures. Joseph Smith Papers team is currently reviewing every word, letter, space and punctuation of the manuscript. You can purchase the Inspired Version from the RLDS (Community of Christ). It has 2 columns with King James Version on 1 side and JST on the other.
Jeff TeichertJune 28, 2025
I mostly agree with what Geoff said, with a couple of points of emphasis. (By the way, I also have a degree in family science and two stepchildren of my own.)
1. Who is running your house? I remember talking to a man several years ago who is a hospital nurse. He talked about people calling the hospital and describing symptoms their children were having and he might ask "what is his temperature?" Often the parent would respond "I tried to take his temperature but he won't let me." The nurse would ask how old the child was and when the parent said 6 years old or something, the nurse would say "I'll tell you what, you decide who's running your house and when you have the kid's temperature, call me back." We appropriately emphasize loving behavior toward our children. But that doesn't mean the inmates get to run the asylum. She doesn't get to "butt heads" with you and you have no obligation to convince her or explain to her why you are asking her to do something. She has to do it because she is the child and you are the parent. That's it.
2. Having said that, Geoff is also correct that, and a step family, the original parent should do most of the heavy lifting on discipline for a while. The step parent was not there during the 3:00 a.m. feedings and diaper changes, and patching the skinnee knees. So the step parent needs to earn some trust. When possible, the step parent needs to act more like a friend and work on building bonds. That doesn't mean you shouldn't step in when your husband is not available and take control of the house when necessary. It just means that when he is available, he's the one to step in. And make sure that he communicates with your stepdaughter what the rules are. That way, when you are the enforcer of those rules, you are just carrying out what her father has already said. My step kids have grown up with me for the last 7 years and I can do more parenting now than I could in the beginning. But that takes time and you need to be patient with it. And, as I said, that doesn't mean you have to let her go wild whenever he is not around.
3. Keep your cool. You should not discipline a child when you are mad whether it is your own biological child or a stepchild. If you have to put yourself in time out to cool down before you interact with the child, do it. Don't discipline until you are feeling peace inside. You are the adult and it is your job to model this behavior for her even if she is not peaceful. You are the adult and you have to model the right behavior. She is a child and we cut her a lot of slack because she's inexperienced and immature.
4. Stop thinking about sending her away. She your child and your responsibility. She has faced enough abandonment in her life and she doesn't need it from you. She may have even overheard you talking to your husband or others about finding a way to get rid of her because she is not really your child. Please don't do that to her. Being your biological child would not make her more yours. Accept that she is your child and never again talk about sending her away. If you believe she may have overheard that kind of comment or even gotten that vibe from you, you owe her an apology and you should give her one.
I know step family situations can be stressful at times. I also know that they can be richly rewarding If you can give up the fantasy that you can erase your spouse's past and just be a first-time nuclear family without entanglements from other relationships. That's not what you signed up for and it's not what you have. So take your non-traditional family and make it beautiful. Stop looking for an escape.
Good luck. I'm saying a little prayer right now that you can find a way to make this better.
Beth E.June 27, 2025
Neither the letter nor the answer mention professional counseling. If there was abuse, the child probably needs more help than the parents know how to give.
David CookJune 27, 2025
It's more conventional to put corrections after, not before strike-through text that's been changed. For those of us familiar with the standard convention it's a little jarring to read it the other way around. Also I agree that a different color for Joseph's changes would have been better to avoid confusion with the standard red-letter editions.
A link to a listing site would be helpful.
AudreyJune 27, 2025
Go to Amazon and search
The Joseph Smith Translation, Red-Letter Edition, Old Testament Hardcover – April 1, 2025
by Alvin H Andrew (Author), Shane A Andrew (Contributor)
https://www.amazon.com/Joseph-Smith-Translation-Red-Letter-Testament/dp/B0F1WZW6CP
Karen BrimhallJune 27, 2025
Such a powerful message by Pres. Oaks. More men and women need to watch and pay attention to the heart of this message. We would have happier couples and stronger families. Thank you for the reminders this talk gave.
Linda K. SpoonerJune 27, 2025
Yes, where would I find the book with all of the JST changes? I eagerly await your answer so I can have this book. Thank you for your time, this article was great to read. Thank you again. Linda
LisaJune 27, 2025
I'm an adoptive mother, and these sorts of struggles, especially with teenagers, are common to most of the adoptive families I know. My own journey through parenting a teenage adopted daughter has pushed me to the limits of what I thought I could endure, and my case is a cakewalk compared to things I've seen in some other adoptive. The counsel given is good, but in my opinion it doesn't go far enough. I think this family needs more than just counsel; they need professional therapeutic support. I would imagine the stepdaughter really needs therapy to deal with the trauma she has experienced both from early abuse and from the loss of her biological family. One of the best things we ever did was to find a therapist for our daughter who specialized in working with adopted children. One of the things that therapist told me is that the adoptive mother is the lightning rod for all of the child's grief and anger about the loss of their birth mother. I could easily see this being the situation in the family described in this letter. Stepmom has replaced the original mom, so she's going to get the brunt of all the daughter's emotions about the situation, and in our case it's a lot more than just butting heads--mom is targeted for verbal abuse that dad never experiences. It is absolutely brutal.
Our daughter's therapist was a lifeline for me in terms of helping me understand the dynamics that were happening. She helped me understand why my daughter was acting the way she was, what to do about it, and most of all, I came away from every session feeling increased love toward my child rather than increased anger. If the child in this case won't participate in therapy, I would recommend that the stepmother (and dad if possible) find a therapist for herself, preferably one that specializes in the attachment issues related to adoption.
KayJune 26, 2025
How I can relate to your situation! My husband and I adopted three older children who had extreme behavioral and emotional issues. I often felt like you are feeling—full of frustration, anger, and helplessness. In looking back, I wish I had overlooked more and loved and laughed more. A book I have found since then, that I wish I had had then, is Good Inside by Dr Becky Kennedy.
Rosie BrinsekJune 26, 2025
Thank you for this article. I find myself getting blocked by resentment if I spend too much time with the papers I inherited from my narcissistic mother & grandmother. Yes, I know they suffered too, blah blah blah, but I've heard about it all my life. Reading through my grandmother's autobiographies becomes exhausting. And as Dr. Ramani Dursavala points out, suffering as a child is not a license to treat other people like crap.
I have dome the temple work for my parents & grandparents but I'm not sealed to them yet. Someday.
CarolynJune 26, 2025
Thank you!!
I needed that reminder today and everyday…and my children are grown adults…
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
I am sorry if my selection of textual colors offended anyone. It was certainly not my intent. Forgive my lack of thoughfulness. The intent of this book was to highlight the JST alterations. Red-Letter bibles are still available that highlight the Savior's words.
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
The Old Testament version only comes in hardback because of its length. Paperback is not available from IngramSpark due to the number of pages. There is not a digital version of the Old Testament available.
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
https://jstrle.com/ will take you directly to the purchase site for all variations of both the New Testament and the Old Testament. Selecting an option below the respective cover picture will direct you to IngramSpark's securing purchasing site (except for the digital version of the New Testament).
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
If you select either of the covers in this article it will take you to my website. From there you can select the version of the books you wish to obtain. There is a digital version of the New Testament. My website gives you 3 options to obtain the digital version. The books are sold through Ingram a worldwide distributor to book stores, libraries, and resellers. However the hard copies will be less expensive through my website: jstrle.com.
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
Copies of the JST manuscripts have been fully available for a number of years on the Joseph Smith Papers website of the LDS Church. In March 2024, the LDS Church purchased numerous properties and items from the Community of Christ (formerly the Reogranized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints). Among those items were the orignial manuscripts of the JST. It was from those manuscripts on the LDS website that these books were created. All the changes are in these books, including most of the punctuation (barring any errors that I may have made). About 1/3 of the JST alterations were included in the LDS version of the scriptures. The selections therein were indeed painful, but necessaey due to space limitations in order to produce an LDS quad edition particularly. In fact had it not been for a miraculous creation of an extremely thin paper used in the LDS bible reditions just prior to going to print, a quad or perhaps a lot more JST entries would not have been able to be included. But that is another story.
Robert GatesJune 26, 2025
This looks really interesting. A question is in order. It is well known that not all the JST changes were put into our current Scriptures, i.e. some left out. Multiple people have described that, and said it was painful choices.
FLDS Church supposedly has the original JST manuscript. Many LDS Scholars, said based on their person inspection\comparison of the JST manuscript that the book called "Joseph Smiths "New Translation" of the Bible", printed in 1970 by Herald Publishing in Independence MO is correct and has all JST.
Do these red line versions have "all" the JST or do they use the ones that are in our Scriptures which supposedly isn't everything?
Susan KnightJune 26, 2025
Where do we find/buy these red-letter books?
Rob McGhieJune 26, 2025
Is there a digital version?
Cliff HolmesJune 26, 2025
Such a great article full of truth and intelligence. Thank you for reinforcing my own thoughts and feelings about this subject.
Barbara EarlJune 26, 2025
I tried to order but my phone number is required for shipping information but there is nowhere to add the phone number in the shipping section.
John EspleyJune 26, 2025
I could only find a hardback printing of the Old Testament JST red letter, but could find a paperback, hardback, and Kindle version of the New Testament. Is there going to be multiple versions of the Old Testament?
Haze K.June 26, 2025
Converts to the Church may be very familiar with the term "Red Letter Edition" of the Bible. In the traditional Christian world, only the words of our Savior, Jesus Christ, are in red. I do.
When I read the title to the article, and read further that it NOT the words of Jesus in red, but the JST clarifications, I was initially very offended. Jesus is my Savior. Joseph Smith is the Prophet of the Restoration, whom I admire and am grateful to.
I think it is great to have the JST integrated into a Bible like this. It will be very helpful. I just a different color system had been deployed, including our Lord's words in red.
I would have bought a copy today, if that had been the case.
Ben JonesJune 26, 2025
I married a divorced LDS woman with three children. A year later I legally adopted her children. A year after that, I joined the LDS Church. A year after that, my wife had her sealing to her first husband cancelled, and then we were sealed in the Temple. By that time, we had 2 of our own children. We thought we would have them sealed to us in a Temple ceremony along with our own sealing but because they were born while my wife was still sealed to her ex-husband, they were considered "born in the covenant". They along with her three children are now sealed to me by virtue of me being sealed to her.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
Thank you so much for your compassionate sensitivity regarding very painful relationships. You have lifted the guilt from many today. No one should feel compelled to do the temple work for their abusers until they are ready, or they prefer that someone else do it.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
When parents clearly correct bad behavior, without resorting to shame or unkindness, it is a sign of love. Setting boundaries and guiding our children gives them a sense of security. Children need to know that their parents can lead them to greater safety and happiness by showing them the right path. I am so grateful that I had parents who let me know when I had done something wrong, and also set a good example for me.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
The words "medical scandal" in the first paragraph of this article are very appropriate. It is absolutely shocking that our nation would allow minors to make these dramatic life changing decisions. It is one of the worst form of child abuse. Minors are not in any way competent or mature enough to make a decision that will change their lives forever, a decision that sometimes leads to suicide. The other side of this scandal is the abuse of parental rights. NO ONE has the "right" to limit a parent's knowledge, or to usurp parental control regarding these decisions.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
Faith based agencies have the right to decide who they will serve. To force them to give same-sex couples children is a clear infringement on religious freedom. Surely there must be enough adoption options for same sex couples, without infringing on the rights of faith based agencies.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
I really loved Brother Steurer's statement that "True love and compassion is a choice, not just a feeling." We can still choose to show compassion even if someone is really difficult to be around. We may not have love bubbling up in our hearts for them, but we can still treat them with kindness.
David HJune 25, 2025
My sister and I were victims of physical, emotional and even spiritual abuse at the hands of our parents while growing up as children. Even after we left the family as adults the emotional and threatening physical abuse continued. I am the only member of the Church in my family and have struggled and suffered much pain throughout my lifetime in relationships and activity in Church. My father has passed several years ago and mother is 88 years old and is absolutely unapproachable in making and restoring peace in our dysfunctional family dynamics. As I am an active member in the Church now for many years, I find myself with the undanting task of fulfilling my Genealogical responsibilities, however, I feel the absolute necessity of doing their work in the Temple as it is an opportunity to forgive and heal the deep emotional scars left in their wake. Our Saviour has provided a way of healing through His Atonement and perfect example of His infinite love for all humankind.
Name withheldJune 25, 2025
I had no desire to perform my cruel and abusive grandmother's temple work, until I had an extraordinary experience discovering my grandfather's military history, which explained so much about his own abusive behavior in life. I felt he was reaching through the veil, pleading for forgiveness and understanding. When I watched my middle daughter be baptized for her great grandma, I had the impression this was the fulfilling of a promise made long before this life. While sitting in the endowment room on her behalf, I had the powerful impression of what a blessing and beautiful opportunity it is just to live in mortality, something my grandma failed to appreciate while alive. And then when I passed through the veil and met up with my husband, who had performed the work for my grandfather, we sat together and sobbed and he shared the impression of chains breaking, of my grandfather being freed form a lifetime of pain. And I was left with the impression that my grandmother was made new and whole and would be a different person when I next met her, and to let the rest go and forgive. It was very healing. Her abuse echoed down to my father, who passed it on to me, and that is something I still struggle to handle, but the abuse went no further and I've raised my daughters in a different home environment because of the restored gospel. For that I am eternally grateful.
Name withheldJune 25, 2025
I am estranged from an emotionally cruel mother who is elderly and this article hits home for me, because this future situation has been on my mind a lot.
My loving but enabling father passed not long ago, and I did not participate in his ordinance work, but each of my children did. I felt his loving sprit surround me during one of my temple trips and in my heart I believe he was happy about his work being done.
While I can't be around my mother anymore in mortal life, at least not now, the Spirit keeps letting me know "She won't always be like this" and that someday her mind and spirit will be clear and she will be able to love me the way a mother should. Everyday I have to ask Heavenly Father to help me forgive her 100%. I pray that when I cross the veil, the scales will lifted from my eyes (mind, spirit) too and I will have understanding and compassion for why she behaved as she did. Her work will be done eventually - and I pray for the possibility of a normal, happy and healed family someday. Meanwhile, I thank Father everyday for making up my lack with the husband and children he gave me. God is so good. Hopefully our struggling family members will come to that realization too.
Name WithheldJune 24, 2025
My wife was raised in a dysfunctional, abusive family. Decades later, she still struggles with the consequences of her upbringing and experiences.
That being said, almost 15 years ago, her then living siblings decided to seal their deceased non-member father to their deceased member mother and seal the children to their parents. All had mixed emotions about doing this, but they felt it was what they should do. No one had any high expectations.
Some details are too sacred to share, but I will say that as my wife and I participated in these proxy ordinances, we unexpectedly had one of THE most powerful spiritual experiences of our entire lives!
Peggy ClarkJune 24, 2025
I enjoyed reading this article and was surprised to learn that one of the people buried there had the same name, birth and death dates of my great-great-grandfather Ebenezer Crouch's sister, Elizabeth; I have verified that she is the same one. These ancestors were my pioneer children who "walked and walked and walked" to the valley in 1856. Nine of the twelve children born into this family died as infants or toddlers. Eb lived to be 91 years old, and I met him not long before he died when I was four years old.
Rich BowermanJune 24, 2025
Great article from Jeff Teichert as usual. Is there a point #3?
Dyana G. A.June 24, 2025
I was in the process of Sealing my mother's grandmother to her husband and as I was kneeling at the alter I was hesitant because he had molested my mother and most likely her mom, his daughter. My mom suffered from mental health challenges as a result of that abuse and often took it out on me so generational trauma is real. The beautiful thing was that the Spirit whispered to me that the blessings of the sealing were for my great grandmother, not him. I was so glad that I moved forward with the work as it also brought comfort to me that sometimes Sealing blessings are for the benefit of those that are willing to choose and live worthy of them.
Tracy TippettsJune 24, 2025
I grew up in a part member family. My mother was a devout and dedicated member of the Church with ancestry and genealogy going back to the 1500's. Her ancestors came from England as Pioneers, and settled in Utah and Idaho.
My father, grandfather, and great grandfather were all never baptized or apostate inactive members, although they had come from early Pioneer heritage and history.
My father and grandfather were very antagonistic, bitter, and critical of the Church, its leaders and members, and did not believe it was true.
Because of that negative influence and attitude, I grew up feeling like a half-breed, and unworthy member myself.
Ten years ago a High Council speaker came to my ward and gave a talk about a man with my same last name, that was an early convert to the Church near Palmyra, New York in 1832...just two years after it was organized!
He was the Branch President, when John Tanner was baptized, and organized the relocation of members to Kirtland, Ohio. He donated money for the construction of the Temple there, and helped build it.
Joseph and Emma Smith hosted the wedding dinner in their home when he and his wife were married. He lived next to Wilford Woodruff in Nauvoo, and they were good friends!
He died in Winter Quarters in December, 1846 when he was only 38 years old. His son was born three months after he died. That was my great grandfather.
His widow and newborn baby went to Utah in 1847 in the wagon with Willard Richards, who was with Joseph and Hyrum in Carthage Jail when they were murdered by the angry mob.
I didn't know or learn any of this amazing story and information until I was 65 years old! So much for being a half-breed!
Patsy SwinsonJune 24, 2025
I had others perform my parents' temple work so I fulfilled as much of my responsibility as I felt like I was capable of, except for the last part. I could not bring myself to be sealed to them myself. That part was just too repugnant. I presume someone else will take care of that at some point after I have died, but I can't imagine ever accepting it. There is no amount of time that could pass which would make their sins against me acceptable. That doesn't mean I refuse to forgive them. It just means they were never parents to me and I never want to be their daughter. It would be far easier to be sealed to complete strangers. Even if they ever repented in the Spirit World, I would have to have a case of amnesia to find their treatment of me less than abominable.
Gordon HensleyJune 24, 2025
Don't let a troubled family past keep you from being sealed to your ancestral family lines. The unrepentant ones will be left out and the lines of sealing will be reconnected so you can be joined all the way back through to Noah and Adam. My grandmother had three husbands, the last of which was indirectly responsible for her untimely demise. We were instructed to have her sealed to all three, and to let her decide which, if any, she would keep.
Gayle RandellJune 24, 2025
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I was abused by my grandfather when I was very young and his associates.
I stuffed away all those memories for years. I believe that when it was time, as a n adult in my late 30’s,
Memories started to surface.
I was fortunate to have a LDS professional counselor who walked me thru one year of therapy to help me get through the trauma of the memory’s of the trauma and then to let it go.
I aproched a male member of my ward to do all the temple work for my grandfather. After his work was done, it felt like a huge weight had been lifted off me, and I was totally healed.
My grandfather’s fate is now between him and God and I don’t have to ever think about him anymore.
As I continue to lean on my Heavenly Father for my love and support, my life keeps getting better and better
Rochelle HaleJune 24, 2025
This is a quandary. In my research, I have come across several divorces, abandoned children, adoptions, etc. Most recently, my own mother passed, and my (deceased) siblings and I were finally able to be sealed to our parents, both of whom had other spouses. I have met with difficulty "asking permission" from non-member relatives who 1) don't understand why we do this work, or 2) don't see any reason if the couple didn't want to be together on earth. I think we can record the facts to the best of our ability, submit the names for ordinances, and let the Lord take care of the hereafter.
Martin RoundyJune 24, 2025
For nearly 40 years I was a mental health professional and my therapy focused on adult survivors of child sexual abuse. Prior to that I was a released-time LDS seminary instructor. My teaching ended when I became a divorced single parent of 6 children. I believed I would never do anything as spiritually significant than teaching the gospel to students. I was incorrect. My time spent supporting survivors heal their wounds and take back their lives was intensely spiritual and involved the frequent intervention of divine resources. So often the issues covered so beautifully in this piece were central to the process of healing. The manner and compassionate approach you took was, I believe, powerfully helpful for anyone whose life experiences involved child abuse of any kind, but particularly when sexual abuse was part of childhood. I am certain that many who know of what you wrote will find your wordd to be balm of Gidion. Thank you!
Harold RustJune 24, 2025
Thanks, Maureen, for a thoughtful review of all the key facts. As much as our leaders and prophets have warned against the consequences of of war, we also have scriptural and even “modern revelation “ confirming the necessity at times to fight in defense when an enemy is pursuing your death and destruction. Even the converted Lamanites of Helaman’s time were willing to allow their young me to go to war in defending.
Thus, there are realities which require sober and serious personal decisions transcending a goal of peace and love and charity toward all. Peace doesn’t really mean no conflict; the Lord’s peace comes from genuinely pursuing what is most aligned with what God would have us do …at that time.
SusanielsonJune 24, 2025
As a Family History consultant, I was saddened to find so many of my ward members had such painful family relationships. I felt prompted to advise them much as you did. That they could wait until they felt ready to perform those ordinances for them, or ask others to help.
Very helpful counsel, thank you.
Barry HansenJune 23, 2025
Thank you, Maureen, for your informed explanation of the situation. Much appreciated.
AnnJune 23, 2025
I am a convert of more than 50 years joining the church when I was 17. I was by no means a religious scholar at age 17, but I do feel that my little white church on the corner prepared me well to hear and accept the message of the restoration of the gospel. I continue to feel blessed by the covenants I have made. Those covenants have allowed me the opportunity to create a family unit far better than the home of my youth. I have been blessed.
But at the first, I was disappointed at how little was said about our Savior in my weekly church meetings. I realized that every prayer and ordinance was done in his Holy Name. But not much was said about him directly. We studied the prophets and I knew what they taught was from Heavenly Father. But I missed the former focus on Our Savior.
At one point I was assigned to create a monthly news letter that went to the homes in the ward. It included a message from the Bishop, a summary of recent events and a calendar for the coming month. Just as I had note General Conference and Easter, I included Good Friday on the calendar. I was instructed by my contact with the Bishopric to remove the mention of Palm Sunday and Good Friday. I was told those events weren’t really part of our religious beliefs. And only a few years before I had been counseled not to wear the small solve cross that I had worn daily for most of my life. I accepted these counsels by those over me, but also admit to feeling I had lost some important parts of my belief system when I joined the church.
I’m honest, I didn’t totally abandon those beliefs. I taught my children about the triumphant entry of the Savior into Jerusalem. I taught them how sorrowful the believers were when he was crucified. And I taught about his Atonement and Resurrection.
More recently I have felt a shift coming from Church Leadership. I rejoiced in the message found in The Living Christ. For me, the church I loved felt even more alive.
Hence, I appreciate so much your insight on the cross. And feel that perhaps what I learned in my early youth was more correct than some thought earlier. And if I hadn’t thrown away my cross necklace I would likely start wearing it again.
I rejoice in the great gift of the Atonement. For a plan that allows me to return to my Heavenly Home. And for Temple covenants that creates Eternal Family units. I hope I can better learn how to be both a better vertical and horizontal Christian. That I might do better in showing my love for my Savior in word and deed.
David MalpasJune 23, 2025
No sane person wants war. But this action had to be taken. The time for polite rhetoric and diplomacy had passed. While we, as a nation, respect discussion and agreements made, these people do not. They have one fanatical goal as Maureen has so clearly explained. And this is not news to us, although many like to bury their heads in the sand and think they are bluffing. They are not. I am thankful that we have a President that sees the danger and courageously acts accordingly, in spite of inevitable criticism, in the best interests of America, when this type of action is no longer avoidable. We, as a country, should be thanking him and not being critical or thinking up our uninformed views of what he should have done differently. There are many in our government that would have done nothing and still sought "diplomacy". But what would they then say when New York, LA, Chicago and other major US cities go up in a nuclear explosion with millions of Americans dead and our country crippled? Oh, yeah, they would be equally critical saying "why didn't you do something when you had the chance". I am grateful to have a President who is bold and courageous enough to act when action is necessary. God bless President Trump.
C. M. SalticidaeJune 23, 2025
Being the Commander in Chief doesn't mean that POTUS can launch attacks willy-nilly.
Imagine if the Empire of Japan had tried to argue that they weren't at war with the United States just because they had launched a strike on Pearl Harbor. Military strikes are definitionally military actions, which can only take place in a state of war.
JanetJune 23, 2025
Maureen- a perfectly illuminating explanation of the whole problem with the theocracy and politics,
Respectfully, there is one problem with “informing“ Congress of actions which are not legally required to be shared is that. Congress leaks to the mainstream media like a sieve and put the whole plan at the least, and at the most the lives of the military involved at grave risk of failure and death.
Scott WJune 23, 2025
How do we square this with D&C 98:33-38? Or this from Mormon 4:4 -
"And it was because the armies of the Nephites went up unto the Lamanites that they began to be smitten; for were it not for that, the Lamanites could have had no power over them."
Even as wicked as the Nephites were at that time, it was the offensive attack that sealed their fate.
Maybe you can say that the Lord doesn't count a one off preemptive offensive strike as war but it is a slippery slope: "And again, this is the law that I gave unto mine ancients, that they should not go out unto battle against any nation, kindred, tongue, or people, save I, the Lord, commanded them."
VictoriaJune 23, 2025
Trump did not need Congress to approve this move. He told Democrats he was doing it according to the press secretary Leavitt. We cannot allow Iran to have a nuclear weapon.
PatJune 23, 2025
Thank you, Maurine. Really good reminder of the whole situation
Sharon O'DonnalJune 23, 2025
Thank you for this podcast. Unlike other scriptures, which are so full of inspiring stories, the D&C seems dull and boring and yet it contains direct words given to a Prophet of our time. I often struggle to recognized the lesson being taught from the D& C and how it applies to me. This podcast touched me. I struggle with thoughts of "do I have anything of worth to verbally contribute, or be viewed as a 'Simpleton'"; especially as an older person in a presidency. This podcast gave me insite to my feelings and confidence to go forward in my calling. Thank you again.
Susan MorrisJune 23, 2025
As a follow-up to Johnson‘s comment, I doubt that the stealth operation would have remained secret had the president done as suggested.
Carol AnnJune 23, 2025
Wonderful article!! Democrats, had they been told, would have eagerly leaked this surprise attack to their counter-parts, the press! The tight security was absolutely necessary and awesome in the Midnight Hammer. Never have I been more proud of all armed servicemen who participated in this mission! God bless America and Israel and our POTUS!
JeaNette Goates SmithJune 23, 2025
It is so nice to have a trusted source put these strikes in perspective. Thank you
Linda PalmerJune 23, 2025
Thank you for your expertise in this conflict. Your firsthand experience lends credibility to your comments. As an American, I’m grateful that the nuclear threat from Iran has been neutralized. I’ve had compassion for the Jewish people and I’m glad they can rest from the nuclear threat, if not from the missiles that still rain into Israel. I disagree with the comment that President Trump should have notified congressional leaders. It is a proven fact that sensitive info has been leaked from Congress for decades. Sharing with Congress would have put our military in jeopardy. The Constitution, Article 2, gave President Trump authority to eliminate the nuclear threat to America. He did not put boots on the ground nor declare war. I’m worried about terrorist threats inside the United States because of the open border policies of the previous administration. I pray that our government can find these terrorists and eliminate the threat. Thank you Maureen.
Robin Litster JohnsonJune 23, 2025
Well said, Maurine! The only flaw in the program was Trump's not consulting Congress, or at least the "Gang of 8," or at least including Congress' two Democrat leaders in the informational sessions. By only including Republicans in his information sessions, it becomes a political issue instead of a national issue. That being said, the military was absolutely brilliant in its planning and execution.
Sonya FlowersJune 22, 2025
A great read. I too am a Merrill descendant. I just visited Hillsborough for the first time. I attended the Commemoration ceremony and Gathering of Descendants. The experience was a powerful one.
Sandy ReddishJune 21, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing these resources. So heartbreaking to see this happening in our countries and the effects on the youth. IT IS SO SO WRONG! Thank you for having the courage to speak up.
JeaNette Goates SmithJune 21, 2025
You might enjoy the book, The Big Necessity. It is a fascinating look at toilets and bathroom habits around the world.
tfJune 21, 2025
This article was very difficult reading for an average person (me), but I have wondered why no follow-up articles have been published.
also, there are seven comments, while most recent (say since Covid) articles receive no comments, you did attract some attention.
JaneJune 20, 2025
I love this article! You nailed what it means to be a true disciple! Thank you.
Karen D.June 20, 2025
I appreciate this point of view so much. I am a public school teacher, and I have seen this kind of thinking at work. We had a 6th grade child, who identified as a boy, dressed and looked just like a cute little boy, named Emily. Emily was having significant behavior issues. The district brought in an outside mental health evaluator to do a thorough evaluation. As the evaluator presented her info about affirming this child's identity, we asked about where the findings were about the symptoms we had seen that there had been possible sexual abuse of the child as a young girl. The evaluator had not researched the history in this direction at all, all of her findings were about affirming the gender the child professing, and about how would could affirm her chosen gender. It was then I knew it was a lie. This we not about helping children for her. It was about showing how open-minded and affirming she could be of the movement. I just wanted to tell this poor child that she was a beloved daughter of her Heavenly Father who loved her, but I couldn't. This has got to one one of Satan's best lies.
David CookJune 20, 2025
I predict that anyone who likes this book would also like “The Immortal Mind” by Michael Egnor.
Thomas JohnsonJune 20, 2025
Your concern is that Church members are not fulfilling the Second Commandment. My concern is that Church members are not putting the First Commandment first.
Tom McKnightJune 20, 2025
We are not the product of evolutionary mutations, nor natural selection, as we both well know, Dan. Stranger still is the claim by those who deal with fossils that the Earth's Crust deals in a sort of intelligent selection itself - choosing only to preserve a relatively few species in abundant amounts while selectively passing over the millions of transitional ancestral species without a single specimen! Of course, we are told that this is because of the "imperfection of the fossil record," even though the fossil record has consistently yielded abundant samples of those well-defined and recognized groups. For example, at the latest count, we have discovered around 120 Tyrannosaurus Rex specimens, with about 30 - 40 of those skeletons considered to be reasonably complete. But not a single transitional ancestor at any stage has been found to these 120. That's mathematically impossible, and it is true of every kind of known species. Years ago I found perhaps the most exhaustive list of supposed Transitional Fossils I had ever come across, and I found it in Wikipedia.
However, upon close examination I soon found that what the article was attempting to pawn off as “transitional fossils” were fraudulent. Huge gaping chasms existed in every single case. And then, in the article itself, the admission was made that, “Almost all of the transitional forms in this list do not actually represent ancestors of any living group or other transitional forms.” They said "almost all," but the truth was it was "all." And if they do not actually represent ancestors of any living group or other transitional forms, then they do not qualify. Cheers! https://docs.google.com/document/d/1k-WlQUX0m8o3Y2FpLq_aUY8Q_up9BmaagTo2txoV1IQ/edit?pli=1&tab=t.0
Ann-Marie JensenJune 20, 2025
Thanks for this new look at the cross and an excellent reminder of the horizontal obligation.
Ronald BarnesJune 19, 2025
I think the reason we recognize those pictures as that of Joseph is because we have seen them as representing him. I am familiar with the death masks of the brothers and when I first saw the picture in the locket, I immediately thought of Hyrum, not Joeph.
erikpeterhansenJune 19, 2025
If a Latter-day Saint can't seek with all their heart to love their enemies and those with which they don't agree they should not be allowed to hold a temple recommend no matter how much tithing they pay, how many meetings they attend or scriptures they study. If you don't love unconditionally you can't learn in the Temple.
Traci WalkerJune 19, 2025
We love Les Misérables and all it teaches us, we love the other stories you have woven in to these scriptures and we love you!
JeffJune 19, 2025
So true, and so many of us have gotten so caught up in the political climate of fear mongering and hate which are tools of the adversary.So much need to be hopeful, find joy and peace in these tumultuous times, and see the beauty and godliness in everyone around us, especially those that are different than us, less fortunate and in great need of receiving love, acceptance and kindness. We can do better. Let the light of Christ shine in you and through you - and the world will be a better place, Zion for all, not just some.
PeggyJune 18, 2025
Very well written and informative. Thanks. I especially appreciated your closing comments: "Thus, we must be wise as serpents in dealing with the Amalickiahs of our era, but gentle as doves, when possible, in dealing with those whom others may have stirred up to great anger.
These are complex times when we need the power of prayer, the power of forgiveness, the power of charity, and the teachings of the prophets and the scriptures, especially the Book of Mormon, more than ever."
K TaylorJune 17, 2025
Good article. I would add that our current President fits the Book of Mormon description of a king man to a tee as he rules by ignoring Constitutional rights, is engaging in ethnic cleansing and is being supported by a very weak senate and house that are doing nothing to stop his illegal acts and to protect the American people from him.
Our judiciary is doing its best to stop him but with little success. It appears that there are king men on the right and left and they are all fighting for control of our nation and its people and neither side will let the Constitution get in their way.
Don LaytonJune 17, 2025
"Nature invented..."
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I'm no brilliant scientist either, but it sure seems that random acts of nature are awfully good at inventing things. Either that, or the experts are.
LoraJune 17, 2025
As a Latter-day Saint, I have long had a problem with evolution because it relies on Death. "Survival of the Fittest" means that the successful mutations will live while the unsuccessful mutations will die. If Death has always been around, then why give Adam and Eve the blame?
I've been following a FaceBook page called Biblical Creation, and they have some fascinating insights and fossil proofs that support Genesis, the Creation, and the Flood. Every culture has "dragons" in their mythology. What if that's just another word for "dinosaurs"?
Yes, all "educated" people believe in evolution (it's taught at BYU), and I'm sure that anyone who reads this will think I'm some kind of Flat-Earther, but so far Science has not been able to provide even a single missing link showing the evolution of one species into another. There are symbiotic relationships that cannot exist without each other, and too much perfection in our Father's creation for it all to evolve like one long experiment. Of course, everyone has their agency to think whatever they want (we fought a war in heaven and wars on earth to guarantee that), but this is what I believe.
Brad LarsenJune 17, 2025
Excellent commentary on present-day political realities and how they compare to pertinent passages and scenarios found in the Book of Mormon. Thanks!
Jeff LindsayJune 17, 2025
This post with a few added thoughts and updates is available at AriseFromTheDust.com at https://www.arisefromthedust.com/of-nero-king-men-and-flaming-cities/. Many thanks to Maurine Proctor and Meridian Magazine for publishing this and many other articles on related issues such as religious freedom, liberty, social issues, and the riches of the Book of Mormon.
Cynthia CJune 17, 2025
Very illuminating article. Thank you!
Sue AnneJune 16, 2025
I have felt from the beginning that the image was Joseph, and I think that good scientific methods are proving, and will continue to demonstrate, that it is, indeed, the prophet.
MelissaJune 16, 2025
Curious about the previous articles but none of the links work.
SebJune 16, 2025
There is the suggestion to take 1000 mg acetaminophen every six hours. That would be 4000 mg a day. That is the uppermost amount an adult should take. Acetaminophen is a very useful drug. BUT taking to much will kill you by destroying your liver. In most cases this process is irrevocable. Since 4000 mg is the absolute upper limit per day for an adult I would highly advise against taking that amount just because of a cold.
Ruth JamiesonJune 16, 2025
Joseph's death mask looks nothing like that picture to me.
RuthJune 16, 2025
I just recently saw the death mask of Joseph and Hyrum and that picture doesn't look at all like his death mask to me. Maybe Hyrum?
Gordon HensleyJune 16, 2025
Anyone who studies a chart of the metabolic and biochemical processes that power a human body should be amazed at the complexity involved in making and operating a living being. Not to mention the thousands of educated people involved in planning and producing such a chart. Which is a more likely scenario? That some one very intelligent constructed this process, or that it formed from a series of happy accidents involving a set of tools that also assembled themselves.
Dorothy MillerJune 16, 2025
Why does the coca-cola work? Is it simply the carbonation or some ingredient? I am a voice teacher and am.always looking for helps like this for my students as well as myself! Thank you!!
Bob WoodburyJune 16, 2025
The locket with the daguerreotype in it has a much larger metal loop on top than those in the photographs of the Smith women. It’s more accurately depicted in Emma Smith’s portrait.
Interesting article, I’m not convinced it’s Joseph Smith after reading this and the first articles about this locket. I look forward to reading the series.
DJJune 15, 2025
Thanks- I printed this out to keep in my medicine cabinet. I contracted Influenza A in the spring and this would have come in handy!
Corey D.June 15, 2025
Great article and thought provoking. I'm a great admirer of Thomas Jefferson and often I think of our present political and social environment and our present leaders and think what a contrast. I have often had the thought, especially when I was still working, if Jesus was a CEO what would that be like ? Thanks again for an interesting article.
Newell D. WrightJune 15, 2025
Excellent article, my friend. I like the idea of generative fathering.
Bob TaylorJune 13, 2025
Regarding national/patriotic hymns - my understanding is that there will be separate "inserts" for these on a country by country basis. Not sure of the details on how this will be done.
LewisJune 13, 2025
What a thoughtful piece! It gives new meaning to service, for how often do we avoid the small unpleasant acts of service. Sometimes I think it is the job no one else wishes to do that the Savior himself would do were he present among us. Thank you again for your gift of drawing important lessons from selfless acts of love.
Rochelle HaleJune 13, 2025
As a recent convert, I received my Patriarchal blessing at about age 16 1/2. It was a beautiful blessing given by our beloved stake patriarch and member of our ward family. Over the next few years, I would read it and mentally check off the things I had accomplished or the blessings I had received. However, another reading would indicate to me that I had a long way to go. It was kind of like the magic you find when reading the Book of Mormon again and again; there is always something new to learn or do.
Roberta HarrisJune 13, 2025
What a great article Becky and we can certainly relate! Urinating in full view in public surprised us on our first visit to India years ago. Easy for the men but not the women! In one area we were in, the church facilitated the construction of multiple toilets at a school where the girls could have the privacy they needed. This definitely increased their attendance. Your stories about the basic requirements of our fellow humans and the solving of our day to day needs are so inspiring. Thank you so much!!
CarolJune 12, 2025
We who live in the United States take the availability of toilets for granted. Thank you for reminding me that the rest of the world is not as lucky. I too believe in keeping our meeting houses clean and neat for all who come to worship the Lord!
Ben TylerJune 12, 2025
Thank you for this story. It reminds me of one of my favorite movies, a Japanese movie called "Perfect Days" about a humble man who cleans toilets in Tokyo for a living.
Gordon HensleyJune 11, 2025
It was only after my children started having their own children (and coming to live in our home) that I realized that having little children running around the place is a special joy. It seems so sweet and I cannot imagine that Heaven would be complete without their sweet little spirits in my life. It would be a shame if that pleasure was limited to just our mortality. Why would we, as worthy immortals, not also experience that joy?
RussJune 11, 2025
I agree. Excellent article, and a topic too often swept aside when it is still a growing and pervasive issue. Thank you for writing about it, and for those who encourage discussion.
Cary HolmquistJune 11, 2025
It’s true! I tell my family this about many things!
CarolynJune 11, 2025
I enjoyed this article very much and learned a great deal about the inner workings of the production.
I have a different take on including the interview from The View. Like many, I too find this show offensive, brash, and lacking in social value. What I found profoundly interesting in this interview was seeing a very different side of each of the women of The View. Who knew they could actually be calm, soft spoken, respectful, and yes, even inclusive. This change of behavior came from the very subject matter, our Savior Jesus Christ, His ministry, gospel, and example for all humanity no matter where or when we are born into mortality. He can and does change hearts and behavior.
Thank you for your article and everything included in it. Will I watch The View? No, but I have perhaps a bit more tolerance for the women on it, and I certainly have even greater respect for the actor portraying Jesus. His soft spoken courage has given me the courage to testify of the Savior. Thank you.
Doris WilliamsJune 10, 2025
Mariah,
I love the Chosen and I loved your article. Your descriptive, sensitive, beautiful writing just brought everything to life regarding The Chosen's production, fan participation, the amazing way things are funded, and each involved person's humility and respect for Jesus' life and works. Thank you so much.
Howard CollettJune 10, 2025
Wonderful story, Mariah! As one who has filmed at Goshen, you did a masterful job of helping me feel I was back! It is truly an amazing set that inspires awe before the cameras start rolling.
Stefanie LittlefieldJune 10, 2025
Great article but didn’t like the video from The View. Why publicize a show that many find offensive? To be an extra does cost a lot of money. I love The Chosen! I feel they do an excellent job of retelling the stories in the Bible.
Jenee LindnerJune 10, 2025
Mariah, What a lovely article about a very worthy subject. It made me think about those years when your family were all here in our ward. I especially remember your family setting up the Christmas crèche displays that your parents had collected all over the world. You and your little sister were so proud having helped set them up and displayed all over your house. Loved that open house and spirit of Christlike radiance found there due to its representation of the Lord’s Errand on this Earth. Rightly so! What a great teaching tool to help teach of the Savior and his important mission to the young and old. It is nice to see the crèches at the Washington DC temple visitor center during the Christmas season each year where they were donated when you all left. But, the remembrance of you and your sister’s soulful eyes that lit up as you ‘tour guided’ us from room to room in your home will always be with me as a precious memory. Because of your parents goodly influence, the apple does not fall far from the tree. God Bless❤️
Toni LyonsJune 10, 2025
I really enjoyed this article about The Chosen, the crowd funding, the chances for anyone to participate, etc. I didn't like the video with The View. I know there are other interviews with Jonathan that are more inspiring than bringing up this TV show which I find offensive. I guess you have your reasons.
ChrisJune 9, 2025
Excellent article.
No comments? Because no one wants to discuss this in the church. We still hang on to the ridiculous belief that if we ignore the issue of porn use with young and old alike, and pretend it's not happening, it will just go away. No it won't!
As an addict living in recovery and as an ARP missionary, I know there is a real problem, and almost all men, and most young people, will not be honest about their porn use with spouse, parents, or bishop.
That could change with some open and honest discussions in our wards and stakes. It's time to let go of the fear and shame around this and be willing to actually do something to help heal our brothers and sisters.
HelenCJune 9, 2025
Dr. Dan, as your Very Favorite Brit I’ve had to do some hard thinking about Elizabeth I, especially in her later years, and I would like to apply Anna Leonowens quote to her but there were definitely times when she didn’t try as hard as she could have. For example, her treatment of the sailors who were released after her Navy’s success over Spain, then left to beg or starve on the streets of England. Her father, Henry VIII, was similar but, I think, more culpable in wrong-doing.
I wonder what kind of people both would have been had they not worn the crown?
Not a job I would ever want, that’s for sure!
JohnJune 9, 2025
Ponder why president Nelson thought it was significant that Christ appeared at the Temple?
Also ponder 3 Nephi 18:25. Which is a footnote from 3 Nephi 11:15
Then ponder the Temple. And one of the main purposes of the Temple?
Gordon HensleyJune 9, 2025
We may not have the pedigree that Catholics and Orthodox claim, but we are believers in Christ. That is the baseline for being defined as a Christian. We can all agree that there is only one man who is called, in our language, Jesus Christ, the Son of God, the Messiah. Who gets to decide who is a Christian? Does it matter that other churches won't let you have a golden ticket embossed with the word Christian? The Jews are not Christian, yet they are still considered to be The Chosen People.
John HillJune 9, 2025
Very interesting article, Dan! I love reading your interesting insights from your many travels. Grateful for having learned from you when our lives overlapped in Egypt!
Rochelle HaleJune 9, 2025
As I began reading your article, my first thought was of Anna Leonowens, speaking of the King of Siam, "I don't think any man has ever been as good a king as he could have been. But this one tried. He tried very hard." In the movie, "The King and I" the king is portrayed as one who tried hard given his circumstances and personal understanding of power, culture, societal expectations, etc.
You have provided new insight (and reason to study) of many of those we have taken for granted as great leaders. While it is true that great things may have been accomplished (i.e., the unification of Hawaii), we need to ponder what cost, sacrifice, or detriment was involved. Did the end truly justify the means?
Annie JensenJune 8, 2025
Thank you for this well-researched information!
RobertJune 6, 2025
The Church in essence recognizes/acknowledges same sex marriage as it is "legal" by law. That recognition/acknowledgement absolutely doesn't approve, authorize or condone same sex marriages in any kind of doctrine or Church related setting such as meeting house or Temple.. In essence it is an acknowledgement that they "exist" in the world. Same with gambling, addiction to substances and many other. Just because "it's legal" doesn't make it morally right or that God has to accept it. He won't.
In terms of members marriage.
All a marriage between people in a meeting house is only for time, not eternity unless they go thru the Temple, are sealed, lived true and faithful lives and it is ratified by the Holy Spirit of Promise.
Temple sealings, like any other ordinance, are a "promissory note" until that marriage is ratified by the Holy Spirit of Promise.
"Thus if both parties are 'just and true,' if they are worthy, a ratifying seal is placed on their temple marriage; if they are unworthy, they are not justified by the Spirit and the ratification of the Holy Ghost is withheld. Subsequent worthiness will put the seal in force, and unrighteousness will break any seal."
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/eternal-marriage-student-manual/holy-spirit-of-promise?lang=eng
In the end the ONLY marriage that God will ultimately approve is a marriage where all involved have been true and faithful to their covenants, the Gospel, and qualify for the highest level of the Celestial Kingdom. All other marriages are completely and totally meaningless and void in the hereafter.
Its much better to repent in this life and not wait. as it's much harder to repent in the hereafter. Satan wants you to delay, wait, and procrastinate repentance.
DJJune 6, 2025
Thanks for the great article
Scott JohnsonJune 6, 2025
Why is logic so difficult for a modern society. Because we have made human sexuality so 'sexual', we cannot imagine our 'mom and dad' enjoying a physical process of 'Knowing' each other. When Joseph said "that which is without body parts and passions is nothing" he was teaching something far greater than the words. Body, parts passions. We need to think more clearly about who we really are. And the same is true with our LGBTQ brothers and sisters. Thanks for the writing. Looking forward to more.
JuliannJune 6, 2025
Great counsel. I will use it for other betrayals. Thank you
Ruben CoutoJune 6, 2025
If I may, I share here an article I wrote about the interpretation of the text of Genesis 2:18-20, in which the woman is described as being the man's helper: https://vidaemabundancia.blogspot.com/2025/06/mulher-ajudadora-genesis-218-20.html?m=0 (The article is in portuguese, but you may activate the automatic translation at the right top menu.)
Steven S.June 6, 2025
It is time for the church to canonized the The Family Promulgation.
Michelle LlewellynJune 5, 2025
Articles like this really make you stop and think, how many YSA men in the church not already addicted to porn and gaming are crying themselves to sleep every night because they yearn to be husbands and fathers and mourn how it is not good for man be alone yet can't seem to find a good LDS woman under age 35 who also yearns to fill the measure of her creation. We should hold a special church-wide fast for these poor, poor, young men that they won't have to wait until " the next life" to see their dreams of temple marriage and family formation realized.
Kathryn AmesJune 5, 2025
We are surely looking forward to this and love the story about it.
Is there any hoped for "completion date" ?
JeffJune 4, 2025
Anonymous, how long have you been hurting?
Debra BallJune 4, 2025
Our family is going to attend the Salt Lake City Temple in August/Sept. of 2027. I would love to take my children, grandchildren and a couple of greats to see this garden. Do you think this will be close to finished by then?
Kathleen MortensenJune 4, 2025
This is wonderful. For anyone who doesn’t want to wait for the completion of this park you should visit the similarly themed park at Thanksgiving Point in Lehi, Utah. It is inspiring for young and old alike.
KWJune 4, 2025
I dont think the LGBTQ community will be happy with anything less than a doctrinal change to include same sex marriage, sanctioned by the church. Untill then, there will be many who will be offended at every talk given on the doctrine of the family. Elder Packer was criticised after every General Conference talk. It's not going to change.
AleceJune 4, 2025
My problem is not with the new songs, it is with the release of them ahead of the printing of the hymnal. Most people don't understand that making "booklets" or "folders" of these hymns as they are released is very expensive -- both in cost of materials, as well as in the time spent to create the booklets or folders, clean print the hymns in each release, and then add the new pages to the folders. For our ward, it has actually cost about 300 dollars per release to print the new pages; and about 12 hours, minimum, per release just to put the new pages in the booklets/folders. So far, our ward alone has spent about a thousand dollars to create and print the current collection of 37 new hymns and place them in booklets or folders. (Our folders are used by 4 congregations; and our Stake has followed our ward in creating folders for all three of our buildings; so the cost for the Stake is triple what our ward has spent!) Right now, each of these folders is worth over five dollars -- which, I think, will definitely exceed the cost per hymnal when they are finally produced; and each new release will only add to that cost, per folder -- with the folders eventually being tossed when the new hymnals come out. I'm not sure those involved in releasing these new songs in this fashion considered such an expensive and time consuming task when they decided to release the songs in batches ahead of the printing of the hymnal! Perhaps they thought everyone would use the digital form of the hymns instead of the printed form, but it is definitely hard to read an unfamiliar song, presented with both music and lyrics, on a cell phone sized screen; so most people would probably not bother to try to sing the hymn when presented in that fashion. Just an FYI from the Music Chairman of our Ward!!
David CookJune 4, 2025
I would like to know what brought about her change in attitude toward the phone? Is there a way there to encourage others to do the same?
Rebecca JohnsonJune 4, 2025
I love the new hymns and look forward to all of them. But, America, the Beautiful and the Star-Spangled Banner will not be in it? The land prophets have foretold to be the place of the Restoration, the place of the New Jerusalem? America is not just for Americans, it is for all members of the Church. Did I read this correctly? SO very sad to see this de-emphasis of the home of the Restoration! What is happening here?
Lorna HamblinJune 4, 2025
Everything you’ve said is absolutely true and helpful. I did all of this. I also found journaling and corresponding with a friend who was going through a divorce helped me process the pain. Journaling helped me understand what happened and why, and helped earn me learn from the trauma. I went to a 12 step for codependents of addicts and worked hard to lose the behaviors I’d acquired in the dysfunctional marriage. It all worked out. Second marriage is fabulous.
Richard JukesJune 4, 2025
Thank you for sharing this wonder news! We really look to visiting this monumental new site.
Sally SmithJune 3, 2025
I can remember when the church really encouraged the women to get married and have children. Then the equal rights amendment was passed, gas prices started going up and the rlghts of women became a new war cry with Peter, Paul and Mary. Satan knew what he was doing with the advent of Haight Ashbury and free love without marriage. His goal was to destroy the family and it looks like that finally happened.
(Anonymous, please.)June 3, 2025
It's never stopped hurting.
Traci WalkerJune 3, 2025
Oh Scot and Maurine, Thanks for taking us along with your pictures and words! They provide a precious new angle on this much-loved series about Jesus. Who knew that our church would be providing exactly the realism that was need on the Jerusalem set? He did! Continuing revelation is such a gift.
Rochelle HaleJune 3, 2025
I served a foreign mission and have traveled to many places, but not nearly as extensively as I would like. How wonderful it will be when we can see and experience all the wonders of the earth. We can travel with our ancestors or others to see where and how they lived. We won't have to worry about having period-appropriate clothing, coinage, or the comforts of cell phones or running water. We will be able to experience life through their stories, learn that many of their hardships were not as difficult as we think (from our perspective). Often when I read the Book of Mormon, I am reminded of the great ability to use many types of ore, building materials, make tools, etc. We will learn how past generations made their physical lives more comfortable and what allowed them to invite God or any God-like attributes into their lives during their mortality. More than the places "we'll go," I look forward to rekindling relationships with loved ones who really just lived around the corner.
Nate CarterJune 2, 2025
My wife and I had 6. We frequently faced condescending, sneering comments like "Don't you know how it works?" This article fails to mention the largest factor, at least in the US, for declining birth rates. It's money printing, and the resulting inflation. It used to be that a middle class family could survive on one income, leaving one parent to be full time at home. Taking the dollar off the gold standard in the early seventies doomed that quality of life to destruction.
MaryannJune 2, 2025
This is one of the best articles I have read and opens our eyes to a very dangerous trend. We MUST speak out for truth. We cannot water it down so that no one will be "offended." Kindness is NOT withholding true doctrine. I loved Elder Jeffrey R. Holland's powerful talk where he strongly emphasized that the Savior did not ever, even once, justify sin. We are ambassadors for our Savior and we need to teach His doctrine without apology.
MaryannJune 2, 2025
This story made me smile. Sometimes the right connections take place in a very round-about way. Mike will find someone else, and it's all good!
MaryannJune 2, 2025
I have loved this quote from Brigham Young and feel excited to view all of these things---the earth at the dawn of its' creation, the Garden of Eden, the Holy Land at the time of the Savior--it is thrilling to think about. We will have so many limitations removed from us when we leave this earth. It will also be glorious to be free from physical pain and mental imperfections.
MaryannJune 2, 2025
Wow, this was such great advice for so many of us! I especially liked the phrase about our happiness not being dependent on our children's lives going smoothly. It is hard to cut the apron strings sometimes, and even harder to learn to be happy when our kids are struggling. It isn't that we shouldn't care or never be concerned. But it is easy to make the mistake of getting bogged down in our kid's lives and choices. The Lord sent them here to learn and experience their own path. We cannot walk it for them. We are called upon to love our children, but we will soon be burned out if we try to carry their burdens along with our own. Bearing their burdens means to love, encourage and give appropriate help WHEN ASKED. It does not being unhappy every time they are unhappy. I cannot bleed every time my child cuts themselves.
Sister Daphne TomlinsonJune 2, 2025
I read a book once by Paul McKenna called "Get Control of Sugar Now" which helped me understand what Insulin Resistance was and how much Sugar there is in Supermarket food including Processed food. Had anyone prayed about it to get help from Heavenly Father to know if it really is good or bad.
Laurin G. Rackham DMDJune 2, 2025
Thank you. I (Pediatric Dentist) have often said that soda pop is nothing more than "Palatal Pornography' and should be taxed to death!
Gary StrobleJune 2, 2025
Also, the death of a righteous Saint is never a surprise to the Lord.
ShaunaJune 2, 2025
Thank you. What a beautiful message. I am inspired by your choice to have faith, in such difficult circumstances. Hugs to you and your precious family
Steven S.June 2, 2025
Unless the Father has called you home for a brief purpose, you would not yet comprehend how celestial travel is accomplished. Even Brigham Young did not explicitly explain the mechanics of such travel. Let me punctuate this point: there is no need for a prophet to detail the workings of celestial movement. It is divinely orchestrated and beyond mortal comprehension.
One must experience the process more than once to truly grasp its nature. As a noteworthy pattern, consider both the First Vision and the visitation of Moroni. What is the first thing that occurs in each? Revelation is always preceded by divine preparation.
Furthermore, we do not know with certainty the exact sequence of events during the opening of the heavens in the First Vision. It is possible that Joseph first beheld the Father through that celestial conduit, followed by the appearance of the Son. The Prophet's record affirms their distinct presence, though the precise divine order remains spiritually profound and sacred.
There are accounts from those who have received the calling and election made sure, the more sure word of prophecy, who testify of beholding the throne of God and the Son together. Through that sacred conduit, they witness Them standing not in this world, but in a realm of celestial manifestation beyond the veil.
JoanJune 2, 2025
Thank you for your article. I needed that reminder of the fact that we don’t have to be alone in our pains and suffering. Thank you for the reminder that our Savior is always there.
ValJune 2, 2025
You have presented so much good wisdom here. Thank you.
HelenCJune 2, 2025
Thank you. I’ve found myself offering thanks to God during our recent trials and it definitely helps.
Your article made me realize I probably have some repenting to do. Not sure what from, precisely, but I’m sure He will help me find it.
NealJune 1, 2025
We were created in God's image..."Male and female created he them."
Larraine MooreJune 1, 2025
Thank you for this sermon which has lifted my heart in a way I had not anticipated. All three of my adopted children have strayed off the covenant path. One is transgender. He has recently moved in with my middle child, his sister, and we have become empty nesters. I have refocused my energy to going to the temple daily and doing two endowments a day! Still it hurts. A friend who I had not talked to in years spoke of you and how working in another part of the vineyard and being patient and letting the Lord do His work is showing my faith. I had never put the story of Sherem and Jacob’s allegory together in this way of personal development and change. This was amazing and healing to read. I will continue to wait upon the Lord. Thank you!!
Ms CatMay 31, 2025
I believe She has been there from the beginning, right up until now, a participant in all of our historical events and I don't believe She has been silently but that even plain and precious things about Her and words from Her have cut out of scriptures. We are Her work and why wouldn't She be there, everywhere and be a part of it all...when Earth was creat, when Adam and Eve were created, when the City of Enoch was taken up, when the Earth was flooded and most of the people, animals and creatures died, when Noah and his family landed, and millions of other examples. Just because we've read nothing, heard nothing and know very little, doesn't mean She wasn't there, doesn't mean She was silent. What it all means is that we don’t know, that's all it means.
Kelly PetersonMay 30, 2025
We can’t wait!!!!
ShaunaMay 30, 2025
thank you. I try to support parents and young families in every way I can and freely talk about the joy of motherhood whenever it comes up, but especially with my own girls. There is nothing more fulfilling, powerful or purposeful than having a family. It saddens me deepy that so many women have bought into Satan's lies that marriage and children are a trap. Without the formation of families, the "whole earth is utterly wasted," says the Lord. I highly recommend Julie B Beck's talk "Teaching the Doctrine of the Family," which does an excellent job of outlining for young people the importance and "theology" of the family. We spend so much time and effort preparing our youth for 'careers," but what about parenthood?
DarylMay 30, 2025
Maybe you could suggest that your daughter talk to a stepparent so she can better prepare herself for her wonderful new family. At 40 I married a man with three children (8,10,12). It was the hardest thing I had ever done. I was independent, invested in my career, and treasured my privacy. My mother never doubted me and embraced her new grandchildren. We dealt with shared custody, homes with different rules, financial disagreements with the ex etc. Each day brought a new and unexpected challenge. But we made it. It has been 35 years. My adult step children are my best friends.
Judith La MontagneMay 30, 2025
I very much appreciate the great importance you have shown in "getting it right" in your series. This series will be undying. Our family here in Iowa are some of your biggest fans. We belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and very much appreciate your outstanding efforts to "get it right." It was obviously no accident that our Church built this Jerusalem set several years ago! Thank you so much for the tremendous detail work you have put into this series!
AsibongMay 30, 2025
Thank you for your comments on this topic , I find them quite insightful . In my opinion, I feel Heavenly Mother is very busy in the business of nurturing and getting spirit children ready for their mortal Journey. It would be too much responsibility to get her involved in mortal affairs; hence, the silence about her on earth.
In Summary, I see this as a division of labor . Heavenly mother nurtures and prepares spirit children for the journey of mortality , and heavenly father brings to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.
They both play a significant role in our existence from Pre-Mortal, Mortal and Post Mortal. I believe more will be revealed in the fullness of time.
HelenCMay 30, 2025
I’ve become so engaged in the characters in this amazing series that I’m actually not sure I can watch this season! I know He suffered and that, no doubt, we were involved as the heavens wept, I’m just not sure I can watch it again, even knowing it’s only a dramatization.
Kathaleen MayMay 30, 2025
I was there the as an extra the day you were there! I wish I had seen you! Such a privilege to contribute in some small way. I think people are sometimes confused by "Mormons" loving The Chosen because they believe we are not Christian. It is a great missionary tool to be able to use the church's set, and hopefully there is more love and understanding between all followers of Christ!
HelenCMay 30, 2025
Well said. It’s still hard to watch them make choices that may bring them misery but as my middle son once told me, “I know I’m making mistakes but at least you know they’re MY mistakes.” The hardest part? Not WORRYING about them. That just makes two people miserable. When I find myself doing it I get on my knees. We can always pray for them. Father knows why He’s doing and His Son’s Atonement truly does have the power to save in ways we cannot imagine.
JulieMay 29, 2025
I'm excited for these new hymns and songs. One of my concerns though is what the weight of the large print Hymnbook with 500 pieces of music will be. As an Organist/pianist my load of 'stuff' I have to take to church each Sunday already takes 2 bags.
Gary StrobleMay 29, 2025
There is a temple in Kansas City, Missouri also; not far from Liberty Jail.
Gary LawrenceMay 29, 2025
Nice trip down the history of names. We are indeed the re-established original.
CodyMay 29, 2025
Excellent! Thank you!
I feel like I should say that tone of voice matters, a lot.
And if you know you are unaware of how your tone is coming off, explain the tone you are trying to take. It makes a difference!
Example: if you sound frustrated as the listener because you have some stressors going on that you haven’t been able to set aside, tell them you are not frustrated with them. And then tell them what you understood from the conversation and validate, like the article says.
Or if you are trying to sound one way as either the speaker or listener and the other person is responding way differently than what you think they should, check your tone.
Chris MiltimoreMay 28, 2025
Ted Parsons was a beacon of faith then and he is one now. He has inspired many, including me, to be a better version of themselves. What a wonderful story and inspiration.
HansMay 28, 2025
Don’t worry, Mike. You still came out ahead. Any woman who would break a date for another one, isn’t worth the trouble. Her loss…your gain.
Marianne PaventyMay 28, 2025
Thank you for speaking of our Divine Mother as a distinct and sovereign being. I agree with you that She has Her own power, Her own roles, Her own majesty. I also agree with you that we should not “crush” Her to fit into the mold we would have Her fill- one that we can comprehend. I think it is human nature to try to fit God in all forms into our own experience and limited understanding instead of expanding our own minds and hearts to be able to comprehend Their true natures. We all do it to some extent. The prayer of my heart is to see and know and understand God as They truly are, not as I hope or desire Them to be. With that said, I also think we put Them into unnecessary boxes when we make definitive statements about Them- like “She is silent,” or “Jesus never spoke of Her” — this immediately limits and puts blinders on our own comprehension, “crushes” Her down to fit our understanding, and shoves Her into our mortal-made box. In my own personal study and experience, I hear Her speaking with power in Proverbs 8, I see Her as the Tree of Life in Lehi and Nephi’s visions, offering Her beloved fruit/Son to us, I hear Her Son honoring Her and speaking of Her often in apocryphal texts, I also feel Her within me and see Her woven throughout the fibers of all life and love. Oh what a treasure trove of finding Her all throughout scripture and experience awaits you and anyone else who simply chooses to open their minds and hearts to Her! You will see Her everywhere, feel Her always with you, and will never be the same again and never be able to unsee Her.
Amy SedgwickMay 28, 2025
I really appreciate the precision and reverence in your reflections here, especially as you point out Her apparent silence. But I’ve come to see each of these very moments as places pregnant with Her presence—not in absence, but in symbol, archetype, and spiritual pattern. Here’s what others and I have come to understand through deeper study and prayer:
• In the Garden of Eden: While Heavenly Mother is not explicitly named, Eve is Her echo. As “the mother of all living,” Eve embodies Her essence. Many believe Eve’s courage to choose mortality was a direct reflection of the Divine Feminine’s wisdom and will. Eve is Her archetype—ushering souls into the mortal journey, as the Mother would.
• To Enoch: In Moses 7, Enoch weeps when he sees the suffering of the world—but the one who teaches him divine compassion is the weeping God. This image, of a God who mourns, comforts, and yearns, may contain the voice of the Mother. Some even see Enoch’s own transformation into a nurturer and comforter as inspired by the Divine Feminine.
• The Burning Bush: The bush burned with fire but was not consumed—a symbol of divine presence in nature, in life, in paradox. The flame that nurtures without devouring has long been understood as a feminine archetype. The bush—living, rooted, aflame—is a perfect metaphor for Her.
• To Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob: While the covenants are made with patriarchs, the symbols of those covenants—fertility, land flowing with milk and honey, stars and sand—are feminine metaphors. Sarah, Rebekah, and Rachel are not footnotes; they are covenantal vessels. Through them, the promises are literally and symbolically fulfilled. And Asherah, the feminine consort of El, was worshipped by early Israelites before being obscured.
• To Mary and Elizabeth: She is there—in Mary’s womb, in her song. The Magnificat is the voice of the Daughter of God filled with Divine Feminine fire: “He hath filled the hungry with good things.” Many scholars believe Mary echoes Wisdom/Sophia here. Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, names what is sacred. The meeting of these women is one of the most feminine and spiritually powerful scenes in scripture.
• At Christ’s Baptism: While we hear the Father’s voice and see the Spirit descend “like a dove,” the dove has long been a symbol of the Mother. In many cultures and languages, the Holy Spirit is feminine (ruach, ruha). The moment of divine birth into ministry includes the full Godhead—perhaps She is present as the Spirit Herself.
• In the First Vision: Though only the Father and Son were seen, what Joseph felt—a burst of uncreated light, love surpassing description—may have included Her. And She is there in symbol: the Sacred Grove itself is a grove of trees—ancient archetypes of the Divine Feminine and the Tree of Life. If She was not seen, perhaps She was felt, or embodied in the very setting where Heaven touched Earth. Some have even whispered of alternate First Vision accounts where a divine feminine presence is suggested—though elusive, the idea lingers.
And then there’s the verse that launched it all: “If any of you lack wisdom…” (James 1:5). In ancient scripture, Wisdom is a woman—Chokhmah, Sophia. Could it be that Joseph’s seeking heart was answered by both Heavenly Parents? If the Father spoke, perhaps the Mother stood beside Him, as She always has, just beyond the veil of our perception.
In all these stories, Her presence may not have been named—but like the moon, She reflects and radiates light in ways that are easy to miss unless we are looking with a soft gaze and a listening heart. Her silence may not be absence—it may be invitation.
Kerry FarrMay 27, 2025
My ways are not your ways, My thoughts not your thoughts. We might not know more about Heavenly Mother while we are in this earthly state because our mortal minds could not comprehend the way their Godhood partnership works…
Kerry FarrMay 27, 2025
I have always had a longing for Her.
Have a need for her example and mentoring. Maybe it has been silently there … I can’t imagine that she would not have somehow been there when Her Beloved Son paid the ultimate price.
Maybe she was the “ angel” who came to comfort and support in the Garden of Gethsemane. I’m waiting eagerly to know her better
David MalpasMay 27, 2025
As I understand there is no other Christian denomination that teaches anything about the existence of a "Heavenly Mother". (As we know they have no idea of what the Godhead is like anyway, believing that the Father is some nebulous Spirit that floats around the Universe and the false doctrine of the "three-in-one Trinity"). And She is not openly mentioned in the Bible. I don't know if reference to Her has been removed in an earlier time, by "evil and designing men" but I do wonder this. We all know that the names of the Father and the Son are commonly used as swear words. Especially in that last few years, movies and "entertainment" are filled with profanity. I wonder if our Father, in His adoration, love and respect for Her, has kept Her mostly hidden from the world as He will not allow Her, or Her name, to be misused, sullied or disrespected in any way. He is protecting Her from those in this world who would misuse and abuse the very thought of Her, as they have with His name and that of the Savior. It makes sense to me that He would do this.
Warren AstonMay 27, 2025
Kimberly, thank you mentioning our Heavenly Mother in a public forum. That alone is much needed. When I first read your article, I felt the need to respond to many aspects of it; for example, that you don't see scriptural mentions of Her - She is all through Scripture, the Bible and the Book of Mormon in particular. She is there in sacred, especially Jewish, history. But in reading the comments, I see that almost all that I would have written is covered by others. So, I invite you to consider their offerings, and to expand your views include a MUCH broader awareness and understanding. You will then begin to see that while the Mother has indeed been minimized by the traditions of men, She has always been here helping us manage our journey through mortality. I believe that one day the final veil obscuring her will be removed and we will all discover that She has been involved in our mortality much more intimately and closely than we dreamed. A full and complimentary partnership with the Father. If She is the mother our spirits, how could it be otherwise?
Amanda Lynn BlairMay 27, 2025
I have reread your words and I appreciate them even more the second time. They make me think of the recent theological conversation about all power to act in Gods name being priesthood power that comes from the Father. But that has made me uncomfortable. I did not grow life and give birth through the power of the Father, I do not continue to create and connect through the power of the Father alone. She has her own power, and Her own voice and She is agentic. Saying so does not put Her at odds with the Father. Unity can only exist if there is l more than one in the first place. And I don’t mean this in some kind of complimentarianism. She is a whole sovereign being and He is a whole sovereign being and yet they are one. This is my belief. And it is also my belief that we can’t possibly do the work of building Zion without our Mother. She is not superfluous or replaceable in the here and now.
JocelynMay 27, 2025
There is so much of the Mother in scripture! While some publicly express a wish to know more, others quietly testify that they already do because they have asked, seeked, knocked and the veil has been parted for them. Such are given eyes to see Her in scripture and feel Her with every breath. For those still seeking here is some scriptural and archaeological evidence for the Mother.
https://youtu.be/qvCx7K200wQ?si=gT8BUwPoEVxU-XCf
Here are some of her names in scripture
https://youtu.be/qvCx7K200wQ?si=gT8BUwPoEVxU-XCf
And here are the patterns of her found in her daughters in scripture.
https://youtu.be/iMPo_E6NdU4?si=hrmI_x-LRfLzdErh
Truly, speculation is not necessary when revelation is so readily available! Blessings
Meg RittmanicMay 27, 2025
I appreciate the focus on our Heavenly Mother and the powerful truth you convey about Her speaking to our hearts and minds. Personal revelation and connection with Her in this way is indeed profoundly comforting. However, I do have to contend with the second sentence in this article which says “our Cannon says nothing”. My own extensive study has revealed that, far from being silent, She does indeed speak and is referenced through various names, metaphors, and personifications that require a deeper study of the original Hebrew linguistics of the Bible. In my studies, I have found over 2550 references to God the Mother in the Old Testament alone.
For instance, The name El Shaddai (אֵל שַׁדַּי), often translated as "God Almighty," is used frequently in blessings pertaining to fruitfulness and posterity, particularly in the blessings given to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob of which the author mentioned in the article. The etymology of Shaddai is linguistically significant in connection to a God with breasts, one that nurtures and nurses. Suggesting a divine aspect intimately connected to sustaining, nurturing, and providing abundance—qualities powerfully associated with the Divinely Feminine attributes of Heavenly Mother.
Furthermore, the very names of God in the Old Testament offer subtle yet profound allusions to the Divine Feminine, a nuance often lost in translation. Consider the foundational Hebrew names: El (אֵל), the singular masculine form of God, stands in sacred relationship with Eloah (אֱלוֹהַּ), the singular feminine form. Together, they form Elohim (אֱלֹהִים), a majestic plural often referring to both Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother working in perfect concert. Because scripture so frequently uses this plural form, implicitly encompassing both, we can safely embrace the understanding that our Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother function as a unified team, working tirelessly for the salvation of humankind. Often, the words attributed to "God" or "the Lord" in scripture are, in fact, the shared pronouncements of this divine partnership.
Yet, while they operate in perfect unity, they are undeniably distinct individuals, each with Their own voice and unique contributions to our eternal progress. Indeed, there are compelling instances where Eloah speaks for Herself. For example, a faithful translation of Proverbs 30:5 reads: "Every word of Eloah is pure; She is a shield to those who put their trust in Her." This direct address from the Divine Feminine powerfully demonstrates Her active voice and protective nature within the scriptural record. Therefore, continuing to perpetuate the idea that Heavenly Mother "never speaks" or "is never mentioned" in scripture, unfortunately, carries forward a historical tradition of misinformation rather than illuminating the profound truths that attentive study and reverence for the original text can reveal.
It's crucial to understand that the perception of scriptural "silence" on Heavenly Mother often stems from centuries of complex biblical translation processes. As texts moved from their original Hebrew into later Greek, Latin, and ultimately English versions, theological biases, patriarchal contexts of the time, and interpretive choices profoundly impacted the visibility of the Divine Feminine in the text. What were once explicitly feminine names or concepts were often deliberately obscured or converted into masculine forms, effectively erasing Her presence from common understanding. This historical obfuscation has created a pervasive, yet inaccurate, belief that the scriptures contain no mention of Her.
Julie HousleyMay 27, 2025
This is an excellent concept, when we love others we have the true blessing of more love then we could ever imagine coming back to us from others❤️so we don't need to worry so much about "self love!" We are taken care of in this regard.
Mel HendersonMay 27, 2025
I so appreciate that thoughtful writers like you are choosing to write about Heavenly Mother. I don't disagree with your thesis—Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother are, truly, NOT the same—but I believe you've arrived at it your thesis through a lens of very incomplete history and a lens that seems designed to reassure patriarchal insecurities (the idea that good women don't overstep by "seeking" her; they "let her be"...?)—instead of wholistic doctrines of being equally yoked.
I agree: If the Mother's presence were just a mirror of the Father's presence, she would be redundant. Unnecessary. I don't believe we should be "pasting" Her on top of Him.
HER presence is the missing piece. Her absence is half of the map tjat we need to be whole. She is the nourishment that we've been trying to survive without. I believe what the Mother brings is wholly aligned in love and purpose with the Father, but wholly DIFFERENT and wholly ESSENTIAL. Humanity is self-destructing without her.
Rachel PierceMay 27, 2025
Loved this perspective, it is definitely food for thought and brings up ideas I’ve never thought of before! I don’t know what the answers all are, but when things like this are brought up, it just reaffirms to me that my mortal understanding is so limited and their is an eternity of learning to do! Thank you Kimberly for your thoughts and research and putting your ideas out there!
Ashli CarnicelliMay 27, 2025
While I appreciate what you are trying to say and appreciate your thesis, have you read Joseph Smith’s First Vision that includes Heavenly Mother? Have you read the countless quotes from Prophets and Apostles and the Gospel Topics Essay that contains 30 footnotes with references to the scriptures and other prophetic teachings that speak of Her, Her role, and Her importance with clarity? Have you considered that any silence around Her is not of God?
Susan MorrisMay 27, 2025
Believing that mortal life is a shadow of immortal life, both premortal and post-mortal, I assume that the roles of men and woman have always been distinct and yet complementary and cooperative. If "the faithful elders of this dispensation, when they depart from mortal life, continue their labors in the preaching of the gospel of repentance and redemption (D&C 138:57), what do the faithful women do? I seems likely to me that they continue nurturing their family members as "guardian angels," if you will, which they probably also did in premortality. And that there are overlapping efforts in missionary work and family work there, as there also are here.
Amanda Lynn BlairMay 27, 2025
She is the tree, She is Wisdom, She is the Mother of all living, She is the woman searching for the lost coin. The scriptures are full of Her. She is present in the parting of the vail between this world and the world that came before (childbirth). Just because we haven’t noticed Her presence or recorded it (perhaps just like so little of the feminine experience of the Divine is recorded at all in scripture, it being a record mainly of the Fathers interactions with His sons) doesn’t mean She isn’t there. I value your reverence for Her here and your belief in Her existence as a sovereign being who is not the Father. And, I’ve had too many experiences and heard too many experiences from others to agree that She isn’t here and hasn’t been present for this mortal experience.
Laura CopeMay 27, 2025
I have had my own wrestle with the absence of our Mother in Heaven. I have learned for myself that she IS in the scriptures for those that have eyes to see. If you study the history of the Bible, she has largely been taken out in several ways. The overall tone of this article is poor and unhelpful as it perpetuates more of her silence (which is cultural and not doctrine!) Missing the mark, she is everywhere for those who have eyes to see. She and our Father point me to Christ and Christ leads me to Them (as they are side by side- according to the gospel topics essay on Mother in Heaven which has been declared doctrine by Elder Renlund) we should celebrate Her! We know much more than people realize!!!
McArthur KrishnaMay 27, 2025
There is much to celebrate in an article talking about our Heavenly Mother! This doctrine and reality give so much joy. As the author says, Eve is a great example and we honor her. Let’s honor Heavenly Mother too!
And, while I do not think Heavenly Mother is the same as the Father (which seems to be the main concern of the author), we DO know some about how They are. What doctrine we as a church know can be found in the Gospel Topics Essay according to Elder Renlund in General Conference. That essay explains how our heavenly parents are “side by side” and “working together” for the salvation of Their children. It talks about our Mother being involved and the eternal prototype for women. It’s glorious to embrace this!
I do, however, have a few points I differ with the author.
1. We actually don’t know if Heavenly Mother spoke and participated. We have what was recorded and mistranslated and edited— not always done with righteous motives.
2. Elohim in the Bible can refer to both Father and Mother. It doesn’t always— but it can.
3. There are many beautiful scriptures with female deity analogy such as a hen gathering her chicks.
4. A female god WAS worshipped until Josiah did a purge to centralize worship (and tax collecting) in one place. How might the scriptures be different if “plain and precious” truths weren’t lost?
All that said, we believe in personal revelation. There are many people who are having incredible experiences with their Mother— Cherish 1 and Cherish 2 are just small collections that highlight these. Isn’t it exciting to know our Mother loves us!
While we speak of Her with respect (just as we do with the Father and Son), leaving Her out altogether is not respect… just neglect.
David A Watson, DDSMay 27, 2025
I would respectively disagree. In Genesis 5:3 God created man in the likeness of God. Male and female created He them and called their name Adam. There are numerous times when Adam is mentioned, and it means both Adam and Eve. God has commanded us to become one, as He and Christ are one. Moses 7:18, 1 Cor. 1:10, John 17:20-23, and D&C 38:27. I believe that when God speaks, they both speak because have become one. We have been commanded to be one as couples in the Temple also. I think they are truly one and speak as one.
PeggyMay 27, 2025
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this! Thanks so much for sharing your insights so beautifully. I hope I can share and retain this soul-satisfying understanding. Also I love the book you co-authored!
HelenCMay 27, 2025
Beautifully said; thank you.
It reminds me of the saying I have long used:
“If you and I were exactly alike, one of us would be unnecessary.” This is particularly true of our God-given genders.
I am not a feminist, I am female. To me, “ist” is like “ite” in 3 Nephi. It is divisive. It is time for us to cease looking for divisions and also to stop trying to merge us all together as one, amorphous entity.
While there should be “no manner of ites among [us]”, we are each responsible for our own progression, whether male or female, with access to the sacred powers granted every one of us within that sacred division.
Jill LutzMay 27, 2025
Beautiful article my friend! I especially enjoyed the example of the mother conversing with her anxious son about going to camp. This was such an excellent way to illustrate the principle. I am going to utilize this as a grandmother as well as a wife and friend. Thank you for always enriching my life through your words and example.
Danver KengerMay 27, 2025
I don’t know all the details but this much makes sense to me that “All energy and matter in the universe is the mother, and all consciousness is the father. Both exist simultaneously and one cannot exist without the other. The mother exists within the father as the father also has flesh and bones. The mother doesn’t have to appear because she is already here in us and all the matter and energy everywhere.”
Phyllis Spotted WolfMay 27, 2025
Kimberly White: I thank you for the article and your words that you shared... I needed it today... It will be a re-read for me and I will share with family and friends.
She is mentioned in my patriarchal blessing. I sat at her knee as she gave me advice and told me to return home and tell her the wonderful experiences I had and how I gained my testimony.
Steve DoneganMay 27, 2025
Sis. Kimberly, My spirit is telling me I’ve waited a long time to hear your perspective. Thank you for putting into words what has been too distant for me to grasp. This is the reason I read, to have my perspective shaken then firmed.
KCMay 27, 2025
Thank you! That is exactly how I feel as well. If our Mother is omnipotent, she has the power to do what she must/wills--based on perfect eternal law. She cannot nor should not be debased by assuming she doesn't have the power to act on her own.
I believe Christ learned how to become one with the Father by exemplifying His Mother and Father's relationship as well. Part of His condescension then was to show us how to submit to Them because we are fallen, not how She submits to Him, because she is God.
When Christ was in complete harmony and unity with the Father, we can be assured He was also with His Mother as by nature Gods cannot be cross purposes.
I love how you said, "Eve, who speaks no word in the telestial scene. And yet in the garden, she is the driver of events. She does not seek unanimity. She simply chooses. She, as herself, is the mighty spirit who brought us all into this life of love and learning and joy and sorrow; it is she who opened the door for our Savior."
If we look to the temple as a guide as you so beautifully reminded us, Her testimony is also given in our realm at the end. For us, just because it isn't spoken or personified overtly to be canonized, doesn't mean we can't see or hear it if we look and listen closely to nature and prophets and angels among us.
Gloria HicksMay 26, 2025
What a wonderful example of faith and courage. He was a trailblazer through his obedience and willingness to follow promptings and obey the Prophet. He blesses so many lives What a legacy! God bless him for his integrity.
Gayla MarksMay 26, 2025
What a beautiful, instructive, and testimony-building story! Perfect not only for Veterans Day but for every day.
Donna PalmerMay 26, 2025
My son served a mission after his junior year at West Point. It served him well and he returned to graduate with honors. This was in the 80's so grateful for those who went before and set the precedent.
EricMay 23, 2025
The "I'm a Mormon" campaign was an attempt to meet people on their own level. President Monson and President Hinckley had backgrounds in publishing and public relations, so that approach made sense to them.
There's some merit to that, but there's more merit to owning our identity as the Church of Jesus Christ. There's also more merit in following the guidance of the living prophet than there is in using past prophets to justify ourselves.
I look forward to the time when calling a Latter-day Saint a Mormon will sound just as backwards and provincial as it does when Muslims are called Mohammedans.
JocelynMay 23, 2025
This is excellent advice. I wish I could be sure others would read it.
Gordon HensleyMay 22, 2025
Catholics, Baptists, Quakers, Presbyterians, Hindus, Muslims, Episcopalians, Jews, Lutherans, Spaniards, Americans, Chinese, Christian. As humans, particularly in the western linguistic tradition, we naturally gravitate toward simple one or two word labels when referring to individuals or groups. It is not something we do maliciously. "Hobbit People" or "Persons of Magnetism" doesn't easily roll off the tongue of the casual speaker. Then there is the reason we don't always use the long form term "The Holy Priesthood After the Order of the Son of God." So here we are. The other leaders weren't wrong. It's just that now we choose to emphasize to the world that we are, in fact, Christians, or Members of the body of Christ.
Rochelle HaleMay 22, 2025
I love using the full name of the Church. Yes, it did take some getting used to. Many of our friends and relatives still refer to us as "Mormon," and we insert the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints into the conversation as we are able. Often in our "Come, Follow Me" study group, we might use "Mormon" as we study the history of the church. Some people, although now recognizing us as Christians, will never refer to us using the correct name of the Church. A dear cousin, now deceased, moved to Hawaii several years ago and worked with several members. Often, though we corrected her several times, in our conversations, she would refer to the Mor-MANS. We need to remind ourselves that the Lord's doctrine never changes, though programs and procedures might. One Prophet's instructions may have been totally appropriate for the time, but we need to follow our current Prophet.
Jim WMay 22, 2025
3 Nephi 28:8 sums up the whole issue nicely. Are we Mormon’s Church, or are we Jesus Christ’s Church? Whether past prophets were ok with the term Mormon or not does not matter. Our current prophet has determined that we should use the correct name for the Church no matter what was done in the past. The restoration is ongoing and not static.
Carol AnnMay 21, 2025
Wise advice—always! I’ve followed you for years!
JamilMay 21, 2025
Thank you, Tanya.
I’ve heard so much about your writings, but this is the first time I’ve had the chance to read a full article,and it was truly inspiring.
Growing up, I often questioned what I was taught: that there are no more prophets. I remember telling a friend once, “We need a prophet to guide us through the challenges of life.”Little did I know at the time that there was a living prophet on the earth. Years later, I not only came to know that truth, but I was blessed to learn from their teachings and from the missionaries who helped me along the way. I even had the privilege of meeting three of them.
JamilMay 21, 2025
Thank you, Tanya.
I have heard so much about your writings, but this is the first time I have had the chance to read a full article, and it was amazing.
Growing up, I always questioned what I was taught: that there are no more prophets. I remember once telling a friend, “We need a prophet to guide us through the challenges of life.” I am so THANKFUL for our Prophets
Little did I know at the time that there was a living prophet on the earth. Years later, I was blessed to learn from their teachings and from the missionaries. I also had the opportunity to meet three of them.
Dallin LukasMay 21, 2025
Why did the church embrace the name "mormon" in the early 2010s??? I handed out tens of thousands of cards with "I am a mormon" on them. Are we going to just pretend that never happened?
Kent LarsomMay 21, 2025
I suggest you read President Hinckley's October 1990 talk on the use of the word Mormon. He said it is fine to use that word.
Tracy TippettsMay 21, 2025
I am a personal witness of the power and protection of wearing the sacred and holy Temple garment. April, 1989 I had a life-threatening motorcycle accident, that broke both bones in my right leg into 33 separate pieces. My right foot was completely severed from the ankle.
When my Bishop visited me in the hospital, he was the first to notice that all the injuries were below the hem of my garment! The vital organs that were covered by the garment were not hurt or damaged.
Later, while recovering from a six hour surgery, I was given a one liter bag of morphine to tolerate the pain. The man in the other bed used the entire bag. When the nurse came to check in the morning, she was shocked to discover I had not used one drop of morphine!
That was 36 years ago, and I have had a complete recovery, and been restored to full health.
ColinMay 21, 2025
Hear, hear! I’m always disappointed when I hear gospel discussions tainted by pop psychology, like the claim that the Savior was somehow commanding us to love ourselves. This article helps to redress the balance.
We could also mention that when He illustrated the first and great commandment with the parable of the Good Samaritan, he told a story in which the hero (the Samaritan) takes no thought for himself, not for a second.
Ralph W. GalliniMay 21, 2025
I joined the Church in 1968. I have never referred to myself as a Mormon. I would always say I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I also never used the word Mormonism to describe the Gospel. It is the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I love the Book of Mormon and greatly respect the prophet Mormon. He would never want the Church to be called by his name. Thanks to President Nelson for telling us to use the correct name of the Church.
DumaMay 21, 2025
When the Church had the campaign "I'm a Mormon," the instruction was to say "I'm a father, a [whatever], a [whatever, and I'm a Mormon." I guess the "I'm a Mormon" phrase didn't sit right with me even before President Nelson's talk, so I opted to say "I'm a disciple of Jesus Christ" instead.
I cringe a little when I hear the term "Mormonism" when referring to the gospel of Jesus Christ, even when it's used in historical quotes. I'm glad we've gotten away from both of those terms.
Lon ChildMay 21, 2025
Joseph Smith’s stance on the nickname “Mormon” was pragmatic and ultimately positive. While the term originated as a pejorative label from outsiders referencing the Book of Mormon, Smith did not express offense at its use. Instead, he sought to redefine the term in a positive light. In 1843, he famously stated that “Mormon” means “more good,” presenting the nickname as honorable and even desirable, though this etymology is not linguistically accurate. Smith’s attitude reflected a willingness to embrace the label and turn it into an asset for the church’s identity and influence.
He was not ashamed of the nickname and encouraged members to focus on its positive connotations. Smith’s approach was to accept the reality of the nickname’s widespread use and to reinterpret it constructively, rather than reject or condemn it
K BurtMay 21, 2025
I found this article interesting. I have seen some people isolating and discarding relationships in the name of self-love. The problem certainly comes from a lack of understanding what is truly loving to the self. As children of God we seek unity with others and contribution. If we don’t, it’s because those desires are blocked by deep fear of others. Though it looks contrary to the gospel’s mandate to serve others, I have seen that retreating to the safety of self-care AND connection to God can provide a cocoon of healing from which we emerge to serve again in higher ways without doing it to gain others’ approval.
John DeightonMay 21, 2025
Completely agree, I never liked the term "mormon" as a nickname, it never sat comfortably with me and indeed when the Church (under President Monson) started the whole "I'm a Mormon" media campaign and "Mormon Messages" I was agasp, had to be some corporate marketing team thought that would be a good idea, not! So pleased President Nelson corrected all of this in 2018.
Glen S. HopkinsonMay 20, 2025
On a battle field where hundreds of thousands of people were slaughtered it would quickly become unbearable and one would not want to linger. Knowing he was the last man and that he was hunted I maintain he would take the records his father gave him and leave getting as far away from the carnage and those who would kill him as he could. That is just one of the many reasons that the Heartland Theory does not resonate with me .
EvanMay 20, 2025
Can I attend the marriage retreat as a single or bring a date? I'd love to learn more from you in preparing for a great marriage!
Vance RoperMay 20, 2025
Thanks for your wonderful article. I am proud to have you as our first Bishop in Vernal 2nd Ward back in 1983. Vance Roper.
Dallas, Texas.
BethMay 19, 2025
Thank you!!! Sooooo much!
Grateful for our living Prophet & the Lord’s counsel he proclaims.
Cynthia Pincock SpencerMay 19, 2025
Great insights, well stated!
thank you Tanya for your thoughtful article. I too feel tremendous gratitude for the Prophet's warning counsel and the other messages of the general conference sessions.
SusanMay 19, 2025
Both pictures are probably fake.
Linda K. SpoonerMay 18, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful talk. I lived in Israel for 2 years and I loved it. I wish I could return. I understand what you are saying about the olive and our Lord Jesus Christ. Do you go to the Center in Jerusalem when you are in country? I was there in 1988 so I guess you were a small boy at that time. I'm sorry all I meant to do was thank you for this beautiful memory. Thank you for sharing it with us. Linda
Dan BradshawMay 18, 2025
Have you considered the Mexican Highland model? https://gatheredin.one/13279/book-of-mormon-geography-mexican-highland-model-summary/
Corey D.May 18, 2025
Thanks for that. Was just a little discouraged this morning for a number of reasons, mostly thinking about family and ward members struggling spiritually and in other ways, seems like so many are.
KathleenMay 17, 2025
Thank you for all of these reminders.
Ken WrightMay 17, 2025
I've read all of these 12 messages. They are deep and at my advanced age some do not apply to me personally. Number twelve gives great information on things that will impact all of us in the near future -- some things good, some things not good. Thank you, Craig Petersen, for the time you have taken to provide these insights to all of us.
Craig PMay 17, 2025
The real person is on the left
Laura LeeMay 17, 2025
This article is a reminder to me of why I need to be firmly rooted to help the uprising generation stand on a solid foundation. The whirlwinds are here!
Dr. Craig FrogleyMay 16, 2025
Better than excellent!
Corey D.May 16, 2025
This is about the 4th or 5th article in Meridian in the last 9-12 months that is about or mentions garments and the wearing of garments, I personally wonder if these articles and certainly they are all good articles but I wonder if the authors of the articles are like me and others who have noticed whats happening, particularly among the younger generations in regards to the wearing of garments or have been told or seen these website's and blogs that are telling members that it's up to them to decide when and where and how to wear their garments among other things. Maybe it's time that we just be direct and someone write an article pointing out that what is going on is not inspiration, is not doctrinally based, is not in either the spirit or the letter of the law so to speak and is leading folks away from truth and members are putting themselves in precarious danger spiritually.
Noelle McKinneyMay 16, 2025
I’m a “visitor” of the church for over two years and the wife of a dedicated LDS man, from the north east. I grew up non secular but have studied many faiths and genuinely enjoy going to church every Sunday. I haven’t been baptized yet but the unifying love of Jesus in my church keeps me grounded and wanting to come back. I’ve made meaningful friendships with other mothers and women, and look forward to relief society meetings. Watching this show was utterly shocking, not one single woman in my ward is even remotely represented by this show. It’s like opposite worlds. I’ve had so many meaningful conversations, not a single one ever involved going out, sex, partying, or drinking. They don’t even drink coffee let alone wine. They are conservative, but not stifled. I think this show is spinning a narrative that to be a modern Mormon is to be absolutely raunchy and depressed! The women I know are so fundamentally just happy, flourishing in their communities and putting as much positivity into the world as they take. As conservative as they are they do not judge me for not dropping coffee, for having wine, for getting pregnant outside of marriage…. And we still share stories and laugh and have wonderful gatherings. To be a modern Mormon woman to me, means to be accepting of people who are different, love thy neighbor, and nourish those closest to you… It doesn’t mean accepting a lifestyle of complete debauchery and putting having fun, your looks, and gossip over the well being of your own family. I’m in disbelief!!
Rochelle HaleMay 16, 2025
Thank you for this wonderful article on the sacred temple garments and why we should be wearing them. I have seen several non-church videos recently describing the “new” styles of garments (created primarily for extremely warm climates) that emphasize, especially for women, all the fashions that couldn’t be previously worn. We need to remember and also teach those preparing to go to the temple the importance of our covenants and the blessings we receive through wearing temple garments.
Sister Kerry FarrMay 16, 2025
I am a 77 year old sister missionary who has been a member all my life. I loved reading this profound, well written article. Honestly one of the best I’ve ever read. Thank you❣️
ChrisMay 16, 2025
Thank you!
Hilary G. DerbyMay 16, 2025
Thank you for this truly wonderful article! I have worn and have been protected by my garments over 35 years and urge others to consider donning their protection daily! I am 82years of age.
Ellen SorensenMay 15, 2025
Loved this testimony of the guidance that God gives us if we listen!
KathleenMay 14, 2025
Preparing for an upcoming move, this makes me want to ponder more about what I'm putting in boxes!
KathleenMay 14, 2025
Great analogy.
Rosalie M. PiersonMay 14, 2025
Thanks for a joyful memory for Mother's Day! I laughed at all the places you meant to be funny for her! We look forward to your humorous spin on your experiences. Happy writing!
Susan MorrisMay 14, 2025
It makes sense to me that there were/are two Hill Cumorahs (much like England and New England, York and New York, etc.). The original cache of records Mormon refers to (as quoted in the article) would then be in Mesoamerica, and the "New Cumorah" would be in Palmyra, New York, where Moroni buried the gold plates (and other objects) he carried with him until near the time of his death.
KateMay 14, 2025
So which picture of the reporter was the real one?
Jan MorganMay 13, 2025
I am in my early seventies now and experienced everything this article is talking about. I have had to learn that joy for me comes through my faithfulness in living up to my testimony and the promises I made in the temple. LDS singles are uniquely able to say they live for the future. So much of what the Lord has promised to His children will not happen to us in this lifetime. Contentment replaces a lot of negative emotions. Happiness can be fleeting. But joy truly is in the gospel of Jesus Christ. And learning to love oneself in spaces of aloneness really helps.
EveMay 13, 2025
That was very uplifting! Thank you!
April MoodyMay 13, 2025
Excellent article. You are spot on in your counsel and advice. Thank you!
LewisMay 12, 2025
What extraordinary stories! Sometimes I wonder if all these incredible things happen to you because Heavenly Father knows that you have a gift of taking them and making them into lessons for the rest of us. I feel so privileged to be able to read, learn and be inspired to do better. And I too am grateful for the mothers in my life.
Jeanette goates smithMay 12, 2025
The Dominican Republic is a really special place. We served as mision leaders there as well and saw similar miracles because of the faith of the people
GaleMay 12, 2025
I loved reading this! Our family moved from Utah to Jerusalem in 1983 and stayed for 8 years. Our Palestinian friends taught us much and fed us well, completely changing how we would choose and prepare food into the future. We planted an olive tree in our yard, and I really did try to process the olives so they would taste good. I didn't succeed, but I learned a lot and grew to love olive trees, their importance, and their symbolism.
NoelleMay 12, 2025
What a wonderful article! I feel this so deeply and you put it into words. Making the world a better place starts at home. Motherhood is a great power for good.
HelenCMay 12, 2025
Apparently, mothers don’t choose to work at the U.N.
When I had to work while my children were young I chose a swing shift so one of us was always there.
The sniggering the author experienced sickens me.
Rich BowermanMay 12, 2025
Thank you Sister Douglas, for sharing two amazing stories/parables of the Lord's involvement in all our lives as seen through your eyes.
CynthiaMay 12, 2025
I am crying tears of gratitude and joy for these beautiful parables! Thank you for your remarkable story telling and for sharing such inspiring stories about mothers.
Becky BeardenMay 12, 2025
Becky, this is such a touching and inspiring story! I have been blessed in my life to know you and see your compassion and hear about your experiences, both hard and filled with your testimony of the Savior and his awareness of each of us and the great love he has for all of his children. Thank you for sharing this beautiful example!
Traci WalkerMay 12, 2025
Remarkable mother, remarkable son! Thanks Scot, this ministering to the one is truly the Savior's way!
Val JonesMay 11, 2025
Profound. May god bless you as you bless others.
Andrew joyMay 11, 2025
The olive harvest in the Land of Israel is not merely a seasonal agricultural routine; it is a sacred remnant of divine patterns established by the God of Israel in ancient times. It connects the people of the covenant to their land, their scriptures, their prophetic identity, and their foreordained role in world history. For Jews and Latter-day Saints alike, the Land of Israel is not simply a backdrop for symbolic religious narratives—it is the epicenter of sacred history, covenantal obligation, and eschatological destiny. The cycles of sowing, reaping, and pressing olives in the Land of Israel are not incidental to faith; they are constitutive of it. The harvest, including the olive harvest, is a divine ordinance rooted in Torah law, echoed in the prophetic writings, and celebrated in the Psalms. This sacred labor is also infused with latter-day meaning, for the harvest is also a symbol of gathering—the gathering of Israel, the gathering of families, and the gathering of hearts to the covenants of the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
In ancient times, the olive tree was ubiquitous throughout the Land of Israel. Scripture identifies it as one of the “seven species” that defined the fertility and covenantal blessings of the land: “a land of wheat, and barley, and vines, and fig trees, and pomegranates; a land of oil olive, and honey” (Deuteronomy 8:8). The olive tree’s significance was not only economic but deeply spiritual. It was a sign of divine favor and a symbol of peace, as when the dove returned to Noah with an olive leaf in its beak (Genesis 8:11). It was the source of the anointing oil used for kings and priests, and its oil fueled the golden menorah in the Temple in Jerusalem (Exodus 27:20–21). In the Land of Israel, the olive harvest was sanctified by law and custom. The Torah commanded that during harvest, a portion must be left for the poor and the stranger: “When thou beatest thine olive tree, thou shalt not go over the boughs again: it shall be for the stranger, for the fatherless, and for the widow” (Deuteronomy 24:20). This commandment preserved the dignity of the poor and reminded Israel of their own status as strangers in Egypt. Even in this, the olive harvest in the Land of Israel was a vehicle of divine justice and social order.
The symbolism of the olive tree was not lost on the prophets. Jeremiah referred to Israel as a “green olive tree, fair, and of goodly fruit” (Jeremiah 11:16). Hosea used the olive tree to symbolize the restoration of Israel’s beauty and strength (Hosea 14:6). In Zechariah’s apocalyptic visions, two olive trees stand beside the menorah, representing the “two anointed ones” who stand by the Lord (Zechariah 4:3, 14). Thus, in the prophetic worldview, the olive tree was a living metaphor for Israel’s covenantal role in the world. The fruit, the oil, and the tree itself all bore witness to Israel’s divine mission and election. And this olive tree could only grow, thrive, and produce when rooted in the Land of Israel, the land chosen by God and consecrated for divine purposes.
The New Testament also affirms the olive tree as a symbol of covenant and restoration. The Apostle Paul, writing in Romans 11, speaks of the “natural olive tree” as Israel and of Gentiles as wild branches grafted into it. He warns the Gentiles not to boast against the branches, for they “bear not the root, but the root thee” (Romans 11:18). This metaphor is only meaningful in the context of a people deeply tied to a land—the Land of Israel—where the original olive tree grew and flourished. The olive tree is not a free-floating symbol; it is grounded in the soil of the Promised Land. The Land of Israel is not incidental to these covenants; it is integral.
Latter-day Saints will also recognize the olive tree as central to their own revealed scripture. In the Book of Mormon, the prophet Zenos’s allegory of the tame and wild olive trees (Jacob 5) is a sweeping prophecy of Israel’s scattering and gathering. It begins with a master of the vineyard who seeks to preserve his olive trees, and it follows the fate of various branches—some wild, some grafted, some burned. The entire allegory presumes a sacred geography, with the “mother tree” symbolizing the house of Israel in its covenantal homeland, the Land of Israel. The branches represent the various diasporas and gathering efforts throughout the world. The Lord of the vineyard is active, not passive. He digs, nourishes, prunes, and grafts, all in hope of preserving good fruit. And in the final chapter, the Lord returns to the vineyard and labors alongside his servants to gather the good fruit and burn the bad. This allegory—stretching across the whole of sacred history—presupposes the centrality of the Land of Israel.
In modern revelation, the olive tree continues to bear symbolic weight. In Doctrine and Covenants 101:44–62, the Lord gives a parable of the redemption of Zion using the imagery of a vineyard with olive trees. The vineyard is let go, the watchmen are negligent, and the enemy breaks down the hedge and destroys the olive trees. But the Lord of the vineyard promises to redeem his land and reestablish his people. The parallels with the scattering and gathering of Israel are unmistakable. The olive tree, again, is the house of Israel, and the Land of Israel is the holy soil from which that tree must grow.
The harvest itself, particularly the olive harvest, is bound up with divine timing. In the Torah, the festivals of the year were coordinated with the agricultural cycle in the Land of Israel. Passover occurred during the barley harvest, Pentecost during the wheat harvest, and Sukkot during the fruit harvest, which included olives. These harvests were not only agrarian events; they were appointments with God, “moedim,” sacred times of covenantal renewal. In Leviticus 23, the Lord commanded Israel to celebrate these festivals in the Land of Israel as perpetual statutes. The olive harvest was part of Sukkot, the Feast of Ingathering (Exodus 23:16), a time when all Israel rejoiced before the Lord for the bounty of the land. Even today, the traditional Jewish liturgy during Sukkot includes prayers for rain and agricultural blessing upon the Land of Israel.
Modern Israel continues this sacred rhythm. Jewish families, religious Zionist communities, and even secular kibbutzim gather each autumn to harvest olives. These olives become the oil used in homes, synagogues, and Hanukkah menorahs. For many, this is more than tradition—it is a form of prophetic participation. Each olive tree, each branch, and each bottle of oil is a testimony that the Jewish people have returned to their land, and the covenant is being fulfilled. The harvest in the Land of Israel is not an isolated cultural anecdote—it is the heartbeat of redemption.
The Mount of Olives itself is a prophetic site of supreme importance. It is the place where Jesus wept over Jerusalem, where he prayed and bled in Gethsemane, and where he ascended to heaven. According to Zechariah 14:4, it is also where he will return. The olive trees that grow on that mount are witnesses of the past and the future. The oil pressed in Gethsemane was symbolic of the Atonement—just as olives are crushed to bring forth oil, so the Savior was crushed to bring forth redemption. That crushing, that sacred act, took place in the Land of Israel.
Latter-day Saints are commanded to assist in the gathering of Israel. This is not only a metaphorical mission. It includes a literal recognition of the Jewish people’s divinely appointed role in returning to the Land of Israel. As Elder Jeffrey R. Holland once stated, “We believe in the literal gathering of Israel and the restoration of the Ten Tribes; that Zion… will be built upon the American continent, but that Jerusalem [in the Land of Israel] will also be rebuilt” (Articles of Faith 10). The restoration of olive trees, vineyards, and farms in the Land of Israel is not a secular miracle—it is a prophetic sign.
Thus, when a Latter-day Saint of Arab descent speaks movingly of olive harvests, that cultural memory must be situated in a larger theological and historical context. The Land of Israel is not merely “home” in a nostalgic sense. It is the land chosen by God for His purposes. The olive trees of the Land of Israel do not belong to modern political categories or rebranding efforts—they belong to the covenants of God. While many Arab Christians or Muslims may also have agricultural roots in the land, the divine designation of the Land of Israel belongs to the descendants of Jacob. The Torah does not speak of “Palestine”; it speaks of the Land of Israel. The prophets did not weep over “Palestine”; they wept for Zion and Jerusalem. Jesus did not suffer in “Palestine”; he suffered and died in the Land of Israel.
The word “Palestine” is a Roman and later British colonial term, imposed by empires to erase Jewish sovereignty. It was used by Hadrian after the Bar Kokhba revolt to sever Jewish identity from the land. That term has been perpetuated in modern times to delegitimize the Jewish people’s right to their ancient homeland. But Latter-day Saints should be especially cautious in adopting that terminology, for we believe in prophecy, restoration, and the covenantal destiny of the house of Israel. We believe that the return of Jews to the Land of Israel fulfills Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, and Zechariah. We believe that the olive trees in the Land of Israel are signs of life, of hope, of divine favor.
The olive harvest, then, is not a neutral cultural practice. It is a sacred act embedded in the sacred geography of the Land of Israel. Latter-day Saints should affirm that the olive trees, the land, the harvests, and the covenants belong to the divine pattern established by God Himself. When we speak of the land, let us use the language of scripture. Let us say “the Land of Israel,” not “Palestine.” Let us honor the God of Israel by honoring the land He chose, the people He covenanted with, and the future He has revealed through ancient and modern prophets. The olive harvest is a testimony of that divine pattern. And there is no Palestine—it is the Land of Israel.
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Footnotes
1. Deuteronomy 8:8.
2. Exodus 27:20–21.
3. Genesis 8:11.
4. Deuteronomy 24:20.
5. Jeremiah 11:16; Hosea 14:6; Zechariah 4:3, 14.
6. Romans 11:17–24.
7. Jacob 5, Book of Mormon.
8. Doctrine and Covenants 101:44–62.
9. Leviticus 23; Exodus 23:16.
10. Zechariah 14:4.
11. Articles of Faith 10; Jeffrey R. Holland, “Israel, Israel, God Is Calling.”
Adam LeeMay 11, 2025
Thank you so much for this information. It gives so much added clarity to a subject so often viewed as incomprehensible. I felt a strong spiritual confirmation upon reading and digesting these words. I’m grateful to have been given the ability to read this account.
JillMay 11, 2025
How lovely! Poor Hallie Berry was quite overcome. Yes, mothers are the most important influencers, comforters, and confidants any child can have. That's why they are much loved.
MaryannMay 10, 2025
I absolutely agree with this article. We don't HAVE to share. We GET to share! Everything we have is a gift from the Lord. Everything we have is consecrated to Him and His purposes. When we prepare for emergencies, we can consider our resources as The Lord's emergency supplies. Having said this, I can't help but think of the tale of The Little Red Hen. We ALL need to take responsibility for gathering essentials we will need when emergencies arise. We should never be negligent because we think someone else will take care of us. This requires sacrifice, obedience, and faith.
CarolMay 10, 2025
This is an excellent article. Thank you. There are some things we CANNOT share, like oil for our lamps, but most certainly things we CAN, like those mentioned here. What would Jesus do?
StewartMay 10, 2025
While this information gives us knowledge concerning thoughts and beliefs at the time, the Brother Jared received the stones. It is interesting to me that the Lord gave the real answer and that is for interpretation.
MickeyMay 9, 2025
This dad is not safe for this child. It’s that simple.
Janet SMay 9, 2025
Very touching.
Al;vin RencherMay 9, 2025
Scott,
My wife and I were on the same shift at the Provo temple as your mother (and her husband). I soon found out she was your mother, and we talked often about the work you and Maurine were doing with Meridian. She was very proud of you.
Garry WilmoreMay 9, 2025
One of the best articles I have ever read on this site, which is saying a whole lot. I loved it!
SarahMay 9, 2025
Maybe look at tapping/EFT to get those thoughts unstuck from inside you. Sounds like you are in a freeze state, you want them to move on. Brad Yates on you tube is good, you just follow along and you find out the real reason you are obsessing about him being with 17 yr olds, while you are nearing 40 etc there may be other issues to deal with and tapping bubbles them to the surface!!
Cecile (James-Scribner) ThompsonMay 9, 2025
My mother, Lucie James, and your mother were close friends - even though my mother was at least 20 years older than yours. As a result, I had the "opportunity" of baby-sitting you boys often, and yes, I've changed your diapers many times! Martha and Paul influenced all the James Family, and we several times went on vacation together. She influenced me many times in many ways as I grew up. And now I've followed her example of marrying again at an older age after losing my husband. If Martha could find happiness doing that, then I knew it was okay for me to do and to find happiness! We James girls all love your mother almost as much as we love our own!
H. Wallace GoddardMay 9, 2025
What a beautiful tribute to your mother, Scot! We feel a real love for her and are grateful that we know her son who has learned so much from her! Love and blessings! Wally
LDeFriezMay 9, 2025
My inactive and antagonist cousin complained about the Cedar City, UT temple being built close to his home. I told him to move -- but to wait until after it was built to put his home up for sale because property values would be significantly increased and the area much more desirable. He quit complaining.
SBMay 9, 2025
Another thing that may help is to understand the circumstances of the previous actions of the husband. He was a teenager with raging hormones, it was popular to compete with other boys to conquer the most girls, and teen boys thrived on peer recognition and bragging rights. Sleeping around was more of a contest than anything - and involved no feelings of love, respect or commitment. Eventually teens mature, develop some self respect, become more responsible, and are able to move on to love, marriage and family. The teenaged romps are far past, long forgotten, and usually an embarrassment. Also, it may be that the guy got his lustful phase out of the way in the past, resolved all his curiosities about the opposinte sex, learned some hard lessons, and won't be tempted to do it again in the future - especially in a marriage - which is a good thing!
KathleenMay 8, 2025
BeeUtiFul - I could picture everything you described!
Elder Carl SpjuteMay 8, 2025
Stephen Lloyd Neal has created a piece that sits in the Kanesville Memorial Site in Council Bluffs, Nebraska. It is so poignant in how it captures the young family surrendering their father to the batallion in response to Brigham Young's call to serve. (We are senior missionaries here). So thankful for your talent.
Lynette C JonesMay 8, 2025
Please add the following closing statement to my comments.
Understanding the three different Law Systems as they function in each family is key to creating a firm and safe foundation for the family in society.
Lynette Collier JonesMay 8, 2025
When the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints first transitioned from holding two Sunday meetings for the entire family and weekday Primary to two Sunday meetings for the whole family and weekday Primary specifically for young children, I had deep concerns. This new structure left little time to invest in educating and training the younger children of Primary age.
As I reflected on the impact of this new approach, which centers our focus on Jesus Christ, I began to see how it could positively shift the culture of the Latter-day Saints in a valuable direction.
In Utah, a unique culture exists that isn’t found anywhere else. The high concentration of Latter-day Saints means many individuals lack significant opportunities to serve. For over a century, much anxiety and stress were masked by complete engagement in service, leading to considerable peer-driven pressure to participate in activities that influenced every aspect of life.
Much of this peer-driven culture developed from the cooperative efforts necessary for survival in a harsh wilderness that was once a lakebed, lacking the normal vegetation and atmospheric development seen in most other parts of the world throughout history.
Now that the Latter-day Saints have become an international organization, the cultural differences in social norms, family structures, and career expectations have become increasingly cosmopolitan.
In recent years, I have come to appreciate the shift from multiple weekly meetings to a single main meeting on the Sabbath with a concentrated focus on the Savior. This change has enabled many to develop their talents both within their families and in their communities.
We are beginning to find a central point, a focus that can unite the diverse nature of a cosmopolitan Zion. To be of one heart and mind, we must move away from our cultural expectations surrounding family, career, and social structure. To become Zion, we must center our focus on being united in Jesus Christ.
Geography shapes our cultures and governments just as much as our choices do. We need to recognize that the North American drive to accomplish tasks and achieve final goals must be balanced with two other approaches found in different nations.
A different approach is exemplified by Europe, where the focus is on ensuring that whatever is done enhances the value of the individual and the interests of the nation. Here, the presentation of worth takes precedence over simply completing tasks.
Asian nations represent the third approach to life. Their focus is on executing tasks effectively and in the best possible manner, given the available resources and individuals involved. For them, the best way is valued above presentation or completion.
By combining these three approaches to law and creation into one heart and mind centered on Jesus Christ, we can create the unity of Zion. This unity allows the unique creativity and individuality of each person, family, and society to blossom and thrive
Andre J MostertMay 8, 2025
A beautiful story by an inspired writer.
TanyaMay 8, 2025
Beautiful article!
Craig PetersenMay 8, 2025
Several comments asked where they could find the rest of the articles. If you click on my name underneath the title, you will see the first 10 and also other articles that I have written for Meridian.
And yes, I would like to publish them in a book if I can find an interested publisher.
Thank you for your interest. One more still to be published. It’s on the opportunities and dangers of artificial intelligence.
Laurel JorgensenMay 8, 2025
Thank you for this article. You made some points and brought insights that I had not picked up on before. As I have read and re-read your article, I realize that I need to make some changes in my thinking about the disparity of circumstances we find ourselves in here on earth and my responsibility with respect to those disparities.
Again, thank you.
Bob WoodburyMay 8, 2025
It seems forgotten in this is the earlier mediation in which the Fairview mayor and city council agreed to the design changes the Church proposed and shook hands on it. I’m guessing that afterwards, the city leaders took flak from some residents and in an attempt to deflect their part in the mediation agreement threw the Church under the bus. The final vote of approval was an acknowledgment that a court case wouldn’t hold up in view of their earlier agreement with the Church. It appears their late opposition was to save face and not accept responsibility.
The Kingdom goes forward in spite of ever present opposition.
KCMay 8, 2025
Hey, while I appreciate the message as a whole, the "gospel hobby" example might be an exception.
Only 4% of the Church participates in family history--yes, ask the FamilySearch people, RootsTech 2024 is where we get those #s. So you could call them hobbyists--since it's such a tiny tiny minority.
That means 4% must do 100% of the work. If you split the gathering on both sides of the veil in half (missionary vs temple/family history) and half again (one half family history & one half temple work) that's still 4% doing 100% of the work necessary for the other half to do anything in the temple, if each half is its own hobby.
Consider this, the church spends an ungodly amount of money trying to get the 96% to do anything. They make it app based, gaming style, and try to get the latest tech to make it easier for the US & northern hemisphere so they will get on board.
However, the southern hemisphere members & non-members alike are clamoring for any and all records they can get! They are desperate for more.
Maybe the lostlings in the southern hemisphere aren't so lost.
Darla GaylorMay 8, 2025
I'm a Ft. Worthian & am old enough to remember the protesting and hullabaloo surrounding the building of the Dallas temple- and the attempt a group of "good" people in my small town (NW of Ft. Worth) made at showing the God Makers in our high school auditorium. They nearly succeeded with that last thing, until our parents got wind of it and had a discussion with the school board. The viewing was moved into a couple of local churches, where they could talk about our awful "cult" on private property.
In Houston, we have very few zoning ordinances. While it makes for some interesting neighborhoods, it also allows for some large spires, crosses, and mega churches- some of which require off duty police officers to direct traffic for every single weekend. Saw the same thing in Nashville when we lived there. Can't recall a single instance (other than an open house?) where those issues occur for a temple.
I would love to think we are progressing as human beings, but too much evidence is in full view to tell me we aren't that far removed from Salem.
BethMay 8, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you!
Note: Several grammatical errors.
AnonymousMay 8, 2025
I'm assuming you are using "stuck" as in "stuck in a rut" and not "stuck" as in "stuck in this marriage/relationship", to be perfectly honest when I saw the article title, I thought if there is one word that describes how I feel about my marriage at the moment, stuck would be it. Pretty sure I'm not alone in that sentiment. Society's answer to that is of course divorce, even among many in the church that's the answer. The prevailing societal thought/philosophy is, well you need to be personally happy and if you are not, get out. I'm not necessarily unhappy, certainly not has happy as I might be but I made a commitment and I want to be an example of commitment to my children and especially my grandchildren. Some, if not many may disagree with that but that's how it is right now.
LindaMay 7, 2025
Thank you for this article! I agree 100% with you but there are some members of my ward who think I am crazy and say they would never share their supplies. I will be an Ebenezer!
DeAnna DeBryMay 7, 2025
How do I find all of these articles? Has the author written a book, or a pamphlet?
Gary C JohnsonMay 7, 2025
Though I'm not conversant with the current criteria utilized to ascertain where our temples are built, it has always been my understanding that the Church does not propose temples where they won't be used. It seems that temples are located where they are both needed by local members and to anticipate future growth in their numbers.
I suspect that the Church is, by now, sufficiently well-schooled enough to anticipate resistance to any construction project they propose. They may even have at the ready, alternative designs that address potential local concerns. Thank goodness, the Constitution protects both the aggressor and the aggrieved.
Maryann TaylorMay 7, 2025
The important thing to me is that the Lord's work will continue to go forth, despite opposition. Temples will continue to be constructed and Zion will be built on both sides of the veil. As we are promised in the D&C 3:1, "The works, and the designs, and the purposes of God cannot be frustrated, neither can they come to naught." We can trust our Prophets and Apostles to be led by the Spirit in dealing with the opposition. Our responsibility is to avoid contention and to continue in temple work.
JanMay 7, 2025
Many LDS counselors seem to be adverse to acknowledging a Cluster B Personality Disorder is in the works. They seem to see it as "labeling" instead of the dangerous situation it can be for the spouse and children.
Covert narcissism is real, but the APA hasn't studied it. It is not in the diagnostic manual. Having been married to a Covert Narcissist myself, I know that they always look like the victim, even while they are doing the victimizing. They are master manipulators who take no responsibility for their own behavior.
BayMay 7, 2025
I kept wondering when you were going to mention Elon Musk, the world's richest person and possibly the best-known transhumanist, but you never did.
Musk's dozen children across 3 women, his well-publicized invitations for women he's never met to bear him children, and his company Neuralink that seeks to implant a brain-computer interface, his naming of a son "Techno Mechanicus" — all of these are evidence of an unbalanced mind attempting to rethink what it means to have a family or to be human.
D. KingMay 7, 2025
I'd love to read all of this. Is it possible to get all of the parts to this series in one document or book?
Elizabeth HarbisonMay 7, 2025
I listened to the arguments after Fairview city council said yes. Things like “May God help us all” and “I’m Christian but I’ll say yes because we can’t afford a lawsuit.” Yeah, this was definitely about more than the spire height or the traffic.
Cynthia CMay 7, 2025
Wow, I had no idea!!
Cynthia CMay 7, 2025
Beautiful article.
Cher GibsonMay 7, 2025
Are all of these in a book that we can purchase?
Michael BrashearMay 6, 2025
Acting with good faith and within the purview of the law, the Church cannot afford to allow those in opposition to the Church set a precedent of forcing the Church to abandon its plans. There always seems to be a group that follows the temple builders around so as to stir up opposition to the Church, yet once constructed, the temples become a magnet for good families to build up the surrounding community and add, not detract, from the scenic and economic opportunities of the area.
Rochelle HaleMay 6, 2025
Responding to Andrew Joy, who posted a comment. If I read your post right, I believe you are single. You "wish more of His people would stop building fences around the well." Are you speaking of the well of marriage? Making the commitment and saying the vows, whether in the temple or not, does not make marriage perfect. It takes work, and my husband and I were reminded by this article how much we need to partner with the Lord in all aspects of our marriage.
We were both previously married to former spouses in the temple. We did all the right things, we followed the counsel and teachings from Sunday School teachers and youth leaders. Nevertheless, there came a time when divorce was the only option. It was not expected. Many couples cannot weather the storms of severe illness, infidelity, financial stresses, etc. Do members often put on their smiles and attend the temple once a week, once a month, or as often as time permits, then return home to face challenges?
My eternal husband and I have been married for almost four decades. The gospel is our strongest foundation, and we love Jesus Christ. Yet, isn't it interesting that we don't always agree even on spiritual matters? In our Come, Follow Me studies, we may understand a passage of scripture differently, or we may each have a different perspective on something taught in the temple.
The key is daily work in all aspects of our marriage, and sometimes it isn't easy. As singles who haven't yet found an eternal companion, or may question the Lord's timing, or as couples already sealed in the temple, we need to constantly seek to become better disciples and more faithful to the covenants we have made, and recognize why we want to follow that path.
Can you imagine the strength of the Samaritan woman? In all of her weaknesses (or what others perceived about her), she ran to tell about her encounter with the Savior. So too, He will bless us where we are as we reach out to Him and constantly strive to become better disciples.
Edna FarrerMay 6, 2025
Thank you Brother Eyre for a wonderful article. Could this have to do with the fact that since the restoration of the church (and maybe too much?) we have been trying to convince the evangelicals that we ARE Christians? Is it working? Is it doing any good? I love my Savior Jesus Christ, I love learning about Him. The better I know Him the more I want to be like Him. I am a senior missionary in San Diego CA, and my best moments are when I can teach people His gospel. But sadly, I have seen a huge decrease in the size of families. Very few children. Primaries in church are small. Couples now choose to have pets. Not children. So I too, question, what has happened? My greatest joy in life has been having and raising my children. Nothing can compare to it. It's the closest thing to heaven. Perhaps this too is a sign of the last days where families are concerned. Thank you for your wonderful articles! God bless you!
Marlund HaleMay 6, 2025
My mistake! My comment referred to Sister Joy when I should have referenced Brother Joy (unless Andrew is a sister's name).
Jeannie EvansMay 6, 2025
Alan Turing
Wally GoddardMay 6, 2025
Andrew, what a hard situation! You seem to be giving it your best and not getting the joy you seek. I would love to visit with you directly by email if you are interested in that. Wally Goddard
Benita MairsMay 6, 2025
Wow! Just wow! Can I read this for a sacrament meeting talk? It so succinctly expresses how I wish people would treat one another, especially at church. So well written and so true for our day. I will be purchasing the recommended books. And a sincere “Thank You” to the writer. And an “Amen” to Clarien’s comments.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenMay 6, 2025
I grew up in Denmark, I went to in Copenhagen. Our building was renotvated as a Temple (my husband and I now live in Canda. The streets on 3 sides of the temple are very narrow, apartment buildings on 3 sides. there was a lot of opposition against the church, but people around the Temple are fine with it now. Also, as a youth I had the opportunity to attend the Bern Switzerland Temple twice for youth baptisms, once we stayed with a lady in her apartment facing the Temple, and she said that the Temple has brought a peaceful feeling to the neighbourhood, and they all love it. My point is to say, that where ever the Lord wants His Temple, it will be so, and is always an added wonderful building to everyone around it.
HelenCMay 6, 2025
When similar size, lighting and traffic issues were hurled at the building of the Portland, Oregon Temple in thy 1980s our sweet President Hinckley quipped (I thought LUBA (Land Use Board of Appeals) stood for “Let Us Build A Temple”.
When protestors demanded we cut the spires’ heights in half I recall suggesting they do the same to the arms of Portlandia, a statue of a female torso being built to emerge out of a city building, “Aliens”-style. Neither design change would have made proportional sense.
None of this does.
Joe M.May 6, 2025
Thank you, Andrew, for your refreshing honesty on Church culture. I mourn with you.
As Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn wrote, "It is hard for a man who is warm to understand a man who is cold."
Or maybe Job said it best. "Miserable comforters are ye all!"
HelenCMay 5, 2025
Powerful! Praying right now about how and where to share this.
Harold RustMay 5, 2025
Thank you for great insight and good questions. For me, the frequent comment of "Jesus Saves" or "Love Jesus" by Evangelical Christians has often felt trite when it is repeated over and over. Thus, it can also seem that way it His sacred name is repeated too often in a single phrase or paragraph. Likewise, the "Primary answer" of Jesus to almost any Gospel question seems to make the use of the name feel almost trite at times.
Thus, I believe a deep and meaningful focus on our relationship with Christ is best achieved when we address each of multiple Gospel principles with the truths behind that principle while relating the relationship of our Savior to the principle. Examples and Stories about empowering positive family interactions are made even more complete when we include the role that honoring and obeying Christ has within the purpose of family relationships. That is how family and Jesus can enrich our appreciation and love for each.
Andrew j joyMay 5, 2025
Every so often, a Latter-day Saint devotional article floats across my screen that’s so drenched in marital assumptions that reading it as a single person feels like pressing your face against the window of a party you weren’t invited to. One such article is “Jesus, the Samaritan Woman, and Your Marriage” from Latter-day Saint Magazine. It’s a lovely piece — assuming, of course, you have a marriage. Or have had one. Or at least have a shot.
The article explores the story in John 4 of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. She’s had five husbands, is now with a man who isn’t her husband, and is drawing water alone at noon — the symbol of isolation. Jesus meets her in that moment, reveals His knowledge of her broken relationships, and offers her living water. It’s a redemptive story, one the article quickly connects to modern marriage: Christ heals our relationships, offers grace to the imperfect, and blesses our homes.
It’s a comforting message. But as a single Latter-day Saint — one who has neither five failed marriages nor even one — the question rises: where exactly is that living water for us?
The article is written, like so many others, with the assumption that marriage is universal. That every Latter-day Saint will eventually step into a sealing room, build an eternal family, and then turn to Christ when things get bumpy. It assumes you’ve been married, are married, or are between marriages. And it leaves unspoken the aching truth that some of us have done everything right — kept the law of chastity, remained faithful, served missions, magnified callings, and still never been chosen.
The woman at the well is often interpreted as a symbol of the broken, the failed, the ashamed. But at least she had stories. Five husbands, one current partner — she had loved, lost, tried, failed. Some of us haven’t even had the chance to fail. We just… don’t get picked. Or we got picked once and discarded. And now we’re expected to read articles like this and pretend the well is for us too, even though we’ve been circling the desert for years with nothing but an empty bucket and a fading hope that the water was ever meant for us in the first place.
Single people in the Church are told, again and again, that their time will come. If not now, then in the next life. If not in mortality, then in eternity. But there’s something uniquely cruel about waiting on promises that everyone else around you is already enjoying. We sit in Sunday School lessons on temple marriage while watching couples giggle over inside jokes about who forgot the milk. We do sealings for the dead while never receiving the ordinances ourselves. We listen to marriage and parenting metaphors over the pulpit, as if every spiritual truth must be filtered through the lens of a domestic unit we don’t belong to.
And then, when we express our pain, we’re told we’re bitter. Or impatient. Or too picky. Or, the classic: “You’ll understand when you’re married.”
Maybe we would understand if we were married. Maybe we’d even be included in articles like these — written not with quiet sadness in mind, but with the comforting assumption that marriage is a given and Christ is merely the therapist-in-residence when it goes south.
But what if you never married? What if you never will?
Does Jesus still wait at the well for you?
I believe He does. But I also believe He’s been obscured by a Church culture that doesn’t quite know what to do with you unless you’re on your way to sealing. There’s no clear space in the narrative for long-term singleness that isn’t a problem to be fixed or a punishment to be endured. We are often either invisible or projects — certainly not full participants in the theology of covenant companionship.
The woman at the well is offered living water despite her marital mess. That’s good news. But for some of us, the water feels farther off — not because Christ has withheld it, but because His people keep redirecting the well to those who wear rings.
I don’t need another promise that it will all work out eventually. I don’t need another marriage lesson with a tacked-on sentence about “those still waiting.” I need to know that Christ sees me now — not in some imagined future where my single status is finally corrected — but in this very moment, where I’ve drawn spiritual water from a well of disappointment, exhaustion, and persistent faith.
Because I do believe He knows my heart. I do believe He walks with the single. I do believe His living water is for everyone.
I just wish more of His people would stop building fences around the well.
Chris EpsonMay 4, 2025
Good article, but...
We cannot ever talk about, rejoice in, worship, focus on, love, or share our experiences with Jesus too much!
There is no doubt the tone and focus of general conference has shifted the past few years...to Jesus Christ and His love for us...and all I can say is "Hallelujah!"
Gail G GrovesMay 3, 2025
Thank you, Merrilee Boyack, for this most timely article on Elder Anderson's conference talk. I believe your statement reading, "This is by far the worst evil to ever occur in the history of mankind and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints opposes it", is pure truth and I pray that members and non-members alike will "Stand Up for Life" as never before! This horrid evil must stop!
Susan RoylanceMay 2, 2025
Teaching the importance of motherhood is definitely missing, and it shows in delayed marriages and small families. The goals for young women seem to have changed. Education is important, but not to sacrifice the wondrous opportunity to be a mother, and nurture future generations.
Robert StarlingMay 2, 2025
Wow! Richard, this article is AMAZING! Thank you - for your wonderful insights into the Big Picture. "The GOAL is to become like our Heavenly Parents, and the MEANS is through Christ and His Church." That sort of sums it all up. Boom. (mic drop) Another recent emphasis I've seen in General Conference is on temple work, which is the part of the Church that is the means of sealing families together for eternity. Since we are all children of our Heavenly Parents, the only way They can be sealed to us as THEIR eternal family is for us to be sealed to each other, generation by generation. That is Their goal, as expressed in the verse, "This is MY work and MY glory, to bring to pass the immortality (through Christ's atonement) and Eternal Life (as a sealed-together family) of man." That is WAY more to think about -and to live for- than the sectarian view of "heaven" as sitting on a cloud playing a harp! Boy, have we got a message for the world!
Kevin StakerMay 2, 2025
Great article. I just read Elder Renlund's talk from Conference and resolved to be a "sheep" and not a "goat. To be a better disciple who cares for those in need.
Cynthia CMay 2, 2025
Thank you for bringing up these very important points! In a new role as a student mentor (middle school and high school)I see a vast difference in parenting styles and family cohesion from when I was young. Our stability comes from strong families. I'm currently getting certified as a Mental Health First Aid responder. NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness reports that 20% of 13-18 year olds have a mental health condition. 50% of these do not finish high school. 50% of adults with mental illness began experiencing symptoms before the age of 14. The US Department of Health and Human Services reports that nearly 50% of American adolescents have had a mental health disorder at some point in their lives. Globally, roughly 1 in 5 teenagers have experienced elevated anxiety symptoms. My students indicate that their parents let them do whatever they want as teenagers. The family appears to be in global crisis. Granted there are many factors involved. Parents working multiple jobs to keep food on the table and a roof over one's head. Social media attacks and bullying. Video games where kids spend hours killing off characters/enemies/the other teams. Yes, let's focus on Christ AND let's bring back a strong focus on the most critical social structure we have -- the Family. (activities adult mentors do with students besides listening and checking up on how they are doing is playing games with them, doing crafts with them, taking outings with them, attending their sports games -- sound familiar -- those are things that have traditionally drawn families together and strengthened those bonds. We can attempt to fix mental health or we can have a foundation of mental health -- in strong families!)
RuthMay 2, 2025
This article hits so close to home. When I was growing up my parents did not have a good relationship and I did feel disloyal to having a relationship with dad, even though I don't believe I recognized it in my teenage years and it became a pattern even in my adult years. I also remember my mom making go visit her brothers and sisters against my will, but how grateful today that I have those memories of them. I think most teenagers really don't want to hang out with their parents even if they have the best marriage, but we don't know what we really want at that age. I'm just grateful my mom didn't give me what I thought I didn't want. Those memories are so precious to me now.
Mark MathesonMay 1, 2025
Glad to see someone is thinking deeply about this!
PennieMay 1, 2025
Amen a thousand times over to Elder Anderson and to this article
JuliannMay 1, 2025
I have 5 grandsons whose grandfathers died early. Their fathers travel for work and do the best they can when they are home. Their lives lack men who have time to take an interest. How I wish they had mentors, men who cared. Men who would freely share their skills and expertise, whatever that may be. Men we could trust not to be pedophiles. Men who used their retirement years to be Christlike in their neighborhoods instead of seeking travel or foreign missions. I applaud this article.
MeliaApril 30, 2025
My daughter just performed in this same concert in Arizona last week. It was incredible. So grateful that she has had this opportunity for the last few years to sing praises to God through MCO!
Paul RobertsApril 30, 2025
Our family had a '41 Buick like the one shown.
Patricia PottsApril 30, 2025
@Dear Harold,
Thank you for taking the time to write and for highlighting that quote. I wish I could take credit for it, but it actually comes from Darla Isackson, who found healing after losing her son to suicide.
Darla taught me so much about learning from our hard experiences. Even after her passing in 2019, her words continue to resonate deeply within me, filling me with gratitude for the promise of embracing friends and family again after this life. As you pointed out, we will be able to continue serving and loving one another—a truly joyful promise.
Thank you once again for your thoughtful comments.
Your sister in the gospel,
Patricia
Patricia PottsApril 30, 2025
@Dear Amy,
I am so sorry to hear about the estrangement you’re experiencing with your son. It breaks a mother or grandmother's heart when that bond feels lost, even if only temporarily. It seems we both share a sensitivity to life’s emotions, which can make our experiences more intense.
I've found that cognitive therapy, along with a three-step process, has been incredibly helpful for me as I navigate my own "Refiner's Fire" experiences. On my website, patriciapotts.com, there's a video titled "Leaving Your Negative Feelings Behind" that you may find helpful.
Please let me know if there's anything else I can do to help.
God bless you on your journey, Amy. ❤️Patricia
CASApril 29, 2025
Thank you! This piece was very well written. More boys/men need to read it; more boys/men sorely need to be taught this from the pulpit in Stake Conferences and General Conference. I listened for it in April. Wasn’t there. I have 4 educated and beautiful returned missionary granddaughters longing for companionship with “real men” not grown boys who “ghost” them!
Lea BerenyiApril 29, 2025
Where can I find the music sheet to this? Such a beautiful song.
Robert PattersonApril 29, 2025
Books by Susan Kite cover a variety of genres, and are wholesome, delightful reads.
Amy LondonApril 28, 2025
I need to read this book, but I'm afraid it will bring greater fear of all I have imagined since my own estrangement from my son. I cling to the person I knew several years ago, the happy, considerate, fun-loving, and charitable man. I catch glimpses of this occasionally when a friend will tell me they saw him or heard from him, then reassure me that he's ok. My heart breaks, but my love and hope for his well-being are as strong as ever. I pray for his safety and happiness, and for our reconciliation.
Michelle SchooleyApril 28, 2025
Do you have a book list for teens?
Harold RustApril 28, 2025
Patricia Polls provides one key concept underlying our fundamental purpose of life when she states "I’ve learned that creating the ideal is not what life is all about. Instead, we are here to learn from our experiences and to recognize our dependence on the Lord. We all experience disillusion as we learn and grow. It’s an important part of life, a blessing because it means learning to see the truth more clearly."
That concept is so vivid in the teachings of all the prophets, and yet becomes difficult and hazy for us as we encounter real-life day-to-day challenges of career, employment, health, social interactions, and all else that seems to be overwhelming at times during our mortal existence. The concept becomes even more real as we better comprehend how even in life after death our purpose will be to continue learning and building faith in and love for our Savior.
Ruth JamiesonApril 27, 2025
Loved this movie! Another great,
and inspiring movie by T.C. Christensen!
Rochelle HaleApril 25, 2025
In recent years/months we have seen so many interpretations of truth. If we are religious (no matter the denomination), then one truth is that all people of faith are racist, intolerant, judgmental, etc. Another spin on the truth is vaccinations. One relative champions the causes of healthy eating and NO vaccinations, regardless of what the experts say. However, even Russell M. Nelson advised wearing masks and getting vaccinated for Covid-19. Many people have changed their views on current politics, while others are not bothered "if it isn't in their backyard." I believe that truth needs to come from both secular and religious study, and by seeking personal inspiration, comfort, and direction. We do not follow the Prophet (or other ecclesiastical leader) blindly. My mother became ill early last year. We didn't think it was terminal, but we knew that we immediately had to take charge and address some issues in her life. Two weeks into her illness, the answers to prayer and miracles began coming. My brother, who expresses his faith differently, would probably acknowledge these blessings in a different way from "my truth." Nevertheless, we both understood what was happening. Mom eventually passed away, but not before the Lord showed His hand to us. Sadly, in our society, it is easy to see accusations flying when one person's "truth" conflicts with ours. I hope that my obituary reads that I was respectful, tolerant, and welcoming of those who saw things differently from me, and that we could still be friends.
rickApril 25, 2025
Interesting... but achoiceland.com already perfectly ticks all the boxes...
DJApril 25, 2025
Great insight- thanks.
Jackson PembertonApril 24, 2025
Years ago, my wife and I attended a Stake Fireside in Tucson, Arizona, where a visiting authority spoke to this subject in a slightly different way. He said that living by the Spirit sometimes alluded to the promptings of the Holy Ghost and sometimes to the intelligence that fills the universe. At least that is the way I understood him. I pondered on that for several days and came away saying to myself the even God lives by this Spirit.
I think we often think of Gospel truths as though they were magic or we commit the ancient, limiting understanding of things by just saying "God did it" and that is the end of the matter. The truth has to be that all things are amenable to logic and founded in some kind of matter, where matter must include energy as Einstein pointed out.
Karen TuftApril 24, 2025
I love this! As a trained musician, I've drawn similar comparisons with sound waves created by singing/instruments, which set up more specific sine waves than speaking alone does. Music literally "resonates" within us in a way words alone don't. It explains the Lord's calling to Emma Smith to collect hymns. And I think it also fits perfectly with the body being filled with light. Thank you for your wonderful insights!
Wally GoddardApril 24, 2025
The earliest and best manuscripts of the NT do NOT contain the words "without cause" in Jesus' instruction about anger. (See Text of the NT by Metzger). And the Book of Mormon has never included the words "without cause."
Thank you for this article!
Robert StarlingApril 24, 2025
Wow! Thanks Aaron, for this "enlightening" article (pun intended). I'm gonna print this out and stick it on my wall as a constant reminder of how much I need to "sanctify" myself so that my eyes may be opened and my body can be "filled with light".
I've often thought about the purpose of light in spiritual matters. I'm reminded that when Moroni left Joseph Smith after conversing in his bedroom, that the light in the room "gathered" around him and opened up a column in which that angelic being ascended into heaven. I definitely need to learn more about that!
I began my college education at Georgia Tech, where I gained respect for the "science" of all things. As a life-long fledgling Gospel scholar, I am in awe and gratitude for the "graduate-level Christianity" that I find in the Restored Gospel, as compared with the "kindergarten" level of understanding about spiritual things that I see in other "flavors" of Christianity. Thanks for this essay on the "science" of spirituality.
Cindy ChristensenApril 23, 2025
I LOVED reading this. The pictures and words were beautiful. Thank you!!!!!!!!
Matthew AndreasenApril 23, 2025
I agree that many common ideas about certain words and concepts could be very detrimental if applied to the scriptures. The scriptures used words and concepts that were better understood at the time they were written. I checked Webster's 1828 Dictionary for "Charity", "Truth", and "Perfect" and found that those definitions are very close to what we would expect. It's true that the main focus of those concepts have shifted over time, so people today might not catch the intended meaning as easily as when the revelations were written (see "Intelligence" for instance).
"Agency" is an exception, however. Agency in Webster's 1828 Dictionary is not synonymous with "free will" or "choice," and one of the references to Agency (found in D&C 64:18) clearly uses the dictionary's definition, not "free will." I wrote a book called "The Agency Discussions: Using Webster’s 1828 Dictionary and LDS Scripture" (available through Amazon) that looks into the scriptural meaning of Agency. The book is my attempt to view the scriptural concept of agency from a different perspective using the dictionary's definition and apply that definition to our scriptures to see what additional insights we might gain. I think that Agency is a fascinating LDS topic which has more to do with accountability but unfortunately gets confused with the related idea of free will.
Laurel NielsenApril 23, 2025
Oh Maurine how vividly I remember standing on that bridge weeping as Scot taught us the importance of that day. It opened up the beginning for the restoration of the Gospel. God was truly in the design.
Son of LibertyApril 22, 2025
It is a shame that our children are not taught this story in our school systems. We learned it 65 years ago when I was in school. But, much has changed. The pendulum needs to swing back.
Excellent article.
HelenCApril 22, 2025
And what signs and wonders are we missing today? Surely there is a war being waged in the world against truth and righteousness. The weapons? Information systems and algorithms that dictate what is seen and clothe it as truth, perhaps? All I know is I see friends and loved ones trembling with fear over both real and imagined threats to their futures.
Kathi EatonApril 22, 2025
And don’t forget the experience of Elisha and his servant in 2 Kings 6:
15 And when the servant of the man of God was risen early, and gone forth, behold, an host compassed the city both with horses and chariots. And his servant said unto him, Alas, my master! how shall we do?
16 And he answered, Fear not: for they that be with us are more than they that be with them.
17 And Elisha prayed, and said, Lord, I pray thee, open his eyes, that he may see. And the Lord opened the eyes of the young man; and he saw: and, behold, the mountain was full of horses and chariots of fire round about Elisha.
Bob SpielApril 21, 2025
Thank you for this remembrance, Maurine. Amazing what has happened in 250 years.
Sue ParkinApril 21, 2025
So beautiful it touched me to my soul! A beautiful Easter message so beautifully written and illustrated! Love you both for sharing your amazing spirit and talents!
Ashley Pun EvesonApril 21, 2025
Great article, Joe. That devotional was one of the best I heard all year, and you captured that so eloquently here.
L. CrosgroveApril 20, 2025
The words are just as beautiful as the photos. Thank you so much for this wonderful Easter message.
WallyApril 20, 2025
Beautiful and inspiring! Thank you, Scot!
JaniceApril 19, 2025
Thank you. What a great reminder of the love Lord has for each one of us. What a beautiful child she must have been to be able to communicate with both her teacher and her brother like she did. God bless you all
James MuirApril 19, 2025
STUPID! Where are the trees to build an exceeding good ship. BRUSH?? Over three years Lehi led his people not making fire so not to be discover. (IN THE OPEN DESERT? HELLO)
Launch from YEMAN is the most complicated departure to end up in South America's West Coast, the only location in all of North and South America that perfectly matched the geography of the Book of Mormon.
anonymousApril 19, 2025
My son came to me when he was 15 and confessed that he was depressed. In an effort to normalize his feelings, I'm afraid that I unwittingly dismissed how much he was struggling. 15 years later, he is finally getting the help he needs. He has been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder and how I wish I had sought medical and emotional help while he was still under my roof. Listen to him with love and reassure him that you are not judging him, show compassion for him, but take seriously your concerns. Let him know you are acting out of love and concern, not frustration or anger.
Robert StarlingApril 18, 2025
Wonderful article Becky. Jesus is the only one who can understand all our pains, because he descended below them all. He's the only person who can put his arm around us and say, "I understand. Been there, done that."
Claudia Henderson SmithApril 18, 2025
Beautiful pictures, as usual, Scot.
Katrina DonaheyApril 18, 2025
Oh Scot, this has added so meaningfully to my Easter joy and celebrations. THANK YOU. Beautifully, magnificently done!
Roberta HarrisApril 18, 2025
What a incredible and touching story. Thank you Becky for sharing both your story and hers. To hear how Sister Jones was able to forgive is almost overwhelming but knowing it was because of the love and suffering of the Savior for her and for her parents , she was finally able to have peace. How special that she was able to help you at just the right time.
LaDene DealApril 18, 2025
I love this story…. Jesus lives …. His Wonders to Perform
That is all I can say through rushing tears…..
Mothers have strong hearts ….. even through the worse pain.
May we all know and come to understand the process by which we have to go through to return back to Him…..
May we see and read more stories of this nature to know and understand the truth of our Heavenly Father. He is always there for us in everything we do in our lives.
DMApril 17, 2025
I read this story tonight and wept. Even though not my story, the beauty I felt in this was the love of our Savior. We all have sorrows needing healing. I certainly do. Hallelujah to our sweet Savior, who can heal all things.
Gary AndersonApril 17, 2025
Thank you for sharing this wonderful story! I emailed it to my sister who has been suffering much in the last couple of decades! It should help comfort her in many ways!
LewisApril 17, 2025
What an extraordinary article! Your gift of telling stories that move our souls is unsurpassed. Thank you for sharing this incredible message during Holy Week.
MelissaApril 17, 2025
Thank you for the poignant reminder of Jesus Christ’s perfect understanding of our suffering. I believe we must individually endure suffering in order to begin to appreciate what Jesus Christ has done for us. I am desperately grateful to know that God has a perfect plan and that my Redeemer lives!
JaniceApril 17, 2025
Thank you for this article and your testimony Becky. It will give many people strength and ability to overcome their challenges in life. God bless you and all you have overcome in yours.
CynthiaApril 17, 2025
I can barely type for the tears! Thank you for sharing this inspiring, incredibly personal story! Thank you for the reminder of the limitless power of the atonement of Jesus Christ. Happy Easter!
ElleApril 17, 2025
Beautiful story!
Vicki Blackner WilsonApril 17, 2025
My mother had my older brother, Herbert at 3 months premature on Sept. 5th, 1952 and he lived 5 hrs. and then on June 27th, 1953 she had me at 2 and a half months premature and I spent over 3 months in the hospital before I came home. So I've always known about Herb.
Nita WaterhouseApril 17, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful experience ❤️ May we all be able to achieve this peace.
Phil SnowApril 17, 2025
Great article, except it was northEASTERN Ohio, not northWESTERN.
Michael WilliamsApril 16, 2025
That you, Daris.
I've read your work for years. This one touched my heart. I know a few of those old cowboys myself, and my wife gets to watch sweet women and men clearing their slate as she serves with them in the temple.
Ricki GibbonsApril 15, 2025
Thank you for your beautiful article. My husband was also raised Catholic and is grateful for the faith in Christ it instilled in him. He was baptized 52 years ago.
RachelApril 15, 2025
I know this is an older post but I'm praying for some insight! You said "It was during this occasion (which happened to be Passover) that Mary and Joseph encountered the Prophetess Anna and the aged, devout Simeon."
How do you know it happened to be Passover?
Alan LeonardApril 15, 2025
This post came across my Google News feed and I'm not Mormon but enjoyed reading about the celebration.
CarsonApril 15, 2025
This is a really great article! It really helps me understand the 3 trials on a deeper level.
David SmithApril 14, 2025
Best article I've read this year. Thank you. I was there last night and I agree with your sentiment. It was enjoyable and increased my understanding.
Erik HansenApril 13, 2025
Thank you. I imagine the one great secret combination being secretly prepared using all these techniques is the Antichrist's Kingdom. These others all have been practice for the Adversary. I would imagine his kingdom is close and soon will be the terror of the Eastern Hemisphere. When the wealth, combinations and lack of empathy overcome our free nations, the World will be at its greatest vulnerability. Thus the need for Zion to rise.
Corey D.April 13, 2025
The last Sunday of this month will mark 47 yrs since my last Sunday of my mission in southern Chile, I got up and got ready to go to church, somewhat ready to say goodbye to people I had come to love and who meant so much to me, as we were leaving our pension my companion said " oh by the way we are not meeting for church at the normal place today, the sister missionaries have organized an Easter program for the branch", I was a little surprised because I was the district leader and knew nothing about it. We met up with the branch members and the sister missionaries and took a hike through the forest to a little open area, we were close to the ocean and the fog had rolled in during the night so we were kind of walking a little blind, we all got to this little meadow/open area about the time the fog was clearing and the sun was coming out, it was beautiful, the sister missionaries had us get in a big circle and hold hands and then different people who had previously been assigned different scriptures began telling the Easter Story, it was wonderful and even though the specifics have been long forgotten I still remember the feeling it created, of course I was already pretty emotional since it was my last Sunday but what a wonderful way to end my mission. I think everyone should experience an outside Easter program at least once in their lives.
Kara CarlstonApril 13, 2025
Loved this! Love you!
It was always their favorite thing when you invited my kids to go with you. I love seeing that picture of your early curly-haired children. Those were days of glory.
J. E. GilstrapApril 12, 2025
What delightful books! Thanks for the recommendations.
JuliApril 12, 2025
our son started with depression when he was 15. I remember feeling frustrated because I felt like he was just acting out. It was a long journey as it’s been 10 years since then I don’t mean to be negative, but he took his own life in 2021. when he was 16 we sent him to Anasazi in Mesa, Arizona an outdoor behavioral health place. It was a godsend for a while then he made some choices that drove him into a downward spiral. we’ve since realized that our family has a lot of depression on both sides. I know a lot of leaders with good intentions say pray and have more faith. I pray and I have faith, but it’s not gonna go away. It’s just gonna be livable. the one thing that gives me peace is knowing that the last time I talked to him, he knew that I loved him, no matter what he did or no matter his choices. Pray harder than you’ve ever prayed and love him and make sure he knows it.I wish you and your son all the best.
Kaylene ReddApril 11, 2025
Can't wait!
Kaylene ReddApril 11, 2025
You are inspired! This is exactly what we need--the synergy of growing, sharing, learning, and serving together as MASTERS. Thanks for filling a void!
LFApril 11, 2025
Thank you, Catherine, for sharing your family’s traditions and your feelings surrounding this season of celebration. I’m grateful to have the printable resource you prepared — a treasure trove of curated information! Thank you for your efforts. I, too, am thrilled at the church’s moves to observe Holy Week.
Tanya NeiderApril 11, 2025
Thank you!
kari burrApril 10, 2025
I appreciate your journey. This is truly remarkable, and I commend your efforts so much! Thank you for sharing all you have done. Your family (and WE) are blessed. Your insights are tremendous. I especially appreciate the resources and action materials you provided at the end.
Jane NelsonApril 10, 2025
Thank you so much for all of these ideas and resources. You were ahead of your time in celebrating with your family. I'm excited to begin celebrating Easter more mindfully with children and grandchildren.
HansApril 9, 2025
I never miss an article by you. Always good for a pick-me-up. Speaking of pick ups…that Toyota is a nice looking truck but I seriously doubt it’s a three quarter ton truck. But it only ads to the humor/irony of the mis-communication.
J. E. GilstrapApril 9, 2025
Thank you for this article. It really touched my heart.
Linda WillisApril 7, 2025
I am so grateful to see Scott Brown's work. I have read these reports for years and love to hear what scriptures are quoted most frequently as well as seeing break downs from the Standard Works. It's instructive to see how all of the scriptures have a vital part to play in our knowledge and understanding.
Scott BrownApril 6, 2025
No, searchgeneralconference does not use AI.
HazeApril 5, 2025
I love reference sources like this. Thank you for sharing this important information.
Allen AApril 5, 2025
When our septic tank had a mass like that in it in the mid 1960s, the pumper truck driver told my dad to pour yeast into the tank and wait a week. Dad dumped a cup of bread yeast into the hole and put the lid back on. After a week, the truck came back and the operator pumped the tank with no difficulty.
bob taylorApril 4, 2025
is this search engine powered by AI? ilooked, but saw no reference to that.
Wayne's New WorldApril 3, 2025
Enduring to the end can seem so suspenseful and have so much drudgery. I prefer to consider "enjoying the journey" in enduring and perusing joy in endurance. I believe that God sent us here to experience all that we can in our progress.
Jeannie MossApril 2, 2025
I think it's odd that you want respect when you gave none to his children when you chose to have an affair with a married man and father and break up their family. You and your husband both chose to hurt his children deeply and now it seems that you don't want the consequences of that choice. Be grateful that he has any relationship at all with his children and let him be a grandfather without you. Yes--in time they may forgive you, but forgiveness does not equate that they want to have you in their lives. They are making a choice to have boundaries. You don't like their choices but want them to accept yours. Let the situation be what it is and seek peace for yourself and give grace to them. I wish you well.
DougApril 2, 2025
Thank you for this article.
One of my "things" that perhaps lies within the spectrum of perfectionism is in knowing how to talk with Christ, given the directive to pray to the Father in the Name of the Son.
You said "Tenth, and I’ve saved the best for last, bring the Savior into your life. Talk to Him about your feelings, the drive you feel to be flawless, the misery and angst it has woven into your life. Ask Him if he loves you with all your weaknesses and shortcomings. You will love His answer!"
I don't understand...
Thanks!
Love takes timeApril 2, 2025
As a child robbed of my family, due to my father's affair, this hits me deeply. There is no easy answer because, at least you (the step-mother) want a relationship with your unwilling step-daughter.
After, over fifty years, I've never been able to connect with my step-mother who ultimately was the catalyst to my parents divorce. That said, my parents marriage was messy, they were young and my dad was missing important moral conviction needed for a solid marriage at the time. Thankfully I was young when the divorce happened. The few times I was able to spend time with my father (he was overseas most of my childhood) my step-mom helped take care of me but was not emotionally invested in me in any way and still is not to this day, even after my dad's passing.
I forgave my father and step-mom long ago, and in time, maybe this young mother will be able to forgive you also. Don't force it, just love from a distance and interact as you are allowed, even if nothing more than being supportive to your husband when he visits his children.
Love with out expectation and pray. Pray for the humility to accept things as they are and love without condition and be able to support your husband's need to support his children.
There is a touch of irony in your statements as they match, very much I'm sure, the feelings of his first wife when you stepped in. It's a hard truth, but just know that the Lord loves you and will forgive, but sometimes we must experience a little of the pain He took on for our sins.
I'm no perfect saint and I have made my fair share of shortcomings and have children who resent how I raised them, so I am now trying to step into their shoes as well. In time, by doing so, I hope it will help me reconnect with them as I accept responsibility for mistakes I made. God bless you as you move forward that you may be comforted.
Leah KolbApril 2, 2025
I have participated as a member of the Grand Chorus since nearly the beginning (17 years) and will have the opportunity to sing Messiah in America in this new grand performance!
I wish there were words to describe what it is like to be part of Millennial Choirs and Orchestras, but everything always sounds so inadequate. Tickets are hard to get in Arizona, even when they have added more performances, we'll do 8 concerts this time. We have over 1200 children, 300 in the Grand Chorus and a full orchestra, now imagine parents, grandparents and friends and other family.
Singing Brett & Brandon's compositions has changed my life and I know many others who have been able to fill their weary souls with goodness and light!
Go to Millennial.org and sign up to receive emails regarding upcoming performances.
This is a link to the orginal recording of Messiah in America: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrJ1ThpcJktIUknrhEdDd9DD5bUPXbgYE&si=hN9Z_APLnDawvYmJ
I can also promise that many of the other recordings and videos will touch your heart and could change your life. Don't miss watching "The Vision", filmed last summer in Palmyra.
ShaunaApril 2, 2025
I agree with this article 100% and am grateful for the thoughtful, powerful, passionate work about mothering from Jenet Erickson. I didn't marry until I was almost 37 and didn't become a mother until age 39. I had done a lot of other things before marrying, had 10 years of higher education, had worked fulltime, had served a mission and travelled, but none of that even comes close to the joy, satisfaction and influence I experience as a mother. Satan's attacks on motherhood, and those that feminism echoes, are bald face lies, and I am deeply saddened that so many women have bought into the idea that marriage and children are not only unnecessary for happiness, but also obstacles to happiness. Nothing could be further from the truth. If you want to be influential, powerful and make a difference in this world...be a mother
Beccabg00deApril 2, 2025
My parent’s divorce affected me my whole adult life. I finally went through intense EMDR therapy in my later 50’s to make sense of what happened to me. The worst part was I treated my husband badly thinking it would be better for him to leave early in our marriage if it was going to happen anyway. I felt nothing but relief when my dad died because I would never have to see that woman again. She never let us speak or see our dad alone. I think she is why we have evil step mom stories. If you don’t want them to feel like that about you, let them have the say of how your relationship will be. It’s part of them taking control of their life.
AnnetteApril 1, 2025
very interesting article and information, Thank you for doing this research
HelenCApril 1, 2025
My mother, who attended Teachers College during WWII and subsequently taught children in London during the Blitz, considered Winston Churchill a war-monger. This erudite essay helps me understand him, and his place in history, more.
Thank you, Dr. Dan.
Debra McCrackenMarch 31, 2025
How do we find this placeholder?
MaryannMarch 28, 2025
I realize that we need to be aware and warned of the reality of the deadly influence of pornography. BUT--did we really need so many details??? It makes me sick to my stomach and is not necessary to make your point.
MaryannMarch 28, 2025
The advice given here was so very true. After breaking up a family through adultery and divorce, no woman, or man, has the right to expect the children devastated by that betrayal to show them "respect." This woman is downplaying the depth of pain that these children experienced. She needs to stay in the background and respect the adult children's wishes for her to stay away from them. She should also support her husband in spending time with them without her being present. That is the LEAST she can do. Perhaps, in time, the adult children will be able to accept her, but the timing of that possibility is completely THEIR choice, not hers. They owe her nothing.
Elizabeth RichardsonMarch 28, 2025
Get off your husband's back about talking to his daughter. Do you think he should cajole her into wanting you around? Should he risk being cut off himself? Your husband knows how you feel about the situation and still has his reasons for not forcing the issue. Be kind, be selfless, and leave him (and his daughter) alone. Accept the possibility that you will never be welcome among his children, and let your "happy marriage" be enough. You've owned up to having done the wrong thing with the affair, and that's good. Keep the "good" going by exercising compassion and humility. Forcing your way in will only engender resentment. Let him participate freely in his family without punishing him or his children.
CourtneyMarch 28, 2025
I’m so grateful that four of my children are apart of this choir. This has built their testimonies in a way nothing else could. The Spirit that attends the practices and concerts it’s so overwhelming. The only time I feel the spirit that strong is when I give birth. I’m so excited to see the concert tomorrow. Brett and Brandon’s musical talents are so amazing.
Robert StarlingMarch 28, 2025
Thanks Daniel, for a no-nonsense response to an obviously faulty criticism of the Book of Mormon witnesses. "Isaac", as well as most other critics of our faith, is obviously grasping at straws. Such fallacious criticisms melt away under the bright sunlight of truth and reason.
Julie RoaneMarch 28, 2025
I would be interested in ideas for those of us who do not have children or grandchildren..how to get motivated!
Bera SautuMarch 28, 2025
Love this article. Will be using this in my ward to help train fathers.
Diane QuistMarch 28, 2025
I loved this article about the date March 26. I thank you for it. It’s become apparent to me that there are certain dates that are significant throughout our Church history - not just April 6th. I think I’ll make pancakes and use my syrup acquired in Vermont on a church history tour.
LauraMarch 28, 2025
Your tree reminds me of when I was a child. We would get some small limbs with buds on them from our property and put them in a vase. We had Easter ornaments we would hang on them. (My family had lived in Germany in the military, and they sold secular Easter ornaments for Easter trees there.)
CASMarch 27, 2025
I, too, felt the Spirit reading this. I have never heard of this production before today! I tried several times to access tickets to no avail. Will this ever come back to Utah with more advance notice? I’d love to attend!
Ken McGowanMarch 27, 2025
Hi brother Peterson. I recall these arguments from my first philosophy class. It was called the modus podem argument if i recall. You used it effectively.
Ken McGowan
James DunneMarch 27, 2025
Excellent in every way!
Maurine Jensen ProctorMarch 27, 2025
Lynne,
This isn't an ad, but an article about how this concert came to be. Tickets are hard to get because people who have been before to an MCO concert won't miss the next one.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenMarch 27, 2025
WOW! I felt the spirit all through just reading the article, it actually feels familiar to me also! I wiah I had the money to attend the production somewhere in USA, I don't, we live in Canada. This truly is an inspired production.
LynneMarch 27, 2025
I opened this ad today and found out that all Mesa AZ tickets are already sold out. Why wasn't this advertised before now?
RosieMarch 26, 2025
Let's walk the walk not just talk. When new couples in our faith marry, how often do we quietly encourage getting college degrees before having children because of economic goals. Yes it's a struggle but we should encourage an eternal perspective.
Dave MMarch 25, 2025
This is a great article, but it's terrifying and I fear a similar article could be written about drugs & alcohol, greed, seeking popularity (or "likes"), even poverty or anything else that Satan can use to fill a physical or emotional void or need, create a dependency, and cause us to lose focus and control, mis-use our agency and lose sight of our Eternal goal and potential. Maybe Alma has the answer (Alma 31:5).
Susan RoylanceMarch 25, 2025
Thank you Patrice, for this inspiring article. I have also been anxious to make Easter a greater part of our family traditions - and focus. I appreciate your suggestions.
JKMarch 25, 2025
I would love for you to share what went in the 29 eggs!
Bob SpielMarch 24, 2025
This is a brilliant take on the Beast. I will never read Revelation the same.
SandyMarch 24, 2025
The hard truth! This excellent article reveals what has been hidden to most people. I feel disgusted and educated and now want to do more to protect our young people and others. Thank you for printing this difficult truth to those of us who are not usually exposed to these hard facts.
Diane IrwinMarch 24, 2025
As troubling as this story is, it makes perfect sense. We, as Latter-Day Saints need to get our heads out of the sand and see what is really going on in this world and do something about it!
JuliannMarch 24, 2025
A connection that makes so much sense. Took my breath away and I am not ignorant. To understand the human cost is gut wrenching. No longer a brown bag industry. I’ve been told that close to 100% of young people will be exposed to some form of pornography by Jr High.
Cynthia CMarch 24, 2025
This is not an easy topic to write about and you have covered it well. Everyone is affected. I had a model friend disappear after being invited to an Italian villa. So many men are not treating women with patient loving gentleness anymore. Women wonder if they want to have children or bring them into the world as it is today Married men have become aggressive towards not just their spouse but towards other women outside of their marriages. There is so much deception. The body of Christ must strengthen. The body of Christ must be vigilant. The body of Christ must stand firm in the wisdom of the scriptures, in the Word of God. A battle is raging for our souls.
PhilMarch 23, 2025
This reminds me of the infamous incident in Florence, Oregon in 1970, when officials decided the best way to remove the carcass of a beached whale was to use dynamite. It made a horrible mess that was way worse than just leaving the whale carcass there. You can see a video of it on youtube.
tfMarch 23, 2025
I don't believe this one, with as much "cake" as was described in part 1, there would not be room for that much fluid.
Bera SautuMarch 23, 2025
Wonderful article and all true. Thank you.
Gary StrobleMarch 22, 2025
Perhaps a better word could be used than discover. He knew where they were because Moroni told him, and he saw the exact spot with his spiritual eyes before arriving at the Hill Cumorah.
J.S. Jr.March 21, 2025
A bit behind in my reading but I never miss an article from you. A wave of emotions just hit me with the last paragraph. Even though I never miss an opportunity to say those words, this still made an impact.
Thank you.
PhilMarch 20, 2025
I also read that Babylon Bee article and I found it super funny. I think everyone is fair game at the BB and so I wasn't at all offended by it. That is a great point about women in our faith though, and how they are actually in an elevated position compared to most other religious organizations that I can think of, and also in our view of the eternities.
Corey D.March 20, 2025
That is so funny, Brother Howard you are the mormon version of Patrick McManus. Coming from a small town and having had a septic tank growing up and being a teenager in the 70's with access to dynamite that story brings back all kinds of memories and stories.
Ronald BarnesMarch 20, 2025
I never heard of him until yesterday, and today I find this article. I face a similar crisis with my wife of 48 years being in the final stages of Alzheimer’s. I understand what he means about constructing a new person. I’ve already transformed into a new person as a result of my wife’s illness, and when she passes through the veil, I’ll have to do it a second time. As he learned, life must go on, and I will too.
Brian/Julie BurtMarch 20, 2025
I would also like to know how to listen. I've checked podbean and Spotify.
Gordon HensleyMarch 19, 2025
I think they are thinking too small when they think we are only getting our own planet. Planets and star systems don't exist on their own. It takes a galaxy to form and support stars and planets.
Dave HansenMarch 19, 2025
ROTFLOL...........I have a similar story from my teenage years, 6 decades ago. I was at the barn for some reason on a late Thursday afternoon in the late autumn, and heard a distant blast. I didn't have any idea of what caused it, and nothing followed it, so I went back to whatever I was doing before it got dark. A few days later (probably Sunday) my father heard that a good Church friend of ours had a little mishap. He lived about 5 miles away from us, on a farm of several acres. One of his cows died out by a property line, and he had to somehow dispose of it. It wouldn't make sense to drag it back to the barn with the tractor, so instead he and the kids dug a gravesite right next to the cow, and then found that the critter was way to heavy to move into the hole. He had a solution to the problem, though....he grabbed some dynamite (likely kept for removing stumps on the farm) and placed some under the cow. Well....he may have miscalculated how many sticks to use, as it didn't work as expected.....instead of nudging the cow into the hole, the cow was blown over the fence onto the neighbor's property. And........it blew out the windows of his house, as well as some windows in neighboring houses! /// Interestingly, he was the funniest guy I ever knew. Of all the talks given over the decades, I can only remember one.....though, he didn't tell that story, but he was full of funny stories that were a part of his life. This *https://sites.google.com/view/brad-summers-pow-1926/home* is his most memorable story, IMO.
Myrna AndersonMarch 19, 2025
I love your stories! Is this and all others based upon real people and happenings?
Corey D.March 18, 2025
Great story, well told.
Grandpa ClydeMarch 18, 2025
I love your stories. I will just note that for most of us, any sentence that includes the word dynamite is likely not a good idea.
David A Watson, DDSMarch 18, 2025
So, if Joseph received all those keys, did he pass them along to the 12 and subsequently to each succeeding prophet? That would mean President Nelson also holds all those keys. But Joseph was the first in this dispensation to hold them.
HazeMarch 18, 2025
Thank you for this concise summary. Very easy to follow.
Makes Joseph Smith, Jr. just that much more impressive of a young man.
Ed RehderMarch 18, 2025
Thanks for this article. Had no idea Rush's drummer was such a talent. And admire his strength to overcome tragedy. I was really hoping to read that he became a church member. Bet he is now.
JulieMarch 18, 2025
What I find interesting is The Church is blamed for the abuse. The Church did not do this. Individuals did. Yes, it may have been a church sponsored activity but it is still the individual that is guilty. In my simple way of thinking the purpose to accuse The Church is to sensationalize the supposed abuse for gain, either financially or to smear the church. The same goes for other organizations, whether religious or educational, it is the individual that performed the abuse and not the organization.
Robert StarlingMarch 18, 2025
Great article Chris. Very well written and extremely informative. Thanks for putting this information together..
Robert StarlingMarch 18, 2025
Thanks Kathy for some very useful help.
Very useful for those of us married even 50+ years..
KellieMarch 18, 2025
Great article! We've just rededicated to spending more quality time together as a couple and as a family. We found ourselves living "separate lives" in our shared home and realized it was time to reconnect. We've set aside a dedicated time slot each evening for family time. I'm going to use your not so newlywed games questions with my husband and play the finish the story game with our kids. Thanks for the great insights.
Richard GarrisonMarch 17, 2025
Becky, once again, as you have throughout my adult life, you have inspired me with another of your beautiful stories of "real" life! Thank you for sharing and the wonderful example of "true service to others" that YOU are to me!
MarkMarch 17, 2025
I am an involved member (I hate saying active), but the LDS obsession over perfection is maddening. Why we continue to strain at this gnat is baffling. Just follow Jesus. His way, His truth and His life. Stop looking inward trying to figure out your own perfection. How does an imperfect human even know how to facilitate their own perfection? You can’t. Ever. Only in and through Christ are we made perfect.
Leanne StrongMarch 15, 2025
There are some things that must happen, and are non-negotiable. Learning how to swim is nearly non-negotiable, because what if a child falls into a pool or body of water, and they don't have their life jacket or floaties on?
A Concerned MomMarch 15, 2025
Informative article, but you didn't clearly address the never-been-marrieds. Our daughter turns 36 this year and grieves that she will never marry because she has little to no opportunity to date! She has not met any single men in her age group in her ward, stake or region. She's tried online dating but has had no response whatsoever to her responses and inquiries. Where are all the LDS men who have learned and grown and want a wonderful, virtuous woman? She sure can't find them. She been to large, multi-regional singles conferences and feels like she's among her grandparents. The one or two men close to her age don't look at her because she's not a "glamor girl" (I call them high maintenance). What suggestions do you have for her?
WallyMarch 13, 2025
Beautiful and inspiring!
LewisMarch 13, 2025
What a beautiful story! We, who have been given so much, could learn incredible lessons from these children.
You have such a gift. Please continue to share that gift with the rest of us. We learn from your example, and we too are changed. Hopefully we can find others to change as well.
CynthiaMarch 13, 2025
Your beautiful article brought tears to my eyes! Thank you for sharing such lovely, inspiring stories! I am determined to put the President Kimball quote on my fridge or mirror so that I might be reminded of it daily. What a great lesson in service!
Joel MarksMarch 12, 2025
Thank God for scholars like Daniel Peterson! It was no coincidence that Nephi in vision saw the American experiece of a new nation and new governing of peoples dedicated to righteous behavior.(1Nephi.13)
With Dr Petersons prescient insight to whales, birds, Sir Isaac and Alexander Pope their is no coincidence in Gods plans abd Glory! Thank God fir scholars like Daniel Peterson!
Steve FennMarch 12, 2025
Great message, Dan. The world and all creation is indeed a wonder. And the marvel of it is that we most likely already have a very comprehensive knowledge of it all. After all, we had a bird's eye view of creation and perhaps even had a hand in it ourselves.
Dave CookMarch 11, 2025
I've often wondered about verse 2: what were the "other records" which Oliver was promised a future chance to translate? Any insight on that?
KokoMarch 10, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing this! I will try to incorporate this as well
ElisabethMarch 10, 2025
Lovely idea! However, if you wish to save things from year to year, each day should be numbered instead of getting a particular date.
EricMarch 6, 2025
Speaking of stories we ought to tell about ourselves, I'm currently reading Parley P. Pratt's autobiography, and I think it could make a great series--particularly his experiences in Missouri.
Denise NixonMarch 6, 2025
Great podcast. Heightened my understanding of the Atonement
KathleenMarch 6, 2025
I decided to try the product but the check out system won’t accept my address. Same address I’ve been using for over 26 years and have had no issues with any other company.
ShaunaMarch 5, 2025
Fantastic! thank you so much. These insights will enhance my temple attendance
Rochelle HaleMarch 5, 2025
I have seen post after post and short videos with sisters describing what they can now wear, and I fear the focus is on fashion, rather than covenant. In 50 years of temple attendance, I have experienced several changes in temple garments, both for temple-only and everyday wear. The goal should be to wear our garments appropriately and not seek to modify them. I applaud our leaders for receiving inspiration to help those in warmer climates. I recently had surgery and could not wear my garments for 2-3 weeks. The Lord knew my heart, but I wish the slip style had been available to me.
Sally SmothMarch 5, 2025
This has been very difficult for me to do. I think of hymns, tell my mind to stop, etc. But they are temporary fixes. What has worked for me is allowing the thought to come saying " saying you may talk, but I will not listen.And most of the time it leaves."
Jenny Madsen SvendsenMarch 4, 2025
Thank you for such an enlightning article, I never realized that temple endowments and marriage are related, I wonder why I didn't catch on to that, after being sealed to my husband in the temple in 1971, but we learn ine upon line, precept upon precept for sure.
Bob SpielMarch 4, 2025
Reminds me of the disciples of Jesus at Ephesus. This isn't the first or last time we will be castigated by a crowd. Like the disciples of old, we can rejoice to be worth to suffer pain for His name.
vickieMarch 3, 2025
i was so glad to know that our church believes in a heavenly mother, otherwise why are there 2 sexes here on earth. we couldn't presume that God created us in a flash and that we experiences something He doesn't. So there are two in heaven as it should be in sexes....i was raised a catholic and learned to worship a heavenly mother but that heavenly mother was mary the mother of Jesus...catholic all over still worship her and now they say they use her as the intercessor ..Jesus is the intercesser...our only intercessor..however that is spelled. I was also told in the church that we dont know the name of our Mother in heaven because we cannot blaspheme her...its as if Heavenly Father is protecting Her. i do know that we will know all things when its time and I dont worry over it and try to argue things out. its not necessary. God bless all.
Rochelle HaleMarch 3, 2025
On my mission I wrote a poem about Heavenly Mother, probably thinking of my own mother and all mothers who send their sons or daughters off to a strange place to do the Lord’s work. In all honesty, we know little about Heavenly Mother, except it makes perfect sense that we are born of two Heavenly parents. I am sure Mother is surrounding us with her love and leading our cheering squad until we are Home again.
J SmithMarch 3, 2025
Looks like you've all found evidence of priestcraft--telling people what they want to hear for the benefit of personal advancement
M D BrashearMarch 3, 2025
I appreciate the thoughts towards a heavenly mother and the female attributes associated with her. However, God never intended for us to perform any type of worship toward her. In fact, such worship was the basis for the destruction of both the Northern and Southern Kingdoms of Israel. Allowing such thoughts into our minds opens us up to a very powerful tool of Satan.
Our salvation is dependent upon a plan of the Sacrifice and Atonement of Jesus Christ and all proscriptions of worship are to be centered on God and His son. Satan was able to flip the script on this, insinuating the Queen of Heaven into the pantheon of gods accepted by the early Israelites. It quickly led to untold corruption, misery and death in their worship practices, resulting in their destruction and dispersal, the gathering from which we are just now beginning to witness.
Logic tells us we have a mother in heaven. Logic does not necessarily fit into who or what our how we worship.
DumaMarch 3, 2025
The common thread that I have found among those who veer off the covenant path is that they believe that they are more inspired than - a step ahead of - the prophet. They believe that if he would just ask the right questions and focus on their points, that the Church would finally return to or get to their inspired conclusions and position. When that doesn't happen, they stay and bad mouth the leadership, or they eventually leave. It's sad and so preventable.
Cynthia DeckerMarch 3, 2025
What an "Aha" moment. I sometimes wonder why we don't hear more about our Heavenly Mother. Your article makes sense to me, and answers that question. It's because we humans are rather prone to try the "Heavenly Mother work-around." I see it happening here and there recently. Does that mean I shouldn't yearn to know my Heavenly Mother? Not at all. But She, of all people, wouldn't want us to inadvertently drive a wedge between us and Her Sweetheart. Here's the truth: When I'm close to Him, I'm close to Her too.
DumaMarch 3, 2025
I like to think that a reason (speculation only) that Father doesn't reveal more to us about Mother is because He is so abused right now by his children that He's saving revealing her until we are ready to treat her with respect.
SageMarch 3, 2025
Thank you for this insightful article. I painted Heavenly Mother for one of those books and started following those accounts. Before too long, I also had to unfollow them. I appreciate your insights on why we need to see our Heavenly parents as one.
CoreyFebruary 27, 2025
Is this open to non-members?
JillFebruary 26, 2025
I agree with everything you wrote.
In addition, women hold priesthood power, but not a priesthood office, unless they serve in the temple where they are 'authorised' to do so.
Women work in leadership roles in the Relief Society and in other capacities. Their spouses support them in those callings.
We are all engaged on the errands of the Lord. We complement one another as we serve in his kingdom.
Teresa BarkerFebruary 26, 2025
I just tried to edit my comment to say "This article is so informative" but it disappeared on me in the middle of the edit. Thanks for completing the edit before posting it.
Best regards,
Teresa Barker
Diane ChaseFebruary 26, 2025
Excellent! Very well said.
StevenFebruary 26, 2025
I fly a lot and this is great advice!
Lana JohnsonFebruary 26, 2025
3rd way to participate in the Easter initiative is?
Lana JohnsonFebruary 26, 2025
You only shown 2 way to participate in the Easter initiative what is the 3rd way
Lana JohnsonFebruary 26, 2025
Hi what is the 3rd way to participate in the Easter initiative?
Jenny SvendsenFebruary 25, 2025
Than you so much for that very insightful article.
Gary StrobleFebruary 24, 2025
Article on protecting your identify turned into a commercial for a specific company. Good ideas but full disclosure would have been nice at the beginning.
Roberta BFebruary 24, 2025
THANK YOU SO MUCH for these insightful articles. I came across #4 and finally found the other 3. I printed them off and plan on studying them. Unfortunately, I found myself falling into some of these undesirable categories AND plan on some "course-correction" ASAP. I'll be looking forward to more of your work.
CodyFebruary 24, 2025
This was deeply insightful. I would be interested in an article on other types of fraud. Especially since my little family and I are still in a rental situation.
Thanks!
Molly HarleyFebruary 24, 2025
This article is exactly what I needed to read right now. My daily plea for help to become better, to do better, seems much more reachable if I remember the arrows of my trajectory. Thank you Lynne.
BeckyFebruary 23, 2025
I’ve also found that when asking AI for the information, I don’t learn or retain it. Today I asked for a summary of a book I had read, and when I tried to explain a concept included in the summary a few hours later, I couldn’t remember the example it had just given me.. So it was useless to me.
Anything worth learning is worth putting in our own effort.
I ask AI questions still, but I’m writing out my own answers and ideas, using AI as a source but not my only source.
This article is very relevant. Thank you for the reminder of Elder Bednar’s warning, and this engaging format.
Corey D.February 23, 2025
This is the 1st one of the Screwtape Text Message columns I've read and it's very good and right on in it's observations. I could give countless examples of the things mentioned from or about family members, ward members, former co-workers, etc., how digital technology/devices have affected or destroyed marriages, been the beginning of testimonies lost, affected employment, it's almost endless. It hits home also, while I haven't googled something during a church class or meeting I find myself online a lot looking up auto or home repair info, outdoor/hiking equipment, lots of political stuff, it can be almost addictive. One thing the article doesn't mention but everybody deals with, we are so dependent on technology now, if it's not working correctly life almost seems to stop, endless hours are spent sometimes daily, trying to get our digital/electronic media and devices to work correctly and that's time away from more important things usually.
MaryannFebruary 21, 2025
Interesting story, however, I'm surprised the police weren't called the FIRST TIME the neighbor threatened with a gun. This tale could have had a very tragic ending. Glad things turned out ok.
MaryannFebruary 21, 2025
While I feel sympathetic for this man's pain, his use of the phrase "tough breaks" indicates he thinks he is a victim. Being excommunicated isn't a "tough break." It is a consequence for serious misbehavior, with the loving intention of helping him return to full fellowship. He also included some other problems as "tough breaks." I hope he can find a good therapist who will help him make better choices in the future. He needs to realize he doesn't have to be a victim and that his own choices bring about many of the consequences her is experiencing.
Elizabeth RichardsonFebruary 21, 2025
" I also agree with you that his yelling isn’t the best way to interact with his children." Seriously? An actual therapist is saying this? It's nothing short of abuse and warrants a serious intervention. Someone needs to stick up for those kids if their mother is too weak to do it herself.
Judith B PerryFebruary 21, 2025
Mariah,
I am 87 years old and am well aware of my mother's and my grandmother's and my own era's of mothering. I would like to help with your project with interviews and small monetary donation. I'm not techy with how to make that possible. An address I can mail a check is in my speed of possibility.
Thank you,
Judith Perry
Judith B PerryFebruary 21, 2025
.PS to post regarding Podcast #8.
With and behind each Apostle's service and dedication usually stands a highly dedicated and supportive woman in the background carrying huge responsibilities for family and community making it possible for the time and dedication of each Apostle.
Judith B PerryFebruary 21, 2025
Brother and Sister Proctor,
I loved this podcast!!!!! Thank you for sharing so much of your experiences. As a parent of a gay daughter and son, I recall how I suffered the experience of learning this at a time when that issue was handled so badly by church culture. If I had to choose between God and my children, I chose my children until I could learn they were His children first. Thank you for reinforcing my testimony that my gay children are just as precious in God's eyes as any one else. What they couldn't live precisely by church doctrine, I encouraged then to live to their best what they could and the Lord would make up the difference. They both eventually died single and celebate. I miss them so much. They did more to raise me than I did to raise them. Whether you see this or not, I write it as my letter to God today. Yes, God is in the details of our lives.
MeganFebruary 21, 2025
Please let us know how we can support and watch this film if we’re not in Utah. I would love to see it!
KristenFebruary 20, 2025
Very enjoyable article. We are big fans of Napoleon Dynamite and are happy to hear he remains firm in the faith.
JuliannFebruary 20, 2025
Fun interview. I appreciate the honest insights. Thank you. I’m going to go look up Pickle and Peanut.
Mirin NelsonFebruary 19, 2025
The PCC was started by my Uncle Edward LaVaun Clissold. It is a magnificent place and experience! Can’t wait to see this documentary! ❤️
CasFebruary 19, 2025
Will this be available for streaming at some point in the future?
Yolanda BassettFebruary 19, 2025
Yolanda from Nicaragua and Houston, TX
Thank dear sister for your courage, your faith, your God given testimony of the Truth of the Savior's Church, indeed, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter -Day Saints.
I served a mission years ago, and it is and has been a beacon of light throughout my life.
Thank you dear sister, for choosing to use such a horrific Satan induced experience, as a stepping stone toward fortitude and strength instead of a stumbling block to loss, darkness and unhappiness.
I highly respect, admire and support you and all that you wrote on this article and what you stand for. Thank you, thank you.
CynthiaCFebruary 19, 2025
Definitely looking forward to seeing this documentary!
HelenCFebruary 18, 2025
As a 100% British Caucasian (as in “no tanning here”) I often wonder how honoring my ancestry impacts those with cultures that were affected by the imperialist history of my people. Since we were mostly “working class” we probably weren’t personally involved but I do remember a couple of innocently derogatory sayings from my childhood.
No point in denying them, they existed but being raised to be kind, polite and intelligently curious has guided me to an appreciation for the power of unconditional love. These differences were created so we could overcome them on a person to person level.
Robert StarlingFebruary 17, 2025
Bless you, Brother Dan. You're doing a great service to the Lord's Kingdom, and to His children. In our era when fewer people read books, the visual medium becomes more and more important.
Robert StarlingFebruary 17, 2025
As a father of three daughters and grandfather of two (so far), I read this article with interest. My first thought was to show the young women a photo of a whole-body-covering floppy black "bathing" suit from the early 1900's, and say, "I'm sure this kind of "two-piece" swimsuit would be okay to wear." Then in contrast, it would be easy to find numerous examples of one-piece women's swimsuits that are NOT appropriate. The question is not how many pieces are used, but what is modest and yet still attractive. Sister Clayton did a marvelous job of helping her Young Women find the right answers in the right way.
An interesting side note: Back in the 1950's, the most popular swimsuit designer in the world was Rose Marie Reid, a Latter-day Saint. She designed swimsuits for movie stars like Marilyn Munroe and many others. One of her designs was manufactured in part with the help of Relief Society sisters, and all the proceeds from that design were donated to help build the Los Angeles temple. She also designed the modern temple garments for women.
Jenny SvendsenFebruary 17, 2025
I wasn't able to get the link either, as it asks only the state I'm from, I live in Canada
Rochelle HaleFebruary 17, 2025
Mariah,
I'm sure this will be a wonderful film, but I am unable to make a donation at this time. I hope you will include some of the heartache of infertility and the empty arms that wait years for a baby, the mothers who must work out of necessity (I went back to work after 2 weeks), preparing physically and mentally to meet the baby's needs and your own, how to share this joyous time with your spouse (and what it means going forward as you enlarge your family), and how the magic of pregnancy and childbirth has bonded women through the centuries, regardless of their particular circumstances.
Gene SchaerrFebruary 17, 2025
Fantastic story and analysis. Thank you!
Corey D.February 16, 2025
Great article, well said. It's a struggle to always have a desire to be good or be like Jesus or have our thoughts more and more on the Savior, be more holy as President Nelson puts it. I have been reading again Elder Maxwell's book " Not My Will but Thine" and something he says in there just really hit me hard this time, he asks how hard are we willing to work to be like the Savior and then he points out that Satan is willing to work hard to achieve what he wants, in fact that's his whole focus and he works non-stop, that has made me really think, how much effort am I truly giving or how strong are my desires as the article mentions.
Liz AsherFebruary 16, 2025
Where can I find it in the US? Every site says it is a pay movie. Thank you.
David FagerburgFebruary 16, 2025
The links lead to the site and give a watch button which does not accept any click input and so does not work at all, either with Safari as the browser or Chrome.
Laurie BrooksFebruary 16, 2025
Thank you sister for writing this and speaking out on a tender topic. Your faith, testimony and perspective are amazing.. So happy to hear your health and faith are intact.
SarahFebruary 15, 2025
This was very moving to me, especially as a child of a woman whose life was ended by random violence. I felt my mom speak to me through her words, as I've felt God's hand in all hard things more than I could have testified had I not experienced hard, even unspeakably horrific things.
Thank you for publishing it.
MillieFebruary 15, 2025
Our family enjoyed watching Takedown many times when the children were younger and still at home. Where can the remastered version be found? I would like to introduce it to the grandchildren. I am glad your wife encouraged you in your work. Encouragement and support make such a difference.
Also I knew your sister at what was then, Ricks College. We were cheerleaders together. Sadly, I have lost touch with her.
Rhoda AndersonFebruary 15, 2025
Wow-- super powerful testimony and breakdown of this movie. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. Thank God for your life and the personal opportunity you've taken to share these words with us.
LisaFebruary 14, 2025
Beautifully written, thank you for adding your voice. I currently have 2 missionaries out and have only seen the previews for this movie. It’s not something I would ever have any desire to watch which I’m finding also makes speaking out against such a movie a difficulty.
“religious misrepresentation is religious persecution so long as it engenders doubt, disbelief, mistrust, or disrespect toward any religious sect.” This call out is spot on. Your testimony and conviction is beautiful and strong. Thank you for ending this article with the profound truths you have learned through your journey.
Harold RustFebruary 14, 2025
Well.....thanks for helping me find a big smile on my face as I read your personal story(ies). A nice lift for today.
Heidi S.February 14, 2025
Your method for helping your group find answers through study and prayer, along with the real-life example you detail, are so helpful. This is the perfect story for our current study of Joseph Smith’s experience getting answers to his prayers.
JeffFebruary 13, 2025
Thank you for writing and sharing your personal thoughts and faith on this important matter.
Becky S.February 13, 2025
I’m so sorry you lived this nightmare. Thank you for sharing your story and powerful testimony of God’s love throughout your ordeal. Thank you for being faithful despite the world’s misrepresentation.
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 13, 2025
Thank you very much for this article based in your own experience. You are right in everything you wrote. This should be read by every member of the Church and by the missionaries serving, as well by their parents.
Steve DoneganFebruary 13, 2025
As a man, I saw the title and wondered if there would be anything for me in this article. But my roles as father and grandfather guided me to take the leap. I’m glad I did. But a dilemma exists. How do I get my elders quorum to read it? Not to worry, the Lord will provide a way. You’ve shown me that.
ShaunaFebruary 13, 2025
Fantastic--what a great example of empowering youth, or anyone, by having them learn apply these solid principles. I wish I had done more of that as a mother, but it's not too late
Daniel PetersonFebruary 13, 2025
Ah. Sorry! We've updated the form in a way that should -- I hope! -- enable people from outside the United States to access the films. Please report whether or not it works.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 13, 2025
While I believe in the power of prayer and personal inspiration, I think many suggestions for proper attire depend on when and where we were raised, local culture, etc. As a new teenage convert, I learned that 2-piece swimsuits were inappropriate. This was the era of mini skirts, and I had one friend who always wore her dresses longer (a story I would learn years later about her mother). A short time later, granny dresses were all the rage, and by the time I went to the temple, I had no problem wearing clothing that would cover my garments. We have sometimes been counseled about swimsuits, ear piercings, and even wearing hosiery, etc. I see even many adult friends who adhere to these standards and others who do not. The "For Strength of Youth" guidelines have changed from lists of dos and don'ts to guidelines to help young people discern for themselves what is appropriate. As a former ordinance worker, I learned to make exceptions when some patrons came through the door. They may have been on vacation and didn't bring the proper clothing, or they have just gotten off work, there was the occasional actor with very long hair (male) or bright green or pink hair. However, as long as they had their temple recommends they were admitted to the house of the Lord. I believe it behooves us to be modest in dress and action, and not immerse ourselves in the fashions of the world, however, we should also make choices that are appropriate for our activities and and not look for exemptions from living gospel principles.
Tony RossFebruary 13, 2025
Is it possible to get link from outside the USA. I am in Australia?
KathleenFebruary 12, 2025
Too sweet. Thank the Lord for every day heroes!
CynthiaFebruary 12, 2025
David Hobson, please go to give.risingstaroutreach.org to donate to this wonderful organization!
SageFebruary 12, 2025
http://www.risingstaroutreach.org/ is the charity run by Becky Douglas. It's a great organization.
SJCFebruary 12, 2025
I have believed the veil ceremony to be symbolic of the last judgment. The tokens are like having us tell the Lord that we did strive to keep the associated covenants. The tokens become a physical manifestation of a spiritual reality.
Jolanda Wiesner - PrzewrockaFebruary 12, 2025
How can I watch the films here in Switzerland?
Antonio ArreolaFebruary 11, 2025
Gracias por la clase, cumple con mis necesidades espirituales
Name with heldFebruary 10, 2025
She may actualling be starving because her body is not metabolizing food properly and so she feels hungry all the time.
Tami TaylorFebruary 10, 2025
Best article I have ever read on this subject. And I have read a lot! I wish this could be read by every woman in the church who struggles with the idea that seems to be perpetuated by so many that we are all doomed to live in a polygamous relationship for eternity and with the accompanying feeling that God is not a God who loves and cares for us as I know He does. This has finally brought peace to me on this subject. A peace I have been asking God for. The spirit tells me this is true. I feel greater joy than I have in a long time as I contemplate eternity.
David C HobsonFebruary 10, 2025
So where do we send donations for the Indian program? I'd like to donate!
Richard GarrisonFebruary 10, 2025
Becky, thank you so much for the inspiring update! I marvel constantly at the wonderful work you and your team have done through the years and continue to do today! You have blessed many, including me!
MaryFebruary 10, 2025
Is there a transcript to this podcast?
LewisFebruary 10, 2025
What beautiful children, what inspiring stories! I am so grateful you let us be a part of this incredible work, The Savior loved the children, and your article reminds us why. Thank you for sharing these incredible stories with us.
Ed ThomasFebruary 10, 2025
As a Church, we cannot let abusive narcissists pull good sisters and brothers away from Heavenly Family. We must expose their lies and destruction. We must flood new media with truth. THIS will build Zion.
MegFebruary 10, 2025
What an encouraging update! Does anyone know of foundations that still accept hand-knitted leprosy bandages? The one which I used to send them to now only uses disposable bandages.
CynthiaFebruary 10, 2025
What a beautiful update on these remarkable children! How gratifying to read about the life-changing results of the generosity of the Meridian readers. Thank you for sharing these personal, heart-warming stories!! Thank you for serving God's children in the marvelous way you do.
Steve DoneganFebruary 10, 2025
When I speak with Heavenly Father today, I will be sure to tell Him how much I appreciate the video I saw here. Thank you.
Scott ToddFebruary 9, 2025
I am an adult convert to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I have been a member for 48 years. I have read and studied the Book of Mormon many times. I have always thought of Captain Moroni as a devout follower of Jesus Christ, I have always thought of him as a religious individual.
MickeyFebruary 9, 2025
This girl and the mom have eating disorders or at minimum disordered eating. I know so many kids who were hospitalized and nearly died whose illnesses started just like this. Please find a support group for parents caring for a person with and ED. I can recommend International Eating Disorder Family Support on FB. Please do not limit her food in any way and please start feeding her high fats and high calories 6 times a day and include the foods she’s eating in secret. Require she eat them regularly. The risks of her having an ED are far more likely and harmful than anything that being “fat” could do to her. Satan wants you and her to believe her size determines her worth and it’s simply not true. You can also email me at [email protected]
Susan KnightFebruary 8, 2025
This article let me know that my father, an Eagle Scout, probably knows more about signs and tokens in the spirit world than I gave him credit for. I know he accepted his vicarious temple work, even though he refused to attend my baptism. I thought he would be a hard sell, but now I see he understood completely. Thank you so much.
Phillip C SmithFebruary 8, 2025
Many of us, from time to time, have questions about what goes on in the Church, both by the decisions and actions of its leaders but also by the activities of many members. What to do in these situations?
First and foremost to me is the realization that I am not omniscient, that my best efforts at coming up with the best answers at the right time may be wrong. Those who find fault with the Church on one thing or another need to recognize, as I do, that the Lord’s instruction in Matthew 7:1-5 applies to them. Once I can work through all my negatives and become like the Lord, then perhaps I will be qualified to know what is right and what not in particular instances. This does not mean that I should necessarily keep silent on a given issue. I just need to recognize, though, that my opinions, which I feel the need to express, may be wrong, or may not be what is needed at a particular time.
I believe that Church leaders are trying to do the best they can. I give them the benefit of any doubt because I hope the Lord does the same for me.
Jeff ChadwickFebruary 7, 2025
An interesting read, and well constructed. The author may want to amend the idea that Moses lived "four millennia" before Moroni's 1827 visit, however, since it is universally reckoned that Moses and the Exodus occurred during the Egyptian New Kingdom period, which began ca. 1550 BC (only three and a half millennia ago), and are more precisely placed in the 13th century BC (1300 to 1200 BC) during the reign of Rameses II, some 3,300 years ago. That said, though, the facts of Israelite history and Jewish practice in the piece are accurately stated, and the parallels creatively presented.
MaryannFebruary 7, 2025
An additional help would be to stop buying all high fat or high sugar foods. Do not have them in the house. Plan family menus that will contribute to the health of every family member. Search for delicious recipes for healthy snacks, and have them readily available.
Scott LawFebruary 7, 2025
The Screwtape letters is one of the few non-LDS books I've actually purchased to have on hand. I'm really looking forward to this series. I will be sharing it as I believe this wisdom needs to be shared. Thank you!
Kelly A. PetersonFebruary 7, 2025
Why was Farms disbanded from BYU?
Ron RhodesFebruary 7, 2025
Adding to the list of defenders of the faith is www.answeringldscritics.com. This site not only aggregates answers from across the internet to many of the questions raised in the CES Letter, but also explores the credibility of several of the most prominent critical organizations, including their financial motivation and abhorrent behaviors. The prophet Mormon warned us that "whatsoever thing persuadeth men to do evil, and believe not in Christ, and deny him, and serve not God, then ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of the devil". This site shows these organizations meet this criteria in spades.
AshleyFebruary 6, 2025
Thank you for this! I have been pondering and praying about this exact topic and you helped answer a couple questions I had. Heavenly Father is willing to teach us If we ask Him and put in the work to find out!
Sherry R.February 6, 2025
Thank you with all my heart for this beautiful and educating article! It has given me great peace.
JenniferFebruary 6, 2025
Thanks for sharing your experience. Sadly we are quick to judge ourselves and others harshly without understanding underlying challenges, both physical and psychological. I had always planned on returning to school when my youngest entered first grade. That's about the same time I was diagnosed with Crohn's disease. It wasn't until that same child interviewed me for a college paper that I realized how that disease had impacted my energy levels. I was giving all I had to raise my children and serve in the church and community. A Master's degree wasn't really an option. It is difficult when our bodies aren't capable of doing what we want them to. A great reminder to be kind to ourselves and those around us.
Richard GarrisonFebruary 6, 2025
Thank you so much for this inspired article! You blessed me personally and answered a prayer!
David CookFebruary 6, 2025
Amen to this: "What matters most in this life is not our family status but the status of our hearts and whether we are trying to follow God’s will for our lives."
I have very close relatives in family statuses not of their choosing that will appreciate this message.
Thank you.
Joanne WagstaffFebruary 6, 2025
Thank you very much for this clear and concise description to share with others not endowed.. Sacred and undisclosed are significantly different than secret and are expressed so well in his article.
HelenCFebruary 6, 2025
My husband left the Church shortly after his mission yet he has declared he will never talk about the things he once knew in the Temple and he is not pleased with those who do.
He says he gave his word. I choose to think he remembers more than he says he does.
ShaunaFebruary 5, 2025
Thank you for this well researched article and for defending the faith. as Elder Mawell was fond of a quote Austin Farrar said about C.S. Lewis: "though argument does not create conviction, lack of it destroys belief. What seems to be proved may not be embraced but what no one shows the ability to defend is quickly abandoned. Rathional argument does not create belief, but it meantains a climate in which belief may flourish".
Debrah RoundyFebruary 5, 2025
I know how you feel. Like a lot of women in the past, I have a big tummy. I was fat, I knew it . Yet my legs and arms are skinny. I dieted and was only a bit over weight. Just my tummy was fat, in fact, I looked and still look around 8 months pregnant. I am a missionary in a place where many families have a lot of people and women will often gesture to congratulate me on the new on to be. But I am 72 years old, so I take it as a flattering comment that they must think I am MUCH younger than I look.
My doctor just thought I was fat, I saw a physical therapist, and he said the muscles were torn and there was nothing I could do. This was in the 1980's. I am not sure we even had CT scans back then.
Then, I went in for a physical for our next mission while still on a mission in a small island country. The doctor checked me well, thinking I could have a tumor or something. Then she said, everything appears normal but I think you should have a CT scan, so I did. Now we have CT scans and the truth was told. That six-pack or muscles was in hiding, clear behind my hip bones. There was a surgery for it now, but they advised not to do it at my age, and I agree. The magnificent The paper thin linea alba and a thin (no fat there) layer of skin are all there is to hold my intestines. BUT there are exercises I can do to keep my back strong. There is a brace I can wear, and that, ladies, is why our grandmas wore a girdle. All the talk in the 60-70's about a girdle being bad for women to wear was right for some, but for many of us, it was just what was needed, a laced up girdle to hold in the intestines spilling out.
I decided to embrace myself a momma who had 5 big, beautiful, healthy babies, and accept that resurrection morning is coming and my turn is coming to have a new and improved body.
Young gals nowadays are evaluated after pregnancy and given the right exercises to bring the muscles back together in most cases.
Modern medicine with all the bells and whistles has come so far. My children do not need to have this even if they have big babies. Exercise and even surgery for young mothers give options while I had none.
Just knowing makes such a difference! And if anyone gives me a snide remark, I can top him or her lovingly with the truth, too.
Sure glad I took time to read this wonderful article. I hope my comments will help some others out there who still like young enough to be eight months pregnant and well over 55 or so.
ScottFebruary 5, 2025
It would seem another factor in the "perfect storm" was the Church recently having a public moment of discussion with Mitt Romney's presidential campaign and Republican nomination. A lot of that discussion was bad as those against the Church used that opportunity to wheel out their old arguments and false claims. It seems like the CES Letter was the culmination of that and took advantage of the public psyche.
Bob SpielFebruary 5, 2025
Solid analysis. Yes, most of this is recycled anti-Mormonism for a new generation, but it's proved to be the most poignant faith destroyer yet. I know of 2 close family members, and even one Bishop in my circle of love, who left the church due to the CES letter. It's really a tragedy that 13 years later, there still isn't a UNIFIED effort to discredit it, like FARMS did with the Palmer document. The lack of immediate and direct answers from faithful sources quickly and potently gave the appearance that Rundell's accusations were correct. The Mormon Stories podcast has also been a very effective weapon of the adversary. I'd suggest a podcast to counter both. That's how the target of these two efforts, Gen Z and Millennials, get their information today.
BeckyFebruary 4, 2025
What a relief that must of been. It’s a good reminder not to judge by appearances. We can always see the cause of some people’s behavior. Thank you for the reminder to be kind and not judge.
JulieFebruary 4, 2025
Absolutely loved this article. Lots of things to think about that I might possibly be trifling with. However, I adore having scriptures on my phone. I turn off all notifications and delve much more deeply into them than I would reading paper scriptures. I love the ability to add notes and link to conference talks and articles. It adds so much depth and meaning to my scripture study. And when I'm waiting at a doctor's office it's lovely to be able to read the scriptures instead of a magazine.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 4, 2025
Thank you for writing this article Kimberly! Your experience is instructive and inspiring, and very like a validating diagnosis I've had recently. Ever since puberty my body changed dramatically as I struggled with legs and hips that hurt and were larger than what our culture deems beautiful. I agonized over this for years, with countless numbers of professionals (meaning doctors) giving me diet advice that never worked - which I translated as MY failture, MY weakness. Turns out I have an autoimmune conditon called lipedema, recently understood more, triggered by estrogen-driven life events.
Even though it is not something that can be reversed, there are helpful advances in treating the most uncomfortable aspects of it. Most importantly, I feel liberated from berating myself for being weak, ignorant, and faithless despite my best efforts to change things.
We are all so individual in body and spirit. Let's give ourselves and others the benefit of seeing people as valuable in what they can do, rather than whispered about for what they can't do. We have so much to yet learn about how our bodies work - scientists and doctors are learning too! I have considerable confidence that our Father knows our potential and very real contributions - loving us for doing the best we can in a very imperfect world filled with imperfect humans.
Christy RutherfordFebruary 4, 2025
I can certainly understand what you were going through. I have lived with a rare syndrome for 25 years and after dozens of doctors and specialists, and even unnecessary surgeries, they couldn't find the cause of my constant pain. Then one day I was visiting a doctor for an unrelated illness when she asked why I was taking pain meds. I told her about my symptoms, and she asked one simple question. With my affirmative response, she exclaimed, "I know what that is!" She named the syndrome and said she had seen it once 20 years earlier. Like you, there isn't a cure, but they can treat the pain. I was excited to know it wasn't all in my head! Thank you for sharing your story!
Jocelyn MichaelFebruary 4, 2025
Thank you for uncovering another reason to be judgeless.
GTOFebruary 4, 2025
I was guessing ED before you revealed it. I'm similar, with hypermobility and connective tissue disease (non-ED). I'm nearly done with my mortal life, but looking back, I see the evidences in my childhood that weren't diagnosed until past middle age. All the best to you and thanks for sharing the lessons learned.
Joan WFebruary 4, 2025
I really appreciated this article. As one suffering from an affliction not visible to most I worry about how I’m judged. This touches me. There are many invisible challenges that everyone deals with. The same kindness and love that is given to those with visible problems can be shown to those less obvious. I will be kinder and I hope others will be too.
TrudyFebruary 4, 2025
I I really feel for you, our daughter was diagnosed finally with Ehlers-Danilo’s about a year ago and it is a nightmare that has really been tough. She has 4 children and is now in a wheelchair for things like Grocery shopping as she finds it difficult to walk distances anymore. For a long time she was kind of labelled as a fake and hypochondriac but no…. Ehlers Damlos and about 6/7 out of the 13 subconditions - they are still testing for those.
Michael BrashearFebruary 4, 2025
We do not have a sign on our forehead announcing, “Here comes so and so, she has X and Y going on in her life right now. Treat with love and mercy.” That is an assumption that must come from the heart, and the Spirit.
Lesia BinningFebruary 3, 2025
I love these podcasts! Would it be possible to get the podcasts written words as I’d like to add some notes to my scriptures and reread what has been spoken.
Kandace HardenFebruary 3, 2025
How is a librarian supposed to know the morals and standards of a community? This seems like a heavy responsibility for someone to sort out. What are the moral standards of a community like Las Vegas? I lived there for 30 years and can tell you there are pockets of all kinds of thoughts and standards. What are the "Christian community" standards in the Deep South? From what I understand from my family there, it does NOT include the Book of Mormon and surely does include a lot of anti-Morman literature, I think librarians' training is more than adequate. I was a teacher in Las Vegas for decades and used the public library extensively each week to shore up my classroom library. I found the librarians well-trained and very helpful. The school libraries are limited by budget and space and often only have one copy or no copies of books that will enhance reader understanding. I was always grateful for the public library.
Joanne wagstaffFebruary 3, 2025
Love and hate this! it has always been a secret fear of mine that screw tape would reappear, especially in my life. Thank you so much for this new opportunity to pay specific attention! Well written and I will be reading closely. Thank you.
Antonio ArreolaFebruary 3, 2025
Excelente publicación
Gary StrobleFebruary 2, 2025
We have had some temples for over 100 years which do not have an angel Moroni statue.
Corey D.February 2, 2025
Well written article. Here is my question though, is autism, depression, ADD and all these other conditions truly on the rise or is it over diagnosis or labeling ? Most of the vaccinations given to school age children other than the covid vaccinations have been around for a long time. But what has changed is our diet, is it sugar or sugar replacements like high fructose corn syrup, is it all the processed food and fast food that so many eat now because most homes have two working parents or so many activities nobody cooks ? Or could it be we went to far the last 20-30 yrs eliminating all fats which they are now saying we actually need. Or is it people, especially the younger generations are more stressed because of modern media and instant feed of news and knowledge much of which is negative ? Much to be considered .
ObserverFebruary 2, 2025
I wonder if we'll start seeing some of the prominent antis or exmos start taunting church leadership for a sign. Seems like they haven't gotten around to that yet.
Corey D.February 2, 2025
Dr. Kissinger certainly exemplifies the type of statesmanship and quality of leader so lacking in political and public service nowadays.
Gordon HensleyFebruary 1, 2025
We are approaching the point where printed books will become irrelevant. Like the fax, phone books, magazines, letters from home, cursive writing. All these things are being abandoned by users of higher technology. This controversy will soon be seen as quaint as the big black Ma Bell telephone we used to rent from the phone company.
Linda LiebhardtFebruary 1, 2025
I'm looking forward to more of these. Very well written and so true. But--How and where do we start to decode the phone numbers? I'm very curious about those.
RobertFebruary 1, 2025
Sorry to disagree, but this is a well thought-out presentation with excellent production values and outstanding acting abilities. If the reviewer hadn't correctly identified the names of the major characters here, I would have wondered what film was being discussed. It's really an impressive, moving experience that deserves far more credit than this reviewer gives. Angel has hit it out of the park again.
Cindy WoodFebruary 1, 2025
I loved this movie! It shows the power of what one person can do to change the directory of someone who has been dealt so many difficulties. I think its sad that such a meaninful film would receive such a bad review from Meridian of all places. You needed a Mr. Deen as a teacher! I loved learning that this young man goes on to become a movie maker in Hollywood- and if you've seen the movie you will know that this started because of Mr. Dean<3
Richard EyreFebruary 1, 2025
Two of my favorite people: C.S. Lewis, and Craig Petersen! So excited for this series!
CynthiaCFebruary 1, 2025
The most grievous example of this I have seen was a centerpiece LGBTQ book display smack in the middle of the children's section in a strongly Christian community. I checked again sometime later and the display was gone. I'm thankful for those bold enough to speak up. And thus also thankful for this article and the reminder that these services come out of our taxpayer pockets. Literature is as much a part of history as anything else. But degradation, de-humanizing and promoting evil should not be something anyone should be proud of or promote, especially in an environment heavily utlized by children, families and teens. Thank you for this article!
CynthiaCFebruary 1, 2025
Enjoyed this insightful update on "The Screwtape Letters" by C.S. Lewis.
Richard DahlJanuary 31, 2025
Being an old analog guy I thought the article is spot on, well done.
Some say the internet is the information super highway, but it can also be the misinformation cow path.
It is best to get our information and knowledge from the scriptures, church leaders and thru prayer.
MicheleJanuary 31, 2025
When my abusive ex husband remarried, she took control of the situation. My oldest child went to live with them, and they wouldn't let me see him. This child was the one most bonded to his controlling father. I was able to let go of this scenario and eventually, they divorced and his father brought him back to live with me. My son didn't need to go through any of this; I just want to echo the wonderful advice Geoff always has. It will work out.
Karlene DanceJanuary 31, 2025
This is a very insightful and well written essay. I am looking forward to the next chapters.
Corey D.January 31, 2025
An excellent and timely article, well written. I was made aware about 6 months ago of a website that is dedicated to counsel and advice in regards to church policy's and practice's, particularly the wearing of the garment, the website is geared to younger members and couples so more than likely is run by younger members. Some of it is quite frankly, shocking. The law of chastity and tithing are a couple of others that some of the things I've heard or been told members have said about it just leaves me shaking my head. Nothing much is sacred anymore, the apostle Peter warned about the time when that kind of environment would exist. Excellent article.
Brenda M LybbertJanuary 30, 2025
I’m surprised to not see the step for restitution if we have caused harm…so far as we are able. This is absolutely critical! If you have stolen, then replace or return. If you have caused verbal injury, then apologize and perhaps more. Listen to the spirit for guidance on what/how to restore. Without restitution to the best of our ability, there isn’t genuine repentance. This reminds me of the old argument of “faith vs works” Both are part of the equation!
Karen DavisJanuary 30, 2025
Every library I know has limited funding, and as a retired school librarian I could choose what books to purchase with my limited funds. With careful research, books were purchased that were popular with students without bad language or morality issues. Parents are free to buy whatever books they want for their children. My daughter is now a school librarian and she does the same. She has no budget from the school and earns all her money for books through her twice a year book fair.
JuliannJanuary 30, 2025
Having read several books on the Mountain Meadow Massacre in high school I was surprised and grateful for the accurate account in the book Saints, put out by The Church. My nonactive daughter and her nonmember husband watched this series and told me about it. I acknowledged that the horrific incident did take place but that responsibility lay with a group of leaders and followers who acted without authority and in response to fear. I have never laid blame on Brigham Young. I have ancestors who had slaves. I was raised observing prejudice. I chose to live differently and will not live my life apologizing for others choices, nor do I excuse their behavior. Learn the truth for yourself and if challenged state the facts.
HelenCJanuary 30, 2025
My daily smile. Thank you.
Cody HJanuary 30, 2025
I have had several very personal experiences with that. Thank you for putting it into words. I would say that that is another thing that Satan is working to pervert. Some librarians are so worried about being “a book banner” that they don’t care about what content they are providing.
I have also noticed this higher plane mental belief in different ways than you mentioned. Some librarians that I have come across treat patrons as if people were secondary and possibly in the way of their real job.
DJJanuary 30, 2025
We have to start standing up collectively against this ideology. We did that on November 5 and that opened the door for us to keep standing up and rid the country of this evil agenda. Unfortunately, some are still sleeping.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 29, 2025
We live in earthquake country and are also not far from California's recent fires. In addition, I am temporarily disabled due to an accident. For many years we have carried a car kit with a change of clothes, hygiene and first-aid items, a few snacks, gloves, etc. During the recent disaster, we used a guest room to lay out additional items and bags that we could pack easily and quickly should we have needed to evacuate. Now that the danger has passed, we plan to keep those bags at the ready (review and restock home and car bags at least every 6 months) and be more mindful of what is important. For many of us, the preparation of important documents and records is the most difficult. At the suggestion of a few friends, I plan to scan and download ours to thumb drives/USB flash drives. We could not possibly pack all of our photos and memorabilia in an emergency, but many family photos, histories, and documents, have already been uploaded to genealogical websites.
Gordon HensleyJanuary 29, 2025
I can hardly imagine how boring life would be with only adults in it. Babies bring so much joy to our lives. Heaven wouldn't be as heavenly without them. I am grateful that the circle of life continues into the next kingdom. This is why our bodies are made this way.
MarkJanuary 29, 2025
I still wear leather jackets. Even to church.
MjJanuary 29, 2025
It’s Deen. Mr. Deen. Perhaps you were too busy mocking the movie to pay attention to details. I get your points, but it still was a very meaningful film and it was 1986 so high school was , well, different then.
Craig FrogleyJanuary 29, 2025
Excellent!! Thank you for your scholarship and inspired examples.
ChrisJanuary 29, 2025
One of the best ways to make the Savior's Atonement and Grace real in our lives, and to experience His healing, is through working the steps found in "Healing through the Savior: The Addiction Recovery program 12 step Recovery Guide."
These steps, and this program, are not only for addictions...although we are each addicted to something to help distract us or make us feel better about ourselves...it guides us to Jesus and through Him to heal whatever might be our mistakes, or mis-steps, or our poor choices. He helps us heal from hurt from others or any "God sized" hole we may have in our hearts.
An awesome resource found in our Gospel Library app!
GerryJanuary 29, 2025
A brother in my Ward testified that he had a dream. He was standing at the back of the chapel when Christ descended to the pulpit. He said "turn your head. You are not worthy to look upon me". He was devastated and, after some time searching his life experiences, realized that at his work he had participated in some unclean dirty jokes and laughed. God's gift of procreation is sacred.
TayJanuary 29, 2025
While I agree with the overall conclusion, I am going to push back against one point.
A general authority talk warning the members not to "steady the ark" by writing the general authorities by assuring the members these men knew what they doing and did not need outside information had an extremely detrimental effect, even an eternal effect, on the life of someone I loved.
I had information about something they were dealing with that it turned out they did not have. It was critical information. They made terrible choices, completely misjudging the person. The results were disastrous.
But I had followed the cousel given.
Do not assume leaders have all the facts. Do not be silenced by advice such as that given in this article. People's lives can be destroyed. The consequences go on for generations. These are fallible men.
Gordon HensleyJanuary 29, 2025
What we have here is "The Protocols of the Elders of Utah."
CynthiaCJanuary 29, 2025
Beautiful article. Thank you so much Maurine and Scott.
Joni HiltonJanuary 29, 2025
I agree with Sister Smith. Netflix runs a few of my favorite programs, but I refuse to support the promotion of these dangerous distortions of history, so I have unsubscribed.
Donna BuyersJanuary 29, 2025
A sincere thank you for sharing your insights (and can i call it, testimony) on the matter of Trifling. I tend to joke around a lot. More so when nervous or when the atmosphere is heavy, (sad) I'm that person that will remind you in a funeral that the person was fun, out going and down right hilarious. I look on and for the bright side of situations. I am thankful for this personality traits, while I find myself needing to keep the act of Trifling with moments at the forefront of my thoughts and actions. I know I was blessed with this trait to use for good by way of uplifting, comforting not only myself but those around me in need. You've inspired me to dig deeper in my life for other possible areas where I maybe Trifling.
Again thank you for sharing your article.
Donna
Carmen MichelsenJanuary 29, 2025
The series was poorly written, filmed and acted. Completely cringe worthy. It won't stand the test of time.
Allen AJanuary 28, 2025
Church farms supply a lot of the commodities that are found in the Bishop's Storehouse, so the money invested in agricultural land is in fact being used to assist the poor
Ken HazelbakerJanuary 28, 2025
During FOX News broadcast yesterday 1/27 of the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwietz (?sp), a speaker early in the broadcast (I tuned in late = no name) gave a powerful perspective on the power of stories as the basis used to initiate Hitler's (et al) actions/movement.
He then illuminated the power of the electronic technology being the great "story teller" of now.
He warned of the danger of being mislead again (particularly the younger generation...our children) = citing 87% over age 40 believe Israel has a right to exist, and under 40, only 40 some %.
It is manifest strongly with protests/riots on the liberal college campuses of our nation today. These are supposedly the learned.
He went on to say how these prejudiced stories ultimately create hatred, and then negative action.
I thought also of the crusades, the American slavery and other campaigns, even the Good Samaritan.. A reference was made to Nelson Mandela and his teaching that a baby is not born with hate...they are taught/learn it.
To which I close with the thought of "Man's inhumanity to man!" and "As a man thinketh, so is he."
How sad, but Satan has been a sore loser from the beginning and does all he can to throw sand in the gears of Heavenly Father's plan and the prophets have foretold that in the last days perilous times shall come.
Thanks for your article and thoughts.
I particularly appreciated the Church' detailed totally transparent research and publication of the Mountain Man Massacre that was issued a year or two ago. Like the Joseph Smith Papers, it is what it is and the gospel is perfect, although it's members are a work in progress. (We need to remember this in all that we take in to our minds/hearts about all things). The Lord will judge who He will, but we are required to forgive all!
Yes, how timely Pres. Nelson's invitation to be a peacemaker. For if it is to be....it's up to me! (Which is the only person we're really responsible for and can "control" in the end.)
We may not be able to control the actions around us...but we can control how we react to them. (Viktor Frankl said from Nazi death camp = They can take away my liberty, but they can't take away my freedom). AGENCY = the greatest principle and cornerstone in the Plan of Salvation.)
Sasha KwapinskiJanuary 28, 2025
Those who profess to believe in pluralism, diversity, and minority rights, have an interesting way of changing their tune when it comes to a minority ( in this case a religious minority) that they don't take a liking to.
HelenCJanuary 28, 2025
I was thinking about Ammon’s praise as I started to read this article. I almost stopped to go to the scriptures and read it for myself but there it was! It is my personal “favorite scripture” and I still remember the joy I felt the first time I read it.
As I struggle to seek the strength I need to build a viable Grief Coaching business I so appreciate this lesson on where I should look for strength, as my non-LDS mentor keeps telling me I must see it in myself. He’s not wrong but I know from whence it comes.
David A CookJanuary 27, 2025
Joseph's initial belief that the Kinderhook plates may be genuine ancient records is indirect evidence in favor of the reality of the gold plates from which he translated the Book of Mormon. If the gold plates had been a fabrication by Joseph, he would naturally have been immediately suspicious of anyone else claiming to have discovered ancient plates. The fact that he was personally familiar with ancient plates predisposed him to acceptance that there may be others. Contrary to critics claims that the Kinderhook plates episode is evidence against Joseph's prophethood, it is in fact evidence in favor of his actually having discovered and translated an ancient record written on metal plates, else he would not have been so open to the possibility.
Walter J GoldthwaiteJanuary 27, 2025
Just letting everyone know that I cancelled NETFLIX!! Pure evil what they did, and there have been other such films this company has produced. Thank you, Maurine, for your wonderful and TRUE article! Brigham Young was a great noble man, and the saints that followed him to the West in great numbers wrote about Brigham's virtue and leadership and love.
JuliannJanuary 27, 2025
Guilt is very difficult to discard if you continue to see or experience the consequences of your actions. I would challenge that some of your examples are mistakes not sins. Someone who was scammed of their life savings should be treated with extreme compassion not guilted or shamed. And no matter how “repentant” they feel the consequences may punish them for years.
JeaNette Goates SmithJanuary 27, 2025
Sounds like it's time to cancel Netflix
AcaciaJanuary 27, 2025
Why aren't the video links active anymore? There are so many who need to know they aren't the only ones and that they can succeed!
Vic DietzJanuary 25, 2025
Where can I find Dews from Heaven podcast? Exclusively here?
How often will they publish?
I’m excited to hear about the temple as a lens for the D&C . I want my SS class to try it.
CraigJanuary 25, 2025
Touching and insightful article by a master writer who has always “walked the walk” on this topic. Thank you
Geri BeckJanuary 24, 2025
Not again. I was a involved in the United Families opposition to the ERA in Iowa. I sponsored Phyllis Schafly to come and speak. I gave a speech at the Iowa State Republican Convention to remove our support of the ERA, which was done. All of this was because of the anti-ERA reasons listed in this article. These negative issues still exist.
Sharon O'DonnalJanuary 24, 2025
Watch, "Ancester's Plea".
A very touching video regarding ancestors temple ordinances.
NealJanuary 24, 2025
Confessing our sins to our Bishop or other Priesthood authority is also very hard. I still wonder to this day if I remembered and confessed all of them from so many years ago.
Sharon O'DonnalJanuary 24, 2025
Watch a video called "Ancester's Plea". It will pull at your heartstrings.
SarahJanuary 24, 2025
Good answer Geoff.
Divorce youself from the situation. If he's screamed in the car on the way to church. Sit a way from him. If he comes near you, ask him to sit elsewhere.. Loudly.
If he goes grocery shopping with you, tell him he is not invited,. He will not hear you, so you don't go. Starve over being with him in public.
if he's yelling at a friend's house in front of everyone, (make sure you have the keys) leave. He and the kids can get a lift home.
You need some space to figure out what you are living with. If he is a Narcissist he will get worse with age. Research the traits. 30 yrs, of a covert one.. I'm out. His last 'we are getting divorced' made me get up and leave. 5 kids had gone.. It was my out.
3 yrs on life is stable, peaceful, and I have control and I'm 8 hrs away from him.
I love it!
If the atonement can reach him.. I doubt it, then maybe we can work. We are only seperated as he never filed papers. I have no desire to walk on egg shells ever again.
I'm sorry he's a drop kick, but you don't need to put up with it. Make some changes today. Don't put yourself last
Good luck
Susan Yank PorterJanuary 24, 2025
It sounds like he might be a narcissist. I speak from experience. Get out.
joe alvaradoJanuary 23, 2025
Thank you for your article. I know people who even when they have done everything to repent , having spiritual experiences, personal inspirations, going to the temple, church, serving missions, etc. they can't let go of the past. They don't forgive themselves. How can they obtain the assurance they are good and get peace of mind ?
CynthiaCJanuary 23, 2025
Succinct and positive. Well worth the read. Thank you JeaNette Goates Smith.
Steve TheobaldJanuary 23, 2025
JeaNette, great insights. (1) I really appreciated your comment about Satan telling Adam and Eve to "run, hide." While fully applicable to how we should NOT deal with sin, it is also equally applicable to many men (and some women) who don't want to deal with interpersonal conflicts in marriage or at work. We need to "avoid the avoiding"and do the truly important and hard work often needed in relationships. (2) You made me laugh with your fig leaf comment. No, the fig leaf just doesn't cut it! We need the coat of skins - the atonement and power of our Lord to protect us and keep us warm.
JennieJanuary 23, 2025
beautiful article
Rob McGhieJanuary 22, 2025
So what is the CES Letter?
HelenCJanuary 22, 2025
Sending this out to my Grief clients! Thank you.
Tanya NeiderJanuary 21, 2025
Thank you for sharing your most personal and profound experience so others, like myself, could learn!
Sandy DJanuary 20, 2025
Women who are menopausal and not interested in intimacy may be experiencing pain related to their hormone changes. Help from a health care professional should be considered
Ann HedrickJanuary 20, 2025
Thank, you, Anne, for sharing this marvelous experience. I once also had a feeling of being in the presence of our Father in Heaven, in which He gave me an answer I needed. It was an overwhelming feeling of kindness.
CraigJanuary 20, 2025
I listened to the podcast. I didn’t find it all persuasive that Joseph Smith had the type of expansive vision during the first vision that Moses and Enoch had. Joseph may have had it later, but not as a semi-literate 14 year old. That’s really heavy information to process. Remembers, it took years of heavenly tutoring before he was ready for the golden plates.
Linda StricklandJanuary 20, 2025
What a beautiful testimony. It was just what I needed to read today.
Heidi SJanuary 18, 2025
What is a woman? This piece adds nuance and thoughtfulness to the physical and emotional gifts specific to women and mothers. Thank you for your beautiful prose, which is more like poetry.
Clari SmithJanuary 18, 2025
A beautiful article that I totally believe and live. Thank you for an exquisite gift in writing these sentiments.
Corey D.January 17, 2025
We know Satan has and is attacking the family, he has certainly been pretty successful confusing gender but where he has caused so much trouble, confusion and ultimately probably the biggest attack on the family is his attack on womanhood and motherhood. I was with a friend a couple of years ago who at the time was serving as a bishop, we were discussing the things going on in society and church and the struggles so many seemed to be having with their faith or keeping the commandments, particularly the young adults, he said to me, " it's the sisters, the women that are struggling the most right now, at least in my ward". He is not the first who has told me that. Satan knows how important true motherhood and womanhood is and he's going after that with everything he can.
ElisabethJanuary 17, 2025
No one, including Dr. Stuerer, seems to have considered that this whole mess may have started as a medical issue! Postpartum depression, caused by hormonal imbalances, sometimes manifests as anger. Maybe the first thing the letter writer needs to apologize for is not trying harder to figure out the real problem.
Sarah HinzeJanuary 17, 2025
Thank you Richard Eyre for your timely and inspiring articles.
MoroniJanuary 17, 2025
The abrupt change postpartum suggests there may be a medical component to their situation. An appropriate consultation seems very much worth considering.
Sister Kerry FarrJanuary 17, 2025
SO good! LOVE THIS❤️
Mark HamiltonJanuary 17, 2025
There is an obvious option as well. That is that you get a divorce and then find somebody who truly is loving and kind and appreciative. It’s not a sin to find somebody who’s loving you and kind and appreciative. Just get divorced first.
AEatonJanuary 16, 2025
Thank you for the wonderful reminder of the blessings of Motherhood. This paragraph below particularly articulated how I felt and still feel about being a Mother. Thank you again!
"I am unspeakably grateful to have been invited, as a result of my gender, to have served as a very visceral partner with God as some of His children have grown within me and then been delivered to mortality through my body. That partnership is a holy gift. I so hope that my daughters and granddaughters and all young women see womanhood as something precious to look forward to with reverent anticipation, not something to dread or even just endure. Not all women can give birth, and pregnancy and childbearing and rearing are challenging, arduous, and tremendously demanding. But more than a hardship, childbearing is a form of tremendous strength and a truly blessed privilege – even a sacred interaction with God."
KCPJanuary 16, 2025
Thanks, I needed this right now. Also, sorry you had to go through all that.
Robert StarlingJanuary 16, 2025
How Wonderful! THANK YOU, Sister Clayton, for these amazing insights into the hearts and minds of our eternal sisters! As a husband, and as a father of three incredible daughters, I "stand all amazed" at the gifts and blessings I've received in my life just by being close to the ultimate Creation of our Heavenly Father. Our mother Eve was the last of God's creations, and the greatest.
Someday in eternity I hope to visit with Mary and listen to her share her experiences in nurturing the Son of God through His formative years. Thanks again for this marvelous article. I'll never think of my mother, sister, wife, or daughters the same again.
Myrna LiddellJanuary 16, 2025
This is a very comforting message, and thanks especially for including the quote by Elder Andersen. Yes, many questions by others and even things we say to ourselves feel "like a knife". Thanks again.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 16, 2025
I recently broke my femur and needed surgery. Immediately the calls and messages and acts of service began. My heart was overwhelmed at the number of people who wanted to help. During my hospital stay I was made aware of many others who were struggling, and the temple prayer roll was as close as my phone. Returning home, we were blessed with meals, flowers, visits, and many acts of service. I had to take a pause and not worry that my husband didn’t clean house or cook like I would do. Because my physical activities were limited, I had more time for scripture and “Come, Follow Me” studies, and family history research. I have found a few ways to serve others while I am mostly homebound (temporarily). I have been blessed that two current church callings only require my computer.
Gary LawrenceJanuary 15, 2025
Well done. Keep up the good work.
JeffJanuary 15, 2025
Thank you for writing this article on the "science" behind the covid19 fiasco.
Rob MoyorJanuary 14, 2025
This prescient article is so timely and important for every member of the Church and others who want to understand what we are up against in this world full of "secret combinations" and "the evil designs of conspiring men in the last days".
We cannot look for truth in any way from the Government who has been so totally corrupted. Our only hope is personal revelation as to what we need to do.
Yvonne CottrellJanuary 14, 2025
Way too long to read!
Kay RiceJanuary 14, 2025
This article is so powerful. I 100% agree. Thank you for sharing.
JoeJanuary 14, 2025
I believe we also need to be asking a LOT of questions about the highly profitable dietary supplements industry as well. It doesn't take much effort to run a "clinical study" to slap a "clinically-proven" label on a product so unwitting people gobble them up as "healthy".
ScottJanuary 14, 2025
The author started with a good premise, but then seemingly started getting caught in the very trap he described, the pseudo science of the anti-vaccine movement, even quoting from the Children's Health Defense, one of most significant pseudo science organizations around. The author didn't mention the cost of those pseudo science approaches: the US has one of the highest COVID death rates among wealthy nations in the world. Nor was it mentioned that the First Presidency has issued official statements recommending vaccinations, a serious oversite in the point of showing the Word of Wisdom and other revelations are what we should rely on.
CynthiaCJanuary 14, 2025
Excellent and informative article. Thank you!
HelenCJanuary 13, 2025
It’s worth noting that such attacks in the past have actually increased honest inquiry into the Church as people have found themselves asking, “Was it really like that?” I have a friend who’s non-member friend attended what he thought was our Church but turned out to be RLDS (now renamed Community of Christ) and walked out knowing his friend didn’t believe what he heard there.
I had a quote on my fridge for years that said:
“May people want to know Christ because they know you.”
Debrah RoundyJanuary 13, 2025
Great Article. Absolutely not outdated, I used the first 9 articles of Faith last year as a base for our Primary Program. The children learned the songs. As the year went by, I listen to my children as they talked and told stories and was able to match each child's with an Article of Faith. For the program we sang and Article of Faith and then the child told what had been said previously.
I also work with Missionaries and English Connect, a program for teaching English. We used the Articles of Faith for our opening song, same one as the Primary. My missionary students soon reported to me times they had used the Articles of Faith to answer a question.
This year we already are using them with singing time as we learn about the Sacred Grove and sing Article of Faith 1 about God the Eternal Father, etc. My youngest son had memorized them all before he turned 6. We had a push in Primary that year and most of the Primary learned them. I think he was the youngest.
Tove SorensenJanuary 13, 2025
We watched a couple last night. Agreed the 47 attacks on buildings etc are horrible but as they say in Hollywood "all press is good press" basically meaning we have public discussion about the LDS people. We can't stop false i for nor film makers, opposition in all things right? The positive side of that, is we as a group and especially missionaries, get a chance to right the ship and teach those our true beliefs and maybe wouldn't have been able to without this attention.
Dave HansenJanuary 13, 2025
What a wonderful way of pointing out the precision with which the Articles of Faith were composed, Sister Linford. I now have a renewed respect for them.......THANK YOU!!! [FWIW, I received my missionary cards with the AoF on the backside in 1968, and I wonder when the missionaries stopped using them....or, do some still buy the cards?]
Ken LongmoreJanuary 11, 2025
A wonderful and well-researched piece. Kudo’s to you both As a convert at 17 years of age, the story of the first vision as written by the hand of the prophet, entered into my heart with a force and immensity that was truly electrifying. I immediately felt an indescribable joy, peace and love that could have only been administered by the Holy Ghost, who testifies the truth of all things. My conversion was complete before I had even opened the cover of the Book Of Mormon. Sixty years later, at 77 years of age, that witness of the Spirit has never diminished. God Bless.
KayJanuary 10, 2025
Our new bishop announced he is there specifically for the youth and anyone else should talk to the Elders Quorum President. All programs are geared toward and a lot of money is spent on the youth. Is no one aware the highest divorce rate right now is the over age 60 group? I am newly divorced after 48 years of marriage and raising a family in the church and feel totally left behind and on my own.
PamJanuary 10, 2025
As a "senior," I definitely feel that we are put out to pasture in the church. I have lots of experience and a lot to contribute, but I feel overlooked.
Jeff ChadwickJanuary 10, 2025
Nice work, Dan, as usual. Ahlan from alQuds.
BryanJanuary 10, 2025
Great article. I think that for the most part seniors are ‘put to pasture’ here in the States because it is assumed they are too old or tired to ‘keep up’.
Unfortunately on the grandparent side of things many of us live away from our kids so having a constant influence on the gkids isn’t very easy. That aspect seems a bit more ‘Utah centric’ than for most of us outside the Moridor.
Steve SwarthoutJanuary 10, 2025
I very much enjoy and learn from the counsel of Jeff Steurer. I read his postings all the time and find a lot of wisdom.
David A CookJanuary 9, 2025
A unique and refreshing perspective on God's love for all his children. Daniel Peterson is a treasure. I hope he will continue to write these perspectives for many years to come. Thank you.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2025
I am inclined to have similar thoughts about Lucifer. He, also, is a son of God whose decisions have caused many millions to weep.
Though he would have me hate and fear him, I feel inclined to love and pity him, while assiduously rejecting his pathetic attempts to ruin me of our Father’s love and our Elder Brother’s attaining sacrifice.
I teach my Grief and Trauma clients to use the phrase, “I love you AND. . . “ when pitching themselves from further harm.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 9, 2025
Absolutely Amen!
Thank you for that confirmation about the Law of Consecration. When faith is weak, Church attendance needs to be strong. As President Nelson says, "The Lord loves effort". We are saved by grace, AFTER ALL WE CAN DO! Showing up is giving up...the Natural Man, and our own selfish priorities and agenda. Becoming meek, humble, and submissive. The Savior's mandate at the Last Supper remains in effect today, 2,000 years later. When he comes again, don't just be present...be at the front of the line! Like the woman who touched his robe.
SteveJanuary 9, 2025
We have a son, daughter-in-law, and six grandchildren who have cut ties to us. I wish they’d read this profound message. Thank you for giving me hope.
Corey DinsdaleJanuary 8, 2025
You have no idea how real to life your article is and sounds like you have younger children, just wait, it only gets harder and more real, like a co-worker many years ago responded as I was complaining about the teenage years, little kids little problems, big kids big problems and that doesn't include the trials and challenges of marriage and just plain old life challenges. We are always thinking someday, someday it will be better and more peaceful and then one day you find yourself saying "where did the time go, where did they all go" ?
SarahJanuary 8, 2025
Very well said. Sigh…time to grow.
JennieJanuary 8, 2025
Loved what you said about the McGuffey readers because I was given a set one year for Christmas and was struck by how much education had changed.
JennieJanuary 8, 2025
Thank you for your thoughtful article.
Amy FoxJanuary 7, 2025
Thank you for taking the time to research and write this. It’s a very relevant and important topic, especially today. My brother also passed away from an overdose. We are so blessed to have the word of wisdom to guide us in our health if we are looking for a true and correct resource.
MarkJanuary 7, 2025
The bishop should have spoken to the ex-wife and her new husband and told them they needed to move to a new ward. We are required to forgive. We are not required to have the people who betrayed us rubbed in our faces. And the Church should never allow these people to be sealed to each other in the temple. We believe in forgiveness and mercy, but also in justice.
BarbJanuary 7, 2025
This does not apply if you were married to an actual psychopath who is deceiving his bishop, stake president and General authorities.
Kandace HaydenJanuary 7, 2025
This article was on point. I negotiated my way through a divorce 33 years ago after a 18 year marriage with 4 children I ultimately came to the same conclusions and decisions as the author did but I wish I had had such resources then.
Janna MorrellJanuary 6, 2025
What an informative and well documented article! I can’t wait to read the next installment!
Corey D.January 5, 2025
I'm a service missionary at Welfare Square in what is called Transitional Services, we help those who are homeless, transient, just coming out of the jail system and recently arrived immigrants with short term emergency needs of food and clothing, there are those who come in with a demanding attitude or who get upset if they don't get as much as they want or exactly what they want but for the most part these people are very grateful and nice, many break down crying, especially the women, it's not a lot we give them but is more than they have had, many are headed back to the street and tell us on the way out they are going to share what they just got with their friend or friends on the street.
Ornella Brenna - ItaliaJanuary 4, 2025
It often happens to me, at the supermarket, to thank the clerks who are arranging the shelves, for their service, and every time I notice the change that occurs on their faces. Often it is surprise, because they would never have expected to be thanked for the work they do, knowing that they are paid to do it. Other times their tired faces light up with joy, as if they had received the greatest gift in the world. However, the greatest change is the one that happens in me: the day becomes bright, my personal burdens lighter and there is "music in my heart, a song to my King". These simple words: "Thank you for your service", said with sincerity, have immense power.
PS: I apologize for any errors related to the automatic translation, because I do not know English.
kjcoJanuary 3, 2025
The ramifications of declining, below-replacement birthrates in rich, developed countries and increasing, above-replacement birthrates in poor, developing countries are actually a fulfillment of prophecy. Toward the end of the Book of Mormon, Moroni bids farewell to the Gentiles, likely more than just one of his repeated farewells. He is almost sadly bidding us (gentiles) good riddance as he says the remnant of Jacob will be taking our place.
Over the last thirty years those (mostly lds) family and friends with whom I have brought up the demographic winter and it's consequences, other than a shrug, is a deer in the headlights look of "you don't expect ME to have (have had) more children do you?" as if it's a hot potato they don't want to be stuck with. I only bring it up to raise awareness, not guilt.
I also don't judge people who have not "replaced themselves" --people have their reasons. I do however, tend to be a bit frustrated and offended by those who loudly mock people who do--the childless by choice as a fad thing.
That attitude of mocking has and continues to affect so many people--especially the elderly--I know who now have no one in their lives to care for them because they were worried about socially acceptable family size. I also know too many who suffer greatly due to abortion. It never hurts just one person, it destroys nations.
For we who are lds AND "gentiles", I think it behooves us to focus more on our identity as the House of Israel than our gentile heritage/culture. Sacrifice is not a dirty word, it's one we should consider.
MaryannJanuary 3, 2025
Yayyy, Joni! I can certainly validate your comments. One snowy day, I left work late, and I paused to scrape the snow off my windshield. When I got into my car, a man nearby stopped and brushed the snow off my headlights. It was such a small thing, but I felt cared for and protected. I was filled with a warm feeling for him for such a small kindness. We really can spread love and a feeling of good will through such small actions. We can all have these warm feelings throughout this new year, as we look for opportunities to be kind. The little things really do matter.
MaryannJanuary 3, 2025
My heart goes out to Sister Soulier. Even though we have never met, we are all "one" in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day-saints. May the Lord bless and comfort her in this heart breaking loss. There are better days ahead for her because of our Savior's love, and the great blessings that he will send to her.
Justin MJanuary 3, 2025
You won't find this in the mainstream media (yet), but the covid shots were full of spike proteins and modified/contaminated DNA materials that attacked reproductive (and other) organs in the body. There will be great difficulties in reproducing. And future generations will be hampered too as these (and other mRNA-based) shots are given to most children in the US - some before even leaving the hospital. Flu shots and dental anesthetics also contain this material. It was pushed under a military program in coordination with eugeniticists. There is evidence that heart and cancer deaths are accelerating across the globe as well, following these shots. Hearts of conspiring men in the last days.
I feel for those who are affected. Satan's plan is raging across the globe.
vickieJanuary 1, 2025
So sad to read that such a young man died suddenly and probably with no warning. Im to think that God really wanted him to continue his mission in the spirit world. God bless his family ...
MaryannJanuary 1, 2025
I think the two major reasons people choose to have no children at all are 1) Concern about finances, 2) Believing that it's just too difficult, and they have plans for an easier life with more "freedom" to do as they please. My husband and I were blessed with seven children. They are all grown with families of their own now, but when we look back, we often ask ourselves: How on earth did we provide for them? How did we survive walking the halls at church, Dr bills, providing for their physical and emotional needs, and on and on and on? I believe the answer is faith. We knew we were pleasing the Lord by bringing these children into our home. We had faith that He would help us to fulfill what he asked us to do. I am not suggesting that everyone needs to have a large family. That is a very personal decision. President David O. McKay taught that the well being of the mother needs to be a primary consideration. This includes sensitivity for her physical, mental, and emotional health. We need to respect one another's choices. However, we are not of the world. We recognize that Heavenly Father has never revoked the commandment to replenish the earth. For some that may be 2 children, and for others more. And, of course, many are unable to have children. Whatever, the situation, we need to love one another, and withhold judgement.
MaryannJanuary 1, 2025
This article gives such reassuring hope. There are so many who feel stuck and who believe nothing will ever change--that they will never find forgiveness, happiness, or peace. The Lord loves us, and he will not forsake us! He will give us strength to put one foot in front of the other day by day, and we DO have a glorious future. Our Father and our Savior know of our sorrows and our needs and they will enable us to move forward.
MaryannJanuary 1, 2025
The marriage relationship is sacred and should not be spoken of lightly or with disrespect. Trust is an essential element in marriage. I would be devastated if my husband abused that trust by speaking about our marriage to others. Brother Steurer made some excellent points. Problems in the marriage should be worked out within the marriage. If that doesn't work, a visit with the Bishop would be a good step. He will keep your private issues private and he is endowed with inspiration to give guidance according to gospel principles. Even a trustworthy friend might "slip" and reveal your confidences to others. This could seriously harm the marriage and trust within the marriage, and also your friendship. As Brother Steurer noted, the problems you reveal to others might cause them to have bad feelings toward your spouse long after you have forgiven them.
JKJanuary 1, 2025
The saddest thing is learning Hugh Grant plays the lead. How low can a once great actor go.
David MohrJanuary 1, 2025
To the comment that this is a revelation for only the one keeners of the one stake, I suggest you think hard upon this revelation. Many times have I read similar revelations from different locations around the world. This is another testimony of those truths and therefore a revelation pertinant to the whole church. My testimony of seeing the finger of the Lord and the finger of Satan has been given in Canada and the Philippines and people have said they have received confirmation of my statement from the Holy Ghost. A revelation shared becomes relevant to the people of different places and is not restricted to only one location. These testimonies are to be shared to uplift all people unless specifically forbidden.
Robert BaileyDecember 31, 2024
What a hopeful article at the start of a new year! Thank you so much for sharing something so personal. It really touched my soul. It’s so easy to think you are alone and forgotten, even by God, when everyone around you appears to be doing so well.
Laura LesebergDecember 31, 2024
In couples I see that chose not to have children, I fee; the reasons were very "me" centered: Careers, life style, unwilling to commit to a family.
When we started our family in the mid-1970's, we wanted six. I had a VERY traumatic birth with #1 and felt I couldn't ever do that again. In spite of that, spontaneous pregnancies occurred and each had difficulties - premature birth, my hospitalization for 3+ months to keep a pregnancy viable (thank heaven for family help!), post partum infections, etc. With #3 baby, I face severe pressure to have permanent sterilization, but felt it wasn't right for us. When I presented with a 4th pregnancy, I was made to feel like a criminal for having four children and 4 C-sections. How grateful we are to have all the children and I survive our many hurdles! We were a military family and dragged those kids all over the world - grateful to have had medical care that covered all the expenses of bringing them into the world. Having children is an act of faith and prayer - I am confident that the Lord will show us the right path.
CraigDecember 31, 2024
Thank you for this article. I feel this relates in my family too. I have five boys and right now my three oldest are really struggling with the dating scene. All three served missions and one has already graduated college and the other chose a different career path that wasn’t college, and the middle is just starting college. They want and hope to get married, but the struggle they are having is finding young women who are mature (most of the girls they date still act like they are in high school) and actually want to be married for the right reasons and not just for the social status. Their biggest complaint is the girls they find are way too involved in the Instagram/social media culture and that everything they (the girls) do has to be splashed all over the internet and/or they are permanently looking down at their phone, even while attending church or on a date. Additionally, my son who didn’t go to college still attends the YSA ward and when the young women find out he didn’t go to college (although he is really successful in his career) they aren’t interested in dating him. It seems, just based on my perceptions, that the social media and smartphone addictions (especially among young women) has become a huge stumbling block to marriage in the church.
Ron43December 30, 2024
Per Japanese TV, "by the year 2100 the population of Japan will be one half of what it is today." 123.7mil. to 61.85mil. that is the Canary. The rest of the world to follow. No more SSI
ShanaDecember 30, 2024
I’m grateful for this discussion. Your approach is so wise as we really cannot know another’s heart and intent on this matter. As a young girl and teenager, I did not long for motherhood. I did not enjoy babysitting or helping with younger kids much. (I was an oldest child and my mother ran a daycare. I felt overloaded with opportunities to help with and nurture children). Something happened on my mission. It is a very personal experience and I do not share it as an expectation for how others ought to choose regarding having children. One day as a missionary, I saw children living in very sad and desperate situation. My heart ached. I wondered why so many of God’s children are born to such difficult situations. I prayed with such intensity to know my part. An answer came so clearly “I have to send them to someone. Those who have the gospel and the means enough to bless my children are choosing not to have very many.” I vowed then and there that I would be open to having children…all that God would send me. Later on my mission I read a church published manual with a quote warning about the sad consequences of birth control. The church doesn’t use the same phrasing concerning birth control as it did in previous times. I married soon after my mission. We were poor college students. We had our first child less than a year after being married. We had a second child 17 months later, We were close to due with our third baby when we both graduated from BYU. I wouldn’t change a thing. We had another child a few years later….and then a miscarriage and then nothing. I thought we might be finished. We had our last child 6 years later and then another miscarriage. I’m SO grateful we had children while we were in school. Had we waited until after graduation to prepare for and start our family, I’m afraid we would only have our two youngest. Infertility might have been my struggle if we had waited til we could buy a home. Infertility is definitely on the rise, but I also wonder if having children sooner would prevent some from experiencing infertility and/or longing for more children. Though I’m also a believer that women who long for children such as Hannah in the OT, are witnesses to all of us about the treasure children are. God needs witnesses of truth and when a woman who struggles to conceive expresses her heart, it is so powerful because we immediately understand the truth about and the value of children being born to parents who want them and will love and care for them. We ought to be humble enough to want and love children in our presence as much as the Savior did. As one of the comments above described, children have a profound effect on each of us….our humility determines how children will bless our lives….and how we will bless their lives as well.
Kathryn GrantDecember 30, 2024
Thank you for this meaningful article! It reminded me of a favorite quote by C. S. Lewis from his book _The Great Divorce_:
"[Mortals] say of some temporal suffering, 'No future bliss can make up for it,' not knowing that Heaven, once attained, will work backwards and turn even that agony into a glory.... The good man's past begins to change so that his forgiven sins and remembered sorrows take on the quality of Heaven: the bad man's past already conforms to his badness and is filled only with dreariness. And that is why...the Blessed will say 'We have never lived anywhere except in Heaven,' and the Lost, 'We were always in Hell.' And both will speak truly."
Debrah RoundyDecember 30, 2024
My deepest sympathy for the family and the family of missionaries he/they shepherded.
M. GroshDecember 30, 2024
I love info like this too. Thank you for posting this. However, i am just as curious to know which top 5/10 or 15 articles YOU thought or wished would have been most viewed/read. Thank you for providing me with trustworthy current events!
TMDecember 29, 2024
I think there are many factors that go into this issue. It would be difficult to narrow it down but here is what I see on my experience. I wasn’t able to conceive due to infertility for a long time but I also was emotionally immature and those years of infertility have given me great appreciation for the miracle it is to be able to have children. I think we live in a world that is presenting a lot of problems with physical health and fertility. Second, Today I see a lot of people that don’t know how to have a healthy/happy home life and many people don’t even believe it’s possible. I think parenting skills that used to be passed down from generation to generation has been replaced by peer attachment and a loss of ability for people to mature. Look up Dr Nuefeld from Canada, he has extensive research on the topic. I think Peer attachment has been prevalent since the 1950’s and it has destroyed the concept of nuclear family relationships. We have lost nurturing skills and destroyed the authority of parents. Authority itself is seen as toxic when righteous and loving authority is a positive thing in children’s lives. The pull of the world by institutions like school, sports , music, academics had replaced the core of family life. We feel pressure to produce children that can show something of value to the world, so we seek it through all these peer-attached activities. Excellence should be a part of life but we must learn to live and love within families first and foremost. Teach joyful living and kids will have a desire to grow in all the ways God intends which includes having their own families. “ Seek first the Kingdom of God and then all these things will be added to you.” We have in many instances sought to have our children find a place in the world too soon and show their measurable talents to the world when we really need to focus on the things that can’t be measured. Love, compassion, forgiveness etc. I am beginning to raise my kids through teenage years and the pressure I feel for my kids to have something to show for their existence is intense. I have children that love each other and are kind to others but that’s not of value today. Third, I think society, in the 90’s pushed divorce so much that every family movie at the time usually had divorced parents and in the length of the movie the kids had come to terms with their parents divorce. That is a fantasy. Divorce is devastating to children. There may be necessary reasons for some divorces but overall we should strive to reconcile differences and choose to love our spouse. Family life has been purposefully shown to be a miserable existence and we have forgotten that love is possible but only by living the principles Jesus Christ taught us.
Sorry writing this on my phone. I hope my thoughts come though clear enough.
CraigDecember 29, 2024
I have grandkids who are married and want children, but are paying 15,000 a semester for school and have health care with high deductables with poor maternity coverage. Some how costs have to come down if we want to solve this problem.
Eunice RobertsonDecember 29, 2024
I had many problems having children, two miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy that almost cost me my life. Many hospital visits over the years. But the Lord did bless me with three living children, who started off with health problems, but are still with me today. I wouldn't have minded 6 children, but eventually I had to have all of my reproductive system removed for the sake of my health .I love children and at the age of 77yo, my greatest delight is my children and grandchildren.
SydneyDecember 28, 2024
Thank you for these questions and for all of your work over the years in educating and uplifting parents and families. This topic is of particular interest to me at this time in my life, as I recently gave birth to my first child after three long years of infertility and pursuing IVF treatment to get pregnant. I have always looked forward to the day I would become a mother and I think that my infertility intensified the hoping and preparing for that time, which made it even more incredible when I finally got to meet my son. I know that every sacrifice we make for our children is so worth it. During those years and during the time when I had to delay starting my family because I didn't have a husband, I experienced a lot of heartache and sorrow. I knew that an essential part of my purpose in life was to be a mom and I was so frustrated that it wasn't happening for me. I wonder if I would not have been viewing it through the lens of the Gospel of Jesus Christ how my thinking about it would be different.
I think one aspect of this issue is the modern woman narrative that has become popular, that women need to work outside the home to be fulfilled and having a career is where they will find their value and contribute best to the world; often that diminishes the importance we put on mothering. Now many mothers who wait to have children because they also want a career are finding the balance of career and motherhood much more difficult than what they were told, since it's just really hard to do it all and have it all! I think it's wonderful that we've progressed over time to where women have more options and freedom and equality than they ever have before, but the maternal wisdom of generations of women who took mothering so seriously might be getting lost as we wait until we're old enough or established enough to try it ourselves and our own mothers and grandmothers are no longer around to help. New motherhood can be so brutal and shocking, especially because of a lack of community, having no "village", it kind of makes sense that women in the world don't think having a lot of kids is doable for them.
I have been listening to the recently released book "Hannah's Children" by Catherine Pakaluk and the perspective of women who deliberately choose to have 5+ children (and seem to love their lives!) is very refreshing and eye-opening and for me downright inspiring. Their reasons are of course very personal but almost always based in faith. And the author doesn't think that government financial incentives will ever work to get people to have more kids, because it's not a financial question as much as we think it is. The author also mentioned that while the birth rate is still above replacement in many poorer developing nations, it is also declining in those places; I haven't tried to verify her stats but she is an economist and seems very well researched (also she has 8 kids of her own). Super interesting read!
I've always wanted a large family and now I'm facing the possibility of running out of time to have as many kids as I hoped for in this life, but I know that is not something I can worry about right now. I am very overwhelmed but also grateful to be at the beginning of this amazing adventure of parenthood. My husband and I had the most sacred moments of our lives when our son was born and I wish everyone could have that to open the eyes of their spiritual understanding and really appreciate the gift that it is to be a mother or a father. It's indescribable but truly the most wonderful thing in the world. It's so easy to lose the grand perspective of eternity in the everyday challenge of being a parent but it must be incredibly important to God for us to learn something through our parenting and to become like our heavenly parents, or why would eternal families be such a focus of the restored gospel?
In the world it is not so popular to be family focused, to want a lot of kids, I think the "zero population" myth is actually still strong in people's minds, many don't recognize the harms of it yet. The reasons why individual couples, even couples in the church are choosing not to have kids (or to wait) is also varied and hard to say without outright asking them. I have two married brothers who have delayed having kids for years and I don't feel comfortable asking them exactly why but I get some ideas based on their lifestyles and certain conversations, so I could speculate but maybe I shouldn't. I think it comes down to whether the couple desires to bring children into the world more than they fear the ways it may intrude on their freedoms and lifestyle, because we don't really live in a very kid or family friendly world. Even if it was family-friendly, raising a family would still be HARD, and people see the hard things that their friends and family members go through when they have kids. So maybe it has to do with a lack of understanding or lack of remembering the importance of that commandment given to Adam and Eve? But we can't judge couples who seem to be "waiting" as lacking faith, because we just don't know and it's such a personal thing. I am glad that most people have realized that outright asking strangers at church "why don't you have kids yet?" isn't okay and causes a lot of pain for couples battling infertility.
For us, the question was do we trust God to guide our family building efforts? I feel blessed to have had the experience I did in trying to start my family because it was so clear to me that my desire to be a mom and determination to try was a good desire from God, and that the answer was to move forward. I know not everyone has that but it definitely built my faith so I am grateful.
Probably way too long for a comment, sorry! I'm glad for the opportunity to share, thank you for opening up the conversation!
KfbDecember 28, 2024
I am a faithful member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I get frustrated with people not wanting children and I feel bad for those who can’t and want them and then so many people getting abortions and could give those children to families that really want them. I have a 26 year old daughter that has never even been on a real date and is frustrated with the dating scene, I have a married son who are trying to get pregnant but haven’t been able to and a daughter that is pregnant with her third and I do wonder how she will handle a third child because she has a hard time with two although I am glad she is having another one. I just hope she can handle it mentally. I worry about everyone getting older and running out of social security and running out of workers to take care of the elderly. If they don’t want to have children because it cramps their lifestyle, they definitely aren’t going to want to take care of the elderly. Having children helps you to learn how to sacrifice, think of others before yourself, how to love more and better, and it helps you understand how our heavenly parents feel about us. Anyway, I love your articles and all your books and glad you are making a difference in the world.
SamDecember 27, 2024
We’re so similar
HelenCDecember 27, 2024
I wish these questions were in a survey format. All I can say is as a young wife in the 70s I was already meeting people who refused to have children ostensibly due to population concerns but largely, IMHO, to avoid the trouble of raising kids.
My 3 top answers would be:
Can’t afford it
Messed up world
No suitable partner
Jennifer GovernoDecember 27, 2024
This is a tender topic for me.
We experienced secondary infertility after our first child. I tried for 30 years to have a second without success.
Every time I prayed for direction to do infertility treatments I felt prompted not to.
Every time we approached fostering or adoption, I was prompted to wait.
I felt like people judged me for not doing any of those things, and I felt like a failure.
Last year, we had the opportunity to adopt and be sealed to two teenagers in our ward, the oldest (a son) moved out shortly after, but our daughter is still with us.
I still feel a physical and spiritual ache that there is a child waiting for me that I haven't found yet.
I worked many years in L&D and NICU as a RN and helped many babies come into the world. The sacred feeling of that moment when they are born, I have no mortal words I can use to express.
It breaks my heart to think about people purposely choosing not to have children, if they are in a position to love them in a marriage that can support them.
Maybe that is why the birth rate in underdeveloped countries is rising as in wealthier countries it falls-
As people with more resources turn to self-interests and pursuits of pleasure and wealth, instead of choosing to have children, those spirits instead are born to more humble people in more dire circumstances, who are willing to have them (or have less means to prevent it).
I don't know for sure, but I think often about how the earth could be affected by those who refuse to "turn their hearts to the fathers" and even more so, those who refuse to "turn their hearts" to the children.
The earth would be utterly wasted if we refuse to allow our posterity to even be here to inherit it.
Harold RustDecember 27, 2024
A related question for a community or nation could be: “Do adults benefit in significant ways when they have frequent interaction with children?” And, “Are people generally happier or more disgruntled when in the presence of lots of children/teens.?”
My personal belief is that some hit real lows when being “bothered” by young kids in their presence while others feel some of their highest highs as they watch or talk with or successfully teach children.
KevinDecember 27, 2024
I really appreciate this article covering this important topic. I think the adversary has done a great job distracting so many from fulfilling this commandment. My wife and I have been very prayerful about this and despite health challenges and financial uncertainties, we've been blessed with 6 kids. I know they are supposed to be here at this time to help prepare the world for the Second Coming.
Frank E MerrillDecember 27, 2024
Large families were, and I believe still are, the original "Social Security."
Ashley KDecember 25, 2024
I suspect my husband has a secret family with one biological son. I am trying to find information on how to handle this. Thank you for the article.
ShelleyDecember 24, 2024
What a wonderful collection you have! Thanks for sharing. Where in Switzerland did you buy the set with the St. Bernard in it? I'd love to get something like it. Thanks!
PeggyDecember 23, 2024
So what's the rest of the Coyote story? Also, please share the race horse story. We love your stories! Merry Christmas
Vaughn BlaylockDecember 23, 2024
This is perhaps the best list of the 'fruits of the restoration' ever concisely presented.
Corey D.December 22, 2024
Watched Wallace and Gromit a number of times, usually with my grandkids, its pretty good. Seems like an episode or a short of Wallace and Gromit was shown before a movie I saw in the last couple of years, just like they used to do all the time before a movie.
ErinDecember 22, 2024
What a heartwarming article! Love hearing of those who think of others and seek to bring light to those who need it.
Richard CraycroftDecember 22, 2024
Maybe he'll find some toe jam.
Corey D.December 22, 2024
I recently heard a song called "What a Beautiful Name" sung by Hillsong Worship, it is amazing and stirring, very moving. It was on a christian radio station, not something I would normally listen to, I'm a classic rock guy, was just flipping stations driving one day, a song that was playing got my attention so I listened for a bit and this one played and it was just amazing, actually several songs they played really touched me.
Jimmy SmithDecember 21, 2024
Thank you Christy. Wonderful letter. Great outlook. I appreciate you taking the time to write this out. This is a message that almost every missionary needs to hear. May God bless and be with you and all of the Lord's missionaries.
Myrna LiddellDecember 21, 2024
I love this! Exactly what is needed to spark young minds and keep them interested in sharing their 'stories' and imaginations, even drawing on their own life experiences. Years ago a creative writing teacher had us read a book, or shall I say, study a book, called Poetry: "Creative Power, The Education of Youth In the Creative Arts," Hughes Mearns, (not the best title, certainly not a Tipping Point capture!) but, inside are stories of reaching the hearts of elementary and high school novices who secretly shared their precious creative thoughts. The book changed my outlook, and my life choices, as did the teacher. You sir, are doing the same! Thank you!
Fern (Genie) Mason LaLondeDecember 21, 2024
Lynn, I do not remember you, but I remember your parents well from when I was a student at Indiana University. And when they came back to Indiana for a couple of firesides. Also got to meet Steven when our stake had him for a weekend of firesides.
Love your article - I now know I was a sleepwalker for many years.
Learned the Hard WayDecember 20, 2024
On the other hand... my ex's family had a strict "never talk about the family outside of the house" rule, and it took me a long time to find out that they were all covering up generations of abuse. Isolating you from your support system is a prime tactic of abusers. Keeping issues between just the two of you doesn't work if one of you is an abuser.
Ralph W. GalliniDecember 20, 2024
What a wonderful message! I will never forget our two Elders, who taught us the Gospel of Jesus Christ in 1968, prior to my starting law school. They also taught our next-door neighbors and baptized them. From that sprung many missionaries from our family. 5 of our sons served missions. Now grandsons have and some are presently serving missions. So, as a good friend told me one time, it is is ok to be disappointed. Just don't get discouraged! Plant the Gospel seeds and all will be well.
AmyDecember 20, 2024
I love this program and think it’s so sweet that so many people have had the relief of knowing, “Someone remembers me.”
Ken SommerfeldtDecember 20, 2024
Firstly, thanks for sharing. What a great synopsis of the breadth of the restoration. Upon reading your essay, it is easy to see how we could take for granted the many strands of the restoration, thus leaving us with a less beautiful tapestry than it should be.
The evidence of the continuing restoration, is ever present before us. I fear that it too may be overlooked as we sojourn in this world of distraction and confusion. As Elder Maxwell said, "A distraction does not have to be evil to be effective..."
Chelsea Merrell MorganDecember 20, 2024
This was a wonderful article to read about Captain Benjamin Merrill. I am also a descendent of his. He is my 7th great-grandfather on my father’s side. I love finding out any information about my family members who came before us, so thank you for sharing!
Corey D.December 20, 2024
There are two important reasons/causes, well actually three, why there seems to be this sharp polarization in society, particularly in the political realm. The first is, it's no longer just about political differences, in years past people had different political views that revolved around what and where government should spend money or what government should or should not be involved in, but their views or beliefs about family, marriage, education, work ethic, etc, or in other words their basic moral values were more or less similar, that's no longer the case, makes it very hard to have discussions with others. Second cause of polarization is the radical takeover of the educational system particularly at the university level that has been going on for many years, even reaching into church sponsored schools, hence certain warnings subtle and not so subtle by some of the brethren in recent years about getting church sponsored and supported schools back on track to their basic core and primary mission and the proliferation of charter and private schools. Everyone should read a book titled Debunking Howard Zinn by Mary Grabar. Of course for members of the church we know the main reason for the contention is Satan, he knows time is short and is giving it all he has to destroy the plan and eliminate peace.
Rick KlompDecember 19, 2024
Thank you, Christy, for your encouraging and thoughtful comments. As full-time missionaries we really don't control and aren't responsible for the outcome of our efforts. And yes, Heavenly Father excells at making all things work together for our good.
S. ReesDecember 19, 2024
Love love love this article. I will pass it on to our family missionaries.
C. BayDecember 19, 2024
This is beautiful. I know SO many past missionaries who needed to hear a message like this not only on the hard days of their missions but also years later as they reflect on their service with likely inaccurate descriptions of its value.
Mary-Rose McMullinDecember 19, 2024
As a mother of nine children, I often got similar disparaging comments. My reply was, "I'm raising these children to be the people who will pay into your old-age pensions!" We need children in our society!!
JeffDecember 19, 2024
Thank you for writing this heartfelt message of encouragement to our full time missionaries
Vaughn BarrusDecember 19, 2024
Thank you Christy for your wonderful letter to the discouraged missionaries. I am now almost 65 and it has been more than 40 years since I served my mission in Rosario Argentina.
Even though it has been so many years, your message touched my heart and healed old wounds.
I thank you so very much for your kind wonderful thoughts and words.
ShaunaDecember 19, 2024
Bless you sister for writing this--it made me cry...even though it's been 40 years since I started my mission in France and Switzerland...these words are a balm to my soul. There are many fruits of serving a mission, but seeing people converted, was not one i witnessed much on my mission. We were lucky to even teach lessons But as you say, you never know who else might have been touched. and I will share this with other missionaries I know who are serving, and even the missionaries we're feeding this Sunday, as well as my 2 kids who are recently returned missionaries.
Being a missionary is a sanctifying and refining process--but it is painful as the natural man is stripped away. So grateful you've "found" and accepted the Gospel--and thanks for sharing such a sweet and encouraging message
AnnDecember 19, 2024
Thank you for this article. It made my day. I have often felt that I was not a "good enough" missionary because I struggled so much with the language, the living conditions, etc. Your article gave me hope.
WallyDecember 19, 2024
Beautiful in word and spirit! Thank you, Christy! We are so glad to know and love you! Wally & Nancy Goddard
KokoDecember 19, 2024
This is a wonderful article and would be beneficial to all missionaries serving. Thank you for taking the time to write.
Ricki GibbonsDecember 18, 2024
Mother of 9 here and married 50 years. Some things never change. When my children were young I would be asked, usually at my husband's company Christmas party, "Do you work?". I began answering, "Probably harder than you!", and laughing. As a woman with an honors BA degree in Russian (of all things!) I chose my life. And am grateful and blessed. Thank you for this well written article.
Deniese DrakeDecember 18, 2024
I have also seen the circle square motif in my temple. I hope I can see it more on my next visit but also don't want to be so busy counting in my mind to not really pay attention. I don't do well at multi-tasking.
MeganDecember 18, 2024
I was touched by the direction this article took. It is rare to see motherhood celebrated and pursued with such focus and reverence. However, one aspect of social-media motherhood that is overlooked is the curation of only the best and most beautiful moments, especially when that duration becomes monetized. Bloggers don't usually succeed unless they stoke envy, which encourages us to continue our consumption of their feed. I became a mother at the dawn of blogging, and had my second and most devastating of three rounds of PPD at the height of the Mommy Bloggers. The idealized depiction of motherhood was excruciating to someone trapped in a spiral of depression, rage, exhaustion, and terror. A close friend became a famous blogger for a portrayal of motherhood that turned out to be largely untrue and heavily edited. The affect on me was devastating. I love that so many women wish to portray parenthood as a holy and fulfilling thing. But showing near-impossible standards as their every day lives, without showing us the realism or even the really difficult moments, can be so harmful to regular people with regular struggles who now think they're failing because their lives don't reflect that sanitized, curated ideal.
DougDecember 18, 2024
Beautiful insights - thank you!
CASDecember 17, 2024
This is so powerful. Thanks for sharing!
Joni HiltonDecember 16, 2024
Brava! People are not buying the outdated, tired message that women should choose everything else over motherhood. Great article!
GTODecember 16, 2024
Fantastic article by a great writer with a brilliant mind.
HelenCDecember 16, 2024
LOL; T. Carpenter "Stole my thunder" on that amazing quote!
That being said, this is why I have always preferred to be known as an "independent female" rather than a feminist. the "-ist" smacks way too much of the "-ites" mentioned in 4 Nephi 1:17
"There were no robbers, nor murderers, neither were there Lamanites, nor any manner of -ites; but they were in one, the children of Christ, and heirs to the kingdom of God."
C. CarlsonDecember 16, 2024
Beautiful, inspiring story! Thank you!
Cody HoskissonDecember 16, 2024
I am a woman. I have two children and I fully intend on having at least 4 more, God willing. You perfectly summed up how I feel about the vocal minority in this country when you said, “it would seem feminism only includes a woman’s right not to have a child”. Fortunately, I have discovered that they are indeed the minority. When you go out into the real world and talk to real people, you quickly discover that the vast majority of people around you are nice and honestly want to be nice and even if they have a differing opinion, they can still cheer you on in your opinion.
Your article also drove home to me a fact that has been slowly dawning in my mind: you can choose to see the positive in the things that happen everyday. Having two kids, I can say that motherhood is often exhausting, yet this woman chooses to post positive and uplifting content about her eight children. She could choose to focus on the thousands of things that must go awry everyday, but instead she focuses on the blessings she sees everywhere and makes the world a brighter place by sharing about them. So thank you for that improved perspective as well!
Linda K. SpoonerDecember 16, 2024
I truly love Meridian Magazine. Yes, I subscribed last year and will again this year. I have learned a great deal from your magazine. Thank you.
Linda
Linda K. SpoonerDecember 16, 2024
I cannot tell you how much I love this post. I normally don't read such syrupy type stuff, but the title hit me. I never expected to end up where I did. On a piece of land with a milk cow and 3 kids. Not ever. It brought back memories flying into my head and heart. This showed me I was not crazy or demented as my mother thought of me. I am not alone. I would have loved having my husband to enjoy this but alas that couldn't be. I am bipolar and that ruined my enjoyment of what you had. Being bipolar and having separation angst and making decisions on my own did not mix. It was the 1970's and I did not know what to do to get help. I am going to start following this ballerina. Thank you so much for this article. It gave me strength to visit that part of my life. Yes, thank you. Linda
T. CarpenterDecember 16, 2024
"That is feminism. Women supporting women in pursuing excellence and actualization in every sphere and not always rushing to say one form of excellence threatens another by its very existence."
I love that paragraph. I pray that we, all the women of the world, achieve that some day.
Monica ChamberlandDecember 15, 2024
Thank You ...how inspiring and sooting at this time of year again, when trying to figure out the perfect gift.
NateDecember 13, 2024
Artificial Intelligence (AI)
The basics of AI have existed for 2000 to 3000 years. Algibra is the basis for AI, named after its creator in India. The simplification of algebraic equations was developed along the Sick Road.
The next major development came about 1850, when George Boole developed modern symbolic logic, including the if, greater than, less than, etc.
Where it became really useful was with the arrival of the PC and the spreadsheet in the 1980’s.
What you are really talking about is Chat GPT which allows users to converse with search apps by a two-way conversation researching and improving the reacher.
The conversation uses neural networks simulating the human brain. Interestingly one of the main developers of the neural networks is Geoffory Hinton. He won the recent Nobel Prize for his work wit Google Deep Mind and is the grandson of George Boole
Godfrey EllisDecember 13, 2024
Excellent and inspirational reminder
AlanDecember 13, 2024
Thank you for sharing those inspirational stories about gifts that don’t come from the store.
LatessaDecember 13, 2024
Thank you for sharing your experiences of gifts not bought from a store. As I was reading it brought tears to my eyes. I hope to open my eyes to see more gifts like that.
Brent OlsenDecember 13, 2024
I appreciate Brother Wrights words in his commentary here. It supports, and aids my search and studies of and in the Book of Mormon. Definitely helps build upon my spiritual self. Thank you, Brent
LewisDecember 12, 2024
Beautiful stories, and incredible gifts. To my mind, it is the gift the Savior gives us, allowing us to understand both who we are and what we can become. Thank you for sharing these wonderful stories at Christmas!
MjDecember 12, 2024
Thanks for this thoughtful article. Often the burden comment is meant to acknowledge that the calling is challenging. I like the idea of thanking someone for their services. have not felt comfortable saying congratulations but had not thought of anything better. Great ideas.
GTODecember 12, 2024
This is amazing and so inspiring!
Rochelle HaleDecember 12, 2024
When we sustain our leaders, on a general, stake, or ward level, we are literally promising we can do everything we can do to support them, especially if our own callings or responsibilities fall under their jurisdiction. I have had very few callings that I have struggled with. I believe our callings come from the Lord. Whether we serve as a greeter or stake/mission leader, ours is a privilege to serve that cannot be found in other churches. The Lord needs us and wants us to help build His kingdom. That is amazing to me!
Along this vein, it bothers me when people apologize before giving Sacrament meeting talks, or they take several minutes to explain how they avoided being asked. If one truly is very shy or has a condition that makes speaking difficult, then explain that to the bishopric member privately. If you accepted the call to speak, then please do so without giving excuses.
KareenDecember 12, 2024
What a beautiful reminder that a person NEEDS to feel needed, that they're contributing something to their community! How AWESOME that the need can be met!
HelenCDecember 12, 2024
I was once accused of “Ripping off the bereaved” because I charge for my Grief Coaching. I just posted this article to my feeds!
Tim FosterDecember 12, 2024
We have a comment to our friends - Congratudolences when they are called. It is meant to say congratulations on the call, condolences if you think the Lord doesn't want you any longer. He makes the most over whelming calls possible to answer and do. In the end the term is a light hearted way to say "welcome to the Lord's service".
randaDecember 9, 2024
loved it
vickieDecember 9, 2024
most people not in the church cannot wrap their heads around this. that they can become like God our Father. sometimes its hard for me to wrap my brain around that. i guess its my respect and belief in My Father in heaven. i do believe we can become like Him but He will always be above me.
RobDecember 8, 2024
And I would ad, that this applies to young men seeking a good LDS wife. Abuse is not only physical, it's emotional as well.
Dee SanchezDecember 7, 2024
Thank you for posting this. This has strengthened me to strive to live better and prepare well for the eternities by doing what I can here in this life.
TinaDecember 7, 2024
I grew up in an abusive home, so that has always been my number one concern for my children, that they will end up in an abusive relationship. Thank you for the advice in this article..
Craig FrogleyDecember 6, 2024
This was so beautifully graphic that it made me remember our own homecomings... I can see that now you know.....!
Corey DinsdaleDecember 6, 2024
I have had a copy of this vision in my possession for about 45 yrs, I found it among my fathers things after he was killed in a tragic accident. I have tried to document it for years with little success, this is a wonderful article !
Darrell H.December 6, 2024
There is so much wisdom in what Ron says. For years he has been one of my mentors from afar. I've used his teachings and stories as I've taught Crucial Conversations. This article beautifully illustrates his insights and experience.
Thanks for publishing this.
Kandi GuffeyDecember 6, 2024
We read this account in the 1970's and have kept it with our collection of truths of our next experience. What we have is on mimeographed paper so being able tp print it with clear letters will be great. Thanks so much!
Shirley RicksDecember 6, 2024
Thank you for all you bring to us on a daily basis. I have been a long-time monthly subscriber. It is well worth it to receive your uplifiting, well-written, and informative articles.
Lee CollettDecember 6, 2024
This man was a stake president. As we know a person can receive revelation for those under their stewardship. I would hope that people would realize that this is not revelation for the whole church.
J. S. BrownDecember 6, 2024
I know a couple who have a wonderful relationship. When they were dating, they both felt strongly about the church. The gospel was the highest priority in their lives. Shortly after they were married, he said something unkind to her as they were driving somewhere. She asked him to pull over and stop the car. Then she said very plainly and without anger to him that he had promised her and God in the temple that he would not treat her that way and that if he ever talked to her again in a mean way, it would be the end of the marriage. He thought about the sacred covenants he had made and realized that he had broken his covenant, and he felt bad about it. He apologized sincerely and was very careful from then on. One of their children was a student of mine and he and their other children were all decent, well-behaved and were faithful in the church. The couple has now been married over 50 years, and they still have a beautiful relationship. When a couple is planning to get married, it needs to be spelled out to each of them that unkindness is a very serious sin. And bishops should ask the question in the recommend interviews: "Are you consistently kind to your wife/husband?" I've seen the tragedies--the evil and indescribably sorrow, pain, misery and I can't understand why so many bishops look the other way and support an abusive husband.
Bonnie BDecember 5, 2024
thank you for this article and list of great websites and podcasts! They are KEEPERS!
Shelley StevensDecember 5, 2024
Thank you for this! We have many "faith-shakers" in our world; It is nice to remember we have faith-trusters too! Would love to see you come up with a list of podcast that you think are also faith-truster based!
Greg NewkirkDecember 4, 2024
This is outstanding, especially given its documentation. Thanks for bringing it to light.
Sheryl BDecember 4, 2024
Thank you for sharing this experience. I believe it to be true. I know those who have gone through the veil to the new birth are busy and helping us to do the work that needs to be completed here on earth.
Jenny SvendsenDecember 4, 2024
thank you for posting tis wonderful vision1 The many truths therein are so important for us to remember and contemplate. My own mother went to the spirit world, and I understand now with more clarity why she said not to mourn her death, when she eventually passed, because of the glory and happiness on the other side. Our son at the age of 43 also came to console me after he passed.
Dora Glassford RobertsonDecember 4, 2024
Awesome second witness. I am surprised it is not cannonised as surely it would help the unbelieving see the truth. When my husband died, I was so shocked I called out to him, that we did not even say goodbye, how could he do this to me. As I came to the carehome, I was told he was declared dead by the docror but his soul obviously returned for three hours and that we were permitted to say Goodbye. I am eternally grateful to Heavenly Father for sending his spirit back so I could come to terms that he was leaving me. I know he is OK and waiting for me on the other side of the veil. I feel so blessed.
Becky HullDecember 4, 2024
thank you so much for this. Who did the beautiful artwork at the top of the article? It is stunning. Thank you.
M.C.December 4, 2024
Very interesting! Thank you for sharing. I love this perspective.
Jackson PembertonDecember 4, 2024
Kansas City is near if not in the world of the ancient prophets. A special place indeed.
Lexie StatonDecember 4, 2024
Thank you for posting this Scot. This is an account that I have not read before. It puts things in their proper and best perspective.
Doug SalmonDecember 3, 2024
This article is thought-provoking, informative, enlightening, and beautiful. Thank you!
L. M. OlsonDecember 3, 2024
Thank you so very much for your generous offer on these sweet books. I am looking forward to giving them to my families and to the people we minister to. I know they will love it.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 2, 2024
WOW! What a year! I listened to your podcast about recording in your car because it was the only quiet enough place! Thanks so much for sharing. Welcome home!
Marilynne LinfordDecember 2, 2024
Thank you, Steve!
Gail G GrovesDecember 2, 2024
I have loved reading your "letters to home" posted on Meridian through your mission and especially how Family Search opened up the windows and doors of heaven to so many Puerto Ricans. And many thanks for your Come Follow Me Podcasts. They have been an inspiration to me this year. Merry Christmas & Best wishes in the New Year.
LouiseDecember 2, 2024
What a beautiful article! Thank you for sharing these experiences.
WallyDecember 2, 2024
Beautiful! So many lives blessed!
Melissa Boyer MarkhamDecember 2, 2024
Welcome Home! How I loved reading about your climb up Mt Sinai and the swellings in your heart as you pondered the nature of God and his love for us. I remember a similar experience on Mt Sinai, culminating in the singing of "How Great Thou Art." Truly, how great He is!
Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 2, 2024
Congratulations on a great mission! I’ll miss reading about it.
Corey D.December 1, 2024
Some years ago at our stake conference which was the week before Thanksgiving, Elder Vaughan J Featherstone was the visiting general authority, the main Sunday session started like normal, we sang, had the opening prayer, business was conducted, then as the counselor in stake presidency was about to give the program Elder Featherstone came to the pulpit and said, " I'm going to make a change to the program, we are going to sing a couple of different/extra songs, we are going to sing some Thanksgiving songs, songs of gratitude, Thanksgiving kind of gets overlooked and it shouldn't be, it is one of our most important holidays", I've always remembered that and try to be grateful always.
Corey D.December 1, 2024
I was thinking about this recently brought about by some things I was told some members of the church have said or done towards others that were not very christian for lack of a better description and it always reminds me of a missionary I met when I was in the LTM, he was a convert to the church and older than most of the missionaries, he had joined the church while serving in the army stationed in Okinawa. He said to me one day, " you guys that have been members all your lives sometimes give the impression or have the attitude that you are the only ones who were raised right, my parents were good people who raised me well, in fact because of the way I was raised I joined the church". I think what we need to remember as members of the church is, yes we have all truth but we don't have a market on all good.
Glenn BrittDecember 1, 2024
I liked your Chess analogy. Additionally, Jaredite culture exactly mirrors 15th and 16th century pirate culture. Anyone could challenge the captain at any time, and the victor would be captain and the vanquished would join the others swabbing the deck. And if there was a mutiny, they fought till one side submitted, and the victor's side leader would be captain. And those they wished to "Leave in captivity," they would just leave on land at Nassau or Tortuga. In fact, change the names to Blackbeard, Drake and others and their cities to ships and Ether reads as a good pirate novel.
C. ReynoldsNovember 29, 2024
Just wish that she had decided to have it earlier in the year, like the Canadians did. They get to celebrate their thanksgiving holiday on October 11th, so that they miss all of the nasty winter weather and hazardous driving we get to enjoy during the end of November!!
LewisNovember 28, 2024
On this Thanksgiving Day, I am grateful you have brought us along on your incredible journey. I am so appreciative both for the work you are doing and the gift you give us each month by sharing these incredible stories.
Steve A DoneganNovember 27, 2024
Sister Linford, I waited until the evening to read your article so I wouldn’t be distracted. My surprise wasn’t the love and care that went into your words, but I was surprised, greatly, by the fact there were no comments by the many others who we both know read your work. It moved me to tears and deep reflection. Thank you for the time you took to write such a wonderful piece.
CJWNovember 27, 2024
Behind every great thing is a persistent woman! Great article!
Mariah Proctor (author)November 27, 2024
@Dave M, yeah, actually the reason that bill came about was because Roosevelt moved Thanksgiving to earlier in the month in the hopes of lengthening the Christmas shopping season and boosting the economy during the Great Depression, but it didn't work and people were upset so they officially changed it back at that time you mentioned.
Dave MNovember 27, 2024
In December 1941, Congress passed a bill that made Thanksgiving the fourth Thursday in November (not the last Thursday), and President Roosevelt signed that bill into law.
Claudia Henderson SmithNovember 27, 2024
Thanks for sharing that wonderful story.
Mark W MinerNovember 26, 2024
So tender, beautiful, and deeply meaningful. Whenever our world seems to fall apart, we can always find something--and Someone--to be grateful for.
Corey D.November 24, 2024
To the brother who sent in the question, hang in there, easy for me to say I know, I have a 41 yr old son and a 38 yr old son both getting divorced not under your same circumstances but still tough for them and both would rather not be getting divorced, one has kids and one doesn't. The 38 yr old is staying with us and dealing with depression big time which is hard for me to understand because I have never been depressed and have trouble understanding it and its symptoms. On the other hand and this may not have a very understanding sound to it but if you have neighbors like that and your wife betrayed you under those circumstances, time to move on and move away, literally. Get outdoors on a daily basis or do some type of activity, pray daily even though it may be tough and seem hopeless, avoid social media and watching to much TV. May a schedule and stick to it. Read good books, go buy a copy of Robert Fulghum's books.
Corey D.November 23, 2024
Another wonderfully expressed article. When I was younger I used to think Jacob 7:26 was an interesting comment, now that I'm older it's much more personal and understood, sums up the thoughts and intents of this article and for many of us life, Jacob says "our lives passed away like as it were unto us a dream".
JoeNovember 22, 2024
I don't know what your cardiovascular drug regimen might be, but certain drugs for the heart, especially beta-blockers, can exacerbate anxiety and depression in some patients. Speaking from personal experience. There are replacements that can have a better side effect profile that you can discuss with your cardiologist. Perhaps this could ease at least some of your burden as you face this trial. I am pulling for you.
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.31887/DCNS.2007.9.1/jchuffman#d1e151
Richard ManwaringNovember 22, 2024
Everything I read about Marion D Hanks makes me wish I had known him. What an incredible man! Thanks for sharing
Chris EpsonNovember 22, 2024
Amen!
SallyNovember 22, 2024
What a beautiful article! I sent it to my pre-mission daughter for her help and benefit. The gentle and wise reminder in this article is for ALL of us who profess to be disciples of Christ. Well done, and thank you, Brother Hanks!
Bradley AndersonNovember 21, 2024
While I don't go on your blog, I read any article you write in Meridian and elsewhere. I especially enjoy your analyses, live and in print. This, however, was totally unexpected. It is most enjoyable, assuming you are not suffering a terminal illness. Benjamin Franklin stated, "If you would not be forgotten, as soon as you are dead and rotten, either write things worth reading, or do things worth the writing." You are comfortably within both categories. While your remains will not take up much space, you have a legacy upon which future generations will build. Keep up the superb work my friend, whom I have never met.
Jeannie EvansNovember 21, 2024
You have seen the inside of my soul with your music and meditations.
DumaNovember 21, 2024
Thank you for including enough detail about the show to make your illustrations clear while not making me experience a horror film.
Jenny Oaks BakerNovember 20, 2024
Great review and thoughts! I will not be seeing this film, but appreciate your wise thoughts call to action to filmmakers to have the courage tell the faithful side of things!
Abbie VianesNovember 19, 2024
Mariah what GREAT writing in this piece. Thank you for such a clear explanation of the film which I will never see. I believe your analysis is spot on. How sad such films put out their atheistic messages
EveNovember 19, 2024
Well done!
JeanNovember 19, 2024
As is referred to in this article, I am disappointed in Hugh Grant taking this role. Yes, I am one of the people who associate him with his role in Sense and Sensibility, in which he did a superb job.
RitchieNovember 15, 2024
Both sides used misinformation.
(LDS member in Australia, served Mission, EQ 2nd Councillor ).
Brad LNovember 14, 2024
Excellent article. I'm saving it for future re-reading and am looking forward to your follow-up article
Dave BarkerNovember 14, 2024
This sounds great, but I'm afraid things may have progressed beyond some of this strategy. Many people have convinced themselves that the results of this election signals the end of democracy, etc. This has been an election strategy that has traumatized half of the population and totally offended and polarized the other half. I have relatives who are literally fearing for their lives and future right now. I have been very kind and tolerant, but have been notified I'm not welcome. This is not the American way. We need to hold politicians responsible for their rhetoric. They'll say whatever they think will get them elected, no matter the human cost.
AnnaNovember 14, 2024
Great article, thank you...
Scott LeTellierNovember 14, 2024
Kathy, informative article. Thanks. What a great opportunity you and Whitney have with our great Choir. I watch every Sunday and visit live each time I am in SLC -- was there for the Spelman and Moorhouse colleges combined performance the last time, which was wonderful. Keep it going!
Gerry H.November 13, 2024
While serving as a senior missionary in San Francisco twenty years ago, I met missionaries from the Pacific Islands cultures whose names also are descriptive. I am certain there are many more interesting things to be learned on this subject. Great article.
HelenCNovember 13, 2024
Thank you for this clarifying explanation.
John A WarnickNovember 13, 2024
TY. Excellent article. I listened to a podcast recently which suggested, if I captured it correctly, that the Egyptian symbols for the actual name of the Brother of Jared would require something like 11 symbols and the Brother of Jared only a few symbols. Hence, they suggested that it was a practical consideration for Moroni, who faced the twin difficulties of using the Egyptian language and symbols in his writing on the plates and the need to use the space on the plates conservatively. Thank you for a fuller understanding of what Moroni and Ether were upagainst as they preserved the story of the Brother of Jared, Jared, and their people
Lisa CroftNovember 13, 2024
I think there is one more possibility. The BofM is a story. It is a literary masterpiece created by Mormon and his son Moroni and tells of a family wandering earthly paths, Ether is taken out of chronological order and iplaced as the opposite book end from Lehi’s story. The two stories parallel each other and tell the story of a covenant people. Jared’s brother is a type of Christ who is the Mediator & Advocate w/God along our covenant path. By leaving his name unknown, it prompts us to ask, who is he really? All things in scripture lead us to Jesus Christ.
CindyNovember 13, 2024
I love how you explained the reasoning as to why the Book of Mormon doesn't give the name of Jared's brother. I was in an Institute class when this was revealed to us:
Ether 1:34–35. What is the name of the brother of Jared?
Elder George Reynolds of the Seventy related the following account, which shows that the name of the brother of Jared was revealed to the Prophet Joseph Smith:
“While residing in Kirtland Elder Reynolds Cahoon had a son born to him. One day when President Joseph Smith was passing his door he called the Prophet in and asked him to bless and name the baby. Joseph did so and gave the boy the name of Mahonri Moriancumer. When he had finished the blessing he laid the child on the bed, and turning to Elder Cahoon he said, the name I have given your son is the name of the brother of Jared; the Lord has just shown it to me. Elder William F. Cahoon, who was standing near heard the Prophet make this statement to his father; and this was the first time the name of the brother of Jared was known in the Church in this dispensation” (“The Jaredites,” Juvenile Instructor, May 1, 1892, 282).
T. CarpenterNovember 13, 2024
I went to General Conference in 1976 with a date (we were in college together.) It was in the Tabernacle balcony section where we had to sit. The ushers kept coming to the end of the row and asking us all to squish closer together. "Turn sideways," they kept saying, "we need to get one more person in this pew." They did that three times! We were not sitting shoulder to shoulder, but chest to back! I was mortified being that close to a young man that I did not know nor was married to! It was absolutely immoral. I can't remember his name, face nor anything else about that date, including the long ride back to Ephriam. It's mostly a blur. I'm sure we did not speak to one another the entire way home. Point of this story? They can always stuff one more person into a pew; where there is a will, there is a way.
joe alvaradoNovember 13, 2024
I personally think that avoiding talking about politics is not the right approach. If I remember well, Elder Oaks in his talk about the constitution a few conferences ago gave us some advice on what to do. He told us to get involved politically , educate ourselves about the constitution and teach our children about politics. Avoiding the issue will not help our nation stand for our rights on these last days of secret combinations within our government. I am not saying we have to argue and fight with each other. I mean learn to educate each other peacefully about our choices. President Nelson has said we wont survive these last days without the guidance of the Spirit. Lets look for the Spirit and act accordingly.
Patrick R. Elliott, Sr.November 13, 2024
Mahonri Moriancumer is the name of the brother of Jared.
Barry HNovember 13, 2024
Very interesting and certainly makes sense. Thanks for sharing your research and insights. Now we know you can write far more than interesting and humorous life stories (which I always enjoy).
Steve A DoneganNovember 13, 2024
Thanks for letting us know about the app!
Rochelle HaleNovember 13, 2024
This has been a difficult election year. Our main political parties are far from what they were in our patents or grandparents’ days where one could pretty much vote straight ticket and know what they would be getting. I would have liked a clean slate of candidates this campaign season, but obviously that did not happen. I also find myself at odds with family or friends over the outcome of the election. I will not be the one to yell at someone, call them names, or disinvite to Thanksgiving dinner, but I’m sure there are those who would easily show me the exit for my views. It is indeed sad that so many wedges have been placed between relationships when I believe, at core, the things we seek for in daily living are basically the same. There will still be many discrepancies. Ours is to be the best citizens we can be and strive for harmonious relationships in spite of any perceived unfairness.
Particle ManNovember 13, 2024
The following more recent discussions, which feature much of the same material as the 1985 talk, address subsequent technological advances and provide further insights.
"Is the Shroud of Turin authentic? (Yes, here's why)"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oM9a45ANjiI
"The Shroud Reveals New Insights on Jesus"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEl9KyZBA4g
Barbara KNovember 13, 2024
I like the idea I heard that Mahonri Moriancomer needed many more symbols to write than Jared's brother did. It was a matter of saving space as the name appears often in the account.
Donna ColyarNovember 12, 2024
Oh my goodness, overwhelming ick. I’m disappointed Hugh Grant would participate in this schlock. As the grandmother of three serving missionaries, two of them sisters, I surely hope their safety is not at greater risk because of this. Doesn’t Hollywood have better stories than this? Apparently not. So disrespectful to ANY faith and ANY believer. Inaccurate and mean-spirited.
Harold RustNovember 12, 2024
One strong recommendation I would add: Whenever one of the two sides "wins" temporarily (elections are held every 2 years, remember), the successful side should go out of their way to now show graciousness and respect by addressing valid and reasonable concerns those on the other side might have. This is especially true where all Trump supporters should spend much of their energy discussing how we can improve supporting "good, hard-working" immigrants while improving security against those who come here only for a free hand-out or who see this is an opportunity to pass drugs or commit crimes. When the victor shows compassion and magnanimity, both sides have better reason to celebrate each other's friendship.
Darwin Nelson DavisNovember 12, 2024
Such an excellent article! Every member would be blessed to follow this wonderful counsel.
Rebecca WNovember 12, 2024
I've never heard anyone say immigrants are poisoning the blood of Americans. I think the issue is obeying the law, stopping fentanyl and other drugs, as well as human trafficking. That's such a an ugly statement - can you verify who said it?
Gary WitteNovember 12, 2024
In 1975 while in Central America on my mission, Honduras had a postal tribute to Coros del Mundo (Choirs of the world). If you can imagine they created a postal stamp with the Tabernacle Choir on it. There were limits on how many one could purchase so my Zone purchase 360 and sent them to the Tab Choir. Decades later Janice Kap Perry came to visit a friend in our Stake and I gave her my last stamp, as she had been in the Choir for a while. Great memories!
Dave CookNovember 12, 2024
My mother, who is the best person I know and who has a sure ticket to the Celestial Kingdom, supported the candidate I strongly oppose. We still have a wonderful relationship and get along great. We just don’t talk politics.
Richard EastwoodNovember 12, 2024
According to John 20: 5-7, there was not one pice of fabric in which the Savior was wrapped, but several. Verse 7: "And the napkin, that was about his head, not lying with the linen clothes but wrapped together in a place by itself."
KathleenNovember 11, 2024
My husband has this gift, as well. I've always referred to it as 'seeing space.' Whether packing a car, trunk, U-Hall or whatever, it's helpful.
Judy ShumwayNovember 11, 2024
thank you that is so amazing and beautiful we all need to reverence the Flag and what it stands for thank you
Gary StrobleNovember 11, 2024
Typo in the headline:
Should we Cut Off (Everyone One) Who Doesn’t Agree with Us?
Debbi M.November 11, 2024
This Choir always amazes me--my husband and I watch Music and the Spoken Word each Sunday as a starter to our Sabbath and I pull up music by the choir on my cell phone to get uplift and sustenance as I fall asleep or try to sleep after some emotional struggles during the day. This article made me smile!
karenNovember 11, 2024
wow that is so inspiring!!! Thank you for doing that.
Richard V JukesNovember 11, 2024
Thanks, Scot. This was a fun-to-read article.
Barbara WalkerNovember 11, 2024
Love your visual. Weren't people smaller in those days allowing for maybe one more per bench? If I had been there I would have been excited enough to stand at the back through the whole meeting. Thank you for using your gift to help us see too.
Jenny SvendsenNovember 11, 2024
That is truly amazing! Thank yo for sharing this! My husband has also been blessed with the same gift as you, we have moved about 30 times in our 54 years of marriage, gone camping every year with our 5 children, it boggles my mind how he can find space for everything,he can put double the stuff in a tight space than I can
Joni HiltonNovember 11, 2024
I hope many readers re-post this brilliant article on social media.
Wendy HallNovember 11, 2024
Just Beautiful! Thank you!
Gaye WillisNovember 11, 2024
It might also be that the people were smaller than we are today. When I was indexing World War II Draft Records I was amazed at the height and weight of many of the soldiers because it is so much less than the typical 20-year-olds of today. My guess is that people in Joseph Smith's day who were hard working on the farm and often didn't have extra food and especially didn't have all the sugary foods we have, also weighed less and were smaller.
HelenCNovember 11, 2024
Thank you, Brother Proctor, for your clarity of vision. Your gift has opened my eyes to the wonders of that day!
Debrah RoundyNovember 11, 2024
Thanks for sharing, the shroud is so unique and the latest in scientific equipment continues to tease us into reading more. That was interesting.
MaryannNovember 9, 2024
Thank you for much more expanding your answer to respond to this problem more completely. My husband and I are both sometimes guilty of letting social media on our phones and computers interrupt our time together. We all DO need to feel one another's real presence. Thank you for the reminder. It is sad to see this problem displayed almost everywhere. How often do we look around in a restaurant, or other venues, and witness husbands and wives staring at their phones, instead of engaging in conversation and connection? The technology we enjoy can easily become a tool of Satan to weaken family relationships. We (me, too!) need to break away from what is becoming an addiction for many.
Sister Robyn LevesqueNovember 9, 2024
The Choir continues to be amazing! Thank you so much. My husband and I are serving a mission in Indonesia and we listen to our wonderful choir often during the week to bring a sweet spirit. When we miss home, that helps! You all are doing an amazing job. Years ago we thought it couldn’t get any better, but it always does! Thank you for this great music.
Mary ZollingerNovember 8, 2024
A wonderful Christmas Story. Thank you to Dallas Jenkins for this Christmas Movie!
Janet RasmussenNovember 8, 2024
So glad Joe, the property owners, Native tribespeople, and community took on this project to preserve this marvelous site!!!
Peter VousdenNovember 8, 2024
My father and mother were baptised in England in 1955 when Clifton Kerr was mission president. My dad loved President Kerr, but in our family President Hanks assumed a towering influence. My father loved him. As a footnote, my father knew Elder Jeffrey R Holland as a young missionary.
IanNovember 8, 2024
I was fortunate to be part of a mission where obedience was a joy. 60% obedience in a sheltered MTC environment makes me wonder if the sister was underestimating her obedience. So much structure makes disobedience difficult, unless you're sneaking out at night, or something.
IanNovember 8, 2024
It's nice to hear these things. I'm a current choir member, and we've never heard this "Do things that have never been done before" story. Visionary. Thank you.
Joel MarksNovember 8, 2024
I was fortunate enough to meet Elder Hanks on my mission to Virginia from 1975-77 and a picture was taken fir my journal. In my mind though never chosen as an Apostle all our missionaries thought he was or should have been.
Corey D.November 7, 2024
Your comments on the hardships of life mirror a number of articles that have been on Meridian the last few years and I can say from personal experience and the personal experiences of friends and family that many, so many are struggling with these same trials and difficulties. Personal Faith and Belief seem tested on an almost constant basis and it's hard to hang on especially when your doing "all" the things we are told/counseled to do. For me personally one of the biggest helps is making a concerted effort every day to have a spirit of gratitude.
Dr. Kenneth Stevens, MDNovember 7, 2024
The biblical scholar, Margaret Barker, in her book "The Great High Priest", wrote: "Literally, 'almah means 'the hidden one': the root 'lm means conceal, and a derived noun t'lmh means a secret" [page 241]. Consider the following: "Now, there was in Mormon a fountain of pure water, and Alma resorted thither, there being near the water a thicket of small trees, where he did hide himself in the daytime from the searches of the king." (Mosiah 18:5)
L KinderNovember 7, 2024
Four years ago, I read "He Did Deliver Me from Bondage" by Colleen Harrison, the Church's 12-step Addiction Recovery book. I thought that my emotional eating problem "didn't really count" (after all, it's a temple-worthy sin), but there I was, on page 1. After decades of trying to overcome my weaknesses in my own strength, I have finally (at the age of 69) learned to trust the Lord, lean on Him for strength, and even dared to ask Him to change me (I sure couldn't change myself) and He DID. I might write a book called "Lose 60 Pounds in 60 Years", because that's how long it took me to let go and let God. The Lord has changed my nature--and He reminds me that this is not about how I look or what I weigh; it's about my relationship with HIM. Now I turn to HIM for comfort, not to food.
L KinderNovember 7, 2024
I seem to recall a scripture that says that if we take the Holy Spirit as our guide, and live in thanksgiving, it will be well with us. I forget how I got started, but I've learned to play Pollyanna's Glad Game all day long. It's easy to find something to complain about, but it takes more effort to feel grateful. At my age (69), I'm grateful to wake up. I'm grateful that most of my body parts work. I'm grateful for the parts that aren't in pain. When something irritating happens, that's when the Gratitude Skill kicks in. When something heartbreaking happens, I recognize that the Lord is there, like He was in the fiery furnace, not taking us out, but getting us through. I was a born pessimist, but learning gratitude has changed me. It makes me feel younger, more hopeful, and a lot better company to be with.
Big Jim from NoCalNovember 7, 2024
Interesting how times have changed since the days of young Marion D. Hanks. I served 21 years in the Air Force and it seemed like almost all of the chaplains I've encountered tended to avoid mentioning the Savior or even God for that matter, preferring instead to come off like amateur counselors or stand-up comics. I guess they have to worry about offending someone, and in today's diverse military services that's nearly impossible to do.
But, as representatives of Christ, we need to not be afraid to let people know who we are and Whom we represent. Thanks to that wise chaplain who taught Elder Hanks that lesson!
CynthiaNovember 7, 2024
What a beautiful article about gratitude! I loved your burnt offering story and makes me want to be better about not just thanking God but also showing my gratitude. Bless you, Becky, for your wonderful example!
Brent AndersonNovember 7, 2024
I was called to be an Army chaplain in 1971, at the age of 25. Elder Hanks played a critical role in guiding my service, that lasted for 30 years. I have shared with my family my eternal gratitude for his ministry to me.
Roger DavidsonNovember 7, 2024
Thank you so very much for the article. Change is hard. But it is worth all the effort..
Maurine Jensen ProctorNovember 6, 2024
This article in no way suggested that you shouldn't vote or that you shouldn't be discerning and use your knowledge of the restored gospel in making decisions. What it suggests is that we cool our tempers, curb our rancor, seek friendship and understanding instead of division.
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
Every year before election day in Sacrament Meeting, a statement is read by the First Presidency reminding us of our responsibility to vote. So, for me, withholding my vote is not an option. I believe there is always one candidate who will better serve our country than another. It is not hard for me to make my choice. As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I will never support in any way a candidate who belongs to a political party who supports abortion (other than situations to save the life of the mother, or rape). How can a nation so richly blessed by God casually accept such a heinous sin? This nation has allowed the slaughter of millions of the innocent unborn. No wonder the Lord's sword is "bathed in heaven," ready to fall. I believe that those who in ANY way support candidates or political parties who think abortion is a "right" will one day stand accountable before God.
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
I believe the term "human rights" has been corrupted in many cases. Too often the term "rights" is incorrectly substituted for the correct word: "responsibility." There are not "reproductive rights;" there is reproductive RESPONSIBILITY. Exercising our free agency to harm others is not a "right." My right to swing my arm ends when it reaches your face (unless, of course, I am defending my life). We also do not have the "right" to sin. We have freedom to choose, but that never justifies or gives us the "right" to break God's laws.
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
I really hope this couple gets therapy as soon as possible. If this woman allows things to continue as they are, out of a mistaken sense of "kindness," she is going to end up homeless, broke, or dependent on other family members. This is a very serious situation, especially since men often die before their wives. His plan to "keep on working" will end abruptly when he becomes too old to work, or passes on. Where will she be then?
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
To Commenters: Please remember that much of what we experience and see in the USA is VERY good. There are still many, many wonderful people within and outside of our faith who love God and are striving to serve Him. Although we do struggle with contention (like every other nation), if that is all we see, and we allow it to overshadow everything that is good about our nation, we are missing out on a lot.
Anonymous (for my friend’s sake)November 6, 2024
Some years ago I served on a High Council and sat next to great man who thirty years earlier was a Division 1 quarterback for a team that was the primary rival of my Alma Mater. We made a wager before the rivalry football game. If his team won, I would wear a tie with his university logo to the next HC meeting and vice versa. That year, my team won. At the next High Council meeting I had the tie ready for him. He reminded me that for him to be seen with that tie would be devastating to his reputation. (I knew him to be in his school’s Football Hall of Fame and active among Alumi and potential recruits). For me, it would be meaningless, since my son and son in law both had degrees from his University. I tucked the tie into my pocket and made a good friend.
WallyNovember 5, 2024
Insightful article, Justin!
KAMNovember 5, 2024
For some issues God can't be on both sides.
Corey D.November 5, 2024
Great talk. I was at my brothers house some months ago, he shared a story that I'm pretty sure is fairly common place anymore especially with the youth and young adults. My niece happened to be visiting from out of state, her mom, my sister-in-law was at the computer preparing a lesson for Relief Society, she said something about being short on time and frustrated preparing the lesson, my niece walks over, says to her mom, "what's the subject for the lesson" ? She told her, my niece then says, let me sit at the computer, she pulls up some AI program or bot, types in a few things, lesson pops up, she sends it to the printer, hands it to her mom, total time, about 5 min. Pretty sure anyone under 30 that's how most lessons and talks are being prepared anymore.
MaryannNovember 5, 2024
Counting our blessings, and thanking our Heavenly Father for them each day is certainly a BIG essential step in "thinking celestial!"
MaryannNovember 5, 2024
When I was in school, a graduation requirement was to complete a class on American government. You really could not graduate unless you completed this class. One big step we must take is to marshal our ranks as parents and grandparents and let the schools know that we want American history, American government, and knowledge about our sacred documents taught in our schools. Our kids need to know about the sacrifices and blood that was shed to make the freedoms they enjoy possible. We need to also insist that the heavy criticisms aimed at our founding fathers be eliminated from school classrooms. I shudder when I see interviews where people do not even understand why we celebrate the 4th of July!
MaryannNovember 5, 2024
Thank you so much for your wonderful stories. We need laughter desperately, probably today more than ever.
Matt ProctorNovember 5, 2024
I listened to Afterglow on my mission in the Dominican Republic (84-86). Everytime I hear one of their songs, I am transported back to that special time in my life. Some of the best LDS music I have ever heard.
Andrew GroftNovember 5, 2024
Nice work, Stephen. I like your use of Plutarch’s Cincinnatus. Publius Valarius was this kind of leader, as well. Come to think of it, Donald Trump might fit the mold, rough around the edges as he seems. But the Roman and Greek heroes didn’t face the level of vitriol and constructed division America faces today. It is unpopular in some circles to admit Trump is a modern hero, and more palatable if you add that you don’t like his tweets, or he’s our best of two bad choices. But Trump left his plough, he relinquished power even when we knew the 2020 election was questionable. He puts up with horrible abuse, and puts his life on the line for his service. There is truth to be found. There are great men and women—greater even that in Plutarch’s annals. The truth may be more difficult to find, but it is only because the equal and opposite darkness comes with the great light of this greatest human awakening. As lighter, comes darker.
It’s no surprise to me that the namesake of Stephen Earl and the prodigy of Dan and Julie Earley could make such mature and insightful observations. Thank you, friend.
Val LNovember 4, 2024
In the Book of Mormon there were Gadianton Robbers, and they caused so many problems that "it became expedient that all the people, both the Nephites and Lamanites should take up arms against them". (3 Nephi 2:11) The Book of Mormon is a guide to the latter days. One day, we will need to decide to choose a side that we believe is the best one to bless our community and preserve our Constitution...and vote! I'm sorry, but this article seemed to shame us for taking sides and to not vote? The last days will be filled with good and evil. Hopefully, we can choose the best of two choices. I have decided to vote, and pray that my vote may lead to the best outcome!
Margaret BourneNovember 4, 2024
I am not American nor do I live in America, so I am an outsider looking in. And what I see is not good. I totally agree with your article that so many of your countrymen, probably many who have been in the military together, fighting together for a common cause are now at each other's throats, threatening all sorts of calamities. Please, all, turn to God and live. Our country is not perfect by any means, so we can all learn from the Saviour's teachings. If only we will do so before its too late. Please, please, turn to God. He will succor us all, yes, everyone, on both sides.
MaryNovember 4, 2024
Red Gadiantons; What the Prophets Have Taught About Communist Secret Combinations that Threaten Mankind is a Book by Zack Strong detailing secret combinations and conspiracy from a spiritual perspective.. Worth the read.
Holly DudleyNovember 4, 2024
Could you tell me your reference source listing the items contained in the box that Joseph opened. I can find nothing in Joseph Smith History, the accounts of the Three & the eight witnesses stating the angel showed them these items nor in Moroni’s account in Mormon 8 that gives this list. Also, could you reference the source for David Whitmer’s remarks that you quoted. If all these items were in the box did Joseph only take the plates out? Do we know what happened to the other items? This is something I have been curious about for a long time, but have never been able to find an answer. . Thank you for the time you put into these podcasts, I really enjoy them.
Jean CallisterNovember 4, 2024
Thank you for this timely article. I would like to plaster the walls of my home with it! I am silly enough to like plays on words. Here is a little story to illustrate: A man named Anger married a lady named Rage. When their first child was born, they wondered what to name it. They decided to use a combination of letters from both names and called it Danger. Don't mess with this family!
Robert StarlingNovember 4, 2024
Thank you, Maurine, for your kind and gentle voice of sanity in insane times. Jesus asked all of us who love him to "come follow me". When he was lifted up on the cross by those who expressed their feelings in the ultimate "cancellation" of his teachings and his example, he said, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do". If we are to truly be His followers, we too must forgive those who have different views, even when we believe they "know not what they do".
David C Hobson, DDSNovember 4, 2024
So sad to have to hold your nose to vote!
BIHNovember 4, 2024
I think the writer would have been wise to stick with President Lincoln as a president who is universally admired in our modern age. Despite what some people like to think, we members of the church were baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and not into the Republican party. President Reagan was not particularly one whom I admired although I voted for him the first time.
Lynn DNovember 4, 2024
Thank you!! I wish everyone could read this and feel the same as we do!!
May Heavenly Father Bless You and all of America!!
One Concerned Gramma
Kathy McFarlansNovember 4, 2024
Amen, amen, amen!
DumaNovember 4, 2024
I appreciate articles like this, and have made note of it in case I need to refer back to it. I appreciate the careful research and neatly-outlined arguments.
I also appreciate that it demonstrates the futility of trying to convince the world on its own terms of truths in which it is uninterested. The pattern is: 1) identify an evidence-based claim against the Book of Mormon made by its enemies, 2) research said claim, 3) present evidence and arguments against the claim, 4) receive indifferent response from claimants, 5) rinse and repeat.
It always boils back down to the original formula for knowing whether the Book is true: reading and asking God for a personal witness. I'm glad that such apologetics exist, but that we don't have to rely upon them for a personal testimony.
Rochelle HaleNovember 4, 2024
I never questioned why there are Almas in the Book of Mormon, nor the possible gender identity (as I have read in other articles). In our day many names may be used for men or women. This time around in our Book of Mormon study, it has been helpful for me to keep track of all of the record-keepers, many of whom are related
DumaNovember 3, 2024
Maria -
The content within the letter has already been proven false through multiple rebuttals. In addition, my brother has read all 138 pages and the rebuttals as well. It was an arduous process, but after it all, he can state with confidence that the arguments found in the letter are flimsy, shallow, and recycled, and that anyone who really does their homework can reach solid answers about the questions contained therein.
The angle of this article was to show that since we, as readers, assume legitimacy based upon perceived sincerity, exposing the insincerity removes the last, possible leg upon which the CES letter had to stand.
Sophia McLaughlinNovember 3, 2024
This article argues that what constitutes a "human right" is in some cases up for debate and lists some examples like abortion and euthanasia. However in the same list of debated rights is listed "women's rights", which I find very troubling. What does this even mean? Are "women's rights" not equivalent to human rights?
Corey D.November 3, 2024
Replying to the first comment, I'm pretty sure I know who you are referring to and that is somewhat understandable considering the individual's personality, which is awful, but if you are basing threats to the country and constitution based on a terrible personality you are not understanding what are truly the greatest threats to the constitution as our founding fathers intended it to be used or read. Referencing the article, less than a couple of hours ago I watched an interesting video, it's the Commencement Address at Hillsdale College, it was given by Pat Sajak, probably one of the most well known TV personalities in the country if not the world, did he talk about what it's like to be famous or rich or anything like that, nope, he talked about civility and the great need for more of it in society right now, great address.
Jeanette Goates SmithNovember 3, 2024
There are so many ways you could have shared this concept. I thought It was very clever to use an “It was the best of times. it was the worst of times,” approach. Thanks for the inspiration
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Corey D.November 2, 2024
Wow, 17 yrs old, hope he wants to run for office, might be the answer to my daily prayer and plea that more decent, moral, honest and humble people will be inspired to run for office. What an intelligent well written article.
SimplicioNovember 1, 2024
Time and again the Book of Mormon warns us of ambitious men and political leaders who "stir up unto anger" their people for the purpose of gaining power and influence, often resulting in conflict, even war. (Alma 48:3;51:9;63:14.)
Lamanite kings are not the only ones who employ such tactics. There is no virtue in knee-jerk politics.
"It is the wicked that stir up the hearts of the children of men unto [riot or] bloodshed." -Mormon 4:5
Don't vote Lamanite!
Dave HallNovember 1, 2024
Excellent article. Wise advice. Though I would add a couple of points about this longing for "a nostalgic time when Americans chose from people that were truly admired—like Lincoln, or perhaps Reagan."
First, during his time, Lincoln was widely vilified--Reagan more so during his. Remember, Lincoln was assassinated by a man who considered him evil. Reagan was the victim of an assassination attempt. But, now dead, they are widely admired, analogous to the ancient Jewish admiration of the dead prophets.
Second, today, our view of candidates and public officials is obscured by a media that has become less and less trusted and has become less dedicated to reporting the news to us and, in most cases, obsessed with skewing their reporting to promote their own political agenda. Many sources apparently have no qualms about even lying to portray the world as they wish us to see it. This new philosophy of advocacy journalism is actually openly taught in most journalism schools. It takes some work and some wisdom to ferret out sources we can count on to accurately report what is actually going on. This strongly colors the views of many about the character of political figures.
GTONovember 1, 2024
My husband and I have been married nearly 57 years, and this was our story for many years of our marriage. Really, he didn't get control and start making good decisions until he was around 70. I know that sounds frightening, but here's some unsolicited advice. You can still have fun as a family even under financial stress and in rented homes and moving often. We had a blast with our six kids in spite of it all. Second, finances are worse if there's a divorce--you still have to work together on money but your expenses are higher and the stress is greater. If you have to start working or add to your current work schedule, the kids essentially lose both parents. It's really worth it to stick it out and find a way. We are elderly now but financially secure with our loving family intact.
KathleenNovember 1, 2024
Wise for your years.
Mary Ann JohnsonOctober 31, 2024
Wow. So well said. Now if I could just figure out how to sort out what each did in their term. LOL
ShannaOctober 31, 2024
Excellent article. Thank you for your wise words.
ScottHOctober 31, 2024
Surprisingly mature for the thoughts of a 17-year-old. Yet I disagree with the proposition that votes for a third-party candidate do nothing more than support the winning candidate. These votes still signify diminished trust in the mainstream party candidates, letting parties know that they need to do a better job of surfacing and promoting quality candidates. I am also not persuaded that selling one's soul on the altar of political power simply to be said to have voted for a candidate with a higher likelihood of winning is worth the bargain.
CJOctober 31, 2024
Well said!! Thank You
MaggieOctober 31, 2024
Thank you for your insights as a young person. It's interesting you can't vote yet
I think we have a few other helps when picking and vetting a candidate.
We need to do our due diligent.
We can study it out then pray about it.
We need to remember that Satan calls evil different names to make them look more enticing and acceptable. We need to call them what they are.
Remember in the Book of Mormon the Lord used "unrighteous" men to make things happen. Omni
I agree. We don't know people's hearts.
Please choose wisely because the future of our nation and our lives depend on it.
Use your right to vote.
It will make a difference.
Terry DickensOctober 31, 2024
This is an important article. Candidates are typically flawed. If you're concerned about selecting the best or the worst, consider what their positions are on issues that are important to you: Controlling the border, inflation and the cost of living, killing unborn babies, religious freedom, and so many others. The choice becomes clearer if we ask these types of questions.
Robert StarlingOctober 31, 2024
"Out of the mouths of babes ....." It's amazing that a 17 year-old can have such wisdom, and can express it so eloquently. I agree wholeheartedly. In essence, we should ignore the mean tweets, the extreme accusations, the name-calling, and the personalities of the candidates. Those qualities (or lack thereof) will not be what governs our nation for the next four years and beyond. It is the POLICIES and the VALUES of two opposing philosophies that we are choosing with our vote, just as we did in the War in Heaven. Forget the candidates. Look at the bigger picture. Look at the RECORDS and the VALUES of the Donkey plan for mankind vs the Elephant plan, and vote accordingly.
Jan KuesterOctober 31, 2024
What a brilliant and greatly needed explanation of how to choose a candidate to support and vote for. I have struggled mightily for many years, feeling as though I had to choose between the devil or the deep blue sea when voting and yes, having done my civic duty, feeling guilty having made that choice. THANK YOU!!
L KinderOctober 31, 2024
Republican Democracy IS a messy process, but the good news is that the longest we have to put up with the new team is 4 to 8 years. Then we have another "bloodless revolution" with a new election. As I read the scriptures, politics has always been messy, whether it's judges or kings. I'm just grateful that we AREN'T voting for Head of the Church. We're JUST voting for President. Eventually the donkeys and the elephants will yield to the Lamb, and there will be peace on earth for a thousand years. None of this is a surprise to God. In the meantime, s/he who keeps his/her peace wins.
Phil SnowOctober 31, 2024
This is an admirable essay from a young man. But we need to remember that while Lincoln is universally admired now, he was hated by perhaps half of the country in 1860, so we should look at that election from the viewpoint of that day and age, not from our present perspective.
Also, no potential President will be "perfect." They all have flaws. So we need to decide based on their policy positions, such as abortion, border security, economy, foreign relations, use of our vast energy resources, etc. Looking at the current election from that perspective makes the decision easy in my opinion.
erikpeterhansenOctober 31, 2024
Well don't both sides have policies we don't agree with and policies we do agree with? It's not just all or none, black and white. This makes it even harder to go with either. What can we do? The Spirit says to me pick the candidate that has parts of an agenda that stick out to you as most important. I don't see either agenda as pure and right. What a problem! I love our country but our country's system could be improved.
CJOctober 31, 2024
We’ll said!! Thank you!
Ken MathiasOctober 31, 2024
This man is going far in this life! I can't recall reading anything this well written and I never could have written something this well versed. Well done.
ClaireOctober 31, 2024
In years past those admired men and women did not have personal lives exposed as they are now, would I have voted fir JFK had his immoral weaknesses been widely known?
Thank you Senator Lee for your comments about political leaders do not look like our Christian leaders. Even those are not perfect. None of us are…..
Angie KivettOctober 31, 2024
Wow! Very insightful, wise and classy article. Great thoughts and advice. Thanks Stephen!
Ann De FrancisOctober 31, 2024
I was truly surprised to learn that this well thought out and beautifully written piece was composed by a 17-year-old from my own state of Arizona. Well done! Much here that’s worth pondering with open minds and hearts as we head to the ballot box.
Myrna T AndersonOctober 31, 2024
Well written, Young One!
CynthiaOctober 30, 2024
What a marvelous metaphor for our working together! Thank you, Becky, for this inspiring article! It is wonderful to know that we can sponsor a child for as little as $30 a month. What a difference that makes! Thank you for sharing the story about Meena. I will pray that she and her siblings will be blessed with sponsors.
LewisOctober 30, 2024
what a wonderful analogy. We can think of our lives as being built on the human pyramids that have gone before us, and can be part of that pyramid that lifts another. Your insights are inspiring, and your gift of telling stories is amazing. Thank you for letting us be a part of your incredible work.
MaggieOctober 30, 2024
Does this info apply to someone who support DEMOCRACY vs. someone who supports a fascist regime?????
My ancestors signed the Declaration and the Constitution. I am a descendant of George Washington. How can i support someone who wants to destroy our country and the Constitution????
Wally GoddardOctober 30, 2024
Wonderfully insightful, Loren! Thank you.
Steve DoneganOctober 29, 2024
I used to send postcards to speakers in our sacrament meetings. They would thank the speaker for their topic, then something they’d said would be mentioned. It would end with encouragement to keep speaking out from their heart. I now sit in the foyer due to my Eternal Companion’s illness and can’t hear the speakers well enough to write a card. I miss it…
Jesse BrownOctober 28, 2024
I was serving in the Northeast British mission when President Hanks arrived in London. It was like a breath of fresh air went across all of the British Isles. Teaching and converting became more important than just numbers of baptisms. President Hanks was from Federal Heights Ward as were the mission presidents in Paris and New York City at the same time.
Barbara WalkerOctober 28, 2024
If we can remember to speak truth respectfully and back it up with words from Jesus or the prophets, then it is up to the listener to receive it and embrace it or to reject it. I would rather speak truth than to remain silent and have to answer to the Lord at some future point for my cowardice. "I am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ."
J. Y.October 28, 2024
Thank you
Joseph C. SaulqueOctober 28, 2024
This part of the Book of Mormon needs to be applied to today. Is this what is going to happen to the USA based on non-repenters.
Charles McClellandOctober 28, 2024
Thank you for this very timely and needed article. I will read it a couple more times between now and election day!
Darlene HutchisonOctober 28, 2024
Duff was Seminary Teacher at West High, and he loved his students just as much as his missionaries. He even arranged the ride for one student who lived away from a bus. When he asked why she stopped coming to Seminary, she told him of her problem, and he personally solved it!
HelenCOctober 28, 2024
I knew some of his missionaries! A a child in England my mother, Sister Boffey, fed them regularly in our home. We left for Australia in 1963 but I have find memories of HER “boys”.
Phillip C SmithOctober 28, 2024
Marion D Hanks is one of he greatest people I have ever known. He agreed to perform my marriage to Ruth Ann Hafen but was unable to do so, since I believe that the General authorities then were asked to perform marriages only in the Salt Lake Temple and we were married in another temple.
Rochelle HaleOctober 28, 2024
These two wonderful brothers have influenced my life. As a convert of a few years, I sailed to Catalina Island with Elder Hanks who was coming to speak at our young adult conference. I believe he was the first General Authority I had met, or at least in person. Not only did he inspire us during the meetings, but we sat near him on the boat and listened to his counsel and stories. He was so personable, friendly, and a man who felt the Spirit of the Lord.
My husband served with Elder Holland while attending grad school in Washington, and they kept up a periodic communication. One summer we were going to be in Salt Lake City. My husband called for an appointment with "Jeff," but we learned he was out of the country. Just a few weeks later we were in SLC again, and we took a chance of just stopping by the church office building. Of course, security and secretaries scrutinized us, but Elder Holland recognized my husband's voice and invited us into his office for a short visit. We talked about our current church callings, family, etc. As we concluded our time together, Elder Holland gave me a warm hug. My husband said I "floated" out of the building after being hugged by an apostle of the Lord.
SusanOctober 28, 2024
Thank you Nicholeen
I have read many of your columns and appreciated them very much. Thank you for the valuable perspective.
This election has been very contentious and troubling, and my husband and I have expressed our thoughts to each other pretty well, even though we surprisingly did not agree.
We’re at the point now where we just avoid talking about our choices and wish for it to be over and for someone to clearly win.
MaryannOctober 26, 2024
Thank you so much. There is a big difference between pitching a certain candidate at church, and withholding the truths in The Proclamation On The Family. We do NOT need to walk on eggshells when we teach the gospel, as taught by our Prophets and Apostles. We do not bury the truth because we are afraid someone may get their feelings hurt. We can state the truth courageously and fearlessly. Fortunately, I haven't heard people make the kinds of statements mentioned in this article about "not being able to talk about" important truths. When we hear these comments, we need to speak up politely and remind others that we don't worship "feelings," like so much of the world does. We proclaim truth.
Gary LawrenceOctober 26, 2024
Excellent article -- good job as always, Merrilee. Truths will never conflict; man's designs and argued connections to supposed truths will. Pointing out differences need not spawn political contention. As we defend gospel principles, there is no persuasion without contrast.
David DahlOctober 25, 2024
Consider this example: Alexei Navalny was the foremost opposition leader in Russia, which, of course, made him a political prisoner. He died—was finished off—on February 16, 2024. He was 47. His last prison was one of the harshest in Russia, up in the Arctic Circle, known as “Polar Wolf.” In various prisons, Navalny managed to keep diaries, which his wife edited into a book that has now been published. In one passage, Navalny speaks of Russia’s rulers and how to combat them: “We must do what they fear—tell the truth, spread the truth. This is the most powerful weapon against this regime of liars, thieves, and hypocrites. Everyone has this weapon. So make use of it.”
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for sharing another inspiring story about Madi! Your willingness to open up about heart wrenching events in your life is remarkable. We all learn from you and are inspired by your faithfulness, whatever the circumstances. So grateful to hear that Tori is well and that Madi was an inspiration to her.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
God's tender mercies are everywhere!! Thank you for sharing this beautiful story of how you blessed the lives of Ukranian refugees and they blessed you in return. You and your family are such amazing examples of Christlike service!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
I love this story! Thank you for the reminder of the power of fasting and prayer! Thank you, thank you.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for the profound truths you taught in this article! We are not alone in our pain and we can feel so much joy from losing ourselves in the service of others. Thank you for this reminder!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What an inspired mission leader!! Thank you for sharing this story of Elder Jones and how service changed his mission and his life. Thank you for the message of how service can change OUR lives! Bless you for your consecrated service.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What a beautiful sentiment to start the year! Thank you for sharing that powerful scripture, the last sermon that the Savior taught in mortality. You inspire me to better know God through serving my fellowmen!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What a beautiful, personal story you have written! Thank you for the insights into your early family life. It sounds like you and John have a remarkable relationship and are equally yoked in goodness. Bless you for following the spirit and creating this lasting legacy of love and service!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What a heartfelt example of a true leader. I am inspired by your article to be more intentional in my service and have eyes to see. Thank you for sharing this wonderful example!!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for that powerful analogy! Your research for this article was impressive and impactful. Thank you for the timely reminder to evaluate how we spend our time and with whom!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for making us aware of the opportunities to sponsor a child and bring hope to the children of the leprosy affected in Bihar! How wonderful that Meridian readers helped build the school and are now filling it. What a great work!!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
It's such a small thing to sponsor a child but it has such a profound effect on their lives! I am so grateful for the opportunity to be a Rising Star sponsor. Thank you, Becky, for bringing this joy into my life and for serving the neediest here on earth.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
I was brought to tears reading this experience! I am so grateful that volunteers can go to India again and that hearts are touched by what they see and feel there. I cried as I read the words, "Where dead men walk, and where the dying talk of life before the curse upon them came." Surely, the Savior would walk among the leprosy affected and what a great example you are, Becky, for walking in the Savior's footsteps!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Lakshmi's story is heart rending! Yet, at the same time I am given hope in humanity for the remarkable generosity of the Meridian Magazine readers! Wow! What a blessing all of you are to the community of leprosy affected in the Bihar region. I am so proud to be a Meridian reader!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What an incredible work you are doing there in Bihar! I love the persistence of Suku to help Satya in absolutely every way possible! Thank you for providing this opportunity for us to join with you in this Christlike service.
Patricia WintersOctober 25, 2024
Scot: "As we see this great destruction it feels like it hurts me personally. I have come to know these Nephites well and it makes me so sad to know they are decimated." Scot, decimated means to be reduced by one-tenth. 230,000 warriors were cut down to 24 individuals - that's a lot more destruction than one-tenth!
CamiOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for encouraging us to be brave and stand up for truth. It's time to fill the void with testimony of Christ's gospel and live His principles. It's been a lonely road going against the grain when speaking up when I've felt compelled over the last few years. I sure hope this wakes people up so they can have ears to hear. I just hope it's not too late and others are not past feeling from denying promptings to speak up when they were instead lulled by carnal security or flattery.
Lynette DyasOctober 24, 2024
then someone please explain why everything that we, as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, believe in, live by, sustain and support, seems to go by the wayside in support of a Presidential candidate who is a modern day King Noah and the opposite of everything the church represents. And there are members who voice their support for this presidential candidate on Sunday's, in Sacrament Meetings and auxiliary meetings. Where's the line drawn in "That's political, we can't talk about it"?
KīraOctober 24, 2024
Yes, right on!
TashaOctober 24, 2024
Yes! It's okay talk about doctrine even if it is a "hot button" topic
Dave MyersOctober 24, 2024
Here's the problem as I see it:
1) Gospel learning is "home centered and Church supported" so not everything needs to be discussed in Sunday School. The most important thing is for students to feel the Spirit, feel loved, learn about Jesus and His teachings and want to come back again next week.
2) Your article represents your and your organization's position, and may or may not be the Church's. You're not in a position to speak for the Church. Yes, the Proclamation is doctrine - it's what we believe and practice, but Pres. Oaks has taught a hundred times with respect to civil law: "We should not seek to impose our view on others. We seek 'principled accommodation' where nobody gets everything they want, but everyone gets something they can live with." Our civil laws are not the same as the Lord's commandments, and must accommodate others not of our faith. Can we accept that? Can we differentiate? If not, then maybe Sunday School isn't the right place for that discussion.
Kim HeadleyOctober 24, 2024
Excellent article!
Julie MaternOctober 24, 2024
Amen.
Lisa ReisingOctober 24, 2024
Amen and Amen! I love the distinction you made between what is truly political partisanship (party and candidate support) and what has become “political” but is in fact important doctrinal beliefs in the Church. I too have been astounded at how reticent our members have become to discuss the doctrine IN church that comes from the Proclamation on the Family and other prophetic teachings. Yes, it can be thorny, but the burden on discussion leaders is to be very solid in directing focus back to grounding principles. We must be fearless. Thank you for speaking out about this.
Rob MoyorOctober 24, 2024
Well said! Thank you.
BarbaraOctober 24, 2024
"about how she was upset that abortion would not be banned on a federal level".
how is this against church teachings? wanting to ban abortion is against church teachings?
bob taylorOctober 23, 2024
Good article - i understand the authors point - or at least think i understand it. Some of the authors thoughts on how to approach this sort of discussion in Sunday class - Elders Quorum or Relief Society would have been helpful for me - regardless, the discussion is going to demand a lot of both the class teacher and the class members to keep it from going sidewise. I cannot recall the last time that The Family Proclamation was discussed in either my Sunday School class or Elders Quorum.
Corey D.October 23, 2024
Some years ago our ward boundary took in half of a large mobile home park and unfortunately the kids that lived there went to different schools than most of the kids in the ward. I family moved in and they had a number of teenagers, unfortunately they were not welcomed very well. The youngest daughter in this family got called into one of the young women class presidency's, very nice girl, somewhat shy. The subject of youth council one Sunday was how can we be more inviting, more friendly, more accepting (there had been an incident where one of the youth in the ward had used the phrase trailer trash with one of the children in this family), to this day I will never forget the quiet, simple comment this girl made, she said, "just saying hello can mean a lot to a teenager".
Susan StoddardOctober 23, 2024
Thank you. The Lord does answer prayers. I have been having guilty feelings for a few days about how inadequate I feel in my calling as a Relief Society counselor. I have a hard time getting outside myself and extending myself to others. I was just praying this morning expressing my guilty feelings to the Lord and asking for His help. Then I opened your article in Meridian Magazine. What an answer to my prayer. Thank you again.
CamiOctober 23, 2024
One of the best articles I have read recently about being more compassionate and Christlike! Thank you!
AnonymousOctober 23, 2024
Brother Howard, I love your stories, they are sometimes humorous, sometimes insightful, sometimes inspiring, sometimes touching, sometimes they are what cheers me up and restores hope, this just became one of my favorites, I was deeply touched, basically you just described me, except this father probably didn't yell which I unfortunately and regrettably did but I always tried to remember to apologize.
Corey D.October 23, 2024
Another great article. Many years ago when my oldest children were on the verge of becoming teenagers I started to get a little worried, having grown up in the 60's and 70' with all the societal change much of which was opposite of church teachings and standards I remembered all the arguments with parents and others over music, dress, etc., and wanted to try to avoid it. At the time I had a co-worker who I had also been to school with, good faithful member of the church, returned missionary and also native american, he had children basically same age as mine, I thought I'll ask him how he's gonna handle teaching them church standards, especially dress and grooming because he had not only the social pressure to deal with but cultural as well. One day I said to him how did you deal with that when you were young and how you going to deal with it with your kids, I expected this very intellectual, logical rationale, he thought for a moment and then said, "is the church true" ? I replied "well yes it's true", he then replied " then nothing else matters". I was like what, that's it, how is that helpful ! But later as I thought about it and over the years as things have come up, I think about his answer and how simple it was but simply profound.
Corey D.October 23, 2024
Another great, insightful article. Not quite two years ago we got called to be primary teachers, our ward is getting older and the primary is getting smaller so we had 3 age groups, 5, 6 and 7 yr olds, my wife has been in primary before but I hadn't been in Primary for like 40 yrs and that was a short stint in the nursery, I was totally out of place and then in January of this year they switch us to the sunbeams which in my mind was even worse and to complicate matters the kids were totally fixated on their old teacher, took almost 1/2 yr to get them use to us. This may seem funny or hard to believe for some but this has been one of the most challenging, difficult callings I have ever hard. I will readily admit my wife has somewhat different feelings about it but it's been challenging for me.
Richard V JukesOctober 22, 2024
Thank you, Scot, for these beautiful pictures and comments. We loved visiting that area with our children and it's always a special memory.
MichelleOctober 22, 2024
This is an excellent article! Makes me think about the YW recently being asked to be door greeters before sacrament meeting each Sunday. It's important for ward members and visitors to feel seen and welcomed each week. On the flip side, it's so important for ward members to make the YW feel at ease as they attempt to greet people each week--the YW in our ward are very uncomfortable being greeters and stepping out of their comfort zones. Ward members that initiate a handshake or conversation at the door means so much to these girls and takes some of the pressure off.
KA MillerOctober 22, 2024
I really appreciated the suggested actions in this article, and I plan to incorporate them, and to share them with others.
Paul RobertsOctober 22, 2024
You missed the most common secret combination: Immorality, A two person conspiracy all the way up to a Exodus size orgy are based on keeping the behavior secret. Many of the listing of the crimes of various secret combinations list "more easily commit whoredoms and adultery".
KathleenOctober 22, 2024
Out of small things proceedeth that which is great. Never suppress an opportunity to love, encourage or serve kindness. Thank you for some helpful reminders. We can all improve.
LauraOctober 21, 2024
Good advice. The time to weigh in on your child's dating choices is while the child is young and at home. The parents' job is to be surrportive and offer advice when asked. My husband and I married at age 50 (second marriage for him), yet his parents did everything they could to discourage him from pursuing our relationship, despite being told that he had received strong confirmation first that he should date me and then that he should marry me. The last few months before our wedding, they called him almost every day to complain about me and tell me he shouldn't marry me. Needless to say, I want nothing to do with them. We invited them to the wedding, but that was the last interaction I will have with them. There are repercussions for needless interference.
AnnaOctober 21, 2024
Beautifully written Thank you for a timely article
PamOctober 21, 2024
A few years ago we attended a BYU football game at Notre Dame. Their fans were friendly and welcoming. Their band played the Cougar fight song at the beginning of the game. Perhaps BYU learned this from Notre Dame, another class act.
Jenny SvendsenOctober 21, 2024
Thank you so much for this eye opening article, we have such wonderful loving members in our Branch of about 30 attending members, and everyone seems to make sure we are all made welcome and loved
JuliannOctober 21, 2024
Thank you for your compassionate insights. Very motivating.
JuliannOctober 21, 2024
Thank you so much for an excellent article. I struggle to attend a ward I’ve belonged to for 40 years. Your recognition of the whys and your encouragement to be the light in someone else’s darkness has given me renewed determination to keep trying. I just sent a thank you to last week’s RS teacher commending her for how she welcomed and appreciated comments during her lesson.
JohnOctober 21, 2024
I love the idea of giving someone responsibility in an area where that person has been lacking skills such as the boy on the bus. So inspiring!
MaryKaren SolomonOctober 21, 2024
these are beautiful points. If only we could all follow them, each in our own way, our sacrament meetings would become a festival of joy.
JohnsonOctober 21, 2024
How can we stop being hypocrites?
being a church leader yet bullying a member? Unbelievable !
JohnsonOctober 21, 2024
How can I get out of my ward when it's the local ecclesiastical leaders who have bullied me? They denied my request to get records removed to another ward.
JohnsonOctober 21, 2024
Amen to this awesome and amazing article..... I'm bullied in my ward and want out but the church has insisted on me staying.... facing my bully each week. It's extremely difficult to feel the Spirit.
Shara OgilvieOctober 20, 2024
I just want to thank you for your wonderful podcast. I find more value in how you two present your CFM insights than from other podcasts because of your frank, honest, manner that you present gospel truths. Also, I appreciate that your episodes are tightly written, showing respect to the time of the listener. I always find insights that enhanse my study. Thank you for your efforts!
Corey D.October 20, 2024
This must be their oldest child or maybe their only child, I learned long ago you can't pick who your children are going to date or marry and especially after they get out of high school, while they are younger you might have some influence either discouraging or encouraging them in their dating but once they are older forget about it. I have seen some parents, usually the mother who have been heavy handed with their kids in regards to who their children wanted to marry or had chosen to date and it almost always had disastrous results.
Corey D.October 20, 2024
Wonderful story. Brings back a lot of teenage memories from the 70's playing church sports, most good, some bad, it was a big deal back then hardly any athletics done now. I had a youth leader who was an excellent athlete and outdoorsman, Richard "Dick" White, from what I have been told he holds the record for most consecutive free throws made at the all church tournament. But this story also reminds me of being told about a brother in the stake I grew up in who was a star player on the varsity high school team who quit the high school team to play for the ward team because they didn't have 5 players, don't think you would see that in this day and age or like Elder Hanks, quit the college team to play ward ball.
Juan BecerraOctober 19, 2024
I disagree with the premise if your article. For some of us who immigrated from another country (legally) working hard is a way of life. My parents worked hard to educate us and set and example of hard work by building a business and successfully raising a family and teaching us that hard work leads to success. Your theory and conclusion that being a workaholic labels one as deficient is insulting. Perhaps what this world needs are more workers instead of Gen Z laziness who can’t hold a job and be depended on in employment.
bob taylorOctober 19, 2024
a good article with an excellent observation - i don't have a ready answer for you - perhaps the author will do a follow up article on how to work thru your/my question.
Brad LarsenOctober 18, 2024
Excellent follow-on article on the neglected Book of Mormon secret combination topic. Very illuminating, pun not intended.
LRAOctober 18, 2024
Please provide a link to Part 1. Thanks
Susan RatherOctober 18, 2024
Excellent, insightful article. Thank you. Looking forward to the next parts.
Cody HOctober 18, 2024
Mom: looks like we need to talk about the storage part of food storage.
I loved this one, thanks!
AOctober 17, 2024
We love seeing these amazing stories!
Dennis H CobiaOctober 17, 2024
This article brought back wonderful memories as I coached and played on the final team to win the College Division of the "All Church Basketball Tournament" in 1971. It was sad to see the Tournament end, but was truly a wonderful story to tell my family and be proud of being a part of history. P.S I scored the last two points in a double overtime game to win the game.
Corey D.October 17, 2024
The church has been in the news a lot the last few years due to some high profile lawsuits or allegations, complaints, etc., regarding it's investments, particularly in the commercial area, my son was a city engineer for one of Utah's fastest growing cities, he worked with church employees regarding property and construction on a regular basis, one day he and one of the church employees for the church's real estate arm were talking about it and the church employee made the comment "we believe that the Lord expects us to take care of the financial resources of his church in a wise manner and investing in or purchasing real estate is part of being wise with those resources", I personally have no problem with that and most people I am acquainted with don't either. A lot of folks say it should be given to help the poor but to me it puts the church in a position to help even more than they already do and I kind of compare it to the parable of the talents, you can sit on the money and protect it, which means you don't lose any but you can also put it to work and increase it thus giving you even more options.
Susan MorrisOctober 17, 2024
Elder Hanks was the supervisor of young Temple Square guides when my father (b.1932) served there while attending the University of Utah "back in the day." "Duff" Hanks made a lasting impression on my dad's life and testimony. My dad introduced me (as an elementary-aged child) to Elder Hanks when he presided at one of our stake conferences in Las Vegas, Nevada. The brotherly love they felt for each other was palpable, and it made me love Elder Hanks too.
JuliannOctober 17, 2024
Hiding in Plain Sight, second edition, by Ken Bowers is a must read to understand the secret combinations that do exist in the world today. We must awake to a sense of our awful situation so that we do not support or become part of these combinations. I would prefer to be too concerned, aka conspiracy therorist, than part of the apathetic, and complacent. Thank you for your efforts to inform. Please don’t placate or be naive.
LewisOctober 17, 2024
Saving Satya - and the many others like her - is really the Lord’s work, and I am so grateful that you have provided a way for us to be a part of it. You are freeing her from a life of oppression and bondage, a similitude of the Savior’s mission. I pray for her physical recovery, just as I pray that she and many others can take advantage of the wonderful opportunity you offer. May God bless you and this incredible work.
James Stuart BrownOctober 17, 2024
I loved playing in those tournaments and played some really great teams, some with "ringers." We might have had some ourselves, but I will never admit that. I think the lop-sided victory was also a testament to living the Word of Wisdom. One team had to play with a horrendous hang-over, which they deserved. The Word of Wisdom has always given me advantages in life.
lane vanceOctober 17, 2024
my wife Sandi and I toured Israel with a church group in the early 1990's - direct El Al flight from Seattle to Telaviv - maiden voyage. emeritus Elder Marion D Hanks was a guide on our bus for 10 days. I always liked Elder Hanks and his talks. He was the classic tireless warrior serving the Lord. what a treat being with the Hanks in the Holy Land. and I loved these church ball story insights! thanks! lane vance
BoB AckleyOctober 17, 2024
Great story. Thank you.
Ricki GibbonsOctober 16, 2024
Very interesting article. Thank you.
Ronald BarnesOctober 16, 2024
I have often read and heard about how we should forgive others. Forgiving others for small things is not that difficult. However, more severe injuries, such as malicious betrayal, create pains that are very deep and don’t heal well. What I never remember ever reading or hearing is how to forgive. Sometimes, even though you want to, you just can’t figure out how. I think this is an issue that needs to be addressed.
Judy PerrOctober 15, 2024
I have never liked Halloween!!! It is a very messy season with gluttony of candy and junk food. Raising our children we would go to a restaurant once a year instead. Places were never crowded. I believe it really never was created to have peace. Sensitive children need to be respected of THESE feelings around Halloween and made to feel safe. There is way too much darkness in the world without Halloween, a billion dollar industry.
ChrisOctober 15, 2024
Isn't it possible that many of the secret combinations of our day have little to do with government, but are designed to enslave us (flaxen cords and chains) for huge profits?
The tobacco companies.
Meta. Algorithms designed specifically to be addictive.
Pornhub. Very large and secretive company headquartered in Montreal.
Big pharma.
And many others...
All of these are intended to take.away our ability to choose...
JeffreyOctober 15, 2024
Thank you!
Kay O’MalleyOctober 15, 2024
This article is critical to discuss because when I listen to other Christian churches they are more than happy to discuss issues that the media refuse to acknowledge or distorts the truth and our church almost doesn’t want to upset the apple cart! We constantly talk about the biblical quote “we are not fighting with people but powers and principalities but yet it seems people do not know how to do this! People would rather not say and quote “oh let’s stay positive!” If we weren’t supposed to know about these things and learn to fight these things it would. It have been put into a) the canonised Bible and b) the Book of Mormon! Why do we cherry pick which parts we are active in? Other Christian churches speak of a ‘revival’ meaning for the most part learning to stand up for God! That’s why I think this subject is so important too!
Dave MyersOctober 15, 2024
It seems to me the struggle isn't really 'freedom vs. tyranny' as you suggest. It's anarchy vs. tyranny, with 'freedom' floating somewhere in-between. Freedom must include being protected from the uncontrolled oppressive acts of other people (or businesses, organizations, religions, etc.) as well as uncontrolled oppressive government. That comes from exposure to daylight (public debate) and 'opposition in all things' (or 'prove all things'), without which either side can become corrupt and oppressive (thinking they are the only source of wisdom and honor).
Stephen NaylorOctober 15, 2024
Excellent! Thank you for this article. I look forward to reading the upcoming parts.
I appreciate the call to have hope.
Pam BiggerOctober 15, 2024
I have often wondered why the warnings in the Book of Mormon concerning “secret combinations” in our days have not been discussed more…since first reading the Book some 34 years ago I have had no doubt about the reality of these secret combinations in our modern times…i know the Book of Mormon is the word of God and is on the earth for our benefit… we should never disregard the warnings contained therein… thank you very much for being willing to write this article and future ones on this subject which has been ignored i think for way too long…
Gayla CandiaOctober 15, 2024
Thank you!! I couldn’t even wait to finish reading the outstanding article before sending it to family and friends!! I am looking forward to reading the next installments of glorious, clear and in-depth information!! This clarity is so needed in our world today!!
Linda K. SpoonerOctober 14, 2024
When I lived in Israel 1988 to 1990 I learned that the media never tells the truth if they want you to believe badly about something. I was visiting my Aunt in Fla. and on NBC news a woman lied about standing on Desengof St. in Tel Aviv. I found out later from an CIA agent that she was actually standing over 2 hours away at the border of Israel and Jordan. She was telling Americans that a bomb went off there in Tel Aviv. It had not. It happened in Holon. Misinformation is everywhere in the media to persuade people that something is bad when it is not. I refuse to watch the news now because of this proof.
Dave BarkerOctober 14, 2024
What would be the most reasonable and appropriate next step to correct this issue? Does the Church have any plans to request a correction or retraction? Is it worth the effort?
Cindy WoodOctober 14, 2024
This was an incredibly well done film. I would see it again. The feeling at the end of the film was such a testimony to the truthfulness of the gospel of Jesus Christ and courageous early saints. Such a sweet peace filled the theatre like no other movie you could see currently!
ShannonOctober 14, 2024
And the reality is, the media is more interested in making money, and more sensational stories accomplish that far better. Providing objective news coverage does not seem to be the goal anymore. I am not sure it ever truly was, but definitely moreso than it is today.
I am grateful to have this objectively written piece to better understand what is actually going on with this process and admit that I generally avoid regular media for the reasons I already noted.
Paula LoeOctober 14, 2024
You should send this into the AP with only the facts that she omitted and you checked so they can correct the article with that evidence. Also send it in as an letter to the editor. That is the only way she might not get assigned next time. Although in these times they are becoming more like the national enquirer, so they might not. However, if they hold themselves to the higher standard, they need to act like it.
Donna ThigpenOctober 13, 2024
Loved the story. I worked the crisis line some but my computer crashed fairly frequently. They even let you know if someone who contacted you was assisted. Also appreciate the listings and information at the end of the story. Great info. Thanks for your writing and all it has taught me and the inspiration it has given.
CynthiaOctober 11, 2024
Thank you for bringing Katsuri's situation to light! It is such a blessing to be able to sponsor a child and feel like we are lifting a child out of poverty. Thank you for your remarkable foundation and all the good you do!
CynthiaOctober 11, 2024
This touched my heart to the very core! Thank you for the incredible work you do! What a great opportunity we have as Meridian readers to help sponsor these beloved children of God so that they can have food, shelter, and an education.
Dick NantoOctober 11, 2024
Very informative article, except the "quote" about FEMA money being used for illegal immigrants. That is a false claim and a distortion of what the Secretary said. From a fact check by NBC News, "There is no evidence that disaster relief funds were used on immigrants in the U.S. illegally. FEMA disaster money comes from dedicated funds that cannot be used for other purposes."
Robyn GeantilOctober 11, 2024
Thank you for bringing this website to the attention of all of us. It is important to be able to inform ourselves of all the views of so many involved in this crisis. I hope readers of Meridian (I'm a reader from the first issue) will read other articles of Bari Weiss.
Corey D.October 10, 2024
Another great story. Reminds me of something I heard many years ago which I'm sure Brother Howard and any one else who came from a small town or rural area would relate to. Years ago in a small farming community in Northern Utah one of the local farmers had turkeys, they were experiencing some vandalism, nothing extreme but it was causing some problems. Said farmer went out and trapped a bobcat, they then put the bobcat into a burlap bag and tied it and left it in the middle of the road and hid back behind the sheds. About midnite they see some headlights coming slowly up the road, sure enough the car stopped by the burlap bag, car door opened and the bag was pulled into the car. Car started down the road but about 10 sec later all four doors flew open with the occupants running and yelling just as fast as they can away from the car.
BobOctober 10, 2024
Years ago, having read articles and books about cults, I happened to sit next to a woman on a four hour flight. She noticed the book I was reading about cults and we went on to have a lengthy discussion about cults and her several year experience in a real cult. She had successfully, after some effort, left the cult and returned to a normal life.
When people say our church is a cult, they don’t really understand what a cult is. Cults are typically small, closed societies that keep the adherents close and controlled. Outsiders, not interested in joining, are unwelcome. Ours is large, worldwide organization that’s open and largely transparent. We welcome outsiders, even the uninterested and skeptical.
The cult moniker is used out of ignorance or as a disingenuous, and lazy, means of marginalizing our faith.
Cody HoskissonOctober 10, 2024
“And one day that prophetic guidance will lead a generation to see our Messenger of Salvation descend like “lightning … out of the east,” and we will exclaim, “Jesus of Nazareth.” With arms forever outstretched and love unfeigned, He will reply, “I am he.” I so promise with the apostolic power and authority of His holy name, even Jesus Christ, amen.” - Elder Holland
That was an Excellent article, thank you. Just the thing I needed to read.
JopkinsOctober 10, 2024
How sad to include such a political lie. FEMA has not run out of money because of immigrants. Please check your sources before including such diatribe. If these sources are so untruthful that there own political parties are denouncing them, what other lies are you broadcasting? Or perhaps you don't care? I hope that is not the case.
Frank E MerrillOctober 9, 2024
I've always felt a connection to Elder Hanks, as he set me apart as a missionary on this day, 9 October, in 1967. Thank you for the interesting article about his involvement in acquiring and displaying the Christus!
KristenOctober 9, 2024
Thank you dear Meridian readers for your outpouring of support! It's a joy to see the difference these sponsorships make for the students who attend the Rising Star Outreach schools!
Ralph Gallini, JDOctober 9, 2024
I tried to click on them and nothing happened.
ScottOctober 9, 2024
It's not accurate that money was drained from FEMA for use of illegal immigrants. The funding you are referring to was given to FEMA by the Department of Customs and Border Protection for the express purpose of the Shelter and Services Program as authorized by Congress. FEMA has their own funding for Disaster Relief. One thing you should address is disinformation such as this and rumors which are detrimental and can cause people not to reach out for the assistance they need.
Robin WhitworthOctober 9, 2024
Please do not spread lies about FEMA being out of money because they gave it to illegal immigrants. This is COMPLETELY NOT TRUE and by publishing that in your very relevant article you are supplying fuel to the already out of control fire. Be sure to stick to FACTS and not just hearsay. Other than that, your article was very relevant and much needed.
Jerry McIntireOctober 9, 2024
Good choice! The Christus statue does a beautiful job of focusing on the resurrection, which Christian Scientists also deeply appreciate.
Yes, the tours at the Christian Science Center in Boston have never emphasized proselytizing. Any visitor who shows a genuine interest or asks of course receives answers. Paul's guidance was, "If there be first a willing mind..." (II Corinthians 8:12)
Douglas NadybalOctober 9, 2024
This all seems like really sound advice, particularly if you feel your prayers have been pointless, your testimony stagnant and / or your relationship with Diety is languishing. I am grateful to have read this.
Roger StroudOctober 8, 2024
Thank you for these key selections. There are others as we read and ponder the messages of the conference talks over the next several months. Conference talks are what the Lord would have us hear and experience as we consider what we can become. They are enduring as are we. What beautiful doctrines!
LJuneOctober 8, 2024
I appreciate your thoughtful article and have two objections. 1. Isn't it a mortal experience to be a child inside a mother's body? Babies can move on their own there, breathe amniotic fluid, hear and see and taste and feel touch, and can feel pain. If that is a mortal experience, it unravels your entire argument. 2. Consider along with the handbook statement that children who die under 8 do not have any ordinances done for them in the temple except sealing. That would suggest under your logic that they too didn't really have a mortal experience, right? Yet we all know children under 8 have had a mortal experience, they just didn't need the same amount of ordinances as others due to their innocence. I think that logic about innocence fits better with stillborn children than the logic that a spirit has not yet been assigned to a stillborn child (who can feel pain and move voluntarily and breathe amniotic fluid etc).
SusanOctober 8, 2024
I bumped into Charlie’s channel recently and it was beautiful to see his reaction to music we so often take for granted. How great he was able to come hear them in person and feel the spirit again!
Tanya NeiderOctober 8, 2024
Thank you for posting this article. I really needed to hear the beautiful music today! What an amazing story.
Corey D.October 7, 2024
It was all very good and inspirational but for me several things stood out, the primary kids singing Gethsemane, I have a hard time not tearing up hearing that under normal circumstances but that was just magnificent, I felt like the Savior could have come in that moment. Elder Holland's magnificent talk and Brad Wilcox's tremendous talk, I prayed that two of my sweet granddaughters who are struggling with going to church would be blessed to hear something and the fact that his talk was during a Sunday session when they were both home to me was an answer to prayer and President Oak's talk has given me much to contemplate.
Debbi McOctober 7, 2024
I would love to know if then Elder Joel McClausland ever went to Thanksgiving dinners at Yokota AB. We were stationed there from 1979-1983, near Tokyo, and have fond memories of hosting elders in our home on the base. What a coincidence that would be from so long ago!
SallyOctober 7, 2024
This conference was for us as a people. It was like King Benjamin's last exortation before he past the mantle to his son. It was for all saints who are well grounded, questioning what to do and the list asking to come back into the fold.
It was glorious!
Rae GreenstreetOctober 7, 2024
Thank you for the most important summaries of General Conference talks.
JuliannOctober 7, 2024
Thank you.
Abbie VianesOctober 7, 2024
Never have I heard a prophet speak more of or more clearly on or more on the imminence of the second coming. Along with announcing 17 more temples all President Nelsons talk was about the Lord returning "in the days to come" and how to prepare.
HelenCOctober 7, 2024
So much about the Savior and His Love! A true Feast for my soul.
KathleenOctober 6, 2024
I remember that day well, 5 months into my mission, humbly celebrating the event in Bolivia.
KathleenOctober 6, 2024
Food is often a part of the experience. In the east, in 'the day', we would often have pot lucks between sessions, as it wasn't worth the travel time between the chapel and our homes. Great memories and bonding!
Corey D.October 6, 2024
So well written and expressed. One of the Saviors warnings was to not put our light under a bushel. Hate to say it but today's political and social environment does make us hesitant to say things, at least I have been hesitant or careful at times. But I have learned there are probably more people agree with the Proclamation than we realize, both members of the church and not.
Carolyn Sessions AllenOctober 6, 2024
Amen to all comments. Nearly 30-40 years of my Church Service was in Public Affairs, two years as a full-time missionary with my husband in the L.A. Office Robert mentions. We were the "boots on the ground" during those years. If someone has a worthy project, where can that person get help for the next step? Need help on "HOW" to move forward.
Fred SteinfelsOctober 6, 2024
Trying to contact Lila Lily White who served in the Tabernaclr
Mormon Tabernacle choir. A liky white was an early Biishop of Greenville, Utah. My GG grandfather was one of the original founders of Greenville and may have served with Bishop Lily White.
RavenOctober 5, 2024
Thank you so much for this article on one of my favorite musical groups, ever. Afterglow has been a part of my life since my missionary days. Indeed "Someone Is Listening" was my Introduction to the beautiful harmonies. I highly recommend their catalog of work to everyone.
NealOctober 4, 2024
Dropping the "cult" card is much the same as dropping the "race" card. those who resort to these practices actually know not of which they speak...they are merely haters.
Cynthia C.October 4, 2024
Insightful.
Bradley AndersonOctober 4, 2024
What is often left out in the claim that the Church is a cult, is that a cult typically has a charismatic leader who has complete control. Underlings are used for recruiting, but only one supreme leader. Upon the death or exposure of that leader the cult collapses. Think Jim Jones, David Koresh, Charles Mansion, Sun Myung Moon. For the Church to trust apostles, seventies, bishops, Relief Society presidents, YM and YW leaders, even deacons with decision-making abilities further calls the cult concept into question.
ChristineOctober 4, 2024
Amen! I love the way you compare and contrast our church with other world religions.
Satan certainly likes to target us, and “cult” is a buzzword that gets a lot of attention but is certainly used incorrectly.
ShaunaOctober 3, 2024
Thank you for the article and the reminder. I have been infinitely grateful for the Proclamation on the Family over the years, in my marriage and in raising my children and especially for it's clear doctrine on gender, which has become a whirlwind of confusion and differing ideas and agenda. I used to think that if Satan wanted to destroy society, he would destroy the family....but I've since realized, that if he dismantles gender, then their is no family--2 birds with one stone
Harold RustOctober 3, 2024
Thank you for another powerful articulation of fundamental teachings we need to embrace and share. Just yesterday I was reminded of respectful and meaningful ways we can discuss important concepts with others around us even when we aren't sure of their own standards. I was substitute teaching health classes where the subject was drugs and alcohol. As I moved around the classroom and reviewed their efforts in answering questions, the subject of BAC or legal limits of blood alcohol content allowed me to emphasize with many of these students the concept of knowing how close we can come to a cliff before falling off should lead us to realize how much better it is to stay as far back as possible. I then could add that I've never seen any advantage in drinking or taking drugs and thus have found the easy path to be just never going near that choice. I sensed that almost every student I mentioned that to actually agreed with me. There are indeed ways to share gospel principles in a way that others will want to agree on their correctness---even if they have many friends who feel or act otherwise.
Lawrence NielsenOctober 3, 2024
The question, "Why are we afraid to share" the Proclamation on the Family is misleading and a good example of broad-brush smearing of a people. "Why are some afraid...." would be much better. The real issue in my opinion, is how can we help those who have not quite learned thow to muster the courage to let the world see their light, or realize that this reluctance to share and publicly own this Proclamation is possibly a clear indication of the weakness of their own conviction and testimony.
Becca HaleOctober 2, 2024
Who would have thought that we needed the "Family Proclamation" when it was first announced? Wasn't the from-the-beginning definition of family sufficient?
I believe that many today truly think they do not need to honor traditional marriage and family roles or they don't understand the purpose. Perhaps they were never taught, or negative experiences from their childhood prevent them from seeking the good family relationships they could have. Some friends and I were recently discussing that, in the countries of our LDS church missions, many people lived long-term “common-law” marriages,” because divorce was not sanctioned with government and church so intertwined. Granted, these were not (yet) members of the Church, but they were living the best they could under the law.
We have many family and friends who do not always embrace the sanctity of marriage and family. Some are gay, some have fallen away, and some were just never taught the importance of this institution. Do we wish they were living as traditional families under God's plan? Yes!
I would hope that we can be vocal examples of marriage and family whenever possible, and share the “Family Proclamation.” This beautiful document actually delineates the roles and responsibilities of all family members. My husband and I recently had the opportunity to discuss some aspects of the Word of Wisdom with a client. We need to build relationships with our friends and associates before we can teach many gospel principles. We should never make excuses for or downplay the beliefs that are so sacred to us, but we need to meet people where they are and hope that our examples and, eventually, our words will teach them and have meaning for them.
L.E.October 2, 2024
It's good to identify potentially abusive phrases. This reduces gaslighting and manipulation. We need awareness so we can have skill to protect ourselves. Even if we don't engage with an offender, we can recognize their behavior and set appropriate boundaries. So much of our society is mutating into clever little bullies, it's good to address this directly and clearly.
Harold RustOctober 1, 2024
From my perspective, the Church historically has done a remarkably "reasonable" response to the wide range of arrows flung at it from multiple sources with a variety of poisons. From how it responded to the anti-Mormon musical Book of Mormon to coverage of "Mormon Hands" grass-roots support during tragedies, the long-term outcome has been and will continue to be a gut-feel among most decent folks that members of the Church have some very commendable practices and that our leadership structure, our wise use of financial resources, and our very focused use of charitable contributions all describe an admirable religious organization which can be trusted to do good.
David ShieldsSeptember 30, 2024
I am sorry the author focuses upon the attacks upon the church and its members. For those who are turned off there are others who become interested because they realize that everything that is virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy is attacked by those who are guilty and suffering.
Allen ASeptember 30, 2024
There are other Protestant churches in my community which regularly schedule political meetings and feature political content in their sermons and nothing is said about them.
Cynthia C.September 30, 2024
Good article. Gives one some things to think about.
Shara OgilvieSeptember 30, 2024
Great article. Rang true and gave me a lot to think about. Thanks!
ShaunaSeptember 30, 2024
Really thought provoking and helpful. I appreciate the specificity. The issue for me as an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, is where and how to spend my energy--we all have to pick our battles. But this points out to me some landmines that I didn't' know existed. Thanks for the article
Nancy WilliamsSeptember 29, 2024
This article will not help diminish our “persecution complex.”
Hap CluffSeptember 29, 2024
I’ve known Robert Starling for a long time. His commitment to the Church and all forms of media and the people who engage in the arts is unparalleled. Thanks, Robert, for this well written and documented article. Hurrah for Israel!
Gary LawrenceSeptember 29, 2024
Great research. Great ideas. Way to go.
John Charles PearceSeptember 28, 2024
I agree with this article that we Latter-day Saints can and must do more to produce positive stories about the church and its members. There have been a number of good movies by Latter-day Saint film makers in recent years that have been released but have not even been seen by our members. This is because the film makers don't have the finances available to be able to properly promote them. I know that our church leaders don't promote commercial films, but other churches do, and they let their congregations know when a Christian movie is released and even organize group bookings. We need to come up with a way of letting our members know about these movie releases. A current movie "Faith of Angels" is a case in point. This is a great movie based on a true experience of a Latter-day Saint boy lost in a mine for 5 days that many members don't even know about. This is a movie that could appeal to many people other than our members. If we could find a way of getting our members to this movie, and then telling their friends about it, we will be able to encourage our film makers to make more movies about our people.
Barry MooreSeptember 27, 2024
To put my two cents in, Brother Sterling, your article deserves two thumbs up. Two big thumbs up. It echoes President Kimball's call to arms to LDS artists with the highest fidelity. I appreciate you listing the organizations -- ALMA, LDSPMA, et al. -- dedicated to upsetting the "belly of the (Hollywood) beast" in your "How to Make it Happen" section. May the force -- the real Force -- be with you, Brother.
Stephen ChaunceySeptember 27, 2024
I would add continue to highlight good films with friends especially ones done by Church members. Secondly by avoiding bad content and especially those who provide it helps as the dollar speaks loud. Great and informative article.
Dorothy MillerSeptember 27, 2024
Well said, and I hope that those who have the talent, skills, and connections feel more fired up! The rest of us have a responsibility to support their efforts - to read, listen to, attend their efforts and to share the links, publications, and invite our friends and family to attend the concerts and movies with us! Thank you so much.
Dorothy MillerSeptember 27, 2024
This needed to be published! I hope that the people who have these gifts are fired up to build up! And the rest of us must put forth greater effort to support them - go see the films, concerts, read the publications etc. and bring our friends and families!
Corey D.September 23, 2024
What an excellent, well written and well expressed article, in fact just about an hour ago I was talking to a neighbor asking him if his step kids had stopped going to church because I hadn't seen them all summer, he replied yes, which for him and his wife means that none of their children are attending church. He also said he is the only one of his siblings active in the church. He then said this, "it all boils down to personal testimony, you have to personally believe, can't live on your parents beliefs or friends or teachers", something we have been taught from the pulpit many times but which we are seeing the effects of more than I remember in my lifetime. Great article !
Corey D.September 23, 2024
Amen to this article. Not the first speaker that I have wondered about in the last few years. I'm sure folks will automatically assume the writer of this article, Brother Lindsey is some ardent supporter of Trump but I seriously doubt it, he's just logically and in my mind rightfully asking a question about something that appears to be politically motivated and biased.
AnonymousSeptember 23, 2024
Curious if Mr French's columns had been leaning the other way would you have the same concerns?
Sally SmithSeptember 23, 2024
What keeps me in church is the example of my family coming across the plains with Willie Company. They sacrificed everything for Jesus Christ and the newly restored. So it sufficeth me to carry on that testimony to my family and those that come after me
JoeSeptember 23, 2024
I totally agreed. What is going on with BYU??
Ronald BarnesSeptember 23, 2024
I recorded my reasons and was going to share them, but I decided some were too personal and sharing a part would not suffice. So, I will only share the last sentence: The gospel and church attendance are a part of me, and I’m not complete without it.
Vicki CrumSeptember 23, 2024
I am very much interested in the answer to the question this article poses. Why, indeed, would BYU book a political writer, especially a hard left political writer, to speak to the student body right before an election? Especially one who would wish death to a former president and current candidate to the office. As a lifetime member of the church, I would like to demand an answer to this question. If I had a child at BYU right now, I would be outraged, and believe me the adminstration would hear about it!.
Talon JensenSeptember 23, 2024
I read political articles every day, yet just from mainstream and small town media, nothing from far-right or far-left media. I haven't read all these threats against Trump that is discussed in the article. Yet, I have paid attention to what the candidates have said. I find Trump's and Vance's comments to be much more hateful and incendiary. I also find what Trump has said to be a threat to democracy, he intends to remove "separation of powers" from American government. He says so right in his speeches. He has already partially done this with the Supreme Court. I find the need of Republicans to control everything and everyone repulsive. I welcome the opportunity for BYU students, who are still largely conservative, to hear opposing viewpoints, even though few of them will vote. It is only the far-right that wants to control free speech, not the far-left. And, just to be clear, I am not a Democrat. And, I have two degrees from BYU.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenSeptember 23, 2024
Well, I think that was a very unfortunate choice for a speaker at a religiously based univercity, is there a way to find out why this choice was made?
Jenny Madsen SvendsenSeptember 23, 2024
Like Peter, I would say:"Lord, where would I go". I would say because I know that Christ lives, He is my Saviour, and I know the church is His, I can attend Sacrament meeting and partake of the Sacrament to renew my covenants with Him, those are the reasons I go, and of course all the reasons you mentioned in your article.
Ed RehderSeptember 23, 2024
Thank you for saying what needed to be said.
Harold RustSeptember 23, 2024
A real "wake-up" article about what is happening at the trusted university in which several of my grandchildren and other relatives are now attending. I've always felt that the only appropriate forum for meaningful dialogue by those with strong political views is to have a well-facilitated and calm, logical discussion between that person and someone who verbally challenges their way of thinking. This goes for those I agree with as well as those with whom I disagree because either way I have the best and most lasting way of sorting out for myself what is true. Someone like David French needs to face an articulate opponent who can provide a fair analysis of his past and present arguments.
Harold RustSeptember 23, 2024
A line wonderful outline that encompasses all the reasons I personally have seen applied by those remaining committed to Church involvement and those who linger or leave altogether. Everyone of us makes weekly decisions (although most often those decisions are governed by habit) about our personal level of commitment; thus, it can be very meaningful to reflect upon these reasons discussed herein to add confidence to our understanding of why we are choosing what we do choose. Hopefully it will bring all of us to carefully and methodically choose to follow the Savior.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 23, 2024
I am a convert of many decades, from a mostly non-member family. In my late teens, I had to learn when I could sacrifice going to church (Grandma's birthday) and when nothing (family beach outing) was going to keep me from attending. As I have seen family and friends come and go (mostly go), there is still no place I would rather be. I love Elder Ballard's talk "To Whom Shall We Go? (2016). Where else will we find (mostly) like-minded people, the blessings of the Priesthood, the gospel plan and purpose for our lives, the opportunities for temple worship and ordinances, living Prophets and apostles, guidance to solve problems or give comfort, etc.? My husband and I have experienced the blessings of attending church during family reunions, when we have taken time away from business conferences, when attending small branches and large congregations, in foreign languages and countries, in hotel rooms and on cruises, and, of course, at home during the Pandemic. We have made the choice to make the Sabbath a sacred day wherever we are.
Cortney HolmesSeptember 23, 2024
Thanks for this article!
KCSeptember 23, 2024
It’s really sad they can’t find someone who isn’t a rabid conservative and who isn’t a progressive (sadly the majority of byu intelligentsia these days)
Finding someone who is conservative but never Trump ENDORSING Harris is the problem.
We DO NOT HAVE ONLY TWO CHOICES—false dichotomy there!!!
If you choose to vote for EITHER you choose evil —there is no lesser of two here.
If you choose to stay home/not vote, you abdicate your god given right to be part of the “voice of the people” and allow the parties/a candidate to manipulate us to this point of disaster.
If you use your ballot as a protest vote to leave it blank—which tells the parties their offering is offensive—or write someone else in, you have used your voice and deserve to maintain your freedom.
If we choose evil-aka one of the false choices we are tying ourselves to a sinking ship and may actually follow them into some horrific choices which doom not only US but also our world
Ben JonesSeptember 23, 2024
My step-daughter quit the Church because the bishop sided with her soon-to-be ex-husband. It was a real shame because she had been Primary president and her husband had been Elders Quorum president. They and their six children looked like the perfect family. It was her inspiration in the Temple to introduce me to her mother after my first wife's death. But he started making wild accusations of her being unfaithful. I was trying to counsel both of them until he started accusing me of hacking into his computer, at which point I concluded that he had lost his marbles, especially since I've never hacked a computer in my life. But the damage was done. She quit the Church. He did not, but he couldn't honestly say in a Temple Recommend interview that he was providing support for his ex-wife. The result was that most of the kids ended up quitting the Church as well. One served a mission and got married in the Temple but neither of his parents could attend the ceremony. My wife and I remain very active but we put up with snide comments from her about the Church as well as praises for our [now former] bishop from ward members.
Ironically, my late first wife left the Church when she divorced her first husband but after we were married and I adopted her kids, she convinced me to join the Church. She advised me not to expect Church members to be perfect. I told her she'd already disabused me of that notion.
Anyway, that's the thing we need to be on guard about. The Church is true but Church members are human and make mistakes.
Joan JonesSeptember 23, 2024
Thank you for this article. I totally agree that it is wrong. The wolves among the sheep are getting bolder.
LindaSeptember 23, 2024
Amen to your comments!!! I couldn't agree with you more. This is a travesty for our young, impressionable, under-informed students AND faculty!!! What were they thinking....or was it conivingly intentional?
Charles McClellandSeptember 23, 2024
Thank you for this insightful and comprehensive article. I am sharing it with my children, their spouses and my grandchildren!
SfischSeptember 23, 2024
What is happening to the BYU I once knew and loved? So sad.
Vaughn BarrusSeptember 23, 2024
Oh wretched man that I am. The sins that do so easily beset me.
I am so far from perfect that without the gospel and church I don’t know where I would be. This scares me and makes me want to be in church just so I can stay on or as close to the straight and narrow as possible.
As the author has stated, our personal spiritual experience fades as time passes and we start to loose the lift they give us. In order to retain this lift I strive to continue to have more spiritual experiences. I do this by attending church and going often to the temple. If we stop going to church we loose the ability to go to the temple and then to receive these spiritual experiences. I can not imagine life without church and especially without the temple experience.
I attended church first tp refill my lamp with oil and then to remain worthy of attend the temple where I get the strength to carry on.
VaughnSeptember 23, 2024
I may comment more than once.
First I learned long ago, if people are on pedestals it’s because we put them there. Most often it’s not because they put themselves on that pedestal. So when they fall from the pedestal that we put them on we loose faith.
I used to work with an emeritus member of the 70, in a meeting ( not a church meeting) he suggested that everyone needed to watch a particular R rated movie that depicted the 2nd world war. When I questioned him as to the rating and to the council of the church against watching such movies he stammered a bit then said “ This was the war. I lived it, everyone should watch it so they can know.”
This taught me that we, regardless of our callings or position in the church we are all human and weak and frail.
It also taught me not to put people on pedestals.
Catherine GettmanSeptember 21, 2024
Wonderful article. I heard about this show. I have no desire to watch such lies about my faith n the church of jesus christ of latter day saints. I am a convert of over 50 years. I know it, i live it, i love it.
Frederick CarlSeptember 20, 2024
I am so glad an LDS woman had something to say about this raunchy show. Next, the woman on the show are going to start promoting the benefits of their Only Fans accounts and all young women should do it.
Bravo Sister Proctor.
Suzette HaltermanSeptember 20, 2024
The saying "don't judge a book by its cover" exists for a reason. This whole article is simply about the trailer for the show, but the actual show is nothing like the trailer. It was, and still might be, Hulu's number one watched show in America and there's a good reason for that. Yes, some of it is just stupid reality TV that makes you feel dumber for watching it, but some of it actually hits on some really important themes that are I think are really important too discuss more
in our LDS culture. I actually really enjoyed the show because it's very thought-provoking in a lot of ways. Some of the themes I find fascinating for discussion about this show are: Gen Z spirituality and what we understand about it, perfectionism and plastic surgery for LDS women and why that is, the current tension between a patriarchal church and a modern world for women, purity culture and how it impacts women in so many ways, and so much more! I have listened to women with PhD's and masters degrees in theology having conversations about this show because there's a lot going on beneath the surface of it all that matters a lot to broader cultural discussion within religious spaces. I have heard evangelical and catholic women talking about the show and the ways that it resonated with their experiences as women within Christianity. There's a lot more than meets the eye here, so I would say don't judge the show by its trailer, which doesn't actually represent the show well at all, and listen to the useful and productive conversations that happened around this show. While not everyone might like the show or want to watch it, just know that it's a big hit for some good reasons in that beyond the drama factor of reality tv, it also brings up some important cultural discussions. So maybe the fact that these discussions are happening because of this show is a good thing and we don't need to get so upset about the trailer for it!
Sasha KwapinskiSeptember 20, 2024
I venture to say that we would never hear of a TV show entitled "The Secret Lives of Hindu (or Moslem, Buddhist, Sikh, or Shinto) women."
Robert StarlingSeptember 20, 2024
Well said, Mariah. You're an eloquent spokeswoman for the Latter-day Saint faith, lifestyle and worldview. I hope you look up the writers and producers in the show's credits and send them each a copy of this article. An open letter to the LA Times, Variety, and Hollywood Reporter would also be a good idea.
Gary C JohnsonSeptember 20, 2024
I'm with Tim....never heard of this trash until now. I thought it referred to that other video excrement, Real Housewives of SLC. They should have called THAT one, Real Housewives of the Mountain West. Do any of those women really have anything but a flirting acquaintance with the Church? Every time I see/hear of these programs my reaction is, "Here we go again...". Seems the only societal group that continues to be open to bigotry and ridicule are Latter-Day Saints. C 'mon people, get a life. Thanks to Mariah for exposing yet another exploitative venture into misinformation and untruth.
HelenCSeptember 20, 2024
Thank you. “You can protect yourself from a cliff with a fence at the top or an ambulance at the bottom” I’d my new fav quote.
TimSeptember 20, 2024
I had never even heard of this program before reading this article, but what a powerful article it is. Will definitely share this article.
Corey D.September 19, 2024
On July 4th 1976, I was a missionary at the LTM in Provo waiting for a visa. There was a devotional held that night in the Marriott Center celebrating the bicentennial of this great nation, the speaker was President Marion G Romney, all the missionaries were invited to attend. I don't remember all that Pres Romney said but I do remember one statement he made, he said: "there is one reason for the establishment of America(implying the United States) and only one reason, so the gospel of Jesus Christ could be restored". Never have forgotten that.
HelenCSeptember 19, 2024
Can’t wait for the film to be released! I only hope our fractured political system doesn’t succumb to middle Eastern chaos!
Melanie SteinSeptember 19, 2024
Surrogacy never felt quite right to me, which is why this article is so refreshing. It helps articulate that uneasiness I felt with the concept. Thanks for taking the time to write and share this.
Jesse BrownSeptember 19, 2024
Thank you very much for your article. I received BA and MS degrees in biology from the University of Utah several decades ago and taught biology for several years. The irrational and selfish attempts of some people to pretend that sex or gender is relative contribute to unnecessary confusion in a world that is already too confusing. Concerning sex, talk to biologists, not politicians or sociologists with some kind of weird agenda.
Dr. Kenneth Stevens, MDSeptember 19, 2024
Excellent factual article. Even our bones inform whether we are male or female. Particularly the pelvic bones, where the female pelvis is designed to carry and deliver a baby and the male pelvis is too narrow for those functions.
WithheldSeptember 19, 2024
Thank you for this in-depth article. As I am experiencing the extreme pain of losing a daughter and grandchildren to the shrill voices against the church, this article has given me a better understanding of the real and deliberate voices and their motives to destroy the faith of the most vulnerable in their journey to gain testimonies. It has been so very difficult to understand how others give so much credibility to strangers on the internet and social media. I better see now how this happens.."Oh those who think they are wise.".
To quote President Gordon B. Hinkley, "You lose a mother, you lose generations.". Tragically, my family is experiencing the truth of this. Prayers continue for all those falling prey .
Robert StarlingSeptember 19, 2024
Thank you for explaining scientifically THE truth. It is important for people who talk about "their" truth to remember that while they may have a right to have their own opinions, they can't have their own facts. As Latter-day Saints we also have the gift of understanding life from an eternal perspective through God's revealed word, which says: "male and female created He them". While those with feelings to the contrary should be loved and helped with their very real challenges, we should not "affirm" something that is not the truth.
EmmaSeptember 19, 2024
I feel this is just another way to exploit the poor. But ask another question. Why are they poor? So much is because those richer have become increasingly greedy. They demand a higher and higher standard of living for themselves. This can only be accomplished by charging higher prices for whatever they are selling, paying lower wages to those who work for them, or changing the tax codes.
LisaSeptember 18, 2024
We are LDS. My former husband began making oblique comments about polygamy and how good it was. I suspected nothing. Yes, he was cheating, using church history as his excuse. Hate to even read about polygamy. Hate to see the general authorities talk about their eternal marriages. Hate all of it. What a destructive doctrine.
ShaunaSeptember 18, 2024
Thank you
Stephen ChaunceySeptember 18, 2024
Excellent analysis and reporting. Been in law enforcement for over 40 years and your presentation is exactly how you do an ethical, reasoned case and rebuttal. I will be kind and not offer opinions on Runnells but I have enjoyed arresting his type.
HelenCSeptember 18, 2024
As I prayed for counsel on how to answer my beautiful daughter’s increasingly Gospel-effronting feminist Facebook posts the answer came quietly. I just expressed my admiration for the passion she put into her beliefs. They haven’t changed but our relationship is loving, warm, intact.
Holy Ghost - 1; antagonism - 0
HelenCSeptember 18, 2024
I suppose it’s to be expected that the “restoration of all things” would bring us another Korihor. All Mr. Runnells has done is prove to me, once again, the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon.
All I can do is to “live in such a way that those who know me will want to know Christ because they know me”. I didn’t jerk the source of this quote but it’s been on my refrigerator for enough years to have faded almost ever away. Long before the letter I will never read (too much GOOD stuff to study) was conceived.
LoraSeptember 18, 2024
Yes, Hagar had a baby "for" Abraham and Sarah, but she kept Ishmael. Bilhah had a babies "for" Jacob and Rachel, but she kept Dan and Naphtali. Zilpah had a babies "for" Leah, but she kept Gad and Asher. The Biblical "surrogate pregnancies" were not like modern ones.
DeeDeeSeptember 18, 2024
This rings of truth--and filled me with hope and joy all at once. It takes a humble soul to write this and what a wonderful humility!
Dee Ann JensenSeptember 18, 2024
Benjamin Franklin Lewis was my 3rd great grandfather on my father's side. He was only 35 years old when he was killed and buried in the well at Hawn's Mill. He had 6 small children when he was massacred ranging in age from 11 years to a baby. I always think of how scared they must have been.
Richard JukesSeptember 17, 2024
Thank you for the tender focus of your photos and words! That site is such a relevant part of our family history. And it makes me ponder more about the positions of the Anti-Nephi-Lehi's...people of Ammon...and how our dear relatives moved forward after that hideous attack.
Thank you. We so appreciate our time with you in China.
LewisSeptember 17, 2024
These are powerful stories, and show what a difference caring and loving people can make a tremendous difference in the life trajectory of others. Thank you for all you do. I feel honored to be able to support your efforts.
M. TaylorSeptember 16, 2024
Another reason someone might stonewall unintentionally is because of neurodiversity. My spouse, who has high-functioning autism, will often freeze, not maintain eye contact, and have trouble responding to me or maintaining the flow of discussion when difficult topics arise. It comes off as uncaring, controlling, or being iced out but is more complicated than that, and not always intentional. Neurodiverse marriages have an estimated 80% fail rate, so understanding and facilitating fundamentally different communication modes in a neurodiverse relationship is crucial for success.
Nicholeen PeckSeptember 16, 2024
Warning about the term 'ageism': While I fully agree with the lens used in this article to view ageism (not to treat older people poorly), using the term 'ageism' and promoting it broadly will have unintended consequences for our children.
Originally, ageism applied only to being biased or prejudiced toward older people and not denying older people any opportunities that younger people have. However, the term is now used in reverse (requiring that children should be able to do everything that an adult can do, including consent to sex and drugs, etc.)
I have consultative status at the United Nations. In that sphere, NGOs and diplomats from around the world argue the point that children should not be controlled by their parents because that is 'ageism.' I'm sure you can see how this mindset exploits children and leaves them unprotected by their parents. I've heard NGOs assert that children want sex too, and if they want it from an adult they should not be denied that. They say that to deny them is ageism.
So, even though this article makes a great point about honoring and respecting the rights and feelings of people older than you. The last thing that we want to do is create broad rights for children that ultimately remove parental oversight of the child. The term 'ageism' does this.
My recommendation is that we stay away from classifying disconnection and disrespect of the elderly with this term. Instead, in order to protect the children, it would be best to simply describe circumstances and solutions for older people without a box-like term.
HLSeptember 15, 2024
What if you are in an emotionally abusive marriage & you are physically freezing up while they barrage you... Is that still considered stonewalling?
KathleenSeptember 15, 2024
Some things never change!
Corey D.September 15, 2024
It's stories like these whether here or other media or heard in church or told to me by others that keep me going sometimes, things seem so bleak in the world most days, I'm appreciative of the good and those who are good.
Dick ByrnesSeptember 14, 2024
Can a connection be drawn between what happened to Zemnarihah and what happened to Judas- both were hung on a tree, either by others or in the case of Judas, by himself. Then the Nephites cut down the tree on which the traitor Zemnarihah hung and (God) felled the tree in which the traitor Judas hung. To me the similarities and symbolism are striking, especially after reading this article of the legal and traditional practices of the Israelite nation.
JanSeptember 14, 2024
I have just memorized Romans 8:1-2 for a new study and it seems to be relevant in this discussion. I agree with those who state the Holy Ghost most definitely can be in more than one place at a time, and in fact never leaves the believer. "Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.." A legal transaction takes place and the Spirit's law through Jesus has set us free from the other deadly law. The more I study the more I've come to understand that the Spirit is indeed God who indwells every believer, for Who else "gives life" and sets us free but God Himself?
K. MortensenSeptember 14, 2024
I’m grateful for the suggestions on early reading books. It’s too bad someone didn’t proof read the article.
RosieSeptember 14, 2024
So true; I concur wholeheartedly. But remember when Pollyanna fell out of the tree and lost the use of her legs she didn't find the idea of crutches very comforting after all. We all have limits and this life can wear one down and often manifests itself when little things go wrong, sometimes more than the big things.
Corey D.September 14, 2024
My brother said a fellow ward member out of curiosity called his teenage kids together and asked them the following question, "what percentage of your friends would you say think that there is nothing wrong with same sex marriage", their reply, about 70%. These are mostly kids from LDS homes. I agree wholeheartedly with this article and think about this particular subject often and see the effects of being deceived all around me, family members, friends, ward members. It's one of the curses of the internet in my mind. But also have to constantly remind myself that I have to be on the watch myself and be careful I don't get caught up in things.
Corey D.September 14, 2024
I understand what the article is trying to say but not sure ageism is the cause of the disconnect between the younger generations and the older generations or the reason for estrangement of grandparents and grandchildren. To me the biggest problem or disconnect if you want to use that term and this is probably more specific to those raised in a good LDS/Christian/religious environment is the difference of how religion, moral standards, work ethic and money are viewed by the younger generations and what they are being taught about it.
Corey D.September 14, 2024
I'm surprised at the criticism of this article, Daniel Peterson's articles are always well written, intelligent and logical laid out and spiritually sound. While I don't know much about Moms for Liberty I do know anything that the Southern Poverty Law Center says should be instantly and totally disregarded. Much of the so-called "book banning" that has been in the news the last couple of years has been mischaracterized and mislabeled by the mainstream media, any one who has taken the time to actually do some in depth research will find that mostly what this has been about is two things, books and curriculum that advanced the LGBTQ+ agenda that are basically pornography or contain totally age inappropriate material but presented under the guise of fairness and equality and books and curriculum that are anti-American or present false history's such as The 1619 Project and A People's History of the United States.
Jeannie EvansSeptember 13, 2024
A profound article with many thoughts worth pondering.
Karlene DanceSeptember 13, 2024
Are you ever going to bring the desk calendar back. I loved it.
Gary AndersonSeptember 13, 2024
Thanks for this inspired message of how not to be deceived!
JamesSeptember 13, 2024
I love that! Thank you so much!!
MaryannSeptember 13, 2024
I don't believe anyone will stray too far from the path if they are praying and reading the scriptures daily, with real intent. If we then "take the Holy Spirit for our guide," we will not be deceived.
MaryannSeptember 13, 2024
Tip from a 73 year youngster: We do not appreciate being called "cute," "dear," or any other labels that are condescending. Seeing an older couple walking hand in hand is not "cute." It is beautiful. I recently ran into an older friend in a clothing store, and the sales girl was talking to her like she was an idiot. She was a highly intelligent woman with a college degree, and an outstanding teacher. Thank you for bringing this problem to our attention. When we examine our faulty attitudes and thoughts about getting older, we will be well on the way to showing more respect.
Pam BlairSeptember 13, 2024
Reminds me of a friend who became furious when we were eating in the car at a drive-in restaurant. My hamburger with onions made her car smell terrible, and she was furious with me. That's the lesson that taught me to [as it is often said] "not sweat the small stuff, and remember: it's ALL small stuff".
Roslyn Huege de ServilleSeptember 12, 2024
Brother Wallace .. you have hit the nail on the head … thank you
HelenCSeptember 12, 2024
A “perfect” segue to the LDS business support group I attended this evening!
Thank you.
BryanSeptember 12, 2024
Exactly right! We truly see ‘through a glass darkly’ when it comes to our current life. Several weeks ago I was pondering on why trials are necessary and all I could think of is, if this life is a training ground and is to prepare us to ‘receive even all that the Father hath’, then eternal life and our future roles as Gods and Goddesses must be supremely difficult and this life gives us an opportunity to prepare for that. But all we must do now is keep our eyes on the prize, trust in Christ and His atonement, and do our best.
Roxanne ThayneSeptember 11, 2024
Excellent and timely article. Thank you for the time, research, and courage it took to write it.
SfischSeptember 11, 2024
Totally AMAZING! Thank you so MUCH. Thank you for your effort. I love this treasure trove of inspiration from our prophet.
Adrian MartinSeptember 11, 2024
I hope that this movie can reach a wider audience than just USA and Canada. I live in Great Britain.
Corey D.September 10, 2024
This article reminds me of a story told to us by our stake president over 20 yrs ago. His daughter and her family lived in Orlando Florida, he liked to go visit especially when the Space Shuttle was scheduled to launch. His daughter shared with him something that had happened with an assignment his granddaughter had at school. This was not too long after one of the big hurricanes had hit Florida, his granddaughter was in Jr. High and one of the teachers had assigned the class to do a report on how to prepare for a hurricane, his granddaughter in her report listed all the things they had at home, emergency supplies, food storage, etc., the teacher calls this young lady in and says to her, that's a nice report but I know you don't have all that stuff so why would you write that you did, she replied to the teacher that she wasn't exaggerating or lying, they really were prepared for an emergency. The teacher still didn't believe her and had her bring her mother to school. She explained to the teacher that everything her daughter had put in her report was true, that members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints are taught and encouraged to be prepared for emergency's, the teacher was totally amazed.
Walter J GoldthwaiteSeptember 10, 2024
I am one of milliions that have paid the Lord as He admonsheds us to do. But I have received much more than I have paid in over the years - temporally and spiritually. The Lord said in the Old Testament, "prove me now herewith, if I will not open you the Windows of Heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be enough to receive it" (Malachi 3:10). I have proved Him from paying more than an honest tithing for more than 60 years, and have received such blessings, huge and small, and looking back on life my wife and I can see clearly that those promised blessings have come. It makes us aware that there have also been many blessings we aren't aware of although those that we know about are incredibly numerous and miraculous.
Bob WoodburySeptember 9, 2024
Several years ago my wife and I, with two grandsons, made an afternoon visit in this beautiful and charming town. There were also a couple bus loads of Japanese visitors which made the visit a little surreal as by far the largest number of people on the streets, and in the shops and restaurants of this very English village were Asian. They were lovely people (as were the locals) and it made for one of our most memorable days in England.
Your photos have captured my own memory of this town.
Nicole SampsonSeptember 9, 2024
I wish you had dug into it more. I was hoping for a little more insight.
Nicole SampsonSeptember 9, 2024
Wow! I cannot wait to study this. Thank you so much for taking the time to create this article!
David MohrSeptember 9, 2024
I have always compared things like that playing hockey. If you want to play hockey then you play by the established rules. If you don't like the tiles then find a different game to play. Same thing with Church rules. If you don't like rules we run by then find a different church. I don't understand how you can join a game or a church and then want to change the rules already established. That's like saying I only play but by my rules. God's rules are for our Benefit.
GerrySeptember 9, 2024
May I add: Reverence for Life, April Gen. Conf. 1985, By Elder Russell M. Nelson Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
“It is a war on the defenseless—and the voiceless. It is a war on the unborn. This war, labeled “abortion…”
Doris WilliamsSeptember 9, 2024
Always appreciate whatever you have to say, Daniel Peterson, and the irony of your reply made me laugh. I must say that I have thought this more than once when faced with a bulging parking lot at the temple: "I feel so sorry for all these dang Mormons, paying all that tithing, they can't afford a decent car, as I search among all the late-model high-end cars taking up all the parking places! Love tithing, always will.
Leslie TimmsSeptember 9, 2024
Castle Combe has always been a favorite of mine when we are in England. However the last time we were in Castle Combe it was absolutely overrun with tourists. And many of the fabulous shops selling lovely woollen goods are now selling tshirts.
Gary BealSeptember 9, 2024
This article assumes that the Book of Mormon was written somewhere in Meso-America. Yet I can't find anywhere in the article that identifies this assumption. Have the researchers applied their skills to the area in North America that comprises the region where the Hopewell peoples lived? There is arguably ample evidence of that region as being the place where the Book of Mormon society existed.
Elaine MathewsSeptember 9, 2024
Lovely to see how much it meant to you- I was lucky enough to be born and grow up in the Cotswolds so all the lovely features are so familiar to me! Grateful to have many delightful memories of visits to all the local beauty spots - thanks for sharing yours!
TamaraSeptember 9, 2024
Thank you for taking the time to do this!
Merrill JensonSeptember 9, 2024
I remember seeing these streets in films. I just love the look. I truly want to visit there some day. Thanks for sharing.
Merrill Jenson
Rochelle HaleSeptember 9, 2024
I am a many-decades-ago convert. As a teen, one of the first principles I learned was tithing. I would put literal "IOUs" to the Lord in my piggy bank until I grasped the importance of this commandment. I have never looked back. It astounds me that other denominations are not criticized for their fund-raising tactics - the passing of offering plates, rummage sales or auctions, or even coffee shops and bookstores that share campus space with their meeting places. Have they forgotten to read their Old Testament? Or there is criticism of how the Church spends our tithing (and other offerings) donations. My late mother-in-law was wonderful about her charitable contributions, but she had to go through stacks of mail monthly to determine the reputable agencies. I pay my tithing and trust the Lord's servants to use it in the best possible way.
Ronald BarnesSeptember 9, 2024
As with all the principles of the gospel, we are never forced to obey, it is our choice. However, if we choose to not obey, we cannot expect to receive the blessings that come with obedience.
There is a law, irrevocably decreed in heaven before the foundations of this world, upon which all blessings are predicated—
And when we obtain any blessing from God, it is by obedience to that law upon which it is predicated.
Doctrine and Covenants 130:20 - 21
Jeff TeichertSeptember 8, 2024
Thanks Wally. I appreciate it!
Gary Stroble, W9NRSeptember 7, 2024
Should have typed two-way radios.
Nancy MSeptember 7, 2024
Such a beautiful perspective. Thank you!
Tim ErnstSeptember 6, 2024
The passing of sacred authority via the Holy Priesthood is essential to the foundation of the Restored Church of Jesus Christ. Dr. Peterson displays a wonderful acumen for getting to the gist of what is important, and he does so in this little article in timely fashion. Without Priesthood authority, none of the ordinances we perform would have efficacy, but with Christ's permission and investiture, the Priesthood is manifest in the world today, within the walls of homes, churches and temples and oftentimes outside of walls in battlefields and mission fields. We of all people are most blessed and honored by this power made manifest from Jesus Christ to a modern prophet named Joseph Smith and passed down individually from prophet to prophet until our day.
Jenny SvendsenSeptember 6, 2024
My husband and I lived in Alberta, Canada, when this happened to Joshua, I clearly remember following the news, and rejoiced, when he was found. I hope this movie wil come to Canada, we live close to bc now, everyone should experience the miracles that happened, I know miracles happen every day!
korinne nelsonSeptember 6, 2024
This was delightful. Thank you. Keep writing, Kimberly White!
Debrah RoundySeptember 5, 2024
I remember the day that record came stapled into the Magazine. We hoped it would not be damaged, and it wasn't. It was hard to hear what he, President Woodruff, said, but still it was thrilling. One used to get short use records on the back of cereal boxes, and one or two in magazines. No idea of what the future would bring, we thought the world was our oyster. Look at technology now!
Meridian, thanks for posting this, thanks for the memories!
ArchieSeptember 5, 2024
An amazing story. I will be the first one in line to see the movie.
HelenCSeptember 4, 2024
I remember hearing this amazing recording. I was too young to appreciate the importance of its contents. Thank you for educating us, again.
Scott E.September 3, 2024
Short-"sighted".
Also, if you watch movies or television, there are so many countless places where we revel in, marvel at, or laugh at someone's pain.
Any sitcom, if told in the form of a drama, is awful tragedy. Often humiliating, distressful and shocking. Yet we laugh away without a care in the world.
Horror movies are less about satiating ourselves on other's pain and, through the eyes of another, confront our own mortality.
While I don't know if I will watch it. I think it's fascinating. I'm interested in what it is ultimately trying to say. And really hoping it isn't some black as pitch, hopeless affair that portrays LDS as inept insincere and misguided.
That said, I can see being critical of a trailer. You see it and you can like it or not. But nobody but a few have even seen this movie.
So perhaps we should reserve judgment?
David C HobsonSeptember 3, 2024
Bravo! Very well stated!
Susan StoddardSeptember 3, 2024
Thank you so much for this article. I have recently been called to serve in my ward Relief Society Presidency. As I have begun to really serve the sisters in my ward I have gained a new perspective on "being used". This article brought be to tears. Thank you.
Wally GoddardSeptember 3, 2024
Great insights! Thank you, Jeff!
DianeSeptember 3, 2024
Thank you Sister Clayton! Beautiful and inspiring thoughts and wisdom.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 3, 2024
I want to arrive with my heart on my sleeve,
Knowing that I went beyond my own comfort
To make sure my disabled friend could experience the temple,
Knowing that the worst seat at the table turned out to be the best,
When learning how I could better minister,
And that appearances may not always show that someone is emotionally or physically well.
I want to smell the bread and crockpot meals I made for others.
I want to have circles under my eyes because I immediately said, "yes" before I knew what the Primary activity would involve.
I want tear stains on my blouse and callouses on my knees,
For the many prayers I have offered for others,
And my heart brimming with more gratitude than I can ever express for all that my Savior has done for me.
I want my heart to show that it was never about my own selfishness.
It was all about Him and how He could use me to help others.
KathleenSeptember 3, 2024
Thank you! I LOVE explanations of the origin of expressions. I say so many of my grandmother's without knowing from whence they came, including this one. I recently learned about 'the baby and the bathwater.'
Debbi M.September 2, 2024
Such a beautiful and thoughtful article. This is something I have wondered about, but am content to put it in a box on my "unresolved" shelf awaiting further information and light. I know what I know, that all will be worked out in the end, and look forward to learning more. We have a loving and just Heavenly Father and our Saviour, Jesus Christ, who will oversee all of these issues on day, and it will be glorious to see it unfold!
Chris KingSeptember 2, 2024
Isn't interest income what you can make on leftover funds that can earn interest? The Jewish law surrounding tithing was very complicated. It was detailed out to the utmost specifics so there was absolute clarity. The poor did not pay tithing. (SS or SSDI or Disability income) Tithing wasn't paid on gifts. It was paid on surplus and production. It was never paid on the whole field, only what the field produced. If you had sheep that died or half your field of crops diseased, they were not included as part of the increase. General business and household expenses including food and gas are dead sheep. What is left after the basics to care for your needs is interest or increase. Tithing is paid on that interest or increase. Some say gross. some say net. Some say on gifts. Even to the point of cash and gift values on birthdays, Christmas, weddings, or other special occasions. Basically, depending on the interpretation of leaders, their opinions, and suggestions based on how they were raised or personally applied in their lives. I have seen people pay on their business incomes and struggle to stay in business. Why? They paid on gross earnings from the business rather than having the business pay out dividends or a realized income to them first. I see the same with those running the business of their home. 10 percent on a gross paycheck for 2000 dollars is 200 dollars while if they had 100 left after basic needs to run the home business expenses and affairs, would have been 10 dollars. a difference of 190.00 dollars. 190.00 dollars is not 10 percent on the increase, but rather an overpayment. I have seen those on SS (SSDI, Disability) income who pay tithing only to turn around and have the church write a check for their mortgage and also need a bishop's order for food. In Jewish law, the poor did not pay tithing. They could donate as they saw fit, such as the widow's mite, but it was not required to pay tithing. Ultimately it is between the individual and the Lord and it is not easy when reasoning, mixed with opinions, and judgment, stirs in a mix of uncertainty, guilt, and doubt.
Karl K.September 2, 2024
Take a look at who owns Hulu. Consider carefully where you spend your money.
Joni HiltonSeptember 2, 2024
Just have to share this. When I saw the abbreviated title of your article in my email feed, it read: "Why Kids Need to be Pushed Out" - ha ha! I thought, Wow, Meridian is really taking a stand on getting those young adults out of the house. Alas, controversy averted. But I really did love the real topic of your piece.
Supportive HusbandSeptember 2, 2024
My wife has always been a very private person as far as phone calls and emails. She plainly told me they were none of my business. Through the years I simply trusted her. She rarely if ever asks about my phone or email communique. We trust each other and give each other that bit of privacy. When a general authority preached that a man should be giving his wife all his passwords, my wife told me not to bother; she trusted me. Today my wife runs her Mental Health practice from her phone, and in the state we live in it would be illegal for me to have access to it as I am not employed by her practice. We simply continue to trust each other and give each other that much privacy.
Sherri FarrSeptember 1, 2024
Concern for Tina Descovich speaking at BYU education Week was much more than book bans and making fun of the groups name. I moved to Utah from Tennessee where this group made national news as they actively destroyed our school district meetings, attacking our school superintendent, teachers, librarians and curriculum. I suppose that is a parents right, but they have earned the accusation of being a hate group, And the participants didn’t have children in the school district. Yesterday they had their convention with President Trump speaking, and I would love you to look for the picture of our current president and vice president hanging in the foyer as everyone entered. Look up articles about it on AP News and other reputable sites. This is not a loving group of LDS mothers but a well funded extremist group. (If you can’t find the photo of the picture in the lobby, it is Kamala Harris over the carcass of a bald eagle, blood dripping from her mouth. In the corner is President Biden with a knife protruding from his back.. a large guild framed oil painting). Please do a little research.
E. Wm. JacksonAugust 31, 2024
A great conclusion to a remarkable series... so much exceptional food for thought in all essays - and examples to assist that thought . I especially enjoyed/needed the thoughts on "grandparenting". The Eyres are appreciated by our family. We need this series in boklet form for ease of distribution.
Lori DriggsAugust 31, 2024
Christ didn’t present the Plan the Father did!
ShaunaAugust 30, 2024
yes, there goes summer, but my childhood was full of all these "liberties," I fear that many kids are giving theirs away willingingly, in order to look at a screen
ShaunaAugust 30, 2024
Thank you, I look forward to it. And as for Brigham's critics, "President Hinckley recalled, “When I was a young man and was prone to speak critically, my father would say: ‘Cynics do not contribute, skeptics do not create, doubters do not achieve.’” (Cultivating an Attitude of Happiness and a Spirit of Optimism, Chapter 3 of Teachings of President Gordon B Hinckley)
I stand in awe of all that Brigham accomplished in moving the Saints to Utah, colonizing the West, building temples, governing the state, but most of all, I honor him for his steadfast defense of Joseph Smith. He never faltered. Proud to be an alumnus of Brigham Young University, bearing his name. he wasn't perfect, but what a mighty tool in the Lord's hands
MaryannAugust 30, 2024
My Grandmother was only able to have one child, my father. Later, she also had one miscarriage, and then was unable to have any more children, although she yearned for them. Her miscarried pregnancy was advanced enough so that they could identify the fetus as female. I was my Father's firstborn, and my Mother felt very strongly that I was the spirit that my paternal Grandmother miscarried. My Mother was a very spiritual woman. Of course, we do not know for certain, but I believe my Mother was correct. My Grandmother and I were extremely close and very much alike. My mother was very sweet to my Grandmother, and allowed me to spend weeks with her, even as a very young child. I remember crying when I had to return home because home just seemed to be with my Grandmother. Yes, of course, Grandparents and Grandchildren are often very close, and share similar traits, but the bond between my Grandmother and I was unusually strong. I also looked VERY much like her (which I realized could just be because I was her Granddaughter). In the end, it doesn't really matter. I was sent to the family where I belonged, and I dearly loved both my Mother and my Grandmother. The key to peace in this matter is our trust in the Lord. We have been promised by General Authorities of the church that we will be thrilled with the final organization of our families if we keep our covenants. I have faith that all will be well, and everyone will be satisfied with the final outcome. It is also a beautiful truth that when family sealings are completed in perfection back to Adam, we are ALL sealed to one another---ALL the family of Adam and Eve.
Bruce MitchellAugust 29, 2024
Interesting that you would use as support information from The Heritage Foundation and The Washington Examiner. On the Harvard media bias graph both of these skew heavy right. Where is the support from more centrist media?
KatrinaAugust 29, 2024
Sweet stories, Lynne. Thank you for them. I hope you won't mind my saying so: here in America, the proper term is Down Syndrome, not Downs Syndrome.
MaryannAugust 29, 2024
My husband and I just celebrated 54 years of marriage, and I can certainly relate to the very hard struggles and the ups and downs in the marriage relationship. However, I do not intend to "hobble to the judgement seat, oozing infection." And, yes, our marriage WILL" win a prize for beauty." Our marriage, in fact, is the greatest beauty we have attained in this life. I am saddened that a person would believe they have to "stagger to heaven...filthy."
Lisa CroftAugust 29, 2024
It is interesting to imagine what happens to unborn babies. But, with regard to abortion, I think we need to consider the effects of abortion on the mother and the society that supports abortion without limits. Mothers suffer emotionally from abortion. That has not been acknowledged and many women suffer in silence. The loss of respect for life giving powers in our society has severe consequences, which has lead to the promotion of abortion from a profitable abortion industry as any easy solution to an unwanted consequence. Life is sacred in all its forms.
Steven PoulsonAugust 29, 2024
Please provide a citation for the Ezra Taft Benson quote regarding the Book of Mormon being a parallel to our day.
Rochelle HaleAugust 29, 2024
Yesterday we had a ladies' luncheon at the home of one of our ward members. It was lovely and attended by about 30 people. Sometimes I feel left out and don't feel like I do well in social situations. I prayed to have a good time and to be involved in conversation, etc. A much older friend invited me to sit by her. A fleeting thought was, "But I want to sit with women my own age." It turned out that we had four more seniors with limited mobility at our table. A few other ladies and I helped get food for them and responded to their every request throughout the gathering. We had delightful conversation with much laughter, plus I learned some additional ways that I can minister to these sisters.
CarolAugust 28, 2024
According to Topics and Questions under "War in Heaven," we are told that those who followed Satan before this life will not receive mortal bodies. This is also suggested in 2 Nephi 9. So if I understand correctly, only those of Heavenly Father's children who accepted His plan will come to earth and receive physical bodies. The rest remain as spirits, subject to Satan, with no physical body ever, and thus no resurrection.
Patricia HeatonAugust 28, 2024
It would stand to reason that not all spirits need the "mortal experience", especially given the fact of the innumerable deaths of little children throughout all mankind. All spirits, however, do need a physical body. Wouldn't a fetus, no matter how tiny, even at conception, constitute a body? Isn't that one of the main arguments we use against abortion? If that is true, why would a "fetus" need a second chance?
Robert David StarlingAugust 28, 2024
Regarding the "third part" (not necessarily one-third, but variable like the "first part" or "second part"?) of Heavenly Father's spirit children who were "cast out" ..... Although it was Father's *plan* that they all would receive a body (just as it is his plan for all of us to return to him, if we are obedient), they, like Lucifer, abrogated their part of that plan and forfeited their right to be embodied when they rebelled against Father's plan. At least that's how I understand it.
Renee RivardAugust 28, 2024
Prior to my husbands death from cancer he asked me where our boys were. I mentioned the whereabouts of our two sons and he became mildly annoyed. He asked where the other one was and assured me that we have 3 boys. I asked him, half jokingly, if he needed to tell me something and he very clear minded said “No”.
I asked him what the other boys name is and he didn’t know. I had had one early miscarriage so I didn’t know the child’s gender. I realized that that was the child my husband was referring to. I named that child and believe he is ours eternally. And I also understood that no matter how developed he was, it was a body.
LoraAugust 28, 2024
My mother told me that while teaching a Relief Society class, the question came up about miscarriage. She remembered a quote by Brigham Young (or was it inspiration of her own), saying that these children don't need to be sealed to their mothers because they never left them. This brought great comfort to the sister who asked. I'm sure that when we get to the spirit world, there will be a way to access FAQs so we can get all the answers. In the meantime, we can trust our Heavenly Father, that everything will work out.
DianeAugust 28, 2024
I had an ectopic pregnancy. When I found out, my fallopian tube was on the verge of bursting. I did not pray about what to do or consult my bishop. Even waiting another hour or two would have resulted in my death.
I was never able to have another child. (I had two already, but always wanted more.)
Harold RustAugust 28, 2024
Good questions you raise; however, there is a known that we do know and believe regarding each of these situations in which an innocent life was never allowed to experience mortal accountability: the truth that not only does God love all His children but also every action--good and bad---has eternal consequences which can only be "erased" through repentance and Christ's atonement. For those not personally accountable, then those who are accountable must deal with justice before mercy has any effect.
Eunice RobertsonAugust 28, 2024
I had 6 pregnancies, and have 3 living children. I often wonder if I will see those other 3 children one day.
BoBAugust 28, 2024
To Catherine Gardner, When I work out a contract or business agreement in my daily work, both parties must agree, if not there is no contract, so no, they will not. God will never force His will on someone else nor compel one into a contract.
"It’s unclear in the book how this determination is made." It is made on an individual basis, one at a time, per the needs of that specific, individual Child of God.
Rochelle HaleAugust 28, 2024
As one who experienced difficulty bringing children into the world, I appreciate your article. As one who has done a fair amount of family history research and temple ordinances, I question your comment, "The Church does not record stillbirths or miscarriages on church membership records." Often in my research, I have seen children who died at birth (not miscarriages), and no temple ordinances are required or needed, except sealings (in the case of children not born under the covenant).
I feel we live in a sad day when abortion seems to be the magic alternative to the beautiful life that God has ordained for us. In our politics, however, there seems to be a one-stop-shopping attitude, rather than an umbrella under which abortion might be an option under certain circumstances. I was speaking to a physician friend who told me that often doctors' hands are tied and often life-saving procedures are delayed because the term abortion is so broad, yet with no specific definition in many cases. Unfortunately, we live in a society where rules/commandments are questioned, and people want to do as they please (drinking, abortions, etc.) believing that they can seek a quick solution after the fact.
Daryl GibsonAugust 28, 2024
Thanks for this thoughtful summary. There are no easy answers. The Church position places responsibility (and consequences) on the parents, which is in line with the principle of agency. It is also clear in our doctrine that no spirit will be denied a mortal experience, however brief.
Ronald BarnesAugust 28, 2024
After losing our last child halfway through the pregnancy, I teased my wife that she might be resurrected pregnant. She did not find it funny, so i stopped.
KCAugust 28, 2024
Thank you for this insightful article. I just want to add that millions upon millions of abortions were not due to the parents but totalitarian govt. laws.
Catherine GardnerAugust 28, 2024
So does this mean that the third of the host who were cast out will one day receive a body if it is the plan that all if Heavenly Father's soirit children will experience mortality?
Ben JonesAugust 28, 2024
I remember many years ago that a legislator in Utah made a big stink about a book called "Americana" being in a school library. The result of his efforts to have the book removed only caused it to be read a lot more by people who wanted to find out what the big deal was.
Steve DoneganAugust 27, 2024
Your description of marriage reminds me of a song by Casting Crowns called, "Broken Together." I wish all could see marriage this way...
KarenAugust 27, 2024
Truthful, vulnerable authenic, and open. It describes what most marriages truly are behind our masks. Thank you so much. It’s a keeper. I want our married children and grandchildren to read this.
Ryan WhiteAugust 27, 2024
Very nicely written. It’s what makes love, marriage, and family worth it. Thank you for sharing!
HelenCAugust 27, 2024
My prayer is that many of the cherished elect deceived by modern Korihors will “See your good works and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” Matt 5:16
Susan StoddardAugust 27, 2024
Thank you for this beautiful article. It brought tears to my eyes and hope for my own marriage now that my husband has passed through the veil. We had our troubles, but stayed the course together. Thank you for your insight.
T. BarrettAugust 27, 2024
Could hardly finish reading for the tears. Thank you for this powerful description of married life. I read an article in a national publication a few years ago about 100 people, married over 50 years, who were interviewed and every single one said their marriages were the hardest and best thing they had accomplished in their lives.
Steph ZAugust 27, 2024
Kim, this is so beautiful. I cried. Thank you for being such a beautiful soul. ❤️❤️❤️
ValAugust 27, 2024
Kimberly, your talent is to help us all feel real. Thank you for sharing your reality and your journey together and your win. Love you both.
Greg DaltonAugust 27, 2024
I was a teenager when our family moved from New England to Puerto Rico in 1965. There were two tiny servicemen branches that met on the island (one at Ramey Air Force Base on the west end of the island and the other at Roosevelt Roads Naval Base at Fajardo on the east end of the island) and a third branch, the slighter larger but still tiny and mostly English speaking San Juan Branch that met in a military chapel at Fort Brooke at the edge of the grassy expanse that adjoins the El Morro fortress in Old San Juan. The chapel was located beneath the dome of the old and stately building that is now the Puerto Rico Academy of Fine Arts. On our first day attending church we were met outside the building with its views of the Atlantic ocean on one side and the San Juan harbor on the other and greeted by members with hugs and kisses. The hugs and kisses were a part of our every Sunday greetings for the seven years that we lived in Puerto Rico. The tradition lives on.
CarolynAugust 27, 2024
Thank you for this real & raw article. It is beautifully written and a true description of the journey of marriage. As I celebrate my 50th anniversary this week, I am humbled by this article. Thank you!
Ronald BarnesAugust 27, 2024
My testimony of the gospel is based on knowledge given me that the President of the Church is a true prophet. However, there have been times when prophets have confused me and have made me wonder, “Why?” Through prayer, personal revelation can answer that question and give us assurance of his words. Also, in any organization, there needs to be a central authority, otherwise, chaos reigns. In our case, that central authority is the First Presidency, led by the prophet. He will lead the church in the direction it should go, whether we follow him or not. We will always be better off if we do.
Wally GoddardAugust 26, 2024
Beautiful!
Rob McGhieAugust 26, 2024
This is beautiful and so true
CASAugust 26, 2024
My husband and I had many trials and setbacks as well as blessings in our 63 years of marriage. I hope you live long enough to be able to go through the refiner's fire in your marriage by caring for one another through old age and its many health issues and challenges as the end of earth's life for your mate draws near. In doing so in my experience, I found the purest of unconditional love and eternal blessings here on earth to tide me over until I can be with my one true eternal love again on the other side.
NancyAugust 26, 2024
This is so great!
As an 83 year old who was married for 60 years prior to my husband's passing, I have never read a better description of marriage. It is true and honest.
Was it worth the effort? Without question. I am thankful every day that we "stuck it out"...together! So worth it in the end.
EveAugust 26, 2024
Sometimes all you can say is, "Wow! Thank you!
StephanieAugust 26, 2024
This is so, so beautiful! I'm not one to easily tear up, but I did reading this. It is so raw and accurate. We put marriages on a pedestal in the church (a we should!), but we don't often teach of what this really looks/feels like. It's something that has to be lived to be understood and prized <3
Harold RustAugust 26, 2024
Wonderfully written; expresses the path followed by many of us "struggling" pilgrims.
JuliannAugust 26, 2024
Wow, that is powerful and introspective and touching. Thank you. You have put a chink in my heart wall.
AmyAugust 26, 2024
Fabulous description.
AlanAugust 26, 2024
This is one of the best things I have ever read on marriage. Thank you.
JoyceAugust 26, 2024
This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve read. Thanks Kimberly White
Annette AtwoodAugust 26, 2024
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this. This is so true of marriage. Nowadays people are so quick to walk away rather than stay and fight, piece it together and live to love another day.
Thank you for this, it’s what I needed today.
Allen AAugust 24, 2024
My contempt for modern "journalists" grows every time I read one of their "news" stories. My Grandmother was a newspaper reporter before and during World War 1 and she would never have tolerated, much less written the kind of biased nonsense that most corporate "news" writers put out. The attacks on the "trad wife" people are like Lehi and Nephi's visions of the great and spacious building and the people mocking the followers of the iron rod.
KathleenAugust 24, 2024
What a privilege and joy you have to help influence young people.
No way could I put my name here and be shamed because of my thougths.August 23, 2024
I suffered 25 years of abusive behavior from my spouse, he was involved in porn, he hit the children and began to strike me. Then he put on a different face at church and to leadership. I stayed and suffered because of the sigma of divorce in the church. Sadly, my children suffered also. I attended the Temple for years with my friends as my spouse refused to attend. I sat on the porch much longer than I should have because of the attitudes like this author. While I usually enjoy reading this magazine, I think this particular commentary is shaming divorced members and displaying the non-divorced members as "I'm better than you" attitude. Honestly, shame on you for allowing this to be published.
Jenny SvendsenAugust 23, 2024
Thank you for such an enlightning article, I learned a lot, and it rang true to me.
LewisAugust 23, 2024
How can I not contribute? Your stories are moving exhibits of the gospel in action. It was the Savior who went among the poor and neglected, and the Book of Mormon is full of admonitions to extend our hand to the poor and needy. You are doing an extraordinary work, and my life is better for your constant lessons of service through your articles. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Charlotte FreeAugust 23, 2024
Your explanations seem more than speculation and I enjoyed some good pondering with your ideas. Thanks for that.
I also appreciated that you came around to remind us that in the now can be instructional as well, as it should be for our progression.
What gave me great peace, however, were your comments on Ministering Angels and how the time during the Millennium is offered toward "fairness" and, I would add "more mercy". My daughter is single and a teacher so it clicked immediately. I am a divorcee and, although I thought I would remarry, I have not felt inspired to do so.
All in all I was grateful for your essay.
HelenCAugust 23, 2024
So thought-provoking! The combined gender possibility creates a little turmoil in my heterosexual soul but it also begs the question is Satan, as usual, perverting a sacred truth in order to justify destroying the lives of so many here on earth? He tried it at least once when he told Christ that He would not be harmed if He threw Himself from the tower of the temple because, “It is written . . . lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone.“ Matt 4:6
Still trying to turn light to darkness as when he promised “that not one soul shall be lost . . . wherefore, give me thine honor.”Moses 4:1
Corey D.August 23, 2024
In the modern world one of Satan's greatest tactics/success is the use of semantics. Back in the 70's you were pro-abortion or anti-abortion, then the term pro-abortion morphed into pro-choice, less harsh, even positive sounding and there are many others, gay marriage became marriage equality. When I was younger the word pornography you never heard, it was smut or dirty movies, magazines, etc., then pornography came into use and pretty soon it was soft porn or hard porn and then the term "adult material" came into use, again a much more acceptable term. Look at the drug problem and the terms and definitions used surrounding drug use and the changes and societal acceptance of in particular marijuana, mostly driven by how it gets worded or phrased anymore. Like Paul Harvey use to say, " it's sometimes not what you say that matters, but how you say it" and Satan is great at that.
Dr. MarLynn James, PhD. Physical ChemistAugust 22, 2024
Excellent article!
Joni HiltonAugust 22, 2024
Becky, you are one of the people I most admire!
Ronald BarnesAugust 22, 2024
I have been studying the sciences for over 60 years. Some of the things I have learned have helped me to better understand the gospel. I have concluded that true science and true religion will never contradict. Unfortunately, there are a lot of false scientific and religious beliefs that do. In the 1950’s, Immanuel Velikovsky, a religious, Jewish scientist, used science to prove how some of the miracles mention in the Bible were scientifically preformed. He stated that knowing how they happened did not lessen the miracle.
VjAugust 22, 2024
Question?
So is the gospel of Abraham basically a reference to the Abrahamic Covenant?
Carlos RoundyAugust 21, 2024
Satan, claims that in the premortal life that the “Only Beloved”, stole his crown, and that Satan will do all in his power to get it back, Satan still believes that his plan is the best plan. He demanded that Moses worship him, Heavenly Father’s plan is agency, his plan is powered by love, he loves us. Satans plan is to divide us, Heavenly Father,s plan is to unite us. We each make the final choice of whom we will follow.
heather barthAugust 21, 2024
This list is powerful and enobling! We are truly blessed to have prophets, apostles, and leaders of the Church who encourage us to partake of all the promised blessings our Heavenly Father so desires to give us! Thank you for compiling!
Michael GelotteAugust 21, 2024
I had the privilege of studying Egyptian with Hugh Nibley. One text we read was “The Contention of Horus and Seth”. Horus was the beloved Son of God, and Seth (in other spellings Setek or Setan) was the evil brother.
Seth is described as “overstepper of bounds”, “source of lies”, “deceiver from his mother’s womb”, “usurper of authority”, etc.
Satan, indeed oversteps bounds, tries to usurp authority, and definitely deceives as often and as many as possible!
Not only in the Bible, but in other ancient writings, the evil one is clearly known and warned against!
HelenCAugust 21, 2024
Thank you for not suggesting we bury negative thoughts without understanding them. They exist for a reason and hoping they’ll “just go away” defeats their purpose. Understood, they add to our strength.
Irene Clare Holmes TukuafuAugust 20, 2024
Oh, wow, the first time I read this. Being that my maiden name is Holmes, of course this caught my eye and reading. I know that Mark Twain also had some unkind words to say of the Mormons. And I thought this article was going to be about Mark Twain's writings. The used treadmill of untruth goes nowhere eventually. Thank you for the article.
Sandra HamiltonAugust 20, 2024
Great article, I did not know this and have read his novels.
Kathleen AndersonAugust 20, 2024
Thank you so much for sharing this list. As I read through it, tears came to my eyes because I could feel the inspiration in these words from scriptures quoted and from our leaders. I copied and pasted the promises, and will also share them with my grandchildren serving missions. Thanks again for your devotion in sharing the gospel and fortifying our faith through study.
GoodwinsAugust 20, 2024
Thinking that marriage will solve a pornography problem is not only incorrect but a rationalization to postpone working on the problem now. One book that helps people overcome rationalizing and is consistent with church values is Power Over Pornography. Its methodology is different than others, but works. I recommend it.
KathleenAugust 19, 2024
Thank you for identifying and reviewing these promises and blessings. We are abundantly blessed, particularly for temple work and worship, protecting us from the world and the adversary.
Linda K. SpoonerAugust 19, 2024
I know about the media. While we were living in Israel they showed a movie about us Latter-day Saints. I think it was Over the Mountain about a sister (author) whose husband left her for a man and how she learned how to forgive him. A few years later he found that he had aids. She took him in and nursed him until his death. The next shabbat we turned a corner by the Jerusalem Center and someone painted on a sign " Mormons have aids". That's all they took away from the movie but that. It is amazing what people think.
HelenCAugust 19, 2024
The only thing we can offer is out in examples. A friend of mine said one of his friends was passing a Reorganized LDS church and went in, thinking it was ours. He soon realized my friend would not believe such stuff and walked out.
kjcoAugust 19, 2024
I think along the lines of the quote from Parley Pratt--"continued exertions" of "creative power" by which millions of new worlds will yet be formed and peopled, not just by God the Father, but also by king Adam and his descendants.”[6] What does it take to be creative? what do we need to learn enough? Does God give us practice? Does everything in eternity all happen at once? Most of the questions I find are in themselves limiting--and the answers then become limited and less than useful. I appreciate the comment by James Stuart Brown when he said"Boredom is a function of our own limitations." We are limiting ourselves!!! The frightening irony about less than faith filled lines of self-limiting questions and statements is that the boredom will come from being STUCK without the power of God to progress and continue EXPANDING our worlds in whatever way shape or form that is. The Celestial world is the only one that is unbounded and open to all possibilities! By purposely choosing a lesser existence because we haven't put the time and effort and desire into gaining personal revelation as to what might be in store or what our possibilities are is actually purposely choosing to confine ourselves to an existence that was prepared for those who don't trust God enough to believe what great things he has in store and settling in the most permanent way possible. That will get old FAST.
Corey D.August 18, 2024
With very, very few exceptions, marriage is the hardest thing I've done in my life. I have seen and do see so much divorce around me, in fact have two sons going through it. Way to many of the young couples in the church getting divorced. I think in the church we have unintentionally taught the idea that if you get married in the temple all will be well and their won't be any problems. President Hinckley once gave a talk in which he stated, "marriage takes work, hard work", I was glad he said that.
BobbieAugust 18, 2024
All of our relationships cannot be saved. Perhaps you need to conduct some extensive research into the terrible reality that accompanies marriage to someone with a personality disorder. Lying, gaslighting, violence or the threat of violence directed at the spouse and children. Worst of all was the very successful manipulation of Church leaders, getting them to participate in manipulating me. The Church was used as a weapon against me. So yes, sometimes permanent separation from your spouse is necessary and temporary removal from the priesthood leaders who believe every thought that passes through their heads must be inspired by God.
Gary Stroble, W9NRAugust 18, 2024
Cell phones, cordless phones and handheld two-two radios can be safely used indoors or in an enclosed vehicle during a thunderstorm, as long as they are not attached to any type of outside antenna.
Geraldine HamiltonAugust 17, 2024
Being called and set apart as a missionary is done by and through the Melchizedek priesthood power. It is a great blessing to you as you serve in your assignments under the guidance of a called and set apart Mission President and his wife. When you have competed your mission and are released, you no longer need to have the blessing of being called and set apart as a missionary. It is a real thing and needs to be understood as such. Being down after being released is normal and will resolve with time and finding new goals and activity.
RoxanneAugust 17, 2024
Thank you for your wisdom.
Douglas NadybalAugust 16, 2024
Corey D, I would ask you what Church other than the LDS even teaches that there is a mother in heaven? If anything, it is a bible problem, in that the only real reference to Her is that all of the spiritual sons and daughters of God were created in their image (Genesis), and after that really nothing in the bible. My personal opinion is that the lack of focus on her is a part of the apostacy, because in early Judaic thought, she was definitely present, more so than what is presented in the present day bible. God the Father and His Son have their names trashed and taken in vain a billion times a day, and for that reason alone, I am glad her name and Person is shielded.
Douglas E NadybalAugust 16, 2024
So, if I understand it WITHELD, the Lord has a slightly more inclusive definition of understanding than your immediate family, or in your case ex family. You have parents, grand parents, great grand parents, maybe some brothers, sisters, cousins, nieces, nephews, all important people in their own right. I don't want to down play your pain, it is legit, but there are a host of other worthy people that in eternal sense are our will become your family. Ignoring those possibilities by focusing on your pain, might just cause more pain. As in all things, the wild card is free agency, and as the person who also addressed you, the compensation for the craziness comes later.
Linda Cropper ChristensenAugust 16, 2024
Thanks Tanya for reminding us how precious memories are and that we can record them. What an amazing woman you met.
Rochelle HaleAugust 16, 2024
Boredom in the Celestial Kingdom? I think it beats sitting on a cloud and playing a harp for all eternity. Seriously, we have so much more to learn and so much has not yet been revealed. I believe we will be engaged in a lot of work and serious study, but we put that in the perspective of our mortal minds rather than what celestial beings will be capable of. To me it seems quite fascinating. Does my world have to have mice or worms? How many different kinds of apples are required? Most importantly, we will be with our Heavenly family and our loved ones.
DebbieAugust 15, 2024
There are so many things we do not know about the hereafter. Corinthians 2:9 “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him,” intimates that there is more to the story that we have no concept about!
The experience of the Nephites and Lamanites was so profound from being in a Gods (Christs) presence, and hearing and seeing what they did… that they had peace for almost 200 years. Might as well live to obtain ALL the blessings so you can have the have the ability to choose something lesser, than to forfeit any potential for those blessings by giving up now (when you can’t even fathom what the Lord lovingly has instore for us)! Don’t forget the power of The Savior to redeem and exalt those now problematic children! Nor what capacity for joy and peace that an exalted being is capable of. As far as boredom goes. Just think of the endless variety of creative opportunities that are in store in Eternity! Think WAY outside the Eternity box on this one!
JayAugust 15, 2024
Maybe it might be fair to consider one more truth to understand what exaltation, or what God's life is really like. Elder Holland taught in "Of Souls, Symbols, and Sacraments" that we are never more like our Father in Heaven than when we are participating in creating the lives of our children. He further explains that "Father" is the name that He prefers over all others. President Nelson further suggests that while Salvation (eternal life in the celestial kingdom) is an individual matter, exaltation is a "family matter."
In other words, when we grasp that being promised the promises in the sealing ordinance, they are not centered on the creation of kingdoms, or worlds for creation sake, but in the creation and nurturing of life eternally and that the state of exaltation is most certainly about having the "seeds forever." Logically, with that view, the creation of places "for (our children or seed) to dwell, is simply a necessary byproduct as a means not an end in and of itself. That thought suggests that in this sense our motives should not and will not center on physical creation of planets and worlds in and of themselves.
As section 49 says, the earth was created so that a man and women could get married and have an earthly family. If we don't want to create children in eternity, we most certainly will not create life with God forever and by extension, there will be no opportunity to create worlds for those who don't want to be heavenly parents in an eternal chain of "gods with a little 'g'."
To be "gods" is to be parents...period, there is no other way or purpose under heaven than that. My conclusion, being an eternal parent is what it means to receive "all the blessings of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob" and what is means when we read that Abraham sought the "blessings of the fathers."
CSAugust 15, 2024
To your concluding statement, "And my guess is that most of you have never worried much about being 'bored in eternity,'" I think about it ALL the time. I'm not sure I want to build worlds, but I do want to reside in the Celestial Kingdom. I do want to be sealed to a good and worthy spouse to make up for the unworthy spouse I was sealed to on Earth. I wish for the blessings of the Celestial Kingdom -- but I would also like to know I can read a book once in a while or take a vacation to visit other worlds and not just be a Worker Bee for eternity, and especially not be obligated to pop out spirit babies for eternity. Maybe I'll feel differently when I'm there, but right now, I both look forward to being in the Celestial Kingdom and also dread it just a little bit. I HOPE HOPE HOPE there is more to it than it sounds like there is.
Shalissa LindsayAugust 15, 2024
Thanks for your treatment of this question, which comes up so often! I would like to add something I wrote myself several years ago:
"Modern prophets teach that we are gods in embryo, so let’s first think
about that comparison for a moment. Embryos (or at least fetuses) already share much of the physical anatomy of their parents and soon begin to have some of the same capabilities, such as movement, hearing, and even very limited sight.
But while embryos carry the raw DNA potential to become adults, they
hardly have an adult-like existence. Embroyos don’t eat salsa, tell jokes, build snow forts, play the guitar, light fireworks, polka,
or hit home runs. They don’t drive, ski, invent, paint, congregate, quilt, procreate, play basketball, hike, bicycle, or compose music. Thousands of joys specific to adult life are simply unknown to the babe in a womb, or even to a toddler. If you described to a fetus the process of birth, it might sound hellish. No more umbilical cord or warm amniotic fluid? Mother far away? No thank you. I’ll just stay right here as long as possible.
In the same way, the vast majority of celestial joys and capabilities must be simply beyond our wildest imaginations at this embryonic stage of our existence." (From the book Answers Will Come, p.83)
James Stuart BrownAugust 15, 2024
I greatly enjoyed the article as it is something I have pondered and prayed about for a long time. It makes sense that even within the Celestial Kingdom there will be numerous levels and roles. Not everyone will become a "CEO" comparable to Elohim. It is unlikely that the Final Judgement will be an "all or nothing" sort of thing. We know a little about three levels within the Celestial Kingdom. Those are probably Macro Divisions with their own entry criteria and some room for progression. There may be many further levels of differentiation. Pres Nelson's training at the University of Minnesota was a 7-year program with a few dropping out each year. The seventh-year finishers were considered capable of being University Program Chairs (or a Prophet in his case). There may be 7 levels after Celestial selection. There may be many more than 7 before someone has graduated to the level of Elohim. What will they concern themselves about? Maybe they will work to solve the issue of implosion of the existing universe, or relationship with an adjoining member of the Multiverse. Who knows, certainly not me. Boredom is a function of our own limitations.
Rochelle HaleAugust 15, 2024
Where are we without faith? We stagnate. We prevent ourselves from progressing. We lose the opportunities to learn and experience joy, even though there might be challenges in our path. When my husband and I struggled to have children we didn't give up. We sought counseling, medical treatment, and support groups of people going through similar experiences. Of course, we continued our prayers.
When my mother became ill we didn't expect to lose her so quickly, yet my faith propelled me through many decisions that had to be made, and that guidance would come in many areas where we did not yet have the answers or know where to turn for her physical, medical, and end-of-life care.
KathleenAugust 15, 2024
Beautiful!
LauraAugust 14, 2024
Thank you for this thoughtful reflection, Kathy. The gospel path is sure, and most definitely worth keeping on!
DIANE ROBERTSAugust 14, 2024
I love this talk, the Lord used it to send me a message. My husband had been ill for 18 months and had taken a drastic downturn a week before Conference. I was sitting on our bed next to him watching Conference knowing he was dying as he had been asleep for three and a half days. When Elder Kearon's talk ended, so did my husbands sojourn in this life. I knew there was significance in his talk at the time and didn't know the name of it and it took a couple of weeks before I was able to listen to it again but it is of great comfort to me. I know where my husband is and I am very grateful for the restored gospel and ongoing revelations which give me knowledge to help me be worthy of joining my husband one day.
LynnAugust 14, 2024
Loved this story. I have done this the better part of my life. Thanks for it and all you do!
Doris WilliamsAugust 14, 2024
Thank you Scot for the amazing pictures of those pyramids...the story line too. I especially loved the close-up of the stones in the great pyramid. Yes, you two have been to some amazing places. Thank you deeply for letting us tag along and enjoy the spirit of your journeys, as well as the sites (sights!) Your photos of Joseph's Nauvoo and environs will always be in my memory.
JillAugust 14, 2024
Elder Kearon was so calming, reassuring, and clear with his message. It's good to see the visuals to match with his words. Thank you!
Phil AndrewsAugust 13, 2024
It's actually a little smaller than the Nauvoo Temple. Just do a google drive by of that temple, at 500 feet away, and you'll see that its footprint is much smaller than shown on the deceptive website that the opposition folks created and disseminated to the residents and town leaders. Also Nauvoo is a much smaller town than Fairview.
WallyAugust 13, 2024
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Debrah RoundyAugust 13, 2024
4th mission with my hubby, working hard and enjoying making a small bit of God's Kingdom a better place.
Richard TrippAugust 12, 2024
That was a powerful defense of the Book of Mormon leaders. Thanks Duane
Marilynne LinfordAugust 12, 2024
A lot of fun to read and see. Thanks Scot.
GayeAugust 12, 2024
P. Snow-- CES stands for Church Education System. The title is based on him sending the letter to an employee of the system--either a seminary or institute teacher.
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Thank you for this great article!
Antonio ArreolaAugust 10, 2024
Excellent, thanks for sharing and I look forward to the second essay very soon.
Jessica WhitakerAugust 10, 2024
They were going to deny it before the meeting started. It didn't matter what anyone said. The money to fight it had been found.
MaryannAugust 9, 2024
Excellent counsel. I also think it is helpful to remember that people sometimes show anger when they are very frightened or insecure about something. For example--financial stress. When we realize the root of their anger is fear, we will better understand the emotion beneath words that sound like an attack.
Scott HoskinsAugust 9, 2024
I had wonderful grandparents, not perfect, but I knew they loved me. My children did not. My wife and I are trying to be good grandparents, and I hope we're succeeding. This article helps clarify what's needed. Thank you!
MaryannAugust 9, 2024
People who read the Book of Mormon and pray daily, and cleave to the words of our living prophets will not be deceived. The Book of Mormon teaches repeatedly about the techniques of those who seek to deceive. It is a prophetic warning for our day. The words linked with the word "deceiving" in Book of Mormon scriptures are: "lying", "flattering words," vain words," "deceiving to destroy," " to lead away," "deceived by the power of the devil," "cunning words," "craftiness," "fair promises." It is interesting to note that after the sign was given of Christ's birth in 3rd Nephi, Ch 1, that deceivings increased. We know that our Savior's second coming is near. Is it any wonder that Satan has launched a renewed and deadly attack to deceive and lead away members of the church, as well as the world? Is it any wonder that deceivings are increasing in this momentous Saturday night in time? The Doctrine and Covenants is also filled with many warnings of deceivings occurring in the last days, and specific ways we can avoid deception. D&C 45:57 teaches us that those who are NOT deceived are "they that are wise and have received the Holy Spirit for their guide..." This is the day that we must cleave unto our sacred covenants, the Holy Scriptures, especially the Book of Mormon, and the words of living prophets. We also need to pray for those who are being deceived that their eyes will be opened to truth, and that they will return. As true followers of Jesus Christ, continuing to love them is essential.
MaryannAugust 9, 2024
Good grief! Our world has gone CRAZY! I feel like I have been dropped into a "twilight zone." Women are women, and men are men. Does it really require an explanation as to why they should not compete in sports?!
HelenCAugust 9, 2024
Thank you for bringing this article to my attention. I was able to read and comment on it in the original source.
As a British-born, lifelong member of the Church I was able to reminisce about small congregations meeting in rented houses in the late 1950s and early 1960s before we emigrated to Australia where I later met my American husband and then moved to Oregon.
5th generation Latter Day Saints are rare in England!
Ronald BarnesAugust 9, 2024
I believe it is human nature is to live in three generational family groups. We mature physically long before we mature intellectually or socially. I believe we are meant to have children in our later teen years, and to raise them with the assistance and guidance of our own parents, who we still live with. With our now longer lifespan, we push back child baring five to ten years, but I believe the three generational principal still applies.
CECAugust 8, 2024
Very encouraging and helpful. Thank you for your profound message. I love to hear/read all of your talks,Elder Kearon.
Douglas NadybalAugust 8, 2024
Evidently God loves us enough to send us to earth with the option to self destruct if we so choose. But we, unlike God, are not all knowing, even in our love for others. We presume to think we know what is best for others thus assuming the role of God. Some choices are clearly destructive and we may confidently advise on. Others may involve seeking to impose our will on a loved one. At the end of the day, God affirms our agency, no matter what. Affirming others can simply be no more than affirming the consequences of their choices. I would rather affirm someone than walk away them feeling unloved.
Paula SnowAugust 8, 2024
I believe my father loved the Book of Mormon, not only for its teachings, but also for the truths it taught about war. He flew 27 missions over the European Theater as a waste gunner and a radio operator. For him, and many others in war situations , the Book of Mormon has given peace and light concerning forgiveness to those who had no choice but to fight for their country.
Neal C.August 8, 2024
I did not serve a mission, but did serve in the Navy and more than 50 years later still feel the pull of the sea. One observation I have about return missionaries is that they are mentally older, more mature than their friends and others who didn't serve a mission. They won't quite fit in with this group, and that can be a part of their grief.
D MackeyAugust 8, 2024
Thank you for this thought provoking article. Joseph Smith is truly the key prophet of the last dispensation and stands as a great example of a presidential candidate who revered the US Constitution as a means of protecting minority rights as well as the majority. And let us not forget the sacred record known as The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ that came through his instrumentality and was preserved and given for us in our day, in part to help expose the secret combinations that would plague our government prior to the Second Coming of Christ.
John C. GreeneAugust 8, 2024
I am reminded of that dialogue between Jesus and his disciples wherein he asks, “Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?” What follows is a very purposeful instruction from the Lord on the key to discerning truth from error. The answers to that question offered by “flesh and blood” all had the ring of possibility, of plausibility, of context to men. But they were all wrong. Then Jesus asked, “But whom say ye that I am?” Peter answered with clarity “Thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.” What a contrast. Peter knew the truth in spite of the fog of the opinions of men, of uninspired error, and of unbelief. Then the Lord gives them – and us – the key to discerning truth from error: “Bless art thou, Simon Barjona: for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven” (Matthew 16:13-17). Unfortunately, some in my own ward, and in my own family, have been influenced by “flesh and blood” and have fallen away. Elder Bednar taught that the oil which the foolish virgins lacked was the “oil of conversion.” They were not sufficiently converted to the doctrine of Christ. The oil of conversion doesn’t come, can’t come, from “flesh and blood.” It comes from the Father. If we would not fall ourselves in these last days, and if we can have any hope of reclaiming those who have, we must order our lives so that our knowledge of the truth is, as with Peter, revealed to us by our Father in heaven.
Debra MackAugust 8, 2024
Yep - awesome. Beautifully done
P. SnowAugust 7, 2024
What does CES stand for??
D MackeyAugust 7, 2024
Thank you for this thought provoking article. Joseph Smith is truly the key prophet of the last dispensation and stands as a great example of a presidential candidate who revered the US Constitution as a means of protecting minority rights as well as the majority. And let us not forget the sacred record known as The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ that came through his instrumentality and was preserved and given for us in our day, in part to expose the secret combinations that would plague our government prior to the Second Coming of Christ.
Maurine Jensen ProctorAugust 7, 2024
Maria, In the article I listed several rebuttals with hot links, including Sarah Allen's extensive work. The topic of this article was not about the answers to his questions, which have been answered many times. Instead it was about how his story made vulnerable people susceptible to his specious work.
BobAugust 7, 2024
I first encountered anti material 50 years ago on my mission. When I read Runnell's lengthy letter I was surprised to see so many of the things I heard back then. Much of what passes for new information is simply warmed over material from Joseph Smith's time.
I also found his "questions" to be framed in authoritative language that make them appear as credible statements rather than questions from an earnest seeker. His fabrication has been the instrument in a few of my wife and my family to lose their faith and leave the church. It is heartbreaking, especially since it's been so thoroughly refuted over the decades (I've read a couple of the refutations of Runnell's document as well). The difficulty is, for every page of Runnell's false claims it takes many pages to properly refute it. Many who read the CES letter and then claim to have deeply studied the matter, don't have the desire and patience to read the refutations (where they can gain a real education on the subjects).
I'm old enough to speak authoritatively myself when I say, It's a bunch of hooey!
Hopefully this latest discrediting of Runnell and his motives will stem the tide of the CES letter's reach.
MariaAugust 7, 2024
All this article did was question the author himself. Where is the rebuttal to the letter? Have you read all 138 pages? Have you checked the references in it? Have you found the answers to the questions posed in the letter? Disparaging someone's character does not in fact prove the letter is false.
RaymondAugust 7, 2024
Several podcasts discuss topics raised by the "CES Letters" from a faithful perspective with Latter-day Saint scholars, including: https://www.cesletters.org/
Ronald BarnesAugust 7, 2024
In the 1975 film JESUS OF NAZARETH, Ernest Borgnine played the centurion at the foot of the cross. No one was on the cross, so he was told to look up at the chalk mark the director had placed on it. These are his words, as published in Guidepost, March 1989:
“Then it happened.
As I stared upward, instead of the chalk mark, I suddenly saw the face of Jesus Christ, lifelike and clear. It was not the features of Robert Powell I was used to seeing, but the most beautiful, gentle visage I have ever known. Pain-seared, sweat-stained, with blood blowing down from thorns pressed deep, His face was still filled with compassion. He looked down at me through tragic, sorrowful eyes with an expression of love beyond description.
Then His cry rose against the desert wind. Not the voice of Zeffirelli, reading from the Bible, but the voice of Jesus Himself: "Father, into Thy hands I commend My spirit."
In awe I watched Jesus' head slump to one side. I knew He was dead. A terrible grief welled within me, and completely oblivious to the camera, I started sobbing uncontrollably.
"Cut!" yelled Zeffirelli. Olivia Hussey and Anne Bancroft were crying too. I wiped my eyes and looked up again to where I had seen Jesus - He was gone.
Whether I saw a vision of Jesus that windswept day or whether it was only something in my mind, I do not know. It doesn't matter. For I do know that it was a profound spiritual experience and that I have not been quite the same person since. I like to think that I'm more forgiving than I used to be. As that centurion learned 2,000 years ago, I too have found that you simply cannot come close to Jesus without being changed.”
K WilliamsAugust 7, 2024
Sadly, a number of my acquaintances had read and believed the many half-truths and outright fabrications. I had attempted to explain that the letter existed to lead them astray, not to assist in finding answers to their questions. I was too late.
I am grateful for those who made the time to research answers to the questions, but more to research the lies behind the letter.
Thanks for sharing.
Douglas NadybalAugust 7, 2024
The odd thing about the entire CES matter to me is it leads clearly to one of two facts about the writer of the letter. (1) he is either an atheist who says it is impossible to believe in a god who does such mean things, or (2) he does believe in a god who does mean things. The mean things refer to the Bible, and is thus an attack on all of Christianity, we should not feel singularly oppressed. Its actually flattering in a way, in that his leverage to get at god by focusing on the LDS Church, as if we are anything but a small fraction of several billion Christians. In my view, the CES is just regurgitated atheism, which by definition says god does not exist, therefore could not have done any of those mean things, The fiction is the writer of the CES letter, this person does not exist, he is a fake.
Douglas NadybalAugust 7, 2024
This is not a recent phenomenon. I observed moderate depression in a college mate when he returned. His brother also had returned about two years earlier, and was still showing signs of severe depression. His own explanation was the he felt he was living so close to the Spirt while on his mission, so that his life now despite his efforts was not anywhere close to this. This was in the early 1980's. The only phenomenon noteworthy is that it just being more fully recognized, which is really an admitting that we have not been living inside of reality.
Jessie GriffithAugust 7, 2024
I have known Mark many years through the LDS Twelve Step program. He is an inspiration to many and a man of integrity. He's like a father figure to me. Gentle giant with a tender heart and a lot of life experience.
Michele SundstromAugust 7, 2024
Thank you, Maureen, for summarizing the findings of this report and making it accessible to so many. The findings of this report need to be spread abroad to inoculate those who may not yet have stumbled across this calculated effort to lead innocent truth seekers astray.
John A WarnickAugust 7, 2024
TY. Great summary of this epic effort to respond to the CES Letter. It's so sad that so many have lost their testimonies as a result of Runnell's "honest questioning". But I believe the Church is moving forward, as Joseph Smith prophesied, and that the CES Letter ultimately will make us a stronger, more compassionate community.
Tim ErnstAugust 7, 2024
Interesting. For those who have not been following the "Critical text" of the Book of Mormon previously, this short article is very informative and condenses a lot of information into a brief synopsis. Dr. Peterson is extremely careful in what he writes, and I am certain that he is only trying to articulate what Royal Skousen and Stanford Carmack have discovered while actually adding very little of his own perspective regarding this achievement.
That being said, it seems apparent from the other comments that readers are not fully understanding the import, let alone the impact that this research is going to provide. Nowhere does Dr. Skousen say that the Book of Mormon is not inspired. In fact, quite opposite, I believe that Dr. Skousen will be the first to admit that the book is divinely inspired. What he is noting is the presence of particular words and word forms which are indicative of a process which is not fully understood at the present time.
In this excellent article, Dr. Peterson is just advising us in shorthand fashion of the opportunities that this complex work will engender for us in the coming years and decades. Yes, as Joseph Smith testified, the Book of Mormon is inspired and has been translated by the gift and power of God. No, we do not understand everything or even exactly what that statement means or how the gift and power was manifest.
The "Critical Text" of the Book of Mormon will ultimately help us understand the translation process a little better, though. Of this, I am certain.
PamAugust 7, 2024
So why not add a category for men who have transitioned to women and keep sports fair for women? If the “world” is going to say there are more than 2 genders, then make that third gender category for sports. But isn’t it INTERESTING that no women who say they are men are trying to compete against biological men. I do not believe there are more than 2 genders but if the world sports authorities want to keep women’s sports safe and fair then they should step up and make the needed changes.
Stephen JanickyjAugust 7, 2024
While I agree with article and the importance of the issues involved, the article is not being honest when discussing the IBA. IBA is Russian led and has a history of corruption and especially poor judging by officials at previous Olympics. It was given several opportunities to reform but did not do so. Several national boxing organisations including US and U.K. supported the IOC removing the right to organise Olympic boxing and have established an organisation to rival the IBA.
Elder Russell CannonAugust 6, 2024
Thanks for the great article, as current Service Mission Leaders we have many missionaries that started as teaching missionaries and then transferred home as service missionaries. These transfer missionaries can go through the same stages of grief as they mourn the loss of having a constant companion and a rigid daily schedule. Your outlined steps can help as they pour their energy into being the Lord’s hands in addition to working with local teaching missionaries to continue their teaching.
Kent BrooksbyAugust 6, 2024
Well said, but I wonder why this is a somewhat recent phenomenon? I mean, in my generation we returned from missions, went back to school, found sweethearts, married, and started a family and career. I never heard of anyone feeling grief over a mission ending until recently! What has happened to make the youth of today feel so lost after a mission experience? What changed? That would be something worth researching. Thanks for a thought provoking article.
Lawrence James NielsenAugust 6, 2024
Thank you for article. I helped me understand what had happened to so many of the missionaries I had served with, and shows me how blessed I was to return home and have employment waiting for me, a former teacher and and Aaronic Priesthood teacher who enrolled me in school as a surprise ministering action, and former fiancé who took me under her wing and married me. Within three days of deplaning, I was employed, going to school at night, and preparing to get married (our temple marriage took place 5 months and 29 days after I returned home). I missed my mission, the people, and my companions and friends, but I stepped right into next stage of life with the help of those good friends and loving people to whom I returned.
Richard HolmesAugust 6, 2024
In my faith the Holy Ghost is a Ghost. Since he has exaltation, then he has to be in an eternal marriage according to D&C 131. And he has to have been given and kept faithfully his Second Estate as Abraham, Isaac and Jacob (D&C 132:37). Brigham, who prepared the endowment ceremony as directed by Joseph, taught that Michael, who became Adam, was a resurrected Being who had been faithful to his Savior on a previous earth. And he is the Father of spirits, Jesus being his firstborn Spirit. So Adam is the perfect one to be the Holy Ghost, temporarily leaving his immortal body to comfort his spirit children, teach them and be the Holy Spirit of Promise to seal their covenants.
David Bryan SmithAugust 6, 2024
So true! Well written. These are indeed the latter days. I testify that prayer is a mighty tool for all of us in our everyday day lives.
Cynthia CAugust 6, 2024
An important subject well-addressed. Thank you!
SfischAugust 6, 2024
Sad time in America
Ornella Maria BrennaAugust 6, 2024
When I discovered the Church I was already married, but in my heart there has always been the desire to carry out a mission. So, once I was retired and alone I decided to serve a mission in the Temple. It was a very intense period full of spirituality, and the return home was very hard. I understood why many brilliant young missionaries, when they return home, end up distancing themselves from the Church. It's true: it's mourning! Even though I was aware of this, I struggled to recover: I often felt empty and without purpose…until I decided to serve another service mission from home, for FamilySearch. Thank you for this article, which I will pass on to the family members of a young woman who has recently returned, because they may be of help to her. Ornella - Palo di Milano Ovest- Italia
RobinAugust 6, 2024
Glad to see that you have included S-Anon literature in your resources. don't see a link to S-Anon.org, or to any "S" programs, but only the SAL program. That looks great, but it may be useful to provide information to those other foundational programs as well, which have been in existence for many decades.
Dave HansenAugust 6, 2024
Thank you for that article regarding the Widow's Mite. The one thing I wish they would have added is a photo of the anchor side.
I have my own mite, but not access to the equipment to show it as nicely as the photos show in the article. For those interested in seeing the reverse side, simply do an internet search for images of a widow's mite. Be aware that there are variations of the details, as well as some that are struck off center or not as round as one would expect.
Furthermore, mites are very old, but not necessarily rare.....millions must have been coined. However, they were obviously easy to lose, due to their small size......which is approximately an either of an inch in diameter smaller than a dime. (Mine is 13 mm, or slightly more than a half inch.)
S LindsayAugust 5, 2024
I apologize that my other comment omitted the source of the additional quotes: They are both from the manual of the Teachings of Brigham Young (chapter 38... It's in your gospel library app).
S LindsayAugust 5, 2024
I would add these favorite related quotes from Brigham Young about the Spirit World:
"I can say with regard to parting with our friends, and going ourselves, that I have been near enough to understand eternity so that I have had to exercise a great deal more faith to desire to live than I ever exercised in my whole life to live. The brightness and glory of the next apartment is inexpressible. It is not encumbered so that when we advance in years we have to be stubbing along and be careful lest we fall down. We see our youth, even, frequently stubbing their toes and falling down. But yonder, how different! They move with ease and like lightning. If we want to visit Jerusalem, or this, that, or the other place—and I presume we will be permitted if we desire—there we are, looking at its streets. If we want to behold Jerusalem as it was in the days of the Savior; or if we want to see the Garden of Eden as it was when created, there we are, and we see it as it existed spiritually, for it was created first spiritually and then temporally, and spiritually it still remains. And when there we may behold the earth as at the dawn of creation, or we may visit any city we please that exists upon its surface. If we wish to understand how they are living here on these western islands, or in China, we are there; in fact, we are like the light of the morning. … God has revealed some little things, with regard to his movements and power, and the operation and motion of the lightning furnish a fine illustration of the ability of the Almighty (DBY, 380)."
"We have more friends behind the veil than on this side, and they will hail us more joyfully than you were ever welcomed by your parents and friends in this world; and you will rejoice more when you meet them than you ever rejoiced to see a friend in this life; and then we shall go on from step to step, from rejoicing to rejoicing, and from one intelligence and power to another, our happiness becoming more and more exquisite and sensible as we proceed in the words and powers of life (DBY, 379–80)."
BeckiAugust 5, 2024
Your statement “ Trump has already promised revenge if elected” is incorrect. He said his revenge will be his success. Meaning in turning our country around from the disaster of the Biden administration. Were you better off 4 years ago? I know I was. That’s what he will do again. Also, J6 was planned as another way to destroy him. You should do some more research on that. There were plenty of people there who were paid to cause the destruction. Even inviting people in. It’s all on video. I hope one day the truth will be revealed. Other than that for me, it’s a good article.
ElisabethAugust 5, 2024
From later in the article: “It is awesome that 31,000 people wished President Nelson a happy 100th birthday,” said Elder Kevin W. Pearson, the Utah Area President. “What would be even more awesome is if now we would all consider giving him the birthday present that he’s asked for. What he wants is for each one of us to reach out to someone in love and compassion and help and support — reach out to the one.””
It was a nice gesture, but the organizers seem to have missed the point.
BeckyAugust 5, 2024
This article is very honest and insightful. Thank you for these words of wisdom!
Sasha William KwapinskiAugust 3, 2024
I was around during the 1960's to see the beginnings of the decline of liberal churches, and I was part of that "out-migration." As the article points out, the Episcopal, Methodist (UMC) and other mainline liberal denominations have been declining in real numbers, ranging into the millions of members, from that time up to the current day.
Wendi WilckenAugust 3, 2024
Fun idea! I love how creative the YSAs are! We signed and wish Present Nelson a wonderful 100th birthday!
Corey D.August 2, 2024
In The Story of Civilization, which has been considered one of the preeminent analysis's of the world's civilization's, Will and Ariel Durrant, who were agnostics, make a point that when it came down to it, there really were not too many factors or causes of societal downfall or a civilization's failing but one of those causes/reasons that was a factor, was when a society/civilization tried to redefine family, we are certainly there.
Kent BrooksbyAugust 2, 2024
"The Book of Mormon is a creative and cultural translation of what was on the plates, not a literal one. Based on the linguistic evidence, the translation must have involved serious intervention from the English-language translator, who was not Joseph Smith." Royal Skousen, "The History of the Text of the Book of Mormon, Part Five
This alone is enough for me not to care one bit about any of Royal Skousen's thoughts on the Book of Mormon and its origin. Call me old fashioned, but I still believe that Joseph Smith was and is a prophet of God.
Rick LiederAugust 2, 2024
Thanks very much, Holly!
We’re hoping to spread the word on all our important pollinators.
Rob McGhieAugust 2, 2024
Excellent and well researched article. I wish everyone could read this.
Maurine Jensen ProctorAugust 1, 2024
This isn't what the Lord says in Doctrine and Covenants 98. It is not what is reflected in the Book of Mormon, where a just war was only a defensive war.
Ned ScarisbrickAugust 1, 2024
The basic foolproof way to stop invasion wars is to go up against your enemy with massive overwhelming firepower. At least double what you think it would take to win. You only have to do this twice. The first time the world will think it is just an aberration and your country will get back to normal. The second time you do it the world will never go up against you again because even barbarians understand obliteration....harsh but tirue
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
Sometimes it is difficult to have patience when our prayers seem unanswered. Perhaps that difficulty is part of the test. If answers come to easily we might not be learning the lesson of seeking and waiting.In some cases, perhaps the Lord is letting us wait for an answer because he knows we can find it ourselves with scripture study, discernment from the Spirit and the application of gospel principles.
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
Definitely happy 100th birthday to President Nelson. Yet, trying to get enough signatures to make the Guiness Book of World Records reflects the problem of seeking accolades of a secular world and almost seems to reflect a type of hero worship culture within the Church that is not reflective of the doctrine to which we adhere. I have a hard time reconciling these types of actions with the concept of having and being humble servants of God.
Ethan PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
The actress at the center of the table put on her social media that she was portraying "Olympic Jesus". They knew and planned it that way. The rest of the program was about a feast, aka, orgy, so it was reprehensible on all levels.
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
The playbill said it was about the Last Supper. Yes, Dionysis was included because it was also about a Bacchanalia, which was basically an orgy. So they superimposed the Last Supper within the orgy. I have heard many dismissing that it was the Last Supper because the Olympics tried to deny it at first, then half-heartedly admitted it, even though it was on the playbill that it was the Last Supper and the actress admitted on social media that they knew they were doing the Last Supper. Those who think they didn't know what they were doing are letting them gaslight them.Some, even Christians, excused it by saying it was about Dionysis and a Bacchanalia. How the rationale works that presenting an orgy as a good defense against a presumed "fake" mockery of the Savior and the Last Supper is incomprehensible, Christian or not.
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
If only more academics had the insight of Victor Davis Hanson. What a mind.
Richard HillsAugust 1, 2024
I like to believe that Joseph Smith was inspired to put these peculiar grammatical and colloquial words in and that Joseph himself and others were later inspired to take them out.
Corey D.July 31, 2024
I have contemplated, meditated upon, studied, prayed about this subject for many years and still don't feel like I have an answer, I also struggle sometimes with the answer we hear in church that "sometimes answers to prayers will come later or maybe the answer came in an unexpected or different way or maybe the Lord chose not to answer, etc.", I struggle with it because of the Lord's statement once in which he said " if ye have the faith of a mustard seed then all things are possible or he could move this mountain", I think a lot of prayers go unanswered because we really haven't exercised as great of faith as we think we are.
Corey D.July 31, 2024
I saw a bumper sticker on a car in our neighborhood some years back that pretty much epitomizes society's views about love, it said "All Love is Good". Made me think of the verse in the Book of Mormon that say's " and they loved to do evil more than good".
Patricia WintersJuly 31, 2024
I love Daris Howard's stories, and almost always share them on Facebook for non-member friends. However, the 'to be continued' stories are extremely frustrating. I cannot, in good conscience, share something and then make my friends wait a week (or sometimes two) in order to find out what happened!
erikpeterhansenJuly 31, 2024
And now we most likely need to consider the scenario of two political parties disagreeing with each other's tenets so heartily, viscerally that there begins a civil war. Will some Latter-day Saints agree to fight physically with their very neighbors over what missionary work, debate and diplomacy could resolve? Or will they do what other groups of God's people have also done in the past and gather together for safety away from battle? The Latter-Day Saints didn't involve themselves in the past U.S. civil war, but... what will the Lord/prophet say and who of the Saints will follow Him this time?
Corey D.July 30, 2024
Thanks again for another wonderful story. I turned 67 in March, last year I had been thinking about one of my best friends from my teenage yrs, he's about 18 months younger than me, hadn't seen him for a few years, last time had been at his mom's viewing. I knew he had moved to Montana, I had an impression that maybe he wasn't going to church. I thought to myself I'm retired, it's no problem to run up there, can do some fishing while I'm there. You know how it goes, one day last November I get a text from a friend saying " what do you know about David S.", I texted back "why", he replies " because his obituary is in the paper". The spirit knows all things, I look back like so many other times and realize those thoughts about going to see my friend weren't just random thoughts.
Corey D.July 30, 2024
There are several ways to look at what's going on in society and politics, from a scriptural/religious view and especially for members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints we know there will be great contention and social upheaval and it will get worse. Historically politics has always been messy/contentious clear back to Jefferson's day, one of the great founding fathers. What is different from the past and responsible for much of the contention is not differences of political views and policy's but differences of moral, social, family values and a true and correct understanding of what the Constitution was meant to protect. What use to be the basic beliefs of most Americans regardless of party affiliation no longer are. Quite frankly much of the fervor and contention happening is due to the abrasive personality of one of the candidates and the extreme liberal views of the other.
Patrick NewmanJuly 30, 2024
This is amazing news! My wife and I lived in Azerbaijan for over two years and learned to love everything about this country - the people, language, culture, and cuisine. İsa Məsihin şagirdləriyik.
Rochelle HaleJuly 30, 2024
I have heard pros and cons regarding what/who the tableau was supposed to represent. Regardless of religion or culture, I thought it was in very poor taste. The Olympic athletes and spectators cross-represent people of all ages, languages, ethnicities, cultures, and personal beliefs. This is not the time or place for a personal statement or mockery of any group or ideology. It demeaned the art and professionalism of (most) Olympic opening ceremonies.
Ed RehderJuly 30, 2024
Good Stuff! Everything I needed in the moment and was put in front of me by Heavenly Father just in time. Thank you to Him for inspiring you to write this and for Meridian for making it available. This happens often. Thanks again to all of you.
Jamie QuistJuly 30, 2024
Thank you so much for this article! I've been trying to have faith about my unanswered prayer for how to take care of my father before he passed. I had received immediate inspiration for my mother's care (she's still living), but nothing to tell me soon enough to spare my father extra pain because of my ignorance.
Your definition of faith is a healing balm to my heart.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
CarolJuly 30, 2024
I don't know what their intent was-the organizers have stated it was Greek related and not connected to The Last Supper. Since I can only take their word for it, I choose to not be offended. I will let He who sees our hearts determine if they were mocking. Jesus asked us to forgive seventy times seven times and He will forgive who He will forgive. It is far easier to change people's perspective of God and religion if we love and pray (quietly) for them and not force God down their throats or get offended all the time. I love the quote by Brigham Young that a previous poster shared. Let's assume the best of others!!!!
JessicaJuly 29, 2024
Absolutely agree! While some so-called children's and teen books blatantly weave in inappropriate content, others do so much more subtly. Subtle themes are often woven in and normalized in younger children's books like "Princess Puffybottom and Daryl," "Have You Seen Gordon," and "Abby in Neverland," all targeting the earliest and youngest of readers. It takes a keen eye to catch these undercurrents. It's important to stay vigilant and aware of what messages are being subtly introduced to our kids.
If you find something not quite right, nefarious, or blatantly nasty in a book share it anonymously at screenitfirst.com
CynthiaJuly 29, 2024
Excellent article - timely and informative. I appreciated how you brought up how we have all this emphasis on "world peace" at a time when on an individual level people cannot agree to disagree but have instead become hateful and spiteful and mean. I also appreciate the distinction between "progressive love" and "affirmation love." Yes, may we love people to better lives. No, may we not affirm those things that destroy who we are and what we have the potential to become.
Stephen JanickyjJuly 29, 2024
He who takes offense when offense was not intended is a fool, yet he who takes offense when offense is intended is an even greater fool for he has succumbed to the will of his adversary.”
Brigham Young
HelenCJuly 29, 2024
My ex-LDS, RM husband was appalled! He said, “I’m not a Christian but that was extremely disrespectful!”
To the comment about Dionysius, we’re not talking about the blue Bacchanalian figure, we’re talking about the whole feast table setting.
HelenCJuly 29, 2024
I think I keep weeding my mustard seeds! My big struggle is letting God do His Part while I patiently do mine.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 29, 2024
The love of truth is the core of our love for others. Thanks for the thoughtful article.
Frank MerrillJuly 29, 2024
We watched the tall ship crawling into the Marseilles harbor and the start of the stadium program but gave up at the parade of living statues because i could have gotten much more entertainment pleasure from changing the batteries in my smoke alarms.
Jocelyn MJuly 29, 2024
It is Dionysis, not Christ. A big flap over a misunderstanding.
AnnaJuly 29, 2024
Great article! Thank you...
Abbie VianesJuly 28, 2024
I totally agree with Maryann Eric and Glen. The death mask is the most accurate representation we have of Joseph. Regardless of supposed distortion from a 3 d death mask to a 2 d photo I can't believe the man in the photo is Joseph. Joseph's cheekbones are high and rounded, his nose is also high and rounded and his lips were full.
Ann MeadeJuly 28, 2024
I so hope to get to see this movie. It looks so good.
Bruce FriedmanJuly 26, 2024
In my community, I have challenged nearly 1000 school library books and about 500 were already removed because they violate law (porn). A considerable database of over 6000 titles with concerning (not necessarily illegal) content has been compiled. Links to ALL my challenge paperwork is accessible. I hope this serves you well. Please visit this link and see the download button at the bottom: (not for children!) https://www.wethepeople2.us/inappropriate-books-in-school/
Roger DavidsonJuly 26, 2024
I personally like your comparison of 1968 and 2024. I am fearful for our country and not certain what I can do on a personal level other than vote.
Douglas MillettJuly 25, 2024
What a special gift of the replica of the monument. May you and your family be blessed for the many things you share in this Meridian Magazine.
ShaunaJuly 25, 2024
Thanks for the heads up, As President Nelson says. " Satan knows who you are and who you were premortally, and he understands the work that must be done before the Savior returns. And after millennia of practicing his cunning arts, the adversary is experienced and incorrigible., " (We can do better and be better" April, 2019 Conference
It is a fulltime job to be on the lookout for his tactics as parents and grandparents
Marsha NewmanJuly 24, 2024
Excellent article! And grateful thanks to those who grasp the bar of modern day handcart and produce with their “blood, sweat and tears” a film to inspire and inform. Thank you.
Myrna T AndersonJuly 24, 2024
Question - What is "Six Days in August" about? I see one regarding riots in England that is supposed to be a documentary and another about hostages being held in an embassy. What should I be seeing to be the topic of this movie you refer to?
Leilani CookJuly 24, 2024
Very sweet story and perfect reminder for us to remember what is important every day. I mean, eternally important. Thank you.
LAJuly 24, 2024
The similarities are striking! Thank you, that was insightful.
Darflene HutchisonJuly 23, 2024
Thanks so much for this information. I have an ancestor buried there and when I tried to research the exact location I was told the Church owned the lot and members who could not afford a separate burial was buried there, and they couldn't tell me the exact location.. I would love to put up a monument, I guess I will go back to the sexton's office for more information. The plot picture was too small to make out a parfticular name.
Sandra BrockJuly 23, 2024
Biden didn't resign. He's still president. He withdrew as candidate for the office of president in the 2024 election. HUGE difference.
KJBJuly 23, 2024
First off, Biden is not resigning and says he’ll finish out his term (and he’s the Democratic president, not “Democrat”). Second, the Democratic Party is rapidly coalescing around Kamala Harris and she already has more than enough delegates to secure the nomination. Save a few protesters who who might show up outside the venue, this year’s convention isn’t going to be a repeat of 1968. Sorry if that bums you out.
SonyaJuly 23, 2024
Wonderful article! Every person matters. Thank you for sharing this information.
LewisJuly 23, 2024
What a fabulous story of unselfish love, doing what the Savior would do. Thank you for your gift of sharing these wonderful stories.
Linda WestoverJuly 23, 2024
What an interesting article! Identifying all those in the unmarked mass grave is a worthy project and undoubtedly a blessing to all involved.
Chip WhitmerJuly 23, 2024
It has been said that in the Catholic church, official doctrine says the Pope is infallible -- but nobody really believes it. In the LDS church, official doctrine says the Prophet is NOT infallible -- but nobody really believes it.
Marsha NewmanJuly 22, 2024
Corrie Ten Boom had a similar experience. While visiting such a leper colony and helping wash those wounds, a news reporter said, “I wouldn’t do that for a million dollars!” Sweet Corrie answered him with this: “Neither would I. But I do it for Jesus for nothing!”
Peggy L LauritzenJuly 22, 2024
This entire article made me smile. First, I am beyond thrilled about the church history videos. I can’t wait to see them. Second, you had me at family history. Most people feel a need to connect, and you are providing the perfect way.
Judy DoneJuly 22, 2024
We remember the blessing of meeting both of you and hosting you in our home during that trip. It was a special time for those of us living in Vermont.
GrandmaMASJuly 22, 2024
Thanks for sharing this unlikely turn of events! Hope the momento makes it to the Church History Department!
Debrah RoundyJuly 22, 2024
This was such a good story, I am glad you posted it.
It must have been such a life-changing adventure.
Thanks for sharing.
Ronnie Bennett Aubrey-BrayJuly 22, 2024
Very moving. I felt I was there beside you, praying, hoping and mingling my tears with the hopeful.
Thank you,
Ronnie
CarolineJuly 21, 2024
Thank you so much for writing so well what I have long felt.
Corey D.July 21, 2024
There seems to be a belief that things are more contentious today than in the past, particularly when it comes to politics, politics has forever been contentious even here in the US. I think the ease and quickness and ability of everyone to get online almost instantaneously the minute somebody says something or an event occurs has contributed to the seeming atmosphere of contention. People have forgotten, probably because he was so popular and a genuinely humble person that there were those who hated Ronald Reagan. In the Journal of Discourses Vol 18, pages 335-348, Elder Orson Pratt makes some interesting comments about the politics of the day and the slander and contention. In Vol 5, pages 60-62 of the Journal of Discourses, Elder George A. Smith gives a talk and comments about the situation in the nations capitol, it is as timely and applicable for today as it was 175 yrs ago, great analysis of politics. Thomas Jefferson was hounded and slandered by many, one in particular a man by the name of James Callender who published and said all kinds of slanderous, false and vile things about Jefferson (ultimately Calender drowned himself) but as the great man he was and unlike today, Jefferson took the high road and never worried about his critics or responding in kind, great example for us all.
SallyJuly 21, 2024
My life completely changed when I gained a true testimony of the sacrifice and atonement of the Savior. I am no longer miserable. I repent of my many follies and I now know that I can have the opportunity to be with Him again. Oh what joy!!
Douglas NadybalJuly 21, 2024
The binding of speaking or inability to speak does not necessarily come from Satan. In the Book of Mormon a man was struck dumb by I assume the power of the Spirit of God. I have a similar experience while giving a priesthood blessing, a short period of time unable to say anything after laying hands upon the recipients head. I later learned that when a person not part of the blessing left the room, my abilit to speak returned immediately. We either do or do not have power over Satan, you can't have it both ways. The scriptures seem to hold out the hope that in certain conditions Satan has no power over us, especially when we resist Satan. I know that God and Jesus Christ do have superior power and strength. I know that as I am able to honor my covenants, the Spirt can dwell within me and that the Spirit of God also imparts to me sufficent power to overcome. We have a sure tool in the priesthood. Faith is another tool, but I fear my faith might melt in fear should I have been confronted as Joseph was. The priesthood never fails, save it be mishandled.
Bill BellJuly 20, 2024
I recently read Kurt Francom's book "Is God Disappointed in Me?" (He is not!) As I read this essay, I could not help thinking of Father in Heaven & Mother in Heaven & me & my wife & all of OUR children & all of our brothers and sisters. There is so much to think about and so much work to do!
DanJuly 20, 2024
When My first wife passed, and later I started dating my second wife, we followed the "For The Strength Of Youth" guidelines, judging them to be just as valid for us in our 60's.
Wendy LanderJuly 19, 2024
Ha, ha!
Love it !
SandyJuly 19, 2024
Thank you. I needed your article today.
Glen S. HopkinsonJuly 19, 2024
The older man on the left is not Joseph in my opinion. His nose is shorter than the death mask and he doesn’t have the higher cheek bones of the death mask. The provinance of the photograph is too sketchy. There are two visual witnesses (so far) of Joseph done during or shortly after the lifetime of Joseph; The death mask and the drawings of Sutcliff Maudsley. Maudsley’s drawings lack the three dimensions of a good portrait but his profiles drawings very accurately portray the profile of the death mask.
There is a lot of effort to make the death mask match the photograph of the gentleman on the left.
MaryannJuly 19, 2024
I do not believe this is a photo of the Prophet, Joseph. When I first saw it, I was impressed with a feeling of coldness, almost a harshness. My husband had the same impression. The church has also made a statement that we do NOT know if this is a photo of the prophet.
David HallJuly 19, 2024
With this discovery and the careful work using all of the source information we will finally have new images for Joseph. This will be the only dispensation where we have actual photographic quality images of the founding prophet.
Corey D.July 18, 2024
Great article ! We could all do more, there are so many ways to serve and so many needs.
Scot ProctorJuly 18, 2024
Dear Tiffany, you are absolutely right. I did not begin to touch on the power of the faith of women (or anyone) who also can cast out Satan in the name of Jesus Christ. It is a big enough topic to make me want to do more writing on that. Thank you for your insight and correction. --Scot.
Corey D.July 18, 2024
You have touched upon a subject that way too many of us have dealt with or are dealing with. In my situation and I'm sure many others, pretty much it boils down to the loss of the spirit in those who have stopped communicating or are angry with us.
Myron MachulaJuly 18, 2024
The first photo in the article has captions on the death masks indicating both are of Joseph; however, the left must be that of Joseph and the right that of Hyrum. Perhaps there needs to be a correction . . .
erikpeterhansenJuly 18, 2024
I'm sorry, good effort, but Brother Joseph's death mask has always shown, to me, a much more beautiful looking man than this other man. Look at the big eyes like his mother's and the little overbite and a full rounded nose. I think someone's going overboard trying to prove something.
HelenCJuly 18, 2024
Thank you for doing this work on it beloved brothers Joseph and Hyrum.
George LucasJuly 17, 2024
Is there some deeper meaning that the woman has on a wedding ring but not the man? Usually after a divorce, no one wears a ring.
Joan HalesJuly 17, 2024
I was impressed about this last article on the impact family history can have if missionaries use it when talking to people. Is there a way we can send only that article to someone by email without sending the whole magazine?
Sara GrovesJuly 17, 2024
Scott, this article is so timely! It opens our eyes and understanding that though the evil one is powerful, God's power is greater! That though the darkness that can surround us and fill our minds with fear of destruction, the Light of truth and Christ is a winning power that can fill out hearts with the strength to push that darkness away for good! Thank you for sharing such insights and wisdom. Looking forward to part two!
Diane ThayerJuly 17, 2024
I’ve been teaching with the BYU China Teacher program this last year. I taught lessons about family history, without any mention of church, but could share the Family Seach site. I was pleased when some students tried it and used it for their English Family History Presentations!
TiffanyJuly 17, 2024
I love the article, but one thing I disagree with is your statement about only male Melchizedek priesthood holders could cast out the devil. This is not found in the scriptures to be true and is not backed up by the handbook of the church or D&C 35.:8-9. Essentially, anyone who has faith and calls upon Jesus Christ name can cast out the devil.
FredJuly 17, 2024
I haven't been able to get the Pedigree Pie website to load in years.
KathleenJuly 16, 2024
Good points substantiated by solid examples. Thank you
DougJuly 16, 2024
In careful reading of the scripture, there is never a suggestion that we are yoked WITH Christ. It only says that it is His yoke. It makes much more sense to read this as it is written. That we are to put upon us His yoke and let him be our teacher.
Putting on the His yoke suggest that we submit to do His work. He is the farmer. the Master. The caretaker of the work. We yoke ourselves with other saints who have also agreed to take upon ourselves the yoke of Christ. We are yoked with our spouse, with our children, with those that we serve with. Yoked with those that we are making an effort to become one with so that we can be the people God and His saints. The body of Christ.
This makes Jesus Christ the master who drives the ox. Sets the work and the pace. giving us work we can handle. Not giving us labor that is pointless and useless. pushing us to grow. and making the work easy and light because he knows how to properly yokes his oxen together which includes yoking animals of equal strength and stature and teaching us how to pull together.
He wants us to learn how to become a good ox because symbolically that is what He is. In the Hebrew alphabet the first letter represents God and is a pictograph of an ox. taking upon ourselves the yoke of Christ means that we covenant to do His will. to obey Him and do His work. In return he teaches us to be a good ox. or in other words, teaches us to become more like God.
I know this is an old article and I have heard plenty of conference talks that references being yoked with Christ as if we are in the same yoke as him, but the reality is that oxen are never unequally yoked because it makes pulling the weight nearly impossible.
There seems to be plenty of insight in the way the analogy is actually written without stretching it into something else.
I really hope this just prompts people to look at the analogy a little closer.
DaveJuly 16, 2024
I've often thought that some eternal law must require equal access for influence in our lives from both heaven and hell. Adam & Eve, Moses, Jesus, and Joseph Smith all received heavenly communications with God which were followed or accompanied by temptations or visitations with Satan. God showers us with love and encouragement; while Satan surrounds us with fear, doubts, and shame.
On a vacation cruise this year, I noticed how the cruise ship is secured in port. Each end of the ship has multiple mooring ropes that extend from the ship to the bollards or rings on the dock. These ropes are pulled tight to ensure that the ship is not moved by the waves of the sea.
Similarly, our covenants that we make in church and in the temple bind us closely to God. As we keep those covenants, God provides us additional help in overcoming the world, including discerning and dealing with evil influences in our lives.
HelenCJuly 16, 2024
LOL; I tried to get Hubster to read out the number for me & he said he doesn't go over 1 trillion! ;-)
GSJuly 16, 2024
This is so true and timely. Thank you so much Scot!!
Exactly what I needed, as I have been in the biggest battle with the adversary in my life.
Kay BaylyJuly 16, 2024
My son and I have had amazing success finding missing fathers using ancestors.com dna. We have solved this problem for at least 20 people including my grandfather who died in 1970 not knowing either of his parents
TJJuly 15, 2024
We have been working on placing such a program in our stake. Missionary work and Family History go hand in hand; they are one work!
Thank you!
Susan Zimmerman D'AndreaJuly 15, 2024
One month after I joined our Church in 1974, I received my Patriarchal Blessing. It told me there was great rejoicing in heaven, that I had come to know this Church is true. It said I have the great privilege and responsibility of seeing that temple work is done for my ancestors. I began to do that immediately, and now, fifty years later, and living ten minutes from a Temple, I go every week, and never run out of names.
I am thrilled that the Proctors are using Family History in their mission.
I have connected with distant cousins (my husband's and mine) and shared information about our families. I seldom make the connection between Family History and our Church with these cousins. Hearing the Proctors' stories has motivated me to try harder to share the joy of the restored Gospel and Forever Families with these cousins. Praying they will find this joy too.
Thank you, Scot and Maureen, for serving a mission, for tying Family History and missionary work together, and for sharing your insights with us.
Sincerely, Sister Susan Zimmerman D'Andrea
Sherry McMullinJuly 15, 2024
How and when can we access the new docs about Joseph Smith?
Please let all your readers know.
Have loved your podcasts since the beginning of the pandemic.
Can you send me a list of the scriptures you think everyone should memorize? Thank you.
Karen HaeringJuly 15, 2024
Maurine and Scott, I think this is just an amazing incredible opportunity for us all to come and know and love the prophet Joseph more. I cannot wait to see what you are putting together. The only thing I would love more is if I had been able to travel with you there to these places as you share him and the events that occurred. I am in Nauvoo for the summer doing the same thing sharing the prophet Joseph as much as I can telling his stories and sharing his dreams and visions and gift to the world. Looks like we’re doing similar things because we feel the prompting of the Lord to do so . Thank you for all your doing. I miss you guys so much.
Wally GoddardJuly 15, 2024
You two keep blessing the world! May God prosper you!
Jill BergmanJuly 15, 2024
I love reading about your missionary experiences. I think family history touches people on a level they haven't experienced before. And I can't wait to see your Joseph Smith series. You are doing great work!
Judy PetersonJuly 14, 2024
I have two sons, whose wives have decided their families should have nothing to do with me, and have very cruel he cut me off. It is true there are parents who have been abusive or toxic or manipulative, but I have not, and in truth, I’ve had much therapy that has verified that whatever issues I have, they are not any that would affect these families in any relationship with me. I have three daughters in law, who think I am an amazing mother-in-law. This article is so true. My heart is broken for all the time with my grandchildren that I am missing, and even more than that, what day are learning or perhaps I should say, but they are not learning about communication and relationships and loyalty. I know that my savior can heal my family. and I trust that he ultimately will. I doubt that it will be in this life, however. I send birthday cards to my grandchildren. Whether their parents let them have them or not, I don’t know. All I can do is pray for them. and let them go and spend my life thinking about the many people in my life who love me and think I’m a fabulous person. And that includes my Savior and my heavenly father. I am responsible for my faults and weaknesses, and my repentance is my business, but none of it has had anything to do with my treatment of these children and grandchildren that I love so much. It is so sad.
Kathy SandersJuly 14, 2024
I too thank you for this answer of hope and counsel. All five of my children and their spouses have left the church and I too have had to find new ways of staying connected with my children. How I long to share treasured traditions of faith with them. Instead I find myself searching for ways to connect on their terms. And striving to be joyful despite the sadness I am always feeling. I loved your reminding us that the Savior was a “man acquainted with grief”. It helps me have courage to build my own foundation and live life with Joy and leave the rest of it all up to God. My kids will see my joy and that is the best gift I can give to them. Thank you for your wise words.
Corey D.July 14, 2024
I understand why and where Brother Eyre is coming from and the intent and hope of his message but don't think much is going to change, at least in society in general, yesterday's events being a perfect example of the division in society, also very predictable events. Like most everything else in the gospel it all boils down to what does an individual decide he or she will do in his life and how will they treat or talk to others. I must say though not sure I agree with his answer/reasoning behind why we don't hear or read much about our Mother in heaven, I think equality in heaven or in God's plan is different than how we view/define it and I think our Heavenly parent's relationship is different than we imagine, not to say it's not a loving relationship, God is love but I think things are a little more different than we think.
Corey D.July 14, 2024
That is so funny and not so funny and I'm sure a lot of us can relate. I could tell so many stories similar to that. A co-worker shared how one time he figured out how to handle driving on vacation, he went and bought a pair of headphones, this was years ago and they were the big ones, 20 minutes into the trip his wife taps him on the shoulder and motions to him she needs to say something to him, he removes the headphones and she says "if I have to listen to this, so do you" and that was that. Another co-worker told me once and he had 5 boys, that he and his wife decided maybe if they gave the boys Dramamine before they left that the boys would sleep during the drive, each boy was given a Dramamine to take, hour into the trip four of the boys are still going strong, youngest is asleep, 2 hrs later same thing, 3 hrs same, etc., finally they got suspicious and upon questioning the boys found out that they had talked the youngest brother into taking all the Dramamine !
MaryannJuly 14, 2024
Cute story. However, I can't help but wonder if the kids would learn to work out their own problems if mom and dad weren't so quick to intervene.
HelenCJuly 13, 2024
I saw so much of my own pain in this article. Joy and rejoicing is amazing but the closest I have felt to Father and the Savior was in those moments of deepest lamentation.
Richard GardnerJuly 13, 2024
BTW the book--Who is the Holy Ghost--of which these articles contain just a few excerpts, is available at Ebornbooks.com.
Louene PerryJuly 12, 2024
I've been following this amazing artist, patriot and doctor for many years and I'm thrilled to see his dreams for this beautiful park coming to fruition in Utah! God bless Dr. Steven Neal.
Robert David StarlingJuly 12, 2024
Dang it Richard! You've given me more work to do! This article is SO insightful and SO brilliant that now I feel I haven't paid close enough attention to yours and Linda's other writings, so now I have a lot of re-reading and study to do! But seriously, this is awesome. Thanks for opening up new levels of understanding divine truths. & & & & &
Maybe I'll make up some T-shirts for me and my Eternal Companion: "She&Me", and "He&Me". Whaddaya think? & &
Tracy TippettsJuly 12, 2024
Absolutely true. I have a personal testimony of this from my own experience. I enjoyed reading about your own history and experiences that qualify you to speak on this difficult and delicate subject with authenticity and authority! I have a belief and conviction that my new wife was DELIVERED to me, rather than just discovered by me.
HelenCJuly 12, 2024
I’m taking these headings and posting them for my Grief clients!
Haze KompelienJuly 12, 2024
I found the article thought-provoking.
I agree with the comment from Key of Knowledge about the importance of ancient Hebrew and its meanings:
"I think sometimes we have a very narrowly defined version of what the Holy Spirit is ... Because the concept of the Holy Spirit is ancient and Jesus/Yeshua, not only understood the ancient understanding, but is in fact one with the Holy Spirit ...then we have to view The Holy Spirit from the ancient Hebrew perspective, which is God's perspective."
Withheld for privacyJuly 12, 2024
Thank you so very, very much for your sound, and understanding counsel. So many of us today are facing the heartbreak of children leaving the faith despite our best efforts as parents in raising them in the Gospel. Your advice has given me comfort and some peace, which has been so very difficult to come by.
HelenCJuly 11, 2024
Amen and Amen!
We really need to find a way to remove the “-ites” (3 Nephi) from among us.
LarsJuly 11, 2024
I agree. I hate horror movies. I used to watch some of them (mostly the old black and white ones) but at some point it occurred to me that you are watching someone get hurt for enjoyment???? It doesn't really make sense. It would not be enjoyable if it happened for real.
Chip WhitmerJuly 10, 2024
The label "pro-choice" is itself a lie. Anyone who gets angry when a women who was considering abortion changes her mind and chooses Life for her child, is not pro-choice at all; they are objectively pro-abortion.
Angel EllinghausenJuly 10, 2024
I got canceled by my 28 year old daughter for saying the name of her former husband. I didn't even mention anything about him, exactly. I referred to the period of time when she was married to him, during which time her anxiety was severe. She has since improved somewhat. I did not know that her "boundaries" extended to Pluto. I don't call or text. I send gift cards or have Amazon drop ship her things. I try to stay in her life, but it's not working. Her siblings have mercy on me and let me know how she is doing. I'm grateful for them.
SallyJuly 10, 2024
About 2 years ago my oldest son and his wife cut off a younger brother whose behavior they did not like. There was no warning, no let's talk about this, no discussion with me or him about what his offenses were. He did not commit a moral sin or harm any family member. He is out spoken. He jokes, he teases. He is the unmarried favorite uncle of most of the kids. He is a lot of fun! He's not perfect. He can get on your nerves but he does no harm. To us it seemed out of the blue that they had decided to cancel him for 2 years as a probationary time. They will not come to family events or to our home if he is present. My husband had passed away from cancer just 8 months prior. We were very vulnerable still dealing with grief. It was crushing to me. They apologized the "timing was bad" but none the less, did it it was not up for discussion.
He tried to apologize and find out what he did so he could repent and repair the relationship. They refused to discuss it with any of us but they did text me a "list of sins". None of them punishable by law or church court. They were simply dealing with hurt feelings. it was the only conclusion we could come to due to the no discussion rule. He couldn't understand why they had a list and why they didn't say something sooner about this list so he could be more careful or their feelings. They had gone to their bishop and with him decided the punishment of this 2 year banishment or cancellation. He was not allowed to contact any of them or their children. If he came to their house they would call the police.
My youngest daughter get engaged. She wants her older nieces to join the bridal party as brides maids and all the little girls, there is a bunch of them, to be flower girls! She is only 7 years older than her oldest niece and that niece was 18. She asked the 14 and 18 yr olds to be bridesmaids. And the little one to be a flower girl and wants her oldest brother to lead off the father daughter dance as she switches form brother to brother. She has four of them. They agree. When they realize the "other brother" is also coming to the wedding they back track everything. That brother said he will not talk to any of them or their children and will stay far away from they. He is is very close to this youngest sister and she wants him there. In the end only the oldest son will come and his oldest daughter if she wants, she can choose, she's 18. the rest of the family will not come.
That means all 3 of her nephews, and 2 nieces. My daughter is heart broken. She loves those kids. She doesn't have a list of sins, but they will make her pay. I try to negotiate a compromise. Just come to the temple for family pictures. They say no. Just come to the reception for family pictures. No. I use the words right out of the Book of Mormon and beg and plead with all the words of a tender parent but they will not relent. she has to chose the older brother and his family or the brother she grew up with and loves as well.
It's not right.
I intervene again and remind my DIL, because all of the communication is coming from her, that when they got married we sacrificed any of our desires and deferred everything to her parents who ignored her and my sons wishes for type of reception they wanted. They asked me if we could do a second reception with the music and dancing and fun they wanted. We agreed. As a result her mother would not speak to me again. We had served as mission companions years ago. Her dad remained friendly but we didn't interact due to the different towns we lived in.
Some 10 years later they move out of state and she sends me a text apologizing for her behavior and acknowledged that i had extended the olive branch and she refused it. All these years we might have been friends and our families might have been friends. She regretted that. I pleaded with my DIL not to make the same mistake, have some compassion and come to the wedding.
This sent my DIL is a frenzy and she pulled out my "list of sins" and cancelled me on the spot and told me NEVER to communicate with her in anyway again. I could talk to my son if he is agreeable and all interaction with the grandchildren will be chaperoned.
It's been 2 years and my son's "probation time" is coming up. He still doesn't know what he has to do to prove he is worthy. No one knows. All 5 of his other siblings and their families are touched by the consequences of this cancellation. And perhaps me the most since mine probation is forever. We await to hear from them.
I don't understand how they can justify all this, hold a temple recommend and serve as a Relief Society president. I served as one 3 times in my life with many other callings and it pained me to see this kind of control and unrighteous dominion in families and never once thought is would happen to me. We loved each other.
There is nothing we can do except pray for hearts to soften.
They have all the power and you get to live with all the pain.
I'm grateful for my other children who support me and grandchildren I get to see and hug. My DIL once told my other two daughters how she was glad none of this affected their friendship. My oldest told her point blank that she was mistaken. "You hurt one member of the family and you hurt us all. Nothing is the same."
Cancelled, what a word, describes exactly how I am.
Patricia WintersJuly 10, 2024
It would be nice if we were told what state the live screening will be in!
HelenCJuly 10, 2024
Ah; to disagree with grace and compassion! It’s time I watched this. Thank you.
RobynJuly 10, 2024
Bro. Goddard,
Insightful and uplifting, as ever.
Thank you
Patsy SwinsonJuly 10, 2024
It is NOT rare for parents to be toxic and abusive. There are many instances of offspring having to cut ties with parents who treat them badly. It's not the fault of the children, who may have spent many years struggling to have some kind of relationship with people who never even wanted them. I've seen this a number of times and I have lived it myself.
Laura S.July 9, 2024
In my setting apart blessing for my mission I was specifically blessed to know what doors not to enter. I was always mindful of that promise, both in living worthy of the guidance of the Spirit, as well as always trying to listen. There was only one time that I’d say I had the distinct impression not to tract a certain building. I don’t know what might have happened if we had, but no harm ever came to me and that promise was fulfilled.
It’s no secret that Satan is after the missionaries, but while I was out there, I felt the words of Elisha when he said, “They that be with us are more than they that be with them” (2 Kgs. 6:16).
Missionaries that are obedient in serving the Lord with all their might mind and strength will be blessed no matter what befalls them, and no matter the outcome.
KyleJuly 9, 2024
My wife and I just recently completed one year of being shunned or cancelled by our young adult son and his wife after making the grave error of sharing a couple of pics(on social media)of their newborn daughter just two days after having been born. The post was deleted 2 hours later but the damage was already done. It's painful and hurts your heart so much. They live 3 miles away but they might as well live on the other side of the planet. We don't seem to bump into them ever. We invite them, via text, to every get together we host. Super bowl party, Thanksgiving, Easter, Memorial day bbq, etc but they don't reply. They don't invite us or any of my son's siblings to any of their events. None of the children's birthday parties. Oh yeah, my son has 2 children. One who is 4 yrs old and one who is a year old now. When they had an LDS baby blessing none of my son's family was invited. We learned of it after the fact in the evening when a few relatives saw some pics on social media and noticed a lot of family members were curiously absent. My wife cried hard that night. She had asked them 2 months earlier to please invite us to a baby blessing. We are ok with sitting far away. That's fine, but please let us know of the date and place. They didn't say a peep until it was already done. Not a single person from my son's family got the invite. Not even the siblings he still likes or his grandparents that I think are still very much beloved. I have no idea how long this will go on? I did not think it would be one year and counting. I thought and kept thinking through 2023 that I would think of something that would be effective in establishing some communication and good will between us. I sent him texts every month or 2 to let him know I missed him and missed having him and his family in our home. I sent him a card through snail mail just letting him know we missed them. And I do miss the young man he was just 2 years ago. So helpful and cheerful and lovely. Now it feels like I lost him to a cult. Never replies to texts, never calls, never invites us to anything, never shares photos or video of his kids with us (even after we asked him to). This should be viewed and discussed as a form of adult bullying or something akin to it. I think this could be the most hurtful thing you can do to parents without breaking any laws? I wish I had a happy ending to share but as of yet there isn't one.
BoBJuly 9, 2024
I enjoyed the article. Thank you. Some of my understanding (you can all pick up your rocks now), the more I understand the Holy Spirit and the more a I seek the Holy Spirit and interact with it, the more I believe that He is not a he, and I will leave that at that. May God bless us all.
Mark MathesonJuly 9, 2024
So God the Father loves Jesus and Satan equally?
JuliannJuly 9, 2024
Horrible. I’ve liked High Grant and it disappoints me that he would accept such a script. It could be any set of missionaries as the Church is not the only religion that sends out “missionaries”. They are always at risk, but discernment caution and prayer for protection have aided many. I’ve never understood why people go to horror movies or watch graphically violent movies. They affect the body and psyche so negatively.
Abbie VianesJuly 9, 2024
The Holy Spirit is especially strong in missionary work. Our prayers should be that missionaries recognize and heed the Spirits promptings to keep them from dangers. But this IS a sick idea for a film.
STEVEN S.July 9, 2024
In studying the teachings of the Temple, one must carefully consider the identities and roles within the Godhead. The question arises: is the position within the Godhead subject to change? If Michael, also known as Adam, comes to the earth, who then assumes Michael's former role?
To explore this further, we might frame it as an equation: if A + B = C, then who might best fulfill the role of the Holy Ghost if not those who have been key figures in the restoration of truth? This line of inquiry invites us to ponder the eternal and divine nature of the roles within the Godhead and the profound interconnectedness of those chosen to fulfill these sacred duties.
Michael HogganJuly 8, 2024
I do not believe Joseph received all that information in the First Vision. That theophany was only one of many he had in his life. The other theophanies recorded apparently happened with prophets who were much older and more experienced than Joseph.
I firmly believe that Joseph was taught piece by piece, according to what he could understand and what was most important for him to know at a given time. The First Vision occurred in spring 1820 and Joseph died in the summer of 1844. Joseph had a lot of time to learn additional things after the First Vision
GramJoyJuly 8, 2024
This really hit home! Not with my children, but with my daughter-in-law. She was offended by a remark that 2 of my children said about Covid 4 years ago. She didn't want to participate in any family activities, blaming Covid and fear of getting ill, and so when I sent an email to my children and their spouses, I closed with a paragraph directed to her, saying that if she didn't want to come I understood. She was offended that I singled her out, and then told my son that I wasn't to comment or 'like' any of her social media post. I commented on one post about one of my grands and she had my son text me to say that I crossed her boundary!!!! PURE manipulation.
M TribeJuly 8, 2024
Very insightful look into the causes. The "what can we do" at the end focuses on prevention. I was hoping for "what can we do" once it has happened and parents have been completely cut off from a young adult.
AnonymousJuly 8, 2024
This has just recently happened to me. It came out of the blue from a daughter who called almost every day. The heartbreaking thing is I now am not able to see or talk to my grandson. The grief is real and so deep. I called to ask her if I had done anything etc and she said they were just busy and she wanted to focus on her IMMEDIATE family and no one else. Prior to all this, we had a close, loving relationship. It's been devastating.
WendyJuly 8, 2024
After reading this article I wanted to ask if you always disagree with breaking from a parent, regardless of the history ?
My husband and I have done this with his mother after 30 years of marriage, and asking her countless times to treat us with respect and kindness, and she has continued with the same behaviour.
Don’t get me wrong, this comes with guilt and wondering if we have done the right thing, especially with how we feel about family relationships and the importance of them. But even with the conflicting feelings, we feel more peace now than when we did having her in our lives with her constant need of control, always wondering what would be next.
I am a mother and a grandmother now and it isn’t t difficult for me to be kind to my adult children and spouses and let them govern their time themselves. In fact we feel that because they are in control of their own lives, they actually want to be a part of our lives and we are grateful for that.
I am worn down from being a doormat for so long. and I feel like I have tried my hardest to make things better with her, but every time we have talked to her, she tells us she has absolutely no regrets and sees no reason to change her behaviour, even when we have taken the initiative and apologized for bad feelings between us and looking for ways we can do better. . Long story short, are there times when it is healthy to not have contact with parents?
JudithJuly 8, 2024
We have experienced this painful situation as a parents. I know of other good, loving parents that are coping with this in their families too. Your suggestions are sound. Showing love and being patient and consistent resolved our estrangement. Grateful that you named some of the underlying causes for this epidemic.
Duane BoyceJuly 8, 2024
Impressive! I love it.
ClaireJuly 8, 2024
My partner and I cared for a beautiful husband and wife that were danish. I think they maybe related to the article.
Betty Paula Alwine(nee Niebuhr)Hansen born 1909-2008 and Anton Sven Dagge Hansen born 1924-2006 deceased east Rockingham cemetery Western Australia.
We have some photos of them.
Thanks
John GreeneJuly 8, 2024
The youngest of my three children, now age 42, hasn't spoken to me or her mother since 2005. There was no argument or situation that led to this. She just stopped communicating with us. We don't know why. She had continued a close relationship with her two siblings (they all live in the LA area, we live in the East) until about two years ago when she cut them off also. She has aunts, uncles, and cousins who haven't seen or heard from her in twenty years. She has cut off the whole family. In my view, there is nothing I can do but be patient and wait. Every day I ask my Father in heaven to watch over her, to speak with her, and to bless her. I am confident that He sent her to this family for a reason. And when the time is right, He will bless her in some way that will change her heart.
Janet DoiJuly 7, 2024
Please give us back the transcripts of these podcasts again.
Vaughn J BarrusJuly 6, 2024
Brother Eyre, this has been such an inspiration to me as I have read it this morning. It summarizes all that I have known and hoped for. In today’s world so many of our children, nieces and nephews and even friends and acquaintances have fallen away. My cousin and my nephew have both been overcome by the trials of life and taken their own lives. And yet I see so many good people both in and out of the church striving to bring others unto Christ.
As of late I have been so discouraged by the lack of temple attendance in my temple district. They have even cut back the number of endowment sessions due to lack of patron participation. Your article has given me so much hope and renewed understanding.
I am so grateful for the sharing of knowledge and understanding shared by those who possess it.
Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge.
Mark ErnstJuly 6, 2024
Why is there no transcript?
MaryannJuly 6, 2024
Since this movie is rated "R," it is strange to see it promoted in this article.
ChrisJuly 5, 2024
Thank you for this perspective on a very difficult day with a child.
Elaine KempJuly 5, 2024
Love this article by Daniel Peterson and Lisa's comments. I concur with Daniel Preteen when he said he couldn't call this year's political discussion's debates. I have repeatedly said to my husband that I have felt I am living in days such as those days in Helaman and 3rd Nephi before Christ visited America after his death and the destructions in this land. God bless our righteous Prophets, Apostles, and all who follow their counsel. God bless us to be one in love and unity though we have differences of opinion. May I be a better disciple of Christ. Elaine
Helmut A. WorleJuly 5, 2024
"They'll get over it" is a comment about their children one often hears from parents who are planning a divorce. Little do they know or even acknowledge that divorce of the parents is generally really hard on the children. Staying together "for the kids' sake" may be one of the more heroic things parents can do in such a situation, but it is bound to earn benefits.
Key of KnowledgeJuly 5, 2024
The Holy Ghost, is the same as the Holy Spirit, depending on which Greek translation it was taken from, and that Holy Spirit/Ghost in the original Hebrew is the Ruach Hakodesh...or Holy Wind, spirit or breath, which absolutely can and does abide in more than one person at a time. This is most evident during Pentecost, after Jesus Resurrection, when everyone was filled with the Holy Spirit and it was evidenced by flaming tongues, speaking in tongues, the Holy Wind coming into the room and everyone feeling it, and the same manifestations of the Holy Spirit were seen and felt by many attending the Kirkland Temple dedication. When I'm in church and someone speaks who is full of the spirit I, and others in the congregation, when open to receive the Holy Spirit, feel the presence of the Holy Spirit/Ghost at the same time. In Doctrine and Covenants 50:22 it reads: "Wherefore, he that preacheth and he that receiveth,understand on another, and both are edified and rejoice together."
I think sometimes we have a very narrowly defined version of what the Holy Spirit is or whom it is, taken from modern scripture and potentially misquoted or misinterpreted scriptures and/or experiences.
Because the concept of the Holy Spirit is ancient and Jesus/Yeshua, not only understood the ancient understanding, but is in fact one with the Holy Spirit (as we all should strive to be, even as King David was) then we have to view The Holy Spirit from the ancient Hebrew perspective, which is God's perspective.
The basic ancient concept of the Holy Spirit, based on ancient pictograph meanings, is nicelyl laid out in this Rock Island YouTube video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2rUg_P2dUM
Modern rabbi's can also give great insight.
Lisa ReisingJuly 5, 2024
Thank you for these thoughts! I particularly like that you brought forward the counsel of Elder Soares from the last General Conference. Perhaps this is a reason for the proliferation of temples around the world, to teach us how to seek to live in higher ways and see each other as God sees us. And as far as your last comment about tumultuous times ushering in the coming of Jesus Christ... haven't we been told we need to be preparing a Zion people to receive Him the second time? I want to be in that camp, and that requires me to view my "political adversaries" as brothers and sisters.
Gail G GrovesJuly 4, 2024
Where is the text please? Love, Love these podcasts and depend on the text as I listen. Thank you very much for this incredible source in my study of the Book of Mormon and it also helps me as a Primary teacher!
Joel R MarksJuly 4, 2024
It is certainly axiomatic and miraculous that Mr. Jefferson was 83 and Mr. Adams was 91 when heaven opened its portals to make entrance on July 4 th 1826 to two ‘Colossus of Independence’. Certainly Mr Adams was the voice, Mr Jefferson the pen and General Washington the mighty sword. Quite Providentially in a year at Rosh Hashana, the Jewish new year, September 22, 1827, a new Epoch opened when a young farm boy ascended a hill called Cumorah to receive the new and everlasting covenant in the form of ancient plates and the world was started all ‘over again.’ May freedom and Independence always ring from the highest mountain in the highest beacon of liberty in history called America.
Don LaytonJuly 3, 2024
I've heard or read this story before but had forgotten the details. What a timely reminder of the precious freedoms we enjoy! Thank you.
MaryannJuly 3, 2024
I am assuming this article is to inform us of the craziness going on, and NOT to suggest that we should join in this lunacy! A he is a he, and a she is a she. PERIOD!
MaryannJuly 3, 2024
To Withheld comment: You have EVERYTHING to look forward to. Keep your Sacrament covenants. Go to the temple often and keep your temple covenants. You will one day receive EVERY blessing you desire. Rather than focusing on your losses, focus on faith and work to build your relationship with your Savior. All of your losses will be made up to you if you do these things. As you keep covenants to love others and to serve, you will also have greater joy right now.
JackieJuly 2, 2024
A woman once shared that she thought the Holy Ghost was an elder brother in the preexistence, like Jehovah, who was chosen to perform his role. And she wondered if the Holy Ghost will get his body at the very end of the Millennium, being the last child born before the earth as we know it comes to its end. That may not be how things are planned to happen, but just an interesting thought.
Bob SpielJuly 2, 2024
Thank you, Maurine, for this poignant reminder. God bless you and Scott on your mission.
LaWren BoothJuly 2, 2024
Thank you for writing this piece!
Mark MathesonJuly 2, 2024
I liked Richard Gardner's article. It caused me to think and as Dr. Gardner wrote "speculation isn’t all bad." I fully agree that Gospel writers interchange the use of the Holy Ghost or Holy Spirit or the Spirit of the Lord or God. As Richard noted, we don't know all about the Holy Ghost because the focus should be on Christ.
Chuck BennettJuly 2, 2024
Hi...I would like to introduce you to IT here. It is my wife, but I can't tell you if she (can I say she) is because I don't know how to explain her.
She is my eternal companion, and I love her with all my (can I say my?)heart. These are my children, but I can't call them that...so these people here, along with the (Can I say female?) are what I value above all. Can I say all?
BruceJuly 2, 2024
THANK YOU for sharing the profound details about our founding fathers dedication to bringing freedom and liberty to this promised land. I believe there were as many heavenly messengers at all the proceedings that culminated in the Declaration of Independence. And on that 50th celebration those messengers were there to welcome these two great men back home. What a celebration that must have been. I ache for the same fever to be with our current leaders and pray for heavens help to help them focus on our freedoms and not for personal recognition and financial gain. God Bless America
AnaJuly 2, 2024
I've always wondered if the Holy Ghost isn't an "office" or "assignment" that gets filled by various individuals. Like, maybe it is a prophet who has died and not been resurrected yet? IF this is the case, it kind of explains that more "generic" way the Holy Ghost is talked of--unlike Heavenly Father and Jesus who are always personalized. Just a guess.
ScottJuly 2, 2024
And not just any 4th of July, but the golden one. They died in 1826, exactly 50 years after the original.
Lexie StatonJuly 2, 2024
Thank you Maurine....both beautiful and inspiring!
tfJuly 1, 2024
I have, and have read that Arbinger Institute book, and thought it was wonderful. I've never heard anyone reference it until you did just now. I think it should be quoted in General Conference, so more people would get acquainted with some of those ideas.
JeffJuly 1, 2024
Could The Holy Ghost be different people at different times? After all, worlds without number, offer multiple options to The Father. Trying to determine “who” is the Holy Ghost takes us out into the weeds.
I have no answer or idea to your thesis, but I have wondered.
NanceJuly 1, 2024
And why is this article in Meridian magazine? It goes against all the gospel teaches us & only supports a liberal & evil political platform.
HelenCJuly 1, 2024
I recognize the full truth will be given to us at some future date but I question the statement that the Holy Ghost cannot dwell in more than one place / person at a time. My only reference for this is the moment when my actions required Him to withdraw. I felt something physically leave my body, followed by an intense loneliness. My Friend had gone and I knew it. He had been with me since my baptism, undetected until He left. So I believe He dwells simultaneously in all those who have been confirmed unless they become unworthy. Marvelous feelings accompanied the restoration of my blessings but His return was not as noticeable as His exit.
LindaJuly 1, 2024
What a wonderful article! Thank you for such inspiring content that testifies of truth and strengthens my testimony of the prophet Joseph. What a time we are blessed to live in!
WithheldJune 29, 2024
So, my husband a past bishop divorces me (I am not worthy to be a member of his family and goes off to be happy) short story. Two of my adult children decide to leave the church and one of them decide to cut all ties with me. Where does that leave my celestial marriage and forever family? Not much to look forward to
Robert BaileyJune 26, 2024
What an inspired idea. Trek is such a meaningful and memorable activity for youth in the Intermountain area. This idea can be easily adapted for the rest if us!
JeffJune 26, 2024
The glyph is found at many Classic Maya sites including in nearby Dos Pilas.
Wendy HallJune 26, 2024
So happy the new songbook has come out. We are excited to have it in our Wards, and
can't wait!
Wendy HallJune 26, 2024
At least he tried... I want to see the dog house!
David C HobsonJune 25, 2024
The words to It Is Well With My Soul have become very meaningful. I accepted the atonement, but somehow had always felt that there was to be a degree of suffering first. The hymn points out that the atonemtn is NOW, not effective come time in the future. But Spafford and Bliss had great tragedy in their lives. But that didn't stop them from moving ahead and making the world a better place!
Rochelle HaleJune 25, 2024
I love this! Just this morning, something caught my attention, and I delayed my morning prayers. Recently I have tried to be more specific when praying for my family's and others' needs. I have realized, in one case, that I could not put limits on the Lord. I have to express my heart's desire, ask for His blessings, and ask that His will be done. I can't pray, then make exceptions or ask Him to do it this way or that way. Always, always I have to express gratitude.
Rochelle HaleJune 25, 2024
I had been a member of the Church for about four years when I served on my mission. I first learned many of my favorite hymns and children's songs in Spanish. I have so many favorites in our current hymnbook, many that are not the old standbys. I am excited to see the treasures that will be revealed in our new hymnal, but I hope some of my favorites will still be there.
Daniel E GawthropJune 25, 2024
As the composer of "Sing Me to Heaven" I would like to offer one small but significant correction to your footnote about the piece, which is to note that the wonderful words which drew forth the music are not by me, but by my eternal companion, Jane Griner Gawthrop. I have been a full-time commissioned composer for more than twenty-five years and have published hundreds of pieces of vocal music--my sweet wife has written the texts for about half of those pieces. Currently we're working on a major work for the BYU Women's Chorus which will premiere in early November.
BonnieJune 23, 2024
I'm so grateful to have read your article. It describes what I have been experiencing. God's perfect love and regard for me has been made manifest through a current trial, and at times has felt like I have been tied to the whipping post. It has increased my faith and complete trust in the Lord. It has transformed me fundamentally. It has enlarged my heart and my capacity to feel and understand other's pain. I have laid every feeling and suffering at his feet and He has strengthened me in miraculous ways. It is liberating to come to a knowledge that "lament" is a form of complete worship. For I have come to know him through this excruciating experience. Thank you sincerely for your time and effort in studying such a phenomena. It's one more tender mercy for me added to the many that have been given.
Corey D.June 23, 2024
Wonderful article. Makes me reflect a lot on what and how I taught my children. I'm 67 years old, have 4 children and 9 grandchildren, I look at the struggles some of my adult children are having in regards to life, religion, etc., and now some of my grandchildren, wonder if maybe should have put more emphasis on their being children of a Heavenly Father and not making the emphasis about church activity and all the normal stuff we usually do. Those things are important of course but maybe the number one thing they need to know is they have celestial dna.
MaryannJune 21, 2024
I am so grateful for the knowledge the Lord has given us of our pre-mortal existence. It makes me feel more connected to my Heavenly Father and my Savior. How wonderful to know that I belong to God's family, and he loves me! It is also comforting to know that they had a divine plan for my life before I was ever born, and that I did have a choice about whether to come to earth. Although I probably was not shown everything that would occur in my life on earth, I do believe we were taught what general conditions would be, and that it would not be easy. I don't know how much I could understand, since I had never experienced physical pain and many other things of the mortal condition. However, I am sure it was explained to me as much as possible. It makes me feel good to know I had faith and great love for my Savior even then, and that I believed He would atone for my sins and do all that he promised. There is one thing that bothers me--I wish we could stop referring to our pre-mortal life as the pre-existence. There is no such thing as "pre-existence." The Prophet, Joseph Smith, taught that we have always existed, and are "co-eternal with God." Although we are literal Spirit Children of our Heavenly Father and Mother, we are also intelligences, which were not created.
William BellJune 21, 2024
Life is hard. It's hard for all of us. Hard in different ways for each of us, but still hard.I have always felt the reason we are here is to help each other get through this life. Imagine if we all saw everyone as truly our brother or sister, how much easier it would be for each of us.
HelenCJune 21, 2024
So illuminating in my research as a Grief Coach.
Thank you.
Steve DoneganJune 19, 2024
Again, Sister Joni, you’ve written a powerful piece. Thank you
Marc OrvinJune 19, 2024
Aww! The good old days. When you could read a newspaper and see both sides of a story. I miss him.
Colleen ShieldsJune 19, 2024
I agree that it was a disappointing attempt at continuing the same level of fun entertainment, as the 1st one. I, too, was let down by the flat character replacements and lack of stimulating story line. It could have been soooo much better, as it was rich material to be working with. Hopefully the creators will follow the 1st one's template, should they consider making yet another 1.
JeanJune 18, 2024
Thank-you for another insightful article, Becky. As you know, (because I wrote to you because I was so excited) after your last article I made the leap and changed from an occasional donor to RisingStar Outreach into a sponsor of a child. I’m still excited. I was assigned a sweet 7-year old who was about to turn eight, and so right off the bat I had the opportunity to make a little video of birthday greetings to send her. I learned from websites that some of the various meanings of her name are “golden” and “glowing.” I thought, “How appropriate for a Rising Star.”
Readers, if you have ever considered taking on the sponsorship of a child, I give you my sincere encouragement. The person to person touch adds a lot to life.
Heidi StarkJune 17, 2024
What a tender moment for all involved.
Dan BradshawJune 16, 2024
On my mission we challenged a Navajo woman to read The Book of Mormon. Her day consisted of herding sheep, so she read as she walked or stood. The spirit suddenly bore witness to her the truth of that book so strongly that she lost strength in her legs and fell to the ground. I suppose if she were sitting, as most of us do while reading, that experience would have been a bit different.
PreciousJune 16, 2024
It really helped me today am grateful
Marc OrvinJune 16, 2024
Excellent article. We are being herded, like sheep, by forces that we don't fully understand. Please take the time to read the entire article. It will open your eyes. Ultimately, I hope it will open your mind to how we are being manipulated.
BJMJune 16, 2024
I strongly disagree. The reviewer here completely misses the mark (and, apparently, several plot points) with this film.
It’s simply inaccurate to say that Riley faces no consequences for her actions. She is punished on the ice, damages friendships, and loses some of her sense of self/feels guilt for going against her core beliefs (spoiler alert: she returns to her core beliefs at the end after acknowledging the wrongfulness of her actions and apologizing for them).
The truth is, anyone living in the real world faces challenges to their core beliefs at different stages of their lives. We all have to constantly re-assess them when faced with new challenges and information. That’s even true of faith—if it stays the same, it stagnates and dies. We have to constantly be striving to grow and expand it, which means making room for new revelation and information.
One of the other key messages here was to acknowledge your self-worth and value regardless of your circumstances and changes in your life. That is completely in line with the teachings of the church and the belief that each of us is a beloved and valued child of heavenly parents, and that the Savior loved us enough to lay down his life for us.
Also, as one who has dealt with actual anxiety and panic attacks, this film’s portrayal of both ring completely true. As my own daughter said, it was absolutely relatable. The fact that this reviewer has not experienced full-blown anxiety and panic attacks prevents him from understanding the impact of that portrayal—including how anxiety can completely take over and change one’s sense of self. To those who have dealt with such things, this movie sends a clear message that you are not alone and can get help, which is a critically important message for so many of us.
Christopher CunninghamJune 15, 2024
If Riley repented, the film took no effort to show the audience.
Yes her behavior changes in the last moments of the climax, but only because a different inner self was installed for her to be true to. She didn’t change because it was the right thing to do. And as the denouement showed, choosing the right is not the priority, being true to yourself is, even if that means continuing to live in sin. That is certainly a message some brands of therapists try to sell their clients, and perhaps this movie will aid them in doing so, but for the sake of healthy kids I hope they see through it.
Jonathan DeckerJune 15, 2024
I could not disagree more. This film does justice to the first and conveys an important message that is aligned with the Gospel. There are PLENTY of negative consequences for Riley's behavior, they're just largely inside of herself as she feels the weight of going against her core values.
Learning to love herself instead of being trapped in shame and self-loathing frees her up to feel healthy guilt instead, leading her to take accountability for her actions, make amends with the people she's hurt, and change the behaviors. This is the very essence of repentance.
Paul talked about godly sorrow leading to repentance and the sorrow of the world leading to death (2 Corinthians 7:10). The sorrow of the world is what Riley feels for most of the movie: afraid, anxious, and full of self-loathing. The climax of the film finds her changing to a place of self-love, accepting herself and working on improving her behaviors without self-hatred.
"Love your neighbor as yourself," Christ said. The hidden command their is to love ourselves. This movie brilliantly demonstrates self-love, accountability, and changed behavior. It can open up conversations about loving ourselves because God loves us, loving ourselves because we are children of God, and repenting because we want to be good to ourselves, not because we hate ourselves.
All due respect, the movie didn't miss the mark. The reviewer missed the movie.
Corey D.June 15, 2024
A tremendously personal, touching and inspiring article. God bless you.
MeganJune 14, 2024
Please do not put all LGBTQ people in a box of infidelity. I am personally aware of many LGBTQ couples who wait for sex until after marriage and who are then completely faithful to their partner afterwards. They are absolutely wonderful, contributing members of society that have many facets to their identity.
LorettaJune 14, 2024
From my personal experience as an avid reader, I wasn't aware as a teen that 1. pornography could be written and 2. that it's rampant in fiction marketed toward young adults. I stumbled across it a lot, without seeking it out, and then didn't know what to do about it. Here's what I wish I had growing up:
Please make sure that in addition to letting your daughter know the boundaries that she also feels safe reporting to you. My parents would yell and berate me if they found an inappropriate passage in a novel I was reading, even though I didn't know the book I'd checked out was inappropriate. The shame without compassion drove me more into hiding what I was reading. Contrast this with my husband: to this day, I will let him know if I started a book and came across something inappropriate, just as an accountability partner, and he does the same when he encounters inappropriate content. It makes it easier to not fall into the trap of keeping secrets.
If possible, try to coach your daughter on how to find good material. It can help to look up reviews on Amazon or Goodreads before starting a book to see if anyone reports sexual content (I ironically found a great series because someone complained in a review about the LACK of explicit content). If she's an avid reader, she probably doesn't want to wait for you to get through the pile of books she wants to read, and this skill is something she can practice into later teenage years and adulthood as well. It might also help to discuss with her that while it's hard to set down a book (especially if it's one peers are reading), there is still clean fiction available. Discuss the genres she likes and try to find authors that write clean fiction within those genres.
Anti-WokeJune 13, 2024
What else can you expect from woke corporations like Disney? They are not in business to entertain. They are in business to indoctrinate. They are losing money at a high rate of speed.
S LindsayJune 12, 2024
This was delightful! Thank you for the smile!
LindaJune 11, 2024
What an outstanding article! You think you understand a concept only to find there is sooo much more depth. There are crucial elements and insights expressed that were truly beneficial to me. I am excited to study and ponder this even further. THANK YOU!!!
D. Lynn JohnsonJune 11, 2024
Thank you for your insights.
Years ago I discovered the chiasm, and it is a little different from yours.
A a And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and
temptations of every kind;
b and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take
upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people.
c And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands
of death which bind his people;
B and he will take upon him their infirmities,
C that his bowels may be filled with mercy,
D according to the flesh,
E that he may know
D’ according to the flesh
C’ how to succor his people
B’ according to their infirmities.
A’ a’ Now the Spirit knoweth all things; nevertheless the Son of God
suffereth according to the flesh
b’ that he might take upon him the sins of his people, that he might
blot out their transgressions
c’ according to the power of his deliverance;
The second level parallelism is instructive. Placing sins parallel to pains and sicknesses is consistent with the concept that sins are, in fact, wounds as discussed by Fiona and Terryl Givens in “All Things New.” And resurrection clearly is deliverance.
The big and significant difference is the point of emphasis. I think “that he may know” is, in fact, the central purpose of Jesus’ suffering throughout his mortal life.
kazaksJune 11, 2024
this is good...
MaryannJune 10, 2024
Great points made here, but the title of the article is misleading. Yes, we DO pray for what we want! The Lord has invited us many times to offer up the desires of our hearts to him. However, I was taught by my family to pray with an attitude "If it be they will." As long as we want His will to be done, of course we pray for what we desire! The Holy Ghost can guide us to know if we are praying for something that is inappropriate. In connection with this subject, I have occasionally heard people say: " Praying in faith is not hoping God will grant your desire, but KNOWING that he will." I disagree. We do not dictate to God. The Lord has taught us that if we ask in faith, we will receive, but receive what? We will receive what HE knows is best for us. We would be in big trouble if God gave us everything that we ask for, even in faith. He can see much further down the road than we can, and something that looks very right to us may not be right in His wisdom. When I am in need of something for myself or my loved ones, I pray with an attitude that God may not give me what I am asking for, but he WILL give me what I need.
MaryannJune 10, 2024
Thank you so much for affirming the words of our Prophets and Apostles concerning the fact that marriage is ONLY authorized by God for a man and a woman. Thank you for emphasizing that this truth is not going to change. False hope helps no one.
RC LakipJune 4, 2024
You are amazing! Your strength inspires all! Thank you for sharing your testimony of temple work and Christ's healing power.
Rich BowermanJune 4, 2024
What an awesome and inspiring article! Thank you!
DavidJune 4, 2024
Thank you very much for sharing your astounding story and your powerful testimony. It’s amazes me how you are able to share this. I for one am deeply moved by your story. I’m certain as a noble and great daughter of your Heavenly Father you were assigned to your family to be a Savior to them.
Christopher C DeSantisJune 4, 2024
“The Prophet Joseph Smith declared—and he never taught a more comforting doctrine—that the eternal sealings of faithful parents and the divine promises made to them for valiant service in the Cause of Truth, would save not only themselves, but likewise their posterity. Though some of the sheep may wander, the eye of the Shepherd is upon them, and sooner or later they will feel the tentacles of Divine Providence reaching out after them and drawing them back to the fold. Either in this life or the life to come, they will return. They will have to pay their debt to justice; they will suffer for their sins; and may tread a thorny path; but if it leads them at last, like the penitent Prodigal, to a loving and forgiving father’s heart and home, the painful experience will not have been in vain. Pray for your careless and disobedient children; hold on to them with your faith. Hope on, trust on, till you see the salvation of God” (Orson F. Whitney, in Conference Report, Apr. 1929, 110).
This and other similar pronouncedments by the Prophet Joseph, Brigham Young, Lorenzo Snow, and others, have been of great comfort to me in similar circumstances. Thank you for sharing your story and your testimony
CynthiaJune 4, 2024
What a beautiful and inspiring story, Christy. Thank you for sharing your heart and soul. Your faith shines through. I am also a convert who has and continues to experience earthly family ruptures and finds hope in the Gospel. May God continue to bless you and your daughter.
Bob WJune 4, 2024
This is one of the most breathtaking stories of the redemptive power of Christ working in the lives of people on both sides of the veil. Thanks for your courage to tell your story, painful and harrowing then glorious and joyful—though still challenging. God bless you Sister Lakip and your children.
K. Chin - Modesto, CAJune 4, 2024
WOW! What an amazing journey you’ve had— through so many of this life’s challenges. Thank you for your sharing HOW you have sought the Lord and His healing balm. Your example is one of thriving, progressing, and applying President Nelson’s recent counsel to “think celestial!” Broken families are so common in these wrapping-up years before the return of our Savior. We’re warned of this in the scriptures and from our modern day Prophets. Yet, when devastating family dynamics seem to take away our courage, resolve—even our very ability to BREATHE—we suffer, grieve, and seem to become consumed with all of the grave wrongs and gross sins committed against us and other innocent family members. It’s part of Satan’s plan to destroy each of us by destroying our families. Last month, our area, also, had a special women’s devotional with Elder Renlund. I found him to be pointedly practical and demonstrably in-tune with the Holy Spirit as he exercised his faith to confidently share what was needed. As he encouraged an eternal perspective in attending the temple, he walked us through HOW to practically apply our sacred temple covenants to our current situations. I deeply appreciate what you shared from his explanations regarding mental illness and the tremendous difficulties created for, not only, suffering individuals—but, also their families and extended families, as well. It gives me great hope and encouragement for those of my family currently dealing with mental illness and trauma…as well as other family members trying to heal from the great emotional damage and trauma inflicted (not always consciously) upon them by those who are mentally ill. After reading this, I truly SEE a way forward that draws upon family on BOTH sides of the veil to replace great sorrow with healing, joyful blessings of HOPE. You’ve shared active, effective choices I can make to help myself and ALL of my family members. Indeed, our Father in Heaven’s timing IS perfect. Thank you for so beautifully showing and sharing this!!!
Corey D.June 2, 2024
My aunt shared an experience that I have not forgotten, when she went to the cancer center to start her treatments she was scared to death, terrified, she was all alone, one of the other patients could tell she was scared and came over to talk with her, she expressed how scared she was and he said to her, "a year from now you will look back on this and think what an amazing year, what a great learning experience", she said her first reaction to his comment was pretty much disbelief but after a year she had come to realize and know what he knew.
Wendy BeamanJune 2, 2024
The complete English hymn book seems to be in the LDS library now. We sang His Eye is on the Sparrow for our devotional today.
Corey D.June 2, 2024
We are in a sad situation no doubt. The upcoming election feels like nothing more than a choice of the lesser of two evils. I'm a deeply patriotic person and am saddened by the status of things but at the same time it's all been prophesied, we just have to keep reminding ourselves the Lord is in charge.
Corey D.June 2, 2024
I think everybody knew that Come Thou Font of Every Blessing would be back. We have a sister in our ward who does a lot of her own arrangements of hymns on the violin, her arrangement of Come Thou Font of Every Blessing is simply amazing and beautiful. I asked her to play it once when I had a speaking assignment when I was on the high council, the instant she started to play the whole chapel went silent and I mean silent, no little kids making noise, no babies crying, I had one of the sisters with young kids came up to me after the sacrament meeting and tell me she had never seen anything like that, it was almost a surreal moment. Interesting also that depending on the song different instruments may be used for accompaniment, when I was branch president at the Veterans Home one of the wards that came to do the Sacrament Meeting one of the members came in with a guitar, I thought oh no, hope he isn't planning on using that during Sacrament, I talked with him and he said he didn't know what we had available for accompaniment so had practiced on the guitar, we were pretty flexible so I said okay, have to admit I was thinking to myself, what would Elder Packer think, don't remember which hymn it was but it turned out very nice.
Robert WilliamsJune 1, 2024
You never told us in the end which stones corresponded to which tribes or zodiac constellations. He said he kept down to table 4, but table 2 is the last table that’s listed on this page.
Dave DuncanMay 31, 2024
There are lots of resources for helping to deal with situations like this. OurFamilyWizard, for example, can help with communications in high conflict divorces/custody disputes like those in this article. And it can be had for free, if needed. There are free legal clinics often associated with law schools. If you are in Utah, make an appointment for free legal advice at timplegal.org (BYULaw) or law.utah.edu/pro-bono-initiative/ (ULaw).
KarenMay 31, 2024
If he doesn't send back their clothes tell him he needs wash them so that they are ready for when they come the next time. Why do you need to send more clothes when he already has their clothes. Or you could explain that if he threw them out, he will need to buy them more clothes to wear. Not in a confrontaional manner but somethinhg like, you have their clothes from the last visit so I haven't sent any with them this time.
KathleenMay 31, 2024
"Teach a child in the way they should go . . ."
Ronald BarnesMay 31, 2024
I’m glad they brought back Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing; and included the Christmas classics He is Born the Divine Christ Child, and What Child is This? For me, the tune makes or breaks a song. I’ve listened to all the others, and several tunes have impressed me.
When the Savior Comes Again, flows like a river.
Two remind me of Primary songs: I Will Walk with Jesus, is sweet; and Think a Sacred Song, is reverent.
His Eye is on the Sparrow, is very graceful.
Gethsemane, reminds me of a Renaissance ballad.
Hail the Day that Sees Him Rise, is uplifting.
Star Bright, is a waltz, a Christmas Waltz.
I look forward to seeing these in our hymnal.
LewisMay 31, 2024
What amazing work! I am so grateful for all you and the others at Rising Star are doing, it would be selfish not to do my small part to help. I have long enjoyed your stories and the incredible lessons embedded in them. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to join in.
BillMay 30, 2024
I don't agree with the premise that the church takes no stance. That simply isn't so. President Benson named Darwin as one of the anti-Christs. President Joseph Fielding Smith wrote an enormous and excellent book about the topic called "Man His Origin and Destiny." I am an engineer and consider myself somewhat "scientific" however I see no conflict at all here. Evolution is a theory, based on surmise and storytelling, not actual observations of our world. It is promoted to push a world-view adverse to belief in God and against the ideas of human dignity. If this whole thing is the result of a series of happy little accidents and survival of the fittest, then murder would be a net good for society. Thankfully, its not, so it's not!
Big Jim from NoCalMay 30, 2024
I've wondered why California Governor Gavin Newsom refers to his wife as "first partner" rather than "first lady" as is customarily done.
RLHMay 29, 2024
I have always found it very interesting that when the Savoir established our current four year reding cycle of the scriptures that the Book of Mormon is studied in an election year. You can't tell me that the Savior doesn't know what will happen and how important the Book of Mormon, as a witness to His divinity, is for our survival.
Rochelle HaleMay 29, 2024
I don't see a problem with praying for what we want as long as we learn to wait on God's timing and learn to recognize His answers when they come in a moment, an hour, a day, months, or even years. Too often we are so focused on what we think should be the outcome that we miss even greater blessings and direction. Sadly, many curse the Lord or blame Him when the results aren't what they expected. I believe in the recent teachings of President Nelson that we should all seek for personal revelation and inspiration. If we feel we aren't getting answers to our prayers or we aren't recognizing the answers, then perhaps we need to pray that the Holy Ghost helps us modify our prayers and helps us overcome any discouragement while we are waiting.
Jenny SvendsenMay 29, 2024
Thank you so much for that beautiful uplifting article! I pray for my boys, that angels may be by their sides, to help them through the hardships they are experiencing, through their life due to their actions, but I always let heavenly Father know, that He knows them intimately and they are in His hands.
Pat StanfordMay 28, 2024
Great piece! Thank you.
Bob JonesMay 28, 2024
Every time I slip on a clean garmet I feel as if I have just put on the "whole armor of God"
HelenCMay 28, 2024
Thank you for this. The current culture of demonization MUST be stopped. A dear family member is suffering because their children have been allowed to escape the discomfort of discipline under the mistaken believe that it is cruel. So sad!
CASMay 28, 2024
Many are deceived by the actual horrors of the present Gadiantin robbers (elected officials) on the state and national level.
May our hearts be opened, and our hands elect righteous leaders again nationally and locally here in Utah.
Rick DaltonMay 28, 2024
One of the most important axioms that we can uphold, is to in unity discard the deceitful discussion of left and right, and instead Focus on the foundational truth of right and wrong. And one absolute foundational pillar in the structure of America, is the Constitution of the United States, inspired and endorsed by God himself. President David O McKay had this to say:
"Other than being one and worshiping God, there is nothing in this world upon which this church should be more united than in upholding and preserving the constitution of the of the United States."
SamLMay 27, 2024
This is a great synopsis of one of the many lessons of the Book of Mormon. Thank you for taking the time to research and write it.
Brian D. StubbsMay 27, 2024
Good and relevant article. Angel Herrero’s comment is solid. Beyond national leaders, the book warns of “secret combinations” which are many, nationally and globally, the former subservient to the latter. The Controligarchs (by Bruner) is a start to clarifying which Americans serve the anti-American combinations, seeking power, not peoples’ freedoms. Most presidents do little to dent the combinations founded by the evil one (2 Nephi 26:22), a few facilitate them, but the combinations know which among recents is the greatest threat to weaken their power, thus he is the most persecuted in history, while the facilitators are free to facilitate destruction.
SimplicioMay 27, 2024
The Book of Mormon speaks of ambitious men and political leaders who "stirred up unto anger" their people for the purpose of gaining power and influence, often resulting in war and conflict. (Alma 48:3;51:9;63:14.) Lamanite kings are not the only ones who employ such tactics. How I wish that we could all recognize that for what it is: knee-jerk politics, or at its worst, radicalization!
"It is the wicked that stir up the hearts of the children of men unto bloodshed." Mormon 4:5
So: Don't vote Lamanite! Their leaders and pundits are forever using false (but alluring) traditions to stir up anger, resentment and distrust in their unwitting followers.
John JacksonMay 27, 2024
An eight-year-old article that speaks even louder as we approach the 2024 election. Will our nation be blinded by cunning and flattering words? There are plenty of news stories making it clear what is happening, but we are being told not to listen to them; don't trust the mainstreet media. I think of the scripture that warns there would come a day when the people would not accept the truth, but be turned to fables. I would suggest that instead of setting aside the warnings of the mainstreet press, spurn the media that has sprung up to counter the truth, dealing in fables to our destruction.
CarolMay 25, 2024
I love that you taught the empty room - just as your were scheduled to do! And it surely was merciful to give the extra credit. GREAT LIFE LESSON!!!!
Melanie SteinMay 25, 2024
Thank you for this beautiful article. What a wonderful reminder that we shouldn't "sweat the small stuff" and in the grand scheme of things most earthly things are "small stuff." Even things that we may THINK are big stuff, like a messy garage, are really only small stuff. Thanks for reminding us to focus on the small ONES who are the most important.
Annie JensenMay 24, 2024
This is exactly what I needed to help me submit in my prayers! I can connect with “priorities.” A huge thank you!
Loa AndersenMay 24, 2024
Wonderful story and exactly what I needed today! My living room has been a disaster zone since my son passed away last year...and I'm embarrassed about it. However, other things seem to take priority....some of them important and some not so much! I'm going to take your advice and ask Heavenly Father to help me prioritize! Thank you so much!
Linda OwenMay 24, 2024
While I am sure some of those other things weigh on you as well, I am thankful for your priorities. It reminds me that people over projects is always the right choice. Projects will always be there and we will get to them as soon as possible but I will remember this wonderful reminder of the BEST choice.
Jenny SvendsenMay 24, 2024
WOW! Thank yo so much for this article! I lie on Salt Spring Island bc Canada, to get to our Stake center I have a 15 min. drive to the ferry, usually get there 1 hr. before sailing, to make sure i get on, then just a 25 min. drive to the Stake Center in Victoria. So this morning I'm so thankful for your story, I will leave at 10:40 to catch the 11:50 ferry, stay overnight in our camper van and catch the 9am ferry back, in the morning, to be home at 10am. I could have chosen to stay home and miss out on our Stake Talent Show and taken care o things at home, but I decided to support the Stake leaders who have put so much work into this event, they and I will be blessed for this. As I took down from the walls my crosstitch picture I have made through the years, I noticed they were dusty, but noone would have known that!
Rochelle HaleMay 24, 2024
Thank you for the article. While I appreciate that the "messy garage" may be a sign that the family or persons are engaged in other worthwhile causes (and I hope they are), I see it also as a sign of neglect. Does it cause issues within the family? Does it affect the budget when items can't be found and new purchases must be made? Does it prevent the storage of other necessities or worthwhile items, such as camping equipment or emergency preparedness supplies? Is it a fire hazard?
Steve DoneganMay 24, 2024
This is one brother who needed to read this today. Thank you for sharing. There are two sides to the Lord’s work: ministering and administering. My Eternal Companion says I’m really good at administering, but woefully deficient in ministering. I’ll try to move forward with your suggestion, even if it means doing things that are uncomfortable for me.
David ShafferMay 24, 2024
Great story. Thank you for reminding me of what is important and how to find out what to do about it. A wonderful message for all of us.
Mary TarbetMay 23, 2024
Thank you! So many intriguing thoughts and parallels!
MaryannMay 23, 2024
Great points made here. I would add that we need to keep our statements simple. I thought the suggested statement about how to talk to a neighbor about not returning tools was too long. Keep is short and simple. Example: "Sam, I'm really happy to lend you my tools, and could you please return them as soon as you're finished?" No need for more than a sentence.
MaryannMay 23, 2024
The older I become, the more I treasure wearing my temple garment. "Putting on Christ" every day is a great blessing. I feel the Savior has clothed me with great tenderness and love. If we train ourselves to think about the act of dressing in the garment each day as a renewal of our covenant to follow Christ, it will strengthen us throughout the day. Also, we need to remember that, Just as we would never allow the flag to touch the ground, we should show respect for the garment by caring for it carefully.
Cynthia VaughnMay 21, 2024
I LOVE your article, Mariah. Well thought out and well written, Such a great reminder as to why we wear the garment and the blessings that we receive when we do. Thanks so much for this.
LindaMay 21, 2024
Very well written and thought provoking. Good to share with young missionaries and YSAs. I recall a book I read many years ago. ( I believe it was titled, THE BROKEN COVENANT) The adulterous woman, while communing with her bishop, was deeply contemplating when she first committed adultery. The answer.....when she made the decision to remove her garments. WOW! I have never forgotten that!!! THANKS, Mariah.
Joni HiltonMay 21, 2024
Simply beautiful, and beautifully simple.
Charles McClellandMay 21, 2024
Thank you, Mariah. We need to remember the purposes of the garment.
Charles McClellandMay 21, 2024
Wonderful advice from our wonderful Prophet.
Dan BradshawMay 21, 2024
I would refer to a book, Earth in the Beginning, by Eric Skousen. Very good science against evolution. Yes, there may have been natural selection and adaptation, but no evolving into different kinds. Also, the series, Is Genesis History?, puts a whole lot of serious doubt into evolution and the age of the earth.
MattMay 21, 2024
If the Lord created us through evolution, so be it - He can do all things. However, 13 years of public education, and 8 years of higher education has failed to show me sufficient evidence for macro evolution. In fact, from what I have seen, those who tout this view have way more faith than I do. I just can't make that leap - and they take many leaps of faith. There is some good, solid evidence to the contrary, as I later discovered, but it l doesn't always make it past the academic filters which protect the narrative (not the truth). I've seen this narrative protection in progress in my own courses, a kind of circular reasoning.
Dan ShewellMay 20, 2024
This theory of evolution-- and it is a theory, it's not provable science--appeared on the world scene roughly at the same time as the Restored Gospel was beginning to gain a foothold. It is, in my opinion the blackest of lies from the deepest pit of Hell carefully introduced among the world's elite to deceive and to discredit God. Elder McConkie said as much in his landmark address, the Seven Deadly Heresies".
I'm no scientist but I know enough to assert that mankind, the children of God, did not at any time or in any sense "evolve" from lower life forms.
All life was commanded at creation to multiply "after its own kind", not to morph from one kind to another. In sacred places we hear that fact stated over and over.
Ronald BarnesMay 20, 2024
I have no problem accepting both evolution and religion. To evolutionist I say, nothing about evolution makes it necessary to exclude a supreme being. To the religionist I say, nothing about creation excludes God from using evolution to help bring it about. While I believe in evolution, I realize that it is just a theory and not a fact. It will not become a fact until scientists can change one type of life form into another type of life form.
Steve DoneganMay 20, 2024
While studying at the University of Nebraska I found science books published by BYU. In one was a forward by the then current president of the university. In it he wrote that as far as evolution was concerned, he had only the opinion that evolution may happen, but the first humans on earth were Adam and Eve. I agree with him wholeheartedly.
Jackson PembertonMay 20, 2024
I am surprised that Peterson makes no mention of Darwin's doubts about his theory. He was especially concerned about the large gap in the evolutionary tree where hundreds of species seem to all appear at once with no transitional evidence. He was deeply moved by the eye saying that it seemed an impossible thing to create by pure random mutations.
LewisMay 20, 2024
I commented earlier, but it seems not to have posted. I want to comment again because I feel so strongly about this.
I have been given so much in my life - a wonderful family, the gospel,healthn and for the last several years, these wonderful articles.
How can I not give back just a bit and give life to one of these precious children! These are truly "the least of these," and I hear the Savior's admonition to all of us. I am grateful for all you are doing, and delighted to give back just a bit as a token of my gratitude.
David DuncanMay 20, 2024
Neo-Darwinism is bankrupt. Even honest Darwinists realize the more we learn about life, the further we get from Darwinist explanations. Even Charles Darwin knew of the holes in his theory, he just expected them to be filled as research progressed. The opposite has happened. Natural selection? Sure, we can observe that. Speciation? The few times it seems to have happened looks more like de-evolution than evolution. And at the genus level, evolution looks utterly out of the question. The Discovery Institute is a good place to get info on evolution from a faithful perspective. Intelligent Design is a scientific theory that is quite compatible with creationism, the Bible, and the Pearl of Great Price. (see discovery.org/id and evolution.news)
Ben JonesMay 20, 2024
As a member of the LDS Faith, I have no problem with the age of the universe. If God is eternal, as we and all Christians believe, and eternity is a very long time, we should not be at all surprised that the Earth and the Universe appears to be very old. The Genesis account describes a sequence of events, with the idea that things were done in a certain order. Even the concept of "survival of the fittest" implies an intelligence deciding what works. And at what point does intelligence begin to change the destiny of creation? Just look at Man. He is not content to let evolution mindlessly go on. He farms, he selectively breeds, he develops technology to control his environment and beat the odds...
Harold RustMay 19, 2024
Thanks! A profound but very unnerving awareness of what we can expect here in America as a land of promise but also a nation in which there are so many destructive elements competing for dominance in our society, government, and spiritual interactions. I appreciate the selective quotes from one of the greatest contemporary historical evaluators of our time. May we as a people ponder deeply the implications of those actions we take--or fail to take--which have proven soi disastrous for civilizations on the past.
SarahMay 19, 2024
This was an excellent and insightful article. We have read this as a large family with a struggling sister. I will now share it with my children. Thank you so much!
RobertMay 18, 2024
I love Sister Inouye. I listened to one of her podcasts and purchased her book called "Crossings" because I loved her analogy of the gospel being like a string of Christmas lights. When a bulb here or there are not working do not through out the string. I reached out to her when I heard her cancer returned and I expressed my gratitude for her book. She actually responded. I have since listened to all of her podcasts I could find and just relished her as a scholar and voice for the church and it breaks my heart that she has gone so early. As she would say, cancer is cancer. Her living faith and example in discipleship amidst her pain, is a lifelong lesson for us all. We honor her legacy by serving one another and making our wards and branches stronger by serving them.
Chris HillMay 18, 2024
I like your logic Scott. I try to follow a LDS liturgical calendar commemorating sacred events of the Restoration and it has always bothered me slightly that I don't have a Melchezidek Priesthood Restoration date. Well done you!
Paulette D.May 17, 2024
The main heartache of my life has been that I am single and have never had children. I have learned, though, of the compensatory blessings that come from the Savior. My sister had seven children and I have been blessed through being an aunt and now a great-aunt. At the time I would have been the mother of young children, I served in Primary. At the time I would have been the mother of teenagers, I taught early morning seminary. Now, when I would have been a grandmother, I am teaching the youth in Sunday and early morning seminary again. I love, love, love being the grandmother of the ward! Still, when I go home after work to a silent home, I do feel lonely. I also hope that mothers who have given birth to children or who grieve their infertility or loss of a child do not feel like their sacrifices do not matter when we now learn about the expanded vision of motherhood includes all covenant daughters of God. I stand in awe of their lifetime of service to their children.
LewisMay 17, 2024
I look at the rich blessings that have been poured out upon my life - health, family, the gospel, as well as the precious gift your ariticles provide each month - and I ask myself, “how can I not give?” Perhaps in a small way I can do something for “the least of these my brethren.” Thank you for allowing us to participate in this great work.
Dorothy ThompsonMay 16, 2024
Yes…I have a copy of my Gr. grandfather’s journal ( which the original is in the Church archives). and he was in attendance at an outdoor meeting where he experienced this , also…he said that those who were not in attendance did not have the assurance the Brigham Young was to be their next leader and prophet…and followed after Sidney Rigdon or others! He also describes the Prophet and he had great admiration for him!
WallyMay 16, 2024
Beautiful! And it was just last October 8 that we stood on the shores of the Susquehanna River and were lifted by Scot and Maurine's testimonies. We are forever grateful!
MarianMay 16, 2024
That is very beautiful!
Stewart LangMay 16, 2024
I served my Mission in the Minnesota Wisconsin Mission 1972 to 1974 with President Vern R Peel and Sister Hilda Peel. During one of our Mission Conferences Sister Peel read from her Great Grand parents journal about this part of Church history as they were there and saw and heard in detail of what had happened. I am sure there family has the Journal of this event.
KarenPMay 16, 2024
Absolutely beautiful painting! Thank you for sharing your gift with the world.
KathleenMay 16, 2024
Love that we have documentation of this most important event. Thank you for the beautiful pictures to accompany the history.
Gerald SmithMay 15, 2024
Love the story from Borrowman. James Park is my 3d great grandfather's brother! Wonderful story to share with my family.
Jackson PembertonMay 15, 2024
I was glad to see so much detail! It would be interesting, but not particularly significant, to know the order of ordination of these brethren to the Office of Apostle.
Bruce BarlowMay 15, 2024
Beautiful pictures, wonderful memories of this quiet, profound experience with heaven.
The Lord is good. So are you. Thank you for sharing these wonderful heavenly experiences.
Bruce
Helen FurrMay 15, 2024
Scot, your video is stunning! You are a beautiful photographer and your voice is so calm and assuring. I am so thankful for videos such as yours that allow us to see in our mind these sacred places, and hear in our hearts the truth of the restoration! Thank you! Helen
Jackson PembertonMay 15, 2024
Great film! I had forgotten that so much had happened right here!
Ronald BarnesMay 15, 2024
Whether or not Brigham was transformed into the voice, or even image, of Joseph is irrelevant. In the revelation on priesthood, given through Joseph at Kirtland, Ohio, and dated March 28, 1835; “The twelve traveling councilors are called to be the Twelve Apostles, … And they form a quorum, equal in authority and power to the three presidents previously mentioned.” (D&C107:23 - 24) With only one member of the Quorum of the First Presidency remaining, it could no longer function as a governing body. That made it necessary for the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles to take over as the next body with the same authority.
Piero Mazzei, Toronto, Canada.May 14, 2024
In 1977 or thereabouts I attended a devotional at the Marriot C. in Provo.
An aging Elder Le Grand Richards was the designated speaker. He related an episode in his life when as a little boy he sat on his grandmother's knees. His GM took told him of the day she was present when Brigham Young took the stage following Sidney Rigdon. She said that she witnessed the changes in B. Young's countenance and in his voice which made him appear as if Joseph Smith was addressing the congregation! Elder le Grand Richards bore powerful testimony of that experience, adding that his Grandma would not tell him something that was not true! Elder Richard's powerful testimony became my testimony as if I had been there myself! A life changing event for me which is still vivid in my soul!
Rebecca HANSENMay 14, 2024
My Great Great Grandmother was in Nauvoo when this event took place and also said that she saw and heard Joseph when Brigham spoke.
Susan Noble was her name and she later married Jedediah Morgan Grant who is the father of my Great Grandfather. Joseph Hyrum Grant.
MaryannMay 13, 2024
Praying is a wonderful way of keeping our Sacrament covenants to always remember our Savior, and to keep His commandments. Also, when we pray in His name, we are also taking upon ourselves His name. Because of this, prayer enables us to keep all three of our Sacrament covenants every day! Prayer strengthens our testimonies. You feel a confirmation that the things you are saying in your prayer are true. When we thank Heavenly Father for our Prophet, we feel a reconfirmation that we really do have a real Prophet on earth today. When we thank Him for the beauties of the earth, our faith is confirmed that he created all things for us in his great love and that we are important to Him. The Spirit witnesses to our souls once again that the things we believe and are speaking are true.
MaryannMay 13, 2024
Perhaps people would not object to a temple in their neighborhood if they knew that their property values will probably rise as a result. The temple elevates the area surrounding it.
ParlMay 13, 2024
Thank you for that wonderful article. For years I've been anxious about not offending on mother's day. Your article really helps.
Jana KeenMay 13, 2024
Thank-you for the informative article.
It sheds light on some important details of the process of building temples.
Rochelle HaleMay 13, 2024
Yesterday we attended a ward while out of state. Sacrament meeting was wonderful, but the bishop expressed his concern that over the years he has had trouble asking people to speak on Mother's Day. As I reflected on his remarks, then later had time to ponder in Relief Society, I thought about my motherhood journey. My own mother passed just a few months ago. My husband realized that this was our first Mother's Day without either of our moms. My life has run the gamut of infertility, divorce, step-parenting, the heartache of wayward children, and becoming an "orphan." I cannot think of a single Mother's Day that I did not attend church or felt unworthy. Yes, there were probably Sundays when I didn't want the flowers or cookies that were offered, but I was in church because that is where I knew I should be. If we believe in all that our Savior has done through His Atonement, then the challenges of motherhood should be no exception. I pray that my own difficult experiences will make me more compassionate, but Mother's Day (or any other holiday) does not make us exempt from trying to stay on the covenant path.
K.Chin—Modesto, CAMay 13, 2024
This is such a timely article. Thank you for writing it! A favorite tool of the adversary—to provoke individuals to take offense—is sweeping our world with great success. As members of the restored Church of Jesus Christ, we TRY to live IN this world, but be not OF it. Still, these worthy efforts do not always keep us from being “tricked” into following worldly ways. All around us are individuals seeking such worldly validation. IF their particular circumstances, lives, choices, difficulties, etc., are not reflected as they feel is appropriate…modern thinking requires a call to action—or a WAR—to demand they be recognized, included, validated, honored, etc., as the world has lead them to believe their over-emphasized DIFFERENCES require. During the seasons of my life, I have fallen into several categories when it comes to celebrating “mothers.” We need articles like this to remind us we are more alike than we are different! Yes, there is definitely a need to be inclusive of everyone; yet, this is best achieved by listening to promptings from the Holy Spirit, and walking our talk—as professed disciples of our Savior, Jesus Christ. I remember a Know Your Religion speaker who reminded the audience; the term diversity connects to the idea of “divide and conquer.” This tactic presumes to isolate individuals and groups by focusing on DIFFERENCES and creating internal conflict as a means for their ultimate destruction. Jesus Christ, through His unfailing LOVE, taught and showed that ALL are included, welcome, and appreciated! We are daughters of our Eternal Parents. It is right and good to honor this. We need to extend some grace to ourselves, as much as most of us earnestly wish to extend grace to others. CHOOSE to NOT take offense. CHOOSE to be a peacemaker. CHOOSE to focus on the Devine creation of woman—then the very mortal attempts to honor mothers, and women, need not become additional tools of Satan to divide and conquer us. We can fully participate in and appreciate the good that comes from a special day, and an occasion, to celebrate and honor daughters of God.
KathleenMay 12, 2024
Clearly an expensive endeavor!
GusleyMay 12, 2024
I cannot bear children, a fact I learned at a young age. In half a century of live, I have never been married.
As a woman, I have eternal potential for being a wife and mother, even if I cannot experience it here in mortality.
Eve was called The Mother of All Living before she had ever borne a child. God saw her eternal potential just as He sees mine.
Thank you for a beautiful article honoring all who are currently mothers and those of us who look forward to that blessing with hope in Christ.
RachelMay 11, 2024
I really appreciated this message, thank you.
MJMay 11, 2024
my daughter and I are so saddened to hear of her death; we loved listening to her insights on Come Follow Up with Ben Lomu. Prayers and peace for her husband and children.
Daryl GibsonMay 11, 2024
I bought multiple copies of "Sacred Struggle" and am passing them among my friends.
Pamela DeanMay 11, 2024
Those are all excellent points. My big beef is that in every Ward that I have been in in the United States, the aaronic priesthood campout is held on Mother's Day weekend. On the one weekend a year dedicated to mothers in over a hundred countries around the world, the men and boys take off to go camping by themselves , leaving their wives and mothers behind to take care of the house and take care of the younger children and whatever else needs to be done. Why can't they go camping the weekend after Mother's Day? Or the weekend before? Where is the mother and daughter camp out?
Corey D.May 10, 2024
Robert Fulghum one of my favorite authors, best known for the book "All I Really Need to Know I Learned In Kindergarten", writes in one of his other books that Mother's Day was the one Sunday he dreaded preparing a sermon for when he was a minister, somebody always had a critique or complaint about the sermon on Mother's Day, one time he just let go and told the cold hard reality, said the congregation got pretty quiet and seemed pretty attentive, he thought to himself " finally reached everyone, that is until a little old lady who was visiting for Mother's Day came up after the sermon and pretty much told him he would end up in hell for that sermon. My wife worked at a flower shop for about 10 yrs, Mother's Day and Valentine's Day were the two biggest days, she would have a long day the day before. I would usually drop in sometime during the day and would say out loud, "how's the guilt selling today", she never thought it was funny but the other ladies did.
MeganMay 10, 2024
Mariah, I wish I could give you a huge hug. You speak so many words I've felt myself--the frustration, the lack of control over the growth I'd like to experience vs. the growth I'm forced to experience, the longing for former opportunities, the desire to lean into the stage I'm in with more fullness of heart. Your stage of life is so tender and delightful, and so exhausting and repetitive. Many other delightful stages are ahead! And they'll come with their own challenges (my girls are now 15, 13, and 11 and their problems at this age are less simple to solve). I gobble up every article you write and am so appreciative of your depth of perspective. You're a wonderful mother--and the particular struggles you face will add nuance and wisdom to your experience that will lift and comfort others.
Ana BlakeMay 10, 2024
This so spoke to my heart although I am a little further down the path of motherhood than you--six of my 11 kids have "flown" but I SO remember experiencing many of the frustrations you mentioned. It IS frustrating to have gifts you want to express but that have been put on "hold" for less satisfying stuff like laundry and dishes. What was hardest for me was the near constant bids for my attention, often leaving me feeling fragmented by the end of the day. "Will I EVER get to have a complete thought again?" What I can see now that was less apparent then is that what you are doing WILL stick. When I see my grown children raising their kids, faithfully holding callings, and attending to their prayers and scripture study and bearing vibrant testimonies of the Restoration, I can see that all those days and nights where it seemed so much was "temporary" wasn't. It just takes a long time to see the results. This does not change the day to day grind that can feel so heavy and burdensome, especially when you have a certain intellectual gifts like you do. This is all process of refining and growth and if we keep trying and trust the Lord, he will show ways to find joy NOW as the oh so important work of rearing these previous, natural man little kids goes forward. Thank you for your article!
Linda WestoverMay 10, 2024
Yes, it is a long hard struggle to become the kind of mother we long to be, especially if we feel that we're expected to be perfect. I believe it is BECAUSE we love so much, we place extra pressure upon ourselves to be nothing short of perfect. But we have no way of knowing what "perfect" looks like for our particular family members. I'm convinced that doing our best over the long run IS PERFECT to Him who knows our hearts and desires. Motherhood is as much about the effect it has upon our becoming refined as it is about the effect we have on shaping our children. Slow and steady wins the race!
LindaMay 9, 2024
I am sorry to hear of her passing. I’ve always enjoyed her input. She was insightful in so many ways. There is a gentleness in her voice. My prayers go out to her family.
Patricia CarrMay 9, 2024
I am so sorry to hear of her death. I so enjoyed listening to her wisdom ensight on "Come Follow up" with Bn Lomu.
KathleenMay 8, 2024
What a legacy for the most important and sacred covenant in which members participate each week.
Jamie QuistMay 1, 2024
Interesting article! How dates are determined and how the timing can change perspectives. I always look forward to your articles!
Lois CleggApril 30, 2024
I was so touched by his words . they are so true and meaningful to me. Thank you brother Holland. I love the Gospel and I thank you for sharing .
LeciaApril 30, 2024
Please tell us the name of the book! I can't find anything online by Larry that seems related to the power of faith.
JUNE GAMBLEApril 30, 2024
What an amazing article. I was so overwhelmed with emotion I could not speak
ColinApril 29, 2024
Well put. What King Benjamin said flies right in the face of the whole self-esteem movement — more like a universal article of faith these days.
Many members of the Church regularly teach that “love thy neighbor as thyself” is a command to practice self-love. But when the Giver of that command told a story to illustrate what He meant, not a word of the story was about increasing one’s own self-esteem. Not one. The Samaritan’s actions and thoughts and love were all for the injured traveler, not himself.
HelenCApril 29, 2024
“Nothing + the Lord = Everything”
Brilliant!
As Ammon says, “Yea, I know that I am nothing; as to my strength, I am weak. Therefore I will not boast of myself but I will boast of my God, for in his strength I can do all things.”
Alma 26:12
Lawrence BarryApril 29, 2024
Someone once said “Compared to God we are nothing, TO God we are everything”
Donald CyrApril 29, 2024
Dear Maureen, thank you so much to helping me understanding a " Paradigme " of such of an important matter to guide me throughout the abysmal challenge of worthiness, while surrender in the depth of humiliation to grow and learn more, one step at the time, about the real purpose of our struggling existence...♂️
JennyApril 29, 2024
I echo the above comments. I have watched in great dismay as 5 of our 6 adult children have left the Church I love. Your article is so inspiring and brings great hope not just to me but to many friends who are going through similar intense struggles as I have forwarded the article to them.
Thank you for the amazing insights into this allegory that I have not seen in such a personal way before
Shelly NApril 29, 2024
Maureen thank you for this utterly inspired article. I don't think I've ever read a better one and that's saying something since I enjoy so many of the articles here. It is a masterpiece. Truly. The writing itself touched me deeply and the doctrine is so clearly laid out. Simply, thank you. Now, back to read it again.
Jerry WorthenApril 29, 2024
Is this going to be available to attend virtually? I live on the east coast.
Helmut A. WorleApril 28, 2024
This is only generally related to the subject: I was 17 when I investigated the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I can still recall pleading in my prayers "please do not send me an angel." I would have been very much afraid of such a visit.
Kathie RamptonApril 27, 2024
That was one of the most brilliant things I have ever read. I am sending it on to others. Thank you.
It is a faith strengthener
Duane BoyceApril 26, 2024
Great article! An important principle very well put. Thank you.
Abbie VianesApril 26, 2024
This was such a great article. I loved it. I know it but will write down the Really Really important questions and review them and recommit my intent and desire to grow in them. Thank you so very much. I can say I have since I joined the Church wanted to spend an hour inside the Saviors heart and another in His mind to hear His thoughts and feelings. And try to shift mine to His.
Jenny SvendsenApril 23, 2024
Thank you from deep within my heart for that wonderful uplifting article! As I was readingit, all of a sudden I found myself talking o our 43 year old son, who passed away 5 y6 years ago, when he passed, he came to me and has visited me several times since. My husband has feelings that he is 'on the way', he had a tumoulteous life, into drugs etc. Our other 2 sons also use drugs and alcohol, and this article helped me realize that 'heavenly Father is on their case' and when the time is right, we will see how He has gided them, as He did my husband, it's all in His hands and timing.
NicoleApril 23, 2024
Thank you for writing this. We have a couple "Daves" in our family, this article gives me hope for them.
Linda WestoverApril 22, 2024
These were some very helpful suggestions. I especially loved the idea of sending paper hugs. Just "showing up", whether in person or on paper, gives the Spirit opportunity to move us forward toward the next step of ministering.
Thanks for addressing this topic. We can all improve.
BonnieApril 22, 2024
Thank you so much. Our son passed away unexpectedly as a young adult 25 years ago. I can still feel how much it meant to me to have friends show up. It was such a wonderful example to me what to do for others. One of my sisters had passed away a few years before and her sweet daughter came and said "my mother sent me". What a blessing for me to hear that. A wonderful article, thank you again.
Corey D.April 21, 2024
Eloquently expressed, thank you and thank you for your defense and testimony of a prophet.
Craig FrogleyApril 19, 2024
Thank you, Joseph! This was so well written, as usual!! This meshes so well with the Words of Mormon-Small Plates- lost 116 pages story. I have been an admirer of your work for so many years...it is so good to see you in print again and hear that TOSA is still instrumental in saving so many!!
Holly DudleyApril 19, 2024
This story really hit home to me as I have a granddaughter who is a meth addict & is presently serving time in jail for theft. She has 2 children & a significant “ other”, Who loves her, but struggles with the ups & downs of not only her addiction, but also her bipolar disorder. My daughter does all she can to help but is very discouraged. This story is a story of hope that they all need to hear. Thank you for sharing it.
HelenCApril 19, 2024
Once again the Spirit has put an article I need in front of me. As we approach our 30th wedding anniversary I find myself bombarded with messages that tell me Father is intimately aware of my ex-RM’s 35 year journey in the “wilderness” of agnosticism. I know He hasn’t given up, so I don’t need to, either.
Rochelle HaleApril 19, 2024
What an amazing work you do! Thank you for sharing. Many years ago we visited family friends in another state. On Sunday all they could do was tell us over and over that we had to meet so-and-so at church. During the meetings, we saw no one out of the ordinary. As we were leaving, our friends pointed across the room to the man they had been telling us about. He did not stand out. He was clean and dressed nicely. This experience has stayed with me over 40 years because I felt our friends (and perhaps their ward members) were looking back to where this brother had come from and what he had overcome instead of where he was and his future potential.
Lisa ReisingApril 19, 2024
Thank you for this writing Brother Petersen. I also stand with Brother Brigham despite all his perceived failings by our current sensitivities, because I surely have more of those failings and hope to be afforded some mercy for intent of the heart. I'm so grateful we have the snippets of primary sources available to us - to those who dig - to shed light on what some tend to twist up for character assassination.
CubbyApril 19, 2024
Interesting article. I especially appreciated reading “Its nothing to do with the blood,” replied President Young, “for of one blood has God made all flesh.”
Gladd the world has changed.
Angela WalkerApril 18, 2024
You did it again Brother Grenny! Your life’s work is incredible! Thank you :)
HelenCApril 18, 2024
Sweet friends, I have been searching for a better head-heart connection as my ADHD just seems to make meditation impossible! Your story has pointed me more earnestly towards a spiritual approach. Thank you, again!
Linda WestoverApril 18, 2024
The Lord truly is in the details of our lives, even when it takes us a while to recognize His hand! Thanks for this tender story of your experience in learning "Be still and know that I am God."
RobinApril 18, 2024
This was such a beautiful post! I am so grateful that you are sharing your experiences from your mission! I’ll be thinking about the lost key fob for a long time. What a sweet blessing-actually many blessings! Thank you, Elder and Hermana Proctor!
Jeanette SmithApril 18, 2024
Those missionaries are so lucky to have you there. The mission leaders must be extático as well.
Pat HealyApril 17, 2024
Thank You for this wise and informative article. I wish every parent and young person could read it. I couldn't agree more about the need for face to face interaction for all ages. I personally have never signed up for any type of social media. I've always thought it to be a counterfeit in-the-way of genuine communication; as well as a waste of time.
Thank you again. You are a wise woman!
VivienApril 17, 2024
These last words were so touching and beautiful to read. Thank you
Tressy BrownApril 17, 2024
So nicely done! Thank you for sharing the video with us.
Richard ChristensenApril 17, 2024
I really enjoyed Meg Stout's book - Reluctant Polygamist: Joseph Smith Jr. I found it very faith-promoting.
Jenny SvendsenApril 17, 2024
Thank you so much for sharing your esperiences. Regarding fb...I have cut down drastically on fb, I like it because I can read articles andother good uplifting words from church leaders, I like keeping in touch with my real life friends, I do need to learn how to delete ads and other things. I also had the thought, that when the Saviour comes again, I wouldn't want to be caught on fb.
LewisApril 17, 2024
This article, and the story that forms the basis for your article, is quite thought-provoking. In many ways, I think this i one of your best. I am afraid we all too often swim with the crocodiles, knowing they are lurking, but believing we are invincible. While we can innocently swim in dangerous waters, all too often we do so intentionally, somehow hoping for divine protection.
KathleenApril 16, 2024
And thus we see that by small means the Lord can bring about great things. Thank you for pointing out the treasures in this small book.
KathleenApril 16, 2024
Beautifully inspiring!
Monica ChamberlandApril 16, 2024
Hello, I read and I want to thank you very much for sharing your talents and thoughts which have inspired me also very much!
Thank you!
Monica
KarenApril 16, 2024
Beautiful words. Beautiful poem. I just read Jarom's book and now I appreciate it even more. Thank you!
Steve DoneganApril 16, 2024
After your article listing the four books you mention here, I ordered them and read them. My Eternal Companion is reading them now. I’m getting to that point in age where I’ve given up on being the scholar I wish I was, so I read your articles with great enthusiasm. Thank you for studying so much and sharing what you’ve learned with us. You are appreciated.
Gary BealApril 16, 2024
WOW!! Wonderfully done. I don't remember Meridian doing anything like this before (but I'm a little slower in my old age). Thanks so much for the stunning video overlaid with the magnificent and inspiring counsel of the prophets and apostles.
Jean CalllisterApril 16, 2024
I side with your Mom -- I love your writings! When I see your name as author, my heart quickens and I feel excitement and expectation.
Thank you for endorsing Jarom. (His Mom thanks you too.) I loved your Ode to Jarom. Keep on keeping on. I will keep reading.
Steve DoneganApril 16, 2024
Sis. Linford, don’t think you’re a smaller author than Jarom! You are gratefully read and we’re lucky to have you. Thank you for penning your thoughts, especially on such an important subject.
ScottApril 16, 2024
Reestablishing intimacy after a trust violation brings up the issue of comparison: questions, is that how she did this, is that what he did to get your interest, did she wear perfume, did he …. These are the more inhibiting factors in regaining trust and interest.
Is it real or just a technique of lust?
Giving or receiving intimacy always has the question of how am I doing, was it good, did he do this or that, did she enjoy….
All these questions influence the affection and commitment or overcoming timidity and unabashed activity.
Comparison is the bomb!
Spencer MacdonaldApril 16, 2024
Thank you for this article. I have sometimes thought to myself that few of us are situated to speak as momentously as Nephi, Alma, Mormon, Moroni, etc. Instead, the Lord calls on most of us to do, as Alma put it, "small and simple things" by which "great things [are] brought to pass" (Alma 37:6). Chemish, for example, wrote a single verse in Omni 1:9. He did not set forth profound doctrine, but he maintained the continuity of the Nephite record.
Patsy SwinsonApril 15, 2024
This is typical of how the world at large chooses to depict the Church. Journalists put their negative spins on anything they don't like, don't agree with, or don't know squat about. Hopefully it will inspire curious readers to actually listen to the Conference talks and find out for themselves. There are some who criticize the Church no matter what it does or doesn't do because they are anti-religion in general.
Sasha KwapinskiApril 15, 2024
I venture to state that if this article had been about a conference of Hindus, Muslims, Buddhists, or about the Sikhs, Baha'is or Shintoists, it would have put forth a much different tune.
Neal ChristensenApril 15, 2024
The AP is just part of the Left's propaganda machine. None of the MSM could report on even a bread recipe without prejudice.
Lisa ReisingApril 13, 2024
This writing contains wonderful insights. I have sent it to a number of family members and friends, and in reviewing it again today can't believe there are no comments. Please don't stop sharing the insights you have learned through your work Brother Grenny. My big takeaway is that when I start to feel discouragement or despair, I need to repent and refocus my attention on the Master of the vineyard because He is indeed in charge and capable of doing His work. He will let me know how to help and where to put my efforts in assisting in HIS work. As Elder Kearon said last weekend - God wants each of us back more than we can possibly imagine and will patiently wait for our growth,
T NeiderApril 13, 2024
Wonderful, insightful article. Thank you!
AnnaApril 12, 2024
What a wonderful article!
And such inspiring work! I know of the excruciating waiting game from my own experience with ministering to those in need.. Thankfully the Lord directs my path also, but it's no less heart wrenching to go through the long stretch to see faithful prayers answered..
David AllenApril 12, 2024
For years my wife and I have had wonderful experiences with those who are working with the Other Side. We look for ways to increase our chance to donate to the Other Side, to hiring them to do work for us. They are always friendly, kind and considerate with us and those we refer them to do work for. Great program, - The lord is watching over each of them as they learn and grow from what they used to be to what they have become and are becoming. Just like all of us.
Love this program
Gayle WilsonApril 12, 2024
Wow! The insights into the book of Jacob has stunned me and expanded my understanding of the allegory of the olive tree that has given me a glimpse of an eternal perspective of God's work with His children. Thank you!
Bonnee B.April 12, 2024
This brought tears to my eyes. I have always known there was hope but never understood how it all worked. Thank you so much. I feel I have been doing the right thing by patiently waiting for promptings to action as I spend loving, supportive time with my adult children & grandchildren.
Lawrence BarryApril 12, 2024
Brother Grenny, my wife and I are most appreciative for your insights regarding wandering family members. 3 of our 5 children have left the church influencing most of our 32 grandchildren to also abandon the faith. Your inspiring article reinforced our resolve that our job is to love these precious dear ones and God’s job is to reclaim them. Again, thank you so very much for your wise counsel.
sdgApril 12, 2024
Thanks for sharing this incredible story. When I read Jacob 5 this month I saw how God works in our lives. He doesn't give up. He keeps working tirelessly. This article articulated this beautifully.
DH HamillApril 12, 2024
The insights to Zenos' allegory experienced and shared by the author are AWESOME. Thank you for this inspiring essay. I see this allegory in an entirely different light, now.
Holly HortonApril 11, 2024
This gives me validation. It explains what I can't quite verbalize to others. People who look at me like "Why do you say you are in so much pain? You should be moving on." I see a counselor mostly to have someone who tells me my grief is justified. Even in the grief I know it will get better eventually. I cling to Gordon B. Hinckley's words that "everything will work out." But SOMEDAY feels so far and things hurt now.
Mary-Rose McMullinApril 11, 2024
Thank you for this eloquent description. When our son died, I didn't want to keep living. I didn't think the pain would ever end. Slowly, in spurts, my bereft heart healed. But the grief was the also the path to growth and healing of old wounds. Our Father knolws our needs and send the trials we need. We can heal and grow as we turn to Him and come to know our Saviour.
AnnaApril 11, 2024
Thank you, Tanya, for sharing these sweet memories. I have been serving for a number of years as a mission nurse and have been privileged to work with several missionaries who are "on the spectrum." They ae truly special and wonderful souls who bless many lives.
RaLee HallApril 11, 2024
Kimberly,
Your prose reads like poetry. Your message was profound,it took my breath away. The artwork is fabulous. Thank you for posting this.
ReyLain BloxhamApril 11, 2024
I was so pleased to see Brother Gibbons name as a contributor today and thought maybe I was mistaken that he had passed away. His teaching has always touched me and I followed his work through the standard works. But sadly, he has passed away and I appreciate this reminder of his way of teaching. Thank you for pulling his lesson out of the archives and I look forward to each one!
LorraineApril 11, 2024
Wow. Beautifully and perfectly expressed. So accurate in its depiction. Thank you for putting into poignant words this oh so painful journey.
S LindsayApril 11, 2024
Oh how I love this beautiful article! I am bookmarking it to share so many times over with so many different people, now and in days to come. Thank you for putting words to feelings that seem so indescribable!
Mariah Proctor (author)April 10, 2024
@Jenny, if you're a longtime reader of Meridian, you may remember reading portions of the story from Terry's book as articles some time ago.
Terry MontagueApril 10, 2024
Great insights, Mariah! I enjoyed your article and am sharing it with friends.
Jenny SvendsenApril 10, 2024
Great article! Question: I feel like I have seen this before, but not on the big screen, could that be?
Claudia Henderson SmithApril 10, 2024
I don't live out West, so where will it be playing in the East especially Virginia? Will it be on any streaming services?
Catherine GardnerApril 10, 2024
My mum had first hand experience of WWII and she always said if you were American you could come and go as you please until 1941. I hope this movie gives a true account.
RobertApril 9, 2024
I thought President Hollands talk wasn't the normal President Holland talk. It was quite different which makes sense when you tie it back to his visit to the Spirit World, the instructions he was given, etc.
It was also great to see members of the 12 conducting conference sessions; and great to see that like us with health issues, they have them as well. Nobody is exempt!
Stephen M FennApril 9, 2024
"part of what I received was an admonition to return to my ministry with more urgency, more consecration, more focus on the Savior, more faith in his word."
It is certainly humbling, to me, that he returned with the imperative to step up his game in these ways. It's hard to think of another apostle who has spoken more persuasively about the Savior than Elder Holland during his ministry. If he has room for improvement, what does that say about our calling to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all places? Even when we think we are doing all we can, a loving Father tenderly entreats us to return and do a little better.
Julia BernardsApril 6, 2024
I agree that regardless of sexual orientation, all of us "will have a greater capacity for love, connection, and intimacy with others," the closer we are to God. I agree that love is the highest law, the greatest commandment, and the key to becoming like God. Having a society capable of fully extending Christ-like love to all regardless of sexual orientation or the factors that create sexual orientation would be amazing. Those are beautiful but broad strokes. What is harder for me to discern, even given the length of your letter, is what you are suggesting about how those who identify as sexual minorities live now. You caution against "the false dichotomies of [sexual] suppression or indulgence," which is fitting (for anyone). For heterosexual people in the LDS Church, the path for avoiding those false dichotomies is clear: monogamy and fidelity. Are you also suggesting monogamy and fidelity for homosexual folks? In the LDS Church marriage is the most touted God-ordained opportunity for us to practice the great commandment in this life. I think your focus on love is laudable, and also that you missed or skirted the painful points for LGB folks: 1) How, in this life, and while remaining in the Church, is it possible to avoid sexual repression or indulgence? 2) Why is a desire to practice the great commandment through a marital relationship unacceptable?
Kody L. ThurstonApril 5, 2024
Outstanding...kudos for this masterpiece. Of course, don't believe all the accolades as this may promote pride. Nevertheless, I thoroughly enjoyed your creativity, approach and including all of Screwtapes/Wormwoods tactics.
CubbyApril 5, 2024
As a teacher with an occasional irritating student, not to often but once in a while. isn't it a little humorous when Karma gets her turn?
Rich BowermanApril 5, 2024
Brother Peterson, thank you not only for this article but for the many posted on Meridian Magazine over the years. I have thoroughly enjoyed each and every one and always look forward to the next one! I am going to try and follow Sister Madsen's example also by finding something related to each Conference talk I can work on.
Rob ChappellApril 5, 2024
So full of quotable nuggets of truth! Thank you for dispelling so many common myths in such a clear and compassionate and empathetic way. This is a masterpiece on a very important topic for our time!
Scott LawApril 4, 2024
I think even C.S. Lewis himself might be proud. Nice job!
Mike MansfieldApril 4, 2024
Well said, Ty. You have eloquently set forth the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Thank you for your variance in understanding the Plan of Salvation that our Eternally Loving Father has provide for our blessing and benefit. May we all find the joy that Heavenly Father desires for us to have - in this life and in the next. Thank you!
Debbie LondonApril 4, 2024
It is never our place to judge; that is the Lord's. Nevertheless, we often confuse discernment with judgment. We want to discern safe spaces and safe people to be around. That said, I am a mother of a child who has strayed from gospel teachings. It is heartbreaking, and I wish he could understand how much our still loves him. Nevertheless, he was the Lord's before he was mine, and I hope someday to have an intact and eternal family. I was reminded of a 2023 Conference talk by Sister Tamara Runia. She recounted a time when her own actions were of concern to her parents. Her father said, "you don’t chase after your loved ones who feel lost. “You stay where you are and call them. You go to the tree, stay at the tree, keep eating the fruit and, with a smile on your face, continue to beckon to those you love and show by example that eating the fruit is a happy thing!”
ShaunaApril 4, 2024
Wow-- Br./Professor Mansfield, this was SO helpful and eye opening, and I absolutely respect your commitment to your faith and your willingness to set aside questions, concerns etc., and keep loving God, while navigating your life experiences. As you rightly point out, we all have to learn to trust Jesus Christ, whatever our circumstances...and we have to trust him one day at a time, as well as with eternity.
I appreciate all of your discussion of gender, sexual-orientation, identity etc. and particularly the idea that one is not "born gay," an idea that I had accepted to a certain extent, and the context you place them in of the restored gospel. Thank you so much for your incredibly insightful, heartfelt and faithful comments here. You have raised my sights here as you've sought to contemplate eternity and the nature of God
AnnetteApril 4, 2024
Whoa, that was a long letter. But then you didn't call it a note, did you, Ty? Beautiful. There is so much goodness there to digest. How will I ever get through all those links to studies, talks, etc.? Haha. Thanks for your faith and hope and the truths you shared about the nature of Godly love. May we all come to know God's way of loving better.
KarenApril 4, 2024
Thank-you so very, very much Ty, from the bottom of my 'heart that I knew needed to repent.' In all my years in Christ's church I have not been able to feel Christlike love and charity in the way I should, for ALL His children, to include sexual and gender minorities. Your words have turned me inward in my heart to a place Christ needs me to search and change as I enter His Temple and truely renew my covenants with Him.
Jessica WhitakerApril 4, 2024
Magnificent
LindsayApril 4, 2024
What a beautiful, compassionate, and masterfully composed perspective, backed by the moral authority of a life lived with integrity! Thank you for taking the time to articulate all of this for us!
AmberApril 4, 2024
Thank you for writing this. You put into words something I could not. I felt this and knew this but could never put it as eloquently as you did. Most of this info can be applied to members that find themselves divorced and single. It’s kind of crazy to me to think I could be similar to gay people. But that’s how it seems to go, we are all more connected and similar than we know. I truly believe that with all of my heart. We truly are just learning how to show the most love and respect possible. If we did that, I believe it would solve all the suffering in the world. Think about it, it’s truly an amazing concept! God is trying to teach us this type of love.
Douglas NadybalApril 4, 2024
This was far more than just an open letter to some guy named "David". For those of use who live out on the outer banks of suburbia where we are not on the front-lines of the constant social experimentation this was a real primer on how to act and behave when it comes our way. This was the next step, to love more, not less, to re-direct all of our conversations to a higher sphere. It's such a simple idea, really, I wonder why it never occurred to me? I've probably not been doing a good enough job and "Hearing Him", who created us all. If your goal in life is to really and truly get along well with everybody you can, then you will find this article useful, and that is the highest compliment I can give any writing.
Chip WhitmerApril 3, 2024
The general framework of the modern endowment was summarized by Lehi in the Book of Mormon, published long before Kirtland or Nauvoo. In 2 Nephi 1:10, Lehi describes blessings of knowledge that the Nephites had received, including specific knowledge about the creation of the earth, and about the "great and marvelous works of the Lord" after the creation, and about "all the commandments from the beginning." Lehi even echoes our modern phrase "endowed with power from on high," when he says the Nephites had "power given them [from the hand of the Lord] to do all things by faith."
Pam Rhodes HarrisApril 2, 2024
I had the pleasure of serving in the ASBYU Women’s Office in 1980-1981 as the Secretary. Sister Kapp was our Advisor. She spent so much time with us and helped us be able to do great things. We had Sister Kimball come speak, President Kimball came too and we had a luncheon with this amazing couple. Sister Barbara B Smith General Relief Society President also came and spoke. President Jeffrey Holland was in his 1st yeas as Pres of BYU. We held a Women’s Conference, that was the beginning of todays Women’s Conference. She helped us meet snd associate with the many Women leaders at BYU and in Church leadership. She taught us that we could do anything we put our minds and worked to do. She is an amazing leader and truly showed us love.
Robert David StarlingApril 1, 2024
I LOVE BYU, and I love President Holland's admonition to the faculty and staff to return to and preserve the unique nature of the Lord's University. Like many alumni, I have been concerned for years about the creeping descent of many at BYU toward the creepiness of the World. I was delighted and encouraged to hear (then) Elder Holland call the creepers to repentance.
There are two kinds of people in the world - those who listen to the prophets' voices and obey God's commandments, and those who embrace the "natural man" and sit in the Great and Spacious Building, mocking those who cling to the iron rod. Let them mock. We know their ultimate destiny.
But that attitude has no place at BYU. If the mockers don't "feel welcome" on that sacred campus, there are plenty of other places they can to to gain a university education where they will be more "comfortable".
I was privileged to attend another major well-respected college in the turbulent 1960's, before I transferred to BYU. I say "privileged", because it enabled me to see the contrast between the two institutions. It helped me to fully appreciate the "spirit of the Y".
I produced the first student film at BYU for class credit, in 1971. It was a campus romance called "Ice Cream and Elevators", intended to portray the BYU campus experience in that era. We submitted it to a film festival in San Francisco. I received a call from one of the judges who said that if the movie accurately depicted the BYU campus lifestyle, he wanted to send his daughter there!
Later in life as a father, I was able to send two of my own daughters there, with confidence that the "spirit of the Y" still permeated the campus. My prayer is that Elder Holland's talk will bring that spirit back, and quickly. It's time for my granddaughter to go to college.
Sasha KwapinskiApril 1, 2024
Many in today's society have confused love with relativism. As a Latter-day Saint, I am proud to be a member of a faith which recognizes that distinction and does not give in to that manner of confusion.
JoeApril 1, 2024
The truth hurts! That is all I can say. As true followers of Christ we need to stand up strong against the evil teaching of the world. You are who you are . If you want to act against the laws of God, it’s your choice . God will not change His laws, ever. He does wants us to show compasión, love and understanding but doesn’t want us to support more the evil ideas of our society. Stand on holy ground, repent , have faith and you will find happiness..remember God never walks away from us, WE move away from Him, and the consequences will have to be paid by us alone..
SD K'sApril 1, 2024
Our family has loved this story as well and continue to watch the video the Church produced of it. We used the video as the main "movie" at a Primary drive-in movie and even used the story as basis for a YW camp shadow puppet show, which our family repeated over Zoom during covid to show to other families in our ward. We do have a good feeling when continue to hear this good story!
ShaunaApril 1, 2024
Thank you. I heartily concur with you and I also wept as I listened to president Holland's talk (as acting President of the Quorum of the 12 , he is indeed "President Holland", but I always called him that as he was president of BYU when I was there). As he states no one loves BYU more than he does, but I love it too
I have learned that when there is controversy surrounding a talk, essay whatever, to make sure to read the actual talk/essay myself. You are spot on in stating that outraged persons had not read, or more importantly, listened to the actual talk, but were merely reactionary, or actually looking to be offended.
BYU's board of directors, include our prophet, President Nelson, and 4 other apostles as well as other leaders of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and are accountable to God. BYU absolutely must put that loyalty first or in my opinion, can't justify its existence and it's huge dependence on tithing funds.
Both of my children are there now and I thank God for President Holland and President Reese and the course corrections that are being made there.
thank you for your article
AEatonApril 1, 2024
What a wonderful article. Shouldn't BYU administration and faculty be concerned that this is at least the fourth time this topic has been addressed? I currently have two children attending BYU and this is a concern they talk about regularly. It is a tough balance, but it is one of the reasons that students choose BYU over other universities.
VjApril 1, 2024
This talk was just an excuse for those lying in wait to use as pretext for jumping on the out of control woke wagon at byu);
Tracey GrowApril 1, 2024
Thank you. I also cried when I watched Elder Holland give this talk. I could feel his love for BYU, the gospel, the Lord, Jesus Christ and his love for all of God's children.
SfischApril 1, 2024
Well said. Loved and appreciated Elder Hollands talk. It was timely and inspirational. As an alumni I have been heart sick with all the controversy happening at BYU. It was time to take a stand and Elder Holland gracefully did just that.
Abbie VianesMarch 29, 2024
I highly suggest neurofeedback for trauma as it can heal ptsd. Be sure to get a technician using the Othmer method as it has over 20 years of research behind it. I am a trained professional counselor and trained as a neurofeedback provider. It truly is amazing. It is not yet covered by most insurance and can be pricey but the outcomes are so phenomenal.
Debbi M.March 29, 2024
We had that horrible, relationship strain yrs ago with our 17 year old daughter. She was so oppositional that she was placed at an adolescent hospital treatment facility.. Insurance paid but determined she could be moved to a residential facility, which insurance was not going to pay for and a long waiting period...She did outpatient for a while. She was rather a black hole in our family with our other children getting pretty resentful of her. We more or less just waited her out until she was18 and left for a few years--also sad. She did get somewhat better, but had several pregnancies--one adoption and two she kept, both by different dads. As she got older, we butted heads and she lived with us solely because of her kids.She was not de pressive, but did try one time to take an overdose of aspirin. Fortunately we could get support from our friends and family. Please know you are not alone, and take care of your marriage because spouses are also hurting, and our marriage needs to come first. I remember so many sleepless nights waiting for her to come home, and sometimes wishing she wouldn't! Mostly praying so so much that she would not harm herself or others.
Anonymous to protect my child's privacyMarch 29, 2024
What a timely post this is! My husband and I just placed our 17-year-old daughter into residential treatment a few days ago. While she is specifically in treatment for an eating disorder, we have faced many of the same sorts of issues this poster mentions--a past trauma, unsafe behavior, bouts of suicidal behavior, prior hospitalizations, years of outpatient therapy that haven't worked, etc. We were also facing the fact that our daughter becomes an adult very soon and we needed to do something before it was too late.
The road of getting her into this treatment was one of the most difficult things I have ever gone through, even after many years of extremely difficult and intense parenting challenges. What helped me most was having an excellent therapist for ME. My therapist has provided strong support, has been a safe place to land while sorting through complex options and my own complicated emotions, and most importantly, she has held me accountable to myself each step of the way. She told me that it was time to disengage my heart and engage my mind and my will to see this through. Of course I love my daughter with all my heart, but my emotions were blinding me to the realities of what was needed and keeping me from doing what was best for her.
I also want to say that God has been very close to me over the past few months as my husband and I made and carried out this decision. I have been on my knees constantly--sometimes multiple times a day--pleading for direction, peace, and the ability to do hard things, and those prayers have been answered 100-fold. I have fasted and spent time in the temple. We have had family, close friends, and ward leadership praying for us and keeping our names on the temple prayer roll. I have seen literal miracles happen as roadblocks in this process that felt insurmountable melted away so that this could happen--financial roadblocks, roadblocks in terms of gaining our daughter's cooperation, etc. All of these big and small miracles have helped me know we made the right decision, this is where she needs to be, and it will all be okay in the end.
Sami V.March 27, 2024
I just wanted to write to thank you for your clear and in depth analysis of this book I am not a member of the LDS church so am not knowledgeable about any of this. I heard about this book because of all the recent court documents release with Ruby Franke and Jodi H. and apparently the book greatly influenced Jodi. I found this site because I was trying to find out about this book, not just reviews from a site selling it. You did a good job comparing it to other books and beliefs and showing the issues. I just wanted to commend you for such a deep diving article and tell you how I valued it, even if we have different beliefs. Thanks again.
Ron BarnesMarch 27, 2024
That talk by Elder Wirthlin was one of my favorites that I've ever heard. It's one of the few that I have recorded and kept in my files. There are many Sundays that I'm waiting for, not just because of death, but because of other griefs I've experienced in life. For me, the meaning goes well beyond just the resurrection, but to other aspects of life that are hard to bear. The day will come when we will be relieved of all of them.
David A. HickenMarch 27, 2024
Thank you, Brother Woodruff. Thank you, Sister Clayton. We all need reminded of this in our lives.
Rochelle HaleMarch 27, 2024
A few days ago we met a new neighbor. The ladies who live on either side of me were explaining "This person is a police officer, this is a fireman, this one has children close in age to yours, this one does...." I offered a few comments. Then one friend turned to me and said to our new neighbor, "And [my] home is where you go if you need food.
Rochelle HaleMarch 27, 2024
I am sorry for your recent losses. My mother passed away in February after 6-7 weeks of hospitalization. In the beginning we never expected her to be taken from life, but suffering was unbearable, and we prayed mightily for release in some form. As difficult as losing her was, we were calm and at peace that she was free from her horrific ordeal and safe "at home" in the arms of loved ones. Our joy was increased upon learning we only had to wait 30 days to begin her temple ordinances.
Elizabeth RichardsonMarch 27, 2024
Is this the whole story? He went to change his underwear?
JaniceMarch 26, 2024
Brother Goddard, I would love to know more about your file of greatest phrases about the doctrine of redemption. A few examples of how you did it. That sounds like a great way to study the Book of Mormon.
Valiant JonesMarch 26, 2024
What a testimony of our value and worth in Christ's eyes! This is so appropriate at this Easter time.
Mary-Rose McMullinMarch 25, 2024
Thanks for sharing these sweet experiences. My husband and I have just submitted our mission papers and we need to find the right family to rent our home and care for our pets and yard. We needed the reminderof your counsel to pray specifically with faith for our needs. It's such a blessing to know of our Father's love and direction.
gregoMarch 25, 2024
Dan, the books Supernature and Beyond Supernature (both by Lyall Watson) might interest you. They are old, but still good and insightful.
Laurie RuizMarch 24, 2024
I so enjoyed this article, after reading about the lives of the grandparents of Josiah Quincy (President John Adams and his wife Abigail), in David McCullough's book John Adams and Edith Gelles book Abigail and John. Then I stumbled upon your article, and am so happy to know that the grandson of John and Abigail met the prophet Joseph Smith. Loved the comment someone made that the Book of Mormon given to Josiah Quincy was prized enough to have a place in the Adams Family home.
Gail GibbsMarch 22, 2024
Thank you Scott and Maureen.
Your mission reports bring tears.
I can relate to the pull of the Spirit of Elijah. That is what helped me be baptized in 1966.
Still doing T&FH in ward, stake and FSCenter. Been to P.R.
a few times to visit son Spencer in Metro ward. Can relate to
cinder block, wiring and road system. Can also relate to seminary where I did an online group to the boonies of Indiana Pennsylvania. I also did not see who I was teaching. Just put up materials. It was before zoom. Have been following you two since you spotlighted me at Humans of Rootstech in 2018. Keep up the wonderful work you are doing. Yes, the Gospel is true!!!
Peggy StallingsMarch 21, 2024
Those songs were so beautifully ethereal and uplifting. They touched my soul, and resonated with my spirit, like I had heard them before in Heaven. I shared them online, and hope they will touch others as they did me. Thank you for sharing your gifts of light.
LewisMarch 21, 2024
Sometimes we get so caught up in the outward manifestations of faithfulness that we forget that the power of the gospel manifests itself in the quiet acts of service. I am grateful for your ability to use stories to teach us the truths of the gospel. Please keep writing. These stories cause me to pause, to reflect, to ponder and to change.
Ron BarnesMarch 21, 2024
I’ve been reading about this for decades, and there is one prospect that I have never seen postulated. Perhaps the universe we live in is the only one possible. Even if there are other universes, it might be that they all have the same universal laws, because there is only viable set.
KarenMarch 20, 2024
Thank you Casey for sharing your expression of tender thoughts about this important exchange. I too feel great gratitude for the members of the Community of Christ who have faithfully followed the peaceful example of Joseph III, and have been good stewards over these precious historical sites and artifacts these many years. I feel for their sense of loss at this transfer, and hope they will feel our gratitude and support. We can yet learn a great deal from one another, and benefit from the goodwill that has been shown through this exchange. Kind regards to all those affected by this transaction, and it is my prayer that we will continue to build a strong relationship of love with our dear brothers and sisters in the Community of Christ.
Ron BarnesMarch 20, 2024
While all this is interesting, it’s missing one vital component. The Book of Mormon is a Jewish work intended for Jewish readers. In Hebrew, numbers have meaning. Peter asked Jesus if he should forgive his brother up to seven times. In Hebrew, the number seven stands for “completeness.” Peter was asking if he forgive seven times would he complete his efforts. By the same token, the number one stands for “unity, undividable.” “… a man… shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” In other words, “they shall be united, undividable.” Jesus told the Jews, “My Father and I are one”, or “My Father and I are united and undividable.” To the Jews, this made him equal to the Father, which is why they accused him of blasphemy. The Nephites understood that the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are not different magnifications of the same being, but rather three beings that are united and undividable.
Ann-Marie JensenMarch 20, 2024
Thank you for sharing your insight. I enjoyed this look from the other side.
JeffMarch 20, 2024
Thank you for sharing this personal story of a church leader's selfless example worth emulating.
NealMarch 19, 2024
I've always found it interesting that those who consider themselves as experts on the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, are not and never have been members.
Geri CampbellMarch 19, 2024
Nice one, Daris!
Stephen & Marcia WestMarch 19, 2024
Wish a transcript were provided.
Doris WilliamsMarch 19, 2024
Oh my goodness, thank heaven for people like "your leader" in the world who go way and beyond expectations to teach us all. Thank you for sharing this, Becky. I know from experience that anything that comes from Sister Douglas is worth paying attention to, since I know you have already sifted through the chaff! Your and your husband's life is so amazing. I included your article on love and the little things your husband did to demonstrate his love for you in my weekly email to our large family. Bless you all.
JenMarch 19, 2024
I agree 100% with Mickey's comment. You need to seek help from a professional therapist. You may need to go to several to find a good fit. I know someone who lived in a similar circumstance. Communication was futile until her husband realized that he needed to change. I pray you can find the help you need to improve this toxic situation for you and your children.
Richard GarrisonMarch 19, 2024
What a wonderful and inspirational example of a true "servant leader", Christ-like in every way! Thanks so much for sharing Becky. You made my day!!
D. NantoMarch 18, 2024
Beautifully done. Thanks for sharing.
John RogersMarch 18, 2024
Scott, I am always amazed and gratified and blessed by your photo essays... From Nauvoo to the shores of Bountiful, your photography always brings added light! Thank you.
Stefanie EskanderMarch 18, 2024
Your observations are so true! It's such a shame that the "Opression Olympics" seems to be an international sport.
HelenCMarch 18, 2024
This warmed my heart and had me back to the 1830s, seeing and feeling all our beloved founders went through. They truly were a magnificent bunch!
Glen WilliamsMarch 18, 2024
Amen and Amen
Daphne Bushman KessingerMarch 18, 2024
Thank you for your beautiful photos & touching historical notations on these wonderful Nauvoo sites. My husband & I loved visiting them often when we served our amazing 6 month mission in Nauvoo Temple .
MickeyMarch 17, 2024
Dear Sister, you are being horribly abused. Please look up narcissistic abuse and find a therapist for yourself without your husband present. It’s is not safe to attend therapy with your abuser. He has manipulated you into you taking ownership for his abusive behaviors. You and your kids deserve better than this.
Doris WilliamsMarch 16, 2024
Oh my goodness, we are so grateful to you Scot for your photo essays over the years...to be up close to these precious, sacred sites is a sacred experience in itself. You and Maureen just continue to amaze with your total dedication to Jesus Christ and his precious restored Church and with Meridian.
Chuck DeWitMarch 15, 2024
Great photos and comments. They lived hard lives. Thanks for mentioning Church History Photos in the app.
Claudia Henderson SmithMarch 15, 2024
Great photo essay, Scot!! I always love seeing your photos and reading the text. I learned a lot. I hope I get to go to Nauvoo soon.
GeorgeMarch 14, 2024
I do not see in your article where you explain the difference between love and charity except in degree. Which of the 15 attributes for charity are absent from the attributes of love.
Is not the need for all those attributes present for both love and charity?
Why cannot you feel love for all men? Every conference we have the speakers express love for each of us even though they have never met us. Are they mistaken in their feelings and should I ignore their good feelings and wishes for me?
It would seem there is no difference except in degree.
Karla BurkhartMarch 13, 2024
You are doing a fantastic job and have, in my estimation, always been a great writer from childhood. My love and wishes continue with you always.
Harold RustMarch 13, 2024
One of the special rewards that comes from reading articles by you and your parents is that a person like me can imagine your being a neighbor or a member of my ward or a close friend----a real person---rather than some distant distinguished scholar. As such, one request I would make of you, my friends, is for a pathway (a website or email address?) to submit some short article which you just might publish if it met the high standards you expect for whatever you do include in Meridian. Every now and again I write something for my family or my own journal that I think could be of value and insightfully inspirational for your readers. Thanks.
Valiant JonesMarch 13, 2024
Thank you. You are doing a great work and carrying on an important legacy.
James WorkmanMarch 13, 2024
I attended a writing class with Orson Scott Card in Virginia, and I believe you attended that same class with your mother. I had not begun to read from the Meridian web site yet but started to be an avid reader shortly thereafter. The website has matured and the topics and articles are top notch. I now read every day from the web site. I am acquainted with many of your contributors. Thank you for the very professional effort in bringing top notch "experts" to discuss relevant issues, and doctrinal subjects. (It sure is fun to "watch" your parents on their mission to Puerto Rico).
Jim ScottMarch 13, 2024
I caught some of the intrepid feelings of a mom approaching you to assume a leading role in a most cherished project. I thought about the discussion your mom and dad had in considering the assignment and the enormous trust in you for them.
I’ve been a reader for years and have enjoyed doing so.
Congratulations for your successes and growth.
Claudia Henderson Calissie SmithMarch 13, 2024
As usual, a great article. Watching you grow up in person and from a distance has been a joy. You definitely take after your mom’s writhing ability. Thanks for sharing!
Janna MorrellMarch 13, 2024
Mariah, I have loved reading this darling (if not daring) piece on what it is like to be with Meridian as a writer, associate editor as well as daughter of the publishers! I often wonder how it would be to be in [any of] these positions and also think about the day to day goings on of publishing such a long-lived, well received journal. This was delightful and I could have read much further, in the early morning hours as I recover from back surgery, as your stories to be told were surely only scraping the surface!
I enjoyed the bangs incident, becoming known as “the girl who walked” and knowing that people like you actually do read the comments and can be affected as you must sift though the debris! In a world of online anonymity, I’m not too surprised but still sorry for the sadness you’ve endured from irate commenters.
Candidly, I read one thing here I felt was misplaced in this magazine but, during these last four or so years have proven that we all can be wrong about pretty much everything and I’ve had to do much soul searching and prayer to find more solid ground on a few subjects.
I love yours and your parents articles and have come to appreciate even some differing viewpoints of your many authors. It’s been a wonderful journey as I’ve laughed, cried, resonated with, and shared many an article with my family or friends.
Thanks for the journey!
KaplinMarch 12, 2024
If prayer involves reconciling our will to God's, maybe more of our faithful prayers get answered than we think. To me it seems Jesus's prayer WAS answered. Yes, He prayed if possible let this cup pass, but then further prayed: NEVERTHELESS, not my will but thine be done. So that latter phrase was His overriding ask--thy will be done. And that ask was answered, because it was not possible to let the cup pass and still redeem Father's children. When we really see prayer as finding out what the Father wants for us and having courage to go with it, then are any truly faithful prayers are unanswered?
Corey D.March 11, 2024
Much of what is being said in society about race and racism and prejudice is media driven, hyperbole to get attention. Some years ago I asked a fellow who lived down the street from me and was black a question regarding racism, his reply I have always remembered, he said, "yes racism exists, I would be wrong to say it didn't, are there those who use racism as an excuse or blame something on racism that wasn't, sure there are, I will tell you this though, there is a whole class of poor white people in this country that nobody cares about", that's from a black person. The racial divide is not as great or big as it's portrayed in the media and by certain groups as being, my experience and the experience of others is that most people get along.
Ginger ElshireMarch 11, 2024
Beautiful
SallyMarch 10, 2024
Thank you for putting the importance of this acquisition into perspective. The Lord has created a way for the Church to acquire it at this time. How blessed we are. We will sing and shout!
Marcy FowkesMarch 9, 2024
I remember that night, as we were waiting in the stadium for the performance to start, it started raining. Just a bit to start, We came prepared with umbrella's, the family behind us had a plastic sheet for their cover! We thought we had it handled pretty well until it became literally a torrential downpour. We retreated under the stands to wait it out. All of us drenched but hopeful it would pass so we could celebrate the wonderful new temple we were being given. I took videos of the storm and it was a downpour! Suddenly someone yelled, " Everyone, we're having a prayer! Let's pray that this storm will stop so the kids can perform!" We all knelt down, ( on the cement, drenching wet, under the stadium). Humbly. The spirit was like electricity as someone said the prayer. I couldn't really even hear it because of the pounding of the rain and the amount of people packed under that stadium, kneeling in prayer, but I could feel it and the power of the faith of each of us praying for this miracle. It didn't happen immediately, but gradually the rain subsided and then stopped, We took our wet seats with gratitude in our hearts for God's tender mercies. We knew we had just witnessed a miracle.
At the end of the performance, the kids became a rainbow in the stands, representing the token of the covenant God made with Noah. I felt it was so appropriate to us that the rainbow ( the kids) appeared, after that terrible storm, as a token to us of the covenants we would now be able to make with Him in our new temple. . It was definitely a God thing. He has a way of doing amazing things like that. I'm so glad I was there and got to be part of the wonderful celebration of the Payson Temple that night. I will never forget it.
Keith HansenMarch 8, 2024
Thank you for the photos, the history and the marvelous words.
GerryMarch 8, 2024
I found out that Heavenlly Father can deliver pizza after I had back surgery years ago. I was laying in bed watching a small black & white TV that was sitting on a chair by my bedside. An advertisement came on for pizza and I thought wouldn't that taste wonderful. About a 1/2 hour later there was a knock at the door and it opened by my friend Lou who called out my name and said she brought me a pizza. And she wanted me to eat it now before the kids got home from school. I was amazed then and still am as I consider this event.
Claudia Henderson SmithMarch 8, 2024
How did you get to take pictures inside? When we were there, the guide told us no pictures inside.
Traci WalkerMarch 8, 2024
Oh, I love your photos, Scot, and thank you both for putting all of these glorious visitations in one place for me to share with my family. It was truly a pentecostal outpouring of the spirit, and how blessed we are as a church to accept custody of this building now, a building that has seen and heard things unparallelled in history of the world. Thank you, Community of Christ, for saving it from wreck and ruin.
Bonnee B.March 8, 2024
I used to wonder why God made a point of saying that he created man, "male & female created he them". . . it seemed so obvious, but now I know why that was such an important statement. . .
Bonnee B.March 8, 2024
Wonderful news! I grew up on the west side of Cleveland, prayer led to me to go to BYU to find "the true gospel of Jesus Christ" & I received my own beautiful confirmation that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is indeed the true church of Jesus Christ. Returning to Cleveland, married & raising children, we visited Kirtland, became friends with Karl Anderson & were thrilled when our church began restoring the city. We loved seeing the Temple at that time but there was something missing there then - it was the warm comfort of the Holy Ghost that accompanied the other sights owned by our church. It will make a difference when visitors come to see the Kirtland Temple now & it will once again be a House of the Lord. I am in Utah now, Would love to go see it again. So happy.
Helen WilliamsonMarch 7, 2024
Bless Apostle Mackay for his sweet, honest sharing of his grieving and his hope. It is important to honor the past, live in the present and prepare for the future. He seems to be doing all three. Thank you brother Mackay and to all those who did not make this decision lightly.
MaralynMarch 7, 2024
Thankyou for the details of which I have never heard. I felt like I had witnessed it myself!
Bradley KramerMarch 6, 2024
A timely and important article. Thank you.
MaryAnneMarch 6, 2024
I can't tell you how much I enjoyed these videos! They were so inspiring and heartwarming. Thank you! Thank you!
David SylvesterMarch 6, 2024
One of the most heart-warmimg announcements in decades and one we will never forget!! We have witnessed another incredible miracle!!
JuliannMarch 6, 2024
This is of utmost importance. If we believe we stand as a witness for God at all times, in all things, and in all places then we must stand up in defense of Gods greatest creations— men and women. We are not “it’s”. We are not of our own creation. We are sons and daughters of God.
Tanya NeiderMarch 6, 2024
Wonderful news!
Bob MartinMarch 6, 2024
Another final jigsaw puzzle piece has come until we have the final picture is exposed.Heavenly Father and our Savior are in control. Great news
Mary TarbetMarch 5, 2024
Shar S Please note that on October 7, atrocities were committed against innocent Israeli babies, women and children by Hamas, a well-known terrorist regime. Please note Hamas used and continues to use hospitals, schools, daycare facilities and hotels as a base of operations. Please note that Hamas will not release the hostages- those that are still alive - including babies and children and women. What will stop them from pursuing the same type of government with horrendous policies unless they are gone? Who voted them into office? The people living in Gaza. They know who they are. They knew about the tunnels. Both young and old celebrated the actions of those October 7. Israel deserves and is entitled to defend itself.
MaryannMarch 5, 2024
There has never been an article that makes it more clear that it is imperative that we close our borders. I have also read that the United States is the biggest consumer of child sex slavery. How much worse do things have to get before we CLOSE the borders?! The crime that has escalated in our nation is sickening. Ranchers in our border states have had to move because of the vandalism of their property from illegal aliens. I recently watched an interview with an older rancher who refuses to be driven off of his land, even though other ranchers have given up and left. The government ignores it's own citizens and allows this criminal activity to continue. How can anyone support this? YES! Know what is going on, do not be naive, and protect our children.
MaryannMarch 5, 2024
I, too, have awaited this day and I am thrilled! This article reminds us of the miraculous revelatory experiences that took place in the Kirtland Temple. I have loved reading about the dedication, the presence of angels, and the powerful Spirit of the Lord that was felt by the Saints, both in the temple, and as they visited house to house. Of course, the most important and sacred event was the appearance of the Savior in the temple, and other heavenly messengers committing Priesthood keys. We live in a day of continued restoration, and this is certainly one of those great days.I am so thankful that the temple has been restored to us. Much love and thanks to the Community of Christ. I am happy that the two churches work together in harmony.
MaryannMarch 5, 2024
Many of us have been in this situation at one time or another. As members of Christ's church, we want to make things right with others. We want forgiveness, healing and reconciliation. We want to tie up things with a nice bow. If the other people involved are unwilling to discuss, or to forgive, we feel stuck. As difficult as it may be, often, we just need to accept the current situation, forgive ourselves, drop our burden at the Savior's feet, and focus on living our lives in loving, positive ways. One thing that can help is to pray for those who will not forgive and put their names on the temple prayer roll. Continuing to agonize over the situation will only cause more pain. This is a time for patience and trusting the Lord.
JimMarch 5, 2024
Terrific. Thank you for this series.
ShaunaMarch 5, 2024
thank you Bari Weiss, for your bravery in the face of cultural elitism and it's misguided "gods." You have helped open my eyes
Bob SpielMarch 5, 2024
Maurine, thank you for the extensive quotes from her speech. She is spot on in her analysis. Her online magazine, thefp.com, is eye opening. I don't agree with all she has on there, but the perspectives are very well thought out.
Charles RichardsMarch 5, 2024
Thank you Maurine for lifting up Bari Weiss’s voice on your channel. We follow her The Free Press and follow you and Scott
Helmut A. WorleMarch 5, 2024
Thank You for posting this. Question: Why post this article in an LDS magazine? Because one could easily exchange Jew for LDS. We, too, have come from a history of persecution and are wont to think that this is all in the past. I am afraid I see the shadows on the horizon. Bad times may come for us also. If we now do not help Jews, who is going to help us?
Joel MarksMarch 5, 2024
What we all know is there is no freedom without sacrifice. Think of Trenton, Valley Forge and Washington!
Shar SMarch 5, 2024
I like Weiss. I also understand the history of Israeli policies, studying them for a long time and visiting Israel and Palestine and seeing for myself. Our world will not be free until we truly treat each other as equals. It is not anti semitic to disagree and protest against government policies. I believe the policies of Israel toward Palestinians have gone beyond what is humane. There are words by Israelis themselves that show they believe in ethnic cleansing. There are Jewish historians who argue this as well. Israel has broken international law. I believe you are charging people for being antisemitic who may just be protesting Israeli policy.
PennieMarch 5, 2024
The Latter-day Saints are of the house of Israel and are connected to the Jewish people. We too have suffered pogroms in our history. The doctrines of the church are under attack. Thank God for apostles and prophets.
Laura LesebergMarch 4, 2024
This will help me so much for my lesson tomorrow! I was very excited to see this.
Not only that, but dear Newell is my cousin & I’m always glad to hear from him!
LaurieMarch 4, 2024
How heartbreaking! To Elder Chappell's family and friends: Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers go out to you. ❤️
Leon LeavittMarch 4, 2024
Thanks so much for this insight as it has given me courage to understand and learn more from Isaiah. I, like many I'm sure, tend to skip over these Isaiah chapters because they are " just to hard" to understand. . . . . but in reality it has been my laziness not willing to put forth the effort, time and diligence to do so. I'm going to try again. Thanks.
KathleenMarch 3, 2024
Loved this well articulated article with the English flair. But the lesson to always do our duty resounds loud and clear.
MaryannMarch 2, 2024
They really needed to conduct a "study" to figure this out? Of course, women are scanning the shadows and bushes for possible attackers. They have a LOT more to lose, and are generally much more vulnerable.
MaryannMarch 2, 2024
Unfortunately, Orson F. Whitney's often quoted notes of the Prophet Joseph Smith statement, have led to some confusion among members of the church. Elder David A. Bednar clarifies this subject for us in his address: "Faithful Parents and Wayward Children, sustaining hope while overcoming misunderstanding." Elder Bednar refers specifically to the quote from Orson F. Whitney's notes recorded from the Prophet, Joseph Smith. Elder Bednar informs us that "in a more complete set of notes recorded by Howard and Martha Coray, Joseph is shown to have QUALIFIED his statement to make promised blessings CONDITIONAL upon the obedience of the children: "Joseph qualifies his statement: "When a father and mother of a family have been sealed, their children WHO HAVE NOT TRANSGRESSED are secured by the seal wherewith the parents have been sealed..." Elder Bednar goes on to affirm: "This clarification is more consistent doctrinally," and "Ultimately, a child must exercise his or her moral agency and respond in faith, repent with full purpose of heart, and act in accordance with the teachings of Christ." I am reminded of Section 137 in the D&C when Joseph was so surprised to see his brother, Alvin, in Celestial Kingdom because Alvin had died before the opportunity for baptism. The prophet records in 137:7 "Thus came the voice of the Lord unto me, saying: All who have died WITHOUT A KNOWLEDGE OF THE GOSPEL, who WOULD HAVE RECEIVED IT IF THEY HAD BEEN PERMITTED TO TARRY, shall be heirs of the celestial kingdom of God.." We are consistently taught through the scriptures, modern day prophets, and in the temple that enduring to the end is a essential to obtain the celestial kingdom. Elder Bednar affirms: "I recognize that now is the time 'to prepare to meet God' (Alma 34:32) Elder Bednar again: "Mercy will not rob justice, and the sealing power of faithful parents will only claim wayward children upon the condition of their repentance and Christ's atonement. Repentant wayward children will enjoy salvation and all the blessings that go with it, but exaltation is much more. It must be fully earned. The question as to who will be exalted must be left to the Lord in His mercy." I hope everyone will read Elder Bednar's address because it clarifies a great deal of confusion, while still giving hope. We must not, however, preach that all of our children who have gone astray will be saved in the Celestial Kingdom merely because of the sealing power, or because of righteous parents. It simply is not true. We each will stand to be judged, based on our own individual choices, according to our knowledge and opportunities, and the Lord's justice and mercy.
Dave BarkerMarch 2, 2024
This is a nice article. If everyone would follow the advice of President Oaks, this world would be a much nicer place where all can be heard. As always has been the case, however, as a follower of Christ, you must be prepared to take a lot of abuse and persecution by those who disagree with you. Don't fool yourself. Many will never be civil. It is difficult to turn the other cheek and love your enemies when they won't let up. It takes a lot of courage to be a disciple of Christ in today's world..
Clyde LivingstonMarch 1, 2024
Ah, Brother Staheli, good to see something from you again. I remember how you yourself also demonstrated duty-filled characteristics as you were a young missionary in Belgium and France. I learned a lot from your example.
EricMarch 1, 2024
From all I've seen over the past six years regarding the Church's name, I've concluded that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has the most powerful name in the world because people are so reluctant to say it. Even when they're challenged to do so, they'll 1) refrain from saying the full name, and 2) always remove Jesus Christ's name from whatever name they end up using. Always. President Nelson was right.
At the same time, been pleasantly surprised to realize how empowering it is to use the Church's correct name. I highly recommend it.
Chip WhitmerMarch 1, 2024
"Wherefore, confound your enemies; call upon them to meet you both in public and in private; and inasmuch as ye are faithful their shame shall be made manifest." (Doctrine and Covenants 71:7)
It is true that Jesus was kind and compassionate in ministering one-on-one to people of all backgrounds and persuasions. But he was not so kind to the corrupt political class of his day. He called them out, called them names (vipers, hypocrites, etc), and told them they were going to hell.
I'm trying to be like Jesus.
JustinMarch 1, 2024
Highlighting this is a great to start. Sadly, the trust in MSM is driven by engagement more than truth - and often the truth does not get as many ‘clicks’ as polarisation and division.
Those who love truth and unbiased reporting recognise it
Ron IaconoFebruary 29, 2024
Thank you for such counsel. It is sorely needed by all.
Erika P.February 29, 2024
If more people would be talking to each other instead of hiding behind their computer, society would be entirely different. It used to be normal that people looked out for each other and helped when necessary. All of that is lost and hate is spilled all over the planet between people that don't even know each other.
I baked bread at home and decided to make a few more loaves and take them to four neighbors. Their thankfulness shone in their eyes and the smiles and thank you I got, made me happy. Love thy neighbor as thyself is such a great commandment and makes a society really great.
Linda Starr WinansFebruary 29, 2024
Greetings,Maurine. When we first met you in Israel you mentioned how Scot was your best friend. What a joy to follow your loving journey together. Paul and I are so very grateful and appreciative of your sharing such uplifting and tender experiences with us. May God always bless you both with good health, happiness, and inspiration. You continue to make this world a better place!!! Happy Day!
SKFebruary 28, 2024
I really needed to read this. It has given me hope. Thank you, Brother Barkdull. May you rest in peace.
Karen CasosFebruary 28, 2024
Try google translate, it works well.
Diane ChaconFebruary 28, 2024
Thank you for your article. I'm really trying to understand the words of Isaiah as I study the CFM lessons and found this article very helpful.
AnikaFebruary 28, 2024
Does traficking include mind control? Does it relate to cults?
Ben JonesFebruary 28, 2024
With regard to vaccination, the fact that President Nelson, who is a doctor, got a vaccination and recommended it, is not simply accommodating the world but doing something that is not contrary to the Gospel and is not harmful. Hundreds of millions of people have been vaccinated without ill effects. People can still be prayerful about it because sometimes there are side effects. The fact that home study for the Gospel was implemented under his direction a year or so before the pandemic happened was certainly inspired.
MarLynn JamesFebruary 27, 2024
In conjunction with your article, have you considered the possibility that "Dark Matter" may in actuality be the Spirit World?
Jackson PembertonFebruary 27, 2024
My wife, myself, and our daughter had an experience with my deceased mother that is, I think, very unusual in its parallels to the scientific method. You can read about it here: https://covenantsofthefather.com/life-after-death/#grandmas-here
If I read your mindset on science and religion correctly, you will also be interested in a new paradigm for the most natural basis for natural rights. You'll see several articles on #temporalRights here: https://covenantsofthefather.com/
GailFebruary 27, 2024
Maurine,
Your writing skills are such a gift! I love to read about your
adventures. Especially the things of the Spirit. I shed tears of joy in every report. My son is in your P.R. ward and having been to P.R. a few times. I can picture the lines in stores, the cinder block walls, the hanging electric wires. The beauty of the ocean and the tons of cats and dogs. God bless you both, you are doing a great work!
Richard JukesFebruary 25, 2024
I appreciate this wonderful insight and enlightening for this wonderful chapter in 2 Nephi. Thank you!
Janette AllenFebruary 25, 2024
I miss this masterful teacher. Thanks for sharing this with us. I love it so much. It is the catalyst for many ah-hah thoughts and moments.
SiriFebruary 25, 2024
What is the name of this book? Has it been published by now?
Kerry FarrFebruary 24, 2024
And don’t forget the sacred consecration covenant in the temple. We take it seriously ❣️
BrentFebruary 24, 2024
I Googled "R's of Repentance" to help prepare a lesson about Atonement for my 9-year-olds Primary class. The additional perspective offered by this article will help me to present the lesson in such a way that maybe the kids can be more prepared to avoid the "checklist" approach. Some basics are necessary though !
I liked the comment about the R's being FRUITS of repentance (aka Fruits of Redemption).
KathleenFebruary 23, 2024
Such great observations. Glad to be a part of it all!
MaryannFebruary 23, 2024
I love the statement in this article drawing our attention to the fact that "God does all the heavy lifting." So many of the saints, including myself, have been wearied to complete exhaustion, carrying heavy burdens that the Lord wants to carry for us. Even if we try with all our hearts, we will still make mistakes. The Lord requires our hearts and willingness to try and do better in following the example of our Savior. We need to trust Him more and sense his loving care. I believe one reason many leave the church is they feel such a vast distance between who they are, and who they think they need to be RIGHT NOW! This is why patience is such an important principle: patience with ourselves, and trust that the Lord can enable us to progress to be more like Him.
MaryannFebruary 23, 2024
WOW. I felt the power of the Spirit reading this. There truly is so much more to us than we begin to comprehend. I don't know how long we dwelt with our Heavenly Father before coming to earth, but I do know we brought so much light and truth with us, recorded deeply in our spirits. We do know so much more than we think we know. One of the powerful ways I know truth is that the Holy Ghost bares witness to me of truth over and over again as I read the scriptures--especially the Book of Mormon. Another way I know truth is that when I pray, the Lord reveals to me in my heart that the things that I am saying are true. When we speak the truth, read the truth, hear the truth, something in our Spirits recognize it because we already know it. As the example in the article: We just didn't know that we KNOW already. When I read the Book of Mormon for the first time at the age of 16, I surely must have prayed to know it was true because that is what I had been taught to do. But, I don't remember specifically doing that, because the Spirit bore witness to my spirit that it was true before I even finished reading it. Our souls are primed to accept truth, because deep within, though sometimes perhaps temporarily dimmed, the Spirit already lives within us.
MarmFebruary 23, 2024
This looks like a great list. I have appreciated your reviews over the years.
Adrian MartinFebruary 22, 2024
Thank you, Wally, for an inspiring message. You have really uplifted me.
Elba Milagros Hernandez CurtFebruary 22, 2024
Nephi's prayer is my favorite part in The Book of Mormon. This Scripture has comforted and supported me through my most difficult struggles. I read it often. It always brings me great peace to read that even a Prophet of God struggled with sorrow and difficult times. Nephi's example of endurance and trust always inspires and encourages me to do the same.
ShaunaFebruary 21, 2024
Fantastic! love your Forced family fun nights. I know many think it impossible and others not the goal, but we did not get cell phones for our girls, until they were 13-14, and they were not on social media of any sort throughout their teens--and neither were I or my husband. and I think that's been key. we modeled what we were asking them to do. Ironically, they're now 20 and 21 and they've since started using social media--but as missionaries;) Interesting how that works. they did miss out on some things and they weren't the most "popular" kids, but it kept them from that devastating comparison and bullying stuff going on on social media.
ShaunaFebruary 21, 2024
Thank you for your faith and testimony and for sharing your perspective and experiences. the Temple sealing story is inspiring. Your perspective gives me some things to think about.
Robert StarlingFebruary 21, 2024
Are here some good sources on how to protect or "harden" your key electronics to survive an EMP attack? Does it help if electronics are turned off when an EMP pulse occurs? Many questions ....
Noel JensenFebruary 21, 2024
I like the triple F suggestion. I think that taking charge of your children's is a parental duty. However, I think that the don't understand idea is not completely true. An alcoholic understands the problems of drug addiction, and as recovering teenagers we also understand what our teens are going through, especially if we seek the assistance of the Spirit and follow the inspired guidance of general church leaders.
carolynFebruary 20, 2024
Doris, They are all ebooks. I am submitting them to publishers but for now they are just ebooks. When we surveyed people most said ebooks would be better because they could print just what they needed.
AnonymousFebruary 19, 2024
The Book of Mormon account of the ‘curse of a black skin’ had absolutely NOTHING to do with ‘superiority’ vs. ‘inferiority’! Nothing!!! It was God’s CURSE based on ‘righteousness’ vs. ‘wickedness’/‘disobedience’ of His children. The Book of Mormon has chapter after chapter detailing Laman’s, Lemuel’s and the sons of Ishmael’s DISOBEDIENCE and WICKEDNESS! After Laman and Lemuel had continually tried to murder their brother, Nephi, God finally came to Nephi’s rescue and CURSED all those who followed Laman and Lemuel with a dark skin, and more.
Here is the entire CURSING that the Lord put upon ALL the people who followed Laman and Lemuel:
20 Wherefore, the word of the Lord was fulfilled which he spake unto me, saying that: Inasmuch as they will not hearken unto thy words they shall be cut off from the presence of the Lord. And behold, they were cut off from his presence.
21 And he had caused the cursing to come upon them, yea, even a sore cursing, because of their iniquity. For behold, they had hardened their hearts against him, that they had become like unto a flint; wherefore, as they were white, and exceedingly fair and delightsome, that they might not be enticing unto my people the Lord God did cause a skin of blackness to come upon them. [The only part of the cursing addressed in the above article!]
22 And thus saith the Lord God: I will cause that they shall be loathsome unto thy people, save they shall repent of their iniquities.
23 And cursed shall be the seed of him that mixeth with their seed; for they shall be cursed even with the same cursing. And the Lord spake it, and it was done.
24 And because of their cursing which was upon them they did become an idle people, full of mischief and subtlety, and did seek in the wilderness for beasts of prey.
25 And the Lord God said unto me: They shall be a scourge unto thy seed, to stir them up in remembrance of me; and inasmuch as they will not remember me, and hearken unto my words, they shall scourge them even unto destruction. (2 Nephi 5:20-25)
Honestly, it flabbergasts me that any puny human being could think they have so much “intelligence” that they could ‘DISAVOW’ God’s commandments and punishments, and go so far as to say that they didn’t even happen! We are all God’s CHILDREN, and He can punish or reward any of His children in any way He feels appropriate. This article actually makes me sick to my stomach! Who died and made these so-called ‘scholars’ become “God, the Father, in charge of the ‘rewards and punishments’ division”???
If any of you have eyes that can actually see, you should be able to see people walking around in black skins [and hair] all over the world...still. You should be able to see a large number of the people in South America, Central America, Mexico, and the United States and northward, walking around in skins ranging from very dark brown, to lighter brown or reddish. The majority of them also have black straight hair. I’m sorry, but they can’t wash off their skin color! It’s not a tattoo! It’s not paint! Give the world a break! God sends out blessings OR cursings upon His children based upon their obedience or disobedience to His commandments! Stop with the “politically correct” BS. The truth is the truth. And differences in skin color are a REALITY. Why are the descendants of those original cursed people still wearing the dark skins? That is 100% up to GOD!!! He decides. You puny humans don’t have control over His actions! God cursed Laman, Lemuel, and the sons of Ishmael, and all their descendants, with a ‘SKIN OF BLACKNESS’, and that curse would only be lifted on certain descendants who proved righteous by repenting and giving their hearts to God. The mark/curse of a black skin put upon Cain is still 100% present among the Black population. That mark of a dark skin still is present among a majority of the Lamanites. That is just a fact! It is not being ‘racist’ to say that. FACTS ARE FACTS! They can’t be DISAVOWED. They can’t be DISMISSED or IGNORED. God is in charge! Period!
LoraFebruary 19, 2024
In the Holy Bible, we have a footnote on the word "black" on these scriptures: Jeremiah 8:21, Jeremiah 14:2, Joel 2:6, and Nahum 2:10. The footnote reads, "Hebrew idiom, meaning gloomy". What I don't understand is why there isn't a footnote on 2 Nephi 5:21. After all, wickedness never was happiness.
Besides, if Nephites and Lamanites looked different from each other, why is it that in Alma 55:8-9 when the Nephites bring wine to the Lamanites, they don't ask Laman, "What are you doing with all those Nephites?" Instead they say, "Great! Let's drink!"
A better translation would be that the Lamanites had "an aura of darkness" rather than a "skin of blackness". Many of us have seen it with our friends who turn away from the light of the gospel.
Traci WalkerFebruary 19, 2024
Each time you speak, pearls of wisdom fall from your lips. Now I see the same applies to your writing. - your MTC buddy
carolynFebruary 19, 2024
Doris, They are all ebooks. I am submitting them to publishers but for now they are just ebooks. When we surveyed people most said ebooks would be better because they could print just what they needed.
carolynFebruary 19, 2024
Gary, Thank you so much. I hate writing about worst case events but we know they can and likely will happen. "For the scriptures tell us so.."
David PerryFebruary 18, 2024
Dear Lynne,
These words were rock solid, not built on the sand or on a mirage. Thank you for your sweet testimony of things that matter most.
Uncle David
Corey D.February 18, 2024
I understand what you are pointing out but there also might be the impression that the church will end some time in the future and maybe isn't as important as it has been taught, it is eternal, as eternal as the family for as the Scripture says, those who are inheritors of eternal life are also those who will be of the Church of the Firstborn.
Cynthia P. SpencerFebruary 18, 2024
I think this account is a good example of inspiring faith and appreciation in the hearts of our children Good jon Tanya! Keep them coming.
Kirsten SchullFebruary 18, 2024
Thank you so much for this podcast. I have loved the Psalm of Nephi sing we sang a composition of it at BYU in the 80s. This thoughtful essay you have shared added so much depth and made it a blueprint for healing and growth. I feel blessed to have read it. Many thanks.
KathleenFebruary 17, 2024
True Blue - because we've consecrated our all for that period of time!
Ann Kapp AndersenFebruary 17, 2024
A most insightful and inspiring article of the kind I expect from you, Lynne. You have an auntie in Alaska who is always VERY proud of you. :-)
Sherylynne O'DwyerFebruary 16, 2024
Thank you for this review.
I am looking forward to reading this book.
Joanna StrainFebruary 16, 2024
I love this. Thank you. This article makes the admonition to love and include those who would otherwise be excluded so much easier to understand. The paradigm shift will make living the Gospel so much easier.
DorisFebruary 16, 2024
Are your books all e-books or real books?
MelanieFebruary 16, 2024
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!
This has been a topic for the last 5 years and doesn’t always end with heart warming feelings. This article is an answer to many years of fasting and praying. The title of this article, the stories told, and the doctrine shared gave the reader a feeling of hope. I will continue to read and ponder upon this for days. My heart is so full of gratitude!
Bless you and your sweet wife. You are a gift to all!!
Corey D.February 16, 2024
My wife and I went to the Idaho Falls Temple last summer, first time we have been to that temple, it's where my mom's parents were sealed. As we were making our way out, lots of turns and hallways we came around one corner and there on the wall was this painting of Jesus holding a lamb, in the background was the flock, making it seem as if Jesus was returning or rescuing the lamb, it was a black lamb, first time I have seen that particular painting, it deeply touched me at that moment.
Corey D.February 16, 2024
My father was killed at a young age in a freak construction accident at home, he and my grandmother were doing a lot of family history or genealogy as they called it back then, being the oldest I got a lot of the family history stuff. Similarly after my grandparents on my mom's side passed away, I being the oldest and mom being an only child I ended up with a lot of their family history stuff. My wife has been very interested and involved in family history, not only with her family history but she has been a diligent journal keeper and we have massive amounts of family photos so it has been important to us. Family stories have been important to us our whole lives, how and where we grew up is a big deal, especially for me coming from a small town and my wife's parents coming from rural Wyoming but with the exception of one son our children and grandchildren have little to no interest, I think it's sad because those stories of faith, conversion, hardship, miracles, family, patriotism are important they have and do affect me but my children don't seem to be very sentimental about those kinds of things at all or even their own childhoods, much of their generation seem to be the same.
Laurie Claeys BoydFebruary 16, 2024
BEAUTIFUL article with the most important message in the world. THIS is how we love one another as He has loved us!
Corey D.February 15, 2024
Great and wonderful story which I know my wife would love but I hope she never reads because I would be in trouble, again !
Gary AndersonFebruary 15, 2024
Carolyn, I am so grateful for the inspired messages you give on being prepared for anything that could or will come to pass in these latter days!
You have helped me a lot on how to prepare and what to prepare, so I won't be caught wanting when things happen according to prophecy and other means.
LewisFebruary 14, 2024
While different than your usual article, I think this particular article is one of my favorites. If eternal life is made up of little steps, eternal love must in fact be made up of a multitude of little things. I can tell that the love you feel provides a beautiful foundation for you to do the incredible things you do with your life. I am grateful to you for sharing this wonderful story.
ShaunaFebruary 14, 2024
thank you for your work, this article and especially your commitment to God and His laws/truths. Your analysis explains why I have rejected Hollywood outright and why I haven't seen a movie in a theatre since Mary Poppins Returns
Neither do my husband or I watch TV, have Netflix or whatever. I refuse to let this worldview in
I support you in your brave stance
Marie B.February 14, 2024
I LOVED this. We’ve been married nearly 57 years.
I think it’s never too late to start something good so starting today I am going to do more of the small thoughtful things you described you received from your husband.
I hope and pray it will bless our marriage.
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
Doris WilliamsFebruary 14, 2024
I am blown away by Becky's story.....and John! Wow, heaven found a match for this faithful, talented, altruistic sister. What a guy...unbelievable in his dedication, faithfulness, creativeness....truly a match made in heaven! An example and blessing for all of us. I'm grateful to be a supporter of Rising Star Outreach and wish all of their family continued love and blessings.
Frank E. MerrillFebruary 14, 2024
Thanks be to God for an excellent filmmaker like Kieth! It is because of his family visiting my family in the 1950's that caused us to join the church, and it is because of his excellent work as a cinematographer that the most crucial truths may be told in such glorious detail.
Mari PorterFebruary 14, 2024
Such a sweet and wonderful life; thanks for sharing what matters. “He’ll ruin the gene pool!” Hahahaha!
CoreyFebruary 13, 2024
What an amazing story! Have you ever thought of publishing his journals? The Lord truly protects those who honour Him…
I’m curious what is meant by the “Icelandic front”. The Germans were never in Iceland…
JohnFebruary 12, 2024
Article starts with "We need to reject the simpleminded, inaccurate picture that divides people into two classes" and exactly 5 words later refers to the other side as 'our enemies'. Complete cognitive dissonance. When you undermine your own thesis to this extent - nothing else you have to say is worthy of consideration.
Dan YeruskiFebruary 11, 2024
Excellent project, excellent and useful information for me to begin a restoration project on Zelphs Mound also known as Naples/Russel Mound 8 located in Pike county, Illinois. I will invite the Curlee family and others from Nauvoo to the cleansing ceremony once a date has been set. I'm working with Joseph "Standing Bear" Shranz of the SOARRING foundation.
Corey D.February 11, 2024
I keep hearing or reading the word compromise, it's in the quote by President Oaks but I personally think that's part of the problem in society today, there are some things that there can be compromise but there should be no compromise on certain issues, especially moral issues, especially those things surrounding family and marriage and honesty, anything else will fail or prove to be destructive to society and history, both secular and non-secular history has already shown that.
JaniceFebruary 10, 2024
I'd been searching for a gratitude journal for a young women who lost her grandpa, and then a year later her grandma. She was close to them and missing them a lot. I was so thankful when is got it. It seemed perfect! Thanks for your hard work on creating a beautiful product to help us reflect on the blessings we do have and remember the important things and people in our lives.
Laurie MorelandFebruary 10, 2024
I heartily agree with this whole article. Finding myself in the dating game at age 55 after nearly 30 years of marriage, it was a strange and wonderful world. My now-husband and I began our relationship with very open communication and lots of talking and laughing. Seven years later, we continue to talk and laugh every day!!
VictoriaFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you for this well-written tribute to Nephi which is applicable to all of us, especially those who struggle with darkness and bringing energy and light into their pattern of thinking. We should all examine our self doubts and seek the reassurance of His light.
CynthiaCFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you to all our missionaries -- for preparing, for going, for doing your best! This beautiful article captures so many feelings! Missionaries brought our family into the church! Thank you for your example! A shout out too to Mission Medical. My son was sent home early with a suspected life-threatening illness (it was!). One BYU friend met us at the airport to meet him. I cried deep tears of appreciation, because all it takes is one, knowing that one person cares so much to be there with a big welcome home/job well done smile. As the saying goes, we may be the only scriptures a person ever reads! How we live and love matters as much as what we do and accomplish! Keep up the good work!
Allen AFebruary 9, 2024
My neighbors and I clear each other's walks after every snowstorm. Whichever of us is out there first will get the walks for the others. Sometimes we go on down the block to the homes of the very elderly and make sure that their walks are cleared and salted if the neighbors there haven't already done it. Most of my neighbors are not LDS, but it is something that we just do.
JuliannFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you for the explicit honesty. “Enduring well” is not easy. Doesn’t help to live in denial. Being submissive to whatever He seeth fit to “inflict” upon us is a true challenge. You have learned in one experience what it’s taken me too many years to internalize. Well done.
HelenCFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you for your gift to our young people. I pray the sister who went home feels loved and appreciated for her valiant effort.
Corey D.February 9, 2024
My father was killed in a freak accident at home leaving my mom with 7 children at home, two of us were married and out of the house, here it is almost 45 yrs later and it all seems like a blur, grandchildren seem to be growing up even faster than the kids grew up, retired a couple of years ago after 43 yrs at the same company, does anybody care or even remember even though I was the only one who did what I did at my work ! Nothing more important or memorable in this life than holding the hand of a child or grandchild walking with them to the park so they can swing and go down the slide and they are so excited to go.
Corey D.February 9, 2024
I enjoy your articles and commentary Brother Peterson, the mixture of academic and religious/spiritual is excellent.
LindsayFebruary 8, 2024
Timely question. Beautiful answer. Thank you both!
Kay RookhuyzenFebruary 8, 2024
We saw the "movie" last Saturday and were two of the entire theater that sat during the credits! I laughed, I cried. MARVELOUS presentation. Well worth the Fathom Event pricing! I purchased the next weekend tickets before I even left the theater!
ShaunaFebruary 8, 2024
Thank you for raising your voice and for the solid arguments and resources. It's bizarre how one sided the discussion of these issues seems today in main stream media.
I especially love the final quote from Robert George and am also so grateful for President Oaks incredibly rational and fair-minded, and yet deeply committed and moral approach to public issues. we have so much to learn from him and after reading his biography, and listening to many conference talks, I am convinced that the Lord has put him here at this precise time to help model a disciple's approach to civic affairs
Corey D.February 8, 2024
Such an amazingly well written, almost perfectly expressed sentiment and in it's own way a testimonial of the great plan of salvation. Only a mother could have expressed this.
Bryan W EllsworthFebruary 8, 2024
Today I needed these thoughts, altough I have already read the CFM lesson and accompanying insights and read many many times “The Psalms of Nephi”, this perspective was inspiring that Nephi chose to not stay down in depression even though he admitted to it. He chose to remember his Redeemer instead…..this Nephi’s attitude of gratitude that you point out makes me grateful tonight because in the past for me “the wretched man that I am” didn’t seem to jive with the man of God that Nephi was. But making him more human like us is comforting and gives me hope tonight!
Kay RookhuyzenFebruary 7, 2024
We all have days like this occasionally! You just have top laugh! I sure l laughed at yours quicker than I do my own!!!
S LindsayFebruary 7, 2024
Thank you for this beautiful reminder and encouragement to record our love and lessons for those still coming. Your writing conveys a tenderness and honor and sacredness all too rare on the internet these days, and so hearty and nourishing.
JuliannFebruary 7, 2024
It is a truth that many of us find ourselves in the pit of despair from time to time, wondering how we got there and wondering how we’ll ever get out. I still don’t know the magic formula but many of the things you mention surely do help. I typically end up pleading for Gods help and then I’ll hear a song, or read a text from a friend, or turn on a wonderful podcast discussing the scriptures, or read a great article like this one, things that uplift and edify and bring light to dispel the darkness. I’ve always loved Nephi’s lament. It’s where he becomes real and relatable.
Kathy SandersFebruary 6, 2024
Maurine, this subject of being conscious of our thoughts and the power they have for good or bad is one of the most important subjects in life I think! Thank you as always for articulating the power we have to choose our thoughts and the joy that can come from aligning them with the light of Christ, and the truths God has given to us. It is a true miracle how God can take our "feelings" and give us miracles to see and feel differently and more joyfully. Oh how the world needs to understand this principle of power! So much anxiety and depression would cease and joy and happiness would take its place!
J. E. GilstrapFebruary 6, 2024
Love this. Thank you.
Ron BarnesFebruary 5, 2024
When the Book of Mormon was published, the scattering of the Lamanites in North America, while not completed, had been underway for hundreds of years. Also, the United States did not become a “mighty nation” until after World War I, long after the scattering was completed. While the Spanish did make slaves of some of the Lamanites, it was a small number compared to how many there were. Also, for the most part, the Spanish didn’t scatter the Lamanites, they married them. About two thirds of the inhabitants of Central America are of Spanish and Lamanite ancestry. Also, the term “raised up upon” indicates it was local, not imported.
DougFebruary 5, 2024
This mortality is a testing ground. Perhaps (or more certainly than perhaps) this was just one test He allowed you to have to prove that through your Earthly trials (including a heart attack) you would choose Him. Our trials in mortality will be brief but some may seem so HUGE, as was this one for you. Keep the faith and keep holding fast to that iron rod and God will surely bless you for doing so.
Thank you for sharing.
GTOFebruary 5, 2024
In the 1500s, Hernando de Soto landed in the southeastern part of what would become America. He brought pigs with him, an invasive species that carried diseases to which native Americans had no immunity. Along with smallpox, pig-born diseases probably decimated about 90% of the native population, most of whom never personally encountered a European. This could probably be added to the pre-restoration scattering and killing of Book of Mormon descendants.
Heather SmurthwaiteFebruary 5, 2024
You have our empathy, gratitude and our agreement -- all of us millions of mothers who love the Lord. We will all progress eternally together.
Sandy GatesFebruary 5, 2024
If this was a social media post I would like it a million times. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and your feelings. You hit the nail on the head with your insight.
Karen BrimhallFebruary 5, 2024
Love the book Cry Wolf. Though she was on the run she had help in finding the killer of her husband. You will stay interested in this book
BryanFebruary 5, 2024
This is the best article I’ve read here in a very long time. So on point and SO doctrinal. Thank you for sharing.
CharlyFebruary 5, 2024
I was 34 and my baby was 6 weeks and the youngest of 5 children 7 on down. This is a 1/10,000 chance of a lifetime! I had a stent put in, and have lived a normal life. Now I'm 62 and seeing the damage of my heart, dealing with other diseases, including breast cancer. I am still blest and know that even if we don't see it then, It is for our good!
RhodaFebruary 5, 2024
Thanks for this -- very important to ponder.
Brother RodriguesFebruary 4, 2024
Seria muito bom se houvesse transcrição do podcast, mesmo transcrito em inglês, para poder os traduzir com Google translate. Moro fora dos EUA e não sei ingles
SaraFebruary 4, 2024
Beautiful! It is a good reminder that people are what is important. Relationships matter. Individuals matter. I really enjoyed this.
Jan FranciscoFebruary 3, 2024
I really loved this article, your writing and your thoughts. I feel the same way about the immense importance of motherhood and attention to our children. I love hearing God’s response to you, it makes Him seem nearer to me in the day-to-day. Thank you for your courage in speaking up for motherhood.
LindsayFebruary 3, 2024
Thank you for this absolutely beautiful reminder, put in such an uplifting and inclusive way that I can share it broadly with mothers everywhere!
WhitneyFebruary 3, 2024
The Savior’s first miracle was to provide wine at a wedding. Having alcohol at weddings is not a new tradition—and one that is not considered morally reprehensible in most cultures or traditions. Can you get curious about why this particular situation is so difficult for you? If your children are kind and caring people, not sharing your value about alcohol doesn’t seem like it should prevent you from enjoying one of the most important days of celebration in and of your child’s life. Can you try to see what the wedding means from their internal value system and love them?
Corey D.February 3, 2024
I dare say probably most, maybe all parents and grandparents especially in the church feel exactly like this couple or can relate to some degree. I have heard the phrase "the Book of Mormon was written for our times" my whole life, I don't think it was chance that most of 1st Nephi is about family dynamics. The battle or what is often referred to in the press as the "culture war" is lost, there is no doubt about that, but we know who wins the final grand battle or war, therefore we have to concentrate on our individual faith, knowledge, obedience and happiness, praying in faith for loved ones and friends who are headed to the large and spacious building or maybe already in it and leaving the rescue of them up to the Savior.
Bruce NormanFebruary 3, 2024
Now that is really cruel ... are these the bedtime stories you told to your children. (I had to laugh at this one.)
Nathan BoyceFebruary 3, 2024
WOW! I love that story and the profound lesson it demonstrated. Thanks so much for sharing that.
KathleenFebruary 2, 2024
Tender & True!
Cornelius Randall PetersonFebruary 2, 2024
Who is the artist who painted the lovely watercolors?
EveFebruary 2, 2024
I love this so much! I'm going to have to remember that - don't mistake necessary for important. A great lesson for us all.
MaryannFebruary 2, 2024
Thank you for such an uplifting and much needed article. I believe many women feel they are unimportant because they are staying home to care for their children instead of joining the work force. Nothing could be further from the truth. They are doing the Lord's work and caring for HIS children. Being a stay-at-home mom is an incredible blessing and privilege. As you stated, women who must work outside the home also have opportunities to live a Christlike life by blessing those around them. Hopefully, we can be loving and supportive sisters to one another, whatever our situation may be.
MaryannFebruary 2, 2024
Please remember you are not alone. I, along with thousands of other LDS parents, are dealing with this same struggle. We feel your pain, and empathize with you. Your letter indicates that you are exhausted and at the end of your rope. I hope my thoughts can help. I have come to the place where I absolutely must protect my own mental, emotional, and physical health. For me, this means ceasing to agonize over my children's choices, and to ACCEPT the real fact that this is where they are right now on their journey. I relinquish guilt or any responsibility for their actions. I continue to pray for them, and I exercise faith in the Lord that He will do all he can for them. I feel the key is to continue to show love always, and focus on being together as a family. To continue to agonize over their decisions, or to try to change them, helps no one. It will only bring additional exhaustion, and rob you of the energy you need to love and enjoy their company. In your prayers, thank the Lord for all the wonderful things about them, and express your faith that he will reach out to them. If they sense in any way your disapproval at their wedding reception, it will only drive a wedge between you. Decide before you go that you will have a good time. Engage in positive, upbeat conversation, rejoice with them in their marriage, and be thankful for their happiness. Let go of your burden, and give it to Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace.
Stephen HuntFebruary 2, 2024
This is excellent. Only one suggestion: while Joseph met with Moroni on the first day of fall five years in a row (2023-2027), he did NOT meet with Moroni on the Feast of Trumpets every year. The date of the ancient feast is determined by an ancient lunar calendar, and so the ONLY one of the dates that Joseph actually met with Moroni on the Feast of Trumpets was the date that he actually received the plates, September 21, 2027. In my opinion, this is even more amazing than the idea that he might have met on the Feast of Trumpets every year.
KellyFebruary 2, 2024
A dear friend in a similar situation prays: "Lord, you love them more than I do. I leave the matter in your hands." (This in the context of children who allow almost no contact with their mother.)
Steve DoneganFebruary 2, 2024
Best…explanation…ever. Thank you.
Robert StarlingFebruary 2, 2024
Kimberly. Do you have some Kleenex? I need some after reading your wonderful article. You are SO right!
Thank you, for reminding us what is most important.
RaLee HallFebruary 2, 2024
Thank you for posting this. I love it!
JopkinsFebruary 2, 2024
Outstanding insight into that which truly matters. we are so easily distracted with our temporal duties, success and follies that we miss the simple, crucial caring that will shape a personality.
JoyceFebruary 2, 2024
I must have been led by the Spirit to Rob Gardener's Lamb of God today. I just stumbled on Is it I? on Spotify and I was deeply touched by the conversation. I walked right into the present of the Last Supper and how that moment felt with the disciples and Jesus. Listening to other songs lifted my soul in more ways than words can describe. I have blessed Rob Gardener in prayer many times. God bless you again for being so creative
Guy and Susan GardnerFebruary 1, 2024
Ron and Bonnie, our prayers are with you!
Minerva M.February 1, 2024
In April 1982 General Conference, President Hinckley stated," Unfortunately, we live now in a sex-saturated society. Pornography comes at us from all sides: in the theater, in books and magazines, in newspaper advertising, in television in its various forms, and in some instances from radio." This was 42 years ago. That dismal state of moral decay then, sad to say, has very astronomically made a turn for the worse. Paul warned us that in the latter-day time, some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils (1Timothy 4:1). The Prophet Joseph Smith received the revelation exhorting us . . . to do all things with prayer and thanksgiving, that ye may not be seduced by evil spirits, or doctrines of devils, or the commandments of men; for some are of men, and others of devils (DC 46:7). I'm deeply grateful for the prophetic, relevant, and urgent declaration of President Nelson that in coming days, it would not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost.
Thank you so much for this very informative article. Adults, young people, as well as children, need to be informed of insidious pitfalls and deceptions out there, and the very subtle, cunning ways of the adversary who is as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour (1 Peter 5:7).
CEBFebruary 1, 2024
Loved reading this “real life” parable! I could see the analogy of choices all along the way.
Thank you!
TracyFebruary 1, 2024
I love this. Thank you for a great modern day parable.
Sharon BarrusFebruary 1, 2024
I love this analogy! Very thought provoking. Thanks for sharing.
LoraFebruary 1, 2024
If the garden of Eden was in Jackson County, Missouri, then there were three civilizations that were swept off this continent because of sin: first, the Flood, then the Jaredites, and then the Nephites.
The Civil War came very close to destroying America. Think of it: they had murdered a prophet, cast the righteous out from among them, and ground the faces of the poor with slavery. Abraham Lincoln read the Book of Mormon in 1862, and I believe he took warning from it. He issued the Emancipation Proclamation in 1863, and began declaring days of prayer to return the nation to God. (See The Lincoln Hypothesis by Timothy Ballard)
Steve DoneganFebruary 1, 2024
Oh thank you, good brother, for your allegory of the fence. It resonated with my soul.
Wally GoddardJanuary 31, 2024
I enjoyed your article, Carol! Will you be attending RootsTech? If so, I hope you will attend our session on Saturday, March 2, from 3 to 4 about Binding Hearts. Would love to have your thoughts after hearing our presentation! Blessings to you.
Robert StarlingJanuary 31, 2024
Great article, as usual. Our loving Father doesn't always give us what we want, but He gives us what we need. Even our Savior Jesus Christ did not get the answer he wanted to the most earnest prayer anyone has ever given ("let this cup pass from me"). But like him, we have to say "thy will be done".
Julie Carling DeYoungJanuary 31, 2024
Beautiful story! Thank you for all the fun info! John Carling is my 4th great grandfather! It is so great reading stories of ancestors!
Robert StarlingJanuary 31, 2024
Very well said Gary. You've given us some very good tips on how to share the most important thiings in our lives.
CarmaJanuary 31, 2024
Excellent article. Truths to cling to and act upon.
Ornella Brenna - ItaliaJanuary 31, 2024
I deeply love the knowledge I receive through the texts and writings you publish, but I have a problem, I don't know or speak English. I have to use the automatic translator to be able to read the lyrics [or write this comment], but it is not possible to do this with only the audio tracks. For this reason I kindly ask you if it would be possible to combine the audio tracks with the written text. Thank you for your attention and for your commitment to spreading knowledge of the Gospel in all its dimensions.
Debra MackJanuary 30, 2024
Wonderful article, wherever we live in the world. Thank you
Prodicus DiplodicusJanuary 30, 2024
In regard to the last part about Jacob and its connection to our experience with prayer, a nice discourse on the topic is Kierkegaard's, titled "One Who Prays Aright Struggles in Prayer and Is Victorious—in That God Is Victorious."
Pam RoderJanuary 30, 2024
Beautifully said Dan. Nice to have C.S. Lewis's perspective on this as well.
Thank you. Appreciate all that you contribute!
L. LarssonJanuary 30, 2024
I loved this powerful and inspiring article and I thank you for it!
JeanmarieJanuary 29, 2024
Such a beautifully written and insightful article ! It reduced me tears because it is so close to my heart. Thank you for including CS Lewis - I respect his perspective so much ! Thank you !!!
RaLee HallJanuary 29, 2024
Thank you for this well thought out article. Though I knew much of the things you wrote about you increased my understanding and and gave me new insights.
JuliannJanuary 29, 2024
Much in this article to ponder on at a time I have been pondering this very question. Thank you. Opposition in all things ,I believe, means there has to be a balance, whether individually or collectively. If you ask for and expect miracles then you should also expect trials and challenges. If one person is pure evil then another person will be astonishingly angelic. Bitter-sweet, pleasure-pain, knowledge-ignorance. The problem lies in believing we deserve all good if we are trying to be good. I appreciate you pointing out all the ways the Savior was forsaken. The only perfect man received the exact opposite. We need to adjust our expectations.
HelenCJanuary 29, 2024
Heavy stuff. As my prayers for 2 of my own children, like yours for your sweet granddaughter, seem to have gone unanswered, or at least answered with a resounding, “No”, I will be spending some time with your thought, “We should wrestle with them until we receive the blessing.”
There are unquestionable blessings that have come from my losses but they are still not the ones I wanted.
Corey D.January 28, 2024
First I compliment you on your willingness to draw a line, too many, even "active LDS" give up. I thought my worries would be over when the kids left the house and started their own families, how naive I was. I love my children and grandchildren and try to be supportive but there is a lot of times I have to bite my tongue when I see what some of my granddaughters are wearing, especially those who are no longer going to church. It's everything from trashy to immodest. Many of them have been involved with dance and I have been to numerous dance recitals and performances and its sexualized to the max, the dancewear, the dance moves, the music, makeup, little tiny girls with lots of makeup and a lot of these dance groups are run by church members but you say anything and you are treated as a pariah.
HeatherJanuary 28, 2024
I agree with Kevin that your insight about waiting ON the Lord, in the sense of humbly serving as we press forward with fatih, is a motivating idea. Thank you!
JudyJanuary 26, 2024
Thank you for your insights on each lesson. It really helps me understand what I read.
ShaunaJanuary 26, 2024
thank you --a heads up article for sure. as the mother of 2 daughters, It is so ironic to me that feminists have bought into the idea that women should "have the freedom" to be used as sexual objects i.e. pornographic toys etc.
I thank God for the Gospel and the Proclamation on the Family everyday, for defining how families ought to function. And as Elder Bednar points out, in mind popping fashion in a must read talk/article:
"Because a physical body is so central to the Father’s plan of happiness and our spiritual development, we should not be surprised that Lucifer seeks to frustrate our progression by tempting us to use our bodies improperly. One of the ultimate ironies of eternity is that the adversary, who is miserable precisely because he has no physical body, invites and entices us to share in his misery through the improper use of our bodies. The very tool he does not have and cannot use is thus the primary target of his attempts to lure us to physical and spiritual destruction.
The Adversary’s Attacks
The adversary attempts to influence us both to misuse our physical bodies and to minimize the importance of our bodies. These two methods of attack are important for us to recognize and to repel." (Things as they Really Are, Ensign June, 2010)
Satan wants us to misuse our bodies. Thanks for the specific analysis your article provides, and I agree that parental example is key and I call on adults everywhere, women in particular, to stop flaunting their bodies.
Michael GreenstreetJanuary 26, 2024
The evaluation of whether any decision was correct comes down to its outcome/s. Matthew 7:20
Ron BarnesJanuary 25, 2024
I post on social media almost daily, sharing pictures and thoughts that I find interesting or amusing. I’m 69 years old, and I often get responses from women in their 20s. First, they flatter me and my post, then ask me to send them a friend request. I have no desire to, and have never done as they ask. I’ll admit I’m a bit naive, so I don’t know what it’s all about, but I’m sure it can’t be good.
CubbyJanuary 25, 2024
Took me a minute, that is funny.
LoraJanuary 24, 2024
This may or may not help, but some ingenious person created a slip for bridesmaids' dresses to help with the challenges of fitting into a restroom stall. It's called the Bridal Buddy. Maybe it would help with Renaissance dresses as well.
KevinJanuary 24, 2024
I've been "waiting" for an article like this! ;)
Seriously, though. I really appreciate this viewpoint as I have just very recently been feeling like the Lord has forsaken me. Nearly ten years into a chronic illness has led to lots and lots of praying for relief, healing, answers, guidance. Recently it has turned into crying, begging, pleading and desperate sobbing, to the point of murmuring, complaining, lots of feelings of frustration, of impatience, confusion, and complaining. This article was very timely and poignant, thank you! I will try my very best to apply what I've learned from it. It's my greatest desire to do His will, I might as well focus on waiting ON Him instead of waiting FOR Him.
DebJanuary 24, 2024
Thank you for your thoughtful and thorough article. Babies are a blessing indeed. My heart smiles today when I see young families out in public these days, because having children is a choice fewer and fewer are making. We live in a society which is less supportive and even less tolerant of that choice. I appreciate your clarion call.
vickieJanuary 24, 2024
this is so funny. i wondered that myself. i would say i dont want to be floating around doing nothing or just singing. i want to be busy doing something and then relaxing after it was done. im sure when we are there we will be busy...doing what the Lord wants us to do. i even thought of asking the Lord to be down on earth traveling and seeing all the sights i never got to see. i think the EARTH is the most beautiful place in the universe. i treasure it.
Robin C.January 23, 2024
I served in Puerto Rico many years ago and absolutely fell in love with the island and the wonderful people there. Reading about your experiences and seeing your pictures brings back so many memories! I wept when I heard the temple announced there. When I served the few members that could manage it went to the Washington D. C. Temple to perform their sacred ordinances. What a blessing to have a temple there!
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. I’ve listened to your podcast for years and was so delighted when you were called to the PRSJM! (The best mission in the world)!
MaryannJanuary 23, 2024
I have faith that the Prophet and The Twelve are receiving revelation all of the time to direct the affairs of the Lord's church. They don't need to report it all to us because some of it is not necessary for the whole church to know. However, when they do receive revelation for the entire church (and the world), we can be sure we will receive it. I am profoundly grateful and filled with faith in their counsel.
Ron BarnesJanuary 23, 2024
Our stake president came to our ward to call a new bishop. He arrived with one of his councilors. Getting out of the car, he saw my parents getting out of theirs. He asked his councilor, “What about Brother Barnes?” His councilor agreed. They were sitting on the stand when his other councilor arrived. The same question was asked of him. He looked at my father, then turned to the stake president and said, “He’s glowing.” When the president looked and saw my father surrounded by light, he knew who the Lord had chosen.
ShaunaJanuary 23, 2024
thanks for sharing these fascinating examples of modern day revelation. I have no doubt that our Church leaders are lead by revelation but it's always wonderful to fortify my testimony and to note the way that the Lord works with His servants
Abbie VianesJanuary 23, 2024
Thank you for your faith promoting scholarship and article Jeff.
NeilJanuary 23, 2024
People love to confuse the issue by talking about choice. Leaving some kind of corrupted grace to allow for others to have a choice to do something horrible.
So I wish that the church would put into their statements on abortion that laws preventing horrible actions are not removing choices.
This logic is never applied to other laws preventing horrible actions. For example, if someone wanted to build a bomb, the laws preventing them from building a bomb are good for society. Not removing choices.
It is simply a way to support something evil and simultaneously virtue signal that you don't partake in the evil you support. So the church could preempt this by shutting down the choice deflection directly.
There is this line, "Church members who encourage an abortion in any way may be subject to Church discipline." And those who support abortion via choice deflection are blind to the fact that they fall under this. If they addressed abortion directly, people would realize they support abortion more than they support the church. A lot of abortion obsessed people would leave the church. Yet after the mini-exodus, going forward, the church would grow stronger on this front. Unified.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 23, 2024
Elder Boyd K. Packer was assigned to call a new Stake President in Blythe, California, a small town of less than 20,000 people next to the Colorado River in Southern California.
Elder Packer was accompanied by Floyd Packard, a newly-called Area Seventy. They went through the customary procedure of interviewing men serving in Bishoprics and the High Council.
Saturday night, after a day of many interviews, Elder Packer felt that none of the men interviewed were to be chosen as the new Stake President.
They retired to their respective rooms for the night, and met the following morning again. During the conversation, Elder Packer mentioned to Elder Packard that he had been given a particular name during the night. Upon hearing this Elder Packard said he had the same experience.
Elder Packer then contacted the Stake President and asked if there was a man with that name living in the Stake?
The Stake President replied yes, and indicated that he was previously serving as a Bishop in one of the wards of the Stake, but was currently serving as a Scoutmaster.
He was called at home, and invited to be interviewed by Elder Packer, and was then called to be the new Stake President.
Jolanda Wiesner-PrzewrockaJanuary 23, 2024
Great insights as usual. Ich liebe Ihren Humor. Grüsse aus der Schweiz :-)
LauniJanuary 23, 2024
Amen - thank you for saying what so many of us have been thinking all along!
MaryannJanuary 22, 2024
The fact that the ex-husband is blaming his wife for the divorce in his conversations with his children is a dead giveaway about "how much he loved her." A man who loves a woman does not stir up contention against her, or blame her to her children. Since she is already divorced, I cannot fathom why her friends would keep telling her how much her husband loved her. They are basically telling her that she was wrong and made a mistake in divorcing him. This is unbelievably presumptuous and rude. I agree that she should make it very clear that their remarks are NOT helpful.
MaryannJanuary 22, 2024
Thank you so much for this much needed article, reminding us of the firm and unchangeable doctrine of the church on this issue. It is important to remember that freedom to engage in sexual intercourse also requires accountability for the outcome. There is no such thing as free agency without responsibility for our choice, and consequences for that choice.
The vast majority of the millions and millions of babies who have been aborted is not due to incest or rape. The overwhelming majority of abortions are a result of irresponsibility. I am pro-choice in the sense that the responsible choice is made BEFORE you become pregnant.
Craig ReidJanuary 22, 2024
It’s too bad most if not all of the lower seats are reserved for church or GAs. The first come first serve tickets are in the balcony
Katrina BrittnerJanuary 22, 2024
Beautifully said—thank you for sharing!!!
KīraJanuary 22, 2024
Thanks for this article, Merilee, and all the work you do.
Jessica SpackmanJanuary 22, 2024
Fantastic, efficient breakdown of this critical issue. Thanks, Merrilee Every human life is sacred. Every preborn child is on their personal journey through mortality and eventually back to his/her Heavenly Parents.
Corey D.January 22, 2024
Just before the holidays my daughter-in-law texted to let us know that she and my son had mutually agreed to divorce, neither go to church, there was/is some concern because of past emotional struggles he has had, including coming home early from a mission. As I was thinking about this one day and what possibly I could do to help, the thought or impression came to me that he needs to get involved in serving others. So many seem to be struggling in the church but especially the youth and the young single adults. I see the wisdom in getting the youth to the temple as young as possible and all the options available for the young adults to serve that are available now besides a fulltime mission.
KatherineJanuary 22, 2024
Amen to everything said. We proclaim to belong to the restored church of Jesus Christ. We should be leading the charge against the evil practice of abortion that kills millions upon millions of our brothers and sisters every year!
Pattie SkousenJanuary 22, 2024
Pre-Born is a wonderful organization whose purpose is to achieve sanctity of life at a grassroots level. They have sonogram machines that help the expectant mother to see her unborn baby and help them understand the miracle of birth. Many fetuses are saved by this loving group. I have personally been giving to them and find great joy in helping new mothers delight in their experience.
Kirsten SchullJanuary 22, 2024
This was wonderful! Thank you for the indepth commentary.
Linda PelchatJanuary 22, 2024
I agree with this article. My problem is that a vote in the next election for Republicans would mean a vote for Donald Trump, who wants to be a dictator and destroy the US Constitution.
Thankfully the Lord knows all.
LaWren BoothJanuary 22, 2024
Wonderful! Thank you for your work and for writing this article. I belong to a women’s political county organization here in NC that supports a local charity for unwed mothers and their babies. Such a good cause in harmony with LDS church values.
Teresa DavisJanuary 22, 2024
Thank you, I really enjoyed everything you say, I feel inspired and now more knowledgeable in my understanding of The Book of Mormon. You are amazing.
Teresa DavisJanuary 22, 2024
Thank you, I really enjoyed everything you say, I feel inspired and now more knowledgeable in my understanding of The Book of Mormon. You are amazing.
Robert LeifsonJanuary 21, 2024
Thank you for sharing your experiences! My son is serving in the Puerto Rico Mission and I personally appreciate your service to the missionaries. Your witness and testimony of gathering the House of Israel from both sides of the veil is powerful. Hearing the miracles that are happening since the dedication of the temple in San Juan is inspiring. May God bless you in your service.
HelenCJanuary 21, 2024
Interesting. I was afraid to speak up when my sister’s vicar told me he knew the church he worked for was not the true Church and he believed it wasn’t currently on the earth. I did email him after I had returned to the US to tell him it WAS here but I never heard back.
Pattie SkousenJanuary 20, 2024
Puerto Rico was a wonderful trip for us. We went right after Covid. The people were so nice and accommodating. Enjoy your time there
GusleyJanuary 20, 2024
Thank you so much for your insights.
Years ago, while on a YSA trip, a young man walked into a room where I was privately engaged in my morning scripture study and approached me, laughing. He asked how long I had been home from my mission, and I replied that it had been about five months. He laughed again and said, "Don't worry. You'll get over that habit soon enough."
I am saddened by how ashamed I felt. Had I made a show of scripture study - sitting self-righteously right in the middle of the main room, displaying my scriptures with an air of "look at me!" - I might have understood his mockery. But I was separated from the group, in a solitary corner of an empty room, early in the morning. He walked all the way into an otherwise empty room to find and make fun of me.
However, that experience shaped my future. I have thought of his comment almost daily for the past 25 years; every day when I open my scriptures, I remind myself that this is a habit I never want to get over.
Bill HurfordJanuary 20, 2024
Unfortunately no mention is made of being a healthy person by building your immunity. Typically I use Vitamins D and C regularly and up the dose when a cold or flu looks like to happen.I also use Zinc. Great results and only real issue is sore throat
Melissa DarbyJanuary 19, 2024
Margret, I am glad you are still writing, I love seeing your name in print! This analogy about football and the mission resonated. It resonates with life as well. A slog with high points in between. Good seeing you in Oct. at the football game. All the love!!
MTJanuary 19, 2024
Unfortunately, "being in the world, but not of the world" usually means that LDS generally only socialize with other LDS. Holding membership or leadership position in a civic organization that would take away from your church calling is usually discouraged. Youth sports/activities that conflict with church youth activities are frowned upon. Real missionary work happens when true examples of Christ-like behavior are contrasted against lost hope, despair, and results of sin. Not at the Rameumptom on the first Sunday of the month...
AnnaJanuary 19, 2024
Geoff, your articles are getting better and better with time. This is a good one.
Corey D.January 19, 2024
I served my mission in the 70's, one of my companions who was also a convert and from California had worked in law enforcement before serving his mission, he once told me about a study that had been done in California (which would certainly not happen in today's social environment), the study looked at which ethnic groups were most or least involved in crime, at the time, those from Asian backgrounds particularly Chinese families were the least likely to be involved in crime and that was attributed to the strong parent, grandparent structure and the importance of honoring the family name and respecting the elders of the family. The comment in the article about the increase/rise of listed mental illnesses and correlating that to higher numbers of Therapists and differences in Therapists is way more true than expressed in the article.
RosieJanuary 18, 2024
Sounds fun, but why do we not allow a creative twist to these songs, while still bringing the spirit when it's sung. I personally dislike syncopation (I think it takes away from the song and focuses on the singer). Others would disagree.
I've taken a few hymns, changed melody from a 19th century tune to a more current tune that emphasizes the meaning of the lyrics, and while not meant for Sacrament mtg. would be effective in an informal setting. Ex: "Does the Journey Seem Long", and "Come unto Him" - originally titled interestingly "I Wander thru the Stilly Night" or similar. Anyway, just a thought
Patty ListonJanuary 18, 2024
Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful and sacred experiences with so many of us who read meridian. May you be blessed in all that you do.
SusanJanuary 18, 2024
You've always had a beautiful way with words and your missionary stories are blessed by that. I look forward every week to your inspiring messages and feel touched to do more temple work. Thank you so much for sharing!
Joy LundbergJanuary 18, 2024
I loved this article. So tender, so inspiring, so encouraging. Thank you!!!
Jan NielsenJanuary 17, 2024
I too am on a path that is not one of my choosing and it gives me strength to hear the counsel of seeing how gratitude can help me carry on. I know all comes from our God, but focusing more on those blessing will be something I can do to feel his love for my through his beloved son, Jesus Christ. Thank you both for your testimonies of the role gratitude has helped you.
WallyJanuary 17, 2024
What an inspiring story! Thank you, Ron and Bonnie!
Wally Goddard
MaryannJanuary 17, 2024
I have felt the Spirit of the Lord so profoundly as I read the Book of Mormon. It is divine miracle to me that reading the Book of Mormon opens the door to personal revelation. It is so much more than written words on a page. I love having the Holy Ghost witness to me over and over again the truthfulness of the Savior's divine mission, the truths of His gospel and the plan of salvation. Reading the very same scriptures at different times in our lives can bring new answers and new interpretations, depending on what we need at the time. The Holy Ghost will teach us what we need to know and feel. I am so grateful to have the Book of Mormon and I have a testimony that the Book of Mormon IS TRUE.
Doug YanceyJanuary 17, 2024
Great story! Becca and I try to do that in our ward here in Decatur. Those verses in Matthew have always been my favorite.
Nathan BoyceJanuary 17, 2024
@Ron Barnes: I appreciate your perspective and openness about your struggle.
MaryannJanuary 17, 2024
Joni, you have just done what is often impossible! You have encouraged us to press forward in Christ, without the guilt for being imperfect.
MaryannJanuary 17, 2024
If we refuse to compare ourselves to others, the problem of mocking might just take care of itself. We can train ourselves to become quickly aware of when we are making comparisons, and stop those thoughts before they escalate. Most of us have an automatic "beeper" warning go off in our heads when an unclean thought enters. We kick that thought out! We can develop the same mental self-warning when we are tempted to make comparisons between ourselves and others.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 17, 2024
In 1989 I suffered a severe motorcycle accident in San Diego, California. I broke both bones in my right leg in 30 places. The accident could have, and should have been fatal. The recovery took one year. During that time I heard that Irvine Stake President Jack Rushton broke his neck while body surfing in the ocean with his son, at the same time as my accident. I later heard he and his wife speak at BYU Education Week in Provo, Utah. I introduced myself to him, and told him of my accident. His comment to me was, "It looks like you survived much better than I did?!" Jack later passed away from his injuries.
I am also aware of Shawn Bradley, the BYU basketball star that played in the NBA, who was paralyzed in an accident while riding his bicycle in St. George, Utah.
The young wife that was horribly burned and scarred in a private airplane crash. The young returned-missionary that was paralyzed in a car crash, that wrote the book, "Unstoppable". The widow who's husband was the Mayor of Ogden, Utah, who was killed in Iraq, a week before he was scheduled to return home to his wife and seven young children.
The captured hostages and many victims of the wars in Ukraine and Israel! These are the tragedies of mortality that cause many to doubt the existence of God? Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and everyone who is struggling and suffering with similar challenges.
Steadfast, and Semper Fi! ✋
Patricia WintersJanuary 17, 2024
You are mispronouncing "sheikh." It is pronounced like "shake."
Carol AnnJanuary 17, 2024
Always good reminders. Thanks, Carolyn!
Laurie PollardJanuary 17, 2024
Bonnie and Ron, your words carry the power of the Spirit into our hearts. We feel the depth and genuineness of your faith and testimony of the loving promises God has offered to all. We know this witness has been marvelously magnified in the midst of your excruciating pain and suffering. We are grateful you are sharing your journey and the blessings of covenants and revelation that comes through seeking the Lord and heeding his voice delivered through the Holy Ghost. You are a gift and a light to us all. You are loved and appreciated beyond our ability of expression. May you thrive in the joy of the Lord's companionship as you continue to fulfill your grand mission in mortality! Your influence for good is incalculable!
LeeAnn HemmingJanuary 17, 2024
Your story is beautifully written. I loved reading of your search and desire for truth. I am impressed with your diligence and for not giving up. I love your testimony of the Book of Mormon, it inspires me to want to share your story and my love for this book with others. Thank you!
Mel HiscockJanuary 17, 2024
Excellent, insightful consideration of a sobering topic of a commonly passed over scripture.
Nathan BoyceJanuary 17, 2024
@HelenC: thanks for sharing that experience. I hope that you telling her that was a blessing for both of you.
Denise ChristensenJanuary 17, 2024
Bonnie and Ron...thank you for sharing your story and your testimonies of the power of prayer, the priesthood and gratitude. You are both a beautiful example of Christ-like love and faith and an inspiration to all those who struggle. We have many fond memories of our travels with you and you have been in our thoughts and prayers over the past several years since the accident. Know that we will continue to pray for continued miracles in your life. thank you for showing us that love and faith in our Savior can conquer all trials that may befall us. We love you and wish you the best.
Ron BarnesJanuary 17, 2024
I also see how I fit into that building, but from another prospective. My problem is pride. I am not a humble man. Too often I pride myself on my own abilities, not remembering how the Lord has guided me to develop them. Pride can keep me from following the commandments as well as I should. Sometimes I realize that I'm relying on my own "wisdom", rather than the wisdom of the Lord. Overcoming my pride will probably be a lifelong struggle.
CubbyJanuary 17, 2024
Great story.
I like the way you reframed the inspectors from irritants to safety people.
JeffreyJanuary 16, 2024
Thank you for writing and sharing your personal conversion story and testimony of God's Plan and the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
KatherineJanuary 16, 2024
Your insight and wisdom continues to bless my life. Thank you Becky.
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I do not expect it to happen, but wouldn't it be wonderful if it did! We must each do our part to include everyone. We must teach our children the importance of doing this, and they must see us living our lives that way. I have never expected to have special treatment, but I have expected Christ like behavior from my fellow ward members. Oh how I feel the sister's pain and frustration that her husband has been a project. It is hard for active members to understand that not everyone feels dissatisfied with their lives in the matter of religion. Unlike so many who sincerely testify that "something was missing" before they found the Gospel, many, my husband included, do not feel that way. He is an excellent husband and father who is very supportive of callings that have taken much time away from my being home, as Primary President, serving in YW & Relief Society Presidencies, temple attendance. The best "ministering brothers" have been the "ministering friends."
LewisJanuary 16, 2024
What a beautiful story! It is one of those wonderful stories that demands that you examine your own heart, to distinguish between knowing about and truly knowing. It was a very timely reminder for me as we start our new year and plan the type of person we wish to become. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
Richard GarrisonJanuary 16, 2024
Sis. Douglas, you never cease to inspire me and motivate me! The Lord works in mysterious ways...I literally just retold that very special spiritual experience several weeks ago as I had the honor of being the concluding speaker in our Orlando Stake's YSA Ward. Truly one of the most spiritual experiences of my life. I carry that same envelop, given to me those years ago by that trusting child of our Heavenly Father, in my Church briefcase. When I feel myself "drifting" in any way, I pull it out and ask myself "Do I KNOW God?" And thank YOU for all you do!
"Former" Bishop Richard Garrison
HelenCJanuary 16, 2024
I have recently been disturbed by a dear friend’s negative opinion about Joseph Smith and the revelation on plural marriage. I have been struggling for days (mostly nights, actually) to find a way to correct her thinking. I knew that it was something only personal revelation to her could address but I really wanted to “fix” her thinking.
Then I realized this morning that my only obligation as a friend is to love her unconditionally and to tell her so. So I did. My own personal revelation, perhaps?
KalaiJanuary 16, 2024
Such a beautifully written article. I love the visual of light spilling from the pages of the scriptures! I feel the same way but can’t write it as well as you do. The words of the song are 5x more powerful when combined with the music! It’s a must listen!! Thank you for sharing your talents in words and music!
Toni LyonsJanuary 16, 2024
My husband used to be a little afraid of helping someone with disabilities for some reason. We recently had a brother move into the ward who really had a hard time struggling with his stand-up walker. My husband was determined to be his friend. He calls on him often and spends hours visiting and helping where needed. The brother's wife has struggled as well over the years taking care of her husband and serving him and it is such a relief when my husband is able to be there as a support when she needs a relief. A wonderful change has come over my husband and it has been a great blessing to him as well as he sees how loving others has brought him closer to the Lord.
Liz RJanuary 16, 2024
McClellin's misspelling of his own name may be him replicating its misspelling by the mob in, say, a posted notice offering a reward for McLellin's capture.
Michael RooyakkersJanuary 15, 2024
Oh Christy, your lifelong endeavour to find truth is only beginning. That’s the beauty of this gospel of Jesus Christ. We learn every day as we seek for more understanding, line upon line, precept upon precept. Sometimes in the temple, I have such very profound and simple truths witnessed to me.
How wonderful it is that you shared your frustrations and joys, so poignantly with us in your quest for coming to terms with, the true nature and character of God and Hs love for us. I’m sure your message will inspire doubtless many people who are going through the exact things now that you went through.
I absolutely loved how well written your piece was. It spoke to my heart instantly and confirmed those truths that I hold so dear and near. Thank you, thank you, thank you for bravely and faithfully sharing your story!. I know you will be blessed, and perhaps even your family will one day as they watch you excel in your own personal worship of God.
EudociaJanuary 15, 2024
Not one word about his mother. She is still very much alive. Curious he didn’t mention her.
Daniel SloanJanuary 15, 2024
This is a fantastic perspective. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this. It seems I need to do my own internal audit to correct my same bad habits.
Alicia JensenJanuary 14, 2024
This is precious! You touched on somethings I had never thought about; how God was just dealing with us because his chosen people had forsaken him, but then via the BOM realizing that’s not the case. He love all people and make way for all to hear him and take part in his love. Such a revelation to read your thoughts and insights- well done!
Ben CrookJanuary 14, 2024
It is inspiring to hear (read) your testimony again. Thank you for being there and may the Lord bless you.
Ariane CJanuary 14, 2024
Is this still available to see? Where is it located? East Side Gallery?
Bob TaylorJanuary 14, 2024
many years ago on my mission, i had a similar experience. we were teaching a young couple, the husband was not active but because of his wife- who was not a member- he was being brought into activity. the very old lessons, the 5th discussion was all the commandments, and was often a stumbling block for investigators. we went in with a prayer in our hearts. every commandment, the wife nodded and committed to living the commandment. we finished the lesson and said, well, Sister ___, do you have any questions. she said yes, just one question. you can imagine how our hearts jumped at this ::)) what is it? well, she said, is that all there is to it? what a relief! no, that was not all, but for her this was the starting point.
Dee MillarJanuary 13, 2024
I have been married twice and widowed twice both to nonmembers. . Active LDS all my life Grew up in a small town. Only member here in this small town for over 30 years until recently. Drive an hour to church.in bigger town .invite nonmembers friends to church Active in community. Organizations Lots of friends
Tamra DodgeJanuary 13, 2024
Been there. I was married to a non-member for 14 years. He was a good man, with a gentle spirit. We had two sons together. He would attend church with us on occasion, but finely opted to attend his childhood church with his parents. The boys would alternate between churches, which had to be confusing for them.
What I took from my experience, was the absolute ‘project’ making of my husband, and it appeared there was a competition as to whom would be the one to get him ‘dunked.’
He had the missionaries. Was invited to golf. Went with the Scouts on outings. Helped families move with the Elders Quorum. There was lots of fellowshipping, but with an underlying intention. For every step we would make forward, we would take two steps back because of something said or done.
My husband was the focus of ‘recruitment’ in his own words.
The marriage had taken a toll, and ended after a two and a half year court battle.
My sons finely received permission to be baptized, through a series of unexpected events, and years of waiting. Their father and his family were not pleased with the event, as miraculous as it was.
I had fully believed this man would accept the gospel, and integrate into my world with ease. His families traditions were very strong, and didn’t include the open mind or heart, that truth was out there.
I appreciate this Sisters experience. She is an island. Fits into both worlds, but not at home in either.
It wasn’t until I remarried, that I was invited to do couple things with fellow members. It’s hard. Uncomfortable for them, hard for me. I felt very much alone amidst my brothers and sisters.
WithheldJanuary 12, 2024
Your advice is sound, but in my experience of the last 50 years in a similar situation in my marriage, not realistic. I have found that active church members are so judgemental and have no or very little desire to develop friendships who do not meet "their standard " They make it hard for our children, making them. accountable for their parent's actions...."Where is your father?" Why doesn't he come to church?" Why didn't he baptize you?" " I hope our lesson on Temple Marriage didn't make you feel uncomfortable today."
Please, can't we accept everyone for the place they are currently in? Heavenly Father loves all of his children. He wants us all to come home to him...everyone will in his or her own time....eternal progression! Please ward leadership, have patience and empathy for those in your stewardship...we need your support and help to feel part of the ward family, especially our young children and teenagers. If you don't, " the world" will. I have lost children because of their experiences in church.
Sally SmithJanuary 12, 2024
Well said. This is a clear message as to why we must trust and understand the Lord's timing on our lives. To teach us to trust in the Lord's timing especially when we don't get what we want when we want it.
Elder Ed SimonsJanuary 12, 2024
I love your mission updates! My wife snd I are Mental Health Advisors living in Argentina and this quote really resonated with me when you said "The younger generation is much better than you may have ever imagined." This generation of young adults are such precious valiant souls and I feel so privileged to serve them and the Lord as we serve them.
O SmithJanuary 12, 2024
The Latter-day Saint woman's comments are spot on! As a woman who has been a part-member family for 40 years, I have experenced every part of what she said. But your magazine story headline isn't really the right question. She wasn't asking how does she make friends -- she's made the effort to make friends. The real question is why church members don't respond in kind? I've done everytlhing you've suggested and yet, unless I initiate contact nothing much happens. There's an exception here or there, but in general members are cordial but they don't really include us in their lives. And yes, my husband has had some pretty rude baptism-ready type questions thrown at him just like your reader.
As a church we just don't know how to deal with non-member families. We don't expect non-members to come into our building or activites. I've had my husband at empty nester activities and members who don't know us just assume he's a member and have made comments about non-members as a whole in front of him -- and then die with embarassment when they find out he's also not a member. And then they avoid us.
I don't see a solution. And after 40 years it's exhausting to keep trying. Instead of counseling her about what she should do, there should have been more discussion about what the OTHERS should do when confronted with part member families in their wards. How do they become more inclusive? That's the issue we have to address.
Andrea VeraJanuary 12, 2024
Se que tu testimonio es muy grande y tienes toda mi admiración y cariño, he sido miembro de la iglesia por mucho tiempo y he tenido grandes experiencias, pero conocerte y verte ser tan fuerte ante tanta adversidad y refugiarte en las escrituras como siempre lo has hecho te ha llevado hasta este momento, se que vendrán más bendiciones, milagros, tribulaciones y experiencias que te harán crecer aún más, Se que Dios te ama como me ama a mi también... Muchas gracias por tu gran valor y por tu gran testimonio. Sabes que te amo con todo mi corazón mi hermosa hija...
Rick KlompJanuary 12, 2024
Christy--Thank you for sharing your powerful affirmation of the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon and the Savior's love for each and every one of Heavenly Father's children. The truthfulness of your words was confirmed to me by the Holy Ghost when I read them.
Roxann FJanuary 12, 2024
Christy thank you for this beautifully written testimony of The Savior and The Book of Mormon. I’m sure there are others who needed to read your story for their own struggles and others who can relate to their own conversion in a similar testimony of its truthfulness. I pray it uplifts the souls of those seeking truth and those confused about the path their on to finding Christ.
Harvey HiggsJanuary 12, 2024
The Sister wishing members would be more sociable outside of church activities should be aware she is not receiving special treatment being excluded any more than active members. Most ward members I know don't socialize outside of church activities. Outside of church and family activities socializing doesn't happen.It seldom happen and I do not expect it to happen.
Romulo C Lakip JrJanuary 12, 2024
Love your story!
Jack StapleyJanuary 12, 2024
I loved his article. Thank you for it. I think you are spot on. I have travelled with you to Oman, and have seen the type of location where they lived another 4 years or so after their arrival in Bountiful. A total of 12 years or so out of Jerusalem. May we all be more Nephi-ish in our attitude and relationship with our God. Life would be so much more enjoyable.
Jenny SvendsenJanuary 12, 2024
WOW! What a pwerful article, powerful testimony, thank you so much!
RaLee HallJanuary 12, 2024
Thank you for sharing your powerful testimony.
Roger DavidsonJanuary 12, 2024
Thank you so very, very much for you inspiring story of gaining a witness of the Book of Mormon. I am totally inspired from your story. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Later day saints I to am trying to find out my standing before my Father-in-heaven. Your story instilled in me a strong desire to keep pushing forward. Thank you so very much for taking the time to share your story.
JeanetteJanuary 11, 2024
What a wonderfully amazing article this is. You explained the importance of Mary so powerfully!
Elaine BarnettJanuary 11, 2024
Joni I loved your thoughts. You are an accomplished teacher! Thank you for your trust in the Llrd. Elaine Barnett
JuliannJanuary 11, 2024
Excellent article. Thank you.
LoraJanuary 11, 2024
A few years ago, I prayed a prayer that I had never prayed before: "Father, I cannot change. Please change me." I had tried and failed so many times to control my emotional eating habit. Books, gyms, clubs, support groups, none of them changed me for long.
I recognized that I had an addiction, and followed the 12 steps, including surrendering to my Higher Power--my Heavenly Father and my Savior. It took a long time, and it wasn't without setbacks, but He has changed me. He took away a compulsion that I've had for 60 years. Now the results are obvious. I might write a book called "Lose 60 Pounds in 60 Years" but I don't think it will be a bestseller. Everyone wants a faster solution.
For the first time in my life, I have confidence to get rid of my big clothes ("just in case"), and expect my current clothes to fit next year. What I realized in this process was that I can't just come unto Him one time. I have to come to Him every day.
Linda StricklandJanuary 10, 2024
Thank you to this author for this insight. So many times we experience what we think is failure. However, this article is a great reminder to have faith and patience.
Bob WJanuary 10, 2024
An Observer & H North—The brother was some years older than the daughter and died three months before she was born. I’ve not had, nor do I know anyone who has had a near death experience, but once while very ill, alone in an ICU a few hours from home, I saw and received a priesthood blessing from my deceased father accompanied by my also deceased mother and others whom I didn’t recognize. I already believed and had a testimony of the afterlife—now I know.
Abbie VianesJanuary 10, 2024
Potatoes, which could save starving French peasants, were not taking on. So the king had them planted in the royal garden and set his royal guard to protect the garden. Word got out and the royal guard turned the other way wnen peasants snuck in to steal potatoes. That is how potatoes went mainstream in France
Wanless SouthwickJanuary 9, 2024
It is very likely that the introductory summary for the First Book of Nephi was written by Mormon not Nephi. Mormon used introductory summaries to briefly describe the content, source, and authorship of each major section of the abridgement he was making of his people’s historical records.
When Mormon found the Small Plates of Nephi among his library records, he appended it to his abridgement and logically followed his practice of adding an introductory summary to it. In the first sentence of the Small Plates of Nephi, Nephi personally declared his authorship by writing "I Nephi,... make a record of my proceedings in my days" (1 Nephi 1:1). Mormon’s introductory summary testifies to that authorship by simply paraphrasing Nephi’s words: “This is according to the account of Nephi; or in other words, I, Nephi, wrote this record.” (1 Nephi Preface:Heading)
CharlotteJanuary 9, 2024
While the things on your self test factor into happiness I was surprised that, Relationship with the Lord", wasn't listed. To me this is critical to genuine happiness.
GTOJanuary 9, 2024
I work at publishing online material to help people increase their testimonies in the gospel. We try to address controversies among the membership when they come up and are just now seeing the hue and cry from angry members regarding a quote from our prophet in General Conference: “Your choices today will determine three things: where you will live throughout all eternity, the kind of body with which you will be resurrected, and those with whom you will live forever.”
Are they searching the scriptures and praying to understand eternal concepts designed by God? Or are they angry that the little we know about Eternal Life doesn't fit the concept they've gleaned from their earthly experiences and feelings? This article addresses this exactly. Humility and gratitude are keys to increasing our understanding. Nephi was humble, teachable, and willing to do anything for the Lord. Thank you for this eloquent, profound insight.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2024
The title of your article was enough to draw me in! Having just watch the Angel Studies film, “His Only Son”, about the faith of father Abraham, I have a new understanding of “a future only God can see”.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2024
I’m not single but I do still have dreams! My husband is an ex-member RM and my three surviving children are decidedly less-active. I’m also struggling to find clients for my Grief Coaching business which, at age 72, sometimes seems like “too little, too late.
In grateful for your kind, hope-filled words, today.
Thank you.
Debbie RaymondJanuary 8, 2024
We experienced our elders teaching the exact same “commandments lesson” to our friend MaryLu. I could NOT believe it. It was her third lesson! She was humble as she nodded yes and yes and so on.
I prayed then, and I continue to pray for our friend to be blessed and for me to have the kind of faith the young missionaries have. (Senior missions are so good for us seniors!)
NealJanuary 8, 2024
What a far different story we would have if Lehi had just told them, OK, go back to Jerusalem and do the best you can; we will go on".
CubbyJanuary 8, 2024
The words that connected with me were"This family cannot continue to be held hostage by his threats." People I have worked with often do not understand that they are the hostages.
carolynJanuary 7, 2024
Oh gosh Steve how did I miss that? Thanks
David Newbold, PhDJanuary 6, 2024
What an absolutely brilliant and insightful piece of writing, the likes of which I have rarely encountered. You have identified the core problem that these two men suffered from. They truly suffered loss and pain, not because they were separated from their riches, although they believed that to be the cause of their unhappiness, they did not place God at their center. Obtaining riches and amassing power on earth has no positive effect on our eternal progress, on the contrary, these earthly desires undermine and, in many cases, bring eternal progression to a screeching halt. Yes, gold and power and dominion can be used in ways that build the Kingdom of God, but only if the person with an abundance of money and influence has amassed those gifts with an eye single to the Glory of God and has successfully removed selfishness out of their life. I have already begun to share this article with some of the patients in my practice of psychology. Thier reading of your thoughts and insights will most certainly assist them in improving their lives.
Thank you again.
ShaunaJanuary 6, 2024
Thank you for this heartfelt, constructive article on the role of BYU. I have a BA and an MA from BYU and then attended 2 other private universities for further graduate study. There is NO comparison in terms of the quality of my academic education at BYU, the facilities, including the Harold B Lee Library, the grounds, the caliber of students, the emphasis on undergraduate teaching....and of course, and most importantly, the spiritual framework that BYU provides. And thanks to tithing funds, the cost is comparatively, incredibly low. Both of my kids attend BYU, and while it's not perfect, I am thrilled for them to be there and am encouraged by President Reese's passionate commitment to making BYU into what prophets have said it needs to become. I also love BYU Br. Thayne. It has played a huge role in my life
Cindy HuffakerJanuary 6, 2024
I think that Laman and Lemuel were very accustomed to the world and its ways. They didn't believe in God, didn't even WANT to believe in God. Even when there was evidence and testimony that persuaded them, they soon forgot, because they were not "grounded" in their own spiritual foundation through experiences - prayer, etc. A real testimony of God, Jesus Christ, is sincerely sought for.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 6, 2024
Thank you. In the postwar 1950's my father worked at UCLA to help design and construct other campuses in Santa Barbara and Riverside.
He was personally recruited by Earnest Wilkinson to go to BYU, and help transform it into the beautiful and large university it is today.
The student housing complexes of Heritage Halls, Hellman Halls, the Harris Fine Arts Center, and moving the football stadium from it's former location on lower campus, where the current buildings are located, to the distant location where the current stadium is, were some of his accomplishments and legacy.
Unfortunately, he had a very liberal and unsympathetic attitude toward the Church, its members and doctrine, and for those reasons he was dismissed from his position after two years.
Because of residual bitterness, he forbid his four children to ever attend there as students. But because my older sister received a full, four-year scholarship to attend, he relented and allowed her to do so.
That opened the door for all of us to attend and graduate from BYU. Two us us with Master's degrees. Both my sisters met their husbands there, who both served full-time missions, as did my twin brother and myself.
The opportunity and experience to attend BYU was the most significant and transformative experience of my life, and my siblings could each say the same.
I consider the campus and environment there to be sacred and holy ground. I don't think it's impact and influence on hundreds of thousands lives can be overstated. It is very special and unique.
Donna McCownJanuary 5, 2024
Laman and Lemuel did not realize they were not in charge. God was and Nephi figured that out. Our prisons are full of people who refused to believe they were not in charge.
ChuckJanuary 5, 2024
I never fail to find application from the Book of Mormon in my life. Your article put some of my thoughts in to wonderful words. Thank you
F BoothJanuary 5, 2024
There is another character in the story. His name is Sam. He was older than Nephi but younger than L & L. He chose to side with Nephi. Yet, we learn very little about him. Did Nephi sleight him or was it simply that his story was outside the purpose of the Book of Mormon? He experienced everything his three brothers experienced, but his reaction is not recorded. Too bad!
JaneJanuary 5, 2024
This is beautifully said! It really resonated with me. Thank you!
WilJanuary 5, 2024
You reported many scriptures written by Oliver Cowdery that were part of the instruction Moroni gave to Joseph. I see the sources for the most of those verses from the Messenger and Advocate Feb and April 1835. But I cant find the sources for the last few. Matt 19 and Rev 6. Where can I find the source material for those verses being used by Moroni? Thanks
Jim BrownJanuary 5, 2024
Thank you for an inspired commentary that "hits the nail on the head" with regard to commitment to the Savior as the key to happiness in this life and as our "nail in the sure place" with regard to gaining eternal life.
Mary NooseJanuary 5, 2024
I love this article! It was exactly what I needed to hear, and confirms some things that the Holy Spirit has been telling me. Thank you!
Mike PerkinsJanuary 5, 2024
Love this. Have ye inquired of the Lord? Do you know the dealings of God? You are in a difficult situation - can you turn to the Lord and ask him to teach you and help you?
HelenCJanuary 5, 2024
It is so hard watching those I love struggle as Laman and Lemuel did! Love is challenging enough WITH Faith; it must be immeasurably dark without it!
I keep praying for my husband’s return to at least the place where he again acknowledges what he used to call, “Helen’s little miracles”.
I know Father has His arms ready to receive him but he is the one who must turn around, as I once did.
Oh, the Joy that awaits him! I will keep Laman and Lemuel vs. Nephi in my mind throughout the year, watching and waiting for opportunities to add touches of light to our journey together.
Adrian MartinJanuary 5, 2024
Great message! Great lesson! Thank you!
Jennifer SJanuary 4, 2024
I've never struggled with the desire to wear the holy garment but I have daughters who do struggle. I grew up being taught that the garment represented modesty in women and so naturally taught that to my children. Now we understand the true symbolism of the temple garment and how it represents the Savior and our covenant to remember Him. I've tried to share these insights with my daughters. Sadly they view the garment as a sign of male partriarchy (old men in Salt Lake telling women what kind of underwear they should wear and how to dress). They are tired of hearing that they are responsible for men's thoughts and actions. I spoke to our Stake Young Women's president and begged her to encourage leaders to stop linking the garment to modesty in women and to instead teach what it truly symbolizes. Imagine if our women enter the temple for the first time and leave armed with the power of God and a tangible reminder of the Savior and the covenant they have made to follow Him?
Randal WagnerJanuary 4, 2024
What about tithing on benefits? Healthcare, employer-paid social security, matching 401K contributions, parking spots, etc.? I need to do some praying about this. If I get an answer that I should be paying tithing on those things, I have a lot of back-tithings to pay. I am leaning toward paying tithing on my full SS ck and hope I live long enough to pay the debt.
Very good response from Martin.
Steve DoneganJanuary 4, 2024
Not a criticism, just something I noticed... Numbers 36 and 41 are the same.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 4, 2024
This is an amazing list. Thank you! Just last Sunday at church we had a class on emergency preparedness. In my area, we are prone to earthquakes and are long overdue for a big one. However, given the events of recent years, we need to remember that emergencies can also be personal. We may not face a catastrophic event, but we may face illness, unemployment, a financial crisis, etc. Some preparedness is better than none, and we can always improve.
DaveJanuary 3, 2024
the often reported battlefield instance
of dying soldiers calling "Mother"... could
it be that their own mothers are indeed
visiting them in such a terrible time to
comfort them going beyond? how is that
possible if their mothers are still living and
hoping for their return home? as supposed
by CS Lewis, God is not limited by what we
experience as linear time... so might He not
send/allow such as these mothers from where
they are in Heaven yrs/decades hence to return
through time to comfort their children of this life
in the most extreme trials?
Corey D.January 3, 2024
Good article, after 66 yrs of life, 45 yrs of marriage we have a lot of stuff, some is even from parents and grandparents, it's hard to part with some things, some of it has value though like family history stuff or heirlooms. I do worry though what's going to happen to some of it because my children are not very sentimental about things plus in some cases they have no room for things. I wonder if it's a generational thing, my generation is the last that had parents and grandparents who went through the depression and war and were taught and in turn taught us not to waste anything and appreciate our heritage, so we keep things.
Corey D.January 3, 2024
I served as the branch president when the veterans home was built and opened in our area, I tried to visit several times a week besides Sunday and especially when I knew one of those good veterans was close to moving on from this life I tried to visit as much as I could. I could tell you all kinds of interesting stories about those from the other side being seen by those close to death and even conversing with those from the other side. I would imagine the care center staff, aides, nurses and even doctors probably could write volumes about near death experiences of patients.
ObserverJanuary 3, 2024
Elder Packer touched upon this to in his Conference talk titled 'The Mystery of Life'.
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1983/10/the-mystery-of-life?lang=eng
An ObserverJanuary 3, 2024
@H North, It said the brother DIED three months before the other was BORN. Not two births; one death, one birth. No credibility problem.
Helmut A. WorleJanuary 3, 2024
On our mission in Germany there was young man, early twenties, who had a testimony of the Book of Mormon and all else the sister missionaries taught him, but he could no overcome his cigarette addiction, no matter how hard he tried. Finally, one of the Sisters had an idea. She reminded him of the story of the Anti-Nephi-Lehis and challenged him to make a covenant with Heavenly Father, complete with a ceremony in which he buried all his tobacco utensils and last cigarette pack along with a covenental prayer. It worked! He has never smoked since, was baptized and is a stalwart Saint to this day..
Ken WrightJanuary 3, 2024
My sister is a retired Nun. When we go to visit at the retirement facility, it seems there are more statues, pictures. writings and prayers involving Mary then there are of the Savior. Your presentation is an eye opener that brings new thoughts and insights. I will certainly see Mary (and Joseph) more appreciatively in future visits. Thank you.
Diane ChatwinJanuary 3, 2024
This last pod of the year was a wonderful ending of the New Testament and at the same time a beautiful introduction the the Book of Mormon. It was the perfect segue from one year to the next. Your discussion of the Accuser helped me SO much this week . . . thank you, thank you. I was one of the very fortunate folks who were able to see Jordan and Jerusalem with you last year. What a phenomenal blessing!!! Blessings to you on your mission.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenJanuary 3, 2024
Thank you for that spiritually uplifting and consoling article. My mother died twice, declared clinically dead, and on one of these occasions she did go beyond the veil, she told me she was herself, but no more pain, a gentle voice told her she had to go back and tell people of life after death, so when the missionaries cam and taught us the plan of Salvation, both she and I as a 10 year young girl, knew that it was true. Fast forward, to when our adult son passed, the night we found out, he came to me and reassured me that he was happy and at peace, he later gave a message to his dad, through someone else, that was very personal. I do look forward to meeting him, ht told that his grandmother was there to greet him, and that was my mom, as his dad's mom was still living. These experiences are very sacred to me and confirms that our departed are just as alive as were are here on the earth, just in a different place
Adrian MartinJanuary 3, 2024
Long before I joined the Church in 1976, I had read books by Elizabeth Kuebler-Ross on Life after Life. Daniel's article is excellent and I, too, love the words of that hymn with which he finished his remarks. Thank you!
Charles KrautJanuary 3, 2024
There is an old Shirley Temple movie entitled The Blue Bird that includes a fairly lengthy scene in the pre-mortal spirit world. It is well worth watching, if you can find it.
SueJanuary 2, 2024
Thank you! Absolutely beautiful. I will definitely share this.
CubbyJanuary 2, 2024
Always enjoy the jokes, thanks for magnifying your talents and blessing us with your creativity.
Richard and Marie JukesJanuary 2, 2024
Thank you for the inspiring insights into the wearing of the name of our Savior! Our love and prayers are with you daily!
BillieJanuary 2, 2024
know they felt a special need to warn, but let us not forget that many are holding fast to the iron rod and obtaining their exaltation despite all the hazards along the way.
MaryannJanuary 2, 2024
Since this deception continued for MONTHS, I would be very hesitant about marrying this man. She was waiting all that time, and he had not even submitted the papers? It is also very troubling that he is more concerned about his children's feelings than her's. I see red flags all over this situation, and I hope she will think very carefully before continuing in this relationship. If his concerns for his adult children are greater than his loyalty to her, there are all sorts of problems looming on the horizon.
David MohrJanuary 2, 2024
There is no discussion of the meaning of the word sojourn. I usually see sojourn as meaning staying. Add the definition of wilderness as a place without civilization's influence and you can easily say they were eight years travelling from Jerusalem to leaving Bountiful or even from Jerusalem to the new world,where they established a new civilization.
As put forth in the essay, we need to expand our thinking to include the many tasks glossed over by Nephi.
Charles DikeJanuary 2, 2024
This article precludes the possibility that the 600-year prophecy was based on an intercalated lunar/solar calendar. Randall Spackman's 12-lunar month calendar fits reasonably snuggly if the prophecy began when the Nephites set sail. Interesting.
Charles DikeJanuary 1, 2024
Nice article! I note that this supports Randall Spackman's 12 lunar month calendar and precludes an intercalated calendar for the 600-year prophecy. If we accept that the reign of Zedekiah began in 597 BC and Christ was born a year prior to Herod's death before the Passover of 4 BC, then we have 592 solar years. Subtracting 8 years in the wilderness allows 584 solar years for the 600-year prophecy. that leaves less than 602 lunar years in which to place the prophecy. Interesting.
Brad LDecember 30, 2023
Excellent article. I'll look forward to reading your more detailed Interpreter article.
You've laid out in a very convincing manner what so many of us have thought regarding the 8 years in the 'wilderness': that most of that time had to have been spent in Khor Kharfot building the ship.
Thank you!
R. FlynnDecember 29, 2023
I am active LDS. I just saw "The Oath". I was very disappointed. This was NOT a good movie portrayal of Moroni and the Book of Mormon. To me, this was an ego trip of Darin Scott. Scott took way too much artistic license in creating his own version that would feature Darin Scott, Darin Scott, and, oh yeah, some more of Darin Scott. This was a missed opportunity. I very much hope someone else will put their ego aside, and create a Moroni-based story/movie with a focus on Moroni, Mormon, and the events leading up to the plates being deposited in the Hill Cumorah.
Warren AstonDecember 29, 2023
When Godfrey Ellis's original paper appeared in the Interpreter journal (vol. 57) a few months ago, I posted a comment that this truly seminal step forward in our understanding of Nephi's account already sheds new light on aspects of Bountiful and gave a couple of examples. For those of us who believe this all took place in the real world and involved real people, being able to visualize the journey accurately is foundational. I'm glad to see this shortened version appear!
Single Man in Virginia, late 50'sDecember 29, 2023
Here I am reading this over ten years later. As newly-single man in my late 50's, reading this article -- but most especially these comments -- has been very interesting. I wonder what, if anything, has changed in these past 10 years. What have ward, stake, and church leaders tried. What is working? What is helping? I don't know whether I'll re-marry or not. For now I'll just keep doing my best to live the gospel, and seek the Lord's guidance. I will be open to meeting new people and making friends. With the gospel in my life, I have plenty to be thankful for.
RobynDecember 29, 2023
Love it! Thx for all the laughs Kevin. Happy New Years!
Lynne JensenDecember 29, 2023
Fascinating, and logical, article. When one considers the details involved in those eight years, your presentation makes very good, and logical, sense. Thank you.
JAMES P FOLEYDecember 29, 2023
Good; thanks.
DoraDecember 29, 2023
I never thought it other than what emerged in this article. I am glad I was correct in my understanding. Wildernesd to me us anywhere where there is no civilisation or settlements. The 8 years were the total time from leaving to sailing the ship. Joseph and Jacob on the ship were still very young so probably were born in Bountiful and less than 6 years old. I am grateful for the Loed to make me able to nderstand correctly the story. All the best for the New Year 2024!
Paul RobertsDecember 29, 2023
The wood drying process would have been avoided if the chosen trees would have been girdled and left to dry out naturally and drain out water and sugars. Recommended as the best way to harvest structural timber. Ribs would have been made from curved and or forked trees.
ArletteDecember 29, 2023
All I can say is Thank you ,
Craig PetersenDecember 28, 2023
Great insights. Simultaneously, He has the power to save and the love to comfort. Especially liked the “spiritual oxymorons”.
Lauren HausmanDecember 28, 2023
My daughter is Hermana Hausman. She was so excited to go to your house for Christmas brunch! Thank you so much for making it a special day for her and the other missionaries! She loved it!
GerryDecember 28, 2023
They should NOT plan a wedding and set a date until the sealing has been dissolved. That issue causes too much stress and emotional upset. Take the time to do it right. If it is right, it will stand the test of time.
Lorna LundDecember 28, 2023
Reading this was very emotional for me! We were going to go with the Proctor’s to Israel before the outbreak of War in Israel. We were to go in May. Of course, the trip was canceled. Reading about their missionary service in Puerto Rico was so beautiful. I shed many tears reading it and realizing the good they are doing in serving others. It made me realize that we are all God’s Hands. This article was so beautifully written. I am sending it to my grandson, Cooper, who is serving in the Dallas West Texas mission. They are invited in to eat at so many homes — but no one wants to hear about the gospel or wants a copy of the Book of Mormon. He gets discouraged — but, like the Proctors, he is out there every day serving. Thank you for this beautifully written article.
Gary and Joy LundbergDecember 28, 2023
It was inspiring to read this article about your mission and the challenges you face as you try to serve the Lord. Your light shines bright and reflects the Lord's face. People will see that and be led to him in many ways as they watch you. You are an example of faith and cheerfulness wherever you are. You are in our prayers. We love you both.
DavidDecember 28, 2023
Thanks for sharing your missionary service experiences. It is certainly a leap of faith to immerse yourselves into a culture where you don’t know the language very well yet you have proven than you can do much good by diving into the work and letting God guide your actions.
SallyDecember 27, 2023
I would like to correct a misleading translation that happens everytime any other translation is used besides KJV or the original texts, which causes chaos. You stated that the Bible states," He was despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and we hid as it were our faces from Him; He was despised, and we esteemed GIM NOT." Surely he hath borne OUR griefs, and carried OUR sorrows, yet we esteemed Him Stricken, smitten OF God, and afflicted. This last part is explained in Matthew 8:17 and the following verses in Isaiah 53. Look at V. 8 and 10-12. People with sin, do not like their sins exposed so they tend to hide, especially from the one who is going to bare and die for those sins. Remember, that God willingly gave His only and most precious sinless Son as an offering of sacrifice to the world so that we may be saved as He too loved us, but unlike Christ, we didn't deserve His love, but He loved us anyway, enough to allow His Son to endure the cruelty of man. Thank you and God Bless you!
Corey D.December 27, 2023
I heard Elder Marvin J Ashton tell a story once about being called into President Benson's office and being given a somewhat challenging assignment, when President Benson finished talking to him about it he said to President Benson, "I'll do it President", to which President Benson replied " I know you will Marvin, we trust you". Elder Ashton then said something I have not forgotten, he said "I would rather be trusted than loved".
MaryannDecember 27, 2023
Great principles here! However, I must say that some of us just are not made to be early morning people. Ever since I was a teen, morning just has not been a great time for me, physically or emotionally, Some of us have to move around a bit before we become clear minded, and that's o.k. A prayer offered at 10 a.m. is just as valuable as a prayer at 6 a.m. The important thing is to have sincere daily personal prayer and scripture study. Let's not become too rigid here.
Laurie Claeys BoydDecember 27, 2023
Beautiful, timely article! Thank you so much for this.
JillDecember 27, 2023
How kind is our God! I've suffered a lot in the past several years. There is only one who redeems, saves, and loves us unfailingly! Jesus is the answer to all of our tribulations in this mortal life. Let us return to Him every moment of every day! We are blessed with òur testimony of Our Lord and His wonderful Atonement.
Blake GarsideDecember 27, 2023
From my early days growing up in Granger, Utah and reading 2 Nephi 3, I have often wondered, what did Joseph Smith do in the Pre-existence to distinguish himself so well? Particularly, to usher in the last dispensation and be the prophet of the restoration?
In addition, what was Joseph’s first reaction when he translated 2 Nephi 3, oh I wished I could have witnessed his reaction!!
I love the prophet Joseph for being the instrument of restoring the Priesthood whereby sacred & exalted Ordinances can be performed in our sacred Temples
Blake GarsideDecember 27, 2023
From my early days growing up in Granger, Utah and reading 2 Nephi 3, I have often wondered, what did Joseph Smith do in the Pre-existence to distinguish himself so well? Particularly, to usher in the last dispensation and be the prophet of the restoration?
In addition, what was Joseph’s first reaction when he translated 2 Nephi 3, oh I wished I could have witnessed his reaction!!
I love the prophet Joseph for being the instrument of restoring Priesthood whereby sacred & exalted Ordinances can be performed in our sacred Temples
PaulineDecember 25, 2023
Where are the additional 44 symbols you mentioned are in your podcast notes?
C SavageDecember 25, 2023
Well said! Beautiful! Thank you for sharing your dream with us. Your testimony is precious.
Lynne JensenDecember 24, 2023
Outstanding article. Thank you so much.
Corey D.December 24, 2023
My father-in-law who was about the nicest guy you could ever meet, was serving as the Bishop in his ward and was encouraging the ward members to sing in the ward choir decided he needed to be an example so he went choir practice, after choir practice he was told, " Bishop, we know you have so much to do and we have enough in the choir, you really don't have to participate". He knew they were politely asking him not to sing.
Corey D.December 24, 2023
Thank you Sister Christofferson for the excellent, needed, timely and might I add brave article. I like many others can share stories of the physical protection sometimes even miraculous protection from wearing garments but I have come to know the greatest benefit is the spiritual protection. When I was younger and my mother was still alive, when visiting her I would ask how an old friend or neighbor was doing, she would respond with what she knew about them and occasionally would say "well, they aren't wearing their garments", some would say that was judgemental or why would she even notice that or know about it but I have found over the years what she implied or meant by that response has never been wrong, it was and in my personal observations has always been an indicator for a person going into inactivity, leaving the church or breaking the commandments
Judy ParnellDecember 24, 2023
Thank you, as always, for your thoughtful reverent message which leads my soul to worship anew in gratitude this Holy Christmas Eve.
Mark W MinerDecember 23, 2023
Inspired and beautiful writing! Thank you for expressing a number of important and balanced ponderings and observations. Merry Christmas!
John RedfordDecember 23, 2023
It would be interesting to know which branch of Joseph. No one is from the tribe of Joseph only. Joseph was given a double portion by way of the birthright.
AliceDecember 23, 2023
I cried all the way through these. Good tears.
MaryannDecember 22, 2023
You have been remarkably patient, but I would have greatly limited my contact with the in-laws long ago. Your energies should be primarily spent on your spouse and children, and your in-laws are draining you. The time to say "Enough!" has come, and you can do that by setting some strict boundaries. When the in-laws speak to you disrespectfully, you can immediately leave their presence, or tell them you need to hang up. Do this EVERY time, without exception. If they continue to be abusive, and this is abuse, you don't need to be around them. The fact that you are related to someone does not mean you have to go to their home (or have them in yours) and get repeatedly kicked.
MaryannDecember 22, 2023
I hope everyone who has a depressed family member or friend will read this. While suffering from serious depression, I found a good Psychiatrist who was also a Bishop. He helped me find the tools that have changed my life dramatically, and I have so much more joy. The depressed husband in this article is probably not able to think clearly right now, but his wife CAN have faith that he will become well again. It will help her to remember that depression can temporarily rob a person of any joy, and some even become numb. Deep inside, he still loves her, but is unable to cope with much right now because depression can completely drain you of energy to give to a relationship. Even small things will be completely overwhelming for him. I hope she, and others in this situation, will carefully follow Brother Steurer's excellent advice. There IS life and happiness still to come. It is especially important that she have a trusted friend or family member to talk with. A couple of visits with a therapist on her own would also help her learn how to take care of herself and to understand what her husband is experiencing.
JoeyDecember 22, 2023
You forgot Hobby-Lobby, it made me cry!
Leonard BoydellDecember 22, 2023
I love you article. I have said many ties in the past that I could never be a general authority because I have no middle name. Now that I has been blown out of the water (not that there aren't other reasons why I won't be called). A friend also commented that Elder Keiran is a convert, which has not happen for a great many years. Also he is English, probably the first English man since John Taylor, although many previous Apostles have roots going back to the UK.
Carol MaskDecember 22, 2023
THANK YOU! I had a similar dream only not the part where I literally decided to stand by Him in gratitude.
I was just so excited that He came forth saying Here Am I. Send me; so excited I could hardly contain my joy. It wasn’t a quiet, humble joy, with head bowed and eyes closed. It was a jump up and down, clap your hands and SHOUT forJOY! So happy and grateful! It helps me to get through the hard times.
And I love that you looked upon every one you met here on earth, knowing they too chose Jesus! Maybe they jumped up and down too.
HelenCDecember 22, 2023
Such clarity and scholarship! I have saved the link to this article until I can preserve the text on my computer. I also sent it to a friend who has developed issues with unfounded stories of Brother Joseph. It seems the powers of darkness that attacked him in his lifetime are still at work. I am forever grateful to know that Truth will prevail and that scholars like yourself will continue to expose it.
HelenCDecember 21, 2023
The knowledge that He did this for me gives me so much Peace. The knowledge that everyone I meet once knew it, too, gives me Hope and frees me to love them unconditionally, as Father and Christ do.
EdgarDecember 21, 2023
Wow! A very compelling article. Powerful enough that helped me to abide with my post as a loving husband.
LaWrenDecember 21, 2023
Thank you for sharing all these remarkable uplifting experiences. … beautiful!
Lorena HolmsteadDecember 20, 2023
Lora - you can still pay on Venmo without knowing the last four digits of his phone number. Just press “Pay without Confirming” at the bottom, and the payment will go through. Thank you for the invitation to help our, Brother Goddard!.
Wally GoddardDecember 20, 2023
Thank you for your interest in donating! You are welcome to send a check to 37 Shadow Mtn Dr, Logan, UT 84321 if you do not have Venmo. If you have Venmo and they ask for my phone, you can give 2724 or you can skip the step and pay anyway.
Blessings to you!
Wally
MaryannDecember 20, 2023
In the midst of painful grieving, none of us want to hear trite phrases, no matter how well meant they are. We need to be aware that we cannot "fix," or try to change what someone is feeling at the death of a loved one. We can keep our loving comments brief and to the point. No one wants a lecture at this time. Sometimes a hug and just being present, sitting with the person, will help them to express their feelings without us asking a lot of questions. When we lost our daughter five hours after birth, a member of the church responded by saying enthusiastically, "Isn't that just WONDERFUL! You will have her in the next life, and be able to raise her." His tone of voice was ridiculously congratulatory, as if we should have a big party. It was very insensitive and offensive.
BarbaraDecember 20, 2023
I also tried to donate but it asked me for the last four digits of Wallace's phone number.
MaryannDecember 20, 2023
I can picture the lord lovingly clothing Adam and Eve to protect them before they left the Garden of Eden. When we wear our garment, it is a reminder that the Lord has lovingly clothed US as a reminder of the Savior and the covenants we have made. While the garment will not always protect us from physical harm, it help strengthen us in our resolve to keep our covenants. There are great promises from the Lord to covenant keepers. The garment is sacred and called the garment of the Holy Priesthood. Like our nation's flag, it should not touch the ground, or be treated casually.
Carol NorthcottDecember 20, 2023
One of my favorite quotes about grief describes the experience the way I feel it: “GRIEF IS A POWERFUL RIVER in flood. It cannot be argued or reasoned or wrestled down to an insignificant trickle. You must let it take you where it is going. When it pulls you under, all you can do is keep your eyes open for rocks and fallen trees, try not to panic, and stay face up so you will know where the sky is. You will need that information later. Eventually, its waters calm and you will be on a shore far from where you began, raw and sore, but clean and as close to whole as you will ever be again.”
From: The Enchanted Life of Adam Hope: A Novel by Rhonda Riley
ShaunaDecember 20, 2023
Brilliant! love it
James O Brown IIDecember 20, 2023
How can we donate if we do not do Venmo?
JeffDecember 20, 2023
I literally feel naked without my Garments on my rather aging body. I haven’t always felt that way. It was the same feeling, or lack of, I experienced while taking the Sacrament. I did not fully understand until my loving wife pointed out my mistake and lack of scriptural learning. My only excuse, I didn’t have the background or experience, being raised a non member. Now I’ve been a member for 55 years. As mentioned in another comment, being patient and long-suffering is the key.
Early on I found ways to not wear the Garments, sports, Summer heat, etc. Now, I don’t feel I could ever not wear them. Just yesterday, Tuesday, I spent the best part of my day in the Payson Temple.
PS: I’m doing this on my cellphone
HelenCDecember 20, 2023
Have a blessed, Joy-filled Christmas, my friend.
LoraDecember 20, 2023
I tried to make a donation, but Venmo asked me for the last 4 digits of your phone number to complete the transaction.
Steven SwarthoutDecember 20, 2023
Don’t know Venmo, how about Zelle?
Robert StarlingDecember 19, 2023
It's very simple. I made a promise in the temple to wear the garment "night and day", and I try to be a man of my word.
Also, it can truly be a protection physically. Once my father was welding when the torch slipped to his leg. His pants were burned away, but not his temple garment. And his leg was unharmed.
Robert StarlingDecember 19, 2023
The people of Puerto Rico are blessed to have the Proctors as ambassadors of Christ in their midst. And the other missionaries are blessed to have them as fellow servants.
Anita CallDecember 19, 2023
This is one of the more powerful articles that Becky Douglas has shared with readers of Meridian. My experience has confirmed that sincere acts of service bring joy that strengthens our relationships with our fellow beings and especially with our Heavenly Father and His Son, our Savior, Jesus Christ. Thank you, Becky! Anita Call
Karla BurkhartDecember 19, 2023
So good to hear from you. You will do well.
Joni HiltonDecember 19, 2023
Can't think of anyone better to teach these wonderful young elders and sisters!
Marilynne LinfordDecember 19, 2023
Yes. The lessons are called BookofMormon4us. The last lesson is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwBPz5gOgdI&t=7s. I think you can access the others from there.
JonathanDecember 19, 2023
Wonderful material. I think there is room to explore more on the topic of how to respond to those that actually don't desire to show a strong sign to their God that they desire to be connected to Him. For some, it may just be a matter of education on what the garment wearing truly means. But what about those that in fact understand the ideas, but they simply aren't at a place in life where those ideas are important to them. Do we encourage those people to not wear the garment at all if they aren't going to wear it with full dedication? Do we encourage those people to not go to the temple in the first place? This really is about how do we respond to those with lukewarm commitment to God, besides trying to re-educate them. What other tools do we have? I'm not saying I have the answers, (though I would suggest patience and love are among them). I just think there is room for discovery on what - if anything - we can do more besides teach more about the doctrine.
RuthDecember 19, 2023
Thank you so much. Love your podcasts
NealDecember 18, 2023
Quite simply, you make a covenant in the Temple to wear the garment always and for the rest of your life.
ShaunaDecember 18, 2023
Absolutely--thanks for the article. I love my garments and am so grateful for the way they help me to remember the Savior and that as an endowed member of the Savior's Church, I am set apart from the world. They have become more and more meaningful to me as the years have passed; and our temple ordinances, including the initiatory and the endowment, remind us of their importance and of the blessings associated with wearing them
ScottHDecember 18, 2023
A discussion with a friend who is a runner caused me to reflect on my choice to remove the temple garment while exercising. He expressed how his love of what the garment represents makes him want to wear it anytime he reasonably can. Sure, the garment may get sweaty during a workout, but that's a small thing compared to the joy of cherishing the Lord and our covenants with Him that are symbolized by the garment. Changing my exercise wardrobe to support the garment has felt right and I am grateful to my friend for sharing his personal insights.
ElaineDecember 18, 2023
Thank you for this much needed message and reminder of all that is right and good about our temple garment.
HelenCDecember 18, 2023
While I agree the garments themselves are not “magical”, I felt the physical power that comes with them when my covenants were restored and I was able to wear them again after losing the privilege. I awoke in the middle of the night that first night to feel as though a soft sheet was being draped over me. I knew then that Father was aware of my return.
E. TaylorDecember 18, 2023
My favorite book What Seek Ye. I have listened to it twice and listening for a 3rd time
Linda WestoverDecember 18, 2023
Amen to everything you said!
As a temple ordinance worker, I have been appalled by the number of
"mothers of the bride" who tuck and pin the garment to make it conform
to the neck/sleeve line of the wedding dress. How do they dare tp teach their precious daughters to "adjust" their obedience to meet the fashion of our day? Certainly we are free to choose for ourselves, but there is also the responsibility to teach correct principles!
Thanks for speaking up!
Rochelle HaleDecember 18, 2023
Thank you for this timely article. We recently helped an elderly friend who went to the temple for the first time. Though he took the temple preparation course, and we helped him shop for his temple clothing, he was still very confused. A day or show after receiving his endowment he shared that he thought that temple garments were only part of the ceremonial clothing. We will share this article with him.
Linda VanCottDecember 18, 2023
Beautiful thoughts. While I've worn them constantly since I received my endowments in 1971 before my mission, this reaffirmed my reasons, added insight, increased my awareness of their symbolism and importance, and deepend my love for these sacred garments. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Gail McHardyDecember 18, 2023
Yes it would take a whole book to tell the reasons why I always wear my garments. They have been a major blessing since my first temple experience. A constant reminder of the Saviour's promises, protection love.
Kerry FarrDecember 18, 2023
Hello Elder and Sister Proctor.
This is Kerry Farr and Karen Murphy. I am Kerry ,long time reader of Meridian Magazine.
We are on Dominica Island, in your mission Was happy to see you had come to our mission❣️ we are serving a humanitarian “ mini mission” for 3 months with Anxiously Engaged Alliance. We can relate with so much of what you are experiencing ❣️ Karen has even had Dengue! Doing well now. The people are so friendly and helpful. We help the busy Elders with visits - and food and treats for them. We love the members and investigators in our small half a Branch. Ya man, no problem, no mean mugging… We miss going to the temple. You are very blessed to have one so close.
Best wishes and God bless you in all you are doing ❤️
Corey D.December 17, 2023
DIY rules. That's not only an inspirational story but humorous.
Corey D.December 17, 2023
There are those in society who have been warning us for decades about what has been going on in the education system, particularly in higher education, including many church leaders, President Benson in particular. President McKay who was an educator by choice and by profession warned about the evils of socialism and how it was being advanced under the guise of fairness, equality and even patriotism. A prophets voice and warning isn't just for moral or religious things.
Shelby B.December 17, 2023
Not a Mormon, but the themes of tyranny, oppression, slavery and evil were certainly well explored in this movie. Moroni showed the compassion of Christ throughout. What an amazing love story also! Only wish it could have been longer. The Southam family is due much credit for this movie! One of the best movies ever, loved it with the same heart I loved Gladiator and 300. If you can't catch it in the theater, catch it any way you can, it is beautiful, well acted, and a vision I hope will keep going.
Corey D.December 17, 2023
What a wonderful article, interesting how the spirit works and knows all things, so much inspiration in this story and outside of the story. Just this week my daughter in law sent out a text saying that she and my son had decided to separate and file for divorce, this same son came home early from his mission many years ago, as I contemplated and thought about this son and how would he cope with divorce and life, the thought came to me that he needs to get involved in service to others and then I read this article and it was a confirmation of my thoughts, I know it came from the spirit, service is always the answer.
Ron StandageDecember 16, 2023
It can be found by searching on YouTube for BookofMormon4us.
KarenDecember 16, 2023
Thanks for reminding me what it’s all about… Faith in Him!!!
GailDecember 15, 2023
I love hearing of your missionary adventures in P.R.
I have been there 3 times to see our son and can identify with what you are experiencing.
I also love temple and family history work. I joined a genealogy class the Sunday after I was baptized on 19 February 1966. Back then, there were only 13 temples in the world. So grateful for my testimony of this Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 15, 2023
Thanks for asking. Yes. The lessons are still on YouTube. The last lesson is at https://youtu.be/UwBPz5gOgdI?si=_18U-2zYoZp-pUQA. I think once you are in you can access the others at links to previous classes. I can also access the lessons at YouTube BookofMormon4us Marilynne Linford. Remember, I am not a professional!
NancyDecember 15, 2023
This is the most beautiful & inspiring article. I love it so much! Thank you so much to all who contributed to the writing of this story. I love reading about “conversion”
stories. When hearts & souls are changed & become more like our Savior. Thank you so much! ♥️
Nancy HDecember 15, 2023
Wow. Excellent article. I'll be sharing it with others.
Diane AndersonDecember 15, 2023
Loved reading this article last night. The mission president was very wise in his counsel to the struggling missionary. Having our focus on others and their needs always is the right way to go.
HelenCDecember 15, 2023
How I wish I had thought of this while my less active daughter was living with us for the past 3 years! She did rescue a wonderful dog while she was here and caring for Tsuki has definitely impacted her life and anxiety issues. Now she’s three hours away again but I will see if I can direct her to some charity work from here.
Thank you!
Gainell and Mark RogersDecember 15, 2023
It was great to hear about your early experiences in the mission. Keep up the good work. May you be blessed with good heath and strength.
Feliz Navidad!!
Ann-Marie JensenDecember 14, 2023
I loved this insightful commentary on these words and concepts. I find words to be so important and am often intrigued by how particular words are used so carefully in some of the scriptures. Thanks for sharing your unique growth experience. And a thanks to Becky for knowing how to receive revelation.
HelenCDecember 14, 2023
So inspiring! Is your Book of Mormon YouTube channel still up and available to us?
Andrea (Osinchak) BartleyDecember 14, 2023
I am loving your mission letters! I've read Meridian Magazine for years however there is really something special about your mission experiences to date. Perhaps its because I'm a professional family history consultant, and Director of our FSC, and love helping people, especially the new members. We have a similar process to get new members to the temple doing ancestral baptisms in our stake here in Columbia, SC. I give out FS.org pass along cards all the time and hope people are using it. As I'm reading your experiences I'm thinking about a high school friend who passed away and I'd need permission to do her ordinances but there are no parents, siblings, children or spouse to get permission from. Her sister was born in San Juan, Puerto Rico 19 Sep 1959 and died in the US in 2021. Her mother was born in Puerto Rico and her name was Laura Padro but I have no dates or place. She married Jack Kosharek probably around 1953. I believe Laura died in Puerto Rico as Laura Kosharek. If I could get this back just one more generation and come to know Laura's parents I could do some research and submit my high school friends family even though I can't submit her. Any chance you might have some ideas for me how to find something out about Laura Padro? Jack was born in 1927 in Penna but I don't know if they married in Puerto Rico. I just felt while reading your article I should at least write and ask. If there are no ideas that is just fine, but I just want to follow my prompting to ask. Heaven's blessings on your both! By the way we used to live in the same stake many years ago - Annandale, VA. What great memories there!
LoraDecember 14, 2023
Is it possible to watch those Book of Mormon lessons on YouTube?
Linda WestoverDecember 13, 2023
What a sweet experience! Too many of us fail to "have eyes that see and ears that hear." How disappointing is must be to the Lord when He sends us miracles and they go unnoticed. Thanks for the reminder to put our faith to work!
Mark MathesonDecember 13, 2023
Gary Lawrence has a fresh view of how we should do missionary work. I wish more people followed his advice. Thanks for the practical wisdom.
Carol StephensDecember 12, 2023
I think it sets them apart from other people with the same first and last name. It’s easier to identify which person, with that status, is being talked about.
LanaDecember 12, 2023
Hi will you please send the first page that goes with the nativity scene in the article about Christmas resources? Thank you.... one can't do the activity without page one
KathleenDecember 12, 2023
Thank you for including us in your daily experiences. May the Lord continue to bless you in this great work and wonderful opportunity of your lives.
HelenCDecember 12, 2023
Thank you for reminding me that my glacial journey towards comforting “those who mourn” as a Grief Coach is a sacred journey that is in His hands.
Ken HazelbakerDecember 12, 2023
My wife developed a program in Sacramento in 2010 for the 17 stakes of N. CA mission called "tell me about your family". Great success where missionaries used the line at door approach, get contact to fill out as much info as could recall, then family history consultant would do research, prepare a folder and return with missionaries to present and explain and nurture relationship. Members started to ask nonmember friends too! Easier for many than handing out Bof M!
She trained mission and stakes on how to do it. A win win for all.
She could help if you need. (She's a miraculous 4 yr survivor of cancer that gave her just 6 months! Miracles still happen!! We live in Cedar Hills!
MaryannDecember 11, 2023
I, like so many other church members, dearly love President Holland. I m sure there are a multitude of prayers that have gone up along with my own. How I love this man! I am glad the Lord has spared him and hope he will continue to be with us for a long while. Of course, this is in the Lord's hands and he knows what is best. I feel a little selfish because I am sure Elder Holland would love to be with his beloved wife, Pat, but he is also leaving it in the Lord's hands.
HelenCDecember 11, 2023
I recently spent time with my cousin who only knows of the Church through her contact with my mother and me. Believe it it not, the common ground we found was “secret combinations” which she believes is driving most of the evil in today’s world. I told her she could find the Book of Mormon online if she wanted to know more.
Ruth JamiesonDecember 11, 2023
I absolutely loved this movie for so many reasons. It keeps me pondering over the beauty of the messages it portrayed. So glad movies like this are being made.
RuthDecember 11, 2023
I am 80 years old and am very frustrated that I could not hear MOST of what was said!! Sometimes I could hear words, then their voices would get more and more soft until I could not hear anything at all!! Please be more considerate of us old folks and speak up!!! Your messages are wonderful, but most is lost!
Corey D.December 10, 2023
I really struggle sometimes with being positive or seeing the youth in a positive light in society, including in the church. They are pretty good for the most part, including many going on missions or at least starting missions but it just seems to me so many of the young adults are struggling that it makes it hard to be positive about the youth when I wonder so often, will they remain true and faithful.
Ilyan Kei LavanwayDecember 9, 2023
The Oath, by Darin Scott left me speechless in silent reverence. A true American cinematic miracle! It was so good, I watched it twice in a row the same night! Nothing out there compares to this film. Nothing even comes close! It just has to be experienced. There is so much rich symbolism woven into the story, you need to see it multiple times to fully appreciate it. Darin Scott is a true pioneer in the film industry! Go watch this film!
Joanne KalppDecember 8, 2023
The message is so tenderly Christlike - Angelic singing
Laura TDecember 8, 2023
Maurine, your article was just what I needed to hear.!
“Doing my best looks different here” you know I find myself with Cancer & 7 kids & I too, thrive on efficiency & planning, to feel good about my day.
I too, find myself in a “new frontier of learning & responding.” & I definitely feel like a child in this new world I’ve stepped into with my health.
Thank you for your beautiful reminder to trust the Lord, let go of what I think things should look like, move forward with faith that He is guiding me, and let Him orchestrate His work I so desperately want to be a part of. Love you guys!
AprilDecember 8, 2023
Lovely!
Newell WrightDecember 7, 2023
Here is the link to the Neal A. Maxwell article from the last line of the article: https://rsc.byu.edu/voice-my-servants/book-mormon-great-answer-great-question
Dewey AllenDecember 7, 2023
Very interesting article, lead me to this paper: https://janes.scholasticahq.com/article/75249-the-altar-at-tel-dothan-a-trace-of-josiah-s-reform, which says something indirectly related to Lehi's altar. Page 8, only full paragraph, has the comments about priests from these removed sites and their legitimate but illegal activities (they weren't executed).
Robert StarlingDecember 7, 2023
One year in my hometown of Columbus, Georgia a missionary booth was set up at the county fair. One young woman named Brenda stopped by the booth, became interested, and soon joined the Church.
Later she met and married Mike, who became our Bishop. They are now and forever our best friends for life.
Janice HiestandDecember 7, 2023
I have not been able to print this off, I love to read and re-read these lessons, marking them, and adding my own observations.
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TerriDecember 7, 2023
Thank you for sharing your journey! Hello to the Larsen's from friends in Wyoming!
Carol AnnDecember 6, 2023
When we were teaching about water storage a few years ago, we discovered Water Bricks each of which hold 3 1/2 gallons of water, have a handle for transporting, a pour spout, and they stack nicely. They are a little pricey, but we think well worth it!
Denise ChristensenDecember 6, 2023
Oh my, Maureen! What a lot of challenges in such a short period of time! If anyone can overcome the hurdle, you two certainly can!ove reading your articles and enjoy all the pictures. Probably makes you really appreciate that luxury cruise in Croatia! Keep the faith, girl! You’re a strong and faithful disciple!
Sherry ReimersDecember 6, 2023
Oh how I love this message! Tears are streaming down my face. I will share this with my family and friends . Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
KateDecember 5, 2023
I needed this. I’m a mom of one toddler, who miscarried at 6 and twelve twice this year, and is a temple worker, relief society counselor, temple worker, etc and I’m soooo burnt out. Then our couples get away mini vaca might get cancelled due to a grandparent dearth. I understand that I can’t keep doing this, my kids need me.
MaryannDecember 5, 2023
YES! We need to implement this concept that love is the key to apply to ALL of our callings, or work. And, fun! I appreciate that you taught the children the difference between singing a some songs reverently and singing others boisterously. One of the greatest testimonies we can share with others, especially with children, is living the gospel with joy and love.
GailDecember 5, 2023
Loved reading of your adventures and miracles.
My son is in Metro Ward
so I have been to P.R. for
visits. I can visualize your
house with cinder block interior walls. I met you in 2018 @ Rootstech. Scott recorded my
testimony of the joy of family history, so I wholeheartedly encourage using family questions. We all love our families. I will be following you.
R C CopelandDecember 5, 2023
It"s "a third part". You know the other two?
Craig FrogleyDecember 5, 2023
This brings back so many memories from Africa and Paris. You are such powerful instruments with such a huge tool box of options Father can use to open doors and hearts. I am anxious to follow your adventures in that island kingdom. Thank you for sharing them to graphically.
Annie JensenDecember 5, 2023
Gotta love that iKea miracle!
Terri CherpeskiDecember 5, 2023
My Husband Vince and I were on one of your tours of Church History sites several years ago. We loved it so much! We have been excited about your mission I am anxious to follow as you
DeNile WilliamsDecember 5, 2023
I simply love and look forward to the report that the Proctors so graciously provide to us from their mission. Thank you both.
Duane BoyceDecember 5, 2023
A fantastic post, as always. I love reading about your mission! Thank you SO much.
ayseDecember 5, 2023
This article was not just delightful to read but very profound for our day and age. Too many people today talk about fairness but what they really mean is they want things their way. Life isn't suppose to be fair. We are suppose to learn to react to the unfairness as Jesus would. I hope the kids enjoyed the candy cane in spite of the tears.
Steve AdamsDecember 5, 2023
The last three verses were left out of your post:
We see our children bleeding;
We see our sons go wrong;
We sense our own soul's weakness
And pray to be made strong.
And so when the holly reddens,
And the white on the brown earth lies,
And Christmas cheer is in the air,
The mother in us cries:
O Son of beautiful Mary,
O JESUS of Galilee,
Let her spirit pure in our hearts outpour
That our babes may grow like Thee!
LoraDecember 4, 2023
An additional aspect of women's past reality is caring for the sick. When I read Lucy Hale Smith's book about Joseph Smith, I was surprised at how much time she spent caring for people who were ill. When I was a child in the late 50's, early 60's, there was always a kid out with measles, mumps, or chicken pox. Every mother dreaded the possibility of their child getting polio. There were people in iron lungs, and at least two people in my school with braces on their legs because of polio. Vaccination has changed the playing field for women in a big way.
Mary Alice CrowtherDecember 2, 2023
The ability to serve a Senior Service Mission with FamilySearch from home via the computer and internet. And to be able to access records from all over the world from my computer at home in order to grow my family tree and be able to do temple work for my ancestors.
LoraDecember 1, 2023
All of my children have lived to adulthood. None of them died of measles, cholera, or whooping cough. None of them got polio or tuberculosis. In the past, 1/4 of the population had TB, which they called "consumption". The pandemic was so common that no one thought it was remarkable.
My daughters-in-law and I have all survived childbirth. Every single one of us. During WWI, more women died in childbirth than the men who died in the war, but it was so common that no one thought it was remarkable.
My premature grandchildren are alive and growing toward adulthood. President Kennedy's premature son Patrick only lived for a couple of days, but because of him, medical science began to pursue neonatology to help premature infants survive.
Mark MathesonDecember 1, 2023
Great comment Lora! You went beyond Joni's insightful article and added to our understanding. Thank you!
MaryannDecember 1, 2023
Reference for that scripture: D&C 90:24 in my post.
MaryannDecember 1, 2023
Love, loved, loved this article! I think the bottom line is trusting in the Lord and remembering we only see a tiny part of the puzzle. He knows the end from the beginning. He has promised us that "..all things shall work together for your good..." if we are sincerely seeking Him and keeping our covenants to Him. ALL things will work together for our good! We can hold on to that promise, even when we feel our prayers go unanswered. We can trust that the final outcome will be joy beyond our greatest hopes.
MaryannDecember 1, 2023
Great advice from Brother Steurer! Silence is golden! This is also true about other relationships. People like this woman will see any response from you as an opportunity to continue to engage. When you don't give people any ammunition, they can't fire back. Do not even respond if she starts a "I'm just sorry for what happened," approach. Pretend she just isn't there, and she will probably back off. Also, be very careful about obsessing about the situation. Fill your lives and minds with positive actions and thoughts and don't allow her to destroy your peace.
VBDecember 1, 2023
Block her phone number and email on all your devices.
LoraNovember 30, 2023
James 4:3 and 2 Nephi 4:35 warn us against asking amiss. President Nelson recently told us not to turn our prayers into shopping lists. I've finally learned to stop asking for anything. Instead, I thank Him in advance for blessings not yet received. It feels more like asking in faith because I'm treating it as if it's already happened. After all, God called Eve "the mother of all living" before she had a honeymoon, much less a baby. He called Abraham "the father of many nations" before he had any children at all. Time is irrelevant to the Lord. We mortals get impatient because we have limited time and limited memories. We forget that the Lord knows all things from the beginning, and He is going to WIN. He says He can save us, and our loved ones, and He will. He's known them for a long, long time. When I stopped praying for outcomes, and instead started giving thanks for all that I have received, I feel heard and answered in prayer.
Peggy WardNovember 30, 2023
Thank you so much for this! So revelatory to me. I've been so frustrated around current conversations and not being able to put into thought or words the place of principles in our modern efforts at being accepting. (Loved the codependence and hell relationship! Clever and painfully honest)
MNovember 30, 2023
Thank you for this article! It puts in understandable terms the problem of our society (and with my parenting) and the fallacy of Satan’s argument. Thank you for bringing this to light for me! This is truly life-changing.
Joye WhitakerNovember 30, 2023
Finally an article that makes sense and answers questions that I silently ask all the time.
Peggy StallingsNovember 28, 2023
I have been enjoying all of your mission posts, but I Loved this one! Thanks for recording the missionaries singing with the added noises and gestures! It brought a huge smile to my face and heart. What a wonderful adventure you are on. Thanks for sharing it with all of us.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenNovember 28, 2023
You are so blessed to be able to go on a mission together, and I love what you share! It is so inspiring! I know the Lord will bless you!
Kerry FarrNovember 28, 2023
Welcome to the mission, Elder and Sister Proctor❣️ My name is Kerry Farr. I’ve been a Meridian fan for several years. My friend Karen and I are serving on Portsmouth on Dominica Island for 3 months with Anxiously Engaged Alliance, helping in any way we can. We discovered this opportunity through an ad in LDS Living mag.
Our favorite thing is to help the great missionaries, Elders Flynn and Namulauti with visits to homebound members and investigators. We bake and share a lot of cookies
I was excited to see that “ our mission” is where you will serve. We could sure use clones of you in Dominica!
Your backgrounds, brilliance, and firm testimonies will be so valuable‼️ God bless you in all your missionary days❤️
Denise ChristensenNovember 28, 2023
Oh Scot and Maurine...what a beautiful introduction to Puerto Rico and your welcome to the island and to the mission. The videos were so touching and the stories so inspiring! You are in our thoughts and prayers and we appreciate your willingness to share your experience with us and the world! May God bless and watch over you as you serve those wonderful people!
Claudia Henderson SmithNovember 28, 2023
I’ve been enjoying the articles about your mission. Love the pictures, too.
Steve FennNovember 27, 2023
We just celebrated our sweet "Downsie" daughter, Christine's, 50th birthday. She was also our second child, born when my wife was 23. All the characteristics you described have been part of the last 50 years of our lives. Her hugs are legendary and her usual greeting to both friends and strangers is "I love you." We're all still trying to be Christlike, like Christine.
karell binghamNovember 27, 2023
I loved this article to tears!
KathyNovember 27, 2023
As a widow of almost 2 years, ALL 20 reasons to think and talk more about death resonated resoundingly with me! Thank your son and thank you!
Corey D.November 26, 2023
Saw a bumper sticker recently that said "Too Blessed to be Stressed".
Corey D.November 26, 2023
I'm a DIY type of guy, small town raised, can figure it out, do it myself most of the time but that takes the cake, bordering on insanity. That's Fail Army worthy all by itself !
Brad AndersonNovember 24, 2023
Plan ahead, no story. I prefer the story:)
Supportive HusbandNovember 24, 2023
Very beautiful answer. My wife has recently had an unknown step-sister contact her. After some questions and some research my wife has decided that they are in fact related, and getting to know her had been a blessing in our life. I was happy to give her positive support through this, and because of it I have a new sister-in-law that I am proud to know.
LisaNovember 24, 2023
Elaine, I'm wondering how many adopted people you have been close to? I have three adopted children, and I can say that the pull to know one's biological family is overwhelmingly strong. When I first adopted, I did not want to believe that this connection could be what we'd call "primal", but years of parenting have shown me differently. Ironically, it has been the strongest for my child that has most been denied the opportunity. It has been a core theme of her life and her development, and there is no turning that off. I'm grateful she's had the opportunity to meet them now, and I can say with certainty that to be rejected by them would have had life-long implications for her. She already struggled enough just from being adopted in and of itself.
My son met his birthmother a few years ago, and the happy reunion was almost thwarted by his birthmother's husband, who was jealous and couldn't cope with the idea that his wife had a child who wasn't his. (He knew about my son and the adoption before they were ever married.) My son is not a threat. He's an amazing young man who brings positive things into the lives of everyone who knows him. It was so sad to me that this man would choose to make his wife lose her child all over again rather than be willing to face his own issues. I hope the woman in this article is able to get over her initial shock at this news and open herself up to this new relationship , because if handled with care and openness there is a good chance it can be a beautiful thing for everyone involved. Of course if the relationship turns out to be problematic, boundaries can be set as needed. But refusing to accept this new connection is a form of denial, and it doesn't change the face that this man does in fact have a child he doesn't share with his wife.
I don't believe there is any doctrine teaching that we choose our specific circumstances here on earth, only that we choose to come to earth. I know some people believe we choose our parents, but this is speculation or maybe, in certain circumstances, personal revelation given to specific individuals. Even if we were given all the knowledge about everything we'd be facing on earth, that veil placed over our eyes at birth is awfully thick. Also, if this girl did choose to enter mortality in this circumstance, that circumstance includes her biological connection to her first family.
Anonymous by choice.November 22, 2023
That is what my condition is! I’ve felt this way since I was 8. I’m in my late 60’s now. Not wanting to be a hypocrite, I’ve tried and worked my callings to show my worthiness for what spiritual gifts the Lord may grant. But was never satisfied with my efforts made the “gifts” discountable. I never felt worthy of the blessings. And that, of course, made more blessings less likely.
I’ve got A LOT to ponder
Rob McGhieNovember 22, 2023
A very inspiring article but I am confused at the title "Imposter".
You state "Maybe we doubt we are “celestial material” and are apprehensive about our chances of making it back to God’s presence."
It could be that a person who feels this way is being brutally honest with themselves. but your article is reassuring.
vickieNovember 22, 2023
WHO WAS IT AGAIN...LARRY.....DEATH TO LARRY....LOL....THERE ARE PIANO MOVERS...he should have had that in place...hoiwever many people dont want others to know where their safe is...even though they could never carry it out or break into it...good story....
NealNovember 22, 2023
Been there, done that. You really need to think ahead on projects like this. Paying for professional help may well be the best solution.
Debrah RoundyNovember 22, 2023
WE bought a beautiful upright piano with a full sounding board and after getting it down the steps, similar story but we had to replace a huge hole in the wall, we vowed we would well the house with the piano still in it and that is exactly what we did almost 40 years and many, many practice sessions later.
Debrah RoundyNovember 22, 2023
You really ought to one day put together pictures taken at the MTC. YOurs are a lot more lovely than mine.
In the future, at different times of year, it would be awesome.
Maybe a calendar would be fun.
Marilyn ThompsonNovember 22, 2023
Beautiful
Matt BeecherNovember 22, 2023
Wow - this is such an important, timely thought-provoking piece... It is SO easy to think that I am the one who has to figure out how I fill all the gaps that feel so glaringly and painfully obvious...the things that make me feel like I'm an imposter--and so far away from the ideal. I love love this simple truth in this piece, "God offers us a partnership with the only One who was not an imposter." Amen.
MikeNovember 21, 2023
Did I miss seeing something in the article? Where can our youth go to view the videos? Thanks.
Janene ZimmermanNovember 21, 2023
Thank you for this thoughtful prose on Thanksgiving and which fork or path it can lead us on.
Marilynne LinfordNovember 20, 2023
Somehow the numbers for the final list of the top eleven hymns printed incorrectly. I don't know whether to blame A.I., autocorrect, or simply moving one document into another. The numbers should be in reverse order, starting with number 11 and going to number 1, which is the top hymn.
Doris WilliamsNovember 20, 2023
Love these precious stories, Mariah. Keep them coming.
Rodger Dean DuncanNovember 20, 2023
I love this article. We need to pay more attention to the uplifting messages in our hymns.
Jim DorigattiNovember 20, 2023
I, too, like "How Wondrous and Great". I also like another old hymn which used to be in our hymnal, but for some reason was omitted from the 1985 book: "Though In the Outward Church Below", attributed to Mozart. I liked it because of the cool bass part in the chorus. On my mission, I found that the German Saints also liked this one!
Joy LundbergNovember 20, 2023
I love this article! I watch for Lynne's articles every month. What a gift she has for writing and coming up with just the right inspiring message. Well done once again, Lynne. Thank you!
Kandra WilliamsNovember 19, 2023
I would love to get a copy of the sheet music that includes the Bridge with harmonies, where would I be able to get that! I want to sing it with my girls at our priesthood/temple Preview..
tfNovember 17, 2023
I suggest that folks in this situation read a personal example related by Robert Fulghum (author of "Everything I really need to Know I learned In Kindergarten"), in another of his books "From Beginning to End" pgs 70-78; titled "Adoption". It's a great point of view.
Doris WilliamsNovember 17, 2023
Geoff, I am so grateful for your articles each Friday. It's just so comforting to read your thoughtful, reasoned, educated responses to so many really difficult problems people are faced with. What comfort in this day of division, impatience, condemning in the world to listen to the quiet voice of truth. It strengthens all who read and share in your wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing with us.
ElaineNovember 17, 2023
I disagree. There is a biological relationship but no family relationship. That is a choice that can be made either way. Yes to have one or no to not.
I am afraid for me this is a no. And as a Latter Day Saint, I take exception with the idea no choice was made by this girl. Did she not decide to enter mortality in this circumstance?
LewisNovember 16, 2023
What an extraordinary story. I am grateful for the solace and peace that comes through the gospel and its principles. You have a wonderful gift. Please keep using it to inspire us to be better.
JeaNette Goates SmithNovember 16, 2023
Suicide is never the fault of someone else, whether the person who commits suicide is LGBT, trans or simply depressed. Threatening to commit suicide if someone doesn't comply with one's wishes is the ultimate manipulation.
BarbaraNovember 15, 2023
I always read your articles. I find them very inspirational. Thank you.
Mary JurgaitisNovember 14, 2023
You did such a great job of bringing back all of the memories we experienced in the MTC. The building with the murals was just being completed. It wasn't fully opened yet, but we were able to go in (with a guide) to see the beautiful murals. Loved eating with the young missionaries. Oh, so much more. Thanks for the memories. Great blessings to you on your mission!
Linda ShubinNovember 14, 2023
Our son, Clay Shubin, and his wife, Kelly, are in your district at the MTC and both of them have commented on how incredible the spirit is at the MTC to prepare them to go out and serve the Lord once again. Thank you for this article as you described so beautifully the purpose of the MTC and the spirit that is there. May you all be blessed to go forth to serve and teach others about the abiding and strengthening spirit of our Lord Jesus Christ and that we are first and foremost literally children of our Heavenly Father. What an incredible knowledge. May you continue to be blessed in all you do as you are in service to our Lord.
Laurie Claeys BoydNovember 14, 2023
Thank you both for this incredible look into the first few days of a senior couple mission experience at the Provo MTC! We too are planning to serve a mission together after my husband retires and finishes his service as bishop of the most wonderful ward of YSA members and after I finish my family history service mission. We love serving the Lord, we live our family, and we love you two! You invite the Spirit of the Lord everywhere you go, and we are delighted that you're documenting your main experience with us!
Laurie Claeys BoydNovember 14, 2023
Thank you so very much for sharing this incredible experience with us! My husband and I, who are avid podcast listeners and who holds you both in the highest regard, are planning to serve another mission after he finishes his service as bishop and after I complete my senior service mission with the family history department. We love you both and can't wait to read your next beautifully written mission "journal entry"!
SamanthaNovember 13, 2023
Just wondering if you two are part of the 144,000 senior couples who will perform the final sweep of the earth?
Kenneth R CoburnNovember 13, 2023
Thank you so much for these last two articles. They were informative, thought provoking and well done. I'm constantly wondering why the "Church" isn't more forcefully involved in political/social debates and these articles give me some reasons to ponder the true mission of the Lord's work. Thank you for writing about these potentially highly charged topics. Keep it up as I look forward to reading more of your articles
Kenneth R CoburnNovember 13, 2023
My heart is filled with joy as I read this story. I'm reminded of all the wonderful missionaries who have influenced my life and of the twin daughters of my best friend who are now serving in Japan. The gospel is beautiful and true and reading this story excites me to continue to share it. May the Lord bless you and all those with you there to continue to enrich your lives in the gospel. Stay safe and enjoy every moment
Jan Mulvay StrongNovember 13, 2023
Praying for your success as missionaries and wishing you all the best! A mission is the best thing my husband and I ever did! We deepened our relationship and commitment to our Savior. We treasure our time with Alaska YSA, the Institute and the Temple there. What a blessing you will be! Godspeed. Love Jan
HelenCNovember 13, 2023
So exciting! My husband left the Church after his mission to South Africa from 1979-81 so I can’t duplicate this experience - yet. I’m looking for ways to serve on my own in our Stake and will share a bit of this story to see what he remembers of his time at the MTC. I invite the missionaries over from time to time and make sure he shares some of his memories with them.
You keep writing; I’ll keep reading. Who knows? Maybe by the time you’re finished he may well be back in his Savior’s arms.
Ann PapwortNovember 13, 2023
Didn't realize I was signing up again! I'm already on your list. I just wanted to comment and wish the Proctors well--we all know they will be amazing!! Have loved following them for years and have sent many others their way.
Kare HaeringNovember 13, 2023
I so loved reading this, I’m so excited for you both! I know you and your family will be taken care of as you serve. I would love to be added to your family email list, I think you have it from past communications together. My thoughts and prayers go with you and someday…. I too will join the ranks of Senior missionaries!
Helen H.November 13, 2023
Thank you both for such a beautiful recording of your first few days in the MTC. Filled my heart with joy and gratitude. God bless you both and the other senior missionaries joyfully serving.
Tracy TippettsNovember 13, 2023
Wonderful! Thank you. I can feel the strong spirit of love, joy, service, and sacred calling of your experience just by reading the words and seeing the photos! I especially liked the list of your seven children, and where they served.
I am reminded of the parting scene when Elder Groberg left his Polynesian companion on the dock, in the movie "The Other Side of Heaven", with the joyous shout, "Hurrah for Israel!"
Also the Latin motto of the 2002 Winter Olympic Games in Salt Lakes City, "Citius. Altius. Fortius".
"May the Force be with you!" (Spirit). I don't know how anyone can resist your positive, glowing spirit and energy!?
Barbara L WhiteNovember 13, 2023
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. It is such a joy to read what to expect and how it has affected you.
Patty ListonNovember 13, 2023
Thank you for this deeply enlightening article. There is so much truth to unpack in every paragraph. I am keeping this paper so I may refer to it often. find that I glean more from the spirit and truth of your words as I read and reread and reread. I do believe that our time of sitting comfortably, ideally, on the sidelines as the great and terrible days approach, is nearing its end. There is only so much darkness that can be stayed by merely lifting a hand. The times are and will require the full armor of God and all the power that comes with it.
Wendy LanderNovember 13, 2023
Ha ha!
Good one!
Rebecca WalkerNovember 13, 2023
Thank you for this. We have been contemplating a mission and this is very helpful! I know that you will do great things on your mission. We have a young sister missionary from our ward that is at the MTC right now and she also sang in the 800 voice choir.
Love from us to you!
Corey D.November 12, 2023
Excellent article, very well said and certainly thought provoking. Seems like everyday in all the different forms of media something is being said or commented on about how " contentious" public and political discourse has become. Many religious leaders from various churches have brought it up, certainly has been a subject in recent general conferences. The article subtly mentions it but here is what the difference is between now and any other time, what is going on in society, politics, education, even in churches/religions is not just a difference of political, social, economic views, etc., it is a total change of moral values and that always has and is and will cause problems, particularly for good Christians who believe there is a god given mandate to stand up for what is morally correct, no matter the price one has to pay. And certainly for members of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints that is considered a sacred duty.
Corey D.November 12, 2023
I'm 66 yrs old so I've had a reasonable bit of life experience. I think about the things Brother Wilcox mentions in his article all the time, particularly vulgarity and how it has become so common place and so accepted. Certain words were not tolerated or accepted in public discourse years ago and are now openly used in news interviews, public debate, classrooms, etc. To me one of the root causes for the incivility is societies tolerance and acceptance of vulgarity and profanity.
Corey D.November 12, 2023
Actually it is a moral issue, spending money you don't have or taking or shifting money from savings accounts meant for different purposes unless it's an emergency is not right. Money/Financial issues is one of the major causes for divorce, it's also from what I have observed in my lifetime a driving factor or root cause for inactivity in the church or worse leaving the church altogether. Not only that this man's habits and feeling of entitlement so often lead to dishonest obtaining of money (as a number of recent news articles have shown). I feel for this poor sister, most likely not going to end well.
AnonymousNovember 11, 2023
There are only two men named 'James' in the New Testament. 'James, the less' is just the name of James, the brother of Jesus, named thus to differentiate between James Boanerges, John's brother, who was in the presidency of the Twelve. James Boanerges was the 'greater' and James, the brother of Jesus, was the 'less'. Simple.
Kathleen AndersonNovember 11, 2023
Thank you so much for your insights into the verses of the book of James that you discussed this week. You gave me so much to think about and remember.
EricNovember 10, 2023
Regarding loneliness, it's instructive to think of what the word "telestial" means. The prefix tele- means distant. Telestial glory is compared to the stars, and stars are light-years away from each other. The behaviors of those who inherit the telestial kingdom (lying, adultery, etc.) are the sort of behaviors that drive others away.
Another thing about loneliness is that solitary confinement is considered a form of torture.
MaryannNovember 10, 2023
Thank you for a wonderful article on a timely subject. However, I do not believe this is Satan's greatest lie. I believe his greatest current lie is his pollution of the word "love." He tells us that "love" justifies every form of unrepentant sin. He tells us that when we teach principles of chastity, and that marriage is a divine institution between a man and a woman only, that we are "hateful" and without love. He tells us that love and compassion for those in difficult situations justifies continuing in serious sin, including the the sin of abortion. He tells the world that when the principles of truth prick their consciences, that those who speak truth are unloving. How many have left the church because they feel that if we truly love one another, we will accept every form of "marriage," or "relationship?" We truly live in the prophesied day when "evil" is called "good," and "good" is called "evil." He tells us that in order to be loving, we must not only accept, but support every form of behavior with loud and demanding voices. Satan's distorted doctrine of "love" makes every behavior "good." Unfortunately, he is very successful because believing these things causes people to feel an false sense of compassion, and lays the foundation for them to feel superior to those who cling to truth.
MaryannNovember 10, 2023
Whatever the cause, this is an addiction. It is neither normal nor healthy behavior. This woman needs support, since she is not getting any cooperation from her husband, and he refuses to change. Counsel from a Bishop and a referral to LDS Social Services counselling are essential. If he won't go with her, she should go alone to learn how she can protect herself and her children financially, and for emotional support to learn how to deal with this situation. This is NOT disloyal. It is necessary.
Kandace HardenNovember 9, 2023
Perhaps that wrapping has changed, but the underlying temptations are the same as they were 30-40 years ago. At that time I was collateral damage in a relationship where the husband decided "He needed to be happy", at the expense of this family. No cell phones involved and no online porn, just old-fashion lust. It might seem comforting to think well, "that person gets their due." But actually he has had a very successful and happy life. The bottom line is that many of us will be collateral damage, but if we have a strong relationship with the Lord and a good understanding of what He expects from us, I think we will all benefit from these buffetings of Satan. It really is part of the plan. I wish I had taught this lesson with more completness to my children. Teach and love one another, put the Lord first in your life and it really doesn't matter what trick Satan is up to.
Kathryn StonehockerNovember 9, 2023
Thank you for this beautiful, hopeful, glorious essay!! It touched my heart deeply, and I sincerely appreciate you taking the time and heart to be a conduit for the Lord. Truly a precious gift, Brother Goddard.
JanNovember 9, 2023
This is a thought provoking and very timely article and I totally agree with every point. The last part about loneliness is startling and is just what will help me continue to try to reach out to others and show more love and caring than my shyness often prevents. We all need to study this great list of Satan's lies and strengthen our defenses!
Gary OliverNovember 9, 2023
Very well said, Joni.
Steve DoneganNovember 9, 2023
There's a contemporary Christian song that has the singer asking, "God why don't You do something!" after noticing the bad in the world. The answer from God is, "I created you." Brother Goddard, I'm glad God created you. I'm thankful for the creations you share with us. Thank you for your thoughtful reading of the scriptures. Thank you for interpreting the word of God for us...who "wallow in it."
KathleenNovember 9, 2023
Engaging, as always!
Ralph HancockNovember 8, 2023
Thank you, Jacob, for beautiful reflections, both personal and doctrinal. I confess I was reluctant to read this, since I didn't want to confront the challenges and perplexities you face, or be reminded of different ones that affect my family. But you made it worth it to try to travel just a bit with you in your journey.
DRobNovember 8, 2023
Would like to see your citations (Madison's Federalist 51 and Tocqueville's Democracy in America, etc.). There may have possibly been one visible as "18" near the end of Part One. I appreciate your thoughts about a very critical topic for our day.
RalphNovember 8, 2023
Great article!
Thought it was foreshadowing the 2024 election, then I saw the comments. Hoping the nation doesn't make the same mistake as we did in 2016.
RandyNovember 8, 2023
I do not understand how anyone could think that this was an article on politics. If anything it was helping to keep you away from the political arena.
I remember working in Seattle in the late 60s when there was a lot of racial unrest. People were bussed in to cause problems because there wasn't any before they showed up. When it starts it is like a wild fire and if you are not ready you could be in a lot trouble.
CarolNovember 8, 2023
I love your ability to tell a story and keep me engrossed the entire time.
We flew a private plane to get to the temple and for our honeymoon.
Lots of misadventures on a Memorial Day weekend with no reservations .
back in 1965.
BeckyNovember 8, 2023
Thank you for sharing this. It's really concerning that so many are beginning to embrace violence and reject peace, but we've been warned that there will be no peace or safety in the world in the days leading up to the Lord's return. Even the righteous may be affected at times. These are some good common sense precautions so that we will be more prepared, having more presence of mind with less fear, in the case of unexpected danger.
Meijken BooneNovember 8, 2023
What a beautiful story, it tickled my heart. I have witnessed many miracles large and small that could only come from a loving, personal God! My favorite primary song is The Miracle. He truly is a God of miracles and he knows us personally! Thank you for sharing this story with us.
Sarah HinzeNovember 8, 2023
Thank you for your inspiring story about your ancestors. It brought tears to my eyes as I felt the spirit of the Lord. My husband and I served a mission at the London England Temple. It was one of the highlights of our life. Our unity and our love together grew by leaps and bounds. There are blessings that have come to us in the years afterwards that are spiritual. God bless you. I look forward to following your posts!
ChrisNovember 7, 2023
So often the focus has been on the iron rod...we even have the song about it...and as a result we lose focus on what's most important. The Tree. The Love of the Savior.
We know that Lehi didn't use the iron rod to get to the Tree, but maybe he simply didn't need to. He was a prophet, after all.
But what if we changed the focus from the rod to the Tree, and taught the Love of Christ first and foremost? A Love not earned in any way. A Love that cannot be diminished in any way. A Love that leads to real joy in this life...now.
Fan for yearsNovember 7, 2023
You will be missed.
"May the Lord bless you and keep you and the devil miss you." Pres. Ezra Taft Benson.
God bless you that all your experiences will bring you and those you serve closer to our Savior Jesus and His restored church.
Stephen W. GibsonNovember 7, 2023
Great! You are going on a full time mission when you are both young and in good health. I believe, however, that you have been on a mission for the Lord for decades with your great magazine. On a personal note, if you find that you need some great curriculum to help the poor start their own little businesses, feel free to reach out to me. The Academy for Creating Enterprise has 25 rules of thumb for MicroEnterprise Success we would love to share, for free, of course, to help those those in Puerto Rico find their way out of poverty. You two will be great in what ever and wherever you serve the Lord.
ReNae WoolseyNovember 7, 2023
My husband and I are avid weekly followers of your wonderful podcast. We have also served a senior couple mission in Germany. It was amazing and we encourage senior couples to serve however they can. You will not regret following the spirit which encouraged you to go on this mission to Puerto Rico. God bless you in all you do!
Joy LundbergNovember 7, 2023
Well done. This poem "Late Autumn" paints a vivid picture that penetrates all the senses. Thank you for sharing!
JaneNovember 7, 2023
Thank you for all your have done for us with your podcast and articles. You will be wonderful missionaries. Enjoy!!! May the Lord bless you!!
LoraNovember 7, 2023
The irony of all of this is that most of the universities in America began as institutions for divinity instruction, to educate ministers of religion. Their understanding of God and the intelligent design of the universe was the foundation of the now-secular science we know today.
Eunice RobertsonNovember 7, 2023
That is so evocative. I can see perfectly well, but the change of the seasons is an absolute pleasure for me as natures colours change.The remind me of our Saviour's mortal life Autumn reminds me of his tribulation in the days before his crucifixion, Winter, his time in the tomb, Spring, his resurrection. He is in the details of our lives.
Sasha KwapinskiNovember 6, 2023
Marriage is either a moral construct with a moral definition or, for all practical purposes, it become a non-construct with no definition -- basically just a random lifestyle option among many. Moral standards are, by definition, discriminatory, differentiating between various patterns of choice, action, and behavior. To remove the moral definition from marriage is essentially to confuse love with relativism.
Carol BriwnNovember 6, 2023
I love how you both support each other in your podcast. You will be wonderful supports to each other in your mission.Congratulations on your mission call!
TJNovember 6, 2023
It is actually worse than this. In a conversation with a friend who lives in Northern California, she told me her neighbor had assured her that Hitler had needed to kill the Jews because they were persecuting him. This had been hidden from us, but she could read about it.
I was stunned. Bad enough to deny the Holocaust. Unbelievable to tell people the Jews caused it and Hitler was protecting himself from persecution
Sandra FyffeNovember 6, 2023
Thank you Protors for your willingness to serve a mission in Puerto Rico! Grateful for your faithfulness! I read this article today, Monday, November 2023...the day you entered the MTC...much success! Blessing be with you both as well as your family at home!
Boanerges RubalcavaNovember 6, 2023
I am at home with my wife and my three children, and after praying we went to sleep. At around 2 am we heard a noise, I went downstairs and see two masked tugs putting as much as they can in a big bag. From here I can think in two possible situations. One, I do not have any weapon and told them to leave my home; they come to me and force me to go into my bedroom and start abusing my wife. I cannot tolerate that and sent myself again one of them while the other using his weapon kill me. The second situation, I have a gun and when I saw them told them to leave my home immediately one of them use his gun against me and fail and then I use mine ant hit him, the other one left my home through a window. I use my gun two more times hitting a van that is leaving the neighborhood at great speed. Next day we found out that a child was inside the van that was with many other weapons. I was accused of murdering the poor child and that I am worse than the thieves, since besides of killing one of them I also murder a child.
Chuck NielsenNovember 6, 2023
“every generation has its tests and its chance to stand and prove itself“ This quote by President Ezra Taft Benson that Duane included is, in my opinion, the clarion call to all followers of Christ to stand up, speak up and lovingly declare the only way to fight evil is to establish homes where the Master can reside. As the family goes so goes humanity. Thank you Duane for addressing one of the biggest criticisms the Church has right now. The war on families is real and that war has landed on the shores of the Latter Day Saints.
Wendy LanderNovember 6, 2023
There is wrong and there is right on both sides. There is only one answer - our Saviour will come and wipe away the tears from all our eyes. In the meantime, we can only live the way he and his prophets teach us and love all of our sisters and brothers.
Fay & Layne CroxfordNovember 5, 2023
You two will be amazing missionaries! You have already been serving and bringing people to the Savior through your tireless work on Meridian Magazine and your podcast! Best wishes! We are headed to Illinois Church Historic sites in early March, humbled but willing and SO excited!
Dianne Letsch ThompsonNovember 5, 2023
What a blessing for you and for the ones whom you will serve! Warm wishes and may you receive God’s best blessings on your mission to Puerto Rico!!!
Dianne Letsch Thompson
Michael and Diane LoveridgeNovember 5, 2023
God bless you! My wife and I are in our fifth year as Senior Missionaries (Salt Lake Inner-city Mission), assigned (willingly!) to an Hispanic Ward. We feel so blessed and are trying to perfect our Spanish. A suggestion: As soon as possible, "forget" English and speak as much Spanish to each other as possible. use the wonderful translator smart phone apps and learn the phrases that are useful in daily life. Also, practice listening, listening, and listening. Best wishes!
Jill AntuarNovember 5, 2023
What you have done with Meridian over many years has seemed like a self-appointed mission! You've had plenty of practice and now will do marvellous things, being formally set apart in His service. Speaking from personal experience, serving a senior mission is a wonderful, life-changing opportunity.
Rae GreenstreetNovember 5, 2023
Thank you for sharing the next chapter in your lives. Having served many missions (and still serving one now) has been a blessing to those we have left behind. We are wearing out our lives with joy. "When you rest, you rust".
Karen Walker McMinnNovember 5, 2023
We just came home from our 4th mission and we miss it already. Such joy and gratitude we have in serving. You will, at the end of your mission, find out why the Lord has sent you to that mission. May you be blessed in all you do.
Anna FeatherstoneNovember 5, 2023
i was hoping you were going to say you were coming to New Zealand!! Your great grandparents have a touching story.
You would have had big hugs from me had you been on your way here to Aotearoa!
I love all our senior missionaries who come to serve in our Stake. they are exemplary. You guys will have a ball! Best wishes!
Cecile ScribnerNovember 4, 2023
Congratulations! Doug and I served in New Zealand between 2004 and 2006, and loved every minute of it. And our family was greatly blessed while we were gone. We came home to six new grandchildren!
JPB SwainNovember 4, 2023
Congratulations and safe travels!
Kathy SandersNovember 3, 2023
Can’t wait to hear your experiences and can’t wait to have some of our own two from Box B. Love you both and God bless you!
Ana Belen SierraNovember 3, 2023
Welcome to our paradise. The enchanted island.
P & T HarrisNovember 3, 2023
Happy to hear of your call. My husband and I returned from our mission to DC South 10 years ago this October. There are many ways for seniors to serve missions. We are glad we served.
Val JonesNovember 3, 2023
Thank you for your example. I am glad you have capable children and staff to carry on at Meridian. And I am glad we will get to read of your adventures. May God be with you.
Eduardo MelendezNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations for your mission calling and for your willingness to respond to our prophet's invitation to join to the Lord's army.
I wish you the best during this time of service and sacrifice as our Savior Jesus Christ representatives. I have no doubt you will impact many lives in an amazing way. Hurrah!
CAROL THOMASNovember 3, 2023
FABULOUS!!! So proud of you...so happy for you. We love senior couples...they are the glue that holds a mission together. Ray and I have been on several senior missions...we only wish we could go again! HURRAH FOR ISRAEL!!!
Lorrie B ThomanNovember 3, 2023
I so Love your Podcast each week it truly builds my Testimony I have come to Love you both and your sweet family. Love your history and how you met and how dedicated you both are to the Savior. You will both be dearly missed and we pray your Mission will be a huge success you will both turn many hearts and souls to their Savior they may not even know yet. You are very Loved sending lots of prayers
JulieNovember 3, 2023
What an amazing story from your ancestors. Wow. And that you can read it and know of it. So incredible.
Congratulations on your mission call!! Excited for you two. Best wishes!
Alisi Iongi FiliagaNovember 3, 2023
The stories you share brought tears to my eyes, and the encouragement to serve a mission together with my eternal companion. Thanks for sharing I shall never forget of mail from Box B.
Linda A SmithNovember 3, 2023
Beautifiul story. I always wanted to serve a senior mission but my husband didn't. Instead we got called to serve in the Spanish Branch for 5 years and in a way my wish was granted.
VaLoye & Dean OlsonNovember 3, 2023
You are needed. You will love serving and the missionaries and locals will love you. Have a wonderful time even when exhausted. We loved our four senior missions which included being Mission President in Norway.
NicolaNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations!!
And I live in Invercargill, we have a ward here and our stake centre is 3hrs away. Your family created that!!
Nicola in NZ
Ken & Yvonne CottrellNovember 3, 2023
Hooray for you and Godspeed! We will miss your Come Follow Me broadcasts but I’m sure you have that taken care of.
Paul HNovember 3, 2023
Bless you as you go serve. If you follow the advice Bryant Hinckley gave to his young missionary son, Gordon, you will be successful: "Forget yourself and go to work." While I enjoy Meridian Magazine immensely, I hope it isn't a distraction to you in doing what you have been called to do. My wife and I served for 21 months in Texas and because all we concentrated on was the Lord's work, we were blessed beyond our greatest dreams. We helped bless te lives of others in our mission during that time. A similar experience happened again as I served in a Utah mission office for a year post Covid.
Good luck.
Karen CasosNovember 3, 2023
Have a great time. It can be challenging but just so the rewards are great.
Sharon SmithNovember 3, 2023
You will be such great missionaries as you share your testimonies and teach the people of Puerto Rico. What an exciting time! May the Lord continue to bless you in your righteous works.
LindaNovember 3, 2023
Best of luck. My husband and I served a mission for the church and it is truly the best and most special thing we have done as a couple. I am sure you will love your mission, your people and giving to the Lord 100% of your time.
Rochelle HaleNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations! You will be wonderful missionaries.
Lawrence RookhuyzenNovember 3, 2023
I had a premonition a few weeks ago that you would be called on a mission--so no big surprise. You'll be great missionaries.
Larry & Kay Rookhuyzen
HelenCNovember 3, 2023
Thank you for this story and your dedication to the Work. Blessings upon you and your mission. I’m sure grandpa is smoking down on you.
Gayle WNovember 3, 2023
Wonderful! You both are great witnesses for Jesus Christ. The people in Puerto Rico will love you, as you love them! I'm so pleased for you!
ValNovember 3, 2023
This is so exciting!! The story of your grandparents made me cry. I, too, am in profound awe of the Saints who came before us. Their sacrifices were deep. My husband and I hope to join the ranks of other Senior missionaries in the next couple of years. Thank you for all you do. You bless the lives of so many!!
Charleen FeltNovember 3, 2023
you will love it and even though somethings will be difficult the memories of the wonderful people you serve will remain with you forever. We have served two and are considering a third one. The Lord will lead you and bless you so much as you serve. Congratulations.
Gale BoydNovember 3, 2023
We love this story of sacrifice and conviction and will love yours too!
Breck EnglandNovember 3, 2023
Mis mejores deseos en tu misión!
Gaye WillisNovember 3, 2023
What an amazing example you have from these faithful ancestors! I wept as I read their story. And what an amazing example WE have in both of you! Thank you for your service, testimony, and faith. Thank you for Meridian Magazine and the podcasts, which have been such a blessing to so many. God bless you and your family through you service, just as I know you will bless the people of Puerto Rico.
Michael S. KartchnerNovember 3, 2023
How exciting! Thanks for sharing!
Audrey YanNovember 3, 2023
I don’t know you personally but have enjoyed your come follow me podcast for the last 4 years. My husband and I had been on two senior missions, in fact just returned from a 2 years service in Cambodia; so glad you have decided to serve and it is true, you are in for an adventure! Can’t wait to hear or read about your experiences!
Michael SCRIMSHERNovember 3, 2023
I served in New Zealand in the late 70s. And yes, even to invercargill in the dead of winter which there is in July. I can relate to those wet, damp winters there. The Proctors have rich heritage. What a legacy and example to follow.
Susan NielsonNovember 3, 2023
That is so wonderful and exciting. I’m so thrilled you found a way to make it work. And I’m glad I won’t have to go without Meridian Magazine.
Best wishes!
Susan
Ron KjarNovember 3, 2023
I served in Puerto Rico 40 years ago. It was the foundation of my life and I love the Island and the people more than I can express. You will love it there!
Shannon HillNovember 3, 2023
Thank you for this beautiful story and for choosing to serve a mission. Hopefully soon, my husband and I will be able to serve. Your daughter Micheala was my daughter's HEFY counselor in Fiji and her example of missionary service influenced my daughter to serve a mission. May you continue to be blessed as you serve the Lord.
Lynn GardnerNovember 3, 2023
One of the best decisions you ever made! You’ll be awesome, but you’ll also love it more than you can ever imagine!!
Donna ColyarNovember 3, 2023
We are delighted for you. We have served two family history missions. You’ll never regret it! Buena suerte!
Becky S.November 3, 2023
Congratulations on this new chapter and keep working on the language! We will pray for your success as you share the near and dear things of the gospel in a foreign country!
Thank you for Meridian Magazine all these years and the insightful podcast for come follow me!
RonyaNovember 3, 2023
So proud of you for your willingness to serve. I too have many ancestors that sacrificed all for the building up of God's Kingdom here on earth. God speed and keep you and your family safe. You will be so blessed. My parents loved their time on their mission. Our family was so blessed by their service.
Cynthia CNovember 3, 2023
So exciting! So glad that you are able to serve! You will be great missionaries and everyone who meets you will have new friends!
Vera DooleyNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations on receiving your call to Puerto Rico! I love reading all your articles in the Meridan! We lived in Ferron, Utah for almost 25 years! We knew the Steven's family who lived there. Thank you for sharing that part of your family history!
Joyce GlaettliNovember 3, 2023
God bless you both as you begin this mission. Thank you for all you have done with Meridian Magazine. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Laurie Claeys BoydNovember 3, 2023
Oh Scot and Maureen, I am soooo happy for you and excited for the people in Puerto Rico who you'll be serving! I can't imagine my life without you two and your incredible podcast and Meridian Magazine. THANK YOU for blessing my life and my family's life with your time and faith-filled, positive perspective. You are the personification of D&C 50:22. I wish you the very best as you begin this new chapter of miracles!
Thank you for sharing this moving story about your grandparents. Wow. Their faith!!!
Claudia Henderson SmithNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations on your mission call! That’s where Camille Helmick went on her mission. You guys are going to be great!! Put me on your email list.
Rebecca WalkerNovember 3, 2023
What an inspiring story! Wishing you all the best on your newest adventure! May you be greatly blessed as you bless the lives of all you serve! Love you guys!!
Joel MarksNovember 3, 2023
God Bless the Proctors. Thanks for all your teachings and wisdom! God be with you ‘till we meet again!
Pray for Israel…. and Israel
TiredNovember 2, 2023
There's no support for an abused husband in this church. I know from experience. The general leaders make their inspired statements, but the local leaders are the ones who have to implement it, and too many of them still believe women are above reproach and if there's a problem in the home it is definitely the man's fault. I'm getting ready to not only leave the home but leave the church because I'm so tired of my leaders telling me that it's all my fault simply because I'm a man. "If you were a 'real' man you wouldn't allow it to go on, therefore it's your fault.' - as if a man has the authority to 'control' his wife. My children have each promised me a bedroom, for which I am thankful. I won't lose my testimony, but I can't stay in the toxic environment local leaders make for an abused husband.
K. GuffeyNovember 2, 2023
The iron rod was always explained as the truths of the gospel and the liahona as a guide to follow truth (1Nephi 8:30 continually holding fast = means never letting go of truth) so I've always felt that the two were joined together to keep us safe in God's love and God's truths.
SteveNovember 2, 2023
Nice article, many good points.
Of course, we also want to know what the limit population would be and how to distribute food to the whole world equitably. Any suggestions?
Michael SessionsNovember 2, 2023
My wife's maiden name is Boyce (Father was Dan Boyce) descendant of John Boyce. Are you a cousin?
Lynn ChattertonNovember 2, 2023
John chapter 1 says that in the beginning was the Word...and the Word was God.
Christ is the Iron Rod. He is the Word of God. If we are converted to Him we will never fall or fail.
MarkNovember 2, 2023
For me, they both are simply symbols of Christ. No more, no less.
Marlee MeyersNovember 2, 2023
Another dimension of the Iron Rod is the word of God: John 1. Jesus Christ is the Word. It is to Him we must hold fast to reach the Tree of Life. Then, the Liahona is a tool for hearing the Word thru the Spirit of God
Boanerges RubalcavaNovember 2, 2023
The argument that the Church (The Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ) is unfair to those who cannot get married in the Temple, and consequently cannot obtain Eternal Life, is absurd, since the Lord and His Apostles clearly told us (all of us) that sin is not accepted with a minimum of allowance. Sexual sins, adultery and fornication, unless there is a repentance, exclude any one doing them to enter the Temple. But, this is exactly the same for everybody, men, women, heterosexual or homosexual ones. Therefore, ALL of us no matter our assumed conditions, must stop sinning, and repent. And the situation is the same for those NOT committing the acts mentioned, when for whatever reasons they were unable to find the eternal companion, if they remain in the Gospel keeping the commandments, and with a since repentance when the did not do, our Loving Father in Heaven and His Son Jesus Christ will provide a way for them to enter Eternal Life.
Stefanie EskanderNovember 1, 2023
Such a touching story. I truly believe that many receive messages of the Spirit through the arts- music, artwork, dance, etc.
Debbi M.November 1, 2023
I had never heard this song, and it is so beautiful! Thanks for this article and your previous one.
Stirring and joyful and worshipful! I love this phrase--Signal fire of grace.
Your articles WERE a signal Fire of grace for me! And left me in tears...
Elder Russell Rich CannonNovember 1, 2023
As Service Mission Leaders we frequently work with young men and women who “transfer” from teaching missions to service missions. Many are returning home to parents where they remain as service missionaries for the remainder of their missions. I like to think of my deceased loved ones as “transfers” who complete their earthly missions and “transfer” home to their Heavenly Parents” for their heavenly mission assignments. Just like with our service missionaries, it is a step forward, not a step back. Enjoyed the article and the discussion with my siblings about this topic.
Carlos RoundyNovember 1, 2023
I like the word commenced, like going to a commencement, a new beginning .
Laurel DraperNovember 1, 2023
This was a wonderful article! At a time when I am still trying to figure out how to not only survive, but thrive, in this still-new to me empty nester reality I'm facing, this gave me some good food for thought. Maybe my life isn't really "over," (*wink) and I can still find ways to be a blessing and valuable contributor to my children and those around me. For ME, it continues to be challenging to find my place now that I am no longer a full-time mom to my kids, who have created families of their own. I want to find ways to still be a teacher, an example, a blessing and to play an important role in the lives of my grandlittles.
MaryannOctober 31, 2023
Do you really want to keep living like this? Not only has your husband betrayed you over MANY years, but then he places an additional burden on you by blaming you for not trusting him! There is a better life waiting for you---go find it. A good therapist will help you move forward with your life (WITHOUT your husband), and also help you to rebuild your self esteem. You have been carrying this heavy load on your shoulders for far too long and if you continue, it will manifest itself in your physical, emotional, and mental health. You already sound completely exhausted and depleted. Anyone who has suffered this kind of abuse, and it IS abuse, from a man who refuses to change needs to end the marriage as quickly as possible.
Michele SOctober 31, 2023
I imagine it breaks Heavenly Father's heart to see some of his children pursuing relationships here in mortality that he cannot make eternal. He too is bound by Eternal law.
Rob McGhieOctober 31, 2023
I look forward to the day when the Proclamation on the Family is included as a section in the Doctrine and Covenants.
Bob KernsOctober 31, 2023
Thank you for sharing this much needed article.
James O Brown IIOctober 31, 2023
If a person has a problem with The Proclamation on the Family, they do not have a problem with church leaders. They have a problem with the Lord.
Richard HillsOctober 31, 2023
Of course we all sincerely accept that the very truths and principles revealed by our Prophets that our Father has established for our happiness can be changed from time to time by our Prophets upon receiving more revelation.
Rochelle HaleOctober 31, 2023
What we sometimes forget is that the Family Proclamation was inspired through the Lord's Prophet and apostles. Perhaps a comparison would be the Word of Wisdom (D&C 89). CBD, green tea, vaping, and a plethora of alcoholic beverages did not exist (or not in the same forms) in Joseph Smith's time. Nevertheless, we cannot justify our desire to experiment, follow worldly enticements, or altar what the Lord has ordained for us. However, the Atonement of Jesus Christ applies to all of us to help us overcome our sins, addictions, loneliness, mourning, heartaches, illnesses, and all things that are challenges to us. Our Heavenly Father is more loving than we can comprehend.
Jim AndersonOctober 31, 2023
Amen, Amen, and Amen! We are on a path to return to a Loving Father in Heaven. The very essence of love is that He has shined many lights on the covenant path that will lead us there. The tares are living among the wheat in our very wards and families. How painful it is to witness the reality that many we love will not bear fruit. At least not in the moment. Eternity is a very long time and God and Christ are merciful. That does not mean that we can simply look the other way and allow the good fruit to be spoiled by popular ideology. To love another person is to help them heal and walk in the light. The light will always illuminate the tares as well as the wheat. It will show the net is full of fish. Some will be kept and some will be tossed back. We as faithful LDS will adjust it to illuminate the Pearl of Great Price that we have sacrifices for and our ancestors have paved the way for us to have.
Cynthia COctober 31, 2023
Very compassionate and well-written article. Thank you!
Mary TarbetOctober 31, 2023
MANY THANKS for reinforcing that what ever thwarts the Lord’s plan of salvation is what Satan will advocate. I remember when the Proclamation was first introduced to the women, we all said “of course”. I continue to follow the Lord’s prophet and His apostles in His Church, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
Chip SnowOctober 31, 2023
when the proclamation first came out, my first thought was "Duh". I was a kid. little did I know what the Prophet and Apostles were seeing. that was the last time I did a figurative eye roll at something they've said.
Debbi M.October 30, 2023
LOVED this article! I moved this article to my Pinterest and called it--Life After Life. Seemed appropriate, as well as "graduated."I love feeling my graduated loved ones around me, and often think of them and what they would advise me. And I tell them how much I miss them, even knowing that they are still around and watching out for me.
David KendallOctober 30, 2023
You inspired me to write a poem, I hope you like it!
Out of Sight, Never Out of Mind
Family, friends and loved ones
Having lived there lives on Earth,
Still touch our hearts by spirit
Ever from their days of birth.
They continue as guardian angels
From the other side of the veil,
Having graduated from mortality
And in God's presence now dwell.
They are forever trying to help us
For joy and peace on earth to find,
And ask to be remembered fondly
As only out of sight, never ever out of mind.
RaLee HallOctober 30, 2023
Thank you, thank you for your thoughts and insights.this truly is an inspirational article.
LoraOctober 30, 2023
Since they are more alive than we are, since we are mortal and they are not, I suggest that we call them "immortal". "The immortals" describes them better than "the dead".
Rochelle HaleOctober 30, 2023
Why don't we call our departed the "reunited ones?" I recall reading an article recently where we were reminded that, even as we mourn, our loved ones are greeting their own parents, grandparents, or even some of their own children who departed mortality before them. We should be happy for them. Some friends of other faiths teach that "believers" go directly into the arms of God or Jesus. So "reunited one" would be applicable across many religions.
Abbie VianesOctober 30, 2023
Thank you for a lovely article. Im So glad the language in the temple no longer uses the term dead. I have thought for 10 years now that they ought to change that because those who have passed on are VERY much alive and, according to Joseph Smith, enjoy the same degree of sociality as we do here. Im.sure they find the word "dead" to be a bit insulting.
Sherree LounsberyOctober 30, 2023
I favor the term 'passed on'
Additionally, I always strive to refer to my family and friends in the present tense, as in "she's beautiful" or "he's brilliant" because they still are!
Jackson PembertonOctober 30, 2023
Loved this explication! How about "moved up"?
Chris HowellOctober 30, 2023
I have fought calling my mother dead for years. I never refer to her as dead today or speak of her in past tense. I think "graduated" or "transitioned" to the next stage of life says it for me. When she graduated it was unexpected and sudden. My coworkers accused me of denial and that I would go through a serious depression later. Later I had the impression in prayer that she had completed her experience her and was granted to transition. (she suffered from arthritis)
Ronald BarnesOctober 30, 2023
I don't understand this reluctance to use the word "dead" The word refers to the temporary separation of the body and the spirit. Any other terms that we may use have the same meaning. The fact that the dead move among us does not change the fact that they do so as spirits that are separated from their bodies,
Lynne BarryOctober 30, 2023
What about relocated?
Corey D.October 28, 2023
My heart goes out to the Hess family and to all who have experienced the loss of loved ones, especially seemingly untimely or unexpected. Where would we be in such difficult times without the hope our savior brings.
JeffreyOctober 28, 2023
Thank you for sharing this poignant and difficult family experience with us.
JuliannOctober 27, 2023
My heartfelt condolences. No parent ever want to bury a child. Emma is well and whole and you now have an angel in heaven. She thanks you for your love, and sacrifices, and faith. Now it’s her turn to watch over all of you. And she will.
Gale BoydOctober 27, 2023
Thank you, Jacob, for sharing this. It's inspiring, beautiful, and helpful in all the best ways.
AnnaOctober 27, 2023
A thousand blessings to the author and his family.
EveOctober 27, 2023
I'm truly sorry for your loss! And I'm truly grateful that we, as Meridian readers, get to read such precious truths. It's inspired me in the trials I'm facing at the moment. Thank you!
Carol MaskOctober 27, 2023
What a beautiful perspective. I believe it w all my heart.
TanaOctober 27, 2023
Thank you so very much for sharing this sacred family moment with your extended family of brothers and sisters! Your great faith and knowledge of the Savior is an example for us all. He does Live and because He does, your sweet Emma lives! What a perfect plan! Prayers and continued peace to your sweet family and friends as you mourn all that is missing right now.
Steve DoneganOctober 27, 2023
I write this after wiping the multitude of tears from my face... Thank you for putting into words what many of us cannot find words for. Thank you for sharing your outlook with us who suffer and can't see as far forward as you have. Our love to your family and supportive friends.
LaNae ShawOctober 27, 2023
Thank you for sharing this incredible journey you have been on - our 20 month old grandson passed away last year unexpectedly and our daughter has had such a hard time - she has been so angry that they didn’t get the miracle. She has finally come to realize that the miracle is that Heavenly Father and Jesus mourns with us. We do not understand why these things have to happen but we have to trust in His Plan and know that we will be with them again. I could not go on without that knowledge. So grateful for a loving Heavenly Father and Jesus who love us all so much and will wipe away all tears and all things will be made right!!! Thanks again for sharing.
ShaunaOctober 27, 2023
I am a better, stronger person, even filled with more light because I read your story. I tasted the goodness and truth of it all. Your writing is so beautiful and your testimonies were a feast. Thank you so much for sharing.
Kathy SandersOctober 27, 2023
Jacob I have eagerly followed anything you write when I find it as your gifts and inspiration have lifted and helped me so much. Thank you for sharing the tenderest feelings of your heart and yours and Monique’s beautiful faith in Jesus Christ and his tender mercies. I feel a oneness with you all and pray for your family as you miss sweet Emma. A oneness in Christ who is our hope and our salvation. Thank you for sharing and blessing us all with your story. Thank you Emma for the blessing of your life that lives on.
Ben PackOctober 27, 2023
Thank you Jacob for you and your wife’s beautiful words and for your faith. Thank you for helping me see and feel deeper. I’m grateful for God’s plan of happiness and progression. That he gives us experiences and relationships to make us like his Son. I loved your comments on Jesus in Gethsemane and Golgotha and the reason for his and our suffering. Thanks be to God for his Holy Son in bringing us a glorious tomorrow.
ChristineOctober 27, 2023
Brother and Sister Hess, your testimonies have blessed me today (and many times before). May God continue to bear you up. Through my own dark nights and days of grief, I also received comfort, peace, and hope, and I testify of the truth of your beautiful words. God does love us, and those we love who have passed through that quiet veil, are close, and you will feel their love, their light, their peace, and their joy in the days and years ahead. Glorious truth, beautiful hope, peaceful light, divine love.
Elizabeth LeBlancOctober 26, 2023
I just love your articles. They are so full of personal, faith filled, examples. I'm glad that you remember them with exactness and how they impacted your soul; because, it's as if I get to live that same experience too. Those feelings are as real to me as they are to you. I just love you. Thank you for bringing unity of faith to the Church:)
MarkOctober 26, 2023
I cringe when the youth or anyone else bear a testimony saying they know the church is true and never mention the name Jesus except at the end when they close in His name. The church is only true because of Christ. The prophets are only prophets because of Christ. The Gospel is only true because it is the Good News of Christ. Seems to me we kinda get it backward when we testify of the things instead of the person, Jesus, who is the reason for all of it. I go back to President Nelson’s talk of the Atonement of Christ. The Atonement is the thing, but without the connection to the power of Christ, it is ineffectual.
Harold RustOctober 24, 2023
This inspiring story is one that my brother while living in Heber has been able to follow---and actively participate in for the last several years. His enthusiasm for and encouragement of this project have been matched by dozens of other leaders in the Heber valley. Thanks for this descriptive summary of how the location came to be finally finalized. It has been an inspiration for all who became part of the large team.
MaryannOctober 23, 2023
The only reason I can think of for divorced people to maintain contact after they have married someone else is if the divorced couple have minor children. In those cases, the divorced couple should have an amicable relationship for the sake of their children. If the children are grown, in most cases, I would think the current spouse would be very uncomfortable if contact was continued with the Ex-spouse.
Paul HOctober 23, 2023
Where is this statuary park located? (The article asking for donations doesn't say.)
Scot ProctorOctober 23, 2023
The links have now been updated to the correct campaign. Thank you!
Scot ProctorOctober 23, 2023
The links have now been updated to the correct campaign. Thank you!
Scot ProctorOctober 23, 2023
The links have now been updated to the correct campaign. Thank you!
Jeff BellOctober 23, 2023
This sounds like a worthwhile endeavor. Where will the ten acre park be located, is there an entrance fee, how does one know the administration costs associated with such a large project?
Where can one mail a check? Does it go to Dr Neal or Meridian?
The article should include all of this information plus the projected date.
PS: I loved the video
Joe HopkinsOctober 23, 2023
Thank you Kay Wiemer Gerke for stating so clearly what so many are condemning as CRT. Yes there are marvelous parts to our history and people who have stood tall. But there are also those who have cheated, lied, and destroyed. We need to know their motivations so we can avoid them. The positive needs to be enshrined but to avoid teaching the negative Is foolhardy.
Gary KohlOctober 23, 2023
The GoFundMe site that this link directs us to is from 2021 and says it is no longer accepting donations.
Sherrie RaynorOctober 23, 2023
Can you check the link? On 10/23 it was no longer active.
Teri N.October 23, 2023
I went to the fundraiser on GoFundMe and it states it has been DEACTIVATED. HELP PLEASE. How can we donate? I so much wish to donate to this.
Ed RehderOctober 22, 2023
As always; Good Stuff!!
Joan G. SmithOctober 20, 2023
A basic truth, long ignored, asserts that the purpose of education is to teach a student how to THINK. It appears that the "Fathom the Good" curriculum may well provide the way to accomplish that goal. I've sent a link for this article to my wonderful home-schooling daughter.
Kay Wiemer GerkeOctober 20, 2023
I am surprised that Meridian would print this Op-Ed. I have enjoyed Meridian for many years and have always counted on it for informative and inspirational reading. It plays an important role in spreading the Gospel in its unique way.
John C. Hancock's opinions are very concerning to me. He has latched on to sound-bite catchphrases that are inflammatory and not fully accurate. CRT, Critical Race Theory, is NOT taught in general education. It is a subject that has been inaccurately vilified and is misleading. CRT is a curriculum that is taught at a graduate school level, not in elementary schools. The danger of this overreaction can lead to omitting vital historical truths regarding our country's past which has created a climate of racism that still exists today.
We cannot change history but we should learn from it to not repeat its mistakes. America’s racial past is not only about the horrific treatment of many people of color, it also includes accounts of good people standing up for what was right and fighting against bigotry and hatred. Valuable learning can occur in classrooms when these topics are discussed with accuracy and truth. Students can learn to evaluate society’s mistakes from the past and make informed choices to commit to do better.
I have had the unique opportunity of substitute teaching for 20 years in public high school and middle schools. I have seen, first-hand, what curriculum is taught and I have grown close to the faculty and staff from these schools. It is very rare that I have ever felt concerns about the information that my co-workers are teaching. My own children grew up in this school district and I began subbing after our youngest graduated from high school. I have been extremely involved with our educational system for 41 years.
Yes, there are some things that are taught that are not consistent with our belief systems, but that is life, that is living in the world. My husband and I always felt that our job was to stay close to our kids and have frank discussions at home about what they learned at school. This way we helped guide them through life’s challenges as they went along and as they faced controversial ideas, on their own level. We empowered them with a feeling that they could handle whatever the world threw at them without fearing it. They were able to develop confidence in knowing that they were strong enough to withstand the confusing influences of the adversary through discernment. Their protective armor was based on gospel principles giving them insight and strength to make good choices as they looked to Heavenly Father for help. Personally, I am a supporter of public schooling with home support and I have really enjoyed the opportunity to be a substitute teacher. It has allowed me to really get to know the youth of our community for decades and hopefully be an influence for good in their lives.
Dawn BrysonOctober 20, 2023
I took American Heritage from your Father, Ralph Hancock, at Brigham Young University in 1994. He made history so applicable to us. I looked forward to his lectures as each lecture was interesting and engaging. I learned to think more critically too. Honestly, one of my favorite classes. I look forward to learning more.Thank you!
Brad OatesOctober 19, 2023
I have followed V.H. Cassler thought leadership articles for multiple years, and appreciate her brilliant insights. She has a gift for seeing the non-obvious…and, the obvious in non-obvious ways. I agree with her assessment that we have reached a cultural tipping point. It would seem that 2020 was such a year with 4 “Super Shocks” of a global pandemic, global recession, worldwide social justice protests, and divisive election cycle. But, in my opinion, 1968 is likely the tipping point year that defined the pervasive cultural erosion we are now experiencing…a “scattering” as prophesied that 2020 accelerated. For me, this is the big picture context that gives meaning and purpose to the “gathering” theme that has been emphasized by Latter-Day Prophets. Thank you Valerie.
Kent BrooksbyOctober 19, 2023
AMEN!
SageOctober 19, 2023
I appreciate your wise words and courageous attempt to educate. I will be sharing this everywhere I can.
MistyOctober 18, 2023
Surrogacy?! That’s a weird one to lump in there. So many families and people in general have been blessed because of someone else’s love and sacrifice through surrogacy!
Sue AntuarOctober 18, 2023
In a quiet moment this morning I noticed your article and decided to read. I read words that I needed to hear and words that have resonated with me. Words that have brought me great peace and comfort. I lost my husband last week and had his funeral yesterday. Even though this has been a life altering, heartbreaking whirlwind in time, I have absolutely felt and feel my Savior's peace and love and strengthening power by submitting to HIS will. Hard days will come but I absolutely know he will continue to protect and strengthen me in my storm.
Tim FlahertyOctober 18, 2023
I'm afraid I am not familiar with this Bianca Palmieri Lisonbee, 1953-2023, for whom this article was dedicated.
Jamie QuistOctober 18, 2023
Thank you for the backstory and history of these areas. It's like, "Oh, wow, that makes so much more sense."
How can a lay person access this kind of information?
JulesOctober 16, 2023
Great analogy and food for introspection. How refreshing it would be to attend a RS where the sisters felt they could be honest and would actually validate each other. Way too much competitiveness in my association with women. How easy it is to give a compliment or a hug, but too often reserved and withheld by those who have not yet learned that their sense of worth comes from God and he gives freely.
MarkOctober 16, 2023
Thank you for sharing this! What a great analogy
KerryOctober 16, 2023
Thank you! I am also a widow who watches a K drama at the end of a busy day - sometimes feeling guilty. I am careful to do the “ clean” ones. They are delightful and so well cast. Now I can feel ok about it. Excellent article otherwise also.
LBOctober 14, 2023
You need to see a marriage counselor.
KathleenOctober 13, 2023
That's all it takes!
SandraOctober 13, 2023
Finally! An update on this production. I donated to the work back in August, 2022 and have heard no more. I'm pleased to learn its moving along.
JuliannOctober 13, 2023
Good cartoon. It only takes one. Thanks for all the chuckles.
Ann A.October 13, 2023
Hi name must be Calvin!
Jeff DrakeOctober 13, 2023
Thank God for small nurseries! Our oldest two are 15 months apart, so our daughter was too young for nursery when our son was born. Since the nurses in our ward was only about ten kids, the Nursery Leader invited our daughter to join them a bit early. It was an incredible blessing for our family.
GinaOctober 12, 2023
We can also learn that your mortal life can be over in a minute.
And look at what tha Palestinians in the Gaza Strip are once again having reinforced. Water can stop coming out of our taps. The ability to purchase food can be curtailed. The power can go out. We need supplies as well as faith.
Debbie KentOctober 12, 2023
Excellent article. Thank you.
Wendy ManwaringOctober 12, 2023
I appreciate the thoughts and scriptures associated with this story. Thank you. There is a lot of truth in it. I wish it was not associated with a product or sales of any kind. When I listen to general conference, I never go away with fear in any way. Things that insight fear, I shy away from. Just a feeling that comes to me as I read articles similar this one. I appreciate the topic written of here, being prepared, and I am grateful we have Jesus Christ leading and guiding us through prophet, seers and revelators. President Nelson counseled us this last General Conference to "Think Celestial." Included in his counsel were these words, "Seek guidance from voices you can trust—from prophets, seers, and revelators and from the whisperings of the Holy Ghost, who “will show unto you all things what ye should do.” Please do the spiritual work to increase your capacity to receive personal revelation."
LewisOctober 11, 2023
Bless you, and bless the children, for this beautiful story of faith.
Jim ThorleyOctober 11, 2023
What a great story! And what a great lesson to be learned. How do I get all in my Elders Quorum to read this?
HelenCOctober 11, 2023
Well research and crafted examination of scripture. Thank you.
KathleenOctober 10, 2023
AMEN, Sister!
Lola B.October 10, 2023
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. I too have had a spiritual experience years ago that I consider very sacred and have not shared, but I do feel the need to, for the benefit of future generations.
"Indeed, you can have sacred, revelatory, profoundly instructive experiences with the Lord in the most miserable experiences of your life—in the worst settings, while enduring the most painful injustices, when facing the most insurmountable odds and opposition you have ever faced"
- Elder Jeffrey R.Holland
Douglas NadybalOctober 10, 2023
It is well thought out article exploring what a balanced prosperity looks like. Even more remarkable is that is was done without invoking the tried, tested and overused mantra "seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things will be added to you", which I sometimes tire of hearing over and over again.
Harold RustOctober 10, 2023
Thank you! The impact of personal stories is a theme I've been actively encouraging my ward members to collect for many years. I remind them that although there may be only a limited few stories recorded somewhere for great grandparents, there should be more for grandparents and definitely more you can find regarding your parents. And then, with regard to your immediate family......the sky is the limit! The key is to record them; big and small, seemingly trivial as well as monumentally pivotal.
Chip WhitmerOctober 9, 2023
Always worth pointing out that Helaman only had two brothers: Shiblon and Corianton. The phrase "Helaman and his brethren" necessarily includes Corianton, who apparently got his act together and became a great leader in spite of his youthful transgressions. There is hope for all of us!
Colleen CorbridgeOctober 9, 2023
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing this inspiring story.
HelenCOctober 9, 2023
Bless them all! And bless you for being there for them. An awesome reminder that some things only come about “save by fasting and by prayer” Matt 17:21
sdgOctober 9, 2023
I'm so grateful to hear that Rising Star can continue. I've been able to support one child for a few years after learning about your great work through my niece. Thank you for sharing this miracle. I look forward to reading about those other two miracles. God is amazing.
Sarah HinzeOctober 9, 2023
Thank you so much for your inspiring article. Thank you for the courage to share your testimony. I have been taught deeply by your tender experiences.
Greg SmithOctober 8, 2023
Well said. Thank you.
HeidiOctober 2, 2023
It's amazing the things that stand out to us! I saw a lot of invitations to let the Holy Spirit guide us to truth. Truth was a big theme through many talks. In a world where truth is hard to find we need discernment to make good choices.
Jim ThorntonOctober 2, 2023
I don't know about anybody else, but I think I have said "think Celestial" about 10 times today. What a wonderful, simple, two words that encompasses President Nelson's entire address. I have come to the conclusion that thinking Celestial may be the only way someone like me will make it back to Heavenly Father.
Roger DavidsonOctober 2, 2023
President Nelson talking about focusing on celestial. When confronted with temptations or whatever comes into our lives that takes our focus off of the Savior then think Celestial. Is it just me or has anyone else noticed in the last few years the talks have been more centered on Jesus Christ. And coming to him, because it is only through him we gain our salvation. I would love to hear others thoughts regarding more emphasis on Jesus Christ. President Nelson, during his talk I felt something while he was speaking, that maybe I need to make my prayers more conversational than a check list "Ok I have said my prayer like I am supposed or I have read from the book of Mormon like I am supposed to. Again, what a wonderfjul conference.
Lynette J MilliganOctober 2, 2023
The themes that stood out, and which our family discussed afterwards, were those of preparation, both temporally and more importantly, spiritually, for the degree of glory you want to achieve. Several Apostles talked about this topic, as did our Dear Prophet.
Several talks spoke of the 10 Virgins and their model of preparation, both temporal and spiritual.
We all agreed that the overarching theme was Coming to Christ and how we do that by, beginning with the end in mind, and obedience to His commandments, including providing assistance to those in need.
What a fantastic Conference it was! We all felt so richly blessed to receive such instruction and wisdom from those whom the Lord has prepared to lead and guide us. We are so grateful to have access to them and the treasures of the gospel library and Church website.
Pat BluthOctober 2, 2023
Thank you, Mariah!
Erika PechacekOctober 2, 2023
This Conference was significant because all the speakers reminded us to come unto Jesus Christ and grow spiritually. We have to prepare ourselves and the coming generations for the coming of the Lord and without that preparation we will not be able to stand that event.
The world is in commotion right now and if we imagine how much worse it will get, without spiritual preparation and centering our lives on Jesus Christ, we will not be able to stand. May we all take this serious and be always ready to welcome our Lord and Savior!
Lisa ReisingOctober 2, 2023
One of the strong themes I heard was about the power in and need for creating communities of Christ, where we feel accepted, needed, heard, peaceful, and some protection from the onslaught of the world. Many of the gathering messages contained the plea to learn how to love each other more completely - all part of Zion building.
Patricia LambOctober 2, 2023
President Nelson used the word MORTALITY, which was important to me.
Mortality is a master class in learning to choose the things of greatest eternal import. Far too many people live as though this life is all there is. However, your choices today will determine three things: where you will live throughout eternity, the kind of body with which you will be resurrected, and those with whom you will live forever. So, think celestial.
When you make choices, I invite you to take the long view—an eternal view. Put Jesus Christ first, because your eternal life is dependent upon your faith in Him and in His Atonement. It is also dependent upon your obedience to His laws. Obedience paves the way for a joyful life for you today and a grand, eternal reward tomorrow.
When you are confronted with a dilemma, think celestial! When tested by temptation, think celestial! When life or loved ones let you down, think celestial! When someone dies “prematurely,” think celestial. When someone lingers with a devastating illness, think celestial. When the pressures of life crowd in upon you, think celestial! As you recover from an accident or injury, think celestial!
Iclea Megre LannesOctober 2, 2023
Thank you for sharing those thoughts. I started my day thinkng about the theme that stands out in the conference talks, then I was blassed with your words.
TeriSeptember 30, 2023
I love you President Nielsen as I help those who read and listen to the conference. Love Jesus and our heavenly Father. Prayers for blessings are headed your way by so many of our congregations. I pray that thou will feel them and that they will help you to heal as quickly as possible. Thank you for all you do and your service and ministry.
CarolSeptember 29, 2023
Get a physical exam and check for blood sugar, autoimmune, mental decline or mental illness issues. Sometimes that can cause a change.
MaryannSeptember 29, 2023
Good advice! I would also suggest a focus on constantly looking for the good in one another and voicing many sincere complements. We have been married for 53 years and I have found it is best to bite my tongue when I am tempted to say something critical, or to give too much advice. I feel like my Spirit is working at disciplining the "natural woman," and overcoming mortal tendencies and weaknesses. It doesn't really matter if we feel our spouse is being too sensitive. What matters is our willingness to change ourselves and our approach. It doesn't feel stifling, it feels like victory! I am grateful for the Lord's Spirit to enable me to do this.
vickieSeptember 29, 2023
also, when two people were married that long and then retire...that changes everything. the husband now stays home all the time. where he was in charge at work he wants to be that way at home and when the wife tries to have input husband doesnt take it well because hey he is the one in charge...actually the woman ruled the roost and has been for years...suddenly she has no say.....believe me....its mainly the husbands issue that he has to deal with ...wife has to realize this is what is going on....he wants to lead at home..but home is more a womanly work....sharing tasks is the best ...but only if they share it and no one rules over it all...
CW2 DoneganSeptember 28, 2023
I read because I want to see if someone else’s perspective can change my own. Your using the second act of plays changes my way of processing how to speak about preexistance to others. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
KathleenSeptember 27, 2023
All's well that ends well!
Sherrie BurdickSeptember 27, 2023
Thank you for this wonderful article. I couldn't help but compare Washington with the leadership our country is experiencing today...Actually, there is no comparison.
M. M. HansenSeptember 27, 2023
I'm very disappointed in your article. I'll give one example. You said the teenager wearing a maga hat.... It was a Catholic student coming for a March to Life rally not a Trump rally as you imply. You said they had a stand off. Actually I've watched all the many hours of video and Sandman was minding his own business when the guy came up to him banging on his drum. Sandman was trying hard not to do anything or say anything to diffuse the situation. He exhibited great restraint. So it was NOT a stand off. The guy was a jerk. Your final sentence was completely false and would lead people to believe that the right was as bad as the left was for making up a story that the media portrayed Sandman bad. The media did indeed do just that and his name was ruined in the press for what? Showing restraint? So yes because he was standing for the unborn and had a maga hat on the media DID attack him viciously. So much so that he lost scholarships. He eventually won many lawsuits against the media. The right did not craft a new narrative. It WAS the narrative. The media smeared and innocent kid because he rallied against abortion and they have done it to many people besides him.
Katrina DonaheySeptember 27, 2023
Daris,
I always enjoy your stories.
Thank you for them.
I love the messages they convey.
Kay RookhuyzenSeptember 27, 2023
I needed a good cry today! I so enjoyed this "serial" storytelling! Thank you so much!!
JessicaSeptember 27, 2023
So sorry for the separation of your mother. I hope you are finding that peace that passes all understanding. I always look forward to your articles! They have just the right amount of humor in them. But I especially enjoyed reading about your mother’s adventures with Old Bob. What sweet and tender stories. Thank you so much for sharing them. I really hope that I can meet Bob one day.
Barbara RukaSeptember 27, 2023
I have enjoyed reading these stories of Bob and Joyce. I looked forward to every installment. I'm sad that it ended. Beautiful writing. Thank you!
JanelSeptember 26, 2023
Why did Chad Daybell not make the list of fallen heroes? He definitely had a following and disappointed said followers.
Lynne FlakeSeptember 26, 2023
My husband's ancestor, Samuel Flake, was among the Regulators at the Battle of Alamance. After the battle, he was forced to take an oath to not fight against the Crown ever again. When the American Revolution began, he sent his sons to fight on the American side. We have visited the site of the Battle of Alamance and consider Samuel a great patriot.
Robin Isley BickfordSeptember 26, 2023
Very well written! I, too, am a descendent of Capt. Merrill (mother's side), a native North Carolinian, and a Latter-day Saint. I have visited Alamance Battleground and Hillsborough several times - these places are indeed Sacred Ground! What a great Patriot he was!
BarbaraSeptember 26, 2023
In addition to these excellent suggestions for coping with grief or fighting depression from other causes, I would add two:
1. find something creative to do. This helps absorb your mental energies into something positive.
2. Do regular service. It can be as easy as using Familysearch to find names of people waiting to have their temple work done or going to the temple and doing ordinance. Or it could be serving someone in your family, neighborhood, or ward.
And, as I write this, another thought comes to mind. Make sure you are not isolating yourself. In the suggestions that Jeff made or that I have made, make sure some of the things you do require interaction with others.
Robin Isley BickfordSeptember 26, 2023
Thank you so much for writing about Capt. Merrill! I am also a direct descendent on my mother's side, a native North Carolinian (parents & ancestors from Alamance County), and a Latter-day Saint. I, too, discovered his story several years ago and have visited the Hillsborough site several times. I also grew up near the Alamance Battlefield. These sites are indeed sacred ground. It is also great to know that I have relatives in Utah, where our daughter is attending University of Utah. Feel free to email me. It would be awesome to hear from you or connect in Utah or NC! ❤️❤️
dan douglassSeptember 26, 2023
great advice,we are all weak...i look at the good tim did for thousand of children,maybe somewhere on his journey he slipped up, i will still vote for him as long as his sin doesnt involve a child..maybe somewhere along the line some woman pressered him,got in a bad situation..didnt want to blow his cover ect..ect..also leave the church out of it ,we got enough enemies..forgive..look at the good
Teresa DavisSeptember 26, 2023
Over the years I have loved ALL your stories and insights. I especially love the story of Bob, the dog and Joyce. It teaches even if a person comes from a rough abusive background, one can be rise above all that to emerge as a virtuous, strong, loyal, hard-working character. How he blessed the life of Joyce's family! We can do the same.
These are the stories we need back into our schools.
TreyeshuaSeptember 26, 2023
Luke 6:22 Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man’s sake.
23 Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great in heaven: for in the like manner did their fathers unto the prophets.
Tim Ballard appears to me to be yet another of the falsely accused. Jesus said that will happen to true saints.
Charles McClellandSeptember 25, 2023
Thank you for this informative, thoughtful and well written article.
MaryannSeptember 25, 2023
You wrote, regarding the Tim Ballard story: "For a still developing story, withholding judgement can be appropriate." So, why are you jumping the gun and including it in your article NOW?
Ned SvarisbrickSeptember 25, 2023
Ah, guilt the gift that keeps on giving. Let me pose a question. When the Savior performed His atoning sacrifice how many of our sins were in the future? ALL of them right up to and including the final second at the final judgement.
Once you decide to put your trust in the ever living God your life will change forever. Life then becomes a relationship that grows us up in Godliness and sin over time fades into the dust and follows us no more.
CASSeptember 25, 2023
I have listened in person to Tim Ballard explain his role in OUR many times. Most were at the peril of his own life! I believe that he is innocent of these charges and encourage people not to rush to condemn him on public opinion. I believe that Tim is a good and honorable man!
JuliannSeptember 25, 2023
Great follow up to a great conference talk. Elder Holland shared a similar story but without a happy ending. A young man sinned, repented, became a wonderful husband, father and successful businessman, but upon moving back to his hometown found that others would not let him forget his past.
I don’t believe we , as individuals, forget our transgressions, because remembering helps to keep us from repeating and also helps us to empathize with and teach others. But we can be released from the guilt and shame. Which brings up another point: guilt is a gift from god to make us aware of when we need to repent. Shame is always Satanic. Guilt is ,”I did something bad,I need to repent ,and change”. Shame is “I am a bad person. I will always be a bad person.”
It is not our place to guilt or shame another. It is our place to let God do His work. If we do not condemn others, we shall not be condemned by others — hopefully.
Paralee EckmanSeptember 20, 2023
I donated to OUR several years and was proud of it. I stopped only because of financial reasons. I totally support Tim Ballard, and will vote for him if he runs for the Senate ! I hope you will notify him of my admiration for publicly expressing his support and testimony of our Church!
JeffSeptember 19, 2023
Excellent points and thoughts. I think the elimination of former YM and YW presidencies and the calling of younger bishops has lead to a lack of shepherding among adult members. The ideal of the EQ and RS presidents counseling adults is not reality. Meanwhile the older adults languish without someone they trust. Good points on Come Follow Me and other items. MP quorums are definitely struggling with ministering and in their class time. Somehow the Church needs to be a safe place for all who come regardless of where one is on the faith journey. Our meetings need to allow for others with difficult questions. If f not, people will gather with like minded on forums and avoid the ward family.
KatrinaSeptember 19, 2023
Craig,
I loved your candid honesty manifest in this article. I LOVED your point about the rameumptom becoming our small devices now in our world. That was brilliantly on point. Thank you for your observations and thoughts on making your powerful point that unity does not require sameness. Well written! Thank you.
karell binghamSeptember 19, 2023
I still kind of wish there was more doctrine taught in gospel doctrine. More ideas.
Lawrence M. Barry Chaplain, Colonel, US Army (Ret)September 18, 2023
Thank you for your insightful and informative article. As a lifelong member of the Church and a retired LDS Army chaplain I sometimes cringe at the loud opposition voices. Your article is sorely needed. Thank you.
Bryan StinocherSeptember 18, 2023
Exactly on point. I have long held the belief that once I have paid my tithings and offerings I have fulfilled my end. I believe I will be blessed for that act of faith and obedience. If the Brethren then misuse the funds that is on them and not me. I don't have the ability to decide if the church 'needs' the money. Tithings and offerings have NEVER been about money. It is all about faith and obedience.
I echo the sentiment in this article that most of us have little to no concerns about how the church spends its money. But the media loves an agitator and someone who can casts aspersions on anyone, particularly a religion.
Richard G F TophamSeptember 18, 2023
Thank you for a very informative article and the thoughts of every day Latter Day Saints. My thoughts entirely. I have friends that are very much on the edge at the moment and need to read this article and to be able to put things in perspective.Truth Will Prevail.
Sally SmithSeptember 18, 2023
This was an excellent commentary and rebuttal against the Washington Post article.
I don't usually spend time looking at articles such as the one written in the Post because,inherently. I know it will be filled with slander, lies and misinformation.
David ShafferSeptember 18, 2023
Well said, and politely. Thank you.
Joel MarksSeptember 16, 2023
At this moment in American history many citizens who are not members of the Restored church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints are ready to bear up the Constitution of these states united. Thank you Tad Callister for your many articles concerning our original constitutional democratic republic which members of the holy Priesthood are not quite ready to bear off. It is now time to ready ourselves to defend and protect that which is governmentally sacred and profound. Watch and pray as He cometh quickly to save what the framers and founders created by the hand of Divine Providence!
Robert StarlingSeptember 15, 2023
Amen, and Amen. Thank you Elder Callister for compiling these wonderful thoughts and quotes in support of our divinely-inspired Constitution. I think we can all agree that it is indeed now hanging by a "brittle thread", and we all must do everythng in our power to support it and defend it. For most of us, that means campaigning and voting for elected officials who will support the Constitution rather than trying to supplant it.
Jamie QuistSeptember 15, 2023
Amen!
KathleenSeptember 14, 2023
So well worded and supported with 'real' life experiences, ancient and modern.
Cathy Rowe MarlerSeptember 13, 2023
A few years back I made bug out bags for our two vehicles, plus each of our three adult children and their spouses. I sleep better knowing they are somewhat prepared for emergency situations. I highly recommend Jeff Motes’ series, Once Upon An Apocalypse. He has included the necessary elements to sustain and protect you in a serious event.
MarciaSeptember 13, 2023
Excellent article, Nicholeen! My husband has often stated: One of the most important skills a person must learn in life is to develop the ability to tell themself "no." The consequences of not learning that skill can be very dire - while developing the skill is empowerment. Perfectly explained, Nicholeen. Thank you.
KatrinaSeptember 13, 2023
Wally,
You are on my favorite authors! I ALWAYS learn SO much from you. Thank you for this beautiful article. Thank you for detailing the deep meaning of a covenant relationship with Deity so beautifully. You are truly wonderful.
DoreenSeptember 13, 2023
Thank you for sharing these inspiring comments.
MicheleSeptember 13, 2023
I look forward to every episode about this courageous dog! So glad he made it home in this one. Thank you for sharing his amazing story.
Edna A Zurcher MaySeptember 13, 2023
Thank Thee Lord for the faith & courage that many showed in this beautiful story! Thank Thee for Thy guidence, for the privilege to recently meet Josh & his family & for the privilege of participating on the filming of his story.
Ben JonesSeptember 12, 2023
Alan Turing said that if. you could communicate with a computer for an extended period and not be able to tell you weren't talking to a human, artificial intelligence would have been achieved. I don't believe that mainly because computers are programmed by humans and those humans try really hard to make the computer seem human. Any good author can create characters that seem more real than the real people we know.
Karen HeathSeptember 12, 2023
If we do not teach our children and grandchildren to think and reason AND recognize the voice of the Spirit in helping them distinguish between good and evils, true and false, then this could well lead to Harari‘s conclusion. How important it will be for us as well as future generations to understand the power of God in our lives! Perhaps this is part of the reason President Nelson has been emphasizing how to “hear Him”. To emphasize our ability not to be deceived by what AI may try to tell us in the future.
Mark MathesonSeptember 12, 2023
What a BEE-utah-ful story! Thank you for all the service you have given all over this Earth.
LyndaSeptember 12, 2023
Thank you for this article. I have been feeling lately that I am a religious person, but questioning if I am a righteous person. I love the perspective of religion vs relationship and considering that must have been what I have been feeling. I am for certain going to improve all my checklist daily practices with this new mindset.
JulieSeptember 11, 2023
Elder Russell M. Nelson, in the February 2003 Ensign, said, "While divine love can be called perfect, infinite, enduring, and universal, it cannot correctly be characterized as unconditional." I learned a lot from studying his article. I had originally thought God's love was unconditional, but there are many scriptures that he quotes that say otherwise.
Jennifer SchowSeptember 11, 2023
As always, I appreciate your insights and testimony. An in-depth reading of The Book of Mormon, combined with a desire to learn and build faith, leaves no doubt that Joseph Smith was not the author. I look forward to reading some of the other books and resources you have shared.
MLarsonSeptember 11, 2023
Great Article! Just a thought to further document this and provice evidence for this view comes pretty strongly from the Book of Mormon. In it we find multiple examples of teachers that promote life without consequence for action.
Alma 18:5, 30:17 Are two examples of a teaching that there is no sin. In Helaman 14:30-31, consequences are clearly taught as an element of of Agency. Consequences are essential to agency.
Alma 1:4, 21:6, 2N. 28:8, Alma 11:34-37, Helaman 5:10, All taught saved IN sin. This idea of being saved without reference to works is a dangerous concept.
Julie MckinneySeptember 11, 2023
Thank you so much for this special opportunity to read about our dear prophet, President Nelson. You did a beautiful job of research on him and his special talks to lift, inspire and lead us onto the path to home in heaven.
I enjoyed this very much and feel the spirit with me strongly.
Thank you
Happy Birthday President Nelson and May the Lord continue His blessings upon you.
James ScottSeptember 11, 2023
Thanx for the heads up on Book of Mormon proofs.I especially liked the Midgley anecdote. Often the oppositional characters make chargesnot against the doctrinal revelations of the Book of Mormon but the characteristics of those presenting it . The charges of errant activities of today’s leaders,be they teachers or bishops when they sin and their sins become public it casts aspersions upon the whole including the Book.
James Stuart BrownSeptember 11, 2023
President Nelson has kept open the channels of communication with Heaven since childhood. His insights and discoveries as a physician revolutionized the field of cardiothoracic surgery and heeding the words of our Savior through him can have even more impact on the world. God knew whom He could trust him to speak His words and we are blessed by having him as our Prophet, Seer, and Revelator. Come Follow Me and being less contentious have blessed me and my family. There is more to follow.
JillSeptember 11, 2023
I'm so glad this wonderful apostle of The Lord is home from the hospital
He has endured much pain in all respects. I hope he recuperates unhurriedly, but I look forward to hearing from him when he can. I love President Holland, his direct teachings, and his gentle empathy! I have prayed continually for him. I hope he has the best care possible over the coming days and bless all those who have the blessing of serving him at this time.
Aileen HamptonSeptember 10, 2023
How edifying this article is! And yet I knew before reading that God is in control and can oversee the direction that AI takes, that we each can discern truth through the Holy Ghost, and that it is not in God's plan for AI to overtake and control humankind. We, as humans, have ways to know the things we need to know by connecting with God, our Heavenly Father.
Michael ColemanSeptember 9, 2023
God’s love for his children is unconditional however he does not always approve of what we do or bless us unconditionally.
DianaSeptember 9, 2023
How positive and uplifting! I appreciate the deep thinking that fostered this commentary and forces us to reread it several times to grasp its hopeful message.
KathleenSeptember 8, 2023
I'm so glad that what goes around for you, comes around 'sometimes'. You are some of the most giving people I've ever watched. Although I reluctantly use the phrase, "you deserve this" tender mercy, I'm so glad that the Lord chose to bless you with what was needed.
kcSeptember 8, 2023
The belief AI somehow will control the world and each individual in it is well founded to the extent those who provide our goods and services and governments fully adopt it. However, the actual downward spiral of society and regular natural disasters cause disruption of goods and services which includes electricity and internet. Once we are "unplugged" by choice or circumstance, there is no AI for us. Sure the whole world will not be unplugged at the same time but it will be an eye opener while we are lucky enough to "endure" it. Our self-sufficiency and willingness to follow the prophet--and KNOW we are not following a fake through the Spirit is key to enduring well.
Nerita Flake PetersonSeptember 8, 2023
Wonderful, intuitive and encouraging. Thanks so much for your thoughtful and encouraging article.
GTOSeptember 8, 2023
I would add that this discussion or future discussions could turn financial. There's a red flag in the daughter-in-law's anger that money went to lawyer's fees and not to her. This is an added wrinkle that could cause all sorts of problems in addition to those on an emotional level. Maybe decide ahead of time what you would be willing to do financially moving forward.
Bob SpielSeptember 7, 2023
Love these ideas. Years ago an inspired institute teacher taught me to 1) read slowly, 2) ask questions and 3) keep a journal of what I was asking and learning. Those three simple steps changed everything in the scriptures. They suddenly came alive and the greatest thing was the spirit then became the teacher — of even things that weren’t on the page. Thank you for these great examples of these skills.
Wally GoddardSeptember 7, 2023
Beautiful writing and lovely insight! Thank you, Mariah!
KathleenSeptember 6, 2023
Many truths
WeezieSeptember 6, 2023
Oh man! I needed this article 25 years ago! So good! I have been in those moments so many times like you were when your husband told you he was going on a fun trip. Such different lives. But it all changed. Like now for me the kids are all in school and I can do whatever I want, even though I don’t do many fun things because of habit. I’m curious if your husband didn’t go on the trip because he saw your face when he told you. ;)
CSeptember 6, 2023
Thank you so much for this! This hits too close to home for me. I will try to keep this perspective from now on.
Valiant K. JonesSeptember 5, 2023
Thank you for spreading a deeper understanding of this important temple covenant, the Law of the Gospel. I like the way you have shown the need to use this law as a long-term transformation process rather than just a one-time event. Your link to the first and second great commandments is also insightful.
Jake MartinSeptember 4, 2023
Also, none of these were "jewish" laws!!!! The word of God was the laws of the HEBREW people, later the laws of Israel.
HelenCSeptember 4, 2023
Thank you (again!) for your willingness to share inspiring stores. As I continue to strive to coach those who grieve I have found myself worrying about the continued lack of paying clients. I am newly committed to helping all who ask, whether they “sign up here” or not.
Mark DonaldsonAugust 30, 2023
The thoughts found in this WHO document may appear to be obvious and open and thus, not be characterized as a secret combination. However, there is no explanation as to the 'INTENT' of those who published this document. Therefore, in my opinion, this is very much a secret combination. Secret combinations don't have to materialize immediately such as a chief judge being murdered on the judgement seat. A secret combination can be incited and carried out over many years. Thus, this secret combination in it's 'INTENT' would appear to desensitize and break down even the most alarmed among us...over a number of years.
How the 'Woke' line of thinking will effect the United States and the world at large may not be seen today or tomorrow. But, 10 years from now we may realize that the 'INTENT' was the secret combination all along and has brought nothing but moral destruction.
BeatriceAugust 30, 2023
I feel the title of this article is very misleading. The WHO in my opinion, is a corrupt entity. And yes! Their ‘instruction’ is perfect for groomers!
TomAugust 29, 2023
Transcript for those who are deaf?
Bonnie HoltAugust 29, 2023
This is the most poignant beautiful prose--poetry--hymn of the heart I have ever read! So many of us are losing children to the world! I have been in the depts of grief over one child who has absolutely cut our entire family off--from grandchildren and cousins who we love with all our heart. None of us has heard anything from them for the last two years as we've agonized--how did this happen, what did we do wrong? With no contact it is as though they are dead! From your Hymn, I relate so completely to this honest poignant line from your hymn "I ask myself, was that it? Was that the moment I failed her?" And so my husband and I ask, was it this thing? Or that time, or another moment we can't even remember? We have the promise and have felt the peace from prayer that all will be right one day and pray that she will come to herself and "forgive!" We love the Lord with all our heart and thank Him for His amazing atonement daily, when again and again the waves of grief come.Thank you for this lovely reminder of His promise and grace! May He bless you for sharing your wonderful talent! You have a gift and I want to hear more from you!!!!!
Robert StarlingAugust 29, 2023
Well said, Brother Wallace! Your article, combined with Dan Peterson's "Fearfully and Wonderfully Made", gives us a faith-filled and delightful perspective on our Heavenly Father's amazing creation. It is indeed a "marvelous work and a wonder".
Robert StarlingAugust 29, 2023
Perhaps it is unusual to comment on my own article, but as I read it here online, it occured to me that the Oliver Wendell Holmes quote contains an interesting word play: He wrote: "we should be eternally vigilant against attempts to -check- the expression of opinions that we loathe". His usage of "check" means "stop", as when a hockey player "checks" another player by blocking his path. We should not do that, but we should indeed fact-check not only "opinions that we loathe", but especially our own opinions as well.
Tanya NeiderAugust 29, 2023
Absolutely stunning and serene!
Anne WilkinsonAugust 28, 2023
Even though everyone needs to be local is it possible to use different accents - it is so nice to hear an English accent and others might feel the same about their accents
tfAugust 28, 2023
Do we have a publication date yet for the new Hymnbook?
Donna Nelson TalbotAugust 28, 2023
The Kent, the Thomas and the Luce familes are my husband's mother's people. She comes through Martin Washburn Thomas who was the son of Nathaniel Thomas and Susan Luce Thomas.. Nathaniel sold his farm and paid for wagons and supplies for several of the Saints so that they could come to ZION.
They buried a daughter in New York while traveling through. Another daughter died in Nauvoo. Then Nathaniel died in Nauvoo ,nine days after the Prophet Joseph Smith was killed by a mob. His wife was expecting her last child when Nathaniel died and the baby girl died also. So, she buried her last baby girl ,along with her husband and the girl who died earlier, in the old Nauvoo Cemetery and took her two remaining boys to Utah with her. Martin Washburn Thomas was one of those two boys.
Lorne FersterAugust 27, 2023
The Gospel according to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints lets us know what is expected for us to be able achieve Celestial Glory as the Lord would want us to. I remember thinking to myself one day many moons ago: " The Gospel does not tell me how to do it." Then it occurred to me:" How blessed I am to have been involved with the "Addiction Recovery Program" for it provides step by step instructions and information to achieve the Humility required to please the Lord to a greater degree and of course this is a life long Program, not just for a specific problem or weakness for we all have many. Unfortunately "natural man" has many weaknesses and usually is reluctant to face them honestly so the Program is not as fully utilized as it could be. I would like to suggest that as many individuals that would attend the Recovery Program and gain the understanding it provides, the Saints would have a deeper understanding of the Gospel and it's Principles which would unify them to a greater degree because of a bigger understanding. At least, this makes sense to me. But it takes courage for people to face the truth about themselves and their weaknesses, hence not many take up the Program. The word Addiction also scares a lot of people. Also, it is important to realise that people are at various levels of understanding at any given time and we need to be prepared to love and forgive each other unitedly. Thanks for the opportunity to comment.
Corey D.August 26, 2023
That whole scenario probably describes more marriages than you think. My personal belief is that commitment is more important than love. But having said that, this situation and the words she uses sounds like an affair waiting to happen.
Teri N.August 26, 2023
I see this page hasn't been updated. The last CFM lesson is #24, but we are now beginning #33 (Aug 24). Are you going to update this page any longer? I love following along so that I can snag quotes from the podcast. I miss that.
Sue AndrewsAugust 26, 2023
I feel so sorry for her husband. His feelings should matter as much as hers. I wonder if he even realizes that she doesn’t love him?
Alex BarclayAugust 26, 2023
A comprehensive review of this incident.
It did indeed "confirm and even inflame the murderous determination of the enemies of Jesus."
Not content with merely determining to kill Jesus, they even decided to kill Lazarus as well in order to do away with the undeniable evidence of this, arguably the mightiest of Jesus' miracles. Such sheer wickedness is breathtaking.
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 26, 2023
Outstanding! Thank you for sharing the incredible lessons you learned. Well done.
Robert BaileyAugust 25, 2023
What a beautiful story and testimony! Your hard experiences are a witness that Heavenly Father iknows the end from the beginning and all things work together for those who love the Lord. Thank you so much for sharing your odyssey.
Bob KernsAugust 24, 2023
I love the painting of the Savior in the Celestial Room. Almost as if He's saying "Welcome Home".
JeanAugust 23, 2023
Beautifully written article. Just yesterday I was visiting with my neighbors and their adult daughter. The daughter asked me what I thought of the upcoming political debate that evening and I tried to be as non committal as possible. I so want to be informed on the things I need to know but without the contention that goes with so many issues. Thank you for publishing Meridian Magazine and helping me stay informed. By the way, my neighbors are top notch people.
Dean FisherAugust 23, 2023
In 1972 or 73 a then-junior apostle Thomas S. Monson visited our mission in central Germany. Afterward, he was to visit Turkey to speak with officials about official recognition for the church - a daunting assignment in that muslim country. He told us he was "concerned, but not worried."
Paul HAugust 23, 2023
I am going to suggest the Lord has given us the answer to being unified and unfortunately His answer is often diluted by taking it out of context by only reading one verse. In Doctrine & Covenants, Section 38, we often hear that if we are not "one" we are not the Lo0rd's. We interpret that as needing to be the same, thinking the same, having the same culture, politics, education, spiritual understanding, etc. The real lesson is given starting in verse 24, then it is re-stated by the Lord again! He explains that He has given us a parable (contained in the next few verses) so we may undferstand the principle he is teaching. It is not very similar to what social scientists and those who are popular say about the subject. It's very easy and to the point and if we read and incorporate the parable into our lives, divisiness will evaporate. Thanks for this article. It caused me to reflect on Section 38, which when taken in context, I find to be very instrumental in addressing the topic.
Jacob CrapoAugust 23, 2023
D H: Exactly right. Building temples brings an incredible opportunity for the construction workers in an area. I remember on worker on the Dallas temple (if I remember that right) who was a Baptist and said that the temple was his Masterpiece, the project he is most proud of.
I think one thing that we can’t forget is the potential to change lives. A man I taught on my mission once said “The Freemasons make good men great but the Mormons make good men Saints.” That happens lately in the temple, and those Saints make promises to live better lives and build a better world.
Heber FrankAugust 23, 2023
Excellent,. However, to be more accurate about the last point made, consider this:
: “...to whom I have committed the keys of the ***RECORD*** of the stick of Ephraim;” --D&C 27:5
The Book of Mormon is NOT the Stick of Ephraim according to this verse. It is the RECORD of the stick of Ephraim.
So the stick is Ephraim and those tribes that went with Ephraim at the time of the division. Likewise, the stick of Judah is the tribes of Judah and Benjamin and many of Levi,. And the Bible is the RECORD of the stick of Judah.
The prophecy in Ezekiel 37:15-22 is talking about the unification of the tribes again. But when the tribes are united the sacred RECORDS they kept will also be united. So the unification of the Book of Mormon and the Bible is implicated in this prophecy just as Mormons have been saying.
ChrisAugust 23, 2023
Awesome article! We were told the same thing in a presentation at church on suicide and suicide prevention. And yet, all the group discussion was about our youth. Most people don't know these statistics or don't believe them.
Men are under attack in our country, and are portrayed in media as idiots or as unfeeling oppressors.
I believe a small part of the answer is the availability of small men's groups who meet on a regular basis in which they can discuss both spiritual/gospel topics and just share what's going on in their lives. We have a group like that meeting once a month in our LDS ward..."Battle For Your Heart Men's Discussion Group.
Also, weekend retreats such as Warrior Heart Boot Camp, and others are amazing opportunities for men to bond, to learn, and to get very real about their lives and their stories. Promisekeepers is also a great Christian resource for men...
It's great that there are so many programs, etc., which support women (and there should be) such as "Time Out For Women" or BYU Women's Conference in the LDS community, and others elsewhere, but so very little for men.
Once again, thank you for a very needed article.
Karen L.August 23, 2023
AMEN. Thank you so much for this article. I have been saying it for years, there is an on-going war on men to devalue them in society. We women, mothers, wives, sisters, etc better start speaking out and standing up for the men of this generation. I have five boys and I fear for them and their futures. This world is out to destroy them and enough is enough. We must have courage and make right for all of God's children, not just the ones that suit our political narrative.
CarnenAugust 22, 2023
I feel that most of the comments miss the point. Barbie is a child's world. Seeing yourself as beautiful with pretty clothes, dates to all parties, with a beautiful place to live, surrounded by other little girls.
The ending is little girls choosing the real world, with all that includes, the good and bad. Mature body, sexuality, real challenges. While the opening was disturbing if you did not realize it was partially black humor, it reflected a real choice most girls want, to focus for a time on her own wants and needs, not the future role responsibilities of adulthood. We never criticize young men for playing soldier or astronaut. Why do we limit young girls in their trying on their dreams by playwriting them? Why would we insist little girls must playback motherhood but not insist little boys playback the responsibilities of fatherhood?
Shantil M RandolphAugust 22, 2023
It sounds like you had a very special mother as I was blessed to have. I, too, lost my mother. She passed in 2020 from an aggressive cancer.
Her influence has been real and palpable in her touch at one time, her words to me when my dad remarried, and in a dream that helped me tremendously. Angels are all around if we are worthy to feel them near.
Tamra DodgeAugust 22, 2023
The opening scene was disturbing. Little girls portraying mothers, are suddenly dissatisfied after seeing ‘the perfect woman’ … then smash and destroy their baby dolls. That was dark, and uncalled for.
The opening scene in BarbieLand was every little girls imagination come to life. Remember, these are dolls.
After we left the theater, I asked my husband how he would have changed the storyline. How do you write a storyline for toys, that holds interest, involves characters, has a goal to accomplish, while staying true to the subject?
The problem was that Mattel didn’t integrate their toys to portray a family. They were sold separately. It was up to each child to turn them into families… We played dating; friends; weddings and babies arriving. That, was what we knew to be real in life.
This storyline was confusing, and disturbing. I didn’t like that the Kens were not important to the Barbies, or that the Barbies were so in love with being perfect.
The ‘Ugly Barbie’ seemed to be the problem solver, perhaps because she’s been through a ‘non-perfect experience’ at the hands of her Child owner. In the Toy Story series, some toys are abused and forgotten.
The human element in the Barbie movie were sad, bumbling depictions of people. Over-the-top in portraying real life. That was obviously a fantasy within the fantasy.
The expectation from the public was high! People dressed up as Barbies to attend. What a let-down.
Overall, I wouldn’t take a child to see this movie. It could have been so much better. More like how we actually played with these toys, and had a happy ending, that didn’t conclude with a gynecologist.
DeidreAugust 21, 2023
I think you are seriously lacking a sense of humor. I loved this movie.
Unfortunately, the empowered Ken's reminded me of every bad date I ever had in an LDS Singles Ward. Kens, wanting women content to spend hours just sitting there admiring them. Ever been invited to go on a date that turns out to be a man playing video games for hours while he wants you to watch him? Or a man inviting you to sit around the ward building alone for three hours so you can be in the audience while he gives a talk? And he dumped you three months ago without a word after dating for seven months. But Mr. Narcissist still wants you to fulfill your assigned role of admirer and audience member. The Kens, once they see themselves as being in charge.
The director nailed it. I highly recommend this movie.
Linda HawkeAugust 21, 2023
I agree this is not a movie for young children. I took my 16 year old granddaughter to see it, though, and she understood just fine. The story I got from it was that neither the "girls' night every night" Barbie nor "mojo dojo casa house" Ken was good, but that they would learn to integrate - share - compromise, whatever. I found it to be an amusing timeline caricature of attitudes, a funny and enjoyable movie for teens and adults. Sure we can and should discuss the ideas and portrayals, but we don't need to turn every movie into a deep dark depressing psychological drama with hidden motives. Ah, maybe I'm just tired.
RLRAugust 21, 2023
This is all true about the Atonement as far as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints teaches. However, on the Church's own website, under "murder", one of the scriptures is: He that kills shall not have forgiveness, D&C 42:18. So as the above comment asks, how does that fit? I was always taught in seminary and in the temple that the two sins that could not be reconciled/forgiven were: denial of the Holy Ghost, and murder. Please explain, as I would like to understand.
JuliannAugust 21, 2023
Parenting, the only real way to know God. Thank you to all the commentators for your honesty. Thank you to the author who voiced our regrets, our repentance and our restitution. Thank you Jesus for saving us from ourselves. Thank you for the healing you have brought to my kids. And thank you for making me a much better grandparent .
HelenCAugust 21, 2023
In other words, we need to trust ourselves and our God more.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenAugust 21, 2023
Thank yuou for your very insightful article about the Barbie movie, and examples of what happens in the movie. I live on an island in British Columbia, Canada, our 99 person Movie Theatre owner just posted that the tickets are sold out an hour before show time. He also posted, thank goodness, that they are in the proccess of getting the digital verison of Sound of Freedom, that is a movie I've seen, and will tell all my friends about it.
Susan RoylanceAugust 21, 2023
Thank you Nicholeen for alerting parents to the problems of this movie, and the negative impact it can have on the girls of today. Negative presentations of girls as mothers is very dangerous, and is contributing to the seriously reduced attitude toward motherhood. We need more women like you to stand up and speak out about the value of marriage a d motherhood.
Adela MusgraveAugust 21, 2023
I am happy to have read this article. I completely agree with the author. My 28 year old grand daughter saw the movie, and thought the movie had a great message for women, that the modern woman is expected to work full time, have children, run a home, etc, instead of being her own self and pursuing her dreams and not being enslaved by marriage and motherhood.
MaryannAugust 21, 2023
Wow! I didn't see the Barbie movie, so I had no idea about the contents. My children are grown, so I certainly was not taking them to this movie. Thank you for shedding a light on the false and dangerous concepts portrayed in this film. I certainly hope moms with young children will heed your warnings.
Judy PetersonAugust 21, 2023
This definitely is not how I saw the Barbie movie,, but then I didn’t think it was for kids. To me it was a very strong message of one of the unfortunate impact of the Barbie doll and what it has done to our culture. It painted a very negative view of feminism, and the fact that the feminism that has been so influential in our culture, has been destructive in many ways to both men and women. I got the message that fundamentally the family is the source of true happiness, and everything else that had gone on in the movie was a sham and a poor imitation. Maybe we see what we want to see? One thing, I will definitely agree with — this is not a movie for children! And with that agreement, it is apparently a movie for discussion in our families, if any of us choose to see it. I’m glad I did. Greta Gehrwig is not a shallow movie maker. Maybe we mothers could be better informed.
Ben JonesAugust 21, 2023
CS Lewis once said that arguing about whether faith or works is more important is like arguing about which half of a pair of scissors does the cutting.
Mark W MinerAugust 20, 2023
So powerful! More poetry than prose, a soul-song that captures so well my own inadequacies, which are more than matched by our Savior's redeeming grace and love. Truly with Him, all is well!
Sally SmithAugust 20, 2023
After I felt that regret for so long and I repented and apologized, I finally said I have done all I can do it is now up to them.
CarolynnAugust 20, 2023
Oh my goodness! This was raw and moving and vulnerable and poetic. Absolutely beautiful. Thank you!
Ellie GoodareAugust 20, 2023
I just read this to my family, and I could barely read the words for the power of them. Kimberley, thank you for bringing such sacred feelings to the surface. What a gift you have.
Jane NelsonAugust 20, 2023
I keep coming back to this poem that reaches the deepest places in my heart and offers healing. Thank you so much for articulating what so many of us are feeling and for sharing it with us. What a beautiful talent you have.
Pam BlairAugust 19, 2023
This was about ME. That is until I got to the last verse about the Savior and forgiveness for my long-held shame at the myriad mistakes that caused damage to my children. - damage that has lingered into their adult lives. Until now - over 70 years later - am I able to realize that the atonement covers EVEN THIS!
Rosalie Erekson StoneAugust 19, 2023
When my husband and I saw the magnificent carved woodwork in the temple in Cochabamba, Bolivia, my first thoughts were similar to those you described when you wrote, "the temples of the Church may well be the most beautiful buildings [the local members] are ever permitted to enter—and, yes, a harbinger of the blessings awaiting the faithful in the world to come."
PaulineAugust 19, 2023
Amazing grace! How can God patiently work with all of us? It’s incomprehensible. Only He knows the personal investment He has
in each of us. We only need to listen to the Spirit fir we are saved by grace after all we can do. So well spoken sister!!!!!
Kerry HarperAugust 19, 2023
Great story, but the dog in the picture has a long tail. He sure is scroungy looking though.
JulieAugust 19, 2023
I can’t remember if it was Alma the Younger or Paul that made me realize this—the joy of the atonement is not just that we can be forgiven ourselves, but that all the damage we did and the hurt we caused can be healed through that same power, by that same person. What relief!
KayeAugust 18, 2023
SO BEAUTIFUL!!! WOW!!! The despair, the regret, the poignant sadness of our failures all covered by the hope, the redemption, and the love of our Savior. As a Mother, I really LOVED this hymn!! Thank you for sharing!❤️
GJJAugust 18, 2023
Tears are flowing as I read this. How many times I have beat myself up for not being the Mother I wanted to be? I am now almost 87 years old and finally allowing myself to be Forgiven and accepting the Mercy he offers.
Thank you for this beautiful offering
SharonAugust 18, 2023
My tears are making it so hard to read! Yes! All of this! Yes! Thank you so much for helping me to see “ the Hand reaching out.” Thank you!
Gloria JohnsonAugust 18, 2023
Oh my did you ever hit the nail on the head. Thank you for this penetrating and poignant piece. Tears of regret, tears of joy, tears of gratitude. You said it all.
CathyAugust 18, 2023
Thank you
Bill WrigleyAugust 18, 2023
Brilliant. We need more from this woman!
HelenCAugust 18, 2023
Perfect! Thank you.
MaryannAugust 18, 2023
I agree that a desire to serve with love and commitment to our Savior is the highest form of "works." However, this article is a little bit too "all or nothing." Sometimes people approach an opportunity to serve with what might be called a bad attitude. BUT, after they become involved their hearts are softened and they begin to feel that love. We have often heard the phrase: "If you want to learn to love someone, serve them." This is a great example of the love coming AFTER service rendered. Regarding the example in this article of the woman who complained about serving at a wedding: Instead of assuming that her faith is dead, why didn't someone put their arm around her and say something like this--"It sounds like you are feeling stressed out and overburdened. I am so sorry. Is there something I can do to help?" It should also be remembered that just showing up can be a step in the right direction. We need to be very cautious about judging the quality of someone else's faith. I am grateful that the Lord's plan allows for us to develop faith in different ways. It doesn't really matter whether the faith, or love, or the works come first. What matters is that we continue to grow in love for Him and for His children.
CarolineAugust 18, 2023
My husband retired five years ago and is not really interested in doing anything but yard work. But I like to be out of the house and doing something. I started taking pottery, which I love! I joined a book club. I also started volunteering for a local food pantry, and after a few months, he started going with me too. I'd advise you to find what you love to do or have always wanted to do, and just do it! (I also told him I'd buy him stuff he could make for lunch, but I wasn't going to be cooking or serving another meal post-retirement!)
Kerry FarrAugust 18, 2023
My feelings put into words. Beautiful, true, poetic words.
Thank you❤️
BarbaraAugust 18, 2023
Thank you. Thank you. How often we forget the greatness of that atonement for all of our inadequacies. So beautifully expressed.
Steve DoneganAugust 18, 2023
What a powerful message. I sit here in tears knowing I am no longer alone in the hurt I caused my children. You’ve moved my heart. I thank you…
Anna FeatherstoneAugust 18, 2023
Thank you, you have touched my truth. I have tears....
Judy PetersonAugust 17, 2023
I once asked my mother why she never bore her testimony. I knew she had one--a very strong one, which she lived. Her reply? "Because I know I'll cry, and I don't want anyone to see me cry." She also stoically endured life's inevitable pain because she didn't want to expose her emotions. What a shame! I admit I kind of shudder when speakers apologize for crying--or almost crying! It seems to be a deep imprint in our culture. Hurrah for this article! Thank you!
David InnesAugust 17, 2023
My wife was a very kind person. Her favorite expression was quote attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson which said, “ You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.
MaryannAugust 17, 2023
If you can afford it, make arrangements to stay somewhere else nearby. OR--it really is ok just to shorten your trip. Obviously you want to be there for the wedding, but you don't have to stay for the entire trip.
Rochelle HaleAugust 16, 2023
Often, in the examples you have given, we don’t exercise our faith beforehand. I take my turn to clean the church, hoping I wipe away all of the call dust or clean the fingerprints off the windows. I don’t think I ever hoped for faith to fulfill that assignment, but I usually pause while I’m in the building and hope the Lord is pleased with my efforts. I don’t recall exercising faith to prepare a meal for someone, only that I have ingredients on hand and can help with whatever is needed. Many decades ago as a young woman I was taught to make certain decisions ahead of time. That is the nature of faith as well. As we constantly build our reserves, then we can “work” in some situations without having to again ponder our abilities or intentions. We just go and do.
KeithAugust 16, 2023
Not so fast....please read
https://rsc.byu.edu/joseph-smith-prophet-man/joseph-smith-translator
KeithAugust 16, 2023
I really like Skousen's work on the JSP, but when it comes to how he depicts the translation process, I am skeptical. It dismisses Joseph and Olivers own testimony about with the Urim and Thummim and raises the teleprompter in the hat to the forefront. I believe Josrph and Oliver
KathleenAugust 16, 2023
The audio does not come in this week. We have the transcript but hitting the arrow with a green line through it to start the podcast, does nothing. There is a message that says the audio is playing, but it's not.
Merlyn de la MelenaAugust 16, 2023
Excellent article and so easy to apply to our every day lives!!!
PatAugust 16, 2023
What delightful insights to a 'true story'. I have seldom noticed stories about faith and works and this is one I will surely share with others. Understanding comes with faith so maybe this one will be effective. Hmmm! Thank you very much.
craigAugust 16, 2023
Couldn't agree more. A lot of people don't realize that faith without works is dead , and works without faith is dead as well
Arlene WelkerAugust 16, 2023
Super sweet, feel good story.
Thank you for sharing it.
That dog saved her life! That's no little thing.
KalEl Anakin SkywalkerAugust 16, 2023
Thank you for that True Grace Empowered article. Faith anciently meant - allegiance, commitment, confidence, dedication, devotion, discipleship, faithfulness, fidelity, follower, loyalty. obedience, trust and in the scriptural context it was meant to be to the person and work of Christ Jesus on our behalf. True if one is doing all these works not for Christ Jesus they are empty, null, void. Even in one of the protestant father of the reformation, Martin Luther's writing's he basically said the same as you did. Thank you again. The Atonement, It Is The Central Doctrine, In His Eternal Debt/Grace, Accessing His Grace By Faith, Washing My Garment In His Blood, He Died To Make Man Holy, Its Not Just 6 Words To A Song, They Have Eternal Meaning, Salvation Comes In And Through His Atoning, Blood An In No Other Way.
Kal El Anakin SkywalkerAugust 16, 2023
Thank you for that True Grace Empowered Article. Faith in Greek is pistis which meant Anciently - Allegiance, Commitment, Confidence, Dedication, Devotion, Discipleship, Faithfulness, Fidelity, Follower, Loyalty, Obedience. Trust and in the scriptural context it is to the person and work of Christ Jesus on our behalf. Anciently Faith was a covenant word of action like in a marriage. So, you are 100% correct that if you are not doing these works of Faith for Christ Jesus, they are empty, null, void in his eyes. I have even read that even the Father of the protestant Reformation Martin Luther in one of his writings stated that same as you did. Thank you once again. The Atonement, It Is The Central Doctrine, In His Eternal Debt/Grace, Accessing His Grace By Faith, Washing My Garment In His Blood, He Died To Make Man Holy, Its Not Just 6 Words To A Song They Have Eternal Meaning, Salvation Comes In And Through His Atoning Blood And In No Other Way. Amen, Amen, Amen.
BettyAugust 16, 2023
I hope it does continue. I have been disappointed when I can’t find the rest of the story in future days…love hearing about Bob.
MichaelAugust 15, 2023
What are ways that FamilySearch / Family Tree accounts can be accessed or transferred when a family member passes on? Is there a chance that a lifetime of valuable research could unintentionally find its way to computer outer darkness?
Virginia RockwellAugust 15, 2023
What a beautiful article. Thank you.
Marsha NewmanAugust 15, 2023
Thanks for sharing this essay on “Grace”! I have many friends of other faiths who have a narrow understanding of the meaning of the word.
In actuality, our church with emphasis on salvation for the dead is perhaps most “gracious “ of all. We understand that the Atonement is for every soul who has ever lived on this earth- a gift of supreme Grace by a supreme Creator!
KatrinaAugust 14, 2023
As always, you delivered another exceptional article. I love your articles. Thanks for your wisdom, honesty, and inspiring stories.
ShaunaAugust 14, 2023
Thank you so much. I thoroughly enjoyed your thoughts and focus. And I appreciate the admonition to reflect more intently and personally, about the role of a temples in our lives, if we are getting a new one. I am in that situation. I have attended the workhorse temple, Jordan River, for years now. And have come to love it. But when the Taylorsville temple is dedicated it will be my new temple. I think we'll focus on your message for FHE tonight to motivate us and get us in the right mind set of gratitude for a new temple
Claudia Henderson SmithAugust 14, 2023
Great article, Mariah. I feel the same way about our new Richmond temple where my husband and I work every Wednesday evening. I loved this - Temples are indeed the intersections where heaven and earth meet and where the Lord can dwell with us.
Richard EyreAugust 13, 2023
I love Maurine for this great article and for the dialogue it is starting right here. These are marvelous comments and I hope they keep on coming!
The book suggests that just reading its essays will not be much of a solution. But discussing the essays with others, and examining ourselves and opening up to friends and associates will begin to move us toward the kind of unity that we want (and that the Lord wants.)
If you liked Maurine's article here in Meridian as much as I did, just wait until you read her longer essay in the book! And then wait until you read the other 13 essays! The amazing (guided) thing is that each essayist brought such a unique and different slant on this subject of unity and diversity, and helped me to realize that no one writer has enough perspective to write a book on unity--but perhaps fourteen writers do!
Lynette MillsAugust 13, 2023
This will be an ever more important topic as we get closer to the second coming I think. I look forward to reading and learning more about how to become more focused on Unity.
Corey D.August 13, 2023
I have a son who came home early from his mission, he no longer goes to church, in fact most I know at least in my ward and stake who came home early are not active in the church, it would be interesting and helpful to know more about the young man you mention in your story and more in depth of his story to remain faithful.
Corey D.August 13, 2023
I had a co-worker some years ago had serious OCD, at that time those things were just starting to get recognized. His wife eventually left him and took the kids and ultimately it cost him his job. I wondered how he kept his home and someone told me they thought his family was paying his mortgage because they didn't want him back. He got in trouble with the law I heard, shoplifting or something like that which is fairly common with people like that. Here's the thing, he didn't think he had a problem. I have a younger brother, he just turned 60, he's been in and out of jail/prison most of his adult life, substance abuse has been a big part of that but he also has ADHD/ADD but refuses to admit he has a problem, will not take medication and will not go to any substance abuse programs. You can't help people who don't want to be helped or won't recognize there is a problem.
BaldyAugust 12, 2023
2 Nephi 30:10 the time speedily cometh that the Lord will cause a great division among the people…one cannot compromise with or play nice with or give a nod and a wink to evil. It must simply be defeated.
Carol ButlerAugust 12, 2023
Rita, a partial answer to your question for me is that loving our enemies does not include submitting to their harmful actions. We can love and pray for our enemies without agreeing with them or even being near them. The key for me is staying close to the Spirit, or striving to do so. The Spirit can guide us in our individual circumstances and efforts to both love our enemies and protect ourselves and our family.
Rita winmillAugust 12, 2023
My question is this, why was Nephi commanded to leave his evil brothers, if loving our enemies is a law?
aussiebobAugust 11, 2023
what you have said here is so true.People including my own children do not really want the Church to be true for if it is then they have a need to change their habits and that is something they do not want to do. it is is not easy being a member but it is truly worth it.Keep loving them.
Kent BrooksbyAugust 11, 2023
Whenever I think of the Celestial Kingdom, I am reminded of C. S. Lewis' book The Great Divorce, in which he clearly describes those elements that will keep us out of God's presence. They are, simply, those things that divide us on earth; the little differences and irritations that we are not willing to part with, even for a life of greater joy. I look forward to reading the book.
Jen BiberstonAugust 11, 2023
This seems to fit right into what Dr. Miller was saying on the "Follow Him" podcast, that to love God, love your neighbor, and love your enemies is THE LAW. Love is the law, not the reward for our actions or achievements. We are not commanded to become lovable or worthy of love; we are already loved by God and are commanded to do the same with others. Through the lens of unity, if we stopped running around trying to be understood or agreeable (depending on our emotional wants) and focused on loving others regardless of their views, how much more unity would we have?
HelenCAugust 11, 2023
“. . neither were there Lamanites, nor any manner of -ites; but they were in one, the children of Christ, and heirs to the kingdom of God.“
4 Nephi 1:17
I have often wondered how I might better remove the “ites” and “isms” from my life. It started when I chose to be a “female” rather than a “feminist” But it had to go broader and deeper than that. I have a long way to go and an well aware it took the physical arrival of the Savior for the ancients to get there.
Becca HowardAugust 11, 2023
What a timely article. Did you discuss technology? As much as we value our technical devices, using them can still cause problems. A relative texted me last night to try to clear up an earlier miscommunication, and texting, in my opinion, made the situation even worse. A phone call or in-person visit might have spared the miscommunication and more easily resolved the issue. I was on my way to the temple, and this bothered me for a good portion of the session until I could finally focus, pray to be calm, and pray to find answers in what was being taught.
KathleenAugust 11, 2023
How vast and varied have been your experiences. Thank you for sharing and turning them into modern day parables.
MaryannAugust 10, 2023
Thanks so much for continuing to post Darla's articles. I am sure she is continuing to teach and enlighten others in the Spirit World. I am especially thankful for her topic regarding change. Change has always been especially difficult for me, and I found some real gems in this article to help me more fully embrace whatever comes, and to learn to live with joy in changing circumstances.
erikpeterhansenAugust 10, 2023
Good article! We can think of other churches as partly true and a preparation to be saved or the first steps for some to be brought to the full truth. No matter what one's faith is, that person who follows the Light of Christ can be brought to maturity and receive the fullness of the Gospel in the Spirit World. Even Latter-Day Saints will need to be more mature and receive a full knowledge there. Joseph Smith said that a man cannot be saved faster than he receives knowledge. If there was no continued missionary work in the Spirit World we would have a very small family of people sealed to each other at the end of the Plan of Salvation. There would be limited joy not fullness of joy. And in the end the One True Church of Christ will be full of joy.
Paul SmithAugust 10, 2023
Consider three workers all engaged in roughly similar tasks. One might say, “I lay bricks.” Another doing the same job might say, “I am constructing a building.” And the third, likewise engaged in the same basic work, might say, “I am building a house of God.” The first describes a job; the second describes a career; the third describes a calling. All three work with bricks and mortar, but the third works with vision and even heavenly purpose as well.
-Identify the larger, longer purpose of behaviors and choices. -Keep the big picture in mind for vision and motivation. -Do more than simply go through the motions. -Don’t give up too soon. Go the whole distance.
I’ve been dearly needing to reconnect with my eye for eternity. I need the bigger picture, because the small picture is just too hard.
If your husband would like to talk, feel free to reach out to me by email and we can connect. I give Scott & Maurine Proctor permission to share my email address with you. And if you’re in Utah, I have a group that I call the Guild of Striving Brothers, where we offer support to one another through these kinds of challenges.
Kandi GuffeyAugust 10, 2023
Wonderful insights and wonderful analogies to problems that everyone faces in life! Thank you, for sharing your wisdom, Sister Clayton.
LAWRENCE HIGGINSONAugust 10, 2023
Thank you Sister Clayton for your inspired thoughts.
Mary TarbetAugust 10, 2023
Thank you for standing for truth. We pray for you and your success continually!
ChrisAugust 9, 2023
As a life-long member of the church who struggled with the disease of addiction to pornography and unwanted sexual behaviors for some 50 years, and who is now serving with my wife as ARP missionaries leading a weekly couples group, I love your willingness to support and to love your husband, even in the midst of his struggles in continuing recovery.
It is so important to understand that sobriety is not recovery. It's certainly an important part, but even though there are slips and maybe relapses (not the same thing) recovery can and will continue...if he chooses it.
My wife and I share our story often both publicly and privately because there is great power in our stories...every person's story...and sharing them is what gives a 12 step meeting it's power and spirit. It's time to let go of the shame, the guilt, and the embarrassment and to get very open and very real about this addiction, which statistically is a problem for 70% of the men in all Christian churches, including ours.
Maybe being in the temple, even when he may not feel worthy, is exactly what your husband needs! Repentance and change are necessary for each of us, and most recovering addicts understand that more than most people...in a very real way.
Boanerges RubalcavaAugust 9, 2023
The more people does not mean more problems, but more hands to produce. Production is the distinctive characteristic of the free market. The free Market in association with a kind of government like the one designed in the USA Constitution, and the use of FOSSIL FUELS, will bring enough food to feed not only the 8 billion people now, but many more billion in the future. Of course if we go against these three conditions, we will have more problems. We must try to bring down the pollution due to the combustion of fuels, but NEVER to ban them, since for sure CO2, no matter what those who want to starve the world and reduce its population IS NOT causing the awful problems attributed to the use of fossil fuels. The opposite is true, we need constantly CO2 to feed the world, but without the fossil fuels, millions will die due to hunger, and the few surviving will be very clean.
John R CarpenterAugust 9, 2023
Excellent article.
Satan since the Grand Council in Heaven wanted to save everyone collectively so that none would be lost. When we choose the plan having Jesus as out Christ, Satan rebelled and we lost a third of the host of heaven.
Anyone that says we need a collective salvation before any personal salvation denies the plan of God and that Jesus is the Christ and savior of Mankind. Those that deny this are Anti-Christs by following the collective salvation wanted by Satan.
Imagine an earth run like the Star Trek Borg collective. "Resistance is futile." You will be collectively saved because we will force you. That would give you an idea want Satan wants for mankind.
We do know from the scriptures this authoritarian collective approach is evil and we need to chose God over Evil.
We really need to teach our youth about the alarmist myths, propaganda and the evil in the world.
JenniferAugust 8, 2023
Reply to @Author, thank you so much for your clarification and thoughtful response. That’s helpful to me in understanding the article better, to know you wrote under a pseudonym, and have your husband’s approval to share. I’m so grateful strong, faithful women such as yourself are sharing your stories and your journey in dealing with porn addiction in your family. These are things that were never talked about when I was a younger woman, so I’m very grateful things have changed. I have a few dear friends and family members who will benefit greatly from the wisdom you share, so I’ll be sharing your article with them. Much love and blessings to you and your family.
AuthorAugust 8, 2023
Reply to @Jennifer. I definitely agree that is should be kept private--or at least that the terms of disclosure should be his, not mine. This article is published under a pseudonym for just that reason. Sometimes these things need to be kept private though, and sometimes people need to be able to hear that someone else is experiencing this process too and they are not alone. If you keep too many things private for too long, you start to wither in isolation, not realizing that the person next to you in Church is struggling in exactly the same way. I discussed it with him and we felt comfortable sharing now as we had the two other times I've written here.
Not givenAugust 8, 2023
Thank you so very much for the article. I went to talk to my bishop about somethings and didn't feel worthy to go to the temple. During the course of our discussion the bishop has received inspiration from the Lord that I needed to be in the temple. So I have committed to go to the temple at least once a week. Sometimes I make it and sometimes I don't.
I go without my wife because she doesn't have a recommend and won't or refuses to get one. So I really appreciate your thoughtful article. It's not always a male that can't or won't go to the temple.
DanAugust 8, 2023
There is another side to this. My wife was an alcoholic and I had to go to the temple alone. She would put a card in my temple bag promising to be worthy to go "next time". She died inebriated. I still have those cards in my bag, and when I go, I hope she is there, now that she is sober.
WithheldAugust 8, 2023
Thank you for this article of wonderful and insightful perspectives. I continue to feel those same feelings of occasional loneliness when I attend the temple alone. I waited 28 years to receive temple covenants and blessings because the idea of going alone was overwhelming for me. As I listened to, and followed powerful spiritual promptings to receive the blessings of the temple, I was reassured by the Spirit that feelings of loneliness would be tempered and I would instead, feel peace. This certainly has come to.pass. I am continually humbled by the love and peace I find in the temple. I too, feel that everything will one day work out for the good of my husband and I and our children. Heavenly Father wants us all to come home to Him, and I have a strong testimony of eternal progression for ALL.
I also so appreciate the comments made to this article. You too, are wise and loving sisters in the Gospel. Thank you.
JenniferAugust 8, 2023
Thank you for sharing this important and beautiful message about temple attendance. As a single sister until I was in my 40’s, going to the temple alone was my norm. I’m now happily married to a wonderful man who is a member of another faith, so I still attend the temple alone. I also have the privilege of serving as a weekly temple worker, and there are many on my shift who attend the temple alone. . There are many in the church who are in your situation, and your example will help others, so thank you dear sister. Speaking with love as one older sister to a younger sister, I would ask you to consider not publicly sharing your husband’s reasons for not currently attending the temple, and not publicly sharing about his current struggles with a particular sin. I say this because I know for myself, it would be humiliating and debilitating to have my spouse publicly share my sins and my struggles. Repentance is a sacred, personal process and best managed within your marriage and with your Bishop. It’s for me to decide when and to whom I’ll confess my sins—not my spouse. I believe it would make it so much harder for me to feel the courage and strength to repent if he posted my personal struggles on the internet or shared them with our friends. I’m not advocating an unhealthy secrecy which can sometimes allow sin to continue, but I feel strongly we must always be wary of publicly sharing the sins of our loved ones. It is no one’s business as to why your husband isn’t attending the temple at this time, except the two of you and your Bishop. Bless you for attending anyway. Your family will be blessed through your continued attendance.
AnonymousAugust 8, 2023
This is such an important message for so many. I was also in a marriage where pornography was impacting temple attendance.... unknowingly. Number one, it is a great blessing that your husband is being honest and transparent - and his behavior indicates he truly is working recovery. That is beautiful to me, honestly!
Number two: when I finally did learn enough to realize what was going on and how often I had likely missed going because I was waiting to go with my husband, I was very sad - because I love the temple. I made a firm resolve then that I would never again wait for anyone else to go to the temple. I would go as often as I wanted to, alone when that is how it worked out. That was one of the best decisions I ever made for myself and my children! And the truth is, I actually enjoy going "alone" as much as I do going with others, because I never actually feel alone and have had beautiful spiritual experiences, such as the one you describe in the article. And I can stay in the celestial room for as long as I want. I really do feel that I come away armed with literal power and greater light and peace for my life.
I am a second witness of what was shared here - only I have 15 years of testimony as to how this will bless your life!!
HelenCAugust 8, 2023
Since my second husband left the Church before we married, 29 years ago, going to the Temple alone has been my only option. There have been times when he has expressed concern over the cost of the three-hour drive but generally he doesn’t mind. When I said I needed to go a week ago to the Medford, Oregon Temple because Portland was closed, he said it was better than having to sell our house to go as those who lived in South Africa, where he served his mission, had to.
We don’t do it for them but they notice.
Anonymous Brother in CaliforniaAugust 8, 2023
It’s not just Sisters that have this experience. I waited several years before I went to the temple by myself. I had always taken my children for temple, baptisms, etc. But I had felt like I wanted to wait to do an endowment session until my then wife was ready to go.
It was several years. When she left me, I started going. The things I learned were many, varied, and just what I needed.
What strength of the temple gives to us!
SusanAugust 8, 2023
There are so many sisters, who feel reluctant to do Temple work by themselves. as you so beautifully pointed out, they and their families are missing much-needed blessings. I have a 54-year-old marriage and I’ve been attending the temple alone quite regularly for 53 of those years. My spouse will not say why he will not go to the temple, and I cannot see anything in his life holding him back. Just the last couple of years we have been reading the Scriptures together, which has brought a much needed closeness.
There are many years when resentment, pity and disappointment blocked my spiritual insight, but I kept going. More recently my heart is filled with hope, and I have a much more eternal outlook on this man I married forever. There is no animosity, and spiritual growth and insight continues. I still feel a great longing to be one of those handholding, smiling couples who enter and perform ordinances together in the temple. I feel quite certain that someday my dream will be realized of being present there with my husband. But I also feel peace that perhaps if that day does not come somehow it will all be OK. The Lord knows my efforts and our family has been greatly blessed, I hope in some part through my devotion to keeping and practicing my temple covenants.
WithheldAugust 8, 2023
So beautifully written, lovely thoughts and inspiring article. I served as a Sister’s-only Support Group Leader in the ARP program for years, with the most tender, extraordinary women I will ever meet. They also are active sister, smiling, ready to serve, yet hiding broken, lonely hearts whose husbands also struggle. They’re walking wounded through life — and need to read this powerful article! I can’t wait to forward this article on to them.
MaryannAugust 8, 2023
I am so glad you have found such joy in returning to the temple. It will not only be a blessing for you, but for your husband, even when he doesn't go with you. The temple is a house of prayer and you can offer up your silent prayers for him in the temple, and also put his name on the prayer roll. I feel strongly that when we attend the temple, we receive blessings not only for ourselves, but our families are blessed as well. All of us have differing circumstances, but President Nelson has asked us to go as often as we can. I am so grateful to find refuge in that holy house, to renew covenants, and to feel a special relationship with those on the other side as we do their work that they cannot do for themselves. The very best part of the temple is the renewed closeness and relationship I feel with my Savior.
Rochelle HaleAugust 7, 2023
I believe that Wilford Woodruff has some of the most interesting experiences in church history, beginning with his own conversion. Jonathan Harriman Hale is my husband's 3rd great-grandfather.
Lori TippetsAugust 6, 2023
Sis. Douglas-Once again your monthly letter has touched my heart. I have lots of opportunities to speak and with your permission would like to use this story when I speak on service. Thank you for all you do and for your insightful and inspiring stories. With love, Lori Tippets (Jared’s mom)
CynthiaAugust 5, 2023
So true, Joni. I had to set boundaries with some family members, in a legal situation. I wrote each of them two letters. The first letter outlined what I recalled happened, what their responses were, and my apologies if I misunderstood and my desire to understand what they viewed as important to them personally through this experience. Next I sent a letter expounding my love for each of them individually, expressing my feelings of gratitude for so many blessings and the accompanying joy that we experienced together in the past, and how I was finding strength through the current situation, which was also a shared experience and one in which we were each reacting differently, for various reasons. In one case this smoothed things over. I'm not sure about the other case yet.
Janna Stout MorrellAugust 5, 2023
Maurine, I’ve always admired your great thinking and writing but here, you have now skyrocketed to new heights. This article is so needed, even within the Church as many have been taken in, or have even preached leftist ideas in the name of love and tolerance. We need to speak out in truth AND love… not one, exclusive of the other. Thank you, thank you for this well-thought, well written piece!
KathleenAugust 5, 2023
True blue!
Daniel BakerAugust 4, 2023
A truly wonderful article. And such a beautiful voice. There are of course many wonderful and inspiring LDS musicians. And good music has such great value to the mind, to the spirit. I want to contribute two bits: Some wonderful performers just sort of fade from attention. I got reacquainted with Lex de Azevedo a few years ago, and I think it's sad that knowledge of his works has faded since I became aware of it in about '75. One here: https://youtu.be/7OdUBvB3Ots
Cindy AtkinAugust 4, 2023
The temple is a symbol of the love we have for God and the love He has for us. Why would we want to give anything less than our best? God gave us His best. What an honor for every person that gets to express their talents in its construction and beauty. When I walk around its gardens and through its halls, every part of it seems to be singing praises to God. No matter our economic circumstances, I cant imagine wanting anything less.
Lyric LadyAugust 4, 2023
I am so glad I decided to read this article about Cherie, a long time friendly associate in the LDS Music world. I've been off Social Media for months and had no idea Ron Simpson had passed away. I second and third every wonderful thing said about Ron. I never was blessed to take a BYU music class with him, though he offered to let me as a non-BYU student but for complicated reasons I couldn't attend. I was so blessed to work with him on the Faith Centered Music Assoc. committee back in the early 2000's. He was so gracious and good with each and every musician and songwriters like me, who went to every workshop they could attend but couldn't attend BYU. Prayers of comfort for his family. What a tremendous legacy he has left us all with. Cherie is amazing and as a fellow songwriter has inspired me on many levels through the years.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
The sad fact is that sometimes people put off having children, only to find that they are unable to have them later. We should not take this great gift for granted. We have been counselled not to procrastinate starting our families. I can say from firsthand experience that child rearing requires a LOT of energy, which we generally have more of when we are still relatively young.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
While we know we are not required to condone the harm that has been done to us or to pretend it didn't hurt, I think it is helpful to remember that we have only seen a tiny fraction of who that person is and what they have experienced. So many times they are acting out of their own fears and pain. No, that doesn't make their harmful actions ok. But it might help us to be a little more understanding about their behavior. We can also be thankful for the fact that our pain caused by others can help us appreciate all the Savior suffered for us. He was completely innocent, yet continually persecuted, and he forgave.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
Our temples glorify God and our Savior, Jesus Christ. The bottom line for me on this subject is that temples are built under the direction of our Prophet. I am not going to put myself in a position to second guess him about WHERE they should be built, or HOW they should be built. Questions by people who are troubled with doubt about various issues could be easily solved through trusting our divinely appointed leaders. This is not blind faith. It is an opportunity for us to humble ourselves and acknowledge the Lord's hand guiding the building of these sacred edifices, and directing the affairs of HIS church.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
The writer mentions that her husband "can't let go of stupid things from the past." However, she doesn't say what those things are. There may be some key issues here that she is not addressing. However, good advice from Brother Steurer. I think this is a valuable learning experience for people reading this that it's never a good idea to be separated for so many months. I hope this couple can come together again, but if he continues to blow her off, she can't save the marriage all by herself.
LorraineQAugust 4, 2023
This touched my heart today. Thank you for putting these thoughts into words.
Claudia Henderson SmithAugust 4, 2023
I don't think our temples are more lavish that the Catholic and Episcopal temples I've seen around the world. Our temples have beautiful stained glass, furnishings, and chandeliers; but that is because it's the House of the Lord. We would want it to be special. As the writer said, it's like being in a realm where God and Jesus are available and we may feel serene. I love our temples!!
WallyAugust 4, 2023
Thank you, Joni!
Debbie McClureAugust 4, 2023
This is a well thought out commentary on the beauty and design of temples. My thought is that the temple provides to the world patrons who have covenanted to sacrifice and consecrate. Indeed, a royal army leaves the temple with covenants to serve the Lord and fellow man. The value of eager and willing saints to give because they have been given much, have a sincere love of Christ, and are under covenant to represent Him, to me, cannot be calculated. This is higher and holier than throwing money to the poor.
Cyndi HaddockAugust 3, 2023
I'm so grateful for Brother Daniel C. Peterson and the years of careful research and scholarship, along with many essays, books and articles he's written, that beautifully explain the restored gospel of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and our faith in the Savior. Thank you for your lifetime of efforts in defending our faith.
BarbaraAugust 3, 2023
I served as a temple missionary in the Dominican Republic. One of the other senior missionaries wondered how we could build such a lavish building when there were so many poor in the country. I computed that if all of the poor of that country were given an equal portion of the cost of the temple, they would each receive approximately $5 each. If they received a portion of what it cost to maintain the temple, they would each receive maybe $.50/month. In other words, hardly enough to make any difference at all in their lives. On the other hand, the poorest of the poor of that country could enter that temple and be treated as honored guests of God on high. That inevitably did immeasurable good towards telling them that they are persons of great value.
CarolAugust 3, 2023
I love your stories - even the serious ones. I too have a favorite teacher, Mrs. Troutman, and as an adult I happened to run into in a store and got to thank her for being a teacher who made learning fun and exciting!
Duane BoyceAugust 3, 2023
Welcome news! He is SO deserving.
D H HamillAugust 3, 2023
When I hear complaints about the monies spent building temples, or other buildings for that matter, I think that the laborers, manufacturers, earth movers, machinists, architects, engineering, and numerous others involved in the construction process. They are grateful for the work and income earned in order to help support their families. They, in turn, can use their earnings to purchase goods & services that benefit others. Thus, many people are provided the means of preventing poverty.
Pattie SkousenAugust 3, 2023
Our family’s heart goes out to this young missionary’s family. May they find peace in our Heavenly Father’s love for them.
HelenCAugust 3, 2023
Well done “Dr. Dan”!
HelenCAugust 3, 2023
I heard this objection from a co-worker after she toured the Portland, Oregon Temple during its open house. I thought it strange coming from a Catholic and having seen their beautiful and, no doubt to some, extravagantly adorned cathedrals.
MaryAugust 3, 2023
What a beautiful insight … I love serving in the temple and appreciate the inspiration to seek for holiness while there.
Robert D StarlingAugust 3, 2023
You go girl! (I can say that, right?) Wonderful article, and much needed.
We must stand for truth.
Count me in with the 38% who love America.
In the beginning was the Word . . .
LexaGraemeAugust 3, 2023
God bless teachers. Thank you for sharing.
LexaGraemeAugust 3, 2023
I look forward to seeing this film. Brigham, as Dr Hugh Nibley once wrote, challenges many of us Saints.
KathleenAugust 2, 2023
Heartwarming and inspiring, again!
Cornelia MadsenAugust 2, 2023
The young Holland couple moved into our Oak Hills Third Ward with their three very young children. They would file in and take their seats in the middle of the ward chapel. On a fast Sunday the mother, Patricia Holland, bore her testimony and said, "Here we sit with this wonderful group of people; but I want to go out with my husband and family to do much more, because I know we can!"
TiffaniAugust 2, 2023
What a beautiful and amazing blessing for those girls to have each other. Thank you for sharing this sweet story and your insights. As a mother who has lost a child, I must say that, although we did not get the same result Tori did, I still believe my prayers were heard and answered. I’m grateful Tori’s family’s answer was that they got to keep their daughter. I’m sorry yours and my answers were that we had to say goodbye (for now). I absolutely believe every prayer offered for Madi was heard and answered… just maybe not the answer that was hoped for. I know the Lord will make up for all the grief and pain caused by her early departure from mortality.
Suzanne PalmerAugust 2, 2023
Having our own 5 year old grand daughter that has been going through chemo for Leukemia for one year this story resonates more deeply than this Summer day I am living. Words cannot express our personal pain for these sweet, innocent and tender children who have to go through these very hard things. We, too, as a family, have experienced the kindest acts of service for our sweet little one. We are so thankful and so touched by what has been done for her and for what has been done by and for your sweet little Mad,i and her angel, Tori. I know that there is a very special place in heaven preserved for these angels that are earthbound and those that are in heaven that have, or are, experiencing these things.
ShaunaAugust 2, 2023
a wonderful reminder that each of us has the chance to make amazing differences, by small and simple acts, for those in our circle of influence. thank you
Mark MathesonAugust 1, 2023
Don't forget to tell people that the cost for a mission outside the US requires the purchase of health insurance that is roughly twice the cost of Medicare. I foresee the time that the Church will subsidize this extra cost down to the US Medicare rate.
Adrian MartinAugust 1, 2023
Great message! Inwardly digested and passed along to others!
Glen GibbJuly 31, 2023
Although I certainly agree that our language has eroded, especially where the term "inclusive" is used, I urge caution with your claim about COVID. It was not a conspiracy to rob anyone of freedom. I no longer have two friends who died from the disease. They left widows and children.
Leslie P. ReesJuly 31, 2023
The author obviously is not acquainted with Tim Ballard. Tim is one of the most honest, courageous, caring men one could know. He is “for real.” “Fictionalized”? Tim has admitted that a few things in the movie were not perfectly re-enacted. That is not possible in portraying events that took a rather long time, squeezed into a two-hour movie. However, those involved all admit the major events are very much a true-to-life account in every thing that matters. Tim did lose his job, put his life and the livelihood of his family in danger, and was able to rescue not only a young boy, but the boy's young sister, who had been sold to terrible men. In doing so, he rescued many other such children. And that was just one such event in a long string of remarkable rescues where Ballard and those who work with him have put their lives on the line-repeatedly- to rescue children from a life of horrific abuse and slavery.
I do wonder how it can be claimed “The Sound of Freedom” eclipses the need for putting a stop to child sexual exploitation. Most viewers I have talked to have claimed it awakened them to the problem, and left them with a desire to, in some way, help put it to a stop. Is it really just a political divide between those who think selling and abusing children must be stopped as soon as possible - against those who first want to address poverty and drug addiction which often results in such behavior? Would not saving the life of a child take precedence over sincere, but often contentious, efforts to address the causes? Seems to me a lot of children might be destroyed if we delayed their rescue in order to debate solutions which can be the cause of such abominations. Both matter-but rescued children should take priority.
Is it wrong to punish such offenders because they have such personal problems? “But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.” (Matthew 18:6) Sounds to me like the children's safety came first in His concern and judgment.
I believe we all owe Tim Ballard and those who work with him a huge debt of gratitude. And surely recommend the movie.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 31, 2023
I appreciate so much your clear thinking and expression of truth, you are a brave woman!
Rochelle HaleJuly 31, 2023
Many years ago, when my husband was a graduate student, he taught Institute classes alongside Jeffrey Holland. He met Sister Holland a few times. After graduating, he would try to keep in touch with Elder Hollard on occasion. One summer we made several trips to Utah for family and business reasons. We made an appointment to visit Elder Holland, but he had to cancel when a foreign assignment came up. A few weeks later, we were in Salt Lake again and stopped by the Church office building without an appointment. Elder Holland's secretary was about to inform us that we could not see him, but his door was ajar and he recognized my husband's voice. We visited for just a short while. As we were leaving, he shook my husband's hand, then surprisingly embraced me. My husband said I "floated" out of the building after having been hugged by an apostle. I never had the privilege of meeting Sister Holland, but her example and testimony will live on from the many talks she has given and in the examples of the wonderful family she has raised.
RobertJuly 31, 2023
Yes, that is right. "Overcoming polarization" between God and satan "is no easy task: it demands time, effort, and a collective commitment to empathetic understanding."
This is a continuation of the war in heaven. Pick your side!
Mary TarbetJuly 30, 2023
Thank you … eternally thankful for her example of a life of love for her eternal companion and devotion to our Savior.
DorisJuly 29, 2023
Wow, We can always trust you Maurine, to put into words what so many of us are thinking. Your thoughtful, well-chosen words are so appreciated. I am sharing them with all my family. Please take care of yourself. We need you where you are!
Jared RosequistJuly 29, 2023
What a fascinating article! Thank you so much for the research and insights.
Rosemarie BailleulJuly 29, 2023
I would NEVER ask my only single daughter to stay around just because I am in poor health (which I am), and could use her help. I have told her many times to follow her own path, and to go where she feels directed to go. Of course I would miss her if she did decide to move, but I'd never want to hold her back for my own purposes.
I find it interesting that this lady is the one who has always been around for her dad, while her sisters have moved away, and yet she's being called selfish for wanting to be around her own children and grandchildren now. The heart wants what the heart wants; is say she needs to follow her dad's counsel - she'll know what to do. I definitely don't think that she should ever agree to stay out of guilt; she has to follow her own heart and the Lord's guidance, otherwise she'll have guilt on other levels.
Harold RustJuly 29, 2023
Thank you. The most dangerous part of the leftist push of language/debate/expression limitations is that their ultimate goal is to make it socially unacceptable and dangerous to do the very thing you accurately pursue in this article: discuss how they are attacking freedom of speech and genuine liberty itself---the very fundamentals of our God-given rights for mortal experiences that can lead us back to Him. "They" will be happy only when no one can publicly refer to our Father in Heaven as a father.
CorrynJuly 29, 2023
SPOT ON!! Thank you so much for bravely writing this article! I have shared it with friends and family !
You are absolutely right!
CorrynJuly 29, 2023
SPOT ON!! Thank you so much for bravely writing this article! I have shared it with friends and family !
You are absolutely right!
ElizabethJuly 28, 2023
Thank you for articulating the challenges we face in this nation. r I will share this with our children and grandchildren for discussion.
Ned SvarisbrickJuly 28, 2023
I thought that our country sang a song that said, "Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,. And this be our motto - "In God is our trust,". And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave."
Pattie SkousenJuly 28, 2023
“2Nephi 15:20 Wo unto them that call evil good, and good evil, that put darkness for light, and light for darkness, that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!”
And then in 21 “ Wo unto the wise in their own eyes and prudent in their own sight!
22 Wo unto the mighty to drink wine, and men of strength to mingle strong drink;
23 Who justify the wicked for reward, and take away the righteousness of the righteous from him!”
These verses are exactly what is going on now. Thanks for the wonderful article
KathleenJuly 28, 2023
Leaves one breathless, indeed!
An Old Man With a Patriotic HeartJuly 28, 2023
WOW!! That is a pretty brave piece you have presented. I wonder how many hate groups you have offended by telling the truth like that. Thank you for standing up for what is right, and not defending that which is politically correct.
Grant W. "Bill" P. MorrisonJuly 28, 2023
One of the best articles I have read on the subject. Extremely well done!
Vicki CrumJuly 28, 2023
This an excellent article and perfectly on point. You have described, in very succinct terms, exactly what we, as a society, are going through right now. And it is beyond terrifying. I worry that most of the most of the counsel coming from the church is "Be kind, be nice, have faith". Of course, we must maintain our faith as strongly as we ever have, but there comes a time when being nice and not making waves will only assist the and enable the adversary to take us over. I, for one, refuse to give up my freedoms and liberties and free will that easily. There comes a time when one must fight with whatever weapons are at our disposal. Now is that time. This is, most likely, our final and most important battle against Satan and we cannot, must not, lose.
Susan RatherJuly 28, 2023
I think your article is right on target, Maurine. Thank you for expressing your thoughts so precisely and powerfully.
Paul JonesJuly 28, 2023
I needed this article to help me refocus on my words. Words are so important to God. He can communicate to us in our words but he frequently quotes scripture to do so. Why? Scripture preserves the meaning of gospel language. That's why President Packer wanted us to use scripture, not just translate everything into current everyday language.
MikeJuly 28, 2023
I am more dense than most. I get this intellectually but cannot figure out how to apply it practically in my life. My weak things are still weak and I seem to be stuck there.
Ed RehderJuly 28, 2023
Well done! And so necessary to be aware of. Building Zion is hard work but takes the fear out of all this nonsense. Keep up your good works!
Cynthia CarlsonJuly 28, 2023
Excellent, pertinent, critical article. Thank you, Maureen, for sharing these thoughts with all of us.
MikeJuly 28, 2023
A very accurate and thought-provoking article....but one that will be lost on most people because newspeak is already working. It is very frustrating to watch it happen in front of your eyes and not be able to do anything about it. I lose my job if I don't comply. My bank accounts are seized. I'm cast into a FEMA reeducation camp. I'd like to see more articles like this on Meridian. This is first time I have even seen a hint that Covid was just another staged effort to limit freedom.
JamesJuly 28, 2023
Outstanding! Written perfectly and in a way for everyone to comprehend. I only wish more people thought this way. Thank you thank you.
QuinceJuly 28, 2023
Thank you for opening our eyes, to what is happening now and to its highly risky impact in the future of our beloved country..
SfischJuly 28, 2023
Spot on Maurine. We are certainly living in the last days in an ever delusional world. That your for your insight,
J. GreyJuly 27, 2023
Thank you for sharing your insights and for all the studying you did to gain those insights. You have explained and compared the three approaches clearly and completely. I am inspired to study and ponder your thoughts further, along with the scriptures, so that I can better overcome my weaknesses, one step at a time.
HeatherJuly 26, 2023
I loved this article and the desire and intention behind it. Patricia Holland served in the YW General Presidency from 1984 until April of 1986 when she was released. Her Ensign article quoted above was published in October of 1987, after she was released, and therefore should not include her prior calling title. I hope to see that corrected!
LoraJuly 26, 2023
I finally figured out that when Jesus says "come unto me" He means Every. Single. Day. I turned to Him and said, "Lord, I can't change. Please change me." Every single day. I ask Him to keep my desires, appetites and passions within the bounds that He has set. He has changed my desires, appetites, and passions in ways that I could not do by myself. It has been slow but steady, and I've lost 60 pounds so far. Best of all, I'm not obsessed with weight loss the way I was when I tried to do it in my own strength. When we rely on His strength, He makes weak things strong unto us.
Jane NelsonJuly 26, 2023
This is an absolutely wonderful and accessible guide to true repentance. Thank you for sharing these thoughts. This is going in my "hall of fame" folder.
tfJuly 24, 2023
Both worthwhile and entertaining stories, thanks for sharing. Maybe uplifting is a better word than entertaining in this case.
JoanJuly 24, 2023
It is enough??
I pray the inactive children will come back and receive all the blessings that the Lord has in store for them.
HelenCJuly 20, 2023
Once again the Lord has given me a message through this amazing online resource. It is exactly what I need for my day TODAY. Thank you.
PhoebeJuly 20, 2023
I’m inspired by your enthusiasm and candor. Thank you for a great article.
Beth TJuly 18, 2023
Thank you for sharing these beautiful connections between Peter & Paul's callings from God. The research & answers you found have deep & rich meaning. Your "feasting on the scriptures" has helped my hunger for truth feel satisfied through your words. I feel Father's love through these treasures of connection.
Paul HJuly 17, 2023
Larry S, I think you missed my point. Yes, the roof was flat. A great example of the types of house appears in the book "Lehi's Jerusalem" where they are described in detail. The important point is that the Lord's Chief Apostle was "praying" in a place of privacy and that he was ""an hungered." That suggests the likelihood of it being Fast Sunday is probable. My post is now 4 years old and I still don't think the fact the vision was a "sheet" had anything to do with the lesson or instruction. Rather it was that the sheet contained "unclean animals" and Peter was commanded to kill one of them and eat, which was against the customs and Mosaic Law. It's more similar to when Jesus was hungry after fasting and was offered bread by Satan. Of course as Chapter 10 in Acts develops we learn what the real lesson was: The Gospel was supposed to go to the gentiles as well. And the fact that the Holy Ghost descended upon them when Cornelias and his family were baptized, surprised those Jewish brethren accompanying Peter and was a cause of consternation among the. Church. Peter finally addressed the lack of need for new converts to be circumcized. This had very little if anything to do with Paul's vision and occupation, in my view..
James ScottJuly 17, 2023
A worthy comparison, I’ve often wondered at Paul’s citizenship as a Roman, his home town claim of Antioch, his close relationship to the Jewish leadership and Sanhedrin, maybe even membership, for which he would have had a wife and believing children I Corinthians aside, and his claim to have been from Benjamin in ascendancy.
I wonder at your assumption or assertion that he and his family were wealthy
Citizenship would have been purchased or awarded for some notable deed by some progenitor yet to be discovered.
I just don’t see that his family was wealthy . His belonging to the school of Gamaliel may indicate some familial wealth as having been sent to Jerusalem for Jewish training.
At any rate I’m curious how it was determined he or his family were wealthy or even well off.
CodyJuly 15, 2023
Thank you
Doug YanceyJuly 15, 2023
We are thankful for eternal families and fact that we will all be reunited with all our loved ones. Becca sends her love.
BETTY W JOHNSONJuly 14, 2023
Becky, thank you for sharing this. I knew from my time spent in India that you had lost a little granddaughter. I did not know her story until now. She looked just like her Grandma Douglas! I too, have lost a little granddaughter. Daisy was born with a severe heart defect and given a heart transplant when she was only 3 months old. That transplant bought her six precious years with her family. She passed away just one month away from celebrating her sixth birthday. Like your family, we are grateful for Daisy's short life and we all look forward to being with her again some day. Thanks again for sharing Madi's story. Peace to you and yours.
LewisJuly 14, 2023
What an incredibly beautiful story! The faith and powerful testimonies of your son and daughter-in-law were so powerful. I could not hold back the tears. Thank you for sharing this sacred experience with us all.
We must all go through trials. I can only hope that if I were to suffer such a trial, I could do so with the grace and love exhibited in this touching article.
KathyJuly 14, 2023
So beautiful and inspirational! Thank you for sharing such personal and heartfelt feelings and journal entries. This is so helpful to others struggling with grief.
J. BlanchardJuly 14, 2023
Thank you for sharing this heart-wrenching, spirit-filled, faith-promoting story. My young son was diagnosed with cancer and I can identify with so much of what was shared about faith, prayer, gratitude and love. No matter our outcome, my belief and faith in a Savior and loving Heavenly Parents remain. Our Heavenly Father can create beauty and joy out of any situation; may we be willing to see it and experience it.
HelenCJuly 14, 2023
My youngest son was 24 when his astrocytoma begins a glioblastoma and took him Home after 5 years of treatments. Eight years later hours older sister joined him from metastatic breast cancer. Each was given a blessing. George’s was that he would be healed according to his faith and the will of the Lord. There was nothing wrong with his faith. Larissa had moved to a different Faith but was still very spiritual. Her blessing was not that she would be healed but that she would heal. Dozens of her friends felt that healing and now I reach out to hundreds, hopefully thousands. As a Grief coach.
“But if not” goes with me everywhere.
Father of sixJuly 13, 2023
China's one child policy: how well has that been working for them ?
Debbi M.July 12, 2023
I was a freshman in college, and read Zero Population also. I questioned many things about this book vs. the Lord's' commandments, and I also had to wonder in my mind to what I saw as two diverging opinions. We had five children, even though people look askance at our family. Interesting to now see our dwindling population in nearly all "civilized" countries. This was a great article, and the author's experiences were worse than mine!
KatrinaJuly 12, 2023
This is a wonderfully written article. Thank you for it. I, too, believe in babies, and I, too, believe in fidelity within marriage and abstinence before marriage. Thank you for boldly declaring the truth! As one who has wanted a baby all her life and has never been able to conceive, I mourn my heart out for our precious little ones who are aborted. A society that kills their unborn is in real trouble. God help us!
Steven HuntJuly 12, 2023
My wife (and sometimes me) was also the brunt of misinformed activists back in the 1970's as she and I started our family giving birth to 5 boys from 1974 - 1980. We now have 7 children and 30 grandchildren. We lived then in Southern California. She was regularly ridiculed in public with unthinkable "solutions" to her "problem" (pregnancy). Thank you for this powerful retrospective on an evil dogma that arose many years ago. It is a strong lesson for us today as other popular philosophies appear.
Boanerges RubalcavaJuly 12, 2023
Once, somebody asked me, how many children do you have? SIX, was my answer. Then he told me, so, you did not planned them? Of course I planned them but I failed, was my remark, I planned 12 but I only had SIX
MahonriMJuly 12, 2023
Several years ago, a friend who had several children had her home picketed by Planned Parenthood.
Beth TJuly 12, 2023
I had not heard of this book and am deeply grateful for your exps & firm faith in the Lord’s plan for His children.
Thank you!!!
Rochelle HaleJuly 11, 2023
These are interesting accounts. I'd like to know more about the brother who said he would rather go to Scandinavia than prison.
Some good friends of ours passed away several years ago, but the husband was one of the last married missionaries to be called (early 1950s) He ended up serving for three years and returned to a toddler son he had never met.
When I was prompted to serve a mission, my family was not supportive. I told my bishop that I would have the funds if I worked just a few more months. He wanted me to submit my papers immediately and told me that generous ward members would help me. From the time I first thought about serving to my arrival in the mission field was about four months. Through the kindness of friends and wonderful miracles from the Lord, I came home with surplus funds that I returned to my bishop to help another missionary.
erikpeterhansenJuly 10, 2023
Outstanding... and much needed article.
Ann-MarieJuly 10, 2023
He's always in the details, isn't He? Great share.
JodiJuly 10, 2023
Why are his "quirks" being noticed only now when he is in college?
H NorthJuly 10, 2023
The fourth paragraph from the end of this article speaks the truth. Attempting to make peace with those whose ultimate goal is to kill you is suicidal.
David ShafferJuly 10, 2023
Thank you for a well reasoned article. Every point is clear and I hope all who read it heed it. I agree with you and will try even harder to be a peacemaker, and to see others as loved by Father and Jesus. It will not be easy, but the Lord requires it of me and everyone else. It is easy to criticize and judge. It is harder to follow the Golden Rule. But the eternal reward is exaltation.
Corey DJuly 9, 2023
Wonderful story, stories like this restore my faith in the youth.
JeanetteJuly 9, 2023
Maurine was brave enough to write it. Are we brave enough to forward it?
Joyce GlaettliJuly 9, 2023
So sweet!
D. SowardsJuly 8, 2023
This was so helpful in preparing for my Primary Class. Thank you for sharing your work and knowledge.
Kay RookhuyzenJuly 8, 2023
The movie shocking,insprationl and educational! It was awful but so good! I had no idea that the U.S. was the biggest user of child sex slaves. I cried through half the film but found it wonderful despite. I love hearing about modern-day HEROES!!!
BeckyJuly 8, 2023
A film that REALLY makes you realize how blessed you life has been. EVERYONE needs to see this film!
Howard CollettJuly 7, 2023
Well done, Dan. Thank you for a concise summary. Having visited with Latter-day Saints all over the world, I have yet to come across "a cadaverous visage; greenish-colored eyes; thick, protuberant lips; or the low forehead" among them. Obviously, spin commentary was alive and well in the 1800s.
L.JayJuly 7, 2023
I have always wondered why when the mountain meadows massacre is brought up that their is not the same fervor for the haun's mill massacre or the mistreatment and persecution of the saints in Missouri or Illinois. These people were Americans and were protected by the same constitutional rights as anyone else including freedom of worship. Tell me has the states of Missouri and Illinois erected monuments to remember the saints' mistreatment at their hands. I'm just saying.
JaneJuly 6, 2023
This movie is a MUST SEE! It is informative and extremely powerful. Who knew this was occurring at this level in our own backyards. Absolutely mind-boggling! Click on the link to the full article and watch the interview with Jim Caviezel and Tim Ballard - you'll learn even more! Help to get rid of this evil by educating yourself and providing opportunities for others to see the film as well.
Mark MathesonJuly 6, 2023
Sister Clayton,
You have so many good stories. Thank you for adding your voice to Meridian!
Mark BJuly 6, 2023
Thank you for writing this article about questions! It was quite insightful and I will work on asking better questions.
DMJuly 5, 2023
Have you ever considered this for an on the road workshop? Would love to see you in Las Vegas!
CarolJuly 4, 2023
These stories are a great idea! They are a good reminder that all the little and big things we do to spread the Savior's love and caring make a huge difference in other's lives.
Pat HealyJuly 2, 2023
Thank you Maureen!!!! I hope your words are read by millions. I thank you and honor you for speaking out against things that are clearly evil.
WeezieJuly 2, 2023
Incredible! Thank you for speaking truth. It’s been such a long, difficult month enduring rainbow flags and their destructive agenda. God bless America. May we be as brave as our forefathers were.
MLJuly 2, 2023
Thanks for being brave enough to stand for truth and righteousness.
JocelynJuly 2, 2023
Robert Manookin, who was one of my music theory professors at BYU in 1978, was a part of that gathering. One day during class he told us the story of his gathering missionaries from train stations on his mission. He said he whistled, Come, Come Ye Saints.
Kathy GibbleJuly 2, 2023
I really appreciate you standing up for what America was created for. Thank you for your boldness to speaking out about true liberty for all. This country was established by God so all can be free, and not for some to judge and oppress others. I pray for our country and the freedoms we have to be protected. As we celebrate the 4th of July, let us be grateful for our freedoms and liberty for all. God bless America.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJuly 1, 2023
Well written. I so agree.
Judy ShumwayJuly 1, 2023
great and true article thanks for sharing our country is becoming a sad sad country
Andrew GiffordJuly 1, 2023
Wow! Absolutely well written! You just expressed what I’ve been thinking this whole last month spot on. Thank you.
JulieJuly 1, 2023
Amen and a million thanks for this articulate article.
Sandie MixaJune 30, 2023
Fantastic advice and acronym! I was with you in the Joy School days and now am in the grand parenting role. Thank you so much!
ShaunaJune 30, 2023
thank you.
Louise WoodsJune 30, 2023
I agree 100% with everything you have said. I'm grateful that someone has said it and will defend what we believe and stand for as a nation. We must rally around our flag before it's no longer our flag. Thank you!!
DRobJune 30, 2023
A well written piece that does a great job covering the spectrum of issues that are becoming more and more "in your face" and gaining in "acceptability" with each passing day. Thank you for speaking out!
CarolJune 30, 2023
Thank you for writing such a great article about what is happening to our
wonderful country We love the red, white, and blue. May God give us courage to keep it.
Patty HurtJune 30, 2023
Such a well written essay. I feel for this nation whose cicle of pride is almost whole.
I’m from Chile, & I was an adolescent when socialism took over in the 70s. It didn’t take long for the likes of Fidel Castro coming to rally the people. Little by little we lost freedoms.
Everything was chaos. No food either. We had to buy in the black market. I was 13 waiting on a long line to buy some bread when a coup took over. They brought peace at a great cost of blood.
Nothing good happens in a land that forgets God.
I only look forward to the Second Coming of the Lord, the New Jerusalem, & having Zion in the Americas. There will be no nations run by corrupted leaders.
I’m sorry to say things won’t get better until then. Stay strong in the Gospel. Miracles will happen.
LindaJune 30, 2023
Thank you for a well written truthful article!! This country is in TROUBLE. W e must not let evil take over!
Mark LawsJune 30, 2023
Awesome article Maureen. I hope the good guys wake up and pit their shoulder to the wheel before it is too late.
Barry HansenJune 30, 2023
Well said, Maurine. We can be brave and hold to the truth.
Susan S MorrisJune 30, 2023
Amen to that. An excellent synopsis of our current cultural and political state. Great to share with those whose common sense and moral decency tells them something is amiss but who don't necessarily have the background and knowledge to articulate it.
Ken RichmondJune 30, 2023
Think of the heyday C. S. Lewis would have had with The Screwtape Letters in today's happenings.
Diane BlakelyJune 30, 2023
Magnificent!!! You expressed it so well.
Curtis ArringtonJune 30, 2023
Well stated and well-written.
Paul HJune 30, 2023
The American Flag (Stars and Stripes) flies at our home 24/7/365 and is lighted at night (sunset to sunrise). Our ancestors fought to gain this freedom and we will ALWAYS appreciate it. We consider this land a "choice land" and are thankful to be living here, the way the country was founded by divine providence upon just and holy principles contained in the US Constitution and the Bill of Rights. Let freedom ring!!
Duane BoyceJune 30, 2023
Amen! So true and so well stated. Wonderful article. I am with you 100%.
JuliannJune 30, 2023
AMEN! Beautifully and powerfully written. Stand up don’t stand down. Our future is at stake.
PamJune 30, 2023
Thank you for saying what needs to be said.
JoanJune 30, 2023
Bold and true!!
Lee HillJune 29, 2023
I love your stories! They are humorous, touching, instructive, and entertaining all at the same time. I wonder if you have a compilation of your stories and anecdote - something like the James Herriot books. Your articles are every bit as entertaining as any I've ever read. Thank you for brightening my day!
Mariah Proctor (author)June 28, 2023
@LC, So much depends on the maturity of the child. It's rated PG-13 and they do a really good job of doing things by implication instead of ever showing anything, but it is obviously still a very hard subject. I think 13 or so is probably a good age, so if she's a mature 12, so could probably see it.
LCJune 28, 2023
How old do you think is the minimum age for viewing? Would it be too traumatic for my 12 yo daughter, do you think?
LexaGraemeJune 28, 2023
Ha ha! Another enjoyable story!
S.K.June 28, 2023
Thanks for telling about this important story, Mariah.
Tim Ballard is my hero. He's a true hero. I love that he's a member of my church.
My spirit wouldn't be able to handle watching this story, so I paid it forward for someone else to see.
Toni LyonsJune 28, 2023
Thank you so much for doing this article. I've met Tim several times and even read his books on early American History and was on a cruise with him and his children. He is an amazing person and I put clips of the movie on FB all the time trying to get the word out.
Helen GreenstreetJune 27, 2023
B. U. S. Y. Being Under Satan's Yoke
Richard HillsJune 24, 2023
We hear a lot of categorical claims that scientists in the 1970's predicted that significant global cooling would soon occur. A few of 'em did but of climate analysis scientific papers published from 1965 to 1979 only about 10% predicted global cooling whereas 62% of papers predicted global warming and 28% made no prediction (Peterson et al. 2008). Nowadays 97% of working climate scientists agree with the view that human beings are causing global warming.
LORNAJune 24, 2023
He should read The Hitler Dilemma while Max Adam is still alive. A German citizen he was forced into Hitler Yourh and then into Hitler s army. There is a huge miracle that isn’t in the book. He needs to hear it from Max. He lives in Reunion Village beside the Jordan River Temple. He is so proud to fly his American flag every day. Max is 95…. Better hurry and at least do an interview. There is even a follow up movie with trapped in East Germany, which is his wife story during the Russians occupation of Dresden. She has passed though. Terrific books.
Kent & Jan BrooksbyJune 24, 2023
We were a part of this tour to Croatia. What a wonderful experience, meeting the Croatian people. They are so warm and friendly, and the Saints in Zadar were amazing. The entire experience was a blessing in our lives, making friends from around the country. Highly recommended trip.
JuliannJune 24, 2023
It’s Paul Wuthrich, not Peter. Wonderful actor. He portrayed Joseph Smith beautifully in The Witnesses.
Latter Day SongwriterJune 23, 2023
I've watched these brothers grow as artists over the years and they just keep getting better and better. Terrific songwriting Ben.
EricJune 20, 2023
One thing not mentioned here is teachers and leaders serving in twos or more. My dad was a scoutmaster back in the early 1990s when stories of abusive scoutmasters first started hitting the news, and policies were quickly updated to always require two men present at scout activities. I still remember when Primary classes only had one teacher, but roughly 20 years ago it became policy to always have two per class. Sadly, that doesn't eliminate all opportunities for abuse, but having two leaders or teachers, each acting as a check on the other, helps considerably.
Rochelle HaleJune 20, 2023
This article is helpful if someone is experiencing depression or other issues and is willing to talk about their challenges. Suicide takes many forms, but is often in the spur of the moment as a reaction to an overwhelming condition. An older relative took his life shortly after returning from the hospital because he didn't want to be a burden for whatever time he had left. Another was a loving mother, suffering from depression, who excused herself from a family gathering and was later found dead just a few rooms away. Still, another was someone who drove to a town where he was unknown, parked his vehicle in a remote area, and was not found until many days later. Another was a teenager who didn't have the means to cope when she and her parents didn't see eye-to-eye about something. I hope that through sincere friendships, expert professionals, and prevention therapy that many of these tragic situations can be avoided.
DH HamillJune 19, 2023
I remember the late Elder Loren C. Dunn of the Seventy using a very similar example (with a long string stretched out across the room) while presiding at a stake conference sometime in the 1980s. It's a good reminder that our time here is but a small moment in eternity and that the choices we make here are so very important to our future life.
Pamela SmithJune 19, 2023
This response is absolute gold.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 19, 2023
...And even wiser then the "scientists" than now are telling us that we will be destroyed by the tiny amounts of CO2 produced by the burning of the fossil fuels, that is the cause of global warming.
Allison DunlapJune 19, 2023
Great article! Only one funny inconsistency. You quote at the end a Black LDS man as saying 'til death do us part" but it's part of the LDS doctrine that marriages sealed in temples under the Holy Spirit of Promise last for time and all eternity, not just for this life only. Did you really talk to him to get that quote?!
MickeyJune 18, 2023
Please protect yourself and your children from your abusive mother. She sounds very unsafe and quite harmful to you and your children. I also suggest Al-anon and looking up narcissistic abuse.
tfJune 16, 2023
Just please excuse your mother, because of mental illness; that's what you describe.
JohnnaJune 16, 2023
Thank you to the individual who asked this question a d to Mr Streuer for his insight. This is very timely for me and much needed counsel.
MaryannJune 12, 2023
What, only one picture? I want to see the inside!
Tyler KJune 12, 2023
Very interestimg design. My only concern is the PVC envelope on the concrete. If it's in the outside wont it break down fairly quickly in the sun? PVC becomes brittle and weak. It may not be long before it starts to chip away... otherwise I'm very intrigued.
EricJune 12, 2023
This reminds me of something my brother told me from when he served a mission in Scotland. There was a legend some of the people shared with him there about how Jesus had visited Great Britain, during that gap of time between ages 12 and 30, to sit on the Stone of Destiny that has been a feature of the British coronation chair--the throne of David.
Ronald BarnesJune 12, 2023
In his book, “The United States and Britian in Prophecy”, Herbert W Armstrong of the World Wide Church of God, presents an interest theory. Using scripture, history, and mythology, he claimed that, after the kingdom of Judah was conquered by the Babylonians, Jeremiah and a daughter of King Hezekiah immigrated to Ireland. There she married the king’s son. This royal family later became the royal house of Scotland and later, the royal house of England.
Also, in Hebrew, “brit” is “covenant” and “ish” is “man”. The word “British” literally means “Covenant Man.”
Mark W MinerJune 10, 2023
What a beautiful witness! Thank you for sharing your precious truth. May the Lord continue to bless your every endeavor.
Corey D.June 10, 2023
She needs to drop this guy like a hot potato !
mom of 9June 10, 2023
What are you opinions on the "Gentle Parenting" movement? I've seen a lot of conflicting information.
Jen SmithJune 9, 2023
Thank you for sharing this story. We never know at times that we think that we need his help the most, that is when he turns it around and helps us focus on others and when we do that not only are they blessed but we are blessed. The fact that you were willing to listen to the spirit and go do something so simple, yet the impact of what you did, and your willingness to continue to foster the relationship and keep learning the language went so much further, than you thought it did.
J HopkinsJune 9, 2023
He asks us to trust him and yet our human experience tells us there is no way for our desired result to come about. If we will trust, if we will believe, even when it seems impossible miracles will happen. His hand will then be seen. The sad part for me is that faith and trust is so much like the tides of the ocean, there is a real ebb and flow to the amount of faith and trust that I have. Thank you for sharing. What you experienced resonates so loudly to me.
Mark MathesonJune 9, 2023
What an article! Thank you Sister Clayton. I see miracles as things that should not have happened in the normal routine of life. Those two songs should not have been sung and thus God's hand is revealed to help grieving people.
Cynthia CarlsonJune 9, 2023
Thank you for sharing this experience, Alexa. You touched my heart. You will be an amazing doctor! Doctors need curiosity, determination, wisdom and the help of God.
Mamie JacksonJune 9, 2023
Thank you for sharing this! What a remarkable story. We served in Malaysia and we were sent home because of Covid but we’re able to go back and finish up. We were very moved by this story and LOVE the Malaysian people.
MaryannJune 9, 2023
I don't think this situation is "complicated" at all. I would tell this woman to RUN. A man who continues to speak with a woman he had an affair with while married is not trustworthy. True repentance would be to abandon that relationship completely. She should start looking for a partner who takes fidelity seriously.
Lowell SteeleJune 9, 2023
Thank you, Mark, for sharing that very touching story with it's several tender-mercy moments. What if you had never made that trip?
Deb MackJune 8, 2023
What a wonderful article. Made my own heart sing this morning.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 8, 2023
I agree with the author. We cannot support people in their ways, if those ways are not what we believe (WE KNOW) are the right ones. We support them by loving them but not becoming like them since we cannot be like them, since we KNOW the Way, the Truth, the Life. Yes we MUST love them, independently of what they are or are trying to be, but we cannot go against our principles, our, I would say, our six truths: 1. We know God lives, 2. We know Jesus is the Christ, He lives, He resurrected from the dead and He is our savior, 3. The Holy Ghost is real, and is there for us to help us to maintain ourselves in the right path to Eternal Life, 4. Joseph Smith saw God and Jesus Christ that morning of 1820, 5. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is God's Church on Earth, and 6. Russel M. Nelson is a prophet of God.
Melany W.June 8, 2023
Absolutely love this! Truly Jesus is the answer to everything. If we really love those on the margins of society like Christ does, we will point them to the living source of peace, joy and comfort namely Jesus himself. Thanks for being the example that so many need in this day and age. I just wish people would see that choosing Christ, regardless of your temptations or weakness, is the happiest way. Every time.
Shauna SandbergJune 8, 2023
Thank you for a heartfelt and well thought through article. And for reminding us , that as President Nelson said in April conference:"Whatever questions or problems you have, the answer is always found in the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. Learn more about His Atonement, His love, His mercy, His doctrine, and His restored gospel of healing and progression. Turn to Him! Follow Him!
Jenny Madsen SvendsenJune 8, 2023
My mom had been very ill all my life, and before (I am #6 of 8 children), she was always in excruciating pain, but when she received a Priesthood blessing she was pain free for a few days. One time our Branch President asked us to fast before she received a blessing, I though why should I? I know heavenly Father can give her a respite from the pain. Twice she blessing resulted in nothing, so the 3rd. time I fasted (I was a teenager), and mom was pain free for a few days, what a testimony to me of the power of Fasting!
DavidJune 8, 2023
Wow, thank you for sharing this.
JimJune 8, 2023
Thank You! Yes. Those of us that follow Christ and share his doctrine with others are not haters and judges that should be scorned. The doctrine is the doctrine. We can do as Christ instructed his disciples and simply preach the doctrines and if not received, we shake the dust from our feet and move on to those that will find comfort in the gospel and follow the Doctrine of Christ.
Corey D.June 8, 2023
I'll have to admit when I saw the title of this article my immediate reaction was negative but when I went through it, it is well presented. For the most part, the whole LGBTQ+ movement has become radicalized, even some who are part of it are saying now that things have gone to far especially when it comes to children.
Corey D.June 8, 2023
Not sleeping together is more common than you might think and it's not just older couples and the reasons vary but snoring is a big one but sleep is important to one's overall health. Not having physical/sexual intimacy is a huge problem, if you believe all the survey's and what therapists are saying. Probably more so with older or middle aged couples but again not exclusive to those groups.
DJJune 7, 2023
Brought tears to my eyes as sharing these experiences with the spirit has renewed a rememberance of those sacred moments when I've had a special wittness too.
MaryannJune 7, 2023
I have full confidence in our First Presidency. My testimony that they are God's chosen servants to guide and counsel me brings me incredible peace. No matter what is occurring in the world, I can look to them for direction. WONDERFUL!
MaryannJune 7, 2023
Ear plugs.
WeezieJune 5, 2023
Absolutely golden material and so timely with the current “climate”. The three examples were so powerful to me and my family. 1. Excerpt from Narnia. 2. Steven Covey’s example of where true north is and 3. Wanting and needing to save people from jumping in hot boiling pools in Yellowstone. These visuals I pray will always stay in my back pocket, for a time I will need them. I struggle putting words to my thoughts, but these examples were incredible true and clear. Thank you!!!!
Walden BarneyJune 5, 2023
If you enjoyed this topic, take a look at the following article from the Belfast Telegraph. It appeared a long time ago, but is a really great article!
https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/opinion/columnists/eamonn-mccann-what-if-mormons-are-right-and-catholics-and-protestants-wrong/28532064.html
Ken RichmondMay 31, 2023
I think it’s more accurate to view traits or qualities on a continuum, rather than have it or not, since we all have some level of what we might consider to be a strength or weakness. That way we we can choose which ones we want to improve on, which is consistent with the gospel of repentance, change, and progression.
Corey D.May 28, 2023
Constantly amazed but I guess in some ways not surprised by the questions presented for this column. As to this particular sister she said something that is key in all of this, she says she has taken control of her life, that is good. After watching these scenarios play out and so many 2nd or 3rd or more marriages fail I would say to this sister, go slow with the dating, enjoy life, go on vacation by yourself or with a friend or child or grandchild. Serve as a temple worker or service missionary or do community service. And here's one that might seem counterintuitive at first thought, don't limit your socialization to just members of the church. I can relate several stories of sisters I know, one in particular and this is a happy but sad story at same time, a woman I know, good faithful member of the church, her husband also a member of the church but who cheated on her multiple times, finally in her fifties (her own children had been telling her to divorce their dad) ended her marriage. She met a former classmate from high school at a reunion, he was not a member of the church, they ended up getting married and in her own words "he treated her like a queen". Here's the sad part but also a good part, one day they were at the dinner table when he slumped over, he had had a massive heart attack and died, can you imagine going through that ! But here is the blessing in disguise, when I talked to her several months after this, she was getting everything ready to do his temple ordinances and I'm pretty sure intended to be sealed to him.
JeanMay 26, 2023
I followed American Idol this year and was a huge fan of Iam Tongi. Besides having a smooth voice I could listen to forever, he brought such love to this contest. Iam mentioned how much he loved his friends and how hard it was for him when they had to leave the contest. I was so impressed when a fellow contestant, Oliver Stone, had a father who was in the hospital with a stroke during the contest. He reported that Iam talked with his father in the hospital. I've watched almost all the seasons of American Idol, but I've never seen a season like this one that showed such a love and friendship for each other.
AlanMay 26, 2023
My second wife told me of troublesome experiences dating as an older person. There are some fine older men out there but there is a reason some men are divorced. Don't be in a hurry and seek guidance from the Spirit before making a commitment.
Kristen DMay 22, 2023
Thank you for saying this. Those types of comments always make me cringe. The negativity is very sad.
Belinda BrownMay 22, 2023
I consider this article to be a great one because this very habit is eating deep into the lives of some of our members. This is not happening in the United States only, but it is also happening in my ward, here in Nigeria. I have heard some members say things like ''I ran away from picking up the call when I realized it was the stake president calling'' They are bold enough to say it at the pulpit, especially when they want to bear their testimony. their running away becomes a topic for their testimony.
The Lord and the world need willing men and women who will wear the worker's seal. And not some who will stand idly looking, for this need to STOP.
Teri N.May 21, 2023
Thank you very much, Mariah. Such a great and contemplative article. Very well said. Point very well made. Insights very much inspired. Counsel very much needed by all of us, I think. Not a human being doesn't fall into these traps at some point. Your "surprise ending" wasn't really a surprise after all, once the entirety of the article is considered. I have always respected and loved your parent's social media presence and their staying true & faithful to the prophets and apostles, and I see this apple didn't fall far from the Good tree. Thank you for making the choices that have made you, you, because now you are sharing eternal insights that are inspiring the rest of us, just as your parents before you. Loved this article!
Joe BrightMay 20, 2023
Great article. I do not find it in myself to criticize how others deal with their challenges as these encompass so many things. Yet I agree that a deeper understanding of our blessings that come through these challenges and opportunities is hopefully before us and a deeper appreciation for them as well.
Kayleen A HunsakerMay 20, 2023
Thank you for this article Mariah...
I SO needed to hear this and contemplate these words.
I feel they are inspired for not just me, but so many!
SARMay 20, 2023
Beautiful message! I'm speaking on church on Sunday on this exact theme. Reading this article was a srong confirmation this was a message the Lord wants us to know. Thank you for your testimony and willingness to know and do.
Dave GrandyMay 19, 2023
Good essay. Telling these little stories and making these little apologies sets the wrong tone and becomes tiresome after a while. Sure, some of us are nervous, but often it seems the speaker feels this is how a talk is supposed to start out.
Rochelle HaleMay 19, 2023
I, too, am bothered by those who introduce their talks with excuses or poor jokes. I have only known a few people who were truly terrified about giving a talk or prayer in public. Others, who seemed somewhat reluctant, gave terrific messages. They may not have been as articulate or scripture-based as some, but they were meaningful and heartfelt. Others are polished and well-meaning, but perhaps their messages go above the heads of many. We should find joy in service, whether it be a regular calling or a short assignment or sacrament talk. Unfortunately, the procrastination about preparing or the bad jokes do get passed on to the next generation. However, I have seen some of our Primary children and Youth give amazing talks.
BrynnMay 19, 2023
I would add another consideration. What if there is a new visitor attending Sacrament Meeting and the first thing that person hears from the pulpit is someone suggesting they don’t want to be there? It sounds like we don’t value discussing the gospel of Jesus Christ, that we are forced into participating in the meeting, and that the speaker doesn’t think he or she has anything of worth to offer. Visitors might end up wondering why they even came to Sacrament Meeting. If we hope to share the gospel and invite others to join us, we need to remember that we only have one chance to make a first impression. That first impression needs to be our love for the Savior and His gospel, rather than implying that we don't want to be a part of the worship service.
Britt FranklinMay 17, 2023
I've heard it said that the reason Jesus waited as long as he did to return to Bethany is because there was a tradition among the Jews that the spirit of a deceased person would stay around the corpse for as long as three days before moving on. If Lazarus had been resurrected within the first three days the tradition would have been credited rather than the Savior. Interesting thought.
ShaunaMay 8, 2023
Thank you for sharing this excruciating and harrowing experience! And I am with you 100% on my faith in the Gospel and how I desperately need those blessings in my life. So pathetic that Satan has made unbelief seem "cool" and "smart." Life without faith in God and in His son Jesus Christ is like trying to walk through a maze blindfolded. I choose to have faith and open my eyes so that I can truly "see."
GTOMay 8, 2023
I'm surprised not to see comments on this article. Your eloquent and compelling account of this terribly difficult experience and your spiritual lessons really reached deep into my own soul with inspiration and gratitude. Thank you.
Ann-Marie JensenMay 7, 2023
What an experience! Thank you for sharing all the good side effects. Your Relief Society sisters were true disciples and your husband was an example of living ready to receive revelation.
BETTY W JOHNSONMay 5, 2023
Becky, since leaving the Church nearly ten years ago, I have avoided reading articles good or bad, about the Church. In your case, I read every single article you send to my inbox. Your strength of spirit and your great gifts are an inspiration to so many, regardless of their stations in life. Thank you for sharing your remarkable life.
PatMay 5, 2023
What a lovely and strengthening story, each and every bit of it. God's miracles cannot be denied.
LewisMay 5, 2023
This is an incredibly powerful story, but the lesson it teaches is even more profound. We can’t let things, regardless of the nature of those things, stand between us and the blessings of the Savior and the gospel. Thank you for your continual efforts to nudge us closer to our Heavenly Father through your powerful stories.
DanielaMay 5, 2023
Thanks for sharing your story and testimony. What an example of faith! I do share particularly your thoughts at the end of the article.You could not have said it better.
Barbara MattatallApril 30, 2023
What has happened to the text copy of the podcasts? Listening to it does not help me to
retain what is said. I lose quite a bit when I cannot follow along with the printed copy.
Lucie Kayleen LoweApril 29, 2023
I love, love your podcast. Spiritual, informative, gentle, and easy to understand. I feel your testimonies as you are teaching. Each week when I listen to it, I also take notes from the transcript that you usually provide. I didn't see them with this week's lesson. I am just wondering if this is going to be the new format. I understand if it is. Again, thank you for all the time and effort you put into this podcast. It is absolutely wonderful.
Mona PronkApril 28, 2023
Is there a transcript for this podcast 16, I really wanted to keep it for a personal reference. Thanks.
Thijs DorenboschApril 24, 2023
Please attach a transcript to this podcast. I translate or for a group of Dutch saints who don 't onderstand english.
Myntillae NashApril 17, 2023
Lovely!
Liz AthansApril 16, 2023
Loved them from their very first song!
Mary JaneApril 14, 2023
One of my favorite LDS duos! Their voices harmonize so well and they have a pure tone and wonderful range. I look forward to many more of their videos and selections....
Ken ButlerApril 14, 2023
It isn't mentioned but some are trapped due to financial needs. A single person with insufficient income to live independently traps a person. If there are solutions to this, those escape routes should be addressed.
Lorena HolmsteadApril 13, 2023
This is brilliant! I absolutely love this idea. I have been doing some of that this very week. Thank you for sharing!
H NorthApril 13, 2023
John saw a symbol in his vision of the Arabic declaration of "There is no god but allah", which very closely resembles the Greek letters for "666", and was mistranslated as such. The "false prophet" is the caliph of the resurrected caliphate that will attack Israel in the near future. Today, Turkish president Erdogan is trying to do just that, though it may end up being someone else that finishes the task and becomes the new caliph.
JKApril 13, 2023
My prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to the family of this beloved Sister Missionary. May the comfort of the Holy Spirit rest upon them as they grieve her loss. I'm heartbroken with you.
God bless.
MaryannApril 13, 2023
I loved this! How wonderful to know that the Lord answers our prayers in more ways than we might expect! He gives us what we need beyond what we ask for. Beautiful!
MaryannApril 13, 2023
There is nothing like the joy we feel when we search out our dead and perform their ordinances in the temple. I didn't start doing family history until I was in my 40s because I thought it was too hard and I just didn't feel up to it. A friend went with me to the Family History Center in our stake and her support gave me courage. The family history workers were so helpful and I was soon caught up in this glorious, joyful work. I learned how to begin my family tree on the church's Family Search website. I learned how to find records and how to search them. When we do this work, the Lord will accept our offerings, however small. I have been amazed at how much progress has been made to assist us in finding names. As more and more people engage in this holy work, the family lines are being revealed and the work is just exploding! People can begin in simple ways, such as writing down all the information they have about their parents and grandparents. Don't wait to ask your grandparents questions until they are dead. Contact all your living relatives and get as much information that you can. This will be an invaluable springboard for you to continue in the work. I can feel the Spirit of Elijah and I am so thankful to be a part of this sacred work.
Rochelle HaleApril 13, 2023
I remember this unbelievable event. We lived south of downtown, but we still filled sandbags in our neighborhood as a precaution. I was pregnant, but my husband headed out to help with whatever was needed. Our son was born later in the year and was blessed on a day when winter snow came early, a precursor to a cold, wet winter for 1983-84 as well.
SunnyApril 13, 2023
Bless you, Bless you Joni! Outstanding thoughts and quotes that truly reached my heart. Saying that your thoughts were answers to my prayer is a Godwink for sure! Keep up the good works and words, as so many people need to have hope and trust in God. AMEN - FRIEND
SusanApril 13, 2023
Thank you for this article. It came at the right time for me.
Carol AnnApril 13, 2023
Thanks for the very timely advice, Carolyn. It's time to update all our emergency supplies. Food becomes rancid over time in our kits and needs to be replaced. Water as well. Our Grab 'n Go binder/bag also needs refreshing with passwords, and up-to-date information and documents.
Kayleen A HunsakerApril 12, 2023
I agree with Elizabeth's comment.
I had many tears as I read this and thought about those who I might 'tend to' or just love 'no matter what'!
I loved reading this...it gave me tremendous hope;
which to me = Our Savior Jesus Christ!!!
SusanApril 12, 2023
Thank you. Perfect message for the perfect moment.
Diane RogersApril 12, 2023
That was a beautiful story with thoughts on how to proceed with obtaining permission. I loved it!!!
Elizabeth RichardsonApril 12, 2023
This was no bland, boring, "we should all do better" piece. This was engaging and even exciting. I love the feelings it awoke in me! Thanks, Br. Goddard!
MaryannApril 11, 2023
I am really surprised at the counsel given here. It strongly suggests having a conversation with the Granddaughter that will lead her to believing that a compromise can be made. There is no compromise to supporting immoral behavior under your own roof. There is no compromise when your purpose is to maintain a good example for younger children. Moral cleanliness is a very serious issue and should not be trifled with by inviting a long, drawn out conversation. A simple, kind and honest statement suffices: "I care about you and your feelings, and I look forward to having this opportunity to spend time together and draw closer. Because of my personal beliefs, no one will be sharing bedrooms on our vacation unless they are married."
MaryannApril 11, 2023
When we are speaking of Jesus Christ we are speaking of the God of the Old Testament. We are speaking of the one who organized the worlds and everything in them. Christ ruled with power and authority long before he was ever born. I find it difficult to believe that he had to wait until his birth to be anointed or to receive the Holy Priesthood. It was the premortal Christ who parted the Red Sea, miraculously provided manna in the Israelite's wilderness journey, revealed himself to the brother of Jared and touched the stones to provide light for the Jaredite's crossing BEFORE he ever came to earth. If he did not have the Holy Priesthood, by what power and authority did he do all these things and much, much more?
TomApril 11, 2023
To see all interior views of the Saratoga Springs Temple released by the Church, and a magnificent video with additional interior views, see The Church News article and links:
https://www.thechurchnews.com/temples/2023/4/10/23676921/see-interior-exterior-photos-saratoga-springs-utah-temple
Beth TApril 11, 2023
I have read Elders Scott’s account of his experience being called to the 12 apostles. I thank you so much for Sharing your insights and helping me anchor his experience more fully in my heart. Oh how we love the prophets and apostles! I know they lead us in righteousness.
steven payneApril 10, 2023
He is my personal favorite apostle who resonates with my soul in a very deep way. May the Lord watch over Elder Holland and Pat and the rest of their family. His way with words has stirred my soul on more than one occasion. Until me meet again at the Lords feet.
Karla MenhennetApril 9, 2023
What a life changing story. This story truly opened my eyes to the expanse of our Lord's infinite atonement like never before. My understanding of Christ's atonement has blossomed after this very personal story of a beautiful miracle. Thank you for blessing my Easter!
Corey DApril 8, 2023
Becky, you are the LDS version of Mother Teresa, someday when you pass from this life they will only need to put three words on your headstone, "Heart of Gold".
Sherry EthridgeApril 7, 2023
Thank you Becky!
John SnijderApril 7, 2023
A great story, but how does it fit in with
Doctrine and Covenants 42:18
And now, behold, I speak unto the church. Thou shalt not kill; and he that kills shall not have forgiveness in this world, nor in the world to come.
Joe WApril 7, 2023
I am grateful that I read your article today; it has reminded me of just how important Christ’s redemptive powers are for each one of us. Your time and example have lifted many burdens carried by those who have committed grievous crimes and sins but is also a reminder to all of us that our sins may be forgiven and that our Savior loves each one of us. We, too, are able to be healed when we forgive others their sins and trespasses and leave it to the Lord. I am grateful for my Savior and Redeemer Jesus Christ and for His love and patience with each of us as we strive to overcome our own weaknesses.
NatJDApril 7, 2023
If you could encourage him to tell the family where her body is, that would mean the world to them
MelanieApril 7, 2023
Thank you so much for this beautiful article and for being willing to leave your comfort zone to do this wonderful work with these prisoners. I had a family member in prison once, and although I have been able to forgive him, it hasn't been easy for me or others to understand how some things can be forgiven. This really helped me have a greater understanding of how infinite the Savior's atonement is. Thanks for sharing
LewisApril 7, 2023
What a beautiful story, and a powerful reminder of the universality and power of the atonement. Thank you!
MaryannApril 6, 2023
Oh, how I love Elder Holland! I will certainly join my prayers with millions of other church members for a complete recovery for he and his wife, Pat.
Merlyn de la MelenaApril 6, 2023
This is one of the most inspiring beautiful stories I've ever read! It starts as a simple truth of God's law and has exploded into a far-reaching group of our brothers who are learning about God's Atonement for all of us. Thanks you for sharing it with us!
Kay RookhuyzenApril 6, 2023
I think everyone has had experience with thinking they can never be forgiven. This article hit home with me. No, I haven't done anything horrific but thinking of my past sins is not a happy experience. They say forgive and forget but I heard the saying you can forgive yourself but forgetting is impossible...but you can eventually remeber back with PEACE.
Heather SmurthwaiteApril 6, 2023
Beautiful. So simply and elegantly explained. A passionately testified truth -- God never gives up on any one of us -- We are His children.
Nerita Flake PetersonApril 6, 2023
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this redemptive, inspiring story.
ColinApril 6, 2023
That was a beautiful illustration of the power of Christ's Atonement on hearts.
Nerita Flake PetersonApril 6, 2023
Thank you for this soil expanding experience
Peggy StallingsApril 6, 2023
Becky,
I'm continually amazed at how Christlike you are, and how humbly you serve all who the Lord places in your path - from all over the world. Thank you for sharing your testimony in action through your experiences.
Dave HansenApril 6, 2023
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for that *sermon*, Becky. I will never forget it. God Bless You!
AshleyApril 4, 2023
Thank you! I love these great reminders. Just what I needed today!
Lorraine QApril 4, 2023
Thank you. Thank you for the reminder of the promises.
JeanApril 3, 2023
This podcast so resonated with me. I was deeply comforted as I listened to Lincoln share his experiences. Thank you, Thank you.
Peri BennionApril 3, 2023
Thank you for your honest comments. I too suffer from anxiety and depression and feel like the heavens are closed much of the time. I have come to many of the same conclusions Brother Watkins has - it is wonderful to have another person vocalize these things. It will help me continue in faith.
MaryannApril 1, 2023
It is not unusual for Bishops to refer people to trained therapists or psychiatrists. I was very blessed to have a therapist who was also a Bishop (in another ward) so he understood my foundation in the gospel. It's not always possible to find someone like this, but there are also some good therapists who are not members of the church. I highly recommend it. You may not hit on the right one for you the first time, but keep looking until you find someone who can help. It is essential that they understand your moral foundation, so be clear with them about that.
Corey D.April 1, 2023
As a General Authority Seventy who came to our stake some years ago said in leadership meeting, "I don't know where or why members get the idea that Bishops are marriage counselors". Having said that I know it's natural for many members to seek counsel from their Bishop because they recognize or feel that mantel that the Bishop has or they have been taught that's who you go to. Certainly there has been good advice and comfort given by many Bishops in regards to marriage or life problems but their main responsibility is spiritual. But that also doesn't mean a trained counselor or therapist always has answers and may even say things that are contrary to gospel standards or may make things worse.
Greg DonovanMarch 31, 2023
thanks for the message I hope we are receiving it loud and clear!
Becca HowardMarch 31, 2023
Years ago my then-husband and I had a question we needed our bishop's help to resolve. The ensuing discussion led us off-topic and into areas that we had not planned on discussing. My ex came away totally angry and surely thinking that our bishop had no insight or inspiration. I tried to reassure him. Bishops lead their own lives and are not experts on everything that might come up. Of course, we want them to be considerate of our needs and to give spiritual guidance, but sometimes they may have to refer to the Church Handbook for guidance or accurate policy as well. My ex saw that as a weakness in our bishop. For a number of reasons, we divorced a year or so later. I became a single mother, and it was not easy. In my new ward, a close friend received much support and assistance from our bishop. Though I felt the bishop knew my situation, I felt I had to figure many things out on my own. I believe the Lord knew my strengths and what I could handle, and I (and my child) survived those difficult years.
Shirley KingMarch 31, 2023
This song touched my heart with both singers. It was beautiful & enlightening
BryanMarch 31, 2023
Some highlights that I appreciated from this article:
- Speak clearly about the direct impact their [the bishops'] words and actions have on those they serve ... say something directly to him.
- “Good inspiration is based upon good information,” which “includes your own thoughts, feelings, and experiences.”
- “there’s no requirement for you to counsel with your bishop … if … trust isn’t earned … it’s okay to move on and seek other support”
- “you have the right to discern if … counsel is helpful”
- “be clear with yourself about your expectations of the bishop”
I have had overwhelmingly positive experiences with the many bishops I have encountered and with whom I have served, but I know people who have had negative ones as well, so I appreciate this informative article. Bishops are people, and every, single person born into this world has been imperfect, with one Exception. We grow because of and in spite of one another, bishops included. I am grateful that the atonement of our Savior ultimately applies to everyone, including bishops :)
David MohrMarch 29, 2023
I have just married after a seven year long distance relationship (Canada/Phillipines) yes there are things to work out now that we are together but it is a happy relationship we have.
Karell BinghamMarch 28, 2023
To me, this is how it should have read, considering translation problems:
You search the scriptures, for in them ye think ye have eternal life, and they are they which testify of me, but ye will not come to me that ye might have life!
MaryannMarch 27, 2023
People do NOT leave the church over doctrine or issues that bother them. They leave because they do not have a deep testimony that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is truly the Lord's church, directed by him. If they really believed that, issues that disturb them would be set aside because of their faith. We don't have the right to demand all the answers right now, or even to understand all things right now. The Lord has revealed to us that his thoughts and ways are higher than our's. Only He has all the facts. "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding." This is not blind obedience. It is trusting that the Lord reveals the truth to his servants who have been called to give us his word and to direct the church, as revealed by our Savior. It requires humility to dismiss doubt and to cleave to the Lord, by following the counsel of his Prophets and Apostles.
MaryannMarch 27, 2023
I am wondering if there is something missing in this man's request for help. He refers to "betrayed wives" and a "double life." I realize these terms are often (and correctly) used for substance abuse and covering it up.. However, I am wondering if there was also an issue of sexual infidelity. The wife's continued unyielding response would make more sense if this is the case. If so, that kind of betrayal takes a long time to heal. If not, I hope, in light of the man's recovery, she will be able to trust him again.
RozyMarch 27, 2023
I learned this on my mission (1979-80) from hearing a talk by Elder Marion D. Hanks. This truth has influenced my study of the scriptures and words of modern prophets ever since. It's so important to see how they are pointing us to the Savior!
Ruth MartinMarch 26, 2023
Over the years Nauvoo has been known by seven different names. Gideon, Quashquema, Venus, Commerce, Nauvoo, City of Joseph, Cornerstone of Zion.
RoxanneMarch 25, 2023
Hi I had watched three of your podcast on the bright and moving star finding and following Christ in the book of revelation. I can't seem to find the sight to continue. Can you help me with this. Thanks
RussMarch 25, 2023
Amazing! Thank you!
Irene BlackMarch 24, 2023
This article really touched me as I have just experienced losing a sweetheart of 55 years to a terrible disease. The savior is the answer to our grief. Maureen your gift is in touching others with your writing. Thank you!
Irene BlackMarch 24, 2023
One of the best articles ever on the atonement. You helped me understand why my husband had to suffer so much during his battle with Parkinson’s disease . You have helped me through the grief of his passing. Our Savior is the answer to our pain. Thank you Sister Procter. You have a gift to touch others through your words.
Brynly RichMarch 24, 2023
This is such an insightful article!! Thank you for providing such great suggestions to better apply those principles taught in For the Strength of Youth!
Jeanette Goates smithMarch 24, 2023
In that day they drank wine for safety’s sake. Water was often full of contaminants that would make one sick. The metaphors here are profound
JeddMarch 23, 2023
Great article!! Well written. The changes to the For the Strength of Youth program will not only help youth, but help their parents as well.
TamiMarch 23, 2023
Such a great article! I love the notebook(s) that you're referring to and I have purchased multiple copies of them! They were created by our friend, Becky Higgins. The notebooks are such good quality and are the perfect size to carry with you and jot down things on the go!
We farm for a living so your article really resonated with me as I have documented something very similarly in our personal modern-day family history.
Thank you for sharing your insight on "cultivating" :)
JeddMarch 23, 2023
Excellent! Love the article and explanations on the changes to the For the Strength of Youth.
Diane IrwinMarch 23, 2023
Ditto what Jim Thorley said!
Corey D.March 20, 2023
That's nice of course and to be expected because the church goes to great efforts to keep a positive public image and we should all do our part to conserve. Last year I tore out my park strip and tried to put as much of the yard as I could on drip but this idea and huge media campaign the last 6 months or so about saving the Great Salt Lake and if we don't it will be an ecological disaster is for the most part scare tactics. There is no data to back up these claims because its never happened before, the Great Salt Lake is the result of a natural disaster and the whole Wasatch Front is living on an old lake bed, we have had huge dust storms for years. It also doesn't take into account that both humans and nature adapt to change. There is some historical evidence that it has been this low before but mostly, especially for those of religious belief it leaves out the fact that ultimately all of this and particularly the weather is in God's hands.
Corey D.March 20, 2023
Just more evidence about the damage that pornography does and a necessary article and an important study, especially since there are those in the Counseling Profession, including some who are LDS and one well known former member therapist who are now saying that pornography isn't all that bad and in fact encourage the use of erotic material (code for porn) in relationships. A friend who was the police chief in our community for 25 yrs can tell you all about the damage and what pornography does to people that he has seen in his career.
MaryannMarch 20, 2023
It is difficult to see how this advice will help, when the Grandmother is already repeatedly reaching out and communicating love with no response from her daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law is using the power play of silence to try and control her mother-in-law. It is time to put the ball back in the daughter-in-law's court: "I love you all very much, and I am saddened by your choice not to communicate with me. I don't wish to cause you any pain, so I will honor your wishes and wait until you let me know you are ready to have a loving relationship." Then, wait.
Patricia Cerisano March 20, 2023March 20, 2023
Wonderful article. I love and appreciate our leaders even more and will always remember them in my prayers.
TreyeshuaMarch 20, 2023
Thank you for this amazing post. So true then, so true today.
CaroleMarch 19, 2023
So so beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing the thoughts and the exquisite song!
B. OlsenMarch 17, 2023
Those three wishes are wonderful but the first two can only be accomplished in a covenant relationship with God in and through the church. God loves us no matter what we do but reserves the blessings of covenantal love for those who are faithful. That is the part that will be missed by those who leave the church. Yes, thankfully there is yet time.
tfMarch 16, 2023
Ah, Stanford students: Free speech for everyone (except you)
MikeMarch 15, 2023
Brigham Young was an amazing prophet and leader. He led the church through very difficult times, and literally led the physical gathering of Israel in the last days. But as you point out, he was not perfect - no one is, not even prophets. This is why the principle of Councils is so important. Yes, President Nelson has started and led may changes over the past 5 years, but none of them would not have been implemented without 15 senior church leaders, from various backgrounds and experiences and opinions, UNANIMOUSLY AGREEING to the changes. Obviously Joseph Smith could not have followed this principle from 1820-1835 because there were no apostles. And even up to Brigham Young's time, due to physical separation and physical hardships, the 15 apostles couldn't or didn't regularly meet, it may not have been very formalized and consistent yet. So yes when Brigham Young stated some of these theories that we do not currently agree with, he was following his own opinion, not doctrine approved by 15 apostles. I personally believe the same thing happened with the priesthood restriction. I believe Brigham Young may have been overly influenced by the times and by racist and/or slaveholding members of the church, and political ambition, when he made his racist remarks, did not want blacks to have the right to vote in Utah, and started the priesthood restriction. We have no documentation that states the 15 apostles at the time agreed to the restriction. Perhaps they would have agreed and consented. But perhaps at least one or two or five of them would have quoted the book of Mormon about the gospel being for black and white, male and female, and the fact that Joseph Smith approved black men to receive the priesthood. And the motion might have been killed or tabled. We will never know, but it does make a strong point to how councils are wise and protective for everyone, whether you are a mom and dad leading a family, or the Lord's prophet leading His Church.
Rochelle HaleMarch 15, 2023
I played Geneopardy with my limited family tree. It was so much fun, especially since I got most of the answers correct.
Michael D. FryeMarch 15, 2023
I was amazed to find in your article today an illustration of a Mari Investiture panel from Old Babylon showing the purported goddess, Ishtar, with a lion under her foot. The illustration was striking, as just yesterday I came across a similar representation of 15th century A.D. Piers Gerard, Esq. standing on a very similar looking lion. Who could imagine such a coincidence, or might there be some medieval connection with the old Babylonian rite? (See: “The monumental Brasses of Lancashire and Cheshire,” by Thornely, James L, p.65. https://www.google.com/books/edition/A_Genealogical_and_Heraldic_History_of_t/LKIKAAAAYAAJ?q=&gbpv=1#f=false ).
Gary AndersonMarch 14, 2023
Wonderful article! Thanks for writing it!
John WMarch 14, 2023
I would add C. Terry Warner’s Bonds that Make Us Free
Joe CarlsonMarch 13, 2023
Thanks so much for your article i am in a situation that has driven me to some very Un Christ like behavior and have struggled to forgive and have unconditional Love!
Ann SiggardMarch 13, 2023
I love Sherri Holloman! We served together in China and she is one of God's brightest stars whom I have been privileged to know and love! She has been a light to me in my own trials! Her story is all of our stories! Faith to endure and faith in Jesus Christ and his miraculous Atonement!
Lisa ReisingMarch 13, 2023
This is an amazing article - really opens up temple symbols, connecting us to the past as well as highlighting the recent additions to our modern ceremony. God (and HIs Plan) is the same yesterday, today and forever. Thank you!!
a sister in zionMarch 12, 2023
I think the advice to try to grow closer to the mother is wise. She may simply need listening ear and voice of empathy to make it through her own experience as a mother. She also may need more help than others sense. For reasons still unclear to me, i have had multiple people nearby but at times no support for very rhavy burdens. One of my ministering teachers told me no when I finally reached out for help. Some women carry silent heavy burdens and wounds unseen. I personally have four autoimmune disease and struggle daily with my calling supporting my husband and caring for my family. Perhaps as you get to know her you will be inspired if you simply need to emotionally support her or advocate with you son and others if her needs are being unmet. You could also perhaps potentially provide physical assistance even thkgih you live far away. Arrange to read to the childrne when she need help or to do something they would interrupt, send s gift card with money for dinner, mail her paper plates cups napkins and disposable silverware with a note for dish duty after dinner. There are lots of ways to support young mothers and I am sure you will be inspired to find a way to reconnect.
R. JensenMarch 12, 2023
Where is the son in all this? Could he possibly explain to his mother why his wife is cutting off communication?
RobMarch 11, 2023
Really all we can do in these situations is to keep sending letters and texts of love. Eventually the grandchildren will want contact. I've seen this happen many times in my area with family and neighbors over the decades. The sad fact is once a person has realized they were too controlling... is because they face the same problem with their grown up children.
Mark W MinerMarch 10, 2023
Incredibly moving, thank you for sharing both of these stories. Forgiveness is truly the Atonement of Jesus Christ in action.
LewisMarch 10, 2023
This is an extraordinarily difficult principle to live, but you teach it so powerfully. I am grateful for the Savior’s example of forgiveness, and the serenity and peace associated with true forgiveness. We tend to hold on to our bitterness, even to the point where it begins to corrode our souls. If we can just see fit to let it go, I think we will find the peace and joy you speak of.
SMarch 10, 2023
Why is there absolutely no mention of this woman's son who is the father of those grandchildren? He's really allowing this to go on? As if he agrees that they should be calling the shots on where grandma lives? Ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous.
GTOMarch 10, 2023
Two heart-rending, life-changing stories. Thank you so much for sharing these with us. I feel overwhelmed by how these situations were turned around. Endowed with hope.
MMarch 10, 2023
Enlightening and thoughful.
WeezieMarch 10, 2023
I’ve always loved her! She has such a beautiful, tender, yet powerful style. She has been an influence on me in writing music too. I love how real she is. Going through a divorce must have been so hard. She’s my hero. My fav song she’s done besides this one (this is the Christ) was she put the music in me. I have a connection with her on that. My mom also put the music in me. Thanks for highlighting her!
KateMarch 10, 2023
This is excellent advise, and I hope that this woman can rebuild her relationship with her DIL, but it seems very curious that her son was barely mentioned.She's a DIL, not an ex-DIL, so one assumes the son is still a part of this family. It seems very odd that he goes along with this treatment of his mom (especially for the reasons indicated), and surely HE should be part of this renegotiation of this relationship. Either some very pertinent info has been left out of this question and answer, or we are left to think that the husband has no responsibility at all in this situation. Why does he get to be the silent partner?
Marcela StaceyMarch 10, 2023
Great article - thank you. One question: in the story where the young girl is in Africa, what would forgiveness have looked like if they only would have badly beaten her and hurt her, but not killed her. Would forgiveness require that she go back to risk possible further injury? The parents went back at risk of injury - should the girl have gone back too if she hadn’t died?
MMarch 7, 2023
Very interesting.
MMarch 7, 2023
Love this!
AnonymousMarch 7, 2023
Lovely. Thanks.
Myntillae NashMarch 7, 2023
Great!
Myntillae NashFebruary 14, 2023
This is great!
RussFebruary 4, 2023
So, so true! Thank you!
RussFebruary 4, 2023
Yes!! Thank you!
RussFebruary 4, 2023
Nice!! Thank you!
MaryannFebruary 3, 2023
What a beautiful way to honor your birth mother and also the sacrifice she made to place you in better circumstances than she could provide. While she is obviously not your "real" mother, she did give you life and cared enough to seek out the best life for you. That must have been a very joyful experience for you and I'm sure she will embrace you with thanks one day.
MaryannFebruary 3, 2023
How often we are instructed in the scriptures to "remember." Every one of us can choose to remember that the Lord loves us, and that we can fully TRUST him to grant our righteous desires when the time is right for us. We may feel frustrated, but we must never believe that he has forgotten us. The Lord ALWAYS keeps his promises. No blessings will be permanently denied if we sincerely seek to follow Him. In the meantime, there is great comfort in counting our blessings, building our relationships with family and friends, and serving. These things will help us keep a true perspective and bring us joy.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 3, 2023
I believe the Lord's miracles (including personal revelation and inspiration) are all around us. Too often, however, we find ourselves waiting for the "big" things. Several years ago I was assigned to minister to an elderly friend. I already knew her and her adult children with whom she lived, but she had suffered an impairment of some kind and I was deeply concerned about communicating with her. I telephoned and we had a delightful conversation. We could both clearly hear and understand one another. Just this week I had to have some old dental work re-done. The procedure with the endodontist was pretty trying, but when I went to my dentist for my final filling I was in and out of his office within fifteen minutes after a quick, no-numbing-required procedure. In both of these situations, so many prayers were answered.
LisaFebruary 3, 2023
My great-great grandparents, Charles Clark and Sarah Sloat Burr, were among the Brooklyn passengers, so I've grown up hearing the stories of these saints and am now telling them to my own children. The Burrs were one of the families who buried a child at sea during the early part of the voyage and John Atlantic Burr, mentioned in the article as being born on the ship, was their son. He has gained fame of his own as being the one whom the Burr Trail in the Grand Staircase Escalante of southwestern Utah is named for. Charles and Sarah were among the 1/3 of the Brooklyn saints who pressed on to Utah, eventually founding the town of Burrville in Sevier County, where my mother spent her childhood. My mother's maiden name is Burr.
Hockey MomFebruary 2, 2023
Hanks is a mental lightweight and dime store therapist. When affirmation is the basis of your therapy, you’re doing it wrong. The profession has gone off the rails taking this approach. And her inconsistent positions are the fruits of it.
MaryannFebruary 2, 2023
I was disappointed that this article didn't provide us with more specific ways that enabled people to overcame their depression.
BoBFebruary 1, 2023
The section "That's from God" makes a whole lot of things make sense. All those times I wonder, "why don't y'all understand this."
KCFebruary 1, 2023
Thank you so very much for helping me to see. So many times we expect the Spirit to "feel" a certain way while it's happening. Often, it's the process, like a bible story, of the eventual outcomes that we can look back on to see God's hand and Spirit in it all. Thank you for the reminders.
KathyFebruary 1, 2023
I always love your insightful articles. So inspirational and so uplifting. Thank you Anne!
Rochelle HaleJanuary 31, 2023
As we wait we should never hinder our progress. When I married at the very old age of almost 25, I thought I was way behind many of my friends and that I had, somehow, missed the boat. However, I reflected on what I had done prior to my wedding. I had gone to college, I had served a mission, I had traveled, and experienced other things. Again waiting came when motherhood was delayed, but I moved ahead as best I could "mothering" nieces and nephews and the children of friends, seeking the best medical care, and adoption or other resources to bring children into our home.
The Lord has many blessings in store for us, many much greater than we can hope for. Years ago, probably at a college devotional, we were counseled that it is ok to dream and maybe even buy a wedding dress, but don't get so stuck on what is not happening that we diminish the personal growth of our talents and testimonies, and opportunities to serve others.
LoraJanuary 31, 2023
Norman Vincent Peale counseled a wife whose husband was in a war zone to thank the Lord in advance for her husband's safe return. That is good counsel. We can thank the Lord for blessings not yet received. This reassures us that He's working on it. He's holding it in reserve. It helps us to be patient while we're waiting, and helps us to be grateful for the blessings that we do have now.
JoanJanuary 31, 2023
In referring to Sister Kapp,
you said she was "denied" motherhood in this life. She was not denied, she chose to wait, for her own reasons. She had freedom of choice. She certainly will be a wonderful Celestial mother.
I am a mother of four, grandmother of 14, and great-grandmother of 7, because after 5 years of "waiting", God placed our babies in our home through adoption.
They are sealed to us and are our own for eternity...depending on our righteousness, as is always the case.
Becky DouglasJanuary 30, 2023
I absolutely loved this insight into the story of Peter's call to be one of Jesus's Apostles. What a humbling thought for all of us to contemplate. Thank you!
AnnaJanuary 30, 2023
The law of sacrifice and consecration can be tested when our nets are full. However, I know people who accept church callings, because they have been told to “never say No”, and then do nothing to magnify that calling, not showing up to commitments, claiming no responsibility and making other excuses. There are times when the test is to be honest with the Lord, the Bishop, and ourselves and to let go of that calling rather than bring condemnation upon ourselves by not fulfilling the calling.
Marla SmakaJanuary 30, 2023
I never understand the need some adoptees have to search out a biological parent. I am an adoptee, as are all of my siblings. One day my brother, Scott, said he wanted to know if I could give him copies of pictures I have of him as a child growing up so he could share them with his sister. The absolute kick in the gut. Foolishly I assumed he felt I felt he and I were brother and sister. In his mind the women he was planning to meet was his sister. I gave him the pictures and he shared them with his birth sister. My brother is now deceased. At the end of the funeral a woman came to me and introduced herself as Scott's sister. To my knowledge, this woman had physically been my brother's presence one time. I am 14 years older than Scott. He came into our home when he was just two days of age. I was present in the Mesa Arizona Temple when Scott was sealed to our parents. Does anyone feel my pain? In the current time, it seems the accepted thing to do is gush with joy over adoptees seeking their biological families. The other accepted attitude is basically to say thanks for the relationship, but I need my real family. I advise my childless friends to adopt a cocker spaniel unless they have hearts of cast iron so they can face the moment when their loved one says they want to find their real family.
RachelJanuary 29, 2023
I bought an Alexa for my husband for his birthday so he could easily listen to his music (he is disabled). A couple of months ago, a friend came over with a new gadget to show my husband. We never looked online for any information regarding this gadget. It was only the conversation between my husband and his friend that contained any interest in the gadget. The next day in my FaceBook feed and Amazon advertisements, there were all kinds of testimonials and advertisements regarding this gadget. I'm convinced Alexa was listening to the conversation. Otherwise, why would this have happend?
Corey D.January 29, 2023
As scared as she is of being lonely or affecting the family she needs to divorce this guy and when any family members ask her why, she needs to concisely and honestly tell them why. He needs to be shown to the family what he really is, a serial adulterer, dishonest and a liar. A one time honest mistake with sincere repentance is a whole different thing than what this guy has done. No one can blame another for breaking their covenants. Being in a sexless or non-adventurous or non-affectionate marriage, which is what the comment by H North is implying does not justify infidelity or breaking ones covenants.
EmJanuary 29, 2023
I can understand that therapists like Dr. Hanks, when walking with someone one-on-one, may need to find ways to meet them where they are. I've experienced this in some of my ministering experiences. Each person's journey is unique, and since I believe God meets us where we are, I think we can model that in one-on-one situations.
But as the saying goes, God never leaves us where we are. And when it comes to public positions, I think the risk of doing harm by undermining doctrine and commandments is very real.
"Christlike love is the greatest need we have on this planet in part because righteousness was always supposed to accompany it. So if love is to be our watchword, as it must be, then by the word of Him who is love personified, we must forsake transgression and any hint of advocacy for it in others. Jesus clearly understood what many in our modern culture seem to forget: that there is a crucial difference between the commandment to forgive sin (which He had an infinite capacity to do) and the warning against condoning it (which He never ever did even once)." -Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
Don LJanuary 29, 2023
It's not news to learn we are living in the final days of the last days. If I were the adversary, I'd be blurring the lines between light and darkness, good and evil, truth and lies, and how we can safely navigate these perilous waters. Elder Boyd K. Packer once warned the youth that they are being raised in enemy territory, and it is no less true for each of us than it is for our youth.
My concern about Julie's podcasts and social media posts is that in her attempt to position herself as a helpful social counselor, she is part of the blurring that is taking place. The gray area in the middle of questions becomes enlarged and more murky. There are no moral absolutes.
I am not her judge and I do not know what is in her heart. I understand she is a popular speaker and social media presence. I'm sure she helps a lot of people with complex problems. But she cannot be both a mainstream secular counselor and a faithful spiritual one at the same time. And although I hope I'm wrong, it seems to me that she's trying to do exactly that.
MeaganJanuary 28, 2023
Very well done. Thank you! A few years ago I started following her Instagram account, but it ended shortly after because I quickly realized it was not a place for me to grow as a disciple of Christ. Her posts just left me with very negative feelings. I officially unfollowed her when she said the Family Proclamation wasn't doctrine, when it clearly is.
CassidyJanuary 28, 2023
As a convert of just over 5 years, coming from a non-religious family, Dr Hanks has made me feel truly seen in dealing with more complicated issues of faith, culture and family that I have not been able to get from a typical religious-background family that is most often found in bishops and church leadership. I have wondered often if I truly do fit in with the church, but when I see a community such as Dr Hanks, I realize that humans are beautifully and deeply complex, and feeling less alone on the edges of the church has helped me to stay. If you cannot relate, you simply CANNOT RELATE and that is the whole point. There are different people with different backgrounds and they all should have a place in the lords church.
My question to these authors is, if you have never had experience or wrestling with many of these issues presented, do you realize that criticizing and disregarding or discouraging these things will actually nudge more people AWAY from the church? Do you realize that marginalized members are being saved by this more open minded, nuanced thinking? When I see this article, it again makes me wonder if I’m truly not as welcome as I’d hoped. And perhaps I do need to find a place that my whole self, nuance and complicated background and all, can feel I have a space.
Dr Hanks is creating a safety net for people who need one. If you are asking her to cut the net, you will lose cherished brothers and sisters in this church. I hope you can ponder and pray and find the softness in your heart for these kinds of members, members like myself.
CherieJanuary 28, 2023
It’s really so bizarre to ask questions to Julie and then answer all of them yourselves. It’s pretty revealing that you never meant to listen to her responses if she had agreed to be interviewed. So many of her critics want her to be a church leader instead of a therapist. The whole mid section of your article was disparaging psychologists as having ulterior motives. But it’s actually very dangerous to tell people that therapists are all suspicious and that you can only trust your bishop. Some people genuinely need mental health services and if your bishop is a farmer or an accountant, he’s not going to be of much help with mental health issues no matter how much priesthood he holds.
I’ve actually seen pretty neutral responses from Julie when people try to get “permission” from her to do something contrary to church commandments. (Not something she claims any authority to grant to people) One time a person asked her about whether or not drinking coffee is a big deal. She simply answered that the word of wisdom is on the temple recommend interview and you won’t be able to get a recommend if you drink coffee. The person had to choose for themselves what to do next. That’s classic therapist.
If you want her to dictate to people exactly what to do in every situation, a bishop might do that, but it is not how a therapist would work.
The questions you’ve asked her are all ones she has answered repeatedly in several different settings. Again, it seems pretty odd, and misleading to publish this as a conversation with her when it is clearly just a chance for you to use her name and photo(!) to pontificate your own views. For example, if you believe women should only aspire to be mothers and not seek out any other work outside the home unless it’s an emergency, just say it instead of shuffling around some strange pseudo question to Julie that she isn’t even here to answer. I was surprised to see such a weird hit piece like this on Meridian.
HuguetteJanuary 28, 2023
I love Julie Hanks and the work she is doing on internet ! She helped me feel less alone in my views and understanding of church related issues and has played an important role in the fact that I feel there is a place for me in this church. It seems to me that the people who wrote this article are also very biased even though they write that their questions are just " sincere questions", you can easily see their own opinions and despite the efforts they are making to look "nuanced" they really seem annoyed by what Julie Hanks is doing and saying. It doesn't seem that they have understood the messages Julie Hanks is trying to convey, which are deep and based on psychological knowledge of the human mind. To me her work shows great respect, understanding and trust for people. She helps people connect with God and value this aspect more than the relationship we Can have with an imperfect institution and with imperfect leaders. What a blessing it is, it helped me reinforce my personal relationship with God and pushed me to connect more with the divine. Overall I feel a better disciple of Christ, a more loving and compassionate person. Isn't it what it's all about ?
Judy PetersonJanuary 28, 2023
This is an excellent article which gives hope. However, I assumed there would be some hint as to what people have done to permanently overcome their depression. This was a teaser without anything that could really help me or give me direction towards healing. Is that coming after years of addition research? It was hollow hope for me.
KristynnJanuary 28, 2023
Such a well written article and one that is informative.
EricaJanuary 28, 2023
These points are very needed. Thank you for putting this together.
RebeccaJanuary 28, 2023
Thank you, thank you, thank you for addressing this. It's just a bonus that you did so in a very thoughtful and sensitive manner. Now I have something to share with friends and family that fully explains the concerns I have had over her ideology.
JulieJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you!!
AnneJanuary 27, 2023
Excellent article. Thank you for doing your homework and asking questions that require answers and discussion. Julie has a huge following and it’s too bad she wouldn’t weigh in on these questions herself.
EveJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Marie RJanuary 27, 2023
I'm not sure you are adequately addressing the membership of the church as a whole. There are members on a wide spectrum. The idea seems to be posed that following one's personal internal thoughts and feelings about what is best for them and their life is wrong, and I see that causing more harm on member's mental health than good. Just a different perspective. There's a place for everyone in the world and we're all children of God with unique needs and life maps.
BobJanuary 27, 2023
My, my, my said the spider to the fly. . .
Thanks for the needed, probing, considerate, spot-on discussion.
Karell BinghamJanuary 27, 2023
I love that whenever God the Father introduces His son, he says, "This is my BELOVED SON!" Not this is my Son. My BELOVED SON! How the Father must love this being that sacrificed so much for the rest of his children. He is indeed Beloved!
CindyJanuary 27, 2023
H North's comment is disgusting! Don't blame the victim. Even if his statement were true, lack of affection, or anything else a wife may or may not do, does not give a husband the right to cheat nor excuse his behavior. There are many ways to handle an unhappy marriage and cheating is never ok.
KateJanuary 27, 2023
Oh my, H North's answer is the classic spiel of an adulterer--it's always the wife's fault: "I couldn't help myself, you weren't meeting my needs!" What a bunch of self-serving baloney. I wonder if he (and i'm 99% sure H. North is a he) is aware of how clearly and obviously he outed himself? I sincerely hope there is not still a MRS. H North. Yikes.
DianeJanuary 27, 2023
I'd love for Julie Hanks to explain her pro-abortion stance
S. HillJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you to Meridian Magazine for publishing such an important and needful article and for whomever took time to transcribe all of these Instagram or Podcast videos. It's extremely useful to see exact quotes. Every bishop, stake president and stake and ward RS/YW/Primary presiency needs to read this article.
Shelley RhoadsJanuary 27, 2023
Loved the article and how it balances views on many important aspects of Julie’s social topics. I’ve often felt there are more nuances to the issues being discussed than Julie powerfully asserts.
When people are struggling with these important values & decisions, it’s human nature (natural man) to want someone who is credentialed and socially supported to advocate for the inclined path of the individual(s) facing that challenge.
As a Church member, I know I came to earth to be tested in many ways, to choose the sometimes less inclined path, at times to be offended, to be judged & scorned as I am offered the opportunity to choose repeatedly to validate my faith and develop my divine greater self.
I value that Julie brings hard topics about faith, sociality and the church for open discussion. I’ve often wondered about her testimony and commitment to gather Israel as we covenant to contribute to. At times I feel her over validation (as you put it) of one viewpoint thoroughly & drastically omits the various other viewpoints - especially for individuals who are not only developing their faith, but also their intellect and emotional maturity. The boundaries topic is an excellent example of this. I’ve seen & heard individuals leverage this as a way to avoid important discussions that should remain open within family or other valued relationships (sans abuse or coercion). There are ways to set boundaries around how we talk about topics versus if we talk about them at all. I’ve often thought Julie (perhaps inadvertently) usurps parental and other roles to eliminate the various influence options individuals can have at their disposal to exercise their agency in making personal decisions and choices.
Thanks for asking some hard questions.
Kerry FarrJanuary 27, 2023
GREAT article. Thank you!
Nina EJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you for this. As a former YW President, I had followed Dr. Hanks, but started feeling uncomfortable with the things she was posting. Your questions to her and explanations are valid and worth asking.
Marilyn HaddJanuary 27, 2023
What an awesome insightful response to a most painful question. Bless you, dear sister. Heal.
Ann-Marie JensenJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you for this thought-provoking article. I especially appreciate your kind approach to asking excellent and vital questions and for sharing your own thoughts in a positive way.
JulieJanuary 26, 2023
By virtue of His moral life, as well as the Atonement which he wrought at its end, he was able to know how to succor us
I just wonder if this sentence has a meaning for moral life over mortal life?
Kerry FarrJanuary 26, 2023
Such good thoughts! I have been telling grands how amazing they are. Now I see it differently.
They are receiving Heavenly help.
Praise belongs to God !
LynnJanuary 26, 2023
Alexa helps with everyday tasks. Turns on or off lights without getting out of bed, Turns on/off fans and opens/closes my driveway gate. Reads me daily verses from the Book of Mormon every morning, completing it every year. (done it for several years now). Gives me a "Flash Briefing" weather and national news from CNN, FOX and Public Broadcast Radio while I'm getting dressed and shaving. Indispensable!
LexaGraemeJanuary 26, 2023
Thank you, Brother Hess. Thank you to those who have opened up and shared their experiences. My heart alternately wept and soared.
LexaGraemeJanuary 26, 2023
Thank you.
Mimi WJanuary 25, 2023
A brilliant analogy. We must first learn obedience in order to progress. Thank you so much Kimberly for making the connection and sharing the wisdom you learned.
JJJanuary 25, 2023
I think ministering can be important, but we also need to do better about respecting peoples boundaries and not visiting if they don't want us to do so. I've heard numerous talks where the speaker shares a story about how they continued to visit someone who clearly wasn't interested and didn't want them there. Its always framed as being a feel good story, (like they should be patted on the back for repeatedly ignoring this persons wishes), but its really not! It always makes me cringe. Showing up at someone's house when they don't want you to is actually really inconsiderate. If someone asks you not to visit or says they are too busy, LISTEN to them and respect that! Otherwise you will just irritate and drive them away. We are all different and have different needs.
MaryannJanuary 25, 2023
I don't believe I could ever make it back home to my Heavenly Father without the support of the Church, Prophets, Seers, and Revelators, and my ward family. The church and the temple are a refuge from the world, and we are enabled with power from Jesus Christ through our covenants to overcome our weaknesses and the storms of life. We cannot do it alone.
MaryannJanuary 25, 2023
Great analogy. There are people who have been seriously injured or even lost their lives because someone did not train their aggressive dogs. We, too, can suffer spiritual injury or even lose an exalted, Eternal Life if we do not submit to the Savior reigning us in.
MaryannJanuary 25, 2023
I can't wait to get Alexa. I am not worrying about somone discovering my secrets. I certainly won't be discussing account numbers, etc. AND--you can always turn her off.
Diane IrwinJanuary 25, 2023
I totally agree! Too creepy.
CynthiaCJanuary 25, 2023
Amazing and thoughtful analogy to our life experience!
AnonymousJanuary 25, 2023
I was at a friend's house who had recently bought a couple Alexas for the house. A few minutes after I arrived, another friend arrived. She came in exuberant and laughing and the Alexa immediately says "I love when (name of the friend) comes so I can record her laughing". It was insanely creepy and we asked if somebody from another room had told the Alexa to say it, but they said they didn't.
Sally SmithJanuary 25, 2023
WOW. What a comparison. There are times when I felt the Lord wasn't listening or I didn't deserve a blessing.
This article gives me a whole new understanding.
I will not complain.
Donald CyrJanuary 25, 2023
So many thoughts can be said and written with an infinite use of words and arrangements like music and songs for the enchantment of our whole soul's... I really appreciate this inspiring idea and comparison about "Breed ", responsibilities and patience that are required : to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man. (Moses 1:39)
Paul HJanuary 21, 2023
Here's two more witnesses:
Paul (See I Corinthians 15 as he lists several others bedides himself)
Joseph Smith's account of the First Vision
Boanerges RubalcavaJanuary 21, 2023
Although I enjoyed discussion like this, and it is important all the data shown, to tell us if the Jesus of Nazareth is the Christ, what anybody really wanting to know it, just follow the admonition from James: "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed."
Jennifer ChurchillJanuary 20, 2023
Thank you for such a well-thought-out and laid-out article. I was intrigued from beginning to end. I have not reached a conclusion yet on Legend. While it is true, I am not sure that I want to throw Christ out with the like of Marvel Legends and Heroes. That is my drawback and such a modern one at that. For if you take it in the context that you have given it really is not an issue. Thus, why I have no conclusion currently.
HelenCJanuary 20, 2023
Wow, wow and WOW! Thank you, Dr. Peterson, for such confident illumination! I’m keeping this article for future reference.
DavidDJanuary 20, 2023
"Jesus and the Dead Sea Scrolls" (John Bergsma 2019) is an extremely interesting and well-documented book in which the non-LDS author argues convincingly that recent analysis of the Dead Sea Scrolls -- written contemporaneously with the life of Christ -- undermines the argument that the Gospel of John was written long after Christ's ministry.
Julie MajorJanuary 18, 2023
I appreciated your willingness to share the struggles you have experienced with ministering. As a RS president, my sisters will often share with me similar struggles with ministering. But I have truly learned the importance and blessing of ministering. Thank you for this story!
CynthiaJanuary 17, 2023
I LOVED this article. I am preparing a talk for this Sunday and have felt prompted to speak about ministering. This popped up in my in box today and it was perfect to complement my message. Thanks so very much for your message. I also leaned the importance of ministering aka visiting teaching years ago when I was serving as the Relief Society president. I knew the bishop couldn't possibly keep up with everyone in the ward and I calculated that between visiting teachers and home teachers there were many who would be available to help any one family. It was a real eye opener. Such a gift to members of the church to have this blessing in our lives.
Lee HillJanuary 17, 2023
Wonderful article, thank you!! I just got a new ministering companion who is young enough to be my son. He is inexperienced and I am physically handicapped, but together we have had some wonderful experiences with the families we minister to. Just like missionary work, consistently praying and seeking for inspiration has been critical in our ministering service.
Arne HedbergJanuary 17, 2023
Very insightsfull and helpful. It inspires me in my duties. Your words also makes me thankful that there are people like you who respond to the Spirit in challenging matters. Thank you!
Becca HowardJanuary 17, 2023
No matter what you call it, I have a very difficult time ministering by assignment. I am so much better at being spontaneous, for example taking a meal to a friend who posts on social media that she is overwhelmed with her children’s activities, or calling or sending a note to someone who is ill. My partner and her husband are the “ministering couple” to two or three of my assigned sisters, so these ladies are mostly off my radar, while I spend quite a bit of time helping a sister and neighbor who is disabled. Though I do a lot I still feel guilty for all that I don’t do or could be doing for those to whom I am assigned.
Kay RookhuyzenJanuary 16, 2023
My brother instructed us docremation due to his size and it was a blessing.
KCJanuary 15, 2023
Thank you! Love this perspective.
One minute little change I would make, that is just "semantics". I would change the "Why? Because They want us to have what They have." to "be". Too many of us mortals want our children to "have" stuff or opportunities or lifestyles. If we're honest, we really want them to "be" more like the best parts of ourselves and the things we also aspire to. Having means you can also have not. Being is something that becomes a part of you never to be taken away.
Becky S.January 15, 2023
That was long, but worth the read, in fact it kept getting better each new point that was made. The eternal perspective and staying on a covenant path really does help us understand Gods love and will for all mankind.
Richard EyreJanuary 14, 2023
Several have asked for discussion questions for this article so that it can be discussed in study groups or book clubs. So I am providing those below. Also, I would welcome your comments directly to me since I know that this is a sensitive subject and you may not wish to comment publicly on Meridian. You are welcome to email me at [email protected] (this is the most private email that I have.)
Discussion questions:
1. Does your current perception of what the Church is match better with Paradigm 1 or with Paradigm 2.
2. Do you agree that one who views the Church as a "means" rather than an "end" would be less susceptable to faith crisis?
3. Does thinking of the Church as a "means" rather than ad "end" raise or lower the importance of the Church in your mind?
4. Did you find yourself in agreement with the bullet points about what the Paradigm 2 causes both within our minds and within the Church?
5. Was the article helpful in better understanding the relationship between families and the Church?
Please send any other questions or comments to me at the email at the top of this message.
Thans for reading, and thinking, and perhaps commenting, Best, Richard Eyre
Amy PetersenJanuary 14, 2023
I would love and appreciate an article that doesn’t assume that the “staying” family member isn’t still striving to love and accept, despite the very real heartache and pain of another “walking”away. An article that validates that very deep sorrow in the present. Yes ultimately all things will work for good in God’s great Covenant plan and Love, but it is incredibly difficult to deal with unkindness, hurt, and angry accusations from the family members who “walk no more with” the words of eternal life. Who feel it’s ok to persecute and mock the believer. I’d be so grateful for help on this because it happens. Yes be loving and patient and listen thoughtfully to those who leave, but some who leave are at least unkind, at most verbally and emotionally abusive. It’s no easy thing to “just love them”and deal with this for so many. I see many articles about loving those who leave, few about the very real pain for those who stay. Sometimes that feels painfully invalidating.
Dave MyersJanuary 13, 2023
Thank you for this! A really helpful way to see the evolving circumstances of not just family members, but also dear friends. A companion paradigm that has helped me is the realization that it's not my job to try to 'fix' things because that usually makes things worse. My job is to love, without judging.
Maureen GaleJanuary 13, 2023
The Eyres can always be counted on for a fresh, enlightening viewpoint that explains, enriches, and is timeless in it's perspective.
MaryannJanuary 12, 2023
Brother Goddard--I love your suggestion of validating the feelings of each child and then asking compassionate questions to help our children think about what the other person wants or is feeling. Blaming only makes everyone defensive and strengthens the barriers that already exist. Helping our children to learn to get along by inviting them to take an active part in solving their differences is a golden key. Sometimes we are too quick to deal out punishment, rather than to use these situations as learning experiences.
MaryannJanuary 12, 2023
All of us have a need for words and gestures of love and reassurance. However, if we are in constant need of reassurance because we don't love ourselves, or because of deep insecurities, there may be other issues we need to address. Our spouses will become drained very quickly if they are the only source we have for feeling good about ourselves. We each need to gain a sense of our own self-worth. Understanding our relationship to our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ, is a giant step in that direction. If we often feel anxious about our worth and need constant reassurance from others, a good therapist can help.
MaryannJanuary 12, 2023
Yes! AND--loving "humanity" begins at home. Running around to political rallies or screaming our heads off on social media will never even approach the importance of loving, being kind to, and serving the people living right under our own roof, or in our neighborhoods. It seems to me that some people measure their "goodness" by how angry they are about their pet issues. We need to refocus on what is really important in life.
Randal GibbJanuary 12, 2023
Dear Steve, Thank you for sharing this Mental Health Minute! I have been blessed by many of them in our shared service in Africa! God bless you!
Earl ParksJanuary 12, 2023
Lots of depth. Well done.
ShaunaJanuary 12, 2023
Excellent article, thank you. It reminds me of why it's so important to have relationships, ideally in a family setting, where all our ideals meet reality. It is another of Satan's ploys to suggest that the most important lessons of life can be learned another way.i.e. by becoming an activist, or just having a group of friends instead of marrying, and getting a dog or pet instead of having children. None of these things are bad in and of themselves, but they are a poor substitute for forming a family
SageJanuary 12, 2023
Thanks for this insightful article. You reminded me why The Brothers Karamazov is one of my favorite books.
Charles McClellandJanuary 12, 2023
Excellent and very timely article.
Corey D.January 11, 2023
It's all summed up in that great revelation we know as Hymn 195 "How Great the Wisdom and the Love", verse 3, " by "strict obedience Jesus won", something really hard for most of us, at least it is for me. In today's world the word strict more often than not is seen as negative but so important.
Kay RookhuyzenJanuary 11, 2023
SO TRUE!!! A wonder narrative about an important principle.
DaveJanuary 11, 2023
Excellent article. Motivated by King Benjamin, I decided as a young father to also implement a zero tolerance for contention with our children. My technique for handling quarrels was to put both children on chairs in the middle of the living room and tell them they had to stay there until they came up with a solution to their problem that was satisfactory to each child. It worked magic. But, a word of caution - for this technique to be successful, you have to have a reputation with your children that they know you absolutely mean what you say, otherwise they will wait you out until you give up and let them go without solving the problem.
ShaunaJanuary 11, 2023
Terrific. what a great example of personal scripture study using a specific focus or lens. This method can yield great fruit. I love your focus on Lehi and Sariah and their family, including the rarely mentioned sisters. Truly this study yields clues as to how we can be more faithful and "steadfast," which is the word I studied in my personal scritpure study today:)
RebeccaJanuary 10, 2023
Yes, it's possible to have a *mostly* conflict-free home. I've found it begins with an adjustment in mindset on the part of parents. Many parents feel conflict between siblings is inevitable and unavoidable. High expectations and consistent follow through, along with thoughtful teaching, bears fruit eventually.
FrankJanuary 10, 2023
I was married for over 30 years when I became a widower. After a bit I remarried, and my new wife asked me to write my autobiography so that she would have a better idea of what the 55+ years before I met her were like. She suggested that I make a file for each year of my life and write a bit about my memories of each year. When I remembered something, I wrote a few paragraphs about that event and filed it by date. A bit at a time, memory by memory I succeeded in preparing a book of a little over 300 pages. Arranging to have it printed at a vanity press was easy, and it took care of Christmas presents for the year.
AnonymousJanuary 10, 2023
I really enjoyed this podcast and it was exactly what I needed to hear after a few hard years. In the past few years I have wondered if God was there or if He had forgotten about me. Hearing the honesty and rawness of emotion in this podcast reminded me that sometimes you just have to keep pushing through dark times to understand the meaning behind it. Thanks for sharing Becky!
TimJanuary 10, 2023
Thanks for this wonderful article. For me death is nothing to be afraid of. I am grateful that I know the plan of salvation. I know what waits for me behind the veil. So I am not afraid of death.
But I am very afraid of dying. I refer to the process of going from life to death. I am afraid of the physical challenges. The fear. The pain and everything that is associated with death on the physical level. So there is indeed a big difference between being afraid of death and being afraid of dying.
Boanerges RubalcavaJanuary 10, 2023
No, he was not joking, He was right, he was not saying "zero tolerance" (although that also should be a parental teaching) but teaching the right things to do or not to do, and then proceed to help the children. If we follow your approach (judging you as you judged King Benjamin) then our children interpretation would be that they can do whatever they want, and then no other help will reach them and we will have what is happening in this hedonistic world where everything is valid and this brings the unfortunately thought of Today and bring the consequences that evil is good and good is evil.
George PembertonJanuary 10, 2023
Thirty years ago we wrote two unpublished volumes entitled "Peaceful Parenting" that fully addressed this subject. We ended up giving each of our eleven children the two for Christmas. Vol. 1: Peaceful Parenting, the Way God Probably Intended It. Vol. 2: Peaceful Parenting Resources. All was based on Scripture and statements of latter-day prophets as we two parents tried to apply "correct principles" with our children.
LoraJanuary 10, 2023
I have often used this quote (reading it from The Book of Mormon) to my sons and visiting grandchildren. ("Do you want to serve the devil?") I often reminded them that "Grandma's house is the happiest place on earth! Now get happy!' When my sons were little and fighting, I didn't ask "who", I just knew "what". I sent them each to a separate corner and they couldn't come out until the other one set them free. Peace restored. As for balls inside the house, that was forbidden. Balls are for outside, which can prevent plenty of conflict, not to mention breaking things. I've heard of fathers quoting the section about "not suffering your children to go naked" to daughters who wished to be scantily clad.
Marsha LangJanuary 6, 2023
My sister and I had an "angel" experience shortly after I joined the church.He actually rode in the car with us.
Kayleen A HunsakerJanuary 4, 2023
Thank you for this Podcast with Roger Connors.
I try to read scriptures & uplifting talks & other things every day.
My sweet husband of 36 years died in June of 2022 & staying close to the spirit & attending the Temple every week, gives me joy in the journey.
The comment about God being in the details of our lives [even though I know that] has inspired me one more day!
John H. BurtgonJanuary 4, 2023
Pres. Connors was my Stake Pres. and I had the privilege of working with him. I remember one night I was in my office and feeling quite distressed over matters when he came walking by and stopped and asked if I needed a blessing? He gave me one and then went on his way. It was just what I needed at the time and I am so grateful for the blessing of the Lord through His servants
Diane IrwinJanuary 4, 2023
I have truly enjoyed this episode! It has increased my testimony that God is in the details. Thank you for all you do!
LoraJanuary 4, 2023
There's a reason why we women speak like this. With other women, if we make a direct statement about what we want, we are seen as offensive and demanding. We learn to drop hints in order to get along with our mothers and other girls. As a wife, and the mother of three sons, I finally realized that dropping hints is too confusing. I learned to be more clear and direct. This habit has gotten me into trouble with other women, but at least I'm getting along better with the men in my life. (Saw an example at church. Sister: "Is there a wastebasket near you?" Brother: "Yes." Every woman there knew that she wanted him to hand her the wastebasket so she could throw something away. He answered the question he was asked.)
Ron BarnesJanuary 4, 2023
My wife used to do that, and it drove me crazy. For example, she would never ask me to mow the lawn. She would say that if I wanted to mow the lawn, she would help. Several times I told her that, if she wanted something, to say so instead of asking me if I wanted it. Instead of doing that, she just started doing what she wanted without asking me. She was an impulse buyer, so that created some minor problems, but nothing major.
Ann SiggardJanuary 3, 2023
Roger Connors was our Stake President in Murrieta, CA. When my son was sent home from his mission due to depression (in 2000, he was out 5 months), I will never forget what he said to him a he was released: ":You have completed a faithful mission ( he baptized a family there) and you are honorably released. That statement changed my son's heart and gave him hope after such discouragement of thinking he had failed his mission. Thank you, President Connors.
LoriJanuary 3, 2023
Hi. I am interested in this podcast however, I am deaf and prefer a transcript of this please. I am sure there are many hard of hearing and deaf people wanting to read it also. Let me know when you post the transcript.
Shelley S.January 3, 2023
Will this become available on Apple Podcasts?
Scot ProctorJanuary 3, 2023
Debrah, This is a new podcast which is in addition to the Come Follow Me podcast we do. We will continue to do Come Follow Me each week and have the How I Know podcast as well to strengthen faith and inspire our readers. Blessings.
DebrahJanuary 3, 2023
I think I answered my own question. I just found this week’s podcast. The holidays were ery. Busy for this grandma and I had no time for anything but grandkids and more grandkids. I did not even look for the podcasts, ,barely got the church lessons in. Time to join the world again!
DebrahJanuary 3, 2023
Will this replace your weekly Come Follow Me Podcasts?
Robert David StarlingDecember 30, 2022
WOW! Thanks VERY much for this list. It's great to see what interests other readers the most, and I'd missed a number of these great articles that I can now go back and read.
JuliannDecember 30, 2022
Thank you for sharing your Christmas journey and helping me reflect on daily blessings. Good job with adjusting your expectations and making the most of a very frustrating adventure.
Michele SundstromDecember 27, 2022
Loved this peek into the church in Croatia! We were a part of this trip and felt it a privilege to meet these faithful saints. What an incredible example of dedication and faith. Highly recommend this trip! Cruising along the Croatian coast and exploring her islands brought many unanticipated delights! It was the adventure of a lifetime!
Diane IrwinDecember 27, 2022
Scot, my heart ached as I read such a powerful, personal story. The atonement is real. I am so grateful for your testimony, and sharing it with the world.
Tracy TippettsDecember 25, 2022
Today is Christmas day. I am in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. Yesterday I read the story about the terrible accident while rafting the river in Idaho. Today I read the story about fire on the farm. Both stories very dramatic and powerful, with inspiring spiritual message.
I had a similar experience with a forest fire in San Diego, California in 1989. I was in the hospital recovering from a recent motorcycle accident, when the Elders Quorum president called to inform me that a large fire swept through the area where my home was located, and it was gone! I thought of my two dogs that were there. My two cars. All my clothes and belongings. The fire consumed 400 acres. It burned the poles that were supporting power lines.
It was a painful night in the hospital, thinking about all that I had lost. The next day the president called back to say that my house was spared. My dogs were safe and alive. My cars were covered with chemical fire retardant dropped from the aerial tankers that flew overhead. The agony and then relief from escaping a very unpleasant outcome.
I was impressed that your father took time to say a family prayer, in the middle of such an urgent crisis and panic situation, and then the resulting miracle that followed. It obviously made a profound impression and experience to an eight-year-old boy! Thank you for sharing it. I will now forward the Spanish translation to 30 members of the Church here.
Harold RustDecember 24, 2022
Having experienced several harrowing moments while rafting, I deeply felt the emotion and anguish and...deliverance from this personal story. Thanks, Scot, for sharing such a powerful reminder of what really matters.
Rochelle HaleDecember 23, 2022
I served back in the dark ages when we could not call home or get packages because of sketchy mail service. When our youngest son served we learned that some missionaries never receive gifts from home because their parents are not supportive or because they can’t afford it, so we always sent extra things for our son’s companions. In our mission we have contributed when missionaries won’t be getting packages from home (somehow the mission president knows), we have contributed gently used clothing to the mission office rather than donating to charities, and we always fill a stocking for our ward missionaries who visit or share a meal with us on Christmas Eve. When I write to missionaries I tell them to forget the traditions of home and what they may be missing. They should make memories with the Christmas or two ( and birthdays or other occasions) that they are away. They may learn some new traditions or eat foods that they want to incorporate into their own families someday.0
David DDecember 22, 2022
For those who have had "bad" surprises that never (at least on earth) seem to evolve into "good" surprises, the heavenly explanation may be a tough one to accept.
JamesDecember 22, 2022
Thanx for your service and caring. And thanks for sharing your testimony in what must be a life caring, sacrifice and loneliness. May your hours, days and weeks grow your soul and sustain your service.
Ed RehderDecember 21, 2022
Thank you, a wonderful story, a sacred event.
Dave HansenDecember 21, 2022
Since they've become *woke* in the recent past, I've stopped watching Hallmark altogether. Instead, I've found Great American Family (GAF) to be more to my liking.
Robyn JensenDecember 20, 2022
I looked up my district's SEL policy. What a load of BS--nice sounding words with very little meaning. When they started talking about equity is when the alarm bells started ringing. I do not understand how a district in the lowest quintile in a state near the bottom in terms or student accomplishment can spend time, money and resources on such drivel.
Becca HowardDecember 20, 2022
I'm a combination viewer and look forward to new films all year, not just during the holidays. Some storylines are very predictable, yet some catch glimpses of other well-known films, and it's fun to see the new interpretations using familiar quotes or even music. I do have some concerns about films that may be less friendly to all families. If a questionable character is a neighbor or best friend and not a major character, then I am not as concerned (I have them in my circle as well), but when a non-traditional family is not the focus, I tend to not watch.
MaryannDecember 20, 2022
I love the Hallmark Christmas movies because they are a light in the often dark world of media. They are simple in a world that is complicated. They are sweet in a world that is sometimes bitter. They teach that people really can have happy relationships, despite some bumps in the road. They focus on family unity. They often portray characters who are willing to put someone else before themselves. What more could we ask for?
DaleDecember 20, 2022
I am not pleased when they add LGBTQ relationships into the shows. It ruins family values.
James ScottDecember 20, 2022
It seems those in education go to great lengths to keep curricula confidential, that “they know how to instruct the kids but don’t want parental intrusion. Yet there so many that don’t come away knowing how to read or do simple arithmetic.
CarolynDecember 16, 2022
What a wonderful memory. It made me tear up, thinking of those kind, thoughtful people who treated you like family.
HelenCDecember 16, 2022
So much love. Thank you.
KathyDecember 16, 2022
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story.
Dave HansenDecember 14, 2022
I found this to be a compelling story of how we need to love all of our brothers & sisters, even though we may disagree with their decisions in life.
CrystalDecember 14, 2022
Thank you for this. One of the best you have done in a while. So wonderfully said!
GwendolynDecember 12, 2022
Thank you for this wonderful message. During our studies on this lesson, we looked for a Book of Mormon scripture to round out our understanding of holiness and came across a fascinating one in 2 Nephi 2:11 where Lehi places holiness in polarity to misery: “For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so…righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad.” Truly holiness is happiness.
WallyDecember 12, 2022
Beautiful and inspiring!
DebrahDecember 12, 2022
Thanks for sharing. That was amazing, and yet so much typical of the Lord.
HelenCDecember 12, 2022
Once again I receive what I need to hear. I’m Kevin’s to visit my disabled sister in England for the first time in years and everything send to be visiting against my going. My husband is violently ill and my daughter’s flight home was canceled yesterday so she has to find another way home to get to work and take care of her dog before her stepfather is well enough to leave town for his job. He has told me to go, anyway. This article is reminding me of the protection I am entitled to for my entire non-member and less active family because my 10%covers them all.
Thank you.
Juan CandiaDecember 12, 2022
Por qué no está la transcripción?,hace mucha falta ,por favor . Gracias
MaryannDecember 12, 2022
I am 71 years old and have been blessed with many callings and opportunities to serve in the church. Above all else, seeking out my ancestors and doing their temple work has been one of the most satisfying and spiritual experiences of my life. There is just nothing like it! The more I go to the temple, the more I want to go. I am so grateful that the Lord has given us this marvelous work to do. It is both humbling and exalting to be a part of such a glorious work. If you have been apprehensive or fearful about getting involved, visit your Family History Center. The workers there will help you so much! Remember that you are not alone, and you CAN learn how to do this work and to rejoice in it.
MaryannDecember 12, 2022
I am so grateful to be engaged in the holy work of the temple by seeking out my dead and performing their ordinances vicariously. What a blessing to have this marvelous opportunity to serve the Lord and to love His children. My experience has been that the more I attend the temple and seek for greater knowledge regarding the temple experience, the more I love the temple and understand the purposes of these holy ordinances. I have grown in my understanding that we are truly endowed with power in the Lord's holy house that will enable us to become a holier people.
MaryannDecember 12, 2022
When I am asked to do something I'm not sure I want to do, I find it really helps to say, "I need to call you back this afternoon," or "I'll get back to you about this tomorrow." Then I have time to make a decision without feeling pressured. If it is something I KNOW is not going to work for me, it's better just to say no at the outset, rather than deal with the stress of procrastinating my "no." Also, when people say, "I need to ask you a favor," avoid giving an answer like "sure!"
before they tell you what the "favor" is. We are under no obligation to anyone to agree to anything without first knowing what we are committing to.
JuliannDecember 11, 2022
Your story is certainly not too late. Thank you for the amazing person you are and for the amazing people you work with and help.
DeloresDecember 10, 2022
For me, the decision is clear. If the influencer begins to criticize the church, or the leaders of it, or to rationalize why they don’t have to follow the prophet’s counsel, I stop following them. There is one particular Youtuber that I initially liked, but over time I have felt his pride get in the way and he has begun to criticize church policies, general conference talks, and prophetic guidance. I’m done following him. There are many better choices of influencers
Lisa CorcoranDecember 9, 2022
Becky, a wonderful story. So glad we are a part of Rising Star. You do amazing work.
Lisa
ShaunaDecember 9, 2022
excellent, insightful article, on so many points. I find that the scripture to not judge, is rarely quoted in its entirety--i.e. the injunction to "judge righteous judgement." We have to judge--actions at least, or as you say, "the fruits" which I like. And the gift of "discernment" is another gift we receive from the Holy Ghost and from living our temple covenants. Thus, surely there is a need for it and we should use it
Kerry FarrDecember 9, 2022
This still confuses me at age 75. Didn’t Christ teach that the needs of others DO come first. And especially the will of God comes before our own will to be righteous??
Neal ChristensenDecember 6, 2022
If faculty will not uphold the ideals and teaching methods of the school, fire them and replace them with someone who will.
ShaunaDecember 6, 2022
Thank you Br. Hancock. as a BYU alumni and the parent of 2 BYU students (currently on missions) I applaud and welcome your assessment and critique of the current academic culture at BYU and especially for your determination to take the prophets and apostles seriously and to start a conversation about what a "Gospel methodology" might look like. Wouldn't that be exciting to see where the Spirit can actually lead professors and students as they study and learn about true "intelligence" which is the glory of God-- and what other ideas, theories etc might be added to the world of thought, as they incorporated the basic tenets of the gospel, including the natural, nuclear family and the resistance to labels other than Child of God, Child of the covenant and disciple of Christ in their research, and teaching? I am passionate about BYU and it's mission and am so grateful for Elder Holland's clarion call back to BYU's unique mission, articulated earlier by President Kimball. I welcome your brave and crucial lead on these issues and look forward to further analysis and suggestions. If BYU cannot be unique and reflect the values and tenets of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints, in my opinion, it can no longer justify its existence. I pray for the way forward that you suggest
Rick JeppesenDecember 6, 2022
Very nice article; thank you! I love your use of the story of Joseph for the topic of faith. My wife and I wrote a song called "Remember the Story of Joseph of Old". What a remarkable story to always trust in God.
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Wally GoddardDecember 6, 2022
Good counsel! Thanks, Jeff.
SageDecember 6, 2022
Br. Goddard, thank you for this uplifting article. I look forward to what you write as it always brightens my day.
MaryannDecember 6, 2022
I love, love, love this article. How absolutely essential it is that we embrace the light in every possible way. Searching the scriptures, praying, enjoying the company of uplifting people, and avoiding dark influences around us will bring more light into our souls. In the midst of a very dark world, we all need to be so aware of our thoughts and to reject the angry, contentious influences in our current society. I am so often strengthened by the positive attitudes of our Prophets, Seers and Revelators. They radiate a calm attitude filled with hope for a glorious future.
John SowaDecember 4, 2022
Thank you for sharing your painful and sacred experiences. They are resonant to me. When we talk about coming to earth to obtain a body, I believe that it is sometimes viewed too simplistically. Check, I've done that. Yet, to be a soul is so much more than just being born. To come to know who we are and in whom we've trusted, truly does require experiences that allow us to come to understand more completely how we function. Thank you again for sharing one of yours.
DebrahDecember 4, 2022
I have had friends who had Shingles and I felt sorry for them, but now, even sadder. Aweful! I did not like my shingles vaccine, but now I think it just might have been a good decision.
Years ago I had what was supposed to be minor surgery, a subcutaneous cyst. It wasn’t. It was a ganglion wrapped tightly around the main nerve in my wrist. The doctor had to scrap if off, and the myalin sheath below it. Without general anesthesia.
It took6 weeks to heal, used no pain meds, and found out I could fall to sleep while keeping my hand and arm high up on the wall, the only way I could ease the pain.
Some years later I needed a hysterectomy. Afterwards I was put on self administered Demerol. I prayed, telling the Lord I was willing to suffer, but if it would be allowable, would he take the pain away. He reminded me of the earlier time where I experienced such pain, the same nerve that had been pierced and torn in his hands. Then told me that I had suffered the pain I needed to and that it would be removed.
The next day the doctor came in and I asked if they would take the Demerol thing out as I did not need it. The nurse jumped in and said, “no, you need this.”
The doctor looked at the machine and says, she has only had two doses yesterday, and gone all night without. She doesn’t need it. He pulled it.
That is only a small part of the story as the Lord supported me through it. But I learned something. Pain is a part of our earth test. Each person gets his own prescription. He did not lift my pain for the scrapped and battered nerve in my wrist, but I learned what I needed from it and needed no more, if I had the faith to ask.
Ann-Marie JensenDecember 4, 2022
Thank you so much for sharing how you changed your prayer for help. A very valuable example for us all.
Kathy SandersDecember 4, 2022
How I love you and your choosing Christ in every conscious minute of your life. The power of those choices magnified over time allows you to witness for Christ in amazing and influential ways. I thank God for you and your example of faith in my life. I’m so sorry for the trial you have gone through and rejoice in the discoveries you made about the nature of God. Thank you for sharing this intimate story. I too have come to know Christ because of intense pain. I marvel that that kind of overwhelming pain can reside at the same time with overwhelming joy in Christ. How that happens I do not know but I know it to be true.
Brad LDecember 3, 2022
You might want to look into getting a D-Dimer test, which can detect micro clots when methods used to detect normal clotting fail. If they were happening in brain, perhaps the cause of the immense head pain you were experiencing.
There is evidence micro clots can appear in a high percentage of those who have had the mRNA shots and boosters. And the shingles point to an activated viral infection, which maybe exacerbated by the same shots.
Darwin DavsDecember 3, 2022
You are a hero. Thank you.
Linda Starr WinansDecember 3, 2022
Hey, Maureen. I am so sorry you had to go through that ordeal. I truly appreciate your tender insights and your positive response. What a blessing that you have come out of this trial as you have. I can tell you have lost some weight over it --hopefully you feel as good as you look . May you enjoy God's richest blessings for both you and Scot!!!
Kristin KleinDecember 3, 2022
Such a poignant and tender testimony of the goodness of Light, and a loving Heavenly Father and Savior. I’m so grateful for women like yourself who can articulate these mercies and share with so many. Thank you!!
Koni hunterDecember 3, 2022
Sweet Maurine,
As I was reading this, I had two thoughts come to me.
1- you told a story on a podcast episode when your daughter was injured and far from home. You knelt to pray. The only words that came were “help”. A few months ago, I was in a similar situation and as I knelt to pray in my bitter agony, I thought of you. Through my tears, I could only utter “help me”. That day, I experienced a miracle. Help came through a very inspired bishop.
2- As scot prayed specifically to know why you were passing through this agony, he was given a specific answer. I remembered the time our bus broke down and you said the most fervent prayer. After, you said to all of us on the bus “I’ve learned that specific prayers receive specific answers”.
You continue to teach me and inspire me. I adore you! You are a rock and a pillar of faith!
Tom ObenchainDecember 2, 2022
Thank you for sharing your story Maurine. I love the reminder that no matter our circumstances our ability to choose, to choose Him, is never taken from us.
JanDecember 2, 2022
Maurine, so very sorry to hear about this terrible affliction. I offer you this: While on our mission in New Zealand, I was in the Hamilton temple to perform proxy initiatory ordinances. There was no initiatory waiting room in the temple, so I was invited to sit in the workers' preparation room. Two lovely workers were chatting there about a mutual acquaintance who had been suffering with shingles. One remarked that the suffering sister had found no relief in western medicine, so she went to a the traditional Maori healers for help. The healer told her to apply balsamic vinegar to the eruptions, and her relief had been immediate. I have mentioned this to a few shingles patients here in the states. They confirm the balsamic vinegar was very beneficial, but one cautioned he'd learned the hard way not to use it on any mucous membranes, just the outer skin. It can't hurt to try it on a little patch. Worst case, you'll just smell like a salad.
AimeeDecember 2, 2022
Thank you. Thank you so much for sharing this. I cried through the entire article. I have been through my own versions of this experience, and I can say with certainty, yes. It is refining and redefining. I have often wondered how I could ever possibly fully express to someone how unshakeable my testimony is. But I know it became so unshakeable *because of* the pain and suffering I've gone through. There is no way to explain it and have it fully understood, like you said about redefining your pain threshhold. But when you have been through the fire, and chosen the Lord through it, you know. It changes you forever. And there is no going back. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me, a complete stranger, who both cannot understand what you went through and yet can completely understand what it meant to you and the way it redefined your relationship with your Savior. Thank you for touching my heart and helping me feel more understood.
Breck EnglandDecember 2, 2022
I agree completely with Brother Steurer. I want to go further, though. How to deal with family members and friends who are clearly under the spell of views that are not only questionable but outright lies? These fraudulent ideas are in a good many cases causing them intense anxiety--I worry about their health and even their sanity. When a total lack of critical thinking endangers their families and their health, what is my responsibility?
ShaunaDecember 2, 2022
Bless you for all you do and for your example. I am a pain wimp and don't knot that I could have endured what you have. So grateful for your absolute steadfastness to remain true to God and to not murmur. You are a special person and witness of God's goodness. Thank you for sharing your ordeal and prayers that you'll recover from shingles quickly
Laurie PollardDecember 2, 2022
Wow, Maurine! Every article you write is powerful, but this is phenomenal. What a poignant lesson and inspiring trust in the Lord you have shared with us. I can only imagine the depth of pain you have endured, and I am saddened you suffered so...but is seems the more intense the trial--as we turn to God humbly as you have done--the more potent the sanctifying effect it may work in us. You comprehend the Atonement of Jesus Christ on a deeper personal level than ever before. Thank you for blessing us with your gratitude and penetrating insights. You and Scot are stalwart disciples and your devotion to do the Lord's work blesses untold souls. I'm thankful to be one of them!
Craig FrogleyDecember 2, 2022
I am so very sorry for your suffering even knowing that it is refining. Some people just already seem refined so their suffering seems redundant. But even the Sons of Mosiah were called to suffer that they might be examples to those they would influence! (Alma 17:11 be patient in long-suffering and afflictions, that ye may show forth good examples unto them in me, and I will make an instrument of thee in my hands unto the salvation of many souls.
MaryannDecember 2, 2022
I am a little confused about exactly what Mike Lee's amendment entailed. What specifically did it add to, or take away from, the Respect for Marriage Act? This is not a criticism--I really admire the man.
LoraDecember 2, 2022
Decades ago, when I was a young teen, my mother and uncle got into a heated political argument at Thanksgiving that seemed to go on for hours. We never went to Thanksgiving at grandma's house again. And what for? Nobody changed their minds.
A while ago, my brother asked me a direct political question, which I answered, and he yelled, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" I responded calmly, "You can out-yell me, but it probably won't change my mind. But what matters here is not my opinion, but that we love each other. What matters more to me than anything happening in current events is our family." That calmed him down, because we share this value: family is more important than anything political. We don't have to agree with each other to love each other.
There is so much name-calling in politics. I like the "Tell Me More" approach--where you seek clarity over agreement. If we ask questions seeking to understand Why people think what they do, we will at least gain understanding. I recognize that my opinions are not gospel truth. I've even been known to change my opinions. Opinions are not eternal. When we can love each other, no matter what, there will be peace on earth.
Sandy GatesDecember 2, 2022
Maurine, I’m so sorry that you had to go through this. I know your pain. I too suffered this same pain in a very similar experience which left me with temporary paralyzation for over 6 months, slight hearing loss and minor permanent nerve damage on the right side of my head. It was an experience I will never forget. It drew me closer to my Savior than ever before and the experience that I had with Him was so sacred. I too know that these things are not thrust upon us by Heavenly Father or our Elder Brother, but they can be used for our growth and to draw us closer to them. If you would like to know more about my experience, I can share through email. Take care Maurine. You are doing a great work and are infinitely loved!!!
MaryannDecember 2, 2022
The best way to solve the problem of contention regarding political opinions is to make a mutual agreement that you will not discuss politics or make any political comments in the presence of one another. This is often the ONLY way to avoid contention regarding political viewpoints. I have also pulled back on reading so much about politics. It's like an ongoing soap opera, and it can become an obsession. Much of the reporting is designed to stir people up and to promote contention. I, too, have had a very difficult time understanding why some members of the church support political agendas that are in direct opposition to gospel principles. However, when we are engaged in scripture study, prayer, enjoying uplifting friendships, using our talents, and service, we will be much less likely to be stirred up in rage over politics. Our minds will be on a higher purposes. We CAN learn to CHOOSE to focus on more positive thoughts and to overcome unbridled anger.
KimDecember 2, 2022
Maurine* Names are important.
Kim EggintonDecember 2, 2022
Oh, dear, sweet Maureen... my whole being sorrows and joys for you!
DougieDecember 2, 2022
Excellent! Part of His work might be the inspiration your story gives to readers who are suffering, and gain power to go on because of your experience.
Beth TDecember 2, 2022
So grateful to God that he and his angels were at the ready to help you, your family and the doctors discover the true problem of your pain. And how beautiful that through questions we can find the answers we need from our beloved father in heaven. Thank you for sharing! Grateful you are healed!
vickieDecember 2, 2022
i have had many times of agony from pain or mental illness. depression so hard it brought my body down that my skin hung on my body. i took no meds and was taking care of my 4 of 5 children at that time. i also was helping a family stay in our home. the anxiety i had was so awful i cant describe it...well, we moved from england bk to the usa. my baby fell from a slide on the playground ...when we got bk to the states all my kids broke out in blisters on their skin and no dr knew what was going on..they figured it was the move from england to the usa and they had some virus. also i had pain after a hysterectomy. not with the surgery but being allergic to premarin a harmone and no doctor would listen something was wrong. i went through months. many times in my life i was bedridden. i had seizures starting at 46yrs old and went through things i cant describe. all along i trusted in the Lord and reminded myself of gethsemane that Christ knew what i was going through. i have no idea what im being prepared for, but i trust in the Lord as He knows best....
SFISCHDecember 2, 2022
I stand all amazed at your ability to share your experience and illustrate your true devotion to the Savior during your recent time of stress. We love to follow your weekly Come Follow Me podcast. Thank you for your insight and faithfulness. One question? When did you have your shingle shot? Many would be interested why you ended up getting such a painful shingle episode after your vaccine.
KJBDecember 2, 2022
Let me guess, the person being written in about is a Democrat who thinks Biden is doing a good job...
Tiffany GoodwinDecember 2, 2022
What a beautiful story that testifies of our loving Savior and Father being with us always. I know of His love and being with me in the mental/emotional pain of loss and anguish. This story reminded me of things I knew and needed to be reminded. Thanks you Maurine!
R AlldredgeDecember 2, 2022
This is such an inspiring experience for you to share with us. Tender, personal and inspiring. Thank you for your testimony. It really struck me to think of the hard trials going on around us are the very experienced we need to prepare us to meet Christ. I needed this insight. Thank you. Bless you and prayers for your recovery.
Lorraine QuillonDecember 2, 2022
Exquisite.
KarlaDecember 2, 2022
Thank you for sharing your story, it has answered my prayer.
Buffie BarkdullDecember 2, 2022
Oh, dear Maurine. Thank you for this gift that came at such a high cost. Through your talent of writing and expression, you have put into words the deepest desires of my heart. To be called a friend of God. You have earned that title. I will strive to remember your experience and declaration of allegiance to God in your extremities as I soldier on in my life.
Doc FullerDecember 1, 2022
My personal research shows that Americans will cohabit without marriage at the rate of over 70%, sometime during their lifetimes. Google it yourself!
While 'Homosexuality' is at a rate of no more than 2-3% max.
Do you get my obvious point?
Please focus on the 70% and not on the 3%. Society is not threatened or endangered in its morality by the 3%!
It's a smoke screen by the adversary.
Far too many waste 100% of their efforts worrying about the 3%, instead of the real threat of 70% = playing right into the plans and schemes of Satan. We don't see the real threats until it's too late.
BillDecember 1, 2022
In the year 2000, our beloved prophet Gordon B. Hinckley wrote a wonderful book entitled “Standing for Something”. In its epilogue entitled “The Loneliness of Moral Leadership” President Hinckley stated:
What we desperately need today on all fronts—in our homes and communities, in schoolrooms and boardrooms, and certainly throughout society at large—are leaders, men and women who are willing to stand for something. We need people who are honest; who are willing to stand up for decency, truth, integrity, morality, and law and order; who respond to their consciences even when it is unpopular to do so—perhaps especially when it is unpopular to do so.
That is the job of the leaders in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Its not to be politically correct. It is to speak eternal truth, to stand up for the gospel of Jesus Christ, no matter the cost. That is important not only so the world knows where we as a Church stand, but also so that the people of the Church know where their leaders stand.
On November 15, 2022 the Church announced its support for the so-called “Respect for Marriage Act”. In that announcement the Church reiterated that “The doctrine of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints related to marriage between a man and a woman is well known and will remain unchanged,” while also stating that the Act “includes appropriate religious freedom protections while respecting the law and preserving the rights of our LGBTQ brothers and sisters.”
Senator Mike Lee of Utah , an attorney and constitutional scholar, indicated that those religious liberty protections touted by the Church “can only be described as severely anemic." His proposed amendment to shore up those religious liberty protections were never taken into consideration before the Senate passed the bill. For more information on the problems with this Act see and excellent article by Roger Severino on the Heritage Foundations website entitled “Fact-Checking 7 Claims by Defenders of Democrats' Same-Sex Marriage Bill”.
I note in the final part of the Family Proclamation, “We CALL UPON responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.” Apparently, not only does the Church no longer call upon officers of government to protect the family, they are no longer willing to do it themselves.
In my opinion, the Church should have stood with its convictions and denounced the measure. It would have been a strong and welcome message to the world, our other religious allies and to Church members that we stand for the principals and doctrines outlined in the Family Proclamation.
I note that this approach may, to some, seem like Abinadi bulldozing into the city. However, as shown in Mosiah 12:1, the Lord commanded Abinadi to go into the city and to prophesy, and that Abinadi went into the city in disguise, that they knew him not. No bulldozer there. But when he was captured and brought before King Noah, he then boldly taught and testified. He was Standing for Something.
Sometimes you do have to stand up and let the chips fall where they may, then trust upon the Lord to see His eternal purposes fulfilled.
KathleenNovember 30, 2022
Touching article, as always. Loved the seemingly effortless sacrifice in the name of music, when it certainly had to have been a hardship.
JenNovember 30, 2022
I've noticed in the OT, and footnote references to other scripture, that Ephraim is too proud. What I understand to be the US/promised land will be given to Manasseh next. The "remnant" of the sons of Jacob will be the ones to build the New Jerusalem after the proud (even church members) are no more. The temples will then be theirs to care take and work in.
Your article makes me wonder if prior to that time those of us in the US will, at some point, have to choose to go abroad to temples if ours will be closed for a time. Like many temples in various areas closing for safety sake, we're not above them. Violence comes in many forms, like even digitally.
BoBNovember 30, 2022
Very well said.
JuliannNovember 30, 2022
Beautiful examples of following the promptings of the spirit. My biggest regrets in life have come from not following those promptings. I am so grateful that God is willing and wanting to help us if we will just listen and obey.
CubbyNovember 30, 2022
Thanks for posting that article. I have thought and posted exactly the same thought, Ceaser’s coins. It is powerful. But you went beyond to examples where he made different choices. I appreciate your wisdom. These perilous times really give us opportunity to read the scriptures and reference them over and over! Thanks!
Tacey BurnhamNovember 30, 2022
A careful reading of the wording of the church statement will show that it was not a statement of support for a very flawed bill, but another call for honoring religious freedom. What the leaders were supporting were the efforts of those working to "include appropriate religious freedoms protections" in the bill. Amendments which, by the way, were voted against by the majority of the senate (including Mitt Romney) and not included in the bill.
The wording "we believe this is the way forward" is in reference to working together to allow the LGBTQ+ community their ever-expanding rights without negating the protection of religious liberty guaranteed in the constitution.
Roberta CamargoNovember 29, 2022
A muito tempo atrás senti o desejo urgente de visitar uma pessoa da família, o espírito praticamente me empurrou para ir
No outro dia essa pessoa faleceu
Vários membros da igreja também tiveram essa impressão e o visitaram, foi como uma despedida , foi a última vez que o veríamos com vida
WM CALVIN HUGHESNovember 29, 2022
So wonderful! Love that when we frequently, intentionally and thoughtfully ponder on spiritual things, our thoughts and insights and wisdom 'multiply exceedingly'. Truly a gift of the spirit!
Always look forward to your writings! What a blessing!
Kary NelsonNovember 29, 2022
I was there at Group that night too!! It was Br. Gee who told that story and it has stuck with me ever since as well! I was a freshman at BYU, a non-member who had grown up in a very liberal part of the San Fernando Valley in Los Angeles, and who was wondering why I had ever thought that Ernest L. Wilkinson's BYU was the place for me to attend college when my roommate and I were invited to attend Group. It was in Group that I learned the gospel, where I felt free to ask questions (in my BofM class, not so much), and where I met the man who ultimately baptized me and who has been my husband for nearly 50 years. It's so fun to see Br. Peterson to also remember such a pivotal moment in my testimony growth. Obviously, I did not make this up!
JimNovember 28, 2022
Bodascious! An outstanding article! I wish that the last book by Brother Larry would be published so that I could more easily refer and reread it. Awesome.
ShaunaNovember 28, 2022
Thank you. I appreciate the quotes about covenants you referenced. I am so grateful for the recent increased attention that covenants are receiving in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. We must move beyond the superficial idea that covenants are "a promise between ourselves and God." And while I am positive that God is more loving and merciful than I can imagine, and that He will do everything He can to bring us back to HIm...He won't violate our agency. "The covenant path is all about our relationship with God—our hesed relationship with Him. When we enter a covenant with God, we have made a covenant with Him who will always keep His word. He will do everything He can, without infringing on our agency, to help us keep ours." President Nelson, "The Everlasting Covenant" October Liahona, 2022 also an important article to reference acknowledging the tension between agency and covenants of parents regarding wayward children is found in the March 2014 Ensign by Elder Bednar
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2014/03/faithful-parents-and-wayward-children-sustaining-hope-while-overcoming-misunderstanding?lang=eng
Chris HowellNovember 28, 2022
Fits nicely w Bushop Causse GC talk
Jeri E GilstrapNovember 27, 2022
Thank you Holly for your book recommendations for children. I give my younger grandchildren a Christmas book every year. I wait until I see your book reviews before deciding, Thanks again.
Debrah RoundyNovember 27, 2022
Another request for the "script"
Corey D.November 27, 2022
A well written and needed commentary, I know a lot of members of the church and non members who see announcements like this and do feel confused or let down or troubled but as is pointed out, the way the media present these things is most often very skewed. It's so important to be or get informed because the media is exceptionally biased anymore and just because the church makes a public statement doesn't make it doctrinal.
Bonnie Lee DanielNovember 26, 2022
When I did my DNA Ancestry check I discovered that my 9th great-grandfather was Resolved White. I am eternally grateful that God saved him through the difficult times he and his family endured during the first few years here in America. I hope to meet him some day.
Colleen StoutNovember 26, 2022
I Just read this older book and loved it! I am so glad you are featuring it on Meridian. We all need to read it and apply these Christlike ideals.
ShareeNovember 25, 2022
Thank you for sharing this. It is one of my favorite Josh Groban pieces and Vocal Point did a great job with it. I had goosebumps and tears
Corey D.November 24, 2022
I have picked up hitchhikers since I was a teenager and I keep $40 in fives in my wallet for the homeless, I don't give all the time because some of them I recognize as regulars but if they have a dog with them I always give just can turn down those with dogs.
Micky BowersNovember 24, 2022
Love the ending!… But then again, I love all of your stories…they make my heart smile. Keep them coming!
Anna HargreavesNovember 24, 2022
Love Jody Moore! How to manage and have a healthy relationship with your brain and your emotions. They don't teach this in schools! Thanks @jodymore.com for filling this void and showing the world how!
LexaGraemeNovember 23, 2022
What a lovely story! Part of me is horrified that her children felt the way they did about the cookie jar. In my family, it might be the item we would fight over afterwards. Thank you for this.
Luana Mallett (then Holzworth)November 23, 2022
Thank you Brother Goddard. Always remember a small encounter with you and your wife in Australia some many years ago. Maybe 2003/4. That I will never forget your kindness. And discovering your written work. Amazing!
Jim BrownNovember 23, 2022
The most important takeaway from this article is that the Pilgrims were chosen and truly inspired by God to set the stage for the restoration of the Gospel. "Thanks be to God!"
KathrynNovember 23, 2022
I respectfully disagree with the previous commenter. There are hugs... and then there are hugs. It's very different for a woman to give a guy a quick arms-around-shoulders-hug versus an arms-around-the-waist-and-head-on-his-chest embrace that lasts for a few moments. I agree with the husband who wrote the question that this type of physical contact isn't appropriate for people who aren't married to each other. It's likely to stir up or increase inappropriate feelings.
It's so much better for everyone to stay on the safe side of the line.
MaryannNovember 22, 2022
I have had trust in the Hallmark channel, and this is very disappointing. I haven't seen any of this departure from traditional family values yet, but it is obviously coming. I will have to look into how to watch the GAC Family channel. Maybe some of us need to speak up and write to the Hallmark officials! Three cheers for Candace for standing up for her principles! I have LOVED watching her "Aurora Teagarden" series.
MaryannNovember 22, 2022
I think this has been a great lesson for all of us. DO NOT get your news about statements from the church by reading newspapers, the internet, or outside sources. If you want to know what the Brethren actually said when they release a statement, read it on the church's website. The statement was so simple and, for me, it just reiterates the fact that we respect the basic rights of all people, AND sexual relationships outside of marriage are STILL immoral. The media has been creating a "tempest in a teacup" over this issue, and members of the church need to avoid being deceived by the false interpretations and incorrect conclusions that have been published by them.
MaryannNovember 22, 2022
I am fully expecting my beloved dogs who have passed on to be waiting for me with tails a'wagging when I cross over. If you listen carefully in the temple, you will also hear about God's divine plan for our animals.
PatNovember 22, 2022
Beautiful, painful, understandable, helpful, and necessarily important for believers and others.
tfNovember 22, 2022
No, there are hugs, and then there are HUGS!
Margaret B. YoungNovember 22, 2022
Wonderful report! The DRC is on its way to becoming a haven of peace rather than a land of war. Church growth there is miraculous.
Gordon J HensleyNovember 22, 2022
I have had dogs, cats, mice, birds, frogs, turtles, ants, fish, and hamsters share my sphere. People I know keep horses, pigs, opossums, monkeys, snakes, and chickens. Each of these animals serve as pets and/or food in various human cultures around the world. Humans sometimes serve as food for animals, (including worms.) Will we all live together as companions once again? No more surf and turf?
Ronald H SnyderNovember 22, 2022
There were Church members (including an apostle) who didn't believe that we should abandon "The Principle" when Wilford Woodruff released the "Manifesto". And members who hated that Bruce McConkie had to withdraw his assertion (in Mormon Doctrine, original edition) that the Catholic Church was the church of the devil. There were those who thought President Kimball had lost it when he gave us the revelation on priesthood.
It is not easy for old men to embrace change. I respect the "Brethren" so much for their willingness and ability to see beyond the fray and embrace correct principles like being unified and granting respect to those whose beliefs and practices are different from our own. By doing so, they obtained a similar respect from those others.
Rick RutkowskiNovember 22, 2022
Mariah, I was very touched by your Nov. 21st article on "Where Does the Dog I Lost Fit Into the Plan of Salvation?" I am sorry about the loss of your dog Scout. My wife and I recently lost our dog Pepper, but had 18 wonderful joyous years of companionship with her. We have had similar feelings and questions that you expressed in your article. We take comfort that there is a Plan of Salvation, and although we don't know all the answers of eternity, we know that we have a kind and wise Heavenly Father who will make all things right, including our dogs.
H NorthNovember 22, 2022
"We have NO obligation to reconcile with the children of the Devil." - Bruce R. McConkie
Connie SchraderNovember 22, 2022
Thank you for this comforting article. My sweet dog is getting elderly. I had a most interesting experience a few years ago. I rescued a beautiful Steller Jay who was injured and hiding in the shrubs in our yard. It was late in the day so I put her in a large box and took her in the house. My plan was to take her to a bird rehab center in Ogden the next morning. I checked on her several times. The last time, as I opened the box I could see she had died but the most amazing thing happened. As I looked at her lifeless body I "felt" her spirit fly past me. It was beautiful to experience that sensation. I am grateful to have been allowed to feel her leaving.
MeganNovember 22, 2022
This beautiful article made me cry. Our family adopted an older Maine Coon cat years ago named Hermione Granger, and she was the delight of our lives--the most gentle, patient, dog-like little soul. Two summers ago I herniated a disc in my neck and was in such agonizing pain I couldn't sleep. One night I was writhing in bed, sobbing and praying for the Lord to just help me find rest in the midst of searing pain when I felt Hermione's little footfalls on my comforter and felt her lay down in the crook of my arm and nestle against my body. I thought to myself, "Hermione's here--I can sleep now," and fell into a restful sleep for the first time in a long while. Hermione had been dead for over a year--we'd lost her two Christmases before. I knew Heavenly Father had sent her to me when no other comfort was in reach. I have absolute confidence that our beloved furry companions will greet us in the next life and we'll have a loving friendship that exceeds even the joys in this life. Hugs to you and your family.
StephanieNovember 22, 2022
For some reason this week has been especially difficult regarding the own traumatic and unexpected passing of my doggies a few years ago. I couldn't eat eat or sleep for days after they we're gone. It is true grief. This article was so timely and I'm so thankful for these small moments in our life where we see evidences of our heartaches being known to our Heavenly Father. I wanted to share with you a speech given by Elder Marlin K Jensen where he talks about having our pets with us after this life. Thank you for your sweet and comforting words that were so needed and timely.
https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/marlin-k-jensen/living-manner-of-happiness/
Paul HNovember 21, 2022
This "journalistic spin" is no surprise. That has happened for two centuries now regarding Church doctrine. The next item they will take on will be abortion. The Book of Mormon refers to people calling good evil and evil good. The media embodies such an approach.
Maureen GaleNovember 21, 2022
Very well stated! I like the (paraphrased) thinking: "If God is willing to fight our battles, perhaps we should let him pick them, too".
Heber Blake Garside Jr.November 20, 2022
What a PROFOUND essay on HOW Faith empowers us with the promise of Restoring that which we have lost through the Restitution of all things. I try to ask myself through my trials, what is the lesson that the Lord wants to learn through this experience? That knowledge does not often come immediately but through increments of time and the process of experience!! So much here to appreciate and ponder. THANK YOU!!
Martha PillingNovember 20, 2022
This is perfect for teaching about apostasy today in my youth Sunday School class. Wilford Woodruff's journey to the gospel has always fascinated me, and I didn't know he had a brother that fell away. Thank you for your time researching and preparing this article, and for sharing it with us.
Sherry EthridgeNovember 19, 2022
Please have the audio printed so we can follow better
LCBNovember 19, 2022
It’s gotten harder and harder to find the texts of the podcasts. Now it’s impossible. I guess those of us that are hearing impaired will just not be able to enjoy them anymore. Thanks for those in the past.
ShareeNovember 18, 2022
For heaven's sake, it was a hug! I hug my friends, male and female, all the time. i think something else is going on with this guy if he is upset because his wife gives a male friend a hug.
AnnaMaeNovember 17, 2022
I am grateful for Candace Cameron Bure and her strength in standing up for what she believes! I love her movies and I will be watching GAC Family. I, too, wish to watch faith and family based movies and I'm so happy to have found a channel on TV where those beliefs are important.
Jaynie BrowderNovember 17, 2022
How can I get the transcript for this podcast?
Ronald SmithNovember 17, 2022
We have loved watching Ms. Bure on Hallmark for many years. We were sad to read she was leaving. However we are also sad and dismayed that Hallmark has chosen to abandon their largely Christian based viewers to follow the "woke" crowd. We are one of a large number of previous Hallmark viewers who will happily follow Ms. Bure to her new home and are anxious to see the results of her influences there. Bye bye Hallmark.
Tammy lindstromNovember 17, 2022
Loved this!!!
vickieNovember 17, 2022
this is very hard. i raised 5 kids. all are married ...my youngest is gay and is married to his partner. i went to his wedding. it was odd. however, i love my son and i know that he wanted a companion. someone to love and be loved by. im a member and believe the same thing the church does that marriage is between a man and a woman. i also have a nephew who is married to his partner for many years. i also have a cousin who has been married for 30 or 40yrs...or were together that long and then got married. they believe in marriage and i think that when they get married its to make sure that they do not go for another partner. this way they are not having many partners. my children are old people now...i just love them and pray for them.
HeatherNovember 16, 2022
Such a relatable struggle, oh how we all long to be set free. I find Atlas a comfortable friend. We are fellow travelers, both seeking relief from our bondage. So grateful Jesus Christ is my patient and skilled sculptor. I weary of this work, but He never does.
Lorene E. WalkerNovember 16, 2022
I, too, have been inspired and uplifted by hymns that have come at a time when I really needed them. I am our ward chorister and have the opportunity to choose they hymns for Sacrament Meeting each week. I always pray before choosing the hymns for each month, and there have been several times when a particular hymn touched either mine or another person's soul. I love your suggestion about singing a hymn before praying. Thank you for sharing your story!
Becca HowardNovember 16, 2022
There is often confusion that "respecting" means condoning the actions or behaviors of others. We would not accomplish any missionary work if we looked askance at those who drink, live together before marriage, have tattoos, or experience same-gender attractions. All of God's children were given the great gift of agency. Our job is to embrace and be examples of His teachings, whether or not we approve of those who (for now) may live differently.
George AngerbauerNovember 16, 2022
This is beautiful. As I read, I have a desire to strive to be born again daily, and not be that man I was yesterday.
I also relate more to Atlas, and think he, rather than the "perfect" David, ought to be our focus for ourselves as well as how we see others.
Thank you!
GTONovember 16, 2022
My mother had Narcissistic Personality Disorder and abused both my father and her second husband, both men forgiving her daily. It was my mother who filed for divorce from my father since people with NPD cannot see that anything is their fault. I asked my father how he felt after the divorce, and he said, "Like I've been released from a concentration camp."
Debrah RoundyNovember 16, 2022
I like the clip you have of of President Nelson. He looks vibrant. This, and every podcast is so good and I sure do appreciate them.
Thanks
ElaineNovember 16, 2022
The issue of narcissism wasn't addressed in this article. It's the worst form of abuse. I have a son and grandson who are victims of this awful abuse. This article is totally correct that men are victims of abuse, too.
Edward M.November 16, 2022
Abuse doesn't have to be physical, many times our spouses use mental abuse. Men are "fixers" and women are "nurturers". Each plays a vital role in the family. That is the way Heavenly Father set it up. I have found that Women like the mind-controlling approach. "You hold the Priesthood and this is what I want you to do" attitude.
Heavenly Father set the standard of walking side by side and helping one another and neither shall walk ahead or behind the other. In all the cases I have seen, Women think that they have to have the upper hand and be in control. Men give in because of love.
Annette AtwoodNovember 16, 2022
Love this article. There’s so much I relate to. Thank you for sharing these stories.
LewisNovember 16, 2022
I continue to be grateful for your ability to turn simple stories into profound insights. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us!
karell binghamNovember 15, 2022
When I read President Nelson's talks I come away with insights that I have never had before, even though I study and study. I pray for him every night! We need him so deeply in these days!
JohnNovember 15, 2022
My first experience with girls in my ward was in 5th grade, when one of them told me (with no provocation or previous interaction) that I was ugly, she hated me, and I'd never have a girlfriend. And of course she was the popular girl who had lots of influence over the other girls. So my "all or nothing" choice was "nothing". This created a poisonous atmosphere between boys and girls that persisted through our YM/YW years. None of the leaders noticed it, and if they did they didn't know what to do about it. One YW President's answer was to try to force the boys to ask the girls in the ward to prom. You can imagine how that went over with the boys. Myself and many of the other boys grew up socially stunted and even severely damaged due to bullying from this group of girls. It affects my life to this day, and I've never had a desire to date or marry. It doesn't feel safe to me.
Annette AntonelliNovember 14, 2022
Thank you for inspiring me to study the things this man taught. I’m looking very forward to learning.
KarenNovember 14, 2022
Not only is this article beautiful and inspiring, it is motivating! I desperately needed this message, and find that after years of emotional apathy, I am ready to “focus on forgiveness.” I know “I can do all things through Christ, which strengtheneth me”, but haven’t yet cared enough to be proactive. After reading another well-written article by you, Sister Pratt, I feel grateful for your inspiration and encouragement to turn to Christ. Thank you!
Mark ChildNovember 14, 2022
So true John, so true! How wonderful to read your article this morning and feel a connection to home. Thank you!
Corey D.November 13, 2022
My heart goes out to this woman, almost incomprehensible circumstances to go through especially at the same time. Even almost as incomprehensible is that the atonement of Jesus Christ applies and is for exactly these types of trials, he knows exactly what this woman had gone through.
Kerry BlairNovember 12, 2022
What wonderful ideas! A couple of years ago I put together a family recipe book with all the stories and genealogy behind the food traditions we'd had all our lives. I included pictures and memorabilia then had it professionally printed with spiral binding. Total success!
SallyNovember 12, 2022
This article pierced my heart! How glad I am that I am striving to live on the covenant path and strive to hear him.
The consequences are huge when. I don't.
MaryannNovember 11, 2022
Beautiful counsel here. I, too, hope this woman will be kind and gentle with herself. She experienced two major events that would devastate anyone. I agree that our Heavenly Father and our Savior need to be the foundation of our lives for support, and I also hope this woman will seek for a good relationship with a friend who will be there for her. If her husband hasn't made any attempt to change in this past year, I hope she can find a good therapist who can help her cope with his betrayal. She can also attend the Spouse and Family Support Group sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It is an amazing program to help people who have family members struggling with addictions.
HelenCNovember 11, 2022
I wept when I read the words, “Father, I paid for her.”
Frank Webster JrNovember 11, 2022
There are some wonderful ideas here for us to contemplate this Christmas season. I have been working on my personal history for several years as our daughter wants me to have it printed up for her and our other loved ones. I've compiled my stories and pictures in hopes of soon having it printed. Our Stake Patriarch has already compiled and had printed two books on his life and it was a wonderful story to read. Please consider doing so, as you're the best source of this information before it becomes lost
Loren DaltonNovember 10, 2022
What a beautiful story and message!
Thank you for sharing it!!
LorieNovember 10, 2022
Sending our love this Thanksgiving!
PamNovember 10, 2022
Thank you Brother Grenny. I do so much enjoy your perspective in this an other articles you have written. So needed to read this today- it was a "rescue" article in many ways.
l'll read it again, then again. And again.
SteveNovember 10, 2022
I love this story. I sing in our Stake Choir and it is my favourite part of my Sunday worship.
Lawrence N.November 10, 2022
I saw this report on You Tube. The slant was totally biased. No interviews from other side of the story. Half truths galore. Good part of the interview given by a former member who appears to be overly self absorbed. "Tax Laws are followed, and because they are followed the Church steals money from the people of Australia." Talk to your legislature about that. If that is your argument every tax deduction you take is also cheating the people of Australia.
Satan is having fun with half-truths.
R. JensenNovember 10, 2022
About five years ago, I bought up frame ornaments after Christmas and started putting photographs of living family and ancestors in them. It was quite a project, as I needed to resize several pics and it was a trial and error process. I had to go through boxes of pics and scan the best. FamilySearch trees were a good source of pictures of my husband's LDS ancestors, and we also added pics of newly deceased individuals to their database.. Now I have over eighty pics and have my family around for Christmas season. It is an opportunity to tell my children and grandchildren about them.
Cynthia CarlsonNovember 10, 2022
Thank you for sharing this inspiring story! Prayer and hymns do seem to go hand in hand.
Valiant JonesNovember 10, 2022
You are spot on! Pres. Benson frequently taught that we are under condemnation for neglecting the Book of Mormon (see D&C 84:57). Near the end of President Benson’s life, then Elder Oaks, summarized all of President Benson’s sermons and writings about the Book of Mormon and concluded, “The subject I believe we have neglected is the Book of Mormon’s witness of the divinity and mission of Jesus Christ and our covenant relationship to him.”
Annette AtwoodNovember 6, 2022
I am an active Member of my LDS Faith however, I have struggled some with the Christ I have been taught, I've always felt like I could never measure up. After watching The Chosen I gained a new relationship with Christ where I KNOW I measure up and I am loved as I am. This had renewed my faith and desire to love, learn and grow.
I also learned how to love and accept Gods love for me through and amazing program called Heart of a Woman ( for women) or a Warriors Heart ( for men). I highly recommend both. Thank you Dallas for showing a side of Christ more people can relate to.
MickeyjNovember 6, 2022
I was thinking trauma too, before it was even mentioned in the question. The book The Body Keeps The Score would be an excellent read for this brother. EMDR and some forms of massage can be extremely effective at helping to resolve trauma.
T PaceNovember 5, 2022
Very well said!
Gail BowmanNovember 5, 2022
I’m a 42 yr member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and I LOVE THE CHOSEN!!! My whole family loves The Chosen!! I believe it has brought me closer to Christ in different ways and I Love the Spirit it brings into our home! And because we believe in it so much we have “put our money where our mouth is” and have donated/gifted $1000’s of dollars to the work!
I am prepared that at some point there may be a difference of opinion for me as a Latter-day Saint, (though it hasn’t really happened ye)t, however the over all message of Christ, His Love and His mission is so powerful in bringing people to Christ that it doesn’t matter! Dallas truly is sharing Jesus Christ with the WORLD!! Atheist’s are believing the message! How can we squabble over that if we truly love the Lord?
It makes me sad that some of our Christian brothers and sisters questions Dallas’ motives and give him such a hard time in fear that he is “too close” to Our Faith! I would hope that we could all just see the Big Picture as Dallas and his team have and just rejoice in the fact that he is taking a Personal Loving Savior to the world and he’s making a difference in peoples lives!!
Heavenly Father needs ALL Believers on deck in this crazy world we live in and we should unite and not let the adversary attempt to weaken us by dividing us, one of his favorite tactics. Let’s help in the work to bring the Light of the World to the world in what ever way possible! I Praise the Lord for it all!
Stephanie BillingsleyNovember 5, 2022
Amen! Been LOVING The Chosen for years and it, just like any of our 'tools' (prayer, scripture, church, temple, etc) points or connects us to JESUS.
My husband and I firmly believe JESUS wants his sincere believers everywhere to come together, which should be easy, since we agree on the most important thing - JESUS the CHRIST alone is our Savior.
I think it's ignorant to believe any one group of believers has the monopoly on all truth - as if man has all knowledge God could bestow. Wherever truth is found, there God is (truth is one great whole, and He is the Father) and we all have much good (of God) to offer.
I think it would benefit all of us members of The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter-day Saints to focus more on being converted unto (changed by) JESUS rather than testimonies of the ancillaries - the Church itself being the vehicle for delivering the good news of JESUS CHRIST. "When we put God first, everything else falls into it's proper place..."
I cherish my covenant relationship with my JESUS, and I do not dismiss, rather learn much from the beautiful relationship those of other faith traditions have with their Savior as well.
AnonymousNovember 5, 2022
Biggest problem there is in marriages, even President Kimball said something to that effect, hence the proliferation of books, articles, blogs, etc about sexual intimacy especially in the LDS and Christian realm. I'm no expert other than having been married for 45 yrs but I would say to this brother sounds like his wife may very possibly be depressed, unfortunately most often the fix for depression is medication, which makes the problem worse because most medication prescribed for depression kills sexual desire or libido, especially in women. It also sounds like there are cultural, social issues of abuse which has probably left her with low self esteem. I'm sure many including the columnist would recommend counseling for her or both but it may or may not help, in our case it made things worse.
Pam BundersonNovember 4, 2022
I grew up in a protestant faith and learned to love Jesus as my Savior and redeemer. When I was 21, I took time to investigate the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I learned that Jesus is still my savior and redeemer as well as my exemplar and teacher. I am grateful to have the opportunity daily to seek to know him better. The Chosen has given me an opportunity to see Christ in a realistic setting as a man on earth who God sent to teach us and bring us closer to our Father in Heaven. I find that he is still the same Jesus who loves each of us and wants us to guide us back to our heavenly home.
LindaNovember 4, 2022
Thank you!
KayNovember 4, 2022
A mother who cannot have physical relationship with her child--hugging, cuddling, being physically close--will do serious damage to her child. This is more than the husband's problem, it is a problem for her children as well. I hope she will agree to seek professional help.
Haze KompelienNovember 4, 2022
I feel The Chosen has been a gift to the world. Whether it is 100% biblically accurate or not, it has served its purpose well by bringing Jesus into conversations and hearts. It is not intended to replace LDS church videos. It is not intended to be 100% verbatim words of Christ. It IS, from my perspective, intended to encourage viewers to develop an understanding of the time He lived on earth and His human relationships to others. The staff of The Chosen pray that their efforts will encourage viewers to go to their scriptures and believe in Jesus Christ as Savior and the son of God.
I hope more people watch their efforts. I pray people will be less critical and derisive.
MeganNovember 4, 2022
I have loved the portrayal of Jesus in The Chosen. I grew up in the Catholic Church with a Methodist-raised mom and grandparents, and joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints with my family when I was a teen. I have always loved the LDS portrayals of Jesus in film, and I've always appreciated their careful adherence to scripture when giving the actors portraying Christ opportunities to speak. But there is something so intimate and personal about Christ's portrayal in The Chosen, an intimacy more familiar to Protestant faiths than to ours, that has really drawn me in. I don't have to contend with potential doctrinal differences because I know and have a testimony of what our Church teaches. But I believe Dallas Jenkins' creation is truly a gift to the world, led by what I believe is the visitation of Holy Ghost (having experienced it myself as a nonmember), and I'm very excited to see what good it will do as the seasons roll forth. He is coming! And He has faithful followers doing His work throughout the world!
Toni LyonsNovember 4, 2022
I absolutely love The Chosen. I love to share it on social media along with The Book of Mormon movies. I love my Savior and anything that draws me closer to Him is alright with me!
Linda WinansNovember 4, 2022
Perfect article!!! AMEN!'
Chris CNovember 3, 2022
I read this book recently and thoroughly enjoyed it!
LC Lewis did an excellent job expressing Michelle Naget's "voice" as a child and young woman! I fell in love with her and her remarkable family. Their love for each other, as well as their resilience, is breathtaking.
At the heart of this story is the Christlike service of the Naget family, which extended well beyond their immediate family to include others in their community. Despite the unbearable conditions they were forced to endure, the Nagets never failed to live as they believed
This story is astonishing and humbling!
Liz G.November 3, 2022
Thank you for this beautiful article. It really touched and moved me.
Stephen FennNovember 3, 2022
Susan, while I was on my way from Peru to Uruguay to serve my mission, I stopped in Tucuman to visit my family that was serving there as construction missionaries. John, at the time, was in the North Argentine Mission under President Richard G. Scott, serving in the city of San Juan. I hadn't seen him for almost a year and a half, and knew I wouldn't for another couple of years, so I took a 19 hour bus ride to visit him. Early in the trip, the question came to my mind, "what would I do if I I saw that a head on accident was about to occur during the bus ride". I decided the best thing to do would be to lie down quickly onto the adjacent seat so I would have the seat in front of me to absorb the impact. I arrived without incident and didn't think about it further. After an enjoyable couple of days visiting with John, I boarded the bus for the return trip. At about 6:00 am the next morning I had awakened and was looking forward as we were driving on a narrow road. I saw a dump truck approaching, which was unconcerning, but suddenly the truck swerved directly into our path. Instinctively, I flopped over onto the vacant seat next to me just seconds before the impact. Exactly as imagined, I bounced up against the seat in front of me and was not injured. Many on the bus were injured, thankfully not seriously. God's miracles don't need to be like the classic biblical ones to make us appreciate His loving hand in our lives.
HelenCNovember 3, 2022
I am struggling with doubt over my decision to “comfort the weary” by becoming a Grief Coach to women who have lost a child to cancer. This morning’s reading has caused me to think on the miracles in my life that pointed me in this direction in the first place. Just last Saturday I was at a luncheon with breast cancer survivors when we sang a song together and I felt my beautiful oldest daughter, who succumbed to this disease, standing behind me, singing with all her might as my own voice faded to tears. Father sent her, and she agreed, to strengthen me for today and tomorrow.
HelenCNovember 3, 2022
Thanks again, Dr. Dan, for enlightening my confused mind which was drifting away from its purpose this morning. Fear and confusion are NOT Heavenly Fathers tracing tools!
LoraNovember 3, 2022
I don't think that this prompting "went awry". The effort was to bless her daughter, and it did. I think that we need to be careful about equating "answered prayers" with "wishes granted". I believe that all of our prayers are answered, even when our wishes don't come true. One person fasts and prays for a miracle and gets it, and another person, just as faithful, fasts and prays for a miracle and doesn't. The Lord is in the character-building business, and characters aren't built by having easy lives. What's nice about this story is that Mom followed the prompting, and Daughter felt supported and loved. Clearly, the message inside the package was inspired! It would not have gone over well if she'd written something like, "I'm so sorry. It will work out next time." No, she must have written something like, "I believe in you. I love you." You can never go awry with a message like that.
NED WINFIELD SCARISBRICKNovember 2, 2022
I have yet to hear an explanation of what constitutes "worthiness." At what point do we become worthy and unworthy.
Marsha NewmanNovember 2, 2022
I love this discussion on the apostles and prophets. It is so carefully worded and contains many gentle cautions about “judging “ them from our own personal bias. The youth of the church are often hasty and highly influenced by social norms of our day. Many times only the perspective of years sheds light on the truthfulness of prophetic teachings. The Proclamation on the Family is one of those instances.
Thanks for carrying this excellent article!
Sherrie AnthonyNovember 2, 2022
Steve what a great article. This is the perfect month for us to find even greater happiness by being grateful. Thank you.
Becca HowardNovember 2, 2022
It is a sad day indeed when parents must “opt out” on what is being taught in school. When I was young, parents had to “OPT IN” by signing permission slips for sex Ed, immunizations to be given at school, field trips, or anything else that was outside of the normal curriculum or schedule. Parental teachings, especially anything of a religious or moral nature, should come first. Schools need to return to teaching academics.
ChrisNovember 1, 2022
Great, great article. Thank you! We all know someone who is not "happy" unless they are suffering in some way...and have something to complain about. Of course suffering can be very real, but much of the time we suffer because we make up a story in our mind about the unfairness of it all, we live in the past and worry about the future.
You're right...living in the present, letting go of the past, and choosing to "live in the grace of the day" works so much better...
LoraNovember 1, 2022
This article came at the right time! I sent it to my granddaughter who just started working at a hospital and has rejected the church. Since this is scientific, rather than religious, I hope that she will be able to deal with the inevitable life and death that goes on around her in her new job. My mother-in-law was raised as a secular Jewish woman, and now that her husband has died, she's having to face her thoughts about life after death. I've sent it to her, too. It may open the door to some deeper conversations. Thank you for writing this. I like David D's comments, too.
CherylNovember 1, 2022
Anita... I would love to hear more about how you did the scavenger hunt. I'm planning a family activity in Nov 2022 and that would be fun to include. Cheryl
AvaNovember 1, 2022
Not by chance, my prayers this morning were to help me overcome the constant disappointment and hurt I feel from my family. It's been a lifelong experience. I am grateful in all things. I have found much joy since my conversion of the church. I serve and love and give yet this this one thing just hurts. Yet I know it's not my fault. And I know there's nothing I can do about it but love them just as the Lord loves us.
I always read your articles, Annie, because they're wonderful. And I appreciate so much your insights. Your wrist suggestions give me more to chew on, pray about, think about and hopefully accomplish. Thank you
Kathleen N JonesNovember 1, 2022
I am 74 years old. When I was 7 years old and in very bad health (heart) I left and visited Heaven and sat upon the Lord's lap upon His throne. I so plainly to this day can I still see his face, as I placed my hand on his cheek and looked into his un-describable blue eyes. There is of course more to the beginning and end except to say I returned and later left the hospital without any clue to the doctors how I had healed completely. I have also been privileged to witness other events of seeing others enter Heaven more than once. My "job" is not done but I cannot wait to go. No, I do not share this much, but now may be the time.
TanyaOctober 31, 2022
We hosted a youth activity using Dia de los Muertos as our underlying theme. We had three stations in the cultural hall where the rotated three groups through. Using the Family Tree Memories App. Why Family Stories? What is Dia de los Muertos. Each station was interactive.
The final station was in the RS room where everyone gathered together. We created an Ofrenda where youth and leaders could place photos of their ancestors. Our Stake Patriarch talked about the importance of gathering Israel on both sides of the veil, and the importance of doing the temple work for our ancestors. It was a wonderful activity.
Gary AndersonOctober 31, 2022
Wonderful message! Thank you!
PhilOctober 31, 2022
Thank you, Daniel, for this interesting article. I am very interested in that book now and will order a copy of it.
Regarding the skeptics, I'm convinced they will disbelieve in the afterlife no matter how much positive evidence there is, aside from having a NDE of their own.
MaryannOctober 31, 2022
Shortly before they died, both my great-grandmother and also my father had visitations of their loved ones on the other side. My great-grandmother said she could see her husband "waiting for her at the gate." My father had conversations with my mother. He also said that his father had come to him. My husband's grandfather also told us of family members who had visited him shortly before his death. I don't think this is unusual and perhaps is the loving preparation of our Heavenly Father to help us pass from one realm to another.
DavidDOctober 31, 2022
An extremely interesting, comprehensive, scientific and current study of "near death" experiences was reported earlier this year by the New York Academy of Sciences. Their goal was not to prove or disprove life after death, but rather to be able to help medical professionals better anticipate and address the experiences that many patients are likely to have as our medical technology continually advances in being able to "bring back" individuals who would traditionally be considered dead.
https://nyaspubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/nyas.14740
One portion of the study has been summarized by a commentator as follows:
"The recalled experiences surrounding death are not consistent with hallucinations, illusions, or psychedelic drug–induced experiences, according to several previously published studies. Instead, they follow a specific narrative arc involving a perception of (a) separation from the body with a heightened, vast sense of consciousness and recognition of death; (b) travel to a destination; (c) a meaningful and purposeful review of life, involving a critical analysis of all actions, intentions, and thoughts towards others; a perception of (d) being in a place that feels like “home”; and (e) a return back to life."
https://nyulangone.org/news/recalled-experiences-surrounding-death-more-hallucinations
Corey D.October 27, 2022
The article mentioned Ms. Meloni the new Italian premier, almost the second she was elected the liberal establishment and media were criticising her, calling her right wing, biased, etc. I read her remarks and thought they were wonderful and excellent, I did not see one word of hate or bias or anything like that in her remarks, in fact half of what she said sounds like it was pulled from the Proclamation on the Family, just goes to show Satan will oppose anything good whether from religious sources or political. If she was a US citizen and lived here in the US I would vote for her in a heartbeat.
Becca HowardOctober 27, 2022
My husband and I raised our children with the traditional dos and don’ts, and I’m sure we heard plenty of the “lists” in our classes. We had to meet the challenges of business trips or visits to relatives of other faiths who wanted to eat out on Sunday. As empty nesters, we believe we are pretty good about doing the right things. For me the joy comes when I turn off a Hallmark movie or a BYU program and devote more time to Come, Follow Me or family history. A recent study challenge given at our stake conference has especially helped me feel an extra spiritual boost on the Sabbath and that I am spending my time well.
Beth TOctober 27, 2022
Thank You for strengthening our faith & testimonies in Sabbath day worship. My heart is FULL!!!
HelenCOctober 26, 2022
Thank you for encouraging me to press forward with Faith that Father knows my gifts and how best to use them.
His will be done is all that matters to me.
MaryannOctober 25, 2022
This is very disturbing--how can any member of the church support a political party that clamors for abortion? And, I don't even need to say WHICH party it is, do I?
Harold RustOctober 25, 2022
Thanks to you and to other brave heroes who are speaking out as a thoughtful professional in addressing issues which are very pertinent for our society. I have been spared that bullying because I’m still just learning about the landscape.
HalOctober 24, 2022
Thank you for this thoughtful and insightful article. I have some Facebook "friends" who seem to thrive on regurgitating unfounded, undocumented, vitriolic rhetoric against some of my most deeply held beliefs. I usually choose to ignore their posts and scroll past them. Unfortunately, they can't seem to give me the same respect when I post some deeply held belief. These "friends" seem compelled to respond to my posts with a bitterness that far exceeds the loving intent of my original post. It is hard not to respond, so I try to just try to assure my detractors that I meant no offense, (and include them in my prayers), but I still stand firm on what I had written.
ChristineOctober 24, 2022
I am so sorry that you (or anyone) has to face this silencing tactic. Not only is this incredibly unkind and unfair, but to try to silence another's opinion through manipulation and deceit is a very slippery slope to anarchy. I love to read your thoughtful comments, and while I don't always agree with everything you (or ANY one in the public discourse) says, I learn so much and gain a greater understanding for all opinions. If it is any comfort, your book The Power of Stillness has been such a profound blessing to me! I especially loved your narration!! Thank you and keep writing and keep challenging our thinking!
Jan NielsenOctober 24, 2022
Yeah for you. I cheer you on! Thank you for your courage.
Jill CleaverOctober 20, 2022
I love this article. Thank you Anne!
David Lee SalyerOctober 20, 2022
Jesus Christ and His gospel are the only true remedies for any temporal malady.
"Mental Health" has usurped this jurisdiction at the peril, trauma, and tragedy of those who rejected His scriptural admonitions to "Come unto me".
We are told within a single verse in the Book of Mormon the simple, obvious cause and resolution for all that "mental health" attempts to address.
It is obvious, but has just as obviously been overlooked, greeted with unbelief, and under-utilized, to our collective demise.
It is this verse:
"And if ye have no hope ye must needs be in despair; and despair cometh because of iniquity. Moroni 10:22
We need to stop looking beyond the mark. Only then can we become clean and experience the miracles the gospel promises us we will obtain through simple obedience and repentance.
We should stop behaving as one of the Israelites who refused to simply look and be healed.
I testify this principle is true!
Renee HardingOctober 20, 2022
Wow, great insights. Loved these gems of wisdom.
MaryannOctober 17, 2022
I highly recommend the Spouse and Family Support Meetings which are part of the Addiction and Recovery Program of the church. The principles taught there would have helped this woman recognize the false things she was being told. She would have learned divine principles that would have greatly helped her in a very difficult situation, and also gained support from the group leaders and other participants. This is a divinely inspired program and mental health specialists have helped to design it, as approved by church leaders. I hope everyone who has a family member with any kind of addiction will speak to their Bishop about attending these meetings. They are strictly confidential.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryOctober 14, 2022
This is so fascinating. It is amazing what has been discovered. Thank you for sharing.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryOctober 13, 2022
Very well written with good quotes and explanations. We constantly must be aware of Satan's tactics to keep us from staying on the covenant path. We have much greater power than he has because we have Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ on our side. Satan will never win.
Paralee EckmanOctober 13, 2022
This is such a timely article, that it should be read by all people -- not just members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints! It a person doesn't believe in the power and intentions of Satan, they can't even believe the truths in the Temple Ceremony! It is basic, and something we fought for in our pre-existence life! Thank you for writing this!
shaunaOctober 13, 2022
Well done. Thanks for the many references to talks and scripture. Surely, the Book of Mormon is the most powerful "witness' of Satan and lists many of his traps, snares, false arguments etc. I am grateful for the inclusion of the anti-christs, Korihor, Nehor and Sherem for instance, and the recounting of their false philosophies, so that they can be identified and avoided. He never has anyone best's interests at heart and will abandon any who follow him.
Ron StandageOctober 13, 2022
An excellent explanation of why we must understand Satan so we can be successful in becoming who we must be to live with Father eternally. Thank you very much!
HelenCOctober 13, 2022
I renege clearly the day a friend of mine told me, almost 50 years ago, that she and her mother had both decided there was no such being as Satan. Within six months they had left the Church.
He’s THAT good (at his job, of course!).
I recently came to the decision that, while I despise his chosen profession, I will put him but not hate him. Hate only damages me and he hasn’t earned that right.
RyanOctober 12, 2022
Nothing like taking time to enjoy life at the beach! Great reminder as to the importance of storytelling and reflection.
CindyOctober 12, 2022
Beautiful! I might share it with my college composition class!
KathleenOctober 12, 2022
Welcome back, I've missed reading your articles unless they've been printed and I haven't seen them. I find your logic and adept ability to express yourself, refreshing. There would be a lot less conflict and hurt if the adage, "is it true, is it kind, is it necessary?", preceded our words.
SarahOctober 11, 2022
Talk only via those court approved aps.
Record any phone conversations, not that it'll help, as they will say u manipilulated the recording but for your own sanity!
Go no contact, except via the ap.
Don't engage, explain, defend or personalise. See them as 9 Yr olds baiting you for a fight, don't take the bait.
Don't validate your feelings, they don't care. Save your breath.
Answer with 'whatever' and walk away/hang up.
You are their feed, give them nothing
GenOctober 10, 2022
Beautiful. I too have had my understanding enlarged through the Come, Follow Me study of Isaiah. What a gift these last few weeks have been!
LewisOctober 10, 2022
Two words: "simply extraordinary." You have such a gift for wrapping divine principles into meaningful and memorable stories. Please keep this up. And I hope someone helps you put these extraordinary articles into a book.
HelenCOctober 10, 2022
Thank you, dear friend in Christ, for showing me the PERFECT way to launch my Grief Relief Support business. I trust I will hear His voice in the help that He requires of me.
R. StarkOctober 5, 2022
As an former educator, I know that writing is such an important part of learning and thinking. I am wondering if our digital world will cause this important aspect to become obsolete.
RaLee HallOctober 5, 2022
This is excellent advise. Thank you.
HelenCOctober 5, 2022
Just what I needed as I get ready for my first webinar tonight on dealing with the loss of a child.
Thank you!
Jim LimOctober 4, 2022
Thirty five years age I got a bible (Old and New Testimony) on microfiche.
It was 2"x2".
Kathy SandersOctober 4, 2022
I felt an overwhelming theme was the importance of developing an ever deepening relationship with Christ. To live with Him as our daily companion, counselor, friend, and savior. I want to learn how to BE in that intense relationship with such a perfect friend more faithfully and trustingly. I was struck by the urgency to make and keep covenants with God. This is our only hope of surviving the days before us. And lastly for me was the sweet blessings our dear prophet bestowed upon us in his Sunday morning and afternoon talks. I want to claim each one of them and I love the power and authority he has to give us those blessings straight from God.
Dave HansenOctober 4, 2022
OK......I like this idea! When can I go to Deseret Book and buy one....??? :-)
MaryannOctober 3, 2022
LOVED the poem you shared. Beautiful!
MaryannOctober 3, 2022
I loved President Nelson's continued encouragement to focus on the temple in ways that we never have before. He has repeatedly stressed this in his past addresses as well. He gave a great PROMISE to all of us in his final talk on Sunday that increased time in the temple will bless our lives in ways that nothing else can. This promise has already been fulfilled in my life. I have focused much more on the temple, studied about the temple, increased my temple attendance, prayed and read the scriptures in the temple, and prepared myself with prayer before attending. I have also searched for my ancestors and received the ordinances for my own ancestors in the temple. As a result, my understanding of the temple has unfolded like a beautiful rose. I have felt close to my Savior, and also greater love and appreciation for the reality of His atonement for me. I feel that I know Him better and have sensed that I have access to his continuous power and strength. I continue to have new impressions and to gain more knowledge, faith, trust in, and commitment to my Savior.
Paul HOctober 3, 2022
God is always aware of us and desires to help us because He loves each of us as an individual and distinct son or daughter.
Doris WilliamsOctober 3, 2022
Wow! These are so beautiful. Almost makes me want to be back on Facebook so I could share them...but at 89 and still busy with family and temple work, I can't keep up with all the technology. Just don't have the words to express my gratitude for conference, for the counsel, for our blessed leaders, for this precious church.
KarenOctober 3, 2022
Build your relationship with Christ. He is the answer to everything
TJOctober 3, 2022
What has stood out to me is the way God shows his great love for us. Broadcast ability to reach the world. Translators to allow all to hear in their own language. Messages of instruction to restore hope. Love on display.
CodgerOctober 1, 2022
At your age it really doesn't matter. Take it out of his inheritance. In some cases he is going to have to pony up the money to pay for your care at a retirement home and that costs more than children. If you are still pretty healthy and live long enough, your grand children might be in a place to care for you. Think of that as a high risk, long term investment and do the best you can to stay in the game for them.
RobbSeptember 30, 2022
We have the opposite problem. My daughter and son-in-law refuse to accept any gifts we spontaneously select for our 3 grandchildren. For birthdays and Christmas, my son-in-law texts us the name of the one gift we may order for the children. They live across the country and we only see them every other year. We think the grandchildren will remember us as being ungenerous because of their father's restrictions on this matter.
Dave BallSeptember 30, 2022
Thank you, Scott! I'm using the statistics about most-referenced scriptures in my Seminary class this morning, as we focus on General Conference. We'll look at each of them and talk about why they might be so often referenced.
Wendy RojasSeptember 29, 2022
Beautiful and insightful writing. Thank you for sharing your perspective of healed old wounds through Jesus Christ.
StephSeptember 29, 2022
I enjoyed reading.
:) <3 (warm-hearted smiles) ^v (God is greater than the highs & lows)
BrentSeptember 29, 2022
Enjoyed reading of your meaningful thoughts/memories. Welcome home!
Taylor StonelySeptember 29, 2022
What a profound story! I have been thinking a lot about returning home to where I grew up in the East Millcreek area and this touched me as I too recalled many memories of my childhood. Your larger point of how the Savior’s Atonement can heal all wounds is so true! Thank you for sharing your experience and putting life in context of past, present, and future…
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
Jeff Bradshaw has written two articles on these chapters that will appear in Meridian this week. He may include the Jewish story there, or you can contact him.
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
We do not have transcripts when we have a guest, but we will not have guests very many more times this year, and will resume with the transcripts.
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
We only have transcripts when we do not have a guest with us. Most of the rest of the year, we will have transcripts.
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
We do not have a transcript for this podcast, but we will be publishing two back-to-back articles by Jeffrey Bradshaw on Meridian this week, so you can watch for them.
JudySeptember 25, 2022
I love this episode, Isaiah 50-57, as well as the many, many others that I have learned from this passed while and was wondering if there is a transcript of this podcast? I have the opportunity to speak in Sacrament Meeting and would like to use some quotes from the podcast.
Marjorie BaileySeptember 25, 2022
I also miss the written transcripts. I do not have a phone and rely on my computer. The written word makes it possible for me to take notes for further reference. I am very hard of hearing and miss so much of the audio. could you please consider returning to the previous way? Thank you for all that you do to allow us insight into the scriptures.
Corey D.September 25, 2022
Excellent, excellent article. What you are saying would have been almost universally agreed upon years ago but sadly no longer is and even sadder and I know others who feel the same, I feel like there is no hope that it will change.
Gordon J HensleySeptember 25, 2022
This concept never occurred to me until I read this article: The fields are burned after the harvest, not to punish the fields or the straw, but to prepare the fields for next season's planting. Likewise, the burning of the earth at the coming of the Lord is not to punish the earth or the people on it, but to prepare earth for it's next season. (Paradisiacal glory.)
marytarbetSeptember 24, 2022
I can’t say thank you enough for educating us and being willing to read books that have such offensive language and graphic content. You are a saint!
LupineSeptember 24, 2022
Unfortunately, not all abusers were victims of abuse themselves. Those who were, obviously need some attempts to help them. But some abusers are mentally ill in other ways and attempts to help them fail. Others are just evil. My husband learned about sex from the brothels of Havana, Cuba when the US Navy used to put in there for "R&R". Then he went home to Indiana and married the neighborhood slut who continued to cheat on him and he on her. Obviously, they ended up divorced. And then he wondered why I didn't act like a prostitute in our marriage and the abuse began.
Nathan DemersSeptember 24, 2022
11 of 17 prophets and additional apostles have clearly stated that fish is a healthy option and should be utilized.
Brigham Young made a statement that people were confusing the subject and made an attempt to simplify it.
Brigham Young
“…But we can eat fish…Fish is as healthy a food as we can eat, if we except vegetables and fruit, and with them will become a very wholesome diet. What hinders us from surrounding ourselves with an abundance of those various articles of food which will promote health and produce longevity? If it is anything, it is our own neglect; or, in other words, which will answer my purpose better, the want of knowing how.” - Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses Vol. 12 Necessity of obeying counsel, April 6, 1868
Position: President of the church
Emma McKenzieSeptember 24, 2022
I, too, have appreciated and taken for granted the wonderful transcripts that come with the lesson each week. I copied them weekly and sent them to my husband, who is in prison. He has been in prison 4 years and still has 4 more to go. Your lessons are filled with the spirit and inspiration he and I both need to get through each week. Your lessons are wonderful. I hope all is well with your family. You're in my prayers.
CarolSeptember 23, 2022
Is there any way to get a copy of Jeff Bradshaw's Jewish friend's testimony when he read Isaiah 53? Or, a book where it is written. Very powerful.
MaryannSeptember 23, 2022
When we focus only on the trial, we will be swallowed up by it. When we continue to recognize the beauty around us and spend more time focusing on our blessings, the scriptures, and the many witnesses in our lives of God's eternal, ever present love, we will have more peace. We can also remember President Hinckley's counsel that things WILL work out. We may be tired of waiting for that to occur, but we can choose to place our faith in our Savior and use that faith to remember that He is with us and will help us get through the hard times. We can humble ourselves and ask others for the help we need, instead of shouldering our burdens alone. We can remove great weights from our bodies and spirits by accepting the fact that we cannot solve the problems of others. As we continue to show love for family members, sometimes we just need to let go of trying to change things and, in faith, let our Heavenly Father take our burdens.
HalSeptember 23, 2022
Great article, thank you! It is amazing how devious people try to sneak destructive material into our children's minds under the guise of "inclusion" or even "art."
Steve GattenSeptember 23, 2022
It’s always interesting ready convoluted reasoning by therapists. While this article touches on some realities it pushes aside one of the obvious explanations. That is that the accusations we totally and intentionally made. I personally believe that is the case here as it was in all the other examples the author pointed out. There was motive and many, including Duke have in the end ignored the truth.
ElizabethSeptember 23, 2022
Excellent article. Thanks for taking the time to be so thorough and specific.
CASSeptember 23, 2022
This was very well written! Thank you for your time to put this crucial and detailed matter together. Informed families: take action!
MSeptember 23, 2022
Don’t forget this is in a context where public libraries in the US are also being targeted and forced to remove books about LGBTQI characters and by LGBTQI authors. I’m sure the situation is complex, but it is disingenuous to suggest that it’s just schools that this is happening in. Hopefully that is the case in Utah, but it is easy to see why people are becoming concerned about outright censorship in public and schools libraries in the US. There should also be discussion of options such as restriction by age or parental permission rather than by complete removal.
CarolSeptember 22, 2022
This is also the night of a marvelous heavenly manifestation of armies marching across the sky that was seen by Heber C. Kimball and family, Brigham Young, and others in Mendon, NY.
Kristen OpenshawSeptember 22, 2022
I posted this video two years ago during the Covid mandates. Funny how it seems to be making a comeback now, but I'm not sure that people view it the way I did then and do now.
Paul HSeptember 22, 2022
It is my belief and experience that God uses Priesthood Blessings to help us understand His will, and that through that means He does not test our faith, but rather He reinforces our faith. I've had similar experiences to the ones in this article. They also increase our focus on God's love for each of us.
Joy LundbergSeptember 22, 2022
I really enjoyed this article. It brings comfort and peace. Thanks again for another great article, full of meaning and insight. Your writing always uplifts me.
HalSeptember 22, 2022
This story reminds me of our honeymoon 37 years ago. We spent the first two nights in a nice, reasonably priced hotel in a quiet little town with amazing scenery right outside the door. My wife was very frugal (a good attribute) and decided the hotel we were staying in was too expensive and suggested we could get a cheaper one in the next (larger) town up the road. I reluctantly cancelled our remaining three nights in the nice hotel and packed up to head to the next town. Upon entering the town, we found a string of "No Vacancy" signs at each hotel we drove by. The hotel room we finally got at the edge of town was indeed cheaper. It also reeked of cigarette smoke and alcohol. We also noticed that the parking lot began to fill up as the day wore on and realized it was the first day of the elk hunt in that state. We were awakened at 4:00 a.m. the next morning to the sound of 4-wheel-drive pickups starting up, headlights shining through our window, the loud clomping of hunting boots on the wood walkway outside our room, and loud voices shouting out "Hey Jake, you got the beer?" Short story, after two nights of this we decided to cut our honeymoon short and just go home. We look back on this event and laugh, but it wasn't very amusing at the time.
GaleSeptember 22, 2022
Another wonderful event is the giving of the keys of the restoration to Joseph Smith (with Oliver Cowdery present) in the Kirtland Temple on Sunday, April 3rd, 1836. The brethren saw the Christ and received keys from Elijah, Moses, and Elias. This day was the Jewish holiday of Bikkurim, or first fruits (Bikkurim refers to "honored son"). This wave offering occurs during Passover week and is meant to guarantee a perfect harvest for the coming year. This is the day that Christ rose from the dead!
ObserverSeptember 21, 2022
I appreciate these stories. It seems faith is very rare to be found these days.. sometimes even amongst many church members. Faith is real and the FIRST principle of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
CarolSeptember 21, 2022
Yikes!!! That was a funny story - I hope it wasn't true!!! It's a great lesson in cheapest is not always the best choice!!
ShaunaSeptember 21, 2022
Fantastic--thank you for this even handed, eye opening, wise article about raising children in an increasingly secular world--and some of the "woke" terms used were new to me. My kids are now college age and on missions, but I think young adulthood is also a time of incredible challenge as they strive to be adults and feel wise in their own eyes and are excited by new ideas etc. and are still so influenced by their peers. We have found that the Church's emphasis on having pre missionaries become ordinance workers in the temple, is an incredible foundation to ground them.
I love the author's distinction between rejecting ideas but not rejecting people and for her belief that our kids are not here by accident at this time and in this place
LOSeptember 19, 2022
Your photo shows the signing of the Declaration, not the Constitution
Jo Ann McVey OkelberrySeptember 19, 2022
I agree with this article.
HalSeptember 19, 2022
Great article, thank you! I have long feared that our inspired Constitution is only a single administration away from "hanging by a thread."
Ben JonesSeptember 19, 2022
Winston Churchill once said that "Democracy is the worst form of government except for all the others." One of the things I admire about our country is that we do try to make up for past mistakes from time to time. Sometimes, people get impatient and wish that a slight majority ought to be able to do what it wants but then all it takes to undo it is a slight majority in the other direction. Then again, sometimes a lop-sided majority will do the wrong thing in the heat of the moment and then see things go awry. Constant course correction is needed.
Corey D.September 18, 2022
This first thing that should have tipped people off that something was wrong was the fact that it was "women's volleyball" , people who go to women's sports and/or volleyball are not troublemakers or people who say those kind of things. Second, it was at a BYU event, while BYU students and fans are not perfect they are not the kind of people who would say those things or tolerate it being said.
RASeptember 18, 2022
This story could have been about our son and his soon to be ex-wife. All we could do was stand helplessly by and support our son while he decided on his own when he had enough of her controlling personality. What is missing in this story of controlling spouses, that the control in one form or another still goes on even after the marrige splits up. When there are children involved. Truly the patience of Job is involved with these relationships.
WendySeptember 18, 2022
So sorry for the pain you have suffered. I’m glad you are healing and that you have stayed with the gospel. Thank you for helping others who have had the same dreadful experience.
PhilSeptember 17, 2022
The victims need to start suing these newspapers for slander and blatantly sloppy reporting. That's the only way to make this nonsense stop.
Vira Ann JohnsonSeptember 16, 2022
I can get the full podcast with writing on my phone but not on my computer. I am deaf and so need to see the written work. I love what you do and like to run them off so I can digest them more. Thank you
LoraSeptember 16, 2022
I've greatly missed the transcripts to these podcasts, so I want to express my gratitude for them in the past. Without the transcripts, I've been motivated to purchase Dr. Muhlestein's book, Learning to Love Isaiah, and it has been very helpful in my understanding of the scriptures. I recommend it highly. Thank you to those who have provided the transcripts in the past. We miss you, and we hope you are in good health. We look forward to your return.
vickieSeptember 16, 2022
when ever someone is like this daughter in law its because of fear and things that happened in her life and doesnt want to happen again. so i think the mother does need to develope that close relationship with the daughter in law which i think will ease her fears.
Patsy SwinsonSeptember 15, 2022
I think a main problem is that most people just don't want to believe that such atrocities are happening to people they know, and being committed by people they know. They block it out and sometimes won't believe it even when told about it. It's time to stop assuming that just because someone seems to be such a nice person that they are incapable of horrible behavior behind closed doors.
Rebecca PinegarSeptember 15, 2022
Yours is a heartbreaking story. Thank you for sharing and adding such a faithful and enlightening message of hope. Life is very complicated and the answers often are even more complicated. Blessings to you and hopefully countless others who may learn from your helpful and loving counsel.
Beth TSeptember 15, 2022
Thank you so very much for your insightful and encouraging words. I speak peace and truth to my heart. I pray they may do the same for others.
V HamiltonSeptember 15, 2022
Thank you for this article. I'm a victim of abuse but strongly disagree with the lynch mob mentality against offenders as I believe they too were abused and never received the help they needed. They too can repent and heal through the atonement of our Saviour. I choose to forgive lest I be judged the same.
Rob McGhieSeptember 14, 2022
The spirit children of Heavenly Father were given their first chance at exaltation in the pre- existence, the second chance came in this earth and most of them will get a third.chance is the post mortal Spirit World. How many chances do you want to give them? Unlimited? Where’s the justice in that. Just like the mortal law “Three strikes and you’re out”.
Becca HowardSeptember 14, 2022
Your travel tips are so important. Years ago our flight was diverted to another state due to weather, but our luggage was in limbo. My husband had to be on a job site at 7 a.m. We got a car and arrived at our hotel, and were lucky to find a 24-hour Walmart where he could get work clothes. I had enough to get by in my carry-on until our luggage was delivered. Another time we sat on our flight for several hours before they closed the airport due to snow. Fortunately, we were able to get our luggage, but we couldn't get another flight out for two days. Fortunately, we were able to get a hotel. Every bit of preparedness helps.
Cyndi H.September 14, 2022
Thank you for your insights. I agree with you. Our time of probation here on this Earth and in the Spirit World ends at the time of our resurrection with either a telestial, terrestrial, or celestial body. We receive the body for the glory that we feel most comfortable with. Yes, I believe that we can all eternally learn and grow. However, I believe those opportunities reside in each of those kingdoms and that’s where they stay.
brettSeptember 14, 2022
I have given a lot of thought about this over the years and the comments in this article make sense. What I struggle with reconciling is the family situations. An enormous focus is put on uniting families forever and I can see the real possibility that earthly families would be in different kingdoms after a final judgment. In my limited earthly view I don't see how I could enjoy a celestial life while loved family members are in a different kingdon.
John CrowderSeptember 14, 2022
Thanks for sharing that update. I totally agree with your son's question about how can we be so passive about such a tragedy and how important it is to keep that memory alive. Kudos to him for his efforts.
HalSeptember 14, 2022
What a wonderful, thought-provoking article! Prior to my reading this article, I have harbored some very unkind thoughts toward those who initiated and perpetuate false accusations. I am beginning to see now that their actions may have been based on some very real prior injuries. I will likely continue to stand up for myself when I feel I'm being attacked, but I will try to do so in a way that takes into consideration what the other person may be feeling.
John PetersenSeptember 14, 2022
Excellent article Jeff! From the beginning of this incident I thought both sides were too quick to rush to judgment, but the BYU response was what our society demands now. I feel bad for the poor guy wrongly accused. I hope they offer him season tickets as reparations. I especially liked your explanation that Rachel really believes she heard what she said. And I know from personal experience that people can hear what was never said. People hear what they want to hear.
BoBSeptember 14, 2022
I believe there is a lot of truth in what you are saying. I do not believe that everything you are saying is necessarily true. It is possible, I believe probable, for the parent(s) to provide to their children what they need and what they merit without providing everything they could have received. There are too many scriptures and revelations to simply say, "you will get everything that will make you the happiest forever." I do not believe that. I am not Presbyterian; I do not believe some are simply created for this glory and some for that. I believe, as a child of God, each has divine potential. We will become what we choose, not what we are. Yes all of the Kingdoms of Glory are for joy, but not all will receive a fullness of joy and they will be aware of that. Everything to the left of the Celestial Kingdom is a degree (we Latter-Day Saints teach and believe in degrees) of damnation; everything to the right of outer darkness is a degree of Salvation. Yes they will have joy, but yes there will be some sorrow as well.
IanSeptember 14, 2022
Let me add that NO ONE will arrive at the resurrection with anything less than an absolutely full understanding of the kingdoms and what they entail. If someone chooses the Telestial or Terrestrial (or even one of the lower levels of the Celestial), it is because they have no desire for anything else.
If someone has an honest desire to become Celestial, then they will achieve their goal BEFORE the resurrection, no matter how long it takes or how much repentance it requires. It is, after all, an infinite Atonement. In other words, no one in a lower kingdom will desire to go to a higher kingdom because they already made their permanent, full and open, all information included, no deception or misunderstanding involved choice.
Boanerges RubalcavaSeptember 14, 2022
Very good article, for helping us as individuals. However, for us as a nation, it does not help, since as we can see from ms. Richardson, she as well as many people in this country are constantly bombarded by what the author is telling us: "we are all racists" not only that, I believe the worst is that because society trying to repair one evil (racism) creates even more and more damaging situations. For instance since we want "diversity" they now have most if not all the public environment (films, commercial, press, tv, etc) full of the "past oppressed" and none of the "past oppressors", and this is the "diversity" they the "saviors" of those maligned in the past, has given us: the rest of the nation. From this comes the "lynching" of the police man who put his knee in the neck of the "oppressed" who was intoxicated with 3 (or maybe more) lethal doses of a toxic substance that causes his death (according with the initial forensic reports), and this independently of the (for sure) police brutality shown by the police man. This is al over the nation, "diversity" or that matter "racism or anti-racism" is rampant and therefore, more and more, lack of love is shown everywhere. This is sad, very sad.
Boanerges RubalcavaSeptember 14, 2022
I think the author is setting limits to ETERNITY. Of course, we do not know if there are really progression from one glory to other, but, the mortal examples he uses are by far less important than the ETERNAL PROGRESSION and of course the immense love of God for His children. After all, I strongly believe that although "...this is my work and my glory to bring to pass immortality and eternal life for man.", due to His eternal love for us actually I believe He wants Eternal Life for all His children, unfortunately many of us did not appreciate it and simple accept the other glories. But still I think He wants Eternal Life for all, and as a matter of fact He has been helping us throughout our mortal existence (and very likely after it) to gain precisely Eternal Life.
Herm OlsenSeptember 14, 2022
Bro. Goddard offers a wonderful insight into a perplexing question. I can take a deeper, more relaxing breath on the issue based on his observations. Thank you much for these insights. You’re amazing!
MarySeptember 14, 2022
I think this is a nice thought, but since there hasn't been a lot reveled I think it is safer to say that we just don't know. I personally lean more towards that there will be mobility between kingdoms. I think a loving God will give his children as many chances as he can to have them back. I once was stressed about being at the " celestial" level that God was by the time the final judgement came I then had a thought that maybe God didn't just become God over night, but through progressing throughout time which took away my anxiety. So I like to think about the eternities of one of constance growing and progressing.
Becky L RoseSeptember 14, 2022
I have never believed this is possible.
KcSeptember 14, 2022
If we are the same people and enjoy the same socialites I believe we will deal with regrets that we might have chosen better. That’s likely true if we’re missing family members in other kingdoms. If you’re in say terrestrial then you can be visited by a celestial family member. A terrestrial family member can visit a telestial. Visiting isn’t the same as living together and working for common goals. Spouses who love each other but weren’t valiant enough for exaltation might be celestial but not exalted as husband and wife. Despite the happiness of working to fulfill our eternal selves there will be regrets by those not exalted—they will wish they had the powers others have. There will even be sorrow on the part of exalted beings that people they love aren’t anywhere near, just like our Heavenly Father has for us.
I have a friend who said she’s perfectly content being an angel to a god. Yet she’s so intensely invested in the work of her family, esp wayward family. Why not shoot for the moon so you can have power within yourself to effect change in their behalf?
Craig FrogleySeptember 13, 2022
One of your very best...insightful and touching!!
Michael GoodmanSeptember 12, 2022
"Vice is a monster of so frightful mien
As to be hated needs but to be seen;
Yet seen too oft, familiar with her face,
We first endure, then pity, then embrace."
Alexander Pope
Too many people it seems are at the pity/embrace stage.
When the robbers of Gadianton came among the Lamanites, they cast them out, so the robbers went to the Nephites and corrupted the whole nation. When shall we stand up and remove unrepentant corrupters from our institutions? Hopefully soon, or we will lose a generation.
Ed GayhartSeptember 12, 2022
What do you expect from the sources mentioned - fairness, integrity and honesty? Those items have not been seen at CNN, ABC for 30 years.
DanSeptember 12, 2022
The evidence would show this is like a Jesse Smolet claim, or like the Duke LaCross rape accusation, You cannot bury the truth, put all the facts out there. This Media group are known liers. False accusations only make race relations more dificult. It destroys trust
Kristen OpenshawSeptember 12, 2022
This whole episode is troubling. "Innocent until proven guilty" has been abandoned, even by BYU's athletic department and Utah's governor.
Maralyn DotsonSeptember 12, 2022
Oh Wow! Thankyou so much for capturing thoughts that are so hard to define and to express! Putting them together in this article makes them shareable. I love your insight and depth! Thankyou!
Susan MarkhamSeptember 9, 2022
Thank you Maurine. You learned from your wonderful father and mother and have lifted all around you!
Becca HowardSeptember 8, 2022
There have been many modifications in women's temple dresses, and many styles available, including skirts and blouses, from many distributors. As an ordinance I sometimes chuckle that we "are the same, all dressed in white" when I see the fashion show of so many styles of white dresses. However, there is something for everyone. It is wonderful that many types of shoes are allowed, as a simple white slipper did not support the feet of many sisters. I even have a pair of heels that I sometimes wear on my shift because one of my dresses is on the long side. My sadness comes when observing how sacred clothing has been cared for by not ironing or by carelessness in packing in temple bags.
JimSeptember 8, 2022
I LOVE how you think! Thank you for yet another uplifting article.
Fellow workerSeptember 8, 2022
In the Raleigh Temple, in North Carolina, one of the workers wears a bow tie. I'm a bit jealous since I don't have the first clue how to tie one.
Gale BoydSeptember 7, 2022
Interestingly, during the first Gulf War, when we were living in Israel, the code word for incoming missiles was, in Hebrew, "fiery, flying serpents," and we heard the quote from Isaiah 14:29 often, with the cockatrice used to typify Saddam Hussein--"Rejoice not thou, whole Palestina, because the rod of him that smote thee is broken: for out of the serpent’s root shall come forth a cockatrice, and his fruit shall be a fiery flying serpent."
Rosa IngramSeptember 7, 2022
Like the author, I was a tomboy and loved hunting, fishing, climbing trees, wearing blue jeans and flannel shirts. I was envious of the boys because of all they good do, that I couldn't do. At times even wishing I was a boy! I am so glad that I was allowed to go through puberty and become the woman I am today. I eventually grew curves and wasn't sure I liked them. But those curves enabled me to bear children and become a mother and receive blessings beyond measure.
HelenCSeptember 7, 2022
Perfect timing as usual from these articles. Thank you.
vickieSeptember 7, 2022
IM glad this is being dealt with. i think there must be a difference between people who are homosexual then people who have gender dysphoria. i have a homosexual son and he doesnt want to change his body into a girls. neither does his partner. i myself believe that it all is a disorder in the body itself. that somehow in the genetic make up while the child is in utero, something happens. my son started exhibiting his homosexuality when very young. he didnt know it but his brothers and sister noticed it. then when puberty hit he noticed it and had to live with it. he didnt come out until he was in his 30's but he told us he knew when he hit about 11yrs old. i wish there was more investigation into a physical disorder that causes any of these things.
Robert StarlingSeptember 6, 2022
Thanks to Jeff for highlighting some of the strongest logical evidences of the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon. Of course the strongest and most impresive is the witness of the Holy Spirit, but for those unwilling to humble themselves yet and ask God if it's true, these are good building blocks to construct a jumping-off point for that leap of faith.
I provided some of these and other evidences in the Meridian article published in January of 2020 called "10 Things the Devil Does Not Want You to Know About the Book of Mormon". To find it, just type the first few words of that title into the search box at the top of the Meridian Magazine main page.
Lorene E. WalkerSeptember 6, 2022
Very interesting! I hope to be able to read some of the sources cited.
JemezblueSeptember 6, 2022
Thank you for this article. It is sad to see so much worldly activism in the Lord's university. I am a grad student at another university in the Southwest. My university has a LGBT Resource Center with some activities during the school year, but I do not see this type of activism that was reported above in my university neighborhood. This is disturbing. Please do not let this get a hold of BYU.
Carlos RoundySeptember 6, 2022
Joseph Smith simply did not have the capacity to write the Book of Morman on his own. He could not have written one chapter of the book of mormon. He was a transmitter not a translator. He said, by the gift and power of God, it was accomplished.
Lawrence RookhuyzenSeptember 6, 2022
Great article but the best "test" will always be the one found in Moroni 10:4-5.
MaryannSeptember 6, 2022
Wow--who knew? I thought all I had to do was sincerely read it and then ask our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ if the Book of Mormon was true. I was promised by Moroni, that great Book of Mormon Prophet, that if I would ask with a sincere heart and with real intent, having faith in Christ, that the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon would be manifested to me by the power of the Holy Ghost. If a person does not take those steps, no amount of information will convince them and, sadly, A genuine testimony will always be beyond their reach.
MaryannSeptember 6, 2022
Unless EVERYONE who had ANY involvement in the creating and distribution of this pamphlet to BYU students is promptly expelled from BYU, this disgusting behavior will continue. There are MANY young people just waiting to step in, obey the rules, and enjoy an education at BYU with GRATITUDE! Looks like the administration is going to have to RAISE the standard for those who wish to attend, and Bishops are going to have to be very searching in their interviews with prospective students.
Jenifer OylerSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for this article! Thank you for bringing this sleaze into the light. Anything that persuades people to live contrary to the commandments is not helping but harming others.
Judy ShumwaySeptember 5, 2022
thank you for sharing we MUST stand for the teaching of our Lord Jesus Christ and not follow the world. thanks keep on
Rob McGhieSeptember 5, 2022
I am a littlest confused. How can this exist in a church school. We have standards, we have revealed truth. These anarchists Should not be tolerated at BYU. There are many other liberal universities that they can attend if they want to express these outrageous beliefs. If student cannot adhere to Gospel standards they should be asked to leave. Enough is enough.
JeniferSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for this very informative article! It is absolutely horrifying and disturbing to see these young adults get sucked into these lies! Thank you for exposing this pamphlet and the groups behind it for what they really are.
Sue HaberSeptember 5, 2022
Excellent article. Thank you for sharing this information. Needs to be shared with others.
Robert StarlingSeptember 5, 2022
Only one commenter has mentioned the silver lining underneath this "rainbow" topic (pun intended). When the issue was brought to the attention of the BYU administration, they STOPPED the distribution of this insidious pamphlet.
Yes, BYU needs to be more vigilent in "defending truth and right", so the that the "youth of Zion" do not "falter", and yes, the activists need to be escorted to the edge of campus and invited to find an educational institution better suited to their preferences and their world view.
But lest we throw out the baby with the filthy bathwater, remember that my beloved Alma Mater is still the Lord's University (NOT the activists', although they claim it is theirs). And having attended another college back East for two years before going to BYU, believe me, it is still a MUCH better alternative.
Barry HSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you, Cassandra, for providing the details, photos, screen shots and research that the major news outlets should have provided. And thank you, Meridian, for featuring Cassandra's article. I figured BYU had good reasons for removing the pamphlet from the welcome packet. Now I know exactly what they were. Too bad it got as far as it did. But there are devious people around who manage to get past the safeguards sometimes. Thankfully some good folks at BYU caught it before it went to more freshmen.
SSSSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for your work
Duane BoyceSeptember 5, 2022
A great article about a tragic reality--and Hedelius had to do what others, in the actual news business, either couldn't do or wouldn't do. On multiple levels, the entire situation is sad beyond words.
SylviaSeptember 5, 2022
Amen! This needs to be sent to church leaders! I do not want my tithing to be used to pay people who seek to destroy my child's faith.
LindaSeptember 5, 2022
This is disgusting and outrageous. Kick those nasty groups out of BYU!
Harold RustSeptember 5, 2022
It is truly sad that the LGBTQ community are willing to resort to such "bait" tactics for supposedly pursuing broader respect among all elements of society. It seems obvious to me they have learned the smart, clever tactic of delivering sensational headlines that are snapped up by media reporters eager to overcome the dwindling number of readers or watchers of their news. As such, they prey on the most vulnerable element of our religious culture: our desire to love others and always reach out to help the lost sheep. Consequently, they draw in some of our youth to become antagonistic against the Church because they now think we don't love and respect others different from us---especially those not following the commandments of God. Somehow, through this morass of devilish deception, we Church members have to be more "compassionately clever" and take a firm but well-thought-out response that can expose what is really going on. Only then will some of these youth who have been drawn away see more clearly where the truth actually lies. I hope we can find a way to be as "socially smart and clever" as the other side is while still retaining our faith in our prophet and Church leaders.
Paul HSeptember 5, 2022
The powers of darkness never rest whwen it comes to the youth, our families, or even ourselves. It is disgusting to hear what is happening on the fringes at BYU. Hopefully is gets rooted out and never becomes mainstream. I simply cannot feel anything of value or light in a drag show and those who do would qualify as confusing good and eveil. Baalam indeed.
JoshSeptember 5, 2022
To the credit of BYU, they tried to stop this when they found out.
JoshSeptember 5, 2022
The is disturbing and sickening. BYU has some cleanup to do…starting with faculty or administrators who support and encourage students to participate in this garbage. This is so sad. Why is Deseret News defending this? With the current political climate, those who see this are afraid to speak up for fear of being fired or labeled racists homophobes. This has NO place whatsoever and a church sponsored institution.
JimSeptember 5, 2022
They certainly love to use the word "pride" a lot. As the Good Book says, "Pride goeth before destruction..."
Not only the LGBTQ+ community, but there are reports of many BYU professors who are preaching false doctrines, setting themselves up as authorities, or as the Book of Mormon calls it, "priestcrafts".
I'm glad none of my children chose to attend the Y, if this is where this Church-owned school is heading.
JacklynSeptember 5, 2022
Carol: I 100% agree with your comment!
ElizabethSeptember 5, 2022
To borrow the author's word, this step-up in gay and transgender activism at BYU (and the Church-owned Deseret News) is "horrifying." Thanks to the author for doing the unpleasant work necessary to make this public.
LindaSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for your thorough analysis. For us folks not aware of BYUs actions due to distance from Utah, we appreciate the info do we can respond to queries accordingly. We also do not want our tithing to support such trash activities and deceptive communications. What is going on at BYU??? Someone(s) needs to be held accountable!!!!!
Jan ChilsonSeptember 5, 2022
I totally agree! Both my children have attended "Church" schools before this was a big thing, but the adjustments etc. even at that time (20 years ago) were sometimes overwhelming. I cannot imagine adding all these "causes" to the adjustment. I do believe we need to be loving and understanding of people who accept this kind of life, but WE do not need to accept it. Plus, I do not accept my tithing supporting this movement!!
Gail HeathSeptember 5, 2022
All of those groups who were promoting the lies should be kicked out of BYU. How long are we going to be tolerantt and understanding of lies??
Gail HeathSeptember 5, 2022
All of those groups who were promoting the lies should be kicked out of BYU. How long are we going to be tersnt and understanding of lies??
SylviaSeptember 5, 2022
Amen to Carol's comment!!
Gary LindnerSeptember 5, 2022
I wonder how many of the ‘resources’ in the pamphlet were detransitioning support and information. Thousands regret transitioning and the UK, which was ‘Ahead if the Curve’ on trans treatment just closed their largest trans facility.
I weep for the poor children at the school where I teach who are pursuing this damaging attempt to find happiness.
Pamela BiggerSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for writing a very informative article….i appreciate your courage to write and share the truth about about these groups that are trying to destroy good peoples lives with lies and deception…i can only hope that these truths will be brought to light and that the Board of Trustees will do more in their power to stop this disinformation and be more courageous in protecting their students and defending true gospel principles
CarolSeptember 5, 2022
I hope someone on BYU's Board of Trustees gets this info. This is very disturbing, and I’m one who does NOT want my tithing money used for pro-LGBTQ causes at BYU.
L NielsonSeptember 4, 2022
Have you permanently done away with the transcripts of your podcast. They make it so much easier to find thoughts I want to share with others
MlbsSeptember 4, 2022
Where is the full transcript? I like to use it to refer to later.
Megan T.September 2, 2022
My fabulous RS president had us put together neighborhood clubs at a Relief Society activity. There's a hiking club, an exercise club, a playgroup club, a dinner-or-movie club, a book club, and a learn-new-skills club. So far, in the skills club, I've taught or been taught breadmaking, emergency preparedness, gardening, and earring making, and a class on at-home manicures is coming up. It's open to everyone--ward members and neighbors alike. And sometimes a class is held both during the day and in the evening to catch sisters with different schedules. It's been really fun and has brought us closer together.
HamiltonSeptember 2, 2022
Wow. Great insight. I've learned something valuable from every one of this writer's articles. I'm so happy she has joined the Meridian crew!
LoraSeptember 2, 2022
I want to offer my thanks to the dedicated person/people who have made the transcripts possible in the past. Now that it isn't there, I can appreciate how blessed we have been. I hope that the person/people who did the transcribing is in good health or will be, and that we can be blessed by the transcripts again in the future.
Lanny SheaSeptember 1, 2022
I love how you put this story in reality. We are all trying to work through our grown children. If we are smart we never compare them to anyone else’s children because each family has a different style than another’s and each child has a different style of receiving what ever the parent is giving. With grown children they are living their lives as they have been taught and with their own little twist. Some have sorrows that can not be healed with a hug and a kiss but with patience and unconditional love. As parents we are there to help and always be in the wings sending out love and kindness at all times. We will never not be parents that is a role we were given when that first child was placed in our arms and every child after that. We don’t have to hover over them if we know we have taught them well, just be there.
Craig FrogleyAugust 31, 2022
In light of this excellent and insightful assessment of our cultural change, we need to do a better job of teaching agency including self-governance, than we do. We are inclined to do all we can as parents to control and limit choices rather than helping our children understand choice, accountability and consequence.
LexaGraemeAugust 31, 2022
I have seen dogs react tenderly to the elderly and infirm. I am looking forward to reading what this precious dog does next.
PattieAugust 31, 2022
Grandparenting is an art that is very hard to learn. One would think after 25 years with our first grandchild it would be easier but it isn’t. Sometimes as a grandparent we had emergency situations that called us to do difficult things. (Not life and death situations but was spiritual life and death). Helping and knowing when NOT to help has been a challenge.
Larry NielsenAugust 30, 2022
There are beautiful spiders and beautiful butterflies. For the most part, both beasties do a wonderful job of fulfilling the measure of their creation. I hope that as Children of God, we are doing as well as both these creatures do in fulfilling the measure of our creation. By the way, both spiders and butterflies come in varieties that eat disgusting things and are vicious is their actions.
Noel JensenAugust 30, 2022
Joseph Smith taught, "It is the first principle of the Gospel to know for a certainty the character of God," and it seems to me that knowing how He feels about His children is a vital part of that knowledge. It's also no accident that the Restoration Proclamation begins with the proclamation that, "God loves His children in every nation of the world." Thanks for sharing this new analogy that expresses a positive that God might view us as we are while at the same time seeing what we might become.
KimAugust 30, 2022
Enjoyed your message
ConnieAugust 28, 2022
Is there a full transcript available for this podcast?
MlbsAugust 28, 2022
Where is the full transcript? I can only find the first paragraph.
Corey D.August 28, 2022
This is one of the best, most insightful and I would say inspired articles I have ever read in church related literature. Every member especially the youth and young adults should read this. A lot of people I know who no longer go to church should read this. The author has learned something so very few have learned or realize. God bless you for your heartfelt thoughts, feelings and testimony.
JulieAugust 28, 2022
Such a timely and relevant reminder to claim ownership of our spirituality, and to reject the temptations of victimhood and blame. Made me look forward to General Conference, where we’ll be reminded AGAIN to turn to Jesus.
Phoebe HallAugust 28, 2022
This sister’s perspective is beautiful and so true. The Church and its wonderfully flawed members have been the vehicle for me to know Christ and how the Atonement and covenants work in my daily life. While turmoil and heartbreak surrounds me, I have found peace and comfort in my relationship with God. He is the only one who truly knows what I am going through and how to comfort me.
KathyAugust 27, 2022
Thank you for your insights! This is wonderful to remember.
MaryannAugust 26, 2022
WOW! I wish everyone could read this. Have you considered submitting it to the Liahona church magazine? When we say "the church let me down" we are usually really saying that an individual let us down. As you pointed out, members of the church are often not trained to deal perfectly with every one of our problems. Often we ask for help from "the church" when we need to turn to the Savior first. Trusted family members or friends can also be resources for us. There are certainly times when we need to counsel with our Bishop, but we should not expect him to perfectly "solve" all our problems. As far as children and our youth are concerned, this article is a reminder that we should be observant regarding their moods, behavior and needs. We need to keep our eyes open and report any abuse to the proper authorities.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryAugust 26, 2022
Everyone should read this. I have had sorrow for not understanding someone's problem, but I did pray and encourage and support others.
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 26, 2022
Excellent! Thank you for clarifying the purpose of the Church.We all know too many lovely Saints who have left, disillusioned because their expectations were not met.
HalAugust 26, 2022
Thank you for your wonderful insight. I, too, have felt let down when following the counsel of leaders did not have the desired effect in my life. I was promised things like "if you read scriptures and have family prayer daily, your children will never go astray and your marriage will never end in divorce." Despite faithfully following that counsel, my first marriage ended in divorce and only one of my four children has embraced the gospel (to date). Still, the gospel of Jesus Christ continued to bless my life in other ways - most of which were completely unanticipated. While mortals often fail us, the Lord never will. I have seen His love manifest in my life over and over again.
John SowaAugust 26, 2022
Thank you for your perspective.
JJAugust 26, 2022
I completely agree with the article. Its not the church's job to solve all our problems. In my twenties I was struggling with a number of overwhelming trials, and my mom kept urging me to go talk to the bishop about it. Over the years I talked with three different bishops and all of them were completely and totally unhelpful. One in particular seemed really burnt out and like he couldn't care less. Later, after reflecting on this, I realized it had been silly for me to expect these men to be able to help me. They had absolutely zero training and experience with the trials I was struggling with. As for the bishop with a negative attitude, I can't blame him. Imagine being a bishop and having everyone in the ward coming to you, expecting you to magically have all the answers! Since then I have never gone to the bishop for anything, instead I seek out people who are actually qualified and able to help. I go directly to Heavenly Father when it comes to spiritual matters, and I have been much better off for it.
Harold RustAugust 26, 2022
This article is a very uplifting and positive reminder of the fundamental sources we should rely on while working our way through challenges and experiences requiring decisions and actions on our part. Thanks for the lift.
Kate MerrillAugust 26, 2022
Incredibly well said as too often the purpose and expectations of the church are erroneously believed to be our refuge, our fail-safe from all troubles, our answers to all questions. As an adult convert, I started my spiritual awakening and search by reaching out to a God I was not sure existed. When His loving kindness brought me relief, light, and answers I realized this new source of direct and personal guidance, correction, and care needed forever nurturing. The church is my school, my hospital, and my access to Priesthood powers to guide me home. Heavenly Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost are the counselors, Savior, and conscious needed to make that happen.
PennieAugust 26, 2022
Amen Sister
JOHNAugust 26, 2022
As a person who has served in multiple callings which required me to meet and counsel people, I am sure I "let them down" on occasion. There were times when I didn't feel the Spirit as I should have even though I had prayed and sought counsel prior to the encounter. I often felt inadequate to address the issues at hand and that was always a difficult time for me. I appreciate this perspective because even though it is not what people want to hear, or what I expected of myself in those situations, it is the reality of life. I am a fallen person and frequently didn't have the answers someone was seeking. I am also very thankful that for the most part, those whom I talked with recognized my fallibility and lack of expertise, took what advice I had to give, and then approached the Lord for the best guidance. I believe that we all let each other down on occasion, but like some many things in this life, it encourages us to seek answers and grow.
RD CarpenterAugust 26, 2022
Excellent article. Very wise and insightful. For someone who writes about not having received the counsel she needed, she gives great counsel here that we all need!.
Barbara WalkerAugust 22, 2022
I loved this article. I couldn't help but think, "I know who the Gadiantons are" and also thinking that someone I know and love is also saying the same thing, however their Gadiantons are on the other side of my Gadiantons. Yes, we need to study our leaders carefully, to see who the real Gadiantons are. Thank you.
LindAAugust 22, 2022
This article is right on! Be careful who you vote for!
Julie SavilleAugust 22, 2022
Awesome! Brad, this is Julie Saville, formerly of Topeka. I was surprised to see your name as the author of this great article. I just ordered your book. I would love to hear about your family... Where do you live now, etc... Please give Jan my love, and reconnect.
David PerryAugust 20, 2022
The urge to serve is foreign to our natural man and woman instincts, but your loving, spiritual insights are marvelous in motivating! Thank you. We love you and appreciate your example of service and your thoughtful words teaching us how to serve more like the Master Servant.
Helmut A. WorleAugust 19, 2022
Explain this: When you have a servant's heart you serve even when it is "unpleasant". How an it be unpleasant when it is supposed to be "a pleasure to serve Thee"?
Boanerges RubalcavaAugust 19, 2022
Very good article. We must study read, and comment about our REPUBLIC and the Founding Fathers. How the Constitution allow us to be defended from The government! This is of the utmost importance, and we must watch not only the Supreme Court when they begin to legislate from the bench, but also the other two branches to ask them to follow the great Constitution of the USA.
AnnieAugust 19, 2022
Thanks for the clarification of the boundaries of The Supreme Court.
Kayleen A HunsakerAugust 19, 2022
My husband died a couple months ago...and I have been SO blessed by SO many during the entire time before & since his death. Those around me have truly had a "servant's heart"!
Mark W MinerAugust 18, 2022
So grateful to read this and feel the spirit of service, which is truly the Spirit of our Savior. My heart is full.
Joy LundbergAugust 18, 2022
I love this article. Thanks for theses inspiring examples. They inspires me to do more for others. I feel so blessed by all the love and service that friends and family have shown to me. Because of their countenance I sense it is a pleasure for them, that they truly love serving me and so many others. I feel surrounded by people with "servant's hearts".
Herm OlsenAugust 18, 2022
Excellent suggestions. I’m surprised you didn’t include “Since Cumorah” by Hugh Nibley.
Ornella BrennaAugust 17, 2022
REFLECT the image of Christ
UrszulaAugust 16, 2022
Righteousness
Cheryl BurtonAugust 16, 2022
"R" could stand for "Receive". When we put the Lord first in our lives we are not only thankful for the Lord's Atonement but actively use His Atonement and receive those blessings. Receive His peace. Receive His comfort. Receive His countenance in our image. Receive His tender mercies and miracles that fortifies our FAITH. Receive His revelation so we know how to be an INSTRUMENT in His hands. Receive strength beyond our own so we can endure.
John LakerAugust 16, 2022
My Acronym for faith is Father Always Invites Trusting Him
TiffanyAugust 16, 2022
Wonderful beginning to the acronym you began! The next word should be the word Receive.
KAndersonAugust 13, 2022
I am in the middle of my sixth miscarriage, preparing to deliver my lost angel this week. I knew when I saw the email from Meridian that there would be something in there for me, and there was your article. Thank you for sharing your story and for your beautiful insight about reacting in trials.
Terry MontagueAugust 12, 2022
Thanks, Brother Goddard. That was a great message for anyone at any time in our lives.
Laurel DraperAugust 12, 2022
Wonderful perspectives. I ALWAYS enjoy Bro. Goddard's articles. This is another insightful gem to remember and keep in my heart as I face adversity and the many challenges of life. Thanks also for the reminder about the books written! I think I will go avail myself of one of them right now. Thank you, Bro. Goddard for sharing your wisdom and love of His Gospel.
DrewAugust 12, 2022
Thank you for your very insightful article, Wallace. My heart was touched as I read it, and I feel more able to continue on the path before me.
PamelaAugust 12, 2022
That was so uplifting and insightful! Thank you!!
PamAugust 12, 2022
I always enjoy your articles Brother Goddard and I especially enjoyed this one. I too, read and watched while preparing to teach to 12-15 year olds. Especially challenging to make it applicable to their lives. Thank you for your insights!
Ofttimes, we can feel alone in our trials- or not handling them well enough or I wouldn't feel this way but the human experience of fallen earth life is, well, very "human."
I'll work on trusting more. Thank you so very much.
Becca HowardAugust 12, 2022
I also teach Sunday School. Our general consensus was that none of us has experienced anything close to the trials of Job. I reflect on challenges I have had, and how they were made sweeter because I chose to walk hand-in-hand with the Lord. My pain and anxiety were not immediately removed, nor were my problems solved swiftly. I look back now with gratitude for those things that helped me grow stronger and helped me grow closer to my Heavenly Father. My heart breaks for those who turn from the Lord during times of duress, then find that their problems and pain seem to increase rather than diminish. Now, when I try to recall very difficult experiences, I am blessed to hardly remember the heartbreak and pain, but I do recall how the Lord walked me through every step.
MaryannAugust 12, 2022
Thank you so much for your enlightening comments, especially emphasizing turning to Christ for comfort and trusting him. He has helped me so much in my own struggles and I am so grateful. Sometimes I wonder if we focus too much on our trials and not enough on the comfort we can receive from the Savior, our families, and also our ward family. It is good to know we are NOT The Church of Adversity--we are the Church of Jesus Christ.
AprilAugust 11, 2022
Great advice as usual Joni! And I always welcome the humor!
Shane SmithAugust 11, 2022
I STUDY the scriptures daily not just read them. I am finding thoughts and understanding coming to my mind as I study. I KNOW Heavenly Father hears my prayers as I have seen and heard about them being answered. One goal is attending the Temple more regularly with my wife. I KNOW I have to work daily on my testimony and conversion as the adversary loves to pull our Fathers children down to his level.
WallyAugust 11, 2022
Lovely and insightful article!
Becca HowardAugust 11, 2022
As parents of a son, a returned missionary, whose pull towards same-sex attraction was stronger than his testimony, I commend Ben for making the "non-dating" choice. We tried to explain to our child that many people never marry, and even in marriage, sexual intimacy may not be possible for very many reasons, nor is intimacy the only foundation of a marriage. We are all on a path where our future is not always clear yet we pray that our LGBTQ brothers and sisters can stay focused on the eternal promises of our Savior.
Sharon LynnAugust 11, 2022
I’m following President Eyring’s counsel from a few years ago to write down, at the end of the day, answers to the question: “How have I seen the hand of God in the lives of my family or my life today?”
MistyAugust 11, 2022
Thank you for this article. I think many parents, myself included, fear the growing trend of homosexuality for the children, not out of bigotry and hate, but because we don’t feel knowledgeable of how to help them navigate the struggles safely while still promoting gospel principles and Christ’s teachings. Yes we can and always will love them, but when they’ve got questions we may not have the answers to it creates fear that they’ll find those answers in dark places. I appreciate Ben Schilaty for writing his story as it gives not only people who share similarities with him, but also similarities with his parents, hope and guidance.
jaredAugust 10, 2022
Thank you for writing this article! So true!! Even as memebers of the church, we take this for granted. So many of us are moving away from these true principles slowly because the world is now moving so quickly in that direction.
Karell BinghamAugust 10, 2022
So perfect for these strange days!
MaryannAugust 9, 2022
The nine tips Maurine listed are golden, and I hope they will help these young adults. I am extremely curious to know HOW these drastic changes regarding meeting people and dating have come about. It was all so much more simple when I was dating. Some of the comments made by the students in this article reflect more of a high school age perspective.
Rochelle HaleAugust 9, 2022
I still remember this angst almost 50 years ago. I met my first husband through our singles' ward FHE group, but I had my eye on someone else. I began dating my soon-to-be husband, and my other friend spotted us in the jewelry store before we could break the news to anyone (or before other guy could ask me out). My fiance and I had our ups and downs, but it was confirmed to me by the spirit that we should marry. Nevertheless, some years later we ended up divorcing. My current and forever husband and I have now been together almost 33 years. We also met when we were older, and hopefully much wiser, singles.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryAugust 9, 2022
I could have written this article myself. I also can remember sitting there as the Proclamation on the Family was read and wondering why it was necessary for a proclamation when everything that was said was common sense. I am amazed at how many of my friends and I sensed that something was coming when the Come Follow Me program was introduced to the members of the Church. Now we know why.
Ruth JamiesonAugust 9, 2022
This article was so good and so sad. But the date that it was issued was very interesting. Sept. 21, 22,23 have so much meaning, so much history attached to those days.
Carla PattonAugust 9, 2022
Beautifully stated.
GTOAugust 9, 2022
High school graduate of 1964 here. It's sad to see this happening now. We dated constantly and had a blast! I never did have a list except for something vague in my mind and expected help from the Spirit to get me through, which worked very well. Depending on the Spirit meant to feel promptings as I dated and that means you have to date and date certain people way more than once or twice. I think group service projects are a good way nowadays to just get people together while avoiding the current dating conundrum.
MaryAugust 9, 2022
Having gone to Byu I wish the emphasis on the ward was not to date, but to focus on Christ and serve others. I feel like the church thought that marriage would keep people in the church, but I don't think that is the case. Marriage won't, but having a testimony and relationship with Christ will. Also, there are more women than men and men think they can get women who are 10 when they are only a 5 so that results in only a few girls getting asked out and then they cry that no one is saying yes to them
Lexie StatonAugust 9, 2022
Fantastic summary of the state of affairs - as well as a wonderful testimony to the inspired nature of the Proclamation. Thank you!!
Lorie WaltersAugust 8, 2022
This truly hits home! Thank you so much!!! Sending LOVE!
CCAugust 8, 2022
I hope there are changes being made. I was told I would go to hell if I left the abuser who was abusing both me and my children. Counseling was done, but he told lies to the counselor. After leaving The Bishop's office just outside the door he took my arm and twisted me till I was flat on the floor I yelled but bishop didn't hear. Other times police were called about the abuse but he would good old boy them, and they didn't file a report. After separating, I also got a protective order and a restraining order, but when I went to church activities he would come and nobody in charge would remove him so I would leave and go home. Unfortunately I've talked to other women who have had the same issues more recently.
SusanAugust 8, 2022
What a fantastic article! Teaches the lesson, drives home the point, relates to readers on a personal level, and makes it pretty much impossible to walk away after reading it without wanting to become a better person and follower of our Savior.
Helmut A. WorleAugust 8, 2022
Everybody agrees that helping the abused and preventing further abuse must be the primary concern. But ecclesiastic leaders have no legal standing to bring this about against unwilling perpetrators. Only the legal authorities have the power to remove children from a home in order to end the abuse. How does an entity such as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints "do everything it can" to prevent further abuse? Only a government agency can do that.
MistyAugust 8, 2022
This article is one of the top articles I’ve ever read anywhere that has caused me to stop and reflect. Thank you!
RC89August 5, 2022
I really enjoyed reading this post! Thank you so much!
ALISON HERRONAugust 5, 2022
I was thrilled to read this article. It felt to me as if my thoughts and feelings about the principles of quantum physics being connected to eternal gospel truths regarding the power of faith were well-founded. Divine love and light from God really are the forces that holds the universe together.
HelenCAugust 5, 2022
Amen!
Jennifer BrownAugust 5, 2022
Excellent parable and article! Thank you for sharing!
Jennifer BrownAugust 5, 2022
Such a thoughtful and well-written article and a great parable in reminding us that there are always ways to be the Lord's hands without being asked. It reminds me of the hymn, Have I Done Any Good. Thank you so much for sharing!
Merlin FreiAugust 4, 2022
I loved this article Sister Clayton. Thank you so much. We became acquainted with one of your daughter's, who served in the Canary Islands as a missionary. We came to love and respect her very much.
Thank you again for such a well-written article.
Diane MortensenAugust 4, 2022
I thoroughly enjoyed your teaching and writing. Thank you so much for sharing.
Mark W MinerAugust 3, 2022
A couple of inspiring stories here, with some wonderful insights. Thank you for sharing!
Cindy SteenblikAugust 3, 2022
Beautifully written!
Jana DeardenAugust 3, 2022
The comments are interesting. Because when I saw the photo, I thought, yes that is Joseph! He has the piercing gaze that they talk about. He seems confident and humble. I feel a great love emanating from him. Life was much harder at that time to survive, I also see trials overcome.
HelenCAugust 3, 2022
A much needed reminder that there is a need for the path I have chosen as a Grief Coach. Thank you.
Valiant JonesAugust 3, 2022
Thank you for sharing all these descriptions of the Prophet. What a wonderful resource to have in one place, irrespective of the question of the photo.
Valiant JonesAugust 3, 2022
This article is full of so much good wisdom. Thank you. I have never seen reprimands from Church leaders have a positive long-term effect.
Debbie KentAugust 3, 2022
Wonderful article and observations. Thank you for sharing your talents of teaching, observations and story telling.
Debra PeckAugust 3, 2022
What a great article. Thank you!
Yves ValenAugust 2, 2022
Looking at the death mask of Joseph Smith, I don't think that this photograph represents him. Many descriptions mention a rather thick upper lip, which seems to corroborate with what we can see on the death mask ... but not on this picture. On the contrary, I would tend to see more resemblance between this photo and Hyrum's death mask,
In any event, what matters most is to have a testimony of the restored gospel.
GEOFFREY DUNNINGAugust 2, 2022
I certainly does not look anything like the death mask of Joseph. It does very much resemble Hyrum's death mask. I think it is very likely Hyrum.
GloriaAugust 2, 2022
Faith in Redeemer starts today (and every day)
David KingAugust 2, 2022
No it isn't. It doesn't even look close to the portrait of Joseph Smith nor the death mask. This is just wishful thinking
Wayne AAugust 2, 2022
This looks much more like I would expect Hyrum to look, not Joseph, and in fact that was my first impression, this is Hyrum.
Furthermore, this looks nothing like the features of Joseph's death mask, particularly the mouth, nose, chin, or eye shape.
Additionally, when I look deep into this man's face, it does not feel like the face of a man who has "seen" God, nor his Savior, face to face, and had that experience engrained into his every fiber & countenance.
Therefore, I do NOT feel this is Joseph.
LauraAugust 1, 2022
I loved reading the descriptions of Joseph Smith. However, I think this photograph is not him but maybe an older relative. The eyes droop a little on the outside edges. This person could be easily about 50 years old.
Catherine DoddsAugust 1, 2022
This is the testimony and observation of my own great great grandfather, George Spilsbury, who met and knew the Prophet Joseph Smith:
"The question may be asked by some of my grandchildren, "Did you feel disappointed when you saw him the first time?" I will tell you. All my troubles, and privations of leaving my father and mother, brothers, sisters and my native land seemed nothing compared with the joy of my experience when I first saw and heard him, the Prophet Joseph Smith preach. I felt greatly blessed of the Lord in having such a glorious privilege. The first Sunday after we arrived we went to a meeting on the first floor of the Nauvoo Temple. The walls of the building were about half-way up, and loose boards were laid on the joists and home-made benches to sit on, for it was a day of small things. We were early in our seats, and so the leading men of the Church began to arrive. It was no trouble to tell which was the Prophet, not because of his fine clothes, but there was something grand and noble and innocent about his appearance. His very eyes seemed to look right through you. His very countenance beamed with intelligence. He was as bold as a lion, but as humble as a child. He knew no fear."
This experience and others from the life of my great great grandfather has had an important impact on my life.
Whether the photo is actually of Joseph Smith is not important to my testimony that he is the Prophet of the Restoration. But, I like the photo and it looks like what has been described by other who knew him.
ShannonAugust 1, 2022
That can't be Joseph Smith. He's too old.
LoisAugust 1, 2022
These are wonderful descriptions and to me, fit the newly discovered photograph very well. When I saw it, my feeling was "Yes, this looks much more like I would think of Brother Joseph," especially the eyes.
Rochelle HaleAugust 1, 2022
As I have been studying Job and preparing my Sunday School lesson, I think of the great faith that he was able to maintain in spite of losing so much and facing so many obstacles. In Chapter 19:28 he considers the "root of the matter," and does not blame God. Yes, many of our afflictions are not of our own making, but it is our choice to follow the Lord when faced with adversities. I would much prefer to walk with God during my adversities than walk away from Him and still face the challenges and/or consequences.
MaryannAugust 1, 2022
I love reading comments by people who actually saw and knew the prophet, Joseph Smith. I don't think we will ever know if this is an actual photograph of him until we meet him one day. My first gut reaction when I saw the photo was "This is NOT the prophet, Joseph Smith." Talking with my husband later, he told me he had the same response.
AnnJuly 25, 2022
One word I have noticed pronounced by many speakers in Utah is ‘Brothren’ for ‘Brethren’. Is that pronunciation peculiar to Utahns or do all Americans say it that way? I am from New Zealand.
H NorthJuly 25, 2022
Race only matters to racists.
So much for "healing"...
Bob TaylorJuly 25, 2022
i agree with the article- common definitions matter. the bigger problem is getting people to agree on a common terms - and how to you engage someone who does not want to have common terms?
HeatherJuly 24, 2022
My husband has been living with depression most of his life and for over 25 years has been treated for it. A little over a year ago he had a blessing and felt it was time to go off his medications. He was on quite a mix and been taking many of them for 20 years. He had some physical side effects and as I researched them I found that many of these medicines were only meant for short term. When he was taking them he had kidney stones almost every month. He talked with the family doctor and he thought he must have an STD! No real answers! Since stopping the medications he has had maybe one or two kidney stones in over a year. Emotionally he has found a new therapist and been discovering childhood trauma that has been covered up. The road to healing isn't over but I feel we are making more progress than ever. The therapist he saw just last year (before the one we have now) told him that because he had been diagnosed with bipolar in the past she wouldn't treat him unless he was on medication, that it was ethically wrong to withhold medication from him. I agree that there is a time and place for medications. I'm sure it saved his life in the past, but doctors that shove more and more pills to those seeking help are not helping! Thank you for seeing this and sharing.
Corey D.July 24, 2022
I retired a year ago after 43 yrs at a major Defense and Aerospace Company, in those 43 yrs the original company was bought, sold, spun off or merged 7 times, ultimately becoming part of the 2nd largest Defense company in the nation, over those 43 yrs I witnessed and experienced a lot of management changes and philosophies both at the corporate level and the local level, many different "purpose" or "mission" statements as they like to call them. Most over the years were about providing the best quality product at the best value to the customer (which was mostly the US government), thereby hoping to contribute to National Defense and also contribute to the local economy by providing jobs and provide a good return/value for the stockholders (used to be the main purpose of most businesses/company's).That was the overall goal of the "purpose" of the company, that is until the last merger. That is not now the goal or main purpose, the company's "mission" now is to be part of the "Great Social Reset", with hiring practices and employee goals, etc., not to be on getting the best and most qualified people who want to work in the Defense and Aerospace Industry and rewarding employees for hard work, creative ideas leading to better and innovative products at the most value laden price but whether they are supportive of and meet the social and environmental goals of company management. Anybody who reads this article should go the Heartland Institutes website and read their editorials on ESG.
MaryAJuly 24, 2022
Simply acknowledging the past for what it was isn't being "woke" nor is it wrong. Jefferson and Madison did great things, but also were involved in horrible and unjust things as well. It isn't right (or accurate) to pretend they were saints who never did wrong. We need to acknowledge both sides and stop throwing hissy fits when unpleasant facts are brought up about their lives. There is much to learn from their mistakes. As the saying goes, if we don't learn from the past we are doomed to repeat it.
I wonder, if your ancestors were among those kept as slaves, would you still feel this information should be swept under the rug just so the leaders involved wouldn't look bad?
Ayse KOCHJuly 24, 2022
The spirit was so strong as I read this article; all the truths that you related were so crystal clear through the allegories and through your personal experiences with troubled souls. Thank you for sharing this knowledge. It is an article I know a few people who speak other languages would want to read. I will try my best to translate it for them if it is ok with you.
MickeyJuly 24, 2022
Excellent advice! Something that got missed is the husband’s lack of loyalty to his wife by defending his parents, and therefore their abuse, instead of giving his wife the emotional support she needs and deserves.
KathyJuly 24, 2022
Anti-depressants saved my life.
Colin Van OrmanJuly 23, 2022
I never saw a response to the questions regarding a recording of this fireside. Was a recording made and can it be viewed?
FrankJuly 22, 2022
A good story with a moral about changing other people's mind about yourself, and caring about their opinion too much is Guy de Maupassant's short story, "A Piece of String". Don't defend yourself, your real friends will do so for you.
Lowell SteeleJuly 22, 2022
Powerful, consequential stuff! I was led to this area of study 10 years ago in an intriguing series of events, which culminated in a poem on the topic which I treasure for the truths it teaches. Perhaps we'll get a chance to discuss in more depth as we sail the Adriatic next month.
HalJuly 21, 2022
Thank you for your insight. More than once I recall promises from church leaders assuring us that if we had daily family prayer and scripture reading, faithfully held family home evening, attended church, and served faithfully in our callings, that our marriages would never end in divorce and our children would never go astray. Despite following that counsel as best I could, my first marriage ended in divorce and three of my four children have disassociated themselves from the church. Fortunately, I realized that faithfulness does not guarantee a trouble-free life and even the most stalwart prophets had difficulties in their own families. When troubles arose, I redoubled my personal efforts to "hold to the rod" and serve as faithfully as I can. I am remarried to a wonderful woman and I still have hope for all my children that some day they will "come to themselves" and return to the fold. In the meantime, I see the Lord's tremendous blessings poured out on my family and me every day.
MarenJuly 21, 2022
This is intriguing information. We were having a discussion about mental health in Relief Society recently. One sister commented that she needed to be on medication to be able to function day to day with her small children, but that it made her less able to feel the Spirit. I’ve noticed that when I have taken medication in the past, that I feel less overall. I care less overall. I’ve wondered if that is the reason behind some medications leading to an increased risk of suicide - because if you don’t care about anything, why would you stay? Relationships and connection seem to be the answer, but if medications remove the need for those things, could that be a reason why long term outcomes aren’t as good?
Michael LawrenceJuly 21, 2022
The use of a few Ketamine treatment sessions has been shown to be highly effective for treatment-resistant depression.
Pam BlairJuly 20, 2022
A TRUE BREATH OF FRESH AIR!!! Thank you SO MUCH for giving me 'permission' to not store what I would never use just because a "list" says I must do so - and store lots of it, to boot!
Lee HillJuly 20, 2022
Thank you for this article. I was severely injured a little over a year ago and, while I have undergone a miraculous recovery, I still lack the strength and agility to serve as I used to. It has been discouraging for me to not be able to participate in helping people move or engage in other activities that require physical strength. However, I get little whisperings now and then reassuring me that contributions I make, however meager in my own eyes, are acceptable to the Lord.
RebeccaJuly 20, 2022
This article and your previous one, "Are We Losing" have been a balm to my soul. I sent the link of "Are We Losing" to my husband, who loved it, and to a friend who sent it to her family members. They all said it was just what they needed. Thank you for writing about your experiences with a perspective so many of us need!
Helmut A. WorleJuly 20, 2022
There are hymns in our hymnbook that express the same thought. Hymn 169, in the second verse says: With hands now pledged to do thy work we take the sacrament. There are others I can't think of right now, but a faint memory remains.
Karell BinghamJuly 20, 2022
I always wondered if lifting hands during a prayer indicated "surrender". As in movies, they always have someone raise their hands when surrendering.
MaryannJuly 19, 2022
My husband and I will be celebrating our 52nd wedding anniversary next week. As we look forward to this special day, we are so grateful that we found each other early, that we were both committed to the gospel when we married, and still are, and that we were taught about temple marriage and the sacred nature of marriage while we were young. The joy and peace that comes to a married couple who are committed to the Lord, as well as to one another, is the greatest of all joys. Buying into Satan's distorted version of "love," including living together outside of marriage, or sexual promiscuity will NEVER bring the precious joy found in a marriage that is sacred.
SBellJuly 19, 2022
What is the title of this book and can we preorder it somewhere?
cateJuly 17, 2022
Harsh truths beautifully said. Sadly, I'm seeing more and more friends uncomfortable with the Family Proclamation; as if present "wisdom" is somehow superior to thousands of years of experience and learning. Our modern perspective is actually naive and short-sighted. We somehow have confused compassion with narcissism and ingratitude.
MaryannJuly 17, 2022
The security, comfort, and peace I feel in the counsel of our Prophets, Seers, and Revelators would be lost to me if I demanded a proclamation of "Thus saith the Lord." Choosing this course of disobedience is simply a rationalization for "doing your own thing." I am filled with gratitude for the Spirit of the Lord, which so firmly declares to me and millions of my fellow saints: "Follow the prophet." We have this sure, true light to guide us through the most difficult circumstances and a darkening world. I am reminded of the Prophet Elijah's words in our recent "Come Follow Me" lesson: "How long halt ye between two opinions? If the Lord be God, follow him." (I Kings 18:21) Every one of us can accept with all our hearts these words from the Lord: "...my word shall not pass away, but shall all be fulfilled, whether by mine own voice or the voice of my servants, IT IS THE SAME." (D&C 1:38) If we refuse to embrace this essential truth, we are left to ourselves, ever "halting between two opinions," and never finding the deep peace that comes through choosing to follow our prophets.
stevie maireid mckennaJuly 15, 2022
Interesting article however, I'm not sure why you chose to use Evangelical preachers as an example of prophets. They do not even have the restored gospel and are preaching from their own flawed understanding of the scriptures. I don't know if they even think of themselves as prophets, per se. As we know true prophets are called in a very specific manner within the Lords church. You don't just assume such a position.
I would use examples of true prophets who gave direction but the members were not wholly onboard to follow their directives. One example was when Joseph Smith had the vision of the three degrees of glory. There were many members who were shocked and had a hard time believing it because they were raised with a background of a heaven/hell teaching from other churches. Also, when Brigham Young stated that the Salt Lake Valley was the place the Saints should settle there were factions that thought California was a better choice. This was because of the lure of the gold rush that was going on at that time. There are many examples from Church history that show division among the members on many questions, especially today with regard to wearing the mask as protection from covid. Some bulked at the idea even when the first presidency sent out the directive to wear the mask. Many within the church didn't want to wear it because they thought it was politically motivated. Absurd to think that but people are imperfect.
HelenCJuly 15, 2022
As relevant as it is deep. I appreciate Flannery’s observation tag pushing ourselves fully aside takes Divine assistance.
JiJuly 14, 2022
Already looking forward to the book!
Jay SessionsJuly 14, 2022
You bring so much Cheer to everyone. Your new seminary students will be cheering you. You are a cheerleader!!!
HelenCJuly 14, 2022
And for me it seems to come to my Inbox (although I, too, am most definitely a talker)!
From another article on todays Meridian Magazine I got this:
“ There is another kind of faith, rare indeed. This is the kind of faith that causes things to happen. It is the kind of faith that is worthy and prepared and unyielding, and it calls forth things that otherwise would not be. It is the kind of faith that moves people. It is the kind of faith that sometimes moves things. Few men possess it. It comes by gradual growth. It is a marvelous, even a transcendent, power, a power as real and as invisible as electricity. Directed and channeled, it has great effect…. “
Boyd K Packer
HelenCJuly 14, 2022
Once again my prayers have dropped into my Inbox. Thank you!
EveJuly 14, 2022
I am eagerly looking forward to next week's article. I have loved everything Larry Barkdull has written, and this is something I have been particularly pondering lately. Thank you for publishing this!!!
Cathy FinchumJuly 14, 2022
Such a good article and the Scripture perfect thank you..
vickieJuly 13, 2022
something i have noticed mainly because i watch UTUBE...a lot...is animals getting along ...dogs and cats and other types of animals that we would never think of getting along do. i got to see this up close. maybe God is preparing us all for the Second Comming.
LewisJuly 13, 2022
These are extraordinary stories! You are such a gifted storyteller, I can’t wait to read your articles. We are all wounded. The reliance on the love of our Savior can both heal our wounds, and allow us to be instruments in His hands to help heal others. Thank you for your insights.
HalJuly 13, 2022
I love dog stories, even though I know how they are going to end. Thanks you!
Tracey GJuly 13, 2022
Thank you for this clarifying article on abortion.
Karell BinghamJuly 13, 2022
How come when we speak of abortion we never speak of accountability and responsibility. Those two traits are seemingly disappearing in our society. We have choices before we get pregnant, but after we have chosen to ignore the choice, we then have responsibility.
This rule applies to so many things today. Why is it never mentioned? Men, there are condoms out there, use them or be responsible. Women, if you must have sex, insist on condoms or accept the responsibility! Please! For the sake of the baby and the sake of society!
Rob McGhieJuly 12, 2022
Thank you for this article. I wish it could be read from the rooftops for all the world to hear. I personally hate profanity and crude language. Consequently my repertoire of acceptable TV shows is very limited. But I would rather watch reruns of old (clean) shows multiple times than watch newer offerings that would drive the Spirit out of our home.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJuly 12, 2022
I so totally agree with this article. I am so sick of the vulgarity and bad language that abound on the radio, TV, books, etc. I feel that people do not know how to write or talk anymore and use swearing and vulgarity as a way to hide their inadequacies.
JimJuly 12, 2022
It all comes down to what is taught at home at a early age and parents reinforcing it along the way with also teaching them good manners. I am old 86 and was taught by a wonderful mother whose grandparents came from England good manners. She came to me when I was about 14 or 15 when she heard me say a word PO and told me how bad that hurt her and asked if I would promise not to say that word again and I honor that promise today. And also it helped all of us boys and girls from the same branch ran around together all through are school years together and held the same values. Them were the days they gave there teacher a apple now it is just a free for all. Sad but true.
Carlos RoundyJuly 12, 2022
Yes we actually sign contracts and promise to do certain things in this life, because each of us have different talents and abilities developed in the pre mortal life there is a great variety of paths that can be taken in this life.
Patricia WintersJuly 12, 2022
Decimated means reduced by one tenth. If the Assyrians were decimated, only18,500 Assyrians would have been dead corpses.
HelenCJuly 12, 2022
Thank you for the reminder! A recent convention that I did not attend was reported as being a “swear fest” as the speakers, mostly women, many with advanced education, declared their success in business largely through their freedom to use whatever language they chose. Sad.
CASJuly 11, 2022
Thank you for not mincing words in describing abortion and what it means for the defenseless unborn child whose right to life is denied! One detail not mentioned is the very lucrative business of selling these aborted baby parts on the black market for medical use.
TraceyGJuly 11, 2022
Waiting on the Lord can be excruciating when our own children are at stake. We pray, we stress, we pray some more, and sometimes we do more than will be good for them. I am learning to hold back and wait for God to do his work with them. Thank you for bringing into perspective the joy that will eventually come because we finally learn to wait and see the miracles.
Doris WilliamsJuly 11, 2022
Oh my goodness, what an upper this is. Thank you so much to Josh for putting together this inspirational video. It just melts my heart to hear a young teenager express his gratitude for his blessings and Brody is a stellar example of a beautiful voice put to a beautiful use of reminding us all of our Savior and what is right in this mixed-up world today.
KJBJuly 11, 2022
A ten year old girl was raped in Ohio and was forced to go to Indiana to get the medical care she desperately needed (and which will probably be illegal there as well by the end of the month.) Tell me how this is okay. Please. (Source: https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/jul/03/ohio-indiana-abortion-rape-victim )
Sarah HinzeJuly 10, 2022
I am not sure if this answers your question Richard, but through our research, it does appear that some miscarried children may return to their mothers in a later pregnancy. That is determined because of encounters the mother reports, such as dreams and other experiences where the previous child/spirit lost in a miscarriage returns. I report this in The Announcing Dream as well as in a previous Meridian article:https://latterdaysaintmag.com/remembering-heaven-a-documentary-film-and-my-personal-testimony-of-premortality/
Dr. Craig R. FrogleyJuly 10, 2022
I have loved everything that you have written but this is the best, most skillfully crafted, and spiritually touching of all. Thank you for both the article and the mission you have undertaken!
PhilJuly 10, 2022
Along with all who have commented, I thank you for this wonderful, life-changing article. I needed it so much. It confirms the hope I have had that the Lord knows what He is doing and when is the best time to do it. Thank you.
Rochelle HaleJuly 9, 2022
I will have to re-read this article several times. As parents, we have seen one child struggle immensely due to turning away from the Church. He was not anti-church, but the lure of the world won out until finally devastation and tragedy brought him to his knees with nowhere else to turn but the Lord for the ultimate peace he was seeking. He is a changed and happy man today. Sadly, another son succumbed to traps he tried diligently to avoid to the point he abandoned the gospel and his family because "we were to blame." Our children are on loan to us from a loving and wise Heavenly Father who has given us all the great gift of agency. Our hearts are full of love, compassion, and concern as we pray daily for those who have lost to, once again, enjoy God's full measure of blessings in this life and forever.
JeNee HutchinsonJuly 9, 2022
What a beautiful article about the Lord's anointed and their great sacrifices to bring us the truths of the restored gospel. Blessed be the names of Joseph, Hyrum, John Taylor and Wilford Woodruff, and the prophets, seers and revelators of the Restoration! God be thanked for His love and the devotion of His prophets that bless us so much today! #GiveThanks
BelindaJuly 9, 2022
When the "transcript" only contains a small part of what the podcast says, it is very difficult to keep track of where you are and what is being said. Some of us need to read as we listen to get it all. I enjoy your podcasts but get aggravated when they aren't actually "transcribed" so I can understand everything said. I thought you should know about this problem.
Carol CrosbyJuly 9, 2022
Beautifully sung!! What an amazing voice this handsome 13 year old has!
Keep singing please!
Stephanie BillingsleyJuly 9, 2022
Amen! Thank you for your courage to be bold. There is a difference in loving one another and sanctioning, encouraging, celebrating evil influences and lifestyles. I am thankful for all willing to publicly easily identify the real & true root causes of society's problems...Come Lord JESUS, come!
Linda SmithJuly 9, 2022
EXCELLENT!!! Absolutely wonderful perspective on how Heavenly Father and Christ teach us. Patience is SO important!!
JeanJuly 9, 2022
I don’t see where in Luke 19 it says that Jesus climbed up into the tree. Where did you get that idea from? Luke 19 says Jesus went to the spot, looked up, and called for him to come down.
MickeyJuly 9, 2022
I think there’s something more going on here. The author doesn’t want him around his kids—perhaps he’s not safe or not a good influence. That’s very different from the brother just being hard to be around. This is what I would be exploring.
Corey D.July 9, 2022
Good article but with one possibly mis-leading, misunderstood point. Olena is correct, the demise of America will come from within, we know that from history, both secular and non-secular and particularly as members of the church familiar with the Book of Mormon we understand that or should. The writings of great church members/patriots such as President Benson and Cleon Skousen teach that and anyone who has read Solzhenitzen's writings should understand how Communism/Marxism/Socialism progresses but I'm going to assume Olena is maybe referring to Jan 6th since that is probably what she is familiar with because that will be all she has seen in the news and that media portrayal is a very biased, one sided affair.
AllisonJuly 9, 2022
Video of Hymn to America for those asking for a copy. Could not find where to buy it, but maybe this will help.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MFdVMYxDTjI
AnnetteJuly 9, 2022
That was simply amazing! I will never read Jacob 5 the same ever again! Thank you!
DKEJuly 9, 2022
Thank you for this! I have a daughter who left the Church some years ago and is a lesbian. We love her so much and we've been as supportive as we can. The pain we feel has been so hard. Your article gives us hope.
Teri N.July 9, 2022
We have been enduring some excruciating trials with our oldest, who left the Church, the Family, all that was good and turned to some evil practices, the Wiccan ways, and identifies as non-binary queer. She seems to delight in taking "jabs" at us, and her emotional and mental stability we question, as her yo-yo life continues. The Spirit has guided us, but one thing He told me, in particular, 11 years ago was to "let her go completely", just stand back and have nothing to do with her. Well, in today's society most well-intentioned folks (the few we shared it with) all encourage me to hang in there, don't lose hope and "make sure" to keep the door open and extend that hand and keep contact. I felt guilty if I didn't do that. So I did. Just about 3 months ago, the Lord took matters into His own hands, and she has broken off all contact. (Mind you, this includes no contact with our grandchildren too.) And I know it's ok. It's what He told me to do 11 years ago, but my mother's heart found it too hard. Now it's happening. This week, in particular was hard, as some things resurfaced. I've been praying for patience and understanding. This article came just 1 day after our latest 'fiasco.' And I cannot tell you how grateful I am for it. It is perfect timing, and exactly the answer to my prayers and the yearnings of my heart that I've been asking for. This is for me, as much as it is for our daughter, too. Thank you for writing this. You have helped greatly. By the way, about 2.5 years ago, we looked into The Other Side Academy as a possible place for my alcoholic brother to go to, as we searched for rehabs and programs after rehabs where he could attend. He's not ready yet. I will continue to wait in patience for both my daughter and brother, as the Lord helps prepare them for the digging, pruning and dunging.
Joy SchmidtJuly 8, 2022
The insights, perceptions, experiences, scriptural interpretations, and spirit of this article have buoyed me up in a way I so needed. Hope has been brightened, faith bolstered, and confidence in the truth that charity never faileth refreshed. I can actually claim joy in my promises which have seemed so impossible. The temptation to believe I just haven't persuaded well enough, lived perfect enough, has made me weary. I am 84 and waiting to claim the promised desire of my heart as the fractured nature of my family keeps assuring me its just a pipedream. I love seeing the parable of the Oive Tree in this new way that encourages me to wait on the Lord with faith in His timing as I dig, prune, and nourish where I can and as I am directed. Thank you thank you thank you.
Mary-Rose McMullinJuly 8, 2022
What a mature voice and a beautiful song! Thank you so much for all the work that has gone into this!
Tanya NeiderJuly 8, 2022
Inspiring! I loved it!
KathyJuly 8, 2022
Beautiful message of hope and patience. Thank you.
ChrisJuly 8, 2022
Awesome insights! Thank you so much...
As a recovering addict and now an ARP missionary I know through experience everything you've written is true. It's never too late and we're never too far away from His grace...
Lisa CorcoranJuly 8, 2022
Absolutely beautiful.
Janna MorrellJuly 8, 2022
Absolutely a must-read for every member of the church and for those who may have lost hope. I am renewed in my conviction to “Wait upon the Lord”.
Gale BoydJuly 8, 2022
This is a masterpiece and something I really needed to hear. Thank you so much.
LuettaJuly 8, 2022
Reading this article was my opportunity to experience the lessons of the Olive Tree when I needed the reminder that God is in charge. I must learn the value of patience. Thank you.
Lawrence BarryJuly 8, 2022
Thank you so much for your wisdom, insights, and testimony. 3 of my 5 children and all of their children have wandered off the covenant path. After reading your article, the Holy Spirit confirmed that God is not finished with my family nor will He ever be.
Ronald BarnesJuly 8, 2022
One of my favorite success stories is that of Eldridge Cleaver. He did some very wicked things, but God turned him around and put him on the straight and narrow path. You can look him up on Wikipedia.
Amy LeachJuly 8, 2022
Brother Grenny, thank you for this amazing article! The Spirit was with you, my friend, when you were authoring this. I wholeheartedly agree with your words! Being given the chance to use my free agency to fail and grow and learn is how my testimony has been born. There is NO other way while we are in this mortal life, that one can obtain that 'personal' knowledge for themselves- unless it be through that God-given agency. May Heavenly Father bless you and your family! You have much great work to do!
DBJuly 8, 2022
Thank you for this beautiful sermon of truth. As the mother of four faithful and four who have left the path and wounded us deeply, this was medicine to my soul. I have had eyes rolled at me when I say that I know the Lord will turn their hearts back to our family and to the covenant path. I feel it in my bones and I'm grateful for a gospel that gives us faith in His relentless redemptiveness. I would have learned that no other way than to walk the path of a worried mother.
JulesJuly 8, 2022
Beautiful!!
AshleyJuly 8, 2022
What a beautifully inspiring article. This is just what I needed to hear today. Thank you.
Rochelle HaleJuly 8, 2022
My family and lived through the Y2K experience. We had always had some storage items, but we ended up buying a package deal which did not include all quality ingredients. We found some products mislabeled. The company moved three times, but we tracked them down to get the remaining items we had paid for. We learned and modified our preparedness plan after this experience. Fast forward twenty years. We had toilet paper (and other food and non-food items) stocked. We didn’t have to endure the Covid-frenzy. Because of our previous preparation we had the luxury of restocking as TP, yeast, meat, and other items went on sale or became available.
Rita MillerJuly 8, 2022
Thank you for this different perspective on two of my favorite stories in the Book of Mormon. They are usually presented as having a national, collective warning and meaning, and I had not seen the intensely personal, individual side before.
MaryannJuly 7, 2022
There is so little information given by the writer of this question that it's very difficult to know what is really going on. His statement that he doesn't like having his wife's brother around his kids raises all kinds of questions. Essential info missing on this one.
Shauna McConkieJuly 7, 2022
I always enjoy anything written by Kathy Clayton! Thank you Kathy!
Rochelle HaleJuly 7, 2022
We have had several family members and friends leave for various reasons ranging from questions of testimony or preferred lifestyle or Church doctrine, etc. One relative was very vocal when another family member decided to attend another "generic" church, but we maintained our relationship through our common testimony and belief in Jesus Christ, though not necessarily agreeing on details of doctrine. We try to "love, share, and invite" while respecting our friends and family who are not of our faith, so why wouldn't we do the same with those who have departed? Of course, we may be sad or disappointed, but continued love and example will prevail in the long run.
HeidiJuly 6, 2022
Such a wonderful article. I have a hard time keeping my kids accountable for not cleaning their bathroom and owing me money if they don’t do it. What brave parents to do what they did. I’m dying to know what happened to their son. Thanks for the beautiful example in the scriptures that I’ve never thought of in that way before. It takes so much courage to let the consequence follow. Thank you.
RozyJuly 6, 2022
The Pilgrims of the 1620's had to learn the same lesson. Socialism or collectivism just doesn't work. Individual liberty and property rights does. May we vote out of office those who don't believe in the Constitution of the USA and the principles of the Declaration of Independence. May we retain our liberties and prosper to worship the God of this Land, Jesus Christ.
Ed GayhartJuly 6, 2022
Kudos to the Chinese for the good they have brought to the world but their current circumstances are due mainly to three items:
Chinese leaders recognizing that capitalism is a superior business model to their communism that could not feed their own people
Our preference in the west (specifically leadership in the US) to have cheap stuff rather than jobs for our kids. One could also call it mindlessly praying at the alter of free trade
Chinas’s shameless stealing of any technology they are allowed to see. (Take it from me, I worked for a company that was thus violated).
Richard HillsJuly 6, 2022
It's rare but not uncommon for expectant mothers to lose babies during pregnancy. Do we have any insight as to the role of choice here that would console them? Are all babies lost before birth automatically saved in the Celestial Kingdom?
Allison Parker DunlapJuly 6, 2022
As a young 14 year old, I was cast as a bratty child in the short--lived run of Threads of Glory in 1976. I listened to my LP of Lex's inspired music every year around the 4th of July until it warped and then many years later, I found a tape cassette for $20.00 of it which then I then had transferred to a cd. (Very poor sound quality but I loved the music so much, it was better than nothing! ) The message of this play was so ahead of it's time, this was pre-President Benson. The Book of Mormon and the Pride Cycle played heavily into the climax. I am now a 60 year old woman and I just listened once again to the Hymn To America this year along with Freedom Has A Price, This Is My Country, and many others, all of them beautiful and soul stirring. Thank you Lex, to share the back story, it was no surprise to me you were inspired on these songs!
MaryannJuly 6, 2022
As a mom of 7, I can relate to this article. We need to be gentle with ourselves and recognize that we are doing Heavenly Father's most important work--taking care of his children, loving them, teaching them. Having said that, I find it hard to accept the idea that mothers don't have time to pray or read scriptures. I just don't buy it. How about nap times? Most children do NOT need 100% of your attention all day long. Most kids spend some play time on the floor with toys. Sit down in a chair in the same room and read the scriptures--sure, you may be interrupted, but that's ok. Same thing with prayer. It is great for our children to SEE US do these things. Perhaps we need to let go of the false idea that we need to pray or read the scriptures "perfectly." But there IS time to do it.
MaryannJuly 6, 2022
Grocery shopping online can save you a LOT of money--no impulse shopping! I just go and pick up my groceries--don't even need to get out of the car. My store often doesn't charge me for this service, and even if they did, it would be worth the savings. Impulse shopping is probably the number one reason people spend too much.
MaryannJuly 6, 2022
It sounds like this couple has spent enough time talking and going around in circles already. The time to see a counselor is now, especially since the wife describes her husband as needing to be more kind and fair. Sounds like there may be some individual past issues that need healing; perhaps his father was harsh and he is mirroring that. I have personally seen that happen.
ColinJuly 6, 2022
Amen to that, Olena.
Bob TaylorJuly 6, 2022
thank you for sharing your research. you may not be aware of this book - Tilly, by Frank Peretti - short, 128 pages, it was first published in 1988. very moving story about abortion, and the consequences.
MikeJuly 6, 2022
This is an amazing article. We demonize China and anyone else who does not accept the U.S. role as sole superpower. Our press is corrupt so articles such as this are so refreshing.
LisJuly 6, 2022
This is something I have struggled with in my children. They are young, and I am still learning. I am so glad I read your article. I fear that my own selfish feelings of bait wanting to watch them suffer makes them suffer more in the long term as they aren’t learning from their mistakes. Thank you for helping me to find a better path as a parent! I think it will have great future outcomes!
Cathy McGreevyJuly 5, 2022
All my life I've heard the two types of priesthood referred to as "the Melchizedek priesthood" and "the Aaronic priesthood." Why is "the" omitted when referencing them in this article? Just wondering if there has been some change I'm not aware of.
Rob McGhieJuly 5, 2022
Thank you for this very informative article. I wouls slightly caution against comparing Aaron as a presiding Bishop or Mises, Aaron and Hur as a First Presidency. These things are indeed presages of the restoration of all things.
Similarly, in my research, i have found at least three of the tokens given in the temple today were presaged by rituals in the ancient temple, but not the same. Even in the meridian of time in Christ’s church they did not have the fullness of the restored Gospel.
C MinerJuly 5, 2022
Interesting. Where did John the Baptist come into play, as he was the one who restored the Aaronic Priesthood to Joseph Smith? Do we know how he got it? I ask sincerely. Thanks for the great article.
Vivian M AdamsJuly 5, 2022
Thank you for the research on this wonderful article.
SKJuly 5, 2022
First, I am sorry about your son. You didn't write if those consequences helped him. It's none of our business, but I hope he did turn his life around. I have a brother who actually did, once my parents realized he needed to get out of the house and take care of himself. It was a long, long road, but he did it.
Second, bringing up Captain Moroni made me think of our country today. Consequences have been removed from dangerous actions and given mercy where it is not deserved. The prophecies of good being called evil and evil good are results of not giving or accepting consequences. In this way, our own government has withheld justice for much too long.
I hope and pray our country (government) will turn around soon and see that bad choices that hurt the nation need to be punished, rather than showing mercy to the criminal. And by not doling out punishment where deserved, we do, indeed, take away agency from the criminals. They are unable to see the light of their ways.
Thank you for your insight. I have been thinking about justice and mercy and how it's turned around right now. You've written my thoughts beautifully and I understand so much better.
Julie A. IsmaelJuly 5, 2022
Thank you.
Harold RustJuly 4, 2022
I appreciated the careful explanations of why the common theme of abortion being safer than childbirth is not only incorrect but probably a complete reverse of the actual facts. I will say, though, that when I did a google search using the name of Reardon study on death by abortion, his study was number one on the list. Thus, it wasn't as "censored" as would be implied in this article. I came away feeling that, at least this time, Google led me to the most pertinent and accurate of all responses to my search criteria.
Gene JJuly 4, 2022
According to part of the article... If one is forgiven of their sins, they will never know the consequence of their actions...
WendyJuly 4, 2022
Dear Brother De Azevedo,
You’ve written some of my favorite music. For years I have tried, unsuccessfully, to obtain the written music to Messengers of Light II, or even a recorded copy, tape, CD, LP—anything—that would allow me to share with my children the music of my youth that helped shape my testimony. Could you please direct me where I might find your work? I’d be forever grateful.
RossJuly 4, 2022
Just finished listening to the book on Audible - fascinating, especially for Latter-day Saints, but much more than just an LDS book!
Laura BodreroJuly 4, 2022
Beautifully written article Patrick Degn! I couldn’t pass up this link when I saw the Liberty Bell photo reminding me of my Church history adventure last July; and then I saw the author and couldn’t pass up reading from a favorite author, tour guide, & teacher from last summer’s tour as well!♥️ Happy 4th of July!!
Nancy Lofgren AllredJuly 4, 2022
I was blessed to be in the orchestra at then Ricks College when this work was done. I can still sin gf the words to the song “America”. At each performance, the audience was so moved by it and felt the sacredness of it. It B always took them a few seconds to clap….everyone was in tears. Elder L. Tom Perry came for one of our performances. Listening to this on this Fourth of July reminds me that our nation will rise again and be great once more.
Corey D.July 3, 2022
One of Paul Harvey's favorite quotes was, it's not always what we say that counts but how we say it.
Corey D.July 3, 2022
You have no idea what an excellent article this is and so many who never fully grasp the principles you discuss, especially now with all the emphasis and attention given to suicide, so many people can't let the loved ones in their lives learn from the consequences of their actions or choices because they are afraid that individual may take his own life and in some cases there are those who use it as a threat to get what they want.
Harold RustJuly 2, 2022
thanks for the important insight into a view of this conflict as seen from a distant star. The lesson we learned with Germany was that, unfortunately, many "good people" could be led to do very bad things when they felt cornered. When we open doors to freedom and respect and cooperation, we are at our best in fighting Communism, Nazis, and persistent socialists. To do that, however, we have to be strong, clever, and consistent. Our current commander in chief is, sadly, none of those. Maybe if enough good people like we read about in this article can come together, there just might arise opportunities to find friends among the Russian population.
MichelleJuly 2, 2022
I have also heard/felt shouts of joy after sealing family members. I was surprised at the thought that it was more a moment of celebration than of quiet reverence
Doris H CrockettJuly 2, 2022
This man is fantastic and surely has "true grit." Way to go, good luck in all the future activities you have planned. You are amazing!
Jennifer HansenJuly 2, 2022
I think it would have been Griswold v. Connecticut (1965) of which Rex E. Lee spoke approvingly as having established the right to privacy – not Roe v. Wade as claimed in a previous comment.
Tim CurtissJuly 1, 2022
This guy and his rafts should be in your Hall of Fame. I got a copy of his book and it is remarkable.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJuly 1, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. This has given us positive and informative knowledge about the impact of having an abortion has upon women. I am grateful that I was never taught that a fetus is not human and just a blob of cells. I am ever so grateful that I was never faced with even thinking about an abortion.
Gary AndersonJuly 1, 2022
Thank you so much for writing this article! It is very informative!
Leo LewisJuly 1, 2022
Lex was my first missionary companion in Brazil. Even at that age he was an amazing musician. I have admired and looked up to him all my life. He is a true patriot with god-given skills and abilities that he has developed over the years. This was a very inspirational tribute to our wonderful country and the ideals for which it stands. May we each do what we can to sustain it during these tumultuous and troubled times.
Jeff LindsayJuly 1, 2022
I have updated the original paper to discuss what Dr. Reardon points out about the complex issue of the cause for the increased deaths. Violence is an important contributor, but does not account for all the increase in deaths. Reardon suggests that the women most at risk for the suite of adverse health effects related to mental health might be those who are coerced into abortion. I also observe that in spite of the China study, the preponderance of evidence does not support a significant increased cancer risk due to abortion.
The updated also gives the specific citations for the 11 studies considered in the Reardon meta-analysis.
HelenCJuly 1, 2022
Thank you, Bro. De Azevedo, for all you have done to lighten MY life, not just with your music but with this sacred counsel. I shall look for the light more carefully from this moment on, especially as I seek the path He would have me follow.
Steven GattenJune 30, 2022
I enjoy your article. We lost a wonderful son to addiction at 34 years of age. Co dependence, enabling and other subjects related to anyones association with an addict are important subjects that take all of us a long time to learn. However there are times when mercy and compassion are important and necessary. Getting your son into a safe place like a warming shelter or recovery program falls into that catagory. We had to find other alternatives at times than our home. The sad sad fact however is that 90%+ never recover from the disease of addiction. And agency no longer is in play. No more than someone with a terminal case of cancer. Agency plays no part. So I personally appreciate the lessons in the Book of Mormon you point out. But they really aren’t the same. My personal take on addiction is that agency gets one there but once there agency is lost in most cases. So prevention in the form of education and helping people see better alternatives.
MaryannJune 30, 2022
Love this! It's so nice to read things on the lighter side. We need lots more smiles.
Debbi M.June 30, 2022
This is so powerful. I had tears as I read this article. We had a wayward child that we had to ask to leave--the most painful thing we ever went through. This article is spot on! We worried for some time that we were choosing the correct balance between enabling at her expense vs. what we were really teaching our other children. DShe continued on a self=destructive path for many years, alternating periods of ups and downs. We always told her we loved her, despite herself!
NancyJune 30, 2022
I watched your story on Saints Unscripted. WHERE IS YOUR IRISH ACCENT? I heard it slip through ever so slightly in a couple words. But why are you speaking American English?
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 30, 2022
I think allowing consequences is one of the hardest things we have to do with people. I always want to help, but many times helping just causes more bad consequences. Thank you for writing this column.
Jerome CaniddaJune 30, 2022
In cases of rape and so forth a friend pointed out to me that no woman that is raped is going to wait 2 months to see, ...they are going to take the morning after pill. Even the states recognize this issue and almost all have adapted exceptions for all the concerns. We will always see extremes on both sides but I'm certainly more sensitive to laws that end life. Barbaric is the word I can muster right now.
HalJune 30, 2022
Thank you, Joseph. We currently have a particularly difficult situation with one of our children and this series of articles has convinced us to stay our course of "tough love" and continue to hold our child responsible for her actions.
I. Blaine QuarnstromJune 30, 2022
Very INTERESTING & INFORMATIVE article.
Diane IrwinJune 30, 2022
Of COURSE angels have deep feelings! They once were humans who lived on this earth. Thanks, Anne for this thought-provoking article. You are amazing...keep them coming~~
DebrahJune 29, 2022
That was the best story, absolutely. Those strong youthful angels did not even know what angels they were!
Best laugh I've had in a long time.
Love your stories.
Winslow KJune 29, 2022
Thank you for sharing your experience and pointing out that, when taken to heart, the gospel of Jesus Christ is meant to make men (and women) good to the core. The best men are those who understand a woman’s worth in the eyes of God and treat each woman with respect and kindness. Thank you also for shedding light on the self-proclaimed “advocates” that do more harm than good by loudly “speaking for” those they don’t even represent or understand.
MaryannJune 28, 2022
The full statement is so brief that I am disappointed the entire text was not posted here. It is good to review the doctrine of the church on the subject of abortion. The reasons given that MIGHT possibly justify an abortion are very rare. The vast majority of the millions and millions of abortions that have occurred are performed as a result of irresponsible adults attempting to escape the consequences of their poor choices.
MaryannJune 28, 2022
I absolutely love the counsel given in this article. I am so glad the author reminded the woman that she does not deserve a sense of entitlement, nor should she put pressure on her husband, or try to make demands that she be accepted by his children. She is the one who made choices that have brought about hurtful results. She needs to respect the adult children of her husband and stay in the background. She wanted another woman's husband and she got him. She did NOT get his family, too! A woman who has had any part in destroying a marriage certainly does not have the right to expect the be considered family by his children. To recognize her in any way as a "grandparent" would be extremely disrespectful to the real grandmother. This situation is a good reminder about how costly and hurtful adultery is--even for generations.
CindyJune 28, 2022
I agree with all of the previous commenters, except for one thing: Their father is just as guilty of wrecking their family as she is. Why are the adult children now willing to have their father in their lives but not his wife? They are equally to blame. I dislike when I see women referred to as "homewreckers." The men are at least active participants and need to be held equally accountable.
HalJune 28, 2022
I very much appreciate these articles that clarify and debunk allegations of what the Prophet Joseph Smith or the other early brethren of the Church allegedly taught. I look forward to the day when all truth will come to light and we will all see, eye-to-eye, things as they really are.
Carlos.June 28, 2022
What a beautiful and powerful article. Thank you for reminding us, and for pointing out to men what we must be.
HalJune 28, 2022
This was a tremendous article, thank you! I have tried my entire adult life to honor and protect the women in my life. It is wonderful to see an opinion of a sister who appreciates the positive influence the Gospel of Jesus Christ has on men and boys. I agree that there are many noble and virtuous men outside of the Church with like values. I would venture to say that there is a strong correlation between good men and strong religious values.
JulieJune 28, 2022
Thank you very much for sharing your experience and knowledge. It helped me.
Julie TreadwellJune 28, 2022
I appreciate this perspective from the author. Her life experience gives her a clarity on this topic that many of us lack. I have been raised in the church my whole life and have seen cultural changes for good in many ways. It has changed in the US culture as well. (I recently was part of a conversation regarding our experiences over jobs lost and blatantly unequal pay due to gender preference. There has been vast improvement from the outset of our careers compared to now.). I fear that there will always be the selfish and sexually driven underbelly of society, within and without the church, that will perpetuate the horrific treatment of others. And while the upper elements of society at large has more improving to do, it’s nice to remember that Good changes have occurred! Sometimes in our journey, we see the effort of the climb ahead and forget to acknowledge how far our efforts have brought us. Sometimes, being only on the INSIDE of a thing limits one’s views, understanding and experience. That often enhances the flaws and makes them feel unbearable. It may take help from OUTSIDE the thing to see the relative difference. Sometimes that “outside help” makes things seem worse. It’s refreshing when it helps us recognize how, as a whole, things are better than we realized. And reminds us that there are solid reasons why that is. I am grateful the author pointed out that the church culture isn’t the gospel. The church’s purpose is to help bring us to Christ. He will heal us. He will help us. He will improve us. WE are better when we, as men and women, want that for ourselves, and are willing to “do the work” necessary to obtain it.
LisaJune 28, 2022
Thank you for the heartfelt sharing of your story.
MichelleJune 28, 2022
My childhood had some similarities to yours though not as difficult. Due to some early abuse, I was left with a lot of confusion, guilt (tho I had done nothing wrong) and pain. I was painfully shy and afraid of everything. The boundaries and standards taught were a lifesaver for me. and the activities, dances and youth conferences gave me a window at least of what I could be. The sweet elders on my mission showed such a humility and respect for priesthood power that it was what was engraved in my heart instead of the pain and abuse. I am 52 and just now seeing the mission God has for me. Because of what I experienced I can relate to a very wide range of people. I have found that power comes in sitting with individuals and listening to them, hearing their story, loving them where they are. As in the Book of Mormon, society is trying to push people into categories, groups and getting them to dig in and scream opinions and condemnations. No matter how right or justified a certain viewpoint is, it doesn't matter if it is not delivered with the love and space and patience required to let that principle be received. Love truly does conquer all. As we love, God will work out the details.
PaulineJune 28, 2022
What noble aspirations! May you blessed in your search for peace and happiness as you serve as the Savior does.
LincolnJune 28, 2022
Here’s another bit of essential reading brought to us by MERIDIAN. My thanks to the editorial staff and the eloquent writer for creating and disseminating this thoughtful, insightful, sometimes heart-wrenching document. In addition to her personal story, the writer’s observations about our larger culture are true, revealing, and cautionary. Thanks to all.
SageJune 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your insights. I agree with your assessment of how the church shapes men. I am Daily blessed by a man who takes his priesthood seriously who can clearly show it was the church's influence that made him who he is.
Taylor StonelyJune 28, 2022
Thank you for the courage to tell your story, and what an incredible perspective you offer. I appreciate you taking the time to provide a valuable counter-argument to the vicious attacks made by those who wish to harm the Church and its teachings of Jesus Christ. While none of us is perfect, it is important to know and to describe the path that we should all be walking, toward heaven, instead of pointing fingers and mocking those who are clinging to the iron rod.
Sasha KwapinskiJune 27, 2022
I also contribute in support of National Right to Life (NRLC), as well as 40 Days for Life, Lifenews, and other pro life organizations. I also appreciate and support the broadening out or diversification in the pro life movement in recent decades. This is reflected in such organizations as Secular Pro Life (SPL), Democrats for Life of America (DFLA), and Pro Life Alliance of Gays and Lesbians (PLAGAL).
Margaret BourneJune 27, 2022
Thank you for this article and the amazing video. Whilst I do not live in the USA I know that this momentous and brave decision will affect lives everywhere. I have often wondered why we don't recognise a child's right to life as well as a woman's right to govern her own body. Who will stand up for the unborn if their mothers don't? All I can hope for now is that the States see sense as well. Of course there are valid reasons for abortion but these are very few and far between.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 27, 2022
Thank you for your courageous article. I have been so amazed at the number of active members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have posted on Facebook that women should have the right to have an abortion. How can these people forget that lives are eternal and decisions now can effect our eternal lives. Babies are so precious. it feels as if Satan is rampaging with such strength throughout the world to destroy the eternal lives of God's children. I pray that we can be strong against him.
Kathy SandersJune 27, 2022
Thank you for this fine article and the historical context you’ve given. It defies reason how anyone can approve the.barbaric culture of abortion and justify it in any way. Satan has done an amazing job to desensitize so many to their own humanity. I’m so thankful for the thousands of good people who have kept up the good fight for life these last 49 years and never gave up. Thanks for urging all to speak up and get involved. We can make a difference!
Rob McGhieJune 27, 2022
Although i am against abortion in most caaes, there has to be exceptions for rape, incest and the health of the mother. Also, have we ever stopped to consider how Heavenly Father feels about sending a beloved child to a mother who doesn’t want the child, who may be a lousy parent, who might be condemning that child to a life of drugs, crime or gangs? We are sometimes obsessed with just the birth but not the social problems that child will have to endure.
DavidDJune 27, 2022
As former BYU President and U.S. Solicitor General Rex Lee observed years ago, Roe v. Wade did something that was very crucial. It established a Right of Privacy that is found nowhere else in the Constitution. Without this Right of Privacy, there is absolutely zero to prevent Congress from enacting laws setting limits on how many children a couple can have, requiring couples to engage in oral intercourse, requiring couples to get government permission even to have sexual relations, prohibiting spouses from sleeping in the same room together, on and on.
And by the way, even the Church recognizes that the lives of unborn fetuses are not equal to the lives of living humans. If there were total equality, the Church would not condone abortion in cases of rape.
JulieJune 27, 2022
Alliance defending Freedom https://adflegal.org/
vickieJune 27, 2022
i wouldnt accept abortion in the case of rape or incest...a baby is a baby...unless it make take the life of the mother...adoption is the answer if the mother doesnt want the baby...
EmilyJune 26, 2022
It sounds from your letter like you feel that you have done enough over the years to mend fences, and by now your husband's children should be adjusted and forgiving and kind.
Divorce is like a death, though, especially when there's been infidelity, and grief is cyclical. It surges up again at tender and vulnerable moments. Your stepdaughter's grief is likely to surge again with this new birth.
Please set aside your own feelings here. I've never experienced anything harder and more raw than new motherhood. Don't make your stepdaughter have to deal with this drama when she's adjusting to being a mom. Eventually that may change, but only if you're able to sincerely put her needs before your own.
MadisonJune 26, 2022
This only happens when the child is going to die soon after birth. The parents would rather hold their baby till God takes them than have doctors put tubes into the baby in order to try to resuscitate a child that will die.
Cristy NewcombJune 26, 2022
Why can’t your wonderful lessons be printed as before? I love to read them but it’s just not the same without your personal feelings/experiences included. Thank you.
Robert SteverJune 26, 2022
The responses would be more useful if they where divided gender.
Because so far, it looks as if the women think I am porn/video game addict rather than the Engineer that I really am.
Rob BarnettJune 25, 2022
More covid deaths for 5 and under than flu deaths, even if compared to really bad flu years.
Lizzie GirlJune 25, 2022
Accept the fact that nobody over there will ever like you or want to see you, and allow them complete access to their father without clamoring to be part of it. You will always be the person that wrecked their family. Your "good marriage" will have to be reward enough. They may well have forgiven you in the sense of allowing the Lord to be the judge, but they will never want to hang out with you so stop trying to insinuate yourself into the mix. This is never going to change. You have nothing to offer them except the reminder of what you did. Be cool. Be humble. Stop with the neediness.
EmilyJune 25, 2022
His children treat you as the other woman because you are the other woman.
If you actually regretted having an affair, you would get a divorce.
This baby is not your grandchild and never will be Get over yourself and your rights. You have none here.
RobJune 24, 2022
More covid deaths 0-5 than flu deaths, even compared to worst flu years
Debbi M.June 24, 2022
Wonderful and honest advice. Divorce is such an unfair situation, as you said, especially with infidelity. Spot on for telling this sister she has no right to entitlement, and should not make her husband choose. I take it she did not have children from her previous spouse? Maybe she would understand more?
Debbi M.June 24, 2022
What a story! The Lord's hand is manifest once again. Bless all the family members here to get through this trial and press forward. The gospel is true!
BeckyJune 24, 2022
I love this story. I know that we had relationships in our pre-earth life. What a beautiful testimony of listening to and following the spirit.
vickieJune 24, 2022
OH MY GOSH, THIS STORY WAS SO BEAUTIFUL AND SAD AT THE SAME TIME. i do believe that the spirit in a person knows and recognizes things from our life with God before we come to earth. i had this experience once and wrote about it regarding seeing the conference before i joined the church. while seeing it on tv way back in the mid 70's i felt as though i heard it before. i told my husband who was reading the newspaper...that what was being said seemed like something my parents told me....but then i said....its not exactly like my parents telling me this....it confused me...now i know it was my heavenly parents telling me these things...i recognized it..
Judith GrantJune 24, 2022
I love this answer. Not being pushy and understanding what you have done in the past has caused this to happen and showing understanding, will do a lot more to create harmony than being offended or hurt bc you’re not included. Be the grownup!
Janet WiseJune 24, 2022
Adam, it is indeed a beautiful story! The strength of family beyond the veil! How wonderful that family is forever, and that the Lord has a loving way of micromanaging our relationships. I wish your sister and her brood much love and blessings--until you are all united again,
Julie CooperJune 24, 2022
I needed this perspective. I feel lifted. Thank you.
DonJune 24, 2022
The reason you are being treated like the "other woman" is that you ARE the other woman. You helped break up her family. You aren't entitled to the forgiveness you seem to demand.
HelenCJune 24, 2022
Thank you. As I complain about being the only active member in my and my husband’s families I shall now remember Elijah’s aloneness and count myself blessed to be where Father wants me to be, striving to be who He wants me to be. After all, I have yet to be fed by ravens. :-)
WendiJune 24, 2022
Sorry, lady. You don’t get to decide “boundaries” when you were intrusive to “boundaries” that were set to protect a marriage commitment. You don’t get to decide how his children feel about you. You don’t get to decide to be welcome in their lives, especially during the joyous time of his new grandchild (not yours). How dare you use the birth of his daughter’s baby to intrude into her life again and demand to be “respected.” You won—you have the man you both wrecked homes to be together—and this is The prize of your “victory.” Leave his children alone. You have no place in their world just because you became his wife. Deal with it. Leave your husband alone about wanting him to take a stand for you with his children. This is a consequence of your atrocious decision to wreck this daughter’s home to steal her dad. You made your bed nine years ago, now go and sleep in it.
Lisa MurphyJune 24, 2022
1. F Friendship with God/Faith
2.. I. Interest in goals or Intimate Communion with God.
3. R. Remember or Read or Repent
4. S. Serve or Seek to make His will your will,
5. T. Treat everyone you meet like a Son or Daughter of God or Tidy
MistyJune 23, 2022
This is a wonderful article to prompt self reflection with our testimony. I haven’t given much thought to the rest of the letters but my first impression for F was Father… which goes long who your F.aith refers to. A & I have me currently stumped but I think T would be together, representing not just our own family but how God desires all of His children to help each other return together. H for me is easy… Home… with Him is our ultimate goal & desire.
Kay RookhuyzenJune 23, 2022
This moral has been pointed out to me by others uncounted times during my life. It is so true!
Lana JohnsonJune 23, 2022
Faith was I first thought as well.... I had no idea of all of the faith names of our Heavenly Father and Jesus. I knew all of the characteristics but not what they were called! Thank you so much for sharing this!!
LoraJune 23, 2022
As a young woman, I heard the acronym SOAP: Scriptures, Obedience, Appreciation and Prayer. The idea was that every time you use soap, it would remind you to read scriptures, obey the commandments, show gratitude to Heavenly Father, and pray to communicate that gratitude to Him.
CHuckJune 23, 2022
"The outbreaks have been attributed to an increasing number of Americans who choose not to vaccinate themselves or their children."
Or, dare I say, attributable to an increasing number of illegal immigrants from around the world who have brought those diseases with them without being vetted, as happened at Staten Island formerly. Has anyone done a study on this factor?
Kathy DouglasJune 23, 2022
1. Faith
2. Inspiration-personal revelation
3. Repentance
4. Stay on the covenant path, or submit my will to HIS
5.Trust in the Lord
KathleenJune 23, 2022
It takes courage to allow consequences. Thanks for showing by example that it's worth it.
M SmithJune 22, 2022
Thank you, Meridian, for publishing this article. We need to be able to hear both sides and make our own decisions.
JSJune 22, 2022
Now it’s time we apply that same logic to all of the childhood vaccines- especially the dozens added in the last 30 years. Is what we’ve been told by the FDA and CDC similarly skewed data and information regarding other childhood diseases? I don’t think that blindly trusting the three letter government organizations regarding our health and well-being is a wise choice & more digging into the recommendations is definitely worth the time and energy spent finding truthful answers.
David Watson,DDSJune 22, 2022
Vaccines are not and never have been 100%. They are an adjunct to medical help. People should be free to decide for themselves how they want to protect themselves. I agree we are trusting too many people and agencies to make our decisions for them.
Bob MartinJune 22, 2022
Australia regularly immunizes {vacinates} young children,ie infants for all manner of diseases including hooping cough, measles, polio etc. I am surprised if other countries do not do this.
Diane IrwinJune 21, 2022
WoW! I have enJOYed your articles over the years, and this one hits it right out of the park! I can't wait to share it with my daughter-in-law. (It has been a blessing that we are so close!)
Bonnie LiversidgeJune 21, 2022
What a gathering of traditions combined with wisdom and pure truth of the Heavens brought together in thought, deed and actions. Brilliant!.
JAMES P FOLEYJune 20, 2022
Most mortals possess a longing for order that seems strange in the world of chaos. How could we long for something we never knew existed? Order is an eternal principal that feels like home and is part of what we knew in our premortal existence. THUS I CONSIDER THE LONGING FOR ORDER THAT MOST OF US EXPERIENCE A FORM OF HOMESICKNESS.]
[Sherri Mills Johnson, “The Restoration of the New and Everlasting Covenant of Marriage,” in Joseph Smith and the Doctrinal Restoration: the 34th Annual Sidney B. Sperry Symposium, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2005, p240]
Dale E. Breckon, U.S Army (Retired)June 20, 2022
Sentinels at the U.S. Tomb of the Unknown Soldier are Soldiers from the U.S. Army 3rd Infantry Regiment, and always have been since 1948. Members of the U.S. Marine Corps do not serve as Sentinels at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.
BonnieJune 20, 2022
Have enjoyed so much the transcripts of your podcasts. Now we seem to only be getting the notes from it. Will we again be able to see the transcripts?
DeniseJune 19, 2022
Excellent article and insights! Well done, Lynne!
Aleesa SolbergJune 19, 2022
How can I get the portion of transcript of ‘We have enough women of …. We need women of ….?
TreverJune 19, 2022
One thing that greatly helped our family to work towards acceptance and understanding was to all read Carol Turtle’s book It’s Just My Nature. It was a game changer for us, and especially my wife who is a pre-planner/get it done type of person too.
KathleenJune 18, 2022
. . . and what an incredible golden lifetime it becomes! Thanks for another uplifting, thought provoking article.
Becky L RoseJune 10, 2022
One of my favorite books is confronting the myth of self-esteem. It's LDS and talks about abasing ourselves. That is scriptural.
Tom BaxterJune 10, 2022
As a retried professional having dealt with SSA issues in the past, I also have been disappointed with the imbalance with which this issue has been celebrated by the media, including Church-owned media outlets. Some have deliberately or unintentionally promoted the love and acceptance side without addressing the doctrinal and moral realities.. I also compliment Brother Bennion's courage, ,especially in light of his unique and valid personal perspective. He effectively articulated the disconnect between how reporting has been handled and the fundamental doctrines of the Church. As an emeritus general authority repeated to me, "God's truth, God's laws and God's justice will never be man's truth, laws and justice." I recall the then Elder Oaks being interviewed by a CBS reporter who was seeking to characterize the Church as discriminatory towards members dealing with homosexuality. When the reporter tried to challenge the church's position, Elder Oaks repeatedly said, "Sex outside of marriage is a sin". At that time there were no gay marriages. The position now includes defining marriage as only being between a man and a woman. It is imperative that parents make the home the primary source in promoting gospel principles. The evidence is clear that children coming from such homes are much more clear, less deceived and better grounded in God's ways as to what is moral and immoral as contrasted with the world's ways. Parents cannot rely on outside sources to instruct their children. God's laws and commandments regarding what chastity and identity really is must be taught and exemplified in the home. .
Rob McGhieJune 10, 2022
I remember Bro. Keith Wilcox came to the Miami stake center in 1974 or 1975 to give a presentation on the Washington DC Temple at a fireside. I remember him saying that the mindset he had when designing this temple was “Enlightenment “. It was just before I went to the temple with my wife and children to be sealed for all eternity.
GoingTo100June 10, 2022
Great article - thanks for the thorough analysis of all the lies and malicious deceits depicted in the series.
I only disagree with the last premise concerning the loss the series may cause to the Church, its members, and other individuals in search of truth.
As the article states: "In the eyes of the law,... when libel or slander leads to serious material loss..." then it counts as "illegal defamation". The church will not experience any material loss from the series free-for-all malicious attack.
The people who will resonate with the series are the apostates and the those who hate organized religion especially the LDS religion. Anyone with some degree of the light of Christ will see through the deceit and the hypocrisy of the apostates and religion haters involved with this series. Some may be fooled for a time, but in the end the Church will be strengthened, not weekend by this series.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 10, 2022
This is so uplifting and beautiful. I am so grateful for their sharing of such great talents.
JoJune 10, 2022
Beautiful, brings me peace this morning.
DavidDJune 10, 2022
How does it work to "embrace conflict" when one segment of society seems to not only embrace but militantly support lies? Lies about events. Lies about science. Unless and until those people become more committed to truth, how can I possibly come together with them? Embrace their lies?
GingerJune 10, 2022
Absolutely gorgeous!!!!
SfischJune 10, 2022
I loved hearing this story. What a marvelous opportunity to be part of the Lord’s design team. What an honor-what a blessing! I believe Brother Wilcox daughter was in my college of family living. -specifically - Interior Environments at BYU.
T. EarlJune 9, 2022
Thank you! THANK YOU!! I have to admit that moving from the San Francisco Bay Area to Utah I’ve been surprised that the rhetoric and the rainbow flag seems to be even stronger in the Salt Lake Valley. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints I admit that I have been left confused at times on where my leaders, sunday instructors and fellow members stand as we often attempt to straddle the line so we don’t offend. But instead we are leaving so many confused and swimming in the grey! The church media hasn’t helped. What is happening at BYU in Provo is alarming. I do agree that posting the rainbow banner does seems to be a symbol of announcing that “I’m not a hater“ instead of standing up and saying” I am a believer” in loving all my brothers and sisters while doing our best to support The Proclamation to the world on the doctrine of The Family. We would do better to raise a banner the would unite all (instead of divide us) “in the name of our God, country and our families!”
Thank you for this well written plea to seek out those who live with same sex attraction and strive to keep their covenants and also the reminder that we can love one another but also to keep our footing in the doctrines and expectations of God.
MaryKaren SolomonJune 9, 2022
Br. Bennion, thank you defending what is an unfortunately unpopular stand right now. We need to love our LGBT brothers and sisters, and accept them into fellowship. However, I know from my own experience the following the covenant path will help keep a couple together. I married a bisexual man when I was young; we had been counseled by church authorities to trust each other and get married if we loved each other. We both received testimonies that we should marry each other, and we did, in the temple. For the first few years , we remained very active in the LDS Church, and things went well. We had a daughter together, and three years later, a son. At that time, my husband started experiencing same-sex attraction and was in faithful to me. Our bishop counseled my spouse and worked with him regularly. It was a great help to him! Then we moved to South Carolina and I became pregnant again, and my husband had worries and concerns that caused him to act out on same-sex feelings again. This time our bishop was not supportive; he scheduled a church court, and my husband was disfellowshipped. I was at the court as a witness for my husband, and I do not feel it was a court of love. I feel it was a court of disgust, and I think he felt the same way, because he then became inactive and fell away from the church. He became interested in Christian science and we attended the LDS church one week and Christian science church the next. Our lives begin to fall apart and in three years he was out of the church, and we were divorced. I raised the children on my own, and they were not close to him, even though we made efforts to see him every year. He lived a gay life, and it was a lonely one. I can't help but feel it would've been a much more fulfilling life for him, had he stayed faithful to his covenants and resisted same-sex temptations. I greatly appreciate your taking the Church's stance seriously, because I feel it is the only pathway that can help marriages to work and keep families together.
MarcieJune 9, 2022
Thank you for your words. They are one more puzzle piece in my quest to "always remember Him"
CASJune 9, 2022
There are some strong opinions cited here. I share mine. I believe and adhere to the Proclamaition of the Family and all that it promotes. I believe that God created man and woman for the purpose of bringing children in the world and creating a family unit within the confines of matrimony and building that man and woman's healthy sexuality which binds them together. I believe in the covenants that we renew in the temple every time we attend. Today there are too many ideas out there today that want to destroy the family unit. That's Satan's plan. This is very disturbing to me.
And, Susan, a possible response to your granddaughter could be: The only flag we fly is the Stars and Stripes for the United States of America to which we adhere!
John PetersenJune 9, 2022
Excellent, excellent thinking and reasoning and explaining. As you wrote, "There is more than one way to foster inclusion and compassion." I have struggled with my own experience in loving and accepting LGBTQ people, although I have family members who struggle with same sex attraction and I have no problem loving them. But I could never plant a rainbow flag in my yard or march in a Gay Pride parade. I loved the way you encouraged more acceptance of the Proclamation on the Family than the societal river currents of LGBTQ acceptance. Well thought out and so well explained.
CarolJune 9, 2022
I have written to personnel at the Deseret News regarding their allowing attacks on the Church and their support of policies that the Church opposes. I have gotten no response. If Church-owned media does not support the doctrines of the Church, why do they even exist? We need a supportive media voice, not another Expositor or Tribune.
Everyone needs to listen to Elder Holland's talk to BYU faculty again. We cannot let "love" and "tolerance" be mistaken for approval of ideologies that oppose God's plan.
ShaunaJune 9, 2022
Thank you Br. Bennion, for your steadfast commitment to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. You are inspiring and so brave. Your voice is SO needed in this conversation and I am hopeful that the dominant, monolithic narrative surrounding either "choosing the Church, or choosing to be LGBTQ--or 'authentic'" can be expanded and challenged, as you demonstrate. Thanks for as Paul says, "fighting the good fight and for keeping the faith."
BennyJune 9, 2022
A really outstanding article and analysis of the tropic.
As a church member who is experiencing same sex attraction myself I can affirm every sentence in this article. I have nothing in common with the LGBTQ movement. But I have a lot in common with people who are also struggling with same-sex attraction.
And especially as a member of our church it is hard to have same sex attractions. I know the covenant path. I know the plan of happiness. As somebody who has been experiencing same sex attractions his whole life I know that certain things like a marriage are highly unlikely for me to ever experience in my mortal life.
Of course I know what apostles and prophets have said. I know that ultimately no blessings will be kept from me. But as with so many others who are also experiencing same-sex attractions that does not help all the time.
So showing me a rainbow flag will not help in any way. It does however show me that the person who is showing this flag to me should maybe invest a little bit more time in searching out what this flag and its movement is really all about. So yes it is well meant. But it is not good.
What does indeed help is showing affection, showing love, and showing interest. This is best done in a personal way and not by showing off some symbols. Everybody has his own burdens. But knowing that the one thing that is so important in the plan of happiness cannot be reached in my mortal life is a very, very, very heavy burden. Every day in my life I am thinking about whether or not my Heavenly Father loves me. Because one of the most central parts of the plan of happiness is kept from me.
So I would appreciate if other members of our church recognize the struggle and sympathize with it. If somebody is doing this most certainly love and understanding will come out of it.
J.T. McKayJune 9, 2022
Thank you for the reminder that the "covenant path" is the path of happiness -- for everyone, regardless of orientation. Love and kindness are essential, but any response that leads away from the covenant path will always dilute our happiness -- both in this life and in the next. Your efforts to point this out are deeply appreciated.
DavidJune 9, 2022
Tithing is paid with faith, not money.
Harold RustJune 9, 2022
Thank you for such a heart-felt and well-expressed view on a subject that is so often pressed down to a simple "are you a good person or not" rather than "I will respect you but I also have fundamental teachings I believe are sacred and true".
The waving of a pride flag or the displaying of a "I love..." sign may to some seem like an appropriate way to support others. I see it as more likely an indicator the individual is trying to "prove" how kind and wonderful they are and it smacks of self-centered marketing of "rightenous") . For example, what if all of a sudden a large percentage of the U.S. population saw a great advantage in showing they were great supporters of "Mormons" and started displaying signs our their lawn that read , "I love Mormons. If you don't, you have something wrong with you". Would we feel better about our membership in the Church and would this show of support lead us to believe they really did understand us and were genuinely interested in our spiritual welfare? Or would it highlight a sense of opportunism on their part because they sensed the wind was blowing in the direction of helping themselves look better if they showed "love" of Mormons? Something to think about for those who want to gush over the 'brave souls' now coming out of the closet. Be respectful and understanding, but be thoughtful about how to display that respect.
G. Randall in IDJune 9, 2022
The word “gunman”, itself’, conjures up in the mind images similar to those of recent events. It implies malicious intent.
A “man doing target practice” (in the story) is NOT the same as a “GUNMAN” (in the headline).
I am becoming increasingly wary of headlines in the media, as they seek to sensationalize stories just to raise our heart rate and hopefully get more clicks.
I expected better from Meridian Mag.
Trish NordstromJune 9, 2022
It's a very long article and at the end I still don't know what is expected of "straights" in relation to "gays." So many of us "feel damned if we do and damned if we don't" in our behavior. It's exhausting.
BrookeJune 9, 2022
Thank you for being brave enough to be this voice. I am deeply moved. God bless you and strengthen on your journey.
ScottJune 9, 2022
I found this article to be very refreshing as I have been confused by much of the LDS media, while still feeling that there was a conflict between true doctrine and permissiveness in the name love. The author has put into words what I have only had in unexpressed thoughts. Thank you. As an aside I would say that it is unfortunate that this was not published far enough ahead of the North Star Conference to bring attention to it before the day that it began.
LindaJune 9, 2022
4thanks for a great article!
BruceJune 9, 2022
Finally a voice of well thought-out reason in a wasteland of misinformation and distortion.
Michael ChandlerJune 9, 2022
A well reasoned article that explains the tyranny of so-called ‘progressive’ politics, that does not allow for different beliefs and perspectives. Jeff’s focuses on sexuality, but the same can be said for any of the social controversies in our culture; abortion, homelessness, critical race theory, etc.
All of our current social maladies have been enhanced by ‘progressive’ solutions that fail to see problems truthfully and obstruct fair discussion of the problems. It is the great a spacious building occupants pointing their fingers and deriding the seekers of truth, and too often the lovers of truth get embarrassed and turn away from the truth. Better that we give them no heed.
Momof6June 9, 2022
I read your article and it really is how I feel about the whole situation. I have two daughters who have found an aspect of the church unrelated to denounce and therefore condone their lifestyle choice because the church “couldn’t possibly be true”. That’s a different story than yours completely but hearing your story gives me hope that things could turn out someday.
The one thing that I would suggest editing out is the name of specific people and pointing out why their way of choosing to live the lifestyle doesn’t work. I think it would be fine to list specific examples of issues that may make it hard to stay a faithful church member, but naming people outright is inappropriate.
Thank you for your article. I do like your perspective and admire how you are trying to be faithful in the church teachings.
Mardonne NeimanJune 9, 2022
Thank you dear brother for your clear and thoughtful message, and shared with us as one who stands for the doctrine of the church and strives to keep his covenants. Elder Bednar has shown us how to answer questions by quoting doctrine. His pattern has made a clear and simple pattern for faithful members to follow. When asked at the National Press Club, Can you envision a day when LGBTQ Church members can marry and be sealed within the Church? He quoted the proclamation.
“We believe that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God, and that the family is central to the Father’s plan for the eternal destiny and happiness of his children.”
Whether single, married, divorced, widowed, LGBQT+, we "further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife." We believe in the promises that we can overcome the world through the atonement of Jesus Christ and receive eternal life.
LindaJune 9, 2022
Wow! What an outstanding, well written article with a refreshing perspective. I haven't delved deeply enough into this subject to recognize the communication complexities involved. Thank you for your enlightening us to a better way of approaching and viewing this tender topic. I believe so many of us have family or friends that are same gender attracted that we have become so focused on accepting them that we inadvertently abandoned our own highly valued principles. What a delema! I shall continue to ponder your well expressed thoughts and suggestions. THANK YOU!!!
Susan RoylanceJune 9, 2022
I am grateful for this article, for Jeff's willingness to speak out in a very helpful way. When children ask (as did my 9 yr old granddaughter), what is "pride" -- and why don't we want a rainbow flag in our yard -- what do we say? Are we teaching the children that becoming gay or lesbian, or choosing to be transgender, is OK? That choosing to not have children, or promoting physical changes to a body, to change the appearance of a different sex, and taking dangerous medicines, will assure that that person will not have biological children. It's the ultimate effort by Satan to destroy the family unit.
Virginia GowerJune 9, 2022
Jeff is right on target about Deseret News, Deseret Book and KSL. Is there anyone who we could contact to complain about the rubbish these 3 come up with. And it's not just about LGBT - also their political views and commentary on other subjects. I'm over 70 years old and I'm not alone. I only get online to read the Church News because you can't believe what you read in the Deseret News and KSL.
BryanJune 9, 2022
Bravo, bravo, bravo! The DNews and other LDS owned media left the reservation long ago. Just as ‘white guilt’ affects people’s actions towards blacks and other peoples of color, so ‘heterosexual guilt’ makes people think they need to show acceptance of behavior directly in opposition to divinely revealed gospel principles. Too many in the church think they are being Christlike in advocating for or supporting homosexual behavior. Instead they are being deceived by Satan and dragging others down with them.
Neill MarriottJune 8, 2022
Kathy, Thank you for the relatable and profound examples in your article. Your mastery of words made it a delight to read. I am going to include the Savior more in my daily work, thanks to your insightful testimony.
KalliopeJune 8, 2022
Just need to know if this is based on a true story, or a figment of imagination.
MaryannJune 8, 2022
Ah, yes--there are a lot of women out there who can relate to this story, including me. Thanks for the chuckle.
Janet ChristensenJune 8, 2022
Excellent article! These inspired words ring true for anyone with political, philosophical or religious differences. I have close family that are not on speaking terms - they can't handle ideas that are different from their firm - "how dare you think I'm not right" - ideas.
DenieseJune 8, 2022
I very much enjoyed this story. It got my day started. We all need to remember that the Lord is/will be with us if we just learn to recognize His presence.
Susan D’AndreaJune 8, 2022
Mom’s irises: Purple irises were my mother’s favorite flower. After she and my father passed away, my sister Lynn dug up the iris bulbs and planted them in her garden. The next year when they bloomed, my sister took pictures and sent each of my parents’ six children an 8x10” print to frame and hang in our homes. It has been almost 20 years, and Mom’s irises are still blooming in Lynn’s garden. Each June she texts us a picture.
Sasha KwapinskiJune 7, 2022
I submit that a good part of the issue is understanding the difference or distinction between love and relativism -- a distinction that many in today's society seem to have a problem with.
Rochelle HaleJune 7, 2022
We will always be at odds with those who oppose us or have differing opinions. One prefers yellow; another blue. One eats meat; another is vegetarian. One is a couch potato while the other is an extreme exerciser. One of the great issues regarding sexual preference is that Latter-day Saints (Catholics, and many others) believe that intimacy is only appropriate within the bounds of marriage. They are NOT our rules; they are God's. Nevertheless, just as we embrace those who enjoy different hobbies or foods, we can embrace our fellow beings who feel differently about sexuality outside of traditional marriage. That, then, is the conundrum, because often those living opposing lifestyles don't want our love or even our association unless we can totally condone and support them. The interpretation then becomes that we "hate them" rather than respecting that we can love and leave any judgment to God.
GaleJune 7, 2022
Thank you for this. I am of Jewish descent and have a special connection to Ruth. This was really enlightening.
Ronald BarnesJune 7, 2022
At the age of 67, I’ve thought about those things, too.
Of course, I want to stay as young as possible for as long as possible. Only time will tell.
I would love to leave some kind of lasting legacy, but I know that I won’t. I’ll be satisfied to be remember in a hundred years.
Of course, I want safe and successful lives for all of my descendants. I just doubt that I’ll have much influence on that.
As for being surrounded by loved ones: My children and grandchildren have their own lives to live. I would love to see them as often as feasibly possible, but they have more to do with their lives than being overly concerned about me. I will have lived my life and I want them to have the same privilege. Let them live it while they can.
JillJune 7, 2022
That upsets me. I married late. I had one child, who identifies as gay and does not want children. Grandparenting will likely never be a reality for me.
ColinJune 6, 2022
I'm with you, Wally, in being concerned by well-meaning efforts to reduce everything to self-esteem—especially because if that's the problem, then the solution looks like increasing self-esteem and this leads to terribly misguided efforts like giving hollow praise and trophies for everything. Loving God and feeling loved by Him are a lot closer to core solutions.
I've often heard people claim that the second great command, "Love thy neighbor as thyself," is somehow a command to love ourselves. If that's what Jesus meant, it's surprising that the parable he told to illustrate the principle described a man, the Samaritan, who never once that of himself. Not for a moment.
MaryannJune 6, 2022
I love your statement: "Self-affirmation must not replace heavenly attestation." As a bookseller for many years, I noticed so many books being released that present alternate routes for achieving happiness, peace, and self-esteem, INSTEAD OF trusting in the Lord and following HIS path. It seems that every month new books are released claiming to be the magic formula for "feeling good" about ourselves and our lives. As you stated, In order to have true peace and joy, we must combine our understanding of our divine worth with a spirit of humility, a willingness to repent, and deep gratitude to the Lord for enabling us to accomplish good things. When our motivation is to please our Heavenly Father and our Savior, we will feel that divine attestation from the Spirit that we are on the right path. There is no greater joy.
Tom BaxterJune 6, 2022
In King Benjamin’s profound and life-changing sermon to the Nephites, the power of the Holy Ghost bore witness of his words and brought about a change of heart in his listeners. Mosiah 4:3 tells us they experienced a “peace of conscience “ “3 And it came to pass that after they had spoken these words the Spirit of the Lord came upon them, and they were filled with joy, having received a remission of their sins, and having peace of conscience, because of the exceeding faith which they had in Jesus Christ who should come, according to the words which king Benjamin had spoken unto them.” In my opinion this is God’s definition of the non- scriptural term self esteem.
Andrew J CurrieJune 6, 2022
I've always thought D&C121:45 is the best explanation of self-esteem and how to obtain it. It has no hint of self-concern or, even, self-awareness: "Let thy bowels ... be full of charity towards all men … and let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God....”
What better description of meaningful self-esteem than 'being confident in the presence of Deity'?
Bonnie MJune 6, 2022
This article is amazing. Such clarification that is so important. Thank you so much! Bonnie
Joy PorterJune 6, 2022
This is an interesting article and has some thoughtful interpretations of self-esteem. However I disagree on some level with the idea of denying ourselves the ability to reprogram the negative beliefs that we have received from our childhood. As a member of the church's 12-step Addiction Recovery Program, I have learned that we can do nothing without the grace of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Addictions and negative beliefs cannot be changed without His intervention and help. As was mentioned in the article... it is true that we are nothing when it comes to making changes in ourselves. However as Professor Sandberg, at BYU, so beautifully put it: change really takes courage + action + Grace. https://magazine.byu.edu/article/healing-courage-action-grace/
For myself, I have learned that I have spoken so critically to myself for the last 65 years that there must be some reprogramming of my mind. So, every morning and evening I tell myself that I am a beautiful child of God. That I am worthy of love and respect. That I am a fallible human being who makes mistakes but I'm a worthwhile and lovable human being.
Many of us carry terrible "stinkin thinkin" which sadly lies to us, telling us we are not worthy of our Saviors grace, love and atonement. This is where the action step of reprogramming my mind has made a great difference. I have felt more worthy to approach My Savior, to ask him to change my very heart, to turn my life completely over to him and trust that he can do more with me than I can do with myself. I've seen literal miracles using this approach.
I think there's room for both in this negative, critical world we live in.
Donald CyrJune 6, 2022
What's a revelation ! This article bring me to a profound re-evaluation of the concept of self esteem that I am fighting for so many years... It's a relief to understand this principle in a different perspective for now on... Thanks for this enlightenment in your today publication.
Bera SautuJune 5, 2022
Great article! Inspiring too. Thank you.
LaceyJune 5, 2022
"self-centered charitable giving"
If you are paying tithing because you believe you will receive blessing from it, THAT is self-centered charitable giving. Your 'fire insurance's money is about you rather than about others.
MaryannJune 4, 2022
The #1 way to solve our water shortage? Repent and call upon Heavenly Father for the rain needed.
Connie MurdochJune 4, 2022
I loved this article. It gives me great hope and has broadened my faith. As I increase my service in helping to gather Israel, I have every expectation that God, who is very good at His job, will be assisting me with that which I so desperately pray about. Thank you for this very informative message.
Amanda PerkinsJune 3, 2022
It was a year ago tomorrow that the Proctors stopped on their walk in the Poppies by their home to hear my daughter Naomi Perkins and Jacob Parson singing "Your Hands" one of Josh Sales Christian Cover Official songs. The kids performed and they took a picture with them, and learned of this amazing service that Josh does to help bring others to Christ through music! We have become friends with a girl in the Philippines that has joined the church, making contact with me and my daughter after hearing her Christian Cover. The powere of good music is amazing. https://youtu.be/Npn1ejbn30Q
OwenJune 3, 2022
Simply put, God has commanded us to pay tithing to Him through His church. My wife and I do so. Blessings truly come as we keep this commandment, leaving us in a position to pay Fast Offerings and other donations to church causes AND donate to charities of our choice. So thankful that God keeps His promises!!!!
IndaJune 3, 2022
I believe someone should sue these movie producers for lies and slander.
JuliannJune 3, 2022
I went to school with three of the younger Lafferty brothers. They were leaders, intelligent and accomplished. Good looking too. I can’t imagine how painful it must be for their families to have this painful period portrayed in such a twisted manner.
Persecution toward the Church has always originated from apostate members. History may repeat itself.
MarciaJune 3, 2022
Singer provides great enunciation to the wonderful words.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 2, 2022
This article was very well written and easy to understand. Thank you for the great effort and time that all of you spent to write this. I haven't watched this production because I am tired of seeing and reading what those who have left the Church have to say since I know they are not saying my truth.
MaryannJune 2, 2022
Thank you for this article. I think it is so important to remember that
no one truly knows what goes on in a marriage other than the two people in the marriage. Speculation and side-taking are hurtful forms of unrighteous judgement. I hope your words will help others to offer love and support for those who divorce.
MaryannJune 2, 2022
Thank you so much, Joni. As I am growing older, I am feeling the sting of being labeled as "old." Sometimes when I am conversing with someone, it becomes very apparent they don't see me and they are not talking to ME. They are talking to and "old" person. I think we sometimes shrug off labeling, gossip, and criticism as minor sins. They are not. They destroy love and unity, and create contention, which the Savior condemned. If we are to be a Zion people who are prepared to meet the Lord, we must rid ourselves of these divisive practices. One of the great blessings of having the Spirit with us is that we discern the strengths in one another and rejoice in them.
CaryJune 2, 2022
Did I read that correctly? That the character played by Andrew Garfield is entirely fictional and does not exist anywhere but this televised series. That in itself would entirely invalidate this series as credible. Especially when presented without any artistic or other context as such. What were they thinking? What was Garfield thinking?
Phillip SmithJune 2, 2022
It makes me sad that those with hatred or animosity toward the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints attack those of us who believe in it. The leader of the Church, the Lord Jesus Christ, said the following (Matthew 5:11-12) Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.
Helen CondonJune 2, 2022
And missionary work goes on being the veil, too! We had had my father’s work done in 2000 when I visited my mother in Australia. They were divorced in the 1960s and dad had remarried. We had him sealed to both of his wives. In 2010, when my 24 year old son died from brain cancer, the only active member among my five children, I felt his presence in Sacrament meeting a few weeks later. My father was with him and he was telling my dad not to worry about being in “that Mormon Church” but to come and listen to his little girl sing.
vickieJune 2, 2022
i didnt read all of this. i joined the church in 1977. i worked on myself for over a year to stop cussing. i wanted to go to the temple. by changing my life and life style i did say heavenly Father and called everyone brother and sister but also used their last name instead of mr and mrs. i will not appologize for this and feel it is okay to do. i remember people better that way by using their last name and that they are either my sister or brother in faith. when someone chooses to make fun of what i do or my church does. ...i remember one thing....i choose to be other than of this world....to act and believe outside of this world. i dont want to be like all the other worldly people. i want to be like Christ. i dont wear pioneer dresses...i do believe they were trying to make fun of the church....and trying to make fun of how we think and feel. what matters more to me ...is what i believe ....and that is in Christ. we have to expect that this is going to happen. what it makes me wonder is ...is it going to be because another mormon is going to come forth to be involved in this countries governance. and the devil is working hard to defame and create a false narative in peoples minds about latter day saints. i will be watching...
vickieJune 2, 2022
i joined the church in 1977 with my husband. we attended the temple when we could because there werent that many temples back then. we had to travel far. we went to the temple off and on and lived near one where we became the special couple. i loved it. then down the road husband had cancer surgery to remove his prostate. they nicked a nerve and he is now totally incontinent and cant go. when he rises from sitting it flows everywhere. im in continent in a different way. its amazing how we are like this and together. anyway i feel such an urge to do online temple work. i do things like grave work on finding graves and other websites and also on family search. i love it. there are many ways one can do temple work. i feel the presence of angels or family when doing these things.
RebeccaJune 2, 2022
This article was full of grace and understanding, which is very needed for parents today. It clearly offered hope to many. At the same time, I wish there was more of an emphasis on what we CAN do to fight for our children. I don't think the Lord's people really understand what we are up against, and we are not doing enough to stem the tide. What has worked for past generations is NOT enough today. Godly parenting needs to be completely revamped. Perhaps that was simply not the scope of this article. But let's not give up. We are at war, and we need to armor up and get on the battlefield.
NJune 2, 2022
America imports only 15% of its food. This crisis is man-made by our corrupt government and the world elites. Please reread the constitution, know your rights and stand up for them- It’s time to wake up! REPENT-PREPAREand PRAY
Howard & Rosalie Madsen PiersonJune 1, 2022
Definitely Not a read aloud story! Couldn't stop laughing!
DebrahJune 1, 2022
I have found when I pay my tithing I always seem to have a little extra at the end of the month to give to a charitable cause of my choosing. The Lord stretches my money to meet my needs and to consider an occasional want, too. Faith!
How many times has the Lord feed me, clothed me, found me a bike for my child that I could afford, put shoes on me as a child because my parents paid tithing? I should write a book! I have been blessed with adequate for my needs and to donate to others, if I pay my tithing.
Sally SmithJune 1, 2022
I have been watching the signs for quite sometime. I have been preparing by obtain ing food, clothing ,
shelter, and water. Don't have enough water.
Thank you for this article.
Doris WilliamsJune 1, 2022
Elder Bednar really hit it out of the park with this address to the press. My heart just swelled with his perfect answers to difficult questions, leaving no doubt as to the church's position and the reality that Jesus Christ is the head of the church. Mr Courageous, Mr. Articulate, A true Apostle of Jesus Christ.
Wendy H WoodJune 1, 2022
How can I say, "This is God's only true church," and say, "but I don't trust His representatives to do what's right?" I am among those who think that financial reserves are a good thing, and that the "rainy day fund" may be able to ease the coming deluge, which has already started.
Adam from OhioJune 1, 2022
I've started paying on my surplus properties as it says in the scripture. As I am still in debt for my education and my home that equals zero dollars. I do not have a surplus. Change my mind.
Cindy BJune 1, 2022
Jules Verne's "Around the World in Eighty Days" also had a very misinformed segment about "Mormons" when they were crossing America. As much as that book is fun, its inaccuracy is misleading and disappointing. A lesson we can learn is perhaps we shouldn't believe all we read about others cultures or beliefs until we use reliable sources, not sensationalized snippets.
Richard NelsonJune 1, 2022
This sounds like the story of Cain and Able. Cains sacrifice was rejected because it was not precisely what the Lord commanded.. it was this act that began his apostasy from God.
PatrickJune 1, 2022
There are some months I pay up to 12%, just to be sure. I love the blessings I receive and the feeling I get when I pay tithing.
Michael WidemanJune 1, 2022
Our offering (tithing) is laid upon the Lord's altar. He determines and directs its use through His called agents. What we give and what remains was already His and was His gift to us. What we give, He gives to us again "...good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over..."
Paul HMay 31, 2022
Many years ago President Spencer Kimball told of a man that had spent his "tithing money" on something other than tithing, all of which were good things, and then asked "What do you think of that?", to which President Kimball replied, "I'd say you were very generous with someone else's money."
Good luck keeping the admonition to attend the temple regularly if you aren't a full tithe payer as that's a requirement to hold a current, valid recommend. .
This also suggests an arrogant attitude that you know better than the Lord's servants where the funds should be allocated.
MaryannMay 31, 2022
I had not heard of this "trendy tithing" practice and I'm pretty shocked. Thank you for the reminder of the necessity and also great blessings of paying tithing in the Lord's way. I guess that's what it all boils down to--are we going to keep the commandments in the Lord's way? OR-- or are we going to trust in the "arm of flesh," accepting false doctrines, and then justifying ourselves in our own reasoning and rationalization? I am reminded of President Nelson's counsel to "Let God prevail" in our lives. There are no alternate routes to God's presence, other than the straight and narrow path. Thank you for your insights.
Neal ChristensenMay 31, 2022
Sounds like Trendy apostacy.
Ronald H SnyderMay 31, 2022
While I had never heard of this idea, the article certainly points out the flaws in the logic. I would say, in defense of the "national columnist" (whoever it is), that the people who do this were not likely to pay tithing to the Church anyway and therefore, encouraging them to give a similar amount to worthwhile charities is certainly a good idea,
To presume that I am better suited to determine how the Lord's funds should be allocated is the height of effrontery. God already had sufficient resources, financial and otherwise, before instituting the law of tithing. That does not exempt us from proving our faithfulness and devotion by complying with a straightforward commandment.
Megan PickettMay 31, 2022
Well written article that expounds perfectly on the reason tithing is necessary and why people may think that trendy tithing is the way to go, but it’s not! Great job!
CallieMay 31, 2022
I think of my tithing as the Lord's money. I do not choose what the Lord does with His money.
SherylMay 31, 2022
The sifting continues. I can testify wholeheartedly to the blessings that come when you pay full and honest tithing.
Barbara ReedyMay 31, 2022
The widows mite was a true a kitchen amount but Christ did not give her the ok to use it for what or who she chose. Also it says bring all of your tithes into the Bishops warehouse. Will not be your choice if its for the poor in our wards, overseas for food, meds, water, The is a place for every dime, here or abroad.
ShaunaMay 31, 2022
I was not aware of this trend. what next??? Such thinking brought to mind a quote from President Hinkley that he gave in 1995 when introducing "The Family, a Proclamation to the world.":
“With so much of sophistry that is passed off as truth, with so much of deception concerning standards and values, with so much of allurement and enticement to take on the slow stain of the world, we have felt to warn and forewarn."
"Trendy" tithing, is flat out sophistry,, and deception." It also reminds me of a pattern I see in the Book of Mormon...that it is the "dissenters" of the Nephites who are the cause of much wickedness. Truly a house divided against itself cannot stand. The most pernicious attacks on our faith are those who pretend to share it
Keith WilsonMay 31, 2022
Very well stated, Joel. Some of my research of other religions has taken me to study the path of the RLDS, now Community of Christ. Recently, their leadership has bought into this trendy tithing practice and now any charitable contributions that their members make to any organization can be counted as their tithing. It is sad to see how their church currently has really been struggling financially to make up some serious shortfalls in tithing donations. Tithing blesses thrice. Once when we pay it, twice when the Church receives it, and thrice when the Church uses it for good purposes.
James LittlejohnMay 31, 2022
I find it troubling, to say the least, that there is a voice proclaiming "trendy tithing". Have we not been admonished both by the living Prophets in recent times and scripture that the concept of tithes and offerings is one given to us by a loving Heavenly ZFather so we may be allowed to participate in the blessing of Israel in these the latter days? I would no more fail to adhere to the wishes and commandments of Father than to deny my testimony of the Lord., nor deny His mercy.
HalMay 31, 2022
Great article, thank you! I'm reminded of a statement I heard years ago (I forget who said it), wherein someone told a friend that he contributed his "tithing" to causes he deemed worthy. When he asked his friend his thoughts, the reply was: "I think you are being very generous with the Lord's money." Personally, I get great satisfaction in contributing to worthy, charitable causes. However, I don't ever use the Lord's money for such contributions. I love the blessings I receive from paying tithes and other offerings. Being obedient sometimes is its own reward.
Rochelle HaleMay 31, 2022
My late stepsister was a good Christian woman who believed in tithing, but she followed this trend long before it was "trendy" and would pay percentages to people or causes of her own determination. My late mother-in-law was scrupulous in paying her tithing to the Church through the Lord's program, but she "spent our inheritance" by giving to many worthy causes as well. No matter the accolades of the world, nothing can compare with the spiritual (and sometimes material) blessings that the Lord will give us as we tithe to Him.
Ann CMay 31, 2022
Many years ago, a friend told President Kimball that instead of paying tithing to the church, he gave 10% of his income to groups or individuals who he felt needed it more. He asked President Kimball what he thought about that. President Kimball's reply was "I think you are very generous - with THE LORD'S MONEY."
Enough said. If you want to donate to these causes - please feel free to do so, but do it with your own money, not that which belongs to the Lord.
Ronald BarnesMay 31, 2022
Our tithing does not belong to us to do with whatever we please, it belongs to God to do with whatever He pleases. If we give our tithing allotted money to other causes, we are doing what we please with God’s money. We are determining for Him, how His money is to be spent. We would not be pleased if someone else decided how our money is to be spent. Why would God be any different? As we sing in church:
We give thee but thy own,
Whate’er the gift may be,
For all we have is thine alone,
A trust, O Lord, from thee.
JimMay 31, 2022
I hadn't yet heard of this trend; very disturbing. Reminds me of the story of a general authority (wish I could remember who) who was approached by a wealthy member who basically said, "Want to know how I pay tithing? I put that money in a special savings account, then when someone in the ward needs some help I use that account to help them. What do you think of that?" And this general authority's wise reply: "I think you're being very generous with the Lord's money."
ShareeMay 31, 2022
I'm sure there are a lot of people throughout the world who have been very happy that the Church has had a lot of money socked away for a rainy day.
HelenCMay 31, 2022
Wow! I’m so sorry this has to even be discussed! The Law of Tithing has nothing to do with the Church’s financial standing and everything to do with the Law of Obedience and Sacrifice! It was the Pharisees who ignored the widow and her mite. It was the Savior who applauded her.
It’s not about the money, people!
Andrew CurrieMay 31, 2022
In a General Conference talk way back in the 1970s (I was new in the Church, so it really stuck with me), President Kimball shared a story of a friend who explained that he "tiithed" by giving 10% of his income to charities of his own choosing. When the friend asked President Kimball what he thought about his approach to tithing, President Kimball' candidly replied, "I think you are very generous with somebody else's money."
It's the Lord's money; and He has already designated how tithing is gathered and distributed (i.e., The Council on the Distrbution of the Tithes).
Dr Lynn D JohnsonMay 31, 2022
It is not their money, it belongs to God. Glad to know about the latest version of apostasy.
Tom ShawMay 31, 2022
When people comment on the wealth of the church do they understand the massive commitment that the church is required t to fulfill in building up the kingdom of God on the earth? Do they understand that there will be a new city of Zion requiring to be built on the American continent. Imagine building a city for say 10-15m people with the housing, utilities & transport network. This will cost billions when it happens.
JulieMay 31, 2022
Throughout reading this article it seems those professing this new way to pay tithes have actually missed that fast offerings are the funds the church receives for the described misdirected funds. .
Many years ago I was asked to donate to a specific charity through my work. At that time I made the choice to allow the leaders of my church to decide which international charities should receive my funds, because they had a much wider view of what areas of the world needed the help over my tunnel vision of the small area of the world view I could see. And I knew 100% of my donation went to better the world not someone’s salary.
LouAnne JohnsonMay 30, 2022
Josh, you are awesome! I admire your example to all of us in following the Spirit. The far reaching effects of your work will be felt by many. Your generosity will change lives. The gift you are giving is so precious. I agree, the Lord does not act randomly. He goes to great lengths to reach all of his children. What joy you must feel to be a part of the rescue.
Thank You, Brother
JuliannMay 30, 2022
Wonderful article, got chills reading about this great young man and how he is using his gifts and talents. I prefer listening to Christian music and I’m 69 years old. The passion and testimony that comes through the sincere lyrics and the uplifting orchestration/beat never fails to calm my troubled heart. I hope you find great success Josh. I believe you will.
MaryMay 30, 2022
Thank you, Josh! I felt the Spirit so strongly while reading your story and listening to and watching this video! Everything about it stirred my soul! Thank you! The song is extremely powerful! I love everything about it! You and the artists are so talented! I needed this so much!
Richard HillsMay 29, 2022
NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES
All my life I’ve had wild dreams. As a kid, I’d holler at top of my voice while asleep. I don’t understand how my mind manufactures these bizarre or scary dreams even after doing some readings in oneirology where interviews and measurements on brain electrical activity have accumulated .vast amounts of data and developed impressive theories. Oneirology seems to show that we have dreams without getting any signals from outside our own minds. So it’s completely reasonable to me that NDE’s could be a completely natural phenomena that doesn’t require miraculous explanations. Good science must of course try to eliminate bias, eagerness to find or dismiss evidence for the existence of a spirit world. If faith is required beyond science, I note that faith is something you have to have to believe in something you wouldn't believe in if you didn't have it.
Christian V MinerMay 28, 2022
Your thoughts are spot on, Kim. Excellent insight and I love the parallels you made. For me, this is a perfect assessment of the differences between the power of the priesthood and the stuff made up by Simon Magus. Brava. Thank you for your enlightening article.
TracyMay 28, 2022
I am going to think back on this when my hope lessens and remember that others are experiencing similar things and Our God is mindful of us and is Our Help. Nothing has helped me so much, comiyfrom the perspective of great hope and circumstances we are sharing together.
Allison BinghamMay 27, 2022
Yep. It is very important to follow the latest power grab by WHO which a small unelected body is amending the 2005 treaty and pushing perhaps the greatest power grab yet. These International Health Regulation Amendments dissolve our national sovereignty, our US Constitution and is positioned to over ride state and county governance. 1) https://worldcouncilforhealth.org/campaigns/stop-the-who/2022/05/stopthewho-oppose-international-health-regulation-amendments/73799/ 2) https://shabnampalesamohamed.substack.com/p/tedros-mentions-growing-resistance?s=r
Joe BrightMay 27, 2022
"Centralized Planning", in short, centralization of authority, authoritarianism and collectivism are the most dangerous of ideolgies the world has come to know. This mindset is responsible for the greatest death tolls in that history. It is mutually exclusive with "capitalism", or true free market economies, and with liberty and life itself.
Why does man repeatedly return to, appeal to, and embrace, concepts of "supreme authoriy" to solve his problems? Is it an easier solution than taking accountability himself? Does the temptation to relinquish accountability, individual volition, agency, for a "guaranteed outcome" ring familiar?
Liberty is essential to the eternal progress of man. There is no compromise to liberty that is not tyranny. And all tyranny must be met with resistance.
MaryannMay 26, 2022
I have come to accept the fact that the doctrine of plural marriage is just something I will never fully understand in this life. Because I have a testimony, it doesn't matter. I am committed to Jesus Christ, His gospel, and His church. I don't need to understand everything in order to treasure my testimony. I hold fast to what I understand and love. Joseph Smith was a valiant prophet of God. He translated the Book of Mormon by the gift and power of God. He was valiant and endured to the end, and I owe him so much. In the midst of so much light and truth, it would be a mistake for me to focus on my confusion regarding the principle of plural marriage. "Let us all press on!"
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryMay 26, 2022
Thank you for simply stating the facts. One of my childhood friends married at age 12 around 1955. My parents and others thought that 12 was way too young to be married, but it was legal. One of my classmates in 8th grade was married and expecting a baby. I am glad I did not choose that path. I had too much fun as a teenager and enjoyed being a teen.
JackMay 26, 2022
Didn't the Prophet just say something about treating those who leave with respect? My spouse has left the church because of issues she feels strongly about and I dont believe in any way it was to sin or anything suggested here. This is perpetuating the idea that there aren't any problems in the church or its history and that those who leave are somehow immoral.
NateMay 26, 2022
Interesting article. I don't know you so why should I give your thoughts about Joseph Smith any more weight as someone else's
thoughts about Joseph Smith out there on the Internet?
I was wondering, if one reason for polygamy was to "raise up seed", why didn't Joseph Smith have children with any of his polygamist wives?
Where does agency come into play when an angel with a sword appeared to Joseph Smith and commanding him to practice polygamy or be destroyed? I just read about this in the church essay on polygamy, excerpt below.
"During the third and final appearance, the angel came with a drawn sword, threatening Joseph with destruction unless he went forward and obeyed the commandment fully."
Seems to me that the principle of agency, which Satan wanted to remove as part of his plan, was for some reason superseded by the requirements for polygamy to be restored.
DavidDMay 26, 2022
If Joseph didn't have offspring with any of his 30 to 40 additional wives, then clearly his purpose was not to have "seed." And if Joseph's purpose was to give support and welfare to single women, then wouldn't he have limited his new wives to older women? Do we really think that teenage girls needed support and welfare? I honestly don't think Joseph was a pedophile. But I also don't believe for a second that an angel would have really slayed Joseph with a sword.
S. PorterMay 26, 2022
The correct link for the Hales' website: https://josephsmithspolygamy.org/
Claudia Henderson SmithMay 26, 2022
Great information.
KathleenMay 25, 2022
Harmonious in voice and purpose!
Ann MullenMay 24, 2022
The similarities are so close that it took me several readings to understand the differences between religion one magic. Great article. Thank you.
Susan MorrisMay 24, 2022
"A 'magical' society doesn’t care about morality, kindness, or compassion, but only cares about outward behavior." An accurate description of the thoroughly corrupted ruling class of Pharisees and Sadducees during the earthly ministry of Christ. They--like the child-sacrificers of former times--maliciously slew the innocent Lamb of God in an attempt to maintain their ritualistic power over the people of occupied Israel. Thanks to the author for the thought-provoking insights.
Dave B SmithMay 24, 2022
Kim,
Very well said!
JanMay 20, 2022
Love your words, love JBP. Love it all. Thanks for the reminder of the purpose of parenthood.
G K MarksMay 20, 2022
Just beautiful!! What a powerfully useful way of looking at our choices. I have been pondering this ever since I read it today.
Sandra Baird PattonMay 20, 2022
What an outstanding "read". Thank you for sharing about the grandson and then going on to quote scripture, etc. Everything you said is so true. I enjoyed reading the first article you wrote for Meridian and this one.
WallyMay 19, 2022
It is not clear to me what a parent should do as a result of the ideas in this article. It would be much stronger if it cited good parenting research and God's counsel on the subject.
HalMay 19, 2022
This is the best! I can relate to how hungry you get doing farm work. I don't recall complaining much about what we had for meals because I was always hungry after working all day. (In fact, my dad routinely said, "If you don't work, you don't eat." We knew he meant it.) I'm now in my sixties, but I still try things I know I don't like. My wife loves Brussel sprouts and makes them regularly. I always take two, eat them and think "Yep, still as nasty as they were 50 years ago." My wife and I routinely let our kids go without eating. When they complained about being hungry, we replied, "Well, you can eat what we have on the table or the next meal is breakfast (lunch, or dinner) and you can decide then if you want to eat." They were typically hungry enough to eat the next meal and none of our children ever died from missing a meal.
Laurie WhiteMay 19, 2022
I love this article! My children are raised, and I can honestly say it was a good experience. There were frustrating days. There were HARD days. The overall experience, however, was wonderful and a growing experience for both of us as parents, and for our children.
I would have liked to have seen examples of fatherhood in this article, as well -- especially since the example in the beginning was an exasperating tweet from a father. Parenting is a partnership. If I had not had the support of my husband, it would have been quite a different experience. I've often said that I don't know how single parents do it. Fathers, we love you!
DavidDMay 19, 2022
For casual readers of the second edition of The Earliest Text, it would be great to have a "redline" version, showing in-context changes to the official double column version of the Book of Mormon. Any chance of that?
JayMay 19, 2022
in order for someone to even consider having an abortion for any of the reasons above... it actually needs to be legal so that it can be performed by competent doctors
C MinerMay 18, 2022
I sustain both the church's stance on abortion in the handbook, as well as giving money to whomever the First Presidency and Quorum of the 12 apostles deems worthy of it's funding. This is all about discernment. The Spirit whispers to those holders of the keys of the priesthood when it is necessary. In the Book of Mormon, the Prophet Nephi was commanded to kill Laban for God's purposes. It is no different in my mind.
Kathleen SchadeMay 18, 2022
You've done it again, Lynne. I always enjoy your articles, and this is no exception. Thanks for sharing your gifts!
LAMBMay 18, 2022
A lot of teen girls don't want to go out with their dads anymore just like some teen boys don't want to go out alone with their mom anymore. If she feels uncomfortable being out alone with an older man, it should be family going out, not alone with dad anymore. Teens start separating themselves to become individuals.
MaryannMay 18, 2022
Elder Bednar's conference talk about not heeding mocking or false reports against the church lightens the load we may sometimes feel when we hear of these things. Because we love the gospel so much, our first impulse may be to become defensive or argumentative. I love that we can "heed not what the wicked may say." Our best course of action is to live the gospel and love one another, so that people have so many reasons to respect members of the church that they dismiss false information.
MaryannMay 18, 2022
I think one of the funniest things I ever read was Dave Barry's comment that we all know brussell sprouts are really the severed heads of martians. I think there can be a fine line between encouraging our children to eat healthful foods, or becoming fanatical about it. We have enough eating disorders without being too forceful about kids eating foods they truly hate. Sometimes kids hate foods because they are actually allergic to them. Of course. cutting out junk food snacks is a good idea. But, If a child consistently hates peas, wouldn't a good alternative to offer another green vegetable? Would an adult want someone to insist they eat something they dislike?
MaryannMay 18, 2022
All I had to do was read the first 3 words: "Should I force...?" No matter what the problem or subject matter is, the answer is "no." You cannot force anyone to do anything, nor should we try. The greatest influence is love.
H NorthMay 18, 2022
"Members must not submit to, perform, arrange for, pay for, consent to, or encourage an abortion."
However, it's apparently completely okay to donate millions to pro-abortion organizations like the UN and the NAACP...
stevie maireid mckennaMay 18, 2022
The repelling of the advancing Russian troops was due to the army of the Ukrainians, which was aided by NATO weaponry, not the citizens totting guns with a "cowboy" mentality to shoot em' up like we find in the US.
Doris WilliamsMay 18, 2022
The heavenly combination of Dallyn Bayles, Jenny Oaks Baker and that wonderful orchestra brings to life the inspired words of Orson F. Whitney. So grateful for our resident scholar, Daniel Peterson, who brought the complete experience to us.
AXLMay 18, 2022
This was so beautifully and eloquently taught. I love the examples and simplicity. Thank you for helping soften my heart.
CarolMay 18, 2022
This is a topic I've wondered about for a long time - how many nudges have I missed because I am too "busy" to hear. Your article has inspired me to listen better and actually follow through on my nudges. Thanks!
tfMay 18, 2022
A fine article, and the link to the musical presentation was a beautiful illustration. Jennie Oaks Baker always presents something nice. One thing that was missing was credit to the composer of the musical score, which is Rob Gardner. I've been sharing this article with friends.
CarolMay 18, 2022
Love your articles whatever they are about! This one brought back lots of memories. Another thing to try when introducing new foods is to only give a very small portion - sometimes only a bite. A kid will be more likely to eat 1 bite than a whole pile of something. It worked in our family along with all the other suggestions you gave. Love your daughter's inventiveness of putting the green beans in your sleeve. :)
CarolMay 18, 2022
Thank your for this video it truly shares the feeling of family history work and the blessings in the temple. Taking a family name to the temple is the best feeling ever!
zeke abramsMay 18, 2022
My Heavenly Father gave me talents and abilities to use for the Glory of the Kingdom of God during my probation on Earth. In 1994 I became a member of His Church; in 2001 I moved to Brasil where I have been ever since. In the twenty-one years, I've been here, I have never learned the Portuguese language. Instead, I spent nineteen years teaching English to professional men and woment, the lessons for whom I composed myself. I did not teach from the available books and texts which propound the British English; nay, I taught American English, which is a bastardized replication of the True English language from Britain. I am a teacher; I was called to teach in 1972 while sitting in the car, waiting for my wife to leave her floor as a nursing assistant, to let me take her home. The Lord spoke to me so clearly as I patiently waited in the car. "You're going to teach. Get an education in the Scriptures." I sort of did that... but now, the value of that calling on my life is a reality. But I need to learn the language of this people, in whose midst, I expect to see the last day of my life on planet Earth. The testimony I read in Lynne Perry Christofferson's short message is a true inspiration for me to get off my duff and learn Portuguese, that I may offer something to the Ward of Believers here in Assis, a medium-sized community of farming and industry, in the countryside of Sao Paulo state. Thank you, Lynne...
Alexander PowellMay 17, 2022
This fear of an approaching nationwide abortion ban is all the Dem's have going for them at this point.
Every policy of Biden's has been an abject failure and yes, there's a global recession coming brought on by Jo printing money like it's toilet paper to meet a pandemic shortage.
Given there is nothing polling for the Dem's other than this fear, this won't go away before November mid-terms.
Hmm, the Chinese can see all the munitions, howitzers and assorted equipment flowing to Ukraine and you can bet they will strike Taiwan while *the USA doesn't have the weapons to fight another conflict*,
It's all coming together now, forming like a perfect storm...
Howard & Rosalie Madsen PiersonMay 17, 2022
So beautiful! Thanks for the back story, too. The setting is perfect!
Annie JensenMay 17, 2022
Thanks for the reminder of what the Supreme Court’s role truly is.
JuneMay 16, 2022
Thank you so much for this article! The Lord knew exactly that I needed to read this. I appreciate the peace, insight, clarity, and comfort this article has bought me. Thank you again!
Naida koellikerMay 16, 2022
Love this. Thanks
Annette MillerMay 16, 2022
Beyond marvelous. Stirring. Lovely. Thank you most ardently.
MickeyMay 15, 2022
So many red flags here. The dad wants to repair his relationship with the child by forcing her to engage in activities HE likes, and that kids should please adults. He sounds emotionally empty and self serving. I think the mom needs to protect her daughter from her father. He doesn’t sound safe. I would not require my child be alone with him at all.
Angela MannMay 15, 2022
I can’t love this article enough. This is exactly what my heart and soul know as truth. Ya know when you’re in the ocean at the beach, and the water isn’t very clear and something bumps up against you and you get that icky feeling like you need to get out of the water now….the lack of gospel doctrine truths being taught or supported in church and at home feels a lot like that.
Robert StarlingMay 14, 2022
I value greatly not only spiritual inspiration, but also reason and logic. This author has combined both in a masterful essay, that in my humble opinion should be required reading (and required discussing) for all Christians, and especially all Latter-day Saints.
We sing "We Thank Thee O God for a Prophet", but what is the value if we are not valiant in obeying and teaching to our children and to others the truths that God has revealed through our prophets?
Our Father has given us revelatory guidance for our happiness and our benefit, that we might not be "tossed to and fro with every wind of doctrine."
Copy and forward this message to parents and others, everywhere.
Amen, and Amen.
ElizabethMay 14, 2022
“Should I force my daughter to do activities with her dad?” Are you joking? Why would anyone do such a thing? You must be aware that your daughter may have very good—-even self-protective—-reasons for avoiding him. Why, then, would you force her into a potentially harmful situation?
Kristene LindorfMay 13, 2022
Wow... I love it. Where do I sign up?
Kate PiersantiMay 13, 2022
I was recently challenged about teaching my children the whole gospel as they grew up. Why didn't I expose them to other philosophies as they grew? This article is so timely and one I will share with all that think I am brainwashing my children, when I know I am doing what is my responsibility as a parent.
Claudia Henderson SmithMay 13, 2022
Very interesting article and great logical conclusions!! Good job, Scot.
Duane BoyceMay 13, 2022
Amen. A wonderful article.
Web TasarımMay 13, 2022
I just like the helpful information you provide in your articles
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 11, 2022
Thank you for making me feel better. Four of my seven children have left the Church, and I always beat myself up by assuming all responsibility for not teaching my children correctly. Now I do feel better.
Craig FrogleyMay 11, 2022
You always say it with power and truth. Thank you, once again. What you have written is TRUE!! At ONE ment!
Candy Lee HuntMay 11, 2022
Excellent, hopeful, insightful and inspiring article, from a parent who has been there. Thank you! I have already shared it with friends.
katyMay 11, 2022
This is brilliant. Thank you!
Rebecca BMay 11, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. Despite all we know in the gospel, it’s so hard for my spouse and I to not blame ourselves. Were we too strict? If we hadn’t pushed so hard to get them to go to church, etc… This article gave me both comfort and perspective. Well done!
HalMay 11, 2022
Thank you for this article, Joseph! This is a tremendous help to my wife and me as we navigate the varying levels of apostacy of our beloved children, siblings, nieces / nephews, etc. We determined long ago to stay the course regardless of the choices our other family members make and have found joy in knowing we have the Greatest Power in the universe who is aware of our struggles and is helping us on a daily basis.
KarenMay 11, 2022
I loved this article! Spot on for me, it rings true.
LaurieMay 11, 2022
Thank you for writing and sharing this. These topics have been on my mind frequently for years and I appreciate this perspective on Atonement and the the insights that came to me while reading it.
Chuck DeWittMay 11, 2022
Great article but,,, BYU has a few teachers pushing Critical Race Theory and other junk. Be cautious. They are trying to clean things up but quite a few parents have been devasted. What happened to Elder Holland last year after his talk. Cwik on youtube is informative.
John R CarpenterMay 11, 2022
The reality of mortal life is that it is not easy. It was never designed to be easy. It was designed to help us experience mortal existence and how to over come things based on FAITH in Our God and His Son, Our Savior.
"And if we should die before our journey is through, Happy Day! All is Well!"
CPMay 11, 2022
Profound and important points, written with an enlightened perspective Thank you for sharing your experiences and thoughts with us.
MarieMay 11, 2022
I can't tell you how much I needed this! Thank you. Nothing has touched my heart for a long time like this article has. You've helped me. You've done Atonement work.
PennieMay 11, 2022
Amen! This war is real and at times viscous. But it's true, Christ is with us, so what or who can be against us. Twenty plus years of prayers and pleading for a lost son, resulted in a terrible injury that left him disabled, but finally humbled. In the intervening years he has done so much good. When the day came that I walked through the temple doors with him, I could hardly believe it. If the Savior can redeem this lost soul, He can redeem anyone. They need faithful parents who are determined to follow Christ no matter what.
Linda Van CottMay 11, 2022
An AMAZING article for bringing peace to so many hurting families. I felt hopeless before, but now see things differently--in a way that helps me move on with hope and comfort. Thank you for these empowering insights.
Kimball RasmussenMay 11, 2022
Brother Grenny,
This is excellent and so very well articulated. Thank you.
One particular line of your words inspired me to write this short stanza:
Life is our school,
And pain is our teacher,
With much better sermons,
Than we get from a preacher!
I also liked your perspective on “The Plan.” It is helpful to recognize that “The Plan” is associated with “Happiness” only twice in the scriptures; yet, “The Plan” is associated with “Redemption” ten times! Faith in the redemption of Christ comes first.
Lexie StatonMay 11, 2022
Thank you Brother Grenny. There is nothing more important to me than the gospel and building an eternal family. What you wrote has helped me to continue to change my perspective. I have had some personal experiences similar to yours that have helped me find peace and clarity amid disappointments experienced within our family; your article helped me to clarify some things and receive a boost, which is always welcome.
Tom TomenyMay 11, 2022
Wow, what a great article. I needed this, today, and every day, and I suspect everyone else does as well!
JuliannMay 9, 2022
Love the analogy. Powerful and humbling. Thank you. The day after Mother’s Day is the perfect time to post and read and share.
MaryMay 9, 2022
Thank you for this reminder. I laughed and cried at the truth of your descriptions. Watching my daughter recently enter motherhood for the first time, I had a shiver of trepidation for the life of servitude and labor that lies ahead. But there is no greater or more worthwhile labor. Your words add a reminder of the spiritual value of our maternal efforts.
ShayMay 9, 2022
Tremendous article. Thank you!
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 6, 2022
This article makes me appreciate my own mother and my Heavenly Mother even more. Thank you for sharing your story. I am sure your mom is smiling and proud of you.
Mary janeMay 6, 2022
Love you
lindaMay 5, 2022
Heartbreaking and heartwarming.
KathleenMay 5, 2022
Refreshing to highlight the positive!
G WyneMay 4, 2022
Thank you for this! Understanding and believing the doctrine of a Heavenly Mother has been essential for me personally to feel the depth of God's love. I am so grateful to know of Her existence, and that She loves me!
Vivian McConkie AdamsMay 4, 2022
Very funny. Always love your column.
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 4, 2022
This article is so fascinating. I learned so much. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and understanding with us.
Linda LMay 4, 2022
Thank you, for this beautiful article. It is precisely what I needed at this particular time. While I am a strong believer in miracles, your article gave me a clarity and inspiration that will expand and direct my faith experiences in more effective directions. My random discovery of your article has been a miracle to me this very day.
RozyMay 4, 2022
Is there any other way to buy your book? I refuse to purchase through Amazon, but would like to have a copy.
Julie Coulter BellonMay 4, 2022
Thank you so much for the recommendation, Patti! I will definitely check it out.
Sarah HinzeMay 3, 2022
Our ticket app is working now at www.rememberingheavenmovie.com
BillMay 3, 2022
Interesting article if your a middle aged divorcee. What have you got for a widowed senior citizen?
Grant NicholasMay 3, 2022
I have noticed, particularly with widows and widowers, that if the wife dies first, it's tougher on the man. He is in a sense a loner except for his partner. If the man dies first the wife quickly grasps onto her network of friends. They all sit together at church
Ronald BarnesMay 3, 2022
Almost your entire article was about being single after divorce. That is not my case. I am 67 years old and have been married for 45 years. Within a few years I will also be single again; not because of divorce, but because my wife is dying of a terminal disease. I went from high school to the mission field to marriage two months later. I have never lived alone either and I do not look forward to it. While I can relate to some of the things you mentioned, many others I can’t. Maybe you, or another contributor, will someday post an article addressing us (or in my case, future) old widows/widowers.
HelenCMay 2, 2022
I recently felt the power of this change when I responded to a thread from an evangelical friend suggesting I would be safer as a “true Christian” by stating I was convinced that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints was precisely that. The conversation ended with no further argument.
MatthewMay 1, 2022
This is pretty common in lots of marriages. 50% of which end in divorce for the same reason. They don’t know how to communicate.
I’d reference a serious study of Ammon in the BoM and the movie “Fireproof”.
If you understand these principles, you’ll heal your marriage or end it. Either way, you’ll learn a lesson and have better results going forward.
I’m rooting for you saving the marriage though
DarrelApril 30, 2022
Will it be made into a DVD to buy?
Susan GraceApril 29, 2022
how and where can Californians see this movie?
Susan GraceApril 29, 2022
Oh this sounds like a wonderful movie. I have several people who would benefit from seeing it and a grandson that needs to see it. But we live in California. How to see it?
DWBApril 29, 2022
Ticket purchase app doesn’t work properly
Connie ComptonApril 29, 2022
I’ve always been conscious of the Lord’s tender mercies, but your expression of “Love Notes” truly warms my heart. It seems to pinpoint exactly what my heart feels towards my Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ as I remember they know my name…and my heart. Thank you for the reminder.
Erika PechacekApril 29, 2022
I know that these experiences are real. When I had a deadly form of cancer, I experienced my arrival in the Spirit World. A large number of people, all dressed in white, were dancing and celebrating my arrival. One lady came up to me and said "finally, finally you are here to teach us. We have been waiting so long already". Then my grandfather came and said "Not so fast, you know that we have to have permission first". With that he took me somewhere and then talked to someone, came back and said "sorry, but it is not your time yet. You have to go back to earth to do some important work".With that I recognized my environment again and lived (now 5 years) after that experience.
Rebecca WardApril 29, 2022
For those of us not on Utah, any plans to put this out on DVD?
PattiApril 29, 2022
I have some of your books and love the stories. I wish I lived in Utah to be able to see this movie. When will it play elsewhere or pay online for viewing?
Beverly Barnt MooreApril 29, 2022
Yes last week I received a love message from my Lord in a strange form. I awoke to find the tiny diamond birthstone missing from my mother's ring. I was heartbroken. My daughter gave me the ring with my birthstone and mother's and her and her brothers over 30 years ago. Later I noticed something on the bathroom floor and picked it up but without glasses I wasn't sure it was even more than cat litter. Later I went back with glasses on and looked again.......yes? maybe? I taped it to a paper and took it and the ring to a jeweler who confirmed it was my tiny diamond. Now if that isn't a message of love I just don't know what is. HE also answers my prayers for more time to do family history every time I get sick. I KNOW HE LOVES ME!
Bette R HarpApril 29, 2022
When can I buy this? I'm nowhere near Utah. Please, my family needs to see it!
HalApril 29, 2022
I loved this article, especially the story about little Alan. Many years ago my friend told me a similar story about his adopted son. Once when they were having a family home evening lesson on temples, my friend showed a photo of the celestial room in the Salt Lake Temple. He asked his then 5-year-old son if he knew what the picture was. His son answered, "Yes, that's where you and mom got married." My friend was startled because neither he nor his wife had ever had this discussion with their young son before. My friend said, "That's right! How did you know that?" His son pointed to a window in the picture and said, "Because I was standing right there and watched you." I have had similar experiences with my own children. I have no doubt that we have memories of our heavenly home buried deep in our souls.
Debra M.April 29, 2022
Loved this! The idea of a love note is so special. I had an experience maybe 4 years ago that stands out--I have a granddaughter that was due to receive her Young Womanhood award in her sacrament meeting, Her mom was not active, and I was told to meet her at the building--she had a ride with a neighbor. I got there, and no granddaughter. The meeting started and she had been told by the bishop he would give the award before the sacrament. I saw him looking at the doors watching for her. The sacrament had just finished when she walked in , almost in tears. Her ride had been late, and she was sure it was too late. I was about in tears also, because this award meant so much to her, and she had persevered to get it despite the difficulties in always needing rides to meetings and activities. I just keep looking at the bishop, willing him in my mind to call Zoe up and praying mightily that he would see her.
After the speakers were done he called her up to the podium and gave her the award--then I really did cry with relief and gratitude that there was a bishop who listened to promptings and our hearts. My granddaughter and I had a private joke whenever we witness these tender mercies--"The Church is true!" and that was the first thing she said when she sat down after receiving her award. Maybe a small thing, but to us it was great! It was a witness to us that Heavenly Father knows us so well.
Dorrie KeithApril 28, 2022
I feel compelled to share a couple of "love notes from the Lord. It was morning, I had hit rock bottom, emotionally. After watching my husband's mind dwindle away from dementia, going through the Paradise fire in a very intense way, being isolated because of the covid pandemic, being a full-time caretaker and then widowed after nearly 70 years of marriage, I had reached the end of my endurance. I tearfully and desperately prayed for some relief, something to pull me out of the despair I was sinking into. Soon, the phone rang, and it was a representative from Social Security telling me she had cut through the red tape and obtained my survivor's benefits plus back pay. I had been struggling with them for several weeks and had almost given up. Of course, that brightened my spirits considerably but within an hour I could feel myself sinking again. I glanced out the window and right in front of it was a wild tom turkey, looking up at me with his scrawny neck stretched out. He was trying to figure out if a real person was there, so I stood very still. Along came his hen and four adolescent poults, acting like typical teenagers. The family then put on such a comedy act that I dissolved into tears...of laughter. What strange angels the Lord sends sometimes to do His work!
Loren DaltonApril 28, 2022
Great article! Thanks for reminding us all just how much God is aware of us and that He is constantly sending us these little reminders and you have done a wonderful job of reminding of these little things that we may otherwise overlook are really messages from Him to us!
Taylor StonelyApril 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your experiences! I laughed and I cried, because I can totally relate to how the desires of my heart were seemingly crushed, only to have the Lord intervene with his love note to me.
Elaine MathewsApril 28, 2022
Your article made me smile all the way through! I now know what to call the little but amazing personal reminders that tell me my hopes and thoughts are known to the Lord. Just as you said- they’re not earth-shattering, desperate pleadings but more ‘if only I could, wouldn’t it be lovely’ musings that when they come to pass, feel like a warm hug from home that remind me I’m loved. I also feel that in acknowledging and thanking Him for sweet treasures enables me to see His hand each day more clearly.
ColinApril 27, 2022
This is beautiful and rings with truth. Thank you.
Ronald BarnesApril 27, 2022
I have read and heard many near death experiences. One of the most profound, was a woman who had been born blind, but who was able to see what was happening around her body during her experience.
Mariam KitchenApril 27, 2022
Thank you!
Marjohna MadsenApril 27, 2022
Thank you for being willing to share and help. Some traumas are long, slow corrosive patterns of aloneness, abandonment or negative relationships. There is hope in Christ’s message of worth to each soul. He atoned first each one.
Linda SpoonerApril 26, 2022
How about an article regarding the men/women that are left behind after many years of marriage. A stage that many of us have never gone thru before of being alone.
Paul HApril 26, 2022
With plural wives being a celestial principle and the diversity we see among the races of our Heavenly Father's children, is it not possible that there are Heavenly Mothers, and not just one from which all our spirits sprang? The scriptures teach there was a spiritual creation before a physical one and children look like their parents. This concept strengthens my faith; it does not offend it.
KathleenApril 26, 2022
Very well told and thank you for sharing. It's the same time in my life that I found the gospel, 50 years previously. Sure glad that I said, "Yes," to being baptized! It's made all the difference to my blessed and rich life on the Gospel/Covenant Path.
CarolineApril 26, 2022
This is excellent. And truth be told we don’t really know that much more about Heavenly Father and it is enough. What we know we can love , and we can trust that we have all eternity to become reacquainted with our Parents. .
Roger ConnorsApril 26, 2022
Seth, thanks for the comment and reference to Gospel Principles--one of the best and most reliable sources, ever! I have a chapter devoted to "why" we obey and you hit the nail on the head--the love of God.
Roger ConnorsApril 26, 2022
Hello, Ann! Yes, one in the same. Thank you for your comment!
Kimberly AnneApril 26, 2022
Great article and profound thoughts! God’s timetable is divine and perfect - we just need to be willing to have faith that the right things will happen in His timing.
Beccah GerberApril 26, 2022
Thank you for this beautifully written article! I love the inspiring truths you shared about Heavenly Mother.
Seth ConnorsApril 26, 2022
Great article. While we can’t forget the Lord loves effort, we also need to remember that our efforts don’t work in the “cosmic vending machine” way. It’s no wonder Gospel Principles proposes the obedience motivation hierarchy as 3- Fear of Punishment 2- Want of Blessings 1-Love of God. Often external punishment and blessings come far after the effort has been given which might demotivate the obeyer. But internal love of god is a source that doesn’t go out nor need immediate results.
Richard ScottApril 26, 2022
Jessica, thank you for your wonderful article. I’m sitting in a cafe in Lisbon, Portugal casually thumbing through my emails when the title of your article caught my eye. I am a lifetime church member from “pioneer stock” and to your point have never fully considered or pondered the wonderful doctrine you have written about. It truly is a great thing to ponder upon our Mother in Heaven. You raise many points that have heightened my perspective and broadened my horizon. I knew the Gospel Topics essay was there, but until now have never read and pondered it. Thank you for your gentle encouragement to give this doctrine the attention it deserves!
Laurie PollardApril 25, 2022
This is a very inspiring article. I was thrilled to learn more about the life and heart of Wilford Woodruff. I was overcome by the Spirit while reading it. Thank you for sharing your valuable research on this extraordinary man of God.
JeanieApril 25, 2022
Ideas on how to act, based on general church teachings might include getting ready by drawing closer to the Savior, being kind, and remembering that everyone on this earth made the right decision in the pre-existence, and deserves the chance to hear the truth taught, humbly and lovingly.
Laura BeauchampApril 23, 2022
Thanks, Dr. Peterson. Your insight and advice are always right on!
NicoleApril 23, 2022
Thank you for this beautifully written article. I've been praying for a way to help someone I love, this information is an answer to that prayer.
DebiApril 23, 2022
Thanks for justifying my life. 52 years in virtually the same situation. Your advice was healing for me.
MaryannApril 22, 2022
I appreciate the spirit and message of this article, but I wish the author had expanded a little more on his suggestion that we should be prepared and that we should act. Suggestions on HOW to do this would be helpful.
MaryannApril 22, 2022
I think this woman has answered her own question regarding whether she can have a happy, rewarding life in her loveless marriage. She obviously does NOT have a happy life, or she wouldn't be asking the question. There is a huge difference between having a happy life as a single, widowed, or divorced person and having a happy life in a marriage where she states there is no emotional intimacy, NOR any effort on her husband's part to have a close, loving marriage. The children are grown, so the fact that he is a "good father" doesn't seem
applicable to keeping the marriage going. I feel sad that this woman doesn't end this marriage and seek for companionship with someone who cherishes her. Living in these conditions would be hell on earth for many.
AshleyApril 22, 2022
This is exactly what I needed. So hopeful and inspiring! Thank you for always sharing such a real, relatable message!
Carbine WilliamsApril 22, 2022
As always it's best to just ignore the advances of the adversary, past history has shown that anything anti LDS just strengthens our position and allows the opposite forces to just whither and die. On the day of Judgement those that wrongly persecuted the Church will gain their eternal rewards.
Gloria BarrettApril 22, 2022
It sounds like this might be something worth taking a look at. Possibly foster opportunities to do some missionary work.
RaLee HallApril 21, 2022
Thank you for this touching, well thought out article. I appreciate the time and effort you put into it.
MelodyApril 21, 2022
Beautiful singing & great msg.
BertApril 21, 2022
The message of this article was exactly what I needed today. Thank you Anne.
Diane IrwinApril 21, 2022
This quote from Jeffrey R. Holland really spoke to me, followed by your closing remarks. This article is very empowering!!!
KathleenApril 21, 2022
Talk about "all's well that ends well" and "happily ever after." Thank you for continuing this story to the end. Love your down to earth writing style.
KathleenApril 20, 2022
How incredibly timely and filled with symbolism was your experience. Thank you for sharing the story through words, pictures and testimony.
Ann SiggardApril 20, 2022
Is this the Roger Connors who was Stake President of Murrieta? I love this explanation of divine compensation! I also love to see the many patterns in the scriptures of God's dealings with his children. Thank you for your article.
HalApril 20, 2022
What a great story with a "Hallmark" ending! I loved this mini-trilogy and all the other stories you tell. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Hans S.April 20, 2022
Brother Bradshaw, I truly hope that the absence of comments to your article is not an indication that it wasn't read. I am astounded as to the volume of notes and sources you used and amazed at the time it must have taken you to put this all together. Very interesting and scholarly, to say the least. Thank you for your dedication in presenting this. For me, it was time well spent.
JaneApril 20, 2022
I find it interesting that the year 2020 ( 20+20=40)
Karell BinghamApril 20, 2022
Beautiful and tender! Thank you for your amazing understanding of the love of God!
Amy Ludwig VanDerwaterApril 20, 2022
Thank you so much for including our new IF THIS BIRD HAD POCKETS on your wonderful list! I welcome your readers to visit me at my blog, The Poem Farm, where I have been sharing poems and writing ideas for young writers since 2010. This month (April 2022), I am sharing a new poem inspired by a popular proverb each day. Happy National Poetry Month! Peace, Amy LV
Kathleen N JonesApril 19, 2022
I know for sure we have a Heavenly Mother, my second daughter when only almost 4 years old, asked me a question as to why I didn't do a certain thing, "like my other mother." When I replied I was her mother, she corrected me saying "No, my mother in heaven she use to . . . . all the time." I have left out what it was she did in respect of such holy things. That daughter is now 48 years old.
Patti HouseholderApril 19, 2022
If you really like this book, then you should listen to her Podcast, Sunday on Monday, at LDS Magazine. I have listened each week for a year and a half as she and two guests discuss the Come Follow Me lesson for that week. Since she's studied Hebrew, she brings new light into the meaning of many Old Testament scriptures.
BonnieApril 18, 2022
This is such a phenomenal idea and I really love it. Just one question. Is it too late if our 10 grandchildren range in age from 14-23? We have good long-distance relationships but want to learn & do more.
Barbara MattatallApril 17, 2022
I am responding again. I was asked to participate in our Easter Sacrament Meeting today chosing any subject concerning Easter. Elder Hafen's podcast was great fodder for my presentation. I would not have been able to do this without the written word. He gave me much to think about and research for my presentation. Thank you.
SherryApril 16, 2022
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Having the transcripts back is wonderful!
Mary DobbsApril 16, 2022
For hearing impaired, transcripts are such a blessing. Very few podcasts are available to us. It was a blessing to have a transcript.
Peter F SchlegelApril 16, 2022
Wally - thank you for being so open and brutally honest. Not only that, but also reminding each of us who to turn to and how. I too served as a bishop and had that same experience- more than once! I truly enjoy your thoughts and experiences and firmly believe they are a great help to many.
Jim TerryApril 16, 2022
To me the real question is “our there Heavenly Mothers.” If a man can be sealed to multiple wives on earth, it would make sense that God would also have multiple wives and that our spirits didn’t all come from the same mother. Just a thought.
Marsha NewmanApril 16, 2022
Thank you for this excellent piece of history and for being to my awareness the spiritual quest of General Gordon. I know that God values humility and simplicity and I feel certain He would have wanted the sacred tomb of resurrection to be a quiet, simple place for spiritual reflection.
I thoroughly enjoyed this Easter offering!
DavidApril 16, 2022
Thank you brother Peterson. I can never get enough of the witnesses of our Savior. How glad I am for those who honor our Lord and defend truth under any circumstances.
KathleenApril 16, 2022
Too true! Probably heard a lot of, "Are we there yet?", as well.
OscarApril 15, 2022
I couldn't stop clicking.....the photos and essay are very profound and provoking. Muchas Gracias
Murray ChristmanApril 15, 2022
Hello, A friend of mine recalls his father using a medicine for bronchitis and on the bottle was an image of Brigham Young. He can't recall the name of the product. Can you shed light on this? thank you
JosephApril 15, 2022
As you so eloquently stated, " our mortal landscape is littered with gems". We seem to pass them by focusing on the dross, when our treasures are left aside forgotten or unnoticed when they are accessible and for the taking.
Beth TeeplesApril 15, 2022
I accept! Thank you so much.
MaryannApril 15, 2022
In some instances, maybe it would be helpful for this couple to speak privately together before disciplining. This wouldn't be possible all the time, but if they could come to an agreement BEFORE disciplining, they could show a united front. They might even say to their children, "Your mom (or dad) and I need to talk about this." This allows time to cool off and shows unity. Carefully Avoid words that make the other parent the "bad guy" or one to be feared.
Marion PomeroyApril 15, 2022
I once heard a recording of a talk by President Kimball's doctor who had accompanied the prophet in a later visit to the Holy Land. When the party was standing outside the Gatden Tomb a photgrapher wanted to take a picture of President Kimball alone in that setting. As the others in the group were moving away from the prophet, and noticing the unevenness of the ground, Arthur Haycock, President Kimball's secretary said, "Be careful, President!" The prophet replied, "It's OK, Arthur. I'm used to walking on holy ground."
KBApril 14, 2022
Oh, my goodness. I’ve been in this man’s shoes and nearly threw away my marriage over a work infatuation. It was a huge eye-opener to me about my coping mechanisms, weaknesses, and faults. My husband and I were working odd shifts and rarely saw each other. He was in law enforcement and was often tired and worn out when had a moment together. I was in an auxiliary presidency and the responsibilities were taxing and often deprived my husband of my attention. I allowed boredom and loneliness to invade my marriage when a man paid me intense interest at work. At first it was just familiarity; then it became flirtation and fixation. I resented my husband and his minor faults and relished the compliments and attraction from a man I had nothing in common with and who would not have crossed my mind or my heart in any other circumstance.
I finally realized it had to stop and asked for help from my bishop and my husband. We began working on improving the trust in our relationship and I began to actively avoid any and all situations where temptation was present. I left my job. I recommitted not just my heart but also my mind to my husband and shut down my tendency to fantasize about anyone else, ever. My husband got a different job, somewhat miraculously, that allowed us much more time together. Out of the ashes we have built a much more positive, loving, trusting relationship. And that began when I asked God to help me want to repent and to recognize my inherent weaknesses, then got to work on changing my mental and emotional habits.
Also, I understand depression and anxiety - deeply. Your wife needs more help with her mental health than she is getting, and she won’t be able to be there for you until she is healthier. Make her health a priority and actively pursue it.
Amy FoxApril 14, 2022
I was deeply moved by your article. We have children who suffer from mental illness, including bipolar. It's a vicious disease and I'm so thankful that you have honored your daughter and helped bring meaning to her life. Thank you for sharing that there can be beauty, even in darkness.
Judy PetersonApril 14, 2022
This is so exciting! I’m grateful that good people of the world are sharing and appreciating the light that our Father has given to all nations according to His wisdom!
BonnieApril 14, 2022
I enjoyed the analogy! Wonderfully written and a message to remember! Thank you!
Carlos RoundyApril 14, 2022
The perfect model of Heavenly Mother is Mother Eve, the mother of all living. Joseph Smith always referred to Eve as glorious Eve. He saw Adam and Eve in vision. He said Adam was a perfect man and Eve was a glorious woman.
HelenCApril 14, 2022
A powerful parable! Thank you.
Robert HalesApril 13, 2022
Thanks for the transcript. This message helped to confirm and reinforce my recent thoughts on the atonement.
maryApril 13, 2022
Our Lord and Savior taught with simplicity using parables to reach everyone. But I am always so impressed by the vocabulary and command of language when I read the words of those who have come before us....what a beautiful way to defend our disciples and hopefully we will defend them too. I thank you for your inspiring message.
Kathie CudeApril 13, 2022
Thank you for sharing! I needed this today and this is such an important message for us all to keep in the back of our minds.
Boanerge RubalcavaApril 13, 2022
I do not want to write of the electrical cars, that for sure will be good for all of us, as well as many other things, but believe me we can go to those things with the help of the fossil fuels, and we will NEVER accomplish anything in that sense if we insist in the idiocy of blaming the CO2 (fossil fuels) and banning their use. Please, stop for a moment, read, think, ponder and act accordingly without IGNORANCE AND WITHOUT FEAR.
Blame if you want of being a little bit malicious if I tell you: if you want to stop the global warming, just TURN THE SUN OFF.
ADDENDUM
What follows are examples to show the absurdity of putting the blame in the CO2
For 128 years the temperatures in different cities of the world have been measured; these are the data for three od those cities: New York, Albany and West Point.
In New York in those 128 years the temperature increased in 5 degrees Fahrenheit
In Albany NY, the temperature decreased in 0.5 degrees Fahrenheit
In West Point the temperature DID NOT change.
Albany is 140 miles from New York, West Point is in the middle.
If it is a global warming, and the CO2 is in the atmosphere equally distributed, how come New York increased its warming, Albany decreased it and West Point did not change?
A football court is made of 100 yards. Think about the gases’ concentrations in the atmosphere (the football court). With just the Nitrogen and Oxygen we would reach the 99 yard, leaving the last yard mainly for Argon (O.8 yard) and the rest of the gases among them CO2, only in the painted line. Actually, the CO2 would be just 3/8 of an inch, and its increase in more than 60 years, 1/8 of an inch.
Roberta HarrisApril 13, 2022
Another beautifully written article by Becky. Yes... those small things done can be like small stones flung into a pond that results in ever enlarging rings of water going on and on. That is how good is spread.
Thank you Becky.
RoZann BakerApril 13, 2022
Thanks for these beautiful insights! I enjoy all your articles but don't let you know how much I appreciate them and learn from them. Happy Easter Brother Peterson!
LewisApril 13, 2022
In many ways, your thoughtful and beautiful articles are small things that have created tremendous ripples in the lives of others. I am grateful that you take the time to share your experiences and insights with us. Bless you for the good you do.
PaulineApril 12, 2022
I agree. I copy it for highlighting. Love your insights and Bruce Hafen is a favorite of mine!
Margaret DomanApril 12, 2022
Becky, your article inspired me to re-read a similar sentiment that my beloved father had posted on his closet door: KINDNESS. … I shall pass through this world but once. If, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do, let me do it now. Let me not defer it or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.
Love and admiration from your Rotary friend and Rising Star Outreach volunteer.
Gloria PopeApril 12, 2022
Becky, beautiful article. Thanks for reminding us of the "ripple effect". Bless you!
Marcia MorganApril 12, 2022
Nice article. Also, Tauyna is great and I love hearing her testimony alongside yours.
Doug GouldApril 12, 2022
Thanks, Robert, for this insightful article. I was one of your aficionados that bought your "Nothing Down" book, and admired you in more than one of your seminars. Though I'm sorry for what you went through when you lost your Sundance home, it's good to know how well you recovered as you worked through that tragedy with your hand in the Lord's.
Haze KompelienApril 12, 2022
I join with many others, thank you for the transcript returning.
StefanieApril 12, 2022
Thank you so much for listening to your readers and putting the written transcript back!!! It’s WONDERFUL!!!
GrannyApril 12, 2022
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and Bro. Hafen's thoughts. And THANK YOU ffor the transcript. Your column is one of my favorites--so insight filled-- and I've mourned not being able to read it.
HelenCApril 12, 2022
Your indictment of modern exposure to death is well justified. As I study the grieving process I realize its impact on modern mental health.
One question. Are you referring to “pseudo-Clement” or Barnabas as the elusive witness?
Enlightened one.April 12, 2022
I really wish LDS people would stop using the word "Easter" which is a version of "Oestre" the pagan goddess of fertility. Easter is pagan! Bunnies and eggs are part of the pagan celebrations used for centuries. Time to call it what it is...Resurrection Day!
Barbara MattatallApril 12, 2022
Thank you. It is so much more meaningful when I can read it and ponder the contents.
Barbara FApril 11, 2022
How beautiful and inspiring.
JeanApril 11, 2022
I so totally enjoy any article written by Becky Douglas. I was about to close without writing anything but then felt I could do "that small thing." Thank you for your articles!
HalApril 11, 2022
Thank you for this insightful article. I have never given a second thought as to how my donations to the Church were spent. If anything, I have occasionally felt the Church was overly-generous. I have sometimes been guilty of un-Christ-like judgement of those who received Church assistance. Especially (in some cases) where the recipients appeared not only ungrateful, but even critical of the assistance they had received. I am grateful for Church leaders' financial wisdom in receiving and dispensing sacred funds.
Linda JaffaApril 11, 2022
I have loved listening to your podcast so much. They are inspiring and enlightening. I just went to your website and am shocked that I can't print out some quotes to use as I am teaching my class! I am really disappointed....
Joni HiltonApril 11, 2022
I absolutely love this article-- the far-reaching effects of that one idea to play the violin! Becky, you are such an example to all-- you have been through great trials but have turned your life into an instrument of good (no pun intended).
Beth CampbellApril 11, 2022
Out of Small Things
Meagan AndersonApril 11, 2022
Meagan, I know how much you love the painting hung over your fireplace and it's message. I thought of all the sweet things you do to make a difference in the lives of your kids, husband, neighbors, friends, both old and new, students and ward members and me. I know you will love this article. Mom
Patricia WintersApril 11, 2022
This article was so beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
Helen HederApril 10, 2022
Why can' I see the printed parts of the podcast?
DenApril 10, 2022
I believe that those on the other side of the veil watch over and comfort us. I had a dream of my mother and aunt (sisters) many years ago. We we're in my aunts living room and it was so real I actually asked them if I had died and were we in heaven. I still remember the feelings of love that washed over me. It was a hard time and their love and support really comforted me.
JocieApril 10, 2022
Advice about not running around and gossiping is EXCELLENT, but wondering why on earth you didn't recommend him to tell his friend's wife? Seems pretty brutal to me to leave her in the dark.
YvonneApril 10, 2022
This movie idea is such a fun missionary tool! I would love to get information on how to get started with this.
Anete JohnsApril 9, 2022
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!
Enjoyed READING your great message. Always appreciate your testimonies.
AdamApril 9, 2022
Agree with the above. Wonderful podcasts, but please bring back the transcripts! They really help to go back and focus more on segments that catch your attention while listening. Thanks for considering.
KathleenApril 9, 2022
Indeed He IS great! Thank you for sharing that testimony through song.
Robert HalesApril 8, 2022
I use both. Only audio or only the transcript usually ends up with a nap. I listen to the audio and there is enough activity reading the transcript to stay awake.
Even with my hearing aid, I miss words but catch them in the transcript.
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2022
Thank you, thank you. I’m going through my storage now. Even dry tomato powder is in bulging cans. Who knew???!!!
Patricia WintersApril 8, 2022
That was lovely! Thank you!
Patricia WintersApril 8, 2022
Thank you a hundred times for printing the transcript! I never would have been able to sit and listen to the podcast! I gained so much from reading it!
Pat ThomasApril 8, 2022
It’s difficult to stop and write notes on the audio presentation and then start the audio again. The written transcript makes it easier to ponder without losing my place. Please provide the written transcript. You bring in wonderful people with so much to share.
Melinda TalleyApril 8, 2022
I feel that among all His miracles, this may well be the most significant. In my moments of fearing I or those I love may never overcome our weaknesses, knowing that the Savior has the power to change our very natures drives that fear away.
Corey D.April 5, 2022
On one hand a very good and insightful article but a few things that were said left me wondering if it was also a subtle political message ?
Heather SmurthwaiteApril 5, 2022
Maureen, this was so well written! I'm an avid reader of your articles -- impressed not only by the beautiful quality of your writing, but even more by the depth of understanding and insight that they offer. Thank you.
MaryannApril 5, 2022
While it is interesting to consider what our Savior may have looked like on earth, or what he looks like today, the most important factor to me is that he was literally and physically Heavenly Father's Son. Because of this, we really don't know what he looked like. I take comments that he was not attractive with a grain of salt. Beliefs about what is or is not beautiful are subjective, and opinions on beauty change drastically throughout different periods of history and cultures. I appreciate Mariah's comments that she is not trying to convince us of anything, simply giving us some things to think about. I absolutely believe that when we see the Savior we will see that he looks very much like his Father. He will be gloriously beautiful in every sense of the word.
RaLee HallApril 5, 2022
Thank you for this article. After I read it I said, "Wow! This so pertains to our day.
WallyApril 5, 2022
Very wise! Thank you, Jeff.
Toni VanWormerApril 5, 2022
This article is an immediate answer to to my prayers this day. Thank you!
Marilyn MeinzerApril 5, 2022
I love to READ your podcasts each week and often copy parts of the transcripts to save and refer back to - can't do that with audio!! Without transcripts I don't have time to listen to the audio!!
Brent A OlsenApril 5, 2022
Excellent article! Puts a different meaning on the word FEAR! Enjoyed this very much. Thank you!
Robert RieckhoffApril 5, 2022
I must admit that I do appreciate the text copy of the podcast. I can read faster and also take notes and lt allow me to ponder the point longer.
KathleenApril 4, 2022
We too like having the transcripts but have very much enjoyed the recent discussions with guests. Thank you for sharing by both formats and expanding resources.
Gary LawrenceApril 4, 2022
A very good selection of insights and advice from our leaders relating to today's dynamics. When hearing or reading an address, we should remember not only what was said but also analyze why it was said. Yes, difficult times will continue, but magnificent times also await us. Thanks for your good work, Maurine.
Janice GoimaracApril 4, 2022
When we lived in a ward with high turnover, we learned to say "I haven't met you yet," instead of, "Are you new?" That way, one avoids the awkwardness of asking a person who has been in the ward for two years, "Are you new?"
Jeanette WithersApril 4, 2022
My husband was on a co-ed soccer team one year. A woman was accidently kicked by one of the men on the opposing team. I was on the other side of the field and heard her leg bone break that far away. It was a terrible incident for both teams to deal with.
JanetApril 4, 2022
Thank you. My current goal is to cherish the gift of repentance and change something every day. Your article provided some clear understanding and motivation. I really appreciate your insights.
Colleen McDonaldApril 4, 2022
I am hearing impaired and therefore I read much better than I hear! Please go back to giving us a transcript that I can read! I would appreciate that so much!!
HalApril 4, 2022
Thank you for this article. I, too, am perplexed at detractors who defame the Prophet and yet cannot explain how a largely uneducated farm boy could produce such marvelous revelations that are consistent in their narrative and doctrine. They claim Joseph Smith to be merely a man, and so he is. However, his detractors fail to recognize that they and their sources are merely men as well, and far less inspired.
Julie Coulter BellonApril 4, 2022
Thank you so much for your comments everyone! You are so sweet. It's wonderful to meet more book people to chat with! You are my kind of people. *waves*
MimmieApril 4, 2022
I couldn’t agree more with the above comments. I feel the exact same way and would again request that you would reconsider posting a transcript of your Podcasts.
Kathleen KimballApril 3, 2022
Very astute and timely comments and suggestions. Thank you!
Howard HillApril 3, 2022
There are accounts written by Pontius Pilate and others who describe Him as having golden hair and blue eyes. The descriptions can be easily found using an inter net search.
DBNormanApril 3, 2022
Just as Bob Martin related, we indeed need to keep in mind that Jesus said, if you have seen me you have seen the Father. Jesus’s father was not Joseph, so Jesus would have some characteristics inherited from Mary, but equally from God the father, So unless God the father was Jewish, Jesus would indeed be unique among other men of his time, and maybe even have red hair.
DBNApril 3, 2022
Just as Bob Martin related, we indeed need to keep in mind that Jesus said, if you have seen me you have seen the Father. Jesus’s father was not Joseph, so Jesus would have some characteristics inherited from Mary, but equally from God the father, So unless God the father was Jewish, Jesus would indeed be unique among other men of his time, and maybe even have red hair.
LoraApril 3, 2022
I remember Jack Anderson, and I lived on the East Coast. Thanks for this fascinating account of history.
Lisa J NemrowApril 3, 2022
I don't even bother to listen to the podcast since you don't put it in text. I enjoy reading it and contemplating it. The recording goes by too fast and find it difficult to go back to a part that I wanted to make sure I understood it correctly as well as to think more about it. Could you PLEASE go back to printing it out? I love the things you have to share and have learned so much from you.
Carol NApril 2, 2022
The painting of Jesus that speaks to me, is "Prince of Peace" by, Akiane. https://akiane.com/product/prince-of-peace/
The first time I saw it, I felt like he was looking into my soul... and it feels that way every time.
ShaliApril 2, 2022
I appreciate the way this advice was given, caring and without judgment. I chose to step away from a situation exactly like this, not because I didn't love him but because I couldn't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone who thought it was ok to not share something so important. I hope whatever decision you make, it will turn out to be the best one for you.
Douglas E NadybalApril 2, 2022
As bad as the "boyfriend" lying is, he is also an adulterer. Assuming the relationship did not devolve into illicit acts, the only eternal consequence in this situation is the state of this mans soul should this behavior go un-repented, he will eventually suffer the judgment outlined in the bible. If this reality is not enough to prompt the victim into dealing with reality, going back to him would then become a willful transgression. He is an adulterer. She should know that the pain in going back into this would be far worse than the first because she could no longer claim ignorance.
DougieApril 1, 2022
Third one of these in a row with no transcript. This podcast is 46 minutes long! Who has that kind of time? I can read the transcript in 10 minutes. What the heck?
Pam PurnellApril 1, 2022
The Historian Josephus gives an account of what the Savior looked like. I am surprised that you did not reference his account.
AnnaApril 1, 2022
Jesus dressed and was groomed like a Roman of the day. Everyone in the Roman empire adopted the Roman look, from the English Isles to Africa, meaning short hair, roman toga and the sandals, along with that roman robe without seam( meaning a circular robe) the roman soldiers at the crucifixion scene were gambling over. These circular robes could hide a dagger, like the one Peter suddenly pulled out to cut off an ear. There have been 1st century christian churches unearthed in northern Africa whose frescoes consistently depict Jesus as a dark haired baby faced very fair skinned man who is slight and somewhat short statured. If this depiction is ball park accurate it would an an HORRIFIC dimension to the pains he endured in Gethsemane and the cross, and could explain why he couldn't carry the cross and had to be nailed to it in the wrist as well as the hand for fear the hand would tear through.
KA MillerApril 1, 2022
His wife deserves to know how deeply her husband has disrespected her so she has all the information she needs to know regarding how to proceed in her life. No one deserves to have a lie of this magnitude withheld from them.
Paul HApril 1, 2022
Pardon another comment, but Jesus wouldn't look like a 1st Century Jewish Peasant. His father was not Joseph. Trying to convince others that he should look like Jewish peasants is false doctrine---He was the "only begotten of the Father" and looked so much like him that He stated that whoever had seen him had seen the Father also. It was like Seth and Adam. I've known fathers and sons that looked identical except for their age difference. Art is speculative at best and in this case, likely far from being accurate. Every painting has Him with bare feet or sandals, too, and clothing wrapped around Him like a bed sheet. They had shoes back in Old Testament times and John the Baptists talks about loosing the latchet of the shoes on His feet.
AnnApril 1, 2022
She has been put in a difficult position and surely has many conflicting emotions. The counsel to let the head prevail is wise. She should get as far away from him as possible and cut off all contact. I found myself in a similar situation many years ago when I was single, although not nearly as much time had elapsed. Nothing good can come of continuing in a relationship based on dishonesty. Following Gospel principles will always keep us safe.
Duane BoyceApril 1, 2022
An outstanding interview and a thoughtful and thorough statement. By comparison, various other statements, news reports, and published opinions appear incomplete and shallow. A very valuable contrast.
HalApril 1, 2022
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this interview / article. The media has not been very forthcoming in providing all views concerning this issue and have fueled even more rancor and malevolence by not reporting the full story. Thank you to Rep. Birkeland for her dedication to doing what is right and thanks to the author for conducting the interview in a skillful way that covers every issue.
RobynApril 1, 2022
I couldn't reply better than Barry Hansen who already expressed my thoughts so well. Thanks to all AND Meridian for publishing this.
Mary-Rose McMullinApril 1, 2022
My heart goes out to Rep. Birkeland and her family. Thank you for setting such an example of standing for truth despite persecution. Thank you!
Mariah (author)April 1, 2022
@Marlund, that is a good point about them being transplants in Nazareth. As far as I know though, Mary was born in Nazareth and they returned to Bethlehem because Joseph's family was from there, not necessarily Mary's. (I might be mistaken on that). The two places are only 19 miles apart so it's interesting to wonder how much contrast or distinction that would create in the development of physical characteristics.
MicheleApril 1, 2022
Thank you Geoff for your comments to this writer. Events softening my heart and leading up to my baptism years ago were similar. Although I knew he was separated, I equated separation with available. I didn't have the gospel standards yet. I found out he'd gone back to her while still having me in his life. It's been validating to read this; but mostly I want to echo your advice and pray this person is able to access it and follow the Spirit. It's a painful experience no matter what she chooses, but the Spirit will never lead us astray.
Haze KompelienApril 1, 2022
What percentage of your audience are upset at the lack of transcripts?
I fear you are loosing a bunch of us/
I am very sad and really do miss your insights.
No, I won't listen to the podcasts instead, as I am NOT an auditory learner.
RozyApril 1, 2022
Of course Jesus would look different after resurrection with a perfected body!
Except for being way too old, I like the look and manner of the Jesus in The Chosen. We do tend to forget that He was a young man, much like we forget that Joseph Smith was also a very young man.
Paul HApril 1, 2022
Brother Coltrin's comments indicate if he "looked like His Father" as the New Testament says, he would have blue eyes. Only one artist has ever depicted Him thusly and it was in a painting in a Church magazine. Based upon that, the popular paintings of Him used throughout the Church are less than accurate, not to mention all those used by others with halo's etc surrounding His person.
If you really want to know get the information from the Prophets and Apostles who have seen Him; no one ever seems to want to check with them. They are "eyewitnesses of His majesty."
The last point, is that it doesn't really matter exactly what He looks like for us to embrace His gospel and follow His commandments.
Paul HemingwayApril 1, 2022
I was in Promised Valley with him. I was picked to sing the short "This is the Place" solo. Right after the show was over, Pat Davis picked me to play Rolph in The Sound of Music. Broadway. Then I have been in over a dozen musicals across the country.
Yesterday at my credit union. I met a girl who Robert & his wife babysat. He gave her singing lessons as a small girl. She since gas been in many musicals on and off broadway. I wish I had gotten the girls name.
Ted CrowtherApril 1, 2022
I think the reason Joseph Smith described Jesus as with fiery eyes and white hair is: Have you ever taken a picture of a face with the sun shining into the camera. the whole picture is changed like a white out. Everything is so bright that the face has white hair and fiery eyes. You can not tell the color of His eyes and his hair is white as the light is so blinding. The Savior always appears in brightness like that.
Marlund HaleApril 1, 2022
To me it seems odd that we would compare Jesus to a Galilean when Joseph and Mary had to return to Bethlehem in Judea (area of their birth and ancestry?) to pay their Roman taxes and where Jesus was born. He would certainly have been influenced by speech and mannerisms in the area he grew up in, but his physical appearance would seen to have been determined more by his parentage, including being the son of a celestial father.
Claudia Henderson SmithApril 1, 2022
Mariah, I loved your article. I had read that Jesus wasn't "comely," but I think the sheherd/actor in your Dad's picture is! So, I hope Jesus does look like him. Of course, not everyone is beautiful on the outside. It's what's on the inside that counts, right?
DBNApril 1, 2022
I was told a story about Elder Spencer W Kimball staying with a family as he was assigned to conduct a stake conference. While in that home a young girl with red hair climbed up on his lap. She asked him "Have you seen Jesus?" He answered "Yes I have." She asked "What does he look like?" He answered, "He has hair a lot like yours."
This of course was shared many times before it was told to me. Perhaps someone who reads this knows first hand. I have four children with red hair and like to think of Jesus with reddish hair but I suppose it goes against what this article implicates. Perhaps Elder Kimball was referring to her curls and not the color. Were their any people of that time and place that had reddish hair?
Ann PriceApril 1, 2022
These are the same people who save turtle eggs, beached whales, elephants, homeless pets, stately trees. Where is the heart when it comes to a human life? Why is there not an ammendment to take the live baby to a hospital for nourishment and offered up for adoption?
Robert StarlingApril 1, 2022
As you say, we don't have to know what our Savior looked like physically in mortality to recognize him when he comes in glory. But the question does present a challenge for artists and filmmakers. I like the person cast as Jesus in "The Chosen", because he is probably the closest anyone has come to portraying him as he was then.
When I was doing research on the screenplay for the film "In Search of Historic Jesus", I studied the Shroud of Turin, which many believe shows the image of the face of Christ, singed into the surface fibers of the linen cloth that covered his body, by a brief flash of light or energy that may have accompanied the resurrection. That process is known as "flash photolysis". According to forensic scientists, the image on the shroud portrays the face of a Sephardic Jew who was about 5'11", weighing about 175 lbs. There are marks on the face consistent with being beaten and wearing a crown of thorns. Some of the specific marks are included in artistic representations going back to the 6th century AD as seen in many Byzantine paintings.
This may be faith-affirming to some, if the singeing effect that put the image on the cloth was indeed caused by some sort of burst of light or energy, since that sort of thing does not normally happen to a dead body.
Boanerges RubalcavaApril 1, 2022
I believe that the Jesus or any other person saw in these latter days, is different than the one when he was on earth in Palestine, since the former was a resurrected being.
Bob MartinApril 1, 2022
I am now 77 years old and I distinctly remember being called into my 3 year old's bedroom, Daddy,she said solemnly, Jesus came to see me last night and He sat on my bed and talked to me.Thinking that she had a dream I said. Emily, that is wonderful. What did Jesus look like?
I expected a description not unlike those in Primary but she astounded me with her reply.
Daddy, He looks like His Father.
I was lost for words.
Out of the mouths of babes.
Barry HansenApril 1, 2022
Thank you to the author for providing the details and background behind this legislation. And thank you to Rep. Birkeland for her careful, thoughtful research and courageous efforts over two years to stand up for Utah’s girls while still respecting the rights of transgender athletes to be involved in activities in a way that doesn’t harm girls.
MaryannMarch 31, 2022
When you stated that "the new barbarians currently control the executive branch of government," you said it all. Trampling on legal immigration laws that help to protect American citizens from deadly drugs coming across the border (as well as convicted barbaric felons), supporting millions of brutal abortions, encouraging and normalizing the mutilation of our bodies and erasing natural gender, blurring and confusing the roles of fathers and mothers, husbands and wives--These are just a few of the "barbaric" practices of our day, many of which are supported and promoted by some government officials. But the most barbaric evil of all is the brainwashing of our children--filling their minds with misinformation and enlisting them in "causes" that they are not ready to shoulder. Instead of letting them be children, we heap burdens upon their backs to promote our own personal, politically correct or philosophical agendas. Hitler did this with the young in Germany. Evidently, we haven't learned our lesson.
MaryannMarch 31, 2022
If we want to focus a spotlight on the corruption in government, there is so much of it going on in the here and now. We can't do anything about what Nixon and his cohorts did 50 years ago, but we can speak out about the corruption in our government officials today, and choose candidates, and uphold laws, that will help to cleanse our nation of these current evils. I am much more concerned about the laws and political party that support millions of abortions in our nation, and also President Biden's and Hillary Clinton's evil actions TODAY, than I am about what Nixon did 50 years ago.
MaryannMarch 31, 2022
I really love your suggestions of using humor and taking the opportunity to laugh and reach out with fun conversation. Joni, you are not on a "pretend mission." It is very real, and I appreciate you sharing it so that we can use your examples to inspire us to do likewise.
Jo Ann OkelberryMarch 31, 2022
I love "godly becomings." Thank you for this lively and encouraging article.
Janie BrayMarch 31, 2022
So agree with what you have said. I had a talk with a friend the other day about not serving a mission. We talked about how we were serving missions as visiting teachers (sorry I’m still old school) , in our ward callings, helping the missionaries when we could (not just in their dinners) , and when we see opportunities to help someone (families, friends and others).
CarolMarch 31, 2022
I love your use of humor to break the ice with people - most people love laugh and feel more connected instantly. I have been on the secret mission of greeting strangers. I've been serving in a YSA ward for almost 3 years and am now back in my home ward so most everyone looks like a new person to me so I get to introduce myself a lot!
Rochelle HaleMarch 31, 2022
Though I teach Gospel Doctrine, it is often difficult for me to engage in one-on-one conversations. A few years ago, however, I had one of the best missionary moments because I listened to the little angel on my shoulder reminding me that I promised to greet new people. My new friends turned out to be a raised-in-the-church-as-a child-only sister and her non-member husband. Soon they were both active and he was baptized, and within a year they brought other relatives into the gospel. We also help a handicapped sister who lives down the street. "Oh, no, please don't assign her to me just because she's my neighbor," were my first anxious thoughts, but she has become a dear friend and a delight to serve.
Dave HansenMarch 31, 2022
Thanx for sharing such a good idea.......I REALLY like that kind of thinking, Joni!!! :-)
Erik HansenMarch 30, 2022
I'm so glad the Spirit led him to the truth and gave him fervor enough to push forward against the power hungry in our government. The Lord hedged up the way for his enemies. I'm glad for his family. So many scriptures reflect the sincerity of The Lord to protect his people from death by their enemies. I'm sure these things happen today, and I'm not surprised there is such corruption in the US government though I'm saddened. The Lord continues in helping good people overcome their awful circumstances and protect them from death by their enemies, until they have finished their work - although we may not have awful things removed entirely. (What will happen to the people of the USA if we don't pull down the super-rich, proud and power hungry?)
vickieMarch 28, 2022
wow, i never knew that president nixon was involved in so many bad things. i lauded him later for coming back and helping out with china. he didnt give up. i had no idea that he was that scheming.
James RawsonMarch 27, 2022
Never thought I’d see the day that the Lord’s university would require such an office! I don’t know whether I should shout for joy, weep or be angry at such a need already found in state run schools! Sign of the times!
James RawsonMarch 27, 2022
Touched my heart deeply! Thank you!
thou tranMarch 27, 2022
hi have authentic piece 1ichby 1.5ich gold plate I believer from king Daris. is it worth anything?
TMMarch 27, 2022
It sounds cliche, but it is possible that the pattern of infatuations that has plagued his marriage speaks to a deeper pattern of coping formed when young because of not getting the quality and quantity of love he needed from his own mother. Was his mother emotionally distant? Was she known as a mean mom? Did he get punished a lot? Was there any abuse? Did she have her own mental health issues she struggled with? One way to assess this could be to see when the pattern of infatuations started. My hunch is it began well before he was married.
Rae GreenstreetMarch 26, 2022
To Arthur Cornett, to "fold" the whipped eggs "until fluffy" means to stir or mix them into the batter slowly or gently.
KathleenMarch 26, 2022
Heart warming. You'll have the rest of your lives to remember this and build upon the experience. May the Lord bless and keep you.
T. DorenboschMarch 26, 2022
For those who wonder why there is no transcript, this is what Scot answered me:
Dear Thijs,
First of all: Thanks for the service you've been doing for that group of Dutch members. We've done some interviews without pre-written scripts to accommodate our upcoming travel schedule of leading tours in the Middle East and Europe. We're going to try to use some Ai programs (starting tomorrow) to see if we can get a reasonable script from the audio.
If we can do it, we will publish it as soon as possible.
Blessings,
Scot.
tfMarch 25, 2022
From what this man has written, i don't think he is actually temple worthy. But it sounds like this type of thing has happened several times in his life. I wish a talk by Carlfred Broderick entitled "It came out of the Blue, Like a Scheduled Airline" that was available on tape, could be re-issued on CD. It could help in this type of situation.
SarahMarch 25, 2022
You hired her/she got a job with you less than a year ago. Because of covid you don't work in an office, but at home but you can travel with her? Correct?
You talk on the phone a lot when you aren't travelling, and each night and on weekends your wife hides in her room... Are you in seperated rooms?
All your married life you have been infatuated with someone... But not your wife.
You travel a lot, so are hardly there and when you are, your wife is hiding!?
Your wife is depressed because of the above, which started when you put a ring on it. If you love your wife, start kissing her!
Invite her out of the room.. To travel with you, if she can a few times a month.
At 22yrs married your kids can maybe fend for themselves a few nights.
If your wife works, then do things on the weekends with her.
Stop this hiding cycle, by helping her trust you and your thoughts.
Change your behaviour, and then help her change to trust and love you.
If you are not bothered, then let her go, so she can get well and thrive.
This is not a way to exist.
Travus AllenMarch 25, 2022
I enjoy all of your articles. I read them all. I really really enjoyed this one. Very good insight and counsel. Thanks again.
BKMarch 25, 2022
Hopefully a transcript WILL be available for future podcasts. I count on them!
LoraMarch 23, 2022
Did something happen to the person who transcribes your podcasts? I hope that you will be able to get another transcriber soon. I miss the written transcripts!
Arthur CornettMarch 23, 2022
Excuse my ignorance, I don’t mean to “fritter” away anyone’s time. In step 4 of the 2nd recipe, what does it mean to “fold” the egg whites into the batter?
Annette BellMarch 23, 2022
Thank you for this article. I am a Master Gardener assigned to volunteer at the Pioneer Herb Garden here at our learning garden in Beaverton, Oregon. I have been studying pioneer ways of growing, obtaining and fixing food. It's great to have this insight into Emma's role in this huge undertaking.
Janice HiestandMarch 23, 2022
I can' t underline, write comments, scribble thoughts in the margins of a podcast. Is there a reason for this, if so why?
Sherry EthridgeMarch 23, 2022
The oats are not listed in the instructions. Are they added with the vanilla?
SusanMarch 23, 2022
I, too, like to read the transcript. I listen to the podcast, then read the words. Please put the written word back to be enjoyed.
Dave MorganMarch 23, 2022
Helaman 8:18 fits in nicely to your article, any thoughts on that.
LindaMarch 23, 2022
Where is the transcript for this week?
Steve LombardMarch 23, 2022
Every week my wife and I read the transcript to help us understand the lesson and it helps very much. Why no transcript this time? Has this site been hacked?
AllanMarch 23, 2022
Thank you for sharing these stories. Truly inspiring. Just what I needed to hear today.
KathleenMarch 23, 2022
Such truth in these words and beautiful music.
MaureenMarch 22, 2022
Yes, please bring back the transcript, for those of us who learn visually (the vast majority, BTW).
AlexMarch 22, 2022
Please add transcript. Thank you.
JoyceMarch 22, 2022
good article, but what about divorced parents? how does a mother help her child learn about love between a mother and father if it doesn't exist?
LibertyMarch 22, 2022
Beautifully written
Jayne JohnsonMarch 22, 2022
Thank You Kathy. As I read your article, I was impressed with the thought that a person doesn't need to travel far away to do what you did on your assignments with your husband. We each can receive that inspiration right where we are. Thank you for the reminder that we are the Lord's hands and voice. God bless you!
Patricia WintersMarch 22, 2022
In my noisy home, I seldom can find a quiet time to listen to podcasts. If I can read the transcripts, I can understand and feel the message being sent. Please make transcripts available for all your podcasts.
Charmaine McKaskleMarch 22, 2022
I prefer to read the podcast. I hope you will make it available again.
Kimberlee RottweilerMarch 22, 2022
I’d rather read the transcript than listen as well
B. DolbergMarch 22, 2022
Yes, PLEASE add the transcript. We read them together every week and discuss them as we go along.
vickieMarch 22, 2022
my son went to west point and grad in 1995. he later worked there and i went to baby sit my grandkids. what a wonderful place. so historic. i loved west point. i took my gkids to church and there wasnt a dedicated chapel then. i am so glad that there is one now and its a long time coming. praise the Lord and Amen...
Marilynne LinfordMarch 21, 2022
I wrote a book on the Pearl of Great Price that I have not punished. I send it in manuscript form to anyone who asks. If you feel comfortable, send me your email address through columnists on the Meridian cite.
T. DorenboschMarch 20, 2022
I miss the transcript of this lesson. Every week I translate the transcript for friends here in Holland who do not speak English to understand. Please help!!
Cristy NewcombMarch 20, 2022
I'd rather read then listen. Why can’t I get to written word like every other week?
Deborah BatesMarch 20, 2022
We have Ukrainian friends and some of them have parents still in Kyiv. We have been to Ukraine and spent a week in Kyiv. . We are heartsick about what is happening.
Corey D.March 20, 2022
When the George A Whalen Veterans Home was first opened I was called to be the branch president, I tried to be more than just their church leader, I also wanted the residents/veterans to know I was their friend. I would try to visit at least once a week other than Sunday with one of my counselors and I would go often by myself to visit and sometimes with my wife, heard lots of interesting stories, not just about war but also about life, many times inspirational, sometimes humorous. One of those inspirational stories shared with me was Brother Jay Bachman a retired Air Force Colonel, wonderful, humble, spiritual man, who I got the impression from had not always been active in the church. He was serving in Vietnam when Elder Spencer W. Kimball came to visit and I think this may have been when Brother Bachman may not have been fully active in the church. Anyway and I don't remember all the details ( my one regret about my service at the Veteran's Home is not keeping a journal of stories and experiences), Brother Bachman said that after meeting with the LDS servicemen and what few members there were, Elder Kimball asked if there was some place they could go where there might be some privacy, they ended up on the rooftop of a building where Elder Kimball proceeded to dedicate the land of Vietnam to the preaching of the gospel. Brother Bachman said it was an amazing experience and he was honored to be asked to be there, if I remember what he told me there was just maybe 4 or 5 people there. If I remember correctly what I've read over the years I'm pretty sure Vietnam and the other southeastern Asian countries have been dedicated since then but the 1st time would have been during the Vietnam War by Elder Spencer W. Kimball.
Renn CrumpMarch 19, 2022
I would love to see your entire list of favorite topics in the Pearl of Great Price. I completely agree that the PofGP is not emphasized nearly enough in our gospel study. Thank you for this article.
Tanya NeiderMarch 19, 2022
Abby Christensen, Thank you for the simple outline and printable sheets!
KathleenMarch 18, 2022
BOTH!
CarolMarch 18, 2022
For some of the older readers. I have been giving my granddaughters a "Heritages Box" containing a few of my special items from our home that I want to pass on to them now not after my death. I write a letter letting them know where the item came from, why it is important to me and a family group sheet showing where they fit in the line These have been so very special for me to prepare.
Robert StarlingMarch 18, 2022
Thanks for this article. I would love to read the rest of it. Will the ending be published?
I had never heard of the Ukrainian holocaust. Many tears and prayers for those brave and suffering people.
MaryannMarch 18, 2022
My husband served a mission to Ireland in the late 1960s when the conflicts and violence taking place there were extremely serious. When Londonderry was burning, he was assigned to get the missionaries out of the city. Preaching the gospel there was like walking uphill through mollassis. The people were warned by religious leaders to avoid the "Mormon Missionaries." It would have been easy to feel that very little progress was being made. However, when we visited the country many years later together, we witnessed the growth of the church there, and the wonderful changes that had taken place. One of the areas we visited had a new chapel and the people were thrilled. It was very humble--nothing like the buildings we have in the U.S., but they were so very grateful. It was a lesson to remember that where seeds of the gospel are sowed, growth takes place.
Peter CrosbyMarch 17, 2022
This is disgusting, how can this be allowed!
BarbaraMarch 15, 2022
I received my patriarchal blessing when I was 12. There was one paragraph that just did not make sense--until I was divorced and remarried.
Mary Ann KershisnikMarch 15, 2022
Thank you, Sister Linford! This article is beautiful and inspiring!!!!!
LewisMarch 15, 2022
I find your example of love and openness more than inspiring. I think of Victor Hugo's Les Miserables, where the pastor took Jean Valjean into his home, and showed incredible love and compassion even after the theft of his silver. Yes, there are risks with bringing people into your home. Yes, some people will take advantage of you. Yes, there will be experiences that will not be positive. But yes, yes and yes again, we are commanded to love, not judge. The Savior opened his arms to all, even those that reviled, abused and crucified him. We don't all have to bring strangers into our home. I don't think that is the point of your story. But I think the lesson you are teaching is that we all can do something to live the law of the fast as Isaiah has explained it so beautifully by reaching out to help our brothers and sisters here on the earth. I am so grateful for your gift of telling compelling stories that can bring us closer to Heavenly Father.
Myrna LiddellMarch 15, 2022
Thank you for this insightful glimpse. Thank you for your efforts and Thanks be to God for the other incredible volunteers both the named and un-named.
Sharen BerryMarch 15, 2022
My husband and I have been married 32 years. We are so much more now then we could have been if we stayed in our first marriages.
Becky L RoseMarch 15, 2022
My patriarchal blessing mentions before leaving I talked with my heavenly mother and she reminded me to come back and tell her how I gained my testimony.
Jim WinebrennerMarch 14, 2022
Thank you so much for an honest and thus naturally disgusted response to the abhorrent changes that are being pushed on so many of the states, and certainly the whole country at the federal level. I'm happy on every (albeit too rare) occasion that I find an article on one of the Church news Web sites that actually demonstrates clarity of mind.
Thank you!!
Linda MecklerMarch 14, 2022
No No No No No.
This baby after birth is a individual person.
KCMarch 14, 2022
If statistics hold true, at least 10% or more of those holding signs up offering a place to stay were human traffickers who prey upon refugees. I wish there were a way to keep tabs on those who accept the kindness of strangers. Some way to vouch for the host and track the guest. If someone could come up with a solution like that, it not only would be a deterrent for traffickers but help keep refugees on their toes, out of harms way, or provide an avenue of rescue from bad situations. Unfortunately the fog of war makes that difficult but if even one life were saved from that horror, it would be worth it. Maybe those who haven't found their niche in the humanitarian realm might be "watchers", angels on earth taking notes and checking in.
JuliannMarch 14, 2022
My husband and I took in a woman and her four children, who had been living in their Suburban, when my husband managed a Bishops Storehouse. We arranged missionary lessons, found her an apartment and the Stake members furnished the apartment, paid her utilities and found her employment. She lied, stole, was kicked out of the apartment and within a short time was back living in the Suburban. Her son beat up my daughter and the mother taught my 10 year old daughter to smoke. We learned to follow Gods plan for taking care of the poor and needy. Not venturing out on our own.
Over the years we did, through a government program, open our home to 10 youth addicts and unwed mothers. Those experiences were mostly positive.
You put forth a worthy principle, but it needs to be entered into with a great deal of prayer, preparation and caution.
SherriMarch 14, 2022
Wow, Becky! I’m truly amazed at all you have done in your lives to take in poor and weary travelers. Thank you for your article and challenge to invite others into our homes.
Dave HansenMarch 14, 2022
WOW! These folks are not just Saints......they are ANGELS!!! God bless them for their love of others in need.
MickeyMarch 12, 2022
Nothing is going to change here until the husband stops reacting to the ex wife and daughter’s manipulations. I don’t agree that something is better than nothing here. Their behavior is abusive and he doesn’t have an obligation to tolerate it. If dad stops reacting and allows daughter to fully experience mom’s behavior, perhaps something would change.
HelenCMarch 11, 2022
My husband and I have been married almost 28 years, now, and my ex-husband still believes her is the one who broke up the marriage. However, over time he and our children have accepted that we are happy together. Each of my children has come to me and expressed past frustration along with present acknowledgement that he is a good man and I am happy.
While it is easy to fall into the trap of needing validation for ourselves and our choices, the truth is we owe our happiness to no-one but ourselves. As the late psychologist Wayne Dyer put it, “Your opinion of me is none of my business”.
Martha ScottMarch 11, 2022
Appalling
tfMarch 11, 2022
Geoff: I'm surprised that you didn't mention that the ex-wife is obviously mentally ill. The troubles described seem to be a clear indication of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, if I am not mistaken.
ShawnyMarch 9, 2022
Thank you, Brother Peterson, for this wonderful article. Truly the closeness we feel to God here on earth is based on the reality of His ability to feel close to us. We feel His love and experience it personally in so many precious and sacred ways. We truly have a FATHER in Heaven, and we are truly bound in love to His Son.
Kay RookhuyzenMarch 9, 2022
This was just a lovely read that brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing!
Nerita PetersonMarch 9, 2022
Lovely story.... Eternal life is too good not to be true!
Carol AnnMarch 9, 2022
These wise words are more pertinent today than ever.
Karell BinghamMarch 9, 2022
It is the first time I have read your amazing and touching testimony! Thank you for your deep insights!
HelenCMarch 9, 2022
Two of my five children have preceded me Home. I render feeling (and still feel) that greeting the Savior will be wonderful, but being hugged by George, and now also by Larissa, will be Heavenly, indeed.
HelenCMarch 9, 2022
Spot on! And yet so many non-Latter Day Saint Christians insist on “solar scriptura”, claiming that the only truth we can abide by is in the written word presented to us in the Bible as it now stands. If they cannot accept God has feelings, how accurate can their philosophy be?
LoraMarch 9, 2022
When I was a teenager in the 1970's, "sex-change operation" meant that the lower half of the body was surgically altered to match the chosen sex. A person making the transition was required to undergo a year of therapy to prepare for the change. Now it appears that an individual only has to "identify" as the opposite sex, take some hormones, change the hair and clothing style, and we're all supposed to believe that now he is a woman and she is a man. And yet, if you ask the question as Matt Walsh recently did, "What is a woman?" none of the transactivists can answer. In our open-mindedness, women are losing their very definition.
The puberty blockers that they use on children are the same drugs used in chemical castration of sex offenders. Apparently, those drugs are "cruel and unusual punishment" for criminals, but perfectly acceptable for minors with a clear psychological problem. If "Full Disclosure" was practiced, trans individuals would be required to read the Trans Regret website to hear the stories of people who regret making the transition. Transition can render the person sterilized, with irreversible damage.
If men and women are so equal, why is it that we never hear about transmen trying to get into men's sports? A transwoman in boxing can nearly kill the biological female opponent. Transwomen swimmers and runners leave biological women way behind. When it comes to sports, people with XY chromosomes are just plain better, stronger, with more upper body strength and better hips and knees for forward propulsion.
While I have compassion for people who feel like strangers in their own bodies, I am concerned that they will find that the problem doesn't go away with transitioning to the opposite sex. For transwomen who want to occupy the women's locker room, I challenge them to really be "one of the girls" and have the male genitalia removed. Why is it that a man exposing himself in public is a crime, but if he identifies as a woman, it's acceptable in a women's locker room? Or in a women's prison? Is it acceptable for women to go to prison with biological men?
It's a good thing that I am retired, because these sentiments of mine would get me fired from my employment. None of this is good for women.
Sage GallagherMarch 9, 2022
Great article, Dan. Thank you. What a difference to our human hearts it makes to see God as a caring father! The choice of turning to an emotionless entity versus looking to a loving Father seems pretty clear.
Diane PetersonMarch 9, 2022
Beautiful! How grateful I am for our God of feelings, emotions, and love. Brother Peterson, your work is always brilliant and inspiring. Please continue to share your incredible insights!
Ed RehderMarch 8, 2022
Thank you for this article. I'm a 70 year old that barely missed being drafted into service for the Vietnam war. Something didn't seem right to us in those days but many of my friends had to go. Now to hear these details about that war as well as the others things start to make sense, and am not surprised somehow. Thank goodness for the Book of Mormon and it's warnings to us. Thanks again for your work on this.
JoeMarch 8, 2022
Thank you for your clear vision. There are many who will not agree with this. So many want to draw a line between Russia and Ukraine/US when the "sides", the line should be drawn, between people and government. The people of Russia are not our enemy except for the single feature, they have allowed their tyrannical government to exist and to continue. But are we not guilty of the same? Upon serious introspection of the genocide delivered at the hands of our own government a rational person must recognize this truth. The best thing we could do would be to focus on cleaning our own house. It is our greatest responsibility.
BevMarch 8, 2022
We are so devastated to see the Leaders f many countries being unable to see that Putin will never stop and the war is already declared war n all of us eventually!
SandraMarch 8, 2022
Thank you for the thought provoking and pertinent information.
Paula GermondMarch 8, 2022
I'm not sure how you characterize "mid-singles" but that status surely is a faith-building position and can be a sweet communion with our Lord. Thus we are loved and esteemed beyond measure BUT. due to the focus on the ideal family structure within the church, I think there is an unavoidable feeling of "otherness." When we enter the church family, no matter how much we are loved, if we are placed in the guest room instead of the heart of the home, will it ever feel like a main course Instead of left overs? I think perhaps it seems more like a side dish! My only solution is to become and remain as close to the Lord as possible on a personal level.- to love and serve those around you from your unique life. Not everyone is called to wear the mantle of singlehood so trust the Lord to have your best interest at heart while He is trusting you to carry that mantle for whatever His unseen purposes are can be pure dessert!. Blessings to each..
Linda AyreMarch 8, 2022
I am very grateful for this article which articulates and validates concerns that have been growing in me for decades. It is disheartening that so many people will not even question the narrative being blasted at us from every mainstream news source. Thank you, Brother Lindsay. I always appreciate your articles.
DougMarch 8, 2022
Thanks! Just found this. It should probably be noted that the overwhelming majority of the plates were actually written by Moroni--if you count the sealed portion (Ether 5:1). Just an interesting fact that he did more writing than any of the other authors, including his father before him.
LBMarch 8, 2022
You are about to become an "untrusted source". Thank you for stating clearly some of the vital problems Americans and Church members face. We have been lied to and betrayed by those we trust.
Debra WellingMarch 8, 2022
AMEN to both previous comments!
ElizabethMarch 8, 2022
Heroic work, Millers, Sheltons, Max and Masha. What a Providential sequence of connections! Thanks to Lisa Badger and Meridian Magazine for getting the word out with such specific info. about we can help. Bravo!
William R ToftMarch 8, 2022
Excellent article. When he mentioned his mistrust of medical authority one name came to my mind, Anthony Fauci.
NinaMarch 8, 2022
Thank you so much for your article. I can relate to so many of your experiences. I agree with every issue of your article. My parents lived in eastern Europe during WWII. Experiences that they shared with me taught me to always ask questions. Things are far more complicated then what we are told in the "one liner" headline. We should never stop asking questions.
SandraMarch 8, 2022
Wow! I’ve learned so much. Thank you
Geoff BiddulphMarch 8, 2022
Jeff, great post. We need more calls for peace at this time when so many people seem to be anxious for war. Will we not heed the warnings of the Book of Mormon? We truly seem to be a war-like people after all.
A. BinghamMarch 8, 2022
Weighing in from many government and private sectors, and from different countries, insiders are crying out that the US, as well as global governing bodies, are NOT trying high-level diplomacy to end the armed conflict in Ukraine. Those of us with foreign diplomatic experience see only too well, there is a complete dearth of committed and competent statesmen and women in the public eye. This is looking more and more like what we just went through, deception and betrayal, with so much damage. Perhaps behind the scenes, but in the public's eye, it has been a shameful spectacle. Complete silence from our own state department. Where are they?
Ken and Lynne HeinholdMarch 7, 2022
Our Granddaughter-in-law is Inna Timm, and she is from Ukraine and lives in SLC with her husband Jake Timm. This is a tense time for her and all of our family as we are fasting, praying, and hoping for the safe journey of her sister and family who are at this time traveling from Poltava, Ukraine to Poland. They are very frightened, but hopeful of starting a new life in SLC, Utah, USA. So, we join with all of you in prayer for the safety and welfare of these many good people in Ukraine.
Vickie SmithMarch 7, 2022
Fun things to put on my reading list! I love clean historical romance! But of course I love so many kinds of books... basically I'm addicted!
Amanda PurnellMarch 7, 2022
Thanks for this article! Super helpful! My family will be rotating our kits twice yearly, during General Conference weekends! I heard that a friend's family does this successfully and wanted to share the idea.
Heather B. MooreMarch 7, 2022
Thanks for reviewing! I'm excited for future reviews as well :-)
Harold RustMarch 7, 2022
Oh that we could all join in their worship service and show them personally our respect for their efforts to remain free and our willingness to help support them in whatever way we can best do.
Pania HeimuliMarch 7, 2022
Absolutely beautiful!
Jean GenteroneMarch 7, 2022
When there is no peace on earth...... there will always be peace in Christ .
JodiMarch 7, 2022
I’m looking forward to reading both of these books! Good reviews!
K R HofhiensMarch 7, 2022
Hello Julie, I enjoyed your review and the podcast too.
I wrote a book series for kids about the Mound Builders of Ohio being a part of the Book of Mormon people. It isn't a time travel book like Chris Heimerdinger wrote. The story lines only touch through the artifacts found in the kids' backyard. If you are ever interested, I would love to do a pod cast with you.
Sincerely,
K R Hofhiens
Jim WinebrennerMarch 7, 2022
I certainly agree with John R Carpenter's comment.
I'd also like to pose a question: Are you sure the attack was unprovoked? Are you really sure about that? (That's one question, just repeated for emphasis.)
DonnaMarch 7, 2022
Beautiful and heart rending. We are praying for you, our dear brothers and sisters across the world. Never fear.
Jim WinebrennerMarch 7, 2022
Combine the content if this article, which starts off extremely well even though the ending tries to take away much of the real power, combine this content with the scriptures that talk about faith, and you'll begin to see the real meaning and application of true faith, and its real power.
MaryMarch 7, 2022
I am so excited to add these to my TBR list! I love hearing about good recommendations, and look forward to more that Julie has to offer.
Andrew SilskiMarch 7, 2022
It's great to pray for our brothers and sisters, but what are we going to DO for them? I've signed up online to sponsor a family, but that might take months. Is the Church or an LDS-affiliated NGO doing something to facilitate placement of these families in other LDS homes and families?
Gisele MarsanMarch 7, 2022
Thank you so much for writing about this legend. The story really touched my heart. I have often wondered if other countries had similar experiences after Christ's crucifixion. Very interesting
MandJMarch 7, 2022
Video and message brought tears to my eyes. Ukraine has been in our thoughts and prayers daily. We watch everything coming in on the news and feel heartbreak for them as they go through this, it is all so shocking. We pray for peace for them, their country and leaders and know the Lord is aware of this miserable and terrible trial and especially pray it will end.
John R CarpenterMarch 7, 2022
Condoleezza Rice is an amazing person. If she had run for President, I would have voted for her.
She however saw the rat's nest in the Washington swamp and wisely avoided that mess.
Now she teaches and educates hearts and minds.
Her talents and impact on others contine to grow and influence others positively.
Richard D LoosliMarch 7, 2022
I am sure there are countless prayers for this country. I pray that this unprovoked attack will soon be over and peace will prevail.
HalMarch 7, 2022
Thank you for this article. I have always been a fan of both Sister Baker and Condoleezza Rice. As a side note, I wish Condi Rice would run for president. She is an amazing woman.
Leslie NighMarch 7, 2022
I did fast for the Ukrainian saints yesterday. I know that our bishop did as well, as he spoke of it in his testimony. May God bless and keep us all in His capable hands.
Jesse WilsonMarch 7, 2022
Just beautiful!
ShaunaMarch 7, 2022
Thanks for sharing this. It made me cry. My heart and prayers are absolutely with you and it was a privilege to fast on your behalf yesterday. God bless the Ukraine and the world.
I know the Lord sees you and is working behind the scenes
Miriam CottamMarch 7, 2022
Just to clarify, this video is of the BYU Singers, the BYU Slavic Choir, and Ukrainian RM's (my son is in this group). They are singing in Ukrainian to show love and support for Ukraine but are not Ukrainian refugees in Germany.
MGBrooksMarch 7, 2022
That is the combined BYU choirs singing in Provo Utah as a tribute to the Ukrainian Saints. :-)
A.L. CastroMarch 7, 2022
This beautiful video is members of the BYU choirs and “other friends of Ukraine” and was filmed in Provo on the BYU campus. I saw it several days ago on the BYU Singers’ Facebook page. I thought you might want to correctly label this video.
SAGEMarch 7, 2022
Last Sunday and yesterday I have fasted and prayed for them. Their song will play in my mind throughout the week. Such a hard time.
MicaMarch 6, 2022
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Thank you.
Corey D.March 6, 2022
I'm sure the family and others know this but it was no accident that no one was home.
Terry ManningMarch 6, 2022
Absolutely love this.
DorisMarch 5, 2022
Thank you for these reminders on finding answers to our concerns! We've all had times we needed help, including prayers. Haven't we had answers to our concerns during Conference. scriptures, or Sacrament meetings. Thank you for your suggestions!
JoshMarch 4, 2022
Exceptionally well written article. To my brothers and sister who suffer this pain I would like to add something. I cannot share the amazing spiritual experience that leads me to saying this but I know it to be true. Children lost, no matter when they are lost, are still a part of your eternal family. I know I will see my mother and grandmother again, both have passed in the past few years, but I also know that with them I will get to see my older sister, who passed in the womb, and learn who she is. I know that while my mortal eyes have not seen her, that her face is familiar to my spirit and I look forward to that reunion greatly. It is a driving force to keep my on the righteous path, amongst many others. You will also get to see the children that you were not permitted to raise in the flesh. No one can say that they understand your pain, except Christ, but I hope you find those that can comfort you while you recover.
KateMarch 4, 2022
I have also experienced miscarriage, and while the spiritual experience that accompanied it is too sacred to share on the internet, I'll give my opinion that when the body that spirit intended to use was not viable, there will be another body provided which will give him or her the opportunity to have a mortal experience. I cannot imagine our Heavenly Parents saying, "whoops, sorry, your body was miscarried (or your parents decided to terminate the pregnancy or your mom was in a car accident and your body died or whatever) so you are out of luck! No further progression for you!" Obviously not. I'm sure that every spirit that is slated to come to earth will come, and in a situation that will give them the experience that they need. Maybe even to you in a future pregnancy.
Melissa MarkhamMarch 4, 2022
I'm so sorry to read about your loss. It was sweet to read about the love you felt already for the baby. It's true that there is no official doctrine on the status of babies who have been miscarried. While I used to see this as frustrating, a friend helped me see it in a different way that has been comforting. I hope you don't mind my sharing this. Perhaps the spirit, itself, has a choice in whether to accept that mortal experience and family heritage or not. Some may opt to try again for a mortal body while some may go on into the eternities. I believe that the parents can receive guidance and know how to understand their individual experiences. My husband and I have felt strongly that at least one of the babies I miscarried has accepted his place in our family and passed into the eternities. We have felt his presence profoundly at times and eagerly await our reunion with him. During other miscarriages, I have tried to connect with the spirit and form a similar bond, only to come up empty. I see these as "chemical pregnancies" not necessarily associated with a spirit.
I hope none of that comes off as awkward or contrary to church teaching. The important part to me is that a loving Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ want to comfort us and help us understand. They know where our babies are! As I've been reassured in many blessings, they are intimately concerned with sending spirits to the earth and will help us work through emotions, questions, and anything else the experience brings. May they be with you now.
AnonymousMarch 4, 2022
I know that, if it is His will for you, you can receive personal revelation about this, and know whatever details He sees fit to grant you. It will come in His own time and way for you, but you can come to know His beautiful truths about your own family in this regard. We have seen it happen.
TammyMarch 3, 2022
Thank you so much for your insights. I have loved studying about Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. I feel so connected to them, and I feel so grateful for the covenants we have that connect us to God.
MistyMarch 3, 2022
A very beautiful song with a simple but powerful message of our Savior’s love for us! Thank you for sharing their video with us!
Harold RustMarch 3, 2022
A most inspiring and insightful article. Many thanks for the details between those details which I already knew. Other than one mis-typed date (1834 is when he first met Brigham), this is a true keeper for all of us members who need to more fully follow WIlford's example of seeking deeply for the truth.
Lisa SottileMarch 3, 2022
Beautiful!! Thank you for sharing your talents and the wonderful message of this song!
CarrieMarch 2, 2022
Absolutely inspiring. Thank you for this masterpiece.
DougieMarch 2, 2022
Hard to identify with Elder C facing financial “ruin” and getting a “no” when asking Heavenly Father for help. We need specifics. How bad was it? Was he on Church welfare? Had he moved into his parent’s basement? Was he living on his food storage? Did he file bankruptcy? For some people a financial crisis is actually quite mild, but they think it’s really bad. Some of us know and have experienced what “back to the wall” really means. Add Stage 4 cancer for a spouse to the mix, lose your job and health insurance, and then let’s talk.
John R CarpenterMarch 2, 2022
In March of 2005, a twenty pound 105mm artillery shell used for avalanche control hit the backyard of a house in Pleasant Grove, Utah. It missed its target by over 3 miles.
A young child who was watching TV excaped harm despite being covered with debris. See story at:
https://www.deseret.com/2005/3/29/19883755/shell-shocked-errant-avalanche-bomb-rips-pleasant-grove-home
SayshaMarch 2, 2022
The legend also states that "the spirits of long-dead Gaels appeared to the terror-stricken assembly." So fascinating! Thank you for sharing!
LisaMarch 1, 2022
My heart echoes what others have said they felt in reading this beautiful story and testimony. Thank you SO much for lifting our spirits today. Very well written!
Rochelle HaleMarch 1, 2022
I can't tell you how many times I have started journals, then let them gather dust. I love making digital photo albums for our family each year, and these have become our memoirs as well, as I highlight key events, people, etc. I have also found the "memories" section of FamilySearch invaluable to record family stories (not the entire elephant) and some sacred experiences. The privacy settings allow me to determine when and with whom to share.
Debra McCrackenMarch 1, 2022
TY for sharing this "Irish conversion story! I married into the McCrackens in CA, and so love hearing of Irish myths and legends, as I am "adopted Irish!" I love hearing how adults come to the gospel, having been a life-long member. I often wonder if I would have been wise enough to recognize truth.
NiallMarch 1, 2022
❤️ Fantastic Stephen
HalMarch 1, 2022
Wonderful article, thank you!! Even in Utah County our children are being bombarded with propaganda that their confused emotions during adolescence are likely because of gender confusion. Our own daughter was troubled by this for about two years. Fortunately, with maturity, she is realizing her roiling feelings and emotions during adolescence were a normal part of maturation and that mastering her passions during that time rather than giving into them helped her to realize that she really was attracted to young men. She is now embracing her femininity. The difference is night and day - she is now so much happier than she was when she was allowing society to convince her that she was the wrong gender.
Ken HazelbakerMarch 1, 2022
My wife suggested I just take some islands of time and just list bullets - whenever they occurred. It's the capture that is so important.
Another time just take one - put the flesh on that skeleton and at another time, do it again. I can take care of order or other details later.
She showed me how my smart phone will convert my talking into text!! Wow, it doesn't get any easier than that! (It took some time to learn how to talk slower for better text conversion accuracy - but what a miracle!)
Robert D. BellMarch 1, 2022
I feel this article is RIGHT ON TARGET! Thank you, thank you for your conscientious wording and citing of applicable scripture.
Sally WibleMarch 1, 2022
Why do your life stories have to be woven together? For the past nine years (minus 2 Covid years) I have hosted a group ladies where we write our Life Story in short stories. We read our stories and discuss them - we learn from one another. Many of us are now doing StoryWorth - so our stories will be in book form. Much more interesting to read a short story than one long Life Story.
Thank you for your article, very good, need more like it to prompt people to write their Life Stories
HalMarch 1, 2022
This is painful for so many parents. While I think the advice given is good, I think maybe there is too much blame placed on the parents and we need to understand that the child bears some responsibility as well. Despite our continuous efforts to reach out to him, out oldest son cut us out of his life over ten years ago, but his younger brother and his family remain close to us. We also adopted two girls. Again, our oldest daughter rebelled against everything we tried to teach her. Her younger sister, however, embraced our family values and we have a wonderful relationship. Our two children who have distanced themselves from us love to use catch-phrases similar to "Toxic Positivity" to excuse their behavior. I'm sorry, but such phrases smack of "junk" psychology and seem to be a convenient way to avoid taking responsibility for one's own actions. Parents make mistakes, no doubt about that. However, I think we sometimes blame parents (and parents blame themselves) for ALL the problems in a family and forget that the children also play a huge role in family dynamics - especially as they grow to adulthood. The scriptures provide similar examples - Cain and Able, Esau and Jacob, Laman/Lemuel and Sam/Nephi/Jacob/Joseph. I'm sure Adam and Eve, Isaac and Rebekah, Lehi and Sariah loved all their children but some choose to abandon their families and there's not much we can do about it except to continue to love them, pray for them, and keep reaching out to them. Beating ourselves up, however, will never make the relationship better.
Annette MillerMarch 1, 2022
Wallace Goddard you are heaven-sent. You always hit the nail on the head. I love how you love and show us the wY.
MaryannFebruary 28, 2022
I really appreciate Brother Steurer's comments about allowing others to experience what they are really feeling, instead of trying to gloss it over. When someone immediately begins with "positive" preaching in these situations, I feel like the reality of my painful situation is being denied. Instead of trying to "fix" me, I just need to be understood and to feel someone's compassion for my unhappy feelings.
Russ ParkerFebruary 28, 2022
Great Story Stephen, I served my mission in Ireland in the mid 70's and never heard that story. Given what happened there at the death of Christ it would indicate that The Irish are of lost Israel - no surprise to me or any others who served there.
I too miss that rainy green Island (I don't miss the cold rainy winters in Dublin though - I shiver just thinking about it)
Kathleen BirdFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for this beautiful story that resonates in my Irish heart. I've always wondered where are the cultural stories of the earth's upheaval 2000 years ago. Now I know Irelands story because of you.
TimFebruary 28, 2022
Regardless of where one stands religiously or politically, it is unconscionable to allow a child to be killed who is capable of being born alive. What makes such a killing less objectionable just because the child has not drawn a breath?
Jo Ann OkelberryFebruary 28, 2022
This was so delightful, uplifting, and spiritual. Thank you so much for sharing your life and this beautiful story.
Marie H.February 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your faith journey, conversion and your testimony! I traveled to Ireland in 2019 to meet relatives my mother found in the late 1970s so I love reading anything about that beautiful country.
HmomFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing such an inspiring conversion story!
Debbi BaileyFebruary 28, 2022
I truly loved your article today. “The One” is so important to the Lord… and He will miraculously micro-manage ways to bring souls to Him. My ancestors are from Ireland and I was touched by your beautiful story of your life growing up and your conversion to the Gospel of Jesus Christ because of your reading the Book of Mormon. Thank you again.
Ovala ToiaivaoFebruary 28, 2022
What an amazing article! Quite a testimony to the truthfulness of the BoM and Joseph Smith's role as a prophet. I mean how on earth could a young and poor farm boy in New York knew such things unless of course it was revealed to him by an angel of the Lord as he claimed? Amazing, truly amazing!!!
Leslie Pearson ReesFebruary 28, 2022
I love that you shared the story of King Conor and the signs of the Savior's death given to the people of Ireland! It truly does give testimony of the fulfillment of prophecies in 1 Nephi 19. A number of years ago when I published my book on the "Lost" tribes of Israel, I included that account because it touched me deeply. Thanks for sharing your story!
RosieBFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for this thoughtful article. My sister has been having a horrible time dealing with the fact that her only son hasn't spoken to her for the past 2 years. She & I were raised in a family that practiced toxic positivity & gaslighting. We both became single mothers at age 18. It's difficult to change family patterns when you're in survival mode. Just being honest with my children, instead of defensive, has kept our communication open. I'm praying for healing for my sister & my nephew.
PaulineFebruary 28, 2022
Oh this is such a wonderful and beautiful story! Inspiring! Thank you for sharing!
Priscilla J OwenFebruary 28, 2022
I loved reading this article, and as I was reading, I felt the whisperings of the spirit confirming to me of my own testimony concerning Joseph Smith and his ministry. I am so grateful to be a part of this great gathering...
I loved the tale of this great Irish King.
Thank you
RhondaFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your wonderful conversion story. It touched my heart!
brian stubbsFebruary 28, 2022
Very inspiring Stephen. I greatly appreciate hearing your account--the legend, your story, open-mindedness, and diligence in seeking truth--all too often lacking in today's great-and-spacious-building derisions instead of diligently digging into details.
James ScottFebruary 28, 2022
Having an Irish ancestry I was intrigued by the “olde” stories and legends my grandfather related of faerie circles, the little people , the battles of kings and the bravery of the heroes and how God was such an important part of their lives.
What a wonderful narrative of your life and the connection of your early life and how the Book of Mormon connected to your early church lessons.
Alex WrightFebruary 28, 2022
Stephen, you truly have the story teller’s gift. Thank you for sharing. I absolutely love this story you experienced. My family and I lived in Dublin for 2 years and we read many fairy tales. We never heard of this one, but now we have and will read it together. Cheers.
Dora, SloveniaFebruary 28, 2022
Beautiful testimony, thank you!
John C. GreeneFebruary 28, 2022
I am also an Irishman (born in America) who was a Catholic and was baptized a member of the Church at age 32. Because of my love of and interest in Ireland, many years ago I started reading "The Story of the Irish Race" by Seamus MacManus. When I read the story of the death of Conor Mac Nessa on pages 26 and 27, I immediately recognized that it paralleled the account of the prophet Zenos in 1 Nephi 19:12 "The God of Nature suffers." I highlighted and cross-referenced the two books. There is also a footnote to that story which says that an Irishman, Conal Cearnach, was in Jerusalem and witnessed the Crucifixion. "A representative of every race of mankind," says the legend, "was on the Hill of Calvary at the dreadful hour."
Terry Montague Rupert IdahoFebruary 27, 2022
Thank you, Jennie.
Jeanette Goates SmithFebruary 27, 2022
What a gift you have given so many for so long. Hope to stay in touch.
Rex LoweFebruary 27, 2022
Really movingly similar to several strengthening experiences I’ve had, which have come at times when I needed them most. Thanks for your writings, you’ve got the talent to write so that at times you hit the soft spot & I get a little testy eyed.
Nada WilliamsFebruary 27, 2022
I Love your reviews and I am also a Clair Poulson fan. I think I have read everyone of his books. It's been a great ride so far. Enjoy these next years. Also, I love your own books!!
JanieFebruary 27, 2022
Lol. Loved it
Corey D.February 27, 2022
Thanks Meridian for having the courage to reprint articles like this. It's pretty much the end of democracy in Canada and I don't think people realize how far along this same path we are here in the US.
Melinda ScottFebruary 26, 2022
Thank you for sharing your wonderful insight! I will look forward with curiosity! :)
Gwen G KrumpermanFebruary 26, 2022
Thank you for your reviews over the years. I value your recommendations. Best wishes in your future adventrues!
John R CarpenterFebruary 26, 2022
There shall be wars and rumors of war ...
Susan HansenFebruary 26, 2022
Thanks for you dedication to sharing literature!
Rochelle HaleFebruary 25, 2022
Thank you for a beautiful article. I wish I had had this much insight forty years ago. Thankfully, I was able to maintain my faith during a long emotional and physical struggle, after which one child miraculously came into our family. My middle name is Rebecca, my sister's is Rachel, and had I a daughter she would have been called Sarah Elizabeth. These are remarkable women whose examples we can look to for how they dealt with a number of challenges.
MicheleFebruary 25, 2022
I applaud the writer for reaching out to this wonderful resource. Geoff has such healthy advice.
My daughter cut me off without much information; interactions were indeed painful. I chose to give her the space she clearly wanted, wrote her a letter of love and support. She eventually moved through it.
LoriFebruary 25, 2022
Oh Thank you, Thank you for your beautiful article!! Yes, I have cried my face off, and sooo get the other emotions and inquiries you have shared. Thank you for so eloquently reminding us of the gift of motherhood that is ours, even if we have not born children.
JimFebruary 25, 2022
Thank you for addressing this. I'm the father that had a temper at home, and have two sons that won't talk to me, despite repeated efforts to reach out to them. Both have withdrawn from other members of the family (including siblings and both parents - divorced now)
P.L. WhitmanFebruary 24, 2022
Thank you for 20 years of wonderful reviews! i have often purchased books based on your recommendations. You will be missed!
Marti ScottFebruary 24, 2022
I always looked forward to your reviews. I will really miss you and them.
Sharee HughesFebruary 24, 2022
I am also a Poulson fan and read this book some months ago. Great story. I am sorry you will not be reviewing any more. While I don't always agree with your reviews, especially of romance novels, which I tend to dislike, You have led me to some great reads. I was thinking of sending you one of my books to read. I hope Meridian gets a new reviewer.
James ScottFebruary 24, 2022
Congratulations and good luck for your future. Thanks for your commentary and evaluations and the encouragement to be reading.
Mariam KitchenFebruary 24, 2022
Thanks for your wonderful reviews! Good luck with your future!
Teri N.February 23, 2022
Would you might be able to please list the nutrition information for this recipe? It looks delicious, but my we have some diabetics in our family and I'm interested in knowing the fiber, sugar, and carb content. Thank you!
Scot ProctorFebruary 22, 2022
The new podcast episodes are always added to the podcast page at latterdaysaintmag.com/podcast and also available by clicking on "Come Follow Me" button on the gray categories bar at the top of the page.
AnnaFebruary 22, 2022
You nailed it again! Thank you.
Ed GayhartFebruary 22, 2022
Must be another one of those conspiracy theories!
R. BiddulphFebruary 22, 2022
No one would have believed that the Government's chief immunologist would have been funding the Wuhan virus. Half the U.S. would have not believed that the losing 2020 presidential candidate would have funded a seditious conspiracy to overthrow the winner.
Gary BealFebruary 22, 2022
Hess: I love your balanced and thoughtful manner in handling such a sensitive topic as secret combinations. Thanks for your effort in publishing this. May more of us read and integrate the counsel you put forth!
Ronald BarnesFebruary 22, 2022
I'm glad that you mentioned Isaac's age at the time of the sacrifice, although Josephus gives it as 25. In either case, when people tell the story they always mention the faith of Abraham but neglect the faith of Isaac. He was not a child as he is often depicted to be. He was an adult who could have refused to go along with it. According to Josephus, after Abraham explained the situation, "So he went immediately to the alter to be sacrificed." Abraham's faith was great, but Isaac's faith may have been even greater.
Helen A HederFebruary 21, 2022
Why is it so hard to find the latest podcasts? I have not been able to fine the podcast for Genius 24 - 27. Podcast 9
MaryannFebruary 21, 2022
Please know you are not alone. Thousands of us are experiencing the sorrow of having our children decide to leave the church. It broke our hearts when my son took this course, but we continue to pray for him and I know that the prayers of parents for their children are very powerful. I also pray for him when I attend the temple. I believe the Lord will keep calling after his children, and when I am sorrowful I can find some peace by trusting Him.
ChrisFebruary 21, 2022
Thank you Joni...honest discussions about sexual addiction and recovery unfortunately are rare in our wards and stakes. Some leaders get it but most don't, and we need more training, more discussion, and certainly more understanding in the church.
I'm a recovering addict and with my wife serve as ARP missionaries, specifically in a couples' meeting. It's the best meeting in the church. Why? Because everyone is open, honest, and vulnerable. There's no hiding our problems or pain, and there's so much understanding and love. And there's awesome celebration in recovery!
Grace is real, the Atonement works!
HelenFebruary 21, 2022
I never realized how little we read of him. It is comforting to know that our “smaller” lives are no less honorable than the “greater” ones around us.
Alisi Iongi FiliagaFebruary 20, 2022
Cannot thank you enough for this podcast. Weekly I would cut and paste the transcript and save it to a weekly file. If in case my week is so hectic I did not want to miss out. It would be a quiet moment of the week to re-read and dig deep. I am blessed thank you for sharing your podcast. Light receive on this end remarkable!
MikeFebruary 19, 2022
Geoff, why aren't you telling this lady to get out of this relationship?
This kind of behavior on the part of the husband is NOT excusable under ANY circumstances. Twenty years of this behavior should make any sane person realize he's NOT going to change unless something drastic happens. Maybe her leaving him will make him wake up, but either way she shouldn't have to put up with this.
Definitely get legal counsel and make a plan. You deserve better!!
judy fosterFebruary 19, 2022
Thank you so much!!! This is exactly what I needed to read today and want to reread later!!!
Kathleen WoodburyFebruary 19, 2022
What about Helaman chapter 4?
Charlene HeatonFebruary 19, 2022
I love the colored picture of Abraham about to be sacrificed. Can I get a copy? Also, are there color renditions of the other two hieroglyphics? I love the insights and knowledge you share in your podcasts.
Sincerely,
Charlene
DeborahFebruary 18, 2022
Bless you Sister Linford for sharing your insight and testimony refined through your experiences. You have added a drop of oil to my lamp.
Cynthia NielsenFebruary 18, 2022
Many thanks for this remarkable gathering of Abrahamic sources to bring to the eye a beautiful portrait of an eminently honorable man. His life has truly blessed the whole earth!
Susan DuttonFebruary 18, 2022
Great in-depth article. Thank you for your careful research and thoughtful discussion
Ron BarnesFebruary 18, 2022
I knew my wife was ‘the one’ from our first date. We are not ‘perfect for each other’. We are not ‘soul mates’. We both have things that we would change about each other. I’m sure that we have both given the other reasons for divorce. In our day to day living, I seldom get those ‘loving feelings’. However, every once in a while, something happens that bring those feelings to the surface and out into the open. Even when I don’t feel them, I know that they are there. We’ve been married 45 years.
Jewel AdamsFebruary 18, 2022
I know you think that participating in this is a good thing, but truthfully, to me, as a black woman, this month is always very degrading and actually makes things worse than better.
JanelFebruary 18, 2022
Thank you for sharing these stories and your testimony of gratitude. I can’t wait to share this with my family, especially my three teenagers. Perspective and gratitude are everything!
Dave HansenFebruary 18, 2022
Brother Halvorsen has set an example of Christian behavior that will forever be remembered!
Ronald PolsleyFebruary 18, 2022
Satan is breathing down our necks, can't you smell the sulfur? We must fight or it is over, me, you not someone else.
Kathleen AnnaFebruary 17, 2022
I was reminded again recently by a brother in his Sacrament meeting talk, that we are not here 'to fix' people but to love them and never give up hope.
PattyFebruary 17, 2022
This article is enlightening and motivating. Thank you!
Scot ProctorFebruary 17, 2022
The article has been updated to reflect the answer to your question.
KathleenFebruary 17, 2022
Our first experience with ARP was perhaps 14 years ago when my husband provided transportation and support for a ward member, to meetings. My husband returned home saying how incredible the program was and that it would help anyone with any problem. Seven years ago we were called as Addiction Recovery Missionaries and were so impressed with the spirit of the program, as well as the steps and process. Thank you to the Church for providing not only spiritual direction but hands on, practical, nuts and bolts tools such as ARP and the Self Reliance Programs.
Steve KittelsonFebruary 17, 2022
Great article! As a professional counselor and former leader of an Addiction Recovery group, I encourage everyone struggling with addiction to let go of shame. That comes from the adversary. Recovery is possible! Addiction does rewire the brain, but studies have shown that the brain has a quality described as "neuroplasticity" and it can rewire the brain back into a healthy state. And, of course, the cleansing and healing power of the atonement of Jesus Christ works miracles! With Him, there is always hope!
RuthFebruary 17, 2022
I signed up and really wanted to participate in this but when I tried to get in Zoom I was told it was full and I could only participate if someone left the site. I was not late!
Are you going to present a summary of that meeting???
KathrynFebruary 17, 2022
Thanks so much for helping expose the myth of the "gospel according to Disney." When we see couples with lasting marriages who truly adore each other (Richard G. Scott and his wife Jeanene come to mind) we tend to assume they found "the magic." But I suspect they'd be the first to say that their happy marriage came about through following Christ and making the choice to love each other and nurture their relationship every day.
Leo WinegarFebruary 17, 2022
I also experienced a crisis of faith, but I've found a way to reconstruct my beliefs and I'm once again a happy and active member of the Church. For anyone who is looking for additional support, please check out Uplift Community of Faith on Facebook. We provide a loving community and resources for those who question, and also for church members who are trying to minister to questioning loved ones.
KathleenFebruary 17, 2022
This article could not have been more timely. Just yesterday in a phone conversation with my youngest daughter, she informed me that she never going back to church. Although she has been inactive for a while, she and her husband have allowed the missionaries to visit on occasion. The pain in my heart is excruciating, and the sorrow is deep. But I know the Lord is in charge and I have to depend on his timing.
John R CarpenterFebruary 17, 2022
OH! I forgot to mention that some other states allow hunting to start on private land a few days ahead of the public land hunting season.
This targets nuisance animals and drives others away from private lands and increases yields on public lands.
Again none of this is new! Just a new generation rediscovering old knowledge using "new" technology!
John R CarpenterFebruary 17, 2022
I find it strange that this information is seen as unusual. Hunters have known the last several hundred years that firearm use announces to prey animals that a deadly hunter has arrived. And the smart animals move away from the noise.
For experienced hunters and older researchers, this is seen as common sense.
Previous studies such as in the American Hunter or American Rifleman documented this behavior in the 1950s and those articles referenced even earlier works.
Hunters learn that prey animals generally dislike sudden increases in other things like an increase in people noise and vehicle traffic. Over time, the normal use of the land, without harm to prey animals, allow those animals get used to that level of “noise.” But, a sudden increase of “noise” makes them nervous and many move away from such disruptions. Again this is nothing new!
My guess is that this study is nothing more than a re-discovery of behavior seen repeatedly over time. But sadly, non-hunters and those ignorant politicians and intellectuals will likely miss use such a new study for anti-hunting or anti-gun purposes.
Andre J. MostertFebruary 17, 2022
My wife and I live in the Dutch Fields area of Midway, Utah. Each year we see an increasing number of deer and moose moving into our and adjoining yards during the hunting season. We love to have them.
So far, we have not seen any elk in this settled area.
ShaunaFebruary 17, 2022
Thank you--clearly Abraham understood, as the Savior did, that obedience is the first law of heaven." And thank you for sharing your personal story. It takes great courage to be vulnerable.
loved the definition of priority
PattieFebruary 17, 2022
Thank you for your thoughtful, well-written from your heart, and love for God and family, experience.
Debbi BaileyFebruary 17, 2022
Thank you for your beautiful insights and wisdom!
Thank you!!February 16, 2022
I sent this to Jacob, the author. Jacob, thank you for being a direct answer to prayer. I tend to want to find ways to enhance my marriage but in the end I end up getting disappointed from the way things turn out. I compare what the media portrays a relationship to look like and think it always needs to be that way or there’s something wrong with me. I asked God to speak to me and help me sort out my feelings and the next day, you publish this. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Your words were his for me. Thank you! I’ve always enjoyed your articles, but this one was phenomenal for me.
VaLoye OlsonFebruary 16, 2022
Would have loved to watch the meeting but the Zoom connection said the meeting was full. I hope it was recorded and that it can be watched sometime soon. (Zoom on my phone said that there were a total of 100 allowed. I don't believe that.)
ThanksFebruary 16, 2022
Jacob, thank you for being a direct answer to prayer. I tend to want to find ways to enhance my marriage but in the end I end up getting disappointed from the way things turn out. I compare what the media portrays a relationship to look like and think it always needs to be that way or there’s something wrong with me. I asked God to speak to me and help me sort out my feelings and the next day, you publish this. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Your words were his for me. Thank you! I’ve always enjoyed your articles, but this one was phenomenal for me.
JoJean LoflinFebruary 16, 2022
Is it possible to watch a recorded version of this?
Phillip C. SmithFebruary 16, 2022
A very thoughtful article worthy of serious consideration
Becky S.February 16, 2022
That was an article full of interesting ideas that just make sense when looking at relationships. Thank you. I have three marriageable ages children and one is getting married and the other two are just stuck in this idea of the perfect person. They can’t get past the first steps in a relationship and I wish they would see beyond Disney happily ever after and Hallmark movie love. It takes time and effort to be with someone. It is worth all the ups and downs for a deeper connections we don’t see in Hollywood portrayal of relationships.
C. PetersonFebruary 16, 2022
"Anyone who imagines that bliss is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he's been robbed. The fact is that most putts don't drop. Most beef is tough. Most children grow up to be just ordinary people. Most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration. Most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. . . .
"Life is like an old-time rail journey—delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride."
—Gordon B. Hinckley
Peggy WardFebruary 16, 2022
Love your insight. I know your article isn't meant to cover all aspects of "being in love" but I'd like to add that I personally have to choose to love, pray to love, work at being loving - always. Of course that's with those who are not abusing me or pushing boundaries or harming my well-being in some way. Another critical issue I have discovered in not having that "wow" loving feeling is plain ol' stress in life, also, hormones, tiredness, too many demands, too much of anything. With enough effort, I can have sparks and warmth and desire. And it's worth the effort.
ColleenFebruary 16, 2022
Infatuation fades, love is a decision,serve one another.
Ivor HoldenFebruary 16, 2022
Will this be recorded so those who are unable to join the presentstion tonight might be able to watch it at a later date?
Many thanks
Ron KjarFebruary 16, 2022
As the great Clint Black wrote and sang:
Love isn't someplace that we fall
It's something that we do
KathleenFebruary 15, 2022
Good reminders of our human sides and experiences - put to music so beautifully.
KathleenFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you for presenting the facts about membership with the musical groups. I'm often asked about the process. Kudos to this sweet African Sister who opens our gratitude perspective.
JamesFebruary 15, 2022
People can't say whatever they want and then blame others for "getting offended" Even Christ says that in Matt 12:37.
Martha ClantonFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you so much for this wonderful teaching about gratitude. It has helped me to see just how the Lord is guiding me through similar struggles. When I feel myself drifting through the treacherous shoals of depression and anxiety, He prompts some of the wonderful women in my life to reach out to me even after they have moved far away. Their loving kindness buoys my spirit and helps me paddle just a little farther each day. With their help, I can feel my Savior reaching out to me. He has the Holy Spirit guide me toward safer waters. I may not see the way my path turns, but He dies. With His help, I know I will get there eventually.
SimplicioFebruary 15, 2022
When I was single, I seldom found dating advice useful—except for this, which transformed my experience:
"You can be 'right,' or you can be effective."
Too often we focus too much on the former, often in the form of, "I shouldn't have to...."
That's probably 'right.' But is it effective?
RaLee HallFebruary 15, 2022
I loved this! Thank you.
RaLee HallFebruary 15, 2022
I loved this article. Thank you for taking the time to post it.
Amy FoxFebruary 15, 2022
What a wonderful story of gratitude! Thank you for sharing this.
Jacque BrownFebruary 15, 2022
This isn’t just good, it’s great! I hope this team continues to work together and produce more beautiful music.
LewisFebruary 15, 2022
There are so many wonderful lessons here, not just about gratitude. As I ponder the story of the hotel owner, I think about how rich and full his life became as he opened his mind and heart to a group despised and hated. As we seem to live in a time when spite and hatred of those "not like us" is so rampant, we too should open our hearts and minds. It is, after all, one of the great lessons we glean from the life of the Savior. I, for one, am extremely grateful that you share your wonderful gift of telling meaningful stories with us all.
Robert SpeakmanFebruary 15, 2022
Looked him up on FamilySearch. There are 2 Jason Macks in FamilySearch which appear to be the same person. Neither is sealed to a spouse and both indicate that SS is unavailable. Where did you get your sealing information?
HalFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you for this article! I had to take a hard look at myself and realize I am often guilty of this foible. I catch myself wanting others to accept my opinions as their own and being miffed when they don't. I will try harder to step outside myself and try to observe such conversations as a third party to see if I can become more aware of how my words and actions might be affecting the person I'm communicating with. Thanks again!
Jervae HornungFebruary 15, 2022
Amazingly wonderful story of true love! With God nothing is impossible!
Jervae HornungFebruary 15, 2022
What a wonderful reminder to be grateful for every situation we find ourselves in during this life. Thank you so much for sharing- I needed this today!
HollyFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you for preparing and sharing this. I didn't know I needed to read this today, but I did.
IreneFebruary 14, 2022
I LOVE this story!
Kathy ThatcherFebruary 14, 2022
Loved reading your thoughts and becoming lost in the beautiful quotes. Great read for Valentine’s Day. I’m in awe that that great kid of long ago who frequented our home has become such a romantic. Did living around fireworks have anything to do with this outcome?
Sarah HinzeFebruary 14, 2022
This is a powerful and sad story but I love that they are sealed and are together in the eternities. They were tricked out of being together on earth and yet God did prevail in bringing them together at last.
JoWoFebruary 14, 2022
Thanks for sharing this. I’d never heard this story. I love how Lucy Smith wrote of the broken hearts and how you followed up and learned that wonders never cease.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 14, 2022
This is such beautiful doctrine, thank you for putting together all the quotes and thoughts about the great work we all have opportunity to participate in!!
LexaGraemeFebruary 14, 2022
Thank you for this. I love finding chiasm in the scriptures, and this seems to have been hidden in plain sight. Wonderful!
As for the chiasm not blending perfectly, there are a couple in the Book of Mormon that fit that description, too.
Corey D.February 13, 2022
I appreciate Meridians willingness to publish these articles. I haven't read this ladies book but I recommend to everyone who read or reads this article to read two other books, "The Economic Theory of Sex, Industrialism, Feminism and the Disintegration of the Family" and "Sex Scandal the Drive to Abolish Male and Female". Satan's attacks always are directed two ways, getting us to misuse our agency and our physical bodies, two things he does not have and what better and clever way than to confuse people especially the young about gender.
Sherry EthridgeFebruary 13, 2022
What is the reference for Wendy Ulrich’s statement please?
We so enjoy these lessons. Thank you!
Deb LIeningFebruary 13, 2022
I appreciate this article very much and the comment by K. Chin. This issue of emotional resilience and maturity comes up frequently in the mission health councils where we serve. I was thrilled to hear your YSA sons have completed the inspired Emotional Resilience course prior to serving. This idea was floated as something that might be helpful mission preparation in one meeting recently. <3
CorinaFebruary 13, 2022
Una clase superior, gracias.
Merlin FreiFebruary 12, 2022
Thank you for an inspiring article about Wilford Woodruff. Zerah Pulsipher is my Grandmother Cramer's Great Grandfather. We are pleased with Zerah's efforts to leave for a mission and be guided to the Woodruff home. It is another story of how the Lord guides his people who rely on inspiration and revelation.
Rosalie Madsen PiersonFebruary 12, 2022
We are envious that you will be able to take your tour to Petra! The tour we took a few years back (with another business) did not include this site of the " New Wonders of the World"! I will google that to see them!
You always have amazing photos, Scot & Maureen, even in the ads!!
GrannyFebruary 12, 2022
Elder Carlos Godoy visiting our stake related a story about Elder Eying. They were in the church building cafeteria eating lunch and someone asked Elder Eyring who he though thought would win the presidential election. Elder Eyring's response: It doesn't matter. The things in list 1 strike me as Martha Worries. Some are not important in the long run, some feel important but we don't know the answer to. Better to choose the better part and focus on list 2, keep the two great commandments, and wait on the Lord.
L.N.February 12, 2022
I agree with the author of this article. I have had multiple encounters with BYU Grad students at a major University, whose feelings were hurt by me while teaching a Gospel Doctrine Class. Instead of just walking out, we had to hear about their tender feelings unable to live with my comments. If they were my kid (I have Grandkids their age) I would have verbally straighten them and taken away their cell phone for a year.
What self centered babies are being raised and educated these days.
L.N.February 12, 2022
I live in a town with a major university, we get a dozen or two BYU grad students move here to finish their degrees. What doctrines of the gospel are they being taught at BYU? Besides their educational arrogance, they bring with them a gospel learning that is mixed with the theories of men. In discussions, their arrogance leads them to override us who have less formal education. I am seeing Satan's teachings mixed with gospel truth's everywhere with these 'kids'. Are the Brethren aware of this?
Andrew CurrieFebruary 12, 2022
Sounds to me that at BYU we might be seeing the tares separating themselves from the wheat. Also, we're witnessing the fulfillment of Elder Ezra Taft Benson's prophesy that the day would come when a college education was worthless.
Carol BridgesFebruary 12, 2022
I don't know who first said it, but only a fool takes offense where none is intended. That is very true. My question is what does that make those who embrace the current tendency to look for excuses to be offended?
SimplicioFebruary 11, 2022
Good piece! "Outrage Masquerading as Virtue" was the technique used by the Lamanite kings and most of the other anti-heroes in the Book of Mormon to stir up the people unto anger and conflict.
"Now when king Noah had heard of the words which Abinadi had spoken unto the people, he was also wroth; and he said: Who is Abinadi, that I and my people should be judged of him, or who is the Lord, that shall bring upon my people such great affliction?
I command you to bring Abinadi hither, that I may slay him, for he has said these things that he might stir up my people to anger one with another, and to raise contentions among my people [Abinadi is being 'divisive!']; therefore I will slay him."
Mosiah 11:27-28
Robert BellFebruary 11, 2022
Remember, His Church is an international church (not just a Utah or USA church), and my informal conversations show that many LDS members outside the USA view our politics as ridiculous, unbelievable toward the fair treatment of people and not very Matthew 25-like. We in the USA should re-focus our daily behaviors to match the Big Ten Commandments and the many related Christian (and human) virtues and quite worrying about one-up-man-ship, inhumane treatment of others, contentions, and divisions among us (read the BofM). If we are not being Christlike minute-by-minute, then we have yet a lot to learn in this mortal probation.
John R CarpenterFebruary 11, 2022
In the beginning, “… an angel of God who was in authority in the presence of God, who rebelled against the Only Begotten Son whom the Father loved and who was in the bosom of the Father, was thrust down from the presence of God and the Son, And was called Perdition, for the heavens wept over him—he was Lucifer, a son of the morning. Doctrine and Covenants 76:25-26
Lucifer, aka Satan, wanted all to be save al collectively and the glory of such would be given to him. Since the beginning of earth’s time, he has pursued this agenda in Heaven and on the Earth.
“Our individual salvation depends on collective salvation.” This is what Satan, the Devil, teaches to man. Those that profess this are Anti-Christs denying the individual salvation of the only begotten son of our Father in Heaven. Many members have voted for and supported such believers of collective salvation.
Christ Jesus teaches, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6
In the Last days before our Savior’s second coming “…there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect. Matthew 24:24 King James Version
Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints “…are called to bring to pass the gathering of mine elect; for mine elect hear my voice and harden not their hearts;” Doctrine and Covenants 29:7
But not all members of the Church of Jesus Christ will be saved in these last days. They will seek other paths like collective salvation before individual salvation.
Collective salvation is a quasi-contract religious concept that is the antithesis of individual or personal salvation. It is a mandate of social justice which projects rights not normally given by the laws of a country or state. Its premises are based on dialogue, not accepted doctrine. It supports the perpetual Marxist class struggle for the self-claimed “divine plan of a socialist nirvana under the concept of progressive millennialism.
Those that believe in collective salvation often claim Christianity and other religions as their base religion, but see all religions as one of many paths toward salvation. They stress that any form of salvation must be first a collective action of society becoming one in equality by overturning the past sins of human society and the pillage of the environment.
RandyFebruary 11, 2022
The Earth does not need another Savior. D&C 104:17 For the earth is full, and there is enough and to spare; yea, I prepared all things, and have given unto the children of men to be agents unto themselves.
We did not create the earth. We cannot destroy the earth. The earth will serve God's purpose regardless of what we do.
The scriptures are full of instructions on how to behave and where to look for guidance. When the questions have already been answered in the scriptures' why do you keep asking hoping to receive another answer? Are you occupied with unprofitable meats?
Hebrews13:1-9
1 Let brotherly love continue.
2 Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.
3 Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body.
4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
5 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
6 So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.
7 Remember them which have the rule over you, who have spoken unto you the word of God: whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation.
8 Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever.
9 Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Follow the Prophet:
11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
Conspiring Men and Women are all around you. Follow the prophet.
D&C89:4 Behold, verily, thus saith the Lord unto you: In consequence of evils and designs which do and will exist in the hearts of conspiring men in the last days, I have warned you, and forewarn you, by giving unto you this word of wisdom by revelation
Learn to follow God's plan for you rather than expecting God to embrace your plan.
Stewart LangFebruary 11, 2022
Things can be so simple - but we make things so HARD! The Prophet Joseph Smith said “We teach Correct principles and our people govern themselves.
Our Primary children learn a wonderful song “Follow the Prophet and don’t go astray. Personally our family “follows the Prophets” and we don’t have anything close to your lists -it’s quite easy actually!
I have been a convert of the Church since 1971 and I wavered ONCE when it comes to Church history, doctrine and conflict.
A wiser older member at the time gave me some excellent counsel to me when questions came up: “for those of us that don’t believe in revelation, there is no adequate explanation and for those of us that do believe in revelation we stand by until the Lord speaks!” We have found this excellent counsel time and time again. .
Dennis HorneFebruary 11, 2022
There are some intriguing thoughts expressed in this piece. I think it largely accurate. And there is no question that this world's/society's values and beliefs are largely corrupt and is corrupting LDS youth.
I do disagree with one minor matter. I do not think transgender surgeries and social transitions or people that have done those things should be "supported" in that area. It is a matter of supporting and tolerating and accepting a lie they have told themselves and that has been told to them.
God has never made the mistake of putting a male spirit in a female body or a female spirit in a male body.
The relevant scriptures state:
D&C 93:24: "And truth is knowledge of things as they are, and as they were, and as they are to come."
“The Spirit speaketh the truth and lieth not. Wherefore, it speaketh of things as they really are, and of things as they really will be; wherefore, these things are manifested unto us plainly, for the salvation of our souls” (Jacob 4:13)
To go along with someone living a lie is to me to buy into that lie and support it. Men are men and women are women. This is another reason for the gift of discernment.
So I disagree with the author on that point. Otherwise, some excellent food for thought. I have a daughter that the internet activists and her school peers ruined in the same way as one person described in the article. Wrapped down her chest until she could afford the elective surgery to have it removed; takes hormone shots; has a low voice; dresses like a man. She also breaks most every commandment in the scriptures but murder. Her life is a disaster zone.
As Elder Badnar said:
When any of Heavenly Father’s children misuse their physical tabernacles by violating the law of chastity, by using drugs and addictive substances, by disfiguring or defacing themselves, or by worshipping the false idol of body image, whether their own or that of others, Satan is delighted. To those of us who know and understand the plan of salvation, any defiling of the body is rebellion and a denial of our true identity as sons and daughters of God.
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2010/06/things-as-they-really-are?lang=eng
Ocean AnsleighFebruary 11, 2022
I loved hearing about the choir audition process. I'm thankful for all of those volunteers. We listen every Sunday from the other side of the country.
H Christman HowellFebruary 11, 2022
I can relate to many of your statements. We've been trained to see and know right from wrong, so it's easy to line up with those ideas that make up what we believe to be our core values. The counsel to focus on the realization that most of us are family centered is a great help. The other help is to focus on the bigger picture of mortal life and our eternal life. A lot less time consuming the headlines and more time in the Book of Mormon has been the greatest relief to this distraction.
KarenFebruary 10, 2022
My three year old brother, George, was prepared for his death by an angel. She came to him several times before our house burned down and he died in the fire. The night before he died he told me that she had visited him and told him she was going to take him to Heaven. He had been there a few months earlier when he drowned, but was brought back by an older brother giving him CPR. The night before he died in the fire, he talked to me about what Heaven was like and that he had his own white horse there. He had told others in our family of his angel, "Maralee - you know, the one who sings so pretty."
Kay MitchellFebruary 10, 2022
What an amazing journey you have taken us on. I have always felt a special spirit each time I visit Hawaii from either Australia or New Zealand (lived in both) & definitely my heart is there. I went to university when I was 60 & incorporated an Hawaiian project as part of my curriculum. Of course this project reflected in depth of the Hawaiian History. I was so saddened to learn how the Queen was treated. But didn't she have such a positive attitude. I love how you wrote about the events of her asking President Cannon for a blessing. What a humble moment for them both. Every time I think of Hawaii my heart becomes full. Thank you so much for the warmth you shared as you wrote about this treasured history. Aloha.
Wayne KalamaFebruary 10, 2022
Bro. Peterson, your well written articles on the Middle East have always been informative and inspiring to me. I am from Laie. When I was born our family lived on Moana street where the road from the Temple now runs uninterrupted to the sea. Thank you for your informative article. It brought back wonderful memories from that almost forgotten time and place.
Stephen J, KelseyFebruary 10, 2022
Thank you for this. My great grandfather, Hyrum Smith Woolley, went on a mission the then Sandwich Islands in 1873 and while there re-built the boilers for the sugar factory. His account of his experiences is fascinating.
Karell BinghamFebruary 10, 2022
Best Yet! Everything seems clear now! Blessing on you!!!1 Love karell
MaryannFebruary 10, 2022
Joni, thank you so much for the reminder that we need to seek after humility and avoid any feelings or expressions of superiority. I am wondering, though, about the example you gave of the word game. I love word games and It is common to hear someone say: "Oh, I don't know if you guys are going to be able to get this." I think it often means that it is a difficult word for the clue-giver and they are doubtful about whether they can come up with good clues. Of course, I wasn't there and did not see facial expressions or body language. I do think it is beneficial to give people the benefit of a doubt regarding their intent. I know there are times when I have made comments and realized later that I may have given a false impression of what I really meant. Perhaps, along with avoiding pride, we can also be charitable about how we interpret what is being said.
BrookeFebruary 10, 2022
Beautiful description. They are a special group!
GemmaFebruary 10, 2022
I agree completely. Get outta there.
LexaGraemeFebruary 9, 2022
This is funny, adorable and oh-so-believable. Thank you!
Curtis RasmussenFebruary 9, 2022
Beautiful. Thank you for bringing to light such heart-warming and refreshing insights. I could feel the love and faith of the Queen who knew there was real Power in the Priesthood.
(And now I have the theme of Hawaii 5-0 playing in the back of my head!)
Nerita Flake PetersonFebruary 9, 2022
I enjoyed you humble and honest perspective
F. SidneyFebruary 9, 2022
Great article, and I totally agree too. As a therapist I once worked with a teen girl who felt unhappy as a girl, did internet searches and came out with the grand idea that she must be Lesbian. She then met up with highly motivated school people who convinced her she is actually trans. She started to constrict her breasts and wanted people to address her using all those fancy pronouns. Her mum asked if I could help her gain clarity. During the session it turned out that since she was young, this girl had family issues that resulted in her losing confidence, and at school she had repeatedly been told not to run, be loud, jump, and to make noises in the bus to school 'because she is a GIRL and only boys CAN do these things'. She had built the false belief that only by being a boy she would be free to be energetic.... And yet she was super depressed as a trans. Once the session was over she was starting to put thing together...I will say no more but may we open out eyes to what the movement is doing to our precious children. We need to let them be children.
DorrieFebruary 8, 2022
How grateful I am to have not grown up in this generation! Since I'm pushing 90, I was able to be what they called a "tomboy" I played football with the neighborhood boys, climbed trees and used my dolls for target practice. I never identified myself as a boy, I just thought they had more fun. I still do but managed to fall in love, get married at 17, bear 4 sons and enjoy playing football and climbing trees with them.
Jacki HunlowFebruary 8, 2022
Thank you for this well written fact filled article. I am sharing it far and wide!
JFebruary 8, 2022
I appreciate your approach to this topic, it's so terrible to see that medicine and even the truth has become politicized. I'm saddened that many physicians no longer take their oath seriously. No doctor would go along with the delusions experienced by a patient with schizophrenia, yet everyone should go along with a delusion a child is experiencing that is most certainly related to a mental illness? It just doesn't make sense, nor is it healthy for that to happen. It's the ultimate act of arguing against reality.
James ScottFebruary 8, 2022
A most remarkable treatise on the publishing of the Book of Abraham. It appears from the text that Wilford Woodruff carved the woodcuts of the facsimiles under the Prophet’s tutelage. As a teenager I wondered at the facsimiles and how they were reproduced for publishing. I wonder today if these wood blocks are in possession of the Church of Jesus Christ or if any of the printers prep pages are still extant?
Rita in TexasFebruary 8, 2022
My 7th great grandfather, Pauline Weaver, would have known James Ferguson very well. He was hired in Santa Fe to be the Battalion's guide to the West Coast. Not a member of the Church, Pauline left his wife and young daughters to take the "Mormons" to California, then stayed there to build a new life in Sacramento. He never came back to Santa Fe.
K. Chin, Modesto, CA North StakeFebruary 8, 2022
Thank you for your article! I am very glad for the new Emotional Resilience course that is now available through the Self-Reliance program. (Talk about an “inspiration” to develop this!) My YSA sons are just finishing their 10-week course in our stake.They have appreciated it, felt it is useful, and have gladly looked forward to their weekly group meetings! It has helped them, each, overcome some emotional hurdles and hesitations to serving missions. (They both received their mission calls last week!) Their group facilitator has been wonderful! I am looking forward to joining a new Emotional Resilience group at our stake’s next Self-Reliance kickoff meeting on March 6th. I’ve often wondered if the scriptural predictions of “…men’s hearts [failing] them…” in the last days is more about various mental and emotional challenges and illness—now facing millions of people on earth—rather than actual heart diseases? (Of course, many skilled and brilliant doctors surgeons, scientists…have made huge strides in the treatment of heart diseases and malfunctions—President Nelson included!) Perhaps, the latter day “failing hearts” are due to the complexities and emotional toll of our modern lives, and Satan’s overwhelming attack on individuals by attacking families? Without an understanding that comes from the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ (and sometimes even with it) our hearts can metaphorically “fail” as things get worse before our Savior Jesus Christ returns to earth. Again, thank you for your very timely article—and especially for the resources and “helps” you include!
KathleenFebruary 8, 2022
Clever and affective.
H PelessFebruary 7, 2022
I'm not sure why you claim women never sit in ward councils. In every ward I've served in, women have sat in council, led the important discussions, and often took lead in solving problems. I can't imagine I've been that lucky to be in unique wards. There is no way, I as a man, can do all the Lord's work without the compassion and empathy and sheer abilities of the women I am called to serve with and around. I gr up i n home were Mother was truly a Help Meet for Father and was every bit as important in our wards. Her example and service have been proof women are a vital component to everything we do as a Church. You sisters have more power than you realize, and more Christ-like attributes than most men could hope to gain. I doubt my experiences are unique, or that I've been in perfect wards. The contrary, many of the wards I've been in are small, struggling, and full of single mothers or only the woman is a member families. These women have been rock stars of service and leadership.
Jo Ann OkelberryFebruary 7, 2022
Thank you for this article. I just wish I were younger and could do more to persuade others that we are all children of God and should be treated as such. I think these medical and mental things that are done to children are a form of child abuse.
MaryannFebruary 7, 2022
It is truly a tragedy that this poor woman has endured abuse for the entire 20 years of her marriage. Her husband's abuse also extends to emotional adultery for their entire marriage. Yes, this woman needs counselling, but she also needs to go to a lawyer TODAY and find out what her rights are, and how to secure them. Then she needs to move out before the abuse escalates. She may have to stay with family or friends before she can live on her own, but this is an extreme case, and requires extreme measures. Since the husband has demonstrated for 20 years that he cares nothing for his wife's feelings, it is highly unlikely that he is going to change. It sounds like he has been physically abusive, so she also needs to file for a restraining order when she moves out. I hope she will find the strength and courage to take these needed actions. There is a better life waiting for her when she frees herself from her husband, gets counselling to heal her low self-esteem, and begins a new life. This situation needs to be taken seriously.
Harold RustFebruary 7, 2022
Thank you for your insight, for your very respectful approach, for your clear delineation of what is truth and what is a dangerous lie. I appreciate you reminded all of us to be respectful and supportive of transexuals while standing up to the movement pushing young people toward a very dangerous and bitter path.
Harold RustFebruary 7, 2022
Incredible and so genuine! His first letter is just 35 days after the Bear rebellion in Sonoma and two weeks before the Brooklyn arrived with 240 Saints into Yerba Buena (6 months later it became San Francisco). His vision of what was really the purpose of the Mormon Battalion is clearly laid out at this very early date. This one letter explains more that dozens of articles I've read about really were expectations for the Battalion. Thanks for an original artifact with real context.
SQJFebruary 7, 2022
Thanks you thank you thank you!!!. This will get the conversation going in LDS circles. LDS people are too scared to talk about this. It needs to be exposed so that people can get APPROPRIATE support and help and not affirmation. Keep talking!!
Annette BEllFebruary 7, 2022
Thank you for publishing this informative article
Robert StarlingFebruary 7, 2022
Beautiful Joni, just beautiful! I love your enthusiasm about sharing the gospel. Indeed, there is nothing more exciting or satisfying that we can do than participate in the glorious gathering of israel.
Sherry BrownFebruary 7, 2022
James Ferguson is my husband's 2nd great-grandfather. James had 4 wives total. Jane ended up being his 3rd wife (and rumored to be his favorite). My husband's grandmother was James' first wife Lucy, who he married in San Francisco in 1847. They had 7 children. He married Margaretta in 1849 (divorced in 1852, 0 children). He and Jane were married in 1851 in Salt Lake (5 children), and he married Phyllis in 1857 in SLC (2 children).
Paul EbbsFebruary 7, 2022
Every single point being advanced by this BLM action are what we were warned about in the Proclamation Of the Family. The tearing down enduring institutions has become commonplace in today’s wold.
“ For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers having, having itchy ears;
And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned to fables.”
Louise smithFebruary 6, 2022
Do not purchase anything from a company that contributes to BLM.
Tammy LindstromFebruary 6, 2022
Loved this, especially the references you used that are from Middle East tradition, Jewish & Muslim. I learned a lot. Thank you.
Tony and Jeanette Ford, Nottingham EnglandFebruary 6, 2022
Every week we come home from church and listen to, and talk about, your podcast. It has become a part of our Sabbath day and we are so grateful for it. Thank you.
DJFebruary 5, 2022
Thanks for your wonderful insights on the interrelatedness of the 3 books of scripture. I have printed your article to refer to again in my future studies.
Romney BiddulphFebruary 4, 2022
Sacred clothing from New Testament times were different, but related to that mentioned in the Old Testament:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rV6gUipBu0&ab_channel=FAIR-FaithfulAnswers%2CInformedResponse
Dallas EricksonFebruary 4, 2022
The fact that our youth are addicted to social media and that so much of it is evil makes me think we are worse off than they were in the time of Noah when their thoughts were evil continually. The availability of media, especially for our youth, concerns me and makes me feel the Lord's return is near. Come Thou Oh King of Kings!!
Kay HamiltonFebruary 4, 2022
I absolutely agree that the goal is Heavenly Parents. However, when we have been running a car with only half the wheels, we need the other set of wheels in order to work optimally. It is not affirmative action to fully embrace holistic doctrine.
Reese JohnsonFebruary 4, 2022
The Old Testament does NOT exaggerate its numbers! It is true that some numbers are symbolic, but there is no evidence of exaggeration! None whatsoever. I noticed that the author failed to mention several others on the matter of the ages of the patriarchs, including Josephus, Elder Bruce R. McConkie, and several Protestant scholars.
Corey D.February 4, 2022
I understand what is trying to be said here and it's interesting and I know the author is attempting to show how faith and science can be reconciled in this instance to help those who might be struggling with this or other potential dichotomies in the scriptures particularly the Old Testament but we never should forget that God has all power, confounding the languages all at once while appearing unbelievable or even unreasonable to us is completely possible to God.
Douglas EideFebruary 3, 2022
I thought the article was well thought out and reasoned, but has any Apostle ever hinted that the numbers in the Bible were exaggeration for effect?
Corey DinsdaleFebruary 3, 2022
It's all part of "calling good evil and evil good". One of Satan's tools is semantics, pro-abortion became pro-choice or the newest version, " reproductive freedom". Pornography became adult material, gay marriage became marriage equality and many more examples, all of the latter terms have a much nicer sound or appeal than the former descriptions. Just like Euthanasia now usually referred to as Death with Dignity.
Erik HansenFebruary 3, 2022
Thanks--Well studied and of course there are all kinds of hidden secrets in the history, culture and language of ancient writings that quick reading never tell. So there are those who try to protect the idea that they get the all meanings immediately and it's all literal, etc. Or the people who really don't read but listen to others and modern cultural interpretations. BUT trying to disprove Old Testament dates, events and characters like this is biased to making it comfortable for everyone... easy to explain to modern people. There is no reason we need to grasp at straws to be apologetic for studying and believing in a kind of world that was much different. We also have to feast on modern man's science and spit out certain theories to make some things work out.
HalFebruary 3, 2022
Wow! Loved this article - it was just what I needed today.
RandyFebruary 3, 2022
Another excellent perspective article!
Michele JuniorFebruary 3, 2022
I loved this comment/article so much. As a 76-year-old woman I sometimes feel frustrated that I have such a difficult time to stay awake during the session. But, I’ve worked hard to stay awake also. I have hadConfirmation that it is important for me to be there and that my relatives appreciative of the effort. Thank you so much!
Doris CrockettFebruary 3, 2022
You have made very many good points. Thank you for keeping us aware of what we should be doing. It isn't going to let up for quite a while.
KenFebruary 3, 2022
If the shedding of blood is death, what does the body represent?
HalFebruary 3, 2022
Thank you for this kind, but direct, response to an issue that keeps coming up despite counsel from inspired leaders that the doctrine of eternal marriage between a man and a woman will never change. As mentioned in the article, I was always taught that the Priesthood would eventually be available to every worthy male. I rejoiced when on my mission, we received word that this blessed day had arrived. In contrast, I have never been taught that marriage would ever divert from the divine union of a man and a woman in the House of the Lord by the appropriate authority. True happiness lies in embracing the truth.
HalFebruary 3, 2022
I also love reading the Old Testament. The symbolism, imagery, and the powerful prophecies touch me every day - especially when I see those prophecies being fulfilled. For example, Isaiah warned against the prevailing trend of today of finding fault with someone for making an innocent comment that can be twisted out of context. "That make a man an offender for a word, and lay a snare for him that reproveth in the gate, and turn aside the just for a thing of nought." (Isaiah 29:21). Or Isaiah 5:20 - "Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!" There are score of examples of this every day. The Old Testament is full of sound doctrinal advice to help us detect and avoid evil and prepare for the Coming of the Savior.
HMCFebruary 2, 2022
there is no such thing as "the" Ukraine ... it's just "Ukraine"
Bonnie M.February 2, 2022
Thank you so much for this. My husband and I have been talking about this as we have seen more and more empty shelves. We have a lot stored but are interested in investigating and implementing your suggestions.
DaveFebruary 2, 2022
How long before we stop this group!!
Jo Ellen NymanFebruary 2, 2022
Considering the Church stand on marriage, the Family Proclamation, and our understanding of our Father's plan--has anyone entertained the possibility that same gender attraction is only a mortal phenomenon?
JFebruary 1, 2022
This is such a difficult subject to navigate because there are so many feelings involved, but one thing that I see that is not always acknowledged is the very likely possibility that the feelings of same sex romantic attraction is a condition of mortality and that those feelings may not continue on in a perfected body when we are no longer living in a fallen world.
MusicFebruary 1, 2022
You have proved that goal setting is what everyone needs to succeed in this life. Thank you for your outstanding achievements not only in soccer but also for our love for the Savior, Jesus Christ so we may return to live with him someday.
Sandy DildineJanuary 31, 2022
It is possible, even essential that there are real facts in the Old Testament along with the rich symbolism. There has to be a real framework for the symbolism to rest on. The symbolic numbers of multiples of 12 and 40 etc., can be true as well as the prophets of old actually living longer before the flood than after it. Not all numbers are symbolic in the scriptures. Jacob did really have 12 sons; they were named. I have been taught that God was giving the people before the flood time to repent. Also, that the earth was baptized and that would necessitate a full immersion. I don't think it is necessary to have all symbolism or no symbolism.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 31, 2022
This was really interesting and informative. I do like the idea of the Hawaiians buying grain from the Egyptians. I love your humor.
BoBJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you Jeffrey. I have loved 1 and 2 Enoch, and since reading your articles, I have loved learning about Manichaeism. The religion itself reminds me of an apocryphal book; there are wonderful gems inside as well as interpolations. I see them as an attempt to stitch back together isolated truths that had been scattered. Now, Mani was not the prophet of the restoration, and I believe that some of his assumptions or premises are definitely incorrect, but watching him/them attempting to patch back together what had been scattered is very interesting. Obviously they were able to preserve some pearls that otherwise had been vaguely remembered but discarded.
rex infangerJanuary 31, 2022
I am kind of wondering if the earth was baptized at the time of the flood seems like that interpretation would have to be literal. Plus it is hard to get an ark from the new world to the old world if you don't have a literal flood.
Katrina DonaheyJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. I learned a lot and appreciate the insights shared. It was super helpful in expanding my understanding of the importance of contextual, historical, and cultural understanding as we read the Old Testament. Well written, well supported article. THANK YOU!
LexaGraemeJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you, Dr. Peterson. I am happy to say that I am a Latter-day Saint that has loved the Old Testament from my high school seminary days, and continue to love it more and more as I continue to study and teach it. You have laid forth points that I never consciously thought of, but truly appreciate now that I have.
Michael ScrimsherJanuary 31, 2022
For the flooded house scenario, all that stress and damage and hassle could have been 100% avoided if the home owner had turned off the main incoming water supply whenever they leave the home for a vacation or extended time. Any wise home owner does this to simply and easily avoid the exact scenario that you described. Most homeowners insurance companies encourage a wise homeowner to do this as it saves both parties a big hassle if pipes freeze, burst, or etc.
LexaGraemeJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you for this! It goes along with another article posted on Meridian; the Bible was not written for our day, and we have to understand where the writers were coming from in order to understand it completely. When I teach Isaiah, for example, I will be sharing with them the different styles of poetry used at the time. Explaining numbers and their significance is the same.
Lisa CroftJanuary 31, 2022
If there are huge losses and the insurance company says you don’t have coverage, I recommend a consultation with a lawyer experienced in such cases. Sometimes state law supersedes the terms of the policy. Also, the insurance company has a duty to explain the coverage options. What the insurance company says, isn’t always the end of the story.
craigJanuary 31, 2022
Thank You! More people need to understand scripture better, and that means knowing that the people of A.N.E. didn't see the world as we do. Much of scripture is symbolism or allegory, not the simple recording of facts.
Jeanne GuinnJanuary 31, 2022
OH WOW! Amen.Very well put.There has to be enough of us to see the missile in order to save this country.
Lexie StatonJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you Carolyn for your article! The information was helpful as were the real life examples. I'll be passing this along to my grown kids.
Oakley EatonJanuary 31, 2022
Thanks for sharing this valuable information. We experienced a flood in our home when the water source to the frig ice maker broke and flooded the kitchen, dining, family room and most of the basement. We have USAA insurance and carpet and sheet rock were replaced mostly, but upstairs they only dried the carpet. There was a mold smell downstairs for a couple of years after. I’m definitely going to review our coverage. Luckily we only paid a $500 deductible, but I will be more assertive if there’s ever a next time.
BryanJanuary 31, 2022
Thanks for sharing! I didn't know of that cultural aspect of numerical exaggeration. I'll be interested to find out, when not limited by mortal misunderstanding, what really happened with a lot of the seeming inconsistencies.
I like to point out that the Hebrew "yom" may be interpreted as "day" or "time." Some think that the Creation consisted of 7 24-hour periods. I think that view doesn't take into account that the Creation narrative itself talks about the invention of the 24-hour day, which doesn't happen at the beginning, and that "yom" doesn't have to mean "day."
Debrah RoundyJanuary 30, 2022
That snowballed Bishop was delightful!
Debra M.January 30, 2022
I love your articles, and the quotes from Camilla Kimbell and Patricia Holland! You are such a breath of fresh air for me, and also you bring such comfort and assurance about our Heavenly Mother.
Corey DinsdaleJanuary 30, 2022
One of my Pandemic discoveries is Meridian Magazine online and in particular your stories, the first of which I read several months back and now have been going back through the archives of your stories. They gladden my heart and cheer me up. This story in particular made me smile and reminds me of a lot of similar stories, little kids are great, especially grandkids, wished I could have seen more humor when my own kids were little. Thanks for your stories, you are what I would call the spiritual Patrick McManus or the LDS version of Robert Fulghum.
Corey DinsdaleJanuary 30, 2022
First a comment about why longevity changed after flood, my wife will say "environmental contaminates", I say mold and mildew which introduced disease, but that's conjecture. Secondly your comment in the heading for today's discussion about increasing wickedness and are we recognizing it or not. Years ago a co-worker who was retired military went to a lecture that was giving by a former POW from Vietnam, he had been shot down in the early days of Vietnam and was in captivity longer than almost any other, I believe he was also a member of the church. My co-worker shared the following, he said after the lecture he and several others who had all been to Vietnam went up to talk to this guy, he looked at the group and said, " I'm going to share something that I think this group will understand, I'm a modern day version of Rip Van Winkel". He then explained what he meant, he said that he was basically cut off from the world for 10 yrs, knew nothing about what was going on in society. He said he had been back in the States about a week and decided to turn the TV on, said he was shocked by what he saw and heard and what was being allowed on TV and said "and you all don't even realize the change because it's all been gradual for you but for me it's all at once and I can recognize it". Pretty strong and telling statement.
CindyJanuary 29, 2022
Since when does the "Government" produce anything of quality????
Helen KlannJanuary 29, 2022
This story (or parable) is profound. I'm looking for a ceramic pig to paint purple and give to my grandchildren along with the story and your beautifully written article. Thank you so very much!!!! Such a timely piece.
AnnaJanuary 28, 2022
I so appreciate your efforts and words. I’m really struggling with why the church structure/policies are not making more adjustments to reflect this. Why are we still stuck in complementarianism and can’t move into egalitarianism? I am struggling with wanting to stay in a church where I don’t feel good raising my daughter here. I’m curious your thoughts on this. Thank you!
Patricia WintersJanuary 28, 2022
Thank you so much for the transcript! I would not be able to have this instruction without it!
Debrah RoundyJanuary 27, 2022
SPOT ON!
Peter vdGJanuary 27, 2022
I have always been so uncomfortable with those devices and services that take out objectionable material from movies. 1) You're supporting those who create such things; 2) You can still see their lips mouthing the words and the mind fills it in; 3) They take you to the bedroom, then cut away-where is your mind going? I say "leave it alone."
John R CarpenterJanuary 27, 2022
We teach our children a little here and there.
The world teaches our children everytime they go out into it.
A little here and a little there over time makes a big difference.
John R CarpenterJanuary 27, 2022
ANYTHING with Federal money attached requires such day cares to support the Federal Ageneda like teaching Critical Race Theory and other Non-Reiligious teachings.
Teach a child when they are young ...
BZJanuary 27, 2022
This is all well and good. However a piece that is missing is the relationship piece. Family are not “items”. When children make choices quite inconsistent with the Gospel, this would suggest we “move on” or past that since they don’t meet our standards. While I do not agree in the least with my children’s choices- no matter that we didn’t miss an fhe or church meeting or etc etc- this is their mortality. Their time to choose. They are not inanimate objects. Let us not forgot if we choose to only be around “perfect” acting people, we miss so many opportunities to be blessed and bless others who are not so “perfect” in their actions. The Savior strode among the sinners. As we are all sinners....
Richard GrowJanuary 26, 2022
I agree that having one or both parents or possibly relatives provide child care is the ideal situation for everyone!! But some parents don’t have that luxury, either because of being single parents or because there some situations where both parents must both work part or full time. The child care in the legislation is designed to supplement the child care that parents are able to provide!!
Sharlene CorbridgeJanuary 26, 2022
The plan sounds a lot like a program to take the children away from parents to Indocement them in policies that would be harmful to society.
Kandace HardenJanuary 26, 2022
In a perfect world kids would stay home with a parent until school age. However, nearly 50% of families have only one parent- how does that work? Our economy is built on 2 working parents at this point. The Child Credit that just expired helped address this issue by giving parents a large enough tax credit that one parent could stay home - at least part time. But now that is gone and Sen Machín is afraid it encouraged people not to work. Really? Staying home with children is work! There is so much hypocrisy in the political arena that it is almost comical. Sen Romney’s plan to pay family members to care for kids is certainly one to explore. However, there are many many families out there with no extended family around them. So doesn’t having good quality child care with licensed teachers make sense for them? And let’s pay those teachers what they are worth - thus we need some subsidy from the government to cover the $1200-$1500 it costs per child in good child care. Over and over I see statistics that show a decline in the US birth rate , a decline in the LDS birth rate. Our economy is built on new workers entering the work force - we need more babies born here. Sen Lee pointed that out on the senate floor a few years ago. But the government doesn’t what to help out families as other first world countries do with financial incentives. Providing quality day care is not PUSHING kids out the door. It’s providing a safe healthy place for them to go when parents go to work.
KA MillerJanuary 25, 2022
In the many Ward Councils I have recently attended, the Women who are present dominate the dialog, and propose most of the actions to be taken. And, this has been the case for a number of years through three different Bishoprics and three different Stake Presidencies. Am I living in an unusual place?
Sasha W KwapinskiJanuary 25, 2022
One factor which helps me to better understand this matter is the fact that the LDS priesthood is a priesthood of the laity. This is rather obvious actually, but many observers seem to miss it. In most other denominations which have a Priesthood, it is a comparatively small, select body of men, who are separate and distinct from the laity by years of theological and seminary training. In our church, however, being ordained to the priesthood does not separate one out from the laity. An LDS priesthood holder is, and remains, a layman.
As a single father who raised my children alone during most of their growing up years, I can testify to the importance and value of women, partly from the active welcoming, care and involvement which my children received from many of the women in my ward.
LaFonda MerrickJanuary 25, 2022
I don't know if "women are more spiritually minded than men" is true. It's really not for me to say, but I am grateful I have always known of my Father in Heaven's love for me as his daughter. As a strong female business leader, I am often asked about my "not having the priesthood" and have tried to explain many of the same reasoning in this article. Women are different, not less. Men are different, not less. We all have something to learn on earth. Great article.
Joe BrightJanuary 25, 2022
This is one of the most powerful articles I have ever read, clear, based on fact and solid reason in a great time of need.
We may not have all the answers but we do have enough. We know that our heavenly father is one of absolute love. He loves his children and has an absolutely special place in his heart for his daughters, who mirror his mate, and so should we. If we as men do not embrace this fully we fall short. This is enough for me. I will do everything I can to promote this confidence and the care it instills in me for my sisters and brothers. The pain in the world is the enemy to our peace. Let us take refuge in the love of our father.
Thank you!
Colleen AndersonJanuary 25, 2022
Thank you for posting this article.
Kate PhoenixJanuary 25, 2022
Excellent article! Well spoken. This has been a hot topic the past 18 years of my life as I have researched and studied what my Priestesshood means to me. I believe that this mortal life started with a woman (Eve) and will end with us women coming to the knowledge that our church culture is just that, a skewed version of personal beliefs, rather than actual the doctrine of Elohim's Priesthood (Their Priesthood).
Sandy DildineJanuary 25, 2022
This was a great article that opened my eyes to the problem that the younger generation of women has with church leadership issues. It is a product of the current culture and women's own feelings of inadequacy that take confidence to overcome. I am a female temple ordinance worker and agree that women have Priesthood Power. There is work enough to do for everyone in God's kingdom and women tend to step up and do it. Men having a different role than women is not because women aren't capable. Women have the role of nurturing and teaching and leading also in many capacities. Wanting the spotlight is very different than wanting to serve...
John R CarpenterJanuary 25, 2022
This article is something that all members of the Chruch need to read or to be aware of. I will reccomend the principles of this subject be taught in Priesthood and leadership meetings.
ClarkJanuary 25, 2022
Many years ago, we were on a cruise that included a Church group and were invited to attend their Sacrament Meeting. They had not brought any trays, but the cruise line had provided dinner plates to be used for the bread, and small paper cups to hold the water. The paper cups were obtained from the coffee bar, and were imprinted with the message "Seattle's Best Coffee." So it was memorable for more than one reason.
Carol KendallJanuary 25, 2022
Wow! I have NEVER seen this issue expressed so clearly - and from a position of faith!
I have faced these concerns since my marriage in the mid-‘70s, relying solely upon my faith in the Restoration. I’m so glad my daughters and friends can be strengthened by your perspectives.
Harold RustJanuary 25, 2022
It is always helpful to be guided through the process of gaining insight into the perspectives that another individual may have regarding an experience that can look very different to them than it does to you. Thank you for that insight.
As a male priesthood holder, I developed my own explanation for why men only hold priesthood keys: I simply visualized what the Church would be like if men didn't feel a special need to attend Church, to visit other members, and to stand in front of the Congregation each Sunday and administer the Sacrament: from my perspective and limited experience, the result would be a Church with women doing all the work and most of the men out enjoying a game of golf or out fishing. Women seem to be more spiritually inclined on their own while men need others expecting them to be spiritual before they rise to that full involvement. Whether my view is actually correct or not, it has always been my guide to recognize a Priesthood calling is given to me to make me a better person than I would otherwise be while women seem far more inclined to do that without being called. When my wife asks for a Priesthood blessing, it boosts my spiritual awareness so that it just might approach the level of her faith. I think she also feels that.
T. LarsenJanuary 25, 2022
This is an excellent article. I have been pondering how I can contribute to creating feelings of equality and inclusion for sisters in the church. Small ideas have come, like thanking God in public prayers for the service of relief society and other female presidencies instead of always thanking Him for the bishopric and other male leaders. Your article has given me great additional food for thought. Thank you!
Ricki GibbonsJanuary 25, 2022
This article was not just for the men. I have had difficulty understanding why some women struggle with the things this article discusses. It was “not my baby”. I intend to print this off and refer to it and study it. Thank you!
RobertJanuary 25, 2022
This is a wonderful article. My wife and I went through a somewhat similar child story, other than ours began shortly after we where married. I’m not sure if it is common as it used to be, however it became rather stressful and depressing to my wife. We would often get the question of when are you going to have children. I found it quite unsettling as when we first attended church together shortly after we began dating. Many of the comments upon introducing her, and yes, you probably guessed it had something to do with tying the knot. I’m sure many have gone through it before. “When, where, how”, or one that would really irritate me was the “Are You going to get married.” The times it was the first thing out of someone’s lips, I should of introduced her as my sister or cousin.
We did get married about two and a half years later. Like I said my wife would get depressed when asked about children, especially as it was a few years before we had a child as my wife had severe endometriosis which can narrow the chance to have children for some. She struggled with her emotional mentality as the years went by trying to have another especially when her sisters or she would see others with newborns. When someone would ask about having more was even worse than before our daughter was born.
It was about 14 years later when she became pregnant again. We were so happy, especially my daughter as she was excited to have a baby brother or sister. Then came the day she miscarried. It just about destroyed her. She eventually would have to have a hysterectomy to get rid of the endometriosis.
Today it’s still difficult to look back sometimes, Her patriarchal blessing states she would bare and raise more children and we accept that as knowing that we still have an opportunity during the millennium to still have and raise more and hopefully get the chance to meet and be with our son. I say son as my daughter really wanted a brother and my wife, daughter, and I hold onto the faith and believe it.
I realize the questions about marriage or children may not affect others as much even if that at all, however they are still questions I myself may hesitate or attempt to ask someone right off the bat or at least choose how and when is the right way or time or if it is a question that is really necessary to ask or possibly even know at all.
MaryannJanuary 24, 2022
Love your sense of humor--thank you so much for sharing it with us. A good laugh is much needed in our society today to help us put things into perspective.
MaryannJanuary 24, 2022
Oh, yes, those of us with children have all experienced moments of embarrassment, and not just on the telephone. I remember one evening when the missionaries came for dinner and my young daughter burst forth with the exclamation that the salad bowl we were serving from was our "barf bowl." Parenthood is NOT for the faint-hearted!
LexaGraemeJanuary 24, 2022
Yes, they are. Thank you.
maryJanuary 23, 2022
I am grateful to have these books exposed for parents who are trying to protect their children at such a very young and impressionable age. These books target children at a vulnerable age when they need to be free from subliminal yet powerful suggestions that lead them to believe that their sexuality is something they need to be aware of.
I feel like the plan of salvation is being thwarted when we embrace teachings.
Corey D.January 23, 2022
not long after I got home from my mission many years ago, the elders quorum instructor, who was in banking, shared an interesting story, he said he had been to a conference and one of the lecturers who was not LDS made the following comment, "you Mormons have this built in way to teach your kids about money and budgeting, this tithing thing I think you call it", it was an interesting observation, usually peoples reactions to tithing, at least in my experience is negative.
James ScottJanuary 20, 2022
An illuminating treatise, congratulations on a encompassing subject. I’ve always wondered at the comment regarding the language given to Enoch that the very elements gave attention. This is the language of creation.
I also enjoyed your list of 31 words never before used and can help but wonder where and what concordance you used for this research. Transgression and righteous are words used throughout the canon, how did you so discreetly divine your list?
I'm a believer!January 20, 2022
When you wrote in Oct. 2019 about the pandemic, my husband and I went out and bought more medications and a supply of food that's easily eaten for us and our four kids, to add to our large food storage. We were NOT sorry! I listen to you and take your advice on everything now!
Cynthia M. MoorheadJanuary 20, 2022
In Dr. Parry's article he says there was no baptism for the dead in the ancient temple. But the Apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 15:29 (a verse we often quote to investigators), he makes it clear that baptism for the dead was not something new--he expected the Corinthians to be familiar with it. Did baptism for the dead then start immediately after the Lord's death and resurrection? We know the ancient Jews were familiar with baptism -- when John the Baptist was baptizing in the Jordan, they all knew and understood what baptism was. Did the early Christians baptize for the dead, perhaps outside the temple?
Michele NoelJanuary 20, 2022
Clarity, yet again! Thank you Vivian!
Christine BerryJanuary 19, 2022
The UK might have problems with waiting lists for planned surgeries but are well known for their excellent emergency care. Sometimes anecdotal accounts can screw reality.
Harrison Bryant.January 19, 2022
I have heard information like this before. Never has it meant so much to me as now. And mg heavenly father takes time out to listen and help me on my needs. I cant just love him now. The is the most wonderful father I have ever known
Kristen OpenshawJanuary 19, 2022
Satire, yes, but thank goodness he and his wife are both "double vaxxed." I wouldn't feel safe reading this otherwise.
LolaJanuary 19, 2022
If you don't like the books, don't read them to your kids. And in the meantime get to know people with gender dysphagia and educate yourselves (for example there is not just xx and xy).
Amanda PerkinsJanuary 19, 2022
I'd say to these moms...then don't read these books to your kids. It's wonderful to have these books for kids that are transgender. They need to feel accepted and acknowledged. And if you have a family member or neighbor where this is the case, then these books can help teach so there is compassion, kindness and understanding.
Robert van BruggenJanuary 19, 2022
I agree with much of your article about socialism and communism. The way farmers and other business receive assistance in the US from the government it appears we are well on our way to a socialist society. There are two areas where a social system benefits all of society, that is education and health. A well educated nation will be a successful nation. And regarding health care Mr Stoddard, please take some time to read up on US vs, Canadian health care. You will find many similarities and many differences. Do not overlook the fact that Canadians do have a longer life expectancy than US citizens. While it is true that there are wait times for some non essential procedures, Heath Care in Canada is available to all and no one has ever lost their home or had a bankruptcy due to medical debt. Nor have Canadians ever had to borrow money from relatives to pay medical debt. When health care is available to everyone regardless of their income, the US will likely be a healthier nation. It may be that US health care corporations and doctors raking in billions of dollars are resisting a change to universal health care system for all,thereby neglecting the poor and middle income earners. The US health care system is sick and only works well for the wealthy and those with employment that will cover their health care insurance.
Bob LJanuary 19, 2022
Brilliant! Our first natural reaction to the Tribune suggestions is disbelief and anger, but responding with satire and ridicule is much more effective. Nothing infuriates totalitarians like being laughed at and their ideas ridiculed, and the Tribune deserves that label. Bravo!
Diane QuustJanuary 19, 2022
I’m excited to study the OT. - to get the big picture of the Twelve Tribes etc. it’s our beginnings. It’s where we come from.
E M RedelfsJanuary 19, 2022
Thank you for this magnificent and faith promoting perspective, once again I stand all amazed at the majesty of our God!
Thomas Y Jesus TomenyJanuary 19, 2022
What an inspiring article, to put forth all of our motivators so succinctly. Thank you!
KathleenJanuary 19, 2022
MARVELOUS! If there is a way to bring forth this message of truth OUR missionaries can and will DO IT!!
MaryannJanuary 18, 2022
The voter fraud taking place in our nation is outrageous and I am deeply disappointed that the government has been so slow to take drastic measures to put a stop to it. It is not good for the morale of a nation to feel their vote doesn't matter when it is so easy for fraud to take place. I agree with requiring a picture, but sometimes people don't look much like their pictures (if I really look like my driver's license picture, I may have to kill myself!) I think everyone should be required to be fingerprinted and their fingerprints should be scanned before they vote and then marked with indelible ink. And, for heaven's sake, abolish absentee voting, except for the military and disqualify all votes that are late. It saddens me to have to say this--it seems like common sense to me, but NO ONE who is not a legal American citizen should be allowed to vote under ANY circumstances.
MaryannJanuary 18, 2022
Thank you so much for some much needed humor on a touchy subject. Although, like you, I had both vaccines, I certainly do not condone suggestions that we persecute or shame people who choose not to be vaccinated. These diseases are very tricky--I know that people who have been vaccinated still get the disease. The other mystery is that vaccinated members of the same household get it, and other family members living with them do not. This happened in my own family, as well as countless others. I believe it is wise to be vaccinated and, if you can't maintain a safe distance, to wear a mask. But, I sometimes wonder if you're going to get it, you are going to get if, and if you're not, you're not. There doesn't seem to be any logic, but better to be safe, than sorry.
Sylvia MilnerJanuary 18, 2022
Anne, I remember your mother telling me of an experience she had in researching her family. Your mother had spent the day researching and felt like she had completed a family for sealing. When she went to bed that night, your mother could not sleep. The mother of the family she had researched was not content and happy. Your mother finally got up and reviewed her research work. She found an infant daughter that she had overlooked. Your mother added the baby girl to the family record for sealing to the family. When your mother finally retired in the wee hours, she felt the mother's joy and peace that her whole family would be together.
DAVID GIANFREDIJanuary 18, 2022
Rachel, with this video sharing your life view, you are fulfilling just one of the many reasons why you came here to be with us.
You are a beacon of light to those still in darkness.
Much Love
FrankJanuary 18, 2022
I am not in the health profession. I can fix an engine; I can build one. But my judgement of heath affairs is small. I trust Pr. Nelson not as a doctor, but as a prophet. If he set an example for us of being vaccinated, it should be because Heavenly Father told him to do so. If he set such an example without being commanded of God, then on his head be the responsibility for those of us who followed him, being likewise vaccinated and then contracted COVID. My wife and I both have had it since obeying that example. I am sure that there is a reason that we will understand at some point. In the meantime, I just scratch my head and keep following.
MelJanuary 18, 2022
I blame ignorant people for the article. Perhaps living in an actual totalitarian country would be a good “re-education” experience.
Gary LawrenceJanuary 18, 2022
Well done, Jeff. Just the right touch of ridicule.
RichardJanuary 18, 2022
Excellent article and discussion. I couldn't agree with you more concerning the need to be "transparent with our assumptions" regardless of which side of the discussion and theory of thought they may fall.
Thank you!
Phil MacLennanJanuary 18, 2022
Two points I would add that may influence the widespread acceptance of the notion that vax is the right thing to do is that firstly, when you have many people with a wide variety of opinions, rigorously debating, there can be a need felt to finally arrive at plan of action, otherwise there is endless analysis paralysis, which can be tiring and costly. Perhaps the vaccine is strongly pushed, because it allows us to think we are finally doing something to control or fight back and reduce risk in response to a raging pandemic, and after all, it vax does no harm. (or so we are told) Also, out of empathy for the front line health care workers and not wanting to contribute to their burden if we become hospitalized.
Secondly, there was a recent gen conf quote (that I couldn't find) that said something to the effect that the doctrine is proclaimed by the unanimous voice of the Brethren, and not from any one particular statement from one single individual. Perhaps we follow this line of reasoning, and feel more comfortable doing so, when accepting professional advice from a wide range of experts, such as with accepting the COVID vaccine.
Richard TarinelliJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you for an astounding peek into our most astounding physical realities. Most impressive is the manner that these facts do not intimidate our personal realm, but supports discipleship and faith in God's love.
Katrina DonaheyJanuary 17, 2022
Becky Douglas, I love you. From India to Idaho (where I live), you are about the business of blessing lives. God be thanked for you! Like you, I have discovered the transforming power of gratitude. My life is so much sweeter and so much more meaningful because of choosing daily gratitude. Thank you dear sister in Christ for another beautiful article.
Margaret BourneJanuary 17, 2022
We have a copy of Joseph Smith's Translation of Genesis 5:5 relating to the death of Adam and it doesn't vary with the King James Version "And all the days that Adam lived were 930 years and he died." See also Moses 6:12. Can you give us any reference to this revelation that says he died at 1000 years old please?
Katrina DonaheyJanuary 17, 2022
Another winner, Jacob! Your points are powerful. Collectively, we are not well positioned. Oh Father, please help us!
BillJanuary 17, 2022
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DianeJanuary 17, 2022
You are beautiful and an inspiration to all women. What a great response! I can't begin to imagine why someone would say anything different or to hurt another person. No one deserves that. Thank you for your beautiful insight, your humility and gratitude.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 17, 2022
I enjoyed reading this, but I felt a bit overwhelmed. I have trouble just keeping up with my own family. I cannot even visualize keeping up with billions of people, of stars, of planets, and eternities.
KatJanuary 17, 2022
I love this podcast! Such a wealth of information and insight. I wanted to read the articles that were mentioned in the podcast but when I read the transcripts I wish that the articles were linked so that I could just click on them and read them to continue my learning. If that is possible it would save lots of time copying and pasting to try and find the articles mentioned. Thanks for all the work you put into this!
Dan ShewellJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you! What marvelous insights on many levels! I see this malfunction in our national discourse as just another example of the subtlety employed by Satan to subvert, deceive and distract us into ignoring what the real questions need to be and the direction in which the real answers might be found.
Anne PrattJanuary 17, 2022
Oh yes!, It is wonderful- to be everything- to Him... Beautiful reminder of who we are and who He is!
ChrisJanuary 17, 2022
Great article Jacob. You don't have to be a conspiracy theorist to see what's been happening in this country in science, healthcare, and government...you only have to be logical. But very few people are.
It continues to be amazing how fear can drive most of an entire society to abandon many of our core values and principles...simply asking honest questions is no longer allowed. Both crazy and scary...
ChrisJanuary 17, 2022
Great article...and so true! I read an article a couple of weeks ago about a massive explosion the Hubble telescope recorded that was 57 million light years away. That's mind blowing! Traveling at the speed of light we could see that "happen" 57 million years later.
God's creations are unexplainable to us...
M SmithJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you! That is all many of us are asking for. Please just listen to and hear both sides. Stop the censoring. Listen to our fears of losing our freedoms. Listen to doctors and scientists on both sides of the issues. Allow discussion so that it doesn't have to divide us but can help us to find solutions. The Savior's return is nigh. Don't let this destroy testimonies. God bless all!
Mary SchmittJanuary 17, 2022
Awesome!
Theodore BrandleyJanuary 17, 2022
When a political or financial agenda is the primary concern, truth is usually irrelevant or detrimental.
Ten days after receiving the second Pfizer COVID shot, I was hit with debilitating Rheumatoid Arthritis, which continues 11 months later. Recently I asked my Rheumatologist if I should take a booster shot? He went over the pros and cons and then said, “That would have to be your decision.” If my doctor cannot advise me whether to take the vaccine how can the government presume to know what is best for me?
Albert SchindlerJanuary 17, 2022
What a wonderful and inspiring article! I have had three so-called Near-death experiences and during my experiences have witnessed many of the things you mention in this article.
Yes, stand in awe — not worship: but in total, tear-inducing, speechless wonder at Creation!
Harold RustJanuary 17, 2022
A very awe-inspiring vision of the majesty of our Father in Heaven and of the infinite depth of what there is yet to learn about life and God's creations! This life is but step one in preparing us to be able to comprehend God's wonders; it will be step two to begin the creation process ourselves. Most of us are simply unaware of this potential as we wander from day to day. Thanks for nudging us from our sleep.
Janna MorrellJanuary 17, 2022
Such a beautiful and awe-inspiring article! Thank you!!
JeffJanuary 17, 2022
Fabulous read! My mind is blown! Just once again humbles me and here I sit “All Amazed” !! Thank you!
Almandos Aristides IRIGOYENJanuary 17, 2022
I read the book Visions of Glory. I think it is amazing. To have an open mind is essential. Do not forget the testimonies at the end of the book referred to similar events. I am not afraid of new perspectives, I want them and I did not find anything that offend me. 100 points to this book
Mary TarbetJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you a trillion times ! Thank you for this amazing perspective to strengthen my knowledge and understanding. Wow!
DennisJanuary 16, 2022
I am one of them who was COVID free until I received the vaccine. I consider myself healthy, with good eating habits and regular exercise. I avoided the vaccine until we were urged to get it. I am not going through a faith crisis because of it, but I discovered for myself that the vaccine was not the answer for me. I beat the sickness with ivermectin and prayer. I only wish we can listen to the voices of dissent without judgment.
Karla MenhennetJanuary 16, 2022
Thank you for sharing. My Mother had dementia for 5 years and it taught me so much. She endured terrible abuse as a child and I firmly believe that affected her deeply during her life. I put her on a natural drink called memory matrix and it helped her, but soon, I could no longer get it. The nurses were amazed how much it helped. I pray a cure can be found!
Corey D.January 16, 2022
I just now I'm seeing this story/video, it's the 16th of Jan and my immediate answer to this question is, yes ! I doubted that at one time or questioned how it could happen here in America but the last couple of years has changed my view and understanding but if there is any doubt in anybody's mind about the possibility, what has happened the last few years with covid especially in liberal run areas should erase that doubt and all doubt should be erased with what the Salt Lake Tribune Editorial Board just published today or yesterday. Trump doesn't worry me (I do hope someone else is the candidate though), the Jan 6th so-called riot doesn't worry me, a lot of things that are in the news don't worry me, what worries me is that there are people like the Tribune editorial board and people who think like they do.
Corey D.January 16, 2022
I served as the Branch President when the George Whalen Veterans home was first opened here in my area. During one of my monthly interviews with the stake president he once asked, "I hear you say when asked that it's a wonderful calling and experience, what makes it so great " ? I replied "because there is such a spirit of gratitude there, the veterans are grateful, their families thank us, the youth and their leaders who come to do Sacrament Meeting thank us, I've even had some of the staff thank us for what we do and they are the ones who should be thanked, those who work in those facilities are underpaid and underappreciated". Never met anyone who had a true deep testimony of the gospel and also wasn't a grateful person.
Linda CovellJanuary 15, 2022
Thank you for standing up in a Christlike manner. We all need to be kind to others & to ourselves.
Karla MenhennetJanuary 15, 2022
You are beautiful inside and out! Kindness is so easy and does so much for the giver and receiver. Thank you so much for showing us the way. May Every blessing be yours!
PaulineJanuary 14, 2022
What do you think of using Dr. Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication techniques or strategy for overcoming walls?
Kathy BlosilJanuary 14, 2022
This is an absolutely inspiring life story. A friend of mine who served with President Poecker sent me the link to this article. These stories will long remain a source of faith for me. FYI...Walter Kindt's FamilySearch profile includes his personal history broken down into chapters.
Tanya NeiderJanuary 14, 2022
Thank you, Matt! I am working on those dispelling fear and seeking truth. I appreciate your insights.
Fiona RogersJanuary 14, 2022
Whoever made that comment about you should be so lucky to be as beautiful as you. Unfortunately for them it would only be in the outside ! May you live to be as old as can be and continue to share your beauty inside and out .
KathleenJanuary 13, 2022
Your stories continue to inspire me. I have put into motion my mother's work, who passed away a year ago. (Baptism/Confirmation in Seattle Temple last weekend, our son baptizing one of our daughters, and tonight I did the initiatory work in Pocatello Temple. It will all be complete, shortly. What a joy to participate in this great work.
Margaret Y. DyalJanuary 13, 2022
I can't wait to get my copies of this great book. I saw some of the pages and I am so impressed with it. Hope that it hurries to my home.
Gwen LeglerJanuary 13, 2022
You have astounding wisdom and insight as a result of what you have experienced. I hope many women read or hear what you had to say, then they will accept others for who they really are!
Marilyn JackmanJanuary 13, 2022
Absolutely not! How can an ordinary citizen help with this effort?
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 13, 2022
It is hard to believe that someone would write something so cruel to another child of God, but she handled it beautifully and in a Christ-like way. The world seems to have forgotten how to be nice and kind and sweet and gentle. There is so much body-shaming in today's society. We need to love ourselves even if our bodies aren't perfect.
jJanuary 13, 2022
You're beautiful! Thank you for being okay with who you are and not bending to worldly ways! Shame on the person who said that.
Diana BinghamJanuary 13, 2022
You are a rock star and amazing. If only; if only we could all love ourselves the way we should; the way God does and they way He commanded. Bless you.
D. HillJanuary 13, 2022
Thank you Rachel for your personal story of triumph over self. You are a shining beacon to women everywhere to love and accept themselves for the beauty and light God has given them. Thank you for showing what a good husband, father and help-meet can be. We all need to encourage, lift, and inspire each other and remember we are made in our Heavenly Parents image and have inherited their characteristics.
Travus AllenJanuary 13, 2022
She is a great person with a great message. I will try to be a better man.
Jan H NielsenJanuary 13, 2022
Amen and hallelujah! Thank you for the wise and true words.
KathieJanuary 13, 2022
What a beautiful story of courage, faith, truth and wisdom. And what a beautiful daughter of Our heavenly Father you are. I am 75 and have felt like a misfit my entire life, having been bullied from Kindergarten all through high school just because I was painfully shy. Thank you for helping women see what really matters. What a great example.
Priscilla OwenJanuary 13, 2022
Fabulous...well done you. You are inspirational, an absolute gatherer.... thank you.
Jeff JohnsonJanuary 13, 2022
What a beautiful and intelligent young lady! God had a unique “recipe” when he made you! Thank you and your husband!
Susan LeggieriJanuary 13, 2022
Wow! Thanks so much for sharing your story, your words of wisdom, and your example! I believe you are blessing many lives in what you are doing. You are as beautiful as they come, inside and out. Keep being “that person”!
Scott BevanJanuary 13, 2022
What a powerful response! You are exemplary with beauty inside and out. Thank you for sharing.
StaceyJanuary 13, 2022
Love, Love, Love her!!! Thank you for being real! Thank you for being vulnerable! You are beautiful!
Patricia Hernandez ArnazziJanuary 13, 2022
You are an absolutely gorgeous young woman, with a beautiful face, hair and body, but most of all a beautiful spirit, wisdom and keen intellect which helps you very charismatically express your sentiments. Thank you for your example of tolerance, humility and forgiveness. You Rock!
Mary Ann McConkieJanuary 12, 2022
For any women who feel "less than", your article clearly illuminates the divine role of women. Thank you, Vivian.
Katherine FagerstenJanuary 12, 2022
You continue to be a light to me and a blessing. Thank you for your example, faith and light. My life is forever changed because of you. I am grateful.
MattJanuary 12, 2022
To your list of wonderful ways to find peace and hope and overcome the darkness caused by Covid, may I add these two: Dispel fear and seek truth, they will set you free.
tfJanuary 12, 2022
I think we need to start mentioning the possibility of Heavenly Mother in these types of articles and discussions.
Shawny LeeJanuary 12, 2022
Brother Harper, I think I understand that God created all things out of matter and intelligence that already existed, and that these cannot be created or made, but did God organize intelligence to create our spirits, as in "God is the Father of our spirits. We are the offspring of God." Something in your wonderful article sounded like spirits always existed. We you equating intelligence with a spirit? Did I misread something?
Certainly, for me the hardest thing to comprehend is where all this began, but I love Joseph's teachings, and his invitation to come to know God, REALLY know him. I appreciated your article so much. Thank you.
Dan ShewellJanuary 11, 2022
I sure appreciated your insights! My own thought have led me to similar observations and conclusions but I am not nearly as adept at putting those ideas into words. Thank you.
MaryannJanuary 11, 2022
Love this, but I wanted it to be longer! Thank you.
Harold RustJanuary 11, 2022
Great article...but I felt it was just a prelude to what I had hoped to read regarding the biblical reflections on the broader purpose of human sexuality and why our identity is first of all that of a child of God rather than I see myself as male or as female or as something else. When that identity of our relationship with God is firm in our beliefs and our perspectives, then everything else is tied to following the commandments which God has given for all mortals regarding the fundamental purpose of procreation and family.
Colleen StoutJanuary 11, 2022
Dear Vivian, I read the other article first, and it reminded me of reading a mystery novel. You know that everything will turn out all right, but nevertheless you close the blinds and turn on all the lights. The semantics of it left me feeling dark and unsettled.
Then I read yours, and I came away feeling joyful and light. Thank you, Colleen
Michele NoelJanuary 11, 2022
Thank you, Vivian! I have been following your work for thirty years and been uplifted and blessed by it. The timing of this article could not be more glorious. Just as recent TV programs, garnered as ‘doctrinal’, intimate that the origin of man can easily be embraced in the theories of Darwinism, we are gifted with clarity about our first parents here. Well done Vivian and thank you, Meridian Magazine!!!
LewisJanuary 10, 2022
What a beautiful, thought-provoking article. It requires you to think deeply about the Lord's plans for us. Surely His ways are higher than our ways. I am grateful that you take the time to share your thoughts and experiences with us.
Kay RookhuyzenJanuary 10, 2022
I found this article extremely interesting and educational! Thanks for sharing.
Jan JohnsonJanuary 10, 2022
I’ve been through a series of repeated surgeries, making life quite difficult at times… and currently. I’ve learned to be grateful that I understand God has a plan for me, and if this is His plan for me, why would I want it to be any different?
ColinJanuary 10, 2022
This was a deeply inspiring funeral service. Imagine the missionary opportunity of having current and former presidents and other government leaders hear the testimony of an Apostle and feel the Spirit in the meeting!
Helen CJanuary 10, 2022
I sent this to my non-believing husband in hopes he will discuss it with me. He loves science but sustains religion as, among other things, an excuse for war and an emotional crutch.
You never know what will turn on the lights.
Your Oregon friend.
Marsha AndersonJanuary 10, 2022
This has made a profound impact on me! The other things you have published here have also touched my heart. You are such a great example of a Christ-like person. Thank you!
Anita EJanuary 10, 2022
What a lovely article. Thank you for sharing and for giving greater insight into gratitude.
vickieJanuary 10, 2022
this writing is complicated to read. it sort of goes round and round. i have one son who is homosexual and married another man. yes it was hard for me when this happened. i have four other children who are not homosexual and are married to the opposite sex. my one son who is, knows that we love him but we do not understand how this can happen. i believe what God says and the family proclamation as to what is right but i also believe that a person has to make their own choices. all we feel we can do because we dont understand how this can be is love my son. to just enjoy him for his character or personhood. He is a son of God as his partner is. i respect that.
Mark StoneJanuary 9, 2022
Thanks so much! This is great. I guess I still don’t understand thought how the creation is a temple text..? Can someone explain or point me to additional resources so I can better understand??
RoxanneJanuary 9, 2022
thank you for sharing your knowledge. i have had questions answered and learnt much from this pod cast.
Jose M CapellaJanuary 8, 2022
Hello, Scot and Maurine. I have been a listener of your podcast almost since the start of Come, Follow Me, and have thoroughly enjoyed your many insights as I study the scriptures. However, I feel the need to comment on a few points in last week's discussion on the Creation.
With all due respect to Hugh Nibley, he uses a rather simplistic interpretation of entropy. A wise college professor taught me that it is in fact through the amalgamation of ever more complex structures that the universe manages to catalyze its matter at an ever greater pace. The immortal Gods may have ultimate power over entropy, but they have no need to micromanage the development of the life that they nurture.
Another often overwrought notion is trying to create a cosmological model with too literal an interpretation of the Biblical creation story. To imagine God personally igniting the light in the universe, then placing Earth in the Solar System, as well as the lights in the firmament, is again defining Him as a micromanager. An enlightened astronomer could easily see that the Earth and other planets would have already begun to accrete before the sun they orbited shone brightly on them. A migratory period eventually cleared dust and debris, finally settling us into a stable orbit. And from the surface of our planet, only after a very long time would the thick clouds finally part sufficiently to reveal the sun, moon and stars. I actually came to that understanding while watching the newer temple videos - go figure!
Then there is the notion of fine-tuning. While a pretty sentiment, it is unfortunately used by people of little faith as "proof" of intelligent design. It reminds me of the Anthropic Principle, which is often misinterpreted to say that only a “designed” universe could have the perfect parameters for life. In fact this is meant to convey the idea that ONLY in the rare corner of the multiverse that allows life to exist can there be anyone present to wonder if it was made just for them.
Those minor points aside, thank you for your commitment to helping people understand the scriptures more thoroughly. I look forward to continuing to hear from you. Also, please don't ever change your theme music, as Come Thou Fount is one of my favorites, and hearing this arrangement always fills me with anticipation and a surety that I'm about to learn something new.
Take care and have a wonderful 2022.
BobJanuary 8, 2022
Don't show up at their house if there is an emergency.
Corey DJanuary 8, 2022
Excellent. Reminds me of the story a college professor told our class one evening, seems an employee at a large company wanted to prove the point that nobody paid any attention to the constant stream of memos, announcements, policy changes, etc, especially the ones filled with acronyms that flowed down from upper management and that vice versa was true that management never paid attention to reports, memos, etc that flowed up. This employee proceeded to write a totally made up memo really embellished it, seems it made it all the way to the President before anybody questioned anything in it.
MaryannJanuary 8, 2022
I am wondering what you have said to your parents to make them believe you feel they "have gone down the road of fanaticism." Sounds like there is criticism going on here on both sides. I am wondering if it would help heal these "troubled waters" if you show forth an increase of love for your parents and come to an agreement that this is just not a subject that you want to discuss. Then change the subject and talk about something you think they would be interested in.
MayJanuary 8, 2022
Fantastic response to a common question. Thank you!
Gregg LukeJanuary 8, 2022
THANK YOU SO MUCH, Jennie. I am overjoyed you liked Red Cicada. Being more of a discovery writer than a hard-core plotter, it was a thrill to write. Thank you for the great review!
L RawlinsonJanuary 7, 2022
Do you have the first hand account of Warren Foote from his journal? He and his father visited Joseph Smith, saw the mummies and saw the papyri and gave a limited description of the writing.
Boyd TuttleJanuary 7, 2022
I want to say this was excellent. Well-written, interesting, and remarkably well-researched article. Thanks for all those insights, Brother Bradshaw. This treatise has enhanced, for me, this year's study in the Old Testament immeasurably.
Shirley GriffinJanuary 7, 2022
He also mentioned "worlds without number" that were created--at a time when that concept was not even considered by men of science.
Ron BarnesJanuary 7, 2022
Part of the reason some Americans think socialism is so good is because they mistake social programs for socialism. All governments have social programs in some form or another, but socialism is something totally different. They need to be educated as to what socialism actually is.
I noticed, while reading the comments, the only disagreements concerned health care. While our system has its problems, it does have advantages that other systems don't.
Pennie KnottJanuary 7, 2022
Thank you for your research, books and articles on this subject. I have never been able to figure out what all the fuss was about regarding the Book of Abraham. A real tempest in a teapot.
Ann-Marie JensenJanuary 7, 2022
Thank you for such excellent and helpful clarification.
Emily Jensen PorfiriJanuary 6, 2022
Amen. My experience (Romania, Poland, Italy, et.al.) has shown me the same thing.
Theodore BrandleyJanuary 6, 2022
To paraphrase one of Euclid’s geometry axioms, things equal to the same thing are equal to each other.
If we are all in tune with the Holy Ghost, we will all be in tune with each other.
SpanishbakerJanuary 6, 2022
Inspiring. From personal experience, I know that if we sincerely ask Heaven what that “unity” looks like, Heaven will show us. We don’t have to compromise our identities when our values/perceptions conflict. Heaven WANTS to teach us how a Zion people behaves. We have to be willing to submit.
Darlene NelsonJanuary 6, 2022
I am a Canadian and have been served well by our socialized medical plan. Your example from two friends didn’t give the true story of the Canadian Health Care system. I’m not saying it’s perfect, but our family would have been bankrupted dealing with my health care issues had I been a resident of the USA. Using that example doesn’t give credence to your article.
John R CarpenterJanuary 6, 2022
More inhumanity to man, since 1918, has been done in the name of Socialism than any other cause.
Socialism is NOT Freedom, it is control of the people.
George NielsenJanuary 6, 2022
Thank you for confirming the conclusion I reached independently about the character for Righteousness. I often contemplate this character as I look at my CTR ring that uses it to represent choosing the right. It deepens my understanding of Christ's atonement and how the Lamb of God can overcome my natural, defensive, nature. I served in Taiwan from 1966 through 1968.
George NielsenJanuary 6, 2022
Thank you so much for confirming the conclusion I came to independently many years ago about "Righteousness." I often contemplate the meaning of this character as I look at my CTR ring that uses it to represent Choosing the Right. It deepens my understanding of Christ's atonement. I served in Taiwan from 1966 through 1968.
Laurel Lee PedersenJanuary 6, 2022
Powerful lesson on these concepts, Diana! I'm keeping a pdf copy to study again. Thanks so much!
RitaJanuary 6, 2022
This gives a new context for "a new heart", found in Ezekiel and other OT verses. When God creates in us a new heart and spirit, He is bringing order to disorder, making a temple fit for His presence.
I never thought about it that way before.
John WaitingJanuary 6, 2022
Thank you Mark for an interesting look at these topics
Sally SmithJanuary 6, 2022
After reading this article, I can feel the love of Bro Goddard as he writes this. I knew him when I lived in the North Little Rock Stake. This is the eternal answer to my divine identity. I am so happy to better understand who I really am.
Roberta HarrisJanuary 6, 2022
As a Canadian I can assure you I have never had to wait for any medical services and that goes for ALL of my family and friends over all of my adult years!! We have excellent doctors all over our country. I am disappointed at the slant your article took on our health care system.
Gary SmithJanuary 6, 2022
I am curious about the Canadian hospital shut down in 1993. I was living in Canada then and live in Canada now and do not remember that "Canada closed all hospitals". In fact that doesn't make sense, since each province runs its own health system. Perhaps one of the provinces temporarily cut back services at their hospitals but I don't remember it happening.
Wait times for some surgeries are a problem and some provinces have more difficulties than others.
On the other hand, I have never had to wait, here in Canada, more than 15 minutes after the appointment time for the doctor to see me. In fact, just this last monday, the doctor was ready for me 15 minutes before the appointment time. When living in Provo, my wife routinely would have to wait 30 to 90 minutes past the appointment time to see the doctor. Of course these are just anecdotes and don't paint the whole picture.
Karell BinghamJanuary 6, 2022
Such a great article! A real eye opener! Thank you so much, I love you both!
RobertJanuary 6, 2022
When discussing socialism/communism it is important to mention the deaths that are the result of the implementation of those systems of "government." Under Hitler's National Socialists in Germany/Hungary, etc, my father-in-law had his entire family murdered in the concentration camps. I knew a man who lost all his relatives in the Ukraine under the direction of Stalin. If in the United States, if we continue to permit our march towards socialism/communism, I think we will see similar results.
Iam Con CernedJanuary 6, 2022
This article seems so logical, but in fact, it isn't what people want to hear. Today, people want to hear how someone else (the government) should provide everything they thought they need FOR them: Health care? Should be a right, not something you buy. Opposing opinions? Should be regulated lest someone disagree. Gun ownership? Should only be in the hands of the police or military, not, heaven-forbid, my next-door neighbor. Morality and LGBTQ issues. Should be that no one judges anyone for we're all equal and there is no wrong.
And the list goes on-and-on, seemingly so very logical and desirable on the outside, but fraught with difficulties as Brother Stoddard so aptly represents.
I am concerned that in our rush to not be judgmental, we have forgotten that we must, --absolutely must-- judge and make judgments each and every day lest we fall for perverse and unethical scoundrels who are more than happy to lead the foolish and whomever else along.
John PearceJanuary 6, 2022
While I agree with the overall statements in this article I question how good the health system is in the USA
The cost is enormous
High cost, not highest quality. Despite spending far more on healthcare than other high-income nations, the US scores poorly on many key health measures, including life expectancy, preventable hospital admissions, suicide, and maternal mortality. And for all that expense, satisfaction with the current healthcare system is relatively low in the US.
People can be bankrupted by the cost of health issues and many people order their medications from over countries because of the high cost here. My own daughter even though she was insured is still paying off for her surgery many years later.
Maria ClaytonJanuary 6, 2022
I have met many in the church who tell me that living in a communist country has its benefits… Sorry to burst their bubble but if you have never lived in a communist country you have no idea… The sacrifices each individual goes through everyday to survive for even a line to receive a loaf of bread… And much more Thank You for your article Hospitals that look so amazing is for those in the regime… But for the everyday people it is not… They only show the best when you are visiting but go to the real areas in different neighborhoods you will have a rude awakening… Our Parents left Cuba for The United States of America the Land of the Free!!! I still remember how we were treated when we were leaving Cuba My Parents were treated horribly they would throw rocks eggs etc. by the committee in our neighborhood, they had 6 of the Regime come to our home to take inventory because they tell you everything belongs to the Country as well 2 were waiting at the car 2 at the front of our home and 2 came in our home we had 2 luggage and when one of the guards saw the second he said only one luggage you are allowed to take they took my parents wedding rings and said that belongs to the country they took my doll and took it apart looking for jewelry which the doll was empty they did not care they took inventory of everything in our home then the drove us to the actual stairs of the Airplane (Freedom Flights 1970) I still remember the Pilot going around the Cuban Island and my Father reading in his broken English the Constitution of the United States of America The Land of the Free Never take Freedom for granted!!! This is Gods country Cherish it and do not allow no one to destroy it by any ideology…
Robert CowartJanuary 6, 2022
Thanks for the LIGHT. Great job.
Mark MathesonJanuary 3, 2022
I like the idea I heard recently that too often we mislabel anxiety. What is just the normal stress of life we too quickly call it out as anxiety.
DeAnn JensonJanuary 3, 2022
I love your podcasts for content and spirit. So informative and so well spoken. But, partly and importantly, I like to make a printed copy o f the script to study and underline important contributions so that I can refer back at times to refresh my memory. I have four binders each one for a year of Come Follow Me lessons.
But, today, to my dismay, when I printed this podcast, eacg page was covered by a picture of the Old Testament Calendar rendering the page unreadable. I am a subscribing member and hope this can be remedied.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 3, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. My husband had dementia, and he wasn't as difficult as you describe your mother, he really had become a different person or persons. I am sending this article to a friend whose husband has dementia. Perhaps it will help her.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 3, 2022
I really learned a lot from this article. Thank you.
Helmut WorleJanuary 3, 2022
This is extremely valuable (and new to me; after membership in the Church for well over 50 years). I had often wondered in my younger years why the temple endowment spends so much time retelling a story with which we are all very familiar. Similarly, I had puzzled over a statement supposedly made by president McKay toward the end of his life indicating that he was only just beginning to understand the temple ceremonies.
Thank you for clearing some things up. I've just celebrated my 74th birthday and I believe I may just be beginning to get a glimpse of understanding the temple and the scriptures a little more. Thank heavens that there is indeed an eternity before me to grow and learn.
Craig FrogleyJanuary 3, 2022
Excellent, true, and most significant. Thank you!!
Becky L RoseJanuary 3, 2022
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ShaunaJanuary 3, 2022
Thank you Br. Degn. I still don't understand all of what you said but it helped shift my paradigm, or ideological or cultural lens as you call it, for understanding the Creation narratives. I'm excited to begin our study of the Pearl of Great Price, Old Testament this year, and of course this pertains to understanding Temple experiences.
Linda Starr WinansJanuary 3, 2022
Great job expounding valuable concepts. Your approach was thorough and well thought out. This is a great article to share with others, especially those of different faiths! Thanks!!!
Gary ArnellJanuary 3, 2022
Great read. Thank you!
Alan Forbes FlemingJanuary 2, 2022
Enjoyed your article. How coincidental for I just finished reading "Leadership in War from Lincoln to Churchill" by Correlli Barnett, and have just started reading a comparative biography of "Lincoln & Churchill" by Lewis E. Lehrman. My office/study has apart from pictures of my family, the Saviour, Joseph Smith, and Pres. Nelson, my only other pictures are of Lincoln, Churchill, and Don Bradman. All studies in leadership. (ps I had lunch with Don Bradman and he signed the photo, that's why he's there! Also, because he was the world's greatest cricketer).
KathleenJanuary 1, 2022
INCREDIBLE!
watkahJanuary 1, 2022
Isn't it interesting that every plan to harm the Church by the Adversary is turned upon him. The transparency issue brought up at the time of these forgeries perhaps informed the Church to be especially open and transparent about the Joseph Smith History project.
Nancy NewmanDecember 31, 2021
It seems every week i have trouble finding the written script for the podcast. Is there some way you can connect it to the week before so we can click on a arrow, picrture, date something to go straight to the lesson. We love the lessons and we three sisters in 3 different states read them together. Help
Chuck SanfordDecember 31, 2021
I thank you for your podcast, and for the work you both do on your website. This is one of the ways I try to keep on top of things. My precious `15-yo grand-daughter was recently diagnosed with Leukemia[; that is where my focus is right now.. Again, thanks.
Sarah HinzeDecember 31, 2021
Thanks for the inspiring article!
Kay RookhuyzenDecember 30, 2021
We have listened to your podcasts for the previous two years.
This was indeed a rip roaring beginning of our study of this wondrous group of scripture! Thank you so much!
frankieboyDecember 30, 2021
at my daughters Catholic elementary school in southern CA they did an event for the 5th grade class "Taste of America", where each kid had to bring a dish from the state they were assigned. All the kids who were assigned Utah brought Jello dishes. I guess stereotypes die hard :)
Kay RookhuyzenDecember 30, 2021
As usual your writing inspires me and makes me want to BE BETTER.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I LOVE your column.
Carolyn MadsonDecember 30, 2021
Thank you for the reminder of another year of wonderful articles that added clarity to a world of confusing and sometimes harsh commentary. I look forward to once again reading them.
MargaretDecember 30, 2021
Thank you for these words it has helped to see things about i have not considered before
KathleenDecember 29, 2021
Thank you for good reminders through great examples and in an inspiring way.
Patty BrightDecember 29, 2021
Thank you for sharing! This info motivates me.
KathleenDecember 29, 2021
Kudos to 'Santa!'
Old AbeDecember 29, 2021
Let's see. Ronald P. Millett thinks Christ was born on a passover in the BoM year 92. That would have been the 14th of Nisan, the year being 14 days old. Since the Nephites kept the law of Moses, proper dating was important. Nonetheless Jesus Christ died on the forth day of Nisan according to 3 Nephi 8:5. So the Nephite calender somehow was 10 days off. How is that possible using a lunisolar calendar? Differing one day is possible, but 10 days is not. In any case - if Christ was born on 14th Nisan, everything that is written about in 3 Nephi 1:4-13 happened in thirteen days. Aw, come on!
Jo Ann OkelberryDecember 29, 2021
This is a very informative and powerful article. I have never thought abortion was right, and this article really backs up my belief. Thank you.
Jo Ann OkelberryDecember 29, 2021
You have written some great one-liners. I especially liked, "Satan likes to masquerade as God."
Ben JonesDecember 29, 2021
A few days before Christmas, my wife got a call from a friend at Church who had to go to the emergency room and was worried about her 93-year-old mother, whom she had been taking care of. My wife organized a number of Sisters to help her accomplish the thankless task of dealing with a 93-year-old with dementia, exhausting herself in the process for several days. I exclaimed, "There are those who complain, 'Why doesn't the church help out?' They don't realize, the Church is YOU !" Which is to say that all those who are encouraged and organized by the Church to go about doing good, are the Church.
CarolDecember 29, 2021
Thank you for writing such great stories, I never miss reading your stories even when I pass on all the others! You never preach, just always have a point that touches my heart and helps me come unto Christ.
KathleenDecember 28, 2021
Thank you for that rip roaring start. I was having trouble transitioning from the Doctrine and Covenants. Now we're off and running!
Ann SiggardDecember 28, 2021
When I was in Qingdao, China teaching English with the BYU China Teachers Program, one day during the Christmas season my co-teacher and I went shopping at the mall and there were Christmas trees and lights everywhere and over the the loud speaker, in English, was the hymn "O Holy Night"! And...there was snow falling, which was also rare. It was a magical moment in a country that did not allow us to proseletyze and we were allowed to feel the magic and Spirit there!
HelenDecember 28, 2021
Merry Christmas and a FANTASTIC New Year, Doctor Dan!
Leah ThompsonDecember 27, 2021
This is an excellent article. I have been thinking lately about fence laws and principles and these thoughts have helped me better understand the how to use principles to help me live the gospel better. I love how you clarify that Pharisaical thinking is focused on how they can excuse their own disobedience and lower standards for themselves NOT hold others to a higher and holier way of living.
Troy WilliamsDecember 27, 2021
This is very well written! I read multiple articles last week about Mr. Green and his departure from the church. Each of them, as you mentioned, were so one-sided. But isn’t that typical for the majority of today’s media. I’m grateful that more truth was shared through your article. People need to see that the church and more importantly the people within the church are doing good things around the world. We are not perfect… But neither is anyone else.
Merry Christmas
al barrettDecember 27, 2021
Excellent article. Scatter radar is more accurate and less susceptible to weather and technical issues than gps.
DJDecember 27, 2021
Beautiful arrangement beautifully sung and put together! Thanks for sharing your talents and message!
DonnaDecember 27, 2021
What a wonderful collection of Nativities Sam and Carol Raines accumulated! Thanks for sharing this event. Even though Sam is "gone", his goodness and sharing will go on and on blessing those who will see his nativities. Thanks for posting!
Don McClureDecember 27, 2021
Is climate change having a significant impact on the icebergs?
MJ Darnel IIDecember 26, 2021
Some parts of this may provide some possible perspective, but remember this cuts both ways. The husband could actually be a controlling, narcissistic momma’s boy. And that would deem be considered abusive. And as a marriage counselor only see similar behaviors get worse over time. Verbal and psychological abuse can weigh a heavy burden for a spouse to carry by themselves. Yes the red flags as another commentedsuch as “ he will miss me” as an excuse stands out.
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Douglas E NadybalDecember 26, 2021
Suicides amongst males in the United States is triple the rate of females and that is not atypical for the rest of the world. Any article that fails to shine light on this gender disparity is of no more worth than a review of a restaurant that glosses over the quality of the food on the menu. To talk about the altitude as a causative factor deftly takes the reader around the issue while giving cover Utah and the Church. How about we discuss what on earth we are doing to our male populations?
ConcernedDecember 26, 2021
I enjoyed this well written article in response to Mr. Green’s public leaving of the Church. I really hate it when folks leave the Church; I worry for their souls and the souls of their posterity and friends. They know not what they do.
Years ago I read this little booklet written by Truman Madsen entitled,”Christ and the Inner Life”. In it he tells the story of when he was a bishop and a recent RM announces to him he is leaving the Church. Bishop Madsen then follows with an probing quick list of questions to the RM. “Do you feel the spirit when you partake of the sacrament? Do you feel the spirit as you study the Book of Mormon? Do you feel the spirit when you pray? Do you feel the spirit when you go and ponder in the Celestial room after an endowment session? Etc etc”
The RM answers no to all of the questions and actually states he does not read the Book of Mormon nor go to the temple or come to Church. Bishop Madsen then tells him he never was “in” the Church to which the RM complains and reports that he had served in all these callings as a YM and had served a mission. To which Bishop Madsen pointed out that he (Bishop Madsen) always felt the spirit when doing those things and worked to feel the spirit.
Well, he challenges (can we say that?) the RM to read the Book of Mormon every day, pray and go to Church and seek the spirit. He does and he changes.
Beethoven commented he wished he could be like Mozart and be “drenched” in music.
When we are baptized we are drenched.
Deeper seekerDecember 25, 2021
I recently learned of another exciting insight to add to this beautiful article. I may have some of the details a tad off, so correct and forgive my errors, but as I understood it, the shepherds would have been the shepherds that cared for the sheep that were used for the temple sacrifices in Jerusalem. They would take the first born male lambs and clean them off in a manger with special swaddling cloths given them by the temple priests. Those special lambs were for passover. Jesus IS the passover lamb. When the shepherds saw Jesus in a manger (it would have been stone) wrapped in swaddling clothes used for sacrificial lambs prepared for sacrifice, that was how they knew HE, the baby, was the fulfillment of Isaiah 53. That is why it was a sign to them.
AJ CurrieDecember 25, 2021
As Elder Bruce R. McConkie sais in one of his most famous General Conference talks, "...the caravan moves on."
Craig WoodfordDecember 24, 2021
I have learned, through sad experience, that the adversary chooses this traditionally festive time of year to distract us from celebrating the birth of our saviour, Jesus Christ's. The devil and those who follow him are bitter, petty creatures because they know their story ends in misery and woe. They strive to make all miserable like unto themselves. Let's not make their story ours. Let us rather look to Christ, learn of him and do his works in blessing the lives of all around us.
BonnieDecember 24, 2021
Excellent!
DonnaDecember 24, 2021
We LOVE your nativities! I wish we could see them all. We too have traveled and collected a few precious nativities that bring joy when we get them out. Consider showing us more of your nativities in a future addition! Thank you for the gift of your newsletter all year, which reminds me, it's time to contribute. Merry Christmas!
Sasha W KwapinskiDecember 24, 2021
It's interesting how those who believe that the LDS Church should become "politically correct" have apparently forgotten that those religious denominations which have gone the politically correct route are the ones which have been declining the fastest (not only in percentages, but in actual numbers ranging up into the millions) for well over half a century. I was around during the 1960's to see the beginnings of that trend, and I was a part of that "out-migration."
Denise Blackburn ChristensenDecember 24, 2021
oh how I loved looking at your Nativities! Thanks so much for sharing. They are beautiful and the one from Germany brings back memories of our recent trip and watching you and Maurine joyfully purchasing gifts for your children and grandchildren. Merry Christmas!
Raymond Takashi SwensonDecember 24, 2021
How in the world does this non-event qualify as "news"? The only reason for news media to publicize his statement is that they worship the wealthy. They are publicists for the expensively dressed great and spacious building crowd that ridicules the humble followers of Jesus Christ. Their actions demonstrate their fear of the effectiveness of millions of Latter-day Saint Christians who demonstrate daily that there is a powerful alternative to the self-appointed elites who denigrate the intelligence and integrity of those who do not worship the rich and influential. They do not believe in actual democracy, but use the word hypocritically like Lenin and Stalin to justify their control of the allegedly ignorant masses of people.
KathleenDecember 24, 2021
Thank you for bringing it all closer through your beautiful sound.
LindaDecember 23, 2021
From the book Beloved Bridegroom by Donna Nielson: Meanwhile, the bride was also busy making preparations for her future and the new life she would share with her husband. There was wedding clothing to prepare, including much elaborate colorful embroidery. Swaddling bands were also to be embroidered with symbols indicating family history and genealogy. According to ancient and modern custom, the embroidery, to be acceptable, must be exactly the same on both sides. This was a type showing that the outward life and the inner life were the same-they were never to have a "wrong side" to their character. Under the wedding canopy, these decorated bands would be tied around the clasped right hands on the bride and groom; hence the saying, "They tied the knot." These bands would later be used to fasten the swaddling clothes of their children.
Nielsen, DOnna. Beloved Bridegroom . Onyx Press. Kindle Edition. Location 551
JonDecember 23, 2021
I love this article. Made me think of teaming up with my ancestors. Kind of like missionary companions helping each other out on both sides of the veil.
CASDecember 23, 2021
This was absolutely delightful.
Paul HDecember 23, 2021
And yet how many artists paint the new-born infant naked? Even the painting for this story has Him with bare shoulders and chest. And of course the Wise Men never appeared at the manger either, but that's a whole different subject. Thanks for the information in this article.
AEatonDecember 23, 2021
Great article and a much needed voice to break through the confusion of the day.
Irene BlackDecember 23, 2021
Wonderful article!! Thanks for your insights and stories. I am alone this Christmas and you touched me deeply. Merry Christmas.
James ScottDecember 23, 2021
Yours is a very interesting and maybe significant essay. Certainly a good study. I wouldn’t wonder that in preparation for the birth Mary may have decorated some of the swaddling strips with embroidery or symbols of the tribe of Judah or even woven with Judah’s colors for certain wrapping positions, the head piece for example. A Star of David may have been too bold but she knew he was David’s heir. Today’s receiving blankets seem to be for the same purpose and are colored for the gender, blue and pink. We think white, but linen would have been a poor cloth for warmth, more likely wool therefore earth colors. Thanks again for your thoughtful contribution.
Pennie knottDecember 23, 2021
Mr. Green is so annoying. If he thinks his money makes him smarter or more special than the rest of us, he is wrong. What sets him apart is his purposeful effort to harm the work of the Lord. If he thinks he and his billions can do that he is wrong again. It’s a sad thing to kick against the pricks and pit yourself against the Almighty. I would not want to be him.
Patricia WintersDecember 23, 2021
Thank you so very much for this article, and for printing the transcript! It is very early in the morning now, and I don't want to wake my husband, who has health issues and is asleep a few feet from me. Being able to receive the content of this article without sound is a great blessing. I'm sure that Deaf persons appreciate this as well.
ObserverDecember 22, 2021
Phenomenal! Carry on!
MaryannDecember 22, 2021
Love it! Definitely the FIRST ONE!
LynnDecember 22, 2021
Beautiful article Mariah! Your perspective reinforces that God's ways are not man's ways. God seems to love a paradox--and there are so many examples in His plan.
karell binghamDecember 22, 2021
I absolutely loved the insights from "The Trill of Hope...! There is one scripture that kept coming to mind, one that I just love: "He telleth the number of the stars: he calleth them all by their names."
I always think to myself when I read that, "If he even knows the name of all those stars, surely he knows his children, even me.
I might have come across that scripture by reading one of your tremendous editorials, but I sure love what it implies!
T. BarrettDecember 22, 2021
Thank you, Brother Givens. Your words are always like rain in a desert to my soul.
EveDecember 21, 2021
Very thought provoking. Thank you!
Taressa E.December 21, 2021
I am again inspired by your words. Thank you Brother Callister!! The world would like us to think that being compassionate is to lower our expectations, give people a break, not put demands on others or reduce requirements for select groups.
Thank you for reminding us that it is truly LOVE, COMPASSION and RESPECT for others when expections are set, the bar remains high, and we believe in their alitities to succeed! I am grateful for parents, leaders, teachers and friends that helped me achieve hard things and didn't make it easier but supported and believed in me! That is love. That is compassion.
Susan RatherDecember 21, 2021
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Reid EverettDecember 21, 2021
Very interesting and stimulating thoughts. Perhaps in the modern church, the familial or surname is more important than the given name when blessing infants. My familial name has generations of honor and goodwill attached to it that I have tried to grow into, support and sustain.
Pennie knottDecember 21, 2021
Very well said. I have her book. She is to be admired for her courage.
Patty ListonDecember 21, 2021
I am in awe of the truth and beauty of your words. Thank you for affirming the great gift of a name and the profound Joy of being able to take upon us His.
Deana BradenDecember 20, 2021
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
David CormackDecember 20, 2021
Great article! I have another thought on the Crown of Thorns. It was a sign of Christ breaking the curse set in Garden of Eden so the earth will be renewed and receive its paradisiacal glory.
Kent PorterDecember 20, 2021
I appreciate the insights and also thought of the shepherds who watched the flocks of sheep. I understand a protective ring of thorn bushes (thorns) would be made to protect the flock from the wolves or other predators that may try to get at them during the dark hours of night or rest. It came to me we might look at thorns as being "protective" as we learn of their potential with life's experiences and can use such lesson to avoid the many "predators"trying to get at us as we continue the "good race". It's good to know both edges of the sword in order to avoid being "cut" too deeply.
Sonja ErvinDecember 20, 2021
The lovely song was beautifully sung! Such a pleasure to hear it and yes, it definitely brightened my day! Thank you for sharing your talents.
AllisonDecember 20, 2021
Since Passover was and is celebrated in the spring, the leaves would be freshly opened on the crown of thorns tree.
karell binghamDecember 20, 2021
Perhaps one could say that the thorns were a symbol of the fall of man. That being said the crown of thorns that the Savior had on his head could very well mean that He took upon him our mortality as well as our sins.
Oakley EatonDecember 20, 2021
Beautiful Christmas rendition of ‘Far Away’ It makes the Savior feel so close. Thank you Elders and Sisters. Love this!
J. DicksonDecember 20, 2021
The myrrh tree may very well have been the source for the crown of thorns. Googling “myrrh” will result in images of the tree’s cruelty thorny branches. If so, this would make yet another gift of the wise men extremely symbolic and prophetic.
JobDecember 19, 2021
Thank you Brother McCallaster for this excellent article! Have a great day.
Anna PowellDecember 19, 2021
Lovely, just lovely, thank you!
BeraDecember 19, 2021
Very inspiring article. The Lord indeed will not forsake us, even in our times of trial and affliction. Thank you for reminding us.
Maryann TaylorDecember 18, 2021
What beautiful advice! This is applicable for everyone beyond the subject of infidelity. We can allow our sad emotions and thoughts to flow past us without vigorously fighting them. We can call upon our Savior to help us put them in proper perspective and to let them go.
Cyndi H.December 17, 2021
Excellent article! We have the divine abilities to become as our Heavenly Father and Mother, but, we need to rise to our capacity and potential. Expecting less doesn't help anyone in this life or the next!
Gary OliverDecember 17, 2021
Geoff, having experienced a very similar thing in my life (for over 40 years) I am amazed at how inciteful and helpful is your counsel. "Loose ends" are most difficult to endure and resolve while grieving. Please continue to "lift the hands and [heads] that hang down" and dry as many tears as you can.
Marla SmakaDecember 17, 2021
I totally agree with everything in this piece. There have been many, many articles written in the old Ensign, and I remember only one article that spoke of the absolute joy of children receiving material gifts at Christmas.
WendyDecember 17, 2021
This is so totally appropriate in the USA today. I want to exceed my own expectations after reading it, and I’m 74!
BlueDecember 16, 2021
Your mind and spirit are so beautiful. Thank you for the example of both these traits that you exhibit so consistently.
Maryann TaylorDecember 15, 2021
My husband is certain that we were close before coming to earth and that our marriage was decided there. I would like to believe that--however, there are just too many variables. People die in accidents or wars who never had the chance to marry. People marry and divorce, then marry and divorce again. There is just too much human error, and also events we cannot control, for me to believe that EVERY relationship was foreordained. On the other hand, I think we did have SOME choice about the family relationships that would be formed here, especially children and parents. Then again, some people may have chosen to have 5 children in the premortal realm and when faced with limited resources only had 3. Those other two children have to go somewhere, right? Again--too many human variables. I DO very much look forward to being reunited with all my friends and the people I was close to in my premortal life. I won't be surprised at all to find I interacted with them both in the premortal world and on earth.
HalDecember 15, 2021
Thank you for this article! I have often felt I knew someone the instant I met them. My hope is I can look at each person I meet and think "I may have known this person in my pre-mortal life."
RPDecember 15, 2021
I have always known that this is the case. More recently I have come to understand that we had close siblings in the Pre-earth life. When I was seventeen I became good friends with someone through seminary. Then we went our separate ways to college and then marriage. I didn't talk to her for 30 years. Then she came back into my life and ended up being a Personal Care Attendant for a couple of my disabled children.
Having her at my house nearly every day has been a total joy. The really funny thing was that right from the beginning, even after 30 years, we had similar quirks. We could tell what the other one was thinking and our opinions on most everything were the same. It drives our children a bit crazy when we are together.
We prayed about it and both received a confirmation that not only were we siblings in the same household, but that we were twin spirits - sent to separate households on earth to help the people in those families. Heavenly Father brought us back together at a time when we both desperately needed each others support.
Ron BarnesDecember 15, 2021
Ever since I was rather young, I always knew that there was one woman that I was destined to marry. When I asked my future wife for a date, I wasn't really interested in her, I just needed a date. The day after that first date I began telling people that I had found the girl I was destined to marry. We were both 17. I have always honestly believed that we arranged it before we were born.
Maryann TaylorDecember 14, 2021
My husband's humor has saved me from feeling weighed down on many occasions. Laughing together has brought so much joy to our marriage. It is so easy to take ourselves too seriously. Humor dispels gloom and gives us a fresh perspective. We focus so much on the topic of adversity in church discussions---sometimes I think it is overkill. We need to lift up our hearts and rejoice more.
Linda WillisDecember 14, 2021
Speaking of gifts, thank you for this thought provoking article that rings so true to those stumbling along the path to exaltation. The vision you share and the honesty in which you reveal yourself gives us seekers of Jesus some additional light. Love your sense of humor, your mind, and your heart. Your words have touched my soul.
MaryannDecember 14, 2021
One of my favorite scriptures is 2 Ne 2:2 where Lehi reassures his son, Jacob. "...thou knowest the greatness of God; and he shall consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain." No matter how difficult our challenges may be, our Heavenly Father can bring about miracles to bless us. As so many of us are seeing some of our children wandering away from the gospel path, we can have a hope in Christ that he will continue to call after them and that miracles can occur to help them return.
C. SavageDecember 14, 2021
Well said Brother Teichert. It is good to read articles like this one, reminding us that when we walk through the valleys of heartache and disappointment, we are still walking, moving forward. The valleys are temporary. Your insight reminds us to keep our eternal perspective in all things. Thank you.
LewisDecember 14, 2021
What beautiful thoughts! As I reflect on the life of the Savior, it was a life of giving, of service and of love. Sometimes I think we can get all wrapped up in the minutia of doctrine, or law, or tradition, and lose sight of the purity and beauty of his life. Thank you for reminding us.
Kay CoxDecember 14, 2021
I enjoyed this article and loved the comparison of pacemaker and peacemaker. I do enjoy all of your articles. You have a unique perspective that causes me to ponder and ask questions. Thank you for your insights.
PatDecember 14, 2021
While you are very much an earthling, your words are very much heavenly. This article is beyond beautiful, just as those you have previously written wor Meridian Magazine. Thank you so much.
JulieDecember 14, 2021
I really really like this. I have found it to be oh so true in my life. Thank you for sharing.
Joy LundbergDecember 13, 2021
Thank you for this inspiring article. Bless you for all the good you bring into the world. My prayers are with you and all those who serve others in need. You are not "trying to be like Jesus", you ARE being like Jesus.
Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 13, 2021
This is a wonderful article with lots of great quotations from General Authorities. We're having a problem with a child who wants to change gender, and it's been very difficult for us. However, we love her even though we do not accept her decision to change. Thanks for sharing this with us.
Richard EastwoodDecember 13, 2021
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Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 13, 2021
Wonderful article. The book by Arduini must be very interesting. I wonder if it's been translated into English. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge with us.
Ron BarnesDecember 13, 2021
The more knowledge a person has, the greater their capacity for finding humor. Having ultimate knowledge, exalted beings would have an ultimate sense of humor. They would laugh at things that we don't, and they would not laugh at things that we do.
Elizabeth SmithDecember 13, 2021
Thanks, Gary. I needed a chuckle today.
KCDecember 12, 2021
Yes, it would make things much cheaper and easier, more convenient and I believe the young would feel more understood. The elderly may have a more difficult time w/it because learning a new language late in life is tougher.
I've observed over the years the deaf community is fiercely protective of itself. I've been told by deaf persons that they are a unique group, one that doesn't let in outsiders. The understanding was they are not disintegrated from society at large. They said because of their condition they understand the world so very differently than the rest of us, they would not want to be integrated and lose what makes them special--their unique way of experiencing/processing the world.
I've lived with deaf individuals and taken ASL classes, I applaud the efforts but I know some deaf persons who might balk at them.
MaryannDecember 12, 2021
I am confused as to how he is hoarding if he won't "spend a dime."??
However, I agree with Bro. Steurer that hoarding is difficult to treat. We have acquaintances who ended their marriage because of this issue. I hope this woman will think long and hard before committing herself.
Rosalie E. StoneDecember 12, 2021
The way that you developed the idea of "The Articles of Faith" being a call to action as well as a statement of beliefs is so beautifully energizing! I'm grateful that I can use daily repentance to help me follow the practical suggestions you offered for each one––because I know I will often fall short. But I will persevere, feeling certain that those suggestions will help me to be more sensitive to spiritual promptings that can bring blessings those around me as well as myself. Thank you for this inspiring Sunday school lesson!
MarkDecember 11, 2021
Some of the comments to this story are so clueless it is painful to read them. Reducing women to body parts? How about just recognizing that breasts, legs, and derrieres are visually stimulating to men. Remember, we didn't wake up one morning and think to ourselves, boy, I'd sure think it would be great to involuntarily give a significant chunk of my self-control to any reasonably attractive woman who wants to dress immodestly. Our visual sex drive came from Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother but that doesn't matter to modern women because they really aren't into reality, they think they can make things be what they want them to be.
So, men are supposed to learn how to see female immodesty and still have self-control. Great, but forget about getting married--yes, most men aren't getting married if their sex drive doesn't push them to it. What children and a husband to help raise those children. Then be glad men have a visually based sex drive.
It is a kindness to men who are interested in chastity to dress modestly and to do otherwise is proud, arrogant, and shows that you don't care what God thinks about it all. Yes, men can control their thoughts--but for most of us, that consists of avoiding women who are dressed immodestly. Typically, if a man can avoid being aroused to one degree or another by an immodest woman, it is because he consumes pornography on a regular basis and has difficulty being aroused in a normal manner.
MaureenDecember 11, 2021
Good answers and advice Jeff. I live with and next door to hoarders, both of whom have, because of those they live with, learned to curb, or at least partition their "stuff" to their own space. If he's really got lots of money, too, a separate storage or even apartment, just for his accumulations ought to be easy enough to arrange. But it's probably the bigger issues of OCD, etc. that aren't as easily tucked away and may cause friction in closer, longer interaction. Good chance, at this age, the emotional/mental issues underlying the hoarding aren't going away, even if the clutter gets managed. I'd check out the veracity of the vast wealth, too. Somehow, I doubt it.
Harold RustDecember 11, 2021
This newspaper clipping is a reminder that there are so many "stories behind the story" regarding those who lived several generations ago. Imagine the details of such a situation where the rumors were so rampant and vicious that Alvin's father would feel compelled to exhume his grave and personally check the status of his body in the casket. One does not do that unless there is overpowering evidence that someone might have done such a dastardly deed. This is the environment the entire Smith family endured for their decade living in Palmyra following Joseph's vision from God.
BobDecember 11, 2021
Gave it a try and couldn’t finish it. Just too cliche and kind of dumb. And no magic among the leading characters.
Debbi M.December 10, 2021
Wonderful and thoughtful article. TY for sharing. We all need to be aware of women in this scary position and learn how to direct them to real help and support.
tfDecember 10, 2021
Reading the title chapter of "Andy Warhol was a Hoarder" by Claudia Kalb (subtitled "Inside the Minds of History's Great Personalities") may be an interesting exercise. I'm sure there are many other things out there on the subject. She probably doesn't want to marry this guy.
BrynnDecember 10, 2021
I would add an additional thought… You said this man has millions but “won’t spend a dime”. A friend of mine married a man who also fit that description. While she knew about this tendency when they were dating, she had not fully thought through what it would mean during their marriage. It has become highly challenging for her as he has refused to spend any money, not only on things she might hope for, but also for things she needs. Even though she works and has an income of her own, he is always arguing with her about issues like why she can’t get less expensive lenses for her glasses than what her eye doctor recommended or why they need to replace household fixtures that are broken (even though they can afford it). It has caused her to feel she isn’t important to him and he doesn’t perceive her to be a full partner in the marriage. And constantly dealing with different perspectives of how to use their financial resources has been emotionally draining and harmful to their relationship. Be aware that while this might seem to be merely a tendency towards thriftiness or a personal quirk while dating, if he has a drive to “hoard money”, that has the potential for becoming a much deeper issue if you marry and view the use of financial resources very differently. And as Geoff describes if he has a mental drive to "hoard" money, that will likely not be easy to change.
LexaGraemeDecember 9, 2021
I also add my thanks for this article.
Pam RoderDecember 9, 2021
This article was most informative and I very much appreciate Dan Peterson for writing it. I learned a great deal from his research and thankful he took the time to write for Meridian Magazine.
Thanks so much Daniel. I've learned so much from you.
Mark R BischoffDecember 9, 2021
I am the great-grandson of Mariner Wood Merrill and I have never heard this story before. There are other very interesting stories about him that have been shared and passed down in the family but I'm a bit shocked that this hasn't been one of them. What a fantastic experience. Thank you for printing this!
Paralee EckmanDecember 9, 2021
This is an especially fascinating article, and I am thankful to Daniel Peterson for preparing it, and Meridian for printing it.
Dixie BarlowDecember 9, 2021
Thank you for these ways to enlarge the Christmas Spirit in our families.
Harold RustDecember 9, 2021
A tender story regarding faith, trust, and challenging relationships. A very interesting parallel story can be found in the Autobiography of Mary Woolley Chamberlain (my grandmother's sister) who also married a man who had wives and children still living. In Mary's case, however, she was married a decade after the Manifesto rather than a decade before it was declared. Her testimony of the Gospel and of the principle of plural marriage as well as her praise and respect for her husband are a wonderful post-script to the words of Lorena Larsen. Both examples highlight the deeper purpose of such an Abrahamic sacrifice.
KristenDecember 9, 2021
This is a well-written, beautiful compilation of quotes and testimonies of the importance of eternal family ties. Thank you.
Lisa G.December 8, 2021
Lorena Larsen is my great-great-grandmother. I stumbled upon her autobiography in college while browsing books in the library at BYU. Often I wanted to share her story when discussions of plural marriage came up online, but I received impressions not to do so because I could not guarantee that her story would be used for good. Later, when the Church shared her story in Saints, Vol. 2, I understood why I had felt impressed to wait until her story could be shared in the right way. I was also pleasantly surprised to see this article in Meridian Magazine.
To the commenter previous who wanted to know "the rest of the story", if you click the link in the footnotes to Lorena's autobiography, you can read in her own words everything that happened afterward.
Linda WillisDecember 8, 2021
Thank you Brother Thayne for an article filled with truth and compassion. It seems like we are all being given an abundance of opportunities to search our hearts, stretch our minds and call into the action the gift of discernment to understand all gender issues. We have the tools if we choose to listen carefully and read constantly the words of our leaders. It is never wise to get in front of them while claiming to follow them.
Nancy H.December 8, 2021
My mother always pieced together quilts for her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She then hand quilted them. This article brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing.
13th a of fDecember 8, 2021
This movie creates a new category- COMrom! So much comedy with the romance! We laughed all through it! Every time you watch it, you catch more funny moments! A MUST see.
HalDecember 8, 2021
Thank you for your courage and for this thought-provoking and compassionate message.
TandartDecember 8, 2021
Excellent message! I am convinced that self-pity is our most negative and destructive emotion. We are here to act, not be acted upon. Dealing with depression for much of my 75 years has blessed me in ways I could not have otherwise have received.
PennieDecember 8, 2021
Thank you for so much clarity on a subject that is confusing to many. I would wish we all could comprehend and apply what you have expressed here.
Douglas NadybalDecember 8, 2021
Yes He is unscripted and unpredictable...or so it seems to us. To one, he beckons to come unto Him, to another He says "go and sin no more." We should just content ourselves in being happy to understand His commands and forget about trying to thing we have Him figured out. Man cannot comprehend God.
KathleenDecember 7, 2021
Thanks for the reminder. It's been a lot of years and I forgot the scene and it being used in President Monson's talk. We all have situations to rectify.
Ed GayhartDecember 7, 2021
Wow
The Good News of the Savior never fails!
JANEEN FULLERDecember 7, 2021
this is one of my favorite christmas hymns...this is a job well done and I am sure that the Lord is well pleases with his ambassadors
Kenny MazzantiDecember 7, 2021
Another good reason that having Americans who will exercise their right to keep and bear arms is appropriate inside of our church buildings. Three years ago a member in Fallon Nevada murdered another member during Sacrament Meeting while other members watched helplessly. I prevented an armed robbery in my own ward 10 years ago because the robbers did not want to deal with an armed member who stood up to them. They simply left the building when confronted. No harm was allowed to be done.
Carlos RoundyDecember 7, 2021
Jesus took the Holy Spirit for his guide, he led a unscripted life, he did what the spirit told him to do.
Jo Ann OkelberryDecember 7, 2021
This rendition is so touching and inspiring. Love those missionaries.
MickeyDecember 7, 2021
Why does everything have to be about losing weight? Being fat is not a medical condition! And In fact BMI 27 has the longest longevity. Our bodies are programmed to gain over time as we age; this is actually how our bodies were made by Heavenly Father. Healthy bodies can happen at many sizes. This push to be losing weight at all times is contributing to a huge problem with deadly eating disorders. You do not need to be “less” to be a worthwhile and valuable child of God.
karell binghamDecember 7, 2021
I love the spirit that I have felt reading this great essay! Thank you so much for your time and effort! May you have great blessings because of your testimonies!
Douglas E NadybalDecember 6, 2021
This is a wonderful instruction on what to do for and specifically how to pray for and on behalf of those in our circle upon which the Lord has made His decision to take something precious away. Be it marriage or even death, our comfort is ultimately that Person in the Godhead entitled, The Comforter. That said, and I am a bit surprised that such an accomplished scholar and editor would omit the rest of the story, and leave us to wonder what ever happened to Lorena Larsen after her marriage was forcefully terminated. Was she indeed cast out as was Hagar? Did anyone help her and her children? Did the Church do anything for her and others like her?
Gary AndersonDecember 6, 2021
Thank you Brother Harper! I come from plural marriage pioneers who traveled to Utah in the 1800s on both sides of my family and without them, I wouldn't be here. I love them all so much. They were extremely brave and obedient to Heavenly Father's will.
James ScottDecember 6, 2021
I read many accounts of such separations, including that of my own gig other with sadness and disappointment. I’ve never read an account save one of how these women coped with being cut off or how the father related to his children of the abandoned families. Did they visit, did they provide for them?
I do know many refused the government edict and the Manifesto and continued in their course of polygamy and the Endowment House had to be raised.
Are there reports of the fate of these women that abandoned the practice and remarried?
BeckyDecember 5, 2021
This is an incredibly vulnerable question and I appreciate you recognizing that there is potential for things to go too far.
David SampsonDecember 5, 2021
Very inspiring and enlightening. Thank you so much for taking the time to dig into the details of this topic.
As a side comment... just for your understanding... there are several areas where your use of pronouns is confusing about whom you are speaking. For example, when you spoke of President Nelson's ancestors I often didn't know to which relative "his" was referring.
LoraDecember 5, 2021
When my children were in public school, I came up with mental health days for their sake. They needed a break from the relentless pressure of crowd control, daily homework, certain bad teachers, and the over all chaos. Meanwhile, I considered longer-term solutions. We ended up leaving public school and that has made all the difference.
I shudder to think of what children are being exposed to these days. Parents need to be aware and responsive.
If your vacation is merely a run-away-from-life, then it will do little for you on any level. But many vacations can be very different from that: enrichment, not denial.
Purpose- in education, in vacation, anywhere- makes the difference.
Maryann TaylorDecember 4, 2021
Wow! What great articles. We so often struggle, looking beyond the mark, when some of our suffering can be lightened by applying the basic principles of the Word of Wisdom. As one who has suffered from varying degrees of depression for most of my life, I recognize that I need to get to bed earlier, eat a more healthy diet and get more exercise. I appreciate your gentleness in urging that we can start with small steps and work from there. Otherwise, it becomes overwhelming and just another way of feeding the depression. I have found great strength and power in meditating on the scriptures and attending the temple. We need to bring as much light into our being as possible. I have felt the Savior carrying my burdens and I am so grateful for him and his power manifested in my life. My depression is not gone, but it so much better than it was.
RaLee HallDecember 4, 2021
Thank you, Jacob Hess, for all of your articles. I learn so much from them and have sent some of your thoughts and ideas to a son who suffers from depression.
Your articles are always worthwhile reading
WallyDecember 3, 2021
Wise counsel, Geoff.
Lorena HolmsteadDecember 3, 2021
This is one of the most valuable resources for healing (mental, physical, emotional and spritiual) that I have ever come across. The resources shared, the insight, the compassion, the truth - all of it - deeply moving. I will share far and wide, because this is a deep-seated passion for me too. Thank you, Jacob!
vickieDecember 3, 2021
i understand what david is talking about. i have a son who is gay and got married to a partner and forgoing the church. he was a missionary and he knows the truth, but what i saw was him searching for love. he was 35 when he came out. the only thing i can do is pray for him and his partner. but i love him very much and will continue to love him that much. his father feels the same way. so i am sypathetic to the LGBTQ group because to me that would be the hardest thing in the world to cope with.
zCatLadyDecember 3, 2021
Thank you for insightful articles that are filled with hope and honesty. I have suffered with mental illness for almost 50 years without hope of getting better. I am learning to accept that I won't truly be whole until the next life, yet now I see that I can make improvement in this life.
HeatherDecember 2, 2021
Such a wake up call! It’s so easy to be complacent when our own needs are met and we have enough to eat ourselves! Thank you for the invitation to think more of those who are suffering♥️
pam roderDecember 2, 2021
I will echo Joy Baird's praise. Thank you, thank you.
A.S.H.December 2, 2021
Emma Somerville was my 3rd great-grandmother and her story is incredible. Oftentimes, learning about her life has been a source of faith, and hope for me. I'm so grateful that I know this story, and that I can try to apply it to my own life and I know that by serving others I am serving Christ. Thank you for sharing this.
Rita MillerDecember 2, 2021
I, too, have Pilgrim ancestors, through Capt. Myles Standish and John Alden. The fact that tens of millions of other Americans have similar ancestry is somehow very comforting. The troubles we are currently going through will not defeat us; our family ties bind us, even if we aren't currently aware of them. Those on the other side of the veil are always with us, cheering us on.
KJBDecember 2, 2021
There's a simple test for those who claim that they're "advocating for life": If Roe is thrown out next year, then you should immediately insist that any fetus is conceived during a calendar year is now tax-deductible. The instant a woman becomes pregnant, she can declare a new dependent and reap the benefits on her next return. If an unborn child is really "alive", this should be a no brainer. Put your money where your mouth is, guys...
Joy BairdDecember 2, 2021
Thank you, thank you ,thank you for this outstanding article! I will share this with many and watch for more information coming.
Maryann TaylorDecember 1, 2021
Thank you for confirming my thoughts that one of the reasons that Emma stayed in Nauvoo was probably because the Prophet's mother, Lucy, was not strong enough for the journey. I hope that none of us are ever critical of Emma for any reason. We cannot begin to really understand all that she endured. Perhaps, through her many great sacrifices and obedience, she had already secured her exaltation. Perhaps it was better for her to remain with Lucy and she was not required by the Lord to go to the Salt Lake Valley. Whatever the case, I believe she is still "An Elect Lady," as recorded in D&C 25:3, "Behold, thy sins are forgiven thee, and thou art an elect lady, whom I have called."
Carlos RoundyDecember 1, 2021
Joseph and Emma also baried 4 or 5 children in the Nauvoo area.
Candace J BarrowsDecember 1, 2021
This tender story has really touched my heart, We need to be reminded often of our Heavenly Father's love for us
Herm OlsenDecember 1, 2021
Excellent article. In my youth, it was common practice in the Church to criticize Emma (which reflected the Brigham Young interpretation of life). But I was always cautious about any such criticism, because I knew how passionately devoted Joseph was to Emma. And I feared I would have to face Joseph one day to answer for any criticism I might have otherwise made. I still believe that, and am pleased that the Church has taken a rather more sympathetic view of Emma in recent decades.
Anna Louise HetzelNovember 30, 2021
Thank you, Vivian, for a wonderfully written article, with much to ponder.
KathleenNovember 30, 2021
Thank you for sharing such tender things. They enlarged my heart.
Spencer McConkieNovember 30, 2021
Thank you for this beautifully written article.
RC H.November 29, 2021
“Boundaries” has become such a trigger word. How about greater focus on love-based bridges as the first resort?!
Maryann TaylorNovember 29, 2021
It is a very small world!!! I am also a descendant of William White, through his son, Peregrine, the first baby to be born from the Mayflower party in America. It is so exciting to read of our ancestors, and their strength and endurance help to bolster my courage. It also enlarges my gratitude to our Heavenly Father for giving us this great, choice land, and for all the comforts we enjoy that our ancestors did not.
Mark Deppe, descendant of Thomas Winward buried in Nauvoo.November 29, 2021
Wonderful pictures and family history content. How could I get a copy of this original article?
Rochelle HaleNovember 29, 2021
Congratulations on your bead piece being accepted into the art competition. My hoped-for dancing and singing talents were side-lined a number of years ago due to age and surgery, though I still hope for some opportunity. Now my creativity mostly comes through writing. I was recently asked to write a Christmas story that will be the theme of our church holiday dinner. Talk about weight on my shoulders!!! Nevertheless, in one afternoon, through the inspiration of the Spirit (and maybe Heavenly Mother?) I was able to knock off a draft, then polish it up within the week. I don't usually pat myself on the back, but when I read this piece I can hardly believe I wrote it. I know it came through inspiration.
DennisNovember 28, 2021
My daughter started raising chickens a few years ago. They all became members of the family. She named them after her favorite Beatles songs. Lucy, black bird, Elinor, Prudence, etc. As Soon as they get into their new house she's going back into the chicken business. She loves her girls!
Karyl MorganNovember 28, 2021
I feel this virus, vaccine, masks, etc is about the journey you all have taken not about your destination. Maybe it's not about taking a vaccine but about growing closer to the Lord by following counsel to read scripture, pray, fast ponder, etc to find the answer that works for your body. No one on this earth is 100 percent following the prophet. We all need to reassess ourselves about our daily gospel "habits." Everyone needs repentance daily. Perhaps the Lord wants us to learn to make our own spiritual decisions and not judge or persecute others who make different decisions. We are all God's children and his love for the billion plus people who have taken or are now taking their earthly journey now is unconditional.
Grandma GigiNovember 27, 2021
I believe boundaries are what people with “control” issues seem to need. The Scriptures don’t show the Savior “controlling” people. You also won’t find the words “toxic”, “dysfunctional” or other nonsense spoken of in General Conference. My daughter-in-law uses these terms all the time. Her parents are both Psychologists. It’s always awkward to be around them and experience the manipulating behaviors.
Vivian M AdamsNovember 26, 2021
Thank you for a beautiful article on The Vision of the Redemption of the Dead.
JONATHAN ATKINSONNovember 26, 2021
Why???
Americans entered the war in 1917 by declaring war on Germany. This was due to the attack on Lusitania, the unrestricted submarine warfare on American ships heading to Britain, and Germany encouraging Mexico to attack the USA. A British passenger ship that was sunk by a German U-Boat on May 7, 1915.
Pat HarkerNovember 26, 2021
Wonderful article; thank you!
KatrinaNovember 26, 2021
My maiden name is Holden. Alot of my dads family are from Manchester, England.
Scott BrownNovember 25, 2021
D. Herrin - Thank you. I would like to work with the LDS Citation Index and contacted them two years ago. At that time, they told me that there was no one actively working on the project and thus no one for me to work with. I remain interested in collaborating with them.
Stephanie tollerNovember 25, 2021
Thanks for the article. I just read Tim Ballard’s book and it is excellent. I know we all look to the Mayflower passengers as the ultimate American pedigree but I also love those that came on the Fortune in 1621 and the Anne in 1623. They stayed behind to help raise more money and make more preparations. They were needed reinforcements for those that went on the Mayflower. We have ancestors that were on all three and I stand in awe with a heart full of gratitude for who they were and the sacrifices that they made. Happy Thanksgiving!!
GrannyNovember 25, 2021
Thank you for the article! I'm grateful for Meridian Magazine and people who write. A lot to THINK about and give THANKS for today and everyday. Wishing you a blessed and joyful day.
Justin MNovember 24, 2021
I thoroughly enjoyed "The Pilgrim Hypothesis". Full of things to think about and ponder. Many areas to be thankful for.
SHARLENE CORBRIDGENovember 24, 2021
I really enjoy reading Daris Howard's articles, both here in tthe Meridian and my local news paper. They are always fun.
JenniferNovember 24, 2021
While this is good general advice, it is not always true. Especially if your family member has a severe mental illness or personality disorder. Sometimes they are trying to destroy your life. You are not required to stay married to an abuser. You are not required to have them to your holiday celebrations. You are not required to let them have you arrested. If you think this is not happening, get some divorced friends.
HalNovember 22, 2021
Thank you for this powerful and informative article. I am still astounded by the number of people, even today, who think the persecution of the early Saints was solely due to opposition to plural marriage. Because the Constitution and the Bill of Rights were not firmly entrenched in the still young nation, it was easy for mobs to form to enforce their idea of "freedom" by violence. Sadly, we have seen this recently as well as a method of forcing ideas of racial equality without due process. I believe the Civil War was a direct consequence of the general populace of the nation refusing to uphold the rights of individuals regarding religion and slavery. I hope we don't relive that horror, but it looks like we are headed down that road.
CDNovember 22, 2021
His wanting sex more than her sounds like a normal guy and her response sounds about normal for a woman, particularly an older woman with a religious background. What troubles me about this, especially from a guys viewpoint is that he doesn't seem to be doing anything else but asking for sex or waiting around thinking about it. Not helping with the yard work or around the house or having any activities or hobbies is not normal or healthy, even more so if he's not doing it because he's not getting sex. He needs to talk to counselor and/or a doctor. For her I would recommend reading Sister Laura Brotherson's book or the book Real Intimacy or The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands and any of Sheila Wray Greg life's articles or books.
Beverly Barnt MooreNovember 22, 2021
I was an only child living most of my young life in the country with no neighbor children to interact with so I learned from early on how to entertain myself and my own happiness. I was married and first widowed at 18 and then after another marriage and he left me I finally ended up of retirement age alone and now over 30 years alone I had learned how to be happy alone so the pandemic "stay at home" time was no big deal for me. No loneliness, no depression, no anxious times. Just peace and joy to be healthy and alive and loved even when the family couldn't come to visit. So my take on good mental health is to love yourself and learn to enjoy life alone.
Wendy EllisNovember 22, 2021
Thanks for the "thorns" story. We all need to be reminded that it takes challenges in order for us to grow.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Anonymous for obvious reasonsNovember 22, 2021
It is unfortunate that more people do not understand the physiological effects of chronic aging and disease on the act of intimacy on both men and women.
To be brief, when sexual difficulties are encountered, a man will become hypersexual attempting to "burn" through and fix the problem where a woman will become hyposexual and retreat from the problem. I realize that this description is a generalization and that situations outside the norm are a given.
I returned from my mission, got married and soon developed acute prostatitis that soon developed into a deep chronic infection that made completion of intimacy painful. I too, became hypersexual making excessive demands on my wife.
Diabetes, injuries with neurological damage, an improper circumcision, hypertension, hormonal disorders are some of the things that can affect sexual sensation that is experienced.
Love, consideration, care and understanding are needed by both husband and wife in such situations.
Such things are experienced by both sexes as we age and as "opposition in all things" is experienced.
Again, it is indeed unfortunate that such things are not understood because if they were, I know that much frustration and unhappiness in this mortal existence could be avoided.
MichelleNovember 21, 2021
That’s some amazing breakdowns—thank you so much for taking the time to share your insights. I’ve often wished I could index my family history journals the same way. I’d love to see the pattens and themes in my ancestors lives as well.
Debra AlticeNovember 21, 2021
H North ... I understand your frustration however if you listen carefully to the principles in his address... President Oakes address was NOT about abandoning any values. If anyone has a right to speak about where lines should be drawn... it is this senior apostle of the Lord and he was not asking us to reconcile sin at all! But he was advocating for loving our fellow men and being willing to sit down together to work out issues as peacefully as we can. God Himself has a right to be as extreme as he wants when he sees the need but not us. We do not have the right to get on our self righteous "high horse" and turn to vigilantism in the name of religion but neither do those who see differently than us or are non religious have a right to impinge our basic religious freedoms which are God given and enthroned in our Constitution. He was calling both sides to come to the table and negotiate peacefully where possible. In this imperfect world there must be some level of compromise in order to live together peacefully.
Jessica WhitakerNovember 21, 2021
Sounds like the husband may be viewing pornography, have a history of sexual abuse, and/or lack developmental maturity. The wife may be wisely stearing clear of any creepy encounters.
Jill A.November 21, 2021
Wow I wish I could have had this counsel when I was married and several different counselors recommended committing to sex three times a week, which I did, and of course didn't help. This counsel makes so much sense. Thank you
MickeyNovember 21, 2021
This man sounds extremely selfish and like he is addicted to pornography.
ClaudiaNovember 21, 2021
Beautiful voice and beautiful song. This calms my soul.
Anonymous for obvious reasonsNovember 20, 2021
I would like to add this…. As a man feels like his sexual stamina if waining, he may behave is ways to desperately to stave off the inevitable decline. Trust me on this. As I have aged, I have felt increased desire for sexual fulfillment just to prove to myself that “I am as good as I ever was.” (To borrow a line from Toby Keith.)
I would recommend that along with Mr. Steurer’s recommendations, you compliment him on his love-making as well as other things even when you are not going to fulfill his desires. Reassure him that he is fine, loved, and desirable whether or not you are having sex.. So those occasions that you do not of cannot meet his needs, he doesn’t take is as an affront or a rejection.
My wife has done this and we enjoy healthy intimate relationship both sexually and emotionally, with a lot of love and laughter. And it’s okay as I age. It isn’t like it was. But I am literally head over heels devoted to her and the attention she can and does give me.
tfNovember 20, 2021
Is he addicted to porn?
Linda WillisNovember 20, 2021
It's unfortunate that a world-wide pandemic (health issue) has morphed into a political/ my freedom protest. As a health educator I have supported mandatory safety belt use, a variety of legislation limiting tobacco use, and laws against drunk driving and vaccines to protect children from small pox and polio. When a private choice has a public consequence, then legislation is needed to protect the population. Compassion requires that we protect each other and replace our "rights" with our responsibility to be good world citizens.
D. HerrinNovember 20, 2021
Nice work. I am curious why you weren’t able to use like data out of the LDS Citation Index curated by the team at BYU? Appears to be a major duplication of effort. Thanks.
Myrna LiddellNovember 20, 2021
We have enjoyed everything from Thrive as do our friends who introduced the products to us. This recipe sounds and look yummy and who knew it only uses "1/4" cup of Water!
Remember drinking water is your number one item for storing! Some folks seem to think it will magically appear...when we need it? (It is the easiest to store, in the USA at least.)
Carlos RoundyNovember 19, 2021
There is progress on the other side. There are many examples of people who have dreams of relatives who request that there temple work be done so that they can progress on the other side of the veil. Those who have passed away still are able to seek light and knowledge beyond the veil. Progress is eternal.
Cecilie LundgreenNovember 19, 2021
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As we say in Zimbabwe…TATENDA or THANK-YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KINDNESS!!!
JacobNovember 18, 2021
Thanks RaLee!
Reeve Nield EYES4ZIMBABWENovember 18, 2021
As we say in Zimbabwe...TATENDA!!! TATENDA!!! TATENDA!!! (THANK-YOU SO MUCH!!!) We are VERY, VERY GRATEFUL!!!
LoraNovember 18, 2021
For those of us who do not live in Utah, is there some way that we can contribute monetarily to this worthy cause?
Ellen D. LovettNovember 18, 2021
What a tender message. I am delighted to read it and sent a small donation. My husband and I served an 18 month mission in Liberia and Sierra Leone in 1990-91 and I have seen the poverty you talk about. I am so thrilled that a temple is in Ghana, but wonder how the members even can get garments. Bless you for your efforts to help those beautiful people.
Geri CampbellNovember 18, 2021
I am reading this story in Australia but I come from - and joined the Church in - South Africa many years ago. Why does the above story assume that only people in America will read the story and respond appropriately? Meridian is received all around the world. Why cannot provision be made for people everywhere to respond?
Gaye WillisNovember 18, 2021
What a wonderful story! What a great mission these sisters are accomplishing and how many people they are blessing! Can you please clarify the address if we would like to mail a donation to help with this? Is the address listed in the story just the physical address to participate or is that a mailing address that could receive checks? Thank you!
Judy GibsonNovember 17, 2021
Thank you for this excellent article! I have begun a Gratitude Journal at the end of my regular journal since the beginning of this month. It's amazing the thoughts and memories of God's goodness that have come back to me in remembering my blessings.
RaLee HallNovember 17, 2021
I always learn so much from you articles. Thank you for taking the time to post them.
H NorthNovember 17, 2021
How far does one have to bend over backwards to compromise one's values before it constitutes an abandonment of those values? Where is the line?
Was God "extremist" when He destroyed Sodom and Gomorra?
"We have NO obligation to reconcile with the children of the Devil." - Bruce R. McConkie
carolyn nicolaysenNovember 17, 2021
Maryann, I love that. Do you have a picture you could share with me? I'm trying to get photos of great ideas to share on the Totally Ready website and facebook page. You can contact me at [email protected]. Great reminder about hot air rising too!
Steven Adams GoodwinNovember 17, 2021
Thanks Vivian for the reminder and the subtlety of how God's plan unfolds by the small and simple things that the world holds in contempt.
RmcNovember 17, 2021
It shocks me to realize, as some of these comments prove, that there are still many who believe that being vaccinated stops the spread of Covid. The evidence is in. The studies are published, most recently in The Lancet, that one has nearly the same chance of contracting Covid from a vaccinated person as an unvaccinated. The CDC has conceded the fact, and now (with the evidence too overwhelming to ignore) Dr. Fauci is conceding this, as well as waning effectiveness.
To condemn the unvaccinated, to call them selfish and petulant, to blame them for a child contracting Covid is just so wrong in so many ways. Some obviously didn’t read the article, preferring to stay ignorant as to the evidence plainly laid out herein.
Mark StoddardNovember 16, 2021
Kathy,
Thank you for your thoughts. I love discussing the Gospel.
You are so right. I was quoting Christ and his terse conversation with the "lawyers" trying to trap him. Marriage is certainly ordinance happening in this life and during the Millennium. Not sure after that where it fits. Either way, the Restored Gospel amazingly accounts for every broken heart, every effort that doesn't pan out, for whatever reason. So beautiful in its comprehensive Plan of Salvation.
LGNovember 16, 2021
I’ve felt strongly our family should memorize The Proclamation to the Family. There are so many anchoring doctrines that help kids understand truths about these topics!
Alan WildNovember 16, 2021
Very good article
Gordon J HensleyNovember 16, 2021
Well said, brother.
E SmithNovember 16, 2021
Thanks, Maryann Taylor, for adding that. I was thinking of elder Bednar’s talk all the way through Givens’ article.
Melia Rios-LazoNovember 16, 2021
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LindaNovember 16, 2021
Parents definitely need to concern themselves with their children's education. It is a more difficult thing to do in blue states. Don't allow this trash in schools or homes!! Even if it means you have to home school.
Sonya WashburnNovember 16, 2021
This article was so well stated...I appreciate you taking time to lay this argument out. I have highest regard for those that are standing for God given freedom, they are pledging their lives, their fortunes and their sacred honor...God bless us to humble ourselves and seek His help as we do all we can to preserve our freedoms.
Boaneges RibalcavaNovember 16, 2021
Why I am not hearing anything about one of the facts that have been known since the first quarter of 2020, that healthy children WILL NOT die due to this virus? For that matter, that although it is true about the lethality of the virus, it is mainly in a specific group: people over 60 years and/or with some underlying conditions. If this is correct, and the data from all countries even the CDC here, confirm this, why are they mandating children to get vaccinated, since they are NOT TO DIE due to the virus, and exposing them to unknown risks, that even if rare, this risk is greater than the virus itself.
WallyNovember 16, 2021
Disappointing. Compassion is vital. But we must have compassion for the COVID-vulnerable as well as the vaccine-reluctant. And, along with the scientific evidence in favor of vaccination, the strong encouragement of the Brethren is decisive for me.
Marla SmakaNovember 16, 2021
I agree that we must treat all people with compassion. However, my view is that a person who will not accept vaccination is lacking compassion for those who cannot be vaccinated. Yes, it is a matter of choice to accept vaccination, but what about the little children who become ill with Covid, contracted from people who will not accept vaccination? My fellow ward member is asking for prayers on behalf of her 8-year-old granddaughter who is literally fighting for her life due to Covid infection. The granddaughter's family who are elligible have been fully vaccinated. The child likely contracted Covid from nonvaccinated people. Whether one accepts the opinion of Russell M. Nelson as a prophet, seer and revelator may not be relevant. But the opinion of Russell M. Nelson, M.D, world-renown physician and surgeon should be relevant. This gentleman strongly urges vaccination. Would such a person, whether prophet or physician, ask another human being to accept something harmful? Central to tenets of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is freedom to choose. However, when one chooses, there is no escape from the consequences. A person who opts out of vaccination is opting in to possibly cause premature death of himself or herself, as well as friends, loved ones, and unknown contacts. I read an article in the Deseret News about an emergency room physician in St. George, Utah. He talked about how those who refused vaccination are burdened with intense guilt when they discover someone they care about has been afflicted with Covid and/or death from Covid. Those same people realize these deaths and times of extreme sickness were ever so preventable. So I will be polite to all, try to extend charity to all. But my belief is that those who rejection in vaccination are swathed in the selfishness of the our culture of "being true to my authentic self."
MarkNovember 16, 2021
If one does a word search in the scriptures of “earn” or “earned” you will not find them. There is zero reference to “earning” one’s Salvation. Salvation is a gift. But, one has the choice, the agency to accept or reject that Gift. Once accepted thoughts, desires, and actions turn to Christ, who is the Giver of that Gift.
Becky S.November 16, 2021
I was surprised at some of the books my children had in their Utah school library too. The intense descriptions of sexual acts of minors in books for children was shocking. “These sources violate Utah obscenity laws found in criminal code and health education code.” They sure do and the first step is knowing what your child is reading and visit your library. Speak up, we don’t want our children being exposed to this illegal filth because someone else thinks it is appropriate for educating the young minds of our children. It is wrong and my children are precious to me as a parent. I don’t want them reading or being exposed to pornography. These books are against the law in Utah.
KJBNovember 16, 2021
I'd rather save my compassion for the vulnerable people who caught COVID thanks to the petulant crybabies who refuse to think of anybody but themselves. I love how the people who normally insist that the discussion is over after the Prophet has spoken are now trying to justify disobeying him. Anything to own the libs, right? Mah Freedom!!!!!
RobertNovember 16, 2021
I hope church members follow the urging of a prophet of God, regardless of the outcome. Our pioneer ancestors were asked to cross the plains and some suffered greatly for it, even cost some their lives. Will they be blessed for their decision to follow the prophet? Absolutely, for God is good. We still ought to be kind to those who choose not to follow though. Compassion is required of us just as faith and hope are. Thanks for the insights in the article.
C.November 16, 2021
Thank you for the work, research and effort you put into this article. This is a perspective that is so needed right now. I pray more people will lead out with compassion and not judgment for someone else’s circumstances.
Jeff LindsayNovember 16, 2021
When I read about porn being promoted pn some of the databases you mentioned, I was skeptical. But using Duckduckgo to search, I searched for "Follett Destiny Discover parental complaints pornography" (without quotes) and quickly found an article from Nov. 11, 2021 in the Tennessee Star where a parental complaint at a school board meeting indicated that the Destiny Discover app, at least as set up for her child's school, was giving kids a list of recommended books that were highly inappropriate. The first page of recommendations or books near the top of the list were sources of great concern. It wasn't like there was a hidden book somewhere that a child would have to actively seek to get exposed to risque material, but rather, the databases seems to be pursuing an ugly agenda or promoting material that would be damaging to children. See https://tennesseestar.com/2021/11/11/spotsylvania-county-school-board-passes-motion-to-remove-sexually-explicit-material-from-libraries/.
Parents need to be alert and not naively assume that reasonable adults are in charge of what their child will be exposed to.
Thank you for this valuable article!
JAmesNovember 16, 2021
My ancestor practiced plural marriage, but she was the third wife. Who am I going to lose in my family line? My forefather or foremother? Who is going to be kicked out into another family and no longer able to associate by choice and marriage whom they chose in this life?
My forefather and 4 foremothers loved each other and were happy. They were sealed by authority with the promise that the ordinance was "bound on earth and in heaven." You are suggesting, even if they choose each other willingly in this and the next life, that they do not get each other, and in fact the sealing power here on earth is null and void on a grand scale in the eternities.
Also polygamy is not a term the scripture uses. You use the term as though polygamy itself is a type of marriage order, "an exception." In reality, all marriage takes the exact same order. Every single marriage is between one and and one woman. Every marriage can only be consummated between one man and one woman. Anything else is biologically impossible. Hence the term plural marriage, which is a term denoting the plurality of monogamous marriages. Three wives = three marriages. So I think the idea that polygamy is a sacrificial exception outside the eternal order of God is a big stretch. And you have overlooked the nature of the sealing power on earth tied to heaven and overlooked God honoring those agents who desire their plural marriages to continue as was promised in the authorized marriage ceremony.
Jann BradfordNovember 15, 2021
As a frrshman at the U. Of U. I was privileged to be in the chorus of Madam Butterfly with Ariel Bybee in the lead role. I had never seen/heard an opera before and her extraordinary voice and powerful performance brought me to tears. And to my amazement, backstage she was so kind; humble and approachable. I have never forgotten that experience. It was one of the highlights of my young life.
Maryann TaylorNovember 15, 2021
There is probably not a ward or branch in the church where parents are not struggling with the heartache of rebellious children. I agree with all the sentiments expressed here about continuing to love and to express that love. There are few things that are more powerful in softening a child's heart. However, if your daughter decides not to respect the rules you set down in your home--especially if she brings drugs or other harmful substances into your home after you have made your rules clear, you have an obligation to protect your younger children. If that means she must leave, then she has made that choice. There is no such thing as agency without accountability and consequences.
Maryann TaylorNovember 15, 2021
Elder David A. Bednar, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles gives us great enlightenment on this subject in his address: FAITHFUL PARENTS AND WAYWARD CHILDREN. He writes: "The statements of Joseph Smith and Orson F. Whitney are construed by some members of the Church to mean that wayward children unconditionally receive the blessings of salvation because of and through the faithfulness of parents. However, this interpretation is moderated by the fact that the most complete account of the Prophet's sermon was not available to Church historians...In the more complete set of notes recorded by Howard and Martha Coray, Joseph Smith is shown to have qualified his statement to make the promised blessings conditional upon the obedience of the children: 'When a father and mother of a family have [been sealed], their children WHO HAVE NOT TRANSGRESSED are secured by the seal wherewith the parents have been sealed.' "This clarification is more consistent doctrinally...the concept of unconditional salvation for disobedient children would contradict many foundational teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, including the second article of faith that 'men will be punished for their own sins.' Elder Bednar goes on to affirm the powerful influence of righteous parents in the lives of their children, however, he also states "Mercy will not rob justice, and the sealing power of faithful parents will only claim wayward children upon the condition of their repentance and Christ's atonement. Repentant wayward children will enjoy salvation and all the blessings that go with it, but exaltation is much more. It must be fully earned. The question as to who will be exalted must be left to the Lord in his mercy." A thorough reading of Elder Bednar's article is very illuminating on this subject.
Maryann TaylorNovember 15, 2021
Thank you SO MUCH for doing this--it is going to help me a lot in teaching my Gospel Doctrine class. This is truly the most thrilling event we will ever experience on this earth!
Becky DouglasNovember 15, 2021
Dear Katrina, Of course! Let's all spread the joy of Gratitude with others. Thanks for all you are doing! Becky
amaryNovember 15, 2021
I think its important to not blow this out of proportion. What they described sounds pretty tame compared to other things she could be doing. I also went to a church school, and let me tell you this is extremely common. Way more common than people think. Especially with kids who grew up in very strict households where they felt constantly controlled. Once they are living on their own and finally have some freedom they go a little overboard. They just don't usually tell their parents, which makes me wonder how they found out and if she told them as a bid for attention or to rile them up. Who knows. When interacting with the daughter, just act with love and compassion. Resist the urge to lecture or guilt trip, this will just push her further away. Her feeling unconditionally loved and maintaining positive connections with family will make a big difference in her future choices. She already knows the parents stance on the matter, there is no need to keep repeating it. As for the younger children, maybe have a discussion as to why we try to abstain from drugs, alcohol, and other things. Explain what the negative consequences could be if they make certain choices. Some times we focus so much on the "Don't do that!" that we provide little information on the reasons behind it. Also resist the urge to become more controlling with the younger kids in an attempt to keep them from making similar choices. Often the more controlling and overzealous we become with religious matters, we cause the opposite effect than intended. I wouldn't worry about the younger kids too much. I had older siblings and friends that made poor choices but I felt no need to follow in their footsteps.
ShaunaNovember 15, 2021
This incident has left me heartsick and concerned. My daughter just arrived in Mexico a week ago to serve her mission, and although she's not in the mission where this occurred, this crime hit close to home. I know that missionaries are in the Lord's Hands, but I also know that bad things happen to missionaries sometimes. Having served a mission myself, I know that missionaries are sometimes in areas they would never be in otherwise, at times of night etc., but this was in a Chapel with 70 missionaries and their mission President. One would assume that they were safe. I just pray that God will compensate those there and pray that the Spirit was with them during the ordeal, and that somehow this incident will become a rallying cry for their mission and will serve to strengthen them overall. God is good and He is in charge
Patricia WintersNovember 15, 2021
When videos and podcasts are posted, it would be beneficial to me, and I am sure some others, if a transcript could be included. For several reasons, it is difficult for me to sit and listen to a subject, but I can read the same matter with ease. Having a transcript would allow me to obtain the information without problems.
Tami TaylorNovember 14, 2021
This is by far the most beautiful, insightful article I have ever read. I have struggled, oh how I have struggled with polygamy. Fearing that God really did not love me and would ask something so heartwrenching and so wrong of me goes against everything I have known and felt about him..This talk brought so much peace. I feel happy and hopeful and like my greatest dreams and desires really can be realized. So many women struggle with this. So many. Are we just lesser people in God's eyes that he does not care for our sorrow and dreams? I can not believe that. It can not be true.
3 Ye cannot behold with your natural eyes, for the present time, the design of your God concerning those things which shall come hereafter, and the glory which shall follow after much tribulation.
4 For after much tribulation come the blessings
I think all those who sacrificed so much will receive a hundredfold of blessings, the greatest being they will be sealed to one man and one man only.
Mary Ann T McConkieNovember 14, 2021
Vivian, thanks ever so much for weaving our kitchen tables with many of our most effective learnings. I have fought for the dinner hour, because rarely do families eat meals together in our face-paced society. You say it so well and as I listen to your children teach and expound, I know you and Carlos provided what you have described above. You've
passed the baton and the race will be won!
MikkoNovember 14, 2021
I for one am very grateful someone had the courage to tell me about my wife and her affair. I was the one who had no idea and tried to defend her. The truth came out. So glad I am no longer living in that false sense of reality.
Kathy McFarlandNovember 14, 2021
Haven’t our leaders always taught that those who do not have the opportunity to marry in this life will be given that blessing in the next life? Just wondering about your comment that marrying only takes place in this life.
Anita B. AnonymousNovember 13, 2021
I rarely make comments of any kind to any sort of article. But this article has impacted my life and my eternal destiny. I am a convert of 4 years. I grew up with an abusive, violent, misogynistic father and I survived an abusive husband. Being completely fed up with men, and still needing a primary relationship, I married a Lesbian woman. That marriage too, ended in disaster. I concluded that if there was any love at all on this earth, it had to be coming from a Divine Source- humans are just too messed up and life is just too hard for love to survive here. An honest look at my life led me to admit that I had indeed seen and felt evidence of love. Therefore, there had to be some kind of “Source of Love” somewhere. And I was determined to find it or die trying. I was shocked and surprised when my quest led me to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Here, I found more peace, joy, hope, and love than I had thought possible. I was baptized, confirmed, & endowed. A year after my endowment, I was blessed to be sealed in a Temple marriage with a wonderful, loving, righteous man. When I encountered beliefs of Latter-Day Saints around the issue of polygamy in the Celestial Kingdom, my trust in God as well as my joy and peace, began to crumble. I had actually believed all that stuff about marriage partners being equally yoked; polygamy in the Celestial Kingdom is NOT being equally yoked. I had believed that Heavenly Father loves all his children equally. How is it that a man sealed in the Temple can be commanded to take on 50 more wives? Would God command my husband to take on 50 more wives in the Celestial Kingdom? As a result, I would spend a day with my husband to do this? What kind of God does that? That doesn’t sound like Heaven- that sounds like hell. So it must be true- “women are “less than”, dirty, unworthy creatures and they are allowed in heaven only because they provide sexual pleasure to men and produce babies. I am not a beloved daughter of God after all, I am a piece of dirt. My destiny is to be in a harem and spend the eternities changing diapers and burping a billion babies. I want to be destroyed. I don’t want to be a woman. I want to be broken down into the basic elements and be obliterated. Even the sons of perdition are entitled to this escape. Can’t I have the same out?
I was in dangerous territory and sinking fast. I was a mess. My relationship to the Godhead, my relationship to my husband, and my relationship to all things Spiritual was crumbling. With anguish I prayed and relentlessly searched scripture for greater Light and Wisdom on this matter. I had just a spark of hope that maybe, just maybe, my understanding was faulty and incomplete. Maybe my perceptions and understanding were colored by my childhood in the brutal earthly culture of Satan, coupled with incorrect teachings of imperfect (but well meaning) mortals. I continued going to the Temple and beseeched the Godhead for further Light and Wisdom. For a long time, I spoke to no one about the heavy darkness and gnawing fear inside me. Then with our “Come Follow Me” studies on D&C 132 this week, I confided my feelings and fears to my husband. While he was kind, loving, and patient, I remained enveloped in fear and darkness. We prayed together and individually. I saw no reprieve.
This article was like the first light following a brutal dark arctic winter. It brought a glimmer of light and hope. The heavy darkness has begun to recede and I feel trust in Heavenly Father, hope in Jesus Christ, and joy in the Restored Gospel beginning to return. I want to thank you for this carefully researched, well thought out, logically constructed article. It has played a crucial role in the process of restoring peace and trust in my relationship to the Godhead, my husband, and all things Spiritual.
Ronald BarnesNovember 13, 2021
Ever since I was rather young, I had always felt that there was one person who I was destined to marry. It had already been arranged in the pre-mortal existence. My future wife and I had our first date when we were 17 years old. The next day I began telling people that I had found the girl I was going to marry. That was 50 years ago. After all of that it would be devastating to me to spend eternity without her. It’s a great comfort to me to know that our marital relationship will not die when one of us does.
HMCNovember 13, 2021
While the scriptures teach that we are ...
• “free to choose” (2 Nephi 2:27), and
• “free to act” (2 Nephi 10:23), and
• “free [to] act for [ourselves]” (Helaman 14:30) ...
some mistakenly believe that have something called “free agency.” You will NOT find the term “free agency” anywhere in the scriptures.
HOWEVER .. in D&C 101:78 you WILL find the term “moral agency.”
AND ... there is a significant difference between these two terms. I invite you to go to the Gospel Library App to investigate this subject ... just search for “moral agency.”
CC WilliamsNovember 12, 2021
Thank you for this! I truly appreciate the understanding this treatise on obedience and sacrifice.
I couldn't help reflecting on how this discussion might, in some way, apply to what took place in Eden
TrudyNovember 12, 2021
We are going through his with two of our children. You can make a choice to love them or ostracise them. We choose to love. How else will they learn that we as parents and church members are Christlike. It’s been 13 yrs for our daughter but now she has a partner and 3 children of her own and we notice her softening each year and it’s wonderful! Everyone has their own conversion, and time to learn. Some learn by faith and faster than others. Some learn very slowly and the hard way… and that’s painful but their way of learning. Also on the flip side this has been a refining process for us as parents, we have had to learn to respect the process and love our children - and sometimes loving them is hard when you are being treated poorly. But we need to dig deep and remember that as parents we need to continue to set the example and just continue to keep the channels open and LOVE. Continue to fast and pray. We have lessons to learn as parents and this is as much a learning curve for us as it is for them. I look at my parents who had 7 children, all very different and they survived the trials of raring a family :) so it must be possible ♥️♥️
Sandra WhiteNovember 12, 2021
My oldest teen son was a rebel during high school years along with friends used drugs, etc. His 3 siblings knew what he was doing and realized it was not for them but his behavior did cause problems even to the point I had to call the police as he was cursing & destroying furniture....they found drugs hidden in a cut out in a book and he spent the night in jail. Was not easy for me as a single mother but had to be done. Eventually i had to have him leave the house but told him I loved him and if ever he needed anything I would be there for him.....he struggled but eventually found Christ and turned his life around. He is now 62 and has lived a life for Christ and I am proud of him. Suggest this mother not be too concerned about the siblings as they too can see what she is doing is wrong and if she just loves her wayward daughter, they will not follow in her path.
Rebecca M PinegarNovember 12, 2021
So incredibly beautiful and well written. Such a flood of memories. I stepped back to that place of total security. Thank you for so beautifully weaving in the profound blessings of such a setting. I want to go back, sit again, listen better, marvel at what my mother did and was so gifted at. A job that sometimes overwhelms me, yet I never heard or saw any reason to believe that it wasn't just effortless for her, though it could not have been.
Then the discussions, and the horrible music that we still try to mimic and wonder why no one understands, and why it is so unspeakably funny. You have transported me to a place I pray I have created at least a sliver of in my own home. A place, I believe we will once again sit at, only with even grander implications.
So priceless!
SimplicioNovember 12, 2021
The ultimate purpose of the Restored Gospel is not to leave us "as the angels which are in heaven." (Matthew 22:30)
"But to which of the angels hath He said at any time, 'Sit thou on my right hand, till I make thine enemies the footstool of thy feet?' Are they not all ministering spirits, sent forth to do service for the sake of them that shall inherit salvation?" (Hebrews 1:13-14)
MaryNovember 12, 2021
Excellent article, very well thought out and backed up with logic and actual scripture. The idea of polygamy and that I may be forced to live it at some point tormented me for years, ever since I was a girl. Its only been in recent years that I have found a little peace on the matter after the spirit reassured me. I know many women who still are tormented by this idea, its pretty common. I find that the conversations and rationalizing surrounding polygamy always seem to involve warped and sexist thinking. Hopefully as a people we can begin to evolve and view things with more logic and clarity, like in this article. If you truly believe that God loves his daughters and sons equally and wants them all to be happy and saved in the eternities, the old ways of looking at it fall apart. This article gives me hope for my ancestors that practiced polygamy, I always mourned the unfairness of it all and how much pain it caused the women back then.
James W ScottNovember 12, 2021
I’ve read with interest your essays on polygamy and commend your views and conclusions on the three mystery versus in D&C 132. I tend to agree with your conclusions re the somewhat obscure meaning of the tenets taught in these versus.
I’d like to offer a few comments on the idea that motherhood and child bearing are a sacrifice of similar import as the atonement. The Lord’s sacrifice and even Abraham’s obedience are horrendously more horrific than the sacrifice of having children. (And I’m certainly in awe of my own wife’s suffering 5 times for our children.)
In the vernacular of today’s attitudes toward child bearing it seems, at least in America that anyone having more than two children are the exception and in some cases an imposition on the resources of society and that the woman that has children is making an enormous sacrifice of opportunity and beauty. Many women in the 19th century gave birth to 12 or more and seemingly forgot Eve's ‘curse’, the pain and acceptance of 18 or more years of responsibility. The separation of the sex act and having children has become a major issue. President Spencer W Kimball complained the “veneration of the orgasm” (Conf Report, Nov 1974) has replaced the intimacy of giving birth to and caring for and bringing children to ‘the joy and happiness of a posterity’. ‘Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward” Ps 127:3.
In taking umbrage to that sacrificial view can I point out that Eve after hearing the curse of child bearing testified that were it not for her transgression they would not have had children and she gloried in that ‘curse’, that sorrows would multiply AND conception. In fact not having children became a major stumbling block for many in the scriptures: Rachel and Leah, and their handmaids, entered into a major competition to see who could provide the most offspring, even to prostituting Jacob over some mandrake stems. Hannah plead with the Lord for Samuel over the shame of not having any children while her wife mate did. The struggling of single women in Isa 4:1 where seven women vied for a husband’s name and attendant child bearing. Tamar prostituted herself with Judah for children when he refused to marry her to his son Er. Even Emma had trouble having and keeping her offspring alive and healthy.
Mrs. Thomas Kane, the peacemaker, in their journey to Salt Lake to defuse the US Army’s entry into the SL valley overnighted in a polygamous household. She wrote that while she was outraged over the idea of polygamy commented that there was no animosity between wives and that they got along well and the household was run in a wonderfully efficient and peaceful manner.
Judy PetersonNovember 12, 2021
Wow! This is SO GOOD! “Mormon myths” abound, particularly in my generation (I’m 80 yrs old) of lifelong active members. I have come to many of these truths on my own, of course under the guidance of the Spirit) and it’s so encouraging to see them in public print. Thank you !
Lorie N DavisNovember 12, 2021
I've just read that article on the sacrifice of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar, and found it wonderfully intelligent, analytical, logical, and uplifting.
One thing did bother me slightly, though, how come the "sacrifice" of polygamy is more attributed to men, when it is actually the women who suffer the most? Simply in a physical sense, in the pioneer days of polygamy, the women often had to support themselves and their children with little aid from the father, who was usually on a mission or tending to his other families. It doesn't seem such a sacrifice to men to have multiple sexual partners (which has always been billes as a thrill for men), or very many children born to them (unless the worry to men is about how they can support such a huge number of persons financially and emotionally). On the other hand, actually living with a number of wives may be confusing to men in trying to adjust daily or weekly to all the differing personalities of the wives -- since men claim they can never understand an individual woman in the first place.
I'll bet there is a lot about the sacrifice of Sarah that remains unrecorded, since it is men who write the scriptures. What were HER revelations from God? Yes, she wanted children for her beloved husband, but to GIVE him another wife to be the mother of his children? HOW UTTERLY WRENCHING if (as I believe) the Lord spoke to Sarah and actually commanded her to give Hagar to Abraham! Might that not have been a sacrifice to Sarah, equal to Abraham's command to sacrifice his son? And what were the humiliations of Hagar, handed over like a bought brood-are to an old man? Was she, too, commanded by revelation to accept this sacrifice?
Interesting, too, that Sarah's sacrifice was commanded YEARS before Abraham's sacrifice was commanded. But Sarah met the command, sacrificed her sacred, intimate relationship with her husband to give him another woman as a sexual partner, AND for that other woman to be the first mother to her beloved Abraham's promised seed. Talk about a double, agonizing sacrifice! You and I might appreciate the depth of that sacrifice, but could ANY MAN understand what two such sacrifices would mean to an loving and faithful wife? I do not think so.
Someday we will be able to view all these scriptural stories from the woman's point of view, physically and emotionally. It will be a final assuaging of all women's painful dismissal in men-written scriptures, and a COLOSSAL eye-opener for all the men in the world!
gary bealNovember 12, 2021
My wife and I read both of these articles and were greatly blessed and uplifted. We completely “bought” the interpretation and reasoning of the first article and found it sound and doctrinal. I do have a couple of issues to raise with the “implications” put forth in the second article, though in general concurrence with its logic and conclusion.
On the topic of a “sex ratio” in the afterlife, I’m not sure I agree with the assertion that there is no doctrinal basis for assuming more women than men. If we assume that in the pre-existence the sex ratio was 1 to 1, what happened to that ratio when the Sons of Perdition were cast out? Some posit that this portion was as many as one-third of God’s spirits who were cast out of heaven. They were not “sons and daughters” of Perdition, but only sons. And after this life, only men will be assigned to outer darkness. Brigham held this view, as do many (but not) all of the brethren who have spoken on the topic since then. In our Temple endowment, women are pronounced clean in ways that men are not; it doesn’t seem reasonable that all men will overcome their uncleanness in this life. These doctrinal observations argue against the 1 to 1 sex ratio in the resurrection.
The article states that if one believes polygamy is “ubiquitous” in the celestial kingdom, there must be at least twice as many women as men. In the history of the church 1840-1890, polygamy was “ubiquitous” (everywhere present) yet only about 3% of the men practiced polygamy. It didn’t require that there be twice as many women for it to work. For me, the logic of that position just doesn’t hold up, nor comport with early church experience.
The third area that raises questions is in the arena of a man in this life, who after his wife dies, marries another wife “for time and all eternity.” Whether this constitutes a sacrifice or not for the 2nd wife, she nevertheless freely enters that covenant without being commanded. You point out that the brethren anticipate consequences of Temple covenants in the hereafter by not requiring a child of faithless parent(s) to be sealed again. If plural marriage is always a sacrifice akin to Abraham’s, why would the brethren not facilitate stopping that unnecessary sacrifice?
I have read (not nearly as much as the author[s] of these articles) about some of the experiences of polygamous wives in the early days of the church. My observation is that not all of them saw or experienced polygamy as a painful, singular Abrahamic-type sacrifice. I fully agree that many (perhaps even most?) saw polygamy that way, but the interpretation published seems to allow little room for actual participating women to see it as something other than sacrificial.
Lastly, the second article seems to allow no need or requirement for ever requiring a woman in the hereafter to live “the Law of Sarah” (D&C132:65). My understanding is that God never gives a law or commandment that is strictly temporal or worldly. For reasons that are too sacred to be discussed here, it is my belief that polygamy does have a role to play in our eternal progression, but perhaps in a situation similar in context to the one the author so beautifully explains in the first article.
Please know that nothing I have written above should detract from the beautiful and profound discussion of polygamy in the first article, but only perhaps quibbles with some of the implications of these profound insights in the second article.
JudyNovember 12, 2021
I agree with the advice about always honoring agency. I feel the most important thing is to let the child know of your love and NEVER GIVE UP!
Our family experienced a situation like this, but our child eventually came back and is a strong member and an example to many.
Catrina GarnerNovember 12, 2021
Thank you for your article! I 100% agree! Could I possibly share your article on Facebook with others? I am currently posting daily gratitude quotes every day and will for the month of November and I would love to share your article on Thanksgiving Day with your name of course credited to the article. But if this isn’t allowed I understand.
Thank you
JeanNovember 12, 2021
I love the advice you gave to this concerned mother. I love how "agency" is part of the gospel plan. It was so important that God chose it over Satan's plan of forced obedience. I also love the knowledge that we have a Heavenly Father and a Heavenly Mother who is more concerned about our children than we are.
I had an experience with one of my children when he was a teenager. He got into some serious trouble and had to have a probation officer. I was so upset with him and ready to read the riot act to him. However, I decided to go to the temple first. For me, the veil is very thin in the celestial room. It was there that I prayed fervently for this child and asked Heavenly Father to give me revelation for him. I felt impressed to show him an increase of love. This was opposite to how I felt. He did turn his life around and after many years has come back to the gospel. I know every child is unique but I highly recommend asking Heavenly Father, who loves your child deeply, for revelation on how to treat your situation.
Colleen StoutNovember 12, 2021
Thank you Vivian for the wonderful analogy and reminder about tables in scriptures, and our own lives. When our large family talks of where they would like to be once again, it would be around our family table. We would not leave in a hurry, as it was too much fun to stay and talk and enjoy one another. No other place in our home could qualify for that special bonding. Colleen Stout
Michele NoelNovember 12, 2021
Thank you, Vivian, for a refreshing view of our need for familial connectedness as a strengthening paradigm about our place in the plan of salvation. Beautiful! I have followed your written and audio work for decades and shared them with my family endlessly. We are still waiting for your book on the garden story. God Watches!
Harold RustNovember 11, 2021
Thank you for a lengthy, carefully referenced, deeply thoughtful, and powerfully emotional discussion of the most universal of all social relationships on earth that just happens to be so greatly misunderstood by many. I look forward to the "continued" discussion because the over-riding question in today's world where lots of different arrangements between men and women are socially acceptable is: "If a man can have more than one wife, why not the reverse?" I have formulated what for me is an answer consistent with all other doctrine of the Church but which I have not seen written or spoken anywhere in scriptures or by the prophets. I'll therefore be interested in what author Cassler has as an answer.
Kay Wiemer GerkeNovember 11, 2021
Beautifully written and inspiring article. Thank you for sharing this.
Judy PetersonNovember 11, 2021
This article effectively supports the idea that we have A Mother in Heaven, not an assortment of mothers, an idea which I’ve heard expressed by some people recently as we’ve started having discussions about our Mother. I’ve seen several other sources saying the law of marriage is a man and a woman. As the author points out, this does not preclude an alternate interpretation, but i think the Lord intends to be clear on key doctrines and would be explicit if plural marriage were the law of Heaven. I think that’s a misconception left over from “the old days:”
Policies regarding sealing of deceased couples with multiple spouses has changed over the years. It would be helpful to know more about the principles behind our current policy of sharing every possible combination of spouses, as well as living men sealed to both deceased and living spouses.
Sophia McLaughlinNovember 11, 2021
I'd like to make another clarification. "Only if we acquit ourselves well in the roles of spouse and parent in this probationary state are we entitled to perpetuate those roles in an eternal marriage state in the hereafter." Omit the "only", and I'll agree with you fully. According to modern-day prophets, marriage in the hereafter will also be made available to righteous men and women who lived under circumstances that prevented them from receiving this blessing in mortality.
Sophia McLaughlinNovember 11, 2021
I'd like to make a correction. You say that tv ose who do not qualify for the fullness of the celestial kingdom will remain single. Perhaps you meant "fullness" to stand for exaltation, and in that case we do agree. I did want to point out that there will be those who inherit the celestial kingdom singly, marrriage is only required for exaltation within the celestial kingdom, but it is not required to enjoy living with the Father and the fullness of his company.
Phillip C. SmithyNovember 11, 2021
Very thoughtful and insightful. Thank you.
karell binghamNovember 11, 2021
Abraham was to be the great head of a chosen nation. Would he obey? He had been given the promise that his posterity would be as the sands of the sea. Did he have enough faith to believe beyond mortal understanding that the Lord would keep his word, even if he killed his only son? That is why the Abrahamic test is often called the test of incongruity. A test that flies in the face of what has been understood. To my feeling, polygamy was this kind of test for Joseph. He truly was a great man of God!
Thanks for your help in understanding this sometimes troubling commandment!
James ScottNovember 11, 2021
I enjoyed your exposition and illumination of D&C 132 re polygamy, and I’m looking forward to the continuation.
Commenting on Abraham’s sacrifice of Isaac. This represention of the Lord’s own sacrifice, (Jacob 4: which is a similitude of God and his Only Begotten Son.) is horror filled and mortifying in its conception as was the crucifixion of the Lord. Could I point out that the faith of Abraham was strengthened by the teaching that he knew the promises could be fulfilled by Isaac being raised from the dead. The lecture on faith in Hebrews 11 show his expectation.
17 By faith Abraham, when he was tried, offered up Isaac: and he that had received the promises offered up his only begotten son,
18 Of whom it was said, That in Isaac shall thy seed be called:
19 Accounting that God was able to raise him up, even from the dead; from whence also he received him in a figure.
The same figure Jacob understood. He had to have understood the doctrine of resurrection and glory to have had the faith that God could raise Isaac from the dead to fulfill the promises.
Hagar and Ishmael: the promises given to Abraham apply equally to Ishmael and Abraham saw to the welfare of his son. Ishmael helped and attended the burial of his father, (Gen 25:8,9). Moreover, Ishmael had twelve sons mirroring the heritage of Jacob’s twelve sons. However, Abraham knew that Isaac was the son of promise, (Gen 17, Gal 4,5)
Michele NoelNovember 11, 2021
Fantastic! Worth the read! Thank you Valerie.
Maryann TaylorNovember 11, 2021
This is beautiful. I have always known that my marriage isn't just between two people, but that the Savior is an essential third partner with us. Thank you for reminding us of the symbolic meaning of the altars in the temple.
AJ CurrieNovember 10, 2021
I can think of no better definition of self-esteem than D&C 121:45. And, that verse even explains the one sure way to obtain true self-esteem: "Let thy bowels also be full of charity towards all men, and to the household of faith, and let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God;...." How could anyone have more self-esteem than to be confident standing before God?
brooks sNovember 10, 2021
Wow. Would love for you to write another book. Let me know when your next one is published. Love your writing style.
Jeff LindsayNovember 10, 2021
Thank you for this valuable information and for your informed perspective. It seems that it's increasingly important for parents to pay attention to what is happening with their kids at school. I think you made a wise move to turn to homeschooling for the beginning of your child's education.
Sandy KerrNovember 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing this inspiring story and brightening my day!
Maryann TaylorNovember 10, 2021
My husband installed shelves on the inside of my pantry door. I didn't think there was enough room to do this and still be able to close the door. Oh, boy, was I wrong! I can't believe how much I can store on these shelves. I like the reminder of how much room is between the tops of kitchen cabinets and the ceiling in many homes--dead space that can hold a lot---keep in mind that it will be warm up there, so store things that you rotate more often.
Gail KNovember 10, 2021
Wonderful story of a good man. Thank you for sharing this, it reminds us during tough times, that there are other's who have it tougher.
God bless this man, I would give him my last $5.00 to feed his daughter.
This has opened my eyes to be more aware of those around us, and look for that sadden eye that is waiting for God's blessing that I can assist him with. May I be God's hands to bless others.
Scot ProctorNovember 10, 2021
The film is available on DVD from Seagull Book. We've now added that information above, thank you for asking!
Ronya SimmonsNovember 10, 2021
Will this film be screened outside of Utah? Can it be ordered on DVD or is it available through live streaming or some other media?
Pam RoderNovember 9, 2021
Always grand to hear/read Patrick Degn. Brilliant mind that causes me to smile agree and wish I could say things as well as he.
Thank you for the wonderful insight from our paltry human view of God and His "Alpha and Omega" perspective.
Thank you Patrick.
BoBNovember 9, 2021
I offended an investigator recently who used this, where's the blood question, for his pretext to not put any serious effort into examining the Book of Mormon or its claims. I offended him because I just could not understand what the problem was. We do not have a detailed step by step drawn out picture of the precise events of that evening. By the way, the Book of Mormon is a book of doctrine not court room minutes. Nephi is explaining God's instructions and reasoning for why and how they were to proceed. He is not performing a dramatic reenactment. If you read the pertinent verses in 1 Nephi 4 you should realize this was not a thirty second mugging. Nephi spent time there with drunken Laban and with the Lord. He took time to ponder, pray, respond, deliberate.
What verse 19 does not say is I cut off Laban's head and then proceeded to remove his clothing ( Wow. I really did this in the wrong order. Gosh. That was stupid.) What it does say is after I cut off his head, I took his clothes and put them on.
Why was Nephi holding Laban's sword prior to having any thought about killing him. The most logical/reasonable answer is he was removing drunken Laban's clothing. Remember the mission is to get the plates. This is simple (I really don't mean to be a jerk, but) pretty obvious, and based on the fragments of information concerning what happened that evening, the most logical and rational idea concerning how Nephi proceeded.
There was lots of blood. Of course there was, but not on Laban's clothes. They had been removed. This is far more economical than saying when Nephi says, 'I picked him up by the hair of his head and cut it off.' that he doesn't mean 'I cut it off'. No, Nephi cut off Laban's head and put on his clothes, just as the passage relates.
My investigator friend was troubled that I would insinuate Nephi took his clothes off first. "The passage doesn't say that." Neither does it say he took them off after the head smiting." It also doesn't say he put on his sandals in the morning and ate his mush, but I bet he did. It also doesn't say he dragged Laban to a dark nearby area so as not to be seen, but I bet he did.
If someone rejects the BOM because of 'where is the blood?' They really aren't very interested anyway or have other issues with the BOM or the Church or our religion because frankly that's just pretty weak.
Doris WilliamsNovember 9, 2021
Made me laugh out loud! Loved it. Thank you
PaulaNovember 9, 2021
Thank you so much for expressing/validating the feelings I've had for 40 years. Your thorough, well-thought-out and articulate essay will give others pause for thought.
Dan EllsworthNovember 9, 2021
I'm glad this article was helpful for you, friends. MAbernethy, yours is a good question, and I'm not sure why we don't have specific instructions for exorcism. I performed two on my mission, and I basically did what I heard other missionaries and members had done: raise the right arm to the square and command it to leave in the name of Christ. But I personally think a simple command in the name of Christ is sufficient.
As to why we don't see more open manifestations of possession? It's very common in other parts of the world; in Western societies, Satan seems to want to leave us with the impression that he doesn't even exist.
Todd RNovember 9, 2021
I found more scriptural support for why Nephi was justified in killing Laban in Doctrine and Covenants section 98:23-38.
It says in effect don't react to your enemy when they "smite you" two times, and if you spare them after the third time you and your posterity would have eternal rewards, "31 Nevertheless, thine enemy IS IN THINE HANDS; and if thou rewardest him according to his works thou art justified; IF HE HAS SOUGHT THY LIFE, AND THY LIFE IS ENDARGERED BY HIM, thine enemy IS IN THINE HANDS AND THOUGH ART JUSTIFIED.
32 Behold, THIS IS THE LAW I GAVE UNTO MY SERVANT NEPHI, and thy fathers, Joseph, and Jacob, and Isaac, and Abraham, and all mine ancient prophets and apostles.
Nephi's account explicitly lists two times that Laban tried to kill them, and we can easily deduce that as and "elder of the Jews", Laban had tried to kill his father, just like the elders of the Jews killed the Savior. (No wonder, Laban and Lemuel said "it was a hard thing" to ask them to go back and face Laban when he had already tried to kill their father)
Nephi stated twice that "Behold THE LORD HATH DELIVERED HIM INTO THY HANDS" which is the same wording as the D&C.
Nephi wrote this account approximately 30 years after it happened and due to the difficulty of writing on plates, it is not surprising that he would not give every little detail of what the spirit may have told him, but what he did write is absolutely consistent with the law in the D&C, and the Lord told Joseph Smith that this was the law that he taught Nephi.
LewisNovember 9, 2021
You know what I am grateful for? Your articles! They bring such joy and happiness into my life. Please keep writing. You have such wonderful insights, and tell such beautiful stories.
Bradley J. KramerNovember 9, 2021
Along these lines, I think of the sealing altar as the modern ark of the covenant--the sealing room being an extension of the celestial room (or holy of holies) and the participants being the cheribim on opposite sides of the altar leaning over the altar with their faces towards each other (Exo. 25:9-20). Our sealings, therefore, reflect the everlasting "marriage" covenant God made with Israel and show how integrally involved he is with them (Lev. 26:9-13; Isa. 54:4-6; etc.)
Maxine McCoyNovember 8, 2021
This was one of the best articles I’ve read for a very long time. Well written and the wisdom it contains is so needed for our times. Good job!
ElaineNovember 8, 2021
That was a beautiful meaningful story. Thanks for the reminder to let our lights shine:)
Wally GoddardNovember 8, 2021
Excellent insights! It is worth noting that the scientific community turned squarely against self-esteem in 1983 with Susan Harter's review of research. Any continuing enthusiasm for self-esteem is primarily driven by pop psychology.
Haze KompelienNovember 8, 2021
"If He is the Alpha and Omega, doesn’t that suggest a beginning and an end, or are those words also gateways to more iconoclastic shenanigans?"
Smiled so much at this line!
And I think I would really love your mom, after reading "One of the many gems she dropped on me was, “Look, son, the church comforts the disturbed and disturbs the comfortable.”
Maryann TaylorNovember 8, 2021
This is a great reminder for people who are dating to really check out their potential dates. An acquaintance of mine was dating through a website for church members. They soon discovered that some of the potential dates were involved in divorce proceedings that were not yet final. Unfortunately, people need to be extremely cautious and get as much information as possible about potential dates. As to the question of whether to alert the woman who has a husband that is straying? I would certainly want someone to tell me!
S LambertNovember 8, 2021
I really enjoyed your article. Just FYI, the correct attribution for the "old time rail journey" quote is the Unitarian Minister Jenkin Lloyd Jones as quoted by President Gordon B. Hinckley.
https://latterdaysaintmag.com/8-things-the-prophets-didnt-say/
Cynthia DeckerNovember 8, 2021
Love the post...had to look up some of the Latin but it was a pleasure. Thank you.
Sandy KerrNovember 8, 2021
Great insight, beautifully expressed! Thank you...
LexaGraemeNovember 8, 2021
Marvelous read! Thank you very much. I love the Chesterton quotes.
Will KimlingerNovember 8, 2021
Well said!
GTONovember 8, 2021
President Hinckley was quoting Jenkin Lloyd Jones. Great article! Thanks.
Breck EnglandNovember 8, 2021
Heather, you are right. I had a feeling I should include this point and failed to do so. As you say, the plan of God applies to every stage of life, premortal, mortal, and postmortal. It is a plan of mercy for everyone.
I should also have added that God deals with every one of his children separately and individually. In his omniscience He takes every one of their circumstances into account in determining the degree of glory to which they will attain. This concept is particularly important for those who for one reason or another don't seem to "fit" into the eternal pattern of exaltation. We are in no position to judge the eternal destiny of anyone. That is our Savior's job.
Ray CooperNovember 8, 2021
Honestly, one of the best posts I have read. You absolutely nailed me to a tee. Thank-you for your thoughts.
Ken ButlerNovember 8, 2021
My this way that way thoughts too, but exceptionally well expressed. Kudos.
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Lisa CroftNovember 8, 2021
Amen!
Jacob HessNovember 8, 2021
Two other responses I've received:
(1) Thanks for this analysis. I work in the pharmaceutical field, but not in Drug Product, in which this gene therapy jab is associated. I’m also not a bio or pharmacology specialist. But I still get questions from many people. I have been advising everyone who has asked, and my entire family, that they should not have this shot administered to any children (18 and under) unless that child has severe health issues that are likely to result in severe reaction to the Covid infection. The World Health Organization still has the official position that, since children almost never have any significant symptoms, and almost none who don’t have other huge health issues have died, there is no justification for subjecting them to higher risk by administering the so-call vaccine.
I am appalled that the CDC, the FDA and the manufacturers have by-passed all the protocols that have been required for many decades for a drug to be approved. I was able to accept “emergency authorization” for adults, especially those in high risk situations. The rest is just plain irresponsible. I can only assume the following: some have great delusions of power and are now addicted to that; some feel compelled to take this position in order to maintain their positions and jobs (giving in to peer pressure); or greed for the money involved. Remember that reportedly 20 to 25% of medical professionals have not received the jab. Most of those will be or are already out of a job because of their own ethics. If anyone, as a parent, has even an inkling that perhaps his or her child should be administered this vaccine, please fast and pray after as much study of the test results (not just what is touted by the FDA, CDC, and medical establishment).
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(2) Given what was presented in this post (and it seems to have been done in a fairly even handed manner) I would agree the studies were too small, and the time periods involved too short. Additional clinical studies seem to be justified/needed.
I think one point the government administrators and the companies seem to be avoiding is that the main benefit to be derived from vaccinating millions of children is the herd immunity aspect of the process. It needs to be well proven that we wouldn’t be putting those millions of children at an unnecessary level of risk to obtain that benefit – I agree the submitted studies are not rigorous enough to prove that no significant harm is being done.
Lynette NicollNovember 8, 2021
Bravo!! I’m so grateful for this article!!! Thank you! I will be using this information again and again!
Frank E MerrillNovember 8, 2021
Far too many people are willing to serve God in an advisory capacity.
Gordon ManvilleNovember 7, 2021
I have been touched lately as I have found 5 second and third cousins that were imprisoned In Auschwitz. They were wonderful people. One was a first world war veteran. He and his wife volunteered to drive ambulance for the French army until that army fell. They were put to death at Auschwitz within 24 hours of arrival. The other family was a mother and her adult son and adult granddaughter. They were Jewish. Another one was trnsferred to Bergen Belsen and lived ot be liverated.
Leroy HaleNovember 7, 2021
I have experience many times the blessings of prayer. We as a heavenly family are so tied to our Father in Heaven. Praying in the name of Jesus Christ is so important. Sometimes individuals will rush when closing their prayer and not realizing how important the closing in THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST is.
Bonnie CaldwellNovember 7, 2021
Beautiful article! Thanks for sharing!
Becky WilliamsNovember 7, 2021
I am trying to find out when the church first introduced the concept of a year's supply. I would love to read what was said at the time. Did it start out as a general principle and then get more detailed? I did find this article in 1976 but would like to go back further: https://abn.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1976/04/food-storage?lang=eng&abVersion=V00&abName=GLOB88
Debra HessNovember 6, 2021
No Shots for children, that would be risking their lives for too many unknowns.... many deaths have occurred and many teens now have life long heart problems after getting it. Why risk your children's health when the recovery of the virus is almost 100 %! Thank you for the article, and for NOT following the lies from the CDC and from Fauci....it's not about safe guarding the children, it's all about making billions for the drug companies and for those tied into them.
BoBNovember 6, 2021
Wow. Thank you.
Jacob HessNovember 6, 2021
Megan – you’re right to be concerned about this. I have too – and any faithful Saint should be. You’re right that prophetic counsel will increasingly “break from what the noisy, contentious world tells us is true.” In this case, of course, prophets have agreed with what the world is saying. Regardless, it hasn’t been easy for many to follow. You’re right they have encouraged members embrace vaccination for many things, including COVID-19. But it’s also the case, as they state in their message, that this is predicated on the vaccine being truly “safe and effective.” They simply wouldn’t advise the course if they weren’t assured it was – hence the relevance of this due diligence inquiry.
My primary concern throughout this has been its impact on our faith and unity – and I’ve written about it elsewhere extensively:
https://www.millennialstar.org/to-those-who-love-the-prophet-but-not-the-vaccine/
https://publicsquaremag.org/health/covid-19-vaccination-as-an-abrahamic-test/
(In my experience, Meridian Magazine editors and contributors constantly speak of sustaining the prophet).
Clod Doc – I’m sorry to hear about the health issues you’re having post-vaccination. I do think you’re right we need to have a more transparent, forthright public conversation about that – as Senator Mike Lee and others have called for. Hoping the Lord can lead you to healing.
B. H. Murray – in the very same moment you lay out these stats, others will quote official sources saying “no deaths have been officially connected to the vaccines.” Who is to be believed? Even the post-vaccine deaths and injuries are subject to competing interpretive frameworks and narratives. It’s downright confusing! But post-treatment confusion is something others have explored in great depth (see “Is it me or my medicine” by Boston sociologist David Karp. I’m working on another piece on exactly this – would love to hear what you think.
Tandart – The purpose of this is not simply to spread doubt, but to raise honest questions about data on which millions of parents will not only get their children vaccinated, but likely be forced to. If there were ever a public issue worth critically examining fully, this would be it!
Alan –The financial incentives are obvious. But I do think it’s going too far to say it’s “not about saving the children.” I believe most people on all sides of this really do want to keep people healthy – young and old – they just have very different beliefs about the best way to pursue it.
Really important question, Kevin. It’s true that what we’ve almost always heard is if we don’t act quickly to vaccinate, that failure will *allow* the virus to mutate. The other line of thinking (that you don’t hear as often, but which deserves a lot more consideration) is that it’s precisely when a virus runs into a mass vaccine barricade, that it’s forced to mutate. From the latter view, it’s the mass vaccination itself that prompts escalating mutations – rather than being the key to stop them.
RanaeNovember 6, 2021
The vaccine is what forces the virus to mutate into something the vaccine does not protect against. Natural immunity appears to be protective against all forms of the virus. Without natural herd immunity, the strains that bypass the vaccine are the ones that survive to spread throughout the population.
SandyNovember 6, 2021
The Prophet has "urged" adults to get the vaccine but he has also told us that we need to "hear Him". I think that is what we are being encouraged to do --get our own revelation for ourselves and our family. In order to "study it out in our minds and then ask" we need to have facts such as these presented to us.
RoseAnn BensonNovember 6, 2021
Diane-I loved the context and lessons you drew out of this!
Ronald PolsleyNovember 6, 2021
It must be understood that members of the CDC staff resigned in protest over giving this jab to children. Thousands of nurses that insist you get the flu vaccine say no thanks to this truly unproven new system, they are not ignorant and they are not sheep. We are commanded to not blindly follow anyone.
Linda WillisNovember 5, 2021
Few doctrines make more perfect sense than the fact that we have Parents in Heaven. The use of the term Heavenly Parents in General Conference the past 10 years far exceeds all previous conferences. President Ballard referred to Moses 1:39 (most frequently quoted Conference scripture) by saying, "For behold this is 'their' work and 'their' glory..." Hallelujah!
Clod DocNovember 5, 2021
After having the shots, I now have Atrial fibrillation. I have never had heart problems before and when I went to the doctor and suggested that my problem might have been caused by the vaccine he replied that sh*t happens. I don't like that answer and the medications I have to take to prevent a stroke or death. I may just be the 1% that are affected this way, but my quality of life matters.
Since then my wife, immuno-compromised and unvaccinated, tested positive for Covid. She was miserable for a couple of weeks, but survived. I had cold symptoms for 3-4 days. Did the shots prevent me from worse symptoms?? Who knows, but I'm concerned about my grandchildren being forced to take the shots.
Lawrence J SteimleNovember 5, 2021
Glad to see this article and the comments supporting skepticism. And to Tandart, there are experts on both/all sides of this issue. How do you choose an expert? I would rather get the virus than the shot.
Steve DoneganNovember 5, 2021
We have a sign that says: Satan knows your name, but calls you by your sin. God knows your sin, but calls you by your name.
Heather RiemanNovember 5, 2021
While I understand the purpose of your article to focus our attention on eternal progression the way it is presented missed one very important teaching from many general authorities. There are many who do not have the opportunity in mortality to make the covenant associated with eternal marriage. Those people have been promised that they will be given that opportunity after they leave mortality. I feel like you missed the opportunity to point out that the order of progression will extend after we leave mortality.
Lexie StatonNovember 5, 2021
After watching the Nov. 2 roundtable discussion about vaccine injuries and mandates led by Senator Ron Johnson, and hearing the testimony of Stephanie de Garay regarding the life altering health consequences her 12 year old daughter Maddie experienced by participating in a Pfizer vaccine trial for 12-15 year olds and the lack of reporting/coverup of these incidents by those who conducted the trial, I was left seriously doubting the integrity of the data we are given regarding the efficacy and safety of these vaccines. Additionally, Dr. Suneel Dhand has a video on YouTube detailing disturbing issues in how the Pfizer trials are conducted in some places, and again, I was left with the feeling that these people cannot be trusted. VIGILANCE is needed when it comes to our children and grandchildren.
MeganNovember 5, 2021
My biggest concern is that the prophet himself to us to get this vaccine. I don't see that mentioned here. The counsel we received from the prophet will increasingly break from what the noisy, contentious world tells us is true. And it won't be easy to follow. I wish we heard more of the prophet's counsel from Meridian Magazine.
TerriNovember 5, 2021
This is a beautifully sculpted essay on a subject that is extremely valuable to know about and understand in our day to day routines. Demonic reign is everywhere. once it is recognized, with a clear understanding of their multiple tactics and their motivations, their power and influence can be drastically reduced in our lives. So thank you for sharing your wisdom.
David SampsonNovember 5, 2021
I agree with the analysis although nothing is said about the possibility that the woman's motive may be anger and retaliation on this man. Motives are seldom simple and she may have many aspects to her reason for wanting to tell the wife, but if part of her motive is to retaliate against him, hoping to hurt him back then, in my opinion, that would indicate to me that she should walk away and work on her own need for repentance.
GregNovember 5, 2021
Fauci has obfuscated on so many levels, he is untrustworthy. Big Pharma is in it for the money, can we trust them? Do I have to even mention politicians? You do you and I will do me.
HalNovember 5, 2021
I wonder if there are any studies to determine how well children are taught to deal with the inevitable disappointments in life and the effect that has on suicidal thoughts. When I majored in psychology some 40 years ago, there seemed to be a lot of evidence to indicate that children who were protected from disappointment, hardship, and struggles in childhood never learned to cope with these normal life events. When these protected children were later faced with unpleasant situations during their adolescent years, (that the parents could not shield them from), these children were overwhelmed to the point of attempting suicide because they had no experience in coping with the normal stresses of life. The case that stood out to me was a young girl whose parents made sure she was never disappointed. If it rained the day of a planned picnic, they took her to a movie. They did everything they could to protect her from any and all events that might make her sad or anxious. When this girl reached her mid-teens, she became romantically involved with a boy who later rejected her. This was a disappointment her parents could not protect her from and, because she had never learned to deal with disappointment in her childhood, she was devastated and attempted to take her own life. This may be an over-simplified example, but I believe children need to be taught to deal with unpleasant events throughout their lives. Doing so makes them resilient and better able to cope with the "slings and arrows" that inevitably come in life.
B. H. MurrayNovember 5, 2021
We hear that the Covid vaccines are SAFE and EFFECTIVE. How effective? We were told that the Pfizer vaccine was 95% effective. Now scientific studies from Israel are telling us the Pfizer vaccine is only 42% effective. People are asked to take two vaccines. Then they found out that those who are fully vaccinated can still get Covid and can still spread Covid, and they are still required to wear masks. Now we are also told we will need to get booster shots every 4-6 months. For how many years will we be asked to take boosters every 4-6 months? Do you call that EFFECTIVE? Now let's talk about how SAFE these covid shots are. Between December 14, 2020 and October 15, 2021, there have been 818,044 adverse events reported to VAERS (an arm of the CDC for reporting adverse effects and deaths from the covid vaccines.) There have been 17,128 deaths. 117,399 of the adverse events were serious injuries. VAERS only reports 1% of actual vaccine effects. There were 1,200 cases of myocarditis and pericarditis in 16-24-year olds. The highest rates are in the youngest kids according to Dr. Meryl Nass. Does that sound SAFE to you? Maybe these numbers are considered statistically safe, based on how many millions of doses have been given out, but when little children have a statistical chance of 0% of dying from Covid, why would anyone want to take any kind of a chance on these vaccines? It is impossible to know what their long term effects will be in many areas, including fertility which will matter to these kids in the future.
JessNovember 5, 2021
I think also honest enough is a valid question- the pharmaceutical company making many of these vaccines has just been caught (again) lying about trial safety data. That’s a hard thing to trust when all of the pharmaceutical companies have paid out billions of dollars in criminal fines and settlements because they were intentionally dishonest and bribed doctors, hid or destroyed critical information from safety trials multiple times. That kind of trust once broken is hard to win back- but here again, there is evidence of dishonesty in the all of the clinical safety trials- but especially the pediatric trials. How can we trust not only our health but our children to serial offenders?
Dale TerryNovember 5, 2021
Thank you for publishing an article that asks questions that many parents have about the data and how it is used. Seems like anyone could take the same data sample and justify any result they are looking for.
Lynn JohnsonNovember 5, 2021
I disagree with the analysis. The question is, what would the young woman want if positions were reversed? Would she want to know? If she decides the answer is yes, then she has a moral duty to approach the wife, and try to figure out what the wife wants. So if it were me, I would want to know and so I would approach the wife and at least offer information.
TandartNovember 5, 2021
I'm not sure what the purpose of this doubting opinion is. It sounds like a group of penguins who know a sea leopard is out there, but I won't be the first one into the water. So they wait until one of the community falls or is pushed into the water. Then they know whether the predator is there or not.Or maybe one is there but just not hungry at the moment. When I hire an expert to give me an opinion, I plan on taking that expert's advice. Get the shot or get the virus.
Alan WildNovember 5, 2021
The key thing here is what Fauci said, "Even though the chances of (a child) getting sick and seriously ill are small,"
This isn't about saving the children. It is about making additional billions for those purveying these troublesome shots, including Fauci himself. It is time to push back.
KevinNovember 5, 2021
I understand what you are saying. And thank you for the article. But could you address the issue of viral mutation if millions of children are allowed to naturally get the virus and build immunity? Aren't we risking this virus mutating into something that the vaccine no longer protects against?
Mary StosichNovember 4, 2021
After reading this article, I feel I have brushed against genius. It is easier to see the demonic in myself and race to visualize the patheticism of my state. Only then am I able to change. Thank you for an interesting and motivating article.
Ronald BarnesNovember 4, 2021
Without going into details, I have had direct confrontations with demons so I have first-hand knowledge of their existence.
lucy casablancaNovember 4, 2021
great article, thanks. I had always heard-read that the freezer method was to freeze 72 hours but you say 2 weeks. can you please clarify? What do you do to avoid food sweatting afterwards and going bad?
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2021
What a great article! However, I certainly don't "forget to turn" to the Lord or the scriptures for strength and guidance in family matters, and I have a hard time believing other saints "forget" as well. In fact, I think most of us are praying for our families, relationships, and problems on a regular basis! I have noticed that a lot of Meridian articles have titles that take a somewhat "finger-pointing" approach. It would be nice to have a more positive approach instead of titles that introduce the article with the idea that "You have fallen short here, and it's my job to set you straight!" Instead, let's have faith that most of the Saints are already trying to keep the commandments and to build their faith. The articles in Meridian are very valuable in strengthening that resolve and teaching gospel truths without the assumption that we are always failing.
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2021
This is so very timely right now! I believe that discouragement is probably the number #1 way that Satan sneaks into the minds of Latter-day Saints who are truly trying to be righteous. It is ironic that he uses the very gospel that will save us by twisting our perspective into believing the gospel is too hard-- that it is our burden to endure, instead of OUR HOPE! The healing key for me is feeling the love and deep compassion of Christ, manifested to me by the power of the Holy Ghost. It has been revealed to me through reading the Book of Mormon. We can be richly blessed through praying to feel the love of Christ in our hearts.
HelenNovember 4, 2021
A powerful, thought-provoking essay. Thank you.
Patricia WintersNovember 4, 2021
Beautiful!
MAbernethyNovember 4, 2021
Excellent. So many thoughts I had never considered. I have one question, why was the casting out of evil spirits such a common part of Jesus' and the apostles' experience and not ours, or as you mention, that of the Book of Mormon peoples? Casting out evil spirits is something we never discuss with regard to our use of the priesthood, neither is there any reference to it in the Handbook of Instructions or previous Priesthood manuals that I'm aware.
KathleenNovember 3, 2021
. . . If I only had a brain!
LexaGraemeNovember 3, 2021
Good story. It must have looked like a parade!
HalNovember 3, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful insight. I, too, have had many "stings" in my life that resulted in wonderful blessings. Some of these "stings'" were so emotionally painful, I thought I would never recover. It is wonderful to have a testimony that we have a loving Father who knows what is best for us even if it is painful and may temporarily leave us wondering why we have to go through such a trial.
Vivian M AdamsNovember 3, 2021
This was a wonderful and instructive article. Thank you so much.
TerryNovember 3, 2021
I feel this article really portrayed those who were interviewed. It was a second witness both of my own struggle and how Heavenly Father spoke to me through it. Even through all the pressure around me, I felt peaceful and knew Heavenly Father gave me time to seek His will and come to understand more fully. It has been a significant, spiritual experience which i will draw on and cherish. I believe in and experience personal revelation and other's right to it as well. What a blessing it is for us to have a prophet who leads us and a Savior who died for us that we may repent and come to know Him better and be like Him!
Beth TeeplesNovember 3, 2021
Thank You for your description of Daniel & Nebuchadnezzar‘s dream. My heart was truly touched. I am so grateful for your insights for they’ve increased my desire to improve the tension I feel between truth and love. You’ve articulated the thoughts I’ve had for many years yet could not put down on paper. You are a fine and brilliant son of God!
Robert CowartNovember 2, 2021
I was baptized in Newport News Virginia in 1961 while serving in the USAF at Langley AFB. A few months later on a Sunday evening at the Sacrament meeting I was sitting in the back of the chapel and for the first time I was singing the words to "Oh My Father".When we came to" in the heavens are parents single,no the thought makes reason stare truth is reason truth eternal tells me I've a Mother there." I was not a person who cries easily but I was so overcome with that truth I started crying and could not stop until the meeting ended. I shall never forget that experience.
Robert Cowart
Shauna PetersonNovember 2, 2021
Oh how I wish every Primary child (girls and boys alike) could be taught and internalize this doctrine so that for the next generation of Latter-day-Saints it is not some fringe, hushed doctrine, but an inclusive, valued and implemented culture where all can feel of their divine nature and worth as a child of God(s).
Annie JensenNovember 2, 2021
Nice, thanks.
stevie maireid mckennaNovember 2, 2021
That was a great article and a topic that should be more openly taught in Church. I joined the church when I was 14 and knew it was all true, everything that I learned. However, I began to feel this taboo about speaking of Heavenly Mother. I heard crazy non-sensible reasons why this idea developed. One was that she is so holy that Heavenly Father wanted to shield her from the knowledge of the sins that Her children were committing on earth. That implied that she was such an emotional weakling that knowledge of the sins we commit on earth would devastate her. That isn't a perfect being. There were others just as ludicrous. The fact remains, as you stated, that God or Elohim is the plural form. God is the exaltation of two beings Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother. Thanks for writing about this truth.
RitaNovember 2, 2021
My favorite memory of Halloween was the year my mom and I went to see Disney's "Fantasia". The "Night on Bald Mountain" piece, with its massive demon being overcome and subdued by Christianity, in the form of a line of lantern-bearing priests, the sacred music, and coming of dawn (the Light of Christ), made a huge impression on a 10 year old girl. We were Lutherans at the time, but I don't remember my parents mentioning anything about the Reformation. I left that church a few years later, hunting and searching for the answers neither it, nor any other church I looked at, could provide. When I found the CJCLDS, I again remembered the impressions I'd had as a child. 45 years later, I still love Halloween (I was a wood elf this year), but have an adult's understanding of just how that demon was conquered.
Charles (Russ) NickelNovember 2, 2021
For years I have been talking about Faith vs. Fear. I created sort of a meme where FEAR is an acronym for False Evidence Appearing Real and FAITH is an acronym for Full Acceptance In The Heart. I may not be original in this but I think I am. I'm happy to see your comments.
Bonnie A. CaldwellNovember 2, 2021
I loved this article, McArthur. Thank you for writing and researching this needed perspective. Loved meeting you in Chiang Mai!
Debbi M.November 2, 2021
TY once again for a beautiful and enlightening article! Truth resonates here, and clarifies so many of my thoughts and feelings. I am so thankful that you are willing to speak up and de-mystify so many concepts that our church culture (vs. the Gospel) has muddied. You go, girl! I cannot wait for further truths to be revealed about our Heavenly Mother.
Bonnie CaldwellNovember 2, 2021
Thank you for this article, McArther. It needed to be written!! Loved meeting you in Chiang Mai!!
CBroNovember 2, 2021
Heavenly Mother was essential to bring into existence the First Born, Jehovah, our Savior Jesus Christ. For that first birth there were only the three; Jehovah, Our Heavenly Father, and Our Heavenly Mother. After that I don't know how long it took for all of the rest of the inhabitants the earth to be born. We are all children of our Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother born to them in the same manner as their First Born.
Rita MillerNovember 2, 2021
A beautiful way of thinking. It appears reasonable and right to us, but to the rest of the Christian world, it's a rank h heresy. I have many friends, Baptists, Methodists, and others, who are quite averse to even the thought of God being both male and female. They see it as pagan Goddess worship, especially those who believe in "sola scriptura". Are there any books or articles that address their concerns?
Concerned MemberNovember 2, 2021
Point 1: When this comes up most members are really concerned about the reverence that needs to be shown to all our heavenly relatives. God the Father and Christ have been mocked and denigrated in speech and art for years. It’s not some secret we have a Heavenly Mother or that she has a role. What is more concerning is that members are using this Mother in Heaven approach in other mediums to justify praying and worshiping Heavenly Mother. Several members of my stake are actively praying to Her against the council from modern prophets and Christ himself who taught us how to pray. Additionally it is being used by some more progressive members as a way to say Heavenly Mother sides with me and Heavenly Father is just “Patriarchal”. People are trying a bottoms up approach to revelation and are trying to use this as a hidden catalyst to move members to justify other progressive ideologies. Most members who push this agenda want to change the definition of marriage and have issues with our binary gender construct.
Point 2: This is life eternal is to know God the Father and Jesus Christ John 17:3. We barely even know much about God the Father. Our focus should be on Him and His Son. I think 600 references is a stretch as I have read most of the work on this and think writers are using confirmation bias. There are also over 500 references to Bread and 500 references to the Rivers. It doesn’t mean we need to be focusing more attention as a church on Bread and Rivers. We all acknowledge Her existence and believe She has an important role. Exactly what that role is has not been revealed. Heavenly Grandparents and Uncles and Aunts may also play a role.
Point 3: Our relationship with Christ should be the focus in this life. Most everything else is a distraction. With all of the “references” you cite we really don’t know much let alone how many Heavenly Mothers we have and that we all derive from the same one. What are Her physical characteristics what does her voice sound like, what is Her role in the Heavens? Is She a member of the Godhead or something else? We really don’t even understand at this point all the implications and details of what God is and the Godhead. Our Mother may play a more intimate role in our lives in the next life but in this life our purpose is to get to know The Father and the Son.
Warren AstonNovember 2, 2021
THANK YOU Meridian Magazine for publishing this excellent reminder of the "other half of Heaven," the Mother of all our spirits, and thank you McArthur for expressing these neglected but infinitely eternal truths so beautifully! My grandchildren have your books introducing our Mother in Heaven at a child's level, but we adults need to keep her in mind every bit as much.
Happy grandmaNovember 2, 2021
Most of us don't live close to our grandchildren, to do such wonderful things. Yes, we have cell phones and texting, but one has to find the time for these events. Not easy when we see them so seldom -- even in the same state. And, their families are so busy, it is hard to find any alone time.
vickieNovember 1, 2021
i didnt read the entire thing but i disagree with conclusions that come to blaming religion for depression. any religion that is. before i ever joined the church i went through my first episode of major depression and anxiety disorder. it was painful and i didnt take medication. i joined the church a few years later. i found that being a member of the church helped me through my depression episodes. i havent had any in a long time. my depression comes from my genetic makeup. my mother had it and i had it and my daughter had it. my mother was a catholic and i know that being a catholic didnt cause her depression. maybe people who suffer from depression are more sensitive and that sensitivity is a good thing because it humbles you to be able to be comforted by the HOly Spirit. My Faith is what sustained me. i thank God every day for being a member of the church.
Laurie PinegarNovember 1, 2021
Great article Diana! Loved this one!
DonnaNovember 1, 2021
Thanks for dispelling this old and inaccurate myth. I only read the article because of the headline. I DID believe Utahns were more depressed, based on that very old and inaccurate info. This is a very encouraging article, and I especially agree with the list of 10 near the end. Thank you!! Very relevant!
Theodore BrandleyNovember 1, 2021
Although there are some reasonable arguments for Christ being married during his mortal ministry I don’t find any of them compelling. What I do find compelling is the following:
“The Son can do nothing of himself, but what he seeth the Father do: for what things soever he doeth, these also doeth the Son likewise.” (John 5:19)
Jesus was “the only begotten son” of the Father (see John 3:16), so the Father obviously did not have any offspring while He was in mortality. Therefore the Son would not have done so either.
Also for the following reasons I do not believe that Jesus was married in mortality:
It would have been irresponsible for Him to have done so because He had no home and knew that He would not be around to support His wife nor to raise His children.
Jesus was sired by the Father and therefore had the seeds of immortality within him. He gave up His own life, no one took it from Him (John 10:17-18). If Jesus had children in mortality would some of them carry this “immortality gene?” No, that would not happen.
On the cross he asked John to take care of His mother but said nothing about a wife or child, who would have been His first responsibility.
Jesus obviously was or will be married, but I believe that it was or would be after His resurrection. Perhaps He was sealed to Mary Magdalen during the 40 days He was on the earth subsequent to His resurrection?
James ScottNovember 1, 2021
While I can agree Jesus was married, Jewish custom usually require young men to marry typically arranged by parents. However the idea that there are quarter children of God on the Earth doesn’t make sense.
The declaration of generations is covered in Mosiah 15: 10 And now I say unto you, who shall declare his generation? Behold, I say unto you, that when his soul has been made an offering for sin he shall see his seed. And now what say ye? And who shall be his seed?
11 Behold I say unto you, that whosoever has heard the words of the prophets, yea, all the holy prophets who have prophesied concerning the coming of the Lord—I say unto you, that all those who have hearkened unto their words, and believed that the Lord would redeem his people, and have looked forward to that day for a remission of their sins, I say unto you, that these are his seed, or they are the heirs of the kingdom of God.
This verse indicates his generation will be AFTER the atoning sacrifice. Having blood children by resurrected individuals is not possible. His children therefore are those believing and worthy followers and covenant keepers and not blood relatives.
Scot ProctorOctober 31, 2021
See the response to the comment above.
Scot ProctorOctober 31, 2021
This is the title from a Non-Latter-day Saint publication.
ChrisOctober 31, 2021
Thank you for sharing this article. We read and hear that His grace is sufficient, but so many of us really don't believe it. But it's true...His grace is sufficient. It's enough, no matter how huge or how small our mistakes and poor choices might be.
There is a reason the Savior is referred to as our Healer.. it's because only He can heal our wounds and our brokenness, and He is always willing to do that if only we are willing to allow it.
EneffceeOctober 30, 2021
Amazing! Your question sounds as if I had written it myself. Obviously Dr. Steurer has a stable and working marriage and relationship with his wife and hasn’t experienced the loneliness that develops over years of this type of treatment. I have tried kindness, patience, suggestions and communicating skills for so many years that yes, I finally do feel unloved and unlovable (53 years of marriage) and have given up on having a fulfilling commitment together. My testimony is solid that I am worthwhile in the Savior’s eyes, but it doesn’t preclude the need for human validation and attention from my mate on this side of the veil. At this stage in life I am praying for endurance and long-suffering and a better suited, more compatible partner for the eternities. The Savior’s comfort attends me daily—that’s all I can hope for for now, and am grateful and blessed for that.
Pam BlairOctober 29, 2021
Oh, to have been able to film it all --- alas! Cell phone cameras were still in the future. I laughed - even as I read it for the third time!!! Sugar beets- must have been in my area of Idaho...
Sherelyn CuretonOctober 29, 2021
Thank you both for sharing this great message about this beautiful Temple. I just love listening each week to your Podcasts. They fill my heart with gladness.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 29, 2021
Thank you for this article. It was very interesting and informative.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 29, 2021
This was so delightful to read. What a family memory!
Maryann TaylorOctober 29, 2021
What a great story--especially for this time of year. My husband I and love walking through cemeteries. As we read the markers, great stories unfold. I think about their experiences, their heartaches, their family ties. Often parents outlived their children. Sometimes it is obvious from the death dates that an epidemic must have raged through the community. Recently we visited a cemetery where many graves were arranged along a circular path. It was a memorial to many men who had lost their lives in fighting a huge fire in that area. Cemeteries are sacred places to us--where people are honored and remembered.
Maryann TaylorOctober 29, 2021
I think you meant "Why are so many of the most influential moms on the internet members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints?" Right?
Kary NelsonOctober 29, 2021
Are you serious?!? She asked how to reestablish connection to her self-absorbed husband, and your answer was, "improve your relationship with Jesus Christ and everything will magically fall into place"? What if her self-worth is just fine, what if she already has a strong relationship with Jesus and her Heavenly Parents? Then what? I have read your column for years and generally agree with or learn from your answers, but this one is not helpful at all. It sounds like victim-blaming, and gives NO counsel for connecting with her spouse beyond a vague 'I'm sure you'll figure it out....'
Valerie LuntOctober 29, 2021
I met Jerry in 2009 at the Books for Young Readers Symposium at BYU. Upon hearing of his passing, I got out and hugged my autographed copy of Sam and the Tigers, a wonderful retelling of an old folk tale. He was funny, creative, personable, and definitely nice! So grateful for the opportunity to meet and chat with him.
AdinaOctober 29, 2021
Just a friendly reminder that we are asked to remove "Mormon" from our identity as a church! An interesting article for sure, thank you!!!
Greg RicksOctober 29, 2021
"Clearly, we must work, but what we work for determines if the work is telestial or celestial."
This is the best comment in the whole article!
Diane QuistOctober 29, 2021
That’s a funny story. I love how it was written.
SarahOctober 29, 2021
Check out Dr ramani on you tube, she may also help you see if this is the type of relationship you are in and give you some tools.
Celeste TipianiOctober 29, 2021
That was an interesting article you wrote. Thank you for sharing your experiences. Wow, I bet that was incredibly painful when you got stung by that stingray. I had a similar situation with the housing situation and we bid on this house and so hopeful we would get it, but that did not happen. I was so disappointed when our bid was turned down. But we ended up building our home and that turned out to be the best thing we did. This was 28 years ago and I am grateful we did not get that original house that we wanted. Sometimes greater blessings come if we just be patient!
Maryann TaylorOctober 28, 2021
I LOVE the Harry Potter books and there are so MANY good lessons in them--love and loyalty to friends, importance of family relationships, the quest for learning and growing, personal sacrifices to bless others, and on and on. I highly recommend them.
Maryann TaylorOctober 28, 2021
I would be less concerned about stepping on the ex-husband's toes and more concerned about what strong actions to take to protect the children from his possible continued addiction to pornography. It would be a very good idea for the wife to consult a lawyer regarding what legal actions she can take IF the ex is still engaging in this kind of behavior. She might also seek out professional counsel regarding how to engage her children in conversation regarding this subject so that they will be able to open up and tell her what goes on at dad's house.
Helmut Worle (native of Germany; adopted, by naturalization, U.S. citizen)October 28, 2021
I realize this may sound petty, but I must offer a small correction: One can adopt a country for the purpose of citizenship, but one cannot adopt a country to become a native of it. The word native means the place you were born. You can be a native Swede, but if you were not born in Sweden no amount of love or affinity will make you a native of that country. It would violate grammar.
JON COOPEROctober 28, 2021
Ty, Thank you for a tremendous insight into this topic and situation. A key word you used to help understand each of these positions is 'empathy'. This is an incredibly difficult emotion to develop since it requires the individual to do what you suggested: try to understand where the other person is coming from to then better show forth greater love. All this without sacrificing truth. I feel this is obtainable through the influence of the Holy Ghost as we try to love and serve one another. Thank you for a great article.
Melanee PhillipsOctober 28, 2021
I've always loved Jerry Pinkney's beautiful books...his kindness makes it even better.
Carol AnnOctober 28, 2021
Where and what time will you be in Herriman, UT, on Nov. 9th? What exactly will you be addressing?
SharOctober 28, 2021
I agree with Kenny. It's truly an attack the closer you get to Salt Lake. I appreciate the deep dive into the data.
I do feel Utah has a preoccupation with body image-which is unfortunate. I never felt it was the teachings of the church about women but rather the increase of problems with pornography. If I remember correctly a few years back Utah declared pornography a health crisis or something like that.
Even though the cause of pornography use or addiction isn't due to inadequate appearances of husbands/wives/significant others Satan's war is to try to convince us otherwise. I see the attacks of Satan when I drive the freeway in Salt Lake.
I appreciate this post but still have such a heart for those (including myself) who struggle with body image.
CarolOctober 28, 2021
I would love to have the phrase: " Well done, thou good and faithful servant". Matt25:21 used for my funeral.
MeridenOctober 28, 2021
Will Deseret Book be carrying this book?
Michele NoelOctober 28, 2021
This is a well thought out article yet the statement that ‘sexual addiction is rare’ is completely out of line. I have been highly involved with LDS Addiction Recovery for a decade. The resources referenced on that issue defy reality. In the trenches of this work we do a terrible disservice to addicts and those who love them when we minimize the realities of this plague. Bishops and Stake Presidents are being overwhelmed by the volume of need for COMPETENT 12 step groups and professional counselors. See Elder Hollands 2016 address to the Utah Coalition Against Pornography. The ideas regarding developing a shame-free environment in our homes is right on and we would do well to employ them in our wards and stakes. Please a see Dr. Donald L. Hilton Jr. fantastic book He Restoreth My Soul.
CoreyOctober 27, 2021
I appreciate your well written article and your emphasis on being Christ like no matter the situation. I personally received the vaccine but only because the Pfizer was available, I have a brother who has not had it and his company which is also the same company I just retired from has given them until the 1st week of December, so 35 yrs of service may just get thrown out the door for him but he believes the principle is greater to stand up for. I have great concerns about the vaccine for anybody under twelve, there is just not enough long term data. Can you imagine the outcry if schools/universities required testing for venereal disease or AIDS or required HPV vaccinations even though statistically they could show a need. Federal Law prohibits any employer from not only discriminating because of religion but they can't even bring it up but they are able now because of Covid to ask for a document which basically shows your religion ?
CoreyOctober 27, 2021
There are more plastic surgeons per capita along the Wasatch Front than anywhere else in the nation.
James RawsonOctober 27, 2021
I enjoyed your article on repentance! Reminds me of the three years I worked with prisoners at the Utah State prison! At that time I was teaching 20 of them all former LDS who were serving time for murder! We were all involved in the family history research program called name extraction and this group extracted hundreds of thousands of names of our black brothers and sisters! One prisoner with whom I worked was in for life! One night he received a dream from one of his ancestors that his temple work needed to be done. Over a period of time he compiled the names I’ve nearly 45,000 of his ancestors and submitted them for temple work! One day when President Kimball and his counselor who was over all of the prisons housing LDS and former LDS members was visiting with him and he asked the prophet will the Lord ever forgive me and his answer to this good man was you have been and are a Savior on Mount Zion for your ancestors! To me personally, There is no doubt in my mind that the Lord forgives all who truly repent of their sins no matter the gravity!
KaryOctober 27, 2021
I would suggest reading the book, "Jacob, a brief theological introduction", by Deidre Nicole Green (published by the Neal A. Maxwell Institute). In chapter 3 she discusses Jacob and Sherem and has a different take on this topic, which, honestly, I find far more inspirational and in keeping with Jacob's Christlike personality. Highly recommend this book--and all of the books in this series! They are very insightful..
Kenny MazzantiOctober 27, 2021
Drive north or south on I.15 in the Salt Lake City area, and you will see more billboards advertising various forms of body sculpting, surgical enhancements of female body parts, facelifts, and "youthful" regeneration than on the rest of the entirety of I.15 in CA, NV, ID or MT.
MaryOctober 27, 2021
Thank you for this thoughtful and well articulated response to a perpetuation of a stereotype. And let’s continue our individual and collective journey to honor our divine natures in creating love, truth and beauty in all dimensions of our lives as Latter-day Saint women.
SHOctober 27, 2021
I am not from Utah but do have family there. I do always feel bombarded when I enter Utah --the closer to Salt Lake I get the more bombarded I get with billboards promoting plastic surgery. I appreciate the breakdown of data here. But I have always assumed Utah had a bigger problem.
My assumption (which is just that: an assumption) has always been not that teachings of women in the church lead to this infatuation with appearance, but the increase in problems with pornography.
I do think these two things are related. While a husband/ viewing pornography does not have anything to do with a woman's appearance or "lack" in any way, women can still feel as though that's the case. Satan can lead women astray with the implications that they are not enough.
conOctober 27, 2021
one of the culprits resulting in osteoporosis is refined foods, especially 'healthy' vegetable oils, probably worse than candy. "eat foods as close to the way God made them as possible." Ezra Taft Benson
KathyOctober 27, 2021
I love labeling life's disappointments as 'stings' that often bring forth greater blessings.
Sally SmithOctober 26, 2021
I was thrilled when I heard the announcement if a temple in Ephraim. Being from Manti I was also somewhat surprised. But then I said to myself, "The Lord has great things in store for these two historical towns in the bosom of the great state of Utah
Margaret TOctober 26, 2021
When Bishop Causse talked in our stake conference recently, he said something to the effect: "When we keep our covenants, the Lord will bring to pass His plan for us--not necessarily our plan, but His plan." I couldn't help but think of that when reading your insightful article. Thank you for sharing.
Linda WillisOctober 26, 2021
I have read this article 3 times and appreciated the fact that both Meridian Magazine and LDS Living posted it. I have also listened to Ty's podcast on the same topic. It strikes the balance of truth and love and calls upon all of us to do better and be better. It brings comfort to my soul to know that Doctrine and Love can live together in our minds, hearts, and lives perfectly.
Paul l ChappellOctober 26, 2021
I have always cherished and honored Christopher Columbus. Sad that others don't believe the truth. One fact that is missing, that helped restore the gospel, is he didn't rely on a sexton and the stars, but his compass. Magnetic north back then and increasingly now, isn't aligned with true north. If he had sailed due west, he'd have landed on the eastern seaboard of the US. He ended up sailing in a more south westerly direction, I feel, so that English law could be established here, not the civil or Roman law of the Spaniards. Because of his discovery, more people who used a sexton, from the UK, claimed and settled what became the US and Canada.
Robert D StarlingOctober 26, 2021
Thanks Mariah, for these inspired insights. My wife tripped and did a "face plant" on concrete last year which was quite painful, but the X-rays taken in the ER revealed a dime-sized cancerous tumor in her lungs that surgery removed. It could have easily grown undetected without that "sting".
And 25 years ago I lost a great job in Los Angeles, but that loss made me "available" for a much better job in Utah so we could "escape" from LA.
Indeed, as the title of a book that my daughter helped write says, "God's gifts to us sometimes come wrapped in sandpaper". And as Garth Brooks' song says, "sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers".
PattiOctober 26, 2021
Oh yes our loving God,after descending below All things stands with us,in our trials and our pain to give us His grace to be healed,lifted and to be above where we were! Oh Praise and Gratitude to our all powerful, yet gracious, Savior and King!
Linda WOctober 26, 2021
Very insightful! Thank you for sharing your experiences so that others can learn.
Mauga TuiotiOctober 26, 2021
Thank you, I love reading articles from your site, always appreciate what I learn from your megazine
JustinOctober 26, 2021
The FDA knew of a large number of adverse side effects of the vaccine BEFORE approval as shown in a presentation given Oct 22, 2020. Look on youtube for a presentation called "Vaccines and Related Biological Products Advisory Committee - 10/22/2020"
Go to 2:33:40 (2 hours 33 minutes and 35 seconds.... the slide will go by in less than a half a second at the 40 second mark). There are 22 separate bulleted items.
Kat ColtonOctober 25, 2021
Thank you so much for your meaningful and helpful analysis. I think you are really on to a critical thought here that helps me to step out of much of the confusion around this topic swirling in my head and see how I can do better to balance this tension between love and law.
C ShielddOctober 25, 2021
As an incesr survivor, myself, I understand her initial disdain and feelings of betrayal. It took thousands of dollars and hours of various forms of therapy, but after 10 years, I was blessed with the miracle of forgiveness. The vitriol I harbored for my perpetrator wasn't doing anything to him, but was literakly destroying me. Once that burden was lifted, I got my Self back and felt so much freer and lighter!
Forgiveness is a the ultimate gift for the forgiver....
Kerry FarrOctober 25, 2021
Thank you so much Ty. This is the best article I have ever read on this subject.
I feel I have a much better understanding of what is going on and how to react to it.
Rhoda AndersonOctober 25, 2021
Excellent points to ponder-- thank you for these words!
Dave HansenOctober 25, 2021
I've always been curious why Christians believe baptism for the dead is a heretical principle. They have come up with dozens of reasons that it is not of God in order to protect their beliefs. I wonder if they think those early people who Paul said practiced it were Christians, or heathens???
MaureenOctober 25, 2021
Interesting article. My brother swears by pickle juice for nighttime leg cramping. The role of vitamin K, however, is not to prevent blood clotting but to promote it. Big diff.
MargieOctober 25, 2021
Seek a sealing cancellation as soon as your divorce is final. If you are turned down, insist on meeting personally with higher priesthood leaders. If necessary, seek a meeting with the president of the church.
Too often, men in this situation try to spin the story to their children, keeping false hopes alive. Too often they use the continued existence of the sealing to try to exercise unrighteous dominion in the lives of their ex-wives. Insist on actual freedom from all ties to him.
Do not feel you need to be civil to your former friend. She is a scumbag and you owe her nothing. And she can be told that. I found the longer I exercised restraint, the more my ex-husband's new wife felt she had done nothing wrong. Sometimes sin needs to be labeled and called out.
Stephen AllredOctober 24, 2021
Excellent, authoritative, highly educational article. Thank you for sharing.
Corey dinsdaleOctober 24, 2021
That's almost a Patrick McManus story. Loved it. I grew up in a small town and can relate to this story. In fact the farmer who we borrowed his tractor more than once and long since passed away was President Nelson's first wife Danzel's brother.
Mary J BellOctober 24, 2021
Thanks so much Pattie. Isn't it wonderful to know this?! We are truly never alone.
DJOctober 23, 2021
Thanks for your thoughtful analysis on current research of both COVID vaccine and some general history of medical treatments and protocols of the past. I remain cautiously optimistic and received both doses of COVID vaccine, but understand others hesitancy for themselves and/or for their children.
A. BinghamOctober 23, 2021
I would extend this excellent, very well thought out and rational argument to ALL healthy individuals considering the jab or who are considering boosters. Not just small children.
Darla MillerOctober 23, 2021
Wow--what an amazing story. My testimony & love for the Lord has increased. Thank you.
Fishing PharmacistOctober 23, 2021
As a retired pharmacist, the points the author makes about Prozac and other drugs are accurate. We are still receiving updated information about whether or not to use aspirin, which has been with us longer than anyone now alive. However and though I am no vaccine expert either, polio vaccine came out when I was in elementary school, and I am grateful my parents and the school made sure I was vaccinated. I have a friend who still suffers from childhood polio as have multitudes of other children who were infected during my childhood years. My inclination is to advise that my grandchildren receive the Covid-19 vaccine when it is approved. In this case, I have greater faith in the scientists and epidemiologists than the anti-vaccers.
Robin R. FosterOctober 22, 2021
I was drawn to this article. I can testify that our Father wants more from us. His Son as paved the way. I know that prayer is important. It has been brought to me many blessings, but from reading your article, prayer if done right opens us up to all our Father has for us.
DougieOctober 22, 2021
She was hurt and did well to forgive. But her daughter? The one who was actually abused? No mention of her. Let’s hear the “rest of the story”.
AwakeOctober 22, 2021
In the 80's there was plenty of youth and adults coming out and they were not committing suicide in or out of the church or any other community to the degree it's happening now. Why? This has far more to do with social media and the disconnect it has caused everyone in familial and community relationships. There is an anger out there, between progressives and conservatives, that can not be squelched as each side blames the other for the massive problems in society and our youth today. Both sides of the issue have valid arguments.
There is so much more going on, that can not be seen or discerned, than anything to do with the LGBQ community or LDS community or any other community. This is a spiritual war like no other we've encountered in our lifetimes and the battle is for souls and it's real.
Love your neighborOctober 22, 2021
The thing that frustrated many about those who refuse to be vaccinated is that they also refuse to wear a mask or do anything that would protect others and prevent the spread. I would have no problem if those who are not vaccinated were doing their part to limit the spread but generally they are not. I caught Covid in February before I was eligible to be vaccinated. I was being extremely careful but the person I caught it from was being less careful and those around him were not careful at all. We had the chance to choose to help each other and beat this but instead we had division and personal rights above personal responsibility or love of neighbor. When the public chooses to not be responsible it is the job of public health to protect the vulnerable. We had our chance to beat it together, but by our own selfish choices now we get mandates.
CarmaOctober 22, 2021
So was Dorothy sealed to her former partner or was he sealed to someone else? If she wasn’t sealed to him, did she remarry?
Penelope JohnsonOctober 21, 2021
When we covered that story of the prophesied meeting and laying of the cornerstone last week in Institute we were taken back in memory and spirit to that time when you recounted the story on our family history trip and once more were moved by those circumstances. Thank you.
Penelope and Kent Johnson
Robert S. PrinceOctober 21, 2021
I was greatly blessed to serve I’m the Central German Mission (Düsseldorf) under President Walter H. Kindt in 1979-72. He was, and remains, a tremendous influence in my life. Those of us who served under President Kindt grew to love and deeply respect President and Sister Kindt. We also forged a wonderful brotherhood that continues to this day. Thanks for publishing this short account of some of the many faith-building events of President Kindt’s life. Much, much more could be written. Walter Kindt truly was a remarkable, inspired servant of the Lord and a valiant leader who gave his entire life to build the Kingdom of God on the earth.
LexaGraemeOctober 21, 2021
Um, yeah. That'll wake you up!
LetThereBeLoveOctober 20, 2021
Thank You! Especially your last paragraph. . . THANK YOU!
John R CarpenterOctober 20, 2021
Fascinating and intriguing leading to suggestion of the possibility.
AnonymousOctober 20, 2021
I appreciate your points while believing you are missing much in the education of those who are refusing the vaccine. I have not nor will ever get it. There is MUCH that is sinister about this politically derived issue as well as the medical powers that be.
Susan RowlandOctober 19, 2021
Really liked the statement, “ he had firmly placed his feet on the pathway of discovery , connection, and preservation.
KathleenOctober 18, 2021
You always deliver truth through entertaining stories!
Danna MabeyOctober 17, 2021
Loved reading about this faithful missionary on this quiet Sunday evening.
M. JayOctober 17, 2021
I grew up when Christopher Columbus was still honored and revered. My questions are: How and why has the revisionist version been allowed to flourish unchallenged all these years, with hardly a noticeable rebuttal? Where did all the real historians go? And how did revisionism take over in the schools? It's still happening!
David BellOctober 17, 2021
Wonderful story. What a courageous faithful man!
Julie ScottOctober 15, 2021
How blessed I was, as a youth, to listen to Br. Kindt many, many times. What a powerful testimony! I remember hanging on to every word and wishing he would speak even longer. What a kind, humble servant of the Lord. The Lord truly used him as an instrument to bless countless lives!
Tom WoodOctober 15, 2021
Another great lesson, Breck. I enjoyed that you pointed out that our sacrifices and positive efforts are counted to our good even if we ultimately don't achieve a final success in what we are engaged. You also make a clear and convincing case for paying our tithes. Thanks for another uplifting and insightful lesson.
MarkOctober 15, 2021
I've found that when I don't fight my unwanted thoughts but don't feed them either, I quickly overcome them. When intrusive thoughts come you can mentally look at them without indulging them. I've found that when I do that they just go away after a few seconds. Maybe your over-concern and self-condemnation about this are what keeps you locked in on these thoughts you really don't want to have.
Shirley BradfordOctober 15, 2021
Thank you for this article telling of what they do with money donated to the humanitarian aid. I give each month to it, along with my tithing, but never hear of where it goes or what good it does..
Lynette SmithOctober 15, 2021
Thank you so much for this beautiful story of the life of my mission president. I served in the Central German Mission (Dusseldorf) mission from 1970 - 1972. Elder Rudolf Poecker, who is also mentioned became the mission president after Pres. Kindt was released.
Connie SchraderOctober 15, 2021
Thank you for writing about this truly amazing man. It is inspiring and so uplifting to read about his courage and faith.
JeanOctober 15, 2021
Thank you for sharing Walter Kindt's story. It was amazing and faith stirring. My testimony is increased just reading about the times that the Lord came and helped him.
Truth will shineOctober 15, 2021
Great article.
I would add that not all gloominess is because we don’t have the spirit.
“ Remember that gloominess does not come from God; it is evidence that we are not hearing His voice.”
It’s actually a very sad thing to teach people. Depressed people feel gloomy sometimes and it’s not because they are not “hearing his voice”.
Please study into depression and be more educated about it.
RobynOctober 15, 2021
Kevin
Thanks for your cleverness in a world that is becoming so dour.
Jim ScottOctober 15, 2021
Not many of us understand the kind of fear Brother Kindt has experienced. Thank you for sharing your testimony and the faith in the Lord. God bless you.
Nancy JolleyOctober 15, 2021
This would make a great movie! What a wonderful man!!
Jan HathawayOctober 14, 2021
CTR also means Current Temple Recommend❣
John WaitingOctober 14, 2021
A wonderful, heart warming article
Thank you for letting us know about the Saints in
Russia.
Hope all is well with the Stoddard families
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 14, 2021
This is such a positive and uplifting article.
Daphne KessingerOctober 14, 2021
This was such an outstanding & warm telling of Russian Stake president, Boris Leostrin's pathway to the gospel, spiritual experiences & church service & leadership...making Russia not so foreign to me anymore. Thank you, dear cousin,, Mark
Dick K NantoOctober 13, 2021
Is cooking the same for steel cut oats?
Drexel GuzyOctober 13, 2021
Thank you for this outstanding article. I've done research on this myself, and reached the same conclusions, but your summary is much better than mine. I'm grateful this is in a format I can share with others and help them know the real Columbus, too.
CASOctober 13, 2021
Carolyn, This is very timely and wise counsel. The question is as always: Who will heed it?
Shelley T MerrillOctober 13, 2021
Such a timely article! Thank you so very much!
LewisOctober 12, 2021
What a beautiful way to bring conference to life. I am always so touched by your insights and perspective. I feel grateful for every article!
Debbi M.October 12, 2021
This article brought me to tears. It moved me to ponder on my daughter, Amber's, death nearly one year ago, from metastatic breast cancer. I had spent that last morning with her at the hospital arranging hospice care because she wanted to go home so badly. Covid at that time limited visitors to one at a time, and our family/friends had a schedule, by the hour, as to who would go and keep her company. She had decided the night before that she could no longer tolerate any more chemotherapy, it no longer worked, and she was in much pain. She asked me how long I thought it would take for her to go, and I had no answer, but told her it should be soon. I didn't tell her I was watching all the signs of imminent death--the feverish head but cold extremities, yet she was still conscious, which amazed me. She fought to the very end. I had to leave--I knew her sister was waiting in the RER for me to leave so she could come up and I had been there a few hours. Within 10 minutes of me getting home, her sister called and said the nurses were frantically rushing around Amber. Amber took one last breath, and was gone. At least her baby sister was with her.
The part of this article that resonated with me was the word, sanctification. I truly felt my time with Amber that morning was sanctified. I could do nothing for her but to love her and be with her, and it was holy, as it was when all of us were in her room after her passing--her parents, her four siblings, her two children and her fiancé. We were allowed in, despite the Covid scare, and it was a time that I will always remember.
Lisa RhodesOctober 12, 2021
How truly and simply expressed and illustrated, Becky. We learn lessons in different ways, in different places, through different relationships but the message of love and forgiveness and redemption are the common thread. Thank you for this sweet lesson!
Sherri WilcoxOctober 12, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. So touching!
Debbie MoldenhauerOctober 12, 2021
Your tender experience of going the extra mile even in the dark while not safe has touched my heart. Sacrifice has so much power and must be taught as a true sanctifier, Thank you for sharing this divine example of pure love given so willingly! When we can strive to live this law willingly and longingly we will all change and become HIS! Your example is inspiring and is a powerful reminder of small and simple things we can do daily that will perpetuate great things coming to pass!
Kay RookhuyzenOctober 12, 2021
Your story made me cry with joy at your simple offering of love and how it affected those who received it. Really made me thinkg. Thank you!!
Ron HansenOctober 12, 2021
An essential truth, without which we will not progress. "Mother Teresa had expressed an eternal truth. It truly didn’t matter how much we did. It was the love that was the healing power!" And what a touching story to illustrate that. Thank you for sharing your insight and love of what can be done in any and every part of the world.
Ted D.October 12, 2021
A wonderful example of living the second great commandment. Forgive me if I paraphrase the wrong author, but I think it was Sis. Eubanks that said serving others is the very DNA of what it means to be a member of Christ’s church.
JaLeen ColeOctober 12, 2021
So so beautiful. Thanks for your example to this beautiful experience. I am so touched by the story and what you have shared.
DJOctober 11, 2021
Thanks for sharing this account of a faithful leader and his wife. It's given me a clearer insight into their trials and faith.
E. RobinsonOctober 11, 2021
yes, I would also like a copy of the book
Marlene Hinton, PhDOctober 10, 2021
Excellent scholarship in a profoundly confused world. Many of Columbus' truly remarkable diaries/letters are available on the internet as are his son's journals. As a history teacher I share portions of Columbus' own writings in hopes that students will learn truth. I appreciate this refreshingly accurate view of a great and noble soul. Thank you.
Allison TullisOctober 10, 2021
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I’m a history major and wrote my final paper on Columbus so I have studied him at great length and I found the same things you did. It makes me sick how revisionist historians have tainted his image. His day has also been renamed to be more politically correct, which is wrong. I hope more people read this and see the true man.
RonOctober 10, 2021
Thank you for your research and offering your findings to help unveil truth and light!
Chuck McClureOctober 10, 2021
I have always honored Christopher Columbus as a great and God honoring man. Over the years I have witnessed the changes being made to denigrate, using presentism, the heroes of my youth. Thank you for this wonderful article and for adding such details that I had not previously heard. This is an amazing presentation!
Beth PowellOctober 9, 2021
I was bewildered by quotes from sources used by revisionist historians and the vehemence of arguments offered by some loved ones vilifying Christopher Columbus. I am grateful that Brother Callister did the research and provided actual history and correct view of Columbus as a deeply inspired disciple of Jesus Christ. I am also grateful for the Book of Mormon reference and the quote from President Hinckley. It is so sad that many in the rising generation believe what is increasingly taught in universities and colleges and even in the elementary grades, revisionist history and falsehoods contained in it.
BeraOctober 9, 2021
The Lord really does choose men and women to further His work in spite of their weaknesses. I thoroughly enjoyed this article and am inspired. Thank you.
Mary JaneOctober 9, 2021
Wonderful article! so glad to read many of the testimonies and facts about Columbus and his true character. I grow weary at times with presentism and revisionists in our society...people in general don't take the time to study and research the truth.
Howard & Rosalie Madsen PiersonOctober 9, 2021
Thank you, Bro. Callister, for this timely article on the Real Christopher Columbus! (Columbus Day Oct 12) We appreciate your research into the real events and inspiration of his travels.
John R CarpenterOctober 9, 2021
A nicely done and well cited article!
MaryOctober 9, 2021
Are primary sources from the natives available? Would be interesting know their perspective
Sonya WashburnOctober 8, 2021
Thank you for teaching us the truth about Columbus...what a great man. We need to defend him and teach our children the truth. Instead of allowing character assassination to thrive.
Gary AndersonOctober 8, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article! I appreciate knowing the truth about the character of Christopher Columbus.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 8, 2021
Thank you so much for this article. It is so informative and interesting. Always follow the sources.
JanOctober 8, 2021
I have read some of the history that revisionist have written and so appreciate this article that disclaims their writings of Christopher Columbus. Thank you for this insightful and true article. I can see why some would try to rewrite history of Christopher Columbus . Perhaps the validation of their narrative views gives them more public exposure to discount those who try to follow what God would have them do. May we all have courage to stand up and recognizeTruth.
JONATHAN ATKINSONOctober 8, 2021
No body ever mentions Joseph's dog! an English Bull Mastiff that was there with him. When he slept the dog remained awake and visa versa.
Old Major a white English Bull Mastiff was given to him in Zions camp.
A professor has written an essay about evidently.
God bless Joseph and Old Major.
Michael FryeOctober 8, 2021
In 1977 Peter Marshall and David Manuel published an inspiring work, "The Light and the Glory," with the first two chapters devoted to Columbus. Since that time I have always retained the blessed memory of Christopher Columbus and am grateful for another confirming voice of this great man.
John R CarpenterOctober 8, 2021
Those who view the past with only "modern" perceptions of thier culture and ethnicity are naive.
Those revisionaist historians who for profit or political reasons do the same thing a true racist and bigotted people.
We must see and understand the past from their eyes and their artififacts. Only then can we see the truth and learn the lessons of the past. This to prevent making the same mistakes they made unintenionally or not.
Theodore BrandleyOctober 8, 2021
To the revisionist, the object of converting the natives to Christianity would be as bad or worse than enslaving them.
Dave MOctober 8, 2021
Thanks for this thoughtful and much needed article. One can only wonder how different the world would be if, after finishing his work in the Americas, Columbus had been able to turn his attention to the Middle East and Asia.
Rochelle HaleOctober 8, 2021
Thank you. I hope many people on "both" sides of opinion will read your timely, and well-researched article. In our world of presentism, we must be careful about applying today's standards to change what did or didn't happen long ago.
ShaunaOctober 8, 2021
Wonderful--thank you
Rob RackerOctober 8, 2021
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Anyone reading this article would enjoy a book written about Christopher Columbus entitled “Man Among the Gentiles”, by Clark Hinckley. While Clark and his wife Kathy were serving as Mission President in Spain several years ago, they became very interested to do extensive research and learned how CC was an instrument in God’s hands in being inspired to go against prevailing superstition and fear in sailing west to find the orient. CC was a spiritual and visionary man and not a conqueror or aggressive administrator, as he is currently portrayed by politically correct and revisionist historians as Bro. Callister has pointed out. I’ve read Clark’s book twice and it is an easy, inspiring read, by a well educated man who, while not a historian (which is a good thing, given the leftist bias and prejudice prevalent in that field of the humanities) and would appeal to most Latter Day Saints, who accept the divinity of the Book of Mormon’s origin and message. Obviously I highly recommend it.
Gale E PhillipsOctober 8, 2021
I very much enjoyed this excellent article. As a high school US history teacher, I found that almost without exception, students came to me believing the revisionist view of Columbus. They had acquired it both in elementary and secondary school from teachers who had also learned it in school and college. Columbus, is sadly, just one of many historical figures who have been maligned by history.
HalOctober 8, 2021
Thank you so much for this insightful article. In years past, my children had school teachers (one in particular) who consistently and persistently maligned Christopher Columbus (as well as our nation's founding fathers). I complained to this teacher and the principal that the things the teacher was presenting to the students was unfair and decidedly biased against Columbus. I had enough historical ammunition to support my arguments, but I wish I had the details of this article at the time. I am grateful for anyone with the courage to stand up for these good people who did so much for the founding of our nation.
Nate wixomOctober 8, 2021
Thank you for your research which appears honest, balanced and accurately depicts an imperfect yet honorable Columbus. #AbolishCancelCulture
Fawnette BaldwinOctober 8, 2021
This article is wonderful. I learned so much more about Columbus than I ever knew before. He was a great and good man. Thank you for making this story possible.
JAN NIELSENOctober 6, 2021
Thanks you for your thoughtful article. It helped me understand the conflict that seems to be happening at BYU. Grateful for Elder Holland and his love for all and for his concern for BYU's future.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 6, 2021
This is a very thoughtful and well written article. I listened to Elder Holland's talk, and I agree with him. I know that he spent hours praying about what he was to say, and I know that the Lord backs him. There are those who are attracted to children. Are those people also waiting for a revelation saying that it is in God's Plan of Salvation for their attraction to children be inclusive and all right? We all have challenges in our lives. We are here to overcome them.
BrookeOctober 6, 2021
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I read the transcript of the Faith Matters podcast after seeing much positive buzz surrounding that particular discussion, but I have been unable to adequately articulate my thoughts about it. You have done it here for me, and I am grateful for your gift. Thank you again.
PennieOctober 6, 2021
Thank you for a well thought out article on this subject and the Faith Matters Podcast. I was disturbed when I first listened to it, and my discomfort has not lessened. Korihor comes to mind. These people are teaching false doctrine just as surely as he did.
Caroline againOctober 6, 2021
I made a comment on Faith Matters after this podcast saying that I thought it was a wee bit too much trying to please God without offending the devil.
CarolineOctober 6, 2021
I appreciate this article and am going to read it more carefully. I'm preparing to teach Relief Society this week--the topic is Elder Gong's April Conference talk--
"Room in the Inn" which addresses "making a place of grace and space" and "we come to the Inn (the Church) as we are". It occurred to me that, while the Church is indeed welcoming and invites ALL to come unto Christ, we have a responsibility, as "guests" to behave ourselves in Someone else's Home--to respect our Host (I'm capitalizing these words deliberately) and the "rules of the house", and to not be a picky eater when the Host has prepared His very best for us.
Candy Lee HuntOctober 6, 2021
So well said. Thank you for the time you took to delineate in words the troubling feelings I also felt when I listened to this podcast.
Alan WildOctober 6, 2021
This interview is what caused me to stop listening to Faith Matters podcasts. Elder Holland was very gentle in quietly correcting certain matters at BYU. Of course the LGBTQ group is having a huge negative reaction. To me part of what I heard in that podcast is that LGBTQ is a reasonable alternative lifestyle, rather than being wrong. That will never be true. Kindly allowing for those unfortunate leanings in one thing-accepting that behavior as acceptable is quite another. So no, Elder Holland was not in error in anything he said.
Barry MooreOctober 5, 2021
Had a similar impact on me when I first read it years ago. Piece of trivia for you-- the book played a supporting role in the 2017 movie "The Case for Christ."
JuliannOctober 5, 2021
That is incredible!
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
This May just be my favorite story of yours, out of years of favorite stories. As someone whose life has been directly touched by war, this touches me, too. Thank you.
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
“ she gradually drove through, out of Egypt, to the promised land of open highway”—what great imagery. And the rest of it, as well. In his mouth?! Oh no!
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
Marvelous! I am sharing this one with my students. Thank you for your wonderful stories.
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
Dr Peterson, thank you. I found this very interesting. You have inspired me to look up Habermas’ writings. I will bookmark this for a time when I will teach about the Resurrection, as well.
BlakeOctober 5, 2021
Thank you for writing this article. It was very well done. I actually had grappled with getting the Vaccine all along and had made the decision not to. There was a distinct moment during conference when I felt the Spirit say to me, it's time to do it. It was a sure witness to me. So I made the appointment and got it on Monday afternoon. Then I saw this article a few hours later, and it reassured me that I wasn't pressured or wishy washy by doing it. I followed a sure prompting to do it even though I had previously decided otherwise. I appreciate seeking and receiving inspiration for ones self, and an article encouraging that.
JoJean LoflinOctober 4, 2021
I’m fearful that “reconstruction” of the Provo Temple wii mean that they plan to ogdenify it. That would be heartbreaking. The Provo Temple is wonderfully unique.
JoeyOctober 4, 2021
The announcement of new temples is always a thrill for Latter Day Saints everywhere.
I hope I live long enough to hear the prophet announce a temple in Dublin, Ireland. We are working so hard to prepare Irish names. I would love to know the work could be done in an Irish temple.
Linda WillisOctober 4, 2021
Maurine,
Thank you for so quickly linking the various bold and not so subtle messages of the Brethren pleading with us to stay the course and even up our game! You and Scot are such fine examples of teaching pure doctrine and helping others on the path.
Ann StruthersOctober 4, 2021
Oh my goodness, I got goosebumps!! What a beautiful song and voice.
Mark J. StoddardOctober 4, 2021
A very flowing and interesting summation of General Conference. Highlights are tough to do but you did it! Read it several times. So much to absorb.
Mary-Rose McMullinOctober 4, 2021
If love to use these, but these links aren't live.
CarolOctober 4, 2021
True in sports and in life!
CarolOctober 4, 2021
Thank you for posting these, they are such a great way to share the gospel messages of Conference in beautiful way.
Sydney WheadonOctober 4, 2021
Beautiful in message and music! Thank you for this!
leeOctober 2, 2021
Works are fruits of your faith. You are saved ONLY by faith through grace alone.
RhianOctober 2, 2021
Those were, indeed, memorable, meaningful stories.
Thanks for your sharing!
RustyOctober 1, 2021
I read this somewhere but know it is true.
There is only one Truth - all the rest is perception
WaltSeptember 30, 2021
I have not had covid. I've not taken any of the vaccines, and am not planning to get vaccinated. I realize Heavenly Father is in charge. Recently, it's reported on the Medicare website that about 50,000 of those on Medicare have died within 14 days after being vaccinated. The natural death rate of covid is about 1/2 of 1%, very small. While I'm not ready to leave this world, I'm not in charge--God is. So I'll obviously go when He wants me to. I don't want to be pushed by the drug pushers.
Bob TaylorSeptember 30, 2021
nice article. there are other groups working to identify Lost Tribe peoples - here's one https://www.jewishvoice.org/learn/who-are-lost-tribes-israel.
David TryonSeptember 30, 2021
If God tells you NO once you should not keep asking and demanding a yes. Brother Joseph learned that lesson the hard way and shared it in the D&C. And you should respect the feelings and personal revelations of others.
Debra MSeptember 30, 2021
A very thoughtful article- but I did have one point that stuck me--the part about two people sitting in the temple and both being worthy. Since I have been vaccinated as a protection to myself and others, I am not sure I would be comfortable sitting to someone I knew to be unvaccinated. Maybe with masks and social distancing? I have been back to the temple and we wore masks, but still sat next to each other. I knew (it was a family group) that we were vaccinated. I do feel like folks have the right to decide about the vaccination, but still worry that they could be infecting me. Delta has shown itself to be pretty infectious and there are breakthroughs even amongst the vaccinated. I guess I think we as a church body have been too quick to drop mask-wearing and social distancing inside our facilities. It has been a wearying experience for us all. So my husband and I still stay away from most indoor activities that cannot be social distanced, and pray for the day this will pass.
JaredSeptember 30, 2021
As one who readily followed President Nelson's urging to get the vaccine--I got it just as soon as I could (despite being afraid of needles)--I gained some helpful perspective from reading this article. However, the vaccine-hesitant seem to be focused almost entirely on potential side effects of the vaccine on themselves; "My body, my choice" is the mantra. What about the rest of society? Might the prophet's urging have as much to do with quelling the pandemic for everyone as with preventing harm to the individuals who heed his counsel? If enough people had accepted the vaccine early on, the virus may not have been able to mutate and spread so widely. Unfortunately, we're too late for that, and society is paying the price. Healthcare workers are inhumanely overworked due to the unvaccinated. I have a cousin who is a respiratory therapist at a regional hospital. His career has largely been in the NICU, but the pandemic has forced him into the adult ICU. There were only two days during August that he didn't go to work; he's been working 60-96 hours per week for months, and almost all of his patients are unvaccinated. The hospital has postponed needed surgeries because they have no more room for patients. Again, getting vaccinated may be a personal choice, but we don't have the luxury to pretend that the implications of that choice are only personal.
Michelle SchooleySeptember 30, 2021
I think this is a great article. I think it's important to remember that Abraham's test was to put his will on the alter and he was stopped before actually doing the sacrifice. You would have to continually be listening to the Spirit up to the moment of injection to be sure to move forward or know if you should stop.
Debbie HSeptember 30, 2021
Very helpful article. I took president Nelson’s first counsel to seek the counsel of your medical professional for vaccine info. I have done that and I am confident in that. I did what he asked me to do even though I had already had covid. My medical council was different than my husbands and we are ok with that for now. The test of faith has been gut wrenching! And that is ok too.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 30, 2021
I hear ya, Joni! Family support and love cannot be overemphasized. However, I have a HUGE extended family. It is good to show love as much as we can, but I give myself a giant brownie button for just keeping up with my children and grandchildren's birthdays, etc! I also love writing and receiving letters from my grandchildren and encouraging them. We need to be realistic about what we can do in our super-large extended families, or we may end up neglecting those closest to us and burning out by attempting the impossible.
William R ToftSeptember 30, 2021
My wife and I had concerns about the vaccine before the First Presidency's counsel "urging" vaccination. This counsel only heightened our concerns as we re-evaluated what we knew about the vaccine, our own health situations (both of us are over 70), and previous prophetic counsel that personal revelation will be critical to navigating the last day. After much study, pondering, discussion with each other and close friends in the church we did NOT get a change in our feelings. We still felt getting the vaccine was wrong for us. During Labor Day week we both came down with COVID. We had fevers, aches, extreme fatigue, brain fog, long bouts of sleep, sleep and more sleep. After about 5 days the fevers and aches abated. Today marks 3 weeks since I first had COVID symptoms (my wife was 2 days behind me). The only lingering effects are tiredness after very little effort doing household chores or running errands. Others tell us that for them some symptoms lasted months before they were back to full strength. We feel vindicated that we made the right choice for us. We have another relative over 30 yrs younger than us who was unvaccinated, came down with COVID, and has been in and out of the hospital ICU for over 2 weeks.... survival still not assured. It goes to show that everyone needs personal revelation as to the course to take regarding COVID and the vaccines. We now have natural immunity, and from the sources I've been reading this immunity should endure the remainder of our lives... including for any COVID variants that are spawned in the future. In answering those who challenge my faithfulness to prophetic counsel I say that President Nelson, himself a doctor, would never write a one-size-fits-all prescription for every member of the church. Just like the scriptures we don't just blindly use one scripture and draw a firm conclusion. In our case we took President Nelson's "urging" to get vaccinated and combined it with his urging to increase our capacity for personal revelation. Together we came to the conclusion we did, for us only, and allow others to follow the same process to reach their own decisions on how to act in this matter.
BobSeptember 30, 2021
COVID-19 vaccination is not an Abrahamic test. The Lord has offered us the Holy Ghost so that we can confirm the truth of all things. I sustain the brethren. I continue to serve faithfully in leadership callings. I have not decided to get the vaccine. It is not something I wrestle mightily with. The Lord has corrected me before when I've been sure of the answer and was trying to follow church guidance, so I know he can tell me if what I'm doing is right or wrong. As well written as this article is, it is very one-sided (mostly focusing on people who decided to get the vaccine and downplaying those who still have not).
A McCuneSeptember 30, 2021
Thank you so much for this beautiful, thoughtful, and love-filled article. A message we all need, no matter where we stand on this issue.
Steven Meredith GarmonSeptember 30, 2021
The line about boys love baseball and girls love horses and Lucas loved airplanes more than if my friend Flicka won the world series: That was quite a memorable line for me -- I don't know why. Yeah, it's kinda dated, and sexist and untrue, but I still love that line and miss it from the abridgement
stevie mckennaSeptember 30, 2021
Excellent article. In many cases following the prophet is an Abrahamic test. I don't think that President Nelson would make such an announcement without the counsel of others. I'm sure when all the information was evaluated his impression was to make this strong urge to all church members to get vaccinated.
The cheap jab about Biden forcing people to get vaccinated was very inappropriate for part of a response. President Biden wants to get a handle on this illness just as everyone else does and isn't forcing anyone. The virus is not a political issue, it is a medical one. People should understand that.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 30, 2021
Many years ago during my interview with a member of our stake presidency, we came to the final question, and I answered, "I think so," or some more humble answer than a definite "YES!!!!," The counselor asked me again, and I repeated my answer. Then he instructed that this was a yes or no answer, and I answered, "yes." This same topic came up in our Stake Conference just last weekend. If we have answered all of the other questions appropriately, then we are worthy. There is no shame or lack of humility in responding yes and affirming that we are living up to our covenants and are intent on doing all that the Lord asks of us.
Coral C. WeaverSeptember 30, 2021
Thank you! I think you covered it well and hope that we will treat each person’s decision with love and respect.
Mark HopkinsSeptember 30, 2021
I suffered an experience with GBS years ago as a result of a flu shot. It’s a rare reaction that can result from flu vaccinations and viruses. I won’t go into details, but it’s worth a look on google. I used to get vaccinated every year for the flu until my adverse reaction so, I’ve also struggled with the decision whether to get the COVID shot. I’ve gotten the opinion of 4 different doctors. 1 advised me not to get it and 2 advised me to get it. The forth doctor told me to get an antibody test first to see if I’ve had it before I risked the shot. I did and I do have antibodies. I’m not sure when I had COVID I’m in my late 60’s, but needless to say, I’m not going to get the shot now. I’ve struggled with this debate since the shot was made available and when President Nelson urged all members to get it. I studied it out extensively and was about to take my decision to God for conformation, but was given a gift of relief when the forth doctor gave me the guidance to take a more informed approach. My own understanding about the urging the Prophet gave makes sense to me. It’s time to get back into the business of living and enjoying the fellowship of family, the Saints, and friends. Put in your due diligence. Be patient and understanding of all who are struggling with this decision.
BobSeptember 30, 2021
I pray. I study. I serve. My desire is to serve my heavenly father and my fellows. I sustain the brethren. I do not consider vaccination an Abrahamic Test. I don't feel fiercely about it. I believe I'll be OK either way. I haven't gotten vaccinated. I haven't agonized over it. I understand that Pres. Nelson has urged church members to get the vaccine. If and when I feel the time is right, I'll get vaccinated. When I face my final judge, I don't expect him to ask me about vaccination, even if I meet him sooner rather than later because of (or lack of) the vaccine. Unless translated, all men and women die. I'm at peace for now. The Lord can tell me otherwise. He's guided me before and I trust he will do so again. I'm surprised that this is being turned into a test of obedience. I don't think President Nelson or the other brethren intend that. Maybe I'll hear differently at this general conference. I WANT the spirit to guide me, but I don't think this is the issue that will determine my salvation or exaltation. It is not a litmus test for me.
Kathleen N JonesSeptember 30, 2021
While spending 3 years in an Inuit village many years ago, I was taught by one of them that through out their history (oral) from the older Elders, that they came in boats from the south to their land. They also said that the belief of a land bridge between Russia and Alaska was not true. This was told to me in the knowledge that I respected their people and would hold this knowledge scared. I was told this while a person of Inuit decent was saying people say they came from China across a bridge, and I simply said "No." To which the person stopped and asked me what I thought. I replied," Your people came from way south, in boats." In shock she asked "How do you Know that? Only we know." I told her from the Book of Mormon, and related how it told of those who left in boats to the north not to be heard of again." From then on, I had many others who came to me to tell me more about them. For me I hold these dear to my heart and thank the Lord for what they shared with me. I have also lived with the Blackfeet and Navaho and have learned much from all of them.
Christine FosterSeptember 30, 2021
We have a split family relating to the vaccination. We've talked openly about it but not harangued each other. Many of us have had covid and we cant see that the vaccination has made much difference except in the length of time spent being sick. I loved the story because it presented all views with thoughtfulness. I am surprised that it isnt good enough for the media and social warriors that people have been sick with covid. They have no trust in our antibodies and seem to want to force us to do their will. Hmm, wasn't that the plan of another being?
shaunaSeptember 30, 2021
Thank you for this sweet story. I too have had experiences where I couldn't deny the Lord's hand in my life. It's good to remember and reflect on those experiences. It strengthens my faith
RebeccaSeptember 30, 2021
So well written!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I can relate to everything the interviewees shared. This article is an answer to our prayers and pleadings. Again, THANK YOU!
Lennea GasserSeptember 30, 2021
Thanks for that excellent article. It was very helpful for me!
KJBSeptember 30, 2021
So the same people who bellow THE PROPHET HAS SPOKEN!!!!!! whenever the leadership says something that confirms their right-wing bias are suddenly sensitive little snowflakes who we need to just understand and be more tolerant of. Never mind that hospitals are filled with people who "did their own research." Never mind that they're prolonging a deadly pandemic and putting other people at risk for no better reason than I DON'T WANNA!!!!! (And I got a sore arm after my first Moderna shot and have flu-like symptoms for about a day after my second. Am I still glad I got it? Absolutely, because I'm not a selfish crybaby...)
Corey DinsdaleSeptember 30, 2021
It was an excellent article except for the references to our democracy, we live in a republic, history teaches us that all Democracy's have eventually failed. John's comments to the article are more anti-Trump rhetoric and mis-leading and he implies that the riot in the Capitol was due to Trump. I know a number of people both members of the church and nonmembers who interpreted Pres. Oaks talk as a repudiation of Trump, he said no such thing. Trump has an awful personality but at least he is supportive of religious freedom and certainly not part of the liberal, woke, PC culture that is ruining the country. Too many view what happened at the Capitol with a very shallow understanding or based solely on the visual scenes the media reported. With the exception of a few troublemakers those who were at the Capitol are patriotic people who love their country and the Constitution and were there because they see the country going to hell in a handbasket, which the last 9 months has been more than ample proof of that. I personally wonder if Pres. Oaks may have changed a few things in his talk if it was given today and not last April based on what has happened in the interim. Pres. Oaks said in his talk he doesn't believe the Lord will let the Constitution fail, I wish I had his optimism, free agency will always prevail for good or bad.
Cynthia M. MoorheadSeptember 30, 2021
We would all be at much higher risk of getting Covid-19 and even dying if a majority of the population had decided not to be vaccinated. The same is true of all vaccinations, which have saved countless lives. I agree that the government should not mandate vaccination -- there are some people whose health is compromised to the point where it would be risky for them. But for most of us it is the right thing to do, both for ourselves and to avoid passing on the virus to others. The vast majority of those who are dying from the new variants of the virus are those who are not vaccinated. D&C 5:19 and 97:22-26 really struck me as I have been studying the prophecies relating to the Second Coming of the Lord. Could this "scourge" that continues to be poured out be the coronavirus? There is a reason why the Lord chose a medical doctor to be His prophet at this time.
Taylor StonelySeptember 30, 2021
What a well thought out article this was! I appreciated the depth and breath of the issues mentioned and the personal interviews conducted. The approach to finding an answer about whether or not to get vaccinated is a personal one. Thank you!
LisaSeptember 30, 2021
It’s 4:30 AM and I can’t tell you how much I needed this article. It made me cry because I’ve experienced all those feelings and I’m still in the process of making a decision. We have been very much against the vaccine even though we’re not totally anti-VAX. My husband shocked me by doing a 180 even though he was very upset with the prophet when he first came out with a statement. He had to go through his own spiritual journey. I’m still in the process and have not yet received a yes answer. I am earnestly seeking and it helps to know I’m not alone. We can be faithful members of the church, yet still be struggling with this decision. Thank you so much for writing this.
John WaitingSeptember 30, 2021
Another fine article from Mark
vickieSeptember 29, 2021
OKAY YOU got me on this one. i screamed when i read the boy put that spider in his mouth. oh my goodness..i post many of your articles on my facebook to teach some of my relatives who arent members of the church about our church. many of them were teachers so i know they will love this story. thank you very much.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 29, 2021
I think this is a good example of how quotes or stories we read can be misunderstood. If we come to a conclusion that is out of harmony with the scriptures and what our Prophet teaches, we need to stop and rethink our interpretation. We also need to be careful about passing on stories or quotes that seem questionable. As Latter-day-Saints we must not be gullible. Always check out sources. Beware of stories that begin with: "My neighbor's sister said, " etc.
Theodore BrandleySeptember 29, 2021
I have been interested in this Russian Ten Tribes hypothesis since 1973 when I read Canadian author, Farley Mowat’s, " Sibir: My Discovery of Siberia".
The indigenous tribes of Siberia were isolated from world history until the Cossacks breached the Ural Mountains and raped and pillaged them for “soft gold,” the Sable Mink, at about the same time that the Conquistadores were doing the same thing to the American Natives for hard gold. Some of these Siberian Tribes are white-skinned, blond and blue eyed. The Yakut tribe has a legend that long ago their leader, a chief named Elai, led his people from middle-Asia until they reached the banks of the Lena river. Elai carried with him the maxims of their people engraved on a stone tablet. When he saw the flowing water of the Lena he flung in the tablet and gave the order that this is where they were to stay (Sibir: My Discovery of Siberia, Farley Mowat, 1973, page 172).
“26 And they who are in the north countries shall come in remembrance before the Lord; and their prophets shall hear his voice, and shall no longer stay themselves; and they shall smite the rocks, and the ice shall flow down at their presence.” (D&C 133:26)
As this revelation was given from the Lord in 1831, we may safely conclude that “they who are in the north countries,” were still mostly there at that time. Notice that “the ice shall flow down at their presence.” This means that they are in an area of considerable ice, perhaps a normally permanent ice, or permafrost, that miraculously melts at that time. Going north and east the Tribes would have entered the Siberian Basin which is a huge bowl, larger than the United States, surrounded by the Ural Mountains on the west and the Steppes and the Sayan Mountains on the south.
Back to D&C 133, notice that the Tribes from the North are to come to America before they return to Jerusalem.
27 And an ahighway shall be cast up in the midst of the great deep.
28 Their enemies shall become a prey unto them,
29 And in the abarren deserts there shall come forth pools of bliving water; and the parched ground shall no longer be a thirsty land.
30 And they shall bring forth their rich atreasures unto the children of Ephraim, my servants.
31 And the boundaries of the everlasting ahills shall tremble at their presence.
32 And there shall they fall down and be acrowned with glory, even in Zion, by the hands of the servants of the Lord, even the children of bEphraim. (D&C 133:27:32)
There is only one body of water on the planet that could rightly be referred to as the “Great Deep” and that is the Pacific Ocean. A highway, or a land bridge is to be cast up for them to come to boundaries of the everlasting hills, or Rocky Mountains, and receive their Temple Ordinances under the hands of Ephraim. The only way this can work is if they come out of Siberia and therefore, we may conclude that is where many of them are. It is probable that the Mongols, just south of Siberia are also a remnant of the Lost Tribes.
Alan FlemingSeptember 29, 2021
A great point you make. In the April 2020, Gen. Conf. as the Covid pandemic was beginning President Nelson gave a talk in which he made 4 promises. Three of those promises, which we should read and ponder on, were in relation to this statement, "What will happen as you more intentionally hear, hearken, and heed what the Savior has said and what He is saying now through His prophets?" Yet many latter-day saints following April 2020 have chosen not to hear, hearken, and heed what Pres. Nelson has urged us to do. Our choice.
Jo Ann OkelberrySeptember 29, 2021
I so agree with this article. Children deserve a mother and a father who are married and love their children. Children shouldn't have to be the parents.
Vivian M AdamsSeptember 29, 2021
Good laugh!
Todd GalbraithSeptember 29, 2021
A heart-breaking topic, fairly and compassionately addressed. Thank you.
ObserverSeptember 29, 2021
There is an historical tradition that Christ visited the Lake Baikal region of Russia also.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lake_Baikal#Historical_traditions
Dorica Glassford Robertson (born Fras)September 29, 2021
I am of the House of Dan and come from Slovenia.
JozsSeptember 29, 2021
I have 4 now adult siblings adopted from Eastern Europe. Patriarchal blessings say they were adopted into Ephraim. One son says he has two tribes- Dan and Ephraim. He acts quite differently in his home country compared to USA home. Quite remarkable. 3/4 Russian lines.
J.L. GuinnSeptember 29, 2021
Really loved your article and agree that our young people must be prepared so they can stand firm. In a Sunday School lesson I was teaching recently I was instructing my young teens about going on a mission. I was telling them that they can't wait to the last minute to prepare and was citing the different areas that they must learn about and practice. One of them was learning the Bible because most of the people they would encounter would have questions about that book and would probably have not read the Book of Mormon. Go prepared to face the world by learning as much as you can to stand on your beliefs. Knowledge is power.
LexaGraemeSeptember 28, 2021
Thank you. I appreciate when folklore is debunked.
Debra AlmacheSeptember 28, 2021
Out of the mouth of 2 or 3 witnesses shall ever word be established. The prophet is the first witness, the Holy Ghost is the second, and you are then a witness too.
Joanne KappSeptember 27, 2021
In complete agreement. So thankful someone with clout is speaking up.
Douglas E NadybalSeptember 27, 2021
The writer is arguing both for pedagogy more inclusive of differing world views while at the same time advocating for more exposure to material more typically LDS. You see, you can either go to the gas station and fill the tank and then drive, or you can drive and then stop at the gas station, but you can't do both at the same time!
Jill PalmerSeptember 27, 2021
At BYU in 1968, my first Book of Mormon class taught by Dr Glen Pearson was a real eye-opener and I wondered what had struck me! This class and another, "Teachings of the living prophets", were so valuable in opening my eyes to socialism and communism and the differences between them and the United Order/Law of Consecration. Today, I feel for Church members who do not know the difference. I agree with you that BYU has a valuable role in arming students against worldly philosophies and practices.
Elizabeth SSeptember 27, 2021
Great essay. I received bachelors and Masters degrees in English from BYU, but found that with one exception all my teachers tended to avoid analyzing literature through an LDS lens. When I got to law school at another university, I wished that I had had some comparative analysis of modern and postmodern philosophies that could easily have occurred when I studied literature.
DavidSeptember 27, 2021
I totally agree with this article. I’d like to see the church clean house at BYU. There is definitely no shame in enforcing its curriculum and it’s ideology. I think the gospel should be central to every course. BYU is it’s flagship school. I was there over 30 years ago. It wasn’t fighting so hard against political correctness and moral relativism back then. But it is one of the churches most known entities and I believe it should do better at preparing its alumni to face these challenges going forward.
DavidSeptember 27, 2021
It seems to me that there are many professors that are doing an excellent job of exposing BYU students to many
-isms. But unfortunately instead of teaching them so as to be able to arm them to be able to argue against them effectively they are taught to them as truth. The Church needs to clean house or rid itself of BYU which is headed rapidly to becoming just another secular university.
Kelton ToblerSeptember 27, 2021
I agree that exposure to viewpoints in competition with secular and religious truths—with a view to affirming those truths and aiding their defense—can be a valuable component of an academically and spiritually edifying undergraduate education at BYU. The best time to learn something about Christian and specifically Latter-day-Saint apologetics may not be while under surprise attack in post-college years. BYU professors are ideally as intelligently faithful as they are highly educated. It can help students to hear how their teachers' faith has come through the refiner's fire of opposition.
SaraLyn BaxterSeptember 27, 2021
I agree completely! It seems like the perfect balance. We have such a unique opportunity at church schools— unique especially in this day— to examine more religious content through a scholarly and restored gospel lens, and to help develop thinking that can explore and argue against false ideologies popular in our day. Thank you for this thoughtful article.
Gary LawrenceSeptember 27, 2021
Spot on, Daniel. Thank you.
MeSeptember 27, 2021
There are plenty of professors there that teach against capitalism and for socialism.
Harold RustSeptember 27, 2021
Well, I'm 78 years old and started substitute teaching in our local school district four years ago---and I love it. For "old folks like me", your example is one of several that keeps us going. Your reflections have a fresh and youthful touch that does keep them relevant and inspiring. So...continue stirring the pot and we'll continue watching your example.
Duane BoyceSeptember 27, 2021
Amen. Very true and very well said, Dan.
Cynthia M. MoorheadSeptember 27, 2021
Be grateful you are old, because you and I are among the lucky ones who know what it is like to live in relative freedom. BYU is a great school, but too many there stand in awe of Harvard and other institutions that promote Marxism. Too many of our children are fans of the socialist/Marxist left and have become "for themselves." They will suffer for it. So will we.
Katherine CrapoSeptember 26, 2021
I think if I were in that situation I would consider adopting the children. Being a part-time caregiver i think would be more difficult than being completely in charge and being able to creatively provide a loving, structured, consistent environment for these children. Sometimes the seemingly harder path turns out to be the most fulfilling and in the end easier one. If your brother-in-law or husband balks, your offer would only serve to awaken them to the heavy responsibility it is to care for a family.
Linda in TexasSeptember 25, 2021
Since immunity from having the disease is many times more powerful than the vaccinations, where does that come in the calculations?
Bob AillerySeptember 25, 2021
I appreciate the insights this story gives us. Even though my wife and I haven't the exact same challenge this good Sister has, I learned through this article the basic marital struggles they have are perhaps common to all of us. Thank you for this.
Doris WilliamsSeptember 25, 2021
I look forward to Geoff's article each week so much. I really admire his insights into human behavior and he really blows me away by his empathy and suggestions to help in really difficult situations. The world would be a much better, loving place if we could clone him!!! Thank you Geoff for sharing some of your "cases" with us. I'm sure it gives us all increased understanding and the desire to improve our own interpersonal skills.
CBSeptember 24, 2021
Excellent as always! Thank you
Jean PetersenSeptember 24, 2021
It was over 50 years ago I was introduced to a book and a course called "Fascinating Womanhood" by Helen B. Andelin. I can say that the principles she taught were correct and nothing else will be as effective in helping a marriage as learning to be fascinating to your husband. Living all of the principles of the gospel are vital to this success. We have been married 56 years now. My husband and I have had many challenges in life. We adore each other and look forward to being together throughout eternity. Aubrey Andelin wrote a book called "Man of Steel and Velvet" teaching correct principles for a man to know what he can do to be admired by his wife. A woman's greatest desire in life is to be loved, a man's is to be admired.
LMSeptember 24, 2021
The comments warranted reading more than the article, which was a too-typical example of beating around the stats without actually answering important questions such as: "How do you ethically justify your position when the hospitalization rates of fully vaccinated people in countries such as Israel (or even read the CDC's own admission of 74% in their article below) show that vaccination does not prevent infection with COVID?"
https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/70/wr/mm7031e2.htm
Maryann TaylorSeptember 24, 2021
One of the best methods of strengthening yourself is to be aware of your thoughts. When you notice you are thinking negative thoughts about yourself, or your life--HANG UP! Just like you would if someone called you on your phone every 5 minutes and told you something negative about yourself. Then choose a simple positive thought to hold in your heart, such as : "The Lord always loves me, even when I make mistakes." "The Lord is helping to carry this infirmity that I suffer with." "The Lord feels my pain and He has great compassion for me." "The Lord knows EVERYTHING about me and understands." Choose your positive thought and, as you hold one simple positive thought in your mind, notice how you feel. Even if you don't believe the positive thought, you will usually feel a warm feeling. Keep telling yourself these positive things--it doesn't matter whether you believe it right now. Just hold that thought in your heart.
Ruth J.September 24, 2021
When my daughter was about 3 years old we had just finished an addition to our home. She would now have her own bedroom instead of sharing one with a sibling. Now in her own room, night after night she would wake up scared at now being alone. She would come into our room and wake me up saying, "Mommy I am scared." I would take her back into her room and say a prayer with her that she would feel safe and sleep well. This went on for weeks. Then one morning I realized that the night before she hadn't woken up scared. I said, "Wow, you didn't wake up last night. I am so proud of you staying in your room." She just casually as could be responded, "I woke up and I was scared last night. I just said my own prayer and then Jesus came and gave me a hug. Jesus protected me and made me feel safe." I was so struck by her comment I didn't know what to say for a moment. I paused, and then asked her, "What did he look like?" She said, "He was dressed in white and had white hair and blue eyes." That gave me tingles. I knew that what she said was true. Jesus had come to her last night. He had given her a hug and made her feel safe. We had never talked to her or shown her pictures of Jesus with white hair. But in the scriptures the resurrected Jesus is described as having white hair and brilliant blue eyes. In the temple Jesus is also shown this way. I knew that the only way she could know this is that she did actually see him. It touched my heart so much. Jesus loves his little ones so dearly that he will come to them to bring comfort.
Sasha KwapinskiSeptember 24, 2021
Since church critics keep bringing up the name of Oliver Granger, then perhaps we can say that this is one way in which the prophecy (of his name being remembered) is being fulfilled.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 24, 2021
One of the ways I prepare for general conf is to pray for our Prophet and all who will be speaking or participating in any way. I pray that they will be strengthened physically and spiritually. I also pray for their families. This is an important way for me to uphold our leaders through my faith. I believe it also strengthens me in being willing to receive and follow their counsel.
CubbySeptember 24, 2021
Samoa did much the same, praying for protection from Covid in March 2020. The entire nation was invited to join. As a missionary, I choose to join them in unity and faith. The islands of Samoa are Covid free, and so am I. For me it has been an incredible experience as I have not only been protected, but the Lord has guided me in assisting my family who has gone through the experience of covid. I was inspired to make covid kits and deliver them, one two days before the entire family came down with it. They had just moved and thought they had nothing until they opened the box. For one person who had it, I was inspired to purchase an air filter. I was even inspired as to exactly which air cleaner I was to purchase. As I brought it home, I wondered why. There was no need for it. Then about a week later the fires hit both Idaho and Utah. Compromised lungs for my family were blessed and I knew why the prompting.
When the vaccines came out I prayed yes, or no. For me, the answer was yes. Then I prayed asking which of the three in the USA was available. I signed up for one, but again a small miracle as a different one was presented, the feeling was strong and we took it. I do not tell which one because I believe different people’s bodies respond best. To different vaccines and encourage all to pray.
This week Samoa had two special days where everyone stayed home and the medical people went to everyone’s homes who still needed a vaccination.
Given my experience, Imam sue French Polynesia will also experience many wonderful small events telling them quietly that the Lord heard them and is at their side.
KathySeptember 24, 2021
He is simply a sperm donor with no intent to create a family, nothing more than a one night stand. I see no reason to develop a relationship and upset his marriage of45 years.
Gary LawrenceSeptember 23, 2021
To Dianna J. Currie: Email me at [email protected] and let me see if I can help.
AJ CurrieSeptember 23, 2021
Unfortunately, the 'breakdown of the family' is not the core problem. If one were to ask why families are 'breaking down', the answer would have to do with their loss of gospel truths due to godlessness (maybe caused by the loss of fundamental truths taught by Jesus Christ). At any rate, if a fix for any modern-day woe does not include fidelity to the teachings of Jesus Christ, you know it is not 'the solution' to the problem. It might make the problem less, but it will not cure the problem.
Karl FarnsworthSeptember 23, 2021
I remember the name of Oliver Granger very well. A young Elder by that same name was one of my Assistants when I was serving as the Mission President in the California Los Angeles Mission in 1993. He was a decendent of the Oliver Granger of whom this article refers to and was an outstanding missionary and servant of the Lord. His only desire was to serve in the same fashion as his name sake.
LexaGraemeSeptember 23, 2021
I'm horrified and laughing at the same time. Can't wait for Part 3!
L GoldadeSeptember 23, 2021
I’m diabetic and unfortunately had my two children in the car with me when I drove off the road with low blood sugar. An ambulance took me to the hospital and a friend driving behind me on the road took my children with her to the hospital. Later, my 3 year old son, Garrett, said to me: “Mom I did just what Jesus told me to do”. When I asked him what Jesus said, he told me: “Jesus told met to stand right next to the car and stay off the road”. How could I doubt my son? Jesus was there to make sure our children were safe!
dCylSeptember 23, 2021
"Further, an EUA cannot be allowed if a safe and effective treatment is already available. Many doctors claim there is such a protocol. So what is really going on?"
Those doctors aren't being honest with you.
Martha ClantonSeptember 23, 2021
This was just what I needed to read this morning. Thank you so very much for all that you do to bring us such uplifting material.
RMBSeptember 23, 2021
6 months pregnant, an apendectomy and a serious infection and I left the hospital room to visit with Him. He showed me my baby girl and told me I had to go back and that I had lots of work still to do. I will never forget that amazing experience. Thank you for the stories of the children with Jesus. He loves us all so very much.
Kristen KriegSeptember 23, 2021
A recent plan for a 'greener' meetinghouse was named after Oliver Granger. Hence, there are "Granger" style meetinghouses in various places now. I think the first one was built in Farmington, UT. It was inspired that this meetinghouse plan should carry Oliver Granger's name!
John R CarpenterSeptember 23, 2021
FamilySearch has accomplished an amazing task.
It is much improved over its humble beginnings on line.
Now if only they can straighten out all the copyright and use issues.
And improve its search engine so the "public" at home can have access to ALL of those microfilms that have been digitized.
Helen CondonSeptember 23, 2021
Thank you for this insight into Father’s personal relationship with each one of us. My name is registered not only on the records of His Son’s Church, but also in my patriarchal blessing. While neither of these sources are exactly canonized, they are certainly sacred, at least to me. I recently testified that just as everyone at an old friend’s funeral declared themselves his best friend, so are each and every one of us friends to our Father and our Savior.
Diane IrwinSeptember 23, 2021
Anne, these stories are so tender! What a wonderful testimony that Jesus LIVES!!! Thanks so much for sharing.
Herm OlsenSeptember 23, 2021
Amen and Amen! Thank you, Brethren!
DebbieSeptember 22, 2021
I have enjoyed reading every article you have written. This one is my favorite. I am one who has propagated the idea that brain chemistry is to blame for depression. I will no longer dispense that falsehood. I have suffered from depression since I was 4 years old. After a pregnancy I spent 13 years in bed with suicidal ideation. The Lord finally took away my Suicidal Thoughts but I still struggle today and assumed that could never change. Thank you for such a thoughtful, informative, and compassionate letter. It makes me want to try again to h e a l.
John R. HillSeptember 22, 2021
Elder Callister's article on the Constitution, as well as the last General Conference talk by President Dallin Oaks on the same subject, are sorely needed in our culture at a time when our democratic principles and norms are under assault. We have seen recently a former president of the United States go to extraordinary and extra-legal lengths to overturn the results of the 2020 election---thereby trashing the Constitution and the very nation he had vowed to make great again. He has pursued this course---not with the support of the judiciary or the military, but with the support of his party's base of loyal voters and supporters. Whatever happened to the democratic principle of accepting peacefully the results of elections? I love how Elder Callister ended his poignant article. Quoting President Benson's statement that the in the latter days, the Constitution "will be saved by enlightened members of this Church---men and women who will subscribe to and abide the principles of the Constitution"---Elder Callister hopes that includes you and me.
JenSeptember 22, 2021
“Pro-choice” is a misnomer! “Pro-murder” is the correct name.
MikeSeptember 22, 2021
I am going to disagree.
My sainted grandmother graduated from nursing school a year before the Spanish influenza. She saved many lives and helped many more into their transition to the next life, including both of her parents. She raised her children during the Great Depression. When grandfather had a stroke and couldn't work as hard, they lost the dairy farm. They moved into the little rock house up in the mountains in a climate about like Sundance Ski resort. They had 5 rocky acres and grew quite a bit of their food. They raised chickens, cows and a pig. Her sons poached an occasional deer when their was no meat left.
The 3 room rock house was the size of a one car garage with 2 bedrooms and a kitchen. They had no electricity, and heated it with a wood/coal stove. They had a spring right outside the door and the privy was a short walk away.
They raised their 9 children there. The little ones slept in the same room with the parents and up to 5 girls in one bed in the other room. The boys slept outside on the back porch. When grandma's sister was killed, the grieving louse of a husband left their 6 poorly disciplined children with grandma and ran off to a life of adventure in California.
Her 2 oldest daughters married young. One to a drunk who beat her. She moved back to the rock house with her 2 children and her ex-husband's illegitimate child from a 15 year old girl. One teenage daughter got pregnant by a soldier home on leave at a similar age and eventually they married after the war, but she lived in the rock house, with a baby.
Grandma's 4 sons and 4 sons-in-law fought in WWII. Her oldest son was missing in action for 3 years and came home with severe shell-shock after spending the time hiding in the jungle and as a prisoner of war. He never fully recovered. Her second son was wounded in the battle of the bulge. One son-in-law lost his legs in Italy and another lost an eye and his hearing. Her youngest, the smallest and scrappiest of the boys, was 1 of only 3 out of a group of about 50 guys in his unit to make it home alive, with terrible scars on his face.
A group of 3 pregnant Japanese women were hiding nearby in the mountains because they did not want to have their babies in a prison camp. Grandma gave them food and firewood and delivered their babies. She got other ladies in the tiny town to help them. One day she went to visit them and found them all dead. She got blamed for "poisoning the japs," but was never prosecuted for it.
When I came along, life had improved. They had a better house, financed by the soldiers pay the 8 boys had saved. I knew all of these people and the next generation were my cousins. I got the impression that the years in the rock house were the happiest times of their lives. I guess bad experiences do make for great memories.
When it comes to children, especially close kin, there are no self-focused boundaries and no legalistic excuses. If the original parents can't cut it (or won't) people like my grandmother have to step in. Else the problems get magnified each generation.
A few of my cousins went on to do great things. Most are living normal lives. One became a gangster, killed and raped people, and died in a shoot-out. A couple struggled and eventually overcame alcohol or drug abuse. A handful got pregnant before marriage. Most but not all of the boys served missions. A few had divorces.
Grandma made a huge difference, down to the 3rd and 4th generation. These numbers would have been markedly skewed the other direction without her sacrifice. This challenge is an opportunity for you to be, not just a good person, but a saint.
The children will pay you back for your efforts, one way or another. Image being there for their graduation, from school or prison, the birth of their children, into a loving marriage or into desperate conditions. Take the long view; not weeks and months, but decades and generations.
Jim ScottSeptember 22, 2021
The numbers are enormous and victims are hurt and seeking retribution. I keep thinking the vultures are gathering. How many victims are opportunists, how many lawyers are opportunists. Class actions are way too flimsy in their character and not all cases are as egregious as others. Proofs can’t be investigated as thoroughly as they might be were the numbers smaller. I can see where actions in court will last until the last piece of furniture is sold the last pencil is gone to exact the full measure of punishment meted out. Justice seems a long way away from exacting punishment of the perpetrators. Does $10,000 assuage my crippled conscience? Is my claim so valid is my hate so huge as to jeopardize any future good. The BSA lead thousands to achieve to grow to anchor to contribute to succeed that a few would destroy the sum of contribution. Winnow the claim, get past the inner anger and cling to the good given by membership.
KristenSeptember 22, 2021
Good question from Lawrence. We can't help but wonder what is really going on, when we know there are affordable, effective, and safe treatments out there.
craigSeptember 22, 2021
The chances the Supreme Court overturn Roe v Wade are slim to none. They established the right to abortion in Roe, and upheld Roe as constitutional precedent in Casey v Planned Parenthood. The leftists judges of Kagan, Breyer, Sotomayor, will never vote to overturn Roe. Chief Justice Roberts will probably agree with them in order to prevent attacks on the court that could lead to court packing. It's also likely that justice Gorsuch will go along under the philosophy of stare decesis. That leaves only justices Kavanaugh, Barret, Thomas, and Alito. So based on this assessment the challenge to Roe will fail 5-4.
And truth be told many pro lifers would prefer this. After if Roe were to be overturned they'd be out of work. Roe's existence fuels their fundraising and keeps them politically relevant.
Jim ScottSeptember 22, 2021
If you had a cold, I’d recommend aspirin, liquids, rest and sleep, if you were bleeding, I’d see to a cold compress or even a hospital, if you arm or leg were broken I’d see to your comfort and care at a facility, if you were cold I’d find a way to warm you, if you needed to be somewhere I’d arrange for transport. But, I can’t “see” mental illness, where’s the blood, the crooked arm or leg, where’s the touch point to comfort, where’s the place to which you need transport. I take personal any that can’t cope, have difficulties moving or reacting. Helpless I’d try to encourage or reach out but find myself at a loss for words so come up with bland generalities and never reach the point of cure.
So, forgive my clumsiness my seeming lack of caring or my ignorance of your plight and only know each life is valuable to someone, even when alone. God is in his heaven and loves each of us. That you may find that vessel of care and coping is in my heart and prayer.
Jim McEwenSeptember 22, 2021
An interesting and well organized article. Another very telling story would be one where it is reported how much money the attorneys personally gain from the settlements. Collectively and individually. Then compare that to what each victim will receive.
Charles DEFRANCHISeptember 22, 2021
Some members of my family have been plagued with various forms of depression across generations. Positive mental attitude won't do for chemically-induced depression, and some patients, especially bipolar ones, may have to rely on lithium-based medicine, in order to retain their sanity. Popular LDS writer and former Mission President Brent Top, who experienced depression in his own life, insisted that his depressed missionaries take their prescription drugs in order to respect the Word of Wisdom. Further, the science of depression has made significant progress in recent years, with better tools for diagnosis and better remedies. Let's never underestimate that in order to find balance and serenity into our own lives or that of affected relatives.
Susan ZmolekSeptember 22, 2021
Thank you for answering the very questions on my mind, in this complicated mess. God's eventual justice is certain, the damage to those abused is real, and at least my church is offering to do its fair share to compensate victims. Although it is beyond the scope of this essay, the Church can also be commended for its clear and direct efforts to prevent all future instances of victimization by responsibly requiring double-manning at every level of youth programs -- from the youngest Sunday school class up to teen camping activities. Vigilance and changes in culture will accomplish even more than the compensation to victims of abuse.
Ann-Marie JensenSeptember 21, 2021
The House of Representatives is to represent the people, not fight the people.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 21, 2021
While I heartily agree that we need to reach out in love and include others, I rarely read anything about the effort that needs to take place on the part of the person who feels "left out." Don't we each have accountability for our own happiness---for reaching out ourselves instead of always expecting others to continuously draw us in? I have heard all too often the complaint that: "The ward just isn't friendly," or "No one spoke to me today." The obvious question is: "Did YOU speak to them?" Did YOU look around for someone who might need YOUR fellowship?" Seems to me this is a two-way street. If you feel you don't belong, maybe it's time to stop thinking about yourself and reach out to others.
JaniceSeptember 21, 2021
Excellent. Thank you. I feel a FHE lesson coming on!
JeannieSeptember 21, 2021
Take control of this situation! Instead of agreeing to babysit at anytime, tell your husband and brother in law both of the weekends you are available for the next 6 months--that might be one weekend, or more--but you set the calendar. If the brother in law needs help during a time when you are not available, then your husband can watch the children or the brother in law will have to make other arrangements. You also probably know this, but the brother in law is not your major issue here--it is the lack of respect and consideration from your husband. I am guessing that there are other issues in your marriage with your husband besides being taken advantage of by the brother in law. You are in charge of you and you and your husband need to work some things out. God bless you in your charity--but don't put your own health at risk. Take charge of this situation. You can do this and set your own boundaries!
Hal LillywhiteSeptember 21, 2021
But don't forget that during much of Brother Brigham's life, the typical treatment a doctor would provide was to bleed the patient. They believed that helped, but we have to suspect that draining a pint or two (maybe more) of badly needed blood did not help the patient. Modern allotropic medicine was in its infancy.
JaneSeptember 21, 2021
This is fascinating and insightful. Gave me a lot of food for thought. No surprise that it came from FAIR!
Dianna J. CurrieSeptember 21, 2021
Being a convert (joined at 30 years old) I wish I had been given this so I could have expressed my thinking in an easy manner. I love this concept, I want to know how to use it, I haven't figured that out yet. I will figure it out! I have family, and friends I want to share this with.
A. BinghamSeptember 21, 2021
THANK YOU for this rational, logical and evidence-based rebuttal. Dr. Park's piece was yet another hit propaganda, sloppy at best, was only meant to divide. And certainly below the standard of academic prowess the good Dr. prides himself on. It was terribly sloppy and Dr. Park will continue to embarrass himself if he continues to claim this was a sound academic/scientific piece. Frankly this is on the order of a D rated movie or poor attempt to craft a fictitious article on the order of your average gossip magazine. It is sad Dr. Park has sunk this low. Of course those who enjoy and drink this type of emotional, venomous frontal attack without even basic logic and importantly sound evidence, have drunk the koolaid and enjoy fomenting contention without merit.
Aleisa EatonSeptember 21, 2021
So well written! Thank you for your research and gift of writing.
Ken NoelSeptember 21, 2021
Yes, I would like the opportunity to buy a copy of the book.
The realization that I truly am a son the the Eternal Father helps me be optimistic while facing the frustrations and pains of mortality.
Tristen SmithSeptember 21, 2021
Wonderful article. Thank you for sharing the data, which disproves Park's claims.
Carolyn R LeeSeptember 21, 2021
Whenever I see Tad Callister's name, I know it will be worthwhile to read. This article should be in the Liahona so that every member of the Church would see and read it. I'm sending it to my grandchildren to help them know how to better defend the history of our country and the inspired documents of the founding, Thank you, Brother Callister!
Lawrence J SteimleSeptember 21, 2021
" if we don’t actively seek and obtain good information and use our minds to their full capacity, then “false information flourishes”..."
Here is some good information... https://rumble.com/vlpecw-the-story-of-ivermectin.html Perhaps the best I've seen.
Des BromilowSeptember 21, 2021
hats off to your father for introducing you to Tom Lehrer!!!! I would love to be as observant and eloquent in showing how the world is... but in Tom's own words, it's a moot point in this current day and age.
AJ CurrieSeptember 20, 2021
Wonderfully written article discussing a complex, emotionally-charged topic with tangled legal responsibilities. I think the author has done a wonderfully even-handed job of explaining things to we who are not schooled in the law. The only clear issue in this case is the morally repugnant, criminal behavior or the perps. It is wonderful to know that despite the heartaches and troubles created by the perpetrators, the Savior will eventually heal all the victims and any repentant perps.
Douglas E NadybalSeptember 20, 2021
This to me is like the Articles of Faith but in the form of a multi choice test. Another way is to simply hand the person a list of statements of belief and vote yes or no. The risk of course is that if one scores low there would be a tendency to dismiss the LDS faith is viable for them. But the essence of being converted is that we allow our view to change, and this does nothing to achieve that. Simple, but how effective really?
ChrisSeptember 20, 2021
Beautifully articulate
Douglas E NadybalSeptember 20, 2021
My first take away from this fine article is that my take away is probably based on my pre-existing world view and therefore is probably wrong. That said, I am comforted by having read all 13 pages and look forward to part two. It seems to me that most everybody having the non mormon world view has found that they can get away with bashing mormon culture. Doing so won't get you kicked out as opposed to the more direct attacks on Church policy, leaders, etc. But attacking Mormon culture really affects me more, because it is personal, and opposed to theoretical or what is another persons ideas. So, now I have a short rebuttal to defend myself and ourselves with... maybe there is nothing wrong with Mormon culture, maybe something is wrong with your world view of Mormon culture. Let them stew on that.
C> M HowserSeptember 20, 2021
Wonderful to read - thank you for reminding us of the beautiful constitution and how fortunate we are to live today under the umbrella of such guidance.
Jo Ann OkelberrySeptember 20, 2021
Thank you for this very informative article. Child abuse is such a terrible sin.
Lawrence J SteimleSeptember 20, 2021
There is a great deal of information online that questions the safety and efficacy of these experimental inoculations. When they are promoted under an Emergency Use Authorization (EUA) and the manufacturers are given protection against lawsuits for any adverse reactions, it gives one pause. Further, an EUA cannot be allowed if a safe and effective treatment is already available. Many doctors claim there is such a protocol. So what is really going on?
Jill AndrewsSeptember 20, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have been interested in better understanding what a world view is and how it affects our beliefs and choices and this has done it in a way that explains so much! Thank you very very much- I will be thinking and learning much more on this. Thank you in advance for part two!
carolSeptember 20, 2021
You can make all the laws or statements you want to help the marginalized but what it really comes down to is the individual - we each have to love our brothers and sisters as God does - and you can't make that a law. Lets all step up and truly be a child of God and love our brothers and sisters as we love ourselves and Him.
Emily M.September 19, 2021
I'm adding in my strong support that the wife needs to set boundaries with her husband, and they both need to set boundaries with the brother-in-law.
I have been discussing this with my own therapist. She told me to think of all the times in the temple where God sets boundaries. It's actually pretty stunning, everything from boundaries on when the world is created, to getting to stay in Eden, to casting out evil. God is a God of boundaries. And, as His children, He is setting an example for us to place and hold our boundaries as well. I have since started reading the Book of Mormon through the lens of how God sets boundaries and it's very, very illuminating.
This appears in the Book of Mormon too, where King Benjamin tells his people that they need to serve others but do so in wisdom and in order, and not run faster than they have strength. Wisdom and order means that it's okay and important to set boundaries on service.
I completely agree that this is no longer a situation of acute need. It's chronic. The husband and the brother-in-law may resist setting boundaries, but that is still what needs to happen here. What's a realistic amount that their family can be involved with the children and not burn out?
This is a hard situation since the wife does not have the kind of support she needs from her husband. I hope that he reads this and realizes that, while his heart has been in the right place, with a desire to serve, it's simply not right to place his brother above his wife in her divine need to set and hold boundaries here.
DJSeptember 18, 2021
This is great non-threatening way to encourage curiosity about religious thought and the gospel. Is there a way to make it more sharable for social media?
Pauline HarrySeptember 17, 2021
Interesting isn’t it?
LindaSeptember 17, 2021
It's easy. Stop being a doormat, and tell him NO.
MaureenSeptember 17, 2021
Great article, reminding us to think about how we come to think about the questions we have and why those are our particular questions in this time and place. After 74 years of absorbing the culture(s) I live in and/or have seen or read about, it's still not always evident the way these assumed values morph over time, nor how very different they may be among God's children across the earth. Good to be reminded now and then.
Diane IrwinSeptember 17, 2021
This is fantastic! I just copied the URL of the website and posted it to my Facebook page, with a comment asking folks to comment on it!!
Mary ColemereSeptember 17, 2021
Lynne, as usual you are right on! Thank you for posting this article. It is time for everyone posting on facebook (including myself) to think hard about whether it is advisable to post a strongly worded, abusive opinion. We should think about who, or what group of people, it could possibly offend. Thank you!!
Janna Stout MorrellSeptember 17, 2021
Such an Excellent and well-thought article!
As I began reading, several things occurred to me. Firstly, I loved how this author states that really only being truly converted will enable us to prioritize our thinking and perhaps reorder our worldview using the lens of the Gospel. I think of the people mocking and pointing fingers from the “great and spacious building” of Lehi’s Dream. Many adopt a worldview because of the loud voices or shame which confuse or blur our lens. Our worldview is influenced by the culture of the community where we grow up. Our friends, school mates, teachers, and eventually our marriage partners and their family’s views can have so much influence on how we think. It underscores the importance of choosing wisely our closest associations. Most importantly, good parental examples and intentional Gospel teaching will make all the difference in In our children’s lives, helping them form their worldview according to the teachings of Jesus Christ.
kim mossSeptember 17, 2021
This a great thing, well done. I do have a question about the two web sites included in the article. Neither of them work. Or am I doing something wrong?
Thanks,
Kim Moss
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 17, 2021
Very good article. We're experiencing the LGBT+ problem in our family, and it is not easy. Can't wait to read Part 2.
CarolSeptember 17, 2021
This sounds so very interesting and such a great way to find out, without pressure, the truth about the LDS faith. It may bring up things you would not think of or feel comfortable in asking friends or missionaries.
Ayse KOCHSeptember 17, 2021
Thses articles have given me much to think about and peruse in myself... we all may take part in several world views just to get along in society. Thank you for presenting the various worldviews which conflict with our Gospel view. I believe that should be our priority in every aspect of what we think, do and act. IYet, i seems to me being cognizant that other views may be other people's priority can help to be more compassionate and understanding with them.
Ed JesseeSeptember 17, 2021
Great concept, article and approach for introducing basic Gospel Principles to others.
FelicitySeptember 17, 2021
I think that it's very unfair of the brother-in-law to expect his family to watch his children. This is his lot in life to take care of his children and yes, granted neither he nor the children asked for the wife and mom to pass away. This dear sister's husband is just as selfish as his brother expecting his wife to take care of the children. It has already built up resentment and her needs, like so many sisters, are not taken into account. I don't know if her question has been adequately answered considering that she suffers from mental fatigue which is what I would call it. Telling her to put her foot down and discuss this with her husband to find a solution means that all the responsibility and the stress falls on her which is unfair considering that she is the one who is left with the children. Personally, I would pack up my children and move to one of her family members for a little while so that her husband and his brother can sort things out. Why are men so selfish and demanding and yes, this is a broad statement as I know some are exceptionally kind and supportive.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
I LOVED your statement that we define marriage as between a man and a woman because that is what GOD IS. We want to be like our Heavenly parents. I am sure one of the reasons we shouted for joy in our pre-mortal life at the prospect of coming to earth is because we would have the opportunity to be married and have children, thereby following the pattern set by God himself. Everything that we are asked to do by our Savior is with the single purpose of helping us to become more like our Heavenly Father and to enjoy the kind of life he lives. Beautiful!
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
This is the best article I have read on this subject. Making our sexuality the most important facet of who we ARE is divisive, and also detracts from the fact that we are, first and foremost, children of God. When we embrace the gospel of Christ, we covenant to give up anything and everything that is not in harmony with his divine plan. For single men and women, whether they are gay or straight, that means complete celibacy.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
I believe many leave the church because they are overwhelmed and stressed out by what they mistakenly believe is required of them. Instead of using the gospel for support, they carry it on their backs until they wear out. People who suffer from depression or have unrealistic expectations of themselves are especially vulnerable to this kind of burn-out. It is better to go without having a calling for a time than to leave the church. Satan loves to engage us in rigid "black & white" or "all or nothing" thinking. As members, we can help one another by avoiding this kind of teaching. We would all be a lot happier if we stopped comparing ourselves with others. We also need to let go of worrying about what others think of us and focus more on having a loving relationship with the Savior. He is patient. He is kind. He is happy with every small effort we make. When we do what we can reasonably do, he will make up the difference for us. We need to accept his gift.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
It is best to stay away from reading OR posting contentious social media posts altogether. Even if you don't add your own venom to the mix, the angry posts of others are going into your mind and planting ugly seeds there.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
The husband does not have the right to say "yes" to his brother regarding work that will actually be done by his wife. He seems to be more concerned about his brother than the health and well-being of his own wife. Since the brother has the means to provide childcare for his children, he is taking advantage of his brother and wife. This is especially troubling since some of his trips are for pleasure. It is not surprising that the brother had a falling out with other family members who previously cared for his children. Since the wife has already told her husband it is too much for her, she needs to be more assertive. The next time the husband says his wife will care for his brother's children, she might respond with, "Sorry, I am NOT taking care of the children. YOU will have to make other arrangements since YOU are the one who agreed." Sounds like this husband is guilt-driven, which has absolutely nothing to do with living the gospel of Jesus Christ.
KathleenSeptember 16, 2021
Both were BEAUTIFUL and spiritual
NED WINFIELD SCARISBRICKSeptember 16, 2021
Well said of our value systems in this life. A question...in the Church we are ask to be "worthy" of various activities. We are to partake of the sacrament worthily. We are to lives our so as to be worthy of the inspiration of the Holy Ghost and so forth. However we are not given the definition of constitutes being worthy. At what point to we become worthy and when do we become unworthy? Are we constantly moving from worthy to unworthy in the matter of minutes, days or some unknown amount of time. Is being worthy before God the same as being worthy in the Lord's Church and how is this defined?
Erik HansenSeptember 16, 2021
Well done study and address. It's great to see the doctrines of the Gospel further explained and defended in the real world --- Of course the application is what counts. I see that there are real people's problems, interpretations and actual events that are left out of the big educational explanations and intellectualism. Here are the things I hear in my world: "I am righteous. How can I show kindness or give to a person committing these serious sins. It's not right if I do." "In today's world the most money is given to rich and corrupt men. I want to see the poor receive." "Abortion is murder and no abortion is right regardless of circumstance." "I will always be stern with people to let them know that I disagree with their actions." "Am I a good Christian because of the politics in my life?" No one seems to think to, en masse, correct or encourage the many specific interpretations all around. It's too messy. To say "Follow the Spirit" isn't always helpful. It's easy to show doctrine in theory. It's hard to deal with real-life interpreting.
Leigh Ann SmithSeptember 16, 2021
I totally agree with Geoff's suggestion. We had custody of our three grandchildren for 4.5 years during our sons bittter divorce. His wife was an alcoholic/drug addict. she falsely accused our son of abuse and there was no evidence, and went to jail for a second dui, and lost their house due to prostitution after the judge awarded it to her. However, she left the state and her family helped her get a house and an attorney and she got the kids. We haven't spoken to the girls in almost 5 years. They wre 2,5 & 10 when we got them and almost 7, 11 and 15 when we lost them. The oldest, our grandson, was abused the worst because he openly wanted to leave and come back and he eventually ran away successfully and finally got an interview with the judge at 16 and never has to see her again. But those two girls have been raised by their sick, disfunctional mother and we have no right to even speak with them. It is better to show the tough love to the grown children when you have to and save the next generation. We don't regret for one minute anything we did in those 5 years we took care of those kids and never will, even though the court system failed them and us.
MarySeptember 16, 2021
A question I have often had is what about the women and men who have never had the opportunity to marry...they continue to date - always seeking for but never finding the person they wanted to marry? Or what about women and men who have lost their spouses to death or divorce. Surely they have a desire for the same serious relationship with someone again. Are they exempt from continuing to make moral decisions to remain celibate? I know many people who fall into these two categories who have chosen to live moral lives, choosing chasitity and waiting for the blessings that come and more that will come when staying close to the Savior. They live happy and productive and joyous lives. They don't feel denied any opportunity to move forward in the gospel plan. When a choice is made to justify the same gender path, it thwarts the Plan of Salvation and the Plan of Happiness...which are named thus for very specific reasons. To know that it can bring the peace and joy and comfort that comes when following the Savior's plan - to be redeemed from this mortal and imperfect being... and protect us and help us return to our Him. We all just keep trying no matter what our earthly trials are!
GinnySeptember 16, 2021
I love this article! After reading so many comments on social media that are less than kind, I have no desire to express an opinion. There is ALWAYS someone who will take exception to it and usually it not done kindly.
Kay RookhuyzenSeptember 16, 2021
This was a well thought post and I 100% agree. It is sad to see people--even my own sisters!--go crazy about political or COVID or vaccination stuff. They thing I'm crazy because they don't think I care. I do. I just don't let my feelings affect others, just not comfortable in case they don't agree. I'm tired of being told how I should feel!
Yves ValenSeptember 16, 2021
Excellent article.
Lee HillSeptember 16, 2021
Terrific article, Lynne! It made me realize I haven't always been very Christ-like in my social media posts. I have resolved more than once to either be more gentle in my posts / response to posts or just pass by offending posts without comment. I usually do well but could obviously do better. Thank you!
All the single ladiesSeptember 16, 2021
Re the comment
“ A man who has no sexual attraction to women is not going to want to marry a women whether they could or could not do so in the temple under covenant. The same is true of a women who is not attracted physically to men. I don't believe the church policy encourages you to do that regardless just so you can be married in the temple. I believe the reason most gay and lesbian people leave the church is because they want an intimate serious relationship with someone of the same sex. The church does not condone this.”
Consider for a moment the array of celibate heterosexual people in the church who wait decades looking for a spouse, some of whom never marry. They also do not marry or have fulfilling sex lives, but they exist and they make their choices based on their values. Many may quite correctly identify that a barrier to them finding a partner is their insistence on chastity in a world where this is not the norm. Just worth noting.
Sharee HughesSeptember 16, 2021
I went onto Amazon to order the ebook version of Heather's book, but it was about $20. To pay just a few dollars less for an ebook than a hardback is ridiculous I don't know if it's Heather who sets the price or Shadow Mountain, but that price needs to be reconsidered.
Bradley J. KramerSeptember 16, 2021
Excellent points and analysis. The Sermon on the Mount is often seen as advocating unconditional love. However, the point of removing impediments from one's vision of others is so that we can see them more clearly and help them repent, not simply accept them as they are. As Matthew 7:5 reads, "first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye."
KathleenSeptember 16, 2021
In theory, these ideas seem nice, but are wholly unrealistic, and frankly, they miss the reality of life as an LGBTQ+ member of the Church. No one is saying that a person's sexuality or gender identity is their whole identity. But it is also ludicrous to deny that it is an essential part of a person's identity.
Being able to enjoy both full membership blessings while also having a deeply felt, intimate love relationship with the person of your choice is not a possibility for people who are only attracted to the same sex they are. This is a deep human need. THIS is why LGBTQ+ members are leaving the faith. It makes me so sad, and I don't have any answers, except that I know our Heavenly Father has it all figured out.
K. Chin, Modesto, CASeptember 15, 2021
I’ve often thought, why must one’s sexuality be the core component of one’s life, here, in Mortality? (I know of no doctrine that teaches our “sexuality” is THE MOST important component of what makes us mortal—and by “sexuality” I mean our individual preferences and “likes” in what, when, where, why, and how we choose to enjoy, express, and share ourselves sexually.) Could it be that in placing our sexuality BEFORE every other component of “who” we are…we “may” have inadvertently allowed Satan’s carefully laid plans (promoted over the earth’s millennia—and even before our pre-mortal existence) to have lead us to accomplish his selfish desire? Satan—through his agency—has removed himself from our Heavenly Parents’ love. We are taught, his ONLY desire is to make us, each, as miserable as he is. In manipulating us to make our “sexuality” so important, Satan has gotten us to turn our focus from the purpose of the Plan of Salvation, from its divine source, and our core identity…into bitter, painful contention and divisiveness about “how” we use our divine agency to express ourselves sexually. Here’s a news flash…sex is NOT the most important thing! Satan has redirected humankind’s energy, attention, focus…away from LOVE and gotten humankind to become obsessed with the who, what, when, where, why, and how of “sex.” We are spiritual and mortal beings capable of divine, infinite, and Christlike LOVE! Does not this thought—and knowledge—fill one with hope?! (I’ll leave it to the reader of my comments to substitute the word “sex” for LOVE. I find that doing so minimizes the divine purpose of The Plan of Salvation, our Savior’s Atonement, and our Father in Heaven’s infinite regard for each of His children.)
Penelope A. JonesSeptember 15, 2021
Wonderful insightful discussion on this so very current topic! Thank You Brother Mckenna. Of course this is all fulfilling so many prophecies about the latter days and so much "turmoil" and confusion. And I don't think you have glossed over anything but the previous comment seems rather myopic in that there are so many that make temple covenants and are not sealed to a spouse in this life. Or many who have been sealed only to have a spouse unworthy to go. And then there are our wonderful Sisters and Brothers that DON'T "Come-
Out" and lead productive lives serving in the Church because as this
article points out it not their most important identity. It's really pretty basic: the Lord put Adam and Eve and all of us their "off-spring" here
to "multipy and replenish" and provide bodies for the Spirits he created
and anything that attempts to thwart that plan is of Satan. So he is
really happy at all those big marches and rallies especially the ones in UT. and at BYU. Just sayin" "the signs of the times".
AngNSeptember 15, 2021
This is a wonderful article! Thank you!
Valiant JonesSeptember 15, 2021
"People do have a choice in the matter— not in terms of their immediate feelings sexually … but in the story they adopt about what those feelings mean." I believe that within that concept there could be a path for some people with SSA to experience some degree of moderation of their attractions and find fulfilment in a mixed gender marriage. At least that appears to be what some members of NorthStar seem to have achieved. I would love to read more about that.
Boanerges RubalcavaSeptember 15, 2021
Beautiful article. This is what we are, and we love to be that way. Thanks.
MelSeptember 15, 2021
It's likely the many of tbe neighbors who you miss so much are still in your neighborhood. People who are no longer members don't fall of the face of the earth. If you miss them so much why not just spend time with them?
stevie mckennaSeptember 15, 2021
I understand what you are trying to focus on however, you have glossed over something important that isn't easy to acknowledge. A man who has no sexual attraction to women is not going to want to marry a women whether they could or could not do so in the temple under covenant. The same is true of a women who is not attracted physically to men. I don't believe the church policy encourages you to do that regardless just so you can be married in the temple. I believe the reason most gay and lesbian people leave the church is because they want an intimate serious relationship with someone of the same sex. The church does not condone this. That is the bottom line which you are not addressing no matter how you sugar coat the rest. Knowing you are a child of Heavenly Parent is great but that doesn't mean you can have the temple marriage to a same sex partner. Some people may marry opposite sexed partners but I doubt that they are gay, probably bi-sexual and that is more anecdotal evidence that it may work sometimes.
ScottSeptember 14, 2021
Profoundly beautiful; both your article and the doctrine of Heavenly Parents
Linda WSeptember 14, 2021
Very well thought out and expressed. I gratefully shared it with a dear member. Thank you for taking the time to write this!!!
DougieSeptember 14, 2021
Excellent article! Generations unborn will hang in the balance based on this decision.
PennieSeptember 14, 2021
I wish I could be so articulate. Amen to everything
Mark DonaldsonSeptember 14, 2021
Great article! I am going to save this as a favorite in my browser. I will share it when I come across those who may be questioning their faith and thinking of checking out...forever! Thanks!
MikeSeptember 14, 2021
This is a great article! I love the comparison you made to the early Saints leaving and returning to what we are experiencing now. Returning is very possible! We all must remain vigilant to weather the storm and as we do can help others come back into the fold
ScottSeptember 14, 2021
Thank you for a wonderful article. Helped me understand some of my fears/doubts about the church.
Lisa Simonsen PowellSeptember 14, 2021
This is so awesome. We don't get away with breaking the commandments no matter who we are or what our decisions look like. Thank you!
Sarah HinzeSeptember 12, 2021
These are wonderful inspiring stories. Thanks so much for sharing.
Love
Sarah Hinze
KwestSeptember 12, 2021
Love it, beautifully stated. Thank you for taking the time to write this article.
FrancesSeptember 12, 2021
I'm wondering if her other children could become involved in the children's lives and relieve this good woman of their everyday care so she can concentrate on her terminally ill husband and herself to some degree. At her pace, she may wear out physically as well. Where would they be then?
Corey D.September 12, 2021
Thanks for publishing that article, she says in such an eloquently spiritual way what is in my mind and heart but that I am unable to express in a coherent and concise manner and I'm sure others feel the same.
Victor LundquistSeptember 12, 2021
Thank you for the in-depth reasoning of what it means, as a teacher, to follow the teachings and example of Jesus Christ. Hopefully all of your colleagues at Church sponsored teaching entities will see the wisdom of this piece and understand what Elder Holland meant about pride flags being decisive. Thank you for writing and posting this.
Ornella Maria BrennaSeptember 11, 2021
Thank you for your clear and decisive exposition of what is right and what is not. The Lord loves us as we are, but lovingly urges us to be better than what we are, possibly "the best", that is, daughters aware of his love for him and eager to be as he is.
As well reported in Helaman 12: 27 He shows us our weaknesses so that we can be humble, and if we are humble and have faith in Him, our weaknesses are transformed into strengths for us. Whatever our weaknesses are.
Randal AllredSeptember 11, 2021
I think Dr. Peterson hit the nail on the head. His comments on what certain advocacy groups have said would indicate that perhaps a lot of Elder Holland's critics inside the Church have taken their ideas and rhetoric from these outside groups, rather than their own reading, sense of fairness, and seeking the Spirit and revelation to know the import of Holland's remarks. Elder Holland is not the enemy of gay Latter-day Saints. And he is the last person among the Brethren to use words carelessly, as some of my dear friends and former students have asserted.
SimplicioSeptember 10, 2021
"Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
"Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake.
"Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you."
-Matt 5:10-12
Newell HarwardSeptember 9, 2021
Beautifully stated. Great article.
ShaunaSeptember 9, 2021
Fantastic--thank you so much for taking time to articulate some complicated, but well reasoned, pointed but loving thoughts. I would love to be in your class and would love to have my 2 BYU college students sit in with you as well
Satan is the master of false dichotomies, false premises and therefore false arguments. Thank you for taking aim at some of those swirling around the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the LGBT community.
as you say, it should go without saying, but as Elder Holland pointed out, hasn't always, that if one is a disciple of Christ then one loves everyone--not necessarily their behavior, standards, opinions (including mine) etc, but loves each person as a Child of God. That premise should lead to true "safety" and light
Ann StruthersSeptember 9, 2021
This was a wonderful, well written article. I loved it and pray that we may all follow these principles and ideas. Thank you for using your teaching skills in the Lord's way.
ShaneSeptember 9, 2021
Absolutely beautifully said! These are the feelings of my heart! As a previous Bishop in my ward, these are the feelings I felt and I hope every member knew. That they were safe and I was there to love them and teach them. I still feel that way towards all I come in contact with. It hurts me when I am accused of being something I am not, yet I am not offended but grateful for a loving Heavenly Father and His Son Jesus Christ. If we pray to see others as they do, we will be so much the better for it. Thank you for this and for this Teachers great courage and faith!
Haze K.September 9, 2021
Love this article.
The ideas of "you are safe" vs I will teach and push you intellectually are great.
As a Latter-day Saint with several gay co-workers that I care about, the explanation about displaying the pride flag or not is perfect. To me, the pride flag is very divisive. If I don't display it, I must be someone who hates LGBT+ people. This is not true. I can love people without agreeing with their choices. I can be a conservative politically with liberal friends. I can be friends with exercise fanatics, but prefer a good book and snacks for myself.
Thanks for putting into words some of my feelings.
Harold RustSeptember 9, 2021
Well written. As I pass by numerous "I Believe" banners along my street every day I find myself asking the question: Why is it that my neighbors feel the need to post a sign stating to the world that in their eyes they are a good person? Is that what it takes to prove you are a good person--a sign stating that? I like all my neighbors (well, one of them has treated me quite rudely---but he is not one posting a sign anyway) but I've never felt it would help them realize that by my putting up a sign to say, "I like each of you neighbors". The only genuine way to do that is to rake up leaves along our street well beyond my own front yard or take over a treat when I learn one has just moved in or helping fix a front gate. Do that enough and no sign is ever needed; do that never and no sign is sufficient to genuinely convince them you really do like them.
Duane BoyceSeptember 9, 2021
Very well said. It's the kind of statement every CES faculty member should be able to make. I devoutly hope they can.
Barry H.September 9, 2021
Excellent article. Well said; both courageous and kind at the same time.
Eunice RobertsonSeptember 9, 2021
Happy birthday President Nelson. May it be a day filled with happiness and precious memories.
James RawsonSeptember 8, 2021
Always well reviewed and understood with your obvious clarifications of what was truly said by elder Holland! Thank you Dan! Jim Rawson
ScottHSeptember 8, 2021
Elder Holland's talk is about 40 minutes long, so it requires commitment to read or watch. Like Dr. Peterson, I encourage everyone to watch the talk with a sincere heart. Having done so myself, I believe that it is impossible to come away from that beautiful and edifying experience with the worldly conclusion that Elder Holland spoke out of anything other than love. Many who have twisted this apostle's loving words have based their well-intentioned indignation on out-of-context sound bites. We must be careful not to "take the advantage of one because of his words" or to dig a pit for our neighbor (2 Nephi 28:8). It is sad that some who have unfortunately been on the receiving end of such treatment have unleashed such vile treatment on others.
LexaGraemeSeptember 8, 2021
Bravo. I will add my Amen to this. In college, I was a customer service rep for a high-end ceiling fan company. I could receive up to 100 calls a day. On one particular call, I went absolutely above and beyond what I was authorized to do, and was still cursed at. My supervisor said, "I don't think we need him as a customer." I appreciated her standing up for me, and have tried in the years since to not ever be *that* customer.
ShaunaSeptember 8, 2021
I encourage all to actually listen to Elder Holland's talk--he is incredibly passionate and emotional, about everything he says and I don't think anyone could actually misunderstand his love for both BYU and LGBT individuals, after listening to it....unless they want to
Personally, I loved it and welcomed his clarion call for BYU,faculty, staff, and administration, the intended audience, to completely align themselves with the Gospel of Jesus Christ. they can get secular ideas at almost any other university, but at BYU, those ideas should be viewed through a gospel lens. As a BYU alumnus and the parent of 2 current students, I vigorously endorse and applaud Elder Holland's direction and am so grateful for his deep love for BYU. It is a gift to all who attend
GregSeptember 8, 2021
I love Elder Holland, he has always been my favorite, and I knew the intent of his heart when he gave this talk. People who are making it into something it is not are simply wrong. However, the metaphor of a musket probably should not have been used. A sword or spear would have been much better because of the political overtones associated with guns. The church and its members tend to be viewed as Republicans/Conservatives, clearly the majority are. But there are plenty of LDS people who feel strongly about the volatility of guns, not to say "anti-gun", but that there should be much more control and regulation for safety sake. So if you even speak out on safety as it relates to gun rights, you are labeled a communist, you are pro-abortion, you are advocate the LGBTQ lifestyle, etc. So because of the use of the musket metaphor, Elder Holland's words came across as more pro-Republican, which among many other innuendos takes a very anti-LGBTQ stand. I had always considered myself a Republican but with the rising of Trump, I can't even say that I recognize what a Republican is any more. I know that I am not what he espouses, and have been told that I am therefore a Democrat. Initially I argued this, but I find that I identify with Democrats way more than the Republican of today so I suppose it is true. I did not take Elder's Hollands to suggest that he is pro-Trump or pro-Republican, but I know many people will and that is especially embarrassing to me, to think that my faith is being likened to that school of thought. I personally am struggling with being a member of a church that appears to be affiliated with that party. Regarding the person's ideas that you heartily agree with, they claim to be pro-family suggesting that LGBTQ people can't have a family, which is kind of short-sighted, because they can and do. It may not be the traditional family that we identify with, but we have been taught that our BYU family home evening groups are family, so I struggle with the notion that a family is just a father, mother and children. I think the key is that we have to avoid even the appearance of hate, in any form, and embrace charity at all cost. I think Elder Holland is the embodiment of charity, at least in the mortal realm that we live in.
Harold RustSeptember 8, 2021
As always, your words are carefully chosen to reflect calm, reassuring reflections on reality through a spiritual perspective. I find it amazingly humbling for all of us in these "modern" times that distortions and convoluted perceptions can promulgate so quickly and deeply; definitely faster than they did among the uneducated centuries ago and more deeply than one could have ever expected among well educated folks who have the benefit of centuries of learned experiences by mankind plus the digital age of communication/distribution that should enable everyone to see for themselves what was true---and not be hood-winked by someone else telling you what they claim was said. Just read or listen to Elder Holland's talk and you will be able to see for yourself it was about love, respect, and....defending truth by means of love and respect.
Mark DonaldsonSeptember 8, 2021
Elder Holland is spot on! We love the imperfect...as we the imperfect hope to be loved. But our God is the lawgiver...not us. Elder Holland said it perfectly when he said, "As near as I can tell, Christ never once withheld His love from anyone, but He also never once said to anyone, “Because I love you, you are exempt from keeping my commandments.” We are tasked with trying to strike that same sensitive, demanding balance in our lives.” Amen!
HalSeptember 8, 2021
Good article! There are other reasons to "fire" a customer. Some are flat out dishonest and constantly try to get something for nothing. We don't need or want customers that intentionally try to rob us.
CBSeptember 8, 2021
Excellent excellent Bro Peterson! Thank
You for saying it so well!!
Kit G.September 8, 2021
Well said, and appreciated! Standing for principles of the true gospel of Jesus Christ will continue to be more polarizing, even within the Church as members try to have one hand on the rod and the other opening the door to the great and spacious building. Elder Holland did a wonderful job articulating his points, as did you.
Loretta SmithSeptember 8, 2021
Such a well written and thoughtful article! Thank you!
Kevin KrauseSeptember 8, 2021
Thank you for these heartfelt words. You really helped me understand much more about what Elder Holland was trying to convey. And more importantly thank you for your parting words. Stop the polarization from both sides. I can't stand it. Where did love and understanding go? Civility has truly become a lost virtue.
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 8, 2021
What a great article! It’s so well said. It’s hard for some of us who have a child with this challenge. I, too, am not anti-gay. I’m pro family and pro the Church.
John C. GreeneSeptember 8, 2021
I have often thought that if we Latter-day Saints aspire to the First Resurrection - which is also referred to as the Resurrection of the Just - then perhaps we had better be just ourselves. If we fail to be truly just, how can we aspire to the Resurrection of the Just? Twisting the truth - as Laman and Lemuel did, for example - is not just. Twisting Elder Holland's words is also unjust. Brother Peterson's analysis and defense of Elder Holland's words is both truthful and just.
Noel JensenSeptember 8, 2021
Amen, Br. Peterson, I appreciate this response to Elder Holland's remarks.
EHSeptember 8, 2021
Thank you for your thoughts and intent. I came across a broad spectrum of responses to this talk among my personal connections, and I knew I lacked context, but even after reading the talk a couple of times, I decided to just put it on a shelf for a couple weeks. I think his words as written lacked a tone of compassion, and since most people read the talk without hearing his voice, it's easy to misunderstand. People who are very concerned about how the Church responds to their LGBTQ+ members are more likely to find concerning statements, whether or not that was Elder Holland's intent. I think a reference to weapons of any kind right now might be alarming since weapons signify violence rather than defense for many people. So I appreciate your insights. I think I found an appropriate place in my brain to file this talk:)
LouiseSeptember 7, 2021
great example how we can be helped from the other side of the vail.
She didn't pray for the help of this lady but just asked if possible to help.
Debbi M.September 7, 2021
I loved this story, and had no idea about her background. Sure loved watching her films in the "olden days!" Thanks for sharing and informing.
David HallSeptember 7, 2021
In Pres. Nelson's biography it mentions that when he visited Mongolia, he learned that there is also a tradition there that Christ visited a people there, too, after his resurrection.
Richard ChristensenSeptember 7, 2021
She is my dad's second cousin if I remember right.
Robert StarlingSeptember 7, 2021
Correction (my mistake): It was the Westwood Ward that Rhonda tried to contact about her husband's funeral arrangements, not the Wilshire Ward.
I've wondered how her later life might have been different if the ward building's landline had been forwarded on weekdays to the home number of the Bishop or some other member. (a suggestion to Church HQ?)
However the Wilshire Ward has its own "Hollywood Connection". In the 1940's several LDS celebrities including Laraine Day and the King Sisters formed a theater group called "The Wilshire Ward Players" that performed plays at the ward meetinghouse (built in the 1930's, with unique architecture that resembles a cathedral). A non-LDS member of that group was the young Ray Bradbury.
Helga SilskiSeptember 7, 2021
Oh come on dear brother David, have you truly listened and read all of the Conference talks? There have been countless messages from our beloved leaders encouraging us, reminding us that no one has reached perfection yet. Repentance is real, necessary and even beautiful, it is part of earth life but each of us, all of us are given the opportunity to climb up and out of the hole to reach the summit.
DianeSeptember 7, 2021
BYU has world class art restoration which allowed the Carl Bloch collection to be brought to Utah for restoration and the opportunity for many to witness their greatness. What about the Church getting involved with the restoration of the "Holy Russia" so it could be brought over here for more Americans and members of the Church to see. I have thought about this painting so much since it was brought to my attention a few years ago through Meridian. What a fantastic opportunity to cruise through Russia and view this inspired piece of art! Bucket list!
Rochelle HaleSeptember 6, 2021
Wow! What a story. We are so familiar with those landmarks as we have several clients in the Century City area and serve in the Los Angeles LDS temple. When my father was dying, my mother (non-member) was totally on board with having the local ward assist, even though my stepfather had not attended church in many years. It was our relatives of other faiths who refused to attend the funeral if it was held at the "Mormon" church. The bishop, however, was more than helpful and told us that funerals take priority over weddings or ward activities. It is too bad that the Wilshire Ward wasn't more accomodating to Sister Fleming's needs.
David BellSeptember 6, 2021
Wonderful story about a beautiful daughter of God. It goes to show that what is important is what is going on between us and Heavenly Father. Even good can come out of Hollywood!
Tora Sue KniselySeptember 5, 2021
Please accept my condolences in the passing of your Husband and father. I am sure he is busy on the other side of the veil.
Valiant JonesSeptember 5, 2021
This is one of the best temple prep resources I have seen. Thank you for creating it. As a branch president, I will be using it to prepare members for the temple.
Corey D.September 5, 2021
I just retired after 40+ years with one of the countries/worlds largest defense contractors. About a year ago my co-worker was on the computer checking his email when he said come look at this. It was a Corporate memo which said and I'm paraphrasing a little but in essence it said "we will no longer be hiring from BYU because their stance on LGBTQ issues does not fit in with our company values". A week or so later we tried to find the memo but it had been deleted from the archive. Interestingly about that same time period one of the new VP's at our division was a BYU graduate, whether that had anything to do with the memo quietly going away I don't know. There have been plenty of reasons given for why the Boy Scouts was dropped by the church and others but the truth of the matter is the Boy Scouts was killed by corporate America. Corporate America has shifted from being generally family oriented and supporting conservative values to being quite liberal, especially Big Tech and they are getting more politically involved. Too me that is one of the greatest threats if not the biggest threat in the country right now because when you have control over jobs and peoples livelihoods you hold the ultimate influence and power.
Corey D.September 5, 2021
Well written and heartfully expressed. I personally have very strong, and for lack of a better description, very conservative views on the whole LGBTQ+ thing. Personally I believe there is a small, very small percentage that may have some actual biological, chemical, mental reason for their leanings/choices but for the most part it is social conditioning and the influence of Satan who is the master psychologist and deceiver. But, I try to treat everyone including LGBTQ family members and others with courtesy, respect and love.
Richard D. HanksSeptember 4, 2021
Thank you. I too love Elder Holland and support him.
E PooleSeptember 4, 2021
Thank you for your well thought out account of your journey. It does not sound like it was an easy one, but your willingness to persevere and endure until you found answers is very inspiring. Thank you for your wonderful example and testimony.
Ben JonesSeptember 3, 2021
The thing I found interesting when I joined this Church is that it didn't make me feel bad about all the wonderful experiences I had with people of other faiths. In fact, I gained my testimony of Jesus Christ while attending the Episcopal Church. One of the sweetest experiences I had after joining was that my mother who was a lifelong Christian felt the spirit in our services.
Allison DunlapSeptember 3, 2021
This was completely mind blowing! I was awestruck as I began connecting the dots Brother Frogley illustrated so well! Thank you for this enlightenment! It has changed my paradigm.
Fay KlinglerSeptember 3, 2021
I say amen to the conclusion of this article. Well done.
vandmeliSeptember 3, 2021
Thank you for the reminder that we and our children are fighting for our spiritual lives every day. I feel a renewed commitment to adequately arm them by teaching and by example. And though the enemy is real, fear not, for the Lord is on our side!
Nihla W. JuddSeptember 2, 2021
Positively Perfect. Thank you very much.
Service is a real healer.
David DurfeeSeptember 2, 2021
I agree entirely. The problem is that so many of the Scriptures, so many Conference talks, intentionally or unintentionally drill relentlessly into us how imperfect we are. When was the last time you heard a speaker in Conference say "hang in there and keep plugging along and you'll get to the Celestial Kingdom"?
T LarsenSeptember 2, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful account of part of your faith journey. As someone whose personal concerns over this issue have been mild by comparison, it is helpful to be reminded that Church member don't just fall into "support the Church's teachings" and "don't support the Church's teachings". There is a lot of room on the spectrum between those positions, and it is the direction our faith is pointing us that matters the most.
Ovala F ToiaivaoSeptember 2, 2021
Wow, what a beautiful testimony of faith! Thank your for sharing this powerful account of your personal experiences wrestling with this heart wrenching topic as a new convert. This very issue is one of the main reason why our family has broken apart as 7 of our 8 children have literally left the church over it. Thanks again for sharing!
vickieSeptember 1, 2021
I am a mother of 5 kids, one girl and four boys. my last child is now a homosexual married to his best friend or another man. i never suspected i would have a child who had this kind of issue. we always think its other people that go through these things. i love all my children. this young man was a good kid, he always did the right thing, and he was great in school and went to college and went on a misison. his brothers and sister noticed things before i ever suspected anything. when he was a little guy he would put a towel on his head and pretend it was long hair. he wanted to immitate his sister. he was very aloof and as he grew older he became a sort of angry young guy. he was gifted with voice and playing the piano and acting. he came out later when he was about 34 and let me know he was engaged. i went to his wedding. i love my son and will always support him. i believe in what the prophets say and the family proclemation. when i first heard my son was gay i nearly went nuts. it was my husband who kept his head and said i love him and he is my son. that woke me up. i reaized thorugh my crying and grief i loved my son so much and the pain i felt was that of worry over what would happen to him. we do read about how others see them and sometimes torture them or they commit suicide. i never spoke to him regarding it but i might send this article to him because being a pc mother here on earth means never confronting him or letting him know what i think about it and that i love him. his mater is a great guy as well. he made his choice and i have no idea as to what to do. he will be or is 36 now. he never contacts me but he was always kind of like that anyway. aloof. i actually dont know what to do. i think he knows what he is doing and what it means. i also wonder if he knows what to do about it or which way to go. he has commited himself to another person. that person i dont think has any belief. my son had a wonderful patriarchal blessing wherein it said that the Lord would have His hand on my sons head. so, now i am praying and wondering. i think his teen anger was over how his brothers would joke abt LGBT issues and people and felt we all felt that way, and we probably did. you dont know what to feel until it is standing on your doorstep. all i know is that i love the Lord and will continue to pray fo rmy son and his mate. i know that there are many moms and dads like me.
LauraSeptember 1, 2021
What a beautiful expression of faith! Your journey shows what it looks like to strive to align our views with God's -- and it takes humility. I hope that those struggling with the same (and other) issues can similarly cling fast to their testimonies as they pray to change their own understanding, not the Lord's.
Randall M SmithSeptember 1, 2021
This is so well written, applicable to every controversial doctrine in the Church. A must read for everyone.
Gordon J HensleySeptember 1, 2021
Even though I don’t have a perfect knowledge of the way things work in the worlds beyond the veil, I can’t help but think that the laws of physics will still apply. Eternal families are created the same way they are here on Earth, with a man and a woman providing a physical body for a spirit child. In an eternal world where there is no war, death, adultery, broken marriages, or poverty, and therefore no orphaned children, where would a functionally sterile celestial couple go to find children to “adopt” into a celestial family? There will undoubtedly be many good people participating in long term friendships and relationships in the lesser kingdoms, but unless you follow the commandments and complete the ordinances that “unlock the bonus level” of the Celestial Kingdom, you won’t be able to enjoy the full work and glory of eternal life.
JosephSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you Daniel for such detailed and very well written account on your efforts and patience during your personal search for the truth on this polemic issue. May The Lord continue blessing your life with the kind of light you deserve to keep your faith healthy and strong.
Jo Ann OkelberrySeptember 1, 2021
I am so grateful that you have taken the time to write this beautiful article. You have given us a great lesson on how to deal with things that disappoint or anger us. I am so glad that we have our Heavenly Father who welcomes us and our prayers and gives us peace.
MakeliSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for this thoughtful and vunerable account of your conversion. What a beautiful sentiment to choose humility first. I can tell you're a good guy. Thank you.
Pat StreeperSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for your beautiful testimony!
SaraSeptember 1, 2021
I don’t think you give yourself enough credit for the effort you put forth to come to the conclusion that you have. You were humble enough to realize that your views may not be correct, even though you held them close. You did exactly as we are counseled to do both in scripture and by Church leaders, and that is the most inspiring part of this whole story to me. Thank you for sharing it.
Ruth JamiesonSeptember 1, 2021
Your story is a wonderful journey of faith and perseverance. Thank you for your example of hope.
Sasha KwapinskiSeptember 1, 2021
As one who was personally involved in California's Proposition 8 campaign (and contributed some of the money behind it) I welcome and support the church leaders' efforts to be inclusive, loving, and supportive toward LGBT members as children of God. I try to practice these principles in my own behavior and relationships.
At the same time, I appreciate being a member of a denomination which recognizes the distinction between love and relativism. Marriage is ultimately a moral construct with a moral definition, or it essentially becomes a non-construct with no definition -- just a matter of random lifestyle choices or the latest public opinion poll.
Bob TaylorSeptember 1, 2021
thank you for sharing your story.
i tried to pm you, but the link was not working for me - a question, if you don't mind sharing. many years ago, i had a classmate in elementary school whose name was Jim Ortner (La Jolla, CA) - any relation?
EveSeptember 1, 2021
I'm so impressed with your story. We all struggle with pride, but you were able to stay humble and open to revelation. What a wonderful example! Thank you!
Dennis HorneSeptember 1, 2021
Sometimes the Lord has to (figuratively) pull people kicking and screaming out of the philosophies of the world/society, into the light of the gospel and the scriptures/teachings of prophets. Anyone imbued with modern societies views could have various amounts of trouble making the transition.
It used to be that the world and the church weren't that far off in many things, including morality. Now that is no longer the case at all. There is a divide people must cross to become fully converted and fully sustain the Brethren.
PamSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I hope they help others who are struggling.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for sharing your journey and testimony. The problem with the worldview is that it wants to contradict God. Rather than being hateful or less tolerant, Latter-Day Saints should even more greatly express love to those whom we know to be our spiritual brothers and sisters. We all chose the plan to be here. Nevertheless, the Lord has given his counsel. A friend of another faith once questioned me about the Word of Wisdom. Her response was, "Why would God care what we eat, etc.?" As a loving Heavenly Father, why would he not???!!!! We do not worship a vengeful God, but one who loves us more than we can possibly know and wants to bless all of His children.
K RoundySeptember 1, 2021
I love this. I agree that "we are NOT on the wrong side of history, because we are on the Lord's side"; and He cannot be coerced, threatened, or convinced to change his mind on the matter.
PennieSeptember 1, 2021
I fully support Elder Holland. If the apostles and prophets bend to social pressure, we will be lost. I feel very secure knowing that they will stand up to the secular teachings of our day. Each member of this church is going to have to decide where they stand and with whom they stand. I stand with the First Presidency and the Twelve. God never gave a commandment that was not for our eternal benefit. I believe firmly that there is no gayness in eternity. It's a mortal challenge
AnonymousSeptember 1, 2021
Daniel, thank you for this beautiful account. I appreciate your testimony and your personal experiences that have doubtlessly prepared you to write about this topic.
Chuck DeWittSeptember 1, 2021
I am so grateful that I was willing to question my presumptions, pray to God in faith, wrestle with my concern, and ultimately be transformed by the spirit.
This sentence shows the way to truth. Love your story and never forgetting the original testimony from Heaven.
Duane BoyceSeptember 1, 2021
Excellent. Thank you for sharing your experience. Wonderful in every way.
MistySeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experience of wrestling with questions and doubts about some of the Church’s teachings. I don’t think there are enough stories out there like this and so many are left with the misconception that everyone is fine with everything or perhaps everyone is just a blind sheep. I hope more stories like this will help others realize it’s ok (as the Brethren have continually taught) to have questions and concerns! But as Brother Holland has also taught, “doubt your doubts” before doubting your testimony.
Harold RustSeptember 1, 2021
Thanks for this personal journey you were willing to share. For some of us who have been members all our lives, the Family Proclamation seemed so obvious we weren't sure why the Church leadership had felt the need to have it published and highlighted. Little did we realize that within just a decade there would be a significant numbers of Americans (and others outside the U.S.) who would push against the fundamentals and then gradually become very dogmatic in their rejection of what had been a "non-issue" for several centuries. To me the proclamation was a statement of love and positive confirmation about the purpose of life. Just as we are taught to be "Christ-like" toward those not members of the Church, likewise the Church's message has always been to be respective and loving toward those who may not believe as we do or want to live according to the declarations in the Family Proclamation. That becomes more difficult when those "on the other side" become very public in their accusations and very violently vocal in their attacks on our beliefs. Thus, I feel those who don't agree with Elder Holland should at least follow his approach in how to disagree....through thoughtful and non-contentious discussion meant to share deeply-held feelings in a kind and loving way.
Annie JensenSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for your thoughtful remarks and for sharing your persistent search for truth.
Jane HalesAugust 31, 2021
As always your program is an educational delight!! I loved the story of the Kirtland Temple. Thank you for adding so much to my gospel and church history knowledge these past years. You are truly a blessing our lives!
Ron SnyderAugust 31, 2021
I had no preparation or warning about what to expect at the temple. My first time was the week I entered the mission home in SLC. It was traumatic for me, and quite shocking. I had spent my life believing up to that point that the Catholics were into rituals but we were not. I wish someone had offered me a resource like this so I could have been better prepared for the experience.
SherryAugust 31, 2021
The Pocatello Temple open house is fast approaching also, from Saturday, 18 September 2021 to Saturday, 23 October 2021. The dedication is set for Sunday, 7 November 2021. I can't wait!
Wendi EricksonAugust 31, 2021
This is a time of separation. It's a tragedy to those of us who have lost loved ones to this or any other reason they find to leave. Our heart aches when our grown children refuse to even come on mothers day. Our ward has recently seen a wave of our brothers and sisters leave our ward family. Thankyou for writing this. Perhaps it will be just what someone needs to hear.
The Lord has promised me that in His time and His way all 4 of them will return. I pray for them and others who left. The fact remains that there are 2 churches only. All will find themselves aligning with one or the other. The scriptures are clear about this. As we settle into 2 apposite camps, I feel that there will be a lot of shuffling back and forth for many of us. I pleas with you all to join me in prayer for 1 ourselves to not be caught by surprise. For us to have the faith sufficient to be firmly planted in the restored gospel and 2 for those who have turned away for any reason to have whatever experiences they must in order to find their way back to the fold of God. This is His promise to our loved ones as we are true and faithful to our covenants. 3 lastly pray to see Hos hand in their lives so we see that they are not really lost to heavenly Father. And in closing the undying gratitude for the pure love that is the atonement of Jesus Christ.
Jan KuesterAugust 31, 2021
I loved this video and am so grateful for it. I grew up determined to become closer and closer to our Father and our Savior- and to become a veterinarian. God had a better plan. Through circumstances, fasting and prayer, instead of a vet I became both a registered nurse and a Navy Nurse Corps officer. I am so blessed to have had the opportunities this gave me to grow in faith, see more deeply into the lives and needs of my fellow man, and to, imperfectly so, serve the one as our Savior does. This video reminds me to focus less on myself and more on what others might need. Thank you❤️
Jonathan StreeterAugust 30, 2021
This was an excellent article that really got to the heart of the matter.
The best part of your article is that it has universal application. It should be distributed to defenders of many different faiths - Jehovahs witnesses, Christian Science and Many other faiths also have apostates who try to tear down faith by creating a big lie that their church is deceiving them. This post reveals the true deception at the heart of these deceivers.
Thank you for your eloquence and faithfulness!
BeccaAugust 30, 2021
Great article. One common thing I see as people buy into the negative things they are being taught is that they eventually end up where they no longer believe in God. Seems like this attack on the Church is simply using church history as a stepping stone to draw people away from God.
And the influencers are making a lot of money doing what they are doing.
CBAugust 30, 2021
Fortunately, and I consider it a miracle, even though I had no preparation ( other than some negative comments from my parents doubting my worthiness) I had deep in my heart that whatever the endowment was all about it was from God, and it was His way of teaching. From the moment I stepped into Initiatory I was inspired in ways that I remember to this day. I’ve been a faithful Temple worshipper and worker ever since and when I’m in the Temple I don’t overthink— I just let myself feel His love.
This is a good article and video. I don’t know if I wish I’d had it 50 years ago or not. Everyone is different. I’ve taught temple prep classes and I do think this would have been helpful. Still, the most important thing in preparation is love for the Lord and trusting in Him.
HalAugust 30, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article. I have several friends and family members who have succumbed to this "Biggist Lie." Sadly, I have watched them transition from faith-filled, happy people to cynical, perpetually angry, and contentious souls where the darkness of hopelessness has replaced the light that once filled them with happiness. All I can do is pray for them and encourage them whenever I can.
Alan FlemingAugust 30, 2021
If the church was a business I would have resigned a long time ago, but it is not a business but the Church of Jesus Christ.
In the early days of the Church all the apostles were converts, none of them were raised in the Church. Six of the original Twelve Apostles selected were excommunicated. Even the Three Witnesses to the Book of Mormon left the Church. Three of Joseph Smith’s counselors fell — one even helped plot his death.
However, all the Presidents of the Church since Joseph Smith have served in the Quorum of the Twelve before they are called to be the Church President. They are well qualified having been trained and tested beforehand
Gary GarnerAugust 30, 2021
It's amazing to me that we have a prophet and we talk about following the prophet but then either don't or feel that we need to fact check him.. We fast and pray for a vaccine and then when we are blessed with it in record time (a miracle) we feel that it may be ok for you but not for me. I think that there are lessons that can be drawn from the Parable of the 10 Virgins here.
Maryann TaylorAugust 30, 2021
No one leaves the church because of any events in church history. That is simply an excuse. People leave because they have not built a strong testimony. Anyone who keeps their testimony alive by continuous prayer, scripture study, and enjoying the companionship of the Holy Ghost will not be bothered by incomplete and subjective accounts. I would trust that about as much as I trust news reporters and commentators today. How many contradictory "facts" do we hear about the same story??? Attempting to render a complete judgement of people by going back into history, whether it is the history of the church, or American history, is tricky business. I would certainly hate to have my life judged by people 100+ years from now based only on what they can dig up from the written word. We can read the MANY accounts from faithful saints who knew the Prophet, Joseph Smith, very well and who walked and talked with him, who repeatedly bore witness of his goodness, and the divinity of his calling--Or we can rely on varied and confused accounts, based on partial and limited understanding of what actually happened. We may find ourselves with some unanswered questions. So what? We can KNOW that the Book of Mormon is true, that it is a sacred witness of Jesus Christ, and that Joseph Smith translated it by the gift and power of God. If we know that, nothing else really matters.
LizAugust 30, 2021
Thank you for this very well written article and for standing up in ways many won’t.
Dennis HorneAugust 30, 2021
These are certainly very fine and uplifting faith-affirming experiences shared. However, I caution that while the author is right that the temple is a place of precious personal revelation, it is not the only place, nor a place of "higher" revelation.
While I have also enjoyed the powerful flow of revelation in the temple, the two most spiritual experiences of my life took place in a missionary apartment and in a chapel. Others in a bedroom, living room, etc.
Revelation can be received most anywhere needed if the member with the gift of the Holy Ghost is worthy and exercises faith and is not in a bad/wicked place. Mountain tops and groves have substituted for temples when none were available.
Still, thanks for a nice article with edifying content.
Tom GlassAugust 30, 2021
We have a past bishop doing the same on his podcast,his feelings were hurt so he went on a rampage against the Church.Pride took him away,with his whole family!
Zen FeatherstoneAugust 30, 2021
The great tragedy I have seen with my family is children who have no faith or hope because they left The Church of Jesus Christ and don't have any place to go. If the truth about God and Jesus Christ is not in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, then it is nowhere. They have an understanding of the apostacy and the need for a restoration. If the truth was not restored, then they feel it is nowhere.
So they are "free" to do whatever they think is right. The laws and commandments of God that make us truly free and happy when we live them, are ignored and the true peace that comes to our souls cannot be found in worldly interpretation of the rules of life.
EveAugust 30, 2021
I found this to be very touching.
Wendy LanderAugust 30, 2021
This is a wonderful resource. Thank you so much!
Deb H.August 30, 2021
The whole problem with all of this is you have two choices, take the shot or don't. Once you make the choice, you are labeled by people who have no idea what you are going through.
Norma J EntrekinAugust 30, 2021
Interesting article. But the main point should have been stated clearly in the first paragraph. Period- Thanks
Douglas MarkAugust 30, 2021
Jacob: just ask these disaffected friends what they will say to Nephi or Mormon when they meet them after death. Ask them if you can keep their patriarchal blessing and their temple garments and their scriptures in a safe place for them while they wander in the desert for awhile. Ask which of their kids they want “unsealed” while they are at it, or maybe it will be their spouse they are willing to cast off.
WeezieAugust 30, 2021
Thank you Jacob for using you talents in writing to illuminate the truth. You gave such great reasons and things to carefully and prayerfully consider. I love the part about peace. That is absolutely something absent from all those who believe they’ve been lied too by people who are anything but full of peace. If only every member of the church could read this article before they make their infamous Facebook post on how leaving the church is the best decision for them.
Carma MirabalAugust 30, 2021
This is a very good video to watch to help all of us understand the temple. I teach temple prep and will use it in my class. Hopefully it will help those going through for the first time and open their hearts to being regular temple attenders. Thank you for making this video!
Harold RustAugust 30, 2021
Great presentation of an important perspective that is vital if we want to avoid the trap of being drawn in to persistent pernicious pounding against the fundamental fruits provided by all the prophets.
stevie maireid mckennaAugust 30, 2021
Thank you so much for that excellent article. It speaks the truth and needed to be said.
vickieAugust 30, 2021
there are and there have been so many negative comments regarding the church that use to shock me but over time i realized that these are truely ignorant people they believe what their preachers tell them and then spread the negativity to others. i always say to some who believe the wrong things abt our church, that we dont spend time in church downgrading any other religion. we dont have time for this. God doesnt teach negativity in church and esp about other beliefs. we only concentrate on the truth and what God teaches us.
DavidAugust 29, 2021
Amen to this article. I know and love Elder Holland and I know no one that is more loving of all people regardless of any circimstances. When I served a mission a few years ago, Elder Holland called to discuss sending a missionary with same sex tendencies to our mission to serve. He told me of his love for this young man and how grateful he was that he wanted to serve and how much faith and confidence he had in him. We cried on the phone together as we discovered that this young man was from my home stake and that I already had a great love and admiration for him. That missionary was one of the best that I served with. I was so impressed and grateful to see the deep and true love that Elder Holland showed for this young missionary. They continue to be very close friends.
I pray that we can all take a deep breath and pray for clarity on the goodness and Christlike love of this man and Apostle of Jesus Christ. Let us not be deceived into calling good evil... for he is not.
Richard ChristensenAugust 29, 2021
My dad introduced me to the books of Arvin Gibson. He used to be the CEO of Utah Power and Light, if I remember rightly. He intervwied people who had NDE. It was insightfull to see how these experience didn't destroy the person's agency. Even the non-christians had NDEs, but did not necessarily see Chirst. One of the "doctor" books showed that ~20% of the people who have had NDE can't wear watches. They just break. No explanation for it. Really interesting stuff.
Kim GarrettAugust 29, 2021
Levi Hancock is my 5th great-grandfather. I have searched and searched to find reference to him building the room used for the School of the Prophets. Can you tell me where you got that information? I'd love to share it with my family.
BeckyAugust 28, 2021
So beautifully said!
EveAugust 28, 2021
Joan - you've been truly blessed!!!
Kenny MazzantiAugust 28, 2021
Kids fight, especially siblings. Have you never watched lion cubs fight? Doing so strengthens them. I fought with my brother until I left on a mission. My brother and I loved each other and I would have given my life for him. Don't be helicopter parents trying to save your children from that which is of no consequence. Let them work it out and learn from it.
Marilyn JonesAugust 28, 2021
What a beautiful song and beautiful girls! I love hearing new music that builds up the role and purpose of women when the world around us tries to discount our worth. Thank You!
Susan CurtisAugust 28, 2021
Thank you for weighing in on the other side of this. It is interesting to me to note that this was not a talk given to the entire membership of the church, nor to the studentbody of BYU, but an instructional talk to faculty and staff of BYU, communicating to a very specific group on what is appropriate, and perhaps more importantly, what is not appropriate, in carrying out their duties as employees of a church-owned university. In a day when teachers take it upon themselves to teach their own philosophies and put forward many agendas, it is imperative that it is made clear to the faculty and staff that their teachings need to be in compliance with the gospel teachings. I have seen what happens when rogue teachers are allowed to go unchallenged in the things they espouse from their podiums. Thank you for reminding us of the Elder Holland we all know and love.
JulieAugust 28, 2021
I don't need to know Elder Holland personally to know that he is a great servant of God and loves us all. I love him. He is an incredible disciple of Christ and the gospel. His words in his talks and his actions speak volumes about the man of God that he is. His talks have helped through many a hard time. He loves us all, as Christ does.
Harold RustAugust 28, 2021
Thanks for this very uplifting support of a good (actually a very, very good) man. It is sad, but the natural man has an inclination to speak badly of others if he feels surrounded by a fan club of listeners. How many times have we seen someone willing to chime in with a biting negative comment regarding another person when they are with friends who are willing to listen and not refute their unkind remarks? That is what can happen even more easily now when social media encourages someone to blast out with blatantly hateful diatribes just so they can attempt to catch attention and puff their own ego? This article is one that needs to be repeated in the presence of any out there who even think of casting stones at an Apostle who is demonstrating love along with sharing fundamental principles of Gospel living. Surround these purveyors of hateful attacks with reasonable folks ready to discuss this issue calmly but thoughtfully and they will shrink in cowardice as they see that their words were worse than worthless. Thanks again for the uplifting words by this author.
Shauna PloegerAugust 28, 2021
Thank you for sharing your personal experience with Elder Holland and your personal faithfulness! The church being crystal clear on its doctrine on the family is the most compassionate path forward for those struggling with SSA. It's unfortunate that some members misunderstand the difference between a church policy (which can change) and doctrine of the Gospel of Christ (which is eternal and will not change).
While it is clear, the brethren have a deep empathy (which I felt from Elder Holland in his talk), they cannot change eternal truths, which stand apart from men and their desires, no matter how good or right they might appear from the outside. God is at the helm of this church and the apostles do His bidding.
I sincerely hope those with SSA stay in the church. We need you!! You have so much to give the church body at large. Your sexuality is not your only defining trait and not the only thing you can contribute in the Kingdom of God. We love you and are saddened by the trials that must accompany faithful membership in this church, but we applaud you for staying, for being faithful, for showing others the way forward.
SueAugust 28, 2021
Elder Holland's talk was timely and significant. It helped me feel more love and concern for gay people. I don't know how you could get upset when someone tears up and says how much he and the other apostles have prayed and cried over this topic. How much they love and care for all of us and how we should do the same. It is best to look at ourselves rather than throw darts at others
Matthew GlosengerAugust 28, 2021
Elder Holland, IMO, exemplified exactly what the priesthood of God is. LOVE.
Brother Bennion is pretty close to that level himself. We can all learn great lessons from these two Men of God.
AnnetteAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experiences with Elder Holland, Jeff. I have never met him personally but have found him to be one of the most endearing of church leaders as I've heard him speak in conferences and read his writings over the years. It is evident to me that he is a true servant of the Lord. I recently graduated from BYU-Idaho and was disappointed to learn during my course of study there that Marxism has infiltrated their English department as it has nearly every institution of higher learning in America, and in the American Foundations course, worldly academia's definition of Conservatism is taught. (I've known many Conservatives in my life, and none of them fit that definition.) So yay for Elder Holland for making it clear that church colleges and universities are not to take the world as their guide. I think the world is "too much with us" at our church campuses, most likely. This cannot be pleasing to the Lord.
MelAugust 27, 2021
There is no reason for conflict nor judgement amongst the members of the church concerning the recent announcement. If we adhere to the direction given on this matter from the official church handbook we would not be dealing with so much divisiveness with our membership :
Official Handbook of the Church: 38.7.13
Vaccinations
"Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination.
Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost."
As someone who has sought counsel with multiple competent medical professionals and also sought the guidance of the Holy Ghost as per direction from the First Presidency, the instruction I have received is different from many, but right for me. Could this be an opportunity for the members of the church to consider the uncut direction in the handbook concerning vaccines and have the confidence each of us will do the work of researching and receiving spiritual guidance, and then show respect for each other even if our answers might look different?
Jo Ann OkelberryAugust 27, 2021
I watched this speech and listened to it. I thought it was a great talk. I have been concerned about how so many religious institutions are becoming so secular. I do not want to see the Church universities become secularized in order to gain favor of the few. I am a BYU graduate, and I have always been so proud that gospel principles were taught in so many of my classes. There are so many who would like to attend BYU, and I think that if people do not want to abide by the principles and rules of the university, they should let those who will take their places. I love Elder Holland. He speaks for millions of people.
Minerva MillerAugust 27, 2021
When Elder Holland was sustained as an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ in 1994, I was watching the proceedings of that General Conference in a small Church classroom at the Stake Center in Berlin, Germany, through a small TV monitor receiving the transmission in English. But even in such a setting, I had this conviction in my heart then that he was truly called of God. That conviction has stayed with me--even all the more strengthened through the years, as I have studied and listened to his inspired messages and teachings. His most recent clarion call for the BYU to be unique, like President Kimball did decades ago, is nothing short of inspiration and expression of love but also concern. He lived up to the calling of an apostle of our Savior Jesus Christ by declaring the standards of the gospel fearlessly "amidst a tumult of opinions." Yet, he conveyed his message with kindness and compassion, I only felt further motivated to continue to show love, consideration and understanding to my fellow travelers on the road regardless of their gender orientation. I sustain Elder Holland with all my heart. God be thanked for such an exemplary leader in His Kingdom at this point in time!
BeccaAugust 27, 2021
I LOVE Elder Holland! I have had two friends have interactions with him, one where he invited them to his office to visit with them after their sister died by suicide and the other where he sweetly answered the letter from a first grade student. The LOVE he has for all of us is incalculable! Thank you Elder Holland for your service as the Lord’s representative, you truly follow His lead with love and compassion!!
Robert D StarlingAugust 27, 2021
To those critics who would be so foolhardy as to cast virtual stones at the Lord's anointed servant, I would repeat the words of our Savior to the woman who was caught in the act of sexual sin . . . go and sin no more.
CASAugust 27, 2021
Anyone who could find offense with the wonderful counsel of Elder Hollard's timely talk, needs to take a look in the mirror to see the real offender!
Michael SheaAugust 27, 2021
Expressions of outrage seem to have become the new American cultural norm. But outrage attracts an evil spirit like a shark is attracted by blood in turbulent water. Whenever I hear stories of this sort, I am reminded of a passage from Isaiah (29:18-21): “And in that day… the terrible one is brought to nought, and the scorner is consumed, and all that watch for iniquity are cut off: that make a man an offender for a word… and turn aside the just for a thing of nought.”. Fault-finding is a very dangerous habit.
ShaunaAugust 27, 2021
I love Elder Holland and am personally very grateful for his recent clarion call for BYU to embrace it's mission and purpose. I LOVED reading the whole talk and welcomed all of his counsel. I am so grateful for his passion for this great institution, that I also love, and where my children are currently attending. BYU must be different than other universities and align with the Gospel of Jesus Christ, or it can't justify it's existence. There are too many members of the Church, clamoring for an education there, who are paying tithes and offerings, which support that institution, who will never set foot on campus, for BYU to align with the world. Note this searing quote from a BYUI devotional Elder Bednar delivered on January 26th, 2016 (as a past president of BYU-I and apostle), which is also true for BYU Provo students:“In the authority of the holy Apostleship, I now raise a voice of warning, and I make a solemn promise. If the day ever were to come that intellectual arrogance, a lack of appreciation, and a spirit of demanding entitlement take root on this campus — among the students, the faculty, the employees, the administration or within the community of Rexburg — then in that day the Spirit of Ricks will be well on the way to being extinguished. And the heavenly influence and blessings that have prospered this institution and the people associated with it will be withdrawn,” Bednar warned. “Conversely, as long as intellectual modesty, humility, gratitude, obedience, and frugality continue to characterize those who learn and serve at Brigham Young University-Idaho, then this university will shine forth ever brighter as a beacon of righteousness and of inspired educational innovation.”
I have attended 3 private universities and repeat, that BYU must be fully aligned with the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and its leaders, or risk discontinuation, or irrelevancy.
So sad, but typical, that so many who are attacking him, didn't read his full talk in context. It is a brave, compassionate, piercing and prophetic call for BYU to remain true to it's mission, as outlined by President Kimball and others.
I welcome it
Sasha KwapinskiAugust 27, 2021
It is difficult, in today's society, to recognize the difference and strike the balance between love and relativism. For many in today's world, "love" is thought of and equated to little more than the absence of moral standards.
James 1:27 states concisely this "twin call" of exercising love and maintaining behavioral standards. "Pure religion and undefiled" consists in practicing both halves of that equation -- "visiting the orphans and widows" (reaching out in love to others), while remaining "unstained from the world" (maintaining standards of behavior and morality.
As for me, I am proud to be a member of a denomination which understands that distinction (between love and relativism).
Kathleen Dalton WoodburyAugust 27, 2021
I was not a BYU student, but I tried to be a student of Hugh Nibley through his published works. They have had a great influence on how I study and learn from the scriptures to this day. I heard him speak at a Salt Lake Institute devotional when I was in college and was amazed to notice that he appeared to be taking notes as he was speaking - at least he was busy writing something during his own talk. I met him once and mentioned that I enjoyed reading science fiction and fantasy (he wasn't impressed by science fiction because he felt it idealized scientists), and he told me that he enjoyed fantasy, too. A very interesting and insightful mind that more people need to be influenced by.
Leslie MadsenAugust 27, 2021
I was so impressed with Elder Holland’s thoughtful and sensitive remarks at BYU. He expressed compassion and understanding for those struggling with issues in life but reiterated the importance of this campus standing as a light to the rest of the academic world by staying true to the standards of the Church of Jesus Christ. Leslie Madsen
Patty WalserAugust 27, 2021
Beautiful song with a beautiful message! Thanks for sharing with us!
Anna DurfeeAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for your perspective and your defense of a true man of God. It's so unsettling what some took away from his BYU address. I took away a much different message. A friend of mine bristled at the musket analogy for some reason. Here was my response to him: The analogy first comes from Neal A. Maxwell. Holland chooses to emphasize it for BYU and its path forward, specifically for those in the classroom. Holland says as he quotes a letter sent to him, "But I would hope that BYU professors would be bridging those gaps between faith and intellect.." Then he goes into Maxwell's musket AND trowel analogy. Early church members did not have the luxury of being left alone as they built the church with their trowels. I would imagine, begrudgingly, they had to keep the muskets close. Maxwell uses that to liken it to the difficult situation many BYU, and other CES school professors can find themselves in. It comes up for a lot of my colleagues in the sciences a bit more often. There are times when it will APPEAR that new discoveries are in direct contrast with church doctrine. What do you do then? Or it will seem that current interpretations of social science studies are in contrast to church doctrine and resulting policies. Each professor has to ask themselves what will happen then. Maxwell's quote says, “In a way[,] [Latter-day Saint] scholars at BYU and elsewhere are a little bit like the builders of the temple in Nauvoo, who worked with a trowel in one hand and a musket in the other. Today scholars building the temple of learning must also pause on occasion to defend the kingdom." Oaks later asks, using the original Maxwell analogy, to hear more musket fire, meaning that perhaps too many professors who can see the link between the secular and the spiritual are instead backing down and not saying anything for fear of whatever may come of that. Back in the early church, the musket may have been just as necessary as the trowel to build up the church. Perhaps the message is that today that same is true. Since engaging in the conversation with you, Brian, which I have really loved doing so thank you for keeping the dialogue open, I've been thinking about peace. How do we get peace? I just listened to the Saturday session of last conference where Elder Holland's talk is on peace. As he spoke, I thought, well, you could get peace through war. That's not fun. No one wants that. But there are times when the enemy won't relent, won't stop trying to harm you and threaten your existence and so you have to fight. Then there is peace you get because everyone has learned to love each other, even when they disagree. That's the ideal right there. Unfortunately, another way to get peace, or pseudo peace, is to back down or to give up. It's like in movies where the enemy promises the other side that they'll stop if the other side joins the enemy. If the other side joins the enemy, the conflict ends and there is a sort of peace, but the peace came with too many concessions and compromises, leaving the other side probably without much of what they wanted. So where you see a problem bringing up the concept of the musket and musket fire as a poor way to illustrate the difficulties and challenges ahead, I see, perhaps, a better way to understand how to gain, gradually, the ideal type of peace. By defending our doctrine, the very gospel of our Lord and Savior, we will, undoubtedly, cause some discord. That's unfortunate. It's unfortunate that someone can bring upon themselves hate and vitriol because they wish to defend the gospel just like it's unfortunate that someone can bring upon themselves hate for defending the rights of LGBTQ people or people of color. But should we or, in the audience's case, scholars at the Lord's universities, choose to gain peace through throwing up the white flag and conceding the entire ground of the gospel, then we gain a frail, weak, mirage of true peace. Just as those fighting for equality could just give up and go home and therefore gain a certain mirage of peace because well, they just stopped fighting. The thing I like about Holland's talk is the call for more understanding and earnest intentionality in how we reconcile our faith with secular knowledge because THAT might eventually lead to the kind of peace where everyone has just learned to love each other despite disagreement. Scholars or church members who have studied the doctrine and have learned to live it with exactness will become the kind that can communicate their genuine love for others despite disagreement. This might help those that disagree with us about our doctrine learn to love us too even though they disagree. Then you get real peace. Christ had to contend with others, sometimes quite frequently, in order for Him to teach the gospel which He knew would eventually lead to the kind of eternal peace we all want. Peace is a process and parts of the process include defending ourselves and the truths we have a testimony of and doing it in a way that might aid understanding."
Joan BennionAugust 27, 2021
In full disclosure, Jeff is my son. I know of no one who tries to live a more Christ-like life and I have been blessed to be on his journey with him. Watching him take some darts along the way has been painful as his mother but I so appreciate his spiritual insight and courage to live his truth. I know his heart and his love & compassion for his fellow travelers. I have also been gratified to know of those souls he has helped & encouraged. We can all do better in replacing hate & misunderstanding with love and understanding for all of God’s children. Our journeys are not all the same but we must anchor ourselves to God’s principles and love for each of us and try always to share it with others no matter where we are in our journey. I love my LGBTQ friends one and all. And thank you Jeff, with whom I share a great love for Elder Holland and for sharing tender thoughts and feelings in this article. They are mine as well, I love you both.
LindaAugust 27, 2021
Apostasy begins with criticizing out church leaders. That's just what Satan wants.
Kerry ClarkAugust 27, 2021
In 1998 on a Sunday, our family was in the Lobby of LDS Hospital waiting for an elevator. We were on our way to see my mother who was a patient in the hospital.
While waiting, Elder Holland walked in hurriedly. I quickly said while pointing to my 12 year old son "Elder Holland, meet the newest Deacon in The Church". Elder Holland congratulated my son and gave him a side hug and a little "noogie" - probably because my son is a red head.
Sadly this son passed nearly 4 years ago from a drug and alcohol overdose.
I have always been grateful for the brief interaction my son had with Elder Holland.
E. L.August 27, 2021
I woke up this morning to see a post on my Facebook feed by my very bitter, hate-filled adult child about Elder Holland and his talk at BYU. Rather than responding to the vitriol he is claiming to be "true", I searched out the actual talk and wasn't surprised to read a loving talk taken incredibly out of context. Almost immediately after, I found this article. Thank you.
I've tried to teach my children to go to the source before doing, saying, or even believing anything. Unfortunately I don't think it would have mattered in this case. This child is just so full of hate and contention and it's best to ignore things like this.
I love Elder Holland and wish I could have the opportunity to sit with him and discuss the many talks he's given that have felt specifically for me over the years.
Dennis HorneAugust 27, 2021
I have had no personal interactions with Elder Holland but I still know him to be an apostle and special witness of the Lord Jesus Christ and that is good enough for me to sustain him completely and follow his counsel.
Ben ArkellAugust 27, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing this! We are so grateful for everything Meridian does. A true light in the darkness!
Carol RadmallAugust 27, 2021
I personally love Elder Hollands talks, he oozes love, kindness, caring, spiritualness above measure! He pours his heart and soul out in his talks! I don't understand how anyone could be offended by his words! He is truly inspired and a man of God. The prophets throughout history have been stoned whenever they have heard anything that they didn't agree with! Society has been becoming very angry! I feel if the Savior gave the talk he couldn't have said it any better than Elder Holland ~ the fact is that God's laws do not change! They never will! We will never be exempt from keeping the commandments!
Herm OlsenAugust 27, 2021
Great message about an even greater man!
A. BinghamAugust 27, 2021
We are witnessing the virtual stoning of an apostle who speaks the truth by very cruel people using weaponized social media tactics.
MichelleAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for this perspective. Come Follow Me manual suggested Pres Eyring’s April 2019 talk: The Power of Sustaining Faith. Every member needs to review it and give an honest introspective look at him/herself. George Q. Cannon’s warning, that he quoted, was powerful. Criticism of the Lord’s chosen leaders leads us into darkness.
Duane BoyceAugust 27, 2021
A saddening but wonderful article. Personally, I do not feel worthy of Elder Holland. That he is undergoing criticism demonstrates that some can find something to criticize in anyone and anything. Elder Holland's greatness of soul should be obvious, and that alone should exempt him from such treatment. Apparently--sadly--it is not so. That is a pity that nothing can justify.
Jill AndrewsAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experiences Jeff as a testament to the words and deeds that should at the very least count as evidence of how we can interpret Elder Holland's remarks. My heart breaks with yours that such an outpouring of love could be so utterly misunderstood. Experience has also taught me the truth you included re: the scriptures speaking of “the wicked are like the troubled sea, when it cannot rest, whose waters cast up mire and dirt.” Satan enjoys bringing additional misery and woe to those already bearing the burden of same sex attraction by whatever means necessary including "stirring their hearts up to anger" because that's who he is. Let us not be a reflection of that!
Steve SwappAugust 27, 2021
I can only echo and say amen to this Gospel-based perspective offered by Jeff Bennion. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, who I have met and corresponded with on a variety of occasions, and the other Apostles of the Lord leading His Restored Church have spent much time in prayer, study, conversations, and apostolic consultation to design loving and encouraging responses to the concerns surrounding the various types of sexual attraction God's children experience during this sometimes troubling mortal existence on Earth as well as toward the sexual orientations and self-labeling that individuals have been adopting to try to understand and describe their sexual attractions and related characteristics. The leaders of the Lord's Church, after carefully considering the many interpretations and viewpoints that people have developed in recent decades, the first thing they did was to create a website and a booklet to reassure those who experience sexual attractions and feelings about their gender that don't seem to align easily with the clear teachings of the Church regarding the proper use of our sexuality, and these materials focused almost exclusively on reassuring affected people and teaching the general Church membership that Christian discipleship requires us to develop understanding, love, and empathy for our brothers and sisters who face these special challenges and any others in this mortal life. Nothing in their words has indicated that it is proper to distance ourselves from same-gender attracted Saints or those facing the doubts and anxieties that come with gender dysphoria. Quite the opposite! We have been called to repentance for our lacking love and support for the people around us facing these challenges, and happily many Latter-day Saints are realizing that these are people we need to love and encourage, just as we need to do for all people on the Earth.
To be a consecrated disciple of the Christ while at the same time experiencing such confusing sexual and identity feelings is one of this life's more difficult challenges, perhaps in our age even more than in centuries past because of the philosophies and assumptions that have been built up and popularized and are partially based on truths but contain many mistaken conclusions. Many good people in and out of the Church have adopted certain beliefs that are not really true, and it has led sincere people battling with these challenges as well as many family members and friends away from the truths of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and even to have doubts about the important teachings the Lord is having His apostles instill in our hearts.
So without getting into the many details and questions for which millions of Saints and other Christians and others need better understanding and the unshakable witness from the Holy Spirit, let me just say this to keep this complex issue simple for the moment:
Voices of the world (in this case those supporting various tenets of what we can call "gay philosophy") and voices from the anointed leadership of the Church of Jesus Christ often sound like opposing clarion calls. Sometimes it's a matter of seeing things from a different perspective, and sometimes it really is satanic forces spreading easy-to-believe lies about the teachings of the Church and the path to true and lasting happiness. My heartfelt advice is for us who desire to be faithful disciples of the Christ to lean towards the answers and guidance provided to us by the wise, prayerful, and inspired leaders of the Church rather than automatically interpreting everything through worldly lenses, which are partially true and to a great degree misleading. Truly, we need to be able to perceive the full palette of truths on the subject in order to understand what the leaders in the LGBTQIA community have right and what they have erred in.
We believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men...
We hope to be able to endure all things. If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.
RebeccaAugust 27, 2021
Amen to this great article!!
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 27, 2021
I’m always appreciative of the insights shared by Geoff.
ChristineAugust 26, 2021
Thank you so much. As one who has loved Elder Holland and his powerful messages of peace and love and hope and faith in Jesus Christ for all of my adult life, I thank you for your beautiful words. He has been a beacon to me and blessed my life in ways I cannot even begin to articulate. Thank you for your words in defense of a very good man and servant of the Lord. May God bless you and your family.
KCAugust 26, 2021
Thank you! Too many of us sisters equate “niceness” with passivity.
In D&C 93 the Lord starts out by talking about light & truth that creates worlds AND created and gives life to US then at the end he reminds us to “make haste” & pray always then “keep my sayings” & “you shall not be confounded in this world”.
You have a perfect examples of how our actively choosing the light, and shining the light in darkness makes us feel better & we are promised not to be confounded. No reason for passivity.
Patricia WintersAugust 26, 2021
"Let’s all commit to raising our sites and speaking up." This should be "raising our sights."
KLTAugust 26, 2021
Well written and well stated. In this time of ever increasing distractions, it is time to turn to the Lord and His prophet, to read the scriptures and pray with real intent.
Having the Spirit was never more important than now.
Ronald BarnesAugust 26, 2021
I did not start wearing a mask until I was required to do so. Because of conflicting information, I resisted getting the vaccine. It was not the Prophet's words that cause me to finally get the shot, it was his example. Learning that he got shot himself, I decided that if anyone on earth knew the right thing to do, it would be the Prophet of God.
Sandy DildineAugust 26, 2021
There is so much of the radical, Marxist agenda on campuses in this country. An institution that teaches truth, not propaganda is needed more than ever! So many qualified people want to teach at BYU; let the indoctrinated professors go so that the cycle does not continue. Parents should be able to trust that their children will be strengthened in their testimonies and not led astray by the people who's salaries are paid for by them and by faithful Saints tithing dollars!
Milton NodackerAugust 26, 2021
One of the things that attracted me to the Church as a investigator is the principle that the founding documents of the United States, the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution, are considered inspired by God and held sacred by this Church. I have always felt a deep reverence for these documents and the divine principles enumerated in them. I was distressed when the latest revision to the Handbook ripped out and shredded the Second Article of the Bill of Rights, apparently in the service of "political correctness".
I found Elder Holland's reference to the building of the Nauvoo Temple requiring trowels and muskets instructive. Under current Church policy the builders would have had to defend the construction with trowels alone, since the muskets would have been prohibited on a Church property.
brian stubbsAugust 26, 2021
Adding my own miniscule associations with Hugh Nibley, I took Middle Egyptian from him 1971-72. Thirty students started the class, five finished the first semester; three of us finished the second semester. I told him of my plans to also learn Hebrew and other things. He gave me some advice: take Modern Hebrew, not Biblical Hebrew, and you'll read circles around the Biblical Hebrew students. I took his advice and he was right. He later took a keen interest in my linguistic research in Uto-Aztecan, following it closely and encouragingly. He was not only a great man and mind, but also very kind. I loved him like a second father.
Kathryn GrantAugust 26, 2021
When Moroni visited Joseph Smith, he echoed Malachi's words that if the hearts of the children don't turn to their fathers, the whole earth will be utterly wasted at the Lord's coming (see Doctrine and Covenants 2). Could this be why Satan is trying so hard to turn the hearts of the children *against* their fathers?
Nihla W. JuddAugust 25, 2021
It is so refreshing to our heavy laden souls to hear truth shouted from the page - finally. Thank you, Elder Holland, for loudly proclaiming the truth when we thought hope was sinking rapidly below the surface.
I have grandchildren attending BYU, and as a result, their stance on correct principles is not at all what we thought it would be when we trustingly sent them there.
Something has gone awry.
The influence of a "teacher" is so all encompassing that he who bears that title must sense the responsibility that goes along with it. "Rabbi" / teacher. We must emulate and follow the teachings of Christ so that we do not offend "the little ones" and bear the consequences of leading them astray from revealed truth.
Thank you for standing tall and proclaiming loudly true and correct principles. Thanks for restoring hope in the hearts of parents who have been devastated of late. We are so very grateful for your clear, concise, loud exclamations on weighty matters i.e., the spiritual lives of our posterity who were trustingly placed in the arms of Brigham Young University. Thanks for calling out the wolves in sheep's clothing.
God bless your for it - "Do we not have a prophet in the land?"
Let's return Brigham Young University to its greatness. "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord."
We love you again and again.
Jill PalmerAugust 25, 2021
I am tremendously grateful for my years as a student at BYU,1968-75. Each of my teachers in many fields helped my testimony of the gospel increase. In particular, my first Book of Mormon class was an eye-opener to me with warnings about social and other issues to beware of in the latter-days. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. I hope that Elder Holland's magnificent talk is taken to heart by all.
brian stubbsAugust 25, 2021
Three cheers for Elder Holland! Make that 27 cheers!! Some of my children and grandchildren have said similarly, that some BYU professors push worldly philosophy and not even mingled with much scripture. Especially irksome are how many BYU professors seem to think the Book of Mormon is "inspired fiction" or less and did not happen in ancient America, counter to evidences like the discovery of Nahom written in stone, no less, and hundreds of other such supports. Those into such wayward non-wisdom need to keep those opinions to themselves, be retired early, or fired. And that question should be posed to every future prospective professor, as well.
Jill PalmerAugust 25, 2021
I am up to page 250 of this book and do not want it to end! Hugh Nibley has been a rock in Latter-day Saint scholarship, entirely necessary in confirming the Book of Mormon in its cultural and religious settings. I enjoy his witty style of taking down critics. He has helped my testimony of the gospel expand, for which I am grateful.
Andre J MostertAugust 25, 2021
I miss Hugh Nibley. Our family: my father, mother, my sister and I moved into the Manavu Ward in Provo shortly after Bro. and Sis. Nibley moved across Fourth East from Ward Chapel. In fact Hugh was one of the Gospel Doctrine teachers. I was 13 years old. My folks attended his class that first Sunday. The first thing my dad said as they walked in our house was "I don't understand that man at all." So, from then on Mother attended Hugh's class and my dad went to the other class. That was our introduction to Hugh. When he found out they actually lived in the 9th Ward's area, he went looking for a house within the Manavu Ward boundary:Three doors west of us on 7th North. My mother and Phyllis became great friends. Finding out that my dad was a carpenter, Hugh asked him to come to their home and see if he could build an office space for him. Dad visited with Hugh and checked out the number of books Hugh had in his library. Hugh had an old carriage house on his property and after checking the floor, my dad explained that the ton of books Hugh had meant that he would have to shore up the floor first. As for me, Hugh was a teacher that was a delight to try and follow his teaching. One day as I walked past his classroom in the old Joseph Smith Building, the door opened and the student poured out, all of them looking totally amaze. I asked a friend, what had happened? He laughed and said Hugh did it again. "What?" He was nearing the end of class and he started teaching in some language none of us recognized. I often walked home from school the same time as Hugh. I would walk behind him as I could see he was reading a book. AS we got to the split where to the right you would cross 8th North to go down Third East on the west side and to the east said. More than once, I jogged ahead and slowed down traffic, while Hugh crossed without ever looking up. During my graduate school days, Hugh's son Alex would often baby sit our two boys. One day my Finnish-born wife asked if we could go talk to Hugh. Which we did. She was braver than me and took along one of the several of his books we owned. As we talked about how many languages he knew, he thought for a moment and then said "15 or 16. I can read and write two or three others, but I don't consider that I know them. Then he signed my wife's book "Since Cumorah" with the brief comment: "Greetings to the Mosterts from Hugh Nibley." We loved that man and his family.
Jan RifeAugust 25, 2021
I love Elder Holland. My mom worked with him when she taught seminary in Seattle, he has slways been my favotite. 4 out of 5 of my siblings went there in the 70s. My son graduated 10 years ago and I was so shocked at how it has changed. It's about time for this speach and I'm glad it came from my favorite. I hope all the professors that teach contrary to the gospel principles are let go.
Please return it to the Lord's university
Dennis HorneAugust 25, 2021
I recommend this book to all. Studying Nibley is a profound experience in gaining knowledge and humility.
Barbara BlackburnAugust 25, 2021
I was, and am an avid fan of Hugh Nibley and have many of his books I recorded all of his television lessons. I was young and admired him in so many ways. He said it like it was. He has been a stalwart in my growth and I appreciate all I gained from him. My children and grandchildren have also been his fans. We are so grateful to have been enlightened by his intelligence and determination.
Dennis HorneAugust 25, 2021
I certainly do not know all things, or even many things I would like to know, so I don't know if "justification" of the past is the best word to use or context to ponder the subject in, but I do defend the doctrine and policies and procedures of past prophets in their proper historical context. I have done so with this subject on my blog:
http://www.truthwillprevail.xyz/2021/02/apostles-prophets-and-gods-former.html
and for a soul-edifying and uplifting detailed account of the receipt of the revelation itself, see:
https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/blog/2018/05/31/elder-bruce-r-mcconkies-witness-of-the-1978-revelation-on-the-priesthood
Barbie MeyersAugust 25, 2021
Thank you to Elder Holland for addressing the issues found within BYU. I have found much coming from there very discomforting. I hope and pray that the faculty will realign themselves with truth and light. I hope and pray that the student body will seek for truth and light.
LoraAugust 25, 2021
Bruce R McConkie, CES conference Aug 1978 quoted in Sermons and Writings of Bruce R. McConkie:
“Forget everything that I have said, or what President Brigham Young or President George Q. Cannon or whoever has said in days past that is contrary to the present revelation. We spoke with a limited understanding and without the light and knowledge that has now come into the world. We get our truth line upon line and precept upon precept. We have now had added a new flood of intelligence and light on this particular subject, and it erases all the darkness and all the views and all the thoughts of the past. They don’t matter anymore . . . It doesn’t make a particle of difference what anybody ever said about the Negro matter before the first day of June of this year (1978). It is a new day and a new arrangement, and the Lord has now given the revelation that sheds light into the world on this subject.”
Farol E HunterAugust 25, 2021
That brought tears to my eyes. He is an amazing man and I honor him. I still, to this day, remember hearing the announcement that "all worthy males will be able to receive the priesthood" and feeling thrilled for that decision.
PamAugust 25, 2021
I am so grateful for Elder Holland's speech. I attended BYU in the 70s, and returned to Provo recently after having lived in other places in between. I was surprised at the changes I have seen at BYU since returning. I have been disappointed in hearing about radical ideas of some faculty members at BYU, about very vocal promotion of alternate lifestyles. There was a house on my street occupied by several members of the football team, who had inappropriate parties every weekend involving alcohol, tobacco, and likely other substances. I see athletes for BYU and other students whose dress and hair do not reflect the honor code. I am so glad that Elder Holland addressed some of the issues affecting BYU at this time. I hope BYU will uphold its unique mission and not yield to the voices that are pulling it away from that mission.
Rosie BAugust 25, 2021
I was a young single working mother in 1982 when I converted to the Church. I had a strong testimony of the Book of Mormon, but there was a lot about Church culture that I found confusing & discouraging. I discovered Hugh Nibley's works and his fascinating insights helped me see more of the big eternal picture. I hope for a revival of interest in his work.
JuliannAugust 25, 2021
Everyone has a story, a life, struggles and successes to share. And people are hungry to talk, but they have become cynical and jaded that anyone really cares to listen. I can strike up a conversation with just about anyone because I take the time to do so, because I ask the right questions, and because I sincerely am interested in who they are. Plus I’m not out to give advice, diminish feelings or “fix” others. There is an art to listening, and it can be learned, but it takes patience, desire, and two ears, one mouth.
Sydney WheadonAugust 25, 2021
I enjoy all of your comments, but this one was very relevant and important in our world.
Bill EnglishAugust 25, 2021
You mean like "today most scholars agree that the best option is a river valley called Wadi Tayyib al-Ism, discovered in 1995 by Latter-day Saint explorers George Potter and Craig Thorsted." in the text of the article.
Or, "According to Warren Aston, who has carefully explored the surrounding regions..."
Or the list of several books and articles listed in the notes and bibliography?
DanAugust 25, 2021
Very good and thought provoking
Maryann TaylorAugust 24, 2021
I just read this address today and I am so glad you also posted it on Meridian. Elder Holland makes it clear that BYU professors have a sacred trust to teach according to the light and truth of the gospel. I am so happy Elder Holland gave this address at a time when there is confusion for some about the subject of same-sex relationships. I think my favorite part of the address was his comment that: "..Christ never ONCE withheld his love from anyone, but he also never once said to anyone, 'Because I love you, you are exempt from keeping my commandments.' " I think that says it all.
CurtisAugust 24, 2021
This is exactly something I am researching and am writing on right now. This is a fantastic article and I quote several of the same things you do!
Kelly P.August 24, 2021
My own son's testimony was shredded and shattered by the teachings and opinions of an admired BYU professor over 26 years ago. My son, a faithful returned missionary, was so proud and thankful to attend BYU, where he earned his Bachelor's degree. We were thankful that he could attend BYU, and entrusted him to that great institution. But we never expected him to be spiritually wounded by a professor and mentor who should have been strengthening his faith and building his testimony. I hope the faculty and leaders of BYU will listen to Elder Holland, and work hard to stay within the light and truths of the gospel of Jesus Christ and teach them. They have an extremely important responsibility to do so.
R McCaskillAugust 24, 2021
I graduate from BYU and was impressed and loved how it was not only a secular institution but also a religious one. I enjoyed my gospel doctrine classes and know the mission of BYU was inspired. I had to go through an interview with my Bishop and agree to uphold the standard of the church, I hope the professors are asked to do the same and are held accountable if they don't. If I didn't uphold those standards I risked getting expelled, I would expect the professors should be held to the same criteria.
Jo Ann OkelberryAugust 24, 2021
This situation is so incredibly sad. My heart aches and cries for all those people, especially the women and girls, who will be back in bondage. We all feel so helpless. May God ease their burdens.
Jan KuesterAugust 24, 2021
Thank you for a very revealing article. I agree completely and watch with a heavy heart, the effects of the beliefs and errant claims which so many people in our modern, self-deluding society ascribe to. Thank you for the call and warning to each of us. I have a firm testimony that we are led by prophets, seers and revelatory who are here to teach, testify and encourage all mankind that we must look to the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ for salvation and peace.
Jennetta BiberstonAugust 24, 2021
I read the "Kiterunner" and it made me sick knowing how many adults and children had suffered like that and even worse. I pray for your people, for our people, as we should all be brothers and sisters.
Carl OlsenAugust 24, 2021
Very early on when the various vaccines began distribution, I vowed that I would not be vaccinated because I did not trust that they were safe. As time went on I became even more firm in my decision. But when I heard President Nelson's recommendation, I made it a matter of prayer during evening prayers with my wife. Almost immediately after that prayer, I distinctly heard a "still small voice" repeatedly speak the phrase "Follow the Prophet" resounding in my mind. I immediately scheduled an appointment to get the vaccine.
CASAugust 24, 2021
As a BYU graduate of many years ago and avid BYU supporter, I honestly think it is time to play "hardball" with these issues! I propose that any teacher/professor violating the high standards of teaching at Brigham Young University which are outside the boundaries set by the Church of Latter-day Saints and the teachings therein, should be put on academic probation with a follow-up interview by an Apostle in person. The claims against that person should be clear and substantiated by students or faculty. (The video clip by a Lehi High student the first week of school of the offense he/she saw and heard from a teacher was conclusive in the dismissal of that offending teacher!). If the concerns are substantiated, the instructor should be terminated immediately! Period! This is MY university also, and I think high standards of teaching should be expected and demanded!
Laurin RackhamAugust 24, 2021
Yesterday my daughter and I 'intstalled' her gay son and his sister in the dorms at the Y. Both have ever been treated with the utmost courtesy and dignity at the Y. They are some of my 32 offspring (and grand-offspring) who have been there. Afterwards, shopping for food for them, my daughter met Sister Susan Easton Black, also shopping, and expressed profound gratitude for her teaching there. "That class is where I gained my testimony of the Prophet Joseph Smith." That you Elder Doctor Holland and Sister Doctor Black so very much for all you do for all of us.
JaneAugust 24, 2021
I don't know anyone there and I'm sick as well. All those women and girls driven back into the dark ages because our leaders don't have the courage to do the right thing. Not only that, but US leaders are preventing others from doing the right thing. God help the Afghans.
I trust that God will demand justice from US leaders sentencing Afghans to death, if they're lucky. I pray with all my might for our sisters and brothers there descending into darkness because we abandoned them. Only the Lord can help them now.
Dennis HorneAugust 24, 2021
This was a superb and inspired address from an Apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ. I see from online content that many are taking issue with it and therefore showing where they stand. Some are slandering this Special Witness who told the truth he knew some would find upsetting or unpopular or contrary to their personal views. Such is Elder Holland's calling and duty before God.
I entertain slight hope that the offending parties at BYU that Elder Holland was speaking to will correct their ways. These people, as Elder Holland noted, are activists and advocates; hence the "tragic" friendly fire aimed at the Brethren/Church he spoke of. No matter the philosophies of the world, the scriptures and doctrine will not change and BYU needs to harmonize or either cease to exist or something else drastic--as Elder Holland, Pres. Nelson, and Pres. Oaks were all quoted as saying.
We must love all (including LGBT) but NOT "condone" the sinful behavior or activism.
John R CarpenterAugust 24, 2021
"... After having served a full-time mission and marrying her husband in the temple, a friend of mine recently left the church. In her graduation statement on a social media post, she credited [such and such a BYU program and its faculty] with the radicalizing of her attitudes and the destruction of her faith.’”
I know of 3 people who have left the Church because of what they learned at BYU - including my daughter.
John R CarpenterAugust 24, 2021
A comment regarding the left and right political image followed by another image of the Restored Gospel on the left and the Apostasy on the right.
The Restored Gospel is neither left-wing nor right-wing of the political spectrum. It is a God centered way of life that can, through Jesus the Christ, lead to eternal salvation and to the full Glory of God.
And anyone claiming or thinking that these two images in the article support left-wing politics and religion “that” is like the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ is wrong.
And anyone thinking or claiming that the primary colors representing the left & right wing politics relate somehow to the image of the Restored Gospel or Apostasy is also wrong.
The two images are separate and independent from each other. Any association other to the undecided being drawn one way or the other would be incorrect.
The top image represents the pull of the left & right wing politics and their religions of man trying to influence the undecided.
The bottom image conveys that the undecided need to choose between the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ and the Apostasy of popular emotional and so religions fixations.
Sonya WashburnAugust 24, 2021
I think we all need to remember not to judge people, some people's health will not allow them to be vaccinated. Also I find that when people wear a mask they feel safe and come too close and touch and hug and mess with their masks, and get germs all over their hands, spreading virus everywhere. Trying to understanding a person wearing a mask is more difficult so people come closer to be heard or understood...I say stop keep your distance, take the mask off so I can understand what you are saying..I prefer social distancing.
Sonya WashburnAugust 24, 2021
Thank you Elder Holland for addressing this issue. I too have felt to stop contributing to BYU if its professors are going to teach contrary to gospel principles. This has been going on for quite some time and there should be a way to weed out these unbelieving professors that are doing damage to our trusting children.
PatriceAugust 24, 2021
So glad that someone has said something. Bravo to Elder Holland. He is able to put his thoughts across in such a beautiful & spiritual way. What's been going on at BYU for the past several years and how it has accelerated to such a rapid pace is scary, to say the least.
SfischAugust 24, 2021
Amen and amen! Philosophies of men-so thankful for a living oracle to guide us in our fallen world. I love Elder Holland-he proclaimed the truth and corrected the mistakes in a way/manner that most only hope they could.
Elizabeth SAugust 24, 2021
Thanks for covering this talk in detail. I've written the Board of Trustees and admin at BYU 3 times in the past year about particular curricula and faculty attitudes at BYU. I am glad for this evidence that they are listening. Now I guess we'll see if this makes a difference with the boots on the ground.
Paralee M. EckmanAugust 24, 2021
I have known Elder Jeffrey R. Holland since he was a child in the same ward I grew up in. We met and visited briefly several times as he visited his beloved St. George. We treasure his wisdom and insight, and I am so glad he gave this address at BYU! I have heard from people who have had children who lost their testimony at BYU, and that is a tragedy! When a student attends BYU, you expect them to be strengthened in Gospel principles, and not hear messages against Church teachings. I went to BYU in 1954-55, and it was very Church centered. It needs to be now, and in the future!
William ToftAugust 24, 2021
Wearing masks is easy, even if you don't want to be vaccinated. It wasn't too long ago the prophet advised us to seek personal revelation. On this matter my wife and I (both in our 70s) have counseled together, pondered and prayed ....and continue to do so about the matter. Thus far, we feel the vaccine is not right for us. It may be for most people but we are avoiding the vaccine as we continue to be open to promptings to do otherwise.
ShaunaAugust 24, 2021
thank you Elder Holland. I love you and you will always be "President Holland" to me, as you were President of BYU when I was there. I thank God for you and your passion for BYU. I had a daughter there last year who is soon leaving on a mission and deliver another daughter there tomorrow. I have attended 2 other private universities for graduate training and there is nothing like BYU. But I am also aware that not all faculty are on board completely with the Gospel, and in fact, in receiving a masters degree there, many years ago, was also indoctrinated, and believed for a time, some ideologies that are not in complete harmony with the Gospel. Students can get the philosophies of the world anywhere, but BYU is one of the few places where they can learn those philosophies through the lens of the gospel. It seems to me that the Lord has a vested and continuing interest in education--i.e. D&C 88 and 93, but it also seems striking to me, that 4 of 15 current apostles have been either Presidents of BYU-I or BYU. I believe you when you say that the Lord planted a love for BYU early on in your heart, and I am so grateful that the flame is still burning. May God continue to lead this great university to be a "house of learning and a house of faith."
P SkousenAugust 24, 2021
In my life I attended BYU and helped my husband through this magnificent university. I have always been grateful for that opportunity. My brother and my youngest daughter graduated from BYU and my middle daughter graduated from BYU-I. The standards and wisdom received from the remarkable professors who stood for truth and righteousness was always a testimony to the truthfulness of the gospel of Jesus Christ to myself and to my family. Thank you Elder Holland for your perfect words of wisdom.
James WarrAugust 24, 2021
It would be nice if you gave credit to those who originally discovered this place instead of giving the impression that you made the discovery.
WeezieAugust 24, 2021
Thank you so very much for giving me some new and true perspective I had never thought of before. It really helped soften my heart. You are a phenomenal writer to be able to do what you did. I’m at peace now, thanks to you!
chris howellAugust 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing. As a parent with three BYU grads and son in law part of the faculty, I pray that Elder Holland's admonishment will be heeded without reservation.
JustinAugust 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing this message. Too many are swept along with "politically correct" messages, and forget the love of our Heavenly Father and His desire for happiness and love for all. Sometimes that means taking a stand, and aligning yourself with Him. His ways are not our ways.
LindaAugust 24, 2021
BYU needs to "let go" those instructors who teach this trash to students. As professors of BYU, they are actually going against the code of BYU just as much as any student who dresses or acts inappropriately.
SamAugust 24, 2021
I think there is another division that I do often read with Deseret News. Trump has caused great division almost Anarchy. Many in the Church feel you must be for Trump or your not going to the Celestial Kingdom. That you must be a Republican. I have concerns about both parties. Please address this. Our country is in a major pandemic and many thousands have needlessly died because of the word , Hoax. Please address this! Thank you
Colleen MoellerAugust 24, 2021
I love this article, and am so glad that Elder Holland spoke to this point. Having attended BYU a few decades ago, and having watched it closely as a place to recommend to my own children, I have been disappointed in more recent years from the public messages that seem to come from faculty and students. Thank you Elder Holland for making it clear that BYU, it’s faculty and students should always be loyal first to gospel principles and the messages of the restored gospel.
SageAugust 24, 2021
My heart breaks for the people of Afghanistan. I will continue to pray and donate for them. So sorry our pres couldn't keep 2500 soldiers there. Such a shame.
Alan BylundAugust 23, 2021
We need to keep in mind that God is good at choosing his battles. He allows us to believe certain cultural false assumptions in order to not distract from the more important messages. It is also important to understand that this is a world wide church trying to persuade leaders of nations that the church is always supportive of the governments of the countries they are allowed to participate in. Think of the message they need to send to all the leaders of all those nations. We also need to remember that the church wanted all members to feel safe at church. Those of us who are aware of the bigger picture can deal with a little inconvenience to make those less informed feel safe and avoid a major controversy which would be counterproductive to the church's mission.
Alan FlemingAugust 23, 2021
The best way to understand the sacrament is to partake of it. The best way to understand the temple is to attend it. While we can study with faith the scriptures and books by good writers, the temple is best understood by attendance in the temple itself. When we understand the atonement we will come to the sacrament table with tears of repentance and hope. When the understand the plan of salvation we will participate in temple covenant-ordinances with humilty and service. During the sacrament and in the temple we will receive revelation as we participate worthily.
Lex KAugust 23, 2021
Ever since the prophet came out with the letter encouraging getting the vaccine, people have been treating it , and seem to keep insinuating that this was a revelation and so we should all follow. No where has it been said that this is a revelation. It is a suggestion from the presidency. You are still a member in good standing if you choose not to get the vaccine.
Maryann TaylorAugust 23, 2021
In order to see a full picture here, I think bullying needs to be addressed. While there is some great advice in this article, there are times when accepting aggressive behavior is wrong. Also, whether the parent gets involved really depends on the age of the child. Sometimes parental intervention is necessary, especially if there are repeated offences. I believe it is much better for the PARENT to remain calm and to show a little empathy for the child (not dramatic coddling), rather than to immediately tell the child to "calm down." When someone tells me to "calm down," it feels like what they are really saying is, "I don't really care that you are upset, and your feelings don't really matter."
Pat DraweAugust 23, 2021
Your article is a wonderful help and reminder for believers. I believe the law of agency is so essential that careless drivers or intentional evil doers are not blocked from causing hurt or disaster, except in unusual circumstances. Have you written or would you consider writing an article about the intersection of man’s free agency and the Lord’s protection that we pray for?
Pam RoderAugust 23, 2021
I will add my voice with that of Charles McClelland. He stated my opinion exactly.
Bonnie MattsonAugust 23, 2021
Excellent article! Thank you for taking the time to share these thoughts. I love the Temple and will be glad to get back when the restrictions are lifted and my health improves.
Wally GoddardAugust 23, 2021
Good ideas. I recommend that every reader consider the five steps in emotion coaching described by John Gottman in Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child (chapter 3).
J. RossAugust 23, 2021
Excellent article. I like the author's willingness to question his own personal beliefs. I believe most of us have had a time when we disagreed with a church issue. Sometimes it is the politically liberal among us, now it seem to be the conservatives.The point is none of us has a perfect view.If we think we know more than the prophets, we will be left on the outside.
T. BarrettAugust 23, 2021
One thing that has made the temple more meaningful to me is to take a family name through all the ordinances myself (not all on the same day). I feel a more personal connection to this ancestor and to the ordinances myself. Thank you for your article. I feel that I love the temple, but I don't love going there as much as would like to.
Joyce YoungAugust 23, 2021
I enjoyed your article. I remember the first time I went to the temple years ago, I was surprised things were so ceremonial, with lots of symbols and clothing. I didn't understand the symbols and actions so I was confused. I thought you just sat in white clothing and listened to a presentation and raised your hand to make covenants. I later learned what all the symbolism means, that it helps us remember what is said and done better than just listening. You learn al lot about the purpose of earth life and the eternities if you listen and try to feel the spirit of it all. Thanks
PamelaAugust 23, 2021
A couple years back after a RS meeting I told a sister in the ward that I wanted to gain a testimony of the temple like she had. So I went once a week for a couple months but still didn’t grasp what the big deal was. The Spirit prompted me to attend every morning. That is when I started to gain my testimony of the temple and I looked forward to communicating with the Lord each day. Now I know for myself why people love to go to the temple !
cameron steinbuschAugust 23, 2021
I live in an area that has a temple built but not dedicated yet due to covid. Some people have been in it though and the universal message is, if your claustrophobic you won't like it. I am very claustrophobic and the size of the building or room doesn't matter, you could be claustrophobic anywhere. That is my big worry that I would have a panic attack or anxiety attack there, which I have had before in the temple, elsewhere though.
Terry RichAugust 22, 2021
Thank you for your insights. The beauty of wise authors and prophets give balm to my soul.
LisaAugust 22, 2021
It is fun to see all the different ties the missionaries wear. I think it is a source of entertainment for all.
Dianne DemikAugust 21, 2021
Brother Peterson, I'm afraid I can't articulate well enough how blessed I have been by your writing and speaking over the years. This article has been so helpful to me as I finally turned off the television showing
the anguish of many children of God in Afghanistan and Haiti. Thank you.
DebraAugust 21, 2021
Beautifully said!
Helen CondonAugust 20, 2021
I long ago decided that I will add 2 scripture references to my son’s gravestone:
Job 1:21 and 1 Samuel 1:28
All will, indeed, be made well.
Carlos RoundyAugust 20, 2021
Through the atonement of Jesus Christ all suffering has purpose, with out the atonement, nothing in life has purpose.
SusanAugust 20, 2021
What a wonderful article filled with comfort and strength for the present and hope for the future! Thank you for this.
Candace WashburnAugust 20, 2021
What a powerful testimony of our Savior! Thank you!
CarolAugust 18, 2021
I love the quote at the end by Abraham Lincoln!
And this story just proves had stupid and foolish war is!!!
Papa PotterAugust 18, 2021
Wow -- gospel truths beautifully written and very timely for me. THANKS
DonnaAugust 18, 2021
Thank you for a much-needed article! This is a fantastic wealth of information that poses the question of why so many people are pushing this agenda so quickly on our vulnerable youth. People need to hear both sides of the story, and this is the other side that is too often silenced. I hope this is circulated far and wide.
Vardell TaylorAugust 18, 2021
"It is in turning to Jesus and calling on His goodness that we are saved." Yes! just as it is in all the examples: Benjamins people, Enos, Alma, Lamoni, his father, the Lamanites in Helaman 5. We can be forgiven for all our sins, and be saved - be confident that Christ has promised us exaltation. And it can happen as we are right now; forgiveness is not dependent on a long list of performances and ordinances. Why don't we have people announcing, like Alma, I have been born again, redeemed, changed from the carnal man to a state of righteousness?
Michelle VincilAugust 18, 2021
This is such a heartbreaking struggle. It is particularly scary for a parent when you feel, while you are trying to figure things out, that you have the needs of your child, the voices of society and possible conflicts with school and public administrations that you are dealing wtih. I haven't had this exact situation but some very "modern" situations with my children. It was most helpful to realize that 1. i needed to find calm somehow so I could really talk w God and hear His voice. 2. pay attn and realize when I am moving based on fear or imagined timelines. 3 just because a voice is the loudest doesn't mean it is the correct one. Often, people who have the same questions, and would support you while you figure things out, are often the ones trying to be respectful of your "space" and don't say anything. There is a way to give love and support without pushing expectations. Finally, it was so important to shut out everybody else and make sure my child knew i loved them, was truly listening, and had the confidence that there were answers. Some of the things I dealt with took several years but as soon as I quit forcing my chosen result on my child and listened nonjudgmentally and LOVED them, things started to open up and we found a way thru. SATAN USES CONTENTION no matter the situation TO KEEP PEOPLE FROM HEARING EACH OTHER, LOVING EACH OTHER AND SUPPORTING EACH OTHER. God bless us all. He is good all the time.
AnonymousAugust 18, 2021
THANK YOU! I am so grateful to see information on the alternatives and regret of transitioning. I feel like I’ve been fighting a lost battle against common sense as Mental health professionals and the world seem to tell me to let my child do whatever they want. I 100% agree with watchful waiting and getting the child busy and involved in life. How can we get information like this out to the youth who are being fed social media that is harmful?
Herm OlsenAugust 18, 2021
Bro. Goddard has again hit the nail on the head! This is a thoughtful, gentle and merciful reminder that, in God’s eyes, we are all and each of us Pearls of Great Price. Thank you for the insights. Thank you for the kindness!
Karla SAugust 17, 2021
I made the decision to be vaccinated, due to age and comorbidities. I'm a nurse and I'm well aware of the debate, on both sides. Most of the articles you cited are not new to me and there are a lot of questions left unanswered in most of these, and other articles I have read, or with experts I have listened to. This issue is NOT settled even among the experts. I am generally pro vaccine, with a few exceptions. As with all vaccines, these Covid 19 vaccines should also be taken with INFORMED CONSENT, not MANDATED. That is the biggest issue I see among "CPDs" I know, including myself. After all, these vaccines are still "experimental" and there appears to be risks in taking them. As for mask usage, it's not 100%, whether due to using them incorrectly, or wearing ineffective cloth masks. Generally speaking, if someone has real concerns about catching Covid 19, that person should really keep that fact in mind, and limit exposure to crowds of any kind, including church services. I know most Wards are continuing Zoom access to meetings. I don't feel the Prophet is telling us NOT to be informed and not to use this information to evaluate our particular circumstances. I do agree that he is trying to help us look at those around us with compassion and empathy. Wheter "CPD" or not, we should NOT allow this virus to tear us apart as members of the Lord's Kingdom.
ReluctantAugust 17, 2021
There is very real concern about the vaccine. I had the first shot, then I got Covid. I recovered from Covid. I was feeling fine. Then I got the second shot and I have not recovered my health and it has been months since that happened. There is a problem with the vaccine for some people and I don’t believe our government is honest about it. Just because it didn’t cause problems for everyone doesn’t mean it is safe for all and we should be able to choose without creating contention.
Rita in TexasAugust 17, 2021
David M., your comments embody the article's critique of those who dismiss, harass and otherwise abuse those who have chosen to allow logic, reason and knowledge to inform their actions. Did nothing the author wrote sink in? Covid policy doubters are not heartless monsters willing to kill little children; we are thoughtful, faithful Saints who have serious questions that few want to hear, much less answer.
I am unable to wear a mask or take the jab, both for medical reasons. Going to worship with my ward family has been impossible for months, and just recently I've been able to attend. Now, it looks like it will be taken away again. Even with the delta variant, children are largely immune from the kinds of problems that the elderly and those with co-morbidities generally have. Parents with medically-fragile children usually keep them at home. There are several people in my ward who haven't been able to attend church or the temple, and some of them are considering leaving the Church altogether, because of the unkind words coming from erstwhile friends and leaders.
This is a complicated situation, made more so by the constantly changing narrative coming from the government and its minions. Please don't make it worse.
Patrick McLaneAugust 17, 2021
It's not about pros and cons. It's about truth vs lies. Good vs evil.
HalAugust 17, 2021
Wow! What a great article! Thank you! I have often said we are wrong to judge previous generations by present-day mores. I shudder to think how future generations may judge our current society. It gives me comfort to know that in thousands of years of human history, with millions of different cultures, and tens of billions of individuals who have lived through their own mortal experience, that there is One who is qualified to know my heart and be merciful in His judgement.
MadelineAugust 17, 2021
I love this! Awesome way to appeal to young Latter Day Saints like me :)
David BlackburnAugust 17, 2021
Thanks Duane, you have always had such a thoughtful approach, and serving with you before I know first hand of your loving concerns to present all the facts in a non- judge mental thorough way that meets the approval of the Lord. What a wonderful article, and wider perspective that can help heal divisions and feelings. The Lords ways are always higher than our own, and it’s wonderful to have our living General Authorities to guide us and lead us in these Latter Days.
Karl MillerAugust 17, 2021
Wikipedia and NPR are biased sources of information, and to cite them at the start gives an unsettling foundation to this article.
JimAugust 17, 2021
I agree the Church can advise its members to get vaccinated but I disagree that the shot is safe and effective. If it is effective why are they now saying you will need to get a booster shot every 8 months. Why are people still getting covid who have had the shot? Second, how can they say it is safe? Do they have proof that in 2 years there are no serious side effects? In 5 years? 10 years? They can't. What if there is. How will members feel then about the First Presidency statement? How many may leave the Church because of it?
RBAugust 17, 2021
It's worth noting the fact that President Nelson spent many years as a successful, brilliant cardiac surgeon. And a humble one, which isn't the norm for cardiac surgeons. He helped develop the heart/lung bypass machine, without which millions of people around the world would have died. He knows more about the workings of the human body & health than those who suddenly became infectious disease experts last year thanks to the Internet. He has a vast store of knowledge, in addition to the presence of the Spirit.
I am completely fed up with those who are putting their biases as their god. This month in fast & testimony meeting, a brother stood up & basically told us all that the First Presidency are false prophets because of what they recommend regarding COVID. And this was before the latest letter. He & his wife have always been rabid anti-vaxxers. So apparently this is the hill they choose to die on. I'm all for agency, if they choose to leave the Church they should go. But I feel really sorry for their children.
Curt BassettAugust 17, 2021
Long time Duane! Your article tracks with my thinking about the need to protect the church from destruction politically. I've been thinking of the concept of the Lord commanding his prophets in the scriptures to employ stratagem. Abraham saying Sarah is his sister. Elijah leading blinded syrians to Samaria. Stratagem in Book of Mormon wars. Captain Moroni said deceit, decoys and trickery not a sin in war. Alma 43:30. Could 1st Pres be employing stratagem in our war against Secret Combination here? Flattering Caesar to misdirect and preserve Church's 501c3 status and privileges in spreading gospel? Don't have your new phone#. My old contact info is still good. Please give me a call to discuss/catch up.
AbbieAugust 17, 2021
While I can appreciate the tone and very thoughtful written article. I think the overall view should be, I am allowed to have my agency. I am allowed to make decisions for me and my family and that should be respected by all people as I respect your rights to make decisions for yourself and your family, ones that I may not agree with. The constitution was written too so that I may have that right as well, and yes slowly it has eroded, been taught incorrectly and they have over stepped their authority. The Lord highly values our agency. He will force no one and I think we all should follow his example. Name calling pointing finger, They are immature and selfish on Both sides of this debate. Trying to find common ground and actually having a real debate would be more helpful, but with dishonest reporting and too many differing expert opinions do not help and with social medial and news media censoring information it does help foster those honest debates to happen.
MelAugust 17, 2021
Thank you for your article. It has been the most diplomatic, church related piece I have read concerning COVID policies.
From the official church handbook: 38.7.13
Vaccinations
"Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination.
Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost."
As someone who has sought counsel with multiple competent medical professionals and also sought the guidance of the Holy Ghost as per direction from the First Presidency, the instruction I have received is different from many but right for me. Could this be an opportunity for the members of the church to have confidence in each other for doing the work of research and receiving spiritual guidance and show respect for each other even if our answers might look different?
JanAugust 17, 2021
Most thoughtful comments on history and our current society and how it treats history that I have ever heard. Presented in a meaningful way and tone. I for one plan on being more thoughtful of those from our past and the contributions they made.
Gaylinn ThompsonAugust 17, 2021
I appreciate the points and examples used in this article. Very well-written. Very illuminating and grounding. Thank you.
Ed RehderAugust 17, 2021
Thank you. A voice of reason in this world of wokeness.
Julie ArcherAugust 17, 2021
This is a wonderful article. My concern is not with members decisions to get the vaccine or not, but of how they treat those who choose differently than they do. We see in the Book of Mormon over and over that contentions arose among members because of pride. This is what we are seeing. The love of God is not in many of our hearts instead we have pride and judgment against those who believe and choose different. Our opinion matter more than love for our neighbor. Especially concerning the prophets current statement. You even see it in these comments. In such a critical time that we should humble ourselves and all unite in our faith in Christ despite little disputations Instead we are seeing contention and separation among His flock.
Kathy SandersAugust 17, 2021
Jacob, thank you for this article (and all your articles). I have five children who have left the church over such Ethnocentric ways of looking at history, both political world history and church history. It is certainly the "popular" thing to do these days and I only have one word for looking back at anyone's lives with such a certainty that they have an extra lens of understanding others missed: Arrogance. Oh that we would all humbly take Moroni's plea with the same humility he offered it and be merciful and curious, not arrogant and certain of things we can't possibly really know as we weren't there. Thank you.
Jan PetersonAugust 17, 2021
This article and some of the comments intimate that the prophet has given us a commandment, but he hasn't. He has encouraged us in one direction while leaving the opposite direction open and trusted our personal revelation and agency. Just like not getting the vaccine because of fear is the wrong choice, getting it "because the prophet did" is also spiritually and physically irresponsible. We are to seek revelation for ourselves and our stewardships.
ScottAugust 17, 2021
From my perspective, the Lord has been assisting us. Global pandemic, yet people have been inspired to create the technology over the last few decades to effectively and safely address it, just when it's needed most. And just when there's a global pandemic, who has the Lord called as His prophet? A medical doctor.
Margaret E. BatesAugust 17, 2021
This is a wonderful article and echoes all of my feelings on Covid mitigation in particular, and on following the Prophet and the Brethren as a whole regardless of the issue, in general. How can we call ourselves good Latter-day Saints in Jesus Christ's church and do less?
CricketAugust 17, 2021
First of all, you are building a straw man by saying the CDC has proven to be unreliable, then quote from it to show that it is. As long as the data fits.
Soooo...I ask: why the PUSH for a vaccine (that has, according to the CDC, a 90% effective rate) for a viral infection that has a 99% recovery rate, with lifetime immunity? A vaccine is going to require boosters.
I also ask why alternative treatments are not even discussed?
As I understand agency, information is needed to make an unfettered choice. So why the one-sided push?
Timothy D. JohnsonAugust 16, 2021
Consider the following:
D&C 84:64
And these signs shall follow those who believe-
D&C 84:71
And if any man shall administer poison unto them it shall not hurt them;
I am considered to be medically fragile. I have been in the hospital for surgery twice and to multiple medical facilities since the pandemic began.
I am blessed with a good immune system and am seldom bothered by colds of flu. So far I have been blessed to have been protected the Covid virus other than losing my sense of taste and a few snuffles for a couple of days.
Getting any of the vaccines fills me with terror as I've viewed articles that reveal what is in them or the conditions that some are manufactured in. But I cannot deny the words of Scripture.
I must follow the prophet and have faith in what the Savior has promised.
T GrantAugust 16, 2021
I don't understand the controversy. Do or Do Not. Live with it.
D. MackeyAugust 16, 2021
I have always appreciated counsel from our prophets who have warned members against accepting anything taught by them on blind faith. Rather, we have been counseled to make their teachings a matter of serious study and prayer. Then be open to the personal revelation that will come by the power and influence of the Holy Ghost directing how we are to individually respond. Agency comes down to individuals who must act according to the light and knowledge they receive for themselves in their particular circumstances and within their own spheres of stewardship.
Kim MAugust 16, 2021
I wonder how many people put following the Lord first? Because if you asked Him in prayer and received an answer...no matter what that answer was...you'd follow that direction...not man
Bruce T ForbesAugust 16, 2021
Many years ago I was in a stake conference in Arizona in which Elder Mark E. Peterson was speaking. He told stories of how the leaders agonize over wording in letters such as the one last week. He said when a letter says "We recommend", then all they're doing is recommending, nothing more and nothing less. Last week's letter "urged" us to do something; it did not "command" us. Take that letter with you into your private prayers and let the Holy Spirit guide you; that's what I did. The Spirit instructed me on what to do, and even though it's not what I want to do, I know better than to not follow the Spirit - or the prophet.
Lawrence NielsenAugust 16, 2021
Thank you. When one believes that we are lead by a living prophet, to stay on the covenant path means acceptance of counsel and obedience. I find it a complement when I am classed with the"sheeple" by the anti-maskers and anti-vacsers because I follow the the counsel of our leaders.
Heather SmurthwaiteAugust 16, 2021
This truly resonated light with my mind and heart! I appreciate it so much!
Helga SilskiAugust 16, 2021
I was very happy to read so many wonderful, positive responses. For the life of me I cannot understand how anybody that claims to be a member of the Church speaks negatively about the First Presidencies encouraging message to wear a mask and get vaccinated. If we only prayed about this subject earnestly, we would get an answer from the spirit in the affirmative. It is a great blessing to have a living Prophet on earth in these troubling times, the Lord has not forsaken us and left us in the dark, the Prophet is His mouthpiece on the earth and so are his counselors and the Quorum of the Twelve. I love, honor and sustain these brethren and I thank the Lord for them daily. Thank you Meridian Magazine for your uplifting articles, you are part of my life as are the scriptures. Thank you for spreading light and truth. God bless and continue to shower you with inspiration. Great big thank you to Duane Boyce for an excellent and lovingly presented message!
Paul HAugust 16, 2021
I'm certain there were many who thought Moses had gone loopy when he held up the brazen serpent and so they refused to gaze upon it, which was exercising their God-given agency to not follow the prophet, and we all know what happened to the "anti-gazers" don't we? I remember President Faust saying how much we would jump at the opportunity to work on the rebuilding of the Nauvoo Temple, but then asked if we would simply perform our home teaching duty. I'm at a loss as to why the extremely simple wearing of a mask or getting a vaccine (that the Prophet says was a literal God-send) would be so controversial and why anyone would believe information on the internet or social media over their own doctor's advice. But people refused to gaze at the brazen serpent, too, so I guess we're not all that different from the ancient Children of Israel, are we?
Jessica WhitakerAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for helping me reorient. I am ashamed of myself and will get vacinnated right away. Waiting for Novavax might come too late. Stubborness and pride have always been my achilles heel and throw in health, patriotism, civics, and all my cherished values and it is a perfect test. Some will be tried for wearing masks and others for not! Commit your body to Almighty God.
MKTAugust 16, 2021
From the official church handbook: 38.7.13
Vaccinations
"Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination.
Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost."
This article is thought provoking for sure and presents insights that had not occurred to me before. However as someone who has sought counsel with multiple competent medical professionals and also sought the guidance of the Holy Ghost as per direction from the First Presidency, the instruction I have received is different from many but right for me. Could this be an opportunity for the members of the church to have confidence in each other for doing the work of research and receiving spiritual guidance and show respect each other even if our answers might look different?
Gary AndersonAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this inspired article! I didn't know which way to go about wearing a mask again, but this article helped me to decide to always obey the brethren and get my own confirmation as well. I have now gotten it.
Maryann TaylorAugust 16, 2021
Oh, how I wish this article had been posted sooner!!! Just taught this lesson on Sunday in the Gospel Doctrine class.
Maryann TaylorAugust 16, 2021
This letter is absolutely mind boggling. I cannot conceive of someone worrying about their own "needs" after betraying their spouse in the worst possible way. His attitude is pouring salt into her wounds. When he can be more concerned about HER feelings and recognize what he has done to her, MAYBE he will be at a STARTING point to receive her forgiveness.
Maryann TaylorAugust 16, 2021
Having a hard time figuring out what the big deal is here. President Nelson did NOT say we have to wear face masks everywhere. He counseled us to wear them in public meetings where safe distancing is not possible. Also, he has been encouraging us to get immunized for a long time--nothing new here.
David MAugust 16, 2021
The other article in today's Meridian Magazine has dozens of reader comments. This one has none. I think that's because it's too long and confusing for the average reader who's just trying to do the right thing for his family, and not trying to justify or disprove all the conspiracy theories. My advice to ward leaders and CPD's is different than this article proposes - I'd say, act with an abundance of caution. Don't take any chances with other people's health. If you don't want to get vaccinated and wear a mask and social distance, then stay home and watch the meeting broadcast. You will never be able to live with the horror of possibly being responsible for the infection or death of an innocent child.
B CharlesAugust 16, 2021
Masking has been shown through peer-reviewed research to reduce transmission even if people don’t understand the scientific review process. The brethren shut down in-person worship before the government did.
Vaccines are safe and effective as the First Presidency stated in their recent communication. There are copious amounts of data saying that this is so. What makes this announcement so confusing?
If we want temples to be open we need to do whatever we can and masking and vaccination are our best tools in this war with COVID
Robert E JonesAugust 16, 2021
It is my firm belief that the General Authorities knew over 2 years ago that the pendemic or some other major problem would affect the intire world and make church meetings hard to have or even impossible.
As a result they made the change to our Sunday services and made the Church of Jesus Christ a "home centered religion." While many churches faltered ours continued agains all ods.
I firmly believe that more problems for the Church are coming and that the First Prisidency knows what lies ahead and is working diligenty to position the Church to be prepared to face whatever comes.
If you have doubts do what we have been told time and again "not to accept a position of the First Presidency "whole cloth" but seek your own aceptance by prayer and Personal revolation.
David MAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this article and the many insightful reader comments, most of which express gratitude for the wonderful inspired leadership of the First Presidency. I wonder if there's another lesson we need to learn through this pandemic experience - we seem to have lost the ability to rationally and calmly discuss things with each other, and wonder why everyone else seems to be so confused. One of the discussion points in this last week's 'Come Follow Me' was that Jesus Christ is the source of all light and truth. If we find ourselves needing to listen to a particular network or commentator or politician to find out what we believe about a particular issue, then maybe we've fallen prey to 'conspiring men' who distort things for their political or financial gain, and we need to reconsider our sources. This time it may only have mortal consequences, but next time it may be everlasting.
Sarah JonesAugust 16, 2021
I have been studying the Light of Christ for a few years and have come to the same understanding of what you’ve written here. I absolutely love how you’ve described everything it takes to shine with Christ’s Light.
I’ve come to also understand the Light of Christ, which is different than the gifts of the Holy Ghost, is our intuition, or the small daily impressions we receive to help us know good from evil. Literally, Jesus guides us with His Light on our path of mortality as we learn to align our will with God; as we learn to have an eye single to His glory.
I also like to think of the Light of Christ as Jesus’ gift to the children of God comparable in love, insight, direction, and correction as the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost is a gift given by our Father in Heaven when we covenant with Him to take upon us the name of Christ in baptism.
Sincerely, thank you again for writing and sharing this piece. I’m going to share this article with everyone I know!
ScottHAugust 16, 2021
Thanks for the in-depth viewpoint. To me the benefits of being vaccinated seem self-evident. Yet the bad and inconsistent actions of government and media actors also seem obvious. President Nelson clearly regards the vaccines as answers to the faithful prayers and fasting of millions. This suggests that the Lord is able to use deeply flawed and even corrupt entities to work miracles. It is possible to be both in favor of the vaccines and opposed to political overreach.
tfAugust 16, 2021
Thank you Meridian for re-publishing this!
tfAugust 16, 2021
Perhaps Pres Nelson doesn't want to have to close the temples again?
Gaylinn ThompsonAugust 16, 2021
So well written. Excellent points and examples. Thank you for your insight.
Sandra KharaziAugust 16, 2021
Great read, very well written. I for one got the shots when the General Presidency got theirs at the beginning of all this. I felt like if they were doing it, that was enough for me.
Larry MascoAugust 16, 2021
President Benson’s 7th Fundamental in Following the Prophet:
The prophet tells us what we need to know, not always what we want to know.
“Thou hast declared unto us hard things, more than we are able to bear,” complained Nephi’s brethren. But Nephi answered by saying, “the guilty taketh the truth to be hard, for it cutteth them to the very center” (1 Nephi 16:1, 3). Or, to put it in another prophet’s words, “Hit pigeons flutter.”
Said President Harold B. Lee: You may not like what comes from the authority of the Church. It may contradict your political views. It may contradict your social views. It may interfere with some of your social life. . . . Your safety and ours depends upon whether or not we follow. . . . Let’s keep our eye on the President of the Church. [In Conference Report, October 1970, p. 152-153]
But it is the living prophet who really upsets the world. “Even in the Church,” said President Kimball, “many are prone to garnish the sepulchers of yesterday’s prophets and mentally stone the living ones” (Instructor, 95:257).
Why? Because the living prophet gets at what we need to know now, and the world prefers that prophets either be dead or mind their own business. Some so-called experts of political science want the prophet to keep still on politics. .... And so the list goes on and on.
How we respond to the words of a living prophet when he tells us what we need to know, but would rather not hear, is a test of our faithfulness.
Richard TrippAugust 16, 2021
Good article Duane, but I think we need the Lord’s work to continue and expand which it can’t do while Covid 19 is spreading and killing so many people. Temple and missionary work nearly stopped during the early stages of the pandemic and now with vaccines both are returning to normal. I am glad we have a prophet to guide us through this pandemic.
MikeAugust 16, 2021
"Follow the Prophet, he knows the way"
JemezblueAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this article. For many reasons, I have been rebelling quietly against mask mandates and other violations of our freedoms during Covid lockdowns. So when my Bishop read the letter from the First Presidency yesterday, I was still rebelling. I had to tell myself over and over why the First Presidency would ask us to do this. My reasoning included many of the above things mentioned in the article and I concluded that the Lord would not lead us wrong. If I believed in the church and our prophet, then I could do anything that is required.
So, if a little thing like wearing a mask is involved and I did not want to obey that, then how can I be expected to obey the big things? This personal questioning was hard, especially when I was masked shamed from a fellow church member the previous week for not wearing a mask after our area seventy let us know that it was okay for us not to. I just kept thinking that the Lord would not lead us astray, so I put the mask on, but this little effort has been one of my hardest battles.
It turns out that for me, it is not about fighting for our freedoms, but fighting against Satan who is striving to get all of us to rebel against our Lord. Actively obeying what the Prophet is tell us, and our Lord's representatives, is among our greatest fights for our freedoms here on earth.
I felt a great peace throughout the rest of my Sunday knowing that I am obeying the Lord, even if it is a small thing like wearing a mask that our prophet asked us to wear.
Judy PetersonAugust 16, 2021
This is an excellent article. Although this isn’t one of my hot buttons—I believe the rapid vaccine development was one of the answers to our world-wide fast last year—I have faithful family members who continue to resist the vaccine and masking on political and even scientific bases. I have considered these principles on other issues that concerned me in the past, and the bottom line is always “Follow the Prophet.” Sometimes there has eventually been obvious validation. Other counsel still requires faith. “I thank Thee, Oh God, for a Prophet!”
L Norman PoulsenAugust 16, 2021
How do we console to the tens of thousands who have died from an experimental vaccine side effects when there are proven functional health protocols that drastically reduce deaths more so than the CDC protocols from all over the USA that are being censored by our "trusted" government health officials
L Norman PoulsenAugust 16, 2021
Hugh B. Brown: Official statements of the First Presidency that have not been submitted to the membership of the church for its approval are matters of temporary policy only. Under present conditions, for example, the First Presidency may say, ‘We recommend this or that.’ But conditions may subsequently change, and when they do the First Presidency may wish to make a statement which may not be in complete harmony with a former statement. We have to keep our theology up to date by submitting everything that is intended to become a permanent part of the gospel to those whose right and privilege it is to so interpret and then by having it sustained by the people as a definite rule of the church so that all things may be done by common consent. (An Abundant Life: The Memoirs of Hugh B. Brown, ed. Edwin B. Firmage [Salt Lake City: Signature Books, 1999], 124-125)
ColinAugust 16, 2021
This is a great big-picture discussion that stays out of the political muck and focuses on principles.
RICHARD BURKLUNDAugust 16, 2021
Excellent article. Others may wish to read the BYU Devotional talk by Elder Ezra Taft Benson (February 26, 1980) on "Fourteen Fundamentals to Following the Prophet.
Robert H. SainsburyAugust 16, 2021
I believe the work of salvation must continue on both sides of the veil.
President Nelson and his counselors have shown us the way to accomplish this. Wearing a mask and getting vaccinated is a small price to pay to keep the temple open and performing ordinances for both the living and the dead.
ReyLain BloxhamAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this insightful article. It’s nice to know I'm not the only one with these questions as I want to support and be guided by the Lords authorities on earth but feel I was/am directed to "go north". There are so many ways to feel like an outcast at church and now this is one more way. The narrative that "going north" means you are endangering those around you is exactly how this is playing out. I appreciate your supportive and informative words as I strive to "survive spiritually" through the influence of the Holy Ghost and feel I am doing the spiritual work to hear that Voice frequently and more clearly. I sure didn't expect to need it about a church "policy".
Sharee HughesAugust 16, 2021
Did I miss something? All I thought they said was to get vaccinated if you hadn't done so already, which they had already advised previously, and to wear masks in public or large gatherings, even if you have been vaccinated. With this extremely contagious delta variant, that's just common sense, so what are people upset about? I don't particularly like wearing a mask, but it sure beats getting COVID.
James ThomasAugust 16, 2021
What a great commentary about following the Brethren even when we do not always understand the why behind some of the direction. I am so grateful for the wonderful gift of living prophets and Apostles. The Lord knows better than I do what lies ahead and therefore is perfectly qualified to lead me according to what is best. When I follow the prophet I follow the Lord.
Susan NielsonAugust 16, 2021
Thank you Brother Boyce,
Those are pertinent points, that we as a church have to exist within our host societies, and the Lord is not choosing this hill to die on.
I have to say I felt super uncomfortable yesterday wearing a mask at church, with all the feelings swirling around my head of hating masks, not trusting corrupt government leaders, not wanting to appear as “virtue signaling” better than others.
But I do want to follow the prophet. I do believe he is directed by God. So I put the stupid thing on.
And I appreciate your calm, rational treatment of the facts, and your offering of new thoughts I had not considered.
Ronald BarnesAugust 16, 2021
I did not start wearing a mask until it became mandatory. I resisted the vaccine at first because of the many negative things I had heard about it. When I learned that the prophet and the apostles got the shot, I decided that they would know if it is as dangerous as I had heard. So, I got it. I still believe that the issue is more political than it is medical. We have been told that a prophet is entitled to his own opinion on any subject that the Lord has not revealed the truth concerning. We have also been told that the Lord will never allow His prophet to lead us astray. I accept that the prophet can, at times, express what is just his own opinion. However, whenever the church issues a statement signed by all three members of the First Presidency, I take notice. If we believe that these three men, especially the president, are prophets, seers, and revelators, then we need to heed what they say. No matter what the controversy may be, when they speak as a group, the controversy is over.
Kenny MazzantiAugust 16, 2021
As a missionary in Norway from 1966 to 1968, we passed out a pamphlet entitled, "A Church for all The World". President Nelson leads that church for all of the world and must consider, with the Lord's direction, all of the places the Church must further the work of Salvation. We must also individually live our religion. That includes Article of faith 12 which says, “We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law.” Recommending vaccination does not interfere with my personal agency. I still have my choice on the matter. But, it does further the work of the Lord by respecting all the various governments worldwide. The work will roll forth to every nation, kindred, tongue and people with or without us.
Blaine D WilcoxAugust 16, 2021
Powerful true message Duane! Thanks! Smile :-)
Barbara B.August 16, 2021
Thank you for this. It has helped me remember a lot of what I had forgotten. The Lord is in charge and is guiding us through our prophet. I sustain him, his counselors and the Quorum of the 12 at each conference, it's past time I remember that and what it means to ",sustain".
Again, thank you for this article.
SmilyAugust 16, 2021
I am reminded of a story where a man is stranded on his roof in a flood and prays for God to save him. God sends multiple ways of help his way including a boat and a helicopter. He refuses because he’s waiting for God to save him. When he drowns, he asks God why his prayer wasn’t answered. God explains that he sent him help (boat and helicopter, etc.)
Are we taking advantage of the lifesaving methods God has inspired men with? The leaders in the church have reaffirmed that these are the methods that will save lives. If you go back and listen, this isn’t the first time they’ve mentioned that masks will save lives, etc. they also set the example earlier in the year by publicly getting their vaccinations. (Follow the Prophet) I am so excited about the mRNA technology in the vaccines. They have been working on it for years and it is said the technology could lead to even a vaccine for MS eventually. A disease which I have. God inspires men and directs them in our lives whether they belong to our church or not. Look at all of the technology we’ve been given to better our lives. Do you think it was just invented by chance?
Then the masks. What a simple thing to save lives. Take charge of your own life and grab onto these methods that the Lord has provided us with. I just got my third booster shot two days ago since I am immunocompromised. I am so thankful to God for providing these ways for me to choose to grab hold of in order to save my own life and the lives of those around me.
MistyAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for the additional hindsight and perspective to consider. The Lord’s work has always been about the bigger eternal picture than the thoughts and mindset of the individual(s). I’ll continue to pray for my own confirmation one way or another.
MerriwynAugust 16, 2021
I am surprised that anyone was worried by that announcement. We prayed as a people for quick development of vaccines and were rewarded with miracles. It would be churlish not to accept the miracles that the Lord has granted us.
Charles McClellandAugust 16, 2021
Excellent, timely article that I hope will be read by those who are struggling with this decision by the General Authorities.
BIHAugust 16, 2021
I am absolutely at a loss to see how President Nelson and the rest of the First Presidency asking Church members to get vaccinated, wear masks, and socially distance is a BAD thing! This is to assist in curtailing the spread of a deadly virus and its variants all over the world. Why on earth would a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints protest this? This seems like insanity to me to be against protecting our family, neighbors, and the nation/world at large. And the cry of "personal freedom" is a strawman when it comes to a worldwide health crisis. Do we claim "personal freedom" when it comes to speed limits, seat belts, etc.?
KathleenAugust 15, 2021
They would be my support, as well! Kind of sad, yet realistically funny.
Elizabeth Colyer GoodwinAugust 15, 2021
I’m pretty sure that this article was written in response to my sister, as the female apostate quoted on Facebook. If the words quoted in the article weren’t written by her, I will be shocked. I’ve been grieving and wondering if there will ever be anything that I can say, when she is ready, to turn her heart back to the Savior. Thank you, Maurine, for giving me eyes to see how that could be done. I loved your inspired, Christ-centered thoughts on the matter.
Gloy JorgensenAugust 15, 2021
A most touching and loving story. We all have to let people go at some point and the loss is always difficult regardless of the age or manner of death.
Harold RustAugust 15, 2021
I have learned that before we judge another person’s willingness to help, we should recognize almost every member would want to help and they will eagerly be ready to help if…… they understand the need is genuine, they have resources or ability to help, and that by helping they are committed long term for more than they can handle.
Nicole ClementAugust 14, 2021
Thank you so much for this article. I have that destructive voice in my head too, all the time; and I didn't really realize where it was coming from. I always feel guilty for not doing enough, even though in reality I am doing a lot and doing the best I can do. This was a very enlightening article. Thank you for helping me understand this new viewpoint.
Mark MathesonAugust 14, 2021
Jen will do wonders at Care For Life. Follow and support her exploits there.
Mark DonaldsonAugust 14, 2021
Thank you for taking what is sometimes a very hard topic to understand (Light) and wording it with such clarity that it can be easily understood!
Sandy MAugust 13, 2021
This is wonderful .. thank you so much
Richard JukesAugust 13, 2021
Wonderful article! Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights.
Matthew HawsAugust 13, 2021
Thanks for this article. Sometimes I feel that we in the church don't give enough attention to this doctrine/idea/concept. Light has a far greater impact on us and the universe around us than we think.
DonAugust 13, 2021
When you cheat on your wife, you should have no expectation that she will do anything other than demand you move out, dump you, divorce you, request a cancellation of sealing, etc. Anything else is on her terms. YOU ARE THE ADULTERER. You can't whine your way out of the situation you behaved your way into.
ReaderAugust 13, 2021
Wow! This is amazing! I was thrilled in studying D&C 88 this week and how the Light of Christ is the glue/power behind all things in the universe, big and small, and your insights open up new vistas for me. Thank you for pondering and sharing.
Trinity OlsenAugust 13, 2021
Thank you so much for being inspired to write this article! I have been trying to explain to a son of mine how science and truth and light are an integral part of Heavenly Father’s being and that we have access to that same power and knowledge. I have prayed for a way to explain these truths to him. Your article has hit the nail on the head for me and answered my prayer. I’m going to share this with my son and pray that he is receptive to the message in your words.
Colleen HarrisonAugust 13, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful article. It was a great blessing to read it.
@WalkinghandinhandwithgodAugust 13, 2021
Thank you for this! I have so much compassion for betrayers, they really are victims in their own right, but it is on them to grow in the ways they have failed to develop over the years. Yes growing hurts, yes, it means learning not to rely on others for validation and a sense of self, yes it means increasing your level of tolerance for discomfort and vulnerability, it means becoming less selfish and more caring, it means relying on the Lord to help you deal with your hurts, to see her anger for what it is—pain and fear, and to be able to offer compassion, comfort, reassurance, and love unfeigned.
Isaac C "Ike" FergusonAugust 13, 2021
Wow!!! Brother Franklin's treatise on light was both insightful and compelling. Thank you for sharing your intellectual understanding of light scientifically, and the applying it so neatly doctrinally and in practicality. A great piece I shall keep as a reminder of light and truth, which comes by "hardening not your heart" and having a willing mind. Bless you for your insights.
NolaAugust 13, 2021
Thank you for this enlightening article.
Kathy Sutton (Please do not print my name for the comment)August 12, 2021
I am disappointed that you did not mention the use of sign language. Many of us who are deaf cannot depend on hearing aids to understand what s being said.
MaureenAugust 12, 2021
I had a deaf sister in one of the wards that I lived in and anytime that I gave a talk in church I would always print out a copy of it and give it to her so that she could read it and get an idea of the content that I would be using in my talk. She told me that she was very appreciative that I would do that for her, and that I was the only one that did that for her.
CoreyAugust 12, 2021
Excellent article, well written and explained. I think I'm no different than most active, faithful members/Christians, if you were to ask I would tell you that I keep the commandments but I struggle with total obedience or what the scriptures refer to as 'obedience in all things'. There is a verse in the Doctrine and Covenants that has always been interesting to me, it say's referring to the Lord communicating to Joseph Smith, 'and gave unto him commandments which inspired him', every time I read that I think to myself, am I inspired by the commandments ? I think we also tend to categorize things, at least I do, we label some things commandments and some things rules and place more emphasis on one than the other. We also label things as inspired or coming from God and those things that come from man and again give importance or priority to one over the other. Certainly the commandments are of supreme importance because of their eternal significance but I think to become like the Savior we have to be humble and obedient even in the small things and that's a challenge at least for me because like you mention or infer we don't like to be told what to do.
No nameAugust 12, 2021
Mask wearing completely deletes ability to have a conversation for hard of hearing. We have to read your lips. It is a struggle to attend church meetings now.
Maryann TaylorAugust 12, 2021
This article is also a reminder to keep all medications, including those in purses out of the reach of children.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I absolutely agree that none of us should be labeling others as selfish for deciding not to get the vaccine. There is a LOT of conflicting information out there regarding EVERYTHING about COVID, and also the vaccine. I just read that it was recently discovered that the reported number of people with the disease in Florida alone was inflated by almost 13,000 above the actual number! I decided for myself to receive the vaccine as soon as I could because of President Nelson's encouragement and example. However, I do NOT in any way judge or condemn those who choose not to get it. The disease is bad enough without adding spiritual warfare. AND---we need to put things into perspective by remembering we are much more statistically likely to die from many other things.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I wonder if the visit was the result of the Priesthood blessing. I have a strong testimony of Priesthood blessings and perhaps sending Amber to comfort her friend was the best way to fulfill it. This is such a very heartbreaking story, but I am glad your family has the gospel and faith in Heavenly Father to sustain you.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I had to chuckle when you mentioned your frustration at the places in our scriptures where we are informed that the writer cannot tell us all he knows or saw. I want to know! I trust the Lord to reveal the sealed portion of the Book of Mormon when we are ready to receive it, but I can't help longing for it now. I want to read Adam's record in the Plates of Brass and everything else we don't yet have. Ok--I KNOW--Patience! I just keep hoping that if we spend more time studying what we DO have, the Lord will reveal the rest.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I appreciate your comment about avoiding competition between the sexes. I am also tired of television and movies that promote enmity between men and women. It has become very popular to portray women as tough and rude, and men as dumb and weak. I think it would be great for husbands and wives to discuss ways they can communicate to their children, by example and word, the importance of unity and cooperation between the sexes.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I have extremely poor hearing and, although hearing aids help, I still have a hard time hearing in Relief Society. I finally stopped attending and leave after Sacrament Meeting. It is just too frustrating. I know that many leaders and teachers don't want to use microphones, but that would be one simple way of helping people with this problem. I know there are many other members who feel the same way I do. It seems ironic to teach lessons about serving and meeting the needs of others, while at the same time ignoring the hard of hearing.
Tell me about the painting accompanying this article. How can I buy a copy of it?
Debbi M.August 11, 2021
“to be more appreciative of what other human beings can do and more patient with what they cannot do” So profound! What wisdom is in this sentence...I only pray I can incorporate this into my daily routine as I struggle to be patient with erring children and grandchildren that I love so dearly. We all have our own journey through this life.
carolyn nicolaysenAugust 11, 2021
The Church's self-reliance program includes several classes meant to help people care for their own needs no matter what their circumstances. I have facilitated the personal finance and starting and growing your own business classes and they are great. The church also offers a class on finding a job, getting an education and emotional resiliance and they have piloted one for teens as well. I too wish they would talk more about emergencies and preparing specifically for them, but since they aren't I guess that is our job to share what we know.
carolyn nicolaysenAugust 11, 2021
Jill, What a challenge. Can you eat freeze dried or dehydrated? I don't usually recommend storing those except for some ingredients because you need so much water to reconstitute. In your case it may be an answer. You can freeze many foods like eggs, which few understand.
Monte MortensenAugust 11, 2021
Becky, as always you express yourself in such openness and truth. These experiences were so heartrending and yet I have observed how your beautiful faith has grown and sustained you and those in your path. You are a blessing to so many.
Diane CowleyAugust 11, 2021
Excellent article. I have to wonder if part of the reason for so much anxiety and depression is the dissonance between what the world teaches and what our spirits know is true. Internally, is there a war being waged? I seem to feel it all the time.
Diane JonesAugust 11, 2021
I like these suggestions, but one important suggestion is lacking, I feel. The importance of teaching daughters of their connection to God, who loves them, and to continually---every day, do the little things that exercise those spiritual connections and attributes. That strength will help them become that woman they want to become.
SharonAugust 11, 2021
This is the best article on women! I want to shout it from the rooftops! Good job!
christina archibaldAugust 10, 2021
I cant imagine how difficult these years were for your family. Thank you for sharing and God bless all of you for enduring to the eventual 'new way of living' through unimaginable loss.
Helen CondonAugust 10, 2021
Timely for me! I was up past my working-well bedtime last night holding and comforting my youngest daughter, more aged 31, who struggles with acute anxiety and depression and has developed thought habits of low self-esteem. She, too, finds no purpose in the Church that could, if she chose, fill her loneliness with loving friends. She still believes in Christ but has not yet claimed His redeeming power. Holding her, loving her is so easy. Watching and waiting for her to choose her own path, essential to her salvation as it is, is excruciating.
CatAugust 10, 2021
It is getting more & more extremely common ( & damaging to the children)
It the MOTHERS that are degrading the worthy, noble, righteous, loving Father’s.
From cradle to adulthood….. a women should refer to being “ valued more than rubies”
In all her actions, words & deeds. When raising a family “ it’s NOT about her wants, her ideas, her control “
rexAugust 10, 2021
While I haven't had children stay from the Gospel, I have had family members and other loved ones who have sought a different path. As I ponder that, I have a glimps of what our Father in Heaven must have experienced in the pre-existence with 1/3 of his children decided to take a different path. He did not "change the rules" in order to keep everyone, but allowed his children to use their agency to make a decision that had the most eternal consequences of any decision we could ever make.
Scot ProctorAugust 9, 2021
The bottom portion of the article is from Becky's adopted daughter Jolanta's point of view.
DO'LearyAugust 9, 2021
Becky, as I read, it sounded like Amber was your daughter and yet you didn't know about her bi-polar.....you said you were 12 years old when Amber died. I'm confused, if you were married, etc. This must be a typo.
Chip WhitmerAugust 9, 2021
Can we learn to apply the model of Helaman and the people of Ammon, from Alma 53:13-15 and 56:6-8?
In this story a minority of the population had taken upon themselves a moral obligation that put them at odds with the prevailing cultural norms. Helaman recognized the moral dilemma in which they found themselves, and went to great lengths to accommodate their moral obligation -- even accepting the increased risk to society brought on by allowing them to fulfill their commitment.
Can we accept that many people today have made a similar moral commitment: that they will not participate in any way with the totalitarian and authoritarian schemes that are consuming our society? And like Helaman, can we find a way to honor and accommodate that commitment, regardless of whether we happen to agree with it ourselves?
Debbi M.August 9, 2021
Amazing and heart-rending story! I am amazed at the author’s strength and resiliency. Life can be so difficult and hard to understand in its seeming unfairness. Thank you for sharing your experiences. It gave me a renewed appreciation and love for suffering brothers and sisters, as well as how H.F. intercedes.
Jake D.August 9, 2021
This article is so real. I'm struggling with my own crisis and it's so nice to hear such a candid example of a messy life and how God is still involved in horrendous circumstances. Thank you for sharing.
Mary HAugust 8, 2021
People can believe anything they wish. But behaving irresponsibly towards the health of others is selfish. If you do not want to vaccinate I am okay with that. But stay home. Stop assuming you are welcome unmasked in' public. You are not. I am not responsible to provide your herd immunity
I personally believe the US should ship all our vaccine to countries that would desperately love it. The opportunities to get it in the US are closed.
WandaAugust 8, 2021
I am all for personal freedom. For anyone who wishes medical treatment for covid who is not vaccinated, please just stay home and treat yourself. My medical skills, my choice. I am tired. If you do not wish to be vaccinated, fine. But please die at home if you get sick. You do not have the right to put me at risk anymore.
HenryAugust 8, 2021
Part of the problem is that many of the unvaccinated seem to have bought wholeheartedly into what some of us consider nutcase conspiracy theories. I was told recently by one that they know that over 5,000 people have died from the vaccine. I honestly did not know how to answer that. I refuse to accept that all the media in the US except their obscure website are hiding the truth from us, lying to us to convince us to risk our lives by being vaccinated.
So is it wrong to ask these people to stay away. They are welcome to choose liberty and possible death for themselves, but not for me. They are welcome to isolate mask free at home, but not in church or restaurants or on planes with me. My life, my choice.
FrancineAugust 8, 2021
It is not just a voice in our heads. Too often I have heard these false teachings directed at the members in lessons and from local leaders, far too often bishops. And, if I may say so, directed more at the women than the men.
I feel some men exercise unrighteous dominion toward the women in an attempt to control them, to shape them into Stepford wives. I realize much has changed in recent years, but the church this woman left is the same one I still live in. People judging others and trying to control them.
Thank you Maurine for this important piece. Add in the truths about how spiritual gifts were prepared by God to help us to overcome our weaknesses and it would be perfect, meaning complete
Maryann TaylorAugust 8, 2021
The question is no longer "Is there going to be an emergency I need to prepare for?" The question is: "When an emergency strikes, will I be ready?" We tend to picture some looming disaster in the future, but those disasters continue to occur NOW. People in economic straits are using their food storage NOW. People who have been displaced by fires need financial resources NOW. Tornadoes, hurricanes, earthquakes, wind storms, fires, and economic problems will continue to occur. Our Prophets have warned us for many years to be ready. If we think the government is going to swoop in and solve our problems we are going to be woefully disappointed.
Anja Walter-RisAugust 8, 2021
That´s a wonderful article! I really enjoyed it! Just was missing the song "That´s Life" as it describes to me very offhand the Up and Down of entrepreneurial life (if you don´t have the system in place yet that you need to have a real company... as Michael E Gerber teaches in his E-Myth books / trainings). I would love to re-publish your article (in English or maybe even in German, translated by me, if you agree) on my blog. Best wishes, Anja (PS, we currently have trouble with a Wordpress plugin, so my worpress website/blog is currently offline unfortunately, but we will be online soon again... as I said "That´s Life" got to be in there... ;-)).
Ed GayhartAugust 7, 2021
Let’s be real. A decision to get a vaccine is a personal one. Why would someone with natural acquired immunity want to get a vaccine and why would someone be adamant that he do so.
Live and let live and mind your own business.
Merle RumseyAugust 7, 2021
I really enjoyed reading this. When we visited the John Adams home in Quincy, Emma Smith's Book of Mormon, was in the library of their home.. Joseph had given it to Adam's grandson
Sasha KwapinskiAugust 7, 2021
The guilt tripping, the feeling that you are inherently "worthless" or just a miserable sinner, or that everything we do is just "filthy rags," this is the very teaching that I encountered among Fundamentalist Protestants. It is NOT the gospel of the Latter-day Saints! This kind of teaching was a major factor that alienated me and turned me away from religion altogether during my late teens.
It was not until several years later that I came to learn of the Restored Gospel, and came to have a clear, helpful understanding of humility, grace, and forgiveness, and of our eternal worth.
William ToftAugust 6, 2021
I am determined to do as much work for our dead as possible before the next lockdown occurs.
SuzetteAugust 6, 2021
As close family members share strongly their views against my views on all this, I simple Respond, “my body my choice. Please respect my religious views, my political views and I will 100% respect yours.
That usually end the conversation.
Alan FlemingAugust 6, 2021
I often say to myself "You are a failure". Then I have to remind myself "Failure is an event, not a person". It is then I realize and say within myself "I can always do better" which is true and a driving force to improve. But the most important change occurs along with this thought when I accept that each experience (good and bad) is but a small step in my progression. Joseph Smith made many errors along the way but as I learn about his life I see his progression from a young boy to a young man to a prophet of God. He felt he had failed and wondered about his standing before God. In answer to his prayer seeking forgiveness, he learned that God is forgiving when we humbly confess and recognize our weaknesses and failings. It is like any parent, God is loving and wants us to try again, and again. He would be saddened if we choose to give in.
Judy JohnsonAugust 6, 2021
I have a dear friend who I was privileged to mentor as she learned the Gospel and joined the church. On numerous occasions when she was doubting and wanting to back away, I was prompted to say, "Whose voice are you listening to?" It is so "black and white" and so logical that it has kept her grounded and moving continually forward. Both of our testimonies have grown as we have learned to distinguish the difference and recognize the correct voice to follow. Thank you for your insight!
Haze KompelienAugust 6, 2021
I love helping people. It brings me joy. But I really loved your article.
Thoughts I hadn't considered before.
~Exit strategy.
~A ‘train the trainer’ model is key to continuation without dependence.
~The cause of the cause?
~A family systems approach?
~Project based or people based?
I need to take off my cape and step back, to make better judgements in my helping efforts.
DavidAugust 6, 2021
I haven’t decided yet if I will be vaccinated or not. The condemnation pretty much comes from one side. You want to wear a mask…knock yourself out, there will be no condemnation from me. Took the vaccine…great…still no condemnation. Believe that the government has been forthright with Covid information…that’s your right and you’ll not be condemned by me. I’m not offered the same courtesy if I believe differently.
AEatonAugust 6, 2021
Very well written and great points. I pray we can all learn how to disagree with civility on this and other difficult issues.
KateAugust 6, 2021
I agree wholeheartedly with your message, and I think that we LDS need to recognize how much of our LDS culture comes not from the revelations of the Restoration, but from the Calvinist protestantism that most of the early saints had grown up with. The sense of shame and never being good enough is part of the false teachings that the Restoration was meant to wipe away--but we've clung to them. We need to think this through. Many LDS are basically evangelical Christians, albeit with a Mormon-ish slant. Even (dare I say it?!) there are talks given in GC that reflect more of "conservative Christian" mindset than restoration theology. Once we understand that our Heavenly Parents LOVE every. single. one. of. us and want nothing more that each of us return to be with Them forever, and that that goal is Their work and Their glory--well, then the vengeful god of Luther and Calvin and all the rest will fade and we will see clearly the amazing beauty of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
ChrisAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for a wonderful and insightful article. The root cause of almost any addiction, as well as much of our pain, distress, and anxiety in this life is the story we continually tell ourselves..."I'm not good enough."
And yet the core message of the gospel of Jesus Christ is the we are MORE than good enough. We are literal children of a God who loves us without condition...we cannot earn His love and we cannot do anything to cause Him to love us less.
There are really only two commandments...love God and love people. Everything we do in our gospel living, whether it's attending church, fulfilling callings, temple attendance, tithing...everything...should be done as a result of living commandment #1 or #2. The gospel is not a to-do list. It's not onerous or heavy or difficult. It's light, joy, and peace. If we are willing to really live it as it's intended it will in fact make life much easier, not more difficult.
Nina HawkinsAugust 6, 2021
Thank you so much for your article. It's to bad that those of a different opinion are labeled as "reckless, selfish...." . There is more to it for those that choose not to get vaccinated or choose to wait a little longer. No one wants to hear an opposing view. So hysteria seems to be taking charge and freedom of speech is labeled as conspiracy if you don't agree with "their" narrative.
GaleAugust 6, 2021
I have never met anyone who has left the Church who hasn't misunderstood how God and the atonement work in our lives. As a Jewish convert, I've repeatedly given firesides about Christ's invitation to be perfect. Note He didn't elaborate on what that actually means, because His audience already knew that to be perfect (whole, complete) means to have the seven attributes of God: Love, Justice, Mercy, Kingship, Priesthood, Prophecy, and endurance to the end. This has nothing to do with the lists we use to beat ourselves up with. At the end of the day we only need to ask ourselves a few questions. Today, was I loving, was I fair, was I merciful, am I close to the Spirit, am I keeping my covenants. Try that, and you'll find it's much gentler to the soul than engaging in damaging self-talk or allowing Satan to beat us down.
Doris WilliamsAugust 6, 2021
Oh, thank you Maureen for pulling together all these wonderful thoughts and words of encouragement for those thinking of leaving the church because of feelings of guilt and discouragement over sins and weaknesses. I would ask these dear folks to picture our Savior in the garden of Gethsemane, suffering unrelenting, unforgiving pain causing extrusion of blood from every pore as he willingly paid the price exacted by justice for OUR sins so we wouldn't have to suffer for them at the day of judgment. Doesn't this sound like a Father who loves us without measure? In return, all He wants us to do is to accept Him as our Savior and to keep trying to follow the path He has laid out for us. He knew we will make mistakes, countless mistakes. He will forgive us as often as we ask Him to. All we have to do is ASK and keep trying to do a little better and if we forgive those who have hurt, disappointed or offended us. He is there to strengthen us to be able to bear the burdens we have in this second estate and promises us joy in this life and greater joy in the life to come. I pray for all who would give up this church with its history of the appearance of the Father and the Son to Joseph, the priesthood restored by John the Baptist and Peter, James and John, the appearance of Elijah, Moses and Elias who restored the priesthood keys of sealing, gathering of Israel and the blessings of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. The world has nothing to offer in exchange for these priceless blessings and the promise of living with our loved ones, free from death and suffering, forever.
PamelaAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for writing this Maurine. It is a timely article!
I loved your insights and have printed the article for myself and will re-read and study it to further assimilate your words of comfort and reassurance.
With much appreciation!!
Dave CrosbyAugust 6, 2021
Recommend reading Givens "All Things New". Wonderful read and answer to many questions. Very thought provoking.
Sara GrovesAugust 6, 2021
Amazing truths to be learned as I have read this article! Powerful message. I wish Eberle would take time to read this wonderful message of truth and hope! Thank you, Maurice, thank you!
Marsha WhiteAugust 6, 2021
This is a great article. I have been thinking of late "what would the country/world be like if a campaign for applying religion in our lives would be equal to that of the campaign for the COVID vaccine? Can you imagine all of the Atheist's or Agnostic's or the I don't believe in God people, who would be infuriated to have "religion shoved down their throats" If you put it in those terms, one can see how people are feeling like their liberty to be free thinkers, doers and self governing rights are being bullied away from them. Teach people correct principles and let them govern themselves. Speak truth about what is in a product and let people decide if it is something they want to take into their own bodies. God lets us choose so why do we feel likes it's our responsibility to take others choices from them?
GeneseeAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for this message! I have a son who is always hard on himself and I am going to share this with him and other family members. It is what we all need to hear often!
Susan ChristiansenAugust 6, 2021
In my 20s I used to make long checklist of goals and things that I felt were important for me to do. I would check off daily things like reading my scriptures and praying and going to the temple often and writing in my journal and having family family home evening and family prayer and scriptures and on and on. After years of doing this I was surprised that I found lost the spirit of the Lord in my life. I thought doing these would help me to have his spirit to be with me. I pondered this for months and couldn’t understand why. One day as I was reading an Ensign article it spoke about our Saviors atonement. It said that our dependence needs to be on Jesus Christ not on our own abilities or the natural man. This article pierced my heart deeply and I realized that I had been depending on myself for salvation and not turning to him in all humility and trusting in Him and His ability to save me. That started me on my journey to turn to Him and and to cling to Him on my journey back to my Heavenly Father. Great article- thank you. I pray we all may be perfected through Him as He leads us along - keeping our focus on the glory of God and His merciful and loving plan
David GAugust 6, 2021
Wow, some great thoughts on the subject. This should be given at Conference.
joAnne RiveraAugust 6, 2021
Thank you. This is such a beautiful article/response to people who feel like this. I have learned these truths myself on my journey through life, and I have never stopped learning because it really is a process of becoming and experiencing.
It is so true that the discouraging voice within our head is our own, or Satan’s. God is good, all-loving, omniscient, and omnipotent. He also can be omnipresent in our lives, if we are willing and able to receive Him. And there’s the key. Our own thoughts and feelings, and interpretations can discourage us and even cause us to reject the hand that reaches out for us. This is where clinging to the iron rod - Jesus Christ - the Word of God, the true principles and doctrine revealed to us—can help us. Pure intelligence and understanding of truth, not the committee of critics in our head, can help us to stay in the safety of The arms of Jesus.
Again, thank you for such a well expressed article, telling the truth like it is, and dispelling fables and foibles.
JeanAugust 6, 2021
Thank-you so much, Maurine — so very much.
Dean in Saratoga Springs, UTAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for these inspiring thoughts. Keeping the atonement foremost in our thoughts is of immeasurable comfort. I love the thought that Scot had that the Lord is not angry with him. Our God is not an angry God.
Lori Finlay HamiltonAugust 6, 2021
WOW, thank you Maurine for your powerful testimony of truth!! I'm saddened by so many that are hearing Satan's lies lower that our Savior's welcome invitation to "Come Unto Him".
Years ago as I was in a curriculum studying male and female character traits, we discussed competition, or "I'm not good enough" that plaques women so often. As you know, it is Satan voice. While I was preparing our home to host a baby shower for a young new mom, I was stressed that the rugs on the floor were not perfect. My dear wise friend said "alright Lucy"! It stopped me right in my tracks. I was letting Lucifer dictate my worth by how clean my home was. I remembered that what the dear sisters needed was me and my warmth and welcome heart, NOT a clean house. Ever since that day, when I hear the nasty tone on my shoulder I tell Lucy (Lucifer's sister;) to stop! Being aware of the voice has changed me. And of course, being more in tune, pondering on His attributes daily has supported in quieting that voice!
thank you agin for your powerful discourse to support us remembering who we really are!!
Lark GalleyAugust 6, 2021
Maurine,
So well written. I am saddened to see many friends who leave the church so they can finally feel free when in reality it is the gospel that sets us free. I do not feel repressed or less than because of it. I am filled with hope that God loves me and wants me to return to Him. He is my anchor in this uncertain world.
MaryAugust 6, 2021
Why can't he just say "it really hurts me when you say things like that about mom"?
KarinaAugust 6, 2021
Thanks for this perspective, Maurine. I too have heard friends describe it as a relief to leave the church, only to end up in a full-blown identity crisis, seeking anything they can find to fill the void that was once their relationship with Father in Heaven. I also think if a person believes the church and the gospel are all about shaming, they don’t understand or have a relationship with Christ, and I feel for them, because my relationship with Christ brings me much joy and peace, not shame and a feeling of worthlessness.
Charles McClellandAugust 6, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for this insightful and comforting message.
Robert D StarlingAugust 6, 2021
The real "relief" we should feel is to learn that we are NOT "sinners in the hand of an angry God" - an error that was taught to the Christian world in the days before Joseph Smith. The Restoration teaches us that while we are indeed sinners, God is a loving father who is constantly cheering us on, and who gave his Only Begotten Son that we might not perish but have eternal life. To leave a church who teaches that is to abandon hope and turn to the despair of the world. Not a good choice.
ShaunaAugust 4, 2021
Thank you--this was helpful.. I look to the Lord for guidance on how to help others, as I do in all things. Love studying the Doctrine and Covenants on the law of consecration etc.. But sometimes it's hard to know how to channel all that goodwill and good intentions that so many have--at least short term
SoniaAugust 4, 2021
Love this. Thank you.
Jill WilliamsAugust 4, 2021
I am on two very restrictive medical diets, due to kidney disease. I have been freezing my food because I am allowed only fresh or frozen, except for fruit.I cannot use any kind of prepared items. I am concerned, of course, when we have no electricity...what will I do then ? What should people like us do to prepare? I bought can goods for years and then had to throw them out and buy again stuff that I couldn't consume. HELP ME!!!
Julie ArcherAugust 4, 2021
Thank you for revealing terminology and concepts that shed light on this “spotlight humanitarian” trend. I have tried to form discussions concerning this, but always fell short of educating and came across more as judging. You present a constructive understanding of the difference and effects of leadership vs self proclaimed super heroism.
Helen CondonAugust 4, 2021
Such a timely reminder to get us back to worshipping in His houses, multiplied in number across the earth to enable this glorious work to resume.
Thank you.
H NorthAugust 4, 2021
"Think self-reliance not emergency preparation."
This is fine, as long as one is NOT thinking of the LDS Church's Self-Reliance program, which is simply the new name for its welfare program, and has very little to do with emergency preparedness. This re-wording has cased a lot of confusion among members.
win broadhurstAugust 3, 2021
What happened to the remaining four. Articles in the series of 12?
Hans SchippersAugust 3, 2021
How incredibly sad that no one in the ward even offered to help. Complacency seemed to have taken over and the good folks of the word were "carefully led down to hell". It looks like progress was made with the roof but how about the rest? Flooring? Paint? New windows? Insulation? Heating, etc? God bless you for stepping up with your own funds.
Boanerges RubalcavaAugust 3, 2021
I found this article, both good, fair, and at the same time not so good and unfair. It is commendable the efforts this man have done in the benefit of "Larry", and it is fair to call our attention to the fact that we are feeling fine just to take our fast offering to the Bishop but not thinking further how we can help other people in greater needs than ours. On the other hand it is wrong to point out the finger against people not knowing what those people either are just "thinking" or actually doing something but not saying anything about it. This brings to my mind a great lesson I received many years ago while living in what I thought was the wealthiest ward in the Church: Chevy Chase ward in Bethesda Maryland. I had arrived there in 1971 with a scholarship of $12,500/year withy wife and 4 children, to do my post doctoral training in National Institutes of Health, coming from Mexico City where I used to be until my moving the Bishop of a ward surrounded by a very poor neighborhood. because I my calling I was at 33 years old a High Priest, and began to meet with that group in the Priesthood meeting in the ward, and I had at my side (for unknown reason we always seated in the same place every Sunday), behind and everywhere millionaires.
One Sunday the group leader asked us that the Bishop needed a wheelchair for a lady in great need. I, the poor in the group, did not have a wheelchair and I did not know anybody with a wheelchair, so I erased from my mind the whole thing; but could not help but observe my millionaire at my left side, to take a yellow card from his shirt pocket and wrote "wheelchair".
The following Sunday by coincidence (?) I was in the Bishop's office when somebody knock at the door; I opened it and there was my fellow millionaire at my left side every Sunday with a wheelchair; he asked, "where do I put it?" left the chair and left. I couldn't help but to think in the young rich man when he asked the Lord: "what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" We all know this teaching that ends with these words from the Lord: "How hardly shall they that have riches to enter into the Kingdom of God! For it is easier for a camel to go through a needle's eye, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". I believe that almost if not everybody in this world know this scripture and have said internally: "poor the rich men, they will not make it, that's good I am poor (or not rich)". We can see the "rich" and "poor" are relative terms, although for sure they could be absolute also. In my case I was poor in Bethesda, but I was rich from the place I came from, but at that moment I knew that I was "the rich man" the Lord was talking about. During the week I never thought about the lady in need, but the millionaire did it. The cynics and the skeptic people would say "what is a wheelchair for a millionaire" but they would miss the point. and the lesson that I learned that day coming from that "rich" man J. W. Marriott the founder of Marriott Corporation.
My point is that there are many people in this world and in this Church that this lesson is well learned, and they are trying hard to "reach Zion", and it is difficult for anybody to know who and where they are.
Larry RookhuyzenAugust 3, 2021
Yes--Proof of Heaven and Embraced by the Light are two of my favorite NDE books
Lisa Bolin HawkindAugust 3, 2021
Amen, Wally.
JuliannAugust 3, 2021
This should be published in the Liahona. There is so much in the Gospel about taking care of the poor and needy. We make covenants to sacrifice and consecrate in order to establish Zion. But I’m afraid we are more concerned with cruises and cabins and creating our own mansions here on earth and taking care of our own creature comforts to even consider others lack. It is understandable, with all the government “welfare”, to question how so many fall between the cracks. However, we aren’t commanded to judge the situation, we are commanded to “think of others like unto yourself” and to Care. I felt my own need to improve and thank Brother Goddard for his example.
Harry JonesAugust 3, 2021
I appreciate this article and believe we (I) are far from Zion but trying to head in the correct direction. Two observations:
1. Temple work with and for the disadvantaged is humbling and blesses
those that serve as well as the congregation as a whole.
2. I find that when we compare what we have to what we see others need and then desire for them to have what we have, our minds and hearts are softened and enlightened.
David G.August 3, 2021
I hope the supreme court upholds religious rights. The teacher in question would rather tear down the institution, rather than go find a more suitable secular position.
GTOAugust 2, 2021
I especially liked Proof of Heaven by Eben Alexander MD. He is a neurosurgeon who suffered a brain infection that rendered him brain dead. His account of his experiences in heaven is stunning.
Jen SchowAugust 2, 2021
I have never found wearing the garment to be a burden. I wouldn't know how to not wear them! But a word of caution. There are many, especially in the younger generation, who find them burdensome at times. Our judgement might push them further away. I was waiting for my husband at the temple one evening. I noticed several women with, what felt to me, dresses too short for garments. I was quickly called to repentance by the Spirit. I knew that Heavenly Father was pleased that they were worthy to enter the temple and He was happy they were there. I'm thankful that garment styles have been updated, an evidence that our leaders do seek to listen and act. I pray that those who struggle with garments will find a way to incorporate them into their lives in a joyful manner.
Jo Ann OkelberryAugust 2, 2021
Thank you for sharing this very positive story.
Vivian M AdamsAugust 2, 2021
I loved this article and the research that went into it. I wrote saying so, but my comment was attached to the article on Eliza Graham which is a story I was very familiar with. And though I appreciated reading about Eliza Graham, I want to note particularly that this article on the
American Elite visiting Nauvoo touched me. It reminded me how much I love the Prophet Joseph Smith. Thank you for all that went into it.
Vivian M AdamsAugust 2, 2021
Thank you for a really wonderful article. Wonderful research.
CarolAugust 2, 2021
Cheers for Appleton and the Fox Valley, I lived in a southern part of the Fox Valley, Batavia, Il!!! They are to be applauded for honoring the commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves. And congratulations to all the immigrants who face very hard challenges in learning a new culture and a new religion too! It will all be worth it!!!
James R. BrownAugust 2, 2021
Very well written and insightful about the character of the prophet and why he was both loved and hated at that momentous time of his life.
MomofawarriorAugust 2, 2021
I agree that it's damaging to label as addicts all young people who have problems with pornography. One of my sons was labeled a sex addict by a therapist, which was too harsh in my opinion. He was already beating hiself up emotionally & that just added another layer of rejection.
DavidAugust 2, 2021
I have been reading about NDE's since the 70's. When you could bearly find anything on the subject. In 1997 I had an OBE which testified of the truth of the afterlife.
EmilyAugust 1, 2021
Thank you for this timely lesson.
Charles DefranchiAugust 1, 2021
One characteristic of the Adversary is to claim that all he wants is a "little improvement" to the current situation. But like the camel who is begging his master to get his nose in the tent during a sandstorm: first the nose, then the eyes, then the head, then the front legs, then the whole body, till the nomad gets kicked out of the tent.
Barbara BohanAugust 1, 2021
I love this! BEAUTIFUL!
David RoquemoreAugust 1, 2021
I have often replied to those who would say that modesty is "being a prude" with the idea of modesty being an understanding, a respect, for the power a person's body has. You know when you see a person waving around a gun and proclaiming, "Lookee here at my gun! Ain't it cool?", that person is not somebody who respects that weapon. Same with modesty: showing off shows no respect, or enjoyment, of one's body.
Still StrivingJuly 31, 2021
Definitions would have been helpful: "Princess Culture" = the "Disney-style" princess characters - more recently showing greater self-efficacy (e.g., Mulan, Moana, etc.). "Toxic Masculinity" = strict presumptions of male dominance in relationships, as opposed to shared and complementary roles. With these in mind, the author (Coyne) elsewhere advised parents to use the princess characters as teaching tools, to “focus on the humanity behind each princess, not just their appearance." Seems important and meaningful.
Kristen OpenshawJuly 31, 2021
Agree, agree, agree with the COMMENTS, not the article. Good grief, BYU.
Lorraine QuillonJuly 31, 2021
Thank you for publishing this interesting piece. What a delightful insight into a complex interaction!
Cary HolmquistJuly 30, 2021
Hilarious! In most of the rest of the world, we promote 24th of July as Pioneer Day, as we do in Montana and Alberta. So this is mostly a Utah problem.... But the cartoon does bring up the consciousness that all our ancestors are worthy of big celebrations! We owe them just about everything!
Marilyn ThomsenJuly 30, 2021
In the last days, when the power of the destroyer in increasing, we need all the help we can get. The promises made to those who are true and faith filled are powerful. I remember the beautiful sisters in Guatemala whose faith shone in their faces as they wore garments when it was both hot and humid too. (Sorry Arizona you just don't know how bad it can get.) Thanks for talking about not casting off our faith and covenants when things get less pleasant.
Jo Ann OkelberryJuly 30, 2021
I so enjoyed reading this article. Thank you so much for all the information.
Allison TullisJuly 30, 2021
On my first time back to the temple since reopening, I took a family name that I had meant to do long before Covid but had kept putting off. I was so happy to finally do her work and had felt so guilty they she had to wait so long. While I was receiving the new name, I felt her presence so strongly and heard the words, “thank you!” I could feel her happiness that she was finally receiving her endowment which took away my guilt and caused me such happiness, too!
Anne PrattJuly 30, 2021
Today's podcast was extra special. Thanks for your research and inspiring us with it.
Maryann TaylorJuly 30, 2021
We are so blessed to have an addiction and recovery program in our church. Run, don't walk, and get the details from your Bishop. It is a loving, encouraging program that will help both you and your wife.
Maryann TaylorJuly 30, 2021
I think Rebecca is a wonderful example for all of us as a reminder that we need to bear our testimonies of the Book of Mormon. If you don't have a testimony yet, read it with a sincere heart, pray about it, and you will know that it is true. Read the promise in Moroni 10:4&5 before you begin. Once you have that witness and continue to read it, the critical comments that will continue to be aimed at the church will not shake you. You will not be deceived.
Amanda FreebairnJuly 30, 2021
Thank you for all the kind comments. I’m glad my experiences have resonated with so many of you.
Maryann TaylorJuly 30, 2021
You are like an oasis in the midst of a world that is oh-so-serious and negative. Thank you for making my day happier!
Erik HansenJuly 30, 2021
From all his own words and from descriptions given by many I feel that I know how Joseph was, and know his unique personality of confidence in the Lord. When I finally meet him (if my life can be straight enough to stand with him in paradise) I hope the time will be first after my own father. (I'm sure many, many others feel the same way.)
Kristen FJuly 30, 2021
Thank you for sharing this wonderful story of a strong, courageous young woman. What a great example to the young women of today to stand strong in the gospel of Jesus Christ. I am grateful for my pioneer ancestors and their sacrifice and strength. Such a great example of standing for truth no matter what the consequence.
Richard JukesJuly 30, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for preparing and posting this wonderful article.
We always appreciate the things you've taught us and continue to exemplify.
JenniferJuly 30, 2021
I followed the counsel of our Prophet, consulted with my health care professional, and got the vaccine. I got my 13 year old vaccinated, as well. I have my fingers crossed that my 10 year old won't get sick (I'm not afraid of him dying but I am concerned about long COVID in kids) and trusting that people in his life will make decisions to keep him, and others who cannot be vaccinated for medical reasons like Earl upthread, safe. I pray that this trust is not misplaced.
KathleenJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for helping me feel like a warrior in the Lord's army. What a wonderful badge to show we're with the Lord.
KathleenJuly 29, 2021
I did not read the NY Times article, but I concur with your comments or response. Well put. It bothers me when worldly means and ways are used to express spiritual questions/complaints.
Rochelle HaleJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for your article. I was surprised by the comments in the NY Times. Sadly, I think it was another excuse for some members to make their voices heard, which may result in negative views of the church, and certainly a lack of understanding of something very sacred. Years ago a young woman phoned into a syndicated radio program to talk about her upcoming temple marriage. Her parents would be excluded because they weren't members. She then proceeded to ask questions of the host.
Why didn't she go to her bishop or relief society president with her questions, or even call the temple??!! When we put our faith and commitment first, then the wearing of sacred temple garments becomes easier. We should be looking for reasons why and how we show our obedience rather than justifying all of the reasons we can't.
Jo Ann OkelberryJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for writing this. I treasure my garments because they do remind me of my covenants and of my blessings. We have a wide variety of fabrics, and I found some that I like better than others. If women have concerns, they should write their concerns to the temple garment division and express their concerns and suggestions.
PaulineJuly 29, 2021
I received a triple bonus by reading and watching the links! Very helpful and insightful. I’ve had a lot of time in the expectations trap..painful learning to deal with my own emotions. How does this relate to Nonviolent Communication; rewards and “consequences” could be manipulative as well.
Thank you for so eloquently expressing my feelings. Thank you for sharing the thoughts of Many of us who happily wear our garments everyday despite the worlds ever changing views on modesty, body image, beauty, and fashion trends. We are grateful for our own personal revelation and testimony of the sacred and powerful blessings that are tied to our obedience to the covenants we made.
KristenJuly 29, 2021
I didn't read the article you are referencing here, but I agree with all of your sentiments about wearing the holy garment. It is not always convenient, but it is always a blessing to have that added layer of spiritual protection and a constant reminder of my love for God and His love for me.
Rita in TexasJuly 29, 2021
I've worn the garments since 1985, when I first went to the Chicago Temple. I was a 23 year old convert in 1976, when I was baptized, and it took a while for me to be able to go. But the covenants I made then have been the source of massive blessings for me and for my family, most of whom are either not active or not members. My wearing the 'magic underwear' (as my uncle insisted on calling it) has been a constant reminder of my duties and opportunities, a source of protection against evil, and a sign of my membership in the Church of the Firstborn. Southcentral Texas, where I live, gets really hot as well as humid, but I've been blessed to feel comfortable most of the time. My choices have been influenced in good ways because of my first choice to follow my Savior. I wouldn't change a thing.
Robert D StarlingJuly 29, 2021
Good thoughts. Perhaps after answering someone's question, the best "no pressure" response might be, "Thanks for asking. I'd be happy to answer any other questions you might have. Just let me know." Then wait. Tip: Since none of us knows the answer to every question, we should all become familiar with some good resources for answers. Among these are the Church's Gospel Topics website, fairlatterdaysaints.org, bookofmormoncentral.org, InterpreterFoundation.org, etc.
Lee HillJuly 29, 2021
Wonderful article! I never thought of myself in this way. I always regretted not having had the opportunity to serve in the military and this has helped to assuage those feeling of regret. In fact, I remember an incident some 44 years ago when my missionary companion and I spoke with an older gentleman who castigated us for being missionaries instead of serving in the military at that time in our lives. I remember my companion being inspired to reply, "We preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ and, if everyone listened to and applied our message in their lives, there would be no need for ANYONE to serve in the military." What an inspired perspective!
Diane IrwinJuly 29, 2021
Amen and Amen!! This is so well written, and is a great rebuttal to last week's article. I like the way you explained the WHY of wearing garments, as well as the part about sacrifice. I often long to wear sleeveless tops and dresses in the summer (not tank tops) and then I remember the WHY!
PaulineJuly 29, 2021
Thoughtful article and much appreciated!
VeraJean SchowJuly 29, 2021
Thank you, so much, for adding this important information.
Patricia ByrneJuly 29, 2021
Excellent article. Thank you for expressing MY feelings so well.
Margery HuntJuly 29, 2021
Thank you. I felt your article was informational, specific and edifying. I personally feel safer by wearing the temple garments because of the covenants made to me by a loving God. Even when it is hot, I would feel more uncomfortable not wearing them because they are a gift.
BeckyJuly 29, 2021
I LOVE this article so much! I hope it reaches the masses. It really is beautiful. Thank you!
Clarissa SmithJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for sharing.
Marla SmakaJuly 29, 2021
Well said. My daughter and I have had several conversations about the article regarding wearing of garments. I am in complete agreement that wearing the garment has never been a burden, and I also agree that I prefer some styles over others.
Kay RookhuyzenJuly 29, 2021
Your thoughts and feelings mirror mine very well. I made a promise just as you did. Very well put!
Julie archerJuly 29, 2021
The garment is also a type of the garment we wore in Heaven. Hugh Nibley said we had to remove our garment, we loved so much, in order to come to earth. And the most agonizing thing we will face if, we don’t make it back, is not being able to wear it again. All of the powers and truth we obtained through our tutelage in the pre- existence is housed in that garment. Since our earthly garment is a type, we actually draw upon our heavenly garments powers while wearing it, if we are keeping our covenants. Keeping our covenants unlocks the door to it. This understanding has made the garment a privilege to wear instead of a burden. This is why Isaiah councils us to “awake and put on thy beautiful garment.”
KellieJuly 28, 2021
I took my three daughters, 8, 13, and 16 to the movie premiere and we all loved it!
Patricia S PerryJuly 28, 2021
Love the article!
CarolJuly 28, 2021
Thank you for your stories they always make me laugh!!
And everyone needs a good laugh.
CathyJuly 28, 2021
I look forward to every week to reading your stories every week.. Am never disappointed!
MartaJuly 28, 2021
Let him know you will leave him if he is unwilling to grow up. Betrayal in a marriage is not some easily rectified error. He will need to act in trustworthy ways for the rest of his life.
And boo hoo. He is not getting access to sex. It is not his decision. He is on probation, with the loss of his eternal family at stake. Sex is not just a physical release. It is sharing your eternal soul with another. Why would his wife wish to share her soul with this man at this time.
Karell BinghamJuly 28, 2021
Dress to honor God
Ellen BaggaleyJuly 27, 2021
I have eight good sons. I do not like the term “toxic masculinity”. I also do not want my daughters to be “progressive”. I don’t care for the words used in this article.
Maryann TaylorJuly 27, 2021
If we consistently study the scriptures and the words of living Prophets, pray every day, and sincerely strive to live to have the Holy Ghost with us we will not be deceived. If we stop reading and praying we will begin to lose the spirit of discernment and it will be easy for us to be confused.
vickieJuly 27, 2021
I DONT KNOW about this princess culture......it sounds more like a scientific test or children ...which it is....but im scepticle about these so called different cultures....esp when they have to do with gender.
ScottHJuly 27, 2021
In modern parlance, the word "masculinity" is almost never used without the modifier "toxic." While the intent may be to squelch harmful behaviors and attitudes, the unfortunate side effect is that all forms of masculinity are maligned. Boys are growing up in a culture that constantly tells them that they are bad because of their sex. Latter-day Saints should be at the forefront of rejecting harmful anti-masculine messages rather than parroting the world's 'toxic' terminology.
Harold RustJuly 27, 2021
Thanks for the video! Great reminder of why it required faith to settle in Salt Lake and how that faith has been rewarded.
Wayne FrancomJuly 26, 2021
This article was well worth the read. It is inspiring to know the thoughts and feelings of some of the refugees from Nauvoo. Having just recently been there I can only imagine the restraint and resilience of the early "Saints". It is interesting to note the so called "Trail of Tears" has now been renamed "The Trail of Hope" again defining the possibilities that lay ahead.
ElissaJuly 26, 2021
Great reminders. I think citing references would be helpful here. I was especially wondering about this one:
"Over 90% of the survivors of lightning strikes end up divorcing because of the mental problems caused by brain injuries when electricity passes through the body." I'm interested in seeing the source for this claim. A brief Google search brought up this dissertation: https://ecommons.luc.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1694&context=luc_diss
Maryann TaylorJuly 26, 2021
It sounds as if this husband is unaware that trust must be earned and that takes time. After hurting her so deeply, rushing her to trust him again indicates he is not willing to pay the price to regain her trust. His impatience also suggests that he doesn't really understand how much he hurt her by betraying her trust in the first place. Sounds like some good counseling needs to take place.
Maryann TaylorJuly 26, 2021
Thank you so much for mentioning the power of hymns in our lives. Other than renewing my Sacrament covenants, the hymns are often my greatest spiritual nourishment in our meeting. I often recognize new meanings in phrases that I have simply sung without thinking about what I was singing. The enlightenment never ends!
Doris WilliamsJuly 26, 2021
Thank you Nicholeen for sharing your experiences with us. What an example you are. We have all gained valuable insights from your remarkable interactions with your foster children. Loved the confirming value of hugs you shared.
Anne PrattJuly 26, 2021
What a sweet and inspiring story. Thanks for sharing it.
Pau8l ChappellJuly 25, 2021
I lost a grandmother (dad's) and an uncle (mom's brother) before I was born. While my dad's mother has people who've written about her, no one had done so prior to my efforts for my uncle. My uncle Emil lives on because of my efforts to interview people years ago, who are now dead. Personal history is mighty important for future generations so that people know them as people, not just a name or dates.
JakeJuly 25, 2021
Wonderful article! Thank you!
I have thought this way for a long time but finally made the decision to go for it. I am not condemning anyone for their choices but my interpretation for me is that I should not eat meat.
If anyone has health concerns watch the movie forks over knives. There are a lot of plant based movies. Many are sensational and over the top. Forks over knives is science based and very well done.
It looks like the science shows that the lord was right a long time ago.
Richard JukesJuly 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing these poignant memories of some of our dear ancestors. My heart always goes out to them with gratitude for the sacrifices from which my family has inherited so many inspiring examples of faith and follow-through!
Vivian M AdamsJuly 24, 2021
This was beautifully done. So worth reading.
Christine BJuly 24, 2021
I have found that just the pure and sincere “act” of pulling out your scriptures and opening them up for even just a very few minutes each day will bring blessings. Just opening them. There are times when our life can just be spinning with business or we may be so tired for months but I think even during those hectic months a simple minute or two can help propel us forward and keep or start a sacred habit that will get easier because we have made the initial most difficult step of at least starting.
Cynthia SavageJuly 24, 2021
Incredible recount of the great exodus from Nauvoo with countless examples of faith and courage in every footstep. Very humbling. Thank you for sharing.
Harold RustJuly 24, 2021
One of my ancestors I most look forward to meeting on the other side is a 3rd great grandfather, Isaac Goodwin, who lost his wife during the storm when the ship was aiming for Valpariso. His wife was buried on Robinson Crusoe Island and he and his six children traveled on to California without her. Isaac had to "farm out" his children for months at a time while doing masonry work in 1847 through 1850 but eventually brought most of them with him to San Bernardino in 1853 and then moved again to Utah in 1857. Each of those major disruptions came when he had settled and was doing very well financially; he chose each time to respond to what he knew the Lord required of him. He even succeeded in acquiring some gold in "Mormon Island" near Sutter's Fort, but still moved on instead of dedicating more time to acquiring the easy pickings in those earlier years of the gold rush.
Claudette RaylJuly 24, 2021
My great-great-great grandfather Daniel Stark was a passenger on the Ship Brooklyn, too. His son, John Daniel Stark, my great-great grandfather, was only about 1 year old at the time of the voyage. Thank you for adding some details of this historic voyage for my family history.
BruceJuly 23, 2021
Very good advise; thank you for this.
tfJuly 23, 2021
The most obvious thing that needs trust is to participate in marital intimacy again, but believe it or not, withholding is the chief way to drive him away. Maybe someone who has been through it can give better advise, I'm surprised that mine is the first comment.
Linda PatalonJuly 23, 2021
These podcasts bring me back from the brink every time I listen to one.
You are truly doing the Lord's work.
May God continue to bless you to open the scriptures to me and strenghthen my faith.
Holiness to the Lord.
DuaneJuly 23, 2021
I’ve known of Eliza Jane Graham because John Pack is my ancestor and know if the divorce. However, I just recently heard this story. She was a brave woman - the kind of woman it took to be a pioneer. John should have respected her.
DTJuly 22, 2021
Why hasn't this girl been a heroine in the Church long before this? Shameful to concentrate on the men, and ignore the very brave women. It's about time. Long past.
Tom WoodJuly 22, 2021
Beautiful lesson and a beautiful tribute to your friend. Your lesson has reminded and encouraged me to try and provide some service to a relative in a very difficult situation. It might be very uncomfortable and require me to reach out in a delicate manner, but your lesson has inspired me to do it. Thanks for not only a wonderful lesson, but for the encouragement to attempt service for a needy soul.
James ScottJuly 22, 2021
Moses’ priesthood lineage has always interested me. As you point out Abraham received the priesthood from Melchizedek Moses’ line came thru Jethro, Caleb, Elijah, Jeremy, Gad, Esaias. But, Esaias received it under the hand of God. While Esaias lived in Abraham’s day and was blessed by him, his priesthood didn’t come thru the fathers but from God.
Who was Esaias, what did he do, who were his people, what positions did he hold that he should have the singular relationship with God?. Or, Maybe the recorder erred? I’ve always wondered about this person.
brian stubbsJuly 22, 2021
Amazing young lady. It is good for us to know of these lesser-known heroes, as I'm sure many more exist than we are aware of. Bless Eliza Graham and her posterity forever! I'm looking forward to meeting her, and I'm sure she has been well received and honored by the early saints in yonder spheres, where we might hope for something comparable if we do / live comparably.
Andrew KJuly 22, 2021
The story of the trial was dramatized in a great stage play available on DVD called "Hancock County". I highly recommend it.
kateJuly 22, 2021
Excellent story--it's always wonderful to learn more of the story! Not only was she a woman of principle, she made what I'm sure was a socially difficult decision to divorce an abusive husband and move on with her life. Thank you for sharing Eliza's story.
NicoleJuly 22, 2021
If you’re in UT, watch out! The largest district in the state is teaching CRT and pushing these “social emotional programs” on our children. Give. Cox is bought and paid for by the teachers unions. They’ve given him at least $75,000. He is their puppet and does their bidding.
HALJuly 22, 2021
Great article, thank you! I was seriously hurt a few months ago and counting my blessings helped me to keep my spirits up and heal in record time.
LindaJuly 21, 2021
This is truly an eye-opener! I'm thankful I live in a conservative city within a conservative state. So far, we don't have liberal leaning leaders trying to teach CRT or any of that other nonsense. Be careful, parents! Make sure you know what your child is being taught, etc.
PatriciaJuly 21, 2021
My favorite stories are the ones that bring tears to my eyes. This was one such story, as have been many of his before. I am so glad you will be publishing his stories in the future. Know that I appreciate Meridian Magazine for its honest and faithful pleasure.
I hardly jokingly repeat my ancestry to others as being a descendant of Job. Now, in actuality, wouldn't that be just dandy!
Cary HolmquistJuly 21, 2021
Thanks for sharing these experiences of ‘putting flesh on bones’ family history. It is very heartwarming and inspiring.
Terry ManningJuly 21, 2021
Do not ignore those prompting. People with the answers you need die. Then you have to shift through endless documents trying to locate a piece of information you just could have asked for.
Joyce B.July 21, 2021
This article was so amazing! I am very grateful for wonderful brothers and sisters who teach me eternal truths I would not have gleaned from studying them myself. It is a profound concept that I will not only apply myself, but teach my family as well!
Elmer GuevarraJuly 21, 2021
Another A-1 article
You are one of my favorites here in Meridian Magazine. I am always on the lookout for your contribution. Thank you, Mr. Daris Howard
LexaGraemeJuly 21, 2021
Goodness. Thank you for another excellent story.
James ScottJuly 20, 2021
Bones of history fleshed out! Your essay has the flavor of an adventure novel or a movie noir. Congratulations and here’s hoping you find and feel the Spirit of Elijah from your family.
Dennis HorneJuly 19, 2021
I recommend everyone with interest in Latter-day Saint scripture, doctrine, and history, obtain and read this superb book.
JenniferJuly 19, 2021
I deeply appreciate the insights shared in this article. They are gratifying in their metaphorical and literal natures.
Lee HillJuly 18, 2021
Thank you, Lynn. This was very powerful. I will be looking for more / different ways to share the scriptures with my children who are still struggling to "get it."
HalJuly 18, 2021
Thank you for this article. My dad was not very forthcoming about his childhood or his war experiences (he was both a WW2 and Korean War veteran). Most of what I found out about my dad came from his younger brother who was a tremendous story teller. I'm trying to go through my own life experiences to see what I can pass on to my grandchildren.
Maryann TaylorJuly 17, 2021
I appreciate the suggestions given here to make scripture study more enjoyable. I have learned that if I try to read when I am tired that it is hard to enjoy what I read. I also find if I SLOW DOWN it helps me to understand a beautiful insight I would have missed if I was just reading quickly to finish a chapter. It is a wonderful experience to sit quietly and ponder a single verse that has special meaning for you personally. I LOVE the scriptures and I find that the more I read them, the more I love and appreciate them.
James William Hollister IIJuly 16, 2021
The world needs a little more self-less than self-ish, I think.
WeezieJuly 15, 2021
Wow! That was amazing. I really needed this. I know what I should be doing but what I’ve been doing isn’t working great. These are wonderful ideas I plan on sharing with my kids. Thanks for such great new ways to study and receive the light the Lord intends us to have.
Kay RookhuyzenJuly 15, 2021
This article was fantastic! I stumbled on my best way to read the scrips accidentally. One day I decided to listen WHILE I read along. It changed my thoughts and feelings about scripture study! It keeps me focused so much better.
Steve DoneganJuly 15, 2021
Ever since reading Elder Bruce R. McConkie’s works on teaching I’ve been hooked on apperceptions. Your tying in the terra cotta warriors to scripture study was a wonderful example. Thank you for sharing.
BTJuly 15, 2021
I read this article with great interest because there was a time when I didn't love the scriptures. Over time as I have learned how to better study scriptures, my love for them has grown and continues to grow.
Now what I struggle with, am embarrassed to admit, and would love to see an article about is, "What if I don't love the temple?" I do feel the spirit and a peace in the temple that is not found anywhere else, but I don't feel as much love for the temple as I feel I should. When friends talk about how much they love going to the temple, I feel like I'm missing something that they get.
BrigitteJuly 15, 2021
Thank you for this article. This is timely for me as someone who has ADHD and have felt strongly lately that I've been failing because I'm not doing it "right". I can't help but wonder how many would feel more secure in their faith if they didn't feel like they had to do a "one size fits all" study. Thank you again- this was an answer to prayer.
C. NielsenJuly 15, 2021
Thanks for the insights!
You might want to add that temple learning is another approach to gospel understanding that can open the scriptures.
Diana TJuly 14, 2021
Thank you so much for this beautiful article!
We will be studying and discussing this for FHE.
Ruth JamiesonJuly 14, 2021
So sad. I hope they feel the Saviors love at this tender time. So hard to lose loved ones.
David DurfeeJuly 14, 2021
Interestingly, I was also in the USSR in 1984. Moscow, Leningrad, Kiev and Minsk. I was with a couple of other LDS attorneys. We brought in with us a few bibles and BofMs, in Russian, that we had picked up in New York. We had a marvelous experience in a Baptist Church on a Sunday in Minsk, including a soul rending and powerful hymn by the Church's choir that we were sure had been rehearsed just for us and that brought us to tears. We learned from the pastor after the meeting that they were not able to buy bibles. So we returned to our hotel, wrote our testimonies in Russian in the bibles and the BofMs that we had brought with us the best that we could (1 semester of Russian in night school at ASU before our trip was immensely helpful), and one of our number took them all to the church the next day. The pastor was overwhelmed. It was one of the best experiences of my life.
PattieJuly 14, 2021
It is truly a blessing to have our Nana’s live close and be a part of our lives. I too respect and honor my GM (she always wanted to be called) and know she and my mother are watching out for my family on the other side.
Julie CookJuly 14, 2021
What an inspiring article. Isaiah 61:1-3 has always been my favorite scripture. The description of His mission always lifts me....yet I had never even pondered how in my efforts to become more Christlike, I might give beauty from ashes! These words touched me, inspired and lifted me. Thank you for this profound insight!
JuliJuly 14, 2021
I liked this article. It answers alot of questions about the different markets and how supply and demand work in a free market society. Thanks for writing it.
PaulineJuly 13, 2021
When a nation cannot control its economy it has no sovereignty because of global free trade policies run by international banking cartels. This was the whole point of Hamilton banking. We need Glass Steagall to separate investment and commercial banking as well as a fixed exchange rate. We have no medical freedom either.
Ruth JamiesonJuly 13, 2021
Can't wait! I loved Once I was a Beehive!
Mandi MilesJuly 13, 2021
So inspiring! I love your response to your sister-in-law, “just trying my darndest to be a good Disciple of Christ.”
LewisJuly 12, 2021
What a sweet story. In a real way we are all lost and damaged souls. Having someone to hang on to in our darkest hours is perhaps the greatest blessing. How wonderful that these two could help each other. They are examples to all of us - no matter the demons we must fight in our own lives, we can help others as they slay their own.
L VelardJuly 12, 2021
I believe that "give to Ceasar what is Ceasar's" is a close meaning to the gospel of politics, and therefore, shouldn't be exempt from taxation. While "give to God what is God's" is a Gospel of Spiritual salvation categories to religion which gives from Ceasar tax exemptions.
Is this debatable and start to marvel at what is in Mark 17:12?
Bradley J. KramerJuly 12, 2021
Nope. Sorry. All of my relatives and recent ancestors lived in Cincinnati.
Jo Ellen NymanJuly 12, 2021
I too lost a son to suicide some years ago. I have always had a strong knowledge of the plan, and have had wonderful spiritual experiences as a result. But grief was long and hard regardless. The worst pain I have ever experienced in my life was constant. I had priesthood blessings, continued to serve and never lost my testimony. But one thing I realized I had not done for many years after was to ask Him to carry that pain for me. After finally tenderly surrendering this sorrow, I truly learned of the Savior's healing power. He CAN carry our sorrows. His healing power is real.
Corey DinsdaleJuly 11, 2021
Many years ago while teaching Elders Quorum and I don't remember the topic but one of the elders just kind of thinking out loud said, "I just wish we could get like an occasional report card or something so I could know how I am doing", the room went silent and there were a lot of nods in agreement, finally another one of the elders spoke up and said " we do get one, it's called a Temple Recommend". I thought about that remark and thought it was a good response but as the years went by and I got older had more experience in life and in the church and got somewhat wiser and more knowledgeable with doctrine and people I realized a Temple Recommend is a good start but there is more to it. My father gave a talk when I was a teenager that I have never forgotten one part of and it comes right from section 76, those who inherit the Celestial Kingdom are those who are "valiant" in their testimony of Jesus, plain and simple, no if, ands or buts, no middle of the road. I believe in mercy and I believe Our Father in Heaven and our Savior do and will extend mercy but I think to many rely solely on that and not on trying to be valiant.
Rochelle HaleJuly 10, 2021
Bro. Kramer,
By any chance do you have relatives or ancestors by the names of Marcus Kramer, Henrietta (Marks) Kramer, Joseph Kramer, or Cecile Kramer from NY and possibly Chicago?
Erik HansenJuly 10, 2021
People wonder by saying, "should I love myself first or my fellow man?" If one is full of love they are one with the Father and they are then one with the Son. If you are one with them you are full of love for yourself and your fellow man. I don't think you can't separate these things or split real Christlike love (which is what we must have) to pieces.
BarbaraJuly 9, 2021
How quick you are to dismiss our responsibilities to our brothers and sisters in North Korea. Attach the word "benighted" to their country and we no longer bear responsibility toward them. Isn't labeling always the way we refuse to accept our responsibilities?
Have you considered dubbing the film Witnesses in Korean, posting it on the internet and seeing how far it will travel?
Maryann TaylorJuly 9, 2021
One of the most important ways we can strengthen our nation is to get involved in the schools. In the midst of false ideas our children are being indoctrinated with in our schools, a friend of mine is running for a place on the school board. As members of the church our influence MUST be felt.
PaulineJuly 9, 2021
Love this! Great idea which I’m putting to use right now! Thanks Joni
Haze KompelienJuly 9, 2021
"Last, I want you to try an experiment...find a private bathroom with a mirror. Look at your reflection, see the real you inside, and ask, “How can I help?”"
I love this part. So many of us love others and dislike ourselves. So many of us forgive others with mercy and continue to judge ourselves harshly. Self-acceptance and self-love is not the same as selfishness or being self-centered. It is necessary for happiness and fulfillment. Thank you.
Paul MouritsenJuly 8, 2021
One way to preach the gospel to remote peoples is through family history. For example, Familysearch is sending teams of interviewers into remote African villages and interviewing tribal leaders to capture extensive oral genealogies and meke them available on line and in print. Perhaps the spirit of Elijah will stir the hearts of these people and their descendants to join the church and seek the blessings of the temple. Here is a really inspiring presentation from the recent RootsTech Connect conference:
https://www.familysearch.org/rootstech/rtc2021/session/voices-from-africa-familysearch-oral-genealogy
Toni VanWormerJuly 8, 2021
Your 4 magic words have really opened doors for me as the Just Serve community volunteer. When I say it to any non-profit organization they can't believe their ears! They are all overwhelmed and need all kinds of help so when someone says those magic words they can't believe thier ears. I loved your article. It was perfectly said. I really liked the application to prayer too. Hugs, from Evansville IN
CDJuly 8, 2021
This is such great advice! Thanks Joni, I love your insights and articles!
Mark DonaldsonJuly 8, 2021
We are taught in the scriptures that God knows all things past, present, and future. This means that he has a crystal clear vision of what the future holds for every person that comes to earth. This being true, then it is pre-supposed that even before we are born into mortality, God already knows when we will die.
It is my belief that children who die before becoming accountable are exalted...because God knew in the pre-earth life that the child had already reached a level of perfection in the spirit world that qualified that child for the Celestial Kingdom. The age that child would die was known by God before the child was born.
Some will argue and say that it's not fair that a child who dies before becoming accountable is exalted while the rest of us have to be tested by living long lives. I have even heard it said that little children who die before becoming accountable will have to be tested at a later date. That's all hogwash!
God knew when each of us would die. There is never a child that dies before becoming accountable that didn't already prove themselves worthy of the Celestial Kingdom in the pre-earth life. With God's foreknowledge every child is born exactly into the right place at the right time. If the child dies before the age of accountability you can rest assured that God already knew the day and the time.
Mark J. StoddardJuly 8, 2021
Accurate history. Well written and definitely factual.
Add to that, at the debate before July 4, 1776, the northern states were thrilled with Jefferson's language condemning King George for the slave trade. Interesting denunciation in that they profited from the slave trade with their ships in the infamous triangle. But rather than this condemning them, it should inspire everyone that these were men of principle willing to sacrifice the shilling for the abolition of slavery. The only reason that denunciation of King George's slave trade was taken out is that was the price of the slave states in the south agreeing to participate in the rebellion and sign on to the Declaration of Independence. Ben Franklin started the first abolition society and John Adams was a fiery opponent of slavery. It was a bitter pill to swallow but they figured it was best to create the First nation in the world that would then freely, by the voice of the people, abolish slavery. And, as this article so expertly shows, they did just that.
One other point. Russian Tsar Alexander II was anxious to abolish slavery in Russia (called serfdom or being a serf -- a gentler word than slave). He was inspired by the American Revolution of 1776 and used that to abolish serfdom in 1861, freeing more than 23 million people. (Those white serfs would have found the notion of "white privilege" bizarre. Slavery and repression of any sort is evil.)
It should also be noted that the first European slave traders were the beneficiaries of the existing slave trade among African tribes. Wrong is wrong no matter where. For thousands of years across the world people have been enslaved by each other regardless of race.
America has blessed the world a 1,000 times over and a 1,000 times more than any damage it has done -- real or imagined.
Jim WinebrennerJuly 8, 2021
Thank you!!
Finally, an article that tells the truth of the matter, instead of pandering to those suffering the confusions and delusions of the CRT scheme toward communism. We need more people with, and more articles encouraging this understanding of truth.
JaneJuly 7, 2021
This article was very informative! I would like to add that I was literally panicked to have my children AFTER age 35 because of all the “statistics” that show decline in fertility and rise in birth defects after age 35. I think the emphasis on these “statistics” is another unspoken factor for women having fewer babies. My mother had 3 healthy babies after age 37 and her mother had a healthy baby at age 47! I would have liked to have other children but I was too scared by the “after age 35” statistics. If you look back in history women commonly bore children from age 20-45; resulting in large families.
If couples could only realize what a joy parenting really is in the long run, I believe many couples would be willing to have more children due to the deep satisfaction and meaning they bring to life in all the stages!
Maryann TaylorJuly 7, 2021
This beautiful article really touched my heart and and makes me want to reflect the light of the Savior in my life. One day years ago Elder Dallin Oaks visited my ward and I had the opportunity to speak with him briefly as he came up the aisle. After he had passed by, I felt I had spoken to the Savior. We all truly can reflect the love and light of Jesus Christ to others as we seek to have the Holy Ghost with us and also to keep love in our hearts.
Helen CondonJuly 7, 2021
At last! A glimpse of possibility into my own, largely self-thwarted, dreams of being “called to serve”.
Doug WhitingJuly 7, 2021
I respectfully disagree that we have a duty to preach the Gospel in areas where that would be a violation of the law. For example, I understand that Church members in several Muslim countries place their membership at risk if they violate the law by attempting to share the message with their friends -- even if their friends are not Muslims. In the long run, our requirement to abide by the law will be more likely to allow for us to begin to send in missionaries after the course of time, as we have already experienced in a number of countries.
craigJuly 6, 2021
I'm skeptical of the claim that women are having fewer children than they would like. This is because actions speak louder than words. If they wanted more children, really wanted them, they would have them. No one is stopping them. I feel like the data in such studies is much like the data in religious surveys when a person answers that they attend church at least once a month when, in fact, they only attend twice a year. Perhaps they feel guilty in not having more children and say they want more even if they have no intention of having them. Much like the person who lies about church attendance does so out of feeling guilty that they are not there on Sunday, even if they have no intention of going.
I honestly don't see this as much of a problem. I believe that this is a natural self correction. The decline will plateau and human society will adjust.
RebeccaJuly 6, 2021
This beautiful sister exudes goodness in the "before" pictures as well as the "after". It's sad, even tragic, that she felt she was "polluted" and unfit for the Spirit when she was heavy. As many of us know who carry this particular "thorn in the flesh", keeping weight off is much more difficult than losing it. I hope that if she gains weight or doesn't follow her eating plan with perfection, she knows she is still beloved and precious. Although caring for our mortal tabernacles is good, I believe it is an earthly doctrine that encourages us to feel unworthy unless we meet a certain standard. Surely there are many, many worse acts than eating cheeseburgers.
Stephanie BillingsleyJuly 6, 2021
Yep! Well said. It would be wonderful if everyone felt the same PEACE, HOPE, and JOY some of us find in our SAVIOR and REDEEMER, JESUS the CHRIST. I have long been blessed with this and never doubt that I will inherit Celestial glory, because I am confident in His ability to take me HOME. So excited! The testimony of Jesus - both ours of Him and HIS of US will be of utmost importance. We all - in and out of The Church - need more of this teaching. We need to be more excited about JESUS and His role in His work! Thank you.
ColinJuly 6, 2021
I appreciate the sentiments, and I love my country too. But hope mixed with facing reality is always a good combination. Saying there are systemic problems—which there clearly are—is not slam on the Constitution, which is inspired by God and a model for the whole world.
The Constitution isn't the only system at work in our country. And as we've seen in the past year, the Constitution itself is not all-powerful. It depends on the integrity of the people who have sworn to defend it, in state governments as well as federal.
I keep hoping that when the Constitution is hanging by a thread, members of the Church will be protecting it instead of swinging at it with scimitars.
Steve DoneganJuly 6, 2021
While in the US Army I attended a class taught by an Army chaplain. When I walked in I saw he’d written on the board: KISS OFF. He explained it stood for: Keep It Simple Silly Or Face Frustration. When I or others around me get bogged down in doctrine or culture, I remember that chaplain and the simplifying message on the board.
David and CarolineJuly 6, 2021
Just bought it! It’d better be good ;)
LexaGraemeJuly 6, 2021
Clarification. The “Constitutional Convention” met in 1787. The Constitution was ratified by enough states to make it the law of the land in 1789.
ANJuly 6, 2021
What is your role in the future of USA, and your answer is to be the cheer squad.
Had the insurection succeeded in January, America would no longer be a democracy, and most of the readers here voted for trump knowing he would not accept the result unless he won.Do you accept responsibility?
I would think part of your role would be to acknowledge that was wrong and make sure that never happens again.
J. Britt FranklinJuly 5, 2021
Wonderful story! Amazing family. Hope we will hear ongoing mission reports. Love and best wishes to the family.
JD BasileJuly 5, 2021
Such an inspiring story! Hard work pays off!! Congrats Janice!
PjalJuly 5, 2021
Her feelings are mostly due to her husband’s insensitivity by his still present admiration of his ex-wife. I am not a jealous person, but I would think much less of my husband because of his callousness.
Tammy TaylorJuly 4, 2021
Thank you for a rational article about this topic. I also agree with many of the previous comments. Talking about race seems to be the wrong place to focus our attention. Let’s move on. Let’s work together to improve life for everyone in this country. I agree that the continued poverty for many blacks is concerning, but There are also many who seem to have broken this cycle. I feel that the biggest factor in the poverty cycle is the terrible education systems in inner city districts. This is more of a political problem than race as one party has run those cities for years. There must be change in the policies of elected officials and there must be choice through vouchers and charter schools available for these families. Competition is the quickest way to make change in these horrible schools. I like he idea of enterprise zones in inner cities to help with the economies and employment for those who live in those areas. There are many ways to begin to help those who are stuck in these areas. Shouting, and shaming and trying to throw out our country’s history and traditions is not going to get us there. Respect and love for everyone are the answers
Corey DinsdaleJuly 4, 2021
Everybody should read the following books, 'Sex Scandal: The Drive to Abolish Male and Female' and 'The Economic Theory of Sex: Industrialism, Feminism and the Disintegration of the Family'.
We need to be informed and understand the basis and foundation of what's being taught in order to fight it and counter it.
Linda ChristieJuly 3, 2021
Congratulations to a former Sooner from Norman, OK! I knew you and your family as you were growing up. Who knew you would turn out some really poignant and beautiful music about the Prophet Joseph, Emma, and the Savior. The rest of us LDS Sooners are really proud of you! Keep the faith, and keep sharing the truth! God bless you and your group! (And say hello to your mom and dad! I know they are proud of you!)
ChuckJuly 3, 2021
To answer the question in this articles' title, absolutely yes---but that doesn't mean you must be best buddies with someone who betrayed you. Our Savior commanded us to forgive everyone, but that principle is for us, not the other person; it's so WE can become a better person in a miserable situation. The other person is the responsibility of our Lord, not us.
LynnJuly 3, 2021
Bravo! Thank you for such a positive and uplifting essay!
Maryann TaylorJuly 2, 2021
Kenny's comments reflect the feelings of so many of us, probably millions. He asks some valuable questions at the end of his comment which deserve our consideration. I would add that as long as people keep pointing the finger and accusing people of racism simply because they are white, racism will remain alive.
Maryann TaylorJuly 2, 2021
I don't think the REAL issue here is about over-rating beauty or being jealous of the first wife. This woman is suffering because she is starving for physical affection from her husband, and also a real need for his verbal feedback that she is desirable and beautiful to him. The fact that her husband refers to his first wife's beauty "with a twinkle in his eye" would be a dagger to any wife's heart! If this woman felt truly loved by her husband, I think the conflict would be resolved. I see a lot of pain here, and hope this couple gets some good counselling because they need help to communicate their needs and suffering so that they can help one another.
SarahJuly 2, 2021
The twinkle in the eye...
That's the problem. Get rid of that, and you will feel closer to him.
Not sure how!?!
Vivian M AdamsJuly 2, 2021
Thank you for this important and inspired article. Thank you for the beauty of your heart and soul.
Robert D StarlingJuly 2, 2021
Thank you, Sister Linford, for this stirring reminder of what the 4th of July celebrates. I read it with tears in my eyes. Perhaps we have to spend some time in other countries to really appreciate what it means to live underneath the Stars and Stripes.
I'm from Georgia, and some of my ancestors fought against the Union at places like Gettysburg and Bull Run. They believed (rightly or wrongly) that they were fighting for the states' rights guaranteed in the Constitution. Thankfully the Union was preserved, and America has flourished.
Some of Lincoln's words at Gettysburg still challenge us to determine if "that nation, or any nation so conceived and so dedicated, can long endure." We know that these latter days are "perilous times" and that there is much we must endure before the Savior returns. Hopefully we can stand for righteousness until He comes.
God bless the USA!
Erik HansenJuly 2, 2021
According to the Book of Mormon, time and time again through it's pages, secret combinations in their greatest power and degree fight to destroy liberty. In this country the secret combinations are hitting the Constitution and the people at every level. They change the minds of the people over generations. Ultimately the only cure is and has been the preaching and adherence of Jesus Christ's principles. They are not received well in this Country even among "Christians". Only those principles will protect the liberty of the people.
Nancy AbbottJuly 2, 2021
This is a wonderful article. I totally agree with your sentiments. I love our nation..... warts and all! I’m so grateful that we , through revelation, know the final chapter for our nation. Much darkness will come, but then the glorious light of the millennial day! God bless America!
rydamyJuly 2, 2021
t is important for her husband to also seek medical evaluation of his health. Not only is sexual dysfunction a possible indicator of other significant health problems, but it can often be treated and improved. In addition there are adaptive ways be close, and these can help him meaningfully show care and affection for her. Just suggesting.
rydamyJuly 2, 2021
It is important for her husband to also seek medical evaluation of his health. Not only is sexual dysfunction a possible indicator of other significant health problems, but it can often be treated and improved. In addition there are adaptive ways be close, and these can help him meaningfully show care and affection for her. Just suggesting.
Mark DonaldsonJuly 2, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful reminder! God Bless America!
BeraJuly 2, 2021
Very inspiring article. Thank you for sharing this with us.
David ShafferJuly 2, 2021
Amen! And, thank you.
Taylor StonelyJuly 2, 2021
What a stirring reminder of the fragility of our freedom! Your story about your daughter standing and reciting the Star Spangled Banner brought tears to my eyes! Thank you for sharing!
BrianJuly 1, 2021
Is there a particular reason this article seems to presuppose that the betrayer is a man?
James ScottJuly 1, 2021
I’ve always taken interest in the Lord’s Prayer where in Matthew 6:9 the Lord uses the locational plea: WHICH, while in 3 Nephi 13:9 the Lord uses the personal WHO. Does this change mean He felt the Nephites were closer than the Jews or maybe Matthew’s translators erred in their work. I like the personal Who as I feel closer to the Lord in that use and that I’m actual conversing with The Father.
Larry HuntJuly 1, 2021
The Nashville tribute band. One of my favorite bands of all time!
Carol AnnJuly 1, 2021
What a cool "behind the scenes look" at this media production team for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I will watch General Conference with new appreciation from now on because of the dedication of these very special and inspired people. Thanks for sharing!
Barbara BrewerJuly 1, 2021
This article must have been written especially for me!
James scottJune 30, 2021
It’s really easy to stop investigation when we find info that buttresses our own opinions.
Maryann TaylorJune 30, 2021
Is anyone else out there sick to death of this subject???? Seems to me the more we talk about it, the worse it gets. How about if we just start from today--the present, right NOW. Be kind and get on with it.
Maryann TaylorJune 30, 2021
This is Satan's very transparent attempt to normalize and to promote sin. It is a weapon he has wielded from his deadly arsenal since time began--the deceptive belief that: "Everyone is doing it." One of the ways Satan promotes sin is to keep our focus on it as much as possible. He also tries to make us believe that we are being "compassionate" when we accept sin. We are being saturated with references to homosexual behavior in books, television programs, radio, magazines, and in the news more and more frequently. Even some Latter-day Saints are preoccupied with the subject. It is WAY past time to change our focus.
LexaGraemeJune 30, 2021
That sounds about right. Poor Sally.
James HarveyJune 30, 2021
Chinese in Mexico were expelled, Crimean Tatars were expropriated by Stalin, Roma people are hated throughout Europe, and xenophobia pervades in South Africa. Even MLK Jr's inspiration Walter Rauschenbusch despised Eastern European immigrants as reducing good "Teutonic stock" in America. Racism cannot be reduced to a question of ideology, but how political power is exercised, and that is missing from the analysis,
Marti ScottJune 30, 2021
I didn't get an e-mail about the Jordan River Temple reopening.
Kara A DunkelJune 30, 2021
Thoroughly enjoy your insights ❤️
Debra MackJune 29, 2021
What a great nugget of wisdom. Thank you Bro Marsh
Aeryn S.June 29, 2021
While I appreciate the authors' attempt to be fair and balanced, the fact remains that CRT is a poisonous ideology that even many blacks and other minorities find abhorrent (for instance, the Chinese American Citizens Alliance Greater New York who recently did a press release denouncing CRT as racist, J. Kenneth Blackwell (former mayor of Cincinnati) who condemned CRT in his essay: Critical Race Theory Cynically Undermines Racial Harmony; Jon McWhorter (who says, “You are not a racist to criticize CRT,” and who is a vocal opponent of CRT being taught in school); Shelby Steele (who says, “. . . Critical Race Theory . . . has no other meaning than . . . to once again accuse whites of racism.”); and many other minorities who have spoken vocally against CRT). Every American should read Dr. Carol Swain’s essay at 1776 Unites titled Critical Race Theory’s Toxic, Destructive Impact on America. Yes, we should be able to have thoughtful, civil discussions about race and our history, and explore positive ways to elevate all of God’s children. But it can’t be done through CRT. Ironical, many of our black brothers and sisters are silenced if they speak out against CRT. If we truly want to start positive dialogues, I suggest becoming more aware of conservative and libertarian black thinkers, activists, speakers, and writers, including the wonderful Walter E. Williams, whom we recently lost, Thomas Sowell, Shelby Steele, Jon McWhorter, and Carol Swain, among others.
Cameron DyckJune 29, 2021
Personally I wold think that the 3 most important relationships are: self, family, and God.
It is impossible to have a positive relationship with spouse/children/family and God without having a positive relationship with your self.
Marie CrollJune 29, 2021
I, too, would love to have this concert available on line. I hope you will make it possible.
Ed GayhartJune 28, 2021
No, we really don’t need to talk about race. CRT was hatched to divide and conquer. Are there bad people? Sure are - of all colors. Are people hated and mistreated. Have been throughout history. CRT wants to put everyone in their proper box and then teach them to resent each other - nothing more. We are individual children of Heavenly Parents - not a color.
Debi-Ann Ward CaseJune 28, 2021
Kenny Mazzanti brings up valid points. I have often wondered if black people in our country are even aware that they are not the only ones who suffered the debilitating effects of slavery. The Jews were slaves to the Egyptian pharaohs for approximately two hundred years. They were slaves/captives in Babylonia for about seventy years, and then they were under brutal Roman rule. This is in addition to the various slaveries mentioned by Mr. Mazzanti.
Sasha KwapinskiJune 28, 2021
People of different minorities and constituencies have a legitimate need to "see themselves" represented in our nation's history. As the article points out. this can be done without disregarding and discounting the overall main themes and trends. Members of the LDS community (one a many religious "minorities" in the US) see themselves represented in this manner when we learn about (for example) the Mormon Battalion, the voyage of the Brooklyn, or the early LDS settlement of San Bernardino.
ShaunaJune 28, 2021
cogent, thought provoking and insightful. Thank you for a measured and helpful analysis. well done and wonderfully even handed
EveJune 28, 2021
Very thought provoking. Thank you!
Michael EdwardsJune 28, 2021
the truth is out ther.
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Haze KompelienJune 28, 2021
I'm a 69 yr old White woman who, in her youth, didn't think she was racist at all. Gradually, over the years, I have been lovingly educated by dear Black friends on many aspects of their day-to-day lives that I was completely ignorant about. Simple things like little girls wishing for a doll that looked like them to complex things like having to give "The Talk" to your Black children about how to act in public to keep yourself safe. I am learning. I must also highly recommend the article the author provided a link to called "Being Black in America is Exhausting". Please do read it and your eyes will be opened to how different the lives of our Black sisters and brothers can be.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/04/17/being-black-america-is-exhausting/
Susan NielsonJune 28, 2021
I’m so relieved to read a rational, thoughtful discussion about race, after so many months of shouting, shaming and hatred. I realize that I have much to learn but it has been so difficult to know where to turn for calm, reasoned knowledge.
I truly want to know what I should do, and what I can do to show love to all around me.
Thank you for your instructions; they are so much appreciated.
Kenny MazzantiJune 28, 2021
Let us also remember that the enslavement of African peoples was done in great degree by their own people who sold them off to Muslim slave traders. Slavery was not unique to the American colonies, but was a worldwide occurrence.
When Spanish and Portuguese explorers conquered aboriginal people on the north and south American continents, they enslaved them by the thousands, and the Catholic Church forced "Christianity" upon them as slaves building their missions. The Spanish settlers enslaved native Americans, native Americans enslaved the Spanish, the Mexicans and each other. Native Americas commonly enslaved women and children when warring with other bands. At the time of the Civil War, there were more non-African slaves in north America than there were African slaves in the United States.
So, why is it that your focus is exclusively on African slaves when many more people of various ethnicities were victimized by slavery? What makes you so special that we all need to dredge up the horrors of the past? Why is it that we cannot focus on a future without division? Why is it that we cannot see a future simply as God's children one and all?
Carolyn MadsonJune 27, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful essay of photographs Scott. It is especially touching today, being June 27th.
These photos bring back wonderful memories of feeling the Spirit there at Carthage with you and Maurine several years ago during the last day of our Church History Tour with you. You continue to inspire!
.Carolyn and Scott Madson
Lorraine DayJune 27, 2021
Fabulous! You’ve straitened a confused subject for me. FAITH is a huge word for me and you have broken it down to a simple understanding. Thank you!!!
I would love my own personal copy of your words.
MikeJune 27, 2021
The next big false flag hoax could easily be an alien invasion. We have proven to be easily duped and it's another great excuse to confine us to our houses, destroy the economy, and take away our liberty.
PaeaJune 27, 2021
Great conversion story....thank you for sharing it!!!
Doris WilliamsJune 27, 2021
Oh, thank you Scot for putting this up again...it's a blessed reminder, coloring our study in Come Follow Me and the D&C. You have done so many inspiring photo essays....especially about Nauvoo. They are a blessing to all of us. Thank you so much.
Diane KriloffJune 27, 2021
What a powerful presentation! Thank you Elder Johnson for sharing your story. It was remarkably inspiring!
Joshua HarmonJune 26, 2021
Thanks for this article! As Latter-Day Saints, in addition to possessing canonized scripture affirming the existence of children of God begotten on worlds without number, our faith was built on the testimonies of credible witnesses of “marvelous” experiences that transcend our current scientific knowledge. We should stay humble and open about experiences with which we may not have first-hand knowledge, which are nevertheless true for those who experienced them. Articles of Faith 9 and 13 celebrate a hope for new and true light and knowledge. I’m excited to belong to a faith that isn't afraid to admit we don’t know everything about the universe. I'd love to see more articles on this topic from a Latter-Day perspective.
Maryann TaylorJune 26, 2021
Yes, it is true that there is very little revealed about our Heavenly Mother. Maybe that should tell us something.
Maryann TaylorJune 26, 2021
If there are people from other planets close enough for us to encounter pictures of them in space, why aren't they coming for a visit? Isn't that the first thing we would do if we found a planet with people like ourselves? Because of all the false "sightings," I am hesitant to take this very seriously. I am a lot more interested in improving life right here on earth.
Maryann TaylorJune 26, 2021
If our wayward children are adults who received a genuine testimony by the power of the Holy Ghost, how can "being deceived" be an excuse? The scriptures repeatedly teach us how to avoid deception. We also cannot claim being offended as an excuse for falling away. No one leaves the church because they were offended. They leave because they have not built a strong testimony of Jesus Christ. The power of a strong testimony overcomes any offense. I continue to have great hopes, prayers, and tears for those who have wandered away from the path. However, the answer to that problem is most often repentance. The Doctrine & Covenants speaks of those who will inherit the Terrestrial Kingdom as those "who were blinded by the craftiness of men" (D&C 76:75). We all experience good and evil influences every day. We all have the light of Christ. We are here to learn to choose the light. Only the Lord can judge each of us, but let's not make the mistake of accepting any doctrine that replaces genuine repentance with the excuse of "being deceived."
BarbaraJune 26, 2021
How exciting! I was driving into town one evening when I looked up and thought I saw an airplane (I was close to our local airport) when it suddenly took off faster than a shooting star and disappeared. I was and still am a UFO believer and figure why not....as you pointed out "worlds without number".
BenJune 26, 2021
Thank you for publishing this well-written piece about this phenomenon. To me, it's a head scratcher that other LDS-centric publications don't seem to have an interest in the topic of UAPs and how it fits into a theological discussion. This need not be a paradigm-shattering topic to discuss.
BriaJune 26, 2021
“If men do not comprehend the character of God, they do not comprehend themselves..."
If the veil were rent today, and the great God who holds the world in its orbit, and who upholds all worlds and all things by His power, was to make Himself visible, - I say, if you were to see Him today, you would see Him like a man in form - like yourself in all the person, image, and very form as a man.”
― Joseph Smith So let me get this straight woman dont matter much in the LDS church? According to the Prophet who restored the gospel to the earth he said to “If men do not comprehend the character of God, they do not comprehend themselves..." I believe Heavenly Mother should not be ignored but embraced, I know it would break my heart if my children ignored my existence.
MaryaJune 25, 2021
I'm always impressed by the thoughtfulness and wisdom in Geoff's responses. I'm glad this boy has a loving, non judgmental mother that recognizes a bishop wouldn't know what to do in this matter. It sounds like the dad won't be much help.
Gerald G. FullerJune 25, 2021
I don't understand how his attraction to those characters became identified as sexual attraction. Did I miss something?
TJJune 25, 2021
Dried or freeze dried food might be the only food storage that works for us. I am single and live in an apartment. I have no place to garden and found I would not eat canned vegetables except corn and green beans. So, instead of pretending I was going to eat that can of carrots or spinach, I purchased some freeze dried vegetables that I can add to my canned soups in the event of a prolonged emergency. But for health, I use frozen or fresh vegetables for my regular vegetable consumption. That way I am covered but do not waste money on canned goods I found I would not eat, no matter what.
GinaJune 25, 2021
As someone who was once this angry wife, may I tell you what I did one time when the anger I felt toward the other woman and toward the way my husband's mother was treating me overcame me. I thought of the people they cared about most. I contacted his children and told them the truth about their mother. Not something I am proud of, but something that can happen to you. You must remove yourself and your marriage to another place. Get off social media. Forever, because the anger can last decades. And anyone can go on to your Facebook page and post the details for all to read. I know because I did. This is anger that may not die for decades.
Theodore BrandleyJune 25, 2021
Hello Warren,
It is true that God has created “worlds without number (Moses 1:23), and the inhabitants thereof are begotten sons and daughters unto God (D&C 76:24). However, “there are no angels who minister to this earth but those who do belong or have belonged to it.” (D&C 130:5) Therefore, assuming the craft are real technology designed and controlled by intelligent beings, they are most likely translated beings of the cities of Enoch and Melchizedek. It was a “chariot of fire” that was observed in the translation of Elijah into heaven (2 Kings 2:11).
HalJune 25, 2021
Interesting article until it mentioned that former Senator Harry Reid was trying to get information released. Mr. Reid has zero credibility in my book. He deliberately lied in the 2012 election cycle when he claimed Mitt Romney had not paid any income taxes for the prior decade. Mr. Reid was challenged on this claim when Mr. Romney released his tax records showing that he had, indeed, paid his taxes. When pressed about continuing to defend a statement that is not true (after the election), Reid responded, "Romney didn't win, did he?"
RaLee HallJune 25, 2021
Thank you for your story. It was beautiful.
Gayle WalkerJune 25, 2021
Thank you so very much for these beautiful pictures and information of these brethren's last days. Words cannot express my feelings for Joseph and Hyrum. I know they were and are God's prophets, seers and revelators for the Final Dispensation of Times.. I appreciate your love for them and learned much from your piece.
Mary WilsonJune 25, 2021
I love this cartoon. I love Donny Osmond. Can I still buy a copy of the magazine?
Ronald BarnesJune 25, 2021
I live under a flight path and have seen all kinds of aircraft at different altitudes. I have seen UFOs on two occasions. The second time I was with others. To us they appeared to be a precession of small, red lights that seemed to appear, travel a distance, and then to disappear. The first time I was alone. I saw what appeared to be a large craft no more than a few hundred feet in the air. There were four long, horizonal lights on its side. It was banking to the right and I did not see wings or a tail. It was moving much slower than an airplane, darker than the night sky and totally silent.
I believe that earthly governments have technologies far more advanced that the populace realizes. It could be that these crafts are scouts sent by the Ten Tribes or the City of Enoch. I actually have more radical ideas than those. Of course, I don’t know and can only speculate.
ShaunaJune 25, 2021
I would just add that agency is paramount. Sometimes I think we teach that wayward children will return no matter what. How can that be? I do not doubt the Savior's ability, mission, and purpose to "save," but surely we cannot be "saved" against our will. Clearly there are things we don't yet understand, and I appreciate adding in premortal choices, but we are also told that even though we can repent in the next life, that it is easier to do so now--in the body; "that this life is the time to prepare to meet God," and that the personality traits, characteristics, desires, habits, priorities etc., that we have developed in this life, will be with us on the other side. The prophet Amulek taught, “That same spirit which doth possess your bodies at the time that ye go out of this life, that same spirit will have power to possess your body in that eternal world” (Alma 34:34). As a result, when persons leave this life and go on to the next, “they who are righteous shall be righteous still” (2 Ne. 9:16), and “whatever principle of intelligence we attain unto in this life … will rise with us in the resurrection” (D&C 130:18). I know that the Lord is the perfect judge and that we will all agree that his judgments are just. But agency must be accounted for
LexaGraemeJune 24, 2021
Yyyessss!
Laurel Lee PedersenJune 24, 2021
I love the way our missionaries are learning to teach the gospel. We live in the Willamette Valley of Oregon and most of the people our missionaries are teaching are coming from social media. They are doing service activities in the community and helping with ward activities, etc., as well. It's a joy to have evening devotionals with them, as well as prepare food for them several days a week. Thanks again, Diana, for these beautiful insights to these D&C sections.
WendyJune 24, 2021
I have enjoyed reading your articles on our parental God,. Was wondering how the polygamy paradigm fits into this.
LaurieJune 24, 2021
I found this article so helpful. Thank you. Rethinking is always spoke of, but you gave great examples snd, the bottom line is, we know we, n and of ourselves fo not have al the answers; that’s wher effort is appreciated to listen, ponder, pray snd exercise faith by action! Sincere thanks.
Carlos RoundyJune 24, 2021
If Christ and his atonement happened , than everything in existence has meaning, on the other hand, if Christ and the atonement did not happen, then everything will just be ashes. Thanks for the wonderful article.
Michael SheaJune 24, 2021
Thank you. I suppose it can reasonably be said that the ignorant have no difficulty justifying themselves to the ignorant.
Rodney L RiversJune 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing this thoroughly enjoyable and enlightening article. I will peruse the other mentioned articles on the subject of evidences on the authenticity of biblical characters.
JarediteStoresJune 24, 2021
Will these books eventually be sold at Deseret Bookstore? And, available on Bookshelf Plus?
Harold RustJune 24, 2021
As always, thanks for an inspiring insight. Your article let me to reflect on a related perspective.
The more I study this parallel relationship, the closer I come to getting a feel of why prophets and recipients of heavenly insight simply cannot convey the full message of that visit to the spiritual realm. Just as a child could become enthralled with a graphic design made by using imaginary numbers and yet be limited in describing just how the math works to others, so too are prophets limited in conveying the full dimension of what they have been shown.They can use earthly examples to help us obtain some insight and guidance, but only as we become familiar with the spiritual dimension will we begin to "see the light" ....and gain the wherewithal to apply imaginary numbers to create our own graphic designs.
AnnaJune 23, 2021
As I struggle emotionally with the loss of two adult children within five months, it has been too easy to languish in sadness and self-doubt. Thank you for helping me today as i try to re-frame my feelings and memories.
Joseph L.June 23, 2021
You make some wonderful points in this article. Thank you so much. I have chose a different path for my food storage. We rotate a 3 month supply pantry and have an additional 9 months of dehydrated beans/grains and some freeze dried meals. You mention that this is not wise, because where will the water come from? If I have water to drink, then I have water to cook with. If I have no water to drink, then I won't live long. I think an important aspect of being prepared is knowing how to procure and make water safe to use. I don't think having beans, rice and other dehyrdated and freeze dried meals is a bad thing. For some of us, it makes food storage easier.
HallJune 23, 2021
Loved this story! Goes to show you should listen to the whole story before forming an opinion that will make you look foolish.
Haze KompelienJune 23, 2021
Looking forward to column #9. Hope it will be out soon. Very interesting series.
CarolJune 23, 2021
Please don't ever stop writing your column - you make my day!!!
JKJune 23, 2021
Thank you for this timely article. I agree that food storage needs to be well rounded. It is something I've struggled with for years, but after living in the mid-west for three decades I now live in an area that not a year goes by when a major disaster hits of some kind. Food storage is essential in those times. Now that Northern Utah finally recognizes they can indeed be struck by a large earthquake at anytime, I hope they are taking food prep more seriously. People keep thinking they need food storage for natural disasters, but unemployment is a huge problem right now and having food on hand is huge to get you through.
Angie MannJune 23, 2021
I can’t love this enough. It’s such a peaceful feeling when you realize you’ve just read the answer to a prayer you’ve had. Thank you.
Mary JaneJune 22, 2021
Thank you so much...I needed to read this and hear this counsel today. It is so easy for us to feel burdened by our challenges in every day life. These are great reminders to keep the faith and move forward, remembering the Lord is always with us, loves us and will consecrate our afflictions for our gain....
Steve DoneganJune 22, 2021
Thank you for plain speech about a difficult and complicated topic.
Cary HolmquistJune 22, 2021
Really branching out there, kiddo.
P. WintersJune 22, 2021
This is an enlightening article. I can use many things that were mentioned. However, in number four, the word "from" is used twice. This makes the sentence lose its meaning.
Neil CJune 22, 2021
Labelling a person without seeking to understand the core problem is guaranteed to prevent forgiveness, healing and even strengthening the marriage which can happen when the core problem is understood and addressed.
The Saviour message of hope to the adulteress makes clear that even adultery can be fully recovered from. The adultress wasn't immediately forgiven as she needed to take part in the process of repentance. To "go and sin no more" was the start.
Those who participate in an act of betrayal are able to fully repent and gain forgiveness of self and by the affected wife/husband. Those who are affected by the betrayal can also be healed - provided the reasons for the betrayal are understood.
Adam was commanded to "cleave unto Eve" i.e.: to sever any and every relationship, hobby, interest, work - anything that would prevent him from being completely united with Eve. Of course, we can have all of those things, so long as Eve remained the priority. Adultery can be added to that list.
To not forgive places us in the same company as those seeking to stone the Adulteress. That in no way diminishes the anger, hurt and devastation that is experienced!
When the core (non-sexual) basis of the betrayal is understood, it can be addressed. Affairs are often a crisis of identity, a desire for an alternate reality in which the 'betrayer' can reimagine and reinvent themselves. Unfulfilled expectations, unspoken resentments, and unmet longings, feeling important, feeling desired, all play a part.
Affairs are not about the other person, they are about being a new you, an escape from being the person you have become or the situation you are in. It is not about leaving the person you are with (Abusive relationships excluded). Sex is usually the medium, but it is not what is being sought.
The commandment to love others wasn't conditional. The very real feelings of being hurt, betrayed and devastated will take time to heal, but they can heal.
Here again, the Saviour showed us the way to forgive, when he asked Heavenly Father to, "Forgive them for they no not what they do".
In a similar way, those that commit adultery, don't fully realise what they are seeking as it is an emotional course of action.
Neil CJune 21, 2021
There are few topics more raw and devastating than infidelity. There is a clip on YouTube by Esther Perel that I would recommend viewing where infidelity is addressed, recognising and addressing the reasons for infidelity without excusing it. Most importantly, on how to heal from it and how a marriage can actually become stronger despite it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmiKAoAmYSg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q
Maryann TaylorJune 21, 2021
The author here is giving great advice. I would take it one step further--You may need to move. I know that is extreme, but it is probably very painful for your husband to still have these people in living in your area, and having the wife at your work is going to be a long term reminder of what happened.
LBJune 21, 2021
I'm the same way--going back to hiding in my basement during game six of the 1998 Finals as a twenty-something! I just get too emotionally involved and it's painful even though I tell myself every time--whether it's the Jazz or my Aggies (and even BYU)--this outcome doesn't matter in the eternal scheme of things, not one bit. But oh, how we love our sports teams and want for them to succeed!
I've learned to adapt and even pivot as I've gotten older. Still emotionally attached caring about the outcome BUT instead of watching the games anymore (waiting until the final buzzer to check the score to put off that agitation), I spend those game nights doing something that matters more of an eternal nature: I focus on serving other people by indexing for FamilySearch. It's something I love just as much as (at times more than) I love the Jazz or Aggies but brings me more peace, joy and satisfaction, I think. :)
JoJune 21, 2021
Perhaps the impression you give is not accurate, but you sound rather selfish. I think you do owe it to this wronged woman to humbly put up with her anger toward you. You deserve it. She did not deserve what you did to her. Be flippant about it and all the women who know you will not trust you.
KateJune 20, 2021
Please, all of you commenters that are recycling the tired old saw that "Heavenly Mother is just too sacred to speak of", please just STOP. That is condescending and insulting, not just to our Heavenly Mother (who is a powerful God, co-equal with our Father in Heaven, and certainly plenty strong enough to withstand such nonsense), but also to women in general. We do not need to be protected; we are capable, intelligent beings. Kindly stop the Victorian practice of treating us like children. It does not reflect well on those who do so. Also, thank you, Br. Eyre, for such an insightful article! I very much appreciate your thoughtfulness on this important topic.
EJune 20, 2021
Beautiful article. Thank you for publishing this, it's a breath of fresh air.
Corey D.June 20, 2021
I have not seen the movie but will probably order it and share it with my family, in particular because one of my children and their spouse has stepped away from the church, the spouse has lots of struggles with lots of things, personal, family and church. Church wise this individual struggles with church history one of those being about blacks. My second comment, I came home from my mission in the spring of 1978 and went to work for a bricklayer/contractor, one of the brick layers was a man named Howard Kennedy who was black. On the day the church made public the announcement one of the guys came around to the side of the house where I and a couple others were working and excitedly said the church had just made the announcement that blacks could receive the priesthood at which point one of the other brick layers said "well that will make Howard's mom happy", I said " why is that" and he replied that Howard's mom was a member of the church. Many years later I went to visit an old neighbor who was in the hospital, as I entered the room there was his wife and an elderly black woman who was introduced to me as a Mrs. Kennedy, I said "nice to meet you" and then said I had worked with a Howard Kennedy some years before and did she know him. She said Howard was her son. I came to learn she was one of the first, maybe the first, don't remember all the details, but one of the first blacks to join the church in the Ogden/Northern Utah area. She has since passed away I believe but certainly her story/conversion should be part of the black history in the church.
Corey D.June 20, 2021
One Sunday in Priesthood meeting, pre-pandemic, the discussion was on the Proclamation on the Family, one of the brothers said, " when I first read that I thought to myself, this is common sense, doesn't everybody think this way" and then he said "hasn't that turned out to be prophetic". Sex, sexuality and everything that goes along with it is one area were Satan has done a masterful job of deceiving people. We are a society driven by technology and science and that technology provides instant and enormous amounts of information and opinion, too many, including members of the church get caught up in that and get persuaded by the information and opinions especially if there is PhD that follows the name. Too many view the church as a societal organization or a democratic institution where things are put to the vote and change based on the majority vote or society's acceptance or none acceptance of something. There are some truths that are eternal and unchanging.
MelbaJune 19, 2021
I loved the courage and decency of Jack Anderson. I never met him but admired his work. Also, my father had a personal story about him from an experience of seeing him in Ogden, Utah on leave from the military during World War II. You are lucky he was your father. A great and a good man.
KellieJune 19, 2021
I believe you are seriously underestimating the anger and hatred this woman has for you and rightfully so. Your behavior was disgraceful. You might consider some serious remorse and acknowledgement of the wrongfulness of your behavior and the long-lasting damage it has done to her life. This is something that may haunt the rest of your life.
There will be other people whom she tells, or her husband does, or her sister or mother or best friend. Someday it will probably get back to your family, your friends, your children. The cost has just begun to be paid. I wish you the best, but have you considered moving across country where you can start afresh?
JowoJune 19, 2021
Jack Anderson was a household name when I was growing up. It’s nice to hear it mentioned again.
Q. Wayne ThorntonJune 19, 2021
I would just add a clear difference between sexual preference and one’s race: sexual proclivity is a choice and race is determined by DNA. Sure, a person may be born with same sex attraction just as one may be predisposed towards alcoholism. However, the person of color had/has no power to choose that component of their being. As with all impulses, we have our agency and are responsible for the choices we make.
Iesus SimbalJune 19, 2021
Just as men reject Charity so do they reject the true language, being without the Spirit of kindness, and unwilling to treat others by the same Law God has ordained. Men do not hear true Prophets, for they speak in a Language that adapts to the ear which hears it. Many will say, 'Lord, Lord', having no mercy for those they have stepped upon. Matthew 25 makes clear what will happen to these many.
MarciaJune 18, 2021
YOU started the problem, you need to end it. GET ANOTHER JOB!
Seeing you on a daily basis
will keep her from being able to deal with her husband. Seeing you will never stop being a daily constant reminder of his betrayal.
no matter if you can't find another job or one as good a your current one... that is the price you pay for what you have done.
GET ANOTHER JOB!
You are torturing her with her having to see you on a daily basis. She did nothing wrong, YOU did...part of your restitution in your repentance process is to not make it worse for her even if it inconviences you.
GET ANOTHER JOB!
It's the least you can do to begin making amends so she can begin to heal.
I cannot stress this enough! GET ANOTHER JOB! Show that you are really sorrowful for your terrible actions that is causing her world to have shattered! Take responsibility for what damage you have caused!
GET ANOTHER JOB!
K. B. HardingJune 18, 2021
He a fascinating man and I was honored to have gotten to know him. I buy every copy of his book, "Peace, War, and Politics : An Eyewitness Account" whenever I find one on Ebay.
BonnieJune 18, 2021
I believe! I am raising my grandson and he once asked, "Why are there so many angels around the temple?' It was in Manti during the week of the pageant. As we talked about the angels and what they were doing, I asked him what he knew about angels. He said, "The ones dressed in white surround me when the ones dressed in black are near by." And before I could ask him any more about it, he ran off to play with the dog. Tears of gratitude and love still fill my eyes.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 18, 2021
There are many people in this world that can say that Jack Anderson was their friend, because, for sure he had may friends. Jack was my dear friend, and he was because I always knew that he loved me. I met him when I was living close to his home in Bethesda Maryland during the Nixon years; we were members of the Chevy Chase ward, and I being the younger, and the newcomer I needed friends in this new environment when with my family came to work in National Institutes of Health. On top of that, I was a foreigner, like many of my coworkers in NIH, and soon they, my coworkers found out that I was behaving differently like if I was already adapted sooner than them. What was the reason? Of course, the church and many of the people in the ward, but among them was Jack who always gave his unconditional friendship with a great deal of love. He always told me that I was very special, and I felt special due to this great loving man. We had many great discussions in the Presidential campaign with McGovern and Nixon, and he was very respectful, but at the same time gave the reasons the president must be surrounded by good people.
About the Vietnam war, he told me that those young men fighting the draft to avoid to be in the war, although he was sympathetic with them, he said that for sure that they had all the right to fight against that, but that there were laws and tribunals and the Constitution, and he said that if he would be one of them, he would fight with all his strength in the legal ways, but that if at the end he would not win the legal battle, he would go to Vietnam.
He helped many in many ways, and the way it put it when he told me that the family that was living in his farm he had in some place nearby, actually, they were helping him taking care of the place, when the real thing is that they did not have any other place to live.
I love Jack and Olivia, they were wonderful people, mainly because they loved people. I will never forget them. I will see you soon my dearest Jack.
Marilyn GoodworthJune 18, 2021
Thank you. Now I know why I read his columns regularly and learned.
Sarah HinzeJune 18, 2021
Years ago I had the great privilege to talk to Jack Anderson concerning my books and my mission as a writer. He gave me invaluable advice that became the core of my mission statement. He was a great man who took time for someone like me who was a budding writer and a bit of a dreamer. Thank you so much Jack for your kindness and wise counsel!
Jim HarrisJune 18, 2021
Sister Hilton, thank you for your insights. I am fairly well versed in Church history and doctrine and usually am prepared to answer a question if needed. The challenge I sometimes encounter is the attitude of the questioner. If the question is asked in a condescending or snide way, I will not say anything because I wish to avoid contention (see 3 Nephi 11:28-30 and Doctrine and Covenants 10:63). The problem with doing nothing is that I leave other class members vulnerable who may have lingering doubts.
A second issue with some questioners is that once you answer one question it opens a litany of subsequent questions, some which cannot be easily answered. I wish I could find a way for them to ponder on the one answer they were given and seek the confirmation of the Spirit. In a sense they are “Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth” (2 Timothy 3:7).
For me, our goal is for each of us to become a better disciple of Jesus Christ. I want to do what I can to help myself and others to become better disciples of the Savior. One challenge for me is to find a better way to deal with those who ask questions in a less than pleasant way. As the Savior said, “And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple. Wherefore, settle this in your hearts, that ye will do the things which I shall teach, and command you” (JST 14:27-28).
It is refreshing when the questioner is in a good spirit and the people providing assistance are all in the right spirit, and all "are edified and rejoice together" (doctrine and Covenants 50:21-22).
Daniel BakerJune 18, 2021
What a pleasant reflection. Way back before I became aware that there is more to religious significance than simple "being saved", I enjoyed his reasoned writing. Way back before good balanced discussion was destroyed by writing of simple divisive statements in memes. I cannot remember a single writing of his, I only remember that they were very reasoned and made me think through issues; whatever position he had, the reason was clear. Interesting that he could elaborate on both sides of an issue. We need more like that again. He joined the likes of Jim French and Lloyd Cooney - remember them???
Mtutuzeli NyokaJune 18, 2021
Thank you Tanya for your touching recollections of your dad. We salute our fathers for the many sacrifices they make for us their children.
Diane MortensenJune 18, 2021
What a loving tribute to your father. I didn't know him, but as a result of your article, I want to.
Harold RustJune 18, 2021
I remember attending a Church fireside in the Washington area when Jack was the speaker. Ten minutes into the intended start time and Jack was still not there. I was sitting on the side front aisle when suddenly the side door opened and Jack came in and sat beside me. He mumbled something like "They certainly didn't give good directions to this chapel!" He was not in a happy mood. However, when he went up to speak after being introduced, no one else there in the meeting would have guessed he was upset or angry; he just moved on into a very uplifting talk that inspired all those who were there.
Kathy ThatcherJune 18, 2021
I’d like to know how the story ends with Sheila. I loved the mother and Timmy and the young man but am not too crazy about the self concerned Sheila.
Ken BergJune 18, 2021
Pres. Nixon and the Vietnam War are indelible memories from my teenage and young man years. I would have been drafted if I hadn't gone on my mission. Watergate and the beginning of the Vietnam pull-out happened during my mission. And Jack's column, I think, was published by the Deseret News, because I remember seeing it in that paper. Thanks, Tanya, for sharing those personal insights about your Dad.
KIM BOSLERJune 17, 2021
Beautiful article. I hope you never underestimate the power of the service of your gifts you so willingly share, Lynne. You've touched thousands of souls through your music and writings when some might just idle away their time or say, "someday." How I love your music and your voice! And the way you can write and stir our souls. Thank you for being humble too. What a beautiful woman you are in every way. Love, Kim Woolf Bosler
Linda WillisJune 17, 2021
All of your articles are excellent! This one reminds all of us that the only way to live the gospel is to venture out of our comfort zones consistently. Living it is the natural outcome of loving it and takes more energy and faith.. Great analogy on the differences clams make.
David DurfeeJune 17, 2021
To Susan - the fullness of God's DOCTRINE -- that is, truth -- cannot change. Of course. But how and when God reveals the completeness of His doctrine -- all truth -- is totally at His discretion. I think we err when we put limits on what God may or may not reveal down the road. Ask Bruce McConkie if he was surprised and humbled by any particular revelation given to President Kimball in 1968.
Diane L AndersonJune 17, 2021
Excellent article. Indeed, loving and living the Gospel go hand in hand. Thanks for the reminder!
Janet DoiJune 17, 2021
This sounds like a fantastic patriotic concert for all of us to see. I would love to be there, but I live near Austin, TX. No way for us to be able to see such a great event to give meaning to the coming Independence Day celebrations that, thankfully we can still celebrate at present.
May I suggest some kind of filming or video being made of the concert for those of us who live far from Draper, Utah to join in this festivity.
I would be willing to pay for such a film or video, and I am sure others would too.
I am not sure if in some places, July 4th parades will even be seen during these times in which we live today. Thank you for reading my comment, and I hope someone will be able to grant my wish.
GTOJune 17, 2021
Someone who reads these wonderful accounts will have a child who was NOT saved by angels and was killed, wounded, or passed away from some infirmity. I heard a phrase once, "Some He warns, some He comforts." God is ALWAYS with us in some way, in His wisdom. Sometimes He rescues us and sometimes He comforts us after a devastating loss. By using the Holy Spirit, we must discern what His gift to us was.
Christine B.June 17, 2021
Beautiful insight. As I listen to and read general conference messages, my mind fills with inspiration and insight but I find myself reflecting, “but now what … how will I actually move forward and implement these things.” I agree with your message that the application of these things is where we will find satisfaction.
SherryJune 17, 2021
My grandson was playing on the window ledge in his second story bedroom when the screen gave way. He was 4 at the time and told me the white birdies caught him just before he landed on the concrete driveway, a fall of about 20 feet. Not being raised with religion, he didn’t know what angels are.
Seeker of TruthJune 16, 2021
There is a music video called "So Many Sisters", that came out the end of March this year. You can find it on YouTube. It was written to celebrate all women of the church around the time of Mother's Day.
One of the writers, I happen to know very well, felt a great impression to add a line about "Heavenly Mother". It is a beautiful insight, I believe, into part of the nature of our Heavenly Mother.
However, until we as a church and society stop the sick and twisted use of God's name in vain, and the utter mockery of our Savior and Father in Heaven, we can be sure that further light and knowledge, of our Heavenly Mother will be restricted among the masses, and left to only those ready to receive who can be trusted. She is too special, too beautiful and too sacred...she is the living edifice of our Sacred temples.
HalJune 16, 2021
Thank you for this article. I am also concerned with the number of people using these new, false definitions of "Bravery" and "Courage" to hide a myriad of self-destructive behaviors. I know several young people who are embracing non-traditional lifestyles (that, incidentally, benefit no-one but themselves) who are using their "brave" declarations as an excuse to avoid responsibility. In many cases I'm aware of, these people who so bravely declare their "true selves" fail to mention that they are also declaring their freedom from responsibility. Many have dropped out of school, are chronically unemployed, and are using their new labels for themselves to justify their actions and portray themselves as "victims" of prejudice. They're not kidding anyone but themselves.
Maryann TaylorJune 16, 2021
This story has softened a lot of hearts today, including my own. Thank you so much for the insightful reminder to replace judging others with an increased awareness of how we can help.
Maryann TaylorJune 16, 2021
Our scriptures can take on a whole new meaning when we focus specifically on applying them in marriage. For example: "..be not weary in well-doing, for ye are laying the foundation of a great work. And out of small things proceedeth that which is great." ( D&C 64:33) How might our marriages be strengthened if we read the scriptures for a whole month with the entire focus being only on how to use those teachings in our marriage? "Small things" can be little love notes, unexpected texts of love to a spouse at work, sincere compliments, greeting your spouse with a hug and smile, expressing gratitude--the list is as endless as your imagination. I have found these "small things" truly DO bring about "that which is great" in marriage.
Alfredo VegaJune 16, 2021
This is a beautiful story. I lived in Chile at that time, so I met the Bolivar family and was deeply moved by the fact that doctor Nelson (now president Nelson) had been an instrument in restoring brother Bolivar's health. My family and I were also blessed by the missionary service from elder Lebaron and his companion.
JillJune 16, 2021
Really interesting discussion. I recognised a lot of the topics that occured in my marriage. I wonder what your take is on reclaiming sexuality after becoming widowed? It is difficult to be a single adult again after being married for nearly a quarter of a century!
SusanJune 15, 2021
To David Durfee---The DOCTRINE of the gospel will never change. The PROGRAMS for how the doctrine is implemented do change as appropriate, and when the Lord reveals it so. Listen to what the prophets are saying, and you will find that it is not doctrine that is changing, but rather the policy by which the gospel for all mankind is to be implemented.
CubbyJune 15, 2021
What a beautiful, wonderful story. The Lord was sure in charge on that on!
Maryann TaylorJune 15, 2021
I know that forgiving others is required by our Savior, and the sooner we can do so, the sooner we will experience relief. However, to counsel a woman has been sexually abused by her father to ask him for HIS forgiveness for her hard feelings toward him is extreme, to say the least. Sexual abuse can take years, even a lifetime, for healing. Complete forgiveness is also often a process that takes time, depending on the seriousness of the abuse. A letter to him to let him know she had forgiven him would have sufficed, but to ask HIS forgiveness for the time she needed and deserved to work through this nightmare? NO!
HalJune 15, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have been saying the same thing for years. Furthermore, in our current society we seem to be confusing sex for love. I've heard many people struggling to maintain their sexual purity (both hetero and homo sexual) say something to the effect of " I'm being persecuted because I love someone." We should all understand that love and sex are mutually exclusive. While it is true that intimacy can and should be a sacred expression of love between husband and wife, it more common to love someone deeply and never have sex with them. On the opposite end of the spectrum, it is possible to have sex with someone and have no feelings of affection whatsoever. God's plan is, indeed, the plan of happiness. Again, having sex with someone does not necessarily imply love for that person. Keeping God's commandments regarding sexual purity will bring greater joy to His children than disregarding those laws.
Richard EyreJune 15, 2021
Thank you all (including those who commented to me directly and privately at the link provided at the end of the article.
Please go back to the first of the article and read the "AUTHOR'S CLARIFICATION" that I added a few hours after this article was published. I want to be sure everyone knows unequivocally that I know that Christ is the God of this world and our advocate with the Father...and I don't want anything I say to detract or distract from that!
MichelleJune 15, 2021
Why could there not be only One Mother in Heaven?
Adam and Eve alone, during their life time, populated this earth with thousands of children and this was done with earthly limitations. Why then, could it not be possible for our Heavenly Parents, (just the 2 of them), who have no Earthly limitations, to create trillions upon trillions of spirit children to populate this earth.
Also, look at Noah and his small family who entered the Ark and were saved from the destruction of the flood. How did such a small group of people re- populate the earth? And again they had limitations given them by the earth...
I think it's possible to have One Heavenly Father and One Heavenly Mother who created every human spirit that has ever lived and ever will live on this earth.
Food for thought....
Gerald J LeBaronJune 15, 2021
I love this family so much. What an incredible blessing to have been in Chile and meet them. They are Chilean Pioneers. My heart is continually tied to them as to many others in the beautiful nation of Chile
Gerald J LeBaronJune 15, 2021
From my missionary journal, June 18th, 1979: Tonight, we had a beautiful Family Home Evening with a remarkable family that we have been teaching. They are all progressing towards baptism, and I have every confidence that they will become a very strong family in the Lord's kingdom. For our FHE treat, Sister (Eleanora del Carmen) Bolivar (Riquelme) made a superb cake. Very delicious! (It seems to me that all the many Chilean women that I have met are fabulous cooks!) We played some fun games, laughed, sang songs, and cracked some excellent jokes. (I'm still learning about humor in the Spanish language) I feel that we have labored particularly hard with this family, because they have been a very devoted Christian family in the Catholic faith. The Spirit has been working with them miraculously. In a very short time, they have read much of the Book of Mormon, and received a witness of its truth. Despite some lingering anxiousness, if all goes well, they will be baptized Sunday (June 24th, 1979) as a family. I feel that the adversary does not want them to be baptized, because they will become such strong members of the church.
Brother Bolivar and Silvana wanted to be baptized almost from the moment we began teaching them. Corina and her mother were at first a bit more hesitant for baptism. In fact Corina had been giving serious consideration to becoming a nun in the Catholic church.
June 24th: A most beautiful baptismal service. The Bolivar family along with Sister Maria Soledad Calderon were all baptized members of "La Iglesia de Jesucristo de los Santos de los Ultimos dias." What joy! What a blessing! I of myself take no credit. It is the Spirit and the prayers of the family that allowed them to arrive at this point. It was the testimony gained through intently reading the Book of Mormon. Two days earlier I had pled with Corina and her mother that they prayerfully consider being baptized with Silvana and her father. They agreed to do so. At the waters of baptism, there were some emotional moments, but they all got there, and it was wonderful to see all of the family dressed in white. This is a grand day on earth and in heaven!
PaulineJune 15, 2021
I have read two near-death accounts from women who saw Heavenly Mother and in one case, her heavenly mother. Beautiful descriptions beyond measure!
One said she could gaze upon the heavenly scene forever. Maybe we need to be present in this sphere and not longing to go home.
PaulineJune 15, 2021
Good for you!
Carlos RoundyJune 15, 2021
I believe that Eve is the great prototype of the heavenly mother. Joseph Smith saw Adam and Eve in open vision. Joseph always referred to Eve as glorious Eve. She is a resurrected glorified daughter of God, just like our heavenly mother.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 15, 2021
The question raised by your granddaughter are valid, and I appreciated your answers. However, I felt that as a sign of our times, in some way, we are trying to be "politically correct" in many aspects, and this is one of them. I do not like to be politically correct, and I do not like The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints to be either. However, I am nobody to correct the trends, but at the same time I am somebody with some intelligence to have opinions. For instance the author left aside the answer that apparently had been around and is that Our Heavenly Father has our Heavenly Mother is such respect, as we must have our own wife, that He simply doesn't want She to be exposed to the evils of this world. This is, of course, a kind of "protection" given by Him to Her, and that, is NOW "NOT politically correct"; nevertheless, I strongly believe that this could be the real answer, together with the one that the mysteries of God have been revealed step by step. The Apostle Paul speaks of "mysteries" among the important one Christ himself, who came to be known only in the Meridian of Times, and not to all men. In the same way that mystery of our Heavenly Mother would come step by step until we (although not all) would know Her. Meanwhile, we will continue to be poisoned with "politically correctness", "wokeness", "Critical Race Theory" the non-accepted "binary gender" the eradication of our own culture, the hate of the USA Republic-Free Market, Religion itself, of course the no use for "family" and many other stupidities, that of course, there is no time (our time) for the great majority of people in this world and even in the Church to simple discuss Her existence and I for one, do not like to hear anybody (who are nobodies) to speak disrespectfully not only about Her, but in the way we often hear about Our Dear Heavenly Father and Christ.
DaveJune 15, 2021
While understanding the Eternal nature of the family and the reality of Heavenly Parents is crucial to the Gospel Plan, I wonder whether the discussion of Heavenly Mother's role is productive, or whether it's a diversion - like 'looking beyond the mark' or speculating about answers to questions that we don't need answers to, and when we do need answers, they will be given to the Prophet. When I was much younger I thought a lot about 'the signs of the times' or the location of the Lost Ten Tribes. Now, many years later, I have come to realize that when I next come face-to-face with Diety will be on that not-too-distant day when I die - the signs won't have mattered, and studying them will have been a mere academic exercise. My time would have been better spent focussing on relationships and learning to love God and my neighbor as fully as I should. I don't think my Heavenly Parents will care whether I said 'brothers and sisters' or 'sisters and brothers,' but They will care how I kept the commandments and how I treated other people. They will care if I 'always remember Him' and 'always have His Spirit' to be with me. Let that be my focus.
HrothiusJune 15, 2021
To LexaGraeme: The territory of Wyoming enacted women’s suffrage in December 1869, but because of the timing of elections, women in Utah were the first to actually go to the polls, having received that right two months later in February 1870. So it depends on how you state the facts as to whether Wyoming or Utah was the first to allow women to vote. This article is not incorrect. It is important to note that Utah women had their right to vote taken away in 1877 by the Edmunds-Tucker Act, which was passed by Congress and disincorporated the church, changed marriage and inheritance laws and revoked all Utah women’s voting rights. www [dot] washingtonpost [dot] com [/] outlook [/] 2020 [/] 02 [/] 14 [/] utah-women-had-right-vote-long-before-others-and-then-had-it-taken-away/
Judy PetersonJune 15, 2021
This is a very thoughtful article and it has generated some useful pondering and consideration. Thank you.
While we know very little about our Mother in Heaven, there may be some erroneous assumptions in these comments. There are numerous spiritual as well as secular reasons why men have been sealed to more than one woman, none of which suggest that specific relationship will be eternal. In a change from previous policy we now seal deceased ancestors to all spouses. I suggest we view sealings in a broader spiritual context in order to understand this principle. Deceased wives may be sealed to multiple husbands. We know that isn’t an eternal model, so there must be something else about the value and purpose of the sealing ordinance.
The Proclamation on the Family defines marriage as between “one man, one woman.” While that can be construed to fit a man with multiple families, we have no reason to do so since we have been given all the requirements for celestial marriage that apply to everyone.
The truth is we don’t really know. And that’s the point. Just my thoughts.
J. Bayard MyersJune 15, 2021
I loved this article and the comments it has generated. I believe that our Heavenly Mother is "hiding in plain sight"! She (they) is (are) revealed to us via the gift of the Holy Ghost!
Think of one of the Holy Ghost's main roles: that of a witness of both the Father and the Son. Only a wife and a mother knows for sure who the father of her son is, and of course, a mother is uniquely qualified to identify her own son.
If there were ever a perfect representative of the Divine Feminine, she is the Holy Ghost!
(And there may be more than one: even the word "feminine" contains the number "9", an important number in history.)
Maryann TaylorJune 15, 2021
I attended a class on the subject of repentance at BYU education week years ago. The teacher stated that his class would be one of the least attended, and this article beautifully explains why. Repentance is often associated ONLY with deep shame, humiliation, failures and hopelessness. I appreciate the reminders in this article that Repentance is FIRST about our relationship with our loving Savior, and trusting that He will enable us through His own power and grace to repent and become more like Him.
David DurfeeJune 15, 2021
In the Church, we know that things will never change -- until they do. And arguing that something won't change is just as creepy as arguing that it will. I think the best bet is to follow with all our heart a living Prophet and what he says today and not give in to a desire to speculate about what he may or may not say tomorrow.
Randall M SmithJune 15, 2021
I am very intrigued with the idea of multiple Mothers-In-Heaven. The Dispensation of the Fulness of Times is the dispensation in which all things (all gospel principles) will be restored. Polygamy is no doubt the most controversial principle to be part of this dispensation. It seems to have done more harm than good in gathering Israel. But Heavenly Father insisted that it be part of this dispensation, albeit temporarily. I feel it was needed to teach us about the fulness of exaltation - our own ability to create and populate worlds without end. When God authorized polygamy at various times throughout history, it was for the purpose of raising righteous seed unto Him. Likewise, I believe that polygamy is necessary to birth innumerable spirit children to 'fill the measure of creation', worlds without end.
Camille CornabyJune 15, 2021
I really appreciate all that you have expressed. I know there is an ongoing restoration and that we will shortly learn so much more. I have also learned much my own self on this subject. I have been given insight, revelation, and at least four of my priesthood blessings mention Heavenly Mother and her role in my life. This knowledge is very sacred to me.
I know there is much we can know if we ask in faith and are willing to receive.
Harold RustJune 15, 2021
This series of articles is particularly uplifting by raising important questions, offering possible explanations, emphasizing those few fundamental truths we do know, and then reminding us of what we probably will not know or comprehend while still in a mortal state. We have a natural desire to describe all heavenly relationships in terms and interconnections we experience here on earth; however, there will certainly be a fourth dimension--and maybe a fifth and a sixth--that will seem very natural then but is completely invisible to us now in this state. Somewhat akin to imaginary numbers which really are "real".....but only when viewed from that additional dimension.
All in all, a very rewarding series dealing with sacred gifts within the doctrine of Christ's restored Church.
Joan HayesJune 15, 2021
The questions surrounding "Mother in Heaven" have perplexed me for many years. One conclusion I reached, and satisfies me, is we don't talk much about "Mother in Heaven" because there are Many. We know in the Celestial Kingdom, Polygamy will be practiced. Why would God ask us to practice a principle that He does not live? Therefore, we don't simply have a Mother in Heaven, but many Mother's in Heaven! However, this has led to a further question, is there one Mother in Heaven for each world, or many Mothers for each world? I love the scriptures, but they can cause many thoughtful years of questions that have no answers. It's simply about Fatih and Obedience.
Been ThereJune 15, 2021
With what little that we know of this story, it appears that the wife is so wrapped up with her thoughts and feelings that she may be totally unaware of HIS thoughts and feelings. She needs to get to the point that they can both share thoughts and feelings and needs and feel as if the other heard them. Then they can work on meeting their shared needs. She may need a therapist to help her sort out and examine her thoughts, but it would be a worthwhile journey for her.
Pete Pasquali IVJune 15, 2021
My guess is that she actually has much to do with the heavenly realm and not so much this one. I also suppose that Heavenly Father hasn't spoken about her very much to us because we already take his name in vain - and he doesn't want his children disrespecting our Heavenly mother in that fashion.
John R CarpenterJune 15, 2021
“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
“But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.”
James 1:5–6
Like the Pharisees of old, men argued that faith must be like case law. One ruling influences other judgements until case by case conforms to the wishes of men.
Modern Pharisees ought to “render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s.” Mark 12
ShaunaJune 15, 2021
Thank you for this sound analysis. Race and sexuality cannot be conflated. I guess it would be instructive for all of us to ask "Am I listening to what the prophet says in revealing the Lord's will, or am I just waiting for the Lord to change His will via His prophet?" We live in a society that has become dangerously enamored of controlling things through "crowds," crowd funding, viral posts etc and seem to expect that the Lord can be controlled the same way. As President Nelson says, we need to learn how to 'hear HIm," and stop listening so closely to the voices of the world.
Trinity OlsenJune 15, 2021
Doesn’t it stand to reason that since we, should we attain the highest glory of the celestial kingdom and become gods and goddesses of our own world, would also be expected to live the celestial law of plural marriage? And would it not also stand to reason that if we are created in the image of our godly parents, one woman alone would have a difficult time populating said world in a timely manner being the only woman? It would literally take forever. God would not give us an eternal law if He himself were not living it. So while we may all have the same Heavenly Father, we do not all share the same Heavenly Mother. Yes, thousands upon thousands of us do, but not all of us. My Heavenly Mother is more than likely not the same as yours. One woman would not be appearing to us all as our shared Father does.
LexaGraemeJune 15, 2021
Three things.
First, Utah was not the first state or territory in the United States to give women the vote; Wyoming was. https://constitutioncenter.org/timeline/html/cw08_12159.html
Second, Another theory. Maybe there is more than one Heavenly Mother.
Third, “day” is *not* capitalized in “The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints”. https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/style-guide
There is/was a church with “Day” capitalized—it was an offshoot sect informally known as the Strangites.
Thank you for the article; I add my bits in the hope that it will help future articles.
MaureenJune 15, 2021
As always, your thoughtful, thought-provoking insights are appreciated and enjoyed (our family used the Joy School curriculum through two generations, too). I couldn't help wanting to add to the flip side of polygamy, too, though. It should be remembered that during the time of the restoration, unaccompanied or unattached women were very limited in their social and economic opportunities. There were apparently more converts among women than men, so the practice of polygamy was often practical as much as spiritual and benefited many. Of course, there were abuses and uncomfortable realities, too, but it certainly wasn't a net negative overall, we can hope.
RexJune 15, 2021
As I have pondered the question of a Heavenly Mother, I have come to the distinct possibility that while we all have a Heavenly Mother, we may not all have the same Heavenly Mother. This would easily explain why she/they have not revealed themselves.
My belief in this scenario is the fact that men can be sealed to more than one woman (e.g., President Nelson and President Oaks).
Mark DonaldsonJune 15, 2021
Though polygamy is often a sore and controversial topic, I have wondered if couples have the freedom to choose whether or not they will live in monogamist or polygamist relationships in eternity. My wife and I have already made the decision that if given the choice, we would choose monogamy. However, if sanctioned by God, certainly there would be no judgement placed on a couple for making the choice to live in eternity in a polygamist relationship. That being the possible case, could it be that there is more than one Mother in Heaven? Nothing wrong with this thought, as it could explain the reason for a singular Mother's name not having been revealed. The full truth and understanding of this topic will be revealed during the Millennium.
I enjoyed this article very much! Particularly the possible definition of churches as those who are family oriented versus those who are not. Insightful!
vickieJune 15, 2021
when i think deeply about my Heavenly Mother, i realize a few things. since she is in heaven with Her Husband our Father...she is part of the Godhead. i remember being told that when we die and when the Savior comes back and those of us who are resurected shall be part of the Godhead with our husbands. so to me our Heavenly Mother is part of the God head but as far as what he job is i dont know because we havent been taught and God has chosen for us not to know everything yet...
Camille McCauslandJune 15, 2021
Thank you so much for this insightful and thoughtful article! Your granddaughter is very blessed to have a grandfather who is willing to take the time to ponder such a deep question and give such a measured and thought-filled response. Your answer to her has blessed us all.
Lexie StatonJune 15, 2021
Thank you for that wonderful story. It helps me to remember that even when it feels like Heavenly Father isn't aware of what is going on with us personally, He always is. This is a great story of faith and how it can affect generations.
Jim WinebrennerJune 14, 2021
Truly great article!!
Thank you for publishing this!!
We deeply, desperately need more people like Ben Shapiro and Candace Owens. We seriously, desperately need people in the Church (of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) to stand up like them, and make a clear difference in no uncertain terms.
Jim WinebrennerJune 14, 2021
While I understand the apparent superiority of always taking a loving, gentle approach, I cannot understand how to deal with people such as Becerra, that refuse truth, common sense, logic, or any other basis for actual reasoning.
Obvious even in the exchange provided in the article (Thank you very much for the article, by the way!), is the fact that he has not even the slightest willingness to reason through it in the first place. He simply evades the questions about the text that he has ostensibly written himself. Even if he did not write it himself, there's clearly no need to review anything prior to answering the intelligent questions posed by the Senator James Lankford.
While we are commanded to respect the position, it is surely impossible to respect a lot of the individuals that hold those positions today. It's high time that we all stand up and say, "NO MORE!!! Take back common sense and truth; throw out the lies and ludicrous stupidity!!!"
We cannot just keep thinking that anything so idiotic as this surely cannot continue. It WILL continue until we stop it.
Patty BrightJune 14, 2021
Thank you for sharing Mjones. I get what you are saying.
MjonesJune 14, 2021
I have endured many difficult things in my life including making the decision to remove my 2 year old daughter from life support and then hold her while she took her last breath and that wasn’t even the most difficult thing I have done. While this article does a good job of discussing solutions for normal anxiety it lacks understanding of pathological anxiety. Of all the challenges I have dealt with in my life the anxiety and panic attacks that hit me after the death of my daughter have been the worst. Even though I have battled depression for most of my life, I never understood how someone could consider suicide until I had chronic panic attacks. The hardest thing about anxiety is the way it comes on you for no reason leaving you feeling totally out of control in addition to the feelings of panic. My attacks would wake me from a sound sleep. What people need to understand is that’s these severe anxiety issues are largely from physical causes just like most diseases. If we put koolaid in our cars we wouldn’t expect them to work well. Considering how much more complex the brain and human biology are than a motor we shouldn’t be surprised when children raised on a processed food diet don’t have properly functioning brains. The human mind and spirit are indomitable by nature. If we give our children a healthy unprocessed diet along with a loving spiritual home anxiety would largely be a nonissue. Changing my diet was key to my own recovery from chronic anxiety.
John R CarpenterJune 14, 2021
Good article!
I found the FamilySearch wiki article on Reunions helpful also. See: https://www.familysearch.org/wiki/en/Family_Reunions
Julie archerJune 14, 2021
This is wonderful refreshing truth. Thank you for writing this article.
Tanya NeiderJune 14, 2021
Thank you, Marilynne. I love the analogy and the simple, yet direct counsel.
MaureenJune 14, 2021
Is it recorded anywhere what is supposed to have happened to the stone box and flat-bottomed boulder cover where the plates and other items were held? Surely by now these have been located. Will there be a trail and marker to this location, as well?
Rawlen RawlinsJune 14, 2021
An important truth that needs to be exposed is there is no such thing as race. Biologically we are all the same race; the Human race. Race as discussed here is strictly a social construction. In Ibram Kendi’s book “How to be an Antiracist” he acknowledges this but then goes on to say that that biology doesn’t matter. It does matter! There is no race so the term should be dropped. The CRT is built on totally false premise. What it is about is the social structure of our society. We must not stick our heads in the sand, our society has prejudice and unfair policies. What needs to be done is remove the term race and replace it with correct term bigotry no matter what their skin color. If our skin color was all the same this battle would still rage on because the “the natural human” wants rule over others. CRT should be replaced with Critical Bigotry Theory, CBT and stop claiming there is a some innate difference between all of us. We are all the same, the human race, God’s children trying to all get along.
Ronald BarnesJune 14, 2021
Perfect timing. This coming Saturday will be my mother’s family reunion. This has been happening for about 50 years. Only two of her sisters survive from her generation. All of my siblings will all be there this year from up to 2,000 miles away. As a surprise to them, I have compiled what I can remember from our father’s war stories and have assembled them into a booklet. Each of them will get a copy.
BertieJune 14, 2021
It doesn't change the fact that there are places where racism happens and goes unchecked. These aren't subtle, benign, and ambiguous like "Where are you from?" Or "What's that you're eating?" But are instead specific and persistent moments like the ones detailed in the NBC article from members of this community. How would you respond if your children were at the recieving end of those experiences? Shut down whatever harmful "ideologies" you see running contrary to belief, but don't ignore the legitimate hurt and actual racism that is occurring, and if you don’t like how they proposed to address those instances of racism, that's fine. But let's talk about other ways.
Walden BarneyJune 13, 2021
Hello - I make this comment hoping that perhaps bro. Daniel C. Peterson will run across it, and might take note. Some time back, I read somewhere that that at present there are now more Spanish speaking members of the church than English speaking members. If this is true, and knowing that a substantial portion of those Spanish speaking members are, as we currently understand things, also descendants of the Book of Mormon peoples, I would like to admonish brother Peterson and the others involved in this project to consider also working on making a version of this movie (and any future ones as well) available in Spanish! I have numerous friends from Mexico and other parts of the Hispanic/latin american world who I would dearly love to be able to share this with, but all I can do is comment to them about it; most of them aren't fluent in English, and at present are therefore unable to truly experience this for themselves! We need a version done in Spanish voice! I hope you will consider doing this!
Thanks for considering it....
Walden Barney
(currently residing in the Salt Lake City area)
Tora Sue KniselyJune 13, 2021
I find it offensive to remove the word Mother in reference to those who have the ability to give birth.It is an offence to ALL mothers by not using the word Mother. Can men give birth? Their plumbing is different from women's for good reason.
Blake GarsideJune 13, 2021
Along with the Rawson's (Richard and Carol) we saw the Witnesses in our local Harkings theatre here in Gilbert this week. We joined many in the theatre clapping at the conclusion. Very well done Dan !! The actors did a great job, especially with Joseph Smith. My favorite part of the movie is at the end when Martin Harris said, "It is enough" after receiving confirmation he was loved by the Lord."
NOW, what's next? You can't stop now, bring us more light and truth!!
TMJune 13, 2021
No, nothing like this is being implemented at BYU-Idaho.
Bera SautuJune 12, 2021
What an Inspiring story of courage!
Viola Joyce MilesJune 12, 2021
As a mother who could not "give Birth" to my four adopted children, I have found this change in wording very offensive.... Joyce
George WingJune 12, 2021
I certainly appreciated your efforts in helping us understand the blessings and energy needed for repentance to be practiced for our personal relief. One of the "R"s was titled "Recite" or confess to our Heavently Father and to those who have been affected. . .
From my former days as serving as a "judge in Israel", I recalled that one of the more challenging of the necessities of repenting was the encouragement to confess (recite) our sins to those we have wronged.
One particular challenging admonishment was to a young man who committed adultery with a member of his extended family. His wife knew nothing of this encounter. You can only imagine the ramifications that might occur with the acknowledgement of this sin and the expectation that "reciting" the sin to ones most offended by this transgression would not be done without trepidation.
I have often reflected on the counsel I gave to this repented sinner and occasionally wonder why I don’t hear more about the requirement to confess (recite) our sins to those we have affected.
By making other people aware of our weaknesses we can add their assistance in helping us understand how to be on guard and avoid temptation.
Dave MyersJune 12, 2021
I appreciate the fact that this article identifies specific policies and procedures that are undesirable or potentially harmful. That is fair and helpful. But it also falls into the trap of generalizing and using labels to discredit an entire movement that has elements that are also fair and helpful. Labels like Marxist, Woke, Socialist, Cancel Culture, Critical Race Theory, etc. carry such bias that they can lead to book burning or throwing the baby out with the bath water. I think we're better off sticking to ideas for discussion instead of name-calling. For example, my American History class textbooks (many years ago) were written by and are mainly from the perspective of the winners (white northern European men) - nothing from the perspective of Native Americans or slaves or Chinese railroad workers or southern European explorers, etc., and very little about women. That's just plain incomplete. Let's start with things both sides can agree on, avoid the labels, and try to have a fair, constructive and productive conversation. Let's set an example for our children that we're trying to educate. Give them a chance to be better than we were. They might surprise us with the world they create.
Pamela SmithJune 12, 2021
Many people, even in the Church, confuse the concept of Critical Race Theory (CRT) with basic efforts to decrease racism in our society. They are two very different things. CRT, in reality, promotes racism.
CRT teaches that whites are biologically flawed toward racism, cannot be redeemed, and are responsible for all injustice throughout the world. CRT is an attempt to create MORE divisions in society rather than unite all God’s children.
BYU is NOT “implementing CRT” but is examining their own long-held policies to be certain they are fair to all students.
Raymond Takashi SwensonJune 11, 2021
No disrespect to Paul H, but Moroni's promise is conditional.on the reader actually reading the Book of Mormon, and wanting to know whether it is true or not. Understanding the reality of things the witnesses attested to can motivate people to get on the path so they qualify themselves to hear the still small voice of the Holy Ghost. Including to know that Moroni, the prophet who made that promise, is a real resurrected being who was seen by the Three Witnesses.
Stephanie GJune 11, 2021
This is beyond sense and compassion for all people. What amazes me is that this can happen without the vote of the people, what does democracy mean these days!!
ShirleyJune 11, 2021
1. CRT is trying fix long-standing problems in society but is going about it all wrong, and of course, has its own Marxist agenda. They originally pitted class against class but today it's race against race. 2. Ample documented evidence exists to prove white people have indeed been the oppressors and minorities are still the oppressed. Both sides are now the pawns of Extremist groups at both ends of the spectrum. Visit https://www.americanbar.org/groups/diversity/resources/equal_opportunity/ You don't need to be a member to take the 21-Day Civil Rights Challenge. Also, see https://www.americanbar.org/groups/diversity/resources/equal_opportunity1/ for oppression of Asian and Pacific Islander groups. 3. People are still being "marginalized," even if some of us prefer different terminology. Just ask the LGBTQ+ community, who finally made themselves more visible. 4. If we're going to use less-common words in Comments, let's make sure we're using the correct version of two or more that only sound the same. 5. California has already mandated that CRT now be taught in even the youngest school grades. So "fireworks" are pending if parents truly want to fight it. They'd probably all move to Utah, except that you don't want any of us there!
Robert D StarlingJune 11, 2021
Thank you Maureen VERY much for this excellent "call to arms", and the resource links that you provide. This is a "Captain Moroni" moment in our society, and we must be willing to get out of our comfort zone and enter the fray as Hanna has done. We must hoist our own Title of Liberty in our communities ... "And it came to pass that he rent his coat; and he took a piece thereof, and wrote upon it—In memory of our God, our religion, and freedom, and our peace, our wives, AND OUR CHILDREN —and he fastened it upon the end of a pole.
This is the only way to defeat the "secret combinations" of the Adversary.
Alece ReynoldsJune 11, 2021
This kind of fight needs to be fought at BYU where CRT is being implemented -- under the direction of the President of the University and the rest of the administration. CRT has NO place in the Lord's university! Since it is being implemented there; I wouldn't be surprised if it isn't also being implemented at BYU Idaho and BYU Hawaii!
Jenee LindnerJune 11, 2021
Maurine, Great article and timely. I am adding myself to the mix from Fairfax in an Opinion piece that was published yesterday in the Sun Gazette News. Please feel free to use it here in comments or as a separate article (adjust as necessary). I called it - The Hand That Rocks the Cradle Rules the World. They called it “Parents are the Final Arbiters of Education, no Matter What Leaders of FCPS (Fairfax County Public Schools) Might Believe”
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https://sungazette.news/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/Fairfax-6-10-21.pdf?utm_source=mailpoet&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Weekly+editions+posted
The Hand that Rocks the Cradle Rules the World
In the response to the Opinion piece on “Marxist Propaganda has no place in FCPS” by Ed Wenzel on May 27, the author received a rebuttal on June 3 called “Telling Our Whole History Benefits Everyone” by Tom Carrier. Some points I agreed with, especially teaching the whole story, but some I did not.
I could not help but notice that in the excitement surrounding educating our children, there was no mention of the role of parents, grandparents or other significant people in their young lives. Who is really in charge of their education? Parents! A wise theologian Jeffrey Holland said this recently: We must not pull away from our children. We must keep trying, keep reaching, keep praying, keep listening. We must keep them “within the clasp of our arms.”
Parents need to be involved instead of after the fact. This new racial curriculum has been served on a platter without them knowing what it is really until their children started coming home with assignments or a school administrator announced it. This has been dumped on them in the name of equity. What happened to equality? I am confused.
Concrete examples are much better than slogan’s or catch phrases. Banning classics, introducing concepts before they are maturely ready, only offering one viewpoint, concerns me. And I will go so far to say, the way it has been introduced is a Marxist approach. (They do not believe in the family structure. Running it by parents is not in their vernacular). And yes, I agree, as the rebuttal spoke, bless the children. As we teach the next generation life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, be mindful of the parents.
I personally believe the greatest role in all the world is to be a mother because we are raising the next generation. My world for many years was to get my kids to school every day and to all their activities, homework support, doctor appointments, etc., they needed. I was the chief chauffeur. With a MA in Education from Stanford University to teach history, this was not what I planned for. I remember traffic, task accomplishments and arriving from point A to point B.
My (now, grown) kids see it differently. I was surprised to realize their favorite memories were riding around in the car with me. They remember the journey of going and seeing the world outside in the safety of our car window. No distractions. Living, discussing, and teaching about life lessons was discussed in that moving fortress. Both my husband and I had them listen to books on tape, explained to them “my generation’s music”(my husband was good at that as a trivia Rock and Roll king!) and a hundred other things.
I implore the school board to have conversations with people like me before you decide exactly what needs to be done in such a consequential manner. I am all in for the conversation. Do not dictate to me how to teach race theory to my kids. You say you are an expert, but so am I. I am living it.
We just celebrated the 100th anniversary of the passage of the Women’s Right to Vote. The 19th Amendment would not have been ratified if a Tennessee State Representative, the youngest at 24, named Henry Burn, had not changed his vote in favor of ratification. He was asked why? He stated he received a letter from his widowed mother, one of the most capable women he knew, was in favor. So, he voted.
As he said, “Remember your mother.”
Loran BloodJune 11, 2021
One quibble: no one is presently being "marginalized," and no one has, as a group, for generations. Secondly, please stop using the Left's ideologically weighted meta-language and vocabulary. There is no such thing as a "person of color" as a discreet demographic group. The term is a tautology, like "water of liquid." All of us are "people of color" to one degree or the other.
Its also bad English, but politicized language has little need of such conventions.
TraceyJune 11, 2021
Your first paragraph. Unfortunately while people weren't looking, warning shots were indeed fired across the bow. Those who did so, were called "crazy conspiracy theorists" and all sorts of other names and labels meant to shut them up. This happens both outside and often within and by The Church. When I read about "secret combinations" in one of our most important books of
scripture, I wonder how this can happen. I am dumbfounded by it.
Thank you for a very well written article on one of the most serious issues of these latter days.
James ScottJune 11, 2021
When competent and favorite instructors are being replaced because the school is heading in a new direction it is a sign of the accumulation of power by proletariat wanna bees. An examination of the NEA need to be concluded and their power curtailed by the state legislatures. Let’s reclaim the schools!
Vicki CrumJune 11, 2021
This insanity is being pushed, of course, by Satan. We know this, but there are far too many people willing to go along with it. And those people who play into Satan's hands are liberals aka Democrats. You would never find a conservative or a Republican agreeing with this insidious nonsense. Who you vote for matters. Sadly, the Democrat Party does NOT reflect our Christian values in any way, shape or form. Actions speak louder than words in this, as in everything else. Liberals work for Satan, period.
PaulineJune 11, 2021
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Kathy SandersJune 11, 2021
Thank you Maurine for bringing this great article to us. I appreciate warriors like you in the fight for truth, families, and moral society. Thanks for the links at the bottom. I'm excited to have them. I've been feeling I really need to get involved with the school board and these links will be a great help to do that.
Shep KuesterJune 11, 2021
Silencing opposition and discussion violates the Constitution. Open honest discussions about differences, about similarities, and helping each other to succeed is what this country needs. CRT not only shuts down discussion, it instills fear of expressing an opinion.
Evaluating each other based on skin color will not fix anything. Evaluating each other on character, as espoused by Dr. King, will bring us to a better society.
Many students in inner city schools are failing. If we put more effort into fixing that, we would be on a better path. Education is liberating. A good education leads to better jobs, stable families, and gives the gift of critical comparative thinking. CRT is specifically designed to eliminate all that, instead instilling a Marxist hive mind attitude.
Karen BellistonJune 11, 2021
Thank you for publicizing this governmental change. (Yes, it is ridiculous.) We need to fight this type of action taken by the Left and stand up for what is right.
Allison TullisJune 11, 2021
This just makes me sick to my stomach. The devil is definitely at work here trying to destroy the family but we can’t let him.
Doris WilliamsJune 11, 2021
Geoff's article each week is one that I look forward to. I am simply blown away by his compassionate mountain of knowledge and his insightful, kind way of offering it. Just wish he could be duplicated somehow into thousands to help all the suffering brothers and sisters who profit from his advice and the help he gives us all just to read about it.
JuliannJune 11, 2021
Very good counsel, thank you. I am tactile and love to touch things to feel texture or just discover how an object feels. One day I automatically reached up to feel a friends beard. My son quickly chastised me, “ Mom, you didn’t ask permission. You don’t touch someone without permission”. He was right. I had not meant to be inappropriate, but I was.
CASJune 11, 2021
When I first read this account, my first thought was, "Now they are trying to throw common sense out the window!" This whole notion of dissolving the words Mother, Father, Family, etc. is a leftist movement. It lines right up there with taking, "In God we Trust!" out. We must fight back from this "woke" ideology that is, frankly, insane!
Dana WelchJune 11, 2021
We are not drowning in knowledge, Futurist Alvin Toffler wrote, " We are drowning in information but starved for knowledge." Information has a shelflife. Applied knowledge begets wisdom. Knowledge may be cross-collateralized. Knowledge has permanent value, to one degree or another. Moreover, present knowledge may be transcended.
LincolnJune 11, 2021
I have met Ms Smith once or twice, and I am generally familiar with her professional accomplishments. She is a national treasure. Texas should thank it’s lucky Lone Star that she moved there — and just in time, too. I do not know where she gets the energy to accomplish her daily tasks, but I thank her and her family for making it all possible.
CASJune 11, 2021
I hope this is one of MANY articles on the extreme dangers of implementing CRT (Critical Race Theory) in our schools, businesses, and society. This is wholly a movement to divide and pit one race against the other and divide families. It's Marxist in fact! The more articles we can have like this one to educate people the better!
ShayJune 11, 2021
What a wonderful article and model for so many of us parents who are simply aghast at what is happening in our schools. Thank you for these resources at the end.
StephanieJune 11, 2021
Amazing. Hannah was a person who was in the right place at the right time. Please keep up the good fight the country depends on men and women like Hannah.
Paul HJune 11, 2021
"We care if there were witnesses" because we live in a secular world where proofs are critical to resolving important questions. Regarding the Book of Mormon, the strongest witness we can have, however, is from God. The Lord said in the Doctrine and Covenants that the Book of Mormon is true. (See D & C 17:6.) The Book of Mormon itself invites the reader to ask God if it is true. (See Moroni 10:4.) I have never heard a single person testify that they knew the Book of Mormon was true because of their reading of the written accounts from either the Three Witnesses or the Eight Witnesses, as important as their written testimonies are, because a greater witness no one can have than from God. (See D & C 6:23.) Church History is fascinating; it perks interest for certain, both positive and unfortunately also negative at times, but the strongest witness is from God through the Holy Ghost. That is the rock of revelation that is unique to the Restoration and sets it distinctly apart from secular scholarship.
ChrisJune 10, 2021
Don't miss the point of the article...repentance is about relationship with the Savior...a way of life and an attitude of self awareness, introspection, honesty, and humility. We're asked to "become a new creature"...to become as a little child, and to experience a change of heart.
It's not a four step one-and-done event...it's a life long process to develop a real partnership with Jesus.
Great article!
Kenny MazzantiJune 10, 2021
My wife and I have had a very "successful" 52 years of marriage. We share all of the blessings and benefits of that relationship. We don't have any separate bank accounts, vehicles or home ownership. Our names are both on everything we own. We have equal access to everything. However, I do not want to be "equally yoked" with her. That analogy is troubling to me. I really don't want my dear wife to have to shoulder some of the burdens, problems, troubles and difficulties of mortality that I may be able to spare her of bearing if it is at all possible. I have capabilities that she simply does not have just like I do not have the motherly nurturing capabilities that she uniquely possesses in our relationship. Her artistic talents are something I envy because mine are absent. I can cook but she creates. I have tried to be a good dad, but that does not make me a good mom. The jobs are different. God created men and women for a reason. We are different. We are not the same. I do not want to be equally burdened with her. I want to carry as much of the "load" as possible so that she does not have to. I believe that is a reflection of how much I cherish her. So, this whole modernistic approach of men and women being the same is a falsehood that undermines the true elevated nature of men and women, and their role in life and marriage, not only now, but in the eternities. So, I am not going to concern myself with Heavenly Mother(s), her/their job descriptions or how they fit into the big picture. When I am "promoted" from mortality to the spirit world and eventually to a resurrected being one day, they can let me know what I need to know about her/them in that stage of my progression. In the mean time, I will continue to enjoy mortality with my beloved wife.
CASJune 10, 2021
Thank you, Carolyn! This information is timely and helpful...ONLY if we heed it and prepare!
CASJune 10, 2021
We have seen the film, "Witnesses!" It was indeed wonderful and very moving! We loved the choice of actors, especially Joseph Smith and Martin Harris. They were outstanding and very believable, especially Joseph. This is no glossed-over account! Its profound message has stayed with me for days! It follows Church History quite accurately. The photography is gorgeous! Thanks to all who made this film possible. We, as members of the Church, need to support this film! I have spread the word to all my family and friends!
Mary Ann KershisnikJune 10, 2021
I loved the beautiful movie, and appreciate your fine work!
Nina EJune 10, 2021
Cheering you on Chelsea!! Grateful for your courage to stand up for this fight.
Starlyn PetersonJune 10, 2021
I appreciated the many insightful thoughts expressed in this article. I find it difficult to know correct boundaries in discussing Her openly. I look to our leaders' examples and since they have not frequently spoken outwardly about our Heavenly Mother, I feel it is wise to follow that pattern. If and when that pattern changes I will excitedly go along with it. But for now, it does not stop me from thinking about Her and acknowledging in my mind that She is as constantly aware of me--loving, guiding, and helping me--as my Heavenly Father is. I am only comfortable praying directly to God, our Eternal Father. I address Him in prayer as my Heavenly Father. I feel strongly that we need to carefully and intentionally follow the pattern of prayer established by our Savior by praying only and directly to our Father alone, both in the verbal words we choose to address Him by, and in our thought processes while we are praying. If Heavenly Father wanted it otherwise I believe He would have included our Mother in Joseph Smith's First Vision. She knows of our prayers without a doubt. Those are just my personal feelings. Thank you so much for your thoughts!
Reuben DietzJune 10, 2021
I’m listening and received a direct answer from the spirit…
Newell HarwardJune 10, 2021
We saw the film. Very well done. I plan to see it again. So much packed in an hour or so. Need to see several times to fully appreciate its significance.
Thank you for making these historical events available for the public.
Timothy D. JohnsonJune 10, 2021
This good sister is right. The prophets have spoken and the words of the Lord will be fulfilled.
Do everything that you can to prepare. Even if you can only affordto buy a few extra cans of food each time you go to the store. Do all this you can as quickly as you can.
I have purposely kept canned good for years to see how long they would last in the Phoenix area when kept in temperatures realistic for an average house with air conditioning.
I am using canned chicken and beef stored since 2010 and upon opening it, it looks brand new and tastes perfect. Canned chili does very well also with an eight year plus life. Canned potatoes and corn last for several years also.
But do not worry about long term items at this time. Work on your three month supply of things that you use on a daily basis. The Lord is being very merciful to His children who heed His voice by shortening the days for the elects sake.
Do not forget you longer term storage once you have that three months supply built up. Food first then every other needful thing as mentioned in the above article.
Do not let anyone deceive you by saying to concentrate on the spiritual first, that food storage is temporal. In D&C 29:34, the Lord states the He has never given a command that is temporal.
Again, fellow Saints, do not delay in obedience to this commandment! You want to be among the wise virgins as illustrated in the Lord's parable.
Mary ScannellJune 10, 2021
Really loving this series! I will say that it makes absolutely no sense to only be "allowed" to pray to one heavenly parent. This is not directed at the author, just stating the obvious. At least, it really feels like it should be obvious. I like the idea of addressing our prayers to "God in Heaven" or something along those lines to take in both of our Heavenly Parents.
Duane BoyceJune 10, 2021
The film is both cinematically and spiritually stupendous. It is a highly significant and impressive accomplishment, and everyone who sees it will love it. I believe "Witnesses" is a genuine "must-see" for all Latter-day Saints and I fervently hope that many others will see it as well. Don't miss it!
DianeJune 10, 2021
LOVE this! It is so true! Thank you.
tfJune 10, 2021
I suspect, after the last vacation together, a jealous ex-wife said "no more", if you see him and your (blank step mother again) you're out of here. (Home, support, me). and he made a choice.
Jim WinebrennerJune 9, 2021
People need simply to stop pretending that living beings have "gender" in the first place. Sex is the word to refer to your being either male or female, every individual is either one or the other, and certainly not as a result of their own choice.
There is no such thing as a "trans" woman or a "trans" man. There are only men and women, in spite of the tragically unfortunate fact that some men and women like to pretend they are the other.
Everyone needs to stop patronizing the confusion.
Jim WinebrennerJune 9, 2021
Thank you very much for such an insightful article, and perspective on several points. One of the points I personally appreciate in particular is the point (you implied without stating directly) you cannot achieve a better balance by indulging the opposite extreme for a time. I speak of course, in reference to the idea of focusing on Heavenly Mother to make up for lost time of focus on Her.
When mortal beings discover that they've been indulging an extreme, they too often want to attempt a balance by indulging the opposite extreme. Of course, it may turn out all right in the end, if, like a pendulum, they gradually stop being quite as extreme in either direction until they finally settle in the middle with the actual, proper balance.
It would make more sense though, simply to focus immediately and always on the actual balance, or in other words to stop swinging from extreme to extreme and instead follow the divine guidance, "Be still."
Valiant JonesJune 9, 2021
The rest of the class would not have come to Trevor's aid if he had not allowed you to share part of his story. For me, the key lesson here is the value in being vulnerable enough to share our personal challenges. That openness blesses others others with empathy, kindness, and understanding. Everyone benefits.
H NorthJune 9, 2021
One cannot claim to worship God and yet, promote what God condemns and calls an abomination.
“If God doesn’t judge America, he owes Sodom and Gomorrah an apology.” – Ruth (Bell) Graham, the wife of Rev. Billy Graham
DeniseJune 9, 2021
This touched my heart, and I shed tears. Another poignant reminder of the importance to not judge. Perhaps this will encourage us all, not only not to be so quick to judge, but to seek the spirit to guide us as we look for opportunities to gently inquire and possibly help our wounded and struggling brother and sisters. Thank you for sharing.
JulieJune 9, 2021
I have often thought that what we refer to as the "steps" of repentance should be more accurately called the "fruits" of repentance.
Charles McClellandJune 9, 2021
Thanks, Daris, for this touching story about how we need to be less judgmental. I will try to be more empathic today.
Becky DouglasJune 9, 2021
Dear Doris, thanks for pointing out the typo in our address. The correct address is www.RisingStarOutreach.org. A special thanks for your willingness to help!
Arlo H JuddJune 9, 2021
"God moves in Mysterious Ways, His Wonders to Perform''
From your picture, I would guess that Chandler is now married to a beautiful lady.. Sometimes we don't know when our ancestors or familyon Paradise, are hoping the spirits of our loved ones would return to be with them..
Gary StrobleJune 8, 2021
Nice article, but it is mischaracterized as breaking news. Repentance and the Atonement are not new.
Lee ArscottJune 8, 2021
We have a very similar situation in our family. I love this estranged family member deeply. To not have this person active in our family circle leaves a tremendous gaping hole. We pray every day for this person to have a softening of the heart and the courage to reach out to our family again. And of course, we pray for his protection. We love and miss this family member dearly
Erik HansenJune 8, 2021
I like "repugnant". I'm anxiously awaiting the day I can say to myself, "I now find any type of sin repugnant no matter how much I loved it." - and then say that to The Lord. What a joyous day that will be! Currently I just seek to have “...virtue garnish my thoughts unceasingly.” And that’s hard enough!
Erik HansenJune 8, 2021
How long before our country experiences such things? When the times of the Gentiles are fulfilled. Our leadership is currently not turning out too well. The majority of our Christians in our leading nation are losing their Christianity. The work of missionaries is slow to convert Evangelicals who are the majority. Violence is on the lips of the Christians. D. & C. 49: 30-33 That "overflowing scourge... desolating sickness" is coming in some form as this Nation, that leads the world, becomes crippled Christians. Much of it is about the worship of politics and men who want power just like in the BOM. Then we are done AND WE WILL HAVE TO START PRACTICALLY FROM SCRATCH TO BUILD THE CITIES OF ZION. Christ Himself is the only power to create a safe society. Are we worthy yet? Or do we need to become sicker first?
David and CarolineJune 8, 2021
We do agree with this article. The only R of repentance we really need to know is that it is REDEMPTIVE!
Wayne LarsenJune 8, 2021
Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.
GJune 8, 2021
Thank you for sharing this beautiful, miraculous story which is so close to your heart. Praise God for the healing that He so liberally gives to us!
Jean ShifrinJune 8, 2021
Wow, thanks Becky for sharing this information. I knew Covid would be devastating for India, but you really put the situation into perspective - especially how it affects the leprosy colonies.This is not news we will get from regular media. The work that you and others at RSO are doing to help the people in the colonies is incredible. Thanks for sharing this story and for all you and RSO are doing. I'm going to hit 'Donate' now...
Gerrit SmithJune 8, 2021
A very touching story of God's tender mercies.
The rest of the story...what about Chandler and his medical problem? How is he doing?
Marie AndersonJune 8, 2021
Oh my Scot….we are cousins! It's that whole 6 degrees of separation thing, that in the church is like two! The story you related about your grandfather and swimming in the Gulf of Mexico really touched me. Imagine my surprise and delight when you mentioned your grandmother’s name…Martha Holbrook. I am a direct descendant of Joseph Holbrook from his first wife Nancy and their first child Sara Lucretia….and, if I am following the genealogy correctly, your grandmother was josephs granddaughter from his third wife Caroline Frances Angell. I have been pouring over Joseph’s journal and aligning it with what we are reading in D&C so he has been ever present in my mind of late. I have been a listener of your podcasts since the New Testament series and I very much enjoy yours and Maureens insights and thoughts and stories. I wish I could join one of your tours….I think it would be a tremendous experience. Thank you for all that you do and share! Sincerely Marie Anderson williamsburg va
Boanerge RubalcavaJune 8, 2021
This article is very good dealing with the great importance of our Lord Jesus Christ in our lives. However, I 'd like to call your attention to the 4th Article of Faith of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints that dealing with the first principles and ordinances of the Church summarizes it as follows: 1. Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, 2. Repentance, 3. Baptism (meaning forgiveness thru the atonement of the Lord) and 4, The Gift of the Holy Ghost. The author, I think trying to emphasize the atonement, deals with the way that many people use to help themselves with the second principle, repentance, using the 4 Rs: 1. Recognize 2. Remorse, 3. Resolution to NOT repeat the same wrongdoing, and 4. Restitution (as far as it is possible) or with some other variants but with the same meaning, that the author tried to dismiss with 67 additional Rs. As I said many people use these Rs o maybe 100 others to help themselves to really repent, but it is important to note that FAITH in the Lord Jesus comes first, then a true and complete
repentance in order to be forgiven of the wrongdoing through the atonement of the Lord to be ready to have the companionship of the Holy Ghost. This can happen many times in our lives, as a matter of fact we have this opportunity to exercise (after baptism) the whole circle (Faith, Repentance, Forgiveness and the Holy Ghost) at least once a week by partaking of the bread and water. I believe that all of us do these circle trying to convert it in a spiral to gain more and more faith every week until we achieve the goal to have a "perfect faith in the Holy One of Israel". As I said, repeating the mention that the author did from Elder Christofferson's, of using the 4 Rs, is a way for many to help with the wonderful principle of repentance; but we have to repeat that repentance is not an easy principle to comply with, and using this or any other method to help ourselves is valid if the person is trying the many Rs the author is (wrongly) adding, but that must have the same meaning than the one expressed above, when that person has real intent. Remember that the Lord himself told the woman caught in sin, "go and SIN NO MORE"; He knew that she needed to repent (sin no more, i.e. [R]esolution) for the atonement to take effect in her life to be forgiven and later on receive the companionship of the Holy Ghost. To dismiss this way of achieving Repentance is NOT fair for those who are truly trying to repent, and to add 67 Rs without really taking seriously that the person(s) is sincere in his desire to receive forgiveness I think is tremendously incorrect.
LewisJune 8, 2021
It is to my mind another sign of the times in which we live. I think Moroni truly saw our day, and described the tumult and turmoil we are experiencing. It calls upon all of us to give and serve. I am grateful for all you are doing and the example you are setting, and hope it inspires each of us to find ways to help our brothers and sisters, wherever they may be.
Nikki SlavenJune 8, 2021
Thank you, Carolyn, for your very insightful article about the role that vitamin D can and should play in our lives! We could conclude that vitamin D is essential to life and health. Perhaps you covered this aspect of vitamin D, but if not, here is something else very important to know. This comes from a government site, but many alternative health sites concur. ABSTRACT: Evidence from observational studies is accumulating, suggesting that the majority of deaths due to SARS-CoV-2 infections are statistically attributable to vitamin D insufficiency and could potentially be prevented by vitamin D supplementation [...]. (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33260798/)
GTOJune 8, 2021
I bawled all the way through this and can't stop. I learned long ago to wear waterproof makeup. It served me well today. What a precious, positive outcome. Thank you for sharing this miraculous journey.
Mandy KimballJune 8, 2021
Laura- what an amazing (and horrific) journey to go on! Such a blessing to receive those dreams and understand how the Lord knows you, your family, and your every situation. Even to the tiny detail of losing the blood results! Thank you for sharing this with us. Truly amazing!
Kay RookhuyzenJune 8, 2021
We viewed this movie just last night and I give it 5 stars. It was moving, it was well-acted, cinematography was outstanding! Obviously the topic was special to me and I know these were true.
Amanda PerkinsJune 8, 2021
Thank you Proctors! We loved meeting you, and felt there are no coincidences in us filming just at that time when you were on your morning walk! Naomi's guitar teacher is always asking her what she wants to learn next, and at times I've made suggestions. Naomi came to me, and said how the Anne LeBlanc cover of JJ Heller's Your Hands was what she wanted to learn. It spoke to her, and When I heard JJ Heller have a beautiful harmony added, I asked Christian Covers Official if they would like to do another sister/missionary duet (Josh Sales had filmed The Affleck Family singing I'm Trying To Be Like Jesus with their missionary). Then my son got to return to Cote d'Ivoire so her friend Jacob from RUCC stepped in beautifully! Check out all the other uplifting songs Christian Covers Official has produced and subscribe! We are very grateful to them, and all the other helpers in making this video happen!
Doris WilliamsJune 8, 2021
When you click on the Rising Star outreach in this article (to donate), the site can't be reached and I think it is because there is a comma instead of a period in their website. I will type their name in with Google as I want to help. It's just agonizing to know of their intense suffering.
Janie BrayJune 8, 2021
Oh my goodness. Such a miracle. Tears as I was reading this. Thanks for sharing. In spite of the challenges in our lives, this story proves that our Heavenly Father loves us and is aware of us
C. WeissJune 8, 2021
I went last night with my wife and teenage daughter. Everyone was affected by the strength of the story. It was very well done. The acting was strong, but not over the top as in some church based films. It really shows some of the struggles of the 3 witnesses and what they were confronted with in the infancy stage of the Church. I truly respect and honor their testimonies and the integrity with which they kept their covenant to be witnesses. It inspires me to strive to stand as a better witness myself. Beautifully shot and directed.
GeneseeJune 8, 2021
My husband and I saw Witnesses and loved it! The movie had me teary many times! I am sorry to hear about the reviews on rotten tomatoes and the no doubt false ratings. I am not one to go off of other peoples ratings of movies. I review them for myself. Thank you for making Witnesses! I learned a few things I didn’t know!
Steve DoneganJune 8, 2021
I’ve always said I am too lazy. Working towards repentance takes too much effort. So what do I do? Just not sin...
Patty BrightJune 7, 2021
Thank you for sharing this marvelous true story.
Meridene LindseyJune 7, 2021
Incredible movie—Transported us to the time & place & people in a very moving experience. Not to be missed ! You will leave the theater understanding & having compassion for these incredible men & their wives & will be inspired by their faith & courage.
JordynJune 7, 2021
This is absolutely beautiful! It brought me to tears. I need to read more stories like this as they boost my faith and inspire. I truly believe there are more miracles taking place around us than we even remotely realize, and if we share them when prompted, we will be filling our world with even more light, faith, joy and peace.
PeggyJune 7, 2021
Thank you for sharing your beautiful, tender mercies and healing. We don't always get healing, but it is wonderful when some do. The Lord loves us all, and has different plans for each of His children.
MimiJune 7, 2021
I appreciated reading your article and am glad you want to start a dialogue about this issue. I think just realizing we all need to do better when it comes to race is a start. I think it is important to acknowledge their pain. (Mourn with and comfort) Self reflection in ways that oneself may be prejudice, for example, do I automatically dismiss their anger, do I think about what it would be like to walk in their shoes? Read and study black history. I remember listening to a black professor speak about how negro spiritual music came from the sadness in their souls but also expressed their hope in the resurrection.
Throughout history increased racism seems to go in cycles. For example, even though I didn't vote for Obama, when he was elected, I felt like it sent a message to the world that race wasn't an issue in our nation. It gave many minorities hope
to be able to serve in higher positions.
Unfortunately, we have had a setback and more people feel comfortable with expressing racist sentiments. For me it has been a wake up call. I worry that too many members feel they are the chosen ones and look down on minorities. My mother in-law acknowledged that while growing up in the 50s it was just understood that blacks were second class and that is the way it was. She knows that is wrong now. We even see racism in the Book of Mormon. I think it is part of the natural man that we will always have to fight.
Critical Race theory is just that, a theory, and I believe it should be studied in higher education. As a school teacher I have never been urged to discuss theories with my students. We need to stop making excuses and follow Christ's teachings to love one another. It should be that simple.
Kent LarsonJune 7, 2021
Daniel, you need to read Galatians 4:16
Becky DouglasJune 7, 2021
Dear Laura, Thank you for sharing this beautiful story with us! I'm so happy for your whole family for the tender mercies granted by God for both Chandler and Canyon. Thanks for sharing your family's picture. So beautiful! Becky Douglas
Douglas ThompsonJune 7, 2021
Unfortunately, there are people out there that are truly negative. You can find them in all industries (I'm in hospitality) and I have found that what they post says MUCH more about themselves than about the item they are reviewing. Keys for discerning folk would be if the review is balanced. One can ALWAYS find good/bad in anything. Another key would be timing - as you said, it's not likely that a number of people independently "Dis" you at the same time (I've had reviews of 1 out of 10 but they can't back up allegations and I can legally prove reasons why they are 86'd from my establishment). These "very bad" reviews usually come from folk looking for a free stay - and you can find them here and there among numerous reviews with a "10" rating and other balanced reviews listing real problems that can be addressed - compliments - and additional suggestions which they feel may be beneficial to the business (these reviews are usually in the 6-9 range). While I have not yet seen "Witnesses", I now have it on my radar for a viewing in the near future.
Don't let the haters get you down.
Kay YeamanJune 7, 2021
Enjoyed your article, but the general premise is wrong right off the bat. You and I might be interested in unity and reconciliation, but the proponents of CRT are not. Just a cursory glance shows that CRT is about anger, bitterness and revenge. Even supporters of Martin Luther King are derided. CRT can only further the divide and bring about more hatred and mistrust - not less. The fact the BYU professors couldn't add there names for fear of retribution tells us all we need to know. How red do the flags need to be? Call me simple minded, but wouldn't encouraging an environment of acceptance and mutual respect be much more positive?
Earlene McDonaldJune 7, 2021
I cried my way through this story. Our son had a similar experience and it was like reliving it. If this disease doesn't strike before age 8 it occurs between 12 and 14. Our youngest son was 13 and had several symptoms. It too was a nightmare until that final test eliminated adrenoleukodystrophy. We too were so blessed to have priesthoood blessings and a path opening up to find what was causing his problems. He is in his 40's now, excelling at a good job and is the father of two wonderful children. Jesus is so good and so generous with his blessings!
DianeJune 7, 2021
Wow, just wow! What a beautiful story of God’s love and grace! Of course, not everyone is healed, but we know our loving Father is aware of each of us.
Sherry BrownJune 7, 2021
We saw the movie on Saturday. It was well worth the 2 hour drive to the nearest movie theater. I'd go see it again tomorrow...
DarylJune 7, 2021
Any parent in this situation should humbly search their own soul to see if there is something they might have done to trigger this alienation. What seems inexplicable may not be. The parable notwithstanding, there is rarely only one side to such a story. I was that niece whom an uncle turned to for end-of-life care and estate management. The hardest part was dealing with the pain of the broken relationship between father and son. Apologies all around are a good beginning.
Patricia L HatchJune 7, 2021
Whoa! What a story. I am so happy that your son was healed.
Doris WilliamsJune 7, 2021
Oh my goodness, Laura. Your story was so difficult to read, but I had your assurance that things would turn out, so I continued. Just how you got through this time in your life when so MANY things were going on at once is a confirmation of the strength you received from the Savior, and the true miracle of healing of Canyon and Chandler are a real upper for all who were aware of your struggle. Your husband, Derek (sounds like an amazing father) and you have been greatly blessed. I rejoice in your well-being and I'm grateful too, for all those who supported you along the way. Thank you so much for sharing.
Victoria KrommenhoekJune 7, 2021
Not only is the author a wonderful writer, but a light to so many of us as to how to handle the wilderness we are in. Her strength, perseverance, and faith in her Savior is a wonderful example to us all.
Adrian MartinJune 7, 2021
As a grandfather to 2 autistic grandsons, I rejoice in the miracle the doctors said not to expect. I hope Chandler regains full health. What an inspiring experience it has been to learn of your trials and tribulations and the miracle wrought by our Saviour!!
Charles McClureJune 7, 2021
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story! What an incredible experience and blessing this is for all who read it!
Frank MerrillJune 7, 2021
Thank you for your report. I look forward to viewing the film when it becomes available in my area. With regard to your observations about what people post in various online forums, I'll add that I do not choose to visit social media systems because I learned several years ago that such places are not my friend, do not provide useful content to me, and do not uplift my spirit. That said, I will continue to defend a person's right to visit and participate in social media should they choose to exercise their agency to do so but it is similarly my right to choose to avoid it.
David ShafferJune 7, 2021
"In God’s universe, there are no coincidences." Amen!
Jennifer MackleyJune 7, 2021
@Steve Donegan
Thank you for commenting on the sentence regarding Wilford's revelation about who could help him complete the proxy ordinances for his ancestors. It is difficult to provide the complete story in a short article, and this is a very brief overview of four decades that led up to Wilford's service in the St. George Temple. To ease the mind of any reader about whether or not Wilford, as President of the St. George Temple, was acting with the approval of and under the direction of Brigham Young, as President of the Church, I would like to add another quote from Wilford Woodruff's March 1, 1877 journal: "I have never taken this Course without consulting President Young. When this thing was manifest to me I said to some of the sisters that I would like to have them Come on my Birthday and make me a present by getting Endowments for some of my dead, and as a testimony to me all were willing. When I saw the magnitude of this I spoke to President Young about it." Thank you again for your comment and the opportunity to clarify that sentence in the article!
K. ScottJune 6, 2021
Can we as Saints of God start a new trend in how we write and read The Things of God?
For far too long the Truths and Principles in Scriptures are minimalized and full glory neglected by using the "world's" Rules of Grammar.
Can we not seek to change how we write (my suggestion):
The Law of Christ
The Gospel
The Holy Temple
The Lord.....
If it is a key PRINICPLE Truth, Person Place
Ought we not to finally give those things people and Places
the same attention regard and consideration we do to
The names of historical Figures, Countries States and Cities ???
We should be writing The Holy Priesthood not in lower case EVER !
The Lord needs the 'T' in the to be Capitalized - for us Jesus Christ is
Principle unique and there is ONE of Him. Can we not give Him The due respect and holy consideration by actually use initial Caps??
Please give this some thought and prayer.
Our Scriptures given are printed by people
trained in the world's schools - following the world's grammar traditions.
We in The Church have learned The Mysteries of Godliness
in The Restored Church- finding that 'Religion' is the philosophies of men mingled with Scriptures.
Can we not now -- elevate our consideration of TRUTH
and never ever again refer The LDS Faith or Church as a 'Religion' ??
It is not a philosophy of man (and certainly not of Satan)
mingled with portions of The HOLY Scriptures !!!
Ergo can we not use this same effort of justified honor
and name our Church as The True Faith or The True Church
or The Lord's True Church.
I hope this conveys in part- my thoughts and desires
that we start Treating that which is Eternal and Holy and Beautiful
with the regard in our printing and writing - that would please
both The Father; His Beloved Son; and open a pathway for
The Holy Ghost to act in His Holy Position to plant Truth inside us
and apply The Powers of The Infinite Eternal Atonement and The Godhead into our lives.
Thank you for your patience and consideration of my suggestion
yours truly
p.s.
Try using your pencil or post-it and insert notes to show the following:
2 Nephi 26:1
1 And after Christ shall have arisen from The Dead
He shall show Himself unto you,
my children, and my beloved brethren;
((all of us))
and The Words which He Shall Speak unto You
of Christ
Shall Be The Law ^
which Ye Shall Do.
We Need to SEE "The Law of Christ" come into our minds
each time we see such references.
And each and every time that we see the word GOSPEL
we would be well served to read in our mind "The Law of Christ"
/// PLUS ///
we call the Priesthood of Christ the Melchizedek Priesthood
but in our minds we need to hear the resounding beauty of
"The Holy Priesthood After The Order of The Son"
Dear ones, we have The Fullness set before us
can we not aspire to live unto that Fullness
in preparation for The Savior's Return -
so we can be a part of His Work and Glory in the body
as well as in the realm of The Spirits
JuliannJune 6, 2021
Paul Wuthrich portrays Joseph Smith better than anyone has ever done. His demeanor, his focus, his facial and body expressions , and the sincerity in his eyes, all truly bring Joseph Smith to life. I hope he has future opportunities to portray Br. Joseph.
The Paul who portrays the Senior David Whitmer is also to be commended.
LKTJune 5, 2021
There are no showings anywhere in Missouri. As a group of senior missionaries , we’d love to see it come to the Liberty, or Kansas City area!
A. MannJune 5, 2021
What a fascinating deep dive into the personal relationships of the early church leaders/members. It’s good to have these as an example for today, as I see some division ripping through our Lord’s church.
Maryann TaylorJune 4, 2021
Pray that his heart will be softened toward you. I did this and the results were amazing. The family member actually reached out to me to make restitution for his coldness, and it was clear the Holy Ghost had pleaded my cause with him. Sadly, this is not always the result because people have their agency to choose. However, it is certainly worth the effort to try.
Erica BentonJune 4, 2021
Try using a burner phone to call. He won’t recognize the number. This worked for me once when a different family member worked to sabotage a relationship and we were able to reestablish communication after talking it out and hearing what was going on in their half of the relationship. There is injustice and hurt in this old world, sometimes lies cannot be undone no matter how illogical. I’d give it a try. Then what I do repeatedly is sending all of the love and goodness I feel thwarted in giving out into the universe in some symbolic form.
Create an image and send it out with all the love and kindness and compassion in your heart. It honors your heart and instead of staying inside you causing pain, just extend it out with open arms and a heart that can still love. Easier said than done,but it helps me. I do this repeatedly, once was not enough for me.
Best wishes to the writer of the letter.
CASJune 4, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful review. I wasn't sure I wanted to see this film when it was first advertised. However, after studying "Come, Follow Me" and especially the YouTube "Follow Him" Doctrine & Covenants series with Hank Smith and John Bytheway this year and learning more about these early leaders during this period of time, I most assuredly will be going to see this film. Thank you again!
Betty Lou MannJune 4, 2021
Thank you for a good chuckle before facing my day of, "old age." Accurate description of the aging process. Never the less, life is good and I thank Heavenly Father for each day.
John Charles PearceJune 4, 2021
My LatterDay Movie Club hosted this movie last night to a large socially distant audiance in a private screening ahead of the public release today. In my opinion "Witnesses is the best movie ever made about the history of the founding events of the church. The acting was superb. I was very impressed with Paul Wuthrich portrayal of Joseph Smith as well all the great support of all the cast members. It was at times raw and displayed the humanness of Joseph and the three witnesses. I think it captured the loneliness that Joseph felt before the witnesses were shown the plates. I highly recommend this movie for all Latter-day Saints and their friends.
JulieJune 4, 2021
Go see him in person and find out why he is turning his back on you. Express to him face to face your love for him and all you have done to try to be a good father to him. Stop and LIsten to him and what he tells you. You may find out you have not been the father you think you have been or you may be able to clear up misconceptions on his part. Never let your child go without giving it your all.
essayJune 4, 2021
Unfortunately, the film is not showing in my area, but I'll be among the first when it's available for purchase.
James ScottJune 4, 2021
These acts of casting bread upon the water are the true test of faith and hope.may the spirit find ways to bless these lives.
Kathleen N JonesJune 4, 2021
I also had an adult child "disown" me for over 10 years! I was grateful when I sent notes telling her I was sorry for what it was I had offended her with and I loved her dearly. Nothing more, nothing less and I prayed for her and that Heavenly Father would do what need be done. I always kept the faith that I knew one day she would return and kept praying and never once when speaking of my family ever exclude her. Then just a little less than 5 years ago, I received a message to contact her. I did. As she answered the phone, we both said at the same time I love you. As I said I have missed you so much, she returned with I have too. Now we keep in touch and what the problem was that began all this is "erased" as if it never happened. I truly thank the Lord for the faith He gave me. In fact I had my other 2 children also walk away from me (due to divorce), but I knew in my heart I had taught them all I could and put my faith in the Lord even though many told me they would never return I knew they would and it wasn't very long that now they have all returned. Please keep the faith. The Lord will take care.
Allison DunlapJune 4, 2021
My heart goes out to this man as his experience mirrors my own. I too was shunned by two daughters nearly 7 years ago in a divorce situation. Your words of wisdom to him still apply to me. It has been a grieving process but the best thing I finally did was place the burden at the Lord's feet and ask Him to carry it for me. This gave me the ability to carry on and have a happy life and disposition. I do have faith that the Lord can repair the splintered branches of our family tree and I am comforted by His promise that all losses will be made up if we stay faithful to him. Nothing about these situations are fair, but with strength from God, we can endure infuriating unfairness.
Robert D. BellJune 4, 2021
Thank you very much for this “right on” article and counsel to ensure that our loving arms stay wide open until an estranged child returns to a loving father.
PattieJune 3, 2021
I was the worried gardener always wanting/wishing perfection from my children. It wasn’t until I listened to General Conference talk after General Conference talk year after year and finally gave it all to the Lord. Love of children and plants are basically the same. Some grow in good soil and others don’t grow as well. They are still nourished. Love this valuable lesson.
Masked MikeJune 3, 2021
Get a dog.
Seriously, they are more reliable and less trouble than most men.
After acquiring this companion, take the dog walking where other people do the same. Use common interest in pets to expand your social circle. You might meet some one who is great for you. Or do something else that forces you to meet new people.
Robin PrestonJune 3, 2021
Very insightful. I appreciate the remeinders that coming to Christ is a continual life long search. Discouragement is really waiting in line to tear us down. Thank you for your thoughts. By the way, I thought it was interesting that you used the term "taking pride" following President Benson's quote. Perhaps the term "taking courage" would have been more apropo...?
TiredJune 3, 2021
It's good to laugh at your self some times. I'm not sure if this wants to make me laugh or cry right now though as I am living this with my mother and myself and it is hard plus having a painful autoimmune disorder and still raising my last and helping raise 2 grands because their parents are on the autism spectrum.
Jennifer MackleyJune 2, 2021
@Marie H.
I am not a descendant of Wilford Woodruff. My best connection is my 3rd great grandfather Theodore Turley who served as one of Wilford Woodruff's mission companions in England in 1840.
Jennifer MackleyJune 2, 2021
Thank you @Steve Donegan for your comment. You are absolutely correct in pointing out that "only the president of the Church can set down prophecy for the Church." That sentence could be misconstrued out of context. The entry in his journal for March 1, 1877 includes this explanation: "I have never taken this Course without consulting President Young. When this thing was manifest to me I said to some of the sisters that I would like to have them Come on my Birth day and make me a present by getting Endowments for some of my dead, and as a testimony to me all were willing. When I saw the magnitude of this I spoke to President Young about it." Brigham Young, as President of the Church, and Wilford Woodruff, as President of the St. George Temple, worked together almost every day to record the temple ceremonies and refine the temple practices from January to April 1877. There is much more of the story to share!
JAMES P FOLEYJune 2, 2021
The miracle of turning water into wine could possibly be Jesus’ greatest scientific miracle.
In healing the sick, the body just re-organizes / re-orders itself. In raising the dead, the lifeless body is simply brought back to life. In killing the fig tree, it’s the opposite... no great scientific changes have occurred.
But consider Cana: It is estimated there are from 800 to 1,000 different organic chemical compounds in wine.
And yet, water consists of no organic compounds and just one inorganic compound: two-parts hydrogen to one-part oxygen.
The scientific miracle, then, was “Just how did that plain ol’ inorganic water become 800-1000 organic compounds?"
That’s pretty neat!
Steve DoneganJune 2, 2021
Simply perfect. Well written. Oh the gems we find when we look with spiritual eyes...
Andrew J. CurrieJune 2, 2021
He didn't purify the water. If that is all He did, it would still have been water--one hydrogen molecule and two oxygen molecules--pure, but merely water nonetheless.
What Christ did was change the very nature of the liquid. He did not merely make the water into wine, but into the best wine at the feast! He promises to replace our 'stony hearts' with hearts of flesh--hearts like His. Through His Atonement our very natures will be changed into something unlike what we are today.
Z CoxJune 2, 2021
Hilarious! Getting old is not as fun as it used to be!
James ScottJune 2, 2021
The JST certainly adds an important element of explanation to a rather cryptic group of verses. Furthermore, the listing oft the Savior’s assistance and relations with women is illuminating. Every human is a child of God.
Harold RustJune 2, 2021
Thanks for sharing these wonderful insights. In a monetary world, these well-honed truths so carefully organized would be worth millions or billions; instead, they are worth the full value of a soul.
Doris WilliamsJune 2, 2021
So hilarious! And a nice break from all the news of the day. Thank you for sharing this story!
Helen CondonJune 2, 2021
Thank you but the illustration of my style being turned from water into wine by my Savior. It truly is His work and His glory.
Diane StonehockerJune 2, 2021
With all due respect to Brother Howard, including in your daily offerings humorously-meant articles that reinforce all of the negative stereotypes of aging is not helpful to anyone. Fear of aging is the primary factor that feeds ageism in our world along with all of the devastation that it causes. Please seek out articles that promote positive aging just as your other articles promote positive gospel living. Thank you.
RitaJune 2, 2021
My grandmother lived a very long time, and her biggest complaint at her 100th birthday was not being able to hear or see the party we held for her. Losing her senses of sight and hearing left her unable to participate in daily life, and, at her death 5 years later, she was so grateful to be finally leaving to rejoin her husband. Grandpa had passed 40 years before. Old age is not for the weak, but for those strong enough to endure heartache, loss and physical/mental decline after a lifetime of work. At 68 myself, I am beginning to understand.
Blake GarsideJune 1, 2021
Jennifer, I can't thank you enough for this incredible and insightful look into HOW Temple doctrine developed and is realized for us today. Some of this information I knew about but so much that I didn't. I NOW have a great love and a greater appreciation for Wilford Woodruff's immense work for the dead and for us living today. As was the pattern in the early days of the Restoration, the NEED came about by INQUIRING of the Lord, PONDERING with FAITH then the Revelation was given. As we are pushed out of our Comfort Zones we are thankfully thrust into Growth Zones. For there is little comfort in growth zones and very little growth in comfort zones !! Looking forward to your Parts 2 & 3 for further light and knowledge.
RebeccaJune 1, 2021
We don't condone killing of toddlers or teenagers or elderly people who are inconvenient, or expensive. Why are babies different?
Steve DoneganJune 1, 2021
I’m concerned about this sentence, “ It is noteworthy that this revelation came to Wilford – one of the apostles – rather than Brigham Young, who was the Prophet and President of the Church.” The statement could remove from the mind of a reader the earlier statement that this was done with Brigham Young’s approval. The Bible Dictionary definition of “prophet” includes the idea that all of us can be prophets, but ... Only the president of the Church can set down prophecy for the Church. I would hate for someone to misconstrue the one sentence to believe Woodruff could set policy.
Marie HJune 1, 2021
How interesting. Is the author also a descendant of the Prophet Wilford Woodruff.
Harold RustJune 1, 2021
A most revealing historical account that connects each phase of restoring the Lord's way of uniting families through all generations. This story should be told more frequently by families to their children and by ward members to each other. A very unifying message regarding the fundamental purpose of life: prepare of to live eternally with our Father in Heaven. Thank you.
Beth CampbellJune 1, 2021
When I first read the heading, I thought that "more honest" was a ridiculous term. You are either honest or not. You know a half lie is still a lie. But as I listened to the podcast I realized that we all live in the grey area and that it's important to evaluate and make changes until we can honestly say we are less grey and walking towards a bright white.
Ronald BarnesJune 1, 2021
I have been a temple worker for 24 years. During that time, I have witnessed several adjustments to the ordinances and to temple procedures. I recently informed our Temple President that I will not be returning when our temple reopens. My wife’s health is declining and I felt inspired that I need to stay home with her. Not only do I encourage members to attend the temple, I also encourage them to become temple workers themselves..
Michael ColleyJune 1, 2021
Looking forward to reading more about this servant of God. Very inspiring.
David ShafferJune 1, 2021
Beautiful. And thought provoking. Thank you.
David Earl PerryMay 31, 2021
Frances and I believe, Lynne, that your gift from Heavenly Father is a blessing to us all. Thank you. May we all strive to have the image of purest love on our countenances.
Pattie SMay 31, 2021
I love love these stories. They are so inspiring.
Kerry FarrMay 31, 2021
A few years ago I was very anxious and depressed. One of my sons started sending me a joke every morning.
At first I thought it was dumb, After a few days, I chuckled just a little. Pretty soon I was allowing myself to laugh out loud!
A lot of things helped me, but this was one of the best
KathleenMay 30, 2021
Good summary of the past year+, and conclusions. We reap the benefits and peace of what we feed and how we choose to serve.
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 30, 2021
I was so interested reading about your Grandfather Facer in Texas. My father-in-law served in the Central States Mission from 1912-1914 or 15. He was also in the Houston area and especially Galveston. His name was David Cleveland Okelberry. I wonder if they knew each other.
Kari BurrMay 30, 2021
My husband and I enjoy your podcasts weekly. This one was particularly poignant, as we are all working on that purity of heart, bringing Zion into our personal realm. It's not easy! Elder Maxwell's talk was worth listening to, and I'd also especially love to find Pres. Oaks' talk, which was not easy--can you help me? Thank you for your insights. They always bless us immensely. So glad you followed that inspiration to put Meridian Magazine online....so many years ago!!!
Mary Ann TaylorMay 30, 2021
A grandson just expressed interest in Buddhism, and I recently heard a lecture that helped me explain the concepts you used above. And my stake is just south of the area where the two missionaries were killed in Texas. The interconnectedness of everything always amazes me.
JeanMay 30, 2021
You need to move on from hoping he will change and bring your life peace and joy. You've listed many reasons that this relationship is not healthy for you or your family. It seems like you are choosing misery and a companion. I hope you find the strength to be happy and single. Appreciate that you've invested years and keep the good memories, but move on towards creating new and healthy memories for your future without the pain he brings into your life. You can do this!
RoMay 30, 2021
I have been pondering on this very principle--that to love is to suffer; But love is also the catalyst to joy. Perhaps one of the most defining attributes of Divinity is the ability to absorb pain with those who suffer. I am in awe with how our Heavenly Parents must anguish with each of their children!
Bonnie CaldwellMay 30, 2021
It would be good to get the Palestinian perspective from someone like Saher Qumsiyeh, who teaches at BYU-I. Her book, Peace for a Palestinian, is an excellent read. We met her, as I’m sure you have as well, when we visited the Jerusalem center and also attended the Bethlehem “twig”.
Kenneth Stevens, MDMay 29, 2021
The word "galaxy" comes from "galacto" which means "milk". The Greek origin is "galaxias". Milky way Galaxy uses "milky" twice.
Mark DonaldsonMay 29, 2021
As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, we of all people should recognize the turmoil caused by those who hate Jews and Israel as a sign that we are truly living in the latter times. We know the Savior will one day return and set his foot again on the Mount of Olives and ultimately recognize the Jews (Judah) as a chosen people...along with the other tribes of Israel. When I place my support for Israel and the Jewish people, I believe that I am standing up for a people who have been bullied and picked on unjustly for centuries. Last, I also hold that if I support the political party in America that supports Israel and the Jews, then I belong to the right party.
Ann-Marie JensenMay 28, 2021
Thank you for sharing your personal knowledge on this topic. I especially appreciate your quoting of Hamas’ charter.
Erik HansenMay 28, 2021
I'll say plainly and simply, "Good Job Brother Hess". From my experience this article is plain and correct and it was nice to meet your friend and see his accomplishment.
Jacque BrownMay 28, 2021
I enjoyed this article so much! It filled in the blanks of my knowledge of Brother Cowdery. My love for him has grown from our study of the Doctrine and Covenants this year, and this article really served to increase my knowledge in a way that brings me joy.
Blake GarsideMay 28, 2021
Thank you Maurine for your article. For 2 weeks, I trained in Migdal Haemek for an Israeli company where I worked and got to know my fellow associates in a very personal way. Their concerns and fears became my own for those 2 weeks and they even got to know all about my LDS faith, I was adopted into their culture especially when they found out my first name was Heber a real Jewish bibical name. I become pretty emotional when I hear Washington lawmakers use hate speech against God's chosen people and I see the faces of those I came to love and respect. I take comfort in Isaiah's words, Isaiah 49:13-17 THANK YOU MAURINE !!!
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Maryann TaylorMay 28, 2021
The mistake commonly made regarding our Heavenly Mother is the same mistake we make regarding the roles of men and women on earth. Their roles are NOT the same. Yes, they are one in purpose and their goals are identical. However, male and female roles are both very sacred, but different. Our Heavenly Mother is very engaged in bringing forth Spirit Children and preparing them for earth. I am sure she is also involved in MANY other sacred creative works as well. I have absolutely no doubt that she loves us and looks forward to our return (which to her is less than a day's length in time). However, we have been counseled by our leaders that we do not pray to her. The scriptures and our living prophets could not be any more consistently clear in their counsel that we pray ONLY to our Heavenly FATHER in the name of Jesus Christ. This clear pattern of prayer was repeatedly given to us by our Savior.
Maryann TaylorMay 28, 2021
I think there is a great lesson in this account. Don't enter into serious relationships with people that you are not compatible with. You may be actually shutting the door on the opportunity to find someone that you can truly love. I hope this woman can end the relationship and find someone she can find happiness with.
Michael Shea, MDMay 28, 2021
Having studied and practiced Buddhism (Theravada) as a lay person for years before returning to the Church, I firmly believe that the doctrine of non-attachment is not understood and not properly taught by many Western practitioners. In fact, Buddhists believe very strongly in love, compassion, empathy, and so on, and if one has those characteristics, grief is almost inevitable. The doctrine of non-attachment is more akin to the teaching of Paul, “Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.” (Phillippians 4:11-12, etc.)
Laura KellerMay 28, 2021
Thank you for being brave enough to speak truth and share your knowledge, experiences, and insight into this sad situation.
Barry HMay 28, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for your clear and sensible defense of Israel, Jews, and peaceful Palestinians from your perspective of much experience and many friends in the area. I have forwarded it on to others.
Karell BinghamMay 28, 2021
Some say that God rules the earth, and Satan rules the waters. This is ludicrous. God rules the world, the whole world, even the very dust of the earth and all the oceans and seas. Every drop of water is under his authority.
PjalMay 28, 2021
I think that tbe best option for both of you is to just be friends. Also, from someone who learned the hard way, if in doubt, don't.
Karell BinghamMay 28, 2021
I fear that President Nelson is right: "There are emissaries of Lucifer implanted among the people!"
Is it just me or are there more emissaries than usual lately?
Teri K JohnstonMay 27, 2021
Excellent- thank you!
Maryann TaylorMay 27, 2021
The decision to no longer perform marriages for time only in our temples makes so much sense to me. I never could understand why it was done because our temples are places for eternal covenants.
Maryann TaylorMay 27, 2021
I closed my facebook account several months ago and have significantly limited my listening to, or viewing of, news or political programs. I am enjoying listening to more music, and I am feeling so much more peace. It is wonderful to be free from the constant drama in news and the clashing, raging opinions that change from one day to the next.
TamraMay 27, 2021
Thanks for sharing the numerous great things that many charity related organizations are doing to help so many people throughout the world.
I might also add that a local charity organization, Hearts Knit Together provides many donated items to Domestic Abuse Shelters here in Utah.
Chuck SanfordMay 27, 2021
A few years ago, I held this calling in my stake: Addiction Recovery and Healing. I met some wonderful people in my class. Addiction to many physical and emotional things is the reality for many people. I am so very grateful to my Lord for helping people to endure and overcome these addictions, if they truly want to. For those who haven't reached that point yet, please turn to our Savior and keep at it. I so appreciate this account by this great guy, about him and his wife.
KerryMay 27, 2021
More likely the candy bar was named after the galaxy
PollyMay 27, 2021
Doing good. How are we furthering the New World Order agenda through COVID and vaccines? This is very ambiguous to me because it seems like a guise of humanitarianism. Through the COVID trauma they have made much progress in mind control. Are we upholding secret combinations? Why didn’t we donate life saving drugs like Ivermectin or hydroxcloroquine?
Richard SkousenMay 27, 2021
A delightful story! Thanks for sharing.
Marchia MariaMay 26, 2021
Pro Choice not Pro Abortion - an intended choice of words no doubt.
All anti abortion legislation should insure that all avenues have been
made available to women to receive assistance from youth to adulthood, education, medical and financial, to insure all pregnancies are cared for both mother and baby, and that all babies might come to full term should be the goal.
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 26, 2021
This is a very powerful story. It makes me even more appreciative and grateful for the Atonement of Jesus Christ and to know that we have Heavenly Parents who love us and care for us and rooting for us.
RealityMay 26, 2021
Only in America is this a political issue. In the rest of the first world it is between a woma n and her doctor.
And it is so much more complex than you mako out, but it is good that you are not throwing stones or calling people baby killers.
For example 70% of abortions in America are to women who are living below the poverty line, which means they can't afford birth control.
40% are morning after pill.
There are about 600,000 abortions in America a year, but there are 248 million abortions in third world. When republicans are in power they cut funding to family planning services (aid) in third world countries. When democrats are in the fund this aid for birth control, which saves 48 million abortions a year.
The best way to reduce abortions is by providing sex education, and affordable birth control. There are countries that have one third the rate Americas. They have universal healthcare, which provides free birth control. So America could reduce its number of Abortions from 600,000 to 200,000 a year with universal healthcare, and respect for and support of women.
JAMES P FOLEYMay 26, 2021
Another source is Donald Q. Cannon, "Latter-day Visions of the Savior," in Hearken, O Ye People: 1984 Sperry Symposium, Sandy, UT: Randall Book Co., 1984, pp119-131, where 22 people are named.
John B HewlettMay 26, 2021
Karl , you are such a blessing to the Kingdom. Thank you for sharing the miracles of Kirtland for the past 5 decades with members and others alike. It is a MOST significant part of the RESTORATION, and truthfulness of the RESTORED GOSPEL. Thank you
Frank MerrillMay 26, 2021
Our interpretation of GEM is "Give Everyone more." When our youngest son was about 9 years old he started a lemonade stand alongside a popular walking and biking trail in our area. He intentionally mixed the lemonade a little bit stronger than usual for extra flavor and froze a batch of mixed lemonade to make ice for the next day so the resulting lemonade wouldn't get watered down. He made a big sign that said something like "Best Mix on the Trail!" and sold his lemonade for 25 cents for a larger-than-normal 10 oz. cup. He also had a large rubbish bin nearby with a "recycle your cup here" sign. He kept a big transparent plastic jar on his table, "salted" with various coins and a few bills, that read "tip jar."
As you might have guessed, his business was very popular, and he made more from tips than lemonade.
MaryMay 25, 2021
I love that as members of the LDS church we view life and the ability to create life as sacred. I do however wish that we as a community would take it a step further and be active in helping prevent abortions. There are things such as sex education, health care, and the reduction of poverty- all which reduce abortions. I feel like we have the understanding part down, maybe now we can get the action.
Deborah SummersMay 25, 2021
Great podcast ... enjoyed it very much.
Peter F SchlegelMay 25, 2021
Apparently the folks responding to this have NOT read the bill completely through- do not understand the constitution or both. It would totally destroy any bit of states rights we have left. Maybe read the articles of confederation and the amendments to the constitution. Too bad no of this is taught in a civics or govt class these days
D.L. AndersonMay 25, 2021
I firmly believe that its many of the Gary Wilsons in mortality who are more capable at times to get a point across because they are perceived as folks without any agenda but the truth of a subject/cause.
I'm quite sure Gary received that embrace, enjoyed that parade, and indeed is being filled in on the things he missed out on in mortality
Kevin TheriotMay 25, 2021
Jacob,
Thanks for posting this, and thank you for your excellent work as well!
BFF
Kevin Theriot PhD
Karell BinghamMay 25, 2021
I agree with what you have written, it was wonderful. I also might add that Adam (and all of us) were created in the image of God. Not only physically, but with the indication that we should live our lives that we indeed might grow into becoming the express image of (a) God, just like the Father and Mother!
Geoff SteurerMay 25, 2021
Thank you, Jacob, for this powerful and much-needed tribute for Gary. His work has had a huge influence on my thinking as well.
Helen CondonMay 25, 2021
As you may recall, I have lost 2 children to cancer. As I continue my journey towards becoming a Grief Life Coach I see so much material here.
Thank you.
Kathleen N JonesMay 25, 2021
Thank you for acknowledgment that Oneness Relationships can be obtained in certain earthly marriages. I find I believe I had such a marriage. Many expressed how my husband and I were such a couple that truly expressed all aspects of teamwork and work separately equally together. The love and mutual respect and regard for one another was amazing. He now has gone ahead and I am still here learning, yet I feel his presence when needed. Yes, we do have heavenly parents. My question is why are we seeking more knowledge of them just now?
Sally SmithMay 24, 2021
An article to deeply reflect upon and to gain knew insight about eternal life.
Thank you
AnnaMay 24, 2021
Thank you for articulating the major lesson we are to learn in this life-- to love even when it hurts. When I saw the article this morning, I, didn't know that by the time I read it, my firstborn would have left this life, our second child to die in five months. Grief is the price of having loved. May we live well and abide in faith until those tears are dried and hearts are healed.
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BeccaMay 24, 2021
What a beautifully written and passionate article. Thank you for enlightenment!
Dave RMay 24, 2021
"God, the Father of us all, uses the men of the earth, especially good men, to accomplish his purposes. It has been true in the past, it is true today, it will be true in the future."
- Elder Ezra Taft Benson, General Conference April 1972
Elder Ezra Taft Benson "Civic Standards for the Faithful Saints", Ensign, July 1972, p. 59 where he quoted Elder Orson F. Whitney from a conference address delivered in 1928:
"Perhaps the Lord needs such men on the outside of His Church to help it along. They are among its auxiliaries, and can do more good for the cause where the Lord has placed them, than anywhere else. . . . Hence, some are drawn into the fold and receive a testimony of the truth; while others remain unconverted, . . . the beauties and glories of the gospel being veiled temporarily from their view, for a wise purpose. The Lord will open their eyes in his own due time. God is using more than one people for the accomplishment of His great and marvelous work. The Latter-day Saints cannot do it all. It is too arduous for any one people . . . We have no quarrel with the Gentiles. They are our partners in a certain sense." (Conference Report, April 1928, p. 59.)
Helen CondonMay 24, 2021
Thank you for shining a light on a most remarkable man. I didn't even know he existed until today.
I should tell you my own daughter left the Church when she was 18 & ended her life as a practicing pagan when she died from cancer 3 years ago. After her passing, one of her friends came to me & said she had dreamt of Larissa & wanted to give me the message that she understood me, now.
So Gary understands you, now. :-)
LauraMay 24, 2021
Carolyn,
Thank you for this excellent reminder, of something I’ve known but had trouble with “making myself” drink enough water. I wanted to share a recent simple discovery that has made it very easy for me to drink more than enough water. This is to drink warm water, not just room temperature. I heat the water up in the morning, put it in insulated containers (with a straw) so it stays warm all day. It’s amazing how much my body loves and craves this. Everything in my body is functioning better, including my eye sight!
Herm OlsenMay 24, 2021
One of my favorite all-time songs - beautifully done! But PLEASE also read the book ‘Amazing Grace’ by Eric Metaxis. Thanks for your great talents!!
Joyce WoolfMay 24, 2021
Thank you for this article. I too had a sorrow-filled week. I learned of the sudden passing of my wonderful cousin, Dave Babbel, a tremendous professor and mission president, and of the passing of Lynn and Perry Carter’s grandson. My sister, Cheryl, introduced the gospel to Lynn when they were in high school. I’d been pondering the pain that comes with caring. I appreciate your insights.
JaneMay 24, 2021
Well said, Brother Hess. Thank you for your beautiful tribute to a well-deserved soul and for allowing the rest of us to "meet" Gary Wilson and his great work.
Ronald BarnesMay 24, 2021
I once had a conversation with a non-member friend about "the rapture". I told him that, when the time comes, there will be many Christians standing on the ground watching their non-Christians neighbors being taken up; and wondering why.
Barbara FallickMay 23, 2021
Love is the great equalizer in life. Whether rich or poor, from any country, in any circumstance, we can all choose to love.
RebeccaMay 23, 2021
"I’m an enormous mountain of good with a few bad pebbles."
It takes a lot of self-confidence to state something like that.
AlexMay 23, 2021
My thought is she believes you are valuing something more than her or not listening to her enough. Perhaps you should work on understanding her instead of judging her. Ask her what she needs and fulfill those needs and hopefully she'll return to a loving person.
Sirpa GriersonMay 23, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article. The center does hold and Christ is at the center. I was moved by your thoughts and grateful for your scholarship and commentary on this great and dreadful time that we are blessed to experience.
Pamela L RehderMay 22, 2021
Excellent article Mary, lest we forget or get lost in what we truly should be about.
CathrynMay 22, 2021
This study makes a case to never again enact lockdowns! I've often thought that many of the covid deaths that occurred in nursing homes could have been avoided with a family advocate and support for many patients. Already anxiety prone, alzheimer's & dementia patients were denied visits from loved ones, which likely caused greater anxiety, contributing to additional deaths. The Lord created us to need human connection spiritually, emotionallly, and physically. It is cruel to have kept loved ones apart this long time.
Greg HobbsMay 22, 2021
Thx you for your God inspired sermon on what it means to always remember Him. What a Supernal gift from a Loving Father.
Lana.WellsMay 22, 2021
Thank you so much for enlightening this person of little doctrinal knowledge.Tomorrow's Sacrament will be different. Now I truly have food for thought.
Dr. Trina Boice (Movie Review Mom)May 21, 2021
Yay! I'm so glad to hear you enjoyed it! It's one of those hidden gems on Netflix. Thanks for your comments!
Cap CresapMay 21, 2021
To remember someone you must know him or her first. To truly remember the Savior Alma 37:9 is a requirement. Strangely this scripture about knowing the Savior is never quoted or refered to except in the 4th article of faith.
Helen MeekMay 21, 2021
As my "remembering surges and wanes, I appreciate your article to ponder about my relationship with My Saviour. Thankyou
Loraine WhettenMay 21, 2021
In addition to Wendy Nelson, who would you invite to speak at UVU Campus?
Just asking.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
I feel bad for this brother. He doesn't give us very much information, and it would be interesting to hear his wife's point of view. If she is truly unwilling to work on the marriage, I can't help but wonder why he chooses to stay. It seems like self-inflicted unhappiness for the rest of his life. Somewhere out there is a good single woman who would truly love him.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
YES! We are here to learn to love. There is an even higher law of love for our fellowman than "Love they neighbor as thyself." The highest law of love that Jesus gave to love one another is: "Love one another, AS I HAVE LOVED YOU."
RFMay 21, 2021
One of my favorite quotes related to this topic comes from a talk by C. Terry Warner. He said something like this..."Satan does not need to overpower us to win the war, he just needs to get us to adopt his way of fighting it."
LindaMay 21, 2021
CRT is being taught in schools almost everywhere, except in red states. Even then, it can creep in by liberals. Don't think it's not taught at BYU because it certainly is by some professors. Open your eyes, people!
Joanne KappMay 21, 2021
In the last few years, I have been more deeply yearning to "Remember Him" and to "Hear Him". I have struggled with that because I felt as though I wasn't finding the success I wanted. This article, Brother and Sister Frogley, gave me a completely different perspective. I thought to myself, "I can do that". Thank you.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
HA! Oh, how true! I need Him EVERY second!
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
Thank you so much for your great courage and humility in being willing to share this with us! You are a beautiful example that the Lord has power to change every one of us and we should never give up. Thank you for reminding us that we are ALL of great worth--more than we can even fully comprehend in this life.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
Your words reflect the great yearning in my heart, and the hearts of many, to be more like our Savior and to reflect his light and love. It gives me great comfort when I am so aware of my own imperfections and weaknesses, to know that the Savior IS perfect and I can draw from HIS perfection and HIS great power and strength.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
I think the phrase "that in patience ye may possess your souls" is an interesting one to contemplate. To me, it also suggests that as we seek to follow our Savior, we must also be patient with ourselves and our weaknesses, while continuing to strive for improvement. I am comforted by the fact that the Sacrament prayer speaks of being "willing," not perfect: "..that they are willing to take upon them the name of thy son, and always remember him and keep his commandments which he has given them..." (D&C 20:77) As we repent and prepare to partake of the sacrament, it is encouraging to know that there is a different between worthiness to partake and absolute perfection.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
Sweet story---anyone who would be so patient with a cranky Grandma sounds like a real winner. I hope the future holds great things for them!
LauraMay 21, 2021
Thank you Scot and Maurine for this rich and encouraging discussion.
I am so grateful for the archetypes that we have access to—of language, history and example—in our restored gospel tradition, that truly show us the Way to go.
O Zion, dear Zion. My heart is inspired by your discussion to keep repenting and purifying myself, so I can be of some small service in the building of Zion right where I stand.
CJB againMay 21, 2021
I’m pondering the beautiful example of not having the heart to engage in the conversation because of your tender concern for your daughter.
Terry DickensMay 21, 2021
What a wonderful article. Likening our memories of our earthly father is most helpful in understanding a little better "remembering Him." Thank you for this thought provoking and powerful article.
Karell BinghamMay 21, 2021
I just love you two! I have thought lately that Zion is a Holy City filled with a holy people. The definition of holy is, "set apart for a sacred purpose." That seems to help me align my path: If am worthy to live in Zion, I am set apart for a sacred purpose: God's purpose.
Now if I could just keep that in mind in my daily life!
Thanks!
Karl FarnsworthMay 20, 2021
I think that I shall never see A poem lovely as a tree.
A tree whose hungry mouth is pressed againgt the earth's sweet flowing breast ;
A tree that looks at God all day And lifts her leafy arms to pray;
A tree that may in summer wear A nest of robins in her hair;
Upon whose bosom snow has lain; who intimately lives with rain.
Poems are made by fools (men) like me, But only God can make a tree. (Joyce Kilmer)
EthelMay 20, 2021
Thank you so much for your testimony. God loves us no matter where we are or who we are. I wish you the best. It is great that you were brave enough and had the courage to share with us all. Only until you want in someone else's shoes do you really know what it is like... thank you
Wendy J BrownMay 20, 2021
Thank you for creating such a beautiful piece of music - and for making it able to be downloaded. A copy is now sitting on our piano - and the music is filling our hearts (on this snowy day in May!) - reminding me to keep an eternal perspective - and to try to reflect His image in my countenance. Thank you. Our lives are enriched by you, your gift and your sharing of this gift!
cdMay 20, 2021
Love her wisdom and example. Thank you for sharing!
Diane L AndersonMay 20, 2021
One of my first reads this morning was this wonderful article My heart resonated with the author and all she had experienced. Indeed, being in the midst of nature brings one into the presence of God feeling His joy, power and love. Thank you~
PaulineMay 20, 2021
So sad Martha, and Washington state passed it as mandatory; so sad.
Linda WetoverMay 20, 2021
What a lovely new hymn! I have long enjoyed your music, but this one really touches a chord deep in my heart. Thank you so much for sharing your gift to bless the lives of others!!
ChrisMay 19, 2021
I'm excited for this series of articles. I learned late in life that my belief in Heavenly Parents didn't change the way I lived my life until I finally had experiences with them. Experience changed my heart and changed me...
This belief is the most basic and foundational of the restoration, but it seems that so many of us don't live our lives like we really believe it.
We can't understand God, we can only experience Him...and we can know that "God is love". Most of the time that's good enough.
Alece ReynoldsMay 19, 2021
Amen, Martha. I have been appalled to learn about BYU administrators and professors — including the President of the University—adopting principles of CRT at the Lord’s University. CRT is Marxist and replaces class with race in order to divide populations and cause chaos.
tfMay 19, 2021
Somebody's just making this one up, right?
Louis MidgleyMay 19, 2021
Professor Peterson's careful attention to the work of R. Lanier (Lanny) Britsch makes certain that his comments are based on solid scholarship. Lanny is the leading expert on the Church of Jesus Christ in Hawaii. and also on the the places in the Pacific where there are Latter-day Saints, including also Australia and New Zealand.
APRIL FEARMay 19, 2021
Communist countries always want to get the children away from their parents as early as possible, because beliefs and behaviors are instilled during the first 5 years of life. If the government controls the child's beliefs, parental authority and religion can be stomped out.
ShaunaMay 19, 2021
Thank you for your courage in sharing your story. Agency is sacred to our Heavenly parents but so is accountability
what an amazing dream/revelation you had.
Anna KeoghMay 19, 2021
Thank you, thank you for every sincere word you wrote that went right into my heart.
Chuck SanfordMay 19, 2021
I'm very glad this sister has turned her life around by becoming closer to her Heavenly Father. Sometimes church members in this situation don't change, and remain locked in destructive behavior cycles. I was a home teacher for three men incarcerated in a federal prison. Despite the efforts of our Heavenly Father (and my efforts), they did not change, although one guy was starting to change when he was transferred from prison in Texas to prison in California. I truly hope he repented and made the change.
PamelaMay 19, 2021
Loved this article!! She described the truths that we all need to come to understand in our life’s journey.
JRyMay 19, 2021
Thanks you for sharing your experiences. I kept thinking of what God tells us. That all these experiences shall be for your good. I am sure he will use your experiences and you can help many people. I have an aunt who went to prison. She could have helped others. Instead, she lives a very solitary life. How much better it is too help other people by sharing! Thank you.
Helen CondonMay 19, 2021
Fascinating! Scott and I knew a man named Clayton Kalaenuimanomano Woolley in Portland. He was my Bishop at the time and his youngest son was our Best Man. I wonder if he was related to the Woolley mentored in this story?
TraceyMay 18, 2021
Maryann Taylor-----I'm fairly sure she used her clothing to help drive home her point. I don't think it was a random choice from her closet. I took a class once on rhetorical techniques and I remember color usage as being one of them. It's been quite a while. We had to write essays on how color was used in visual presentations, movies, videos, music videos, commercials, etc. It's quite interesting to notice it and analyze what they are trying to say, non-verbally.
DaveyMay 18, 2021
Excellent article. We must fight against CRT, and idea that most likely came from the adversary given its potential to seriously harm our nation.
Vivian M AdamsMay 18, 2021
An amazing, well thought out piece of work. Thank you for your study and inspiration.
Tom SchumannMay 18, 2021
Critical Race Theory is a Marxist inspired doctrine, which has been deliberately injected into our society to set people against each other. The point is to lead to the societa division and chaos necessary for communist takeover to be successful, much as 'agrarian reform was successfully used in China..
Add to this the 1619 project, which teaches that the founding of this nation was based on slavery rather than on freedom, create in our youth loathing of rather than love of our country and its founding princess. These are both
elements of the 'unrestricted warfare' launched against this country by those who seek its overthrow.
vickieMay 18, 2021
wow what a read. thank you. i have to share this that i have noticed. i have seen a sort of tribalism coming about where people who are of like cultures even and especially in America want to band together. instead of becoming American and united they want to separate themselves off from the rest of the population. when i speak of cultures i speak of many different cultures i see doing this. i remember going to germany as a child and to england as an adult. in germany the language separated us. in england the language was the same but the culture was different. in both cases the americans sent there for military duty banded together whether they were black or white or hispanic or anything else. as long as they were sent form america we were united. in america however, we are not united these days. we are so divided, each one fighting for their own culture declaring racism as their reason for doing so. i wish it werent so, but it is and its happening more and more.
Andrew R.May 18, 2021
I await the series with anticipation. However, the underlying belief appears to be that there is one Heavenly Father and one Heavenly Mother for planet Earth.
Whilst this may very well be true, it does not have to be.
How would it change things if there was more than one?
DMTMay 17, 2021
I love this true story! I love how this young woman felt the Spirit and went with it, instead of questioning and doubting, and putting off what turned out to be life changing opportunities. I love how an American family sponsored and helped this eager and enthusiastic young woman! Americans have so much more than most in the world. As 3 times ex-pats, we love getting to know people around the world. Thanks for this uplifting article!
DaveyMay 17, 2021
Very insightful article. CRT will only increase race-based contention between people. It is such a bad idea on so many levels that I am surprised that certain politicians think it is a good idea. I honestly think Satan is putting this idea into people's minds -> broad sweeping bad ideas that are viewed as 'good' usually come from the adversary.
SherriMay 17, 2021
This is fantastic! I love it so much! My granddaughter loved the first video and can’t wait to watch more!
StephanieMay 17, 2021
Great story. Very inspirational. Where is Irina today?
Martha GutierrezMay 17, 2021
This is such a good article but it’s contradictory to what BYU is adopting for their standards. I just read their CRT adoption policy and their desire for equity. It’s almost like a a double standard don’t you think? I’m a BYU alumni and I can’t understand what’s really happening with this CRT theory. We need to stand up for more Christ love and not conform to the theories of the world.
AyseMay 17, 2021
This is such an inspiring story at this time of history. With all the negative news, this one is not and a thrill to read. Thank you.
Helen CondonMay 17, 2021
So much “wisdom born of pain.” (Helen Reddy, “I Am Woman”)
ToriMay 17, 2021
Amen, Nicholeen. Thank you for pointing out the immediate harm this ideology has on our children and on our society.
Helen CondonMay 17, 2021
As I seem to pursue my own dreams of beginning a grief Coach these are the words I needed this morning, “if it was right, her Heavenly Father provide.”
Thank you.
Pauline HarryMay 16, 2021
Wow Seattle! We live in Kent. Great hearing your story and jealous about the Jerusalem opportunity. Inspiring though and very happy for you and yours!
Maryann TaylorMay 15, 2021
This was so sweet and beautiful. I have to chuckle a bit--I wonder if she thought about the fact that she was wearing black and white?
MaryMay 15, 2021
Great article, thanks for sharing! I have so much respect for this woman.
Pauline Bennion HarryMay 14, 2021
We need to be "wise as serpents, harmless as doves."
Maryann TaylorMay 14, 2021
The fact that the husband admits he still has feelings for his old flame is the deal breaker here in establishing a relationship with her daughter, who is now an adult. This man needs to concentrate on his own wife and children. Period. Most likely this woman knew the man was married and she may try and use her daughter to get to him. NO WAY!
CCMay 14, 2021
Right on. Someone who pursues someone else's husband or wife will not give up easily, and so the responses to her have to be firm and strong and then block her phone numbers and emails.
RuthMay 14, 2021
This story really touched me. How amazing that such an awful day could turn out to be one of the best, with a shift in perspective. Also, I love that Becky had homeopathic medicines to help with the diarrhea!
Julie ArcherMay 14, 2021
Thank you for all of these inspiring articles! They have been incredibly thought provoking and are priceless wisdom treasure for our day.
Catherine GardnerMay 14, 2021
Alarm bells are screaming in my head at this request from an old fiancé. The advice given is absolutely spot on. This lady is not reconnecting for a passing nod and a wave. She has blatantly stated she wants to meet up and renew the relationship she had with your husband. Of course both he and she won't look the same but it only takes one determined person to wreck your marriage. If your husband cannot accept the past is the past then you have a fight on your hands.
Dennis the MenaceMay 13, 2021
Perhaps it would be helpful for those of us passing judgement on those who have or have not had the Covid shot to read and ponder Doctrine and Covenants Section 64 verse 9.
L. PetersonMay 13, 2021
Thank you for the wonderful article!
Linda WillisMay 13, 2021
It's unfortunate that Dr. Nelson was rejected for who she is rather than the content of her address. How ironic that a beautiful message on avoiding contention in our personal and public lives was not heard by those in need of it.
PatMay 13, 2021
Narrow minded people do not like anyone’s opinion except theirs. We can only get to know each other better if we listen to others. We DON’T have to always agree with them.
LindaMay 13, 2021
So the "left" is in favor of identification proving that a person has been vaccinated? Hmmm. What about voter i.d.? That's even more important a d they won't stand for it!!! Hypocrites.
Michele BaerMay 13, 2021
Very well written. The calm discussion to appreciate all sides of differing views is the path to bring succes and happiness. Thank you for expressing this so eloquently.
Maureen GaleMay 13, 2021
That is the most compelling, cohesive, and persuasive article I've read in a long time. Let's be for shedding full light on each argument (or better stated, point of view) and see where it leads. Jesus never shied away from letting His truths be known, even when it led to martyrdom. He only stopped lovingly persuading when he knew no hearts would be softened.
Elizabeth SmithMay 13, 2021
I'm a picky reader--former English teacher and editor. This is a powerful series. Four months after finishing it, I still find it helpful and hopeful. It fleshes out some scripture, is consistent with prophecy, is deftly written.
DanielleMay 13, 2021
I have enjoyed these articles so much and reread each of them several times. Becky and Jolanta are both truly extraordinary! (I look forward to learning more about Thomas n future articles too.) Thank you so much for sharing with us!
David DurfeeMay 13, 2021
Extraordinarily interesting. That same council would have probably excommunicated Emma Smith. It was a difficult and uncertain time for everyone, and no one was perfect.
Karell BinghamMay 13, 2021
Scott and Marine, you always inspire me, I would love to meet you some day!
Here is one little thought that I have about kneeling across the altar. The altar symbolizes sacrifice. This perhaps indicates that those who are being sealed across the altar of sacrifice are to remember that they are expected to sacrifice for each other. AND when a sacrifice is made for the other, she or he needs to recognize that sacrifice with gratitude!
LewisMay 13, 2021
I continue to be incredibly impressed by Jolanta and her courage. To be taken from the life you have known and be uprooted, carried to a strange country with strange people must have been terrifying. She is an example to all of us. As are you, Becky. You didn’t have to do any of this, but you answered the promptings of the spirit. May God bless your life, as you have blessed the lives of so many.
Becky DouglasMay 13, 2021
Thank you for your kind words, Robert! Anyone with nine little ones is a hero of mine! I think I can personally vouch for how challenging that is, and also, for how rewarding that is! You have a good eye. Thomas, Jolanta's brother is, indeed, the second from the right in the picture.
We've been focusing on Jolanta's experience in these past few articles. One more article on Jolanta, and then we will focus on Thomas's experience, which in many ways was the polar opposite. Just making sure that we never got bored . . ..
HarrietMay 13, 2021
This is a well thought out perspective. Thank you for writing it. I agree with the article, we need to come back to the time when ideas can be freely expressed. It is amazing what we can learn from one another when we are willing.
Frank MerrillMay 13, 2021
Perhaps my life is too simple. If someone whose opinion I don't wish to hear is speaking at an event, I don't attend the event. Should I decide to attend the event anyway, perhaps in the interest of widening my horizon, my reaction to that event is purely my own and I have no responsibility or prerogative to express my own reaction to anyone else. Continuing that simplicity and exercising my agency, I may decide to watch another film or television program in the event I do not choose to view or hear any more of the event I had been viewing, but exercising that agency does not authorize me to express my decision to anyone else.
John BerenyiMay 13, 2021
What a great article. I learned much from this. Thank you!
AnonymousMay 12, 2021
When your spouse takes joy in causing you pain then it's time to quit. Told my soon to be ex that he hurt my feelings and he laughed in my face. Video games and porn very much killed my marriage.
withheldMay 12, 2021
Jason is an amazing teacher. I have great memories of him teaching our small group of songwriters, at our local chapter of NSAI (Nashville Songwriters Assoc. International) , a couple of times. His work with Nashville Tribute has been a blessing in my life.
PatMay 12, 2021
It is always special for me to read of remarkedly good events as well as to read and feel the writers' emotions pertaining to stories like this one. By the same token, testimonies are always welcome to my mind. Knowledge of the gospel has given me the opportunity to smile, cry, wonder, as well as enjoy its truthfulness. Thank you for this example of strength and fortitude.
Timothy D JohnsonMay 12, 2021
When Brigham Young fist announced the food storage program, he said "seven years food storage". In my grandfather's time is was three years. In the 70's, one year good two years better. In the 90's, one year. Then in the early part of this century we were told to reduce it to three months but still keep working on the one year supply.
Where else in the scriptures did God keep lowering the standards before He finally sent the "kaboom" down. I worry that He has given us reduced amounts out of patience. But patience only goes so far when so many members of the Church who have the means to obtain their food storage dismiss it as unimportant.
One man argued that we need to concentrate of spiritual things rather than temporal things. But remember it says in the D&C that all His commandments are spiritual.
In closing, Brigham Young also said "even if we do it half right we will have enough bread to feed ourselves and all the gentiles who come to us".
Quotes from Brigham Young are from Discourses of Brigham Young
Linda WillisMay 12, 2021
This article is packed full of wisdom from on high and can be a game changer for many. I have read Wally's articles for years and everyone has been a winner. This one is a home run!
Allison TullisMay 12, 2021
I hapoen to work for Head Start as a preschool teacher. We are a high-quality preschool program, not a daycare. This has always been a misconception about Head Start. And to say it is a failure is not at all accurate. The good we do to help our families, as well as our children, is the definition of success, not failure. I would like to know where you came up with calling our program a failure.
Nancy Holley JolleyMay 12, 2021
My Great Grandfather was also part of the same Hunt Company. The sacrifices they made strengthen me today...I can do hard things! Grateful for those who kept journals and strengthen us.
DaniMay 12, 2021
First, thank you to those that are willing to give kind, loving care to those children whose parents do not have the option of having at least one parent able to stay home. I was blessed to be able to be a "stay at home mom" for a number of years. Instead of using these huge amounts of money to push children out of the home, why not use it to enable one parent the option to stay home and raise their children in a loving, caring environment. This makes future generations who are a positive influence for their communities and society in general. Selfishness and greed have become increasingly the norm and therefore encouraged behavior. It was truly irritating and disappointing that if I sent my children to daycare there was a tax break, however in choosing to be at home with my children there was no additional tax advantage. Yes, it was a struggle financially, but I was there. No one will love your children as much as you. A "basic income" would be more useful than pushing children out of their homes. Again I know all too well the struggle for single parent homes, and homes where both parents are forced to work, just to make ends meet-- sometimes even that is a terrible struggle. So again, I am so grateful to those loving souls who are truly CARING for the children who need them while parents are unable to be there. Thank you and so much gratitude. I pray we can come together and push for families to have the ability to care for and nurture their children. I pray for them and for those who willingly and compassionately step up to help those who sincerely need that extra help and support.
SebMay 12, 2021
Another contributor to the increased inflation has not been mentioned in the article: The printing of trillions of dollars. The FED has printed more than $10 trillion in the last twelve months. Guess how inflation is defined. It’s not an increase in consumer prices but an increase in the supply of money.
John R CarpenterMay 12, 2021
"Educate and arm yourself and your children with the truth. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right.” It’s time to call out critical race theory for what it is, employ every means possible to end its use, and model the true rejection of racism by building “bonds of genuine friendship” through love and service to all."
AMEN AND AMEN!
Gaye Jones WillisMay 12, 2021
Clark, thank you for this wonderful article. Mary was an amazing example to all and her posterity need the world. I hope you and your family are well.
StephaniMay 12, 2021
This movie was hilarious! My kids have watched it every day since we watched it as a family. My husband and I laughed through the whole thing. At the end, I appreciate that they weren't in your face about her being a lesbian. Just a brief mention of a potential girlfriend. Most kids won't even catch it. Mine certainly didn't.
David BarkdullMay 12, 2021
Br Hinkley, enjoyed your story. I come from a very similar heritage. My great great grandparents, Thomas and Ann Oakey were baptized by Wilfford Woodruff, emmigrated in 1856 and travelled with the Willie company. Their 11 year old daughter was the last to die in that company the night before they entered the valley. As yours is, their story too is humbling for all that they went through. Like you, in 2006, my father, brother and I honored their names by spending 4 days out on the trail hiking between the Ice Slough and Rock Creek Hollow on the days, 150 years later that they did. It was an amazing experience and mother nature did not disappoint us providing an ice cold snow filled night with straight line winds. Even though we camped in our tent, we had a gas heater and plenty of extra wool blankets and good food. Like yours, It was an experience we will always remember. I have also just finished my own book, 428 pages of my Oakey ancestors and their trip to Utah and Idaho and their lifes here. I was the logical lead for three stake treks in the past 12 years and know that stretch of the pioneer trail well. One year Jolene Alphin arranged for some of your Pace relatives, two sisters to Margerie (and their names slip me now) came to our stake and spoke to our youth about their family's experiences on the trail. They even brought a large visual display object for everyone to see. It was quite a memorable evening. Thank you for sharing your family's story. It is nice to read about others who share the same passion and convictions.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
Beautiful article about the depth of our Heavenly Father's love for each of us. The more messed up our lives are, the more He wants to help us! How sad when we withdraw from Him because of embarrassment or guilt. I have come to sense who my Heavenly Father is through the Holy Ghost as I read the scriptures and pray. I also feel His love reflected through the love and kindness of others. I feel his love when I ponder the beauties of nature and all that He has provided for us. Every breath I take is a gift from Him. He is constantly proclaiming His love for us every day if we have eyes to see and ears to hear.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
Great advice! As we learned in the pandemic, it doesn't take long for shelves to empty. We need to be prepared--especially with food and water. It is very comforting to know that in the event of a disaster, you will not go hungry or suffer from thirst. The Lord has given us counsel to prepare and we need to act.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
I realize some woman have no choice--they must work to support their families. I respect and admire them for the heavy burden they carry. However, those who do not really need to work are missing out on so much. It breaks my heart to think of so many little ones spending long hours every day away from home. NO ONE can love or care for children the way a mother can. When our children were growing up, we often were stretching to make ends meet, but I am so grateful I was able to care for my children at home. Looking back, it gives me peace and great satisfaction to know I was able to put my children first. I was the one to see them take their first steps and say their first words. I was the one who was there for them when they were afraid, sick, or just needing a mom's touch. What a blessing.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
My husband and I have been married almost 51 years. Yesterday he sent me a text: "I love thinking about you." Little things like this melt a woman's heart! I believe that continually expressing love and appreciation is a key to a happy marriage. I also loved the advice here in this article about having your notebook ready during prayer to write down inspiration for your marriage. This is in harmony with President Nelson's counsel. One of the great truths I have learned over the years is that it is not my job to "fix" my husband. My job is to love him, encourage him, and overlook his weaknesses.
Donald E.May 11, 2021
The First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles have received the COVID-19 vaccine.
The church is spending sacred funds to help other nations afford the vaccine for their populations.
The church encourages vaccinations per the Handbook:
Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination.
Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost.
I've followed the Prophet's example on this one.
People who are willing to put the health of so many others at risk for their own political views do not get my sympathy when they are called out for it.
Earl P Chantrill (Please withhold my name)May 11, 2021
I and several of my family members have not been vaccinated for COVID because of an inherited medical condition. I resent being told that I am a "holdout" and putting others a risk. We have taken this action because of medical advice. We have no reason to believe that we have been exposed to COVID.
SherryMay 11, 2021
You can not base the effects of childcare solely on Quebec’s experiences. There’s is vastly different than BC where we have excellent childcare enabling Mother’s and Father’s to go to work confident their children are safe.
The problem lies in qualified child care... one must have the qualifications, and the facility must meet requirements. My daughter ran a childcare and those children grew up well established. She had to meet federal guidelines and expectations... my niece also runs one... childcare is often the only way a family can work. To label childcare centres breeding grounds for ill behaved children or children with social issues is so unfair. I’m assuming you chose Quebec because it met the criteria for your article. Had you chosen to truly investigate you would see that BC is vastly different on all levels... in Quebec children with special needs are not allowed in public school... here they are and are given aides to help them. Had this been the rule for my hearing impaired child, he would had to have gone to s Special school and not known how to interstate with regular society nor would other children know how to form friendships with him.
He now has a very good job and you would never know he was hearing impaired. Had he gone to a Special School I truly believe he would be on Federal Aide... even our healthcare is far better than Quebec.
So please if your going to write an article on childcare look into more than one example... I always value the articles here but this one disappoints seriously... Mom’s and Dad’s especially single need our help. What would you expect them to do? Leave their kids alone at home?
Employers won’t pay for childcare... nor should they...those of us who can afford to pay the taxes to help out those who struggle are doing exactly what the Saviour asks us to do!!
What you should be suggesting is making sure this money isn’t squandered, and misused. Not condemning the children who need it to a life that by your view is doomed.
I’m so very disappointed. Why don’t you come and inspect the childcare system here in BC? Then rewrite your article.
David DurfeeMay 11, 2021
If anti-vaxxers were putting only their own health and lives at risk, it would be one thing. But they are not. It is truly the same as someone who, despite gentle rhetoric and kind encouragement, steadfastly insists on having the freedom to drive while drunk around my family members and friends. Tell me again how I'm supposed to respond. After orchestrating worldwide fasting and prayers for God to help in the effort against Covid, President Nelson got vaccinated. I'm following the example of a true and living Prophet of God.
PamMay 11, 2021
I have chosen at this time to wait to receive the vaccine. I had Covid in January and it was just a mild cold for me. 1) I have had 2 heart Ablations to cure heart arrhythmia, so that makes me very hesitant to risk taking a vaccine with that side affect. 2) I have Multiple Sclerosis that is in remission. For me the risk of an immune changing vaccine is not worth it. Would you risk being paralyzed to avoid a cold? I do not get flu shots or pneumonia shots because of the risk of my MS going out of remission. We need to not judge others when we do not know all their issues.
Karell BinghamMay 11, 2021
I just remember reading once of a daycare teacher who sat the little ones in a circle around her. She then asked each of them their favorite place to go. The most unanimous answer given: home.
Branna ParkMay 11, 2021
I agree that abstaining from getting the vaccine for political reasons would be foolish. However, EVERY person I have spoken to who has refused the vaccine or is waiting to get it is doing so based on science, not politics. I know both liberals and conservatives who are not getting the vaccine. (And I know both liberals and conservatives who have.) Many (most?) of the unvaccinated have spent months following the research, studying the science, learning all they can about this vaccine. I'd like to add, too, that a vaccine itself can create a breeding ground for mutations. The unvaccinated will always be blamed for outbreaks and mutations, but so often it is the vaccinated that is at fault. Most people have absolutely no understanding of this, however, and simply trust the narrative rather than doing the research. And I don't fault them for that, because they simply don't know that there is an alternative narrative to research. I like to compare it to missionary work. The investigator says, "I know the Book of Mormon isn't true." "How do you know? Have you read it?" "No, I don't have to read it. I just know." Well, you don't just know, and you'll never know the truth unless you actually read it. Some people might say that their pastor tells them it's not true. Well, how many pastors have actually read it? And here is where it gets a little touchy. People trust their pastors, just like people trust their doctors. But what most people don't realize is that most doctors haven't studied vaccine safety and efficacy. They, also, are simply quoting the narrative. One has to actually question the narrative and do the research before he'll get any real answers to the question.
Ed GayhartMay 11, 2021
Pretty simple. People running a kiddy kennel don’t love your kids.
MaryMay 11, 2021
Some women don't have a choice but to work so I would see Bidens proposal benefiting them. As much as I would love to believe in a perfect world where where life works out perfectly, for some that just isn't the case. Life can be convoluted and messy. As for Josh Hawley, I would be interested in an article where you do present some of his policies.
Robert W CowartMay 10, 2021
Becky as the father of nine little ones I find it hard to find the right words to express my admiration for your Christ like love and action for Yolanta and her brother. I know there will be some special times later when as a family on the other side you all reflect on these mortal experiences.I have to ask is that Yolantas brother in the middle of the 2 bigger boys. He looks like her.
Edi WinbergMay 10, 2021
What a beautiful story. Thanks so much for sharing. What a beautiful family you have and what a blessing you and your husband are in their lives. I pray that the Lord will continue to bless you and your family.
DorrieMay 10, 2021
I did ordinance work for an aunt who had been the "black sheep" of her family-rebellion, alcoholism, you name it. In doing her initiatory work, I felt her spirit there, joyful and full of gratitude. The veil is very thin but not only in the temple. I lost a son when he was 47. He was the "go to" guy who could fix, build or invent just about anything. and his hand was always extended to help others. There have been times when I've been stymied by a mechanical or technical problem and I've said" Son, this would be so easy for you, could you give me a little help?" And, somehow things would go together. Did I pray to him? Of course not, I just said what I would have if he were still here. Did I worship him? Absolutely not! He's just another of the Lord's angels who has always been willing to do His work.
Jackson BartonMay 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing. My heart has been filled with overwhelming love and compassion. Brave w omen!
Terry MahaffeyMay 10, 2021
Thank you for the thoughtful article. People can be hateful when not agreed with. As one who has decided to wait to learn what the long term consequences of the "vaccine" turn out to be I am grateful for your reasoned approach to the discussion of the pros and cons of the "vaccine". The general public has been brainwashed by the lack of clarity on what they are really putting into their bodies.
P HMay 10, 2021
I'd like to say, from a perspective of having had two serious virus infections in my life, one causing effects over 66 years (and to which only the resurrection will ultimately resolve the issues inflicted) that there is another reason not mentioned. That is, if people have been vaccinated against the mumps, measles, small pox, polio, shingles, and any other number of diseases and their resistance to the Covid vaccine is due solely to political ramifications (because they took their que from politicians rather than medical professionals), then they are not really selfish---they are foolish. When Moses held up the Brazen Serpent people refused to look at it at their own peril. It's easy to think they were foolish and I can't help but feel this is similar. It's their choice and I would never force any action upon them, but that doesn't mean they have chosen wisely in making their decision. Those (like me) who know of personal friends that have perished from Covid have a difficult time seeing the prevention efforts being ignored in favor of some assumptions that are political in nature. That's the nature of personal freedom, though. Defensiveness isn't necessary on either side to try and convince the non-convincible. It is what it is..
JessMay 10, 2021
It’s strange how the people who feel like this- that people who are hesitant about the vaccine won’t acknowledge the why behind the hesitation. The fact that the pharmaceutical companies have each been fined what adds up to Billions of dollars for fraud and covering up adverse clinical trial results in order to get a drug to market- then later been sued (and lost) because of the harm the drug caused and this same scenario has played out multiple times- so they’re repeat offenders & clearly not remorseful of the the lives that were affected or taken by the blatant dishonesty, doesn’t inspire a lot of confidence in a vaccine. Especially when they would now not be held liable for any harm or deaths caused by this vaccine. The lack of honesty and accountability should give everyone pause to consider- even if they eventually chose to receive a vaccine, but it is something that should be taken into consideration.
KarinaMay 10, 2021
I love this story!!! Thank you so much for sharing. Wow!!! and to think about how many times I've complained about doing chores around the house and taking care of children. I have no troubles at all after reading your story. Thank you for being a great example of Christ-like love! Blessings for you and your family.
JustinMay 10, 2021
Thank you for posting this here! I've seen the level of this vitriol in comments made in more liberal publications, and was just STUNNED at how we've gotten to this point.
I have not been vaccinated, after having looked hard at the science relating COVID and not seeing any benefit to myself or others over my contracting and fighting it naturally, and having seen a politicization of (and freedom of liability from) the vaccine.
More concerning is the effort to squelch the negative side effects of the vaccines, minimal as they may be in numbers, which paints a rosy picture, diminishes honest research into the vaccine, and tosses aside any consideration for long-term effects.
We are the human trials.
We should give some consideration for the "control group". And nobody is professionally allowed to point out that the vaccine does not prevent you from getting COVID, or that it doesn't cover mutations - akin to a flu situation.
I fear that "fear" has taken hold, and is being exploited politically and emotionally.
JowoMay 10, 2021
So much hatred, anger and vitriol over a shot. And what about the next plague and the next one and....Satan is clever, very very clever. Part of the concept of infinity is an infinite number of ways to attack agency. Thank you for this article.
PaulineMay 10, 2021
I guess I can deal with what I have to deal with. Thanks for the story.
Michael EdwardsMay 10, 2021
based on his column there certainly seems to me to be a fair number of church members cheating on their spouses.
after all how many spouses who have been cheated on aren't writing in.?
so again i think that there are a lot of church members who cheat on their spouse simply based upon how many of his columns center on that issue.
ShaunaMay 10, 2021
It all goes so fast--enjoy it. These are such precious years
My 17 and 18 year olds still aren't quite at the thanking me stage. It's more of a separation time for them from me. It's all good
CherylMay 10, 2021
This really helped me to see many more of my spiritual gifts, thank you!
Lawrence HigginsonMay 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing. You all are special examples of God like pure love and charity❤️
Lori Finlay HamiltonMay 10, 2021
Excellent!! Thanks Carolyn :) I actually surprised my 90 year old mother yesterday with a visit this week. I looked around her little addition to my sisters home and saw enough "stuff" and things "she loves" to fill 4 homes!!! Marie Kondo would have a Hey Day!! I asked her if she would consider going through some things so that it's not quite a burden when she does go, and unfortunately she said "nope, that' my sister's job. I am going to enjoy all of my pretty little things for as long as I can". Really?
We've just downsized and I've already begun to get rid of stuff, so our kids do not have too. I totally agree- our tastes are different. They may keep some things, or may donate of whatever. I'm grateful for your list of things to consider!! I'll start working on the rest of the list. Certainly staying as healthy as possible is one gift I'm passionate about, too
Cindy MartineMay 9, 2021
Marilyn (a.k.a. Sister Taggert), little did I know while we served together, that you had talents as a writer. In my defense, we didn't really know each other for very long. You have a wonderful talent and skill. Your writing reminds me a little of Erma Bombeck. Though I am not married, I can still relate to the spring cleaning recital. It comes every year and you would think we would get use to the routine and do everything we could to avoid the messes that have to be cleaned up; but no, we seem to be caught in the web of endless spring cleaning. Great article.
CherilynMay 9, 2021
A theory that is based in degrading one race to promote another is not coming from the Creator of us all. In fact it is of the adversary. As a teacher in a California performing arts public charter school, CRT and using everyone's preferred pronouns and honoring diversity are the main themes. None of it coming from any place of forgiveness. It's got a "revenge" edge to it.
A BYU professor delivered a recent devotional about racism, which was in a very positive tone and in keeping with Gospel principles. But when he explained that we must all atone for the sins of others in the past, as the Savior did, with reparations, it took a detour doctrinally. First, it was the Savior's singular fore-ordained role to be the Savior of the World and to atone for us.
We are Saviors on Mount Zion by being temple worthy and redeeming the dead with saving temple ordinances. The Second Article of Faith declares that we are not punished for other's (Adam's) transgression but only for our own sins.
Moreover, my ancestors fought in the Civil War for the North. They opposed slavery. I cannot find any logic in the argument that I'm guilty of systemic racism.
If we truly believe we are all children of God, then we will follow the Lord's simple commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves, to follow the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
No law or government mandate can change the hearts of people, and is more often the cause of increased discord. Being examples of the Lord's way and promoting those ideals in the public square in non-religious language will go a long way to help our brothers and sisters understand and model our examples of that better way as we go forward.
Truman ProctorMay 8, 2021
Being a father of 2 kiddos, one now 3 years old (son) and the other about 14 months (daughter), I identify with your sentiments so much. On Saturday mornings when I usually get up with kiddos so my wife can sleep in a bit (after having gotten up with them every morning during the week so I could get in the shower to get ready for work), I find more and more how extraordinary Mother's really are, and that sometimes there's just some comforts that Dad's can't provide and that's OK! I also believe I can work on improving my responses to my kiddos reactions to little things that really don't matter much in the grand scheme of things (i.e. Brother took my toy from me), but much more applicable is those teaching moments (me to my kids) and learning moments (my kids to me). On to another wonderful day! Bless you, Mom's...everywhere.
Margaret B. YoungMay 8, 2021
My husband and I saw it yesterday. I was glad to see a good audience--maybe 35 people.
The first story (which is also the fourth) moved me most deeply. Because we know the hard path of addiction in my family, I was grateful to see it so realistically addressed.
Margaret B. YoungMay 8, 2021
My husband and I were looking at opportunities to serve in the DR-Congo two days ago, and found that only missions in the USA were listed. Nice to know that the world is open again.
Laura M. Brotherson, LMFT, CSTMay 8, 2021
Well said Jeff!! As a fellow all-in member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints myself and a certified sex therapist I would have said much of this myself!! Thanks for spelling out so many important points here!
Laura M. Brotherson, LMFT, CSTMay 8, 2021
Just a quick response to Michael Edward's question - We don't really know for sure that "a lot" of members are having affairs, but a few reasons people do is that they don't carefully nourish their marriage (i.e. making each other a priority with date night, daily couple time, attending to each other's love language, etc.). That leaves marriages vulnerable to external influences and temptations. This is not unique to members of our church. My "infidelity formula" can apply to anyone:
Vulnerability + Opportunity + One Dumb Decision = Slippery Slope to Disaster (Infidelity)
And well done Geoff as usual!! Sure appreciate all your great insights on marriage and family issues!
MarieMay 8, 2021
Beautiful story of true love, thank you!
WeezieMay 7, 2021
My guess on why there are so many affairs are: porn, social media secret accounts, and terrible boundaries with anyone of the opposite sex. You should never engage in relationships with them, no matter how harmless they may seem at first. It never turns out positive. Your spouse needs to the the one and only person in your life.
CharlieBrown2292May 7, 2021
Wonderful article! The power of the Adversary has been indeed unleashed like never before, and only being diligent in seeking the power of the atonement into our lives can save us from this terrible evil. Latter-Day Saint pioneers were faced with persecution and having to cross the plains under harsh conditions. Our fights against adversity may not be physical but spiritual, but just about as intense.
Old GuyMay 7, 2021
She says that she knows her husband is being faithful and yet still has such severe triggers. This dear sister has insecurity issues that have probably never been addressed and need addressing before she can progress..
LauraMay 7, 2021
Childlessness in a family-centered church is indeed difficult. But you can find comfort in the emotional, spiritual, physical, and financial support of your husband – something that thousands of single women do not have, in addition to being childless.
stevie maireid mckennaMay 7, 2021
Excellent subject. I think both mothers and fathers should address this with their sons but also their daughters as well. Fathers may have a stronger influence with this subject than mothers would as they can relate from their own experiences when they were an adolescent boy. Also, a boy may feel more comfortable discussing this subject with dad and a little uncomfortable with talking about it with mom.
Barbara BlackburnMay 7, 2021
High Nibley influenced my life profoundly. I watched FARMS diligently and read, I think, all but three of his books. My understanding of the gospel has soared because of Hugh Nibley and Abraham Gileadi..
Alisa HallMay 7, 2021
Thank you for your vulnerability! This is a topic that needs more light and open discussions especially regarding how to respond and love unconditionally those close to us who struggle with pornography. One of the best books a therapist suggested I read regarding pornography is titled “The Language of Recovery” by Gordon S.Bruin M.A., L.P.C. (Amazon) His book helps you understand the “why” and how to relearn your responses to loved ones in a compassionate and hopeful way. I also feel we need to be very careful throwing the word “Addiction” around when someone is struggling with pornography. Most individuals who struggle are not addicted based on the psychological definition.
Linda WestoverMay 7, 2021
You have beautifully expressed a truth about mother/child relationships that we tend to overlook. Mother is our anchor, our "safe place." Even now as I approach my 79th birthday, I often call out in my heart for my sweet mother to help and comfort me in the hard times -- and the wonderful thing is that the help and comfort come!
Michael EdwardsMay 7, 2021
there sure are a lot of members of the church having affairs.
why is that?
anyone brave enough to have an opinion on that?
Kristen OpenshawMay 7, 2021
I resonate more with some of the comments here than I do with the article. I also wonder why this and a few Come Follow Me podcasts I've listened to gloss over D&C 42:43-44:
"And whosoever among you are sick, and have not faith to be healed, but believe, shall be nourished with all tenderness, with herbs and mild food, and that not by the hand of an enemy. And the elders of the church, two or more, shall be called, and shall pray for and lay their hands upon them in my name; and if they die they shall die unto me, and if they live they shall live unto me."
With as much physical and emotional trouble I've had wearing a mask when I needed to, I can't imagine the effect a vaccine like this may have. "One size fits all remedies" do not fit all, and that's okay.
ChrisMay 6, 2021
I sometimes ask Heavenly Father to allow my ancestors to help answer a specific need I may have, if it be His will. I have found and performed temple ordinances for hundreds of my and my husband's relatives, and know that they have been allowed to assist me and my family on occasion.
Kristen OpenshawMay 6, 2021
I'm not offended or worried about the examples of asking those on the other side of the veil for help. I don't think Timmie Lynn prayed to Matilda, she communicated with her. She posed a question and received help through the power of the Holy Ghost, surely authorized by the Lord, in my opinion!
EPHMay 6, 2021
My fight covered several decades. I've had in my life a lot of circumstances that have made the fight almost impossible. Mental health can be a big component. But it all has kept me more humble before the Lord and in a state of continual gratitude for His mercy. Surprisingly this article already addresses most of the things I could talk about. Good job!
MaryMay 6, 2021
I don't think the stories shared in the article came across as "praying" in the traditional sense or is an example of idol worshiping. I read it as having a conversation with them. If they do indeed feel their actual presence there in the temple and like in some of the example we can hear actually voices, than I see no reason why they wouldn't be able to understand our thoughts and feelings (even if they are non-vocal). To say that it is form of prayer or idol worshiping is ridiculous!
Also, If we needed help and were to ask someone who was physically with us, I don't think it different than what they are doing and no one would condemn others for it.
Michael HogganMay 6, 2021
Mothers also need to be self-aware about any women's magazines, clothing catalogues and "romance" novels they might have in the house. Do they watch soap operas? I suspect many women have a double standard about risque material. They only object to risque material targeted at men.
Timothy D JohnsonMay 6, 2021
I have explained to my female friends that, for a man, it becomes a hunger that drives to be fulfilled. Not many women can understand this but it is the method that drives us to unite ourselves in marriage. Otherwise why would a man want to take the responsibility for a wife and children (from an old missionary discussion, "j", I think) ?
That is why a woman should be sympathetic to her husbands needs.
Another thing that is not widely understood yet is that women have much more Oxytocin, the hormone that create bonding and love. It has been proven that the only time a man gets a surge in his Oxytocin is when he has an orgasm through intercourse. Hence because of that he bonds with his wife and love grows between them. Deny him this and tragic circumstance may follow. But as Priesthood holders, we need to learn how to practice self control as is dictated in the Scriptures and be courteous to our wives also!
Yves ValenMay 6, 2021
Excellent article. Something every father, mother, and Church leaders should read. The description she makes of the world in which we live is so accurate. But there is hope, absolute hope in the rescueing power of the Lord to help all of His children overcome temptations. That is the reason why He asked His disciples (which all of us are) to pray always in order to overcome them.
ShaunaMay 6, 2021
Thank you so much for this gutsy, brave and enlightening article. It does indeed seem that young men in our society are being attacked from every side. I am raising girls and just pray that there are some worthy young men out there for them to date and marry someday. You have helped me at least understand what those young men (and now frequently, women) are up against.
StevenMay 6, 2021
I am a former bishop, and have seen the effects of pornography on individuals and families. How remarkable to hear a woman express what every normal mortal human male since Adam has experienced! This is as significant as if a man had experienced, hormonally, what it is like to be pregnant. It is almost unbelievable, yet her descriptions of the raging hormonal torrent are right on the money. Every male I have ever known is tossed into the river at puberty and remains there until disease or geriatric decay pushes him into the eddies and slower side currents. No one I know has ever actually gotten out of the river. Society has always just expected us to "bridle your passions" and learn how to body surf in the rapids. This article is wonderful for mothers of sons. What might it mean for wives of husbands?
Wayne LarsenMay 6, 2021
Terrific article! I hope many others read it.
Barbara MattatallMay 6, 2021
This exact thing happen to me in March only it was my phone, not the lap top. The results were exactly the same. Thanks for sharing. Now I know I am not the only one who does something like this. And in fact, I am teaching the Relief Society class this Sunday on "I Am A God of Miracles" and this will be an excellent lead into the class. I had completely forgotten about my own experience.
Maryann TaylorMay 6, 2021
I have never felt a yearning or great need to know more about my Heavenly Mother. I am content that the Lord has revealed, and continues to reveal to me, what I need to know. I do not feel any less validated in my worth because there is not more information about her--- because I am secure in the knowledge that I am a daughter of Heavenly Parents. I have also noticed there is a growing trend among some women suggesting we should pray to our Heavenly Mother, even though the scriptures are very clear that we pray ONLY to our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ. Prophets have also openly discouraged this practice.
Maryann TaylorMay 6, 2021
I, too, have felt the beautiful spirit that comes when performing temple ordinances for my family. My blessings have come in the knowledge that I am doing the Lord's work, opportunities and inspiration to find information, and the increased love I feel for my family. This is the second article I have read where people have requested favors from those on the other side of the veil. There is a thin line between doing this sacred work and ancestor worship. Making requests of our ancestors is nothing less than praying to them. Doing so cuts our Heavenly Father out of the equation. We make our requests known to him, and him only. We also do not take it upon ourselves to make assignments to those on the other side of the veil. That, also, is the Lord's right.
Name WithheldMay 6, 2021
This essay is important and perhaps essential.
Thanks to MERIDIAN for regularly publishing articles on sex, by which I mean passion and sometimes sin. Hooray for the editorial policy. Few topics are more timely and important, and silence is not the answer.
The author deserves a gold medal . In the mean time, she has my thanks.
The YM general presidency should find out who she is and put her on their board. (No, not the YW.)
Whoever she is, she had to take time and energy and courage to produce her article, and I, for one, am grateful, both personally and because I think she has performed a moral service to the Saints.
BecMay 6, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have had boys that struggled with this and I felt terrible for them. I know it is so tough for them. You brought out some really good points.
Jan KingMay 6, 2021
This article this morning is truly an answer to my prayers! My adult son who lives with us, who served an honorable mission, married in the temple, has done a great deal of family history research work, and who has wandered in and out of the church for a number of years, no longer believes the Joseph Smith story. He apparently has read some stories such as the one described here, and his belief has faltered. This article confirms for me that one cannot take such stories and allegations at face value without investigating and reading farther. There's always "more to the story"!!
Jim ScottMay 6, 2021
I’ve always felt prayers can only be to God and that appeals to others beside God is on the cusp of idolatry vid a vis the Catholic habit of prayers to Mary. Yet here are examples of spiritual communication outside the approved method.
How do we categorize such prayers and appeals.
A. BinghamMay 6, 2021
A hearty effort to lay out a case for vaccination at this point in the COVID-19 pandemic. But sadly, these gene therapies are not one size fits all. Some people simply cannot tolerate this type of therapy and risk outweighs the benefits. Unfortunately you did not address a growing evidence base globally on the effectiveness of therapeutics in the prevention and early treatment of COVID like symptoms, and, efforts by scientists and practitioners to refine protocols that are currently being used in hospitals globally, endorsed by governments, globally and used extensively and successfully by practitioners. A one sided discussion. Many people are not able to take these gene therapies as the risk for adverse events and side effects simply outweigh the benefits. Therapeutics have far fewer adverse reactions and may be the safer option for some people. Thank you. https://covid19criticalcare.com/covid-19-protocols/i-mask-plus-protocol/
LaurieMay 6, 2021
Thank you for this enlightening video. I'm so grateful for this discussion about the first spiritual gift mentioned in Section 46. Surely that must be the key to being able to recognize and obtain our personal spiritual gifts and then learn how to use them to bless the lives of others as well as our own.
E.PetersonMay 6, 2021
I appreciate that this void is being revealed. I wonder how many invisible females with great influence have been veiled in scripture. Your article was timely, appropriate, that many women have identified with. May our daughters & sons get to realize their total divinity going back & moving forward in the Gospel.
MarkMay 6, 2021
Talking about racism and it’s impact on our fellow brothers and sisters brings it to light so that it can done away with. History is full of examples of using religious teachings in a way that perpetuates racist systems. We would be wise to seek to understand those whose lives are impacted by racism. We would be wise to listen to the President Nelson and follow his example in taking the lead in ending racism.
JaneMay 5, 2021
Congrats! This sounds like such an innovative program and you'll be great!
Boanerges RubalcavaMay 5, 2021
Few months go I posted a comment saying that the reason Heavenly Father seldom refers to Her is because He is protecting her for the stupidity of man. somebody here felt that "protect" was a kind of chauvinist expression that denigrates Her. I am sorry but it is a principle for me to protect my wife from anything in this world because I LOVE HER. It is very likely that she also feels that she needs to protect me because she loves me.
HeidiMay 5, 2021
Thank you. Your article has given me a lot to think about as I am trying to change my perspective on my trials. I also find myself questioning whether I have really been forgiven of certain sins and your experience helps me work on that also.
Christine PartnaMay 5, 2021
Ok. This is a lovely depiction of true love. However, who chose the photo that accompanies this story? The woman described was younger than 60. The photo clearly depicts a woman much older than that.
Karell BinghamMay 5, 2021
The Book of Mormon stands on its own as a witness of truth to those who take the time to read and study it. It is an amazing complex study of a civilization as well as a testimony that God lives. I find it quite amusing what folks come up with to try to dissuade others of its veracity and of the knowledge that Joseph Smith was who he said he was!
ScottHMay 5, 2021
Thank you for this article. We live in a time a great fear and mistrust. While the vaccines may seem like a godsend to some, others regard them with great suspicion. There are good reasons for this. Many of the institutions involved (big government, big pharma, big media, etc.) have trustworthiness issues due to power differentials, deliberate misinformation, demonstrated incompetence, and conflicting incentives. Many are also concerned about the long-term effects of the vaccines, which cannot be studied until enough time has passed. Institutions opposing the vaccine also have ulterior motives. Fortunately, we have living prophets who speak for the Lord, and we have access to the Holy Spirit to help us make decisions, even in the face of imperfect information and perverse incentives. Being vaccinated when moved to do so by divine counsel and whisperings of the Spirit does not have to mean that one trusts untrustworthy institutions; it only has to mean that one trusts God. The Lord can use any means at his disposal to work miracles, including corrupt and imperfect institutions.
vickieMay 5, 2021
in reading this i find that the story abt martin harris is just that a story. martin harris believed in the book of mormon and the devil had to discredit him so no one would believe the book of mormon existed.
Jim WinebrennerMay 5, 2021
Thank you very much for addressing this extremely timely and important issue. Thank you very much also addressing (at least slightly) some of the aspects of it that cause great concern to anyone paying attention to the real state of things.
Unfortunately, there are also other issues desperately needing to be addressed that you did not, and I've yet to find anyone addressing them at all within the framework of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Namely, the facts that there has never been any virus-based epidemic anywhere, let alone a pandemic; there was no need for any vaccine in the first place for a "disease" that amounts at most to a seasonal flu; we know that governments and non-government organizations and individuals are simply using this propaganda in an attempt to generate enough fear to get people to relinquish their freedoms, as is in fact happening already to a great degree; and so on, and so on.
Someone needs to address these issues and explain why the Church is not only ignoring the real problem, but the leaders themselves are actually getting unnecessarily vaccinated and encouraging others to do the same. I, for one, am desperately seeking an understanding of this, and have yet to receive any explanation from anyone.
Wally & Nancy GoddardMay 5, 2021
Beautiful! Often we don't recognize the miracles God delivers through familiar means. Thank you for your faith and your insight.
Michael DetrickMay 5, 2021
Very one-sided argument, totally ignoring the fact that there are thousands of medical doctors all over the world being censored as they attempt to educate us on safer methods of attacking the C0VlD pandemic. Too bad you chose to ignore all those doctors.
See AmericasFrontLineDoctors dot org
Boanerges RubalcavaMay 5, 2021
"Anti Americanism" is greatly overused, but in the case of Critical Race Theory, is needed with great urgency. We must be aware of what is happening all over the Country destroying our PRINCIPLES, OUR VALUES, and eventually the USA REPUBLIC/FREE MARKET.
Andrew J. CurrieMay 5, 2021
Reverend Clark’s unnamed “gentleman” has all the earmarks of a NYT, WaPo, CNN exclusive story.
L. J. BrowerMay 5, 2021
This saddens my heart. If these pholosophies are being taught and espoused at BYU, where can we send our children to avoid these damaging philosophies of men? I hope the classes these woke professors teach are not required. It feels like they are trying to weaken the fibre of the doctrine of Christ.
Ted WinderMay 5, 2021
What a sensible approach to receiving the COVID-19 vaccine. I've been surprised and disappointed to hear some of my family and friends who feel vaccination doesn't apply to them, violates their rights or that it is a hoax. Thank you Dr. Bates for your thoughtful approach to this important and life-saving issue.
E SmithMay 5, 2021
Perceptive, clear, and brave article. Thank you.
ElizabethMay 5, 2021
Excellent and brave article. I wrote a letter last fall to president Worthen and the board of trustees regarding critical race theory and BYU, but did not get a response. I realize they are busy people and do not control all the details of the various departments, but I am saddened and alarmed that CRT has been so widely adopted at the department level across the University.
Kathleen JonesMay 5, 2021
Covid did not take my husband in August, but it did keep us apart for over two months before he came home in hospice. During that time, we were only able to speak with one another perhaps once a week. When he came home, it was only for a week before he left to his heavenly journey, but during that time he expressed his deep love for me and how glad he was to have me. As I sat next to him cradling him as he began his journey I made sure he heard me tell him how much I loved him, that it was okay to go we would be ok and we loved him. He did leave and I was so thankful I had found him, and that he knew it also. He watches over me I know along with our faithful dog we had to put to rest a month before his leaving. I have that love always and yes it was hard, but I committed for it for him as long as I could. Not sorry just thankful to the Lord.
Bruce FelixMay 5, 2021
I am wondering how you take into account "D&C 84:97 And plagues shall go forth, and they shall not be taken from the earth until I have completed my work, which shall be cut short in righteousness---" ?
David DurfeeMay 5, 2021
It took us as a Church 126 years to overcome certain racial assumptions and views and be ready to accept people of color as having full Priesthood rights and responsibilities. It has taken a similar period of time for our Church to overcome the traditional but wrong Christian view that the Godhood is comprised of 3 male members only. It's hard not to wonder what if anything else we are getting wrong.
ColinMay 4, 2021
Hear, hear!
Frank StarkMay 4, 2021
More confusingly, If Ryan Gabriel is allowed to preach something that is against Church Doctrine at BYU how do we know what to believe or do? This is when we need the Board of Directors to either fire him or endorse him. “For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle?" This is when we pray for guidance and an example from our leaders.
Morgan SolomonMay 4, 2021
This is lovely. It is difficult to grow up in the church with a personal testimony of my divine nature but not have and meaningful acknowledgment of our Heavenly Mother, a divine women. It makes you rethink your potential for divinity at times. Wish we spoke of Her more to better show the equality of men and women in eternity and here on earth.
LFPMay 4, 2021
Yes, it's great we are beginning to have open conversations about Her. Wouldn't it be great if men also found more worth and value by recognizing they are sons of a Heavenly Mother?
Sue ParkerMay 4, 2021
Hello Marilyn,
That you for writing this oh so humorous article. The spring cleaning of our garage in Pocatello also included lots of dirt and gravel from the snowy and icy roads. I’m thankful for a clean garage where we can hang our extra artwork!
Love to both of you,
The Parkers
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 4, 2021
I have been reading a lot about the Critical Race Theory. It seems to be in opposition to learning about the divinity and potential of each and every person. We should learn to value all people as Children of God and as our sisters and brothers. It seems as though Critical Race Theory wants to bring out the worst in people rather than the best.
Barbara BlackburnMay 4, 2021
Eve was taken from the rib of Adam. A mother in heaven has come about in recent years. We don't know all, so much is yet to be learned. Mary was enveloped....I don:t understand that full meaning, but she was a virgin. When we get more records it may tell us for sure. Logically, we think in terms of a man and a woman creating because that is how we create a child. We will find out eventually, but in the meantime I am satisfied in my role as a woman and helpmate.
AnonymousMay 4, 2021
As a Latter Day Saint therapist I was so sad to read about the difficulties fellow members have had. However, I would have preferred to read a more balanced article.
I am in private practice and don’t work for LDS Services, but I find myself bearing testimony so frequently in sessions, I have come to view my profession is a sacred privilege. I know many therapists who feel the same. I pray daily that my clients of all persuasions will feel Christ’s love through me and have a desire to seek Him, knowing He can heal them.
I would suggest that any member seeking therapy ask neighbors and friends for a referral. They should also make their beliefs known in the first session, along with their desire to prioritize spirituality as a tool for healing. Ask if your therapist agrees with ALL Church teachings. If you feel the relationship is not a fit, it is appropriate to say so and ask if the therapist knows someone who may be a better fit. Remember, when you are paying for a service, you are the boss. If you find yourself in a situation where the spirit cannot speak to you, either inside or outside the therapy room, LEAVE.
Much love and happy healing. ❤️
ShaunaMay 4, 2021
Wonderful--thank you for this brave and informative article. As a BYU grad, and someone who has a student there and one on the way next year, I can attest that BYU is not immune from worldly ideas and philosphies. The Gospel absolutely must be the lens through which all manmade ideas are viewed and not the other way around.
I love BYU and I love that the authors of this article are fighting to keep BYU unique. Bravo
Daryl GibsonMay 4, 2021
Thank you for tactfully calling out the mistaken notion that our Heavenly Mother is too fragile to be exposed to her children. Can you imagine your earthly mother hiding from you to avoid possible insult? My Mother in Heaven is powerful, resilient and, above all, eager to be known.
Karell BinghamMay 4, 2021
As usual, very enlightening. Thank you so much for your amazing ability to teach us!
Diane IrwinMay 4, 2021
I can soooooo relate to this article!! You would think that I wrote it, except the 'evil eye'. Thanks for bringing a sense of familiarity and humor to my day!
Gale E PhillipsMay 4, 2021
This is a very well-articulated explanation of Critical Race Theory and it's dangers. It is disturbing to know that Critical Race Theory, along with other critical theories, are being taught in our universities, including some universities where you might not expect it.
Michael ChandlerMay 3, 2021
Thank you for your intelligently thoughtful explanation. While skin color will always be a factor dividing some people, the bigger factor is the difference in culture and values. While different cultures can be valued for their good aspects, not all cultures are equal in value in contributing to improving happiness and the human condition. It is NOT. wrong to place higher value on those cultural qualities that improve happiness.
Mark TurnerMay 3, 2021
As one who has been subjected to the attempted brain-washing associated with attendance at mandatory diversity training provided by my employer, I can attest to the veracity of the descriptions and warnings provided in this article. I praise these individuals for taking the time to work out their arguments and for the courage to state them publicly. We are entering another dangerous time in the history of this country and I hope an pray that many will have their eyes opened soon to the reality of these dangers, that we may avoid them and continue to live free.
liaMay 3, 2021
Intrusive thoughts are a hallmark of obsessive compulsive disorder. It is treatable.
CarolMay 3, 2021
Wow! The last thing I want is for my tithing money to support the evil of critical race theory. For an eye-opening explanation of the theory, watch the PragerU video on the topic.
A.M. WestMay 3, 2021
Your article reminded me of something I read in the Recommendations Section of View of the Hebrews (1823):
“One of the impressions which this work is calculated to make is, the awful guilt and danger contracted by a rejection of Jesus Christ as our atoning Saviour." [Christian Watchman, published in Boston]
I believe there is a common theme in your article.
Interestingly, my sister has had that painting of the Second Coming (featured in your article) in her living room for 40 years. When I first expressed some doubts about The Church, she read Alma 1:24-25 to me. (I think this scripture would go well in your article). She read this scripture to me, I believe to shame me because I was starting to question things. But she wouldn't allow me to share the definition of three words with her: 1) Bias 2) Indoctrination 3) Uncritically
Regards,
A 64 year-old member struggling with faith, and being alienated by the the five people closest to me: My wife, two sisters, a brother-in-law, and a close friend of 40 years. (Their treatment of me does not reflect a Christianity I understand).
Karell BinghamMay 3, 2021
Well I guess! If we can't get it right on this campus, where can we get it right on any campus? Let us pray.
JULIE DAVISMay 3, 2021
It sounds like you may be going through a mid-life crisis. I would get a thorough physical exam and make sure your hormones and vitamin levels are normal. Certain vitamin deficiencies cause anxiety and intrusive thoughts. Plus, hormone imbalances at mid-life can cause many issues especially anxiety and insomnia. God Bless you and don't give up your family you will regret it.
Peggy McFarlandMay 3, 2021
Thank you so much for this timely and vital article.
Scott GardnerMay 3, 2021
This is an intriguing article. I'm struck by the authors opposing the quote from Kendi, "As Kendi states, “One either believes problems are rooted in groups of people, as a racist, or locates the roots of problems in power and policies, as an antiracist … There is no in-between safe space of ‘not racist.’” That quote sure does seem to make a complex issue into a false dilemma. Perhaps in the spirit of the week we should remind ourselves that "Only a Sith deals in absolutes."
Where does culture fit in? If there are aspects of my culture that are not in harmony with the gospel, is it racism to encourage me to change those parts of my culture?
A. LeeMay 3, 2021
The application of Critical Race Theory is just one tool the Adversary uses to force all individuals to think and act in one forced modality. Personal responsibility and choice is ignored. Manipulating and forcing individuals was Satan's plan in the pre-existence and continues plague all of us as we live our life on Earth.
Suzanne BowenMay 2, 2021
So well said and straight to the point...stop making excuses and start making covenants. Thank you.
MLBMay 2, 2021
I at one time had thoughts that really bothered me which were as disconcerting as yours and considerably more dangerous to myself and others. I have found one thing that I got from a TED Talk (of course I can't find it) that really helps me. It's this--when unwanted thoughts come I don't fight them, I just mentally stand back and look at them without judging them and without engaging. I find that after a short while the thought goes away. Eventually, they don't come back. The fear and the disgust you feel because of your thoughts keep you engaged with them. Remember that you are not your thoughts. Remember to quit judging yourself for these things because that judgement creates the fear that keeps them lodged in your brain. Hope this helps!
Bruce ForbesMay 2, 2021
Thank you for this article!
BeraMay 2, 2021
Wonderful article. The Lord’s standard is the only sure foundation in changing world and it’s philosophies.
BeraMay 2, 2021
Wonderful work on the well loved scholar Hugh Nibley. Love his works and will fondly remeber his great contributions to gospel scholarship.
RichMay 1, 2021
As Elder Oaks recently said, "Black Lives Matter" is a fundamental truth.
We can eliminate racism in our society while not becoming Marxist. I worry that this article is so bent on conflating the two.
TerryMay 1, 2021
Is it correct to call Mark Hoffmana "fellow" prisoner? Doesn't that imply Hugh Nibley was a criminal ?
JoyMay 1, 2021
I feel the same way in my marriage of 35 years! I wish we could talk. Maybe the similarities of our experience would uncover the tormenting source.
JoyMay 1, 2021
I feel EXACTLY the same way in my marriage of 35 years! I wish we could talk. Maybe the similarities of our experience would uncover the tormenting source.
laverl wilhelmMay 1, 2021
It's an amazing account of a young boy who simply knelt in prayer to ask how he could achieve forgiveness of sins!
AnnaMay 1, 2021
I went through a hard time a few years ago. In pure desperation I spent every available waking moment reading scripture, singing hymns (Peace in Christ on repeat", and praying. I felt very neurotic and stressed but I just kept my head down and prayed and prayed. After a few weeks of this, I had a beautiful spiritual experience that brought spiritual peace. My mind quieted down significantly. My body still felt stressed but I was ok. I could keep going. These feelings won't last forever. Get a blessing. Confess to a bishop. Do whatever you need to do. It is possible to heal.
Doris WilliamsMay 1, 2021
Geoff Steurer is a godsend. I have to read his counsel every weekend. His advice this week hits it out of the park (as he always does). I hope this dear sister heeds his inspired advice and holds her husband and kids close as she heals. She will come to understand that the dear Lord's forgiveness is for us too...whatever she feels she has done wrong...heartfelt prayer, asking for His guidance is so important; and I pray that she may be able to find a counselor who can help her through this trying time so she can find the joy she so desperately desires. Bless them all.
Abbie VianesMay 1, 2021
As an adult convert to the Church, i learned of Hugh Nibley through many missionaries - who had lived in my missionary apartment - talk about classes they later took with him at BYU. So I began purchasing all the FARMS articles I could find at BYU by him and purchasing his books. I quickly understood the GREAT gift to the Church and the world that Hugh Nibley is. He learned all the ancient languages we never could and read all the ancient manuscripts we never could and then opened them up to us. He gave us access to a world I would /could never have known. It built my testimony tremendously. Remember his beautiful translation of the ancient Hymn of the Pearl? I am so thankful for his mind, his intellect, his will to learn and to share, his dedicating his life to enlightening us. Hugh Nibley concentrated on the essential questions - those of eternity. Soooo what did Plato and Aristotle do to be remembered so long - that Hugh Nibley did not?
Tom WoodApril 30, 2021
This is a very fine lesson, Breck, especially for those that become fearful of the coming signs. You have shown how the Lord can defuse those fears if we remember the promises we've made with Him. I very much like how you've focused on those aspects of Section 45 instead of amplifying the darkness and unsureness that may lurk in the future as warnings. Good lesson, my friend!
Sandra HalesApril 30, 2021
Well spoken and spot on! Thanks Bro Lawrence
Bonnie CaldwellApril 30, 2021
Thank you for your excellent article abd for sharing your feelings!! I relate and empathize as I have been there too!!
Lane WolfleyApril 30, 2021
I enjoyed the article. I feel you're quite confused, hough. This article concerned Joseph's charisma, not his character. The two have nothing to do with each other.
Thanks for your thoughts, though.
CandyApril 30, 2021
Great job Sydney. We are not alone!
Maryann TaylorApril 30, 2021
What beautiful advice! I loved being reminded that just because our minds tell us something, that does NOT mean it is true. In fact, we have many thoughts we need to dismiss as false. One of my prayers is that the Lord will help me discern between the true and false thoughts that come into my mind. I believe reading the scriptures helps. The sister who wrote this letter needs to find the right therapist to help her get to the root of her problems. I really don't think it has anything to do with her marriage. It sounds like she has an inner unsolved conflict, and is suffering from self-abuse through her self condemning thoughts.
Still StrivingApril 30, 2021
Thank you for a message we all need to hear!
ShannaApril 30, 2021
Thank you for sharing your story, Sydney! You are absolutely not alone and are actually part of a prestigious club of amazing women! I am 12 years into marriage and in my 40s with no kiddos, so I get it. You beautifully outlined what it is like. Join us at Childless Sisters of the restored Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints if you're on Facebook!
AnnaApril 30, 2021
I once went through a difficult time. I was st the end of my rope and felt like I was hanging by my fingernails. I chose to spend every waking moment reading scriptures and singing hymns and prayed nonstop for help and relief. I felt crazy and I sounded crazy but I was attempting to keep my mind focused on God. It took several weeks of living in pure adrenaline and desperation but relief did indeed come in a spiritual form. I still went through many struggles and when that time ended I grieved for a year from the loss and pain. But because Christ came and supported me through that time my love of God and my testimony of his goodness grew leaps and bounds. Now that the pain has ended it is almost a cherished time. The song Peace in Christ on repeat may help. Blessings may help. Repentance and confession to your bishop may help. I'll pray for you too.
Michael HogganApril 30, 2021
My mission president once told me that Satan would put any thought into my head thst he could. I've reflected on that wisdom many times.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
No, you don't have to spend time around your daughter's affair-partner. Just stay close to HER. She may be in a swinging-door mentality and this new guy may be gone soon. Love her, and wait. Forgiving someone does NOT mean they have to become a part of your life.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
This is very disturbing, however, I do NOT believe the vast majority of LDS therapists would give counsel that is not in harmony with the doctrines of the church. Suffering from depression, I was very fortunate to find a Psychiatrist who was a member of the church and also a Bishop. I went to him because I needed to be able to trust that any counsel I received would not be in conflict with gospel principles. He was such a blessing and helped me greatly. We must be spiritually self-reliant so that we immediately recognize when someone is teaching us something that is not harmonious with the gospel. There are many wonderful therapists who are devoted members of the church. Keep looking until you find the right one.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
It is time for members of the church to stop smiling bravely when ignorant people ask them about when they are going to have children. We are only encouraging this unbelievable rudeness to continue when we pretend it is alright for them to ask such questions. The best response is to look at them with shock and ask: "Oh, My! Why would you ask me such a personal question?!" If enough people start doing this, maybe we can stop this kind of rude behavior.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
I am so glad you commented on the twisted focus on "diversity." We have become a nation that seems to place diversity on a pedestal and worship it. It is wonderful that we are each unique, but we are far more alike than different. The fact that we are ALL children of a loving Heavenly Father is what will unify us--NOT the obsession with the ways we are different.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
When we stop believing it is our job to "fix" our husbands, a great burden drops from our shoulders. Our job is to love and encourage. It is the job of the Holy Ghost to correct and guide them. What a relief!
Kari MoultonApril 29, 2021
What a well written article! I really loved it. I have been married for 21 years 19 of them childless. We adopted our baby girl in 2019. I really wish people would never ask child related questions to people. Just ask them to tell you about themselves, and let them share what they want.
The trial of infertility is really painful and 1 in 4 women have it. I hope that through articles like these it can help others see our pain and find ways to include us and support us. For so so so so many years I felt on the outside looking in. I really felt like people where not befriending us / including us. As soon as I adopted suddenly we were included.
Also, please don’t tell adoptive parents that now that they have adopted they will get pregnant easily and have their “real” children. Can’t tell you how many times people actually said that..... I was floored!
Lawrence James NielsenApril 29, 2021
Thank you for writing this. For many of us who have already spoken out on the great lie that is critical race theory and have been silenced and marginalized on social media, we lack a forum for speaking out and exposing the false Marxist Dogmas and "New Speak" of this growing evil.
Amanda DuPontApril 29, 2021
With no known cause, my husband and I went almost 10 years with bearing children. We then decided to adopt a son, and a year later another son, and our joy was complete. Later in life, we began taking in troubled children through Family Services and Family Court and always had a houseful. When that stage of our lives ended and we turned to serving missions, we counted up and realized we had helped to raise 34 children. We then felt that that was Heavenly Father's plan for us.
Keith WilsonApril 29, 2021
Thanks for a very poignant read. I loved reading about those things that anchor your soul in times of uncertainty or discouragement. I just hope that more of us can develop greater sensitivities to each other's burdens and challenges. We need each other in order to go forward in His work..
CathyApril 29, 2021
Thank you for explaining it so well. I did not realize it was being "taught in schools". I knew the pendulum had swung to people of color, I did not see the Marxist aspect. I hope others will become more aware.
"Evil triumphs when good men do nothing"
Thank you again for doing your part to end this!!
Sasha KwapinskiApril 29, 2021
Critical race theory could be described as a modern-day, updated version of the Doctrine of Original Sin. Like Original Sin, it assigns collective inherent guilt for alleged events and actions over which a person had no influence or control - thus denying people their right to be judged by their respective character and attributes. We believe, as is stated in A of F No. 2, that men are punished for their own sins and not for Adam's transgression, Likewise, we are accountable for our own actions and not for a fictional, imaginary concept of guilt which is attributed to one's race or ethnicity.
Laurie ConlinApril 29, 2021
Hello Brother Anderson,
I was a part of a BYU Nauvoo travel study group that came to Kirtland in 1997. You were our tour guide around the area, as I see you have done for so many others. I just wanted to thank you for sharing your love of the Savior and teaching about these significant years. I have held a deep love for Kirtland and all the miraculous and marvelous events because of your willingness to spend the day teaching us. Thank you for your faithfulness and devotion. (I still remember loving your delightful laugh!)
RhianApril 29, 2021
Thank you for the beauty of your message!
KatieApril 29, 2021
Oh my darling sister.
You and I share a very similar story.
I have now been married for 20 years- with no babies. Being a member of this gospel is sometimes hard when you're not a mother. But you'll find your place. And when you find that place, my darling- you will not only fly, but you will soar. You will change the world. And you have the power- as a childless woman- to influence SO MANY and to love SO BIG. Tap into that power and change the world.
That's the only way to survive this trial. Keep the faith in the hard times and love bigger than you ever thought you could. It won't make it easier or better- but it will change your heart. I promise.
Richard SkousenApril 29, 2021
This makes my heart ache for my county. May God bless us each to stand up against these evil combinations in our day!
I love the author's suggestion of using the "Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits public institutions from discriminating on the basis of race." Anyone who pre-judges me by the color of my skin, no matter what color that is, and who assumes that I have racist attitudes simply because of the color of my skin, is in violation of the law.
ChrisApril 29, 2021
Great article. My confusion rests in institutions that understand the true value of America and why they continue to say that Democrats (who support and push this agenda) should be a valuable and legitimate party to vote for. IF this Marxist ideology truly is as dangerous as you portray it to be, and I believe it is, then why don't churches who espouse the value of America and the protection of free religion, speak out against the Democratic party and this Marxist regime? Has this Marxist ideology infiltrated strong conservative religious organizations???
ShaunaApril 29, 2021
I"m absolutely with you on every point. as a former academic, I have seen these theories pulled out of academia and turned into public policy. It's chilling. And now it's here in my small school District in Murray, starting in the elementary schools of all places. we absolutely must stand up--parents in particular--and make it clear that our children are not guinea pigs for this pseudo Marxist indoctrination. The goal with critical race theory, is an inversion of power--not harmony or unity or learning to all get along. The time for naivete is over
CASApril 28, 2021
As always...great ideas! Thanks Carolyn for always being on top of it!
I struggle with rotating older foods out of my emergency kits. I am such a procrastinator!
vickieApril 28, 2021
this is so true. the way i learned to embrace the hit when i saw it coming or was heading straight for it, was to remind myself that God was watching me and He knew it was going to happen, so why should i worry. relax and dont strain so much, trust in Him which means i am not alone.
ChelsApril 28, 2021
I could have written this question myself. Every detail, down to the near 15 years of marriage, multiple children, whispers of “it’s not right”, first terrible few months of marriage spent crying, apply to my situation with my husband. I feel lost and alone most of the time, and my husband’s dedication is to his work. I feel for you sweet sister, and although I’m sorry to hear that you are in the same boat as me, I’m glad to know I’m not alone. I wish I could talk to you.
Diane IrwinApril 28, 2021
This is sooooooooo unsettling! I am having a hard time wrapping my head around such ideas. How can this be stopped???!!!???
Scot ProctorApril 28, 2021
Gina, Karl's first book is: Joseph Smith's Kirtland. Here is a link to buy it: https://deseretbook.com/p/joseph-smiths-kirtland-karl-ricks-anderson-14830?queryID=e46e229b0a585d43a0762556607cc13f&variant_id=93865-paperback Karl's second book on Kirtland, The Savior in Kirtland can be purchased here: https://deseretbook.com/p/savior-kirtland-karl-ricks-anderson-84510?queryID=e46e229b0a585d43a0762556607cc13f&variant_id=12036-paperback
KathrynApril 28, 2021
TRUE Gospel Message! Many of us spend our entire lives in "natural man mode" by trying to correct family members. We RARELY realize that the Myth is keeping us from
living the more critical parts of the Gospel by demanding "I am RIGHT! Change and do it my way!"
I"m in my 70s; that message is "just dawning" on me. Thanks Br. Goddard!
AliceApril 28, 2021
Hear, hear!
JaneApril 28, 2021
I think this is a great conversation to have. I realize that you gave reasons for why people think they should see an LDS therapist, but I think those reasons are not as important as the quality of the therapist.
I saw a non-LDS therapist for years, and in all that time, she never imposed her own values on our conversations. In fact, she did that so effectively that I didn't know what her religion was (if any), her political beliefs, or even whether she was in a relationship.
That's how I think it should work, and if done well it doesn't matter what the therapist's religion is.
DorisApril 28, 2021
Way to go, Carly. You truly blessed many lives, and I'm sure this is just the beginning!
R CApril 28, 2021
Outstanding and right on!
Chris HowellApril 28, 2021
What a wonderful story of kindness and generosity. Clearly this is the kind of service and "hear him" that we need to all be about.
Linda HaywardApril 28, 2021
I have known this sweet girl since she was little. Giving her “Ellen “ car to help someone else doesn’t surprise me at all. Carly is a beautiful girl inside and out.
She is a great example of Christ like actions and love.
Deborah SummersApril 27, 2021
I enjoy your podcasts very much. I am a little confused about this episode. Quoting from the podcast: "Pieces and parts of the JST are added as an addendum to the scriptures or can be found in your gospel library under Study Helps ... and then "At that point, at the conclusion of his studies, the JST was put back into our scriptures in the appendix." So do we have ALL the JST revisions SOMEWHERE in our current scriptures? Or is there more somewhere else? Thanks.
ScottHApril 27, 2021
My dad grew up in Nazi Germany. The approaches the author describes are chillingly similar to the tales Dad told of school and public life in Germany during those years. I know this post validates Godwin's Law, but in this case it is factual.
Virginia RockwellApril 27, 2021
Wow. I thought we were the only ones with a bad experience with a chauvinist LDS therapist. This is very sad.
AmyApril 27, 2021
In response to Spencer: Parents have a responsibility to educate their children in love and wisdom. The author of a recent article I read shared their opinion that the difference between indoctrination and education is that "education points out that there are different solutions, often to the same problem. Indoctrination poses the belief that there is only one solution to a problem." Because children are taught to learn how to receive inspiration from God in how they should conduct their lives and how they can approach any difficulty they might face, I can't think of a better example for true education than primary and church.
ToddApril 27, 2021
Having had experience with psychology classes (yes in a Utah university), been through multiple types of therapy, had family members and friends share their experiences of therapy, and personally know several therapists. There have been both good and bad, but based on my personal experience at least 80% of these "active" LDS therapists defaulted to "the philosophies of men" (the standard practice of their profession) rather than use the gospel doctrine and principles to guide their therapy practice. There was a "we've now learned more and understand better than God how to fix this" attitude and one BYU psychology professor actually admitted that he did not believe the church or the gospel, but he did what he needed to do to keep his recommend so that he didn't loose his job. It may anger a lot of LDS psychologists, especially in Utah, that I say this (and it's not limited to psychologists, but in other professions as well) but, many keep up the appearances of church membership and activity because they use their church membership as a bridge of trust to their business clientele, and they are afraid of loosing business if they showed their true colors.
ShaunaApril 27, 2021
thanks for bringing this to my attention. I have had no qualms about persons seeking out a therapist, but I see that this is complicated. Sad to think that so many who advertise as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, don't see the need to fit their training into the Gospel lens, but instead see the Gospel through their "professional" lens, and feel therefore, empowered to leave Gospel principles out if they seem inconvenient or contradictory. Christ says "I am the way, the way, the truth and the life." I believe Him
Dennis ThompsonApril 27, 2021
In 1975 I served as a missionary in and around Kirtland. Back then there were no Church history sites open to the public, except the Temple. I firmly believe it is holy ground as I experienced the most holy experience of my life in "the land of Kirtland."
SpencerApril 27, 2021
Indoctrination and brainwashing are awful. We need to firmly put our kids in situations where they aren't told what to think and what is truth. Places like Primary and Church.
Name WithheldApril 27, 2021
Thank you for this very timely article! It has helped me understand the confusion I felt for many years after my husband and I received marital counseling from a well-intentioned LDS therapist. My initial hopes soon turned into dread for those three-way visits because I knew I had to be careful of what I said, fearing repercussions from him later. However, I trusted that she would eventually recognize the dynamic of our dominant-submissive relationship because of her training. Thankfully, those exhausting (for me) sessions came to an end within the year because of our cross-country move for my husband's new job assignment. Our therapist's final advice to us was that I begin treatment (and antidepressants) from her colleague, a well-respected but non-LDS psychiatrist who practiced near our new hometown. We both agreed -- my husband with triumphant enthusiasm and I with a hopeless sigh of last resort... Dr. T's office visit began with an in-depth interview and ended with a wake-up call: "You aren't depressed and you don't need antidepressants. You have been gas-lit!" He did not send me home with any pills that day, but his "diagnosis" was far more empowering than anything I had felt for a long time, and our follow-up visit two months later helped launch me in my journey toward healing and dealing with my husband's narcissism. (For that part I am grateful to our LDS therapist.)
Mrs. Noah FenceApril 27, 2021
We have to remember that Heavenly Father does NOT interfere with man's/woman's/children's free agency to choose. When they abuse us, or trials prevail over us, or accidents happen that take away a life, it has nothing to do with Heavenly Father "making" it happen. The individual's choice was there, and they chose. Then the consequences of their choice follows, no matter who it affects, or how many it affects. BUT...He is right there with us, before it, through it and after it. That is WHY we CAN trust Him. Great article! We have to remember the City of Enoch--completely and totally anti-gospel, but then totally and completely turned themselves around and became SO strong in their faith/trust/actions of living it, they were taken into Heaven! That's what we all need to be focusing on and doing in order to establish the City of Zion! Stop treating ward members (and non-ward) like criminals and apostates over masks and vax because it "appears" they aren't following the Prophet and the medical profession. We've been through this before, many times since 1830ish, without the intensity of the past year's events changing our life styles and economy in modern-day times, but we've always bounced back before. We've got the unity and anti-discrimination going in the right direction, so let's not let Satan destroy what we're building.
jgerberApril 27, 2021
I would like to know who signed the letter. Is there a way to find out?
ColinApril 27, 2021
“No one is arguing against reasonable actions for cleanliness, careful management, and proper use of resources.”
I see that happening every day in the conservative press. Every day.
kathy FlinnApril 27, 2021
This article is correct.
There are "therapist" practicing today that teach false doctrine.
There are latter-day saints that religiously follow the "therapist", instead of church doctrine.
NicoleApril 27, 2021
I do managed care for a bunch of therapists in UT and a few other states. We regularly talk to bishops who are helping ward members get help for various reasons - sexual addiction, infidelity, marriage problems, etc. These bishops pay for the sessions with fast offerings, in many cases. They seek out LDS therapists, as do other clients who are LDS. This article made me sad to think that some of these therapists are leading people astray spiritually. As someone who speaks daily to the clients seeking help, I hear their struggles in short form, and I ache for them. I have even prayed for some of them. I want them to get the help they're seeking, and I trust that these therapists are helping them heal and have healthier, happier lives. In many cases they do, but I wish they would read this article to be more aware of the great influence they can have for good or bad in a client's life, specifically when it comes to their spiritual safety.
Harold StuartApril 27, 2021
This is a much-needed article and I commend Brother Cunningham for publishing it. Sadly, more than one friend of mine has been sent to hell by a "therapist". One of them ended up committing jaw-dropping heinous acts because of a therapist's encouragement to leave gospel values behind.
I would ask those who signed the letter a simple question: are you sure that you are right? Encouraging your brother or sister to sin is in and of itself a serious sin. Do you worship God or your so-called "professional ethics?" We should fear God more than man.
Charles DefranchiApril 27, 2021
There is no contradiction between gospel ideals and mental health. The only issue is acquiring the correct understanding of what they stand for and helping others in developing the same understanding. Latter-Day Saint therapists who see a gap between the gospel and the way they should provide their patients with help have given a significant portion of their faith and testimony to worldly ideas and the science of men, in opposition to that of God.
GGApril 27, 2021
This is very insightful. I have tried to find a list of the therapists who signed the letter you refer to but although I can find the letter itself, they don’t have their names attached to it. Does anyone have a link to the letter with the actual therapists names who signed it so we know who, in therapy, would advocate for behaviors opposed to church teachings?
Tracey GrowApril 27, 2021
Perhaps if all parents pulled their children from school a message would come across loud and clear. Perhaps, instead parents need to storm the school with objections to this kind of horrid nonsense and insist that the school administrations stop this. They work or US. We pay them to teach our children. Do we want to watch America go down the path to communism? Stand up and shout STOP!
Beth TApril 27, 2021
Thank you Breck! Your insights and questions feel my soul reading and studying section 45. I feel lifted!
Michael HogganApril 27, 2021
As a paranoid schizophrenic, I need a therapist who will encourage me to avoid self-destructive behaviors. It deeply concerns me that any therapist, who is presumably being paid for their time, would view that as "not their job". For the therapist in question to be a self-identifying Latter-Day-Saint is only more disturbing.
StefanApril 27, 2021
It’s great that you shared all of the experiences of people who have had poor outcomes related to therapy with LDS therapists, but why don’t you share any of the thousands of other experiences that people have had with these same LDS therapists, myself included. I can tell you first hand that I have been to therapists who are not LDS, therapists who are LDS from LDS Family Services and are required to stick to strict LDS standard therapy and a therapist who is LDS but allowed thoughts that some LDS people think may push the boundaries. By far, the third option was the one who kept me in the church, not pushed me away. This is the case for MANY members of the LDS church. These therapists often push boundaries related to cultural norms within the church that are harmful and not doctrinal. This article is simply poor journalism.
Michael JonesApril 27, 2021
There is an interesting note here with regard to Father declaring the work of each day as "good". There is one day, with the situation of the waters, where there is no reference or comment about it being good.
Gina McDougallApril 27, 2021
What a wonderful article. I had no idea that Kirtland was so sacred. Where may I get a copy of Karl Ricks Anderson's book about Kirtland?
Thanks for this article, it has been an eye opener and has made me more determined to pay closer attention to our CFM lessons this year.
K LApril 26, 2021
Sounds like Nazi Germany coming to our shores. I fear for the future of our grandchildren.
Paralee EckmanApril 26, 2021
I'm sorry to say it isn't just in New York! I live in Utah and from what I hear, children even in youngest grades are being indoctrinated in many other ideas we don't want them exposed to. I am a great grandmother, and if I now had a school age children, I would do whatever I had to , to home school them!
JEMApril 26, 2021
I visited Kirkland in 1983 and very much want to go again now that the church has built it up so much. I just finished Brother Anderson’s book on the Christology of Kirtland. I would recommend it to everyone. It was an in depth and very well written book of the education of the Saints as they gathered in Kirtland on the Divinity of Christ and the difference between fact and generations of fiction.
Rosie BApril 26, 2021
Thank you Sarah! It's so important to share this message with the world at this time. There is a lack of knowledge of the pre-earth life among those who consider themselves Christians, and we need to educate everyone.
Pamela BiggerApril 26, 2021
I thank you for your courage ...oh what a world that we live in today.. it is just shameful what is happening to our society and freedom to use our intelligence...
DMTApril 26, 2021
Thank you for such a glorious article. Thank you for bringing all this very pertinent and amazing info to our attention, at just the right time, of our reading and study in the Doctrine and Covenants and the Come Follow Me program. This is so much appreciated!
JillApril 26, 2021
It's time for ALL parents to either continue to home school or begin immediately! Thanks for the warning!
Ronald BarnesApril 26, 2021
I'm intrigued by the use of vinegar on feet. I wonder if it would work on toe nail fungus also.
Helen CondonApril 26, 2021
As I have struggled to understand a dear friend who denies all messages not contained in the pages of it current version of the Holy Bible I find myself increasingly in aware that God would allow me, a sinner with a decided predilection for rebellion, to witness His Grandeur at several pivotal moments in my life. What a glorious privilege!
Thank you.
Doug ShumwayApril 26, 2021
It sounds like a wonderful chance to interact with Elder Andersen, President Bingham, and Sister Eubank. Each is a powerhouse example of faith we can learn much from!
I noted that President Bingham was recognized as Relief Society President in the introductory paragraph but was otherwise referred to as "Sister Bingham". I find it confusing, but wonder if there might be official usage guidance that you can direct me to.
Thank you!
Rita in TexasApril 26, 2021
In the 1990s, I lived in southeast Michigan, and our ward Relief Society would sponsor trips to Kirtland. I went on two of those trips, and on one of them, had the signal honor of singing in our choir during a meeting in the temple. The RLDS Church, as it was then called, graciously gave us permission to be in that sacred edifice. I have never before or since been so aware of angels surrounding us, singing with us "The Spirit of God". It is a precious memory.
PaulineApril 25, 2021
I agree with you G. Rutter
PaulineApril 25, 2021
Why not treat with the known drugs to stop it and save lives?
Grant HarrisApril 25, 2021
Thank you for the courage to share first hand the brainwashing in schools. This suppression of free thought, shaming tactics, and indoctrination of our youth happening throughout our schools is concerning.
RobynApril 25, 2021
What a scary situation for you, your students, and society as a whole. There are many very valid concerns about racism that need to be addressed but silencing questions, thoughts, and dissent is a very dangerous slippery slope.
RebeccaApril 25, 2021
What strange times we live in. Races must tip-toe around one another, fearful of saying the wrong thing, stereotyped by the self-righteous "woke". What does this artificially-created animosity do for race relations? Who does this help?
LindaApril 25, 2021
That is outrageous! Communism. Brain-washing our students. Not allowing free thought and punishing those who disagree. I would never allow my children to be abused in school in that way,, or any other way.. Shame on that school and any other liberal thinking institution!
LorettaApril 25, 2021
Thank you for your courage and for your determination to protect your students in your calling as a teacher. We need more teachers like you. My family will be praying for you.
MatthewApril 25, 2021
I came across this lady, Helfer, in social media. I found it, immediately, destructive to anyone who struggles...with anything really.
I am glad there are faithful therapists that save lives and families using the principles of love and understanding as taught in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
In such a time as we live, it’s important to understand that a good therapist can also give us great tools to deal with the world around us in a variety of spaces. Bringing us back from the edge of insanity.
Donna LeavittApril 25, 2021
She is amazing and an inspiration to all of us.
Helga SilskiApril 24, 2021
Throughout our life we experience so many different layers of understanding. Our individual and intellectual growth and development changes our perspectives, it is just little by little or one by one we come to comprehend purity and truth that will lead us eventually to the throne of God and with Christ's help of polishing us only will we make it. Faith and complete trust in God is the finest act of complete love and total surrender. Thank you Brother Peterson, always admire and love your messages and perspective.
Grant HarrisApril 24, 2021
Thank you for the courage to share first hand the brainwashing in schools. This suppression of free thought, shaming tactics, and indoctrination of our youth happening throughout our schools is concerning. This is truly alarming, and is reminiscent of "re-education" camps in history that focused on brainwashing the youth.
Informed citizenApril 24, 2021
A great example of the pervasivel attempt to sofen this country for overthrow by communism. What nonsense! These children are all spirit offspring of a heavenly father who loves them all equally and without respect of persons, as should we all. Read or reread Ezra Taft Bensons 1969 book "An Enemy Hath Done This" to understand what is going on here, and why.
Grant HarrisApril 24, 2021
Thank you for the courage to share first hand the suppression of free thought, shaming tactics, and indoctrination of our youth happening throughout our schools. This is truly alarming and is reminiscent of "re-education" camps in history that focused on brainwashing the youth.
Carl StephaniApril 24, 2021
Martin Luther King had a great vision for this nation. To the contrary, many of our current leaders seem to "have a dream that ... children will one day live in a nation where they will ... be judged by the color of their skin NOT by the content of their character."
DJApril 24, 2021
Tough situation. Stay strong.
FellowWrongThinkerApril 24, 2021
Thank you for your bravery good sir! I'm continually stunned by the quick adoption of punishment and banning attitudes for people guilty of 'wrongthink'. This is not an American value Americans should be espousing. It's frankly frightening and becoming ubiquitous. I think that conservative thinkers believe that those they disagree with are simply misguided and mistaken...we live and let live...however, what do you do when those you disagree with think you are pure evil. Would you want to share ideas and discuss with 'pure evil' ? Would you want to entertain and find 'common ground' with 'pure evil'? That's those of us who dare to think for ourselves are labeled and dismissed and cancelled. Keep up the good work!
AApril 24, 2021
Thank you for shrining this story. We all need to be educated in critical race theory going on in schools and society. How can we fight it?
Sheryl ParsonsApril 24, 2021
Thank you for speaking out. We wonder why so many youth and young adults struggle with their self worth, and yet the answer is right here, in the indoctrination they receive at schools.
LindaApril 24, 2021
You are SO CORRECT in your beliefs and observations. It is horrible what the children are being taught in school about racism, being told not to speak proper English as it makes others feel badly, that they should not listen to their white parents, only black parents. We are in Wisconsin and these conversations have been heard by adults as the Zoom calls go on. Children are NOT happy with the information they are receiving and are very confused. It is just plain WRONG. If people don't start standing up for what is right and STOP this actual discrimination from going on, we are going to end up in one huge internal war between good people who are being lead astray. And that is exactly the goal of these awful curriculum pushers! Parents - pay attention, close attention to the critical race theory, etc. that is being taught to your vulnerable children! PLEASE!
Herr Todd KnauppApril 24, 2021
There's nothing like looking at a beautifully colored, dialogue boxes to help follow the flow of the story, pick it up in your hands over & over, read wherever you want, in whatever room, whatever position you're comfortable in, comic-graphic book. I've enjoyed mine for many months now, not only in front of a PC monitor.
JuliaApril 24, 2021
I can hardly believe what I am reading! Could this really be happening in the land of the free?!
Kay YeamanApril 23, 2021
I would never in a million years let my child be exposed to this poison. Parents beware - this is coming to a school near you.
vickieApril 23, 2021
i didnt notice if they had children. i would presume if she was 29 yrs old that she might have. the way she did what she did was so evil and unsuspecting by both her parents and her husband. i would have shamed her if she were my daughter. if i had to forgive her then it would take a long long time. she sinned and knew what she was doing. she chose to do it. she more than likely planned it. if i were the dad i would still be in contact with the ex son in law and let him know how this hurt him as well. they were all a family once. divorcing like that gets my blood boiling. i know there i a God and only He can judge but the father in this case was hurt by this. and he has a right to his own feelings. and can say how he feels about it to her.
Mark MathesonApril 23, 2021
Thanks for always giving us great new insights!
CarolApril 23, 2021
This is appalling. I'm glad I was able to retire from teaching last year. I admire the author's courage, and suspect that before long, teachers with Christian values will not be able to teach in most of this country's schools.
Maureen GaleApril 23, 2021
That is just horrifying! I can't understand how this kind of repression and thought control can be part of an educational institution's basic framework of going forward... especially in today's environment, not because of it! Open and honest discussions are the only way any real change can be made. Why does this all remind me somehow of "Animal Farm" and even a little "1984"?
Kay RookhuyzenApril 23, 2021
This was a fascinating article. I believe all I have read. We know we were somewhere else before our birth and we will go elsewhere after e die. I wish I remembered.
Mike GriffithApril 23, 2021
This anti-religious freedom lawsuit is being spearheaded by the Religious Exemption Accountability Project, a far-left group that views many religious practices as "bigotry" and "intolerance." The vast majority of the group's members are Democrats or liberal independents.
Robyn GeantilApril 23, 2021
This is the 'Cultural Revolution' of America. Read what Mao did to his population and how he indoctrinated the youth, especially to turn in their parents.
PaniaApril 23, 2021
Thank you for your courage and influence on our future leaders!
Anne H PrattApril 23, 2021
Such wonderful stories. Thanks so much for sharing! Our little people are often our greatest teachers...
Norma PellettApril 23, 2021
Thank you for standing against this programming of your students. I really don't understand how this totalitarian philosophy is being swallowed whole. This is very reminiscent of the indoctrination of students that was carried out by the Nazi brown shirts.
People are not stamped out like cookies. To label any group as completely homogeneous dehumanizes the whole group. That is the very basis for racism.
VelineApril 23, 2021
Thank you for writing this and exposing the Orwellian agenda of your school and others like it. It is truly terrifying to contemplate the future of our nation when the youth are being thus indoctrinated.
Harold RustApril 23, 2021
Thank you. It always helps those of us who know very little about the technical aspects of a profession to receive insight from someone who does and who can explain in calm, deliberate explanation the shortcomings in those whose application of those technical skills have thrown away logic and sacred foundations in the name of publicity and self-aggrandizement.
Ronald BarnesApril 23, 2021
Many years ago I bought your book Life Before Life. (I remember that story about Grandpa Robert) By the time I was reading the fifth story I could hardly see because of the tears in my eyes. I was especially touched by the stories about adoption, because my wife was adopted. Had her mother not given her for adoption, I might never have met her. We also had experiences about or with our children before they were born. If you send me an e-mail, I'll be glad to share them.
CASApril 23, 2021
We need more brave teachers in our school systems like you to speak out on the damage that is being done today to young people in our society. Free speech is still a guaranteed right! Thank you!
JonApril 23, 2021
3 Wherefore, because that Satan rebelled against me, and sought to destroy the agency of man, which I, the Lord God, had given him, and also, that I should give unto him mine own power; by the power of mine Only Begotten, I caused that he should be cast down;
4 And he became Satan, yea, even the devil, the father of all lies, to deceive and to blind men, and to lead them captive at his will, even as many as would not hearken unto my voice.
- Moses 4:3-4, Pearl of Great Price
Make no mistake, this tyrannical social “justice” dogma is just the latest battle in Satan’s war against God and the Lamb. It seeks to destroy the agency of man by separating him into oppressor/victim groups based solely on immutable characteristics: all whites are irredeemably racist, while all blacks are forever their victims; all men are misogynists, while all women are victims of the patriarchy, etc. Thus, everyone is denied their agency. Satan’s divide and conquer strategy is as cheap as it is effective.
Sooner or later, we all must choose a side in this war – just as we did in the premortal world. There never will be – and never has been – a middle ground.
kathy FlinnApril 23, 2021
It seems this father easily excuses his daughter......
She is as guilty as the guy she did the adultery with!
SandyApril 23, 2021
Thank you very much for writing this article. It’s true that we are living in strange times, where evil appears to be good and good appears to be evil. The oppression openly shown by the administration at this school, and in many other halls of education as well as city councils, etc, is frightening. Where is freedom of speech? Thank you for not allowing your voice to be shut down, and for being an example of standing for the right to your students, and all of us reading your article. If possible, I plan to share your insightful message.
Phillip WeyersApril 23, 2021
Very well thought out and explained. Seems some agendas are only motivated by atheistic intolerance and bias. All power to you in these difficult times. As someone who has experienced these challenges in life before I found God, I can fully agree with your observations. An important part of life is self control or mastery over our failings, it's how we grow. Self indulgence never was happiness.
Bob TaylorApril 23, 2021
this is a truly difficult and heart breaking situation for the father. i have never been placed in this sort of situation. each person has to make - as you say - their own path thru this process, independent of the path others in the situation choose to do - easier said than done,and as you and the prophets have told us, this can only be healed and softened by the Atonement of Jesus Christ. that said - i know this is possible, my sister in law has been divorced 2x, and she has been blessed to be able to remain good friends with her former spouses and their families - perhaps pretty unique in todays world, but she has been able to do this. you get to field some pretty tough problems, and i appreciate your keeping the answers provided by the Restored Gospel at the top of the list for answering questions. keep up the good work.
GrandpaApril 23, 2021
Forgiving the daughter while being angry with the man she slept with is a double standard. She is equally guilty; you should be as angry at her as with the man. Or as forgiving. I think it would be a long time before I let either one of them in my house, and when I did it would be when I could let both of them in.
WeezieApril 22, 2021
Hear hear!!! This author is a brilliant writer. Such wonderful, concrete and complete truth. Thank you for using your talents to defend the Word of God
vinelionApril 22, 2021
Lynn Vinilus - some may not know that if there is active disciplinary action going on for someone, they are not allowed to move their membership records. So even though she moved to Utah, her records remained in KS until she followed through on prior discipline actions. Receiving a letter to a disciplinary council is not ever the first step taken but happens after people have had many chances to stop doing what they are doing that is harmful.
RitaApril 22, 2021
My grandad used to say, "Everything is more complicated than it looks at first. " Building a solar system appears to be something like rearranging the tiles in a puzzle tray or a rubiks cube; each piece has to move repeatedly in a set pattern before the final picture emerges. The moves look random until it starts to fall into place.
I love how Father put all these clues out there for us, out of sight until we're ready for them.
Pete Pasquali IVApril 22, 2021
Unfortunately, they created a new religion in this global warming thing and a vast amount of people are so deeply entrenched in believing it that they filter the gospel through science rather than the other way around (including many who call themselves Latter-day Saints). The whole "science", so-called (an excellent example of what is referenced in 1 Timothy 6:20) has removed people from recognizing that the earth is in her elderly years and her passing away and resurrection is nigh.
Instead, they have led people to believe that it is mankind's fault and that the answer is to throw tragically vast amounts of money at it - preferably in their direction..
RaLee HallApril 22, 2021
Amen! Thank you for sharing your insights.
Andrew J. CurrieApril 22, 2021
This is a well written and thorough article. I like it; and would sum it up thusly: 'Be really careful choosing a therapist, because most of them are godless, thus devoid of divinely inspired insights.' One might ask how being godless would diminish a therapist's effectiveness? The author gives the first clue when he wrote "Therapists are trained to believe our clients. We accept the stories they tell us because those narratives have immense power over their lives." Christ's disciple John said this about those who have and share such stories: "He that saith, I know him (i.e., Christ), and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him." (1 John 2:4) So the first thing a therapist--especially and LDS therapist--should understand about what they are hearing is that no matter how strongly the patient believes what he is saying, it's a lie. If a therapist truly believes in believing lies, it will be very difficult, if not impossible, to help a sinful person. It's even more difficult for anyone (e.g., a spouse, a parent, a friend) to help a sinful person when one chooses to 'participate' in their lie. I also find alarming his observation that "The goal of therapists aligned with this point of view (i,e., AASECT) isn’t to change these behaviors, but rather to reduce shame and increase acceptance, both among the clients themselves, and society at large." That sounds like the LGBQT+ organization's sole purpose, and we are seeing the detrimental effects all around us. It was less than a generation ago that homosexuality was deemed a mental health problem, not a favored character trait.
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
Your article is a stark reminder that the things of God are only understood by the Spirit of God. Sadly, there are still those who are ever learning, but never coming to a knowledge of the truth. The word of God through His Prophets and through the scriptures is so clear. When we abandon truth for the popular and ever-changing philosophies of the day, the results are confusion and darkness.
John R CarpenterApril 22, 2021
AMEN & AMEN especially to the following ...
Third, beware of those who attribute all climate problems to man’s improper actions. Climate-change activism uses scary apocalyptical predictions to rally people to contribute time and money to advance a political agenda. Be suspicious.
As President Russell M. Nelson expressed it in last month’s General Conference, “It takes faith to follow prophets rather than pundits and popular opinion.”
JFApril 22, 2021
Thank you for your positive advocacy for the counseling with faith.
Doug YoungApril 22, 2021
Belittling the accuracy of climate science is not helpful to solving the problems that we as a species are creating.
We should be good stewards of our planet and do all we can to take care of it.
BOBApril 22, 2021
Extremely well thought and written. Thank you very much. What kind of contrarion joins an organization with no desire to adhere to the organizational standards but only wants to destroy those standards? Also, using masturbation to treat behavioral and psychological issues is like using bloodletting to treat arthritis and influenza.
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
I have an acquaintance who had an interesting dream that taught her about her self-worth. She dreamed she was purchasing something to drink, and that she was going to become the drink as she swallowed it. She was terrified of the darkness she would discover inside herself. However, to her great surprise, she discovered she was full of beautiful light!
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
Amen! These prognosticators have been wrong for centuries. We need to spend more time looking inside ourselves for the changes we need to make, rather than obsessing about the changes in the earth.
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
Your song beautifully reflects the deep emotions in the heart of every parent when their children leave home. WHERE did the time go?
M ScottApril 22, 2021
Thank you so much for speaking out and clarifying these important issues.
AnnaApril 22, 2021
Great explanation of a complex issue. Thanks for sharing.
HelenApril 22, 2021
Clear and insightful. Scary, And of Days stuff, too!
Thank you
Carol GrossApril 22, 2021
I agree with and appreciate how you addressed this difficult problem. I am licensed as both a mental health professional and as a behavior analyst and have been doing work in both fields as an active member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and have felt supported by and have supported the leadership of our faith for many years. There is no joy in unrighteousness because we all have a divine nature and it is so easy to become blind to who we truly are and lose our way . Thanks for not only what you are doing but also for the way you are behaving and sharing.
Jervae HornungApril 22, 2021
Thank you for having the courage to write this piece! Stand steady!
Mary Elizabeth HollettApril 22, 2021
This was incredibly beautiful. Thank you for expressing, for many of us who do not have the eloquent words, what we feel. Counselors have a great deal of power, and can better, or ruin, a life. Thank God for inspired standards, and thank God for counselors like you who can help support therapy that is really beneficial.
L J BrowerApril 22, 2021
Excellent, thoughtful and courageous article.
PjalApril 22, 2021
What Helfer fails to understand is the very practical wisdom of repentance and how wonderful it makes you feel. Following God’s advice creates a peaceful, happy feeling about yourself. Your self esteem rises and conflicts with conscience disappear! To get rid of shame, stop doing shameful things. That’s the solution.
Michael DenosApril 22, 2021
Thank you to this opinion author for clarifying and expressing of support to orthodox LDS beliefs. Points made can be applied in many of the constantly drifting man-made theories we are constantly living with and seeing. My own adult life experiences noting the radical changes in the Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) over the past several decades has been rather shocking. Again, thanks for the time to state your well founded thoughts.
JanApril 22, 2021
I loved this. Thank you for addressing it so thoroughly.
Bruce ForbesApril 22, 2021
Excellent article. As the spouse of an LCSW, I see great wisdom in the article.
Ivy SadApril 21, 2021
Let's say I despise myself, as a hypothetical situation. How am I now going to love anyone?
Bob HiattApril 21, 2021
Thank you. What a beautiful song for a wedding dance!
MUMApril 21, 2021
Truly beautiful! Thanks for sharing.
Lynn VinilusApril 21, 2021
I agree with what you say here but the issue I don’t understand is why leaders from the stake she left a year and a half are the ones calling her in. Also, why was she required to travel to Kansas with 1 week notice. All of that seems a bit strange to me.
Laurie PollardApril 21, 2021
Absolutely perfect, Jason. This will be a cherished song for many! Thank you for blessing the world with your talents!
BOBApril 21, 2021
"They may be the ones doing 'spiritual violence.'" Meanwhile, in secular society, Those who keep the peace are called violent. Those who foment violence are called peaceful. All the while, criminals are called victims.
Jo Ann OkelberryApril 21, 2021
So very sweet and touching. As I am now a grandmother and even great grandmother, I often ask myself, "Where did the time go?"
Charlene RhodesApril 21, 2021
I live in Round Rock, Texas, north of Austin.
Rosalie M. PiersonApril 21, 2021
Such honesty and integrity from our favorite "teacher": Daris Howard!!
Thank you for another outstanding story/example!
David Clarke Pruden, Sr.April 21, 2021
It is always unfortunate when any individual's personal life choices, which could have remained private, become fodder for public debate. However, in an age when social media is a daily vehicle for such discussions - often at the behest of the individual themselves - a reasoned response is sometimes required. Thank you to the authors for providing some balance on this challenging subject and may we feel prompted to exercise compassion and consideration for all involved.
Enn EfceeApril 21, 2021
To the bishop whose comments tend to glorify the husband through making excuses that he has a bad habit rather than an addiction problem, perhaps he needs to educate himself on what constitutes a sexual addiction and how the brain is adversely affected by pornography, in order to counsel both wife and husband in that situation. His never having been on the receiving end of the lies, abuse, broken trust and disrespect a wife is dealt, he can’t possibly know or understand the damage and havoc those behaviors wreak on a woman’s self respect, worth and trust. It truly is a traumatic and far-reaching experience that takes thoughtful and delicate help in order to achieve proper healing. It is a very evil, ugly component in a marriage which can and will totally destroy without proper counsel and follow through. And yes, it is a sin next to murder—it murders the spirit and the Eternal covenant of marriage if not addressed and eradicated.
Su,anneApril 21, 2021
Beautiful! Where are the kleenex?
Andrew J. CurrieApril 21, 2021
Thanks for a wonderfully thorough discourse on the need for and nature of church councils. Well done! I'm always fascinated people who proclaim that, before taking any course of action, we should ask "What would Jesus do?" always conclude Jesus would tolerate any form of sin. After all, didn't He accept the woman taken in adultery? They can never reconcile His violence towards the money changers in the temple or the violence of the god of the Old Testament (e.g., The Flood, the Canaanites, the priests of Baal, the Egyptians at the Red Sea, et.al.). In his succinct declaration, Elder Richard G. Scott explained Jesus's different behaviors and taught the first question one should in determining "what would Jesus do?" He declared, "The Lord sees weakness differently than rebellion". That is the crux of the matter. If one is merely "weak", they will repent when their membership is on the line. If they are "rebellious", they are apt to go public in their search for validation. Of course, determining whether one is merely "weak" or "rebellious" requires a spirit of discernment, hence, the caution to not judge unrighteously. It has been my experience as a clerk and as a judge in these councils that the person for whom the council was convened always makes that decision very simple. In her case any "spiritual violence" that might have taken place occurred when she tore herself away from the Holy Ghost.
ShaneApril 21, 2021
One thing that is so important to understand about excommunication, is that sometimes it’s the most merciful thing to happen to a person who is not keeping their covenants. When we are baptized we make a covenant with God. When we receive our endowment we make additional covenants with God. When excommunication occurs, those covenants are removed from the individual. They are no longer bound by the covenants. This is merciful! Because they are no longer breaking the covenant, they are not as condemned in the eternal perspective. If they are continually breaking the covenants, what a relief to no longer be bound by the covenants. Church discipline is a blessing and an experience of pure love of God. Sometimes the best way to show that love is excommunication.
Daryl GibsonApril 21, 2021
I found it telling that at the end of the Washington Post story, this LDS therapist refers to Church members as "they, " not ,"we."
Janelle C. BatesApril 21, 2021
Would't accommodations for those without a religious affiliation also be unconstitutional?
TDApril 21, 2021
Social justice warriors must encounter “conflict and suppression” in order to advance the activist agenda of forced conformity where it presently doesn’t exist—there should be no mistaking that much of this is planned, coordinated, and well funded to advance the rights of a few over the silent majority.
This is the era we live in.
I agree with the above sentiment—religious schools like BYU need to put greater priority on gauging the strength of an applicants testimony and affiliation with the religion than they do secular parameters. BYU has been turning away a significant and growing percentage of applicants for years. Time to overhaul the admissions requirements before those being admitted Trojan horse these institutions.
LexaGraemeApril 21, 2021
Very good.
DeeAnn CheathamApril 21, 2021
As a homeschooling mom who will "retire" in a few years as my last child graduates, I agree with everything you have said. As I look back on the difficulties and sacrifices made to homeschool, they pale in comparison to the blessings that have come. I feel no regrets for the decision we made to homeschool and lots of gratitude that we were able to do so. It took us a few years to figure out what we were doing, but figure it out we did, with the help of the Lord. I can't agree more with the statement that the Lord will guide you in what/how to teach your children. I will greatly miss homeschooling when we are done and I'm already telling my kids if they want to homeschool their kids, I'm volunteering to help. :-) And I will keep on learning, as homeschooling has taught me that learning never ends.
JanessaApril 21, 2021
My husband really needs this. I do too, because don’t all?? Thank you for saying what many cannot articulate. Your words are a brilliant reminder of how God continuously gives and gives and gives some more when we honestly and earnestly seek Him. Thank you!’
LoraApril 20, 2021
This is an interesting article, and I'd like to add some more encouraging words. My aunt is a certified teacher, and for years she homeschooled her 8 children (6 boys and 2 girls). Years later I learned that it wasn't her--it was her husband. He only spent 2 hours a day at it. His secret was to follow the interests of the children. They are all grown now, and they've gone to college and done well. It doesn't take as long to home school as it does in a government school. I love to see this trend toward home schooling.
vickieApril 20, 2021
I AGREE WITH ''JESS....on this....if a person or parent wants a school to not have these particulars dont go or send the student to that school. we have loads of colleges. My only son in law said ...who is a MD by the way that he went to small colleges and finished up in the military and he is still an MD...radiologist. you can get your learning and degree in many colleges not just the prestigious or religious colleges. dont cause problems for those who want to go there and are willing to do what is required.
DJApril 20, 2021
Beautiful performance of beautiful song and beautifully produced. Thanks for sharing your testimony and talents!
LawrenceApril 20, 2021
To echo Rochelle Hale's comment above, this article seems to ignore the second great commandment, 'love thy neighbor as thyself'. If I'm loving my neighbor as myself and I don't love myself then I won't be able to love my neighbor either. Loving God is obviously significant (first and greatest) but to ignore and/or dismiss the second great commandment which this article seems to do is very short sighted and not very helpful
April WallaceApril 20, 2021
Yahosh! His voice is like BUTTER.
So easy on the ears and I just love his rhythm.
AND this song is timeless.
You go Elder Dansie... way to bring the spirit!
FrankApril 20, 2021
The line in the sand, what set off the war, was when the government attempted to disarm the citizens and render them powerless to defend themselves. When a government or a thug attempts to disarm some or or some group, it always ends badly for those disarmed. Those patriots knew that was when they had to resist.
CASApril 20, 2021
I understand that BYU and BYUI require a Bishop's recommendation and signature to even be able to be admitted to these schools. Maybe those brethren need to scrutinize the applicants more closely, same as they would if those applying were going on a mission. These schools are NOT for those teens whose parents are hoping for a miracle to change their child's character or lifestyle.
I agree; youth, don't apply to one of these schools if you cannot abide by the Honor Code. If you sign it, then live up to it or go somewhere else!
Jill PalmerApril 20, 2021
Thank you so much Brother Peterson. I always admire your insightful writings, common sense and faithfulness to the Gospel.
Heather RiemanApril 20, 2021
Thank you for your insights. I too was drawn to President Nelson's talk. I am intrigued by another word for faith being trust. My mortal life experiences of bullying, emotional abuse, infidelity, and personal failure has led to a profound lack of trust. Yet, through it all the Lord has taken care of my every need and has been closest in the darkest of times. Knowing this you would think giving Him my trust would be an easy thing. It isn't. Over the last year I have pondered this issue in my life. I have tearfully prayed about it. I have made it a matter of study. And one tiny step at a time the Lord is revealing His love, mercy, and grace in my life. I have taken President Nelson's counsel seriously and hope over the next year to either climb the mountain of distrust, with the helping hand of the Lord, or have the mountain removed entirely. Whatever happens I am putting my trust in Him to heal me from the consequences of every mortal experience which destroyed my trust in people, myself, and Him.
Gary AndersonApril 20, 2021
Thanks Brother Peterson!
JulieApril 20, 2021
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing!
RebeccaApril 20, 2021
Thank you for this insight.
Barbara MattatallApril 20, 2021
Thanks for sharing, enjoyed the performance
okcmomApril 20, 2021
This song has been a favorite of mine since Mercy Me released it. The songwriter made a movie by the same name of the story of the song, which is a beautiful story of forgiveness, reconciliation and redemption. Most of the movie was filmed right here in Oklahoma. Have a box of tissues nearby-it’s a beautiful story!
JessApril 20, 2021
It seems that the simplest and in this case most reasonable solution would be for those offended by these policies is to choose to attend a non-religious school. It's ok if there isn't agreement on what religious classes should or shouldn't be required, or whether dorms should be separate, students have plenty of schools to choose from that if one finds those rules intolerable there is always another choice. It's so strange that the "live and let live" applies to everything but religious institutions.
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
I cannot even begin to express how needful this article is for me at this particular time in my life. I am committed to the gospel of Jesus Christ, to His church, and I have a firm testimony of the Book of Mormon. Unfortunately, I recently watched a podcast by a well known speaker and author regarding alleged events in early church history that shook me to the core. It addressed a subject that has always been painful for me, and I was vulnerable to the speaker's comments, which planted doubts into my mind regarding certain issues. This has been a time of tears and unanswered questions and your article has helped me greatly. I, too, was especially impressed during conference in President Nelson's counsel to CHOOSE to believe. Thank you so much for your inspired words. You have helped me more than you will ever know.
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
Argggg! The bull-puckie that is being slung becomes so tiresome. It sounds like BYU needs to be even tougher on admittance restrictions. Only those with very sound testimonies and religious convictions should be admitted. I realize people can change in their loyalties, but I think it would help cut back on these attacks by former students.
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
Oh, how I want to shout out a BIG cheer for this mom!!! As a bookseller, I have sold many books to homeschooling moms, and it makes me so happy to see this trend growing. Barnes & Noble gives a discount for materials used in homeschooling, so be sure and check that out if you are a homeschooling mom. All you need to do is fill out a simple form and provide one of your lesson plans as evidence that you are homeschooling. You do NOT need to be a certified teacher. I believe you are doing the greatest work of your life---what a blessing for your children!
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
The mother in this account doesn't say whether her daughter is receiving therapy, which she desperately needs. Obviously, she cannot force her to seek that kind of help, but she can certainly suggest it, and perhaps even meet with her daughter with the rest of the family in an intervention. As a mother of grown children, I know there is a fine line between being supportive and carrying our children's problems until they deplete and exhaust us. For our own health we need to set boundaries. When attempted suicide has been an issue this greatly complicates the situation, but NO ONE is responsible for someone else's attempted suicide. Our actions should not be based on the false belief that we can somehow control that sad choice. It can be very difficult for a mother to accept that her children are responsible for their own choices and the consequences that follow. I hope this mom will follow the advice given and continue to love and reach out to her daughter, while at the same time protecting herself from becoming overly involved, constantly trying to save her daughter, or carrying her problems.
James ScottApril 20, 2021
I fail to see a problem with these exstudents. With the number of available colleges and universities they could have chosen any they felt fulfilled their needs. Freedom of choice in all aspects of life doesn’t require “your” choices to be observed by everyone else.
Oliver JApril 20, 2021
My personal observations (plural) when Bishop, High Council, and other leadership- Husbands tend to forgive their wives; Wives turn to multi-year husband contempt, making severely defeated/empty priesthood holders. Again, just many unscientific views from good flock shepherding.
Honestly, I think addiction is a poor word for compulsion or habit... and sins contrary to Law of Chastity aren't the sin next to murder (which sex crime is).
Steven SwarthoutApril 20, 2021
Nicely said. Thanks
margie stewartApril 20, 2021
Profoundly written and so inspiring! Thank you for this beautiful summary of things so many Americans know so little about...which is the tragedy that will be our downfall. This should be the lesson in every American student's history class today.
HelenApril 20, 2021
Thank for clarifying such a beautiful doctrine as taught by the Prophet. It gave me pause then and does so again, now.
I find myself astonished at how little I exercise the faith I claim to have, particularly as “a principle of power”.
PattieApril 20, 2021
This IS our time to learn to exercise faith. We learned to exercise faith as a child when we learned to walk, ride a bike, swim, and trust in our parents. It is the same principle to learn trust in faith in God the Eternal Father and his son Jesus Christ. It takes faith to repent from our sins that have plagued us for years and recognize we can do better. Our prophet has been our stalwart leader to help us repent and choose to have faith. Thank you for your insights and poignant view that helps me remember my dedication to my Lord and King Jesus Christ.
SYDNEY H WHEADONApril 20, 2021
So beautiful! I loved it.
BPApril 20, 2021
Duh, don't apply to a religious school with which you disagree! Plenty of education options out there.
Sue MelserApril 20, 2021
Absolutely beautiful way to start my day!!! Thank you for sharing your talents.
Mark DonaldsonApril 20, 2021
Well said! Thank You!
Robert CowartApril 19, 2021
Thanks ,Becky for a heartwarming story. You left out one part though. The need for tissues. My eyes just got a good washing.
RONALD L BASSETTApril 19, 2021
Sudbury, Mass., home of many of the "minute men" that are buried in a special graveyard. Several years ago we visited that sacred place and walked past headstone after headstone bearing the names of those families we are descended from. As a retired military veteran I more than just remember their service, I honor each that put their lives on the line for freedom for future generations.
RebeccaApril 19, 2021
What a wonderful reminder and beautiful examples! I find my large journal with endless blank pages overwhelming, but also would love to record these mercies every day. Can you share with us where you get your five-line dated journal? I can't seem to find one.
Beth T.April 19, 2021
Thank you for sharing this with us. It is Marvelous!!!
Vivian AdamsApril 19, 2021
Superbly done. Every member of the Church should read and contemplate this beautifully researched and wonderfully written article. It is a masterpiece, and a vital telling of this prelude to the Restoration.
Stewart LangApril 19, 2021
Thank you Maurine - just a great read. I am Canadian and I was interesting to see some of the comments when President Ballard spoke about the American Constitution at General Conference - like many - at first I was thinking - hmm why would he speak about this at General Conference but that thought only lasted a few seconds as the spirit spoke to me - because it set the stage for the Restoration of the Gospel!
So besides April 19th being my wife Joy's and I 46th wedding anniversary I have now learned a new piece of your wonderful history.
There are so many within both the U.S. and Canada that are tearing down our history instead of learning from it - it really is so sad. We all need to learn and be reminded of our history because in most cases we have continued to remove forward because of the sacrifices of others!
I found your recap of this historic day so penetrating that we all depend on God our Heavenly Father and HIS son Jesus Christ and when we hear our brethren remind us to "HEAR HIM" it really means something.
Thank you again for writing this - I have sent out to many of our friends today.
Susan GApril 19, 2021
Stirring! Having read The Washington Hypothesis by Timothy Ballard, I am more aware than ever before of all the "tender mercies" and miracles that helped this country come into being. What we need right now is a movie that portrays the spiritual component of our founding, so that ALL Americans could be reminded of God's interventions.
Patsy WagstaffApril 19, 2021
This is wonderful. We need to hold strong to God. To pray to him. Need to not forget our history what our forefathers stood for and fought for. The constitution tells it all.
Jan ParkerApril 19, 2021
Today on my very own birthday of April 19th I'm moved to tears to recollect the power of God and the sacrifice of lives lost to preserve the liberty I today enjoy. May we all continue to pray for our country.
Michael EdwardsApril 19, 2021
yeah. Texas is very much in the west.
JOHN RICHARD HILLApril 19, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for this very interesting and touching article---and for reminding us of Elder Ballard's admonition that we should pray consistently for our nation. As I read your article this morning, I felt that we must also put some action to our prayers. Yes---America has many strengths, but also some serious sickness, including the never-ending gun violence and mass-killings in our schools, churches, stores and workplaces. Is this on-going destruction of human-kind consistent with the God-inspired revolution you so eloquently wrote about? Americans, including many LDS Church members, believe that we have the right to bear arms (like our early American patriots) , but we seem unable---perhaps, even unwilling---to take the necessary political steps to manage and control our pathetic gun culture. Why would foreign countries see the hand of the Lord in America's destiny when the daily news coverage is dominated by mass-killings of innocent people? Yes, we need prayers! We also need a citizenry that is willing to be "reasonably governed"!
Sara GrovesApril 19, 2021
This is a great article! I feel inspired and wish that I had paid more attention to history when I was in school. As I read the article, I felt proud to be an American, but more importantly, humbled to see the hand of the Lord with those defenders of religion and country! And the message for today is as important ro heed aff it was for those defenders of Good and country! April 19 has for many years been a significant day in my life and now I know April 19, 1775, a significant day in this country's life... that made it possible for my April 19 significant day! Thank you for that powerful article!
Kimberly KirschbaumApril 19, 2021
Perfect timing! Great message! Thank you!!
Karate Kid was on last night. Though I've seen the movie many times since I graduated in 1984...and have been a martial artist ...this part of the movie, that you liken to Scripture, for the first time ever...caught my attention last night. I dozed off soon after that part.
What a blessing to wake up to the magazine article email today ..to see the title linking the Karate Kid..and Gospel commitment.
I think anywhere a person is with their walk with God..it should be acted upon...not middle of the road and "Squish"!! I've been squished..and walking on my own for a long time. I visit the church from time to time...that middle of the road. And have visited other churches. I've gone from being firmly on the one side...or the other...and I have to say...it sure beats middle of the road "Squish!"
Though my beliefs have changed...and I'm no longer a member...the message is powerful in our relationship with God!! Your message has touched me. I will be reflecting on it for a long time. Thank you!
Kim in Kentucky
Richard JukesApril 19, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for reminding us of the solemn spirit Marie and I felt as we stood on Lexington Square, visited the nearby old cemetery, and the inn. We stayed in Lexington for about a week and were impressed with the significance of that day, centuries ago, that brought our ancestors into the fray for freedom. Thanks for the stunning photos and memories. They remind me of our special time in China.
Debra L.April 19, 2021
Very inspiring, Maureen -- thank you. Mr. Gragg's comments RE: America in its weakness, youth, lack of experience was made strong by trust in the Lord -- a truly resonant insight. I wonder if you can give me the citation for the quote RE: Liberty as "the daughter of God, excepting His Son, the first-born of heaven"? Thank you again!
FranzApril 19, 2021
Great work! The actual spelling is Velluto....
RichardApril 18, 2021
Surely the idea that there's a "third implied commandment: to love thyself" is an encouragement for the narcissist and another burden for the depressed.
AnnaApril 18, 2021
I think this was a very good response. And helpful to all parents no matter the circumstance.
Marsha WilsonApril 17, 2021
We are all children of our Heavenly Father. Even though this man was a German he had his prayer answered and he kept his word to God. All wars are horrible but each person who is drafted has to do as their country asks. I agree the people that fought back to try and win there freedom are heroes too and also children of God.
DorisApril 16, 2021
This is so wonderful, and it was great to read that so many organizations in the area have suggested working together. For you Texans, you will love having a DI in your area!
LewisApril 16, 2021
An amazing story of courage. You must be very proud of Jolanta. We can never quite know the burdens others have to bear. I was touched by her first tentative steps out of her protective shell and by the sweet way she tells her own story.
Le/Roy SoderquistApril 16, 2021
What a wonderful, positive article. I have often observed to others who complained about how bad life was that it was their own fault for not being happy. I suggest to them that they spend to much time worrying about the things they don't have and not enough time enjoying the good things they do have. Having the right attitude sure helps.
Diana BinghamApril 16, 2021
I loved everything about your story and the hardships everyone went through to help these children is heartbreaking. Bless you. I especially loved your statement “When we reach out to serve God’s children, He opens the windows of heaven to us.” How true this is. A lesson I have also learned first hand. May your children continue to blossom.
Nicola in nzApril 16, 2021
Wow, just wow! No words...
But thanks for sharing.
Amazing
Chuck SanfordApril 16, 2021
I thank both of you for posting this. The horror the precious children went through, and the trials the adults went through, touch my heart and those of many others who read this. It is so wonderful that Heavenly Father is involved in your lives, and always has been; His time table is not always easy, but it is always there.
Mary J BellApril 15, 2021
I love this. Thank you so much for sharing!!
BusybeeBeccaApril 15, 2021
What about your driver’s license? Where does the mark of the beast begin? Why did the vaccination, all of the sudden, start the marking?
Jo Ann OkelberryApril 15, 2021
I am so glad I read this. Sometimes I find myself questioning, and I have to correct myself. We can find help and direction from the trials of others.
Kay RookhuyzenApril 15, 2021
This story had a HUGE impact on me. I cried while reading it. I have known people like that lamb that were beaten down by other people's comments, left out of games, not invited, etc. My mom used to make me invite then over to play, watch a movie or something. I always laughingly say I'm not a real kind person but this story made look deep inside my soul and decide to PURPOSELY be kinder.
NOW.
TODAY.
Thank you for rocking my world!
Julie FApril 15, 2021
Thank you Brother Goddard!
In response to some comments, I would say that sometimes loving ourselves means being self-centered and prideful, as Brother Goddard indicates. Other times we might use the same phrase, as was mentioned that Elder Gifford did in General Conference, but mean accepting our identity and purpose, and the Lord's love for us, which
is quite different from the myth Brother Goddard was referring to.
I personally don't think most anyone needs to work at loving themselves in order to know how they'd like to be treated; that comes quite naturally to the natural man. The hard part is to look beyond ourselves, loving God and others, to know how to treat them!
Marie CellaApril 15, 2021
Your story made my day. So beautifully written. I felt like I was right there with you. You spoke great truth and wisdom. Thank you.
Evelyn UzzoApril 15, 2021
Vaccine passports may not seem like the mark of the beast, however, this will most likely morphe into the very mark that is prophesied in the book of Revelation.
SueApril 15, 2021
Why are we so willing to give up our rights? Why is it so difficult to believe that all our leaders do not have our best interests at heart when it has happened throughout history time and again? D&C 121:39--" We have learned by sad experience that it is the anature and disposition of almost all men, as soon as they get a little bauthority, as they suppose, they will immediately begin to exercise cunrighteous dominion." Believe it!
tfApril 15, 2021
What happened to his Cambelite membership and leadership, is that just included in Baptist at this point?
GregApril 15, 2021
Good morning. Love your articles. However, I would prefer that if an article includes cursing, that you just blank out the entire text. Including characters (even with XXXX for most of the text) that lead us to speak the curse word in our head is not what I expect when I read an article in MM. Might be a little prudish perhaps, but it caught me off guard. I expect it in mainstream news articles but not here. Thanks again for your great articles.
Alicia DavisApril 15, 2021
Elder S. Gifford Nielsen said it best: “Our Heavenly Father wants us to love ourselves—not to become prideful or self-centered, but to see ourselves as He sees us: we are His cherished children. When this truth sinks deep into our hearts, our love for God grows. When we view ourselves with sincere respect, our hearts are open to treat others that way too.” We love God because he first loved us. When we know he loves us, we naturally start to love ourselves more, and then turn our feelings of acceptance, peace, and joy to serving others. Genuinely loving and serving others comes because we love ourselves, since God loved us first.
Carolyn A.April 15, 2021
What a lovely, tender story. My heart aches for Carol Ann, who is all of us at different points of our lives. And for Lucky, who once again, is all of us when we forget, or don't allow, the Savior's Atonement that facilitates our ability to forgive and progress past the pain incurred by others. Thank you! I am blessed by this powerful and important reminder of what I can do today, and every day, to be kind.
Buffie BarkdullApril 15, 2021
Your article spoke to my soul. I was reminded of the Lord’s opening statement when He describes the holiest kind of love. “Charity suffereth long and is kind.”
Jan KingApril 15, 2021
I have lamented the lost opportunity to thank a wonderfully kind nurse who took me into her home and cared for me about 76 years ago after I was released from 2 weeks in the hospital when our home burned down. I sustained bad burns on my legs, but my mother's burns were much more severe, requiring grafting and a 6 week hospitalization. I had no clothing and I remember the beautiful little dresses this stranger sewed for me. Thank you for enabling me to realize that I WILL get to see her again, as well as others who came to my aid during that time!
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
I am really excited to hear about this book. I was counselled in a blessing that I should study the life of the Prophet, Joseph Smith, and I especially enjoyed the one by Truman Madsen. I look forward to reading this new book with updated information from the Joseph Smith Papers. Thank you for the info!
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
I think the key to staying positive is to always be aware of your thoughts. When you repeatedly tell yourself how hopeless things are, your brain believes it. When you remind yourself that the Lord loves you, and will enable you to face challenges with courage and faith, you feel greater peace and hope. We all need to practice holding positive "faith thoughts" in our minds and hearts. That is one of the reasons we are counselled to read our scriptures. We must constantly let the light into our minds and hearts.
MEBApril 15, 2021
Thank you! This is a wonderful testimony that we need not doubt but continue in faith, while doing our part. We know Heavenly Father will do His, and I, for one, will not weary him further, by asking for confirmation of that which I already know to be true. I appreciate this reminder.
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
Is someone in my life hungry for kindness? Yes! Every single one of them. There isn't a person we pass by in our everyday lives who doesn't need to be lifted by kindness. Every heart carries some sorrow.
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
I appreciate this very real and down-to-earth article. I am also reminded of President Nelson's talk in conference regarding faith. He taught that we can CHOOSE to believe. I love that.
AubreyApril 14, 2021
That is beautiful, thank you.
DJApril 14, 2021
Thank you for your efforts and sharing your experiences.
David GrossApril 14, 2021
Many years ago, our then 18-month-old daughter tumbled down a flight of stairs ending on the concrete floor in the basement. It was obvious (listless and pupils pulsing between large and small) that she had severely injured her brain. I blessed her and after a trip to the hospital, where they checked her and found no treatment was needed. In summary, she was fine a couple of hours after the accident and is now 35.
Mary J BellApril 14, 2021
Thank-you for this inspirational story Kim-so sorry about the challenges-but you came through them with your family and even stronger for them. Wow!
Kelly AllenApril 14, 2021
This was great information! It was helpful to hear the lessons learned from people who experienced the Texas freeze. Thank you for sharing such important tips to getting totally ready for emergencies.
AnnaApril 14, 2021
Loving yourself is a feminist psychofad that some have tried to elevate to scriptural status with the commandment to love others as you love yourself. President Monson made it clear that there is no such thing as self love. He said the source of love is God not yourself. The love of God is pure, unselfish, never self seeking, and the more selfless you become, the more this love can flow through you to others.
D.L. AndersonApril 14, 2021
When my mom went into the care facility (she had dementia), I began writing to her on Sundays so she'd get the letter mid-week and then I'd visit on Saturday mornings.
Even when she could no longer truly read or comprehend, the folks at the care facility would hand her her 1 piece of mail that she'd clutch on to.
I don't know what she "read", but I know she knew she was alive, remembered, and loved.
Glad the seed catalogues do the trick!
Dennis SchleicherApril 14, 2021
I think this article is much needed. As an LGBT convert, author, and fireside speaker for our church. I can see the triangular moral dilemma of both sides. This shares the psychological ramifications that we often forget about. I.e. being boisterous, prideful, etc.
Thank you,
Dennis Schleicher
@DenSchleicher
Debra JonesApril 14, 2021
I love this article. After reading all this woman went through, I can imagine I would have a LOT of doubts about the church too! Her decision to quit questioning after receiving numerous assurances helps me to look at my questions as well. Maybe it's time I put those questions to rest too!
CarolineApril 14, 2021
I’m grateful for this article. I think we could be good friends! I’ve been studying mercy too, and highly recommend Mark Wrathall’s contribution to the Maxwell Institute’s series
CarolineApril 14, 2021
I posted a link to this on my IG and sent it to friends and family. Spiritual growth is slow, thoughtful and very personal but the Lord always remembers us and keeps His covenants. And looking back I imagine she is grateful for the stolen groceries and laundry, as I am for my “hardships” from my vantage point of old age. Well done article!!
Richard PedersenApril 14, 2021
I felt a little uncomfortable when I heard these words in the last General Conference,
"I don’t know about you, but when I read these two great commandments, I detect a third implied commandment: to love thyself. Have you ever thought of loving yourself as a commandment? Can we truly love God and love His children if we don’t love ourselves?"
I may have mistakenly taken these words out of context or missed the point of the talk. It does feel awkward or contradictory from what I believe and what this excellent article teaches. Perhaps there is another learning opportunity or perspective that I don't understand?
LexaGraemeApril 14, 2021
Thank you for this.
Kay RookhuyzenApril 14, 2021
WOW! Your experiences were mind boggling! But you survived, became stronger and by sharing your experience and the knowledge gained also strengthened me! THANK YOU!!
AnnaApril 14, 2021
Very helpful. This has been on my mind lately too.
Davod C HobsonApril 14, 2021
Could the mark of the beast refer to placing chips like they currently do with dogs and cats? It would be sold as a "convenience" but would allow easy tracking of individuals by commercial or government agencies who might require it as a condition of doing business?
AnnieApril 14, 2021
Excellent!
Susan MorrisApril 14, 2021
Well said. The question is not whether the Lord is true and faithful but whether we are. The restored gospel is not on trial as some assert: we are.
Pennie KnottApril 14, 2021
Amen Sister! I made a personal promise many years ago to follow Christ, be an active Church member, and follow the prophet. Never revisited that decision. I have been richly blessed and mentored by the Lord, no matter the challenges, for the last 50 years
AnnaApril 14, 2021
I liked this story very much. Thank you!
Penni C BrownApril 14, 2021
All great advise, thank you! We live in earthquake and fire country. I will add the following:
-> Purchase and keep a large fire extinguisher charged and ready. Schedule the maintenance to make sure it is ready if you need it. Read how to use it and have each member of the family learn where it is stored and how to use it properly, practice using it at least once to get the feel of what to expect when using it during a panic situation.
-> Make sure you have the tools to shut off your utilities (if needed) where they are shut off. No one should waste precious minutes searching for that shut off wrench! Get a small clip and chain and tether it the wrench to the shut off valve handle.
-> Buy a water storage bag that fits inside your tub that can be filled/inflated with fresh water as soon as you think you may need to save water for a short time. Using a water safe bag keeps that tub water clean from other contaminates (from flushing toilets, pest, etc.), "Water Bob" is one brand to search, I am sure there are others.
-> If you are currently storing water or worry that available water might not be the best, get a water filtration pitcher and store an extra filter or two. If you have available water but just want better taste, this is a much more economical source for clean water than cases of bottled water.
-> Toilet paper takes up a LOT of storage room, and during the pandemic the cost and availability made it extremely rare. Instead, store small personal hand held water bottle bidets, flushable wipes and doggy doo bags. Use the bidets *if* you have the water. Wipes take up less storage space, and the dog bags are for placing them in after use, as most sewers and septic systems recommend not flushing them in the first place. Wait before flushing, sounds gross, flushing after a BM only! -don't waste precious water flushing what can be easily and hygienically done otherwise. *If* absolutely necessary, you can use a bucket lined with heavy duty trash bags and rimmed with a cut and slit to fit pool noodle as a toilet, not fun, certainly not choice number one, however it will save water and still be useful -channel your inner ancestors.
Keep baby wipes *and* hand sanitizer on hand as well to wash hands, again, saving water.
Any personal hygiene wipes can be refreshed if they dry out with a very small amount of water.
Keep Lysol or other non bleach *sanitizing* wipes in your storage for cleaning. If these wipes dry out, you can refresh them with and liquid disinfectant cleaner to restore -do not mix bleach with *any* other chemical cleaners.
And a final warning about using gas, flame, wood, cookers, certain heaters, fire places, coal, oil, and many other things as a heat source: *Make sure* you have ventilation when doing so other wise you run the very real risk of carbon monoxide poisoning which can damage your organs in the least and cause death within a matter of an hour or two.
Nihla JuddApril 14, 2021
Does not a vaccine passport absolutely strip conscientious objectors of their God given right to agency - over which the war in Heaven was fought?
Anita EApril 14, 2021
What a series of unfortunate events. Oh my. Thank you for this wonderful article about your life and how you found a way to turn things around in your relationship with the church and Heavenly Father.
Gaye WillisApril 14, 2021
Thank you for sharing your powerful experience, which is a great reminder to hold fast to our faith. I was very inspired by it.
Meg H.April 14, 2021
To many people self-love means allowing themselves to feel God's love for them. It is not selfish, self-centered, or narcissistic. On the contrary, it is an act of faith, humility, and surrender. To me Jesus is the greatest example of that kind of self-love.
Rochelle HaleApril 13, 2021
What happened to the second great commandment, love thy neighbor as thyself (Matthew 22:39)? When did this become a Latter-Day or an American myth? The golden rule is found in most cultures. If we understand how we want to be treated (love ourselves), then we will be more inclined to love and respect others and desire good for them. Loving and respecting ourselves is not selfish. It is a key to loving our neighbors as God would have us, and shows our love for Him as well.
Gary WitteApril 13, 2021
Thank you immensely. If we were more interactive with prayer our motivation would raise to a higher level. I liked what Jared Halverson said (See Matt 22:36 - 39), that loving ourselves should be the third great commandment. I loved the spirit and poignant spirit of your article.
Marcia SmootApril 13, 2021
Thank you, Bro. Goddard, for addressing this topic. I have never been comfortable when I've heard taught the myth that we must love ourselves before we can love others. I prefer to consider the glorious truth that I am a daughter of a Heavenly Father who loves me, and it is my duty to spend my life striving to become more like His Son.
Sally SmithApril 13, 2021
Sally Smith
Such an all encompassing message about consecration. Thank you for sharing it. It brought me new insight and joy.
Geoff SteurerApril 13, 2021
Thank you, Wally, for not only reminding us of these important truths, but also living a life that illustrates these principles.
JessicaApril 13, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful insight! It is exactly what I needed to hear today!
Valiant JonesApril 13, 2021
This is so good. Thank you for setting aright a philosophy of the world that has, as you say, inverted God’s well-being pyramid and stood it on its head. Amen.
Reed FinlaysonApril 13, 2021
Excellent article. I would add, however, that my experience with working with victims of abuse for 30 years is that some struggle desperately to find anything of worth in themselves to even feel they can approach God. Especially one that did not seem to be around when the abuse was happening.They need a little push in the form of learning to see their strengths in order to feel that maybe they have enough worth for God to care about them. In that sense, they do need to love themselves. I have always interpreted that scripture from that perspective.
Kerry FarrApril 13, 2021
Thank you Brother Goddard❣️
This is one of the most enlightening articles I’ve read in my 73 years.
I have really enjoyed your previous articles also. You have a fine mind, inspired by the Lord to share truth with us.
Frederick SmithApril 12, 2021
The individuals who sabotaged the aircraft were most likely prisoners of war, abducted foreign citizens or ethic minorities that were used as slave laborers. The Germans used these people across all industries. These were the real heroes in this story. The war criminals are those that enslaved them. 15 million slaves make up 20% of the labor force at its peak during the war. There was great heroism in their efforts to fight the enslavers. They also prayed to stay alive.
Lois MiddletonApril 12, 2021
This story is fantastic!! It is reminiscent of the stories that my brother-in-law told about his time in the army spent in Germany during WW 2!
Kathleen FulmerApril 12, 2021
WOW! Indeed, the Lord DOES keep his promises.
Grace Christophersen ChumleyApril 12, 2021
When this fire happened, my sister who has not gone to church since high school, let me know about it. I was worried along with her and others because this was the camp of our youth in the 70's. So many memories. For three sisters from an inactive family this camp was our introduction to many gospel principles. I never heard the out come of what happened to Camp Liahona but was reminded about it today and did a search. I was so glad to come across this article. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Rochelle HaleApril 12, 2021
Thank you, thank you Elder Holland for saying that you "dabble" in your Book of Mormon reading. It is difficult to keep up with our Come, Follow Me studies, Conference talks, etc., and regularly study this precious book. I am thankful for audio capabilities and all of the resources made available through the Gospel Library. Thank you for your example.
TiffinyApril 12, 2021
Mine also said the email was invalid. I had used the auto. I typed it in manually and it worked. I hope this helps.
Michael BrashearApril 12, 2021
I am always uplifted by stories of faith and answered prayers in the lives of all of God's children, regardless of faith, circumstances or worthiness. If it were not the case I fear we would all go with prayers unanswered. God is eager to bless all His children. His request is that we go about doing good.
Corey D.April 11, 2021
Well written and well said and I agree, courageous from someone as young as he. I am about to retire after 42 years at the 2nd largest defense and aerospace contractor in the nation. Just before Christmas my coworker who is a young returned missionary was on the company Intranet said to me "come look at this", somewhat hidden in the announcements for the day was a corporate policy stating that they would no longer be hiring from BYU because BYU did not foster a climate of being supportive of LGBTQ+ rights, policies and teachings. We have not been able to find that since so possibly it was deleted, there are a number of executive positions at my division that are held by people who are BYU graduates and hopefully they stood up to that. Our church leaders and others not of our faith have warned about what has been going on in academia, particularly at the university level for many years. All that is now coming into play but the real danger is that corporate America has become part of that and when you yield influence over peoples jobs, their livelihoods, how they support their families you have real power.
Chuck SanfordApril 10, 2021
And I'm right there with YOU, Martha. The were 13 temples when I was
baptized in March, 1971.
Ronald BarnesApril 9, 2021
When I was on my mission in 1974, we used pictures in our discussions. One picture showed all 16 temples at the time. This included the, yet to be dedicated, Washington DC Temple; of which was an artist rendition, not a photograph.
Bonnie HamiltonApril 9, 2021
I, too, wonder what diet is best to avoid AD. I've always thought the Keto Diet to be unhealthy with it's concentration on animal products, especially fat and its avoidance of healthy fruit, vegatables and whole grains. It seems like it's the opposite of a Word of Wisdom diet. (Please understand I'm not criticizing tor judging those who think it's wonderful.). I mostly follow a whole food plant based diet, but, since I love a good dessert, I think I eat too much sugar. Is sugar the real culprit here? If so, for sake of brain health as I age, I can cut out sugar!
RitaApril 9, 2021
When I joined the Church in 1976, there were 16 temples around the world. I decided I would visit every temple once my children were grown. Yea, the best laid plans....I've worked at/visited a total of 6 temples, all in the US, and at this rate, I'll have to visit the rest as a spirit.
Donna MaxApril 9, 2021
Wow - I am so impressed with this article and with all of you who responded upholding righteous principles.! Its people like you who give uks all hope that there are truly others out there who are willing to actually speak out against wickedness and perversion and put your names to it!! God bless you al!l
Martha ClantonApril 9, 2021
I'm right there with you.
Carlos RoundyApril 9, 2021
Life is tailored for each of us. In the premortal life we each agreed to experience our trials and difficulties, for our personal growth.
Lisa Simonsen PowellApril 9, 2021
I love this article. It makes so many things more clear. I have always wondered why I have had to suffer so at the hands of abusive parents who profoundly affected my life in so many ways. However, I have learned so many lessons on compassion and self love that I wouldn't have learned any other way. I want to turn that horrible abuse into helping others who have suffered as well.
Carlos RoundyApril 9, 2021
Elder Holland is a fine example of finding light and truth in many places, and with a variety of other good people.
Steven SwarthoutApril 9, 2021
The only thing I would add is to focus on reinforcing the son's positive behaviors. I really enjoy and admire this column.
LexaGraemeApril 9, 2021
This reminds me of the cowboy story of the cook who made a lovely pie, using moose or cow instead of rabbit. Thank you. Hubby and I enjoyed it.
Carol NApril 8, 2021
I was actually quite stunned when I heard this announcement.
Gary LawrenceApril 8, 2021
Well done. Stay strong.
HelenApril 8, 2021
Thank you! During my engagement to my first husband I was excommunicated, striving for rebaptism. During one moment of agony I asked Father why he didn’t take me home before I did more damage and heard the distinct “thought”, “Because your children want you to be there.”
Maryann TaylorApril 8, 2021
Interesting! I had never thought of our national debt in this context, but yes, I can see how Satan would use this to divide generations.
vickieApril 8, 2021
i enjoyed reading this. i will use it for a lesson on sunday. since we are homebound i will teach this to my husband. my kids are all grown and gone. reading this gives me a sense of power. that sense of power is how unimportant our diseases are compared to the glory of God. How we can over come and not have whatever we go through be so important over anything else. and whatever our trials are, we chose them knowing we would suffer which lightens our burdens.
Jon SpencerApril 8, 2021
This is an articulate and well written article. The LGBTQ+ group gains adherents by scooping up those who lack self confidence, are lonely and who feel, rightly or wrongly, that they exist in a different world than the rest of their group (in this case, BYU students). I don't think these new members actually believe the rhetoric that their leader espouses, but they go along because they are now members of a gang where they feel welcomed. The Marxist groups in America (including at least one major political party) seek to separate people into victim groups, because while in one of these groups, in one of these gangs, individuals can be indoctrinated, can be controlled.
So, is Jesus indeed transgender? That statement is so insipid, so devoid of any rational arguments, it makes reason stare. Do all members of the BYU LGBTQ+ gang really believe this? I sincerely doubt it. And this is the hook by which some, maybe many, of the "victims" can be brought back to reality, and into fellowship with the rest of the campus. This approach is nothing more than servant fellowshipping and ministering by the rest of the campus. The goal of the BYU campus should be to become one with each other (and that goes for every community).
I pray that every member of the BYU community will seek to find common ground with every other member of that community.
Anna G PowellApril 8, 2021
Thank you for writing this.
Lisa M CroftApril 8, 2021
Thank you for your courage to speak up. I’m concerned how Satan’s plan of forced compliance with virtue signaling movements has permeated BYU. You may add Professor Ryan Gabriel’s speech at BYU and his introduction of critical race theory to the list of BYU Marxist movements. Professor Gabriel proposes that I am sinful because I am white and deserve to pay for the sins of people I never knew and to whom I am not related. Alternatively, my ancestors fought against slavery. America’s “original sin” of slavery is to be heaped upon my shoulders because I was born white. This, while BYU won’t allow a pro-life club on campus because it would be “too divisive.” I am saddened at how President Worthen passively allows atheist doctrine to permeate the campus.
Kirsten SchwendimanApril 8, 2021
Wow, that was a good one. Somehow I feel better now...thanks!
Andrew J, CurrieApril 8, 2021
I don't know what is going on at BYU, but to understand something is seriously awry one only need to read Elder Ezra Taft Benson's General Conference address of 4 Apr 1969 "To the Humble Followers of Christ". Among several grave warnings about post high school education, he said, "The precepts of man have gone so far in subverting our educational system that in many cases a higher degree today, in the so called social sciences, can be tantamount to a major investment in error..... President Joseph F. Smith was right when he said that false educational ideas would be one of the three threats to the Church from within."
As noted recently in the local news, a 26 year old BYU senior was arrested for several molestations on Campus. At the time I wondered why the Church was underwriting the education of a 26 year old undergraduate! If he graduated from high school at 18, served a two-year mission, and took five years to get a bachelors degree, he'd only be 25. Instead, we are paying to continue the education of a 26 year old pervert? Is something seriously wrong at BYU?
Elder Benson further observes: "Now hear this test proposed by President George Q. Cannon: If the breach is daily widening between ourselves and the world...we may be assured that our progress is certain, however slow. On the opposite hand, if our feelings and affections, our appetites and desires, are in unison with the world around us and freely fraternize with them...we should do well to examine ourselves." Today we have on BYU an LGBTQ+ proudly advocating other than seeking the Lord's help in changing?
Elder Benson concludes by saying, "To repeat again from the Book of Mormon, "...they have all gone astray, save it be a few, who are the humble followers of Christ; nevertheless, they are led, that in many instances they do err because they are taught by the precepts of men.(2 Ne 28:14)."
Harold RustApril 8, 2021
I appreciate your willingness to discuss the ramifications of a general tendency for even our own grandchildren who want to be "kind and understanding" of those who are different. After all, that trait of compassion is at the heart of being a member of the Church. Consequently, if we speak out against someone or some group who "claim" they are being charitable we can be looked down upon. However, giving in to someone else's demands is often not charitable if what they seek counters basic freedoms or goodness for others. I have learned through all this the value of basing all my conversations with grandchildren on fundamental truths and objective goals which they can agree to. That way when we talk specifics about the purpose of a particular "peaceful protest" of the posting of signs that basically say "I respect science and so don't you dare say anything against my view of whether a man is a woman or factors besides carbon dioxide influence climate." When they understand the basic truth, then they are generally open to hear concerns about why someone who is demanding compassion might really be demanding subservience to their ideas instead.
ShaunaApril 8, 2021
Good for you Sheaums. I am a BYU alum with a daughter there now and one admitted for next year. Ironically, about 30 years ago, while pursuing a Master degree in English at BYU, I learned about postmodernism, Marxism etc. as part of literary theory criticism. I worked on a Ph.D. elsewhere, where I learned more--including some Gay Studies theories. It is absolutely stunning and horrifying to me, to see that these "theories" are now driving public policy and have become widely accepted as "truth." They are ideologies with a capital "I" and need to be dissected, examined and rebutted like every other theory out there. I read about the lighting of the "Y" but was not familiar with the social media comments of it's leader etc. From his tone, it seems he's headed for a fall, as we all are when we become puffed up with pride. I pray for you, my daughter, and all BYU students who are seeking a broad based education within the context of the Gospel, that you'll be able to get an education that aligns you with the mission of the Lord's Church. Thanks for being bold in standing for truth and righteousness
A. BinghamApril 8, 2021
This article highlights the massive brainwashing campaigns that Americans are being subjected to in which Satan so craftily orchestrates. This is also a call to the importance of staying spiritually in tune. We need to pay much more attention to the little personal warnings and promptings that come to us and our children through the spirit if we are going to raise up a new generation worthy of the blessings of continued liberty. And if we can't turn around a majority of people, which is unlikely given their downward moral trajectory, at least we must be prepared to raise up a remnant of righteous people willing to stand together and resist what is coming. So many people and institutions have succumbed to this brainwashing, political correctness, and rarely take a stand anymore on the core issues that are causing this precipitous decline in morality and enlightenment in America. More and more of us are 'awakening to the awfulness of our situation'. As a graduate of BYU, I continually shake my head in disbelief and with increasing sadness at the path the institution is taking. Being in tune with Still Small Voice of Conscience is ever so critical in these times.
AnneApril 8, 2021
Very astute observations articulated by a brave young man. Let’s hope he won’t incur the wrath of the mob for speaking truth. Kindness and compassion do not have to be used as a disguise for Marxism.
Leah Jane BrowerApril 8, 2021
Thank you for this timely article. You have articulated the uneasy feelings many of us have but are increasingly afraid to express for fear of being labeled intolerant. There will probably be responses challenging you, but I for one appreciate your refreshing frankness.
MelanieApril 8, 2021
Thank you for your courage to bring our attention to this. I have seen this coming to BYU over the years, and sometimes even among LDS congregations--a buyin to liberal, marxist culture under the guise of love.
Lora KinderApril 8, 2021
My mother was afflicted with Rheumatoid arthritis that flared up greatly after her last child was born. The medications led to osteoporosis which led to a broken hip, which left her bedridden the rest of her life. (She had a hip replacement, but the other hip broke and she wasn't strong enough to endure another surgery.) She spent 20 years managing her pain with various medications with devastating side effects, until she died of a massive heart attack at the age of 60. During that time, I came across the story of an early Latter-day Saint man who had a vision of the pre-earth life, and how he had chosen his own life of pain for the sake of greater glory in the hereafter. I shared it with my mother, which helped her to see that what she was enduring wasn't wasted.
In fact, she did make good use of the time. She monitored the emergency channel on the CB radio, and saved at least one life. (This was back before cell phones were invented.) A baseball coach needed her to call for an ambulance for one of his players who was hit in the head. He couldn't leave the other kids, and all he had was his CB radio. "Thank God you were there, lady. Thank God you were there!"
As I look back on that time, Mom had no strength, but she could lift your spirit. I could count on her to be there to listen and advise. Just "being there" was enough for her life's mission.
LoraApril 8, 2021
I'm a grandmother who is actually afraid of what my grandchildren will be learning at American universities in the last days. I've seen them go from places where free speech is encouraged to places where only one viewpoint is tolerated and all others are considered evil and dangerous. I remember when the Marxists were willing to brainwash our youth for free. Now we get to pay for the privilege. Sending your son or daughter to college now is playing Russian roulette with their values. I hope that BYU can resist this trend.
Marcia AndersonApril 8, 2021
Bravo for your well-researched thoughts and analysis.
I too have faith that BYU (my school decades ago) will not lose its “lighthouse in the storm” status over all this going on as you so eloquently describe.
Michael DenisonApril 8, 2021
Thank you for posting this.
While I have never struggled with feelings of homosexual attraction or other letters in the LGBTQ+ etc, I do know the feelings of being ostracized all too well, and some of my closest friends wear the neon-rainbow.
I suppose I exist on "both sides" of this issue, and I hope that I can reconcile the two, pointing to what is right and true.
Bruce ForbesApril 8, 2021
Well said; thank you for writing.
KathleenApril 7, 2021
Wow! Beauty and talent come naturally in this family.
Pamela JacksonApril 7, 2021
So, its been five years (some including covid). What happened? Where are the final results? I can't seem to find anything on this subject that has a later date.
DoreenApril 7, 2021
I miss the connection that we enjoyed before this pandemic hit. I feel that we should be happy and practice smiling more and greeting everyone with interest and love!
J. Matthew PhippsApril 7, 2021
Then now is the time to make the major step. Ditch the name of the racist the school is named after. Ditch the name of the man who perpetuated the LIE about the sons of Caine and the mark.
Kay RookhuyzenApril 7, 2021
I'm with you! I hate self checkout. We are already distanced enough physically on a daily basis. I crave small connections hen I get out!
LexaGraemeApril 7, 2021
I took Dr. Nibley's Book of Mormon class in 1990. The first day was certainly something else. As was the rest of the term.
LexaGraemeApril 7, 2021
My mother's neurologist recommends a plant-based diet. He has been saying this for the four years she has been seeing him. He understands that not everyone can follow this, but recommends low-fat cheese, minimal pasta (his family would rebel if that got cut out) and sugar.
LexaGraemeApril 7, 2021
Agreed. Thank you.
DianeApril 7, 2021
This was a timely and excellent devotional!
ShaunaApril 7, 2021
Thank you--I agree. Covid has brought so much fear into our society--so that we're literally afraid of each other. I have refused to conduct myself that way. And I always greet people--to me it is a recognition of our common humanity
ShaunaApril 7, 2021
Thank you--I found this really helpful. wish I would have done this much earlier with my kids
Ruth JamiesonApril 7, 2021
So sweet! What a wonderful way to start my day! Thankyou!!
RochelleApril 7, 2021
This is already coming about with the EGS. Our credit score will be based on our actions politically instead of our payment history etc. It is wise to stay informed but at this point I see no alternatives being offered by anyone.
Russell HembrowApril 6, 2021
I am happy to accept the word of a Prophet and celebrate April 6th, whether it was exactly 1830 years to the day is not of any consequence to me though, I am happy with April 6th; but did you know 'Our Calendars Skipped 11 Days in 1752'. Yes, that is right, Six and a half million Britons went to bed on September 2, 1752 and woke up on September 14. The reason? The Calendar (New Style) Act of 1750, you don't believe me, just 'Google' it; we did it to catch up with Europe who for hundreds of years had already caught up their callender, Only Russia remained behind and fixed it by skipping days in 1918. So, it is a bit moot in my opinion, it also means the Sabbath is not really on the Sabbath if you are stickler for 7 days, but we can celebrate Christ's Atonement on any day, can't we?
GoogleApril 6, 2021
Wonderful story, reckoned we could combine a number of unrelated data, nevertheless really really worth taking a look, whoa did one particular study about Mid East has got much more problerms too.
Wes BrewerApril 6, 2021
I like President Nelson stating the "likelihood" of Christ's birth but not declaring it as for certain and absolute. The D&C scripture as I read it is not specific enough to declare that day as Christs birthday, but referencing the general year known and accepted by mankind. This is a good example of a revelation coming through men with limited knowledge and that limitation being included in revelations. It does look like April 6th is a "commemorative date" but I am not seeing a certainty enough through scripture or prophetic revelations to draw that Christs birthday is on April 6th. I'm not seeing that any of the prophets are confirming it is that date. There comments seem more "general reference of dates.." To me, this idea of April 6th seems more plausible but isn't at this time doctrinal. Which I think is what the author is exploring.. maybe I'm seeing this wrong.. ?
Calvni GarvinApril 6, 2021
Being a fan of history, read/learned (forget where) that if you were an early Christian and celebrated Christ's birth on his actual birthdate, the Romans would send you to the Circus (kill you). But during the Feast of Saturnalia, which was the last two weeks of December, you could openly celebrate Christ and the Romans wouldn't bother you. Thus Christmas evolved into Dec 25th. To celebrate otherwise makes you a fool, the orgins of April Fool.
Melissa FeldApril 6, 2021
Jesus most likely was born in the spring, since that is when Shepherds gathered sheep. However, D & C 20: 1 was originally a preface written by Joseph Smith's scribe Oliver Cowdery; it was later added as verse one in D & C 20. And "the day of our Lord" was a formal way of saying what year it was. It could have been the day Jesus was born, but we cannot conclude for sure that it was, since it wasn't dictated by Joseph Smith directly.
Joan LeachApril 6, 2021
An ancient stele in Central America gives Christ’s birthdate as April 6. My former bishop, David Handy, and his brother annually search the jungle ruins and he presents slides and a talk about their explorations. Bishop Handy is an attorney in Orem.
Joan LeachApril 6, 2021
David Handy and his brother can show you the photos of a stele in Guatemala dating hundreds of years old that give Christ’s birth date—as April 6. My former bishop and an attorney in Soren, these brothers have for years searched the jungle ruins in Central America every summer. I’ve watched Bishop Handy’s presentation twice and have come away in awe both times. I especially love the one that shows three “picture representations” of God with the one picturing the Holy Ghost as blank!
Yvonne AstonApril 6, 2021
Interesting study. If this hypothesis is correct then eating to prevent brain malfunction needs to start early on in life.
Ray CongerApril 6, 2021
A shout out to my long ago friend at BYU in about '88, John Devitry-Smith. Hi John!
Harvey HiggsApril 5, 2021
I read articles similar to this article and find the research interesting.
However whether Christ was born in December or April makes little or no difference compared to the fact that Christ was born and died for our sins.
Maryann TaylorApril 5, 2021
Wow--total temples in operation and those announced--251. We are certainly living in glorious times of fulfilled prophecy! I am so excited and hope we will all work harder to prepare our ancestor's names for ordinances. My experience has been that performing the temple ordinances for them is the most joyful and satisfying work in the church. What a loving reunion we will have one day with all of them.
Maryann TaylorApril 5, 2021
Amen to Susan G.s comment!
WhatToEat?April 5, 2021
Based on this, what kind of a diet should be recommended for those who have a genetic predisposition for Alzheimer's?
KathyApril 5, 2021
This is really fascinating to me, because a couple of my grandparents had AD before their death.
What's your bottom line for prevention and reversal?
Will your recommendations also improve brain clarity and function?
Nancy M. SmithApril 5, 2021
It says my email is invalid
Cleve AlldredgeApril 4, 2021
I tried to leave my email for the app, but it said its not valid.
Jacob HessApril 3, 2021
Thank you for the kind comments, everyone. These are challenging questions, and whatever we decide, I hope we can remain united as brothers and sisters seeking the Lord.
To Dr. Lynn D Johnson's question, I sent my draft to Sally Linford prior to publication. So, it's not true she would have been shocked, because she was very encouraging of my moving forward.
The woman on Facebook whose post prompted this piece (and who I kept anonymous on purpose) expressed concern that she had been portrayed as angry. Despite her contention that she was not motivated by anger, I maintain that her post and comments she and others made throughout the thread functioned to stir up people in opposition, suspicion and enmity towards our presiding leaders. Call it what you want, it's something I raise concern about without apology.
charles casbionApril 3, 2021
when you are going through times in your life , its always good to know our heavenly parents are near us ,and our brother jesus christ and angels of our heavenly father, they are always by our side and never leave us , even in the storms of life
JenApril 3, 2021
I feel a major theme was anti-racism am quite disappointed you did. It mention that at all. That is much more specific than just unity. The prophet gave us a call to lead out against prejudice and racism... and his talk was not the only talk to address it.
LindaApril 2, 2021
Love this. Such a great reminder!
Ann S PapworthApril 2, 2021
I too agree that these are lovely traditions. Wish I'd had some of these for my 7 children but hopefully I can pass them on to some young grandchildren!! I may try a couple of these although now alone. Thanks
Marsha NewmanApril 2, 2021
Excellent article! All the missionary experiences - old and modern - were inspiring. I have a missionary grandson working in Iowa with the spanish speaking people. He's very new, but full of the spirit and so anxious to find a really good "golden contact." I'll be sending him encouraging quotes from this article. Thank you.
Lana JohnsonApril 2, 2021
The new app says my email is invalid so please please please sign me up!!!!!
Sandra W RawlinsApril 2, 2021
This is full of such passion, adoration, love and testimony!! I am drawn to come back and listen over and over. I shed tears of wonder and joy!!
Thank you David!!
ShariApril 2, 2021
Is thus app available for android?
I am having issues signing up for it.
Sharon L. MayApril 2, 2021
Darned funny--and perceptive. I expect miracles from President Nelson everytime he speaks to the Church. Can't wait for Saturday morning. Hang on!!!!
John R CarpenterApril 2, 2021
There is nothing more consistent in life than change.
In heaven, Love and Consistency is a standard.
Matthew GlosengerApril 2, 2021
Please keep the personal political agendas out of this space.
Many members of the church DO NOT agree that racism was any part of the riots. You saying it was, doesn’t make it a reality.
At NO time, from ANY speaker, did we hear counsel on the riots and racism.
The messages of unity would have been completely nullified had they connected actions to motivations.
Using the term “racism” automatically separates groups into value positions of being “LESS THAN”.
We should shun that word as deeply as we shun any position that classifies Gods Children, collectively, as being less worthy.
David R JacksonApril 2, 2021
Will I be able to add it to my iphone via a download from the Apple istore?
Joan TurnerApril 2, 2021
Thank you loved this article from Hosanna to Hallelujah of Holy Week followed readings and ideas everyday
Helga SilskiApril 1, 2021
Dear friends, let us not knock Facebook or other Social Platforms, if we add what we know to be true, sharing our testimony born by the Holy Spirit, then even there truth and beauty can be found. The Spirit will always lead the honest in heart to see, hear, understand what is truth. We must be selective yes, but it also is up to us to present the positive and good for better understanding and clarity to the masses.
Susan G.April 1, 2021
Who cares and why is this important? Actions speak louder than words or other people's thoughts on the subject!
Christy RutherfordApril 1, 2021
When I attempt to sign up for the app, I get a message when I put in my email address that says, "email" is not a valid email address, even though I am putting in my regular gmail address.
LindaApril 1, 2021
The man is a total jerk, plain and simple.
Joyce TerryApril 1, 2021
Your app is saying my email address is not valid
PeneApril 1, 2021
This is such a beautiful podcast...thank you both for being such devoted disciples of our Lord Jesus Christ and for your heartfelt testimonies. Love you and thank you for all you do.
Mary HillApril 1, 2021
FYI - the app is not appearing yet in the App Store. The Meridian app that is there is Meridiani Magazine which is NOT what we are looking forward to getting.
Judy PerryApril 1, 2021
Brilliant article, Diana. I consumed literally every word. Thank you.
Judi EnglishApril 1, 2021
A beautiful talk that spoke peace and hope to me. Thank you
Carlos RoundyApril 1, 2021
The same question could be asked of each of us. How religious am I? Am I willing to forsake the world for a better world? Am I willing to lose my life, and follow Christ?
Harold StuartApril 1, 2021
There need to be severe penalties for people who file frivolous lawsuits. The courts need to be left open for those with legitimate complaints.
Maryann TaylorApril 1, 2021
Thanks for the chuckle!
Mary-Rose McMullinMarch 31, 2021
I always smile when science catches up with revelation! I'm looking forward to your articles.
MikeMarch 31, 2021
The only flaw I see in this balanced article is the assumption on his part that the intentions are noble of those developing and distributing the vaccine. If so, then things are much less risky. But, most have a proven track record of deception and immoral pursuit of wealth. We won't know for years the real effects of this medical experiment.
Karell BinghamMarch 31, 2021
Good job Mariah! wonderful insights that I had never before thought of! I love to read your articles!
Chris HowellMarch 31, 2021
This article seemed somewhat meaningless unless it substantiates that those that like the President believe he is God fearing and those that don't don't. I think the true measure of religiosity is how closely ones actions squares with the 10 commandments.
Kathy Hall SpransyMarch 31, 2021
Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your talent of vocal music with such a PRECIOUS song!! This BEAUTIFUL HARMONY and heartfelt message is just what was needed in my life today, and THANK YOU AGAIN for sharing!!!
Linnell FowersMarch 30, 2021
Yay! Thanks:) I’m a family studies major and although I’m not employed in the field, I love it. I’m excited to hear about good research backing Gospel principles.
Robert GatesMarch 30, 2021
Sadly, it sounds like he "excommunicated himself" (quoting a Prophet) and has deliberately gone over to the try life in the Great and Spacious building for at least a while..
Lesson for us. Whether its masks, vaccines, wealth of this world or other don't go wondering off towards the Great and Spacious building. Even though it may seem right, worthwhile, titillating and exciting In the end you lose . Its truly a fools errand!
CHARLES DEFRANCHIMarch 30, 2021
I was going to suggest you provide us with examples on how popular culture can be misleading when it comes to solving marital relationship issues, and I am looking forward to reading your inspired advice. Always very grateful having you sharing your wisdom and experience with the Latter-Day Saint community.
ScottHMarch 30, 2021
Good food for thought. I am fine with people having differing ideas and opinions, even on serious issues. I become concerned when people begin using coercive measures to attempt to force those with whom they disagree to behave as they demand.
southern mamaMarch 30, 2021
Our own family is being torn apart by the divisive and polarizing politics of the day. Our adult children have called us white supremacists and have told us they are ashamed of us--and our only "crime" was voting differently for president than they did. We stopped discussing politics or any other potentially controversial subjects for years before this election, knowing that there could be disagreements. There was no discussion or warning--when the terrible events happened at our nation's capital in January, we were somehow responsible in their view. We weren't even there and have never condoned or supported any kind of violence! We are devastated by the breakdown of our family--and these are temple recommend holding adults who have done this!! We pray daily for hearts to be softened and that our relationships can somehow heal. I am praying daily that the brethren will address the contention and evil tearing everyone apart.
Autumn CookMarch 30, 2021
Great article! Very balanced, very thoughtful. The Lord can and does lead people to do opposite things, because He knows our needs and we're all different. We must be patient with those who see things differently and not expect that following the prophet looks the same for everyone. The prophet's role is to lead people to Jesus Christ. Those who listen to the prophet will have heard him tell us repeatedly that personal revelation is crucial in these confusing times. Boy, are we seeing that! It seems a huge part of the "big test" is whether we can love others who see things differently when so much is at stake - life and liberty.
Kathy SandersMarch 30, 2021
I look forward very much to reading your articles on this subject. I am constantly amazed (I shouldn't be) at how eternal principles and truth always shine through any field of research or endeavor if we keep the foundational truths in the scriptures as the base camp. Thank you for all your articles.
Doris WilliamsMarch 30, 2021
SOOOOO beautiful. I share Sonja's feelings as the tears just come with hearing these incredible voices speak His name in music. Thank you, thank you, guys. Your spirit and harmonies just make the world a better place.
Kerri DavenportMarch 30, 2021
Thank you for inviting readers to what looks to be an exciting study!
Carol N.March 30, 2021
This is just a stunning rendition of Hillsong's message of praise and worship. I have loved this song for years and now have this arrangement, featuring David Archuletta and Vocal Point, to love, too. Thank you!!
Blake GarsideMarch 30, 2021
Unfortunately, the Source for many has become Facebook, Google and other Social Platforms, etc. How about the New Mormon Google being LDS.ORG OR even better PERSONAL PRAYER for answers and guidance !!
ScottMarch 30, 2021
I believe the Lord's hand is helping us during this pandemic. For the first time ever, we have a prominent medical doctor who is our prophet, giving us counsel. We have next generation vaccines, which have been in development for 25 years, ready now just when needed most.
April CarolMarch 30, 2021
Might I suggest that we leave mental illness out of the picture. Just because someone has negative feelings and exhibits retribution against a person does not mean they have a mental health issue. People sometimes hold a grudge when they are offended and there are any number of other causes. Blaming terrible things that happen in society on people with mental illness is unjustified and simply inaccurate. Discrimination, stigmatism, physical abuse, isolation, and a serious lack of accessibility to medical treatment (let alone knowledge) all contribute to the intense burden of a demographic greatly misunderstood. Mass shootings seem to be the fault of people with undiagnosed and untreated mental illness. It's time to face the facts - some people are vindictive and some are simply evil.
Karell BinghamMarch 30, 2021
I am very interested in hearing what you have to offer! Thanks for your insights!
prbMarch 29, 2021
When truth cannot be ascertained and extensive evidence is not available and conflicting voices clamor for support, where do I put my trust and faith? What does it mean to have “confidence in leaders” and a “testimony of a living prophet”? For me, it means follow their example. How often will my personal revelation conflict with the recommendations of my prophet? For me, the common good is more important than personal beliefs. Love your neighbor is high on the list of commandments. Humility doesn’t capture the essence of the solution, but responsibility and civility are good choices. I agree with Dave Myers.
Sister Clarisse TateMarch 29, 2021
This is such a beautiful article! Thank you for sharing your experiences & providing some wonderful ideas to create meaningful Easter traditions & lessons about our Savior.
D. MackeyMarch 29, 2021
The murals are already well preserved and much appreciated in the most appropriate of places--one of the Lord's holy temples! What would be wrong with their remaining in the context and setting for which, under Heaven's inspiration, these works of art were created?
Sherelyn CuretonMarch 29, 2021
I would love a picture of that lighted stairwell. Thank you for sharing this podcast each week. I anxiously await for them!! I cry when you share an experience that just touches my soul.
Sonja ErvinMarch 29, 2021
All I could do was weep...it was SO beautiful! Amazingly spiritual and moving. Thank you for sharing it with the world.
Jo Ann OkelberryMarch 29, 2021
When I saw a picture of President Nelson wearing a mask, I had a very strong feeling that I should follow. It was the same way when I saw the picture of him getting vaccinated. I pray all the time to know what to do, and I follow those strong feelings I receive to "follow the Prophet."
MeagenMarch 29, 2021
Hello! Can you please share the picture of the open door with the stone staircase? If you still have it? Thank you!
ShaunaMarch 29, 2021
I really appreciated this article. This has been a difficult time for me with lots of questions and conflicting ideas. This gave me some new ideas to think about how I can approach how I’m feeling. Thank you so much!!
JimMarch 29, 2021
I appreciate this article very much. I never thought about it being an act of humility. I just thought it was common sense and good manners. For those who feel that doctors have all the answers they should read "Confessions of a Medical Heretic".
Synthia C.March 29, 2021
Thank you for this well thought out and much needed article! I have been troubled over this vaccine issue and am not convinced it is something I should do. However, I feel pressure from many around me demanding conformity. And I have gently pushed back so that I have room to continue to gather information and think things through. In the process, my husband and I have had to caution ourselves from falling into the contention that surrounds this issue. Contention is clearly a weapon of the adversary; we need to keep his purpose clear in our sight and not get blindsided. He has cast fear for our physical well-being into our midst and we need to take care that we don’t jeopardize our spiritual well-being in exchange. And through this all, we should exercise grace and humility one with another.
Lona MillerMarch 29, 2021
Bro Hess, THANK YOU!!! So well said.
TaraMarch 29, 2021
Thank you. These are much needed words in the world today and especially for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This is from a marginalized and persecuted non-mask wearer and reluctant vaccination patient that has had to regularly self-reflect and repent for returning judgement with judgement, anger with anger and prejudice with prejudice. The peace and joy that comes from humbling myself before the Lord, hearing Him and then forgiving myself and others has been my refuge. Every. Time.
Blake GarsideMarch 29, 2021
Thank you Jacob for taking a sensible and rational approach to what has become a very polarizing issue. Down here in Arizona, the border crossing of thousands being released into small border towns has many feeling very uncomfortable. The local news is reporting as high as 50% infection rates among those who crossed. Unfortunately, they are dispersing across Arizona with Zero tracking, etc.
I definitely, respect those who wear a mask and those who do not, those who have been vaccinated and those who have not. One thing I'm definitely sure of is, Satan's influence is taking its toll on individuals and families. Oh, do we need this week to focus on the Savior's atonement and to hear inspired counsel from the Brethren !!
Rita in TexasMarch 29, 2021
As a senior citizen who's been in the Church a good long time, I've had many opportunities to argue about the pros and cons of many issues. My takeaway has been "be patient until there is clarity". All of us are mostly blind on virtually every subject, no matter how much we think we know. The biggest problem is that we don't know what we don't know, and tend to misunderstand what we do know.
I had the virus a year ago, came through it unscathed, and will not consider getting the vaccine until after the Pfizer trials are complete, on January 31st, 2023. I will make a decision then. But your results may vary, and I will not presume to dictate what anyone else should do. What you want to do is none of my business. I chose long ago to not live in fear of anything but displeasing my God. He is the source of clarity.
Dave MyersMarch 29, 2021
I think the answer goes a step further than you have described. I've been vaccinated and I wear a mask because I think it's the right thing to do to help stop the spread of the virus. I understand how some people may have questions about the safety of the vaccine, but that doesn't absolve them of our common responsibility to help stop the spread of the virus. So what can they do? Stay home, wear a mask, stay distanced, have groceries delivered, attend church on Zoom, etc. We pay fast offerings because some other people need the help. It may not always be convenient, but we are in this together and we need each other to be able to get out of it. It won't work if everyone doesn't do something to help. Objecting and complaining won't help, and being civil (or humble) isn't enough.
Maryann TaylorMarch 29, 2021
My baby died just 5 hours after she was born. The teachings of the gospel are so comforting regarding our infants and little children. I have one friend who joined the church because her LDS doctor shared gospel truths with her after the death of her baby. What a great blessing to know that little children are saved in the Celestial Kingdom and that we will have the gift of raising them and loving them. How great is our God! How great is our Savior!
Maryann TaylorMarch 29, 2021
Beautiful! It is so obvious these men love the Savior and express it so beautifully through this wonderful song. Love David!!!
Maryann TaylorMarch 29, 2021
I can understand the resentment of many toward government officials because of their actions to usurp our freedoms. Elder Bednar's recent article regarding protecting our religious freedoms in the midst of COVID addressed this subject beautifully. However, we must never allow ourselves to lose our faith and trust in our Prophet or other general authorities of the church. I just read recently in the Doctrine & Covenants 107:22 about the specific ways we support our chosen leaders: "...upheld by the CONFIDENCE, faith, and prayer of the church..." This scripture is so timely. It is essential that we hold fast the iron rod right now, consistently feeding our spirit with truth so that we will not be deceived by having a rebellious spirit. Satan is doing everything he can to divide us--especially from our Prophets and Apostles. We MUST NOT allow the storms around us of doubts, confusion, or angry debates to shake our confidence in the Lord's chosen leaders. Everything within me revolted from getting the COVID immunizations. However, when I saw pictures of President Nelson and other general authorities receiving it, and when I read his counsel for us to also get the immunization I followed that counsel as an act of faith.
David DurfeeMarch 29, 2021
I like the take of the Givens in "All Things New," that the importance of Christ's shedding of his blood and the Atonement goes beyond just paying some price for sin in a business transaction. But it enables and encourages a healing from our sins.
Dr Lynn D JohnsonMarch 29, 2021
Jacob, I sent your link to Sally Linford; she was shocked to see you feature her comments. Since I quit Facebook 2 years ago, she must bear the burden of defense of the anointed while I remain in blissful ignorance.
Some seeds fall on good ground, and some fall on rocky soil where they fail to put forth roots. That's the way it's always been and always will be.
Judy PerryMarch 29, 2021
Wow! Thank you for this article and addressing my pain over this issue. As I have studied food and nutrition my whole life, I have observed that what is recommended in one period is totally reversed in another and then reversed again. My peace is in the hands of the Lord that ultimately he is in charge and all truth will be revealed in time. Whether anyone chooses vaccine or not chooses vaccine I have no need to be militant about it. I have had to make peace with death and dying and conclude that there are worse things than death. We will all die when it is our time. I just want to be ready when it is my turn.
Kate PiersantiMarch 29, 2021
This is an excellent article. I see this issue about the vaccine a way Satan can use us to do his will. If it comes to determined arguing it makes him happy. He knows our weaknesses and he is playing on them. We need to back up and simply share opinions and respect one another. "Beauty for ashes."
Carol WhitecarMarch 29, 2021
I believe in personal revelation that we have for ourselves and our immediate family. I love that the Presidency has given us an example we can follow or not on vaccines. We can feel safe to know he has chosen that and we can follow- or if we have complications like pregnancy or other health compromises we can choose to not get the vaccine. I believe he is showing us the way for personal agency on the vaccine. Whether or not we get it has NOTHING to do with church DOCTRINE. The prophet is still our Prophet and the church is still true! We need to make that distinction and not be caught up making mountains out of molehills.
AnnaMarch 29, 2021
Very worthwhile for us to read and consider. Thank you.
Roberta PalmerMarch 29, 2021
Thank you for this article! Beautifully written. Agency, which was fought for in the war in heaven, will never be taken from us. Only with humility can one be respectful of others “choices” or “opinions”. It is the peace that comes to the heart which matters most. Once received, it should not matter what others may think...a very personal relationship with the SAVIOR - who gives that peace - is the most important goal in this life and for eternity.
Kathleen JonesMarch 29, 2021
I am older, with health concerns, yet I have lived a very hard life, but with no regrets. When the decision to have or no to have arose, I decided to talk to the one person here on earth who would have the last choice--myself. Knowing that the good Lord would also be attending. As I presented cases for and against having the shot, it was finally decide that, I trust more in the Lord, but also know He is sending knowledge so it was decided. I took the shot. Whether or not it is good or not, I really still cannot say. I know President Nelson did it, and if he trusted in it and surely in the Lord, so can I. My hard life is such that I know the Lord has also helped me through it and allowed easier times in also. No, I don't like masks, but I'll error on both sides.
DorothyMarch 29, 2021
Thank you for this reasonable message. It pains me to read of others willing to villify our Prophet or consider leaving Church membership over things where we have agency to believe what we will . Our Prophet and membership are worth so much more than the complaints listed. I feel our Prophet knows more than I do, so I am going to follow the Prophet.
Jane NelsonMarch 29, 2021
So beautifully written. Why don't we see this for the test that it is? Pride rears it's ugly head in times like these and divides us from one another and from our God. I especially love your final point. Our spiritual well-being is our chief concern here. Thank you for bringing clarity to this confusing topic.
Philip LeaningMarch 28, 2021
I read Jennifer Mackley's book a couple of years ago and found it absolutely fascinating.
Scot ProctorMarch 28, 2021
The sources are hyperlinked in the article. Click through for the link. For example "As Elder Neal A. Maxwell put it" is clickable and it will take you to talk where the quote comes from.
Aaron BaileyMarch 27, 2021
The earliest reference to authentic Christianity as a ‘cult’ that I know of comes from Tacitus, who lived in the first Century. That’s how real Christianity looks from the outside. A real Christian gets called a cultist and just smiles, remembering the Beatitudes (Mathew 5). If you are doing the religious persecution, you are outside Orthodox Christianity.
Christine JohnsonMarch 27, 2021
Please site your sources for quotes!
Debi-Ann CaseMarch 27, 2021
My husband is at extreme risk for dying from Covid-19 if he gets it. He can't breathe with a mask on. He barely breathes easily without a mask. He practices social distancing, which is the best and most he can do. We both take natural food-based supplements, including Vitamin D. We grocery shop in-store, go to meetings with others in our senior age category, and thank God, despite his CML leukemia, he is doing very well. A little common sense goes a long way toward staying healthy.
T. GilbertMarch 27, 2021
When I've seen something like this before: the illogical, rambling, excessively long letter of baseless accusations, written in anger..., it was due to the beginning stages of mental illness, which quickly got worse, thus proving itself to everyone. Just a thought.
Sasha KwapinskiMarch 26, 2021
The term "cult," for all practical purposes, has come to mean whatever anybody wants it to mean.
SusanMarch 26, 2021
Over many years of nursing and during those years dealing with healing as Sister Marshall expressed, I learned that immediately after trauma is seldom the best time to force ones self to deal with painful memories. My suggestion is to download all those images onto some form of external storage device. Put this together with other tokens of the relationship ( wedding ring, special gifts, etc) and store them together in a box or perhaps a safety deposit box. This requires intentional discovery. There will come a time ( for me it took many years) to come to an emotional place that I could revisit my memories and I was thankful I had preserved them for that experience. Healing takes it own course for each of us as we deal with loss in our lives. It is a universal teacher.
tfMarch 26, 2021
I had info on a thumb drive go bad in just 2 years. burn a dvd also. in 30+ years of working with PC's, I've seen numerous back-up media abandoned, the media may still be good, but try finding a drive that will run it. A hard drive is least preferable, for long term storage. The Cloud hasn't been around long enough to know how it will turn out. I would trust Family Search to keep stuff forever, or at least until the mellinium!
Cary HolmquistMarch 26, 2021
Kevin: you really nailed it with this one! And the church foyer setting—classic! This is a keeper!
GrandpaMarch 26, 2021
This gentleman needs to put all those photos on to a thumb drive or an exterior hard drive, label it, and then put it in a drawer where it is out of view and out of mind. Years from now, he will rediscover it and just maybe have some fond memories.
Shane HatchMarch 26, 2021
Amen!
Karen CasosMarch 26, 2021
The photos are a memory for you not just for your ex wife. There is no need to get rid of them. Enjoying seeing them by remembering the good times, days, friends and family .
Theron LarsenMarch 26, 2021
I feel sad for the late father Jon Huntsmans to now have his name to be drug thriugh the mud by a son when his father is not here to defend his good name !! As for him leaving the church it will go on as it alwasys has to complete it's mission here on earth till the Savior comes again !!
Maryann TaylorMarch 26, 2021
Truly beautiful advice regarding the healing process. I wonder if it might help this brother to put the photos away and wait for some time to pass before going through them. Right now he is very raw and time will help, although it doesn't feel like that right now. I have always loved the scripture Brother Steurer quoted from Lehi to his son, Jacob: "..The Lord will consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain." I find that so comforting. The Lord can, and DOES, work miracles in our lives, even in our suffering.
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
When people make untrue comments about the church it is an excellent opportunity to gently teach the truth. I think the best way we can do this is to share our personal feelings about our Savior and how much we have learned about Him and FROM Him in the Book of Mormon. The Holy Ghost will attend us if we do this and help people to feel the spirit.
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
I am glad for this happy ending, however, we need to remember that we do not EVER pray to anyone other than our Heavenly Father.
Kevin LeeMarch 25, 2021
Actually, the prayer reads "O God, the Eternal Father, we ask thee in the name of thy Son, Jesus Christ, to bless and sanctify this water to the souls of all THOSE who drink of it," not SOULS."
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
Thank you for this Joni. I treasure our sacrament covenants, and the sacred reminder that the Lord certainly did shed his blood for me. However, I doubt if very many of us "take it for granted!"
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
Wow--does he also want his blessings returned to the Lord?????
Ayse KOCHMarch 25, 2021
this is such a sweet song with powerful truths. thank you for sharing. I hope we canning it all together some day.
HN GwynMarch 25, 2021
I noticed that Bob must have read it wrong the first time when he added words not in the prayer. He said in reading the prayer that "to the souls of all the souls who drink of it". It should have been "to the souls of all those who drink of it." Just saying!
Ron BarnesMarch 25, 2021
When reading the prayer the way he wrote it, I did not see what was left out. It wasn't until I recited it in my head, without reading it, that it became obvious. His point is well received.
Ron BarnesMarch 25, 2021
A protestant friend once told me that many Christians consider us to be a cult. I told him that the word "cult" is used by one group as an excuse to persecute another. By usage, a "cult" would be any religion that you don't accept.
Tim ErnstMarch 25, 2021
I love the concept of preserving the works of Wilford Woodruff. If after the end of our lives, we, too, have been diligent in keeping the journals and records of our lives, but we see that nothing has been done to preserve the writings of someone as important as President Woodruff, then what reason should we continue with our own record keeping? But inasmuch as something is being done, then it gives validation to our own individual efforts and regardless that we are not Prophets, Apostles but barely just Elders and members, our efforts are, indeed, acceptable to the Lord.
Jeanne GuinnMarch 25, 2021
Thank you for this article. It reaffirms an experience I had. When I was 21 yrs. old my husband was shot and killed in front of me. As he lay dying I distinctly felt arms around me, comforting me. I don't know if it was my dying husband's spirit or an angel but 50 yrs later I can still vividly remember the experience. I have learned much since then from the teachings of the church to understand what the experience was. I will be ever grateful to my Heavenly Father for his loving kindness in my grief. I am just sorry that my daughter (who I was pregnant with at the time) did not know her father. She has also felt him near when needed.
Robert CowartMarch 25, 2021
Anne as always I appreciate and thank you for your time and
effort in sharing with us these inspiring experiences.
I think I told you about my wife who passed away after 53 years of marriage on August 12 2020. She had her first stroke on Aug 12 2012 and left mortality exactly 8 years
later. I am certain this is not just a very unusual coincidence but as yet have no explanation for it.
Maybe one of your readers does,
C.J. ZIEGLERMarch 24, 2021
Thanks for providing an opportunity to read this timely article. I believe that this virus that has not been isolated, has been the opportunity of a few individuals, with evil intent, wating on the sidelines, to get the power and control that they crave.
Tamara ZanderMarch 24, 2021
my eyes are FULL of tears and my heart is FULL. of emotion and gratitude! I too served in Peru and got head lice in my long hair.
I LOVE the faith of this mother!! what an incredible story of asking for help and trusting. thank you so much for sharing this special experience with us.
vickieMarch 24, 2021
when one pays tithing its a donation. donations should not be returnable. no matter what the money was used for, in his heart he was paying tithing. God was watching him pay his tithing at that time. its tithing a law consecrated by God. He needs to complain in prayer to the Lord
Jeanene LeBaronMarch 24, 2021
I, too just love her articles and never miss reading them. In fact, I look for them! I am grateful for her depth and wisdom ~ I always feel blessed after reading.
t. b.March 24, 2021
Interesting story, but you obviously didn't get to choose the picture that accompanied the feature :)
Linda HaningMarch 24, 2021
On the side line point about DC becoming a state. My understanding is that the current proposal is to give the citizens of the district a voice and not to give the federal government a voice in both entities. Any further information would be welcome on this.
James ScottMarch 24, 2021
I can envision a man whose business is financial trouble, as film distribution business’ have been eroded by streaming, is looking for a quick source of cash. He may be strapped for cash, he gave, and that’s the watchword freely, and wants to choose how tithing offering is spent.
For behold, if a man being evil giveth a gift, he doeth it grudgingly; wherefore it is counted unto him the same as if he had retained the gift, wherefore he is counted evil before God. Moroni 7:8.
MaryMarch 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing this inspiration happening and giving us hope that others xan come to our rescue
Guy WilcoxMarch 24, 2021
Love every one in the Bonner family. they came to our 55+ Residential apartments in Riverton a few years ago and did a personal concert for us!
they have endeared themselves to us all!
Debra L.March 24, 2021
Thank you for the interesting perspective. As someone with a life-long interest in politics and civics who has served as a legislative board member for a professional organization at the local and state level, I've come to believe that the most important politics happens closer to home. Local and state leaders are more accessible, and your voice is more likely to be heard.
Gary LawrenceMarch 23, 2021
To Alisa Dunn: Good question. I can only say that we will then work to replace them or make sure they don't become a majority. To Patty Bright and D. Herrin: Thanks for your interest. Will continue to address related topics as they become visible.
Pam RoderMarch 23, 2021
I always love to read Sister Isackson's articles. I'm so happy you all are still sharing these with us.
Thanks you for that. Keep them coming please.
Robbi LarsonMarch 23, 2021
Phenomenal - albeit scary - article. This needs to be spread worldwide.
David DurfeeMarch 23, 2021
With few (and maybe no) exceptions, federal, state and local governments throughout our nation install stop signs at intersections and impose laws restricting our freedom to drive past those signs without stopping, even when there is no other vehicle in the vicinity. But in my entire life I have never heard of a single person, let alone an academic, protesting the government's encroachment on our divine freedoms with such signs and laws. But in a health crisis that has taken the lives of over a half million of our citizens in the past one year alone, we criticize our governments for trying to stop the carnage if it means requiring masks? Why not tell the government to take down all the stop signs and let individual drivers decide if they are going to stop at intersections or not, especially if no other cars are coming?
Jo Ann OkelberryMarch 23, 2021
I love the Bonner Family. I met them at a performance in Los Angeles several years ago. They sing so beautifully and radiated love for all.
JoannaMarch 23, 2021
Thank you for this article. As someone from the UK , our rights and freedoms have already gone. We are not allowed to protest freely and our government is passing laws left right and centre without debate while Covid19 emergency powers hide what is going on. We have not be able to attend church for over a year. We are praying.
D. HerrinMarch 23, 2021
I would be very interested in hearing more about your remaining twelve possibilities. One might suspect issues on many concurrent fronts.
Karell BinghamMarch 23, 2021
I love you all!!!! Thank you!
Patty BrightMarch 23, 2021
Thank you for this powerful information and encouragement.
James ScottMarch 23, 2021
I’ve always considered the rainbow as the end of creation, that while the plants were watered from the mist that rose from the ground it had never rained. Never had the sun refracted to moisture in the air, but that this was the occasion for the Lord to reveal this wonder as the covenant of his promise to Adam and Eve.
Patty BrightMarch 23, 2021
This is thought provoking. Thank you for sharing.
Alisa S DunnMarch 23, 2021
I find this very interesting. My question is what if those leaders, for example in the state of Utah DON'T support the Constitution?
Dr. Craig R. FrogleyMarch 22, 2021
Thank you, Doctor. Bravo. Finally a scientist speaking scientifically!
LauraMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for your thoughtful and comprehensive reminder of the true symbolism of rainbows. I look forward to a time when the real meaning replaces the worldly perversion. By the way, the expression is a "friend of Dorothy," not Judy.
Tony RossMarch 22, 2021
In Australia, we went early and hard with lock down. With some exceptions it has worked. Our compliance rate has been very high and we have had few deaths and within our bubble we have enjoyed a near normal life style for most of the last year. We are only just starting a voluntary immunization program but there is no panic. We had an election in our state of Western Australia and the existing government swept the polls because of their management of the pandemic. There is only a very small number who oppose how things have been managed here in Australia
Merrill SellersMarch 22, 2021
Thank you Dr Atlas, for your article. The only question I would have is , do you believe the cov-19 vaccines are safe? There are videos made by scientists that tell a story of dna / rna issues with 5G.
Arlene WildeMarch 22, 2021
I find this article a bit disturbing as it doesn't mesh with my personal experience. I live in Alberta, Canada, and there has been a very definite correlation between government mandated restrictions and lowering of cases, hospitalizations, and deaths. Our government leaders tried encouraging citizens to act in accordance with recommendations without imposing restrictions, but far too many people say "If it's legal I can do it." Even with mandated restrictions there are a few who refuse, but enough complied to make the restrictions effective.
As far as masking goes, I have never understood why this would be considered a violation of rights and freedoms. I have family in health care, including a front line ER doctor, and I think it is a pretty established truth in medicine that wearing a mask helps prevent the spread of a lot of things. Do you really want a surgeon working on your body with the entire medical team unmasked?
I realize different people have different experiences, but the "facts" presented in this article definitely do not align with my lived experiences.
Carl StephaniMarch 22, 2021
This is a very important article clearly and concisely written. Everyone should read and think about it..
Tom PrittMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for this richly informative and inspiring essay! So true, all things do denote the glory of God.
JimMarch 22, 2021
I love that Gods symbol is all inclusive of His children and not exclusive like man's symbol.
minda lubbenMarch 22, 2021
Mr. Scott W. Atlas, sir I am so thankful for your article. I agree with you 100%+ I am so glad to see article like this in the Meridian Magazine. My husband and I do not comply with this none sense mandatory. America is in the verge of losing the freedom that we cherish in this land of the free and the brave. Where are those brave men and women? Thank you so much sir, reading this article of yours made my day. I will post this on face book. God bless you Sir.
DanaMarch 22, 2021
I love the rainbow as a sign of God's love toward all of his people. There are many in the LDS community who also belong under the LGBT rainbow and are God's people. People who were biologically born with LGBT tendencies or intersex, etc. I have a child with a genetic deletion who falls into this category. There are so many more than you think. For others who need support and love while remaining in the church, please contact NorthStarLDS.
Rey LainMarch 22, 2021
Will truth prevail? I dont have those credentials but have felt this way from the beginning. I dont feel the mask issue was completely explained. Is a cloth mask of whatever material really a safety precaution, whatever the circumstance?
Meridian-thank you for this scientist's expert coverage.
WilsonMarch 22, 2021
Excellent article. It takes real courage to tell the truth these days, in the face of the critics of any views countering the established and enforced media controlled "official" dogma. Our country is on the brink of losing free speech.
DeAnna MurphyMarch 22, 2021
You have hit the nail on the head with this article! THANK YOU!
I have a sweet disable daughter who reminds us all the time that we can "see with our hearts" what our eyes cannot see. A recent talk she gave suggested that we can "see the Savior with our hearts" and it can be as real as though it had happened with our eyes. I have a sense that she knows! D&C 67:10 also reminds us that “… it is your privilege, and a promise I give unto you … that inasmuch as you strip yourselves from jealousies and fear … the veil shall be rent, and you shall see me and know that I am – not with the natural mind, but with the spiritual.” I know this is true!
PaulineMarch 22, 2021
Interesting thought and opinion he shares. The number of deaths and efficacy of vaccinating I believe are false however.
Jan KingMarch 22, 2021
I'm especially grateful for this podcast today and the technology to receive it as I'm traveling in Costa Rica and didn't have access to a church meeting yesterday. It's been a blessing to make it part of my study today!
Carma HuggardMarch 22, 2021
Excellent perspective. Thank you.
Michele NoelMarch 22, 2021
Finally! Clarity and intelligence! Thank you!
G RutterMarch 22, 2021
From a non scientific, but highly educated practitioner in my own field.....too many so called experts giving differing opinions. Politicians either banging their own drum or trying to juggle conflicting opinions while trying to keep their respective economies going. TOTALLY insane conspiracy theories.....(thanks for sharing the love America.)...and a media on both sides of the pond seemingly doing their utmost to muddy the water and frightening the life out of people in the process!
Just what, exactly are people supposed to think?
Totally unprecedented times, there is NO textbook on this!
A plague on all your houses!
Chris A.March 22, 2021
Thank you for having the courage to share this article. Our civil liberties are crumbling and we need to wake up. Freedom is the essence of our existence - it's what we fought for during the war in heaven.
Tim FosterMarch 22, 2021
Dr. Atlas, you are a ray of light in a darkened world. Most of the people that I am able (during the shutdown of America) associate with agree with your science and comments. Rationality and civil discourse has been limited and supplanted by politics and crowd hysteria. It is, unfortunately, history repeating itself. We must labor to save this nation and the freedoms which have been so costly to achieve.
Joy BairdMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for expressing what many of us have felt for months now.
Garfield CookMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for your insightful article and reminder of the covenant God made with Enoch and Noah. In addition to the promise made to Noah, the semi-circular rainbow is a visual reminder of the promise made to Enoch that as his city was taken up from the earth before the flood of Noah so shall it return to earth in the last days. Thank you for taking the time to prepare this article. Garfield Cook
Paula RomrellMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for printing this article and showing a fair and unbiased approach.
Michael HogganMarch 22, 2021
I'm glad my old college buddy, Brian Shirts, is involved in tthis.
Bill CoulamMarch 21, 2021
I am glad the JST meaning of the rainbow from Genesis 9 was highlighted here. So few know that it was originally given as a promise that the city of Enoch would return and Zion would be built. Can't help but wonder if elements of Norse mythology (bifrost - rainbow bridge with Asgard and the realm of the gods at the other end, YggdrasilI - kind of like the tree of life) originated with truths the ten tribes carried with them to the north countries.
Ann-MarieMarch 21, 2021
What a strengthening personal example of the need to call upon those angels who are near us and waiting and wanting to help!
Gordon J HensleyMarch 21, 2021
The token of the rainbow was placed in the sky after the survivors of the flood disembarked. Animals and humans, they had one thing in common: they were all reproductively fertile matched couples. If you were on the ark, and you were not paired, you were food. It is odd that someone not in this category would adopt that symbol. But then again, the early Christian church adopted a torture device for theirs.
ShannonMarch 20, 2021
For me this was such an insightful and well-written article!!! I really love the symbolism of the covenant, and that God has not forgotten his children.
DJMarch 20, 2021
Great insight and perspective. Thanks for your article.
LexaGraemeMarch 20, 2021
Thank you for a beautiful article.
Kerry FarrMarch 20, 2021
Thank you! How wonderful and enlightening. Was not aware of much of this information.
Robert D StarlingMarch 19, 2021
Thank you for this thoughtful and eloquent reminder of the real meaning of the rainbow. It is lamentable that this symbol of God's love for man has been co-opted by those who center their lives on man's love for man (and women's love for women) instead of centering on Christ and his doctrine, and the blessings of eternal marriage and family life that are Heavenly Father's gift and plan for ALL of us. Jesus said it all, when he told the woman found in sexual transgression - - "Go and sin no more."
Maryann TaylorMarch 19, 2021
Thank you so much for the reminders of the sacred covenant symbolism of the rainbow. Satan is so obvious in his attempt to thumb his nose at our Heavenly Father by seeking to pervert and twist the meaning of this sacred covenant symbol for his own evil purposes.
D DrakeMarch 19, 2021
I, too, have seen a round rainbow while flying. I thought it was incredible.
Diane BlakelyMarch 19, 2021
About 1987 I was driving through the Virgin River Gorge in Utah and drove through the end of a rainbow. It felt like a blessing.
Tyna WoodsMarch 19, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article this morning!
MBakerMarch 19, 2021
Thank you for this informative, inspired article! I was not familiar with the origins of the gay-pride rainbow. After having learned more about the moral conditions of the world during the time of Noah, I have felt like the gay-pride movement taking on the symbol of the rainbow was a mockery of God and the covenant He made with His people.
BMarch 18, 2021
This is so beautiful! I love the painting, I love the temple experience, I love your inspired song. Thank you for sharing.
Sally SmithMarch 18, 2021
Shawn I know you have True Grit and tenacity. Most of all the Lord is with you and your wife. So when the rehab gets tough and the tears start to flow, remember He is always with you.
Mary-Rose McMullinMarch 18, 2021
Thank you, this is beautiful! Who is the artist of the "Unity" painting?
Pat HarkerMarch 18, 2021
Beautiful thoughts and music. Thank you!
Chris CalkinsMarch 18, 2021
Your observations make me want to do better! Thank you for your thoughts and encouragement to do so.
And thank you for the lovely song!
Marina SpenceMarch 18, 2021
How much I appreciate the depth of your article and the richness of its invitation for us to unite as our Heavenly Father's daughters in blessing and helping one another. And your inspired music is now filling my mind with its beauty. Thank you for sharing your light with us today.
Melissa AndersonMarch 18, 2021
Great article! Thank you for sharing not only Shawn's current circumstances, but also much of his past experiences, good works, attitude, and faith. It helped me have hope for Shawn and inspired me in my own personal challenges.
Juliann BradshawMarch 18, 2021
I don’t follow sports but Shawn sounds like a great man. The question “Why” comes to my mind, but life presents so many unanswered questions. My prayers are with Shawn and his family. This will be a great challenge; lost ability, lost expectations. May they experience miracles and may they stand amazed with new doors of opportunity.
Heather GriffinMarch 18, 2021
Love the tender stories of strong women going about doing good. Their individual & collective efforts remind me that God has a mighty work for us to do. There is undeniable power that emanates from a devoted woman serving in Christlike ways.
Susan SchumacherMarch 18, 2021
Revelation comes in many ways. Heavenly father blesses us in our talents where we are and this is truly a gift of revelation. To sister Christofferson I express heartfelt gratitude for sharing your gifts and giving voice to this eternal truth. I especially appreciate your examples of women Who have made the effort to educate themselves politically so they can be a faithful force in declaring righteousness without being combative. That is a true gift indeed.
I look forward to hearing this beautiful hymn become popular as it is performed in holy settings giving both men and women more insight into the relationship between heaven and earth.
CarolMarch 17, 2021
You are missing the point! The regulation of elections is given to the states.
This bill is completely un-constitutional
SteveMarch 17, 2021
I agree with Mary & Victoria. I think we should try to get as many votes as possible. Apparently this bill, in contrast to what the biases National Review has to say, it to allow more people to vote which is part of our heritage. It would be nice to see an unbiased review of this bill.
JimMarch 17, 2021
According to another source (Cecil E. McGavin, "Historical Background of the Doctrine and Covenants"), Hiram Page did not destroy his seer stone, but it was kept as a souvenir in the Whitmer family, handed down through generations until it is now in the possession of the Reorganized Church (Community of Christ, as they now are known).
StarlynMarch 17, 2021
Thank you for your wonderful insights. This is so well thought--out and expressed. I couldn't agree more about the importance of making sure we love the Savior not only because He can make us more comfortable and happy physically and temporally, but more importantly because of the love and power He has to bring us spiritual joy regardless of our physical or temporal contentment or discomfort.
ShaunaMarch 17, 2021
Thank you for this article with additional information on the life of Hiram Page. I"m reminded of a quote from Anthony Sweat, " Church history is full of mortals, and no mortal (individually or as a group) are either perfectly good or perfectly bad, flawless heroes or devilish villains." (from interview with LDS Living)
David SylvesterMarch 17, 2021
I am thrilled beyond words that this project is under way. I have been fascinated with President Woodruff since I learned of him in home study Seminary back in about 1978. I was so intrigued by his driven desire to record his journals.
When I finally saw one of them open, in a glass case in a Church Library while visiting Salt Lake one time, I could hardly believe I was looking at his own writing. I couldn't take my eyes off of it. The tiny writing to save paper I guess and the meticulous way in which he wrote! I wondered then why they weren't published and now, a dream is coming true for me. This will truly be an asset beyond description for the Church and for the World to read these writings of a truly amazing man and prophet. I wish I could help!
Sydney WheadonMarch 17, 2021
I really enjoy your stories. They bring a smile to my face. Thank you for sharing.
BeccaMarch 17, 2021
I completely agree with the other two comments below. We have to look beyond the extensive politicking and see the real issue of voting as a basic human right, offering it to every American citizen.I signed up twice for my vaccine because a closer spot was available and I received several calls until they confirmed my agreement to cancel the repeated first shot. I was impressed with how thorough they were in learning my intent and seeking my ok to cancel it. Thank you state of Utah! :0)
DeeMarch 17, 2021
This article reminded me of a lesson I have learnt from the COVID legislation changes to how we run church activities and classes around food. It became clear to me what an opportunity we had to focus on the true bread of life in our activity, instruction and classes. I noted the stress that some leaders felt when they couldn't pad out an activity or lesson with food. They didn't know how to connect, inspire and validate those in their care without food. My thought was, how wonderful. This situation will provide an opportunity of growth. However, that hope was short-lived when methods were used to try and re-introduce food into activity and classes as quick as possible. I look forward to the day when we can come together and be satisfied with the true Bread of Life and Living Water.
CoriMarch 17, 2021
What a great family history story to preserve for posterity. Thanks for sharing.
Douglas E NadybalMarch 16, 2021
It is a great article but at the same time I worry that many people would view this type of spiritual communication with the dead as a form of necromancy. I think we need to be careful in telling of our experiences that these type of communications are a by product of doing family history that just happen usually according to our need at the time.
Nancy GoddardMarch 16, 2021
So beautifully and wisely said. I know it is true! We need our ancestors and they need us!
Carol KendallMarch 16, 2021
Utah is now on DAYLIGHT time.
Maryann TaylorMarch 16, 2021
Love this message! I truly believe that if we study the scriptures daily, and pray sincerely daily, that we will not be deceived. If we keep the Holy Ghost with us, Satan cannot deceive us. The truth will be written in our hearts and we will clearly recognize falsehood.
Maryann TaylorMarch 16, 2021
Sadly, continued misrepresentation of the church will be even greater as we approach the second coming of our Savior, and persecutions will increase. I appreciate your review of this program. The goal of the producers was an obvious attempt to cast a shadow on the church with the media's consistent "Drama-Queen" approach. While it is good to shine a light on these twisted and false portrayals of the church, I am often reminded of Lehi's statement regarding those who were mocking from the large and spacious building. He said, "We heeded them not." Those who criticize the church will blow away like chaff in the wind. There are so many, even in recent times, who have come out in open defiance against the church and most people cannot even remember their names. Kate WHO???
Maryann TaylorMarch 16, 2021
The key issue here is the safety of the children and they are NOT safe in this environment. I hope this man will follow the advice given and get help NOW. Her violence is a very serious issue. How does he know she is not inflicting violence on the children when he is not present? I would also contact a lawyer and seek full custody of these children with a restraining order until this woman seeks professional help and is recovered from her violent tendencies.
Anne O'BrienMarch 16, 2021
That reminds me of the article by Hugh Nibley ; A Strange Thing in the Land:
The Return of the Book of Enoch, Part 8 https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/1976/12/a-strange-thing-in-the-land-the-return-of-the-book-of-enoch-part-8?lang=eng
Win BroadhurstMarch 16, 2021
And? So? Is that all you have? Am I missing something???
Nancy LeeMarch 16, 2021
These truths speak to my spirit! Thank you so much for sharing.
StkabuMarch 16, 2021
"This documentary is almost less about Hofmann than it is about Mormonism and not in an even-handed or even educational way. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which is a minority religion in the United States, has been targeted and misrepresented too many times already" ...Couldn't have said it better myself. I'm so tired of the cringe-inducing portrayals of my religion. I'm so disappointed in Jared Hess. His talent is wasted. For someone who likes to be original, he took the easy road on this one.
Christopher CardenasMarch 16, 2021
Satan is subtle with these biased, misleading documentaries. The Lord's work will prevail as we speak up articulately. Thanks for this little article.
NanMarch 16, 2021
Your lifetime of study and travel is proving to be such a blessing to me and all those who read or listen to your "Come Follow Me" podcasts. I always learn something new and fascinating that I had never heard before. Thank you for your service.
Norma OlsenMarch 16, 2021
Thanks Wally. So many good thoughts to enlighten and inspire. This pandemic has made lots of people reevaluate how we use our time. Your message fits with many of the inspirations I have received, perhaps from family angels, to write my stories and never again take a nearby temple for granted.
Diane IrwinMarch 16, 2021
Wow! This blew me away! Well done; the music and the video clips were perfect. Thank you.
G HarrisonMarch 16, 2021
I agree with the article. I was surprised at the tone of the documentary and not sure what they were really trying to achieve.
I remember the events well and it was interesting to look up the people being interviewed....come to your own conclusions when you have done that!
Not an over reaction, it’s a fair comment about a disappointing documentary.
I’m quite calm by the way....
Senior citizenMarch 15, 2021
Talk about your over-reactions! Almost every sentence sounds like a hysterical cry for pity. I saw the whole thing and learned a lot I did not know. I never suspected the leaders did anything wrong--and I still don't. Calm down!
Sherelyn CuretonMarch 15, 2021
I eagerly await your Podcast each week. It fills me with love. Thank you for teaching me these sacred scriptures along with your experiences that fills my heart. I have keep tissues handy because tears will flow.
Susan StoddardMarch 15, 2021
I would love to see Israel but want a longer trip - 2-3 weeks. Do you ever do a longer trip? I was on your Church History tour in October 2019. I would love to do a longer tour of the Holy Land with you.
PeggyMarch 15, 2021
Soup is delicious, we decided to leave it chunky and not blend it. Thanks.
Dave HallMarch 15, 2021
Pres. Kimball, in his BYU address, "Peter, My Brother" nowhere suggested that the Savior commanded Peter to deny him. Rather, he suggested that Peter, in his mind, may have been worried about what would happen to the church if something happened to him. The idea that Peter was commanded or inspired to deny Christ doesn't square with the intense remorse he felt over the incident.
Oscar MuñozMarch 15, 2021
The Savior was aware of discerning who and who not to trust when He gave instructions to his Apostles as they went preaching the gospel.
He said:
Matthew 10:16
16 ¶Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.
It’s a balance we all need to learn.
MaryMarch 15, 2021
I have a question about the need for lengthy/expensive detoxes. When you get a colonoscopy, you get completely cleaned out the night before pretty easily. I don't get the need for ongoing detox products.
Heather BMarch 15, 2021
My husband and I saw Lamb of God this past weekend. It was beautiful in every sense. I was familiar with the music but to see it performed by these incredible vocalists and musicians up so close was truly wonderful. Like having a front row seat to a concert. Even more, the way the music makes you feel is almost unearthly. My husband and I couldn’t control our emotions. Only 90 minutes and certainly appropriate for children who can sit that long. If you want to experience what Easter is all about, don’t miss it!
Kathy SandersMarch 15, 2021
We saw Lamb of God on Friday at the theater and it was WONDERFUL! Please don't miss this moving and profoundly beautiful concert. Thank you to Rob Gardner and all who performed. Such inspired music that touches the soul.
Laura ClaytonMarch 15, 2021
I hope you share this opportunity several times, for those who aren't able to attend tomorrow evening or were too late to be one of the 100! What a wonderful opportunity to be able to help Jimmy!
VictoriaMarch 14, 2021
I agree with Mary...comment above. I just don’t see all the problems you do with voting rights. Why, with something as basic to America as voting rights would you make it more difficult for people to vote. Very wrong. These are things that would set us back over 50 years! Does not pass the smell test.
Charles D McClureMarch 14, 2021
As soon as I saw her picture I wanted to hear her story! It was completely different from what I was expecting! I knew it would be amazing but it was much more amazing then I could imagine. Thank you for your sweet testimony!
Janet DoiMarch 14, 2021
Brother and Sister Proctor,
My husband and I do so enjoy your weekly podcasts that you have been giving us here on Meridian Magazine. The knowledge and inspiration coming from your unique insights are invaluable to we Church members, who are older, and unable to travel anymore--due to health or the COVID pestilence. My husband is 80 and I am 75. We, as many others, have always had a desire to visit Israel and see the wonderful sites where our Saviour walked. Besides age and lack of funds. We will not see this beautiful country in our lifetime.
Having said that, may I suggest something that you could do to fill that gap for elder Church members.
During this coming tour, could you take a film crew with you to film the places to will visit? And, the audio of the inspirational remarks you give to those with you at each site? You could make DVD's. One for each place and sell them to the public (Church members), I'm sure.
It would be a blessing for us to purchase such wonderful depictions of the Holy Land.
I look forward to your response to my message.
Thank you for reading my comments.
LeahMarch 14, 2021
Thank you for teaching us about Emma this week. Could you share the sources for all of the information about Emma that you used? I would love to learn more about her.
MaryMarch 14, 2021
I don't see the issue with some of the problems you listed. Changing information yes,but same day registration no. I think the goal is to get as many people to vote and to make it easier. I also don't see a problem with registering online and if states are not smart enough to provide through that process safeguards than maybe they do need to be regulated. This is 2021 not 1950.
Michael PetersonMarch 14, 2021
How much verbal and physical abuse should one person take from another?
Two years ago I made a solid resolve that if a person, any person, treats me in an insulting or demeaning manner, I would let them know immediately that it is NOT all right and that I would not tolerate it. I’m so glad I did!
How much abuse should one person tolerate from another? NONE!
GTOMarch 13, 2021
You are not a narcissist. My mother was a narcissist and behaved like your wife. I don't know if she is a narcissist, but you definitely are not. The fact that you are examining your own motives and behaviors proves that. I hope you're able to extricate yourself and your children from this situation.
Bette HarpMarch 13, 2021
Hold on a minute! I was in the same situation. I stayed. I don't regret it. My husband is a good person, worked every day, remained faithful and did the best he knew how. He still has problems that he brought into our marriage. He never was and never will be the guy that I felt that I needed.
I decided that my husband isn't responsibly for my happiness. That's a choice that I make. I chose to surround myself with good friends and to turn my problems over to God, who has greatly sustained me.
Have you considered that you may never find this person that you long for , that many men wouldn't take on four children of another man, that single mothers are far more likely to end up in poverty?
Maybe you believe in fairy tales, as I did for a long time. As President Uctdorf said, a lot happens between Once Upon a Time and Happily Ever After. Don't give up on your marriage. Hold on. It may work out, as mine did.
By the way, we just celebrated our 63rd anniversary.
Sheri KowalMarch 12, 2021
This is beautiful , thanks so much for sharing!
Michael MartinezMarch 12, 2021
What a great and inspiring story! It is so good to listen to someone who is so intelligent and put the BOM to the test. Those of us who, in our own trials, did the same in adult life, completely understand this beautiful ladies' conversion to the Gospel of Jesus Christ! All that is needed is to have a open mind and a need for something better, and question and listen to the Spirit as you study the Book of Mormon! Thank you for sharing this story!
PamMarch 12, 2021
She sounds like she needs counseling and/or psychiatric intervention.
KathrineMarch 12, 2021
This is one of my favorite episodes becasue of your portrayal of Emma Smith. It carefully and beautifully captured her essence, showing us her struggles and strength, making her more relatable. Thank you for your examples to help us honor Emma.
BradMarch 12, 2021
Nothing brings more joy than to discover that your Heavenly Father loves you and cares deeply about you. I see this again, when I see see you give that same love to these precious kids at the time they most needed it. Such a dark place to come back from. Thank you for sharing such a tender time for your family with all of us.
Marcia SmootMarch 12, 2021
I can't get into Peter's head but I, too, believe Peter was no coward. I feel it is entirely possible that he was commanded to deny the Christ that he would be preserved to lead the Savior's flock following our Lord's atoning sacrifice.
I grew up this way . . .March 12, 2021
I grew up with an abusive mother--screaming, blaming, manipulating, hitting--and in 5th grade started asking my dad why we didn't leave her. He didn't want to break his covenants, but as a kid I really didn't want to be around her anymore.
It would have been better for me as a child to be in a different home. "Staying together for the sake of the kids" can be far worse than removing them from a dangerous, mentally ill mother (and she sounds mentally ill).
Shannon Norgord, Mountain Shadows Ward, Colorado Springs, COMarch 12, 2021
Dear Sister Webb,
I teach an online Come Follow Me for Individuals and Families meeting. I wanted to thank you for your through lesson regarding D&C 23-26. I used several references from your article and feel that I gave my best lesson ever. I have been praying for additional resources to liven up my lessons and I was so very grateful for your article. Thank you!
Warmest regards,
Sister Shannon N.
Robert D StarlingMarch 11, 2021
Those extreme corporate giants need to be sent a message in the only language they understand - money! In the few months left while we still have a conservative (?) majority in the US Supreme Court, those whose businesses have been attacked by the left should bring as many multi-million-dollar lawsuits as possible. This is the way we fight for our freedoms in the world today. Many conservative legal aid organizations will support that effort. They will be paid well when they win in court, just as Earnest L. Wilkinson earned 10% of the $200 million settlement he won for a native American tribe.as a young lawyer.
D. PetersonMarch 11, 2021
Will there be a live performance this year?
LewisMarch 11, 2021
You know, this is an incredible story, both of your love and patience, but of those brave children. With so many things stacked against them, they ventured forth into a very challenging world. We should never underestimate how difficult the transition was for them. I know you must be incredibly proud of them!
Harold RustMarch 11, 2021
Thanks. The first question to be addressed should be: "What is our goal---to change some actions, laws, rules, or regulations which have been harmful to one or more minorities (whether that group is of one race or just one particular common interest) or is it to change attitudes and belief systems? These are two completely different approaches. In the former we can recognize many past laws and social actions which discriminated in ways that were very hurtful--and both parties knew it. Gradually, the laws, rules, and actions have been improved significantly. With regard to attitudes, however, I believe the only real improvement comes when we show people a better way. In classrooms as a sub teacher I have learned I never change attitudes by showing a student what they are doing wrong--whether it is their attitude toward a math problem or their attitude of defiance when asked to turn off their phone. When I can show them something they are doing RIGHT or WELL (I carry many puzzles or interesting questions which, through hints, they always ultimately accomplish and then can be complimented) I create a setting where their attitude and mine both change for the good. Show me a story of some white man who found a sincere and meaningful way to help a black youth and I'll show you an improvement in my attitude. If the news never reported anything but positive experiences between racial groups you would see a far greater change in attitudes, laws, and actions than will ever come from protests up and down the street demanding change. That's because we are all of the same human race.
Lincoln WhiteMarch 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful message. I would really like more information about the 56 different angels in 86 visits. Do you have more resources available that I could study?
JacquelineMarch 10, 2021
Jolanta, your words were deeply moving and I’m in awe of your strength and courage. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us; I think you are incredible and am certain Heavenly Father likewise stands in awe and tenderly watches over you and Thomas.
KatieMarch 10, 2021
Jolanta, Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story. I hope we can all follow your example and internalize your 3x5 card truths.
Nicole SheppardMarch 10, 2021
Jolanta, thank you for sharing your remarkable story— how courageous!! So inspiring to learn about all you have overcame, how you have adapted, and how you continue to grow!! Can’t wait to see how you continue to bless the world!
LexaGraemeMarch 10, 2021
Bravo, Barbara!
SKMarch 10, 2021
I am so saddened that the Hill Cumorah Pageant is gone forever. My family had plans to attend in 2020, flight booked, and ready to book hotels in the area, when it was cancelled. My family participated in the 2000 pageant, and it would have been our 20th anniversary. We live all across the U.S. now, and it would have been a family reunion for us. We were planning to attend in 2021 as consolation. I don't know why this pageant is forever cancelled because it brought in up to 10,000 people every night, all prospective investigators, and gave attendees the chance to visit the Sacred Grove, Smith homestead, and Palmyra. When I lived in Pennsylvania, we attended every year from 1982, when we joined the church. I know it's probably the cost. I am just so devastated that the pageant is nevermore.
Been there and Living itMarch 10, 2021
I just now saw this today. I am sooo sorry for your pain and I can honestly say I have felt exactly the same way. I was considering writing, but then saw your letter. I have been (re)married for 6 years. There is a lot I can't fully explain here, however I have often felt (and expressed) that I am on a shelf and just get taken down when he wants something. He spends all day on the internet (interspersed with working) and continues on the computer until 2,3 4,sometimes 5 am only sleeping 2-4 hours. He often chats with people online and posts a lot of commentary on our neighborhood site. Has even messaged women his phone number so he can "counsel" them about their "spirituality" or something else related to something he has posted or come about in online conversation. I am definitely not a top priority. I'm not even in the top 5. I often get yelled at over insignificant things. It is draining trying to avoid and navigate the hostility. He often acts like nothing happened minutes later. I am not an argumentative person and don't like who I am becoming in this marriage. I try not to engage, but when I do, in defense of myself, I don't feel any better. I usually feel worse. He has had a history of very poor boundaries with women and when I try to talk about how I feel about certain situations he created, he will yell at me and tell me that he can talk to whomever he wants and he doesn't care how I feel about it. He also says he won't live his life in fear worrying about how something looks or what "may" happen. He tells me I am not rational. It leaves me feeling very insignificant and used. I left a previously abusive relationship quickly, after 4 months although it took almost 2 years to stop him from contacting me at all. I guess this one has been harder for me because I am older now, almost 60 and not sure how I will make it financially among other silly things, like, I'm really embarrassed about it and don't really want to let my family in on the drama. He knows he has mental health issues but will only state he has anxiety & depression caused by ADHD. He is not proactive in getting medical help. He has a family history of Bipolar disorder and denies he has it. It is very frustrating, but for many reasons I have not been able to leave, although deep down I really want to. I do a lot of avoiding conversation just trying to keep the peace. I'm in survival mode.
MikeMarch 10, 2021
The text of President Kimball's talk can be found here: https://rsc.byu.edu/ministry-peter-chief-apostle/appendix-peter-my-brother
SGHMarch 10, 2021
https://troygparker.wordpress.com/2011/07/29/peters-denial-prediction-or-command/
There is another theory to the “why” of Peter’s denial. In order to protect the Chief Apostle, Christ himself commanded Peter to deny knowing Him. When we read the account in Matthew, what we perceive as a prophecy could, in fact, be a command.
CatherineMarch 10, 2021
I never believed he denied in the way he was always betrayed. And later years ago is saw in old institute Manuel in the appendix was article that Spencer w Kimball. . expressed a different perspective . that I agreed with . lets look at different perspective. We need to look from the beginning. Not be going in detail. There is too much To point out
Here is a few . Peter was going to be the Prophet. He risked his life cutting the soldiers ear. They could of right than and there be killed . we need reread the whole conversation at the Passover. And how does the commanments start Thou shalt.? just another way to see the whole picture. . I appreciate your thought.
I personally believe he was told to deny.him. and the type of man Peter is ...is a disservice to his testimony .
Lisa ReisingMarch 10, 2021
This is awesome! Thanks for giving me something to smile about and agree with wholeheartedly. Simple analysis usually hits home in ways we can't deny.
christineMarch 10, 2021
This is wonderful! Our ward has been encouraging our ward members to make a monthly home temple day a priority by dedicating the time we normally spend in the temple to learning about temples, participating in family search research and indexing, and turning our hearts to our ancestors. We encourage them to dress in Sunday clothes, pray as they begin and invite the spirit of Elijah into their homes and lives in an intentional way. There are so many beautiful promises for those who will participate in gathering Israel.
Tom BaxterMarch 10, 2021
i once had a conversation with an emeritus General Authority who emphatically declared "God's truth, justice and laws will never be man's truth, justice and laws". President Nelson in his September 2019 devotional at BYU reiterated the same point. "Some things are simply true. The arbiter of truth is God—not your favorite social media news feed, not Google, and certainly not those who are disaffected from the Church". Living in these times, my sense is that many of our parents - member and nonmembers alike - are derelict in their efforts to teach their children what God's truth, laws and justice really are. The pushback that President Nelson received is evidence of that. President Nelson went on to remind us that "God loves every one of us with perfect love and there is a strong connection between God’s love and His laws." That being said the recommendations of a diversity committee must be founded enough in the Gospel that these correct principles prevail in whatever recommendations they make for change. Can we do better? Yes, but we must never forget our unique mission statement as an institution, "To assist individuals in their quest for perfection and eternal life.That assistance should provide a period of intensive learning in a stimulating setting where a commitment to excellence is expected and the full realization of human potential is pursued." In the end we are all 100% responsible to make choices and use our agency in ways consistent with that mission. Personal morality comes from within, not to be dictated from without.
Rochelle HaleMarch 10, 2021
My husband and I were serving as ordinance workers when Covid began. As the pandemic progressed, my most cherished time was spent working on family history or studying and preparing for my Come, Follow Me lessons. Although I organized cupboards and found other much-needed projects during lockdown, nothing was more rewarding than seeking spiritual things daily. A certain website has recently come out with a feature that gives movement to old portraits. Many find this creepy, but I found a deeper connection to those who I know are “still living.”
Kay RookhuyzenMarch 10, 2021
I love your real life stories and have used them for years to help students learn English. I started tutoring on my couple mission to Tokyo and found their realism easy for students to understand and learn from. I continue to send your articles to former students still! Keep up the great stories.
Susan GillmoreMarch 10, 2021
I believe it was President Spencer W. Kimball who proposed that Peter denied knowing Jesus because Jesus asked him to. Peter was to become the head of the Church. It was important that Peter not be arrested and killed with the Savior. Having to deny knowing Jesus went against Peter's character and testimony. Perhaps this is why he wept so bitterly when he had fulfilled this commandment given him by Jesus.
Dave MyersMarch 10, 2021
Nice article Stephen, thanks. As to your political concerns, I think the key is when you say "giving up individual rights and letting someone else pack our lunch." You don't have to give up your rights and let someone else pack your lunch. You don't have to take those drugs or checks, but it seems rather harsh to deprive others of the help they need just because you don't need it. For example, we have decided as a society that it's worth providing 'free' education to everyone up through high school, but there are some who choose to send their kids to a private school and pay the tuition themselves. Good for them. But many of us can't make that choice and so for the good of society, free education is available for the rest of us. And we pack our lunch.
kim mossMarch 10, 2021
I personally like to think of that night as President Kimball did as he proclaimed while giving an address at BYU. I believe the address was titled "My brother Peter" or "Peter my brother?"
"He said that Peter was no coward. This is the bold man that was a scrapper and ready to fight and protect the Savior at any moment regardless of the consequences.
Peter was the one that would take over the Church following the Saviors crucifixion. He needed to be there to take over and if he admitted to being with the savior he would have suffered the same fate. Therefore Christ gave Peter a commandment, "Thou shalt" deny me thrice!. In other words, "Peter you had better deny even knowing me or you will be killed as well and all will be lost." He then obeyed the command and battling against every fighting instinct he had, he obeyed his orders.
Cynthia CarlsonMarch 10, 2021
Incredibly eye-opening! Inspired! Thank you for sharing this amazing story of the power of Christ-like love.
Howard CollettMarch 10, 2021
More than 20 years ago I had lunch with Stephen Gibson. I was at a crossroads. I had several middling talents and was trying to discover what I should do for the rest of my life. Steve helped me discover my passion--in essence changing what I had for lunch. Thank you, Steve!
Mark BishopMarch 10, 2021
One of the problems with establishing an office of diversity and appointing someone over diversity is that it puts the problem into a corner and absolves responsibility in general. Treating everyone of every ethnicity or race in a Christ-like manner is everyone's responsibility and can't or shouldn't be given to any one person.
That being said, the discomfort that people of color feel on Church campuses is likely based on the fact that whites are the predominant race there. I have extensive experience with Church education and I have never witnessed intentional discrimination or unkindness towards anyone. However, I think it might get difficult to live in a place that is somewhat foreign to one's self. And there will always be a few people with strong (and wrong) opinions who are unkind to others. That said, these things will happen anywhere and cannot be erased by an "office of diversity". The Gospel of Jesus Christ is the only way to address these things.
Mark BishopMarch 10, 2021
I sure hope the Church provides mission presidents with very good life insurance. It would be very bad in many ways if his wife were to be left without needed resources because of him dying during their service.
BryanMarch 10, 2021
I had never thought of the parallel between the three denials and the three affirmations, but you led up to it beautifully and I was there with you right before you said it.
Gary LawrenceMarch 9, 2021
To Steve L: Thanks for your interest. Hope to address the questions you ask, plus similar ones, in future articles. I feel a lot is about to happen.
Maryann TaylorMarch 9, 2021
I have learned through experience many times, and especially as a seminary teacher, that less is more when teaching the gospel. Keep it simple. The gospel is not complicated. When you focus on too many principles, the core truths of the gospel can be watered down. People also have their attention scattered and cannot retain what you teach. Always, always, make Christ the center of your teaching. If you are not teaching Jesus Christ in every lesson, you are not teaching the gospel.
Maryann TaylorMarch 9, 2021
Great advice! Taking this conversation OUT of the bedroom and conversing in a different setting is key here. Taking a walk or sitting on a bench in a beautiful setting would be very helpful. Nature is a calming influence and helps restore perspective.
Julie Ann TreadwellMarch 9, 2021
So grateful there are people and families in the world who are making a difference to these kids. Just so incredible and pure. And so grateful for the inspiration you received and acted upon to turn this around for Jolanta! Huzzah!!! May God continue to bless you all!!!
Steve LMarch 9, 2021
I really like this article and feel we would do well to remember it in our trying to understand our voting responsibilities. I would also be curious as to how you, personally, or others think how our just past and current presidents are affecting such policy? (Especially in relation to Problem 1) Where do we seem to be headed, what we do about it? Thanks
JaredMarch 9, 2021
What an amazing, wonderful story! I appreciate your willingness to share it, realizing that others will be blessed by it. I hope you write the book! I'm looking forward to seeing what these wonderful kids accomplish!
Kathryn AmesMarch 9, 2021
Have seen and sung in choir in local presentations. LOVE listening! Have tickets for the 16th in Lehi UT
LexaGraemeMarch 9, 2021
Heartbreaking, and the joyous. Thank you for being willing to share your vulnerabilities with us. May I remember the ways people can be wounded, and do what I can to heal.
Sheila LiddleMarch 9, 2021
I loved the Lamb Of God. I've seen it performed 3 times. I bought the cd. I hope the movie will be in my area.
Kathy ThatcherMarch 9, 2021
Such a sweet story of love and constancy. Love to Jolanta and to the family who saw her as who she was and loved her so dearly. It is a reminder to us all to love and lift and be careful to to crush those around us. Much love to you for not giving up and fir turning to the ultimate source of love and understanding fir direction.
LexaGraemeMarch 9, 2021
Thank you for this article. The documentary, overall, was well done, but there were some dangling threads that should have been resolved. This article helps with that resolution.
Harold RustMarch 9, 2021
Thank you, thank you....for some power and yet simple examples of how to speak to someone's heart and soul rather than to what we assume is their need.
Ruth JamiesonMarch 9, 2021
I cannot wait to see this film! It looks and sounds so beautiful!! So so so grateful for this kind of entertainment. There's a bunch of family friends seeing it opening night in Layton Utah. Thank you thank you for Sharing your gifts and talents in strengthening us in our testimony of Jesus Christ and for sharing your testimony of the Savior as well.
.CHARLES DEFRANCHIMarch 9, 2021
I never read such a sobering story, a least in Meridian Magazine, a Helen Kellerlike story that SHOULD be made the object of a book, because he could tive hope to so many people and change so many lives. Please write the book! And thank you for your incredible example of faith, love and perseverance in the face of adversity. This made me realize that even people in reasonably good physical and mental shape such as me, born from "goodly parents", do have wounds to hear from, but so do also so many around me that I should not judge negatively.
Janet Lee WiseMarch 8, 2021
Joseph stated that future events would prove him right (about the truth of the Book of Mormon). These correlations are wonderful to hear of, but not as powerful as the testimony of the Holy Ghost. May we have faith to withstand the slew of mocking and criticism we will continually face until Christ Himself will come and set the record straight.
Carol KendallMarch 8, 2021
I discovered yesterday (5/7) while preparing for Sunday School that D&C 20 follows the classic Covenant outline!
Not having found ANY mention of that anywhere, I've written it up on a blog post: https://carolscommentary.wordpress.com/2021/03/08/mans-relationship-with-god-is-built-on-covenants/
Sharon SMarch 8, 2021
Isn't this long overdue? How many children's mental and emotional health issues could have been helped or avoided altogether if we had lawmakers with more backbone willing to defend what we know is a growing addiction in our young and older population as well. Such a shame we have let it go on for so long! You say, "Well, everyone has a choice!" How many men and women, let alone children who can avoid this temptation when it's right in their hand. Shame on us as a state and as a nation! So sad
Scot ProctorMarch 8, 2021
All of the Book of Mormon episodes are listed here: https://latterdaysaintmag.com/bom-podcast. Most if not all of the links include transcripts.
Harold RustMarch 8, 2021
This article is a "must read" for anyone who plans to watch or who has already watched the NetFlix documentary. I agree with the author because I had the same feelings when I watched the movie: first, I knew the Church was fully transparent in every one of these transactions and so why would the movie "hint" otherwise? ; Second, why would the producers allow to go without context that statement by an investigator that the Church made it hard for them? The Church being careful about opening their files is far different from an organization that closes all doors that could embarrass them.
Pauline IsaksenMarch 8, 2021
One of the best rebuttals of the lies surrounding the Church's involvement with Hofmann is the talk by Elder Dallin H. Oaks given at Brigham Young University, 6 August 1987, entitled, "Recent Events Involving Church History and Forged Documents".
prbMarch 8, 2021
What a sad day…becoming so easily offended by a drawing in a children’s book that we think we should change it or correct it or cancel it. Do our “brethren” promote censorship? Dr. Seuss stories, rhymes and illustrations are treasures of creativity. For me, they contain great messages and are not offensive. When I was a teenager, an artist drew my caricature at my request. It’s a prized possession that I can smile at.
Sarah HinzeMarch 8, 2021
Thank you for your comments and stories you have shared. I would love to hear your stories in detail. I do not publish them unless I have permission from the contributors. Our film Remembering Heaven is doing very well. We hope to bring it to you soon in theaters and DVD's. Friend me on Facebook at Sarah Hinze or Tom Laughlin (the filmmaker) or www.sarahhinze.com for more info. where it is showing. Michael Jones email me please at [email protected]
Nancy WillisMarch 8, 2021
Thank you for your beautiful commentary and stories regarding Emma Smith! She has been greatly misunderstood over the years. Your podcast will help many to see her more clearly. She is an amazing woman who endured much. I look forward to meeting her one day!
Michael BrashearMarch 8, 2021
Thank you for posting this story. I remember these events but had no idea how prolific a fraud he was, nor was I aware of his fraud against other entities, including the United States. All that genius wasted.
rcook52March 8, 2021
I wonder what the distinction is between physically killing the Prophet Joseph Smith and killing through forgery the Message of the Prophet Joseph Smith. I also wonder whether Mark Hoffman was actually trying to damage the Church or simply trying to make himself famous and rich?
Either way the result of his choices has had the effect of damaging Joseph's claims in the eyes of some people. Even Alma laments: Yea, and I had [murdered] many of his children, or rather led them away unto destruction . . .
Mark Hoffman also [murdered] many. How complicit is the new media and Producers of this movie that only wants to perpetuate the fantastic claims of the original albeit forged documents?
Ron KjarMarch 8, 2021
What a great summary! I still see that great lie—that the Church is somehow hiding something—having a huge impact in the world, and among my own family today. Once a lie has been perpetuated, it takes on a life of its own and is difficult, if not impossible, to callback.
NancyMarch 8, 2021
As a rebellious post-teenager, I left home thinking the world had to be better than my parent's religious views. However, my mother visited me with a Book of Mormon and instructions to read and pray it! With a terrible attitude, I did. Later, on my knees, I asked the Lord to tell me the book was NOT true. His shocking answer, "It's true!" I continued, "It can't be! Tell me it's NOT true" ... three times the spirit whispered, "It's true!!" ...and I added, "What do you want me to do about it?" The reply, "Go back to church!" Though reluctant, I did as directed -- and that has made all the difference in my devoted life.
MistyMarch 8, 2021
This is wonderful news! I hope other states, if not all, will follow this heroic action in defending children.
Becky WilliamsMarch 8, 2021
And I descended from Zeus! But there must be something to some of these legends
MjMarch 8, 2021
Is there a way to help this Elder’s family?
Sherry McMullinMarch 7, 2021
Every week brings a blessing from you. How can I get text from last
year's Book of Mormon podcasts? I hunt in vain, and need several.
Thanks
AnonymousMarch 7, 2021
I believe some of the advice given here was good and some missed the mark. I asked my husband how he knew to be a generous lover and he said that he gets pleasure from my pleasure. He said it’s important to not be selfish in intimacy. He also stated that he has worked on being considerate and open to asking me what I like. “That will increase competence and confidence.”
I will only add that he is conditioning his wife on what to expect each time he touches her and it is imperative that he takes the time, and effort to make it a wonderful experience for her. Then she will have a hard time turning it down because why would she. They should see a sex therapist. Or at least read books about it together.
Steve BrownMarch 7, 2021
So disheartening! Without any knowledge of Dr. Seuss, his history or intentions, I can only say, that his innovative way of teaching tolerance and affection has charmed and influenced my family for good and I am certain that will continue to be passed on to their future generations. Perfectly suited for entertaining young children and keeping their attention while introducing them to a world of differences, his fanciful stories demonstrate how alike we all are below the surface.
Bonnie lu ZoBellMarch 7, 2021
Interesting about yams or sweet potatoes. I really do need to know which someone is serving because I am allergic to sweet potatoes --causes hives--while yams do not. Great article on listening and not having to be right--especially to keep peace and that is more important in the eternal perspective.
MickeyMarch 7, 2021
This sounds like abuse.
Joel WhiteMarch 7, 2021
As one who is seriously doubtful about the integrity of the election system these days, all I want is the truth. No court has looked at lots of evidence, that perhaps could be disproven to support election fraud. But the unwillingness to explore that, gives me an increased level of distrust. Let's seek truth, and not shut down that quest!
Tammy LindstromMarch 7, 2021
Loved this, Breck. I find more and more, that it is hard for people to see the need for organized church, and it’s hard for people to see the need to minister to others. But we are so empty without both. We can become inspired at church and as we minister we put what we learn into action.
Chelsea SpilsburyMarch 7, 2021
Beautiful! Sarah, you are a part of God's work that is so important I can feel it in my bones. Babies are one of his most precious gifts. Thanks for all you are doing to protect them! You and Brent are reminding the world of our spiritual heritage. It brings me great comfort to know we can align our hearts with our Father in Heaven through the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. I have felt the presence of heavenly messengers and leaned upon the gifts of the spirit throughout my life. I love the knowledge that we each have unique assignments and missions to fulfill that help guide each other safely home. I am so very touched by your words tonight. Love your family so much. Biggest hugs to you guys.
Kristen OpenshawMarch 6, 2021
I find it disturbing that comments here are attacking Donald Trump's character and calling names. It does nothing to promote or validate the main point of the article, which everyone should be able to agree with.
Andrew J. CurrieMarch 6, 2021
Like every other Trump hating commenter that I read, there's the unsupported claim he is a liar, but no fact or example is given. And these opinionated political lightweights act as if any politicians they support is not also a liar. Heaven help us! It would be nice to hear an intelligently supported opinion rather than merely the venom of a angry, emotional person. Your dislike of the man does not make him a liar, but your comments are an insight into your souls.
Geoff-AusMarch 6, 2021
Jim, Has it occured to you that removing discrimination so that one group has the same rights as others, is very different from giving them rights no one else has.
It was illegal to be gay in Utah before 2003. Do they now have priveledges you dont?
Ron BarnesMarch 5, 2021
According to Family Search, my wife is descended from King Arthur, a man who's existence cannot even be proven.
JanieMarch 5, 2021
After reading this wonderful book, I feel I understand covenants, their meaning, and importance, in a way that I have not understood before, and that makes beautiful sense. As President Nelson has asked us to study the blessings promised to covenant Israel, this is the perfect book for that study. I can't recommend it highly enough!
A. BinghamMarch 5, 2021
Thank you for posting this. The amount of dis-information being passed as fact or truth is stunning and at a premiere university even more tragic..the lives that were destroyed because of one person's dishonesty is also a tragedy. That this dis-information hasn't been detracted from the media is also tragic. I find it very disheartening that some readers are choosing to use this post as a way to personally attack Meridian magazine creators. A cheap attack. Appreciate the magazine and the thoughtful news postings.
dave hicksMarch 5, 2021
After forty plus years with the same women and by talking with other couples I've concluded that intimacy between husband and wife is somebody's idea of a bad joke. Cheers
Kristen KMarch 5, 2021
Is that 7pm Eastern Time? Mountain Time? I don' t want to miss this!!
Wayne B CrawleyMarch 5, 2021
Wow I am really surprised by the 2 comments. A person does not have to think very hard to understand how the election stolen. House of Representatives passed HR 1 so that the whole country will have the same voting laws as California. HR1 is unconstitutional and a clear grabe for Power. And Georgia made new voting laws to fix the problem it had. The problem with so called liberals is they rather us name calling such as comparing Donald Trump to the devil "the father of lies" it all about feelings then logic
LindaMarch 4, 2021
"revising what they thought they knew" is one of my favorite lines in your article! Which was such a good reminder to continue on the path of trying to be humble and teachable.
Thanks for the boost.
George CarmenMarch 4, 2021
Wow, I find it so interesting that you spew hate upon someone you likely have not or will not ever meet. It is interesting how many people allow the person that has no influence in their lives to take them over because of their own focus on him or whoever. To let anyone control you is sad.
CBDBMarch 4, 2021
Thank you Bother and Sister Givens for all of your books, articles, and intelligent, insightful, reverent and joyful teachings. We share your love for the Restoration and for our dear gentle Jesus, and The New and Everlasting Covenant — we just don’t know how to articulate it all as well as you— so we appreciate your words. ( you seem to have found a way out of the ‘prison’ of words!)
Arlene C WelkerMarch 4, 2021
I saw a sign on a billboard once that said, "Never miss the chance to shut up."
Works great!
Ovala F ToiaivaoMarch 4, 2021
I have thoroughly enjoyed your podcasts and look forward to it every week. Thank you so much for taking the time to prepare and share these with us. I too would love to have a copy of your 43 Faith Scriptures to memorize if it's still available.
David DurfeeMarch 4, 2021
The Givens are among my favorite LDS authors. And their new book -- like this article -- is wonderful, well thought out, and full of hope.
JimMarch 4, 2021
Our national debt is now $28 trillion. 28 trillion seconds is 887,266 years. It would take light traveling at 186,000 miles per second approximately 4.8 YEARS to travel 28 trillion miles. This is longer than it would take light to reach Earth's nearest star, Proxima Centauri, which is 4.2 light years away.
Gramma CrowfootMarch 4, 2021
Oh please. Everyone makes mistakes and isn’t it nice when someone cares enough about our memory/legacy to help correct it? In this case, Dr. Suess can’t so his organization has acted proactively (just as the church has stopped publishing things from ‘a time before’ because they ‘were not aware’ or had been ‘insensitive toward’ or had ‘misinterpreted’ something previously. The loss of these books does nothing to undercut the gifts of Dr. Suess and will most likely open up a wider market of readers (whereas before MANY had GOOD reason to question his intentions based on these titles alone). I don’t understand what is so hard/offensive for mainstream to change some of the cultural landscape that perpetuates division, especially when better/safer/kinder/more appropriate & sensitive options & gestures are possible. Nostalgia is no reason to perpetuate hurt/pain/offence. To quote the brethren, “when we know better we must DO better.”
Robert D StarlingMarch 4, 2021
Thanks Joni, for reminding us all that "Nobody like a smart alec" (or is it "smart alek"?)
- Dilbert
John PearceMarch 4, 2021
While this is an interesting story I think that there is a more relevant story involving lying and that is "The Big Lie" of former President Donald Trump.
His lying has damage the Republican party, the confidence of voters in US elections and the international standing of the US as an example of democracy. This is a lie that has been rejected by over sixty courts and every state official but many Republican politicians are still promoting this untruth. For me the saddest concequence is that many millions of people still believe that the 2020 election was stolen including many of my church member friends.
SRMarch 4, 2021
I feel completely blessed that my child who is a graduating high school senior this year. Has changed their mind about attending BYU and is now choosing a different school. Equity and social justice are part of liberation theology and Marxism. They have no place in the gospel of Jesus Christ nor in an education from a private church school paid for by our collective tithing. BYU has been were we wanted all of our children to attend. We wanted them to have the best education taught with the power and majesty of God’s holy gospel. Were they could see the importance of all things through the lense of the plan of salvation and where the Holy Ghost is sought after to be in each class so that truths of the lessons could be testified of. Sadly each day we are learning that this is no longer the type of education being obtained at BYU. We are a bi-racial family and find this study disheartening, disturbing and wrong. We are all children of God. None of us were able to choose our sex , nor our race. No one is better than anyone else or more deserving. We are all less than the dust of this earth. Yet Christ came to this earth and lived for us all and then suffered all things for all of us so that we could return to him and our Heavenly Father.
What are we doing to each other. We are being created and morphed into each other’s enemies. For what ? For the color of our skin, for the places where we were born. We had no part of that and can own none of it. For the way we think. We have been taught this past year to look at others as viruses as someone with a diseased body whose very breath is wrong and that they may kill you if you get to close. We are being taught that if you are white you were born evil and racist and there is literally nothing you can do about it.
We are being taught that to be a woman is meaningless because gender is meaningless. And if you want to be a woman all you need to do is believe that you are one.
And the world is desperately trying to teach that if you are a person of color (whatever that means because we are all made up of multiple colors )That you are victim. My children are not victims. They were fearfully and wonderfully made by God Almighty. As were each of us. Let us stand for no more of this nonsense and return to God. Please this is all becoming almost to much to bear. And studies like this are doing more harm than good.
Jared ChristensenMarch 4, 2021
Very good article and information! Thank you for sharing this I have always felt it was a dangerous addiction that anyone can get hooked on. I have intentionally chosen not to play video games because I have seen how addictive it can become.
BobMarch 4, 2021
No place says "one third". It says "a third part".
LexaGraemeMarch 4, 2021
Bravo to them all for making the best of an unfortunate situation, and finding the humor in it, too!
Bradd C HayesMarch 4, 2021
While I agree facts (and truth) matter in the news, I find it astonishing that Meridian Magazine, which openly supported Trump, the father of lies, has the audacity to demonstrate moral outrage on this subject.
RaNae ShoafMarch 4, 2021
I love this! So true and so right. Sometimes I talk myself into staying silent (for instance when my husband is telling a story and getting the details wrong, at least to my memory, which of course is "right" haha), is to realize that if I wasn't there at that moment, the story would stand as told, and no one would be hurt by it.
JoanMarch 3, 2021
I was married for 15 years in a destructive relationship. I determined to stay in the marriage until my children reached age 18, wanting to give them a stable family and at least the illusion of a happy family. I stuffed my unhappiness, I thought successfully until my 11-year-old told me that it was time to get a divorce. Later he was angry with me because, he said, I had waited too long to leave and if I had divorced his father sooner, he could have believed that his father was a good man but now he knew how bad he was. Both of my sons have suffered more than the divorce with the concept of what it takes to be a real man, a good man. They’ve tried out being the abused and the abuser, believing that sons should learn to be men from their fathers. They still struggle decades later in determining their role. I meant to help my children by staying in an emotionally destructive relationship, and staying was the worst decision I could have made, not only for me but for my children. How many times do women stay for the children and cause more pain and confusion than they could imagine. Children hear and see and know much more than we think.
Been thereMarch 3, 2021
Could he be on the autism spectrum?
KenMarch 3, 2021
The goal for a court hearing to to determine if law was broken, not to celebrate diversity.
AmyMarch 3, 2021
How is this article related to the LDS church?
ayseMarch 3, 2021
This is such a inspiring exercise! Thank you for sharing how to start.
Diane JarmanMarch 3, 2021
Thank you for approaching this subject and for the link to find help for video game addicts. Very informative article.
Mom of manyMarch 3, 2021
I feel completely blessed that my child who is a graduating high school senior this year. Has changed their mind about attending BYU and is now choosing a different school. Equity and social justice are part of liberation theology and Marxism. They have no place in the gospel of Jesus Christ nor in an education from a private church school paid for by our collective tithing. BYU has been were we wanted all of our children to attend. We wanted them to have the best education taught with the power and majesty of God’s holy gospel. Were they could see the importance of all things through the lense of the plan of salvation and where the Holy Ghost is sought after to be in each class so that truths of the lessons could be testified of. Sadly each day we are learning that this is no longer the type of education being obtained at BYU. We are a bi-racial family and find this study disheartening, disturbing and wrong. We are all children of God. None of us were able to choose our sex , nor our race. No one is better than anyone else or more deserving. We are all less than the dust of this earth. Yet Christ came to this earth and lived for us all and then suffered all things for all of us so that we could return to him and our Heavenly Father. What are we doing to each other. We are slowly turning each of us into enemies. For what ? For the color of our skin, for the places where we were born. We had no part of that and can own none of it. We have been taught this past year to look at others as viruses as someone with a diseased body whose very breath is wrong and that they may kill you if you get to close. We are being taught that if you are white you were born evil and racist and there is literally nothing you can do about it.
We are being taught that to be a woman is meaningless because gender is meaningless. And if you want to be a woman all you need to do is believe that you are one.
And the world is desperately trying to teach that if you are a person of color (whatever that means because we are all made up of multiple colors )That you are victim. My children are not victims. They were fearfully and wonderfully made by God Almighty. As were each of us. Let us stand for no more of this nonsense and return to God. Please this is all becoming almost to much to bear. And studies like this are doing more harm than good.
Kate B.March 3, 2021
YES!
Maryann TaylorMarch 3, 2021
This is almost as troubling as the addiction of so many adults to their smart phones. Instead of communicating in restaurants, so many couples are glued to cell phones, completely oblivious to their companions. Perhaps we need to consider curbing our own addictions as we seek to help our young people do so.
CynthihahMarch 3, 2021
We the people of the United States need to stop blaming everything on our government and step up and take responsibility for our own freedom.
May I propose the way to do this is to "clean up our own back yards."
When was the last time you read the United States Constitution, and do you know what it actually says and means?
Freedom is only as free as we make it. We the people make America great!
Jane HalesMarch 3, 2021
Glad to hear Scot sounding like himself!!
Juliann BradshawMarch 3, 2021
Geoff, I usually enjoy your counsel but this time it was vague and unhelpful. “Man [woman] is that ‘she’ might have joy”. This dear sister has been miserable from her wedding day. I can’t imagine that the children are faring any better. Since the husband is obviously taking care of himself, he will continue to do so quite nicely. This female slave needs to break free. She is obviously capable, and the dark cloud she currently lives under could dissolve into sunshine. This relationship will not be sealed in heaven. Dear sister, recognize your mistake, accept responsibility, stop being a martyr and move on.
JoanMarch 3, 2021
I was married for 15 years in a destructive relationship. I determined to stay in the marriage until my children reached age 18, wanting to give them a stable family and at least the illusion of a happy family. I stuffed my unhappiness, I thought successfully until my 11-year-old told me that it was time to get a divorce. Later he was angry with me because, he said, I had waited too long to leave and if I had divorced his father sooner, he could have believed that his father was a good man but now he knew how bad he was. Both of my sons have suffered more than the divorce with the concept of what it takes to be a real man, a good man. They’ve tried out being the abused and the abuser, believing that sons should learn to be men from their fathers. They still struggle decades later in determining their role. I meant to help my children by staying in an emotionally destructive relationship, and staying was the worst decision I could have made, not only for me but for my children. How many times do women stay for the children and cause more pain and confusion than they could imagine. Children hear and see and know much more than we think.
RebeccaMarch 3, 2021
Hate it when I get sick & start talking with the deep tones of a man (it's disconcerting for a woman )
Karell BinghamMarch 3, 2021
Cancel Dr. Seuss? Tip over the statue of George Washington? Part of the nation is losing its historical bindings! Enough is enough!
Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss, oh, by the way we are cancelling 6 of your books. Brother!
CASMarch 3, 2021
One blessing for us during this pandemic has been not shopping so much in person. Often times, trips to a store will include items that we did not intend to purchase. Online shopping has also been curtailed. As a result, we find ourselves with more cash on hand for emergencies. An unexpected brake replacement on our vehicle last week was easily met because we had the money in our bank account instead of adding it on our credit card.
Also, we have a rule to only charge on our ONE credit card with the commitment that we can pay the balance off in full every month! This saves a LOT of money in finance charges! We have learned this by the "school of hard knocks!"
Chip WhitmerMarch 3, 2021
The idea that "I will be your God, and ye shall be my people" is indeed the core of the Covenant, repeated frequently in Scripture, including twice at the end of John's Revelation.
In this passage, the promise is first expressed in general language: "Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God." (Rev 21:3)
Then it is reiterated in language that is very personal and individual: "He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son." (Rev 21:7) This is the culmination of the Covenant, for those who are faithful.
D OnnaMarch 3, 2021
A stellar article ! My Eternal Thanks for giving voice to this unfoldment of His Truth. I have come into the Church for 'such a time as this'.
AnonymousMarch 2, 2021
A commenter was rather negative about the expense of the beautiful displays created by the author. However, the trivia games and family activities take no money and modest amounts of time. Our family has been researching and writing histories for years and shari g them as Christmas presents. Trivia games sound like a wonderful addition.
Maryann TaylorMarch 2, 2021
The key words in this statement are "protection of people and institutions of faith." We do NOT support the so-called "rights" of gay or transgender people when it imperils religious freedom.
MHNMarch 2, 2021
Have you even considered how the non-member white kids feel? What is being done to help them with belonging?
Larry TippettsMarch 2, 2021
Thanks so much for focusing on the power of writing. I like to use my journal as a means of helping me develop Jesus' qualities of character. I pray for inspiration. As it comes I record it in my journal, along with specific plans for improvement. I reread my journals regularly and write about my growth (and my lapses). It's a powerful tool for recording personal revelation and then acting on it.
CamMarch 1, 2021
@Billy-Our gay brothers and sisters have been persecuted much longer than members of the church have. I hope you aren't saying that the LGBTQ community can't be an average American citizen or a believer in God. Someday the church will realize the damage ghey have done and things will change, if the church wants to maintain any sense of relevancy anymore.Can you even name how our church is being legally discriminated against?
Without a home . . .March 1, 2021
On one hand, this is sweet and delightful to watch.
On the other, it's hard and sad to watch, because people like me have no "home." My parents were immigrants and I've never been to their home towns, which were bombed into oblivion during WWII. My husband and I have had to move around so much for work and family needs that six states in this country have been "home" yet none of them feel like it. We wander, without roots, wishing we had places to take our children back to yet having no place, then also again realizing it was God who sent us wandering and has assured us, "Wherever you worship me shall be your home."
Jennifer MackleyMarch 1, 2021
@T Rawlinson. Yes, children were first sealed to parents in the Nauvoo Temple. Some were sealed to living parents and some by proxy to a deceased parent. Sealing of children to parents was then suspended until the St. George Temple was completed in 1877. However, the focus of adoption into priesthood lineage (rather than generational family sealings) continued until Wilford Woodruff received the revelation in 1894 to end the practice of adoption. (A timeline of temple ordinances is on pages 372-373 in Wilford Woodruff's Witness: The Development of Temple Doctrine. The law of adoption is explained in more detail in Chapter 16.)
TafiatMarch 1, 2021
Speaking of sealing cords, Bednar has said, "However, righteous parental influence (1) does not replace in the life of an individual the need for the redeeming and strengthening power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, (2) does not overrule the consequences of the unrighteous exercise of moral agency, and (3) does not negate the responsibility of an individual as an agent “to act … and not to be acted upon (2 Nephi 2:26)." March Ensign 2014
https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2014/03/faithful-parents-and-wayward-children-sustaining-hope-while-overcoming-misunderstanding?lang=eng
Lois TuckerMarch 1, 2021
Last week lesson was so amazing. The worth of a soul. My heart was touched, softened. I loved your story about the airport with Michael. I couldn’t stop crying, I was over come with the spirit. Thank you for that. I love your podcast.
Arty JMarch 1, 2021
"But I know, that once the kids are gone, if life continues this way, we will end up divorced anyways and I will have lived another 15 years unhappy." That line says it all. I think deep down, this woman already knows the husband wont change and that divorce is only a matter of time. She has spent 13 years pouring more and more effort in and getting nothing back. She has already very clearly discussed her unhappiness with the spouse, and they have even gone to counseling. He changed nothing, which tells her everything she needs to know. If you tell someone that their behavior is hurting you and needs to change, and they don't do anything about it, they don't respect you or value your relationship. And they definitely aren't a good person. PERIOD. It takes two people to make a marriage work. The woman says she wants to keep her marriage covenants, which is honorable. But she seems to be ignoring the fact that if she continues this course and makes it to the celestial kingdom, this guy definitely wont be there because he is incredibly selfish and not a good person. So she wont have an eternal marriage anyway, and will need to find someone else to make that happen. It takes both partners honoring their covenants and being good people to achieve a celestial marriage. Its time for this woman to leave and find a good man who will reciprocate her efforts, love, and appreciate her.
T RawlinsonMarch 1, 2021
It has been recently stated in a podcast that children not born in the covenant were not sealed to their parents until AFTER 1894. I would like to have additional information as my 2 grgrandparents went to SG temple (only temple available) from SL and were sealed. They had some of their younger children with them, but none of their 10 children were sealed to them in the late 1870's. One child was born after, which is BIC. This article states children were sealed before 1894. What exactly does it say in Wilford Woodruff's journal. Our ancestors are also those of an Apostle and the explanation was that children were not sealed (unless BIC) until 1894. This article appears to be contradicting our family explanation of events.
Jim ScottMarch 1, 2021
Giving any recognition to any other than being a citizen is to make that person, group or belief given super citizenship. Laws fashioned to favor one over another reduces the value of those not in the vale. The claim of being Irish, for example, or red headed, or left handed all could claim some especial consideration.
There are only political favors by elected officials to be re-elected rather than recognizing the ramifications of such legislation.
BillyMarch 1, 2021
Just another protected class to divide the country more. It appears every fringe group has a protection act. The average American citizens and Christians are the only groups that can be legally discriminated against.
Jennifer MackleyMarch 1, 2021
The colored images of Wilford Woodruff featured in this article are the creative work of Josh Christensen. The original images were made by Lucian R. Foster in Nauvoo, Illinois in 1844 and Charles W. Carter in Salt Lake City, Utah in the 1880s.
ChrisFebruary 27, 2021
I love this new book by the Givens, and love their other writings as well.
As I read some of these comments, they seem to indicate that all members of the church "get it"...and understand God's love and the Savior's Grace. But they don't.
Growing up in this church I was taught repeatedly to "work out my own salvation" and to put my shoulder to the wheel...that somehow the atonement would just make up the difference between how I finally ended up and "perfection". All of that helped to make a mess of my life...
I have learned that my Father, Mother, and Savior love me...and each of us...equally and more than we can possibly understand, and that their love can only be experienced, not explained.
I've learned that "salvation" doesn't happen in a vacuum, only in a family and community, and I can partner with Jesus every day...I never have to go it alone. I do not ever, and cannot, earn Their love. And I cannot do anything to make them love me less, nor can I run away from Their love (I tried).
I've learned guilt and shame don't work, and the Savior always "invites", and that the commandments are Their boundaries to keep me safe and to help me choose joy. Realky, there are only two commandments...love God and love people. If I can successfully live those two, everything falls into place, and it's easy to live inside the boundaries.
Living in fear of God, of some eternal punishment, or of disappointing God doesn't work, and it never has. God is love...literally.
If we are to have joy, even while "losing" our life helping others, we must quit trying to be "perfect"...and we wonder why so many young people are leaving the church.
As the Givens say, it is always our choice, and as we choose Jesus every day life is so much better!
And yes, we are wounded...programmed by parents, teachers, friends, church leaders, social media, and many others...and above all else, the Savior is our Healer.
Old GuyFebruary 27, 2021
The writer of this letter could probably learn from my friend. I have a good friend who is into 40+ years of a marriage to a woman who is exactly like the husband described in this letter. He is the loneliest man I know. Even when he had major surgery, his wife took care of his body, but there was no emotional support. No sympathy or compassion. He has held on and hoped all these years that she might come around, but in truth as his body gets older and he can't do as much for her as she requires, she is turning away from him even more. When I ask him if he ever wishes he'd got out of the relationship while the was still "time". All he says is that there won't be another major surgery because he could not do that again without emotional support and someone to care about him. He will die never knowing the unconditional love and charity that is supposed to happen in marriage.
KristenFebruary 27, 2021
I'm sorry - but this husband is *not* a "nice person", and that needs to be exposed. Look at the substance of his behaviors towards his wife, not the surface. "Wolf in sheep's clothing" as a simile comes to mind. Nice guys don't demand their wives do everything to please them (re: treat them like a servant), while they do nothing to please their wife.
Based upon his "substance" - I would urge this wife to learn about narcissistic spouses. There is a LDS narcissistic abuse survivors FB page she might find very enlightening, and support that only comes from those who've "been there" because we understand how these "nice" people - really aren't. (and just how vicious they can become to their immediate family members - while appearing such a "nice" person to outsiders.)
Maryann TaylorFebruary 26, 2021
This advice was so vague that I don't think it's very helpful. A few suggestions or ideas about HOW to "change patterns" that are destroying her happiness would have been more productive for this sister.
Penny LFebruary 26, 2021
Any ideas on how to stay cool when the weather is 110 degrees and no power? found the article to bring back lots of memories of living off a generator for 11 days following Hurricane Juan. Keeping food cold in the fridge and freezer was the hardest part, along with tolerating the noisy generator. It kept my nerves on edge.
Bruce YoungFebruary 26, 2021
"Heart of Africa 2: Companions" is now in theaters, starting Friday, February 26. You can see it at several Megaplex theaters in Utah: Geneva, Thanksgiving Point, Jordan Commons, The District, Legacy Crossing, and The Junction.
Corina bolivafFebruary 26, 2021
Scott y Marine, nos han hecho llorar a mi esposo y a mi con su hermosa y emocionante clase. Desde Chile, saludos.
Corina y Marco
Nicola MillsFebruary 26, 2021
Great answer!
JennFebruary 26, 2021
Leave him. He's a narcissist. He isn't concerned about you and probably never will be. Eternity isn't some distant future, it is now. If you can't imagine eternity with him then you should leave him.
K PonderFebruary 26, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful article. I too have come to understand the importance of seeking a higher level of spirituality through our spiritual eyes, We truly can see him everywhere.
Ben GiffordFebruary 26, 2021
Thank you
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 26, 2021
This article shows one aspect of the times we are living. However, a very important one is missing, i.e the preparation for marriage. It has been said that one of every two marriages end in divorce, but this is not true, when the preparation for marriage is in the family since the very beginning of life for those to be married. When this happened the divorce is seldom the result. Not only that, the lives of those children born of that "perfect" marriage are completely different than those coming either from divorced "fathers" "mothers" or "couples". In turn these children for sure will have a greater chance to have themselves happy marriages with happy children.So Families are the important aspect that must be stressed since the birth of all of us.
Charles HarperFebruary 25, 2021
Years ago our stake established a prison branch. I and a few others were privileged to be called to serve there. Those of us involved were greatly blessed by our service in this capacity. We enjoyed great spiritual experiences and I know that Heavenly Father loves all His children.
JulieFebruary 25, 2021
What a lovely and uplifting article. Thanks for making my day better by reminding me I can find God even when it's dark.
Helen CondonFebruary 25, 2021
My brief experiences with His touch can never be denied. The reminder of them Jerrod me going through the vicissitudes and doubts that come with life.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
Sometimes our trust in God can be inconsistent--we trust him when things are going fine, but when problems arise we question whether we can trust him. Trusting God does not mean our problems will all be solved, that he will protect us from every injury, or and he will remove all our pain. It helps us to trust God when we remember Lehi's promise to his son, Jacob. Jacob had "suffered afflictions and much sorrow, because of the rudeness of thy brethren. Nevertheless...thou knowest the greatness of God; and he shall consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain." (2 NE. 2:1-2) If we are striving to follow our Savior, God has the power to consecrate all that we experience for our good. This wonderful promised miracle to each of us is something that we can hold onto during hard times.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
I love this truth that we DO see the face of God. The Doctrine and Covenants speaks of the beautiful creations of God in the heavens--the planets, sun, moon and stars. "Behold, all these are kingdoms, and any man who hath seen any of the least of these hath seen God moving in his majesty and power. " (D&C 88:47). I do see God everywhere--in plants, animals, and especially in people. He reveals himself to us every day if we have eyes to see and ears to hear.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
What a beautiful experience and a reminder we can all be part of lovely relationships with those who need us. How essential it is to listen to the promptings of the Spirit!
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
Kenny's comments are excellent, especially this statement: "Do not confuse legal, lawful, and moral defense with personal animosity." I am tired of the simplistic approach that we just need to listen. No--I do not need to listen to people in the media nor in person who want to talk about promoting abortion, or supporting more and more blatant attempts to make laws limiting our freedoms. Areas of gray have, indeed, become starkly black and white. I am not going to listen to evil ideologies and smile sweetly, thereby compromising the very principles of the Lord.
DL AndersonFebruary 25, 2021
Thank you for this. I'm sure I'm not the only one who now understands just HOW much I've already "seen" our Heavenly Father's and Jesus' face.
Kay YFebruary 25, 2021
Lovely story. Thank you for sharing.
Kay yFebruary 25, 2021
Lovely story. Thank you for sgaring.
KarlSFebruary 25, 2021
While this article brings up some important points, let’s not lose sight of the more influential picture, stated by renowned family advocates Linda and Richard Eyre in the Deseret News 7/28/2015:
“The percentage of the U.S. population that is gay at between 2 and 4 percent. Meanwhile, among the 96 to 98 percent of heterosexuals, most seem to be devaluing or completely disregarding the value of marriage…less than half of cohabiting relationships last five or more years, and the divorce rates of women who cohabit are nearly 80 percent higher than for those who do not…
The largest threat to our society and to our economy is not the way people define marriage, but how enthusiastically and committedly they participate in it. Sadly, and particularly among the millennial generation, fewer and fewer get married while more and more choose the lower-commitment option of cohabitation.
And that huge threat it is being largely obscured and ignored because of the debate over same-sex marriage. …People vigorously fighting same-sex marriage but doing little or nothing to advocate or promote traditional marriage are like a defense with no offense. But whatever our personal position, each of us should ask the question of what we should be most concerned about — the emergence of same-sex marriage or the disappearance of traditional marriage.” http://deseretnews.com/article/865633013/What-defenders-of-traditional-marriage-may-be-forgetting.html
Ben JonesFebruary 25, 2021
As an adoptive father of 3, a natural father of 3, a widower, and a step-father of 3, I am personally aware of disruptions to the natural order of things caused by divorce and death not to mention disruptions caused by war, disease, and man's inhumanity to man. The ideal is certainly to be desired but the reality is that we all have challenges in life and I don't think there is anything to be gained by stigmatizing certain groups of people who are trying to do their best with the hands they were dealt in life. We can all strive to be the best children, parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, mentors, surrogates, etc. that we can be.
MICKIFebruary 25, 2021
Thank you for posting this wonderful story - gave me goosebumps! Sometimes we never know why we're drawn to someone - sometimes we get to find out why...and the miracles behind the why.
Margaret Hafen Archibald (another Knight descendant)February 25, 2021
That cane was donated to the Family History Library from members of the Knight family on May 29, 2009.
vickieFebruary 25, 2021
I LOVED this story. thank you for telling it or sharing it with me and many others.
Chuck SanfordFebruary 25, 2021
Back in the mid-1990s I was a home teacher for three men incarcerated in a federal prison. Within the narrow confines of imprisonment, I was able to do some good, because far and above anything I did, my Lord was involved, whether they believed that or not. Good people are needed to rescue these folks, and show them someone cares, to assist them in recognizing that God truly loves them.
JoanFebruary 24, 2021
This is an interesting situation. Although she is his sister, she is actually a stranger. However, she is a stranger that he is supposed to love because she is actually a family member. He would have a hard time processing what his reaction to her should be.
There would be excitement because of finding each other, but it would be as a man and woman getting to know each other as adults who were sharing thoughts and feelings. Maybe both would find this appealing and new after being married for a long time. It is more on a romantic level since they have no history of growing up together as brother and sister.
It is sad that they don't have the maturity to see it for what it is, and recognize that their first responsibility and loyalty should be towards the one that they have promised to love and cherish forever, and who has stood by them all these years.
Joan
Jo Ann OkelberryFebruary 24, 2021
This is an excellent article. I listen to a lot of podcasts while I sew, quilt, clean, etc. I have listened to several podcasts given by men and women who proclaim that our earth gets better and better as we do better with farming, organizing, building, etc. One of their prime concerns is that people are not having enough children to replace deaths. I have seven children, and I am grateful for everyone of them. They have served me, my deceased husband, and others and given much help and support.
JamesFebruary 24, 2021
The Freedom of Speech is just that...Free and Protected, and also freedom from the consequences of that speech, with a few exceptions.
The 'woke' community wants consequences, censorship and the complete and total loss of livelihoods as punishment for any (to them) disagreeable speech, and they are getting away with this nonsense by using non-government entities to do it! I really hope that the courts will see this and extend the unconstitutionality of censorship to any organization that allows speech, especially social media and allows for people to sue for a clear violation of their Civil Rights. I also hope that the bills, that are being proposed around the country, that puts being fired from a job for disagreeable speech, up there with all other forms of discrimination are passed and become enforceable law.
However, I really hope the Second Coming of the Savior will happen soon and that He can put a definitive stop to it for good.
Michael ChandlerFebruary 24, 2021
It is also important to note the great bet made by Erlich and the economist Julian Simon in the 80’s. Simon bet that certain commodities would decline in cost over the period of a year, while Erlich claimed they would rise in cost over the same period, because of increasing scarcity. Simon won the bet. His mantra, the most valuable commodity is the human spirit. Time continues to vindicate that belief.
Margaret CorkranFebruary 24, 2021
Thank you. We all need to be reminded how much we are loved.
Susan SpearFebruary 24, 2021
Thanks for this thoughtfully considered article that not only includes personal experience and historical context but also RELEVANT DATA that debunks popular dogma. I especially appreciate the chart that clearly illustrates famine mortality rate and world population. I am a nutrition professor and will use this chart in my next course (in two weeks) as we discuss hunger and food issues. Beautifully done and easily understood.
Another great resource that I'd like to recommend - and use in my course - to discusses the "real" cause of famine or insufficient food today (which is political unrest and the subsequent inequitable food distribution) is contained in the forward written by esteemed nutrition professor, Marion Nestle, in the beautiful photo book, Hungry Planet, by Peter Menzel. The picture documentary book about how the world eats is fascinating! Children and adults relate immediately - highly recommend.
TimFebruary 24, 2021
Not heard of the movie Heart of Africa before. Glad to say that I have tracked down a DVD copy
MHolmesFebruary 24, 2021
I hope and pray people start to wake up to the reality of this, which is that this is the long sought after result of careful planning and patience by those who desire to overthrow Christianity to replace it with communism. Deconstruction of the family is one of the central tenets of communism. Communism cannot exist while the people are bound together in family unity and love of God because the two "ideologies" are polar opposites. We need to recognize that communists have been effectively distracting us with the irrelevancy of party politics when in fact, we are facing a battle of freedom vs bondage, good vs evil, the right to exist and worship Almighty God as we see fit vs living under a tyrannical and oppressive government regime who sees it's people only as cogs in a giant machine. Yet many people seem to be content to plunge their heads into the sand and pretend that what's happening, isn't happening. When Prop 8 failed to pass and was later overturned by an activist "Supreme Court" under the O administration, the deconstruction of the traditional nuclear family as the central building block of society rapidly accelerated and it's only getting worse. This is just one of many of the consequences. What is it going to take to wake people up?
Name WithheldFebruary 24, 2021
My daughter had an experience with many parallels. She was adopted through LDS Family Services as a baby. With encouragement from both my wife and I, she found her birth parents. To make a long story short, she became very enamored with her birth father and moved in with him and his family a week after meeting him/them. They were everything to her and she started to treat us like we were someone she used to know. I found out through a relative that there is a thing called genetic attraction. It can be sexual or not sexual, and it can be a slippery slope. Fortunately, her birth father's family was going under a lot of changes due to building a new home, living with another family, extended family drama, etc., that there was no privacy and her birth father and birth step-mother had a good marriage. There was a lot of conflict over the whole situation and my daughter wouldn't speak to me for a year. After that, she wouldn't speak to my wife for six months.
For a long time, I felt like the father's version of "my wife dumped me for another man." Only, my version was "my daughter dumped me for another dad."
Another long story short, over several years things finally settled down and we have a much better relationship with her.
I'd suggest that you check out Genetic Attraction or Genetic Sexual attraction to see what it's about, and if there is a support group online, it would be a good place to learn more about it.
I'm so sorry for what you and your husband are going through. It's very painful and can be enormously heartbreaking. Approach this very prayerfully and if your husband refuses to go to counseling, you go by yourself so you can learn how to handle this. God bless you! I will be praying for you.
Linda WestoverFebruary 24, 2021
What a refreshing outlook! "And it came to pass..." has long been one of my favorite Book of Mormon scriptures.
Ronald BarnesFebruary 24, 2021
This is from a personal study. With a population of 7.5 million, if every man, woman, and child on Earth was given one acre of land, which is a population density of 640 people per square mile, the entire population could live in an area the size of the continent of Africa. That's only 6 percent of Earth's land mass.
Jason PetersonFebruary 23, 2021
Don't accept the premise of those who argue mankind is destroying the planet. We are not. The world is getting richer and cleaner, life span and quality of life are improving. Those who wish to control others and limit choices have been around since Lucifer sought to force upon all of us the outcomes he wished. Seek out facts, not emotional reactions to hyperbole of those claim we are destroying this world.
Kathleen ChinFebruary 23, 2021
I agree with you 100%! Also, we can choose NOT to take offense as easily as we can CHOOSE to take offense. Here’s another challenge...when I’ve tried to apologize for giving offense, yet the other person does not accept—or even acknowledge—my apology. Over the years, when this happens (which fortunately isn’t too often) I’ve learned to find my peace in the Atonement of Jesus Christ. These types of situations used to eat away at me. Then, one day, I realized it was my own lack of faith in our Savior’s Atonement that was keeping me from finding “...the peace which passeth understanding....”
K. Chin, Modesto, CA
Allison TullisFebruary 23, 2021
I was recently diagnosed with cancer and have so many feelings going through my mind every day. But I have also had so many tender mercies this past month that I know the Lord is aware of me and loves me. But it’s still hard. Thank you for your words and insight It was exactly what I needed!
LauraFebruary 23, 2021
What a great scholarly article written in such a clever engaging way! I appreciate the writer’s fresh approach and her non-apologetic style. It is clear. God’s commandments time and again prove to be for our benefit. They are the path to eternal happiness.
LaVerl WilhelmFebruary 23, 2021
Orson Pratt’s report on the Prophet Joseph Smith’s explanation of learning to use the “gift” of translation without needing any mechanical means goes a long way in helping us understand how he translated most of the Book of Mormon without ever even opening the gold plates and translating the scroll writings of Abraham without ever having an actual hard copy in front of him.
If we as mere mortals can send copies of manuscripts in a certain language all the way around the world and in seconds have the reader see it written in a different language, surely the Spirit of God can do as much and more!
Pat HarkerFebruary 23, 2021
Wonderful podcast, thank you so much!
PaulineFebruary 23, 2021
Really great article and good for thought. Easier said than done. Takes practice right?
Michael JonesFebruary 23, 2021
What destroys me is the costs involved in being able to experience these things. In the Country where I live, if I want to get involved in seeing these things or reading books written by people, I have to take the dollar price and multiply it by 17 to get the price in my local currency. Where I live this is an extraordinary amount of money. Not everyone has the privilege of transacting with the US Dollar and so I and my fellow travellers lose out.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
Joni--we have ALL done it--many times not even realizing until the words are out of our mouths how inappropriate they were. I agree we need to lighten up and forgive one another. HOWEVER, you brought up one comment that needs to be nipped in the bud among church members. Members of the church should NEVER, and I mean NEVER, ask someone when they are going to start a family. This is an extremely personal question and is sometimes asked in a manner that suggests the people are really failing or sinning because they don't have children yet! This needs to be unacceptable, and if that means replying with, "Oh, my! Why would you ask me that?! That is an extremely personal question." Sometimes people DO need to be corrected.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
I feel uncomfortable when people share detailed accounts of unusual sacred experiences. I am sure the General Authorities of the church have had many sacred experiences, but they do not often share the details of these experiences because they are so sacred. They do share their experiences and testimonies to strengthen us, but they don't generally speak of detailed grand visions they have had. In sharing so much detail about something that was given privately, there is also a danger of sensationalizing personal, sacred experiences. I have also been unable to accept some of the details in the many books that have become popular in bookstores around the country in the last several years regarding near death experiences. Some of them clearly contradict gospel principles. I think these accounts need to be read with caution and with the discernment of the Spirit. I have a testimony of our premortal life because the Lord has taught me this doctrine through the scriptures and the words of modern day Prophets.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
As a very emotional person myself, I really appreciate the points you made that we have a choice to stop our emotions from getting out of control and, instead, try to remain calm. In fact, when I have been able to remain calm in heated situations, it is a sign to me that I have the Spirit with me. I love these words from the great Prophet, Isaiah, "Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth thee." (IS 26:3) If I focus on my Savior, He will help me to be calm. However, I am very disappointed that when you spoke of CHOOSING various emotions, you casually threw depression into the mix. Certainly, learning to guide our thoughts and emotions will help in the battle with depression. However, the leaders of the church have been working diligently to teach us that depression is often a clinical illness, just like diabetes or other diseases. People do not CHOOSE to have chemical imbalances in their systems. They also did not CHOOSE the complicated and difficult experiences they have had as children that may contribute to depression. It would be simplistic and unrealistic to believe that we can just dismiss clinical depression. It is far more complicated than that, and deserves the proper treatment, care, and compassion that we give to other diseases of the body.
Margaret BourneFebruary 22, 2021
All this is well and good - if you have the money for it. Many of our members are low income or on a benefit of some kind. May I suggest for those who cannot afford sometimes even the necessities of life, that we can at least follow the Prophets' advice and have a picture of the Temple and of the First Presidency (which are both free) in our homes, then if and when we can afford more, maybe we can add to our collection.
RANAE C SHOAFFebruary 22, 2021
What a wonderful topic and I hope to get to see it when it is finished!
MaryFebruary 22, 2021
Sometimes before my neices and nephews are born I would have dreams about them. They are always around age two and they look exactly how they do in my dreams when they get to that age. I always know when one of my siblings is going to announce a pregnancy.
FredFebruary 22, 2021
I belong to a local gym and during this COVID crisis they have established a policy whereby each member who uses any apparatus must wipe it down with supplied antiseptic wipes. I mean all machines, free weights, bikes, etc. Members have taken this seriously and willfully have committed to adhering to this policy. I support the meaning and intent of the cartoon "No Unclean Thing" but for the sake of precious time being used between speakers to have someone come up and do this task, who better to do this but the speaker themselves is in my opinion a better solution. Oh by the way lets not skip wiping down the microphone as well.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
My husband and I made these for our emergency storage. We were so glad we had them when we experienced a severe windstorm. It was winter, very cold, and our power was out for several days. These little "heaters" were such a blessing. If you buy the small paint cans, they come with a paint can lid so you can seal them, and you can reseal them when you are finished for later use. We taped a quarter on the bottom of the paint cans to open the lid. Perfect! If you have children, you CANNOT leave these unattended ever. Obviously, care needs to be taken to light them in a very open space without any curtains near or anything else that could ignite. They need to be extinguished before you go to bed, of course. Some of the comments here reflect unnecessary fears. They are very safe to use indoors.
Duane BoyceFebruary 22, 2021
Terrific! I look forward to seeing this.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
I think the statement Geoff made that your husband cannot love you with all of his heart if he is giving her his deepest affections and affirmations is so true. I can understand your husband's excitement about finding his long lost sister. However, his behavior is extremely inappropriate. If he continues to refuse to go to therapy with you, I would tell him you cannot continue in the relationship as it is. Even if he stops his disloyal conversations with her, there is something very wrong in his mind, and he definitely needs counseling. His problems began long before his sister came into it.
CraigFebruary 22, 2021
Every. Single. Day. I often don't realize I have said something that was stupid, crass, or uncaring until after I had spoken the words out loud. Because it always sounds more funny, thoughtful, logical, or inspiring in my head, but somewhere in that vast distance from my brain to my mouth, it gets lost in translation and comes out cringeworthy. We are all human and making our way down the path like everyone else, only some of us trip on our feet more often than others and that is just fine.
JacobFebruary 22, 2021
Wow! Fascinating article. I am curious to see where Romney goes after this.
Margaret B. YoungFebruary 22, 2021
So eager to see this, Sarah!
Jacob B.February 22, 2021
What a fascinating article. I am curious to see where Romney goes after this term.
Marilynn LJ ChongFebruary 22, 2021
What happened to your husband?
E. RedelfsFebruary 22, 2021
Yes, there is room for all of us to disagree, but the truth is that there is nothing refreshing for Mitt Romney to try to impeach a former president.
Barbara FallickFebruary 22, 2021
Just read your excellent and inspiring story. My daughter just had a still-birth at 31 weeks. It has become a very spiritual experience for the whole family. I dreamed of this baby about the time he was conceived.
That being said, there is a god who is so small he can dwell in our pockets and so large, he (or it) fills the universe and we almost all worship it universally. We call it the internet.
Wendy KillpackFebruary 22, 2021
I was very excited to read about this documentary. From the time I was a young child I have had spiritual longings and have come to realize that I was homesick for heaven.
My fifth child appeared to me in the temple and let me know that he was anxious to come to Earth. I saw him wrapped in a blue shawl that I had used for each of my other children.it was a beautiful and humbling experience for me.
Julianne HamillFebruary 21, 2021
We had a similar experience during a cruise in 2019 at Christmastime. We went on an excursion on the island of Hawaii and sat next to a gay couple. We had a great time and when we were getting off the bus, I had an overwhelming desire to give one of these young men a big hug. He seemed surprised, but was receptive. Later, on the cruise ship (which was huge) we ran into them two more times - what are the chances??? The young men told me about how much he missed his mother and my husband and I both knew that was the reason for the desire to hug him. We communicated after the cruise and I told him that I really believed that the hug I gave him was from his mother, so that he knew how much she loved him.
LisabeeFebruary 21, 2021
Romney is the only reason I am still a republican. I salute someone who stands up for what is right. Our political system needs to change if members of congress will only vote along party lines instead of what is right and wrong.
Vicki RobbinsFebruary 21, 2021
Thank you Lynne for your wonderful words. So glad Brad is doing good.
Susan D. Whitiker M.D.February 21, 2021
I think that while Romney has every reason to disagree and voice his own opinions, he should not be able or ethically enabled to contradict himself year after year depending on which way the wind is blowing in the political arena. Its distasteful.
David S.February 21, 2021
Interesting read!
E M RedelfsFebruary 21, 2021
There is nothing refreshing for Mr. Romney to vote to convict a former president, to act against constitutional guidance and further more to align himself with house managers that stated that Mr. Trump had no first amendment protection and a long list of other unconstitutional maleficence. Mr. Romney had the right to vote against former president Trump but at what cost? Indeed there is nothing refreshing about his actions.
ReeneeFebruary 21, 2021
I love these short insights! Thank you.
B SmithFebruary 21, 2021
Romney is an embarrassment and I regret voting for him as president. Maybe his age is the reason he votes against Trump. He is a classic RINO.
Ann Blake-TracyFebruary 21, 2021
Good for you in knowing to turn to the Savior for the answers you needed! Too many do not. I went through something similar as a child but did not have answers for decades later. My younger sisters would talk aboit our mother as such a wonderful & kind mother. And I would wonder who they could possibly been talking about! Why would they think that when the mother I had was so mean? Could this be the same woman I overheard laughing with our neighbor over a scheme they hatched to call the pound on each others dogs while us kids searched & searched for our best fruend? (Only one of many similar things.)
But then after my mission I came home to discover I had some very serious health issues & the doctors in "treating" me almost killed me. From there i learned to study health on my own to recover & became an expert in cases involving the use of prescription drugs. Because of the extensive knowledge I gained I began asking questions & learned my mother had been given steroids by a doctor when I was young but came off them before giving birth to my much younger sisters.
I knew that steroids were invented at the request of Hitler who wanted to turn his troops into "lean, mean killing machines"! And that is how my mother was transformed into this woman I could not stand to be around. The doctor's prescription had destroyed my relationship with my mother, robbing us of happy years & memories, while my 2 sisters shared with her many happy years along with loving memories. Sad but it has helped me to be more compassionate with thise I work with going through the same. And it certainly has helped me forgive my mother. Yes what she did caused a lot of pain but had she been told the truth about the drugs given to her that were supposed to help would she have ever taken them? I do not believe she would have! She made the mistake of placing her trust in the Arm of Flesh rather than the Savior, just as I had done when I almost lost my life doing so! We were told the whole world would be decieved by prescription drugs in our day Rev 18. We need to know far more about them to survive this!
Ann Blake-TracyFebruary 20, 2021
What you describe rings a bell for me as one of the Facebook group i head is called Antidepressant-induced Divorce Epidemic & we deal with some extremely bizarre situations where couples after being happily married for many years suddenly split due to bizarre situations forming quickly in their lives after being on an antidepressant even a short time.
I watched Utah go from the lowest divorce rate in the nation to over the national average of divorce in 7 years after the introduction of the first SSRI antidepressant. One couple from Idaho reported to me in the late 90's being in an LDS marriage group for counseling where each of the nine couples were highly encouraged to go on one of these drugs. This couple refused & they were the only couple out of that group of nine to remain married!
Then LDS Singles wanted me to come & lecture for them because they had noticed that those on these drugs were in what they called their "Revolving Door" group where they would join, find a mate, marry & come right back in no time divorced & ready to go through the same process all over again & again & again! The drugs change who you are. They are mind altering & can produce psychosis. Even Osama Bin Laden's son, Omar, has been diagnosed with Antidepressant-induced Schizophrenia. So I do believe it is important to make sure he is not on any "medication" that could produce this type of behavior. And if so you may want to read through this warning from the Apostle John about prescription drugs in our day, but keep in mind that the warnings to NEVER EVER change the dose of these drugs abruptly whether increasing or decreasing. Generally half the time spent on these drugs is what time is needed to withdraw safely. They say heroin withdrawal is nothing in comparison! :
Drugawareness.org/spirituality-and-sorcery
GaryFebruary 20, 2021
The flash point of isopropyl alcohol or any alcohol is so low that in my opinion this is a very dangerous use of the product. Your fire department and homeowners insurance would probably never approve of this.
C BargerFebruary 20, 2021
What a wonderful article to leave me really “thinking” about how I can be a more Christlike disciple as I seek to serve in the brick and mortar church of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Such thoughtful insight. I love a “thinking” article. Thank you.
ChristineFebruary 20, 2021
I always love your insightful messages that are so well written and woven with the spirit of faith and doctrine.
pamFebruary 20, 2021
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Thank you Rob Gardner.
pamFebruary 20, 2021
Thank you for this article. I will read it a couple of times since the content is very pertinent to me! At least I'm not alone in all my blunders.
Pam
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Erica BarbosaFebruary 20, 2021
Thank you for sharing your insight. Life is so much more pleasant when we assume that other people's intentions are usually good.
Diane K.February 19, 2021
I have seen this in a live concert. Magnificent! Can't wait!
JaniceFebruary 19, 2021
Great comment by Kenny M. The last 2 sentences really resonated with me. Thanks.
Bob PowelsonFebruary 19, 2021
There are some differences that a beyond "being nice and understanding" about. The is nothing to debate, I would not want such in my home or any where near me, including some relatives in serious intentional apostacy.
Harold RustFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you. I've always felt the best response to "Black Lives Matter" is not just "All Lives Matter", but rather "The most important race to respect above all others is the Human Race". Only when we stop singling out specific races to be treated better (which is very different from focusing on eliminating laws with negative consequences that single out specific races) will we be continuing the great improvements regarding Blacks and other minorities that have been made since World War II. It is the very highlighting of differences between races that eats away at what most of us really want to see: a society in which it is one's actions and not one's appearance which are evaluated on their own merits which are appropriate measures of how one should perceive others around them. The BLM movement is based solely on pushing an elevation of one race; it excludes Asians, Latinos, Indians, and so forth and wants everyone to pledge their support of those who are "Black". Not a healthy theme.
Roger KentFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you for this article in particular but also for the other many inspiring articles. Wish I knew how to get this to the youth. All they hear from the propaganda machines is negativity and hate.
Lynne ChristoffersonFebruary 19, 2021
Since people have asked about my husband's recovery, I'm happy to report that he is recovering nicely and will hopefully be back to full strength within a few weeks. We feel very blessed.
Linda PatalonFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you for this article! I have been so full of fear and anxiety. This was just the reminder I needed.
Joyce Hathaway BairdFebruary 19, 2021
I found this article to be very helpful. Thank you
Janet Lee WiseFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you so much for your recommendations. As a researcher in Liberation Psychology, I recently remembered a quote from the Persian poet and Sufi Master Rumi, who said, "You think because you understand 'one,' you understand 'two,' because 'one and one is two.' But you don't understand 'and.' "Good grief!" I thought. "If we don't understand 'and,' how can we possibly wrap our heads around 'equal'?!" So here's to reading and teaching our children (and ourselves) how to understand "and," in the hope that it will help us to understand "equal!"
WeezieFebruary 19, 2021
Clap clap clap! Thank you for addressing the true motive of BLM. They are very sneaky. It’s not what they want you to think it is. Of course we agree Black Lives Matter, as well as ALL other lives. But they are doing more damage to divide and to promote racism than to help it.
RonFebruary 19, 2021
Any flame that glows yellow is evidence of incomplete combustion resulting in carbon monoxide creation. As evidence, place the blade of a metal table knife in the flame for a few seconds and remove it. Note the unburned carbon deposited on the blade as black soot. With complete combustion, the flame is be quite a bit less bright and will form carbon dioxide. Just be safe!
KEFFebruary 19, 2021
Nothing refreshing about his article at all. Like Trump says, Romney needs to lash out at the Democrats which he has never done, rather than at the leader of the GOP which he belongs. It is very evident that Romney cannot get over his disdain for Trump and he has to vote against him each chance he can to show it. I agree with Lawrence, Romney is in the wrong party and needs to man up and change. I would have more respect for him doing that than pretending to be a Republican.
JeannineFebruary 19, 2021
WOW! Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. What a great reminder! And I sincerely hope your husband has recovered. God Bless!
EdFebruary 19, 2021
PLEASE no lit liquid fuel in any open spillable container. THINK, THINK, THINK.
J. HamiltonFebruary 19, 2021
Excellent response. I ALWAYS enjoy reading Geoff's insights and suggestions. While the situations each time may not apply to me, I learn so much and have great "take aways" that are enlightening in my life and relationships. Thank you.
Helen CondonFebruary 19, 2021
After losing two of my five children to cancer, I was recently reading through my old blog when I found this:
Found my old diary; opened to a random page and got this from April 4th, 2010:
". . . the thought came to me that Heavenly Father doesn't always ask us to do what we think we can, sometimes He asks us to do what we know we can't. That's how He gets to touch and strengthen our lives."
carolynFebruary 19, 2021
Doris, Yes some cities have restrictions on the amount of fuel you can store. If this is the case you can store the allowed amount of several forms. Store charcoal, wood, propane, gasoline, candles (yes they can provide heat) and even rubbing alcohol for a paint can heater. Charcoal, wood and propane can be used for cooking in a fire pit or barbecue. Remember propane and charcoal should not be used inside your home and wood only in the fireplace with the flue open. Thanks for the reminder.Thanks for the reminder.
Lisa TompkinsFebruary 19, 2021
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I sleep better, and I definitely don't have issues with memory.
When I was around 50, I was a mess and it took a while to figure out what I was lacking.
I love this product, and would recommend it to anyone struggling with "aging issues "
Sometimes we need to remember we are NOT 20 anymore, and our bodies need to be handled a bit differently. And it's okay!!
The longer I am on Cardio Miracle, the more I feel it's benefits.
Sydney WheadonFebruary 19, 2021
Our deacons do this job so happily and efficiently!
Annette WilkesFebruary 19, 2021
This is a lovely brain-based way of approaching a heart-breaking topic. I would like to propose that what needs changing most are hearts (including mine).
Here are some thoughts to consider that move from thoughts to opening up the heart to greater levels of trust. They are from The Colossian Forum.
"He is before all things, and in him all things hold together." Colossians 1:17 (NIV and other versions of the KJV of the Bible)
"Conflict is the discipleship gift you've been waiting for -- not the disruption you've been dreading."
Some Christians (including me) are either terrified of conflict or hate it. We are often the ones who shut down and fail to stand for what we believe. Others are so outspoken that they alienate others. Each of us can go either way at different times. More commitment to Christ and his ways is needed. How do we gain that greater commitment, allowing what is going on around us politically to actually spur it? This is a question I have.
Political division is only going to grow in America in the days before the Savior's return. We need the skills to become true Christians now more than ever.
https://colossianforum.org This website brought me great peace one Sunday when political rhetoric entered a church meeting I attended, leaving me sad and feeling discouraged (and a bit frightened, truthfully). This can happen to someone at any time in any church where there is a diversity of thought. Speaking for myself, I need to embrace the thought "Conflict is the discipleship gift you've been waiting for -- not the disruption you've been dreading." I trust that the Lord is going to keep it all together; I need to trust I can.
Arlene C WelkerFebruary 19, 2021
Beautifully written. Thank you. I would like to know for sure that your husband is ok? It always comes to the point of your article. Trust in the Lord. Elder Richard G Scott's talk called "Trust in the Lord"....Ensign November 1995 (October 1995 General Conference) is still my favorite talk ever. I highly recommended it. Elder Scott details why adversity and how the Lord takes us through it. I've never heard a better explanation than this talk.
Jan KuesterFebruary 18, 2021
This was a very informative article and tremendously appreciated. To prevent misinformation from being promulgated about solar power and the batteries being used/charged, I would humbly share the following couple of points I suspect that the friend who had a disastrous but blessed week must not have had a solar power system designed with an adequate charge controller/inverter and also perhaps had solar panels which were receiving minimal solar gain on a daily basis. As one who has had quite a bit of experience with living with solar power in very cold and snowy north central Washington state and who lived 100% off grid in a very modern 2200 sq ft home with an average family size of 5, I want to reassure all readers that a well designed solar power can be easily lived with and indeed, that the batteries can deliver power for household use while they are also being charged. For the past 18 months my dear husband and I have been (and will continue to be) full time RVers with a wonderful off grid solar system Because we are mobile, we must be careful to avoid parking under shade trees - a very different experience from living in a house! Bless you Carolyn for all you do and all you share. <3
calFebruary 18, 2021
Crucial Conversations is one of the most beneficial training that I have had at work. Equally valuable are the principles taught by the Arbinger Institute, especially the Anatomy of Peace and the Outward Mindset. I encourage all who are not familiar with the principles taught by these books to add them to Crucial Conversations.
Maurine Jensen ProctorFebruary 18, 2021
This article is not about whether one agrees or disagrees with either senator. It is that in this angry world, where people are canceled and denigrated, there is room for us to disagree. We have to stand by that freedom.
Haze KompelienFebruary 18, 2021
Thank you for the "reminder" in this article. I love the intellectual learning part of Gospel study. You know, the historical background, the meaning of words in Hebrew, Greek, Latin, etc., the chiasmus, the poetry. So much so that I sometimes get caught up in the STUDY of the Gospel and not the MEDITATING on the Word of God.
Angelle LordFebruary 18, 2021
Appreciate this, Joni! We are Louisianians and know all about hurricane prep but this Feb 2021 arctic weather is new. We need some skills!
Joni HiltonFebruary 18, 2021
I’d like to add that it’s always smart to make sure you are in a large, ventilated room with any flame. Although it’s a tiny amount, any flame can create carbon monoxide.
Joni HiltonFebruary 18, 2021
This heater will burn for over an hour. It is safe in a home, but like any flame uses oxygen so I wouldn’t use it in a small tent, for example. It does not create carbon monoxide at all. And it should be placed on flameproof surface, such as tile, stone, brick, or metal.
WayneFebruary 18, 2021
This heater should NEVER be used indoors! Carbon monoxide is an odorless killer and families are dying in Texas because they are using open flame heaters indoors. There is nothing worse that going to sleep and never waking up.
Lawrence RookhuyzenFebruary 18, 2021
"Utah's Refreshing Message After Lee and Romney Vote Separate Ways"
Nice spin job--but it's not refreshing when the two senators belong to the President's party. Unfortuately Mitt got his feelings hurt and ego bruised by Trump years ago and never got over it. We all thought Mitt had thicker skin. There is just no justification for him voting to convict the President: no evidence in the first trial and unconstitutional in the second. If Mitt wants to be "refreshing" we encourage him to try running as a Democrat in the next election.
DorisFebruary 18, 2021
In our small town of 12,000, we are only allowed to store 10 gal. total of any fuel. Even if it's for lawnmowers, snow blowers, grill, etc. I think probably you can't store fuel in the amounts you said you used unless you were in a more rural area. Everyone needs to check their city codes. My neighbor had a propane tank blow up a few years ago and the blast was felt a block away!
SteveFebruary 18, 2021
As a sealer in the temple, I have always recognized that I am pronouncing and sealing upon the couple the blessings of the Abrahamic Covenant, the ultimate promise being exaltation itself. In fact, Elder Bateman taught that in the sealing ordinance, our exaltation is sealed upon us five times. More recently, I have come to appreciate and believe that the Patriarchal Blessings I am privileged to pronounce on members of my stake are also a declaration of the same promises and obligations of that great covenant. Every one of the saving priesthood ordinances we receive seem to be a restatement of God’s promise to bring us back into His presence and our part in seeing that promise is fulfilled for us and all our brothers and sisters.
Linda BrownFebruary 18, 2021
How long will this burn?
CASFebruary 18, 2021
Since this method of heating uses oxygen in the room, it's important to point out that this heater must have proper ventilation from the outside to avoid carbon monoxide poisoning as one tries to provide heat inside.
PaulineFebruary 18, 2021
I find it helpful to listen for what the other person needs based upon their feelings. If I’m uncertain I ask questions like, “You feel angry because you need...?” Sometimes I guess in order to get clarification, listen actively, find common ground, or to figure out what they want. Blame, shame, guilt, fear provoked, I back up. NVC
PeggyFebruary 18, 2021
Thank you Joni for sharing this. How long would one TP roll last as the wick? How often would you refill the alcohol? I'm trying to figure out how much to purchase. I noticed that you have a granite countertop. I don't. What other surfaces would you recommend putting the can on to prevent burning?
Kenny MazzantiFebruary 18, 2021
Rattlesnakes are a beautiful member of God's creations that most folks are not fond of, but they are part of the balance of nature. I don't put my hand in their face because I know what will happen. That does not imply that I dislike them or don't respect their place in the creation.
While a law enforcement officer for 30 years, I was assaulted many times and several people tried to kill me. Threats were made to burn down my home with me and my family in it. I never once hated any of those people, but I did defend myself from their attacks. God inspired the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution of the United States of America so that the Gospel of Jesus Christ could be spread throughout the world and God's children worldwide could all enjoy liberty and freedom from oppression. Today, there are the equivalent of Gadianton Robbers in our land actively trying to fulfil Satan's plan to dethrone God and enslave His children. I don't hate those people but I am going to defend my liberty to my last breath against their attack. There are members of public and members of this church who are on the wrong side of God's Plan of happiness. I would never judge them morally, but I will defend myself and my family from their actions. Do not confuse legal, lawful, and moral defense with personal animosity. They are separate issues. One can hate the sin without hating the sinner. That applies to strangers as well as family members.
Myrna LiddellFebruary 18, 2021
Remember the surface under the alcohol heater needs to be protected. Joni shows her heater being lit on a granite? Surface
Formica might not be so forgiving?
Pat BluthFebruary 18, 2021
Thanks Maurine and Ron! Good reminders. Helps me to take a deep breath too.
Elmer GuevarraFebruary 18, 2021
Mr. Daris Howard,
Sir: I am always looking forward to reading your article. You are my favorite writer here. I especially like the wit you are putting in every article that you made.
Doug YoungFebruary 18, 2021
Won't the flame produce carbon monoxide? Will it be safe to use indoors?
JeanFebruary 18, 2021
Thank you for the tip on the diy heater. How long would that last.
H NorthFebruary 18, 2021
"Blind conformity" doesn't justify being wrong. One senator voted correctly, and the other did not.
LexaGraemeFebruary 17, 2021
Well, my room just got dusty. Thank you for sharing, and thank you for making this story possible.
HalFebruary 17, 2021
Fantastic article, thank you!
A ChipmanFebruary 17, 2021
If shopping for a generator, it is my experience that an inverter generator is best for running and protecting electronic equipment. Resistance-type equipment fares best when using common generators, whereas electronic equipment may be damaged by common generators.
BradFebruary 17, 2021
The other option we should push for to change Big Tech, is the right to privacy of our own data. Tech companies should not be allowed to gather and sell all our data without explicitly opting in. They should also have the details spelled out on what they collect that is not an 80 page legal document.
GBFebruary 17, 2021
Thank you for your article tackling a very complex issue. One thought on just one item. Adoption. Statistics show that more women are keeping their babies, so there are fewer available for adoption.
Unfortunately, adoption has become big business and the cost is astronomical for young couples who cannot conceive. One of the big reasons for higher costs is unscrupulous scammers on the internet preying on couples desperate for a child. Couples are forced to go through an adoption agency to avoid the scams. It needs to be less complicated and far less expensive to adopt a child a mother can not or does not want to raise.
LeAnnFebruary 17, 2021
That was full of excellent advice and gave me several ideas of things to check on with our ow preparations.
Lori Finlay HamiltonFebruary 17, 2021
thank you Carolyn for this timing, informative article!
RachaelFebruary 16, 2021
I like this article. I think that what we put on our walls and in our homes design is incredibly important and can have a powerful influence on our children and others.
Interestingly enough, I had an interior design related business for about 25 years. I was in all types of homes and in some very expensive homes. One particular client lived in a very exclusive and expensive area; they have homes in various places around the country. I was involved in designing their entire home in a neighboring city. I did not find out until after the job was completed that the family was LDS. There was NOT ONE SINGLE THING in that home that indicated that they had any affiliation with any organized religion or that they had any faith whatever. It was profoundly illuminating. Their faith/allegiance to the Restored Gospel was extraordinarily difficult to discern. It gave me pause to ponder then and since.
While we have not used the family heritage approach to our interior design as much as the author, but we have words and design elements in every room that proclaim our faith. I think we are blessed by that evert single day.
HappilyMarriedFebruary 16, 2021
Loved the article. I have found what you said to be true with my own experience. I enjoyed the use of fairytale characters to get the point across. Their use added a familiarity that made it fun to read. Keep writing. The world needs more of your ideas and comments.
MaryFebruary 16, 2021
Why is it ok to give companies tax breaks, but when it comes to giving help to people during a pandemic- no we can't have that. Why do people pay fast offerings and say it is ok for the church to financially help people. I live in a stake where the church is starting to feel the burden of people seeking help. Maybe some live life of privlage and are unaware of what is happening to those around them or they just decide to close their eyes. If we are going to complain against government spending let's start with the tax write-offs for executives lunches that were given or the billions of dollars that is given to the military or the lack of spending given to education.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 16, 2021
Joni--you are such an example of faith to me! I LOVE the song and it expressed the feelings of my own heart, about how blessed I am to have found my wonderful husband. When you speak of humor, it made me recall a day when my Mom and I laughed together about all the things she could get out of doing by just saying, "Sorry, I can't do that because I have cancer." We thought of so many silly examples and the laughter was healing. She is gone now, but my love for her continues and I can't wait to see her. Thank you for giving us an eternal perspective regarding the heart wrenching subject of Cancer.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 16, 2021
It is disheartening to hear that 70% of couples live together before they marry. Satan has certainly planted a great deal of fear in the hearts of these people, and somehow convinced them they will be saved from pain by not marrying. The decision to live together before marriage screams out: "I am not really committed," or "I am afraid you are not really committed." The ironic fact is that living together without being married greatly weakens the relationship because God cannot be part of it. When we marry, we make a covenant with our spouse AND with God. We must continually strengthen the foundation of marriage by committing our lives to living his commandments and striving to make Christlike love the very heart of marriage.
Janet PreeceFebruary 16, 2021
I also reverend my ancestors so have some of their treasures diplayed: a great grandfather's oak sideboard, a hand made flower arrangement by his wife in a globe on the sideboard, another grandma's rocking chair with my needlepoint coverings, all near the Al Rounds picture of old SLC at the corner of So Temple and State St. I love my ancestor's corner in my home. Ron, I tended your kids many years ago in Emerson Ward.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
Jennifer - gay marriage is not the issue here. We do have a child who recently announced she was gay. We did not express shock, judgement or anger. We were "supportive" by reminding her that, while we all have our challenges, to achieve true happiness we are all required to keep Heavenly Father's commandments regardless of our weaknesses. One of those commandments is sexual purity. The plan of happiness is so named because it is, indeed, the plan that - if followed - will bring us the greatest joy both in this life and in the eternities. Sometimes that includes sacrificing our greatest desires. We told our daughter that we love her with all our hearts and that is why we expressed our sincere belief that keeping the law of chastity would bless her life more than giving in to physical drives that would likely prove to be destructive.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
This obviously cuts both ways. My precious wife lost interest in intimacy some years ago (we are not anywhere near 70). She was still responsive to my overtures until about a year ago when intimacy became increasingly painful for her. We tried a variety of remedies (lubricants, positions, etc.) to no avail. She is still willing to try other options even though her drive is non-existent. For all that, I feel very loved by my wife because of her deep consideration for my feelings. She loves me in many other ways that do not involve intimacy, so this is not a deal-breaker for either of us.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
Wow! Thank you for this article! I was a health science major over 40 years ago and it still amazes me some of the nonsense regarding diet and exercise that has been put forth by "experts" over the years. I've always held that, if you eat sensibly by listening to your body, keep the Word of Wisdom as written (and interpreted by prophets), and don't do anything stupid, you'll live a good life as long as the Lord sees fit to let you hang around.
Gary BealFebruary 16, 2021
I have read the Givens' previous books (though not this new one) and find their perspective insightful, relevant, and comforting. However, like Bro. Hancock, sometimes it feels like they stray too far in re-framing what the scriptures say about the nature of sin and man's proclivities to go contrary to God's commands. For instance, in previous books they seem to downplay the distinctions regarding being "saved" in the Telestial kingdom, or the Terrestrial kingdom, versus being "saved" in the Celestial kingdom. I haven't decided for myself if this is a trivial or fundamental concern about their theology, but I do credit them with helping me to understand better the traditional Western Christian paradigm of guilt and depravity that does (wrongly) influence some of the ways that otherwise faithful Latter-Day Saints misapply the Gospel of Christ.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
Thank you for this article. Despite the current trend to demonize our founding fathers - including Thomas Jefferson - I believe they were truly inspired in the founding of this nation and will share in the glory of exaltation.
Sandy ReddishFebruary 16, 2021
Thank you for clarifying the difference about contention versus other negative emotions that is very important to understand. I am afraid I sometimes have judged what is happening too harshly but will try to do better. I appreciate the suggestions so much as a mom of five there is a lot of drama and arguing in our home.
Dennis HorneFebruary 16, 2021
As I read the Doctrine and Covenants and Pearl of Great Prince and study the teachings of the prophets, I find in them more than sufficient and glorious teachings about what the Restoration is and means. It is a return to the Church that Jesus and His apostles set up, and to the Abrahamic Covenant. I see in these teachings sufficient and complete vocabulary--scriptural vocabulary--for any and all true and edifying gospel purposes. When we speak from the scriptures, we get our doctrine right.
My scriptures, the standard works, and the teachings of the prophets that I read, tell me that the core of the atonement of Jesus Christ is repentance from sin, whereby my guilt is washed away by the blood of Christ.
As for love, in a recent Conference address President Oaks taught: “The kingdom of glory to which we are assigned in the Final Judgment is not determined by love but by the law that God has given us.” There is no such thing as universal exaltation, while any church can deliver salvation (immortality) in the Telestial or Terrestrial Kingdoms of glory. So also taught Pres. Oaks.
A multitude of reasons convince me to get my doctrine from the prophets instead of these authors. I don't believe the Church needs a course correction (steadying of the ark) unless it comes from Jesus, who is the head of the Church, through Russell M. Nelson who is its current mortal president and director. He tells me to repent of my sins, not ignore guilt or heal "woundedness." I am so glad I have prophets to look to instead of academics whose views I can't square with the scriptures.
Marti ScottFebruary 16, 2021
The problem with the relief bills is all the other things they add to them like gender studies in Pakistan. This time it's funded abortions. I'm sure there's a lot of other things as well.
anonymouseFebruary 16, 2021
Thank you for this compelling, enlightening article. I will say though, I highly discourage people from tackling dragons. The tried and true approach to slaying dragons together is to go to the top of a tall tower that hasn't already been burned down by the dragon's fire, then have one person stand straight up (assuming they're the proper height, otherwise they might have to squat, or get a stool) and use their shoulder to support a large 6 foot black metal arrow, while the other person pulls back the bowstring that's been previously detached from their bow. They wait until the precise moment, and launch the arrow into the dragon's underbelly, and then pray desperately they survive the fall when the dragon's dying body knocks over the tower they were just standing on.
Britt FranklinFebruary 16, 2021
Fascinating! Unfortunately, the Gadianton robbers are alive and well in 2021, with a significant number of people--especially in America--giving them support and seeking to profit from their depredations on society.
Sonya WashburnFebruary 16, 2021
Excellent article. Thanks for bringing to light more truths. I love the quotes from Thomas Jefferson and Napoleon, and the latter-day Prophets. Thank you thank you!!
I've needed thisFebruary 16, 2021
@Boanergest Rubalcava--congratulations on "getting" it!
But for many members, myself included, the Givens' book promises to be a fantastic guide for those of us who are subject to Augustinian tendencies, who are members but sucked in by the Protestant ideas and don't even realize it.
Their book is meant to be liberating and consoling for those members who can't quite delineate between true and counter gospel. I look forward to reading the full text. It's an answer to prayers.
CubbyFebruary 16, 2021
I always enjoy reading Jeff's posts. His attention to small details is fascinating. Thanks, Jeff.
Gary A GarvinFebruary 16, 2021
wow
KJBFebruary 16, 2021
Funny, I must have missed the article you guys published when Trump and the Republicans blew a two trillion dollar hole in the budget for the sake of tax cuts...
Harold RustFebruary 16, 2021
I agree with Boanerges Rubalcsvs that this article stretched out in repetitive intellectualism what to many members of the Church is a very simple summary of our relationship with God: He wants us to follow the Savior and become perfect. While it is within our agency to either keep working toward that goal or quitting at some point, He will patiently support us as long as it takes if we do keep trying. He won’t take away our responsibility to repent fully; but the atonement is that final step in perfection when we have proven a willingness to keep changing in all respects until completely aligned with our Savior.
Pat HarkerFebruary 15, 2021
Fascinating! Thank you.
Gaye WillisFebruary 15, 2021
Wonderful insights! Thank you!
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 15, 2021
I do not understand the worries either of the Givens or of the author of this article. The restored gospel is very simple and clear, we are here because of love not because of fear.I and I would say most of the converted people to the restored gospel understand it perfectly and we do not need to fill so many pages with "intellectual" repetitions of what Joseph Smith taught us since 200 years ago. The best part of this article is the last statement: "And better not give undue place to taste for intellectual innovation..." I strongly believe in : "This is my work and my glory to bring to pass immortality and Eternal life of man". Actually I strongly believe that They, Heavenly Father and our Lord Jesus Christ want for us ALL Their children not "immortality" but ETERNAL LIFE.
dave hicksFebruary 15, 2021
For what it's worth, I don't have a problem with marriage. My problem is living together. Can you think of a more distasteful activity for two people to do than living together? Cheers
VivianFebruary 15, 2021
Thank you for the beautiful song. My husband had a stroke Jan. 25 and is slowly recovering. Your song expresses my feelings so well.
Marsha NewmanFebruary 14, 2021
I love these podcasts! They are so well researched and presented with great reverence and tenderness. Thank you so much for your analysis and insights.
Marsha Newman
Corey D.February 14, 2021
I am a deeply patriotic individual who loves his country very much. I generally have not agreed with a lot of Mark Cuban's political comments but this is one where I do, the simplest way to put these athletic protests to rest, is stop playing the national anthem. We don't do the national anthem at plays or concerts or movies or any other large public gathering, why do athletic events seem to have the corner on the market so to speak ? The National Anthem should be sung at political events or military events, once in a while at church or some type of community event but lets stop at any other, especially sports events.
Nobody SpecialFebruary 14, 2021
3 Nephi 9: 19-20
19 And ye shall offer up unto me no more the shedding of blood; yea, your sacrifices and your burnt offerings shall be done away, for I will accept none of your sacrifices and your burnt offerings.
20 And ye shall offer for a sacrifice unto me a broken heart and a contrite spirit. And whoso cometh unto me with a broken heart and a contrite spirit, him will I baptize with fire and with the Holy Ghost, even as the Lamanites, because of their faith in me at the time of their conversion, were baptized with fire and with the Holy Ghost, and they knew it not.
LoriFebruary 14, 2021
Also watch "The Social Dilemma" on Netflix. Former employees of big tech admit that these companies are influencing and manipulating people's thoughts.
MaryFebruary 14, 2021
These articles have been very interesting. I think many pro life advocates echo all that was said in this article. I would be interested in seeing your views of other actions we can take as a whole in society such as sex education, affordable health care, and the reduction of poverty- all which have been proven to reduce abortion numbers.
Also, there is a lot of discussion specifically surrounding women, but if agency like you said does play a role I would be interested to know your thoughts about the role of fathers and what role they play and how they fit into this picture.
LindaFebruary 13, 2021
Newsom is a non-believer and therefore despises religious liberties . It is scary to think what is going to happen to our country now that liberals are in charge. Keep the faith and trust God!
Ronald SandersFebruary 13, 2021
We just watched a great program on Netfilx called "The Social Dilemma".
It was very similar to the information that you have published. Thank you for your very informative article!
joeFebruary 13, 2021
Many questions, the first being how many of those now happy in marriage are in their second or third go around and so is my wife. We enter marriage with such rose colored filters that failure is almost guaranteed. Yes if we change and don't do any of the common errors our marriage is more likely to succeed, but then we will not be being as most of us are.
DanilaFebruary 13, 2021
Excellent article. Thank you.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
Thank you for a very well thought out article! We live in a world where many perpetuate the idea that exercising your freedom of "choice" means doing what you want without any consequences. There is no such thing as using our God-given agency without the God-given consequences that eventually follow. I also do not consider supporting pro-life as taking a "position." It is a commandment from God. Truth is truth.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
I don't know which phrase is the biggest lie perpetuated to excuse murdering the unborn--"Family Planning," or "Women's Reproductive Health." What Bunk served up by proponents for abortion! Thank you for a great article.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
Thank you so much for the encouraging information! It is hard to understand why someone would make disparaging remarks about marriage, even in jest. Certainly these negative comments fall in the category of "light mindedness." I loved the comment you made that bad marriages can also go good! I heard someone give a very touching personal account of making a bad marriage into a wonderful one. The key was developing true love and applying Christlike characteristics in the marriage. I heartily agree with the truth that a happy marriage is a grand key to a happy life.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
What wonderful, compassionate advice from Brother Steurer! It helps so much to remember our limitations, and to remember that God is mindful of every person and their suffering. He truly will minister to those who, tragically, decide to end their lives, and healing does take place on the other side of the veil. In the meantime, we can give love and compassion to those in need, but God has not given us the power to take away their agency to make very sad choices. This situation reminds me of President Nelsons counsel to see the big picture. In the end, all will be healed, and we can hold fast to that hope in Christ.
ScottHFebruary 12, 2021
In the run-up to and during the American Revolution, people who failed to share the prevailing opinion in any given area (and this shifted throughout the war) were often compelled to silence, often by the overt or subvert threat of violence. Following the war, many who had supported the British were obligated to flee to Great Britain, a place that had never been their home. The cancel culture phenomenon Brother Hess describes is not new to our times. The natural man within us is prone to tribalism that, without proper control, can lead us to do very inhumane things under the guise of doing right.
P PetersonFebruary 12, 2021
Thanks for this insight to the three witnesses. I found the background and detail very touching.
craigFebruary 12, 2021
MGTOW all the way.
SharonFebruary 12, 2021
Amen
The family is the most important “group “ we can belong to. This is where we learn to work through our problems, how to treat others, & love others and love ourselves. It all begins in the family Prayers to you
LoriFebruary 12, 2021
What a beautiful reminder about the power of righteous routines in our home. When kids are crying and dishes pile up in the sink it’s hard to recognize the fruits of our daily efforts. Thanks for reminding us that that these daily attempts add up and bless our home... even when we can’t always see it! :)
EmilyFebruary 12, 2021
Can you make this shareable on pinterest?
Harold RustFebruary 12, 2021
It is fun ...really fun...to read such an uplifting message from someone from the "Young Married" generation. I have learned again and again through life that when I go out of my way to do something special for others that only a portion of them will express some tangible thanks at the time----but every now and again it can make a big difference in their life, whether they happen to thank me or not. And those few cases of where it really helps them far outweigh any of the others that maybe didn't really make much of an impact. So, let's all keep giving out valentines.
Herm OlsenFebruary 12, 2021
Tender account beautifully told. Thanks so much for sharing recollections of this Great Man. Oh that we had more Lincolns . . . .
RitaFebruary 12, 2021
If you add Pete's 34 years of time between Christ's visit and complete Nephite unity and peace to the time of our founding (1776), that takes us to 1810. Not much happened historically that year in the US (we acquired Florida), but the young Joseph Smith, Jr. turned 5 that year. Having survived infancy, Joseph's survival to adulthood was much more probable. The nascent life of the Lord's Prophet was the biggest event in world history since Christ's birth.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 12, 2021
There is so much to be learned from this account - thank you for sharing it here today. Happy Birthday President Lincoln, a true respecter of all mankind! I admire his humility, his gentle powers of discernment and logical thought and expression.
Kristine BrownFebruary 12, 2021
Sweetest article!
Penelope Anne JohnsonFebruary 12, 2021
I was so moved by this account - it brought a ray of sunshine into my day. Thank you.
Sylvia Spicer WardFebruary 12, 2021
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this video! It is so motivating and inspirational for us as we travel through this earthly experience. So many beautiful life lessons taught here. Thanks for sharing.
ScottFebruary 12, 2021
Lincoln and Washington, our greatest presidents. I always love to hear and read the stories about the "little moments" that show the greatness of these men.
S. EllisFebruary 12, 2021
Great Article. Thank you.
I also agree with G. Johnson’s comments about schools and our children.
In the early 90s I had to put my foot down (so to speak) on school teachings for my daughter. I told the school to accept my daughter’s decision to leave the class when sex education was taught. I felt is was my responsibility to do so. I even refused to send her to school with a calculator. Thankfully my daughter supported my concerns, as young as she was then.
Today she is grateful for our choices and is raising her children with the same awareness.
We see shoppers in the grocery stores with calculators when rounding up to the nearest dollar and mental tallying would suffice. Without a cash register or calculator or exact payment at fruit stands or such places, the money collector is stressed in making change.
I appreciate our learnings and standards of the past. Learn from the past and, with the Lord’s guidance, we can live in the present and face the future.
Charles McClellandFebruary 12, 2021
Thank you, Maureen for sharing this beautiful and touching story from the life of Sojourner Truth and Abraham Lincoln.
JaniceFebruary 11, 2021
How are we going to take control back? My question, exactly. All I am hearing is complaints about the way every thing is being destroyed that relates to our democratic rights. Who and when will there be a committee or government entity that will get together and push back on all the extreme programs that are being initiated? As a senior citizen I'd like to help, but don't know what to do. Any ideas?
James GreenFebruary 11, 2021
Excellent advice!
JoAnnFebruary 11, 2021
What a beautiful song! I can’t wait to hear more! So sorry about the cancers you and your husband are fighting. I’ll pray for peace and healing for both of you.
Jonathan WoodFebruary 11, 2021
Big Tech manipulates not only political thought but religious thought as well. President Nelson was prescient when he warned: "In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost."
Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives
Barbara WalkerFebruary 11, 2021
I don't think I have a fear of speaking my mind, I don't comment on what I consider left wing hate speech because I don't want to add fire to the discussion. It's Thumper's mothers advice "if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all". By disagreeing, it opens the door to further rhetoric that I disagree with and on and on it would go. No one changing their minds but building their wall higher each time. It's good to analyze the other view point though, just in case I'm wrong in mine.
Pete PetersonFebruary 11, 2021
244 years is an interesting comparison, but I'm not sure it applies in this case. It was 34 years from the sign of Christ's birth until the Nephite society turned completely from wickedness. I would think 210 years would be the better number.
DorisFebruary 11, 2021
Beautiful story. I wish I had known this to do on Valentines when my children were growing up. Thank you for your wonderful example of taking care of the other children.
SaraLynFebruary 11, 2021
Thank you for all you do, even while sick!!! Is there any way to get the source of some of these comments? I’ve always been curious about Jewish baptism. Thanks!
MEBFebruary 10, 2021
In my dealings with members, face to face, I compartmentalize that relationship apart from dissenting opinions I know they hold on a variety of issues, and instead love them as brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ.
JenniferFebruary 10, 2021
Michelle, what are your views on gay marriage? How would you feel if one of your sons or daughter came out to you? Would you be supportive? I hope so!
SherryFebruary 10, 2021
Thanks so much! We love the Spirit we feel in your lessons
Sherry ScoffieldFebruary 10, 2021
How very much this article was needed and appreciated....for such a time as this when there is so much evil around us. It surely lifted me up.
Cornelia MadsenFebruary 10, 2021
Thank you for your examples of ways to better use our time and energies. Also, as we are helping we will be guided in ways that are more helpful.
Cornelia MadsenFebruary 10, 2021
Thank you for continuing to encourage us with messages that are giving us more than hope; our faith is strengthened with history and current spiritual helps!
Suzan BruceFebruary 10, 2021
If the towns people waited, maybe the Marauders would have passed them by and they would be safe!
DFRDFebruary 10, 2021
In humble tears, touched to the core! We are so blessed to be a part of this beautiful Gospel of Jesus Christ. May our light ever shine, as this father’s and his household of children who not only knew they WERE loved, but followed their parents’ examples, by accepting and loving of themselves, their friends in need, welcoming them in love and in the charity of the Savior their goodly parents had taught them with. Beautiful beacons on a hill we should all strive to be!
HannahFebruary 10, 2021
What a beautiful and honest story about the change of heart that the Savior offers to us.
ShaunaFebruary 10, 2021
Wonderful--I love Doctrine and Covenants Central and am grateful to Meridian for pointing this out. What a blessing the Knight family was to Joseph and the Restoration. Surely, they were placed in Joseph's path by God to help sustain him. The food, paper etc were clearly invaluable but I can't help think that the friendship and loyalty to Joseph, for the duration, meant more to him than anything
Juliann BradshawFebruary 10, 2021
I wish there were thousands more just like you. What great people you and your wife are. Wonderful story.
Glen S. HopkinsonFebruary 10, 2021
As an artist who has often depicted scenes of Church History and the Restoration it seems that recent depictions by artists is to portray John the Baptist as ordaining Joseph and Oliver separately as seen in the Church History Museum and some publications. Joseph Smith states about the messenger from heaven (John); “and having laid his hands upon us, he ordained us , saying: ‘Upon you my fellow servants...’ “. That has always indicated to me that John the Baptist laid his hands upon Joseph and Oliver simultaneously. The more recent painting depicting laying on of hands individually is a nice painting but do you know if there has been a change from earlier art work depicting John laying his hands on their heads at the same time? And if so, why?
Suzanne Turnbull AlderFebruary 10, 2021
How amazing you are Becky!
ScottHFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have found that the more I care about individuals, the less my political differences with them matter. The differences still exist; it is even OK for us to advocate for different sides of issues and opposing candidates. A small dose of humility goes a long way too. The more experience I gain in political matters, the less certain I am that my views are as universally correct as I had previously imagined. I have much to learn from those with differing views. But I learn those things best when I interface with them in nonpolitical venues such as church classes and service projects.
MashaFebruary 9, 2021
I had so many thoughts while reading this article. The biggest, overarching one was, "This is me. Such different circumstances, but this is me."
This article isn't an Answer, though many people who have read it seem to feel it is being presented as such. It's more like a friend saying, "This is where I am in my mental health journey, these are my thoughts and experiences, maybe they can help you?"
Doctors are not omniscient beings, they can help, they can guide, but they are not the source of complete truth. Don't leave the decisions entirely up to your doctor without giving any thought to them yourself.
The understanding and treatment of things pertaining to mental health is constantly changing.
Ronald BarnesFebruary 9, 2021
My sister was recovering from jaw surgery and her jaw was hurting severely. She prayed for relief. Three men appeared and gave her a blessing. The spokesman was our father, who had died many years before. The pain left her immediately.
G. JohnsonFebruary 9, 2021
I agree with A.BINGHAM's comment but would like to add that we must be equally vigilant regarding what is taught to our children in their schools. This lies basic to the radical/progressive agendas of the Left. Some would call it indoctrination of our youth when programs and subjects are openly taught in schools that should remain the province of only parents and guardians of our children. Legally, our "children" remain as such until their legal age of majority and under our care. Of note also, is that school boards are often the seed-bed of future politicians who utilize their board seats to launch careers in politics from which they continue to foment an agenda contrary to our God-given and Constitutional rights.
Tori BlackFebruary 9, 2021
Amen.
Chris HowellFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you, Anne. I know that those that are with us are more than those that are with them, but it's a powerful witness to cite examples.....thank you, thank you.
Diane IrwinFebruary 9, 2021
Michelle - Excellent article! I especially liked the paragraph about giving differences too much power. Thank you for teaching me.
Diane IrwinFebruary 9, 2021
Anne, you continue to amaze me! I completely skipped over the story about Rhonda Hair the first time I read this!! It is so delightful that she had the ability to see what was going on, and God prevailed!
Carlie ArntsenFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you but I always wonder about the “errand of angels” and why scriptural angels are never women?
Miguel SanchezFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you for posting this video!!
Juliann BradshawFebruary 9, 2021
Currently studying the Book of Revelations and with so many challenging things ahead it is comforting to be reminded that those that are with us are greater than those that be against us. Many from the heavenly realms are and will be helping us. Thank you for this great insight.
LisaFebruary 8, 2021
What great counsel and advice!
Juliann BradshawFebruary 8, 2021
I will not be led as a sheep to the slaughter willingly. I am polite but refuse to be intimidated or silenced. I feel no need to force my opinion on anyone but if the opportunity presents itself I speak up. As long as we still have first amendment rights I will exercise them respectfully.
Excellent article. Needful and timely.
A. BinghamFebruary 8, 2021
I mostly agree with the contents of this article. Problematic are those well-sourced pieces of information that are truthful and disturbing - not edifying but awaken us to the reality of our situation. Life is not always edifying, nor are events of the day that are troubling or meant to deceive. It is also our duty to face sometimes well-sourced and troubling truths and share information that impacts our lives even though it may not be edifying. I cite an example of the prevalence of child/sex trafficking in our communities and the awareness that all people should have of these practices in order to protect our children and communities.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 8, 2021
I have given up on trying to "discuss" important issues with people who are members of a different political party from mine. Unfortunately, it only engenders animosity. I was very Interested in the high percentage you gave indicating so many Republicans are afraid to vocalize their beliefs. That is very telling regarding the persecution encouraged by the extreme left media, and also the "shaming" by corrupt government officials.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 8, 2021
Thank you! Biden showed his true colors long before the election. None of us should be surprised at this sexual identify fiasco.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 8, 2021
When I was young, I used to think people over 70 lost interest in sex. Now that I am approaching 70 this year, I have a whole new attitude! Older couples can and DO enjoy sexual intimacy. I think the advice in this article is excellent, but there is another important avenue for you to explore: VIAGRA!!! Encourage your husband to get a complete physical and ask your Dr. about it. Don't give up. You do NOT have to sacrifice this important part of your relationship.
Bob SFebruary 8, 2021
Excellent essay! Well-put! Thank you
Claudia GassinFebruary 8, 2021
Two living angels held me and comforted me in the parking lot of the Provo temple at BYU graduation in 2011.
I would love to learn their names and contact them.
C. T. H.February 8, 2021
I agree with your article. There are far too many of us who don't speak up out of fear and I believe that in society today many of us are not taught how to speak up or respect someone else's opinion.
However, I found myself wishing that your article had focused more on what we should do instead of what the problem is. Many of us are witnessing the problem and wishing that there was some way that we could address this problem. The most common advice seems to be "learn to speak up" or "be brave". If you have spent your whole life not speaking up, that advice is like getting your very first smartphone and having no prior knowledge on how it works. While eventually you might figure it out, you might be doing everything the hard way.
WeezieFebruary 8, 2021
I was interested in this subject and was intrigued how it would read? Thank you for putting words to how I feel. I hate conflict and I’m scared to death to say what I believe for fear of being verbally attacked. Although, lately my husband and I are realizing if we want to hold onto our freedoms we no longer can fear man, only God. He is all that matters. And when things go against Him and His plan, that’s when we will come alive. We have to. Or all we have will be taken away.
PaulineFebruary 8, 2021
So good, so true. Thank you for speaking up, for speaking the truth!
CarolFebruary 8, 2021
I'll add my desire to all the others for the rest of the story about both the children and their new family!
Russ WilsonFebruary 8, 2021
Great Article! Thank You
Kathy CouchFebruary 7, 2021
Wow Becky, for as long as I’ve know you and John and the kids, I’ve never heard this story. We love y’all so much! Thanks for sharing.
Pam BlairFebruary 7, 2021
I would love to hear the story of how BOTH children fared after their adoption.
Susan RoylanceFebruary 7, 2021
Great article Tori -- to show what is happening with the new "sex" definitions. It will drastically alter our society, and make it difficult for our children to move through the many anti-family actions.
Chuck and Gail McClureFebruary 7, 2021
I would also love to hear the rest of this story! My wife and I wept with humility and awe as we read this amazing account! We laughed out loud when John held up 2 fingers! We wept uncontrollably when you shared Mother Teresa's story!
Gail GrovesFebruary 7, 2021
Just go into Meridian Magazine & click on Come Follow Me Heading at top of page & podcasts 1-5 are listed. Easy to find & enjoy!
Ken and Pattie SkousenFebruary 7, 2021
Thanks for all the time and energy you and your staff spend putting together this wonderful podcast. My husband and I always feel your spirit as you present the gospel material in a reverent manner. We feel your love and witness that you too have trials that have been overwhelming. Maureen’s bicycle accident and Scot’s COVID, the loss of family members. We all have trials that are for our learning. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us. May you have the healing of our Savior so you may carry on.
Nate GarrisonFebruary 7, 2021
Becky you are amazing!!!!
Sage GallagherFebruary 6, 2021
Such an example of selfless love. Thanks for sharing your change of heart. It went from so good to golden. I'm grateful to be involved with Rising Star. I hope volunteers will be allowed to go again.
CubbyFebruary 6, 2021
Oh, what a wonderful story. You are amazing. The picture of your Jolanta today is beautiful. I hope there is a continuation of this story. Her beautiful smile tells me there were many trying things you were able to overcome.
I am sure glad the doctor had a bit of inspiration. You sure needed it.
DavidFebruary 6, 2021
I want to know what happened to both children. The story just got good then i was cut off knowing what happened.
LexaGraemeFebruary 6, 2021
What a beautiful gift to give a little girl. Bless you and your family.
LindaFebruary 6, 2021
Thank you for this article. This President is truly a divisive non compromising president and is out to destroy this country. We need to stay faithful and trust in the Lord or we will get sucked in to this liberal nonsense.
Jewel DoxeyFebruary 6, 2021
How can I hear podcast 1-5
JanieFebruary 6, 2021
This article was a gift to me today. I have been struggling with some things, but nothing like Sister Douglas. After reading this article I've learned to not give up, that Jesus' love for us is unconditional and that we should be unconditional in our love for others too.
Kathy SandersFebruary 6, 2021
This talk was something I've been thinking about a lot lately...living in the spirit and how to do that better...How thankful I am for Elder Bednar and his powerful teaching gifts and for living the things he then teaches. Thank you Meridian for your great work.
Bonita RottweilerFebruary 5, 2021
So thrilled to see this come to life. Can't wait to take my family and friends to witness the witnesses. Thank you so much!!! We will give you all the help you need to get this out.
Kristin MannFebruary 5, 2021
Wow! I really needed to read this today. Thank you for sharing this tender story.
Gaye WillisFebruary 5, 2021
Becky, I am so inspired by your life. You are my Mother Teresa, my example of Christ upon the Earth. Thank you for all you are and all you have done. Thank you for sharing your story. You have blessed my life.
Gaye WillisFebruary 5, 2021
I think I have listened to eight podcasts on these sections so far. and I learned things from you I didn't get any other place. Thank you for your willingness to share all that you know. I was praying for you, Scot, and didn't know Maureen was sick too or I would have been praying for her. I'm so grateful you're doing better and are out of the hospital. Bless you both for all that you do.
happy wife at 70February 5, 2021
My husband had surgery to remove a prostate because of cancer about 12 years ago. No more erections unfortunately but NOT the end of our sex life. Bless his heart he tried everything pump, injections, pills that gave him massive headaches. Nothing worked so we accepted our limitations and decided to work with what we had....our love and desire for each other. I don't want to be inappropriate here but I want to help...we both still reach satisfaction but it is done manually.
Karen DavisFebruary 5, 2021
Such a touching story, Becky! But I would love the rest of the story,. How are Jolanta and Thomas doing today?
KarenFebruary 5, 2021
Thank you very much for the ideas. I hope to do several of them this coming week.
Lana JohnsonFebruary 5, 2021
I LOVE everything Joni Hilton ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
MistyFebruary 5, 2021
Thank you for sharing this with us. My current experience isn’t even remotely close to the extreme circumstances you lived through, but I’ve had similar feelings of just not wanting to deal with it anymore. I’ve tried a few times to pep talk myself into just living and serving as the Savior would, but it clearly hasn’t lasted long. But perhaps if I were to change positions wi to them, not viewing myself as the Savior serving, but instead serving the Savior, I would hopefully indeed change my attitude regarding what I’ve been asked to do and willingly said I would do. Thank you for the change of perspective.
Doris WilliamsFebruary 5, 2021
Oh my goodness, if there ever was a story that could put our own challenges in perspective, it is this one. I have always thought that a change of heart is the greatest miracle we can experience, and Becky Douglas's response and action is light years beyond anything I ever imagined. So inspiring...it stirs us all to greater efforts in serving the Savior by serving His children. Thank you for sharing, Becky. Makes me think I would like to grab your heels as you go up to heaven!
Karell BinghamFebruary 5, 2021
It is inspiring to read about women women with such amazing grace and courage!
DawnFebruary 5, 2021
Beautiful story!
RitaFebruary 5, 2021
The Oracle didn't say "do nothing"; it said "do nothing for one month". The bridge could still be built, but after the peril (that the villagers had no clue about) had passed. We are also given counsel to wait sometimes, to work other times. The important thing is that we obey, not only the spirit, but the letter of the counsel. We work when the Lord commands, and wait at the same command. Taking things into our own hands, with our limited sight, generally results in pain and suffering, no matter how good our intentions.
Rich BeckFebruary 5, 2021
"Come on Man!" Did anyone really expect unity with this party in power?
Jon SpencerFebruary 5, 2021
What can one say to a story like this? How can one express in simple words how one has been touched by the love and strength and power of this woman and her dedication to what she knows is true. This is why years ago I decided our family needed to take a very small step and help Rising Star support just one child, then two. But I have cleaned up the bathroom at the infusion center where my father was being treated for end stage lung cancer, s as nd denied him a cigarette he craved do strongly on his last intake to Thad hospital. I remember the last hug I gave him that day and his settled response to me. I believe that if we try Er can conjure up the strength to love someone enough to see Christ in our arms. We can only do the best we can do and for Christ that is more than enough. Our own heroic moments are more than enough.
Wayne ThorntonFebruary 5, 2021
You, Sister, are a true example of the believers. Reading this accounting was akin to reading scriptures. I am grateful for examples like you that inspire the weak like me.
Thank You!
Old GuyFebruary 5, 2021
Ouch! The word "perform" should be outlawed when talking about intimacy between husband and wife! It denotes to many that he is putting on a "performance," as opposed to jointly participating in an intimate activity in which both persons involved are actively expressing their love for each other. A husband who is expected to "perform" is usually a man who has been demoted down to the same social standing as a well-trained family dog who does tricks, or even the family cat who spends hours chasing a laser light for the family's amusement. Respectfully, the one worried about their husband's "performance" should perhaps be evaluating her own "performance" or lack of. Perhaps her "performance" needs to be updated in such a way that it will motivate him to rejoin the circus and once again "perform."
Juliann BradshawFebruary 5, 2021
You are a Mother Teresa too. Thank you for sharing every painful detail of a sacrifice few can imagine. I would like to say, “May God bless you for your service”, but I know He is exalting you. You are a savior on Mt Zion.
D. T.February 5, 2021
I appreciated your article on how Biden’s executive order will, in fact, affect us in America on the whole, and how it abolishes a safety net for people believing in traditional views on gender, as outlined in the scriptures. It doesn’t allow for anyone to have beliefs other than an extreme few, which is speedily taking control over all of America, as well as a global agenda. Our whole world is being turned upside down, with especially the inability to maintain freedom of speech and expressing ones views, without being called homophobic, or racist, or whatever the issues surrounding these topics. I am horrified that anyone could support leaders who want to also. support abortIng more babies, as well as having American citizens being forced to accept and pay for abortions in America, as well as other countries, etc. Without freedom of thought and speech, to be able to speak out freely without fear of ridicule & prosecution, we have set the foundation for a world such as Hitler. Communism will become the new rule of law. When this becomes global rule, there will be no place to flee to, we will only be thrown into jails or camps, set up for “trouble- makers” who don’t agree. If anyone only listens to the lies & distortions of the mainstream media, they will never see the horror of what lies ahead. Already there is condoned book burning, etc.
FrankFebruary 4, 2021
y my reading of D&C Sec. 8/9, in April 1829 Oliver Cowdrey was given the opportunity to translate a portion of the Book of Mormon. He failed, but my question is this: In order to translate, didn't he need to see the plates at this time? That would mean that he was allowed to see the plates before the incident that resulted in the "Testimony of Three Witnesses". Does my supposition that Oliver saw them previously make sense? Thank you.
Sandra CoxFebruary 4, 2021
I would like to comment on the supposed Capitol attack. Unfortunately you are believing the propaganda. There was no attack on the capitol. A few people were ushered in by police. Photo ops were staged. Unfortunately you can't believe the main stream media.
Earl ChantrrillFebruary 4, 2021
I believe that we have people among us inside and outside of our government who have no respect for our constitution or the Judeo-Christian foundations of it as described in the Federalist Papers and letters between the founders and their correspondents. This government was established by God for the purpose of establishing the Church and spreading the Gospel of Christ throughout the world. Satan is diametrically opposed to all of these things and has been working to establish his counter-religion during this same period of time. Communism and its analogous organizations such as Nazism, Fascism, etc. that have been conquering governments and spreading their false doctrines based on lies. One of the major parties in the United States is preaching and practicing those false doctrines and using practices of oppression both through official and unofficial organizations and through extra-governmental organizations and businesses to subvert the will of the majority of the people and to make it very difficult for individuals who oppose their tactics to make their voices heard. This is corrupt.
Ann CFebruary 4, 2021
Your article is fear mongering and your example of the poor girl athletes having to compete against boys is really lame. Is that really your greatest fear? I don’t think so.
Bob SFebruary 4, 2021
Terrible!
Maryann TaylorFebruary 4, 2021
I wholeheartedly agree that we must follow our Prophets and Apostles for our direction, especially in current conditions where the world has drifted so far away from truth. However, I have a problem with the title of your column. My politics have EVERYTHING to do with gospel teachings. You cannot separate them. We do not "check our religion at the door" of the voting booth. Because I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I do NOT support laws that promote or support abortion. I do NOT support many of the inappropriate government "handouts" that cripple self-reliance, where the need is not genuine, thereby creating welfare families for generations. I do NOT support breaking current immigration laws, thereby putting American citizens at risk for drug and human trafficking, and disease. I do NOT support any attempts to destroy the constitution or the Bill of Rights. I do NOT support evil endeavors that apply the absurd term of "separation of church and state" in order to thwart religious freedom. I do NOT support today's current mindset that puts the "rights" of any minority or special interest group above the good of all. I do NOT support any law that promotes or supports in any way the belief that gender is a "choice." A reading of the Doctrine & Covenants and the Book of Mormon make it clear that we have a responsibility to preserve laws that are in harmony with God's laws--unless we want to be "swept off' the land. I don't know how the Lord can make it any more clear.
Chad & Judy HamiltonFebruary 4, 2021
Thank you for sharing another magnificent Podcast. We look forward to studying with you each week. So sorry you have both been hit by the Covid. We will add you to our prayer list.
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CarlosFebruary 4, 2021
In the Book of Mormon, the Savior said and they knew it not, referring to the Lamanities, who had the Holy Ghost,but knew it not. Or it became common place.
Kevin FFebruary 4, 2021
It seems we now have a new discrimination that is openly being practiced by corporations and governments. That is political party affiliation. If you are a Republican, your speech should be stifled, you should not be able to work where you want, you should be put on a black list and your opinion is automatically wrong and not worth listening to.....to me, that discrimination is just as bad as others.
Barbara JohnsonFebruary 4, 2021
This article was inspiring. It made me want to be more of an angel to those with whom I have been placed here on this earth, and to my ancestors, those who are not here on earth.
I also gained a greater understanding of the big picture; the purpose of the temple in our own salvation, the salvation of others, and the work and glory of Heavenly Father.
PeterFebruary 4, 2021
The Neal A. Maxwell quote is wrong. Elder Maxwell is quoted in the conference talked by Elder Oaks that was earlier quoted, “Desire,” General Conference, April 2011. The quote “To achieve our eternal destiny..." is not Elder Maxwell, but President Oaks. The Maxwell quote terminates in the preceding paragraph.
Denise CottrellFebruary 4, 2021
Our thoughts and prayers are for you all and especially Scot. It was our joy to get to know you as we traveled with you in
Europe. This was a wonderful podcast. Until the next one, be safe and God Bless.
JOHN RICHARD HILLFebruary 4, 2021
To be frank, I have been greatly disappointed in the community response to Mr. Trump's efforts to overturn his election loss. Clearly, he had the right to challenge improper voting in the courts, but when that failed, he turned to efforts that undermined our democratic norms and values, including being impeached for inciting insurrection when he followers attacked the Capitol. During the post-election assault on our Constitution, my community (neighbors, FB friends, relatives, ward members, etc.) remained remarkably silent---not even publicly expressing outrage about the Jan. 6th assault on the Capitol. That might be explained by the fact that I live in Utah County, where (according to official data) two-thirds of the votes were cast in favor of Mr. Trump. So, I ask myself just who will speak up in defense of our Constitution? Apparently not the "silent majority" in my community!.
Rosie BFebruary 4, 2021
I love this parable. I'm also grateful that we are studying the Doctrine & Covenants this year. What was going on in the background all during the time that the original revelations were received? Mob violence as a result of evil and designing men with a hidden agenda based on greed. What will be the result of refusing to see our neighbors, including the ones that disagree with us, as children of our Heavenly Father? According to the Book of Mormon, endless wars even to the point of annihilation.
Di CowleyFebruary 4, 2021
I wish you would put a disclaimer at the top of the article that you are endorsing a product. The information is good and worthy of the read. However, the question as to whether you will received financial remuneration from readers going through your "affiliate" site is uncomfortable. Please let us know ahead of time you are encouraging a specific product.
Sasha KwapinskiFebruary 4, 2021
The concept of giving to others presumes that we do, in fact, have something to give. We hold up the Good Samaritan as an example of virtuous service or giving, but we tend to forget that he came from the perspective of having some substance and capacity to give.
CarolynFebruary 4, 2021
Van, again canned foods after good long beyond the expiration dates.
companies that produce foods and medications are required to keep a stock of items they produce in case a recall should be necessary. these products are tested and can not be discarded until the pull date leaving cases of product in a warehouse. You can see why they prefer a short best buy date. So do the test, no dents, no rust, no bulging, no strange smell and they should be good.
CarolFebruary 4, 2021
All people need some to talk to that will listen, it's the best 'medicine' ever!
Rochelle HaleFebruary 4, 2021
In Mosiah we read, "I would that ye say in your hearts that: I give not because I have not, but if I had I would give." I believe anyone who is sensitive to others will want to give even if their offerings are meager. Of course, we can grow into sharing greater time and means as our circumstances improve. On my church mission, we gave service to an elderly couple who lived in a corrugated shack with little creature comforts. While we read scriptures to the blind husband (no Braille at that time), the wife would go to the small store a block or so away and spend her hard-earned earnings on treats to express her gratitude to us.
MarcFebruary 4, 2021
If you have ever split wood or used a chainsaw, you will know that an afternoon of cutting, lifting, and stacking firewood can be exhausting. The Smith family would have been doing that (minus the chainsaw) for hours, day-in and day-out.
Lifting 45 pounds is not impossible. How many moms pick up their young kids at that weight? Joseph Smith with his size and strength could have done that easily. Keeping the plates safe: The original CrossFit!
CarolynFebruary 4, 2021
Van, again canned foods after good long beyond the expiration dates.
companies that produce foods and medications are required to keep a stock of items they produce in case a recall should be necessary. these products are tested and can not be discarded until the pull date leaving cases of product in a warehouse. You can see why they prefer a short best buy date. So do the test, no dents, no rust, no bulging, no strange smell and they should be good.
Karell BinghamFebruary 4, 2021
I never thought of revelation in this light, thank you!!
Byron JespersenFebruary 3, 2021
I love your podcast and all the insights you share. It's a wonderful addition to my personal study. I would like to offer a clarification to your explanation of the date of the revelation contained in D&C 10. According to Dr. J.B. Haws, Associate Dean of Religious Education at BYU, after much research in the Joseph Smith Papers, the Church has updated the heading to D&C 10 and corrected the date in the current edition, indicating that it was received in April 1829, although some portions may have been received as early as Summer 1828.
Rusty TaylorFebruary 3, 2021
Some of us have been studying the Hebrew covenants and the 7 festivals for years. They all tie into what we understand of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and our temple ordinances and scriptures. The Lord has not forgotten His sacred calendar. And understanding what He gave the ancient Hebrews really enhances our modern covenants, especially the temple. Very nice article.
Michael VanhilleFebruary 3, 2021
Why did you pick this issue for "disuity"? What about the former President's inspiring insurrection? What about a current US Rep espousing the assassination of other government leaders? Don't those issues seem more critical right now???
Mary TarbetFebruary 3, 2021
Thank you for this very important information on this issue which most people do not understand the far reaching consequences
Katelon GilbertFebruary 3, 2021
Amen to what @Tedfullerton and @pakundo said!
There has never been a more important time to stand fast in the liberty by which we have been made free!
RachFebruary 3, 2021
@TedFullerton, I think WHAT the oracle said in this story is of minor importance. It was a just a story element to help present a point. The point of the story is how people interpreted what the Oracle told them, and that they each claimed that their misinterpretation was what the Oracle wanted, when it actually wasn’t. There are problems with both political parties in our country.
Karen GreeneFebruary 3, 2021
Ted Fullerton, have you heard of Cleon and Joel Skousen. Look them up and their books. Cleon is deceased. Joel has podcasts and briefings. Some free , some pay for subscription. Talks about very things you are referring to. I think you will find these things informative. They are also members of the Church.
CarolynFebruary 3, 2021
Remember best buy dates are just for the convenience of the producer. Canned goods are safe for years beyond the date unless the cans are bulging, dented, rusted or the food smells stranger.
Robert D StarlingFebruary 3, 2021
I love this analogy. It reinforces God's word when he said in Isaiah 55, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts." We are SO blessed in these "perilous times" to have a living prophet who can tell us what the Lord's "higher thoughts" are for our time. And whether he says we should wait with patience as Alma was told in Mosiah 24, or whether we should act as Helaman and the stripling warriors, our best guide is - - FTP - Follow The Prophet.
MSJonesFebruary 3, 2021
I just need to vent my disappointment and frustration. I was very excited on inauguration day, relishing in the feelings of peace and unity that filled the day. Now I feel betrayed by a president who says what he thinks the people want to hear and follows with systematically ignoring everyone except those who agree with him. So, so disappointed and sad for our country.
Mary E PettyFebruary 3, 2021
This was a very thought provoking article, including the comments. They led me to review the prophecies and Latter-day Saints’ responsibilities related to the US Constitution.
I recommend the following readings to all interested in our prophetic role in civil society.
1. Conference Report of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 94th Semi-Annual Conference October 1923, accessed 2/3/2021 on archive.org: Oct. 6, 1923 Morning Session talk given by Presiding Bishop of The Church, Bishop Charles W Nibley, pp 58-62;
2. Conference Report of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 94th Semi-Annual Conference October 1923, accessed 2/3/2021 on archive.org: Oct. 6, 1923 Morning Session talk given by Elder Stephen L Richards, pp 44-48;).
3.
www.churchofjesuschrist.org › ensignWeb resultsDid Joseph Smith say that the Constitution would hang by a ...
4. Elder David A Bednar spoke June 17, 2020 at the Religious Freedom Annual Review, hosted by the Brigham Young University Law School.
From 32:27Elder David A. Bednar begins speaking
Sally SmothFebruary 3, 2021
The prophet speaks to his saints ok n a regular and rightnow is is saying to trust in the Savior, hear him, which means we follow him in all we do. The Prophet and his apostles are our oracles. They are the only ones we can trust.
pakundoFebruary 3, 2021
The headline is misleading: politics and the gospel are intertwined, because they both concern how we live our lives. One cannot be separated from the other and be true to both.
Kelly H.February 3, 2021
Just to be clear, there is a distinct and powerfully backed difference between our opinion and a revelatory experience from God. This is for any mortal, of any station. I think of Nephi. I don’t think this article makes sense unless that distinction is made.
Robert E JonesFebruary 3, 2021
When the Prophet changed Sunday services from 3 hours to 2 hours how many understood that the change was from a "church centered concept" to a "home center concept and what it meant for the future.."
How many thought that a pendemic was in the future and all church services would be stoped but our "home center" services would continue without a problem.
What lies in the future? I don't know but I think I will relie on what our general authorties have to say of the future "as for me I will follow the prophets."
Bob Jones
Denton L KimballFebruary 3, 2021
There is a real easy solution to this problem of males competing against females. Where it is recognized in a given competition, ALL females refuse to compete. If this is done everywhere, then the problem will be fixed. A male desiring to compete against females will look pretty silly if he is the only one on the track.
pakundoFebruary 3, 2021
How does this article align with the previous one titled, "Your Politics Are Not the Gospel"? Seems to be a disconnect there...
Shep KuesterFebruary 3, 2021
As the whirlwind roars around us, we are to remain at peace. The Natural Man within me wants to react to this legal action with anger. However, that won’t fix anything, just make it worse. So, what am I supposed to do?
I don’t have a perfect answer. I’m going to put down my anger and listen to the First Presidency. I’m going to pray mightily for guidance. As for those caught in the middle of all this, the people, especially youth, who are going through gender confusion, I’m going to love them. I firmly believe that Heavenly Father makes no mistakes, but for these people, it’s very hard to remember that. Don’t turn them out. Don’t forget, we are all imperfect in so many ways.
Actively supporting candidates who you agree with, and urging people to vote, can make a difference. People who refuse to get involved or vote have put us where we are today. We need to change that. At the same time, we must give the affected people our love.
We live in the Last Days. This is, as promised in the scriptures, no picnic! We need to keep our eye on the objective, follow the prophet, and encourage as many as we can to join us. I want to be angry, but that is not the Spiritual Man I need to be.
Maria Luisa TorresFebruary 3, 2021
I was guided by the words of President Oaks last October Conference, right before the election.” We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law” (Articles of Faith 1:12).
This does not mean that we agree with all that is done with the force of law. It means that we obey the current law and use peaceful means to change it. It also means that we peacefully accept the results of elections. We will not participate in the violence threatened by those disappointed with the outcome. In a democratic society we always have the opportunity and the duty to persist peacefully until the next election.”
Those Church members who participated in the Washington insurrection and support those endeavors, DID Not heed the council of our oracles from God.
Gail GrovesFebruary 3, 2021
Thank you for this amazing podcast and particularly the part about the "fiery darts of Satan" that he uses to darken our mind and hearts. I really needed help on this today and found help in your podcast. I feel your pain as my husband and I also got hit with covid. Wishing you both a speedy recovery with prayers for you! Thank you for all you do to enlighten us with truth and your testimonies!
Joan Girvin SmithFebruary 3, 2021
In my opinion, the author was simply relaying a pre-existing story which made a point... "Listen to the Prophet" and don't rely upon your particular bias. Even Christ's parables were not intended to be extended beyond the apparent lesson.
M J BlackFebruary 3, 2021
I have sent 1 email and one IM to people I have special feelings for, but haven't connected with in a good while. Their response was so amazing. I really should just do this ALL year! Good idea!
Patty K.February 3, 2021
The parable is not about whether to take action or do nothing, but about listening to the Prophet and following his council as opposed to following the dictates of ones political party.
CASFebruary 3, 2021
I have a permanent marker handy and mark the month/year of the purchase date on the top of every canned good, bottle, or box of food before placing anything on my shelves after shopping. This helps me use and rotate older items first. Once in a while I find expired canned items in my storage. These are actually still good for years after the recommended expiration date, I have found. Use the smell/look test before using.
Michael HousemanFebruary 3, 2021
The warnings from our "oracles" have been blatantly plain. Ezra Taft Benson warned us of the evils of communism and we now have members of Congress espousing these diabolical principles openly. Listen to "Stand Up for Freedom" and it will be abundantly clear that the Constitution and the ideology of communism cannot stand together. Communism is Christianity stripped of God, while the Constitution is based on "Christian principles" and the two can't exist equally together. If we adopt what our prophets have warned us against then we will reap the whirlwind. It is folly to believe they can coexist. No communist country has ever allowed Christians to live in peace. We should listen to our "oracles" and we have been warned.
E SmithFebruary 3, 2021
Great idea. I copied your calendar suggestions. Thanks
Jane NFebruary 3, 2021
I am interested to know if a whole food, plant-based diet is sufficient to keep our glutathione levels high enough. I am a firm believer that Heavenly Father placed everything our bodies need to be healthy into the plants He provided for us. All of the manmade foods and substances are what are not healthy for us. I have been eating WFPB nutrition for over three years and have not even had a cold. I am 67 and am the healthiest I have ever been.
Juliann BradshawFebruary 3, 2021
Someone who sincerely listens too.
Ronald KjarFebruary 3, 2021
Ted, the article simply said to follow the living oracle or prophets. That's it. I didn't see that it said that there was a particular position that was either correct or incorrect. Just follow the prophet. What a great analogy!
DavidDFebruary 3, 2021
There's a lot of "Satan this" and "Satan that" in these posts. As Jennifer so eloquently and compassionately reminds us, LOTS of people are born with and cannot change their same gender attraction. Scientists have now identified specific genes that contribute to the condition. For Jennifer's son and others who are born with this, it has nothing at all to do with Satan. This is not the 1600s in Salem, Massachusetts. Show some love and tenderness.
Eugene BergmannFebruary 3, 2021
Bravo! I am thrilled to see a serious production on this subject. Thank you all for efforts.
Juliann BradshawFebruary 3, 2021
I believe the authors intent can be summarized with President Nelson’s story about his family member being “myopic”. Don’t read the parable with an agenda. Just read it with an open heart. My own current conflict is the “vaccination” being encouraged in order to be good citizens. But there was also agency allowed, and I know my body, my medical history and past reactions to vaccines. What I don’t know are the ways and mind of God concerning the future, an unpredictable government and the hearts of evil and conspiring men. God always knows.
I do know that we have a prophet, seer, and revelator.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 3, 2021
My husband and I both brought food storage into our marriage, but we were "old school" - wheat, powdered milk, etc. Over the years we added freeze-dried items plus regular canned goods. The Coronavirus pandemic gave us another reason to assess our preparedness. As we were able, we stocked up on meat for the freezer, added additional and perhaps hard-to-get items such as extra yeast and flour, plus extra sanitation supplies and otc meds. My kitchen pantry is very small, but one of my quarantine projects was to organize it in a new way. I now know exactly where to find things such as cooking oil or condiments, how much I have on hand, and which to use first. We routinely rotate our "storage" into our daily meals, and leftovers are almost always planned for lunch or a freezer meal for the future.
Van B CutletFebruary 3, 2021
What do you recommend when can foods best used dates expire? Most canned goods only have a shelf life of 1-2 years.
Tammy LindstromFebruary 3, 2021
Loved this. I loved the messages we had during October conference. We just need to live what we were taught by our leaders.
Ted FullertonFebruary 3, 2021
I think thats a wonderful parable and has some valuable lesson or application we have seen played out in history before. I am confused by the title and how it specifically applies to our situation today. Did I miss a warning somewhere by our Prophet that says do nothing? The way I understand our Oracles, defending the Constitution is the very essence of the Gospel. The Book of Mormon practically shouting at us, trying to warn us of our awful situation when we see the Secret Combinations that would be among us in the last days. Modern Apostles and Prophets like Charles Nibley, David O McKay, and others:
Conference Report Charles W. Nibley October 1923
"Brethren and sisters, let me say in closing that we have it of record, that the prophet Joseph Smith said the time would come when, through secret organizations taking the law into their own hands, not being governed by law or by due process of law, but becoming a law unto themselves, when, by those disintegrating activities, the Constitution of the United States would be so torn and rent asunder, and life and property and peace and security would be held of so little value, that the Constitution would, as it were, hang by a thread. But he never said, so far as I have heard, that that thread would be cut. I believe, with Elder Richards, that this Constitution will be preserved, but it will be preserved very largely in consequence of what the Lord has revealed and what this people, through listening to the Lord and being obedient, will help to bring about, to stabilize and give permanency and effect to the Constitution itself. THAT IS ALSO OUR MISSION. That also is what we are here for. I glory in it. I praise God with all my heart and soul that I am a member of it." (almost 100 years ago) I have not verified this account with the actual record of that session of General Conference, however, I have seen other quotes by David O McKay who also said defending the Constitution is almost as much a duty of the Saints as preaching the Gospel (just as Elder Nibley did). Presidents Eisenhower and Kennedy both warned boldly, plainly, in great detail, of the dangers of secret organizations that they said were among us in their day and were a serious threat to our freedom. President Benson spoke as plainly as can possible be plain and was seen as an embarrassment by many of the Saints with his "Conspiracy Theories.". So, again I am confused by the title of this parable. Our Oracles that come to my mind have said it is the Gospel to be politically astute and aware of our awful situation and to take action. What am I missing? Do we have an Oracle who is saying to do nothing? If so I have missed that.
Little_NauvooFebruary 3, 2021
Unfortunately items on sale are often nearing their best before date. I always grab items from the back of the shelf to check use by dates.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 3, 2021
Finding good, wholesome books is a challenge sometimes! I wish we could have more book reviews on this website. I really enjoyed the recommendation of The Paper Daughters of Chinatown. Wonderful!
Maryann TaylorFebruary 3, 2021
The big push in society today is to "normalize" everything. Although people who are attracted to the same sex are a small percentage of our population, I am noticing them showing up increasingly in books, television and conversations. The more Satan can entice us to focus on abnormal behavior, the more accepting we become. I realize that there is a huge difference between someone with same sex attraction who is keeping the Lord's law of chastity, and someone who is acting on it. However, PLEASE let us not join the world in normalizing the behavior.
Harold RustFebruary 2, 2021
Such a powerful and yet simple recipe for lifting up others. I was reminded of a situation in our community just a year ago when the city opened up their yearly invite to nominate someone for a "Hero Award". My neighbor had lost his wife a few years earlier and had put in lots of volunteer time since then to help folks looking for employment. I wrote up the nomination and he was selected along with one other person. The day of the awards in city hall, I noticed in the audience a woman who volunteered for a variety of "dirty jobs" at the local elementary school where I had substituted one time. I had been so impressed by what she did that I mentioned to the staff at end of the day my impression that they should find some way to honor her. Wouldn't you know...the other person called up as a hero for the year was that woman! It made my day.
JenniferFebruary 2, 2021
When my son came out to me as gay I was so very sad, especially for the challenge it would pose to him throughout his life. One of the first things I did was to schedule an appointment with a therapist. He shared with me numbers from his personal therapy practice. He said that 25% of those experiencing same-sex attraction struggle because of childhood abuse which has skewed their feelings. Another 25% have viewed same-sex pornography. This is a group that he sometimes can help overcome their same-sex attraction. The other 50% truly are born with those feelings and nothing can change that. There are those who successfully marry but they are the exception, not the rule. There are many stories of those who attempt to marry someone of the opposite success and it leads to deep heartache. This therapist said that dealing with same-sex attraction is second only to schizophrenia in difficulty among his patients. The point I want to make is that those of us who don't have these feelings haven't the slightest idea of what it is like. Instead of judgement, perhaps we should extend kindness and compassion. "Mourn with those that mourn, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort." My son is one of the kindest and most service-oriented people I know. He is bright and talented. He is also struggling to find his place in the church he grew up loving and served a mission teaching others about. There are those that say that these people should just live their lives alone. For many that is not a healthy option due to depression. I don't know what path my son will take but he will always have a loving place to come home to. I would remind us all of the words of the Savior, "He that is without sin, let him cast the first stone." Let's worry about keeping our own covenants and the commandment to "love our neighbor as ourselves."
Rich HoganFebruary 2, 2021
Thanks Norm for that very thoughtful review and discussion. You do a great job outlining the challenges, opportunities and some real keys to success that not only missionaries but all of us can have holding meetings and interacting with each other remotely. Your writing here is worth not only reading, but practicing over time . . . these can be happily used and critical skills going forward, worth the cost to develop.
DbcbFebruary 2, 2021
We’re signing up! Bravo and prayers!!
Lincoln B.February 2, 2021
Thank you Dan for all you do! I agree that in today’s Age of doubt the testimony provided by the three witnesses is both compelling and powerful. I look forward with anticipation to seeing the film when it comes out.
NicoleFebruary 2, 2021
Thank you so much for this article! It was an answer to a prayer. I've been teaching classes on Zoom for my church callings, and I know firsthand how people (including me) struggle with this new way of doing things. Thank you for your sharing your experience and insights, it sheds a whole new light on the topic of suffering through new technology.
SusanFebruary 2, 2021
I love this encouraging council. I would love to share it with my family and I will pray for inspiration to bring “what are your desires?” up in conversation. I think the vision Rawlston had was simply remarkable. Another example that the Lord can do anything.
David HallFebruary 2, 2021
I agree with Richard Eyre in his criticism of the article and of the lack of a display of faith in that article. However, I depart from the criticisms expressed in one respect, in that I feel that the article did much good, especially considering the audience for which he was writing in The Atlantic. I think it helped soften the feelings of many in that audience toward the Church, and for that I applaud Coppins. I feel that The Atlantic would not have published an article that bore fervent testimony of the gospel. For those inclined to criticize, remember that it was the apostasy, with its easy-to-swallow doctrine, that enabled Christianity to spread as far as it did and which paved the way for the acceptance of the restoration of the gospel.
Helen CondonFebruary 2, 2021
Clarity above all, as always. Let’s hope our central Oregon peeps will weigh in in the viewing.
Glad you’re both championing this cause. As you say, the beginning is the jet to everything that follows.
Duane BoyceFebruary 2, 2021
Outstanding! Dan Peterson is a treasure.
Rachel OliphantFebruary 1, 2021
I think Brother Eyre missed the point of Coppins' piece. I've followed Coppins for several years so I may have a better idea of his "motives" and I find him a highly respectable and wise voice. I also understand the need to discuss the nuanced parallels between the "Mormon" and "American" ideal. Among my middle-aged LDS contemporaries, there is an awakening/realization that as much as we can desire and strive for the "ideal", it is becoming harder and harder to achieve.
Val HFebruary 1, 2021
I’m sorry to hear about this missionary passing. I have a son serving his mission so far away from me and I pray a lot for his health and protection. May Elder Dortilus family be comforted by the knowledge of eternal families. Deep thoughts of sympathy to you.
Concerned MemberFebruary 1, 2021
This is a nice sentiment that on the surface sounds nice to people...but it is not Christlike to love unconditionally. Our own prophet said in his address called "Divine Love" - "While divine love can be called perfect, infinite, enduring, and universal, it cannot correctly be characterized as unconditional. The word does not appear in the scriptures. On the other hand, many verses affirm that the higher levels of love the Father and the Son feel for each of us—and certain divine blessings stemming from that love—are conditional." God has NEVER instructed us to love unconditionally, he doesn't either...If God loved unconditionally why the need to send his only begotten son? Does he not love us enough to save us outright 'no matter what'? Why have the 3 kingdoms of glory....why have outer darkness. We are expected and commanded to love but never unconditionally. Then Elder Nelson also said : "Understanding that divine love and blessings are not truly "unconditional" can defend us against common fallacies such as these: "Since God’s love is unconditional, He will love me regardless..."; or "Since 'God is love,' He will love me unconditionally, regardless..." These arguments are used by anti-Christs to woo people with deception." D. Todd Christofferson said : "At another level, however, the question might be, “Can’t God do whatever He wants and save us just because He loves us, without the need for a Savior?” Phrased this way, quite a few people in today’s world would share that question. They believe in God and a postmortal existence but assume that because God loves us, it doesn’t matter so much what we do or don’t do; He just takes care of things." One orthodox Jew Dennis Prager says : "The source of my understanding of God, the Hebrew Bible, which originated the idea of a loving God, does not hold that whether we are the torturer or the torturer's victim, God loves us the same. Indeed, it implies that God's love is conditional (see, for example, Exodus 19:5, where God's love of His people is conditioned up on their keeping His covenant). I believe therefore that even with regard to God, we must try to grow into adulthood. God's love of us is immense and forgiving (if we repent) but not unconditional. In fact, I would have a difficult time loving a God who loved everyone equally. It would mean that God's love was unmoved by anything we do, and I cannot love that which cannot be moved." and finally he said these wise words : "Moreover, unconditional love stymies growth into mature adulthood. If we will be loved no matter how we act, why should we act in a way that earns love?"
Janet KuesterFebruary 1, 2021
What a beautiful and meaningful article. Thank you for it. I wear a special necklace to remind me that I am a daughter of our loving Heavenly Father and love He, our Savior and the holy Scriptures. <3 I do want to say, in the most genuine and loving way possible that Dr Emoto’s “research” is pseudoscience and has never been able to be duplicated. It is a lovely story and certainly fits in with our understanding of all things being created spiritually but that is all it is so I hope people will not take it as fact. https://www.irishtimes.com/news/science/the-pseudoscience-of-creating-beautiful-or-ugly-water-1.574583?mode=amp
Linda PatalonFebruary 1, 2021
Thank you for your diligence. I am alone when I study and your insights have made me so much less lonely.
I am grateful for you.
LarissaFebruary 1, 2021
To those who are saying being gay or transgender is “not normal”,or “not the way that Heavenly Father intended them to be”. Please consider the viewpoint that being gay is separate from having a physical relationship with someone of the same sex. There is more to being gay than romantic relationships to the same sex. For example, My feminine qualities as a straight woman influence more than my physical attraction to the opposite sex, my feminine qualities also include being organized, nurturing and compassionate.
Please take some time to attempt to see things from a LGBTQ persons framework, they are as much a child of God and worthy of His love as you are.
I would recommend the book, Without The Mask by Charlie Bird for a unique religious LDS perspective on being gay. Even if it doesn’t change your views it makes you better informed and thus more qualified to interpret the complexities of the challenges of being LGBTQ.
RobynFebruary 1, 2021
Waiting in store checkout lines is a good time to watch for people next to you that might need a little friendly conversation. Listen to the Spirit for a topic. It can be so simple but that person will feel noticed. It is a bit harder with masks & distancing, but it can still be done. I have seen peoples' whole personas brighten up dramatically. Hopefully, it carries through their day.
JaNaeFebruary 1, 2021
I'm so sorry for the loss of this missionary. I pray the Holy Ghost will comfort his family and loved ones.
Patricia CarrFebruary 1, 2021
Sending prayers for Scott's complete and speedy recovery! And how is your recovery coming after your horrific accident of last year?
DavidDFebruary 1, 2021
Is it "normal" for someone to be born blind or missing a limb? If the answer is no, do we shun and persecute them? We know that for many people who are gay, it's truly not a choice any more than being born blind is a choice. So, if a person is born blind or with same gender attraction, did God make a mistake?
Ruth JamiesonFebruary 1, 2021
We're so happy you stayed. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message of hope.
Jim AFebruary 1, 2021
3rd Attempt to post. Is there a problem?
I have enjoyed Geoff's column in the past and the topics have sparked good conversations. This is a case where he should have been more careful in his reply.
To jump to the conclusion that the boyfriend is cruel, harsh, and dehumanizing is just wrong. I would be curious how Geoff would have responded if it had been the boyfriend asking if he should marry someone who is not committed to raising children to walk the covenant path and honor the doctrines of the gospel. Or, my girlfriend wont allow us to hang "The Family a Proclamation" in our home. Being loving and kind does not mean being accepting of immorality, adultery, and indulgent sexual practices. This was two people having a discussion of basic feelings and doctrines. The boyfriend wasn't in anyone's face. Geoff omits the fact that as loving and kind the Savior was, he always called those he taught to repentance. The first principles of the gospel are faith-repentance. They go together.
In this case, it is best to remember that "the study of doctrine does more to change behavior, then the study of behavior changes behavior".-BK Packer
While there may be things to iron out between these two in their path towards marriage, it is a two way street, the boyfriend has some legitimate concerns as well. A lesson to all members of the church during these cancel culture, amoral, and a-religious times is to hold to the doctrines and follow the prophet to the temple and to gathering Israel by teaching that happiness comes through walking the covenant path. Future generations deserve our commitment to stand firm and immovable.
Winona and Stephen ElliottFebruary 1, 2021
We're so happy that Scot is out of the hospital and wish you both a speedy recovery. We thank you for the diligent and hard work you do to enhance our weekly scripture study. We much appreciate it.
Lana JohnsonFebruary 1, 2021
This is an answer to prayers! I have been longing to serve others and now you have given me a way!!! Thank you so much for your insights and suggestions, I Love, Love,Love this challenge!!❤❤❤
Jeff HillFebruary 1, 2021
What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful family! I am sure that in the Spirit World they are grateful someone is remembering them, and still learning from their example. I am emulating your example by having a weekly family story time on Zoom with my 34 grandchildren!
LauraFebruary 1, 2021
This is a beautiful way to deepen the holiday of love, and enliven what can feel like a dreary month that drags on a bit. Thank you for the thoughtful inspiration!
BillJanuary 31, 2021
Transgender and gay is not normal. Satan wants to destroy families. We can be civil to them but saying it is normal is dilusional.
Jack RossJanuary 31, 2021
I believe Eyre and those who have commented here have missed the point. Copping was not writing an article for a church magazine or Meridian. He was writing for a secular magazine. We can’t expect him to say the things he would say if he did write for a church magazine. The article wasn’t perfect, but for the venue he was using, he did a decent job. I’m sure it was a struggle for him. Any of us, including Richard Eyre, would struggle to do as well if given the opportunity.
Janet GundryJanuary 31, 2021
It always saddens me to hear of a missionary passing on while serving his or her mission. Prayers and love in behalf of the family of Elder Dortlus.
Mike GriffithJanuary 31, 2021
Homosexual conduct is not normal. The apostle Paul called it "unnatural." It is also physically unhealthy conduct. However, the boyfriend's statement that if any of his kids told him they were gay he would cut them out of his life is going to an unhealthy extreme. "Love the sinner, hate the sin" is a wise saying.
We should also consider the fact that liberals have been using gay rights to launch a frontal assault on religious freedom. Gay rights groups and their allies have filed numerous lawsuits to try to force private religious schools to abandon their moral codes. They have also tried to get private religious schools stripped of their eligibility to receive federal education dollars in the form of Pell Grants and federal student loans. In addition, they have filed lawsuits to try to force churches to hire gays as clergy and to force them to perform gay weddings against their will.
Bonnie HoltJanuary 31, 2021
You expressed my feelings exactly. The author missed a wonderful opportunity by being afraid (in my estimation) to stand tall for Jesus Christ and His prophets and correctly state their motivation! I fear he is straddling the world view versus the church with his employment as a journalist needing to please his employer. He should have declined the assignment. Sad.
Julie Carling DeGrawJanuary 31, 2021
I love reading these comments from fellow descendants! My dad told us the story of the oxen and the temple dont our whole lives. It is a special and sacred story. I am a descendant of John Carling through his son Isaac V, and through his son John Henry. What a wonderful example he was for us all.
CorinaJanuary 31, 2021
Desde Chile estamos orando por ustedes. Nuestra familia sigue regularmente sus enseñanzas inspiradas. Muchisimas gracias.
VictoriaJanuary 30, 2021
Great ideas I will share with our ward’s teachers. I would like to add that as missionaries listen carefully as each investigator shares his or her concern, they include them by name and concern in their prayer, thus, creating a spiritual connection.
Victoria GroskreutzJanuary 30, 2021
Praying for Scot’s recovery. You are a much-needed, special family
Rochelle HaleJanuary 30, 2021
This was very encouraging. As a temple worker on pause, I have been spending many covid-restriction hours working on family history. We have some relatives with special concerns, so I will gladly welcome (and have prayed for) any help that the Lord might send from the other side.
New EnglanderJanuary 30, 2021
McKay doesn't like Trump and hasn't since Trump first ran for president. He apparently had a rather ill-fated trip to Mar-a-Lago during the 2016 election that I don't think he'll ever forgive Trump for. His political bias was apparent (and irrelevant) in the article--way too much politics, and way too much of a focus on approval. Why? Because that's what gets the clicks, I guess. These things are secondary to what really matters. Jesus Christ was very much missing from most of the article, as was President Nelson. But that's what The Atlantic and its readers would have wanted.
BTW, I knew McKay when he was young and am friends with his parents.
Linda Lambert MelvilleJanuary 30, 2021
My mother spoke often of her first cousin, Bessie Louise Johnson Bailey, who along with two young sons, Glen Elwin Bailey and George Haren Bailey, died in October and November 1918 of the 1918 Spanish Flu. They were living in Blackfoot, Bingham, Idaho, United States at that time. The mother, Bessie, was 32 and her sons were 3 and 7 years old. It was so tragic for their families.
JulieJanuary 30, 2021
People who think they're gay aren't the way Heavenly Father intends His children to be. But I believe they can be treated the same way as straight single for life people. We can encourage them to be the best aunt or uncle there is, put their all into their calling and their job. It doesn't have to mean that they can't do good things still. And live the law of chastity. There are people in my stake who consider themselves gay and just keep living the Gospel because that's what's most important to them.
Tamara A. EvansJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you so much for another great podcast. It was nice to hear from Mariah. I do hope that Scot is recovering. My prayers will certainly be with him, and with all your family.
Geoff-AusJanuary 29, 2021
I would be wanting to know his attitude to his wife achieving her potential as a human being equal to him. If he is enthusiastic about discriminating against lgbti children, that is often part of a package of beliefs, that will manifest in other areas.
Ed GayhartJanuary 29, 2021
I don’t get it. Being gay or transgendered is not normal. No amount of political correctness or cancelling changes that eternal truth.
I ask - how do you teach children being gay is normal without teaching them the behavior is acceptable?
You must teach children to love every one and still instill in them eternal morals, principles and perspectives.
Ruth TautuaaJanuary 29, 2021
I agree. I read the article and thought he was still trying to fit in with friends or co-workers. It took him a while to even introduce the correct name of the church, let alone use it properly. He kept saying 'Mormon' throughout the article, when he should have known the prophet has emphasized that we need to use the proper church name. If WE don't use it, how can we expect others to use it? It was generally positive, but in my view, lacking conviction. Instead of inspiring me, it left me disappointed.
AndrewJanuary 29, 2021
My heart goes out to all those that loved him and I am so sorry for his families loss.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 29, 2021
I agree heartily with your comment about the dangers of our society "catering to every person's feelings and desires." Many have built their very feelings into an idol. Some have their "feelings hurt" when they are taught truths that force them to reevaluate their lives and their choices. Others have their "feelings hurt" when not everyone agrees with them. The real problem often arises when inappropriate demands are made to appease their "feelings", or even to "pay for" what was done to their ancestors long ago! Our feelings are not weapons to use for selfish purposes. It is interesting that the Lord told us he would reveal truth to our hearts AND our minds. Emotions are tricky and can be deceiving. The Lord has given us safety net by instructing us to use the knowledge he has given us in our MINDS, along with the feelings of our hearts to keep a spiritual balance in our lives. One of the reasons we are taught to read the words of our living Prophets, and also the scriptures daily, is to keep us from making decisions that are based ONLY on our feelings or emotions.
Joline WalgamottJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful article. It is one that I will print out and save for future reference and strive to adopt the attributes outlined myself!
Penelope Anne JohnsonJanuary 29, 2021
It is my understanding that any attempts to be accepted into our communities and to gain credibility is so that we can more effectively serve those communities, particularly with our unique ability to respond in emergency situations.
LeeJanuary 29, 2021
I read the article in the "Atlantic" and was quite interested in reading an article about the church, knowing that Mr. Coppin was both a member of the church as well as a journalist for the well respected magazine, the "Atlantic". I was disappointed in the direction the article took, with our so-called drive to "fit in". If anything, we have never been encouraged to "fit in", but to do things that will have an impact for good. It's never been about "fitting in". Perhaps it's his goal though. Disappointing article.
LexaGraemeJanuary 29, 2021
Awwwww. Good for her. Good for him.
LexaGraemeJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you for posting Dr. Peterson's comments and remarks. I learn something each time I read them, even if it's a new perspective on a story I've heard before.
BrendaJanuary 29, 2021
We are so sorry to hear that Scot has been hospitalized for Covid-19. We will pray mightily for a speedy recovery. We are grateful for your Come Follow Me Podcasts. Thank you for the constant inspiration you give us.
LoRie ThomsenJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you Maurine & Mariah for getting this podcast to us in spite of the love and concern you have for your Scot.
I hope his recovery is quick and complete.
Thank you for your time and effort to help all of us
DCJanuary 29, 2021
I thought I was the only one who didn't like the article! After reading all the comments, I am glad to have company!
Robyn GeantilJanuary 29, 2021
Many years ago we had a relative managing an apartment complex for us in Arizona. We always had the tape from the ten key (ancient adding machine) attached to the list of rents in the bank deposit. I discovered one rent which was listed but not added into the total (you could put it with a # next to it). That rent had not been added in for several months. When we confronted the relative she promptly moved out. The next day the tenants of that apartment were arrested for running drugs through the apartment.
Laurie PollardJanuary 29, 2021
Excellent response!!!
CharlieBrown2292January 29, 2021
For a variety of reasons I married someone out of the faith, but who was committed to invetigating the gospel with me and for raising our children as Latter-Day Saints. But when one my sons engaged into a pre-marital relationship with his girlfriend,at 18 she was adamant that his behavior was acceptable and that I should go along with it, including allowing her to stay overnight with him, which I refused.
This happened 24 years after we were married, and it came as a surprise to me that all she had learned about the gospel and its blessings did not necessarily change her views about premarital sex...so beware, because as much as people may be nice and good-willing, change over time is never guaranteed!
Bob PowelsonJanuary 29, 2021
The young lady who is worried about the attitude of her boyfriend on LGBT people related that the boyfriend did not think such people were "normal". She then added that his idea on raising their potential children in a hardline way to believe the same.
I have a similar view to the boyfriend. Such people are not normal, that is a simple fact. The teachings of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are all about moral and good and evil. That does not mean we persecute them but it does not mean that we accept conduct as normal.
As evidence of that is the divine creation of God's people. Put very simply; "male and female, created he them". The boyfriend's desire to teach and "insulate" your future children from that conduct is a good thing.
Boyfriend sounds afraidJanuary 29, 2021
Great advice. The boyfriend also sounds scared. Some men seem to have a deep-seated fear about gays and try desperately to find ways to make sure nothing like this happens in their families, believing it's caused somehow. If you "fight" enough, it stays away. How does he treat his girlfriend's sister? That would be telling.
vickieJanuary 29, 2021
sometimes in doing our missionary duties i think we work at trying to attract people to the church by trying to appear every day and regular. we are not every day nor regular. We believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ and in that realm it makes us different. i believe we need to attract people to the Gospel of Jesus Christ.....and if their soul is ready and aided by the Holy Spirit ...they will go that way....and then they will be different.
KenJanuary 29, 2021
This one I have some disagreements with. I too believe Trans or Gay is not normal. Neither of these can reproduce and continuation of the species is normal. If he's young, life experiences can change him. The same goes for her. Why does she believe he is deficient and that she is not? If he has rough edges (as we all do), he will have experiences to polish those edges. Agreed, how he reacts to others matters, but opinions can be held while treating others kindly.
Lincoln!January 28, 2021
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you!
CarolJanuary 28, 2021
I was disappointed in the article by Coppins. I thought it had "attitude," and not in a positive way. I thought Coppins was trying to pander to journalist colleagues and an elitist audience.
Kathy WilsonJanuary 28, 2021
Coppins’ article left me uncomfortable and your response articulated the reasons why. Thank you!
RalphJanuary 28, 2021
Don't feel bad Penny O. Meridian never publish my comments. Maybe one has to pay money to them to have their comments published. Oh well, That is their loss.
Sasha KwapinskiJanuary 28, 2021
If the main purpose or intent of our faith is to accommodate ourselves to the socio-cultural trends of the day, then I would suggest that there are several "mainline" denominations which have already been following that route. Interestingly, these are the same denominations which have been declining, not only in percentages, but in actual numbers ranging up into the millions, since the mid-1960's.
Could this be an example of the salt losing its savor, or the trumpet giving an uncertain sound?
Gail J FoutzJanuary 28, 2021
Herm Olsen, Scot is in the hospital with Covid. I'm impressed that this Podcast has happened at all. I hope you received more "light" from it than your comment would suggest.
VickiJanuary 28, 2021
Thanks for another great article. I always look forward to reading what you have written.
Allen AJanuary 28, 2021
Like others who have commented, I was struck by the lack of introspection that lead Coppins to assume that the Church of Jesus Christ is somehow an "American" church. The Church is lead by Jesus, through His prophets. It really has no nationality. Most Catholics don't regard their faith as an Italian church, so why would the author of the Atlantic article say that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints must be "American" and strive to be accepted under American social and political norms?
TeresaJanuary 28, 2021
To be honest, I didn't know what to think about it, but the further I read the more I didn't feel good about it. Like mentioned above, whether Coppin really believes these things or was just writing for his audience, he missed the mark for me. Thanks Elder Eyre for pointing these things out.
ScottHJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you for your extensive and thoughtful review of the Coppins article. While I share many of your concerns, I believe it is important to consider where it was published (who paid for it) and its target audience. The typical reader of The Atlantic would likely fail to identify with many of the implied suggestions for improvement. While The Atlantic gave Brother Coppins a free hand, I suspect managers would have required many changes had the article been written as many faithful Latter-day Saints would like. And while the article focuses on "lesser" matters, more than a handful of faithful saints have at least found these issues worth contemplating. Perhaps those who are most displeased with the article are setting the bar too high for an arguably Left leaning national publication. Frankly, we should probably be grateful the article was much better than a great deal of stuff written about the Church.
Juli BoydJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you. This was perfect for today.
Barbara MattatallJanuary 28, 2021
I did NOT care for his first article. I found it offensive. I thought it would be something good in promoting the image of the Church but as I read, I felt so many negative vibes I had to stop reading it.
Cyndi H.January 28, 2021
Thank you for this response to his article. That was my feeling as I read his article, that he was trying to figure out how the Church fit into the world and that our goal was to assimilate and be accepted. I felt exactly as you, as that has never been the goal of our Church. Our goal is to follow Christ and do what He would have us do. Now, do we want to be good neighbors? Yes. Do we recognize and offer humanitarian aid around the world to help our brother and sisters? Yes. Do we support loving others the way that Christ loves us? Yes. And the best way we can love others is to help them come to Christ and feel His love by being an example and helping them find their path to His restored Church.
Jan NielsenJanuary 28, 2021
After reading Mr. Copplin's article I also came a way with the same feelings your expressed in your article.
Elaine LaytonJanuary 28, 2021
Very good information.
R C CopelandJanuary 28, 2021
Nailed it, Richard! Nailed it! All except the gurp about Mutt Romney....
Gary LawrenceJanuary 28, 2021
Very good insights, Rick. Thank you.
Penny OJanuary 28, 2021
I wonder why my comment was not published. Narcissism is much different than Pride. Once you have been targeted by a Narrsisst, then you know the difference. It is not just about promoting themselves. It is about controlling others. They talk about you to everyone, to destroy your character. I learned about this from 'Surviving Narcissism'. Look it up. It saved me after being targeted by a Narrsisst. One of the hardest trials of my life.
David MJanuary 28, 2021
"It is always dangerous, and by definition judgmental, to make assumptions about motives—."
Are you talking about Coppins, or your commentary?
But thank you for raising an interesting point for discussion.
While your assessment of what drives the Church is ideally correct, we can't deny that most of us individually long to be accepted by friends, neighbors and society, and that drives some behaviors (such as Pres. Hinckley's Mike Wallace interviews, or us happily inviting neighbors to the ward halloween party, but avoiding inviting them to sacrament meeting or to meet with the missionaries). There's nothing wrong with that. It's ok if what motivates our public behaviors is less aggressive than what drives our private worship (you know, milk before meat). I think what Coppins described is what many non-LDS Americans would perceive (if they care). I'm not offended by that because I believe that my closest non-LDS friends over the years would judge my behaviors to be driven by my desire to follow the Savior. I think that's what matters most to me and to them. 'All politics are local.'
BrianJanuary 28, 2021
Rather than presenting us with a thoughtful, reflective, and honest commentary of McKay’s piece, the author has given us knee-jerk reactions that were obviously taken from a critical reading of the article. It seems plans were laid out to argue against each point rather than reading and reflecting. For me, credibility was lost in the first point against the author when referencing our prophet’s message on gratitude, which were given to us months after the interview occurred on “a gray spring morning”. This article misses the undercurrent of the original that a once rejected population of “peculiar people” now emulates what America has lost and so desperately needs.
MickiJanuary 28, 2021
We all have adversity in life and I really appreciate the perspective change this has caused me to think about - thank you so much for this uplifting article.
ShannonJanuary 28, 2021
I so needed this exact message today. Thank you for this reminder and the things you shared. I ALWAYS love and appreciate your articles.
Herm OlsenJanuary 28, 2021
Why do you perpetuate false impressions by using that painting of Joseph and Oliver in translation? That doesn’t depict the reality, and you shouldn’t imply false information.
Dick HerrinJanuary 28, 2021
Sadly true. Coppins had the opportunity to say important things and share insights about the church and the gospel, but he missed it. His perspective that the Church seeks to be a part of the mainstream can only become more perilous as that mainstream moves further away from the values and principles that are heart of the gospel that members work hard to live each day. That gap will widen and we simply can’t go there with him or anyone else.
MaryJanuary 28, 2021
When did Jesus focus on the perfect family? If He were to come and walk on earth today as he did 2000 years ago, I see him comforting the outliers. Those who feel alienated in the church because they don't fit that perfect family mold. I see him comforting the homosexuals and the transgenders and the single and divorced because the church makes them feel less than due to their fixation on the idea of the perfect family. You resent the author's accusations of the church's motives and then you accuse the author of less than honorable motives, instead of just disagreeing with his conclusions.
Duane BoyceJanuary 28, 2021
This perfectly captures at least part of my reaction to the article. Very well said and very much appreciated.
MaureenJanuary 28, 2021
Well stated, Bro. Eyre, and I might add an observance of mine after 73 years of membership in both the LDS Church and American society:. I've watched with gleeful surprise as entertainment swung noticeably in the direction of family values following, not preceding, LDS public statements and positions. Likewise, the trend toward use of "gosh" rather than its previous common sacrilegious exclamation. Who is following whom when spirits and conscience kick in? We must never lose sight of our real goals and stick firmly by the Savior's standards.
steven gaisfordJanuary 28, 2021
I appreciate your take on Brother Coppin's article. I was raised in the church and taught to strive to be like the Savior, not to strive to fit in. We are taught to be in the world but not of the world.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you. I needed a laugh. Plus your great stories motivate me to search out my own scoundrels.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 28, 2021
I have to conclude that it is Coppins who is auditioning—for full acceptance into his secular brand of modern journalism
I felt the same way. I did not find the article edifying or uplifting and perhaps that was because it felt self serving. He had the audience and the opportunity. It could have been so much more.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 28, 2021
Beautiful article . Hindsight is a wonderful teacher of how God has used every trial to stretch me and use me to bless others and therefore myself. And his timing is impeccable. But what happens when you get tired of constantly being challenged? When you’re just plain tired? When you just want to curl up in a ball and say “No more.”
Candy HuntJanuary 28, 2021
Well said. I was not impressed with the article, having read it before all the commentaries came out. In addition to your accurate perspective, I thought it was meandering and that it trivialized sacred things.
SarahJanuary 28, 2021
Thanks for sharing...I agree completely.
PennieJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you. That was my gut reaction as well. I was somewhat appalled that he made himself a voice for the Church. He is really out in left field
Linda HardyJanuary 28, 2021
This reminds me of an experience from twenty years ago. My daughter was taking an American History class in college, where the students had to write a weekly short essay. one week my daughter wrote about the reasons the Latter-day Saints left Nauvoo and crossed the plains. Her teacher said that she was wrong about the reasons. Religious persecution was not a valid reason. Apparently, all history has been about economic reasons. I guess we all have blind spots and tunnel vision about something.
KCJanuary 28, 2021
As a member of a stake Communications Committee, formerly public affairs, we are such a small part of the function of the church. However, the Church was tasked early on by the Lord to reach out to those in positions of influence as well as befriend those of all stations.
Fulfilling our duty as a church to take care of the needy, spread the gospel, safeguard our families and freedoms, etc requires a massive effort to partner with individuals and organizations, governments and businesses. This happens on individual, family auxiliary/quorum, ward, stake, regional, and church wide levels. Every one of us makes inroads and impressions.
We’re not going to make many friends by trying to “look hip” as they used to say, or even just “fit in”. We must “reflect righteousness and articulateness” and be “seen as distinct and different [from]the world. “
Our goodness and reflection of Christ draws people and comes from the same Spirit, but how each of us acts and who we reach is unique.
Collectively that may have looked Rockwellian in contrast to the world, but we shouldn’t allow stereotypes, or labels—even “Mormon”. We are a peculiar people because we are His.
AnnetteJanuary 28, 2021
Bingo!
Patricia (Floyd ESM) SchellJanuary 28, 2021
Good job Elder Eyre. I hope his article wasn't "editorialized" by someone making it fit the magazine. I'm hoping we can stop being concerned by how we look and BE who we are.
LoraJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you! The many good points of that article melted away as I considered the underlying misinformation. I don't know if Coppin truly believes these things or was just 'writing for his audience', but his work was terribly misleading. I'm glad you have taken the time to point these issues out. Our modern media will require greater and more careful discernment for processing it as we move forward in this dispensation.
KathleenJanuary 28, 2021
The continuous question - Why do bad things happen to good people? Answer - because they do. Amazing things come out of adversity. Thanks for the reminder.
Craig BounousJanuary 27, 2021
Thank you for writing this article. I have had many of the same struggles and, in a round-about way, came to the same conclusions you did about them. It was meaningful to me to see that I was not alone in those conclusions. I used many parts of your article as inspiration for a talk I gave in sacrament meeting last Sunday on Finding Joy in Christ. Thanks again
JaNae NaumannJanuary 27, 2021
Thank you Brother Goddard. I always enjoy reading your articles.
LisaJanuary 27, 2021
Reading this article was like receiving some life-giving water after the thoughts and feelings that arose in my mind from the Atlantic article. I felt it was a shallow perspective, even though good and honest intent was evident. I couldn't put my finger on what was lacking. It was - as pointed out by Hancock - the larger perspective of a prophet of God, and that it is Him we want to please and serve. It is the WHY. The words of President Nelson were there to contemplate - thank you for pointing that out! I purposely waited to see what some of the comments to this article would be, and am so heartened by the thoughtful ways members of the church (represented by these few) consider the words of others and express their thoughts compassionately. Thank you to all who responded! It is validating to know my thinking is in line with people of faith.
Gary BikmanJanuary 27, 2021
Thanks. Love this, as I do all your essays. I'm trying to share memories in similar ways.
CarolineJanuary 27, 2021
Wonderful article. We as a people do shy away from vocalizing scriptures such as “washed in the blood of the Lamb” and yet, it’s very clear in the Sacrament prayers, and in the Temple , that remembering Him includes remembering the blood that He shed on the cross. The official image for everything the Church publishes is the image of the Living Christ with His holy wounds very much in evidence.
Tammy MartinJanuary 27, 2021
We are loving Audiobiography books for this ❤️ we get to hear the stories anytime we want to and are able to share them so family and friends can get a first account telling from the voice of our loved ones
DanielaJanuary 26, 2021
Thanks for this excellent article and for being able to eloquently give voice to my thoughts on the article by McKay Coppins.When I first read it I felt like it started well but then the author took a definite detour. The point is that when we try to rationalize the church and our faith the result often sounds grotesque, the spirit leaves and the outcome is almost a caricature of the initial portrait. Thanks for putting things into the right perspective.
Charlie ChanJanuary 26, 2021
I am a member from Singapore. I don't understand why the restored Church must always be viewed from an American lens? In God's divine scheme of things, I am not sure if He has intended the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to be an American church.
Irene BlackJanuary 26, 2021
Maureen you were inspired to write this insightful article. There are so much treasure in the Book of Mormon. ..so many lessons for us today. Thank you! Love Meridian. Magazine.
Joel MarksJanuary 26, 2021
The Second coming will surely come but only AFTER the confligrations previous. 2Nephi 25-29 and Daniel 7-12 plus much else must take place first.
CAJanuary 26, 2021
The 1776 Project was created to tell the authentic story of the history of our country as opposed to the fabricated and distorted version of the 1619 project promoted by The New York Times and the Left. We need to be able to speak out now about any misinformation about our great country which would be put in the history books for our children in school. I strongly supported the 1776 Project and still do! It was wiped out by a recent "presidential" regulation. Our nation is now seriously at risk!
Jenine SnarrJanuary 26, 2021
This is probably my favorite of all of your articles! Thank you for your valuable insights. We all need to remember to choose moral leaders because when we don't God will no longer protect us.
ChrisJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you. While I was generally pleased with the fairly uncritical reporting in Brother Coppin's article, I appreciate your thoughtful analysis !
I, too was struck with how little there was of President Nelson and how much there was of the author and others - especially since it was "billed" as an interview with the Prophet.
I, myself, am, guilty (from time-to-time) of being pleased when we are "liked" by contemporary society, but I don't believe that desire is the driving force in my view of myself, or the Doctrines of the Gospel.
The journalist seemed to imply that mindset throughout his article. The Mormon he described, wasn't the Mormon I know. Most of us are too busy trying to be like Jesus, to be bothered by what the world thinks of us.
Cynthia NielsenJanuary 26, 2021
We are so sorry to hear about Scot! He is in our prayers!
Melanie SteinJanuary 26, 2021
Very thoughtful commentary. Thank you for taking the time to think and write deeply, not superficially, about the article in The Atlantic. The Atlantic article was a "feel good" article, but as Bro. Hancock helped me see, we should consider our religion more deeply--how it fits in God's grand design, not how it fits in the design of social progressivism. I could go on, but Bro. Hancock says it far better than I.
Lynn BennionJanuary 26, 2021
This was a great insight into the Atlantic article. I so appreciate the way I was pointed toward Pres. Nelson's view that The Lord's Church has a purpose - and being popular, accepted in a modern, messed-up America or the World, for that matter, isn't it.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 26, 2021
Having read Coppins article I believe Mr. Hancock has done a masterful job of reviewing honestly and truthfully what was written. Thank you,
I would encourage you, Mr. Hancock , to use as open and analytical an eye to really evaluate what happened on January 6th. It has not been honestly and truthfully portrayed.
Marsha NewmanJanuary 26, 2021
I believe our church leaders are refraining from political issues because they do not want to give our enemies ANY reason to close down our temples or meeting places. We have no idea the thin line the church is walking in order to “fly under the radar.” God gave us all the information we need years ago when our President Benson warned us that the enemies of democracy were already infiltrating our government. He was scorned by many members of the church. Hang on tight - bumpy roads ahead! Don’t lose faith in our leaders.
Mike SheehanJanuary 26, 2021
I wholeheartedly agree with the proposition that Coppins' article is was undertaken from a politically progressive mindset. There seemed to be more focus on the needs of "natural man" vs. a person's spiritual and eternal needs.
Linda HardyJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you! I read the article at the time and came away confused by what I saw as “snark”. It almost felt like the writer was slyly mocking the church. Sometimes we need to control our sense of humor. (I share that problem.). At the same time, really explaining our thoughts clearly can be HARD! I appreciate your helping me better understand why the article bothered me, and why I should be less critical of the author.
Shelley StevensJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you so much for this wonderful podcast! I really needed to hear all that you shared. So many times I have felt like President Dalton's missionaries! I am trying hard to recognize and understand when I receive personal revelation. I received a lot of clarity in your podcast and even had a couple of "Bing" moments! Thank you! Prayers for a speedy recovery for Scot!
TammyJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you for publishing this article. I came away from reading Coppins article very unsatisfied and feeling that our entire faith had been reduced to nothing but a quest for popularity. I do not feel that he represented my feelings and beliefs in his article and wished for a more genuine review of the “Marvelous Work and Wonder” that this gospel is.
Alexander LarkinJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you, Lincoln! Your beautiful talk and testimony lifted me this morning and I am sure your words will help many others who have, and many continue to struggle.
Alex
AnnaJanuary 26, 2021
Thanks for such an excellent article, for which I have been hoping since Coppins' article appeared. Framing the majesty of divine work in human and sociological terms may be good journalism, but leaves one spiritually thirsty.
BenJanuary 26, 2021
This is absolutely fascinating. I’m sorry I’m just reading this now.
FrankJanuary 25, 2021
As long as two good, active members of the Church can feel that they are inspired to vote for two different parties and political philosophies, where is the unity? We get little advise on the matter from our leaders, due in part to the tax setup that is designed to reduce religious leaders from speaking out on politics, not to mention that in a world-wide church advice that is good in one country may be illegal in another. Nontheless, I miss Pres. MacKay's, Smith's and Benson's outspoken clear speaking.
Maryellen JenningsJanuary 25, 2021
I will use my free agency to refuse the vaccine. Since the fatality rate of the virus is just 0.26%., while the adverse effects are 2.79%. In 1948 the United States signed the Nuremberg Code where we are given informed consent. This means they cannot force something that is still an experimental vaccine.
Lani LarkinJanuary 25, 2021
PRIDE - destroys societies! 'PRIDE GOES BEFORE THE FALL'. But most of all (to me) destroys the individual.
I try to wrap my head around Narcissism and the damage to the individual and to society. Seems they are closely related like the article educates about pride vs narcissism but certainly much more intrusive to relationships - therefore society? Seems as I watch leaders among us we have a lot of Narcissists in control.
Ronald BarnesJanuary 25, 2021
Their numbers are few, compared to the whole, but many Jews have accepted Jesus as their Messiah. Some of them have joined the church.
Still, it appears to me, that most of them will not accept him until he returns.
ShaunaJanuary 25, 2021
thank you--wonderful comforting words, with a great perspective from my great, great grandfather:) We must put our lives in order and realize that God is ultimately in charge
SueJanuary 25, 2021
If you were the adversary, and you wanted to stop the rescue on earth and in heaven, what would you do? Isn't it interesting how the pandemic scare has led to Temple closures, masking, social distancing and fear? If there is any place on earth where faith and deliverance are manifest, it is in the Temples of God. Are we lacking in sufficient faith to defy the arm of flesh (the government) and flock to the Temples to engage in the work of salvation and deliverance for our ancestors? Are we lacking in sufficient faith to trust that God has the power to cleanse His House from any pathogen and make it a safe place for His children to come and participate in His work? Thanks for a very thought provoking article.
Wayne R.January 24, 2021
In additional to food storage, we have been counseled repeatedly to get out of debt and stay that way. If you lose your job, how long before you lose your car? We are near an economic peak and the bubble could burst at any time in the next year or two.
carolynJanuary 24, 2021
Thank goodness there is a better plan now. Those would sustain life but not very happily. We have much better methods of preserving food now to last much longer and our knowledge of nutrition is also much improved. Much more fun to have a supply with variety. On the TotallyReady facebook page we began the year with a program to post a food to store each week and the first week was dessert! A not so appealing meal is made so much better when you know dessert is coming!
John ChaseJanuary 24, 2021
The fate of the nation has already been sealed and the Lord knows the outcome. What we are called to do and should do is assist or be the angels in gathering the wheat from the tares.
I do not like the decline of the moral fabric of our nation, which I fought for. However, I realize that the treasure laid up in Heaven is the work we do for the Lord. While Mormon and his son, Moroni, saw the decline of the Nephite nation they looked for souls to save from a field nearly overrun with tares.
Mike GriffithJanuary 24, 2021
You can put a parental control program on his phone that will keep record of any website he accesses on his phone. Some such programs will also block inappropriate content, based on the settings you choose.
The worst mistake I've seen some parents make is to refrain from using anti-porn software for fear of "offending" their kids and for fear of "making them feel like we don't trust them." Trust has nothing to do with it. You are protecting them from a deadly poison.
Frankie LimJanuary 24, 2021
I really love this article. It has increased and strengthened my faith and will treasure it for life.
Thank you so much.
LyndaJanuary 23, 2021
There is an amazing group of parents and professionals that are a blessing and a resource (personal experience with one of my boys brought me to them theuna referral from our Bishop to an LDS therapist). Check out Sons Of Helamon. They support parents and youth.
StefanieJanuary 23, 2021
To Janine Snarr- as the 2nd coming draws nigh, you will see a sifting take place. Those members that want to “ leave the church” will find any excuse. It’s depressing the wheat & the tares.
Debra WoodsJanuary 23, 2021
Loved this article and LOVED the book, by the author, that it came from. I highly recommend it!
Ken ButlerJanuary 22, 2021
The pendulum of thought swings right then left. Rarely does it stop in the middle. But we should work to see that it does. It helps to ask about policies or proposals this question. Is this ok, or is it discrimination in reverse?
TamJanuary 22, 2021
I disagree with Pam. The video is not demeaning and accusatory. It simply states facts about what the Illinois school curriculum is and what it seeks to achieve. What is demeaning is the assumption that everyone who is white is racist. It is demeaning to be judged by someone to be racist because of my skin color. The fact that this type of indoctrination is acceptable in the most racially fair country on earth is demeaning. I do not accept the idea that I have held racist attitudes. I have always tried to live the gospel of Jesus Christ wherein I treat people with respect and kindness no matter what their skin color. If I have fallen short it is not intentionally. I will continue to do my best to live as Jesus Christ taught. The school curriculum described in this video does not allow people to do this.
Joyce TerryJanuary 22, 2021
We were advised in the 60's to put away wheat, honey, powdered milk, salt, rice, corn. We had a ton of wheat put away. We were to have a two year supply so we would share with others.
Diane IrwinJanuary 22, 2021
FASCINATING!!!
PamJanuary 22, 2021
Thank you!
I agree with Alece. Fearing for his life and on such an important errand from the Lord,
he would definitely have the strength to do such a feat.
Jenine SnarrJanuary 22, 2021
I was hoping for an article that could really help with the political contention happening within LDS wards that is causing people to stop attending meetings.
I would also like you address the issue some people have about the Prophet advising us to wear masks. Some people are leaving the church over it. In my eye, that's a medical issue which our prophet is very competent to advise on. He's just wanting us to stay healthy.
GordonJanuary 22, 2021
Emily,I loved the article. I understand so much about you and appreciate you even more. Continue the work.
Ronald BarnesJanuary 22, 2021
Another interesting fact: During Passover, the Jews set aside a cup of wine for Elijah. They expect him to arrive during Passover in preparation for the coming of the Messiah. It was on the 2nd day of Passover in 1836 that Elijah appeared to Joseph and Oliver in the Kirtland Temple.
Elaine LitsterJanuary 22, 2021
What a marvelous researched article. For seven years I taught at a private school associated with Church of the Living Word. (a relatively new Christian Church) They celebrated Biblical festivals and I vividly recall the day long activities wherein the children were divided into tribes for the Feast of the Tabernacles and spent their day in their family tent. I look forward to sharing this article with them!
AngieJanuary 22, 2021
Thank you for putting this down in writing, powerful ideologies that need to be made aware.
Also enjoyed the comment by ‘Shauna’- spoken like someone with first hand experience.
Gary LawrenceJanuary 21, 2021
Were Alma and Amulek evil for pointing out the pride of the followers of Nehor?
N. AndertonJanuary 21, 2021
I consider myself a fairly educated person, having a politacal science degree from BYU with a 3.9 GPA, an avid reader and a life-long desire to always expanding my learning - and yet I could not understand most of what was said in this article! I am 76 years old, and perhaps I have just not kept up with the changing language of the times? It would help if you could remember the broad background of your audience so the average Latter-day Saint member could relate these important concepts in a manner that we could help! I do believe we need to all we can to teach our children at home as much as possible - it was newrly impossible when my children were growing up and often illegal unless you had a teaching certificate - but it seems quite common now in some of the wards I have lived in where parents band together so they can contribute their different areas of expertise and the students can have the socialization that was often lacking in the earlier home-schooling period. If you have followed some of the more radical political goals of the newly-elected administration, they propose it being illegal to have private schools or for any chile to not attend their public schools, and their curriculum will include de-programming. It will be more important than ever to know what the children are being taught in school and to counteract by whatever means feasible outside of a possibly forced school setting. And pray a lot for the Lord's assistance!
Joanne S KappJanuary 21, 2021
Loved this article. Especially related to the Primary/RS - RS/Primary experience. As I look back on my life, I realize more and more the richness added to my life through the association with my fellow ward members. A treasure to me.
ShaunaJanuary 21, 2021
Thanks for the heads up. I grew up in Illinois and am currently living in Utah, where some of these same issues are surfacing in my school District and I'm alarmed to say the least. I studied these theories as a Ph. D candidate in the late 90'--they are ideas and philosophies--theories, full of academic speak. But to see that they are now becoming public policy has been surreal to me. Make no mistake about it-- this is a zero sum game narrative, complete with "villains, " and "heroes," There is no attempt for reconciliation or harmony. Influenced by Marxist theory, there is the Bourgeoisie or the ruling class and the Proletartiat or the working class--the aim is simply inverting those 2 groups. Feminist, racial and gay studies and theory also each have a 'winner' and a loser: women over men, black or color over white, homosexual over heterosexual and eventually the complete dismantling of gender, positing that all of these categories are "socially" constructed. It is a lie that these are attempts to promote "equality" or "equity" in our society--the narrative is based on a power struggle framework and seeks to take power from one group and give it to another. We desperately need alternate ways of thinking to this dogma. As a disciple of Jesus Christ, I am seeking ideas that promote "unity amid diversity." --not diversity over unity
John SowaJanuary 21, 2021
I appreciated how you cited President Nelson saying that one could grow into the principle of revelation (Jan 2021 Liahona). As I understand it, this comes from the following Joseph Smith quote. “A person may profit by noticing the first intimation of the spirit of revelation; for instance, when you feel pure intelligence flowing into you, it may give you sudden strokes of ideas, so that by noticing it, you may find it fulfilled the same day or soon; (i.e.) those things that were presented unto your minds by the Spirit of God, will come to pass; and thus by learning the Spirit of God and understanding it, you may grow into the principle of revelation, until you become perfect in Christ Jesus.” https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/teachings-joseph-smith/chapter-10?lang=eng
Elaine LaytonJanuary 21, 2021
I am old and I do not remember the prophet who said this, however I remember it very clearly. He said: The day will come when it will be necessary to teach your children at home. This is not an actual quote but how I remember it. I don't believe this was meaning the time of COVID 19. I did at one time teach one of my children from home for a few years. I ordered what I felt like were good books and taught from them. It was a positive experience for both me and the child.
JeanneJanuary 21, 2021
Great article with this summary it is easy to share this hope with other people in this day and time people are actually coming to hear words of hope
Michael RobertsJanuary 21, 2021
A lovely article, but I would add that it is important to keep a sense of balance and proportionality. For example, seeing all of politics strictly through the Book of Mormon can lead to some odd and inappropriate applications of Captain Moroni.
Karell BinghamJanuary 21, 2021
Most importantly: Ordinances. That which offers a ratification of the blessing promised!
A. BinghamJanuary 21, 2021
I enjoyed reading this article. Interestingly, just after reading this, I flipped over to Quillette, a writer's blog site I follow, and this article was just posted. The writer provides an indepth literary analysis of the growing Birthstrike Movement that is sweeping across Europe and among the 20 somethings' here in the US. It is real and is/will transform our society, economically, socially, and politically, at all levels. https://quillette.com/2021/01/20/birthstrike-the-movement-to-end-all-movements/
SteveJanuary 21, 2021
As an independent with moderate leanings to the right, I am a bit concerned by the force of your arguments. Surely you recognize that bias and racism exist in our society; and that we need to strive towards the constitutional ideal of "all men are created equal."
Obviously we are not there yet in "racism, sexism, homophobia, unearned privilege, Eurocentrism.” While I do not advocate dire mechanisms to get there, I firmly believe that, as God's children, we desire to improve in these areas. We should be involved in offering alternatives that lead us in the right direction without being radical.
I don't know how to make progress on systemic racism without some work toward addressing: "The new Illinois standards also mandate that teachers embrace ideas like 'systemic racism'.”
Please offer ideas on what we can do effectively without becoming radical on either side. Thanks.
Colleen FreebornJanuary 21, 2021
Absolutely loved your article. The Blessings are real. I just wish all Wards did as much as others.
Candace NielsenJanuary 21, 2021
As always, Lynne, wonderful ideas, beautifully expressed.
Jane doeJanuary 21, 2021
Please write an article about how singles have learned to deal with life without "the church ".... it doesn't mean singles don't have a testimony or they don't live their Savior or they don't keep covenants but the reality is there are No callings ( especially for elderly single women) ministering is done over the phone,getting priesthood blessings is done over the phone, studying come follow me is done alone( maybe over the phone if someone let's you in on zoom) singles don't feel a need for church other than getting the sacrament .... could you get a different perspective on how one does or doesn't need the church?
Harold StuartJanuary 21, 2021
This article is a somber reminder to not believe everything you read, especially when it comes from anti-mormon literature. There is too much at stake.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
Perhaps one of the greatest evils of pride is labeling OTHERS as prideful. Worse yet is pointing it out in our conversations. Regardless of what we see or hear, the reading of another's heart should be left to the Lord. I like SPW's comment: "Let us always look at ourselves first before pointing fingers elsewhere." I would add to that--if we really feel the need to shine a spotlight on pride, let's use examples of our OWN pride, rather than someone else's. The only pride we need concern ourselves with is the pride in our own hearts.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
I was a little reluctant to return to our Sacrament Meetings at church because I had been enjoying the wonderful spirit of our home worship meetings so much. I was also frustrated because the speakers wear masks, even though there is a plexi barrier around the pulpit. Because I have a hearing loss, this makes it impossible to hear very much at all. However, I have found that it is such a blessing just to be WITH THE SAINTS! I am also able to enjoy the music and the renewing of my Sacrament covenants. I love pondering the words of our hymns. I am so grateful to be part of a congregation who love the Lord and want to follow Him. I continuously find that joining with the Saints every Sunday and covenanting with the Savior is a great strength to my soul.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
Even though I know it isn't possible, my heart always yearns for a different ending every time I read the Book of Mormon. It hurts when I read of a people who had been given so many choice blessings, and yet they fell into such deep sin and eventual self-destruction. As we witness many today who are turning away from God's laws, I am seeing a spiritual numbness taking place. True followers of Jesus Christ need to be a shining, positive influence more now than ever. Those who are seeking the light will be drawn to what we have when we live the gospel and reach out in love and kindness. Our light will shine even brighter in contrast to a darkening world. I am so grateful for the counsel of our Prophets and Apostles, and also the assurances we have that the Church will stand, and there will be a righteous people prepared to receive the Savior when he comes again. Consistently reading the Book of Mormon is essential to help us press forward in fulfilling the great responsibilities the Lord has given o us to prepare ourselves and those around us for this great event.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
I just recently read a scripture about judging that touched my heart so much. It is D&C 82:23 "Leave judgement alone with me, for it is mine...Peace be with you; my blessings continue with you." This verse makes it so clear that our Savior wants us to have the peace that comes when we are kind and withhold judgement. He doesn't want us to experience the heaviness that comes with judging another. He is taking care of a righteous judgement, and He has relieved us of carrying that burden! What a gift and blessing! I completely agree with you, Joni, about the energy that comes from kindness. When I do something kind, even if it's just a phone call, I feel spiritually lifted and energized.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
I will be 70 this year and have struggled with fear about being immunized with the COVID vaccine. This article really helps me have the courage to go ahead with it. Thank you so much for this message from President Nelson!
Brent BartonJanuary 20, 2021
Maureen, what a wonderful and inspired article! Your message as well as the summary are spot on for us today and especially for me. I also followed your link and enjoyed listening to the entire talk from Neal A Maxwell which was truly prophetic and timely even back in 1978 but really for us today. His remarks in the same talk on foreordination were also important words for us all to hear and remember especially today. Thank you!
SPWJanuary 20, 2021
Pride can show up in many ways and affects all of us. Let us always look at ourselves first before pointing fingers elsewhere.
Angela MannJanuary 20, 2021
Your words speak to my soul! This article and the one you wrote for Independence Day, have reached inside of me and shaken me. Your website has been instrumental in helping me to focus through that scriptural lens spoken of, to Follow the Savior and to commit to building a Zion society, starting in my own home.
Laurie SomesJanuary 20, 2021
I want to be as smart and as inspired as you when I grow up.
JoJanuary 20, 2021
Judge not for ye shall be judged
Sue PrueJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you McKay for the wonderful reminder of the truthfulness of the Restoration and what a blessing it is to be the recipients through so much sacrifice.
Elder OJanuary 20, 2021
This great man was my mission president in the California San Jose Mission. I was not aware that he had these issues. He was always so upbeat and positive and encouraging to us Senior Missionaries. He was so much of an influence on the young missionaries as well. I am grateful for the fact that through all his troubles, he was a driving force in that mission and did so much for everyone he touched.
I am blessed to know him and his awesome wife.
Lois MiddletonJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you for sharing these important truth, Sister Maurine!! It is so sad to me to see what is happening in our country. Thank Heavens for the Missionaries and for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints!!
Karla MenhennetJanuary 20, 2021
This hits the truth 100%. I had not been focused on the right things, so now, I am off of social media and most news. I realized that this world is temporary and what is truly important to me is Eternal. So grateful for the Gospel, that steers my life. Blessings!
CMJanuary 20, 2021
Love this article. I can relate- I had awful anxiety for the better part of 15 years. I was never really medicated but as a way to control the anxiety I would not allow myself to feel much of anything. I used physical tension, situation avoidance and many distractions as a way to avoid feeling any emotion that was intense. This led to even more anxiety and more efforts to block it. Unfortunately I didn’t realize that’s what I was doing- and also unfortunately, if you don’t allow yourself to feel emotions, it’s much harder to feel the Spirit. Fortunately, the Spirit was able to break thru my haze a few times to help me understand that “my problem was not anxiety...I was afraid to feel.” In hindsight, I know that my crazy struggle with anxiety was all part of some hands on experience for some much needed lessons. Feelings are important. Our thoughts create our feelings (subconscious thoughts included) and knowing exactly what is going on in our minds is vitally important. Many of us are carrying around literal emotional baggage in the form of unprocessed emotions, false beliefs and negative thinking patterns that are affecting us in ways we aren’t even aware of. Uncovering this stuff is incredibly freeing and it has solidified my belief that God is fully aware of us and loves us so much. Though we can’t see the full picture, these painful experiences are ultimately for our good. Don’t give up!
Karell BinghamJanuary 20, 2021
Also, by Sommerset Maughan
If a nation values anything more than freedom, he will lose his freedom. And the irony of the matter is, if it o
is wealth that it values more, it will lose them too!
Excellent article with profound truths.January 20, 2021
Excellent article with profound truths.
KarenJanuary 20, 2021
I found your statement "People who experience depression and anxiety have a hard time feeling the Spirit" to be an answer to me in how to understand myself better and my inactive daughter. I now have an idea of how to approach her! Thank you!!
Deanna SasserJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you so much for your insight and thoughtful wisdom. We don’t know what to pray for anymore—just blessings that our freedom will be preserved!!
Diane MortensenJanuary 20, 2021
Maureen, what a great article! We are fighting for righteous principles. When, we, as a nation no longer support God and his laws. When we fail to elect those who value God's laws. When we divide ourselves and teach hatred of any kind. When we are religiously intolerant. When we silence voices who disagree with us. That pretty much sums up a nation ready for destruction.
Ruth JamiesonJanuary 20, 2021
So true! Wonderful words.
James ScottJanuary 20, 2021
First response: exasperation! Then I thot, she could have had a wonderful wry response about how well he acted but that she had failed in her communication and also that the exhausted but accomplished ice ballet dancer obeyed his sweetheart so well.
RobertJanuary 20, 2021
I call it "Boasting by Posting"
KJBJanuary 20, 2021
You've described Trump to a tee. Kudos.
PrestonJanuary 20, 2021
This is such a great reminder full of Book of Mormon examples. How blessed we are to know/remember these things! Neal A Maxwell has some prophetic insight speaking back in 1978. Wow, he describes our day in which we live 40 years previously. There is no doubt in my mind of the truthfulness of the Lords Prophets and Apostles. This article was really well written.
CarolineJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you for this article. It speaks so much to my life too. I call the past experiences I have had where I have KNOWN God was with me and heard my prayers my Ebenezars and remember during times of darkness to "raise my Ebenezers." My best to you in the future!
CHARLES DEFRANCHIJanuary 20, 2021
Dear Anne, Oh how comforting this reading was to me! May the Lord bless you for relating such stories. Those are troubled times and it helps so much being able to "see beyond the veil". May you be greatly blessed for your stories.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 20, 2021
You nailed it. I am amazed at good Latter-day Saints who will not liken scriptures unto our day. We must awaken to our awful situation because the Book of Mormon gives us the blueprint for our future if we do not see things as they truly are. Thank you for a great resource in helping others to see.,
CHARLES DEFRANCHIJanuary 20, 2021
So true, and one of the most remarkable speeches on the subject was, "Are Ye Stripped of Pride" by Elder Kim B. Clark. Now I wonder what is meant by, "we have seen a recent example". Who are we talking about? Or would this be left to readers to figure? Thanks!
vickieJanuary 19, 2021
I didnt read the entire thing..i didnt have to. i suffered from major depression and anxiety disorder. i didnt take medication for many years until i had a hysterectomy and was put on a tricyclic antidepressant. this antidepressant helped me with sleep and eating. without taking medcine for so long i had to watch myself constantly not to get too anxious or take on too much. when i was put on the medcine low and behold i discovered i had really bad social anxiety ..because it took it away. i was able to do more that i was never able to do ...like go to college at 38yrs old..i actually felt normal and could feel the spirit...the reason i didnt take meds for so long was because i didnt want anything to control me or my feelings. well, it didnt...i actually felt normal...i stayed on. until i was told i dont need to take that ...when i tried to get off i had seizures. i tried several times and each time i had seizures. so now im on seizure meds...that scared me too. now im on the newer drugs ..which helps mainly anxiety disorder. i feel normal....how fortunate i am to have something that helps me to feel like myself and to have the spirit with me...it didnt take that away from me...there are some meds that can cause problems and you have to realize that and try another. i did learn that spending time suffering for so long with no help isnt worth it...i also did talk therapy...when its genetic inborn....its different then being depressed over something...i actually dont have a problem with that...i have learned its good to have a good doctor...and the right medication and sometimes talk therapy....and prayer is always at the start guiding one to the correct treatment. im so happy that most of the stigma is going away..so people can get the help they need. I thank the Lord for every moment in my life He has helped me. i am a mother of 5 kids and a husband who was airforce.
HeidiJanuary 19, 2021
I have also had the experience of not being able to feel the spirit while being medicated. I am so glad to know others have had that same experience.... meaning, I'm glad to know I am not the only one. It is true. Medication can help and hinder us. I appreciate your article. I thought I might be going crazy because I couldn't feel the spirit... no one talks about this. I am glad to see this finally addressed!
Shauna StephensonJanuary 19, 2021
We need to be very careful about what we say, making sure our words are correct and truthful. While it has been widely reported that the House has forbidden the use of gender specific terms, such as Mother, Father, Sister, brother, instead using gender neutral terms such as Parent or Sibling, that is not true, even though it comes from a partial nugget of truth.
At the beginning of each session of the House, a document of rules is drawn up. It is true that this document uses only gender neutral terms. It applies to THIS DOCUMENT ONLY. It would have no bearing on the continued ability of House members to use gender-specific language in drafting legislation and resolutions, making speeches, or conducting a debate.
While it is regrettable that the leadership of the House found this necessary to do, and it may forecast more restrictive rules in the future, let us not be guilty of spreading hysteria and and divisiveness unnecessarily. Let us choose words carefully that convey the truth.
The General Handbook of Instructions (38.8.45) titled “ Seeking Information from Reliable Sources” cautions us:
“In today’s world, information is easy to access and share. This can be a great blessing for those seeking to be educated and informed. However, many sources of information are unreliable and do not edify. Some sources seek to promote anger, contention, fear, or baseless conspiracy theories (see 3 Nephi 11:30; Mosiah 2:32). Therefore, it is important that Church members be wise as they seek truth.
Members of the Church should seek out and share only credible, reliable, and factual sources of information. They should avoid sources that are speculative or founded on rumor. The guidance of the Holy Ghost, along with careful study, can help members discern between truth and error (see Doctrine and Covenants 11:12; 45:57). In matters of doctrine and Church policy, the authoritative sources are the scriptures, the teachings of the living prophets, and the General Handbook.”
PamJanuary 19, 2021
I would suggest anyone who watches this reread President's Oaks conference talk Oct 2020: Just a portion: "In public actions and in our personal attitudes, we have had racism and related grievances... “racism thrives on hatred, oppression, collusion, passivity, indifference and silence.” As citizens and as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we must do better to help root out racism." Please notice the words "indifference and silence". As Latter-day Saints, we cannot remain indifferent or silent on this issue - this applies to schools. President Oaks has asked us to "do better" We need to do everything we can to change the climate of racism that exists in our country. If the way they are going about it in your school, then bring influence for good and follow the counsel of President Oaks and President Nelson. They spoke boldy to us about what we need to be doing as members of the church - LOVE and RESPECT for everyone came out clear and strong. We need to model that in our words and actions. This video does not reflect this attitude. Instead of giving suggestions for accomplishing what has been asked of us, it is very accusatory and demeaning.
Lana WellsJanuary 19, 2021
I, thankfully do not suffer from depression, however I do have many acquaintances that do. I find myself so concerned about them and their spiritual well-being, but not able to truly help them. Through your article I now, at least, can more fully understand what they are experiencing and in tiny ways help them to know that although they may not be feeling the Spirit, the Spirits is still abiding with them and ready to help.
Harold RustJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you. As illustrated in this article, recording a special spiritual experience is, indeed, an important source for retaining the spirit. The first time I felt the heavens open in a genuine and sweet way for me, I assumed such an experience would now be fairly common. And yet only one other time in my life have I felt that all-powerful direct connection to the spirit world. I've felt inspired many times, but only twice when I knew it was a distinct window into spiritual communication. I'm glad I wrote those experiences down at the time because I can feel again that influence when reading them later.
JamesJanuary 19, 2021
I suffer from depression too. This article brought to light some of the issues I have had where it felt as though the Spirit had stopped talking to me despite my pleadings for communication. Those were also the most darkest times of my life and it came to the point of either I got stronger medicine (for the worsening depression) or did something drastic like checking out of life. After I had what used to be called a 'nervous breakdown' my Doctor felt like I should switch to a completely different type of medication (used to mainly treat anxiety). Within a few days it felt like the light was turned back on in my life and the depression began to fade. Because of this article I realize, looking back, it was the medication. I am grateful that the Lord heard my plea and inspired my Doctor to know what help I needed to treat the depression, but most of all, to help me hear him once more. It is amazing how I was blocked from hearing him, but had no problem hearing the adversary.
Through all of this, even though I was struggling to hear the Lord, I still kept my faith, still went to Church, and still kept my covenants. I went through the motions and although I felt many times that I should just walk away because my testimony was waning, I stayed. God still heard my prayers even though I couldn't hear the answers.
NanJanuary 19, 2021
Scot and Maurine
Thank you so much for these podcasts. We love studying with you each week. Your background and experiences have added a rich historical and geographical dimension to the scriptures.
We are especially enjoying this new year, where the podcasts have been void of advertisements of products for sale. As much as we have loved the podcasts and your insights into the scriptures, we haven't felt that we could recommend them to our friends and family, for that one reason. If this continues, we will stand on the rooftops and tell everyone. Could those products be advertised on the website instead?
PamJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you for your timely article. As a sufferer of depression and anxiety, it was good to read your comment about the difficulty of feeling the Spirit while on medications for these things.
One can sit through a meeting and feel pretty much nothing. It's very discouraging so I was very pleased to read your words!
Thank you, thank you.
This will be printed and re-read!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 19, 2021
Without any doubt, the transgender ideology is a blatant attack by Satan on the family, and also a deceptive ploy to confuse people regarding their identity. I love President Nelson's address "Let God Prevail" from our most recent general conference. He said "Satan is no longer even trying to hide his attacks on God's plan. Emboldened evil abounds." He then counselled us to "let God prevail in our lives." In the midst of so much deception in our world today, our only hope is to consistently seek the Spirit, and to make sure that the influence of the Holy Ghost in our lives PREVAILS over every other influence. The scriptures promise that as we take the Holy Spirit for our guide, we will not be deceived.
Stewart LangJanuary 19, 2021
My wife made the comment that try carrying a 10lb -20lb baby along with a car seat and getting from point A to B and opening doors!!! LOL
P.S. Our oldest of 4 was 9lb 15oz at birth and she is 5ft too - check those arms on our young mothers!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 19, 2021
The truths in this article are needed desperately right now in our time of unique trials. I especially appreciate the validation for my struggle that it is sometimes hard to feel the spirit when you are depressed. I agree that reviewing our lives can help us see our blessings and remind us of the times we HAVE felt the spirit. I find keeping a journal is invaluable for this. When we feel the Spirit, we need to write down our experience! It will strengthen us on the days we are struggling.
IngridJanuary 19, 2021
Beautifully written and gives me hope for the future, knowing that today’s young people are wise and kind.
WandaJanuary 19, 2021
Excellent message! There are so many questions that I don't know how to answer...but there are far more answers than I'm fully able to comprehend. Trying to implement what I do know is a joyous journey!
Haze K.January 19, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences of having difficulty feeling The Spirit. I thought I was the only active, believing member who has this difficulty.
Your description is perfect:
"I suffer from depression and take medication so that I can have a decent quality of life. Sometimes I feel pretty good, other times I just close my eyes and try to survive the day, hoping that after the long night, the sun will rise and tomorrow will be better."
I become frustrated when others describe "quick" inspiration and I feel numb and out of touch with The Spirit.
I hold on tightly to the times when I do feel the Spirit testifying to me. Cherished moments.
Some say, don't take your psych meds and you will feel the Spirit more easily. Perhaps this would be true. But I've tried that. I become unable to work, deal with daily life. It isn't a realistic option for me.
As I said, thank you for courageously sharing your story. So relieved to know I am not alone.
CarolJanuary 19, 2021
Are brown, black and any color people racist? It sure sounds like it!
CarolJanuary 19, 2021
I have copied your article and will read and reread it. I never knew that depression and taking meds was the reason that I have such a hard time feeling the Spirit. I thought it was me and my hard heart. Thank you for your insight you have lighten my soul!
Susan CarterJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you for being so candid!! I have mild depression and anxiety. I struggle to recognize the spirit. BUT I know even though', that God loves me and helps me!
Linda NeubauerJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you for sharing this message. It helped me understand and bolstered my faith. I printed it so that I could refer to it again and again.
GinaJanuary 18, 2021
It’s just like picking up my 6 year old to play with him or carry him around. 45-60 isn’t that much, esp with adrenaline going, and momentum (he was running downhill, after all).
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 18, 2021
My husband could have done all that with little effort. He was farm boy. He used to carry heavy bales of hay and throw them on the hay truck. He carried 100 pound sacks of potatoes. When we served a mission, the missionaries were so astonished at his strength. Not one of his students could ever beat him in arm wrestling. Of course, Joseph could do all that heavy lifting and running. He was farm boy.
Alece ReynoldsJanuary 18, 2021
I remember a set of young male missionaries who were helping our daughter move. They repeatedly carried packed, Rubbermaid 18 gallon tubs -- one under each arm -- up a set of stairs -- while nearly running up those stairs. The rest of us were gobsmacked watching them as we had trouble carrying one tub at a time up those stairs at a walking pace! The Bishop who had been watching this chalked it up to bottled up testosterone run amok! I think that fearing for his life would have given a very strong young Joesph Smith enough adrenalin to get the job done!
Judy BrooksJanuary 18, 2021
Ken Mazzanti, thank you for your comment! I agree wholeheartedly. I well remember President Ezra Taft Benson in general conference, telling us to "study the Constitution". It was so odd to me at the time...Our ...Watchman on the tower delivered such an amazing message, as he so prophetcally foresaw this day and time!
Sasha KwapinskiJanuary 18, 2021
by migrating out west in 1846/47, the saints essentially removed themselves or got themselves out of the way of the fury which was to soon vex the nation. That fury certainly did vex the nation just over a decade later .
Corey D.January 18, 2021
excellent article, I have heard some interesting and maybe almost horrifiying stories recently about people losing businesses or business opportunities or getting death threats or their family being threatened or scholarships being pulled because of political or social opinions they have voiced or in one case somebody found something in a high school yearbook from way back and posted it and it destroyed the individuals business. Cancel Culture/Political Correctness is most prominent right now with politics but it has a part that is very specific to religion, particularly to Christian religions which also includes the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, especially those who follow scriptural teachings on morality, especially marriage. A personal example, just a month or two ago a co-worker said, "come look at this". It was a policy announcement on the company's intranet site that said they would no longer be hiring from BYU because BYU did not have an LGBT+ policy that fit their company policy. There are quite a few BYU graduates, some pretty high up in my division, I had to wonder if any replied to this or they just let it go.This is a very large company, a multinational company who's work is mostly with the government, a direct violation of the 1st amendment, but people are scared for their jobs and the Cancel Culture know this and they wield tremendous influence in corporate America right now. Like one of my co-workers said one day, it was corporate America that killed the Boy Scouts.There is also a Cancel Culture specific to the LDS church, there is a concerted effort (guess you could say renewed) that has been going on for a couple of years now, aided by the internet, it seeks to discredit Joseph Smith and some other leaders of the church, notably Brigham Young, Spencer W. Kimball, Ezra Taft Benson, Bruce R. McKonkie and a few others. There is a reason the leaders of the church have been emphasizing strong personal testimonies for a some years now and encouraging family and home study and President Nelson emphasizing personal revelation and the church posting essays etc. We need to diligently and correctly study it all out.
Harold RustJanuary 18, 2021
Thanks. This article professionally and methodically reviews the unknowns for those taking the vaccination. Society as a whole has a larger issue to sort out: when we take into account what we "know" about the vaccine and what we "know" about consequences of continuing our current social distancing and disengagement, at what stage do we allow more local freedom of movement and individual choice/discretion? If we place far more emphasis on waiting to "know" more about the vaccination than we place on moving ahead to minimize the negative aspect of distancing, then we have lost our sense of balance. At some point General Washington concluded he needed to go ahead and vaccinate his soldiers in the winter of 1775 despite the reality some just might die from that process. His decision saved the army and our country.
David BoardmanJanuary 18, 2021
I really appreciate this article. In a lot of ways I feel that our out going President has been treated much the same way as the Prophet Joseph Smith. The forces of evil and deception have been combined to destroy him and the so many good things that have been accomplished and as the young boy Joseph was silenced in the Grove so to has our President been silenced in the media. So many parallels in our society by the government to the Book of Mormon are being played out before our very eyes of power and corruption.
Ken MazzantiJanuary 18, 2021
It is evident from the very Declaration of Independence that after seeking a redress of grievances, there comes a time when the yoke of bondage and repression must be thrown off. Our Founding Fathers did not have the benefit of a living prophet to signal when that time might be, but they did have the Light of Christ to guide their conscience and their actions. I have that same light. I have the gift of The Holy Ghost. I will defend my God given liberty against all oppression. I, for one, will not be in bondage to anyone or any government. I will die on my feet before I live on my knees. If you want to be a sheep, that is your privilege, but I am a sheepdog. I will protect and defend the flock.
Laurie SomesJanuary 18, 2021
Thank you for your insights Maurine. I really needed this article to help me with my "going forward attitude".
Lora KinderJanuary 18, 2021
We might add that God DID punish the nation. Just two decades later, the United States experienced a terrible civil war that affected nearly every family in the country. The battle deaths were on Book of Mormon levels. Abraham Lincoln came to realize that "God wills this contest" and urged the nation to hold days of prayer and repentance. If we look at the civil war in scriptural language, it could look like this:
"For behold, they did murder the prophet, they did drive out the righteous from among them, the temple of God they did destroy, and they did grind the faces of the poor (slavery)." When Abraham Lincoln gave his Gettysburg address, he might very well have been concerned that government of the people, by the people, and for the people might very well perish from the earth. Had they not repented, God might very well have swept this nation from the earth as He did the Jaredites and the Nephites.
Russell Rich CannonJanuary 18, 2021
This critical time in Church History is so relevant to our times right now in the United States. Thank you Maurine for putting in words the thoughts that I have had as I sadly watch anarchy in the streets of Washington. We can all learn from Brother Joseph and how the Lord directed his prophet to respond to the outrageous Extermination Order. What an important time to be studying the Doctrine & Covenants and Church History!
KelJanuary 18, 2021
Great timely article!! Thank you.
KathleenJanuary 17, 2021
Thank you - refreshing, positive, thought provoking, with great documentation and quotes.
Linda WillisJanuary 17, 2021
This was a brilliant article packed with thought provoking comments that rang true. I will share it with many friends.
Jeanette S. PaulJanuary 17, 2021
My husband and I faithfully listen to your excellent podcasts every Sunday. I always learn something new (and take lots of screenshots to review when I have some down time). I'm always drawn to your very informative (and sometimes life-changing) articles. Thank you for your great work!
Nadine AndertonJanuary 17, 2021
There are many things that can be said about the events on Jan.6 ay the Capital. Most, if not all, is one-sided from the main-stream news outlets, which speak with one voice. The voice of one side is mostly silenced. Have you noticed that? Thankfully we will always have the voice of the Lord through our Prophet and other church leaders whom we can rely on and should always follow. We also have our scriptures. Can we look at this from a non-partisan viewpoint? We just finished a year of intensively studying the Book of Mormon. We learn that America was designated as a "Promised Land" which was reserved for those who served the Savior, and we read of times that even the formerly righteous became so wicked that they were utterly destroyed. We know that that we have been blessed with a sacred Constitution which was written by men inspired by the Lord himself to preserve the agency and freedoms that we were blessed to have if we kept coovenants and commandments that came with having this Promised Land. We have been told of a time when this Constitution would be endangered by the followers of Satan and we were charged with protecting it. I have been reading and watching old addresses by former Prophets and Apostles and other church leaders about Communism (and Socialism, which is the same) and the dangers it presents to us. So to simplify this a little, because it is a very complicated story, we have on one hand a party whose leader loves America and the Constitution, who has taken great steps to strengthen our country in many ways (and like many Book of Mormon leaders, at no salary!) On the other hand, we have a party whose leaders have strong ties with the leading Communist country in the worl at the present time (which has profesed intentions to rule the entire world and bring down America) and these leaders have plans which would destroy the very freedoms we have covenanted to protect. Of course every member of either party is not committed to that party's goals. No one is claiming that. Back briefly to the election. Forget about whether or not election fraud can be proven. The opposition on Jan.6 came down to whether the Constitution was violated. The US constitution stated that ONLY the legislators of each individual state could make the rules as to how their elections could be conducted, and in every questionable state, at least, the rulesn had been changed illegally, which made fraud possible and impossible to determine. That was what was being contested, not who actually won. One side wanted to protect America, the other side wanted to radically transform it. Each of us should seek, through much sincere prayer and through following the counsel of our Prophet, to receive a testimony of the Holy Ghost how we should conduct ourselves. We should not make a blanket judgment on the actions of others based on what the "winning" side says, or on what the media says. I'm sure you realize that a lot of members voted for the "losing" candidate? Even he said supported the peaceful transference of power and condemned the violence (which he did not incite, if you actually look at his speech and that it was given hours before the break-in occurred). No, I have not made up my mind. I am still praying to know. But "by their fruits ye shall know them."
pamJanuary 17, 2021
Thank you for sharing these beautiful experiences with the readers to lift us and remind us how think the veil can be!
I have "felt" my own grandmother come to me and knew she was near and watching out for me. It was a remarkable experience.
Thank you for the uplift today Anne.
PamJanuary 17, 2021
I loved your article! Thank you for taking the time to write it.
It's welcome for us to look inwardly and be a cause for peace, not discord. There is enough political discord isn't there. We shouldn't bring it to "church" if you will.
I have printed a copy and it will be re-read and highlighted. Thank you.
DON WATKINSJanuary 17, 2021
Grant you live what you preach! What you preach is the plan and love of God. Thank You.
CB DouglassJanuary 17, 2021
The Davidic Servant is a person who will be raised out of David's lineage and will inherit David's throne, and blessings. The Marvelous Work and a Wonder is not really a reference to the BoM per se, it is a reference to the end-time gathering of Israel.
Wayne R.January 17, 2021
Thank You for your review and recognition that their are unknown risks along with the potential benefits.
After your thoughtful review, will you be getting the vaccine?
Kate B.January 16, 2021
It seems it should be noted that Dr. Arthur Henry King passed away 21 years ago, on January 15, 2000. I admired him very much.
JessJanuary 16, 2021
This is a well thought and written article. It's so hard to know if the vaccine is actually able to do what is hoped for, and do it safely, especially when the vaccine makers are habitual and repeat offenders when it comes to illegal and corrupt marketing practices and suppressing adverse trial results- and have been criminally convicted of and fined over 3 billion dollars for doing so.
DianeJanuary 16, 2021
I love your description of the spring forest! I'd love to see pictures! Thank you.
ColinJanuary 16, 2021
Amen and amen!
Melanee PhillipsJanuary 16, 2021
Hahaha....now your making me feel old!
SautuJanuary 16, 2021
Very inspiring! This is a very timely reminder about what matters most.
Gene F. DanforthJanuary 15, 2021
Thank you very much
I have noticed that when I expel any feeling of contention in my heart and mind, I feel a warm glow come over me. A feeling of peace.
Jan HathawayJanuary 15, 2021
Wonderful comments about this great puzzle. We purchased it and now it is hanging on our wall downstairs. It is such a delight and so very interesting. We are still wondering what significance the whale has - lower left side of the puzzle. We are puzzled? We would like to know!!
Rodney Wells MDJanuary 15, 2021
Thanks for your perspective. As a physician who has worked with Covid patients and knowing many people who have been infected, I think the more we all know the better. There is still much unknown about this viral infection, especially about its long-term consequences, but we have learned much in the past year. I for one am thankful for the rapid development of a vaccine which, as your article points out, substantially reduces the risk of becoming ill from SARS-CoV-2. I had the jab when it became available and have had my second as well. For me (n=1), a sore arm for a day was the only side effect so far. I admit to being an unabashed pro-vaccine advocate. I think most well informed individuals will choose to be vaccinated as well. Time will tell.
Diane AndersonJanuary 15, 2021
What a wonderful idea. Loved hearing these children recite what they had memorized. That will stay with them for the rest of their lives.
ron reedJanuary 15, 2021
Thank you for the effort put into this article. I very much needed it today
I normally really like your articles but take great offense at your characterization of the patriots attending the Trump rally in Jan. 6th. It was NOT them that attacked the police or stormed the capitol but the same ilk who participated in the riots all summer long in cities like Portland Seattle SF Minneapolis that no one seems to remember happening now. Unfortunately I couldn’t stomach reading the rest of your article knowing the slant you have taken on this unfortunate event. Maybe I’ll go back and read it later. I could go on about the about the loss of our freedom and liberty and AGENCY and the rise of socialism /communism that will occur with this new administration.,but I won’t because half the country has neither eyes to see nor ears to hear the truth about what is really happening.
Charles HarperJanuary 15, 2021
Thanks Anne. I am reminded of the time my two sons and I gave my mother a blessing before her cancer surgery. Afterward, my oldest son, whose hands were the last placed on her head commented that he felt as if other hands were on too of his. My father,who had passed away earlier, had assisted in the blessing.
The surgery was successful and mom lived a long life.
Anita EJanuary 15, 2021
This was awesome! I loved what she did and said about her dear grandma never letting a moment pass her by. We could all use a little more fun in our lives right now. Yay Elizabeth!
Erek EreksonJanuary 15, 2021
I agree with Lynn Chapman. We, as disciples of Christ, have a higher standard. We have to look beyond those who would stir us up to controversy, division, and riotings.
The question is not which side started what violence. The better question is "Have we always been this divided?" If not, who sent us down the road to division? In Book of Mormon times Alma and Amulek were up against a group of people who "did stir up the people to riotings, and all manner of disturbances...that they might have more employ, that they might get money..." (Alma 11:20) In their day it was lawyers. In our day who is it? Might it include the news media?
I think that the news media is driving a wedge between people today. They are stirring up controversies to get more people to watch, and thus get more gain.
For example, George Floyd died while in direct contact with a police officer. True. But did the news media give equal coverage to his autopsy that showed that he had 3 times a lethal dose of Fentanyl? Or would that have calmed the controversy?
After election night, the media covered the fact that President Trump did not concede. Fair enough. But after election night, did they also cover the fact that before the election Mrs. Hillary Clinton admonished Joe Biden never to concede. If not conceding was good for one side, why was it wrong for the other side? Or did they just want to keep controversy alive?
I could go on and on.
Here is something to think about:
"But my disciples shall stand in holy places, and shall not be moved; but among the wicked, men shall lift up their voices and curse God and die.” (D&C 45:32)
We should be looking for truth, and not controversy, for truth and not who to blame. We should be looking to be one and stand in holy places.
Anita EJanuary 15, 2021
Thanks for your thought provoking article. Very informative for our current circumstances!
A. Denise HeathJanuary 15, 2021
I love how missionaries have become so creative . An Elder from The Chorley ward in the London England Mission creates videos on gospel principle which led to two young ladies in South Africa getting baptised . Awesome .,
Wendy HillJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you for these beautiful stories. Our families are closer than we know.
Lazy MikeJanuary 14, 2021
If my wife refused to wash my cloths I'd just keep wearing them dirty. I've worn the same cloths while backpacking for 3 weeks. Pioneers wore the same set of cloths for 6 months. If she didn't wash her cloths he might sooner notice.
This wife could ask him to move the washing machine out on the driveway next to the trunk.I would be more apt to do that than carry small boxes.
Another option is to squirt a bunch of dish washing soap in the washing machine with his cloths. This will cause it to make too many suds and it will flood. Then lazy husband can clean up that mess while rooster-pecking his wife for not helping. Role reversal is an option.
Call the home teachers to come over and carry the laundry box into the house. If more people had done this more often, it might have saved that inspired program.
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Jill CleaverJanuary 14, 2021
Yes! I love these words! Thank you, Mary.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 14, 2021
You may fret about those plastic grapes forever, but in the end you were married, and hopefully, you can be sealed soon. My first marriage was in the temple with my husband's parents and a few friends, but our reception was hundreds of miles away with my non-member family. No internet, Pinterest, or Zoom in those days. Suffice it to say, my mother did her best, but the cultural hall decor and refreshments were definitely not what I had in mind. Even my musicians canceled last minute. Most distressing was the photographer (family friend) took awful pictures. My dream of a large family photo like my cousin had was totally dashed to pieces. The physical trappings of a dream wedding weren't there, but when I was sealed to my second husband we had some amazing spiritual experiences, confirmed by some of his relatives who were in attendance. On a daily basis, we hope it is the covenants we've made and why that sustains us.
Linda MastersJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you, Mary. This is such an inspiring article and a great reminder that we can find peace as we listen and “Hear Him.”
Ronald BarnesJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you for sharing my story. Last year, my sister was recovering from jaw surgery and traveling away from home. One night, her jaw began hurting until it was almost unbearable. After praying for relief, three spirits appeared to give her a blessing. The spokesman was our father, who had died many years before. Her pain disappeared immediately.
CaroleJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you Anne. Your inspired articles seem to come at the time I need them. They are beautiful, uplifting, and a blessing to my life.
L WestoverJanuary 14, 2021
Lovely article! Our oldest daughter is single, with single adult daughters. Yet she is unquestionably the favorite aunt of most of our 22 grandchildren -- because she is so engaged with them. She would rather be with the kids than with their parents. Her life may be hard, but she finds joy as she "plays" with the children. What a blessing that joy goes two ways!
Tom KunzJanuary 14, 2021
Such a wonderful and genuine article about how to the gospel Virtually. Thank you Br Hill for
Taking the time to put this together!
Lani LarkinJanuary 14, 2021
I love your writings Diana. You teach us much and your personal experiences are so interesting. I can see how the Lord has prepared you to teach and especially influence many with the understanding you have because you know the gospel of Jesus Christ. You love God and His son you know so well. Thank you ... Lani
JustinJanuary 14, 2021
Your husband invited our family to a Sunday dinner with your family in 1996 (Iowa) when traveling across the country with 4 kids under 8. I've been grateful for that simple act of kindness decades ago. You two are truly special people!
We live a few short miles away from you, and are thrilled you both bless our area with your influence and service.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 13, 2021
This article is much needed by the world. I don't even read some articles in the newspaper because they are so contentious. The contention in our nation upsets my whole system. It especially sad when I see members of the Church being contentious on Facebook and other media.
Becky DouglasJanuary 13, 2021
You can find it at Amazon. Put in Gross National Happiness, by Arthur C. Brooks. (Oops!)
Lana--I'm astounded at your 900 hours of volunteer service a year. You go, girl!!
tom glassJanuary 13, 2021
PBS,CNN?I think you need some different networks of information!
Merlyn T de la MelenaJanuary 13, 2021
This article describes clearly to to start connecting with our ancestor! Thanks for sharing this article and your feelings and how you became engaged with your ancestors.!! It's a good prompting for us to do likewise.
Saundra GatesJanuary 13, 2021
Awesome article Bro. Goddard! It was just what I needed today as I was fasting and thinking heavily about family history. I look forward to your coming articles.
AlisaJanuary 13, 2021
Contentious vs. Competitive? Interesting. I don't like either one! I suppose when it comes to sports one is competing..
I love the thoughts expressed here about avoiding contention though!
Patricia G. SchellJanuary 13, 2021
I especially love the idea if tuning out by turning off any "entertainment" that brings contention on any form into my home. I live alone. I'm 78. I've found myself doing that automatically when suddenly something that appeared to be pleasant, turned into a "drive the Spirit out". There's no one to be contentious with so it sits like a brick in my heart and the contention is within. So, off it goes.
Herm OlsenJanuary 13, 2021
As always, an excellent reminder. My less-active brother has been FOCUSED and COMMITTED to our ancestry, despite his lack of interest in the Gospel. I’ll use some of these suggestions to further encourage him. Thanks so much!
AnnaJanuary 13, 2021
It is too bad that in a church where marraige has been placed on the highest of all platforms, many churchmembers do not see marraige as anything but a worldly arrangement that they can reject whenever they are unhappy and disappointed. Like the rest of the world, we put individual happiness ahead the relationship on which the rest of society is based, In my opinion, the husband shouldn't have left for any reason, but neither should the wife be so ready to dump him because of it. My hope is that at least one of them gets committed to the marraige and tries to salvage it.
Laurie PollardJanuary 13, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article, Mary! You already are "one of those people"--there is not a contentious cell in your soul. I have always appreciated the integrity you exhibit between your inspiring writing and your uplifting behavior.
K. PiersantiJanuary 13, 2021
How can you say the group at the capital dispersed with little or no violence People were killed and many had to go to the hospital. Also, they were rallied on by the president. This was not just a demonstration, it was an attack on our democracy--on my capital! I felt like I was watching a newsreel from South Amermica! It was domestic terrorism and should be dealt with as such!
ShaunaJanuary 13, 2021
thank you for these additional insights from additional sources. Do you have a citation for the Kent P Jackson article? sorry if it's in plain sight in the article
LAJanuary 13, 2021
I understand peacefully doing things. But should we not work to protect our rights?
Geoff TJanuary 13, 2021
Wonderful, reasoned article from a very well educated person - impressive.
As an "older" person, I was also encouraged to see that Arthur King did not join the Church until he was 56 years of age - there's time for me yet!!
Joanne VorkinkJanuary 13, 2021
I thoroughly enjoyed this article! Its timeless message motivates me to do better, recording stories from my parents and relatives as well as my own. Many thanks!
pamela RoderJanuary 12, 2021
I am so sad to read of Darla's passing. I have loved reading her articles as they are full of insight and wisdom.
Thank you Proctor's for sharing and I hope you continue to do so.
J. JensenJanuary 12, 2021
"Blessed are the peacemakers" is an injunction straight from the Savior. I pray that we will each examine our own role in the polarization that led to so much disrespect of one citizen to another and to the representative government outlined by the Constitution. It is our country, defined by laws. Let us stand for peace and work to make positive changes through the rule of law as counseled by President Oaks. Thank you for reminding us of the parallel to the destruction of the Jaredites should we continue down this road.
Ed GayhartJanuary 12, 2021
Our leaders tell us violence is not the way. Unfortunately bad guys do not follow our leaders and will do whatever works for them. Satan doesn’t follow rules.
We know how this will end but it will be sad to witness the injustice and the downfall of this once great country.
LewisJanuary 12, 2021
I love this article. There is so much wisdom in these stories. As I reflect on the Savior's life, i see a life of love and service. You have captured the essence of "pure religion and undefiled." Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful words.
Erika P.January 12, 2021
I believe that Elder Smith was needed on the other side of the veil and was welcomed with open arms. Maybe he has to teach some family members that passed on and did not know anything about the Church.
Four years ago I had a deadly form of cancer and was between life and death when I had a dream when I found myself in the Spirit World where a very large crowd of relatives waited for me. One lady came up to me and said "finally you are here to teach us" then my grandfather came up and said "not so fast - you know that we have to have permission first. He took me away and asked for it, but did not get it. I was told that I had to return to earth because some important work needed to be finished here. I woke up after this and felt great.
I can see Elder Smith having to do something similar. May the Lord bless his Family.
MicheleJanuary 12, 2021
Addenda to my prior comment. In further support of this writer, my limited understanding is the Savior will return when he has a righteous enough people, not when wickedness grows so out of control He has to step in.
Patricia MerrickJanuary 12, 2021
It is such a pleasure to read the analysis of Joseph Smith’s vision in this unique way, from a literary aspect.
MicheleJanuary 12, 2021
I also watched PBS and was surprised later by the cries of violence. I think there were many social media pictures which came later, posted by the people inside the capitol themselves, which demonstrated their intent. It is a crime to simply have gone inside, with no legitimate reason to be there. There were some who indeed intended violence.
However, aside from my opinions on the event, I had the same reaction as I read Ether; all that occurred in this book is and will continue to play itself out. The author uses the capitol event for comparison, but the deeper issue he attempts to make us aware of is how we personally will serve the Lord and his purposes by our own actions.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 12, 2021
I am so happy that you continue to run Darla's articles. They are so timely and she has such wonderful insight. It was our loss when she passed, but a blessing to still have her writing.
Merilee CummingsJanuary 12, 2021
Thank you, Lynn. Though you didn't exactly spell out how we will let God prevail in our lives, we know how to get personal revelation and that will guide us. Revelation happens in moments of peace, so we should be able to distinguish those moments from times when we are stirred up in turmoil and anger. Cooler heads (not passive, though) make better decisions. That needs to become our mantra.
Pattie SkousenJanuary 12, 2021
The Book of Mormon is a second testament of our beloved Savior Jesus Christ. I testify it is true. Thanks for your article. I, too, know studying the Book of Mormon at this time is inspired from our Prophet.
SherryJanuary 12, 2021
I loved this article!
John PearceJanuary 12, 2021
Trump certainly must bear some responsiblity for what happened. If he hadn't made false claims about the election being rigged this would not have happened. After more than sixty court cases being lost, William Barr saying there was no evidence to change the results of the election, Chris Krebs saying this election was the most secure in US history and many other Republicans such as Chris Christie saying he lost he still continues to say falsely that he won.
Patricia WintersJanuary 12, 2021
I saw a rioter bearing the Title of Liberty! The man with his feet on Nancy Pelosi's desk was a returned missionary! How is this going to affect investigators and those already disillusioned with the Church. None of the members who joined the rioters were following President Nelsons advice of a few weeks back. I am so disappointed!
DJJanuary 12, 2021
A very good article! I think in our comments we need to be careful of who we are condemning of having insatiable desire for power. Both parties have fault here & certainly so does the media, but if this election had not been labeled rigged & stolen, then there probably wouldn't have been anyone protesting.
Kaylene ReddJanuary 12, 2021
Excellent, inspired article. An answer to prayers. I look forward to future articles in this series. Thank you, Brother Goddard!
GBJanuary 12, 2021
I am sad and confused. Many well meaning members of the LDS church read counsel by the church leaders and then interpret it to justify the actions at the capitol on January 6th. How can the words of the church leaders who advocate love, patience, peace and unity be applied this way? To quote Elder Oaks: “This does not mean that we agree with all that is done with the force of law. It means that we obey the current law and use peaceful means to change it. It also means that we peacefully accept the results of elections. We will not participate in the violence threatened by those disappointed with the outcome.” It's called Generous Civic Engagement. Please. Let's try it.
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Rochelle HaleJanuary 12, 2021
I wish my "child" would know that he is loved no matter what. Agency plays such a huge role in our lives, and I totally respect the decisions or perspectives of others, though they might not be my own. Nevertheless, love--especially a mother's love--endures forever.
David PearceJanuary 12, 2021
I think the author stated his position when he began this opinion piece by his description of one news source. It’s possible “slant” could be debated. That opening was completely unnecessary to the point he may have been trying to make. However, the author made a very significant observation that may have been missed by some readers. Trump supporters vs Democrats. Comparing an organization with millions of members from all walks of life and faiths vs one individual as though no one in the Republican Party-also with millions of members from all walks of life and faith-was completely absent. We are down the very wrong path when one individual has so much unaccountable power. Those who committed those terrible act at the nation’s capital should be held accountable for their actions but those also (maybe according to the author one) should be held accountable who created the web of lies and encouragement that led to those actions and for other lawlessness currently being threatened. Yes, we seem to be a nation on the brink and it is time for unity. But that does not absolve the most accountable from the consequences of their actions. With out responsibility we truly do descend into anarchy and eventually destruction as the author points out.
Marcela Riveros StaceyJanuary 12, 2021
Elder Gong in his fireside this last Sunday made reference to a Netflix documentary called “The Social Dilemma.” There’s much information in the documentary that describes one of the most likely drivers behind our political discord and growing polarization. Elder Gong’s fireside and the documentary have added so much more depth to the Book of Ether and its relevance to these latter days. I would encourage everyone to watch both.
JulietJanuary 12, 2021
On our wall we have a sign that says "Forever, For Always and No Matter What". I always tell my children, "I love you forever, for always and no matter what!" Even when they get into trouble I make sure to tell them that I love them...they may be loosing privileges or are grounded but I make sure they know that I still love them and give lots of hugs and snuggles. Even as my children get older I think it is important to give them the verbal messages as well as the physical messages of love.
Michael GJanuary 12, 2021
Lynn Chapman was my Stake President back in the day. I always appreciated his council. His council and recommendation to "Let God Prevail", "Generous Civic Engagement', and "Remain Hopeful" is also appreciated.
ScottJanuary 12, 2021
Newly married couples are going to miss that reflecting pool for pictures.
Mary SukerJanuary 12, 2021
Cancel culture is fundamentally about condemning someone because of behaviors “they” consider unforgiveable or unacceptable. This has been going on forever but now has a catchy name to make it seem new and relevant. Think of the widow who spends her life hating the drunk driver who killed her spouse. The child who forever hates his alcoholic parent. I hope that those who believe in cancelling others will one day come to know Jesus Christ and how He can set us free-with forgiveness- through a kind and loving heart. Because He has forgiven us of all our wrongs, we cannot, rightfully, harbor an unforgiving heart against anyone. It’s helpful to remember that everyone is imperfect. The cancel culture is Satan's work. It is mean, unforgiving, and full of hate.
Denise ChristensenJanuary 11, 2021
This photo essay is a perfect compliment to last week's Come Follow Me Podcast! Thank you Scot for that long drive to capture such stunning photographs. I felt like I was there! And thanks to both you and Maurine for our weekly podcasts. We look forward to our time listening and studying with you each Sunday!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 11, 2021
I think we need to be very careful about defining who this group WAS that erupted into violent actions. They were small in number compared to the VAST peace loving crowd who were present. Neither President Trump, nor anyone else, is responsible for their actions. ONLY the people who committed those actions are responsible. The whole event has been maliciously twisted and manipulated beyond all truth by the media and Democrat officials, attempting to satisfy their own insatiable desire for power.
V. BriggsJanuary 11, 2021
To access the beautiful photos on the Sacred Grove, run your cursor upward toward the cabin, and over the right edge of the screen and an ARROW should pop up indicating to click and "go" to the next photo.
LARRY KENT ANDERSONJanuary 11, 2021
Wish everyone could read your article. Trump talked about false news and many condemed him for it. He is right there is much false news and secret combinations. Faith will guide us. Thanks for your article.
Richard GarrisonJanuary 11, 2021
Becky, thanks for sharing these wonderful thoughts, stories and challenge for 2021! You always inspire me!
Carla BarnumJanuary 11, 2021
Beautiful photos! Thank you for sharing.
Merlyn de la MelenaJanuary 11, 2021
This is an excellent read, again, about the experiences of Joseph Smith. Thanks for taking it in sections, making it easy for us to remember and understand.
Barb McDonoughJanuary 11, 2021
The Rod of Aaron?? Why has this artifact not been mentioned before? How did it get to the New World? Joseph received the Gold plates but left all the other sacred items in the box? Just a few questions.
Merlyn T de la MelenaJanuary 11, 2021
What a fabulous article!!! Thanks for sharing your family story about India and your beautiful daughter.
Kate NobleJanuary 11, 2021
I've been interested to read the comments regarding this situation, different angles on the scenario. Whatever went on with the husband it was strong enough for him to leave and then have no contact. I've been married for 50 years and my guess was an affair. Now that's burned out and he's back apparently thinking he can just go on as normal. In the meantime, the wife has been t-boned and left as a wreck on the side of the road. I've seen this several times in my life, believe it or not. The reality is that it will take FIVE good years for him to get himself straightened out to the point where she can actually trust him again, and that's IF he can do the work needed. Legal counsel is essential for utmost protection as well as counseling for her own mental health, and without prayer and guidance from the Spirit the road is steep indeed.
Tom ThorkelsonJanuary 11, 2021
The Savior taught us that in losing our lives in the service of others we will find joy. Thanks for this uplifting message!!
Patti WhitmanJanuary 11, 2021
Stunning photographs and so Spirit-filled. Thank you so much!
Chuck SanfordJanuary 11, 2021
You cannot trust this man. Whatever his positive traits are, he is still a dishonest liar---and will remain so, unless and until sincere repentance takes place. Please don't make decisions about this without involving your bishop. And his repentance does not mean you should take him back---it merely means he has taken a vital step for himself---not for you. You deserve happiness, too.
KJBJanuary 11, 2021
Five people died due to the siege on the Capitol (Six if you count the officer who has committed suicide since.) "Little to no violence"? Really? Armed insurrectionists attempted to overthrow the duly elected government of the United States of America. If that's not domestic terrorism, I don't know what is.
L RasmussenJanuary 11, 2021
So good! Will definitely be sharing this.
Thank you!
JulieJanuary 11, 2021
Wonderful article. I can’t seem to find the book you cited. Could you tell me where to find it?
Lana JohnsonJanuary 11, 2021
This is why I volunteer 900 hours a year! I'm a member of Americorp and have found much needed joy and love in serving. I'm addicted to finding the greatest need and putting forth my greatest effort to fulfilling that need.... I'm elderly and alone but serving helps solves any issues.
Elmer GuevarraJanuary 11, 2021
from the Philippines
SistaGirlJanuary 10, 2021
To Sissy: My blessing tells me the same exact thing. That I will live to see that day. I'm the same age as you are. My family mocks me about it. But that's OK, it's not their blessing. It's mine.
MikaelJanuary 10, 2021
I have been in this same situation but as a Man. To say that Men never change is incorrect. It can be both sexes. In my case it was affairs that she had after 25 years of marriage. I am so sorry for what you are going through. Only you know what you have to do to protect yourself. Don't stay if it will be unsafe for you. Get lots of help. Know you are not alone. Trust is very hard to earn back.
Marta HarrisJanuary 10, 2021
How do I access the photo essay?
I only got the explanation of their access to the sites and how spiritual it was to be at those sites.
Geoff-AusJanuary 9, 2021
I'm with David above. Most of the quotes given, are telling us to be better people.
I find it amusing that "the sound of a trump" is required. Though I am rather concerned that how we have responded to donald trump might be a sheep and goats sifting/moral judgement time.
JeannieJanuary 9, 2021
Without having more details, it appears this marriage was over before he left--a spouse does not walk out of a healthy covenant marriage and have no contact for 6 months out of the blue. There must have been other red flags showing that he can't be trusted before this. Him leaving is the end. I would also advise her to work with her lawyer, continue on the path to divorce and carve out some happiness for herself. If she stays in this marriage there will be more heartache heaped upon the trust that is already destroyed. I hope she has the courage to move on and that she knows she deserves better and can find happiness with her own healthy choices.
Lincoln HoppeJanuary 9, 2021
I am so glad to be a part of this film. Playing Martin Harris was eye opening in a way i could not have imagined. I feel like i was able to understand Harris on a different level and have a greater respect for him that i didn’t have before.
We went to great lengths to preserve authenticity and i think it will show on screen in an inspiring way.
GrandpaJanuary 9, 2021
I'm going to express the thought that everyone is going to disagree with. None of us know what went on behind the closed doors of this marriage. Yes, he left, but was he driven out? Did he leave to protect his sanity? Sometimes God-fearing men have to protect themselves, too. Did he claim midlife issues simply to keep the peace? We as readers do not know. Yes, this woman needs to protect her interests, but there is still too much we as readers do not know. I do hope and pray there is some serious marriage counseling going on!
Sheila WallJanuary 8, 2021
THANK YOU Maurine and Scot X 1000 for sharing one of Darla's articles. This one is timely for many reasons. I am grateful for the wisdom she left behind.
SteveJanuary 8, 2021
I'm not sure what the author of this article is implying we should think when (s)he posted this article. At the time of Pres. Ballard's statement that we needed prayer was because of the lack of truth coming from our national leaders at that time.
SissyJanuary 8, 2021
My Patriarchal Blessing states I will LIVE to see the day when Christ returns to the earth in great glory to rule and reign. Many people are skeptical when I share this, even my own daughter-in-law, but I feel it is true. I'm 60.
Marilynne LinfordJanuary 8, 2021
To Betty Lou Mann, Yes. I just posted it on Facebook or you can email me at [email protected]
BarbaraJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you for your article. Rather than look at our spouse for his/her shortcomings in the marriage, we should first examine our part in it. I find I read something and think "so & so really needs to read this" when in fact I need to study it deeper and implement it in my own life. Thank you again.
Wendy BentleyJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you for examining the words of the prophets in connection with the second coming. This has been on my mind a lot as we have observed the happenings of the last few days. I appreciate your insight. It is comforting to know that as we follow the words of our prophet and learn to listen to the voice of the Lord all will be well.
Betty Lou MannJanuary 8, 2021
A dear friend emailed me of how frightened she is with all the commotion that is going on in our country and in the world. Sending her your article, "What Prophets Have Said Recently" may comfort her and strengthen her faith. May I please have a copy to send to her? Thank you.
DL AndersonJanuary 8, 2021
There are many who are...unintentional "fear mongers". You, I'm pleased to say, are NOT one of them. Sensible. I LOVE your Mom's advice to you when you were young. Appropriate and timely no matter "what time" it is.
And I loved how you mentioned we'll see the Lord's return "in real time" and not on a recorded loop. Again, thank you for this calm and uplifting (& sensible) message.
David DurfeeJanuary 8, 2021
Just one observation. Everything that we should be doing to prepare for the Second Coming is exactly what we should be doing without regard to whether the Second Coming is near or distant.
Melanee PhillipsJanuary 8, 2021
Hahaha....I don't feel old, but I am turning 58 and you bet I know what a muumuu is ! They are also refered to as house dresses or morning robes. Walmart does still carry them in the pajama section.My grandma wore them all the time after her rheumatoid arthritis got bad. Every time I walk by them I think of her...I think I'll take the bunny outfit though!
John R CarpenterJanuary 8, 2021
My patriarchal blessing given many decades ago clearly states that I shall not see the Second Coming in this mortal life. But, if I remain worthy to the covenants that I have made in the Holy Temple, then I shall return with Him at his Second Coming.
The key is to remain faithful and to do what is right. Then endure to the end of this mortal probation. It is not easy, but it will prepare us for to be more like He is.
Ken MazzantiJanuary 8, 2021
I heard Elder Holland answer the question by stating the "We will be closer to the Second Coming when there is a Stake in Pakistan." The Gospel must yet be preached to, and established in, all the world. The world is certainly wicked enough, but we do not have enough worthy Priesthood holders to govern the world wide church that will exist in the Millenium.
Dora Glassford RobertsonJanuary 8, 2021
I feel he needs to explain himself on a much deeper depth than midlife crisis. If that means he left you for a younger woman and now she kicked him out, let him stew in his own juice. I certainly would not trust him again. I have experienced in my life that men never change. Only the gospel can change them if they sincerely repent. But if he was a God fearing man before, he would never have abandoned you in the first place. Of course it all depends how he behaves if you put him on probation for 6 months. I would certainly not buy him anything or let him in my house. He owes you lots... you don't owe him anything. An act like that would mean you forgive him just because he is back. I don't think he deserves forgiveness so easy. And of course, ask Heavenly Father.! My best wishes! Dora ❤❤❤
ShaunaJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you so much for doing all this legwork for me and for your synopsis but most importantly, your testimony. I try to fill my soul, day and life with the glorious truths of the Gospel--but I also must live them. How grateful I am for prophets and apostles living on the earth today
Bob PowelsonJanuary 8, 2021
I hope it comes sooner rather than later. I am well over 80 and have been expecting it for better than 60 years.
At my age about all I get to do is watch it, and trust I won't get in the way of more needy than I.
Deanna SasserJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you for this great article that brought clarity to this topic of the Lord’s Second Coming. It helped me to desire to read the conference talks more carefully and to look and learn His word for me.
CfJanuary 8, 2021
This song has been a comfort to me in so many situations. For me, it has always been the Lord that I’m pleading to “stay with me.” From a mysterious illness on a mission in a far away land to caring for a mother with Alzheimer’s disease, it has given me hope and faith that the Lord will truly stay with me.
So many of Michael McLean’s songs have spoken to my heart and helped me feel that I am truly “not alone.” So grateful that he has magnified his talents and shared them.
Allison DunlapJanuary 8, 2021
The admonitions and warnings were there for those with ears to hear. Thank you for summarizing all that our leaders have said. I'm quite amazed when some say they heard the same old messages. As for me and my house, we are hearing them loud and clear and we are preparing for His coming by fleeing Babylon and letting God prevail.
Chris HowellJanuary 8, 2021
Marilynne, thank you for providing a concise summary of the words of our prophets from the latest conference to put the signs of the second coming into context and giving us clear directions.
Larry GuntherJanuary 8, 2021
Wonderful article to put it all together--sort of a "cliff notes" of the October General Conference. I enjoyed the review of these profetic statements distilled down to such an easy-to-read understanding. Thanks!!
RaNae ShoafJanuary 8, 2021
Absolutely beautiful summary. This really clarifies a vital theme of this conference. We're awake and need to arise! Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
RobertJanuary 8, 2021
Danielle, cancel culture is not about stopping bad behavior. It is about shaming unpopular behavior with no chance of redemption. If it was about stopping bad behavior then abortion would be a target, but since abortion is popular in the cancel culture it’s permissible and even applauded. This isn’t about creating a more civil society. Cancel culture has one goal: speak only what is popular and lie about the rest or risk being shamed for life. That is antithetical to our values as a country and is edging closer to Orwell’s 1984.
Deborah SummersJanuary 8, 2021
I appreciate this article very much ... just what I need because I'm not doing so well in this area lately. It makes me sad and disappointed in myself or in my husband. This article is spot on with really great advice and lots of wisdom. I always sit up and take notice with your articles. Thanks so much.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 8, 2021
Oh, this is such a great story! I LOVED that she recovered, and I LOVED the bunny outfit. This story was just too good to keep, and I am so glad he gave you permission to share it. We need more smiles in these dark days of winter, Covid, and other upheavals. THANK YOU!!!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 8, 2021
I hope this woman will immediately take the advice in this article to see a lawyer NOW. She needs to protect herself financially and find out what her options are. Her husband's comment that his abandonment of her was a "midlife crisis" is a very poor excuse for his behavior, and suggests he feels no remorse or personal accountability for his extreme cruelty to her. It would be very difficult for me to take back a spouse who had completely cut me off for 6 months. That is a very long time to abandon your spouse and to make absolutely no attempt to make contact. I hope she will get the emotional support she needs and prepare herself for the very real possibility of this marriage ending.
Victor MillerJanuary 7, 2021
Thank you for putting this in writing! I, for one, believe the truth and personal responsibility do matter. This "modern" trend to minimize the value of truth is part of the evil one's plan to lead souls away from their Father's Plan.
David H.January 7, 2021
Wow...in reading these comments from the women in this thread makes me happy I am not married to any of them. Yikes...lots of judgement and thinking they are perfect. Too much in this culture of the husband is lazy and always in the wrong...things go both ways.
Chuck SanfordJanuary 7, 2021
Back in the mid-1990s, I was a home teacher for several men incarcerated in a federal prison. They, and probably most of the men imprisoned with them, believed heavily in situational ethics, and not concrete, unchangeable Godly laws of behavior---probably why they were in prison.
TeriJanuary 7, 2021
The reason that we should treat our spouses with compassion is not because we love them. At times they will give us many reasons not to, and our feelings of affection will wane. We should do it because we love God.
Jane E BrayJanuary 7, 2021
Sadly, it's what we're living in and experiencing today.
Doreen WadsworthJanuary 7, 2021
It makes a lot of sense. We are told we just don't want to believe it can happen in our life time. Thank you for this article.
MaryJanuary 7, 2021
I did not misunderstand what the point of the article. If the guy was dealing with underlying mental issues I would be more understanding with his choices,but I still stand with my original statement. There are some people who through time develope being lazy and there are some people the attribute had always been there.
If laundry detergent man is the first,then the advice that was given should absolutely be followed. If the second, then we should teach people not to marry lazy people in the first place.
My dad happened to fall in the second category so I couldn't help but jump to my original statement.
Kenny MazzantiJanuary 7, 2021
It is not the peaceful transition of power that I am concerned about. Whichever way the November election we were going to see some angry outbursts. What I am concerned about is the turn to Marxism in our House, Senate, courts and Presidency. We are now surrounded by the Gadianton Robbers of our own day who will lie, cheat ,steal and murder to have their way. They are now infiltrated into our government, our courts, our justice department, the FBI, the CIA, the NSA, etc. This nation has voted, or submitted, its way into Marxism. This nation will now have to fight its way out to once again experience liberty. Where is Captain Moroni when we need him the most?
TerryJanuary 7, 2021
I know you excluded the truly abusive but may I open your eyes to the reality that some of the truly abusive are mentally ill. I do not recommend personal intervention but could we care enough as a society to seek better medications?
MichaelJanuary 7, 2021
Abraham Lincoln's win of the 1860 election caused the immediate secession of several states and escalating events which developed into the American Civil War. Southern states viewed Lincoln's election as a strengthening of Federal government and erosion of states' rights to govern themselves.
ShaneJanuary 7, 2021
Amen! Great and true article! Very well done! Thank you
Eric M ChaseJanuary 7, 2021
Thanks for stating concisely the way Satan carefully leads us down to hell. We must guard against these philosophies creeping into our way of thinking and cling to the truths of the gospel.
SpencerJanuary 7, 2021
Terrific insights and exactly correct.
Virginia RockwellJanuary 7, 2021
Thank you for your wise warning.
PG PrattJanuary 7, 2021
Blessed is Elder Iseh who have passed away in the service of the Lord Jesus Christ, his name and priesthood will be honoured until the end of time and into the eternities. Sincerest condolences at this sad time to family and friends.
FayeJanuary 6, 2021
I love that she went out and got what she needed and did not inable him to avoid his responsibility. I would have added, "You carry this baby and I'll bring in the detergent."
JillJanuary 6, 2021
As a caregiver coach, spouses often reach out to me when they're ready to throw in the towel. They may judge their loved ones as not "adulting" or as being lazy, mean, not "emotionally available," or any number of things. I appreciate your advice to be compassionate and loving no matter what. "Adulting" can also mean being responsible for your own emotions instead of letting someone less capable dictate them for you. And it's usually work to flip your interpretation of your spouse's "lazy" behavior and get in their shoes for a minute. Everyone in every story is doing their best. D&C112:10
DianeJanuary 6, 2021
While I agree with Becky and Mary, if you find yourself in such a marriage, this advice is excellent. I have learned to think before I speak, and choose words carefully. It has avoided a lot of contention. Your heart must be at peace toward your spouse for the best results. Thank you for this article.
Grandma GigiJanuary 6, 2021
This just makes me sad, especially considering she is pregnant. She could have done his laundry too. If he feels “nagged” (hen-pecked is what MY father called it), then maybe he should try a little harder. My father laid around drinking beer every week end. My mom would ask for help. He refused to do much after his 5-day workweek. Women don’t get a day off or help unless the husband really cares.
JoanneJanuary 6, 2021
I loved this article. You shared great wisdom. All marriage partners would do well to humble themselves and apply the steps you suggested. Thank you
CharlieJanuary 6, 2021
Not sure, but I think Mary and Becky missed the whole point of the article.
LesJanuary 6, 2021
It is quite evident that the qualities of the Savior are missing. It is also quite evident that the Lord did not have a hand in the marriage. My two first wives passed on due to terminal illnesses, and my present wife is just as great...the Lord had His hand in putting us together. Harmony should be expected from each spouse, a celestial attribute!
Erik HansenJanuary 6, 2021
Mental illness and severe dysfunction, sometimes from abuse in peoples' childhood, does exist in the families of Latter-day Saints. This was my situation. We separated through divorce though we were resistant to that. The Lord wanted us to move away from each other's situation and become healthy. We have come back to each other in a more limited way, we ARE sealed and consider each other not just loved ones or friends but husband and wife of the future!
Helen KlannJanuary 6, 2021
Absolutely beautiful and filled with the Spirit! Thank you for sharing your gift of photography and knowledge and testimony!
BeckyJanuary 6, 2021
No one should walk on eggshells or have to cajole their (adult?) spouse to carry in a heavy box of laundry detergent in the example given. It is absurd to have to remind an adult of what they have agreed to do. Choices have consequences...And we are talking about choices, not "distractions." Adults don't need to be reminded, children might. "We teach people how to treat us by what we are willing to accept." What is the popular phrase these days? I believe it's called "adulting." It should be embraced, not avoided.
MaryJanuary 6, 2021
The laundry detergent guy sounds lazy. Maybe step one is to not marry a lazy guy in the first place
CarolJanuary 6, 2021
I love your stories!!! The usually make me laugh and there is often a great lesson in them too. Not so much lesson in this one but a great laugh. The wife was a good sport and she gave a lot of people some to laugh about that day!!!!
Geoff SteurerJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you, Wally, for organizing these eternal truths into actionable steps for struggling marriages. I'm so grateful for your hard-earned wisdom gained from years of dedicated study and application.
JamieJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you so much for this article! I have been struggling with a crisis of faith for many years. Articles like these are so helpful in knowing that this is a real thing and I’m not broken or being rejected by God. It’s also so comforting to know that I’m not the only one who is going through something like this. I’d like to learn more about dealing with faith crises, does anyone know of any resources on the topic? I’m having a hard time finding any relevant information.
Deanna SasserJanuary 6, 2021
I went through a very difficult time in my marriage and the book that helped me the most to take a better look at myself and to change myself was Wally Goddard's little book on marriage. I have come to appreciate all his articles for Meridian Magazine and want to express my gratitude to him for his love of our Savior and for his wise words of wisdom. (And to his wife who has helped to shape him, as he gives her so much credit!). Thank you!!
Janet WiseJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing this stunning photography! Keep sharing your temple photos, as I love to Pin them and reflect on their beauty and the glory of Temples!
Sydney WheadonJanuary 6, 2021
This is hilarious! Thanks so much for sharing!
Amey ZeiglerJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you as always for your reviews!!
RebeccaJanuary 5, 2021
I wonder if Jimmy Galligan is condemning the rappers/musicians who continually use the ‘n’ word as swiftly as he did with Mimi Groves?
JemezblueJanuary 5, 2021
How ironic that people allow Cancel Cultural bullying as a way to make people behave the way they want, but call it "psychological abuse" when a marriage partner or parent does it in their family. If you don't like psychological abuse in a marriage, then don't accept it in regular society.
BTW, as a student at a local university I am already lying about my political beliefs because I am afraid that my graduate work will get canceled if I do so. AND other university students assume that my political beliefs coincide with theirs. I just change the subject.
Ronnie BootheJanuary 5, 2021
I lost a grandson to suicide a few years ago. I felt that I could have reached him and helped him if I was not so far away. I felt that I had failed him. Your article was a tremendous help in my journey to forgiving myself, thank-you for sharing a baring your soul.
Tracey L. CarpenterJanuary 5, 2021
Excellent points.
LorettaJanuary 5, 2021
I am over 70 years of age. And even as a young teen I knew that saying the "n"word was offensive and wrong. Mimi can't excuse herself because of her age and not knowing. We are all born with the light of Christ that will let us know that something we are doing is wrong.
Vicky YeatesJanuary 5, 2021
How do you answer the critics who claim that there were not horses at the Book of Mormon time?
Jan KuesterJanuary 5, 2021
Amen!! I agree wholeheartedly. Many years ago, having gone through a short but emotionally brutal marriage, I had a period in my young life where I proudly proclaimed “A woman within a man is like a fish without a bicycle.” Fortunately that chapter of my life was a short one as I met some missionaries, had a quick, profound tutelage from the Holy Ghost and came to love and embrace the truth of the restored Gospel. I am the only member in my extended family and am grateful that none of my family or friends have ever used my foolish, ignorant proclamation against me, especially when I testify to them of the sanctity of marriage, the meaning of temple ordinances and so forth.
KJBJanuary 5, 2021
And how many times have conservatives called for bans and boycotts? Ah, the hypocrisy...
DanielleJanuary 5, 2021
I have to sit a moment to savor what was written. I noticed this piece alluded cancel culture was reserved for those of power, but now that everyday individuals have this power to use it, it is considered dangerous from the viewpoint of the author. Maybe the author meant it was also dangerous in the hands of those who are with power or belong to the elite and maybe the practice should not belong in those hands either. I do appreciate how the article points to the need for forgiveness in certain situations can be hard to do when someone is feeling the sense of shame for a set action(s). I think the way the article, maybe unintentionally, is written validates errant behavior as culture. Behavior that lacks taste, respect, and choses to denigrate is simply bad behavior and should not be confused with culture. I am sure Adolf Hitler wouldn’t have been moved into the direction of leadership that he took on if someone did shame him into the basic concepts of love and respect for one’s neighbor that are found in the Bible, Torah, and many other religious traditions and sacred works. Instead, many decided not to challenge his actions and words that sought to divide people by race, physical handicaps and abilities, and religion. Should the punishment be proportionate to the crime supported by context, by all means yes. However, one should never give a platform for bad behavior.
Suzanne GriffinJanuary 4, 2021
VERY BEAUTIFUL!
THANK YOU!
TomJanuary 4, 2021
I too am a grandson of 'Ok Port and have long tried to find solid information about him. I honor him and respect him. Heck, i became a notorious lawman too. Thank you John for writing this and greetings from Nauvoo.
CoreyJanuary 4, 2021
I have read pretty much everything President Benson has written and have found nothing racist, ultra right wing or conspiratorial in his writings. Nothing but love for God, church and family and a great love and respect for the US constitution and a warning of things to come which has proven prophetic. But most of all and most important is that the Holy Spirit has confirmed to me that he was a chosen servant of god, witnessed and strengthened one day as I was traveling to Star Valley Wyoming shortly after President Benson died, as we were approaching Preston where the turnoff to Whitney is we could see flowers everywhere and my wife said lets stop and see Pres. Benson's grave, so we turned of the highway and went to the cemetery in Whitney, there were literally hundreds if not thousands of flower memorials and other things but as we got out of the car and approached the gravesite the spirit that was their was unbelievable, one of the most powerful spiritual experiences, feelings of my life and I knew that he was a man of god.
Harold RustJanuary 4, 2021
It seems to me that a better solution would be a two-fold approach: First, every person or group posting comments or photos of any kind be clearly identified. This would be that all subscribers/contributors have some unique identity that ties the content directly to them. Even if it is a group response, one or more specific individuals must be identified. The consequences would be that the person submitting the information would be personally liable just like they are now if they write in a book or say something on radio or TV which causes grave harm to someone else. In other words, this would be a distinct form of accountability for everything on the internet without imposing liability on the site itself. In conjunction with this would be some form of civil fine (via arbitration) in which repeated offenses by a contributor could be taken to court of some kind. Anything that could make those who post pornography or outlandish statements would be held accountable and fined if they can't defend accuracy and truth of what they said.
The second step would require the platforms to allow all material except for very specific descriptions of offensive material that is clearly offensive to a reasonable person. This would reduce the nit-picky and biased selections they now make in blocking content because one small group of people don't like what is being said.
The key is accountability for both what content is included by contributors and also what content is eliminated by the platform organization.
The second step
LarryJanuary 4, 2021
This was a well reasoned article that looked at both sides. One aspect of social media that wasn't addressed is the control the platforms exert on what information gets shared and what gets suppressed.
The last election was a great example of this. The social media companies, two in particular, were clearly hostile to the conservative portion of their customers and exercised blatant censorship.
Much has been written, by academics who have studied it and insiders who help reate it, about the power that social media exerts on attitudes and even behavior.
Jerel DoxeyJanuary 4, 2021
Beautiful, amazing photography. Thank you.
DJJanuary 4, 2021
After reading your article, I dug out my (grown) children's copy of The Long Winter, which lead me back to the original "Little House in the Big Woods". It's been a great way to spend my blah days while contending with COVID symptoms. Just
Elaine LaytonJanuary 4, 2021
I also thank him for his service. I am sure he will have the opportunity to again serve in the spirit world. I am thankful for all those who have this wonderful opportunity.
Grandma JaneJanuary 4, 2021
Thank you for your interesting and thought provoking program. I love your idea for studying the D&C. It will be a treat to find the one liners!
KathleenJanuary 4, 2021
This was most informative! I have read news articles about this, but wondered about all the implications. Thank you for this!
DawnJanuary 4, 2021
This made me laugh! I was wondering what the author would receive from his mother. I was not expecting that. Happy New Year!
CubbyJanuary 4, 2021
FINDING A NEEDED/USEFUL GIFT was hilarious. Love your articles!
Garfield CookJanuary 4, 2021
My wife and I remember Michael when he first started his career. We had him over to our home to perform at a Christmas gathering with our company executives. His talent was obvious from the beginning and he has only gotten better. We knew he would accomplish much and so he has. He has blessed the lives of many for good. May the Lord continue to bless him. Garfield Cook
Alysann CollotziJanuary 4, 2021
Hi Brother Stariing! This is Alysann Collotzi, in your ward. I just discovered this today. I loved it and will share it with my children!
Nada - January 3, 2021January 3, 2021
Beautiful! I have never heard this song done so beautifully. Thank you for sharing.
pamelaJanuary 3, 2021
Thank you so much Sister Isackson for this article.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son and the inevitable pain it has caused.
You wrote things I myself feel everyday of holding onto pain, anger, resentment over things from the past. I feel many of us do, so I appreciate your candidness in writing about a difficult subject.
It helped me very much and I will now re-read and try to overcome my own faults in this area.
I love how your write. Thank you so much.
Mary JaneJanuary 3, 2021
Excellent article and so true for many of us! I am going to share this with my daughters....thank you for your insights.
tfJanuary 2, 2021
Tell him you are about to have a nervous breakdown, and he will have to take care of them all himself.
(Maybe a note from your doctor to that effect)
Ask his MIL to come and help?
Jeff LindsayJanuary 2, 2021
Does the existence of the Mona Lisa point to an artist?
The more I learn from science, the more stunned I am that life and the universe was even possible. It is so breathtaking, so complex, so elegant, so artistic, from the folding of proteins and the endlessly marvelous machinery of our cells (ATP synthase and the spliceosome for starters) to the bizarrely balanced fundamental forces that keep the stars so delicately poised on the knife's edge between collapse into oblivion from their own gravity and catastrophic explosion from the massive nuclear forces raging within -- and more than just surviving to give life to planets, they are also tuned with a remarkable mathematical coincidence built into the nature of matter that allows them to be highly productive engines of creation, cranking out carbon and heavier elements that allow solar systems to abound in much more than mere hydrogen and helium. So much brilliance and beauty. Just figuring out how some of the endless inventions around us work earns scientists fame and Nobel Prizes, but woe unto those who say such marvels are anything but meaningless random coincidences.
Win BroadhurstJanuary 2, 2021
Beautiful! Truth masterfully written! Sweet encouragement in times of spiritual need for strength! Thank You!!
Dennis LisonbeeJanuary 1, 2021
This insightful article comes from the president of Hillsdale College, a Christian school. The Brigham Young University/Alpine School District Partnership, was responsible for spearheading the movement in Utah that took these Jefferson principles out of K12 curriculum. Thus, our children in Utah have become ignorant. And now Utahans have to go to an Eastern Christian school to gain this information.
I will echo the previous comments. Thank you for sharing this article. You used the word "authentic" and is a perfect word in contrast to the blasting Christmas music in the stores saying "its the hap happiest season of all..." Well, not to everyone, no.
I will print this article and re-read to remind myself many of us struggle at this time of year.
It's about Christ and what He brought to all of us.
Thank you so much.
Linda WillisJanuary 1, 2021
This is a must read for all! Brilliant analogy and makes me smile and cringe at the same time.
GrandpaJanuary 1, 2021
May I gently suggest getting a quorum leader or even the bishop involved in teaching this man his duties and responibilites.
DorisJanuary 1, 2021
I wish you would have given some actual conversation ideas -- to not bring on more argumentative stances. The only thing I can think of is, "Okay......Okay......Okay.
LexaGraemeJanuary 1, 2021
Happy New Year.
KateDecember 31, 2020
Excellent advise. I would also strongly encourage this woman to follow Dr. Julie Hanks (drjuliehanks on instagram) who addresses this very topic often in her posts and teaches a class on Creating a Partnership Family, which would be very helpful.
Bob SDecember 31, 2020
A good piece. You touched on several very important topics.
Bruce BelnapDecember 31, 2020
The light of Christmas is in this woman's eyes and the spirit of Christmas is in her heart 365 days a year. One of the choice gifts that has been given to so many of us is Marilyn Hadd.
Rochelle HaleDecember 31, 2020
I like your raisin analogy. Often my husband and I recount the stagecoach story, where the safest driver is the one who hugs the mountain instead of seeing how close to the edge he can get. Sadly, I think too often people get offended by others or possibly question a point of doctrine, and they forget that God is the author. They may seek out ways to justify their actions, rather than strengthening their faith and seeking proper direction or answers to their concerns.
Maryann TaylorDecember 31, 2020
People do not leave the church because someone hurt their feelings. They leave because they don't have a strong testimony. Someone who is close to the Savior and committed to living the gospel does not stay home from church because of something someone else did. While it is true that we need to fellowship, serve, and show love for another, each of us, hopefully sooner than later, is accountable for our own commitment to the Savior.
Maryann TaylorDecember 31, 2020
Although I have compassion for this woman, I think she is in deep denial. "Good husbands" do not habitually verbally abuse their children, nor do they continuously "pout" and refuse to be supportive to their wives. I am disappointed in some of the advice given here because this wife has ALREADY tried discussing these issues with her husband and he isn't listening. She definitely needs outside support and should counsel with her Bishop, especially regarding the verbal abuse. I think this situation is also a wake-up call for all young women who are yet unmarried. Before you marry, discuss with your potential spouse how they feel about sharing COMPLETELY in caring for their children and make sure they really WANT children. Then invite them to babysit with you and observe their behavior. Men are not doing women a "favor" when they care for their children. They have an equal responsibility, which goes far beyond bringing home a paycheck.
Kathy GibbDecember 31, 2020
I study multiple venues of the Come Follow Me study and yours never disappoints. It always gives more depth and understanding. I appreciate the personal experiences you share, they add real life to my study and often times bring back poignant experiences I’ve had in my own life’s journey. I look forward to another year at the well, I’ll be drinking deeply.
Jill WilliamsDecember 31, 2020
Thank you Sister Proctor, for this excellent article. I some how missed it before. I will copy this and send this to others.
Melissa MarkhamDecember 31, 2020
I feel silly adding to this already great advice. But, girl, I HEAR YOU!!! I wish we could meet at a park and let our toddlers play while we kvetch about entertaining small children during a worldwide pandemic--while everyone else binge watches tv shows and takes up new hobbies. (Ok, no one has had it that easy. But still...) Even with a supportive husband, I've been pushed to my limit so many times these past months! The big thing for my husband and me has been communication, honestly telling each other our needs and seeking to understand the others' needs. A wise friend gave me marriage advice once--don't be a martyr in your marriage! We're really trying to balance standing our ground when our needs are not being met, but also sacrificing so that the others' needs can be met. I can't help but wonder if your husband sees the difficulty of having small children during a pandemic and is fleeing--in his own way. Rather than wade into the muck, he rationalizes that it's your mud puddle and you need to deal with it. It helps to break it down into small, do-able steps. With my husband and I, what worked was to schedule specific times when he would have the kids. For us, it works for him to entertain the kids after work while I make dinner. He's also able to get most Friday afternoons free, so we alternate Friday afternoons. He may take our older son out for some "man time" while I may go get a pedicure or do some shopping on my own. It hasn't been perfect and there are still some fights, tears, and yelling at kids. But there's far more appreciation, love, family outings, games of hide and go seek with the kids, and peace!
I hope you and your husband are able to work through this because I know you'll be closer than before. I hope he's able to see the joy of fatherhood and not just the burden. Wishing you success...
Elizabeth LeeDecember 31, 2020
Thank you!
AyseDecember 31, 2020
Thank you for sharing your insights with such simple clarity. I love your articles! Happy New Year
ShareeDecember 31, 2020
I think this woman should show her husband this article. He may not even realize what he is doing.
AyseDecember 30, 2020
I get your point but how do you explain our bill of “rights”. I believe as good followers of Christ we do indeed have rights and responsibilities. Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. And our responsibilities are to tend to the weak and needy not just our family, fellow church members and friends. As a society it is apparent we are not unified and are not ready to care for all in some way, Maybe we need a larger entity to fill that gap. And you are right that someone will have to pay. Are we ready to pay higher taxes? I’m ok with that because the ripples any individual can make with any help they may provide for others isn’t enough for the problems we have in this country. I think that we should at least try the experiment that has worked already in countries like Germany, Denmark et al where citizens do not just talk of caring for others but set up ways to actually help the poor without taking away their dignity; we can always improve on the good foundations already established and build from that. The characteristics of those wicked leaders you mentioned from the Book of Mormon we’ve had a good taste of today : of their deceptions, lies, lack of concern for their fellow man and their self-serving justifications not to mention nepotism. Amalikiah, King Noah pre-shadow uncomfortably some political leaders we see today. The pretense of believing in the constitution yet systematically trying to destroy our democracy has been encouraged by many who follow like sheep the loud raucous voices. Wasn’t it Mosish who warned us of “how much iniquity doth one wicked king cause to be committed “. I hear in the Book of Mormon of being warned against political leaders who lie, desire power at all costs, who incite fear, further conspiracies and basically desire to have a kingdom of one party. Before we already judge too early of the in coming administration maybe we should encourage our politicians to work more together to raise a true title of liberty for all.
Kim BDecember 30, 2020
I didn’t read every comment here so I’m sorry if I am repeating. There is a difference between a value and a policy, and the Church makes a distinction between doctrines and policies. In the article I didn’t see any mention of when a political party opposes a church doctrine - such as the sanctity of life while endorsing abortions. There are others. How do church members reconcile their support for a political party whose actions contradict doctrine?
Garfield CookDecember 30, 2020
David Reimann asks why is the universe expanding if the Steady State Theory is correct. Because it would be pulsating, expanding and contracting. The universe seems to be a pulsating one, with the overall process being adiabatic and isentropic as in all stationary state systems.
Gene RobertsDecember 30, 2020
Thank you for a thought provoking article. I did notice every example used was a country outside the United States, when will people realize that our "Government" is as guilty of these acts as anyone else
Groupthink is here and now
Julie Driggs KiserDecember 30, 2020
I am so grateful to have grown up with you “Tag”. Wonderful friends and amazing women have blessed my life and I count you as an extra special influence for me. Thank you for sharing this experience with me and others. My heart has been touched as I listened and reconnected with your beautiful soul these past few moments. Love always.
Andrew J. CurrieDecember 30, 2020
Hallelujah, Bro Fogley! I, too, for decades have searched for a scholarly or inspired explanation of Moroni's curious wording of that all important invitation to know if The Book of Mormon is "not true". It is wonderful to have your thorough and insightful explanation that ties the entire chapter together so well.
I had contented myself to conclude: The Lord encourages people to trust Him and experiment on His word; and just prior to Moroni's closing is the injunction "...for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith" (Ether 12:6). Hence, when the Lord does not clearly reveal The Book of Mormon is untrue, the investigator is obligated to act upon the book's teachings as if they are true. In doing so, the investigator opens himself to the gifts of the Spirit and will shortly receive a positive confirmation that The Book of Mormon is a divinely inspired guide to bringing us back to Heavenly Father's presence through the grace of the Atonement of Jesus Christ.
Thank you again for sharing your scholarly endeavors.
Ken MazzantiDecember 30, 2020
To the author:
Regarding the phrase "if these things are not true" The words in the entire book are those of Joseph Smith as he spoke in his own day. Joseph used the French language term "adieu" to bid farewell because it was in common usage in his day. The entire book is a direct transliteration from the reformed Egyptian that changed over 1,000 years of usage to the English language of his time. Imagine trying to communicate with an Englishman in the year 1020?
Regarding the term in question, try stating the phrase with the emphasis on 'true' rather than on 'not'. Hence, "If these things are not TRUE" and it makes better sense in our time.
David ReimannDecember 29, 2020
From an astronomy class I took in college in 1967, another theory was presented: The Steady State Theory. In essence, this theory states the universe has always existed. From a Gospel perspective, that makes the most sense. The problem with the Big Bang Theory, is where did the huge mass of matter come from, and what happened before that? The only true logical explanation is that the universe has always existed. Why is it expanding? I don't know, but I can deal with that easier than trying to figure out where a gigantic mass of matter came from some 13 billion years ago.
DorisDecember 29, 2020
Wonderful and touching story. Special are the people in it and the way you told their story. So very touching.... Thank you so very much.
DorisDecember 29, 2020
Thank you for great and simple recommendations. Our city only allows 10 gallons of gas storage, so it makes it hard to justify a generator -- even though I would love one!! Your reminders are great and got my mind going again. Seems we get all excited, purchase, and then let things drop. I need to do better!
Lynne HessDecember 29, 2020
This is an incredible woman. I feel blessed to know her. I wish I had known her when she did this. She truly is one of the Lord's greatest accomplishments!
Stephanie ClarkDecember 29, 2020
I always loved attending this production. Thanks for sharing your experience. I wish the Stake would put this play on again. It always brought the true meaning of Christmas.
John R CarpenterDecember 29, 2020
For anyone who has faced death in the military, as a peace officer or who has rock bottomed on a dependency issue. There is Faith, Hope and Prayer even though one is scared of death both physically and spiritually.
Psalm 23:4 King James Version
4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
I have felt and faced great evil too many times when I was in the military, as a peace officer and those inner fears where everything seemed to fall apart.
Every single time, I knew I could die, for I knew that no one will leave these mortal life alive. I saw people dying and the dead and at times life seemed hopeless that all I could do was cry with the hollowness echoing within.
I resolved to myself to do my duty first to God, then Country and my family. I knew that I all of this would be for my own good whether I died then or at some later time.
I gave my soul to God and my Savior and went through the motions that I needed to do. And when the danger or evil was past, I thanked Them for surviving to fight another day.
It was never easy and no doubt there will challenges ahead until I die the final death of mortality.
Amanda Crane ScottDecember 29, 2020
I remember attending and watching it. It was beautiful. I wish our stake continued this tradition.
Robert D StarlingDecember 29, 2020
As usual, Daniel has created an eloquent explanation of eternal truths. I'm going to print out this article and give it to a family member who is struggling with his faith.
But I wonder if some readers might confuse the Big Bang with an ex nihilo "creation"? That is, the springing into existence of something out of nothing? Just as Daniel "created" his article from existing words and quotes, the universe was "created" from pre-existing element, even if that element was in the form of spirit or energy in a "finer" state. (the following is from the Encyclopedia of Mormonism article on "Matter")
Addressing the issue of creation ex nihilo, Joseph Smith asserted in one of his final sermons: "Now, the word 'create'; does not mean to create out of nothing; it means to organize; the same as a man would organize materials and build a ship. Hence, we infer that God had materials to organize the world out of chaos-chaotic matter, which is element. Element had an existence from the time [God] had. The pure principles of element are principles which can never be destroyed; they may be organized and reorganized, but not destroyed. They had no beginning and can have no end" (HC 6:308-309).
Thus should the Big Bang be described as the Big Organization of physical "matter" out of eternal "element"?
Robert D StarlingDecember 29, 2020
Thank you Michael, for this insight into your soul and your songs. Yes, Jesus came to "claim" us. As I read your article I thought about the word Alma the Younger used, that he was "snatched" by Christ from the jaws of hell and from the "exquisite" spiritual pain that he was suffering. I've often wondered about his use of that term "snatched". I believe our beloved Savior is always waiting and looking for the opportunity to "snatch" us to his bosom. All we have to do is (as you wrote) "let Him in."
Ginger DurbinDecember 29, 2020
Scot and Maurine, Thank you for giving me some excitement about the Doctrine and Covanents. I must confess, this is my least-looked-forward-to book in the study of the scriptures, but I’m hoping to turn over a new leaf this year.
Robert D StarlingDecember 28, 2020
Yes, thank you for re-publishing this article here at Meridian. It is so unfortunate that most young people today have never even heard of "1984" and the warnings that it contains. The older 1956 movie version has been colorized and can be seen here for free: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wl4kt4kUE88
Watch it with your children and discuss how we can protect our freedoms.
Barbara ParkerDecember 28, 2020
Is it possible, or has anyone studied the idea that the Three Wise Men could have been sent from the Lost 10 Tribes? Clearly, they would have been looking for the Messiah, have their own scripture, and be from an obscure origin as well.
Ken MazzantiDecember 28, 2020
I applaud your inclusion of this article from Imprimus. Our nation is under attack by those who deny God, encourage totalitarianism, and the enslavement of humanity-basically, Satan's plan from the beginning of time. We older folks know the meaning of liberty and love of country. Many younger parents do not for they have been schooled in 'groupthink' by our education system, and are passing that same destructive ideology, many times unknowingly, to their children because they simply don't know any better. Perhaps these ideas will stir their thoughts and rekindle the concepts of liberty and love of this great country.
Maryann TaylorDecember 28, 2020
Great article, however, loving someone does not mean you must engage in a political conversation with them. It's my home and I expect the people in it to respect a gentle request that there will be no political discussion. The fact that someone would actually argue about whether you will discuss politics in your home is a surefire sign that if the conversation were to take place, they are not going to be respectful. We live in a day when shades of gray have become very black and white in politics. There is no way to "discuss" issues such as abortion, socialism, or attempts to destroy the basic principles of the constitution, with people who have closed their minds. Better to talk about a multitude of other topics available for discussion that will not engender contention.
Deniese DrakeDecember 28, 2020
There is no doubt the Lord sends the right missionaries to the right place for the right reason.
PaulineDecember 28, 2020
Along with writing things down as you suggest (to find the “story” we are telling ourselves) I find Nonviolent Communication to be very helpful. Feeling angry, frustrated, or annoyed signals an unmet need. Once that has been identified we can ask for what we need without attachment and attend to it ourselves.
Helen CDecember 28, 2020
Thank you for this illuminating exposition on analyzing our minds. It adds a depth to the thought work I am currently studying through Brooke Castillo’s “Model”. Very useful!
Regards,
Virginia RockwellDecember 28, 2020
Thank you very much for this thoughtful and informative article. It is so true. I am 75 and I mourn the country in which I grew up. I will send this to my family and post it on Facebook in hopes that others will read and be enlightened or reminded.
RhianDecember 28, 2020
Excellent!
Maryann TaylorDecember 27, 2020
WOW! Beautiful. Thanks so much for sharing this!
BillDecember 27, 2020
Something to consider about Heavenly Father's spirit children, is that "a third-part" chose to follow Satan. To me that doesn't mean 1/3 followed Satan, but a third-part.
They are not the same.
Elizabeth W AthansDecember 27, 2020
You have a great gift of sharing your experiences! This was magical! Thanks for sharing! Liz and Steve Athans
Linda BurnsDecember 27, 2020
I just discovered you!!!! I love your writing! I've only read two articles--the one about the long hard winter and this one BUT I love your talent and thank you for developing it and sharing it! May our Father Heaven bless you and yours..
Bobbi ChandlerDecember 26, 2020
We make a cranberry jello salad ever since I made it for a ward dinner as a teenager. The ward supplied the recipe.
It is 1 large box raspberry jello
1 can crushed pineapple u drained
1 can whole cranberries
1 heaping tablespoon tang
1 cup chopped walnuts
1 1/4 c boiling water
3/4 7up
Combine boiling water and jello and stir u til dissolved Add the rest of the ingredients and stir, breaking up the whole cranberries. Chill until set.
Combine 8 ounces Philadelphia cream cheese, softened and 8 oz sour cream with a hand mixer until smooth. Spread over top of set jello. Enjoy!!!
Woodsinger57December 25, 2020
I have long believed that the wise men from the East were priests/Rabbis living in Babylon. A small percentage of the Jews returned after the Babylonian captivity and right up until the 20th century their was a thriving authoritative Jewish community living in what was the remnants of the Babylonian empire - now Iraq. It would make sense to me that God would send simple shepherds to witness the birth of his son as well as spiritual leaders in the "eastern" community to bring the word back to the people in that part of his kingdom. The fact that we hear little about "eastern" Judaism in the new testament doesn't mean that righteous witnesses were not available there
EveDecember 25, 2020
Gorgeous!
KarinDecember 25, 2020
Thank you very much for helping to turn a challenging experience into a an opportunity to learn and grow. How easily we judge ourselves for struggling in those difficult experiences instead of seeing in them the love of the Lord in allowing us to grow and learn
Sally SmithDecember 25, 2020
It is 4:18 am Christmas morning and I am feeling down. I picked Meridian Magazine to lift my spirits and found this article.
It is a miracle !! It has lifted me up.
Thank you.
Jane doeDecember 24, 2020
This is so beautiful to read...such a beautiful comparison to our situation in 2020. Thank you so very much for your insights... this article gave me hope
Jane doeDecember 24, 2020
So grateful for this message!! I'm sitting here all alone on Christmas Eve thinking and praying that I can be with family next year... Plus my mom passed away December 1st 2020, I'm just in the midst of sorrow. Reading this message just now has given me hope and a moment of peace with my Savior. Thank you.
Betty TownsendDecember 24, 2020
Wow! What a beautiful reminder of the Lord's birth and the irony of it being on a wall which was the antithesis of love. Thanks for this great painting.
Anna-Sophia McLaughlinDecember 24, 2020
Thankyou for your astute observations in this timely article! I whole-heartedly agree. Let's just focus on the Savior, proclaim the good news and celebrate!
Dave GrandyDecember 24, 2020
Thanks, Marilyn. I can imagine the play there in the Montpelier tabernacle.
SKDecember 24, 2020
This daddy-daughter duo is a blessing that came from the pandemic. They have blessed my life so much in 2020.
James RawsonDecember 24, 2020
Gary, you’re spot on as usual! Everyone who wishes me Happy Holidays, I always wish them a Very Merry Christmas!
Ken MazzantiDecember 24, 2020
There are many stars in the sky, but they do not lead us anyplace in particular. It is our earth that is rotating round and round. The new star of Bethlehem is mentioned on the night of the Savior's birth. It was proximate enough to lead the shepherds to the place where the baby Jesus was laying in a manger. Our sun is a star locaterd 93 million miles away, but we really don't want that star too close or the consequences would not be good for us. However, the Star of Bethlehem stayed there long enough for the Magi to follow it from the east using visual navigation, and it first led them to Jerusalem where they met with Herod, the Great. The Magi then had to make inquiry sufficient to lead them to the town of Bethlehem to kneel before the Christ Child and present their gifts.
As our earth rotates, most stars appear to 'move' in the heavens, but it is this earth that is really rotating and not the stars. The "North Star" is stable enough for navigational purposes, but the wise men came from the east traveling the direction of the rotation of the earth. So, how did the Magi stay on course for those weeks, months, or possibly years following a star in the heavens? God can make the earth stop it's rotation as he did for Joshua (this stoppage is actually taken into consideration by astrophysicists in making celestial calculations). He can make the earth reverse it's rotation as he did in the days of Enoch just prior to the flood. The people of the Book of Mormon experienced a day and a night and a day of light, but did the people of Jerusalem? Why was it not dark for 3 days in Jerusalem following the Crucifixion. That is where the Savior actually died. The people of the New World were wicked enough to have their land completely torn apart with whole cities buried, burned or flooded with millions killed. And yet, the people of Jerusalem, who actually killed the Son of God, were spared those consequences for 40 years. There are so many questions.
ClaudiaDecember 24, 2020
You have helped me in the perfect way. Your suffering has been consecrated for good, as He promised.
JeanDecember 24, 2020
That was beautiful!!! Their voices are so pure. This Christmas hymn is one of my favorites. It has a great message. This rendition was soul stirring. Thank you!
Donna MalanDecember 24, 2020
While Linus was reciting the Christmas story, his security blanket was not In his hand,, but dropped to the ground beside him. While focused on Christ, he did not need his blanket. There is a message there for each of us.
Lisa ReisingDecember 24, 2020
Thank you for sharing these poignant thoughts - I needed to read this today. Perspective is everything. Remembering the things pointed out - key! Comparisons to the experiences of others: poison.
Carol AnnDecember 24, 2020
We need more of the "silent majority" especially in today's world to speak up for truth and light in so many ways! Yes, it was a beautiful thing to return 4 years ago to the greeting from the White House, a sincere Merry Christmas! I pray that we will never again settle again as a country for the secular...happy holidays. Merry Christmas! as we celebrate Christ's birth, and may God bless us, every one!
AnonymousDecember 23, 2020
Thank you for this article! It's exactly what I needed. As a divorced woman whose kids are grown, a temple ordinance worker who is no longer allowed to serve because only a select few are chosen to do so, I'm feeling very alone and forgotten and unvalued. Thank you for this reminder that Christmas is really about the Savior who can heal my hurts and dry my tears.
MargaretDecember 23, 2020
What a sweet reminder!
Keith WilsonDecember 23, 2020
Nicely done, Br. Marsh. I suspect that one reason for your article is because you too have been blessed with a cheery disposition. This coming from one who knows you fairly well.
Br. Keith Wilson
SherryDecember 23, 2020
Thank you so much for all you do to testify of Christ and share with so many. May His choicest blessings be yours this Christmas season and always ❤️
Elizabeth SmithDecember 23, 2020
Timely re-read from one of my favorite authors.
Colleen StoutDecember 23, 2020
Dear Brother Marsh, as I read this, I could feel Joseph's hand reaching out to mine. I hope we are all feeling touched by his love and example. Merry Christmas!! You are lighting the world with this article.
Maryann TaylorDecember 23, 2020
I believe that Joseph's cheerful disposition was a sacred gift from God to help him through his trials. Oh, how I pray I will be worthy to meet this amazing Prophet of God one day!
Maryann TaylorDecember 23, 2020
It should be remembered that the prophet's mother, Lucy, was not able to make the trip West and that may be another reason that Emma did not go with the saints. Emma also had a great sense of humor---one time some politicians stopped over to stay in her inn and she served something similar to popovers. She commented that she had decided to call these popovers "candidates" because they were puffed up and full of hot air.
Delores HughesDecember 23, 2020
What a beautiful story. God makes miracles happen.
JuliannaDecember 23, 2020
Loved this. Thanks for the story of your courageous Grandma.
Harrison BryantDecember 23, 2020
This story is great. Many events like this have happened and people still do not believe that there is a GOD. I testify that our father watches over us and h did send his son. In the name of Jesus Christ amen!
Jacqueline RichardsDecember 23, 2020
Happy Christmas Gary! From a very soggy and locked down UK!! I like 'Happy Christmas' because 'Merry'makes me think of people getting tiddly! But 'Merry Christmas' is definitely preferable to that silly 'Happy Holidays'. Keep safe in this very dangerous world and God Bless.
Jackie
Steve LawranceDecember 23, 2020
Are Samuel the Lamanite and others from the New World possible candidates for the Wise Men?
Ann RobinsonDecember 22, 2020
I agree with this previous commentator, I was very disappointed in this article which I thought would be about the church and our prophet. Instead it was more of Coppins whining about how he hates Trump. A good opportunity was missed. But I guess I should have expected that, it was,afterall, the Atlantic Magazine. What should we have expected.
HeatherDecember 22, 2020
What an amazing and inspiring man. Where can I purchase a copy of one of the paintings?
Susan D'AndreaDecember 22, 2020
Excellent article, Mariah. There is a wonderful article in the August 1992 Ensign magazine, "My Great Great Grandmother, Emma Hale Smith" by Gracia M. Jones. Her books "Emma and Joseph" and "Emma and Lucy" are great too.
Lynn D JohnsonDecember 22, 2020
Wonderful to read the team, Peterson plus the late Hamblin. Always a joy.
The wise men were certainly Nephi, Lehi, and Samuel, all of whom disappear before the sign given of the birth of Jesus. They knew when He would be born.
There was reasonable sources of gold and silver in the land of Nephi and around Zarahemla, so it would be logical they took some with them. They could easily buy what they needed. They spoke a version of Hebrew, so it would have been easy for them to master the language and communicate with the folks in Palestine.
Who else would it be?
IMHO.
SpencerDecember 22, 2020
This was a very inspiring article. Thank you Wally
Charles McClellandDecember 22, 2020
Thank you, Mariah, for this well written and informative article on Emma Smith. I appreciate her more now than ever.
Ron BarnesDecember 22, 2020
Who could blame Emma for staying behind when the Saints went west. She had suffered enough in her life. A man like Joseph needed a woman like Emma to help him endure what he needed to endure. Her own endurance was equal to his, and in some ways it was greater. They made a great team.
Chuck SanfordDecember 21, 2020
Many years ago, I watched an episode on TV about this time. Their friend, made it to their cabin (half-dead from the cold) and gave the girls a small piece of candy cane, so they would have something for Christmas. It was very touching, especially now, as we do things that follow what our Savior would do.
Gladys OwensDecember 21, 2020
Wonderful Article!
Margaret BourneDecember 21, 2020
I can't remember if it was President Kimball or President Hinckley that said, when asked, that we would receive the rest of the gold plates when we had sufficiently read what we already have. In other words, if we don't read what we have, why would we be given the rest? Good point!
Maryann TaylorDecember 21, 2020
I have found that when I cut way back on sugar intake that the natural sweetness and full flavors of fruits and vegetables are much more pronounced. Real food tastes so much better when our taste buds haven't been overwhelmed with sugar or junk food.
AnonymousDecember 21, 2020
I honestly thought this article missed the mark. I was excited at first to read about his interview with President Nelson. However, it consisted of only a few lines at the beginning and the end. Most of this article was a personal reflection on the author's own experience with his religion, "Mormonism," as he referred to it. Even at that, in some places, he straddled the line with his own opinions instead of facts. I personally was offended by his political swipe of President Trump. His liberal politics then exposed himself further with continued "fawning" over his fellow New Englander, Romney. I was left with an unsettled feeling about the true motive of this article which could have been really good, but fell flat!
Arlene BascomDecember 21, 2020
Great advice, Carolyn. This is one of many inspirational ideas I have gained from your articles. Thank you so much for sharing your life and wonderful ideas with us. I love the fact that your ideas are all so practical and usable, but that you always add the spiritual dimension as well.
You are a true inspiration to me!
GayeDecember 21, 2020
I really enjoyed this article, but I believe you made one mistake. It was Cap Garland who went with Almanzo, not Almanzo's brother Royal. As this is a story of real people and really events,
Cap needs to to be remembered and honored for his sacrifice for the town. I love your suggestion to read this story as a way to teach and build resilience. Family history stories can do the same thing. Thank you for your insights.
Ann SDecember 21, 2020
Scot & Maurine,
What a special Christmas podcast. My heart is full, my love and appreciation for all you do to lift and inspire is overflowing at this time. Please have a wonderful and very Merry Christmas and a blessed 2021!!
Mark W MinerDecember 20, 2020
Yes, THIS truly is what the Temple and the Gospel are all about. Thank you for recording such a touching experience, a bright reminder of the Son during the painful losses of mortality.
Ron TitusDecember 20, 2020
His journals and stories like this should be uploaded to FamilySearch.org.
I checked and only found 4 pictures, but NO STORIES!
Duane and Chris HallDecember 20, 2020
Scot and Maurine - Oh, how we loved this beautiful Christmas podcast. Each word, each story was so carefully chosen and along with the stunning music in the background, touched us and filled our hearts with joy. We feel so blessed to have had you share your knowledge and testimonies of the Book of Mormon with us this past year. Your generous hearts and pure love of Christ continually teach us. May your home be filled to overflowing this Christmas with the same joy and love that you continually share with us
JaredDecember 20, 2020
Definitely not an endorsement and I believe this is an effort to safeguard our freedom to believe.
Rosalie & Howard PiersonDecember 19, 2020
Thank you for another life lesson! How to enjoy the simple things, especially oranges and nuts! We are laughing with your wife about her stretched stocking! Love your stories!
cdDecember 17, 2020
Beautiful! Thank you for pointing us to Christ our Redeemer.
MaryAnnDecember 17, 2020
I do lots of large puzzles. ‘‘Tis is one of the hardest I have ever done. Definitely not for children. We bought it to do with the grand children, but didn’t have the time while visiting. I did it and it’s nowglued and waiting to be framed. I certainly don’t want to do It again.
Gladys OwensDecember 17, 2020
Beautiful!
Wanda NovakDecember 17, 2020
My journal arrived today. It is more beautiful than I expected. My one vIsit to Nauvoo years ago needs to be repeated. What an amazing place. While I love journals and planners, the theme of this one pulled at my heart. One of our daughters and her family recently moved to Nauvoo. The hour drive we have enjoyed for the past five years to visit them has stretched to a day and a half. Now each day when I look at this beautiful book I will think of them and imagine them in those very streets and buildings portrayed in the inspiring photos. Thank you for this precious gift.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 17, 2020
If the link doesn’t work, email me and I will send you a pdf. My email is: [email protected]. Thanks for your interest.
KathleenDecember 17, 2020
Beautifully worded as usual and once again my heart swells in longing to return to these sacred edifices.
Billie NicholsonDecember 16, 2020
Thank you for all your efforts this year. These podcasts have touched my life and enlarged my understanding.
SusanDecember 16, 2020
You could have stepped through those choices in another order and eliminated the surrogacy leaving no good options, which is what the Catholic church's dignitas humanae says
Holly DudleyDecember 16, 2020
Thank you so much for this great gift & for your spiritual insights. Unfortunately I have had no luck in downloading. Would you mind sending me some instructions. I get as far as the page to manage blogs but when I paste in the link you gave it still does not come up.
Thank you so much.
M MansellDecember 16, 2020
On the Christmas Eve that was two months after my mother’s passing, I was retiring to bed and feeling peace and joy about the next day. I felt ready. All things were prepared but I was also realizing it was my first Christmas without my mother. Soon after I was comfortably in bed and pondering, a vision came of my mother and she was standing in the air in glory. She was whole and complete in her temple clothes but without a veil. In her last months of life, she had had her left leg amputated just below the knee due to diabetic complications. Now she was in a most whole and glorious state with bright light all around her and a radiant smile. She did not speak but I received a message of her love for her family. I arose, after the vision closed, and typed up a letter of her love to my children, made copies and rolled them up with a ribbon around them and placed them in each sock to be read Christmas morning.It was also wonderful to relate this experience to my siblings and help them feel at peace with her passing and to rejoice in her graduation to a much better life.
JannaDecember 16, 2020
Thank you. What a delightful party.
Beth TDecember 16, 2020
Thank You!!! I was touched by your gratitude “ I thank Heavenly Father for giving me an exciting idea that produced a tangible positive. ” Grateful He sustained you through your illness & blessed us all through your writings. Fabulous!!!
Dianna PotterDecember 16, 2020
I have a sister in law say " I've never seen a family with a work ethic like your family". My brother, sister and I learned by example and chores all our lives. We were required to have our beds made before we left our rooms by school age. Do I regret these lessons? No, now over 5 decades later that lesson remains. Now my granddaughter at 6 knows grandma's expectation and we do it together.
David ChristiansenDecember 16, 2020
When I was in the LTM (yes, I'm that old) in Hawaii, Cleon Skousen spoke. He suggested the reason we do not have the sealed portion of the plates is that we are not yet good enough students of what we already have. He also suggested that if we had that portion then we would be held accountable for that as well. Where much is given........
Edi WinbergDecember 15, 2020
What a beautiful story. I feel your pain. I moved from Southern California to Alberta Canada. i still haven't warmed up.. Our daughter lives in Virginia and the weather was very nice. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
MarJean LewisDecember 15, 2020
We have so enjoyed your podcasts this year. You have helped us love the Book of Mormon more and more. Thank you for your willingness to share your experiences.
JaimeDecember 15, 2020
So grateful it is Taipei. With Hong Kong closed, we desperately need a temple to perform ordinances where Chinese characters can be read. Grateful familysearch is working on a system to turn these characters into western pronunciations so we can continue if we had to. Pray for the people in Taiwan. China is threatening.
Janna Stout MorrellDecember 15, 2020
This was such a beautiful article and just what I needed today! Also, it is fantastic that you would give away such a book! I’m excited to read it! Thank you, Thank you, thank you!
Linda Starr WinansDecember 15, 2020
AMEN! Strangers no more.... What a marvelous story. THANKS for sharing! Merry Christmas to you both from snowy Wisconsin!
michael edwardsDecember 15, 2020
stop washing their clothes, cooking whatever they want at meal time, and driving them wherever they want to go and then see how quickly they get their little behinds in gear.
honestly the parents of today are a joke.
CherieDecember 15, 2020
Thank your for your insightful words, your optimism, and for the free book. I look forward to reading it! I’m grateful for your positive contribution to my day!
Tanya NeiderDecember 14, 2020
For those of you who wish to obtain a pdf version of the flyers/infographs, please message me on Facebook (Tanya Anderson Neider).
C M RonaldDecember 14, 2020
Hi there. I really liked the article. I have one question... Jared, Alma, Amulek were all in the Old Testament. When Jesus Christ came, He taught us how to pray with 'The Lord's Prayer' for example... So I guess I'm a bit confused as to why pray after B.C/Old Testament examples...
LexaGraemeDecember 14, 2020
Readers, please know that not all children of adoption go through some type of devastating primal loss. There are children of adoption that understand their birth parents just might have loved them so much and knew they deserved something better than what they could provide. Their adopted family IS their family. This is the case in my family.
Mike GriffithDecember 14, 2020
More intolerance and exclusion from the crowd that preaches "tolerance and inclusion" to everyone else.
Jennifer L ChurchillDecember 14, 2020
Cindy,
Thank you for your beautiful description of what life can be like when the torrential rain and wind seem to be tearing you apart and then the sweet, sweet, comfort of our Savior and loved ones who form this united covering to strengthen and unify and hold you up when all else seems to fail.
Despite months ahead of my husband's passing, in which, I prepared myself for this eventuality, you are never actually prepared when the moment happens. In the months that would follow I was again unprepared to lose my apartment and the financial assistance, I had been receiving. I was broke and homeless..Then again this month I have found myself in the same predicament.
Through all this, the one thing that never wavered was the love and support of my family. I am blessed with five other siblings and my love for them has grown by leaps and bounds and they have pulled that "canopy" of support and understanding around me.
I have chosen to stay close to our Heavenly Father and Savior. I have not once walked alone through this even if at times as I cried myself to sleep over the loss of my dearest companion.
I know this is long, but thank you for allowing me to share this with you.
Jeff and Wendy HerbertDecember 14, 2020
It is with great joy I read Elder Dube’s prayer. We were taught the Gospel of Jesus Christ by Reg Nield shortly before leaving Zimbabwe 42 years ago. I will never forget the beautiful Spirit I felt standing for the first time on that Chapel site in Highlands It comes as no surprise a Temple will built there.
Anita EDecember 14, 2020
Loved your article. I also served in Brazil and know exactly what you meant!
LewisDecember 14, 2020
In many ways, Christmas is the hardest holiday for me to celebrate, because joy of the Savior is far too often lost in the materialism of our hustle and bustle to celebrate in just the "right" way. Your story allows us to refocus our efforts and lift our vision a bit higher. When we studied this week in Moroni about charity, I was reminded once again of the pure love of Christ that must accompany all that we do. Thank you for sharing this gift with us. May all of our Christmas seasons be filled with that pure love of Christ as well.
MichelleDecember 14, 2020
This article brought me a lot of peace and a course correction today. Im dealing w a difficult situation that i cant see being resolved anytime soon and my heart hurts. God does know and love us all. Thank you for these reminders.
ChappDecember 13, 2020
All fiat money fails. Simple as that. If you think that the church can use current money to start a bank, when that money fails, you are dreaming. This article is spot on, but the solution isn't the church. The solution is having real money and real skills that will be in demand. Very good article and timely. Had no idea it was this bad.
Detective Christopher LeGrow--Omaha Police Department.December 13, 2020
I was a missionary in Columbus, Ohio from 1980-1982. Columbus was a cluster city for Cambodian Refugees. We helped them with cars, apartments, clothes. They came to Ohio in winter. Horrible experience for people that have never been cold in their lives. Their stories at first were unbelievable but when the same stories were told by different people the magnitude of their horrific experience became clear. They were a sweet and humble people. Is there some way I can help? Donation etc.
pornpicsDecember 13, 2020
Wish You All The Best In 2021!
KimDecember 12, 2020
Loved this. The sensitivity and tenderness in the authors response, validating and encouraging those in this situation was beautifully done.
Cary HolmquistDecember 11, 2020
That’s what we would all like/need—whether from Santa or someone else on the other side of the veil, the gift would be most welcome. What a great wish from a heart which has turned to her fathers and mothers!
Mark BishopDecember 11, 2020
I truly feel my fallen nature, even as a struggle to be kind and faithful. Didn't Jesus say that only one was good, even our Father in Heaven? I pray for His mercy for myself and everyone else in this world of disappointment and struggle. It is only through the merits of Jesus Christ that any of us have any chance at all.
Becky OttesonDecember 11, 2020
Thankful to Sister Webb for this thoughtful, and thought provoking lesson.
Jane E BrayDecember 11, 2020
Thanks so much for this uplifting and inspiring story of a new way to not only look at, but celebrate Christmas!!! HUGS Kindness matters more than monetary things.
MJSDecember 11, 2020
This is not an easy road. But it can be a consecrating road. My experience is different in origin, but the lessons may be parallel. Her disabilities, and inabilities, whatever they are exactly, are not eternal. How does she show her husband that she loves him? What daily actions or responses demonstrate her heart? Is there substance there, and can he see the eternal future in the joy of that day when all these mortal handicaps fall away? I was just rereading 2Corinthians 4:17 this morning: "For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory." We feel the affliction is not 'light' now that we're living it, but before we came to this earth we saw and understood the 'glory' as we cannot on this side of the veil. That was a powerful insight to me at a point of need.
Who is your wife as a daughter of God who will have all losses restored in that glory which is to come? Can you learn to place the burdens of those present losses at the Savior's feet, and through the power of his love and presence find lightness of heart? Ask and keep asking to be able to see her as the Savior sees her. Create, use, and recognize a support system. Get care for yourself, get medical or counseling support grounded in the gospel, remember that your own needs matter--don't just subsume them in being a caretaker, that's unsustainable and not what God requires of you or wants for you--but there may be a path of happiness here still.
Prayers and hope go with you.
MatDecember 11, 2020
I'm not sure how Mark Skousen, presumably a relative of Cleon Skousen, is considered an unbiased reviewer. Cleon Skousen's and Ezra Taft Benson's political views have a lot of overlap. Cleon Skousen's politics are something Matthew Harris discusses, not entirely favorably. I appreciate the exhaustive research Matt Harris has done and plan to purchase this book.
It is helpful to understand what went on behind the scenes in church leadership and the efforts of Apostle Benson's senior leaders to reign in his political activism which was often done over the pulpit. A recognition that not all church leaders were in agreement helps free me up to develop my own moral frameworks as an active member of the church who sometimes sees political issues differently than some of the church leaders. When we work to create a voting block among church members, creating a cultural attitude that only certain right-wing political views are considered acceptable, we end up losing some of our valued young people, among other valued members. I wish for a big tent within the church where we welcome people with different views and different backgrounds. Matthew Harris points out that church leaders such as Spencer Kimball and many others recognized the importance of remaining politically neutral, allowing church members to consider varied political viewpoints and that this was crucial to the growth of the church. The more the church becomes exclusively aligned with one political viewpoint we alienate members and prospective members.
Debbi M.December 10, 2020
To Patricia: I can only image your pain. You can still be healed--it does not take renewing a negative relationship to do that. You sound much better off without the hurt of that relationship. You are not less because you choose not to be with that man anymore. Be kind to yourself. You are the one in charge of your own happiness, and not a damaged vessel. Be free and positive!
Debbi M.December 10, 2020
I love this! How simple and profound. You have sparked me!
Lynnette BatesDecember 10, 2020
Is there a place where we can actually read or download the handouts (flyers) for the virtual youth temple trip, the "Let's go Family History" and the Kinston Stake Family History challenge? It would be great to be able to see what the activities entailed and how they could be adapted to our ward or stake. Thank you.
TaceyDecember 10, 2020
I don't think this article is a "paranoid conspiracy theory" considering that the entire latter half of the Book of Mormon addresses the devastating effects of conspiracy. What do you think a secret combination is? The Nephite and Lamanite societies were both destroyed by governmental and societal conspiracy. Since the Book of Mormon was written for our day and to help us navigate our modern world is it really so paranoid to consider that this author might have a point? We are told not to be naive. We are told to be wise as foxes. What this author is writing about may not happen, but it will not hurt us to be prepared for it. When ye are prepared, ye shall not fear.
vickieDecember 9, 2020
what can one say. i myself dont believe in doing this...giving your embryo's to a place that freezes them and you never use them..or maybe people who have hysterectomys ..the hospital can take those embryo's and save them..and then later put them into a womb to be born....to me its playing God....needless to say i dont think its right....but that would be my opinion for me....
Peter SchlegelDecember 9, 2020
Thank you for your excellent counsel on prayer Br Goddard.i too have had times where I feel my prayers were so lacking and I was just not connecting with my Father in Heaven. Being responsible for many souls at given times he always made His will known but I often felt there could be a much stronger connection. My life has often been a "mess" and it's good to know others have struggled along with me.
Your insights and plain speaking are a true blessing to me.
Thank you!
Janeen BurkeDecember 9, 2020
I didn’t get the feeling that the author was telling the Church what to do, but I would have liked to have felt more faith in the leadership as prophets, seers and revelators. I have no doubt that the leaders are well aware of this and the greater persecution coming. I truly believe that Christ Himself directs the Church and no doubt they are being prepared and it’s just a matter of time when we receive further instruction. Personal revelation is so important and the Book of Mormon spells out very clearly of the secret combination that will bring an end of all nations and that it will happen before the second coming. Then you have the very clear warnings from several leaders, but especially President Nelson that the second coming is near. He even told us to “repent and do it now, time is running out.” Can’t get much clearer than that!
They have been warning us for decades and they have been preparing us spiritually for the law of consecration, which I feel is coming soon. We will be called upon that law just as we have been called upon for the law of tithing as a preparation of the higher law. This is all very important that we should be prepared for and remember if we are prepared, then we “shall not fear”.
Lori ThorntonDecember 9, 2020
Such great insights and food for thought! However, I dont' want to be too quick to throw out the "standard" formula for prayer. Showing true gratitude for what we have first very often changes the rest of the prayer. Sometimes we truly forget about all of the great things we have! It's very hubling to be reminded of all the luxuries of life that we often don't even think about (utilities, clean water, heating and air conditioning, a warm bed, etc). I've been humbled many, many times to tears in this first part of the standard prayer formula. It sets the tone for great humility for the remainder of the prayer, and puts me in awe of His love for me!
A happy wife in recoveryDecember 9, 2020
This was good to listen to now. I bought the book 10 years ago when it first came out. It was scary and painful then. I am so much farther down the road of healing. I just want wives to know that healing is possible through the Atonement of the Lord Jesus Christ. I can't saw where my husband is in his journey, since he is still not ready to share his thoughts, feelings or experiences with me. I have always stuck with him, since we are married for time and eternity. I still have hope for him to change and be happy!. I found that I couldn't change him; I could only change myselt to be a happy person. I have grown closer to the Savior and my husband by accepting him, forgiving him and love HIM, NOT his behavior. Once I could separate the two, I could heal.. Thank you for the book and the podcast. You guys are wonderful!
LexaGraemeDecember 9, 2020
Bravo
LexaGraemeDecember 9, 2020
Haha!
PaniaDecember 9, 2020
This treasured memory made me smile! I remember those video rental and pizza stores, and I think everyone can relate to having to go back in and face the same employees! Great times. Thanks so much for sharing.
Dan HammondDecember 9, 2020
Thank you Richard for an insightful description of the Restored Gospel. It was very well written and interesting. I really valued the description of the 12 gifts of the Restoration. We met several years ago on a Book of Mormon cruise. You and Linda were our teachers.!
so, I feel like I know you better as a writer. Thanks again!
Tom WoodDecember 8, 2020
A timely and stirring lesson, Breck. As you advised, despite the political morass we find ourselves confronted with these days, we can never go wrong by involving charity as we deal with the issues (or anything in life for that matter).
Patricia G. SchellDecember 8, 2020
Sadly, I do not want to heal, to renew the relationship. Forgiving is enough. I can not put myself in that place again. One of trust that was betrayed not just through pornography but so many little instances over 43 years, that I didn't begin to put together until the meaness became unbearable and extended to our grown children. Do I still care? As for a former friend. I still worry but not to the point of putting myself at further risk and pain. Too many years of broken trust, because I so much wanted to trust. To believe. It's very lonely. A different kind of pain, but still pain.
Mark StephanDecember 8, 2020
I don't find this to be paranoid in the least, or some sort of right wing crazy talk either, as has been suggested.
This is all very credible and well researched. Much of what we suspect might happen, has been documented as already happening. And further, the prophets have been preparing us for decades (at least) to be ready for this. Not only is this a subject worth discussing, but it needs to be applied as part of our preparedness efforts.
My wife and I have been paying down our debt as hard as we can go, but based on this, I think it's time we start diverting a percentage of our efforts into cash-on-hand as well.
Thank you for your research and your well written article.
Maryann TaylorDecember 8, 2020
At the mention of suicide I would have gotten this relative out of that house immediately. It is unlikely the abusive parents are going to change from "talking to them." There is time for counselling and reconciliation later, but the abused individual need to be out of that house, as in yesterday! She is an adult and certainly does not need to explain why she is leaving, nor do her extended family members need to make excuses if she comes to live with them, or if they help her in other ways.
Maryann TaylorDecember 8, 2020
Beautiful, Joni! You have a wonderful Christmas, too! I am going to use your experience as a pattern to open up conversations with others. I loved the simplicity of it.
Maryann TaylorDecember 8, 2020
There is some good advice here, however, #2 troubles me. I do no consider myself "a mess" and I think it would offend Heavenly Father to describe myself in this way. I am also not "evil continually." Heavenly Father know we are weak and that we will make mistakes. There is a difference between genuine repentance and self-flogging.
Gary PrinceDecember 8, 2020
One commenter referred to this article as a conspiracy theory. It is not a theory. The UN secretary-general, António Guterres, recently advocated for all UN members to change to a system where all property is owned by the government. John Kerry has openly spoken of a 're-set' of the economic and financial systems in the world and speaks of a one-world order. These people are advocating that all people's bank accounts and real property be confiscated and redistributed as the elites determine. These goals are being touted to be accomplished by 2030. These are not conspiracies. These groups who advocate these changes are no longer shy about their intents.
I believe the author brings up some very valid points. However, it would be necessary for the church to belong to a coordinating organization in order for it to be effective. Since most religions in this scenario would be persecuted, one would have to align all those religions into a cooperative type system and hope they have the ability to communicate. If censorship created an inability to use digital communication, then it would be difficult to establish such a system on a large scale.
My recommendation is to follow the prophets' council and teachings. Have food storage and, most important, learn to hear the Spirit's voice and receive revelations. The day may come that most communication within the church and among the righteous will be done through the spirit and through revelation because man's creations will not be available!
Craig R. FrogleyDecember 8, 2020
Thank you for this entire series of powerful insight and edifying examples. All that I have read from your and Linda's pen has been of this same quality and has blessed our lives as a family.
Ruth AllenDecember 8, 2020
I am very familiar with the signs of the times and also that God is in charge of everything. He will expose all evil and destroy them. Each one. We must believe in the loving guidance of our beloved Savior, Jesus Christ and follow the individual promptings that come when we pray for them. Following our Prophet and apostles and the Holy Ghost is the only way to navigate through these times. Fear is not the way to make decisions. Love and trust in our Savior is!!
DDecember 8, 2020
I think this article is very timely. I think there is a distinct possibility this very scenario IS going to happen. Thank you, Meridien, for publishing thought provoking comment.
LorraineDecember 8, 2020
This is not "right wing conspiracy"". It is happening in China. If you think we are immune to conspiracy and bad things happening, look no further than the Book of Mormon.. We habe been told more than once that we will be persecuted in the last days.
WilsonDecember 8, 2020
I can see it coming, although we would all like to disbelieve it. I think there really is no doubt that right wing thought, including religious and patriotic expression, will be suppressed, as it currently is, but it will greatly worsen under a leftist regime.
Richard EyreDecember 8, 2020
Thanks to all for reading and thinking about the incalculable doctrinal blessings of the Restoration. May gratitude reign! Let's stay in touch!
J. HamiltonDecember 8, 2020
Great article. What the author is touching on also has another name-Mindfulness. If this strikes a chord with you, I suggest you read "The Power of Stillness: Mindful Living for Latter-day Saints"; also "Transformations of Faith" with Thomas Wirthlin McConkie. Prayer is such an amazing conduit and during these times of increased revelation (Priesthood, Home based church, etc.) the heavens are truly opened.
DebiDecember 8, 2020
Interesting perspective. Maybe this will bring us all to "have all things in common" where we support each other.
Robert D StarlingDecember 8, 2020
This article has given me pause for thought. We live in a world that seems on the one hand to worship at the altar of "diversity" and "inclusion", while at the same time is quite ready to "cancel" someone with a diversity of thought or speech if it reflects a difference of opinion with which it does not agree.
Certainly the Latter-day Saints have suffered terrible persecutions, including un-Constitutional government assaults from the Missouri extinction order to the Edmunds-Tucker Act and beyond.
But it seems to me that the examples given in this article of corporate persecution have clear remedies (at least in the US) in the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and followup legislation that prohibits discrimination by anyone (including banks, Google, etc) on the basis of many things, including religion as "sincerely held beliefs".
It seems to me that the people who have been wronged should get lawyers and sue the heck out of the banks, etc. who have cancelled them. Or am I missing something?
DayDecember 8, 2020
This is an amazing and well thought out article. Anyone who actually studies the persecutions and events to happen before the second coming from the Bible know about those who will or won’t be allowed to buy and sell. One political party’s leader here in the US. has already labeled and sought to classify religious groups as safe harbors for hate. It has already begun. It doesn’t take a genius to see where that kind of label and subsequent policies will go. Brilliant and prophetic article that offers hope in a solution. Anyone who feels this is paranoid or right wing needs to study their scriptures and awaken.
Of the news channels and social media who are afraid to share anything of this sort. Blessings to youDecember 8, 2020
Thank you for your research AND courage to share. No doubt you will be getting many who do not like to hear this kind of thing but when we start to have experiences ourselves and friends also having experiences with the banking system not being able to use cash Etc, it’s concerning. I don’t think this is fear mongering at all as some may say. It’s simply warning and getting informed. The more information we have the better apt we are to making decisions. When we are prepared we won’t fear. Thank you so much for this extensive research and your time taken to write this. And thank you meridian magazine for your willingness to share this. Please do not take it down please do not be like the restOf the news channels and social media who are afraid to share anything of this sort. Blessings to you!
RenaeDecember 8, 2020
Where is the concern for how current banking practices impact the poor? This piece is conjecture. Pay day loans and tax refund advance and lines of credit geared to those unsophisticated enough to be lured in are current reality. Interest rates on these loans, when added to application fees close in on 50%. Tax preparation companies lure in clients, who pay exhoribant amounts for simple tax returns, with promises of zero interest loans that usually get them $500 two to three weeks earlier than they would have. But the cost of the return is $500, so the client actually loses much of the refund amount to tax preparation fees. Legal, yes. Moral, no. But Utah is right in there with its pro-business culture demanding the legislature not act to protect the poor. We do not want Zion. How could the rich get and stay righ without the right to exploit the poor?
TerryDecember 8, 2020
Very happy to hear. Wish more countries were in a position to open. My temple list is long and I will need great help to finish the work. I pray God will send us help.
TerryDecember 8, 2020
Very happy to hear. Wish more countries were in a position to open. My temple list is long and I will need great help to finish the work. I pray Hod will send us help.
essayDecember 8, 2020
I'm not as concerned about the banking issues in this article (people will always find ways to take your money) as I am about the censorship issues. We now live in an era of censorship by those that think they know what's ethically correct and other viewpoints are labeled "harmful," society must not tolerate them and must be "canceled." No one has given them the authority, but wield it they do.
Ronald L. McKimDecember 7, 2020
We already are living in the "days of cancel culture"! Anyone naïve enough to think they are immune, try making a comment on social media, or stating your religious believes publicly, or maybe in a work situation mention that you are Christian/Conservative. Better yet, wear a MAGA hat! Just be prepared for the "Social Brown Shirts" to show up to shame you, cancel you, and shut you up. And yes, they will deny your rights as Big Tech is now doing.
This article is spot on, good job!
Andrew ArnottDecember 7, 2020
Digital currency already completely solves this as it eliminates the bank entirely. But most merchants don't take it yet:(
LKDecember 7, 2020
I absolutely don't believe this is premature, paranoid, or inappropriate. On the contrary, what do the scriptures and prophecies warn and where do you stand in your commitment? I've lived in enough university towns with many members who prided themselves on being 'above' risking any appearance of not fitting in with the larger culture. It doesn't surprise me some posters are of this sentiment. I feel a glint of hope reading this article, hope for our futures and that of our children. Thank you and prayers for us all.
RussDecember 7, 2020
Far from being extreme, to have an alternative to the current financial system will be a wise and practical decision. In addition to dealing with discrimination against traditional Christian/LDS values that are rapidly building, there is the "Great Economic Reset" that is coming as well. Many aspects of a social credit score system as seen in China, as noted, are already starting to evolve. To have an alternative and not lose the value of your hard-earned savings is wise. It is not a question of if, but of when the props that have kept our economy going will fail.
However, it will be an extremely difficult path to take with opposition every step of the way from the "establishment."
Those who think that such events as being described will not happen are seriously mistaken and to not even try to make proactive measures is extremely short-sighted.
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Susan D MarxDecember 7, 2020
I tried to post this to my private family Facebook group it just goes to my kids by pushing on the Facebook button associated with this article and it immediately told me that my Facebook was locked because of suspicious activity. I have never ever had my Facebook locked because of suspicious activity, it's never been locked for any reason. this is crazy bizarre.
NannaDecember 7, 2020
This is so scary to me I am trembling! Please tell me this is unlikely to happen to good honest people. I think this information would come from the prophet. Why would you publish this type of material. Not uplifting at all. If this is a scare tactic it worked.
VAL C. LEWISDecember 7, 2020
Very timely and important article. Thank You!
vickieDecember 7, 2020
I WANT TO KNOW about these things happening in the world ...because these things move along around the world....we and our children are going to have to ever be on watch.....notice what is happening in our own country.....just do what the Lord wants us to do.....prepare...
Scott PugsleyDecember 7, 2020
This I a bad sign - Meridian getting involved in extreme right-wing advocacy of what the Church should do. I urge Meridian to stay on the path and avoid this kind of advocacy.
Pam BiggerDecember 7, 2020
Oh my... sounds possible...sounds a little scary...hope people do not panic....time will tell how it all works out...really glad to know that someday the Savior will be in charge and evil will be bound etc...
Rick ChaddertonDecember 7, 2020
This is a well thought out and researched article and looks to our future when we can no longer "buy or sell" without the mark of the beast, according to John.
I am not persuaded however that the Church can create a banking entity to skirt the various bullying (payment) entities that you quote in your article. Even if the Church were to set up a bank of sorts, there are utility service providers that could still cut off the infrastructure needed to run a bank (broadband, power etc). Therefore what?
The other side of the coin is even though you have identified that Churches such as ours could quickly be identified as a "hate group" and have bank accounts etc cut off - what about organized crime who survive and use bank accounts to grow their business despite AML laws worldwide. Then there are more nefarious users like Pornhub that Governments and banks seem unwilling to ban.
Glen ODecember 7, 2020
This is an interesting read and offers items that individuals and families should consider. That said, I have no doubt that the church leaders either already are or were at least 20 years ahead of the issues developed here. They have been counseling us to get out of debt and to pay off our mortgages for well more than 100 years. These are probably the best things we can do. We have been asked to store necessary items to sustain life and President Hinckley said on more than one occasion to have a little money set aside at home in case you couldn't access it at the bank. Follow the brethren and the spirit and we will be able to withstand these challenges.
Claudia WilsonDecember 7, 2020
Well said my friend. Thank you for taking a strong stand and sharing it with others!
JimDecember 7, 2020
There are a few credit unions that their field of membership is the Chruch of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Just find one of them and you will not have a problem with your account or getting loans.
GWDecember 7, 2020
If these forces and de-person individuals, can't/won't they all do that to an financial institution trying to skirt their punishment. Will it do any good to have financial access through say a "Zion's" bank if no other bank will work with them? This article is concerning, but I'm not sure the solution would make any difference.
Alan WildDecember 7, 2020
This is a very timely article. Church members will surely face this banking issue one day and now is the time to prepare.
Terry StephensDecember 7, 2020
I have had a growing concern about this very situation. I believe this to be exactly what we will see in the very near future. It fits with prophesy and scriptural descriptions of the final days before Christ returns. It would be wonderful to have a totally independent financial system not just for church members, but for all who cherish faith and freedom. We must also have an independent social networking and communications platform. The church has the basic foundations in place for adaptation and expansion. I hope it is being discussed seriously in the highest councils of the church.
VaDecember 7, 2020
Right on! To keep our money from supporting The Great Reset via the Big Banks would be effective. There seems to be every indication that social censoring is happening and Will become more anti-Christian.
ShaunaDecember 7, 2020
Wonderful--thanks for sharing! so glad you got to go! I cannot imagine a mission without being endowed. And thank you for the "one by one" reminder. My parents are in assisted living and have been in quarantine for over 3 weeks. I NEED to know that the Lord is aware of them
LexaGraemeDecember 7, 2020
Beautiful message. Beautiful photos. Thank you.
George NolanDecember 7, 2020
Wonderful uplifting story, thank you for sharing it.
Edward Rehder IIIDecember 7, 2020
Great article! We need to keep our finger on this pulse. Good ideas as well. Thanks
EDecember 7, 2020
This is incredibly paranoid and I don't think it's helpful to feed that kind of thinking.
RitaDecember 7, 2020
When I first read this article in SquareTwo, I thought about the references in Revelation to the "mark of the beast". We usually think of it as a physical mark, like a tattoo. But in our digital age, it may be a "virtual" mark. The counsel from the prophets to get out of debt, have useful skills, and develop spiritual strength ring louder now than ever.
Valori Foster TreftDecember 6, 2020
Breck,
Thank you for this great article . You’ve lifted my spirit today as I have pondered your words and those of the Prophet and Book of Mormon. I engage in political discussion with my grandson. He exemplifies this teaching. No matter how much we disagree no voice is raised in anger, no heart hurt and all ends in love and appreciation for each other. I’ve shared your article with him and other members of my family. Thanks again for sharing your knowledge and spirit.
AngieDecember 6, 2020
Empty ourselves of ourselves and let God flood in; I love this.
TMDecember 5, 2020
Mr. Hill, as the saying goes, those who would trade freedom for security deserve neither. Voluntarily compliance with requested and reasonable measures to minimize risk is acceptable yet maintains our freedoms, but accepting unconstitutional government mandates is mere acquiescence.
CHARLES DEFRANCHIDecember 5, 2020
I am always grateful for Brother Goddard's inspiring comments, but was somewhat troubled by Madeline's comments. Many changes took place in Temple ordinances over the last few decades, but I found them enlightening and empowering at all times. It may just be, as for the Law of Moses, that what is right for one period of time may not be such for another one, and this is why we need constant revelation.
LewisDecember 5, 2020
I sent a comment earlier but it seems not to have been posted, so I will repeat it.
I love this story. It shows how small acts of kindness ripple throughout our world, touching the lives of so many more than we can possibly imagine. And I hope this small gift you have given us of this precious story will multiply and touch the lives of more than you can possibly imagine. Thank you for this precious gift you have so generously shared with us.
Carole ManleyDecember 5, 2020
Thank you
Lawrence James NielsenDecember 5, 2020
Thank you. I believe that you are spot on.
JOHN RICHARD HILLDecember 5, 2020
After the 9/11 terrorist attack and the initial preparations for a military response, Pres. Hinckley delivered his landmark October 2001 General Conference address, "The Times in Which We Live". He reminded us that we must do our duty, that peace may be denied us for a season, that we may be inconvenienced, and that---some of our liberties may be curtailed.
Today, the world is gripped in a different crisis---the COVID-19 pandemic. Church services and activities, including temple worship, have been curtailed as a reasonable and responsible effort to stem the spread and carnage of the disease---not because government is conspiring to take away our freedom to worship. Let us all be part of the pandemic solution---despite the temporary inconvenience.
Mary-Rose McMullinDecember 5, 2020
Such a great experience! I was so touched by this movie. Just wanted to let everyone know that it is also available on DVD here: https://forgottencarols.com/store/
KathleenDecember 5, 2020
PRICELESS!
KathleenDecember 4, 2020
Thank you. Very well thought out, documented and written.
Lanaia RobertsonDecember 4, 2020
Thank you for a beautifully written article. This country was created for the people, by the people - who are not perfect, but try to do their best. We have learned a lot and have a lot yet to learn. This can be done only if we respect each other and listen to each other and work to solve our problems amicably. God bless us that we will be able to do that.
Jay SDecember 4, 2020
As usual great thoughts and advice
See the was something you could....write this timely piece
Denise CottrellDecember 4, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing this article. It is just what needed to read today.
MicheleDecember 4, 2020
I think it's more helpful to focus on emotional abuse than on diagnostic labels, since we can't diagnose people ourselves, but the label seems to be a current favorite. I truly admire this wonderfully compassionate writer wanting to assist her young niece.
Newell HarwardDecember 4, 2020
Great article. Thank you. Needed it this morning.
Karen RaffertyDecember 4, 2020
It is true that the inception and foundational documents for the United States of America were inspired; however, the country has strayed from its divine commission. You cannot lock up immigrant children in cages or kill with drones and overlook "collateral damage," read non-combatants. God led the Israelites, the Nephites, and the Jaredites into promised lands, but they all lost their status as exceptional when they flagrantly employed the practices of the Gadiantons.
LewisDecember 4, 2020
What a beautiful story of how small gifts are multiplied! I hope this small gift you have given us will be multiplied many times over during this Christmas season. Thank you so much for sharing, both in the Dominican Republic and now.
MikeDecember 3, 2020
I always enjoy Sister Pratts stories
Jenny PuckettDecember 3, 2020
The story of the Pilgrims is being rewritten to be secular, as is much of US history.
Gale E PhillipsDecember 3, 2020
The common perception of the Pilgrims being intolerant of other religions within their colony is true, but the story is more complex than that. They came to establish their own settlement where they could worship according to their specific beliefs and felt that people of different religious beliefs in their settlement would not only dilute their purpose, but also open the settlement up to contention, which they wanted to avoid as this had been part of the old world they were leaving. They didn't come to create a religious democracy. Their idea was that people of other religious convictions should establish their own settlement. I have thought of it as people creating a chess club and then other people join and want to change it into a checkers club.
richard aw smithDecember 3, 2020
I prefer to think of the Reformation as working the soil which implies that God was involved (not just a man-driven effort) but of course not in the specific way as planting the seeds of His Gospel and Priesthood, where this could only be accomplished by God-driven means.
Thanks for your efforts to produce these articles, I am excited to read them!
Gale E PhillipsDecember 3, 2020
This is what happens when the people start to see the government as their caretaker.
Win BroadhurstDecember 3, 2020
If the Book of Mormon is the “most correct book ever written, and the D&C is revelation, why then do we not do many things in them and have changed many others. Now, if your answer is, “modern prophets have received revelation to make these changes”, then revelation is scripture, and why has that scripture not been recorder and given to the membership if this is the true and Living gospel?
Michelle OrndorffDecember 3, 2020
Where can I find this video to save (as your articles are deleted quickly). It’s not on YouTube, that I could find.
Jared SommerDecember 3, 2020
Thank you for writing this article! I have really enjoyed writings of the Catherine Thomas. I wish I knew about her earlier as it would have save me from a lot of wandering. I've never heard of Henri Nouwen until you mentioned him in the list of other authors that you've enjoyed reading. Now I'm hooked on him! Thanks again. These are people who really can change inner spiritual lives because of their own personal integrity.
Lynn HartmanDecember 3, 2020
Thank you. I really enjoyed this article.
Shelli DimigDecember 3, 2020
Anne, thank you for this incredibly valuable and touching article! I can't wait to share it with my family :) I'm grateful that you share people's precious and sacred stories in your articles! Merry Christmas!
Ann De FrancisDecember 3, 2020
This series has been such a blessing to me. Thank you! I have loved the books you and Linda have written since first introduced to them when our family was young. We are close in age and circumstance and have implemented many Eyre suggestions into family life, each time bringing great good. At least one miracle has occurred. I plan to print these final articles (the letters to your friend Rhodes), mark them up, add them to my journal and share them with our six grown children. I wish I could adequately express how grateful I feel that you have taken the time and effort to share your love of the gospel and your use of its power so I can be better in my efforts.
Becky DunganDecember 3, 2020
Becky, Thank you for sharing this uplifting story. "By small and simple things..." Miracles happen when we offer selfless service. We light the world with His light every time we love and care for each other.
Joseph Dee TenneyDecember 3, 2020
I could not find a source for David O McKay's quote. After searching online I found this: Let husband and wife never speak to one another in loud tones, unless the house is on fire.
PaniaDecember 2, 2020
Thank be to God for President Trump and his pro-life leadership.
Sally SmithDecember 2, 2020
I am very surprised are that members are not commenting about how our religious freedom is being challenged. We need to shout from the roof tops that we will fight for our religious liberty, our families, our very lives if need be.
Margaret E. BatesDecember 2, 2020
Wrong! Cuomo's action was an act of public health not an assault upon religion, per se! These are two completely different issues and the one has no bearing, positively or negatively, upon the other.
Attending a crowded church service (or any other crowded event) is hazardous at this time. It is not to target church attendance, it is targeting being in close contact with possibly exposed people.
Until people get this through their heads, we will continue to see this disease spike and spread!
Andrew J. CurrieDecember 2, 2020
It's like comparing apples to oranges to evaluate recall having witnessed a crime, accident, or some other worldly event to recall of something spiritual. Holding the gold plates from which the Book of Mormon was translated and undoubtedly discussing it with the other witnesses is not the same thing as having an accident or crime unexpectedly flash before you! The metal plates did not 'flash' past unexpectedly; they were examined and touched for a period of time. They were anticipated, not a surprise event like an accident or crime. I'm sure seeing and handling the angel-accompanied and provided plates had an indelible spiritual component. Having had spiritual witnesses myself while investigating the Restored Gospel, all the research for court-related gamesmanship is irrelevant to me. Besides, the Lord didn't intend the existence of witnesses to prove anything! The witnesses exist merely to encourage doubters, like I was, to experiment by asking Him. His witness is reliable!
LexaGraemeDecember 2, 2020
Oh no!
Teach your children to do chores!! And to read labels!
Joy LundbergDecember 2, 2020
Thank you for this wonderful, insightful, and inspiring article. So well stated. A great help in teaching others of our core beliefs. Well done, Richard!
ShaunaDecember 2, 2020
thank you Gentri
that made my day! and for promoting Light the Word
thanks for including it Meridian
CADecember 2, 2020
Elections have consequences!
Laura Lee EdwardsDecember 2, 2020
The descendants of John Howland are numerous. The include LDS leaders, as well as political ones. Do. Google search of him for more information.
Michelle CrookDecember 2, 2020
The priesthood power represented in this video by the apostles, all dressed in white, walking down the stairs was awe inspiring! I could see the foundations of hell quaking at the feet of these men. How grateful I am for these, the Lord’s servants!
Georgi SmithDecember 1, 2020
Brother Eyre,
Such an awesome message you have written. I certainly look forward to the next parts. I can tell that you were a great Mission President.
Georgi
Cynthia C.December 1, 2020
I'm looking forward to the rest of this wonderful article about the gifts of the gospel - how appropriate for this time of year!
DL AndersonDecember 1, 2020
I think now many of us can see how we ourselves - when speaking about or teaching the Restored Gospel - focus more on the "wrapping" than the actual gifts. Thank you.
Anna S.December 1, 2020
I love this article and can't wait for the remainder of it. Thank you so much for saving your letters and for sharing them.
Kay RiceDecember 1, 2020
This is one of the best things I've ever read.
Karell BinghamDecember 1, 2020
Thank you so much for your article, it really adds to our ability to speak to others about what we believe! The restoration has a ring of truth all of its own. Great thoughts!
Jan DysonDecember 1, 2020
Wow! Richard Eyre has so beautifully articulated the basic doctrines of the Gospel of Jesus Christ... Is this collection of letters in book form or available anywhere yet? (I feel like it could be so helpful to those of us who have non-member/non- believing family and friends)
Nerita Flake PetersonDecember 1, 2020
Thank you for this insightful and courageous explanation of the "bare bones'
of our beliefs. Your honest, skillful description of our beliefs are the reason that I believe that our doctrine is too good not to be true.
Kate MerrillDecember 1, 2020
Thank you ever so much for these articles with profound and well presented insights about our faith. As an adult convert, I was very much like your friend — desperately yearning for understanding the big picture inside the frame of this seemingly 10,000 piece jigsaw puzzle! I once wrote a note to my sister who had recently taken her own life: “The Gift Unopened”. Like your efforts to (finally!) share the gifts of The Plan of Happiness, many choose to never even open the package. May your “gift” of writing and communicating deeply reach many who are ready to open and embrace the myriad of gifts from heaven, is my prayer.
Robert BoyceNovember 30, 2020
True words always spoken by our prophets
Beth WarnickNovember 29, 2020
So very beautiful and touching. Thanks for letting us hear and watch it.
Teresa HolladayNovember 29, 2020
Direct Descendant
John Howland/Elizabeth Tilley
John Tilley/Joan Hurst
Mr and Mrs Edward Fuller
Samuel Fuller
Mary L NooseNovember 29, 2020
My husband and I both needed this, thank you so much.
Ann S PapworthNovember 28, 2020
Yes, this is just what I needed this morning--faith jumped out at me in a new manner, and I felt a need to send your article on to a couple of sisters who are struggling (as are many right??!!) This is one of those times when I am edified to a new degree. Stay Happy!
Marilyn T. HaddNovember 28, 2020
I wish all of the puzzle-lovers amongst us could form a club and exchange puzzles! We could get T-shirts, have a motto, and maybe an annual retreat! Food! Prizes! (puzzles, of course!)
CCNovember 28, 2020
Thank you so much for addressing this situation.!!
Your suggestions really help me. I am married to a man who displays Covert NARCISSISM behavior and insists he is not that person so no real diagnosis has taken place. Yet divorce has been an option, even after 34 yrs. Even when I wish they're could be another way. We are empty nested also. I turn to the lord and His atonement to help me navigate the ever perplexing environment. Thank you again
MochelleNovember 28, 2020
I loved both the article and the hymn. Thank you for sharing.
EllenNovember 28, 2020
I am so glad we are finally beginning to talk openly about mental illnesses such as personality disorders. This was not the case when I was young and married to a man with borderline personality disorder. Instead, within the church it was all considered sin and Satan. No help there. Especially for the man. Wives were being taught to just follow and support their husbands. Bishops felt they were inspired to counsel for all problems. It was disastrous. I wish you better luck. I will never be able to actually respect priesthood leaders again because of the way I was treated by them.
Colleen ShieldsNovember 28, 2020
I, too, have rediscovered the love for puzzling due to the pandemic. I hadn't done one since the days of my youth over 45 years ago, and new found isolation exhumed and rekindled that desire. In fact, it seems it's all I want to do now! Housework, exercise, etc... have become foreign past times, in my quest for yet one more puzzle piece completion! Should this new fetish simply be a short-term phase, I'm going to savor every minute/piece of it! Hi, my name is Colleen, and I think I might be a puzzle-holic...?
Robert D StarlingNovember 28, 2020
Wonderful thoughts. I believe it is Covey who says the main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing. That applies to the Gospel as well. I would add a sub-question to "Is Joseph Smith a prophet?", and that is, "Is the Book of Mormon true?" There's a reason why it is the Keystone of our religion. If it is a true history of real people, then everything else is true. And if doubt starts to enter in, just to back to that truth and build from there. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on. The Book of Mormon is the knot in the end of the rope.
GTONovember 27, 2020
My mother had NPD and it was awful. She was married twice and both husbands really suffered as did her 3 children. She always deflected and blamed and criticized anyone but herself, but I watched her age to look 120 in her late 60s. Despair was killing her. She would never overtly manifest her guilt, but it just ate away at her silently. So very sad.
Jo Ann OkelberryNovember 27, 2020
This is so beautiful and uplifting.
BART BRONSONNovember 27, 2020
Direct Descendant of John Howland/Elizabeth Tilley
Judy HamiltonNovember 27, 2020
Thank you for the fabulous lesson on Faith. Do you have your lecture on Joseph Smith recorded anywhere? I would love to hear or read it.. Thank you for making "Come Follow Me" a favorite part of my week.
Joy LundbergNovember 27, 2020
Thank you for this inspiring article. Your wisdom and experiences have once again blessed my life. And the hymn is beautiful. May God bless you for blessing us with you wonderful talents.
Linda WestoverNovember 27, 2020
Thanks for sharing your gifts of beautiful music and insightful words! We all need the message of your hymn!
Richard BowermanNovember 27, 2020
What a wonderful article. And I love the song!
Charles HarperNovember 27, 2020
During a storm enroot a young servant of Governor Carver went upside for some fresh air. The ship lurched heavily in a huge swell and he fell overboard. This was John Holland, who would later inherit his master's estate, marry another passenger, Elisabeth Tilly, and have ten children. John had managed to grab a halyard from the ship and survive in the storm until someone missed him. One of his children was a direct descendent of Lucy Mack Smith, Joseph's mother.
MargieNovember 27, 2020
Beauty and power in both the words and music. Filled my heart and soul with instant comfort and peace. Thank you for sharing your talents with all of us.
Debi AndertonNovember 27, 2020
In your printed verses in the second verse you have omitted the next to the last line. Beautiful song! Thanks for your spiritual guidance.
Tanya NeiderNovember 27, 2020
Beautifully written hymn! Thank you for the music, the words, and your thoughts of discovery.
Joel MarksNovember 26, 2020
God bless the Pilgrims a chisen peoples of the Abrahamic civenant. The Pilgrims fulfill thevtruth of Mormons salient prophecies.
Jean LazaneNovember 26, 2020
Awesome!
Myrna LiddellNovember 26, 2020
Thank you for this tender message today. It touched our hearts.
Kayleen A HunsakerNovember 26, 2020
What a marvelous story!!!
Robert D StarlingNovember 25, 2020
Henry Sampson was one of those Pilgrims at the first Thanksgiving. According to Family Search, he was my 8th great-granduncle. I just learned about Henry this week, so Thanksgiving will have a new meaning for our family this year.
Ron BarnesNovember 25, 2020
I recently learned something strange about my ancestry. I am descended from a couple who came over on the Mayflower. However, I am descended from their son who did not make the voyage. He arrived decades later.
Daniel LarsonNovember 25, 2020
Of course, what is not written is that the Pilgrims, for all their virtue, were intolerant of anyone else who did not believe as they did. The history of the rest of the New England colonies is fully about those who fled their colony or were expelled by them because of their differing beliefs. Yes, we should celebrate the Pilgrims. But, yes, as well, we should know them fully, not just their mythical history.
Karen C NewsomNovember 25, 2020
After I read William Bradford's autobiography, I lightly referred to it as Book of Mormon Part Two. An incredible read.
Gary BikmanNovember 25, 2020
Great message/reminder.
Striving to identify God's hand in my life each day, allows my evening prayers of gratitude to be specific and, I believe, more meaningful to Heavenly Father and to me.
Recording these instances in my own journal strengthen my faith and testimony and allows me to more readily recognize "promptings" and have the courage to act on them.
AJ CurrieNovember 25, 2020
We truly are living in a day when the great question is"Where can I turn for truth?" We have 'studies' advocating for masks and isolation and ones advocating against both. We get conflicting news reports from discredited outlets about the successes or failures of countries locking down. We have so called 'scientist' flip-flopping around on their 'expert opinions'. We have politicians--whose hands and pockets are always open to whomever will give them a payday--demonizing anyone who sincerely questions their wisdom or authority to make the extreme dictates emanating from their offices. We have medical doctors who when asked give the feeble answer, "What can wearing a mask hurt?"
So trite suggestions to "do our own research and decide for yourself" are really of very little value. If there has ever been a time in our history when we should not/cannot "trust in the arm of flesh," it is now. This is truly a time when one had better have developed the skill of listening to the Spirit, because we cannot trust in the arm of flesh.
Robin PrestonNovember 25, 2020
Definitely a chosen people. I wonder why they experienced so much death? Was it a cleansing? It seems that God would have protected them. Ver excited the read this book by Tim Ballard. I have already read the Washington and the Lincoln Hypotheses. They are very well researched and written.
Dirk Steenbergen, JrNovember 25, 2020
Coincidence doesnot exist ! Chances are, Joseph SMITH was assassinated, because he was a serious candidate of the Reform Party, for the presidency of the United States ! On 29 January 1844, Joseph SMITH held a meeting in the mayor's office at Nauvoo with the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and others. It was unanimously decided that Joseph would run for president ! On 11 March 1844, Joseph SMITH organized the Council of Fifty, a deliberative political body to promote his candidacy. Sidney Rigdon, a Pennsylvanian, became his running mate. Brother Joseph favored a constitutional amendment providing for capital punishment of public officials, who refused to assist those denied their constitutional rights. He wrote, "The state rights doctrines are what feed mobs." Obviously, Robert KENNEDY was assassinated in the similitude of Joseph SMITH !!!
Maryann TaylorNovember 25, 2020
Oh, how many of us needed this article! I think it is a universal struggle for so many of us to feel discouraged and like we will never be quite good enough. Often we mistake discouraging thoughts about ourselves as messages from the Holy Ghost to whip us into shape. Thank you for reminding us that Heavenly Father and our Savior send us invitations to come to them. They do not weigh us down with discouragement or hopelessness. The Holy Ghost will uplift us and encourage us to keep going--even if we feel like we are moving at a snail's pace. I loved President Nelson's counsel to remember the positive things we have done when we take the Sacrament--not just the things we need to repent of. This will help us have a truer vision of who we are and the goodness that is in each of us.
Maryann TaylorNovember 25, 2020
I hope you will be very kind to yourself during this painful time. Don't make the mistake of overthinking what you might have done, or not done, to save your marriage. I promise you---Life WILL get better and you CAN find happiness again. It will take time, but the day will come when you will feel joy again. When you pray, try and hold the truth in your heart of how much Heavenly Father loves you. He still has a plan for your happiness and will strengthen and guide you.
Maryann TaylorNovember 25, 2020
Thank you so much for this article! I am a direct descendant Of Perregrine White who was born aboard the Mayflower as it sat near the American shore--the first baby from this group to be born in America! I hope I can somehow live up to these great people who showed such courage. I am grateful to know that the feast of that first Thanksgiving so long ago was not just a party with the American natives. It was a celebration of gratitude to God.
Carole GNovember 24, 2020
This is a totally hilarious story! Keep them coming!
Jo Ann OkelberryNovember 24, 2020
I love puzzles, and they keep me sane. My son gave me an Elvis Presley puzzle which was a lot of fun to put together. I lent to a couple in our ward. They really enjoyed putting it together, but the wife has become tired of her husband's singing Elvis songs a lot. My younger brother used to keep a piece of a puzzle in his pocket so he could always put in the last piece. His children say he still does that. I enjoyed your article very much.
Charles HarperNovember 24, 2020
"Peace be unto you."
ShaunaNovember 24, 2020
I have actually done this very puzzle, and I also get mine at thrift stores. I"m glad to hear of the many benefits. My 86 year old Mom is in assisted Living and has been in quarantine for over a week because some residents tested positive. Puzzles are keeping her sane! thanks
Richard EyreNovember 24, 2020
Thanks for reading, and for thinking with me about the greatest of all subjects--love. This is certainly the time of year to do so, and we have never needed it more! Please add to the conversation with your own comments about love.
ChrisNovember 24, 2020
Thank you, Wally. We all need to put our efforts in proper perspective and feel Fathers abiding love and mercy!
Virginia RockwellNovember 24, 2020
What a wonderful start to my day! Thank you!
Leah HawksNovember 23, 2020
Feelings and strong unusual impressions can also come that indicate someone is ready to receive the Gospel. Those feelings subside as the temple work is done.
Christine JohnsonNovember 23, 2020
Your forgotten author is Pres. Dieter F. Uchtdorf in October 2010 gen conference talk, Pride and the Priesthood, or Nov 2010 Ensign.
Elizabethe WaltonNovember 23, 2020
I don't have any social media so I am grateful to be able to post something here. I am grateful that we had twelve years to live in a beautiful home in Palmyra NY. I am grateful for the many friends I made there, for the opportunity to walk the Sacred Grove whenever we wanted, to share our home and out faith with so many guests, family, and friends over the years.
I am grateful that when my husband got sick and we could no longer do that, that our loving Heavenly Father prepared a way for us to live safely and comfortably near family, and that we will be able to build a house to meet his needs.
I am grateful for a wonderful husband, who was an active and talented professional photographer, and had to completely change his life in ways he really did not enjoy. But he did sayo with grace and faith and patience.
His art and his photography endure as a testament to his talent and his faith. He is so good to me. I am forever grateful that Heavenly Father brought us together!
Elizabethe Walton #GiveThanks
DianeNovember 23, 2020
One of the greatest things our stake president taught, was to learn to say "our church" instead of "the church" when talking to people of other faiths. I am the only member in my immediate family so I can understand how others can get offended when we make bold statements as our church is THE church. I focus more on the Gospel of Jesus Christ and share his teachings to those wanting to know more about us.
Richard OrangeNovember 23, 2020
Dear Lenet Reading, I'm pleasantly surprised to see more and more Mormons take an interest in their possible Hebrew heritage. I would like to know the primary source which stated that the Welsh called the Irish Jews. Thank you very much, it will be a great help to my personal research! God bless you.
Tina GavedNovember 22, 2020
Maureen, this Story about beginning your writing career was a true miracle.
Changing the subject ...
I have thought about your biking accident so much as my husband and I also rode the Hiawatha Trail.
That first tunnel was frightening! I felt your emotions. I pray you have made a full recovery.
I absolutely love your weekly podcasts.
Thank you for sharing your talent and testimonies each week.
Scot ProctorNovember 22, 2020
PDF has now been added to the bottom of the article, thank you for bringing it to our attention.
KathyNovember 21, 2020
Please . . . where is the downloadable PDF on decluttering? Loved the article! I've known for a long time that I'm a tortoise!
Charles McClellandNovember 21, 2020
Thank you for this great article! My wife and I raised our children to understand the inclusivity of the Church, but have many times felt that we were a distinct minority among our church friends. As an adult convert to the Church, I personally know that many other denominations have wonderful truths available to them.
LexaGraemeNovember 21, 2020
Well written. Thank you. I did not know the root of his name, which makes the hope of his mother and his reality such a sad juxtaposition.
TNONovember 21, 2020
Nice job as usual Geoff. Sure enjoy reading your column, it always leaves me feeling better.
Cheya WeberNovember 21, 2020
Such a wonderful video. Loved hearing the stories and seeing the different dioramas. The story of the street sweeper was a great lesson. Thanks for sharing this, Wally.
LaDona QuixoteNovember 21, 2020
Just happened upon this film as I continue to wait out the pandemic in Alaska. What an inspiration. I will be sharing the link to the film with all those I know who need to hear its message in this time of desperation. (November 2020)
Maria AllenNovember 20, 2020
I understand the hurt, the pain, the tears, because I to experienced a divorce 13 years ago myself. I also know and don’t doubt it for a moment that our Father in Heaven is fully aware and is watching over each and every one of us every day. Please, give yourself some time to heal, especially do it for yourself so that you can be there for your family in time. Look yourself in the mirror every and remind yourself that you are loved by our Father in Heaven and you are His daughter. I promise you that in time you will have peace in your heart. Please do not beat yourself up over the “what if’s or should have done this” your Heavenly Father needs you now more than ever. It’s ok to have your tears and moments. Remember to strive to be positive even when life throws you challenges or difficulties, You can do this remain true to yourself and trust and have faith in the Lord. Honor your covenants love yourself so that you can be there for your children. The best and most precious gift that I learned and received from my Heavenly Father is the gift of being forgiving. I promise you will be alright and you will come to know this and who you truly are. Live the gospel and read and study your scriptures every day so that the Lord can speak to your heart and mind.
SaraNovember 20, 2020
OK and now what? How to deal with the constant mental and emotional pain? If a person is in enough pain to murder themselves just stopping medication and saying 'you're not broken' is somehow enough???
Vivian AdamsNovember 20, 2020
This was a wonderful article. The beautiful thing is that the Lord knew you would use this great ability to bless others for the rest of your life.
Susan MeierNovember 20, 2020
I love this family! My very shy granddaughter played her violin with them in the Temple Square program they do with the young students. My granddaughter dropped her music during a practice song and ran off the stage embarrassed. Hannah talked to her and boosted her confidence and helped so much! I sat so close on the balcony during the performance at the tabernacle and loved watching the families expressions and love for each other and these young performing kids.
SarahNovember 20, 2020
Great answer!
Been there, done that, bought the t shirt. 30 yrs on, it's still sad. But the waves eventually calm down and some days I don't think of him... Amazing!
When you are abandoned it's quite different to you both deciding to call it quits. The pain is unbelievable. Widowhood looks so much better.. Than this!?!! Whatever this is suppose to now be. As much as you love him, you can't bring him back or make him change his mind. Just start pretending to be happy and enjoying life, and eventually miracles will happen and you won't have to pretend anymore. You will be where you need to be. Whenever you see him, act happy even if it's the last thing you want to do... Screaming and crying at him, or being 'quiet' will not make him see what he's thrown away. May not bring him back.. But will make him see you don't need him to be happy and have joy. Even if it's a mask for a while. Fake it.. Till you make it and are feeling it in every cell of your body!
Start listening to Jack Canfield, Bob proctor, Louise hay etc do some self development, become the person Christ will help you to become.
And yes, it sucks!!
All the best, hugs from New Zealand.
Adam TimothyNovember 20, 2020
Cheryl - thank you for your kind words and yes the editors of Meridian do an amazing work!
The artist behind these pieces is Eva Koleva Timothy.
Elmer GuevarraNovember 19, 2020
1 Nep 17:35
"Behold, the Lord esteemeth all flesh in one; ( this is the INCLUSIVITY ) he that is righteous is favored of God." ( this is the EXCLUSIVITY )
Robyn HobbsNovember 19, 2020
I too am not finding the pdf to download the declutter chart.Please advise, thank youl
Beth FreemanNovember 19, 2020
I'm not finding the PDF, love the Article!!!
Cary HolmquistNovember 19, 2020
If the display of my little iPad Mini-version is giving me an accurate version of the online web page showing your sunrise photograph of the Nauvoo Temple with background of the Mississippi River and Iowa bank and skyline on the river’s west bank, it appears you have also captured the final waning moments of another atmospheric phenomenon. It is popularly known as the Belt of Venus or antitwilight arch, and often goes overlooked because it is short-lived and easily obscured or hidden by tall trees that can block the true horizon as seen from ground level. It is visible only in the twilight moments in the west before sunrises and after sunset in the east. In your photo, there is the barest hint of blue right along the west-bank skyline, if my display correctly reproduces the image, that would then qualify the moment and view as the very last remains of a Belt of Venus. Which is partly defined as a pink or yellow-orange glow band above the horizon with blue lighting both above and below the pink coloration. Perhaps it is a small distinction in the big wide world of so many phenomena in the skies. But it is one that I see also from time to time in the Big Sky Country of Montana (due in part to our vistas that often lack close-by tall trees, both east and west of the Continental Divide of the Rocky Mountains) and I am always captured, as you were, by the beauty of the contrasting and ephemeral colors. Well done and thank you, Brother Proctor.
—Cary Holmquist, Frenchtown, Montana.
(P.S., I am looking forward to receiving the Nauvoo Diary soon.)
Brian PalmerNovember 19, 2020
I have benefited from refering to the definition of true that is used in construction and engineering when I read D&C 1:30. Instead of a measure of the amount of truth it refers more to accuracy of position, or alignment. When a wall is perfectly true all the corner meet precisely and it is square and level. When an axle or shaft is true it spins smoothly and without vibration, in harmony. When you are constructing something you make adjustments until the thing you are making is "trued" up to the specifications, then it is "finished". I believe this is a helpful way of viewing the restored church. It is constantly being trued up by the guidance of the Lord and His prophets. Eventually it will be perfectly true, and its people will be one.
Maria AllenNovember 19, 2020
I have fun with people when they are trying to guess my age and I think it’s sweet when they think I am 10 years younger than I look. You should see the expression on their face when I finally tell them. Here’s the fun part. They then ask me how I manage to look so young. I tell them Oil of Olay and water. Now I just simply say Oil of Olay and the word of wisdom. Makes for a great missionary moment.
BrynnNovember 19, 2020
I once sat in a class with several new converts and those investigating the church. When asked if any of them had any questions about the Sacrament Meeting we had attended, one of them finally admitted, “It hurts me every time I hear someone say that he or she knows this church is ‘true’, because it sounds to me like they are saying the church I grew up in is false.” Every other newcomer immediately shook their heads in agreement and stated that phrase greatly bothered them. While that statement is meant to be an affirmation of the truthfulness of restored gospel principles and continuing revelation, reducing our testimonies to just that one-line cliché has the potential to create a perception of spiritual superiority within our congregations. And it can sound very judgmental and exclusionary to visitors. I grew up in another faith and am grateful to that faith for teaching the truth of a loving and redemptive Christ and for giving me the foundation of relationship with Him. The truth that they taught me was what prepared me to listen to the additional messages of this church. I wish we would stop using that cliché and instead bear our testimonies of our belief in Christ, in restored gospel principles, in continuing revelation through prophets, or whatever about the gospel is meaningful to us individually, instead of simplistically checking the box that we can say we know this church is “true” or teaching that phrase to our children. I agree with the article that ultimately insight and power does not come from checking the box that we, too, can make that statement. Instead, it comes from continuing to learn, yearn for, receive, discern, live and act upon the Lord’s truth wherever we find it.
Cheryl BrallierNovember 19, 2020
you guys are amazing. Thank you so much for your efforts on our behalf, and Maureen, sell me your bike!! No more accidents I would love to know who the artists are in this podcast on charity, they also would make wonderful Christmas gifts. I already have several calendars!
Scot ProctorNovember 19, 2020
Randy, I was an account holder at that bank for many years so I felt okay about borrowing the roof for a few minutes long before they were open!
Maria AllenNovember 19, 2020
Thank goodness I have a hobby that is more fulfilling than wasting my time with so called reality tv. I’ll take sewing over anything like this.
Scot Facer ProctorNovember 19, 2020
Wally, I love what you have shown us. Your example of how you love your parents and extended family is the same as how you have treated and loved us for these many years. The shadow boxes are fabulous and generated a lot of potential exciting works for me with my own parents who are both living on the other side of the veil now. Thank you again for this heart-warming, wonderful video for us in this Thanksgiving week.
Richard EyreNovember 19, 2020
Join the dialogue on this question by commenting with your "take" or questions. And thanks for reading!
Chuck SanfordNovember 19, 2020
TO: Lexa Graeme: Decades ago, right after I joined the church, I asked two women at church when each was due to have her baby. The very ICY answers I got were " I'm not pregnant." I quickly learned.
Mark MathesonNovember 19, 2020
Fine insights! I am going to go back and read your earlier material and see what nuggets I have missed!
Gaye BreillattNovember 19, 2020
Love this. So important and timely. Needs to be shouted from the rod tops.
Ron BarnesNovember 19, 2020
I often read the literature of other churches. We do not have a monopoly on truth. One of the best definitions I have found of the path to salvation came from a Protestant minister. Paraphrased: While salvation can not be earned, it must be qualified for.
We do not have a monopoly on gifts if the spirit. Pope John Paul II definitely had the gift of tongues, being able to speak at least 15 languages. An uncle of mine was a protestant minister. Once he was asked to preach to a friends congregation. He felt the Spirit inspire him to call them to repentance and he came down hard on them. He later discovered that, without his friend knowing it, half of the congregation were engaging in mass immoral activities.
We do not have a monopoly on miracles. This same uncle has cast out demons and raised a woman from the dead.
The only thing we do have a monopoly on (in my opinion) is authority. No other religion has the authority to preform the ordinances necessary to return to The Father. I believe that this is the only thing that really sets us apart from everyone else.
Lawrence Barry Chaplain Colonel (Ret)November 19, 2020
Wonderful article! Over the years I have cringed at some members mistaken mindset that suggested that “If you ain’t Mormon, you ain’t.” Also, Pres. N. Eldon Tanner was once heard to say when hearing a member testify that “this is the only true and living church” “I wish they wouldn’t say that.”
EdNovember 19, 2020
"God is using more than one people for the accomplishment of his great and marvelous work. The Latter-day Saints cannot do it all. It is too vast, too arduous, for any one people....
Again I say, the Lord's Work has need of auxiliaries outside as well as inside, to help it along. Because of their worldly influence—which would depart if they connected themselves with the Church— many are kept where they are, where the Lord has placed them, and can best use them for the good of all." -Orson F. Whitney, 1828 Conference.
Debbi M.November 18, 2020
A BIG LOL!!
Carol AnnNovember 18, 2020
Excellent reminders. Thank you!
LexaGraemeNovember 18, 2020
Oh goodness! This reminds me of the Never-Ask-a-Woman-When-Her-Baby-is-Due. Sometimes it’s just best to keep the mouth shut!
Angie MannNovember 18, 2020
Very insightful article! Can’t wait to read the next part.
Norma J W PellettNovember 18, 2020
There was a twenty year difference in age between my husband and I. Tom and I got to spend 45 years together before he was called home. Most of the time, other people figured that Tom was ten years younger than he was and that I was ten years older than I am. It's a good thing that I always thought that to be funny.
Helen MeekNovember 18, 2020
Very interesting. I have always wondered how someone who is in the presence of God, actually choose to leave. Thanks for your insights and I am looking forward to the next instalment.
Clifford HolmesNovember 18, 2020
I always enjoy your stories! Thanks for sharing!
Diane IrwinNovember 18, 2020
I don't see the link to the pdf. I asked to join the Facebook group; is it through that?
RandyNovember 18, 2020
Excellent article and so appropriate for our present geo political conditions. Satan's reasoning has not changed. His methods have not changed because his methods still work. Giving a reward to someone who is NOT worthy of it is the same violation of agency as withholding a reward is from someone who is deserving.
The Savior's role in the Plan of Salvation stands in stark contrast to Lucifer's optional plan. The Savior was willing to do our Father's will and offer Himself as The Lamb Slain Before the Foundation of the World, one Sacrifice to redeem all willing and repentant souls with our agency intact. Lucifer required every soul to sacrifice their individual agency - no choice in mortality, good or bad - would have any consequence. In addition, requiring Heavenly Father to surrender His Glory to Lucifer without any mortal experience of trial or sacrifice.
Justin HNovember 18, 2020
My wife and I are less than 6 months difference in age and when people see our wedding photos, they say my wife hasn't aged but I really have.
I tell them you take 2 cats, keep one inside all its life and the other one outside for its whole life. I'm the outside cat.
And 24 years in the military doesn't keep your body looking young, either. After 30 deployments it starts to show.
Steve Colin ZeiglerNovember 18, 2020
What a marvelous article! I'm looking forward to the rest of it. Great insights1
ToniNovember 18, 2020
I can’t seem to find the Clutter Buster PDF attachment? Could you point out where I should be looking?
Thanks!
Phil WasdenNovember 17, 2020
Dan Bell beat me to my suggestion. The shot you got is beautiful and knowing the sacrifice you made, gives it even more meaning. Thank you!
Sue TowheyNovember 17, 2020
President Benson was sounding the alarm to prepare us for this day. He was a patriot and a defender of our Constitution and a fine example for each of us. The book's author has an agenda and isn't trying to hide it. Thankfully, we have discernment. Thank you for your article and review of this book. Faith and religion is in the cross-hairs today. We have to find the strength to hold firm to the values we have been taught, especially now.
Randy CookNovember 17, 2020
The photograph is beautiful. My Hyde and Cook ancestors lived in Nauvoo and helped to build the first temple. Their temple marriage covenants are recorded there. I visited there last in 1981 before the second temple was constructed. I stood at the large depression in the ground where the temple had stood.and felt my ancestors presence there. I hoped then that a new temple would be built.
Just one question. How do the Bank building owners feel about your clandestine use of their building?
Bera SautuNovember 17, 2020
So very true and inspiring.
Pat MerrickNovember 17, 2020
I have also found that some of the greatest growth I have had is after struggling for hours after the Lord has "opened the door". Thank you for sharing all your insights.
DebbieNovember 17, 2020
This is a spectacular picture! Thank you for sharing the tender mercy that allowed it to happen. The Lord is in the details of our lives.
Marsha NewmanNovember 17, 2020
What a beautiful and timely commentary! I’m going to listen many times! Thank you, thank you!
Candice RailNovember 17, 2020
Your podcasts are wonderful. The most recent ones on Ether have changed the way that I pray, and my faith has increased. Thank you. Your language is sublime, your insights are beautiful (I often think, "I never thought of that!"), and your research is fresh to me. The spirit is wonderful and I look forward to listening every week as part of my scripture study. Thank you, again. I cannot imagine the work to create these week in and out. Love you both.
Steve LoyNovember 17, 2020
Beautiful shot! Great work and what an effort to get that shot!
Dan BellNovember 17, 2020
Beautiful shot Scot. Just a thought: have you ever considered a drone? I am getting pretty good shots from mine... At least maybe a little less risky... Keep up the good work.
Richard WinmillNovember 17, 2020
For me the story of Ezra Taft Benson is beautiful and I love it precisely because it is also a story of repentance. Skousen's most important statement Is this: "...Church counselors and colleagues eventually succeeded in softening Elder Benson’s political views when he became president of the Church in late 1985. ...the Lord guided him in a different direction; his focus as President of the Church was reading and distributing the Book of Mormon, not fighting Communism, and opening up missionary work in former Iron Curtain countries. " I love President Benson the better, because he "re -pented" or re-thought his work and we are the better for that re-thinking. I love Elder McConkie for the same reason. That these men as apostles, prophets seers and revelators were able to say: "I was wrong." blesses our lives two-fold. First in the example of reprentence and second in the beauty of their prophetic work.
Mary J BellNovember 16, 2020
Theresa, I will be a "hugger mugger" with you forever, and proud to wear the badge! Love you so much, sister of my heart!
Judy A MaldonadoNovember 16, 2020
I love these messages. I bought the puzzle for each of my children's families and I want to print these messages out for them. Do you know when 9-11 will be published? Thank you.
Dave WindsorNovember 16, 2020
We could sure use President Benson today as .more and more otherwise good .members of the church are being deceived by secret combinations who seek power by any means and seek to destroy our freedom to worship God as our conscience dictates.
MadelineNovember 16, 2020
Since we have been asked to truthfully relate our life experiences, I add this. I had to give up attending the temple for most of my adult life because of the despair I felt after attending. The doctrine taught there until recently about the relationship between men and women just could not be reconciled with what I knew to be true. I am grateful for the changes and the correction, but extremely sorry so many decades of my life passed before the truth was fully taught there. Fortunately, God has richly blessed me with the ability to feel His spirit in many places and situations outside his temple. But how sorry I am that I was made to feel unwelcome in His house.
John R. CarpenterNovember 16, 2020
Not surprisingly Matt Harris gushes overtly in his book: "Hugh B. Brown: Mormonism’s Progressive Apostle."
His socialist leaning political views are becoming more and more pronounced with each class and book he produces. He is no longer even trying to be objective.
RenaeNovember 16, 2020
I have seen a decided turn to the right in Utah politics during my life. But most zi attribute to the Demicratic Party's support for abortion rights. I believe what extremism attributable to President Benson's comments remain could be better fought by more widely publishing stories of the efforts of other Church leaders counter his more extreme political beliefs. Also, to trying to educate our members as to all the beliefs we espouse, not just to a few. It is easy to ascribe secret combinations to the other political party if we are unaware of the errors in our own party. And, as current events are making clear, some education on personality disorders such as narcissistic personality disorder, would be helpful. The constitution just might hang by a thread because of the mental illness suffered by a Republican president.
MichaelNovember 16, 2020
Elder Holland's talk quoted in the podcast: https://rsc.byu.edu/voice-my-servants/rending-veil-unbelief
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
I have mixed feelings about this article, and the title bothers me. Posing a question with a negative connotation suggests a judgement of guilt. The title also invites us to be suspicious of wrong doing. I hope everyone read the entire article to understand the details of the situation. The intent of this article was obviously to give President Benson a fair "hearing." However, I wonder if it only added fuel to the fire for those who are constantly seeking to criticize the leaders of the church.
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
I am hearing the phrase often lately regarding seeking to understand another person's "point of view." Generally, that is good advice, but in our current society it is often fruitless. Can you imagine Captain Moroni sitting down to discuss "points of view" when his nation was being seriously threatened by those determined to destroy their liberty? I was stunned after my most recent study of the Book of Mormon to see so many similarities in our society regarding the usurping of our freedoms. Yes, we are commanded to love our enemies, but we must also stand boldly and courageously for truth, our constitution, and our freedoms. I liked the outcome of the story in this article, but I don't think I would have encouraged my husband to go to a potentially dangerous place where he may have ended up losing his life.
Wayne AllredNovember 16, 2020
So sad how many people vote with their feelings on their sleeves, rather than the brain given to them by God. By their fruits shall he know them. Promises made, promises kept.
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
The points made in this article are exactly why the Equal Rights Amendment was never passed. I suppose the term "feminist" may mean different things to different people, but it has most certainly been a term that does not unify women. It divides them. However the greatest danger of so-called "feminism" is that it radically divides men and women. It has become politically correct to criticize and mock all men--to paint them as the enemy. Satan would like nothing more than to create enmity between all men and women.
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
This article reminds me of one of my favorite scriptures in the Book of Mormon. The prophet, Mormon, wrote to his son, Moroni, relating the extremely sinful circumstances of the people. This was the very darkest period in the Book of Mormon, shortly before the final great battle which annihilated most of the Nephites. However, Mormon counseled his son in Moroni 9:25: "My son, be faithful in Christ; and may not the things which I have written grieve thee...but may Christ lift thee up, and may...the showing of his body unto our fathers, and his mercy and long-suffering, and the hope of his glory and eternal life, REST IN YOUR MIND FOREVER." This article is so timely because some of the most powerful "fiery darts" of the adversary are stressful, angry, discouraging, hopeless thoughts. They suck the spiritual life from us and weaken us. They fuel enmity, divide us, and hurl us into a downward spiral of negativity. We need to focus on our Savior, Jesus Christ and to commit ourselves to serve him and his children. Never has the world needed the light of faithful Latter-day Saints more than today.
Dave WindsorNovember 15, 2020
It's sad that so many good members of the church have been deceived by secret combinations. My heart aches for them and I pray to God that they will see the light before it's too late.
JoeNovember 15, 2020
The people have spoken.
Deanna SasserNovember 15, 2020
I too would like a link to Wally Goddards article in Prayer. Thank you!
WallyNovember 14, 2020
You can find Wally's original article on Meridian at: https://latterdaysaintmag.com/higher-kinds-of-prayer/
Theresa OliverNovember 14, 2020
Thank you for this lovely reminder, Mary. What a gift that you appreciate the same things that I do. Thanks for being a “hugger mugger” with me.
Maryann TaylorNovember 14, 2020
Attending the temple has been a key to an outpouring of the Spirit in my life. As we ponder and seek for further light, it is a sacred place to obtain it.
Maryann TaylorNovember 14, 2020
Until the election is certified, it is incorrect to call Biden a "winner' of anything! Unfortunately, "unkind remarks" are a hallmark of politics today. I am much more interested in the fact that President Trump keeps his promises, has strengthened peaceful negotiations in The Middle East, and has been a blessing to the American economy--we now depend on oil from NO country other than our own. I could go on-but the list of what President Trump has achieved for our nation is endless.
Melissa MarkhamNovember 14, 2020
I'm so sorry for this difficult experience. I salute and admire you for the care you take for your daughter. I don't know if this is any comfort, but I feel like your inability to see her because of the pandemic is a metaphor for our inabilities and weaknesses in this life. Just as Heavenly Father knew about those, knew they were even necessary, and provided a Savior for us, he knows about the pandemic and has provided a Savior to make up the difference after all we can do. I will pray for you and your daughter-that the Savior will be with you to comfort you and ease your burden.
LeslieNovember 14, 2020
When our hearing impaired, vision impaired mom was in assisted living and we couldn’t visit, even through an open window, my sister bought and had staff set up an Alexa Echo View. We could video call her without her having to manage a tablet or get staff to assist in opening a zoom call. We could just call in and it automatically opened for her, showed her sitting in her usual command center chair. She could see and hear us and we could see and hear her. You could read and show your daughter storybooks, let her see you making dinner at your house, share music. Thankfully we were able to bring mom home to live with us this summer, but still use video calls for grandkids to call her.
Craig FrogleyNovember 14, 2020
Thank you, Maurine...That was even more significant to me knowing that you write it while struggling with the consequences of your bike accident. You and Scott are such examples to all of us in the details of our lives.
AnnaNovember 14, 2020
Several of your well-expressed thoughts, in well-crafted sentences, met a specific need for me today. Thank you for sharing. We were a young family in Chicagoland beginning in 1979, The climate then was not warm toward our way of approaching life as women. I would love to read those articles and your insights.
Harold RustNovember 14, 2020
Absolutely beautiful, uplifting, informative, and powerfully presented as a gift to all of us whether men or women.
Allan HillsNovember 14, 2020
We really enjoy the podcast,it has changed the way we study the gospel. Unfortunately, I have heard others who have become less enthusiastic about it because of the ads for merchandise at the beginning of the podcast for calendars and appointment journals. Consider moving them to the end of the podcast as those interested can continue to listen and those who are not will stop. Web based videos allow the watcher to skip ads after a few seconds and this option would benefit your podcast. Otherwise you have produced one of the best podcasts available. Thank you for your dedication
Kevin RNovember 13, 2020
Really appreciated this article. Got me thinking about the times when the Lord intervened on my behalf.
IlaNovember 13, 2020
Of all the comments so far, I am with and agree with the very
first one, from Nadine Anderton. I dislike Trumps rudeness and name calling and how much he Loves himself, but he did as he promised, he did everything for the LOVE of our Great Country !!!
I sincerely hope he has learned a lesson for his loss in 2020 and will run again in 4 yrs. to try and do it right this time. !!!
Leah WNovember 13, 2020
I would love to read the article by Wally Goddard. Do you have links to all sources cited in your podcast?
Andrea BartleyNovember 13, 2020
I send my hugs and empathy to you! My husband was in an accident in July and they would not let me in the ER. then he was in surgery for hours and no one called till 4:30AM. 7 weeks in the hospital with 9 surgeries and after most of them I found out I was allowed one hour after each surgery. That helped but he was mostly sleeping during that hour. His leg was amputed in August. Finally he went to rehab and got multiple infections in the stump. Back to the hospital and then he got Covid. back to rehab and 10 days quarantine and he couldn't take it anymore. He is now home. The whole time I cried every night as all family are in other states. The travel restrictions prevented them coming to us. So what did I do? With lots of prayer and fasting (myself and others for us) I decided to march myself up to the hospital and say I wanted to see him - he had been so upset under meds and in so much pain I couldn't take it anymore. The security guy called up to talk to the head nurse of the floor that noon hour and she said "send her up." they were plain tired of dealing with him and I got to be with him for 10 hrs. Another time on the night before leaving for rehab he was once again filled with major anxiety. By then I was able to visit 2-6PM every day but when it came time to leave I just said "this is not going to work, I won't leave him like this." And they brought me in a cot. Both of those times were gifts from God - the rest of the time I just took one day at a time and felt so grateful for all the prayers and ministering moments that came my way. We also did the technology thing and got Tablets and visited by messenger. And that helped so definitely see if the hospital is providing the equipment to do that. They were at our hospital but we bought our own anyway. After my experiences, and they wouldn't let me in anymore, I begged God that He would let someone have the same experience I did and have a reprieve and visit their loved ones. Though I'll never know for sure I believe with all my heart the Lord helped others also. So many have suffered so. You are a saint and I will pray that you might have a reprieve. Hugs to you!
MarnieNovember 13, 2020
I was disappointed there is no link to Wally’s original article
Diane QuistNovember 13, 2020
President Monsen said there were no coincidences. I remember this comment whenever things come together nicely or unexpectantly. The Lord has a hand in these “coincidences”.
Lincoln C OliphantNovember 13, 2020
I'm the author. Thanks to those leaving comments, particularly the Arizonans. They show the divisions in that State and the country. If only we had a Muse of Irony!
Lincoln Oliphant
KathrynNovember 13, 2020
Two other ideas in addition to the wonderful ideas that have already been shared. There is power in united prayer. I'm guessing you've been praying constantly, but what about asking family, friends, and ward members to join you in prayer? I've seen specific, united prayers bring about amazing blessings.
Another idea is to make a recording of yourself talking to your daughter--video would probably be best if possible, but audio would work too. Express your love. Tell her a favorite story. If you sing or play the piano, sing her some songs she loves. Then see if the staff could play the recording from time to time on the TV in her room (if there is one) or on a tablet or other device.
I'm adding you to my prayers that you and your daughter will be comforted, guided, and encouraged. We love you!
Chuck SanfordNovember 13, 2020
I agree with Bro. Craycroft---he was my Bishop when we lived in Provo in the fall of 1972 (my wife, baby girl, and I lived in the ward---the rampant immorality in these shows is also offensive)
Pauline HarryNovember 13, 2020
No long-term safety has been proven in this 2-month trial. The study reports only .02% of the study group from ALL OVER THE WORLD which doesn’t take into account how many cases are there are there, nutrition, weather, or lifestyle. And now they’re ready to start vaccinating millions! Throw tons of money at it and see if anyone sticks around?
Mary J BellNovember 13, 2020
I love that Ed. My heart goes out to him. I'm glad he knows you. Great idea!
Nadine AndertonNovember 13, 2020
Instead of party or personality or manner, if you are a follower of Jesus Christ (as are surely most of the readers of Meridian) I suggest you measure campaign promises and direction according to "which candidate is more in line with the Gospel teachings?" Yes, there are voters and candidates of both major parties and platforms, and each has the agency to choose. But the whole country has to bear the consequences of the prevailing choice. Thie election, one party stands for socialism (or outright communism), taking away agency and substituting the will of the party leaders, and many other things that I am quite certain are opposite of what Jesus taught quite clearly. I have quite lost mt respect for Mitt Romney, whom I avidly supported in his previous runs for office, for letting personal dislike for Trump get in the way of his Christianity. Yes, Trump has many flaws. But he believes in America and has done things for Americans and the country that will be done if the other side's plans are successful. I held my nose when I voted for him in 2016, but I was happy enough with his presidency to happily support him in 2020. I don't think I've slept well since election night. I fully expect to be on some blacklist, but at age 76 I don't expect it to matter to me and since there were so many other frank comments I couldn't help adding mine. I have family in Arizona, including my oldest grandson who has joined many of the Millennials in supporting Socialism. My son, and I hope the others, have followed the teachings of Jesus Christ.
Norma PellettNovember 13, 2020
Dear sister, is there a way you and your daughter can both have a tablet? There are simple ways for her to connect to you. If you ask, someone on the staff should be able to help her. Your other children, grandchildren, or someone in your ward should be able to help you set up both tablets. Call your contact person at her care center and talk to them about setting this up. Arrange a time when there will be someone available to take your daughter's tablet and help her with it. Take someone with you for support. You and your family are in my prayers.
VAL C. LEWISNovember 13, 2020
Thank you, Maurine, that was wonderful! I love hearing stories of God working in our lives. My first story like this happened in 1962 and is titled, "Walk through that building". The result was miraculous and has led to many more.
RBaconNovember 13, 2020
I really loved this article, thank you so much. Yes He has been there for me also in the details of my life and I give thanks to Him everyday.
Douglas ZimmerNovember 13, 2020
You mentioned how we can't usually 'see' this intervention at the time of occurrence. The Jewish sages say this is a shadow or type of Exodus 33:22-23:
22 And it shall come to pass, while my glory passeth by, that I will put thee in a clift of the rock, and will cover thee with my hand while I pass by:
23 And I will take away mine hand, and thou shalt see my back parts: but my face shall not be seen.
The Lord 'covers' our understanding and allows us a glimpse later when we must decide if the event was coincidence. The Jews also say that calling something a coincidence is akin to blasphemy, for obviously good reason.
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
I agree that the phone call was not random nor a coincidence. You had a beautiful answer to prayer that cannot be denied. I think so many times we receive help from the Lord and we just don't recognize it at the time. Perhaps we can train ourselves to immediately offer thanks to the Lord WHENEVER ANYTHING GOOD happens by remembering we are to acknowledge the hand of the Lord in ALL things. We can also acknowledge his hand in our lives even in our disappointments or sorrows--He knows what we need.
Sharon Lee BrownNovember 13, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing this. It is wonderful. Sharon
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
I think many of the claims you mention in the article you referenced are false. For example--- the old, tired out lament about guns, but no mention of the MANY lives that have been SAVED because innocent Americans had guns to defend themselves??? I have read of many accounts of this fact, some in my own home town. These criticisms of America are not new and will continue to circulate. Yes, we have challenges--but our nation is still blessed beyond measure. It is ALWAYS a good idea to evaluate our family relationships and work at strengthening them, but the continuous criticisms of America causes much more harm than good. We live in a time when it is "politically correct" to keep up the "'ain't-it awful" rhetoric, and I believe it is a technique used by our enemies to destroy our patriotism.
Phil HarrisonNovember 13, 2020
Thank you so much for this tender story. It is such a good reminder that the Lord is always mindful of us, even when we fail to remember Him. As I look back on my life, I can see so many times the Lord directed my path, through jobs I got and jobs I didn't get, to move me around the country to put me where I needed to be to have certain experiences and meet certain people. I've been writing a personal history which I am calling "In His Hands," because I recognize that's where I have been through all seven decades of my life. Three years ago I was diagnosed with ALS, an incurable, degenerative, terminal disease. As I become more and more dependent on others, and simultaneously more dependent on Him, I asked the Lord almost constantly, what He wants me to learn from this experience. I'm sure I won't understand fully until I get to the other side and He can explain it to me face-to-face. But what an adventure in the meantime! Thank you again for sharing your story.
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
I can't think of a single reason you could not see her through the window whenever you want to. You could also draw some colorful pictures to hold up for her to see and mimic a hug. I think the day is coming when COVID is going to be just one more risk in life we are going to have to accept and go back to our normal activities. We cannot continue this way indefinitely.
PaulNovember 13, 2020
Over the last few years, thanks to Bernie Sanders' poor choice of words, Socialist Democracy has been confused with Socialism. Northern European countries are NOT socialist. I have lived there and done business there for many years. They are CAPITALIST countries with wide social safety nets. Yes, they pay higher taxes to achieve this, but apparently the people like it. And they look over in dismay at the United States, with Capitalism run amuck, where unscrupulous people at the top do everything they can to keep the bottom tier at the bottom.
DianeNovember 13, 2020
My heart breaks for this mother and daughter! Could the staff at the facility help them to connect via skype, face time, zoom, or some other platform? Even a simple phone call so the daughter could hear her mother’s voice might help.
DianeNovember 13, 2020
What a cool story! Thank you for sharing it!
Robert D StarlingNovember 13, 2020
Thanks Maurine, for reminding us all that our Heavenly Father is indeed "in the details" of our lives. If we can just recognize those "tender mercies" for the blessings they are, our lives will be filled with much more joy and happiness.
DianeNovember 13, 2020
My heart breaks for this mother and daughter! I wonder if the staff at the facility could help mother and daughter connect via skype, face time, zoom, or other format? Or maybe even a simple phone call.
MicheleNovember 13, 2020
I cannot assist, but my heart goes out completely to this dear woman. My 70 year old sister still has her youngest 29 year old down syndrome who additionally has a psychotic disorder, which only my sister recognized. I am so grateful for Geoff's tender words in this situation to this dear woman. I will be forwarding the letter to my sister, as she's looked at group homes for my niece but is very distraught about the decision.
Judi EnglishNovember 13, 2020
What an amazing miracle! Thanks for sharing.
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
No surprise here. I could have guessed this from the title of the show. Anything that says "Real Housewives" is suspect.
James ScottNovember 13, 2020
Certainly one of the most extraordinary events in the Book of Mormon I’ve always been intrigued by the truth so evident there.
May I also point out the importance of Isaiah’s declaration of, “and who shall declare his generation?” Most don’t realize the significance of that question, and it’s finally answered in Abinadi’s explanation of the Savior’s mission as Father and Son. See Mosiah 15:1-11. Jesus Christ becomes our father when we become his children through our own acceptance and obedience to his commandments. We become his children and he then is Father to us, his generation fulfillment.
K HardenNovember 13, 2020
Insightful article. I also think Biden got a lift from Scott Kelly. It’s obvious many Republicans voted for him so my theory is as they were in the voting booth just went ahead and voted D all the way through.
Although my state overwhelmingly carried Trump I am grateful to all the voters who were willing to stand up to the bully and send him packing.
ShareeNovember 13, 2020
Maybe the facility staff could set up Zoom meetings between the woman and her daughter.
Buffie BarkdullNovember 13, 2020
The spiritual insights you shared from your sacred life experiences spoke pure truth to my soul. Thank you for sharing your gift of writing and expression. It blessed me in a profound way today.
Sue WynneNovember 13, 2020
I understand to a certain extent. Our 29-year-old son has autism and is also living in supervised housing. We bought him an iPad and we visit every single day via FaceTime. He’s anxious for a visit, but he loves that connection. He’s not a good communicator so sometimes he just hangs out and watches while I work from home, cook or clean kitchen...sometimes we even watch a movie or video together. These are the times when we have to be creative. I would be really shocked if someone at the care facility wouldn’t be willing to help you set that up. Even a five minute daily Facetime call could make all the difference for you both. God bless
Rebecca McCauleyNovember 13, 2020
I was so touched by this article. You are a wonderful Mom! I am sure you have thought of this, but could you meet virtually on Zoom? Or FaceTime over the phone? Talk with the leaders of the facility- everyone is having to communicate differently because of Covid19. Maybe they have made accommodations that are unknown to you.
You are a wonderful, strong, woman and a Mother’s love is some of the strongest in the world! You will find a way!
Heavenly Father is aware of you, your daughter, and this entire situation. He loves you both. My prayers are with you! Keep trying!
Jan StrongNovember 13, 2020
I love this story! Thank you for sharing. Looking in the rear view mirror, we can clearly see the Lord guiding and leading us along, even miraculously opening that Red Sea for us. This story is a lovely reminder of the goodness and greatness of God. Thanks for the beautiful memory and timely reminder.
Deanna SasserNovember 13, 2020
Maureen, I loved this article and I know, especially as I get older, that God is in the details of my life and my family. I have learned patience and learned to be still and I am able to look back and see the struggles we have gone through and know that they helped me to grow, have more faith and trust the Lord. I still struggle but, yes, He loves me and I love my Father, His Son and the Holy Spirit that guides me. Now, I would love to read that first article that you wrote years ago if you still have it. Thank you to you and Scott for your amazing job as editors of The Meridian Magazine. You are both wonderful and I love your Podcasts that my husband and I listen to each Sunday together. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.
K HardenNovember 13, 2020
I agree with the comment that selfishness is the root of all problems in this country. The decline of the family doesn’t lead people to build a wall on our southern boarder or deny a person health care. Recent research has brought to light in the past 50 years reviewing published literature the word ‘I’ has replaced ‘we’ significantly. Personally, I feel the ‘baby boomer’ generation of which I am a part has been a disaster as far as leadership. We are leaving our children with war, debt and abounding in crime and still no health care. Shame on us.
Thank you for this article, very thought provoking. i agree that America the promised land is all of North and South America not just the USA. I also question this oft repeated quote that the Constitution will hang by a thread prophesy. The only reference I can find if that is a third hand account in a journal entry. Please enlighten me if you can find a first hand document.
SkepticalNovember 12, 2020
@Splink, what is your source on the claim that the standard of living has been generally in decline for decades? That seems like an unsubstantiated thing to say. According to economist Ed Yardeni, "I have taken deep dives into the data on standards of living and income inequality. Nowhere can I find a credible series that confirms a 30-year drought in standards of living for almost all Americans. Instead, the data show that Americans have never been better off. I’m not making a political statement, just a statement of facts (which, I acknowledge, do have political implications)." He explains his reasoning in this article: https://www.marketwatch.com/story/americans-living-standards-are-at-an-all-time-high-heres-proof-2019-05-02.
CyndiNovember 12, 2020
Neither McCain nor Flake is universally loved by many Arizona voters who feel betrayed by their willingness to change sides regardless of their campaign promises. It was so easy for them to blame their lack of loyalty on conscience. I am glad Flake left. I would never trust him again. Trump is not perfect, neither are they.
kathy FlinnNovember 12, 2020
DITTO! Richard Craycroft
MikeNovember 12, 2020
The final comment is the crux of the article. Be kind to those you pass up (and down) the greasy poll. Not many places people of different and strongly held political positions can come together in fellowship and compassion. Hopefully our church is one of them. At least 4 comments about this article seem to be leaning in that direction, but all of the votes have not been counted yet..
Harold rustNovember 12, 2020
I'm not an Arizonian and I voted for Mitt in 2016 while admiring what Jeff Flake said when he chose not to run again. That was then. Since then I have been very disappointed in each of these men who contrived a moral position that was based on personal hate of President Trump and a sense of righteous indignation when they each should have addressed the fundamentals from the standpoint of our country. Not one of Biden's principle points of planned policy will be good for the country: more severe lockdowns with government mandatory regulations; less protection of the border; more support for bad financial and political plans in blue states; wasted money spent on picking winners in the race to help our climate while many of them will turn out to be losers and it will have ignored the free market options which would probably finally come up with nuclear as the energy of the future; and finally strong support for abortion, more legislative judges, and possibly more witch hunts against anyone who disagrees with them. All because President Trump is narcissistic, blasts out at people way more than seems nice, and has gone through a lot of high level cabinet folks. I believe the Republicans can keep him from doing real harm while not one Democrat will have the courage to speak out against any Biden/Harris/Bernie/AOC wild agenda effort. Supporting your country sometimes means you've got to hire an irascible personality. And yes, President Trump brought some of this on himself....but that isn't good enough reason to turn your back on him.
KimNovember 12, 2020
I’m a native Arizonan and long time republican. For the first time in the almost four decades I’ve been eligible to vote I supported a democrat in the presidential election. Why? Donald Trump bullies, lies, manipulates, threatens, attacks, blames, belittles and rages. He consistently uses and abuses people and power narcissistically. His toxic divisive presidency has torn our nation apart and four more years of his special brand of crazy would have been disastrous. Jeff Flake and John McCain have my utmost respect and admiration.
Dave MyersNovember 12, 2020
Actually, it seems to me, the decline of the family is another symptom, and the real root cause is selfishness - the individual puts himself and his interests and desires before those of his family, his neighbor, his community and nation.
SamNovember 12, 2020
"Scripture teaches us that America is a “land of promise,” a phrase used dozens of times in the Book of Mormon." Must remember that America is not just USA. There is more to the promised land than them. Many problems have arisen in the USA. Church members need to get back to living the values of the Book Of Mormon. Humble. Repentance. Service to one another.
Wade BeaudreauNovember 12, 2020
I live in Arizona; I am a member of the same church as Jeff Flake. No one I know in AZ cares for Mr. Flake and in fact, wish he would just 'flake off' into oblivion, if you catch my drift. He has not done himself any good in his endorsing Biden. Kind of like Mitt also hasn't helped himself in recent times criticizing the President. I realize Utah Latter-day Saints are different from Arizona ones, and we all have our agency, but, 'come on, man', can't you all see the likelihood of serious societal problems once Biden/Harris get in? Can't you see the pre-Covid improvements in our country? Country over party, indeed! My choice was for the country. Thank you for listening
SplinkNovember 12, 2020
I'm a materialist. People's relationship to their material conditions determine their lives. It's inevitable. You have all of this completely backwards. This is one of the most maddening things in the church, although I know you can't acknowledge this, because then people would realize they don't need the church. The reason for the decline in marriage, and people having children in marriage, and general home stability, is that the standard of living for people has been in general decline for decades. People aren't getting married because they lack economic stability and means. People aren't having children in wedlock because they lack the means to do so. If you want the family to be strengthened, then people's economic position has to be improved. If that doesn't happen, the realities of family will continue to decline.
Richard EyreNovember 12, 2020
I would welcome your comments, questions or feedback on this article. Thanks for reading.
Pauline HarryNovember 12, 2020
Pfizer's CEO cashed out 60% of his stock on the same day the company unveiled the results of its COVID-19 vaccine trial.
Could end up helping to spread the virus.
Jim PetersonNovember 12, 2020
Mark, Another wonderful and relevant article born out of the reality of universal forces that push against all of us. I miss our daily chats over lunch. I am inspired by the consecration of your spiritual gifts to helping others understand the restored gospel of Jesus Christ more deeply. Thank you for sharing the personal whisperings of sacred truths like " I will heal him... in the resurrection". Great perspective and powerful teaching!
Deanna SasserNovember 12, 2020
Just wanted to say how I enjoy your stories about children and that I share them with my grandchildren. I especially loved the “cow” story. It made us laugh for days! Thanks for the love of children that you have and for all your teaching moments. You are a great story teller!!!
Diane IrwinNovember 12, 2020
This is spot on! Truly the demise of families has been the demise of this country! "Me, me, me. It's all about ME!" is the thought process for so many. Selfishness is the heart of so many social ills.If people would forget themselves and their needs, then reach out to others, allow others in, marriages would be the majority instead of the minority and family life would flourish!
Joel MarksNovember 12, 2020
Dr Eyre is correct in his prescient evaluation of America as ‘the promised land’ and strong families as the solution. Mss Washington, Jefferson, Madison, Lincoln and Nelson would all concur.
God bless America as the much prophesied Promised Land.
Steve ZeiglerNovember 12, 2020
As our love of Jesus Christ has declined, so is going the true strength of this still great nation. The love of the Lord fosters strong families while socialism requires that the government be worshiped instead of God. Look at the founding principles of BLM for example. It's estimated that 40% of Christians in this country attend church weekly. Even many Christians feel that when two men love each other, it's alright for them to marry. Many also believe in a woman's right to choose. What was wrong 2000 years ago is still wrong today, regardless of how modern society is changing. Right and wrong don't change. This country has lost its footing as we have forgotten our Lord, as Universal Law dictates its effects. In the Book of Mormon we see example after example where the Lord brings nations to their knees as they have forgotten the provider of all that is good. We are most likely entering this phase. I hope we all keep our eyes on the Lords prophets and that good people who are not yet aware of prophets will keep their eyes on God for deliverance from the trials that await us.
Edward HessNovember 12, 2020
America is in decline, not just because families are in decline, or that there are more people living out of wedlock, or that the rising generations are being dumbed down, but because belief in God is no longer the focal point of society.
In my youth the majority of families attended church on Sunday, but now days only a handful of churches have more than a hundred people in attendance, and many of those old churches now stand empty. The disintegration of families and neighborhoods, the dumbing down of societies, allowing politicians, judges and lawyers to have the power to tell us what is right and what is wrong, what we can and cannot do according to the doctrines of "political correctness," rather than adhering to the laws, ordinances, and commandments of the Lord is why America is in the decline.
There needs to be a call for this nation to repent, to believe in God, to believe that He is, and for each of us to become our brother's keeper, but if we continue to rely on government to be the solution to everything, then, "Yes! America will no longer be a Land of Promise, except for those who still believe in God and worship Him; and if we continue in the direction we're now going, then there will come a time, probably in the not too near future when the people will separate into tribes and each will appoint their own leaders and establish their own laws to be united against those who are corrupt and lawless."
That is the promise and the prophecy concerning the fate of America when Jesus Christ is no longer worshiped or honored as the God of this land. Never in my lifetime has this country been more corrupt and more self absorbed than it is at this time, and it is just a matter of time when prophecies will be fulfilled concerning it's demise.
Those who still believe in God need to rise up and to raise a clarion call for America to repent, otherwise we will continue down this path until even the earth itself will rise up and say, "Enough is Enough!" and like Sodom and Gomorrah the people will perish in their sins. Nevertheless, it will still be a "Promised Land" for the righteous, and only the righteous who will be reserved to be caught up to meet the Savior during His Second Coming. As we draw closer to the end of time as we know it, things will only grow worse; however, the Constitution will still hold, but it will hang by a thread as was prophesied. I firmly believe these things, and I say this in the name of Jesus Christ..
Wayne C FletcherNovember 12, 2020
America is still the Land of Promise by the Lord’s standards.
Scriptures tell us where we are going in the near future. That is why President Nelson has given us the cautions and guidelines he has.
At the present time the secret societies are in control(Ether 8:22-26). America will be cleansed as it was in 3 Nephi 8. Few living today will be then. Then with the return of the 10 tribes, Enoch and Melchizedek, the New Jerusalem will be established. There is more but that is enough.
Susan RoylanceNovember 12, 2020
Loved this article by Lincoln Oliphant -- truly, what goes around comes around.
Robert MartinNovember 12, 2020
What a thought provoking article. As I reach my middle seventies I look back to when I was a child and to my parents our nurturing was the most important thing. Mother stayed home and father worked. We forego a motor car, and the single bedrooms for each child, and an annual overseas vacation. Our welfare and education was the most important goal for most families. We have lost that now. Young couples want to move in together, sometimes marry, and buy a new home with 4 bedrooms and a study and also a media room. All new furniture and appliances. And they lose the freedom to raise a meaningful family. They are in debt for the rest of their lives and both have to work to pay off that debt.
We should in the future, maybe through tax relief, allow our mothers the freedom to raise their children to be worthwhile citizens of the future.
I have a large family with now 16 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren and as I reach the end of my life I realize how blessed I am and that accumulated wealth is not the goal but our treasure is tied up in our families.
Good luck everyone. Have a great life.
Robyn GeantilNovember 12, 2020
I thought the same about John McCain. I lived in Arizona for 25 years and John McCain was respected and genuinely liked by the people. President Trump has learned (or maybe not) that unkind remarks are remembered. Especially about people who spend seven years of their life as a POW.
Richard CraycroftNovember 12, 2020
I avoid all "Real Houswives" shows because I don't want to actively kill brain cells.
PaulNovember 11, 2020
When talking to someone about my favorite scriptures and describing why they are so important to me I often find myself choked-up with tears.
JeannieNovember 11, 2020
Get out now. If you leave, yes the road is unknown, but you have possibilities and a chance to find someone who truly loves you. If you stay--the road is known--you know you can't trust him and you know there will be days and even years of heartache. If you leave, know you will heal and find happiness; if you stay you will not have healing or happiness until he changes. Don't expect him to change. Take control of your future. You can do this; be strong.
LARRY KENT ANDERSONNovember 11, 2020
Thank you for your post. Just before my mission call 53 years ago) I made good friends with the Holy Ghost. I had dozens of experiences there. I built some shelves in my crawl space a while ago. After getting started I was guided in how to do the complete project. Just like Nephi building the ship. I not only believe I know that he is real.
Nerita Flake PetersonNovember 11, 2020
Thanks so much for revealing your authorship of one of my favorite books. I bought it twice after )losing the first one, on purpose I fear, having found the truth of it being too painful. I love the insight in this article and am convinced that the bridle is essential to both the horse and rider.
Tawna F.November 11, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing this example of making the choice to choose to be kind, even when fear or anger might seem justified (in the rabbi's case) - a reminder of how we can choose the higher and more Christlike way. Reminds me of the scripture Alma 31:5 where the preaching of the word (in a spirit of sincere love and brotherhood) had "a more powerful effect on the minds of the people than the sword or anything else." I think that examples of kindness and love - when you can tell it is sincere,is how God helps us to change hearts. Anger and hate never help change people for the better. Thanks for sharing this timely reminder!
Jessica EricksonNovember 11, 2020
I found the music for Happy Birthday Song by Norma G. Jacobsen. It was published in The Children's Friend in January 1953. It's on page 48/60 on the PDF (page 34 in the magazine). It's in the church archives if the link doesn't work. Enjoy! https://catalog.churchofjesuschrist.org/assets?id=c849dedc-5105-4fdd-ab90-b34946a525d3&crate=0&index=47
Becky DouglasNovember 11, 2020
Richard, Aaahhh!! Your comment panicked me. We are always so grateful for readers that keep us all honest! I went to your reference to TIME Magazine but unfortunately was only able to get the first few lines, since I am not a subscriber. My husband and I tore our library apart the night I wrote this article, looking for the book of Inspirational Jewish stories that inspired it. I had literally copied the story for an Education Week talk, but unfortunately, the author’s name was cut off in the footnotes. Hopefully a reader will recognize her telling of the story and write me, allowing me to give proper credit to the real author. We also searched the internet for the name of the book I had once owned and once again, came up empty handed. I did today read the following articles and get all the same details (many of them word for word) for this story. These articles included New York Times, Lessons from a Rabbi Who Knows Hate and Forgiveness (Jan 4, 2009); another version from the Queens Gazette (Oct 29, 2008), and another from Robertglazier.com (Feb 21, 2019). The Queens Chronicle (Oct. 30, 2008) has the account of the rings story (not contained in the other articles). All elements of the story with the exception of the synagogue praying are in these versions. An entire book called, Not By the Sword, has been written by Katherine Watterson about this story. I have ordered a copy and fully expect to find the last element in this book.
I have learned from doing my own interviews with the press that my words are edited tremendously by the editors. Some interviews for TV are edited down from a 30-minute interview to a 5-minute piece! Given the TIMES orientation, it is no surprise to me that the spiritual elements of this story did not make the article.
ShelleyNovember 11, 2020
Thank you for this great article. I, too, have wondered over the years about what it means to have the "constant" companionship of the Holy Ghost. This article helped clarify this for me!
Edward Rehder IIINovember 11, 2020
Great stuff Mary. I'm now thinking of a man I have been ministering to for a couple years. No Family. Few friends if any besides we ministers. And it occurs to me that he probably hasn't had a hug in forever. I wonder how one might change his perspective and attitude neither of which are very positive. Thanks for an idea.
ReidNovember 11, 2020
Excellent thoughts, simply expressed. Thank you.
Becca BirkinNovember 11, 2020
Thank you for your thoughts presented in such a beautiful way. So often the impressions I receive are small and come in a way that make it too easy to forget or question their power. Your words affirm my choice to believe that the Spirit is near us. Thank you for lifting my spirit today.
Chuck SanfordNovember 11, 2020
I am a father, a grand-father, and a great-grandfather. I very well know how precious children are. Now we have another Justice of the Supreme Court who understands this.
CharlesNovember 11, 2020
Thanks for the great podcasts. I was very interested to hear that there were actually 24 volumes of plates instead of just 24 plates. How do we know that?
Lynn D JohnsonNovember 11, 2020
Always good to hear from Bro. Goddard
Scot ProctorNovember 10, 2020
As mentioned, Dan Jones was in Carthage, but left before the mob stormed the building. Those you named were the only others left once the mob arrived.
Bruce BartonNovember 10, 2020
Nice story with a happy ending. But life isn’t always that way, and not because we don’t try. For example, remember in the story Rabbi Michael wasn’t so “nice” with Nazi Larry at first. In fact, he may never have been nice to Larry without his wife’s continuing counsel. A shout-out to good wives. But what if Larry had not changed after the rabbi was nice to him? Then what? Would the story still have a happy ending? Yes, in part. Because Rabbi Michael changed. You see, sometimes in life, to "win," you don’t always need a win-win ending. You just need to change yourself—to be a better self. Remember, we stand alone when we stand before God.
Georgi SmithNovember 10, 2020
The church website only names Willard Richards and John Taylor having been in the room with Joseph and Hyrum. Therefore I am confused.
Georgi
Laurel JorgensenNovember 10, 2020
Excellent article! In trying to look good to and please our critics, we sometimes go too far.
I appreciated the additional insights from the novel Elder Cook used to make his case.
RichardNovember 10, 2020
Well written article but seems to be overly embellished and miraculousized when compared with a first persons interview with Larry Trapp and Michael Weisser By Daniel S. Levy/Lincoln Monday, Feb. 17, 1992 published in Time Magazine.
Sharon LeighNovember 10, 2020
That is just beautiful. Thank you so much!
Tim ErnstNovember 10, 2020
I suspect that missionaries are not the only ones warded by angels, although I must agree that they are probably the ones most apt to be consistently guarded and probably the most apt to discern their presence, also.
I cannot say that I've ever seen an angel, but I have seen evidences that they exist. Perhaps that is "good enough" for me.
Ron BarnesNovember 10, 2020
Is Mortality about a Test or about Joy? I think of mortality as a school. Being tested, and the joy that comes from passing a test, are both part of the learning process. In this school we are given lessons. Being tested shows us how well we have learned them. If we fail a test, we can learn from it and correct it. I believe that most tests are not designed, but are natural components of the school.
RobynNovember 9, 2020
I'm putting together a Book of Mormon for my son to have later in life with all kinds of visuals in the margins (Line Upon Line scriptures are AMAZING, just saying). Anyway, I'd really like to do a side by side comparison of Mormon and Joseph Smith Jr. Any chance you have one I could print out?
Tom WoodNovember 9, 2020
Another thoughtful lesson, Breck. I believe that one of the most important steps mortal man can make in order to gain salvation and earn exaltation is to establish a relationship with God through prayer and your lesson brings that importance into sharp focus. Thanks for your lesson my friend.
ChristianNovember 9, 2020
Great article. Kathy and Steve, perhaps you could love until you see evidence of your concerns.
Christ asked/commanded us to love; who is telling you to hate?
Becky DouglasNovember 9, 2020
Kathy, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and for reminding us all of courageous Captain Moroni! He is one of my favorite prophets and a great source of personal inspiration. I love how he so often tried to reclaim and rehabilitate the Lamanites. I also love how Moroni, a man of impeccable honesty and unassailable morality, never vilified the Lamanites, but referred to them continually as "our brethren, the Lamanites", as a reminder to everyone in that war that they were all literally from the same parentage.
This same respect was afforded to the Lamanites later in the Book of Mormon by his remarkable namesake, Moroni, the son of Mormon. This Moroni also not only often characterized the Lamanites as "our brethren", but he also spent his life trying to guard the plates, all while being hunted down by the Lamanites. He informs us that they had killed his father and all his family members. Yet, still he sacrificed greatly so that the descendants of the Lamanites, his enemies, would have the ability to learn of Jesus and His Atoning sacrifice and love for them. All this sacrifice was not for his OWN descendants, but for the descendants of those who were his enemies. Truly there has never been a book brought forth by so much personal sacrifice and love than the Book of Mormon!
I completely agree with you that there are times to push back! I don't think anyone would ever think that Moroni failed to push back against evil. He choose to fight it, as his father had given his life doing. I believe there is a choice in the way we push back. I believe if we do it with love, we bring the power of the Savior into the equation.
I hope one day I can look back and say that I tried my best to be like both great Moroni's in the Book of Mormon. I know I fall far, far short, but I'm so grateful for their examples that inspire me to want to be better!
LewisNovember 9, 2020
While I have heard this story before, it is a powerful message to all of us. It is particularly important now as we come together as a country to heal, unify and move forward to address real challenges. It is a gentle reminder of the Savior's admonition to "love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you, that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven." I greatly, GREATLY, appreciate your reminding us of the importance of love, forgiveness and compassion.
RGKNovember 9, 2020
We'd been married just over a year when my husband and his ex-girlfriend began communicating with one another over the phone. He couldn't understand why it bothered me. This went on for a number of years - phone calls, then emails. How often? I’ve never had a straight answer. I was pregnant with my fourth child when I received a call from her husband asking me to ask my husband to stop contacting his wife. I thought it would finally end there, but then came cell phones and social media with other ways to secretly connect. Although he never said that he still loved her, his actions showed that she was more important to him than me. He's had one foot in our marriage and one foot always somewhere else - ex-girlfriend, his family, others. As a consequence, I have never felt safe in 29 years of marriage. I was made to feel it was all my fault - "you're so suspicious, too selfish, scared of everything and everyone, unkind, angry"; I was lied to, manipulated, and gas-lighted so often that I began to think that I was the problem, that was overreacting and must be a truly horrible, un-Christlike person. My self-esteem plummeted, confidence in myself disappeared and anxiety appeared.With Heavenly Father's help, I came to my senses a year or so ago and received counseling for myself and then we began marriage counseling together. I have chosen to stay (with incredibly strict boundaries) but I know, had I chosen to leave, Heavenly Father would stand with and support me. The heartache and insecurity from this type of infidelity is terrible to bear. If this happened to my daughter, I would counsel her to leave; to be confident in herself and in her principles, believe in and trust HER temple covenants, forget gossip and embarrassment, disappointment or judgment from others. Be strong, find a support group, know you are worthy and loved and that Heavenly Father will stand by you, whatever you choose.
Maryann TaylorNovember 9, 2020
This is so very sad---my heart goes out to this woman. Having said that, she should not have to feel like she is playing "second fiddle" to the woman her husband says he still cares about. The wife here deserves better, and if her husband doesn't love her, there are men out there who WILL love and treasure her. I hope she won't get trapped in a loveless marriage.
Peppi McIntoshNovember 9, 2020
I agree there is a time to fight, but it is only after we have done all we can. You will never change someone else's mind with retaliation or anger or hate. I have seen the powered that returning love for hate can have. It truly has the potential to turn enemies into friends. Friends are more likely to stand up for our rights and help protect them.
Maryann TaylorNovember 9, 2020
What great advice! Fear and panic only increase the obsession. Stay calm and focus on the positive things about this person that have nothing to do with sexuality.
Wendy BrownNovember 9, 2020
Thank you, Carolyn. Shall be trying these.
DebNovember 9, 2020
Profound spiritual application as well! Thanks!
kathy FlinnNovember 9, 2020
Yes, we are to love one another...…but when there are secret combinations trying to destroy our liberties, we have NO choice but to push back! SAD..... but true!
Remember Moroni's title of liberty!
Stephanie GalleyNovember 9, 2020
I am also a descendant of John Carling and am so thankful for your work. I am sure he is also grateful for all you have done to help memorialize him!
Steve ZeiglerNovember 9, 2020
Eventually the Nephites acquiesced to the Gadiantons. Again, can good compromise with evil and stay good? Can we allow overt corruption to stand and assume everything will be ok because we want to get along? There is a time for people to stand up for what is right and good in our country and not give in to the temptation to get along at any price. Since this won't be printed, know that it is for you editors of your mostly wonderful organization. Wake up and help us keep our constitutional republic.
Pat ChildersNovember 9, 2020
A heartfelt compassionate and inspiring story, with pictures to boot. There are many such stories abounding; however, opposition is much more prominent. Hurrah for LOVE!
Neeltje ArdonNovember 9, 2020
Bravo!!!!!!!
DenieseNovember 9, 2020
The thought I had was that the tree sprung upright after neighbors had helped clear away the overgrowth. The friends helped and then the tree ( lost person) was then able to stand again.
Patricia G. SchellNovember 9, 2020
I served a Nauvoo mission.2006-07. My heart will always be filled with memories of my fellow missionaries and Nauvoo. I'm a convert so imagine my surprise to find I had more than one Nauvoo ancestor who left there and crossed the plains.
Janet McCulloughNovember 8, 2020
Such an inspiring message of hope; a message wth eternal perspective.This is so needed !
Thank you, both, for the way you express these truths so clearly. Truth is beautiful. Truth is freeing!
We love your podcasts.
BeckyNovember 8, 2020
I know this is true. We have been promised that we could have angels to help us. I remember reading a book by Elder F.Enzio Busche that talked about how angels helped the saints so much in Germany in WWII. It was so inspiring. Though I don’t remember it, I had an experience with them as a child. This made me realize how close those who have passed on are to us and want to help us. Heavenly Father is aware of each of us. Thank you for sharing.
Maryann TaylorNovember 8, 2020
At this time there are so many of us who need to be reminded of the truths you have written here. I just keep remembering that the Lord holds us in the palm of his hands. I am also uplifted by Elder Holland's prophecy that the church WILL STAND until our Savior comes again, no matter what else is happening in the world around us. Thank you so much for your beautiful healing words at a time when we need them so much!
Shelley StevensNovember 8, 2020
I am trying to find a source that states that the Rod of Aaron was in the box but have not had success. Can you share your source?
VardellNovember 8, 2020
Brother Eyre,
Thanks for your series of articles. I love that you ask for thoughts and comments. One of the reasons you don't receive more comments is because Meridian is terrible at posting them. Over the years I have noticed that maybe half of my comments ever get posted, and those are not posted quickly.
So since this is not a good medium for a conversation, would you care to have an email discussion? [email protected]
CoreyNovember 8, 2020
You are going to have pain and anguish and wonder how could my prayers have been so wrong but it's not you that's the problem and don't forget that, it's your spouse who is making that decision and it's also obvious he hasn't been totally honest, cut your losses now before children are involved.
MikaelNovember 8, 2020
I was in a marriage for 25 years, when I was told she never loved me. After 2 affairs and so much gaslighting I lost over 70 pounds. I feel I am stuck here, and don't have the courage to divorce. She claims now she loves me, but still blames me for her affairs. Take care of yourself. It is better to end it now than to have years of gaslighting and betrayal. I am so sorry.
Tim WeldonNovember 8, 2020
Why do we even need new hymns? There are plenty of amazing, traditional hymns in existence that, criminally, aren't even in the current book - Lord Of All Hopefulness, The Lord's My Shepherd (Crimond), Love Divine All Loves Excelling, At The Name Of Jesus, etc, etc. I'm afraid our hymn book is in grave danger of becoming a book of camp fire songs.
Sarah HinzeNovember 7, 2020
Thank you Maurine and Scott. This is an inspired and hope filled message. What a blessing you and latterdaysaintmag.com are to all of us!!
John W DalyNovember 7, 2020
Love the picture that goes with the message. It says it all in one view
John W DalyNovember 7, 2020
One of the best messages ever to appear on Meridian!
A classic and inspired reminder for us all
RochelleNovember 7, 2020
My second marriage literally began to fall apart on our honeymoon. We had married in the (LDS) temple, pledged to care for each other's children, and found a home to build our life together, but little wedges began to sneak in. I sought direction from our bishop who practically referred me to an attorney. My husband seemed to have no interest in addressing our challenges. A year and a half later I was sealed to my now husband of over thirty years.
JNovember 7, 2020
Anyone can stir up feelings if we let ourselves. Acknowledge them, acknowledge they’re wrong to act on, acknowledge what’s right, choose the right.
My concern would be less with the feelings (although difficult) and more with the commitment to covenants of the marriage (which I believe would resolve much of this). Life is not a romance movie and he seems to think he has no say in what happens next.
Gordon J HensleyNovember 6, 2020
I know people who have pet snakes and I fear that my wife will not want to join me in heaven because she is afraid of snakes, including pictures of them.
Diane StewartNovember 6, 2020
I'm a huge fan of your and Maurine's work and talents. I can't wait to have my own copy of the Nauvoo calendar. It's the perfect accessory to the upcoming Doctrine and Covenants study.
Bev StoutNovember 6, 2020
We love your podcast, especially hearing your applicable personal experiences, and listen to it every week. A quick question: Please help me understand, what is Moroni's part in Mormon 7? II have always thought Chapter 7 was Mormon's conclusion to his own writings, hence the "Amen" at the end.
Heather PoelmanNovember 6, 2020
You always have such wise counsel and advise. Love your contributions. Thank you!
DianeNovember 6, 2020
IN the first months of my marriage, my husband told me that he loved his ex-girlfriend more than he loved me. My heart aches for this young wife! I think you gave her great advice, and I hope she can find peace in the decisions that lie ahead for her.
Andrew CurrieNovember 6, 2020
I think a major point has been missed in the counsel given this woman. "Invite him to open up about how he arrived at this decision. Make sure you do more listening than talking so you can really understand why he’s making this declaration." He doesn't know why he's doing this. The Bible (1 John 2:4) tells us: "He that says, I know Him, and keeps not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him." Some Bible translation describe such a person as "a liar". So what possibly could be the benefit of 'carefully listening' to his excuses to find out what he's thinking? This is a typical defect in the "counseling process". It is useless to listen to someone so deep in sin that the Spirit has no place in them! He has already revealed his heart. Cut your losses before you end-up with an STD from this unfaithful husband or you bring a child into this pathetic situation.
Maryann TaylorNovember 5, 2020
I am finding that I have to withdraw, at least for a time, from listening to or reading about political subjects. It has caused too much anxiety, anger, hopelessness, and contention in my heart. Praying and reading the scriptures give me strength and more peace. While I recognize I have a responsibility to vote for good candidates, and to support propositions that uphold the values of the church, my power is limited. Heavenly Father still holds us in the palm of his hands, and I am trusting him to protect our freedoms if we keep the commandments and trust in him. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland has promised that the Church WILL STAND until the coming of our Savior, despite what is happening in the world. That is a great comfort for me and I hold on to his promise.
Maryann TaylorNovember 5, 2020
We have two dogs we dearly love and others that have died. The grief we felt was deep, and I have been comforted by the knowledge that they will be perfectly resurrected and that we will have our pets in the next life. I believe one of the reasons Heavenly Father gave us pets is for comfort. When my husband is away, my dogs are a great comfort and company for me. Pets can also have a wonderful unifying influence in families. Hearts are softened through the love we feel for our pets, and families are united in our affection for them. I also feel gratitude to my Heavenly Father for this great gift.
Hildegard EralieNovember 5, 2020
I feel so gratified to read your article which confirms all my feelings and beliefs. i avoid the ants on the sidewalk, carry the earwig outside that happened to come in with my fruit, and love and mourn my pets past and present like the people I love.
I have to change the channel when animal abuse is about to be reported, and can't stand watching anything that involves apparent suffering of animal on any kind. The older I get the more I have become aware that ALL animals, reptiles, even insects can feel love and return love. This knowledge has enriched my life, and made me more aware of the wisdom and love of all creation, and makes me so much more grateful for all living things, plants, trees, EVERYTHING.
David BrownNovember 5, 2020
A wonderful perspective. How fortunate we are that our ultimate leader is incomprehensibly great. I will ever be grateful.
Charles D McClureNovember 5, 2020
As good things often happen, I found myself studying and reading over and over Mormon 7. A peace came over me and as the election results came in I remained calm. God is in the details of our lives and this article reiterates that! Thank you for this article or rather testimony!
Cheryl BrallierNovember 5, 2020
I love your insights and have been following you from Burke to Utah. I am so glad that your injuries were not any more serious than they were. I wonder what your thoughts are on the Hopewell Mounds. I find them very intriguing
Sally SmithNovember 5, 2020
Oh our republic!!! When did we lose our sense of democracy and our belief in God. Now God is the only person who can save this nation.
The people have become so indoctrinated with evil They can no longer see "the good"
Jan FlorieNovember 5, 2020
I have been feeling anxious because of this election. This helps to calm my soul. My Heavenly Father knows what will be and I just need to leave it in His hands.
Thank you for this reminder.
William SnyderNovember 4, 2020
Thank you for this uplifting message! It is so good to be reminded that we can place our trust and hope in our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Mary SchiltzNovember 4, 2020
Excellent article. I recall the videos of people screaming and having fits when President Trump was elected. It was puzzling to us because we were raised in the years when we respected the Office of the Presidency and the voice of the people. We who proclaim Christ, must drop down and draw in the sand before we respond, no matter what. It's the moment of quiet which encourages a quick prayer and wisdom in dealing with others. I have been mocked, shunned and spit on for being a member of The Church of Jesus Christ. This strengthened my testimony and caused me to face forward. We will not always be happy with those who are chosen to lead us, but we need to use dignity and graciousness and work to teach others correct principles. Then we govern ourselves well.
Mary SchiltzNovember 4, 2020
Great articles. How do we deal with the fact that our older, son (anRM who has been ill for 20 years after he got parasites during his mission and now suffers from Crohn's disease) does not ever have a ministering brother, or formerly, Home teacher, visit him? How do we, who are active, older and have been ordinance workers, and have held many callings in the Church deal with the fact that we NEVER see Ministering sisters or brethren? The man who is assigned to our family is old, has had a stroke and is not very cogent; his son, his companion, suffers from severe autism. We see no one. Granted, we are under some sort of quarantine, on and off, but this has gone on for years, and we don't know why. We have approached, EQ pres, supervisors, etc, and there is no response. As we read other members' postings, we see they are visited and cared for. What to do? Even a phone call would be welcomed. Someone once told me that we shouldn't feel badly because we are so strong we don't need to be visited. Huh?
Jenee LindnerNovember 4, 2020
Judge Elias Higbee was my 3rd great uncle. Here is a story from his journey with the Prophet. We are still, at times, trying to be heard. Religious Liberty is such a precious gift to us. Taken from Journey to Washington DC: Joseph Smith, Sidney Rigdon, (Judge) Elias Higbee, Orrin P. Rockwell: On October 29, 1839, Joseph Smith, the 'Mormon Prophet,' wrote: "I left Nauvoo accompanied by Sidney Rigdon, (Judge) Elias Higbee and Orrin P. Rockwell...for the city of Washington to lay before the Congress of the United States, the grievances of the (LDS) Saints while in Missouri. While on the mountains some distance from Washington, our coachman stepped into a public house to take his grog, when the horses took fright and ran down the hill at full speed. I persuaded my fellow travelers to be quiet and retain their seats, but had to hold one woman to prevent her throwing her infant out of the coach. The passengers were exceedingly agitated, but I used every persuasion to calm their feelings: and opened the door, I secured my hold on the side of the coach the best way I could, and succeeded in placing myself in the coachman's seat, and reining up the horses, after they had run some two or three miles, and neither coach, horses, or passengers received any injury. My course was spoken of in the highest terms of commendation, as being one of the most daring and heroic deeds and no language could express the gratitude of the passengers when the found themselves safe and the horses quiet. There were some members of Congress with us, who proposed naming the incident to that body, believing they would reward such conduct by some public act: but on inquiring my name, to mention as the author of their safety, and finding it to be Joseph Smith, the 'Mormon Prophet,' as they called me, I heard no more of their praise gratitude, or reward." Joseph Smith
Diane KriloffNovember 4, 2020
I was feeling quite discouraged in watching the election results, then I came across your beautiful article. Thank you for the hope and uplift it brought to my heart.
ScottHNovember 4, 2020
It's a good thing to have our idealism about what political systems can achieve humbled to reality. When we no longer see the state as a magical fairy godmother, we can better appreciate appropriate limits on political systems and governmental power.
CHARLES DEFRANCHINovember 4, 2020
Hello Joni, now I have run into the second woman I know who has so much compassion for animals that she cannot stand seeing them suffering in a movie. The first one is my wife, who told me, shortly after we had married, that she did not enjoy the movie "Dance with the Wolves," which I thought was rather very nice, because of the wolf being shot at the end of the movie. I am grateful for your article, which I will forward to one of my childless good friend, who just lost his 10-year old dog and is grieving it as if it were his child.
Boanerges RubalcavaNovember 4, 2020
Although from the practical point of view what she has written is the important points, from the theological point of view, is his answer to the question the president asked him: what is the difference between your faith and all others? Joseph answer: the Gift of the Holy Ghost conferred by the laying of hands.
WallyNovember 4, 2020
Very consoling! Thank you Maurine and Scot!
James PelessNovember 4, 2020
Excellent! Well said and done. Thank you!
Phil HarrisonNovember 4, 2020
Thank you. Just what I needed this morning!
ShaunaNovember 4, 2020
Absolutely--I look forward to the day when the Savior will reign. But until then, I continue to put my trust in HIm and His servants, the prophets and apostles. So grateful to have His Church reorganized and the fulness of the Gospel on the earth. It's promises are glorious if we can continue to repent and endure. thanks for the beautifully written reminders
Leah Jane BrowerNovember 4, 2020
Thank you so much for this timely article. This sweet reminder makes me want to extend myself in love to those who do not share my political beliefs. All is well.
Joline WalgamottNovember 4, 2020
AMEN!
Sara GrovesNovember 4, 2020
Great article! This will be such a beautiful world to live in. And I know that I have the same road to follow, the same advantage as the next person, the same hope in Father's government as each of His children. Thank you for this wonderful explanation.
CynthiaNovember 4, 2020
This is so inspiring! Totally love this! Thank you for sharing.
Suzi FlandersNovember 4, 2020
I was just now watching the election news and felt so discouraged about how our lives could change in a matter of hours....then I found your article and it gave me hope like I’ve not had in awhile!
Thank you for writing this article.....I want to print it and hang it in my home somewhere so that I can always have the feelings of hope and love this article gives me....thank you so much for writing this wonderful message....May the Lord always inspire you to write these messages of hope for those of us who really need them❤️❤️
Karen BrimhallNovember 4, 2020
This morning this article was a great comfort to me. Thank you
Chris HowellNovember 4, 2020
Praise to the man, who communed with Jehovah!
Cynthia MoorheadNovember 4, 2020
This is beautiful, and I need to remember it. Thank you.
DaphneKNovember 4, 2020
So well said! Thank you Scott & Maurine for recentering my political angst to the eternal perspective and our most loving Heavenly Father's watchful care over us all.
DTNovember 4, 2020
I giggled when I read about Tammy's experience. Exactly mine. I got up and got out earlier than usual to get the coveted toilet paper bundle at the big box members only. I was shocked to find the line to the TP at the back of the store, starting at the front door. WHAT??? And as I waited with my fellow citizens, there seemed many in line who seriously did not seem to qualify as a senior citizen. Hey, I'm a young one, and I should know. Turns out many "came along for the ride" with Mom and Dad, or Grandma, to get the coveted item. No one was getting scrutinized or turned away. The whole thing was ridiculous. By the time the store opened, there would be little TP and no disinfectant wipes left. The workers came along putting one huge multi pack of wipes in everyone's cart. I didn't know I was shopping for any or that I needed any, but decided resistance was futile and kept quiet, thinking of our self reliance stores. They soon ran out.
LadawnNovember 4, 2020
Thank you for this sweet reminder of in whom we can trust. A wonderful and timely message for today!
Sonia SmithNovember 4, 2020
I needed this today. It's comforting to my spirit knowing I live under Heavenly Father's administration. Praise His holy name!
Jackie RichardsNovember 4, 2020
Although I live in the UK I am very fond of your beautiful country and the American people. This article is so comforting, for us all, wherever we live. heavenly Father is in charge, this is His world and we are His children safe in His care. Thank you for a lovely magazine.
DesNovember 4, 2020
I would have thought the unintended consequence would have been a store full of elderly people "catching up" with their friends, and wasting too much of their senior hour talking, rather than shopping. much like how they now all congregate in the chapel foyer gasbagging and catching up with each other after months away from meeting.
David ShafferNovember 4, 2020
Thank you. This is a positive, uplifting, encouraging treatise. It lifted my spirits at a time they needed lifting.
David BrownNovember 4, 2020
Excellent! We only have so much energy for change at a given time, personally and collectively. The friction that attends such struggle must be weighed against the likely benefit. We need activities that sustain us individually and those that reinforce social cohesion. We need wisdom, courage and self-restraint.
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2020
President Gordon B. Hinckley taught the following in an address entitled "Daughters of God. "In light of the instruction we have received from the Lord himself, I regard it as inappropriate for anyone in the Church to pray to our Mother in heaven. The Lord Jesus Christ set the pattern for our prayers. I have looked in vain for any instance where any President of the Church has offered a prayer to 'Our Mother in Heaven.' I suppose those who use the expression and who try to further its use are well-meaning, but they are misguided. The fact that we do not pray to our Mother in Heaven in no way belittles or denigrates her." President Hinckley includes many scriptures in this address where the Lord instructs us to pray to our Heavenly Father. President Hinckley's counsel is clear and the scriptures are clear--We pray only to our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ. This article can be found on the church's website.
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2020
Several years??? I thought the plan was to have a new hymnal much sooner than that.
HarryNovember 3, 2020
This was amazing and insightful. I don't have any political or cultural "side" to belong to because I was too isolated and oblivious to absorb others' cultures or perspectives most of my life. If the walls go up completely, dividing everyone between "Us" and "them" I'll have nowhere to go. I feel very lonely very often. But I have faith that we can make it through this storm and come out the other side stronger and wiser. We just need to put in the work to make it happen.
Jo Ann OkelberryNovember 3, 2020
This article is so fascinating. I am grateful that I took the time to read it. Thank you for adding the sources to the article.
NeiceNovember 3, 2020
I was yelled at by multiple members for supporting Trump as he is not a baby killer. It goes both ways. Each was wrong. Not for their beliefs but for how they chose to express it. It is hard to turn the other cheek and I am learning just how hard it is.
Claudette TaylorNovember 3, 2020
I would like to buy a copy of the music and lyrics. Please tell me how I can.
Randall M SmithNovember 3, 2020
Nobody seems to want to argue against this. I'd say there's no argument to be made.
CANovember 3, 2020
Thank you Suerh! You expressed my exact thoughts when I read this talk in October. I also was very disturbed that Pres. Oaks said he supported Black lives matter (BLM) which are trigger words for riots, destruction, and defiance of law and order in our country at the present time.
TNovember 3, 2020
It takes more than 2 months off porn for the effects to fade.
GeorginaNovember 3, 2020
This article is so inspiring to me. Thank you!
Richard EyreNovember 3, 2020
I hope my love for the Savior shines through in this piece, and I would love to have you share your comments and feelings.
Scott SorensenNovember 3, 2020
In Mormon 7:10 Moroni says, “ ye are numbered among the people of the first covenant”. Who are those people and what is the first covenant?
Bob spielNovember 3, 2020
Your insights are always so valuable. With the modern locust we have now in the form of a virus the Lord can do the same thing as we exercise even greater faith and obedience. Zion must roll forth.
SBNovember 3, 2020
Some commenters apparently missed the point of the article and are still angry, pointing the finger at others, and pushing their own views, perceptions, and narratives. Sigh...
Scot ProctorNovember 2, 2020
I just checked the site at latterdaysaintmag.com/nauvoo and it appears to be working. It may help to clear your cache and try again. So glad you enjoy the podcast!
Toni PalmerNovember 2, 2020
I tried to pre-order your new Nauvoo diary but it wouldn't come up when I put the reference you posted. Is there another web address? And by the way, I really enjoy your podcasts!
Harold RustNovember 2, 2020
I have learned over the years that most important public policy issues raised by our children, grand children and friends are best answered by addressing what that policy will do to impact freedom of speech and liberty to act. It is as though the more free we feel, the greater the potential there is that we could be deceived into giving away some of that freedom. We must be very alert to any erosion of that freedom. Thanks for your additional alerts.
Valiant JonesNovember 2, 2020
Excellent post, Jeff. Our judicial system assumes innocence until proven guilty, erring on the side of preferring to let the guilty go free rather than wrongly imprison an innocent person. We need a similar approach on information.
Robert D StarlingNovember 2, 2020
Thank you for your eloquent -and humorous- analysis of what should be obvious, but tragically has been forgotten by many. The discussion of politics and religion has its place, but not while we're birdwatching. There is a time and a place to "let it be" and enjoy our common interests.
J. HamiltonNovember 2, 2020
I really appreciate this article Cindy. Reading about your interaction with your son makes me think: "out of the mouths of babes" great things can come. For those of you who would like to learn more about mindfulness meditation practice, I highly recommend the book "The Power of Stillness" (available at Deseret Book) and the FaceBook group "Mindful Saints." Thank you again.
Juliann BradshawNovember 2, 2020
Excellent article. I wish people would realize we have more than a two party choice. And I do not feel that in voting my conscience and voting for “the proper role of government “ that I am wasting my vote.
Mary TarbetNovember 2, 2020
Very well written. Persuasion using common sense. Einstein would agree with all you’ve written.
KJBNovember 2, 2020
You might want to tell this to the multiple members of the Church who have yelled at me on Facebook about how Biden is a senile pedophile and that CNN stands for Communist News Network. Trump has spent four years governing with threats, tantrums, and outright lies. Anyone unwilling to call him out for what he is doesn't get to tell anybody else to "keep cool."
Bernard BadeNovember 2, 2020
To have a good government requires a degree of self regulation. This is often lacking and more so in this day.
Geoff-AusNovember 2, 2020
So if you have a leader who says he will not accept the result unless he wins, as Trump has. Should you still vote for him?
Jessica WhitakerNovember 1, 2020
Inspirational and insightful, thank you!
Jessica WhitakerNovember 1, 2020
Excellent!
MJNovember 1, 2020
I wonder if the therapist this brother is currently seeing truly has the capacity to help him. What purpose does wasting time beating yourself up in search of a years-ago elusive cause, actually serve? How will that help? Perhaps he simply got exposed to pornography innocently and unfortunately became a regular user of it. Wouldn’t it be more helpful simply to say, here’s where you are now, and let’s focus on helping you claim the future you want?
J. StenquistNovember 1, 2020
This makes complete sense, I don’t think our Heavenly Mother is off cleaning Her celestial mansion while our Heavenly Father councils His children, it makes me picture both parents together, United, counciling Their child.
Ronald "Ted" LautsNovember 1, 2020
If you play in mud the dirt and water is going to get on you. Your mother didn't tell you to stay out of it simply because she didn't want the job of cleaning you up again but also to allow you to have more time to enjoy being free to enjoy the process of living, learning, making friends and being a friend, making friends of supposed enemies and gaining the skills necessary to live to a "ripe" old age as peacefully and as lovingly as possible while always being as true to yourself and family as possible.
Lisa ReisingNovember 1, 2020
I really liked this statement in the article:
“Viewing the pandemic in the future from a 30,000 foot perspective, I would not be surprised if 2020 is recognized as a difficult but critical junction of the Restoration, a positive accelerant of the Second Coming.”
It reminded me of what President Nelson said - that 2020 would be a “hinge-point” in the history of the church.
It is important to reflect on our resilience to adversity at every stage, but the most telling perspective will be yet to come.
Lisa ReisingNovember 1, 2020
I have sometimes wondered why I am not more depressed at the tragedy that is in the story of The Book of Mormon. You’ve neatly laid out all the reasons we find hope and receive guidance and inspiration from it instead. It is a marvelous book for our time. Doesn’t the Lord always know exactly what we need!
KatNovember 1, 2020
I love this podcast. I love listening to it, and I love reading it. Ya'll do an amazing job. Each week, I learn so much from you. I feel so much as I listen or read. Just love what you do. Thank you. I am also confused by the mention of Mormon moving the records from Shim to Cumorah and then talking about a Hill Cumorah in Mexico. I likely do not know my history well enough, but will you please further explain this? Kind thanks.
GrandpaOctober 31, 2020
This is a very kind and gentle answer. I commend your thoughtfulness and gentleness.
Nancy HoytOctober 31, 2020
Perfect! You demonstrated with wonderful examples the dangers of "politicizing" and the issues facing society as a whole because of it. Thank you.
Elizabeth SextonOctober 31, 2020
I have the same question regarding Shim/Cumorah and the movement of the plates - how did they go from Mexico to New York?
Ben JonesOctober 31, 2020
There are songs that were once political that now seem like everyday folk wisdom. The song "This land is your land" is often sung by the Tabernacle Choir but it was written by Woody Guthrie, a union organizer, who used it as a social critique back during the Great Depression.
K RossOctober 31, 2020
Fantastic article! Excellent points made that readers can use to support their own efforts at avoiding the rancor that inevitably results from politicizing non-political associations.
NED SCARISBRICKOctober 30, 2020
I'm not sure how our suffering physical, mental, emotional and spiritual can make us more than wounded. Wounds can heal of course but the scars stay long after the events that caused the injury in the first place.
I'm sure that Job's scares were a constant reminder of the vicissitudes in this life we call mortality. What about the wounds that Hosea suffered (Hosea 1:2) because of Gomer?
What I do know is that the day will come when all the suffering will stop and our bodies, our minds, our hearts and our spirits will be healed and even the scars will disappear just as if they never had happened.
The agency of mankind is a necessary part of this life and the choices we make and the consequences of our choices do lead to growth. We approved of this plan before we came to earth so are volunteers of the Father's plan of perfection.
The day will come when we can see the total pattern of our mortal telestial life as the Father says, "well done my good and faithful servants." I don't remember volunteering for this life but evidently you and I did.
Richard EyreOctober 29, 2020
Just a personal thank you to all who are following this "12 Purposely Provocative Questions" series. As I mentioned in the introduction, I use "provocative" in the positive sense of provoking us to think and study harder. I feel that using our mental energy to ponder the doctrines of the Restoration is almost always a faith and testimony building effort, while using that energy to pick at odd details in Church history or look for human imperfections in our prophets can undermine our faith. The Lord said "By their fruits shall ye know them" and it is the restored doctrines are the fruits of the prophets of the Restoration. Thanks for your time and mental energy in reading this series, and please comment with your thoughts and questions.
Haze KompelienOctober 29, 2020
"You may have noticed that I like to capitalize divine pronouns"
Just letting you know that I appreciate this "little" thing. I always do it. I think it demonstrates an increased level of honor and reverence. It elevates the One that the pronoun represents.
When authors do NOT do this, I find myself turned off by their casualness towards Deity.
I hope more will make the effort.
Maureen GaleOctober 29, 2020
What an interesting question to ponder! And I love Brother Eyre's ultimate answer. I confess I have never thought of that, yet it makes perfect sense. I find I make my best connection in prayer as I fill to tears with gratitude for this incredible world and ALL of its experiences They have given us to learn and grow from. And for the fullness of the gospel with which to make sense of it all. My top priority in prayer is for the missionaries (myself included) to be able to bless the lives of more of His children with that understanding so they can better, more happily, navigate this mortality before returning to Them.
David MillerOctober 29, 2020
God tells us "the song of the righteous is a prayer unto me, and it shall be answered with a blessing upon their heads." Interesting, isn't it, that we all are so very comforted when singing/praying: "When I leave this frail existence, When I lay this mortal by, Father, Mother, may I meet you In your royal courts on high?"
Erik HansenOctober 28, 2020
Remember the Jews and The Romans were on different sides of their political spectrum and both were terrible and were punished. Nephites and Lamanites left the Lord and again the religious side was wiped out. WE ARE ALMOST THERE!
Erik HansenOctober 28, 2020
There is obviously a wicked man on one side and a terribly worldly man on the other. One agenda is God-fearing and the other merciful and helpful in defense of good people. We seem to be unable to have it all. I will vote independently because my vote goes to neither of the corrupt sides of our current "System". Why can't LDS bring in their own candidate and system? Are we afraid to do so?
Lizzie GirlOctober 28, 2020
Here's what I don't understand. Why can't in-utero videos of the abortion process be screened? Nothing else has a hope of being as effective as a video of the ugliness actually transpiring.
Karen R.October 28, 2020
Thank you Brother Givens for a thoughtful, well researched and careful analysis of a sensitive subject. I could not agree with you more.
Ellen BaggaleyOctober 28, 2020
Thank you for expressing my feelings so well.
CJBOctober 28, 2020
Thank you for publishing this. I had read it the other day when Nathanial Givens discussed it on his blog, and, as a everything written or spoken by him and his parents, it builds understanding and faith in our loving Savior.
ShaunaOctober 28, 2020
thank you for your thorough thought and research. I am deeply troubled by feminist arguments, in particular, that continue to victimize and demean women and life, in the name of 'women's rights." I was "trained" as a feminist during my work on a Ph.D. and I can say--that while clearly there was/is a need for a women's movement, much of current feminist thought is based on faulty premises. In short, much of it is a lie.. And so many young women have bought into it:(
jemezblueOctober 28, 2020
Thank You.
SuerhOctober 28, 2020
Pres. Oaks gave an excellent talk. Unfortunately, most of what he said will take a back seat to his perceived support of black lives matter. Someone in his position should have been far more clear about standing for truth. Black lives do matter but BLM is an evil and destructive movement in complete contradiction to the Church’s doctrine on the importance of the family unit. I truly hope he clarifies this so members won’t be deceived.
Cynthia MoorheadOctober 28, 2020
Amen. Best article I have read to date on this issue. The longer abortion is accepted in this country, the longer we will be denied heaven’s blessings. We are as wicked as China, India, or any other country that sacrifices its young on the altar of inconvenience. Half the Black babies in the US are aborted, thanks in part to the ubiquitous abortion clinics that fulfill Margaret Sanger’s goal of eliminating the Black population here. Black lives do matter, and so do all babies’ lives. Use birth control, or don’t have sex! Rape and incest are the only possible excuses for abortion, and adoption is always a better choice.
Larry JensenOctober 28, 2020
Excellent article! Thank you
Irene BlackOctober 28, 2020
Thanks for the thought provoking article. We do still need to be grateful for what we have and realize we can deal with hard issues. I'm a caregiver giver and can't get out much. Being a social person myself has been challenge but I try to reflect on what my grandparents endured and press forward with faith. Love all your articles Richard and Linda!
Karell BinghamOctober 28, 2020
We have a statue of Liberty, we should have a statue of Responsibility standing next to her. Americans increasingly shy away from taking responsibility for any action they take.
Jerry R PaceOctober 28, 2020
I have never been a bishop, however I have always wondered how someone could answer question number seven on the temple recommend interview and support abortion for thee but not for me.
Also it would be interesting to see how the demographics of this country would be different if only half of the abortions performed became Living sons and daughters of our heavenly father as they were intended to be.
Jaime PerezOctober 28, 2020
I have loved The Forgotten Carols since I saw my first one in 2006! This is the most wonderful story that could ever be told. Thank you Michael Maclean.
C CalkinsOctober 28, 2020
Deeply thoughtful, powerful, comprehensive!
Thank you for your erudite and touching! (almost an oxymoron) explanation of what is becoming a not-so-slowly dying discussion.
I will study this and arm myself for future encounters. And, I will pray for us all. As a nation, we seem to be slowly losing to "Satan's grasp".
Amy HoffmannOctober 28, 2020
Thank you for writing this article! I have been struggling to see so many of my Latter Day Saint friends saying they are Pro-choice. I have read numerous talks from President Nelson and previous Prophets that speak very clearly against abortion. It’s quit simple...follow the Prophet. We will all be help accountable on whether we actively stood against sin (the world) or if we just stood passively by while millions of babies were killed per year. Even the elect will be deceived in the last days.
Jennifer WallOctober 28, 2020
So well stated! Thank you for putting into words thoughts and reasoning behind what I believe on this issue. As an RN who works with data, quality and reporting I also appreciate the literature, statistics and data presented surrounding multiple aspects of abortion, especially the long-term effects on the women who undergo these. I am going to share and save this! Thank you again!
SKOctober 27, 2020
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this subject. I could have written it myself. I remember the day I forgave my mother freely. She related a time in her childhood when her drunken father came home, pushed my grandmother down the stairs, brandished his gun, and was threatening to shoot her. My mother was seven years old at the time, jumped on his back and screamed at him to not kill her mother. I'm sure he didn't even remember it the next day.
I never knew until she told that story, what kind of childhood my mother had. People of that generation rarely spoke about unpleasant or difficult things.
My mother was physically abusive to all eight of us kids, as was my father. Being the oldest, I resented all I had to do to take care of my siblings. I brought it up one time as an adult and she said, "Who do you think took care of them when you weren't around?" I knew then that I wouldn't ever get an apology, or something like, "I know it must have been hard on you too" from my mother, so I gave up. At least I tried.
When I heard her childhood story for the first time, I frankly forgave her on the spot for the abuse in my childhood. She has told me several stories since. She had nothing to work with.
Thankfully, I joined this church, hoping it would show me how to be a loving mother. It was the best decision I ever made.
She still isn't a very loving mother, but she's my mother. We're supposed to honor our parents. My siblings have all forgiven her but one, that one needing to hear some loving concession from my mother, and still hasn't, but we all keep tabs on her now. She's in her late 80s, fiercely independent, and strong willed. That's just who she is.
Chloris MullinsOctober 27, 2020
Thank you for sharing your story and testimony! God's ways are truly not our ways, but the blessings and understanding come through His wisdom.
RyanOctober 27, 2020
Such a beautiful piece, may we all seek to unify as written so eloquently here.
AJ CurrieOctober 27, 2020
There's a political party that voted in 2012 to drop the word "God" from its party platform. It's the same one that always makes a candidate's religion a litmus test for a seat on the US Supreme Court. It is time for the adherents to that party to wake-up to the words of the Prophets in these latter-days.
J. ConklinOctober 27, 2020
There seems to be a group missing from the people discussing these questions -- those of us who are single, and even more so, those who have no family members who are also church members.
I am most fortunate in having families in the ward and neighborhood who take care of my grocery shopping so that I don't have to go out in crowded situations or get up at very early hours to go when only seniors are allowed. But other than groceries, I have continued to do my shopping online, and I also find that there are items which simply aren't available in that method.
I am looking at this from a "coastal" view, living in California. But I still am able to read scriptures daily with a friend in Idaho, as we have done for over six years, using FaceTime. Many of the members of our ward have moved to Utah or Idaho; our ward has been one with lots of move-ins and move-outs, but it has become much more common in the last six months.
Edward Rehder IIIOctober 27, 2020
Thank you. And thank God for prophets to lead and guide us if we have ears to hear.
Gale PhillipsOctober 27, 2020
Thank you for the quotes that take us back to the foundation and help clarify confusion. And thank you for the links to other Christian groups that are giving specific helps in condensing information.
Becky COctober 27, 2020
Thank you!! This is exactly what I needed this morning. Definitely an answer to prayer.
ShaunaOctober 27, 2020
thank you for the reminders:)
CindyOctober 27, 2020
I love this! It fills my heart with hope and love just to read these words!!! I look forward to more!!!
Sharma AndersonOctober 26, 2020
When my ex left, I celebrated my anniversary with my children. They are the best thing that came from the union. I want them to know I do not regret the marriage, the marriage gave me four children and now 2 grandchildren!
BurbidgeOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for your story. I felt like you were telling my story. For years I have been asking the Lord to help me have loving feelings towards my parents. It’s hard . At times I think I’ve done it, then A memory will resurface all my sad feelings, and I have to start forgiving all over again.
You have encouraged me to keep asking, keep forgiving and keep trying
Maryann TaylorOctober 26, 2020
My sister was the youngest in our family of 7 children. She had four older brothers. When she was about 5 she decided that she wanted to be a boy. She told us we had to call her "Bobbie." (I don't know where she came up with that name.) This phase did not last long and she grew up to marry and have children. I can only imagine the undue attention this phase would have stirred up if this happened today. Children do not have the maturity or wisdom to "decide" their gender and that should be very obvious to everyone.
GTOOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. My mother had NPD, as did her mother, and both left a lot of wreckage in the family. Though I was always respectful and courteous, I had to distance myself, since she was a sinking ship. Heavenly Father did tell me she had done the best she could, and since she passed away she has been actively involved in trying to mend the damage and support the grandchildren she only cared about in principle. Miracles have happened.
LexaGraemeOctober 26, 2020
Wow. Thank you for sharing something so tender.
Pattie SOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for your heart-felt article. I, too, had a struggling relationship with my mom. She and I never really bonded and I will always feel sad about that. I bonded with my Grandmother at a very early age. There are times that I cannot see my mother in my life until 5 years of age when my mother remarried. I have come to the conclusion that her first marriage was a tremendous hardship to her. She was beat by her first husband many times. I will always be forever grateful for her making that call to my Grandmother and leaving that abusive relationship. I was only months old and my brother was 2. Mother had a breakdown and my Grandmother cared for me during the nights because mom didn't hear me even though I slept in the same bed as her. All and all, I believe we need to forgive our mother's for their imperfections for I know I have even many imperfections and need to be forgiven from my children. I love forgiveness!!!
DavidOctober 26, 2020
None of us escape childnood unscathed to at least some degree. All parents have shortcomings. As we also do as parents and spouses. Christ's wise teachings were of forgiveness rather than righteous indignation, which applies to those who are close to us as well as the stranger. Thank you for the reminder the forgiveness contains blessings for all concerned, including the forgiver!
PatriciaOctober 26, 2020
Although I think you have far more issues more important than your anniversary, the advice to spend it with your children is the right one. I'm divorced as well. My husband after 15 years of marriage decided that he had been miserable and that the Gospel and I were the problems in his life.
After a few years, I was able to realize that I had a great marriage. We held temple recommends, attended regularly and I was faithful to my covenants. His issues, were not my issues. His life has spiraled out of control, and our children are the ones most effected.
I still love him, but he isn't interested in that, and I've been able to make a very happy life with what I have to deal with. Eternity is a long time, and he still has the opportunity to repent and get his life back together. Will it happen in this life? Probably not, but then, I've long ago forgiven him.
Next year would be our 40th anniversary, and I will spend it with my kids. They are still our children, they will be until or unless Heavenly Father decides otherwise, and it is a milestone for them in a way.
SheilaOctober 26, 2020
What a wonderful testimony to the goodness of God
pam Morgan RoderOctober 26, 2020
Your story is amazing! I cried while watching! Wow.
I felt your power of being a victor. Thank you for sharing.
Juliann BradshawOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing your journey. I’m currently trying to make sense and peace with my own mother. She is deceased but the healing can still occur. You’ve given me some insights and hope. Thanks for the Light.,
Michael JonesOctober 26, 2020
My mom and me did not get along for 10 years. It all started when I was a child about 3 years old. My mom was a single mom and she eventually married a man who, as far as I was concerned, was nothing but than the adversary personified. He abused my mom, he abused me and he abused his two daughters and his son. Most of my youth was spent running away with my mom and my step-siblings to escape his drunken rages which occurred on a bi-weekly basis. I blamed my mom for what was going on but my mom could not divorce the man because she had 4 children to raise. We eventually all grew up and fled our childhood home leaving my mother on her own. She finally divorced him and ended up being thrown out of her home with the barest minimum and at the age of about 50 she had to start all over again. Then my life fell apart as I was unable to get myself going with what I had been dealt with. I finally called my mom in 2000 and she told me to come home, without hesitation, which I did thankfully. And so began the road to reconciliation. My eldest step sister ending up committing suicide in 2007 and my other two step siblings cast my mother out of their lives and wanted nothing to do with her. Then in 2014 my mother began to deliver excruciating pain, that resulted in her being unable to continue earning an income. She could not even walk anymore. I then took over her newspaper delivery business so that I could support her and sustain her. In March of 2019, in a fit of pain, my mother thanked me, in tears, for being there for her and at the age of 75, for the first time in her life, she told me that she loved me. On 30 March 2019 my mother passed away and to this day I cry, as I am right now, for her loss. I grew to love my mother and I beg everyone who has an issue with their mom, please fix things. The pain of losing your mother is something that is almost unbearable.
Marsha LangOctober 26, 2020
What a beautiful, beautiful story. Forgiveness is a MIRACULOUS thing!!! Thank you for sharing.
KipOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing this tender experience. I am sure many can relate and we always underestimate the power of forgiveness. Many times we think we have forgiven, but we haven't forgotten and President Kimball indicates that's the ultimate. Our best is all we have and we do not know what that is for others because we don't know all the circumstances. "Hearing Him" is always the answer.
Sage GallagherOctober 26, 2020
Thanks for sharing this beautiful account. We are blessed by our prophets counsel. And by the example of good friends.
JimOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful experience in learning, accepting and forgiving. I've had smilar experiences with regards to feelings about my mother due to an abusive childhood and mental illness. I couldn't think of anything good to say about her at the funeral, and instead read "Like a Broken Vessel", pausing midway to express my desire to have a mother who was mentally there. I learned later of the abuse she suffered as a child and I slowly started to feel compassion. But I'm not as far as you are yet. I'm grateful for your sharing what that journey and destination looks like.
HeidiOctober 25, 2020
Thank you for sharing your story and process of receiving personal revelation. It’s very helpful to hear experiences like this.
Gaye WillisOctober 25, 2020
Thank you for sharing the beautiful and tender experience. This is a wonderful example to all of us and the power of healing that comes to our lives and as Hear Him. #HearHim!
Eunice S. HallettOctober 25, 2020
The Meridian Magazine is a daily read for me through the week...It "Makes my Day" and gives me something to think about on the Week-ends...I sure did miss it when it was down there for a short while. God Bless! ESH
Anthony FordOctober 25, 2020
Thank you for sharing, a moving and inspiring story that will be retold again and again as people hear it.
Maria GardinerOctober 25, 2020
I'm a little confused about the discussion about how Mormon moved the records from the Hill Shim to the Hill Cumorah in New York and then the Hill Cumorah you mentioned in Mexico. Can you explain it to me? We love listening to your Podcast every week. Thank you for all the time you spend getting it ready for your listeners.
Gary LawrenceOctober 24, 2020
To Robert K Wagstaff: Thank you for those comments. Best wishes to you as a contributor to the creativity and prosperity of capitalism.
MargaretOctober 24, 2020
This is a beautiful, important essay. Thank you. I needed to read this today.
DianeOctober 24, 2020
Thank you for sharing this. Just thank you!
J L GuinnOctober 24, 2020
Thank you so much for this article! I will be sharing it with my sister who unlike me holds resentment towards our mother. I and my siblings was raised by a stepmother who married my dad at age 19 and took on 3 stepchildren. I am now able to look objectively at what she faced but my sister has not been able to put the past in a box and leave it alone. Maybe this article can help. I am lucky enough to still have my parents at age 91 and 84 and I can look at them as people who had no handbook and did their best. I love them dearly.
Myntillae NashOctober 22, 2020
This was a great article. Thank yoU!
Arouma MatautiaOctober 22, 2020
Thank you Bro Eyre for sharing this truth..
Chris HowellOctober 22, 2020
Richard, we’ve been at odds over furniture and painting rooms. Thank you for reminding me it’s about us not me!
Chris HowellOctober 22, 2020
Ann, this is what I needed to hear today. Thank you. If all could see one another as we can become we’d live a Zion society. Thank you for the recommendations on how we can do this! I’m reminded of Paul and Zeezrom. We never know but one most wicked may be our greatest ally.
Allison DunlapOctober 22, 2020
Thank you Brother Eyre for these magnificent insights! I am in complete agreement with them and thrill at the possibilities. I feel so blessed to have a "magic" marriage, it is a 2nd marriage for both of us when our first temple marriages ended in divorce. We are so grateful for Christ's Gospel of 2nd chances!
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
Whatever you do, do NOT marry him until he has overcome his bitterness and is truly ready for a committed relationship. If he is unwilling to get some counseling, you cannot heal him, and I would move on. Otherwise, you will spend your life suffering as a result of his suffering.
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
RE: Pamela Sanders comment: Just for your interest---This is a stanza from a poem by Carol Lynn Pearson.
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
Thank you so much for continuing to post articles by Darla. She has touched my heart through her words in the past and again with this article. I am not ill, but I have friends who are and I want to pass these truths on to them. I think it will be a great comfort to be reminded that the Lord loves them, even when, or maybe ESPECIALLY when, they feel they can't "accomplish very much."
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
I LOVED this article. Thank you so much for giving us such a clear perspective regarding death and the aging of our bodies. In the resurrection we truly are all healed forever, and every promise is fulfilled. I wonder sometimes if our loved ones who have passed to the other side are feeling sorry for US and the things we still have to deal with while still alive.
Maryann TaylorOctober 21, 2020
Excellent points here. However, I do think we can do a better job of learning to find new ways, or using different scriptures, to teach the gospel. I have been a member all of my life and am now almost 70. I can tell you what scriptures are going to be used for a lesson before it even begins. There are far more than one or two scriptures for any given subject, and yet we continue to hear the same scriptures used to teach the same subjects--over and over again. Let's do some real scripture searching and try to bring a fresh approach to gospel teaching!
Melanee PhillipsOctober 21, 2020
The only unkindness I see is Mary unkindly judging this woman for wanting things to be perfect. Like when I put on my son and daughter-in-laws wedding reception because I anctiously wanted her to feel welcome to our family.
Leslie SaundersOctober 21, 2020
Looking for the story about the man who is well know and loved in Egypt that said you could use his name over there if you needed anything and then you tied it into us taking full advantage of the gift that the name of Christ is in our lives. It was an absolutely powerful way of explaining the importance of Jesus’ name for us.
Richard EureOctober 21, 2020
Thank you all for your comments!
As we progress through this series, I hope you will never hesitate to comment or to ask a question or to express your feelings.
This will make this experience a learning experience for all of us as we learn from and teach each other
CHARLES DEFRANCHIOctober 21, 2020
When I was six, my parents sent me away to live with my Grandparents over several months because I was badly affected with the tropical climate of the African country where my father had been assigned. I greatly suffered from the separation, and the thing that mattered most to me at the time was the doll I had been offered by one of my relatives. This never kept me from feeling like a boy, and it looks like modern society has reached another level of insanity trying to define a child's true gender.
LexaGraemeOctober 21, 2020
Lovely words. Thank you.
JackiOctober 21, 2020
Sometimes experiences are so traumatizing that what we walk away with is a combination of rage, that the people we had been taught to respect because of their positions of authority within the Church, did not protect us but instead let us down or actually caused the damage to be worse, and helplessness, because we were told to submit to abuse. And if it is God who commanded us to marry that abusive person, our entire worldview is shattered. I do not know how to proceed. Experience at what price? Loss of our faith in God's love for us?
Simon PownallOctober 21, 2020
As a person who first heard the missionary discussions at age 17, the doctrine of a Pre mortal existence more than anything else touched me. I could never be part of a church that didn’t believe in this. It was wonderful for you to confirm with me this pivotal doctrine 46 years later. Thank you.
SherryOctober 21, 2020
Thank you so much for this timely message. It’s what I needed to hear. It is a balm... there is nothing we can not overcome without our Heavenly Father, and our Saviour by our side.
It’s surprising what we can live through... we may be battered and bruised... but we will survive and be made stronger.
Ken McGowanOctober 21, 2020
Good. Article. However, there is another technical point (in addition to one raised by another) and that is your statement concerning the “one third” of the spirits rejecting the Plan. Actually, the scriptures do not say that; they say, rather, “one third part.” This is a significant point. Consider a circle divided into three segments of varying degrees: one being 230d, another 90d and another 40d. Each can be described as having a “one third part” (of the circle) but containing a larger or smaller part of the whole. It is unimaginable to me that our Heavenly Parents would have lost so many as a full third of their children in their premarital existence. That there was rebellion there is no doubt but “one third” seems unreasonable to believe. Far more reasonable to believe that that the “one third part” consisted of a “kind” rather than a number. It could well be that the group who rebelled was (though large in number) was a relatively small group.
phil ShermanOctober 21, 2020
Thanks for putting this podcast together
Thanks for the calendar
Thanks for coming to photograph the historic homes here in Nineveh NY
Take care & enjoy the ride
Phil
Geri CampbellOctober 21, 2020
Nice one Daris!
Kay RiceOctober 21, 2020
That was just a bunch of warm fuzzies all in one. Good fall story; thank you.
Richard EyreOctober 21, 2020
Thank you all so much for these enlightening comments! Keep them coming! Part of the fun of this series will be this comments section and finding out how others feel about each "purposely provocative" doctrine we discuss. Feel free to ask questions in your comments as well, and chances are that other commenters will have ideas or answers. Interchange and conversation on the doctrines of the Restoration is exciting and stimulating as well as faith-promoting. And it inspires in us so much gratitude for the Prophet Joseph's ability to ask the right questions that solicited revealed answers from God.
ShaunaOctober 21, 2020
Thank you so much--I think information is power and it's important to hear both sides of an issue. I am absolutely alarmed at the emphasis put on gender as a "social construction" these days. How are kids supposed to develop healthy relationships when they don't even know if they are a boy or a girl?? And when they're encouraged to "experiment" with different sexual orientations? I used to think Satan's big plan was to attack the family, but now I think it's to attack gender, without which, there is no family. Having said that, I have a nephew whose child is going through gender dysphoria and they are currently doing the puberty blocking hormones. I cannot imagine how difficult it would be to make these decisions as parents, and my heart goes out to them. But they have also left the Church over these issues and that makes me even sadder. I only want good things for them and their family but I wish they had hung on to hear and seek counsel from the Lord and His servants. Such heart wrenching issues
Joel MarksOctober 21, 2020
I believe God as well: “All these things will give us experience.” Repentance and discipline mentally, physically and spiritually are all essential in understanding Joseph’s Liberty....and ours.
timecOctober 21, 2020
It's possible to understand the pain of people seing this temple leveled by fire. Mormon communicants were very sad. Perhaps today a new temple is completed. I'm a LDS Church member but a mainline protestant, but I find sad for this disaster.
Ron BarnesOctober 20, 2020
Our two daughters came into this world with two very different personalities. Where did these diverse personalities come from if they were not developed before birth? How could they develop so different coming from the same womb? Having a life before birth answers these questions for me.
Keith MillerOctober 20, 2020
What wonderful thoughts and insights. Thank you for sharing with all of us.
Robert K WagstaffOctober 20, 2020
I was stimulated by your comments. I am blessed to be an inventor and now have eight personal patents plus my name on several other patents that were created when I worked for various companies. I have also lived outside the US on two different occasions where I observed the effects of governments that do not allow freedom of thought nor action. We are so blessed here in the United States to be able to create and develop new ideas. I am a product of this system and am thankful for the opportunity to live here.
Robert K WagstaffOctober 20, 2020
I was interested in your treatment of the pre-existence as the number one item of the restoration. I do not disagree but compliment you on your choice. Yes, we are eternal and the implications of this are driving me to strive to find my place in the eternities. I look forward to reading your next contribution.
P. MaguraOctober 20, 2020
After reading the Book of Mormon I became a convert.
Years later I was the mother of 3 children(2 boys and 1
girl). My daughter called one day. After years of marriage, she wanted to have children and "Could I pray about it?". I asked several questions in prayer about her having a child and I got positive answers... who the child would be and what the solution was to her question.
I tended the little one for several years and while reading
a book with her she stopped and said....".Grandma, you
saved me." I didn't know what she was referring to so I
asked "What was I doing?" "Oh, you were just being a
grandma" she then continued...saying.."I (she) had been an angel in Heaven." She never brought the subject up again. Later, she wanted to be baptized but her father
( a Catholic) would not give permission.
She attended her little cousin's baptism... and as I looked
over at her, tears had filled her eyes. Her father moved
them to another State and I have not heard from them
for 4 years.
David BrownOctober 20, 2020
As a friend but not member of the LDS, I admire the superior morality of the concepts presented here. Many other Christian presentations have underestimated God's mercy, wisdom and patience. Thank you for your article.
Shirley TongOctober 20, 2020
Thank you for sharing these inspired thoughts and your meaningful song! You have the talent like your sweet mother!
Shirley TongOctober 20, 2020
Loved your article because as an investigator (as a high schooler), having been born of Japanese-American parents, I avidly studied the missionary pamphlets I found in the foyer of a chapel. The most important doctrine I learned of was the true understanding of the Godhead, which expanded my mind and spirit and gave birth to my testimony! For me it truly was pivotal to finally know that I have a Heavenly Father, His Son who is my Savior, and the Holy Ghost who are three separate beings but united in purpose. I felt like I had come homed, at last!! Secondly, I was privileged to meet your daughter in SLC (and your wife) the year she was selected as Mother of the Year (I was Utah's MOY in 2010.) and I have always enjoyed your articles on parenting over the years. Thanks for the good you do!
GTOOctober 20, 2020
I had the missionary lessons when I was 16, coming from a Jewish/intellectual background. When the missionaries taught this doctrine, it was the single, most wonderful thing I had ever heard. Absolutely transforming.
DoraOctober 20, 2020
I am blessed to know that I am a spirit offspring of my Heavenly Parents who sent me to this Earth to obtain a physical body, learn, improve and find my way back to Them through their Son Jesus Christ, my Saviour! This trully is the most important doctrine, that we lived with our Heavenly Parents before being born to our earthly parents, that they love us more than our earthly parents ever could and want us to return back Home one day, to live with them and our earthly families forever and become like they are! So grateful for this knowledge. Thank you for bringing this doctrine and its importance up!
Jerry CareyOctober 20, 2020
As a very young investigator of the church, I had a hard time with the concept of “The Pre-existence “. However, after a spirited discussion, I was sitting in our dorms common room which had a great view of the night sky. As I meditated and prayed concerning this new concept, I had, what was to be the first of many moments of light. With perfect clarity I could see that eternity could not just start in one point in time and go forward. It had to go eternally in the other direction also. By the way, I had one discussion on Monday and one on Wednesday, and was baptized Saturday.
John P. PrattOctober 20, 2020
Very perceptive to recognize the importance of the knowing of life before life! Loved the story of the Christian who became Hindu because of reincarnation. A version of that belief called "multiple probations" was also taught by early LDS leaders, so there is a version of Christianity with that teaching also. See http://johnpratt.com/items/docs/2019/probations.html.
ScottOctober 20, 2020
Beautifully written article. My guess of the most pivotal doctrine was God still revealing doctrine to prophets and was surprised it was the doctrine of pre-existence. But the author convinced me in a well-written fashion that made me appreciate that doctrine more.
CH (COL-Ret) Lawrence M. BarryOctober 20, 2020
Wonderful article, thank you. In my 23 years as an LDS Army chaplain, I came to realize from my many associations with people of other Christian faiths, that there is an inherent faith and belief that marriages will endure beyond the grave, similar to your comment on belief in a premortal life although there is no creedal or doctrinal support for either belief, it seems to be intuitive in most believers.
shirl s. jacksonOctober 20, 2020
Great article! One technical point: If we claim existence that goes back eternally and forward eternally, we cannot correctly speak of a pre-existence; we can of course speak confidently of a pre-mortal or pre-earthly existence. I know it is semantics but in a world where every concept and word of doctrine is judged, nuanced and challenged by those seeking a contrary foothold, we are obligated to technical clarity.
Looking forward to reading your series about "What was restored?"...a much needed study. Thanks for your work. ssj.
Hildegard EralieOctober 20, 2020
Thank you for wonderful article. I am a convert to the Church (1977).
Learning that we had a pre-mortal life was an exceedingly joyful/yes-moment that made me want to dance. Other such moments followed, even more spiritual, heart-expanding, and full of gratitude. They form a circle of joy: The revelation that God the Father and His Son Jesus Christ live and are "real" men with tangible bodies, the amazing, all inclusive, love-filled opportunity of the atonement, (and with that the personal revelation that He didn't "have" to do it, His Father didn't "order him", the after-life: families for ever of long ago and ever after, and the experience that we are "known" body and soul, good and bad, but loved anyway, -- and cared for every moment. I could go on, but you are better at writing than I am :-) Let me just say that the joy, and gratitude has never left me. Thank you for contributing to that joyl
EdOctober 20, 2020
This doctrine is very intuitive. I had a catholic co-worker who has two sons. He told me, unsolicited, that his sons are so different, there had to be some sort of pre-earth life for this to be so.
Sally SmithOctober 20, 2020
Dear Brother Eyre,
I am thrilled to see this series of articles. The one I have just finished was so clear on the basic doctrine of premortal life.
I always thought other Christian religions at least had some concept if a pre earth life.
Thank you,
Sally Smith
Jan KingOctober 19, 2020
Coming to the realization of the choice I made that day in the pre-mortal world, after being shown the possibilities, both good and bad, which earth life would hold, has forever removed any need to blame others or to cry, "why me? why did this happen to me??" I chose it. Confidence was high that day with my Savior and Heavenly parents standing nearby, reassuring me of the divine help which would always be available. I was surrounded by Angels all making the same commitment, some of whom became family and many who have been and are faithful friends.
Rochelle HaleOctober 19, 2020
This is article is both comforting and easily spells out gospel principles. I have lost loved ones, but I have not experienced profound grief. Perhaps it is one of my spiritual gifts. I do miss my loved ones, but not in a way that I cannot function. I miss more a living relative who has put a wedge between the family. That is a difficult loss, I suppose similar to the grief of someone who passes. To the person who commented regarding the death of a spouse and quoted C.S. Lewis, I offer this (also attributed to Mr. Lewis or his wife) “The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before. That's the deal.” I was the last family member to see my grandmother before she passed. Though difficult, it was also a sweet, tender time for me to express my love and tell her it was "ok" to go, especially knowing what she had to look forward to.
MaryOctober 19, 2020
Thank you so much for your article. I have what some call brain fog. I didn't realize until reading your article that my feeling "dumb" was because of the the fog. It has changed how I'm looking at myself.
BenOctober 19, 2020
What a beautiful and powerful article. The doctrine of the gospel of Jesus Christ is so reassuring and comforting.
Bonnie JOctober 19, 2020
Thank you so much for doing this work to help the world be a better and safer place. I live in CA and it has been a nightmare. God bless you to find huge success in your worthy endeavors!
Trish MOctober 19, 2020
The remarks of the father to the son about how God could let him have a heart attack reminded me of my doctor telling me about a diagnosis he had to give an elderly woman. Her tests came back positive for an aggressive cancer.
She said, quite angrily, "I've been a member of the church my whole life and lived the Word of Wisdom! Why is God letting me get cancer?"
My doctor responded, "Ma'am, you're 89 years old. How long did you think God would let you live? Something's gotta give!"
Ok, he wasn't the most tactful doctor, but I always remembered that. Something's gotta give. Bodies aren't designed to live forever in the state they are in. This life is merely temporary--we've always known that. We just frequently don't choose to believe that.
But all trials and separations are only temporary, and later we'll look back and realize how short those separations really were in the eternities
Kurt FrancisOctober 19, 2020
All doctrinally correct, but comfort still very hard to find with the death of a spouse after many wonderful years. The loss still seems too great for words to express. I find myself as CS Lewis expressed: "Don't come talking to me about the consolations of religion or I shall suspect you don't understand."
Cary HolmquistOctober 19, 2020
Thanks. This was reassuring to read and have cogent thoughts to express feelings that confirm truth about our mortal condition and hope and faith for immortality and nature of our immortal spirits.
David DurfeeOctober 19, 2020
Astrophysicists (e.g., Paul Davies) acknowledge that the likelihood that a "life friendly" universe such as ours could randomly pop into existence would be infinitesimally small. The only theory that scientists can come up with to avoid the conclusion that there must be an "intelligent creator" is the Multiverse Theory, which postulates that ours is simply one of an infinite number of universes. This theory itself, however, requires one to accept a number of very strange concepts -- including the notion that it is most likely that we are all just part of some gigantic computer program. So the next time Richard Dawkins or some other scientist insists that religion is just silly mythology, you can be sure that they simply do not understand how bizarre and preposterous science has to get in order to explain away God.
Barbara CasadyOctober 19, 2020
THANK You for giving us a sweet, eternal perspective.
DianeOctober 19, 2020
This is so inspiring! Thank you for sharing. One tip, though, would be to call them “burn survivors” NOT “burn victims.” Two of my children are burn survivors, and in the burn community, this is how they prefer to be called.
Sherry SimisterOctober 19, 2020
No skeptic here! Why? Because I’ve been home on 3 occasions... and while recovering from a serious fall, my hospital bed was surrounded by my Ancestors!! They stayed with me until I was out of the woods... this wasn’t the first time that they surrendered my hospital bed... yes, our family is still a part of our lives.. we just can’t see them like we use to... but they are very much part of our lives
Sherry SimisterOctober 19, 2020
Absolutely loved your article! I have been blessed with the opportunity to return home on 3 occasions and each time I was allowed to see more and more.
You are so right when you say that we continue to work.. on my last return home I saw spirits being taught the gospel, and others anxiously engaged in the Lord’s work. I was also allowed to see the “Book”... it was massive.. yet while the man was writing down everything he saw on earth, you never saw a page turn. But you could see the thickness of the book.
The love that awaits us in literally breathtaking! It consumes every part of you including the strands of your hair, and the tips of your nails. Also there’s no speaking.. you automatically know what the person is saying... there was so much more... going home is literally as the scriptures say.. “ when you drink of the living water you will never thirst again!” It’s exactly what happens... you automatically know... your faith becomes knowledge... there is no more choice... you just do it! Why? Because it literally changes you...
So thank you for sharing your article...
Sherry SimisterOctober 19, 2020
Hi Cindy. I was intrigued with your article because I’ve had four serious brain injuries... the last of which took away everything I knew how to do... reading, writing, organization, seeing ( I use to make most of my clothes, and my granddaughters when she was little.
A customer with a stolen credit card threw me 10 feet and my head slammed onto the floor in which my brain slammed into the back of my head, and then into my forehead.. the whole back of my head swelled up, and I suffered severe migraines daily for 18 months... six years ago I pleaded with Heavenly Father to help me learn to read again with the Book Of Mormon. I desperately missed reading it.. He answered my prayer and I have read it cover to cover many times. However I still struggle to remember what I just read. I suffer from short term memory loss.
Long story short... through this brain injury I have learned to rely on HF, and my Saviour... they have blessed me immensely! I could not be where I am today without them by my side. So thank you for sharing your story with all of us, and I will go to your FB page...
Thank you again.
LynnOctober 18, 2020
So inspiring! Thank you for sharing!
Sherry SimisterOctober 18, 2020
What an inspiring message! I love the song! Is there a way that I can download it to my music file??
I’ve passed it on to a friend who is struggling with prayer... this article is a must read for all of us!
MrShortyOctober 18, 2020
I, too, am looking forward to this series, but perhaps with a little more trepidation than others. I think it will boil down to whether the series ends up being a good foray into "the glorious doctrines of the restoration" or more of a deflection to try to distract from "The Imperfections of the Prophets". As I look at my own and others' troubled relationships with the Church, so many of the difficult issues boil down to how to understand the imperfections of prophets and apostles and the revelatory process that is so foundational to our epistemology. A series that is merely an attempt at deflection or distraction from these difficult issues is going to be a lot less useful than a series that will eventually integrate into a solid understanding of how prophets can bring forth truths (like this series wants to cover) and also present some mistakes as if they were truths.
I think Ben Spackman encapsulates the concern so well in his Gospel Doctrine post on the book of Philemon. Dealing with the issue of slavery and why the Biblical authors seemed so unwilling to condemn slavery, he writes, "Scripture simply doesn’t reflect the eternal ideal, as we understand. How do we account for this? What model of scripture, revelation, and prophets allows “God’s word,” God’s prophets, and Jesus himself to do or allow something so… inhuman?"
Gwen BruingtonOctober 18, 2020
Thank you for this article. In the discussion about routing out the Gadiantons, you failed to mention that another way they were eliminated was with the help of natural disasters. When Nephi in the book of Helaman asked the Lord for a famine, the people repented and "swept away the band of Gadianton from amongst them." And of course, at the time of the Savior's death during all that incredible destruction, the wicked were all killed. Obviously, we would prefer an elimination of evil BEFORE the 2nd coming!
Harold RustOctober 17, 2020
This made my day. I really miss not mingling every Sunday with fellow members and this song made me feel right at home---like I was back to Church already. Great creativity and fabulous harmony. My Bishopric could have never done that because none of us could carry a tune, let alone harmonize.
Maryann TaylorOctober 17, 2020
This is great! Love it! We all need to lighten up a bit, and this was such a happy way to encourage us to come back into church attendance.
Robert SteedOctober 17, 2020
I know the Willams when I worked with Darrin with the State. Such a wonderful story and what a wonderful family.
Susan J GraceOctober 17, 2020
Wow! You are Joy....music to my soul in the midst of adversity! Love, love, love this. Thank you. Bishopric in my ward take note.
cHUCK mCcLUREOctober 17, 2020
It always amazes me first, that these great leaders of the church deal with the same issues I experience from time to time and second, that they are so resolute to quickly return to the path that draws them near to the Savior. I take comfort in knowing that I can do the same!
Been There!October 17, 2020
Someone who has been as damaged as this boyfriend is so busy protecting themself from further harm that they often don't have the ability to form a healthy relationship. If you accept him as he is today then he will see no reason to change. He needs help in seeing that he is passing on the damage done to him, thus making him an abuser. He needs this help before your relationship continues on, or it will be a case of "what you see is what you get." I assure you, marrying him now would be the same as signing an agreement to spend the rest of your life as an abuse victim.
Susan Harmon-PayneOctober 16, 2020
Great account! Wonderful testimony of our Lord! Thank you for sharing.
Robyn BoyleOctober 16, 2020
We served in Canada with Elder Williams and LOVED getting to know him!! When we first saw the picture of him as a future missionary assigned to our mission we noticed his physical scars but it wasn’t long before those scars were no longer a focal point because what we saw was a confident young man with a great sense of humor and a strong love for the Gospel and his Savior Jesus Christ. We love you Elder Williams!!
Judith La MontagneOctober 16, 2020
What fun! Kudos to the bishopric's should-be professionals who had such a lot of service in their hearts and a beauiful message and melody in their hearts!
Sherri HollomanOctober 16, 2020
Marilyn- Thank you for this soul- stirring story. It helps one put into Perspective the daily trials we face. Blessings, prayers, and good wishes to Amber and her son For their faith, their courage, and their examples to those who know them or who are blessed To read about them.
Joy LundbergOctober 15, 2020
What a truly inspiring article. Thank you, Lynne. And thanks for your beautiful song. You are such a blessing to Meridian readers. Keep those articles coming!
Sandy DildineOctober 15, 2020
This is thought provoking and makes sense for work product It looks like the opposite of cancel culture, but it all hinges on if all ideas are treated this way. Can people bring their religious identity with them? Will what they say or do online be used against them, especially if it is the opposite of the majority in that field?
DoraOctober 15, 2020
Awesome article. I fear we are ripening for destruction as there is pride everywhere. I am so sad! We can do better than that!❤❤
Pat ThomasOctober 15, 2020
Looking forward to this series. I have a child who no longer “believes.” My heart aches. I’m hoping I’ll have better understanding. Thank you
Becky BurtonOctober 15, 2020
Thank you for this article!
Lisa ReisingOctober 15, 2020
Beautifully conceived series - I look forward to it! It thrilled me to the core to read the comment about Joseph Smith and the quality and sincerity of his questions I have often thought how wonderful it seems that he retained throughout his short life such a childlike approach to a relationship with God - it was all about trust. And honest, sincere questions. This is the debt of gratitude we owe him. The described conversation with your daughter is likewise beautiful. Someone in our overly sophisticated society we need to discover how to trust each other with heartfelt questions again.
ReedOctober 15, 2020
The uncreative mind can spot wrong answers, but it takes a very creative mind to spot wrong questions.
Anthony Jay
Alexander ForsythOctober 15, 2020
You—REALLY—only know someone after you live with them!
Or, you don't know someone until you live with them!
Pamela SandersOctober 14, 2020
I know only as much of God and the world as a creature with two eyes must. What I do understand I love, what I don't understand I trust.
Dora Bingham BinghamOctober 14, 2020
What a beautiful testimony and lesson for all of us. God bless you and keep on healing you.
ShaunaOctober 14, 2020
thanks for sharing your testimony Daryl. I appreciate anyone who is open about their faith and I intentionally seek out things/people/articles, etc., that bolster mine. I'm in my late 50's and not on social media, but I must say that it has struck me as odd that people would "announce" they're leaving the Church on social media. What purpose does that serve? what kind of attention are they seeking? I know that for many, they announce everything on social media, but declaring their distance from the Church has struck me as particularly misguided and hardhearted.
Lorraine AndersonOctober 14, 2020
Elder L Tom Perry did the same thing when he visited our Stake 2 years before he stepped through the veil. After a beautiful talk, and giving the congregation an apostolic blessing, he asked the parents to bring their children to the aisle so he could shake their hands on his way out of the building. This act greatly impacted me.
Linda WardleOctober 14, 2020
You are beautiful by divine design. Thank you for sharing your very personal journey and recovery! You have great courage and are an inspiration to those that will take the time to listen to your words of hope!
Richard SkousenOctober 14, 2020
Great article! These are some good warning flags to watch out for in ourselves and our loved ones.
Diane HugginsOctober 14, 2020
I’m looking forward to these articles ! Today’s talk was a great read!!!
kim mossOctober 14, 2020
What is the coating on the calendar? Many times a pen or pencil will not write on certain coatings. Thanks
CarolOctober 14, 2020
Thank for telling your story! You have encouraged me to redouble my efforts to 'see' every person I encounter and treat them as the child of God they are and give them positive, uplifting interaction even if it's just a passing smile and looking them in the eyes.
Lucius VersusOctober 14, 2020
Sounds SO much like our little Pepper (a Morkie)! She's brought so much happiness into our lives. Its been a challenge tho having a 'baby' in our mid 70's; like being parents all over again. Patience, frustration, pride, joy, happiness and the strumming of our heartstrings in those moments of her looking up into our eyes and giving us a kiss with her little nose and petite little tongue (however wet!). Always wanting our undivided attention; bringing us sticks, rocks and the occasional dirt clod into the house to play with and clean up after her play time is finished. All creatures great and small; what a joy - what a joy.
Gail W. OckeyOctober 14, 2020
Thank you so very much for sharing your story with us. It was both heart wrenching and inspiring. Bless you for your courage in dealing with your losses and gains throughout your recovery. I am dealing with repercussions of a stroke at 85 years and your example has given me hope and energy to keep moving forward in my rehabilitation. You are inspiring to me and I will try to follow your example. You are remarkable in every way. I pray that you will continue to have the needed blessings from the Lord.
Kennen Steinagel Van WagenenOctober 14, 2020
What a beautiful example for all of us. Thank you for sharing your story of difficult trials, and then courage, resilience and faith.
DianeOctober 13, 2020
Maurine - So happy with your continued recovery and thank you for your messages of faith amidst anguish and the peace that you feel. Your writings are always an inspiration.
Maryann TaylorOctober 13, 2020
Emailing adult siblings to "warn them" that the family relationships are "toxic" is pretty extreme. The fact that those siblings have let the mom know they do NOT feel that way suggests that the extremely critical daughter is attempting to poison the rest of the family with her own disastisfaction. This daughter desperately needs counseling. At this point, I don't know if anything her Mom says would make a difference.
Maryann TaylorOctober 13, 2020
Thank you so much for reminding this woman that she doesn't need to do anything to protect her daughter's marriage or her children, and that they are capable of working out their own problems. My husband and I do not wear masks at home, and I know that the VAST majority of people who get COVID do recover, often with only mild symptoms. However, this woman's situation is different. She is not only helping her daughter and grandchildren, but she is also caring for her elderly mother. If she were to pass on the virus to her older mother, it could be a case of life or death. Perhaps if she gently reminded her daughter of the need to protect the elderly, she would soften a bit.
Herm OlsenOctober 13, 2020
LOVE Wally Goddard and his valuable insights. He is a treasure. I hope you pay him well!
Steve DoneganOctober 13, 2020
Thanks to the US Army I’ve been to Martin Luther’s church and have thought a lot about the Reformation. Your statement showing the difference between that Reformation (man) and the Restoration (God) shows your depth of thought is much deeper than my own. I will cherish the time I get to spend at your feet/side learning.
Richard EyreOctober 13, 2020
Looking forward to reactions, responses, and resulting questions as this series begins next week. Don't hesitate to comment on whatever comes to mind because there are no bad questions, and unasked ones don't do anyone any good.
MaryOctober 12, 2020
She should have just packed their food in to go boxes and called it good.
MaryOctober 12, 2020
I loved this article but some of the issues presented seemed small. Issues such as squeezing in one extra person to the table? What did the apostles expect you to do? Buy a new table? I know I don't know the person who wrote the article so I don't know what issues she deals with but she could have been a little kinder to herself. I understand wanting everything to be perfect but apostles are also people too and if they had issues with what they were eating on then she should have just broke out the paper plates and called it good.
I guess I am just tired of women worring about issues that shouldn't be an issue and how basic kindness somehow deserves to be put on a pedestal.
Gale PhillipsOctober 12, 2020
Columbus called himself an "instrument" in the hands of God. He was spiritual enough to realize the Lord was using him for a divine purpose. Many who denigrate the legacy of Columbus fail to realize that the Lord uses imperfect men and women to accomplish his purposes because imperfect humans are the only type of humans he has to work with.
KathrynOctober 12, 2020
I absolutely love this video, not just for the great harmonies and clever lyrics, but especially for the look on the bishop's face when he sings to his ward members, "No other friends we'd rather be with than with you for the longest time." The message of genuine care and inclusion are, for me, the highlight of this video. Thanks, Highland 19th Ward bishopric!
Gale PhillipsOctober 12, 2020
It is great to see this insight from a young adult. So many of our young people (and older as well) have been taken in by causes and groups that they really don't understand.
Richard WinmillOctober 12, 2020
HAPPY INDIGENOUS PEOPLES DAY! It is certainly possible for someone who has been selected for a mission from God to be found with feet of clay. Saul, David and Solomon come to mind. I do not doubt that Columbus was such a man. It is not necessary to only venerate or only vilify Columbus. It is better to understand and deal with the foibles of people rather than ignore them as inconvenient to our cultural views. Foibles of people often develop in the extremities and often revolve around money.
It was in fact, the "Columbian Exchange" not Columbus himself that scattered and killed the indigenous people of the Americas. The estimates of the pre-contact AmerIndian population are as high as 60 million in 1492. . In any case, the native population declined to less than six million by 1650. The cause? "Guns, Germs and Steel " in the words of Jared Diamond.
https://www.history.com/.../exploration/christopher-columbus
https://www.history.com/news/columbus-day-controversy
It is a known fact that "Columbus’s governance of Hispaniola could be brutal and tyrannical. Native islanders who didn’t collect enough gold could have their hands cut off, and rebel Spanish colonists were executed at the gallows. Colonists complained to the monarchy about mismanagement, and a royal commissioner dispatched to Hispaniola arrested Columbus in August 1500 and brought him back to Spain in chains. Although Columbus was stripped of his governorship, King Ferdinand not only granted the explorer his freedom but subsidized a fourth voyage." It is also worth note that Columbus' four voyages took him to the Caribean island, South America, and only as far North as the Yucatan in Mexico, but never close to the contiguous United States. The promised land must therefore be the America's and not just America.
LewisOctober 12, 2020
What a beautiful, inspired story. I look forward to every one of your articles!
Darlene NelsonOctober 12, 2020
Thank you so much for this outstanding article. I am going to send it to my children and grandchildren. I have been accused of being the rose coloured glassed person and have learned to be more humble and compassionate through prayerfully seeking God’s guidance on who needs my help. Those experiences have helped me to love without judgement. All your points resonated with me and will help me as I serve others.
ShareeOctober 12, 2020
This was awesome, hilarious! Loved it!!!
Pauline HarryOctober 12, 2020
Well done!!
H NorthOctober 12, 2020
What about the spouse that betrays their partner and refuses to uphold their spousal commitments by refusing to have sex? How does one protect oneself against that?
LindaOctober 12, 2020
Exactly what I have been thinking and feeling. Thanks for articulating it so well.
Adrian MartinOctober 12, 2020
What a wonderful occasion! What a tremendous example from an Apostle of the Lord! Thank you for sharing this wonderful true story!
Margie KawamotoOctober 12, 2020
Such a day brightener! Thank you all for sharing your talents with us and creating such a fun and uplifting "welcome back!"
With love and gratitude,
DanielaOctober 12, 2020
Great article! Being born and raised in Italy I prefer to call him by his Italian name, Cristoforo Colombo, rather than Cristobal Colon, which apparently was its Spanish version.
Who would ever thought that today this would be such a controversial topic!
Jacob HessOctober 11, 2020
Thank you for the responses I have received since publishing. This one struck me:
Laura’s story is my story, too.
I tapered myself, probably too quickly, but God kept his promise to help me as I promised to take the first leap of faith against everything friends/family/medical community said to me. All were ignorant, but not as ignorant as I was to accept going on medication the first time.
It’s time for the Saints to get off of their psychiatric medications.
It’s time to feel sad again; it’s time to feel happy again; it’s time to just feel again.
GinaOctober 11, 2020
Thank you for adding these awesome Alexa skills! I would love to be able to ask Alexa to play talks for LDS youth (BYU ed week youth speakers, John Bytheway etc). Or another one: the Hope Works series.
Jackie RichardsOctober 11, 2020
That was beautiful guys. Thank you from the UK!!
Michael HogganOctober 11, 2020
I have pschizoaffective disorder. That condition is a reality and is a combination of paranoiz schizophrenia and clinical depression. This is a biological condition that does involve physical problems with the brain. Neurochemistry is part of it, but brain damage or miswiring in the brain are likely also factors. I don't know if this particular girl is genuinely mentally ill, but it is very dangerous to think that bipolar disorder is an illusion.
jim spensOctober 10, 2020
I worked in public education and in a 1986 a group came from Boston to tell us that in the Salt Lake area we were in pre-gang state. Measures could have been taken at that time to prevent gangs from coming , but they would have been severe. Now over 30 years later gangs are rampant in the Salt Lake area and are prime examples of the expansion of secret combinations that are literally around us. The gadiantian robbers are not in the mountains, they are here in our valleys.
jim spensOctober 10, 2020
Have you ever thought of the reasons why the Lord directed or commanded Adam to till, subdue, keep and dress the garden that he was placed in? Has that directive ever been rescinded? There is definite purpose in all of the commandments!
PaeaOctober 10, 2020
Thank you so much for this article...I think this is the answer to my problems now.
Linda HydeOctober 10, 2020
Thank you. What confuses me is that people on either side of American politics claim secret combinations in the opposite party.
PaulineOctober 10, 2020
This is an interesting story. It would also be relevant to learn about the impact of heavy metals and gut health on the brain.
GrandpaOctober 10, 2020
Good answer. I would only add that the daughter needs to understand that her mother is doing her a favor and can stop coming any time she wishes. A little more appreciation is in order. The daughter has absolutely no authority to "tell" her mother what to do.
MayOctober 10, 2020
Very compelling story. This piece touched my heart and helped me feel hope for the many I love who are facing similar challenges. I am grateful that Laura was brave enough to share her experience with 12 step processes as a part of her courageous journey. I too know the value of learning to connect to a Power Greater then myself in order to rediscover the innate Power and Wisdom within. How grateful I have been to participate, for more than 25 years now, alongside so many others who have found a similar path as Laura and have learned to - live life on life's terms. I have watched time and time again as myself, and so many others, have made a connection to a Higher Power of our Own Understanding and in so doing unlocked the secret of living -one day at a time- in acceptance of the complexities of life and with a renewed hope in the deep and abiding resilience of the human spirit. Thank you for stepping into the role of storyteller Jacob Hess. In my humble opinion... it suits you.
Crazy ClydeOctober 9, 2020
We need to think creatively.
Example: Buy a large transparent umbrella and a clear plastic paint cloth, both available for under 20 and 10 bucks respectively. Cut the paint cloth to the diameter of the umbrella and about 5 wide. Attach it with file binder clips or cloths pins to the ribs of the umbrella. You will have built a bubble that you can breath in for several hours.
It protects your eyes better than a face shield. Since infectious droplets don't have wings, they can't fly 5 feet up from the floor to your head. Neither can the droplets you produce. As good as social distancing many yards. You can touch high contact surfaces such as door knobs using the bubble like a glove.
You express your freedom, having it both ways, safe and independent. I recommend most people over 60 and those with any serious health problems stay in their bubble while around other people. Schools could be safely opened if students and teachers stayed in bubbles. I won't go so far as to suggest your risk is zero in any situation, but it is extremely low.
Women in Hong Kong where it rains torrents, and car access is inconvenient and long, modest, expensive dresses are commonly worn, use "full-length umbrellas" often which are basically what I am describing. Google it.
Joleen BrimhallOctober 9, 2020
Right on! As ward music chair, I am choosing one beautiful hymn that goes with the topic but they don't know well each week that can just be listened to. They are encouraged to read along and learn! Wish I could play prelude.
Fiona mcglashanOctober 9, 2020
This was excellent and I hope to keep this for reference over the next stages of life raising my own children.
Thank you for writing this!
LexaGraemeOctober 9, 2020
Thank you.
Valiant JonesOctober 9, 2020
Scot, thank you for sharing your tithing story. What a testimony of the power of God and the power of your family keeping their covenants including the paying of tithing.
Margery HuntOctober 9, 2020
Right on, especially with the middle name.
Omar AlghaliOctober 9, 2020
A wonderful article indeed. By the number of comments I wonder how many have read it. A great number of Latter-day Saints are not awake. They are slumbering. Moroni, plead with us to awake to our awful situation. Perhaps when freedom is lost then we will awake as a people.
The Lord's servants have warned us long enough. Have we given heed to their teachings concerning this matter. Nevertheless I'm very hopeful for the future. The Lord will help us win this great spiritual war.
VelineOctober 9, 2020
Thank you!!! I have been one of those organists/pianists for much of my life. I LOVE the hymns, and have been mostly grateful for all the callings and opportunities I have had to accompany. I have often felt that the music--especially prelude and postlude-- isn't even noticed by most of the congregation; so your article is very validating!!
LexaGraemeOctober 9, 2020
Growing up, my siblings and I had to spend at least one Saturday a month weeding our yards in front and back. One year, when we had a garden, that was added. I hated it at the time, but as I have grown up, the urge to get out and pull up stuff I do not want has stayed with me. I look forward to hearing the next installment of this story.
CiceroOctober 9, 2020
Because evil conspirators call evil good, and good evil, many good people naively support evil, believing what the conspirators say. This is cause for both great sadness and great alarm. Please dig more deeply and understand what is happening.
DebrahOctober 9, 2020
This was an excellent and insightful read. I especially like the advice at the end to compare using your own core values. Thanks for your work!
Michelle CoxOctober 8, 2020
who was was the national commentator comparing core values to political platforms? where can that be found
Heather GroseOctober 8, 2020
This gave me the chills. What a reality check! But basically, as she mentioned, the prophets have been giving us reality checks and warnings all along. We need to heed and pay close attention to what they are saying.
Thank you very much for all of the citations and information you gave to align with the signs. Wonderful article.
CarolynOctober 8, 2020
We are not allowed to sing yet either. We don't realize how much we miss singing the words of the hymns until we are not allowed to do it in Sacrament meeting. I like to take my small hymn book with me and read the words as the pianist plays.
Martha ClantonOctober 8, 2020
Thank you for your wonderful article. It concisely identified the evidence that reinforced the whisperings of the spirit that I had not been able to convey to my children without causing them to dread the future. I believe I will be better able to convey what I am feeling to them.
CatherineOctober 8, 2020
Spot on!! Thank you!
Brenda HighOctober 8, 2020
Wow! Excellent article.
Diane MortensenOctober 8, 2020
This is an excellent analysis. Love the way the Book of Mormon illustrates our current circumstances.
RitaOctober 8, 2020
Thanks, Joni. Our musicians do put a lot of time into their work, and your article should encourage more appreciation for them.
Cyndi HaddockOctober 8, 2020
Beautifully written. I feel we are watching those secret combinations unfold in our government and judicial system. As you stated, the best way to know how to choose is to follow the values we hold dear, and ask ourselves, does the candidate follow those values? Do they uphold life, liberty, free speech and right to worship as we please? Do they uphold the Constitution or prefer judges who interpret and make or change laws, which is against the Constitution? It's critically important for us to discern - to have eyes to see, ears that hear, and a heart open to the whisperings of the Holy Ghost.
Ingrid LOctober 8, 2020
We are witnessing this exact thing--call evil good and good evil--on the national scene. It's critical that we study and seek discernment in the face of many lies and tactics to mind-control the public.
PennieOctober 8, 2020
My sentiments exactly! I hope we are all pleading for the nation in our prayers along with every good person of faith. We are indeed standing at the edge of the cliff. And following issues and all candidate, national and local closely. Thank you for the articulate article.
Elizabeth SOctober 8, 2020
Excellent article. Thank you.
Sara GrovesOctober 8, 2020
This is so straight forward and I hope eye opening! You spoke the words I have been feeling, but didn't know how to express myself! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!
Gloria SchickOctober 8, 2020
Thank you for this wonderful rotten article!
Gary EdmondsOctober 8, 2020
Excellent evaluation. However, with wickedness so firmly entrenched in so many places, I have very little hope that it can be routed out in time to save us. I believe the only thing that will save us now is the coming of the Lord. We shall see how long the Lord allows this wickedness to prevail before he puts a stop to it.
SUE OSBORNEOctober 7, 2020
Are you sending them to other parts of the world? I am in the UK and would love one!
Diane L IrwinOctober 7, 2020
Such inspiring stories! Thank you, Anne. Your articles continue to amaze me.
ElizabetheOctober 7, 2020
My husband was hit by a drunk driver. He remembers going down and seeing the undercarriage of the car. Then his next memory is sitting on the curb with his broken leg. No one was there, but someone had pulled him from under the car before he was crushed. His leg was broken, so he didn't do it himself. Later after coming home from the hospital, he found bruised fingerprints on his arm just as if someone had grabbed him hard and dragged him. But no one was there. I know divine intervention saved him from dying.
Lemuel FigueroaOctober 7, 2020
Steven Wright was my branch president in the MTC at the end of 1980. I remember the first time we all met as an MTC branch. He asked me to speak to the missionaries about my conversion. I met with him regularly because I was the branch secretary. He also assigned me to be flight leader when the time came for my group to leave for Peru. I had very good conversations and counseling with Pres. Wright. I remember his kindness and love. I spent the holidays in the MTC (Thanksgiving and Christmas). We met his beautiful family. I remember that his kids made Christmas cards for all the missionaries. I miss those days, and this good president.
RustyOctober 6, 2020
Great Carolyn, thanks. I kind of understood longer than 72 hours way back in the 80's, so my kit would last at least 4 days except for the water! However, there is plenty more water in the cupboards ready to go. Our city council also advocates a 24 hour or thereabouts grab and go kit which I also have. I occasionally ask supermarket cashiers if they have a survival kit and so far not one has said yes. Seeing we are the "shaky isles" one would think preparation would make sense
LindseyOctober 6, 2020
Two months ago I gave birth to my sweet baby girl Élodie. Four days later I held her to my chest and cried as she slipped off to the Spirit World.
It is truly the worst thing we have ever experienced as a family. I long for the temple to be open again so I can go there. The only way we are all surviving is through the grave of our Savior Jesus Christ. He is truly the way.
John TonksOctober 6, 2020
I too was touched by your story. We lost our 24 year old daughter to epilepsy. We were heartbroken beyond belief. But we know that she still lives and that we are sealed together by our temple covenants. We still miss her every day even though she has been dead seven years. So I say to you, we know that little children when they die are saved in God's celestial kingdom. Now it is up to you to live so that you can be with them once again. Please live your life lovingly and beautiful. You will be together as one eternal family in the life to come.
Rochelle HaleOctober 6, 2020
Thank you for sharing. I hope time has comforted your grief. I have been through hardships but I never felt they would rock my testimony or I would blame God. When I listened to President Nelson at Conference relate the experience of his granddaughter-in-law who was conflicted over the terminal illness of her father and her testimony, it was difficult for me to ponder that this would be an either-or situation. It taught me that even good and faithful people may experience challenges that can shake us to our core and leave us with so many questions. I know, in time, these questions and all our grief will be swallowed up in the wonderful Atonement of Jesus Christ.
Gale PhillipsOctober 6, 2020
The first 2 political parties to emerge were the Federalists and the Democratic-Republicans. The election of 1800 was a harshly contested one, with name-calling on both sides. Jefferson's Inaugural Address sought to heal those wounds and bring people together: "But every difference of opinion is not a difference of principle," he said. "We have called by different names brethren of the same principle. We are all Republicans, we are all Federalists." The same message applies today; let us learn to see ourselves as Americans and the principles of the Declaration and the Constitution as the glue that holds us together.
Mom of 10October 6, 2020
Ten years ago today I lost my 28-year-old son. No matter the age the heart is broken. I treasure the time with him....he's with me every day....October conference weekend I look forward to hope that is promised and blessings to be given. There are days with tears but there are also days with happy laughter of memories. God is good.
Sherylynne O'DwyerOctober 6, 2020
Thank you so much Terrah for sharing not only your pain, loss & grief, but also your strength, hope & testimony.
Davi CostaOctober 6, 2020
Thank you very much, for sharing this sacred experience. I pray that your family keep in peace.
PaniaOctober 6, 2020
Thank you for sharing your tender story and your (and your husband’s) examples of incredible faith.
carolynOctober 5, 2020
Rusty, We still encourage larger kits but not 72 hour, 120 hours instead. All major government agencies and first responders now agree 72 hours is not enough. A night flight kit is meant to help in case you need to exit your home quickly in the middle of the night. A 120 hour kit is great but probably would not include charging cables, prescription medications and so many of the other items in a night flight kit. If you need a list for a good 120 hour kit please visit totallyready,com and you can print off articles there.
Toni LyonsOctober 5, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing your most agonizing, exhilarating and spiritually uplifting moments. We all are indeed going through difficult times and knowing that we are being watched over by loving heavenly parents is a much needed consolation. Heavenly Father has given us this time to reflect on our blessings and helped us delve deeper into our search for what we must do to prevail. THANK YOU.
Virginia PartchOctober 5, 2020
I so looked forward to all the talks! The Women's broadcast as well as all of the talks are so important for us to hear now and I felt blessed to hear them. Thank God for T.V. and the rest of technology.
John R McMinnOctober 4, 2020
That was a tough pair you were riding with! Can you believe it's been a year already! Love all 4 of you!
GrandpaOctober 4, 2020
Excellent answer. The daughter is old enough that if she wanted a mature, adult relationship then she should be putting forth some effort in that direction.
Jeanette MOctober 3, 2020
My Parent's house was red. My dad painted one side each year so it always looked great. Was not a great big house though.
Lana JohnsonOctober 2, 2020
Sending hugs and prayers to both of you!! I love your podcasts and felt so bad when I heard about Maurine's accident.
May God be with you and heal you completely. Thank you for your spiritual faith that blesses all who hear the good news from you❤
Denise ChristensenOctober 2, 2020
Maurine...you are such an inspiration to us all. This article was beautiful and such a true testimony of the power our Heavenly Father can have in our lives if we just maintain a positive perspective and trust in him. I am so thankful that you are on the road to recovery and you will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
RustyOctober 2, 2020
Whatever happened to the 72 hour survival kit? I know we are still being taught to have one organised and ready to go. Are church members falling behind in this preparation? I still have my kit, which needs inspection now for possible updating, but it would function well if needed today.
Gale BoydOctober 2, 2020
Thank you for sharing this. It will inspire many people. What a painful ordeal. You have been in my prayers.
Pattie SkousenOctober 2, 2020
How grateful we are to a most loving Heavenly Father and his Son, Jesus Christ, who loves us and knows us by name. They know our problems and they know our happy times. They are cheering us on just like our family on the other side of the veil. I feel their love and devotion as days and weeks pass through this time of stress and upheavals in our society. We are loved and cared for by the Almighty Creator. Thank you for your beautiful story. It helps strengthen all of us in this time of need.
Delia HawkinsOctober 2, 2020
I am so amazed to see this, and thrilled! My father-in-law was USMC and captured by the Japanese in the Phillipines during WWII. He was sent to the Davao Penal Colony, where he eventually escaped with several others and 2 filipinos. It was the only successful escape in that theater of war. He would be so excited to see this. He passed away in 2013 at the age of 96. Hurray for Davao!!
Harold RustOctober 2, 2020
These articles on Meridian are the spiritual energy drink I consume daily. As a great supplement to the scriptures, stories and articles like this one provide tangible and real examples of the most valuable aspects of mortal existence. Thanks for being so down-to-earth while sharing heavenly experiences.
L CurtisOctober 2, 2020
I am confused about the timing of Christ's appearance to the Nephites. Here you are saying it is clearly 50 days after the death of Jesus. However , the Book of Mormon seems to say while Christ died ".in the thirty and fourth year, in the first month, on the fourth day of the month," (3 Nephi 8:5) His appearance seems to occur in the ending of the same year: " it came to pass that in the ending of the thirty and fourth year, behold, I will show unto you that the people of Nephi who were spared... did have great favors shown unto them, and great blessings poured out upon their heads, insomuch that soon after the ascension of Christ into heaven he did truly manifest himself unto them—Showing his body unto them, and ministering unto them;" 3 Nephi 10:18-19. This seems to place Christ's coming almost a year later, in the ending of the year. How do you interpret Mormon's comment since he seems to give a clear indication of the timing of both events?
Linda Starr WinansOctober 2, 2020
Ohhhh, soooo sorry to hear, Maureen! But so grateful for good medical care, a terrific personal caregiver, and especially for your tenderly written thoughts. You are always so very insightful! It gives me great thoughts to ponder. Hoping you have a VERY speedy recovery! We are sending hugs and prayers! Enjoy conference weekend! P&L
Linda Starr WinansOctober 2, 2020
Spot on! Great read!!! Thanks for the detailed analysis. I did not realize the increase that exists. It confirms my enthusiasm and excitement to hear what our leaders have to inspire us with this coming weekend.
KathleenOctober 2, 2020
You always give me food for thought, encouragement to stay on the covenant path and in a positive way I see my need to stretch and do better/more.
Susanne DavidsonOctober 1, 2020
Onlistening toaweekly podcast by the Procter’s as we always do, I was so sad to hear of Maurines accident and felt a great sense of loss that she was not able to be in that podcast. Our prayers and thoughts were with her. Sohappy to hear her voice the next week. So thankful for these wonderful podcasts each week. We learn and feel so much.
Renate McKendryOctober 1, 2020
Thank you so much, Maureen, for sharing your testimony with us! I do love listening to your and Scott’s podcast each week. I learn something new every time! Thank you both for taking the time to do that! I hope that you have a speedy recovery, and that your arm will be as new!!
Stephen W. GibsonOctober 1, 2020
Great telling of a real calm and assurance. I had one a bit similar when I was diagnosed with melanoma cancer a couple of years ago. It is almost heard to explain. The calming seems so unnatural, yet it can not be denied by the person feeling the Holy Spirit saying it is going to be okay.
Thanks so much for telling your story.
Maryann TaylorOctober 1, 2020
For those of you who are not yet married---pay attention to the behavior of your date!!! If there are signs of trouble, it won't get better after you are married.
Maryann TaylorOctober 1, 2020
Great suggestions! We had a very serious wind storm in my city a few years ago and were without power for several days. There were downed trees everywhere. The day it hit, my manager told all the employees to go home. I almost didn't make it. Power lines were shooting off sparks and fallen trees made roads impassable. Once home, we were prepared with alternative heat, food, candles and lanterns, and a way to cook. We were so grateful that we had prepared for this emergency. We thank thee, Oh God, for a Prophet!
Luana WellsOctober 1, 2020
My spouse HATES painting! He said the first four letters in the word are appropriate....rather like the last 4 letters in 'touch'. I'm sure he'll never paint the house we're in...I'm not fond of the trim color.....the house is tan/ beige/sand.
CHARLES DEFRANCHIOctober 1, 2020
Dear Maurine,
Very sad to read the news about your accident. But you did turn "irritation into a pearl" that will translate into thousands of lives - including mine - being blessed through your testimony and good example. We will all pray for your recovery and resuming your wonderfully productive life.
Sandy ReddishOctober 1, 2020
This is such a beautiful article. Thank you for sharing. Our family has been through some huge medical challenges lately too. I have been listening to the new church youth music when we drive to our medical appointments and I go to work. It is helping me keep the perspective you talked about. There are few quiet moments in our chaotic family life ! I am so thankful for the resources of the church to lift us up. I hope your recovery goes well.
KelliOctober 1, 2020
Thank you for this. Sometimes we need someone else to articulate what we too are experiencing.
I sought a priesthood blessing following some particularly bad news. While the healing I so desired was not promised, I have felt a peace much greater than I have felt in years. And that has been so important at this time.
I had struggled following April conference to hear as we had been counseled. I could not hear because I was so conflicted. And while I still feel no direction from God, I feel able to move forward again. I too have heard Him but I needed your story to recognize that fact.
AnonymousSeptember 30, 2020
My parents had "the talk" with me when I was 8, then did their best to avoid mentioning the topic ever again. Consequently, when I had questions about sex, I went to my friends and the Internet for my information. I'm ashamed to admit that I was drawn into sexually explicit books and, gradually, pornography, in an attempt to satisfy my curiosity and confusion about sex. My parents, when they found out, made sure to lay on the shame, but never addressed my concerns or gave me any positive talks about sex.
Years later, I'm still trying to figure out healthy sexuality--in a healthy relationship with my husband. I struggled trying to overcome feelings of guilt for feeling sexual urges, and I went into marriage not even knowing the proper terms for parts of anatomy--including my own anatomy!
My point is, your daughter has been gaining information about sex for a while, and likely feels uncomfortable or even afraid to ask you for more information because she's picked up that sex is shameful to you. If you'd rather her get the information from you (as I wished I could have gotten it from my parents), then please be open with her and don't shame her. Remind her that sex is beautiful and creates a special, powerful bond between people, which is why Heavenly Father has commanded us to save it for marriage. It's a natural and wonderful thing. Don't be afraid of her curiosity, but help her understand that the world wants us to utilize sex outside of marriage, and often mocks its sacredness.
JLDSeptember 30, 2020
You have strained my brain, but it is interesting to consider all the points you have made. How does an ignorant person recognize humility and compassion? It seems that you called out the areas which we as a society need to improve but give us only general advice on how to address it. Be humble and compassionate. If I am rooted in the things you have presented, I may have no clue as to what your are referring. I guess you know your audience, so some will understand, but I know for some of my friends that you just walked right over their heads.
CarolSeptember 30, 2020
I love your stories!! I always read them even if I don't read anything else, they always make me smile. And I agree about painting. The prep work is the worst especially if scrapping and caulking are involved.
KateSeptember 30, 2020
One serious problem with this concept is that plenty of people work VERY hard and are still hungry, and some people work hardly at all and grow fat from the work of those hungry people. Unfettered capitalism is as much of a problem as unfettered socialism. Capitalism focuses the individual on the self and undermines community, socialism encourages community but can diminish the individual. There has to be a way to ensure that people are not starving or homeless but still preserve the creativity and hard work of the individual. That is what we should be working to figure out.
ShaunaSeptember 30, 2020
Thank you--absolutely crucial. Gratitude for freedom and our Consitution are key. Recently I heard a teenager telling her younger siblings that there was absolutely nothing special about this country. I wanted to say, "well then why have so many other countries tried to adopt our Constitution?"
Barbara MattatallSeptember 30, 2020
My husband and I attended that dedication of the Nauvoo Temple and also sat in the seats alongside President Hinckley and the Apostles. His family was directly across the aisle from us. And yes, it was just as you said. The Spirit was so strong, the choir so beautiful and powerful, as if the Angels of Heaven were with us. And we also felt as you described it, an experience never to be forgotten.
Richard TarinelliSeptember 29, 2020
Thank you for very novel and useful insights into crisis and understanding and a novel repentant mindset than I, myself would ever have connected. Once again there is a wholeness greater than disparate conditions on this earth.
Robert StarlingSeptember 29, 2020
BRILLIANT! Nice summary that anyone can understand. Except the "more intelligent" intellectuals, as you say.
NDHSeptember 29, 2020
Yes, we need to use our resources wisely and conservatively, but there is a lot of false information in this article. The earth is not dying. And what everyone keeps calling "Global warming" is a natural swing that has been going on through the entire history of the world. The fires are severe because of the mismanagement of land and the misinformation of those who espouse to be environmentalist, but really do not understand what they are doing.
Elizabeth SmithSeptember 29, 2020
Gary links socialism and loss of agency is a clear and powerful way. Great article, great book.
cdSeptember 29, 2020
Beautiful and inspiring, thank you!
ESeptember 29, 2020
What a great article, thank you!
Zon EllefsenSeptember 28, 2020
This is the most beautifully written and heart felt explanation of this hard and not well understood principle! I have been trying to unlock resentment etc, and could closely identify with these “senerios”.
I could feel the spirit teaching me as I read these precious words! Thank you for this, I will keep this close and re read this many more times!❤️
JoJean LoflinSeptember 28, 2020
Another "Frankly pathetic," attempt to explain away the Book of Mormon, to quote Elder Holland.
Gale PhillipsSeptember 28, 2020
Although I am not a fan of some of the SC rulings that she supported, her friendship with the late Justice Antonin Scalia should demonstrate to us that disagreements in policy/politics should not make us enemies. In the current age of social media, we hear of family and friends cancelling/ unfriending each other over differing political/social views. Ginsberg and Scalia showed us a better way to disagree.
T BlackSeptember 28, 2020
Grateful for a little snarky humor. Thank you.
Rita in TexasSeptember 28, 2020
An exhaustive (and exhausting!) intro to Joseph Smith's brilliant ability to plagiarize the most arcane and obscure sources. His dizzying intellect has been totally overlooked by his naysayers. 'Tis a pity Toponce wasted so much effort on such thin gruel.
Thank you for the vigorous exercise this afternoon!
G.HatchSeptember 28, 2020
Also, I’d recommend Dr. Weiss “Intimacy Anorexia” book and workbook. There’s activities for each of you to do alone and with your spouse. Just wonderful.
PhilSeptember 28, 2020
Good article. I think that it is sometimes just as hard to be humble enough to seek forgiveness from someone that we've hurt in some way.
Mark BishopSeptember 27, 2020
Yes, David, things have never been perfect and many advances have been made over time. However, to me, it seems that there is a move away from decency, civility, brotherhood, and God that has made people unhappier. Until we, as a society, repent and come unto Christ we will never achieve the society for which so many people yearn.
Jacob R.September 27, 2020
This was a fun piece. The scary part is you see more and more people choosing a biden because he seems nicer, or choosing Anyone but trump rather than truly voting for policies they care about.
Economy, Taxes, Immigration, abortion, public education, redistribution of wealth, national security, privacy laws, etc... there are hundreds of areas you can be concerned about. How you order their importance should dictate who you vote for, not someone's smile on camera.
Bonnie ThomasSeptember 26, 2020
The only thing I disagree with in this article is the depiction of the 2 political parties. One party’s platform is exactly the same. Not one thing is different from the fifties or sixties. The other party has radicalized beyond description and is responsible for destroying our institutions, our moral code, and nearly everything I hold dear. All this in the name of social justice. These 2 words make me shudder. Our constitution guarantees equal justice to all its citizens. It does not guarantee a different justice because of the color of your skin or your identity group, perceived or otherwise.
I D BasoahSeptember 26, 2020
After reading your article, I pray that I’ll be susceptible to the whispering of the still small voice. Thanks for the experiences.
KaySeptember 25, 2020
Having been married to a man for 32 years and years of counseling, I could no longer ignore what type of person I had become. At the end of our marriage I asked our counselor if it was possible that my husband was on the autism spectrum. The counselor said that he had known for quite awhile that my ex showed classic signs. He didn't feel that my ex should know because it would give him an excuse for his behavior. By that time I knew that things were over and that I had done every possible thing to make the marriage work. But it was at a huge expense for me emotionally and mentally. Thirty two years of severe depression and anxiety which have still carried over since we divorced. No one addressed the real issue. Although early on it may not have been diagnosed it is my belief that it may have been suspected during the last 20 years of our marriage. I also believe that it was a huge disservice to both of us not to discuss it.
Lora KinderSeptember 25, 2020
I like your answer. I'd like to encourage the wife to think about why she married him in the first place. Maybe she liked the way he was able to handle difficult situations without falling apart. Maybe she thought he was a good (quiet) listener. There must have been something she didn't think she could live without. As for him, he may have been attracted to her easily expressed emotions, which no one in his family seemed to be able to do. If she can remember why she fell for him (even if those qualities are annoying now), she'll be more motivated. When I learned to accept my husband the way he is and not expect him to change, we both got a lot happier and connected.
C. SinclaireSeptember 25, 2020
An article both distressing and encouraging. It provides a lot to think about. I wish those who cause pain and damage in the world could know and embrace the concept that they are hurting the world -- the Earth -- itself emotionally as well as physically (odd as that would sound to them). -- If possible, please share the title of the book where "Spencer" is the protagonist.
Tired and WearySeptember 25, 2020
I am left wondering if the husband in this letter has the same issues as my wife.
Twenty-five years ago my wife was receiving therapy for her childhood. When her memory recalled the extent of the abuse she'd endured, her emotions and feelings shut down. Every physical, affectionate, and intimate thing a couple could do suddenly carried abusive memories, and she rejected ever doing such things again. She left therapy when she got to the point of forgiving her abusers, but she sees no need to get past the rest and begin having a married relationship again. Today our hugs consist of one arm around a shoulder and sort of bouncing off each other. Kissing is barely allowed. She will give me no compassion or emotional support – not even through heart surgery. And, she literally pushes me away when I try to give her comfort or support. The only emotion she will show is anger. We have initiated couples counseling in the past, but she feels she is doing nothing wrong and cancels it. She is also a mental health professional and believes that receiving counseling would ruin her reputation. She claims that I should not be weak enough so as to need help. And now she wants to get a dog so that someone/something will be giving her affection. The affection she has not allowed me to show her for twenty-five years.
Again, I am left wondering about the husband in this letter; wondering if he has a past as terrible as my wife's past. Is there a trusted counselor who could get him to open up?
HalSeptember 25, 2020
Great article, thanks! Our family has been astounded in our daily reading from Alma, Helaman, and Third Nephi. The situation in many parts of our country seems to parallel what was happening in this hemisphere in the years just prior to the Savior appearing to the people in Bountiful. A little scary, but mostly exciting!
Bob JonesSeptember 25, 2020
I was raised during the depression, spent 20+ years in the military, and dearly love this country with all it problems but with hope for its future.
During President Obama's run for the president he said "If elected I will fundamentally change this country" and so he did.
Now can we find someone who can fundamentally change it back?
Nicole MSeptember 25, 2020
This article perfectly sums up my own scattered thoughts on this topic. I have notes scribbled in my scriptures next to the verses about burning at the end of the world that draw a parallel to the secular version of that story - climate change. Someone once said to me, "The best lie is the one that's closest to the truth." And in this case, I think Satan is the best liar. He knows how to use truth to twist us in a different direction, one that will turn us away from God and towards him. The people suffering from "climate despair" are proof of that. Great article!
Gale PhillipsSeptember 25, 2020
This article gives hope to those whose children have been indoctrinated in our universities. Tragically, this post modernist relativism is common on most campuses. Parents must give their children a framework of understanding in correct principles and a forewarning of what they will encounter, so that they can recognize and resist these false teachings when they are sent off to college.
PattieSeptember 25, 2020
What an interesting question, I had the same one myself many years ago. My husband and I have been married over 45 years and I have felt like a robot too. (Amazing analogy). Just last year my husband brought home a framed picture with the words, “I have found the one whom my soul loves.” Never in our married life have I found any kind of emotional deep ness from him. He didn’t like to say I love you and he didn’t like to hold hands in public. My expectations must have been too high for him to reach and so my needs had to be adjusted. Now at this point in our lives, I feel like we have been connected all along, just in different ways.
PattieSeptember 25, 2020
Thank you for so eloquently telling us the truth. We, as a people, continually are being lied to about climate change and unfortunately some are believing the distorted way of thinking. It saddens me that some feel they are doomed to suicide. I am grateful for President Nelson and his continual smile and encouragement to hang on.
ColleenSeptember 25, 2020
My Bishop suggested we call it Global Warning
SheilaSeptember 25, 2020
So interesting-thoughtful and SPOT ON! Thank you for your insight!
Gina McDougallSeptember 25, 2020
Thank you very much for your article. I have never been sure whether or not global warming was a real thing or whether the world has always experienced these weather patterns as told of in the Scriptures.
I know that the Earth is a living thing and that she too is dying, but I hadn't realised until in recent years just how much man has been the cause of so much destruction. I am grateful therefore for the knowledge that I have received through this article. Thank you.
Geoff - AusSeptember 25, 2020
If you put this scripture in the context of the preceding verses, they are all about loving our fellow man/woman.
We are being encouraged by the saviour to live the commandments to love God by loving our fellow man..
SiouxSeptember 25, 2020
Ellis: my white son was shot in the face and killed at a traffic stop by an arrogant, incompetent cop. Please stop thinking that it only happens to black guys. The cop claimed it was an accident, so he had immunity from punishment.
Anna S.September 24, 2020
I just listened to "The Profile of a Prophet" in Hugh B. Brown's own voice and it touched me to my very soul!! I am so grateful for him and all the church leaders who have shared their testimony of The Book of Mormon, Joseph Smith and the restoration. It's true.
Anne H PrattSeptember 24, 2020
Lovely article! I love the after-joy of repentance! Burdens light and filled with the Spirit.
HalSeptember 24, 2020
Really enjoyed this series, thank you! I will be forever grateful to my parents who gave me tedious, difficult tasks to do on our little dirt farm in Montana. I cussed my dad many times, but my siblings and I have never been out of a job for long and we have all become successful adults with happy families.
HalSeptember 24, 2020
Thank you so much for this article. I am hoping one of our children will find your thoughts on repentance to be illuminating.
Gale PhillipsSeptember 24, 2020
Communications from the Spirit may come to us in many ways. It is part of our responsibility as we journey through life to learn to 'hear' in any way that the Spirit may chose to communicate with us.
Leigh Ann SmithSeptember 23, 2020
I thought to myself, how fortunate that those little girls are so close in age and can be together often and are sisters!! It appears that they have been together often all their lives and they would likely be lonely if they didn't see each other very much. I married my current husband and had a 3 & 1 year old son already and he & I raised them and our 4 sons that came after with no differences by ourselves. 41 years later, they are all married and we expect our 22 grandchild in Dec. If the husband works full time, & mom is home, then he will not be there after school as much and at other times, but he should not be off "with the guys" on his weekends unless it is activities the family will enjoy with him. Since the girls are only children and sisters, I think all possible efforts should be made to help them spend as much time as possible together. That would be my major goal, for their present and future happiness.
Roxanne dupliseaSeptember 23, 2020
Get well soon Maurine
Scot thank you for sharing how you hear the spirit.
Harold RustSeptember 23, 2020
Our family has completed TWO puzzles....well, I completed the first 80% of two different puzzles and then at two different family gatherings, my grandchildren helped complete the last 20%. I did find that for the last 100 pieces, family excitement and eagerness to spend time searching for a match gradually drew in young kids, teens, and even parents and visitors. I suggest to all that they keep that in mind and don't let difficulty of the first 80% restrain you from pursuing the puzzle.
With regard to this description of a youth with conviction, I appreciated the depth of the discussion around such a challenge for Joseph or any young teen. We hope each of our descendants can build up the same reservoir of conviction. It's not even too late for us to do the same!
Ron BarnesSeptember 23, 2020
September 12, 1974. I was serving my mission in Ireland. While teaching a discussion, our investigator had a friend who was sitting in. The friend stated that all churches change their doctrine over time and that ours would too. I told him that he was wrong, because ours was led by a true prophet of God. At that moment, I was given pure knowledge that what I had just told him was absolutely true. It came with such power that I, too, can never deny it.
ShareeSeptember 23, 2020
I used to usher at venues in Salt Lake city where some of the performances were dance concerts featuring young girls. I and several of my fellow ushers were appaled at the overtly sexual movements in these dances. It is not good. Thanks for this article. I know I won't be watching Cuties and I hope Netflix loses lots ore subscriptions over their showing of it. They should be ashamed.
Joshua EricksonSeptember 23, 2020
An excellent article! I am persuaded that Rosh Hashanah is a better setting for the timing of Lehi's departure than my previous assumption, which was Passover. One interesting clue perhaps, which I just noticed, is that they reach the Land Bountiful 8 years after leaving Jerusalem (1 Ne 17:4). This could be understood as exactly 8 years (or nearly exactly). If they left Jerusalem around Rosh Hashanah, this would put them arriving at Bountiful around then too. This is an intriguing possibility because the next verse mentions fruit and honey!
Shana Tovah!
David DurfeeSeptember 23, 2020
Interesting. Here's the America I knew when I was a kid. Black kids had different drinking fountains and couldn't eat in the same restaurants that I could. On the sitcom the Honeymooners, Jackie Gleason would clench his fist, raise it in a striking position and say to his wife, "I oughta knock you to the moon." And everyone would laugh. Pedophilia by clergy was common and accepted. The crime rate was much higher than it is now. The rate of illegitimate births was higher than it is now.
Richard SkousenSeptember 23, 2020
Great story! Thanks for sharing.
John R. CarpenterSeptember 23, 2020
YES! With all my heart, mind and soul.
Let us keep our American Mission Statements in front of us as an example for us as Citizens of the USA. Let us teach, show and live them to our family, to our neighbors and demand that our educators and politicians uphold those American Mission Statements.
Mission Statements of the United States of America
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
Declaration of Independence 1776
We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.
Constitution of the USA 1789
Gale PhillipsSeptember 23, 2020
"America is one of the greatest 'ideas' in history...the idea that you and I are created equal...the idea that life is not meant to be endured, but enjoyed...this country was the first to claw it way out of darkness and put that on paper..." from Bono's Georgetown speech. The fact that America/Americans have not always lived up to the ideals on which the nation was founded does not disparage the ideals, but attests to the frailties of mankind. Many who view America through the lens of negativity have not travelled to other countries and seen the abject poverty, oppression, brutality and hopelessness endured by our fellow human beings. America has never been and will never be perfect, but freedom has given us the power to work to do better. Gratitude will grant us the ability to appreciate what we take for granted.
Vardell TaylorSeptember 22, 2020
Thanks for the article Brother Frogley. We seldom hear lessons that tackle justification and sanctification. Would you be interested in having a conversation about those subjects? If so please email me. [email protected]
Gale PhillipsSeptember 22, 2020
Socialism has always been a ideology of force, violating the core of LDS faith. With the use of Orwellian language, it is made to sound appealing as a way to help those who are in need. In reality, it institutionalizes a rigid caste system in which the ruling elite prosper and the citizens suffer. In that sense, everyone is then equal; equally miserable. Churchill said of socialism, "there can be no doubt that Socialism is inseparably interwoven with Totalitarianism" and that it involves the "equal sharing of misery". Many well-intentioned people who support socialism, fail to see where it leads
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Ed RehderMay 18, 2026
Well done Sister Bell
KathleenMay 17, 2026
Thank you for this incredibly insightful series!
KathleenMay 16, 2026
Thank you - so clear and methodically expressed.
KevinMay 15, 2026
Wonderful insights and perspectives on parenting, especially as a stay at home mom. We need to celebrate and share these stories more. This is, in my opinion, more aligned with the Savior's gospel than any philosophy of men regarding women in the workplace vs staying at home to raise children. Then you for your insights and testimony! Oh, and just wait until your kids are teenagers. Talk about opportunities to learn to be more Christlike met with resistance! It's quite intellectually and spiritually stimulating. Not to mention if you have 6 kids ranging from teenager to toddler. Try juggling that while homeschooling them all like my wife does. Nothing is more fulfilling or difficult than something like that. Great article@
Valiant JonesMay 14, 2026
This is so wise. Laura is lucky to have such parents. This approach she saw in your home will be passed down for generations,
Laurie PollardMay 14, 2026
Oh, Maurine, this is beautiful. Please keep sharing the profound memories in your little pink book!
Laurie PollardMay 14, 2026
What a great story to share, Maurine! It inspires me to live in a way that I can be as sensitive to the Spirit as was our beloved Thomas S. Monson!
Tom WilliamsMay 14, 2026
Maurine: Just a quick commendation for this terrific interview series that you and Scott produce. From the time we were Honors Program students at the U to today, you've always been an inspiration. I hope readers appreciate the work it must take to maintain Meridian's high standards. God bless you both.
Rayline SalazarMay 13, 2026
I am enjoying this video serial so very much! I have learned and understood so much more listening to the various people who have taken time to learn and study about these people and their lives, experiences, and ideas that each blessed the church throughout the years.
StefanieMay 13, 2026
When & where can we see the full?
ShaunaMay 13, 2026
I married late and am an older parent. I pursued 10 years of higher education before finally meeting my husband, 2 masters degrees and work on a PhD. But motherhood has by far, been the most fulfilling, stretching, worthwhile but challenging thing I've ever done. Mom's wear multiple hats at all times, and I have loved sharing whatever "intellectual" knowledge I've gained with my kids, and learning from them. And now that my kids are young adults, I've entered so far at least, the most challenging era of parenting. I wouldn't have missed being a full-time mom for anything in this world. Kids grow so fast, and the days, phases, stages of growth, never come back. Don't miss it-- in my experience, there is nothing even as remotely fulfilling
James Glen WelkerMay 13, 2026
Thank you for reminding us that temporal preparedness goes a very long way in helping us maintaining our spiritual preparedness. If the cupboard is bare, how do we expect to maintain or provide help and support to others!!
Roger DavidsonMay 13, 2026
Thank you so very much for your article. I really appreciate that you would mention Elder Bednar's talk. I have listened to it several times. Again thank you very much
IreneMay 12, 2026
it truly is a Gem
Marci TannerMay 11, 2026
I always LOVE Becky’s articles. They are always so thought provoking and inspirational! They truly make me want to try harder to be a better person. Thank you Becky for your amazing articles. And thank you for publishing them!
Kerry CowleyMay 11, 2026
I've signed up for your October 2026 Turkey tour. When I checked with Morris Travel a few weeks ago, there were still only 16 people signed up and there needs to be a minimum of 25 people for the tour to happen. Do you have friends that are still planning on signing up that will for sure bring the minimum up to 25? If not, I'll start looking again at other tour operators. Your description of Day 3 differs from the Morris website. Are we now flying from Istanbul to Ankara to save almost 5 hours of driving time? Please proofread each day's description more carefully. For example, on Day 16 there are 3 typos: Begin the day at Topkapi Palace, once home to many sultans. Built in the mid-1400’s following the conquest of Istanbul, many sultans have since built more buildings and annexes to create the remarkable palance complex that we will see today. Then stand in awe at the Hagia Sophia—a Christian cathedral, then a mosque, and now a museum echoing centuries of worship. Cap off your journey with a unforgettable visit to the bustling Grand Bazaar one of the world’s oldest and largest covered markets spanning 61 streets with over 4,000 shops! Tonigh we have our farewell dinner rich in flavor and gratitude. Is there any way we can add Istanbul's Basilica Cistern to our itinerary on Day 15 or 16 since it's included in most other guided tours that I've researched? I have little interest in spending much time in the spice or Grand Bazaar and will tour the Cistern on my own if I have to. It is open from 9:00 am to 6:30 pm. The cost at the official ticket site (https://www.passo.com.tr/tr/etkinlik/yerebatan-sarnici-the-basilica-cistern-muze-bileti/11704322) is ₺2,145.00 ($47.28) with a higher nighttime admission fee from 7:30-10 pm. Thanks for your reply.
Herm OlsenMay 11, 2026
Superb! Thanks so much.
Richard GarrisonMay 11, 2026
Becky, what a wonderful, insightful, and thought-provoking article! Thank you so much for sharing these great thoughts and challenges. I so appreciate ALL that you do!
CynthiaMay 11, 2026
Becky, you continue to bless and inspire us! Thank you for this beautiful reminder of setting priorities and doing good continually. I'm so grateful for your wisdom and inspiration! I want to be a better person after reading your articles!!
Janna Stout HallbergMay 11, 2026
I loved this… and needed it! The song you printed the lyrics to, “The Theme from Mahogany” was the one I sang, with a little ensemble I put together, at my Senior Sendoff assembly in High school. It really resonated with me then and still does now! Thank you for the reminder and I want to take your suggestions to heart.. beginning today!
LewisMay 11, 2026
This story provoked in me a great deal of thought. Where am I going? Am I getting lost in the journey? How do I make the journey more meaningful? Am I doing what the Savior would be doing while I am on this journey? These are serious questions, and worthy of serious, thoughtful answers. I appreciate the care and thought reflected in your articles. You have a gift for taking what seems to be a relatively ordinary experience and using it to help us all become better. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
Carolyn MadsonMay 9, 2026
Pretty harsh comments Michael. Egotistical, selfish, prideful, haughty, short sighted lie? Really? The world we live in with social media and texting, girls can become overwhelmed with the negative which leads to poor self image and feeling "less than," I do not know a woman out there, including your wife, who would not enjoy, welcome, and appreciate a loving comment on just how great they are and how beautiful they look. Better go find her and tell her so....she is probably worn out from "raising a family with very good results." Congratulations. Who is the egotistical one here?
LaWrenMay 9, 2026
Beautifully expressed
Christian eMay 8, 2026
Thank you for this beautiful message! Such deep truths about love, motherhood, and Fhrist.
Heather SmurthwaiteMay 8, 2026
Brother Degn, I've been longing for another of your articles, and this one is especially insightful and tenderly inspiring. I'm going to share it to my family (I have 4 daughters and 4 daughter-in-laws) and my dear sisters and close friends for Mothers Day! I can't thank you enough!
Joseph gowenMay 8, 2026
What a ridiculous and close-minded article. Of course Mormon culture exists. One must be intentionally obtuse to deny the culture if they have spent any time active in the Church. Leaving Church activity in no way invalidates a person’s lived experience within the Mormon culture.
Robyn GeantilMay 8, 2026
Thank you so much for bringing this to our attention! I have sent it to several grandchildren.
Rhoda AndersonMay 8, 2026
This is truly one of the most beautiful things I've ever read. Thank you so much. I'll be passing this article on to many.
Nancy HardmanMay 8, 2026
Thank you for this new way of seeing. Wonderful wordcraft!
Michael ScrimsherMay 7, 2026
Good article. One comment. Having raised a family with very good results, I consider it very problematic to tell your child that they are "the prettiest little princess (or prince) in the world"... It sets them up for failure, causes arguments at school, and not to mention about all the other parents who told their children that same egotistical, selfish, prideful, haughty short sighted lie....
SusanMay 6, 2026
As a retired nurse/ nurse practitioner, I believe that all health care providers must have the right to refuse to perform any kind of treatment that conflicts with their own moral and ethical values, and/or the Hippocratic oath. We must do no harm.
Chris EpsonMay 6, 2026
And...in the church, what is being done to better support men? "BYU Men's Conference?" Or "Time Out for Men?" No. Nothing.
Paul RobertsMay 6, 2026
Both Egypt and Meso-America still have the flying serpents. They are a snake that flattens itself in to a wing enabling it to glide very well and to turn. The weaponized fiery (iridescent) flying snakes of NW Saudi peninsula where the 10 tribes were wandering would sweep down from the Acacia trees where the aphids produced the Manna (honey dew like substance that is still to be found there) on to the people bent over gathering it for food. The Jaredites had similar deadly flying serpents probably at the same time likely caused by the same event (The eruption of Thera volcano that caused the Plagues) They resorted to a barren earth tactic of leaving a treeless band from coast to coast across the continent at a line between the cities of Desolation and Bountiful; barren to the North, trees and game to the South. This barren strip lasted for centuries affecting the drought cycles. To find pictures of them search for [flying snakes][Chrysopelea is a genus of snakes, commonly known as flying snakes or gliding snakes, that belong to the family Colubridae. Chrysopelea species are found in Southeast Asia, and are known for their ability to glide between trees. Flying snakes are mildly venomous, though the venom is dangerous only to their small prey. Wikipedia] There is nothing mysterious about the snakes, they are bright and iridescent they just don't kill humans any more just mice and small lizards. They are depicted as late as the Mayan civilization on temple staircases.
RaLee HallMay 5, 2026
Your photographs are awesomely beautiful.
Richard FMay 5, 2026
Very excited to see the development and reinterpretation of the great parables of Christ. Good luck to the team!
NondaMay 5, 2026
I searched for the rest of the story and found it here: https://www.chronicleonline.com/weeklies/wakulla_news/lighting-learning-and-kindness-part-two/article_38993b8a-773b-5216-8150-d42355015f75.html I'm surprised it wasn't posted on Meridian Magazine.
Richard CraycroftMay 4, 2026
Israel may have been a popular invasion route; but moreover, it was the crossroads of the known world. The junction between the continents. Travelers from Europe to Asia or Africa passed through the region. Travelers from Africa to Europe and Asia passed through the region. Travelers from Asia to Europe and Africa passed through the region. It was the center of the known world. And God placed his people there so they could be an influence to the entire known world.
ChristopherMay 4, 2026
Jeff, I appreciate your response. I just hope that you would never say out loud to someone "I believe there were often mistakes and problems on both sides." This is a narrative that the perpetrators of divorce rely on, and it's incredibly harmful for the victims. I understand that people want to maintain this narrative, it helps them feel safe. If it's true, then they can't have their entire life turned upside down, unless they also do something wrong. But it's just not true. Marriage requires two people. But divorce only requires one. And the people who are harmed by divorce don't deserve the scorn of assuming that there must have been problems on both sides. Because there doesn't need to be.
Rochelle HaleMay 4, 2026
It sounds like your father's "innocence was restored." I hope so. It also sounds like you were able to weather the storms during this difficult time in your family. We attend a "Come, Follow Me" study group. Often, friends have shared faith-promoting or special experiences. One wife took me aside and told me that her husband feels bad because he has never had these experiences. This man has been in ward leadership and a seminary and institute teacher. I suggested that he has probably had many experiences, particularly through gospel study, that the rest of us haven't had. One of the earliest miracles I experienced was going on a mission without family support. From the first impressions to serve to arriving in the mission field was about four months. I had some savings, but my bishop told me there were ward members who would make up the difference. Part way through my mission, our expenses were drastically reduced due to an economic depression where I was serving. I had a surplus in my bank account when I returned home. I gave it to the bishop to help another missionary. The amount was roughly equivalent to what I had started with, so I actually had been able to finance most of my mission myself. Another recent miracle was caring for my elderly mother. Her illness was sudden, but we didn't expect her to pass away. Nevertheless, we soon learned we had to address not only her medical care, but housing (she couldn't go home), and possibly a funeral. I was cleaning her apartment one day, after several weeks of earnest prayer and seeking guidance, when a phone call answered several of our questions and gave us direction that we needed in many ways. I know the Lord had directed that "angel" to call me. Later, when we did have to deal with funeral arrangements, I felt led to a certain mortuary. They were so kind from the get-go and walked us through the process. They did not know our budget, but final expenses were almost to the penny exactly what we could spend.
Richard TarinelliMay 3, 2026
I also enjoy the use of maps for gaining insights into travels and worlds. But again Daniel, I appreciate your insights for depth and knowledge which are seldom revealed in the manner of your depth of instruction. Thanks again !
Alex BarclayMay 3, 2026
I once read that one of the reasons it was called the "evil east wind" was because of the large burial ground on the east side of Jerusalem. When the wind blew from the east in hot weather, it smelled bad. I dont know if there is any substance to this
R HollandMay 3, 2026
KFC would never say that Kentucky Fried Chicken will make you sick.
MaryannMay 1, 2026
Oh, so beautiful. Our Savior has prepared a place for us, and we have much to look forward to. I became fascinated with the subject of passing on into the afterlife while reading Dr. Raymond Moodie's books, Life After Life, and the follow-up book he wrote, Reflections on Life After Life. Like the Dr. in this article, Dr. Moodie also experienced countless discussions with those who came back and recounted their near death experiences. I love his books, because he doesn't have a goal to convince anyone. He just shares the stories people have told him over and over again. He said that when he lectured on the subject, people would come up afterwards and share their own experiences, which they often had kept private. They probably are hesitant because of the negative reactions some might have to their experiences. I felt Dr. Moodie was very sincere in recording the experiences shared with him firsthand. I have also read other books on this subject that I recognized as fabrications because of the false information in the books that are out of harmony with what we know from the gospel. Too many have, unfortunately, written falsified accounts in order to get a book published, and often use sensationalistic drama to sell them. It is important that we are led by the spirit to discern the true accounts from falsehood.
Raymond Takashi SwensonMay 1, 2026
I am revisiting this essay in 2026. I remember reading it in Arthur Henry King's book compiling his essays. I recall reading that my original edition of Professor King's essays would be worth hundreds of dollars on the LDS used book market. I see the denigrating comment by Christee Trowbridge. She (I assume it is she) thinks Professor King's opinion about the remarkable nature of Joseph Smith's account of his First Vision have little value. She thus demonstrates her utter ignorance of the remarkable achievements of Professor King internationally in the field of literary analysis and criticism. Miss Trowbridge thinks her opinion of the First Vision account is of greater value than that of Professor King. I have never heard of Ms. Trowbridge or any of her academic achievements in the 13 years since she attached her criticisms of Professor King and of Joseph Smith to this essay. She appears to be ignorant of the writers that Professor King cites in his essay. Professor King writes of how Joseph's account of his experience is utterly lacking in the hallmarks of people who try to arouse emotion and simulate a "spiritual experience". Compared to the thousands of writers he has evaluated in his academic career, Joseph Smith is telling his simple experience of a remarkable event. Latter-day Saints know that Oliver Cowdery was a writer in the 19th century literary tradition that tells readers what they should feel, just from the excerpt from his own writing about the experience of meeting John the Baptist that is appended to Joseph's account of that event. But Joseph was not. Professor King tells us that Joseph's account is superior to most of the literature that he read and taught in his long and distinguished international career. And that is separate and apart from the witness of the Holy Ghost that may come to a prayerful reader who is seeking from answers from God, as Joseph did. ---Raymond Takashi Swenson, JD, LL.M., Lt. Colonel, USAF (Retired).
Joni HiltonMay 1, 2026
I wish the whole world could read this. “Oh that I were an angel… “
Jessica RamptonMay 1, 2026
Wow. I’ve read this out loud twice to help me further embedded into my heart and soul. There’s so much to ponder on, and the Spirit is resting upon me as a tearfully finish studying this. I’ve taken a few notes to brew ruminate on throughout the day— this article is outstanding. Thank you.!
Herm OlsenMay 1, 2026
This is a sweet and compelling account. I also highly recommend Dr. George Ritchie’s book Return From Tomorrow. These accounts lift one’s soul!
JuliannMay 1, 2026
Beautiful. Thank you. I believe.
ScottMay 1, 2026
[Maryann] thank you so much for your comment. I feel the same loss and aching in my soul.
ScottMay 1, 2026
From the survey data I am worried that the primary reason people leave is church history issues and this is not an area that I know enough about to be helpful. Where can we go if we have questions about the church topic essays? These were so difficult to read and my bishop had not read these. Our gospel doctrine teacher who is the wife of the stake president taught on section 132 just a few months back but was also not aware of essays and denied that JS practiced plural marriage with teen agers. I'm at a loss as to what to do.
Elaine SeamanMay 1, 2026
Where are the footnotes? I want to read them as well.
Diane BlakelyMay 1, 2026
I believe this is the most beautiful thing I have ever read!!!
vickie gaspard cloudApril 30, 2026
I think in all of this, there are lessons to be learned. We learned about the beginning and how things progressed. We can all make assumptions, but until we cross over, we won't know in detail everything there is to know. All I know is that we have a loving Heavenly Father who loves us very much and knows that to be like Him, we have to go through things in life that will teach us and help us to come back to Him. For these things, I am truly grateful.
Ray CoteApril 30, 2026
...like wars are rational...
Robert StarlingApril 30, 2026
To JP Gayan: Since we agree that partaking of the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil by Adam and Eve was part of God's plan all along and did not "thwart" the plan, I prefer to praise Mother Eve not for "disobeying God", but rather for following the Plan. When Satan was confronted by God for his part in the Fall, he said "I've only done what has been done on other worlds." Apparently so did Eve. Hmmmmm
jeffApril 30, 2026
Divorce frequently comes as a "surprise" to the partner that didn't want it. I have known many people who have said they never saw it coming and would have done almost anything to save it if they could have. I have known many people who claimed their spouse came to them one day and announced that they wanted out and the marriage was over in less than 6 months. The idea that "Divorce has a perpetrator and a victim, in all but the rarest of cases" does not comport with my experience participating and working in the singles community for 16 years. Talk to two people who are in the middle of divorcing each other and you will generally get two very compelling narratives and, if you are honest, you won't be able to discern who is telling the truth and who is not. Generally it is a matter of interpretation more than cold, hard facts. To the extent that I can discern such things, I believe there were often mistakes and problems on both sides. Over half the of reported domestic violence cases are bilateral, involving victimization and perpetration by both partners. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6485079/#:~:text=Historically%2C%20IPV%20studies%20have%20focused,by%20both%20partners%20%5B37%5D. In terms of Church leaders, I don't necessarily agree that women are generally not believed or that Bishops identify more with the man. I know that sometimes happens. My experience is generally that divorcing women are treated with compassion and men are treated with suspicion. Having said that, I really think we need to get away from the idea that church leaders or other members need to take sides or assign fault. That is generally not helpful. In clear cases of abuse, a leader may need to take steps to protect the more vulnerable party. But he should minister to both without judgment. Sometimes when a couple is divorcing, people think they need to discern who is at "fault" so they aren't supporting the "wrong person." Both are children of God and it is not our job to assign fault. I believe in protecting people who may be in danger. I don't think that means Bishops should be expected to be able to tell if one of the two divorcing people is lying or telling the truth. I've been on the wrong end of "not being believed" too, and it was a very difficult time and added insult to injury.
ChristopherApril 30, 2026
"When that marriage ends" is a bizarre euphemism for divorce. Divorce is not death. It isn't a surprise nor does it come out of nowhere. Divorce has a perpetrator and a victim, in all but the rarest of cases. This article would be much stronger if its advice distinguished between the two. Perpetrators of divorce don't usually need to learn to love and accept themselves. In most cases, they have already done that to the point that they harmed the people around them.
NoneApril 30, 2026
Please address the way the church leaders treat you, especially the woman after a divorce, like taking away all your church jobs, which isolates you. The bishop being the priesthood leader tends to identify with and support the the male because of the priesthood. I talked with several women who said they were not believed by their leadership...especially where abuse was the issue .
Alan WakeleyApril 30, 2026
What a marvelous article. I love these sorts of commentaries because they put so much of what we understand scripturally in a clear historical and geographical context. The same occurs when you get to travel to the Holy Land. Thank you, Brother Peterson!
Haze K.April 29, 2026
I am looking forward to meeting Mother Eve and asking for more details about her experience and decision. I suspect there is more to the story than I can understand or "wrap my head around" at this time.
David CookApril 29, 2026
I agree with the above. Eve did need to partake of the fruit, but she didn't need to be beguiled by Satan and follow his instructions to do so. In the temple presentation of the story, three times it's mentioned that God and Jehovah intended to give Adam and Eve "further instructions." What could these instructions have been other than how to proceed on to mortality? But the intended instructions were never given because Eve and then Adam "jumped the gun" and did it Satan's way. The act was ultimately necessary, but God's plan certainly did not depend on Satan's intervention to succeed.
Vickie MunsonApril 29, 2026
My personal opinion is that the 'church' is about twenty years too late. To go after this podcast now will undoubtedly increase it's viewership. I had never listened to them and the first thing I did was look them up. There were ex-mormons being interviewed that day. The next day there was an active mormon on. I thought the church didn't want members using the word mormon anymore. If anyone got on that podcast accidentally thinking it was sponsored by the 'church' it would take less than 30 seconds to realize it isn't. It is interesting they are taking the stance that they are soooo many years later. What are they worried about? I know memberships are declining but doing this may increase members leaving. The people that I listened to on this podcast did not leave the 'church' because of the podcast and now you will have driven so many to check out the podcast that you will increase their viewership and more than likely loose even more members. Just my opinion. Hopefully I am not sued because of it.
Sally GreenfieldApril 29, 2026
As a cultural anthropologist who grew up attending the LDS church, I strongly and in no uncertain terms object to the claims made in this article. I am confident that I have forgotten more about how culture works than this author has ever known.
ColinApril 29, 2026
Numerous apostles and prophets have praised Eve for her choice, so we’re in good company in doing so. I see nothing in scripture or prophetic teachings that says the commandment to not partake would be removed later. Indeed, in placing Adam and Eve in a situation where they must disobey one commandment or another, they were introduced to our own situation — we *are* going to sin in this earth life. Welcome to mortality!
EllieApril 29, 2026
In reply to JP Gayan's comment. The idea that Eve partook of the fruit too early is not scriptural. Better translations of the Bible and other texts from the Dead Sea Scrolls paint a much broader picture of the Fall and Eve's role and help us understand the text as not literal but literary--teaching a principle and message, not recounting a historical cause and effect. Eve, as a symbol of all of us, as a bride is a symbol of the church, took the proverbial fruit--we all chose to enter mortality. Adam as a symbol of Christ upheld God's will and followed us into mortality by being "born" of a mortal woman--taking the fruit offered by Eve. Prior to the fall, Eve as a help-meet or "ally, rescuer, or strength," as the term "ezer" connotes, is a symbol of the Savior's covenant relationship with mankind--Adam--just as much as it is a symbol of a spousal relationship. As most symbols, the polyvalent nature can lead to both Adam and Eve symbolizing multiple things at once.or different things at different times. Eve as a female prototype, Adam as a male prototype. Eve as a type of Christ. Adam as a type of Christ. Both Adam and Eve as representatives of each of us. Unlike English, the Hebrew language holds more depth in one word. We lose much of that once we wrestle it into a static language like English.
WendyApril 29, 2026
I had trouble attending Church for years, and I didn't understand why. I felt I was different from everyone. Church made me anxious. I fidgeted. I struggled to focus. Trying to do what I was "supposed to" was exhausting. Maintaining habits--daily prayer, daily study, consistent effort--wasn't just hard, it was impossible. On top of all that, I felt I couldn't show my personality... can't show my half-shaved head, can't do my makeup too dark, certainly can't wear my spike necklace... I'm already standing out because my husband's a nonmember and my body won't stop fidgeting. In my late 20s/early 30s I found out two things. One, I have ADHD. Two, Satan is really good at lying to me. The truth is, we NEED the members who don't fit the mold to be at Church. We need the neurodiverse members, the goth kids, the members with opinions and backgrounds counter to the majority... and we need them to be open about who they are, so all the people who are masking or staying away have the courage to authentically come back. Zion is NOT just composed of happy Utah pioneer families, with the same polite smiles, and the same rote testimonies, where everyone gets along because everyone is the same. No, Zion is DIVERSE. It's Zion BECAUSE all these people, who the world says don't belong together and can't see eye to eye, have learned how to stand together anyway. These days, you'll find me at Church every Sunday, with my dark makeup and weird jewelry. I might be in the chapel, quietly playing video games on my phone, to help my brain listen to the speakers. Or, I might have found a secret corner in an empty room, where I can stim and listen via livestream. Or, I might be teaching the youth in my Sunday school class--showing them you do not have to fit a stereotype to fully participate in God's church. Zion can't be established until we all find the courage to take up our space in it.
Herm OlsenApril 29, 2026
Craig, Excellent article, excellent message. I suspect Eve played a far greater role in the process than previously understood. Thanks for the insights.
JP GayanApril 29, 2026
We do seem to swing a little bit too far to the other side by actually praising Eve for disobeying God. People mistakenly assume that Adam and Eve being obedient was somehow going to thwart God's plan. They were always going to partake of the fruit at some point and leave the Garden of Eden but God intended for them to learn and prepare for a bit longer before starting their mortal journey. A good analogy is a young man who decides to marry his high school sweetheart right after graduating instead of serving a mission first. It was Heavenly father's plan for him to get married and raise a family but Heavenly Father wanted to teach him and prepare him a bit longer before starting that important part of his life.
KathleenApril 29, 2026
I thoroughly enjoy these segments and interviews, with quotes and testimonies. Thank you for providing them.
Steve Densley, Jr.April 28, 2026
Great comment, Nathaniel. I agree that the Lord’s instructions matter. Without them, we wouldn’t know how to be good “keepers of the flock” or “tenders of the garden.” In exploring the meaning of shamar, I hoped to show that commandments are part of that tending: they guide us, shape us, and help us know how to act. At the same time, the purpose of the article was to open a broader perspective. As I wrote about keeping the commandments, “While it certainly includes what we do and what we refrain from doing, it does not simply mean flawless performance.” The line between tending and neglect isn’t measured by perfect execution but by the direction of the heart and the willingness to keep returning. I love what D&C 82:8–9 teaches: Commandments are God’s directions for our good. When we follow them, we avoid unnecessary sorrow and experience greater joy. More importantly, as we follow them, we become more Christlike. And because we all fall short, it’s reassuring to remember that we haven’t failed as long as we keep tending, keep returning, and keep growing.
JuelApril 28, 2026
I was raised in the 1940's and 50's farmland of SE Idaho, and my teachers, secular and Church, were honorable people, but taught a harsher, more judgmental, Old Testament view of god. Fortunately, i had a wonderful mother who taught me a softer side. She was one of the most kind, merciful, forgiving, and charitable people I've known, and my paradigm of my Heavenly Parents is that of my parents, only perfect. Apostle Gong said God doesn't look for loopholes to punish us, but to save us. I believe that and appreciate this article.
James StarkApril 28, 2026
Thank you for your well thought-out article. I like your bicycle spoke analogy. The analogy I use is similar. In carpentry a wall is lifted up and trued to the next wall etc. We say "you true up the wall." Also in carpentry, we use squares, straight edges (lines), compasses etc to true up the construction. And everything is measured off of the corner stake (cornerstone). In the church, for me, when we say it is true, we are saying we are built on the foundation of Apostles and Prophets with Jesus Christ being the chief cornerstone. We are lined up on Christ. Thank you again for your thoughtful article. It gave me several things to think about.
Ed JesseeApril 28, 2026
Excellent - spiritually, llinguisticallly and practically
NathanielApril 28, 2026
How can I compliment this article without implying that checking boxes and performance are the most important? More needs to be said about the line between tending and neglect.
Rochelle HaleApril 28, 2026
Some years ago, shortly after the death of Mother Teresa, an apostle said something to the effect he hopes his place in Heaven is as good as hers (referencing all of her humanitarian work). We do not have a monopoly on Christianity, but we do have truth. President Hinckley called for people of other faiths to, "Bring the truth that you have, and let us add to it." It is easy for some people to leave the church or question their testimonies, often with no doctrinal basis. Someone offended them, or there weren't any gluten-free foods served at the ward party. Perhaps a Priest didn't wear a white shirt, or a sister was criticized for wearing pants to church, or a new member felt judged because of his tattoos. Indeed, it is sad, when the baby is thrown out with the bath water, and people leave their faith entirely based on perceived expectations. The doctrine and the love of Christ is often missed when clouded by our mortal or worldly eyes.
R. O.April 27, 2026
The gatekeeping is strong with you, brother
John T. PrinceApril 27, 2026
> But if you apostasize from your faith, you don’t get to keep claiming it. Or at least people should ignore you when you try to. Is this article meant to be an example of ignoring the people trying to claim the term Mormon? Or will that be left to others to implement?
John T. PrinceApril 27, 2026
> And we would do well to look at such claims the same way Europeans do when Americans claim European identity—with cringe. > “You’re not Irish. Maybe your great grandparents were Irish, but then they left, and you’ve been in America for a very long time.” 1. To this point I've never heard of someone referring to themselves as "culturally mormon" unless they themselves were members. Seems like there's an enormous difference between "great grandparents were Irish" and someone actually having been shaped by the religion/culture directly as a member for the majority of their own lifetime? 2. The brand confusion with Mormon Stories and SLOMW is not a good representation of the use of the term "cultural mormon" among most former members, I think, so it's unfortunate that this essay groups them together. The majority of former members I know would not want to be mistaken as a member. Many do not consider themselves Mormon anymore on any level, and those that do view themselves as a cultural mormon will almost always qualify it as needed so that there isn't any confusion about their membership status in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Trevor SnellApril 27, 2026
I’ve followed John Dehlin’s work for a long time, and I’m struggling to find instances where he shared verifiably false info. Since he was excommunicated over a decade ago, I’m curious which specific claims were cited as 'false' at that time. Also, if he has updated or removed content over the years, isn't that a sign of trying to be accurate? I’d love to hear your perspective on what he’s gotten wrong."
MaryannApril 27, 2026
Oh, my! Thank you so much for this gentle perspective of what it means to follow our Savior. So many times we get bogged down with our imperfections and become discouraged. I often wonder how many have left church activity because they felt unworthy because of sin or weakness. We all sin, and we are all weak in some way. The important absolute truth is that Jesus stands ready to forgive and to help us continue on His path throughout our lives. We need to accept His love and trust Him. We need to go to him for forgiveness and feel his power. He does not "write us off" no matter how many mistakes we have made, or repeated. He IS with us, and is a merciful God, and is anxious to comfort and cleanse us continually.
NoWayApril 27, 2026
You gain membership through baptism, and you maintain that membership through covenant keeping. You're going to have to tell that to Gen Z, Christopher. You'd be shocked how many of them aren't wearing their garments and drinking latte while claiming full fellowship. If a 2 list checkbox of 1) baptized and 2) covenant keeping decides who gets to call themselves Mormon then you need to start reporting 500K Mormons exist instead of 18M.
MaryannApril 27, 2026
Since President Nelson was so clear and very firm about the importance of dropping the word "Mormon" as a title for the church, or for individuals in the church, it is disappointing that so many still persist in using it. When he had to repeat this again counsel later, he firmly said that this is not optional. He also said that we need to correct those who speak to us or about us, using the term "Mormon." Of course, we do that with gentleness and a smile. If we all would be obedient to this counsel from a Prophet, it would become understood by the world, and we wouldn't have to keep repeating ourselves. But, most important of all, when we use the full name of the church, it is a declaration that we ARE followers of Jesus Christ.
Bill AltmanApril 27, 2026
Yes—the Church is a religion with doctrine. No one disputes that. But pretending there’s no such thing as “Mormon culture” is just not serious. There absolutely is a distinct Utah/Intermountain West Mormon culture—shared norms, social expectations, dating dynamics, family structures, even aesthetics. The article itself accidentally admits this, then tries to rename it so it doesn’t “count.” That’s word games, not an argument. And more importantly: You don’t get to tell people they lose the right to describe their own lived experience. If someone grew up Mormon, served, married, dated, struggled, left—those are still Mormon experiences. Calling something like Mormon Stories “not Mormon” is absurd—it’s literally about people’s lives in and around Mormonism. “Ex-Mormon” is a valid label, but it doesn’t erase the cultural imprint. Where the piece really falls apart is this idea that once you leave, you lose any legitimate claim to the label or perspective. That’s not how identity works. If you spent years (or decades) immersed in a system, it shapes you—culturally, socially, psychologically. You don’t just “unsubscribe” from that history. The “no Mormon culture” claim also collapses under real-world examples: Mormon royalty absolutely exists socially, whether people like the term or not. Families with status, lineage, or leadership ties often carry influence. Personal example: I was asked to stop dating someone because I was a convert. Her mother—wife of a former mission president—made it clear I wasn’t acceptable as a son-in-law. That wasn’t “doctrine.” That was culture and hierarchy. You can’t dismiss that as imaginary while also talking about “pioneer heritage,” “Utah traditions,” and insider norms. That is culture. Also, the comparison to trademarks (KFC, etc.) is weak. Religion isn’t a corporation, and identity isn’t owned IP. People don’t need permission to describe their own background. Bottom line: The Church defines doctrine. People define their experiences. Calling that “anti-Mormon” just because it’s critical is a convenient way to dismiss uncomfortable narratives. Both can exist at the same time. Denying “Mormon culture” doesn’t protect the Church—it just ignores the reality that millions of people have actually lived.
TJApril 27, 2026
I must say your article is an answer to my prayer. When my spouse asked me where my confidence had gone and my head seemed constantly in a state of confusion, I knew somethings were amiss. Prayer, true praying, has changed over time - not aging (as I have been told), not due to my changing circumstances, not due to a difference in my relationships, except perhaps, my relationship with God - learning to pray as I had before with direct questions, more intentionality, and --listening-acting-recording -- heaven's answers.
MaryannApril 25, 2026
We compound the problem when we retaliate with bitterness and unbridled anger. I love Lehi's statement about how we can respond to "mockers" in that "Great and spacious building." He declared: "We heeded them not." There are times we need to speak the truth and can express our displeasure, without entering into contentious arguments. However, sometimes we just need to have faith, and allow the Lord to fight our battles. The Lord's people will survive every weapon Satan uses in his futile attempt to destroy the church.
HelenCApril 25, 2026
Thank you for this. My beloved husband left the Church shortly after his mission in South Africa 46 years ago. He has never even thought of trading on that former life, except when I invite him to share stories with current missionaries. He respects the Church and my dedication to it. He has never had a desire to tear it down. I do use it in my prayers as I plead for help to persuade him to return because I know just how much Father in Heaven and the Savior love him and because I know that sacrifice counts with Them. To me, he is a beloved son of God who lost his faith. He does not choose hate nor does he respect those who do.
Kenneth D. WrightApril 25, 2026
I have viewed "dark matter' as "matter unorganized", the matter that the Lord begins the creation process with. Dark matter is dark because it radiates no light. Clearly there is a lot of it because the Lord is continuously creating new worlds beginning with matter unorganized. So, the first commandment is " Let there be light," ... the infusion of the Light of Christ into dark matter which creates a matter which is now organized, radiates light, and is able to obey the commands of God. D&C 88:6-13
HelenCApril 25, 2026
Oh, how I would love this life! Mine feels so mundane, stuck in supporting my family when I “should” be retired. Trying to express gratitude for the health to still do so while resenting it so much! Maybe I need to rework my prayers to plead for sincerity and trust that He who knows all is good at His job.
Corey D.April 24, 2026
Unfortunate and obviously biased for whatever reason, the comment calling Justice Thomas one of the most divisive personalities in recent times. Interesting the inclusion of the headline/article saying John Dehlin is a member, particularly when another column in Meridians stories this week leaves no doubt that he is not a member.
Paul AndersApril 24, 2026
Well written explanation.
HillaryApril 24, 2026
“Reaches my reaching…” (Where Can I Turn For Peace, hymn #129)
Peter BleakleyApril 24, 2026
What a silly thing to say. 'Your lifetime of experience as a Church member and leader, raised and living in a family and social culture entirely defined by generations of Mormon thought and social norms, counts for absolutely nothing if you start to disagree with us. You have suddenly completely forgotten all of that. You don't know what you are talking about. Your lifetime of experience that means last year you were trusted with senior callings doesn't count for anything any more.' Are you serious?! This is desperate, arrogant and obviously hypocritical. So should we ignore any criticisms Martin Luther and the Protestants made of the Catholic church because they left it? Why do Latter-day Saints now celebrate and make heroes of those people for what they did and said after rejecting Catholicism? Should we ignore the criticisms and opinions and analysis Joseph Smith offered of Methodists and Presbyterians and suchlike because he and his immediate family were members of their churches and community and then chose to leave them? Make this make sense.
Boanerges RubalcavaApril 24, 2026
Instead of "Mormonism" use "Christianity of Christ". This differentiate the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints from the "Historical Christianity" .
Steve Densley, Jr.April 24, 2026
Christian: Yes, I'm aware of how Dehlin has characterized the negotiations. I'm sure there were various positions taken by both sides at various times during the negotiations. Given Dehlin's refusal to change the name of Mormon Stories, and given the need to clarify that he does not represent the Church, a useful way to prevent brand confusion would be for Dehlin to state during this podcast that he is not affiliated with the Church. It's possible that the Church at some point asked for multiple disclaimers but later moderated its position. For example, the Complaint indicates that at one point: "Defendants refused to include a simple disclaimer at the beginning of podcast episodes, either verbally or in writing, acknowledging that Mormon Stories is not affiliated with the Church." (Complaint ¶51.)
Christian ZiebarthApril 23, 2026
Steve, Mormon Stories is saying that the Church is not merely asking that a disclaimer be included, but that the podcast take frequent breaks to air the disclaimer and that the nature of this request is unreasonable to comply with. Do you know about this angle?
AnonymousApril 23, 2026
When I read this statement: ?trusting our Savior to not only deliver us but to raise us to glory with Him," I thought one of Christ's names is "Deliverer" and I have thought for years that this not only means "Delivering FROM" but also "Delivering TO." He is the Deliver to take us to a better place.
Wally GoddardApril 23, 2026
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WendyApril 23, 2026
First, I want to say that I agree with this article. Mockery of and bigotry against conservative Christian groups is normalized in our society. As Latter Day Saints, we are "particular" even among Christians. We get scorn and suspicion even from people who are supportive of a more generic Christianity. And that hurts. However, we need to remember that this was foretold about us from the beginning. We are God's "particular" people. As such, Satan is working particularly hard to stir people up against us. We need to be careful that he does not stir us up also, in how we feel and how we respond. It is right and good to stand up for ourselves, but we should strive to remember those standing against us are not truly our "enemy". I have lived and worked with people who are ardently anti-Mormon all my life. My beloved aunt, "Nana", hates the LDS church with every fiber of her being. She has spent decades trying to tear the Church down and drive as many people away from it as possible. Many in our family see Nana as the enemy. But the truth is, Nana's life has been one of pain and trauma. She was born in the South, to a troubled family that betrayed her in many ways. When she found the Church, she gave up everything to be part of it--her family, her culture, her home... When Nana got to Utah, she was treated poorly. Her ward didn't understand her culture, her differences or her depression. She was heavily criticized for working outside the home, for being a "bad" woman/ homemaker, and for pursuing a college education. She felt very alone, betrayed and rejected by those who should love her... it was the trauma of her childhood, repeated and multiplied. She was easy pickings for anti-Mormon groups. Nana is old now, hurting from a hundred spiritual wounds that never healed. And, honestly.... the majority of people who mock and spit at Latter Day Saints... have more in common with her then not. It may seem like they don't. They may seem big and powerful--successful comedians or journalists or political activists... just prideful jerks. But Satan's favorite targets are those with hidden pain... pain he can make to grow, and fester, until it becomes a weapon he can use. If you interact with such people, without Christlike love... even if you're justified in standing up for yourself... you risk deepening the wound. By contrast, Christlike love in response to hate will heal them, and heal you too. It may take a lifetime and beyond--Nana's healing won't be complete in this life. But Christlike love starts the process. And if they think you're "simple" or "bland" or "folksy" for responding to them kindly... so what? Lastly, remember that we aren't alone in being "othered". Racism and islamophobia (and fatphobia, ableism, ect, ect) may be discouraged in "polite society", but "polite society" is only a fraction of the whole... things that aren't "allowed" in middle-class, educated families are alive and well in poor families and among the rich and powerful. Virulent racism... the N word, hate, horrible jokes... that stuff happens every day, in places "polite society" doesn't reach. I've seen it. I've lived in it. So we mustn't get prideful and act like we're the "special victims" of the 21st century.
JimApril 23, 2026
Why wasn't the continuation of this story printed?
John WebbApril 23, 2026
Two things: First, I can't remember which leader of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints said this, but he said, in effect, that nobody could kick the Church down, that they can only kick it up. He said that the Lord had so decreed it. I find it interesting that whenever something like this play is released to the world, there is an increase in convert baptisms. Second, in the actual Book of Mormon, a prophet named Moroni is worried that people will make a mock of not only his words, but also the words of all the prophets. The Lord responds, saying, "Fools mock, but they shall mourn... my grace is sufficient for the meek... and... for all those who humble themselves before me." (Ether 12:26-27) Those who choose to mock the Savior and His prophets may have their fun now, but there will come a day when they will see what they have missed. They will see the joy and peace that might have been theirs, if they had chosen humility. Then they will mourn, because they missed those opportunities, due to their pride. We can and should hope and pray for them. Still, many will miss the mark. The Father loves them dearly, and weeps for them.
LoraApril 22, 2026
Those writers know that the Church is a soft target. They know that we don't murder our opponents. They dared to mock Islam in an episode of "South Park" and had to make changes in a hurry or face the consequences. I get tired of people thinking that they know who I am or my beliefs based on "Sister Wives" or "Mormon Housewives" or that "Mormon" woman on The Bachelor. Satan is alive and well and working on Broadway.
Raymond Takashi SwensonApril 22, 2026
The rejection of the physical, material resurrection of Christ by most traditional Christians shows that they prefer pagan philosophy to the plain words of the Bible. Dr. N.T. Wright, in his book Surprised by Hope, demonstrates that the Bible affirms the physical resurrection of all mankind through the power of Christ's Atonement, and that the faithful followers of Christ will live on this earth, transformed and made heavenly by God. Many traditional Christians attacked Wright for teaching that these are the simple truths taught by the Bible, and they accused him of teaching a MORMON heretical belief. He responded in the pages of First Things journal that the Mormons read the Bible more carefully than many others. The fact is, by rejecting the materiality of Christ's resurrected body, and the materiality of the Resurrection of mankind, traditional Christians have rejected the REASON for the resurrection of both Christ and mankind. Christ went to a lot of trouble to break the bonds of death and reunite all mankind with our bodies for eternity. Yet most traditional Christians CRITICIZE THE SAVIOR for putting us back in our bodies for eternity. Protestants and Catholics teach that God MADE A MISTAKE, even as they claim in their creeds that God is omniscient. They think that the philosophies of men are SMARTER than Jesus Christ. They reject the resurrection as vital to our eternal destiny. The demonstrations that Christ gave that he was fully God in his mortal body AND his resurrected body, that his body did not limit his authority over all matter and energy, is rejected by apostate Christianity. And his power as an embodied Son of God shows that the embodied Father is not limited by a body. Indeed, the BODIES of the Father and the Son enable them to FEEL empathy with all of suffering humanity. FEELING is an essential element of LOVE. How can God LOVE us if he does not FEEL with us and for us? And how can God FEEL with us if he has no physical heart, no organs of emotion?
Raymond Takashi SwensonApril 22, 2026
Since the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the principal publisher of the Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ, printing and distributing millions of copies in a hundred languages, it has a strong interest in controlling the use of the unique name "Mormon" especially in connection with any discussion of religious themes. It would be obvious to anyone that, if someone else published a book titled "The Book of Mormon", the Church would have a right to have the courts prohibit such an infringement on the name "Book of Mormon". And as Mormon himself made clear, he was named after the special place where Alma Senior organized the Church of Christ among the Nephites. Mosiah 18:17 and 30 say: "And they were called the church of God, or the Church of Chrost from that time forward. And it came to pass that whosoever was baptized by the power and authority of God was added to his church. . . . And now it came to pass that all this was done in Mormon, yea, by the waters of Mormon, in the forest that was near the waters of Mormon; yea, the place of Mormon, the waters of Mormon, the forest of Mormon, how beautiful are they to the eyes of them who there came to the knowledge of their Redeemer, yea, and how blessed are they, for they shall sing to his praise forever." The name Mormon is synonymous with the Church of Christ, both in ancient America and for the Latter-day Saints in our day. We enter the same baptismal covenant as the people who were baptized in the waters of Mormon. The Church associated with Mormon is the Church of Jesus Christ. That identity was established over two thousand years ago, and declared to the world when the Book of Mormon was published in 1830.
Richard GardnerApril 22, 2026
Awesomely said!
Diane PetersonApril 22, 2026
What a magnificent article! Brilliant! Thank you for sharing such profound findings! And now, the need to put those findings to use in my own life!
Ed D.April 22, 2026
In regard to Steve's comment in a reply above "the key issue is not mere word usage, but whether the use, particularly when paired with Church‑associated branding elements such as colors, design motifs, or fonts, could reasonably lead audiences to believe the speaker represents, speaks for, or defines the Church.": Add to the mix, the fact that Dehlin has himself asserted in his videos that he is a Mormon, despite knowing that he was excommunicated from the Church a decade ago. Taking into consideration 1. Use of LDS Church-like symbols, names associated with the Church, 2. Refusal to include a disclaimer that he does not represent or speak for the Church, and 3. His claim that he is currently a Mormon (implying current membership) all go into weighing the nature of his intentions in and effect of using the the symbology/words.
Amy LondonApril 22, 2026
I had a cousin who moved into a "Mor-Man" (her pronunciation) community (not Utah), and she was at once offended, perhaps because she had greater expectations how how members of the Church should behave. Against my better judgement, she saw the musical, but she again became offended when I suggested that she read the book. She hadn't heard of the ad “You’ve seen the play… now read the book,” and didn't find it amusing. I didn't see this play. I know several people who did. I heard several stories of people who actually joined the Church because they wanted to know more. However, it is rare that we should endorse something that completely maligns our values. Nevertheless, we have our personal agency and judgment. A few years ago another historical musical was very popular. I chose not to see it after hearing some of the lyrics. Sadly, I am sure we will continue to have plays or stories or podcasts that twist history or portray certain religious or ethnic groups in a way that is not entirely factual just to gain an audience or, perhaps, the almighty dollar.
Debrah RoundyApril 22, 2026
That was a beautifully crafted article. The word cloud caught my attention. In the past, long past now, I often heard that we did not hear much of or Lord and Savior in conference. It could not be said with this cloud showing us where the words were - in the open. The article was beautifully written also. Thanks for writing it with care and love.
KathleenApril 22, 2026
When my father-in-law was turning 100, his ward charted 100 ordinances in each area of the temple for his ward birthday celebration. He had been a temple ordinance worker for years and was so touched by the gesture.
K. Chin, Modesto, CAApril 22, 2026
I greatly appreciate this article! It is well written and the details explain and clarify the necessity of our Church's position and current actions to defend it. Additionally, all of the previous comments further elaborate that this is a more complex issue than some may assume. Our Church leaders have attempted to resolve this in amicable, non-contentious ways--as they have counseled all members of the Church to do when issues of concern arise. If anything, taking this matter to court--after attempts have been made to resolve it out of court--is a justified act that follows scriptural teachings. It is reassuring to realize our Church leadership is showing, "they walk their talk!" Expenditures that seek legal redress, before applying less expensive options, benefit no one and no organization. The fact that organizations NOT affiliated with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have chosen not to work amicably to resolve this issue, further demonstrates that they have ulterior and self-promoting reasons for using words, images, typefaces, colors, fonts, etc., that represent our Church. It appears they like the confusion they have caused. Now, this lawsuit will give them a public platform to further ply their misleading trade. This is the opposite of acting in good faith and rather invalidates their claims. Are they afraid their outreach will be hindered without their confusing marketing and advertisement claiming an association with our Church that is erroneous? Indeed, it seems this could very well be their motivation. The Savior, Jesus Christ, must direct His Church in a fallen and contentious world. There is a necessary call--in a time such as this--(the final days before the Savior returns) for His Prophet, members of the First Presidency, and members the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles to have extensive backgrounds in the law after the manner of men. This article points out, we can rest assured the Lord's Prophet is actively protecting His Church and His Name. By their fruits ye shall know them!
L T StuartApril 21, 2026
In response to BH, you are correct on one level. Stepping on the egg itself causes a huge splat or mess which is hard to clean up. If we walk on the eggshell afterward, its sharp edges are painful. So both stepping on the egg itself and the sharp broken edges of the shell are accurate. I've lived it so I understand both parts of the saying.
Teri N.April 21, 2026
This a well written article that very well explains the reality of the situation. Mormon Stories and John Dehlin have long been snakes and wolves in sheep's clothing, not unlike Julie Hanks. When a person carries the Holy Ghost with them, and knows how to listen to the whisperings of the Spirit, they will be quickly taught by that Spirit that these people are working for the adversary, whether intentionally or not. They have led many people astray, or "to the dark side" as many say today. I am grateful for such a good article as this that lays the law and the intention of the Lord's Church out for all to clearly understand *if they will* it to be.
Steve Densley, Jr.April 21, 2026
Leslie: Good questions. I will first respond to your second point by saying that the fact that Dehlin has interviewed a few people who have not left the Church only contributes to the confusion. It can lead people to wonder whether he is fairly representing the Church, as he claims, or attacking it? Regarding your other questions, I'll respond by pasting a response I provided to a Facebook comment like yours: "(1) Trademark law does not require trademark holders to challenge every use of a term; rather, it requires action against uses that create a likelihood of confusion in relevant markets. With respect to third‑party uses of the term “Mormon,” the key issue is not mere word usage, but whether the use, particularly when paired with Church‑associated branding elements such as colors, design motifs, or fonts, could reasonably lead audiences to believe the speaker represents, speaks for, or defines the Church. (2) Regarding the fact that Mormon Stories has been around for 21 years, that is certainly an argument Dehlin will raise. The fact that the Church has shifted away from emphasizing the use of "Mormon" is also an issue he will raise. However, the Church has maintained its rights in the word "Mormon" in a variety of ways. (See my article.) While the Church does not want to create the misperception that it is the "Mormon Church," its association with the word "Mormon" is clear and long-standing, and part of the Church's brand. If an organization does not act to protect that brand, it can be held to have abandoned it. The question of whether the organization has waited too long is difficult to define. There are arguments that will be made on both sides. In the case of Ray Communications, Inc. v. Clear Channel Communications, Inc., the Fourth Circuit Federal Court of Appeals reviewed a case where the plaintiff waited 30 years before filing suit. The court clarified that legal action is not required until the trademark owner knows or should know of a real likelihood of confusion, which is made by weighing the relevant likelihood of confusion factors. The defendant must prove that it suffered actual undue economic or evidentiary prejudice from the delay. But this cannot be made based solely on its longstanding use of the trademark. So these are issues of "fairness" that are not obvious on their face. Arguments will be made by both sides and then will need to be examined by the judge and jury. Alternatively, the arguments will be weighed by the attorneys for both sides, the risks considered, and a settlement reached."
Leslie BoyceApril 21, 2026
If trademark alone was a concern, why didn’t the church take action years ago? And are they going after MWEG as well? Also, John Delhlin doesn’t exclusively interview people who have left the church. Examples Patrick Mason and Dan McClellan.
Shauna SmithApril 21, 2026
“Secret lives of Mormon _____” should be copyright protected too. You contradicted yourself by printed an article about The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints legally defending the name “Mormon” yet in the same email you promote an article titled “Secret Life of Mormon Husband.” TV series, Broadway plays, etc. degradingly use the name “Mormon” without sanctions.
Anna KeoghApril 21, 2026
Great article. What is your email address?
GingerApril 20, 2026
I have been praying, for many years, to find an article that describes/articulates, my ‘Walking On Eggshells’ life experiences/relationships, so well. Every word you chose to use-Thank you. I don’t have the words to express how grateful I am.
Carolyn MadsonApril 20, 2026
Made perfect sense to me…I have always heard this expression this way as the article stated. Enjoyed the article very much. Thank you for including in Meridian..
James S BrownApril 20, 2026
This is a great explanation of how Greek Philosophy hijacked Christianity. Question: What happens if sound reasoning and revelation get together and have progeny? Answer: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.
B. HoughtonApril 20, 2026
Doesn't anyone know (apparently they do NOT) that the old saying refers to 'walking on eggs' because one must step very carefully to avoid breaking the eggs. 'Walking on eggshells' makes absolutely no sense.
Charles McClellandApril 20, 2026
There was no need to include the piece at the end on one of the most divisive personalities in our society today (along with a very out dated picture). Very distracting after the preceding uplifting articles. Suggestion: either publish all comments, not just ones that have been "cherry picked", or none at all.
HelenCApril 20, 2026
My own, sacred experience of leaning on an invisible shoulder while once trapped in despair defies so many known earthly properties of matter that either side of your published argument could be upheld. I’ve always thought of it as a Gift (which it most certainly was) that proved Christ’s physicality and now I see that opinion as a result of my faith in and understanding of LDS doctrine. I can only share its reality with Father, Christ and the Holy Ghost; no-one else was there.
anonymousApril 20, 2026
Under One, John Dehlin is noted as being an ex-member. Under Five, he is noted as being a member...
AliciaApril 17, 2026
Bravo! Maestro. An excellent encore to your previous works that rouse the soul.
JamesApril 17, 2026
Thank you for writing that story by Jeff and those beautiful people in the Congo. They were prepared for the gospel. It touched my heart!
HelenCApril 17, 2026
"Elder David A. Bednar has warned that the Spirit speaks quietly and withdraws quietly. When we distance Him, He recedes—not out of divine sulking, but out of a profound respect for our choice to walk alone." I have felt this physical desertion. It was merited and noted at the time as the moment when He could no longer stay with me. I didn't feel His return as profoundly but I never want to feel His loss again.
Teri of NCApril 17, 2026
This article was amazing! Thank you!!!
Rochelle HaleApril 17, 2026
I don't pretend to understand the perspective of others, but I do know that Church was the place I wanted to be when I endured some serious challenges or even felt out of place (divorced, single mom, stepmother, etc.). I have used this quote many, many times in the last few weeks. Elder Clark Gilbert quoted Russell M. Nelson at Conference, "The truth is that it is much more exhausting to seek happiness where you can never find it." A story circulated awhile back about a family who was ostracized because of a sick daughter (not contagious). After much contemplation, the father informed the family that they were going back to church. It was their church also, they knew Heavenly Father wanted them to be there, and they were going to hold their heads up high and strive to do all He wanted them to do
GingerApril 17, 2026
Envy is one small reason yes. But you have a larger audience that deals with daily trauma. That is a bigger problem. Trauma makes going to church with the people you just described, painfully unrelatable. They live in a different reality, with different experiences and perspectives. They tend to be narrow-minded, who could learn a lot from the folks who have PTSD, if they choose to see them for who they are and what they have experienced, instead of focusing on their own worldly pursuits.
Sally PalmerApril 17, 2026
New or returning members are not the only ones who need to be reminded that the covenant path is not a parking lot! All of us can use the advice to "press forward" in order to reach our goal of eternal life!
GaleApril 17, 2026
We had six kids and were a happy LDS family. It didn't matter what time church started, we were always slightly late--the baby would have a blowout, or someone couldn't find their shoes. Sometimes I'd work so hard preparing for Sabbath on Saturday, I was bedridden on Sunday. But we were fully involved. It's just that after we would get seated for sacrament meeting, I'd take a good look at my kids and realize how not-great they looked. How moms manage to curl and style their daughters' hair for church, I will never know. I never, ever succeeded with that!
ShaunaApril 16, 2026
Thank you. this fed my soul. It was like manna to me
Robert StarlingApril 16, 2026
So very well said! (and something that needed to be said) Many people love the song "I Did It My Way", but I dislike it. When it comes to the Gospel, if we are "all in", we're delighted to do it "HIS way", as we're counseld by His prophets.
Ann-Marie JensenApril 16, 2026
Thank you for clarifying the keys restored by Elias and Elijah — a question I’ve had for many years. Your research is thorough and helpful.
MaryannApril 15, 2026
Tone of voice is EVERYTHING in communication, especially in volatile situations. Humor can also deescalate anger quickly. There are times that we need to stand for truth, but unbridled anger will destroy, and even can contradict, our message. We stand for righteousness, but at the same time we are yelling uncontrollably, or condemning, or using sarcasm? We all experience strong emotions that sometimes include anger. We can train ourselves to stop before speaking, and take a moment to think about how we can express our thoughts without making personal attacks. Knee jerk reactions are always dangerous. Even 5 seconds of quiet thought before speaking can help us drop our "weapons."
GaleApril 15, 2026
The appearance of Christ, Elijah, Moses and Elias and the conferring of keys in the Kirtland Temple occurred fittingly on the Jewish holy day of Bikkurim--First Fruits--during Passover week. Passover week contains 3 holy days: the sacrifice of the Paschal lamb, the Feast of Unleavened Bread, and First Fruits--the offering of the first of the spring harvest of grain. Jews could not eat from the first harvest until this offering was made in the temple. It guaranteed a perfect harvest for the coming year and occurred on the day Christ rose from the dead. Through His resurrection, Christ guaranteed a perfect harvest of souls--everyone would be resurrected. The sealing power enables covenants to last eternally.
Joni HiltonApril 15, 2026
Love love love this! Sharing it widely. Many thanks!
SdgApril 15, 2026
Thanks for this well-articulated article. It helped me.see where I fall short. Will be working on that pause so I can be heard with a gentle voice.
Bob MartinApril 15, 2026
I guess I was always skeptical of how one person could change the world until my wonderful wife passed away unexpectedly five moths ago. At her funeral I was expecting maybe 100 people to say goodbye but was pleased to see over 350 people turn up. She was an angel having an earthly experience. We heard stories of how we had changed people's lives for the better, prevented suicides, and other stories that show that in deed one person can make a change.Be kind to each other.
Bob SpielApril 15, 2026
Was Taylor Frankie Paul ever really IN the church? Her lifestyle is totally inconsistent with that of a Latter-day Saint.
Colette DUPREApril 15, 2026
Je suis ravie d avoir vu la vidéo sur le nouveau centre. J habite en France mais c est merveilleux de voir cela meme de loin
Debrah RoundyApril 14, 2026
One comment on the two-piece garment, some of us still enjoy the old style one piece garment that is easy to use squatty-potties in, and has no bulk around the waist. Also, the new full slip is a one-piece garment and very comfortable under dresses especially in hot climates. They can also be worn with special underwear such as period undies and fun and flirty underwear, too. When the new, two-piece underwear came out, it was near the time when the new period pads came out that stuck to your underwear. Likely many a woman tried them with her new two-piece garments and when the pad quit sticking and fell out --- they just kept walking, and tried not to turn red. People complain about the lack of fabric choices in the earlier years, but forget that there were no fabric choices to speak of. You had wool, linen, cotton and silk, if you were lucky. If you made the fabric yourself on a loom, it was likely to be sturdy because it had to last. Enter the new fabrics. I was allergic to my bra fabric, and what a blessing when I got married and put the itchy bra over my garment. A day or so later, I realized to my delight, No more itch. Last comment. Some years back I was with my daughter in the Bride’s Room of the temple. There were a lot of girls getting married that day and each had just been bestowed the gift of royalty, the garment. The girls, there may have been eight or ten or more, were excitedly running about getting dressed, trying hairdos. make up, and so on. Then I realized, each had on her garment, often nothing else, but they were not ashamed. They had covered their nakedness and were free to be their excited selves in a room filled with other girls equally and beautifully clothed. I felt like I was in a room filled with young, new angels preparing for their weddings, pure and clean, ready to join hands with their husbands-to-be and face the world together. My daughter was one of them! It was truly a sacred moment in my life.
Debrah RoundyApril 14, 2026
I am excited to go and to take my grandkids. I not on the public transportation, there is a free zone where you can get on and off the bus within that area for free. Go to https://www.utahpta.org/files/docs/UTA%20Free%20Fare%20Zone.pdf I remember the day I first saw the (old and demolished) new Visitor's Center, walking up the long ramp with the walls painted like the universe and then . . . the beautiful statue of the Christus. The AWE! I do not think anything can quite top that.
Wendy PayneApril 14, 2026
Wow. Thank you for this beautiful article and tour--for those of us who live a distance away.
CynthiaApril 13, 2026
What a beautiful truth you have reminded us of! Thank you, Becky, for inspiring your readers to remember who we are and our uniqueness. In this crazy world with social media bombarding us with messages to copy others, your article resonates with truth and beauty. We are beloved children of Heavenly Parents!
LewisApril 13, 2026
What a wonderful, lovely article. It makes you think a lot about who we are, why we are here and what our divine destiny might be. For me, however, it makes me reflect on how, in spite of whatever differences might appear on the surface, we are all children of God, and our obligation is to accept, welcome and love them as our Savior loves us.
LaWrenApril 13, 2026
Beautiful- just like you!
Gordon HensleyApril 13, 2026
I think we should be looking for reasons and opportunities to wear the garment as much as possible, and not be so concerned with a list of the exceptions. It's human nature for everybody to judge everybody else. The only person who is authorized to judge your worthiness is your bishop. When you get down to the basics, the garment was given to cover the bodies of people who had previously spent their entire adult lives as innocent nudists living in a climate-controlled garden. Your street clothing meets that requirement. We could theoretically place the four symbols on the inside of our street clothing and meet those instructions as well as with having a separate layer. I'm wondering if we will introduce a "skirt style" garment for men who wear lava-lava/kilt style clothing?
Lori DriggsApril 12, 2026
I have read this 5 times already and will read it everyday! Thank you for your beautiful insights and writing. So grateful for you sharing your testimony with us, Much love
Rhoda AndersonApril 12, 2026
This is brilliant-- I love that it gets to the crux of how religion and culture and worship are not all the same thing, but have a place in the process... yet, how walking with God is so personal.
HelenCApril 11, 2026
As I seek to change from a transactional to a covenantal relationship with Heavenly Father and our Savior I try to focus on the joy of paying a full tithe, even when finances are tight. I worry far too much about our bills but it never stops me paying that paltry 10% first and with a smile. It just feels so GOOD to give God something He doesn’t need, since it’s sorest all His, anyway. To quote a line from one of my favorite songs, “When will they learn that’s not what lovin’ is? it’s not what you get in return, it’s what you give.”
Michael HogganApril 10, 2026
Interesting that you place Joseph's arrival in Egypt in the 1290s-1270s. Would that mean that Abraham was born around 1500?
Chris PutnamApril 10, 2026
Thank you for such an insightful article on all of the symbolism in this story as it applies to us today!
JuliannApril 10, 2026
My grandfathers garments were one piece to the ankle, to the wrist, and to the throat. Heavy material. We have so many options today. Thank you Lord for being flexible and thoughtful as we take upon us your name. Loved the sensitive, nonjudgmental tone in this article.
Margaret AndersonApril 9, 2026
How sad it is that you portray a life that does not include marriage and children as a negative. IT IS NOT! The Church has always been a negative place to be for single adults. Singles have to shut out the noise from members/leaders and their "good intentions", "condolences" and "advice" to us singles and find joy in their lives just like everyone else. I am 82 years old single and have loved my single life. One Sunday in Relief Society we were asked to tell everyone what we thought our talents are. I said that my greatest talent was that I could be a happy, financially successful woman capable of taking care of all her needs. Needless to say, that did not go over well.
CraigApril 9, 2026
My take: the pharaoh who knew not Joseph signified not only a new pharaoh but a new dynasty. This is most likely a reference to Ahmose I as the pharaoh who drove out the Hyksos and enslaved the Hebrews. It was the Horemheb, the last pharaoh of dynasty eighteen, that Moses fled from after killing the overseer. Ramses I and Seti I had relatively short reigns. It was during the reign of Ramses the second that Moses returned to Egypt and led the exodus probably during the latter years of his reign.
Diane BApril 9, 2026
No one has mentioned the protection the garment gives. I knew a man about 40 years ago who worked with gasoline fuel. One day a fire erupted in the building he was working in and the whole place was engulfed in flames. But he was able to walk through the fire and a path was opened before him as he exited the building. He was not burned at all, even though constantly surrounded by fire in the 20 seconds it took him to get out.
Jay BuckleyApril 9, 2026
Besides Abraham and Melchizedek, consider Joseph of Egypt as the possible identity of the Elias sent in 1836 to Kirtland to confer the keys of "the covenant of Abraham.” The Brass Plates were kept by the seed of Joseph. The Book of Mormon is also a record of the seed of Joseph (Lehi from Manasseh and Ishmael from Ephraim). The promises to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob would have passed to Joseph and his sons. Moreover, Joseph of Egypt is also prophesied about in the Book of Mormon connecting him to Joseph Smith Sr and Joseph Smith Jr.
Jan FranciscoApril 9, 2026
This is a subject dear to my heart. Using the commentaries just leads to confusion and vagueness. This article I wrote for the Interpreter Foundation shows a more cohesive and clear picture of who Elias is, all based on the scriptures and the words of Joseph Smith. https://interpreterfoundation.org/journal/elias-prophet-of-the-restoration
PennieApril 8, 2026
I thoroughly enjoy my garments. I think they are comfortable, my clothes have something to glide over so the fit is always better. My bras are more comfortable. There's never a "panty line". I think they are a lot more hygienic than thong panties or the tight fitting bikini panties. That's just the practical side. I am thrilled for having the privilege of clothing my body day and night with a reminder of Christ and mt covenants.
Jonathan AtkinsonApril 8, 2026
We can time shift in the sport world!!
HelenCApril 8, 2026
I was first endowed in 1980 and have enjoyed wearing garments most of the time since then. I say “most” because, due to my own actions, I was denied the privilege of wearing them for several years. Not only did I miss my membership in the Church of Jesus Christ, I also experienced the most severe cold I had endured in my memory! I have no idea if the two events were related but it was an interesting coincidence. While I am glad we no longer have to search high and low for compatible fashion, I actually enjoyed finding, or creating, clothing that worked. I remember my mother’s best friend telling her, jokingly, to say goodbye to comfort when she began wearing them in the 1960s but her love for the Temple never gave me the impression she felt anything but respect. I looked forward to “my day” and will never forget the sacred experience that came with my first re-donning of the only pair left in the back of my closet when my covenants were restored.
MarciaApril 8, 2026
I agree with Jo!!
Richard GardnerApril 8, 2026
Beautiful article. My thought about the sister who lived in Las Vegas and later served in Gilbert AZ: these are hot places, but not usually humid. I lived in Tucson. Over 100 degrees F. and not a drop of sweat on my brow. I've also lived in humid places, where at only 80F, I'm dripping in sweat.
SusanApril 8, 2026
When I was first endowed, the one piece garnets were the only choice, and they were miserable. I was a convert and no one really gave me any advice about wearing them. The temple matron advised me that any other undergarments would have to be worn over the garment, not under-- not practical at all. Today's two piece garments are much more comfortable and practical, and the use of other undergarments is not so strict. The new styles would be very helpful for hot humid climates.
S RichardsonApril 8, 2026
The need to talk about tithing by itself seems to have diminished as we talk more about temples. It's like the subject has become eclipsed by an even more important subject - spending time in the temple and realizing temple blessings. It's like an even stronger motivation to pay tithing and keep all the covenants.
Marie BarnhurstApril 8, 2026
Thank you for your insights. Temple language is what we must search for and find in all scripture! This is a beautiful article.
RichardApril 8, 2026
Elder Tad R. Callister's book, "The Infinite Atonement" is a definitive work on the depth and reach of the atonement.
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2026
I received my endowments over 50 years ago and have experienced several changes and styles, both for daily wear and to wear during temple service. I came from a non-member family, and my temple preparation came from my Mutual (Young Women) leaders and Relief Society President. It was understood that some modification might be needed in our street clothing in order to wear garments. A year and a half ago I had a health challenge that prevented me from wearing my regular bottom garment style and fabric. I received guidance on special needs items, but before I could order anything (and because I have been wearing garments for years) I found I already had a previous style in my drawer that helped me until I healed. Unfortunately, I have seen a lot of attention to fashion given the "new" garment styles, and I pray our young (and older) women are being taught the full purpose and meaning of wearing this sacred clothing.
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2026
One of the principles my husband and I would never consider NOT doing is paying our tithing. In recent years we have seen relatives of other faiths be turned away from their churches because they could not pay membership dues. This is very sad when people cannot exercise their faith or receive service from others because they have not paid. The payment of tithes is between us, our bishops, and the Lord. No one will be denied membership, and all are welcome in the Church, but it is a simple, but higher principle that we must live to receive a temple recommend. My first experience was as a young teenage convert, when I would literally put I.O.U.s for my tithing in my piggy bank. Fast forward a few years when, through the miracles of tithing, I was able to finance most of my mission myself. During a health issue a few years ago, I felt prompted to take certain measures in our finances. The promptings were strong, yet I believe that direction we received was stronger because we had paid our tithing.
Layne MillerApril 8, 2026
Great insights and article as usual my friend. Keep them coming!
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2026
For years I tried to keep up with writing in a journal. I have several that start strong only to leave many empty pages. The advent of on-line memories (specifically through FamilySearch) has made a big difference in the testimony-building experiences I write about now and how frequently I write. Testimonies are built AND nurtured step by step. Though we try to eliminate "travelogues" when bearing testimonies on Fast Sunday, our experiences certainly help us understand the power of God in our lives and all that He helps us to do to become the people He wants us to be. My testimony of tithing, as a young teenage convert whose only income was babysitting money, has certainly changed as I have met the challenges but seen great blessings when providing for a family. My testimony has grown by leaps and bounds when I had no answers, but desperately needed guidance, and a step-by-step plan was laid before my eyes. My testimony has grown when others have served me or my family in unexpected ways. My testimony has grown through hymns. I could go on and on. Needless to say, it is so important that we document our testimonies and those things that helped us grow in greater understanding of the gospel and our love for Jesus Christ.
Paul BishopApril 8, 2026
Good article as always, Mark. Like you, I remember when it seemed every third sacrament talk focused on tithing, and I’ve often wondered why it now appears to be such a rare topic. As an adult convert, I’ve been fortunate to develop a steady, enduring testimony of tithing. While I don’t have dramatic stories of last-minute financial rescues, I continue to see clear and consistent blessings from honoring my tithing commitment. With each passing day, I grow more convinced of the positive influence tithing has in my life, and I remain grateful for the opportunity to return to the Lord a portion of what is already His.
Wendy DeVoeApril 8, 2026
To me, it seems absurd that people would view the garnment as a symbol of female oppression in the Church. Men wear the same garnments, with the same expectations! You know what IS a symbol of misogyny? A secular society that normalizes women's clothing to appeal to the male gaze. Women's clothing is more exposing, more sexualized, and less functional than men's clothing (no pockets?? prone to wear and tear?? prioritizes "prettiness" or "sexiness" over function??). The most insidious part is, society pressures women to obsess over their looks and police their own bodies to be more "appealing"... and to feel "unfeminine" if they don't meet expectations. It's hard to find "female" clothing that works with garnments, because most female clothing is designed by a society that only values women by their visual appeal.
ArleneApril 7, 2026
Exactly - and just as we want to go visit the place where the Savior walked and the atoning sacrifice happened . . . do we think people from other worlds want to do the same? Yes they do.
ShaunaApril 6, 2026
Thank you --these are wonderful. What a glorious Conference. Continuing revelation is such a blessing!
Tom WilliamsApril 6, 2026
A further evidence of the reality of resurrection was cited in Matthew 27: "52 And the graves were opened; and many bodies of the saints which slept arose, 53 And came out of the graves after his resurrection, and went into the holy city, and appeared unto many. While the graves were opened by the earthquake at the moment of the Crucifixion (v. 51), the text specifies that the saints actually entered the city "after his resurrection." A parallel event occurred in the Americas and was referenced by the Savior when he appeared to the Nephites. The Jerusalem event is often described by theologians as a "special resurrection" or a precursor to the general Resurrection made possible by Christ. No doubt the Apostles knew of this "special resurrection," a further evidence of Jesus's divinity and promise, and further proof that He ushered in an era of the uniting of body and spirit, ultimately, for all Mankind.
LisaApril 6, 2026
Love the analogies in this article.
JohnApril 5, 2026
I loved reading this. I used a similar argument, but nowhere close to being as well written , in a paper I wrote for a western religions course at a NZ university in the late 80s. The question... Who founded the Christian Community and why? The university taught that it was Paul. I challenged that position, quoting Nibley, among others, that Jesus organised his Apostles after his resurrection and the resurrection is the turning point and the whole point of the gospel. My tutor gave me a good mark, stating that although she disagreed, I had made a good argument. It still astounds me that they ignore the miraculous change to Peter and the other Apostles. Thank you for the wonderful Easter reminder.
Bob SpielApril 5, 2026
So many beautiful thoughts, Bro. Peterson. Thank you for putting them in writing. Standing next to the amphitheater in Ephesus some 18 months ago, where 25,000 Romans chanted for two hours, "Great is Diana of the Ephesians" as they tried to silence Paul and his companions, it became more clear than ever what these disciples were up against. Rome was all powerful and all encompassing -- yet fearlessly they taught and testified, because they had seen their risen Lord fearlessly teach and testify. These believers had seen the impossible happen, and knew they were now part of that impossible as well.
Daniel PetersonApril 4, 2026
The editors of "Meridian" might be able to answer these questions; I didn't choose the illustration. From the look of it, I suspect that it's AI-generated.
Jeff TeichertApril 4, 2026
Thank you Juliann! I appreciate your seeing me.
Cameron DApril 4, 2026
I'm quite shocked at the picture being used as it is 100% incorrect. According to Scripture, it was Mary Magdalene and other women that found the tomb empty (John 20:1). She went and told Peter, they apparently did not care and went home (John 20:6-10). She went back to the tomb and it was Jesus that spoke to her. She believed. The disciples doubted. This image totally contradicts that.
Wanda MaeApril 3, 2026
May I ask who the artist is for the picture you used for your article, The Resurrection was so real, it Transformed ordinary Men into fearless Witnesses. What was the painting name? It really caught my attention in a very positive way. Thanks, Wanda
ShaunaApril 3, 2026
thank you--it's nice to have it all in one place
Traci WalkerApril 3, 2026
Oh, thank you. This is all of us. When we feel too empty to even feel like praying, when we feel too exhausted to open our scriptures, he is always there to heal our brokenness. Thanks for your vulnerability. It makes me feel like I am OK. I can hear your parents' eloquence and wisdom in you.
Valerie ShelleyApril 3, 2026
Can you identify the artist and name of the painting you used to illustrate this article? It's fabulous.
LoraApril 2, 2026
I've often wondered what would have happened if Judas had been able to just keep breathing for four more days. Maybe he would have seen his Risen Lord and received His forgiveness. Maybe he would have learned what the Messiah's role really was, redemption from sin and death, not redemption from Rome. Maybe the others would have been able to forgive him, too. Or not. But because he chose despair, we don't know.
JanApril 2, 2026
As a fellow LDS, active in our church for 50 years, what happened to your family and your whole ward sickens me. What is wrong with people that they let hatred and prejudice be their motivating factors?! Can’t everyone just have their own ideas on religion and let others have theirs? Satan has surely taken hold of people’s hearts, and their sanity. I am so sorry this happened to your family and grateful none of your injuries were life threatening. Remember, we know who wins in the end!
Chuck PlaudisApril 2, 2026
Thank you for another connection to Christ from the Old Testament.
Haze K.April 2, 2026
I loved this. What a new, unique thought about why the stone was rolled away and how we all have made our own tombs by not letting go of something. The most important sentence for me was the last one: "every life that turns toward Him to step out of the tomb into the light. Thank you
Kal- El Luke SkywalkerApril 2, 2026
Amen, Amen, Amen.
Robert MartinApril 2, 2026
As a member for over 60 years I have never seen such a growth in the Church. I thought it was only in our ward but it is happening all over the world. The Lord is gathering His sheep before He makes His triumphal return.Ii am looking forward to spending the millennium with Him and my beloved wife and family God bless all the wonderful missionaries.
JuliannApril 1, 2026
Beautiful article, beautiful poem. Thank you for testimony and the hope. You’ve certainly experienced and know how to succor.
JuliannApril 1, 2026
Should be required reading. Excellent article and perfectly articulated. We remember the feeling.
VRWApril 1, 2026
Another beautiful, open article from Kimberly. This article really hits home for me and I am grateful for reading this. The Atonement is very personal in its application and this article helps me see that. Thanks for sharing.
Valiant JonesApril 1, 2026
"I’ll have a home on earth with 2 altars in it: One where you promise to give everything you have to me, and another where I promise to give everything I have to you." What a wonderful insight into this connection between the endowment and sealings. Thank you!
Rochelle HaleApril 1, 2026
When I first heard the announcement, I thought it was an early April Fool's joke, but then I saw reports on several outlets. I have been a teacher in every organization except Elders Quorum. I welcome this change. For years, even prior to "Come, Follow Me," students were encouraged to study the lessons or Conference talks in advance of Sunday meetings. In my observation, this rarely happened, and many people still come expecting the teacher to do all the work. The advent of CFM, and especially during the Pandemic, made it even more appropriate that we take advantage of our at-home-church-supported gospel study. About a month ago our stake instructed each ward to put out a weekly email bulletin with not only Sunday schedules, but a full list of upcoming calendar information, contact information, and more. Granted, there are some who are not comfortable with electronic devices, but with printed manuals and Church magazines, very few should come to class unprepared. Teachers will probably have to confine their lessons to just a few meaningful points. I also see this as a plus as more callings are extended to fill additional teaching spots. We will need to keep chatter and announcements to a minimum and change rooms quickly as needed, especially assisting any brothers or sisters with special needs or visitors.
Joni HiltonMarch 31, 2026
I love learning about cool connections like this! Thank you.
Denise ChristensenMarch 31, 2026
Having the same problem . Can’t get the Exodus 1-6 when we click on the link. Any suggestions.
Haze K.March 31, 2026
Various sources on the numerology of the letter Heh with different assignments of the number https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/137077/jewish/Heh.htm https://hebrew4christians.com/Grammar/Unit_One/Aleph-Bet/Hey/hey.html https://biblicalhebrew.org/aleph-bet
Herm OlsenMarch 31, 2026
Excellent reminder to hear, to listen, to feel what our children are saying. My son loved Star Wars toys, and spent hours in fantasy adventures. I was a busy father with many children and just couldn’t ‘get into’ to the Star Wars stuff Instead, I directed him toward sports - which I loved and he hated. My bad. I regret not ‘watching the ducks’ with my son. Mercifully, he has forgiven me. Sometimes forgiving oneself is the harder task.
Haze K.March 31, 2026
This is one of your articles that I have enjoyed the most. So well organized and easily understood. Filled with ideas that have not crossed my mind before today. Pointing out each of the seven awakenings and the seven "I will" is so helpful. "The universe is God’s temple, but your soul is the Holy of Holies He desires to fill... With fire... the fire is not destruction. It is the presence of God." Knowing all of my weaknesses and flaws I've never considered a comparison of myself to a temple filled with His presence. Thank you especially for this article
HelenCMarch 31, 2026
Beautifully said. I can scarcely wait to hold my two angels again - almost more than I can wait to be in His arms again. I rely on Him to bring my wandering children and husband still here home with us. Thank you.
JoMarch 31, 2026
This is a wonderful article for parents and a tangible guide for connecting to our children.Thank you for writing it. It’s also an article that an adult child could weaponize against their parents to estrange themselves because they feel the parent didn’t meet these important measures of parenting, which some therapists are now encouraging adult children to estrange themselves if they had challenges or hurt feelings in their childhood. I am a single mom who raised my children with love and gave them everything I could. I was not perfect, but I stood by them in their challenges and helped them with their homework and tucked them in at night and tried to make good memories together, etc. Now, I have an adult child who has estranged himself and kept me away from my grandchildren because he has hurt feelings from his childhood from some of the things you mentioned that he feels I failed doing, so his therapist has encouraged him to protect his peace and walk away from me without the opportunity for me to listen to his feelings and try to repair. I encourage parents to apply the guidance and advice of this great article. But maybe you might consider writing one for adult children, expressing that parents are not perfect and God wants families to have grace and forgiveness to one another as imperfect humans and that communication goes both ways,etc. Whatever you think would help heal families when adult children estrange themselves from their families who love them. . Thank you for your insights.
Heather SmurthwaiteMarch 30, 2026
It is sweet and delicious to my soul to hear your perspective through your words -- such beautiful comparisons, piercing through our worldly concepts of today, and unveiling the deep meanings of the scriptures.
Bishop Kelly FaucetteMarch 30, 2026
As a Bishop in our ward, we have specifically asked the members to not make such comments to start their talk. I believe that starting with a scripture or a story of Christ is a much better way to start a talk. Good article on how we sometime are asked to do something hard, but I say Harrah for Israel. You can do it.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
Hmmmm....There is a key element missing in this comparison. Barabbas was not free spiritually---that comes only through repentance. Yes, he could walk away and live his life. But that is not the same as being truly saved by our Savior. Escaping consequences is temporary, and only become permanent through repentance and changing our lives through the power of Christ.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
I often read the words of the Sacrament hymns while the Sacrament is passed. It helps me to stay focused, and to really think about the deeper meanings of the lyrics. It has been a wonderful tool to draw me closer to the Savior and to remember Him.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
This article supports the importance of calming down and thinking about what we want to communicate BEFORE having the conversation. Sometimes it only takes a few seconds of thought to soften a message before we speak it. OR---to decide not to say it at all. In the past, I was quick to express my irritation with something trivial my husband said or did. I have come to realize that so many actions don't justify impatience or anger. When we really do need to discuss something important, taking time to calm down will make all the difference in the way we express ourselves, and leads to a peaceful outcome. It is a way we can follow the Savior, and express love.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
These are such excellent suggestions that encourage us to show compassion in the way we speak. Many of this counsel is also applicable to adult relationships. Shaming and punishing are never the solution.
MaryannMarch 30, 2026
My son experienced a similar situation. He chose to go to court---the judge made CLEAR to his wife the rules of visitation. That solved the problem, and it was NOT expensive. Perhaps it was some sort of mediation intervention. Since two years have passed since your divorce, I don't believe your actions alone will change your husband's behavior. You definitely need a mediator. You should not be in a position where you have to keep begging for the kid's clothes! After all this time, your husband is still determined to make you miserable. He knows exactly what he is doing. Do some digging and find out if there is a low cost way to settle this. Go prepared with a list of every way he is breaking the visitation agreement. Otherwise, this will continue to bog you down, and you have enough on your shoulders. You will be surprised at how quickly he backs down when he knows you have support and that you will not tolerate his behavior any longer.
SoniaMarch 30, 2026
What is the song Elder Hafen referred to in the podcast?
ShaunaMarch 30, 2026
wow--thank you for a mind blowing and life altering perspective
HelenCMarch 30, 2026
Thank you.
Larry TroxelMarch 30, 2026
Excellent observations and commentary Paul.
Lisa NemrowMarch 30, 2026
I am looking for the podcast for Exodus 1-6 and continue to get the podcast for Genesis. How do I get to Exodus?
Rhoda AndersonMarch 30, 2026
This is really beautiful. Thanks for spelling it out in words that are plain. It's always about relationship.
Corey D.March 29, 2026
Wonderful article with great insight but the bottom line to why there needs to be an atonement is law. Our Heavenly Father is a god of law and order and he would cease to be god if he were not. Law is broken and a price needs to be paid and our Savior paid the price. The atonement was done out of love but it was accomplished through perfect obedience, something we mortals are incapable of doing no matter how great our love may be for Heavenly Father and his son or for each other. You love your daughter, she loves you but you both fell short in the example you shared, for different reasons and different levels of understanding obviously but our Savior covers it all.
MicheleMarch 28, 2026
I've been through this, and when he remarried it became worse as she he let her take the reins. My suggestion is to put the concerns in writing. Can't mistake the written word, it's documentation if needed and it takes even more stress off of you since in a discussion you can be drawn in to an argument if his goal is to get under your skin, conscious of doing so or not.
Angel HerreroMarch 28, 2026
A couple of days ago, my wife and I were released from our missionary responsibilities. As I was going to do my study planning for the week; the Spirit was very clear: Angel, these next few days, please do not forget to review the last week of My Mortal Life. I think that this invitation, I want to share with you all; it will strengthen our testimony as we remember Him! And the Divine Love that has made our salvation possible.
Alvin H. AndrewMarch 27, 2026
I just realized my footnote 1 read rlejst.com. It should be [email protected]. Answering David Cook: I'm sorry, I do not know the answer to that question.
Karen WalkerMarch 26, 2026
Why can't I start the podcast from this page. Have it been put into a different place to begin listening to the podcast?
JBMarch 26, 2026
What incredible insights. My heart thanks you. It seems like, to me, that no matter how much I have repented and asked for forgiveness for my sins, that the consequences of my behavior just keep coming. Generational consequences. I will pray specifically that the healing balm of the Atonement of Jesus Christ will touch those affected.
David CookMarch 26, 2026
Is it possible that the origin story of the Moabites and Ammonites could have been a later invention by the Israelites to malign and discredit their longtime enemies?
Susan SiddowayMarch 26, 2026
This understanding of the Atonement is one of the best I have read. Jesus didn’t suffer for our weaknesses, pain, sorrow…if of our own doing, or that which we did to others, or them to us… but He suffers with us, healing us and them. Thank you for such great insights.
KMSMarch 26, 2026
I am deaf. I need the print out to read. Please, please have the podcasts in print. Thank you.
MegMarch 26, 2026
According to the Word of Wisdom (D&C 89:14,16) all grain is the "staff of life" and should be the foundation of our diet. Along with this we are told to eat wholesome vegetables (herbs) (v. 10) and fruits that are in season (v. 16.) Animal products are to be used sparingly, if at all (v. 12-13.) This advertisement, disguised as an article, is inaccurate and misleading.
KathleenMarch 25, 2026
Thank you for bringing to mind someone that at least I, hardly think about. Your perspective through Barabbas increases my gratitude for our Savior at this wonderful celebratory time of year.
Bruce HallMarch 25, 2026
Very thought provoking and causing introspection- never saw myself in Barabbas- but do now- thanks for the insightful article
Rochelle HaleMarch 25, 2026
I forgot to mention that "As Now We Take the Sacrament" is my favorite hymn. With a few minor word changes, it is an excellent song for a funeral to share a final testimony of Jesus Christ, His teachings, and the way [we] tried to live our lives.
Todd LillywhiteMarch 25, 2026
Thanks for this. I was especially piqued by this thought: "It is interesting to note that from Adam until Jesus Christ the firstborn son never inherited the covenantal birthright and patriarchal priesthood. This was generally because of their unworthiness or perhaps as we see in the case of Ishmael, they were not born to the first wife. Biblically it was always a younger son who obtained the covenantal priesthood birthright among whom were Abel, Seth, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph, and others." Interestingly, I had noticed a pattern. But, didn't take it so far as to study and find such cinsistency. Very interesting indeed.
Diane BlakelyMarch 25, 2026
For those of us who are very hard of hearing and rely on print, this was a disappointment. I like your lessons, but need the words in print.
Rochelle haleMarch 25, 2026
The sacrament is such an integral part of our Sabbath worship as we draw closer to Christ, reflect on His countless examples, remember our own covenants, and strive to always improve. A few weeks ago we attended a memorial on a Sunday for a relative who passed away. She had been a leader in many civic organizations, was an author and businesswoman, had worked as a realtor, and had become adept at riding motorcycles and flying small planes. Even when she moved to a retirement home, many people depended on her. Friends and colleagues gathered from many states to pay tribute. Because of the schedule we were not able to attend our own church services that day. The gathering for our relative opened with prayer and a blessing on the food, and the meeting was closed in prayer as well. People were considerate and well-groomed as we listened to wonderful stories and tributes. It almost felt like church, but something was definitely missing -- partaking of the sacrament and renewing our covenants. I prayed several times that day that my heart would be in tune with the Lord, that my attitude would be the same as if I had been able to attend church that day. Partaking of the sacrament the following week was even more meaningful.
KirkMarch 25, 2026
Thank you for the article! I experienced a similar sacrament meeting in my Idaho ward when I was a child. It made a big impression! Also, personalization of the pronouns in the sacrament is something I try to do as well. Your article and thoughts resonate with me today.
Lu BrowerMarch 25, 2026
Loved this insightful message. Gives me a whole new perspective. I really appreciate and enjoy this. Thank you
Raymond PineauMarch 24, 2026
Please show me in scripture where the "fruit " is said to be an apple. It is not there.
HelenCMarch 24, 2026
It is so easy to fall into the trap of longing for the past, of becoming lost in “if only”. I know it’s ungrateful and unproductive but it is a “known”. Seeking a new path in the future is so completely unknown, yet it is the only path we have access to. Thank you for the reminder.
HelenCMarch 24, 2026
As I seek to turn from my transactional relationship with God to a conventual relationship with Him I, too, find myself seeking more temporal rewards than spiritual ones. It’s so easy to focus on the hunger in our bellies rather than on the depth of our desire for the food that never runs out.
Herm OlsenMarch 24, 2026
Beautiful insights. I wish I had been more nurturing as a parent. Thank heaven my wife filled the void.
Kathe GreenMarch 23, 2026
What a blessing to be able to return to God with my sins forgiven, and to have the opportunity to leave the pain of my mistakes behind, through the glorious process of repentance. Thank you for the reminder of the processt, as I continue to aim to be free of the pains of past choices..
Gary StrobleMarch 22, 2026
The men in the illustration have shoes on, but the women are barefoot. Hmm.
SteveMarch 21, 2026
As difficult as addiction and betrayal are, recovery is always possible through the cleansing and healing power of the atonement of Jesus Christ !
SteveMarch 21, 2026
As a former therapist to sexual offenders in prison, I'm glad this podcast helps spouses who survive betrayal trauma recognize that p*rn*graphy has become a coping mechanism for emotional distress and is not the spouse's fault. However, it is important to understand that the viewer objectifies and sexualizes the people in those images. That brings arousal and physical release which activates the "feel good" chemicals of dopamine, epinephrine, and oxytocin. It is essential that the viewer find other coping strategies that will help them develop emotional resilience and strengthen the emotional foundation of their relationships.
Robert JohnsonMarch 21, 2026
God’s Son had pushed the earth apart And laid my finger on His heart! Christ’s death split the veil in two, And let the face of God shine through. —RMJ (Adapted in 2023 from the 1912 poem Renascence by EDNA ST. VINCENT MILLAY and D&C 138, 88 & 93) ATONEMENT AND RESURRECTION Easter asks us a question, is the joy of Sunday worth the pain of Friday? That's what Easter's all about. It's that question. Is the joy of Resurrection Sunday at the Garden Tomb worth the Atoning pain of Friday in Gethsemane and on the cross? Will the joy of our resurrection be worth the painful adversities of life? Jesus and the scriptures and the prophets (and Edna St. Vincent Millay) are going to say, "Yes, yes, it's worth it. —S. Michael Wilcox (Follow Him podcast New Testament Episode 19 part 2 edited by RMJ) It is also my testimony that it won’t be easy but it will be worth it. Our hereafter will depend on what we seek after here.
Jeff MorganMarch 21, 2026
A thoughtful and reflective article that offers meaningful insights with clarity and purpose. The message is both uplifting and practical, encouraging readers to apply these principles thoughtfully in everyday life. Herbs in this era are so important for health.
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
PETER’S DENIAL There are at least two different perspectives we may use to view Peter’s denial of Jesus. One possibility is that Peter disclaimed his acquaintance with Jesus because Jesus instructed him to do exactly that. To suppose that such a denial was based on cowardice or weakness is contrary to every other example of Peter’s personality and motives reported in the scriptures. In every other instance, Peter acted courageously, even impetuously, in his endorsement and protection of Christ. In fact, he was ready to kill to ensure his Master’s safety a short time earlier in Gethsemane. It is possible to read the text of the Savior’s declaration to Peter about the latter’s forthcoming denial as an instructional command rather than as a prediction. In other words, Peter may have been told to deny being associated with the Savior. That seems to be the line of reasoning followed by Elder Spencer W. Kimball in a magnificent address at Brigham Young University entitled Peter, My Brother. [President Kimball said; “Is it possible that there might have been some other reason for Peter’s triple denial? Could he have felt that circumstances justified expediency? When he bore a strong testimony in Caesarea Philippi, he had been told that “they should tell no man that he was Jesus the Christ” (Matthew 16:20). “When the three Apostles came down from the Mount of Transfiguration, they were again charged implicitly, “Tell the vision to no man, until the Son of man be risen again from the dead” (Matthew 17:9). Could Peter have felt this was not the time to tell of Christ? He had been with his Lord in Nazareth when the Savior was taken by his own people to the brow of the hill, “whereon their city was built, that they might cast him down headlong. But he passing through the midst of them went his way” (Luke 4:29–30). Surely Peter did not think of this escape as cowardice but as wise expediency. Christ’s time was not come.”] Elder Bruce C. Hafen has written: “Consider … the case of Peter on the night he denied any knowledge of his Master three times in succession. We typically regard Peter as something of a weakling whose commitment was not strong enough to make him rise to the Savior’s defense. But I once heard President Spencer W. Kimball offer an alternative interpretation of Peter’s behavior. In a talk to a BYU audience in 1971 President Kimball, then a member of the Council of the Twelve, said the Savior’s statement that Peter would deny him three times before the cock crowed just might have been a request to Peter, not a prediction. Jesus might have been instructing his chief apostle to deny any association with him in order to ensure strong leadership for the Church after the Crucifixion. “As President Kimball asked in his talk, who could doubt Peter’s willingness to stand up and be counted? Think of his boldness in striking off the guard’s ear with his sword when the Savior was arrested in Gethsemane. President Kimball did not offer his view as the only interpretation, but he did suggest there is enough justification for it that it should be considered. So what is the answer—was Peter a coward, or was he so crucial to the survival of the Church that he was prohibited from risking his life? … (Believing Heart, 57–58). Luke 22:61 records that “the Lord turned, and looked upon Peter,” and Peter remembered what Jesus … commanded him to do. Then the scripture notes that “Peter went out, and wept bitterly” (v. 62). Why would the chief apostle go out and weep bitterly if he was obeying an instruction from the Lord? The answer is—because it was simply not in Peter’s constitution, as we read everywhere else in the Gospels, to shy away from anything, in fear or cowardice. It is understandable that he would go out and weep bitter tears at being powerless to help his dearest Friend. Peter the Rock would be crushed bitterly by the suffering of Jesus that he could not help relieve. —Verse by Verse, The New Testament, Vol. 1 by Andrew C. Skinner, D. Kelly Ogden Luke 22:34 In this verse Jesus indicates that Peter will deny (disown) knowing Jesus. It is misleading to state that Peter denied Christ three times. Peter was not asked that night whether or not he believed that Jesus was the Christ; rather, the questions put to Peter had to do with his association with Jesus of Nazareth. Thus, it would be more accurate to say, "Peter denied knowing Jesus" … —A Companion to Your Study of the New Testament: The Four Gospels by Daniel H. Ludlow
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
God’s Son had pushed the earth apart And laid my finger on His heart! Christ’s death split the veil in two, And let the face of God shine through. —RMJ (Adapted in 2023 from the 1912 poem Renascence by EDNA ST. VINCENT MILLAY and D&C 138, 88 & 93) ATONEMENT AND RESURRECTION Easter asks us a question, is the joy of Sunday worth the pain of Friday? That's what Easter's all about. It's that question. Is the joy of Resurrection Sunday at the Garden Tomb worth the Atoning pain of Friday in Gethsemane and on the cross? Will the joy of our resurrection be worth the painful adversities of life? Jesus and the scriptures and the prophets (and Edna St. Vincent Millay) are going to say, "Yes, yes, it's worth it. —S. Michael Wilcox (Follow Him podcast New Testament Episode 19 part 2 edited by RMJ) It is also my testimony that it won’t be easy but it will be worth it. I conclude, where I started, with the theme for today. Our hereafter will depend on what we seek after here. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
What promised joy helped the Savior fulfill His sacrifice for us? (Hebrews 12:2) “Joy is powerful, and focusing on joy brings God’s power into our lives. As in all things, Jesus Christ is our ultimate exemplar, ‘who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross.’ Think of that! In order for Him to endure the most excruciating experience ever endured on earth, our Savior focused on joy! “And what was the joy that was set before Him? Surely it included the joy of cleansing, healing, and strengthening us; the joy of paying for the sins of all who would repent; the joy of making it possible for you and me to return home—clean and worthy—to live with our Heavenly Parents and families” (Nelson, “Joy and Spiritual Survival,” 82–83). October Conference 2016 —The New Testament Study Guide: Start to Finish by Thomas R. Valletta Joy is powerful, and focusing on joy brings God’s power into our lives. As in all things, Jesus Christ is our ultimate exemplar, “who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross.” Think of that! In order for Him to endure the most excruciating experience ever endured on earth, our Savior focused on joy! President Russell M. Nelson (October Conference 2016) In Latter-day Saint theology, Jesus Christ endured the agony of the Atonement, focusing on the "joy set before him" (Hebrews 12:2), which was the opportunity to cleanse, heal, and bring all humanity back to the Father. This joy includes redeeming humankind, fulfilling the Father's will, and bringing souls to repentance. Key aspects of the "joy" that motivated the Savior include: * Saving Souls: His joy is seeing us receive eternal forgiveness and returning home. * Our Happiness: The ultimate goal is that we might experience the fullness of joy and have our souls filled with His love. * Love for Us: The "joy set before him" is, in part, us—the opportunity to rescue and redeem his children. * The Power to Heal: His sacrifice allows Him to understand our trials and bring us peace. * Russell M. Nelson has called Jesus the "ultimate exemplar," who endured the most excruciating experience in history by focusing on the joy of making eternal life possible. ———————— My dear brothers and sisters, the joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.
Robert JohnsonMarch 20, 2026
Is it possible that there might have been some other reason for Peter’s triple denial? Could he have felt that circumstances justified expediency? When he bore a strong testimony in Caesarea Philippi, he had been told that “they should tell no man that he was Jesus the Christ” (Matthew 16:20). When the three Apostles came down from the Mount of Transfiguration, they were again charged implicitly, “Tell the vision to no man, until the Son of man be risen again from the dead” (Matthew 17:9). Could Peter have felt this was not the time to tell of Christ? He had been with his Lord in Nazareth when the Savior was taken by his own people to the brow of the hill, “whereon their city was built, that they might cast him down headlong. But he passing through the midst of them went his way” (Luke 4:29–30). Surely Peter did not think of this escape as cowardice but as wise expediency. Christ’s time was not come. From Peter My Brother by President Kimball
Heather SmurthwaiteMarch 20, 2026
Brother Degn, I absolutely love and delight in how you write -- pure poetry, including choice insights, scriptures, quotes from prophets, and the sheer joy of life! Thank you for lifting us.
ShaunaMarch 20, 2026
I love Peter--he is one of my heroes. What faith! what courage! what commitment to the Savior--he becomes a fearless witness after the Savior's ascension.. And remember that the Apostles didn't have the gift of the Holy Ghost until after Christ's Resurrection. And I have always loved Presdient Kimball's passionate defense of Peter. The Lord chose him to lead the Church after His death--need we say more?
ShaunaMarch 20, 2026
wonderful! thank you so much. I needed this as I came home from Church quite "frustrated" last week. It is absolutely true that if we want to be offended we should go to Church and rub up against all the other imperfect Saints. Our echo chambers don't allow for "offense" any more, different opinions, ideas etc. Your essay reminds me of Eugene England's book/essay, "why the Church is as true as the Gospel," but yours is more poetic Tomorrow is Stake Conference and we have just added 2 new wards and a Branch to our stake--lots of good opportunities to practice "the cosmic dance":)
Kenneth StevensMarch 20, 2026
I recall reading and learning a few years ago that the "cock-crow" was the "name" of the "trumpet call" that Roman soldiers used to inform soldiers when their "night-watch" changed around 2 am. It was a trumpet call and not a bird call.
C. BayMarch 20, 2026
I have so enjoyed this series of essays, written like a mix of Elder Maxwell and Elder Holland with just a pinch of Hugh Nibley and brimming with with hope and testimony.
Oakley EatonMarch 20, 2026
I love the insights of this article. My favorite part was “because we have walked with the One who does” Thank you
Mary AckermanMarch 20, 2026
It was the title. It came into my inbox. I was intrigued, so I brought the essay up and started reading. Interesting that it coincides with a Ward goal to increase joy in our Sacrament Meeting. I love this! I'll go back and catch up on the first four parts. Well done.
L.S.March 19, 2026
One of our granddaughters returned home after 7 months. Of her mission. She had amazing experiences as she served as a church service missionary to complete her 18 months at home. She became very close to the other service missionaries, and gave a wonderful returned missionary talk in her ward when her time was complete. She is a confident college grad now, married with a bright future!
HelenCMarch 19, 2026
And now I find myself asking, “What cost have I declined as too dear for His Salvation?”
Boanerges RubalcavaMarch 18, 2026
If Issac was a grown man when he was to be sacrificed, then it is even more remarkable Abraham's faith since he knew that the promise of many descendants was not to be jeopardize. At what age Issac had children?
David C Hobson, BS, DDS, MSMarch 18, 2026
I am an early return missionary. When I served, I simply didn't have the emotional strength to deal with the regular rejections incurred during knocking on doors! Which is how most of my time was spent. I recently made a visit to the chapel in Canada which was the appointed gathering place any time a visiting church authority visited. When I attended a sacrament meeting there, I started getting choked up, and by the time the meeting was half way through, I was visibly sobbing. And had no clue what was going on. As I thought about things further, I realized that 63 years before, President Henry D Moyle had stood at that pulpit and clearly stated that no missionary will ever rise to a greater height in his life than he does on his mission. I was feeling like a failure at the time, and that thought had lain there in my subconscious for over 60 years! In researching the internet, Moyle made that statement widely during his time in the first presidency when speaking to missionaries. I've obtained bachelors, masters, and doctoral degees. I've been blessed financially over my life. I've been successful in many other areas of endeavor. And I'm still struggling to come to terms with the conflicts created by Moyle's statement those many years ago! This comment is not intended for publication, but I'm open to talking with anyone interested in the topic. I don't believe that my experience is unique, and would like to contribute to others who are also struggling with an early return.
Rochelle HaleMarch 18, 2026
We live in an area that is prone to fires during hot weather and when we have high winds. About 6 years ago a fire burned over our local hills and was in walking distance of us, directly behind the home of friends. We packed our car to evacuate if need be for several reasons 1) to get out of harm's way if necessary 2) to drive to check on loved ones 3) to have essentials with us in case we were detoured or couldn't return home 4) for peace of mind. We have been admonished for years about 72-hour kits, but now we ALWAYS keep a bag in our cars because we never know what even short-term emergencies could come up, even in our daily commute and activities.
Elder Russell CannonMarch 18, 2026
Many missionaries that need to come home early take advantage of the opportunity to transfer home as a service missionary. They can complete their 24 or 18 months while still living at home. Their schedule can be flexible to accommodate doctors and counseling appointments. They continue to help others come into Christ by serving them with loving kindness as the savior would.
Donna PenningtonMarch 18, 2026
Wow! Beautiful piece such depth and talent t allowed me to savor what our Savior did for us!! Thank you!
WayneMarch 18, 2026
I am a man betrayed ‘twice’ by my wife. I have taken the counsel of priesthood leadership and tried to live the Doctrine of Christ. I wish there was some attention paid to “men.” It hurts like hell that no one in the Church offers help to the man. Women always help women. I was and have been abandoned by my priesthood leadership.
Teri N.March 18, 2026
Our oldest (daughter) also "went off the deep end". She has her own issues for this. It was a very long 10+ years of dealing with very passive aggressive, deceptive, manipulative behavior while at home, and then once she moved out it exploded. We still had two younger kids at home at the time she finally "ran away" from home (aged 20). This advice is spot on. Keep loving. Keep honoring individual agency. Keep teaching true gospel principles. And take those other kids under young wings during appropriate times and help them navigate what they are seeing their sister do. Not unlike how you teach them to recognize the Holy Ghost as they are growing up. We would help our younger kids recognize how their older sister would claim the happiness she was now feelings, yet also recognize how miserable she actually was, the lack of blessings she experienced (because all blessings are predicated upon obeidence to those laws upon which they are predicated), and the problems in life that her choices brought about. We express how we continue to love her, forgive her, and pray for her, but she has her agency and this is the path she has chosen to learn. The real question for them is: Which path do they want to take to learn? Do they want a lack of joy, to feel such frustration and sadness each day, to have to lie about being happy, and to not have the blessings we all desire? Thankfully, our two younger children learned quickly through her example that that was not the path they wanted. They recognized for themselves how miserable her life was, and that when they chose to keep covenants and follow the Lord, they felt the joy and received the blessings, and that is what they wanted more of. Now, they could have still chosen a different path, so I'm not saying it always turns out this way. But thankfully, this time it did. Both of them are adult, one married, and they all living their temple covenants. Sadly, our oldest (about to turn 36) is still living in the Great and Spacious Building - but through much prayer and personal revelation I have come to understand from the Lord that this is her path, her choice, and that He has His eye on her. Things will turn out as best they can according to what she is willing to live up to. And we will all have peace and great joy over the final outcome on the other side. One thing I was taught: Our Heavenly Parents are not sitting up in heaving being miserable for all eternity over the 1/3 of Their children whom They lost in the war in heaven. Should any of our children end up in less than highest degree of the Celestial Kingdom, it will be ok - we will still have great joy - and they will have the joy they are willing to have - and we can rejoice for they are not in outer darkness and we, who keep our sealing/temple covenants WILL get to see them anytime we wish in eternity (while they will not get to see us anytime they want, because of the choices they made - but His promise to us will still hold, we do get to visit them). All will turn out well in the end. Even the least of the Telestial Kingdom is more glorious than we have the capacity to imagine. ALL will be well and we will all be happy and overjoyed with how things turn out. Meanwhile - keep talking with the younger siblings, help them see the effects of walking away from the covenant path, to remember to honor agency, and to have faith in Christ, not anyone else, and know that in the end (which is what really counts) all will turn out as it should and we'll happily accept it and agree with it! There is ALWAYS hope!
JKMarch 17, 2026
Please Elder Rasband, if you are reading this, FIX the Pathways system. I cannot get in. I've been trying for over two years. There's no one to talk to, there's no way to fix my unique (but probably happening to many others like me) issue. The software programming issues are real and have been a big hinderance. Please help.
Cody HMarch 17, 2026
Thank you for highlighting the changes to the food pyramid! I am glad they finally are beginning to match scientific studies as well as revelation in the Word of Wisdom. The Word of Wisdom is so much more than the don’ts! It’s interesting to note how the prophets love the Word of Wisdom. Brigham Young had a lot to say about the Word of Wisdom. …”I tell them to do so, but give me a piece of Johnny-cake [cornbread]; I would rather have it than their pies and tarts and sweet meats. Let me have something that will sustain nature and leave my stomach and whole system clear to receive the Spirit of the Lord and be free from headache and pains of every kind (DBY, 189) - from Teachings of the Presidents: Brigham Young Chapter 29. And President Nelson had many anecdotes about good eating, exercise, and moderation. There’s a really interesting book that dives into the Word of Wisdom called “The Word of Wisdom: Health, Healing, and the Destroying Angel” by a Jordan and Cassidy Gunderson. This book totally changed the way I looked at that D&C 89.
AleceMarch 16, 2026
I have celebrated Passover as a Latter-day Saint for over 40 years—with as many as 150 participants for an EFY program in my Stake to just my husband and I during Covid. I don’t t consider an Easter Season to be fulfilled without celebrating Passover and sharing it with friends and relatives. AND —I also celebrate and teach others about The Feast of Tabernacles in the fall These feasts belong to all if the tribes of Israel!! Celebrating them helps us learn about Christ —who also celebrated these feasts during HIs life on earth.
Glenda PeckhamMarch 16, 2026
This is one of the most beautiful articles I have ever read. It opens a new perspective on following our Father's will and not ours. It truly adds insight on the need to follow our Father as our Savior has done. Thank you!
Jen AshcraftMarch 15, 2026
Jocelyn, thank you for sharing your beautiful experience with Justus. It has brought us so much comfort and joy. You were a bright light to him and he admired you so much. Leading up to the anniversary of his death I was really struggling and was dreading the day. My husband had decided a few months before that we should do his temple work on the anniversary of his death. It was a most remarkable experience and I could feel him and his infectious energy and joy the whole time we were in the temple. That day I had been dreading turned out to be a day of rejoicing for me! I felt his joy and love the whole time! It wasn't a coincidence that you received your endowment that same day. It absolutely makes sense that he would plead to be able to minister to you as a guardian angel. He always cared so deeply for his friends. Thank you for your goodness, your loving and accepting spirit and your beautiful testimony.
Heather OsmondMarch 15, 2026
I am proud to heed the invitation…Here am I send me! We love you Jocelyn!
SharonMarch 15, 2026
Thank you for sharing your story. It is so inspiring. The Lord’s hand is in the details of our lives. It was not a coincidence that JB’s family was in the temple that day.
Sandi HendersonMarch 15, 2026
So inspiring!! We all are sent to earth for a Heavenly Purpose!!
Trudy BrimbleMarch 15, 2026
Sister Osmond. You are a light shining in the darkness. A light that will bring many to Christ. A beacon of hope and love. Shining for the world to see. So proud of you. We are all broken, but here’s the best thing, we are loved. Jesus gave his life because he couldn’t face eternity without us. Love you. Go get em. ♥️♥️ Trudy Brimble. Mansfield UK
Marilyn GilletteMarch 14, 2026
Beautiful and so inspiring. Thank you for sharing.
HelenCMarch 13, 2026
My youngest son, George, died from cancer before he could serve. I have felt him doing Missionary work with my father. Maybe he and JB will be companions?
JeffMarch 13, 2026
Thank you!
Lisa EdwardsMarch 13, 2026
Your beautiful testimony really touched me and brought tears. You are such a light to the world and I love your story. I hope that in the future, we can hear more about your experiences on your mission. Thank you so much for sharing your faith!!
BrentMarch 13, 2026
That is a very powerful story and witness of Christ, his power to heal, and the blessings of angels. Thank you for sharing
BeckyMarch 13, 2026
Absolutely inspiring!! Thank you for your testimony of our Savior and for sharing your hope and faith in Christ. You are a great missionary.
Kay Wiemer GerkeMarch 12, 2026
So beautifully written! This is the most effective message I have ever read to motivate others to write and record things that matter about our life experiences. Thank you, Tanya.
Terry DickensMarch 12, 2026
I just read this article, and it truly resonated with me. I recently completed a book of my life experiences—about 80 short chapters reflecting on family, faith, and many meaningful moments from more than 80 years. It is not a chronological history, but a collection of stories that offer small glimpses into the life I have been blessed to live. My hope is that articles like this will encourage others to record their own experiences and insights to bless their children, grandchildren, and generations yet to come.
KathrynMarch 12, 2026
I was disappointed in this article, but not because I disagree with the basic premise (not celebrating harm to one's enemies). I'm disappointed because it's yet another attack from another angle against very human leaders who are trying their best to defend freedom in our nation and in the global community. It also felt like the words quoted were in some cases being skewed to prove the author's point. It would have been better to look for and acknowledge the good that's being done instead of jumping on the criticism bandwagon. I believe negative, disparaging words from all sides are ripping our nation apart far more than any leadership actions or policies.
Debbie UllrichMarch 12, 2026
That was so informative, and interesting! Thank you very much for all your research and knowledge--
Lawrence BarryMarch 12, 2026
Well said ,thank you. Since 2013 I have self-published 8 books on my life and family history and given them to my 5 children and 33 grandchildren so they will know who I was, what I believed, what challenges I faced and most importantly my faith and trust in God.
MarciMarch 11, 2026
I always LOVE Becky's articles. She's amazing!!!
CynthiaMarch 11, 2026
Becky, once again you have taught pure doctrine and have uplifted and inspired us!! Thank you for your wonderful example of service among the leprosy affected.
LewisMarch 11, 2026
What a wonderful article, and what beautiful thoughts. It exemplifies the life of the Savior, who spent his entire ministry serving others. I am so grateful for your extraordinary ability to gently guide us along the Savior’s path through these fabulous stories. Thank you for using and sharing your gift.
Mr. WarsawMarch 11, 2026
Great article. Thomas Sharpe's home is still there at 701 Water Street. The original Warsaw House hotel was torn down 1899 and the new new Queen Anne style home was built in 1904. The back part of it home was built in 1860. Still the historic site but none of the original 1840s era Warsaw House still stands. This is from the History of Warsaw by Brian Stutzman.
JoëlMarch 11, 2026
Excellent conseil ️..
Susan KnightMarch 10, 2026
Where do I find previous chapters?
Jane GonzalezMarch 10, 2026
Elder and Sister Rasband’s presentation was wonderful! I truly enjoyed it and the stories for their ancestors was inspiring! Thank you so much!
JuliannMarch 9, 2026
There is so much we can say and so little we can’t say about the temple experience that no one should go in cold and come out confused and clouded. The initiatory ordinance , for the women is a history lesson; that we are now participating in the same basic ordinance that Aron and his sons participated in and you can read it in the book of exodus. The washing and anointing grant us discernment, cleanse us from the blood and sins of this generation ( that’s a huge gift) and then go on to bless us with health of mind and body.and again discernment. Then we are given reasons to help encourage us to wear the garment. . In the endowment we get information that we are told not to share outside of the temple. Keep those sacred. But discuss the garden of Eden; the five laws we covenant/promise to keep; research the temple clothing and why it’s worn. The prayer circle is a way to serve and save those having crisis of health,,crisis of faith, life crisis. All the hand signals are there to remind us and call in our faith on behalf of those who names lie on the alters, alters plural, of the temple. The veil is our opportunity to practice all we just learned in the presence of God the father and then enter into his pre. Sure there are representative in his roll but crossing through that veil is literally crossing into his presence. All that I have shared can be shared and discussed in the Celestial room. Quietly of course. And it can be discussed outside the temple reverently. Just don’t share the few parts you promise not to share.—signs and tokens . We make it way to complicated and way to secretive in our effort to keep it sacred.,
K TaylorMarch 9, 2026
We live in the era of king men as described in the books of Alma and Helaman in the Book of Mormon. Unfortunately our own President and his supporters have fallen into that terrible trap. I do not believe it will end well. It never does.
Becky LondonMarch 9, 2026
I first went to the temple prior to my mission in 1974. There were no temple prep classes. My parents weren't members, and my Relief Society President shared what she could. My seminary teacher's wife was my escort, and my best friend was married the same day. Was it strange? Yes, Did it affect my testimony? Absolutely not! We couldn't have been expected to learn and understand everything on one visit (or many visits). Fortunately, I was able to attend several more times before departing for my mission. We have seen amazing, inspired changes to temple ceremonies (NOT THE DOCTRINE) over the last several years, many of which were instituted when I served as a temple worker. The endowment is much easier to understand, and we have been given counsel to speak more freely about some aspects of temple worship and instructions. I have also seen friends and family leave the church (or just not go to the temple) after only attending a time or two. We should do more to encourage our young people, have them attend the temple preparation course or review online, help them understand the covenants they will receive, and also help them get excited about doing family history in order to take or submit names to the temple.
Corey D.March 8, 2026
I have liked what has been shared in these articles and feel the same desire to share what I have learned about life, parenting, the church, the spirit, marriage etc., but it's really difficult, whenever we all get together which isn't really very often, the minute I say I'd like to share something or start to relate an experience or something, my children and their spouses, eyes start to roll and there is like this zoning out or immediate transference of their minds to another sphere. The grandkids are another story, the minute they walk in the door they scatter to find a corner and pull out their phones. I just finally decided or should say felt impressed this last year that we just need to get with each grandchild one on one if we can because it's just gonna get harder and harder the older they get, the two oldest grandkids are in college now. We managed last year to take our two oldest granddaughters to dinner for their 18th birthdays and it worked out pretty good, we had a nice time and some good conversations.
Alvin H AndrewMarch 8, 2026
Well said brother Dan. I too have been put off by the glee we are so prone to express at the misfortune and perhaps on occasion the justifiable loss of another human's life. It is a time for quiet, gentle remorse for having to end the life of any of God's children. I often reflect on the magnanimity of Captain Moroni and later Captain Mormon as they tried desperately to preserve the lives of those so intent on ending their lives. They took no joy in what they had to do. Again, well said. Thank you for reminding us.
Rhoda AndersonMarch 8, 2026
Wow-- great thoughts! Thanks for putting this into words. I'm saving this one in my files!
Corey D.March 8, 2026
A very good article with great introspective and application, very thoughtful and well expressed, thank you.
Bishop Cáit FinneganMarch 8, 2026
My grandmother read the story of Conor Mac Nessa as told in Sullivan's epic poem "The Death of King Conor Mac Nessa." I was 5 years old. I was shaken by it I asked her to read it to me every day. It set my young heart on fire with a love of God that led me to want to follow Christ for life. The poem still stirs my blood. Today I am an old priest and my heart still burns with the same love I heard in that story as a child when my old grandmother read it to me. It was bardic, poetic catechism and it worked. God touches us in many ways. Poetry, story, music and song all are prayer and all open us to hear the Voice of God if we listen. The love of God still shakes the ground we walk on and, if we are sensitive enough to it, it will guide our lives.
KathleenMarch 7, 2026
Another incredible description - your artistic gift. I love this Church history site and felt the spirits of the past and their lives, as we visited and stayed, one Christmas season.
C. BayMarch 6, 2026
I second Paul Bishop's comment. Many of the comments coming from Secretary Hegseth and the president are more appropriate to teenagers playing video games than adults who are blighting or ending real people's lives. Our leaders need to learn the difference.
Norine McClureMarch 6, 2026
When will transcripts of his podcasts be available on-line?
Paul BishopMarch 6, 2026
Thank you for voicing my frustration with the boasting rhetoric as it relates not just to the current situation with Iran, but with so many other incidents domestically. I'd like to rant and rave further, but would end up blunting my point...
Douglas HighamMarch 5, 2026
Thought provoking article, Mark. Thanks for sharing!
C. J.March 5, 2026
My son's friend left the church shortly after she was sealed in the Temple. She was married three days before COVID shut all the Temples down and never got to go back. Many of her friends that were married in the Temple have all left the Church. They all use the Temple as their excuse for leaving and now opening mock the Church as being secretly misogynistic and using the Temple to brainwash women into blindly following the leaders of the Church and that it is only about men having total power over women. The sad part is that I really don't know how they think that and see that conclusion. I know that my wife was extremely overwhelmed and really struggled with the Temple her first time, but as we kept going back, the more she really saw the true meaning and purpose that women have as Daughters of God and how glorious that is to know. I really think that the as parents that we really need to be very open and frank as to what goes on in the Temple with our children even more than what is given in the Temple Prep classes. They, especially our daughters, need to know how it strange it will feel the first few times going from us. We need tell them as much as we are are allowed to say (and there is a lot we can too) so that when they go, they are not real surprised by what happens. I grew up in the 1970s-80's in a household (as did my wife and most of my friends) where asking questions about the Temple ceremonies was always met with an answer like "those things are sacred and we don't discuss them outside of the Temple" and nothing more. As Temple going members, we need to do better than our parents did in preparing this generation for Temple worship.
Romney BiddulphMarch 5, 2026
The Restored Church of Jesus Christ believes in the Christianity of the New Testament era. Catholics and Protestants believe in Fourth Century Creedal Christianity. Here are the beliefs of Christians of the New Testament era: 1. Baptism by immersion by the father (who has the authority) of the family 2. Lay, married clergy 1st Timothy 3:2, 4:33. Baptism by proxy for deceased ancestors 1 Corinthians 15:29 4. God and Jesus organized the world, rather than creatio ex nihilo. 5. Belief in a tripartite anthropomorphic Godhead, as witnessed by the Apostle Stephen. Acts 7: 55-56 6. Belief in theosis (that faithful Christians can acquire god-like attributes). 1st Corinthians 8: 5-6. All early Christian leaders believed in theosis. 7. Belief in God’s Plan of Salvation, given by Jesus Christ to the Apostles during the 40 days after His Resurrection. (Sophia Jesu Christi) 8. Belief in sacred esoteric ordinances which allow faithful Christians to ascend to the highest heaven. Cyril, Bishop of Jerusalem, administered these ordinances until 350 AD. (Catechetical Lectures 20 and 23). 9. Belief in Eternal Marriage, as recorded in the Book of the Apostle Philip. 70:20 Temples teach of 3), 4), 5), 6), 7), 8), and 9) TinyURL.com/EvidencesOfTheRestoredChurch
Alison SelfridgeMarch 5, 2026
I read all your articles. This one is particularly beautiful. Thank you.
Heather KirkMarch 5, 2026
Thank you for sharing this powerful perspective. I think many people can relate to the concept of wanting to keep their relationship with God above the mess of everyday life. Imagine getting a new pair of high-performance hiking shoes but never wearing them on the dusty, rocky trails for fear of getting them dirty or wearing them out. If we don't put those shoes on and get out there to brave the peril and imperfections of the world, we may feel "safe" for a time. But we'll miss out on so much, more than we realize, and more than we would ever choose if we could see the end from the beginning. Thanks for the reminder to take to the trails, brave the climbs, and embrace the dirt, sweat and tears, together with our fellow travelers. The triumph of reaching the summit awaits us all.
Robert M. JohnsonMarch 5, 2026
NO ORDINARY PEOPLE “... the dullest most uninteresting person you talk to may one day be a creature which, if you saw it now, you would be strongly tempted to worship. . . There are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal. . . ” —C.S. Lewis, (The Weight of Glory) SEE PEOPLE AS THEY CAN BECOME We must develop the capacity to see [others] not as they are at present but as they may become when they receive testimonies of the gospel of Christ. —President Thomas S. Monson (October Conference 2012) “Each of us is a son or daughter of God, endowed with something of his divine nature. Each is an individual entitled to expression and cultivation of individual talents and deserving of forbearance, of patience, of understanding, of courtesy, of thoughtful consideration.” —President Gordon B. Hinckley BECOMING LIKE GOD (True Evolution - See D&C 50:24) 24 That which is of God is light; and he that receiveth light, and continueth in God, receiveth more light; and that light groweth brighter and brighter until the perfect day. LIKE A RIVER - A BETTER DEFINITION OF THE NATURAL MAN (The Evolution Process) Being a natural man does not mean being born inherently evil or really troublesome or bad people. The natural man means something like natural resources, like a river. We need to shape it and discipline it. Dam it a little bit here or encourage it a little bit there where it might need to be a little bit more free flowing. [Being a natural man means] working with a wonderful resource that is potentially powerful and a beautiful terrifically constructive thing. [We] have this natural capability [to become like God] and we're supposed to shape it in the way we tame a river and other natural gifts. Don't be to hard on yourself and surely don't be to hard on other people. Steer that natural gift into a wonderful very attractive aspect of a Latter-day Saint's life. —Elder Jeffery R. Holland (See For Times of Trouble DVD,3)
JuliannMarch 5, 2026
Beautiful insights well articulated. Thank you
Marjorie BriggsMarch 5, 2026
Beautiful story of the history of the city of Nauvoo and it's restoration. I also wept reading this account thank you for bringing back memories from visiting this beautiful city years ago.
HelenCMarch 5, 2026
Thank you gibbing such clear pictures of a place I yet hope to visit, of not in this life, perhaps as I leave for another?
Kent BucknerMarch 4, 2026
The series is interesting BUT...Bro. England begins to mumble and I am constantly adjusting the volume to hear him, and then I have to reduce it because it is too loud. Please speak up and keep the volume constant. Thanks.
ScottMarch 4, 2026
Thank you for sharing your experience with the temple. I too felt the same when I received my endowment in 1976. I wondered then if I was in the wrong place. Fortunately I went on my mission and didn’t worry about it until I came home. Then it was not until 35 years later that I became an ordinance worker in the salt lake temple and memorized the complete endowment that I began to see the endowment as it was meant. Now with all the changes it is so much more meaningful. Now as a temple prep instructor as well as an ordinance worker this gives me a f different view of those who struggle and how I might help them understand. Thank you for your wisdom and again for sharing. I attended the Billings temple just last week. One of my favorite temples. The workers were so warm my and friendly. Nothing revelatory just a spiritual experience.
Thad HartmanMarch 4, 2026
Brother Peterson, I enjoyed your article. I have been to Nauvoo experienced the nuances of the city and surroundings. What are your thoughts about Nightfall at Nauvoo?
John BurrowsMarch 4, 2026
Great insights, Mark. I think the church of the devil is found in many forms today, but you have made great points that I would agree with. Your stories add greatly to the article and to your strong testimony of Jesus Christ!
Peter FaggMarch 4, 2026
nicely worded and some great avenues of thought. Thanks
JopkinsMarch 4, 2026
Thank you for sharing Thomas Kanes experience. I also have had the privilege of visiting Nauvoo on several occasions. His recap is beautiful.
Sherie SeegmillerMarch 4, 2026
Great insight.
Roberta HarrisMarch 4, 2026
Such a wonderful article! Thank you Mark. Another great one of yours to discuss in our family.
Charles McClellandMarch 4, 2026
I wept as I read this eloquent description of the sacred city of Nauvoo. Thank you Brother Peterson for sharing this article with us - it is a beautiful gift!
Robert DuzettMarch 3, 2026
Amazing stories, and inspired insight! Thank you Brother Stoddard for your article.
Robert ArbuckleMarch 3, 2026
Mark, really enjoy your life’s experiences. Hope you keep sharing them
David A CookMarch 3, 2026
I believe the church of the devil, like Christianity, has many denominations: Any organization, worldview, belief system, or person that puts itself in place of God as the ultimate source of truth and direction as to how to live your life is one of them. God's church works to build God's eternal family by binding us to Him and each other. That is His "work and glory." Satan's work is the exact opposite: Anything that tries to destroy those relationships is doing the work of the devil.
Paul BishopMarch 3, 2026
Excellent commentary as usual from this contributor...
Robert M. JohnsonMarch 2, 2026
Lot’s wife returned to Sodom A reading of Luke 17:29–32 suggests that she did not just “look back”; she apparently went back. Interestingly, the Qur’an also refers to Lot’s wife, she being “of those who stayed behind” (Verse by Verse, The Old Testament Vol. 1 by Andrew C. Skinner, D. Kelly Ogden)
Jan KuesterMarch 2, 2026
I appreciate this article but see nothing about Loy’s wife longing for riches, etc.. she has left family behind and as a mother and grandmother I come to the same conclusion as mentioned above as to why Lot’s wife looked back with longing. My heart of love for God and for following His commandments and guidance have my feet on the covenant path but my mother’s heart longs and aches because my children and grandchildren have chosen not to follow the gospel. In any case she was cursed and this is a tragedy.
BarbaraMarch 2, 2026
I, too, suspect this is the reason that Lot's wife looked back - she most likely was grieving the loss of daughters and grandchildren that are now gone.
Rochelle HaleMarch 2, 2026
I covered this section of the lesson in our study group last week. I was impressed to share that we need to be mindful of temptations and snares that lie ahead of us. Leaving the past doesn't necessarily mean we are home free. This could compare to the story of Esau in this week's lesson. Why did he want to give up his birthright? Because the enticements of the world and present circumstances became more important to him and more easily attainable than the promised eternal blessings later on.
Laurisa ReyesMarch 2, 2026
Genesis says nothing about why Lot’s wife looked back. Everything we’ve been taught to believe are assumptions passed down from hundreds of years of tradition and interpretations. What the bible does say is that Lot tried to convince his sons-in-laws to leave Sodom but they thought he was crazy. Sons-in-laws implies DAUGHTERS. Lot & his wife and two younger daughters left but other daughters, married daughters and possibly grandchildren, were left behind. Lot’s wife looked back - possibly because she knew her kids and grandkids were dying. What mother wouldn’t have looked back? It’s far more telling that Lot, a man and a father, did not look back. I think it’s time to look at this story in a whole new light.
RosieMarch 2, 2026
Thank you for the article and thank you for the comments as i never stop comparing myself to others no matter how I try, a true thief of joy. Yes ,I pray the prayer of mercy often. BTW as a young married in Hugh Nibley's ward I would observe him not stopping his scribbling or reading when the sacrament was passed with any degree of observance, but matter of factly and for my learning that none of us are perfect. This helped me avoid worshipping important people. Whitney Houston was wrong, 'loving ourself isn't the greatest love of all', which came out during that era, and humanism would have us worship humans (ourselves and others) if only we are great enough.
Dave MFebruary 28, 2026
Insightful article that makes several relevant points, thanks! But it skates over an increasingly important issue. Decades ago political parties were an opportunity for like-minded people to work together to further their common views and priorities. Now, I think parties are the source of the division and contention that is weakening our society. The parties determine the priorities and position on issues, not the people, and that drives everything to the extremes. The parties' goal is to gain or maintain power by electing party members, rather than support policies that benefit the people. The majority party does everything it can to silence the minority, like gerrymandering, and abandoning the two best principles to come from the Constitution (separate but equal branches of government, and the necessity to compromise). The current US President says he hates his opponents in the other party, and doesn't even pretend to be the President of all the people. I bet everyone in Utah (of both major parties) has family and friends that they love who belong to the other party. So where does this animosity come from? Some clearly from party and elected officials trying to maintain power. A recent university study also showed that social media and comment boards have been infiltrated by paid foreign agitators trying to weaken our society by making outrageous comments on both sides of contentious issues. Whatever the cause, our society is suffering. How about another essay to cover that?
Dave MFebruary 28, 2026
Maryann, I don't think it's correct to say the party supports abortion - I don't belong to that party, but I think the party supports a woman's right to choose whether or not to have an abortion. Some young women are reported to be choosing between abortion and suicide, and that is tragic. The Church supports certain exceptions to abortion bans, and Pres. Oaks teaches that we can't seek to impose our will on others ("Principled accommodation", not specific to the abortion issue). Alma 5:62 reinforces that teaching. I think most people wish there were no abortions, but we don't know others' circumstances. That's why God gives us opposition and moral agency, so we can choose and be judged on our choices by one who is full of grace and truth (not by other equally flawed people).
Corey D.February 27, 2026
One of the solutions or I should say one of the things that would help in our present political problems/stalemates is we need to get away from the idea that there is only two viable parties, we need a good strong third or even fourth party. I have voted 3rd party in a number of presidential elections, knowing full well it was a losing cause but I believe I am under moral obligation to vote for the best candidates as I see fit. The prophet Joseph was unhappy with what he saw politically and formed his own party which had a platform of principles he felt were moral and were in keeping with what our founding fathers had intended.
Michelle LlewellynFebruary 27, 2026
Not sure what fantasy world the author is living in because anyone who has served a full time LDS mission (especially in the USA or Europe) could not swing a dead cat without running into the awkward situation of cohabitation, men and women having children with multiple partners and just how fast an investigator found an excuse to stop taking the discussions when the subjects of keeping and following God's Law of Chastity commitment and their interest in eternal families that can only happen by a man and woman marrying in the temple. It was very discouraging to me when I came home fom my mission in 1999 to realize marriage and family formation the Lord's way was just another of Satan's brilliant tactics to win the war. And its working!
T. DorenboschFebruary 27, 2026
The church lessonsbook of this week is about Genesis 24-33. Next week is about Genesis 37-41. I hope you will follow the lessonsbook of the church and talk about Genesis.
HelenCFebruary 27, 2026
Thank you for reminding us that personal revelation is an ongoing, fluid gift and that when we experience a brush with darkness we may actually be getting closer to the light.
JuliannFebruary 27, 2026
Having your grandkids share their real life experiences is what’s going to sell this book. Their honest introspection will be a blessing to other kids. I will buy the book and read these shared stories to my grandkids. Thank you.
Rob JamesFebruary 27, 2026
The issue for me is I live overseas now for the past 15 years and there is no LDS church within 600 miles and the church stopped updating online services. So I feel no use to continue on with the church anymore since I probably will never be able to attend one ever again in person. If there was a virtual LDS ward that would be perfect for people in my situation.
Bob SpielFebruary 26, 2026
You blessed my life as a teenager with "I Challenge You, I Promise You." Excited to see how your wisdom can bless my life again...now at the grandpa stage of life. Thank you!
Glen HopkinsonFebruary 26, 2026
Several of the articles are headlined with art that appears to be AI generated. What is your policy of AI art? Do you credit the artists?
Brad BFebruary 26, 2026
This is an inspired parable that will teach the true meaning of "missing the mark." Thank you for sharing. And I thank you for my grandchildren.
Douglas K ThompsonFebruary 26, 2026
Looking at the full tale, she missed blaming her weakness, and was counseled. The next attempt she missed blaming the wind, and was counseled. Another attempt hit the target but not the right mark, more lessons and counsel. Another mark (cross) drawn, another miss but much closer (a fingers bredth away). This tale does not end here - it's open to pondering. Perhaps through humble repentance, continued study, application of lessons learned, perseverance in honing our abilities . . . we will hit the mark someday. Until then, strive to improve every day...
David PreeceFebruary 25, 2026
The article left out a part of the First Presidency admonition that is just as important. It encouraged members to study candidates carefully and to vote for those demonstrating integrity, compassion and service to others — regardless of party affiliation.
JillFebruary 25, 2026
From way back in the 1970s I understand that Pres James E. Faust and also Dr Hugh Nibley were Democrats.
ShaunaFebruary 25, 2026
thank God for Elder Gilbert and President Holland. It broke my heart to read President Holland's lament about BYU to Elder Gilbert, and I'm SO grateful that President Holland came down in 2021 and reset the standard at BYU. No one loved BYU more than him--no one. I'm an alumnus with 2 BYU degrees, and have 2 kids there now. I have a graduate degrtee from another private university and pursued doctoral work at yet another. the author understands academia well. I couldn't understand why there were "critics" of Elder Gilbert, but now I get it. So grateful for the Board of Trustees (leadership of the Church) standing firm on doctrinal orthodoxy and for Elder Gilbert and President Shane Reese, who is personally involved in 50% of BYU faculty hires, and his academic vice president, in the other 50%. I am so grateful that my kids are at BYU now when they are "bowling for a strike." There is no justification for BYU, or other Church sponsored institutions if they don't align with the teachings and doctrines of the Church
Sasha KwapinskiFebruary 25, 2026
When I first arrived at BYU in the early 1970's, there were several big-name Democrats in Utah politics. These included Govs. Calvin Rampton and Scott Matheson. Also, Sen. Frank Moss, and Congress members Jim Matheson (Scott's son), Wayne Owens, and Gunn McKay.
Mary aHunsingerFebruary 25, 2026
Are you aware Presidents Eyring, Uchdorft and Anderson are listed as Independents? Some of us just can’t put our names on either of the two major political parties list without feeling we are endorsing their policies.
MaryannFebruary 24, 2026
I am all for loving everyone, regardless of their political party, but HOW can a member of the church support a party that has REPEATEDLY supported abortion????????? This party will not even modify their stance or engage in ANY compromise. It is unfathomable to many members of the church. And, NO ONE needs to guess which party I am referring to. I do not wish make a personal attack, to persecute, or to harm. However, it is very understandable that many members of the church are shocked at such support.
ColinFebruary 24, 2026
Thank you, thank you! Some articles by otherwise faithful people on this site have vilified "the left," homogenizing a great variety of viewpoints. But in this article I can feel the goodies of your heart and your desire to make peace. Bravo!
David A CookFebruary 24, 2026
The real "culture of fear" comes from the other side. Too many academics and others are afraid of voicing opinions supporting the church's positions lest their careers be harmed. And with good reason. My question for those within the church who bemoan Elder Gilbert's call is: "Where do you think the call came from?" If it was the only the choice of a bunch of out-of-touch old men, why do you stay in such an organization? On the other hand, if it was by inspiration from God, why are you complaining? You are either in a church you don't really believe in, or you are in opposition to apostles and prophets led by Jesus Christ.
MargaretFebruary 24, 2026
WOW! Thank you for this wonderful, heartfelt, insightful and informative article. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I would hope that all would be gracious and try to see another side to everything that is happening in our country. That we will not be blinded by Satan and the evil in the world. God bless the American people to repent, to turn to Christ and do what needs to be done to preserve our rights, freedoms and our country. The Book of Mormon has the answers for this to happen. Thank you again!
Douglas NadybalFebruary 23, 2026
All these connections, in plain sight, most of which woosh went right past me. I read the article, now I will study it. I am both impressed and humbled at the same time. Good job ,Mr. Author.
Douglas NadybalFebruary 23, 2026
The way I reason this is that nobody is important in that they are a lynchpin holding things together. Everybody is replaceable and the Lord does not actually need anybody. And even if you have office, the scriptures make it clear that no body part can say to another part, I have no need of thee.
PhilFebruary 23, 2026
Several summers ago we visited the tourist area on the east side of the valley where Brigham s farm was. Showing the original tress etc. they said that Brigham owned black slaves that worked his farm. Today you said Brigham never owned slaves.
FrancineFebruary 22, 2026
I only hope Hagar receives such a marriage in eternity. Someone who has always loved her. Someone who wants her for herself, not as a way to fulfill prophecy. A real marriage.
Corey D.February 21, 2026
There is so much false information out there right now, particularly about the church and church doctrine or practices etc., easily disseminated because of the internet and in some cases disguised as a Come Follow Me podcast. Church History, garments, tithing, Sabbath Observance are just a few of the things that I have been told about or have seen information or podcasts about online that are presented in such a way that unless you are very careful or discerning or do some research or checking into the background of the individuals and/or the information they are presenting/discussing and the sources of that information you could be easily mislead or deceived or influenced.
Corey D.February 21, 2026
Yah, sometimes rules suck, way too often made by people who have no clue or experience in what they are making rules about. Too many horror stories out there about foster care, those kids were blessed and lucky they were in a home like yours, God bless you.
C. BayFebruary 21, 2026
Theirs was indeed a great love story. But why pretend that they were perfect? Renenber that Sarah's generosity selflessness faltered in the face of contempt from Hagar. Her reaction in sending Hagar and Ishmael into the desert to die was less laudable. If we remove her humanity and fallibility, we make her achievements less impressive. When people with mortal weaknesses — like us — do extraordinary things, they're all the more amazing.
Alece ReynoldsFebruary 20, 2026
Once when "clothing" a woman I was proxy for during an Iniatory ordinance in the Preston, England Temple, the woman said to me, from the other side of the Veil, "Oh, my shining garment"! AND -- she said it with complete awe! The garment, according this this angelic receiver of it, is definitely a garment of light!
Alece ReynoldsFebruary 20, 2026
This article is amazing. It reinforces nearly everything I have learned about temple symbolism in the past nearly 60 years!! Wow -- just Wow!
Kristen OpenshawFebruary 20, 2026
We printed a black/white outline poster of our temple and put it on the wall outside the bishop's office, along with rolls of different colored stickers. Each color represented a family history or temple activity. Whenever an activity was engaged in, a sticker by the individuals participating was placed inside the temple outline. It was soon filled with hundreds of colored dots. On another year we also created a handcart trek poster, moving a miniature handcart and pioneers along the trail as we fulfilled family history and temple activities (miles) throughout the month of July.
AshleyFebruary 20, 2026
In our ward, we are doing something called "Temple Tag". The youth are finding names to do baptisms for in the temple. Then they will "tag" the adults in our ward to complete the other ordinances. The hope is to flood the temple with our ward members and flood heaven, so to speak, with our ancestors.
Valiant JonesFebruary 19, 2026
I love the connection you make between the two episodes on the Susquehanna river recorded in D&C 128. They do, indeed, parallel the temple drama. Great insight!
NancyFebruary 19, 2026
Dear Becky I look forward to all of your articles! I aspire to be more like you in many ways. Bless you for all that you do! Is there anything you cannot accomplish? Much love, Nancy from Montana
Merilee RobertsFebruary 19, 2026
What a wonderful insightful article! I loved it!
LindaFebruary 19, 2026
Great read....good reminders. Thanks for your efforts in conveying such worthwhile principles.
Tom JohnsonFebruary 18, 2026
Thanks, Mark, for a summary, commentary, and perspective.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 18, 2026
Latter-day Saint at their core or children of Christ? Often this comes up in our "Come, Follow Me" study group. I believe there are good people, living all over the world, who are following God to the best of their understanding and cultural beliefs. None of God's children will be denied the opportunity to return to Him. How wonderful will be the day when they can receive the fullness of the gospel, on earth or in the Spirit World. Even the Catholic church changed their belief about children who die without baptism. How blessed we are that, through the Lord's mercy, no one will be denied the blessings of the gospel and the path to Jesus Christ. Eternal love, eternal families, and other things that may lie only in peoples hearts or imaginations are just a short grasp of faith away.
Mary ScoresbyFebruary 18, 2026
Thanks so much for catching that error! It has been corrected.
Don MFebruary 18, 2026
Thank you for this uplifting and insightful article. Although I had a testimony of Christ, I did not find direction in life until I met the missionaries from the Church who taught God’s entire plan of salvation. What a comfort that was to learn of a just, loving and compassionate Heavenly Father.
BrendaFebruary 18, 2026
Thank you! Just what I needed to hear this morning
Brad HancockFebruary 18, 2026
I am having trouble understanding what the third sentence in this article is trying to say. "Our fellow Christian brothers and sisters also see recognize the role it plays in the scriptures, thought they do not identify with it in the same way we do." It seems there is proof reading error, as the way the sentence is constructed does not make sense.
John H WaitingFebruary 18, 2026
Another excellent article. I have known the Stoddard family since Mark was in High School in England in the ‘60s and am privileged to know them
Kay ClavenFebruary 18, 2026
Thankyou for this article, it has helped me feel the beauty of The Book of Mormon, and appreciate the great prophets that left their messages and testimonies. It has helped my testimony, and I felt a calmness that is hard to find in this world. It was so beautifully written.
LindaFebruary 17, 2026
Thank you for this article! I have been a faithful member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints all of my life, and I love it. Although I now live in Utah, I was raised and lived many years in other places, and I know there are many inspired people of different denominations accomplishing great good. Helping each other accomplish good is Christ-like behavior. Thank you for reminding us!
Darrel R. ThompsonFebruary 17, 2026
Insightful article, looking forward to the next. The reading of these words caused me to rethink past parenting efforts. The importance of parenting is sobering, applicable in a way I had not previous considered.
Jackson PembertonFebruary 17, 2026
This is great! Thank you. After "finishing" raising 10 children and then spending 25 years watching the results of our parenting, I say you are spot on. If I had the opportunity to redo my parenting, I would change a few things. First, I would spend a lot more time studying and teaching how Jesus Christ did this and that and why. Second, I would use natural rights as a vehicle to provide myself and my children with the linguistic tools to first understand child/parent conflict, and second, express conflicts in the language of natural processes, showing that law enforcement, courts trials, and punishments are not what they appear to be on the surface, but a natural process of bringing order into chaos. Like the opposing flows of nutrients and waste products across a cell membrane, like the balance of nature. In short, to think celestial by taking the long view, seeing conflict resolution, and discussing alternate ways to do it. Thanks again - wish you had written me this letter in 1968!
Sasha KwapinskiFebruary 16, 2026
As a single father who raised my children alone over 17 years, I can wholeheartedly say it was worth it. I will be forever grateful to have had the opportunity and for the blessings that came our way.
VjFebruary 16, 2026
I was so lucky raising 6 children in Miami, where the average number of kids is 2, 6 is unheard of! So over all the years raising them (almost 40 since they’re spread out over 20 years:) our family developed quite a reputation but in all that time I only received 1 negative comment, everyone else was really wonderful to us, so blessed! And it was so worth it!
Heidi StarkFebruary 16, 2026
What a wonderful article! It reminded me of President Holland’s funeral service. It was well done and tender. I can’t wait to see. How elder Gilbert’s humor comes out during talks and his everyday activities! May the Lord be with them all?
Patrick D. DegnFebruary 15, 2026
To all who have shared such kind and encouraging reflections, my sincere thanks; it is a joy to see the core of this message resonate so clearly. To Gregg, however, I’d like to offer a brief word of clarification, as he has—with the best intentions—misread the way I am using the phrase "Chapel Perilous." You are quite right that in modern psychological and occult circles—especially following Robert Anton Wilson—the phrase has come to suggest a crisis of sanity or the collapse of a “reality tunnel.” If my article were claiming that the House of the Lord is a place of instability or spiritual paranoia, your concern would be more than fair. My use of the image, however, comes from its older literary and medieval background rather than its twentieth-century psychological afterlife. In Arthurian tradition (including Malory’s Le Morte d’Arthur, which I cited), the Chapel Perilous is a liminal place where the sacred presses into the “waste land”—a haunted frontier where grace insists on drawing near to ruin. The accent there is not on madness but on encounter: the danger lies in the soul’s unpreparedness for holiness, not in God’s unreliability. So I am not suggesting that the temple is a house of terror. I am suggesting that it is a traveling holiness that comes to find us when we will not move. That is what I meant in the line: “The temple moves precisely because the disciple refuses to.” The image of the Chapel Perilous, in this context, is meant to describe portable sanctity: the way the garment allows the disciple to carry the atmosphere of the temple into the “lone and dreary world,” much as a coal taken from the altar continues to burn even when it has left the altar. Your warning against any paranoid or occult reading of the temple experience is a needed caution, and I share it. My use of the word “perilous” is a poetic attempt to name the gravity of consecration, not a diagnosis of psychological peril. Here the “peril” is the peril of standing, as C. S. Lewis might say, under the “weight of glory”—the awe and seriousness that always attends the presence of the Divine in a fallen world. On this, I think we are very much agreed: the temple is the House of the Lord, a place of peace, order, and instruction. My article simply argues that, through covenant and garment, that peace is not meant to remain shut up in a single building. We are invited to carry it with us—into wastes and wildernesses where, left to ourselves, we would never dare go at all.
Corey D.February 15, 2026
A Latter Day Scripture tells us that violence will be one of the signs of the times and that "Zion" will pretty much be the only safe place, see D&C 45:68. We won't have an ark for safety but Zion. In those verses Zion is an actual place, a location which many believe is here in America. Don't want to get political here, not my intent, but many immigrants have come here to the US in order to escape the violence in the countries or areas they have come from, fulfillment of scripture ?
LaWren BoothFebruary 15, 2026
This is a wonderful insight! One of those rare writings that turns a truth inside out for us to see with a new perspective. Makes me even more thankful for the Restoration. No Christian creed comes close to the joy of physical/ spiritual unity you describe here.
MarkFebruary 15, 2026
Absolutely outstanding pick! Loving Elder Oaks inspired leadership.
Margaret BourneFebruary 14, 2026
You and Donna definitely deserve some kind of an award! 13 children and not all your own flesh and blood. I thought I had it tough with 4 of my own keeping me going crazy. My hat is off to you both - not least because you didn't leave it all to your wife but got in there and did your bit. Well done both of you. As I said before - definitely deserve an award! My recommendation would be Parents of the Year! Thank you for your example.
JpearseFebruary 14, 2026
I must start by saying l love your podcast and value the time and energy you put into all of your efforts. However, this must have been written prior to June 24, 2022 when the Supreme Court overturned Roe v Wade, Planned Parenthood v Casey and Dobbs v Jackson Women’s Health Organization. Unfortunately now we have many women due to medical issues who are unable to receive the life saving abortion care required in many of the states across the country. I hope you will edit out the statement, “The US Congress cannot even pass a law to help an aborted baby born alive.” As well as, “For instance, in our world, aborting a baby is just a choice.” That is just no longer a true statement. There are at least 11 women who have made public statements about the physical damage caused because they were denied the abortion care required. At least 2 of the 11 women that have made public statements also died. These are just the few women who have been brave enough to speak out about the choice childbearing women face in our country today because the agency to make decisions about THEIR physical bodies was taken away from them. Thank you, a longtime listener who will continue to listen.
GreggFebruary 14, 2026
"Chapel Perilous" is a term with roots in Arthurian legend that has evolved into a metaphor for a profound psychological or spiritual crisis, popularized largely by author Robert Anton Wilson. It represents a "dangerous enclosure"—a testing ground where an individual must confront their own fears, illusions, and sanity to move from one state of consciousness to another. Here is a breakdown of its origins and meanings: 1. Arthurian Legend Origins In medieval romance (specifically Thomas Malory's Le Morte d'Arthur), the Chapel Perilous is a haunted, cursed, or enchanted chapel that serves as a trial for knights. The Lancelot Adventure: Sir Lancelot enters a chapel filled with black-clothed, grinning knights and a corpse, which is actually a trap set by the sorceress Hellawes. Significance: It is a, liminal space—a threshold between the mortal and spiritual worlds. It tests a knight's bravery, faith, and chastity, often featuring a "perilous cemetery". Symbolism: It tests whether a hero is worthy of the Holy Grail, emphasizing that inner purity is as necessary as physical prowess. 2. The Psychological/Modern Meaning Robert Anton Wilson popularized the term in his 1977 book Cosmic Trigger to describe a specific, intense psychological state. Definition: It is a state where an individual is uncertain whether an experience was caused by a supernatural/external force or was merely a product of their own imagination. The Result: Wilson argued that one passes through Chapel Perilous by either becoming a hard-core, paranoid believer or a, skeptical agnostic; there is no middle ground. Initiation: It is often described as a, rite of passage in, consciousness, where one is forced to question their, reality tunnels. If any of these definations are the way you view LDS TEMPLES you need to speak with your Bishop, and request that you be able to attend a "Temple Prep Class". Spolier alert: LDS temples are considered the most sacred places of worship on earth, serving as the "House of the Lord" where faithful members enter to make sacred covenants with God, participate in saving ordinances (such as marriage and proxy baptism for the dead), and receive spiritual instruction to strengthen them for life's challenges. Not a place where atendeees are challenged or tested.
DianeFebruary 14, 2026
Brother Degn! You might be my new favorite contributor! I love your ‘take’ and insights on so many topics!
Arlene BascomFebruary 13, 2026
This is the most thought provoking article I have read in a long time, and it is so delightfully written. thank you for your wonderful way with words, your sense of humor and significant insights.
Paul BishopFebruary 13, 2026
In answer to Kathryn's comment, my wife is always with me not only in Yosemite but everywhere else. We are each other's best friend rarely apart...especially now we are retired. My wife actually introduced me to Yosemite when we spent our honeymoon there. We now return at least once a year and usually twice to experience the different seasons...
Dennis NewboldFebruary 13, 2026
Matthew 6:25 - body more than raiment
Bruno AraujoFebruary 13, 2026
Estou no Brasil, escrevendo em português para agradecer ao autor por esse belo artigo. Foi o conhecimento mais profundo que aprendi sobre o amor do Senhor ao nos vestir. Muito obrigado por suas palavras tão assertivas e reflexivas.
Joni HiltonFebruary 13, 2026
Absolutely love this!
Buffie BarkdullFebruary 13, 2026
I have rarely read anything that has spoken to my soul more profoundly. I will ponder your words for a long time.
M BooneFebruary 13, 2026
I love this! So well expressed. Reading your words made me feel a bit more curious about the lives of my ancestors. I love how connected you felt after doing a little research. It takes just a few minutes to get to know someone better, whether living or dead. Though I am not in a time of life to give a whole lot to researching, I look forward to taking some bits of time to connect with the lives and stories of those who have gone before me, and to share them with my children. Thank you for sharing your deep feelings of connection with us. It also made me think about how one day we will meet these ancestors and be able to thank them for the choices they made to bring us good things or teach us truths.
Kerry FarrFebruary 13, 2026
I. LOVE. THIS. Lately I have been feeling SO thankful that I live in this time - especially for the vast array of fantastic food! The wonderful pioneers had such a limited choice of things to eat. I want to taste all that is available to me! Even the delectable “junk” food in moderation We are very blessed!
Rochelle HaleFebruary 13, 2026
We have no definitive answer on what we will eat, hear, or see in the hereafter. However, in1928 Elder Orson F. Whitney said, "Does any sane man or woman believe that an all wise God would create an earth like this and place his children upon it to become expert and skillful as farmers, artisans, engineers, bankers, merchants and whatnot, whisk them away to some distant part of the universe, some world beyond the bounds of time and space where they would sit down and twiddle their thumbs and stare somebody out of countenance for a million years." In the same sense, how many of have imagined (as you have) the gold-paved streets, the color of the flowers and trees, etc. we will find in Heaven? A popular movie from thirty years ago depicted a "spirit world" where visitors could eat anything and as much as they desired. In another film, as he was learning his true identity, Peter Pan and his friends enjoyed a repast of wonderful, imaginary "never food" that became real.
Roseanne HarrisFebruary 12, 2026
Awhile back I received criticism on a Facebook post for saying I had a favorite child. We have a blended family, and several of our adult children have experienced great trials, often turning away from family no matter how much we express our love or our desires to help in any way we can. One also experienced difficulties, but we found common ground. Of course we love all of our children, but we somewhat-jokingly say that this particular child has become our favorite because, in spite of some differences, they continue to check in with us, help us, express their love to us, and share what is happening in their life, and we find much joy in our relationship.
MaryannFebruary 12, 2026
I dearly love ALL of my children, but it isn't wrong to have a favorite, as long as you treat each with the same fairness and loving care. In all honesty, how could you NOT have a favorite? In many ways, they are ALL my favorite for their unique qualities.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 12, 2026
These insights made me weep, what a beautiful account of our Father who brings to us everything He can to help us remember who we are. Thank you Brother Degn, once again.
ShayFebruary 12, 2026
God bless you in this endeavor. I can't wait. I love Brother Joseph and Emma is a personal hero of mine. I hope this gets the notoriety and touches the searching and believing world the way The Chosen has.
HelenCFebruary 12, 2026
Without access to all this marvelous scholarship I have always chosen to consider the extant biblical text as meaning that God’s prophets are mortal men, inclined to weakness, and that the enormous losses Noah suffered when everyone and everything he knew was taken from him might explain a temporary failing. That being said, the violation of sacred space and the attempt to steal the Priesthood does also make sense. Thank you for your work.
KjcoFebruary 12, 2026
So this may be a stretch but I could not help thinking about those who choose to record the temple ceremonies and hang the garment out for display or dress up in and mock temple clothing. They seem like they have taken a page from Hams book and may reap the same rewards.
TRobFebruary 11, 2026
Silly me - I thought I was beginning to understand the sacred gift and privilege of the holy garment. You have added depth, beauty and poignant physical connection to my understanding.
KathrynFebruary 11, 2026
Did you go to Yosemite and learn these insights alone? Or with someone else with who you could share them? If alone, why didn't you have your wife with you? Marriage is a huge contribution to the Church; why didn't your wife go with you?
ACFebruary 11, 2026
Discovery of the "Ark Tablet": Decoding the Story of the Flood In 2009 British Museum curator Irving Finkel, an expert on cuneiform inscriptions on clay tablets from ancient Mesopotamia, received for examination and translation what came to be known as the "Ark Tablet" from its owner Douglas Simmonds. The tablet dates from 1900-1700 BCE. This is the only cuneiform tablet with precise instructions as to how to build the Ark described in the early accounts of the flood, best known through later accounts in literature, such as the Epic of Gilgamesh. The Ark Tablet provided instructions for building the Ark in the form of a very large round boat called a coracle. A coracle is a rounded, lightweight boat https://historyofinformation.com/detail.php?id=4060
JanetteFebruary 11, 2026
Beautiful article and such a great reminder!
Jackson PembertonFebruary 11, 2026
Thank you for this insightful treatment of entropy and chaos! The related scriptures are fascinating; like opposition in all things, to act and not be acted upon, etc. The third law of thermodynamics applied to existence reveals a God with exactly the characteristic he has: intelligence, and the power that enables. I have been working on these same concepts for a few years, based on a idea that came to me as I wrote the Bicentennial feature series for The Freeman; the magazine published by the Foundation for Economic Education in 1976. https://fee.org/people/jackson-pemberton/ The 2nd in the series was about natural rights and the example of a beaver cutting down a tree seemed to say that it had dominion, power, and authority over the tree sufficient for his needs, and that authority could be correctly seen as natural rights in action. You may be interested in this view of natural rights because it confirms your understanding by grounding it on the basic structure of the universe. https://universalrights.ai/temporal-rights-an-executive-summary/ Thank you again for that treatment of chaos!
Richard GarrisonFebruary 11, 2026
Becky, thanks as always for sharing such inspirational stories and examples of wonderful, God-fearing people that "naturally" live Christ-like lives of giving and service!
Debra OsbornFebruary 11, 2026
This was an outstanding article. Despite cultural differences, your ability to put those men at the dinner in their place was admirable.
JeanFebruary 11, 2026
How true! How true! Thank-you for sharing these lovely stories about Mani, Becky. They are heart-warming and inspirational.
DonnaFebruary 11, 2026
I would love to read this but this article doesn’t continue. Can we only listen? Not practical for me, therefore I have to put it away.
LewisFebruary 11, 2026
What a beautiful reminder of God’s love for all His children. Our Savior welcomed all without exception. Your stories bring to life in such practical ways the gospel principles we must all strive to live by. Thank you for sharing your gift.
Sally MaddocksFebruary 11, 2026
A wonderful article that made my heart swell with love.
MaryannFebruary 10, 2026
I appreciate your wonderful article speaking out for the truth regarding the lives of Latter-day Saint women. However, I am not exhausted by the false representations. First of all, I don't watch them, and secondly, I think the Book of Mormon Prophet, Lehi, gave us an excellent example when he spoke of those who "mock" us from "the great and spacious building. He said: "We heeded them not." Yes, we must stand as examples of faithful LDS women, and also speak the truth boldly. But, I don't think we need to be "exhausted."
Rochelle HaleFebruary 10, 2026
I love looking around our congregation to spot newcomers, new move-ins, or those passing by on vacation. It has not always been easy to go out of my comfort zone. Several years ago I welcomed a new family after praying that I would have the courage to do so. I almost didn't greet them, then the Spirit whispered to me to remember my prayer. They soon were baptized and became a wonderful addition to our ward. My husband and I have met wonderful people when we have attended church while traveling. Once we were clear across the country. I felt impressed to bear my testimony. Afterward the meeting, a family ran to meet us. Their son was currently as a missionary in our ward. Another time we attended a ward in another state and found out the bishop's wife was related to a beloved sister from our ward who had recently passed. The bishop and his wife took us under their wing and greeted us as if we were long-time friends. The wife, also Relief Society President, was particularly kind and included me in Relief Society. A kind man in my mother-in-law's former ward collected and polished small rocks from the beach. He would greet everyone, especially strangers, and hand them a rock as he welcomed us. I still have them.
Mark W MinerFebruary 10, 2026
So insightful, beautiful, and well-written. Thank you, brother.
Lori DriggsFebruary 9, 2026
Your articles have been the highlight of my study this year! Please keep them coming and write a book!
Coreen BousfieldFebruary 9, 2026
Wow, amazing and so beautiful! Thank you so much for blessing those of us who are fortunate enough to read your powerful, meaningful and touching words.
Judy PerryFebruary 9, 2026
On second reading--this OUGHT to be a s discussion in ALL Temple preparation classes.. And by the way-- I.M.H.O. I believe any couple planning a Temple marriage ought to be required to take PRE-marriage couples counseling prior to marriage as our Catholic brothers and sisters are required in order to be married in their church buildings.
Judy PerryFebruary 9, 2026
WOW!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!
S RichardsonFebruary 9, 2026
"Stone, in this sense, represents continuity and permanence..." Having spent many days in and on local mountains as well as at Yosemite, I've constantly marveled at how well they have withstood countless eons of natural forces to still be standing tall and strong. It's no coincidence that the temple is called "the mountain of the Lord's house." Though our bodies and minds decline, these "mountains" remind us that some things, including God's promises, never change.
Alan SandersFebruary 9, 2026
In all of the turmoil, political unrest, protests, etc. I am always reminded of what Joseph Smith Taught in the Articles of Faith, particularly number 11, and 12. In looking at any of the mass movements that even members of the church are enlisted in, I believe that we all need to ensure that our actions are in line with what we have been taught. Allow others their agency, obey, honor, and sustain the law.
MaryFebruary 9, 2026
Such an incredible reading! Absolutely beautiful, profound writing. Thank you!
Rhoda AndersonFebruary 9, 2026
Thank you for putting into words the sacred emotional, yet practical, journey of life. Beautiful and enlightening.
Rhoda AndersonFebruary 9, 2026
Wow! What a poetic way of bringing this idea to light! Well written. I'm saving this one in my files to review often.
Corey D.February 9, 2026
A wonderfully relevant article, all the comments are proof of that. You'd be surprised how many folks have had the thought "if I was ever to speak in General Conference". Many years ago in the ward we were in at the time and back in the old 3 hour meeting schedule and at a time when classes had a solo teacher which of course is a big no-one anymore, I was asked last minute to teach the 13-14 yr old SS class because the teacher had not shown up, one girl showed up, we were new in the ward and hardly new anybody, certainly did not know any of the youth, I also found out later this young lady only came to church once in a while so I'm sure she felt pretty out of place, all alone and the teacher is somebody she doesn't know. I went ahead and taught her the lesson. A week or two later one of the Young Women leaders told my wife that this young lady mentioned to her about being the only one in class and she was sure she would just get shuffled into one of the other classes and was surprised when that didn't happen and then said, that was one of the nicest things anybody had ever done for her, made her feel important. I have never forgotten that. My point with this is, God loves us all and knows us perfectly and personally but sometimes, maybe a lot of the time it's hard to feel like we matter or are important to him, that's where we as family members, ward members, neighbors, teachers, leaders, etc, come in, we need to be aware of those around us because oft times how God lets his children know they are important and important to him is through us.
Tammy TaylorFebruary 9, 2026
Wow! Thank you for sharing the “enchantment”! Such beautiful thoughts that take our every day mundane life into a kingdom of light that we can carry with us. Thank you for sharing a bit of royalty that we can keep in our hearts.
D. Jynn JohnsonFebruary 9, 2026
Stunning insights! Beautifully delivered! This is a total game-changer for me after wearing this skin of holiness for nearly 70 years. Thank you!
Corey D.February 9, 2026
A really wonderful, insightful and thought provoking commentary. New insights to think about in regards to Heavenly Father, the temple and the garment, thank you.
Steve DoneganFebruary 9, 2026
As I sit in my quiet house this morning and contemplate the words you’ve written, I realize my life will never be the same. Thank you for being “one of the best books” we’re told in the Doctrine and Covenants to read.
Corey D.February 9, 2026
Well written article, pretty much all your articles have been well written and insightful. One would expect to see a degree in English or Creative Writing in your Bio not a career in Law Enforcement. Well done.
Gary StrobleFebruary 8, 2026
Last two paragraphs repeat.
AyseFebruary 8, 2026
This article is not only amazing, it is so full of the truth about how we all learn best. So well written because it is clear and easy to understand. Thank you for opening my eyes how better to share the Gospel.
Corey D.February 8, 2026
To me, the Book of Moses and particularly Enoch's story is some of the greatest scripture we have and Moses chapter 7 especially verses 28-30 are some of not only the most touching, powerful and inspirational verses there are but some of the greatest poetic literature that exists.
Carolyn MadsonFebruary 8, 2026
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your commitment to this project! For those many of us who love the prophet Joseph, truth and light will gratefully come forth because of you and your team! Prayers continue for all of you….
Michelle LlewellynFebruary 8, 2026
The most ingenious and insightful general conference talk ever given will be the one directed to the single and childless women in the church over the age of 35, the current YSA cutoff age. Aside from the single, childless man who cries himself to sleep every night questioning his worth and value because he failed to catch a wife, there is no greater example when it comes to church culture definition of a "nobody"
DebbieFebruary 7, 2026
I enjoyed your article and could relate to how you feel. I know you are a very accomplished woman and I enjoy reading your Meridian articles. I will look for your book. You are a leader and loved by many who read here.
Chris ChennaultFebruary 6, 2026
Awesome. Great. Amazing. Thank you so much for this wonderful broadcast. It really helps me in my preparation to lead discussion in Sunday School.
Marcia E.February 6, 2026
Thank you for your vision and inspiration to stand by the side of Joseph! I will share this everyone, and can't wait for the videos to be out there. The influence of Social Media has further destroyed Joseph's reputation, and your efforts will be tremendous in bringing back the balance of truth and light. Thank you Proctors!
DebbieFebruary 6, 2026
Thank you Scot and Maurine! You are just amazing for all that you do!! We are so very blessed!
ColinFebruary 6, 2026
I can only imagine the lens condensation as soon as you move indoors from the cold. Lots of plastic bags in use, no doubt! Good luck with the gear and the shooting.
SiriFebruary 6, 2026
You may feel like you don’t touch people, but I really needed to read this, I have tears because your spirit is so strong. Thank you for bringing this to my heart at this time.
Debbie KentFebruary 6, 2026
This project sounds amazing! Thank you for the heads up, and a bigger Thank You, for loving Brother Joseph and all he sacrificed to bring His truth, as in The Savior, and His gospel truth to the world. May the Spirit guide and protect all who will be involved.
Tracey GrowFebruary 6, 2026
What a project! May you have the strength you need to complete it. Loving Joseph brings joy to know that I can come to love him more.
BrentFebruary 6, 2026
WOW! I’m not sure I have or can find the words I feel about your commitment to this project about Joseph Smith, and your strong commitment to it! I for one have a strong belief and love for this man, and strongly believe in him and am blown away by the negativity of those who disbelieve in hm. Simply said, I’m excited to follow along with you in this project, and commend you all in this effort. Thank you!
GayeFebruary 6, 2026
Thank you for your insights ghat apply in so many ways as we interact with adult children and their children, our beloved grandchildren.I would add the granddaughter has two sets of grandparents. If the other grandparents are near, work to develop a positive, cooperative relationship with them. They can also be a source of support for the sweet child. I am so grateful for the wonderful relationship I have with the other grandparents of my grandchildren. I learn from them and rejoice my grandchildren have wonder people who love them. I gained dear friends through our shared grandchildren. It may be harder in the case of a divorce, but saying whatever disagreements may have occurred in the marriage, we can all agree it wasn't this child's fault and she needs us to work together to be loving, nurturing, protecting adults. Can we do that for her? This would be much harder in cases of abuse or infidelity, but still as important. If grandparents can find the strength to remove animosity or to model giving grace, while still supporting their child, perhaps it will be possible for that seed to grow.
KathleenFebruary 6, 2026
WOW - he was an incredible Saint, leader and missionary!
Debra WoodsFebruary 5, 2026
Thank you so much for the meaningful message you shared this store - I needed so much! After a stroke in October, I have been in much medical and social teaching to overcome my serious memory and physical backfeeding and have made a remarkable improvement but am still far to go. Because you talked about Enoch, and Zion - words I used to fully understand but now feel confusion by, your choices and personal stories so well expressed fed my understanding greatly - thank you so much as I finally felt ready today to return to read/listen to your magazine again.
Jamie QuistFebruary 5, 2026
Thank you for this article. I enjoy reading about the struggles and faithfulness of the early saints.
ShaunaFebruary 5, 2026
this was super helpful--thank you. we are indeed often looking for the wrong things in relationships. I may share this with my YA children
ShaunaFebruary 5, 2026
thank you. what a wonderful, insightful article about Testimony. When I recently gave a talk on faith, I noted how often the verb exercise is used in conjection with faith--we need to exercise faith. So I love your comments about needing to move with our testimonies, even when they seem weak. They are like a spiritual muscle that needs to be flexed..and let's face it, just like a physical muscle, sometimes we don't want to go to the gym.
MaryannFebruary 4, 2026
Wow! Look at all these comments! Looks like you inspired people with your words! I have always felt annoyed with the idea of "important callings." Callings should NEVER be considered "promotions," or badges of righteousness. I have served in stake callings, and it always grated on my nerves when people would offer "congratulations!" Unless you are also "congratulating" the ward nursery leader, primary teachers, or every other calling, congratulations are inappropriate. Our worth or "importance" is not judged by the callings we receive. There is also a real problem with thinking that we can find personal validation, or greater "points" from God, because we have a certain calling. In fact, if we are looking for a feeling of being more important because of a calling we receive, we are guilty of pride. We serve out of love for God and others, NOT for the gratification of our own pride. I believe we are ALL important, and that we make a much greater difference in the lives of others than we think we do. We are not objective about ourselves, which can cause us to fail to recognize the good we are accomplishing. I often feel like people who attend church and never bare their testimonies vocally ARE baring them by being present week after week. Can't we FEEL the spirit all around us because we are simply with those who share our faith? Simply showing up is a big deal! AND very important.
MaryannFebruary 4, 2026
What a beautiful article! Satan would love to make us believe we don't have a testimony because we have doubts or unanswered questions. Not so! We see so many examples of "enduring to the end" in the scriptures and in our current day-to-day lives. When we feel forgotten by God, confused, or discouraged, THAT is the time we need to keep going. Keep praying, keep reading the scriptures, keep attending church---especially if you have stopped doing those things. It's not over. You CAN begin again. And, as noted here, service is a great way to rekindle our testimony and our spirits. On our darkest days, we can still seek for the Light.
MaryannFebruary 4, 2026
Having three of my seven children leave church activity has been one of the most gut wrenching, painful events of my life. I was very grateful that my son announced this to my husband over the telephone so that I had a chance to calm down. If he had told me this personally, I know I would have become unhinged. HOW does someone who faithfully served a mission, married in the temple, sincerely voiced their testimony many times, served diligently as Elder's Quorum President, fall way and reject the very foundation of Christ's gospel that they were raised with their entire lives? It is inconceivable to me, yet I know many parents are experiencing this. My advice is to avoid any conversation when you first get the news, because it is not going to be pretty. "I love you, and cannot talk about this right now" is sufficient. If you pretend everything is just peachy, you are lying to them and to yourself. We have continued to love and communicate that love to our three children, but it has been a blow you never really "get over." I am watching my beautiful grandchildren grow up without the gospel. One of my granddaughters will be eight this year. My heart is broken that she will not be baptized, or even know about the principle. She will go through her teen years without the strength that comes from church attendance, commitment to the Savior and His gospel, and the gift of the Holy Ghost. We do not argue, debate, or put our children down. We do not drop "hints" that they should return. We just love them, but the loss we feel is indescribable. I survive with the knowledge that they are in the Lord's hands and he loves them. We continue to pray for them, and we will never give up hope.
Elaine PenceFebruary 4, 2026
A recent Come Follow Me lesson focused on God calling people with weaknesses to do His work. There were numerous examples of how He qualifies his children to do what He wants us to do. He promises that if we open our mouths they will be filled. I have also tried to do some of those more public things, writing, YouTubing,etc. because I want so desperately to share what I have experienced in drawing closer to the Savior, experiencing his love, peace and joy. I am consistently reminded of two things. 1. I am making a difference as I BECOME more like Him and I am influencing people that I live and work around on a day to day basis; as I open my mouth it is filled. 2. I should not give up when I fail. That is my time of learning by experience and learning to continue to work and not give up. (Do not be discouraged God is over all) That is how we show faith and then God can "add His power to our efforts" as President Nelson said.
Sherry McMullinFebruary 4, 2026
Dear Kimberly, Thank you for your sweet encouragement to all of us. My husband and I have been in the nethermost parts of the vineyard for all 60 years of our marriage. We too can claim no leadership positions or public influence. Working in a current mission ,I was asked to prepare a sketch of my life and given examples of the three members of the mission presidency. Every one of them was daunting - long lists of temple positions, including presidencies, former missions (3 or 4), "high" stake and ward callings, successful children (we lack those too). It was as if they were saying, "Look at how much Heavenly Father has honored me." I hope to be able to write something that might remind them that those of us in the trenches, who seem to have no value, really do. In one corner where we work with only 30 others, another missionary said, "I would rather be here doing it than sitting in class talking about it." So true. Perhaps no one else notices and there is no worship or admiration, but Heavenly Father knows and cares. My favorite scene from To Kill a Mockingbird involves Atticus sitting with his brother in the parlor, knowing that Scout is hiding and listening from the stairs. The brother asks (after one of Scout's antics), "What are you going to do about her?" Atticus answers, "Scout knows that I know she is trying." I believe with all my heart that He knows we are trying, even if no one else ever does. Thank you for your comfort.
RosieFebruary 4, 2026
I think the number of comments says it all. Now that I'm older I feel so insignificant and struggle with feeling valued as my ability to serve in the church is quite limited as I am a tired caregiver. Too much of my life has been spent pursuing worth in our church society. If we don't seek for worth in the world, sometimes we seek it in our wards and stakes. However, it might have be a false distraction. I really wonder if we can ever be a Zion people if we're always name dropping and trying to link to this or that important person in the church; or if we've had 'grand' important spiritual experiences others seemed to have experienced etc. etc. Zion might just be made up of people aren't trying to be somebody special or who don't really think much of themselves most of the time, but rather focus outwardly. Do we really believe that it's about 'the one'? We felt inspired to start a youtube channel with inspirational music and have very few views, but I had the thought if only one person is touched and closer to Christ through it, it was worth it. Thank you for your honest article, it's refreshing.
Sally MaddocksFebruary 4, 2026
Such a well written article. Thank you for reminding us of how our testimonies can ebb and flow
GusleyFebruary 4, 2026
I agree. I generally feel so insignificant. But as I taught a recent lesson to my students about Enoch, I wondered about all the people we don't read about. Enoch was called to be the prophet, but there must have been people within the city who became leaders in their own way to help create unity and build the City of Zion. Those people are not named - perhaps a father, mother, sibling, extended family member - but each helped to build Zion. My name will never be in lights, in scripture, or even in many people's memories, but I am doing my best, and I trust that the Lord is grateful for my efforts, as well.
Yolanda Bassett in Kingwood, TexasFebruary 4, 2026
Thank you sister Kimberly White. In many ways, you told my story. I'm grateful to share that today I know that in spite of me, He has placed in places and line of work where I can have the opportunity to be a light, to reflect The Light, the Savior that I love. My patriarchal blessing tells me that I would have the opportunity to be an influence to those that come within the bounds and in the circle of my acquaintance. Large or small this circle can be, in one way or another, in the Church or at work, I'm blessed to know that I can be an influence for good. We can all be, if we so choose. Some hours ago I wrote in my journal the answer to the question "What encouraging words would my Heavenly Father and my Savior tell me now as I kneel in prayer? And I wrote: "Look at you, how far you have come! Good for you, good for you. I knew you would because, in your heart, you have always loved me and chosen me. I AM with you forever. I have always loved you and been aware of you" . My heart and tears swelled up and I felt Him near. What a tender mercy! And He does it for each of us, as we seek Him.
Micky BowersFebruary 3, 2026
What an amazing article! There is so much to consider and chew on, I definitely want to be "re-enchanted" and rediscover the wonder of the gospel as a result of what I have read.
Esther SmithFebruary 3, 2026
I follow you. I will read anything you write. You are a gifted, insightful disciple.
T.L. McRaeFebruary 3, 2026
Your words struck a cord with me…someone who feels invisible. We must all know that we are not invisible to God even though, we often feel that way. Your influence goes far beyond a calling in the Church. Just think of that…far beyond, and one day you will see how far. You write well, and I am sure have touched many hearts. Just look at all the comments. God definitely is aware of you and loves you.
Richard GardnerFebruary 3, 2026
Thank you!
NatFebruary 3, 2026
Excellent. Thank you for this touching, honest piece.
Kimberly SmithFebruary 3, 2026
I love reading articles by Patrick Degn. I have taken adult institue classes from him in the past and he is by far the best and most powerful speaker and writer. He opened the scriptures for me that has had a very profound affect on my life. I am eternally grateful for his ability to share the gospel in such a life changing way
BarbFebruary 2, 2026
That was a beautiful article. You put us where we all belong.....together!
JeffFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for writing a personal and important message to the rest of us nobodies.
David MalpasFebruary 2, 2026
Very well written, thanks. I think most of us see something of ourselves in this thoughtful piece. I also think you might underestimate the actual quiet influence you may have on others. I have found that just by living the gospel as best you can (flaws and warts included) people notice. And are quietly, and secretly, influenced. Keep it up. Love the article.
Linnea HoyosFebruary 2, 2026
Kimberly, I agree with you on your main point. Everyone is important to God. After reading your bio though, I have to disagree with your other point. You are somebody important! I've never written a book. I don't have a degree, let alone one in philosophy. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and the wonderful exchange you had with your Father in Heaven. He cares about each of us no matter how unimportant we feel we are in the scheme of things.
David BallifFebruary 2, 2026
Kimberly, Thank you for this beautiful article. You matter to me!
Margaret BourneFebruary 2, 2026
You are so right my good sister. This world and this Church is full of 'nobodies' as you put it. And I am another one. But we are not nobodies because the King of All Creation loves us. And if He is a King, then we must be - have to be - Princesses. And Princesses are not nobodies. They - we - too, are Royal in the most noble sense of the word. Just as He is. And we have infinite possibilities just as He does. Now let that soak in for a minute and then truly appreciate who you really are..
LoraFebruary 2, 2026
Very insightful. You may have already tried Toastmasters as a way to hone your public speaking skills, but it would help you to have a wider audience. The Church is a relatively small field. Just a thought. And for anyone reading this who thinks that Toastmasters is for "professional speakers", no, it's for people who FEAR public speaking. It makes bad speakers good, and good speakers better.
Kandace PrisbreyFebruary 2, 2026
Beautifully said! You have stated a tender truth that we often forget. Thank you!
Leonard BoydellFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for your article. I think we all have a part in the gospel, big cog or little cog, we are helping to keep things running and progressing. I have been blessed to have many front line callings, up to stake president, but I didn't necessarily feel important because of them, or even up to the job, but I did try to do my best in spite of what I saw as my limited potential or capabilities. I just hoped that somewhere along the way I touched someone's life for good, just as I am sure you do, in your own way, on a regular basis.
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 2, 2026
Enoch was important for Heavenly Father and he was translated, but all the city of Zion was translated, therefore all of them were important. They were translated because of Enoch, and Enoch was translated because of them. He knows you, He loves you, and He cares for you and you and all His children are important for Him and that's the reason He has helpers for YOU.
OldFacilitiesManFebruary 2, 2026
Well I have been waiting for another great article from you. And I am very grateful for this thoughtful and honest contribution. You have a talent for saying what needs to be said. Thanks for sharing this personal experience. I think that “they “ call it being vulnerable. It’s very hard to do thanks for sharing.
Taylor StonelyFebruary 2, 2026
What a great article! What you said mattered to me because I often feel the same way. It’s nice to be reminded of this, so thank you!
Steve DoneganFebruary 2, 2026
I could have written this. I don’t keep a journal as it would be filled with this message. Here’s what I’ve learned: those influential people don’t have time for our neighborhood, they don’t have time for our family, they don’t have time for me. To paraphrase a sign we gave my father: God couldn’t be everywhere, so He created [you]. God can be everywhere, but He loves us when we reach out. Continue to reach out. You’re touching lives others can’t/won’t. You’ve touched mine, and I’m very grateful.
LaurieFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for this article. I have been living with the same unimportant feeling for many years and have had very few leadership callings that usually lasted for a few months. Then I was released because I failed miserably at those too. Your article touched my heart to know that others feel th same way but knowing all of us are important to God, even when we fail, makes me realize that God is the only One whose opinion matters. And He loves us in spite of our imperfections.
DonaldFebruary 2, 2026
Dear Kimberly, far as I can look at, your are a genuine influencer worldwide known within the spreading of the Meridian Magazine... I really appreciate the way you express your thoughts in so many of your publications that we can refer under your name... One of your nobodies fans. Donald (Montréal French Quebec)♂️
Lana JohnsonFebruary 2, 2026
I so so so relate to this article! I imagined being a stake relief society president I even thought I had "a prompting" that I would be called! It took "all of 5 seconds", as the saying goes to realize that I was a nobody and would NEVER even be considered let alone be called.. I'm like you never a president but in presidencies...however it's been 7 years since I've had a "formal" calling. The Church doesn't want or need me but my Savior does! There hasn't been a day go by that I haven't done some kind of "president" like service! That's my calling to be anxiously engaged in the Plan of Salvation!!!! I love my "calling " from the Lord- to do what He wants done and to become as He is. I love that my commission is between the Lord and me. He has never once failed me in serving Him... I love the Herbew word Hineni- Here am I willing and available to serve!♥️ that's me!! God is good and God is Love ❤️
ClaireFebruary 2, 2026
This is beautiful! I really needed this today! Thank you for reminding us that each of us is important to God… even me.
Rob ArnoldFebruary 2, 2026
"Nobody's" are persons OF the world! I am a child of God, so therefore I've always been Somebody!
WallyFebruary 2, 2026
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing your sweet experience.
Ken ButlerFebruary 2, 2026
Reminds me of a person I love that said most beef is tough. Most putts don't drop....
Leilani CookFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for this. I'm crying to know that I am important to God, in the better sense of the word-worthy of His attention. You shared a piece of your heart with us. You are wonderful.
RaLee HallFebruary 2, 2026
Kimberly White, I know you through Meridian Magazine. I recognize your face.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for your words. I wish more new members and others would catch the vision of the importance of callings and how much the Lord needs us to help build his Kingdom. Nothing is too small, from the greeter to the preparer of the Sacrament meeting bulletin. However, I have been released from callings and felt the sting, wondering if I wasn't good enough or if so-and-so leader didn't like me. I currently hold the same calling in both my ward and stake. Our high counselor calls it "non-essential." Nevertheless, I do my best to interact with ward and stake leaders to fulfill my responsibilities. I strive to do my best, as I believe the callings came from the Lord, and to put behind me any thoughts of discouragement or that my service isn't of value to Him.
AftonFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for this. What a wonderful message that I needed to hear. I think we all need to hear the message that God loves us very personally.
AliceFebruary 2, 2026
Right on sister! I feel the same way.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for your words. I wish more people would catch the vision of callings and serving, even if they aren't called, or even if they are asked to be a greeter or building-cleaner. This is something that all of our new members need. The Lord needs all of us and our talents. That being said, our feelings often come into play. Why can't I be called to...? Didn't I do a good job? Was I released because.... didn't like me? I currently hold the same calling in both my ward and stake. Last week at a meeting, our overseeing High Counselor told me (and others who serve in the same capacity in their wards) that my calling is non-essential. I take my calling seriously, and I do my best to engage with others in my ward to accomplish the things I've been called to do. His remark was well-intended, but I still felt that my service was a little behind-the-scenes and not too important. Nevertheless, I strongly believe that my call came through inspiration, and I will continue to do my best to serve the Lord.
K CFebruary 2, 2026
Bless you for saying out loud what most of us think and feel. So glad you had that witness and shared.
CaryFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you, Kimberly. You get it. Thank you for saying it.
HelenCFebruary 2, 2026
Some of the best people I know are, or were, “nobodies”. Like my friend Colette, who died from cancer in her early 60s. Before she died, she went to the Portland, Oregon Temple to release the hundreds of family names she wouldn’t get to take through. My husband knew and loved her and her first husband’s children; my first husband and I and our children knew and loved her and her last husband and their children. When my oldest daughter died from breast cancer at 41, despite her having left the Church at 18 I felt the need to ask my Home Teachers to give her a blessing while she was in her final coma. She couldn’t object and I needed the peace of trying everything I knew. They did not say she would be healed but that she would heal. Dozens of friends have been impacted by her like and death, including the ones who passed on messages she sent them for me. “Now I understand” was my favorite. Just this weekend her stepson was in ICU, struggling to regain brain function after an error with his insulin caused his blood sugar to drop to 20. When his mother asked if she was there, the brainwave monitor went crazy! We all have our callings.
DORAFebruary 2, 2026
Be comforted. You matter. You are read. We all are beloved sons and daughters and Heavenly Father has a mission for each of us. Trust Him until the end. Dream big and then do all in your power to make that dream come true. And the Lord will do the rest.
CaraFebruary 2, 2026
Thanks so much for sharing a very personal and inspiring experience that is real
Kathi EatonFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you, Kimberly… Your article touched me more than anything I’ve read in quite awhile. It brought me to tears. How wonderful to know that we are ALL truly important to the most important being in the universe our Heavenly Father!
MimiFebruary 2, 2026
Spirit-filled and confirming. Thank you, Madam important, "nobody".
Ann JFebruary 2, 2026
This is such an imperfect way of saying something so perfect that we all need to hear, know and feel. Thank you for sharing so many of my thoughts and helping me to remember, even if it is just for today, that I am important to him.
Trudy NaylorFebruary 2, 2026
Beautiful. Thank you.
Jan RasmussenFebruary 2, 2026
That was a wonderful article and thank you for writing it. Now that you have said those things out loud you should probably prepare yourself for some leadership positions. I have found the Lord calls those who are willing to serve and then teaches them how. Certainly it is not because they are better or more qualified. I will be looking for more of your articles in the future!
KirkFebruary 2, 2026
I’ve seen myself in these examples of challenging conversations. Thanks for the inspired direction and suggestions. My heart is touched and I’m taking notice of ways I can be better.
LindaFebruary 2, 2026
Welcome to the world of the ‘ninety and nine’. We all feel invisible, and yet we are not. Our reach doesn’t need to be worldwide. In fact, that might truly be to onerous. LOCALLY is how we change the world. Failure is an unworthy word. The right motive at the wrong time might just be the wrong motive….right now. A single woman with no children, in a church of families, is not a failure for not accomplishing that VITAL CALLING. GOD IS IN THE DETAILS of our lives. ‘There is a time and purpose to everything. Breathe and enjoy the joy, the grind and the lessons. I believe we are entering a time of MUCH MORE LEARNING and wrestle. We all will need to lean harder on each other….personally, not globally.
Mark W MinerFebruary 2, 2026
Well- and humbly-written, Kimberly--thanks so much for sharing!
Ami BartholomewFebruary 2, 2026
I read your article. and I love your insight. I think there are many of us who feel like you do, that we are insignificant and unimportant. Thank you for the reminder that we do matter. And that we matter to the most important and influential being in existence. That's not a small thing!
PaulineFebruary 2, 2026
I can relate. Thank you for your insightful message. I believe it’s valuable!
ClaireFebruary 2, 2026
Such a blessing to know!
LindaFebruary 2, 2026
What a fabulous article!!! You have expressed the sentiments of sooooo many in your heartfelt thoughts. THANK YOU!
AshleyFebruary 2, 2026
This was a great article. Thank you.
ChristinaFebruary 2, 2026
This is beautiful. Thank you, Kimberly White. The somebody who just brought tears to my eyes.
AnnFebruary 2, 2026
I’m sitting here in tears after reading this article. I just finished my morning prayer with a feeling of such discouragement that I felt like I couldn’t keep going, though I don’t even know what that would look like. My story is similar to yours, but I struggle with depression and now some memory issues. Everything is hard and I find little joy in my life. Your article touched me and helped me remember that though this life is hard Heavenly Father and Jesus love me too, and I am important to them. Please know that your influence on just me means you have influence, even if it’s only one person at a time. You mean more than you recognize to more people than you know.
Wendy QuirkeFebruary 2, 2026
When your children no longer go to church, should you initiat a conversation or say nothing?
Sally MaddocksFebruary 2, 2026
I think everyone in the church feels this at times. This was a great article to remind me that I am loved and important to God
L. ReyesFebruary 2, 2026
Beautifully said. I know there are times I feel like an utter failure. But I am not a failure in God’s eyes. Romans 8:1 reminds me that as long as I am walking with the spirit, God does not condemn me. Just keep heading in the right direction.
MaryFebruary 2, 2026
You are important to me also! I see and feel such a similarity to you, and it was an absolute delight to read your article. It was the best testimony I could ever had listened to. Thank you! I’m pretty well up there in age, and still keep going and keep trying even though I have not been who I thought I would be. I’m so grateful I read your article! It saved me from more heartache.
JimFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you so much for this wonderful insight. I think all of us at times wonder if what we are doing is acceptable to Him.
SaraFebruary 2, 2026
I love this! And, of course, you never know what influence you have, for instance, here on this platform being willing to share your thoughts. I am finding that having those insightful thoughts and organizing them and writing them out is important to my spiritual development whether anyone else ever benefits. It strengthens my love of God and connection to him, my gospel understanding, and my knowledge of His love for me. Isn’t it beautiful that he speaks to each of us both for our benefit and our ability to share his His love?
Edson LopesFebruary 2, 2026
Heart-warming and motivating. Humbling too. Thanks.
TinaFebruary 2, 2026
Thank you for reminding me to listen to God's voice and not the discouraging thoughts of the adversary. I think we all desire to make a difference in the world and we are bombarded with the idea that that only happens on large platforms but the scriptures remind us that by small and simple means are great things brought to pass.
MarkFebruary 2, 2026
Thanks for this article.I sometimes wonder how important I am in the Church. In a small ward, I am hardly ever asked to give a public prayer and have been in my calling for over 4 years. It was great to read this article and knowthat I AM important!
Cornelius PetersonFebruary 2, 2026
I would like to read "If I ever gave a talk in General Conference, I would say…” and started working out what was, I was pretty sure, the most genius and insightful talk of this dispensation." Thank you for inspiring those invisible among us.
DanFebruary 1, 2026
That jeep with the Mahonri Moriancumur name has a history, it was used to transport LDS servicemen to church during the Vietnam war time-frame.
Corey D.February 1, 2026
Excellent and well written and documented. Living here along the Wasatch Front where housing is a hot topic right now I find the comments on housing interesting and informative, particularly about the size of homes, i.e., square footage. My personal observations have been similar, there is no such thing as a "starter home" anymore. The homes my grandparents lived in, the home I grew up in and our first home were much smaller than the homes many young couples are starting with or getting into now and interestingly we didn't think of them as small. The statements about the cost of medical care and much of that due to control by the Insurance industry were telling. In the 60's, 70's when I was growing up and the first few years we were married in the late 70's, early 80's, there was no such thing as "Health Insurance" or dental or vision insurance. My father had "Insurance" with his company, if there was an accident, like somebody broke a bone or got cut needing stitches or had a baby requiring hospitalization there was insurance available but normal, regular visits to doctor, dentist, optometrist were paid out of pocket, sometimes it might have taken a month or two to pay it off, seems to me from my experience the last 45 yrs or so, contrary to what was said Insurance has caused the price of medical care to go up, not down or be controlled. Growing up, the doctors in town were not rich. Overall though the main premise is true, I know I have a lot more than my parents and grandparents had.
Kathleen ThatcherFebruary 1, 2026
We love your podcasts that are not only informative but so insightful and inspiring. Is there a chart showing the length of lives from Adam to the flood and the overlapping of the lives of the first men? Also are those ‘pure for God’ necklaces available?
Corey D.January 31, 2026
The article is excellent and well written. I'm sure they will disagree but the first two comments in my mind, definitely reflect comment/opinion based off of mainstream media portrayal without an in depth analysis of the two events. Tragic events both but there is much more to both what's happening in Gaza and Minnesota and many other events in the world than what the general media report.
DJJanuary 31, 2026
Thank you. I'm printing so the message doesn't get lost.
Corey D.January 31, 2026
Pretty powerful article Brother Grenny. These types of discussions are the hardest there is. I have two adult children who no longer attend church, one has children and the other doesn't. Both are divorced or in the process of getting divorced. Both I have had situations with that caused very strained relationships and anger, one to this day I don't know why for sure and the other one talking with their Bishop caused problems. We are okay now but it was rough times and still things are somewhat tenuous. I finished in November a service mission with the Transitional Services Office, who I'm sure you are familiar with. You learn you have to be very patient, emphathetic, basically very Christ like dealing with some of the people who come in. Most who came in for help were very thankful but there were those who had a lot of anger for a variety of reasons, some of those were either the religious fanatics (keep in mind mental instability) and those who felt the church owed them or had a bad attitude about the church or had had a bad experience in the church with a leader or leaders or other members or family. You learn to pick your words and phrases and tone of voice very carefully. Thanks for the article and all you do for those who struggle.
AnnieJanuary 31, 2026
I found this illuminating, Plenty of opportunities to apply these relationship skills in everyday life. Thank you.
AnnieJanuary 30, 2026
When my daughter called me from Europe, she had been out of the church for a few years. Her call hightened my anxiety because I knew she had to have a good reason to call from so far away! Then she said, "Mom, I have something to tell you." "Sure, what is it?" I said. "Mom, I'm pregnant," she replied. She was not married and my spirit was screaming at me saying "Be careful! You could lose her forever if you don't stop and think before speaking!" And I did. I took a long breath and said, "Well, Sweetie, are you happy?" Her reply, "Oh, yes! I'm so happy!" told me everything I needed to hear. "Then I'm happy for you!" I replied. And that was it! I averted a disaster by listening to the spirit! We went on discussing the baby's due date and how she was feeling as if the conversation was as natural as breathing. I could have lost her forever if I had not listened to the anxious prompting of the spirit!!! Because I had respoded in that way, I felt confident enough to tell her that she needed to take good care of her body because every thing she took into it would effect the baby. She listened. "No smoking and no drinking! You can irreparbly harm the baby." She listened and followed my advice. That baby is now 25 years old and a college graduate! His mama and I talk on the phone often and we love each other so much!
Daryl GibsonJanuary 30, 2026
All sound advice, sensitively delivered. I would like to hear your suggestions about the daughter's insistence that the church never be spoken of in her presence. Isn't that a bit like insisting that your parents never speak of their jobs, or their friends, or their hobbies, or their social life? It seems like there's room for some give and take. "Hey honey, your Dad just got called as bishop so we won't be able to make Sunday dinner this week." "I'm swamped planning this ward Christmas party. Can we talk later?" "Do you remember your seminary teacher who moved away? She just dropped by to surprise us and said to tell you Hi!" "You're never going to believe who I bumped into at the Temple today."
SaraJanuary 30, 2026
This is incredibly powerful and life changing. Inspiring. We will read it again and share this
JamesJanuary 30, 2026
Thank you for this wonderful and truly helpful article. Two of my four grown and married children have chosen to discontinue participation in church and that is such a hard thing for my wife and I. This article helped me to organize my thoughts and feelings and motivations into more Christlike patterns. Bottom line; I love my children completely and totally independent of their testimonies or lack thereof. They are still awesome and wonderful people. This life is short and eternity is long. Heavenly Father also loves my children and I trust His plan of happiness.
Robert StarlingJanuary 30, 2026
Wow! This is such great counsel on dealing with such important issues! THANK YOU! Almost everyone needs this kind of guidance. Many of us have had these "messy" conversations, and most of us have probably not done well. It is MOST important to express unconditional love, and to invite a continuing dialog. Thanks again for your wisdom and experience in this space.
Tamra DodgeJanuary 30, 2026
Great research of the subject. The many forms of comparison, and reasoning. However, you lost me in the middle when I couldn’t absorb one more data point. I was looking for a conclusion.. a direction… and a reason for ‘why’ .. Reading this was like reading the disclaimer info tucked inside prescriptions. My apologies..
SH- Scott HoskinsJanuary 30, 2026
I dated for what seemed like quite a while before I married, and it really helped me to look at things more objectively. When someone turned me down for a date, I´d smile and give them a sincere ¨Thank you¨. You see, they´d just saved me time, money and heartache. The problem came when asked why I´d thanked them (One even opined that they were ¨out of my league¨) I would tell them that now I could find someone who WOULD like to date me. And that was when I realized that one of the goals of the refusal was to be hurtful, yet another reason not to date that person. It still stung, but it helped.
Becky McIntyreJanuary 29, 2026
We watched Standout yesterday and LOVED it!!! What an incredible person Ben was and is. And what an incredible support network he has from his family, friends, coaches and team mates. I laughed, I cried and I came away wanting to be better - more like Ben!. I have recommended that all my kids and grandkids see the movie. It made me think about my weaknesses and how I can turn them into strengths - with work, grit and perseverance. I am 70 years old and getting ready to turn in mission papers! My husband speaks Spanish fluently and so he wants to go to a Spanish speaking country. Spanish is definitely my weakness! So I just started taking Spanish lessons - this is my challenge - and Ben has inspired me to work harder, to be disobedient to average and to do way more than the class requires. Thanks to everyone who make this inspiring documentary a reality!!
AustinJanuary 28, 2026
There's a very simple answer to this. Your First Amendment rights end at my property line. End of story.
tfJanuary 28, 2026
The Woodcuts were carved by Reuben Hedlock, a member there in Nauvoo. He also went west, and produced some there, I haven't traced every edition. The picture the author shows at the top of the article has "ENG BY R HEDLOCK" in the small strip under the figures at the bottom. Same on my 1981 large print edition. The same artist is credited on the No. 2 "Hypochephalus" in my large print edition, it inside the larger circle about 3/4 up the right hand side. The 1981 large print of facimily No1, does not have Hadlock's credit, but I'm sure Hedlock did it. There was a different, less well done of #1 in my missionay triple dated 1958, but as soon as the missing Joseph Smith paper's scrolls were returned to the church, they saw that Hedlock's woodcut was far surperior, and started using it again since then, in succeeding printings that I've come across.
KathleenJanuary 28, 2026
DITO! I joined the Church at 17, served a mission in Bolivia, and married at 24. I wouldn't change those experiences or the timing, although 'in the day' it was less conventional to serve as a sister missionary and marry later. I have been better prepared for my life's path because of that foundation and am ever so grateful!
Virginia RockwellJanuary 28, 2026
That is wonderful. It is such a rich spiritual musical experience throughout.
Karla CampbellJanuary 28, 2026
Deep and stunningly beautiful! I will read it again and again! I feel the light and truth of your message! Thank you so very much!
CA ShepherdJanuary 28, 2026
This is so inspiring! Thanks so much. I’m printing this and using these recommendations! I have a Grab ‘n Go Binder and commit to updating it!
Lisa ReisingJanuary 28, 2026
I really appreciate this teaching of the symbolic nature of the Creation account - as much as I did when I first heard Brother Degn teach these concepts at BYU Education Week many years ago. The numerous patterns in scripture, in the temple, and in the Earth - there to reveal and elevate the Plan of Salvation - have opened my mind in significant ways as I have learned to see them. It is true and good that scholarship - letters, language, history - is helpful in our path of learning, but there is something very “artistic” (using the other side of the brain) about seeing the Plan of God for His children in this way, through symbols. It is elevating and exciting to the visions of eternity. It seems to be the preferred way our Lord uses to teach us heavenly things. Thank you so much!
Jamie QuistJanuary 28, 2026
Wow, just wow! So incredibly insightful and beautifully written! Thank you!
Rochelle HaleJanuary 28, 2026
I live in a relatively mild-weather state, but given the heavy storms across many parts of the country this past week, I was somewhat surprised to see so many shoppers at my big box store. And, yes, the carts were full of the usually toilet paper and cases of water. Who would have thought that last year's horrific winds would bring the loss of so many neighborhoods due to fires??!! We never know when an earthquake might hit. Also, living in a heavy commuter area, it is always a good idea to have supplies at office, school, or in the car in case we can't get home or are delayed. I have printed your list to review my family's preparation.
Kathleen GardinerJanuary 28, 2026
Thank you Brother Degn! This is profound and beautiful and mind expanding! I loved attending adult classes you have taught and this article reminds me why I loved them so much. Thank you for your ability to see and understand so deeply and for sharing it with us.
David PreeceJanuary 27, 2026
I would like to know how the author applies these constructs to the current situation in Minneapolis. The administration used the racist demonization of legal Somali immigrants to justify the invasion of ICE. This ultimately resulted in the unlawful killing of American citizen and VA nurse Alex Pretti. Hasn't this all been characterized as a "just war?"
Alvin H AndrewJanuary 27, 2026
This is very interesting scholarship. Interestingly the JST OT Manuscript,Revision 2 replaces the KJV text: "Genesis 5;22-24 And Enoch walked with God after he begat Methuselah three hundred years, and begat sons and daughters; 23 And all the days of Enoch were three hundred sixty and five years; 24 And Enoch walked with God; and he was not; for God took him." Joseph replaced that reading with the text: "Genesis 5:28 And Enoch and all his people walked with God, And he dwelt in the midst of Zion. And it came to pass, that Zion was not, for God received it up into his own bosom; and from thence went forth the saying, Zion is fled." This reflects a significantly differing view from existing ancient artifacts. It also is reflected in the Book of Moses in this manner as well, as mentioned in the article.
Richard HolmesJanuary 27, 2026
As one who has always accepted Brigham as a prophet and faithful disciple of Christ, I still agree it was correct for the Church to not authorize his Adam-God teachings until the controversies over them are resolved by the Word of the Lord as promised in Article of Faith 9. Yet I am convinced the 1916 Doctrinal Exposition that was made the official church doctrine to distance the Church from the Adam-God teachings is also flawed. Discourses, books and other sources are not guaranteed to be the Iron Rod the faith must be built on. I trust that Brigham was more correct than wrong. But I also trust that the church needs the Word of the Lord to fully resolve the controversy.
Rich BowermanJanuary 27, 2026
Just watched this first episode. What a great beginning! Already looking forward to episode 2!
SusanJanuary 27, 2026
I know this council to be true. I know that when one bears testimony, the Holy Ghost enters the equation. Arguments cease, and a quiet calm replaces tension. So many of my beloved family members are now choosing a different path. Love and covenant living is a testimony, a personal revelation for me that the Lord is in control. As the Holy Ghost bears witness to my heart and soul I feel peace and no one can argue what I am feeling. I am so thankful for the glorious gift of truth made manifest through the Holy Ghost.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 27, 2026
As Adam and Eve were cast out of the Garden, they proclaimed that they would have joy. Not that staying home, staying where it's comfortable, knowing our neighbors, attending church in our own language, etc. isn't fine, but sometimes we must go elsewhere and learn from new experiences. The Lord knows that and will often put us in places for our own growth or where we can help others. I joined the Church in my mid-teens. Some of my friends married right out of high school, others went to work or college, and others married a few years later. Most were active in church and served in callings. With a strong prompting, I served a mission (also in Argentina). I would not trade any of my experiences. I often tell young missionaries now to make the best of their daily experiences as well as birthdays and holidays. These will go down as some of the most memorable of their lives and may set a pattern for their own gospel commitments or family traditions. When I finally married, at almost 25, I thought I was an "old maid," but I looked back to see that I had accomplished all that my friends had, maybe more, and I had gained so much.
RamonaJanuary 27, 2026
Seems pretty selective about the victims. Nothing about the ongoing slaughter of Gazans by the Israeli Government or the ongoing sanctioned detention, deportation, or death of Americans based on their accents or skin color?
Mark StoddardJanuary 27, 2026
Logic leading to logic leading to calm that avoids conflict. Well said. As a missionary in Australia we often went to Fox Valley where the 7th Day Adventists lived. We had to hone our message to be just a message of the Savior and stop. Never bringing anything else up or we'd wade into the Bible-bashing routine which we were determined to avoid. In the end our goal was to smile and shake hands, deliver the message -- usually something we all deeply believed, wish them well or have a prayer and leave as friends. Nothing shows up on the mission report but we knew we had done, as you've stated, spoken soul to soul. That's enough -- even a large step up.
Terry MontagueJanuary 26, 2026
Terrific movie! We went on opening night and sat with a theater full of school wrestling teammates. Everyone applauded. Nice article John Dye.
Debrah RoundyJanuary 26, 2026
Great article. I especially like the second paragraph, or thereabouts. “Testimony speaks to a different part of the soul. Well said.
RuthJanuary 26, 2026
It makes me so sad that someone would think such terrible things about Brigham Young. I just love that man and I am so grateful for all he did. I wonder If these movies will make a difference to them that think so ill of him or if they even care about the truth.
Mark StoddardJanuary 26, 2026
Sounds terrific, Dan. I'm sure it will be at least the high quality of Witnesses and 6 Days. Excellent. The comment your referred to by critics of Brigham is mind boggling: "Some seem compelled to open any discussion of Brigham by describing him as “flawed.”" How would we start a discussion on Abraham, Moses, Peter, Paul, and on and on -- with each as "flaw." When referring to a human, to say he or she is flawed is to be redundant and pedantic. AND, didn't Christ refer to such comments as "beam in your eye...?"
LoraJanuary 26, 2026
I am very eager to see "Becoming Brigham" (he's my gr-gr-gr-uncle), but I don't see a link to the video. Is that coming out later?
Doris WilliamsJanuary 26, 2026
Oh, Brother Peterson, thank you, thank you for your scholarship and insight in so many historical presentations and the written word. I loved the movie Six Days in August and all the effort it took to bring it to the screen. I love Brigham. I love Joseph. Needless to say, I love Jesus Christ and this precious restored gospel. I have great respect and love for all our early church leaders and the monumental effort expended to establish this true church on the earth with its saving ordinances and fulness of our Savior's teachings. I greatly value the efforts of our faithful historians and teachers who validate the first fruits of the restoration: our beloved scriptures. Bless all your continued efforts.
Jane GonzalezJanuary 26, 2026
how do we see the video on Meridian magazinez/
Gordon HensleyJanuary 26, 2026
Example 1: When the Centurions came to the Garden of Gethsemane to arrest Jesus, Peter stepped up and cut off the ear of one. Jesus rebuked Peter, then healed the ear of the Roman soldier. Example 2: In response to threats of extermination from enemies of the Saints, Joseph Smith organized the Nauvoo Legion. I believe our choices are somewhere in between. Satan will not stop inspiring persecution of the Saints until he is bound at the Second Coming. There will always be pockets of suffering until then. Do what is needful to protect your families. If this world were the only thing we had to look forward to, life would be a cruel cosmic joke.
Stephen MarshallJanuary 26, 2026
This is a fine tribute to one of the great prophets of the latter days. I look forward to the video series on Brigham Young, which I expect will be just as meaningful as the Interpreter's other great films "Witnesses," "Undaunted," and "Six Days in August." Thank you brother Peterson for your great work!
Susan RoylanceJanuary 26, 2026
Where on Meridian is the video available?
Harold RustJanuary 26, 2026
Thank you again, Brother Peterson, for highlighting another legacy from early "Founding Fathers" ----Joseph and Brigham and so many other good men and women--and allowing us to comfortably rejoice in all the good they pursued and achieved during their lives. It is interesting to observe common human behavior regarding what they think and/or say about others. For so many of us, if we are in a group of associates and they are disdaining or disparaging another person (whether some one well known or just another classmate), there is a strong tendency not only to think the worst of the person being discussed but to often join in with another specific example of why that person is so "bad". And yet, if just one "respected" member of that group discussion emphasizes a positive experience or observation regarding the "bad" person, the conversation can often turn on a dime into many concurring with the positive descriptions. Conclusion: we are heavily influenced by attitutdes of those right around us----often far beyond what should be accurate, truthful, and uplifting influence when the discourse highlights failings--even when somewhat factual--of others. So.........thanks for being one of those rare individuals in a crowd who firmly but authoritatively states, "Wait a minute; I would like to share a few real examples of what I admire about that person". Then we all rise to a higher level of what can be our "better self".
Jennie WilstedJanuary 24, 2026
My sincere condolences to the Holland family for the loss of their father. Anything I contribute to build upon his precious character is insufficient. The world truly will never know another Jeffrey Holland he was irreplaceable.
David PreeceJanuary 23, 2026
The administration says ICE can now operate at churches. Sacred sanctuaries. That doesn’t mean the Constitution vanished. Yes, DHS can change internal policy. But policy is not permission. ICE still can’t target worship, intimidate congregations, or enter private church spaces without a judge-signed warrant. Administrative ICE warrants don’t authorize that. And here’s where courts are getting uneasy: there are already reports of agents surveilling services, waiting outside churches, questioning clergy, and making arrests tied to worship attendance. Even when arrests happen “near” churches, the pattern matters. When enforcement chills religious practice, judges step in and the Constitution rules. That’s the line courts keep drawing: You can announce it. You can’t enforce it abusively. The First Amendment still protects worship. The Fourth Amendment still protects private space. And when enforcement gets sloppy—or strategic—courts shut it down. Legal to declare. Sketchy to implement. Unconstitutional when abused.
Cheryl CheekJanuary 23, 2026
I saw this movie last night and met Ben Kjar. The movie was both inspirational and down-to-earth. It helped me to see myself differently, and helped me to understand that my weaknesses could actually become a path for transformational change. And he is even more dynamic in person than he was on the screen!
Kenny MazzantiJanuary 23, 2026
In 1838 the Saints in Far West were convinced to give up their firearms to ease tensions with the Missourians. They did so. The end result is that along with church officials being unjustly jailed, homes and crops burned and cattle slaughtered, more than 400 Saints were raped and murdered by Missouri Militia and citizens. Recently, Saints were murdered in Michigan. The church currently has a "no guns on church property" policy so that everyone can feel safe. That policy makes us "soft targets". "Liken the scriptures unto yourselves" is a great motivational thought. We speak much of Captain Moroni, the Title of Liberty and the 2000 stripling warriors. What did the Nephites do when the Lamanites came to attack? They did not "run, hide, fight back with whatever you can get your hands on" which is the church mass shooter attack policy. They fought back with swords, cimiters, slings, bows and arrows. The armament of that day. They did not submit to the murder and brutality of the Lamanites. They fought back, and were able to do so because they were armed and prepared to protect their families and their liberty. In a recent Meridian article, the Gadianton Robbers were discussed. What did the Nephites do about that? They went throughout the land and killed them all. Some were captured and given the opportunity to swear an oath of peace. Those that refused were killed. These are harsh words. Those were harsh times; much like Far West Missouri in 1838. Most LDS people are not prepared to take up arms. Some of us are.
MargaretJanuary 22, 2026
Exactly what I needed to read! I do have chronic dysthymia/depression and two of my bishops feel that the condition and/or the medication I take could be the reason that I don't have any strong impressions or feelings in the temple. Trying to attend monthly with my husband (we live 2 hours from the temple),
AnnieJanuary 22, 2026
I take time to pray before the endowment session. I ask to be alert, awake, attentive, and to learn something new. Then I focus on the instruction. It works for me every time.
CmarieJanuary 22, 2026
So inspiring! Thank you for sharing your gifts of imagery through the collection of scripture verses. Despite my very strong testimony, I too fall victim to "factory falsehood " at times. I will be printing this article for those times and for my friends. The joy we can have and give has no end!
Brenda Hosaflook WellsJanuary 21, 2026
Wow! After reading this article, the “Sabbath rest” is to help me become “whole” again, to find my stability after the world, troubles, and earthly needs affect me throughout the week. Thank you so much for this new perspective and truth!
MGJanuary 21, 2026
Jeff, I haven’t learned yet to set great boundaries. So if I did what you’re suggesting I would get caught up with every man I dated. I think some of us have to be careful being interested in the other person because we get taken advantage of in our vulnerability.
KathleenJanuary 21, 2026
Great Idea!
Linda WestoverJanuary 20, 2026
Some of us do not experience “great” moments because we already have a strong testimony—we don’t need confirmation to build us up. Some also have subtle experiences so often that they don’t recognize them for what they are. Whatever our personal feelings are, we need to just move forward with faith and confidence.
DTJanuary 20, 2026
Excellent article. I also don’t quite understand and have never heard the theory that the creation is a temple text. But the ideas here are fascinating and clarifying. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and research.
JoanJanuary 20, 2026
Thank you for this article. You have read my mind and my heart and have motivated me to keep going.
JeffJanuary 20, 2026
Man - next time I'm asked to give a talk in church, I might just read this verbatim. Such an important message in our current social climate. Not only is it a reminder of how Christ want's us to live, but also a good benchmark for evaluating the voices we trust - whether they are following Christ's path, or Satan's.
HelenCJanuary 19, 2026
My mother loved the Hebrew Bible! She understood its language and poetry. While a faithful Latter Day Saint, she never felt the same love for the Book of Mormon. It just didn’t “sing” to her in the same way as Isaiah.
Lindsey DixonJanuary 19, 2026
As I read your thoughtful article and identified your clearly marked point of view, my heart sank. It was one-sided, seeing only the evidence of corruption that aligns with your political point of view. Using language like radical left to describe the work of the USAID was divisive, accusing and arrogant. People with left leaning priorities in the church, and out, may differ in their points of view from your own, but grouping and describing them as radical makes it so easy to think of them not as your brother or sister in Christ, but your enemy. We can agree that the Book of Mormon is describing our day. We can agree that the patterns of secret plans to grab power and wealth are pervasive and oppressive. We must feel the same heaviness and troubled hearts. I see our present gadiantons seezing power the constitution does not afford, hiding terrible abuses of children and gathering illicit weath, and demonizing immigrants. if you open your heart to the Spirit's guidance, and look through His lens, I suspect you will see that satan has no aisle. He is willing to corrupt and destroy from all angles. He is succeeding beautifully as we gather in tribes of "rightness" with our fingers pointed toward the radicals and sycophants. Can we call corruption corruption regardless of which tribe it comes from? I fear if we cannot, we will be very surprised to knock on the door of the wedding feast prepared to sup with the Lord, only to hear depart from Me, you never knew me.
Peggy WardJanuary 19, 2026
Thank you --so very, very much. You have turned around my "check-list" world today and I want to sing the Song of Redeeming Love and feel it and see it and see myself and others as the glorious beings we are. I always love what you write, but THIS is a moment of clarity and joy and rising up of my soul even while I clean the bathroom. This is just so very lovingly, beautifully, insightfully written. I cherish this. Thank you
MickeyJanuary 18, 2026
Eating disorders are genetic, metabolic, and neurobiological and not a choice, a sin, or a conscious decision. They happen when the person with the genetics for it enters a negative energy balance. The above information is well-meaning ans will not help cure eating disorders or even prevent them, although it is really important we all understand out divine nature and value.
Karen BensonJanuary 18, 2026
When women are demonized as sinners because Eve ate the fruit first demonstrates a lack of understanding of Eve's inexperience with Satan. Eve was deceived and not having any prior experience with Satan's deceptions could not determine the best course of action to overcome Satan lies. Adam chose to knowingly sin. Both decisions Adam and Eve made shows a very big difference between the two ways Heavenly Father chooses to deal with us if we are deceived or if we choose to sin. The on going discussion trying to show that Eve/ women are the weaker sex is also one of Satan's deceptions. We each have very different roles in this life. Minimizing or demeaning either sex is not of God and feels like another example of Satan's deceptions that we all fall into if we agree with this way of thinking. I would like to read an article about the 2 different ways Heavenly Father dealt with sinners versus being deceived. I enjoyed finally reading a positive article about Eve's contributions.
Pam BlairJanuary 18, 2026
I love Meridian, but $40 is beyond my budget. I could do $20, but that doesn't seem to be an option. Do you only cater to those above a certain income level, and not to those of us who rely on Social Security? I hope not!
Bill BellJanuary 17, 2026
This makes so much sense. Why is water boiling? Brother says it's because heat was placed under it. Mom says because I'm making chocolate. We ask why is there an earth? Science says because of the big bang. God says I needed a place for my children to live. Wow! My eyes opened a little.
Robert HagedornJanuary 17, 2026
Is the exegesis of Genesis 1:28--4:1 presented at 2thefirstscandal.blogspot.com worthy of discussion, debate, criticism, and evaluation of validity?
RoyJanuary 17, 2026
Love the picture… first vision from afar! Where could I get a copy to place in my house. I love the perspective of the illustration.
AnonymousJanuary 16, 2026
There are lots of different ways that people can struggle to love their bodies. My wife for example struggles with several autoimmune conditions that cause her body to be very sensitive to outside stimuli from food, temperature, even exercise. Each one basically creates an allergic reaction. This has made it almost impossible for her to lose weight and for us to continue our family. We have tried to get help from doctors in the past but no longer trust them and cannot afford to continue searching so we do the best we can on our own but she is at a low point and I wish I knew how to help her more
Boanerges RubalcavaJanuary 16, 2026
THE IMPORTANCE OF WATERS ABOVE THE FIRMAMENT I am writing for you my thinking of something that for some time was a little bit difficult to understand. Of course, this is only my understanding, and it is not by any means a doctrine in the church. First, let’s go to the Bible and Genesis 1:6-8: “And God said, let there be a firmament in the midst of the waters, and let it divide the waters from the waters. And God made the firmament and divide the waters which were under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament: and it was so. And God called the firmament Heaven. And the evening and the morning were the second day.” If you remember, everything that He was doing was very important for the next creation. But what was that a firmament to divide the waters from the waters? The waters under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament? Please allow me to explain something about the structure of water, and what really the water is and its behavior. Everybody knows that the chemical formula of water is H2O, which means that it has 2 Hydrogen atoms and one Oxygen atom. This is right, but it is not so simple, since water has some specific properties that make it very peculiar and important for life. Oxygen is a very electronegative element. This means that Oxygen has a tremendous eagerness for electrons. In the so simple molecule H2O, although in Chemistry compounds are made when the atoms share electrons, in the case of water one electron in each of the two Hydrogen atoms are share with the Oxygen atom, but the share due to the great electronegativity of the Oxygen, the electrons are “more” to the Oxygen than to the Hydrogens, and because of that the molecule of water is a polar molecule, meaning that it has a pole with a residual negative charge in the Oxygen atom (electrons more to the Oxygen) and 2 residual positive charges in each of the Hydrogen atoms (the Protons + with less influence from the electrons which “went” closer to the Oxygen). This makes the water molecule a unique one, since these residual charges are attracted to each other with opposite charges. This makes the structure of water not just H2O, but (H2O)n. This means that water is several molecules a water together, but not a real different molecule, but only loosely bound to each other in what in Chemistry is known as Hydrogen bridges. The “liquid’ water then is form by several molecules united through these Hydrogen bridges. If the temperature comes lower and lower, the molecules come more and more together, meaning even more molecules come to be bound, this makes that, to be so many more molecules together, this conglomerate of molecules leaves hollows making what we called ICE, and of course because of the hollows ICE is less dense than the “liquid water” and Ice floats in the liquid water (this is unique to water). This is important for life, since when the lakes and rivers are frozen, the water below the Ice remains liquid and therefore life is possible there. If now we increase the temperature of the liquid water, we break the Hydrogen bridges making the water as just one H2O molecule and this makes the water to evaporate into the air. Besides the clouds, there is what is called WATER VAPOR in our atmosphere. Clouds are visible masses of tiny liquid water droplets or ice crystals suspended in the atmosphere, formed when invisible WATER VAPOR (the gaseous state of water) cools and condenses onto microscopic particles like dust or salt, a process vital to the Earth's water cycle as vapor rises, cools, and forms clouds that eventually release water as precipitation. WATER VAPOR is essential for life in this earth, since without it, life cannot exist since the earth would be frozen. WATER VAPOR has a property known as greenhouse gas (ghg) meaning that this molecule because of its chemistry (H2O) absorbs and retains Heat. The heat from the Sun comes to earth and rebound in its Cortex and without the Water Vapor, the heat would escape to the outer space making the earth frozen with no way to maintain life. Now, I can explain the scripture in Genesis, and we can see the real importance of the Water Vapor (the waters above?) and the firmament dividing this water, from the waters below (seas, lakes rivers). And we can see the tremendous importance for life (earth is not frozen) and the water below the firmament to create life in all its forms.
Patrick D. DegnJanuary 16, 2026
Mark, I know this response is arriving a few years late, but perhaps others may still benefit from your question. Genesis 1 is called a “temple text” because, in the ancient Near Eastern world, “creation” often means more than God manufacturing raw material from nothing. It means God bringing order out of chaos and shaping the world into a functioning, holy place where He can dwell and rule—very much like the inauguration or dedication of a temple. Read that way, the seven days of Genesis 1 look like a week-long temple inauguration, and the climax is not day 6 (humanity) but day 7. When God “rests,” the point is not that He is tired but that, in temple language, He has taken His seat—He dwells, reigns, and presides in His ordered house. You can see this pattern throughout the Bible. After the tabernacle is built, “the glory of the Lord filled the tabernacle” (Exodus 25–40), signaling that God has taken up residence. At Solomon’s temple dedication, again “the glory of the Lord filled the house of the Lord” (1 Kings 8; 2 Chronicles 5–7). Ezekiel’s vision of the temple (Ezekiel 40–48) portrays God’s returning presence and the life that flows from His house. Many psalms are steeped in temple theology (for example, Psalms 24; 29; 48; 93; 96–99; 132), presenting the Lord as the enthroned King in His holy dwelling. Isaiah’s call vision (Isaiah 6) places him in the heavenly temple-throne room. Psalm 104 poetically describes God’s ordering of the world in ways that many readers see as resonant with “cosmic temple” imagery—the whole creation as the ordered domain in which God lives and reigns. Restoration scripture is rich in “temple texts” as well. Lehi’s vision of the tree of life, the allegory of the olive tree in Jacob 5, the dedicatory prayer of the Kirtland Temple in Doctrine and Covenants 109, and the “house of order / house of God” language in Doctrine and Covenants 88:119 all fit into this pattern of God ordering a people and a place for His presence. The creation accounts in the Book of Moses and the Book of Abraham (Pearl of Great Price) also invite us to see creation not merely as a sequence of events in time, but as God preparing and ordering a sacred space and a covenant people for His dwelling. If you would like a clear and accessible introduction to this line of thought, a very good place to start is John H. Walton’s The Lost World of Genesis One, especially his discussions of the “cosmic temple” and God’s “rest.” BioLogos also offers a concise summary article titled “Creation is the Temple Where God Rests,” which distills many of these ideas in a short, readable form. To Rita, Jo Ann, Helmut, Craig, Shauna, Linda, and Gary: thank you for your generous and thoughtful comments. It is a blessing to glimpse together how the Lord not only creates worlds, but orders hearts, homes, and communities into temples fit for His presence.
KathleenJanuary 16, 2026
I always felt grateful that I wanted to be at home and could contribute in volunteer situations surrounding what my children were doing. It was and still is a difficult line to walk. Let the Holy Ghost be your individual guide and then one can withstand the unrighteous judgement of others.
ErikpeterhansenJanuary 15, 2026
And people wonder how the Endowment was created from pieces of the ancient Mason ceremonies. Joseph became a Mason as did many leaders of communities. He was enlightened to see the original purposes of these ceremonies. He inquired of the Lord and The Endowment was restored based on revelation brought about by his experiences with masonry. It continues to be refined by revelation.
Kay Wiemer GerkeJanuary 15, 2026
I have not been this moved by reading an article in a very long time. Tanya Neider writes in a way that captures your heart, mind, and soul. Her descriptive style conveys spiritual depth that can only come from a lived dedication to the gospel and an understanding of the most tender human emotions. I agree with her sentiments in every way, and I plan to take her wise advice to record myself and others with purpose. I look forward to her column each month; she is a gifted writer with valuable insights.
JeanJanuary 14, 2026
Thanks. I needed to hear this podcast. Actually, listened to it twice.
LewisJanuary 14, 2026
This is such a wonderful article, as it caused me to reflect on the many wonderful people that have touched my life. It sent me into this beautiful reverie of gratitude for those incredible people that have shaped me. Thank you for sharing your gift.
bob taylorJanuary 14, 2026
pictures - maybe just me, but i detest ai generated pictures - the picture with this article is clearly ai generated - any i strongly feel that when ai is used for this purpose, that the picture should be clearly labeled as such. the same for written articles - when the final product is ai generated, the picture should be labeled as such.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 14, 2026
Thank you for those beautiful insights and reminders. Loved the thought that carrying deformities /imperfections may be a pre-earth prayer answered. And finishing our race used up and worn out can be demonstration of a life well lived. The consequence of Satan and his minions rebellion is that they will never have a body. You reminded us of the privilege it is and that every day is a gift.
Tracey GriwJanuary 14, 2026
As always Vivian illuminates to true nature of Eve (and Adam). Her articles and talks about Eve have truly blessed my life. Thank you for more understanding from this article.
Susan RoylanceJanuary 14, 2026
I love the concept of Adam preparing the earth to receive Eve - their new home.
Linda BosleyJanuary 14, 2026
Thankyou for your beautiful perspective and insights about the gift of body. I loved listening this morning I’m turning 78 in March and have 6 children and all the blessings of posterity that brings. I lived most of my life with the negative perspective about my body; in resistance and feeling it was my burden to bear. The gospel of Jesus Christ has changed my perspective. I’m so thankful that now I can say Amen to everything you shared so beautifully in your message. Sending gratitude and thanks for your work and words. Sincerely Linda
Corey D.January 14, 2026
Excellent, well written, well explained and needed during a time of polarization.
David PreeceJanuary 13, 2026
You've made some excellent points here. It is disheartening to see fellow Latter-day Saints succumb to the conspiracy trap. As an example, surveys found that approximately 18–21% of Latter-day Saints endorsed at least one core QAnon belief—higher than the national average of 15%. There are several factors at play here, some historical, some cultural, and some structural. Persecution memory, moral absolutism, distrust of external authority, and subjective truth-validation can combine in ways that endorse modern conspiracy theories. This unique susceptibility is driven by the impact of these factors than by LDS theology itself. Diverse news sources and objective and rational (sometimes skeptical) analysis combined with a sound scriptural foundation, attention to Apostles and faithful introspection is the conspiracy-avoidance formula.
VickiJanuary 13, 2026
Eternal concepts wonderfully explored in luminously beautiful prose. Well-done!
VickiJanuary 13, 2026
This article is well-written in exalting prose, worthy of the eternal principles discussed. Luminously beautiful!
Josue GonzalezJanuary 13, 2026
I've always been afraid of what my social life will be like in my old age. I know that one day my children will leave home to pursue their dreams. This article has taught me a lot about how to prepare for that day and that loneliness won't be a problem in my life.
HelenCJanuary 13, 2026
I love Brigham’s statement about the quality of Brother Joseph’s works, by which “[we] shall know [him]” (see Matt 7:20)
Danny MarlowJanuary 13, 2026
I thought we could keep politics out of religion
Roberta HarrisJanuary 12, 2026
Thank you once again for a very thought provoking article! I have now decided to try it too by organizing into groups starting from ones in my young years to current church friends. Some time ago we made a list of "pivotal people" who had come into our lives. People who opened up paths to take that we consider life changing. Becky, you have been on that list since our first encounter many years ago. That path changed our lives and ultimately the lives of our family. All because we read about you and your work in India in the Church News. Yes...a pivotal person! Thank you Becky!!
LewisJanuary 12, 2026
What a wonderful story. I was just pondering as we entered the new year how many people had influenced my life. Your article provided a timely push to reach out to them to express thanks for the incredible blessing they had been in my life.
CynthiaJanuary 12, 2026
Becky, I am so inspired by your goal this new year to reach out to friends from the past! Thank you for following the inspiration to make a list of people who have been an influence in your life. What a fabulous idea! I echo your sentiment that God puts us in places at different times so that we might develop these friendships to serve and love. Thank you for your marvelous example!
GraceJanuary 12, 2026
Love your story and article! Yes, we can be a network of pain or joy. My comment is to hopefully lessen your travel sleep troubles. A red infrared light placed on your chest for about 20-25 mins before going to bed will reset your circadian rhythm that night. My Best to You.
Herm OlsenJanuary 12, 2026
This is a lovely, thoughtful reminder of the magnificence of our souls, and of the royal dignity to which we are each entitled. Thank you for sharing these profound truths.
Phil HobbyJanuary 12, 2026
As Moses said to Satan, 'Who art thou? For behold, I am a son of God, in the similitude of his Only Begotten;' (Moses 1:13) A brilliant article, absolutely outstanding. Thank you Patrick
Doris WilliamsJanuary 11, 2026
Thank you so much, Brother Stoddard for posting this true "gem" about Elder Holland. I laughed and laughed and had to send it to all my family and friends. So many things have been written about Elder Holland, how he affected countless people in so many ways. We are truly going to miss this giant in the service of the Lord.
Tracey growJanuary 9, 2026
This is beautifully written. Thank you for the imagery and the glorious truths.
Corey D.January 9, 2026
One of the best commentaries there is on both our present and past political situation is found in a talk given by Elder George A. Smith, Vol 5 of the Journal of Discourses, pages 60-62, given in 1857. Anyone I have shared that with, I have made the statement, if you were to read his comments without knowing who said it and when it was given you would think it was a talk given more recently, all have agreed. Kind of summed up by Satan in the Temple Endowment presentation, "you can buy anything in this world with money".
Debbie A.January 9, 2026
A beautiful and inspiring remembering! Your elegant words brought joy and purpose back into the mundane! You have awakened our souls and pointed us to the torn veil again and of Him who means everything! You have opened our eyes and hearts as to why we can even now have that brilliant hope... even midst our suffering!
Judy FollettJanuary 9, 2026
My very favorite speaker at General conference was Elder Holland. I loved listening to him, as he held my attention throughout his speaking. What a wonderful man. We will all miss him. I enjoyed Mark's story. Thanks for sharing it.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2026
So beautifully western. Thank you. Much more engaging than C. S. Lewis’ ‘Mere Christianity’.
DianeJanuary 9, 2026
Thank you for this compilation of beautiful messages and the invitation to delve into this year’s study with new eyes.
Douglas LieningJanuary 9, 2026
Well written. Thanks so much for taking the time to express these beliefs. You have brightened my day!
Edson José Martins LopesJanuary 9, 2026
My! What a marvelous, inspiring and exhalting text. It enables us to glimpse into the beauty of our past life, and despite the eerie view of this "factory", it shows us purpose. It makes it clear once more how important the temple is in our life, as a permanent reminder of our origins and future.
Joel MarksJanuary 9, 2026
God bless President Eyring and Elder Uchdorf!
Elisha JonesJanuary 9, 2026
That was absolutely beautiful!
LauraJanuary 9, 2026
I had not realized you were so enraptured with news put out by the MAGA right. The story you describe is inaccurate and unverified. Shocking that this concerns you more than ICE actions, presidential overreach, kidnapping of heads of state, acts of aggression to former allies, disregard for the Constitution, etc. No concern at the immorality, filth and lies coming from the president but willing to believe whatever he says no matter how improbable. Soon his flaxen cords will have us all bound so tightly we will have no freedom, no country.
Mike H.January 8, 2026
We do have to be careful about corruption allegations, I think of the "Pizzagate" hubris that almost ended in tragedy a few years ago. Also, a high up US Administration official announced that ICE was going to be going door to door to hunt down illegal immigrants.Nothing was said about needing a search warrant, or, if they will force there way in if they don't trust you, causing 4th Amendment to the US Constitution concerns.
David SmithJanuary 8, 2026
Your article missed the $64,000 question. Does modern analysis of the remains of the Joseph Smith scrolls match up with what is published in the Book of Abraham in any respect?
Paul BishopJanuary 8, 2026
Great take on a great man...
Eric LarsonJanuary 8, 2026
I'm just gonna say, that secret combinations don't really map that well on to the American left–right ideological spectrum; they don't belong to one or the other side of it. If anything, we've seen in recent events (and the author aptly illustrated) that Gaddiantons serve only themselves and will manipulate whatever systems, ideologies or people-groups they need to reach their goals; to take it all for themselves because they're bigger and stronger and smarter than someone else. The might-makes-right philosophy that seems re-ascendant today didn't turn out so well for Kishkumen or for King David, and it doesn't bode well for the future.
David HarmonJanuary 8, 2026
Nick Shirley has been debunked. His "investigation" is full of lies.
KJBJanuary 8, 2026
Never mind that this scandal began while Trump was president and was investigated by Biden's DOJ. Never mind that the perpetrators were white. Never mind that Shirley deliberately went to these daycare centers when they were closed to create a photo op. Never mind that the state of Minnesota investigated the centers afterwards and found no evidence of wrongdoing. Never mind that Shirley did this for blatantly political reasons and even bragged on Twitter about how he "ended" Tim Walz. Never mind that Shirley was even at the Capitol on January 6th. I hope those centers sue him for slander for two reasons. One, so they can get justice and two, so he and you can do what you do best: whine and cry about what persecuted victims you are. This is why people are leaving the Church: way too many "good members" who treat what is supposed to be the word of God as a social circle while saving their true worship for increasingly extremist right-wing politics. You're entitled to believe in whatever you like, but don't pretend for a moment that you care about what Christ Himself would have said or done.
L. ReyesJanuary 8, 2026
Enjoyed the article and will read your book
Kimberly GibbonsJanuary 7, 2026
For those asking, I found the source of the final quote. It is: Preface to The Gospel of Jesus Christ in the Old Testament, published by the Religious Studies Center (BYU) https://rsc.byu.edu/gospel-jesus-christ-old-testament/preface
KJJanuary 7, 2026
Thank you for the encouragement. I wonder how to go about countering it. We're conditioned by cancel cultures (on both sides) to believe it's the "other side" that's corrupt & not our own. We feel we are somehow protected en masse by group-think of the parties we "fight for." We truly are pawns in their armies. Even if they do have some talking points or platform stances that match our values, we cannot sell our souls for them. It has become clear we traded one set of tyrants for another, we think they're fighting for us but we're really dying (literally and figuratively) for corrupt powers that be. When things get scary and depressing, wise people tell children to "look for the helpers." We need to share that with the adults as well. If we look for the helpers, we're looking beyond our fears. We are looking outside of our current embattled spheres. We will gravitate to them. The helpers will be too busy being kind and being peacemakers to be caught up in the politics. I was a political science major, I used to breath politics. Then I saw how divisive that was and had to develop other hobbies and even seriously question some of my beliefs. Did they match up with the gospel as I read in the scriptures and lived it? Did my party challenge some of the "amicus briefs" the Church filed? Were they peacemakers or calling names aka bullying?
MikeJanuary 7, 2026
Excellent article, but you're missing the forest for the trees. Elon Musk is one of the robbers. He and DOGE were't actually looking for fraud, they were rampaging through government shutting down anything they could get away with in order to cut enough spending to justify tax breaks for Elon. He also shut down every agency that was conducting criminal investigations of him and his companies. He's solidly in the "letting the guilty and the wicked go unpunished because of their money" camp. Also that group are thousands of criminals who paid Trump millions of dollars each for pardons from whatever crimes they committed. Most of it was up to billions of dollars of fraud/theft, but quite a few were violent criminals. When fraud is pardoned the criminal gets to keep what they stole and don't have to pay back their victims. Trump also pardoned everyone convicted of storming the capitol based on his lies that the election was stolen, and many of them have since been convicted of new violent crimes. The scriptures about “usurped power and authority" cover the Trump administration, his judicial appointees, and all the Republicans in Congress who enable him. The administration breaks a new law practically every day and only a few law-respecting judges try to stop him. They say encouraging the military to uphold the Constitution and to disobey illegal orders is treason. Be cautious with your admiration for Nick Shirley, most of his "investigation" is fraudulent. His "findings" had already been widely investigated with arrests and prosecution already having happened. Shirley visited centers after hours when they were closed, and of course they were empty while they were closed. Or trespassed during business hours and was refused entry because who's going to let random strangers into a daycare with children? His "informant" David Hoch is a many-time failed political candidate and agitator who says he was supplied "research on the child care centers from his contacts at the Capitol.” The Trump admin used the viral video to justify cutting off funding to blue states that didn't vote for him. It's all part of "corrupted law to punish their innocent ideological opponents". You seem to be claiming "marxists" are the modern-day gadiantons, but the corruption in the US is all the way up Trump, a former reality TV show host, and his enablers, most of whom came from Fox news to be appointed to political positions of power and glory. His and JD Vance's campaigns were financed by South African oligarchs Elon Musk and Peter Thiel. Trump turned the capitol building into a golden alter to his ego and has enriched his family by billions of dollars in just a few years. He was an active participant in Epstein's trafficking and is a convicted felon. He has the full support of almost the entire Republican party. We are in a tough spot as a nation.
Susan AndersonJanuary 7, 2026
I find it hilarious that people are still here in 2026 marveling about the prediction of corruption and secret combinations happening in our leadership as if this nation was not built on these things from the very foundation. How insightful to point out something that has existed since time immemorial and gasp, it is also relevant TODAY! What are we going to actually do about this aside from reading about it and marveling while we wait for Jesus to come save us? Also, shameful to be bringing some overplayed YouTuber who tried to enter into daycares with a camera as if that would ever be permissible or appropriate for a strange man with a camera to walk into a daycare. If that were to ever happen at any place where my child spends their day I would be LIVID. Not a good look LDS Living. I would also like to know what the BoM says about kidnapping a leader of a country and pedophelia. Can we start there perhaps? Could this YouTuber look into the Epstein files for us please?
David NicolJanuary 7, 2026
Any ideas from the Book of Mormon about kidnapping leaders and their wives from other nations and planning to invade and take over other nations (Greenland). It’s not just a Minnesota thing.
John B. HewlettJanuary 7, 2026
Excellent article, thank you for your insight and scholarship. I am saddened by so many of the faithful who have allowed their disdain for the flaws of DJT to cloud their objectivity about the evil and Gadianton corruption in every institution. We need more exposure, more illumination of the wickedness, in an effort to stem the tide of rot, filth and corruption we are being consumed by. Truth is truth, and EVIL is EVIL, and the entire political system is filled with graft, theft, and hypocrisy. Wake up, speak up, and be counted like the young Patriot Nick Shirley who is helping to show many of us the courage and fortitude we should have in exposing this condition.
L. ReyesJanuary 7, 2026
I’ve been saying for years that Latter-day Saints spend far too little time studying the OT. I’ve never once heard anyone bear testimony that “the Bible is true and the word of God.” That we spend one year out of four focusing on the OT results only in a cursory understanding. We skip over and skim through a lot of it. LDS members generally also lack any real knowledge about how the Bible came about, its own history, and why it’s so important. I enjoy your articles.
LesnKCJanuary 7, 2026
I love this idea, but as a convert who still owns a red-letter edition of the Bible, I'm not comfortable with the color red in this version. I know this seems petty, but the color red was always the words of Jesus Christ. I definitely would purchase this if it were any other color of lettering for the JST.
GBuxtonJanuary 7, 2026
God help us to elect intelligent, wise, honest and truthful people who are committed to following the rule of law and upholding the constitution instead of worrying about their own re-election and falling into disfavor within their own party. Currently, I feel that the "solutions" created by this administration compound many of our nation's problems and are created from misinformation, exaggeration, power-grabbing and revenge politics. We need people of integrity to lead us. I pray that God will influence our elected officials to be the kind of leaders we can trust to do what is right.
Jeff LindsayJanuary 6, 2026
Thanks for the kind responses. Frankly, while the news and prophecies of corruption and secret combinations can be depressing, it is a wonder to me how relevant and insight the Book of Mormon has become on these topics. If the world would pay attention and study the Book of Mormon, they would find powerful evidence just in the secret combination material that the Book of Mormon truly is prophetic and marvelously accurate, complying with the findings of scholarship on how fraud and conspiracies work, their varied forms, and their impact on society. Powerful evidence of authenticity ad divine guidance.
LaWren BoothJanuary 6, 2026
Excellent courageous article! With America’s 250th anniversary this year… find ways to be involved in your community. Learn about and promote the Constitution. Call your state and federal congressmen with your concerns. Call the Whitehouse switchboard. Financially support and/or campaign for candidates in the mid-term elections. Volunteer with your local county political affiliation in helping with patriotic educational events. Be a precinct leader. Run for county commissioner or school board or support those who do. Attend county, state , or even national conventions. Ask your bishop if you can speak in July in sacrament meeting about the gospel principles that gave birth to our nation and its relationship to the BOM. Teach your children to the ideals of America.
Richard D. GardnerJanuary 6, 2026
Well said! Too many of us are afraid to bring up topics such as this because we don't want to seem "political." But fraud is fraud. Whether daycare fraud or voting fraud, or judges that ignore their sworn duties to keep society safe and let repeat criminals re-offend. All upheld by the media that strive to cover up stories that don't fit their narrative. I too have made the connection to Book of Mormon scriptures about government corruption.
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
I'm all for creating family unity, and one of the best ways to avoid the political divisions is just to agree that you won't talk about that subject. I am really not interested in asking questions, or opening up a discussion, about WHY someone supports abortion on demand, or wants to eliminate the 2nd Amendment, or talk about trans-gender issues. I believe discussing these things is rarely productive or helpful. I think we should be focusing more on how we are alike as children of God, and on the love that binds us together. The world is obsessed with our differences which often puts "diversity" on a pedestal.
Jamie QuistJanuary 6, 2026
Amen! I especially like the idea that the scriptures about the secret combinations aren't meant to depress us, but to call us to action with the gospel, hard work and faith. That it is possible to defeat them.
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
Maurine, I think we have all experienced those feelings of being tired, overwhelmed, and wondering if God is really aware of us. We can also wonder why he doesn't seem to be helping us more. Like our Prophet, Joseph Smith, we cry out, "Oh, God, where art thou?" I felt this way recently, and received my confirmation in the temple that God is watching over and protecting me. The Temple is a wonderful place to intently look for all the ways the Lord shows His love and concern for us.
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
I like to think that, as Spirit Children of God, we had some small part in the creation of the earth upon which we would dwell. As a love of all things green, I hope I got to plant some seeds!
MaryannJanuary 6, 2026
I'm with you here 100%, but many of us feel helpless. We pray for our nation, we vote for candidates we feel good about, we take opportunities to speak the truth and to speak out against corruption. Still, illegal actions are continually swept under the rug. Perpetrators are let go, and then commit more crimes again. I continue to pray that the Lord will preserve our freedoms and protect us from our enemies from within and from without, but it seems like there must be something MORE we can do.
Glenda PeckhamJanuary 6, 2026
Thank you for this wonderful article! I have seen too many Saints become complacent and more fearful of offending than being offended by the terrible corruption in our society. This is an excellent wakeup call for righteous people to gain courage and not be intimidated by the louder voices of those who would perpetuate this evil to destroy us and our nation. This should be required ready for all who love our freedom and our country!
Lonnie StradlingJanuary 6, 2026
These have been my same thoughts for years. Thank you Jeff Lindsay for the skill of writing them in a very thoughtful and persuasive manner.
Tom McKnightJanuary 6, 2026
Well done, Jeff. I enjoyed this a lot. Thanks for writing it.
Herm OlsenJanuary 6, 2026
Good on Mr. Shirley for exposing fraud. I wish he would now turn his attention to the corruption in the White House and Congress.
Edson LopesJanuary 6, 2026
It is evident that such corruption is flooding the whole world. Right now, Brazil seems to be a mirror image of what is happening in the US. Corrupt politicians that appoint corrupt judges, etc. The article can be totally applied here, just changing a few names.
Virginia RockwellJanuary 6, 2026
Thanks for this excellent expose. Truly why we have been encouraged to read the Book of Mormon. Also, perhaps why it is so denigrated among other groups, since we know who the father of lies is.
Phil MacLennanJanuary 5, 2026
I found this and the first article insightful. Thanks for them. We used them for discussion in a recent ward council meeting. Can I ask, is the picture of the two youth, also AI generated? We all thought it probably was. The two youth have wonderful countenances.
Curtis RasmussenJanuary 5, 2026
Can't help think of Chuck Colson in context (though not directly tied to your point about the speedy fulfilling prophecy...) “I know the resurrection is a fact, and Watergate proved it to me. How? Because 12 men testified they had seen Jesus raised from the dead, then they proclaimed that truth for 40 years, never once denying it. Watergate embroiled 12 of the most powerful men in the world—and they couldn’t keep a lie for three weeks.” I love his logic. It expertly frames the Three and Eight Witnesses (two of whom are ancestors of mine. JosephSmith, Sr., and Hyrum Smith). So, though not twelve unless you include Joseph, eleven very, very ordinary men, some later estranged, all under enormous pressure never recanted. People will suffer for what they believe is true, but Colson's intimate observation nails it. They don’t carry known lies to their grave.
LHJanuary 5, 2026
Would also like the details about the portrait of Jesus shown with the article. I don't think I missed seeing the info(?). Thank you very much!
Mark DonaldsonJanuary 5, 2026
Fantastic article! I too have tried to resolve in my mind several times how charity and love are different since both are mentioned together. The line you wrote stating, "We can exercise charity toward people we have never met, people who post online, or toward politicians and those who support them. WE DON'T HAVE TO LOVE THEM TO HAVE CHARITY FOR THEM." Hit home for me. We don't have to love them, but we do have to show them Patience, Long Suffering, Kindness, etc. Great insight! Thank You!
Corey D.January 4, 2026
I grew up in the 60's and 70's, I remember all the overpopulation scenario's that were prevalent in the media and sometimes even in education or at the time even so-called experts predicting the new "ice age" and the demise of humankind. Reminds me of a movie from the 70's starring Charlton Heston called Soylent Green, pretty sure that was inspired or motivated by the supposed shortage of food/overpopulation. There is enough food thrown out everyday in every corner of society in the US that could probably feed most of the rest of the world.
Corey D.January 4, 2026
Easier said than done. Especially when the family members viewpoints be it political, religious, social or whatever, particularly religious are what is causing them unhappiness in their lives but they don't see it or don't want to admit it and so they distance themselves from family.
Norine McClureJanuary 4, 2026
Where did you find the closing quote for this lesson?
Mackenzie P. YorkJanuary 2, 2026
This is such an informative and well-written post! I learned a lot from reading it and will definitely be implementing some of these tips in my own life
Haze K.January 2, 2026
You wrote: "we found this wonderful summary" But I didn't see a citation as to where you found it. Please share the reference with us. Thank you very much
CarolynJanuary 2, 2026
Thank you for this article which is full of reminders…I especially appreciate #9 Amen and Happy New Year!
JamesJanuary 2, 2026
I thought the predominant language in the church is Spanish so I am surprised there is not at least 1 Latin country on this list. Interesting.
Rob ArnoldJanuary 1, 2026
So true. I really miss the OTA weekly of Music and the spoken word. It was a great way to bury the week before and look forward to a new one.
(Professor) Debrah RoundyJanuary 1, 2026
This was a fascinating article. I remember in the 1990's when the first person discovered that each person write in a different Voice Print that was unique to that person. The study has gone so far since then. I am in awe to see the changes and growth and how it is being used to identify the writer of a document, and even whether a person was speaking with revelation or on his own. Eventually I used what I knew when checking for plagiarism in my university student's essays. I would compare an essay they had written in a 5-minute Quick Write with no access to the internet, to the essay they had written for, say, a test. If the document style did not match, I would Google for the author. I did not miss. When I caught 80% of my students and made them redo it, the word got around fast. I transferred to another university and my reputation did not follow me, it beat me there.
Elder Donald GriffithsDecember 30, 2025
As an international Pathway Institute Teacher I experience this globalization in real ways. We don't tell stories of Pioneers but focus our examples and stories to reflect shared cultures. Even images of Christ, children, and disciples are selected to reflect cultural norms.
ShaunaDecember 30, 2025
I agree, President Holland was my BYU President and we have 2 daughters there now. I was moved and thrilled by his 2021 address. He said things that needed to be said, and nobody, but nobody, loved BYU more than President Holland, so he was the best person to deliver it. BYU needed to "clean house" and President Holland had the stature and the credibility to call for change. I was also reminded of a talk from October, 2011 called "we are all Enlisted" aimed at the young men in the Priesthood session. A video has been made called "stay within the lines" https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/media/video/2012-07-0007-stay-within-the-lines?lang=eng, which is a powerful wake up call to young men preparing for missions. Then Elder Holland says "I'm going to get in your face a little bit" because in part it's the only thing that seems to work. In essence, he reminds young men that God will not be mocked and that if they want to preach repentance on their missions, they need to be morally clean themselves. The Savior also said many things that others found abrupt, or hard to hear. Surely, it is a sign of our discipleship of we are willing to hear "hard sayings": "For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths." 2 Timothy 4:3-4
L. ReyesDecember 30, 2025
Great and thorough review. Sounds like this book brings hope in a time of too much pessimism.
DumaDecember 30, 2025
Thanks for sharing this. "For the earth is full, and there is enough and to spare ..." "... Any man [may] take of the abundance ..." (Doctrine and Covenants 104:17-18)
Rochelle HaleDecember 29, 2025
As we love and revere all of the Lord’s chosen leaders, we look back with a little humor as we think about many recent General Conferences. We looked forward to announcements of new temples and instruction and counsel from Elder Holland. My husband first met him when they served at the Institute at the University of Washington. As Jeff was called to other capacities, they stayed in touch from time to time. About 15 or so years ago we knew we would be in Salt Lake, and my husband made an appointment to visit Elder Holland. Unfortunately, we were notified that he had an appointment out of the country, and our appointment was canceled. Several weeks later we found ourselves in Utah again. We stopped by the office and asked the secretary if we could see Elder Holland. She was about to protest, but Elder Holland recognized my husband’s voice through the open door. He welcomed us in for a short visit. We discussed family and our church callings. As we were leaving, he shook my husband’s hand, but he embraced me in a big hug. My husband said I floated out of the building. We know that even prophets and apostles are subject to the frailties of life. We will miss Elder Holland, but we are thankful for our Savior Jesus Christ and his eternal purposes for us, especially that families can be together in our Heavenly home.
Janene ZimmermanDecember 28, 2025
This is a beautiful story of a missionary plagued by trauma from his childhood survival. It shows that love can make all the difference in a life that can seem hopeless. Those that intervened and showed that love got him on the right track. He can be a cycle breaker making changes in the trajectory of his life. A miracle here.
AlisonDecember 28, 2025
Many years ago Paul Harvey had a radio broadcast saying the same thing.
Esther SmithDecember 25, 2025
Thank you Maurine! This article is full of light and truth--the Spirit. I appreciate it.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 24, 2025
Powerful. Thank you.
GayLynDecember 24, 2025
Thank you for this wonderful article. I sat down right before our Christmas Eve dinner and loved the way it got my mind into a great place as we celebrate the birth of Christ. Your insights are inspirational.
Karen Ririe KratzerDecember 23, 2025
At the sacred time when celebrating God’s gift of his beloved son, thank you Sister Linford for your inspired tribute honoring Brother Joseph on his birthday. l have no recollection of not believing his words and miraculous real life experiences leading him to become the first prophet of the restoration of the Church of and gospel of Jesus Christ; thank-you for sharing well known and not often quoted testimonies of the American prophet.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 23, 2025
My apologies to C. C. A. Christensen for spelling his name wrong.
Ronald BennieDecember 23, 2025
You can add my name
Susan RoylanceDecember 22, 2025
Thank you, Robert, for your many contributions to helping others understand and know the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon - through media, and sometimes through external evidences. We appreciate your effort to help spread "light" to the world.
Garfield CookDecember 22, 2025
Thank you for your article. Many have written about this topic, and you have done an excellent job in summarizing what has been said. Your clarification that Christ is "the only spirit child of God whose mortal body was sired by God" is important, because as other prophets have said, the physical body of Michael (Adam) was also sired by God but not in mortality, but in a premortal, paradisiacal state. The same would be true of Eve; and thus, in a real sense we are also the physical offspring of God via Adam and Eve (Luke 3:38).
Ben JonesDecember 20, 2025
I love putting up lights on the trees in front of our house but I also include a life-sized Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus sheltering under the big tree so that all who pass by will know why we celebrate Christmas.
HazelDecember 19, 2025
Reading this really hit home for me. I’ve always been curious about my family’s history, but some topics were never talked about. A few months ago, I started mapping out my family using a genogram, and it completely changed how I see my relatives and even myself. It helped me notice patterns I never realized before, both challenges and strengths. I used Creately's Genogram Maker to create it, and it made the whole process so simple and visual. Honestly, it feels like a small step that opens up a lot of understanding and healing.
A Joyful ConvertDecember 18, 2025
I have felt the same way for years but you put it into words so well. The Spirit can be so strong testifying truth to us in all sorts of situations and when the Holy Ghost fills me with light and truth I get so excited I want to shout out in joy! . Reverence has its place but JOY is meant to be shared with enthusiasm. All things testify of Christ but He doesn’t want pious members of His Church…he wants Joyful ones willing to share it with others. Thank you for this message!
Diana IshamDecember 18, 2025
When you posted this article back on April 5, 2021, you said it was "To be continued…" but I cannot find any continuation of it anywhere. Please let us know what has happened in regards to that continuation of it.
MaryannDecember 18, 2025
I love your expressions of joy! It sounds like you have great happiness in expressing your feelings of love for the Savior in all the wonderful traditions of the season. Perhaps sometimes people discredit the gift giving, the lights all over the house, the perfectly decorated Christmas tree, the never ending food preparation and baking, because they haven't learned to balance the extent of the DOING with their energy available to do it all. I was such a perfectionist that it was exhausting. I have learned to scale wayyy back because I just couldn't do it all without becoming overwhelmed, tired, and sore. We each need to find our own personal balance, and to remember that we CAN celebrate Christmas fully, without overworking. I am reminded of President Oaks' counsel to choose the "best." If we don't have the time or energy to give service during the holidays, maybe it's time to scale back on the lights.
Melanie ClarkDecember 18, 2025
I join you in JOY. Bless you for writing this beautiful tribute to the Savior and His season.
LoraDecember 18, 2025
In 1975, I was 20 years old and the "old maid" of the ward. I could tell because men old enough to be my father would say, "Why isn't a nice girl like you married?" The bishop talked to me about serving a mission, and my mom was furious, because serving a mission was a guarantee of being an old maid. Why? Because the return missionaries were 21 years old and encouraged to marry within six months of their return. A return sister missionary would be 22 1/2, and not a candidate for the available single men. I love it that sisters can serve missions at the same age as the brothers. Not only are even pretty girls eligible to serve missions, but when they return and marry, we don't have the husband saying, "When I served my mission" and the wife not having that experience. Now they can BOTH say it. I've noticed that the sisters in the church who have served missions have more spiritual confidence and experience than those of us who haven't. This leads to healthier, more equal marriages. What a blessing for everyone!
Sandy BaileyDecember 18, 2025
There can’t be enough Christmas music and your new song is beautiful! Thank you!
ZinaDecember 17, 2025
That was beautiful Lynne. Thank you for sharing.
Linda WestoverDecember 17, 2025
Thanks, Lynne, for sharing your sweet thoughts and the beautiful song! Your gifts are a blessing for many!!
DHHDecember 17, 2025
Very lovely song, both in message and music. Thank you for that inspiring message.
MargaretDecember 17, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful gift. You are very talented and your faithfulness comes through in this song. Merry Christmas!
MarciDecember 16, 2025
Oh what a heartbreaking, tender story! I am so glad that it was the Douglas' that were there to help him. And give us all the powerful reminder of the Savior and the Atonement. How grateful I am! Thank you Becky, for this story!
Alexander ForsythDecember 16, 2025
A wonderful testimony!
Diane IrwinDecember 16, 2025
This article brings me JOY! Thank you for being the 'mom' that he needed on his mission. Talk about ministering to THE ONE. I am sure that you were overjoyed to hear from him, and that he had grown in the gospel. I love a story with happy endings!
LewisDecember 16, 2025
God does indeed love His children, no matter how forgotten they may be. The Savior's life was the prime example of seeking the lost, the lonely, the stranger and the foreigner, showing love, compassion and grace without limits. Thank you for this wonderful reminder of His love during this Christmas season
HelenCDecember 16, 2025
Tears. This was most definitely a successful, completed mission!
Janene ZimmermanDecember 16, 2025
This is a beautiful story of a missionary plagued by trauma from his childhood survival. It shows that love can make all the difference in a life that can seem hopeless. Those that intervened and showed that love got him on the right track. He can be a cycle breaker making changes in the trajectory of his life. A miracle here.
Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 16, 2025
Great article and well researched.
ScottDecember 15, 2025
BYU-Hawaii (BYUH) emphasizes peacemaking through its Intercultural Peacebuilding Program, offering a BA and certificate focusing on conflict resolution, cross-cultural leadership, and mediation, leveraging its diverse student body as a "learning laboratory" to train global peacemakers. This is rooted in the university's mission to be a "city on a hill" for Christlike discipleship, equipping students to resolve differences and foster harmony in their communities worldwide.
ShaunaDecember 15, 2025
Sad to see them go, I'm a huge reader and read only physical books, but people like me are becoming rarer and rarer. I'm well aware that Seagull sold a lot of things besides books, but I also see it as a sign of the demise of reading in this country
Charles McClellandDecember 15, 2025
Thank you for this eloquent description of the contentious times we live in and the Church's pro-active efforts to promote civility in our public discourse. We must strive to bring light to this dark world.
Ron BairdDecember 14, 2025
Great article! I worked at Sunrise Animation on this film as a concept artist. I designed most of the tabernacle. Lucky for me there was a traveling tabernacle exhibit in my hometown of SLC while I was working on the assignment and I got to tour it. It definitely influenced how I designed the space.
MaryannDecember 14, 2025
When we believe that we must have an answer right now for everything that we do not yet understand, we are seriously shortchanging ourselves. Instead of focusing on doubt, or lack of understanding, we can focus on all we love and believe. As stated in this article, our faith and understanding begin with building on our relationship with, and love for, our Savior, and also receiving His love. People seem to talk a lot about questions these days, almost glorifying them and placing them on a pedestal. Questions are fine, but if our faith requires a perfect understanding of all things immediately, we may find ourselves forgetting, or not recognizing, the knowledge and testimony we have already received. "Don't dig up in doubt what you planted in faith." This requires humility, patience, and faith.
Corey D.December 14, 2025
We teach and preach a lot about family and marriage in the Church but ultimately it all comes down to personal faith, personal testimony and individual obedience to covenants and commandments and those who do that will receive all that the Father has for them.
Richard GardnerDecember 13, 2025
"When that Family Proclamation was read to the church, and by extension the world, nothing seemed surprising, outlandish or different about it. We couldn’t have dreamed at the time that it would ever be a controversial statement or that it might someday be a core belief that would drive us to the margins of our society" My mom has made the same comment to me several times. And followed it up with the same conclusion: God knew what was going to happen to our society, and he knew that what seemed normal would become unusual and vice versa, and he told his prophets.
LoraDecember 13, 2025
When my dad married my mom in the 1950's, he thought he was getting a housewife to take care of the home and kids. When Mom got active again in the 1960s, suddenly he had an LDS wife! Let's face it, the Church is like having another career! It's hard on a marriage when one person changes. Especially if one of them is judging the other for not changing, too. As for eternal blessings, I took care of that after they died. They have both been endowed and I have been sealed to them. As for sealings to their other children, since they are both inactive, I have done what I can and I'll leave the rest to eternity. This is the Lord's Plan of Happiness, not the Plan of Anxiety, so I will trust in the Lord. Henry B. Eyring shared a story about speaking with an unnamed prophet when he was worried about his family's choices in eternity. The prophet said, "Hal, you're worried about the wrong thing. You just do the best you can, and the family arrangements hereafter will be better than you can imagine." I'm holding him to it. The best I can do is to show my family how much I love them, which is one way that I can bring the love of the Lord into their lives. The rest is up to the Holy Spirit.
Cynthia DeanDecember 12, 2025
Today's youth truly are astonishingly perceptive when given vocabulary for what they are experiencing. Those I have worked with burst with sudden relief and confidence when they receive the "diagnosis" of Satan's tactics and deceptions. Thank you for validating this concept.
T.F.December 12, 2025
We just have to wait, and trust the Lord's timing. Read Sisten Kristen Oak's interview with Sheri Dew in a recent Church News article. She didn't know why she was still single, and a friend told her to ask for a Priestnood Blessing from her bishop. He told her in the blessing that she should quit her job, or she would never achive her goals (mariage and sealing) in this life. She quit her job, and was soon introduced to Elder (now President) Oaks, who had gone through approximately 2 years of mourning after the death of June, and was ready to re-marry.
Juliann BradshawDecember 12, 2025
What a beautiful, compassionate answer for a difficult situation. To the woman I would say appreciate the fact that your husband has so many good qualities and has been a wonderful husband and father. Never jeopardize the respect his children/grandchildren have for him. Few have what we perceive to be the perfect LDS marriage and family. Whether “in or out” of the Church you personally can build a relationship with God. Then allow the Savior to do his mighty work with your husband and children.
Richard ManwaringDecember 12, 2025
When applied generally, this article can be a good argument for people of any faith who have felt God’s love and power to remain in that faith, whatever doctrinal concerns their religion might present.
Kurt ChristensenDecember 12, 2025
I find the discussion quite interesting, but despite AI's contribution to that, the real work is yet to be done.
Debrah RoundyDecember 11, 2025
Spot on, Just too spot on.
Juliann BradshawDecember 11, 2025
In number 3 I felt authenticity was misdefined. To be authentic is to be honest, real, not wearing a mask for approval, not being a chameleon to please others. An authentic person is not afraid to stand alone even when the crowd has a sheeple mentality. They stand for truth when others capitulate to get along. Authenticity is rare in the world. It’s rare in the Church.
Rochelle HaleDecember 11, 2025
The Disney "You've got a Friend" is very sweet, but now poor Mr. Potato Head doesn't have a mouth. I happened to catch a commercial the other day for a brandname chocolate spread. As the family was preparing breakfast, the relative who had been away comes through the door. It was reminiscent of the Folger's coffee commercials, and I recognized the same jingle playing. I am not a coffee drinker, but it's interesting the lasting impressions that some ads or music will have on us. We appreciate the sentiment, but we also need to be aware.
Craig PetersenDecember 11, 2025
Your two articles are both useful and concerning. Useful because they provide insightful ideas and suggestions. Concerning because they are so insightful and were generated by AI in a fraction of the time it would have taken a human author. Many books are available about the potential dangers of AI. If you don’t want to sleep at night, read If Anyone Builds It, Everyone Dies by Yudkowsky and Soares. It’s over the top, but provides a chilling scenario. The how is yet to be seen, but AI will dramatically change the world we live in.
Janet FawcettDecember 10, 2025
Nailed it! This is exactly what is happening. Now we have to focus on the antidotes. We know what to do— we just need to be aware and intentional and pay attention! The answer is always Jesus Christ! Get them into the temple early. Protect the home environment. Be fully present and recognize the power of keeping our covenants to bring greater influence of the Spirit and know how to build the connections and teach the truth in loving ways.
Kayleen SmithDecember 9, 2025
Thanks for these uplifting and completely truthful words!!!
Chuck DeWittDecember 9, 2025
The Wentworth Letter is a treasure of Church History and Joseph asked it never to be edited. Yet someone edited the Priesthood Manual version, removing one paragraph some people did not like. Read the entire letter in the Ensign July 2002 and you will see what has been edited out by 2007 and now in our study this year. Learn what Joseph Smith knew and why it was edited. I love our Promised Land
Cynthia Carlson CarlsonDecember 9, 2025
I'm really excited about this, and already hooked! I deeply enjoyed "Leadership and Self-Deception" and "The Anatomy of Peace." Ferrell's books are so readable and relevant. I'm ordering now, for me and Christmas gifts. Thank you! I might have missed this one!
Amy Jo HadlockDecember 9, 2025
I served a mission in Potosi, Bolivia. Some say it’s the tallest city in the world. I remember for the first three days, I felt as if a semi truck had crushed my lungs. I was short of breath I and felt light headed. After 3 days, a miracle occurred and I could breathe. This reminds me of the Lord’s Resurrection, that our bodies can be made glorious and live in the Light and Glory that we now do not now enjoy. The Lord strengthen and sustained me through His Atonement to do His work.
ErinDecember 9, 2025
There was actually a book published by Cedar Fort in response to the Hulu series called The Not-So-Secret Lives Of Real Mormon Wives. It showcases eight LDS women, how they live their lives and, the impact they have on their families and communities. It was later made into a feature length film called women in Christ. The film was beautifully done and very uplifting, but unfortunately, due to lack of advertising I don’t believe was widely seen.
Tamra DodgeDecember 9, 2025
It all boils down to: Be the person you’re looking for. The Law of attraction will take care of the rest.
MaryannDecember 8, 2025
I was a little hesitant to read this article because I thought, "Oh, boy, one more "TO DO' LIST. But, I was very happily surprised that the suggestions had more to do with growing in love ---taking time to be aware of our critical thoughts and lifting them, developing a more loving attitude, focusing more on our Savior and savoring his teachings in the scriptures and in the Temple, and, of course, reaching out in service, perhaps in small ways that don't overwhelm us. These suggestions do take effort, but they are very gentle and lift me instead of burying me under just too much. Thank you, Joni!
MaryannDecember 8, 2025
This is a great message. If you are happy where you currently live, and you have friends and family there, think twice about moving. You may find that the small things that bother you about where you live may be very inconsequential compared to the problems of living and adjusting to a new place. After the death of a spouse, it's also good to wait at least a year before making any big decisions.
MaryannDecember 8, 2025
I appreciate this article, and I would stress that the very good questions suggested are not appropriate to ask unless you have a relationship with the person. I would NOT want to be asked "What is divorce court like?" by someone I don't know very well. If it seems that someone is lonely or doesn't appear to have friends to talk with, we might be tempted to be their sounding board, but we need to be VERY cautious about asking personal questions, no matter how carefully they are phrased. A sister in our ward lost her first baby very close to the end of her pregnancy. I had experienced the same thing years ago. I didn't know her, but I sent her a letter of sympathy, and told her if she ever needed to talk I would be happy to listen, since I had experienced a very similar loss. She chose not to contact me, and that was ok. She had loved ones and others to talk with. I don't think asking her any questions would have been appropriate in this example. Many times people just need a hug and to know that you are praying for them.
Seth StewartDecember 8, 2025
It's both. Lucifer is dastardly. If we think we can do no wrong, we are guaranteed to fall straight into his trap.
VicGDecember 8, 2025
The article poses several important questions near its end, one of them being a challenge as much as a question - “How do we protect the public’s understanding of a faith whose image is shaped more by entertainment than by lived reality?”. Due to the sheer number of these negative “reality shows” the time has arrived, I feel, when we need to jump into the pool and boldly represent who and what we actually are. I’d like to see “The TRUE Lives of Latter-day Saint Wives” - done in a style similar to the many uplifting reality shows aired on the BYU channel. Those shows generally don’t have a fixed character cast (and so are not ego-focused, among other things) but move from life to life, story to story, showing the breadth and depth of lived life. The general appeal of that concept, aired on a high profile network level, may be more publicly contagious than one might think. Maybe I’m naive, but I think there are many who are tiring of the negativity and the sheer hollowness of these other so-called reality epics.
Corey D.December 8, 2025
Well written story Brother Bishop with some great insight and explanations.
Kerry FarrDecember 7, 2025
A great reminder, written so well, Lynne. Thank you
Myrna LiddellDecember 7, 2025
Your “humor” came through quoting Boyd K Packer, suggesting we were absolved from doing Family History research. He was an avid advocate of finding generations of relatives.
Rolf SorensenDecember 7, 2025
We are trying to find Maurine's article from last week about Scotts surgery it was fantastic and wish to print it but cant find it? Nov 30 2025
Rochelle HaleDecember 6, 2025
I served in the 70s, and I don't recall having any preconceived notions about calling home, receiving mail, etc. We just knew these were part of sacrifice. We could not call home for Mother's Day or Christmas. Mail was difficult, so we learned not to expect packages. Even communication within the mission had some drawbacks, as we had to use landline phones where we lived or go to a public phone, leave notes for our district/zone leaders or send letters to the mission office. Our training included 5 or 6 "flip-chart" discussions, from which we were to teach without much variation. I think the advent of "Preach My Gospel" and the use of phones and iPads have totally changed missionary work (when used correctly). In one area where I served, the idea of food storage or preparedness was just beginning. One Relief Society President spoke at length with my companion and me. My companion's mother was a RS President back home, so my companion said she would ask her for some information. Through snail mail it took several weeks to relay the request, let alone receive a response. My husband and I frequently assist the missionaries assigned to our ward by making phone calls to or sharing testimonies with new friends or those already taking discussions. Often, these calls can be made from one area, while we are home in comfy clothing, just taking a few minutes of our time. I believe technology has been a real boost to missionary work, especially giving access to church videos, cross-referencing scriptures, calling home for emotional support, FamilySearch, etc.
Meghan MainDecember 6, 2025
I am also a Merrill descendant on my mother’s side, I have the family genealogy and I love learning everything I can! I currently reside in Florida but I want to go to the homestead in North Carolina. Fell free to find me on Facebook so we can share genealogy! Meghan Main
Linnea HoyosDecember 5, 2025
Lyle, You are correct. During the Millennium, Christ will reign personally upon the earth, and there will be significant changes in the world. In terms of determining our final "resting place", the Millennium plays a role in the process of judgment and resurrection. Here's how it ties in: Resurrection: At the beginning of the Millennium, the righteous will be resurrected. This is often referred to as the "first resurrection." Those who have lived righteously will be brought forth to live with Christ during this time. Opportunity for Growth: The Millennium will be a time of learning and growth. Those who did not have the opportunity to hear the gospel or fully accept it in this life will have the chance to do so during the Millennium. This period allows for further spiritual progression and preparation for the final judgment. Final Judgment: After the Millennium, the final judgment will occur. This is when individuals will be assigned to their eternal "resting places", such as the Celestial, Terrestrial, or Telestial Kingdoms, based on their choices, actions, and acceptance of the gospel. The Millennium provides a unique opportunity for individuals to continue their spiritual journey and prepare for their eternal destiny. It's a time of hope and promise, emphasizing the mercy and justice of God in allowing all His children the chance to return to Him.
R.W. ThoelkeDecember 5, 2025
I think the benefit to writing letters is that you have a record of your activities and feelings. No one can re-read a phone call. Also, for some people, hearing voices can make one more homesick. I served in 1979-80. We made it with letters alone, and now 45 years later those letters bring back so many memories as I read them again. I don't remember being able to call home, although I did once when I was having a really hard time.
Rob McGhieDecember 5, 2025
Great article. I thought the expression “telestial entertainment” and “telestial language” was very good, something we should all take measure of in our lives.
BayDecember 5, 2025
The Articles of Faith are need a cogent summary of restored doctrine that was once known by Christianity and lost, other than the Book of Mormon mention. What’s missing, though, is one really doctrine (or two intertwined ones): the family and the temple. I’m not sure why this isn’t there as the 14th article!
Maija HeinonenDecember 5, 2025
Wonderful. Thank you very much! The heavens opened up for me just now. Merry Christmas to you all. May God bless you all. Love Maija from Finland.
KathleenDecember 4, 2025
Great ideas for introspection, self-improvement and spiritually strenghthening the most important relationship in our lives. Thank you.
Craig petersenDecember 4, 2025
First comment. The identity of the learned doctor is not provided in the Orson Whitney pamphlet. The second comment about what happens during the millennium is fascinating and speculative. The celestial will be resurrected during the morning of the first resurrection, so that issue is settled. The telestial aren’t resurrected until the end of the millennium, so they remain in the spirit world. But what about the terrestrial who are resurrected sometime during the millennium-the afternoon of the first resurrection? Can they progress during the millennium to get their resurrection upgraded to a celestial status? Seems possible. Your thoughts.
Laura LesebergDecember 4, 2025
As I have faced some of the things you mention (autoimmune disease that ebbs & flows, parent on hospice, etc), I can really relate to this shift in perspective! I love this, and plan to use this phrasing whenever I can.
CraigDecember 4, 2025
Who was this "learned doctor of divinity" that brother Whitney spoke to?
Richard GardnerDecember 4, 2025
On my mission in Brazil in the late 80s (this is pre-email), our letters took 2 to 3 weeks to travel in each direction. And the area presidency forbad calling home, even on Mothers Day and Christmas. Now, missionaries can video chat weekly. It does make me wonder why the rules changed so drastically; was there a benefit to the old rules?
HelenCDecember 4, 2025
Thank you. I know the well-intentioned inquiries often fall short of their mark. When I returned to work after my oldest daughter had died from breast cancer a truly sensitive coworker stepped in front of me as I navigated my way to my desk for the first time in a year. She simply asked, “Would you prefer to talk about it or not?” That allowed me to acknowledge MY need without needing to please her.
LyleDecember 4, 2025
The one thing that as a convert of over 45 years that I don't hear about, if at all, is the millennium. How does the millennium come into play when helping to determine our final resting place? In my mind and my way of thinking, there is a thousand year period where I have the opportunity to continue to grow and become the person that I need to be so I can be exalted and live with my eternal father. Am I wrong in thinking this way? I read so many times where so much emphasis is placed on living the best way now and how only this life determines where we shall place ourselves in the possibilities of our eternal life. But we fail to mention that 1000 year period where we will live and continue to grow BEFORE we sit with our Father and determine our fate for eternity. Why? I have so wondered, is this not mentioned to us more often? What am I missing? What don't I know?
Paul BishopDecember 4, 2025
I really appreciated this article and its new perspective asking friends struggling with health problems or difficult personal situations how they 'are doing.' As suggested, using a more generalized question regarding a friend's ongoing experiencing opens the door for a wider, less personally intrusive, conversation. A friend may not want to explain the status of their struggle in the moment due to embarrassment or resentment toward a perceived need to 'report' or give an 'update' on their physical or mental health (as if the questioner was in a position of superiority), but they might be more willing (and possibly grateful) to share their overall experience with the situation they are facing.
Lois WhartonDecember 3, 2025
Thank you, Brandi Hicken! Brilliantly said. I am so sorry for the ugly treatment you have endured. I pray people can be kinder and more Christlike in the future.
Ricardo P.December 3, 2025
This is a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing!
Mark & Maggie MartinezNovember 27, 2025
We absolutely love this article. Thank you Maurine for sharing. So beautifully written. Every soul on earth can relate to this. Maggie and I think about you guys often. You guys have touched the hearts of so many. Praying for the both of you and for Scot's speedy recovery. Love you guys!
Adriana Ovejero RodríguezNovember 27, 2025
Thank you for sharing your story in this article. I needed it today and it resonated with experiences I've had with the Lord's tender mercies. Prayers for Scott's recovery.
Kerry FarrNovember 27, 2025
Beautiful testimony of God truly being in charge❣️ May we remember, acknowledge, and trust.
Craig PetersenNovember 27, 2025
What a positive, uplifting article. Your family has done and will continue to do so much to promote the Lord’s work. Thank you.
Jim WNovember 27, 2025
This just proves that fashion can be modest and classy at the same time. Based on the imagery from the video, the fashions depicted were down to earth, mostly practical, and there was no shock aspect to them. Kudos to these students for showing how fashion could be.
Corey D.November 26, 2025
Our stake conference for many years was the week before Thanksgiving, one stake conference years ago Elder Vaughn J Featherstone was the visiting general authority. After the opening song and prayer one of the counselors in the stake presidency got up to announce the speakers, as he turned to sit back down Elder Featherstone got up and came to the pulpit and said, as best as I can remember, " I'm going to make some changes to the program, we are going to sing a couple of songs not on the program, they are songs of Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving seems to be almost forgotten anymore but it should be one of our most important and remembered holidays".
Carol HuffNovember 26, 2025
Best wishes and prayers for a quick recovery.
Kayleen [Hunsaker] SmithNovember 26, 2025
So many prayers for your healing during this time of recovery. So thankful you were home as this happened. Gratitude = resilience!
BarbNovember 26, 2025
What a beautiful story. I have a brother-in-law who has actually had two open heart surgeries., The first one when he was only 40 and the second one when he was in his mid to late 60s. I wish he had had the opportunity to have read this before his surgeries. I pray that Scott will be back doing his normal things very soon. At 76 years old, my brother-in-law still works part time with a good seemingly healthy heart.
SueNovember 26, 2025
Thankyou Maurine for expressing OUR feelings on the power of gratitude so wonderfully and truthfully. And I say our, because of the experience of my husband passing away at home from a heart attack, and not on our road trip. From the moment I found him the tender mercies came, and the feelings of immense gratitude for our faith and watchcare were embedded into my heart and mind. Gratitude is indeed a protective shield for us. Again thank you for your beautiful and comforting words and prayers for Scott's recovery.
Edi WinbergNovember 26, 2025
Thoughts and prayers for you and your family at this time of recovery for Scott. Thank you for the beautiful reminder of being Grateful for what we are given and for our trial. Sometimes we forget to be grateful for trials and that is what strengthens us.
Larry TippettsNovember 26, 2025
Thank you, Maurine, for your inspired message to us all in the midst of Scot's surgery. I hope it is shared abundantly on Thanksgiving Day. God bless you.
Marie ButcherNovember 26, 2025
I'm so glad to hear of your gratitude through this very hard and difficult journey, Scot. May you continue to be blessed with healing. Love, Marie Butcher
Karla BurkhartNovember 26, 2025
Whenever I sing or hear the song it makes me think of the King singers because every time they sang with Tabernacle choir, we sang that song together. I have loved it for years and I am so glad to see it in our handbook.
john HansonNovember 26, 2025
In Habakkuk 3:17-18, we read: “Though the fig tree shall not blossom…yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation.” (That’s a very different prayer than, “Make my fig tree blossom or else, I’m done with you.) Powerful thought. But sort of hard to remember in times of trial
HelenCNovember 26, 2025
My far-from-interested next-door neighbor met twice with our missionaries and although he said they “pushed him hard” he was impressed to see young people out in the world, doing something good, “For a change”.
KarinNovember 26, 2025
Thank you for your example of faith and God's power, and thank you for strengthening our faith. Sending prayers for you, your husband and your family. So grateful for your daily messages.
HelenCNovember 26, 2025
Though I have little claim to it, I am grateful to call you “friend”. Perhaps we will meet again at the Oregon coast. May your Holidays be filled with love and light.
HelenCNovember 26, 2025
I’ve been struggling with resentment over my circumstances that I just don’t seem to have the energy to handle. Two days ago I realized what I need to pray for is the strength to ENJOY them! I don’t want to rest; I want to work; so I’m praying for more strength and energy, not less responsibility. What a joyful approach it has proven to be! Quick healing, Scot.
Mary BellNovember 26, 2025
Beautiful article Maurine. Yes! Gratitude to our Savior for all the wins. He loves us. He loves your Scot, and your whole phenomenal family. I also had full sternotomy open heart surgery. Years later, I haven't felt this good in decades. Recovery was slow-about two years for me-but worth it. I am so, so grateful I went through that experience for many reasons. I am especially glad to feel so much better, and more energetic now. Scot will get there too. Big hugs to you friend!
Wayne ThorntonNovember 26, 2025
Sister Proctor, Thank you for sharing these intimate and precious looks into your marriage and family. I will add my prayers to others that Scott heals in a textbook perfect and miraculously quick fashion. My level of gratitude has increased today!
Dennis PageNovember 26, 2025
Sorry to hear about your open heart surgery. It was a good article,
Charles McClellandNovember 26, 2025
May the Lord bless you in your healing, Scot. We pray for a rapid recovery. And thank you for this inspirational article, Maurine.
Brent OlsenNovember 26, 2025
Wow! I read your here your there your everywhere, and then this? You’re having open heart surgery! SHEESH! Glad to hear you’re now doing great! Your support group is Fantastic! Hang in there! Blessings to you and your Family!
Paul JonesNovember 26, 2025
Thank you for your profound teaching and good example Maureen and Scot.
Alexander ForsythNovember 26, 2025
General William Booth (founder of the Salvation Army) said: "Some of my best men are women."
Alexander ForsythNovember 26, 2025
Your thoughts and those of others shall bring comfort to those in need of them. May Scott have a speedy and full recovery.
MaryannNovember 26, 2025
We are seeing so many signs that the Lord truly is hastening His work. The gospel is flooding the earth, and these wonderful young sister missionaries have a great role to play in that divine purpose. Our Prophets have often taught us about the powerful, uplifting influence of women. We are going to see amazing things take place as these sister missionaries go forth to help gather our Heavenly Father's children into His fold.
MaryannNovember 25, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing this experience with us, and for your beautiful testimony of gratitude, and also of the Savior's power to lift our burdens of crippling fear. On a note of encouragement: my father had triple bypass open heart surgery in his 60s, and lived to a ripe old age. I am so grateful to the Lord that we live in a time where such miracles are available to us.
MaryannNovember 25, 2025
My husband had similar experiences serving a mission Ireland in the 60s. It was a very tough mission, and he was involved in only two baptisms while he was there. The people were carefully admonished by their churches about not responding to the missionaries message. Twenty years later, we were able to visit Ireland and some of the people he had known. They were so excited that they had a REAL chapel. It was wonderful and uplifting to see the changes and growth of the church. It is also thrilling to witness the explosive growth of the church in Africa. We can see the Lord's hand and power over the whole earth. In the midst of the challenging times we live in, people will continue to be drawn to the church as they witness the joy and peace that the gospel brings into our lives. We need to find opportunities to tell others what church we belong to, and then we need to set a loving example. These are powerful missionary tools.
Pam Williams PrattNovember 25, 2025
Thank you for this article pointing out such a wonderful, touching hymn. The words of the hymn articulate my feelings exactly at this Thanksgiving time. I shared this article on our family Signal thread. Thank you again!
James Stuart BrownNovember 25, 2025
I am saddened but not surprised that Cincinnati Bearcat fans were disappointed when their team was losing and sought someone to blame. To conflate what they deemed to be poor football refereeing with their distrust of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints seems to follow a dysfunctional flow, but it helps to define bigotry. I hope that true Christians can connect the dots and see that the Church is following the Savior's admonition to return good for evil. Those who cannot recognize or make the connection that we are doing the "Christian thing" are themselves not Christian in word or deed. They have a lot of growing up to do. We, the members of the Church, need to continue to turn the other cheek when necessary, but don't be shy in pointing out that Cincinnati students got 27,000 pounds of love in the form of food. Like so many negative things, sincere people will wake up and want to know more. Events such as this are "filters" that separate the sheep from the goats.
vbNovember 25, 2025
Beautiful lyrics set to an old, evocative folk tune titled O Waly, Waly.
Corey D.November 25, 2025
Thank you Sister Linford for that reminder of our blessings. I recently completed a Service Mission working in the Transistional Services Office at Welfare Square, Transistional Services helps those who are homeless, transient or coming out of the Jail/Prison system with immediate/emergency needs of food and clothing and provide them resources where they can get longer term help. In the spring of 2023 we started to see recently arrived immigrants coming into the office for help, mostly from Venezuela and Latin America, occasionally from Africa and the Middle East and on rare occasion Eastern Europe. It went from maybe 10 or 12 a day in April and May to as many as 60-80 a day during the summer of 2023 and we continued to see regular numbers of immigrants into 2024, the number of immigrants dropped off dramatically starting in Jan of this year for obvious reasons. I speak fluent spanish so I worked a lot with the immigrants from latin america, it was pretty stark the stories some of them would tell about getting here and the things going on in their countries. I was amazed at how many single mom's came in with children and wondered what they had sacrificed or had to do to get here or protect their children. But also listening to the stories of the homeless, those on the precipice of homelessness, those coming out of the jails, really reminded me how blessed I am, how blessed most of us are. So many of Heavenly Fathers's children in need.
Jim, from CANovember 25, 2025
The melody is familiar; I once learned it in high school choir. I believe the title of it was "The Water is Wide". Glad it found its way into our new hymnal!
CarolynNovember 24, 2025
Kathleen, Please go to our Facebook page, you can email or message me and I can send you all the details. We are changing our collection sites, good growing pains. Thanks! I'm excited you want to join us!
MaryannNovember 24, 2025
I hope everyone will read Part 2 that completes this article. Very interesting to contemplate. Thank you.
LW ReyesNovember 24, 2025
The Church’s historical narrative SAINTS revealed how women were encouraged by Joseph Smith & other leaders to offer blessings of healing and support. Yet this practice came to an end, under John Taylor it seems. Does anyone know when/why/how women giving blessings stopped?
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
Great message Michaela!
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
As the mother of six young adult daughters, I can testify that young moms need all the honest praise they can get. Sometimes these words are the paycheck. Being a mom is one tough job-as you have well explained. Hugs, encouragement, noticing the good-it all counts. This is why I wrote my LDS book, The Pursuit of Happi-Nest, to encourage all moms (not just Latter-Day Saints).
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
Love this!!! Thank you!
Mary BellNovember 23, 2025
'bananas sold by the tree"!! Ha ha!!!
Verl WNovember 23, 2025
Agreed. Outrage and contempt are twin tools of Satan to destroy peace among peace-seeking people.
Ken MazzantiNovember 22, 2025
The Savior accused the members of the Sanhedrin of relying on the written word, yet denying the power thereof. The prophesied Savior was standing before them testifying of the fact that He was the promised Messiah, but they denied him. There are those who refuse the truth even when it is clearly before them because they lack the humility to accept the facts that prove that their position on religion is not correct or is at best insufficient. The fullness of the gospel of Jesus Christ is available to all those who seek the truth and are willing to humble themselves to accept the truth rather than their own opinion.
Gordon HensleyNovember 22, 2025
Most of the books of the New Testament (the exceptions being the Gospels and the Revelation of John) were put in order not by chronology, but by length.
JillNovember 21, 2025
This is an extremely insightful article and so well written I really appreciate it. I plan on reading it many more times. You have explained the futility in focusing on others wrongs if we want to have compassion, humility and become more like the Savior, and you've done it in a way that really gets at the core of the problem. I'm not a good writer so this comment is not doing justice to your content so let me just conclude with another Thank You!
ShawnNovember 21, 2025
Thank you for this article. I would also like to point out outrage’s close cousin: Contempt. Contempt is the idea that some person or group is utterly beneath you. I will argue that contempt is 100% poisonous and destructive to charity and compassion. Unfortunately it’s everywhere in our world. We can’t call ourselves disciples of Christ if we harbor contempt for Gods children for any reason.
HelenCNovember 21, 2025
I have always thought it expedient to point out that the word “bible” comes from the word “bibliotek” (sp?), meaning “library” and that the book of Revelation is, in and of itself, untouched.
Robert StarlingNovember 21, 2025
Dan, I think you may be on to something. You wrote: "there is a prominent Islamic tradition that a “renewer,” a mujaddid, will appear in each century after Muḥammad to revitalize the faith and provide something of a course correction for the Muslim community." What might be the effect on the world of Islam if somehow Muslims were to come to view Joseph Smith as a mujaddid?
NolaNovember 21, 2025
Wow, just giving her more of the same that almost killed her is malpractice if nothing but seems more to me like deliberate, abuse, and thinking she was not worthy of living. As a former RN, I would have never administered something that had caused anyone any problems in the past especially oh my goodness right there in the hospital she had had problems and almost died and they gave her a bigger dose. You don’t do that nowadays people go to prison for that
Robert StarlingNovember 21, 2025
Thank you Jeff, for standing up for this obviously persecuted family, and for opposing judicial corruption and malpractice. I hope and pray that others will be motivated to join the fight for basic human rights to "life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness".
Laurisa R.November 21, 2025
Great article. I’ve often thought the evangelicals’ adamant stand against new scripture, and thus Latter-day Saints, stems from an ignorance of biblical history, where the Bible actually came from and how it came to be. Even we LDS don’t spend enough time learning that and we should. Also bear in mind that the Catholic Bible contains books the Protestant bible does not, and they are worth reading.
James StarkNovember 21, 2025
This is my translation of John 5:39-40: [Ye] search the scriptures; [because] in them ye think ye have eternal life: [however] they are they which testify of me. [But] ye will not come to me, that ye might have life. All of which is to say, searching the scriptures is all well and good, as long as doing so leads us to Christ. But if not, then we are missing the mark.
Alexander ForsythNovember 21, 2025
The KJV was translated in 1611. Have all the non English Bibles since then been based on this English Translation? How can we be sure that all the foreign language translations of the Book of Mormon are accurate; as the Reformed Egyptian gold plates are not available—for consultation?
KathleenNovember 21, 2025
Thank you for your wonderful suggestions. Please post an address to send ornaments.
KathleenNovember 21, 2025
The joy of a silver lining.
KathleenNovember 21, 2025
Great points. I might add the importance of understanding the fall. Those who don't, see no need for a Savior and redemption.
Douglas NadybalNovember 20, 2025
It is a bit of a stretch to say that we came to earth on God's "invitation". I was recently invited to a party, but chose not to go. There was no penalty for not going other than I missed a good time. I was not cast into outer darkness, nor was my progression stopped. If you chose not to come to earth, you by default, aligned yourself with Satan's plan. We all clearly had a decision to make, with the option to stay put was off the table. I'd call it more of a relocation than an invite.
CoyNovember 20, 2025
My hearing is gone, I would like to request the return of the transcript of your podcast. Thank you.
Joyce YoungNovember 20, 2025
Eve had to make a choice from two commandments God gave. If she obeyed one she couldn't obey the other. If she didn't eat the fruit she wouldn't have had seed. She realized that in order to fill one commandment-to multiply and replenish, she had to eat the fruit, thus transgressing the other commandment not to eat the fruit of the tree. She made a wise choice and Adam saw that it was right.
Rochelle HaleNovember 20, 2025
Thank you. I love that we learn about Adam and Eve in so many places. I sometimes get bogged down by the order of creation, but the placement of man and woman are the most important. Sometimes, we hear comments on TV or friends of other faiths malign our first parents; blaming them that we aren't all still in the Garden of Eden. They don't understand that we wouldn't be here at all. We are so blessed to have agency, to have the opportunity to overcome sin, and to have a Savior who loves us. Our first parents paved the way for all of God's children.
JohnNovember 20, 2025
Excellent article. Priesthood keys (stewardships) are rarely the same. The Lord establishes and grants stewardships that fit the person, couple, leader, or counselor. Look for roles and stewardships that expand the whole rather than those that produce a fake equality. Eve stands face-to-face with Adam in her saving and progressing role -- but not as a duplicate of Adam. Discover your feminine potential rather than looking for sameness.
AshleyNovember 20, 2025
This is wonderful, thank you! What books or documents did you use as source material here? I would love to look them up and read them as well for myself.
MichelleNovember 20, 2025
SO thrilled to see Part 1 of _You and We_ being shared here. This book is one of the most important books I have read. For me, it pulls together concepts I have been studying for over three decades (including through Arbinger's work that Jim Ferrell led). I have been sharing it with everyone I can. It challenges me to think in elevated ways that I think really can change the world. For Latter-day Saints, I believe concepts in this book can aid in seeking to create a more Zion-like way of living in relation with each other -- and even with God. I highly recommend this book. I've already hosted two book club discussions on its concepts and models, and plan to hold more!
SherriNovember 19, 2025
Did you go to latterdaysaintmag.com/podcast? That's where the transcripts are.
LindaNovember 19, 2025
I enjoy your podcast, but I need to have the transcript because I miss a lot. My hearing is not great.
LenoreNovember 19, 2025
I'm glad that it was brought out that Eve did not receive the commandment to not partake of fruit of the Tree of Knowledge. She was not around, in any of the accounts, when Adam received the commandment, and it was Adam who "fell, that men might be." I love this article's perspective on Eve!
Kristi Lee MortensenNovember 19, 2025
I am totally DEAF. I would have love transcript. Please. Thank you.
Cathi BondNovember 19, 2025
I, too, would like the written words of the broadcast, please to go along with the audio. Thank you for your uplifting messages!
Karla BurkhartNovember 19, 2025
We love celebrating Hanukkah at our house. You have reminded me that I need to order candles.
GaleNovember 19, 2025
We have barely finished watching the miniseries John Adams years after its release. It is still fresh in our minds and hearts, and this article continues it to another generation. Fascinating!
Sally SmithNovember 19, 2025
What a spectacular symbol of our country. The symbol of blood, sacrifice and giving theree all to create a country so God's work and glory could be restored to the earth!
Mari ToddNovember 18, 2025
Amen!
Kathy SandersNovember 18, 2025
Love this perspective so much. Thank you.
Debbi McCrackenNovember 18, 2025
I love this perspective and have also been studying the role of Eve and the way Hebrew is so expressive of nuanced meaning. Even the little bit of Hebrew I have learned is wonderful!
AnnaNovember 18, 2025
Thank you for that insight! Loved it... and feel there is more to come just as you said. Line upon line, it's amazing to see how the Melchizedek Priesthood keys found in the temple, keys of the knowledge of God, are bringing forth these truths. Our knowledge is expanding.
JaniceNovember 18, 2025
Wow! Just wow! How enlightening to see how understanding the Hebrew changes our perspective.
Diane BlakelyNovember 18, 2025
It would be nice to read this since my hearing is almost nonexistent.
Sasha William KwapinskiNovember 17, 2025
The Book of Mormon affirms that degrees of truth and inspiration are given to the different nations and people of the earth. I have had the opportunity to learn and read about the Baha'i faith (which also claims to be a modern-day religious dispensation) and to give some discussions for local Baha'i groups about commonalities between their faith and ours.
CynthiaNovember 17, 2025
I love your stories about Rising Star Outreach! Thank you for being such an example in being an instrument in the Lord's hands.
Vic G.November 15, 2025
A beautiful essay. Thoughtful consideration of Doctrine and Covenants 130:10-11 answers a longstanding debate as to whether or not there is eternal knowledge progression in the Celestial Kingdom - including the eternal knowledge progression of God. The answer is a resounding ‘yes’! Not only is our personal white stone a key to an infinite repository of knowledge pertaining to the things of higher realms, but the intimate, individual nature of this personal ‘Urim and Thummim’, coupled with our own personal searchings and inquiries, suggests that each of us will possess, at this higher level, a unique, individually tailored, knowledge base - that no two of us will be in possession of the exact same data set(s) in relation to those higher orders. A stunningly beautiful and exquisite doctrine.
KatieNovember 14, 2025
This resurgence of the feminist movement truly saddens me. I am college educated, well-traveled, and religious. I enjoy homemaking, and I had the privilege of being with my kids, going on field trips, volunteering at their schools, and being home when they got home for the major portion of their lives. I am also a business owner, meeting personally with clients on a regular basis. In none of this did I feel the need to demean the contributions of my husband or feel that he was putting me in a lesser category. Most of my friends have worked outside the home while raising their children or developed home-based businesses that are very successful. This "cause" has been ongoing since I was in college (several decades ago), possibly earlier. Women have many rights legally afforded to them, whether single or married. We have come a long way from our sisters in earlier centuries or those still struggle in other nations. If these "feminists" believe that wearing pants or no make-up, swearing and protesting, or belittling others will help reach their intended goals, I offer, "Then what?" There seems to be a cause of the week, so what is the long-term agenda that will make these women happy? I would offer that they consider the rights, privileges, and even blessings that they do have, instead of searching to invent the wheel, especially at the detriment of their own families, co-workers, etc.
Lenet ReadNovember 14, 2025
The Lord used animal sacrifice for centuries to teach of Christ's sacrifice It is possible He used polygamy as a similitude of Eternal Lives. How else could He teach of that. By having a few men take multiple wives He could bear witness of the great posterity available to those who keep His covenants, but through many generations of time.
MaryannNovember 14, 2025
Thank you so much for your much needed reassurance that plural marriage is NOT required for exaltation in the Celestial Kingdom. Elder Bruce R. McConkie clearly stated this fact in Mormon Doctrine, emphasizing that the Nephites did not practice this principle. I do not believe that any man can even begin to understand the pain and fear that women in the church experience, who have been mislead to believe they will be denied exaltation unless they live this principle. The very thought of being forced to live in this kind of relationship is devastating to a woman's heart and soul, in ways that a man could never comprehend.
MaryannNovember 14, 2025
I feel sure that plural marriage was a true doctrine given to the Prophet, Joseph Smith, for the temporary need to build up the church, and to bring Spirits being born into the Kingdom of God. I am grateful to know scripturally, and also from modern day Apostles (Elder Bruce R. McConkie) that entering into plural marriage is NOT a requirement for exaltation in the Celestial Kingdom. I don't believe that it is possible for a man to understand the depth of pain and fear experienced by women who mistakenly believe they will be forced to live the law of plural marriage. There could be nothing more destructive to a woman's heart or soul.
LindaNovember 14, 2025
Thank you for this article. The world is getting so scary! I'll be glad when the Savior comes again.
JoëlNovember 13, 2025
Ce texte est un changement profond dans ma vie et dans ma vision des choses .. Très content de cette lecture .
David CookNovember 13, 2025
Obedience to God's current commandment is always the highest priority, even when different from what's come before: The Law of Obedience comes first.
Jamil SrourNovember 12, 2025
Tanya, thank you for this beautiful and deeply insightful article. It was an honor to participate in a small way by sharing some of my linguistic and cultural insights. Seeing how you wove those elements into the symbolism of the “tent of my father” was inspiring. Your ability to illuminate the covenant patterns in Nephi’s record enriches the reader’s understanding and strengthens testimony. Grateful for your work and for the opportunity to contribute, even a little. — Jamil Srour
RobertNovember 12, 2025
The sad part about polygamy is most people on the outside approach it from the "lust" stand point as opposed to the way God intended it and that taints their understanding of it. Some Church members do the same. Some key points. 1) Polygamy has been lived while all parties are living in the final generation, the generation of the fullness of times. 2) What God commands, he can revoke. 3) Whether you have 1 wife or multiple, the reward in heaven is the same. Just like Church callings. Whether you are the nursery leader of the Prophet of the Church, if you live a true and faithful life, meaning living the very best that you on a daily basis, and knowing that can change day to day, the reward is the same. 4) Some days living the very best we can could mean barely able to get out of bed due to illness, while other days can mean you are up, working, etc.
RobertNovember 12, 2025
Simply put, the D&C tells us God/Lord can command or revoke. God does not necessarily need to explain or elaborate on why he did command or why he revoked. Rarely does God explain or elaborate. Our only role is obedience to what God commands or if He revokes, obedience to that.
GaleNovember 12, 2025
I'm pushing 80, and my body is doing me no favors. In the discomfort of my ill health, the news this morning (and almost any morning) is pushing me over the edge and making me wish I had been born in some other era of mortality. At my desk, the thought washed over me: "You knew this was going to happen (all this last days chaos), and now you get to see HOW it happens." I started to calm down, and then I scrolled down to see the image that accompanies this article. I've had six precious babies. I feel blessed and comforted. Thank you. (And this is just from the lede and the image.)
MeijkenNovember 12, 2025
Thank you for sharing these powerful insights. I love the story of Lehi's journey through Nephi's eyes, and this deepens the meaning. I especially like what you and Jamil said about the symbol of the tent. This is so important to consider in our world today and in light of President Nelson's and President Oak's messages about the home and family. Where I live in Virginia, one of the license plates that we can choose from has the phrase, "Peace begins at home." As we focus on fortifying our families spiritually, peace will prevail and flow from our homes to our neighborhoods and further, as Elder Stevenson talks about in his recent conference address. This is what the world needs today - the peace of understanding that we are all children of God with a divine purpose and destiny. This is what you learned under your father's tent and what Nephi learned under his father's tent. I especially love how you point out we will return to our Heavenly Father's "tent" after all.
DonnaNovember 12, 2025
Very illuminating. I now understand the higher motivation. It is a very long article.
Maggie CatheyNovember 12, 2025
I saw this story when I returned from Utah to close my brother's estate. Michael was a Social Worker for the State of Utah. He passed on the 31st of Oct. I sent this to many people in my family. It has helped us tremendously.
JoëlNovember 11, 2025
J'ai connu beaucoup d'anciens combattants en. difficile situation (guerre d'Algérie), c'est difficile a gérer..
KathleenNovember 11, 2025
Heartwarming and beartifully expressed!
JoAnn BairNovember 11, 2025
Thank you for helping us remember those noble souls on this sacred day.
ShaunaNovember 11, 2025
Thank you for your thoughts and sweet stories. In honor of the 250th anniversary of this country next year, I am reading a 9 volume historical fiction series (Prelude to Glory by Ron Carter, a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints), primarily on the Revolutionary war, but which covers through the War of 1812. I have been floored, and deeply humbled, by the sacrifices, some of which are described in this article, of these citizen soldiers, who gave everything to establish this country. They did indeed starve, had no uniforms, some lacked muskets, had no shelter, except that which they built...and received no pay...even at the end of the war. Some went home after 6 years of fighing and had nothing to show for it, and their families and farms had had to somehow survive without them, and now would have to find a way forward. They rarely revolted and were in awe of Washington, who honestly deserves every accolade he gets. As David McCullugh says, "Indifference to history isn't just ignorant; it's a form of ingratitude. And the scale of our ignorance seems especially shameful in the face of our unprecedented good fortune. What's so worrisome about the college student who doesn't know that George Washington was the commanding American general at Yorktown is that he also, therefore, has no idea that it was Washington who commanded the Continental Army through eight long years in the struggle for independence. I'm convinced that history encourages, as nothing else does, a sense of proportion about life, gives us a sense of how brief is our time on earth and thus how valuable that time is."
GayeNovember 11, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful post. I attended church this week in a London suburb. They call it Remembrance Day in England. At 11:00, the sacrament meeting paused and we all stood for 2 minutes of silence. It was moving to me to think of my father and father-in-law, my grandfather and beyond who served and fought for our freedom. I thought of my husband's uncle who died crossing the English Channel on Christmas Eve when the transport his unit was on was sunk by U boat. I think of uncles and great uncles who served valiantly and horrible situations. I am grateful for my freedom. I pray that we will always appreciate it so that we can maintain it.
Terry JacobsenNovember 11, 2025
Thank you. From the wife of a veteran who has seen too much.
Linda HuntzingerNovember 10, 2025
What a wonderful man! We will all be blessed by his ministry.
bob taylorNovember 10, 2025
great idea - i had a friend make up a series ot t-shirts for me- "i have decided" on the front, and then some phrase on the back of the shirt - stand up, speak out, go camping, other phrases that caught my attention. had several times when people - strangers, commented on the shirts, asked what i had decided - all i had to do was turn around - they got the message, and gee me a smile for sharing.
JuneNovember 9, 2025
Thank you for this very insightful article. As an Interior Decorator, past tense but always creating in many ways going forward, I am awed in a new way by the term "Creative" (noun), as opposed to and "Engineer", "Teacher", "Mechanic", etc. etc.! In the crafting world, people are referred to as "Makers". But being a "Creative" & more fully understanding its spiritual connection is right up my alley! Thank you for helping me more clearly define myself, after being a daughter of God. Once, after moving from a large home to a smaller apartment, it was chaos everywhere & quite overwhelming. It took me 4 1/2 months to get everything in order & turn the chaos into a really lovely home. It was then that I realized it was a mini act of taking 'matter unorganized' on my human level & creating a beautiful abode, just as the Lord has done in creating worlds without number. Divine creative acts & potential for nurturing beauty everywhere are truly a blessing to be honored & cherished. And I do so now more fully after letting this article soak in & touch my soul. We "Creatives" have a lot to do going forward.
Richard CraycroftNovember 9, 2025
An interesting side note: Joseph Smith was, perhaps, the first major candidate for President of the United States to be assassinated.
Lynn GardnerNovember 9, 2025
Thank you for explaining why I am who I am and why I do what I do!
JeaNette Goates SmithNovember 8, 2025
Wow! There is so much wisdom we can take away from this experience that we can apply in our own lives. Thank you for such thorough research.
Terry RichNovember 8, 2025
Thank you for this thoughtful article. It will certainly enhance my temple experience it truly portrays the depth of God's love for his children and their Eternal destiny.
David A CookNovember 7, 2025
Joseph Smith proved by his life and death that he was not a fraud. Nobody endures what he did then dies for something they know to be false.
Dane BoundsNovember 7, 2025
I've long noticed that Joseph's stay in "Liberty Jail" was a turning point in his life and in the history of the Church in this dispensation. But your article and Spencer McBride's insights give detail and clarity to how that watershed came about. The Prophet became a driven man after his imprisonment and visit to Washington DC. And at the same period, he had to deal with family matters (death of father, care for his mother, wife Emma's struggles with persecution and plural marriage, training future leaders, dealing with apostates, restoring temple covenants, leading an exponentially growing church membership, and dealing with non-members and public officials who did not understand what he was trying to accomplish). What rare challenges this man in his thirties had to deal with! Many thanks for your enlightening article.
Alvin H. AndrewNovember 7, 2025
and where it appears in the History of the Church: https://www.josephsmithpapers.org/paper-summary/history-1838-1856-volume-c-1-2-november-1838-31-july-1842/469
Alvin H. AndrewNovember 7, 2025
The original Wilford Woodruff notes: https://www.josephsmithpapers.org/paper-summary/discourse-20-march-1842-as-reported-by-wilford-woodruff/1
Alvin H. AndrewNovember 7, 2025
The website references for Joseph Smith's teaching of infants was incomplete in the article. Here is the URL for the Times & Seasons: https://www.josephsmithpapers.org/paper-summary/discourse-20-march-as-published-in-times-and-seasons/1?highlight=they%20were%20too%20pure,%20too%20lovely,%20to%20live%20on%20earth
Douglas B. WhitingNovember 7, 2025
The "extermination order" was not a license to kill, as stated in the article. But it was a license to (violently) remove Mormons from the borders of Missouri. At the time of Joseph Smith, the primary definition of "exterminate" was "Literally, to drive from within the limits or borders. Hence, 1. To destroy utterly; to drive away; to extirpate ("to pull or pluck up by the roots; to root out; to eradicate" (vegetation)). Source: Webster's 1828 dictionary.
ShaunaNovember 6, 2025
Fascinating--thank you. Just recently I had some of this pointed out to me. this context will enrich my temple experience even more.
Traci WalkerNovember 6, 2025
Oh thank you for your tender treatment of one of our most beloved doctrines. Until 2 years ago, I had never lost a parent, a sibling, a spouse, or a child. Hope of the next life became very real to me as I buried my dear mother. The covenants that bind me to her are precious beyond compare. We love you - Frank and Traci
TJNovember 5, 2025
How comforting it is to know that even when our timing isn’t “perfect,” the Savior’s always is. I believe that in reaching out to her neighbors and striving to help them feel the Savior’s spirit, this young mother may have opened the way for her neighbor to come and speak with her. As President Nelson reminds us, “The Lord loves effort.” Her time spent preparing and hosting the Christmas party was not wasted, even if the outcome didn’t match her expectations.
Diane IrwinNovember 5, 2025
I LOVE this!!! What a perfect example of ministering as the Savior does. It shows that in the midst of the chaos we can make a difference!
LindaNovember 5, 2025
Thank you for this!! So true!
CraigNovember 5, 2025
To brother Forsyth: In 1950, Elder LeGrand Richards wrote the book A Marvelous Work and a Wonder. For many years, it was an important resource for understanding the doctrines of the restoration. The book starts with a story extracted from a pamphlet written by an early apostle, Orson F. Whitney: Many years ago, there came to Salt Lake City a learned doctor of divinity, a member of the Roman Catholic Church…… One day he said to me: “You Mormons are all ignoramuses. You don’t even know the strength of your own position. This was the point being made: if the Catholic Church is true, then the protestant churches are wrong. If the Catholic Church is false, and the protestants who broke off from them are also wrong. Either way, he argued, the protestants don’t have a leg to stand on. So it’s either Catholics or the church of Jesus Christ to let his Saints.
LorettaNovember 5, 2025
What a tender reminder that we all need to hear. Thank you for sharing.
Tori BlackNovember 4, 2025
What a great idea for a podcast! I love the name and look forward to the episodes.
RianNovember 4, 2025
Susanne, you can find the podcast on Apple, or Spotify. Good luck!!
Lori FinlayNovember 4, 2025
Yay!!! I"m so thrilled that you are starting this wonderful podcast Michaela. It will be so transformative for sisters in Zion - regardless of where we are in life. I too, have had to wrestle with the "measure of my creation", as I did not have my own children. However, after very careful study and a lot of prayer, realized that yes, I AM fulfilling the measure of MY creation in my way and my world. I am on plan H ;) in my life. I would have never imagined that I would come out of retirement at age 61, to pursue my coaching practice empowering women's health and write a best selling, award winning book. I too have had to ponder and pray to gain the confidence that GOD is the one who put these desires in my heart and had lead me each and every step. Just last week I was introduced to a quote from Brigham Young - “It is the duty of a saint of God to gain all the influence they can on the earth & use it wherever they can”. We as sisters in Zion do have a responsibility to be a light and influence for good regardless of our life circumstance. I'm grateful for your passion, skill and willingness to take on this great project. Here's to blessing so many lives!!!
Susanne DavidsonNovember 4, 2025
What a beautiful new podcast! I’ve always followed Scott and Maurine Procter podcast ( but have they stopped as recently there is no podcast for past two or three weeks???) . I know you are their daughter and I so enjoyed this podcast. Thank you for this uplifting time which makes me think of where am I ( a widow) and what can I do I look forward to each week listening so can you send me the link where I can find you? So many Thanks.
DJNovember 3, 2025
I just listened to the introduction on Apple. As a 68 year old woman, I look forward to hearing the voices of my sisters; older, younger, and of different backgrounds, and how they have chosen to listen and follow the covenant path.
CommentNovember 3, 2025
24 Wherefore, the Lord commandeth you, when ye shall see these things come among you that ye shall awake to a sense of your awful situation, because of this secret combination which shall be among you; or wo be unto it, because of the blood of them who have been slain; for they cry from the dust for vengeance upon it, and also upon those who built it up. 25 For it cometh to pass that whoso buildeth it up seeketh to overthrow the freedom of all lands, nations, and countries; and it bringeth to pass the destruction of all people,
DJNovember 3, 2025
I love your insights. Thanks for sharing.
DeniseNovember 3, 2025
This is such a BEAUTIFUL article!! Thanks, Lynne!
Sharon ShogrinNovember 3, 2025
For some reason I can get the written version of your Podcast but there is no longer a place to click on so I can hear it.
RosemaryNovember 3, 2025
I can read Scot and Maurine's Come Follow Me podcasts for the past three weeks, but the sound podcasts are not available. This week's I don't see yet at all. Am I doing something wrong?
Gordon HensleyNovember 3, 2025
"Be fruitful and multiply and replenish the Earth" is not just a direct commandment, but may also be a line of programming inserted in the DNA of all living things to enable self-replication. Like "Take in oxygen and expel carbon dioxide."
Ronald BarnesNovember 3, 2025
I have a warped way of looking at things so please bear with me. I grew up in the church in Missouri, well aware of the Extermination Order. When it was rescinded, for me it took away some of the fun of being a 20th Century member in Missouri. I am a product of my time, and I hope the saints who suffered because of it will forgive me.
Ronald BarnesNovember 3, 2025
I have heard and read a lot of "near death" experiences. Some I have questioned, but most of them I have not. There are similarities between many of them, and many are unique, but they all have one thing in common. Every one of them has been individual to the one experiencing them, making each one difficult to dismiss.
BarbaraNovember 3, 2025
When my husband served us the stake young men’s President, he did not bend the rules for my 13 year-old son to go on youth conference, which was held two weeks prior to his 14th birthday. During youth conference, my son was riding a friend‘s brand new bicycle, and when he applied the brakes, they worked so well that he flew over the handlebars of the bicycle and broke his arm. (We never had new bicycles for him to ride, so that was an astonishing discovery for him. Ha ha) He and I were both pretty frustrated that he hadn’t been able to go to youth conference, because basketball tryouts were coming up quickly. He had been a star player in middle school, but he was trying out for a high school team, and doing that with a broken arm did not impress the coaches. He did not make the team. During the next several months, he strengthened his interest in his new guitar. That led him to working on his piano skills more as well. Within a very short time he was blossoming into a promising musician and taught his close friends some skills and they formed a little basement boys band. The musical ability was enough of a blessing, but the strengthening of those friendships and the strengthening of all of their testimonies through their good association and efforts is, in hindsight, a magnificent blessing that came from his dad‘s decision to be exactly obedient to the guidelines at the time, even with his own son.
Bob MartinNovember 3, 2025
My wonderful wife of 57 years Kay died two days ago in an accident I just received a blessing from a member of the Mission Presidency who came to our house. After the blessing I came to my computer and saw this video of Ella Jensen.Great comfort. Many thanks.
Rolf SorensenNovember 2, 2025
we are not able to listen to your podcasts tonight 11/02/2025 this podcasts' seems to be a recurring issue and is disappointing. You folks are just quite the best and we miss listening.
Corey D.November 2, 2025
Thank you for that article, I was deeply touched by the stories and comments. I just this last week finished my service as a missionary with the Transitional Services Office located at Welfare Square and was thinking about my experience and all the people I have met and what I have learned, the things homeless people and newly arrived immigrants and folks coming out of jail and prison and rehab have taught me and then read your article and was greatly moved by it, thank you.
Mindi & Chris HendersonNovember 2, 2025
Are Scott & Maurine okay? We miss them!
Richard CraycroftNovember 1, 2025
The AR-15 is not, by definition, an "assault rifle." It is a semi-automatic rifle. Maybe I'm just nit-picking, but this an article about being factual.
Bradley R. LarsenNovember 1, 2025
I posted the following about 2 days ago. Never showed up in your comments section. I would love to have a private discussion about this issue w/Bro. Densely. It's very important topic. He is welcome to contact me through the email I've provided with this comment. The other side of the coin regarding conspiracies and those who might look for evidence of such, is the powerful current tendency of people to be triggered into thinking that all conspiracy proposals are crazy and those who push them are nut jobs. You could level all the critique you marshal about the dangers of promulgating ideas of conspiracies, and how misguided those may be who do so, against people who put their head in the sand about such things. Your mention of “drug cartels”, “Operation Berkshire, Watergate, the “sinking of the Titanic” is low hanging fruit when it comes to conspiracies. They are all either obvious criminal conspiracies or crazy. And what does your comment about 265,00 social media posts [appearing} between January and March 2020 related to the COVID-19 pandemic” have to do with what may be the truth of many of the allegations made in these posts? How about nothing. These comments may very well be ‘riffing’ off of very real data and analysis. Should people shut up about these things because not doing so will “lead to disunity and contention in our society”?? Could it be that keeping quiet about these impactful issues may result in far worse damage to society than airing solid information about them, whether promulgated by social media or not? This is a certainty in my view. I’m curious how you reconcile the general view promoted by your article with D&C 123:13 “Therefore, that we should waste and wear out our lives in bringing to light all the hidden things of darkness, wherein we know them; and they are truly manifest from heaven—” . . . or with Moroni’s injunction in Ether 8:23-24 regarding the danger of letting secret combinations get above us in the last days. A secret combination is a conspiracy by definition. How do people “awake to a sense of [their] awful situation, because of this secret combination which shall be among you”, if they give into a powerful aversion to talk or even think about such things?? Seems rather wrong-headed to me to fall into this trap.
MaryannNovember 1, 2025
President Nelson's comment regarding the dangers of rehearsing our doubts with others is so valid. So many have left the church because of this very act. Consistently voicing your doubts, questioning the Prophet, or even bashing the church, can become like a contagious plague. I have also noticed an increasing trend of placing our doubts on a pedestal, as if we are so very wise to constantly question truths. I have a testimony that we CAN CHOOSE to believe and trust in our Savior, Jesus Christ, and the doctrines He taught. We CAN CHOOSE to believe that Joseph Smith was a true Prophet of God and that he saw and experienced exactly what he said he did. We CAN CHOOSE to believe we are led by a true Prophet, chosen by God. Many times the strengthening of our faith follows that choosing. Elder Boyd K. Packer instructed missionaries to bare their testimonies of the things they HOPED are true, and told them that the witness of the Holy Ghost would follow, baring witness to the fact that they were speaking the truth. I have personally experienced this in my prayers. Whatever doubts we encounter, we can hold fast to our Savior, be persevering in prayer, church attendance, and feasting on the scriptures. Often, we just need to keep pressing forward, and having the patience to wait for confirmations.
Susan SchumacherNovember 1, 2025
It is with a thankful heart that I read of these experiences. That history has been remembered through written testimony is a gift from God. That witnesses prevail is God‘s way of surrounding us with his love. Thank you for sharing in a masterful prose the undeniable testimony of these regular people blessed by God‘s strength to bring forth the mighty restoration of his church and kingdom upon this earth.
KathleenNovember 1, 2025
Thank you for the refocus! Beautiful parables.
Alexander ForsythOctober 31, 2025
Please provide more details as regards the Catholic Doctor who was quoted at the commencement of this article. Thanks
Valiant JonesOctober 30, 2025
Thank you for this, Scot. You are so often blessed with miracle photo shots. My Great-Great Grandfather, Isaac Laney, survived the Hawn's Mill massacre in spite of 13 bullet holes in his body, so your efforts to remember this now sacred location are special to me and my family.
CoreyOctober 30, 2025
I am once again surprised and intrigued by the similarity in belief between the LDS and Eastern Orthodox!
Pauline HarryOctober 30, 2025
My ancestor is Thomas McBride.
CarolOctober 29, 2025
I love the title of your post!! Christ was out with his people doing good everyday. It has inspired me look for more ways to be among the people and serve them with true love and care as Christ did!
CarolOctober 29, 2025
What a fun 'trick' for Halloween!! The kids will have a story to tell for years and the "ghost" will have a good story to tell too!!
Kerry FarrOctober 29, 2025
So beautifully said, Lynne This is the true gospel and pure love of Christ in action. If ye had known me❤️ We must minister in each others’ homes and learn each others’ stories to create Zion❣️
Debrah RoundyOctober 28, 2025
I have studied about the holidays for many years. I taught school and taught my children where different traditions came from, so I researched a lot. This was particularily interesting because I learned a lot of new things. Thanks so much for sharing with us you knowledge.
GTOOctober 28, 2025
This is excellent and totally worth the effort you put into it. At the Latter-day Believers YouTube channel, we just published an interview with a former Episcopalian priest who converted. Her husband was a Lutheran minister. They both had master's degrees in divinity and have studied all the greatest theologians. She says the theology in the Book of Mormon is impossible for any of these great religious teachers to achieve. When critics try to match the Book of Mormon with the Spaulding manuscript or View of the Hebrews, etc., they are forced to look at language and style. They can't touch theology.
Juliann BradshawOctober 28, 2025
Lots of good points to ponder. I would suggest you add D&C 123, especially vs 13-15 though. The Book of Mormon is full of warnings, counsel and incidences concerning secret combinations so that we, in this dispensation, awake to our awful situation and become aware of those in secret chambers seeking our destruction.
BayOctober 27, 2025
This is so good! I don't think I've read a more thorough and understandable summary of the causes, mechanisms, dangers, and prevention strategies for conspiracy thinking. Many thanks.
Linda Huntzinger CalhounOctober 27, 2025
Wonderful! wonderful!
ScottHOctober 27, 2025
Someone I care about has become deeply entangled in various conspiracy theories. As institutional trust approaches zero, emotion becomes the gold standard for reality testing. This person now actively seeks conspiracy theories that stoke passion; it's like an addiction. They even become upset when others don't share their passion. I wish I knew what to do.
Richard DahlOctober 26, 2025
A very good article, thank you. I have been in mortality for 88 year and never once have I gone hungry for lack of food, or lacked clothing, or lacked shelter. My needs have always been fulfilled and many of my wants satisfied because of obedience to the law of tithing. As stated in the article the Lord doesn't need our money, but we need His blessings.
Ilunga Mbidi KiluweOctober 24, 2025
This is true! This can apply to men also.
Gary COctober 24, 2025
I would like to offer a minimal perspective of the husband’s point of view here. I have also been accused of these things as a husband. However, in perspective, the marriage needs to dig and find the root cause of the husband’s frustration. In my experience, my wife didn’t work outside the home. I would come home from a long day’s work frequently and find the home a mess, the baby crying, diaper needing to be changed, etc. You get the picture. Then after helping with home chores I would have little time to unwind from my day. This began to wear heavily on me. Frustration set in. Yes, eventually I because angry. Having the wife’s perspective only here does not contribute to finding the core reason for his frustration. Please offer up a possible reason for the frustration of the husband. He’s probably a good person who just needs a real partner in his marriage.
Sara GrovesOctober 24, 2025
Thank you for this article. I had no idea of the origins of these holidays. I am one who, though I love seeing the little ones in their cosine, eagerly seek for candy; I had my doubts about the ghoulish holiday. But to learn of the origin of all the others is fascinating. Again, thank you.
AnonymousOctober 23, 2025
This was just what I needed to read. Thank you.
Kim BoslerOctober 23, 2025
“The people who need me, the people who depend upon me . . . there’s nothing like that for giving us a sense of meaning, identity, and purpose,” Erickson said. Yes. Exactly why transitioning to empty nest can be challenging. It’s then that we realize true happiness is not chasing happiness and always feeling needed but pursuing holiness. Our relationship with God brings joy no matter what stage of life or if we are single or married.
Kathy SandersOctober 23, 2025
I am always so grateful for the promptings to write and know that I need/want to. Your article framed the getting started process in a new way and I thank you! A wise person said to me the other day that, "those who write tell the story". If we don't write our stories, we will be invisible in a generation or two!
MICHAEL R. LOVERIDGE. J. D.October 23, 2025
Inspired hymns truly can strengthen us. I'm particularly moved by the music and lyrics of "Behold The Wounds In Jesus Hands." This verse, so simply yet eloquently written, is a special reminder to me of the Savior's supreme sacrifice on our behalf: "We cannot see the love of God, Which saves us from the Fall, Yet know that Christ from wood and nails Built mansions for us all."
MaryannOctober 22, 2025
This movie was intense throughout, and very thought provoking. The main theme is to be true to what you know is right, and to have the courage to speak that truth. Helmut, a 17 year old LDS boy, prays and is strengthened in courage, to the point of being willing to face death for his convictions. Although the movie was fantastic, the torture scenes were just too much for me. The pain suffered by these valiant young men, along with millions of others, and the unbelievable evil that existed brought me to sobs. It wasn't news, of course. I have read many books about WWII and learned about it in school. I am 74, and even after all these years, the unfathomable evil that Hitler and his cohorts engaged in is too much for me to bare.
Ralph Gallini, JDOctober 22, 2025
I went to see this movie yesterday. It was fantastic. I have recommended it to my grandchildren since many of them are young adults and teens. But all should see it. We live in times that are very precarious so we all must be willing to stand for the truth.
Diane BlakelyOctober 22, 2025
I was just contemplating Christ's commandment to love this morning when I opened my computer and found this article. Dynamic!!! Thanks for expressing your thoughts so well and having the ability to think so deeply.
Juliann BradshawOctober 22, 2025
I clapped at the end of the movie to honor the brave boys and the director willing to bring forth the story. It is a hard watch and will stay with you. The director did not spare the audience the harsh realities of torture and living with fear. How can a government be honored who has to revert to scapegoats, lies and torture? A populace willing to let an entire race be murdered while they themselves have to turn in friends, neighbors and coworkers. What did 16 year old Helmut accomplish? His story is his legacy. We see ourselves in the characters and it indicts or inspires. Would I be so convicted, so brave, so true to my beliefs? Would I put my friends, family and congregation in danger because I felt truth burning in my soul? Are you brave enough to go see this movie? Leave 12 and under home.
Rochelle HaleOctober 21, 2025
I love this! Over the last several years my ward has challenged us to write our life stories using a specific set of questions as a guide, write about meaningful experiences we have had, and write 10 (or more) things that others may not know about us. All of these can be put into a journal format or used for sharing or discussion during FHE or family gatherings, especially with grandchildren or relatives we don't see often. Perhaps my "5" would be: 1) My conversion to the Church, 2) How tithing financed my mission and helped me overcome other financial obstacles, 3) the blessings of family, 4) the blessings of service and callings, 5) How we can be grateful during serious illness or other adversities.
brian stubbsOctober 21, 2025
Many enlightening spots, like Matthew 9:45. If one set to watch over people (an eye) is going astray, then separate yourself, don't go along. Trust God, not another. That would have been useful advice for many ancient Israelites led by errant kings and false prophets. And for Judah in Jesus' day when Judah's leaders were working to destroy the Great Jehovah and his work. And for Latter-Day-Saints when voices lead away individuals or splinter groups from Joseph's day until today, again working against the work of Jehovah and his faithful servants.
J.G. BaileyOctober 21, 2025
Great. I thoroughly enjoyed it, and it answered questions and validated beliefs. Thank you for taking the time to write this.
SandyOctober 21, 2025
Thank you for this inspiring article! I’m motivated to write about my life for my children & grandchildren. I like the idea of writing about joy & meaning of the different homes you’ve lived in.
LewisOctober 20, 2025
A moving story, and a gentle reminder that God loves all His children, wherever they may be. Also a reminder of how God will use us to bless the lives of His children, wherever they may be. I am grateful for the good you and the others at Rising Star are doing and for the gift you have of telling these wonderful stories.
LexaGraemeOctober 19, 2025
That one hits a little too close to home, but far enough away that I can laugh. Poor man!
Karen DavisOctober 18, 2025
I too had a passion for this story when I read the book many years ago. After serving a senior mission in the Baltic (with a German born CES leader) and hearing how the German Saints felt about Helmut it really made me pause. I thought Helmut was a hero, they felt he was a rebel trying to get the church in trouble. And yes, Nazi leaders came to the church to watch and record what was being said in LDS chapels. Both the Brach President & Helmut were doing something right but you still have to admire the one who was willing to die for what he believed was right and standing up against evil. The movie was amazingly well done.
Beverly HoppeOctober 18, 2025
I may have misread the intent of one of the sentences. There is a statement that Huebener enlisted two friends, Rupert Evans and Karl-Heinz Schnibbe to help him. Rupert Evans is an actor who plays the part of Erwin Messenger who is the Nazi investigator. The other friend is named Rudi Wobbe. So Rudi and Karl-Heinz are the church friends that are enlisted to help Helmuth. I want to make sure that the relatives of Rudi receive the credit and thanks for Rudi being a faithful friend.
Yvonne AstonOctober 18, 2025
I would love to watch this and many other films produced by Angel Studios. However, I live in the UK and unless Angel Studios create a dedicated YouTube channel for their films, as I am unable to go to cinemas in the USA, I shall never see them. If Angel were prepared to charge a fee for each film that was added to their YouTube channel, we could pay per film for whatever we wanted to watch.
Gary GaudetOctober 18, 2025
I wanted to clarify the details on the photo. This is actually a photo of the 553rd in Fort Sill, Oklahoma training for Korea. Many of the members of the 553rd deployed with the 213th as reinforcements in the spring of 1952. the photo is from the collection of PFC Donald J Gaudet who was with Charlie Battery of the 213th. I have more photos of the 213th in Korea from Dad's collection.
David SavageOctober 17, 2025
Saw the movie and agree that it is a compelling watch. Still thinking about it long after and wondering what I would do. It is as intense as the trailer depicts. Uncomfortably on the edge of my seat throughout. Be aware that there are complex themes and scenes of beatings and torture. So not for young audiences.
Bryan GerritsenOctober 16, 2025
Great article! Elder Curtis is a fantastic man. This is further evidence of the humble service he has provided for the Church for decades. This is another great contribution to the Church. We love Elder Curtis and his wife, and appreciate his continuing service to the Church. Thank you for this article. What a great addition to Church history!
Melissa MarkhamOctober 16, 2025
Thanks for this glimpse into the heart of our new prophet. I appreciate so much your wisdom and perspective. Thanks for the work you do. Melissa (Boyer) Markham (My husband, Sammie, and I knew you briefly in the Langley Ward. ) :)
EricOctober 16, 2025
Lorenzo Snow's reduction of the time period between First Presidencies is also recounted in Saints, Volume 3 chapter 5.
Robert HamblinOctober 16, 2025
The reason for the time difference, from years to a few days, between death of the Prophets and formation of a new first Presidency was due to Lorenzo Snow's visitation in the Temple by Christ himself where He told Lorenzo to not wait so long between formation of a new Presidency but to do it right away. This story is in the Priesthood Manuel on the Presidents of the Church some years ago.
CarolOctober 16, 2025
What a beautiful thing to see him through a daughter’s eyes. Thank you Maurine and Jenny for sharing him with us this way.
Terry RichOctober 15, 2025
Thanks for putting together those significant articles sermons and information on the succession of the president of the church. I found them to be significant and Faith for moaning to me.
ShaunaOctober 15, 2025
I'm so grateful to have these amazing, dedicated, talented, selfless and inspired leaders, leading the Church, under the direction of the Lord Jesus Christ. All of these Brethren, including the Quorum of the 12, are such blessings in my life
BillOctober 15, 2025
Great information. Correction is needed however in that the new President of the Church is "set apart" by the other apostles, he is not ordained. He has already been ordained an apostle and that is the office in the priesthood that he retains.
HelenCOctober 15, 2025
Clear and succinct. Thank you. It brings to my mind the declaration made in the passing of an English monarch: “The Queen is dead; long live the King!” No fuss, no muss. Clarity and perfection.
JillOctober 15, 2025
Yes! Yes! Yes! So blessed to have him after President Nelson. God is good!
Britt FranklinOctober 15, 2025
How reassuring it is to be a member of the Church and to have a firm testimony of the divine origin of the Church.
DouglasOctober 14, 2025
Rev. 3:15,16 clearly shows "middle ground" as unacceptable to God.
K.CrapoOctober 14, 2025
A spouse may be unresponsive to their partner because they feel unsettled or uneasy in the relationship—“[their] heart begins to tell [them] things that [their] mind does not know”. When the truth is finally revealed, along with grief or anger, they may also feel relief that they weren’t the crazy one!
S RichardsonOctober 14, 2025
I love the story in the second to last paragraph, about the friend who left the church and later came back after investigating with an open mind and heart. I absolutely agree there is no middle ground regarding the Book of Mormon. There are also many small details in the book that attest to its truthfulness which become apparent only through careful study of it. But God is not going to "hit us over the head" with proofs. He wants us each to come to Him, to ask Him, and to be willing to live with the answer He gives through His Spirit.
Russell CoryellOctober 14, 2025
The book is absolutely not "inspired fiction". There are too many primary sources amongst the conquistadors and the friars attending, including 2nd and 3rd generation of the latter that claimed the Azteca, and the Maya, to list a few, all claim traditions remarkably congruent with Christianity! For example, the Maya practice a form of baptism amongst their children! And, no, these primary accounts have not been debunked, I've read them and have copies of the same - they rise above the level of reasonable doubt. There are many other facets of the book: chiastic structures, place marker phrases ("and it came to pass"), elements of 1st temple period Judaic imagery, including indirect references to the Asherah that scream of it's authenticity. El-Elyon in His infinite wisdom reveals things obliquely and in parable like fashion (as an engineer it is very frustrating). I say to those who do not believe pray and ask for verification. In time, archaeologically we will have the whole truth but until then, I WILL believe, because of the Holy Ghost and my own personal insights which the above only briefly touch upon.
S RichardsonOctober 13, 2025
Other scriptural insights into our pre-mortal existence come from the following: Alma 13:3-5: - "In the first place," we were all "on the same standing" (v. 5). - However, "being left to choose good or evil," some "on account of their exceeding faith and good works" chose good, "exercising exceedingly great faith," and therefore were "called with a holy calling... prepared with, and according to, a preparatory redemption for such." (v. 3) - Others "would reject the Spirit of God on account of the hardness of their hearts and blindness of their minds," but for which "they might have had as great privilege as their brethren." (v. 4) - And all of this was "prepared from the foundation of the world, according to the foreknowledge of God." (v. 3,5) In what would we have had this "exceedingly great faith"? Undoubtedly in Heavenly Father's Plan, that it would work, that the Savior would be successful in His mission! Hence He is referred to as "the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world" (Rev. 13:8), and the War in Heaven was won by relying on "the blood of the Lamb," and "the word of their testimony" (Rev. 12:11), as though the Savior's atonement had already been accomplished. The Plan was truly glorious, and our faith in it and works related to it continue to see us through the trials of this life.
Bill WrigleyOctober 13, 2025
Not Tennyson; Wordsworth, written about a.d. 1800
Sara VOctober 13, 2025
Doesn’t fit in the category of free speech. Not even close. “Limitations or boundaries to freedom of speech relate to libel, slander, obscenity, pornography, sedition, incitement, fighting words, hate speech, classified information, copyright violation, trade secrets, food labeling, non-disclosure agreements, the right to privacy, dignity, the right to be forgotten, public security, blasphemy and perjury.”
Richard GardnerOctober 13, 2025
Thanks! I have had several of the same thoughts about the importance of understanding where we came from and how it affects us here. Nice to see them all organized into one essay.
Jessica WhotakerOctober 13, 2025
Well said!
Joni HiltonOctober 13, 2025
Love, love, love this! Comprehensive, logical, numerically organized. You must have learned this stuff in your pre-mortal life!
Jimmy MerrellOctober 13, 2025
Jeff, My friend, you are always so eloquent and spot on. We are commanded to love one another regardless. That includes our leaders. I think that if most people dropped the enemy mentality that pervades our Social Media climate we would move closer to each other and become a more Zion People.
PamOctober 13, 2025
Ode on Intimations of Immortality was written by William Wordsworth, not Tennyson.
JoJean LoflinOctober 13, 2025
Just one correction. Ode on Intimations of Immortality was written by Wordsworth, not Tennison.
LauraOctober 13, 2025
Wordsworth wrote Ode Intimations of Immortality, not Tennyson.
Rochelle HaleOctober 13, 2025
My husband and I, and our scripture study group, often have this discussion. Our thoughts are that without a pre-earth existence and promises of eternal life yet to come, "What's the point?" Why live on earth at all if our life will be extinguished and forgotten? Most of us will never be remembered in the history books for our discoveries, inventions, or innovations. God's plan gives us purpose for being, now and forever.
Daryl GibsonOctober 13, 2025
'Every man has two deaths, when he is buried in the ground and the last time someone says his name. In some ways men can be immortal.' Ernest Hemingway
Susan HansenOctober 13, 2025
It was William Wordsworth who wrote the poem, Intimations of Immortality", not Tennyson.
Diane PetersonOctober 13, 2025
What a great article! Thank you for your thorough and thought-provoking explanation of the doctrine of premortal life, as well as for the snippets of humor that are always sprinkled throughout your articles. They are always both informative and delightful to read.
wwOctober 13, 2025
William Wordsword, not Tennyson wrote the poem. Great article!
wwfOctober 13, 2025
William Wordsworth wrote the poem about A sleep and a forgetting.
Kathy WilsonOctober 13, 2025
Excellent presentation on our eternal nature? However, the poet quoted is Wordsworth, not Tennyson. (Just a tiny nit to pick.)
Abbie VianesOctober 13, 2025
As an adult convert the pre mortal existance made SO much sense to me. The Bible repeatly talks about returning to God - how can one return somewhere one has never been? It was a game changer for me. It made a personal relationship with God accessible.
D. Lynn JohnsonOctober 13, 2025
It was William Wordsworth who said "Our birth..."
Corey D.October 12, 2025
Don't expect anything to get better or change because it's not going to. What was once unacceptable in public has now gone public, celebrities use it openly and regularly in interviews and commentary, politicians at all levels up to and including the president of the United States make no effort to refrain from vulgar and profane language in public discourse. It's openly used in the hallways of our schools with seemingly no effort by teachers or administration to prevent it. Have a granddaughter who is a sweetheart and somewhat sensitive to things, her transistion from elementary school to junior high was rough, one of the reasons was all the bad language and bullying and intimidation, breaks my heart. It's a sign of the times and totally part of Satan's plan to desensitize people to evil.
Rochelle HaleOctober 12, 2025
Over 50 years ago, as a new convert, my ward/school friends quickly took me under their wing and introduced me to early morning seminary. I wanted to be immersed in the gospel quickly, and seminary was the place to be. I can still remember our classroom and a few of the lessons. My family moved, and I had another wonderful seminary teacher and mentor. My husband and I have served as seminary teachers and principals. I am grateful for the inspired innovations and teachings in the current program for the youth of the Church.
Layne MillerOctober 11, 2025
Another great article Mark! Keep it up! Layne
Mark StoddardOctober 10, 2025
VERY enjoyable and inspiring article, Paul. Exactly what people need to read about conversion. I find the words, intellectually converted, to be oxymoronic. And the whole idea you had of being open to the Spirit exactly the opposite and real, true path to conversion. We shall have to discuss this more in the Galapagos!!
Robert SpielOctober 10, 2025
This is truly exciting! Can they add a class on turning off social media?
Layne MillerOctober 10, 2025
Well written as usually my good friend. Keep it up!!
JeffOctober 10, 2025
I grew up in a home where four-letter-words were common place. My father owned a nightclub complete with liquor, gambling and prostitution. It rubbed off on me. I joined the Church when I was 17 with little or no testimony of its divinity. Somewhere within my being, God saw something of value in me. He has been patient as I have strived to Become as my Savior. My testimony of God, His Son, Joseph’s vision and the Church I love, has been paramount in my life and my manner of speech has improved. True repentance works. We as members have to bear the ugly words with love as individuals but, BYU students should not. Opposing schools must teach their fans to be respectful and a fine of $50K won’t do it. Immediate penalties against the opposing teams will work. The fine/penalty must be immediate and impactful.
Rochelle HaleOctober 9, 2025
Conversion, as with our testimonies, is not a once and done deal. It happens over and over, step by step. My family attended various churches growing up. My step aunt and uncle had joined the church, as had a cousin my age on my mom's side. We had missionaries in our home several times, but maybe I never really paid attention. I think my conversion began when I desired what my cousin and some school friends (also members) had. Keeping the Word of Wisdom was not an issue. I firmly believed in paying tithing, but many I.O.U. notes were dropped into my piggy bank until I became fully converted to this principle and realized the blessings of paying tithing. My conversion was influenced by great seminary and youth leaders, friends, and mission companions. I think it was strengthened through my desire to learn and grow in the gospel, and allow myself to be guided by the Holy Ghost. To quote a popular podcast, decades later I am "all in." In a CFM lesson a few weeks ago, counsel was given to the early Saints about how to draw near to the Lord. Among these were to be prayerful, study the scriptures, be temple worthy, etc. Sometimes those who are struggling with their testimonies want some kind of quick fix or miracle answer, but the answers were given almost two hundred years ago. As we practice these things, the Lord will bless our hearts and strengthen our faith and belief in Him and his plan for us.
CarolOctober 9, 2025
This was a very inspirational article to help me to improve my personal history stories!
brian stubbsOctober 8, 2025
Very good, Brother Andrew. I learn much from each of your articles.
Paul BishopOctober 8, 2025
Thx for the correction...As an adult convert, I'm prone to mixing up sound alike names...
J.G. BaileyOctober 8, 2025
I've often received the spirit when reading the word of the prophets and apostles, but never to the degree when hearing them audibly.
jeff simpsonOctober 8, 2025
would that "this is where the people were" be the only reason for going to the synagogue, on the sabbath, be the only reason for Paul to go on the sabbath? that Luke says the same of Paul in Acts 17:2 that he says of Jesus in Luke 4:16, shows that it was more than "where the people were." in Acts 13 Paul is in the synagogue and doesn't speak until asked if he has anything to say, which indicates that to speak was not the only reason. in Acts 16 at Philippi there was no synagogue so they sought a quiet place for prayer, which is worship, showing that to speak to others was not the only reason. might it be because of the commandment, "remember the sabbath day and keep it holy?" Jesus kept His Father's commandments, John 15:10 and Paul says "be imitators of me and i am of Christ, 1Corinthians 11:1
Sally SmithOctober 8, 2025
My heart is full after experiencing the spirit and outpouring of love as I watched the funeral. I am so grateful to be living at this time to know that we have prophets on the earth again.
MaryannOctober 7, 2025
Staying away from church because we are fearful would deny us of the great blessings that come from renewing our Sacrament covenants with the Lord. That would be a far greater tragedy than being shot. "And should we die before our journey's through, happy day, all is well!"
MaryannOctober 7, 2025
Thank you so much for posting these pictures. I can truly feel the love and reverence in the faces of these people for our dear Prophet, President Nelson. None of us will ever forget him and his influence for good in our lives. This photo essay was a wonderful service for those of us who couldn't be there. We thank thee, O God, for a Prophet!
Sherri EinfeldtOctober 7, 2025
I'm related to John Proctor too! Fun small-world :)
Daniel PetersonOctober 6, 2025
No, Donl Peterson wasn't a relative of mine, although I met him a few times. He seems to have been a very good man.
Kaylene ReddOctober 6, 2025
Excellent article. A well-written synopsis of many of the highlights and testimonies from our Church leaders. How much they were needed at this time. Grateful for their inspiration and testimonies. Thank you, Maurine and Scott, for the good work you do!
Lorena HolmsteadOctober 6, 2025
Thank you for your summary this morning of some of the General Conference talks. Beautifully done! I too feel like there was an outpouring of the Spirit!
Harold RustOctober 6, 2025
In an enriching literary structure you have "enlightened" us about the practical and yet holy approach to understanding so well proclaimed by President Nelson and so well repeated by Elder Bednar in this General Conference. I plan to preserve presentations from both of you.....real keepers.
Harold RustOctober 6, 2025
Reading (or listening to) fundamental principles spoken by prophets and apostles again and again adds greater depth of understanding each time. Your summary here--using their own words in capsulated form---immediately highlighted several concepts and feelings of genuine truths for me even as I had heard (or read) those same truths just one day earlier. Thanks for a great re-enlightenment.
KathleenOctober 5, 2025
Amen! (and it does)
Jary WelkerOctober 4, 2025
I don't mean to nit pick but wasn't the second promise listed in this article from his talk as President of the Quorum of the Twelve given in October 2017 entitled, "The Book of Mormon: What Would Your Life Be Like Without It?" While I have struggled to live up to it, I have always found such strength in those words. His full promise from that talk is, "My dear brothers and sisters, I promise that as you prayerfully study the Book of Mormon every day, you will make better decisions—every day. I promise that as you ponder what you study, the windows of heaven will open, and you will receive answers to your own questions and direction for your own life. I promise that as you daily immerse yourself in the Book of Mormon, you can be immunized against the evils of the day, even the gripping plague of pornography and other mind-numbing addictions."
Charles McClellandOctober 3, 2025
Thank you SO MUCH for this analysis! President Nelson's influence on the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints was transformative.
Stella ShermanOctober 2, 2025
Ofcourse the Church supports our own. We have as you know proper channels like starting with your Bishopric if need be. I'm sure these families already have the support and help they need from not only their Bishopric but members of their Ward and Stake.
TinaaCOctober 2, 2025
I would hope my LDS church supports these victims. I understand go me funds are blessings, I pray that those who were injured will be healed and love and support to those who sustained such significant loss.
T. BarrettOctober 2, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful tribute full of wonderful quotes from President Nelson and scripture. I read everything that comes into my office that you have written and am always enlightened. I just finished the astonishing book "Lucid Dying" on your suggestion.
Lisa EdwardsOctober 2, 2025
Just beautiful...I have tears streaming down my face. Thank you. I love him SO much and am so grateful for all that he taught us.
Kenny MazzantiOctober 2, 2025
Yes, the Gospel of Jesus Christ can bring peace, but it does not make us immune from attack. The Nephites realized this and put "watchmen on the tower". They were not the aggressors, but they did protect themselves from attack. They did actively defend themselves. Praying that you will not be next is great, but the Lord expects us to DO something in case it does happen. Because it did happen to a group of faithful Saints in Michigan we need to take active steps to protect our families from an actual attack. No matter where you live, you may be a target just as the Saints were in Missouri and Illinois. I just returned from Far West where more than 400 Saints were murdered. They lie in unmarked graves. If we are prepared we need not fear. We read is the scriptures, but what to do? I recommend ALL of our leaders read "First 30 Seconds" by Ed Monk. It will give you a realistic, workable plan that can prevent another Michigan style atrocity. We must never be the aggressors, but we must always be the defenders of the innocent. Remember the Title of Liberty. Apply it now.
Debrah RoundyOctober 2, 2025
I have never heard what Debbie said, said quite that way, but I love it, "he told us to eat our spiritual spinach"
Corey D.October 2, 2025
Good article, interesting comments, the phrase/sentence "we should only have one idol-Jesus Christ", I cringe at that usage, I know what was intended but " idol" should never, ever be used in relation to or in reference to our Savior Jesus Christ.
Jason HewlettOctober 2, 2025
I was awakened around 3 AM by some troubling thoughts that linger from the past weekend's tragic events, and began to pray. No longer able to sleep, I got up and am now reading this, thankful it landed in my inbox from the Proctor's work. What wonderful words of comfort you have shared, thank you for putting this into perspective so clearly. I love the preparation part and the promises you have reminded me of here. Grateful for your work and the timeliness of this article.
J.G. BaileyOctober 1, 2025
As a stake and ward missionary for 15-years, I learned... "To those who have faith, no explanation is necessary, to those without faith, no explanation is possible." St. Thomas Aquinas Great article.
Nerita Flake PetersonOctober 1, 2025
Even in death, his example strengthens me. I love you President Nelson. Thank you Sister Nelson for your sharing your wonderful partner with all of us.
A N InvestigatorOctober 1, 2025
With all the humility that I can muster, I said the same to a sister missionary years ago.
Carlos RoundyOctober 1, 2025
It is in the darkest hours that the light of Christ shines the brightest.
John EspleyOctober 1, 2025
Elder Bednar was the visiting authority at the Pembroke VA Stake Conference a week after the VA Tech shooting. While no members were killed at that massacre, several members were deeply affected, including the Stake President whose office was on an upper floor in the building where most of the victims were killed. Elder Bednar was assigned to visit several months before the shooting occurred.
JoAnn BairSeptember 30, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful, comforting article. It warmed my heart.
LorioSeptember 30, 2025
Wow, what a story! Most of us have no idea of the faith and courage needed to follow our leaders and do things that seem impossible. The day will probably come that such faith and courage and obedience will be asked of us. May we be strengthening our faith and courage AND trust in the Lord, His program and His leaders here on earth.
LindaSeptember 30, 2025
Beautiful article! I am saving some of President Nelson’s quotes that you used here. I wonder if H. Donl Peterson is your father? He was my Bishop at BYU my freshman year long ago. Wonderful man!
Diane PetersonSeptember 30, 2025
Brother Peterson, Thank you for your beautiful words of comfort and reassurance. Always, you speak with such eloquence and with wise insights making it a pleasure to read and hear your words. Thank you for your loving tribute to President Nelson. Certainly, he was an inspired prophet and a holy man of God. How blessed we all are to have lived during the tenure of this beloved prophet!
Lyle BurrupSeptember 30, 2025
I am wondering if you might have missed an important point in Brigham Young's statement, if indeed he made it, which we do not know for sure. Taking offense when offense is intended or not puts us in the hands of the adversary to be buffetted by those feelings and thoughts which sometimes turn into bitterness. I remember a ward member sharing a wise statement when we were discussing the Lord's command to forgive those who offend us. He said, "Being bitter is like drinking arsenic and hoping the other person dies." As a counselor I have spend hours talking with members who have been deeply offended and abused. I have noticed that when they reach the point of forgiving (not trusting) the offender, they seem to feel more at peace. That is such a challenging thing to do. I have studied the Lord's statements and injunctions that we forgive others and that we not judge unrighteously, and have concluded that for myself I prefer the peace of mind that comes with letting go of offense. Forgiveness of aomeone who has intentionally or unintentially "offended me" is the gift I of peace of mind and heart I only can give myself. I have put together a document on all the scriptures that teach forgiveness for my clients, and have gained a valuable insight as to why the Savior might, on the cross, be praying for his enemies as He preached, that the Father would forgive the Roman soldiers who tortured him all day long and crucified him. He knew that they would need to repent to be forgiven. But He prayed for their forgiveness anyway. I believe it was so that He could rid his soul of any hurt they caused him so He go to heaven free of the pain that abuse caused him. I believe He wanted to arrive in his Father's presence free of any negative effects of his crucifixion and also the effects of his atornement. I tried praying for someone who had offended me in the same spirit--that he did not know how what he did offended me. And it worked! After convincing the Spirit I was true in my desire, I felt great relief in my heart. it felt like a miracle and I wondered why. The thought that came into my mind was that Christ had paid the price for my pain and if I was willing to turn it back to him, He would carry it for me. One more point. You might want to review what Positive Psychology has found regarding the positive effects of trauma. (https://posttraumaticgrowthproject.com/)
Rochelle HaleSeptember 30, 2025
How blessed we have been by President Nelson's service. I am the history specialist for our stake. As I was summarizing my notes from our recent stake conference, I noted how many quotes and teachings came from our dear Prophet. He led us through the Pandemic, established the home-centered-church-supported way of study and worship, taught us the importance of seeking personal revelation, daily repentance, thinking Celestial, and so much more. Though a tender time, what a blessing it is to know the Lord's plan for President Nelson and all of us. Death is but a sweet passing to all that Heavenly Father has in store for us.
Joyce PierceSeptember 30, 2025
I was dealing with hip/leg pain for a couple of years, and my husband gave me a priesthood blessing before going to NYC with my daughter. I almost didn't go because it hurt so bad. He sent me off telling me I'd be fine, but I wasn't. The pain was awful and I felt like I was slowing her, and the grandkids down, as we walked miles and miles every day. He was disappointed that the blessing hadn't erased the pain, but I realized later that the blessing had allowed me to endure it. Fortunately, doctors finally figured out I needed a hip replacement and that fixed the problem, but I am grateful for that blessing. They don't always give us what we want at that moment, but we can often see how we were blessed in other ways.
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 30, 2025
What a great article this was. Thank you for sharing all this with us. I know he was a prophet because of the Come Follow Me program.
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 30, 2025
I know President Nelson was a prophet. I really enjoyed this article because I have feared death. Reading this has helped to ease my fear. Thank you.
Lorene CoeSeptember 30, 2025
Very beautiful article. Thank you for sharing. It touched my heart and soul.
Joel MarksSeptember 29, 2025
‘Behold the Man!’
Joel MarksSeptember 29, 2025
‘Behold the Man!’
Ben JonesSeptember 29, 2025
It is indeed sad to see religious faith waning in the US as well as in other parts of the world but just remember that members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints have been able to thrive despite the availability of contraception, abortion, pornography, recreational drugs, liquor, tobacco, coffee, tea, television, movies, the Internet and criticism from other faiths as well as the philosophies of men. There is a vacuum to be filled, and we have a message that resonates with those who are searching for meaning in their lives. European nations used to be very religious, but they were also constantly fighting with each other, often in the name of their apostate versions of God.
ShaunaSeptember 29, 2025
He was a magnificent prophet of God. I'm so grateful I was on the earth for his tenure. I am writing principles he taught us in my journal and there are so many that immediately spring to mind: think celestial, let God prevail, begin with the end in mind etc. etc. He was a master teacher.
GeorgeannaSeptember 29, 2025
This was a wonderfully written tribute on our beloved late President Nelson. I felt exactly as you, so much so, I plan on including it in my journal. Thank you.
Kevin KSeptember 29, 2025
We should be so very grateful that law enforcement was so close by. This could have been far worse with loss of life. Thank you to all the police and fireman, EMTs and all so responded. May our Father in Heaven bless and comfort all those who were there and had to experience this terrible tragedy. Very sad day and very difficult to understand.
PamSeptember 29, 2025
Your mother's challenge with her left hand resulted in the songs she composed that were easier for the left hand to play. Her music is a delight to play for those of us who are perhaps not virtuoso pianists. I have appreciated her music for many years.
GingerSeptember 29, 2025
This is the most beautiful and encompassing article about President Nelson’s teachings and ministry as the prophet that I’ve read since his passing. Thank you for sharing your excellent talents with the world.
Bruce NormanSeptember 29, 2025
Awesome message. This memorial message is second to none, very touching.
CindySeptember 29, 2025
Wonderful wonderful article and summarization of a significant latter day prophets life! I am sitting here bawling for gratitude for his lis who has touched mine in such a special way. I truly “thank Thee, oh God, for THIS prophet”!!!
Nancy PhillipsSeptember 28, 2025
Thank you so much for this piece. I know of many Christians - LDS and otherwise - who support the philosophies and plans of those who want to impose Christian Nationalism upon this country and the world. Christ did not teach aggression. The Holy Ghost is a spirit of peace and gentleness. These teachings of Christian dominion are truly “the philosophies of me, mingled with scripture” and have no place in Christ’s church.
SteveSeptember 28, 2025
Recently, I had to undergo a routine procedure that I knew would create some problems afterwards for me, so I sought a Priesthood blessing beforehand. After the procedure, I quickly realised that the blessing I had sought had not been granted. As I reviewed everything, I soon realised that I had been blessed - not in the way that I had sought, but in a very different way that I very much needed. So, despite having to endure the problems that I knew would happen as a result of the procedure, which lasted for a couple of months, I was at peace because of the blessing that I did get. Which was ultimately, much more important.
Raman JobSeptember 27, 2025
Superb post! Please publish more like it.
Mae GilmoreSeptember 27, 2025
Thanks for writing this. I needed a reminder that is indeed okay to leave the past in the past!
C.L. KirkhamSeptember 27, 2025
I believe this story shows a dual fulfillment of prophecy, both from the book of Mormon, and also from our living prophet in 2 Nephi, either 27 or 28. There are verses that read “for I the Lord God will show unto the children of men that I am able to do mine own work. And President Russell M. Nelson (Who IS the Lord’s mouthpiece on the Earth today) has promised us that “between now, and when the Lord comes again, He will do some of His most mighty miracles“ The Lord is hastening His work in HIS very ‘deed’ (covenants to gather scattered Israel), that through our temple covenants with God we may also inherit everything alongside our Savior Jesus Christ if we hold out faithful to the end. I have to believe it is through fulfilled prophecy that Signs of the Times shall be more easily noticed among faithful saints. Make no mistake about it though — His arm, the arm of Jesus Christ, is revealed in this process, and we are commanded to watch for the signs of His coming.
K TaylorSeptember 26, 2025
Could not agree more with this article. Under the current MAGA regime and belief system, there are many religious "conservatives" who are seeking to impose and establish Christianity or, at least their version of it, as the dominant belief and even legal system in this country. We are very clearly living in the era of the kingmen as described in the books of Alma, Helaman and 3rd Nephi. MAGA and the current regime are very much seeking to impose their will on the masses, engaging in ethnic cleansing and seeking dominance over this nation and other nations around us. All of which is not following Christ's teachings to love God and our neighbor.
MicheleSeptember 26, 2025
The comments thus far dont seem to recognize most authors have a specific subject to cover rather than the entire history of societal change. In these cases, the subject matter seems to be glossed over, refuted and or denied. While the general point of the comments are valid, the reality exists for the potential of a religious takeover which should not be ignored either. The fact of even a minority engaging in efforts to control beliefs demonstrates it could grow, which is how these things happen: we don't believe they exist or are a threat until they have gained momentum and strength. Change, positive or negative, doesn't happen quickly, but slowly enough to not notice until it is indeed threatening. Our constitution can hang by a thread from either, or both, extremes.
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
Good grief! One bag equals 15 individual (not family) meals, and the price is $100.00. Yet, one of his criticisms about some food storage products is that they are too expensive!
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
Beautiful article. I would add that when we want a certain job, house, or things of that nature, someone ELSE may be praying fervently for the very same thing! We need to humble ourselves to recognize that maybe someone else needed that job more, or was better qualified. There is often more in the equation of our desires than we can see. Our Heavenly Father sees the big picture and he is no respecter of persons. He views the needs of ALL of His children. As far as health issues, that has been a tough one for me because throughout my life I have had dear family members and friends who have struggled with severe health issues. I have been disappointed and confused at times about why the Lord won't relieve their suffering after many years. I realize that it all boils down to trust in Him. There IS a divine purpose in the trials of life, and one day we will completely understand the WHY. We can continue to exercise trust in the Lord, and remember that the day is coming when he will "wipe away all our tears," and there will be no more suffering.
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
I, too, am very touched by Erika Kirk's testimony and commitment to Jesus Christ by embracing forgiveness for Charlie's killer, However, I must say that I would not have been able to do so in just a few days. Forgiveness would require a huge dose of the enabling power of the Savior. Without Him, I would never be able to offer such forgiveness. I am grateful that we do not have to depend on our own strength for such monumental challenges.
MaryannSeptember 26, 2025
To commenters Robert and Matt---I agree with you completely.
Marco HansonSeptember 26, 2025
This was very interesting, and I appreciate all the research. As you mention "reflecting on the generations of sacrifice required to engrave the Book of Mormon" -- I've been working for six years now on my own handwritten copy of the Book of Mormon, and one of the many blessings has been a profound appreciation for Nephi, Alma, Mormon and the other recordkeepers. It was so much work!
Phil SnowSeptember 26, 2025
Thanks for your article about the gold plates. Two things come to my mind. My understanding is that the only writers on the plates from which Joseph translated the record were Mormon and then at the very last, Moroni, neither of whom was an "ancient Near-Eastern scribe. But I don't doubt that they learned their craft from their predecessors and learned to "write small."
Kerry FarrSeptember 26, 2025
Great timely information! Thank you.
Robert StarlingSeptember 25, 2025
Very true principles. I was reminded of the lyrics of a 1969 song by the Rolling Stones. "You can't always get what you want, But if you try sometime you'll find You get what you need." Funny, sometimes you find truth in the strangest places.
Robert HorspoolSeptember 25, 2025
I found, nor do I find any such happening in the American conservative. True, there are always factions who are small and without much support who espouse more radical ideas, but they are neither a majority nor a problem. It has been the radicalization from wrong thinking leftists that has caused more harm than from conservative religions. I find the writer's premise lacking in merit. While they pay lip service to the religious founding of the Constitution, they forget that without Judeo-Christian ethics, the Constitution fails, as it has been for the past 35 years as America stepped away from religion. We need a restoration to the morals and values of Judeo-Christian ethics, and I see a call for that more than a hostile Christian takeover of government. The fact the writer called the events of Jan. 6 an insurrection tells me enough about their wrong thinking. Truth and honesty needs to be restored as well, not rhetoric and lies.
James R. BrownSeptember 25, 2025
Great arrangement and delivery!
MattSeptember 25, 2025
This author fails to point out that we already have a religious takeover - by the Marxist/Atheist/Darwinists, and we've been living under its oppression for some time.
Ronald BarnesSeptember 24, 2025
Ten generations ago, at least two of my French ancestors married women of the Kaskaskia Indian tribe. This can be proven by my genealogy, but not by my DNA. Although, as far as I know, all of the other lineages that I am descended from do show up in my DNA, my Native American ancestry does not. Lack of proof does not mean proof of lack.
KathleenSeptember 24, 2025
Amen, brother!
LaRae KerrSeptember 23, 2025
What is the name of, and who is the artist for the beautiful picture accompanying this article?
J.G. BaileySeptember 23, 2025
I'm 87-years-old, was raised in an LDS community by a large, loving family. This is what I wanted and intended, but divorce and a melded family has proven otherwise. When asked by Bret Baier of Fox News what kept him awake at night, Elon Musk said it was our birth rated not keeping pace with our death rate. Kudos to anyone spending 4-years time and effort to study this most important topic.
Tony StrongSeptember 22, 2025
So incredible. I really loved this. Thank Carol Rice.
Sarah HinzeSeptember 22, 2025
Thank you for reporting this story. I have been so moved by the outpouring of the spirit of the Lord upon the world as a reaction to Charlie Kirk and his death. It seems to me that we are in a great period of revival as millions worldwide are turning to Jesus and prayer and scriptures as never before. History shows that often a great revival to Jesus comes after a Christian martyr dies, such as the stoning of Stephen when Saul (renamed the apostle Paul) brought forth a great revival to Jesus.
Ezetta B.September 22, 2025
Many people may believe that simply watching General Conference is sufficient for spiritual growth. However, much more is required to truly advance spiritually. The inspired words of latter-day prophets are readily available to us in written form, ensuring that we have constant access to their guidance and teachings. With these messages at our fingertips, there is no reason to miss out on the lessons and insights intended for us. Like all scripture, it is essential to actively study and ponder these teachings rather than passively consuming them. Only by doing so can we deepen our understanding and strengthen our spiritual foundation. This perspective, shared by Paul Bishop, serves as a valuable reminder of the need for intentional spiritual effort. Thank you, Paul Bishop, for highlighting the importance of engaging thoughtfully with prophetic messages.
LewisSeptember 22, 2025
I am so grateful for your gift of telling stories that remind us that Heavenly Father forgets no one and will find his lost sheep.
S RichardsonSeptember 22, 2025
I tried an LDS chatbot once and found it provided a wrong answer about a historical fact. When I countered that the answer was wrong, the bot responded with, "Oh, I'm sorry, you're right..." and then continued on with its confident-sounding answers. I've experienced this now with other chatbots covering a variety of subjects. Hence, I'm suspicious of all chatbots. They remind me of know-it-alls who sound confident but sometimes give downright misleading answers.
Jeff LindsaySeptember 22, 2025
Note that I should have said that the murder occurred "in front of the world" rather than "in front of her" because she apparently was not there physically and I don't know if she was watching. Also, for those who are tempted to follow the conventional path of cringe-worthy disrespect by saying, "Yes, it was wrong to murder Charlie, but he was a racist or something," please have a touch decency and refrain from such slurs based on repeating what you've heard. Listen to his actual message. If that's too difficult, listen to a few minority voices as they respond to Charlie and tell me how you can justify the charge of racism: https://x.com/thatsKAIZEN/status/1967652741905518882 https://x.com/AlBuffalo2nite/status/1969578204231868619 https://x.com/TONYxTWO/status/1968112224234508373 The slurs on Charlie are unjustified, in spite of being spread by some of the biggest and loudest voices in legacy media and social media.
KathleenSeptember 20, 2025
. . . . and Amen!
Helen PehrsonSeptember 20, 2025
Thanks for sharing such a wonderful story and scripture. It gives us something to think about. Helen
Richard DahlSeptember 19, 2025
Good article, thank you. The quote in Alma 34: 32 is not Alma specking but is Amulek. See the header for chapter 34 and also Alma 34:1. Amulek is a very interesting person, as he goes from the natural man to a great missionary and disciple of Jesus Christ. I look forward to meeting him.
HelenCSeptember 19, 2025
Amen
GoetSeptember 18, 2025
I've seen the guns in the museum. I also went to Carthage as a kid, before they cleaned up. I saw the stain of Hyrum's blood on the wood floor and the bullet holes in the door going both ways.
ShaunaSeptember 18, 2025
Thank you. I was never a "young" mom as I didn't marry until my late 30's but I do believe that young mom's need every ounce of support and encouragement we can give them. I try, even with young moms I don't know, to let them know how beautiful their children are, and what a great job they are doing and that there is no work more important. Yesterday, at a store, there were some very loud children, and people were making rude comments instead of seeing if there was something they could do to help. All of us were once little children, and someone raised and put up with us. This is the next generation--try to support those who are raising that generation--such vital work. President Nelson said he became a doctor because he couldn't be a mother. I salute you young moms--keep fighting the good fight--it is SO worth it!
JeaNette Goates SmithSeptember 18, 2025
My husband, Bret, and I served as mission leaders in the Santo Domingo East mission and saw miracles just like the one you write about. Were we so lucky to serve in a country with such a prepared people!
Roger ClaydonSeptember 17, 2025
How are Latter Day Saints outside the United States supposed to regard the USA Constitution? We have our own individual country with its history and founding principles! Also it's own political history!
K OutzenSeptember 17, 2025
Thank you for your reminder to be open about our allegiance to Jesus Christ--even more than we are to the cultural and counter cultural figures who we believe are speaking truth. I thoroughly agree with Vic Grady's comments and those of Val Hemming to this post. We must know where our personal blind spots are! We must see that, as in Book of Mormon stories you pointed out, it was both sides who had lost God & their civilization. We are at that point! Most leaders from both sides are unworthy of our time and certainly not worthy personally of our loyalties, but respect for the office. Our Constitution is worthy of our loyalty, as a God ordained document. Unfortunately, everyone twists its meaning to fit their political views, sapping its power in the process. In a way, sometimes I wish our prophet were our military or political leader as in ancient days just to make it easier. There are a handful of good people who lead, but we MUST NOT try to contort everything they, or our favorite pundits, say to match up with our doctrine. We are deluding ourselves, and worse, others if we do.
JoeSeptember 17, 2025
What a wonderful experience! The Lord is always aware of our needs. When I was a missionary (years ago) I had a similar experience with someone having a dream about me bringing her spiritual “ food”... I shared my experience on this magazine on an article titled “dreams”. The gospel is true!! Missionary work is the best…
Leilani CookSeptember 17, 2025
I LOVE this story! Thank you so much for sharing it with all of us.
HelenCSeptember 17, 2025
Thank you for reminding me that miracles are everywhere, just waiting to be seen, and that this is especially true of our (spiritually) wayward children.
Larry BarrySeptember 17, 2025
Thank you for sharing your inspiring message. My wife and I understand the sorrow of wandering children. 3 of our 5 children have left the church—2 having served in bishoprics—and most of our 33 grandchildren are away from the fold. But we know Heavenly Father and the Savior are aware of them, love them, and will reclaim them in their own time. Trust God—Have Faith❤️
John CampbellSeptember 17, 2025
What a wonderful description of how the Lord works with us to bless others and us at the same time.
CynthiaSeptember 17, 2025
What a beautiful story!! I love how it shows that God loves each of His children; the woman who prayed and waited for 27 days as well as His precious missionary! Thank you for always inspiring us with your articles.
Mary Jo BellSeptember 17, 2025
Thank you!
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 17, 2025
What an inspiring article. I, too, have a lost sheep, and I’ve waited more than 27 days. I pray that the Lord will come and rescue my one.
ColinSeptember 16, 2025
Thanks for your comment, Kathryn. Let me say a bit more. Part of the context of Mr. Kirk's statement is his history of similar statements that go well beyond hiring practices to things that sound awfully close to white supremacy. A few others (there are plenty to choose from, sadly): "The ‘Great Replacement’ is not a theory, it’s a reality” (on Media Matters). “If I’m dealing with somebody in customer service who’s a moronic Black woman…” "[Juneteenth] threatens the fabric of our country." Etc. But again, there's never an excuse for political violence, which destabilizes society and hurts *everyone* on both sides of the aisle.
SallySeptember 16, 2025
We are experiencing the same evil that happened between the Lamanites and Nephites in our day. If we as a people even in Utah do not heed the First Presidency's admonishment we will soon become like these ancient people and look what happened to them.
Carlos RoundySeptember 16, 2025
in the Book of Mormon, their hatred was greater than their will to live. when it said that they slept on their swords, for tomorrow we shall conquer or die. The spirit of God had completely left their civilization.
KathrynSeptember 16, 2025
A quick response to Colin's assertion that Charlie Kirk engaged in "textbook bigotry." The quote Colin provided was accurate, but taken out of context. It was made in the context of hiring/promotion based on race rather than qualification. I agree that Charlie could have stated his opinion in a way that was less likely to be misunderstood. But to say his quote was "racist" misses the point he was trying to make about the unfortunately real problem of some organizations hiring or promoting based on race rather than qualification.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 16, 2025
I think Charlie Kirk's death will be a "turning point" for many. His perspective went beyond any one religious denomination, though he was evangelical. He spoke of goodwill and decency, respect for others, common sense, and basic moral values that we all should espouse. He spoke of unity and pride for our country. I am sad that some only heard hatred. I am saddened that, within days of his passing, the naysayers and the finger-pointers have come out. It behooves all of us, regardless of race, culture, gender, or political views, to remember to love our neighbors and seek the common good in all aspects of our lives. Nothing is accomplished by senseless acts of violence.
Vic GradySeptember 16, 2025
Thank you, Maurine, for your, as always, insightful remarks, especially on this subject and at this time. My concerns about the work of Charlie Kirk are not centered on his courageous declarations of common sense morality, at least that portion of it that aligns with our revealed values. He has also made a variety of incendiary remarks, specifically targeting individuals and groups with whom he was at odds. He is, of course, within his freedoms to do that and should be able to do that without any physical repercussions. My concern is that, as Christians ourselves, and more specifically as Latter-day Saints, we are getting, or will get, dragged under the carpet if we are not careful, aligning ourselves with such controversial figures, however much we might agree with their views, and however good they might otherwise be. We need to make it crystal clear to all, including to each other, that we have but one idol - Jesus Christ, the sinless Son of God. To attach ourselves to anyone else is to place, not only, impediments in the way of the Lord’s work, but to intentionally place a beam in our own eyes. Those kinds of adherences are not harmless, I believe. We can begin to “see” less of Christ, and His prophets, as we draw closer and closer to the agenda of an individual. My view is that we in the Lord’s Church should not be “followers” of such individuals, and we should not be _viewed_ as such. Observers - yes; Devotees - no. I don’t think that enough Latter-day Saints have thought that through. I have had a good number of conversations with individuals who are critical of not only Kirk’s religion-based rhetoric (and I recognize that Kirk is but one of many) but critical of religion in general. I have tried to help people unravel the two but it is very difficult. We need to give more thought to the implications of our allegiances, especially in these days of already highly primed sensitivities.
Joel MarksSeptember 16, 2025
How about mentioning in this good, reflective articke, the importance of what Charlie Kirk was teaching, persuading and memoralising! Even God, faith, and country. Unfortunately, thise memorials as well free speech were left out of the feelings article. God bless America and the memory of Charlie Kirk of which we all should strive to emulate in the spirit of Messiah, even Jesus the Christ.
Kathy SandersSeptember 16, 2025
Thank you for this reminder of the great importance of recording the defining moments that change our lives and what and how they defined us so that the lessons are not lost not only to others but to ourselves. I needed to read this and be more intentional and yes even reaching to the future with love for those my story might bless.
RobertSeptember 15, 2025
The important thing to know and understand. Evil has been with us since the beginning and will remain (and increase along with good) until the second coming of the Savior. In this instance, it doesn't matter what religion the kid was, or grew up with. Simply put, the kid choose evil over good, and got into Satans influence. 1/3 of the hosts of heaven, raised with perfect love, perfect teaching perfect parenting choose evil over good; Caine and Abel. Caine choose evil over good; Lamen and Lemuel, both choose evil over good. Judas who worked with the Savior in person choose evil over good. Many others in history and even now choose evil over good. Even adults, parents, and a members currently choose evil, (pride, love of money, pick the sin) over good. While many talk and comment about what happened along with all the evil things going on in the world, it is important to understand that all of us live in a society where evil will only get vastly worse, not better. As righteousness goes up, so will wickedness. The Savior said that that righteousness and wickedness will co exist until the end, then burned at the end. Parable of the Wheat and the Tares, Matt 13:24-30 then 36:43. Then read Section 86. In the very end, in terms of this world, good will prevail over evil when the Savior returns in all of his majesty, power and glory to the world. Until then it is important for us to do the very best that we can daily, repent daily, read the scriptures daily, choose righteousness etc. We can't necessarily change evil people especially if they want to commit some violent act, but we can change ourselves.
HelenCSeptember 15, 2025
I cannot imagine the depth of the Robinson’s pain, and I have lost 2 children to cancer! Peace and Love to them all.
WEvansSeptember 15, 2025
Great article; however, the author of the book, "Rage Against the Machine, the Unmaking of Humanity," is not Paul Kingsworth as you have stated. The author is Paul Kingsnorth. Thank you.
HelenCSeptember 15, 2025
And we need to remember, and take into our hearts, that, in the end, good will triumph over evil, so why not start now?
Val Hemming, M.D. Col USAF MC (retired)September 15, 2025
I applaud your essay's plea for an end to violence in our seriously, politically, and culturally divided society. However, I object to your laying the blame to: "the sometimes called leftist or Marxist or merely secular" groups. You seem oblivious to the threats of violence from our U.S. President and his minions. Most of the Proud Boys who attacked our Capitol Building on January 6 were evangelical Christians. As a believing and practicing Latter-day Saint (for all of my 88 years), I felt your essay helped further polarize our vulnerable Latter-day Saint community.
JuliannSeptember 15, 2025
A heartbreaking situation for both the Kirt and Robinson families. Thank you for indicating that Tyler still has a trial to go through. He has not yet been proven guilty or innocent. Both families need our prayers. In the past week I have asked myself what I would do if I were the parent, the roommate, a friend. How do I handle opposite views and opinions?
GingerSeptember 14, 2025
Thank you for sharing this article!
Corey D.September 14, 2025
Great and informative article. I understand and fully expected the kind of response we would see and hear from the church and church leaders and other religious leaders and good people. The Savior taught us to love not only family and friends but even love and pray for our enemies and those who hate us and despise us, it's a tough, hard concept, not easy to do. He also taught and warned that these things would happen and that in the last day's violence and hatred would be rampant just as in olden times, we teach and preach peace, love and kindness but make no mistake it is going to get worse and ultimately end in the Saviors second coming and only then will the world have peace.
David A. HickenSeptember 13, 2025
As we know that there are no coincidences with God, how timely President Nelson’s Time Op-Ed was. Just before a violent and hateful act was perpetrated in Orem (and throughout our land), our dear prophet gave us the Lord’s teachings of self-worth and the worth of every soul. I heard many commentators and talking heads ponder how we can “turn down the temperature” of political disagreements and especially violence. I shouted at the TV screen several times, “The Prophet of God just told us this last week!” Oh, may we have listening ears and a willing heart to follow!
Richard GardnerSeptember 13, 2025
Well said.
ToniSeptember 12, 2025
A very valuable message for everyone in a marriage or thinking about getting married. I printed a copy and will also share it with family and friends.
Charles & Jill JohnsonSeptember 12, 2025
We are grateful for our participation in past marriage seminars by you and Nancy! Your article is an inspiration for us. We celebrated our 50th anniversary this week. I know the couple that will take our place tomorrow are going to be greatly blessed. We are hoping to attend in the near future.
Carol AnnSeptember 12, 2025
Charlie was a catalyst for all of us to continue his great work here. Thank you, Charlie, for leading the way! Your cause is now magnified by your life inspiring millions to carry on your mission and great cause for our country’s freedom and family solidarity!
SSeptember 12, 2025
Thank you very much for this article. It honored Charlie Kirk. It also was a great reminder of how to stand up to evil in peaceable ways & to study the Book of Mormon to better strategize against evil.
LisaSeptember 12, 2025
My heart goes out to this poster. We were in the same situation with our daughter just a year or two ago. She was 17 at the time and we too knew that time was running out to get her help before she became a legal adult. We too had tried every other option for years on end. If there is any chance that the letter writer's daughter also has an eating disorder, this was our ticket to residential treatment that insurance would pay for. Many eating disorder facilities are "dual diagnosis" facilities and work with other issues as long as the eating disorder can be considered a primary presenting problem. Our daughter was in an eating disorder facility for five weeks until our insurance company cut off funding, and while she wasn't there as long as we hoped, the experience did turn out to be a catalyst for change. She is now almost 18 months out from that experience and while she has a long road still ahead, she has been far more cooperative and willing to accept continued therapy and other treatment since being in residential. I don't think I've ever had an experience in my life where I felt the hand of the Lord and saw literal miracles happen to the extent that I did during the time we were trying to get our daughter into residential treatment. It was one of the hardest times in my life up to that point. Our daughter was adamant that she would not go to treatment, and it could not legally be forced. My anxiety was through the roof during the months that we tried to get her to accept this help. I was on my knee multiple times a day praying for help. I had several experiences feeling my family members on the other side of the veil near me and had the distinct impression that our whole family on both sides of the veil were rooting for her and for us. We had family, close friends, our bishopric and a few ward leaders praying for us. Our daughter did eventually agree to go to residential, and the way it unfolded was indeed a literal miracle.
Valerie F.September 12, 2025
I am heartbroken for Charlie’s wife, children and other family members. I would be just as devastated had the victim been a liberal/Democrat. All are alike unto God. Whether a person identifies as conservative, liberal or something else, all are God’s precious children.
EvelynSeptember 11, 2025
I am shattered and heartbroken at the murder of Charlie Kirk. I followed him online, listened to him as he spoke with the youth and acknowledged them and countered their thinking no matter what it was. He was kind, thoughtful, respectful. He loved his family, his country but most importantly, he loved his God, our Savior, Jesus Christ. He was a believer and never shied away from his testimony. I admired him for his forthrightness, no matter who he was speaking to. He will be missed. I pray for peace to be with his wife, children and family. It is a sad sad day.
SillieGanderSeptember 11, 2025
How do you deal with two groups of people who do not value each other’s common humanity? What would the Lord have us do?
Juliann BradshawSeptember 11, 2025
We need a thousand more Charlie Kirk’s and instead we have one less. He was a fearless freedom fighter and was killed for exercising his first amendment rights and voicing his opinion. May others rise in his place to keep his legacy alive. Evil must not prevail.
MelanieSeptember 11, 2025
Thank you! Many of my 9 siblings and I have, happy wanders and this article supplied the understanding and nourishment our spirits needed to carry on and trust in the Lord’s plan of agency!! This article was an answer to much fasting and prayers!
KimSeptember 11, 2025
Best article I have read on marriage in a long time.
ShaunaSeptember 10, 2025
Thank you. I'm always looking for new insights on the creation as it occupies such a pivotal role in the endowment
ShaunaSeptember 10, 2025
Thank you, Br Anderson, you are indeed "Mr. Kirtland." I loved reading these details and am in awe of these early Saints. I am so grateful, in 2025, to be able to do much temple work in our generation, due to the keys that were restored at the Kirtland temple.
ShaunaSeptember 9, 2025
I am an alumnus of BYU and have my 2 children there right now and I am passionate about what a BYU education has to offer. But so often, the classes are large and students can feel lost among the crowd. Learning names, at least in smaller classes, can make all the difference.
BrentSeptember 9, 2025
Although certainly a miraculous event, I do not believe this meteor shower was the inspiration for the hymn "Now Let us Rejoice." The hymn was published in the March 1833 edition of "the Evening and Morning Star," a full 7-8 months before the meteor shower occurred.
Jeff WildSeptember 9, 2025
So much wisdom and comfort. Thank you
Bette Ann HatchSeptember 9, 2025
Thank you so so much for teaching “President Russell M. Nelson 101.” I have loved them all.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 9, 2025
I will never forget my baptism interview over fifty years ago. The interviewing missionary must have thought I was younger than I was, so he brought along a picture book. All was going well until he turned the page to a picture of Joseph Smith and asked if I knew he was a prophet. Did I? Did I even know what a prophet was? I felt like I had a split second to answer. I didn’t want to lie to God, but I was so afraid they wouldn’t let me be baptized. I answered yes, and it changed my life. I testify of every prophet since that time. We are so blessed by the teachings and revelations of our dear Russell M. Nelson. I know with all my heart he is the Lord’s chosen servant at this time.
zeke abramsSeptember 9, 2025
Thank you for this article. I have one teenage daughter, who is the light of my days on Earth. In her teen years, we have become so close in our Friendship and parent/child relationship. She, however, is forever lost in her cell phone. But she will break from that electronic device to be my beloved daughter and in those moments no longer rare as they were, we share a love that simply blows my mind. And I share these things in the name of Jesus Christ... Amen!
Carol AnnSeptember 8, 2025
Profound!!
LarsSeptember 6, 2025
WSJ is no different than so many other mainstream media when it comes to reporting on The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They treat the church as a second class citizen of the media world and not worth of respect or standards. I lost respect for them and the other MSM long ago when they stooped to sensationalism and ridicule of other people's beliefs and sacred ideas.
SandySeptember 6, 2025
Thank you, Christopher, for calling out the WSJ. I appreciate your article, which demands respect for ours and all religions.
Joy An WilkinsonSeptember 6, 2025
Thank you so much for this stern redirect to WSJ. Sensationalized journalism coverage at the cost of propriety is more than just disturbing it’s vulgar. No other faith, (I researched their other articles), was put forth in their articles as damaging as they did to us. Thank you again for your journalistic condemnation of this breach of ethics.
tfSeptember 5, 2025
I shudder every time I see the term "Missionary Tool".
LoraSeptember 5, 2025
If I had a subscription to the Wall Street Journal, I would cancel it and let them know why. They crossed a boundary in the name of "honesty" and as long as subscribers tolerate it, they will continue to do so. They have let us know where their values are. It's up to subscribers to let them know that they won't make money from this kind of behavior. I am very disappointed.
Douglas aSalyerSeptember 5, 2025
Satan is working overtime these days. I don't think we have seen the worst of his work yet. The Saints need to stay close to the Lord in these perilous times.
PatSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you!
Nancy WillisSeptember 4, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you for compiling these meaningful messages of light, truth, and hope from our dear Prophet! I have loved pondering on the Savior's Atonement as I read through President Nelson's words this morning.
David B NormanSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you for President Russell M. Nelson 101. It is a wonderful compilation of his teachings of the blessings of the temple. I recently printed all the talks he has given since becoming our dear prophet, and have enjoyed re-reading them. I am anxious to add this to that volume.
Shawna murphSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you for this article. It was well written and provided incredible insights that should be brought to all our attention- not just those in Utah.
Sara GrovesSeptember 4, 2025
Thank you for this wonderful article. It is a beautiful way to celebrate both our Savior's life and our dear Prophet's life. I looking Girard to the remaining articles. Again, I truly appreciate both the Celebration of our Savior's life and gifts to us as well as our dear Prophet's 101st birthday.
Jenet EricksonSeptember 3, 2025
What a gift you have given us in this beautiful prophetic compilation! Thank you! Looking forward to tomorrow!
Tammy Van CleveSeptember 3, 2025
I love my Heavenly Father so much and for these wonderful leaders he calls to help us.
VelineSeptember 3, 2025
My mother-in-law was one of those women! I'm not sure she hiked Table Rock every other day, but definitely a couple times every summer. And she was very proud of herself the day they passed the boy scouts! She is now 90, and still very active, although not hiking quite so much.
Steve DoneganSeptember 3, 2025
Bro. Peterson - "I make no claim of originality for them." But to put them in one place where they can be found, digested, and integrated into our beings is an "originality" you are known for. And it is appreciated.
Corey D.September 2, 2025
I have heard this many times in my life, my wife and many other parents and grandparents I know take great comfort and solace in these quotes and I have to at various times but I struggle with it lately because of certain doctrinal truths taught in the scriptures, particularly Alma 40-42, Sec 76 and Sec 138. I have children and grandchildren and other relatives and friends that I love dearly and want us all to be together but I don't believe these quotes necessarily mean all will be exalted, saved yes and receive kingdoms and rewards yes, but the Celestial Glory is for the valiant. Great article Brother Peterson, something to think about and contemplate for sure.
ShaunaSeptember 2, 2025
Thank you for the heads up about Br. Nielsen's article. I look forward to reading it. But especially thank you for the citation of Elder Bednar's, March, 2014 article that gives context, and cautions about using a quote from almost 200 years ago, to support a doctrine that seems to violate agency. If we are not "punished for Adam's transgression, " I fail to see how we can be saved by the righteousness and covenants of our parents. And indeed Elder Bednar, gives the quote from Joseph smith, in its entirety, which indicates that "when a father and mother of a family have [been sealed], their children {who have not transgressed}--(italicized in the article) are secured by the seal wherewith the parents have been sealed. " (qtd in March, 2014 Ensign "Faithful parents and wayward Children: sustaining hope while overcoming misunderstanding" by Elder Bednar). I hear the Orson F Whitney quote all the time in classes now, and I have never met a teacher who is familiar with Elder Bednar's direct response. I'm also reminded of a quote from Elder Neal L Andersen in his October, 2012 General Conference address entitled "Trial of your Faith,": "There is an important principle that governs the doctrine of the Church . The doctrine is taught by all 15 members of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve. It is not hidden in an obscure paragraph of one talk." Elder Bednar, concedes that we do not currently completely understand the power of a family sealing, but it cannot override agency and cannot be substituted for personal repentance.
JuliannSeptember 2, 2025
There are many sons and daughters who have wandered away from Church involvement but who are wonderful, compassionate, charitable people and productive, contributing, citizens. Way too many Church members judge non members for breaking the W of W, forgetting that to them it is not a commandment. We can only look in the mirror and ask if our lack of hope in the Atonement of Jesus Christ and our tendency to pass judgement on others doesn’t make us hypocrites. The journey to become Christlike is ongoing for each of us.
HelenCSeptember 2, 2025
As I struggle with my fears over my [doctrinally] wayward children I use information like this to remind me of our Father in Heaven’s total understanding of the laws of both justice and mercy. I wait on Him.
LindaSeptember 2, 2025
What a beautiful, heartfelt article. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and words.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 2, 2025
"The pain now is part of the happiness then" is another quote attributed to C.S. Lewis. In Mosiah 18:9, we learn that mourning with others is a covenant we make at baptism. Alma 28:12 While many thousands of others truly mourn for the loss of their kindred, yet they rejoice and exult in the hope, and even know, according to the promises of the Lord, that they are raised to dwell at the right hand of God, in a state of never-ending happiness. I am not a mourner or a griever. Do I miss my loved ones who have passed on? Absolutely! Am I sad for those who suffer devastating illness or are even drawn to suicide? Yes! Do I ask many "What if...?" Most assuredly. What if I had called? What if this situation had been different? What could the person in pain have done differently? Was I the best friend, sister, or neighbor that I could have been? Is there something I could have done to prevent a suicide or to offer more comfort during an illness or life challenge? I sometimes feel guilty that I do not, in a sense, "sit Shiva" as our Jewish friends do. I have not had the "luxury" of leaving all the cares of the world to experience a period of mourning. I do not weep, wail, or become depressed. I have had to be about the business of moving forward (especially after divorce or serious illness). In many cases, I have had to be strong for others who did not have a sense of hope or a real understanding of what life after life might involve, and who did not share the same belief that they could someday see and live with their loved ones again. For many, deep grief goes on for years and years. After the suicide of a child, one relative sought insight from various religions, counseling, and even psychic readings in an effort to be comforted and to gain some idea of life after death. We grieve because we love. I don't believe I love less because I do not openly express my mourning. I will never forget the joy of returning to my grandmother's hospital room, as others were leaving, to give her one last hug and whisper words of reassurance. I regret that circumstances were not such that I could do the same when my own mother passed. Nevertheless, I am grateful that my mother's suffering did not continue. I cannot imagine how our Heavenly Father watched His Son suffer unthinkable things, yet the love of both of them was all for us. We can put our hope in their joyful and eternal plan.
Mary Jo BellSeptember 2, 2025
Thank you for these great insights.
Laura M. BrothersonSeptember 2, 2025
Well said, Sean!! Well done! Thanks for the fabulous review of "And They Were Not Ashamed!" And I definitely wouldn't have thought you would be a "chicken" on this topic, but that's okay too! Many people are! ;)
Rose C.September 1, 2025
SO TRUE! Thank you for helping me see these invitations!
John C. GreeneSeptember 1, 2025
In the temple we are twice admonished to avoid all evil speaking of the Lord’s anointed. But it seems that a significant contingent of Latter-day Saints think there is an exception to that warning that goes: avoid all evil speaking of the Lord’s anointed, unless they deserve it. Hurling the charge of racism at anyone you don’t understand, or don’t like, or disagree with has become de rigueur today. I think it’s an ugly sign of the times and unbecoming of a disciple of Jesus Christ. “Cursed are all those that shall lift up the heel against mine anointed, saith the Lord, and cry they have sinned when they have not sinned before me, saith the Lord, but have done that which was meet in mine eyes, and which I commanded them” (D&C 121:16). Did the Lord command Brigham Young in the matter of the priesthood ban? President Kimball thought so. And so do I. I appreciate Daniel C. Peterson’s defense of Brigham Young.
Ronald BarnesAugust 30, 2025
When working with partial facts, we use assumptions to help us supplement them. Every theory I have read has assumed that the land masses of the Americans have not changed over the past thousands of years. I believe that they have changed, even dramatically, over that time. To me, the narrative of the book does indicate a large area, but not as large as others assume. I base this partly on the geological history of the area. Also, the Indians did not regard distances as the obstacles that we do. The Illini would travel over 400 miles on foot to fight an enemy. Plains Indians would ride horses from Canada into Mexico on raiding parties. Plus, the writers of the Book of Mormon could only write about those populations in the areas where they resided. I’m sure there were populations, even among their own peoples, that they were not aware of.
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 30, 2025
Thank you for the additional insights into Sister Johnson’s thought-provoking talk.
Blayne SouleAugust 29, 2025
Thanks for posting! Very informative.
KathleenAugust 29, 2025
Great article and summation. I believe Sister Johnson's talk will go down as one of the hallmark talks in the Church.
Corey D.August 29, 2025
Ultimately the geographical areas of where the Book of Mormon took place are not the most important, it's the spiritual teachings that set it apart but it does make for interesting, albeit sometimes heated discussion. I myself have always been curious about Joseph Smith's comments (found in Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith) that Lehi and his family landed in Northern Chile, most LDS historians, archaeologists, etc., don't give that much credence. I served my mission in the southern part of Chile back in the 70's, I was serving in a city called Chillan, one evening we had stopped to visit a man who we had left a Book of Mormon with, we asked if he had read any of it and did he have any questions, he said he had started to read it and was intrigued that the Nephites claimed to have come from the Middle East (that was not the usual story at the time for who settled in the New World) but then told us an interesting story about some writings that had been discovered out in the cordillera (Andes) and what he knew or had been told they were arabic writings. I got transfered not long after that and never had a chance to check out the story or possibly go out and see them but have always remembered that incident.
Rochelle HaleAugust 29, 2025
We discussed Sister Johnson's message in Relief Society last week. Two things impressed me as I read the lesson ahead of time. 1. Our spiritual wholeness, faith, and commitment to the covenant path will sustain us through adversity. 2. We will receive total fullness through the grace of Jesus at the time of resurrection of body and spirit (see also CFM lesson D&C93). The youth presented our Sacrament meeting program last week, and our bishop expanded on an idea by one of the young women. He asked us to imagine a puzzle. We have put most of the pieces together. Those are the foundation of our testimony and gospel truths we know based on our study and experiences. If a few pieces are missing, we shouldn't discard the entire picture or give up on completing it. Those empty spots might be our questions or doubts, things we don't yet fully understand, or trials of life that test and try us. My faith has sustained me, particularly in the last few years as I have seen loved ones struggle, experienced personal illness and injuries, and let go as loved ones passed to the other side. My faith allows me to continually move forward even when faced with difficult things.
Merilee RobertsAugust 28, 2025
Wow! What a wonderful, enlightening read! Thank you so much for your wonderful article!
MaryannAugust 28, 2025
Three of our seven adult children are not active in the church. However, they ARE active in being wonderful spouses and parents. Even though we yearn for them to come back, we have kept the channels of communication open and shown our love. We do not push in any way. Fortunately, they have not been unkind or argumentative. Although it is heartbreaking to witness some of my grandchildren growing up without the gospel, I am thankful that my children are loving parents to them. I have come to realize that I cannot agonize over this situation. Worrying, fretting, and crying will not help them and it will only exhaust me. I continue to pray for my children, and I know Heavenly Father loves them and blesses them. I also put their names on the temple prayer roll. We CAN have peace when our children pull away from the church, trusting that the Lord will help them, and we must also respect the fact that each one has to choose their own path.
Haze K.August 28, 2025
How is this significantly different than volunteering for the "Find a Grave" website?
CarolynAugust 28, 2025
Rochelle, I'm so glad he was rescued and is ok. You mentioned young people. Our college-age kids are so vulnerable because they are just experiencing the realities that bad things can happen, and mom and dad won't be there to guide them through. There may be slightly different things to emphasize if you live alone or have moved to an area with new risks but a self-assessment is a good first step and reminder.
BikeandrowAugust 28, 2025
Excellent article.
VickieAugust 28, 2025
This is absolutely beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
Lane FamilyAugust 27, 2025
Our deepest condolences to the Blackburn family.
GTOAugust 27, 2025
Enlightening in a positive way. Thanks for this!
Debrah RoundyAugust 27, 2025
That story is absolutely hilarious, Thanks for sharing.
Rochelle HaleAugust 27, 2025
Thank you! One of our grandsons was just rescued from an apartment fire. My husband and I were again discussing the importance of being prepared and having an emergency plan, especially for those who live alone, those who have recently moved, and young people living away from home for the first time.
Mark StoddardAugust 27, 2025
No fear of Paul writing a good article. Faith put to action is always the bottom line.
Steve DoneganAugust 27, 2025
This reminds me of a story I read long ago about a girl, 4 or 5 years old, who, when interviewed by her church for baptism, answered one of their questions this way: When the devil would come knocking at the door of my heart, I wasn't strong enough to keep him out. But now, I send Jesus to the door, and He's strong enough!
Rochelle HaleAugust 26, 2025
We were victims of that earthquake, fortunately not severely. The wait until daylight was the longest ever. Then, forget food storage; we shared leftover brownies and whatever we could forage, as neighbors made contributions to our potluck breakfast. We surveyed our own property and assessed the homes of neighbors who were on vacation. The epicenter was just miles from us, but we sustained no serious damage. Just overnight, we learned of a relative who was trapped in an apartment fire, and fortunately, was rescued with no serious injuries. However, it will be a while before he is able to share his story and why he was unable to escape. We can only imagine his fear. One of the biggest fears I have faced was how to get answers and find resources to care for my elderly mother's medical and long-term care needs; then, eventually, her memorial. Life will throw us challenges, some greater than others. With faith, we can face them, sometimes setting new priorities or finding the need to overcome physical limitations, and continue making forward progress in our life journey.
JC CloeAugust 26, 2025
The words of this article were shared with me today. They were the words I needed to hear about fear I've felt the last 24 hours. Thank you!
HelenCAugust 26, 2025
I am in both these places right now: “It knocks in the late-night worry over a struggling child. It knocks in seasons of financial hardship. . .” Thank you for the reminder of where to look.
Jennifer SAugust 25, 2025
The sorrow and pain are real when loved ones leave the gospel path. There are so many persuasive voices out there. As with Eve, many are beguiled by the serpent. This article articulates the pain so well but also reminds us that we can have hope because of the Savior. I just listened to The Come Back Podcast with Ashley Stone. Hank Smith was her guest. He suggested asking in prayer how we can help God with His children. Our children have a Savior, and it is not us. I take comfort in that and seek to love them on their journey and to pray for guidance.
Corey D.August 24, 2025
I am almost 70, I have 4 children and 9 grandchildren, only 2 of those children and their families go to church and even then my oldest granddaughter whose parents go to church is really struggling with her faith. One of those children is divorced and one is in the middle of a divorce. I can think of only a handful of families who don't have children, grandchildren or spouses or maybe even the whole family who are not struggling in some way or another with church, life or marriage. I'm not one to easily get discouraged but sometimes it's hard, especially now my two oldest granddaughters have left home and have gone to college, I think about them and what they are going to chose all the time. I believe in my Savior and I believe in miracles, seen a lot of miracles in my life but sometimes it's downright discouraging looking around and seeing so many who are struggling spiritually, especially watching those who don't recognize the path they are headed down.
Corey D.August 22, 2025
Great article. I share the following experience, several years ago my brother was telling me about several teenagers that had taken their own lives in his area, one was in his ward, they were just two of a number of suicides in their area and high school. He was standing in line at the viewing for one of these kids and in front of him was a lady who is one of the counselors at the high school, he said to her, "what the heck is going on", she replied " I don't know, I can't explain it, we talk to them all the time about it, have assemblies, etc, tell them come talk to us, talk with somebody, family, teachers, whoever". I said to my brother maybe that's part of the problem, maybe we are talking to much about it. Not long after that I was talking to a neighbor, who at the time was in the stake presidency and is also a counselor/therapist, works mainly with young adult men 18-25, I told him about the conversation with my brother and asked him what he thought, he said it's interesting you mention that, I just asked my daughter about that the other day, she was a senior in high school at the time, her reply to her dad was, " we are tired of it, it's dark and depressing all the talk of suicide all the time". Interesting and insightful comment coming from a teenager. I think the same applies to all this mental health stuff, there is a line where it goes from reasonable concern to are we creating a problem and certainly if you have the state mandating testing you are very possibly creating problems.
EricAugust 22, 2025
Luke 2:7, which replaces "inn" with "inns." President Nelson spoke about this at a BYU devotional back in December 2002. To summarize what he said, the word that "inns" comes from connotes a room rather than an entire building like a hotel. Travelers would stay at caravansaries, which could accommodate their animals. A caravansary was shaped like a hollow square or a U, with the courtyard in the center and all the rooms (inns) facing into the courtyard so guests could keep an eye on their animals. Quoting President Nelson: "Because the guest chambers surrounding the courtyard were filled, Joseph possibly made the decision to care for Mary’s delivery in the center courtyard of a caravansary—among the animals. There, in that lowly circumstance, the Lamb of God was born." Luke doesn't mention a stable, but he does mention a manger, and what President Nelson says here still fits what Luke's account is telling us. I think it makes the story better. Jesus was born into an even lower setting than we've always imagined with the stable (I've heard plenty of people suggest that a private stable was actually a better birthplace than a crowded inn). It also makes it easier for the shepherds to find Him, since looking for a baby in a manger at little Bethlehem's caravansary would be far easier than searching all the stables in town.
TraciAugust 22, 2025
:) Love it, thank you Scot and Maurine.
Ronald BarnesAugust 22, 2025
I am 70 years old and grew up in a big city. Often my parents had no idea where I was and were not worried about my safety. We lived in a world where there was little crime and people looked out for each other. As early as kindergarten I walked to and from school alone. Most of the worries that plague parents today didn’t exist. It’s no longer safe to do the things that were safe when I was young. In my youth, 80% to 90% of people went to church on a regular basis. Today only 20% to 10% do. As church attendance has decreased, crime and other dangers have increased. Lack of religion has made a big difference.
Ronald BarnesAugust 22, 2025
And, inasmuch as it shall be expedient, ye must keep the performances and ordinances of God until the law shall be fulfilled which was given unto Moses. (2 Nephi 25:30) And they also took of the firstlings of their flocks, that they might offer sacrifice and burnt offerings according to the law of Moses; (Mosiah 2:3) Yea, and the people did observe to keep the commandments of the Lord; and they were strict in observing the ordinances of God, according to the law of Moses; for they were taught to keep the law of Moses until it should be fulfilled. (Alma 30:3) The ordinances and burnt offerings, under the Law of Moses, were to be performed only by the Levites. We know that Lehi and Ishmael were of the tribes of Ephraim and Manasseh, but we do not know which tribe Zoram belonged to. It is possible that Zoram was a Levite, which would help to explain why God chose him to go with them.
CarolynAugust 22, 2025
After a three week visit from 6 grandchildren, I had one thought after reading this article… Ain’t it the truth!” Thanks for the chuckle to start my day.
Haze K.August 21, 2025
Matthew 3:2-6 in your article should read Matthew 2:2-6. To the best of my limited understanding, of course.
Haze K.August 21, 2025
I wish there had been another option besides a "red-letter" edition, a different color choice, perhaps. I say this as a convert who regularly used "red letter editions" of the Bible (And I suspect, other investigators and converts as well). IF you are not acquainted with the "Mainstream Christianity" tradition, Red Letter Bibles have traditionally had the words spoken by Jesus Christ printed in red.
Scot ProctorAugust 21, 2025
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Jessica WhitakerAugust 21, 2025
I have heard much false doctrine in church meetings regarding the Savior's development from our people who are ignorant or slothful of the JST. Thank you!
BeraAugust 20, 2025
Thank you for bringing knowledge of this good book to us
Laurie WhiteAugust 20, 2025
Great article, and very appropriate for our times. Religion is a very personal matter. We can't tell someone what to believe or how to feel. Agency matters. Personal opinion matters.
BKAAugust 20, 2025
As parents of children who have left, as well as siblings, our observations have noticed the polarizing difference in the way those children have been viewed, gossiped about and treated by extended family members and other church members after they leave. This is what has caused the most pain not only for those that left, but for us too. Some really struggle to relate with friends or family who no longer believe the same things as them. It’s a tragedy. Many “non-believers” agonize over their decision to leave. They need love too. And if family gatherings have been or are always centered around religious beliefs, it isn’t hard to understand why those family members/friends/neighbors stop coming around. They begin to feel forgotten and ignored and not valued. Make family time about family, about building relationships. Show them you truly care about them regardless of their changing beliefs. Don’t assume they are lazy learners. It’s easy to point fingers at them because of what some leaders have taught or said that maybe could be worded better. But instead try to remember that Jesus left the 99 for the 1. Love those people hard. And pray for guidance. Because God loves them just as much as the 99. Don’t make your relationship only about church related things. But offer real friendship.
ShelleyAugust 20, 2025
Amen brother. Thank you for your thoughts.
Kate MerrillAugust 20, 2025
As an adult convert with no family accepting or interested in the gospel, I’ve learned to implement “the art of allowing” … allowing loved ones their free agency, their personal faith journey, their preferences in living the lifestyle that suits them. I cry a lot — I pray a lot — I’m sad a lot — and I hold tight to the iron rod as i strive to be an example of Christ’s loving approach to even those who are not (yet?) desiring to have a relationship with Him.
Esther SmithAugust 20, 2025
Thank you Kimberly! I love the way you write--the way you think! I read this article and said to myself, "This is pure truth made poetic! Hmm... I'll bet it is the same person who wrote Ode to a Perfect Marriage." Yep. Keep writing and blessing us. Love you.
AnonymousAugust 20, 2025
This article doesn’t speak to the most damaging place for this to occur: between husbands and wives. Nothing prepares or helps those finding that relationship strained. Or church leaders casting those families into corners instead of continuing to let them serve in leadership roles where they continue to be uplifted in stewardship and community and service. They get cast aside, denied essential and needed spiritual growth and covenant belonging, and all in the name of inspiration that leaves spouses feeling like they not only lost God in their marriage but at church as well. And where they’re clinging to testimony of a God who stays and who is the only one who can support them as they strive to stay true to covenants and keep their family together, they also start to feel that even God has no space for them because His only revelation to their ward and stake leadership is to also reject and push them out. So when they keep the faith, they’re keeping it all alone, they lose the spiritual intimacy of unity in their marriage, they lose the power of stewardship and belonging at church, they live alone and isolated in a church that believes in revelation and inspiration from God and grappling with the idea that belief fuels of a God who is suddenly silent and removed. They watch with longing all of the things they used to enjoy fully being taken from them with nothing at all they can do about it. They can’t keep their spouse from watching, reading, listening. They can’t give them answers. They can’t force their leaders to see them and continue to include them, to receive revelation on their behalf and stay with them. They can’t pray their way into the hearts or communion with anyone. And every time they try to create it outside of a calling, they get told there’s a calling for that or if they go to church x/y/z, it’s all already there. Because it is. For everyone except them. And they’re doing their part to try and keep it, but because it is designated to come through church and callings and they’re not extended the opportunity of those callings, they have no power to keep it. The temple even starts to feel like a slap in the face, just one more place where you are all alone and there’s nothing you can do about it. Add to that the constant fear for your children, continually trying to prepare them for a spiritual battle that will come from the very person you are simultaneously teaching them every day to love and respect. Grateful that spouse sees value in the church for them and isn’t dripping their doubts in their direction yet. You still have family prayer and scripture study every night, but you have to be careful what you read and how you speak so you don’t unknowingly strike a cord with whatever your spouse is struggling with at any given time. They’re physically there. But spiritually, they’re spiraling and you’re reeling at the lack of answers and clinging to prayer and the love of God for this person who you love and honor and respect but who is threatening everything you know and hold the most dear. I can’t imagine Hell itself could be any more difficult. When you suddenly find yourself a stranger where you used to find home, yet your testimony knows it’s all because of the mistakes that men and women are making without any thought or knowledge or understanding of how much damage they’re doing. When you dig deep and summon the courage to go in hope to your leaders for support and love on your spouse’s behalf and are told it’s your love that will save your spouse and family and sent away alone again, feeling judged and found wanting and not worth the effort. When you ask them to pull your spouse close and give them a way to forget themselves and go to work and be pulled in, and they tell you that you need to back off and leave your spouse alone and then keep you isolated and alone on the outskirts. When belonging feels like you’re sitting down to Thanksgiving dinner, but they didn’t have a place for you at the table. You can prepare and bring food, help clean up, even participate in the entertainment. But you can’t sit at the table. There’s no room at the table. You have no voice at the table. And it’s all them acting on inspiration from God to be that way. And ironically, your spouse is still there…for now. Estranged, anger building about all the complex issues and questions, hearing the world but staying silent in their marriage … until they can’t any longer and explode at their spouse because no one else even knows what they’re experiencing or seems to care, but their loyalty to their spouse keeps them from speaking out while the silent rejection at church reinforces everything they’re being told to believe. And they’re willing to serve anywhere still because they recognize that the church is doing good things for their youth and really do miss the simple days when they fully enjoyed the sociality without seeing all the things they’ve now seen … and can’t un-see. They now know but wish they didn’t know, even while they are subconsciously biding their time until their kids grow up and realize as they did that it was good for them in their youth but has nothing to offer them as adults. And the ignorant rejection at church reinforces that. And it’s rejection from leaders because no one else even knows their situation or struggles; for all intents and purposes, they’re the perfect, active family that’s lucky enough to never get asked to speak in church or serve in high-commitment callings. No one even realizes they’re not even serving in callings with other couples, they only ever get invited to serve together and therefore alone, a new casualty of decades in Primary because no one is inspired to bring them anywhere else. They show up to set up and clean up at every activity, take their turn cleaning the building, drive the kids to every activity. But on the inside, they’re alone. And the unbelieving spouse starts to skip the second hour, which no one but his spouse realizes or cares about. And the believing spouse struggles every week between keeping it all together for their children to have a fighting chance that their spouse wasn’t strong enough to survive while simultaneously fighting against hating the community that has no place for them at the table, realizing they don’t even recognize what they’re doing or have a clue about the longterm effects or pain and rejection and loss they’re inflicting, trying not to blame their spouse for putting them in that situation, trying not to blame the leaders for putting them in that position, trying not to blame God for leaving them there, struggling to keep holding it together, fearing the day when they can’t and it all blows up and they lose everything — spouse, family, church, God, and everything they’ve loved about themselves and hoped for as they cling with longing to their covenants, the temple, patriarchal blessings, and their convictions from the years when they fully enjoyed it all and were at the table, ignorant of the fact that the feast they were enjoying was preparing them for decades of famine and God knew and gave them all in hopes it would be enough to sustain until He could get them back again. Even the scriptures become problematic as your few conversations—scattered through the years with your spouse as you try to keep them tethered and think erroneously that maybe you can support and be a helpmeet for them in navigating the onslaught of questions and doubt and displacement and disappointment they’re feeling, that you are grateful every day that you are the only one who knows it about them AND is trying to still hold faith for them — but at scripture study, their questions, doubt, new convictions, questions without answers, all of it starts to seep out to their spouse. And while you try to remain unaffected and strong, you’re crumbling from the inside out and have nowhere to go, no one to say, “Hey! God hasn’t forgotten us and didn’t change His mind about us simply because doubt showed up. But you are treating us like He did and destroying the only thing that can actually save us: a friend, a responsibility, and constant nurturing by the Spirit at church. We’re here! We’ve been here! We don’t want to go anywhere! We need to belong! My spouse needs you to keep letting us belong, letting us forget ourselves and go to work outside of primary and nursery, with other people. We need to know we aren’t being judged and found wanting. We need to know there’s still space at the table. And my spouse’s real answers can only be found at that table, where they keep feeling known and seen and loved by God, where they’re still kneeling and praying in councils and acting on inspiration and seeing God’s hand guiding in undeniable ways that disprove everything the outside voices are telling them is truth. They need to be on Trek and at testimony meetings as Priesthood and Directors at Girls Camp. They need to show up and give Priesthood blessings to the sick, to know when there’s flooding in the basement and help clean up the home of the downtrodden. They need to be at the boating activities and youth activities, laughing and happily enjoying membership without the heaviness of questions. They need to have the mantle of stewardship overriding the isolation of doubt. They need to understand imperfection in leaders because they’re still serving as leaders and recognize their own imperfection, even with their perfect intentions. And they need to keep being surrounded by God’s voice and power, even when they can’t go to the temple because they’re still worthy but can’t say for sure they believe in the Restoration and are struggling to keep believing in God because they’re suddenly doubting everything that gives anything meaning, everything they’ve ever known. They need to be pulled IN and lifted UP, not cast OUT and alone while they spiral DOWN. And their spouse needs that, too. And their children. And every single person who walks this earth. And they are right there within reach. Until they aren’t. When they aren’t, it will be too late to get them back. You have to bring them in while they’re still doubting their doubts or you’ll give power to those doubts by adding personal experience they’ve never known before that will weld those doubts and all the rest Satan is just waiting to throw at them when the welding wand is out and the torch of loss has been fueled, the metal transformed in the wrong direction.” All this and so much more. No one is speaking to the spouse. And God’s voice feels more faint and distant with every passing day.
David SmithAugust 20, 2025
This essay struck home. Of my seven children, I am only in contact with three of them. Of the other four, three of them I don't even know where they live or have any means to contact them, and that was their choice. This came about from a very messy divorce with their mother who ran off with our home teacher. Only my own powerful testimony that the Church is true, even if some people are not, has kept me active in spite of the loss I feel of my kids. Recently I had my grandmother's movies converted to digital files and have begun sending copies to the family members that I am in contact with and asked them to send copies to the ones I am not in contact with. Maybe it will help eventually.
MelanieAugust 20, 2025
Thank you for addressing this issue of families and loved ones not being able to communicate or be harmonious in our relationships. This has been weighing on my mind heavily. This article has been an answer to many weeks of fasting and praying, Specifically in gathering my family back into a harmonious environment. Thank you for the way you approached this. Charity is always the best way to handle such a delicate situation. Have a blessed day!!
JanAugust 20, 2025
Thank you for this thoughtful and helpful piece. It is comforting and reassuring .i have read it at just the Right time.
Joel MarksAugust 20, 2025
Amazing insight!!
Randy AndersonAugust 19, 2025
Arguably the most compelling reason Joseph Smith could not have written the BOM is the repeated use of chiasmus, as well. https://scholarsarchive.byu.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?referer=&httpsredir=1&article=1503&context=msr#:~:text=%EE%80%A0e%20Discovery%20of%20Chiasmus,the%20Old%20and%20New%20Testaments.
Jean Cook RyggAugust 18, 2025
I read this book earlier this year. What an Eye Opener! How awful to be living a big lie - day after day, year after year in N. Korea! I'm very glad to learn that this couple made it to the USA and have found the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. As I read the book, I kept hoping that they had.
J.G. BaileyAugust 18, 2025
As a boy, I was blessed with a good, righteous family who were close, which is what I expected and hoped for. But it was not to be. I take comfort in President Ezra Taft Benson saying, "You have not failed as a parent, until you fail to try."
CarolynAugust 18, 2025
Thank you for the fresh perspective of this article. It is an excellent reminder of truths we have been taught, but sometimes lose sight of. So many of us are experiencing this pain of children rejecting the truths of the Gospel that we love and cherish and know to be true. We can’t help but think over and over again, “What did I do wrong? What should I have done differently?...but we had family prayer, scripture study, Family Home Evening.Where is the fulfillment and promises to us as families if we strived to do those things?”... Discouragement and sadness are difficult to overcome, but something I have recently gained a stronger testimony of is, Eternal Progression. Thank you for addressing this in your talk and article. Heavenly Father loves all of His children and wants us all to return home to Him. It may take longer, even much longer for some, but they will return home to Him. In the meantime, we need to keep extending unconditional love and expressing our love and pride in them in the kind of good people they are and that we are so grateful we are family. I have concentrated on this behavior and attitude this summer, and it has made such a difference. I am so grateful for Heavenly Father’s love for all of us and the confidence He placed in me to raise and guide this child through mortality.
HelenCAugust 18, 2025
So much comfort. Thank you.
David CookAugust 18, 2025
Great message. Any chance of getting the source for this response Pres. McKay gave to the question about his oft-quoted statement? "He said failure only occurs when parents and grandparents stop trying to influence for good their children who have strayed."
Rochelle HaleAugust 18, 2025
I appreciate that, in recent years, we have learned that President Nelson's father struggled with alcohol, President Holland was raised in a single-parent home, and Sister Arbuto was a convert to the church whose first marriage was not ideal. The empty chairs are evident in our home. We have seen children, cousins, and others leave the teachings of the gospel. Some are angry; some are just following different paths. We meet on common ground where we are able, and we make sure that our children and others know how much we love them. Nevertheless, we are envious of friends who engage in regular family gatherings, especially for birthdays or holidays. We know, however, that the Lord knows each of His children (they were His before they were ours). We all have weaknesses to overcome and things to learn as we experience our mortal lives. We can take joy in our family and joy in living the principles we know to be true, even though our circumstances may not be the most desirable at this time. A few years ago, President Eyring described a challenge within his own family. In effect, he was counseled, "You are worrying about the wrong thing. You get yourself to the Celestial Kingdom, and your family will be more glorious than you can imagine.
Linda W.August 18, 2025
This is the most concise and comforting article I've ever read concerning the emotional turmoil caused by our loved ones leaving the path we hold so dear! From my own experience I know this is a topic that quietly eats away at our hearts, but that we don't talk about. Thanks to the author for sharing his insight!
R L GibbonsAugust 18, 2025
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Ric GarciaAugust 17, 2025
In a world where fake news fill our daily life it is hard to know what is real what is not. As a member of the church of Jesus Christ of latter-day Saints and a convert I can see truth in this story because of my own personal experiences leaving my country of birth. It is not important if you believe it or not but what is important is to know that God will reward all righteousness from his children and give each and everyone what we have earned during our time on earth. Justice will prevail since Jesus has been appointed as our judge and Saviour.
IsabelAugust 17, 2025
I agree that the blame should not be placed on just one of the spouses. A husband who feels he is always justified in getting angry at his wife has a bigger problem than she does.
BruceAugust 17, 2025
There is so very little to go on with this reader's letter for any of us to make meaningful comments. But I can say that I sympathize with her. I pray the writer of this letter can find the answers she needs.
Dawn O'DellAugust 16, 2025
I've lived this woman's scenario myself. The reality is, no one who actually is a horrible wife will ever have the clarity to admit it even to herself, mush less in a public forum like this. That's not the problem. Get professional counseling, and don't hesitate. If necessary, talk to your bishop about getting help to do this. Issues like these do NOT resolve on their own. Hopefully your husband will see the value in it and agree to attend. If not, go on your own. Your children deserve to have a strong mom who models the ability to develop her own relationship with Heavenly Father and our Savior, including having fun with it. There is no one right way to do this. It is ok to have different opinions than your husband. It is even ok to disagree. Conflict is fine, it is how we identify something that needs work. Contention is not fine. We have two eyes in order to deepen our perspective, and each eye has a slightly different viewpoint. There is nothing wrong in this. It is how we were created. I'm sure that sometimes your husband's tone or his choice of words offends you, too. That's normal. So is the need to apologize and forgive, on both sides. But it is not ok for one spouse to cause the other to believe that they are bad just because they think differently. It's not ok to hold a grudge all day after the other person has sincerely apologized. I recommend reading a book called "Boundaries in Marriage" by Cloud and Townsend. You can likely find it at the public library. Best wishes!
K GrantAugust 16, 2025
I can understand this wife's a situation to a certain degree. I realized that my husband has a strong need to feel respected as a lot of men do. But he was associating my agreeing with him as being respected. So it was hard to have a difference of opinion because he interpreted that according to some of his own triggers. It didn't always matter how I presented the thought it was still challenging. So if that's a similar trigger for this woman's husband, it's helpful to begin with something like..." I'm not saying this to disrespect you, I just have a different way of looking at this "
JeffreyAugust 15, 2025
What an amazing example of courage!
Bill BellAugust 15, 2025
There are endless discussions about this, but it is simple, really. It's a matter of personal integrity. I have promised not to use tea, coffee, alcohol or tobacco, so I don't.
Taylor StonelyAugust 15, 2025
What an eye opening story! Thank you for sharing
HelenCAugust 15, 2025
Thank you for teaching me that courage has a voice and for reminding us that tyranny must be left behind.
Roberta HarrisAugust 15, 2025
Such a poignant story. Thank you for sharing it and how dramatically your lives changed once you escaped that terrible regime. All the best with your dear family now.
Karen BrimhallAugust 15, 2025
What a great story you have given of strength and courage. Freedom is such a sacred commodity. I can’t even imagine what you and your wife endured. Grateful you have hope and the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Maryann TaylorAugust 14, 2025
Beautiful article. At the age of 74, I would like to add that as we get older, the majority of us don't have the same energy we had when we were younger. There needs to be a balance between pushing ourselves unwisely beyond our limits, and accepting the reality of diminished ability to do the things we used to do. I think simplification is the key. While we may not be able to clean someone's house, we can give encouragement through phone calls, texts, and visits. We can listen with love and compassion. We can pray for our ward family and particularly for those who need special help. We each can discover what we can give in various ways, according to our health and capacity. When we feel the Spirit guiding us to take some specific action, we can exercise our faith in the Lord to enable us to press forward. BUT, all things must be done "in wisdom and order," to maintain our well being.
Scot ProctorAugust 14, 2025
Dr. Frogley: Here is the answer from HLTH Code: Most of our ingredients are protein and healthy fats, so there is very little plant matter in our original shake. Our plant-based version is tested to ensure that it's pesticide- and glyphosate-free. Overall, most, but not all of our ingredients are organic, so we don't make that claim. Our product is manufactured in the USA, at a cGMP certified, FDA registered facility following our strict guidelines and specific formulation and ingredient specifications. All of our packaging is BPA-free. Our extensive quality testing ensures identity and safety testing of all of the raw material. Once the final product is produced, it is tested again by a 3rd party lab to validate potency, purity, and ensure that it's free of heavy metals, pesticides/agricultural chemicals, etc. We're proud that our product contains the highest quality ingredients, is free of genetically modified ingredients (non-GMO), and is gluten-free. It is also free of any artificial preservatives, ingredients, colors, flavors or sweeteners...which are very common (unfortunately) in our industry.
Maryann TaylorAugust 14, 2025
My husband and I love to visit old cemeteries, and consider them a sacred place. Reading the markers tells us tender stories about the families, and also very interesting historical events of the time. Many of my ancestors are buried in a cemetery in Preston ID, and I was fortunate enough to visit and to match the names on the gravestones to the many stories my grandmother related to me about her family. Searching my family history has also helped me to know my ancestors more intimately. I feel I know these people who paved the way for me, and who left me such a beautiful legacy. I only hope I can live up to their expectations for their posterity, and that I can joyfully embrace them in the next world.
Maurice McBrideAugust 14, 2025
Great article! The "Ferguson Family Cemetery," as it is usually known, is and always has been for me a sacred place.
Dorothy MillerAugust 14, 2025
I am so glad that you published this article. I was under the impression that FSY replaced EFY. Get the word out, including that the programs have important differences!
Geoff SteurerAugust 14, 2025
Thank you for these powerful reminders! It's amazing how quickly appreciation and humility soften marital interactions.
Dr. Craig FrogleyAugust 14, 2025
Is it organic or filled with glyphosate… a known disruptor of our Microbiome?
Rochelle HaleAugust 14, 2025
This is such an easy and unfortunate trap to fall into. Sadly, it happened to me. I thought I was trying to resolve a computer issue, and it ended up costing me $1500. It could have been much worse. I was at the bank the other day when a customer went to the window in great distress because she realized she had been victimized. We lost my mother and mother-in-law in recent years. We counseled them over and over, "Don't say this on the phone, don't give out personal information, don't do this on your computer." I ended up being the one who was scammed. Thank you for listing many things we can watch for to avoid being victims of this crime.
Judy ShepherdAugust 14, 2025
This needs frequent repetition. So many times I have seen, and investigated, scams that harm well-educated and experienced people. Even sadder, too many vulnerable individuals are scammed out of their meager income and end up without a roof over their head. It has been next to impossible to convince many of these that no one is giving them free money or going to relocate them to the middle east to be spouse of a prince, etc.
RonyaAugust 14, 2025
May I please copy this and send it to my clients? It is very concise and in plain English so that hopefully my clients will understand. I too was recently the victim of an email hack on my business email. They sent a blast to everyone in my contact list. I had calls and emails from clients that had been gone for years. Some had tried to fill out the form that was sent, but most realized it might be a scam and called me. It was a mess.
Dave HansenAugust 13, 2025
Thank you for making many LDS people aware of what the Church is doing to help those living on the street. Here in Portland, the Church formed a small branch that administers to the needy as much as possible. Often people stop by for free food, clothes or whatever might make their lives a bit easier. Some realize the importance, and continue to adopt a new lifestyle if LDS membership Unfortunately, many just use our property as a restroom, or they can hide to do their addictive proclivities. I believe most folks living in the suburbs have no idea of what these people are going through....the contrast is so stark. It is still important to realize that we are ALL children of our Father in Heaven and deserve help, even if they are crying from the gutter!!!
Seven BaysaAugust 13, 2025
Each season of life has its own rhythm. It's great to know that "Autumn and Winter" of life can be so rewarding!
Rochelle HaleAugust 13, 2025
I joined the church when I was at the crossroads into adulthood and could have followed the social norms of alcohol, coffee, etc. One of my favorite childhood memories is coffee time with my grandfather. He would put a spoonful in my milk, and we would chat. It was the time together, not the coffee, that was important. A friend once asked why God would care what we ate or drank. How glad I am that He does. We have been given a basic foundation. We may still suffer illness or have other challenges, but, in my experience, they are less difficult when striving to obey the Word of Wisdom. We are blessed to have the Lord give us guidance, unlike the 6 o'clock news reports that change so often regarding the popular (and sometimes scientific) views on foods and other substances.
Roberta HarrisAugust 12, 2025
I too am touched Becky by yet another of your heart warming stories about LOVE and GIVING. I am making plans to put something into action this week. Thank you for inspiring me once again to just get on and DO it....so I will have no regrets that I let prime opportunities melt away!
Rochelle HaleAugust 11, 2025
I so appreciate this article and the "five stones" that each of us should be carrying. The Lord should be our shield and protection. However, the Lord has also provided other things for us in times of need. I have seen friends struggle needlessly because they expected healing when they did not avail themselves of medical care, proper nutrition, or perhaps even sleep. They thought the Lord would take care of them when they weren't putting forth the effort. We had a business associate years ago whose second child was born with many challenges and was not expected to live beyond age two. The mother would not accept this diagnosis. She was a faithful, praying woman. She took her son to doctor after doctor, and was proactive in his care. Her boy is now a middle-aged man with a family of his own. I would also add the stone of ministering and the support that others can give us. There are many things we can do on our own, especially if we have been striving to follow a covenantal path. However, the Lord provides for us in many ways and gives us additional tools, such as the support that comes through ministering and the blessings of the Priesthood. May we all have the courage and faith of David, but the humility to receive additional assistance, guidance, or answers.
Jan WolfAugust 11, 2025
Thank you so very much for putting into words what is in my heart, and making an even new awareness of our Savior’s love for us. This article has made an even deeper sense of gratitude of His great sacrifice. Thank you.
CarolynAugust 10, 2025
Sandra, I just saw your comment. I would suggest you reach out to your local fire department and ask for a referral. If you hear of a department traveling to a disaster area they will have made connections. You can also contact local agencies in the area using Facebook. If you are on the Operation Ornaments Facebook page you can see where we are serving. I can put you in touch with an area or two this year. Contact me at [email protected]
Sylvia AllenAugust 9, 2025
Caring for this earth is important. It is best done through liberty and property rights not control. It is best done through the use of technology and having faith in mankind's ability to solve any problem through the use of freedom.
LaurenAugust 8, 2025
So creepy! But I’m confused. Where’s the rest of the story?
LewisAugust 8, 2025
Thank you once again for reminding us that the small acts of service have impacts far beyond our limited understanding. I am grateful for your gift of telling wonderful stories that inspire. May they have impacts far beyond our understanding.
Richard GarrisonAugust 8, 2025
Becky, you and your great selfless work continue to inspire me!! Thank you!!
HelenCAugust 8, 2025
Thank you for the reminder that no gift is too small for the Lord to use.
CynthiaAugust 8, 2025
You are such an inspiration to me! Thank you for sharing these beautiful stories and helping me feel to do more. I want to be a giver!!
Aaron SmithAugust 7, 2025
The earth has one purpose: to be a testing ground for God's children in mortality. Without God's children on it, earth would have no divine purpose at all. It will one day be resurrected and celestialized, after the mortal period has ended. The earth has already been saved by God's plan and His Son's Atonement. Yes, we are to be wise and responsible stewards of all that God gives us. Let us never cross the line into thinking that our purpose is to save the earth, or worse, to worship it, as is the case with many extremists. Our purpose is much greater than anything that extreme environmentalists promote.
Maryann TaylorAugust 7, 2025
Often, when I read the scriptures and something just feels "off," I look down and find a JST footnote that clarifies it all. I am so grateful for this profound blessing in elevating our understanding of the gospel, and applying it in our lives. I am grateful for the prophet, Joseph Smith and for those who worked to include these inspired verses our scriptures.
Maryann TaylorAugust 7, 2025
My husband and I visited Nauvoo and attended the Nauvoo Temple dedication. We have never experienced such a great measure of the Lord's spirit, which filled us with absolute joy and peace. Those profound feelings stayed with us for many days throughout our trip. One night, in the darkness, the Tabernacle Choir gave a special performance and sang in front of the brightly lit temple. People were sitting everywhere on the hillside across the street and also seated in chairs set up for the occasion near the choir. As we listened to the choir fill the air with such sacred, beautiful music on that evening, little fireflies came out and surrounded us. The temple blazed with light, and the Spirit of the Lord was very powerful, and something I will never forget.
Gary LindnerAugust 7, 2025
I purchased a Kindle copy of the Red Letter Edition a few weeks ago and have been reading it instead of the KJV. I’ve almost finished the 4 gospels and feel the Spirit strongly when I read it. I also joy in the truths revealed by the corrections which are easier to appreciate in context with the original KJV.
SygAugust 7, 2025
Glad this is being discussed. And to answer a question posted by Mark, I don't know the Church's answer, but artificial grass comes with its on environmental impact. Soil is a natural carbon store. Especially if plants are growing in it, slowly taking carbon from the atmosphere and putting it back into the plants and the ground. Removing a large area of planting that is actively locking carbon into the ground releases that locked carbon back into the atmosphere. Artificial grass creates a large carbon footprint during a journey that includes the manufacturing, transportation and installation of the product. Replacing soil with sand to create a stable bed for artificial grass releases more carbon dioxide stored in the earth. Artificial grass is more likely to cause surface run off after significant rainfall which may contribute to flooding. Artificial grass is made from polyethylene: polypropylene or nylon (polyamide), and fragments from this material can make their way into the soil, and beyond, in the form of microplastic pollution. The shelf life for artificial grass is estimated to be 10-20 years and the product is difficult to reuse. Although it can be recycled, this is not easy and can only be done at specialist plants after a specific cleaning process. Artificial grass is not totally maintenance free. It still needs to be cleaned of litter and moss growth, potentially replacing mowing with vacuuming. We lose the tactile and sensory benefits of real grass. Children are able to sit and play on a soft lawn, make a daisy or dandelion chain, and pluck a blade of grass to whistle with. Artificial grass alternatives, such as natural bark chips, are easy to maintain and provide a softer surface than artificial grass and reduce the possibilities of friction burns.
Alvin H. AndrewAugust 7, 2025
Before anyone objects, it is true that in June 1909, Elder Benjamin F. Cummings was invited to view and handle the New Translation manuscripts at the invitation of Fredrick M. Smith, son of Joseph Smith III. However, he was not able to make any "critical examination" of the manuscripts. Plus, the link to the JST Red-Letter Editions referred to at the end of the article is: https://jstrle.com/
JP GayanAugust 7, 2025
The move to solar in Hawaii and other places is primarily financial. Electricity rates in Hawaii are almost double what they are in California, which is already one of the most expensive places for electricity. The environmental benefit is just a nice side bonus.
Haze K.August 7, 2025
I had no idea of the challenges the Church encountered obtaining the JST! I wish that more members appreciated how recently the blessings of the JST became available to us. God's blessings on this man and his righteous efforts. Well done, thou good and faithful servant!
ColinAugust 7, 2025
I didn’t realize the Church was doing so much in this area, but it’s great. The whole question of environmental stewardship is one of those things that challenges us: will our loyalties be with our politics, or with the Church? For some people, that’s a tough call, and these days there are more and more issues like that (same-sex marriage, immigration, rule of law, etc.).
MarkAugust 7, 2025
Good article. I have a question. If our church wants to conserve water, then why not install artificial grass at all ward buildings, temples, and all church buildings that have grass?
MicheleAugust 6, 2025
How awful. My family went to eat at a Chinese restaurant where my father serviced the office equipment. I couldn't eat because of the rice grains in the salt shaker. I didn't know that was nothing until later. My father had been called to the office to look at their old fashioned hand crank adding machine. The handle was turning by itself. You guessed it, cockroaches had made a home inside...he didnt tell us until much later.
Corey D.August 6, 2025
Wonderful article. Really made me think about some things, thank you, it's a timely article for me personally.
rkAugust 6, 2025
If you want to increase the birthrate, educational institutions should consider eliminating or getting rid of most college general education requirements that don't help a student in the work force. Pathways is doing this already. Within the church education system BYU-Provo is especially bad at requiring so many general education classes as well as numerous extra classes for any given major compared to other universities. They also don't easily accept transfer credit. This ends up costing students years before they can graduate and I would argue that these extra classes give them little in return. Also, we can encourage young adults to go into trades instead of expecting them to attend a university automatically. Their cost is minimal if their is any and even an apprentice gets paid.
Leanne StrongAugust 6, 2025
About the part about kids learning how to keep themselves safe, and associating comfort with safety. Much like how you have always taught children to say, "no! That's not appropriate!" We can also teach kids to say things like, "no! That's not safe!" And, "no! That's not kind!" However, there are some exceptional situations, in which a child IS allowed to say, "I don't feel comfortable doing that." They do not have to go on that seemingly scary amusement park or carnival ride, as there are likely other rides and activities at that park or carnival, and you're sure to find at least one that your child will enjoy. Your child doesn't have to ride a bike if they don't feel comfortable, as there are many other things that they can do for exercise or fun that don't involve screens (including, but not limited to crafts, helping with baking, running, walking, trampoline, swimming, etc.)
Phil AndrewsAugust 6, 2025
Thanks for sharing this information. I agree with the decision to update that Gospel Topics Essay. I am also one who believes that the 'study it out in your mind' counsel in D.C. 9:8 was meant to apply to personal revelation rather than something that was used by Joseph Smith during either the dictation of the Book of Mormon text or in any of his other scriptural 'translation' work.
BenAugust 6, 2025
Tom Harbour, and his wife Laree, are perhaps the most remarkable people I have ever met. They are always serving other before themselves.
Alvin H AndrewAugust 6, 2025
Thank you for bringing attention to this issue. Change is inevitable. I completely agree with the need for a “change log” especially for items of significance such as you review here.
Corey D.August 6, 2025
I personally know more people, i.e., neighbors, friends, family who no longer believe in organized religion or in many cases don't believe in God than I have ever known in my life. The laws, social norms etc of many countries, especially Europe and most large cities/urban areas anywhere in the world generally favor nonreligious laws, etc. Most movies, tv shows, books, seem to paint religion in a negative or comical way. It's all part of the fulfillment of prophecy though. The Lord's sheep will hear his voice but they will be few in number.
ValAugust 5, 2025
Thank you for giving voice to the difficulties of life and the magic of the Wonderful Plan of our Heavenly Parents. It reminds me of what I heard in an Addiction Recovery meeting: Justice is giving me what I deserve. Mercy is not giving me what I deserve. Grace is giving me what I do not deserve.
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
Your comment that we can get knowledge from others, but not wisdom immediately called the parable of The Ten Virgins to mind. The wise could not share their oil of wisdom because it came from their real experiences of not only learning, but obeying. To gain real wisdom, we must follow our Savior and do the things we see him do in the scriptures.
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
Such a beautiful, encouraging article that applies to all of our trials. I loved the idea that we can shake off the burden of believing that things must be all right "right now!" When we accept that recovery and also growth take time, we can feel more peace. I look forward to the day when we will stand as resurrected beings, perfect in health, and spirit. I am so glad that you're recovered!
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
The temple account of the creation is truly beautiful, and also instructive. For example, God said to divide the light from the darkness a couple of days BEFORE he created the sun, moon, and stars! Interesting to contemplate. I also see God's great love manifested in the order of the creation. Everything man would need was prepared for him beforehand. All this loving, careful planning was for us!
MaryannAugust 5, 2025
Ha! Ha! In a ward council meeting planning an upcoming social event, I was very surprised that potato salad is also a sacred subject! I had no idea that people were so touchy about how potato salad should be prepared. Such competitive behavior is beneath me because I know my recipe is the very best.
Megan TaylorAugust 5, 2025
Another challenge to parenthood I've seen since beginning my 3-child family in 2008 is the rise of technology and social media. For one, baby gear has become incrediy high-tech, giving us the moment-by-moment ability to track our children's progress--but also (in my observation) massively increasing parental anxiety. Younger parents seem to think they need the latest and most expensive gear giving them 24-hour surveillance over their babies, which must be exhausting and unnecessarily stressful. I see articles everywhere describing how moms in the 1980s (my parents' generation) were noticeably happier than moms today, in large part because people parented using their own instincts along with advice from family, friends, and their pediatrician. They weren't bombarded with a thousand social media experts, all shouting a thousand different viewpoints in a competitive online environment. And motherhood was largely conducted in private, not publicly via social media. Though many mothers on social media today are sharing the joy of family life (which is wonderful!), many are also sharing only the highest of highlights, leaving the rest of us mothers with our very normal up-and-down days to feel like our parenting performance is falling woefully short. And many popular mommy influencers are paid handsomely for their work, meaning they can attain a lifestyle out of reach for most parents (leading to feelings of never being able to keep up or give our children what they "deserve"). I think a LOT of this is influencing young couples to delay parenting until they can achieve what is largely unachievable, or to delay parenting because their friends with children are finding modern parenting with its unrealistic standards to be so stressful and disillusioning.
M BrownAugust 5, 2025
Loved this idea of the BOM being a "family history". Can't wait to hear more of your ideas. I'm always on the hunt for ways to make "family history work" pertinent and enjoyable for our ward members.
Steve DoneganAugust 5, 2025
I have a sign that reads: Satan knows your name, but calls you by your sin. God knows your sin, but calls you by your name. Your article, very well written indeed, reminds me of that sign. Thank you.
WallyAugust 4, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you.
Angela GreenfieldAugust 4, 2025
This is magnificent! Thank you so much!
ErikpeterhansenAugust 4, 2025
Beautiful!
MAugust 4, 2025
I am currently homebound with an illness subsequent to a traumatic injury, which doctors haven't been able to explain. I need stories like yours, because I have heard God whisper "Not yet." It helps so much to see the fruits of the hard work and perseverance of others. Thank you. Thank you.
RonAugust 4, 2025
What an inspiring story! And so relevant to so many! I had a similar experience where a surgical incident led to paralysis from the neck down. I was told that I would never walk again. But, through the grace of God and a tough and encouraging wife, I walk again! Thank you for your inspired leadership. We love your magazine!
HeatherAugust 4, 2025
Thanks so much. I love the Savior and the Father and the Holy Ghost with all of me. You have voiced the comfort and assurance that gave all of us courage to come down here to mortality. We saw what he would do before we came and shouted for joy with all the hosts of heaven. Hallelujah!
Patricia CarrAugust 4, 2025
Such a beautiful article! Thank you so much for this!
JulieAugust 4, 2025
This is so beautiful, perfectly said that brought light to my heart and eyes.
Jason BAugust 4, 2025
This is fantastic! I have been working with my 82-year-old mother to record her memories and am excited to incorporate many of the resources you mentioned here into my questions for her. I am also hoping to learn more about the UN-Game and chat packs to kick start conversations with my family! Thank you.
JamesAugust 4, 2025
Sister White, I really appreciate and needed this article! Many times throughout my life I have cried out in agony for the pain He has gone through for me and my mistakes. Thank you for putting into words I could not!!
David ShafferAugust 4, 2025
Thank you. This was an eye opener, and a mind opener, and a heart opener. Thank you.
Elsie HingstonAugust 4, 2025
Thank you so much for this article! It touched my heart.❤️
Phil LeaningAugust 3, 2025
Richard Bushman said, in Rough Stone Rolling, that Joseph's great achievement, his great "fruit", was the creation of the Mormon people.
Sandra WhiteJuly 31, 2025
I make colorful "Comfort Bears" from fabric scraps; They are simply fronts/backs with stuffing....no face, etc. Would be great to hug for comfort for adult or child that has been tramatized.....if you think this would be helpful to some, do you know where I would send them or how to get them to the area there????
Gail G GrovesJuly 31, 2025
Hello. Love, love your podcasts! May I ask where I might find D&C 77-80? Thank you!
Sarah BurtonJuly 31, 2025
Thank you for your example and wisdom, Maurine. As you diligently strived for healing even while patiently accepting that the precious healing you wanted so desperately had not happened "yet," you set a great example of trusting in God. And you're right--either we can wallow in the misery of their own imperfections...or we can choose to be patient with ourselves, to trust in the Lord, and--encouraged by those gentle rays of positivity and the Spirit--keep plowing forward with hope.
Richard JukesJuly 30, 2025
Very uplifting and hope instilling story! Thank you for your faith and diligence that help inspire us so much.
WallyJuly 30, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you, Maurine.
Robert StarlingJuly 30, 2025
Thank you Maurine, for your message of hope, for so many of us who are "not yet" where we want to be. And your new-ly freed fingers have obeyed your brain and your sweet spirit to express that message so eloquently! As my mama back in Georgia might say, "Good job 'Honey Child'".
hcondonJuly 30, 2025
Stunningly insightful and helpful. Thank you.
Laurel Lee PedersenJuly 30, 2025
What a beautiful explanation of the Priesthood of God the Father, and His Son, Jesus Christ. I was greatly taught and edified.Thank you and love to you, Diana!
AnnaJuly 29, 2025
This has been a fascinating series of articles. Thank you for sharing your experience and insights. I serve as a mission nurse in an area that vulnerable in many ways to both natural and man-made disasters. We are giving missionaries some simple and basic instruction in emergency preparedness, at the direction of the Area Presidency. There was much food for thought in what you shared.
Lynn HughesJuly 29, 2025
Thank you for your scholarship. And heart.
Richard CraycroftJuly 29, 2025
With the children of celebrities, and others, as cited in the article, I often wonder if it is some sort of Munchausen syndrome by proxy.
Debby JarvisJuly 28, 2025
Are there written transcripts of these talks after the fact?
Spc. Storrer.July 27, 2025
I remember the Colonel inspecting the latrines on our base Stuck his in a urinal scraped his fingernails along the upper edge and shoved his dried urine caked nails under our Captains nose yelling, "you call this clean" unfortunately l was the latrine orderly for that inspection I learned very quickly the importance of clean toilets!
RobJuly 27, 2025
Working in the death industry, I have seen people terrified to look at a casket for a deceased loved one. And I have had the privilege of seeing people who have a testimony of the gospel grow over years of obedience to God's commandments, have a quiet assurance, and even happiness that they are going home to God. There is no middle ground. In many ways it's a fulfilments of the 10 virgins parable. Those who put forth the effort to receive a testimony are prepared and ready to meet the bridegroom (Christ).
Steve DoneganJuly 26, 2025
Your article - profoundly timed, if I say so myself - reminds me of something I read in an Interpreters Foundation article, "Divinity is perhaps most revealed in the service we give to others, not in miracles" (Newell D. Wright, "A Book of Mormon Metaphor for Young Service Missionaries," July 12, 2025). Thank you for reminding us of our need to support Father's mission (Moses 1:39).
Kathy SandersJuly 26, 2025
Thank you for this article this morning. It was exactly what I needed to read and the very subject I've been wrestling with for a while. Finishing "things" is the bane of my existence some days as it does require the very hard work of... well...work. This inspired me to think about it with new eyes and determination.
AlexanderJuly 25, 2025
This exegesis—or explanation—has greatly expanded my understanding of the Hebrew texts: verbs and nouns. I will be re-reading this thesis; wishing that I could share it—by email, to others who would appreciate the depth of understanding with the Hebrew term: Elohim.
Diane BashJuly 25, 2025
This is beautifully written, and brings an spiritually insightful voice of reason to some difficult situations.
Cynthia CJuly 25, 2025
Wonderful, inspiring article! I mentor students of all ages and will be able to use these concepts in that volunteer work. Thank you!
SageJuly 25, 2025
That talk has stayed with me all these years as well. At least those two words have: finishers wanted. I am a "Jill of all trades, master of none"-type of person. I've tried very hard to learn to finish. This article beautifully encapsulated the teachings of Jesus that show us the way. Thank you.
Tom McKnightJuly 25, 2025
In accordance with your thesis here, compare this to the Ojibwe tradition of the Creation of Man and Woman according to their Birchbark Scrolls, as related in their ancient Lodge Ceremony. The first 17 pages tell the story; after that are just some of my notes: https://www.youtube.com/live/oU47CgIFDWY My email address is [email protected]
Pam SeamonsJuly 24, 2025
\Very interesting to read and glad they are not forgotten. They all sacrificed so much. My 4th great-grandmother is Mary Knight Slade. She is one who is buried in the pauper section of the Salt Lake Cemetery. Several years ago, a cousin found our relationship to her and after a lot of research found about where her grave sight would be. In 2007, our family purchased a marker to honor and remember her in that pauper field. She is a sister to Joseph Knight SR. and was a member of the original Colesville branch. She passed away about 6 months after arriving in Utah at the age of 78. I have a great deal of admiration for her. Thanks for your work to find others.
Linda Barney StanfordJuly 24, 2025
I am grateful to you for bringing these stories to light so that the lives and contributions of these pioneers will be remembered. Reading this article was a blessing to me today which i hope to share with my family.
Ricky JohnsonJuly 24, 2025
I am not certain why this article was published; it jumps to many conclusions, and it leads readers down the wrong path. Sad and disappointing! Many of its sources are reliable (e.g., Gesenius, Cross, Alter, and Waltke & O’Connor); other sources lack credibility (e.g., Barker Terryl & Fiona Givens) among mainstream biblical scholars (legitimate, universal scholars who know Biblical Hebrew). Barker is a favorite among some Latter-day Saints, but mainstream scholars rarely cite her works! Some of the links to sources are incorrect! Biblical prophets spoke against Baal, Asherah, and other deities. Please take the Hebrew Bible more seriously!
Sharon O'DonnalJuly 24, 2025
I can relate to this article. My husband was a police officer for 35 years. Many times he was was in areas that had no receptiion to call for backup. And many times the Holy Ghost forewarned him of impending danger. I worrird about him, yes, however, i knew he honored his Priesthood and the Holy Ghost would be with him. Because my husband was an example of this very article, i like to think that the young men we know who have become police (including 3 of our own gradsons) is because of his example in living the gospel, honoring his Priesthood, and listening to the Holy Ghost.. And i tell their wives to trust the Holy Ghost to protect their loved one. Thanks for this article. I am looking forward to Part 2.
Regina E. KohutekJuly 23, 2025
Having had 5 dear family members pass away this past year, I am grateful to know that we all get to leave this existence. How dreadful it would be, to not be able to return home. I am so grateful for that Great Plan of Happiness. I am so grateful to have a solid idea where my loved ones are at this time, on their eternal journey. How much do I look forward to embracing them all again. Our loved ones have not vanished; they are just around the corner, out of sight, waiting for us to join them.
Marilynne LinfordJuly 23, 2025
Darlene, You can read about the marker that has been placed at D-7-1 at https://latterdaysaintmag.com/lest-we-forget-paupers-grave-salt-lake-city/. In the article, there is a photo of the marker. Also, there are several mass graves nearby D-7-1. The cemetery office staff may help you find out which plot D your ancestor is in. You can also get access to their archives. We have found them to be very helpful. Thanks for your comment.
Tamara Ellsworth FrancisJuly 23, 2025
Beautifully written and it is so great to know, per our earthly veil, that we surely have so much to look forward to after our mortal experience. I am feeling ever grateful for the Plan of Salvation, repentance, forgiveness, the chance to learn, to grow and become more. May we focus on all the precious things and of course our Redeemer as we continue on our path back to our eternal home.
Darlene HutchisonJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for bringing to light these beautiful stories. I have a relative listed as only being buried in Plot D - no special grave. Inasmuch as these women have a specific grave site identified, is there any movement to place a headstone there so they won't be entirely forgotten? If so, I would like to contribute.
bob taylorJuly 23, 2025
You share a lot of stories - i enjoy almost all of them. to use a much overused word - this is one of the sweetest stories i have read in a long long time. Thank you for posting this story.
AnnaJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for finding and beautifully sharing these tender stories. My family has similar stories that I have found and recorded on Family Search. This is part of the work of salvation--to remember each with love and gratitude.
Susan HansenJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for bringing to light these true stories of courageous and righteous women who will surely be rewarded by their Heavenly Father for being willing to bring to earth so many children and take them to Zion.
SonyaJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for sharing these stories of remarkable pioneers. Very touching and uplifting.
Br & Sister LaneJuly 23, 2025
Our hearts are full of love and prayers for the dear families.
Lexie StatonJuly 23, 2025
Thank you for sharing these women's stories. So inspirational. In a day and age of disbelief, their lives are testaments to the truth of the gospel.
Glenda PeckhamJuly 23, 2025
This is so beautiful! These people were truly wonderful pioneers. Each suffered so much to be with the Saints in the West. The part that touched me most was the loss they suffered of so many children. That had to be the hardest loss of all. Thank you for putting names to these anonymous members of the church.
Richard ScottJuly 23, 2025
Thank you so much for your efforts to research these blessed individuals and sharing their stories so that we might also know them. They put our generation to shame. May we be motivated to deepen our faith in the Savior because we know about them... thank you!
Rodney RossJuly 22, 2025
I know the end of life may not be pleasant, but I look forward to taking that step to the great adventure that is in the next stage of life. I will see so many I have longed to see for so many years. It is all according to the plan.
Michael ScrimsherJuly 22, 2025
A great gospel principle taught in that short story.
Alvin H. AndrewJuly 22, 2025
The Joseph Smith Translation, Red-Letter Editions referred to in this article can be obtained through the website https://jstrle.com/.
Joyce MitchellJuly 22, 2025
I too care deeply about the subject of dying. The life of Hezekiah has been a lesson to me. He plead with the Lord for an extension on His life only to disobey God immediately after it was granted. So I have desired to resolve all issues that would cause me to scrape and scrounge to stay alive, so I will have the peace which surpasses all understanding when death when it comes. That is one reason I run the free charity: UtahFunerals dot org. It's purpose is not only to invite people to acknowledge their own mortality, through expressing their funeral wishes and body disposition instructions in writing, but the site is also a tool for people in immediate need to price compare at a glance or to find out what they are, and are not, obligated to buy when their loved one passes.
Stuart SpendloveJuly 21, 2025
Brad isn't the only executive producer of The Chosen. Derral Eves: Serving as an executive producer, is also LDS, Eves played a crucial role in the crowdfunding campaign that financed the first season of "The Chosen." His expertise in viral marketing helped the series become the highest-funded crowdfunding TV or film project ever made. Eves has been a strong advocate for the show's vision and has worked closely with Jenkins throughout the production process.
Sean BrothersonJuly 21, 2025
Thank you, Elizabeth, for your interest! I will encourage sharing of ideas from those with experience and ideas to share!
ElizabethJuly 21, 2025
I very much enjoyed your analogy of Nephi's interest in Family History. So looking forward to this new column! I have been doing Family History since 1967 and have been a FH Consultant for about 40 years. Always looking for fresh new ideas to share.
Rochelle HaleJuly 21, 2025
My mother and 3 or 4 friends have passed within the last year or so. I did not mourn my mother's ending journey as her last weeks on earth were extremely difficult, and we needed a miracle or a peaceful transition. We actually received both. More shocking was the sudden passing of a friend who had just been to the doctor with no serious ailments. We mustn't become cavalier or complacent about this inevitable part of our life's journey. Nevertheless, God has given us prayer, faith, and medicinal marvels to be used prudently. It is often difficult to show compassion to those in mourning without using trite phrases. Nevertheless, I believe most of us mean well. We are all up against the clock. Some see this as terrible, while others are excited about what lies ahead.
SusanJuly 21, 2025
I really love the Chosen. It has made the world of the Bible and the apostles and Jesus Christ so much more real to me, and has greatly added depth to my own studies.
BruceJuly 20, 2025
I missed seeing the sun rise until two hours after daylight and an hour before sunset when I moved to the mountains. Both are beautiful in their own way. I trust the Lord will do what is best regardless of what I want.
Laura EvansJuly 19, 2025
Thanks so much, Mark. I enjoyed reading this so much and since I am a journal writer, I probablly write more then anyone wants to read. Somewhere in all that writing I'm sure there are some spiritual experiences. I even had some that the Spirit whispered to me before I joined the church, that made me wonder what was that about. Once the missionaries came to teach us, I could understand what the Spirit wanted me to know. So happy I listened. I'm not perfect yet, but I'm working on it. Maybe I need to go back and read my own journals and highlight some experiences that I had and forgot and put them in a different book.
KathleenJuly 19, 2025
Oh yeah - too true!
PattyJuly 19, 2025
It's special to me that he can be a Latter-day Saint and totally into The Chosen, and that I can be a lover/devotee of Jesus, a non-Evangelical who doesn't identify as "Christian", and get so much deep stuff from watching The Chosen.
Linda BadurekJuly 18, 2025
Thank you, Mark! I’d not read this before so thank you for sending it to me. Like you, journaling has not been my forte! I have had many spiritual experiences and you’ve hit a nerve that needed prodding. I will begin to write them down for my children and grands to read!
Sarah HinzeJuly 18, 2025
The Chosen is a miraculous gift to the world to prepare us for the Second Coming of Jesus Christ. It has certainly brought me closer to Jesus and given me greater clarity and insight into his teachings.
Benita MairsJuly 18, 2025
I appreciate this perspective of the giving tree. While I feel the original message was comparing the Tree to Jesus Christ (and his total sacrifice for God's children), I appreciate that to truly serve God, we must fill our own cup up first and then give from the overflow. Funny you mention a hymn in this article, because the one that's constantly playing in MY head is "Because I Have Been Given Much", I too must give. I am truly grateful for all that I've been given (and worked hard to achieve), and I also know how it feels to be in need. One day my bank account will match the generosity of my heart! Until then, I appreciate the insight here especially in regard to my adult children. Very well written! Thank you!
ScottJuly 18, 2025
This is by far my favorite show. Having that connection of it filming in Utah at the Church’s set and now knowing of Brad's involvement makes it that much sweeter. Thank you for this article.
Alec AndrusJuly 18, 2025
My wife and I have watched The Chosen from the very beginning. We have often discussed the way each episode is portrayed. We are grateful that the show(s) challenge us to accept our Savior in a deeply real manner and to think about the wonder of it all with a new and immediate perspective. I am so grateful for the Chosen.
CaraJuly 18, 2025
Yes, thank you. You express so articulately the problems I have always had with this story. I never understood why people loved it.
Dale CottrellJuly 18, 2025
Excellent article. I have worked as a background actor for 5 seasons now and in the industry for 30. It has been a pleasure to work with The Chosen. There is definitely a good spirit on set.
AprilJuly 18, 2025
I have to speak on this scripture this Sunday! Your writing has inspired me!
Howard CollettJuly 18, 2025
Brad and Dallas have performed miracles to spread Christianity in the 21st Century. It's instructive to the rest of us that they approach their work with the intention of pleasing God, not man.
JoAnne WrightJuly 18, 2025
Great advice. Having lived as am active LDS woman married to a non-LDS man I found that it was like living in two worlds but I chose to act as the catalyst bringing the two worlds together by reaching out and creating chances to find the common threads between the two groups of people. I reframed “sitting alone at church” to the idea that I got to sit by lots of different people and found some treasured friends along the way. The trick really is to look for the commonality. Don’t worry if the ward is worried about you, they are because they love you. Accept their concern-whether well placed or not-as others reaching out from where they are on their path. They may not be able to understand because their life is so different but again, we have more in common than not. Looking around I could always find someone who I could bless and in turn be blessed- if I got out of my own head. Not always easy to do, but well worth it. I also liked sitting alone so I could focus on worshipping during church. No it isn’t always easy and there was pain at times but I also learned to talk to God about it and there was help offered as I worked through situations to find new perspectives. Each person’s life is its own journey, I hope that whomever is struggling with this now will look for other ways to view life and to fill life with gratitude for all the blessings we receive each day just by breathing! And most importantly that they realize they are not alone. Throughout the history of the church their were couples and families just like ours.
Matthew HawsJuly 18, 2025
There is no doubt in my mind that the hand of the Lord is on those who are making this series possible, from the top to the bottom. Blessings on them all.
DC LunaJuly 18, 2025
I have known Brad Pelo for many years. He is a very good man, father and example. I wish continued success to him on this project. I love the show.
Stephen SaccoJuly 18, 2025
I love The Chosen. About 10 years ago I stumbled across a three and and half hour video on YouTube entitled “The Best ever Movie on The Life of Jesus Christ”. A non member of the Church had found the Bible Stories video vignettes and put all of the ones about the life of Christ in chronological order, free for anyone to watch. I loved the end result. However, I had often made the comment in a positive way, that the dialogue was straight out of the KJV Bible. It is only when I saw the second episode of season one of the The Chosen that it dawned on me that Jesus would have said and done many things and interacted with family and friends in a natural human way. The Chosen brought the humanity of the Saviour to life without diminishing in the least His identity as the Messiah and only Begotten of the Father. I am certain that Dallas Jenkins and his team are the people spoken about in prophecy by President. Spencer W. Kimball when he spoke about someone who would produce a cinematic bio pic about the Saviour that would touch the hearts and spirits of many of God’s children.
DorisJuly 17, 2025
Wonderful analogy to help our children. And I like the analogy with the Savior. Thank you so much!
Karen BennerJuly 17, 2025
Wow Mark! I loved this article! You have a very heartfelt way with words. Thanks for sharing!
Layne MillerJuly 17, 2025
As usual a wonderful article with much food for thought. Thanks Mark!
Jan KuesterJuly 17, 2025
Thank you and bless you! Mark, for the past 34 years since I was baptized at age 34 I have struggled to "keep a journal", yet I have been blessed with innumerable spiritual experiences. Because of your words, I, too, am going to begin writing down my "Spiritual Odyssey" and not feel so encumbered by the fearful specter of what I interpreted as journal to be-a publisher ready biography.
AndyJuly 17, 2025
That is a good story Maureen, in that they cheerfully cleaned up but why were they so adamant about your tour not even coming in the building? Not very Christian behavior. What's so special about the building that an innocent, eager, group couldn't respectfully see inside? It's not a temple.
Rochelle HaleJuly 17, 2025
I can count at least half a dozen times when I have had true spiritual experiences. One very prominent moment came during an opening song in Relief Society, and I am taken back to that moment each time I hear that hymn. Several came when I was a young child, long before I joined the Church. I vividly remember the circumstances, though I didn't have the terminology to apply to my experiences until after I heard the gospel. Another was just a little over a year ago, before my mother passed away. Just a few days into her illness, it was very apparent that several things needed to be addressed in addition to her medical care. We did not have the answers, but we moved forward one day at a time. One afternoon, I received a phone call that seemed to come from Heaven and open a path to help us with many of our concerns for our mother's welfare. I do not doubt our sacred spiritual experiences.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 17, 2025
Music and the Spoken Word was such an important part of my mission in the Family History Center in 2001. I would attend every week and could always count on being lifted up and energized by the music and message. I never failed to meet like-mined people from all over the world as we waited for the program to start. I had some amazing experiences with other visitors and had incredible connections every week as I attended.
Scott HoskinsJuly 17, 2025
Thank you for the thougtful commentary on The Giving Tree. For years, I have pointed out the (I thought) rather obvious downsides to this story, only to be told that I didn´t truly understand it. It´s read to children as an example of what they should do. And it´s not a great example.
Paul BishopJuly 17, 2025
Thx, Mark... An excellent, heartfelt essay...
LoraJuly 17, 2025
Messy rooms are a first-world problem brought on by too many possessions. We give gifts to children thinking that it will make them happy (and they do, for a while), but then they just add to the pile. When I was exploring Minimalism right before the Covid shutdown, I was struck by the thought that we admire people who are happy even when they have so little--what if they are happy BECAUSE they have so little? They don't have to spend so much of their lives putting away, organizing, and dealing with STUFF. Embracing minimalism came just in time for me, because Covid ended our business and forced our retirement (good thing we were at retirement age already), but we were ready to live on less income. Buying less saves a lot of money. As for our grandchildren, our financial advisor helped us open accounts for each of them, and instead of gifts, we put the money in there. As they graduate high school, we have been able to give them that money to start them off in life.
Traci WalkerJuly 16, 2025
No surprise here at the Walker house, but still in awe of your many magnified gifts as we get yet another glimpse into the workings of the restored Church of Jesus Christ.
Barry HansenJuly 16, 2025
That makes sense and helps me understand the reasons for the Book of Mormon’s language structure. Thank you not only for this information but also for your personal testimony, which is the most important witness of the book’s veracity.
TreyeshuaJuly 16, 2025
AND is the most common, and sacred word in all scripture. It is a word that joins without division and contention. Contention comes from OR thinking. AND is celestial thinking. Each of our lived experiences is our truth. And, there is only one Truth, Jesus Christ.
LoriJuly 16, 2025
Thank you for this insight into language and translation, and for your powerful and heartfelt testimony of our Savior Jesus Christ and of the Book of Mormon. I note as I write this that the auto correct wants to cut out a few of the “ands” I used. I wasn’t meaning to use so many, but it felt right. This highlights another of the things that reading the Book of Mormon will do to readers- their language and how they put it together often changes.
MauriceJuly 16, 2025
A great article! So many times in our lives have our children innocently remarked on matters of eternal significance which we came to appreciate only much later. The Savior does love and speak to them.
Carol BlackJuly 16, 2025
Thank you!! Another testament of the truth of this sacred scripture! I will no longer skip the word 'and' in my personal readings now that I know that "Joseph Smith preserved that structure to honour the sacred original."
TJJuly 16, 2025
As an English reader of the Book of Mormon, I have often wondered why "and" was cluttering up verses, yet instinctively knew there was a purpose. Jamil, thank you for bringing this understanding of "and" to light. Also, I must add my testimony of the Book of Mormon to yours. "The Book of Mormon is truly another testament of Jesus Christ. I love it. I believe it. I know it is true, both through the Spirit and by the evidence found within its sacred pages."
JoanJuly 15, 2025
Wonderful to get the inside story about the Spoken Word. You certainly were the right one for the job. I have enjoyed many articles that you have written.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 15, 2025
I greatly appreciate this article, while raising eleven intelligent and headstrong children I found patience and calmness were so essential for them and for me. Sometimes I had to remove myself from the conflict and get above the fray, literally by resorting to a spot where I could view our home from a rock on a nearby canyon wall, the rocks were covered with petroglyphs, put there I surmised by other long ago mothers who were also hoping for wisdom and love. Higher up, the view and the and their calls to each other of "Where's Mom" and "Has anyone seen Mom?" put every thing in perspective and I would gather my wits together, pray for patience and courage and return into the fray.
Wendy RojasJuly 15, 2025
Love this, especially the imagery that the crooked in me will be made straight--not by a sudden cataclysm, but by my turning over my heart to God.
PatJuly 14, 2025
Love your story! ❤️ Fascinating how it all happened. Thanks for sharing.
MaryannJuly 14, 2025
The series: "John Adams" was absolutely wonderful. I felt like a fly on the wall watching Adams, Washington, Jefferson, Franklin, and others lay the foundation of freedom for this great nation. Abigail Adams was John Adams' most valiant and capable counselor. He respected her opinion and leaned heavily upon her. When John served with Franklin as ambassador to France, John and Abigail were separated for years. She took care of the children and ran their farm. I encourage everyone who wants to learn more about these men, that our Heavenly Father raised up, to watch this series. It is very uplifting and instructional.
Valerie RossJuly 14, 2025
Maurine, I did not know that you wrote for "The Spoken Word" but it makes so much sense. You are a talented writer and speaker that has blessed so many of us over the years. The times we met at the high school with your children, I knew your talent ran very deep. I love Meridian Magazine by the way!
Dell BishopJuly 14, 2025
Terrific article, Maureen...thanks so much for this beautiful, personal story.
Laurel Lee PedersenJuly 14, 2025
Thanks, Maureen, for sharing this. I have loved following you through the years since I taught your beautiful daughter. I appreciated your mom, as she served the Jordan School District, too. What a wonderful legacy you and your family have given the church and the world.
ChristinaJuly 14, 2025
So beautiful! I know that door in the mind where gems are kept. It’s amazing what revelation we can receive when our creativity is focused on the Savior.
Paul BishopJuly 14, 2025
Fantastic article. What a great opportunity and you certainly rose to the occasion. Thx for sharing...
Val JonesJuly 14, 2025
Wow, I didn't know that "The Spoken Word" has had ghost writers, but it makes sense. And it also makes sense that you were one of them. Your writing has blessed so many people in so many ways! Thank you.
Carol JolleyJuly 13, 2025
Thank you for this amazing story. I’m so grateful for their service and miracle. I’m from South Utah and want to learn more about this.
Anna-Sophia McLaughlinJuly 12, 2025
Unfortunately, the recent crackdowns are likely a response to international politics. The Church, though world wide, is for obvious reasons seen as a predominantly American organization.
Joni HiltonJuly 12, 2025
Fantastic article, as usual. This will be great for my Seminary class!
SamJuly 11, 2025
Another great article. Thanks for sharing!
Corey D.July 11, 2025
As one who most of his life has been able to look up at Ben Lomond peak everyday I fully understand the sentiment but it's obvious from scripture that there will be changes to the earth some day but I think also our views and the things that will impress us or get our attention will also be different.
Mary Jean HoltJuly 11, 2025
I loved watching this video, and felt the confirmation of the Holy Ghost that this story was indeed true, and that it was the work of Heavenly Father and faith of these men that made the impossible happen. It brought tears to my eyes! Indeed there were more soldiers that were with them than there were against them!
LewisJuly 11, 2025
Extraordinary stories, and powerful reminders about the source of real truth. It is funny how at times we tend to put our faith in the (very fallible) arm of flesh, in spite of constant warnings to seek truth from above. Thank you. You have a gift. Please keep writing.
Jeff LindsayJuly 11, 2025
One reader asked why I didn't discuss the "obvious" theory that the crack down in China was retaliation against the U.S. A fair question, but to me, that's not obvious at all. The new restrictions seem to be directed primarily at local members rather than American expatriates, and are not being implemented uniformly across China, at least not at this time. If the goal were to slap America, I'd expect a nationwide policy to be implemented that did something besides inconveniencing Chinese members of a tiny church that most American politicians don't really care about.
Dave CookJuly 11, 2025
The sad part of these decisions is that there are 3 justices on the Supreme court who either cannot think clearly or are committed to putting their misguided ideology above constitutional principles in spite of their oaths to uphold the constitution.
Dave CookJuly 11, 2025
A quick and useful rejoinder to the claim that there is no truth is to ask the claimant "is that true?" Credit Greg Koukl
Nadine EdgeworthJuly 11, 2025
We served our senior couple mission in Lyon France Mission and our mission covered Geneva, Switzerland were we served and throughout all Switzerland. We had a lot of missionaries that served there with no problems or restrictions.
S JohnsenJuly 11, 2025
Very well expressed and absolutely correct. As an aside,there is also compelling empirical evidence of the truthfulness of the.Book of Mormon. SFJ. PhD psycholigist
DumaJuly 11, 2025
One of my first wake-up calls about the internet was when I searched for "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" and I saw the negative opinions about it. That was decades ago and the detraction has only grown more widespread. The principles contained within it are wonderful, elevating, relevant, and true. Quantity does not equal quality. In addition, so much untruth about it is backed by explanations carefully crafted of legitimate scientific information. It's amazing how many truths can be spun together to construct a lie.
Rita MillerJuly 11, 2025
I would not rely on ChatGPT for medical advice. There are many substantial studies out now that show the Covid shots have caused increases in myocarditis, cancers, and brain disorders, among other serious diseases, around the world. The number of total excess deaths attributable to the mRNA SARS-COV2 injections is in the millions and climbing. This is not a "conspiracy theory", but a scientific fact. The shots should have been targeted to the most vulnerable populations: the elderly and those with several co-morbidities. Instead, they were pushed out to the entire world population. Taking medicine you don't need can be worse than not taking what you do need. Ask any doctor.
CynthiaJuly 11, 2025
I absolutely love your testimony of the power of truth! We know the Savior is filled with grace and truth. Thank you for sharing these vivid examples of truth and untruth and the deadly consequences, whether spiritual or physical, that come when we cannot identify what is true. Bless you for your clarity and courage!
Roberta HarrisJuly 11, 2025
Thank you Becky for more of your writing that really makes us stand back and think! The stories about snakes and false beliefs being perpetuated by those who should know better....many being carefully deceived by the evil one...and have his cunning design to have us believe that now what was bad is good and good is now bad. Such an important reminder to cling to the TRUTH that we know we in the gospel have. You have shown this so creatively in this excellent article. Thank you!
MichaelJuly 11, 2025
Not just limited to Asian nations, keeping a low profile is appropriate in any country where local laws limit free speech and actions. For many years I lived in a Middle Eastern country where teaching the gospel was not possible. In such circumstances "keep a low profile" can be essential to continued presence and over-zealousness can affect personal Church membership status. Be prudent.
Erika PechacekJuly 10, 2025
A big THANK YOU to all these brave men and the Faith they exhibited. I wish more of our young people were like that. We all need to pray for our government that they will learn RIGHT FROM WRONG and make proper decisions. Reform is needed in the schools so that people will learn to honor Heavenly Father and His son Jesus Christ. May the Lord watch over this country and guide the people is my prayer.
Harvey HiggsJuly 10, 2025
My wife and I recently returned from a Senior mission. On occasion we worked with the service missionaries. They performed a valuable service to the community and to themselves. Their spiritual growth became evident during 'homecoming' talk in sacrament meeting. A service mission can be a wonderful thing.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
Our city in Washington State was covered with dense ash when a volcano erupted. Many of your tips would also be helpful in that circumstance.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
This article made me think of the example of the prophet, Lehi. He rejoiced that he had obtained a land of promise while he was still yet in the desert. He rejoiced in the promises of the Lord, even while wading through continuous affliction. When we continue to count our blessings and show gratitude to the Lord, it will be much easier to stay "in the green."
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
I think we are going to be surprised when we reach our heavenly home and are shown all of the times the Lord interceded in our behalf. He knows when to call us home, and also when we need to remain. Miracles happen every day, and we can trust the Lord to comfort and strengthen us when a miracle we pray for does not occur.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
I hear so many comments about people who have left the gospel, and it makes me happy to read here a truer picture of the health and growth of the church. We sorrow when our friends choose another path, but we should never get caught in the false belief that the church is dwindling. It is not! The church is alive and well, and will continue to grow. We can all be a part of that growth as we share the blessings and knowledge we have with others.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
Reading your story makes me smile. I am so happy you and your wife, Cathy, found one another! Blessings to you both! Thank you for sharing your experience because I believe it will give many who are discouraged a big dose of hope.
MaryannJuly 10, 2025
Love this! The account of the creation in the temple makes it clear that the Lord loves variety; He created hills, mountains, etc. in the very beginning! A completely flat world is definitely not in our future. Yayyy!
HelenCJuly 10, 2025
Thank you for this. Elizabeth Woning has shine a new light on my understanding of the Sacred Power of weakness in our lives.
CarolJuly 9, 2025
It sure was a tender mercy or outright miracle that things happened the way they did and everyone is fine! And the the perpetrator could be caught and held responsible.
Sally SmithJuly 9, 2025
Thank you for this video. It brought tears to my eyes because miracles are real and a promise was realized.
Terry Bohle MontagueJuly 9, 2025
Love this!
Rochelle HaleJuly 9, 2025
Thank you. I totally agree. I have often pondered the state of non-believers (of any faith), many good people, yet the prevailing idea is "eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die." Why? What purpose would that serve? Why are we even here? Most of us will not go down in the history books, and if so, we might still be minor figures in the pages. I find great purpose in each day of mortality because I know there is an eternal life to come, and a Savior who has paved the way for us.
KrisJuly 9, 2025
I was trying to identify the difference between “pity”and “compassion” and this one chart showed it was “the ability to listen and hear.” I appreciate your encouragement for all of us to listen and hear children better- and it turns out it’s for our benefit!
TamiJuly 9, 2025
I loved this, thank you!
DumaJuly 9, 2025
I think that the example of Korihor nails it for me. He wanted to believe in atheism so badly that he believed the words of an "angel" that told him that there was no God. Thanks for sharing that!
Ronald BarnesJuly 9, 2025
It appeared that my mother was in the early stages of dementia when she was killed in a car crash. Events leading up to the crash, the way it happened, and events that happened afterwards, proved that it was not an accident. The day before, my parents had attended the temple. As they left, my mother remarked, “I have all my women’s work done; now it’s up to the men.” Her mission in life was complete, and she was called home.
Marilyn WilliamsJuly 8, 2025
What a beautiful article! Thank you! Despite many health challenges, I’m inspired to continue to put my left leg in! (I’ll never forget that fabulous analogy!)
DDJuly 8, 2025
I just made a 6000 mile trip across the states. On the last 3 days I drove across Nebraska and south Dakota. It has a beauty of its own, but the last day was going through northeast Wyoming coming across the continental dividend the back side of the Tetons. That is beautiful.
Gordon HensleyJuly 8, 2025
The beauty that is in all our landscapes comes at a price: violent vulcanism and tectonic plate subsidence driven by a fluid mantle. Meteorite impact craters, lunar gravitational tide action, glaciers, cyclones, the spinning iron core at the center of the Earth that creates the magnetic field protecting us from radiation, and even the offset tilt of the rotational axis of the Earth which provides us with seasons. Most extinction of life and premature death of the population comes from these events. Mortal life is so fragile in the face of the natural world. Our perception of beauty will change when we are raised to immortality. A crystal ball paved with gold is the only way we can describe something so beyond our ability to imagine with our primitive senses.
Abbie VianesJuly 8, 2025
I hope you are right!
Clayton RamsayJuly 7, 2025
My father, Jay L Ramsay was part of this story. He didn’t talk much about his experience but he always recognized that there was some Devine intervention with everyone getting home.
Jackie TerryJuly 7, 2025
My father, Martin B. Merrell was also in the 213th. He was shot in the shoulder and spent time in a Japanese hospital. He was a brother-in-law and good friend of Paul Grimshaw.
A. HamptonJuly 7, 2025
This was a timely article for me. It came out while I was on a cross-country road trip with my family, and one of the goals was to meet with my brother-in-law to get permission to do the work for his deceased wife. Unfortunately, the phone number we had for him seemed to no longer work. My husband's family was complex, since his mother remarried several times. My husband ended up being raised alone by his abusive, schizophrenic father. He joined the church, and together we discussed how best to reconstitute this fractured family, then did the work for his parents and half-brother. But for years he resisted doing the sealing for his parents, along with his own (and his brother's) sealing to them. He struggled to forgive. When my husband passed away last year, one of my first thoughts was that he went to heal his family on the other side, and that I needed to complete this work as soon as possible. I realized it was time to do my husband's sister, who had passed away just three years ago from COVID. Then I could seal all three deceased siblings to these parents. But I found that with my husband's death, we could not continue with his family's work because we no longer had him as a sibling to consent. Now we had to get permission from a close relative. God blessed our mission and we were able to locate my children's uncle, have a heart-to-heart talk with him about the changes in our lives, and receive his acceptance to do the ordinances for his late wife. I appreciated this article and its comments because it helped me to know of others' experiences dealing with reluctance to do ordinances for abusive family members. I am further understanding our Father's love and His ability to get things done: healing, reconciliation, and ordinances, whether on this or the other side of the veil. Truly, His perspective and purposes are wider than our own.
Gwen KrumpermanJuly 7, 2025
My father, Paul R. Grimshaw was part of the 213th Field Artillery unit and the story is dear to our family. I recently visited the monument in Cedar City to honor their courage and valiant spirit. Thank you for sharing this with us.
JocelynJuly 7, 2025
I cried, realizing that this was amazing for them, but also possible for all of us as life continues, spiraling into evil in these last days. Our faith in Christ is so powerful through his love for us.
Jary WelkerJuly 7, 2025
What a great story of modern day miracles not at all unlike we read about in the scriptures. Not only can we read them in the Book of Mormon and the Stripling Warriors but also the Old Testament and Elisha the Prophet when he told his young servant what we need to always remember, "Fear not: for they that be with us are more than they that be with them."
Mari oJuly 6, 2025
Finally, articles that speak the gospel language.
Diane Frischknecht Merten in Corvallis, OregonJuly 6, 2025
I am in my 82nd year and have just shared this picture and the article about the man of God that was George Washington with several of my visiting from ages 9 to 16 grandchildren. They also loved it. The words spoken were "Awesome! " "Oh, My now we know why he was so wonderful !" "Yes, he was a great President!" "Heavenly Father really blessed him.!" Thank you for having this available!!!!
Steve HadlockJuly 6, 2025
This is an excellent article. Very well researched and written. A fascinating summary of true patriots of this nation and dispensation.
Corey D.July 6, 2025
Wonderful article ! Interesting it started out with John Adams and Thomas Jefferson, one time friends and allies who had kind of a falling out but in the later years of their lives restored that friendship and respect. That kind of leadership is sorely lacking in today's political environment, certainly the humility manifested by many of our founding fathers can't be found in our leaders today.
Deborist Benjamin BurkeJuly 6, 2025
Brilliantly written, and well needed article! When teaching primary through out the years, I nearly disassociated when we sang the words: “we are a happy family”! Healing is long and laborious, it comes and goes like an emotional herpes, and at times just as noticeable ! I’m at a point where I’m having a ‘breakout’ and the sores are causing me to want to heal once and for all…do the work, get it over with , let the chips fall where they fall, this article has helped immensely , thank you Paul, and God bless all of us comrades in arms of abusive families ! Deborist
Corey D.July 6, 2025
I have had this painting on my living room wall for many years. About 5-6 yrs ago I came across one that has President Lincoln kneeling in prayer in some trees with a battleground in the distant view, it now hangs on the wall in our computer room, such a distinct contrast to our leaders of today who I doubt ever think to pray.
JJuly 5, 2025
Just want the makers of this movie to know all the production was worth it. Saw a part of it long ago and here I am in 2025 seeing the full movie. It's a really great and lovely one!
Jeff BellJuly 4, 2025
Hey Blaine, The article is a needed reminder of the importance of sharing why we celebrate the 4th July. Remember, remember. On my mom's side of the family, Wood, had the propensity to go gray at a young age. That family traits continues in siblings and myself; I started going gray while I was a 9th grade student. I do not see Washington being painted wrong, by this artistic author. Under formal settings, President Washington wore a powered white wig, as did many of his contemporaries. Maybe, during the 18th Centruy a 40 year-old men was considered old.
kathleenJuly 3, 2025
Thank you for the wonderful tribute to that great man.
Boanerges RubalcavaJuly 3, 2025
If you love me, keep my commandments. One of the important one is thou shall NOT commit adultery, therefore, having sexual relations out of marriage, is not accepted by the Lord either by married or not married people. And the greatest commandment is to love the Lord and to love our fellowman. So, it is very simple, on one hand we should love one another and for sure we should not judge others, and if you are married it should be the way the Lord commanded us (one man with one woman). If you have been unable to have a companion, pray to the Lord and He would help you. If you have the "orientation" to same sex" (homosexual) or the opposite sex (heterosexual) it is the same: FOLLOW THE LORD AND KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS. That's all.
ChrisJuly 3, 2025
Love and truth are so important and critical. Thank you for this outstanding article. When integrity and compassion fail in any institution or church, it has lost its way. Moroni knew this when he wrote: Mormon 8: 36 And I know that ye do walk in the pride of your hearts; and there are none save a few only who do not lift themselves up in the pride of their hearts, unto the wearing of very fine apparel, unto envying, and strifes, and malice, and persecutions, and all manner of iniquities; and your churches, yea, even every one, have become polluted because of the pride of your hearts. 37 For behold, ye do love money, and your substance, and your fine apparel, and the adorning of your churches, more than ye love the poor and the needy, the sick and the afflicted.
Blaine NayJuly 3, 2025
Why does every image of Gorge Washington praying at Valley Forge portray him as an old man? He was in his mid 40s!
KathleenJuly 3, 2025
Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Always enjoy your stories and humor.
ColinJuly 2, 2025
We all hope your recovery is fast and complete!
RozyJuly 2, 2025
These essays are wonderful. I have never understood how SSA is any different from opposite sex attraction for the many women in the church who want to marry and never have the opportunity. These valiant women struggle with keeping the Law of Chastity, and making those horizontal connections too. Feelings of attraction are powerful, but can and must be controlled by everyone. Married men, married women, single men, and single women, and teens of every persuasion must obey the Law of Chastity if we want the blessings of eternity. I wish we could talk more openly about temptation and sin in our adult quorums and RS. Perhaps if we were more open about it we wouldn't feel so alone and "different".
Paul BishopJuly 2, 2025
Thank you to everyone who has read and commented on this article. When I wrote it I was struggling not just with the subject matter discussed but also with a sense of spiritual isolation. Logically I knew I couldn't be the only individual facing this situation, but because it is rarely discussed openly, it sometimes felt that way. Your heartfelt, at times heart-wrenching, comments have strengthened my testimony and given my family history efforts a new sense of purpose...
Karen BrimhallJuly 2, 2025
Such a sweet story. Sometimes our firemen a placed in crazy circumstances that later they may feel amused by. Saving the bacon. Thanks.
Darla GallewJuly 2, 2025
My eyes have been opened to why I need to start reading the footnotes. Thank you!
Richard GardnerJuly 1, 2025
Well said. A condensed version of this would make a good General Conference talk. Once people understand the doctrine and even the biology of eternal reproduction, it all makes logical sense and they will be less likely to oppose the Church's stands on the issue.
Ronald BarnesJuly 1, 2025
My second daughter’s first marriage lasted 4 years and her second has lasted 7 years so far. My first daughter’s first marriage lasted 8 years and her second has lasted 13 years so far. My brother’s first two marriages lasted only a few years each, but his third has lasted 49 years so far. My wife’s mother’s first marriage lasted less than 2 years, but her second lasted 22 years until she died. I don’t know how any of them beat the odds, but I’m glad they did.
Carlin BartschiJune 30, 2025
In the mid-1980s we visited Carthage jail with our family and carefully looked around at--and felt the spirit of--that sacred place and relics, including the long-dried blood of Joseph on the floor in front of the window. Not long after the turn of this century my wife and I visited there again with some friends and since it was the friends' first time we were showing them the fateful cell. We approached the window from which Joseph was shot/lept/was killed and looked at the floor. The curator/missionary there said, "If you are looking for Joseph's blood, it is no longer there. President Kimball visited here a couple of years ago and upon seeing the blood still preserved on the floor in-situ, asked that it be cleaned up and varnished over, stating, 'It's time that we let some things heal.'"
SJune 30, 2025
I needed to read this. My mother's family are not members of the Church and both of her parents are deceased. We have done work for her mother, but have been sitting on her father's ordinances for years. She wants nothing to do with it and told me I can do what I want. I have struggled because of the amount of trauma he inflicted on my grandma and mother, which in turn was passed down to me in different ways. I have felt that he doesn't deserve it because of how he was. But I have also felt a gentle nudge here and there that I need to get his work done, and for a long time I resented that feeling. I could no longer deny the prompting - I was starting to feel like Jonah - so my brother & I are going to take his name (among others) to the temple this weekend. I'm still struggling, which is how I stumbled upon this article. Just what I needed to read at just the right time. Thank you.
Judy PerryJune 30, 2025
WOW !!!Thank you for this. I weep for those who leave. As a parent of two gay children who did leave, I was blessed to keep them close and learn from them. This article has exposed other judgements, impatience, and prejudices I still have tendencies to. I will share this going forward. Bless you all who work with the Other Side Community/Program. I love you.
JuliannJune 30, 2025
I admit that I didn’t comprehend all presented but I was cheering throughout the read. Having facilitated four Emotional Resiliance groups I can attest to how difficult true vulnerability and honesty can be. It takes me weeks to recover from my own openness and each time I withdraw from ward association more. Right now I’m concerned about one sister who shared her own addiction struggle and hasn’t been to church since. Why do we feel guilty for having and revealing weaknesses when Church should be a hospital for sinners, not a museum for Saints? I get so tired of hearing about our Ward Family when I for one feel like the Ward Leper. Thank you for such an insightful article. I wish the Liahona would publish it also.
Kathy JensenJune 30, 2025
Beautifully written and such an important message for all of us.
Craig FrogleyJune 30, 2025
Brilliant and insightful, my fr Ones! Thank you…much to think about and then do!
Ronald BarnesJune 30, 2025
At 70, I tell my children that I'm not old yet, but I am getting there.
RosieJune 30, 2025
Marvelous! I've been through trauma in my marriage that I've had to hide because those things just aren't talked about at church. This powerful essay gives me hope that someday we can have the kind of wards and branches where we talk about our brokenness and help each other become whole, without condemnation, judgement or rejection.
Charles McClellandJune 30, 2025
Thank you for this wonderfully thought provoking, action inducing, uplifting article!
D. Kirk BittonJune 30, 2025
This is an amazing article! Thanks for your candor and inspired thoughts. As I sense my own inadequacy in these areas, I find hope in knowing I’m not alone. Your article has inspired me to do and be better!
Sister Fay Croxford-Nauvoo MissionaryJune 29, 2025
Love the necklaces and the connection to the Smith Family! Thank you for bring some to Nauvoo again this year!
Ned ScarisbrickJune 28, 2025
Do we know the context in which spirit children are born (organized) in the Celestial Kingdom?
Richard JukesJune 28, 2025
Superlative rendition and very sentimental portraits/photographs that bring back the very deep feelings of our tender visit there. Thank you so much for sharing!
MaryannJune 28, 2025
The wise phrase, "You don't have to fix her situation" is so freeing! I finally came to this same conclusion regarding a difficult situation with my own family member. We (especially parents or guardians) feel like if we just do the right thing, we can "fix" someone. We can't. We can love them and gently invite them into our lives. We can decide to let go of our frustrations when they don't respond like we want them to. This sister sounds like maybe she is trying too hard. Spending less time with her children indicates she needs to let go of trying to change her step-daughter, and enjoy her children without guilt. Her step-daughter surely feels the step-mom's tension and frustration, which adds fire to her own difficult feelings. Let go, mom! In light of her history, EXPECT her to act out. Then continue to live your own life. This is NOT easy, but will relieve some of the constant frustration.
MaryannJune 28, 2025
This wise counsel from Joni can also be applied to other areas of our lives. Don't compare yourself with others regarding your housekeeping, your appearance, your job, your home, your talents, or any other thing. The outcome of comparing ourselves with one another leads either to pride, or despair. Neither one are good options. There is another wonderful perk when we stop comparing. We can actually rejoice in the accomplishments of those around us.
Susan MorrisJune 28, 2025
Thank you for these eyewitness accounts. I read them and wept as though the martyrdom of Joseph and Hyrum were only yesterday. And thank you for the lines from Eliza R. Snow. I think I see how her poetic phrases informed the beautiful prose that John Taylor later penned in what is now Doctrine and Covenants 135. Praise to the men!
drparkinsonJune 28, 2025
The Church purchased the JST manuscript from the RLDS church. There were about 4000 changes, but about 600 included in our current scriptures. Joseph Smith Papers team is currently reviewing every word, letter, space and punctuation of the manuscript. You can purchase the Inspired Version from the RLDS (Community of Christ). It has 2 columns with King James Version on 1 side and JST on the other.
Jeff TeichertJune 28, 2025
I mostly agree with what Geoff said, with a couple of points of emphasis. (By the way, I also have a degree in family science and two stepchildren of my own.) 1. Who is running your house? I remember talking to a man several years ago who is a hospital nurse. He talked about people calling the hospital and describing symptoms their children were having and he might ask "what is his temperature?" Often the parent would respond "I tried to take his temperature but he won't let me." The nurse would ask how old the child was and when the parent said 6 years old or something, the nurse would say "I'll tell you what, you decide who's running your house and when you have the kid's temperature, call me back." We appropriately emphasize loving behavior toward our children. But that doesn't mean the inmates get to run the asylum. She doesn't get to "butt heads" with you and you have no obligation to convince her or explain to her why you are asking her to do something. She has to do it because she is the child and you are the parent. That's it. 2. Having said that, Geoff is also correct that, and a step family, the original parent should do most of the heavy lifting on discipline for a while. The step parent was not there during the 3:00 a.m. feedings and diaper changes, and patching the skinnee knees. So the step parent needs to earn some trust. When possible, the step parent needs to act more like a friend and work on building bonds. That doesn't mean you shouldn't step in when your husband is not available and take control of the house when necessary. It just means that when he is available, he's the one to step in. And make sure that he communicates with your stepdaughter what the rules are. That way, when you are the enforcer of those rules, you are just carrying out what her father has already said. My step kids have grown up with me for the last 7 years and I can do more parenting now than I could in the beginning. But that takes time and you need to be patient with it. And, as I said, that doesn't mean you have to let her go wild whenever he is not around. 3. Keep your cool. You should not discipline a child when you are mad whether it is your own biological child or a stepchild. If you have to put yourself in time out to cool down before you interact with the child, do it. Don't discipline until you are feeling peace inside. You are the adult and it is your job to model this behavior for her even if she is not peaceful. You are the adult and you have to model the right behavior. She is a child and we cut her a lot of slack because she's inexperienced and immature. 4. Stop thinking about sending her away. She your child and your responsibility. She has faced enough abandonment in her life and she doesn't need it from you. She may have even overheard you talking to your husband or others about finding a way to get rid of her because she is not really your child. Please don't do that to her. Being your biological child would not make her more yours. Accept that she is your child and never again talk about sending her away. If you believe she may have overheard that kind of comment or even gotten that vibe from you, you owe her an apology and you should give her one. I know step family situations can be stressful at times. I also know that they can be richly rewarding If you can give up the fantasy that you can erase your spouse's past and just be a first-time nuclear family without entanglements from other relationships. That's not what you signed up for and it's not what you have. So take your non-traditional family and make it beautiful. Stop looking for an escape. Good luck. I'm saying a little prayer right now that you can find a way to make this better.
Beth E.June 27, 2025
Neither the letter nor the answer mention professional counseling. If there was abuse, the child probably needs more help than the parents know how to give.
David CookJune 27, 2025
It's more conventional to put corrections after, not before strike-through text that's been changed. For those of us familiar with the standard convention it's a little jarring to read it the other way around. Also I agree that a different color for Joseph's changes would have been better to avoid confusion with the standard red-letter editions. A link to a listing site would be helpful.
AudreyJune 27, 2025
Go to Amazon and search The Joseph Smith Translation, Red-Letter Edition, Old Testament Hardcover – April 1, 2025 by Alvin H Andrew (Author), Shane A Andrew (Contributor) https://www.amazon.com/Joseph-Smith-Translation-Red-Letter-Testament/dp/B0F1WZW6CP
Karen BrimhallJune 27, 2025
Such a powerful message by Pres. Oaks. More men and women need to watch and pay attention to the heart of this message. We would have happier couples and stronger families. Thank you for the reminders this talk gave.
Linda K. SpoonerJune 27, 2025
Yes, where would I find the book with all of the JST changes? I eagerly await your answer so I can have this book. Thank you for your time, this article was great to read. Thank you again. Linda
LisaJune 27, 2025
I'm an adoptive mother, and these sorts of struggles, especially with teenagers, are common to most of the adoptive families I know. My own journey through parenting a teenage adopted daughter has pushed me to the limits of what I thought I could endure, and my case is a cakewalk compared to things I've seen in some other adoptive. The counsel given is good, but in my opinion it doesn't go far enough. I think this family needs more than just counsel; they need professional therapeutic support. I would imagine the stepdaughter really needs therapy to deal with the trauma she has experienced both from early abuse and from the loss of her biological family. One of the best things we ever did was to find a therapist for our daughter who specialized in working with adopted children. One of the things that therapist told me is that the adoptive mother is the lightning rod for all of the child's grief and anger about the loss of their birth mother. I could easily see this being the situation in the family described in this letter. Stepmom has replaced the original mom, so she's going to get the brunt of all the daughter's emotions about the situation, and in our case it's a lot more than just butting heads--mom is targeted for verbal abuse that dad never experiences. It is absolutely brutal. Our daughter's therapist was a lifeline for me in terms of helping me understand the dynamics that were happening. She helped me understand why my daughter was acting the way she was, what to do about it, and most of all, I came away from every session feeling increased love toward my child rather than increased anger. If the child in this case won't participate in therapy, I would recommend that the stepmother (and dad if possible) find a therapist for herself, preferably one that specializes in the attachment issues related to adoption.
KayJune 26, 2025
How I can relate to your situation! My husband and I adopted three older children who had extreme behavioral and emotional issues. I often felt like you are feeling—full of frustration, anger, and helplessness. In looking back, I wish I had overlooked more and loved and laughed more. A book I have found since then, that I wish I had had then, is Good Inside by Dr Becky Kennedy.
Rosie BrinsekJune 26, 2025
Thank you for this article. I find myself getting blocked by resentment if I spend too much time with the papers I inherited from my narcissistic mother & grandmother. Yes, I know they suffered too, blah blah blah, but I've heard about it all my life. Reading through my grandmother's autobiographies becomes exhausting. And as Dr. Ramani Dursavala points out, suffering as a child is not a license to treat other people like crap. I have dome the temple work for my parents & grandparents but I'm not sealed to them yet. Someday.
CarolynJune 26, 2025
Thank you!! I needed that reminder today and everyday…and my children are grown adults…
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
I am sorry if my selection of textual colors offended anyone. It was certainly not my intent. Forgive my lack of thoughfulness. The intent of this book was to highlight the JST alterations. Red-Letter bibles are still available that highlight the Savior's words.
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
The Old Testament version only comes in hardback because of its length. Paperback is not available from IngramSpark due to the number of pages. There is not a digital version of the Old Testament available.
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
https://jstrle.com/ will take you directly to the purchase site for all variations of both the New Testament and the Old Testament. Selecting an option below the respective cover picture will direct you to IngramSpark's securing purchasing site (except for the digital version of the New Testament).
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
If you select either of the covers in this article it will take you to my website. From there you can select the version of the books you wish to obtain. There is a digital version of the New Testament. My website gives you 3 options to obtain the digital version. The books are sold through Ingram a worldwide distributor to book stores, libraries, and resellers. However the hard copies will be less expensive through my website: jstrle.com.
Alvin H. AndrewJune 26, 2025
Copies of the JST manuscripts have been fully available for a number of years on the Joseph Smith Papers website of the LDS Church. In March 2024, the LDS Church purchased numerous properties and items from the Community of Christ (formerly the Reogranized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints). Among those items were the orignial manuscripts of the JST. It was from those manuscripts on the LDS website that these books were created. All the changes are in these books, including most of the punctuation (barring any errors that I may have made). About 1/3 of the JST alterations were included in the LDS version of the scriptures. The selections therein were indeed painful, but necessaey due to space limitations in order to produce an LDS quad edition particularly. In fact had it not been for a miraculous creation of an extremely thin paper used in the LDS bible reditions just prior to going to print, a quad or perhaps a lot more JST entries would not have been able to be included. But that is another story.
Robert GatesJune 26, 2025
This looks really interesting. A question is in order. It is well known that not all the JST changes were put into our current Scriptures, i.e. some left out. Multiple people have described that, and said it was painful choices. FLDS Church supposedly has the original JST manuscript. Many LDS Scholars, said based on their person inspection\comparison of the JST manuscript that the book called "Joseph Smiths "New Translation" of the Bible", printed in 1970 by Herald Publishing in Independence MO is correct and has all JST. Do these red line versions have "all" the JST or do they use the ones that are in our Scriptures which supposedly isn't everything?
Susan KnightJune 26, 2025
Where do we find/buy these red-letter books?
Rob McGhieJune 26, 2025
Is there a digital version?
Cliff HolmesJune 26, 2025
Such a great article full of truth and intelligence. Thank you for reinforcing my own thoughts and feelings about this subject.
Barbara EarlJune 26, 2025
I tried to order but my phone number is required for shipping information but there is nowhere to add the phone number in the shipping section.
John EspleyJune 26, 2025
I could only find a hardback printing of the Old Testament JST red letter, but could find a paperback, hardback, and Kindle version of the New Testament. Is there going to be multiple versions of the Old Testament?
Haze K.June 26, 2025
Converts to the Church may be very familiar with the term "Red Letter Edition" of the Bible. In the traditional Christian world, only the words of our Savior, Jesus Christ, are in red. I do. When I read the title to the article, and read further that it NOT the words of Jesus in red, but the JST clarifications, I was initially very offended. Jesus is my Savior. Joseph Smith is the Prophet of the Restoration, whom I admire and am grateful to. I think it is great to have the JST integrated into a Bible like this. It will be very helpful. I just a different color system had been deployed, including our Lord's words in red. I would have bought a copy today, if that had been the case.
Ben JonesJune 26, 2025
I married a divorced LDS woman with three children. A year later I legally adopted her children. A year after that, I joined the LDS Church. A year after that, my wife had her sealing to her first husband cancelled, and then we were sealed in the Temple. By that time, we had 2 of our own children. We thought we would have them sealed to us in a Temple ceremony along with our own sealing but because they were born while my wife was still sealed to her ex-husband, they were considered "born in the covenant". They along with her three children are now sealed to me by virtue of me being sealed to her.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
Thank you so much for your compassionate sensitivity regarding very painful relationships. You have lifted the guilt from many today. No one should feel compelled to do the temple work for their abusers until they are ready, or they prefer that someone else do it.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
When parents clearly correct bad behavior, without resorting to shame or unkindness, it is a sign of love. Setting boundaries and guiding our children gives them a sense of security. Children need to know that their parents can lead them to greater safety and happiness by showing them the right path. I am so grateful that I had parents who let me know when I had done something wrong, and also set a good example for me.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
The words "medical scandal" in the first paragraph of this article are very appropriate. It is absolutely shocking that our nation would allow minors to make these dramatic life changing decisions. It is one of the worst form of child abuse. Minors are not in any way competent or mature enough to make a decision that will change their lives forever, a decision that sometimes leads to suicide. The other side of this scandal is the abuse of parental rights. NO ONE has the "right" to limit a parent's knowledge, or to usurp parental control regarding these decisions.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
Faith based agencies have the right to decide who they will serve. To force them to give same-sex couples children is a clear infringement on religious freedom. Surely there must be enough adoption options for same sex couples, without infringing on the rights of faith based agencies.
MaryannJune 25, 2025
I really loved Brother Steurer's statement that "True love and compassion is a choice, not just a feeling." We can still choose to show compassion even if someone is really difficult to be around. We may not have love bubbling up in our hearts for them, but we can still treat them with kindness.
David HJune 25, 2025
My sister and I were victims of physical, emotional and even spiritual abuse at the hands of our parents while growing up as children. Even after we left the family as adults the emotional and threatening physical abuse continued. I am the only member of the Church in my family and have struggled and suffered much pain throughout my lifetime in relationships and activity in Church. My father has passed several years ago and mother is 88 years old and is absolutely unapproachable in making and restoring peace in our dysfunctional family dynamics. As I am an active member in the Church now for many years, I find myself with the undanting task of fulfilling my Genealogical responsibilities, however, I feel the absolute necessity of doing their work in the Temple as it is an opportunity to forgive and heal the deep emotional scars left in their wake. Our Saviour has provided a way of healing through His Atonement and perfect example of His infinite love for all humankind.
Name withheldJune 25, 2025
I had no desire to perform my cruel and abusive grandmother's temple work, until I had an extraordinary experience discovering my grandfather's military history, which explained so much about his own abusive behavior in life. I felt he was reaching through the veil, pleading for forgiveness and understanding. When I watched my middle daughter be baptized for her great grandma, I had the impression this was the fulfilling of a promise made long before this life. While sitting in the endowment room on her behalf, I had the powerful impression of what a blessing and beautiful opportunity it is just to live in mortality, something my grandma failed to appreciate while alive. And then when I passed through the veil and met up with my husband, who had performed the work for my grandfather, we sat together and sobbed and he shared the impression of chains breaking, of my grandfather being freed form a lifetime of pain. And I was left with the impression that my grandmother was made new and whole and would be a different person when I next met her, and to let the rest go and forgive. It was very healing. Her abuse echoed down to my father, who passed it on to me, and that is something I still struggle to handle, but the abuse went no further and I've raised my daughters in a different home environment because of the restored gospel. For that I am eternally grateful.
Name withheldJune 25, 2025
I am estranged from an emotionally cruel mother who is elderly and this article hits home for me, because this future situation has been on my mind a lot. My loving but enabling father passed not long ago, and I did not participate in his ordinance work, but each of my children did. I felt his loving sprit surround me during one of my temple trips and in my heart I believe he was happy about his work being done. While I can't be around my mother anymore in mortal life, at least not now, the Spirit keeps letting me know "She won't always be like this" and that someday her mind and spirit will be clear and she will be able to love me the way a mother should. Everyday I have to ask Heavenly Father to help me forgive her 100%. I pray that when I cross the veil, the scales will lifted from my eyes (mind, spirit) too and I will have understanding and compassion for why she behaved as she did. Her work will be done eventually - and I pray for the possibility of a normal, happy and healed family someday. Meanwhile, I thank Father everyday for making up my lack with the husband and children he gave me. God is so good. Hopefully our struggling family members will come to that realization too.
Name WithheldJune 24, 2025
My wife was raised in a dysfunctional, abusive family. Decades later, she still struggles with the consequences of her upbringing and experiences. That being said, almost 15 years ago, her then living siblings decided to seal their deceased non-member father to their deceased member mother and seal the children to their parents. All had mixed emotions about doing this, but they felt it was what they should do. No one had any high expectations. Some details are too sacred to share, but I will say that as my wife and I participated in these proxy ordinances, we unexpectedly had one of THE most powerful spiritual experiences of our entire lives!
Peggy ClarkJune 24, 2025
I enjoyed reading this article and was surprised to learn that one of the people buried there had the same name, birth and death dates of my great-great-grandfather Ebenezer Crouch's sister, Elizabeth; I have verified that she is the same one. These ancestors were my pioneer children who "walked and walked and walked" to the valley in 1856. Nine of the twelve children born into this family died as infants or toddlers. Eb lived to be 91 years old, and I met him not long before he died when I was four years old.
Rich BowermanJune 24, 2025
Great article from Jeff Teichert as usual. Is there a point #3?
Dyana G. A.June 24, 2025
I was in the process of Sealing my mother's grandmother to her husband and as I was kneeling at the alter I was hesitant because he had molested my mother and most likely her mom, his daughter. My mom suffered from mental health challenges as a result of that abuse and often took it out on me so generational trauma is real. The beautiful thing was that the Spirit whispered to me that the blessings of the sealing were for my great grandmother, not him. I was so glad that I moved forward with the work as it also brought comfort to me that sometimes Sealing blessings are for the benefit of those that are willing to choose and live worthy of them.
Tracy TippettsJune 24, 2025
I grew up in a part member family. My mother was a devout and dedicated member of the Church with ancestry and genealogy going back to the 1500's. Her ancestors came from England as Pioneers, and settled in Utah and Idaho. My father, grandfather, and great grandfather were all never baptized or apostate inactive members, although they had come from early Pioneer heritage and history. My father and grandfather were very antagonistic, bitter, and critical of the Church, its leaders and members, and did not believe it was true. Because of that negative influence and attitude, I grew up feeling like a half-breed, and unworthy member myself. Ten years ago a High Council speaker came to my ward and gave a talk about a man with my same last name, that was an early convert to the Church near Palmyra, New York in 1832...just two years after it was organized! He was the Branch President, when John Tanner was baptized, and organized the relocation of members to Kirtland, Ohio. He donated money for the construction of the Temple there, and helped build it. Joseph and Emma Smith hosted the wedding dinner in their home when he and his wife were married. He lived next to Wilford Woodruff in Nauvoo, and they were good friends! He died in Winter Quarters in December, 1846 when he was only 38 years old. His son was born three months after he died. That was my great grandfather. His widow and newborn baby went to Utah in 1847 in the wagon with Willard Richards, who was with Joseph and Hyrum in Carthage Jail when they were murdered by the angry mob. I didn't know or learn any of this amazing story and information until I was 65 years old! So much for being a half-breed!
Patsy SwinsonJune 24, 2025
I had others perform my parents' temple work so I fulfilled as much of my responsibility as I felt like I was capable of, except for the last part. I could not bring myself to be sealed to them myself. That part was just too repugnant. I presume someone else will take care of that at some point after I have died, but I can't imagine ever accepting it. There is no amount of time that could pass which would make their sins against me acceptable. That doesn't mean I refuse to forgive them. It just means they were never parents to me and I never want to be their daughter. It would be far easier to be sealed to complete strangers. Even if they ever repented in the Spirit World, I would have to have a case of amnesia to find their treatment of me less than abominable.
Gordon HensleyJune 24, 2025
Don't let a troubled family past keep you from being sealed to your ancestral family lines. The unrepentant ones will be left out and the lines of sealing will be reconnected so you can be joined all the way back through to Noah and Adam. My grandmother had three husbands, the last of which was indirectly responsible for her untimely demise. We were instructed to have her sealed to all three, and to let her decide which, if any, she would keep.
Gayle RandellJune 24, 2025
I I was abused by my grandfather when I was very young and his associates. I stuffed away all those memories for years. I believe that when it was time, as a n adult in my late 30’s, Memories started to surface. I was fortunate to have a LDS professional counselor who walked me thru one year of therapy to help me get through the trauma of the memory’s of the trauma and then to let it go. I aproched a male member of my ward to do all the temple work for my grandfather. After his work was done, it felt like a huge weight had been lifted off me, and I was totally healed. My grandfather’s fate is now between him and God and I don’t have to ever think about him anymore. As I continue to lean on my Heavenly Father for my love and support, my life keeps getting better and better
Rochelle HaleJune 24, 2025
This is a quandary. In my research, I have come across several divorces, abandoned children, adoptions, etc. Most recently, my own mother passed, and my (deceased) siblings and I were finally able to be sealed to our parents, both of whom had other spouses. I have met with difficulty "asking permission" from non-member relatives who 1) don't understand why we do this work, or 2) don't see any reason if the couple didn't want to be together on earth. I think we can record the facts to the best of our ability, submit the names for ordinances, and let the Lord take care of the hereafter.
Martin RoundyJune 24, 2025
For nearly 40 years I was a mental health professional and my therapy focused on adult survivors of child sexual abuse. Prior to that I was a released-time LDS seminary instructor. My teaching ended when I became a divorced single parent of 6 children. I believed I would never do anything as spiritually significant than teaching the gospel to students. I was incorrect. My time spent supporting survivors heal their wounds and take back their lives was intensely spiritual and involved the frequent intervention of divine resources. So often the issues covered so beautifully in this piece were central to the process of healing. The manner and compassionate approach you took was, I believe, powerfully helpful for anyone whose life experiences involved child abuse of any kind, but particularly when sexual abuse was part of childhood. I am certain that many who know of what you wrote will find your wordd to be balm of Gidion. Thank you!
Harold RustJune 24, 2025
Thanks, Maureen, for a thoughtful review of all the key facts. As much as our leaders and prophets have warned against the consequences of of war, we also have scriptural and even “modern revelation “ confirming the necessity at times to fight in defense when an enemy is pursuing your death and destruction. Even the converted Lamanites of Helaman’s time were willing to allow their young me to go to war in defending. Thus, there are realities which require sober and serious personal decisions transcending a goal of peace and love and charity toward all. Peace doesn’t really mean no conflict; the Lord’s peace comes from genuinely pursuing what is most aligned with what God would have us do …at that time.
SusanielsonJune 24, 2025
As a Family History consultant, I was saddened to find so many of my ward members had such painful family relationships. I felt prompted to advise them much as you did. That they could wait until they felt ready to perform those ordinances for them, or ask others to help. Very helpful counsel, thank you.
Barry HansenJune 23, 2025
Thank you, Maureen, for your informed explanation of the situation. Much appreciated.
AnnJune 23, 2025
I am a convert of more than 50 years joining the church when I was 17. I was by no means a religious scholar at age 17, but I do feel that my little white church on the corner prepared me well to hear and accept the message of the restoration of the gospel. I continue to feel blessed by the covenants I have made. Those covenants have allowed me the opportunity to create a family unit far better than the home of my youth. I have been blessed. But at the first, I was disappointed at how little was said about our Savior in my weekly church meetings. I realized that every prayer and ordinance was done in his Holy Name. But not much was said about him directly. We studied the prophets and I knew what they taught was from Heavenly Father. But I missed the former focus on Our Savior. At one point I was assigned to create a monthly news letter that went to the homes in the ward. It included a message from the Bishop, a summary of recent events and a calendar for the coming month. Just as I had note General Conference and Easter, I included Good Friday on the calendar. I was instructed by my contact with the Bishopric to remove the mention of Palm Sunday and Good Friday. I was told those events weren’t really part of our religious beliefs. And only a few years before I had been counseled not to wear the small solve cross that I had worn daily for most of my life. I accepted these counsels by those over me, but also admit to feeling I had lost some important parts of my belief system when I joined the church. I’m honest, I didn’t totally abandon those beliefs. I taught my children about the triumphant entry of the Savior into Jerusalem. I taught them how sorrowful the believers were when he was crucified. And I taught about his Atonement and Resurrection. More recently I have felt a shift coming from Church Leadership. I rejoiced in the message found in The Living Christ. For me, the church I loved felt even more alive. Hence, I appreciate so much your insight on the cross. And feel that perhaps what I learned in my early youth was more correct than some thought earlier. And if I hadn’t thrown away my cross necklace I would likely start wearing it again. I rejoice in the great gift of the Atonement. For a plan that allows me to return to my Heavenly Home. And for Temple covenants that creates Eternal Family units. I hope I can better learn how to be both a better vertical and horizontal Christian. That I might do better in showing my love for my Savior in word and deed.
David MalpasJune 23, 2025
No sane person wants war. But this action had to be taken. The time for polite rhetoric and diplomacy had passed. While we, as a nation, respect discussion and agreements made, these people do not. They have one fanatical goal as Maureen has so clearly explained. And this is not news to us, although many like to bury their heads in the sand and think they are bluffing. They are not. I am thankful that we have a President that sees the danger and courageously acts accordingly, in spite of inevitable criticism, in the best interests of America, when this type of action is no longer avoidable. We, as a country, should be thanking him and not being critical or thinking up our uninformed views of what he should have done differently. There are many in our government that would have done nothing and still sought "diplomacy". But what would they then say when New York, LA, Chicago and other major US cities go up in a nuclear explosion with millions of Americans dead and our country crippled? Oh, yeah, they would be equally critical saying "why didn't you do something when you had the chance". I am grateful to have a President who is bold and courageous enough to act when action is necessary. God bless President Trump.
C. M. SalticidaeJune 23, 2025
Being the Commander in Chief doesn't mean that POTUS can launch attacks willy-nilly. Imagine if the Empire of Japan had tried to argue that they weren't at war with the United States just because they had launched a strike on Pearl Harbor. Military strikes are definitionally military actions, which can only take place in a state of war.
JanetJune 23, 2025
Maureen- a perfectly illuminating explanation of the whole problem with the theocracy and politics, Respectfully, there is one problem with “informing“ Congress of actions which are not legally required to be shared is that. Congress leaks to the mainstream media like a sieve and put the whole plan at the least, and at the most the lives of the military involved at grave risk of failure and death.
Scott WJune 23, 2025
How do we square this with D&C 98:33-38? Or this from Mormon 4:4 - "And it was because the armies of the Nephites went up unto the Lamanites that they began to be smitten; for were it not for that, the Lamanites could have had no power over them." Even as wicked as the Nephites were at that time, it was the offensive attack that sealed their fate. Maybe you can say that the Lord doesn't count a one off preemptive offensive strike as war but it is a slippery slope: "And again, this is the law that I gave unto mine ancients, that they should not go out unto battle against any nation, kindred, tongue, or people, save I, the Lord, commanded them."
VictoriaJune 23, 2025
Trump did not need Congress to approve this move. He told Democrats he was doing it according to the press secretary Leavitt. We cannot allow Iran to have a nuclear weapon.
PatJune 23, 2025
Thank you, Maurine. Really good reminder of the whole situation
Sharon O'DonnalJune 23, 2025
Thank you for this podcast. Unlike other scriptures, which are so full of inspiring stories, the D&C seems dull and boring and yet it contains direct words given to a Prophet of our time. I often struggle to recognized the lesson being taught from the D& C and how it applies to me. This podcast touched me. I struggle with thoughts of "do I have anything of worth to verbally contribute, or be viewed as a 'Simpleton'"; especially as an older person in a presidency. This podcast gave me insite to my feelings and confidence to go forward in my calling. Thank you again.
Susan MorrisJune 23, 2025
As a follow-up to Johnson‘s comment, I doubt that the stealth operation would have remained secret had the president done as suggested.
Carol AnnJune 23, 2025
Wonderful article!! Democrats, had they been told, would have eagerly leaked this surprise attack to their counter-parts, the press! The tight security was absolutely necessary and awesome in the Midnight Hammer. Never have I been more proud of all armed servicemen who participated in this mission! God bless America and Israel and our POTUS!
JeaNette Goates SmithJune 23, 2025
It is so nice to have a trusted source put these strikes in perspective. Thank you
Linda PalmerJune 23, 2025
Thank you for your expertise in this conflict. Your firsthand experience lends credibility to your comments. As an American, I’m grateful that the nuclear threat from Iran has been neutralized. I’ve had compassion for the Jewish people and I’m glad they can rest from the nuclear threat, if not from the missiles that still rain into Israel. I disagree with the comment that President Trump should have notified congressional leaders. It is a proven fact that sensitive info has been leaked from Congress for decades. Sharing with Congress would have put our military in jeopardy. The Constitution, Article 2, gave President Trump authority to eliminate the nuclear threat to America. He did not put boots on the ground nor declare war. I’m worried about terrorist threats inside the United States because of the open border policies of the previous administration. I pray that our government can find these terrorists and eliminate the threat. Thank you Maureen.
Robin Litster JohnsonJune 23, 2025
Well said, Maurine! The only flaw in the program was Trump's not consulting Congress, or at least the "Gang of 8," or at least including Congress' two Democrat leaders in the informational sessions. By only including Republicans in his information sessions, it becomes a political issue instead of a national issue. That being said, the military was absolutely brilliant in its planning and execution.
Sonya FlowersJune 22, 2025
A great read. I too am a Merrill descendant. I just visited Hillsborough for the first time. I attended the Commemoration ceremony and Gathering of Descendants. The experience was a powerful one.
Sandy ReddishJune 21, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing these resources. So heartbreaking to see this happening in our countries and the effects on the youth. IT IS SO SO WRONG! Thank you for having the courage to speak up.
JeaNette Goates SmithJune 21, 2025
You might enjoy the book, The Big Necessity. It is a fascinating look at toilets and bathroom habits around the world.
tfJune 21, 2025
This article was very difficult reading for an average person (me), but I have wondered why no follow-up articles have been published. also, there are seven comments, while most recent (say since Covid) articles receive no comments, you did attract some attention.
JaneJune 20, 2025
I love this article! You nailed what it means to be a true disciple! Thank you.
Karen D.June 20, 2025
I appreciate this point of view so much. I am a public school teacher, and I have seen this kind of thinking at work. We had a 6th grade child, who identified as a boy, dressed and looked just like a cute little boy, named Emily. Emily was having significant behavior issues. The district brought in an outside mental health evaluator to do a thorough evaluation. As the evaluator presented her info about affirming this child's identity, we asked about where the findings were about the symptoms we had seen that there had been possible sexual abuse of the child as a young girl. The evaluator had not researched the history in this direction at all, all of her findings were about affirming the gender the child professing, and about how would could affirm her chosen gender. It was then I knew it was a lie. This we not about helping children for her. It was about showing how open-minded and affirming she could be of the movement. I just wanted to tell this poor child that she was a beloved daughter of her Heavenly Father who loved her, but I couldn't. This has got to one one of Satan's best lies.
David CookJune 20, 2025
I predict that anyone who likes this book would also like “The Immortal Mind” by Michael Egnor.
Thomas JohnsonJune 20, 2025
Your concern is that Church members are not fulfilling the Second Commandment. My concern is that Church members are not putting the First Commandment first.
Tom McKnightJune 20, 2025
We are not the product of evolutionary mutations, nor natural selection, as we both well know, Dan. Stranger still is the claim by those who deal with fossils that the Earth's Crust deals in a sort of intelligent selection itself - choosing only to preserve a relatively few species in abundant amounts while selectively passing over the millions of transitional ancestral species without a single specimen! Of course, we are told that this is because of the "imperfection of the fossil record," even though the fossil record has consistently yielded abundant samples of those well-defined and recognized groups. For example, at the latest count, we have discovered around 120 Tyrannosaurus Rex specimens, with about 30 - 40 of those skeletons considered to be reasonably complete. But not a single transitional ancestor at any stage has been found to these 120. That's mathematically impossible, and it is true of every kind of known species. Years ago I found perhaps the most exhaustive list of supposed Transitional Fossils I had ever come across, and I found it in Wikipedia. However, upon close examination I soon found that what the article was attempting to pawn off as “transitional fossils” were fraudulent. Huge gaping chasms existed in every single case. And then, in the article itself, the admission was made that, “Almost all of the transitional forms in this list do not actually represent ancestors of any living group or other transitional forms.” They said "almost all," but the truth was it was "all." And if they do not actually represent ancestors of any living group or other transitional forms, then they do not qualify. Cheers! https://docs.google.com/document/d/1k-WlQUX0m8o3Y2FpLq_aUY8Q_up9BmaagTo2txoV1IQ/edit?pli=1&tab=t.0
Ann-Marie JensenJune 20, 2025
Thanks for this new look at the cross and an excellent reminder of the horizontal obligation.
Ronald BarnesJune 19, 2025
I think the reason we recognize those pictures as that of Joseph is because we have seen them as representing him. I am familiar with the death masks of the brothers and when I first saw the picture in the locket, I immediately thought of Hyrum, not Joeph.
erikpeterhansenJune 19, 2025
If a Latter-day Saint can't seek with all their heart to love their enemies and those with which they don't agree they should not be allowed to hold a temple recommend no matter how much tithing they pay, how many meetings they attend or scriptures they study. If you don't love unconditionally you can't learn in the Temple.
Traci WalkerJune 19, 2025
We love Les Misérables and all it teaches us, we love the other stories you have woven in to these scriptures and we love you!
JeffJune 19, 2025
So true, and so many of us have gotten so caught up in the political climate of fear mongering and hate which are tools of the adversary.So much need to be hopeful, find joy and peace in these tumultuous times, and see the beauty and godliness in everyone around us, especially those that are different than us, less fortunate and in great need of receiving love, acceptance and kindness. We can do better. Let the light of Christ shine in you and through you - and the world will be a better place, Zion for all, not just some.
PeggyJune 18, 2025
Very well written and informative. Thanks. I especially appreciated your closing comments: "Thus, we must be wise as serpents in dealing with the Amalickiahs of our era, but gentle as doves, when possible, in dealing with those whom others may have stirred up to great anger. These are complex times when we need the power of prayer, the power of forgiveness, the power of charity, and the teachings of the prophets and the scriptures, especially the Book of Mormon, more than ever."
K TaylorJune 17, 2025
Good article. I would add that our current President fits the Book of Mormon description of a king man to a tee as he rules by ignoring Constitutional rights, is engaging in ethnic cleansing and is being supported by a very weak senate and house that are doing nothing to stop his illegal acts and to protect the American people from him. Our judiciary is doing its best to stop him but with little success. It appears that there are king men on the right and left and they are all fighting for control of our nation and its people and neither side will let the Constitution get in their way.
Don LaytonJune 17, 2025
"Nature invented..." "Nature invented..." "Nature invented..." "Nature invented..." I'm no brilliant scientist either, but it sure seems that random acts of nature are awfully good at inventing things. Either that, or the experts are.
LoraJune 17, 2025
As a Latter-day Saint, I have long had a problem with evolution because it relies on Death. "Survival of the Fittest" means that the successful mutations will live while the unsuccessful mutations will die. If Death has always been around, then why give Adam and Eve the blame? I've been following a FaceBook page called Biblical Creation, and they have some fascinating insights and fossil proofs that support Genesis, the Creation, and the Flood. Every culture has "dragons" in their mythology. What if that's just another word for "dinosaurs"? Yes, all "educated" people believe in evolution (it's taught at BYU), and I'm sure that anyone who reads this will think I'm some kind of Flat-Earther, but so far Science has not been able to provide even a single missing link showing the evolution of one species into another. There are symbiotic relationships that cannot exist without each other, and too much perfection in our Father's creation for it all to evolve like one long experiment. Of course, everyone has their agency to think whatever they want (we fought a war in heaven and wars on earth to guarantee that), but this is what I believe.
Brad LarsenJune 17, 2025
Excellent commentary on present-day political realities and how they compare to pertinent passages and scenarios found in the Book of Mormon. Thanks!
Jeff LindsayJune 17, 2025
This post with a few added thoughts and updates is available at AriseFromTheDust.com at https://www.arisefromthedust.com/of-nero-king-men-and-flaming-cities/. Many thanks to Maurine Proctor and Meridian Magazine for publishing this and many other articles on related issues such as religious freedom, liberty, social issues, and the riches of the Book of Mormon.
Cynthia CJune 17, 2025
Very illuminating article. Thank you!
Sue AnneJune 16, 2025
I have felt from the beginning that the image was Joseph, and I think that good scientific methods are proving, and will continue to demonstrate, that it is, indeed, the prophet.
MelissaJune 16, 2025
Curious about the previous articles but none of the links work.
SebJune 16, 2025
There is the suggestion to take 1000 mg acetaminophen every six hours. That would be 4000 mg a day. That is the uppermost amount an adult should take. Acetaminophen is a very useful drug. BUT taking to much will kill you by destroying your liver. In most cases this process is irrevocable. Since 4000 mg is the absolute upper limit per day for an adult I would highly advise against taking that amount just because of a cold.
Ruth JamiesonJune 16, 2025
Joseph's death mask looks nothing like that picture to me.
RuthJune 16, 2025
I just recently saw the death mask of Joseph and Hyrum and that picture doesn't look at all like his death mask to me. Maybe Hyrum?
Gordon HensleyJune 16, 2025
Anyone who studies a chart of the metabolic and biochemical processes that power a human body should be amazed at the complexity involved in making and operating a living being. Not to mention the thousands of educated people involved in planning and producing such a chart. Which is a more likely scenario? That some one very intelligent constructed this process, or that it formed from a series of happy accidents involving a set of tools that also assembled themselves.
Dorothy MillerJune 16, 2025
Why does the coca-cola work? Is it simply the carbonation or some ingredient? I am a voice teacher and am.always looking for helps like this for my students as well as myself! Thank you!!
Bob WoodburyJune 16, 2025
The locket with the daguerreotype in it has a much larger metal loop on top than those in the photographs of the Smith women. It’s more accurately depicted in Emma Smith’s portrait. Interesting article, I’m not convinced it’s Joseph Smith after reading this and the first articles about this locket. I look forward to reading the series.
DJJune 15, 2025
Thanks- I printed this out to keep in my medicine cabinet. I contracted Influenza A in the spring and this would have come in handy!
Corey D.June 15, 2025
Great article and thought provoking. I'm a great admirer of Thomas Jefferson and often I think of our present political and social environment and our present leaders and think what a contrast. I have often had the thought, especially when I was still working, if Jesus was a CEO what would that be like ? Thanks again for an interesting article.
Newell D. WrightJune 15, 2025
Excellent article, my friend. I like the idea of generative fathering.
Bob TaylorJune 13, 2025
Regarding national/patriotic hymns - my understanding is that there will be separate "inserts" for these on a country by country basis. Not sure of the details on how this will be done.
LewisJune 13, 2025
What a thoughtful piece! It gives new meaning to service, for how often do we avoid the small unpleasant acts of service. Sometimes I think it is the job no one else wishes to do that the Savior himself would do were he present among us. Thank you again for your gift of drawing important lessons from selfless acts of love.
Rochelle HaleJune 13, 2025
As a recent convert, I received my Patriarchal blessing at about age 16 1/2. It was a beautiful blessing given by our beloved stake patriarch and member of our ward family. Over the next few years, I would read it and mentally check off the things I had accomplished or the blessings I had received. However, another reading would indicate to me that I had a long way to go. It was kind of like the magic you find when reading the Book of Mormon again and again; there is always something new to learn or do.
Roberta HarrisJune 13, 2025
What a great article Becky and we can certainly relate! Urinating in full view in public surprised us on our first visit to India years ago. Easy for the men but not the women! In one area we were in, the church facilitated the construction of multiple toilets at a school where the girls could have the privacy they needed. This definitely increased their attendance. Your stories about the basic requirements of our fellow humans and the solving of our day to day needs are so inspiring. Thank you so much!!
CarolJune 12, 2025
We who live in the United States take the availability of toilets for granted. Thank you for reminding me that the rest of the world is not as lucky. I too believe in keeping our meeting houses clean and neat for all who come to worship the Lord!
Ben TylerJune 12, 2025
Thank you for this story. It reminds me of one of my favorite movies, a Japanese movie called "Perfect Days" about a humble man who cleans toilets in Tokyo for a living.
Gordon HensleyJune 11, 2025
It was only after my children started having their own children (and coming to live in our home) that I realized that having little children running around the place is a special joy. It seems so sweet and I cannot imagine that Heaven would be complete without their sweet little spirits in my life. It would be a shame if that pleasure was limited to just our mortality. Why would we, as worthy immortals, not also experience that joy?
RussJune 11, 2025
I agree. Excellent article, and a topic too often swept aside when it is still a growing and pervasive issue. Thank you for writing about it, and for those who encourage discussion.
Cary HolmquistJune 11, 2025
It’s true! I tell my family this about many things!
CarolynJune 11, 2025
I enjoyed this article very much and learned a great deal about the inner workings of the production. I have a different take on including the interview from The View. Like many, I too find this show offensive, brash, and lacking in social value. What I found profoundly interesting in this interview was seeing a very different side of each of the women of The View. Who knew they could actually be calm, soft spoken, respectful, and yes, even inclusive. This change of behavior came from the very subject matter, our Savior Jesus Christ, His ministry, gospel, and example for all humanity no matter where or when we are born into mortality. He can and does change hearts and behavior. Thank you for your article and everything included in it. Will I watch The View? No, but I have perhaps a bit more tolerance for the women on it, and I certainly have even greater respect for the actor portraying Jesus. His soft spoken courage has given me the courage to testify of the Savior. Thank you.
Doris WilliamsJune 10, 2025
Mariah, I love the Chosen and I loved your article. Your descriptive, sensitive, beautiful writing just brought everything to life regarding The Chosen's production, fan participation, the amazing way things are funded, and each involved person's humility and respect for Jesus' life and works. Thank you so much.
Howard CollettJune 10, 2025
Wonderful story, Mariah! As one who has filmed at Goshen, you did a masterful job of helping me feel I was back! It is truly an amazing set that inspires awe before the cameras start rolling.
Stefanie LittlefieldJune 10, 2025
Great article but didn’t like the video from The View. Why publicize a show that many find offensive? To be an extra does cost a lot of money. I love The Chosen! I feel they do an excellent job of retelling the stories in the Bible.
Jenee LindnerJune 10, 2025
Mariah, What a lovely article about a very worthy subject. It made me think about those years when your family were all here in our ward. I especially remember your family setting up the Christmas crèche displays that your parents had collected all over the world. You and your little sister were so proud having helped set them up and displayed all over your house. Loved that open house and spirit of Christlike radiance found there due to its representation of the Lord’s Errand on this Earth. Rightly so! What a great teaching tool to help teach of the Savior and his important mission to the young and old. It is nice to see the crèches at the Washington DC temple visitor center during the Christmas season each year where they were donated when you all left. But, the remembrance of you and your sister’s soulful eyes that lit up as you ‘tour guided’ us from room to room in your home will always be with me as a precious memory. Because of your parents goodly influence, the apple does not fall far from the tree. God Bless❤️
Toni LyonsJune 10, 2025
I really enjoyed this article about The Chosen, the crowd funding, the chances for anyone to participate, etc. I didn't like the video with The View. I know there are other interviews with Jonathan that are more inspiring than bringing up this TV show which I find offensive. I guess you have your reasons.
ChrisJune 9, 2025
Excellent article. No comments? Because no one wants to discuss this in the church. We still hang on to the ridiculous belief that if we ignore the issue of porn use with young and old alike, and pretend it's not happening, it will just go away. No it won't! As an addict living in recovery and as an ARP missionary, I know there is a real problem, and almost all men, and most young people, will not be honest about their porn use with spouse, parents, or bishop. That could change with some open and honest discussions in our wards and stakes. It's time to let go of the fear and shame around this and be willing to actually do something to help heal our brothers and sisters.
HelenCJune 9, 2025
Dr. Dan, as your Very Favorite Brit I’ve had to do some hard thinking about Elizabeth I, especially in her later years, and I would like to apply Anna Leonowens quote to her but there were definitely times when she didn’t try as hard as she could have. For example, her treatment of the sailors who were released after her Navy’s success over Spain, then left to beg or starve on the streets of England. Her father, Henry VIII, was similar but, I think, more culpable in wrong-doing. I wonder what kind of people both would have been had they not worn the crown? Not a job I would ever want, that’s for sure!
JohnJune 9, 2025
Ponder why president Nelson thought it was significant that Christ appeared at the Temple? Also ponder 3 Nephi 18:25. Which is a footnote from 3 Nephi 11:15 Then ponder the Temple. And one of the main purposes of the Temple?
Gordon HensleyJune 9, 2025
We may not have the pedigree that Catholics and Orthodox claim, but we are believers in Christ. That is the baseline for being defined as a Christian. We can all agree that there is only one man who is called, in our language, Jesus Christ, the Son of God, the Messiah. Who gets to decide who is a Christian? Does it matter that other churches won't let you have a golden ticket embossed with the word Christian? The Jews are not Christian, yet they are still considered to be The Chosen People.
John HillJune 9, 2025
Very interesting article, Dan! I love reading your interesting insights from your many travels. Grateful for having learned from you when our lives overlapped in Egypt!
Rochelle HaleJune 9, 2025
As I began reading your article, my first thought was of Anna Leonowens, speaking of the King of Siam, "I don't think any man has ever been as good a king as he could have been. But this one tried. He tried very hard." In the movie, "The King and I" the king is portrayed as one who tried hard given his circumstances and personal understanding of power, culture, societal expectations, etc. You have provided new insight (and reason to study) of many of those we have taken for granted as great leaders. While it is true that great things may have been accomplished (i.e., the unification of Hawaii), we need to ponder what cost, sacrifice, or detriment was involved. Did the end truly justify the means?
Annie JensenJune 8, 2025
Thank you for this well-researched information!
RobertJune 6, 2025
The Church in essence recognizes/acknowledges same sex marriage as it is "legal" by law. That recognition/acknowledgement absolutely doesn't approve, authorize or condone same sex marriages in any kind of doctrine or Church related setting such as meeting house or Temple.. In essence it is an acknowledgement that they "exist" in the world. Same with gambling, addiction to substances and many other. Just because "it's legal" doesn't make it morally right or that God has to accept it. He won't. In terms of members marriage. All a marriage between people in a meeting house is only for time, not eternity unless they go thru the Temple, are sealed, lived true and faithful lives and it is ratified by the Holy Spirit of Promise. Temple sealings, like any other ordinance, are a "promissory note" until that marriage is ratified by the Holy Spirit of Promise. "Thus if both parties are 'just and true,' if they are worthy, a ratifying seal is placed on their temple marriage; if they are unworthy, they are not justified by the Spirit and the ratification of the Holy Ghost is withheld. Subsequent worthiness will put the seal in force, and unrighteousness will break any seal." https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/eternal-marriage-student-manual/holy-spirit-of-promise?lang=eng In the end the ONLY marriage that God will ultimately approve is a marriage where all involved have been true and faithful to their covenants, the Gospel, and qualify for the highest level of the Celestial Kingdom. All other marriages are completely and totally meaningless and void in the hereafter. Its much better to repent in this life and not wait. as it's much harder to repent in the hereafter. Satan wants you to delay, wait, and procrastinate repentance.
DJJune 6, 2025
Thanks for the great article
Scott JohnsonJune 6, 2025
Why is logic so difficult for a modern society. Because we have made human sexuality so 'sexual', we cannot imagine our 'mom and dad' enjoying a physical process of 'Knowing' each other. When Joseph said "that which is without body parts and passions is nothing" he was teaching something far greater than the words. Body, parts passions. We need to think more clearly about who we really are. And the same is true with our LGBTQ brothers and sisters. Thanks for the writing. Looking forward to more.
JuliannJune 6, 2025
Great counsel. I will use it for other betrayals. Thank you
Ruben CoutoJune 6, 2025
If I may, I share here an article I wrote about the interpretation of the text of Genesis 2:18-20, in which the woman is described as being the man's helper: https://vidaemabundancia.blogspot.com/2025/06/mulher-ajudadora-genesis-218-20.html?m=0 (The article is in portuguese, but you may activate the automatic translation at the right top menu.)
Steven S.June 6, 2025
It is time for the church to canonized the The Family Promulgation.
Michelle LlewellynJune 5, 2025
Articles like this really make you stop and think, how many YSA men in the church not already addicted to porn and gaming are crying themselves to sleep every night because they yearn to be husbands and fathers and mourn how it is not good for man be alone yet can't seem to find a good LDS woman under age 35 who also yearns to fill the measure of her creation. We should hold a special church-wide fast for these poor, poor, young men that they won't have to wait until " the next life" to see their dreams of temple marriage and family formation realized.
Kathryn AmesJune 5, 2025
We are surely looking forward to this and love the story about it. Is there any hoped for "completion date" ?
JeffJune 4, 2025
Anonymous, how long have you been hurting?
Debra BallJune 4, 2025
Our family is going to attend the Salt Lake City Temple in August/Sept. of 2027. I would love to take my children, grandchildren and a couple of greats to see this garden. Do you think this will be close to finished by then?
Kathleen MortensenJune 4, 2025
This is wonderful. For anyone who doesn’t want to wait for the completion of this park you should visit the similarly themed park at Thanksgiving Point in Lehi, Utah. It is inspiring for young and old alike.
KWJune 4, 2025
I dont think the LGBTQ community will be happy with anything less than a doctrinal change to include same sex marriage, sanctioned by the church. Untill then, there will be many who will be offended at every talk given on the doctrine of the family. Elder Packer was criticised after every General Conference talk. It's not going to change.
AleceJune 4, 2025
My problem is not with the new songs, it is with the release of them ahead of the printing of the hymnal. Most people don't understand that making "booklets" or "folders" of these hymns as they are released is very expensive -- both in cost of materials, as well as in the time spent to create the booklets or folders, clean print the hymns in each release, and then add the new pages to the folders. For our ward, it has actually cost about 300 dollars per release to print the new pages; and about 12 hours, minimum, per release just to put the new pages in the booklets/folders. So far, our ward alone has spent about a thousand dollars to create and print the current collection of 37 new hymns and place them in booklets or folders. (Our folders are used by 4 congregations; and our Stake has followed our ward in creating folders for all three of our buildings; so the cost for the Stake is triple what our ward has spent!) Right now, each of these folders is worth over five dollars -- which, I think, will definitely exceed the cost per hymnal when they are finally produced; and each new release will only add to that cost, per folder -- with the folders eventually being tossed when the new hymnals come out. I'm not sure those involved in releasing these new songs in this fashion considered such an expensive and time consuming task when they decided to release the songs in batches ahead of the printing of the hymnal! Perhaps they thought everyone would use the digital form of the hymns instead of the printed form, but it is definitely hard to read an unfamiliar song, presented with both music and lyrics, on a cell phone sized screen; so most people would probably not bother to try to sing the hymn when presented in that fashion. Just an FYI from the Music Chairman of our Ward!!
David CookJune 4, 2025
I would like to know what brought about her change in attitude toward the phone? Is there a way there to encourage others to do the same?
Rebecca JohnsonJune 4, 2025
I love the new hymns and look forward to all of them. But, America, the Beautiful and the Star-Spangled Banner will not be in it? The land prophets have foretold to be the place of the Restoration, the place of the New Jerusalem? America is not just for Americans, it is for all members of the Church. Did I read this correctly? SO very sad to see this de-emphasis of the home of the Restoration! What is happening here?
Lorna HamblinJune 4, 2025
Everything you’ve said is absolutely true and helpful. I did all of this. I also found journaling and corresponding with a friend who was going through a divorce helped me process the pain. Journaling helped me understand what happened and why, and helped earn me learn from the trauma. I went to a 12 step for codependents of addicts and worked hard to lose the behaviors I’d acquired in the dysfunctional marriage. It all worked out. Second marriage is fabulous.
Richard JukesJune 4, 2025
Thank you for sharing this wonder news! We really look to visiting this monumental new site.
Sally SmithJune 3, 2025
I can remember when the church really encouraged the women to get married and have children. Then the equal rights amendment was passed, gas prices started going up and the rlghts of women became a new war cry with Peter, Paul and Mary. Satan knew what he was doing with the advent of Haight Ashbury and free love without marriage. His goal was to destroy the family and it looks like that finally happened.
(Anonymous, please.)June 3, 2025
It's never stopped hurting.
Traci WalkerJune 3, 2025
Oh Scot and Maurine, Thanks for taking us along with your pictures and words! They provide a precious new angle on this much-loved series about Jesus. Who knew that our church would be providing exactly the realism that was need on the Jerusalem set? He did! Continuing revelation is such a gift.
Rochelle HaleJune 3, 2025
I served a foreign mission and have traveled to many places, but not nearly as extensively as I would like. How wonderful it will be when we can see and experience all the wonders of the earth. We can travel with our ancestors or others to see where and how they lived. We won't have to worry about having period-appropriate clothing, coinage, or the comforts of cell phones or running water. We will be able to experience life through their stories, learn that many of their hardships were not as difficult as we think (from our perspective). Often when I read the Book of Mormon, I am reminded of the great ability to use many types of ore, building materials, make tools, etc. We will learn how past generations made their physical lives more comfortable and what allowed them to invite God or any God-like attributes into their lives during their mortality. More than the places "we'll go," I look forward to rekindling relationships with loved ones who really just lived around the corner.
Nate CarterJune 2, 2025
My wife and I had 6. We frequently faced condescending, sneering comments like "Don't you know how it works?" This article fails to mention the largest factor, at least in the US, for declining birth rates. It's money printing, and the resulting inflation. It used to be that a middle class family could survive on one income, leaving one parent to be full time at home. Taking the dollar off the gold standard in the early seventies doomed that quality of life to destruction.
MaryannJune 2, 2025
This is one of the best articles I have read and opens our eyes to a very dangerous trend. We MUST speak out for truth. We cannot water it down so that no one will be "offended." Kindness is NOT withholding true doctrine. I loved Elder Jeffrey R. Holland's powerful talk where he strongly emphasized that the Savior did not ever, even once, justify sin. We are ambassadors for our Savior and we need to teach His doctrine without apology.
MaryannJune 2, 2025
This story made me smile. Sometimes the right connections take place in a very round-about way. Mike will find someone else, and it's all good!
MaryannJune 2, 2025
I have loved this quote from Brigham Young and feel excited to view all of these things---the earth at the dawn of its' creation, the Garden of Eden, the Holy Land at the time of the Savior--it is thrilling to think about. We will have so many limitations removed from us when we leave this earth. It will also be glorious to be free from physical pain and mental imperfections.
MaryannJune 2, 2025
Wow, this was such great advice for so many of us! I especially liked the phrase about our happiness not being dependent on our children's lives going smoothly. It is hard to cut the apron strings sometimes, and even harder to learn to be happy when our kids are struggling. It isn't that we shouldn't care or never be concerned. But it is easy to make the mistake of getting bogged down in our kid's lives and choices. The Lord sent them here to learn and experience their own path. We cannot walk it for them. We are called upon to love our children, but we will soon be burned out if we try to carry their burdens along with our own. Bearing their burdens means to love, encourage and give appropriate help WHEN ASKED. It does not being unhappy every time they are unhappy. I cannot bleed every time my child cuts themselves.
Sister Daphne TomlinsonJune 2, 2025
I read a book once by Paul McKenna called "Get Control of Sugar Now" which helped me understand what Insulin Resistance was and how much Sugar there is in Supermarket food including Processed food. Had anyone prayed about it to get help from Heavenly Father to know if it really is good or bad.
Laurin G. Rackham DMDJune 2, 2025
Thank you. I (Pediatric Dentist) have often said that soda pop is nothing more than "Palatal Pornography' and should be taxed to death!
Gary StrobleJune 2, 2025
Also, the death of a righteous Saint is never a surprise to the Lord.
ShaunaJune 2, 2025
Thank you. What a beautiful message. I am inspired by your choice to have faith, in such difficult circumstances. Hugs to you and your precious family
Steven S.June 2, 2025
Unless the Father has called you home for a brief purpose, you would not yet comprehend how celestial travel is accomplished. Even Brigham Young did not explicitly explain the mechanics of such travel. Let me punctuate this point: there is no need for a prophet to detail the workings of celestial movement. It is divinely orchestrated and beyond mortal comprehension. One must experience the process more than once to truly grasp its nature. As a noteworthy pattern, consider both the First Vision and the visitation of Moroni. What is the first thing that occurs in each? Revelation is always preceded by divine preparation. Furthermore, we do not know with certainty the exact sequence of events during the opening of the heavens in the First Vision. It is possible that Joseph first beheld the Father through that celestial conduit, followed by the appearance of the Son. The Prophet's record affirms their distinct presence, though the precise divine order remains spiritually profound and sacred. There are accounts from those who have received the calling and election made sure, the more sure word of prophecy, who testify of beholding the throne of God and the Son together. Through that sacred conduit, they witness Them standing not in this world, but in a realm of celestial manifestation beyond the veil.
JoanJune 2, 2025
Thank you for your article. I needed that reminder of the fact that we don’t have to be alone in our pains and suffering. Thank you for the reminder that our Savior is always there.
ValJune 2, 2025
You have presented so much good wisdom here. Thank you.
HelenCJune 2, 2025
Thank you. I’ve found myself offering thanks to God during our recent trials and it definitely helps. Your article made me realize I probably have some repenting to do. Not sure what from, precisely, but I’m sure He will help me find it.
NealJune 1, 2025
We were created in God's image..."Male and female created he them."
Larraine MooreJune 1, 2025
Thank you for this sermon which has lifted my heart in a way I had not anticipated. All three of my adopted children have strayed off the covenant path. One is transgender. He has recently moved in with my middle child, his sister, and we have become empty nesters. I have refocused my energy to going to the temple daily and doing two endowments a day! Still it hurts. A friend who I had not talked to in years spoke of you and how working in another part of the vineyard and being patient and letting the Lord do His work is showing my faith. I had never put the story of Sherem and Jacob’s allegory together in this way of personal development and change. This was amazing and healing to read. I will continue to wait upon the Lord. Thank you!!
Ms CatMay 31, 2025
I believe She has been there from the beginning, right up until now, a participant in all of our historical events and I don't believe She has been silently but that even plain and precious things about Her and words from Her have cut out of scriptures. We are Her work and why wouldn't She be there, everywhere and be a part of it all...when Earth was creat, when Adam and Eve were created, when the City of Enoch was taken up, when the Earth was flooded and most of the people, animals and creatures died, when Noah and his family landed, and millions of other examples. Just because we've read nothing, heard nothing and know very little, doesn't mean She wasn't there, doesn't mean She was silent. What it all means is that we don’t know, that's all it means.
Kelly PetersonMay 30, 2025
We can’t wait!!!!
ShaunaMay 30, 2025
thank you. I try to support parents and young families in every way I can and freely talk about the joy of motherhood whenever it comes up, but especially with my own girls. There is nothing more fulfilling, powerful or purposeful than having a family. It saddens me deepy that so many women have bought into Satan's lies that marriage and children are a trap. Without the formation of families, the "whole earth is utterly wasted," says the Lord. I highly recommend Julie B Beck's talk "Teaching the Doctrine of the Family," which does an excellent job of outlining for young people the importance and "theology" of the family. We spend so much time and effort preparing our youth for 'careers," but what about parenthood?
DarylMay 30, 2025
Maybe you could suggest that your daughter talk to a stepparent so she can better prepare herself for her wonderful new family. At 40 I married a man with three children (8,10,12). It was the hardest thing I had ever done. I was independent, invested in my career, and treasured my privacy. My mother never doubted me and embraced her new grandchildren. We dealt with shared custody, homes with different rules, financial disagreements with the ex etc. Each day brought a new and unexpected challenge. But we made it. It has been 35 years. My adult step children are my best friends.
Judith La MontagneMay 30, 2025
I very much appreciate the great importance you have shown in "getting it right" in your series. This series will be undying. Our family here in Iowa are some of your biggest fans. We belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and very much appreciate your outstanding efforts to "get it right." It was obviously no accident that our Church built this Jerusalem set several years ago! Thank you so much for the tremendous detail work you have put into this series!
AsibongMay 30, 2025
Thank you for your comments on this topic , I find them quite insightful . In my opinion, I feel Heavenly Mother is very busy in the business of nurturing and getting spirit children ready for their mortal Journey. It would be too much responsibility to get her involved in mortal affairs; hence, the silence about her on earth. In Summary, I see this as a division of labor . Heavenly mother nurtures and prepares spirit children for the journey of mortality , and heavenly father brings to pass the immortality and eternal life of man. They both play a significant role in our existence from Pre-Mortal, Mortal and Post Mortal. I believe more will be revealed in the fullness of time.
HelenCMay 30, 2025
I’ve become so engaged in the characters in this amazing series that I’m actually not sure I can watch this season! I know He suffered and that, no doubt, we were involved as the heavens wept, I’m just not sure I can watch it again, even knowing it’s only a dramatization.
Kathaleen MayMay 30, 2025
I was there the as an extra the day you were there! I wish I had seen you! Such a privilege to contribute in some small way. I think people are sometimes confused by "Mormons" loving The Chosen because they believe we are not Christian. It is a great missionary tool to be able to use the church's set, and hopefully there is more love and understanding between all followers of Christ!
HelenCMay 30, 2025
Well said. It’s still hard to watch them make choices that may bring them misery but as my middle son once told me, “I know I’m making mistakes but at least you know they’re MY mistakes.” The hardest part? Not WORRYING about them. That just makes two people miserable. When I find myself doing it I get on my knees. We can always pray for them. Father knows why He’s doing and His Son’s Atonement truly does have the power to save in ways we cannot imagine.
JulieMay 29, 2025
I'm excited for these new hymns and songs. One of my concerns though is what the weight of the large print Hymnbook with 500 pieces of music will be. As an Organist/pianist my load of 'stuff' I have to take to church each Sunday already takes 2 bags.
Gary StrobleMay 29, 2025
There is a temple in Kansas City, Missouri also; not far from Liberty Jail.
Gary LawrenceMay 29, 2025
Nice trip down the history of names. We are indeed the re-established original.
CodyMay 29, 2025
Excellent! Thank you! I feel like I should say that tone of voice matters, a lot. And if you know you are unaware of how your tone is coming off, explain the tone you are trying to take. It makes a difference! Example: if you sound frustrated as the listener because you have some stressors going on that you haven’t been able to set aside, tell them you are not frustrated with them. And then tell them what you understood from the conversation and validate, like the article says. Or if you are trying to sound one way as either the speaker or listener and the other person is responding way differently than what you think they should, check your tone.
Chris MiltimoreMay 28, 2025
Ted Parsons was a beacon of faith then and he is one now. He has inspired many, including me, to be a better version of themselves. What a wonderful story and inspiration.
HansMay 28, 2025
Don’t worry, Mike. You still came out ahead. Any woman who would break a date for another one, isn’t worth the trouble. Her loss…your gain.
Marianne PaventyMay 28, 2025
Thank you for speaking of our Divine Mother as a distinct and sovereign being. I agree with you that She has Her own power, Her own roles, Her own majesty. I also agree with you that we should not “crush” Her to fit into the mold we would have Her fill- one that we can comprehend. I think it is human nature to try to fit God in all forms into our own experience and limited understanding instead of expanding our own minds and hearts to be able to comprehend Their true natures. We all do it to some extent. The prayer of my heart is to see and know and understand God as They truly are, not as I hope or desire Them to be. With that said, I also think we put Them into unnecessary boxes when we make definitive statements about Them- like “She is silent,” or “Jesus never spoke of Her” — this immediately limits and puts blinders on our own comprehension, “crushes” Her down to fit our understanding, and shoves Her into our mortal-made box. In my own personal study and experience, I hear Her speaking with power in Proverbs 8, I see Her as the Tree of Life in Lehi and Nephi’s visions, offering Her beloved fruit/Son to us, I hear Her Son honoring Her and speaking of Her often in apocryphal texts, I also feel Her within me and see Her woven throughout the fibers of all life and love. Oh what a treasure trove of finding Her all throughout scripture and experience awaits you and anyone else who simply chooses to open their minds and hearts to Her! You will see Her everywhere, feel Her always with you, and will never be the same again and never be able to unsee Her.
Amy SedgwickMay 28, 2025
I really appreciate the precision and reverence in your reflections here, especially as you point out Her apparent silence. But I’ve come to see each of these very moments as places pregnant with Her presence—not in absence, but in symbol, archetype, and spiritual pattern. Here’s what others and I have come to understand through deeper study and prayer: • In the Garden of Eden: While Heavenly Mother is not explicitly named, Eve is Her echo. As “the mother of all living,” Eve embodies Her essence. Many believe Eve’s courage to choose mortality was a direct reflection of the Divine Feminine’s wisdom and will. Eve is Her archetype—ushering souls into the mortal journey, as the Mother would. • To Enoch: In Moses 7, Enoch weeps when he sees the suffering of the world—but the one who teaches him divine compassion is the weeping God. This image, of a God who mourns, comforts, and yearns, may contain the voice of the Mother. Some even see Enoch’s own transformation into a nurturer and comforter as inspired by the Divine Feminine. • The Burning Bush: The bush burned with fire but was not consumed—a symbol of divine presence in nature, in life, in paradox. The flame that nurtures without devouring has long been understood as a feminine archetype. The bush—living, rooted, aflame—is a perfect metaphor for Her. • To Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob: While the covenants are made with patriarchs, the symbols of those covenants—fertility, land flowing with milk and honey, stars and sand—are feminine metaphors. Sarah, Rebekah, and Rachel are not footnotes; they are covenantal vessels. Through them, the promises are literally and symbolically fulfilled. And Asherah, the feminine consort of El, was worshipped by early Israelites before being obscured. • To Mary and Elizabeth: She is there—in Mary’s womb, in her song. The Magnificat is the voice of the Daughter of God filled with Divine Feminine fire: “He hath filled the hungry with good things.” Many scholars believe Mary echoes Wisdom/Sophia here. Elizabeth, filled with the Holy Spirit, names what is sacred. The meeting of these women is one of the most feminine and spiritually powerful scenes in scripture. • At Christ’s Baptism: While we hear the Father’s voice and see the Spirit descend “like a dove,” the dove has long been a symbol of the Mother. In many cultures and languages, the Holy Spirit is feminine (ruach, ruha). The moment of divine birth into ministry includes the full Godhead—perhaps She is present as the Spirit Herself. • In the First Vision: Though only the Father and Son were seen, what Joseph felt—a burst of uncreated light, love surpassing description—may have included Her. And She is there in symbol: the Sacred Grove itself is a grove of trees—ancient archetypes of the Divine Feminine and the Tree of Life. If She was not seen, perhaps She was felt, or embodied in the very setting where Heaven touched Earth. Some have even whispered of alternate First Vision accounts where a divine feminine presence is suggested—though elusive, the idea lingers. And then there’s the verse that launched it all: “If any of you lack wisdom…” (James 1:5). In ancient scripture, Wisdom is a woman—Chokhmah, Sophia. Could it be that Joseph’s seeking heart was answered by both Heavenly Parents? If the Father spoke, perhaps the Mother stood beside Him, as She always has, just beyond the veil of our perception. In all these stories, Her presence may not have been named—but like the moon, She reflects and radiates light in ways that are easy to miss unless we are looking with a soft gaze and a listening heart. Her silence may not be absence—it may be invitation.
Kerry FarrMay 27, 2025
My ways are not your ways, My thoughts not your thoughts. We might not know more about Heavenly Mother while we are in this earthly state because our mortal minds could not comprehend the way their Godhood partnership works…
Kerry FarrMay 27, 2025
I have always had a longing for Her. Have a need for her example and mentoring. Maybe it has been silently there … I can’t imagine that she would not have somehow been there when Her Beloved Son paid the ultimate price. Maybe she was the “ angel” who came to comfort and support in the Garden of Gethsemane. I’m waiting eagerly to know her better
David MalpasMay 27, 2025
As I understand there is no other Christian denomination that teaches anything about the existence of a "Heavenly Mother". (As we know they have no idea of what the Godhead is like anyway, believing that the Father is some nebulous Spirit that floats around the Universe and the false doctrine of the "three-in-one Trinity"). And She is not openly mentioned in the Bible. I don't know if reference to Her has been removed in an earlier time, by "evil and designing men" but I do wonder this. We all know that the names of the Father and the Son are commonly used as swear words. Especially in that last few years, movies and "entertainment" are filled with profanity. I wonder if our Father, in His adoration, love and respect for Her, has kept Her mostly hidden from the world as He will not allow Her, or Her name, to be misused, sullied or disrespected in any way. He is protecting Her from those in this world who would misuse and abuse the very thought of Her, as they have with His name and that of the Savior. It makes sense to me that He would do this.
Warren AstonMay 27, 2025
Kimberly, thank you mentioning our Heavenly Mother in a public forum. That alone is much needed. When I first read your article, I felt the need to respond to many aspects of it; for example, that you don't see scriptural mentions of Her - She is all through Scripture, the Bible and the Book of Mormon in particular. She is there in sacred, especially Jewish, history. But in reading the comments, I see that almost all that I would have written is covered by others. So, I invite you to consider their offerings, and to expand your views include a MUCH broader awareness and understanding. You will then begin to see that while the Mother has indeed been minimized by the traditions of men, She has always been here helping us manage our journey through mortality. I believe that one day the final veil obscuring her will be removed and we will all discover that She has been involved in our mortality much more intimately and closely than we dreamed. A full and complimentary partnership with the Father. If She is the mother our spirits, how could it be otherwise?
Amanda Lynn BlairMay 27, 2025
I have reread your words and I appreciate them even more the second time. They make me think of the recent theological conversation about all power to act in Gods name being priesthood power that comes from the Father. But that has made me uncomfortable. I did not grow life and give birth through the power of the Father, I do not continue to create and connect through the power of the Father alone. She has her own power, and Her own voice and She is agentic. Saying so does not put Her at odds with the Father. Unity can only exist if there is l more than one in the first place. And I don’t mean this in some kind of complimentarianism. She is a whole sovereign being and He is a whole sovereign being and yet they are one. This is my belief. And it is also my belief that we can’t possibly do the work of building Zion without our Mother. She is not superfluous or replaceable in the here and now.
JocelynMay 27, 2025
There is so much of the Mother in scripture! While some publicly express a wish to know more, others quietly testify that they already do because they have asked, seeked, knocked and the veil has been parted for them. Such are given eyes to see Her in scripture and feel Her with every breath. For those still seeking here is some scriptural and archaeological evidence for the Mother. https://youtu.be/qvCx7K200wQ?si=gT8BUwPoEVxU-XCf Here are some of her names in scripture https://youtu.be/qvCx7K200wQ?si=gT8BUwPoEVxU-XCf And here are the patterns of her found in her daughters in scripture. https://youtu.be/iMPo_E6NdU4?si=hrmI_x-LRfLzdErh Truly, speculation is not necessary when revelation is so readily available! Blessings
Meg RittmanicMay 27, 2025
I appreciate the focus on our Heavenly Mother and the powerful truth you convey about Her speaking to our hearts and minds. Personal revelation and connection with Her in this way is indeed profoundly comforting. However, I do have to contend with the second sentence in this article which says “our Cannon says nothing”. My own extensive study has revealed that, far from being silent, She does indeed speak and is referenced through various names, metaphors, and personifications that require a deeper study of the original Hebrew linguistics of the Bible. In my studies, I have found over 2550 references to God the Mother in the Old Testament alone. For instance, The name El Shaddai (אֵל שַׁדַּי), often translated as "God Almighty," is used frequently in blessings pertaining to fruitfulness and posterity, particularly in the blessings given to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob of which the author mentioned in the article. The etymology of Shaddai is linguistically significant in connection to a God with breasts, one that nurtures and nurses. Suggesting a divine aspect intimately connected to sustaining, nurturing, and providing abundance—qualities powerfully associated with the Divinely Feminine attributes of Heavenly Mother. Furthermore, the very names of God in the Old Testament offer subtle yet profound allusions to the Divine Feminine, a nuance often lost in translation. Consider the foundational Hebrew names: El (אֵל), the singular masculine form of God, stands in sacred relationship with Eloah (אֱלוֹהַּ), the singular feminine form. Together, they form Elohim (אֱלֹהִים), a majestic plural often referring to both Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother working in perfect concert. Because scripture so frequently uses this plural form, implicitly encompassing both, we can safely embrace the understanding that our Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother function as a unified team, working tirelessly for the salvation of humankind. Often, the words attributed to "God" or "the Lord" in scripture are, in fact, the shared pronouncements of this divine partnership. Yet, while they operate in perfect unity, they are undeniably distinct individuals, each with Their own voice and unique contributions to our eternal progress. Indeed, there are compelling instances where Eloah speaks for Herself. For example, a faithful translation of Proverbs 30:5 reads: "Every word of Eloah is pure; She is a shield to those who put their trust in Her." This direct address from the Divine Feminine powerfully demonstrates Her active voice and protective nature within the scriptural record. Therefore, continuing to perpetuate the idea that Heavenly Mother "never speaks" or "is never mentioned" in scripture, unfortunately, carries forward a historical tradition of misinformation rather than illuminating the profound truths that attentive study and reverence for the original text can reveal. It's crucial to understand that the perception of scriptural "silence" on Heavenly Mother often stems from centuries of complex biblical translation processes. As texts moved from their original Hebrew into later Greek, Latin, and ultimately English versions, theological biases, patriarchal contexts of the time, and interpretive choices profoundly impacted the visibility of the Divine Feminine in the text. What were once explicitly feminine names or concepts were often deliberately obscured or converted into masculine forms, effectively erasing Her presence from common understanding. This historical obfuscation has created a pervasive, yet inaccurate, belief that the scriptures contain no mention of Her.
Julie HousleyMay 27, 2025
This is an excellent concept, when we love others we have the true blessing of more love then we could ever imagine coming back to us from others❤️so we don't need to worry so much about "self love!" We are taken care of in this regard.
Mel HendersonMay 27, 2025
I so appreciate that thoughtful writers like you are choosing to write about Heavenly Mother. I don't disagree with your thesis—Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother are, truly, NOT the same—but I believe you've arrived at it your thesis through a lens of very incomplete history and a lens that seems designed to reassure patriarchal insecurities (the idea that good women don't overstep by "seeking" her; they "let her be"...?)—instead of wholistic doctrines of being equally yoked. I agree: If the Mother's presence were just a mirror of the Father's presence, she would be redundant. Unnecessary. I don't believe we should be "pasting" Her on top of Him. HER presence is the missing piece. Her absence is half of the map tjat we need to be whole. She is the nourishment that we've been trying to survive without. I believe what the Mother brings is wholly aligned in love and purpose with the Father, but wholly DIFFERENT and wholly ESSENTIAL. Humanity is self-destructing without her.
Rachel PierceMay 27, 2025
Loved this perspective, it is definitely food for thought and brings up ideas I’ve never thought of before! I don’t know what the answers all are, but when things like this are brought up, it just reaffirms to me that my mortal understanding is so limited and their is an eternity of learning to do! Thank you Kimberly for your thoughts and research and putting your ideas out there!
Ashli CarnicelliMay 27, 2025
While I appreciate what you are trying to say and appreciate your thesis, have you read Joseph Smith’s First Vision that includes Heavenly Mother? Have you read the countless quotes from Prophets and Apostles and the Gospel Topics Essay that contains 30 footnotes with references to the scriptures and other prophetic teachings that speak of Her, Her role, and Her importance with clarity? Have you considered that any silence around Her is not of God?
Susan MorrisMay 27, 2025
Believing that mortal life is a shadow of immortal life, both premortal and post-mortal, I assume that the roles of men and woman have always been distinct and yet complementary and cooperative. If "the faithful elders of this dispensation, when they depart from mortal life, continue their labors in the preaching of the gospel of repentance and redemption (D&C 138:57), what do the faithful women do? I seems likely to me that they continue nurturing their family members as "guardian angels," if you will, which they probably also did in premortality. And that there are overlapping efforts in missionary work and family work there, as there also are here.
Amanda Lynn BlairMay 27, 2025
She is the tree, She is Wisdom, She is the Mother of all living, She is the woman searching for the lost coin. The scriptures are full of Her. She is present in the parting of the vail between this world and the world that came before (childbirth). Just because we haven’t noticed Her presence or recorded it (perhaps just like so little of the feminine experience of the Divine is recorded at all in scripture, it being a record mainly of the Fathers interactions with His sons) doesn’t mean She isn’t there. I value your reverence for Her here and your belief in Her existence as a sovereign being who is not the Father. And, I’ve had too many experiences and heard too many experiences from others to agree that She isn’t here and hasn’t been present for this mortal experience.
Laura CopeMay 27, 2025
I have had my own wrestle with the absence of our Mother in Heaven. I have learned for myself that she IS in the scriptures for those that have eyes to see. If you study the history of the Bible, she has largely been taken out in several ways. The overall tone of this article is poor and unhelpful as it perpetuates more of her silence (which is cultural and not doctrine!) Missing the mark, she is everywhere for those who have eyes to see. She and our Father point me to Christ and Christ leads me to Them (as they are side by side- according to the gospel topics essay on Mother in Heaven which has been declared doctrine by Elder Renlund) we should celebrate Her! We know much more than people realize!!!
McArthur KrishnaMay 27, 2025
There is much to celebrate in an article talking about our Heavenly Mother! This doctrine and reality give so much joy. As the author says, Eve is a great example and we honor her. Let’s honor Heavenly Mother too! And, while I do not think Heavenly Mother is the same as the Father (which seems to be the main concern of the author), we DO know some about how They are. What doctrine we as a church know can be found in the Gospel Topics Essay according to Elder Renlund in General Conference. That essay explains how our heavenly parents are “side by side” and “working together” for the salvation of Their children. It talks about our Mother being involved and the eternal prototype for women. It’s glorious to embrace this! I do, however, have a few points I differ with the author. 1. We actually don’t know if Heavenly Mother spoke and participated. We have what was recorded and mistranslated and edited— not always done with righteous motives. 2. Elohim in the Bible can refer to both Father and Mother. It doesn’t always— but it can. 3. There are many beautiful scriptures with female deity analogy such as a hen gathering her chicks. 4. A female god WAS worshipped until Josiah did a purge to centralize worship (and tax collecting) in one place. How might the scriptures be different if “plain and precious” truths weren’t lost? All that said, we believe in personal revelation. There are many people who are having incredible experiences with their Mother— Cherish 1 and Cherish 2 are just small collections that highlight these. Isn’t it exciting to know our Mother loves us! While we speak of Her with respect (just as we do with the Father and Son), leaving Her out altogether is not respect… just neglect.
David A Watson, DDSMay 27, 2025
I would respectively disagree. In Genesis 5:3 God created man in the likeness of God. Male and female created He them and called their name Adam. There are numerous times when Adam is mentioned, and it means both Adam and Eve. God has commanded us to become one, as He and Christ are one. Moses 7:18, 1 Cor. 1:10, John 17:20-23, and D&C 38:27. I believe that when God speaks, they both speak because have become one. We have been commanded to be one as couples in the Temple also. I think they are truly one and speak as one.
PeggyMay 27, 2025
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this! Thanks so much for sharing your insights so beautifully. I hope I can share and retain this soul-satisfying understanding. Also I love the book you co-authored!
HelenCMay 27, 2025
Beautifully said; thank you. It reminds me of the saying I have long used: “If you and I were exactly alike, one of us would be unnecessary.” This is particularly true of our God-given genders. I am not a feminist, I am female. To me, “ist” is like “ite” in 3 Nephi. It is divisive. It is time for us to cease looking for divisions and also to stop trying to merge us all together as one, amorphous entity. While there should be “no manner of ites among [us]”, we are each responsible for our own progression, whether male or female, with access to the sacred powers granted every one of us within that sacred division.
Jill LutzMay 27, 2025
Beautiful article my friend! I especially enjoyed the example of the mother conversing with her anxious son about going to camp. This was such an excellent way to illustrate the principle. I am going to utilize this as a grandmother as well as a wife and friend. Thank you for always enriching my life through your words and example.
Danver KengerMay 27, 2025
I don’t know all the details but this much makes sense to me that “All energy and matter in the universe is the mother, and all consciousness is the father. Both exist simultaneously and one cannot exist without the other. The mother exists within the father as the father also has flesh and bones. The mother doesn’t have to appear because she is already here in us and all the matter and energy everywhere.”
Phyllis Spotted WolfMay 27, 2025
Kimberly White: I thank you for the article and your words that you shared... I needed it today... It will be a re-read for me and I will share with family and friends.
annamarieMay 27, 2025
THE NAME ‟MORMON” The following quotes from the book: The Divine Origin of the Restoration, pp. 57-59 by F. Edward Butterworth Copyright © 1989 Cosmic Press – Chico, California [The point of Brother Butterworth’s quotes was that people outside the original church used that term for its members primarily derogatorily.] The names ‟Mormon,” ‟Mormonite,” and ‟Mormonism” were nicknames given to the original Latter Day Saint Church by its enemies in the early 1800s. Joseph Smith Jr. strongly opposed accepting these names as a proper designation for the church. Other early church leaders also rejected these names as the following documentation clearly shows. Joseph Smith Jr. said early in his ministry: The name Mormon, and Mormonism, was given to us by our enemies, but Latter Day Saints was the real name by which the church was organized (Times and Seasons 1:54). In another church paper, Joseph wrote: We thought no harm in advising the Latter Day Saints, or Mormons, as they are reproachfully called, to gather to this place (Messenger and Advocate 1:180). Oliver Cowdery disliked the nickname ‟Mormonite”: It is now more than four years since this church was organized in these last days, and though the conferences have always shown by their minutes, that they took no other name than the name of Christ, the church has, particularly abroad, been called ‟Mormonite.” As the members of this church profess the book of Mormon, the world, either out of contempt and ridicule, or to distinguish us from others, have been very lavish in bestowing the title of ‟Mormonite”… but WE do not accept the above title, nor shall we wear it as OUR name, though it may be lavished out upon us double to what it has hitherto been (Evening and Morning Star 2:158). Later, Oliver Cowdery spoke very emphatically against the name “Mormons”: ‟Latter Day Saints” [are] vulgarly styled ‟Mormons” (Messenger and Advocate 2:294). Parley P. Pratt wrote the following in May 1840: As to party names, we shall acknowledge no name as belonging to the people of God but that of Saints; a name which is older than the flood. In relation to the Church of God in this age of the world, we shall acknowledge no name but “the Church of Jesus Christ, of Latter-Day Saints” (Millennial Star 1:7) This early practice of resisting the use of the name ‟Mormon” to designate the original Latter Day Saint church has continued in the Reorganization. President Israel A. Smith, grandson of Joseph Smith, Jr., wrote: We of the Reorganized church are not Mormons and…should reject its use…. In Lucy Smith’s history of Joseph Smith, she made use of the term, but explained that she did not approve of it (Saints’ Herald, September 16, 1944, p. 5). Lucy Smith made the following statement: ‟I told you that we were ‛Mormons,’” I replied, ‟because that is what the world calls us, but the only name we acknowledge is Latter Day Saints” (Lucy Mack Smith, Joseph Smith the Prophet and His progenitors; p. 188). President Israel A. Smith continued his explanation about the use of the name ‟Mormon”: Not only did the founder of the church reject the word, but the church in his day repudiated it as applicable to themselves. In an epistle prepared by the High Council of the church (which certainly was authoritative) dated July 3, 1834, we find the following: ‟Whereas the church of Christ recently styled the Latter Day Saints, contumeliously called Mormons, or Mormonites.” Thus there was ample justification in the action of the Reorganized church (Gen. Conf. Resolution No. 301) in discouraging the use of the word ‛Mormons’ as applying to our members (Saints’ Herald, Sept. 16, 1944; p. 5). Other leaders of the original church also regarded the name ‟Mormon” in the title of the church as a ‟vulgar” term, because it cast derision on one of the sacred books of the church, the Book of Mormon. These included W. W. Phelps, Isaac Morley, John Corrill, A.S. Gilbert, and John Whitmer (Evening and Morning Star 2:114). Since the Utah church has chosen to use the term ‟Mormon” as a semi-official designation of that institution, it should not be used to describe the original Latter Day Saint Church, which will be referred to in this manuscript as the ‟Restoration.” _________________
Becky RoseMay 27, 2025
She is mentioned in my patriarchal blessing. I sat at her knee as she gave me advice and told me to return home and tell her the wonderful experiences I had and how I gained my testimony.
Steve DoneganMay 27, 2025
Sis. Kimberly, My spirit is telling me I’ve waited a long time to hear your perspective. Thank you for putting into words what has been too distant for me to grasp. This is the reason I read, to have my perspective shaken then firmed.
KCMay 27, 2025
Thank you! That is exactly how I feel as well. If our Mother is omnipotent, she has the power to do what she must/wills--based on perfect eternal law. She cannot nor should not be debased by assuming she doesn't have the power to act on her own. I believe Christ learned how to become one with the Father by exemplifying His Mother and Father's relationship as well. Part of His condescension then was to show us how to submit to Them because we are fallen, not how She submits to Him, because she is God. When Christ was in complete harmony and unity with the Father, we can be assured He was also with His Mother as by nature Gods cannot be cross purposes. I love how you said, "Eve, who speaks no word in the telestial scene. And yet in the garden, she is the driver of events. She does not seek unanimity. She simply chooses. She, as herself, is the mighty spirit who brought us all into this life of love and learning and joy and sorrow; it is she who opened the door for our Savior." If we look to the temple as a guide as you so beautifully reminded us, Her testimony is also given in our realm at the end. For us, just because it isn't spoken or personified overtly to be canonized, doesn't mean we can't see or hear it if we look and listen closely to nature and prophets and angels among us.
Gloria HicksMay 26, 2025
What a wonderful example of faith and courage. He was a trailblazer through his obedience and willingness to follow promptings and obey the Prophet. He blesses so many lives What a legacy! God bless him for his integrity.
Gayla MarksMay 26, 2025
What a beautiful, instructive, and testimony-building story! Perfect not only for Veterans Day but for every day.
Donna PalmerMay 26, 2025
My son served a mission after his junior year at West Point. It served him well and he returned to graduate with honors. This was in the 80's so grateful for those who went before and set the precedent.
EricMay 23, 2025
The "I'm a Mormon" campaign was an attempt to meet people on their own level. President Monson and President Hinckley had backgrounds in publishing and public relations, so that approach made sense to them. There's some merit to that, but there's more merit to owning our identity as the Church of Jesus Christ. There's also more merit in following the guidance of the living prophet than there is in using past prophets to justify ourselves. I look forward to the time when calling a Latter-day Saint a Mormon will sound just as backwards and provincial as it does when Muslims are called Mohammedans.
JocelynMay 23, 2025
This is excellent advice. I wish I could be sure others would read it.
Gordon HensleyMay 22, 2025
Catholics, Baptists, Quakers, Presbyterians, Hindus, Muslims, Episcopalians, Jews, Lutherans, Spaniards, Americans, Chinese, Christian. As humans, particularly in the western linguistic tradition, we naturally gravitate toward simple one or two word labels when referring to individuals or groups. It is not something we do maliciously. "Hobbit People" or "Persons of Magnetism" doesn't easily roll off the tongue of the casual speaker. Then there is the reason we don't always use the long form term "The Holy Priesthood After the Order of the Son of God." So here we are. The other leaders weren't wrong. It's just that now we choose to emphasize to the world that we are, in fact, Christians, or Members of the body of Christ.
Rochelle HaleMay 22, 2025
I love using the full name of the Church. Yes, it did take some getting used to. Many of our friends and relatives still refer to us as "Mormon," and we insert the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints into the conversation as we are able. Often in our "Come, Follow Me" study group, we might use "Mormon" as we study the history of the church. Some people, although now recognizing us as Christians, will never refer to us using the correct name of the Church. A dear cousin, now deceased, moved to Hawaii several years ago and worked with several members. Often, though we corrected her several times, in our conversations, she would refer to the Mor-MANS. We need to remind ourselves that the Lord's doctrine never changes, though programs and procedures might. One Prophet's instructions may have been totally appropriate for the time, but we need to follow our current Prophet.
Jim WMay 22, 2025
3 Nephi 28:8 sums up the whole issue nicely. Are we Mormon’s Church, or are we Jesus Christ’s Church? Whether past prophets were ok with the term Mormon or not does not matter. Our current prophet has determined that we should use the correct name for the Church no matter what was done in the past. The restoration is ongoing and not static.
Carol AnnMay 21, 2025
Wise advice—always! I’ve followed you for years!
JamilMay 21, 2025
Thank you, Tanya. I’ve heard so much about your writings, but this is the first time I’ve had the chance to read a full article,and it was truly inspiring. Growing up, I often questioned what I was taught: that there are no more prophets. I remember telling a friend once, “We need a prophet to guide us through the challenges of life.”Little did I know at the time that there was a living prophet on the earth. Years later, I not only came to know that truth, but I was blessed to learn from their teachings and from the missionaries who helped me along the way. I even had the privilege of meeting three of them.
JamilMay 21, 2025
Thank you, Tanya. I have heard so much about your writings, but this is the first time I have had the chance to read a full article, and it was amazing. Growing up, I always questioned what I was taught: that there are no more prophets. I remember once telling a friend, “We need a prophet to guide us through the challenges of life.” I am so THANKFUL for our Prophets Little did I know at the time that there was a living prophet on the earth. Years later, I was blessed to learn from their teachings and from the missionaries. I also had the opportunity to meet three of them.
Dallin LukasMay 21, 2025
Why did the church embrace the name "mormon" in the early 2010s??? I handed out tens of thousands of cards with "I am a mormon" on them. Are we going to just pretend that never happened?
Kent LarsomMay 21, 2025
I suggest you read President Hinckley's October 1990 talk on the use of the word Mormon. He said it is fine to use that word.
Tracy TippettsMay 21, 2025
I am a personal witness of the power and protection of wearing the sacred and holy Temple garment. April, 1989 I had a life-threatening motorcycle accident, that broke both bones in my right leg into 33 separate pieces. My right foot was completely severed from the ankle. When my Bishop visited me in the hospital, he was the first to notice that all the injuries were below the hem of my garment! The vital organs that were covered by the garment were not hurt or damaged. Later, while recovering from a six hour surgery, I was given a one liter bag of morphine to tolerate the pain. The man in the other bed used the entire bag. When the nurse came to check in the morning, she was shocked to discover I had not used one drop of morphine! That was 36 years ago, and I have had a complete recovery, and been restored to full health.
ColinMay 21, 2025
Hear, hear! I’m always disappointed when I hear gospel discussions tainted by pop psychology, like the claim that the Savior was somehow commanding us to love ourselves. This article helps to redress the balance. We could also mention that when He illustrated the first and great commandment with the parable of the Good Samaritan, he told a story in which the hero (the Samaritan) takes no thought for himself, not for a second.
Ralph W. GalliniMay 21, 2025
I joined the Church in 1968. I have never referred to myself as a Mormon. I would always say I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I also never used the word Mormonism to describe the Gospel. It is the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I love the Book of Mormon and greatly respect the prophet Mormon. He would never want the Church to be called by his name. Thanks to President Nelson for telling us to use the correct name of the Church.
DumaMay 21, 2025
When the Church had the campaign "I'm a Mormon," the instruction was to say "I'm a father, a [whatever], a [whatever, and I'm a Mormon." I guess the "I'm a Mormon" phrase didn't sit right with me even before President Nelson's talk, so I opted to say "I'm a disciple of Jesus Christ" instead. I cringe a little when I hear the term "Mormonism" when referring to the gospel of Jesus Christ, even when it's used in historical quotes. I'm glad we've gotten away from both of those terms.
Lon ChildMay 21, 2025
Joseph Smith’s stance on the nickname “Mormon” was pragmatic and ultimately positive. While the term originated as a pejorative label from outsiders referencing the Book of Mormon, Smith did not express offense at its use. Instead, he sought to redefine the term in a positive light. In 1843, he famously stated that “Mormon” means “more good,” presenting the nickname as honorable and even desirable, though this etymology is not linguistically accurate. Smith’s attitude reflected a willingness to embrace the label and turn it into an asset for the church’s identity and influence. He was not ashamed of the nickname and encouraged members to focus on its positive connotations. Smith’s approach was to accept the reality of the nickname’s widespread use and to reinterpret it constructively, rather than reject or condemn it
K BurtMay 21, 2025
I found this article interesting. I have seen some people isolating and discarding relationships in the name of self-love. The problem certainly comes from a lack of understanding what is truly loving to the self. As children of God we seek unity with others and contribution. If we don’t, it’s because those desires are blocked by deep fear of others. Though it looks contrary to the gospel’s mandate to serve others, I have seen that retreating to the safety of self-care AND connection to God can provide a cocoon of healing from which we emerge to serve again in higher ways without doing it to gain others’ approval.
John DeightonMay 21, 2025
Completely agree, I never liked the term "mormon" as a nickname, it never sat comfortably with me and indeed when the Church (under President Monson) started the whole "I'm a Mormon" media campaign and "Mormon Messages" I was agasp, had to be some corporate marketing team thought that would be a good idea, not! So pleased President Nelson corrected all of this in 2018.
Glen S. HopkinsonMay 20, 2025
On a battle field where hundreds of thousands of people were slaughtered it would quickly become unbearable and one would not want to linger. Knowing he was the last man and that he was hunted I maintain he would take the records his father gave him and leave getting as far away from the carnage and those who would kill him as he could. That is just one of the many reasons that the Heartland Theory does not resonate with me .
EvanMay 20, 2025
Can I attend the marriage retreat as a single or bring a date? I'd love to learn more from you in preparing for a great marriage!
Vance RoperMay 20, 2025
Thanks for your wonderful article. I am proud to have you as our first Bishop in Vernal 2nd Ward back in 1983. Vance Roper. Dallas, Texas.
BethMay 19, 2025
Thank you!!! Sooooo much! Grateful for our living Prophet & the Lord’s counsel he proclaims.
Cynthia Pincock SpencerMay 19, 2025
Great insights, well stated! thank you Tanya for your thoughtful article. I too feel tremendous gratitude for the Prophet's warning counsel and the other messages of the general conference sessions.
SusanMay 19, 2025
Both pictures are probably fake.
Linda K. SpoonerMay 18, 2025
Thank you for this beautiful talk. I lived in Israel for 2 years and I loved it. I wish I could return. I understand what you are saying about the olive and our Lord Jesus Christ. Do you go to the Center in Jerusalem when you are in country? I was there in 1988 so I guess you were a small boy at that time. I'm sorry all I meant to do was thank you for this beautiful memory. Thank you for sharing it with us. Linda
Dan BradshawMay 18, 2025
Have you considered the Mexican Highland model? https://gatheredin.one/13279/book-of-mormon-geography-mexican-highland-model-summary/
Corey D.May 18, 2025
Thanks for that. Was just a little discouraged this morning for a number of reasons, mostly thinking about family and ward members struggling spiritually and in other ways, seems like so many are.
KathleenMay 17, 2025
Thank you for all of these reminders.
Ken WrightMay 17, 2025
I've read all of these 12 messages. They are deep and at my advanced age some do not apply to me personally. Number twelve gives great information on things that will impact all of us in the near future -- some things good, some things not good. Thank you, Craig Petersen, for the time you have taken to provide these insights to all of us.
Craig PMay 17, 2025
The real person is on the left
Laura LeeMay 17, 2025
This article is a reminder to me of why I need to be firmly rooted to help the uprising generation stand on a solid foundation. The whirlwinds are here!
Dr. Craig FrogleyMay 16, 2025
Better than excellent!
Corey D.May 16, 2025
This is about the 4th or 5th article in Meridian in the last 9-12 months that is about or mentions garments and the wearing of garments, I personally wonder if these articles and certainly they are all good articles but I wonder if the authors of the articles are like me and others who have noticed whats happening, particularly among the younger generations in regards to the wearing of garments or have been told or seen these website's and blogs that are telling members that it's up to them to decide when and where and how to wear their garments among other things. Maybe it's time that we just be direct and someone write an article pointing out that what is going on is not inspiration, is not doctrinally based, is not in either the spirit or the letter of the law so to speak and is leading folks away from truth and members are putting themselves in precarious danger spiritually.
Noelle McKinneyMay 16, 2025
I’m a “visitor” of the church for over two years and the wife of a dedicated LDS man, from the north east. I grew up non secular but have studied many faiths and genuinely enjoy going to church every Sunday. I haven’t been baptized yet but the unifying love of Jesus in my church keeps me grounded and wanting to come back. I’ve made meaningful friendships with other mothers and women, and look forward to relief society meetings. Watching this show was utterly shocking, not one single woman in my ward is even remotely represented by this show. It’s like opposite worlds. I’ve had so many meaningful conversations, not a single one ever involved going out, sex, partying, or drinking. They don’t even drink coffee let alone wine. They are conservative, but not stifled. I think this show is spinning a narrative that to be a modern Mormon is to be absolutely raunchy and depressed! The women I know are so fundamentally just happy, flourishing in their communities and putting as much positivity into the world as they take. As conservative as they are they do not judge me for not dropping coffee, for having wine, for getting pregnant outside of marriage…. And we still share stories and laugh and have wonderful gatherings. To be a modern Mormon woman to me, means to be accepting of people who are different, love thy neighbor, and nourish those closest to you… It doesn’t mean accepting a lifestyle of complete debauchery and putting having fun, your looks, and gossip over the well being of your own family. I’m in disbelief!!
Rochelle HaleMay 16, 2025
Thank you for this wonderful article on the sacred temple garments and why we should be wearing them. I have seen several non-church videos recently describing the “new” styles of garments (created primarily for extremely warm climates) that emphasize, especially for women, all the fashions that couldn’t be previously worn. We need to remember and also teach those preparing to go to the temple the importance of our covenants and the blessings we receive through wearing temple garments.
Sister Kerry FarrMay 16, 2025
I am a 77 year old sister missionary who has been a member all my life. I loved reading this profound, well written article. Honestly one of the best I’ve ever read. Thank you❣️
ChrisMay 16, 2025
Thank you!
Hilary G. DerbyMay 16, 2025
Thank you for this truly wonderful article! I have worn and have been protected by my garments over 35 years and urge others to consider donning their protection daily! I am 82years of age.
Ellen SorensenMay 15, 2025
Loved this testimony of the guidance that God gives us if we listen!
KathleenMay 14, 2025
Preparing for an upcoming move, this makes me want to ponder more about what I'm putting in boxes!
KathleenMay 14, 2025
Great analogy.
Rosalie M. PiersonMay 14, 2025
Thanks for a joyful memory for Mother's Day! I laughed at all the places you meant to be funny for her! We look forward to your humorous spin on your experiences. Happy writing!
Susan MorrisMay 14, 2025
It makes sense to me that there were/are two Hill Cumorahs (much like England and New England, York and New York, etc.). The original cache of records Mormon refers to (as quoted in the article) would then be in Mesoamerica, and the "New Cumorah" would be in Palmyra, New York, where Moroni buried the gold plates (and other objects) he carried with him until near the time of his death.
KateMay 14, 2025
So which picture of the reporter was the real one?
Jan MorganMay 13, 2025
I am in my early seventies now and experienced everything this article is talking about. I have had to learn that joy for me comes through my faithfulness in living up to my testimony and the promises I made in the temple. LDS singles are uniquely able to say they live for the future. So much of what the Lord has promised to His children will not happen to us in this lifetime. Contentment replaces a lot of negative emotions. Happiness can be fleeting. But joy truly is in the gospel of Jesus Christ. And learning to love oneself in spaces of aloneness really helps.
EveMay 13, 2025
That was very uplifting! Thank you!
April MoodyMay 13, 2025
Excellent article. You are spot on in your counsel and advice. Thank you!
LewisMay 12, 2025
What extraordinary stories! Sometimes I wonder if all these incredible things happen to you because Heavenly Father knows that you have a gift of taking them and making them into lessons for the rest of us. I feel so privileged to be able to read, learn and be inspired to do better. And I too am grateful for the mothers in my life.
Jeanette goates smithMay 12, 2025
The Dominican Republic is a really special place. We served as mision leaders there as well and saw similar miracles because of the faith of the people
GaleMay 12, 2025
I loved reading this! Our family moved from Utah to Jerusalem in 1983 and stayed for 8 years. Our Palestinian friends taught us much and fed us well, completely changing how we would choose and prepare food into the future. We planted an olive tree in our yard, and I really did try to process the olives so they would taste good. I didn't succeed, but I learned a lot and grew to love olive trees, their importance, and their symbolism.
NoelleMay 12, 2025
What a wonderful article! I feel this so deeply and you put it into words. Making the world a better place starts at home. Motherhood is a great power for good.
HelenCMay 12, 2025
Apparently, mothers don’t choose to work at the U.N. When I had to work while my children were young I chose a swing shift so one of us was always there. The sniggering the author experienced sickens me.
Rich BowermanMay 12, 2025
Thank you Sister Douglas, for sharing two amazing stories/parables of the Lord's involvement in all our lives as seen through your eyes.
CynthiaMay 12, 2025
I am crying tears of gratitude and joy for these beautiful parables! Thank you for your remarkable story telling and for sharing such inspiring stories about mothers.
Becky BeardenMay 12, 2025
Becky, this is such a touching and inspiring story! I have been blessed in my life to know you and see your compassion and hear about your experiences, both hard and filled with your testimony of the Savior and his awareness of each of us and the great love he has for all of his children. Thank you for sharing this beautiful example!
Traci WalkerMay 12, 2025
Remarkable mother, remarkable son! Thanks Scot, this ministering to the one is truly the Savior's way!
Val JonesMay 11, 2025
Profound. May god bless you as you bless others.
Andrew joyMay 11, 2025
The olive harvest in the Land of Israel is not merely a seasonal agricultural routine; it is a sacred remnant of divine patterns established by the God of Israel in ancient times. It connects the people of the covenant to their land, their scriptures, their prophetic identity, and their foreordained role in world history. For Jews and Latter-day Saints alike, the Land of Israel is not simply a backdrop for symbolic religious narratives—it is the epicenter of sacred history, covenantal obligation, and eschatological destiny. The cycles of sowing, reaping, and pressing olives in the Land of Israel are not incidental to faith; they are constitutive of it. The harvest, including the olive harvest, is a divine ordinance rooted in Torah law, echoed in the prophetic writings, and celebrated in the Psalms. This sacred labor is also infused with latter-day meaning, for the harvest is also a symbol of gathering—the gathering of Israel, the gathering of families, and the gathering of hearts to the covenants of the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. In ancient times, the olive tree was ubiquitous throughout the Land of Israel. Scripture identifies it as one of the “seven species” that defined the fertility and covenantal blessings of the land: “a land of wheat, and barley, and vines, and fig trees, and pomegranates; a land of oil olive, and honey” (Deuteronomy 8:8). The olive tree’s significance was not only economic but deeply spiritual. It was a sign of divine favor and a symbol of peace, as when the dove returned to Noah with an olive leaf in its beak (Genesis 8:11). It was the source of the anointing oil used for kings and priests, and its oil fueled the golden menorah in the Temple in Jerusalem (Exodus 27:20–21). In the Land of Israel, the olive harvest was sanctified by law and custom. The Torah commanded that during harvest, a portion must be left for the poor and the stranger: “When thou beatest thine olive tree, thou shalt not go over the boughs again: it shall be for the stranger, for the fatherless, and for the widow” (Deuteronomy 24:20). This commandment preserved the dignity of the poor and reminded Israel of their own status as strangers in Egypt. Even in this, the olive harvest in the Land of Israel was a vehicle of divine justice and social order. The symbolism of the olive tree was not lost on the prophets. Jeremiah referred to Israel as a “green olive tree, fair, and of goodly fruit” (Jeremiah 11:16). Hosea used the olive tree to symbolize the restoration of Israel’s beauty and strength (Hosea 14:6). In Zechariah’s apocalyptic visions, two olive trees stand beside the menorah, representing the “two anointed ones” who stand by the Lord (Zechariah 4:3, 14). Thus, in the prophetic worldview, the olive tree was a living metaphor for Israel’s covenantal role in the world. The fruit, the oil, and the tree itself all bore witness to Israel’s divine mission and election. And this olive tree could only grow, thrive, and produce when rooted in the Land of Israel, the land chosen by God and consecrated for divine purposes. The New Testament also affirms the olive tree as a symbol of covenant and restoration. The Apostle Paul, writing in Romans 11, speaks of the “natural olive tree” as Israel and of Gentiles as wild branches grafted into it. He warns the Gentiles not to boast against the branches, for they “bear not the root, but the root thee” (Romans 11:18). This metaphor is only meaningful in the context of a people deeply tied to a land—the Land of Israel—where the original olive tree grew and flourished. The olive tree is not a free-floating symbol; it is grounded in the soil of the Promised Land. The Land of Israel is not incidental to these covenants; it is integral. Latter-day Saints will also recognize the olive tree as central to their own revealed scripture. In the Book of Mormon, the prophet Zenos’s allegory of the tame and wild olive trees (Jacob 5) is a sweeping prophecy of Israel’s scattering and gathering. It begins with a master of the vineyard who seeks to preserve his olive trees, and it follows the fate of various branches—some wild, some grafted, some burned. The entire allegory presumes a sacred geography, with the “mother tree” symbolizing the house of Israel in its covenantal homeland, the Land of Israel. The branches represent the various diasporas and gathering efforts throughout the world. The Lord of the vineyard is active, not passive. He digs, nourishes, prunes, and grafts, all in hope of preserving good fruit. And in the final chapter, the Lord returns to the vineyard and labors alongside his servants to gather the good fruit and burn the bad. This allegory—stretching across the whole of sacred history—presupposes the centrality of the Land of Israel. In modern revelation, the olive tree continues to bear symbolic weight. In Doctrine and Covenants 101:44–62, the Lord gives a parable of the redemption of Zion using the imagery of a vineyard with olive trees. The vineyard is let go, the watchmen are negligent, and the enemy breaks down the hedge and destroys the olive trees. But the Lord of the vineyard promises to redeem his land and reestablish his people. The parallels with the scattering and gathering of Israel are unmistakable. The olive tree, again, is the house of Israel, and the Land of Israel is the holy soil from which that tree must grow. The harvest itself, particularly the olive harvest, is bound up with divine timing. In the Torah, the festivals of the year were coordinated with the agricultural cycle in the Land of Israel. Passover occurred during the barley harvest, Pentecost during the wheat harvest, and Sukkot during the fruit harvest, which included olives. These harvests were not only agrarian events; they were appointments with God, “moedim,” sacred times of covenantal renewal. In Leviticus 23, the Lord commanded Israel to celebrate these festivals in the Land of Israel as perpetual statutes. The olive harvest was part of Sukkot, the Feast of Ingathering (Exodus 23:16), a time when all Israel rejoiced before the Lord for the bounty of the land. Even today, the traditional Jewish liturgy during Sukkot includes prayers for rain and agricultural blessing upon the Land of Israel. Modern Israel continues this sacred rhythm. Jewish families, religious Zionist communities, and even secular kibbutzim gather each autumn to harvest olives. These olives become the oil used in homes, synagogues, and Hanukkah menorahs. For many, this is more than tradition—it is a form of prophetic participation. Each olive tree, each branch, and each bottle of oil is a testimony that the Jewish people have returned to their land, and the covenant is being fulfilled. The harvest in the Land of Israel is not an isolated cultural anecdote—it is the heartbeat of redemption. The Mount of Olives itself is a prophetic site of supreme importance. It is the place where Jesus wept over Jerusalem, where he prayed and bled in Gethsemane, and where he ascended to heaven. According to Zechariah 14:4, it is also where he will return. The olive trees that grow on that mount are witnesses of the past and the future. The oil pressed in Gethsemane was symbolic of the Atonement—just as olives are crushed to bring forth oil, so the Savior was crushed to bring forth redemption. That crushing, that sacred act, took place in the Land of Israel. Latter-day Saints are commanded to assist in the gathering of Israel. This is not only a metaphorical mission. It includes a literal recognition of the Jewish people’s divinely appointed role in returning to the Land of Israel. As Elder Jeffrey R. Holland once stated, “We believe in the literal gathering of Israel and the restoration of the Ten Tribes; that Zion… will be built upon the American continent, but that Jerusalem [in the Land of Israel] will also be rebuilt” (Articles of Faith 10). The restoration of olive trees, vineyards, and farms in the Land of Israel is not a secular miracle—it is a prophetic sign. Thus, when a Latter-day Saint of Arab descent speaks movingly of olive harvests, that cultural memory must be situated in a larger theological and historical context. The Land of Israel is not merely “home” in a nostalgic sense. It is the land chosen by God for His purposes. The olive trees of the Land of Israel do not belong to modern political categories or rebranding efforts—they belong to the covenants of God. While many Arab Christians or Muslims may also have agricultural roots in the land, the divine designation of the Land of Israel belongs to the descendants of Jacob. The Torah does not speak of “Palestine”; it speaks of the Land of Israel. The prophets did not weep over “Palestine”; they wept for Zion and Jerusalem. Jesus did not suffer in “Palestine”; he suffered and died in the Land of Israel. The word “Palestine” is a Roman and later British colonial term, imposed by empires to erase Jewish sovereignty. It was used by Hadrian after the Bar Kokhba revolt to sever Jewish identity from the land. That term has been perpetuated in modern times to delegitimize the Jewish people’s right to their ancient homeland. But Latter-day Saints should be especially cautious in adopting that terminology, for we believe in prophecy, restoration, and the covenantal destiny of the house of Israel. We believe that the return of Jews to the Land of Israel fulfills Isaiah, Jeremiah, Ezekiel, and Zechariah. We believe that the olive trees in the Land of Israel are signs of life, of hope, of divine favor. The olive harvest, then, is not a neutral cultural practice. It is a sacred act embedded in the sacred geography of the Land of Israel. Latter-day Saints should affirm that the olive trees, the land, the harvests, and the covenants belong to the divine pattern established by God Himself. When we speak of the land, let us use the language of scripture. Let us say “the Land of Israel,” not “Palestine.” Let us honor the God of Israel by honoring the land He chose, the people He covenanted with, and the future He has revealed through ancient and modern prophets. The olive harvest is a testimony of that divine pattern. And there is no Palestine—it is the Land of Israel. --- Footnotes 1. Deuteronomy 8:8. 2. Exodus 27:20–21. 3. Genesis 8:11. 4. Deuteronomy 24:20. 5. Jeremiah 11:16; Hosea 14:6; Zechariah 4:3, 14. 6. Romans 11:17–24. 7. Jacob 5, Book of Mormon. 8. Doctrine and Covenants 101:44–62. 9. Leviticus 23; Exodus 23:16. 10. Zechariah 14:4. 11. Articles of Faith 10; Jeffrey R. Holland, “Israel, Israel, God Is Calling.”
Adam LeeMay 11, 2025
Thank you so much for this information. It gives so much added clarity to a subject so often viewed as incomprehensible. I felt a strong spiritual confirmation upon reading and digesting these words. I’m grateful to have been given the ability to read this account.
JillMay 11, 2025
How lovely! Poor Hallie Berry was quite overcome. Yes, mothers are the most important influencers, comforters, and confidants any child can have. That's why they are much loved.
MaryannMay 10, 2025
I absolutely agree with this article. We don't HAVE to share. We GET to share! Everything we have is a gift from the Lord. Everything we have is consecrated to Him and His purposes. When we prepare for emergencies, we can consider our resources as The Lord's emergency supplies. Having said this, I can't help but think of the tale of The Little Red Hen. We ALL need to take responsibility for gathering essentials we will need when emergencies arise. We should never be negligent because we think someone else will take care of us. This requires sacrifice, obedience, and faith.
CarolMay 10, 2025
This is an excellent article. Thank you. There are some things we CANNOT share, like oil for our lamps, but most certainly things we CAN, like those mentioned here. What would Jesus do?
StewartMay 10, 2025
While this information gives us knowledge concerning thoughts and beliefs at the time, the Brother Jared received the stones. It is interesting to me that the Lord gave the real answer and that is for interpretation.
MickeyMay 9, 2025
This dad is not safe for this child. It’s that simple.
Janet SMay 9, 2025
Very touching.
Al;vin RencherMay 9, 2025
Scott, My wife and I were on the same shift at the Provo temple as your mother (and her husband). I soon found out she was your mother, and we talked often about the work you and Maurine were doing with Meridian. She was very proud of you.
Garry WilmoreMay 9, 2025
One of the best articles I have ever read on this site, which is saying a whole lot. I loved it!
SarahMay 9, 2025
Maybe look at tapping/EFT to get those thoughts unstuck from inside you. Sounds like you are in a freeze state, you want them to move on. Brad Yates on you tube is good, you just follow along and you find out the real reason you are obsessing about him being with 17 yr olds, while you are nearing 40 etc there may be other issues to deal with and tapping bubbles them to the surface!!
Cecile (James-Scribner) ThompsonMay 9, 2025
My mother, Lucie James, and your mother were close friends - even though my mother was at least 20 years older than yours. As a result, I had the "opportunity" of baby-sitting you boys often, and yes, I've changed your diapers many times! Martha and Paul influenced all the James Family, and we several times went on vacation together. She influenced me many times in many ways as I grew up. And now I've followed her example of marrying again at an older age after losing my husband. If Martha could find happiness doing that, then I knew it was okay for me to do and to find happiness! We James girls all love your mother almost as much as we love our own!
H. Wallace GoddardMay 9, 2025
What a beautiful tribute to your mother, Scot! We feel a real love for her and are grateful that we know her son who has learned so much from her! Love and blessings! Wally
LDeFriezMay 9, 2025
My inactive and antagonist cousin complained about the Cedar City, UT temple being built close to his home. I told him to move -- but to wait until after it was built to put his home up for sale because property values would be significantly increased and the area much more desirable. He quit complaining.
SBMay 9, 2025
Another thing that may help is to understand the circumstances of the previous actions of the husband. He was a teenager with raging hormones, it was popular to compete with other boys to conquer the most girls, and teen boys thrived on peer recognition and bragging rights. Sleeping around was more of a contest than anything - and involved no feelings of love, respect or commitment. Eventually teens mature, develop some self respect, become more responsible, and are able to move on to love, marriage and family. The teenaged romps are far past, long forgotten, and usually an embarrassment. Also, it may be that the guy got his lustful phase out of the way in the past, resolved all his curiosities about the opposinte sex, learned some hard lessons, and won't be tempted to do it again in the future - especially in a marriage - which is a good thing!
KathleenMay 8, 2025
BeeUtiFul - I could picture everything you described!
Elder Carl SpjuteMay 8, 2025
Stephen Lloyd Neal has created a piece that sits in the Kanesville Memorial Site in Council Bluffs, Nebraska. It is so poignant in how it captures the young family surrendering their father to the batallion in response to Brigham Young's call to serve. (We are senior missionaries here). So thankful for your talent.
Lynette C JonesMay 8, 2025
Please add the following closing statement to my comments. Understanding the three different Law Systems as they function in each family is key to creating a firm and safe foundation for the family in society.
Lynette Collier JonesMay 8, 2025
When the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints first transitioned from holding two Sunday meetings for the entire family and weekday Primary to two Sunday meetings for the whole family and weekday Primary specifically for young children, I had deep concerns. This new structure left little time to invest in educating and training the younger children of Primary age. As I reflected on the impact of this new approach, which centers our focus on Jesus Christ, I began to see how it could positively shift the culture of the Latter-day Saints in a valuable direction. In Utah, a unique culture exists that isn’t found anywhere else. The high concentration of Latter-day Saints means many individuals lack significant opportunities to serve. For over a century, much anxiety and stress were masked by complete engagement in service, leading to considerable peer-driven pressure to participate in activities that influenced every aspect of life. Much of this peer-driven culture developed from the cooperative efforts necessary for survival in a harsh wilderness that was once a lakebed, lacking the normal vegetation and atmospheric development seen in most other parts of the world throughout history. Now that the Latter-day Saints have become an international organization, the cultural differences in social norms, family structures, and career expectations have become increasingly cosmopolitan. In recent years, I have come to appreciate the shift from multiple weekly meetings to a single main meeting on the Sabbath with a concentrated focus on the Savior. This change has enabled many to develop their talents both within their families and in their communities. We are beginning to find a central point, a focus that can unite the diverse nature of a cosmopolitan Zion. To be of one heart and mind, we must move away from our cultural expectations surrounding family, career, and social structure. To become Zion, we must center our focus on being united in Jesus Christ. Geography shapes our cultures and governments just as much as our choices do. We need to recognize that the North American drive to accomplish tasks and achieve final goals must be balanced with two other approaches found in different nations. A different approach is exemplified by Europe, where the focus is on ensuring that whatever is done enhances the value of the individual and the interests of the nation. Here, the presentation of worth takes precedence over simply completing tasks. Asian nations represent the third approach to life. Their focus is on executing tasks effectively and in the best possible manner, given the available resources and individuals involved. For them, the best way is valued above presentation or completion. By combining these three approaches to law and creation into one heart and mind centered on Jesus Christ, we can create the unity of Zion. This unity allows the unique creativity and individuality of each person, family, and society to blossom and thrive
Andre J MostertMay 8, 2025
A beautiful story by an inspired writer.
TanyaMay 8, 2025
Beautiful article!
Craig PetersenMay 8, 2025
Several comments asked where they could find the rest of the articles. If you click on my name underneath the title, you will see the first 10 and also other articles that I have written for Meridian. And yes, I would like to publish them in a book if I can find an interested publisher. Thank you for your interest. One more still to be published. It’s on the opportunities and dangers of artificial intelligence.
Laurel JorgensenMay 8, 2025
Thank you for this article. You made some points and brought insights that I had not picked up on before. As I have read and re-read your article, I realize that I need to make some changes in my thinking about the disparity of circumstances we find ourselves in here on earth and my responsibility with respect to those disparities. Again, thank you.
Bob WoodburyMay 8, 2025
It seems forgotten in this is the earlier mediation in which the Fairview mayor and city council agreed to the design changes the Church proposed and shook hands on it. I’m guessing that afterwards, the city leaders took flak from some residents and in an attempt to deflect their part in the mediation agreement threw the Church under the bus. The final vote of approval was an acknowledgment that a court case wouldn’t hold up in view of their earlier agreement with the Church. It appears their late opposition was to save face and not accept responsibility. The Kingdom goes forward in spite of ever present opposition.
KCMay 8, 2025
Hey, while I appreciate the message as a whole, the "gospel hobby" example might be an exception. Only 4% of the Church participates in family history--yes, ask the FamilySearch people, RootsTech 2024 is where we get those #s. So you could call them hobbyists--since it's such a tiny tiny minority. That means 4% must do 100% of the work. If you split the gathering on both sides of the veil in half (missionary vs temple/family history) and half again (one half family history & one half temple work) that's still 4% doing 100% of the work necessary for the other half to do anything in the temple, if each half is its own hobby. Consider this, the church spends an ungodly amount of money trying to get the 96% to do anything. They make it app based, gaming style, and try to get the latest tech to make it easier for the US & northern hemisphere so they will get on board. However, the southern hemisphere members & non-members alike are clamoring for any and all records they can get! They are desperate for more. Maybe the lostlings in the southern hemisphere aren't so lost.
Darla GaylorMay 8, 2025
I'm a Ft. Worthian & am old enough to remember the protesting and hullabaloo surrounding the building of the Dallas temple- and the attempt a group of "good" people in my small town (NW of Ft. Worth) made at showing the God Makers in our high school auditorium. They nearly succeeded with that last thing, until our parents got wind of it and had a discussion with the school board. The viewing was moved into a couple of local churches, where they could talk about our awful "cult" on private property. In Houston, we have very few zoning ordinances. While it makes for some interesting neighborhoods, it also allows for some large spires, crosses, and mega churches- some of which require off duty police officers to direct traffic for every single weekend. Saw the same thing in Nashville when we lived there. Can't recall a single instance (other than an open house?) where those issues occur for a temple. I would love to think we are progressing as human beings, but too much evidence is in full view to tell me we aren't that far removed from Salem.
BethMay 8, 2025
Beautiful! Thank you! Note: Several grammatical errors.
AnonymousMay 8, 2025
I'm assuming you are using "stuck" as in "stuck in a rut" and not "stuck" as in "stuck in this marriage/relationship", to be perfectly honest when I saw the article title, I thought if there is one word that describes how I feel about my marriage at the moment, stuck would be it. Pretty sure I'm not alone in that sentiment. Society's answer to that is of course divorce, even among many in the church that's the answer. The prevailing societal thought/philosophy is, well you need to be personally happy and if you are not, get out. I'm not necessarily unhappy, certainly not has happy as I might be but I made a commitment and I want to be an example of commitment to my children and especially my grandchildren. Some, if not many may disagree with that but that's how it is right now.
LindaMay 7, 2025
Thank you for this article! I agree 100% with you but there are some members of my ward who think I am crazy and say they would never share their supplies. I will be an Ebenezer!
DeAnna DeBryMay 7, 2025
How do I find all of these articles? Has the author written a book, or a pamphlet?
Gary C JohnsonMay 7, 2025
Though I'm not conversant with the current criteria utilized to ascertain where our temples are built, it has always been my understanding that the Church does not propose temples where they won't be used. It seems that temples are located where they are both needed by local members and to anticipate future growth in their numbers. I suspect that the Church is, by now, sufficiently well-schooled enough to anticipate resistance to any construction project they propose. They may even have at the ready, alternative designs that address potential local concerns. Thank goodness, the Constitution protects both the aggressor and the aggrieved.
Maryann TaylorMay 7, 2025
The important thing to me is that the Lord's work will continue to go forth, despite opposition. Temples will continue to be constructed and Zion will be built on both sides of the veil. As we are promised in the D&C 3:1, "The works, and the designs, and the purposes of God cannot be frustrated, neither can they come to naught." We can trust our Prophets and Apostles to be led by the Spirit in dealing with the opposition. Our responsibility is to avoid contention and to continue in temple work.
JanMay 7, 2025
Many LDS counselors seem to be adverse to acknowledging a Cluster B Personality Disorder is in the works. They seem to see it as "labeling" instead of the dangerous situation it can be for the spouse and children. Covert narcissism is real, but the APA hasn't studied it. It is not in the diagnostic manual. Having been married to a Covert Narcissist myself, I know that they always look like the victim, even while they are doing the victimizing. They are master manipulators who take no responsibility for their own behavior.
BayMay 7, 2025
I kept wondering when you were going to mention Elon Musk, the world's richest person and possibly the best-known transhumanist, but you never did. Musk's dozen children across 3 women, his well-publicized invitations for women he's never met to bear him children, and his company Neuralink that seeks to implant a brain-computer interface, his naming of a son "Techno Mechanicus" — all of these are evidence of an unbalanced mind attempting to rethink what it means to have a family or to be human.
D. KingMay 7, 2025
I'd love to read all of this. Is it possible to get all of the parts to this series in one document or book?
Elizabeth HarbisonMay 7, 2025
I listened to the arguments after Fairview city council said yes. Things like “May God help us all” and “I’m Christian but I’ll say yes because we can’t afford a lawsuit.” Yeah, this was definitely about more than the spire height or the traffic.
Cynthia CMay 7, 2025
Wow, I had no idea!!
Cynthia CMay 7, 2025
Beautiful article.
Cher GibsonMay 7, 2025
Are all of these in a book that we can purchase?
Michael BrashearMay 6, 2025
Acting with good faith and within the purview of the law, the Church cannot afford to allow those in opposition to the Church set a precedent of forcing the Church to abandon its plans. There always seems to be a group that follows the temple builders around so as to stir up opposition to the Church, yet once constructed, the temples become a magnet for good families to build up the surrounding community and add, not detract, from the scenic and economic opportunities of the area.
Rochelle HaleMay 6, 2025
Responding to Andrew Joy, who posted a comment. If I read your post right, I believe you are single. You "wish more of His people would stop building fences around the well." Are you speaking of the well of marriage? Making the commitment and saying the vows, whether in the temple or not, does not make marriage perfect. It takes work, and my husband and I were reminded by this article how much we need to partner with the Lord in all aspects of our marriage. We were both previously married to former spouses in the temple. We did all the right things, we followed the counsel and teachings from Sunday School teachers and youth leaders. Nevertheless, there came a time when divorce was the only option. It was not expected. Many couples cannot weather the storms of severe illness, infidelity, financial stresses, etc. Do members often put on their smiles and attend the temple once a week, once a month, or as often as time permits, then return home to face challenges? My eternal husband and I have been married for almost four decades. The gospel is our strongest foundation, and we love Jesus Christ. Yet, isn't it interesting that we don't always agree even on spiritual matters? In our Come, Follow Me studies, we may understand a passage of scripture differently, or we may each have a different perspective on something taught in the temple. The key is daily work in all aspects of our marriage, and sometimes it isn't easy. As singles who haven't yet found an eternal companion, or may question the Lord's timing, or as couples already sealed in the temple, we need to constantly seek to become better disciples and more faithful to the covenants we have made, and recognize why we want to follow that path. Can you imagine the strength of the Samaritan woman? In all of her weaknesses (or what others perceived about her), she ran to tell about her encounter with the Savior. So too, He will bless us where we are as we reach out to Him and constantly strive to become better disciples.
Edna FarrerMay 6, 2025
Thank you Brother Eyre for a wonderful article. Could this have to do with the fact that since the restoration of the church (and maybe too much?) we have been trying to convince the evangelicals that we ARE Christians? Is it working? Is it doing any good? I love my Savior Jesus Christ, I love learning about Him. The better I know Him the more I want to be like Him. I am a senior missionary in San Diego CA, and my best moments are when I can teach people His gospel. But sadly, I have seen a huge decrease in the size of families. Very few children. Primaries in church are small. Couples now choose to have pets. Not children. So I too, question, what has happened? My greatest joy in life has been having and raising my children. Nothing can compare to it. It's the closest thing to heaven. Perhaps this too is a sign of the last days where families are concerned. Thank you for your wonderful articles! God bless you!
Marlund HaleMay 6, 2025
My mistake! My comment referred to Sister Joy when I should have referenced Brother Joy (unless Andrew is a sister's name).
Jeannie EvansMay 6, 2025
Alan Turing
Wally GoddardMay 6, 2025
Andrew, what a hard situation! You seem to be giving it your best and not getting the joy you seek. I would love to visit with you directly by email if you are interested in that. Wally Goddard
Benita MairsMay 6, 2025
Wow! Just wow! Can I read this for a sacrament meeting talk? It so succinctly expresses how I wish people would treat one another, especially at church. So well written and so true for our day. I will be purchasing the recommended books. And a sincere “Thank You” to the writer. And an “Amen” to Clarien’s comments.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenMay 6, 2025
I grew up in Denmark, I went to in Copenhagen. Our building was renotvated as a Temple (my husband and I now live in Canda. The streets on 3 sides of the temple are very narrow, apartment buildings on 3 sides. there was a lot of opposition against the church, but people around the Temple are fine with it now. Also, as a youth I had the opportunity to attend the Bern Switzerland Temple twice for youth baptisms, once we stayed with a lady in her apartment facing the Temple, and she said that the Temple has brought a peaceful feeling to the neighbourhood, and they all love it. My point is to say, that where ever the Lord wants His Temple, it will be so, and is always an added wonderful building to everyone around it.
HelenCMay 6, 2025
When similar size, lighting and traffic issues were hurled at the building of the Portland, Oregon Temple in thy 1980s our sweet President Hinckley quipped (I thought LUBA (Land Use Board of Appeals) stood for “Let Us Build A Temple”. When protestors demanded we cut the spires’ heights in half I recall suggesting they do the same to the arms of Portlandia, a statue of a female torso being built to emerge out of a city building, “Aliens”-style. Neither design change would have made proportional sense. None of this does.
Joe M.May 6, 2025
Thank you, Andrew, for your refreshing honesty on Church culture. I mourn with you. As Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn wrote, "It is hard for a man who is warm to understand a man who is cold." Or maybe Job said it best. "Miserable comforters are ye all!"
HelenCMay 5, 2025
Powerful! Praying right now about how and where to share this.
Harold RustMay 5, 2025
Thank you for great insight and good questions. For me, the frequent comment of "Jesus Saves" or "Love Jesus" by Evangelical Christians has often felt trite when it is repeated over and over. Thus, it can also seem that way it His sacred name is repeated too often in a single phrase or paragraph. Likewise, the "Primary answer" of Jesus to almost any Gospel question seems to make the use of the name feel almost trite at times. Thus, I believe a deep and meaningful focus on our relationship with Christ is best achieved when we address each of multiple Gospel principles with the truths behind that principle while relating the relationship of our Savior to the principle. Examples and Stories about empowering positive family interactions are made even more complete when we include the role that honoring and obeying Christ has within the purpose of family relationships. That is how family and Jesus can enrich our appreciation and love for each.
Andrew j joyMay 5, 2025
Every so often, a Latter-day Saint devotional article floats across my screen that’s so drenched in marital assumptions that reading it as a single person feels like pressing your face against the window of a party you weren’t invited to. One such article is “Jesus, the Samaritan Woman, and Your Marriage” from Latter-day Saint Magazine. It’s a lovely piece — assuming, of course, you have a marriage. Or have had one. Or at least have a shot. The article explores the story in John 4 of Jesus and the Samaritan woman at the well. She’s had five husbands, is now with a man who isn’t her husband, and is drawing water alone at noon — the symbol of isolation. Jesus meets her in that moment, reveals His knowledge of her broken relationships, and offers her living water. It’s a redemptive story, one the article quickly connects to modern marriage: Christ heals our relationships, offers grace to the imperfect, and blesses our homes. It’s a comforting message. But as a single Latter-day Saint — one who has neither five failed marriages nor even one — the question rises: where exactly is that living water for us? The article is written, like so many others, with the assumption that marriage is universal. That every Latter-day Saint will eventually step into a sealing room, build an eternal family, and then turn to Christ when things get bumpy. It assumes you’ve been married, are married, or are between marriages. And it leaves unspoken the aching truth that some of us have done everything right — kept the law of chastity, remained faithful, served missions, magnified callings, and still never been chosen. The woman at the well is often interpreted as a symbol of the broken, the failed, the ashamed. But at least she had stories. Five husbands, one current partner — she had loved, lost, tried, failed. Some of us haven’t even had the chance to fail. We just… don’t get picked. Or we got picked once and discarded. And now we’re expected to read articles like this and pretend the well is for us too, even though we’ve been circling the desert for years with nothing but an empty bucket and a fading hope that the water was ever meant for us in the first place. Single people in the Church are told, again and again, that their time will come. If not now, then in the next life. If not in mortality, then in eternity. But there’s something uniquely cruel about waiting on promises that everyone else around you is already enjoying. We sit in Sunday School lessons on temple marriage while watching couples giggle over inside jokes about who forgot the milk. We do sealings for the dead while never receiving the ordinances ourselves. We listen to marriage and parenting metaphors over the pulpit, as if every spiritual truth must be filtered through the lens of a domestic unit we don’t belong to. And then, when we express our pain, we’re told we’re bitter. Or impatient. Or too picky. Or, the classic: “You’ll understand when you’re married.” Maybe we would understand if we were married. Maybe we’d even be included in articles like these — written not with quiet sadness in mind, but with the comforting assumption that marriage is a given and Christ is merely the therapist-in-residence when it goes south. But what if you never married? What if you never will? Does Jesus still wait at the well for you? I believe He does. But I also believe He’s been obscured by a Church culture that doesn’t quite know what to do with you unless you’re on your way to sealing. There’s no clear space in the narrative for long-term singleness that isn’t a problem to be fixed or a punishment to be endured. We are often either invisible or projects — certainly not full participants in the theology of covenant companionship. The woman at the well is offered living water despite her marital mess. That’s good news. But for some of us, the water feels farther off — not because Christ has withheld it, but because His people keep redirecting the well to those who wear rings. I don’t need another promise that it will all work out eventually. I don’t need another marriage lesson with a tacked-on sentence about “those still waiting.” I need to know that Christ sees me now — not in some imagined future where my single status is finally corrected — but in this very moment, where I’ve drawn spiritual water from a well of disappointment, exhaustion, and persistent faith. Because I do believe He knows my heart. I do believe He walks with the single. I do believe His living water is for everyone. I just wish more of His people would stop building fences around the well.
Chris EpsonMay 4, 2025
Good article, but... We cannot ever talk about, rejoice in, worship, focus on, love, or share our experiences with Jesus too much! There is no doubt the tone and focus of general conference has shifted the past few years...to Jesus Christ and His love for us...and all I can say is "Hallelujah!"
Gail G GrovesMay 3, 2025
Thank you, Merrilee Boyack, for this most timely article on Elder Anderson's conference talk. I believe your statement reading, "This is by far the worst evil to ever occur in the history of mankind and The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints opposes it", is pure truth and I pray that members and non-members alike will "Stand Up for Life" as never before! This horrid evil must stop!
Susan RoylanceMay 2, 2025
Teaching the importance of motherhood is definitely missing, and it shows in delayed marriages and small families. The goals for young women seem to have changed. Education is important, but not to sacrifice the wondrous opportunity to be a mother, and nurture future generations.
Robert StarlingMay 2, 2025
Wow! Richard, this article is AMAZING! Thank you - for your wonderful insights into the Big Picture. "The GOAL is to become like our Heavenly Parents, and the MEANS is through Christ and His Church." That sort of sums it all up. Boom. (mic drop) Another recent emphasis I've seen in General Conference is on temple work, which is the part of the Church that is the means of sealing families together for eternity. Since we are all children of our Heavenly Parents, the only way They can be sealed to us as THEIR eternal family is for us to be sealed to each other, generation by generation. That is Their goal, as expressed in the verse, "This is MY work and MY glory, to bring to pass the immortality (through Christ's atonement) and Eternal Life (as a sealed-together family) of man." That is WAY more to think about -and to live for- than the sectarian view of "heaven" as sitting on a cloud playing a harp! Boy, have we got a message for the world!
Kevin StakerMay 2, 2025
Great article. I just read Elder Renlund's talk from Conference and resolved to be a "sheep" and not a "goat. To be a better disciple who cares for those in need.
Cynthia CMay 2, 2025
Thank you for bringing up these very important points! In a new role as a student mentor (middle school and high school)I see a vast difference in parenting styles and family cohesion from when I was young. Our stability comes from strong families. I'm currently getting certified as a Mental Health First Aid responder. NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness reports that 20% of 13-18 year olds have a mental health condition. 50% of these do not finish high school. 50% of adults with mental illness began experiencing symptoms before the age of 14. The US Department of Health and Human Services reports that nearly 50% of American adolescents have had a mental health disorder at some point in their lives. Globally, roughly 1 in 5 teenagers have experienced elevated anxiety symptoms. My students indicate that their parents let them do whatever they want as teenagers. The family appears to be in global crisis. Granted there are many factors involved. Parents working multiple jobs to keep food on the table and a roof over one's head. Social media attacks and bullying. Video games where kids spend hours killing off characters/enemies/the other teams. Yes, let's focus on Christ AND let's bring back a strong focus on the most critical social structure we have -- the Family. (activities adult mentors do with students besides listening and checking up on how they are doing is playing games with them, doing crafts with them, taking outings with them, attending their sports games -- sound familiar -- those are things that have traditionally drawn families together and strengthened those bonds. We can attempt to fix mental health or we can have a foundation of mental health -- in strong families!)
RuthMay 2, 2025
This article hits so close to home. When I was growing up my parents did not have a good relationship and I did feel disloyal to having a relationship with dad, even though I don't believe I recognized it in my teenage years and it became a pattern even in my adult years. I also remember my mom making go visit her brothers and sisters against my will, but how grateful today that I have those memories of them. I think most teenagers really don't want to hang out with their parents even if they have the best marriage, but we don't know what we really want at that age. I'm just grateful my mom didn't give me what I thought I didn't want. Those memories are so precious to me now.
Mark MathesonMay 1, 2025
Glad to see someone is thinking deeply about this!
PennieMay 1, 2025
Amen a thousand times over to Elder Anderson and to this article
JuliannMay 1, 2025
I have 5 grandsons whose grandfathers died early. Their fathers travel for work and do the best they can when they are home. Their lives lack men who have time to take an interest. How I wish they had mentors, men who cared. Men who would freely share their skills and expertise, whatever that may be. Men we could trust not to be pedophiles. Men who used their retirement years to be Christlike in their neighborhoods instead of seeking travel or foreign missions. I applaud this article.
MeliaApril 30, 2025
My daughter just performed in this same concert in Arizona last week. It was incredible. So grateful that she has had this opportunity for the last few years to sing praises to God through MCO!
Paul RobertsApril 30, 2025
Our family had a '41 Buick like the one shown.
Patricia PottsApril 30, 2025
@Dear Harold, Thank you for taking the time to write and for highlighting that quote. I wish I could take credit for it, but it actually comes from Darla Isackson, who found healing after losing her son to suicide. Darla taught me so much about learning from our hard experiences. Even after her passing in 2019, her words continue to resonate deeply within me, filling me with gratitude for the promise of embracing friends and family again after this life. As you pointed out, we will be able to continue serving and loving one another—a truly joyful promise. Thank you once again for your thoughtful comments. Your sister in the gospel, Patricia
Patricia PottsApril 30, 2025
@Dear Amy, I am so sorry to hear about the estrangement you’re experiencing with your son. It breaks a mother or grandmother's heart when that bond feels lost, even if only temporarily. It seems we both share a sensitivity to life’s emotions, which can make our experiences more intense. I've found that cognitive therapy, along with a three-step process, has been incredibly helpful for me as I navigate my own "Refiner's Fire" experiences. On my website, patriciapotts.com, there's a video titled "Leaving Your Negative Feelings Behind" that you may find helpful. Please let me know if there's anything else I can do to help. God bless you on your journey, Amy. ❤️Patricia
CASApril 29, 2025
Thank you! This piece was very well written. More boys/men need to read it; more boys/men sorely need to be taught this from the pulpit in Stake Conferences and General Conference. I listened for it in April. Wasn’t there. I have 4 educated and beautiful returned missionary granddaughters longing for companionship with “real men” not grown boys who “ghost” them!
Lea BerenyiApril 29, 2025
Where can I find the music sheet to this? Such a beautiful song.
Robert PattersonApril 29, 2025
Books by Susan Kite cover a variety of genres, and are wholesome, delightful reads.
Amy LondonApril 28, 2025
I need to read this book, but I'm afraid it will bring greater fear of all I have imagined since my own estrangement from my son. I cling to the person I knew several years ago, the happy, considerate, fun-loving, and charitable man. I catch glimpses of this occasionally when a friend will tell me they saw him or heard from him, then reassure me that he's ok. My heart breaks, but my love and hope for his well-being are as strong as ever. I pray for his safety and happiness, and for our reconciliation.
Michelle SchooleyApril 28, 2025
Do you have a book list for teens?
Harold RustApril 28, 2025
Patricia Polls provides one key concept underlying our fundamental purpose of life when she states "I’ve learned that creating the ideal is not what life is all about. Instead, we are here to learn from our experiences and to recognize our dependence on the Lord. We all experience disillusion as we learn and grow. It’s an important part of life, a blessing because it means learning to see the truth more clearly." That concept is so vivid in the teachings of all the prophets, and yet becomes difficult and hazy for us as we encounter real-life day-to-day challenges of career, employment, health, social interactions, and all else that seems to be overwhelming at times during our mortal existence. The concept becomes even more real as we better comprehend how even in life after death our purpose will be to continue learning and building faith in and love for our Savior.
Ruth JamiesonApril 27, 2025
Loved this movie! Another great, and inspiring movie by T.C. Christensen!
Rochelle HaleApril 25, 2025
In recent years/months we have seen so many interpretations of truth. If we are religious (no matter the denomination), then one truth is that all people of faith are racist, intolerant, judgmental, etc. Another spin on the truth is vaccinations. One relative champions the causes of healthy eating and NO vaccinations, regardless of what the experts say. However, even Russell M. Nelson advised wearing masks and getting vaccinated for Covid-19. Many people have changed their views on current politics, while others are not bothered "if it isn't in their backyard." I believe that truth needs to come from both secular and religious study, and by seeking personal inspiration, comfort, and direction. We do not follow the Prophet (or other ecclesiastical leader) blindly. My mother became ill early last year. We didn't think it was terminal, but we knew that we immediately had to take charge and address some issues in her life. Two weeks into her illness, the answers to prayer and miracles began coming. My brother, who expresses his faith differently, would probably acknowledge these blessings in a different way from "my truth." Nevertheless, we both understood what was happening. Mom eventually passed away, but not before the Lord showed His hand to us. Sadly, in our society, it is easy to see accusations flying when one person's "truth" conflicts with ours. I hope that my obituary reads that I was respectful, tolerant, and welcoming of those who saw things differently from me, and that we could still be friends.
rickApril 25, 2025
Interesting... but achoiceland.com already perfectly ticks all the boxes...
DJApril 25, 2025
Great insight- thanks.
Jackson PembertonApril 24, 2025
Years ago, my wife and I attended a Stake Fireside in Tucson, Arizona, where a visiting authority spoke to this subject in a slightly different way. He said that living by the Spirit sometimes alluded to the promptings of the Holy Ghost and sometimes to the intelligence that fills the universe. At least that is the way I understood him. I pondered on that for several days and came away saying to myself the even God lives by this Spirit. I think we often think of Gospel truths as though they were magic or we commit the ancient, limiting understanding of things by just saying "God did it" and that is the end of the matter. The truth has to be that all things are amenable to logic and founded in some kind of matter, where matter must include energy as Einstein pointed out.
Karen TuftApril 24, 2025
I love this! As a trained musician, I've drawn similar comparisons with sound waves created by singing/instruments, which set up more specific sine waves than speaking alone does. Music literally "resonates" within us in a way words alone don't. It explains the Lord's calling to Emma Smith to collect hymns. And I think it also fits perfectly with the body being filled with light. Thank you for your wonderful insights!
Wally GoddardApril 24, 2025
The earliest and best manuscripts of the NT do NOT contain the words "without cause" in Jesus' instruction about anger. (See Text of the NT by Metzger). And the Book of Mormon has never included the words "without cause." Thank you for this article!
Robert StarlingApril 24, 2025
Wow! Thanks Aaron, for this "enlightening" article (pun intended). I'm gonna print this out and stick it on my wall as a constant reminder of how much I need to "sanctify" myself so that my eyes may be opened and my body can be "filled with light". I've often thought about the purpose of light in spiritual matters. I'm reminded that when Moroni left Joseph Smith after conversing in his bedroom, that the light in the room "gathered" around him and opened up a column in which that angelic being ascended into heaven. I definitely need to learn more about that! I began my college education at Georgia Tech, where I gained respect for the "science" of all things. As a life-long fledgling Gospel scholar, I am in awe and gratitude for the "graduate-level Christianity" that I find in the Restored Gospel, as compared with the "kindergarten" level of understanding about spiritual things that I see in other "flavors" of Christianity. Thanks for this essay on the "science" of spirituality.
Cindy ChristensenApril 23, 2025
I LOVED reading this. The pictures and words were beautiful. Thank you!!!!!!!!
Matthew AndreasenApril 23, 2025
I agree that many common ideas about certain words and concepts could be very detrimental if applied to the scriptures. The scriptures used words and concepts that were better understood at the time they were written. I checked Webster's 1828 Dictionary for "Charity", "Truth", and "Perfect" and found that those definitions are very close to what we would expect. It's true that the main focus of those concepts have shifted over time, so people today might not catch the intended meaning as easily as when the revelations were written (see "Intelligence" for instance). "Agency" is an exception, however. Agency in Webster's 1828 Dictionary is not synonymous with "free will" or "choice," and one of the references to Agency (found in D&C 64:18) clearly uses the dictionary's definition, not "free will." I wrote a book called "The Agency Discussions: Using Webster’s 1828 Dictionary and LDS Scripture" (available through Amazon) that looks into the scriptural meaning of Agency. The book is my attempt to view the scriptural concept of agency from a different perspective using the dictionary's definition and apply that definition to our scriptures to see what additional insights we might gain. I think that Agency is a fascinating LDS topic which has more to do with accountability but unfortunately gets confused with the related idea of free will.
Laurel NielsenApril 23, 2025
Oh Maurine how vividly I remember standing on that bridge weeping as Scot taught us the importance of that day. It opened up the beginning for the restoration of the Gospel. God was truly in the design.
Son of LibertyApril 22, 2025
It is a shame that our children are not taught this story in our school systems. We learned it 65 years ago when I was in school. But, much has changed. The pendulum needs to swing back. Excellent article.
HelenCApril 22, 2025
And what signs and wonders are we missing today? Surely there is a war being waged in the world against truth and righteousness. The weapons? Information systems and algorithms that dictate what is seen and clothe it as truth, perhaps? All I know is I see friends and loved ones trembling with fear over both real and imagined threats to their futures.
Kathi EatonApril 22, 2025
And don’t forget the experience of Elisha and his servant in 2 Kings 6: 15 And when the servant of the man of God was risen early, and gone forth, behold, an host compassed the city both with horses and chariots. And his servant said unto him, Alas, my master! how shall we do? 16 And he answered, Fear not: for they that be with us are more than they that be with them. 17 And Elisha prayed, and said, Lord, I pray thee, open his eyes, that he may see. And the Lord opened the eyes of the young man; and he saw: and, behold, the mountain was full of horses and chariots of fire round about Elisha.
Bob SpielApril 21, 2025
Thank you for this remembrance, Maurine. Amazing what has happened in 250 years.
Sue ParkinApril 21, 2025
So beautiful it touched me to my soul! A beautiful Easter message so beautifully written and illustrated! Love you both for sharing your amazing spirit and talents!
Ashley Pun EvesonApril 21, 2025
Great article, Joe. That devotional was one of the best I heard all year, and you captured that so eloquently here.
L. CrosgroveApril 20, 2025
The words are just as beautiful as the photos. Thank you so much for this wonderful Easter message.
WallyApril 20, 2025
Beautiful and inspiring! Thank you, Scot!
JaniceApril 19, 2025
Thank you. What a great reminder of the love Lord has for each one of us. What a beautiful child she must have been to be able to communicate with both her teacher and her brother like she did. God bless you all
James MuirApril 19, 2025
STUPID! Where are the trees to build an exceeding good ship. BRUSH?? Over three years Lehi led his people not making fire so not to be discover. (IN THE OPEN DESERT? HELLO) Launch from YEMAN is the most complicated departure to end up in South America's West Coast, the only location in all of North and South America that perfectly matched the geography of the Book of Mormon.
anonymousApril 19, 2025
My son came to me when he was 15 and confessed that he was depressed. In an effort to normalize his feelings, I'm afraid that I unwittingly dismissed how much he was struggling. 15 years later, he is finally getting the help he needs. He has been diagnosed with bi-polar disorder and how I wish I had sought medical and emotional help while he was still under my roof. Listen to him with love and reassure him that you are not judging him, show compassion for him, but take seriously your concerns. Let him know you are acting out of love and concern, not frustration or anger.
Robert StarlingApril 18, 2025
Wonderful article Becky. Jesus is the only one who can understand all our pains, because he descended below them all. He's the only person who can put his arm around us and say, "I understand. Been there, done that."
Claudia Henderson SmithApril 18, 2025
Beautiful pictures, as usual, Scot.
Katrina DonaheyApril 18, 2025
Oh Scot, this has added so meaningfully to my Easter joy and celebrations. THANK YOU. Beautifully, magnificently done!
Roberta HarrisApril 18, 2025
What a incredible and touching story. Thank you Becky for sharing both your story and hers. To hear how Sister Jones was able to forgive is almost overwhelming but knowing it was because of the love and suffering of the Savior for her and for her parents , she was finally able to have peace. How special that she was able to help you at just the right time.
LaDene DealApril 18, 2025
I love this story…. Jesus lives …. His Wonders to Perform That is all I can say through rushing tears….. Mothers have strong hearts ….. even through the worse pain. May we all know and come to understand the process by which we have to go through to return back to Him….. May we see and read more stories of this nature to know and understand the truth of our Heavenly Father. He is always there for us in everything we do in our lives.
DMApril 17, 2025
I read this story tonight and wept. Even though not my story, the beauty I felt in this was the love of our Savior. We all have sorrows needing healing. I certainly do. Hallelujah to our sweet Savior, who can heal all things.
Gary AndersonApril 17, 2025
Thank you for sharing this wonderful story! I emailed it to my sister who has been suffering much in the last couple of decades! It should help comfort her in many ways!
LewisApril 17, 2025
What an extraordinary article! Your gift of telling stories that move our souls is unsurpassed. Thank you for sharing this incredible message during Holy Week.
MelissaApril 17, 2025
Thank you for the poignant reminder of Jesus Christ’s perfect understanding of our suffering. I believe we must individually endure suffering in order to begin to appreciate what Jesus Christ has done for us. I am desperately grateful to know that God has a perfect plan and that my Redeemer lives!
JaniceApril 17, 2025
Thank you for this article and your testimony Becky. It will give many people strength and ability to overcome their challenges in life. God bless you and all you have overcome in yours.
CynthiaApril 17, 2025
I can barely type for the tears! Thank you for sharing this inspiring, incredibly personal story! Thank you for the reminder of the limitless power of the atonement of Jesus Christ. Happy Easter!
ElleApril 17, 2025
Beautiful story!
Vicki Blackner WilsonApril 17, 2025
My mother had my older brother, Herbert at 3 months premature on Sept. 5th, 1952 and he lived 5 hrs. and then on June 27th, 1953 she had me at 2 and a half months premature and I spent over 3 months in the hospital before I came home. So I've always known about Herb.
Nita WaterhouseApril 17, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful experience ❤️ May we all be able to achieve this peace.
Phil SnowApril 17, 2025
Great article, except it was northEASTERN Ohio, not northWESTERN.
Michael WilliamsApril 16, 2025
That you, Daris. I've read your work for years. This one touched my heart. I know a few of those old cowboys myself, and my wife gets to watch sweet women and men clearing their slate as she serves with them in the temple.
Ricki GibbonsApril 15, 2025
Thank you for your beautiful article. My husband was also raised Catholic and is grateful for the faith in Christ it instilled in him. He was baptized 52 years ago.
RachelApril 15, 2025
I know this is an older post but I'm praying for some insight! You said "It was during this occasion (which happened to be Passover) that Mary and Joseph encountered the Prophetess Anna and the aged, devout Simeon." How do you know it happened to be Passover?
Alan LeonardApril 15, 2025
This post came across my Google News feed and I'm not Mormon but enjoyed reading about the celebration.
CarsonApril 15, 2025
This is a really great article! It really helps me understand the 3 trials on a deeper level.
David SmithApril 14, 2025
Best article I've read this year. Thank you. I was there last night and I agree with your sentiment. It was enjoyable and increased my understanding.
Erik HansenApril 13, 2025
Thank you. I imagine the one great secret combination being secretly prepared using all these techniques is the Antichrist's Kingdom. These others all have been practice for the Adversary. I would imagine his kingdom is close and soon will be the terror of the Eastern Hemisphere. When the wealth, combinations and lack of empathy overcome our free nations, the World will be at its greatest vulnerability. Thus the need for Zion to rise.
Corey D.April 13, 2025
The last Sunday of this month will mark 47 yrs since my last Sunday of my mission in southern Chile, I got up and got ready to go to church, somewhat ready to say goodbye to people I had come to love and who meant so much to me, as we were leaving our pension my companion said " oh by the way we are not meeting for church at the normal place today, the sister missionaries have organized an Easter program for the branch", I was a little surprised because I was the district leader and knew nothing about it. We met up with the branch members and the sister missionaries and took a hike through the forest to a little open area, we were close to the ocean and the fog had rolled in during the night so we were kind of walking a little blind, we all got to this little meadow/open area about the time the fog was clearing and the sun was coming out, it was beautiful, the sister missionaries had us get in a big circle and hold hands and then different people who had previously been assigned different scriptures began telling the Easter Story, it was wonderful and even though the specifics have been long forgotten I still remember the feeling it created, of course I was already pretty emotional since it was my last Sunday but what a wonderful way to end my mission. I think everyone should experience an outside Easter program at least once in their lives.
Kara CarlstonApril 13, 2025
Loved this! Love you! It was always their favorite thing when you invited my kids to go with you. I love seeing that picture of your early curly-haired children. Those were days of glory.
J. E. GilstrapApril 12, 2025
What delightful books! Thanks for the recommendations.
JuliApril 12, 2025
our son started with depression when he was 15. I remember feeling frustrated because I felt like he was just acting out. It was a long journey as it’s been 10 years since then I don’t mean to be negative, but he took his own life in 2021. when he was 16 we sent him to Anasazi in Mesa, Arizona an outdoor behavioral health place. It was a godsend for a while then he made some choices that drove him into a downward spiral. we’ve since realized that our family has a lot of depression on both sides. I know a lot of leaders with good intentions say pray and have more faith. I pray and I have faith, but it’s not gonna go away. It’s just gonna be livable. the one thing that gives me peace is knowing that the last time I talked to him, he knew that I loved him, no matter what he did or no matter his choices. Pray harder than you’ve ever prayed and love him and make sure he knows it.I wish you and your son all the best.
Kaylene ReddApril 11, 2025
Can't wait!
Kaylene ReddApril 11, 2025
You are inspired! This is exactly what we need--the synergy of growing, sharing, learning, and serving together as MASTERS. Thanks for filling a void!
LFApril 11, 2025
Thank you, Catherine, for sharing your family’s traditions and your feelings surrounding this season of celebration. I’m grateful to have the printable resource you prepared — a treasure trove of curated information! Thank you for your efforts. I, too, am thrilled at the church’s moves to observe Holy Week.
Tanya NeiderApril 11, 2025
Thank you!
kari burrApril 10, 2025
I appreciate your journey. This is truly remarkable, and I commend your efforts so much! Thank you for sharing all you have done. Your family (and WE) are blessed. Your insights are tremendous. I especially appreciate the resources and action materials you provided at the end.
Jane NelsonApril 10, 2025
Thank you so much for all of these ideas and resources. You were ahead of your time in celebrating with your family. I'm excited to begin celebrating Easter more mindfully with children and grandchildren.
HansApril 9, 2025
I never miss an article by you. Always good for a pick-me-up. Speaking of pick ups…that Toyota is a nice looking truck but I seriously doubt it’s a three quarter ton truck. But it only ads to the humor/irony of the mis-communication.
J. E. GilstrapApril 9, 2025
Thank you for this article. It really touched my heart.
Linda WillisApril 7, 2025
I am so grateful to see Scott Brown's work. I have read these reports for years and love to hear what scriptures are quoted most frequently as well as seeing break downs from the Standard Works. It's instructive to see how all of the scriptures have a vital part to play in our knowledge and understanding.
Scott BrownApril 6, 2025
No, searchgeneralconference does not use AI.
HazeApril 5, 2025
I love reference sources like this. Thank you for sharing this important information.
Allen AApril 5, 2025
When our septic tank had a mass like that in it in the mid 1960s, the pumper truck driver told my dad to pour yeast into the tank and wait a week. Dad dumped a cup of bread yeast into the hole and put the lid back on. After a week, the truck came back and the operator pumped the tank with no difficulty.
bob taylorApril 4, 2025
is this search engine powered by AI? ilooked, but saw no reference to that.
Wayne's New WorldApril 3, 2025
Enduring to the end can seem so suspenseful and have so much drudgery. I prefer to consider "enjoying the journey" in enduring and perusing joy in endurance. I believe that God sent us here to experience all that we can in our progress.
Jeannie MossApril 2, 2025
I think it's odd that you want respect when you gave none to his children when you chose to have an affair with a married man and father and break up their family. You and your husband both chose to hurt his children deeply and now it seems that you don't want the consequences of that choice. Be grateful that he has any relationship at all with his children and let him be a grandfather without you. Yes--in time they may forgive you, but forgiveness does not equate that they want to have you in their lives. They are making a choice to have boundaries. You don't like their choices but want them to accept yours. Let the situation be what it is and seek peace for yourself and give grace to them. I wish you well.
DougApril 2, 2025
Thank you for this article. One of my "things" that perhaps lies within the spectrum of perfectionism is in knowing how to talk with Christ, given the directive to pray to the Father in the Name of the Son. You said "Tenth, and I’ve saved the best for last, bring the Savior into your life. Talk to Him about your feelings, the drive you feel to be flawless, the misery and angst it has woven into your life. Ask Him if he loves you with all your weaknesses and shortcomings. You will love His answer!" I don't understand... Thanks!
Love takes timeApril 2, 2025
As a child robbed of my family, due to my father's affair, this hits me deeply. There is no easy answer because, at least you (the step-mother) want a relationship with your unwilling step-daughter. After, over fifty years, I've never been able to connect with my step-mother who ultimately was the catalyst to my parents divorce. That said, my parents marriage was messy, they were young and my dad was missing important moral conviction needed for a solid marriage at the time. Thankfully I was young when the divorce happened. The few times I was able to spend time with my father (he was overseas most of my childhood) my step-mom helped take care of me but was not emotionally invested in me in any way and still is not to this day, even after my dad's passing. I forgave my father and step-mom long ago, and in time, maybe this young mother will be able to forgive you also. Don't force it, just love from a distance and interact as you are allowed, even if nothing more than being supportive to your husband when he visits his children. Love with out expectation and pray. Pray for the humility to accept things as they are and love without condition and be able to support your husband's need to support his children. There is a touch of irony in your statements as they match, very much I'm sure, the feelings of his first wife when you stepped in. It's a hard truth, but just know that the Lord loves you and will forgive, but sometimes we must experience a little of the pain He took on for our sins. I'm no perfect saint and I have made my fair share of shortcomings and have children who resent how I raised them, so I am now trying to step into their shoes as well. In time, by doing so, I hope it will help me reconnect with them as I accept responsibility for mistakes I made. God bless you as you move forward that you may be comforted.
Leah KolbApril 2, 2025
I have participated as a member of the Grand Chorus since nearly the beginning (17 years) and will have the opportunity to sing Messiah in America in this new grand performance! I wish there were words to describe what it is like to be part of Millennial Choirs and Orchestras, but everything always sounds so inadequate. Tickets are hard to get in Arizona, even when they have added more performances, we'll do 8 concerts this time. We have over 1200 children, 300 in the Grand Chorus and a full orchestra, now imagine parents, grandparents and friends and other family. Singing Brett & Brandon's compositions has changed my life and I know many others who have been able to fill their weary souls with goodness and light! Go to Millennial.org and sign up to receive emails regarding upcoming performances. This is a link to the orginal recording of Messiah in America: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrJ1ThpcJktIUknrhEdDd9DD5bUPXbgYE&si=hN9Z_APLnDawvYmJ I can also promise that many of the other recordings and videos will touch your heart and could change your life. Don't miss watching "The Vision", filmed last summer in Palmyra.
ShaunaApril 2, 2025
I agree with this article 100% and am grateful for the thoughtful, powerful, passionate work about mothering from Jenet Erickson. I didn't marry until I was almost 37 and didn't become a mother until age 39. I had done a lot of other things before marrying, had 10 years of higher education, had worked fulltime, had served a mission and travelled, but none of that even comes close to the joy, satisfaction and influence I experience as a mother. Satan's attacks on motherhood, and those that feminism echoes, are bald face lies, and I am deeply saddened that so many women have bought into the idea that marriage and children are not only unnecessary for happiness, but also obstacles to happiness. Nothing could be further from the truth. If you want to be influential, powerful and make a difference in this world...be a mother
Beccabg00deApril 2, 2025
My parent’s divorce affected me my whole adult life. I finally went through intense EMDR therapy in my later 50’s to make sense of what happened to me. The worst part was I treated my husband badly thinking it would be better for him to leave early in our marriage if it was going to happen anyway. I felt nothing but relief when my dad died because I would never have to see that woman again. She never let us speak or see our dad alone. I think she is why we have evil step mom stories. If you don’t want them to feel like that about you, let them have the say of how your relationship will be. It’s part of them taking control of their life.
AnnetteApril 1, 2025
very interesting article and information, Thank you for doing this research
HelenCApril 1, 2025
My mother, who attended Teachers College during WWII and subsequently taught children in London during the Blitz, considered Winston Churchill a war-monger. This erudite essay helps me understand him, and his place in history, more. Thank you, Dr. Dan.
Debra McCrackenMarch 31, 2025
How do we find this placeholder?
MaryannMarch 28, 2025
I realize that we need to be aware and warned of the reality of the deadly influence of pornography. BUT--did we really need so many details??? It makes me sick to my stomach and is not necessary to make your point.
MaryannMarch 28, 2025
The advice given here was so very true. After breaking up a family through adultery and divorce, no woman, or man, has the right to expect the children devastated by that betrayal to show them "respect." This woman is downplaying the depth of pain that these children experienced. She needs to stay in the background and respect the adult children's wishes for her to stay away from them. She should also support her husband in spending time with them without her being present. That is the LEAST she can do. Perhaps, in time, the adult children will be able to accept her, but the timing of that possibility is completely THEIR choice, not hers. They owe her nothing.
Elizabeth RichardsonMarch 28, 2025
Get off your husband's back about talking to his daughter. Do you think he should cajole her into wanting you around? Should he risk being cut off himself? Your husband knows how you feel about the situation and still has his reasons for not forcing the issue. Be kind, be selfless, and leave him (and his daughter) alone. Accept the possibility that you will never be welcome among his children, and let your "happy marriage" be enough. You've owned up to having done the wrong thing with the affair, and that's good. Keep the "good" going by exercising compassion and humility. Forcing your way in will only engender resentment. Let him participate freely in his family without punishing him or his children.
CourtneyMarch 28, 2025
I’m so grateful that four of my children are apart of this choir. This has built their testimonies in a way nothing else could. The Spirit that attends the practices and concerts it’s so overwhelming. The only time I feel the spirit that strong is when I give birth. I’m so excited to see the concert tomorrow. Brett and Brandon’s musical talents are so amazing.
Robert StarlingMarch 28, 2025
Thanks Daniel, for a no-nonsense response to an obviously faulty criticism of the Book of Mormon witnesses. "Isaac", as well as most other critics of our faith, is obviously grasping at straws. Such fallacious criticisms melt away under the bright sunlight of truth and reason.
Julie RoaneMarch 28, 2025
I would be interested in ideas for those of us who do not have children or grandchildren..how to get motivated!
Bera SautuMarch 28, 2025
Love this article. Will be using this in my ward to help train fathers.
Diane QuistMarch 28, 2025
I loved this article about the date March 26. I thank you for it. It’s become apparent to me that there are certain dates that are significant throughout our Church history - not just April 6th. I think I’ll make pancakes and use my syrup acquired in Vermont on a church history tour.
LauraMarch 28, 2025
Your tree reminds me of when I was a child. We would get some small limbs with buds on them from our property and put them in a vase. We had Easter ornaments we would hang on them. (My family had lived in Germany in the military, and they sold secular Easter ornaments for Easter trees there.)
CASMarch 27, 2025
I, too, felt the Spirit reading this. I have never heard of this production before today! I tried several times to access tickets to no avail. Will this ever come back to Utah with more advance notice? I’d love to attend!
Ken McGowanMarch 27, 2025
Hi brother Peterson. I recall these arguments from my first philosophy class. It was called the modus podem argument if i recall. You used it effectively. Ken McGowan
James DunneMarch 27, 2025
Excellent in every way!
Maurine Jensen ProctorMarch 27, 2025
Lynne, This isn't an ad, but an article about how this concert came to be. Tickets are hard to get because people who have been before to an MCO concert won't miss the next one.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenMarch 27, 2025
WOW! I felt the spirit all through just reading the article, it actually feels familiar to me also! I wiah I had the money to attend the production somewhere in USA, I don't, we live in Canada. This truly is an inspired production.
LynneMarch 27, 2025
I opened this ad today and found out that all Mesa AZ tickets are already sold out. Why wasn't this advertised before now?
RosieMarch 26, 2025
Let's walk the walk not just talk. When new couples in our faith marry, how often do we quietly encourage getting college degrees before having children because of economic goals. Yes it's a struggle but we should encourage an eternal perspective.
Dave MMarch 25, 2025
This is a great article, but it's terrifying and I fear a similar article could be written about drugs & alcohol, greed, seeking popularity (or "likes"), even poverty or anything else that Satan can use to fill a physical or emotional void or need, create a dependency, and cause us to lose focus and control, mis-use our agency and lose sight of our Eternal goal and potential. Maybe Alma has the answer (Alma 31:5).
Susan RoylanceMarch 25, 2025
Thank you Patrice, for this inspiring article. I have also been anxious to make Easter a greater part of our family traditions - and focus. I appreciate your suggestions.
JKMarch 25, 2025
I would love for you to share what went in the 29 eggs!
Bob SpielMarch 24, 2025
This is a brilliant take on the Beast. I will never read Revelation the same.
SandyMarch 24, 2025
The hard truth! This excellent article reveals what has been hidden to most people. I feel disgusted and educated and now want to do more to protect our young people and others. Thank you for printing this difficult truth to those of us who are not usually exposed to these hard facts.
Diane IrwinMarch 24, 2025
As troubling as this story is, it makes perfect sense. We, as Latter-Day Saints need to get our heads out of the sand and see what is really going on in this world and do something about it!
JuliannMarch 24, 2025
A connection that makes so much sense. Took my breath away and I am not ignorant. To understand the human cost is gut wrenching. No longer a brown bag industry. I’ve been told that close to 100% of young people will be exposed to some form of pornography by Jr High.
Cynthia CMarch 24, 2025
This is not an easy topic to write about and you have covered it well. Everyone is affected. I had a model friend disappear after being invited to an Italian villa. So many men are not treating women with patient loving gentleness anymore. Women wonder if they want to have children or bring them into the world as it is today Married men have become aggressive towards not just their spouse but towards other women outside of their marriages. There is so much deception. The body of Christ must strengthen. The body of Christ must be vigilant. The body of Christ must stand firm in the wisdom of the scriptures, in the Word of God. A battle is raging for our souls.
PhilMarch 23, 2025
This reminds me of the infamous incident in Florence, Oregon in 1970, when officials decided the best way to remove the carcass of a beached whale was to use dynamite. It made a horrible mess that was way worse than just leaving the whale carcass there. You can see a video of it on youtube.
tfMarch 23, 2025
I don't believe this one, with as much "cake" as was described in part 1, there would not be room for that much fluid.
Bera SautuMarch 23, 2025
Wonderful article and all true. Thank you.
Gary StrobleMarch 22, 2025
Perhaps a better word could be used than discover. He knew where they were because Moroni told him, and he saw the exact spot with his spiritual eyes before arriving at the Hill Cumorah.
J.S. Jr.March 21, 2025
A bit behind in my reading but I never miss an article from you. A wave of emotions just hit me with the last paragraph. Even though I never miss an opportunity to say those words, this still made an impact. Thank you.
PhilMarch 20, 2025
I also read that Babylon Bee article and I found it super funny. I think everyone is fair game at the BB and so I wasn't at all offended by it. That is a great point about women in our faith though, and how they are actually in an elevated position compared to most other religious organizations that I can think of, and also in our view of the eternities.
Corey D.March 20, 2025
That is so funny, Brother Howard you are the mormon version of Patrick McManus. Coming from a small town and having had a septic tank growing up and being a teenager in the 70's with access to dynamite that story brings back all kinds of memories and stories.
Ronald BarnesMarch 20, 2025
I never heard of him until yesterday, and today I find this article. I face a similar crisis with my wife of 48 years being in the final stages of Alzheimer’s. I understand what he means about constructing a new person. I’ve already transformed into a new person as a result of my wife’s illness, and when she passes through the veil, I’ll have to do it a second time. As he learned, life must go on, and I will too.
Brian/Julie BurtMarch 20, 2025
I would also like to know how to listen. I've checked podbean and Spotify.
Gordon HensleyMarch 19, 2025
I think they are thinking too small when they think we are only getting our own planet. Planets and star systems don't exist on their own. It takes a galaxy to form and support stars and planets.
Dave HansenMarch 19, 2025
ROTFLOL...........I have a similar story from my teenage years, 6 decades ago. I was at the barn for some reason on a late Thursday afternoon in the late autumn, and heard a distant blast. I didn't have any idea of what caused it, and nothing followed it, so I went back to whatever I was doing before it got dark. A few days later (probably Sunday) my father heard that a good Church friend of ours had a little mishap. He lived about 5 miles away from us, on a farm of several acres. One of his cows died out by a property line, and he had to somehow dispose of it. It wouldn't make sense to drag it back to the barn with the tractor, so instead he and the kids dug a gravesite right next to the cow, and then found that the critter was way to heavy to move into the hole. He had a solution to the problem, though....he grabbed some dynamite (likely kept for removing stumps on the farm) and placed some under the cow. Well....he may have miscalculated how many sticks to use, as it didn't work as expected.....instead of nudging the cow into the hole, the cow was blown over the fence onto the neighbor's property. And........it blew out the windows of his house, as well as some windows in neighboring houses! /// Interestingly, he was the funniest guy I ever knew. Of all the talks given over the decades, I can only remember one.....though, he didn't tell that story, but he was full of funny stories that were a part of his life. This *https://sites.google.com/view/brad-summers-pow-1926/home* is his most memorable story, IMO.
Myrna AndersonMarch 19, 2025
I love your stories! Is this and all others based upon real people and happenings?
Corey D.March 18, 2025
Great story, well told.
Grandpa ClydeMarch 18, 2025
I love your stories. I will just note that for most of us, any sentence that includes the word dynamite is likely not a good idea.
David A Watson, DDSMarch 18, 2025
So, if Joseph received all those keys, did he pass them along to the 12 and subsequently to each succeeding prophet? That would mean President Nelson also holds all those keys. But Joseph was the first in this dispensation to hold them.
HazeMarch 18, 2025
Thank you for this concise summary. Very easy to follow. Makes Joseph Smith, Jr. just that much more impressive of a young man.
Ed RehderMarch 18, 2025
Thanks for this article. Had no idea Rush's drummer was such a talent. And admire his strength to overcome tragedy. I was really hoping to read that he became a church member. Bet he is now.
JulieMarch 18, 2025
What I find interesting is The Church is blamed for the abuse. The Church did not do this. Individuals did. Yes, it may have been a church sponsored activity but it is still the individual that is guilty. In my simple way of thinking the purpose to accuse The Church is to sensationalize the supposed abuse for gain, either financially or to smear the church. The same goes for other organizations, whether religious or educational, it is the individual that performed the abuse and not the organization.
Robert StarlingMarch 18, 2025
Great article Chris. Very well written and extremely informative. Thanks for putting this information together..
Robert StarlingMarch 18, 2025
Thanks Kathy for some very useful help. Very useful for those of us married even 50+ years..
KellieMarch 18, 2025
Great article! We've just rededicated to spending more quality time together as a couple and as a family. We found ourselves living "separate lives" in our shared home and realized it was time to reconnect. We've set aside a dedicated time slot each evening for family time. I'm going to use your not so newlywed games questions with my husband and play the finish the story game with our kids. Thanks for the great insights.
Richard GarrisonMarch 17, 2025
Becky, once again, as you have throughout my adult life, you have inspired me with another of your beautiful stories of "real" life! Thank you for sharing and the wonderful example of "true service to others" that YOU are to me!
MarkMarch 17, 2025
I am an involved member (I hate saying active), but the LDS obsession over perfection is maddening. Why we continue to strain at this gnat is baffling. Just follow Jesus. His way, His truth and His life. Stop looking inward trying to figure out your own perfection. How does an imperfect human even know how to facilitate their own perfection? You can’t. Ever. Only in and through Christ are we made perfect.
Leanne StrongMarch 15, 2025
There are some things that must happen, and are non-negotiable. Learning how to swim is nearly non-negotiable, because what if a child falls into a pool or body of water, and they don't have their life jacket or floaties on?
A Concerned MomMarch 15, 2025
Informative article, but you didn't clearly address the never-been-marrieds. Our daughter turns 36 this year and grieves that she will never marry because she has little to no opportunity to date! She has not met any single men in her age group in her ward, stake or region. She's tried online dating but has had no response whatsoever to her responses and inquiries. Where are all the LDS men who have learned and grown and want a wonderful, virtuous woman? She sure can't find them. She been to large, multi-regional singles conferences and feels like she's among her grandparents. The one or two men close to her age don't look at her because she's not a "glamor girl" (I call them high maintenance). What suggestions do you have for her?
WallyMarch 13, 2025
Beautiful and inspiring!
LewisMarch 13, 2025
What a beautiful story! We, who have been given so much, could learn incredible lessons from these children. You have such a gift. Please continue to share that gift with the rest of us. We learn from your example, and we too are changed. Hopefully we can find others to change as well.
CynthiaMarch 13, 2025
Your beautiful article brought tears to my eyes! Thank you for sharing such lovely, inspiring stories! I am determined to put the President Kimball quote on my fridge or mirror so that I might be reminded of it daily. What a great lesson in service!
Joel MarksMarch 12, 2025
Thank God for scholars like Daniel Peterson! It was no coincidence that Nephi in vision saw the American experiece of a new nation and new governing of peoples dedicated to righteous behavior.(1Nephi.13) With Dr Petersons prescient insight to whales, birds, Sir Isaac and Alexander Pope their is no coincidence in Gods plans abd Glory! Thank God fir scholars like Daniel Peterson!
Steve FennMarch 12, 2025
Great message, Dan. The world and all creation is indeed a wonder. And the marvel of it is that we most likely already have a very comprehensive knowledge of it all. After all, we had a bird's eye view of creation and perhaps even had a hand in it ourselves.
Dave CookMarch 11, 2025
I've often wondered about verse 2: what were the "other records" which Oliver was promised a future chance to translate? Any insight on that?
KokoMarch 10, 2025
Thank you so much for sharing this! I will try to incorporate this as well
ElisabethMarch 10, 2025
Lovely idea! However, if you wish to save things from year to year, each day should be numbered instead of getting a particular date.
EricMarch 6, 2025
Speaking of stories we ought to tell about ourselves, I'm currently reading Parley P. Pratt's autobiography, and I think it could make a great series--particularly his experiences in Missouri.
Denise NixonMarch 6, 2025
Great podcast. Heightened my understanding of the Atonement
KathleenMarch 6, 2025
I decided to try the product but the check out system won’t accept my address. Same address I’ve been using for over 26 years and have had no issues with any other company.
ShaunaMarch 5, 2025
Fantastic! thank you so much. These insights will enhance my temple attendance
Rochelle HaleMarch 5, 2025
I have seen post after post and short videos with sisters describing what they can now wear, and I fear the focus is on fashion, rather than covenant. In 50 years of temple attendance, I have experienced several changes in temple garments, both for temple-only and everyday wear. The goal should be to wear our garments appropriately and not seek to modify them. I applaud our leaders for receiving inspiration to help those in warmer climates. I recently had surgery and could not wear my garments for 2-3 weeks. The Lord knew my heart, but I wish the slip style had been available to me.
Sally SmothMarch 5, 2025
This has been very difficult for me to do. I think of hymns, tell my mind to stop, etc. But they are temporary fixes. What has worked for me is allowing the thought to come saying " saying you may talk, but I will not listen.And most of the time it leaves."
Jenny Madsen SvendsenMarch 4, 2025
Thank you for such an enlightning article, I never realized that temple endowments and marriage are related, I wonder why I didn't catch on to that, after being sealed to my husband in the temple in 1971, but we learn ine upon line, precept upon precept for sure.
Bob SpielMarch 4, 2025
Reminds me of the disciples of Jesus at Ephesus. This isn't the first or last time we will be castigated by a crowd. Like the disciples of old, we can rejoice to be worth to suffer pain for His name.
vickieMarch 3, 2025
i was so glad to know that our church believes in a heavenly mother, otherwise why are there 2 sexes here on earth. we couldn't presume that God created us in a flash and that we experiences something He doesn't. So there are two in heaven as it should be in sexes....i was raised a catholic and learned to worship a heavenly mother but that heavenly mother was mary the mother of Jesus...catholic all over still worship her and now they say they use her as the intercessor ..Jesus is the intercesser...our only intercessor..however that is spelled. I was also told in the church that we dont know the name of our Mother in heaven because we cannot blaspheme her...its as if Heavenly Father is protecting Her. i do know that we will know all things when its time and I dont worry over it and try to argue things out. its not necessary. God bless all.
Rochelle HaleMarch 3, 2025
On my mission I wrote a poem about Heavenly Mother, probably thinking of my own mother and all mothers who send their sons or daughters off to a strange place to do the Lord’s work. In all honesty, we know little about Heavenly Mother, except it makes perfect sense that we are born of two Heavenly parents. I am sure Mother is surrounding us with her love and leading our cheering squad until we are Home again.
J SmithMarch 3, 2025
Looks like you've all found evidence of priestcraft--telling people what they want to hear for the benefit of personal advancement
M D BrashearMarch 3, 2025
I appreciate the thoughts towards a heavenly mother and the female attributes associated with her. However, God never intended for us to perform any type of worship toward her. In fact, such worship was the basis for the destruction of both the Northern and Southern Kingdoms of Israel. Allowing such thoughts into our minds opens us up to a very powerful tool of Satan. Our salvation is dependent upon a plan of the Sacrifice and Atonement of Jesus Christ and all proscriptions of worship are to be centered on God and His son. Satan was able to flip the script on this, insinuating the Queen of Heaven into the pantheon of gods accepted by the early Israelites. It quickly led to untold corruption, misery and death in their worship practices, resulting in their destruction and dispersal, the gathering from which we are just now beginning to witness. Logic tells us we have a mother in heaven. Logic does not necessarily fit into who or what our how we worship.
DumaMarch 3, 2025
The common thread that I have found among those who veer off the covenant path is that they believe that they are more inspired than - a step ahead of - the prophet. They believe that if he would just ask the right questions and focus on their points, that the Church would finally return to or get to their inspired conclusions and position. When that doesn't happen, they stay and bad mouth the leadership, or they eventually leave. It's sad and so preventable.
Cynthia DeckerMarch 3, 2025
What an "Aha" moment. I sometimes wonder why we don't hear more about our Heavenly Mother. Your article makes sense to me, and answers that question. It's because we humans are rather prone to try the "Heavenly Mother work-around." I see it happening here and there recently. Does that mean I shouldn't yearn to know my Heavenly Mother? Not at all. But She, of all people, wouldn't want us to inadvertently drive a wedge between us and Her Sweetheart. Here's the truth: When I'm close to Him, I'm close to Her too.
DumaMarch 3, 2025
I like to think that a reason (speculation only) that Father doesn't reveal more to us about Mother is because He is so abused right now by his children that He's saving revealing her until we are ready to treat her with respect.
SageMarch 3, 2025
Thank you for this insightful article. I painted Heavenly Mother for one of those books and started following those accounts. Before too long, I also had to unfollow them. I appreciate your insights on why we need to see our Heavenly parents as one.
CoreyFebruary 27, 2025
Is this open to non-members?
JillFebruary 26, 2025
I agree with everything you wrote. In addition, women hold priesthood power, but not a priesthood office, unless they serve in the temple where they are 'authorised' to do so. Women work in leadership roles in the Relief Society and in other capacities. Their spouses support them in those callings. We are all engaged on the errands of the Lord. We complement one another as we serve in his kingdom.
Teresa BarkerFebruary 26, 2025
I just tried to edit my comment to say "This article is so informative" but it disappeared on me in the middle of the edit. Thanks for completing the edit before posting it. Best regards, Teresa Barker
Diane ChaseFebruary 26, 2025
Excellent! Very well said.
StevenFebruary 26, 2025
I fly a lot and this is great advice!
Lana JohnsonFebruary 26, 2025
3rd way to participate in the Easter initiative is?
Lana JohnsonFebruary 26, 2025
You only shown 2 way to participate in the Easter initiative what is the 3rd way
Lana JohnsonFebruary 26, 2025
Hi what is the 3rd way to participate in the Easter initiative?
Jenny SvendsenFebruary 25, 2025
Than you so much for that very insightful article.
Gary StrobleFebruary 24, 2025
Article on protecting your identify turned into a commercial for a specific company. Good ideas but full disclosure would have been nice at the beginning.
Roberta BFebruary 24, 2025
THANK YOU SO MUCH for these insightful articles. I came across #4 and finally found the other 3. I printed them off and plan on studying them. Unfortunately, I found myself falling into some of these undesirable categories AND plan on some "course-correction" ASAP. I'll be looking forward to more of your work.
CodyFebruary 24, 2025
This was deeply insightful. I would be interested in an article on other types of fraud. Especially since my little family and I are still in a rental situation. Thanks!
Molly HarleyFebruary 24, 2025
This article is exactly what I needed to read right now. My daily plea for help to become better, to do better, seems much more reachable if I remember the arrows of my trajectory. Thank you Lynne.
BeckyFebruary 23, 2025
I’ve also found that when asking AI for the information, I don’t learn or retain it. Today I asked for a summary of a book I had read, and when I tried to explain a concept included in the summary a few hours later, I couldn’t remember the example it had just given me.. So it was useless to me. Anything worth learning is worth putting in our own effort. I ask AI questions still, but I’m writing out my own answers and ideas, using AI as a source but not my only source. This article is very relevant. Thank you for the reminder of Elder Bednar’s warning, and this engaging format.
Corey D.February 23, 2025
This is the 1st one of the Screwtape Text Message columns I've read and it's very good and right on in it's observations. I could give countless examples of the things mentioned from or about family members, ward members, former co-workers, etc., how digital technology/devices have affected or destroyed marriages, been the beginning of testimonies lost, affected employment, it's almost endless. It hits home also, while I haven't googled something during a church class or meeting I find myself online a lot looking up auto or home repair info, outdoor/hiking equipment, lots of political stuff, it can be almost addictive. One thing the article doesn't mention but everybody deals with, we are so dependent on technology now, if it's not working correctly life almost seems to stop, endless hours are spent sometimes daily, trying to get our digital/electronic media and devices to work correctly and that's time away from more important things usually.
MaryannFebruary 21, 2025
Interesting story, however, I'm surprised the police weren't called the FIRST TIME the neighbor threatened with a gun. This tale could have had a very tragic ending. Glad things turned out ok.
MaryannFebruary 21, 2025
While I feel sympathetic for this man's pain, his use of the phrase "tough breaks" indicates he thinks he is a victim. Being excommunicated isn't a "tough break." It is a consequence for serious misbehavior, with the loving intention of helping him return to full fellowship. He also included some other problems as "tough breaks." I hope he can find a good therapist who will help him make better choices in the future. He needs to realize he doesn't have to be a victim and that his own choices bring about many of the consequences her is experiencing.
Elizabeth RichardsonFebruary 21, 2025
" I also agree with you that his yelling isn’t the best way to interact with his children." Seriously? An actual therapist is saying this? It's nothing short of abuse and warrants a serious intervention. Someone needs to stick up for those kids if their mother is too weak to do it herself.
Judith B PerryFebruary 21, 2025
Mariah, I am 87 years old and am well aware of my mother's and my grandmother's and my own era's of mothering. I would like to help with your project with interviews and small monetary donation. I'm not techy with how to make that possible. An address I can mail a check is in my speed of possibility. Thank you, Judith Perry
Judith B PerryFebruary 21, 2025
.PS to post regarding Podcast #8. With and behind each Apostle's service and dedication usually stands a highly dedicated and supportive woman in the background carrying huge responsibilities for family and community making it possible for the time and dedication of each Apostle.
Judith B PerryFebruary 21, 2025
Brother and Sister Proctor, I loved this podcast!!!!! Thank you for sharing so much of your experiences. As a parent of a gay daughter and son, I recall how I suffered the experience of learning this at a time when that issue was handled so badly by church culture. If I had to choose between God and my children, I chose my children until I could learn they were His children first. Thank you for reinforcing my testimony that my gay children are just as precious in God's eyes as any one else. What they couldn't live precisely by church doctrine, I encouraged then to live to their best what they could and the Lord would make up the difference. They both eventually died single and celebate. I miss them so much. They did more to raise me than I did to raise them. Whether you see this or not, I write it as my letter to God today. Yes, God is in the details of our lives.
MeganFebruary 21, 2025
Please let us know how we can support and watch this film if we’re not in Utah. I would love to see it!
KristenFebruary 20, 2025
Very enjoyable article. We are big fans of Napoleon Dynamite and are happy to hear he remains firm in the faith.
JuliannFebruary 20, 2025
Fun interview. I appreciate the honest insights. Thank you. I’m going to go look up Pickle and Peanut.
Mirin NelsonFebruary 19, 2025
The PCC was started by my Uncle Edward LaVaun Clissold. It is a magnificent place and experience! Can’t wait to see this documentary! ❤️
CasFebruary 19, 2025
Will this be available for streaming at some point in the future?
Yolanda BassettFebruary 19, 2025
Yolanda from Nicaragua and Houston, TX Thank dear sister for your courage, your faith, your God given testimony of the Truth of the Savior's Church, indeed, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter -Day Saints. I served a mission years ago, and it is and has been a beacon of light throughout my life. Thank you dear sister, for choosing to use such a horrific Satan induced experience, as a stepping stone toward fortitude and strength instead of a stumbling block to loss, darkness and unhappiness. I highly respect, admire and support you and all that you wrote on this article and what you stand for. Thank you, thank you.
CynthiaCFebruary 19, 2025
Definitely looking forward to seeing this documentary!
HelenCFebruary 18, 2025
As a 100% British Caucasian (as in “no tanning here”) I often wonder how honoring my ancestry impacts those with cultures that were affected by the imperialist history of my people. Since we were mostly “working class” we probably weren’t personally involved but I do remember a couple of innocently derogatory sayings from my childhood. No point in denying them, they existed but being raised to be kind, polite and intelligently curious has guided me to an appreciation for the power of unconditional love. These differences were created so we could overcome them on a person to person level.
Robert StarlingFebruary 17, 2025
Bless you, Brother Dan. You're doing a great service to the Lord's Kingdom, and to His children. In our era when fewer people read books, the visual medium becomes more and more important.
Robert StarlingFebruary 17, 2025
As a father of three daughters and grandfather of two (so far), I read this article with interest. My first thought was to show the young women a photo of a whole-body-covering floppy black "bathing" suit from the early 1900's, and say, "I'm sure this kind of "two-piece" swimsuit would be okay to wear." Then in contrast, it would be easy to find numerous examples of one-piece women's swimsuits that are NOT appropriate. The question is not how many pieces are used, but what is modest and yet still attractive. Sister Clayton did a marvelous job of helping her Young Women find the right answers in the right way. An interesting side note: Back in the 1950's, the most popular swimsuit designer in the world was Rose Marie Reid, a Latter-day Saint. She designed swimsuits for movie stars like Marilyn Munroe and many others. One of her designs was manufactured in part with the help of Relief Society sisters, and all the proceeds from that design were donated to help build the Los Angeles temple. She also designed the modern temple garments for women.
Jenny SvendsenFebruary 17, 2025
I wasn't able to get the link either, as it asks only the state I'm from, I live in Canada
Rochelle HaleFebruary 17, 2025
Mariah, I'm sure this will be a wonderful film, but I am unable to make a donation at this time. I hope you will include some of the heartache of infertility and the empty arms that wait years for a baby, the mothers who must work out of necessity (I went back to work after 2 weeks), preparing physically and mentally to meet the baby's needs and your own, how to share this joyous time with your spouse (and what it means going forward as you enlarge your family), and how the magic of pregnancy and childbirth has bonded women through the centuries, regardless of their particular circumstances.
Gene SchaerrFebruary 17, 2025
Fantastic story and analysis. Thank you!
Corey D.February 16, 2025
Great article, well said. It's a struggle to always have a desire to be good or be like Jesus or have our thoughts more and more on the Savior, be more holy as President Nelson puts it. I have been reading again Elder Maxwell's book " Not My Will but Thine" and something he says in there just really hit me hard this time, he asks how hard are we willing to work to be like the Savior and then he points out that Satan is willing to work hard to achieve what he wants, in fact that's his whole focus and he works non-stop, that has made me really think, how much effort am I truly giving or how strong are my desires as the article mentions.
Liz AsherFebruary 16, 2025
Where can I find it in the US? Every site says it is a pay movie. Thank you.
David FagerburgFebruary 16, 2025
The links lead to the site and give a watch button which does not accept any click input and so does not work at all, either with Safari as the browser or Chrome.
Laurie BrooksFebruary 16, 2025
Thank you sister for writing this and speaking out on a tender topic. Your faith, testimony and perspective are amazing.. So happy to hear your health and faith are intact.
SarahFebruary 15, 2025
This was very moving to me, especially as a child of a woman whose life was ended by random violence. I felt my mom speak to me through her words, as I've felt God's hand in all hard things more than I could have testified had I not experienced hard, even unspeakably horrific things. Thank you for publishing it.
MillieFebruary 15, 2025
Our family enjoyed watching Takedown many times when the children were younger and still at home. Where can the remastered version be found? I would like to introduce it to the grandchildren. I am glad your wife encouraged you in your work. Encouragement and support make such a difference. Also I knew your sister at what was then, Ricks College. We were cheerleaders together. Sadly, I have lost touch with her.
Rhoda AndersonFebruary 15, 2025
Wow-- super powerful testimony and breakdown of this movie. Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. Thank God for your life and the personal opportunity you've taken to share these words with us.
LisaFebruary 14, 2025
Beautifully written, thank you for adding your voice. I currently have 2 missionaries out and have only seen the previews for this movie. It’s not something I would ever have any desire to watch which I’m finding also makes speaking out against such a movie a difficulty. “religious misrepresentation is religious persecution so long as it engenders doubt, disbelief, mistrust, or disrespect toward any religious sect.” This call out is spot on. Your testimony and conviction is beautiful and strong. Thank you for ending this article with the profound truths you have learned through your journey.
Harold RustFebruary 14, 2025
Well.....thanks for helping me find a big smile on my face as I read your personal story(ies). A nice lift for today.
Heidi S.February 14, 2025
Your method for helping your group find answers through study and prayer, along with the real-life example you detail, are so helpful. This is the perfect story for our current study of Joseph Smith’s experience getting answers to his prayers.
JeffFebruary 13, 2025
Thank you for writing and sharing your personal thoughts and faith on this important matter.
Becky S.February 13, 2025
I’m so sorry you lived this nightmare. Thank you for sharing your story and powerful testimony of God’s love throughout your ordeal. Thank you for being faithful despite the world’s misrepresentation.
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 13, 2025
Thank you very much for this article based in your own experience. You are right in everything you wrote. This should be read by every member of the Church and by the missionaries serving, as well by their parents.
Steve DoneganFebruary 13, 2025
As a man, I saw the title and wondered if there would be anything for me in this article. But my roles as father and grandfather guided me to take the leap. I’m glad I did. But a dilemma exists. How do I get my elders quorum to read it? Not to worry, the Lord will provide a way. You’ve shown me that.
ShaunaFebruary 13, 2025
Fantastic--what a great example of empowering youth, or anyone, by having them learn apply these solid principles. I wish I had done more of that as a mother, but it's not too late
Daniel PetersonFebruary 13, 2025
Ah. Sorry! We've updated the form in a way that should -- I hope! -- enable people from outside the United States to access the films. Please report whether or not it works.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 13, 2025
While I believe in the power of prayer and personal inspiration, I think many suggestions for proper attire depend on when and where we were raised, local culture, etc. As a new teenage convert, I learned that 2-piece swimsuits were inappropriate. This was the era of mini skirts, and I had one friend who always wore her dresses longer (a story I would learn years later about her mother). A short time later, granny dresses were all the rage, and by the time I went to the temple, I had no problem wearing clothing that would cover my garments. We have sometimes been counseled about swimsuits, ear piercings, and even wearing hosiery, etc. I see even many adult friends who adhere to these standards and others who do not. The "For Strength of Youth" guidelines have changed from lists of dos and don'ts to guidelines to help young people discern for themselves what is appropriate. As a former ordinance worker, I learned to make exceptions when some patrons came through the door. They may have been on vacation and didn't bring the proper clothing, or they have just gotten off work, there was the occasional actor with very long hair (male) or bright green or pink hair. However, as long as they had their temple recommends they were admitted to the house of the Lord. I believe it behooves us to be modest in dress and action, and not immerse ourselves in the fashions of the world, however, we should also make choices that are appropriate for our activities and and not look for exemptions from living gospel principles.
Tony RossFebruary 13, 2025
Is it possible to get link from outside the USA. I am in Australia?
KathleenFebruary 12, 2025
Too sweet. Thank the Lord for every day heroes!
CynthiaFebruary 12, 2025
David Hobson, please go to give.risingstaroutreach.org to donate to this wonderful organization!
SageFebruary 12, 2025
http://www.risingstaroutreach.org/ is the charity run by Becky Douglas. It's a great organization.
SJCFebruary 12, 2025
I have believed the veil ceremony to be symbolic of the last judgment. The tokens are like having us tell the Lord that we did strive to keep the associated covenants. The tokens become a physical manifestation of a spiritual reality.
Jolanda Wiesner - PrzewrockaFebruary 12, 2025
How can I watch the films here in Switzerland?
Antonio ArreolaFebruary 11, 2025
Gracias por la clase, cumple con mis necesidades espirituales
Name with heldFebruary 10, 2025
She may actualling be starving because her body is not metabolizing food properly and so she feels hungry all the time.
Tami TaylorFebruary 10, 2025
Best article I have ever read on this subject. And I have read a lot! I wish this could be read by every woman in the church who struggles with the idea that seems to be perpetuated by so many that we are all doomed to live in a polygamous relationship for eternity and with the accompanying feeling that God is not a God who loves and cares for us as I know He does. This has finally brought peace to me on this subject. A peace I have been asking God for. The spirit tells me this is true. I feel greater joy than I have in a long time as I contemplate eternity.
David C HobsonFebruary 10, 2025
So where do we send donations for the Indian program? I'd like to donate!
Richard GarrisonFebruary 10, 2025
Becky, thank you so much for the inspiring update! I marvel constantly at the wonderful work you and your team have done through the years and continue to do today! You have blessed many, including me!
MaryFebruary 10, 2025
Is there a transcript to this podcast?
LewisFebruary 10, 2025
What beautiful children, what inspiring stories! I am so grateful you let us be a part of this incredible work, The Savior loved the children, and your article reminds us why. Thank you for sharing these incredible stories with us.
Ed ThomasFebruary 10, 2025
As a Church, we cannot let abusive narcissists pull good sisters and brothers away from Heavenly Family. We must expose their lies and destruction. We must flood new media with truth. THIS will build Zion.
MegFebruary 10, 2025
What an encouraging update! Does anyone know of foundations that still accept hand-knitted leprosy bandages? The one which I used to send them to now only uses disposable bandages.
CynthiaFebruary 10, 2025
What a beautiful update on these remarkable children! How gratifying to read about the life-changing results of the generosity of the Meridian readers. Thank you for sharing these personal, heart-warming stories!! Thank you for serving God's children in the marvelous way you do.
Steve DoneganFebruary 10, 2025
When I speak with Heavenly Father today, I will be sure to tell Him how much I appreciate the video I saw here. Thank you.
Scott ToddFebruary 9, 2025
I am an adult convert to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I have been a member for 48 years. I have read and studied the Book of Mormon many times. I have always thought of Captain Moroni as a devout follower of Jesus Christ, I have always thought of him as a religious individual.
MickeyFebruary 9, 2025
This girl and the mom have eating disorders or at minimum disordered eating. I know so many kids who were hospitalized and nearly died whose illnesses started just like this. Please find a support group for parents caring for a person with and ED. I can recommend International Eating Disorder Family Support on FB. Please do not limit her food in any way and please start feeding her high fats and high calories 6 times a day and include the foods she’s eating in secret. Require she eat them regularly. The risks of her having an ED are far more likely and harmful than anything that being “fat” could do to her. Satan wants you and her to believe her size determines her worth and it’s simply not true. You can also email me at [email protected]
Susan KnightFebruary 8, 2025
This article let me know that my father, an Eagle Scout, probably knows more about signs and tokens in the spirit world than I gave him credit for. I know he accepted his vicarious temple work, even though he refused to attend my baptism. I thought he would be a hard sell, but now I see he understood completely. Thank you so much.
Phillip C SmithFebruary 8, 2025
Many of us, from time to time, have questions about what goes on in the Church, both by the decisions and actions of its leaders but also by the activities of many members. What to do in these situations? First and foremost to me is the realization that I am not omniscient, that my best efforts at coming up with the best answers at the right time may be wrong. Those who find fault with the Church on one thing or another need to recognize, as I do, that the Lord’s instruction in Matthew 7:1-5 applies to them. Once I can work through all my negatives and become like the Lord, then perhaps I will be qualified to know what is right and what not in particular instances. This does not mean that I should necessarily keep silent on a given issue. I just need to recognize, though, that my opinions, which I feel the need to express, may be wrong, or may not be what is needed at a particular time. I believe that Church leaders are trying to do the best they can. I give them the benefit of any doubt because I hope the Lord does the same for me.
Jeff ChadwickFebruary 7, 2025
An interesting read, and well constructed. The author may want to amend the idea that Moses lived "four millennia" before Moroni's 1827 visit, however, since it is universally reckoned that Moses and the Exodus occurred during the Egyptian New Kingdom period, which began ca. 1550 BC (only three and a half millennia ago), and are more precisely placed in the 13th century BC (1300 to 1200 BC) during the reign of Rameses II, some 3,300 years ago. That said, though, the facts of Israelite history and Jewish practice in the piece are accurately stated, and the parallels creatively presented.
MaryannFebruary 7, 2025
An additional help would be to stop buying all high fat or high sugar foods. Do not have them in the house. Plan family menus that will contribute to the health of every family member. Search for delicious recipes for healthy snacks, and have them readily available.
Scott LawFebruary 7, 2025
The Screwtape letters is one of the few non-LDS books I've actually purchased to have on hand. I'm really looking forward to this series. I will be sharing it as I believe this wisdom needs to be shared. Thank you!
Kelly A. PetersonFebruary 7, 2025
Why was Farms disbanded from BYU?
Ron RhodesFebruary 7, 2025
Adding to the list of defenders of the faith is www.answeringldscritics.com. This site not only aggregates answers from across the internet to many of the questions raised in the CES Letter, but also explores the credibility of several of the most prominent critical organizations, including their financial motivation and abhorrent behaviors. The prophet Mormon warned us that "whatsoever thing persuadeth men to do evil, and believe not in Christ, and deny him, and serve not God, then ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of the devil". This site shows these organizations meet this criteria in spades.
AshleyFebruary 6, 2025
Thank you for this! I have been pondering and praying about this exact topic and you helped answer a couple questions I had. Heavenly Father is willing to teach us If we ask Him and put in the work to find out!
Sherry R.February 6, 2025
Thank you with all my heart for this beautiful and educating article! It has given me great peace.
JenniferFebruary 6, 2025
Thanks for sharing your experience. Sadly we are quick to judge ourselves and others harshly without understanding underlying challenges, both physical and psychological. I had always planned on returning to school when my youngest entered first grade. That's about the same time I was diagnosed with Crohn's disease. It wasn't until that same child interviewed me for a college paper that I realized how that disease had impacted my energy levels. I was giving all I had to raise my children and serve in the church and community. A Master's degree wasn't really an option. It is difficult when our bodies aren't capable of doing what we want them to. A great reminder to be kind to ourselves and those around us.
Richard GarrisonFebruary 6, 2025
Thank you so much for this inspired article! You blessed me personally and answered a prayer!
David CookFebruary 6, 2025
Amen to this: "What matters most in this life is not our family status but the status of our hearts and whether we are trying to follow God’s will for our lives." I have very close relatives in family statuses not of their choosing that will appreciate this message. Thank you.
Joanne WagstaffFebruary 6, 2025
Thank you very much for this clear and concise description to share with others not endowed.. Sacred and undisclosed are significantly different than secret and are expressed so well in his article.
HelenCFebruary 6, 2025
My husband left the Church shortly after his mission yet he has declared he will never talk about the things he once knew in the Temple and he is not pleased with those who do. He says he gave his word. I choose to think he remembers more than he says he does.
ShaunaFebruary 5, 2025
Thank you for this well researched article and for defending the faith. as Elder Mawell was fond of a quote Austin Farrar said about C.S. Lewis: "though argument does not create conviction, lack of it destroys belief. What seems to be proved may not be embraced but what no one shows the ability to defend is quickly abandoned. Rathional argument does not create belief, but it meantains a climate in which belief may flourish".
Debrah RoundyFebruary 5, 2025
I know how you feel. Like a lot of women in the past, I have a big tummy. I was fat, I knew it . Yet my legs and arms are skinny. I dieted and was only a bit over weight. Just my tummy was fat, in fact, I looked and still look around 8 months pregnant. I am a missionary in a place where many families have a lot of people and women will often gesture to congratulate me on the new on to be. But I am 72 years old, so I take it as a flattering comment that they must think I am MUCH younger than I look. My doctor just thought I was fat, I saw a physical therapist, and he said the muscles were torn and there was nothing I could do. This was in the 1980's. I am not sure we even had CT scans back then. Then, I went in for a physical for our next mission while still on a mission in a small island country. The doctor checked me well, thinking I could have a tumor or something. Then she said, everything appears normal but I think you should have a CT scan, so I did. Now we have CT scans and the truth was told. That six-pack or muscles was in hiding, clear behind my hip bones. There was a surgery for it now, but they advised not to do it at my age, and I agree. The magnificent The paper thin linea alba and a thin (no fat there) layer of skin are all there is to hold my intestines. BUT there are exercises I can do to keep my back strong. There is a brace I can wear, and that, ladies, is why our grandmas wore a girdle. All the talk in the 60-70's about a girdle being bad for women to wear was right for some, but for many of us, it was just what was needed, a laced up girdle to hold in the intestines spilling out. I decided to embrace myself a momma who had 5 big, beautiful, healthy babies, and accept that resurrection morning is coming and my turn is coming to have a new and improved body. Young gals nowadays are evaluated after pregnancy and given the right exercises to bring the muscles back together in most cases. Modern medicine with all the bells and whistles has come so far. My children do not need to have this even if they have big babies. Exercise and even surgery for young mothers give options while I had none. Just knowing makes such a difference! And if anyone gives me a snide remark, I can top him or her lovingly with the truth, too. Sure glad I took time to read this wonderful article. I hope my comments will help some others out there who still like young enough to be eight months pregnant and well over 55 or so.
ScottFebruary 5, 2025
It would seem another factor in the "perfect storm" was the Church recently having a public moment of discussion with Mitt Romney's presidential campaign and Republican nomination. A lot of that discussion was bad as those against the Church used that opportunity to wheel out their old arguments and false claims. It seems like the CES Letter was the culmination of that and took advantage of the public psyche.
Bob SpielFebruary 5, 2025
Solid analysis. Yes, most of this is recycled anti-Mormonism for a new generation, but it's proved to be the most poignant faith destroyer yet. I know of 2 close family members, and even one Bishop in my circle of love, who left the church due to the CES letter. It's really a tragedy that 13 years later, there still isn't a UNIFIED effort to discredit it, like FARMS did with the Palmer document. The lack of immediate and direct answers from faithful sources quickly and potently gave the appearance that Rundell's accusations were correct. The Mormon Stories podcast has also been a very effective weapon of the adversary. I'd suggest a podcast to counter both. That's how the target of these two efforts, Gen Z and Millennials, get their information today.
BeckyFebruary 4, 2025
What a relief that must of been. It’s a good reminder not to judge by appearances. We can always see the cause of some people’s behavior. Thank you for the reminder to be kind and not judge.
JulieFebruary 4, 2025
Absolutely loved this article. Lots of things to think about that I might possibly be trifling with. However, I adore having scriptures on my phone. I turn off all notifications and delve much more deeply into them than I would reading paper scriptures. I love the ability to add notes and link to conference talks and articles. It adds so much depth and meaning to my scripture study. And when I'm waiting at a doctor's office it's lovely to be able to read the scriptures instead of a magazine.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 4, 2025
Thank you for writing this article Kimberly! Your experience is instructive and inspiring, and very like a validating diagnosis I've had recently. Ever since puberty my body changed dramatically as I struggled with legs and hips that hurt and were larger than what our culture deems beautiful. I agonized over this for years, with countless numbers of professionals (meaning doctors) giving me diet advice that never worked - which I translated as MY failture, MY weakness. Turns out I have an autoimmune conditon called lipedema, recently understood more, triggered by estrogen-driven life events. Even though it is not something that can be reversed, there are helpful advances in treating the most uncomfortable aspects of it. Most importantly, I feel liberated from berating myself for being weak, ignorant, and faithless despite my best efforts to change things. We are all so individual in body and spirit. Let's give ourselves and others the benefit of seeing people as valuable in what they can do, rather than whispered about for what they can't do. We have so much to yet learn about how our bodies work - scientists and doctors are learning too! I have considerable confidence that our Father knows our potential and very real contributions - loving us for doing the best we can in a very imperfect world filled with imperfect humans.
Christy RutherfordFebruary 4, 2025
I can certainly understand what you were going through. I have lived with a rare syndrome for 25 years and after dozens of doctors and specialists, and even unnecessary surgeries, they couldn't find the cause of my constant pain. Then one day I was visiting a doctor for an unrelated illness when she asked why I was taking pain meds. I told her about my symptoms, and she asked one simple question. With my affirmative response, she exclaimed, "I know what that is!" She named the syndrome and said she had seen it once 20 years earlier. Like you, there isn't a cure, but they can treat the pain. I was excited to know it wasn't all in my head! Thank you for sharing your story!
Jocelyn MichaelFebruary 4, 2025
Thank you for uncovering another reason to be judgeless.
GTOFebruary 4, 2025
I was guessing ED before you revealed it. I'm similar, with hypermobility and connective tissue disease (non-ED). I'm nearly done with my mortal life, but looking back, I see the evidences in my childhood that weren't diagnosed until past middle age. All the best to you and thanks for sharing the lessons learned.
Joan WFebruary 4, 2025
I really appreciated this article. As one suffering from an affliction not visible to most I worry about how I’m judged. This touches me. There are many invisible challenges that everyone deals with. The same kindness and love that is given to those with visible problems can be shown to those less obvious. I will be kinder and I hope others will be too.
TrudyFebruary 4, 2025
I I really feel for you, our daughter was diagnosed finally with Ehlers-Danilo’s about a year ago and it is a nightmare that has really been tough. She has 4 children and is now in a wheelchair for things like Grocery shopping as she finds it difficult to walk distances anymore. For a long time she was kind of labelled as a fake and hypochondriac but no…. Ehlers Damlos and about 6/7 out of the 13 subconditions - they are still testing for those.
Michael BrashearFebruary 4, 2025
We do not have a sign on our forehead announcing, “Here comes so and so, she has X and Y going on in her life right now. Treat with love and mercy.” That is an assumption that must come from the heart, and the Spirit.
Lesia BinningFebruary 3, 2025
I love these podcasts! Would it be possible to get the podcasts written words as I’d like to add some notes to my scriptures and reread what has been spoken.
Kandace HardenFebruary 3, 2025
How is a librarian supposed to know the morals and standards of a community? This seems like a heavy responsibility for someone to sort out. What are the moral standards of a community like Las Vegas? I lived there for 30 years and can tell you there are pockets of all kinds of thoughts and standards. What are the "Christian community" standards in the Deep South? From what I understand from my family there, it does NOT include the Book of Mormon and surely does include a lot of anti-Morman literature, I think librarians' training is more than adequate. I was a teacher in Las Vegas for decades and used the public library extensively each week to shore up my classroom library. I found the librarians well-trained and very helpful. The school libraries are limited by budget and space and often only have one copy or no copies of books that will enhance reader understanding. I was always grateful for the public library.
Joanne wagstaffFebruary 3, 2025
Love and hate this! it has always been a secret fear of mine that screw tape would reappear, especially in my life. Thank you so much for this new opportunity to pay specific attention! Well written and I will be reading closely. Thank you.
Antonio ArreolaFebruary 3, 2025
Excelente publicación
Gary StrobleFebruary 2, 2025
We have had some temples for over 100 years which do not have an angel Moroni statue.
Corey D.February 2, 2025
Well written article. Here is my question though, is autism, depression, ADD and all these other conditions truly on the rise or is it over diagnosis or labeling ? Most of the vaccinations given to school age children other than the covid vaccinations have been around for a long time. But what has changed is our diet, is it sugar or sugar replacements like high fructose corn syrup, is it all the processed food and fast food that so many eat now because most homes have two working parents or so many activities nobody cooks ? Or could it be we went to far the last 20-30 yrs eliminating all fats which they are now saying we actually need. Or is it people, especially the younger generations are more stressed because of modern media and instant feed of news and knowledge much of which is negative ? Much to be considered .
ObserverFebruary 2, 2025
I wonder if we'll start seeing some of the prominent antis or exmos start taunting church leadership for a sign. Seems like they haven't gotten around to that yet.
Corey D.February 2, 2025
Dr. Kissinger certainly exemplifies the type of statesmanship and quality of leader so lacking in political and public service nowadays.
Gordon HensleyFebruary 1, 2025
We are approaching the point where printed books will become irrelevant. Like the fax, phone books, magazines, letters from home, cursive writing. All these things are being abandoned by users of higher technology. This controversy will soon be seen as quaint as the big black Ma Bell telephone we used to rent from the phone company.
Linda LiebhardtFebruary 1, 2025
I'm looking forward to more of these. Very well written and so true. But--How and where do we start to decode the phone numbers? I'm very curious about those.
RobertFebruary 1, 2025
Sorry to disagree, but this is a well thought-out presentation with excellent production values and outstanding acting abilities. If the reviewer hadn't correctly identified the names of the major characters here, I would have wondered what film was being discussed. It's really an impressive, moving experience that deserves far more credit than this reviewer gives. Angel has hit it out of the park again.
Cindy WoodFebruary 1, 2025
I loved this movie! It shows the power of what one person can do to change the directory of someone who has been dealt so many difficulties. I think its sad that such a meaninful film would receive such a bad review from Meridian of all places. You needed a Mr. Deen as a teacher! I loved learning that this young man goes on to become a movie maker in Hollywood- and if you've seen the movie you will know that this started because of Mr. Dean<3
Richard EyreFebruary 1, 2025
Two of my favorite people: C.S. Lewis, and Craig Petersen! So excited for this series!
CynthiaCFebruary 1, 2025
The most grievous example of this I have seen was a centerpiece LGBTQ book display smack in the middle of the children's section in a strongly Christian community. I checked again sometime later and the display was gone. I'm thankful for those bold enough to speak up. And thus also thankful for this article and the reminder that these services come out of our taxpayer pockets. Literature is as much a part of history as anything else. But degradation, de-humanizing and promoting evil should not be something anyone should be proud of or promote, especially in an environment heavily utlized by children, families and teens. Thank you for this article!
CynthiaCFebruary 1, 2025
Enjoyed this insightful update on "The Screwtape Letters" by C.S. Lewis.
Richard DahlJanuary 31, 2025
Being an old analog guy I thought the article is spot on, well done. Some say the internet is the information super highway, but it can also be the misinformation cow path. It is best to get our information and knowledge from the scriptures, church leaders and thru prayer.
MicheleJanuary 31, 2025
When my abusive ex husband remarried, she took control of the situation. My oldest child went to live with them, and they wouldn't let me see him. This child was the one most bonded to his controlling father. I was able to let go of this scenario and eventually, they divorced and his father brought him back to live with me. My son didn't need to go through any of this; I just want to echo the wonderful advice Geoff always has. It will work out.
Karlene DanceJanuary 31, 2025
This is a very insightful and well written essay. I am looking forward to the next chapters.
Corey D.January 31, 2025
An excellent and timely article, well written. I was made aware about 6 months ago of a website that is dedicated to counsel and advice in regards to church policy's and practice's, particularly the wearing of the garment, the website is geared to younger members and couples so more than likely is run by younger members. Some of it is quite frankly, shocking. The law of chastity and tithing are a couple of others that some of the things I've heard or been told members have said about it just leaves me shaking my head. Nothing much is sacred anymore, the apostle Peter warned about the time when that kind of environment would exist. Excellent article.
Brenda M LybbertJanuary 30, 2025
I’m surprised to not see the step for restitution if we have caused harm…so far as we are able. This is absolutely critical! If you have stolen, then replace or return. If you have caused verbal injury, then apologize and perhaps more. Listen to the spirit for guidance on what/how to restore. Without restitution to the best of our ability, there isn’t genuine repentance. This reminds me of the old argument of “faith vs works” Both are part of the equation!
Karen DavisJanuary 30, 2025
Every library I know has limited funding, and as a retired school librarian I could choose what books to purchase with my limited funds. With careful research, books were purchased that were popular with students without bad language or morality issues. Parents are free to buy whatever books they want for their children. My daughter is now a school librarian and she does the same. She has no budget from the school and earns all her money for books through her twice a year book fair.
JuliannJanuary 30, 2025
Having read several books on the Mountain Meadow Massacre in high school I was surprised and grateful for the accurate account in the book Saints, put out by The Church. My nonactive daughter and her nonmember husband watched this series and told me about it. I acknowledged that the horrific incident did take place but that responsibility lay with a group of leaders and followers who acted without authority and in response to fear. I have never laid blame on Brigham Young. I have ancestors who had slaves. I was raised observing prejudice. I chose to live differently and will not live my life apologizing for others choices, nor do I excuse their behavior. Learn the truth for yourself and if challenged state the facts.
HelenCJanuary 30, 2025
My daily smile. Thank you.
Cody HJanuary 30, 2025
I have had several very personal experiences with that. Thank you for putting it into words. I would say that that is another thing that Satan is working to pervert. Some librarians are so worried about being “a book banner” that they don’t care about what content they are providing. I have also noticed this higher plane mental belief in different ways than you mentioned. Some librarians that I have come across treat patrons as if people were secondary and possibly in the way of their real job.
DJJanuary 30, 2025
We have to start standing up collectively against this ideology. We did that on November 5 and that opened the door for us to keep standing up and rid the country of this evil agenda. Unfortunately, some are still sleeping.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 29, 2025
We live in earthquake country and are also not far from California's recent fires. In addition, I am temporarily disabled due to an accident. For many years we have carried a car kit with a change of clothes, hygiene and first-aid items, a few snacks, gloves, etc. During the recent disaster, we used a guest room to lay out additional items and bags that we could pack easily and quickly should we have needed to evacuate. Now that the danger has passed, we plan to keep those bags at the ready (review and restock home and car bags at least every 6 months) and be more mindful of what is important. For many of us, the preparation of important documents and records is the most difficult. At the suggestion of a few friends, I plan to scan and download ours to thumb drives/USB flash drives. We could not possibly pack all of our photos and memorabilia in an emergency, but many family photos, histories, and documents, have already been uploaded to genealogical websites.
Gordon HensleyJanuary 29, 2025
I can hardly imagine how boring life would be with only adults in it. Babies bring so much joy to our lives. Heaven wouldn't be as heavenly without them. I am grateful that the circle of life continues into the next kingdom. This is why our bodies are made this way.
MarkJanuary 29, 2025
I still wear leather jackets. Even to church.
MjJanuary 29, 2025
It’s Deen. Mr. Deen. Perhaps you were too busy mocking the movie to pay attention to details. I get your points, but it still was a very meaningful film and it was 1986 so high school was , well, different then.
Craig FrogleyJanuary 29, 2025
Excellent!! Thank you for your scholarship and inspired examples.
ChrisJanuary 29, 2025
One of the best ways to make the Savior's Atonement and Grace real in our lives, and to experience His healing, is through working the steps found in "Healing through the Savior: The Addiction Recovery program 12 step Recovery Guide." These steps, and this program, are not only for addictions...although we are each addicted to something to help distract us or make us feel better about ourselves...it guides us to Jesus and through Him to heal whatever might be our mistakes, or mis-steps, or our poor choices. He helps us heal from hurt from others or any "God sized" hole we may have in our hearts. An awesome resource found in our Gospel Library app!
GerryJanuary 29, 2025
A brother in my Ward testified that he had a dream. He was standing at the back of the chapel when Christ descended to the pulpit. He said "turn your head. You are not worthy to look upon me". He was devastated and, after some time searching his life experiences, realized that at his work he had participated in some unclean dirty jokes and laughed. God's gift of procreation is sacred.
TayJanuary 29, 2025
While I agree with the overall conclusion, I am going to push back against one point. A general authority talk warning the members not to "steady the ark" by writing the general authorities by assuring the members these men knew what they doing and did not need outside information had an extremely detrimental effect, even an eternal effect, on the life of someone I loved. I had information about something they were dealing with that it turned out they did not have. It was critical information. They made terrible choices, completely misjudging the person. The results were disastrous. But I had followed the cousel given. Do not assume leaders have all the facts. Do not be silenced by advice such as that given in this article. People's lives can be destroyed. The consequences go on for generations. These are fallible men.
Gordon HensleyJanuary 29, 2025
What we have here is "The Protocols of the Elders of Utah."
CynthiaCJanuary 29, 2025
Beautiful article. Thank you so much Maurine and Scott.
Joni HiltonJanuary 29, 2025
I agree with Sister Smith. Netflix runs a few of my favorite programs, but I refuse to support the promotion of these dangerous distortions of history, so I have unsubscribed.
Donna BuyersJanuary 29, 2025
A sincere thank you for sharing your insights (and can i call it, testimony) on the matter of Trifling. I tend to joke around a lot. More so when nervous or when the atmosphere is heavy, (sad) I'm that person that will remind you in a funeral that the person was fun, out going and down right hilarious. I look on and for the bright side of situations. I am thankful for this personality traits, while I find myself needing to keep the act of Trifling with moments at the forefront of my thoughts and actions. I know I was blessed with this trait to use for good by way of uplifting, comforting not only myself but those around me in need. You've inspired me to dig deeper in my life for other possible areas where I maybe Trifling. Again thank you for sharing your article. Donna
Carmen MichelsenJanuary 29, 2025
The series was poorly written, filmed and acted. Completely cringe worthy. It won't stand the test of time.
Allen AJanuary 28, 2025
Church farms supply a lot of the commodities that are found in the Bishop's Storehouse, so the money invested in agricultural land is in fact being used to assist the poor
Ken HazelbakerJanuary 28, 2025
During FOX News broadcast yesterday 1/27 of the 80th anniversary of the liberation of Auschwietz (?sp), a speaker early in the broadcast (I tuned in late = no name) gave a powerful perspective on the power of stories as the basis used to initiate Hitler's (et al) actions/movement. He then illuminated the power of the electronic technology being the great "story teller" of now. He warned of the danger of being mislead again (particularly the younger generation...our children) = citing 87% over age 40 believe Israel has a right to exist, and under 40, only 40 some %. It is manifest strongly with protests/riots on the liberal college campuses of our nation today. These are supposedly the learned. He went on to say how these prejudiced stories ultimately create hatred, and then negative action. I thought also of the crusades, the American slavery and other campaigns, even the Good Samaritan.. A reference was made to Nelson Mandela and his teaching that a baby is not born with hate...they are taught/learn it. To which I close with the thought of "Man's inhumanity to man!" and "As a man thinketh, so is he." How sad, but Satan has been a sore loser from the beginning and does all he can to throw sand in the gears of Heavenly Father's plan and the prophets have foretold that in the last days perilous times shall come. Thanks for your article and thoughts. I particularly appreciated the Church' detailed totally transparent research and publication of the Mountain Man Massacre that was issued a year or two ago. Like the Joseph Smith Papers, it is what it is and the gospel is perfect, although it's members are a work in progress. (We need to remember this in all that we take in to our minds/hearts about all things). The Lord will judge who He will, but we are required to forgive all! Yes, how timely Pres. Nelson's invitation to be a peacemaker. For if it is to be....it's up to me! (Which is the only person we're really responsible for and can "control" in the end.) We may not be able to control the actions around us...but we can control how we react to them. (Viktor Frankl said from Nazi death camp = They can take away my liberty, but they can't take away my freedom). AGENCY = the greatest principle and cornerstone in the Plan of Salvation.)
Sasha KwapinskiJanuary 28, 2025
Those who profess to believe in pluralism, diversity, and minority rights, have an interesting way of changing their tune when it comes to a minority ( in this case a religious minority) that they don't take a liking to.
HelenCJanuary 28, 2025
I was thinking about Ammon’s praise as I started to read this article. I almost stopped to go to the scriptures and read it for myself but there it was! It is my personal “favorite scripture” and I still remember the joy I felt the first time I read it. As I struggle to seek the strength I need to build a viable Grief Coaching business I so appreciate this lesson on where I should look for strength, as my non-LDS mentor keeps telling me I must see it in myself. He’s not wrong but I know from whence it comes.
David A CookJanuary 27, 2025
Joseph's initial belief that the Kinderhook plates may be genuine ancient records is indirect evidence in favor of the reality of the gold plates from which he translated the Book of Mormon. If the gold plates had been a fabrication by Joseph, he would naturally have been immediately suspicious of anyone else claiming to have discovered ancient plates. The fact that he was personally familiar with ancient plates predisposed him to acceptance that there may be others. Contrary to critics claims that the Kinderhook plates episode is evidence against Joseph's prophethood, it is in fact evidence in favor of his actually having discovered and translated an ancient record written on metal plates, else he would not have been so open to the possibility.
Walter J GoldthwaiteJanuary 27, 2025
Just letting everyone know that I cancelled NETFLIX!! Pure evil what they did, and there have been other such films this company has produced. Thank you, Maurine, for your wonderful and TRUE article! Brigham Young was a great noble man, and the saints that followed him to the West in great numbers wrote about Brigham's virtue and leadership and love.
JuliannJanuary 27, 2025
Guilt is very difficult to discard if you continue to see or experience the consequences of your actions. I would challenge that some of your examples are mistakes not sins. Someone who was scammed of their life savings should be treated with extreme compassion not guilted or shamed. And no matter how “repentant” they feel the consequences may punish them for years.
JeaNette Goates SmithJanuary 27, 2025
Sounds like it's time to cancel Netflix
AcaciaJanuary 27, 2025
Why aren't the video links active anymore? There are so many who need to know they aren't the only ones and that they can succeed!
Vic DietzJanuary 25, 2025
Where can I find Dews from Heaven podcast? Exclusively here? How often will they publish? I’m excited to hear about the temple as a lens for the D&C . I want my SS class to try it.
CraigJanuary 25, 2025
Touching and insightful article by a master writer who has always “walked the walk” on this topic. Thank you
Geri BeckJanuary 24, 2025
Not again. I was a involved in the United Families opposition to the ERA in Iowa. I sponsored Phyllis Schafly to come and speak. I gave a speech at the Iowa State Republican Convention to remove our support of the ERA, which was done. All of this was because of the anti-ERA reasons listed in this article. These negative issues still exist.
Sharon O'DonnalJanuary 24, 2025
Watch, "Ancester's Plea". A very touching video regarding ancestors temple ordinances.
NealJanuary 24, 2025
Confessing our sins to our Bishop or other Priesthood authority is also very hard. I still wonder to this day if I remembered and confessed all of them from so many years ago.
Sharon O'DonnalJanuary 24, 2025
Watch a video called "Ancester's Plea". It will pull at your heartstrings.
SarahJanuary 24, 2025
Good answer Geoff. Divorce youself from the situation. If he's screamed in the car on the way to church. Sit a way from him. If he comes near you, ask him to sit elsewhere.. Loudly. If he goes grocery shopping with you, tell him he is not invited,. He will not hear you, so you don't go. Starve over being with him in public. if he's yelling at a friend's house in front of everyone, (make sure you have the keys) leave. He and the kids can get a lift home. You need some space to figure out what you are living with. If he is a Narcissist he will get worse with age. Research the traits. 30 yrs, of a covert one.. I'm out. His last 'we are getting divorced' made me get up and leave. 5 kids had gone.. It was my out. 3 yrs on life is stable, peaceful, and I have control and I'm 8 hrs away from him. I love it! If the atonement can reach him.. I doubt it, then maybe we can work. We are only seperated as he never filed papers. I have no desire to walk on egg shells ever again. I'm sorry he's a drop kick, but you don't need to put up with it. Make some changes today. Don't put yourself last Good luck
Susan Yank PorterJanuary 24, 2025
It sounds like he might be a narcissist. I speak from experience. Get out.
joe alvaradoJanuary 23, 2025
Thank you for your article. I know people who even when they have done everything to repent , having spiritual experiences, personal inspirations, going to the temple, church, serving missions, etc. they can't let go of the past. They don't forgive themselves. How can they obtain the assurance they are good and get peace of mind ?
CynthiaCJanuary 23, 2025
Succinct and positive. Well worth the read. Thank you JeaNette Goates Smith.
Steve TheobaldJanuary 23, 2025
JeaNette, great insights. (1) I really appreciated your comment about Satan telling Adam and Eve to "run, hide." While fully applicable to how we should NOT deal with sin, it is also equally applicable to many men (and some women) who don't want to deal with interpersonal conflicts in marriage or at work. We need to "avoid the avoiding"and do the truly important and hard work often needed in relationships. (2) You made me laugh with your fig leaf comment. No, the fig leaf just doesn't cut it! We need the coat of skins - the atonement and power of our Lord to protect us and keep us warm.
JennieJanuary 23, 2025
beautiful article
Rob McGhieJanuary 22, 2025
So what is the CES Letter?
HelenCJanuary 22, 2025
Sending this out to my Grief clients! Thank you.
Tanya NeiderJanuary 21, 2025
Thank you for sharing your most personal and profound experience so others, like myself, could learn!
Sandy DJanuary 20, 2025
Women who are menopausal and not interested in intimacy may be experiencing pain related to their hormone changes. Help from a health care professional should be considered
Ann HedrickJanuary 20, 2025
Thank, you, Anne, for sharing this marvelous experience. I once also had a feeling of being in the presence of our Father in Heaven, in which He gave me an answer I needed. It was an overwhelming feeling of kindness.
CraigJanuary 20, 2025
I listened to the podcast. I didn’t find it all persuasive that Joseph Smith had the type of expansive vision during the first vision that Moses and Enoch had. Joseph may have had it later, but not as a semi-literate 14 year old. That’s really heavy information to process. Remembers, it took years of heavenly tutoring before he was ready for the golden plates.
Linda StricklandJanuary 20, 2025
What a beautiful testimony. It was just what I needed to read today.
Heidi SJanuary 18, 2025
What is a woman? This piece adds nuance and thoughtfulness to the physical and emotional gifts specific to women and mothers. Thank you for your beautiful prose, which is more like poetry.
Clari SmithJanuary 18, 2025
A beautiful article that I totally believe and live. Thank you for an exquisite gift in writing these sentiments.
Corey D.January 17, 2025
We know Satan has and is attacking the family, he has certainly been pretty successful confusing gender but where he has caused so much trouble, confusion and ultimately probably the biggest attack on the family is his attack on womanhood and motherhood. I was with a friend a couple of years ago who at the time was serving as a bishop, we were discussing the things going on in society and church and the struggles so many seemed to be having with their faith or keeping the commandments, particularly the young adults, he said to me, " it's the sisters, the women that are struggling the most right now, at least in my ward". He is not the first who has told me that. Satan knows how important true motherhood and womanhood is and he's going after that with everything he can.
ElisabethJanuary 17, 2025
No one, including Dr. Stuerer, seems to have considered that this whole mess may have started as a medical issue! Postpartum depression, caused by hormonal imbalances, sometimes manifests as anger. Maybe the first thing the letter writer needs to apologize for is not trying harder to figure out the real problem.
Sarah HinzeJanuary 17, 2025
Thank you Richard Eyre for your timely and inspiring articles.
MoroniJanuary 17, 2025
The abrupt change postpartum suggests there may be a medical component to their situation. An appropriate consultation seems very much worth considering.
Sister Kerry FarrJanuary 17, 2025
SO good! LOVE THIS❤️
Mark HamiltonJanuary 17, 2025
There is an obvious option as well. That is that you get a divorce and then find somebody who truly is loving and kind and appreciative. It’s not a sin to find somebody who’s loving you and kind and appreciative. Just get divorced first.
AEatonJanuary 16, 2025
Thank you for the wonderful reminder of the blessings of Motherhood. This paragraph below particularly articulated how I felt and still feel about being a Mother. Thank you again! "I am unspeakably grateful to have been invited, as a result of my gender, to have served as a very visceral partner with God as some of His children have grown within me and then been delivered to mortality through my body. That partnership is a holy gift. I so hope that my daughters and granddaughters and all young women see womanhood as something precious to look forward to with reverent anticipation, not something to dread or even just endure. Not all women can give birth, and pregnancy and childbearing and rearing are challenging, arduous, and tremendously demanding. But more than a hardship, childbearing is a form of tremendous strength and a truly blessed privilege – even a sacred interaction with God."
KCPJanuary 16, 2025
Thanks, I needed this right now. Also, sorry you had to go through all that.
Robert StarlingJanuary 16, 2025
How Wonderful! THANK YOU, Sister Clayton, for these amazing insights into the hearts and minds of our eternal sisters! As a husband, and as a father of three incredible daughters, I "stand all amazed" at the gifts and blessings I've received in my life just by being close to the ultimate Creation of our Heavenly Father. Our mother Eve was the last of God's creations, and the greatest. Someday in eternity I hope to visit with Mary and listen to her share her experiences in nurturing the Son of God through His formative years. Thanks again for this marvelous article. I'll never think of my mother, sister, wife, or daughters the same again.
Myrna LiddellJanuary 16, 2025
This is a very comforting message, and thanks especially for including the quote by Elder Andersen. Yes, many questions by others and even things we say to ourselves feel "like a knife". Thanks again.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 16, 2025
I recently broke my femur and needed surgery. Immediately the calls and messages and acts of service began. My heart was overwhelmed at the number of people who wanted to help. During my hospital stay I was made aware of many others who were struggling, and the temple prayer roll was as close as my phone. Returning home, we were blessed with meals, flowers, visits, and many acts of service. I had to take a pause and not worry that my husband didn’t clean house or cook like I would do. Because my physical activities were limited, I had more time for scripture and “Come, Follow Me” studies, and family history research. I have found a few ways to serve others while I am mostly homebound (temporarily). I have been blessed that two current church callings only require my computer.
Gary LawrenceJanuary 15, 2025
Well done. Keep up the good work.
JeffJanuary 15, 2025
Thank you for writing this article on the "science" behind the covid19 fiasco.
Rob MoyorJanuary 14, 2025
This prescient article is so timely and important for every member of the Church and others who want to understand what we are up against in this world full of "secret combinations" and "the evil designs of conspiring men in the last days". We cannot look for truth in any way from the Government who has been so totally corrupted. Our only hope is personal revelation as to what we need to do.
Yvonne CottrellJanuary 14, 2025
Way too long to read!
Kay RiceJanuary 14, 2025
This article is so powerful. I 100% agree. Thank you for sharing.
JoeJanuary 14, 2025
I believe we also need to be asking a LOT of questions about the highly profitable dietary supplements industry as well. It doesn't take much effort to run a "clinical study" to slap a "clinically-proven" label on a product so unwitting people gobble them up as "healthy".
ScottJanuary 14, 2025
The author started with a good premise, but then seemingly started getting caught in the very trap he described, the pseudo science of the anti-vaccine movement, even quoting from the Children's Health Defense, one of most significant pseudo science organizations around. The author didn't mention the cost of those pseudo science approaches: the US has one of the highest COVID death rates among wealthy nations in the world. Nor was it mentioned that the First Presidency has issued official statements recommending vaccinations, a serious oversite in the point of showing the Word of Wisdom and other revelations are what we should rely on.
CynthiaCJanuary 14, 2025
Excellent and informative article. Thank you!
HelenCJanuary 13, 2025
It’s worth noting that such attacks in the past have actually increased honest inquiry into the Church as people have found themselves asking, “Was it really like that?” I have a friend who’s non-member friend attended what he thought was our Church but turned out to be RLDS (now renamed Community of Christ) and walked out knowing his friend didn’t believe what he heard there. I had a quote on my fridge for years that said: “May people want to know Christ because they know you.”
Debrah RoundyJanuary 13, 2025
Great Article. Absolutely not outdated, I used the first 9 articles of Faith last year as a base for our Primary Program. The children learned the songs. As the year went by, I listen to my children as they talked and told stories and was able to match each child's with an Article of Faith. For the program we sang and Article of Faith and then the child told what had been said previously. I also work with Missionaries and English Connect, a program for teaching English. We used the Articles of Faith for our opening song, same one as the Primary. My missionary students soon reported to me times they had used the Articles of Faith to answer a question. This year we already are using them with singing time as we learn about the Sacred Grove and sing Article of Faith 1 about God the Eternal Father, etc. My youngest son had memorized them all before he turned 6. We had a push in Primary that year and most of the Primary learned them. I think he was the youngest.
Tove SorensenJanuary 13, 2025
We watched a couple last night. Agreed the 47 attacks on buildings etc are horrible but as they say in Hollywood "all press is good press" basically meaning we have public discussion about the LDS people. We can't stop false i for nor film makers, opposition in all things right? The positive side of that, is we as a group and especially missionaries, get a chance to right the ship and teach those our true beliefs and maybe wouldn't have been able to without this attention.
Dave HansenJanuary 13, 2025
What a wonderful way of pointing out the precision with which the Articles of Faith were composed, Sister Linford. I now have a renewed respect for them.......THANK YOU!!! [FWIW, I received my missionary cards with the AoF on the backside in 1968, and I wonder when the missionaries stopped using them....or, do some still buy the cards?]
Ken LongmoreJanuary 11, 2025
A wonderful and well-researched piece. Kudo’s to you both As a convert at 17 years of age, the story of the first vision as written by the hand of the prophet, entered into my heart with a force and immensity that was truly electrifying. I immediately felt an indescribable joy, peace and love that could have only been administered by the Holy Ghost, who testifies the truth of all things. My conversion was complete before I had even opened the cover of the Book Of Mormon. Sixty years later, at 77 years of age, that witness of the Spirit has never diminished. God Bless.
KayJanuary 10, 2025
Our new bishop announced he is there specifically for the youth and anyone else should talk to the Elders Quorum President. All programs are geared toward and a lot of money is spent on the youth. Is no one aware the highest divorce rate right now is the over age 60 group? I am newly divorced after 48 years of marriage and raising a family in the church and feel totally left behind and on my own.
PamJanuary 10, 2025
As a "senior," I definitely feel that we are put out to pasture in the church. I have lots of experience and a lot to contribute, but I feel overlooked.
Jeff ChadwickJanuary 10, 2025
Nice work, Dan, as usual. Ahlan from alQuds.
BryanJanuary 10, 2025
Great article. I think that for the most part seniors are ‘put to pasture’ here in the States because it is assumed they are too old or tired to ‘keep up’. Unfortunately on the grandparent side of things many of us live away from our kids so having a constant influence on the gkids isn’t very easy. That aspect seems a bit more ‘Utah centric’ than for most of us outside the Moridor.
Steve SwarthoutJanuary 10, 2025
I very much enjoy and learn from the counsel of Jeff Steurer. I read his postings all the time and find a lot of wisdom.
David A CookJanuary 9, 2025
A unique and refreshing perspective on God's love for all his children. Daniel Peterson is a treasure. I hope he will continue to write these perspectives for many years to come. Thank you.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2025
I am inclined to have similar thoughts about Lucifer. He, also, is a son of God whose decisions have caused many millions to weep. Though he would have me hate and fear him, I feel inclined to love and pity him, while assiduously rejecting his pathetic attempts to ruin me of our Father’s love and our Elder Brother’s attaining sacrifice. I teach my Grief and Trauma clients to use the phrase, “I love you AND. . . “ when pitching themselves from further harm.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 9, 2025
Absolutely Amen! Thank you for that confirmation about the Law of Consecration. When faith is weak, Church attendance needs to be strong. As President Nelson says, "The Lord loves effort". We are saved by grace, AFTER ALL WE CAN DO! Showing up is giving up...the Natural Man, and our own selfish priorities and agenda. Becoming meek, humble, and submissive. The Savior's mandate at the Last Supper remains in effect today, 2,000 years later. When he comes again, don't just be present...be at the front of the line! Like the woman who touched his robe.
SteveJanuary 9, 2025
We have a son, daughter-in-law, and six grandchildren who have cut ties to us. I wish they’d read this profound message. Thank you for giving me hope.
Corey DinsdaleJanuary 8, 2025
You have no idea how real to life your article is and sounds like you have younger children, just wait, it only gets harder and more real, like a co-worker many years ago responded as I was complaining about the teenage years, little kids little problems, big kids big problems and that doesn't include the trials and challenges of marriage and just plain old life challenges. We are always thinking someday, someday it will be better and more peaceful and then one day you find yourself saying "where did the time go, where did they all go" ?
SarahJanuary 8, 2025
Very well said. Sigh…time to grow.
JennieJanuary 8, 2025
Loved what you said about the McGuffey readers because I was given a set one year for Christmas and was struck by how much education had changed.
JennieJanuary 8, 2025
Thank you for your thoughtful article.
Amy FoxJanuary 7, 2025
Thank you for taking the time to research and write this. It’s a very relevant and important topic, especially today. My brother also passed away from an overdose. We are so blessed to have the word of wisdom to guide us in our health if we are looking for a true and correct resource.
MarkJanuary 7, 2025
The bishop should have spoken to the ex-wife and her new husband and told them they needed to move to a new ward. We are required to forgive. We are not required to have the people who betrayed us rubbed in our faces. And the Church should never allow these people to be sealed to each other in the temple. We believe in forgiveness and mercy, but also in justice.
BarbJanuary 7, 2025
This does not apply if you were married to an actual psychopath who is deceiving his bishop, stake president and General authorities.
Kandace HaydenJanuary 7, 2025
This article was on point. I negotiated my way through a divorce 33 years ago after a 18 year marriage with 4 children I ultimately came to the same conclusions and decisions as the author did but I wish I had had such resources then.
Janna MorrellJanuary 6, 2025
What an informative and well documented article! I can’t wait to read the next installment!
Corey D.January 5, 2025
I'm a service missionary at Welfare Square in what is called Transitional Services, we help those who are homeless, transient, just coming out of the jail system and recently arrived immigrants with short term emergency needs of food and clothing, there are those who come in with a demanding attitude or who get upset if they don't get as much as they want or exactly what they want but for the most part these people are very grateful and nice, many break down crying, especially the women, it's not a lot we give them but is more than they have had, many are headed back to the street and tell us on the way out they are going to share what they just got with their friend or friends on the street.
Ornella Brenna - ItaliaJanuary 4, 2025
It often happens to me, at the supermarket, to thank the clerks who are arranging the shelves, for their service, and every time I notice the change that occurs on their faces. Often it is surprise, because they would never have expected to be thanked for the work they do, knowing that they are paid to do it. Other times their tired faces light up with joy, as if they had received the greatest gift in the world. However, the greatest change is the one that happens in me: the day becomes bright, my personal burdens lighter and there is "music in my heart, a song to my King". These simple words: "Thank you for your service", said with sincerity, have immense power. PS: I apologize for any errors related to the automatic translation, because I do not know English.
kjcoJanuary 3, 2025
The ramifications of declining, below-replacement birthrates in rich, developed countries and increasing, above-replacement birthrates in poor, developing countries are actually a fulfillment of prophecy. Toward the end of the Book of Mormon, Moroni bids farewell to the Gentiles, likely more than just one of his repeated farewells. He is almost sadly bidding us (gentiles) good riddance as he says the remnant of Jacob will be taking our place. Over the last thirty years those (mostly lds) family and friends with whom I have brought up the demographic winter and it's consequences, other than a shrug, is a deer in the headlights look of "you don't expect ME to have (have had) more children do you?" as if it's a hot potato they don't want to be stuck with. I only bring it up to raise awareness, not guilt. I also don't judge people who have not "replaced themselves" --people have their reasons. I do however, tend to be a bit frustrated and offended by those who loudly mock people who do--the childless by choice as a fad thing. That attitude of mocking has and continues to affect so many people--especially the elderly--I know who now have no one in their lives to care for them because they were worried about socially acceptable family size. I also know too many who suffer greatly due to abortion. It never hurts just one person, it destroys nations. For we who are lds AND "gentiles", I think it behooves us to focus more on our identity as the House of Israel than our gentile heritage/culture. Sacrifice is not a dirty word, it's one we should consider.
MaryannJanuary 3, 2025
Yayyy, Joni! I can certainly validate your comments. One snowy day, I left work late, and I paused to scrape the snow off my windshield. When I got into my car, a man nearby stopped and brushed the snow off my headlights. It was such a small thing, but I felt cared for and protected. I was filled with a warm feeling for him for such a small kindness. We really can spread love and a feeling of good will through such small actions. We can all have these warm feelings throughout this new year, as we look for opportunities to be kind. The little things really do matter.
MaryannJanuary 3, 2025
My heart goes out to Sister Soulier. Even though we have never met, we are all "one" in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day-saints. May the Lord bless and comfort her in this heart breaking loss. There are better days ahead for her because of our Savior's love, and the great blessings that he will send to her.
Justin MJanuary 3, 2025
You won't find this in the mainstream media (yet), but the covid shots were full of spike proteins and modified/contaminated DNA materials that attacked reproductive (and other) organs in the body. There will be great difficulties in reproducing. And future generations will be hampered too as these (and other mRNA-based) shots are given to most children in the US - some before even leaving the hospital. Flu shots and dental anesthetics also contain this material. It was pushed under a military program in coordination with eugeniticists. There is evidence that heart and cancer deaths are accelerating across the globe as well, following these shots. Hearts of conspiring men in the last days. I feel for those who are affected. Satan's plan is raging across the globe.
vickieJanuary 1, 2025
So sad to read that such a young man died suddenly and probably with no warning. Im to think that God really wanted him to continue his mission in the spirit world. God bless his family ...
MaryannJanuary 1, 2025
I think the two major reasons people choose to have no children at all are 1) Concern about finances, 2) Believing that it's just too difficult, and they have plans for an easier life with more "freedom" to do as they please. My husband and I were blessed with seven children. They are all grown with families of their own now, but when we look back, we often ask ourselves: How on earth did we provide for them? How did we survive walking the halls at church, Dr bills, providing for their physical and emotional needs, and on and on and on? I believe the answer is faith. We knew we were pleasing the Lord by bringing these children into our home. We had faith that He would help us to fulfill what he asked us to do. I am not suggesting that everyone needs to have a large family. That is a very personal decision. President David O. McKay taught that the well being of the mother needs to be a primary consideration. This includes sensitivity for her physical, mental, and emotional health. We need to respect one another's choices. However, we are not of the world. We recognize that Heavenly Father has never revoked the commandment to replenish the earth. For some that may be 2 children, and for others more. And, of course, many are unable to have children. Whatever, the situation, we need to love one another, and withhold judgement.
MaryannJanuary 1, 2025
This article gives such reassuring hope. There are so many who feel stuck and who believe nothing will ever change--that they will never find forgiveness, happiness, or peace. The Lord loves us, and he will not forsake us! He will give us strength to put one foot in front of the other day by day, and we DO have a glorious future. Our Father and our Savior know of our sorrows and our needs and they will enable us to move forward.
MaryannJanuary 1, 2025
The marriage relationship is sacred and should not be spoken of lightly or with disrespect. Trust is an essential element in marriage. I would be devastated if my husband abused that trust by speaking about our marriage to others. Brother Steurer made some excellent points. Problems in the marriage should be worked out within the marriage. If that doesn't work, a visit with the Bishop would be a good step. He will keep your private issues private and he is endowed with inspiration to give guidance according to gospel principles. Even a trustworthy friend might "slip" and reveal your confidences to others. This could seriously harm the marriage and trust within the marriage, and also your friendship. As Brother Steurer noted, the problems you reveal to others might cause them to have bad feelings toward your spouse long after you have forgiven them.
JKJanuary 1, 2025
The saddest thing is learning Hugh Grant plays the lead. How low can a once great actor go.
David MohrJanuary 1, 2025
To the comment that this is a revelation for only the one keeners of the one stake, I suggest you think hard upon this revelation. Many times have I read similar revelations from different locations around the world. This is another testimony of those truths and therefore a revelation pertinant to the whole church. My testimony of seeing the finger of the Lord and the finger of Satan has been given in Canada and the Philippines and people have said they have received confirmation of my statement from the Holy Ghost. A revelation shared becomes relevant to the people of different places and is not restricted to only one location. These testimonies are to be shared to uplift all people unless specifically forbidden.
Robert BaileyDecember 31, 2024
What a hopeful article at the start of a new year! Thank you so much for sharing something so personal. It really touched my soul. It’s so easy to think you are alone and forgotten, even by God, when everyone around you appears to be doing so well.
Laura LesebergDecember 31, 2024
In couples I see that chose not to have children, I fee; the reasons were very "me" centered: Careers, life style, unwilling to commit to a family. When we started our family in the mid-1970's, we wanted six. I had a VERY traumatic birth with #1 and felt I couldn't ever do that again. In spite of that, spontaneous pregnancies occurred and each had difficulties - premature birth, my hospitalization for 3+ months to keep a pregnancy viable (thank heaven for family help!), post partum infections, etc. With #3 baby, I face severe pressure to have permanent sterilization, but felt it wasn't right for us. When I presented with a 4th pregnancy, I was made to feel like a criminal for having four children and 4 C-sections. How grateful we are to have all the children and I survive our many hurdles! We were a military family and dragged those kids all over the world - grateful to have had medical care that covered all the expenses of bringing them into the world. Having children is an act of faith and prayer - I am confident that the Lord will show us the right path.
CraigDecember 31, 2024
Thank you for this article. I feel this relates in my family too. I have five boys and right now my three oldest are really struggling with the dating scene. All three served missions and one has already graduated college and the other chose a different career path that wasn’t college, and the middle is just starting college. They want and hope to get married, but the struggle they are having is finding young women who are mature (most of the girls they date still act like they are in high school) and actually want to be married for the right reasons and not just for the social status. Their biggest complaint is the girls they find are way too involved in the Instagram/social media culture and that everything they (the girls) do has to be splashed all over the internet and/or they are permanently looking down at their phone, even while attending church or on a date. Additionally, my son who didn’t go to college still attends the YSA ward and when the young women find out he didn’t go to college (although he is really successful in his career) they aren’t interested in dating him. It seems, just based on my perceptions, that the social media and smartphone addictions (especially among young women) has become a huge stumbling block to marriage in the church.
Ron43December 30, 2024
Per Japanese TV, "by the year 2100 the population of Japan will be one half of what it is today." 123.7mil. to 61.85mil. that is the Canary. The rest of the world to follow. No more SSI
ShanaDecember 30, 2024
I’m grateful for this discussion. Your approach is so wise as we really cannot know another’s heart and intent on this matter. As a young girl and teenager, I did not long for motherhood. I did not enjoy babysitting or helping with younger kids much. (I was an oldest child and my mother ran a daycare. I felt overloaded with opportunities to help with and nurture children). Something happened on my mission. It is a very personal experience and I do not share it as an expectation for how others ought to choose regarding having children. One day as a missionary, I saw children living in very sad and desperate situation. My heart ached. I wondered why so many of God’s children are born to such difficult situations. I prayed with such intensity to know my part. An answer came so clearly “I have to send them to someone. Those who have the gospel and the means enough to bless my children are choosing not to have very many.” I vowed then and there that I would be open to having children…all that God would send me. Later on my mission I read a church published manual with a quote warning about the sad consequences of birth control. The church doesn’t use the same phrasing concerning birth control as it did in previous times. I married soon after my mission. We were poor college students. We had our first child less than a year after being married. We had a second child 17 months later, We were close to due with our third baby when we both graduated from BYU. I wouldn’t change a thing. We had another child a few years later….and then a miscarriage and then nothing. I thought we might be finished. We had our last child 6 years later and then another miscarriage. I’m SO grateful we had children while we were in school. Had we waited until after graduation to prepare for and start our family, I’m afraid we would only have our two youngest. Infertility might have been my struggle if we had waited til we could buy a home. Infertility is definitely on the rise, but I also wonder if having children sooner would prevent some from experiencing infertility and/or longing for more children. Though I’m also a believer that women who long for children such as Hannah in the OT, are witnesses to all of us about the treasure children are. God needs witnesses of truth and when a woman who struggles to conceive expresses her heart, it is so powerful because we immediately understand the truth about and the value of children being born to parents who want them and will love and care for them. We ought to be humble enough to want and love children in our presence as much as the Savior did. As one of the comments above described, children have a profound effect on each of us….our humility determines how children will bless our lives….and how we will bless their lives as well.
Kathryn GrantDecember 30, 2024
Thank you for this meaningful article! It reminded me of a favorite quote by C. S. Lewis from his book _The Great Divorce_: "[Mortals] say of some temporal suffering, 'No future bliss can make up for it,' not knowing that Heaven, once attained, will work backwards and turn even that agony into a glory.... The good man's past begins to change so that his forgiven sins and remembered sorrows take on the quality of Heaven: the bad man's past already conforms to his badness and is filled only with dreariness. And that is why...the Blessed will say 'We have never lived anywhere except in Heaven,' and the Lost, 'We were always in Hell.' And both will speak truly."
Debrah RoundyDecember 30, 2024
My deepest sympathy for the family and the family of missionaries he/they shepherded.
M. GroshDecember 30, 2024
I love info like this too. Thank you for posting this. However, i am just as curious to know which top 5/10 or 15 articles YOU thought or wished would have been most viewed/read. Thank you for providing me with trustworthy current events!
TMDecember 29, 2024
I think there are many factors that go into this issue. It would be difficult to narrow it down but here is what I see on my experience. I wasn’t able to conceive due to infertility for a long time but I also was emotionally immature and those years of infertility have given me great appreciation for the miracle it is to be able to have children. I think we live in a world that is presenting a lot of problems with physical health and fertility. Second, Today I see a lot of people that don’t know how to have a healthy/happy home life and many people don’t even believe it’s possible. I think parenting skills that used to be passed down from generation to generation has been replaced by peer attachment and a loss of ability for people to mature. Look up Dr Nuefeld from Canada, he has extensive research on the topic. I think Peer attachment has been prevalent since the 1950’s and it has destroyed the concept of nuclear family relationships. We have lost nurturing skills and destroyed the authority of parents. Authority itself is seen as toxic when righteous and loving authority is a positive thing in children’s lives. The pull of the world by institutions like school, sports , music, academics had replaced the core of family life. We feel pressure to produce children that can show something of value to the world, so we seek it through all these peer-attached activities. Excellence should be a part of life but we must learn to live and love within families first and foremost. Teach joyful living and kids will have a desire to grow in all the ways God intends which includes having their own families. “ Seek first the Kingdom of God and then all these things will be added to you.” We have in many instances sought to have our children find a place in the world too soon and show their measurable talents to the world when we really need to focus on the things that can’t be measured. Love, compassion, forgiveness etc. I am beginning to raise my kids through teenage years and the pressure I feel for my kids to have something to show for their existence is intense. I have children that love each other and are kind to others but that’s not of value today. Third, I think society, in the 90’s pushed divorce so much that every family movie at the time usually had divorced parents and in the length of the movie the kids had come to terms with their parents divorce. That is a fantasy. Divorce is devastating to children. There may be necessary reasons for some divorces but overall we should strive to reconcile differences and choose to love our spouse. Family life has been purposefully shown to be a miserable existence and we have forgotten that love is possible but only by living the principles Jesus Christ taught us. Sorry writing this on my phone. I hope my thoughts come though clear enough.
CraigDecember 29, 2024
I have grandkids who are married and want children, but are paying 15,000 a semester for school and have health care with high deductables with poor maternity coverage. Some how costs have to come down if we want to solve this problem.
Eunice RobertsonDecember 29, 2024
I had many problems having children, two miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy that almost cost me my life. Many hospital visits over the years. But the Lord did bless me with three living children, who started off with health problems, but are still with me today. I wouldn't have minded 6 children, but eventually I had to have all of my reproductive system removed for the sake of my health .I love children and at the age of 77yo, my greatest delight is my children and grandchildren.
SydneyDecember 28, 2024
Thank you for these questions and for all of your work over the years in educating and uplifting parents and families. This topic is of particular interest to me at this time in my life, as I recently gave birth to my first child after three long years of infertility and pursuing IVF treatment to get pregnant. I have always looked forward to the day I would become a mother and I think that my infertility intensified the hoping and preparing for that time, which made it even more incredible when I finally got to meet my son. I know that every sacrifice we make for our children is so worth it. During those years and during the time when I had to delay starting my family because I didn't have a husband, I experienced a lot of heartache and sorrow. I knew that an essential part of my purpose in life was to be a mom and I was so frustrated that it wasn't happening for me. I wonder if I would not have been viewing it through the lens of the Gospel of Jesus Christ how my thinking about it would be different. I think one aspect of this issue is the modern woman narrative that has become popular, that women need to work outside the home to be fulfilled and having a career is where they will find their value and contribute best to the world; often that diminishes the importance we put on mothering. Now many mothers who wait to have children because they also want a career are finding the balance of career and motherhood much more difficult than what they were told, since it's just really hard to do it all and have it all! I think it's wonderful that we've progressed over time to where women have more options and freedom and equality than they ever have before, but the maternal wisdom of generations of women who took mothering so seriously might be getting lost as we wait until we're old enough or established enough to try it ourselves and our own mothers and grandmothers are no longer around to help. New motherhood can be so brutal and shocking, especially because of a lack of community, having no "village", it kind of makes sense that women in the world don't think having a lot of kids is doable for them. I have been listening to the recently released book "Hannah's Children" by Catherine Pakaluk and the perspective of women who deliberately choose to have 5+ children (and seem to love their lives!) is very refreshing and eye-opening and for me downright inspiring. Their reasons are of course very personal but almost always based in faith. And the author doesn't think that government financial incentives will ever work to get people to have more kids, because it's not a financial question as much as we think it is. The author also mentioned that while the birth rate is still above replacement in many poorer developing nations, it is also declining in those places; I haven't tried to verify her stats but she is an economist and seems very well researched (also she has 8 kids of her own). Super interesting read! I've always wanted a large family and now I'm facing the possibility of running out of time to have as many kids as I hoped for in this life, but I know that is not something I can worry about right now. I am very overwhelmed but also grateful to be at the beginning of this amazing adventure of parenthood. My husband and I had the most sacred moments of our lives when our son was born and I wish everyone could have that to open the eyes of their spiritual understanding and really appreciate the gift that it is to be a mother or a father. It's indescribable but truly the most wonderful thing in the world. It's so easy to lose the grand perspective of eternity in the everyday challenge of being a parent but it must be incredibly important to God for us to learn something through our parenting and to become like our heavenly parents, or why would eternal families be such a focus of the restored gospel? In the world it is not so popular to be family focused, to want a lot of kids, I think the "zero population" myth is actually still strong in people's minds, many don't recognize the harms of it yet. The reasons why individual couples, even couples in the church are choosing not to have kids (or to wait) is also varied and hard to say without outright asking them. I have two married brothers who have delayed having kids for years and I don't feel comfortable asking them exactly why but I get some ideas based on their lifestyles and certain conversations, so I could speculate but maybe I shouldn't. I think it comes down to whether the couple desires to bring children into the world more than they fear the ways it may intrude on their freedoms and lifestyle, because we don't really live in a very kid or family friendly world. Even if it was family-friendly, raising a family would still be HARD, and people see the hard things that their friends and family members go through when they have kids. So maybe it has to do with a lack of understanding or lack of remembering the importance of that commandment given to Adam and Eve? But we can't judge couples who seem to be "waiting" as lacking faith, because we just don't know and it's such a personal thing. I am glad that most people have realized that outright asking strangers at church "why don't you have kids yet?" isn't okay and causes a lot of pain for couples battling infertility. For us, the question was do we trust God to guide our family building efforts? I feel blessed to have had the experience I did in trying to start my family because it was so clear to me that my desire to be a mom and determination to try was a good desire from God, and that the answer was to move forward. I know not everyone has that but it definitely built my faith so I am grateful. Probably way too long for a comment, sorry! I'm glad for the opportunity to share, thank you for opening up the conversation!
KfbDecember 28, 2024
I am a faithful member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I get frustrated with people not wanting children and I feel bad for those who can’t and want them and then so many people getting abortions and could give those children to families that really want them. I have a 26 year old daughter that has never even been on a real date and is frustrated with the dating scene, I have a married son who are trying to get pregnant but haven’t been able to and a daughter that is pregnant with her third and I do wonder how she will handle a third child because she has a hard time with two although I am glad she is having another one. I just hope she can handle it mentally. I worry about everyone getting older and running out of social security and running out of workers to take care of the elderly. If they don’t want to have children because it cramps their lifestyle, they definitely aren’t going to want to take care of the elderly. Having children helps you to learn how to sacrifice, think of others before yourself, how to love more and better, and it helps you understand how our heavenly parents feel about us. Anyway, I love your articles and all your books and glad you are making a difference in the world.
SamDecember 27, 2024
We’re so similar
HelenCDecember 27, 2024
I wish these questions were in a survey format. All I can say is as a young wife in the 70s I was already meeting people who refused to have children ostensibly due to population concerns but largely, IMHO, to avoid the trouble of raising kids. My 3 top answers would be: Can’t afford it Messed up world No suitable partner
Jennifer GovernoDecember 27, 2024
This is a tender topic for me. We experienced secondary infertility after our first child. I tried for 30 years to have a second without success. Every time I prayed for direction to do infertility treatments I felt prompted not to. Every time we approached fostering or adoption, I was prompted to wait. I felt like people judged me for not doing any of those things, and I felt like a failure. Last year, we had the opportunity to adopt and be sealed to two teenagers in our ward, the oldest (a son) moved out shortly after, but our daughter is still with us. I still feel a physical and spiritual ache that there is a child waiting for me that I haven't found yet. I worked many years in L&D and NICU as a RN and helped many babies come into the world. The sacred feeling of that moment when they are born, I have no mortal words I can use to express. It breaks my heart to think about people purposely choosing not to have children, if they are in a position to love them in a marriage that can support them. Maybe that is why the birth rate in underdeveloped countries is rising as in wealthier countries it falls- As people with more resources turn to self-interests and pursuits of pleasure and wealth, instead of choosing to have children, those spirits instead are born to more humble people in more dire circumstances, who are willing to have them (or have less means to prevent it). I don't know for sure, but I think often about how the earth could be affected by those who refuse to "turn their hearts to the fathers" and even more so, those who refuse to "turn their hearts" to the children. The earth would be utterly wasted if we refuse to allow our posterity to even be here to inherit it.
Harold RustDecember 27, 2024
A related question for a community or nation could be: “Do adults benefit in significant ways when they have frequent interaction with children?” And, “Are people generally happier or more disgruntled when in the presence of lots of children/teens.?” My personal belief is that some hit real lows when being “bothered” by young kids in their presence while others feel some of their highest highs as they watch or talk with or successfully teach children.
KevinDecember 27, 2024
I really appreciate this article covering this important topic. I think the adversary has done a great job distracting so many from fulfilling this commandment. My wife and I have been very prayerful about this and despite health challenges and financial uncertainties, we've been blessed with 6 kids. I know they are supposed to be here at this time to help prepare the world for the Second Coming.
Frank E MerrillDecember 27, 2024
Large families were, and I believe still are, the original "Social Security."
Ashley KDecember 25, 2024
I suspect my husband has a secret family with one biological son. I am trying to find information on how to handle this. Thank you for the article.
ShelleyDecember 24, 2024
What a wonderful collection you have! Thanks for sharing. Where in Switzerland did you buy the set with the St. Bernard in it? I'd love to get something like it. Thanks!
PeggyDecember 23, 2024
So what's the rest of the Coyote story? Also, please share the race horse story. We love your stories! Merry Christmas
Vaughn BlaylockDecember 23, 2024
This is perhaps the best list of the 'fruits of the restoration' ever concisely presented.
Corey D.December 22, 2024
Watched Wallace and Gromit a number of times, usually with my grandkids, its pretty good. Seems like an episode or a short of Wallace and Gromit was shown before a movie I saw in the last couple of years, just like they used to do all the time before a movie.
ErinDecember 22, 2024
What a heartwarming article! Love hearing of those who think of others and seek to bring light to those who need it.
Richard CraycroftDecember 22, 2024
Maybe he'll find some toe jam.
Corey D.December 22, 2024
I recently heard a song called "What a Beautiful Name" sung by Hillsong Worship, it is amazing and stirring, very moving. It was on a christian radio station, not something I would normally listen to, I'm a classic rock guy, was just flipping stations driving one day, a song that was playing got my attention so I listened for a bit and this one played and it was just amazing, actually several songs they played really touched me.
Jimmy SmithDecember 21, 2024
Thank you Christy. Wonderful letter. Great outlook. I appreciate you taking the time to write this out. This is a message that almost every missionary needs to hear. May God bless and be with you and all of the Lord's missionaries.
Myrna LiddellDecember 21, 2024
I love this! Exactly what is needed to spark young minds and keep them interested in sharing their 'stories' and imaginations, even drawing on their own life experiences. Years ago a creative writing teacher had us read a book, or shall I say, study a book, called Poetry: "Creative Power, The Education of Youth In the Creative Arts," Hughes Mearns, (not the best title, certainly not a Tipping Point capture!) but, inside are stories of reaching the hearts of elementary and high school novices who secretly shared their precious creative thoughts. The book changed my outlook, and my life choices, as did the teacher. You sir, are doing the same! Thank you!
Fern (Genie) Mason LaLondeDecember 21, 2024
Lynn, I do not remember you, but I remember your parents well from when I was a student at Indiana University. And when they came back to Indiana for a couple of firesides. Also got to meet Steven when our stake had him for a weekend of firesides. Love your article - I now know I was a sleepwalker for many years.
Learned the Hard WayDecember 20, 2024
On the other hand... my ex's family had a strict "never talk about the family outside of the house" rule, and it took me a long time to find out that they were all covering up generations of abuse. Isolating you from your support system is a prime tactic of abusers. Keeping issues between just the two of you doesn't work if one of you is an abuser.
Ralph W. GalliniDecember 20, 2024
What a wonderful message! I will never forget our two Elders, who taught us the Gospel of Jesus Christ in 1968, prior to my starting law school. They also taught our next-door neighbors and baptized them. From that sprung many missionaries from our family. 5 of our sons served missions. Now grandsons have and some are presently serving missions. So, as a good friend told me one time, it is is ok to be disappointed. Just don't get discouraged! Plant the Gospel seeds and all will be well.
AmyDecember 20, 2024
I love this program and think it’s so sweet that so many people have had the relief of knowing, “Someone remembers me.”
Ken SommerfeldtDecember 20, 2024
Firstly, thanks for sharing. What a great synopsis of the breadth of the restoration. Upon reading your essay, it is easy to see how we could take for granted the many strands of the restoration, thus leaving us with a less beautiful tapestry than it should be. The evidence of the continuing restoration, is ever present before us. I fear that it too may be overlooked as we sojourn in this world of distraction and confusion. As Elder Maxwell said, "A distraction does not have to be evil to be effective..."
Chelsea Merrell MorganDecember 20, 2024
This was a wonderful article to read about Captain Benjamin Merrill. I am also a descendent of his. He is my 7th great-grandfather on my father’s side. I love finding out any information about my family members who came before us, so thank you for sharing!
Corey D.December 20, 2024
There are two important reasons/causes, well actually three, why there seems to be this sharp polarization in society, particularly in the political realm. The first is, it's no longer just about political differences, in years past people had different political views that revolved around what and where government should spend money or what government should or should not be involved in, but their views or beliefs about family, marriage, education, work ethic, etc, or in other words their basic moral values were more or less similar, that's no longer the case, makes it very hard to have discussions with others. Second cause of polarization is the radical takeover of the educational system particularly at the university level that has been going on for many years, even reaching into church sponsored schools, hence certain warnings subtle and not so subtle by some of the brethren in recent years about getting church sponsored and supported schools back on track to their basic core and primary mission and the proliferation of charter and private schools. Everyone should read a book titled Debunking Howard Zinn by Mary Grabar. Of course for members of the church we know the main reason for the contention is Satan, he knows time is short and is giving it all he has to destroy the plan and eliminate peace.
Rick KlompDecember 19, 2024
Thank you, Christy, for your encouraging and thoughtful comments. As full-time missionaries we really don't control and aren't responsible for the outcome of our efforts. And yes, Heavenly Father excells at making all things work together for our good.
S. ReesDecember 19, 2024
Love love love this article. I will pass it on to our family missionaries.
C. BayDecember 19, 2024
This is beautiful. I know SO many past missionaries who needed to hear a message like this not only on the hard days of their missions but also years later as they reflect on their service with likely inaccurate descriptions of its value.
Mary-Rose McMullinDecember 19, 2024
As a mother of nine children, I often got similar disparaging comments. My reply was, "I'm raising these children to be the people who will pay into your old-age pensions!" We need children in our society!!
JeffDecember 19, 2024
Thank you for writing this heartfelt message of encouragement to our full time missionaries
Vaughn BarrusDecember 19, 2024
Thank you Christy for your wonderful letter to the discouraged missionaries. I am now almost 65 and it has been more than 40 years since I served my mission in Rosario Argentina. Even though it has been so many years, your message touched my heart and healed old wounds. I thank you so very much for your kind wonderful thoughts and words.
ShaunaDecember 19, 2024
Bless you sister for writing this--it made me cry...even though it's been 40 years since I started my mission in France and Switzerland...these words are a balm to my soul. There are many fruits of serving a mission, but seeing people converted, was not one i witnessed much on my mission. We were lucky to even teach lessons But as you say, you never know who else might have been touched. and I will share this with other missionaries I know who are serving, and even the missionaries we're feeding this Sunday, as well as my 2 kids who are recently returned missionaries. Being a missionary is a sanctifying and refining process--but it is painful as the natural man is stripped away. So grateful you've "found" and accepted the Gospel--and thanks for sharing such a sweet and encouraging message
AnnDecember 19, 2024
Thank you for this article. It made my day. I have often felt that I was not a "good enough" missionary because I struggled so much with the language, the living conditions, etc. Your article gave me hope.
WallyDecember 19, 2024
Beautiful in word and spirit! Thank you, Christy! We are so glad to know and love you! Wally & Nancy Goddard
KokoDecember 19, 2024
This is a wonderful article and would be beneficial to all missionaries serving. Thank you for taking the time to write.
Ricki GibbonsDecember 18, 2024
Mother of 9 here and married 50 years. Some things never change. When my children were young I would be asked, usually at my husband's company Christmas party, "Do you work?". I began answering, "Probably harder than you!", and laughing. As a woman with an honors BA degree in Russian (of all things!) I chose my life. And am grateful and blessed. Thank you for this well written article.
Deniese DrakeDecember 18, 2024
I have also seen the circle square motif in my temple. I hope I can see it more on my next visit but also don't want to be so busy counting in my mind to not really pay attention. I don't do well at multi-tasking.
MeganDecember 18, 2024
I was touched by the direction this article took. It is rare to see motherhood celebrated and pursued with such focus and reverence. However, one aspect of social-media motherhood that is overlooked is the curation of only the best and most beautiful moments, especially when that duration becomes monetized. Bloggers don't usually succeed unless they stoke envy, which encourages us to continue our consumption of their feed. I became a mother at the dawn of blogging, and had my second and most devastating of three rounds of PPD at the height of the Mommy Bloggers. The idealized depiction of motherhood was excruciating to someone trapped in a spiral of depression, rage, exhaustion, and terror. A close friend became a famous blogger for a portrayal of motherhood that turned out to be largely untrue and heavily edited. The affect on me was devastating. I love that so many women wish to portray parenthood as a holy and fulfilling thing. But showing near-impossible standards as their every day lives, without showing us the realism or even the really difficult moments, can be so harmful to regular people with regular struggles who now think they're failing because their lives don't reflect that sanitized, curated ideal.
DougDecember 18, 2024
Beautiful insights - thank you!
CASDecember 17, 2024
This is so powerful. Thanks for sharing!
Joni HiltonDecember 16, 2024
Brava! People are not buying the outdated, tired message that women should choose everything else over motherhood. Great article!
GTODecember 16, 2024
Fantastic article by a great writer with a brilliant mind.
HelenCDecember 16, 2024
LOL; T. Carpenter "Stole my thunder" on that amazing quote! That being said, this is why I have always preferred to be known as an "independent female" rather than a feminist. the "-ist" smacks way too much of the "-ites" mentioned in 4 Nephi 1:17 "There were no robbers, nor murderers, neither were there Lamanites, nor any manner of -ites; but they were in one, the children of Christ, and heirs to the kingdom of God."
C. CarlsonDecember 16, 2024
Beautiful, inspiring story! Thank you!
Cody HoskissonDecember 16, 2024
I am a woman. I have two children and I fully intend on having at least 4 more, God willing. You perfectly summed up how I feel about the vocal minority in this country when you said, “it would seem feminism only includes a woman’s right not to have a child”. Fortunately, I have discovered that they are indeed the minority. When you go out into the real world and talk to real people, you quickly discover that the vast majority of people around you are nice and honestly want to be nice and even if they have a differing opinion, they can still cheer you on in your opinion. Your article also drove home to me a fact that has been slowly dawning in my mind: you can choose to see the positive in the things that happen everyday. Having two kids, I can say that motherhood is often exhausting, yet this woman chooses to post positive and uplifting content about her eight children. She could choose to focus on the thousands of things that must go awry everyday, but instead she focuses on the blessings she sees everywhere and makes the world a brighter place by sharing about them. So thank you for that improved perspective as well!
Linda K. SpoonerDecember 16, 2024
I truly love Meridian Magazine. Yes, I subscribed last year and will again this year. I have learned a great deal from your magazine. Thank you. Linda
Linda K. SpoonerDecember 16, 2024
I cannot tell you how much I love this post. I normally don't read such syrupy type stuff, but the title hit me. I never expected to end up where I did. On a piece of land with a milk cow and 3 kids. Not ever. It brought back memories flying into my head and heart. This showed me I was not crazy or demented as my mother thought of me. I am not alone. I would have loved having my husband to enjoy this but alas that couldn't be. I am bipolar and that ruined my enjoyment of what you had. Being bipolar and having separation angst and making decisions on my own did not mix. It was the 1970's and I did not know what to do to get help. I am going to start following this ballerina. Thank you so much for this article. It gave me strength to visit that part of my life. Yes, thank you. Linda
T. CarpenterDecember 16, 2024
"That is feminism. Women supporting women in pursuing excellence and actualization in every sphere and not always rushing to say one form of excellence threatens another by its very existence." I love that paragraph. I pray that we, all the women of the world, achieve that some day.
Monica ChamberlandDecember 15, 2024
Thank You ...how inspiring and sooting at this time of year again, when trying to figure out the perfect gift.
NateDecember 13, 2024
Artificial Intelligence (AI) The basics of AI have existed for 2000 to 3000 years. Algibra is the basis for AI, named after its creator in India. The simplification of algebraic equations was developed along the Sick Road. The next major development came about 1850, when George Boole developed modern symbolic logic, including the if, greater than, less than, etc. Where it became really useful was with the arrival of the PC and the spreadsheet in the 1980’s. What you are really talking about is Chat GPT which allows users to converse with search apps by a two-way conversation researching and improving the reacher. The conversation uses neural networks simulating the human brain. Interestingly one of the main developers of the neural networks is Geoffory Hinton. He won the recent Nobel Prize for his work wit Google Deep Mind and is the grandson of George Boole
Godfrey EllisDecember 13, 2024
Excellent and inspirational reminder
AlanDecember 13, 2024
Thank you for sharing those inspirational stories about gifts that don’t come from the store.
LatessaDecember 13, 2024
Thank you for sharing your experiences of gifts not bought from a store. As I was reading it brought tears to my eyes. I hope to open my eyes to see more gifts like that.
Brent OlsenDecember 13, 2024
I appreciate Brother Wrights words in his commentary here. It supports, and aids my search and studies of and in the Book of Mormon. Definitely helps build upon my spiritual self. Thank you, Brent
LewisDecember 12, 2024
Beautiful stories, and incredible gifts. To my mind, it is the gift the Savior gives us, allowing us to understand both who we are and what we can become. Thank you for sharing these wonderful stories at Christmas!
MjDecember 12, 2024
Thanks for this thoughtful article. Often the burden comment is meant to acknowledge that the calling is challenging. I like the idea of thanking someone for their services. have not felt comfortable saying congratulations but had not thought of anything better. Great ideas.
GTODecember 12, 2024
This is amazing and so inspiring!
Rochelle HaleDecember 12, 2024
When we sustain our leaders, on a general, stake, or ward level, we are literally promising we can do everything we can do to support them, especially if our own callings or responsibilities fall under their jurisdiction. I have had very few callings that I have struggled with. I believe our callings come from the Lord. Whether we serve as a greeter or stake/mission leader, ours is a privilege to serve that cannot be found in other churches. The Lord needs us and wants us to help build His kingdom. That is amazing to me! Along this vein, it bothers me when people apologize before giving Sacrament meeting talks, or they take several minutes to explain how they avoided being asked. If one truly is very shy or has a condition that makes speaking difficult, then explain that to the bishopric member privately. If you accepted the call to speak, then please do so without giving excuses.
KareenDecember 12, 2024
What a beautiful reminder that a person NEEDS to feel needed, that they're contributing something to their community! How AWESOME that the need can be met!
HelenCDecember 12, 2024
I was once accused of “Ripping off the bereaved” because I charge for my Grief Coaching. I just posted this article to my feeds!
Tim FosterDecember 12, 2024
We have a comment to our friends - Congratudolences when they are called. It is meant to say congratulations on the call, condolences if you think the Lord doesn't want you any longer. He makes the most over whelming calls possible to answer and do. In the end the term is a light hearted way to say "welcome to the Lord's service".
randaDecember 9, 2024
loved it
vickieDecember 9, 2024
most people not in the church cannot wrap their heads around this. that they can become like God our Father. sometimes its hard for me to wrap my brain around that. i guess its my respect and belief in My Father in heaven. i do believe we can become like Him but He will always be above me.
RobDecember 8, 2024
And I would ad, that this applies to young men seeking a good LDS wife. Abuse is not only physical, it's emotional as well.
Dee SanchezDecember 7, 2024
Thank you for posting this. This has strengthened me to strive to live better and prepare well for the eternities by doing what I can here in this life.
TinaDecember 7, 2024
I grew up in an abusive home, so that has always been my number one concern for my children, that they will end up in an abusive relationship. Thank you for the advice in this article..
Craig FrogleyDecember 6, 2024
This was so beautifully graphic that it made me remember our own homecomings... I can see that now you know.....!
Corey DinsdaleDecember 6, 2024
I have had a copy of this vision in my possession for about 45 yrs, I found it among my fathers things after he was killed in a tragic accident. I have tried to document it for years with little success, this is a wonderful article !
Darrell H.December 6, 2024
There is so much wisdom in what Ron says. For years he has been one of my mentors from afar. I've used his teachings and stories as I've taught Crucial Conversations. This article beautifully illustrates his insights and experience. Thanks for publishing this.
Kandi GuffeyDecember 6, 2024
We read this account in the 1970's and have kept it with our collection of truths of our next experience. What we have is on mimeographed paper so being able tp print it with clear letters will be great. Thanks so much!
Shirley RicksDecember 6, 2024
Thank you for all you bring to us on a daily basis. I have been a long-time monthly subscriber. It is well worth it to receive your uplifiting, well-written, and informative articles.
Lee CollettDecember 6, 2024
This man was a stake president. As we know a person can receive revelation for those under their stewardship. I would hope that people would realize that this is not revelation for the whole church.
J. S. BrownDecember 6, 2024
I know a couple who have a wonderful relationship. When they were dating, they both felt strongly about the church. The gospel was the highest priority in their lives. Shortly after they were married, he said something unkind to her as they were driving somewhere. She asked him to pull over and stop the car. Then she said very plainly and without anger to him that he had promised her and God in the temple that he would not treat her that way and that if he ever talked to her again in a mean way, it would be the end of the marriage. He thought about the sacred covenants he had made and realized that he had broken his covenant, and he felt bad about it. He apologized sincerely and was very careful from then on. One of their children was a student of mine and he and their other children were all decent, well-behaved and were faithful in the church. The couple has now been married over 50 years, and they still have a beautiful relationship. When a couple is planning to get married, it needs to be spelled out to each of them that unkindness is a very serious sin. And bishops should ask the question in the recommend interviews: "Are you consistently kind to your wife/husband?" I've seen the tragedies--the evil and indescribably sorrow, pain, misery and I can't understand why so many bishops look the other way and support an abusive husband.
Bonnie BDecember 5, 2024
thank you for this article and list of great websites and podcasts! They are KEEPERS!
Shelley StevensDecember 5, 2024
Thank you for this! We have many "faith-shakers" in our world; It is nice to remember we have faith-trusters too! Would love to see you come up with a list of podcast that you think are also faith-truster based!
Greg NewkirkDecember 4, 2024
This is outstanding, especially given its documentation. Thanks for bringing it to light.
Sheryl BDecember 4, 2024
Thank you for sharing this experience. I believe it to be true. I know those who have gone through the veil to the new birth are busy and helping us to do the work that needs to be completed here on earth.
Jenny SvendsenDecember 4, 2024
thank you for posting tis wonderful vision1 The many truths therein are so important for us to remember and contemplate. My own mother went to the spirit world, and I understand now with more clarity why she said not to mourn her death, when she eventually passed, because of the glory and happiness on the other side. Our son at the age of 43 also came to console me after he passed.
Dora Glassford RobertsonDecember 4, 2024
Awesome second witness. I am surprised it is not cannonised as surely it would help the unbelieving see the truth. When my husband died, I was so shocked I called out to him, that we did not even say goodbye, how could he do this to me. As I came to the carehome, I was told he was declared dead by the docror but his soul obviously returned for three hours and that we were permitted to say Goodbye. I am eternally grateful to Heavenly Father for sending his spirit back so I could come to terms that he was leaving me. I know he is OK and waiting for me on the other side of the veil. I feel so blessed.
Becky HullDecember 4, 2024
thank you so much for this. Who did the beautiful artwork at the top of the article? It is stunning. Thank you.
M.C.December 4, 2024
Very interesting! Thank you for sharing. I love this perspective.
Jackson PembertonDecember 4, 2024
Kansas City is near if not in the world of the ancient prophets. A special place indeed.
Lexie StatonDecember 4, 2024
Thank you for posting this Scot. This is an account that I have not read before. It puts things in their proper and best perspective.
Doug SalmonDecember 3, 2024
This article is thought-provoking, informative, enlightening, and beautiful. Thank you!
L. M. OlsonDecember 3, 2024
Thank you so very much for your generous offer on these sweet books. I am looking forward to giving them to my families and to the people we minister to. I know they will love it.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 2, 2024
WOW! What a year! I listened to your podcast about recording in your car because it was the only quiet enough place! Thanks so much for sharing. Welcome home!
Marilynne LinfordDecember 2, 2024
Thank you, Steve!
Gail G GrovesDecember 2, 2024
I have loved reading your "letters to home" posted on Meridian through your mission and especially how Family Search opened up the windows and doors of heaven to so many Puerto Ricans. And many thanks for your Come Follow Me Podcasts. They have been an inspiration to me this year. Merry Christmas & Best wishes in the New Year.
LouiseDecember 2, 2024
What a beautiful article! Thank you for sharing these experiences.
WallyDecember 2, 2024
Beautiful! So many lives blessed!
Melissa Boyer MarkhamDecember 2, 2024
Welcome Home! How I loved reading about your climb up Mt Sinai and the swellings in your heart as you pondered the nature of God and his love for us. I remember a similar experience on Mt Sinai, culminating in the singing of "How Great Thou Art." Truly, how great He is!
Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 2, 2024
Congratulations on a great mission! I’ll miss reading about it.
Corey D.December 1, 2024
Some years ago at our stake conference which was the week before Thanksgiving, Elder Vaughan J Featherstone was the visiting general authority, the main Sunday session started like normal, we sang, had the opening prayer, business was conducted, then as the counselor in stake presidency was about to give the program Elder Featherstone came to the pulpit and said, " I'm going to make a change to the program, we are going to sing a couple of different/extra songs, we are going to sing some Thanksgiving songs, songs of gratitude, Thanksgiving kind of gets overlooked and it shouldn't be, it is one of our most important holidays", I've always remembered that and try to be grateful always.
Corey D.December 1, 2024
I was thinking about this recently brought about by some things I was told some members of the church have said or done towards others that were not very christian for lack of a better description and it always reminds me of a missionary I met when I was in the LTM, he was a convert to the church and older than most of the missionaries, he had joined the church while serving in the army stationed in Okinawa. He said to me one day, " you guys that have been members all your lives sometimes give the impression or have the attitude that you are the only ones who were raised right, my parents were good people who raised me well, in fact because of the way I was raised I joined the church". I think what we need to remember as members of the church is, yes we have all truth but we don't have a market on all good.
Glenn BrittDecember 1, 2024
I liked your Chess analogy. Additionally, Jaredite culture exactly mirrors 15th and 16th century pirate culture. Anyone could challenge the captain at any time, and the victor would be captain and the vanquished would join the others swabbing the deck. And if there was a mutiny, they fought till one side submitted, and the victor's side leader would be captain. And those they wished to "Leave in captivity," they would just leave on land at Nassau or Tortuga. In fact, change the names to Blackbeard, Drake and others and their cities to ships and Ether reads as a good pirate novel.
C. ReynoldsNovember 29, 2024
Just wish that she had decided to have it earlier in the year, like the Canadians did. They get to celebrate their thanksgiving holiday on October 11th, so that they miss all of the nasty winter weather and hazardous driving we get to enjoy during the end of November!!
LewisNovember 28, 2024
On this Thanksgiving Day, I am grateful you have brought us along on your incredible journey. I am so appreciative both for the work you are doing and the gift you give us each month by sharing these incredible stories.
Steve A DoneganNovember 27, 2024
Sister Linford, I waited until the evening to read your article so I wouldn’t be distracted. My surprise wasn’t the love and care that went into your words, but I was surprised, greatly, by the fact there were no comments by the many others who we both know read your work. It moved me to tears and deep reflection. Thank you for the time you took to write such a wonderful piece.
CJWNovember 27, 2024
Behind every great thing is a persistent woman! Great article!
Mariah Proctor (author)November 27, 2024
@Dave M, yeah, actually the reason that bill came about was because Roosevelt moved Thanksgiving to earlier in the month in the hopes of lengthening the Christmas shopping season and boosting the economy during the Great Depression, but it didn't work and people were upset so they officially changed it back at that time you mentioned.
Dave MNovember 27, 2024
In December 1941, Congress passed a bill that made Thanksgiving the fourth Thursday in November (not the last Thursday), and President Roosevelt signed that bill into law.
Claudia Henderson SmithNovember 27, 2024
Thanks for sharing that wonderful story.
Mark W MinerNovember 26, 2024
So tender, beautiful, and deeply meaningful. Whenever our world seems to fall apart, we can always find something--and Someone--to be grateful for.
Corey D.November 24, 2024
To the brother who sent in the question, hang in there, easy for me to say I know, I have a 41 yr old son and a 38 yr old son both getting divorced not under your same circumstances but still tough for them and both would rather not be getting divorced, one has kids and one doesn't. The 38 yr old is staying with us and dealing with depression big time which is hard for me to understand because I have never been depressed and have trouble understanding it and its symptoms. On the other hand and this may not have a very understanding sound to it but if you have neighbors like that and your wife betrayed you under those circumstances, time to move on and move away, literally. Get outdoors on a daily basis or do some type of activity, pray daily even though it may be tough and seem hopeless, avoid social media and watching to much TV. May a schedule and stick to it. Read good books, go buy a copy of Robert Fulghum's books.
Corey D.November 23, 2024
Another wonderfully expressed article. When I was younger I used to think Jacob 7:26 was an interesting comment, now that I'm older it's much more personal and understood, sums up the thoughts and intents of this article and for many of us life, Jacob says "our lives passed away like as it were unto us a dream".
JoeNovember 22, 2024
I don't know what your cardiovascular drug regimen might be, but certain drugs for the heart, especially beta-blockers, can exacerbate anxiety and depression in some patients. Speaking from personal experience. There are replacements that can have a better side effect profile that you can discuss with your cardiologist. Perhaps this could ease at least some of your burden as you face this trial. I am pulling for you. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.31887/DCNS.2007.9.1/jchuffman#d1e151
Richard ManwaringNovember 22, 2024
Everything I read about Marion D Hanks makes me wish I had known him. What an incredible man! Thanks for sharing
Chris EpsonNovember 22, 2024
Amen!
SallyNovember 22, 2024
What a beautiful article! I sent it to my pre-mission daughter for her help and benefit. The gentle and wise reminder in this article is for ALL of us who profess to be disciples of Christ. Well done, and thank you, Brother Hanks!
Bradley AndersonNovember 21, 2024
While I don't go on your blog, I read any article you write in Meridian and elsewhere. I especially enjoy your analyses, live and in print. This, however, was totally unexpected. It is most enjoyable, assuming you are not suffering a terminal illness. Benjamin Franklin stated, "If you would not be forgotten, as soon as you are dead and rotten, either write things worth reading, or do things worth the writing." You are comfortably within both categories. While your remains will not take up much space, you have a legacy upon which future generations will build. Keep up the superb work my friend, whom I have never met.
Jeannie EvansNovember 21, 2024
You have seen the inside of my soul with your music and meditations.
DumaNovember 21, 2024
Thank you for including enough detail about the show to make your illustrations clear while not making me experience a horror film.
Jenny Oaks BakerNovember 20, 2024
Great review and thoughts! I will not be seeing this film, but appreciate your wise thoughts call to action to filmmakers to have the courage tell the faithful side of things!
Abbie VianesNovember 19, 2024
Mariah what GREAT writing in this piece. Thank you for such a clear explanation of the film which I will never see. I believe your analysis is spot on. How sad such films put out their atheistic messages
EveNovember 19, 2024
Well done!
JeanNovember 19, 2024
As is referred to in this article, I am disappointed in Hugh Grant taking this role. Yes, I am one of the people who associate him with his role in Sense and Sensibility, in which he did a superb job.
RitchieNovember 15, 2024
Both sides used misinformation. (LDS member in Australia, served Mission, EQ 2nd Councillor ).
Brad LNovember 14, 2024
Excellent article. I'm saving it for future re-reading and am looking forward to your follow-up article
Dave BarkerNovember 14, 2024
This sounds great, but I'm afraid things may have progressed beyond some of this strategy. Many people have convinced themselves that the results of this election signals the end of democracy, etc. This has been an election strategy that has traumatized half of the population and totally offended and polarized the other half. I have relatives who are literally fearing for their lives and future right now. I have been very kind and tolerant, but have been notified I'm not welcome. This is not the American way. We need to hold politicians responsible for their rhetoric. They'll say whatever they think will get them elected, no matter the human cost.
AnnaNovember 14, 2024
Great article, thank you...
Scott LeTellierNovember 14, 2024
Kathy, informative article. Thanks. What a great opportunity you and Whitney have with our great Choir. I watch every Sunday and visit live each time I am in SLC -- was there for the Spelman and Moorhouse colleges combined performance the last time, which was wonderful. Keep it going!
Gerry H.November 13, 2024
While serving as a senior missionary in San Francisco twenty years ago, I met missionaries from the Pacific Islands cultures whose names also are descriptive. I am certain there are many more interesting things to be learned on this subject. Great article.
HelenCNovember 13, 2024
Thank you for this clarifying explanation.
John A WarnickNovember 13, 2024
TY. Excellent article. I listened to a podcast recently which suggested, if I captured it correctly, that the Egyptian symbols for the actual name of the Brother of Jared would require something like 11 symbols and the Brother of Jared only a few symbols. Hence, they suggested that it was a practical consideration for Moroni, who faced the twin difficulties of using the Egyptian language and symbols in his writing on the plates and the need to use the space on the plates conservatively. Thank you for a fuller understanding of what Moroni and Ether were upagainst as they preserved the story of the Brother of Jared, Jared, and their people
Lisa CroftNovember 13, 2024
I think there is one more possibility. The BofM is a story. It is a literary masterpiece created by Mormon and his son Moroni and tells of a family wandering earthly paths, Ether is taken out of chronological order and iplaced as the opposite book end from Lehi’s story. The two stories parallel each other and tell the story of a covenant people. Jared’s brother is a type of Christ who is the Mediator & Advocate w/God along our covenant path. By leaving his name unknown, it prompts us to ask, who is he really? All things in scripture lead us to Jesus Christ.
CindyNovember 13, 2024
I love how you explained the reasoning as to why the Book of Mormon doesn't give the name of Jared's brother. I was in an Institute class when this was revealed to us: Ether 1:34–35. What is the name of the brother of Jared? Elder George Reynolds of the Seventy related the following account, which shows that the name of the brother of Jared was revealed to the Prophet Joseph Smith: “While residing in Kirtland Elder Reynolds Cahoon had a son born to him. One day when President Joseph Smith was passing his door he called the Prophet in and asked him to bless and name the baby. Joseph did so and gave the boy the name of Mahonri Moriancumer. When he had finished the blessing he laid the child on the bed, and turning to Elder Cahoon he said, the name I have given your son is the name of the brother of Jared; the Lord has just shown it to me. Elder William F. Cahoon, who was standing near heard the Prophet make this statement to his father; and this was the first time the name of the brother of Jared was known in the Church in this dispensation” (“The Jaredites,” Juvenile Instructor, May 1, 1892, 282).
T. CarpenterNovember 13, 2024
I went to General Conference in 1976 with a date (we were in college together.) It was in the Tabernacle balcony section where we had to sit. The ushers kept coming to the end of the row and asking us all to squish closer together. "Turn sideways," they kept saying, "we need to get one more person in this pew." They did that three times! We were not sitting shoulder to shoulder, but chest to back! I was mortified being that close to a young man that I did not know nor was married to! It was absolutely immoral. I can't remember his name, face nor anything else about that date, including the long ride back to Ephriam. It's mostly a blur. I'm sure we did not speak to one another the entire way home. Point of this story? They can always stuff one more person into a pew; where there is a will, there is a way.
joe alvaradoNovember 13, 2024
I personally think that avoiding talking about politics is not the right approach. If I remember well, Elder Oaks in his talk about the constitution a few conferences ago gave us some advice on what to do. He told us to get involved politically , educate ourselves about the constitution and teach our children about politics. Avoiding the issue will not help our nation stand for our rights on these last days of secret combinations within our government. I am not saying we have to argue and fight with each other. I mean learn to educate each other peacefully about our choices. President Nelson has said we wont survive these last days without the guidance of the Spirit. Lets look for the Spirit and act accordingly.
Patrick R. Elliott, Sr.November 13, 2024
Mahonri Moriancumer is the name of the brother of Jared.
Barry HNovember 13, 2024
Very interesting and certainly makes sense. Thanks for sharing your research and insights. Now we know you can write far more than interesting and humorous life stories (which I always enjoy).
Steve A DoneganNovember 13, 2024
Thanks for letting us know about the app!
Rochelle HaleNovember 13, 2024
This has been a difficult election year. Our main political parties are far from what they were in our patents or grandparents’ days where one could pretty much vote straight ticket and know what they would be getting. I would have liked a clean slate of candidates this campaign season, but obviously that did not happen. I also find myself at odds with family or friends over the outcome of the election. I will not be the one to yell at someone, call them names, or disinvite to Thanksgiving dinner, but I’m sure there are those who would easily show me the exit for my views. It is indeed sad that so many wedges have been placed between relationships when I believe, at core, the things we seek for in daily living are basically the same. There will still be many discrepancies. Ours is to be the best citizens we can be and strive for harmonious relationships in spite of any perceived unfairness.
Particle ManNovember 13, 2024
The following more recent discussions, which feature much of the same material as the 1985 talk, address subsequent technological advances and provide further insights. "Is the Shroud of Turin authentic? (Yes, here's why)" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oM9a45ANjiI "The Shroud Reveals New Insights on Jesus" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEl9KyZBA4g
Barbara KNovember 13, 2024
I like the idea I heard that Mahonri Moriancomer needed many more symbols to write than Jared's brother did. It was a matter of saving space as the name appears often in the account.
Donna ColyarNovember 12, 2024
Oh my goodness, overwhelming ick. I’m disappointed Hugh Grant would participate in this schlock. As the grandmother of three serving missionaries, two of them sisters, I surely hope their safety is not at greater risk because of this. Doesn’t Hollywood have better stories than this? Apparently not. So disrespectful to ANY faith and ANY believer. Inaccurate and mean-spirited.
Harold RustNovember 12, 2024
One strong recommendation I would add: Whenever one of the two sides "wins" temporarily (elections are held every 2 years, remember), the successful side should go out of their way to now show graciousness and respect by addressing valid and reasonable concerns those on the other side might have. This is especially true where all Trump supporters should spend much of their energy discussing how we can improve supporting "good, hard-working" immigrants while improving security against those who come here only for a free hand-out or who see this is an opportunity to pass drugs or commit crimes. When the victor shows compassion and magnanimity, both sides have better reason to celebrate each other's friendship.
Darwin Nelson DavisNovember 12, 2024
Such an excellent article! Every member would be blessed to follow this wonderful counsel.
Rebecca WNovember 12, 2024
I've never heard anyone say immigrants are poisoning the blood of Americans. I think the issue is obeying the law, stopping fentanyl and other drugs, as well as human trafficking. That's such a an ugly statement - can you verify who said it?
Gary WitteNovember 12, 2024
In 1975 while in Central America on my mission, Honduras had a postal tribute to Coros del Mundo (Choirs of the world). If you can imagine they created a postal stamp with the Tabernacle Choir on it. There were limits on how many one could purchase so my Zone purchase 360 and sent them to the Tab Choir. Decades later Janice Kap Perry came to visit a friend in our Stake and I gave her my last stamp, as she had been in the Choir for a while. Great memories!
Dave CookNovember 12, 2024
My mother, who is the best person I know and who has a sure ticket to the Celestial Kingdom, supported the candidate I strongly oppose. We still have a wonderful relationship and get along great. We just don’t talk politics.
Richard EastwoodNovember 12, 2024
According to John 20: 5-7, there was not one pice of fabric in which the Savior was wrapped, but several. Verse 7: "And the napkin, that was about his head, not lying with the linen clothes but wrapped together in a place by itself."
KathleenNovember 11, 2024
My husband has this gift, as well. I've always referred to it as 'seeing space.' Whether packing a car, trunk, U-Hall or whatever, it's helpful.
Judy ShumwayNovember 11, 2024
thank you that is so amazing and beautiful we all need to reverence the Flag and what it stands for thank you
Gary StrobleNovember 11, 2024
Typo in the headline: Should we Cut Off (Everyone One) Who Doesn’t Agree with Us?
Debbi M.November 11, 2024
This Choir always amazes me--my husband and I watch Music and the Spoken Word each Sunday as a starter to our Sabbath and I pull up music by the choir on my cell phone to get uplift and sustenance as I fall asleep or try to sleep after some emotional struggles during the day. This article made me smile!
karenNovember 11, 2024
wow that is so inspiring!!! Thank you for doing that.
Richard V JukesNovember 11, 2024
Thanks, Scot. This was a fun-to-read article.
Barbara WalkerNovember 11, 2024
Love your visual. Weren't people smaller in those days allowing for maybe one more per bench? If I had been there I would have been excited enough to stand at the back through the whole meeting. Thank you for using your gift to help us see too.
Jenny SvendsenNovember 11, 2024
That is truly amazing! Thank yo for sharing this! My husband has also been blessed with the same gift as you, we have moved about 30 times in our 54 years of marriage, gone camping every year with our 5 children, it boggles my mind how he can find space for everything,he can put double the stuff in a tight space than I can
Joni HiltonNovember 11, 2024
I hope many readers re-post this brilliant article on social media.
Wendy HallNovember 11, 2024
Just Beautiful! Thank you!
Gaye WillisNovember 11, 2024
It might also be that the people were smaller than we are today. When I was indexing World War II Draft Records I was amazed at the height and weight of many of the soldiers because it is so much less than the typical 20-year-olds of today. My guess is that people in Joseph Smith's day who were hard working on the farm and often didn't have extra food and especially didn't have all the sugary foods we have, also weighed less and were smaller.
HelenCNovember 11, 2024
Thank you, Brother Proctor, for your clarity of vision. Your gift has opened my eyes to the wonders of that day!
Debrah RoundyNovember 11, 2024
Thanks for sharing, the shroud is so unique and the latest in scientific equipment continues to tease us into reading more. That was interesting.
MaryannNovember 9, 2024
Thank you for much more expanding your answer to respond to this problem more completely. My husband and I are both sometimes guilty of letting social media on our phones and computers interrupt our time together. We all DO need to feel one another's real presence. Thank you for the reminder. It is sad to see this problem displayed almost everywhere. How often do we look around in a restaurant, or other venues, and witness husbands and wives staring at their phones, instead of engaging in conversation and connection? The technology we enjoy can easily become a tool of Satan to weaken family relationships. We (me, too!) need to break away from what is becoming an addiction for many.
Sister Robyn LevesqueNovember 9, 2024
The Choir continues to be amazing! Thank you so much. My husband and I are serving a mission in Indonesia and we listen to our wonderful choir often during the week to bring a sweet spirit. When we miss home, that helps! You all are doing an amazing job. Years ago we thought it couldn’t get any better, but it always does! Thank you for this great music.
Mary ZollingerNovember 8, 2024
A wonderful Christmas Story. Thank you to Dallas Jenkins for this Christmas Movie!
Janet RasmussenNovember 8, 2024
So glad Joe, the property owners, Native tribespeople, and community took on this project to preserve this marvelous site!!!
Peter VousdenNovember 8, 2024
My father and mother were baptised in England in 1955 when Clifton Kerr was mission president. My dad loved President Kerr, but in our family President Hanks assumed a towering influence. My father loved him. As a footnote, my father knew Elder Jeffrey R Holland as a young missionary.
IanNovember 8, 2024
I was fortunate to be part of a mission where obedience was a joy. 60% obedience in a sheltered MTC environment makes me wonder if the sister was underestimating her obedience. So much structure makes disobedience difficult, unless you're sneaking out at night, or something.
IanNovember 8, 2024
It's nice to hear these things. I'm a current choir member, and we've never heard this "Do things that have never been done before" story. Visionary. Thank you.
Joel MarksNovember 8, 2024
I was fortunate enough to meet Elder Hanks on my mission to Virginia from 1975-77 and a picture was taken fir my journal. In my mind though never chosen as an Apostle all our missionaries thought he was or should have been.
Corey D.November 7, 2024
Your comments on the hardships of life mirror a number of articles that have been on Meridian the last few years and I can say from personal experience and the personal experiences of friends and family that many, so many are struggling with these same trials and difficulties. Personal Faith and Belief seem tested on an almost constant basis and it's hard to hang on especially when your doing "all" the things we are told/counseled to do. For me personally one of the biggest helps is making a concerted effort every day to have a spirit of gratitude.
Dr. Kenneth Stevens, MDNovember 7, 2024
The biblical scholar, Margaret Barker, in her book "The Great High Priest", wrote: "Literally, 'almah means 'the hidden one': the root 'lm means conceal, and a derived noun t'lmh means a secret" [page 241]. Consider the following: "Now, there was in Mormon a fountain of pure water, and Alma resorted thither, there being near the water a thicket of small trees, where he did hide himself in the daytime from the searches of the king." (Mosiah 18:5)
L KinderNovember 7, 2024
Four years ago, I read "He Did Deliver Me from Bondage" by Colleen Harrison, the Church's 12-step Addiction Recovery book. I thought that my emotional eating problem "didn't really count" (after all, it's a temple-worthy sin), but there I was, on page 1. After decades of trying to overcome my weaknesses in my own strength, I have finally (at the age of 69) learned to trust the Lord, lean on Him for strength, and even dared to ask Him to change me (I sure couldn't change myself) and He DID. I might write a book called "Lose 60 Pounds in 60 Years", because that's how long it took me to let go and let God. The Lord has changed my nature--and He reminds me that this is not about how I look or what I weigh; it's about my relationship with HIM. Now I turn to HIM for comfort, not to food.
L KinderNovember 7, 2024
I seem to recall a scripture that says that if we take the Holy Spirit as our guide, and live in thanksgiving, it will be well with us. I forget how I got started, but I've learned to play Pollyanna's Glad Game all day long. It's easy to find something to complain about, but it takes more effort to feel grateful. At my age (69), I'm grateful to wake up. I'm grateful that most of my body parts work. I'm grateful for the parts that aren't in pain. When something irritating happens, that's when the Gratitude Skill kicks in. When something heartbreaking happens, I recognize that the Lord is there, like He was in the fiery furnace, not taking us out, but getting us through. I was a born pessimist, but learning gratitude has changed me. It makes me feel younger, more hopeful, and a lot better company to be with.
Big Jim from NoCalNovember 7, 2024
Interesting how times have changed since the days of young Marion D. Hanks. I served 21 years in the Air Force and it seemed like almost all of the chaplains I've encountered tended to avoid mentioning the Savior or even God for that matter, preferring instead to come off like amateur counselors or stand-up comics. I guess they have to worry about offending someone, and in today's diverse military services that's nearly impossible to do. But, as representatives of Christ, we need to not be afraid to let people know who we are and Whom we represent. Thanks to that wise chaplain who taught Elder Hanks that lesson!
CynthiaNovember 7, 2024
What a beautiful article about gratitude! I loved your burnt offering story and makes me want to be better about not just thanking God but also showing my gratitude. Bless you, Becky, for your wonderful example!
Brent AndersonNovember 7, 2024
I was called to be an Army chaplain in 1971, at the age of 25. Elder Hanks played a critical role in guiding my service, that lasted for 30 years. I have shared with my family my eternal gratitude for his ministry to me.
Roger DavidsonNovember 7, 2024
Thank you so very much for the article. Change is hard. But it is worth all the effort..
Maurine Jensen ProctorNovember 6, 2024
This article in no way suggested that you shouldn't vote or that you shouldn't be discerning and use your knowledge of the restored gospel in making decisions. What it suggests is that we cool our tempers, curb our rancor, seek friendship and understanding instead of division.
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
Every year before election day in Sacrament Meeting, a statement is read by the First Presidency reminding us of our responsibility to vote. So, for me, withholding my vote is not an option. I believe there is always one candidate who will better serve our country than another. It is not hard for me to make my choice. As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I will never support in any way a candidate who belongs to a political party who supports abortion (other than situations to save the life of the mother, or rape). How can a nation so richly blessed by God casually accept such a heinous sin? This nation has allowed the slaughter of millions of the innocent unborn. No wonder the Lord's sword is "bathed in heaven," ready to fall. I believe that those who in ANY way support candidates or political parties who think abortion is a "right" will one day stand accountable before God.
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
I believe the term "human rights" has been corrupted in many cases. Too often the term "rights" is incorrectly substituted for the correct word: "responsibility." There are not "reproductive rights;" there is reproductive RESPONSIBILITY. Exercising our free agency to harm others is not a "right." My right to swing my arm ends when it reaches your face (unless, of course, I am defending my life). We also do not have the "right" to sin. We have freedom to choose, but that never justifies or gives us the "right" to break God's laws.
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
I really hope this couple gets therapy as soon as possible. If this woman allows things to continue as they are, out of a mistaken sense of "kindness," she is going to end up homeless, broke, or dependent on other family members. This is a very serious situation, especially since men often die before their wives. His plan to "keep on working" will end abruptly when he becomes too old to work, or passes on. Where will she be then?
MaryannNovember 6, 2024
To Commenters: Please remember that much of what we experience and see in the USA is VERY good. There are still many, many wonderful people within and outside of our faith who love God and are striving to serve Him. Although we do struggle with contention (like every other nation), if that is all we see, and we allow it to overshadow everything that is good about our nation, we are missing out on a lot.
Anonymous (for my friend’s sake)November 6, 2024
Some years ago I served on a High Council and sat next to great man who thirty years earlier was a Division 1 quarterback for a team that was the primary rival of my Alma Mater. We made a wager before the rivalry football game. If his team won, I would wear a tie with his university logo to the next HC meeting and vice versa. That year, my team won. At the next High Council meeting I had the tie ready for him. He reminded me that for him to be seen with that tie would be devastating to his reputation. (I knew him to be in his school’s Football Hall of Fame and active among Alumi and potential recruits). For me, it would be meaningless, since my son and son in law both had degrees from his University. I tucked the tie into my pocket and made a good friend.
WallyNovember 5, 2024
Insightful article, Justin!
KAMNovember 5, 2024
For some issues God can't be on both sides.
Corey D.November 5, 2024
Great talk. I was at my brothers house some months ago, he shared a story that I'm pretty sure is fairly common place anymore especially with the youth and young adults. My niece happened to be visiting from out of state, her mom, my sister-in-law was at the computer preparing a lesson for Relief Society, she said something about being short on time and frustrated preparing the lesson, my niece walks over, says to her mom, "what's the subject for the lesson" ? She told her, my niece then says, let me sit at the computer, she pulls up some AI program or bot, types in a few things, lesson pops up, she sends it to the printer, hands it to her mom, total time, about 5 min. Pretty sure anyone under 30 that's how most lessons and talks are being prepared anymore.
MaryannNovember 5, 2024
Counting our blessings, and thanking our Heavenly Father for them each day is certainly a BIG essential step in "thinking celestial!"
MaryannNovember 5, 2024
When I was in school, a graduation requirement was to complete a class on American government. You really could not graduate unless you completed this class. One big step we must take is to marshal our ranks as parents and grandparents and let the schools know that we want American history, American government, and knowledge about our sacred documents taught in our schools. Our kids need to know about the sacrifices and blood that was shed to make the freedoms they enjoy possible. We need to also insist that the heavy criticisms aimed at our founding fathers be eliminated from school classrooms. I shudder when I see interviews where people do not even understand why we celebrate the 4th of July!
MaryannNovember 5, 2024
Thank you so much for your wonderful stories. We need laughter desperately, probably today more than ever.
Matt ProctorNovember 5, 2024
I listened to Afterglow on my mission in the Dominican Republic (84-86). Everytime I hear one of their songs, I am transported back to that special time in my life. Some of the best LDS music I have ever heard.
Andrew GroftNovember 5, 2024
Nice work, Stephen. I like your use of Plutarch’s Cincinnatus. Publius Valarius was this kind of leader, as well. Come to think of it, Donald Trump might fit the mold, rough around the edges as he seems. But the Roman and Greek heroes didn’t face the level of vitriol and constructed division America faces today. It is unpopular in some circles to admit Trump is a modern hero, and more palatable if you add that you don’t like his tweets, or he’s our best of two bad choices. But Trump left his plough, he relinquished power even when we knew the 2020 election was questionable. He puts up with horrible abuse, and puts his life on the line for his service. There is truth to be found. There are great men and women—greater even that in Plutarch’s annals. The truth may be more difficult to find, but it is only because the equal and opposite darkness comes with the great light of this greatest human awakening. As lighter, comes darker. It’s no surprise to me that the namesake of Stephen Earl and the prodigy of Dan and Julie Earley could make such mature and insightful observations. Thank you, friend.
Val LNovember 4, 2024
In the Book of Mormon there were Gadianton Robbers, and they caused so many problems that "it became expedient that all the people, both the Nephites and Lamanites should take up arms against them". (3 Nephi 2:11) The Book of Mormon is a guide to the latter days. One day, we will need to decide to choose a side that we believe is the best one to bless our community and preserve our Constitution...and vote! I'm sorry, but this article seemed to shame us for taking sides and to not vote? The last days will be filled with good and evil. Hopefully, we can choose the best of two choices. I have decided to vote, and pray that my vote may lead to the best outcome!
Margaret BourneNovember 4, 2024
I am not American nor do I live in America, so I am an outsider looking in. And what I see is not good. I totally agree with your article that so many of your countrymen, probably many who have been in the military together, fighting together for a common cause are now at each other's throats, threatening all sorts of calamities. Please, all, turn to God and live. Our country is not perfect by any means, so we can all learn from the Saviour's teachings. If only we will do so before its too late. Please, please, turn to God. He will succor us all, yes, everyone, on both sides.
MaryNovember 4, 2024
Red Gadiantons; What the Prophets Have Taught About Communist Secret Combinations that Threaten Mankind is a Book by Zack Strong detailing secret combinations and conspiracy from a spiritual perspective.. Worth the read.
Holly DudleyNovember 4, 2024
Could you tell me your reference source listing the items contained in the box that Joseph opened. I can find nothing in Joseph Smith History, the accounts of the Three & the eight witnesses stating the angel showed them these items nor in Moroni’s account in Mormon 8 that gives this list. Also, could you reference the source for David Whitmer’s remarks that you quoted. If all these items were in the box did Joseph only take the plates out? Do we know what happened to the other items? This is something I have been curious about for a long time, but have never been able to find an answer. . Thank you for the time you put into these podcasts, I really enjoy them.
Jean CallisterNovember 4, 2024
Thank you for this timely article. I would like to plaster the walls of my home with it! I am silly enough to like plays on words. Here is a little story to illustrate: A man named Anger married a lady named Rage. When their first child was born, they wondered what to name it. They decided to use a combination of letters from both names and called it Danger. Don't mess with this family!
Robert StarlingNovember 4, 2024
Thank you, Maurine, for your kind and gentle voice of sanity in insane times. Jesus asked all of us who love him to "come follow me". When he was lifted up on the cross by those who expressed their feelings in the ultimate "cancellation" of his teachings and his example, he said, "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do". If we are to truly be His followers, we too must forgive those who have different views, even when we believe they "know not what they do".
David C Hobson, DDSNovember 4, 2024
So sad to have to hold your nose to vote!
BIHNovember 4, 2024
I think the writer would have been wise to stick with President Lincoln as a president who is universally admired in our modern age. Despite what some people like to think, we members of the church were baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and not into the Republican party. President Reagan was not particularly one whom I admired although I voted for him the first time.
Lynn DNovember 4, 2024
Thank you!! I wish everyone could read this and feel the same as we do!! May Heavenly Father Bless You and all of America!! One Concerned Gramma
Kathy McFarlansNovember 4, 2024
Amen, amen, amen!
DumaNovember 4, 2024
I appreciate articles like this, and have made note of it in case I need to refer back to it. I appreciate the careful research and neatly-outlined arguments. I also appreciate that it demonstrates the futility of trying to convince the world on its own terms of truths in which it is uninterested. The pattern is: 1) identify an evidence-based claim against the Book of Mormon made by its enemies, 2) research said claim, 3) present evidence and arguments against the claim, 4) receive indifferent response from claimants, 5) rinse and repeat. It always boils back down to the original formula for knowing whether the Book is true: reading and asking God for a personal witness. I'm glad that such apologetics exist, but that we don't have to rely upon them for a personal testimony.
Rochelle HaleNovember 4, 2024
I never questioned why there are Almas in the Book of Mormon, nor the possible gender identity (as I have read in other articles). In our day many names may be used for men or women. This time around in our Book of Mormon study, it has been helpful for me to keep track of all of the record-keepers, many of whom are related
DumaNovember 3, 2024
Maria - The content within the letter has already been proven false through multiple rebuttals. In addition, my brother has read all 138 pages and the rebuttals as well. It was an arduous process, but after it all, he can state with confidence that the arguments found in the letter are flimsy, shallow, and recycled, and that anyone who really does their homework can reach solid answers about the questions contained therein. The angle of this article was to show that since we, as readers, assume legitimacy based upon perceived sincerity, exposing the insincerity removes the last, possible leg upon which the CES letter had to stand.
Sophia McLaughlinNovember 3, 2024
This article argues that what constitutes a "human right" is in some cases up for debate and lists some examples like abortion and euthanasia. However in the same list of debated rights is listed "women's rights", which I find very troubling. What does this even mean? Are "women's rights" not equivalent to human rights?
Corey D.November 3, 2024
Replying to the first comment, I'm pretty sure I know who you are referring to and that is somewhat understandable considering the individual's personality, which is awful, but if you are basing threats to the country and constitution based on a terrible personality you are not understanding what are truly the greatest threats to the constitution as our founding fathers intended it to be used or read. Referencing the article, less than a couple of hours ago I watched an interesting video, it's the Commencement Address at Hillsdale College, it was given by Pat Sajak, probably one of the most well known TV personalities in the country if not the world, did he talk about what it's like to be famous or rich or anything like that, nope, he talked about civility and the great need for more of it in society right now, great address.
Jeanette Goates SmithNovember 3, 2024
There are so many ways you could have shared this concept. I thought It was very clever to use an “It was the best of times. it was the worst of times,” approach. Thanks for the inspiration .
Corey D.November 2, 2024
Wow, 17 yrs old, hope he wants to run for office, might be the answer to my daily prayer and plea that more decent, moral, honest and humble people will be inspired to run for office. What an intelligent well written article.
SimplicioNovember 1, 2024
Time and again the Book of Mormon warns us of ambitious men and political leaders who "stir up unto anger" their people for the purpose of gaining power and influence, often resulting in conflict, even war. (Alma 48:3;51:9;63:14.) Lamanite kings are not the only ones who employ such tactics. There is no virtue in knee-jerk politics. "It is the wicked that stir up the hearts of the children of men unto [riot or] bloodshed." -Mormon 4:5 Don't vote Lamanite!
Dave HallNovember 1, 2024
Excellent article. Wise advice. Though I would add a couple of points about this longing for "a nostalgic time when Americans chose from people that were truly admired—like Lincoln, or perhaps Reagan." First, during his time, Lincoln was widely vilified--Reagan more so during his. Remember, Lincoln was assassinated by a man who considered him evil. Reagan was the victim of an assassination attempt. But, now dead, they are widely admired, analogous to the ancient Jewish admiration of the dead prophets. Second, today, our view of candidates and public officials is obscured by a media that has become less and less trusted and has become less dedicated to reporting the news to us and, in most cases, obsessed with skewing their reporting to promote their own political agenda. Many sources apparently have no qualms about even lying to portray the world as they wish us to see it. This new philosophy of advocacy journalism is actually openly taught in most journalism schools. It takes some work and some wisdom to ferret out sources we can count on to accurately report what is actually going on. This strongly colors the views of many about the character of political figures.
GTONovember 1, 2024
My husband and I have been married nearly 57 years, and this was our story for many years of our marriage. Really, he didn't get control and start making good decisions until he was around 70. I know that sounds frightening, but here's some unsolicited advice. You can still have fun as a family even under financial stress and in rented homes and moving often. We had a blast with our six kids in spite of it all. Second, finances are worse if there's a divorce--you still have to work together on money but your expenses are higher and the stress is greater. If you have to start working or add to your current work schedule, the kids essentially lose both parents. It's really worth it to stick it out and find a way. We are elderly now but financially secure with our loving family intact.
KathleenNovember 1, 2024
Wise for your years.
Mary Ann JohnsonOctober 31, 2024
Wow. So well said. Now if I could just figure out how to sort out what each did in their term. LOL
ShannaOctober 31, 2024
Excellent article. Thank you for your wise words.
ScottHOctober 31, 2024
Surprisingly mature for the thoughts of a 17-year-old. Yet I disagree with the proposition that votes for a third-party candidate do nothing more than support the winning candidate. These votes still signify diminished trust in the mainstream party candidates, letting parties know that they need to do a better job of surfacing and promoting quality candidates. I am also not persuaded that selling one's soul on the altar of political power simply to be said to have voted for a candidate with a higher likelihood of winning is worth the bargain.
CJOctober 31, 2024
Well said!! Thank You
MaggieOctober 31, 2024
Thank you for your insights as a young person. It's interesting you can't vote yet I think we have a few other helps when picking and vetting a candidate. We need to do our due diligent. We can study it out then pray about it. We need to remember that Satan calls evil different names to make them look more enticing and acceptable. We need to call them what they are. Remember in the Book of Mormon the Lord used "unrighteous" men to make things happen. Omni I agree. We don't know people's hearts. Please choose wisely because the future of our nation and our lives depend on it. Use your right to vote. It will make a difference.
Terry DickensOctober 31, 2024
This is an important article. Candidates are typically flawed. If you're concerned about selecting the best or the worst, consider what their positions are on issues that are important to you: Controlling the border, inflation and the cost of living, killing unborn babies, religious freedom, and so many others. The choice becomes clearer if we ask these types of questions.
Robert StarlingOctober 31, 2024
"Out of the mouths of babes ....." It's amazing that a 17 year-old can have such wisdom, and can express it so eloquently. I agree wholeheartedly. In essence, we should ignore the mean tweets, the extreme accusations, the name-calling, and the personalities of the candidates. Those qualities (or lack thereof) will not be what governs our nation for the next four years and beyond. It is the POLICIES and the VALUES of two opposing philosophies that we are choosing with our vote, just as we did in the War in Heaven. Forget the candidates. Look at the bigger picture. Look at the RECORDS and the VALUES of the Donkey plan for mankind vs the Elephant plan, and vote accordingly.
Jan KuesterOctober 31, 2024
What a brilliant and greatly needed explanation of how to choose a candidate to support and vote for. I have struggled mightily for many years, feeling as though I had to choose between the devil or the deep blue sea when voting and yes, having done my civic duty, feeling guilty having made that choice. THANK YOU!!
L KinderOctober 31, 2024
Republican Democracy IS a messy process, but the good news is that the longest we have to put up with the new team is 4 to 8 years. Then we have another "bloodless revolution" with a new election. As I read the scriptures, politics has always been messy, whether it's judges or kings. I'm just grateful that we AREN'T voting for Head of the Church. We're JUST voting for President. Eventually the donkeys and the elephants will yield to the Lamb, and there will be peace on earth for a thousand years. None of this is a surprise to God. In the meantime, s/he who keeps his/her peace wins.
Phil SnowOctober 31, 2024
This is an admirable essay from a young man. But we need to remember that while Lincoln is universally admired now, he was hated by perhaps half of the country in 1860, so we should look at that election from the viewpoint of that day and age, not from our present perspective. Also, no potential President will be "perfect." They all have flaws. So we need to decide based on their policy positions, such as abortion, border security, economy, foreign relations, use of our vast energy resources, etc. Looking at the current election from that perspective makes the decision easy in my opinion.
erikpeterhansenOctober 31, 2024
Well don't both sides have policies we don't agree with and policies we do agree with? It's not just all or none, black and white. This makes it even harder to go with either. What can we do? The Spirit says to me pick the candidate that has parts of an agenda that stick out to you as most important. I don't see either agenda as pure and right. What a problem! I love our country but our country's system could be improved.
CJOctober 31, 2024
We’ll said!! Thank you!
Ken MathiasOctober 31, 2024
This man is going far in this life! I can't recall reading anything this well written and I never could have written something this well versed. Well done.
ClaireOctober 31, 2024
In years past those admired men and women did not have personal lives exposed as they are now, would I have voted fir JFK had his immoral weaknesses been widely known? Thank you Senator Lee for your comments about political leaders do not look like our Christian leaders. Even those are not perfect. None of us are…..
Angie KivettOctober 31, 2024
Wow! Very insightful, wise and classy article. Great thoughts and advice. Thanks Stephen!
Ann De FrancisOctober 31, 2024
I was truly surprised to learn that this well thought out and beautifully written piece was composed by a 17-year-old from my own state of Arizona. Well done! Much here that’s worth pondering with open minds and hearts as we head to the ballot box.
Myrna T AndersonOctober 31, 2024
Well written, Young One!
CynthiaOctober 30, 2024
What a marvelous metaphor for our working together! Thank you, Becky, for this inspiring article! It is wonderful to know that we can sponsor a child for as little as $30 a month. What a difference that makes! Thank you for sharing the story about Meena. I will pray that she and her siblings will be blessed with sponsors.
LewisOctober 30, 2024
what a wonderful analogy. We can think of our lives as being built on the human pyramids that have gone before us, and can be part of that pyramid that lifts another. Your insights are inspiring, and your gift of telling stories is amazing. Thank you for letting us be a part of your incredible work.
MaggieOctober 30, 2024
Does this info apply to someone who support DEMOCRACY vs. someone who supports a fascist regime????? My ancestors signed the Declaration and the Constitution. I am a descendant of George Washington. How can i support someone who wants to destroy our country and the Constitution????
Wally GoddardOctober 30, 2024
Wonderfully insightful, Loren! Thank you.
Steve DoneganOctober 29, 2024
I used to send postcards to speakers in our sacrament meetings. They would thank the speaker for their topic, then something they’d said would be mentioned. It would end with encouragement to keep speaking out from their heart. I now sit in the foyer due to my Eternal Companion’s illness and can’t hear the speakers well enough to write a card. I miss it…
Jesse BrownOctober 28, 2024
I was serving in the Northeast British mission when President Hanks arrived in London. It was like a breath of fresh air went across all of the British Isles. Teaching and converting became more important than just numbers of baptisms. President Hanks was from Federal Heights Ward as were the mission presidents in Paris and New York City at the same time.
Barbara WalkerOctober 28, 2024
If we can remember to speak truth respectfully and back it up with words from Jesus or the prophets, then it is up to the listener to receive it and embrace it or to reject it. I would rather speak truth than to remain silent and have to answer to the Lord at some future point for my cowardice. "I am not ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ."
J. Y.October 28, 2024
Thank you
Joseph C. SaulqueOctober 28, 2024
This part of the Book of Mormon needs to be applied to today. Is this what is going to happen to the USA based on non-repenters.
Charles McClellandOctober 28, 2024
Thank you for this very timely and needed article. I will read it a couple more times between now and election day!
Darlene HutchisonOctober 28, 2024
Duff was Seminary Teacher at West High, and he loved his students just as much as his missionaries. He even arranged the ride for one student who lived away from a bus. When he asked why she stopped coming to Seminary, she told him of her problem, and he personally solved it!
HelenCOctober 28, 2024
I knew some of his missionaries! A a child in England my mother, Sister Boffey, fed them regularly in our home. We left for Australia in 1963 but I have find memories of HER “boys”.
Phillip C SmithOctober 28, 2024
Marion D Hanks is one of he greatest people I have ever known. He agreed to perform my marriage to Ruth Ann Hafen but was unable to do so, since I believe that the General authorities then were asked to perform marriages only in the Salt Lake Temple and we were married in another temple.
Rochelle HaleOctober 28, 2024
These two wonderful brothers have influenced my life. As a convert of a few years, I sailed to Catalina Island with Elder Hanks who was coming to speak at our young adult conference. I believe he was the first General Authority I had met, or at least in person. Not only did he inspire us during the meetings, but we sat near him on the boat and listened to his counsel and stories. He was so personable, friendly, and a man who felt the Spirit of the Lord. My husband served with Elder Holland while attending grad school in Washington, and they kept up a periodic communication. One summer we were going to be in Salt Lake City. My husband called for an appointment with "Jeff," but we learned he was out of the country. Just a few weeks later we were in SLC again, and we took a chance of just stopping by the church office building. Of course, security and secretaries scrutinized us, but Elder Holland recognized my husband's voice and invited us into his office for a short visit. We talked about our current church callings, family, etc. As we concluded our time together, Elder Holland gave me a warm hug. My husband said I "floated" out of the building after being hugged by an apostle of the Lord.
SusanOctober 28, 2024
Thank you Nicholeen I have read many of your columns and appreciated them very much. Thank you for the valuable perspective. This election has been very contentious and troubling, and my husband and I have expressed our thoughts to each other pretty well, even though we surprisingly did not agree. We’re at the point now where we just avoid talking about our choices and wish for it to be over and for someone to clearly win.
MaryannOctober 26, 2024
Thank you so much. There is a big difference between pitching a certain candidate at church, and withholding the truths in The Proclamation On The Family. We do NOT need to walk on eggshells when we teach the gospel, as taught by our Prophets and Apostles. We do not bury the truth because we are afraid someone may get their feelings hurt. We can state the truth courageously and fearlessly. Fortunately, I haven't heard people make the kinds of statements mentioned in this article about "not being able to talk about" important truths. When we hear these comments, we need to speak up politely and remind others that we don't worship "feelings," like so much of the world does. We proclaim truth.
Gary LawrenceOctober 26, 2024
Excellent article -- good job as always, Merrilee. Truths will never conflict; man's designs and argued connections to supposed truths will. Pointing out differences need not spawn political contention. As we defend gospel principles, there is no persuasion without contrast.
David DahlOctober 25, 2024
Consider this example: Alexei Navalny was the foremost opposition leader in Russia, which, of course, made him a political prisoner. He died—was finished off—on February 16, 2024. He was 47. His last prison was one of the harshest in Russia, up in the Arctic Circle, known as “Polar Wolf.” In various prisons, Navalny managed to keep diaries, which his wife edited into a book that has now been published. In one passage, Navalny speaks of Russia’s rulers and how to combat them: “We must do what they fear—tell the truth, spread the truth. This is the most powerful weapon against this regime of liars, thieves, and hypocrites. Everyone has this weapon. So make use of it.”
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for sharing another inspiring story about Madi! Your willingness to open up about heart wrenching events in your life is remarkable. We all learn from you and are inspired by your faithfulness, whatever the circumstances. So grateful to hear that Tori is well and that Madi was an inspiration to her.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
God's tender mercies are everywhere!! Thank you for sharing this beautiful story of how you blessed the lives of Ukranian refugees and they blessed you in return. You and your family are such amazing examples of Christlike service!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
I love this story! Thank you for the reminder of the power of fasting and prayer! Thank you, thank you.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for the profound truths you taught in this article! We are not alone in our pain and we can feel so much joy from losing ourselves in the service of others. Thank you for this reminder!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What an inspired mission leader!! Thank you for sharing this story of Elder Jones and how service changed his mission and his life. Thank you for the message of how service can change OUR lives! Bless you for your consecrated service.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What a beautiful sentiment to start the year! Thank you for sharing that powerful scripture, the last sermon that the Savior taught in mortality. You inspire me to better know God through serving my fellowmen!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What a beautiful, personal story you have written! Thank you for the insights into your early family life. It sounds like you and John have a remarkable relationship and are equally yoked in goodness. Bless you for following the spirit and creating this lasting legacy of love and service!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What a heartfelt example of a true leader. I am inspired by your article to be more intentional in my service and have eyes to see. Thank you for sharing this wonderful example!!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for that powerful analogy! Your research for this article was impressive and impactful. Thank you for the timely reminder to evaluate how we spend our time and with whom!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for making us aware of the opportunities to sponsor a child and bring hope to the children of the leprosy affected in Bihar! How wonderful that Meridian readers helped build the school and are now filling it. What a great work!!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
It's such a small thing to sponsor a child but it has such a profound effect on their lives! I am so grateful for the opportunity to be a Rising Star sponsor. Thank you, Becky, for bringing this joy into my life and for serving the neediest here on earth.
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
I was brought to tears reading this experience! I am so grateful that volunteers can go to India again and that hearts are touched by what they see and feel there. I cried as I read the words, "Where dead men walk, and where the dying talk of life before the curse upon them came." Surely, the Savior would walk among the leprosy affected and what a great example you are, Becky, for walking in the Savior's footsteps!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
Lakshmi's story is heart rending! Yet, at the same time I am given hope in humanity for the remarkable generosity of the Meridian Magazine readers! Wow! What a blessing all of you are to the community of leprosy affected in the Bihar region. I am so proud to be a Meridian reader!
CynthiaOctober 25, 2024
What an incredible work you are doing there in Bihar! I love the persistence of Suku to help Satya in absolutely every way possible! Thank you for providing this opportunity for us to join with you in this Christlike service.
Patricia WintersOctober 25, 2024
Scot: "As we see this great destruction it feels like it hurts me personally. I have come to know these Nephites well and it makes me so sad to know they are decimated." Scot, decimated means to be reduced by one-tenth. 230,000 warriors were cut down to 24 individuals - that's a lot more destruction than one-tenth!
CamiOctober 25, 2024
Thank you for encouraging us to be brave and stand up for truth. It's time to fill the void with testimony of Christ's gospel and live His principles. It's been a lonely road going against the grain when speaking up when I've felt compelled over the last few years. I sure hope this wakes people up so they can have ears to hear. I just hope it's not too late and others are not past feeling from denying promptings to speak up when they were instead lulled by carnal security or flattery.
Lynette DyasOctober 24, 2024
then someone please explain why everything that we, as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, believe in, live by, sustain and support, seems to go by the wayside in support of a Presidential candidate who is a modern day King Noah and the opposite of everything the church represents. And there are members who voice their support for this presidential candidate on Sunday's, in Sacrament Meetings and auxiliary meetings. Where's the line drawn in "That's political, we can't talk about it"?
KīraOctober 24, 2024
Yes, right on!
TashaOctober 24, 2024
Yes! It's okay talk about doctrine even if it is a "hot button" topic
Dave MyersOctober 24, 2024
Here's the problem as I see it: 1) Gospel learning is "home centered and Church supported" so not everything needs to be discussed in Sunday School. The most important thing is for students to feel the Spirit, feel loved, learn about Jesus and His teachings and want to come back again next week. 2) Your article represents your and your organization's position, and may or may not be the Church's. You're not in a position to speak for the Church. Yes, the Proclamation is doctrine - it's what we believe and practice, but Pres. Oaks has taught a hundred times with respect to civil law: "We should not seek to impose our view on others. We seek 'principled accommodation' where nobody gets everything they want, but everyone gets something they can live with." Our civil laws are not the same as the Lord's commandments, and must accommodate others not of our faith. Can we accept that? Can we differentiate? If not, then maybe Sunday School isn't the right place for that discussion.
Kim HeadleyOctober 24, 2024
Excellent article!
Julie MaternOctober 24, 2024
Amen.
Lisa ReisingOctober 24, 2024
Amen and Amen! I love the distinction you made between what is truly political partisanship (party and candidate support) and what has become “political” but is in fact important doctrinal beliefs in the Church. I too have been astounded at how reticent our members have become to discuss the doctrine IN church that comes from the Proclamation on the Family and other prophetic teachings. Yes, it can be thorny, but the burden on discussion leaders is to be very solid in directing focus back to grounding principles. We must be fearless. Thank you for speaking out about this.
Rob MoyorOctober 24, 2024
Well said! Thank you.
BarbaraOctober 24, 2024
"about how she was upset that abortion would not be banned on a federal level". how is this against church teachings? wanting to ban abortion is against church teachings?
bob taylorOctober 23, 2024
Good article - i understand the authors point - or at least think i understand it. Some of the authors thoughts on how to approach this sort of discussion in Sunday class - Elders Quorum or Relief Society would have been helpful for me - regardless, the discussion is going to demand a lot of both the class teacher and the class members to keep it from going sidewise. I cannot recall the last time that The Family Proclamation was discussed in either my Sunday School class or Elders Quorum.
Corey D.October 23, 2024
Some years ago our ward boundary took in half of a large mobile home park and unfortunately the kids that lived there went to different schools than most of the kids in the ward. I family moved in and they had a number of teenagers, unfortunately they were not welcomed very well. The youngest daughter in this family got called into one of the young women class presidency's, very nice girl, somewhat shy. The subject of youth council one Sunday was how can we be more inviting, more friendly, more accepting (there had been an incident where one of the youth in the ward had used the phrase trailer trash with one of the children in this family), to this day I will never forget the quiet, simple comment this girl made, she said, "just saying hello can mean a lot to a teenager".
Susan StoddardOctober 23, 2024
Thank you. The Lord does answer prayers. I have been having guilty feelings for a few days about how inadequate I feel in my calling as a Relief Society counselor. I have a hard time getting outside myself and extending myself to others. I was just praying this morning expressing my guilty feelings to the Lord and asking for His help. Then I opened your article in Meridian Magazine. What an answer to my prayer. Thank you again.
CamiOctober 23, 2024
One of the best articles I have read recently about being more compassionate and Christlike! Thank you!
AnonymousOctober 23, 2024
Brother Howard, I love your stories, they are sometimes humorous, sometimes insightful, sometimes inspiring, sometimes touching, sometimes they are what cheers me up and restores hope, this just became one of my favorites, I was deeply touched, basically you just described me, except this father probably didn't yell which I unfortunately and regrettably did but I always tried to remember to apologize.
Corey D.October 23, 2024
Another great article. Many years ago when my oldest children were on the verge of becoming teenagers I started to get a little worried, having grown up in the 60's and 70' with all the societal change much of which was opposite of church teachings and standards I remembered all the arguments with parents and others over music, dress, etc., and wanted to try to avoid it. At the time I had a co-worker who I had also been to school with, good faithful member of the church, returned missionary and also native american, he had children basically same age as mine, I thought I'll ask him how he's gonna handle teaching them church standards, especially dress and grooming because he had not only the social pressure to deal with but cultural as well. One day I said to him how did you deal with that when you were young and how you going to deal with it with your kids, I expected this very intellectual, logical rationale, he thought for a moment and then said, "is the church true" ? I replied "well yes it's true", he then replied " then nothing else matters". I was like what, that's it, how is that helpful ! But later as I thought about it and over the years as things have come up, I think about his answer and how simple it was but simply profound.
Corey D.October 23, 2024
Another great, insightful article. Not quite two years ago we got called to be primary teachers, our ward is getting older and the primary is getting smaller so we had 3 age groups, 5, 6 and 7 yr olds, my wife has been in primary before but I hadn't been in Primary for like 40 yrs and that was a short stint in the nursery, I was totally out of place and then in January of this year they switch us to the sunbeams which in my mind was even worse and to complicate matters the kids were totally fixated on their old teacher, took almost 1/2 yr to get them use to us. This may seem funny or hard to believe for some but this has been one of the most challenging, difficult callings I have ever hard. I will readily admit my wife has somewhat different feelings about it but it's been challenging for me.
Richard V JukesOctober 22, 2024
Thank you, Scot, for these beautiful pictures and comments. We loved visiting that area with our children and it's always a special memory.
MichelleOctober 22, 2024
This is an excellent article! Makes me think about the YW recently being asked to be door greeters before sacrament meeting each Sunday. It's important for ward members and visitors to feel seen and welcomed each week. On the flip side, it's so important for ward members to make the YW feel at ease as they attempt to greet people each week--the YW in our ward are very uncomfortable being greeters and stepping out of their comfort zones. Ward members that initiate a handshake or conversation at the door means so much to these girls and takes some of the pressure off.
KA MillerOctober 22, 2024
I really appreciated the suggested actions in this article, and I plan to incorporate them, and to share them with others.
Paul RobertsOctober 22, 2024
You missed the most common secret combination: Immorality, A two person conspiracy all the way up to a Exodus size orgy are based on keeping the behavior secret. Many of the listing of the crimes of various secret combinations list "more easily commit whoredoms and adultery".
KathleenOctober 22, 2024
Out of small things proceedeth that which is great. Never suppress an opportunity to love, encourage or serve kindness. Thank you for some helpful reminders. We can all improve.
LauraOctober 21, 2024
Good advice. The time to weigh in on your child's dating choices is while the child is young and at home. The parents' job is to be surrportive and offer advice when asked. My husband and I married at age 50 (second marriage for him), yet his parents did everything they could to discourage him from pursuing our relationship, despite being told that he had received strong confirmation first that he should date me and then that he should marry me. The last few months before our wedding, they called him almost every day to complain about me and tell me he shouldn't marry me. Needless to say, I want nothing to do with them. We invited them to the wedding, but that was the last interaction I will have with them. There are repercussions for needless interference.
AnnaOctober 21, 2024
Beautifully written Thank you for a timely article
PamOctober 21, 2024
A few years ago we attended a BYU football game at Notre Dame. Their fans were friendly and welcoming. Their band played the Cougar fight song at the beginning of the game. Perhaps BYU learned this from Notre Dame, another class act.
Jenny SvendsenOctober 21, 2024
Thank you so much for this eye opening article, we have such wonderful loving members in our Branch of about 30 attending members, and everyone seems to make sure we are all made welcome and loved
JuliannOctober 21, 2024
Thank you for your compassionate insights. Very motivating.
JuliannOctober 21, 2024
Thank you so much for an excellent article. I struggle to attend a ward I’ve belonged to for 40 years. Your recognition of the whys and your encouragement to be the light in someone else’s darkness has given me renewed determination to keep trying. I just sent a thank you to last week’s RS teacher commending her for how she welcomed and appreciated comments during her lesson.
JohnOctober 21, 2024
I love the idea of giving someone responsibility in an area where that person has been lacking skills such as the boy on the bus. So inspiring!
MaryKaren SolomonOctober 21, 2024
these are beautiful points. If only we could all follow them, each in our own way, our sacrament meetings would become a festival of joy.
JohnsonOctober 21, 2024
How can we stop being hypocrites? being a church leader yet bullying a member? Unbelievable !
JohnsonOctober 21, 2024
How can I get out of my ward when it's the local ecclesiastical leaders who have bullied me? They denied my request to get records removed to another ward.
JohnsonOctober 21, 2024
Amen to this awesome and amazing article..... I'm bullied in my ward and want out but the church has insisted on me staying.... facing my bully each week. It's extremely difficult to feel the Spirit.
Shara OgilvieOctober 20, 2024
I just want to thank you for your wonderful podcast. I find more value in how you two present your CFM insights than from other podcasts because of your frank, honest, manner that you present gospel truths. Also, I appreciate that your episodes are tightly written, showing respect to the time of the listener. I always find insights that enhanse my study. Thank you for your efforts!
Corey D.October 20, 2024
This must be their oldest child or maybe their only child, I learned long ago you can't pick who your children are going to date or marry and especially after they get out of high school, while they are younger you might have some influence either discouraging or encouraging them in their dating but once they are older forget about it. I have seen some parents, usually the mother who have been heavy handed with their kids in regards to who their children wanted to marry or had chosen to date and it almost always had disastrous results.
Corey D.October 20, 2024
Wonderful story. Brings back a lot of teenage memories from the 70's playing church sports, most good, some bad, it was a big deal back then hardly any athletics done now. I had a youth leader who was an excellent athlete and outdoorsman, Richard "Dick" White, from what I have been told he holds the record for most consecutive free throws made at the all church tournament. But this story also reminds me of being told about a brother in the stake I grew up in who was a star player on the varsity high school team who quit the high school team to play for the ward team because they didn't have 5 players, don't think you would see that in this day and age or like Elder Hanks, quit the college team to play ward ball.
Juan BecerraOctober 19, 2024
I disagree with the premise if your article. For some of us who immigrated from another country (legally) working hard is a way of life. My parents worked hard to educate us and set and example of hard work by building a business and successfully raising a family and teaching us that hard work leads to success. Your theory and conclusion that being a workaholic labels one as deficient is insulting. Perhaps what this world needs are more workers instead of Gen Z laziness who can’t hold a job and be depended on in employment.
bob taylorOctober 19, 2024
a good article with an excellent observation - i don't have a ready answer for you - perhaps the author will do a follow up article on how to work thru your/my question.
Brad LarsenOctober 18, 2024
Excellent follow-on article on the neglected Book of Mormon secret combination topic. Very illuminating, pun not intended.
LRAOctober 18, 2024
Please provide a link to Part 1. Thanks
Susan RatherOctober 18, 2024
Excellent, insightful article. Thank you. Looking forward to the next parts.
Cody HOctober 18, 2024
Mom: looks like we need to talk about the storage part of food storage. I loved this one, thanks!
AOctober 17, 2024
We love seeing these amazing stories!
Dennis H CobiaOctober 17, 2024
This article brought back wonderful memories as I coached and played on the final team to win the College Division of the "All Church Basketball Tournament" in 1971. It was sad to see the Tournament end, but was truly a wonderful story to tell my family and be proud of being a part of history. P.S I scored the last two points in a double overtime game to win the game.
Corey D.October 17, 2024
The church has been in the news a lot the last few years due to some high profile lawsuits or allegations, complaints, etc., regarding it's investments, particularly in the commercial area, my son was a city engineer for one of Utah's fastest growing cities, he worked with church employees regarding property and construction on a regular basis, one day he and one of the church employees for the church's real estate arm were talking about it and the church employee made the comment "we believe that the Lord expects us to take care of the financial resources of his church in a wise manner and investing in or purchasing real estate is part of being wise with those resources", I personally have no problem with that and most people I am acquainted with don't either. A lot of folks say it should be given to help the poor but to me it puts the church in a position to help even more than they already do and I kind of compare it to the parable of the talents, you can sit on the money and protect it, which means you don't lose any but you can also put it to work and increase it thus giving you even more options.
Susan MorrisOctober 17, 2024
Elder Hanks was the supervisor of young Temple Square guides when my father (b.1932) served there while attending the University of Utah "back in the day." "Duff" Hanks made a lasting impression on my dad's life and testimony. My dad introduced me (as an elementary-aged child) to Elder Hanks when he presided at one of our stake conferences in Las Vegas, Nevada. The brotherly love they felt for each other was palpable, and it made me love Elder Hanks too.
JuliannOctober 17, 2024
Hiding in Plain Sight, second edition, by Ken Bowers is a must read to understand the secret combinations that do exist in the world today. We must awake to a sense of our awful situation so that we do not support or become part of these combinations. I would prefer to be too concerned, aka conspiracy therorist, than part of the apathetic, and complacent. Thank you for your efforts to inform. Please don’t placate or be naive.
LewisOctober 17, 2024
Saving Satya - and the many others like her - is really the Lord’s work, and I am so grateful that you have provided a way for us to be a part of it. You are freeing her from a life of oppression and bondage, a similitude of the Savior’s mission. I pray for her physical recovery, just as I pray that she and many others can take advantage of the wonderful opportunity you offer. May God bless you and this incredible work.
James Stuart BrownOctober 17, 2024
I loved playing in those tournaments and played some really great teams, some with "ringers." We might have had some ourselves, but I will never admit that. I think the lop-sided victory was also a testament to living the Word of Wisdom. One team had to play with a horrendous hang-over, which they deserved. The Word of Wisdom has always given me advantages in life.
lane vanceOctober 17, 2024
my wife Sandi and I toured Israel with a church group in the early 1990's - direct El Al flight from Seattle to Telaviv - maiden voyage. emeritus Elder Marion D Hanks was a guide on our bus for 10 days. I always liked Elder Hanks and his talks. He was the classic tireless warrior serving the Lord. what a treat being with the Hanks in the Holy Land. and I loved these church ball story insights! thanks! lane vance
BoB AckleyOctober 17, 2024
Great story. Thank you.
Ricki GibbonsOctober 16, 2024
Very interesting article. Thank you.
Ronald BarnesOctober 16, 2024
I have often read and heard about how we should forgive others. Forgiving others for small things is not that difficult. However, more severe injuries, such as malicious betrayal, create pains that are very deep and don’t heal well. What I never remember ever reading or hearing is how to forgive. Sometimes, even though you want to, you just can’t figure out how. I think this is an issue that needs to be addressed.
Judy PerrOctober 15, 2024
I have never liked Halloween!!! It is a very messy season with gluttony of candy and junk food. Raising our children we would go to a restaurant once a year instead. Places were never crowded. I believe it really never was created to have peace. Sensitive children need to be respected of THESE feelings around Halloween and made to feel safe. There is way too much darkness in the world without Halloween, a billion dollar industry.
ChrisOctober 15, 2024
Isn't it possible that many of the secret combinations of our day have little to do with government, but are designed to enslave us (flaxen cords and chains) for huge profits? The tobacco companies. Meta. Algorithms designed specifically to be addictive. Pornhub. Very large and secretive company headquartered in Montreal. Big pharma. And many others... All of these are intended to take.away our ability to choose...
JeffreyOctober 15, 2024
Thank you!
Kay O’MalleyOctober 15, 2024
This article is critical to discuss because when I listen to other Christian churches they are more than happy to discuss issues that the media refuse to acknowledge or distorts the truth and our church almost doesn’t want to upset the apple cart! We constantly talk about the biblical quote “we are not fighting with people but powers and principalities but yet it seems people do not know how to do this! People would rather not say and quote “oh let’s stay positive!” If we weren’t supposed to know about these things and learn to fight these things it would. It have been put into a) the canonised Bible and b) the Book of Mormon! Why do we cherry pick which parts we are active in? Other Christian churches speak of a ‘revival’ meaning for the most part learning to stand up for God! That’s why I think this subject is so important too!
Dave MyersOctober 15, 2024
It seems to me the struggle isn't really 'freedom vs. tyranny' as you suggest. It's anarchy vs. tyranny, with 'freedom' floating somewhere in-between. Freedom must include being protected from the uncontrolled oppressive acts of other people (or businesses, organizations, religions, etc.) as well as uncontrolled oppressive government. That comes from exposure to daylight (public debate) and 'opposition in all things' (or 'prove all things'), without which either side can become corrupt and oppressive (thinking they are the only source of wisdom and honor).
Stephen NaylorOctober 15, 2024
Excellent! Thank you for this article. I look forward to reading the upcoming parts. I appreciate the call to have hope.
Pam BiggerOctober 15, 2024
I have often wondered why the warnings in the Book of Mormon concerning “secret combinations” in our days have not been discussed more…since first reading the Book some 34 years ago I have had no doubt about the reality of these secret combinations in our modern times…i know the Book of Mormon is the word of God and is on the earth for our benefit… we should never disregard the warnings contained therein… thank you very much for being willing to write this article and future ones on this subject which has been ignored i think for way too long…
Gayla CandiaOctober 15, 2024
Thank you!! I couldn’t even wait to finish reading the outstanding article before sending it to family and friends!! I am looking forward to reading the next installments of glorious, clear and in-depth information!! This clarity is so needed in our world today!!
Linda K. SpoonerOctober 14, 2024
When I lived in Israel 1988 to 1990 I learned that the media never tells the truth if they want you to believe badly about something. I was visiting my Aunt in Fla. and on NBC news a woman lied about standing on Desengof St. in Tel Aviv. I found out later from an CIA agent that she was actually standing over 2 hours away at the border of Israel and Jordan. She was telling Americans that a bomb went off there in Tel Aviv. It had not. It happened in Holon. Misinformation is everywhere in the media to persuade people that something is bad when it is not. I refuse to watch the news now because of this proof.
Dave BarkerOctober 14, 2024
What would be the most reasonable and appropriate next step to correct this issue? Does the Church have any plans to request a correction or retraction? Is it worth the effort?
Cindy WoodOctober 14, 2024
This was an incredibly well done film. I would see it again. The feeling at the end of the film was such a testimony to the truthfulness of the gospel of Jesus Christ and courageous early saints. Such a sweet peace filled the theatre like no other movie you could see currently!
ShannonOctober 14, 2024
And the reality is, the media is more interested in making money, and more sensational stories accomplish that far better. Providing objective news coverage does not seem to be the goal anymore. I am not sure it ever truly was, but definitely moreso than it is today. I am grateful to have this objectively written piece to better understand what is actually going on with this process and admit that I generally avoid regular media for the reasons I already noted.
Paula LoeOctober 14, 2024
You should send this into the AP with only the facts that she omitted and you checked so they can correct the article with that evidence. Also send it in as an letter to the editor. That is the only way she might not get assigned next time. Although in these times they are becoming more like the national enquirer, so they might not. However, if they hold themselves to the higher standard, they need to act like it.
Donna ThigpenOctober 13, 2024
Loved the story. I worked the crisis line some but my computer crashed fairly frequently. They even let you know if someone who contacted you was assisted. Also appreciate the listings and information at the end of the story. Great info. Thanks for your writing and all it has taught me and the inspiration it has given.
CynthiaOctober 11, 2024
Thank you for bringing Katsuri's situation to light! It is such a blessing to be able to sponsor a child and feel like we are lifting a child out of poverty. Thank you for your remarkable foundation and all the good you do!
CynthiaOctober 11, 2024
This touched my heart to the very core! Thank you for the incredible work you do! What a great opportunity we have as Meridian readers to help sponsor these beloved children of God so that they can have food, shelter, and an education.
Dick NantoOctober 11, 2024
Very informative article, except the "quote" about FEMA money being used for illegal immigrants. That is a false claim and a distortion of what the Secretary said. From a fact check by NBC News, "There is no evidence that disaster relief funds were used on immigrants in the U.S. illegally. FEMA disaster money comes from dedicated funds that cannot be used for other purposes."
Robyn GeantilOctober 11, 2024
Thank you for bringing this website to the attention of all of us. It is important to be able to inform ourselves of all the views of so many involved in this crisis. I hope readers of Meridian (I'm a reader from the first issue) will read other articles of Bari Weiss.
Corey D.October 10, 2024
Another great story. Reminds me of something I heard many years ago which I'm sure Brother Howard and any one else who came from a small town or rural area would relate to. Years ago in a small farming community in Northern Utah one of the local farmers had turkeys, they were experiencing some vandalism, nothing extreme but it was causing some problems. Said farmer went out and trapped a bobcat, they then put the bobcat into a burlap bag and tied it and left it in the middle of the road and hid back behind the sheds. About midnite they see some headlights coming slowly up the road, sure enough the car stopped by the burlap bag, car door opened and the bag was pulled into the car. Car started down the road but about 10 sec later all four doors flew open with the occupants running and yelling just as fast as they can away from the car.
BobOctober 10, 2024
Years ago, having read articles and books about cults, I happened to sit next to a woman on a four hour flight. She noticed the book I was reading about cults and we went on to have a lengthy discussion about cults and her several year experience in a real cult. She had successfully, after some effort, left the cult and returned to a normal life. When people say our church is a cult, they don’t really understand what a cult is. Cults are typically small, closed societies that keep the adherents close and controlled. Outsiders, not interested in joining, are unwelcome. Ours is large, worldwide organization that’s open and largely transparent. We welcome outsiders, even the uninterested and skeptical. The cult moniker is used out of ignorance or as a disingenuous, and lazy, means of marginalizing our faith.
Cody HoskissonOctober 10, 2024
“And one day that prophetic guidance will lead a generation to see our Messenger of Salvation descend like “lightning … out of the east,” and we will exclaim, “Jesus of Nazareth.” With arms forever outstretched and love unfeigned, He will reply, “I am he.” I so promise with the apostolic power and authority of His holy name, even Jesus Christ, amen.” - Elder Holland That was an Excellent article, thank you. Just the thing I needed to read.
JopkinsOctober 10, 2024
How sad to include such a political lie. FEMA has not run out of money because of immigrants. Please check your sources before including such diatribe. If these sources are so untruthful that there own political parties are denouncing them, what other lies are you broadcasting? Or perhaps you don't care? I hope that is not the case.
Frank E MerrillOctober 9, 2024
I've always felt a connection to Elder Hanks, as he set me apart as a missionary on this day, 9 October, in 1967. Thank you for the interesting article about his involvement in acquiring and displaying the Christus!
KristenOctober 9, 2024
Thank you dear Meridian readers for your outpouring of support! It's a joy to see the difference these sponsorships make for the students who attend the Rising Star Outreach schools!
Ralph Gallini, JDOctober 9, 2024
I tried to click on them and nothing happened.
ScottOctober 9, 2024
It's not accurate that money was drained from FEMA for use of illegal immigrants. The funding you are referring to was given to FEMA by the Department of Customs and Border Protection for the express purpose of the Shelter and Services Program as authorized by Congress. FEMA has their own funding for Disaster Relief. One thing you should address is disinformation such as this and rumors which are detrimental and can cause people not to reach out for the assistance they need.
Robin WhitworthOctober 9, 2024
Please do not spread lies about FEMA being out of money because they gave it to illegal immigrants. This is COMPLETELY NOT TRUE and by publishing that in your very relevant article you are supplying fuel to the already out of control fire. Be sure to stick to FACTS and not just hearsay. Other than that, your article was very relevant and much needed.
Jerry McIntireOctober 9, 2024
Good choice! The Christus statue does a beautiful job of focusing on the resurrection, which Christian Scientists also deeply appreciate. Yes, the tours at the Christian Science Center in Boston have never emphasized proselytizing. Any visitor who shows a genuine interest or asks of course receives answers. Paul's guidance was, "If there be first a willing mind..." (II Corinthians 8:12)
Douglas NadybalOctober 9, 2024
This all seems like really sound advice, particularly if you feel your prayers have been pointless, your testimony stagnant and / or your relationship with Diety is languishing. I am grateful to have read this.
Roger StroudOctober 8, 2024
Thank you for these key selections. There are others as we read and ponder the messages of the conference talks over the next several months. Conference talks are what the Lord would have us hear and experience as we consider what we can become. They are enduring as are we. What beautiful doctrines!
LJuneOctober 8, 2024
I appreciate your thoughtful article and have two objections. 1. Isn't it a mortal experience to be a child inside a mother's body? Babies can move on their own there, breathe amniotic fluid, hear and see and taste and feel touch, and can feel pain. If that is a mortal experience, it unravels your entire argument. 2. Consider along with the handbook statement that children who die under 8 do not have any ordinances done for them in the temple except sealing. That would suggest under your logic that they too didn't really have a mortal experience, right? Yet we all know children under 8 have had a mortal experience, they just didn't need the same amount of ordinances as others due to their innocence. I think that logic about innocence fits better with stillborn children than the logic that a spirit has not yet been assigned to a stillborn child (who can feel pain and move voluntarily and breathe amniotic fluid etc).
SusanOctober 8, 2024
I bumped into Charlie’s channel recently and it was beautiful to see his reaction to music we so often take for granted. How great he was able to come hear them in person and feel the spirit again!
Tanya NeiderOctober 8, 2024
Thank you for posting this article. I really needed to hear the beautiful music today! What an amazing story.
Corey D.October 7, 2024
It was all very good and inspirational but for me several things stood out, the primary kids singing Gethsemane, I have a hard time not tearing up hearing that under normal circumstances but that was just magnificent, I felt like the Savior could have come in that moment. Elder Holland's magnificent talk and Brad Wilcox's tremendous talk, I prayed that two of my sweet granddaughters who are struggling with going to church would be blessed to hear something and the fact that his talk was during a Sunday session when they were both home to me was an answer to prayer and President Oak's talk has given me much to contemplate.
Debbi McOctober 7, 2024
I would love to know if then Elder Joel McClausland ever went to Thanksgiving dinners at Yokota AB. We were stationed there from 1979-1983, near Tokyo, and have fond memories of hosting elders in our home on the base. What a coincidence that would be from so long ago!
SallyOctober 7, 2024
This conference was for us as a people. It was like King Benjamin's last exortation before he past the mantle to his son. It was for all saints who are well grounded, questioning what to do and the list asking to come back into the fold. It was glorious!
Rae GreenstreetOctober 7, 2024
Thank you for the most important summaries of General Conference talks.
JuliannOctober 7, 2024
Thank you.
Abbie VianesOctober 7, 2024
Never have I heard a prophet speak more of or more clearly on or more on the imminence of the second coming. Along with announcing 17 more temples all President Nelsons talk was about the Lord returning "in the days to come" and how to prepare.
HelenCOctober 7, 2024
So much about the Savior and His Love! A true Feast for my soul.
KathleenOctober 6, 2024
I remember that day well, 5 months into my mission, humbly celebrating the event in Bolivia.
KathleenOctober 6, 2024
Food is often a part of the experience. In the east, in 'the day', we would often have pot lucks between sessions, as it wasn't worth the travel time between the chapel and our homes. Great memories and bonding!
Corey D.October 6, 2024
So well written and expressed. One of the Saviors warnings was to not put our light under a bushel. Hate to say it but today's political and social environment does make us hesitant to say things, at least I have been hesitant or careful at times. But I have learned there are probably more people agree with the Proclamation than we realize, both members of the church and not.
Carolyn Sessions AllenOctober 6, 2024
Amen to all comments. Nearly 30-40 years of my Church Service was in Public Affairs, two years as a full-time missionary with my husband in the L.A. Office Robert mentions. We were the "boots on the ground" during those years. If someone has a worthy project, where can that person get help for the next step? Need help on "HOW" to move forward.
Fred SteinfelsOctober 6, 2024
Trying to contact Lila Lily White who served in the Tabernaclr Mormon Tabernacle choir. A liky white was an early Biishop of Greenville, Utah. My GG grandfather was one of the original founders of Greenville and may have served with Bishop Lily White.
RavenOctober 5, 2024
Thank you so much for this article on one of my favorite musical groups, ever. Afterglow has been a part of my life since my missionary days. Indeed "Someone Is Listening" was my Introduction to the beautiful harmonies. I highly recommend their catalog of work to everyone.
NealOctober 4, 2024
Dropping the "cult" card is much the same as dropping the "race" card. those who resort to these practices actually know not of which they speak...they are merely haters.
Cynthia C.October 4, 2024
Insightful.
Bradley AndersonOctober 4, 2024
What is often left out in the claim that the Church is a cult, is that a cult typically has a charismatic leader who has complete control. Underlings are used for recruiting, but only one supreme leader. Upon the death or exposure of that leader the cult collapses. Think Jim Jones, David Koresh, Charles Mansion, Sun Myung Moon. For the Church to trust apostles, seventies, bishops, Relief Society presidents, YM and YW leaders, even deacons with decision-making abilities further calls the cult concept into question.
ChristineOctober 4, 2024
Amen! I love the way you compare and contrast our church with other world religions. Satan certainly likes to target us, and “cult” is a buzzword that gets a lot of attention but is certainly used incorrectly.
ShaunaOctober 3, 2024
Thank you for the article and the reminder. I have been infinitely grateful for the Proclamation on the Family over the years, in my marriage and in raising my children and especially for it's clear doctrine on gender, which has become a whirlwind of confusion and differing ideas and agenda. I used to think that if Satan wanted to destroy society, he would destroy the family....but I've since realized, that if he dismantles gender, then their is no family--2 birds with one stone
Harold RustOctober 3, 2024
Thank you for another powerful articulation of fundamental teachings we need to embrace and share. Just yesterday I was reminded of respectful and meaningful ways we can discuss important concepts with others around us even when we aren't sure of their own standards. I was substitute teaching health classes where the subject was drugs and alcohol. As I moved around the classroom and reviewed their efforts in answering questions, the subject of BAC or legal limits of blood alcohol content allowed me to emphasize with many of these students the concept of knowing how close we can come to a cliff before falling off should lead us to realize how much better it is to stay as far back as possible. I then could add that I've never seen any advantage in drinking or taking drugs and thus have found the easy path to be just never going near that choice. I sensed that almost every student I mentioned that to actually agreed with me. There are indeed ways to share gospel principles in a way that others will want to agree on their correctness---even if they have many friends who feel or act otherwise.
Lawrence NielsenOctober 3, 2024
The question, "Why are we afraid to share" the Proclamation on the Family is misleading and a good example of broad-brush smearing of a people. "Why are some afraid...." would be much better. The real issue in my opinion, is how can we help those who have not quite learned thow to muster the courage to let the world see their light, or realize that this reluctance to share and publicly own this Proclamation is possibly a clear indication of the weakness of their own conviction and testimony.
Becca HaleOctober 2, 2024
Who would have thought that we needed the "Family Proclamation" when it was first announced? Wasn't the from-the-beginning definition of family sufficient? I believe that many today truly think they do not need to honor traditional marriage and family roles or they don't understand the purpose. Perhaps they were never taught, or negative experiences from their childhood prevent them from seeking the good family relationships they could have. Some friends and I were recently discussing that, in the countries of our LDS church missions, many people lived long-term “common-law” marriages,” because divorce was not sanctioned with government and church so intertwined. Granted, these were not (yet) members of the Church, but they were living the best they could under the law. We have many family and friends who do not always embrace the sanctity of marriage and family. Some are gay, some have fallen away, and some were just never taught the importance of this institution. Do we wish they were living as traditional families under God's plan? Yes! I would hope that we can be vocal examples of marriage and family whenever possible, and share the “Family Proclamation.” This beautiful document actually delineates the roles and responsibilities of all family members. My husband and I recently had the opportunity to discuss some aspects of the Word of Wisdom with a client. We need to build relationships with our friends and associates before we can teach many gospel principles. We should never make excuses for or downplay the beliefs that are so sacred to us, but we need to meet people where they are and hope that our examples and, eventually, our words will teach them and have meaning for them.
L.E.October 2, 2024
It's good to identify potentially abusive phrases. This reduces gaslighting and manipulation. We need awareness so we can have skill to protect ourselves. Even if we don't engage with an offender, we can recognize their behavior and set appropriate boundaries. So much of our society is mutating into clever little bullies, it's good to address this directly and clearly.
Harold RustOctober 1, 2024
From my perspective, the Church historically has done a remarkably "reasonable" response to the wide range of arrows flung at it from multiple sources with a variety of poisons. From how it responded to the anti-Mormon musical Book of Mormon to coverage of "Mormon Hands" grass-roots support during tragedies, the long-term outcome has been and will continue to be a gut-feel among most decent folks that members of the Church have some very commendable practices and that our leadership structure, our wise use of financial resources, and our very focused use of charitable contributions all describe an admirable religious organization which can be trusted to do good.
David ShieldsSeptember 30, 2024
I am sorry the author focuses upon the attacks upon the church and its members. For those who are turned off there are others who become interested because they realize that everything that is virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy is attacked by those who are guilty and suffering.
Allen ASeptember 30, 2024
There are other Protestant churches in my community which regularly schedule political meetings and feature political content in their sermons and nothing is said about them.
Cynthia C.September 30, 2024
Good article. Gives one some things to think about.
Shara OgilvieSeptember 30, 2024
Great article. Rang true and gave me a lot to think about. Thanks!
ShaunaSeptember 30, 2024
Really thought provoking and helpful. I appreciate the specificity. The issue for me as an active member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, is where and how to spend my energy--we all have to pick our battles. But this points out to me some landmines that I didn't' know existed. Thanks for the article
Nancy WilliamsSeptember 29, 2024
This article will not help diminish our “persecution complex.”
Hap CluffSeptember 29, 2024
I’ve known Robert Starling for a long time. His commitment to the Church and all forms of media and the people who engage in the arts is unparalleled. Thanks, Robert, for this well written and documented article. Hurrah for Israel!
Gary LawrenceSeptember 29, 2024
Great research. Great ideas. Way to go.
John Charles PearceSeptember 28, 2024
I agree with this article that we Latter-day Saints can and must do more to produce positive stories about the church and its members. There have been a number of good movies by Latter-day Saint film makers in recent years that have been released but have not even been seen by our members. This is because the film makers don't have the finances available to be able to properly promote them. I know that our church leaders don't promote commercial films, but other churches do, and they let their congregations know when a Christian movie is released and even organize group bookings. We need to come up with a way of letting our members know about these movie releases. A current movie "Faith of Angels" is a case in point. This is a great movie based on a true experience of a Latter-day Saint boy lost in a mine for 5 days that many members don't even know about. This is a movie that could appeal to many people other than our members. If we could find a way of getting our members to this movie, and then telling their friends about it, we will be able to encourage our film makers to make more movies about our people.
Barry MooreSeptember 27, 2024
To put my two cents in, Brother Sterling, your article deserves two thumbs up. Two big thumbs up. It echoes President Kimball's call to arms to LDS artists with the highest fidelity. I appreciate you listing the organizations -- ALMA, LDSPMA, et al. -- dedicated to upsetting the "belly of the (Hollywood) beast" in your "How to Make it Happen" section. May the force -- the real Force -- be with you, Brother.
Stephen ChaunceySeptember 27, 2024
I would add continue to highlight good films with friends especially ones done by Church members. Secondly by avoiding bad content and especially those who provide it helps as the dollar speaks loud. Great and informative article.
Dorothy MillerSeptember 27, 2024
Well said, and I hope that those who have the talent, skills, and connections feel more fired up! The rest of us have a responsibility to support their efforts - to read, listen to, attend their efforts and to share the links, publications, and invite our friends and family to attend the concerts and movies with us! Thank you so much.
Dorothy MillerSeptember 27, 2024
This needed to be published! I hope that the people who have these gifts are fired up to build up! And the rest of us must put forth greater effort to support them - go see the films, concerts, read the publications etc. and bring our friends and families!
Corey D.September 23, 2024
What an excellent, well written and well expressed article, in fact just about an hour ago I was talking to a neighbor asking him if his step kids had stopped going to church because I hadn't seen them all summer, he replied yes, which for him and his wife means that none of their children are attending church. He also said he is the only one of his siblings active in the church. He then said this, "it all boils down to personal testimony, you have to personally believe, can't live on your parents beliefs or friends or teachers", something we have been taught from the pulpit many times but which we are seeing the effects of more than I remember in my lifetime. Great article !
Corey D.September 23, 2024
Amen to this article. Not the first speaker that I have wondered about in the last few years. I'm sure folks will automatically assume the writer of this article, Brother Lindsey is some ardent supporter of Trump but I seriously doubt it, he's just logically and in my mind rightfully asking a question about something that appears to be politically motivated and biased.
AnonymousSeptember 23, 2024
Curious if Mr French's columns had been leaning the other way would you have the same concerns?
Sally SmithSeptember 23, 2024
What keeps me in church is the example of my family coming across the plains with Willie Company. They sacrificed everything for Jesus Christ and the newly restored. So it sufficeth me to carry on that testimony to my family and those that come after me
JoeSeptember 23, 2024
I totally agreed. What is going on with BYU??
Ronald BarnesSeptember 23, 2024
I recorded my reasons and was going to share them, but I decided some were too personal and sharing a part would not suffice. So, I will only share the last sentence: The gospel and church attendance are a part of me, and I’m not complete without it.
Vicki CrumSeptember 23, 2024
I am very much interested in the answer to the question this article poses. Why, indeed, would BYU book a political writer, especially a hard left political writer, to speak to the student body right before an election? Especially one who would wish death to a former president and current candidate to the office. As a lifetime member of the church, I would like to demand an answer to this question. If I had a child at BYU right now, I would be outraged, and believe me the adminstration would hear about it!.
Talon JensenSeptember 23, 2024
I read political articles every day, yet just from mainstream and small town media, nothing from far-right or far-left media. I haven't read all these threats against Trump that is discussed in the article. Yet, I have paid attention to what the candidates have said. I find Trump's and Vance's comments to be much more hateful and incendiary. I also find what Trump has said to be a threat to democracy, he intends to remove "separation of powers" from American government. He says so right in his speeches. He has already partially done this with the Supreme Court. I find the need of Republicans to control everything and everyone repulsive. I welcome the opportunity for BYU students, who are still largely conservative, to hear opposing viewpoints, even though few of them will vote. It is only the far-right that wants to control free speech, not the far-left. And, just to be clear, I am not a Democrat. And, I have two degrees from BYU.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenSeptember 23, 2024
Well, I think that was a very unfortunate choice for a speaker at a religiously based univercity, is there a way to find out why this choice was made?
Jenny Madsen SvendsenSeptember 23, 2024
Like Peter, I would say:"Lord, where would I go". I would say because I know that Christ lives, He is my Saviour, and I know the church is His, I can attend Sacrament meeting and partake of the Sacrament to renew my covenants with Him, those are the reasons I go, and of course all the reasons you mentioned in your article.
Ed RehderSeptember 23, 2024
Thank you for saying what needed to be said.
Harold RustSeptember 23, 2024
A real "wake-up" article about what is happening at the trusted university in which several of my grandchildren and other relatives are now attending. I've always felt that the only appropriate forum for meaningful dialogue by those with strong political views is to have a well-facilitated and calm, logical discussion between that person and someone who verbally challenges their way of thinking. This goes for those I agree with as well as those with whom I disagree because either way I have the best and most lasting way of sorting out for myself what is true. Someone like David French needs to face an articulate opponent who can provide a fair analysis of his past and present arguments.
Harold RustSeptember 23, 2024
A line wonderful outline that encompasses all the reasons I personally have seen applied by those remaining committed to Church involvement and those who linger or leave altogether. Everyone of us makes weekly decisions (although most often those decisions are governed by habit) about our personal level of commitment; thus, it can be very meaningful to reflect upon these reasons discussed herein to add confidence to our understanding of why we are choosing what we do choose. Hopefully it will bring all of us to carefully and methodically choose to follow the Savior.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 23, 2024
I am a convert of many decades, from a mostly non-member family. In my late teens, I had to learn when I could sacrifice going to church (Grandma's birthday) and when nothing (family beach outing) was going to keep me from attending. As I have seen family and friends come and go (mostly go), there is still no place I would rather be. I love Elder Ballard's talk "To Whom Shall We Go? (2016). Where else will we find (mostly) like-minded people, the blessings of the Priesthood, the gospel plan and purpose for our lives, the opportunities for temple worship and ordinances, living Prophets and apostles, guidance to solve problems or give comfort, etc.? My husband and I have experienced the blessings of attending church during family reunions, when we have taken time away from business conferences, when attending small branches and large congregations, in foreign languages and countries, in hotel rooms and on cruises, and, of course, at home during the Pandemic. We have made the choice to make the Sabbath a sacred day wherever we are.
Cortney HolmesSeptember 23, 2024
Thanks for this article!
KCSeptember 23, 2024
It’s really sad they can’t find someone who isn’t a rabid conservative and who isn’t a progressive (sadly the majority of byu intelligentsia these days) Finding someone who is conservative but never Trump ENDORSING Harris is the problem. We DO NOT HAVE ONLY TWO CHOICES—false dichotomy there!!! If you choose to vote for EITHER you choose evil —there is no lesser of two here. If you choose to stay home/not vote, you abdicate your god given right to be part of the “voice of the people” and allow the parties/a candidate to manipulate us to this point of disaster. If you use your ballot as a protest vote to leave it blank—which tells the parties their offering is offensive—or write someone else in, you have used your voice and deserve to maintain your freedom. If we choose evil-aka one of the false choices we are tying ourselves to a sinking ship and may actually follow them into some horrific choices which doom not only US but also our world
Ben JonesSeptember 23, 2024
My step-daughter quit the Church because the bishop sided with her soon-to-be ex-husband. It was a real shame because she had been Primary president and her husband had been Elders Quorum president. They and their six children looked like the perfect family. It was her inspiration in the Temple to introduce me to her mother after my first wife's death. But he started making wild accusations of her being unfaithful. I was trying to counsel both of them until he started accusing me of hacking into his computer, at which point I concluded that he had lost his marbles, especially since I've never hacked a computer in my life. But the damage was done. She quit the Church. He did not, but he couldn't honestly say in a Temple Recommend interview that he was providing support for his ex-wife. The result was that most of the kids ended up quitting the Church as well. One served a mission and got married in the Temple but neither of his parents could attend the ceremony. My wife and I remain very active but we put up with snide comments from her about the Church as well as praises for our [now former] bishop from ward members. Ironically, my late first wife left the Church when she divorced her first husband but after we were married and I adopted her kids, she convinced me to join the Church. She advised me not to expect Church members to be perfect. I told her she'd already disabused me of that notion. Anyway, that's the thing we need to be on guard about. The Church is true but Church members are human and make mistakes.
Joan JonesSeptember 23, 2024
Thank you for this article. I totally agree that it is wrong. The wolves among the sheep are getting bolder.
LindaSeptember 23, 2024
Amen to your comments!!! I couldn't agree with you more. This is a travesty for our young, impressionable, under-informed students AND faculty!!! What were they thinking....or was it conivingly intentional?
Charles McClellandSeptember 23, 2024
Thank you for this insightful and comprehensive article. I am sharing it with my children, their spouses and my grandchildren!
SfischSeptember 23, 2024
What is happening to the BYU I once knew and loved? So sad.
Vaughn BarrusSeptember 23, 2024
Oh wretched man that I am. The sins that do so easily beset me. I am so far from perfect that without the gospel and church I don’t know where I would be. This scares me and makes me want to be in church just so I can stay on or as close to the straight and narrow as possible. As the author has stated, our personal spiritual experience fades as time passes and we start to loose the lift they give us. In order to retain this lift I strive to continue to have more spiritual experiences. I do this by attending church and going often to the temple. If we stop going to church we loose the ability to go to the temple and then to receive these spiritual experiences. I can not imagine life without church and especially without the temple experience. I attended church first tp refill my lamp with oil and then to remain worthy of attend the temple where I get the strength to carry on.
VaughnSeptember 23, 2024
I may comment more than once. First I learned long ago, if people are on pedestals it’s because we put them there. Most often it’s not because they put themselves on that pedestal. So when they fall from the pedestal that we put them on we loose faith. I used to work with an emeritus member of the 70, in a meeting ( not a church meeting) he suggested that everyone needed to watch a particular R rated movie that depicted the 2nd world war. When I questioned him as to the rating and to the council of the church against watching such movies he stammered a bit then said “ This was the war. I lived it, everyone should watch it so they can know.” This taught me that we, regardless of our callings or position in the church we are all human and weak and frail. It also taught me not to put people on pedestals.
Catherine GettmanSeptember 21, 2024
Wonderful article. I heard about this show. I have no desire to watch such lies about my faith n the church of jesus christ of latter day saints. I am a convert of over 50 years. I know it, i live it, i love it.
Frederick CarlSeptember 20, 2024
I am so glad an LDS woman had something to say about this raunchy show. Next, the woman on the show are going to start promoting the benefits of their Only Fans accounts and all young women should do it. Bravo Sister Proctor.
Suzette HaltermanSeptember 20, 2024
The saying "don't judge a book by its cover" exists for a reason. This whole article is simply about the trailer for the show, but the actual show is nothing like the trailer. It was, and still might be, Hulu's number one watched show in America and there's a good reason for that. Yes, some of it is just stupid reality TV that makes you feel dumber for watching it, but some of it actually hits on some really important themes that are I think are really important too discuss more in our LDS culture. I actually really enjoyed the show because it's very thought-provoking in a lot of ways. Some of the themes I find fascinating for discussion about this show are: Gen Z spirituality and what we understand about it, perfectionism and plastic surgery for LDS women and why that is, the current tension between a patriarchal church and a modern world for women, purity culture and how it impacts women in so many ways, and so much more! I have listened to women with PhD's and masters degrees in theology having conversations about this show because there's a lot going on beneath the surface of it all that matters a lot to broader cultural discussion within religious spaces. I have heard evangelical and catholic women talking about the show and the ways that it resonated with their experiences as women within Christianity. There's a lot more than meets the eye here, so I would say don't judge the show by its trailer, which doesn't actually represent the show well at all, and listen to the useful and productive conversations that happened around this show. While not everyone might like the show or want to watch it, just know that it's a big hit for some good reasons in that beyond the drama factor of reality tv, it also brings up some important cultural discussions. So maybe the fact that these discussions are happening because of this show is a good thing and we don't need to get so upset about the trailer for it!
Sasha KwapinskiSeptember 20, 2024
I venture to say that we would never hear of a TV show entitled "The Secret Lives of Hindu (or Moslem, Buddhist, Sikh, or Shinto) women."
Robert StarlingSeptember 20, 2024
Well said, Mariah. You're an eloquent spokeswoman for the Latter-day Saint faith, lifestyle and worldview. I hope you look up the writers and producers in the show's credits and send them each a copy of this article. An open letter to the LA Times, Variety, and Hollywood Reporter would also be a good idea.
Gary C JohnsonSeptember 20, 2024
I'm with Tim....never heard of this trash until now. I thought it referred to that other video excrement, Real Housewives of SLC. They should have called THAT one, Real Housewives of the Mountain West. Do any of those women really have anything but a flirting acquaintance with the Church? Every time I see/hear of these programs my reaction is, "Here we go again...". Seems the only societal group that continues to be open to bigotry and ridicule are Latter-Day Saints. C 'mon people, get a life. Thanks to Mariah for exposing yet another exploitative venture into misinformation and untruth.
HelenCSeptember 20, 2024
Thank you. “You can protect yourself from a cliff with a fence at the top or an ambulance at the bottom” I’d my new fav quote.
TimSeptember 20, 2024
I had never even heard of this program before reading this article, but what a powerful article it is. Will definitely share this article.
Corey D.September 19, 2024
On July 4th 1976, I was a missionary at the LTM in Provo waiting for a visa. There was a devotional held that night in the Marriott Center celebrating the bicentennial of this great nation, the speaker was President Marion G Romney, all the missionaries were invited to attend. I don't remember all that Pres Romney said but I do remember one statement he made, he said: "there is one reason for the establishment of America(implying the United States) and only one reason, so the gospel of Jesus Christ could be restored". Never have forgotten that.
HelenCSeptember 19, 2024
Can’t wait for the film to be released! I only hope our fractured political system doesn’t succumb to middle Eastern chaos!
Melanie SteinSeptember 19, 2024
Surrogacy never felt quite right to me, which is why this article is so refreshing. It helps articulate that uneasiness I felt with the concept. Thanks for taking the time to write and share this.
Jesse BrownSeptember 19, 2024
Thank you very much for your article. I received BA and MS degrees in biology from the University of Utah several decades ago and taught biology for several years. The irrational and selfish attempts of some people to pretend that sex or gender is relative contribute to unnecessary confusion in a world that is already too confusing. Concerning sex, talk to biologists, not politicians or sociologists with some kind of weird agenda.
Dr. Kenneth Stevens, MDSeptember 19, 2024
Excellent factual article. Even our bones inform whether we are male or female. Particularly the pelvic bones, where the female pelvis is designed to carry and deliver a baby and the male pelvis is too narrow for those functions.
WithheldSeptember 19, 2024
Thank you for this in-depth article. As I am experiencing the extreme pain of losing a daughter and grandchildren to the shrill voices against the church, this article has given me a better understanding of the real and deliberate voices and their motives to destroy the faith of the most vulnerable in their journey to gain testimonies. It has been so very difficult to understand how others give so much credibility to strangers on the internet and social media. I better see now how this happens.."Oh those who think they are wise.". To quote President Gordon B. Hinkley, "You lose a mother, you lose generations.". Tragically, my family is experiencing the truth of this. Prayers continue for all those falling prey .
Robert StarlingSeptember 19, 2024
Thank you for explaining scientifically THE truth. It is important for people who talk about "their" truth to remember that while they may have a right to have their own opinions, they can't have their own facts. As Latter-day Saints we also have the gift of understanding life from an eternal perspective through God's revealed word, which says: "male and female created He them". While those with feelings to the contrary should be loved and helped with their very real challenges, we should not "affirm" something that is not the truth.
EmmaSeptember 19, 2024
I feel this is just another way to exploit the poor. But ask another question. Why are they poor? So much is because those richer have become increasingly greedy. They demand a higher and higher standard of living for themselves. This can only be accomplished by charging higher prices for whatever they are selling, paying lower wages to those who work for them, or changing the tax codes.
LisaSeptember 18, 2024
We are LDS. My former husband began making oblique comments about polygamy and how good it was. I suspected nothing. Yes, he was cheating, using church history as his excuse. Hate to even read about polygamy. Hate to see the general authorities talk about their eternal marriages. Hate all of it. What a destructive doctrine.
ShaunaSeptember 18, 2024
Thank you
Stephen ChaunceySeptember 18, 2024
Excellent analysis and reporting. Been in law enforcement for over 40 years and your presentation is exactly how you do an ethical, reasoned case and rebuttal. I will be kind and not offer opinions on Runnells but I have enjoyed arresting his type.
HelenCSeptember 18, 2024
As I prayed for counsel on how to answer my beautiful daughter’s increasingly Gospel-effronting feminist Facebook posts the answer came quietly. I just expressed my admiration for the passion she put into her beliefs. They haven’t changed but our relationship is loving, warm, intact. Holy Ghost - 1; antagonism - 0
HelenCSeptember 18, 2024
I suppose it’s to be expected that the “restoration of all things” would bring us another Korihor. All Mr. Runnells has done is prove to me, once again, the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon. All I can do is to “live in such a way that those who know me will want to know Christ because they know me”. I didn’t jerk the source of this quote but it’s been on my refrigerator for enough years to have faded almost ever away. Long before the letter I will never read (too much GOOD stuff to study) was conceived.
LoraSeptember 18, 2024
Yes, Hagar had a baby "for" Abraham and Sarah, but she kept Ishmael. Bilhah had a babies "for" Jacob and Rachel, but she kept Dan and Naphtali. Zilpah had a babies "for" Leah, but she kept Gad and Asher. The Biblical "surrogate pregnancies" were not like modern ones.
DeeDeeSeptember 18, 2024
This rings of truth--and filled me with hope and joy all at once. It takes a humble soul to write this and what a wonderful humility!
Dee Ann JensenSeptember 18, 2024
Benjamin Franklin Lewis was my 3rd great grandfather on my father's side. He was only 35 years old when he was killed and buried in the well at Hawn's Mill. He had 6 small children when he was massacred ranging in age from 11 years to a baby. I always think of how scared they must have been.
Richard JukesSeptember 17, 2024
Thank you for the tender focus of your photos and words! That site is such a relevant part of our family history. And it makes me ponder more about the positions of the Anti-Nephi-Lehi's...people of Ammon...and how our dear relatives moved forward after that hideous attack. Thank you. We so appreciate our time with you in China.
LewisSeptember 17, 2024
These are powerful stories, and show what a difference caring and loving people can make a tremendous difference in the life trajectory of others. Thank you for all you do. I feel honored to be able to support your efforts.
M. TaylorSeptember 16, 2024
Another reason someone might stonewall unintentionally is because of neurodiversity. My spouse, who has high-functioning autism, will often freeze, not maintain eye contact, and have trouble responding to me or maintaining the flow of discussion when difficult topics arise. It comes off as uncaring, controlling, or being iced out but is more complicated than that, and not always intentional. Neurodiverse marriages have an estimated 80% fail rate, so understanding and facilitating fundamentally different communication modes in a neurodiverse relationship is crucial for success.
Nicholeen PeckSeptember 16, 2024
Warning about the term 'ageism': While I fully agree with the lens used in this article to view ageism (not to treat older people poorly), using the term 'ageism' and promoting it broadly will have unintended consequences for our children. Originally, ageism applied only to being biased or prejudiced toward older people and not denying older people any opportunities that younger people have. However, the term is now used in reverse (requiring that children should be able to do everything that an adult can do, including consent to sex and drugs, etc.) I have consultative status at the United Nations. In that sphere, NGOs and diplomats from around the world argue the point that children should not be controlled by their parents because that is 'ageism.' I'm sure you can see how this mindset exploits children and leaves them unprotected by their parents. I've heard NGOs assert that children want sex too, and if they want it from an adult they should not be denied that. They say that to deny them is ageism. So, even though this article makes a great point about honoring and respecting the rights and feelings of people older than you. The last thing that we want to do is create broad rights for children that ultimately remove parental oversight of the child. The term 'ageism' does this. My recommendation is that we stay away from classifying disconnection and disrespect of the elderly with this term. Instead, in order to protect the children, it would be best to simply describe circumstances and solutions for older people without a box-like term.
HLSeptember 15, 2024
What if you are in an emotionally abusive marriage & you are physically freezing up while they barrage you... Is that still considered stonewalling?
KathleenSeptember 15, 2024
Some things never change!
Corey D.September 15, 2024
It's stories like these whether here or other media or heard in church or told to me by others that keep me going sometimes, things seem so bleak in the world most days, I'm appreciative of the good and those who are good.
Dick ByrnesSeptember 14, 2024
Can a connection be drawn between what happened to Zemnarihah and what happened to Judas- both were hung on a tree, either by others or in the case of Judas, by himself. Then the Nephites cut down the tree on which the traitor Zemnarihah hung and (God) felled the tree in which the traitor Judas hung. To me the similarities and symbolism are striking, especially after reading this article of the legal and traditional practices of the Israelite nation.
JanSeptember 14, 2024
I have just memorized Romans 8:1-2 for a new study and it seems to be relevant in this discussion. I agree with those who state the Holy Ghost most definitely can be in more than one place at a time, and in fact never leaves the believer. "Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit who gives life has set you free from the law of sin and death.." A legal transaction takes place and the Spirit's law through Jesus has set us free from the other deadly law. The more I study the more I've come to understand that the Spirit is indeed God who indwells every believer, for Who else "gives life" and sets us free but God Himself?
K. MortensenSeptember 14, 2024
I’m grateful for the suggestions on early reading books. It’s too bad someone didn’t proof read the article.
RosieSeptember 14, 2024
So true; I concur wholeheartedly. But remember when Pollyanna fell out of the tree and lost the use of her legs she didn't find the idea of crutches very comforting after all. We all have limits and this life can wear one down and often manifests itself when little things go wrong, sometimes more than the big things.
Corey D.September 14, 2024
My brother said a fellow ward member out of curiosity called his teenage kids together and asked them the following question, "what percentage of your friends would you say think that there is nothing wrong with same sex marriage", their reply, about 70%. These are mostly kids from LDS homes. I agree wholeheartedly with this article and think about this particular subject often and see the effects of being deceived all around me, family members, friends, ward members. It's one of the curses of the internet in my mind. But also have to constantly remind myself that I have to be on the watch myself and be careful I don't get caught up in things.
Corey D.September 14, 2024
I understand what the article is trying to say but not sure ageism is the cause of the disconnect between the younger generations and the older generations or the reason for estrangement of grandparents and grandchildren. To me the biggest problem or disconnect if you want to use that term and this is probably more specific to those raised in a good LDS/Christian/religious environment is the difference of how religion, moral standards, work ethic and money are viewed by the younger generations and what they are being taught about it.
Corey D.September 14, 2024
I'm surprised at the criticism of this article, Daniel Peterson's articles are always well written, intelligent and logical laid out and spiritually sound. While I don't know much about Moms for Liberty I do know anything that the Southern Poverty Law Center says should be instantly and totally disregarded. Much of the so-called "book banning" that has been in the news the last couple of years has been mischaracterized and mislabeled by the mainstream media, any one who has taken the time to actually do some in depth research will find that mostly what this has been about is two things, books and curriculum that advanced the LGBTQ+ agenda that are basically pornography or contain totally age inappropriate material but presented under the guise of fairness and equality and books and curriculum that are anti-American or present false history's such as The 1619 Project and A People's History of the United States.
Jeannie EvansSeptember 13, 2024
A profound article with many thoughts worth pondering.
Karlene DanceSeptember 13, 2024
Are you ever going to bring the desk calendar back. I loved it.
Gary AndersonSeptember 13, 2024
Thanks for this inspired message of how not to be deceived!
JamesSeptember 13, 2024
I love that! Thank you so much!!
MaryannSeptember 13, 2024
I don't believe anyone will stray too far from the path if they are praying and reading the scriptures daily, with real intent. If we then "take the Holy Spirit for our guide," we will not be deceived.
MaryannSeptember 13, 2024
Tip from a 73 year youngster: We do not appreciate being called "cute," "dear," or any other labels that are condescending. Seeing an older couple walking hand in hand is not "cute." It is beautiful. I recently ran into an older friend in a clothing store, and the sales girl was talking to her like she was an idiot. She was a highly intelligent woman with a college degree, and an outstanding teacher. Thank you for bringing this problem to our attention. When we examine our faulty attitudes and thoughts about getting older, we will be well on the way to showing more respect.
Pam BlairSeptember 13, 2024
Reminds me of a friend who became furious when we were eating in the car at a drive-in restaurant. My hamburger with onions made her car smell terrible, and she was furious with me. That's the lesson that taught me to [as it is often said] "not sweat the small stuff, and remember: it's ALL small stuff".
Roslyn Huege de ServilleSeptember 12, 2024
Brother Wallace .. you have hit the nail on the head … thank you
HelenCSeptember 12, 2024
A “perfect” segue to the LDS business support group I attended this evening! Thank you.
BryanSeptember 12, 2024
Exactly right! We truly see ‘through a glass darkly’ when it comes to our current life. Several weeks ago I was pondering on why trials are necessary and all I could think of is, if this life is a training ground and is to prepare us to ‘receive even all that the Father hath’, then eternal life and our future roles as Gods and Goddesses must be supremely difficult and this life gives us an opportunity to prepare for that. But all we must do now is keep our eyes on the prize, trust in Christ and His atonement, and do our best.
Roxanne ThayneSeptember 11, 2024
Excellent and timely article. Thank you for the time, research, and courage it took to write it.
SfischSeptember 11, 2024
Totally AMAZING! Thank you so MUCH. Thank you for your effort. I love this treasure trove of inspiration from our prophet.
Adrian MartinSeptember 11, 2024
I hope that this movie can reach a wider audience than just USA and Canada. I live in Great Britain.
Corey D.September 10, 2024
This article reminds me of a story told to us by our stake president over 20 yrs ago. His daughter and her family lived in Orlando Florida, he liked to go visit especially when the Space Shuttle was scheduled to launch. His daughter shared with him something that had happened with an assignment his granddaughter had at school. This was not too long after one of the big hurricanes had hit Florida, his granddaughter was in Jr. High and one of the teachers had assigned the class to do a report on how to prepare for a hurricane, his granddaughter in her report listed all the things they had at home, emergency supplies, food storage, etc., the teacher calls this young lady in and says to her, that's a nice report but I know you don't have all that stuff so why would you write that you did, she replied to the teacher that she wasn't exaggerating or lying, they really were prepared for an emergency. The teacher still didn't believe her and had her bring her mother to school. She explained to the teacher that everything her daughter had put in her report was true, that members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints are taught and encouraged to be prepared for emergency's, the teacher was totally amazed.
Walter J GoldthwaiteSeptember 10, 2024
I am one of milliions that have paid the Lord as He admonsheds us to do. But I have received much more than I have paid in over the years - temporally and spiritually. The Lord said in the Old Testament, "prove me now herewith, if I will not open you the Windows of Heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be enough to receive it" (Malachi 3:10). I have proved Him from paying more than an honest tithing for more than 60 years, and have received such blessings, huge and small, and looking back on life my wife and I can see clearly that those promised blessings have come. It makes us aware that there have also been many blessings we aren't aware of although those that we know about are incredibly numerous and miraculous.
Bob WoodburySeptember 9, 2024
Several years ago my wife and I, with two grandsons, made an afternoon visit in this beautiful and charming town. There were also a couple bus loads of Japanese visitors which made the visit a little surreal as by far the largest number of people on the streets, and in the shops and restaurants of this very English village were Asian. They were lovely people (as were the locals) and it made for one of our most memorable days in England. Your photos have captured my own memory of this town.
Nicole SampsonSeptember 9, 2024
I wish you had dug into it more. I was hoping for a little more insight.
Nicole SampsonSeptember 9, 2024
Wow! I cannot wait to study this. Thank you so much for taking the time to create this article!
David MohrSeptember 9, 2024
I have always compared things like that playing hockey. If you want to play hockey then you play by the established rules. If you don't like the tiles then find a different game to play. Same thing with Church rules. If you don't like rules we run by then find a different church. I don't understand how you can join a game or a church and then want to change the rules already established. That's like saying I only play but by my rules. God's rules are for our Benefit.
GerrySeptember 9, 2024
May I add: Reverence for Life, April Gen. Conf. 1985, By Elder Russell M. Nelson Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles “It is a war on the defenseless—and the voiceless. It is a war on the unborn. This war, labeled “abortion…”
Doris WilliamsSeptember 9, 2024
Always appreciate whatever you have to say, Daniel Peterson, and the irony of your reply made me laugh. I must say that I have thought this more than once when faced with a bulging parking lot at the temple: "I feel so sorry for all these dang Mormons, paying all that tithing, they can't afford a decent car, as I search among all the late-model high-end cars taking up all the parking places! Love tithing, always will.
Leslie TimmsSeptember 9, 2024
Castle Combe has always been a favorite of mine when we are in England. However the last time we were in Castle Combe it was absolutely overrun with tourists. And many of the fabulous shops selling lovely woollen goods are now selling tshirts.
Gary BealSeptember 9, 2024
This article assumes that the Book of Mormon was written somewhere in Meso-America. Yet I can't find anywhere in the article that identifies this assumption. Have the researchers applied their skills to the area in North America that comprises the region where the Hopewell peoples lived? There is arguably ample evidence of that region as being the place where the Book of Mormon society existed.
Elaine MathewsSeptember 9, 2024
Lovely to see how much it meant to you- I was lucky enough to be born and grow up in the Cotswolds so all the lovely features are so familiar to me! Grateful to have many delightful memories of visits to all the local beauty spots - thanks for sharing yours!
TamaraSeptember 9, 2024
Thank you for taking the time to do this!
Merrill JensonSeptember 9, 2024
I remember seeing these streets in films. I just love the look. I truly want to visit there some day. Thanks for sharing. Merrill Jenson
Rochelle HaleSeptember 9, 2024
I am a many-decades-ago convert. As a teen, one of the first principles I learned was tithing. I would put literal "IOUs" to the Lord in my piggy bank until I grasped the importance of this commandment. I have never looked back. It astounds me that other denominations are not criticized for their fund-raising tactics - the passing of offering plates, rummage sales or auctions, or even coffee shops and bookstores that share campus space with their meeting places. Have they forgotten to read their Old Testament? Or there is criticism of how the Church spends our tithing (and other offerings) donations. My late mother-in-law was wonderful about her charitable contributions, but she had to go through stacks of mail monthly to determine the reputable agencies. I pay my tithing and trust the Lord's servants to use it in the best possible way.
Ronald BarnesSeptember 9, 2024
As with all the principles of the gospel, we are never forced to obey, it is our choice. However, if we choose to not obey, we cannot expect to receive the blessings that come with obedience. There is a law, irrevocably decreed in heaven before the foundations of this world, upon which all blessings are predicated— And when we obtain any blessing from God, it is by obedience to that law upon which it is predicated. Doctrine and Covenants 130:20 - 21
Jeff TeichertSeptember 8, 2024
Thanks Wally. I appreciate it!
Gary Stroble, W9NRSeptember 7, 2024
Should have typed two-way radios.
Nancy MSeptember 7, 2024
Such a beautiful perspective. Thank you!
Tim ErnstSeptember 6, 2024
The passing of sacred authority via the Holy Priesthood is essential to the foundation of the Restored Church of Jesus Christ. Dr. Peterson displays a wonderful acumen for getting to the gist of what is important, and he does so in this little article in timely fashion. Without Priesthood authority, none of the ordinances we perform would have efficacy, but with Christ's permission and investiture, the Priesthood is manifest in the world today, within the walls of homes, churches and temples and oftentimes outside of walls in battlefields and mission fields. We of all people are most blessed and honored by this power made manifest from Jesus Christ to a modern prophet named Joseph Smith and passed down individually from prophet to prophet until our day.
Jenny SvendsenSeptember 6, 2024
My husband and I lived in Alberta, Canada, when this happened to Joshua, I clearly remember following the news, and rejoiced, when he was found. I hope this movie wil come to Canada, we live close to bc now, everyone should experience the miracles that happened, I know miracles happen every day!
korinne nelsonSeptember 6, 2024
This was delightful. Thank you. Keep writing, Kimberly White!
Debrah RoundySeptember 5, 2024
I remember the day that record came stapled into the Magazine. We hoped it would not be damaged, and it wasn't. It was hard to hear what he, President Woodruff, said, but still it was thrilling. One used to get short use records on the back of cereal boxes, and one or two in magazines. No idea of what the future would bring, we thought the world was our oyster. Look at technology now! Meridian, thanks for posting this, thanks for the memories!
ArchieSeptember 5, 2024
An amazing story. I will be the first one in line to see the movie.
HelenCSeptember 4, 2024
I remember hearing this amazing recording. I was too young to appreciate the importance of its contents. Thank you for educating us, again.
Scott E.September 3, 2024
Short-"sighted". Also, if you watch movies or television, there are so many countless places where we revel in, marvel at, or laugh at someone's pain. Any sitcom, if told in the form of a drama, is awful tragedy. Often humiliating, distressful and shocking. Yet we laugh away without a care in the world. Horror movies are less about satiating ourselves on other's pain and, through the eyes of another, confront our own mortality. While I don't know if I will watch it. I think it's fascinating. I'm interested in what it is ultimately trying to say. And really hoping it isn't some black as pitch, hopeless affair that portrays LDS as inept insincere and misguided. That said, I can see being critical of a trailer. You see it and you can like it or not. But nobody but a few have even seen this movie. So perhaps we should reserve judgment?
David C HobsonSeptember 3, 2024
Bravo! Very well stated!
Susan StoddardSeptember 3, 2024
Thank you so much for this article. I have recently been called to serve in my ward Relief Society Presidency. As I have begun to really serve the sisters in my ward I have gained a new perspective on "being used". This article brought be to tears. Thank you.
Wally GoddardSeptember 3, 2024
Great insights! Thank you, Jeff!
DianeSeptember 3, 2024
Thank you Sister Clayton! Beautiful and inspiring thoughts and wisdom.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 3, 2024
I want to arrive with my heart on my sleeve, Knowing that I went beyond my own comfort To make sure my disabled friend could experience the temple, Knowing that the worst seat at the table turned out to be the best, When learning how I could better minister, And that appearances may not always show that someone is emotionally or physically well. I want to smell the bread and crockpot meals I made for others. I want to have circles under my eyes because I immediately said, "yes" before I knew what the Primary activity would involve. I want tear stains on my blouse and callouses on my knees, For the many prayers I have offered for others, And my heart brimming with more gratitude than I can ever express for all that my Savior has done for me. I want my heart to show that it was never about my own selfishness. It was all about Him and how He could use me to help others.
KathleenSeptember 3, 2024
Thank you! I LOVE explanations of the origin of expressions. I say so many of my grandmother's without knowing from whence they came, including this one. I recently learned about 'the baby and the bathwater.'
Debbi M.September 2, 2024
Such a beautiful and thoughtful article. This is something I have wondered about, but am content to put it in a box on my "unresolved" shelf awaiting further information and light. I know what I know, that all will be worked out in the end, and look forward to learning more. We have a loving and just Heavenly Father and our Saviour, Jesus Christ, who will oversee all of these issues on day, and it will be glorious to see it unfold!
Chris KingSeptember 2, 2024
Isn't interest income what you can make on leftover funds that can earn interest? The Jewish law surrounding tithing was very complicated. It was detailed out to the utmost specifics so there was absolute clarity. The poor did not pay tithing. (SS or SSDI or Disability income) Tithing wasn't paid on gifts. It was paid on surplus and production. It was never paid on the whole field, only what the field produced. If you had sheep that died or half your field of crops diseased, they were not included as part of the increase. General business and household expenses including food and gas are dead sheep. What is left after the basics to care for your needs is interest or increase. Tithing is paid on that interest or increase. Some say gross. some say net. Some say on gifts. Even to the point of cash and gift values on birthdays, Christmas, weddings, or other special occasions. Basically, depending on the interpretation of leaders, their opinions, and suggestions based on how they were raised or personally applied in their lives. I have seen people pay on their business incomes and struggle to stay in business. Why? They paid on gross earnings from the business rather than having the business pay out dividends or a realized income to them first. I see the same with those running the business of their home. 10 percent on a gross paycheck for 2000 dollars is 200 dollars while if they had 100 left after basic needs to run the home business expenses and affairs, would have been 10 dollars. a difference of 190.00 dollars. 190.00 dollars is not 10 percent on the increase, but rather an overpayment. I have seen those on SS (SSDI, Disability) income who pay tithing only to turn around and have the church write a check for their mortgage and also need a bishop's order for food. In Jewish law, the poor did not pay tithing. They could donate as they saw fit, such as the widow's mite, but it was not required to pay tithing. Ultimately it is between the individual and the Lord and it is not easy when reasoning, mixed with opinions, and judgment, stirs in a mix of uncertainty, guilt, and doubt.
Karl K.September 2, 2024
Take a look at who owns Hulu. Consider carefully where you spend your money.
Joni HiltonSeptember 2, 2024
Just have to share this. When I saw the abbreviated title of your article in my email feed, it read: "Why Kids Need to be Pushed Out" - ha ha! I thought, Wow, Meridian is really taking a stand on getting those young adults out of the house. Alas, controversy averted. But I really did love the real topic of your piece.
Supportive HusbandSeptember 2, 2024
My wife has always been a very private person as far as phone calls and emails. She plainly told me they were none of my business. Through the years I simply trusted her. She rarely if ever asks about my phone or email communique. We trust each other and give each other that bit of privacy. When a general authority preached that a man should be giving his wife all his passwords, my wife told me not to bother; she trusted me. Today my wife runs her Mental Health practice from her phone, and in the state we live in it would be illegal for me to have access to it as I am not employed by her practice. We simply continue to trust each other and give each other that much privacy.
Sherri FarrSeptember 1, 2024
Concern for Tina Descovich speaking at BYU education Week was much more than book bans and making fun of the groups name. I moved to Utah from Tennessee where this group made national news as they actively destroyed our school district meetings, attacking our school superintendent, teachers, librarians and curriculum. I suppose that is a parents right, but they have earned the accusation of being a hate group, And the participants didn’t have children in the school district. Yesterday they had their convention with President Trump speaking, and I would love you to look for the picture of our current president and vice president hanging in the foyer as everyone entered. Look up articles about it on AP News and other reputable sites. This is not a loving group of LDS mothers but a well funded extremist group. (If you can’t find the photo of the picture in the lobby, it is Kamala Harris over the carcass of a bald eagle, blood dripping from her mouth. In the corner is President Biden with a knife protruding from his back.. a large guild framed oil painting). Please do a little research.
E. Wm. JacksonAugust 31, 2024
A great conclusion to a remarkable series... so much exceptional food for thought in all essays - and examples to assist that thought . I especially enjoyed/needed the thoughts on "grandparenting". The Eyres are appreciated by our family. We need this series in boklet form for ease of distribution.
Lori DriggsAugust 31, 2024
Christ didn’t present the Plan the Father did!
ShaunaAugust 30, 2024
yes, there goes summer, but my childhood was full of all these "liberties," I fear that many kids are giving theirs away willingingly, in order to look at a screen
ShaunaAugust 30, 2024
Thank you, I look forward to it. And as for Brigham's critics, "President Hinckley recalled, “When I was a young man and was prone to speak critically, my father would say: ‘Cynics do not contribute, skeptics do not create, doubters do not achieve.’” (Cultivating an Attitude of Happiness and a Spirit of Optimism, Chapter 3 of Teachings of President Gordon B Hinckley) I stand in awe of all that Brigham accomplished in moving the Saints to Utah, colonizing the West, building temples, governing the state, but most of all, I honor him for his steadfast defense of Joseph Smith. He never faltered. Proud to be an alumnus of Brigham Young University, bearing his name. he wasn't perfect, but what a mighty tool in the Lord's hands
MaryannAugust 30, 2024
My Grandmother was only able to have one child, my father. Later, she also had one miscarriage, and then was unable to have any more children, although she yearned for them. Her miscarried pregnancy was advanced enough so that they could identify the fetus as female. I was my Father's firstborn, and my Mother felt very strongly that I was the spirit that my paternal Grandmother miscarried. My Mother was a very spiritual woman. Of course, we do not know for certain, but I believe my Mother was correct. My Grandmother and I were extremely close and very much alike. My mother was very sweet to my Grandmother, and allowed me to spend weeks with her, even as a very young child. I remember crying when I had to return home because home just seemed to be with my Grandmother. Yes, of course, Grandparents and Grandchildren are often very close, and share similar traits, but the bond between my Grandmother and I was unusually strong. I also looked VERY much like her (which I realized could just be because I was her Granddaughter). In the end, it doesn't really matter. I was sent to the family where I belonged, and I dearly loved both my Mother and my Grandmother. The key to peace in this matter is our trust in the Lord. We have been promised by General Authorities of the church that we will be thrilled with the final organization of our families if we keep our covenants. I have faith that all will be well, and everyone will be satisfied with the final outcome. It is also a beautiful truth that when family sealings are completed in perfection back to Adam, we are ALL sealed to one another---ALL the family of Adam and Eve.
Bruce MitchellAugust 29, 2024
Interesting that you would use as support information from The Heritage Foundation and The Washington Examiner. On the Harvard media bias graph both of these skew heavy right. Where is the support from more centrist media?
KatrinaAugust 29, 2024
Sweet stories, Lynne. Thank you for them. I hope you won't mind my saying so: here in America, the proper term is Down Syndrome, not Downs Syndrome.
MaryannAugust 29, 2024
My husband and I just celebrated 54 years of marriage, and I can certainly relate to the very hard struggles and the ups and downs in the marriage relationship. However, I do not intend to "hobble to the judgement seat, oozing infection." And, yes, our marriage WILL" win a prize for beauty." Our marriage, in fact, is the greatest beauty we have attained in this life. I am saddened that a person would believe they have to "stagger to heaven...filthy."
Lisa CroftAugust 29, 2024
It is interesting to imagine what happens to unborn babies. But, with regard to abortion, I think we need to consider the effects of abortion on the mother and the society that supports abortion without limits. Mothers suffer emotionally from abortion. That has not been acknowledged and many women suffer in silence. The loss of respect for life giving powers in our society has severe consequences, which has lead to the promotion of abortion from a profitable abortion industry as any easy solution to an unwanted consequence. Life is sacred in all its forms.
Steven PoulsonAugust 29, 2024
Please provide a citation for the Ezra Taft Benson quote regarding the Book of Mormon being a parallel to our day.
Rochelle HaleAugust 29, 2024
Yesterday we had a ladies' luncheon at the home of one of our ward members. It was lovely and attended by about 30 people. Sometimes I feel left out and don't feel like I do well in social situations. I prayed to have a good time and to be involved in conversation, etc. A much older friend invited me to sit by her. A fleeting thought was, "But I want to sit with women my own age." It turned out that we had four more seniors with limited mobility at our table. A few other ladies and I helped get food for them and responded to their every request throughout the gathering. We had delightful conversation with much laughter, plus I learned some additional ways that I can minister to these sisters.
CarolAugust 28, 2024
According to Topics and Questions under "War in Heaven," we are told that those who followed Satan before this life will not receive mortal bodies. This is also suggested in 2 Nephi 9. So if I understand correctly, only those of Heavenly Father's children who accepted His plan will come to earth and receive physical bodies. The rest remain as spirits, subject to Satan, with no physical body ever, and thus no resurrection.
Patricia HeatonAugust 28, 2024
It would stand to reason that not all spirits need the "mortal experience", especially given the fact of the innumerable deaths of little children throughout all mankind. All spirits, however, do need a physical body. Wouldn't a fetus, no matter how tiny, even at conception, constitute a body? Isn't that one of the main arguments we use against abortion? If that is true, why would a "fetus" need a second chance?
Robert David StarlingAugust 28, 2024
Regarding the "third part" (not necessarily one-third, but variable like the "first part" or "second part"?) of Heavenly Father's spirit children who were "cast out" ..... Although it was Father's *plan* that they all would receive a body (just as it is his plan for all of us to return to him, if we are obedient), they, like Lucifer, abrogated their part of that plan and forfeited their right to be embodied when they rebelled against Father's plan. At least that's how I understand it.
Renee RivardAugust 28, 2024
Prior to my husbands death from cancer he asked me where our boys were. I mentioned the whereabouts of our two sons and he became mildly annoyed. He asked where the other one was and assured me that we have 3 boys. I asked him, half jokingly, if he needed to tell me something and he very clear minded said “No”. I asked him what the other boys name is and he didn’t know. I had had one early miscarriage so I didn’t know the child’s gender. I realized that that was the child my husband was referring to. I named that child and believe he is ours eternally. And I also understood that no matter how developed he was, it was a body.
LoraAugust 28, 2024
My mother told me that while teaching a Relief Society class, the question came up about miscarriage. She remembered a quote by Brigham Young (or was it inspiration of her own), saying that these children don't need to be sealed to their mothers because they never left them. This brought great comfort to the sister who asked. I'm sure that when we get to the spirit world, there will be a way to access FAQs so we can get all the answers. In the meantime, we can trust our Heavenly Father, that everything will work out.
DianeAugust 28, 2024
I had an ectopic pregnancy. When I found out, my fallopian tube was on the verge of bursting. I did not pray about what to do or consult my bishop. Even waiting another hour or two would have resulted in my death. I was never able to have another child. (I had two already, but always wanted more.)
Harold RustAugust 28, 2024
Good questions you raise; however, there is a known that we do know and believe regarding each of these situations in which an innocent life was never allowed to experience mortal accountability: the truth that not only does God love all His children but also every action--good and bad---has eternal consequences which can only be "erased" through repentance and Christ's atonement. For those not personally accountable, then those who are accountable must deal with justice before mercy has any effect.
Eunice RobertsonAugust 28, 2024
I had 6 pregnancies, and have 3 living children. I often wonder if I will see those other 3 children one day.
BoBAugust 28, 2024
To Catherine Gardner, When I work out a contract or business agreement in my daily work, both parties must agree, if not there is no contract, so no, they will not. God will never force His will on someone else nor compel one into a contract. "It’s unclear in the book how this determination is made." It is made on an individual basis, one at a time, per the needs of that specific, individual Child of God.
Rochelle HaleAugust 28, 2024
As one who experienced difficulty bringing children into the world, I appreciate your article. As one who has done a fair amount of family history research and temple ordinances, I question your comment, "The Church does not record stillbirths or miscarriages on church membership records." Often in my research, I have seen children who died at birth (not miscarriages), and no temple ordinances are required or needed, except sealings (in the case of children not born under the covenant). I feel we live in a sad day when abortion seems to be the magic alternative to the beautiful life that God has ordained for us. In our politics, however, there seems to be a one-stop-shopping attitude, rather than an umbrella under which abortion might be an option under certain circumstances. I was speaking to a physician friend who told me that often doctors' hands are tied and often life-saving procedures are delayed because the term abortion is so broad, yet with no specific definition in many cases. Unfortunately, we live in a society where rules/commandments are questioned, and people want to do as they please (drinking, abortions, etc.) believing that they can seek a quick solution after the fact.
Daryl GibsonAugust 28, 2024
Thanks for this thoughtful summary. There are no easy answers. The Church position places responsibility (and consequences) on the parents, which is in line with the principle of agency. It is also clear in our doctrine that no spirit will be denied a mortal experience, however brief.
Ronald BarnesAugust 28, 2024
After losing our last child halfway through the pregnancy, I teased my wife that she might be resurrected pregnant. She did not find it funny, so i stopped.
KCAugust 28, 2024
Thank you for this insightful article. I just want to add that millions upon millions of abortions were not due to the parents but totalitarian govt. laws.
Catherine GardnerAugust 28, 2024
So does this mean that the third of the host who were cast out will one day receive a body if it is the plan that all if Heavenly Father's soirit children will experience mortality?
Ben JonesAugust 28, 2024
I remember many years ago that a legislator in Utah made a big stink about a book called "Americana" being in a school library. The result of his efforts to have the book removed only caused it to be read a lot more by people who wanted to find out what the big deal was.
Steve DoneganAugust 27, 2024
Your description of marriage reminds me of a song by Casting Crowns called, "Broken Together." I wish all could see marriage this way...
KarenAugust 27, 2024
Truthful, vulnerable authenic, and open. It describes what most marriages truly are behind our masks. Thank you so much. It’s a keeper. I want our married children and grandchildren to read this.
Ryan WhiteAugust 27, 2024
Very nicely written. It’s what makes love, marriage, and family worth it. Thank you for sharing!
HelenCAugust 27, 2024
My prayer is that many of the cherished elect deceived by modern Korihors will “See your good works and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” Matt 5:16
Susan StoddardAugust 27, 2024
Thank you for this beautiful article. It brought tears to my eyes and hope for my own marriage now that my husband has passed through the veil. We had our troubles, but stayed the course together. Thank you for your insight.
T. BarrettAugust 27, 2024
Could hardly finish reading for the tears. Thank you for this powerful description of married life. I read an article in a national publication a few years ago about 100 people, married over 50 years, who were interviewed and every single one said their marriages were the hardest and best thing they had accomplished in their lives.
Steph ZAugust 27, 2024
Kim, this is so beautiful. I cried. Thank you for being such a beautiful soul. ❤️❤️❤️
ValAugust 27, 2024
Kimberly, your talent is to help us all feel real. Thank you for sharing your reality and your journey together and your win. Love you both.
Greg DaltonAugust 27, 2024
I was a teenager when our family moved from New England to Puerto Rico in 1965. There were two tiny servicemen branches that met on the island (one at Ramey Air Force Base on the west end of the island and the other at Roosevelt Roads Naval Base at Fajardo on the east end of the island) and a third branch, the slighter larger but still tiny and mostly English speaking San Juan Branch that met in a military chapel at Fort Brooke at the edge of the grassy expanse that adjoins the El Morro fortress in Old San Juan. The chapel was located beneath the dome of the old and stately building that is now the Puerto Rico Academy of Fine Arts. On our first day attending church we were met outside the building with its views of the Atlantic ocean on one side and the San Juan harbor on the other and greeted by members with hugs and kisses. The hugs and kisses were a part of our every Sunday greetings for the seven years that we lived in Puerto Rico. The tradition lives on.
CarolynAugust 27, 2024
Thank you for this real & raw article. It is beautifully written and a true description of the journey of marriage. As I celebrate my 50th anniversary this week, I am humbled by this article. Thank you!
Ronald BarnesAugust 27, 2024
My testimony of the gospel is based on knowledge given me that the President of the Church is a true prophet. However, there have been times when prophets have confused me and have made me wonder, “Why?” Through prayer, personal revelation can answer that question and give us assurance of his words. Also, in any organization, there needs to be a central authority, otherwise, chaos reigns. In our case, that central authority is the First Presidency, led by the prophet. He will lead the church in the direction it should go, whether we follow him or not. We will always be better off if we do.
Wally GoddardAugust 26, 2024
Beautiful!
Rob McGhieAugust 26, 2024
This is beautiful and so true
CASAugust 26, 2024
My husband and I had many trials and setbacks as well as blessings in our 63 years of marriage. I hope you live long enough to be able to go through the refiner's fire in your marriage by caring for one another through old age and its many health issues and challenges as the end of earth's life for your mate draws near. In doing so in my experience, I found the purest of unconditional love and eternal blessings here on earth to tide me over until I can be with my one true eternal love again on the other side.
NancyAugust 26, 2024
This is so great! As an 83 year old who was married for 60 years prior to my husband's passing, I have never read a better description of marriage. It is true and honest. Was it worth the effort? Without question. I am thankful every day that we "stuck it out"...together! So worth it in the end.
EveAugust 26, 2024
Sometimes all you can say is, "Wow! Thank you!
StephanieAugust 26, 2024
This is so, so beautiful! I'm not one to easily tear up, but I did reading this. It is so raw and accurate. We put marriages on a pedestal in the church (a we should!), but we don't often teach of what this really looks/feels like. It's something that has to be lived to be understood and prized <3
Harold RustAugust 26, 2024
Wonderfully written; expresses the path followed by many of us "struggling" pilgrims.
JuliannAugust 26, 2024
Wow, that is powerful and introspective and touching. Thank you. You have put a chink in my heart wall.
AmyAugust 26, 2024
Fabulous description.
AlanAugust 26, 2024
This is one of the best things I have ever read on marriage. Thank you.
JoyceAugust 26, 2024
This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve read. Thanks Kimberly White
Annette AtwoodAugust 26, 2024
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this. This is so true of marriage. Nowadays people are so quick to walk away rather than stay and fight, piece it together and live to love another day. Thank you for this, it’s what I needed today.
Allen AAugust 24, 2024
My contempt for modern "journalists" grows every time I read one of their "news" stories. My Grandmother was a newspaper reporter before and during World War 1 and she would never have tolerated, much less written the kind of biased nonsense that most corporate "news" writers put out. The attacks on the "trad wife" people are like Lehi and Nephi's visions of the great and spacious building and the people mocking the followers of the iron rod.
KathleenAugust 24, 2024
What a privilege and joy you have to help influence young people.
No way could I put my name here and be shamed because of my thougths.August 23, 2024
I suffered 25 years of abusive behavior from my spouse, he was involved in porn, he hit the children and began to strike me. Then he put on a different face at church and to leadership. I stayed and suffered because of the sigma of divorce in the church. Sadly, my children suffered also. I attended the Temple for years with my friends as my spouse refused to attend. I sat on the porch much longer than I should have because of the attitudes like this author. While I usually enjoy reading this magazine, I think this particular commentary is shaming divorced members and displaying the non-divorced members as "I'm better than you" attitude. Honestly, shame on you for allowing this to be published.
Jenny SvendsenAugust 23, 2024
Thank you for such an enlightning article, I learned a lot, and it rang true to me.
LewisAugust 23, 2024
How can I not contribute? Your stories are moving exhibits of the gospel in action. It was the Savior who went among the poor and neglected, and the Book of Mormon is full of admonitions to extend our hand to the poor and needy. You are doing an extraordinary work, and my life is better for your constant lessons of service through your articles. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Charlotte FreeAugust 23, 2024
Your explanations seem more than speculation and I enjoyed some good pondering with your ideas. Thanks for that. I also appreciated that you came around to remind us that in the now can be instructional as well, as it should be for our progression. What gave me great peace, however, were your comments on Ministering Angels and how the time during the Millennium is offered toward "fairness" and, I would add "more mercy". My daughter is single and a teacher so it clicked immediately. I am a divorcee and, although I thought I would remarry, I have not felt inspired to do so. All in all I was grateful for your essay.
HelenCAugust 23, 2024
So thought-provoking! The combined gender possibility creates a little turmoil in my heterosexual soul but it also begs the question is Satan, as usual, perverting a sacred truth in order to justify destroying the lives of so many here on earth? He tried it at least once when he told Christ that He would not be harmed if He threw Himself from the tower of the temple because, “It is written . . . lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a stone.“ Matt 4:6 Still trying to turn light to darkness as when he promised “that not one soul shall be lost . . . wherefore, give me thine honor.”Moses 4:1
Corey D.August 23, 2024
In the modern world one of Satan's greatest tactics/success is the use of semantics. Back in the 70's you were pro-abortion or anti-abortion, then the term pro-abortion morphed into pro-choice, less harsh, even positive sounding and there are many others, gay marriage became marriage equality. When I was younger the word pornography you never heard, it was smut or dirty movies, magazines, etc., then pornography came into use and pretty soon it was soft porn or hard porn and then the term "adult material" came into use, again a much more acceptable term. Look at the drug problem and the terms and definitions used surrounding drug use and the changes and societal acceptance of in particular marijuana, mostly driven by how it gets worded or phrased anymore. Like Paul Harvey use to say, " it's sometimes not what you say that matters, but how you say it" and Satan is great at that.
Dr. MarLynn James, PhD. Physical ChemistAugust 22, 2024
Excellent article!
Joni HiltonAugust 22, 2024
Becky, you are one of the people I most admire!
Ronald BarnesAugust 22, 2024
I have been studying the sciences for over 60 years. Some of the things I have learned have helped me to better understand the gospel. I have concluded that true science and true religion will never contradict. Unfortunately, there are a lot of false scientific and religious beliefs that do. In the 1950’s, Immanuel Velikovsky, a religious, Jewish scientist, used science to prove how some of the miracles mention in the Bible were scientifically preformed. He stated that knowing how they happened did not lessen the miracle.
VjAugust 22, 2024
Question? So is the gospel of Abraham basically a reference to the Abrahamic Covenant?
Carlos RoundyAugust 21, 2024
Satan, claims that in the premortal life that the “Only Beloved”, stole his crown, and that Satan will do all in his power to get it back, Satan still believes that his plan is the best plan. He demanded that Moses worship him, Heavenly Father’s plan is agency, his plan is powered by love, he loves us. Satans plan is to divide us, Heavenly Father,s plan is to unite us. We each make the final choice of whom we will follow.
heather barthAugust 21, 2024
This list is powerful and enobling! We are truly blessed to have prophets, apostles, and leaders of the Church who encourage us to partake of all the promised blessings our Heavenly Father so desires to give us! Thank you for compiling!
Michael GelotteAugust 21, 2024
I had the privilege of studying Egyptian with Hugh Nibley. One text we read was “The Contention of Horus and Seth”. Horus was the beloved Son of God, and Seth (in other spellings Setek or Setan) was the evil brother. Seth is described as “overstepper of bounds”, “source of lies”, “deceiver from his mother’s womb”, “usurper of authority”, etc. Satan, indeed oversteps bounds, tries to usurp authority, and definitely deceives as often and as many as possible! Not only in the Bible, but in other ancient writings, the evil one is clearly known and warned against!
HelenCAugust 21, 2024
Thank you for not suggesting we bury negative thoughts without understanding them. They exist for a reason and hoping they’ll “just go away” defeats their purpose. Understood, they add to our strength.
Irene Clare Holmes TukuafuAugust 20, 2024
Oh, wow, the first time I read this. Being that my maiden name is Holmes, of course this caught my eye and reading. I know that Mark Twain also had some unkind words to say of the Mormons. And I thought this article was going to be about Mark Twain's writings. The used treadmill of untruth goes nowhere eventually. Thank you for the article.
Sandra HamiltonAugust 20, 2024
Great article, I did not know this and have read his novels.
Kathleen AndersonAugust 20, 2024
Thank you so much for sharing this list. As I read through it, tears came to my eyes because I could feel the inspiration in these words from scriptures quoted and from our leaders. I copied and pasted the promises, and will also share them with my grandchildren serving missions. Thanks again for your devotion in sharing the gospel and fortifying our faith through study.
GoodwinsAugust 20, 2024
Thinking that marriage will solve a pornography problem is not only incorrect but a rationalization to postpone working on the problem now. One book that helps people overcome rationalizing and is consistent with church values is Power Over Pornography. Its methodology is different than others, but works. I recommend it.
KathleenAugust 19, 2024
Thank you for identifying and reviewing these promises and blessings. We are abundantly blessed, particularly for temple work and worship, protecting us from the world and the adversary.
Linda K. SpoonerAugust 19, 2024
I know about the media. While we were living in Israel they showed a movie about us Latter-day Saints. I think it was Over the Mountain about a sister (author) whose husband left her for a man and how she learned how to forgive him. A few years later he found that he had aids. She took him in and nursed him until his death. The next shabbat we turned a corner by the Jerusalem Center and someone painted on a sign " Mormons have aids". That's all they took away from the movie but that. It is amazing what people think.
HelenCAugust 19, 2024
The only thing we can offer is out in examples. A friend of mine said one of his friends was passing a Reorganized LDS church and went in, thinking it was ours. He soon realized my friend would not believe such stuff and walked out.
kjcoAugust 19, 2024
I think along the lines of the quote from Parley Pratt--"continued exertions" of "creative power" by which millions of new worlds will yet be formed and peopled, not just by God the Father, but also by king Adam and his descendants.”[6] What does it take to be creative? what do we need to learn enough? Does God give us practice? Does everything in eternity all happen at once? Most of the questions I find are in themselves limiting--and the answers then become limited and less than useful. I appreciate the comment by James Stuart Brown when he said"Boredom is a function of our own limitations." We are limiting ourselves!!! The frightening irony about less than faith filled lines of self-limiting questions and statements is that the boredom will come from being STUCK without the power of God to progress and continue EXPANDING our worlds in whatever way shape or form that is. The Celestial world is the only one that is unbounded and open to all possibilities! By purposely choosing a lesser existence because we haven't put the time and effort and desire into gaining personal revelation as to what might be in store or what our possibilities are is actually purposely choosing to confine ourselves to an existence that was prepared for those who don't trust God enough to believe what great things he has in store and settling in the most permanent way possible. That will get old FAST.
Corey D.August 18, 2024
With very, very few exceptions, marriage is the hardest thing I've done in my life. I have seen and do see so much divorce around me, in fact have two sons going through it. Way to many of the young couples in the church getting divorced. I think in the church we have unintentionally taught the idea that if you get married in the temple all will be well and their won't be any problems. President Hinckley once gave a talk in which he stated, "marriage takes work, hard work", I was glad he said that.
BobbieAugust 18, 2024
All of our relationships cannot be saved. Perhaps you need to conduct some extensive research into the terrible reality that accompanies marriage to someone with a personality disorder. Lying, gaslighting, violence or the threat of violence directed at the spouse and children. Worst of all was the very successful manipulation of Church leaders, getting them to participate in manipulating me. The Church was used as a weapon against me. So yes, sometimes permanent separation from your spouse is necessary and temporary removal from the priesthood leaders who believe every thought that passes through their heads must be inspired by God.
Gary Stroble, W9NRAugust 18, 2024
Cell phones, cordless phones and handheld two-two radios can be safely used indoors or in an enclosed vehicle during a thunderstorm, as long as they are not attached to any type of outside antenna.
Geraldine HamiltonAugust 17, 2024
Being called and set apart as a missionary is done by and through the Melchizedek priesthood power. It is a great blessing to you as you serve in your assignments under the guidance of a called and set apart Mission President and his wife. When you have competed your mission and are released, you no longer need to have the blessing of being called and set apart as a missionary. It is a real thing and needs to be understood as such. Being down after being released is normal and will resolve with time and finding new goals and activity.
RoxanneAugust 17, 2024
Thank you for your wisdom.
Douglas NadybalAugust 16, 2024
Corey D, I would ask you what Church other than the LDS even teaches that there is a mother in heaven? If anything, it is a bible problem, in that the only real reference to Her is that all of the spiritual sons and daughters of God were created in their image (Genesis), and after that really nothing in the bible. My personal opinion is that the lack of focus on her is a part of the apostacy, because in early Judaic thought, she was definitely present, more so than what is presented in the present day bible. God the Father and His Son have their names trashed and taken in vain a billion times a day, and for that reason alone, I am glad her name and Person is shielded.
Douglas E NadybalAugust 16, 2024
So, if I understand it WITHELD, the Lord has a slightly more inclusive definition of understanding than your immediate family, or in your case ex family. You have parents, grand parents, great grand parents, maybe some brothers, sisters, cousins, nieces, nephews, all important people in their own right. I don't want to down play your pain, it is legit, but there are a host of other worthy people that in eternal sense are our will become your family. Ignoring those possibilities by focusing on your pain, might just cause more pain. As in all things, the wild card is free agency, and as the person who also addressed you, the compensation for the craziness comes later.
Linda Cropper ChristensenAugust 16, 2024
Thanks Tanya for reminding us how precious memories are and that we can record them. What an amazing woman you met.
Rochelle HaleAugust 16, 2024
Boredom in the Celestial Kingdom? I think it beats sitting on a cloud and playing a harp for all eternity. Seriously, we have so much more to learn and so much has not yet been revealed. I believe we will be engaged in a lot of work and serious study, but we put that in the perspective of our mortal minds rather than what celestial beings will be capable of. To me it seems quite fascinating. Does my world have to have mice or worms? How many different kinds of apples are required? Most importantly, we will be with our Heavenly family and our loved ones.
DebbieAugust 15, 2024
There are so many things we do not know about the hereafter. Corinthians 2:9 “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him,” intimates that there is more to the story that we have no concept about! The experience of the Nephites and Lamanites was so profound from being in a Gods (Christs) presence, and hearing and seeing what they did… that they had peace for almost 200 years. Might as well live to obtain ALL the blessings so you can have the have the ability to choose something lesser, than to forfeit any potential for those blessings by giving up now (when you can’t even fathom what the Lord lovingly has instore for us)! Don’t forget the power of The Savior to redeem and exalt those now problematic children! Nor what capacity for joy and peace that an exalted being is capable of. As far as boredom goes. Just think of the endless variety of creative opportunities that are in store in Eternity! Think WAY outside the Eternity box on this one!
JayAugust 15, 2024
Maybe it might be fair to consider one more truth to understand what exaltation, or what God's life is really like. Elder Holland taught in "Of Souls, Symbols, and Sacraments" that we are never more like our Father in Heaven than when we are participating in creating the lives of our children. He further explains that "Father" is the name that He prefers over all others. President Nelson further suggests that while Salvation (eternal life in the celestial kingdom) is an individual matter, exaltation is a "family matter." In other words, when we grasp that being promised the promises in the sealing ordinance, they are not centered on the creation of kingdoms, or worlds for creation sake, but in the creation and nurturing of life eternally and that the state of exaltation is most certainly about having the "seeds forever." Logically, with that view, the creation of places "for (our children or seed) to dwell, is simply a necessary byproduct as a means not an end in and of itself. That thought suggests that in this sense our motives should not and will not center on physical creation of planets and worlds in and of themselves. As section 49 says, the earth was created so that a man and women could get married and have an earthly family. If we don't want to create children in eternity, we most certainly will not create life with God forever and by extension, there will be no opportunity to create worlds for those who don't want to be heavenly parents in an eternal chain of "gods with a little 'g'." To be "gods" is to be parents...period, there is no other way or purpose under heaven than that. My conclusion, being an eternal parent is what it means to receive "all the blessings of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob" and what is means when we read that Abraham sought the "blessings of the fathers."
CSAugust 15, 2024
To your concluding statement, "And my guess is that most of you have never worried much about being 'bored in eternity,'" I think about it ALL the time. I'm not sure I want to build worlds, but I do want to reside in the Celestial Kingdom. I do want to be sealed to a good and worthy spouse to make up for the unworthy spouse I was sealed to on Earth. I wish for the blessings of the Celestial Kingdom -- but I would also like to know I can read a book once in a while or take a vacation to visit other worlds and not just be a Worker Bee for eternity, and especially not be obligated to pop out spirit babies for eternity. Maybe I'll feel differently when I'm there, but right now, I both look forward to being in the Celestial Kingdom and also dread it just a little bit. I HOPE HOPE HOPE there is more to it than it sounds like there is.
Shalissa LindsayAugust 15, 2024
Thanks for your treatment of this question, which comes up so often! I would like to add something I wrote myself several years ago: "Modern prophets teach that we are gods in embryo, so let’s first think about that comparison for a moment. Embryos (or at least fetuses) already share much of the physical anatomy of their parents and soon begin to have some of the same capabilities, such as movement, hearing, and even very limited sight. But while embryos carry the raw DNA potential to become adults, they hardly have an adult-like existence. Embroyos don’t eat salsa, tell jokes, build snow forts, play the guitar, light fireworks, polka, or hit home runs. They don’t drive, ski, invent, paint, congregate, quilt, procreate, play basketball, hike, bicycle, or compose music. Thousands of joys specific to adult life are simply unknown to the babe in a womb, or even to a toddler. If you described to a fetus the process of birth, it might sound hellish. No more umbilical cord or warm amniotic fluid? Mother far away? No thank you. I’ll just stay right here as long as possible. In the same way, the vast majority of celestial joys and capabilities must be simply beyond our wildest imaginations at this embryonic stage of our existence." (From the book Answers Will Come, p.83)
James Stuart BrownAugust 15, 2024
I greatly enjoyed the article as it is something I have pondered and prayed about for a long time. It makes sense that even within the Celestial Kingdom there will be numerous levels and roles. Not everyone will become a "CEO" comparable to Elohim. It is unlikely that the Final Judgement will be an "all or nothing" sort of thing. We know a little about three levels within the Celestial Kingdom. Those are probably Macro Divisions with their own entry criteria and some room for progression. There may be many further levels of differentiation. Pres Nelson's training at the University of Minnesota was a 7-year program with a few dropping out each year. The seventh-year finishers were considered capable of being University Program Chairs (or a Prophet in his case). There may be 7 levels after Celestial selection. There may be many more than 7 before someone has graduated to the level of Elohim. What will they concern themselves about? Maybe they will work to solve the issue of implosion of the existing universe, or relationship with an adjoining member of the Multiverse. Who knows, certainly not me. Boredom is a function of our own limitations.
Rochelle HaleAugust 15, 2024
Where are we without faith? We stagnate. We prevent ourselves from progressing. We lose the opportunities to learn and experience joy, even though there might be challenges in our path. When my husband and I struggled to have children we didn't give up. We sought counseling, medical treatment, and support groups of people going through similar experiences. Of course, we continued our prayers. When my mother became ill we didn't expect to lose her so quickly, yet my faith propelled me through many decisions that had to be made, and that guidance would come in many areas where we did not yet have the answers or know where to turn for her physical, medical, and end-of-life care.
KathleenAugust 15, 2024
Beautiful!
LauraAugust 14, 2024
Thank you for this thoughtful reflection, Kathy. The gospel path is sure, and most definitely worth keeping on!
DIANE ROBERTSAugust 14, 2024
I love this talk, the Lord used it to send me a message. My husband had been ill for 18 months and had taken a drastic downturn a week before Conference. I was sitting on our bed next to him watching Conference knowing he was dying as he had been asleep for three and a half days. When Elder Kearon's talk ended, so did my husbands sojourn in this life. I knew there was significance in his talk at the time and didn't know the name of it and it took a couple of weeks before I was able to listen to it again but it is of great comfort to me. I know where my husband is and I am very grateful for the restored gospel and ongoing revelations which give me knowledge to help me be worthy of joining my husband one day.
LynnAugust 14, 2024
Loved this story. I have done this the better part of my life. Thanks for it and all you do!
Doris WilliamsAugust 14, 2024
Thank you Scot for the amazing pictures of those pyramids...the story line too. I especially loved the close-up of the stones in the great pyramid. Yes, you two have been to some amazing places. Thank you deeply for letting us tag along and enjoy the spirit of your journeys, as well as the sites (sights!) Your photos of Joseph's Nauvoo and environs will always be in my memory.
JillAugust 14, 2024
Elder Kearon was so calming, reassuring, and clear with his message. It's good to see the visuals to match with his words. Thank you!
Phil AndrewsAugust 13, 2024
It's actually a little smaller than the Nauvoo Temple. Just do a google drive by of that temple, at 500 feet away, and you'll see that its footprint is much smaller than shown on the deceptive website that the opposition folks created and disseminated to the residents and town leaders. Also Nauvoo is a much smaller town than Fairview.
WallyAugust 13, 2024
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Debrah RoundyAugust 13, 2024
4th mission with my hubby, working hard and enjoying making a small bit of God's Kingdom a better place.
Richard TrippAugust 12, 2024
That was a powerful defense of the Book of Mormon leaders. Thanks Duane
Marilynne LinfordAugust 12, 2024
A lot of fun to read and see. Thanks Scot.
GayeAugust 12, 2024
P. Snow-- CES stands for Church Education System. The title is based on him sending the letter to an employee of the system--either a seminary or institute teacher. ____ Thank you for this great article!
Antonio ArreolaAugust 10, 2024
Excellent, thanks for sharing and I look forward to the second essay very soon.
Jessica WhitakerAugust 10, 2024
They were going to deny it before the meeting started. It didn't matter what anyone said. The money to fight it had been found.
MaryannAugust 9, 2024
Excellent counsel. I also think it is helpful to remember that people sometimes show anger when they are very frightened or insecure about something. For example--financial stress. When we realize the root of their anger is fear, we will better understand the emotion beneath words that sound like an attack.
Scott HoskinsAugust 9, 2024
I had wonderful grandparents, not perfect, but I knew they loved me. My children did not. My wife and I are trying to be good grandparents, and I hope we're succeeding. This article helps clarify what's needed. Thank you!
MaryannAugust 9, 2024
People who read the Book of Mormon and pray daily, and cleave to the words of our living prophets will not be deceived. The Book of Mormon teaches repeatedly about the techniques of those who seek to deceive. It is a prophetic warning for our day. The words linked with the word "deceiving" in Book of Mormon scriptures are: "lying", "flattering words," vain words," "deceiving to destroy," " to lead away," "deceived by the power of the devil," "cunning words," "craftiness," "fair promises." It is interesting to note that after the sign was given of Christ's birth in 3rd Nephi, Ch 1, that deceivings increased. We know that our Savior's second coming is near. Is it any wonder that Satan has launched a renewed and deadly attack to deceive and lead away members of the church, as well as the world? Is it any wonder that deceivings are increasing in this momentous Saturday night in time? The Doctrine and Covenants is also filled with many warnings of deceivings occurring in the last days, and specific ways we can avoid deception. D&C 45:57 teaches us that those who are NOT deceived are "they that are wise and have received the Holy Spirit for their guide..." This is the day that we must cleave unto our sacred covenants, the Holy Scriptures, especially the Book of Mormon, and the words of living prophets. We also need to pray for those who are being deceived that their eyes will be opened to truth, and that they will return. As true followers of Jesus Christ, continuing to love them is essential.
MaryannAugust 9, 2024
Good grief! Our world has gone CRAZY! I feel like I have been dropped into a "twilight zone." Women are women, and men are men. Does it really require an explanation as to why they should not compete in sports?!
HelenCAugust 9, 2024
Thank you for bringing this article to my attention. I was able to read and comment on it in the original source. As a British-born, lifelong member of the Church I was able to reminisce about small congregations meeting in rented houses in the late 1950s and early 1960s before we emigrated to Australia where I later met my American husband and then moved to Oregon. 5th generation Latter Day Saints are rare in England!
Ronald BarnesAugust 9, 2024
I believe it is human nature is to live in three generational family groups. We mature physically long before we mature intellectually or socially. I believe we are meant to have children in our later teen years, and to raise them with the assistance and guidance of our own parents, who we still live with. With our now longer lifespan, we push back child baring five to ten years, but I believe the three generational principal still applies.
CECAugust 8, 2024
Very encouraging and helpful. Thank you for your profound message. I love to hear/read all of your talks,Elder Kearon.
Douglas NadybalAugust 8, 2024
Evidently God loves us enough to send us to earth with the option to self destruct if we so choose. But we, unlike God, are not all knowing, even in our love for others. We presume to think we know what is best for others thus assuming the role of God. Some choices are clearly destructive and we may confidently advise on. Others may involve seeking to impose our will on a loved one. At the end of the day, God affirms our agency, no matter what. Affirming others can simply be no more than affirming the consequences of their choices. I would rather affirm someone than walk away them feeling unloved.
Paula SnowAugust 8, 2024
I believe my father loved the Book of Mormon, not only for its teachings, but also for the truths it taught about war. He flew 27 missions over the European Theater as a waste gunner and a radio operator. For him, and many others in war situations , the Book of Mormon has given peace and light concerning forgiveness to those who had no choice but to fight for their country.
Neal C.August 8, 2024
I did not serve a mission, but did serve in the Navy and more than 50 years later still feel the pull of the sea. One observation I have about return missionaries is that they are mentally older, more mature than their friends and others who didn't serve a mission. They won't quite fit in with this group, and that can be a part of their grief.
D MackeyAugust 8, 2024
Thank you for this thought provoking article. Joseph Smith is truly the key prophet of the last dispensation and stands as a great example of a presidential candidate who revered the US Constitution as a means of protecting minority rights as well as the majority. And let us not forget the sacred record known as The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ that came through his instrumentality and was preserved and given for us in our day, in part to help expose the secret combinations that would plague our government prior to the Second Coming of Christ.
John C. GreeneAugust 8, 2024
I am reminded of that dialogue between Jesus and his disciples wherein he asks, “Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?” What follows is a very purposeful instruction from the Lord on the key to discerning truth from error. The answers to that question offered by “flesh and blood” all had the ring of possibility, of plausibility, of context to men. But they were all wrong. Then Jesus asked, “But whom say ye that I am?” Peter answered with clarity “Thou art the Christ, the Son of the living God.” What a contrast. Peter knew the truth in spite of the fog of the opinions of men, of uninspired error, and of unbelief. Then the Lord gives them – and us – the key to discerning truth from error: “Bless art thou, Simon Barjona: for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven” (Matthew 16:13-17). Unfortunately, some in my own ward, and in my own family, have been influenced by “flesh and blood” and have fallen away. Elder Bednar taught that the oil which the foolish virgins lacked was the “oil of conversion.” They were not sufficiently converted to the doctrine of Christ. The oil of conversion doesn’t come, can’t come, from “flesh and blood.” It comes from the Father. If we would not fall ourselves in these last days, and if we can have any hope of reclaiming those who have, we must order our lives so that our knowledge of the truth is, as with Peter, revealed to us by our Father in heaven.
Debra MackAugust 8, 2024
Yep - awesome. Beautifully done
P. SnowAugust 7, 2024
What does CES stand for??
D MackeyAugust 7, 2024
Thank you for this thought provoking article. Joseph Smith is truly the key prophet of the last dispensation and stands as a great example of a presidential candidate who revered the US Constitution as a means of protecting minority rights as well as the majority. And let us not forget the sacred record known as The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ that came through his instrumentality and was preserved and given for us in our day, in part to expose the secret combinations that would plague our government prior to the Second Coming of Christ.
Maurine Jensen ProctorAugust 7, 2024
Maria, In the article I listed several rebuttals with hot links, including Sarah Allen's extensive work. The topic of this article was not about the answers to his questions, which have been answered many times. Instead it was about how his story made vulnerable people susceptible to his specious work.
BobAugust 7, 2024
I first encountered anti material 50 years ago on my mission. When I read Runnell's lengthy letter I was surprised to see so many of the things I heard back then. Much of what passes for new information is simply warmed over material from Joseph Smith's time. I also found his "questions" to be framed in authoritative language that make them appear as credible statements rather than questions from an earnest seeker. His fabrication has been the instrument in a few of my wife and my family to lose their faith and leave the church. It is heartbreaking, especially since it's been so thoroughly refuted over the decades (I've read a couple of the refutations of Runnell's document as well). The difficulty is, for every page of Runnell's false claims it takes many pages to properly refute it. Many who read the CES letter and then claim to have deeply studied the matter, don't have the desire and patience to read the refutations (where they can gain a real education on the subjects). I'm old enough to speak authoritatively myself when I say, It's a bunch of hooey! Hopefully this latest discrediting of Runnell and his motives will stem the tide of the CES letter's reach.
MariaAugust 7, 2024
All this article did was question the author himself. Where is the rebuttal to the letter? Have you read all 138 pages? Have you checked the references in it? Have you found the answers to the questions posed in the letter? Disparaging someone's character does not in fact prove the letter is false.
RaymondAugust 7, 2024
Several podcasts discuss topics raised by the "CES Letters" from a faithful perspective with Latter-day Saint scholars, including: https://www.cesletters.org/
Ronald BarnesAugust 7, 2024
In the 1975 film JESUS OF NAZARETH, Ernest Borgnine played the centurion at the foot of the cross. No one was on the cross, so he was told to look up at the chalk mark the director had placed on it. These are his words, as published in Guidepost, March 1989: “Then it happened. As I stared upward, instead of the chalk mark, I suddenly saw the face of Jesus Christ, lifelike and clear. It was not the features of Robert Powell I was used to seeing, but the most beautiful, gentle visage I have ever known. Pain-seared, sweat-stained, with blood blowing down from thorns pressed deep, His face was still filled with compassion. He looked down at me through tragic, sorrowful eyes with an expression of love beyond description. Then His cry rose against the desert wind. Not the voice of Zeffirelli, reading from the Bible, but the voice of Jesus Himself: "Father, into Thy hands I commend My spirit." In awe I watched Jesus' head slump to one side. I knew He was dead. A terrible grief welled within me, and completely oblivious to the camera, I started sobbing uncontrollably. "Cut!" yelled Zeffirelli. Olivia Hussey and Anne Bancroft were crying too. I wiped my eyes and looked up again to where I had seen Jesus - He was gone. Whether I saw a vision of Jesus that windswept day or whether it was only something in my mind, I do not know. It doesn't matter. For I do know that it was a profound spiritual experience and that I have not been quite the same person since. I like to think that I'm more forgiving than I used to be. As that centurion learned 2,000 years ago, I too have found that you simply cannot come close to Jesus without being changed.”
K WilliamsAugust 7, 2024
Sadly, a number of my acquaintances had read and believed the many half-truths and outright fabrications. I had attempted to explain that the letter existed to lead them astray, not to assist in finding answers to their questions. I was too late. I am grateful for those who made the time to research answers to the questions, but more to research the lies behind the letter. Thanks for sharing.
Douglas NadybalAugust 7, 2024
The odd thing about the entire CES matter to me is it leads clearly to one of two facts about the writer of the letter. (1) he is either an atheist who says it is impossible to believe in a god who does such mean things, or (2) he does believe in a god who does mean things. The mean things refer to the Bible, and is thus an attack on all of Christianity, we should not feel singularly oppressed. Its actually flattering in a way, in that his leverage to get at god by focusing on the LDS Church, as if we are anything but a small fraction of several billion Christians. In my view, the CES is just regurgitated atheism, which by definition says god does not exist, therefore could not have done any of those mean things, The fiction is the writer of the CES letter, this person does not exist, he is a fake.
Douglas NadybalAugust 7, 2024
This is not a recent phenomenon. I observed moderate depression in a college mate when he returned. His brother also had returned about two years earlier, and was still showing signs of severe depression. His own explanation was the he felt he was living so close to the Spirt while on his mission, so that his life now despite his efforts was not anywhere close to this. This was in the early 1980's. The only phenomenon noteworthy is that it just being more fully recognized, which is really an admitting that we have not been living inside of reality.
Jessie GriffithAugust 7, 2024
I have known Mark many years through the LDS Twelve Step program. He is an inspiration to many and a man of integrity. He's like a father figure to me. Gentle giant with a tender heart and a lot of life experience.
Michele SundstromAugust 7, 2024
Thank you, Maureen, for summarizing the findings of this report and making it accessible to so many. The findings of this report need to be spread abroad to inoculate those who may not yet have stumbled across this calculated effort to lead innocent truth seekers astray.
John A WarnickAugust 7, 2024
TY. Great summary of this epic effort to respond to the CES Letter. It's so sad that so many have lost their testimonies as a result of Runnell's "honest questioning". But I believe the Church is moving forward, as Joseph Smith prophesied, and that the CES Letter ultimately will make us a stronger, more compassionate community.
Tim ErnstAugust 7, 2024
Interesting. For those who have not been following the "Critical text" of the Book of Mormon previously, this short article is very informative and condenses a lot of information into a brief synopsis. Dr. Peterson is extremely careful in what he writes, and I am certain that he is only trying to articulate what Royal Skousen and Stanford Carmack have discovered while actually adding very little of his own perspective regarding this achievement. That being said, it seems apparent from the other comments that readers are not fully understanding the import, let alone the impact that this research is going to provide. Nowhere does Dr. Skousen say that the Book of Mormon is not inspired. In fact, quite opposite, I believe that Dr. Skousen will be the first to admit that the book is divinely inspired. What he is noting is the presence of particular words and word forms which are indicative of a process which is not fully understood at the present time. In this excellent article, Dr. Peterson is just advising us in shorthand fashion of the opportunities that this complex work will engender for us in the coming years and decades. Yes, as Joseph Smith testified, the Book of Mormon is inspired and has been translated by the gift and power of God. No, we do not understand everything or even exactly what that statement means or how the gift and power was manifest. The "Critical Text" of the Book of Mormon will ultimately help us understand the translation process a little better, though. Of this, I am certain.
PamAugust 7, 2024
So why not add a category for men who have transitioned to women and keep sports fair for women? If the “world” is going to say there are more than 2 genders, then make that third gender category for sports. But isn’t it INTERESTING that no women who say they are men are trying to compete against biological men. I do not believe there are more than 2 genders but if the world sports authorities want to keep women’s sports safe and fair then they should step up and make the needed changes.
Stephen JanickyjAugust 7, 2024
While I agree with article and the importance of the issues involved, the article is not being honest when discussing the IBA. IBA is Russian led and has a history of corruption and especially poor judging by officials at previous Olympics. It was given several opportunities to reform but did not do so. Several national boxing organisations including US and U.K. supported the IOC removing the right to organise Olympic boxing and have established an organisation to rival the IBA.
Elder Russell CannonAugust 6, 2024
Thanks for the great article, as current Service Mission Leaders we have many missionaries that started as teaching missionaries and then transferred home as service missionaries. These transfer missionaries can go through the same stages of grief as they mourn the loss of having a constant companion and a rigid daily schedule. Your outlined steps can help as they pour their energy into being the Lord’s hands in addition to working with local teaching missionaries to continue their teaching.
Kent BrooksbyAugust 6, 2024
Well said, but I wonder why this is a somewhat recent phenomenon? I mean, in my generation we returned from missions, went back to school, found sweethearts, married, and started a family and career. I never heard of anyone feeling grief over a mission ending until recently! What has happened to make the youth of today feel so lost after a mission experience? What changed? That would be something worth researching. Thanks for a thought provoking article.
Lawrence James NielsenAugust 6, 2024
Thank you for article. I helped me understand what had happened to so many of the missionaries I had served with, and shows me how blessed I was to return home and have employment waiting for me, a former teacher and and Aaronic Priesthood teacher who enrolled me in school as a surprise ministering action, and former fiancé who took me under her wing and married me. Within three days of deplaning, I was employed, going to school at night, and preparing to get married (our temple marriage took place 5 months and 29 days after I returned home). I missed my mission, the people, and my companions and friends, but I stepped right into next stage of life with the help of those good friends and loving people to whom I returned.
Richard HolmesAugust 6, 2024
In my faith the Holy Ghost is a Ghost. Since he has exaltation, then he has to be in an eternal marriage according to D&C 131. And he has to have been given and kept faithfully his Second Estate as Abraham, Isaac and Jacob (D&C 132:37). Brigham, who prepared the endowment ceremony as directed by Joseph, taught that Michael, who became Adam, was a resurrected Being who had been faithful to his Savior on a previous earth. And he is the Father of spirits, Jesus being his firstborn Spirit. So Adam is the perfect one to be the Holy Ghost, temporarily leaving his immortal body to comfort his spirit children, teach them and be the Holy Spirit of Promise to seal their covenants.
David Bryan SmithAugust 6, 2024
So true! Well written. These are indeed the latter days. I testify that prayer is a mighty tool for all of us in our everyday day lives.
Cynthia CAugust 6, 2024
An important subject well-addressed. Thank you!
SfischAugust 6, 2024
Sad time in America
Ornella Maria BrennaAugust 6, 2024
When I discovered the Church I was already married, but in my heart there has always been the desire to carry out a mission. So, once I was retired and alone I decided to serve a mission in the Temple. It was a very intense period full of spirituality, and the return home was very hard. I understood why many brilliant young missionaries, when they return home, end up distancing themselves from the Church. It's true: it's mourning! Even though I was aware of this, I struggled to recover: I often felt empty and without purpose…until I decided to serve another service mission from home, for FamilySearch. Thank you for this article, which I will pass on to the family members of a young woman who has recently returned, because they may be of help to her. Ornella - Palo di Milano Ovest- Italia
RobinAugust 6, 2024
Glad to see that you have included S-Anon literature in your resources. don't see a link to S-Anon.org, or to any "S" programs, but only the SAL program. That looks great, but it may be useful to provide information to those other foundational programs as well, which have been in existence for many decades.
Dave HansenAugust 6, 2024
Thank you for that article regarding the Widow's Mite. The one thing I wish they would have added is a photo of the anchor side. I have my own mite, but not access to the equipment to show it as nicely as the photos show in the article. For those interested in seeing the reverse side, simply do an internet search for images of a widow's mite. Be aware that there are variations of the details, as well as some that are struck off center or not as round as one would expect. Furthermore, mites are very old, but not necessarily rare.....millions must have been coined. However, they were obviously easy to lose, due to their small size......which is approximately an either of an inch in diameter smaller than a dime. (Mine is 13 mm, or slightly more than a half inch.)
S LindsayAugust 5, 2024
I apologize that my other comment omitted the source of the additional quotes: They are both from the manual of the Teachings of Brigham Young (chapter 38... It's in your gospel library app).
S LindsayAugust 5, 2024
I would add these favorite related quotes from Brigham Young about the Spirit World: "I can say with regard to parting with our friends, and going ourselves, that I have been near enough to understand eternity so that I have had to exercise a great deal more faith to desire to live than I ever exercised in my whole life to live. The brightness and glory of the next apartment is inexpressible. It is not encumbered so that when we advance in years we have to be stubbing along and be careful lest we fall down. We see our youth, even, frequently stubbing their toes and falling down. But yonder, how different! They move with ease and like lightning. If we want to visit Jerusalem, or this, that, or the other place—and I presume we will be permitted if we desire—there we are, looking at its streets. If we want to behold Jerusalem as it was in the days of the Savior; or if we want to see the Garden of Eden as it was when created, there we are, and we see it as it existed spiritually, for it was created first spiritually and then temporally, and spiritually it still remains. And when there we may behold the earth as at the dawn of creation, or we may visit any city we please that exists upon its surface. If we wish to understand how they are living here on these western islands, or in China, we are there; in fact, we are like the light of the morning. … God has revealed some little things, with regard to his movements and power, and the operation and motion of the lightning furnish a fine illustration of the ability of the Almighty (DBY, 380)." "We have more friends behind the veil than on this side, and they will hail us more joyfully than you were ever welcomed by your parents and friends in this world; and you will rejoice more when you meet them than you ever rejoiced to see a friend in this life; and then we shall go on from step to step, from rejoicing to rejoicing, and from one intelligence and power to another, our happiness becoming more and more exquisite and sensible as we proceed in the words and powers of life (DBY, 379–80)."
BeckiAugust 5, 2024
Your statement “ Trump has already promised revenge if elected” is incorrect. He said his revenge will be his success. Meaning in turning our country around from the disaster of the Biden administration. Were you better off 4 years ago? I know I was. That’s what he will do again. Also, J6 was planned as another way to destroy him. You should do some more research on that. There were plenty of people there who were paid to cause the destruction. Even inviting people in. It’s all on video. I hope one day the truth will be revealed. Other than that for me, it’s a good article.
ElisabethAugust 5, 2024
From later in the article: “It is awesome that 31,000 people wished President Nelson a happy 100th birthday,” said Elder Kevin W. Pearson, the Utah Area President. “What would be even more awesome is if now we would all consider giving him the birthday present that he’s asked for. What he wants is for each one of us to reach out to someone in love and compassion and help and support — reach out to the one.”” It was a nice gesture, but the organizers seem to have missed the point.
BeckyAugust 5, 2024
This article is very honest and insightful. Thank you for these words of wisdom!
Sasha William KwapinskiAugust 3, 2024
I was around during the 1960's to see the beginnings of the decline of liberal churches, and I was part of that "out-migration." As the article points out, the Episcopal, Methodist (UMC) and other mainline liberal denominations have been declining in real numbers, ranging into the millions of members, from that time up to the current day.
Wendi WilckenAugust 3, 2024
Fun idea! I love how creative the YSAs are! We signed and wish Present Nelson a wonderful 100th birthday!
Corey D.August 2, 2024
In The Story of Civilization, which has been considered one of the preeminent analysis's of the world's civilization's, Will and Ariel Durrant, who were agnostics, make a point that when it came down to it, there really were not too many factors or causes of societal downfall or a civilization's failing but one of those causes/reasons that was a factor, was when a society/civilization tried to redefine family, we are certainly there.
Kent BrooksbyAugust 2, 2024
"The Book of Mormon is a creative and cultural translation of what was on the plates, not a literal one. Based on the linguistic evidence, the translation must have involved serious intervention from the English-language translator, who was not Joseph Smith." Royal Skousen, "The History of the Text of the Book of Mormon, Part Five This alone is enough for me not to care one bit about any of Royal Skousen's thoughts on the Book of Mormon and its origin. Call me old fashioned, but I still believe that Joseph Smith was and is a prophet of God.
Rick LiederAugust 2, 2024
Thanks very much, Holly! We’re hoping to spread the word on all our important pollinators.
Rob McGhieAugust 2, 2024
Excellent and well researched article. I wish everyone could read this.
Maurine Jensen ProctorAugust 1, 2024
This isn't what the Lord says in Doctrine and Covenants 98. It is not what is reflected in the Book of Mormon, where a just war was only a defensive war.
Ned ScarisbrickAugust 1, 2024
The basic foolproof way to stop invasion wars is to go up against your enemy with massive overwhelming firepower. At least double what you think it would take to win. You only have to do this twice. The first time the world will think it is just an aberration and your country will get back to normal. The second time you do it the world will never go up against you again because even barbarians understand obliteration....harsh but tirue
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
Sometimes it is difficult to have patience when our prayers seem unanswered. Perhaps that difficulty is part of the test. If answers come to easily we might not be learning the lesson of seeking and waiting.In some cases, perhaps the Lord is letting us wait for an answer because he knows we can find it ourselves with scripture study, discernment from the Spirit and the application of gospel principles.
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
Definitely happy 100th birthday to President Nelson. Yet, trying to get enough signatures to make the Guiness Book of World Records reflects the problem of seeking accolades of a secular world and almost seems to reflect a type of hero worship culture within the Church that is not reflective of the doctrine to which we adhere. I have a hard time reconciling these types of actions with the concept of having and being humble servants of God.
Ethan PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
The actress at the center of the table put on her social media that she was portraying "Olympic Jesus". They knew and planned it that way. The rest of the program was about a feast, aka, orgy, so it was reprehensible on all levels.
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
The playbill said it was about the Last Supper. Yes, Dionysis was included because it was also about a Bacchanalia, which was basically an orgy. So they superimposed the Last Supper within the orgy. I have heard many dismissing that it was the Last Supper because the Olympics tried to deny it at first, then half-heartedly admitted it, even though it was on the playbill that it was the Last Supper and the actress admitted on social media that they knew they were doing the Last Supper. Those who think they didn't know what they were doing are letting them gaslight them.Some, even Christians, excused it by saying it was about Dionysis and a Bacchanalia. How the rationale works that presenting an orgy as a good defense against a presumed "fake" mockery of the Savior and the Last Supper is incomprehensible, Christian or not.
Gale E PhillipsAugust 1, 2024
If only more academics had the insight of Victor Davis Hanson. What a mind.
Richard HillsAugust 1, 2024
I like to believe that Joseph Smith was inspired to put these peculiar grammatical and colloquial words in and that Joseph himself and others were later inspired to take them out.
Corey D.July 31, 2024
I have contemplated, meditated upon, studied, prayed about this subject for many years and still don't feel like I have an answer, I also struggle sometimes with the answer we hear in church that "sometimes answers to prayers will come later or maybe the answer came in an unexpected or different way or maybe the Lord chose not to answer, etc.", I struggle with it because of the Lord's statement once in which he said " if ye have the faith of a mustard seed then all things are possible or he could move this mountain", I think a lot of prayers go unanswered because we really haven't exercised as great of faith as we think we are.
Corey D.July 31, 2024
I saw a bumper sticker on a car in our neighborhood some years back that pretty much epitomizes society's views about love, it said "All Love is Good". Made me think of the verse in the Book of Mormon that say's " and they loved to do evil more than good".
Patricia WintersJuly 31, 2024
I love Daris Howard's stories, and almost always share them on Facebook for non-member friends. However, the 'to be continued' stories are extremely frustrating. I cannot, in good conscience, share something and then make my friends wait a week (or sometimes two) in order to find out what happened!
erikpeterhansenJuly 31, 2024
And now we most likely need to consider the scenario of two political parties disagreeing with each other's tenets so heartily, viscerally that there begins a civil war. Will some Latter-day Saints agree to fight physically with their very neighbors over what missionary work, debate and diplomacy could resolve? Or will they do what other groups of God's people have also done in the past and gather together for safety away from battle? The Latter-Day Saints didn't involve themselves in the past U.S. civil war, but... what will the Lord/prophet say and who of the Saints will follow Him this time?
Corey D.July 30, 2024
Thanks again for another wonderful story. I turned 67 in March, last year I had been thinking about one of my best friends from my teenage yrs, he's about 18 months younger than me, hadn't seen him for a few years, last time had been at his mom's viewing. I knew he had moved to Montana, I had an impression that maybe he wasn't going to church. I thought to myself I'm retired, it's no problem to run up there, can do some fishing while I'm there. You know how it goes, one day last November I get a text from a friend saying " what do you know about David S.", I texted back "why", he replies " because his obituary is in the paper". The spirit knows all things, I look back like so many other times and realize those thoughts about going to see my friend weren't just random thoughts.
Corey D.July 30, 2024
There are several ways to look at what's going on in society and politics, from a scriptural/religious view and especially for members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints we know there will be great contention and social upheaval and it will get worse. Historically politics has always been messy/contentious clear back to Jefferson's day, one of the great founding fathers. What is different from the past and responsible for much of the contention is not differences of political views and policy's but differences of moral, social, family values and a true and correct understanding of what the Constitution was meant to protect. What use to be the basic beliefs of most Americans regardless of party affiliation no longer are. Quite frankly much of the fervor and contention happening is due to the abrasive personality of one of the candidates and the extreme liberal views of the other.
Patrick NewmanJuly 30, 2024
This is amazing news! My wife and I lived in Azerbaijan for over two years and learned to love everything about this country - the people, language, culture, and cuisine. İsa Məsihin şagirdləriyik.
Rochelle HaleJuly 30, 2024
I have heard pros and cons regarding what/who the tableau was supposed to represent. Regardless of religion or culture, I thought it was in very poor taste. The Olympic athletes and spectators cross-represent people of all ages, languages, ethnicities, cultures, and personal beliefs. This is not the time or place for a personal statement or mockery of any group or ideology. It demeaned the art and professionalism of (most) Olympic opening ceremonies.
Ed RehderJuly 30, 2024
Good Stuff! Everything I needed in the moment and was put in front of me by Heavenly Father just in time. Thank you to Him for inspiring you to write this and for Meridian for making it available. This happens often. Thanks again to all of you.
Jamie QuistJuly 30, 2024
Thank you so much for this article! I've been trying to have faith about my unanswered prayer for how to take care of my father before he passed. I had received immediate inspiration for my mother's care (she's still living), but nothing to tell me soon enough to spare my father extra pain because of my ignorance. Your definition of faith is a healing balm to my heart. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!
CarolJuly 30, 2024
I don't know what their intent was-the organizers have stated it was Greek related and not connected to The Last Supper. Since I can only take their word for it, I choose to not be offended. I will let He who sees our hearts determine if they were mocking. Jesus asked us to forgive seventy times seven times and He will forgive who He will forgive. It is far easier to change people's perspective of God and religion if we love and pray (quietly) for them and not force God down their throats or get offended all the time. I love the quote by Brigham Young that a previous poster shared. Let's assume the best of others!!!!
JessicaJuly 29, 2024
Absolutely agree! While some so-called children's and teen books blatantly weave in inappropriate content, others do so much more subtly. Subtle themes are often woven in and normalized in younger children's books like "Princess Puffybottom and Daryl," "Have You Seen Gordon," and "Abby in Neverland," all targeting the earliest and youngest of readers. It takes a keen eye to catch these undercurrents. It's important to stay vigilant and aware of what messages are being subtly introduced to our kids. If you find something not quite right, nefarious, or blatantly nasty in a book share it anonymously at screenitfirst.com
CynthiaJuly 29, 2024
Excellent article - timely and informative. I appreciated how you brought up how we have all this emphasis on "world peace" at a time when on an individual level people cannot agree to disagree but have instead become hateful and spiteful and mean. I also appreciate the distinction between "progressive love" and "affirmation love." Yes, may we love people to better lives. No, may we not affirm those things that destroy who we are and what we have the potential to become.
Stephen JanickyjJuly 29, 2024
He who takes offense when offense was not intended is a fool, yet he who takes offense when offense is intended is an even greater fool for he has succumbed to the will of his adversary.” Brigham Young
HelenCJuly 29, 2024
My ex-LDS, RM husband was appalled! He said, “I’m not a Christian but that was extremely disrespectful!” To the comment about Dionysius, we’re not talking about the blue Bacchanalian figure, we’re talking about the whole feast table setting.
HelenCJuly 29, 2024
I think I keep weeding my mustard seeds! My big struggle is letting God do His Part while I patiently do mine.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 29, 2024
The love of truth is the core of our love for others. Thanks for the thoughtful article.
Frank MerrillJuly 29, 2024
We watched the tall ship crawling into the Marseilles harbor and the start of the stadium program but gave up at the parade of living statues because i could have gotten much more entertainment pleasure from changing the batteries in my smoke alarms.
Jocelyn MJuly 29, 2024
It is Dionysis, not Christ. A big flap over a misunderstanding.
AnnaJuly 29, 2024
Great article! Thank you...
Abbie VianesJuly 28, 2024
I totally agree with Maryann Eric and Glen. The death mask is the most accurate representation we have of Joseph. Regardless of supposed distortion from a 3 d death mask to a 2 d photo I can't believe the man in the photo is Joseph. Joseph's cheekbones are high and rounded, his nose is also high and rounded and his lips were full.
Ann MeadeJuly 28, 2024
I so hope to get to see this movie. It looks so good.
Bruce FriedmanJuly 26, 2024
In my community, I have challenged nearly 1000 school library books and about 500 were already removed because they violate law (porn). A considerable database of over 6000 titles with concerning (not necessarily illegal) content has been compiled. Links to ALL my challenge paperwork is accessible. I hope this serves you well. Please visit this link and see the download button at the bottom: (not for children!) https://www.wethepeople2.us/inappropriate-books-in-school/
Roger DavidsonJuly 26, 2024
I personally like your comparison of 1968 and 2024. I am fearful for our country and not certain what I can do on a personal level other than vote.
Douglas MillettJuly 25, 2024
What a special gift of the replica of the monument. May you and your family be blessed for the many things you share in this Meridian Magazine.
ShaunaJuly 25, 2024
Thanks for the heads up, As President Nelson says. " Satan knows who you are and who you were premortally, and he understands the work that must be done before the Savior returns. And after millennia of practicing his cunning arts, the adversary is experienced and incorrigible., " (We can do better and be better" April, 2019 Conference It is a fulltime job to be on the lookout for his tactics as parents and grandparents
Marsha NewmanJuly 24, 2024
Excellent article! And grateful thanks to those who grasp the bar of modern day handcart and produce with their “blood, sweat and tears” a film to inspire and inform. Thank you.
Myrna T AndersonJuly 24, 2024
Question - What is "Six Days in August" about? I see one regarding riots in England that is supposed to be a documentary and another about hostages being held in an embassy. What should I be seeing to be the topic of this movie you refer to?
Leilani CookJuly 24, 2024
Very sweet story and perfect reminder for us to remember what is important every day. I mean, eternally important. Thank you.
LAJuly 24, 2024
The similarities are striking! Thank you, that was insightful.
Darflene HutchisonJuly 23, 2024
Thanks so much for this information. I have an ancestor buried there and when I tried to research the exact location I was told the Church owned the lot and members who could not afford a separate burial was buried there, and they couldn't tell me the exact location.. I would love to put up a monument, I guess I will go back to the sexton's office for more information. The plot picture was too small to make out a parfticular name.
Sandra BrockJuly 23, 2024
Biden didn't resign. He's still president. He withdrew as candidate for the office of president in the 2024 election. HUGE difference.
KJBJuly 23, 2024
First off, Biden is not resigning and says he’ll finish out his term (and he’s the Democratic president, not “Democrat”). Second, the Democratic Party is rapidly coalescing around Kamala Harris and she already has more than enough delegates to secure the nomination. Save a few protesters who who might show up outside the venue, this year’s convention isn’t going to be a repeat of 1968. Sorry if that bums you out.
SonyaJuly 23, 2024
Wonderful article! Every person matters. Thank you for sharing this information.
LewisJuly 23, 2024
What a fabulous story of unselfish love, doing what the Savior would do. Thank you for your gift of sharing these wonderful stories.
Linda WestoverJuly 23, 2024
What an interesting article! Identifying all those in the unmarked mass grave is a worthy project and undoubtedly a blessing to all involved.
Chip WhitmerJuly 23, 2024
It has been said that in the Catholic church, official doctrine says the Pope is infallible -- but nobody really believes it. In the LDS church, official doctrine says the Prophet is NOT infallible -- but nobody really believes it.
Marsha NewmanJuly 22, 2024
Corrie Ten Boom had a similar experience. While visiting such a leper colony and helping wash those wounds, a news reporter said, “I wouldn’t do that for a million dollars!” Sweet Corrie answered him with this: “Neither would I. But I do it for Jesus for nothing!”
Peggy L LauritzenJuly 22, 2024
This entire article made me smile. First, I am beyond thrilled about the church history videos. I can’t wait to see them. Second, you had me at family history. Most people feel a need to connect, and you are providing the perfect way.
Judy DoneJuly 22, 2024
We remember the blessing of meeting both of you and hosting you in our home during that trip. It was a special time for those of us living in Vermont.
GrandmaMASJuly 22, 2024
Thanks for sharing this unlikely turn of events! Hope the momento makes it to the Church History Department!
Debrah RoundyJuly 22, 2024
This was such a good story, I am glad you posted it. It must have been such a life-changing adventure. Thanks for sharing.
Ronnie Bennett Aubrey-BrayJuly 22, 2024
Very moving. I felt I was there beside you, praying, hoping and mingling my tears with the hopeful. Thank you, Ronnie
CarolineJuly 21, 2024
Thank you so much for writing so well what I have long felt.
Corey D.July 21, 2024
There seems to be a belief that things are more contentious today than in the past, particularly when it comes to politics, politics has forever been contentious even here in the US. I think the ease and quickness and ability of everyone to get online almost instantaneously the minute somebody says something or an event occurs has contributed to the seeming atmosphere of contention. People have forgotten, probably because he was so popular and a genuinely humble person that there were those who hated Ronald Reagan. In the Journal of Discourses Vol 18, pages 335-348, Elder Orson Pratt makes some interesting comments about the politics of the day and the slander and contention. In Vol 5, pages 60-62 of the Journal of Discourses, Elder George A. Smith gives a talk and comments about the situation in the nations capitol, it is as timely and applicable for today as it was 175 yrs ago, great analysis of politics. Thomas Jefferson was hounded and slandered by many, one in particular a man by the name of James Callender who published and said all kinds of slanderous, false and vile things about Jefferson (ultimately Calender drowned himself) but as the great man he was and unlike today, Jefferson took the high road and never worried about his critics or responding in kind, great example for us all.
SallyJuly 21, 2024
My life completely changed when I gained a true testimony of the sacrifice and atonement of the Savior. I am no longer miserable. I repent of my many follies and I now know that I can have the opportunity to be with Him again. Oh what joy!!
Douglas NadybalJuly 21, 2024
The binding of speaking or inability to speak does not necessarily come from Satan. In the Book of Mormon a man was struck dumb by I assume the power of the Spirit of God. I have a similar experience while giving a priesthood blessing, a short period of time unable to say anything after laying hands upon the recipients head. I later learned that when a person not part of the blessing left the room, my abilit to speak returned immediately. We either do or do not have power over Satan, you can't have it both ways. The scriptures seem to hold out the hope that in certain conditions Satan has no power over us, especially when we resist Satan. I know that God and Jesus Christ do have superior power and strength. I know that as I am able to honor my covenants, the Spirt can dwell within me and that the Spirit of God also imparts to me sufficent power to overcome. We have a sure tool in the priesthood. Faith is another tool, but I fear my faith might melt in fear should I have been confronted as Joseph was. The priesthood never fails, save it be mishandled.
Bill BellJuly 20, 2024
I recently read Kurt Francom's book "Is God Disappointed in Me?" (He is not!) As I read this essay, I could not help thinking of Father in Heaven & Mother in Heaven & me & my wife & all of OUR children & all of our brothers and sisters. There is so much to think about and so much work to do!
DanJuly 20, 2024
When My first wife passed, and later I started dating my second wife, we followed the "For The Strength Of Youth" guidelines, judging them to be just as valid for us in our 60's.
Wendy LanderJuly 19, 2024
Ha, ha! Love it !
SandyJuly 19, 2024
Thank you. I needed your article today.
Glen S. HopkinsonJuly 19, 2024
The older man on the left is not Joseph in my opinion. His nose is shorter than the death mask and he doesn’t have the higher cheek bones of the death mask. The provinance of the photograph is too sketchy. There are two visual witnesses (so far) of Joseph done during or shortly after the lifetime of Joseph; The death mask and the drawings of Sutcliff Maudsley. Maudsley’s drawings lack the three dimensions of a good portrait but his profiles drawings very accurately portray the profile of the death mask. There is a lot of effort to make the death mask match the photograph of the gentleman on the left.
MaryannJuly 19, 2024
I do not believe this is a photo of the Prophet, Joseph. When I first saw it, I was impressed with a feeling of coldness, almost a harshness. My husband had the same impression. The church has also made a statement that we do NOT know if this is a photo of the prophet.
David HallJuly 19, 2024
With this discovery and the careful work using all of the source information we will finally have new images for Joseph. This will be the only dispensation where we have actual photographic quality images of the founding prophet.
Corey D.July 18, 2024
Great article ! We could all do more, there are so many ways to serve and so many needs.
Scot ProctorJuly 18, 2024
Dear Tiffany, you are absolutely right. I did not begin to touch on the power of the faith of women (or anyone) who also can cast out Satan in the name of Jesus Christ. It is a big enough topic to make me want to do more writing on that. Thank you for your insight and correction. --Scot.
Corey D.July 18, 2024
You have touched upon a subject that way too many of us have dealt with or are dealing with. In my situation and I'm sure many others, pretty much it boils down to the loss of the spirit in those who have stopped communicating or are angry with us.
Myron MachulaJuly 18, 2024
The first photo in the article has captions on the death masks indicating both are of Joseph; however, the left must be that of Joseph and the right that of Hyrum. Perhaps there needs to be a correction . . .
erikpeterhansenJuly 18, 2024
I'm sorry, good effort, but Brother Joseph's death mask has always shown, to me, a much more beautiful looking man than this other man. Look at the big eyes like his mother's and the little overbite and a full rounded nose. I think someone's going overboard trying to prove something.
HelenCJuly 18, 2024
Thank you for doing this work on it beloved brothers Joseph and Hyrum.
George LucasJuly 17, 2024
Is there some deeper meaning that the woman has on a wedding ring but not the man? Usually after a divorce, no one wears a ring.
Joan HalesJuly 17, 2024
I was impressed about this last article on the impact family history can have if missionaries use it when talking to people. Is there a way we can send only that article to someone by email without sending the whole magazine?
Sara GrovesJuly 17, 2024
Scott, this article is so timely! It opens our eyes and understanding that though the evil one is powerful, God's power is greater! That though the darkness that can surround us and fill our minds with fear of destruction, the Light of truth and Christ is a winning power that can fill out hearts with the strength to push that darkness away for good! Thank you for sharing such insights and wisdom. Looking forward to part two!
Diane ThayerJuly 17, 2024
I’ve been teaching with the BYU China Teacher program this last year. I taught lessons about family history, without any mention of church, but could share the Family Seach site. I was pleased when some students tried it and used it for their English Family History Presentations!
TiffanyJuly 17, 2024
I love the article, but one thing I disagree with is your statement about only male Melchizedek priesthood holders could cast out the devil. This is not found in the scriptures to be true and is not backed up by the handbook of the church or D&C 35.:8-9. Essentially, anyone who has faith and calls upon Jesus Christ name can cast out the devil.
FredJuly 17, 2024
I haven't been able to get the Pedigree Pie website to load in years.
KathleenJuly 16, 2024
Good points substantiated by solid examples. Thank you
DougJuly 16, 2024
In careful reading of the scripture, there is never a suggestion that we are yoked WITH Christ. It only says that it is His yoke. It makes much more sense to read this as it is written. That we are to put upon us His yoke and let him be our teacher. Putting on the His yoke suggest that we submit to do His work. He is the farmer. the Master. The caretaker of the work. We yoke ourselves with other saints who have also agreed to take upon ourselves the yoke of Christ. We are yoked with our spouse, with our children, with those that we serve with. Yoked with those that we are making an effort to become one with so that we can be the people God and His saints. The body of Christ. This makes Jesus Christ the master who drives the ox. Sets the work and the pace. giving us work we can handle. Not giving us labor that is pointless and useless. pushing us to grow. and making the work easy and light because he knows how to properly yokes his oxen together which includes yoking animals of equal strength and stature and teaching us how to pull together. He wants us to learn how to become a good ox because symbolically that is what He is. In the Hebrew alphabet the first letter represents God and is a pictograph of an ox. taking upon ourselves the yoke of Christ means that we covenant to do His will. to obey Him and do His work. In return he teaches us to be a good ox. or in other words, teaches us to become more like God. I know this is an old article and I have heard plenty of conference talks that references being yoked with Christ as if we are in the same yoke as him, but the reality is that oxen are never unequally yoked because it makes pulling the weight nearly impossible. There seems to be plenty of insight in the way the analogy is actually written without stretching it into something else. I really hope this just prompts people to look at the analogy a little closer.
DaveJuly 16, 2024
I've often thought that some eternal law must require equal access for influence in our lives from both heaven and hell. Adam & Eve, Moses, Jesus, and Joseph Smith all received heavenly communications with God which were followed or accompanied by temptations or visitations with Satan. God showers us with love and encouragement; while Satan surrounds us with fear, doubts, and shame. On a vacation cruise this year, I noticed how the cruise ship is secured in port. Each end of the ship has multiple mooring ropes that extend from the ship to the bollards or rings on the dock. These ropes are pulled tight to ensure that the ship is not moved by the waves of the sea. Similarly, our covenants that we make in church and in the temple bind us closely to God. As we keep those covenants, God provides us additional help in overcoming the world, including discerning and dealing with evil influences in our lives.
HelenCJuly 16, 2024
LOL; I tried to get Hubster to read out the number for me & he said he doesn't go over 1 trillion! ;-)
GSJuly 16, 2024
This is so true and timely. Thank you so much Scot!! Exactly what I needed, as I have been in the biggest battle with the adversary in my life.
Kay BaylyJuly 16, 2024
My son and I have had amazing success finding missing fathers using ancestors.com dna. We have solved this problem for at least 20 people including my grandfather who died in 1970 not knowing either of his parents
TJJuly 15, 2024
We have been working on placing such a program in our stake. Missionary work and Family History go hand in hand; they are one work! Thank you!
Susan Zimmerman D'AndreaJuly 15, 2024
One month after I joined our Church in 1974, I received my Patriarchal Blessing. It told me there was great rejoicing in heaven, that I had come to know this Church is true. It said I have the great privilege and responsibility of seeing that temple work is done for my ancestors. I began to do that immediately, and now, fifty years later, and living ten minutes from a Temple, I go every week, and never run out of names. I am thrilled that the Proctors are using Family History in their mission. I have connected with distant cousins (my husband's and mine) and shared information about our families. I seldom make the connection between Family History and our Church with these cousins. Hearing the Proctors' stories has motivated me to try harder to share the joy of the restored Gospel and Forever Families with these cousins. Praying they will find this joy too. Thank you, Scot and Maureen, for serving a mission, for tying Family History and missionary work together, and for sharing your insights with us. Sincerely, Sister Susan Zimmerman D'Andrea
Sherry McMullinJuly 15, 2024
How and when can we access the new docs about Joseph Smith? Please let all your readers know. Have loved your podcasts since the beginning of the pandemic. Can you send me a list of the scriptures you think everyone should memorize? Thank you.
Karen HaeringJuly 15, 2024
Maurine and Scott, I think this is just an amazing incredible opportunity for us all to come and know and love the prophet Joseph more. I cannot wait to see what you are putting together. The only thing I would love more is if I had been able to travel with you there to these places as you share him and the events that occurred. I am in Nauvoo for the summer doing the same thing sharing the prophet Joseph as much as I can telling his stories and sharing his dreams and visions and gift to the world. Looks like we’re doing similar things because we feel the prompting of the Lord to do so . Thank you for all your doing. I miss you guys so much.
Wally GoddardJuly 15, 2024
You two keep blessing the world! May God prosper you!
Jill BergmanJuly 15, 2024
I love reading about your missionary experiences. I think family history touches people on a level they haven't experienced before. And I can't wait to see your Joseph Smith series. You are doing great work!
Judy PetersonJuly 14, 2024
I have two sons, whose wives have decided their families should have nothing to do with me, and have very cruel he cut me off. It is true there are parents who have been abusive or toxic or manipulative, but I have not, and in truth, I’ve had much therapy that has verified that whatever issues I have, they are not any that would affect these families in any relationship with me. I have three daughters in law, who think I am an amazing mother-in-law. This article is so true. My heart is broken for all the time with my grandchildren that I am missing, and even more than that, what day are learning or perhaps I should say, but they are not learning about communication and relationships and loyalty. I know that my savior can heal my family. and I trust that he ultimately will. I doubt that it will be in this life, however. I send birthday cards to my grandchildren. Whether their parents let them have them or not, I don’t know. All I can do is pray for them. and let them go and spend my life thinking about the many people in my life who love me and think I’m a fabulous person. And that includes my Savior and my heavenly father. I am responsible for my faults and weaknesses, and my repentance is my business, but none of it has had anything to do with my treatment of these children and grandchildren that I love so much. It is so sad.
Kathy SandersJuly 14, 2024
I too thank you for this answer of hope and counsel. All five of my children and their spouses have left the church and I too have had to find new ways of staying connected with my children. How I long to share treasured traditions of faith with them. Instead I find myself searching for ways to connect on their terms. And striving to be joyful despite the sadness I am always feeling. I loved your reminding us that the Savior was a “man acquainted with grief”. It helps me have courage to build my own foundation and live life with Joy and leave the rest of it all up to God. My kids will see my joy and that is the best gift I can give to them. Thank you for your wise words.
Corey D.July 14, 2024
I understand why and where Brother Eyre is coming from and the intent and hope of his message but don't think much is going to change, at least in society in general, yesterday's events being a perfect example of the division in society, also very predictable events. Like most everything else in the gospel it all boils down to what does an individual decide he or she will do in his life and how will they treat or talk to others. I must say though not sure I agree with his answer/reasoning behind why we don't hear or read much about our Mother in heaven, I think equality in heaven or in God's plan is different than how we view/define it and I think our Heavenly parent's relationship is different than we imagine, not to say it's not a loving relationship, God is love but I think things are a little more different than we think.
Corey D.July 14, 2024
That is so funny and not so funny and I'm sure a lot of us can relate. I could tell so many stories similar to that. A co-worker shared how one time he figured out how to handle driving on vacation, he went and bought a pair of headphones, this was years ago and they were the big ones, 20 minutes into the trip his wife taps him on the shoulder and motions to him she needs to say something to him, he removes the headphones and she says "if I have to listen to this, so do you" and that was that. Another co-worker told me once and he had 5 boys, that he and his wife decided maybe if they gave the boys Dramamine before they left that the boys would sleep during the drive, each boy was given a Dramamine to take, hour into the trip four of the boys are still going strong, youngest is asleep, 2 hrs later same thing, 3 hrs same, etc., finally they got suspicious and upon questioning the boys found out that they had talked the youngest brother into taking all the Dramamine !
MaryannJuly 14, 2024
Cute story. However, I can't help but wonder if the kids would learn to work out their own problems if mom and dad weren't so quick to intervene.
HelenCJuly 13, 2024
I saw so much of my own pain in this article. Joy and rejoicing is amazing but the closest I have felt to Father and the Savior was in those moments of deepest lamentation.
Richard GardnerJuly 13, 2024
BTW the book--Who is the Holy Ghost--of which these articles contain just a few excerpts, is available at Ebornbooks.com.
Louene PerryJuly 12, 2024
I've been following this amazing artist, patriot and doctor for many years and I'm thrilled to see his dreams for this beautiful park coming to fruition in Utah! God bless Dr. Steven Neal.
Robert David StarlingJuly 12, 2024
Dang it Richard! You've given me more work to do! This article is SO insightful and SO brilliant that now I feel I haven't paid close enough attention to yours and Linda's other writings, so now I have a lot of re-reading and study to do! But seriously, this is awesome. Thanks for opening up new levels of understanding divine truths. & & & & & Maybe I'll make up some T-shirts for me and my Eternal Companion: "She&Me", and "He&Me". Whaddaya think? & &
Tracy TippettsJuly 12, 2024
Absolutely true. I have a personal testimony of this from my own experience. I enjoyed reading about your own history and experiences that qualify you to speak on this difficult and delicate subject with authenticity and authority! I have a belief and conviction that my new wife was DELIVERED to me, rather than just discovered by me.
HelenCJuly 12, 2024
I’m taking these headings and posting them for my Grief clients!
Haze KompelienJuly 12, 2024
I found the article thought-provoking. I agree with the comment from Key of Knowledge about the importance of ancient Hebrew and its meanings: "I think sometimes we have a very narrowly defined version of what the Holy Spirit is ... Because the concept of the Holy Spirit is ancient and Jesus/Yeshua, not only understood the ancient understanding, but is in fact one with the Holy Spirit ...then we have to view The Holy Spirit from the ancient Hebrew perspective, which is God's perspective."
Withheld for privacyJuly 12, 2024
Thank you so very, very much for your sound, and understanding counsel. So many of us today are facing the heartbreak of children leaving the faith despite our best efforts as parents in raising them in the Gospel. Your advice has given me comfort and some peace, which has been so very difficult to come by.
HelenCJuly 11, 2024
Amen and Amen! We really need to find a way to remove the “-ites” (3 Nephi) from among us.
LarsJuly 11, 2024
I agree. I hate horror movies. I used to watch some of them (mostly the old black and white ones) but at some point it occurred to me that you are watching someone get hurt for enjoyment???? It doesn't really make sense. It would not be enjoyable if it happened for real.
Chip WhitmerJuly 10, 2024
The label "pro-choice" is itself a lie. Anyone who gets angry when a women who was considering abortion changes her mind and chooses Life for her child, is not pro-choice at all; they are objectively pro-abortion.
Angel EllinghausenJuly 10, 2024
I got canceled by my 28 year old daughter for saying the name of her former husband. I didn't even mention anything about him, exactly. I referred to the period of time when she was married to him, during which time her anxiety was severe. She has since improved somewhat. I did not know that her "boundaries" extended to Pluto. I don't call or text. I send gift cards or have Amazon drop ship her things. I try to stay in her life, but it's not working. Her siblings have mercy on me and let me know how she is doing. I'm grateful for them.
SallyJuly 10, 2024
About 2 years ago my oldest son and his wife cut off a younger brother whose behavior they did not like. There was no warning, no let's talk about this, no discussion with me or him about what his offenses were. He did not commit a moral sin or harm any family member. He is out spoken. He jokes, he teases. He is the unmarried favorite uncle of most of the kids. He is a lot of fun! He's not perfect. He can get on your nerves but he does no harm. To us it seemed out of the blue that they had decided to cancel him for 2 years as a probationary time. They will not come to family events or to our home if he is present. My husband had passed away from cancer just 8 months prior. We were very vulnerable still dealing with grief. It was crushing to me. They apologized the "timing was bad" but none the less, did it it was not up for discussion. He tried to apologize and find out what he did so he could repent and repair the relationship. They refused to discuss it with any of us but they did text me a "list of sins". None of them punishable by law or church court. They were simply dealing with hurt feelings. it was the only conclusion we could come to due to the no discussion rule. He couldn't understand why they had a list and why they didn't say something sooner about this list so he could be more careful or their feelings. They had gone to their bishop and with him decided the punishment of this 2 year banishment or cancellation. He was not allowed to contact any of them or their children. If he came to their house they would call the police. My youngest daughter get engaged. She wants her older nieces to join the bridal party as brides maids and all the little girls, there is a bunch of them, to be flower girls! She is only 7 years older than her oldest niece and that niece was 18. She asked the 14 and 18 yr olds to be bridesmaids. And the little one to be a flower girl and wants her oldest brother to lead off the father daughter dance as she switches form brother to brother. She has four of them. They agree. When they realize the "other brother" is also coming to the wedding they back track everything. That brother said he will not talk to any of them or their children and will stay far away from they. He is is very close to this youngest sister and she wants him there. In the end only the oldest son will come and his oldest daughter if she wants, she can choose, she's 18. the rest of the family will not come. That means all 3 of her nephews, and 2 nieces. My daughter is heart broken. She loves those kids. She doesn't have a list of sins, but they will make her pay. I try to negotiate a compromise. Just come to the temple for family pictures. They say no. Just come to the reception for family pictures. No. I use the words right out of the Book of Mormon and beg and plead with all the words of a tender parent but they will not relent. she has to chose the older brother and his family or the brother she grew up with and loves as well. It's not right. I intervene again and remind my DIL, because all of the communication is coming from her, that when they got married we sacrificed any of our desires and deferred everything to her parents who ignored her and my sons wishes for type of reception they wanted. They asked me if we could do a second reception with the music and dancing and fun they wanted. We agreed. As a result her mother would not speak to me again. We had served as mission companions years ago. Her dad remained friendly but we didn't interact due to the different towns we lived in. Some 10 years later they move out of state and she sends me a text apologizing for her behavior and acknowledged that i had extended the olive branch and she refused it. All these years we might have been friends and our families might have been friends. She regretted that. I pleaded with my DIL not to make the same mistake, have some compassion and come to the wedding. This sent my DIL is a frenzy and she pulled out my "list of sins" and cancelled me on the spot and told me NEVER to communicate with her in anyway again. I could talk to my son if he is agreeable and all interaction with the grandchildren will be chaperoned. It's been 2 years and my son's "probation time" is coming up. He still doesn't know what he has to do to prove he is worthy. No one knows. All 5 of his other siblings and their families are touched by the consequences of this cancellation. And perhaps me the most since mine probation is forever. We await to hear from them. I don't understand how they can justify all this, hold a temple recommend and serve as a Relief Society president. I served as one 3 times in my life with many other callings and it pained me to see this kind of control and unrighteous dominion in families and never once thought is would happen to me. We loved each other. There is nothing we can do except pray for hearts to soften. They have all the power and you get to live with all the pain. I'm grateful for my other children who support me and grandchildren I get to see and hug. My DIL once told my other two daughters how she was glad none of this affected their friendship. My oldest told her point blank that she was mistaken. "You hurt one member of the family and you hurt us all. Nothing is the same." Cancelled, what a word, describes exactly how I am.
Patricia WintersJuly 10, 2024
It would be nice if we were told what state the live screening will be in!
HelenCJuly 10, 2024
Ah; to disagree with grace and compassion! It’s time I watched this. Thank you.
RobynJuly 10, 2024
Bro. Goddard, Insightful and uplifting, as ever. Thank you
Patsy SwinsonJuly 10, 2024
It is NOT rare for parents to be toxic and abusive. There are many instances of offspring having to cut ties with parents who treat them badly. It's not the fault of the children, who may have spent many years struggling to have some kind of relationship with people who never even wanted them. I've seen this a number of times and I have lived it myself.
Laura S.July 9, 2024
In my setting apart blessing for my mission I was specifically blessed to know what doors not to enter. I was always mindful of that promise, both in living worthy of the guidance of the Spirit, as well as always trying to listen. There was only one time that I’d say I had the distinct impression not to tract a certain building. I don’t know what might have happened if we had, but no harm ever came to me and that promise was fulfilled. It’s no secret that Satan is after the missionaries, but while I was out there, I felt the words of Elisha when he said, “They that be with us are more than they that be with them” (2 Kgs. 6:16). Missionaries that are obedient in serving the Lord with all their might mind and strength will be blessed no matter what befalls them, and no matter the outcome.
KyleJuly 9, 2024
My wife and I just recently completed one year of being shunned or cancelled by our young adult son and his wife after making the grave error of sharing a couple of pics(on social media)of their newborn daughter just two days after having been born. The post was deleted 2 hours later but the damage was already done. It's painful and hurts your heart so much. They live 3 miles away but they might as well live on the other side of the planet. We don't seem to bump into them ever. We invite them, via text, to every get together we host. Super bowl party, Thanksgiving, Easter, Memorial day bbq, etc but they don't reply. They don't invite us or any of my son's siblings to any of their events. None of the children's birthday parties. Oh yeah, my son has 2 children. One who is 4 yrs old and one who is a year old now. When they had an LDS baby blessing none of my son's family was invited. We learned of it after the fact in the evening when a few relatives saw some pics on social media and noticed a lot of family members were curiously absent. My wife cried hard that night. She had asked them 2 months earlier to please invite us to a baby blessing. We are ok with sitting far away. That's fine, but please let us know of the date and place. They didn't say a peep until it was already done. Not a single person from my son's family got the invite. Not even the siblings he still likes or his grandparents that I think are still very much beloved. I have no idea how long this will go on? I did not think it would be one year and counting. I thought and kept thinking through 2023 that I would think of something that would be effective in establishing some communication and good will between us. I sent him texts every month or 2 to let him know I missed him and missed having him and his family in our home. I sent him a card through snail mail just letting him know we missed them. And I do miss the young man he was just 2 years ago. So helpful and cheerful and lovely. Now it feels like I lost him to a cult. Never replies to texts, never calls, never invites us to anything, never shares photos or video of his kids with us (even after we asked him to). This should be viewed and discussed as a form of adult bullying or something akin to it. I think this could be the most hurtful thing you can do to parents without breaking any laws? I wish I had a happy ending to share but as of yet there isn't one.
BoBJuly 9, 2024
I enjoyed the article. Thank you. Some of my understanding (you can all pick up your rocks now), the more I understand the Holy Spirit and the more a I seek the Holy Spirit and interact with it, the more I believe that He is not a he, and I will leave that at that. May God bless us all.
Mark MathesonJuly 9, 2024
So God the Father loves Jesus and Satan equally?
JuliannJuly 9, 2024
Horrible. I’ve liked High Grant and it disappoints me that he would accept such a script. It could be any set of missionaries as the Church is not the only religion that sends out “missionaries”. They are always at risk, but discernment caution and prayer for protection have aided many. I’ve never understood why people go to horror movies or watch graphically violent movies. They affect the body and psyche so negatively.
Abbie VianesJuly 9, 2024
The Holy Spirit is especially strong in missionary work. Our prayers should be that missionaries recognize and heed the Spirits promptings to keep them from dangers. But this IS a sick idea for a film.
STEVEN S.July 9, 2024
In studying the teachings of the Temple, one must carefully consider the identities and roles within the Godhead. The question arises: is the position within the Godhead subject to change? If Michael, also known as Adam, comes to the earth, who then assumes Michael's former role? To explore this further, we might frame it as an equation: if A + B = C, then who might best fulfill the role of the Holy Ghost if not those who have been key figures in the restoration of truth? This line of inquiry invites us to ponder the eternal and divine nature of the roles within the Godhead and the profound interconnectedness of those chosen to fulfill these sacred duties.
Michael HogganJuly 8, 2024
I do not believe Joseph received all that information in the First Vision. That theophany was only one of many he had in his life. The other theophanies recorded apparently happened with prophets who were much older and more experienced than Joseph. I firmly believe that Joseph was taught piece by piece, according to what he could understand and what was most important for him to know at a given time. The First Vision occurred in spring 1820 and Joseph died in the summer of 1844. Joseph had a lot of time to learn additional things after the First Vision
GramJoyJuly 8, 2024
This really hit home! Not with my children, but with my daughter-in-law. She was offended by a remark that 2 of my children said about Covid 4 years ago. She didn't want to participate in any family activities, blaming Covid and fear of getting ill, and so when I sent an email to my children and their spouses, I closed with a paragraph directed to her, saying that if she didn't want to come I understood. She was offended that I singled her out, and then told my son that I wasn't to comment or 'like' any of her social media post. I commented on one post about one of my grands and she had my son text me to say that I crossed her boundary!!!! PURE manipulation.
M TribeJuly 8, 2024
Very insightful look into the causes. The "what can we do" at the end focuses on prevention. I was hoping for "what can we do" once it has happened and parents have been completely cut off from a young adult.
AnonymousJuly 8, 2024
This has just recently happened to me. It came out of the blue from a daughter who called almost every day. The heartbreaking thing is I now am not able to see or talk to my grandson. The grief is real and so deep. I called to ask her if I had done anything etc and she said they were just busy and she wanted to focus on her IMMEDIATE family and no one else. Prior to all this, we had a close, loving relationship. It's been devastating.
WendyJuly 8, 2024
After reading this article I wanted to ask if you always disagree with breaking from a parent, regardless of the history ? My husband and I have done this with his mother after 30 years of marriage, and asking her countless times to treat us with respect and kindness, and she has continued with the same behaviour. Don’t get me wrong, this comes with guilt and wondering if we have done the right thing, especially with how we feel about family relationships and the importance of them. But even with the conflicting feelings, we feel more peace now than when we did having her in our lives with her constant need of control, always wondering what would be next. I am a mother and a grandmother now and it isn’t t difficult for me to be kind to my adult children and spouses and let them govern their time themselves. In fact we feel that because they are in control of their own lives, they actually want to be a part of our lives and we are grateful for that. I am worn down from being a doormat for so long. and I feel like I have tried my hardest to make things better with her, but every time we have talked to her, she tells us she has absolutely no regrets and sees no reason to change her behaviour, even when we have taken the initiative and apologized for bad feelings between us and looking for ways we can do better. . Long story short, are there times when it is healthy to not have contact with parents?
JudithJuly 8, 2024
We have experienced this painful situation as a parents. I know of other good, loving parents that are coping with this in their families too. Your suggestions are sound. Showing love and being patient and consistent resolved our estrangement. Grateful that you named some of the underlying causes for this epidemic.
Duane BoyceJuly 8, 2024
Impressive! I love it.
ClaireJuly 8, 2024
My partner and I cared for a beautiful husband and wife that were danish. I think they maybe related to the article. Betty Paula Alwine(nee Niebuhr)Hansen born 1909-2008 and Anton Sven Dagge Hansen born 1924-2006 deceased east Rockingham cemetery Western Australia. We have some photos of them. Thanks
John GreeneJuly 8, 2024
The youngest of my three children, now age 42, hasn't spoken to me or her mother since 2005. There was no argument or situation that led to this. She just stopped communicating with us. We don't know why. She had continued a close relationship with her two siblings (they all live in the LA area, we live in the East) until about two years ago when she cut them off also. She has aunts, uncles, and cousins who haven't seen or heard from her in twenty years. She has cut off the whole family. In my view, there is nothing I can do but be patient and wait. Every day I ask my Father in heaven to watch over her, to speak with her, and to bless her. I am confident that He sent her to this family for a reason. And when the time is right, He will bless her in some way that will change her heart.
Janet DoiJuly 7, 2024
Please give us back the transcripts of these podcasts again.
Vaughn J BarrusJuly 6, 2024
Brother Eyre, this has been such an inspiration to me as I have read it this morning. It summarizes all that I have known and hoped for. In today’s world so many of our children, nieces and nephews and even friends and acquaintances have fallen away. My cousin and my nephew have both been overcome by the trials of life and taken their own lives. And yet I see so many good people both in and out of the church striving to bring others unto Christ. As of late I have been so discouraged by the lack of temple attendance in my temple district. They have even cut back the number of endowment sessions due to lack of patron participation. Your article has given me so much hope and renewed understanding. I am so grateful for the sharing of knowledge and understanding shared by those who possess it. Thank you so very much for sharing your knowledge.
Mark ErnstJuly 6, 2024
Why is there no transcript?
MaryannJuly 6, 2024
Since this movie is rated "R," it is strange to see it promoted in this article.
ChrisJuly 5, 2024
Thank you for this perspective on a very difficult day with a child.
Elaine KempJuly 5, 2024
Love this article by Daniel Peterson and Lisa's comments. I concur with Daniel Preteen when he said he couldn't call this year's political discussion's debates. I have repeatedly said to my husband that I have felt I am living in days such as those days in Helaman and 3rd Nephi before Christ visited America after his death and the destructions in this land. God bless our righteous Prophets, Apostles, and all who follow their counsel. God bless us to be one in love and unity though we have differences of opinion. May I be a better disciple of Christ. Elaine
Helmut A. WorleJuly 5, 2024
"They'll get over it" is a comment about their children one often hears from parents who are planning a divorce. Little do they know or even acknowledge that divorce of the parents is generally really hard on the children. Staying together "for the kids' sake" may be one of the more heroic things parents can do in such a situation, but it is bound to earn benefits.
Key of KnowledgeJuly 5, 2024
The Holy Ghost, is the same as the Holy Spirit, depending on which Greek translation it was taken from, and that Holy Spirit/Ghost in the original Hebrew is the Ruach Hakodesh...or Holy Wind, spirit or breath, which absolutely can and does abide in more than one person at a time. This is most evident during Pentecost, after Jesus Resurrection, when everyone was filled with the Holy Spirit and it was evidenced by flaming tongues, speaking in tongues, the Holy Wind coming into the room and everyone feeling it, and the same manifestations of the Holy Spirit were seen and felt by many attending the Kirkland Temple dedication. When I'm in church and someone speaks who is full of the spirit I, and others in the congregation, when open to receive the Holy Spirit, feel the presence of the Holy Spirit/Ghost at the same time. In Doctrine and Covenants 50:22 it reads: "Wherefore, he that preacheth and he that receiveth,understand on another, and both are edified and rejoice together." I think sometimes we have a very narrowly defined version of what the Holy Spirit is or whom it is, taken from modern scripture and potentially misquoted or misinterpreted scriptures and/or experiences. Because the concept of the Holy Spirit is ancient and Jesus/Yeshua, not only understood the ancient understanding, but is in fact one with the Holy Spirit (as we all should strive to be, even as King David was) then we have to view The Holy Spirit from the ancient Hebrew perspective, which is God's perspective. The basic ancient concept of the Holy Spirit, based on ancient pictograph meanings, is nicelyl laid out in this Rock Island YouTube video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2rUg_P2dUM Modern rabbi's can also give great insight.
Lisa ReisingJuly 5, 2024
Thank you for these thoughts! I particularly like that you brought forward the counsel of Elder Soares from the last General Conference. Perhaps this is a reason for the proliferation of temples around the world, to teach us how to seek to live in higher ways and see each other as God sees us. And as far as your last comment about tumultuous times ushering in the coming of Jesus Christ... haven't we been told we need to be preparing a Zion people to receive Him the second time? I want to be in that camp, and that requires me to view my "political adversaries" as brothers and sisters.
Gail G GrovesJuly 4, 2024
Where is the text please? Love, Love these podcasts and depend on the text as I listen. Thank you very much for this incredible source in my study of the Book of Mormon and it also helps me as a Primary teacher!
Joel R MarksJuly 4, 2024
It is certainly axiomatic and miraculous that Mr. Jefferson was 83 and Mr. Adams was 91 when heaven opened its portals to make entrance on July 4 th 1826 to two ‘Colossus of Independence’. Certainly Mr Adams was the voice, Mr Jefferson the pen and General Washington the mighty sword. Quite Providentially in a year at Rosh Hashana, the Jewish new year, September 22, 1827, a new Epoch opened when a young farm boy ascended a hill called Cumorah to receive the new and everlasting covenant in the form of ancient plates and the world was started all ‘over again.’ May freedom and Independence always ring from the highest mountain in the highest beacon of liberty in history called America.
Don LaytonJuly 3, 2024
I've heard or read this story before but had forgotten the details. What a timely reminder of the precious freedoms we enjoy! Thank you.
MaryannJuly 3, 2024
I am assuming this article is to inform us of the craziness going on, and NOT to suggest that we should join in this lunacy! A he is a he, and a she is a she. PERIOD!
MaryannJuly 3, 2024
To Withheld comment: You have EVERYTHING to look forward to. Keep your Sacrament covenants. Go to the temple often and keep your temple covenants. You will one day receive EVERY blessing you desire. Rather than focusing on your losses, focus on faith and work to build your relationship with your Savior. All of your losses will be made up to you if you do these things. As you keep covenants to love others and to serve, you will also have greater joy right now.
JackieJuly 2, 2024
A woman once shared that she thought the Holy Ghost was an elder brother in the preexistence, like Jehovah, who was chosen to perform his role. And she wondered if the Holy Ghost will get his body at the very end of the Millennium, being the last child born before the earth as we know it comes to its end. That may not be how things are planned to happen, but just an interesting thought.
Bob SpielJuly 2, 2024
Thank you, Maurine, for this poignant reminder. God bless you and Scott on your mission.
LaWren BoothJuly 2, 2024
Thank you for writing this piece!
Mark MathesonJuly 2, 2024
I liked Richard Gardner's article. It caused me to think and as Dr. Gardner wrote "speculation isn’t all bad." I fully agree that Gospel writers interchange the use of the Holy Ghost or Holy Spirit or the Spirit of the Lord or God. As Richard noted, we don't know all about the Holy Ghost because the focus should be on Christ.
Chuck BennettJuly 2, 2024
Hi...I would like to introduce you to IT here. It is my wife, but I can't tell you if she (can I say she) is because I don't know how to explain her. She is my eternal companion, and I love her with all my (can I say my?)heart. These are my children, but I can't call them that...so these people here, along with the (Can I say female?) are what I value above all. Can I say all?
BruceJuly 2, 2024
THANK YOU for sharing the profound details about our founding fathers dedication to bringing freedom and liberty to this promised land. I believe there were as many heavenly messengers at all the proceedings that culminated in the Declaration of Independence. And on that 50th celebration those messengers were there to welcome these two great men back home. What a celebration that must have been. I ache for the same fever to be with our current leaders and pray for heavens help to help them focus on our freedoms and not for personal recognition and financial gain. God Bless America
AnaJuly 2, 2024
I've always wondered if the Holy Ghost isn't an "office" or "assignment" that gets filled by various individuals. Like, maybe it is a prophet who has died and not been resurrected yet? IF this is the case, it kind of explains that more "generic" way the Holy Ghost is talked of--unlike Heavenly Father and Jesus who are always personalized. Just a guess.
ScottJuly 2, 2024
And not just any 4th of July, but the golden one. They died in 1826, exactly 50 years after the original.
Lexie StatonJuly 2, 2024
Thank you Maurine....both beautiful and inspiring!
tfJuly 1, 2024
I have, and have read that Arbinger Institute book, and thought it was wonderful. I've never heard anyone reference it until you did just now. I think it should be quoted in General Conference, so more people would get acquainted with some of those ideas.
JeffJuly 1, 2024
Could The Holy Ghost be different people at different times? After all, worlds without number, offer multiple options to The Father. Trying to determine “who” is the Holy Ghost takes us out into the weeds. I have no answer or idea to your thesis, but I have wondered.
NanceJuly 1, 2024
And why is this article in Meridian magazine? It goes against all the gospel teaches us & only supports a liberal & evil political platform.
HelenCJuly 1, 2024
I recognize the full truth will be given to us at some future date but I question the statement that the Holy Ghost cannot dwell in more than one place / person at a time. My only reference for this is the moment when my actions required Him to withdraw. I felt something physically leave my body, followed by an intense loneliness. My Friend had gone and I knew it. He had been with me since my baptism, undetected until He left. So I believe He dwells simultaneously in all those who have been confirmed unless they become unworthy. Marvelous feelings accompanied the restoration of my blessings but His return was not as noticeable as His exit.
LindaJuly 1, 2024
What a wonderful article! Thank you for such inspiring content that testifies of truth and strengthens my testimony of the prophet Joseph. What a time we are blessed to live in!
WithheldJune 29, 2024
So, my husband a past bishop divorces me (I am not worthy to be a member of his family and goes off to be happy) short story. Two of my adult children decide to leave the church and one of them decide to cut all ties with me. Where does that leave my celestial marriage and forever family? Not much to look forward to
Robert BaileyJune 26, 2024
What an inspired idea. Trek is such a meaningful and memorable activity for youth in the Intermountain area. This idea can be easily adapted for the rest if us!
JeffJune 26, 2024
The glyph is found at many Classic Maya sites including in nearby Dos Pilas.
Wendy HallJune 26, 2024
So happy the new songbook has come out. We are excited to have it in our Wards, and can't wait!
Wendy HallJune 26, 2024
At least he tried... I want to see the dog house!
David C HobsonJune 25, 2024
The words to It Is Well With My Soul have become very meaningful. I accepted the atonement, but somehow had always felt that there was to be a degree of suffering first. The hymn points out that the atonemtn is NOW, not effective come time in the future. But Spafford and Bliss had great tragedy in their lives. But that didn't stop them from moving ahead and making the world a better place!
Rochelle HaleJune 25, 2024
I love this! Just this morning, something caught my attention, and I delayed my morning prayers. Recently I have tried to be more specific when praying for my family's and others' needs. I have realized, in one case, that I could not put limits on the Lord. I have to express my heart's desire, ask for His blessings, and ask that His will be done. I can't pray, then make exceptions or ask Him to do it this way or that way. Always, always I have to express gratitude.
Rochelle HaleJune 25, 2024
I had been a member of the Church for about four years when I served on my mission. I first learned many of my favorite hymns and children's songs in Spanish. I have so many favorites in our current hymnbook, many that are not the old standbys. I am excited to see the treasures that will be revealed in our new hymnal, but I hope some of my favorites will still be there.
Daniel E GawthropJune 25, 2024
As the composer of "Sing Me to Heaven" I would like to offer one small but significant correction to your footnote about the piece, which is to note that the wonderful words which drew forth the music are not by me, but by my eternal companion, Jane Griner Gawthrop. I have been a full-time commissioned composer for more than twenty-five years and have published hundreds of pieces of vocal music--my sweet wife has written the texts for about half of those pieces. Currently we're working on a major work for the BYU Women's Chorus which will premiere in early November.
BonnieJune 23, 2024
I'm so grateful to have read your article. It describes what I have been experiencing. God's perfect love and regard for me has been made manifest through a current trial, and at times has felt like I have been tied to the whipping post. It has increased my faith and complete trust in the Lord. It has transformed me fundamentally. It has enlarged my heart and my capacity to feel and understand other's pain. I have laid every feeling and suffering at his feet and He has strengthened me in miraculous ways. It is liberating to come to a knowledge that "lament" is a form of complete worship. For I have come to know him through this excruciating experience. Thank you sincerely for your time and effort in studying such a phenomena. It's one more tender mercy for me added to the many that have been given.
Corey D.June 23, 2024
Wonderful article. Makes me reflect a lot on what and how I taught my children. I'm 67 years old, have 4 children and 9 grandchildren, I look at the struggles some of my adult children are having in regards to life, religion, etc., and now some of my grandchildren, wonder if maybe should have put more emphasis on their being children of a Heavenly Father and not making the emphasis about church activity and all the normal stuff we usually do. Those things are important of course but maybe the number one thing they need to know is they have celestial dna.
MaryannJune 21, 2024
I am so grateful for the knowledge the Lord has given us of our pre-mortal existence. It makes me feel more connected to my Heavenly Father and my Savior. How wonderful to know that I belong to God's family, and he loves me! It is also comforting to know that they had a divine plan for my life before I was ever born, and that I did have a choice about whether to come to earth. Although I probably was not shown everything that would occur in my life on earth, I do believe we were taught what general conditions would be, and that it would not be easy. I don't know how much I could understand, since I had never experienced physical pain and many other things of the mortal condition. However, I am sure it was explained to me as much as possible. It makes me feel good to know I had faith and great love for my Savior even then, and that I believed He would atone for my sins and do all that he promised. There is one thing that bothers me--I wish we could stop referring to our pre-mortal life as the pre-existence. There is no such thing as "pre-existence." The Prophet, Joseph Smith, taught that we have always existed, and are "co-eternal with God." Although we are literal Spirit Children of our Heavenly Father and Mother, we are also intelligences, which were not created.
William BellJune 21, 2024
Life is hard. It's hard for all of us. Hard in different ways for each of us, but still hard.I have always felt the reason we are here is to help each other get through this life. Imagine if we all saw everyone as truly our brother or sister, how much easier it would be for each of us.
HelenCJune 21, 2024
So illuminating in my research as a Grief Coach. Thank you.
Steve DoneganJune 19, 2024
Again, Sister Joni, you’ve written a powerful piece. Thank you
Marc OrvinJune 19, 2024
Aww! The good old days. When you could read a newspaper and see both sides of a story. I miss him.
Colleen ShieldsJune 19, 2024
I agree that it was a disappointing attempt at continuing the same level of fun entertainment, as the 1st one. I, too, was let down by the flat character replacements and lack of stimulating story line. It could have been soooo much better, as it was rich material to be working with. Hopefully the creators will follow the 1st one's template, should they consider making yet another 1.
JeanJune 18, 2024
Thank-you for another insightful article, Becky. As you know, (because I wrote to you because I was so excited) after your last article I made the leap and changed from an occasional donor to RisingStar Outreach into a sponsor of a child. I’m still excited. I was assigned a sweet 7-year old who was about to turn eight, and so right off the bat I had the opportunity to make a little video of birthday greetings to send her. I learned from websites that some of the various meanings of her name are “golden” and “glowing.” I thought, “How appropriate for a Rising Star.” Readers, if you have ever considered taking on the sponsorship of a child, I give you my sincere encouragement. The person to person touch adds a lot to life.
Heidi StarkJune 17, 2024
What a tender moment for all involved.
Dan BradshawJune 16, 2024
On my mission we challenged a Navajo woman to read The Book of Mormon. Her day consisted of herding sheep, so she read as she walked or stood. The spirit suddenly bore witness to her the truth of that book so strongly that she lost strength in her legs and fell to the ground. I suppose if she were sitting, as most of us do while reading, that experience would have been a bit different.
PreciousJune 16, 2024
It really helped me today am grateful
Marc OrvinJune 16, 2024
Excellent article. We are being herded, like sheep, by forces that we don't fully understand. Please take the time to read the entire article. It will open your eyes. Ultimately, I hope it will open your mind to how we are being manipulated.
BJMJune 16, 2024
I strongly disagree. The reviewer here completely misses the mark (and, apparently, several plot points) with this film. It’s simply inaccurate to say that Riley faces no consequences for her actions. She is punished on the ice, damages friendships, and loses some of her sense of self/feels guilt for going against her core beliefs (spoiler alert: she returns to her core beliefs at the end after acknowledging the wrongfulness of her actions and apologizing for them). The truth is, anyone living in the real world faces challenges to their core beliefs at different stages of their lives. We all have to constantly re-assess them when faced with new challenges and information. That’s even true of faith—if it stays the same, it stagnates and dies. We have to constantly be striving to grow and expand it, which means making room for new revelation and information. One of the other key messages here was to acknowledge your self-worth and value regardless of your circumstances and changes in your life. That is completely in line with the teachings of the church and the belief that each of us is a beloved and valued child of heavenly parents, and that the Savior loved us enough to lay down his life for us. Also, as one who has dealt with actual anxiety and panic attacks, this film’s portrayal of both ring completely true. As my own daughter said, it was absolutely relatable. The fact that this reviewer has not experienced full-blown anxiety and panic attacks prevents him from understanding the impact of that portrayal—including how anxiety can completely take over and change one’s sense of self. To those who have dealt with such things, this movie sends a clear message that you are not alone and can get help, which is a critically important message for so many of us.
Christopher CunninghamJune 15, 2024
If Riley repented, the film took no effort to show the audience. Yes her behavior changes in the last moments of the climax, but only because a different inner self was installed for her to be true to. She didn’t change because it was the right thing to do. And as the denouement showed, choosing the right is not the priority, being true to yourself is, even if that means continuing to live in sin. That is certainly a message some brands of therapists try to sell their clients, and perhaps this movie will aid them in doing so, but for the sake of healthy kids I hope they see through it.
Jonathan DeckerJune 15, 2024
I could not disagree more. This film does justice to the first and conveys an important message that is aligned with the Gospel. There are PLENTY of negative consequences for Riley's behavior, they're just largely inside of herself as she feels the weight of going against her core values. Learning to love herself instead of being trapped in shame and self-loathing frees her up to feel healthy guilt instead, leading her to take accountability for her actions, make amends with the people she's hurt, and change the behaviors. This is the very essence of repentance. Paul talked about godly sorrow leading to repentance and the sorrow of the world leading to death (2 Corinthians 7:10). The sorrow of the world is what Riley feels for most of the movie: afraid, anxious, and full of self-loathing. The climax of the film finds her changing to a place of self-love, accepting herself and working on improving her behaviors without self-hatred. "Love your neighbor as yourself," Christ said. The hidden command their is to love ourselves. This movie brilliantly demonstrates self-love, accountability, and changed behavior. It can open up conversations about loving ourselves because God loves us, loving ourselves because we are children of God, and repenting because we want to be good to ourselves, not because we hate ourselves. All due respect, the movie didn't miss the mark. The reviewer missed the movie.
Corey D.June 15, 2024
A tremendously personal, touching and inspiring article. God bless you.
MeganJune 14, 2024
Please do not put all LGBTQ people in a box of infidelity. I am personally aware of many LGBTQ couples who wait for sex until after marriage and who are then completely faithful to their partner afterwards. They are absolutely wonderful, contributing members of society that have many facets to their identity.
LorettaJune 14, 2024
From my personal experience as an avid reader, I wasn't aware as a teen that 1. pornography could be written and 2. that it's rampant in fiction marketed toward young adults. I stumbled across it a lot, without seeking it out, and then didn't know what to do about it. Here's what I wish I had growing up: Please make sure that in addition to letting your daughter know the boundaries that she also feels safe reporting to you. My parents would yell and berate me if they found an inappropriate passage in a novel I was reading, even though I didn't know the book I'd checked out was inappropriate. The shame without compassion drove me more into hiding what I was reading. Contrast this with my husband: to this day, I will let him know if I started a book and came across something inappropriate, just as an accountability partner, and he does the same when he encounters inappropriate content. It makes it easier to not fall into the trap of keeping secrets. If possible, try to coach your daughter on how to find good material. It can help to look up reviews on Amazon or Goodreads before starting a book to see if anyone reports sexual content (I ironically found a great series because someone complained in a review about the LACK of explicit content). If she's an avid reader, she probably doesn't want to wait for you to get through the pile of books she wants to read, and this skill is something she can practice into later teenage years and adulthood as well. It might also help to discuss with her that while it's hard to set down a book (especially if it's one peers are reading), there is still clean fiction available. Discuss the genres she likes and try to find authors that write clean fiction within those genres.
Anti-WokeJune 13, 2024
What else can you expect from woke corporations like Disney? They are not in business to entertain. They are in business to indoctrinate. They are losing money at a high rate of speed.
S LindsayJune 12, 2024
This was delightful! Thank you for the smile!
LindaJune 11, 2024
What an outstanding article! You think you understand a concept only to find there is sooo much more depth. There are crucial elements and insights expressed that were truly beneficial to me. I am excited to study and ponder this even further. THANK YOU!!!
D. Lynn JohnsonJune 11, 2024
Thank you for your insights. Years ago I discovered the chiasm, and it is a little different from yours. A a And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; b and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people. c And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; B and he will take upon him their infirmities, C that his bowels may be filled with mercy, D according to the flesh, E that he may know D’ according to the flesh C’ how to succor his people B’ according to their infirmities. A’ a’ Now the Spirit knoweth all things; nevertheless the Son of God suffereth according to the flesh b’ that he might take upon him the sins of his people, that he might blot out their transgressions c’ according to the power of his deliverance; The second level parallelism is instructive. Placing sins parallel to pains and sicknesses is consistent with the concept that sins are, in fact, wounds as discussed by Fiona and Terryl Givens in “All Things New.” And resurrection clearly is deliverance. The big and significant difference is the point of emphasis. I think “that he may know” is, in fact, the central purpose of Jesus’ suffering throughout his mortal life.
kazaksJune 11, 2024
this is good...
MaryannJune 10, 2024
Great points made here, but the title of the article is misleading. Yes, we DO pray for what we want! The Lord has invited us many times to offer up the desires of our hearts to him. However, I was taught by my family to pray with an attitude "If it be they will." As long as we want His will to be done, of course we pray for what we desire! The Holy Ghost can guide us to know if we are praying for something that is inappropriate. In connection with this subject, I have occasionally heard people say: " Praying in faith is not hoping God will grant your desire, but KNOWING that he will." I disagree. We do not dictate to God. The Lord has taught us that if we ask in faith, we will receive, but receive what? We will receive what HE knows is best for us. We would be in big trouble if God gave us everything that we ask for, even in faith. He can see much further down the road than we can, and something that looks very right to us may not be right in His wisdom. When I am in need of something for myself or my loved ones, I pray with an attitude that God may not give me what I am asking for, but he WILL give me what I need.
MaryannJune 10, 2024
Thank you so much for affirming the words of our Prophets and Apostles concerning the fact that marriage is ONLY authorized by God for a man and a woman. Thank you for emphasizing that this truth is not going to change. False hope helps no one.
RC LakipJune 4, 2024
You are amazing! Your strength inspires all! Thank you for sharing your testimony of temple work and Christ's healing power.
Rich BowermanJune 4, 2024
What an awesome and inspiring article! Thank you!
DavidJune 4, 2024
Thank you very much for sharing your astounding story and your powerful testimony. It’s amazes me how you are able to share this. I for one am deeply moved by your story. I’m certain as a noble and great daughter of your Heavenly Father you were assigned to your family to be a Savior to them.
Christopher C DeSantisJune 4, 2024
“The Prophet Joseph Smith declared—and he never taught a more comforting doctrine—that the eternal sealings of faithful parents and the divine promises made to them for valiant service in the Cause of Truth, would save not only themselves, but likewise their posterity. Though some of the sheep may wander, the eye of the Shepherd is upon them, and sooner or later they will feel the tentacles of Divine Providence reaching out after them and drawing them back to the fold. Either in this life or the life to come, they will return. They will have to pay their debt to justice; they will suffer for their sins; and may tread a thorny path; but if it leads them at last, like the penitent Prodigal, to a loving and forgiving father’s heart and home, the painful experience will not have been in vain. Pray for your careless and disobedient children; hold on to them with your faith. Hope on, trust on, till you see the salvation of God” (Orson F. Whitney, in Conference Report, Apr. 1929, 110). This and other similar pronouncedments by the Prophet Joseph, Brigham Young, Lorenzo Snow, and others, have been of great comfort to me in similar circumstances. Thank you for sharing your story and your testimony
CynthiaJune 4, 2024
What a beautiful and inspiring story, Christy. Thank you for sharing your heart and soul. Your faith shines through. I am also a convert who has and continues to experience earthly family ruptures and finds hope in the Gospel. May God continue to bless you and your daughter.
Bob WJune 4, 2024
This is one of the most breathtaking stories of the redemptive power of Christ working in the lives of people on both sides of the veil. Thanks for your courage to tell your story, painful and harrowing then glorious and joyful—though still challenging. God bless you Sister Lakip and your children.
K. Chin - Modesto, CAJune 4, 2024
WOW! What an amazing journey you’ve had— through so many of this life’s challenges. Thank you for your sharing HOW you have sought the Lord and His healing balm. Your example is one of thriving, progressing, and applying President Nelson’s recent counsel to “think celestial!” Broken families are so common in these wrapping-up years before the return of our Savior. We’re warned of this in the scriptures and from our modern day Prophets. Yet, when devastating family dynamics seem to take away our courage, resolve—even our very ability to BREATHE—we suffer, grieve, and seem to become consumed with all of the grave wrongs and gross sins committed against us and other innocent family members. It’s part of Satan’s plan to destroy each of us by destroying our families. Last month, our area, also, had a special women’s devotional with Elder Renlund. I found him to be pointedly practical and demonstrably in-tune with the Holy Spirit as he exercised his faith to confidently share what was needed. As he encouraged an eternal perspective in attending the temple, he walked us through HOW to practically apply our sacred temple covenants to our current situations. I deeply appreciate what you shared from his explanations regarding mental illness and the tremendous difficulties created for, not only, suffering individuals—but, also their families and extended families, as well. It gives me great hope and encouragement for those of my family currently dealing with mental illness and trauma…as well as other family members trying to heal from the great emotional damage and trauma inflicted (not always consciously) upon them by those who are mentally ill. After reading this, I truly SEE a way forward that draws upon family on BOTH sides of the veil to replace great sorrow with healing, joyful blessings of HOPE. You’ve shared active, effective choices I can make to help myself and ALL of my family members. Indeed, our Father in Heaven’s timing IS perfect. Thank you for so beautifully showing and sharing this!!!
Corey D.June 2, 2024
My aunt shared an experience that I have not forgotten, when she went to the cancer center to start her treatments she was scared to death, terrified, she was all alone, one of the other patients could tell she was scared and came over to talk with her, she expressed how scared she was and he said to her, "a year from now you will look back on this and think what an amazing year, what a great learning experience", she said her first reaction to his comment was pretty much disbelief but after a year she had come to realize and know what he knew.
Wendy BeamanJune 2, 2024
The complete English hymn book seems to be in the LDS library now. We sang His Eye is on the Sparrow for our devotional today.
Corey D.June 2, 2024
We are in a sad situation no doubt. The upcoming election feels like nothing more than a choice of the lesser of two evils. I'm a deeply patriotic person and am saddened by the status of things but at the same time it's all been prophesied, we just have to keep reminding ourselves the Lord is in charge.
Corey D.June 2, 2024
I think everybody knew that Come Thou Font of Every Blessing would be back. We have a sister in our ward who does a lot of her own arrangements of hymns on the violin, her arrangement of Come Thou Font of Every Blessing is simply amazing and beautiful. I asked her to play it once when I had a speaking assignment when I was on the high council, the instant she started to play the whole chapel went silent and I mean silent, no little kids making noise, no babies crying, I had one of the sisters with young kids came up to me after the sacrament meeting and tell me she had never seen anything like that, it was almost a surreal moment. Interesting also that depending on the song different instruments may be used for accompaniment, when I was branch president at the Veterans Home one of the wards that came to do the Sacrament Meeting one of the members came in with a guitar, I thought oh no, hope he isn't planning on using that during Sacrament, I talked with him and he said he didn't know what we had available for accompaniment so had practiced on the guitar, we were pretty flexible so I said okay, have to admit I was thinking to myself, what would Elder Packer think, don't remember which hymn it was but it turned out very nice.
Robert WilliamsJune 1, 2024
You never told us in the end which stones corresponded to which tribes or zodiac constellations. He said he kept down to table 4, but table 2 is the last table that’s listed on this page.
Dave DuncanMay 31, 2024
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KarenMay 31, 2024
If he doesn't send back their clothes tell him he needs wash them so that they are ready for when they come the next time. Why do you need to send more clothes when he already has their clothes. Or you could explain that if he threw them out, he will need to buy them more clothes to wear. Not in a confrontaional manner but somethinhg like, you have their clothes from the last visit so I haven't sent any with them this time.
KathleenMay 31, 2024
"Teach a child in the way they should go . . ."
Ronald BarnesMay 31, 2024
I’m glad they brought back Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing; and included the Christmas classics He is Born the Divine Christ Child, and What Child is This? For me, the tune makes or breaks a song. I’ve listened to all the others, and several tunes have impressed me. When the Savior Comes Again, flows like a river. Two remind me of Primary songs: I Will Walk with Jesus, is sweet; and Think a Sacred Song, is reverent. His Eye is on the Sparrow, is very graceful. Gethsemane, reminds me of a Renaissance ballad. Hail the Day that Sees Him Rise, is uplifting. Star Bright, is a waltz, a Christmas Waltz. I look forward to seeing these in our hymnal.
LewisMay 31, 2024
What amazing work! I am so grateful for all you and the others at Rising Star are doing, it would be selfish not to do my small part to help. I have long enjoyed your stories and the incredible lessons embedded in them. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to join in.
BillMay 30, 2024
I don't agree with the premise that the church takes no stance. That simply isn't so. President Benson named Darwin as one of the anti-Christs. President Joseph Fielding Smith wrote an enormous and excellent book about the topic called "Man His Origin and Destiny." I am an engineer and consider myself somewhat "scientific" however I see no conflict at all here. Evolution is a theory, based on surmise and storytelling, not actual observations of our world. It is promoted to push a world-view adverse to belief in God and against the ideas of human dignity. If this whole thing is the result of a series of happy little accidents and survival of the fittest, then murder would be a net good for society. Thankfully, its not, so it's not!
Big Jim from NoCalMay 30, 2024
I've wondered why California Governor Gavin Newsom refers to his wife as "first partner" rather than "first lady" as is customarily done.
RLHMay 29, 2024
I have always found it very interesting that when the Savoir established our current four year reding cycle of the scriptures that the Book of Mormon is studied in an election year. You can't tell me that the Savior doesn't know what will happen and how important the Book of Mormon, as a witness to His divinity, is for our survival.
Rochelle HaleMay 29, 2024
I don't see a problem with praying for what we want as long as we learn to wait on God's timing and learn to recognize His answers when they come in a moment, an hour, a day, months, or even years. Too often we are so focused on what we think should be the outcome that we miss even greater blessings and direction. Sadly, many curse the Lord or blame Him when the results aren't what they expected. I believe in the recent teachings of President Nelson that we should all seek for personal revelation and inspiration. If we feel we aren't getting answers to our prayers or we aren't recognizing the answers, then perhaps we need to pray that the Holy Ghost helps us modify our prayers and helps us overcome any discouragement while we are waiting.
Jenny SvendsenMay 29, 2024
Thank you so much for that beautiful uplifting article! I pray for my boys, that angels may be by their sides, to help them through the hardships they are experiencing, through their life due to their actions, but I always let heavenly Father know, that He knows them intimately and they are in His hands.
Pat StanfordMay 28, 2024
Great piece! Thank you.
Bob JonesMay 28, 2024
Every time I slip on a clean garmet I feel as if I have just put on the "whole armor of God"
HelenCMay 28, 2024
Thank you for this. The current culture of demonization MUST be stopped. A dear family member is suffering because their children have been allowed to escape the discomfort of discipline under the mistaken believe that it is cruel. So sad!
CASMay 28, 2024
Many are deceived by the actual horrors of the present Gadiantin robbers (elected officials) on the state and national level. May our hearts be opened, and our hands elect righteous leaders again nationally and locally here in Utah.
Rick DaltonMay 28, 2024
One of the most important axioms that we can uphold, is to in unity discard the deceitful discussion of left and right, and instead Focus on the foundational truth of right and wrong. And one absolute foundational pillar in the structure of America, is the Constitution of the United States, inspired and endorsed by God himself. President David O McKay had this to say: "Other than being one and worshiping God, there is nothing in this world upon which this church should be more united than in upholding and preserving the constitution of the of the United States."
SamLMay 27, 2024
This is a great synopsis of one of the many lessons of the Book of Mormon. Thank you for taking the time to research and write it.
Brian D. StubbsMay 27, 2024
Good and relevant article. Angel Herrero’s comment is solid. Beyond national leaders, the book warns of “secret combinations” which are many, nationally and globally, the former subservient to the latter. The Controligarchs (by Bruner) is a start to clarifying which Americans serve the anti-American combinations, seeking power, not peoples’ freedoms. Most presidents do little to dent the combinations founded by the evil one (2 Nephi 26:22), a few facilitate them, but the combinations know which among recents is the greatest threat to weaken their power, thus he is the most persecuted in history, while the facilitators are free to facilitate destruction.
SimplicioMay 27, 2024
The Book of Mormon speaks of ambitious men and political leaders who "stirred up unto anger" their people for the purpose of gaining power and influence, often resulting in war and conflict. (Alma 48:3;51:9;63:14.) Lamanite kings are not the only ones who employ such tactics. How I wish that we could all recognize that for what it is: knee-jerk politics, or at its worst, radicalization! "It is the wicked that stir up the hearts of the children of men unto bloodshed." Mormon 4:5 So: Don't vote Lamanite! Their leaders and pundits are forever using false (but alluring) traditions to stir up anger, resentment and distrust in their unwitting followers.
John JacksonMay 27, 2024
An eight-year-old article that speaks even louder as we approach the 2024 election. Will our nation be blinded by cunning and flattering words? There are plenty of news stories making it clear what is happening, but we are being told not to listen to them; don't trust the mainstreet media. I think of the scripture that warns there would come a day when the people would not accept the truth, but be turned to fables. I would suggest that instead of setting aside the warnings of the mainstreet press, spurn the media that has sprung up to counter the truth, dealing in fables to our destruction.
CarolMay 25, 2024
I love that you taught the empty room - just as your were scheduled to do! And it surely was merciful to give the extra credit. GREAT LIFE LESSON!!!!
Melanie SteinMay 25, 2024
Thank you for this beautiful article. What a wonderful reminder that we shouldn't "sweat the small stuff" and in the grand scheme of things most earthly things are "small stuff." Even things that we may THINK are big stuff, like a messy garage, are really only small stuff. Thanks for reminding us to focus on the small ONES who are the most important.
Annie JensenMay 24, 2024
This is exactly what I needed to help me submit in my prayers! I can connect with “priorities.” A huge thank you!
Loa AndersenMay 24, 2024
Wonderful story and exactly what I needed today! My living room has been a disaster zone since my son passed away last year...and I'm embarrassed about it. However, other things seem to take priority....some of them important and some not so much! I'm going to take your advice and ask Heavenly Father to help me prioritize! Thank you so much!
Linda OwenMay 24, 2024
While I am sure some of those other things weigh on you as well, I am thankful for your priorities. It reminds me that people over projects is always the right choice. Projects will always be there and we will get to them as soon as possible but I will remember this wonderful reminder of the BEST choice.
Jenny SvendsenMay 24, 2024
WOW! Thank yo so much for this article! I lie on Salt Spring Island bc Canada, to get to our Stake center I have a 15 min. drive to the ferry, usually get there 1 hr. before sailing, to make sure i get on, then just a 25 min. drive to the Stake Center in Victoria. So this morning I'm so thankful for your story, I will leave at 10:40 to catch the 11:50 ferry, stay overnight in our camper van and catch the 9am ferry back, in the morning, to be home at 10am. I could have chosen to stay home and miss out on our Stake Talent Show and taken care o things at home, but I decided to support the Stake leaders who have put so much work into this event, they and I will be blessed for this. As I took down from the walls my crosstitch picture I have made through the years, I noticed they were dusty, but noone would have known that!
Rochelle HaleMay 24, 2024
Thank you for the article. While I appreciate that the "messy garage" may be a sign that the family or persons are engaged in other worthwhile causes (and I hope they are), I see it also as a sign of neglect. Does it cause issues within the family? Does it affect the budget when items can't be found and new purchases must be made? Does it prevent the storage of other necessities or worthwhile items, such as camping equipment or emergency preparedness supplies? Is it a fire hazard?
Steve DoneganMay 24, 2024
This is one brother who needed to read this today. Thank you for sharing. There are two sides to the Lord’s work: ministering and administering. My Eternal Companion says I’m really good at administering, but woefully deficient in ministering. I’ll try to move forward with your suggestion, even if it means doing things that are uncomfortable for me.
David ShafferMay 24, 2024
Great story. Thank you for reminding me of what is important and how to find out what to do about it. A wonderful message for all of us.
Mary TarbetMay 23, 2024
Thank you! So many intriguing thoughts and parallels!
MaryannMay 23, 2024
Great points made here. I would add that we need to keep our statements simple. I thought the suggested statement about how to talk to a neighbor about not returning tools was too long. Keep is short and simple. Example: "Sam, I'm really happy to lend you my tools, and could you please return them as soon as you're finished?" No need for more than a sentence.
MaryannMay 23, 2024
The older I become, the more I treasure wearing my temple garment. "Putting on Christ" every day is a great blessing. I feel the Savior has clothed me with great tenderness and love. If we train ourselves to think about the act of dressing in the garment each day as a renewal of our covenant to follow Christ, it will strengthen us throughout the day. Also, we need to remember that, Just as we would never allow the flag to touch the ground, we should show respect for the garment by caring for it carefully.
Cynthia VaughnMay 21, 2024
I LOVE your article, Mariah. Well thought out and well written, Such a great reminder as to why we wear the garment and the blessings that we receive when we do. Thanks so much for this.
LindaMay 21, 2024
Very well written and thought provoking. Good to share with young missionaries and YSAs. I recall a book I read many years ago. ( I believe it was titled, THE BROKEN COVENANT) The adulterous woman, while communing with her bishop, was deeply contemplating when she first committed adultery. The answer.....when she made the decision to remove her garments. WOW! I have never forgotten that!!! THANKS, Mariah.
Joni HiltonMay 21, 2024
Simply beautiful, and beautifully simple.
Charles McClellandMay 21, 2024
Thank you, Mariah. We need to remember the purposes of the garment.
Charles McClellandMay 21, 2024
Wonderful advice from our wonderful Prophet.
Dan BradshawMay 21, 2024
I would refer to a book, Earth in the Beginning, by Eric Skousen. Very good science against evolution. Yes, there may have been natural selection and adaptation, but no evolving into different kinds. Also, the series, Is Genesis History?, puts a whole lot of serious doubt into evolution and the age of the earth.
MattMay 21, 2024
If the Lord created us through evolution, so be it - He can do all things. However, 13 years of public education, and 8 years of higher education has failed to show me sufficient evidence for macro evolution. In fact, from what I have seen, those who tout this view have way more faith than I do. I just can't make that leap - and they take many leaps of faith. There is some good, solid evidence to the contrary, as I later discovered, but it l doesn't always make it past the academic filters which protect the narrative (not the truth). I've seen this narrative protection in progress in my own courses, a kind of circular reasoning.
Dan ShewellMay 20, 2024
This theory of evolution-- and it is a theory, it's not provable science--appeared on the world scene roughly at the same time as the Restored Gospel was beginning to gain a foothold. It is, in my opinion the blackest of lies from the deepest pit of Hell carefully introduced among the world's elite to deceive and to discredit God. Elder McConkie said as much in his landmark address, the Seven Deadly Heresies". I'm no scientist but I know enough to assert that mankind, the children of God, did not at any time or in any sense "evolve" from lower life forms. All life was commanded at creation to multiply "after its own kind", not to morph from one kind to another. In sacred places we hear that fact stated over and over.
Ronald BarnesMay 20, 2024
I have no problem accepting both evolution and religion. To evolutionist I say, nothing about evolution makes it necessary to exclude a supreme being. To the religionist I say, nothing about creation excludes God from using evolution to help bring it about. While I believe in evolution, I realize that it is just a theory and not a fact. It will not become a fact until scientists can change one type of life form into another type of life form.
Steve DoneganMay 20, 2024
While studying at the University of Nebraska I found science books published by BYU. In one was a forward by the then current president of the university. In it he wrote that as far as evolution was concerned, he had only the opinion that evolution may happen, but the first humans on earth were Adam and Eve. I agree with him wholeheartedly.
Jackson PembertonMay 20, 2024
I am surprised that Peterson makes no mention of Darwin's doubts about his theory. He was especially concerned about the large gap in the evolutionary tree where hundreds of species seem to all appear at once with no transitional evidence. He was deeply moved by the eye saying that it seemed an impossible thing to create by pure random mutations.
LewisMay 20, 2024
I commented earlier, but it seems not to have posted. I want to comment again because I feel so strongly about this. I have been given so much in my life - a wonderful family, the gospel,healthn and for the last several years, these wonderful articles. How can I not give back just a bit and give life to one of these precious children! These are truly "the least of these," and I hear the Savior's admonition to all of us. I am grateful for all you are doing, and delighted to give back just a bit as a token of my gratitude.
David DuncanMay 20, 2024
Neo-Darwinism is bankrupt. Even honest Darwinists realize the more we learn about life, the further we get from Darwinist explanations. Even Charles Darwin knew of the holes in his theory, he just expected them to be filled as research progressed. The opposite has happened. Natural selection? Sure, we can observe that. Speciation? The few times it seems to have happened looks more like de-evolution than evolution. And at the genus level, evolution looks utterly out of the question. The Discovery Institute is a good place to get info on evolution from a faithful perspective. Intelligent Design is a scientific theory that is quite compatible with creationism, the Bible, and the Pearl of Great Price. (see discovery.org/id and evolution.news)
Ben JonesMay 20, 2024
As a member of the LDS Faith, I have no problem with the age of the universe. If God is eternal, as we and all Christians believe, and eternity is a very long time, we should not be at all surprised that the Earth and the Universe appears to be very old. The Genesis account describes a sequence of events, with the idea that things were done in a certain order. Even the concept of "survival of the fittest" implies an intelligence deciding what works. And at what point does intelligence begin to change the destiny of creation? Just look at Man. He is not content to let evolution mindlessly go on. He farms, he selectively breeds, he develops technology to control his environment and beat the odds...
Harold RustMay 19, 2024
Thanks! A profound but very unnerving awareness of what we can expect here in America as a land of promise but also a nation in which there are so many destructive elements competing for dominance in our society, government, and spiritual interactions. I appreciate the selective quotes from one of the greatest contemporary historical evaluators of our time. May we as a people ponder deeply the implications of those actions we take--or fail to take--which have proven soi disastrous for civilizations on the past.
SarahMay 19, 2024
This was an excellent and insightful article. We have read this as a large family with a struggling sister. I will now share it with my children. Thank you so much!
RobertMay 18, 2024
I love Sister Inouye. I listened to one of her podcasts and purchased her book called "Crossings" because I loved her analogy of the gospel being like a string of Christmas lights. When a bulb here or there are not working do not through out the string. I reached out to her when I heard her cancer returned and I expressed my gratitude for her book. She actually responded. I have since listened to all of her podcasts I could find and just relished her as a scholar and voice for the church and it breaks my heart that she has gone so early. As she would say, cancer is cancer. Her living faith and example in discipleship amidst her pain, is a lifelong lesson for us all. We honor her legacy by serving one another and making our wards and branches stronger by serving them.
Chris HillMay 18, 2024
I like your logic Scott. I try to follow a LDS liturgical calendar commemorating sacred events of the Restoration and it has always bothered me slightly that I don't have a Melchezidek Priesthood Restoration date. Well done you!
Paulette D.May 17, 2024
The main heartache of my life has been that I am single and have never had children. I have learned, though, of the compensatory blessings that come from the Savior. My sister had seven children and I have been blessed through being an aunt and now a great-aunt. At the time I would have been the mother of young children, I served in Primary. At the time I would have been the mother of teenagers, I taught early morning seminary. Now, when I would have been a grandmother, I am teaching the youth in Sunday and early morning seminary again. I love, love, love being the grandmother of the ward! Still, when I go home after work to a silent home, I do feel lonely. I also hope that mothers who have given birth to children or who grieve their infertility or loss of a child do not feel like their sacrifices do not matter when we now learn about the expanded vision of motherhood includes all covenant daughters of God. I stand in awe of their lifetime of service to their children.
LewisMay 17, 2024
I look at the rich blessings that have been poured out upon my life - health, family, the gospel, as well as the precious gift your ariticles provide each month - and I ask myself, “how can I not give?” Perhaps in a small way I can do something for “the least of these my brethren.” Thank you for allowing us to participate in this great work.
Dorothy ThompsonMay 16, 2024
Yes…I have a copy of my Gr. grandfather’s journal ( which the original is in the Church archives). and he was in attendance at an outdoor meeting where he experienced this , also…he said that those who were not in attendance did not have the assurance the Brigham Young was to be their next leader and prophet…and followed after Sidney Rigdon or others! He also describes the Prophet and he had great admiration for him!
WallyMay 16, 2024
Beautiful! And it was just last October 8 that we stood on the shores of the Susquehanna River and were lifted by Scot and Maurine's testimonies. We are forever grateful!
MarianMay 16, 2024
That is very beautiful!
Stewart LangMay 16, 2024
I served my Mission in the Minnesota Wisconsin Mission 1972 to 1974 with President Vern R Peel and Sister Hilda Peel. During one of our Mission Conferences Sister Peel read from her Great Grand parents journal about this part of Church history as they were there and saw and heard in detail of what had happened. I am sure there family has the Journal of this event.
KarenPMay 16, 2024
Absolutely beautiful painting! Thank you for sharing your gift with the world.
KathleenMay 16, 2024
Love that we have documentation of this most important event. Thank you for the beautiful pictures to accompany the history.
Gerald SmithMay 15, 2024
Love the story from Borrowman. James Park is my 3d great grandfather's brother! Wonderful story to share with my family.
Jackson PembertonMay 15, 2024
I was glad to see so much detail! It would be interesting, but not particularly significant, to know the order of ordination of these brethren to the Office of Apostle.
Bruce BarlowMay 15, 2024
Beautiful pictures, wonderful memories of this quiet, profound experience with heaven. The Lord is good. So are you. Thank you for sharing these wonderful heavenly experiences. Bruce
Helen FurrMay 15, 2024
Scot, your video is stunning! You are a beautiful photographer and your voice is so calm and assuring. I am so thankful for videos such as yours that allow us to see in our mind these sacred places, and hear in our hearts the truth of the restoration! Thank you! Helen
Jackson PembertonMay 15, 2024
Great film! I had forgotten that so much had happened right here!
Ronald BarnesMay 15, 2024
Whether or not Brigham was transformed into the voice, or even image, of Joseph is irrelevant. In the revelation on priesthood, given through Joseph at Kirtland, Ohio, and dated March 28, 1835; “The twelve traveling councilors are called to be the Twelve Apostles, … And they form a quorum, equal in authority and power to the three presidents previously mentioned.” (D&C107:23 - 24) With only one member of the Quorum of the First Presidency remaining, it could no longer function as a governing body. That made it necessary for the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles to take over as the next body with the same authority.
Piero Mazzei, Toronto, Canada.May 14, 2024
In 1977 or thereabouts I attended a devotional at the Marriot C. in Provo. An aging Elder Le Grand Richards was the designated speaker. He related an episode in his life when as a little boy he sat on his grandmother's knees. His GM took told him of the day she was present when Brigham Young took the stage following Sidney Rigdon. She said that she witnessed the changes in B. Young's countenance and in his voice which made him appear as if Joseph Smith was addressing the congregation! Elder le Grand Richards bore powerful testimony of that experience, adding that his Grandma would not tell him something that was not true! Elder Richard's powerful testimony became my testimony as if I had been there myself! A life changing event for me which is still vivid in my soul!
Rebecca HANSENMay 14, 2024
My Great Great Grandmother was in Nauvoo when this event took place and also said that she saw and heard Joseph when Brigham spoke. Susan Noble was her name and she later married Jedediah Morgan Grant who is the father of my Great Grandfather. Joseph Hyrum Grant.
MaryannMay 13, 2024
Praying is a wonderful way of keeping our Sacrament covenants to always remember our Savior, and to keep His commandments. Also, when we pray in His name, we are also taking upon ourselves His name. Because of this, prayer enables us to keep all three of our Sacrament covenants every day! Prayer strengthens our testimonies. You feel a confirmation that the things you are saying in your prayer are true. When we thank Heavenly Father for our Prophet, we feel a reconfirmation that we really do have a real Prophet on earth today. When we thank Him for the beauties of the earth, our faith is confirmed that he created all things for us in his great love and that we are important to Him. The Spirit witnesses to our souls once again that the things we believe and are speaking are true.
MaryannMay 13, 2024
Perhaps people would not object to a temple in their neighborhood if they knew that their property values will probably rise as a result. The temple elevates the area surrounding it.
ParlMay 13, 2024
Thank you for that wonderful article. For years I've been anxious about not offending on mother's day. Your article really helps.
Jana KeenMay 13, 2024
Thank-you for the informative article. It sheds light on some important details of the process of building temples.
Rochelle HaleMay 13, 2024
Yesterday we attended a ward while out of state. Sacrament meeting was wonderful, but the bishop expressed his concern that over the years he has had trouble asking people to speak on Mother's Day. As I reflected on his remarks, then later had time to ponder in Relief Society, I thought about my motherhood journey. My own mother passed just a few months ago. My husband realized that this was our first Mother's Day without either of our moms. My life has run the gamut of infertility, divorce, step-parenting, the heartache of wayward children, and becoming an "orphan." I cannot think of a single Mother's Day that I did not attend church or felt unworthy. Yes, there were probably Sundays when I didn't want the flowers or cookies that were offered, but I was in church because that is where I knew I should be. If we believe in all that our Savior has done through His Atonement, then the challenges of motherhood should be no exception. I pray that my own difficult experiences will make me more compassionate, but Mother's Day (or any other holiday) does not make us exempt from trying to stay on the covenant path.
K.Chin—Modesto, CAMay 13, 2024
This is such a timely article. Thank you for writing it! A favorite tool of the adversary—to provoke individuals to take offense—is sweeping our world with great success. As members of the restored Church of Jesus Christ, we TRY to live IN this world, but be not OF it. Still, these worthy efforts do not always keep us from being “tricked” into following worldly ways. All around us are individuals seeking such worldly validation. IF their particular circumstances, lives, choices, difficulties, etc., are not reflected as they feel is appropriate…modern thinking requires a call to action—or a WAR—to demand they be recognized, included, validated, honored, etc., as the world has lead them to believe their over-emphasized DIFFERENCES require. During the seasons of my life, I have fallen into several categories when it comes to celebrating “mothers.” We need articles like this to remind us we are more alike than we are different! Yes, there is definitely a need to be inclusive of everyone; yet, this is best achieved by listening to promptings from the Holy Spirit, and walking our talk—as professed disciples of our Savior, Jesus Christ. I remember a Know Your Religion speaker who reminded the audience; the term diversity connects to the idea of “divide and conquer.” This tactic presumes to isolate individuals and groups by focusing on DIFFERENCES and creating internal conflict as a means for their ultimate destruction. Jesus Christ, through His unfailing LOVE, taught and showed that ALL are included, welcome, and appreciated! We are daughters of our Eternal Parents. It is right and good to honor this. We need to extend some grace to ourselves, as much as most of us earnestly wish to extend grace to others. CHOOSE to NOT take offense. CHOOSE to be a peacemaker. CHOOSE to focus on the Devine creation of woman—then the very mortal attempts to honor mothers, and women, need not become additional tools of Satan to divide and conquer us. We can fully participate in and appreciate the good that comes from a special day, and an occasion, to celebrate and honor daughters of God.
KathleenMay 12, 2024
Clearly an expensive endeavor!
GusleyMay 12, 2024
I cannot bear children, a fact I learned at a young age. In half a century of live, I have never been married. As a woman, I have eternal potential for being a wife and mother, even if I cannot experience it here in mortality. Eve was called The Mother of All Living before she had ever borne a child. God saw her eternal potential just as He sees mine. Thank you for a beautiful article honoring all who are currently mothers and those of us who look forward to that blessing with hope in Christ.
RachelMay 11, 2024
I really appreciated this message, thank you.
MJMay 11, 2024
my daughter and I are so saddened to hear of her death; we loved listening to her insights on Come Follow Up with Ben Lomu. Prayers and peace for her husband and children.
Daryl GibsonMay 11, 2024
I bought multiple copies of "Sacred Struggle" and am passing them among my friends.
Pamela DeanMay 11, 2024
Those are all excellent points. My big beef is that in every Ward that I have been in in the United States, the aaronic priesthood campout is held on Mother's Day weekend. On the one weekend a year dedicated to mothers in over a hundred countries around the world, the men and boys take off to go camping by themselves , leaving their wives and mothers behind to take care of the house and take care of the younger children and whatever else needs to be done. Why can't they go camping the weekend after Mother's Day? Or the weekend before? Where is the mother and daughter camp out?
Corey D.May 10, 2024
Robert Fulghum one of my favorite authors, best known for the book "All I Really Need to Know I Learned In Kindergarten", writes in one of his other books that Mother's Day was the one Sunday he dreaded preparing a sermon for when he was a minister, somebody always had a critique or complaint about the sermon on Mother's Day, one time he just let go and told the cold hard reality, said the congregation got pretty quiet and seemed pretty attentive, he thought to himself " finally reached everyone, that is until a little old lady who was visiting for Mother's Day came up after the sermon and pretty much told him he would end up in hell for that sermon. My wife worked at a flower shop for about 10 yrs, Mother's Day and Valentine's Day were the two biggest days, she would have a long day the day before. I would usually drop in sometime during the day and would say out loud, "how's the guilt selling today", she never thought it was funny but the other ladies did.
MeganMay 10, 2024
Mariah, I wish I could give you a huge hug. You speak so many words I've felt myself--the frustration, the lack of control over the growth I'd like to experience vs. the growth I'm forced to experience, the longing for former opportunities, the desire to lean into the stage I'm in with more fullness of heart. Your stage of life is so tender and delightful, and so exhausting and repetitive. Many other delightful stages are ahead! And they'll come with their own challenges (my girls are now 15, 13, and 11 and their problems at this age are less simple to solve). I gobble up every article you write and am so appreciative of your depth of perspective. You're a wonderful mother--and the particular struggles you face will add nuance and wisdom to your experience that will lift and comfort others.
Ana BlakeMay 10, 2024
This so spoke to my heart although I am a little further down the path of motherhood than you--six of my 11 kids have "flown" but I SO remember experiencing many of the frustrations you mentioned. It IS frustrating to have gifts you want to express but that have been put on "hold" for less satisfying stuff like laundry and dishes. What was hardest for me was the near constant bids for my attention, often leaving me feeling fragmented by the end of the day. "Will I EVER get to have a complete thought again?" What I can see now that was less apparent then is that what you are doing WILL stick. When I see my grown children raising their kids, faithfully holding callings, and attending to their prayers and scripture study and bearing vibrant testimonies of the Restoration, I can see that all those days and nights where it seemed so much was "temporary" wasn't. It just takes a long time to see the results. This does not change the day to day grind that can feel so heavy and burdensome, especially when you have a certain intellectual gifts like you do. This is all process of refining and growth and if we keep trying and trust the Lord, he will show ways to find joy NOW as the oh so important work of rearing these previous, natural man little kids goes forward. Thank you for your article!
Linda WestoverMay 10, 2024
Yes, it is a long hard struggle to become the kind of mother we long to be, especially if we feel that we're expected to be perfect. I believe it is BECAUSE we love so much, we place extra pressure upon ourselves to be nothing short of perfect. But we have no way of knowing what "perfect" looks like for our particular family members. I'm convinced that doing our best over the long run IS PERFECT to Him who knows our hearts and desires. Motherhood is as much about the effect it has upon our becoming refined as it is about the effect we have on shaping our children. Slow and steady wins the race!
LindaMay 9, 2024
I am sorry to hear of her passing. I’ve always enjoyed her input. She was insightful in so many ways. There is a gentleness in her voice. My prayers go out to her family.
Patricia CarrMay 9, 2024
I am so sorry to hear of her death. I so enjoyed listening to her wisdom ensight on "Come Follow up" with Bn Lomu.
KathleenMay 8, 2024
What a legacy for the most important and sacred covenant in which members participate each week.
Jamie QuistMay 1, 2024
Interesting article! How dates are determined and how the timing can change perspectives. I always look forward to your articles!
Lois CleggApril 30, 2024
I was so touched by his words . they are so true and meaningful to me. Thank you brother Holland. I love the Gospel and I thank you for sharing .
LeciaApril 30, 2024
Please tell us the name of the book! I can't find anything online by Larry that seems related to the power of faith.
JUNE GAMBLEApril 30, 2024
What an amazing article. I was so overwhelmed with emotion I could not speak
ColinApril 29, 2024
Well put. What King Benjamin said flies right in the face of the whole self-esteem movement — more like a universal article of faith these days. Many members of the Church regularly teach that “love thy neighbor as thyself” is a command to practice self-love. But when the Giver of that command told a story to illustrate what He meant, not a word of the story was about increasing one’s own self-esteem. Not one. The Samaritan’s actions and thoughts and love were all for the injured traveler, not himself.
HelenCApril 29, 2024
“Nothing + the Lord = Everything” Brilliant! As Ammon says, “Yea, I know that I am nothing; as to my strength, I am weak. Therefore I will not boast of myself but I will boast of my God, for in his strength I can do all things.” Alma 26:12
Lawrence BarryApril 29, 2024
Someone once said “Compared to God we are nothing, TO God we are everything”
Donald CyrApril 29, 2024
Dear Maureen, thank you so much to helping me understanding a " Paradigme " of such of an important matter to guide me throughout the abysmal challenge of worthiness, while surrender in the depth of humiliation to grow and learn more, one step at the time, about the real purpose of our struggling existence...♂️
JennyApril 29, 2024
I echo the above comments. I have watched in great dismay as 5 of our 6 adult children have left the Church I love. Your article is so inspiring and brings great hope not just to me but to many friends who are going through similar intense struggles as I have forwarded the article to them. Thank you for the amazing insights into this allegory that I have not seen in such a personal way before
Shelly NApril 29, 2024
Maureen thank you for this utterly inspired article. I don't think I've ever read a better one and that's saying something since I enjoy so many of the articles here. It is a masterpiece. Truly. The writing itself touched me deeply and the doctrine is so clearly laid out. Simply, thank you. Now, back to read it again.
Jerry WorthenApril 29, 2024
Is this going to be available to attend virtually? I live on the east coast.
Helmut A. WorleApril 28, 2024
This is only generally related to the subject: I was 17 when I investigated the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I can still recall pleading in my prayers "please do not send me an angel." I would have been very much afraid of such a visit.
Kathie RamptonApril 27, 2024
That was one of the most brilliant things I have ever read. I am sending it on to others. Thank you. It is a faith strengthener
Duane BoyceApril 26, 2024
Great article! An important principle very well put. Thank you.
Abbie VianesApril 26, 2024
This was such a great article. I loved it. I know it but will write down the Really Really important questions and review them and recommit my intent and desire to grow in them. Thank you so very much. I can say I have since I joined the Church wanted to spend an hour inside the Saviors heart and another in His mind to hear His thoughts and feelings. And try to shift mine to His.
Jenny SvendsenApril 23, 2024
Thank you from deep within my heart for that wonderful uplifting article! As I was readingit, all of a sudden I found myself talking o our 43 year old son, who passed away 5 y6 years ago, when he passed, he came to me and has visited me several times since. My husband has feelings that he is 'on the way', he had a tumoulteous life, into drugs etc. Our other 2 sons also use drugs and alcohol, and this article helped me realize that 'heavenly Father is on their case' and when the time is right, we will see how He has gided them, as He did my husband, it's all in His hands and timing.
NicoleApril 23, 2024
Thank you for writing this. We have a couple "Daves" in our family, this article gives me hope for them.
Linda WestoverApril 22, 2024
These were some very helpful suggestions. I especially loved the idea of sending paper hugs. Just "showing up", whether in person or on paper, gives the Spirit opportunity to move us forward toward the next step of ministering. Thanks for addressing this topic. We can all improve.
BonnieApril 22, 2024
Thank you so much. Our son passed away unexpectedly as a young adult 25 years ago. I can still feel how much it meant to me to have friends show up. It was such a wonderful example to me what to do for others. One of my sisters had passed away a few years before and her sweet daughter came and said "my mother sent me". What a blessing for me to hear that. A wonderful article, thank you again.
Corey D.April 21, 2024
Eloquently expressed, thank you and thank you for your defense and testimony of a prophet.
Craig FrogleyApril 19, 2024
Thank you, Joseph! This was so well written, as usual!! This meshes so well with the Words of Mormon-Small Plates- lost 116 pages story. I have been an admirer of your work for so many years...it is so good to see you in print again and hear that TOSA is still instrumental in saving so many!!
Holly DudleyApril 19, 2024
This story really hit home to me as I have a granddaughter who is a meth addict & is presently serving time in jail for theft. She has 2 children & a significant “ other”, Who loves her, but struggles with the ups & downs of not only her addiction, but also her bipolar disorder. My daughter does all she can to help but is very discouraged. This story is a story of hope that they all need to hear. Thank you for sharing it.
HelenCApril 19, 2024
Once again the Spirit has put an article I need in front of me. As we approach our 30th wedding anniversary I find myself bombarded with messages that tell me Father is intimately aware of my ex-RM’s 35 year journey in the “wilderness” of agnosticism. I know He hasn’t given up, so I don’t need to, either.
Rochelle HaleApril 19, 2024
What an amazing work you do! Thank you for sharing. Many years ago we visited family friends in another state. On Sunday all they could do was tell us over and over that we had to meet so-and-so at church. During the meetings, we saw no one out of the ordinary. As we were leaving, our friends pointed across the room to the man they had been telling us about. He did not stand out. He was clean and dressed nicely. This experience has stayed with me over 40 years because I felt our friends (and perhaps their ward members) were looking back to where this brother had come from and what he had overcome instead of where he was and his future potential.
Lisa ReisingApril 19, 2024
Thank you for this writing Brother Petersen. I also stand with Brother Brigham despite all his perceived failings by our current sensitivities, because I surely have more of those failings and hope to be afforded some mercy for intent of the heart. I'm so grateful we have the snippets of primary sources available to us - to those who dig - to shed light on what some tend to twist up for character assassination.
CubbyApril 19, 2024
Interesting article. I especially appreciated reading “Its nothing to do with the blood,” replied President Young, “for of one blood has God made all flesh.” Gladd the world has changed.
Angela WalkerApril 18, 2024
You did it again Brother Grenny! Your life’s work is incredible! Thank you :)
HelenCApril 18, 2024
Sweet friends, I have been searching for a better head-heart connection as my ADHD just seems to make meditation impossible! Your story has pointed me more earnestly towards a spiritual approach. Thank you, again!
Linda WestoverApril 18, 2024
The Lord truly is in the details of our lives, even when it takes us a while to recognize His hand! Thanks for this tender story of your experience in learning "Be still and know that I am God."
RobinApril 18, 2024
This was such a beautiful post! I am so grateful that you are sharing your experiences from your mission! I’ll be thinking about the lost key fob for a long time. What a sweet blessing-actually many blessings! Thank you, Elder and Hermana Proctor!
Jeanette SmithApril 18, 2024
Those missionaries are so lucky to have you there. The mission leaders must be extático as well.
Pat HealyApril 17, 2024
Thank You for this wise and informative article. I wish every parent and young person could read it. I couldn't agree more about the need for face to face interaction for all ages. I personally have never signed up for any type of social media. I've always thought it to be a counterfeit in-the-way of genuine communication; as well as a waste of time. Thank you again. You are a wise woman!
VivienApril 17, 2024
These last words were so touching and beautiful to read. Thank you
Tressy BrownApril 17, 2024
So nicely done! Thank you for sharing the video with us.
Richard ChristensenApril 17, 2024
I really enjoyed Meg Stout's book - Reluctant Polygamist: Joseph Smith Jr. I found it very faith-promoting.
Jenny SvendsenApril 17, 2024
Thank you so much for sharing your esperiences. Regarding fb...I have cut down drastically on fb, I like it because I can read articles andother good uplifting words from church leaders, I like keeping in touch with my real life friends, I do need to learn how to delete ads and other things. I also had the thought, that when the Saviour comes again, I wouldn't want to be caught on fb.
LewisApril 17, 2024
This article, and the story that forms the basis for your article, is quite thought-provoking. In many ways, I think this i one of your best. I am afraid we all too often swim with the crocodiles, knowing they are lurking, but believing we are invincible. While we can innocently swim in dangerous waters, all too often we do so intentionally, somehow hoping for divine protection.
KathleenApril 16, 2024
And thus we see that by small means the Lord can bring about great things. Thank you for pointing out the treasures in this small book.
KathleenApril 16, 2024
Beautifully inspiring!
Monica ChamberlandApril 16, 2024
Hello, I read and I want to thank you very much for sharing your talents and thoughts which have inspired me also very much! Thank you! Monica
KarenApril 16, 2024
Beautiful words. Beautiful poem. I just read Jarom's book and now I appreciate it even more. Thank you!
Steve DoneganApril 16, 2024
After your article listing the four books you mention here, I ordered them and read them. My Eternal Companion is reading them now. I’m getting to that point in age where I’ve given up on being the scholar I wish I was, so I read your articles with great enthusiasm. Thank you for studying so much and sharing what you’ve learned with us. You are appreciated.
Gary BealApril 16, 2024
WOW!! Wonderfully done. I don't remember Meridian doing anything like this before (but I'm a little slower in my old age). Thanks so much for the stunning video overlaid with the magnificent and inspiring counsel of the prophets and apostles.
Jean CalllisterApril 16, 2024
I side with your Mom -- I love your writings! When I see your name as author, my heart quickens and I feel excitement and expectation. Thank you for endorsing Jarom. (His Mom thanks you too.) I loved your Ode to Jarom. Keep on keeping on. I will keep reading.
Steve DoneganApril 16, 2024
Sis. Linford, don’t think you’re a smaller author than Jarom! You are gratefully read and we’re lucky to have you. Thank you for penning your thoughts, especially on such an important subject.
ScottApril 16, 2024
Reestablishing intimacy after a trust violation brings up the issue of comparison: questions, is that how she did this, is that what he did to get your interest, did she wear perfume, did he …. These are the more inhibiting factors in regaining trust and interest. Is it real or just a technique of lust? Giving or receiving intimacy always has the question of how am I doing, was it good, did he do this or that, did she enjoy…. All these questions influence the affection and commitment or overcoming timidity and unabashed activity. Comparison is the bomb!
Spencer MacdonaldApril 16, 2024
Thank you for this article. I have sometimes thought to myself that few of us are situated to speak as momentously as Nephi, Alma, Mormon, Moroni, etc. Instead, the Lord calls on most of us to do, as Alma put it, "small and simple things" by which "great things [are] brought to pass" (Alma 37:6). Chemish, for example, wrote a single verse in Omni 1:9. He did not set forth profound doctrine, but he maintained the continuity of the Nephite record.
Patsy SwinsonApril 15, 2024
This is typical of how the world at large chooses to depict the Church. Journalists put their negative spins on anything they don't like, don't agree with, or don't know squat about. Hopefully it will inspire curious readers to actually listen to the Conference talks and find out for themselves. There are some who criticize the Church no matter what it does or doesn't do because they are anti-religion in general.
Sasha KwapinskiApril 15, 2024
I venture to state that if this article had been about a conference of Hindus, Muslims, Buddhists, or about the Sikhs, Baha'is or Shintoists, it would have put forth a much different tune.
Neal ChristensenApril 15, 2024
The AP is just part of the Left's propaganda machine. None of the MSM could report on even a bread recipe without prejudice.
Lisa ReisingApril 13, 2024
This writing contains wonderful insights. I have sent it to a number of family members and friends, and in reviewing it again today can't believe there are no comments. Please don't stop sharing the insights you have learned through your work Brother Grenny. My big takeaway is that when I start to feel discouragement or despair, I need to repent and refocus my attention on the Master of the vineyard because He is indeed in charge and capable of doing His work. He will let me know how to help and where to put my efforts in assisting in HIS work. As Elder Kearon said last weekend - God wants each of us back more than we can possibly imagine and will patiently wait for our growth,
T NeiderApril 13, 2024
Wonderful, insightful article. Thank you!
AnnaApril 12, 2024
What a wonderful article! And such inspiring work! I know of the excruciating waiting game from my own experience with ministering to those in need.. Thankfully the Lord directs my path also, but it's no less heart wrenching to go through the long stretch to see faithful prayers answered..
David AllenApril 12, 2024
For years my wife and I have had wonderful experiences with those who are working with the Other Side. We look for ways to increase our chance to donate to the Other Side, to hiring them to do work for us. They are always friendly, kind and considerate with us and those we refer them to do work for. Great program, - The lord is watching over each of them as they learn and grow from what they used to be to what they have become and are becoming. Just like all of us. Love this program
Gayle WilsonApril 12, 2024
Wow! The insights into the book of Jacob has stunned me and expanded my understanding of the allegory of the olive tree that has given me a glimpse of an eternal perspective of God's work with His children. Thank you!
Bonnee B.April 12, 2024
This brought tears to my eyes. I have always known there was hope but never understood how it all worked. Thank you so much. I feel I have been doing the right thing by patiently waiting for promptings to action as I spend loving, supportive time with my adult children & grandchildren.
Lawrence BarryApril 12, 2024
Brother Grenny, my wife and I are most appreciative for your insights regarding wandering family members. 3 of our 5 children have left the church influencing most of our 32 grandchildren to also abandon the faith. Your inspiring article reinforced our resolve that our job is to love these precious dear ones and God’s job is to reclaim them. Again, thank you so very much for your wise counsel.
sdgApril 12, 2024
Thanks for sharing this incredible story. When I read Jacob 5 this month I saw how God works in our lives. He doesn't give up. He keeps working tirelessly. This article articulated this beautifully.
DH HamillApril 12, 2024
The insights to Zenos' allegory experienced and shared by the author are AWESOME. Thank you for this inspiring essay. I see this allegory in an entirely different light, now.
Holly HortonApril 11, 2024
This gives me validation. It explains what I can't quite verbalize to others. People who look at me like "Why do you say you are in so much pain? You should be moving on." I see a counselor mostly to have someone who tells me my grief is justified. Even in the grief I know it will get better eventually. I cling to Gordon B. Hinckley's words that "everything will work out." But SOMEDAY feels so far and things hurt now.
Mary-Rose McMullinApril 11, 2024
Thank you for this eloquent description. When our son died, I didn't want to keep living. I didn't think the pain would ever end. Slowly, in spurts, my bereft heart healed. But the grief was the also the path to growth and healing of old wounds. Our Father knolws our needs and send the trials we need. We can heal and grow as we turn to Him and come to know our Saviour.
AnnaApril 11, 2024
Thank you, Tanya, for sharing these sweet memories. I have been serving for a number of years as a mission nurse and have been privileged to work with several missionaries who are "on the spectrum." They ae truly special and wonderful souls who bless many lives.
RaLee HallApril 11, 2024
Kimberly, Your prose reads like poetry. Your message was profound,it took my breath away. The artwork is fabulous. Thank you for posting this.
ReyLain BloxhamApril 11, 2024
I was so pleased to see Brother Gibbons name as a contributor today and thought maybe I was mistaken that he had passed away. His teaching has always touched me and I followed his work through the standard works. But sadly, he has passed away and I appreciate this reminder of his way of teaching. Thank you for pulling his lesson out of the archives and I look forward to each one!
LorraineApril 11, 2024
Wow. Beautifully and perfectly expressed. So accurate in its depiction. Thank you for putting into poignant words this oh so painful journey.
S LindsayApril 11, 2024
Oh how I love this beautiful article! I am bookmarking it to share so many times over with so many different people, now and in days to come. Thank you for putting words to feelings that seem so indescribable!
Mariah Proctor (author)April 10, 2024
@Jenny, if you're a longtime reader of Meridian, you may remember reading portions of the story from Terry's book as articles some time ago.
Terry MontagueApril 10, 2024
Great insights, Mariah! I enjoyed your article and am sharing it with friends.
Jenny SvendsenApril 10, 2024
Great article! Question: I feel like I have seen this before, but not on the big screen, could that be?
Claudia Henderson SmithApril 10, 2024
I don't live out West, so where will it be playing in the East especially Virginia? Will it be on any streaming services?
Catherine GardnerApril 10, 2024
My mum had first hand experience of WWII and she always said if you were American you could come and go as you please until 1941. I hope this movie gives a true account.
RobertApril 9, 2024
I thought President Hollands talk wasn't the normal President Holland talk. It was quite different which makes sense when you tie it back to his visit to the Spirit World, the instructions he was given, etc. It was also great to see members of the 12 conducting conference sessions; and great to see that like us with health issues, they have them as well. Nobody is exempt!
Stephen M FennApril 9, 2024
"part of what I received was an admonition to return to my ministry with more urgency, more consecration, more focus on the Savior, more faith in his word." It is certainly humbling, to me, that he returned with the imperative to step up his game in these ways. It's hard to think of another apostle who has spoken more persuasively about the Savior than Elder Holland during his ministry. If he has room for improvement, what does that say about our calling to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all places? Even when we think we are doing all we can, a loving Father tenderly entreats us to return and do a little better.
Julia BernardsApril 6, 2024
I agree that regardless of sexual orientation, all of us "will have a greater capacity for love, connection, and intimacy with others," the closer we are to God. I agree that love is the highest law, the greatest commandment, and the key to becoming like God. Having a society capable of fully extending Christ-like love to all regardless of sexual orientation or the factors that create sexual orientation would be amazing. Those are beautiful but broad strokes. What is harder for me to discern, even given the length of your letter, is what you are suggesting about how those who identify as sexual minorities live now. You caution against "the false dichotomies of [sexual] suppression or indulgence," which is fitting (for anyone). For heterosexual people in the LDS Church, the path for avoiding those false dichotomies is clear: monogamy and fidelity. Are you also suggesting monogamy and fidelity for homosexual folks? In the LDS Church marriage is the most touted God-ordained opportunity for us to practice the great commandment in this life. I think your focus on love is laudable, and also that you missed or skirted the painful points for LGB folks: 1) How, in this life, and while remaining in the Church, is it possible to avoid sexual repression or indulgence? 2) Why is a desire to practice the great commandment through a marital relationship unacceptable?
Kody L. ThurstonApril 5, 2024
Outstanding...kudos for this masterpiece. Of course, don't believe all the accolades as this may promote pride. Nevertheless, I thoroughly enjoyed your creativity, approach and including all of Screwtapes/Wormwoods tactics.
CubbyApril 5, 2024
As a teacher with an occasional irritating student, not to often but once in a while. isn't it a little humorous when Karma gets her turn?
Rich BowermanApril 5, 2024
Brother Peterson, thank you not only for this article but for the many posted on Meridian Magazine over the years. I have thoroughly enjoyed each and every one and always look forward to the next one! I am going to try and follow Sister Madsen's example also by finding something related to each Conference talk I can work on.
Rob ChappellApril 5, 2024
So full of quotable nuggets of truth! Thank you for dispelling so many common myths in such a clear and compassionate and empathetic way. This is a masterpiece on a very important topic for our time!
Scott LawApril 4, 2024
I think even C.S. Lewis himself might be proud. Nice job!
Mike MansfieldApril 4, 2024
Well said, Ty. You have eloquently set forth the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Thank you for your variance in understanding the Plan of Salvation that our Eternally Loving Father has provide for our blessing and benefit. May we all find the joy that Heavenly Father desires for us to have - in this life and in the next. Thank you!
Debbie LondonApril 4, 2024
It is never our place to judge; that is the Lord's. Nevertheless, we often confuse discernment with judgment. We want to discern safe spaces and safe people to be around. That said, I am a mother of a child who has strayed from gospel teachings. It is heartbreaking, and I wish he could understand how much our still loves him. Nevertheless, he was the Lord's before he was mine, and I hope someday to have an intact and eternal family. I was reminded of a 2023 Conference talk by Sister Tamara Runia. She recounted a time when her own actions were of concern to her parents. Her father said, "you don’t chase after your loved ones who feel lost. “You stay where you are and call them. You go to the tree, stay at the tree, keep eating the fruit and, with a smile on your face, continue to beckon to those you love and show by example that eating the fruit is a happy thing!”
ShaunaApril 4, 2024
Wow-- Br./Professor Mansfield, this was SO helpful and eye opening, and I absolutely respect your commitment to your faith and your willingness to set aside questions, concerns etc., and keep loving God, while navigating your life experiences. As you rightly point out, we all have to learn to trust Jesus Christ, whatever our circumstances...and we have to trust him one day at a time, as well as with eternity. I appreciate all of your discussion of gender, sexual-orientation, identity etc. and particularly the idea that one is not "born gay," an idea that I had accepted to a certain extent, and the context you place them in of the restored gospel. Thank you so much for your incredibly insightful, heartfelt and faithful comments here. You have raised my sights here as you've sought to contemplate eternity and the nature of God
AnnetteApril 4, 2024
Whoa, that was a long letter. But then you didn't call it a note, did you, Ty? Beautiful. There is so much goodness there to digest. How will I ever get through all those links to studies, talks, etc.? Haha. Thanks for your faith and hope and the truths you shared about the nature of Godly love. May we all come to know God's way of loving better.
KarenApril 4, 2024
Thank-you so very, very much Ty, from the bottom of my 'heart that I knew needed to repent.' In all my years in Christ's church I have not been able to feel Christlike love and charity in the way I should, for ALL His children, to include sexual and gender minorities. Your words have turned me inward in my heart to a place Christ needs me to search and change as I enter His Temple and truely renew my covenants with Him.
Jessica WhitakerApril 4, 2024
Magnificent
LindsayApril 4, 2024
What a beautiful, compassionate, and masterfully composed perspective, backed by the moral authority of a life lived with integrity! Thank you for taking the time to articulate all of this for us!
AmberApril 4, 2024
Thank you for writing this. You put into words something I could not. I felt this and knew this but could never put it as eloquently as you did. Most of this info can be applied to members that find themselves divorced and single. It’s kind of crazy to me to think I could be similar to gay people. But that’s how it seems to go, we are all more connected and similar than we know. I truly believe that with all of my heart. We truly are just learning how to show the most love and respect possible. If we did that, I believe it would solve all the suffering in the world. Think about it, it’s truly an amazing concept! God is trying to teach us this type of love.
Douglas NadybalApril 4, 2024
This was far more than just an open letter to some guy named "David". For those of use who live out on the outer banks of suburbia where we are not on the front-lines of the constant social experimentation this was a real primer on how to act and behave when it comes our way. This was the next step, to love more, not less, to re-direct all of our conversations to a higher sphere. It's such a simple idea, really, I wonder why it never occurred to me? I've probably not been doing a good enough job and "Hearing Him", who created us all. If your goal in life is to really and truly get along well with everybody you can, then you will find this article useful, and that is the highest compliment I can give any writing.
Chip WhitmerApril 3, 2024
The general framework of the modern endowment was summarized by Lehi in the Book of Mormon, published long before Kirtland or Nauvoo. In 2 Nephi 1:10, Lehi describes blessings of knowledge that the Nephites had received, including specific knowledge about the creation of the earth, and about the "great and marvelous works of the Lord" after the creation, and about "all the commandments from the beginning." Lehi even echoes our modern phrase "endowed with power from on high," when he says the Nephites had "power given them [from the hand of the Lord] to do all things by faith."
Pam Rhodes HarrisApril 2, 2024
I had the pleasure of serving in the ASBYU Women’s Office in 1980-1981 as the Secretary. Sister Kapp was our Advisor. She spent so much time with us and helped us be able to do great things. We had Sister Kimball come speak, President Kimball came too and we had a luncheon with this amazing couple. Sister Barbara B Smith General Relief Society President also came and spoke. President Jeffrey Holland was in his 1st yeas as Pres of BYU. We held a Women’s Conference, that was the beginning of todays Women’s Conference. She helped us meet snd associate with the many Women leaders at BYU and in Church leadership. She taught us that we could do anything we put our minds and worked to do. She is an amazing leader and truly showed us love.
Robert David StarlingApril 1, 2024
I LOVE BYU, and I love President Holland's admonition to the faculty and staff to return to and preserve the unique nature of the Lord's University. Like many alumni, I have been concerned for years about the creeping descent of many at BYU toward the creepiness of the World. I was delighted and encouraged to hear (then) Elder Holland call the creepers to repentance. There are two kinds of people in the world - those who listen to the prophets' voices and obey God's commandments, and those who embrace the "natural man" and sit in the Great and Spacious Building, mocking those who cling to the iron rod. Let them mock. We know their ultimate destiny. But that attitude has no place at BYU. If the mockers don't "feel welcome" on that sacred campus, there are plenty of other places they can to to gain a university education where they will be more "comfortable". I was privileged to attend another major well-respected college in the turbulent 1960's, before I transferred to BYU. I say "privileged", because it enabled me to see the contrast between the two institutions. It helped me to fully appreciate the "spirit of the Y". I produced the first student film at BYU for class credit, in 1971. It was a campus romance called "Ice Cream and Elevators", intended to portray the BYU campus experience in that era. We submitted it to a film festival in San Francisco. I received a call from one of the judges who said that if the movie accurately depicted the BYU campus lifestyle, he wanted to send his daughter there! Later in life as a father, I was able to send two of my own daughters there, with confidence that the "spirit of the Y" still permeated the campus. My prayer is that Elder Holland's talk will bring that spirit back, and quickly. It's time for my granddaughter to go to college.
Sasha KwapinskiApril 1, 2024
Many in today's society have confused love with relativism. As a Latter-day Saint, I am proud to be a member of a faith which recognizes that distinction and does not give in to that manner of confusion.
JoeApril 1, 2024
The truth hurts! That is all I can say. As true followers of Christ we need to stand up strong against the evil teaching of the world. You are who you are . If you want to act against the laws of God, it’s your choice . God will not change His laws, ever. He does wants us to show compasión, love and understanding but doesn’t want us to support more the evil ideas of our society. Stand on holy ground, repent , have faith and you will find happiness..remember God never walks away from us, WE move away from Him, and the consequences will have to be paid by us alone..
SD K'sApril 1, 2024
Our family has loved this story as well and continue to watch the video the Church produced of it. We used the video as the main "movie" at a Primary drive-in movie and even used the story as basis for a YW camp shadow puppet show, which our family repeated over Zoom during covid to show to other families in our ward. We do have a good feeling when continue to hear this good story!
ShaunaApril 1, 2024
Thank you. I heartily concur with you and I also wept as I listened to president Holland's talk (as acting President of the Quorum of the 12 , he is indeed "President Holland", but I always called him that as he was president of BYU when I was there). As he states no one loves BYU more than he does, but I love it too I have learned that when there is controversy surrounding a talk, essay whatever, to make sure to read the actual talk/essay myself. You are spot on in stating that outraged persons had not read, or more importantly, listened to the actual talk, but were merely reactionary, or actually looking to be offended. BYU's board of directors, include our prophet, President Nelson, and 4 other apostles as well as other leaders of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and are accountable to God. BYU absolutely must put that loyalty first or in my opinion, can't justify its existence and it's huge dependence on tithing funds. Both of my children are there now and I thank God for President Holland and President Reese and the course corrections that are being made there. thank you for your article
AEatonApril 1, 2024
What a wonderful article. Shouldn't BYU administration and faculty be concerned that this is at least the fourth time this topic has been addressed? I currently have two children attending BYU and this is a concern they talk about regularly. It is a tough balance, but it is one of the reasons that students choose BYU over other universities.
VjApril 1, 2024
This talk was just an excuse for those lying in wait to use as pretext for jumping on the out of control woke wagon at byu);
Tracey GrowApril 1, 2024
Thank you. I also cried when I watched Elder Holland give this talk. I could feel his love for BYU, the gospel, the Lord, Jesus Christ and his love for all of God's children.
SfischApril 1, 2024
Well said. Loved and appreciated Elder Hollands talk. It was timely and inspirational. As an alumni I have been heart sick with all the controversy happening at BYU. It was time to take a stand and Elder Holland gracefully did just that.
Abbie VianesMarch 29, 2024
I highly suggest neurofeedback for trauma as it can heal ptsd. Be sure to get a technician using the Othmer method as it has over 20 years of research behind it. I am a trained professional counselor and trained as a neurofeedback provider. It truly is amazing. It is not yet covered by most insurance and can be pricey but the outcomes are so phenomenal.
Debbi M.March 29, 2024
We had that horrible, relationship strain yrs ago with our 17 year old daughter. She was so oppositional that she was placed at an adolescent hospital treatment facility.. Insurance paid but determined she could be moved to a residential facility, which insurance was not going to pay for and a long waiting period...She did outpatient for a while. She was rather a black hole in our family with our other children getting pretty resentful of her. We more or less just waited her out until she was18 and left for a few years--also sad. She did get somewhat better, but had several pregnancies--one adoption and two she kept, both by different dads. As she got older, we butted heads and she lived with us solely because of her kids.She was not de pressive, but did try one time to take an overdose of aspirin. Fortunately we could get support from our friends and family. Please know you are not alone, and take care of your marriage because spouses are also hurting, and our marriage needs to come first. I remember so many sleepless nights waiting for her to come home, and sometimes wishing she wouldn't! Mostly praying so so much that she would not harm herself or others.
Anonymous to protect my child's privacyMarch 29, 2024
What a timely post this is! My husband and I just placed our 17-year-old daughter into residential treatment a few days ago. While she is specifically in treatment for an eating disorder, we have faced many of the same sorts of issues this poster mentions--a past trauma, unsafe behavior, bouts of suicidal behavior, prior hospitalizations, years of outpatient therapy that haven't worked, etc. We were also facing the fact that our daughter becomes an adult very soon and we needed to do something before it was too late. The road of getting her into this treatment was one of the most difficult things I have ever gone through, even after many years of extremely difficult and intense parenting challenges. What helped me most was having an excellent therapist for ME. My therapist has provided strong support, has been a safe place to land while sorting through complex options and my own complicated emotions, and most importantly, she has held me accountable to myself each step of the way. She told me that it was time to disengage my heart and engage my mind and my will to see this through. Of course I love my daughter with all my heart, but my emotions were blinding me to the realities of what was needed and keeping me from doing what was best for her. I also want to say that God has been very close to me over the past few months as my husband and I made and carried out this decision. I have been on my knees constantly--sometimes multiple times a day--pleading for direction, peace, and the ability to do hard things, and those prayers have been answered 100-fold. I have fasted and spent time in the temple. We have had family, close friends, and ward leadership praying for us and keeping our names on the temple prayer roll. I have seen literal miracles happen as roadblocks in this process that felt insurmountable melted away so that this could happen--financial roadblocks, roadblocks in terms of gaining our daughter's cooperation, etc. All of these big and small miracles have helped me know we made the right decision, this is where she needs to be, and it will all be okay in the end.
Sami V.March 27, 2024
I just wanted to write to thank you for your clear and in depth analysis of this book I am not a member of the LDS church so am not knowledgeable about any of this. I heard about this book because of all the recent court documents release with Ruby Franke and Jodi H. and apparently the book greatly influenced Jodi. I found this site because I was trying to find out about this book, not just reviews from a site selling it. You did a good job comparing it to other books and beliefs and showing the issues. I just wanted to commend you for such a deep diving article and tell you how I valued it, even if we have different beliefs. Thanks again.
Ron BarnesMarch 27, 2024
That talk by Elder Wirthlin was one of my favorites that I've ever heard. It's one of the few that I have recorded and kept in my files. There are many Sundays that I'm waiting for, not just because of death, but because of other griefs I've experienced in life. For me, the meaning goes well beyond just the resurrection, but to other aspects of life that are hard to bear. The day will come when we will be relieved of all of them.
David A. HickenMarch 27, 2024
Thank you, Brother Woodruff. Thank you, Sister Clayton. We all need reminded of this in our lives.
Rochelle HaleMarch 27, 2024
A few days ago we met a new neighbor. The ladies who live on either side of me were explaining "This person is a police officer, this is a fireman, this one has children close in age to yours, this one does...." I offered a few comments. Then one friend turned to me and said to our new neighbor, "And [my] home is where you go if you need food.
Rochelle HaleMarch 27, 2024
I am sorry for your recent losses. My mother passed away in February after 6-7 weeks of hospitalization. In the beginning we never expected her to be taken from life, but suffering was unbearable, and we prayed mightily for release in some form. As difficult as losing her was, we were calm and at peace that she was free from her horrific ordeal and safe "at home" in the arms of loved ones. Our joy was increased upon learning we only had to wait 30 days to begin her temple ordinances.
Elizabeth RichardsonMarch 27, 2024
Is this the whole story? He went to change his underwear?
JaniceMarch 26, 2024
Brother Goddard, I would love to know more about your file of greatest phrases about the doctrine of redemption. A few examples of how you did it. That sounds like a great way to study the Book of Mormon.
Valiant JonesMarch 26, 2024
What a testimony of our value and worth in Christ's eyes! This is so appropriate at this Easter time.
Mary-Rose McMullinMarch 25, 2024
Thanks for sharing these sweet experiences. My husband and I have just submitted our mission papers and we need to find the right family to rent our home and care for our pets and yard. We needed the reminderof your counsel to pray specifically with faith for our needs. It's such a blessing to know of our Father's love and direction.
gregoMarch 25, 2024
Dan, the books Supernature and Beyond Supernature (both by Lyall Watson) might interest you. They are old, but still good and insightful.
Laurie RuizMarch 24, 2024
I so enjoyed this article, after reading about the lives of the grandparents of Josiah Quincy (President John Adams and his wife Abigail), in David McCullough's book John Adams and Edith Gelles book Abigail and John. Then I stumbled upon your article, and am so happy to know that the grandson of John and Abigail met the prophet Joseph Smith. Loved the comment someone made that the Book of Mormon given to Josiah Quincy was prized enough to have a place in the Adams Family home.
Gail GibbsMarch 22, 2024
Thank you Scott and Maureen. Your mission reports bring tears. I can relate to the pull of the Spirit of Elijah. That is what helped me be baptized in 1966. Still doing T&FH in ward, stake and FSCenter. Been to P.R. a few times to visit son Spencer in Metro ward. Can relate to cinder block, wiring and road system. Can also relate to seminary where I did an online group to the boonies of Indiana Pennsylvania. I also did not see who I was teaching. Just put up materials. It was before zoom. Have been following you two since you spotlighted me at Humans of Rootstech in 2018. Keep up the wonderful work you are doing. Yes, the Gospel is true!!!
Peggy StallingsMarch 21, 2024
Those songs were so beautifully ethereal and uplifting. They touched my soul, and resonated with my spirit, like I had heard them before in Heaven. I shared them online, and hope they will touch others as they did me. Thank you for sharing your gifts of light.
LewisMarch 21, 2024
Sometimes we get so caught up in the outward manifestations of faithfulness that we forget that the power of the gospel manifests itself in the quiet acts of service. I am grateful for your ability to use stories to teach us the truths of the gospel. Please keep writing. These stories cause me to pause, to reflect, to ponder and to change.
Ron BarnesMarch 21, 2024
I’ve been reading about this for decades, and there is one prospect that I have never seen postulated. Perhaps the universe we live in is the only one possible. Even if there are other universes, it might be that they all have the same universal laws, because there is only viable set.
KarenMarch 20, 2024
Thank you Casey for sharing your expression of tender thoughts about this important exchange. I too feel great gratitude for the members of the Community of Christ who have faithfully followed the peaceful example of Joseph III, and have been good stewards over these precious historical sites and artifacts these many years. I feel for their sense of loss at this transfer, and hope they will feel our gratitude and support. We can yet learn a great deal from one another, and benefit from the goodwill that has been shown through this exchange. Kind regards to all those affected by this transaction, and it is my prayer that we will continue to build a strong relationship of love with our dear brothers and sisters in the Community of Christ.
Ron BarnesMarch 20, 2024
While all this is interesting, it’s missing one vital component. The Book of Mormon is a Jewish work intended for Jewish readers. In Hebrew, numbers have meaning. Peter asked Jesus if he should forgive his brother up to seven times. In Hebrew, the number seven stands for “completeness.” Peter was asking if he forgive seven times would he complete his efforts. By the same token, the number one stands for “unity, undividable.” “… a man… shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” In other words, “they shall be united, undividable.” Jesus told the Jews, “My Father and I are one”, or “My Father and I are united and undividable.” To the Jews, this made him equal to the Father, which is why they accused him of blasphemy. The Nephites understood that the Father, Son, and Holy Ghost are not different magnifications of the same being, but rather three beings that are united and undividable.
Ann-Marie JensenMarch 20, 2024
Thank you for sharing your insight. I enjoyed this look from the other side.
JeffMarch 20, 2024
Thank you for sharing this personal story of a church leader's selfless example worth emulating.
NealMarch 19, 2024
I've always found it interesting that those who consider themselves as experts on the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, are not and never have been members.
Geri CampbellMarch 19, 2024
Nice one, Daris!
Stephen & Marcia WestMarch 19, 2024
Wish a transcript were provided.
Doris WilliamsMarch 19, 2024
Oh my goodness, thank heaven for people like "your leader" in the world who go way and beyond expectations to teach us all. Thank you for sharing this, Becky. I know from experience that anything that comes from Sister Douglas is worth paying attention to, since I know you have already sifted through the chaff! Your and your husband's life is so amazing. I included your article on love and the little things your husband did to demonstrate his love for you in my weekly email to our large family. Bless you all.
JenMarch 19, 2024
I agree 100% with Mickey's comment. You need to seek help from a professional therapist. You may need to go to several to find a good fit. I know someone who lived in a similar circumstance. Communication was futile until her husband realized that he needed to change. I pray you can find the help you need to improve this toxic situation for you and your children.
Richard GarrisonMarch 19, 2024
What a wonderful and inspirational example of a true "servant leader", Christ-like in every way! Thanks so much for sharing Becky. You made my day!!
D. NantoMarch 18, 2024
Beautifully done. Thanks for sharing.
John RogersMarch 18, 2024
Scott, I am always amazed and gratified and blessed by your photo essays... From Nauvoo to the shores of Bountiful, your photography always brings added light! Thank you.
Stefanie EskanderMarch 18, 2024
Your observations are so true! It's such a shame that the "Opression Olympics" seems to be an international sport.
HelenCMarch 18, 2024
This warmed my heart and had me back to the 1830s, seeing and feeling all our beloved founders went through. They truly were a magnificent bunch!
Glen WilliamsMarch 18, 2024
Amen and Amen
Daphne Bushman KessingerMarch 18, 2024
Thank you for your beautiful photos & touching historical notations on these wonderful Nauvoo sites. My husband & I loved visiting them often when we served our amazing 6 month mission in Nauvoo Temple .
MickeyMarch 17, 2024
Dear Sister, you are being horribly abused. Please look up narcissistic abuse and find a therapist for yourself without your husband present. It’s is not safe to attend therapy with your abuser. He has manipulated you into you taking ownership for his abusive behaviors. You and your kids deserve better than this.
Doris WilliamsMarch 16, 2024
Oh my goodness, we are so grateful to you Scot for your photo essays over the years...to be up close to these precious, sacred sites is a sacred experience in itself. You and Maureen just continue to amaze with your total dedication to Jesus Christ and his precious restored Church and with Meridian.
Chuck DeWitMarch 15, 2024
Great photos and comments. They lived hard lives. Thanks for mentioning Church History Photos in the app.
Claudia Henderson SmithMarch 15, 2024
Great photo essay, Scot!! I always love seeing your photos and reading the text. I learned a lot. I hope I get to go to Nauvoo soon.
GeorgeMarch 14, 2024
I do not see in your article where you explain the difference between love and charity except in degree. Which of the 15 attributes for charity are absent from the attributes of love. Is not the need for all those attributes present for both love and charity? Why cannot you feel love for all men? Every conference we have the speakers express love for each of us even though they have never met us. Are they mistaken in their feelings and should I ignore their good feelings and wishes for me? It would seem there is no difference except in degree.
Karla BurkhartMarch 13, 2024
You are doing a fantastic job and have, in my estimation, always been a great writer from childhood. My love and wishes continue with you always.
Harold RustMarch 13, 2024
One of the special rewards that comes from reading articles by you and your parents is that a person like me can imagine your being a neighbor or a member of my ward or a close friend----a real person---rather than some distant distinguished scholar. As such, one request I would make of you, my friends, is for a pathway (a website or email address?) to submit some short article which you just might publish if it met the high standards you expect for whatever you do include in Meridian. Every now and again I write something for my family or my own journal that I think could be of value and insightfully inspirational for your readers. Thanks.
Valiant JonesMarch 13, 2024
Thank you. You are doing a great work and carrying on an important legacy.
James WorkmanMarch 13, 2024
I attended a writing class with Orson Scott Card in Virginia, and I believe you attended that same class with your mother. I had not begun to read from the Meridian web site yet but started to be an avid reader shortly thereafter. The website has matured and the topics and articles are top notch. I now read every day from the web site. I am acquainted with many of your contributors. Thank you for the very professional effort in bringing top notch "experts" to discuss relevant issues, and doctrinal subjects. (It sure is fun to "watch" your parents on their mission to Puerto Rico).
Jim ScottMarch 13, 2024
I caught some of the intrepid feelings of a mom approaching you to assume a leading role in a most cherished project. I thought about the discussion your mom and dad had in considering the assignment and the enormous trust in you for them. I’ve been a reader for years and have enjoyed doing so. Congratulations for your successes and growth.
Claudia Henderson Calissie SmithMarch 13, 2024
As usual, a great article. Watching you grow up in person and from a distance has been a joy. You definitely take after your mom’s writhing ability. Thanks for sharing!
Janna MorrellMarch 13, 2024
Mariah, I have loved reading this darling (if not daring) piece on what it is like to be with Meridian as a writer, associate editor as well as daughter of the publishers! I often wonder how it would be to be in [any of] these positions and also think about the day to day goings on of publishing such a long-lived, well received journal. This was delightful and I could have read much further, in the early morning hours as I recover from back surgery, as your stories to be told were surely only scraping the surface! I enjoyed the bangs incident, becoming known as “the girl who walked” and knowing that people like you actually do read the comments and can be affected as you must sift though the debris! In a world of online anonymity, I’m not too surprised but still sorry for the sadness you’ve endured from irate commenters. Candidly, I read one thing here I felt was misplaced in this magazine but, during these last four or so years have proven that we all can be wrong about pretty much everything and I’ve had to do much soul searching and prayer to find more solid ground on a few subjects. I love yours and your parents articles and have come to appreciate even some differing viewpoints of your many authors. It’s been a wonderful journey as I’ve laughed, cried, resonated with, and shared many an article with my family or friends. Thanks for the journey!
KaplinMarch 12, 2024
If prayer involves reconciling our will to God's, maybe more of our faithful prayers get answered than we think. To me it seems Jesus's prayer WAS answered. Yes, He prayed if possible let this cup pass, but then further prayed: NEVERTHELESS, not my will but thine be done. So that latter phrase was His overriding ask--thy will be done. And that ask was answered, because it was not possible to let the cup pass and still redeem Father's children. When we really see prayer as finding out what the Father wants for us and having courage to go with it, then are any truly faithful prayers are unanswered?
Corey D.March 11, 2024
Much of what is being said in society about race and racism and prejudice is media driven, hyperbole to get attention. Some years ago I asked a fellow who lived down the street from me and was black a question regarding racism, his reply I have always remembered, he said, "yes racism exists, I would be wrong to say it didn't, are there those who use racism as an excuse or blame something on racism that wasn't, sure there are, I will tell you this though, there is a whole class of poor white people in this country that nobody cares about", that's from a black person. The racial divide is not as great or big as it's portrayed in the media and by certain groups as being, my experience and the experience of others is that most people get along.
Ginger ElshireMarch 11, 2024
Beautiful
SallyMarch 10, 2024
Thank you for putting the importance of this acquisition into perspective. The Lord has created a way for the Church to acquire it at this time. How blessed we are. We will sing and shout!
Marcy FowkesMarch 9, 2024
I remember that night, as we were waiting in the stadium for the performance to start, it started raining. Just a bit to start, We came prepared with umbrella's, the family behind us had a plastic sheet for their cover! We thought we had it handled pretty well until it became literally a torrential downpour. We retreated under the stands to wait it out. All of us drenched but hopeful it would pass so we could celebrate the wonderful new temple we were being given. I took videos of the storm and it was a downpour! Suddenly someone yelled, " Everyone, we're having a prayer! Let's pray that this storm will stop so the kids can perform!" We all knelt down, ( on the cement, drenching wet, under the stadium). Humbly. The spirit was like electricity as someone said the prayer. I couldn't really even hear it because of the pounding of the rain and the amount of people packed under that stadium, kneeling in prayer, but I could feel it and the power of the faith of each of us praying for this miracle. It didn't happen immediately, but gradually the rain subsided and then stopped, We took our wet seats with gratitude in our hearts for God's tender mercies. We knew we had just witnessed a miracle. At the end of the performance, the kids became a rainbow in the stands, representing the token of the covenant God made with Noah. I felt it was so appropriate to us that the rainbow ( the kids) appeared, after that terrible storm, as a token to us of the covenants we would now be able to make with Him in our new temple. . It was definitely a God thing. He has a way of doing amazing things like that. I'm so glad I was there and got to be part of the wonderful celebration of the Payson Temple that night. I will never forget it.
Keith HansenMarch 8, 2024
Thank you for the photos, the history and the marvelous words.
GerryMarch 8, 2024
I found out that Heavenlly Father can deliver pizza after I had back surgery years ago. I was laying in bed watching a small black & white TV that was sitting on a chair by my bedside. An advertisement came on for pizza and I thought wouldn't that taste wonderful. About a 1/2 hour later there was a knock at the door and it opened by my friend Lou who called out my name and said she brought me a pizza. And she wanted me to eat it now before the kids got home from school. I was amazed then and still am as I consider this event.
Claudia Henderson SmithMarch 8, 2024
How did you get to take pictures inside? When we were there, the guide told us no pictures inside.
Traci WalkerMarch 8, 2024
Oh, I love your photos, Scot, and thank you both for putting all of these glorious visitations in one place for me to share with my family. It was truly a pentecostal outpouring of the spirit, and how blessed we are as a church to accept custody of this building now, a building that has seen and heard things unparallelled in history of the world. Thank you, Community of Christ, for saving it from wreck and ruin.
Bonnee B.March 8, 2024
I used to wonder why God made a point of saying that he created man, "male & female created he them". . . it seemed so obvious, but now I know why that was such an important statement. . .
Bonnee B.March 8, 2024
Wonderful news! I grew up on the west side of Cleveland, prayer led to me to go to BYU to find "the true gospel of Jesus Christ" & I received my own beautiful confirmation that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is indeed the true church of Jesus Christ. Returning to Cleveland, married & raising children, we visited Kirtland, became friends with Karl Anderson & were thrilled when our church began restoring the city. We loved seeing the Temple at that time but there was something missing there then - it was the warm comfort of the Holy Ghost that accompanied the other sights owned by our church. It will make a difference when visitors come to see the Kirtland Temple now & it will once again be a House of the Lord. I am in Utah now, Would love to go see it again. So happy.
Helen WilliamsonMarch 7, 2024
Bless Apostle Mackay for his sweet, honest sharing of his grieving and his hope. It is important to honor the past, live in the present and prepare for the future. He seems to be doing all three. Thank you brother Mackay and to all those who did not make this decision lightly.
MaralynMarch 7, 2024
Thankyou for the details of which I have never heard. I felt like I had witnessed it myself!
Bradley KramerMarch 6, 2024
A timely and important article. Thank you.
MaryAnneMarch 6, 2024
I can't tell you how much I enjoyed these videos! They were so inspiring and heartwarming. Thank you! Thank you!
David SylvesterMarch 6, 2024
One of the most heart-warmimg announcements in decades and one we will never forget!! We have witnessed another incredible miracle!!
JuliannMarch 6, 2024
This is of utmost importance. If we believe we stand as a witness for God at all times, in all things, and in all places then we must stand up in defense of Gods greatest creations— men and women. We are not “it’s”. We are not of our own creation. We are sons and daughters of God.
Tanya NeiderMarch 6, 2024
Wonderful news!
Bob MartinMarch 6, 2024
Another final jigsaw puzzle piece has come until we have the final picture is exposed.Heavenly Father and our Savior are in control. Great news
Mary TarbetMarch 5, 2024
Shar S Please note that on October 7, atrocities were committed against innocent Israeli babies, women and children by Hamas, a well-known terrorist regime. Please note Hamas used and continues to use hospitals, schools, daycare facilities and hotels as a base of operations. Please note that Hamas will not release the hostages- those that are still alive - including babies and children and women. What will stop them from pursuing the same type of government with horrendous policies unless they are gone? Who voted them into office? The people living in Gaza. They know who they are. They knew about the tunnels. Both young and old celebrated the actions of those October 7. Israel deserves and is entitled to defend itself.
MaryannMarch 5, 2024
There has never been an article that makes it more clear that it is imperative that we close our borders. I have also read that the United States is the biggest consumer of child sex slavery. How much worse do things have to get before we CLOSE the borders?! The crime that has escalated in our nation is sickening. Ranchers in our border states have had to move because of the vandalism of their property from illegal aliens. I recently watched an interview with an older rancher who refuses to be driven off of his land, even though other ranchers have given up and left. The government ignores it's own citizens and allows this criminal activity to continue. How can anyone support this? YES! Know what is going on, do not be naive, and protect our children.
MaryannMarch 5, 2024
I, too, have awaited this day and I am thrilled! This article reminds us of the miraculous revelatory experiences that took place in the Kirtland Temple. I have loved reading about the dedication, the presence of angels, and the powerful Spirit of the Lord that was felt by the Saints, both in the temple, and as they visited house to house. Of course, the most important and sacred event was the appearance of the Savior in the temple, and other heavenly messengers committing Priesthood keys. We live in a day of continued restoration, and this is certainly one of those great days.I am so thankful that the temple has been restored to us. Much love and thanks to the Community of Christ. I am happy that the two churches work together in harmony.
MaryannMarch 5, 2024
Many of us have been in this situation at one time or another. As members of Christ's church, we want to make things right with others. We want forgiveness, healing and reconciliation. We want to tie up things with a nice bow. If the other people involved are unwilling to discuss, or to forgive, we feel stuck. As difficult as it may be, often, we just need to accept the current situation, forgive ourselves, drop our burden at the Savior's feet, and focus on living our lives in loving, positive ways. One thing that can help is to pray for those who will not forgive and put their names on the temple prayer roll. Continuing to agonize over the situation will only cause more pain. This is a time for patience and trusting the Lord.
JimMarch 5, 2024
Terrific. Thank you for this series.
ShaunaMarch 5, 2024
thank you Bari Weiss, for your bravery in the face of cultural elitism and it's misguided "gods." You have helped open my eyes
Bob SpielMarch 5, 2024
Maurine, thank you for the extensive quotes from her speech. She is spot on in her analysis. Her online magazine, thefp.com, is eye opening. I don't agree with all she has on there, but the perspectives are very well thought out.
Charles RichardsMarch 5, 2024
Thank you Maurine for lifting up Bari Weiss’s voice on your channel. We follow her The Free Press and follow you and Scott
Helmut A. WorleMarch 5, 2024
Thank You for posting this. Question: Why post this article in an LDS magazine? Because one could easily exchange Jew for LDS. We, too, have come from a history of persecution and are wont to think that this is all in the past. I am afraid I see the shadows on the horizon. Bad times may come for us also. If we now do not help Jews, who is going to help us?
Joel MarksMarch 5, 2024
What we all know is there is no freedom without sacrifice. Think of Trenton, Valley Forge and Washington!
Shar SMarch 5, 2024
I like Weiss. I also understand the history of Israeli policies, studying them for a long time and visiting Israel and Palestine and seeing for myself. Our world will not be free until we truly treat each other as equals. It is not anti semitic to disagree and protest against government policies. I believe the policies of Israel toward Palestinians have gone beyond what is humane. There are words by Israelis themselves that show they believe in ethnic cleansing. There are Jewish historians who argue this as well. Israel has broken international law. I believe you are charging people for being antisemitic who may just be protesting Israeli policy.
PennieMarch 5, 2024
The Latter-day Saints are of the house of Israel and are connected to the Jewish people. We too have suffered pogroms in our history. The doctrines of the church are under attack. Thank God for apostles and prophets.
Laura LesebergMarch 4, 2024
This will help me so much for my lesson tomorrow! I was very excited to see this. Not only that, but dear Newell is my cousin & I’m always glad to hear from him!
LaurieMarch 4, 2024
How heartbreaking! To Elder Chappell's family and friends: Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt prayers go out to you. ❤️
Leon LeavittMarch 4, 2024
Thanks so much for this insight as it has given me courage to understand and learn more from Isaiah. I, like many I'm sure, tend to skip over these Isaiah chapters because they are " just to hard" to understand. . . . . but in reality it has been my laziness not willing to put forth the effort, time and diligence to do so. I'm going to try again. Thanks.
KathleenMarch 3, 2024
Loved this well articulated article with the English flair. But the lesson to always do our duty resounds loud and clear.
MaryannMarch 2, 2024
They really needed to conduct a "study" to figure this out? Of course, women are scanning the shadows and bushes for possible attackers. They have a LOT more to lose, and are generally much more vulnerable.
MaryannMarch 2, 2024
Unfortunately, Orson F. Whitney's often quoted notes of the Prophet Joseph Smith statement, have led to some confusion among members of the church. Elder David A. Bednar clarifies this subject for us in his address: "Faithful Parents and Wayward Children, sustaining hope while overcoming misunderstanding." Elder Bednar refers specifically to the quote from Orson F. Whitney's notes recorded from the Prophet, Joseph Smith. Elder Bednar informs us that "in a more complete set of notes recorded by Howard and Martha Coray, Joseph is shown to have QUALIFIED his statement to make promised blessings CONDITIONAL upon the obedience of the children: "Joseph qualifies his statement: "When a father and mother of a family have been sealed, their children WHO HAVE NOT TRANSGRESSED are secured by the seal wherewith the parents have been sealed..." Elder Bednar goes on to affirm: "This clarification is more consistent doctrinally," and "Ultimately, a child must exercise his or her moral agency and respond in faith, repent with full purpose of heart, and act in accordance with the teachings of Christ." I am reminded of Section 137 in the D&C when Joseph was so surprised to see his brother, Alvin, in Celestial Kingdom because Alvin had died before the opportunity for baptism. The prophet records in 137:7 "Thus came the voice of the Lord unto me, saying: All who have died WITHOUT A KNOWLEDGE OF THE GOSPEL, who WOULD HAVE RECEIVED IT IF THEY HAD BEEN PERMITTED TO TARRY, shall be heirs of the celestial kingdom of God.." We are consistently taught through the scriptures, modern day prophets, and in the temple that enduring to the end is a essential to obtain the celestial kingdom. Elder Bednar affirms: "I recognize that now is the time 'to prepare to meet God' (Alma 34:32) Elder Bednar again: "Mercy will not rob justice, and the sealing power of faithful parents will only claim wayward children upon the condition of their repentance and Christ's atonement. Repentant wayward children will enjoy salvation and all the blessings that go with it, but exaltation is much more. It must be fully earned. The question as to who will be exalted must be left to the Lord in His mercy." I hope everyone will read Elder Bednar's address because it clarifies a great deal of confusion, while still giving hope. We must not, however, preach that all of our children who have gone astray will be saved in the Celestial Kingdom merely because of the sealing power, or because of righteous parents. It simply is not true. We each will stand to be judged, based on our own individual choices, according to our knowledge and opportunities, and the Lord's justice and mercy.
Dave BarkerMarch 2, 2024
This is a nice article. If everyone would follow the advice of President Oaks, this world would be a much nicer place where all can be heard. As always has been the case, however, as a follower of Christ, you must be prepared to take a lot of abuse and persecution by those who disagree with you. Don't fool yourself. Many will never be civil. It is difficult to turn the other cheek and love your enemies when they won't let up. It takes a lot of courage to be a disciple of Christ in today's world..
Clyde LivingstonMarch 1, 2024
Ah, Brother Staheli, good to see something from you again. I remember how you yourself also demonstrated duty-filled characteristics as you were a young missionary in Belgium and France. I learned a lot from your example.
EricMarch 1, 2024
From all I've seen over the past six years regarding the Church's name, I've concluded that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has the most powerful name in the world because people are so reluctant to say it. Even when they're challenged to do so, they'll 1) refrain from saying the full name, and 2) always remove Jesus Christ's name from whatever name they end up using. Always. President Nelson was right. At the same time, been pleasantly surprised to realize how empowering it is to use the Church's correct name. I highly recommend it.
Chip WhitmerMarch 1, 2024
"Wherefore, confound your enemies; call upon them to meet you both in public and in private; and inasmuch as ye are faithful their shame shall be made manifest." (Doctrine and Covenants 71:7) It is true that Jesus was kind and compassionate in ministering one-on-one to people of all backgrounds and persuasions. But he was not so kind to the corrupt political class of his day. He called them out, called them names (vipers, hypocrites, etc), and told them they were going to hell. I'm trying to be like Jesus.
JustinMarch 1, 2024
Highlighting this is a great to start. Sadly, the trust in MSM is driven by engagement more than truth - and often the truth does not get as many ‘clicks’ as polarisation and division. Those who love truth and unbiased reporting recognise it
Ron IaconoFebruary 29, 2024
Thank you for such counsel. It is sorely needed by all.
Erika P.February 29, 2024
If more people would be talking to each other instead of hiding behind their computer, society would be entirely different. It used to be normal that people looked out for each other and helped when necessary. All of that is lost and hate is spilled all over the planet between people that don't even know each other. I baked bread at home and decided to make a few more loaves and take them to four neighbors. Their thankfulness shone in their eyes and the smiles and thank you I got, made me happy. Love thy neighbor as thyself is such a great commandment and makes a society really great.
Linda Starr WinansFebruary 29, 2024
Greetings,Maurine. When we first met you in Israel you mentioned how Scot was your best friend. What a joy to follow your loving journey together. Paul and I are so very grateful and appreciative of your sharing such uplifting and tender experiences with us. May God always bless you both with good health, happiness, and inspiration. You continue to make this world a better place!!! Happy Day!
SKFebruary 28, 2024
I really needed to read this. It has given me hope. Thank you, Brother Barkdull. May you rest in peace.
Karen CasosFebruary 28, 2024
Try google translate, it works well.
Diane ChaconFebruary 28, 2024
Thank you for your article. I'm really trying to understand the words of Isaiah as I study the CFM lessons and found this article very helpful.
AnikaFebruary 28, 2024
Does traficking include mind control? Does it relate to cults?
Ben JonesFebruary 28, 2024
With regard to vaccination, the fact that President Nelson, who is a doctor, got a vaccination and recommended it, is not simply accommodating the world but doing something that is not contrary to the Gospel and is not harmful. Hundreds of millions of people have been vaccinated without ill effects. People can still be prayerful about it because sometimes there are side effects. The fact that home study for the Gospel was implemented under his direction a year or so before the pandemic happened was certainly inspired.
MarLynn JamesFebruary 27, 2024
In conjunction with your article, have you considered the possibility that "Dark Matter" may in actuality be the Spirit World?
Jackson PembertonFebruary 27, 2024
My wife, myself, and our daughter had an experience with my deceased mother that is, I think, very unusual in its parallels to the scientific method. You can read about it here: https://covenantsofthefather.com/life-after-death/#grandmas-here If I read your mindset on science and religion correctly, you will also be interested in a new paradigm for the most natural basis for natural rights. You'll see several articles on #temporalRights here: https://covenantsofthefather.com/
GailFebruary 27, 2024
Maurine, Your writing skills are such a gift! I love to read about your adventures. Especially the things of the Spirit. I shed tears of joy in every report. My son is in your P.R. ward and having been to P.R. a few times. I can picture the lines in stores, the cinder block walls, the hanging electric wires. The beauty of the ocean and the tons of cats and dogs. God bless you both, you are doing a great work!
Richard JukesFebruary 25, 2024
I appreciate this wonderful insight and enlightening for this wonderful chapter in 2 Nephi. Thank you!
Janette AllenFebruary 25, 2024
I miss this masterful teacher. Thanks for sharing this with us. I love it so much. It is the catalyst for many ah-hah thoughts and moments.
SiriFebruary 25, 2024
What is the name of this book? Has it been published by now?
Kerry FarrFebruary 24, 2024
And don’t forget the sacred consecration covenant in the temple. We take it seriously ❣️
BrentFebruary 24, 2024
I Googled "R's of Repentance" to help prepare a lesson about Atonement for my 9-year-olds Primary class. The additional perspective offered by this article will help me to present the lesson in such a way that maybe the kids can be more prepared to avoid the "checklist" approach. Some basics are necessary though ! I liked the comment about the R's being FRUITS of repentance (aka Fruits of Redemption).
KathleenFebruary 23, 2024
Such great observations. Glad to be a part of it all!
MaryannFebruary 23, 2024
I love the statement in this article drawing our attention to the fact that "God does all the heavy lifting." So many of the saints, including myself, have been wearied to complete exhaustion, carrying heavy burdens that the Lord wants to carry for us. Even if we try with all our hearts, we will still make mistakes. The Lord requires our hearts and willingness to try and do better in following the example of our Savior. We need to trust Him more and sense his loving care. I believe one reason many leave the church is they feel such a vast distance between who they are, and who they think they need to be RIGHT NOW! This is why patience is such an important principle: patience with ourselves, and trust that the Lord can enable us to progress to be more like Him.
MaryannFebruary 23, 2024
WOW. I felt the power of the Spirit reading this. There truly is so much more to us than we begin to comprehend. I don't know how long we dwelt with our Heavenly Father before coming to earth, but I do know we brought so much light and truth with us, recorded deeply in our spirits. We do know so much more than we think we know. One of the powerful ways I know truth is that the Holy Ghost bares witness to me of truth over and over again as I read the scriptures--especially the Book of Mormon. Another way I know truth is that when I pray, the Lord reveals to me in my heart that the things that I am saying are true. When we speak the truth, read the truth, hear the truth, something in our Spirits recognize it because we already know it. As the example in the article: We just didn't know that we KNOW already. When I read the Book of Mormon for the first time at the age of 16, I surely must have prayed to know it was true because that is what I had been taught to do. But, I don't remember specifically doing that, because the Spirit bore witness to my spirit that it was true before I even finished reading it. Our souls are primed to accept truth, because deep within, though sometimes perhaps temporarily dimmed, the Spirit already lives within us.
MarmFebruary 23, 2024
This looks like a great list. I have appreciated your reviews over the years.
Adrian MartinFebruary 22, 2024
Thank you, Wally, for an inspiring message. You have really uplifted me.
Elba Milagros Hernandez CurtFebruary 22, 2024
Nephi's prayer is my favorite part in The Book of Mormon. This Scripture has comforted and supported me through my most difficult struggles. I read it often. It always brings me great peace to read that even a Prophet of God struggled with sorrow and difficult times. Nephi's example of endurance and trust always inspires and encourages me to do the same.
ShaunaFebruary 21, 2024
Fantastic! love your Forced family fun nights. I know many think it impossible and others not the goal, but we did not get cell phones for our girls, until they were 13-14, and they were not on social media of any sort throughout their teens--and neither were I or my husband. and I think that's been key. we modeled what we were asking them to do. Ironically, they're now 20 and 21 and they've since started using social media--but as missionaries;) Interesting how that works. they did miss out on some things and they weren't the most "popular" kids, but it kept them from that devastating comparison and bullying stuff going on on social media.
ShaunaFebruary 21, 2024
Thank you for your faith and testimony and for sharing your perspective and experiences. the Temple sealing story is inspiring. Your perspective gives me some things to think about.
Robert StarlingFebruary 21, 2024
Are here some good sources on how to protect or "harden" your key electronics to survive an EMP attack? Does it help if electronics are turned off when an EMP pulse occurs? Many questions ....
Noel JensenFebruary 21, 2024
I like the triple F suggestion. I think that taking charge of your children's is a parental duty. However, I think that the don't understand idea is not completely true. An alcoholic understands the problems of drug addiction, and as recovering teenagers we also understand what our teens are going through, especially if we seek the assistance of the Spirit and follow the inspired guidance of general church leaders.
carolynFebruary 20, 2024
Doris, They are all ebooks. I am submitting them to publishers but for now they are just ebooks. When we surveyed people most said ebooks would be better because they could print just what they needed.
AnonymousFebruary 19, 2024
The Book of Mormon account of the ‘curse of a black skin’ had absolutely NOTHING to do with ‘superiority’ vs. ‘inferiority’! Nothing!!! It was God’s CURSE based on ‘righteousness’ vs. ‘wickedness’/‘disobedience’ of His children. The Book of Mormon has chapter after chapter detailing Laman’s, Lemuel’s and the sons of Ishmael’s DISOBEDIENCE and WICKEDNESS! After Laman and Lemuel had continually tried to murder their brother, Nephi, God finally came to Nephi’s rescue and CURSED all those who followed Laman and Lemuel with a dark skin, and more. Here is the entire CURSING that the Lord put upon ALL the people who followed Laman and Lemuel: 20 Wherefore, the word of the Lord was fulfilled which he spake unto me, saying that: Inasmuch as they will not hearken unto thy words they shall be cut off from the presence of the Lord. And behold, they were cut off from his presence. 21 And he had caused the cursing to come upon them, yea, even a sore cursing, because of their iniquity. For behold, they had hardened their hearts against him, that they had become like unto a flint; wherefore, as they were white, and exceedingly fair and delightsome, that they might not be enticing unto my people the Lord God did cause a skin of blackness to come upon them. [The only part of the cursing addressed in the above article!] 22 And thus saith the Lord God: I will cause that they shall be loathsome unto thy people, save they shall repent of their iniquities. 23 And cursed shall be the seed of him that mixeth with their seed; for they shall be cursed even with the same cursing. And the Lord spake it, and it was done. 24 And because of their cursing which was upon them they did become an idle people, full of mischief and subtlety, and did seek in the wilderness for beasts of prey. 25 And the Lord God said unto me: They shall be a scourge unto thy seed, to stir them up in remembrance of me; and inasmuch as they will not remember me, and hearken unto my words, they shall scourge them even unto destruction. (2 Nephi 5:20-25) Honestly, it flabbergasts me that any puny human being could think they have so much “intelligence” that they could ‘DISAVOW’ God’s commandments and punishments, and go so far as to say that they didn’t even happen! We are all God’s CHILDREN, and He can punish or reward any of His children in any way He feels appropriate. This article actually makes me sick to my stomach! Who died and made these so-called ‘scholars’ become “God, the Father, in charge of the ‘rewards and punishments’ division”??? If any of you have eyes that can actually see, you should be able to see people walking around in black skins [and hair] all over the world...still. You should be able to see a large number of the people in South America, Central America, Mexico, and the United States and northward, walking around in skins ranging from very dark brown, to lighter brown or reddish. The majority of them also have black straight hair. I’m sorry, but they can’t wash off their skin color! It’s not a tattoo! It’s not paint! Give the world a break! God sends out blessings OR cursings upon His children based upon their obedience or disobedience to His commandments! Stop with the “politically correct” BS. The truth is the truth. And differences in skin color are a REALITY. Why are the descendants of those original cursed people still wearing the dark skins? That is 100% up to GOD!!! He decides. You puny humans don’t have control over His actions! God cursed Laman, Lemuel, and the sons of Ishmael, and all their descendants, with a ‘SKIN OF BLACKNESS’, and that curse would only be lifted on certain descendants who proved righteous by repenting and giving their hearts to God. The mark/curse of a black skin put upon Cain is still 100% present among the Black population. That mark of a dark skin still is present among a majority of the Lamanites. That is just a fact! It is not being ‘racist’ to say that. FACTS ARE FACTS! They can’t be DISAVOWED. They can’t be DISMISSED or IGNORED. God is in charge! Period!
LoraFebruary 19, 2024
In the Holy Bible, we have a footnote on the word "black" on these scriptures: Jeremiah 8:21, Jeremiah 14:2, Joel 2:6, and Nahum 2:10. The footnote reads, "Hebrew idiom, meaning gloomy". What I don't understand is why there isn't a footnote on 2 Nephi 5:21. After all, wickedness never was happiness. Besides, if Nephites and Lamanites looked different from each other, why is it that in Alma 55:8-9 when the Nephites bring wine to the Lamanites, they don't ask Laman, "What are you doing with all those Nephites?" Instead they say, "Great! Let's drink!" A better translation would be that the Lamanites had "an aura of darkness" rather than a "skin of blackness". Many of us have seen it with our friends who turn away from the light of the gospel.
Traci WalkerFebruary 19, 2024
Each time you speak, pearls of wisdom fall from your lips. Now I see the same applies to your writing. - your MTC buddy
carolynFebruary 19, 2024
Doris, They are all ebooks. I am submitting them to publishers but for now they are just ebooks. When we surveyed people most said ebooks would be better because they could print just what they needed.
carolynFebruary 19, 2024
Gary, Thank you so much. I hate writing about worst case events but we know they can and likely will happen. "For the scriptures tell us so.."
David PerryFebruary 18, 2024
Dear Lynne, These words were rock solid, not built on the sand or on a mirage. Thank you for your sweet testimony of things that matter most. Uncle David
Corey D.February 18, 2024
I understand what you are pointing out but there also might be the impression that the church will end some time in the future and maybe isn't as important as it has been taught, it is eternal, as eternal as the family for as the Scripture says, those who are inheritors of eternal life are also those who will be of the Church of the Firstborn.
Cynthia P. SpencerFebruary 18, 2024
I think this account is a good example of inspiring faith and appreciation in the hearts of our children Good jon Tanya! Keep them coming.
Kirsten SchullFebruary 18, 2024
Thank you so much for this podcast. I have loved the Psalm of Nephi sing we sang a composition of it at BYU in the 80s. This thoughtful essay you have shared added so much depth and made it a blueprint for healing and growth. I feel blessed to have read it. Many thanks.
KathleenFebruary 17, 2024
True Blue - because we've consecrated our all for that period of time!
Ann Kapp AndersenFebruary 17, 2024
A most insightful and inspiring article of the kind I expect from you, Lynne. You have an auntie in Alaska who is always VERY proud of you. :-)
Sherylynne O'DwyerFebruary 16, 2024
Thank you for this review. I am looking forward to reading this book.
Joanna StrainFebruary 16, 2024
I love this. Thank you. This article makes the admonition to love and include those who would otherwise be excluded so much easier to understand. The paradigm shift will make living the Gospel so much easier.
DorisFebruary 16, 2024
Are your books all e-books or real books?
MelanieFebruary 16, 2024
Thank you, thank you, thank you!! This has been a topic for the last 5 years and doesn’t always end with heart warming feelings. This article is an answer to many years of fasting and praying. The title of this article, the stories told, and the doctrine shared gave the reader a feeling of hope. I will continue to read and ponder upon this for days. My heart is so full of gratitude! Bless you and your sweet wife. You are a gift to all!!
Corey D.February 16, 2024
My wife and I went to the Idaho Falls Temple last summer, first time we have been to that temple, it's where my mom's parents were sealed. As we were making our way out, lots of turns and hallways we came around one corner and there on the wall was this painting of Jesus holding a lamb, in the background was the flock, making it seem as if Jesus was returning or rescuing the lamb, it was a black lamb, first time I have seen that particular painting, it deeply touched me at that moment.
Corey D.February 16, 2024
My father was killed at a young age in a freak construction accident at home, he and my grandmother were doing a lot of family history or genealogy as they called it back then, being the oldest I got a lot of the family history stuff. Similarly after my grandparents on my mom's side passed away, I being the oldest and mom being an only child I ended up with a lot of their family history stuff. My wife has been very interested and involved in family history, not only with her family history but she has been a diligent journal keeper and we have massive amounts of family photos so it has been important to us. Family stories have been important to us our whole lives, how and where we grew up is a big deal, especially for me coming from a small town and my wife's parents coming from rural Wyoming but with the exception of one son our children and grandchildren have little to no interest, I think it's sad because those stories of faith, conversion, hardship, miracles, family, patriotism are important they have and do affect me but my children don't seem to be very sentimental about those kinds of things at all or even their own childhoods, much of their generation seem to be the same.
Laurie Claeys BoydFebruary 16, 2024
BEAUTIFUL article with the most important message in the world. THIS is how we love one another as He has loved us!
Corey D.February 15, 2024
Great and wonderful story which I know my wife would love but I hope she never reads because I would be in trouble, again !
Gary AndersonFebruary 15, 2024
Carolyn, I am so grateful for the inspired messages you give on being prepared for anything that could or will come to pass in these latter days! You have helped me a lot on how to prepare and what to prepare, so I won't be caught wanting when things happen according to prophecy and other means.
LewisFebruary 14, 2024
While different than your usual article, I think this particular article is one of my favorites. If eternal life is made up of little steps, eternal love must in fact be made up of a multitude of little things. I can tell that the love you feel provides a beautiful foundation for you to do the incredible things you do with your life. I am grateful to you for sharing this wonderful story.
ShaunaFebruary 14, 2024
thank you for your work, this article and especially your commitment to God and His laws/truths. Your analysis explains why I have rejected Hollywood outright and why I haven't seen a movie in a theatre since Mary Poppins Returns Neither do my husband or I watch TV, have Netflix or whatever. I refuse to let this worldview in I support you in your brave stance
Marie B.February 14, 2024
I LOVED this. We’ve been married nearly 57 years. I think it’s never too late to start something good so starting today I am going to do more of the small thoughtful things you described you received from your husband. I hope and pray it will bless our marriage. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
Doris WilliamsFebruary 14, 2024
I am blown away by Becky's story.....and John! Wow, heaven found a match for this faithful, talented, altruistic sister. What a guy...unbelievable in his dedication, faithfulness, creativeness....truly a match made in heaven! An example and blessing for all of us. I'm grateful to be a supporter of Rising Star Outreach and wish all of their family continued love and blessings.
Frank E. MerrillFebruary 14, 2024
Thanks be to God for an excellent filmmaker like Kieth! It is because of his family visiting my family in the 1950's that caused us to join the church, and it is because of his excellent work as a cinematographer that the most crucial truths may be told in such glorious detail.
Mari PorterFebruary 14, 2024
Such a sweet and wonderful life; thanks for sharing what matters. “He’ll ruin the gene pool!” Hahahaha!
CoreyFebruary 13, 2024
What an amazing story! Have you ever thought of publishing his journals? The Lord truly protects those who honour Him… I’m curious what is meant by the “Icelandic front”. The Germans were never in Iceland…
JohnFebruary 12, 2024
Article starts with "We need to reject the simpleminded, inaccurate picture that divides people into two classes" and exactly 5 words later refers to the other side as 'our enemies'. Complete cognitive dissonance. When you undermine your own thesis to this extent - nothing else you have to say is worthy of consideration.
Dan YeruskiFebruary 11, 2024
Excellent project, excellent and useful information for me to begin a restoration project on Zelphs Mound also known as Naples/Russel Mound 8 located in Pike county, Illinois. I will invite the Curlee family and others from Nauvoo to the cleansing ceremony once a date has been set. I'm working with Joseph "Standing Bear" Shranz of the SOARRING foundation.
Corey D.February 11, 2024
I keep hearing or reading the word compromise, it's in the quote by President Oaks but I personally think that's part of the problem in society today, there are some things that there can be compromise but there should be no compromise on certain issues, especially moral issues, especially those things surrounding family and marriage and honesty, anything else will fail or prove to be destructive to society and history, both secular and non-secular history has already shown that.
JaniceFebruary 10, 2024
I'd been searching for a gratitude journal for a young women who lost her grandpa, and then a year later her grandma. She was close to them and missing them a lot. I was so thankful when is got it. It seemed perfect! Thanks for your hard work on creating a beautiful product to help us reflect on the blessings we do have and remember the important things and people in our lives.
Laurie MorelandFebruary 10, 2024
I heartily agree with this whole article. Finding myself in the dating game at age 55 after nearly 30 years of marriage, it was a strange and wonderful world. My now-husband and I began our relationship with very open communication and lots of talking and laughing. Seven years later, we continue to talk and laugh every day!!
VictoriaFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you for this well-written tribute to Nephi which is applicable to all of us, especially those who struggle with darkness and bringing energy and light into their pattern of thinking. We should all examine our self doubts and seek the reassurance of His light.
CynthiaCFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you to all our missionaries -- for preparing, for going, for doing your best! This beautiful article captures so many feelings! Missionaries brought our family into the church! Thank you for your example! A shout out too to Mission Medical. My son was sent home early with a suspected life-threatening illness (it was!). One BYU friend met us at the airport to meet him. I cried deep tears of appreciation, because all it takes is one, knowing that one person cares so much to be there with a big welcome home/job well done smile. As the saying goes, we may be the only scriptures a person ever reads! How we live and love matters as much as what we do and accomplish! Keep up the good work!
Allen AFebruary 9, 2024
My neighbors and I clear each other's walks after every snowstorm. Whichever of us is out there first will get the walks for the others. Sometimes we go on down the block to the homes of the very elderly and make sure that their walks are cleared and salted if the neighbors there haven't already done it. Most of my neighbors are not LDS, but it is something that we just do.
JuliannFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you for the explicit honesty. “Enduring well” is not easy. Doesn’t help to live in denial. Being submissive to whatever He seeth fit to “inflict” upon us is a true challenge. You have learned in one experience what it’s taken me too many years to internalize. Well done.
HelenCFebruary 9, 2024
Thank you for your gift to our young people. I pray the sister who went home feels loved and appreciated for her valiant effort.
Corey D.February 9, 2024
My father was killed in a freak accident at home leaving my mom with 7 children at home, two of us were married and out of the house, here it is almost 45 yrs later and it all seems like a blur, grandchildren seem to be growing up even faster than the kids grew up, retired a couple of years ago after 43 yrs at the same company, does anybody care or even remember even though I was the only one who did what I did at my work ! Nothing more important or memorable in this life than holding the hand of a child or grandchild walking with them to the park so they can swing and go down the slide and they are so excited to go.
Corey D.February 9, 2024
I enjoy your articles and commentary Brother Peterson, the mixture of academic and religious/spiritual is excellent.
LindsayFebruary 8, 2024
Timely question. Beautiful answer. Thank you both!
Kay RookhuyzenFebruary 8, 2024
We saw the "movie" last Saturday and were two of the entire theater that sat during the credits! I laughed, I cried. MARVELOUS presentation. Well worth the Fathom Event pricing! I purchased the next weekend tickets before I even left the theater!
ShaunaFebruary 8, 2024
Thank you for raising your voice and for the solid arguments and resources. It's bizarre how one sided the discussion of these issues seems today in main stream media. I especially love the final quote from Robert George and am also so grateful for President Oaks incredibly rational and fair-minded, and yet deeply committed and moral approach to public issues. we have so much to learn from him and after reading his biography, and listening to many conference talks, I am convinced that the Lord has put him here at this precise time to help model a disciple's approach to civic affairs
Corey D.February 8, 2024
Such an amazingly well written, almost perfectly expressed sentiment and in it's own way a testimonial of the great plan of salvation. Only a mother could have expressed this.
Bryan W EllsworthFebruary 8, 2024
Today I needed these thoughts, altough I have already read the CFM lesson and accompanying insights and read many many times “The Psalms of Nephi”, this perspective was inspiring that Nephi chose to not stay down in depression even though he admitted to it. He chose to remember his Redeemer instead…..this Nephi’s attitude of gratitude that you point out makes me grateful tonight because in the past for me “the wretched man that I am” didn’t seem to jive with the man of God that Nephi was. But making him more human like us is comforting and gives me hope tonight!
Kay RookhuyzenFebruary 7, 2024
We all have days like this occasionally! You just have top laugh! I sure l laughed at yours quicker than I do my own!!!
S LindsayFebruary 7, 2024
Thank you for this beautiful reminder and encouragement to record our love and lessons for those still coming. Your writing conveys a tenderness and honor and sacredness all too rare on the internet these days, and so hearty and nourishing.
JuliannFebruary 7, 2024
It is a truth that many of us find ourselves in the pit of despair from time to time, wondering how we got there and wondering how we’ll ever get out. I still don’t know the magic formula but many of the things you mention surely do help. I typically end up pleading for Gods help and then I’ll hear a song, or read a text from a friend, or turn on a wonderful podcast discussing the scriptures, or read a great article like this one, things that uplift and edify and bring light to dispel the darkness. I’ve always loved Nephi’s lament. It’s where he becomes real and relatable.
Kathy SandersFebruary 6, 2024
Maurine, this subject of being conscious of our thoughts and the power they have for good or bad is one of the most important subjects in life I think! Thank you as always for articulating the power we have to choose our thoughts and the joy that can come from aligning them with the light of Christ, and the truths God has given to us. It is a true miracle how God can take our "feelings" and give us miracles to see and feel differently and more joyfully. Oh how the world needs to understand this principle of power! So much anxiety and depression would cease and joy and happiness would take its place!
J. E. GilstrapFebruary 6, 2024
Love this. Thank you.
Ron BarnesFebruary 5, 2024
When the Book of Mormon was published, the scattering of the Lamanites in North America, while not completed, had been underway for hundreds of years. Also, the United States did not become a “mighty nation” until after World War I, long after the scattering was completed. While the Spanish did make slaves of some of the Lamanites, it was a small number compared to how many there were. Also, for the most part, the Spanish didn’t scatter the Lamanites, they married them. About two thirds of the inhabitants of Central America are of Spanish and Lamanite ancestry. Also, the term “raised up upon” indicates it was local, not imported.
DougFebruary 5, 2024
This mortality is a testing ground. Perhaps (or more certainly than perhaps) this was just one test He allowed you to have to prove that through your Earthly trials (including a heart attack) you would choose Him. Our trials in mortality will be brief but some may seem so HUGE, as was this one for you. Keep the faith and keep holding fast to that iron rod and God will surely bless you for doing so. Thank you for sharing.
GTOFebruary 5, 2024
In the 1500s, Hernando de Soto landed in the southeastern part of what would become America. He brought pigs with him, an invasive species that carried diseases to which native Americans had no immunity. Along with smallpox, pig-born diseases probably decimated about 90% of the native population, most of whom never personally encountered a European. This could probably be added to the pre-restoration scattering and killing of Book of Mormon descendants.
Heather SmurthwaiteFebruary 5, 2024
You have our empathy, gratitude and our agreement -- all of us millions of mothers who love the Lord. We will all progress eternally together.
Sandy GatesFebruary 5, 2024
If this was a social media post I would like it a million times. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and your feelings. You hit the nail on the head with your insight.
Karen BrimhallFebruary 5, 2024
Love the book Cry Wolf. Though she was on the run she had help in finding the killer of her husband. You will stay interested in this book
BryanFebruary 5, 2024
This is the best article I’ve read here in a very long time. So on point and SO doctrinal. Thank you for sharing.
CharlyFebruary 5, 2024
I was 34 and my baby was 6 weeks and the youngest of 5 children 7 on down. This is a 1/10,000 chance of a lifetime! I had a stent put in, and have lived a normal life. Now I'm 62 and seeing the damage of my heart, dealing with other diseases, including breast cancer. I am still blest and know that even if we don't see it then, It is for our good!
RhodaFebruary 5, 2024
Thanks for this -- very important to ponder.
Brother RodriguesFebruary 4, 2024
Seria muito bom se houvesse transcrição do podcast, mesmo transcrito em inglês, para poder os traduzir com Google translate. Moro fora dos EUA e não sei ingles
SaraFebruary 4, 2024
Beautiful! It is a good reminder that people are what is important. Relationships matter. Individuals matter. I really enjoyed this.
Jan FranciscoFebruary 3, 2024
I really loved this article, your writing and your thoughts. I feel the same way about the immense importance of motherhood and attention to our children. I love hearing God’s response to you, it makes Him seem nearer to me in the day-to-day. Thank you for your courage in speaking up for motherhood.
LindsayFebruary 3, 2024
Thank you for this absolutely beautiful reminder, put in such an uplifting and inclusive way that I can share it broadly with mothers everywhere!
WhitneyFebruary 3, 2024
The Savior’s first miracle was to provide wine at a wedding. Having alcohol at weddings is not a new tradition—and one that is not considered morally reprehensible in most cultures or traditions. Can you get curious about why this particular situation is so difficult for you? If your children are kind and caring people, not sharing your value about alcohol doesn’t seem like it should prevent you from enjoying one of the most important days of celebration in and of your child’s life. Can you try to see what the wedding means from their internal value system and love them?
Corey D.February 3, 2024
I dare say probably most, maybe all parents and grandparents especially in the church feel exactly like this couple or can relate to some degree. I have heard the phrase "the Book of Mormon was written for our times" my whole life, I don't think it was chance that most of 1st Nephi is about family dynamics. The battle or what is often referred to in the press as the "culture war" is lost, there is no doubt about that, but we know who wins the final grand battle or war, therefore we have to concentrate on our individual faith, knowledge, obedience and happiness, praying in faith for loved ones and friends who are headed to the large and spacious building or maybe already in it and leaving the rescue of them up to the Savior.
Bruce NormanFebruary 3, 2024
Now that is really cruel ... are these the bedtime stories you told to your children. (I had to laugh at this one.)
Nathan BoyceFebruary 3, 2024
WOW! I love that story and the profound lesson it demonstrated. Thanks so much for sharing that.
KathleenFebruary 2, 2024
Tender & True!
Cornelius Randall PetersonFebruary 2, 2024
Who is the artist who painted the lovely watercolors?
EveFebruary 2, 2024
I love this so much! I'm going to have to remember that - don't mistake necessary for important. A great lesson for us all.
MaryannFebruary 2, 2024
Thank you for such an uplifting and much needed article. I believe many women feel they are unimportant because they are staying home to care for their children instead of joining the work force. Nothing could be further from the truth. They are doing the Lord's work and caring for HIS children. Being a stay-at-home mom is an incredible blessing and privilege. As you stated, women who must work outside the home also have opportunities to live a Christlike life by blessing those around them. Hopefully, we can be loving and supportive sisters to one another, whatever our situation may be.
MaryannFebruary 2, 2024
Please remember you are not alone. I, along with thousands of other LDS parents, are dealing with this same struggle. We feel your pain, and empathize with you. Your letter indicates that you are exhausted and at the end of your rope. I hope my thoughts can help. I have come to the place where I absolutely must protect my own mental, emotional, and physical health. For me, this means ceasing to agonize over my children's choices, and to ACCEPT the real fact that this is where they are right now on their journey. I relinquish guilt or any responsibility for their actions. I continue to pray for them, and I exercise faith in the Lord that He will do all he can for them. I feel the key is to continue to show love always, and focus on being together as a family. To continue to agonize over their decisions, or to try to change them, helps no one. It will only bring additional exhaustion, and rob you of the energy you need to love and enjoy their company. In your prayers, thank the Lord for all the wonderful things about them, and express your faith that he will reach out to them. If they sense in any way your disapproval at their wedding reception, it will only drive a wedge between you. Decide before you go that you will have a good time. Engage in positive, upbeat conversation, rejoice with them in their marriage, and be thankful for their happiness. Let go of your burden, and give it to Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace.
Stephen HuntFebruary 2, 2024
This is excellent. Only one suggestion: while Joseph met with Moroni on the first day of fall five years in a row (2023-2027), he did NOT meet with Moroni on the Feast of Trumpets every year. The date of the ancient feast is determined by an ancient lunar calendar, and so the ONLY one of the dates that Joseph actually met with Moroni on the Feast of Trumpets was the date that he actually received the plates, September 21, 2027. In my opinion, this is even more amazing than the idea that he might have met on the Feast of Trumpets every year.
KellyFebruary 2, 2024
A dear friend in a similar situation prays: "Lord, you love them more than I do. I leave the matter in your hands." (This in the context of children who allow almost no contact with their mother.)
Steve DoneganFebruary 2, 2024
Best…explanation…ever. Thank you.
Robert StarlingFebruary 2, 2024
Kimberly. Do you have some Kleenex? I need some after reading your wonderful article. You are SO right! Thank you, for reminding us what is most important.
RaLee HallFebruary 2, 2024
Thank you for posting this. I love it!
JopkinsFebruary 2, 2024
Outstanding insight into that which truly matters. we are so easily distracted with our temporal duties, success and follies that we miss the simple, crucial caring that will shape a personality.
JoyceFebruary 2, 2024
I must have been led by the Spirit to Rob Gardener's Lamb of God today. I just stumbled on Is it I? on Spotify and I was deeply touched by the conversation. I walked right into the present of the Last Supper and how that moment felt with the disciples and Jesus. Listening to other songs lifted my soul in more ways than words can describe. I have blessed Rob Gardener in prayer many times. God bless you again for being so creative
Guy and Susan GardnerFebruary 1, 2024
Ron and Bonnie, our prayers are with you!
Minerva M.February 1, 2024
In April 1982 General Conference, President Hinckley stated," Unfortunately, we live now in a sex-saturated society. Pornography comes at us from all sides: in the theater, in books and magazines, in newspaper advertising, in television in its various forms, and in some instances from radio." This was 42 years ago. That dismal state of moral decay then, sad to say, has very astronomically made a turn for the worse. Paul warned us that in the latter-day time, some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils (1Timothy 4:1). The Prophet Joseph Smith received the revelation exhorting us . . . to do all things with prayer and thanksgiving, that ye may not be seduced by evil spirits, or doctrines of devils, or the commandments of men; for some are of men, and others of devils (DC 46:7). I'm deeply grateful for the prophetic, relevant, and urgent declaration of President Nelson that in coming days, it would not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost. Thank you so much for this very informative article. Adults, young people, as well as children, need to be informed of insidious pitfalls and deceptions out there, and the very subtle, cunning ways of the adversary who is as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour (1 Peter 5:7).
CEBFebruary 1, 2024
Loved reading this “real life” parable! I could see the analogy of choices all along the way. Thank you!
TracyFebruary 1, 2024
I love this. Thank you for a great modern day parable.
Sharon BarrusFebruary 1, 2024
I love this analogy! Very thought provoking. Thanks for sharing.
LoraFebruary 1, 2024
If the garden of Eden was in Jackson County, Missouri, then there were three civilizations that were swept off this continent because of sin: first, the Flood, then the Jaredites, and then the Nephites. The Civil War came very close to destroying America. Think of it: they had murdered a prophet, cast the righteous out from among them, and ground the faces of the poor with slavery. Abraham Lincoln read the Book of Mormon in 1862, and I believe he took warning from it. He issued the Emancipation Proclamation in 1863, and began declaring days of prayer to return the nation to God. (See The Lincoln Hypothesis by Timothy Ballard)
Steve DoneganFebruary 1, 2024
Oh thank you, good brother, for your allegory of the fence. It resonated with my soul.
Wally GoddardJanuary 31, 2024
I enjoyed your article, Carol! Will you be attending RootsTech? If so, I hope you will attend our session on Saturday, March 2, from 3 to 4 about Binding Hearts. Would love to have your thoughts after hearing our presentation! Blessings to you.
Robert StarlingJanuary 31, 2024
Great article, as usual. Our loving Father doesn't always give us what we want, but He gives us what we need. Even our Savior Jesus Christ did not get the answer he wanted to the most earnest prayer anyone has ever given ("let this cup pass from me"). But like him, we have to say "thy will be done".
Julie Carling DeYoungJanuary 31, 2024
Beautiful story! Thank you for all the fun info! John Carling is my 4th great grandfather! It is so great reading stories of ancestors!
Robert StarlingJanuary 31, 2024
Very well said Gary. You've given us some very good tips on how to share the most important thiings in our lives.
CarmaJanuary 31, 2024
Excellent article. Truths to cling to and act upon.
Ornella Brenna - ItaliaJanuary 31, 2024
I deeply love the knowledge I receive through the texts and writings you publish, but I have a problem, I don't know or speak English. I have to use the automatic translator to be able to read the lyrics [or write this comment], but it is not possible to do this with only the audio tracks. For this reason I kindly ask you if it would be possible to combine the audio tracks with the written text. Thank you for your attention and for your commitment to spreading knowledge of the Gospel in all its dimensions.
Debra MackJanuary 30, 2024
Wonderful article, wherever we live in the world. Thank you
Prodicus DiplodicusJanuary 30, 2024
In regard to the last part about Jacob and its connection to our experience with prayer, a nice discourse on the topic is Kierkegaard's, titled "One Who Prays Aright Struggles in Prayer and Is Victorious—in That God Is Victorious."
Pam RoderJanuary 30, 2024
Beautifully said Dan. Nice to have C.S. Lewis's perspective on this as well. Thank you. Appreciate all that you contribute!
L. LarssonJanuary 30, 2024
I loved this powerful and inspiring article and I thank you for it!
JeanmarieJanuary 29, 2024
Such a beautifully written and insightful article ! It reduced me tears because it is so close to my heart. Thank you for including CS Lewis - I respect his perspective so much ! Thank you !!!
RaLee HallJanuary 29, 2024
Thank you for this well thought out article. Though I knew much of the things you wrote about you increased my understanding and and gave me new insights.
JuliannJanuary 29, 2024
Much in this article to ponder on at a time I have been pondering this very question. Thank you. Opposition in all things ,I believe, means there has to be a balance, whether individually or collectively. If you ask for and expect miracles then you should also expect trials and challenges. If one person is pure evil then another person will be astonishingly angelic. Bitter-sweet, pleasure-pain, knowledge-ignorance. The problem lies in believing we deserve all good if we are trying to be good. I appreciate you pointing out all the ways the Savior was forsaken. The only perfect man received the exact opposite. We need to adjust our expectations.
HelenCJanuary 29, 2024
Heavy stuff. As my prayers for 2 of my own children, like yours for your sweet granddaughter, seem to have gone unanswered, or at least answered with a resounding, “No”, I will be spending some time with your thought, “We should wrestle with them until we receive the blessing.” There are unquestionable blessings that have come from my losses but they are still not the ones I wanted.
Corey D.January 28, 2024
First I compliment you on your willingness to draw a line, too many, even "active LDS" give up. I thought my worries would be over when the kids left the house and started their own families, how naive I was. I love my children and grandchildren and try to be supportive but there is a lot of times I have to bite my tongue when I see what some of my granddaughters are wearing, especially those who are no longer going to church. It's everything from trashy to immodest. Many of them have been involved with dance and I have been to numerous dance recitals and performances and its sexualized to the max, the dancewear, the dance moves, the music, makeup, little tiny girls with lots of makeup and a lot of these dance groups are run by church members but you say anything and you are treated as a pariah.
HeatherJanuary 28, 2024
I agree with Kevin that your insight about waiting ON the Lord, in the sense of humbly serving as we press forward with fatih, is a motivating idea. Thank you!
JudyJanuary 26, 2024
Thank you for your insights on each lesson. It really helps me understand what I read.
ShaunaJanuary 26, 2024
thank you --a heads up article for sure. as the mother of 2 daughters, It is so ironic to me that feminists have bought into the idea that women should "have the freedom" to be used as sexual objects i.e. pornographic toys etc. I thank God for the Gospel and the Proclamation on the Family everyday, for defining how families ought to function. And as Elder Bednar points out, in mind popping fashion in a must read talk/article: "Because a physical body is so central to the Father’s plan of happiness and our spiritual development, we should not be surprised that Lucifer seeks to frustrate our progression by tempting us to use our bodies improperly. One of the ultimate ironies of eternity is that the adversary, who is miserable precisely because he has no physical body, invites and entices us to share in his misery through the improper use of our bodies. The very tool he does not have and cannot use is thus the primary target of his attempts to lure us to physical and spiritual destruction. The Adversary’s Attacks The adversary attempts to influence us both to misuse our physical bodies and to minimize the importance of our bodies. These two methods of attack are important for us to recognize and to repel." (Things as they Really Are, Ensign June, 2010) Satan wants us to misuse our bodies. Thanks for the specific analysis your article provides, and I agree that parental example is key and I call on adults everywhere, women in particular, to stop flaunting their bodies.
Michael GreenstreetJanuary 26, 2024
The evaluation of whether any decision was correct comes down to its outcome/s. Matthew 7:20
Ron BarnesJanuary 25, 2024
I post on social media almost daily, sharing pictures and thoughts that I find interesting or amusing. I’m 69 years old, and I often get responses from women in their 20s. First, they flatter me and my post, then ask me to send them a friend request. I have no desire to, and have never done as they ask. I’ll admit I’m a bit naive, so I don’t know what it’s all about, but I’m sure it can’t be good.
CubbyJanuary 25, 2024
Took me a minute, that is funny.
LoraJanuary 24, 2024
This may or may not help, but some ingenious person created a slip for bridesmaids' dresses to help with the challenges of fitting into a restroom stall. It's called the Bridal Buddy. Maybe it would help with Renaissance dresses as well.
KevinJanuary 24, 2024
I've been "waiting" for an article like this! ;) Seriously, though. I really appreciate this viewpoint as I have just very recently been feeling like the Lord has forsaken me. Nearly ten years into a chronic illness has led to lots and lots of praying for relief, healing, answers, guidance. Recently it has turned into crying, begging, pleading and desperate sobbing, to the point of murmuring, complaining, lots of feelings of frustration, of impatience, confusion, and complaining. This article was very timely and poignant, thank you! I will try my very best to apply what I've learned from it. It's my greatest desire to do His will, I might as well focus on waiting ON Him instead of waiting FOR Him.
DebJanuary 24, 2024
Thank you for your thoughtful and thorough article. Babies are a blessing indeed. My heart smiles today when I see young families out in public these days, because having children is a choice fewer and fewer are making. We live in a society which is less supportive and even less tolerant of that choice. I appreciate your clarion call.
vickieJanuary 24, 2024
this is so funny. i wondered that myself. i would say i dont want to be floating around doing nothing or just singing. i want to be busy doing something and then relaxing after it was done. im sure when we are there we will be busy...doing what the Lord wants us to do. i even thought of asking the Lord to be down on earth traveling and seeing all the sights i never got to see. i think the EARTH is the most beautiful place in the universe. i treasure it.
Robin C.January 23, 2024
I served in Puerto Rico many years ago and absolutely fell in love with the island and the wonderful people there. Reading about your experiences and seeing your pictures brings back so many memories! I wept when I heard the temple announced there. When I served the few members that could manage it went to the Washington D. C. Temple to perform their sacred ordinances. What a blessing to have a temple there! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. I’ve listened to your podcast for years and was so delighted when you were called to the PRSJM! (The best mission in the world)!
MaryannJanuary 23, 2024
I have faith that the Prophet and The Twelve are receiving revelation all of the time to direct the affairs of the Lord's church. They don't need to report it all to us because some of it is not necessary for the whole church to know. However, when they do receive revelation for the entire church (and the world), we can be sure we will receive it. I am profoundly grateful and filled with faith in their counsel.
Ron BarnesJanuary 23, 2024
Our stake president came to our ward to call a new bishop. He arrived with one of his councilors. Getting out of the car, he saw my parents getting out of theirs. He asked his councilor, “What about Brother Barnes?” His councilor agreed. They were sitting on the stand when his other councilor arrived. The same question was asked of him. He looked at my father, then turned to the stake president and said, “He’s glowing.” When the president looked and saw my father surrounded by light, he knew who the Lord had chosen.
ShaunaJanuary 23, 2024
thanks for sharing these fascinating examples of modern day revelation. I have no doubt that our Church leaders are lead by revelation but it's always wonderful to fortify my testimony and to note the way that the Lord works with His servants
Abbie VianesJanuary 23, 2024
Thank you for your faith promoting scholarship and article Jeff.
NeilJanuary 23, 2024
People love to confuse the issue by talking about choice. Leaving some kind of corrupted grace to allow for others to have a choice to do something horrible. So I wish that the church would put into their statements on abortion that laws preventing horrible actions are not removing choices. This logic is never applied to other laws preventing horrible actions. For example, if someone wanted to build a bomb, the laws preventing them from building a bomb are good for society. Not removing choices. It is simply a way to support something evil and simultaneously virtue signal that you don't partake in the evil you support. So the church could preempt this by shutting down the choice deflection directly. There is this line, "Church members who encourage an abortion in any way may be subject to Church discipline." And those who support abortion via choice deflection are blind to the fact that they fall under this. If they addressed abortion directly, people would realize they support abortion more than they support the church. A lot of abortion obsessed people would leave the church. Yet after the mini-exodus, going forward, the church would grow stronger on this front. Unified.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 23, 2024
Elder Boyd K. Packer was assigned to call a new Stake President in Blythe, California, a small town of less than 20,000 people next to the Colorado River in Southern California. Elder Packer was accompanied by Floyd Packard, a newly-called Area Seventy. They went through the customary procedure of interviewing men serving in Bishoprics and the High Council. Saturday night, after a day of many interviews, Elder Packer felt that none of the men interviewed were to be chosen as the new Stake President. They retired to their respective rooms for the night, and met the following morning again. During the conversation, Elder Packer mentioned to Elder Packard that he had been given a particular name during the night. Upon hearing this Elder Packard said he had the same experience. Elder Packer then contacted the Stake President and asked if there was a man with that name living in the Stake? The Stake President replied yes, and indicated that he was previously serving as a Bishop in one of the wards of the Stake, but was currently serving as a Scoutmaster. He was called at home, and invited to be interviewed by Elder Packer, and was then called to be the new Stake President.
Jolanda Wiesner-PrzewrockaJanuary 23, 2024
Great insights as usual. Ich liebe Ihren Humor. Grüsse aus der Schweiz :-)
LauniJanuary 23, 2024
Amen - thank you for saying what so many of us have been thinking all along!
MaryannJanuary 22, 2024
The fact that the ex-husband is blaming his wife for the divorce in his conversations with his children is a dead giveaway about "how much he loved her." A man who loves a woman does not stir up contention against her, or blame her to her children. Since she is already divorced, I cannot fathom why her friends would keep telling her how much her husband loved her. They are basically telling her that she was wrong and made a mistake in divorcing him. This is unbelievably presumptuous and rude. I agree that she should make it very clear that their remarks are NOT helpful.
MaryannJanuary 22, 2024
Thank you so much for this much needed article, reminding us of the firm and unchangeable doctrine of the church on this issue. It is important to remember that freedom to engage in sexual intercourse also requires accountability for the outcome. There is no such thing as free agency without responsibility for our choice, and consequences for that choice. The vast majority of the millions and millions of babies who have been aborted is not due to incest or rape. The overwhelming majority of abortions are a result of irresponsibility. I am pro-choice in the sense that the responsible choice is made BEFORE you become pregnant.
Craig ReidJanuary 22, 2024
It’s too bad most if not all of the lower seats are reserved for church or GAs. The first come first serve tickets are in the balcony
Katrina BrittnerJanuary 22, 2024
Beautifully said—thank you for sharing!!!
KīraJanuary 22, 2024
Thanks for this article, Merilee, and all the work you do.
Jessica SpackmanJanuary 22, 2024
Fantastic, efficient breakdown of this critical issue. Thanks, Merrilee Every human life is sacred. Every preborn child is on their personal journey through mortality and eventually back to his/her Heavenly Parents.
Corey D.January 22, 2024
Just before the holidays my daughter-in-law texted to let us know that she and my son had mutually agreed to divorce, neither go to church, there was/is some concern because of past emotional struggles he has had, including coming home early from a mission. As I was thinking about this one day and what possibly I could do to help, the thought or impression came to me that he needs to get involved in serving others. So many seem to be struggling in the church but especially the youth and the young single adults. I see the wisdom in getting the youth to the temple as young as possible and all the options available for the young adults to serve that are available now besides a fulltime mission.
KatherineJanuary 22, 2024
Amen to everything said. We proclaim to belong to the restored church of Jesus Christ. We should be leading the charge against the evil practice of abortion that kills millions upon millions of our brothers and sisters every year!
Pattie SkousenJanuary 22, 2024
Pre-Born is a wonderful organization whose purpose is to achieve sanctity of life at a grassroots level. They have sonogram machines that help the expectant mother to see her unborn baby and help them understand the miracle of birth. Many fetuses are saved by this loving group. I have personally been giving to them and find great joy in helping new mothers delight in their experience.
Kirsten SchullJanuary 22, 2024
This was wonderful! Thank you for the indepth commentary.
Linda PelchatJanuary 22, 2024
I agree with this article. My problem is that a vote in the next election for Republicans would mean a vote for Donald Trump, who wants to be a dictator and destroy the US Constitution. Thankfully the Lord knows all.
LaWren BoothJanuary 22, 2024
Wonderful! Thank you for your work and for writing this article. I belong to a women’s political county organization here in NC that supports a local charity for unwed mothers and their babies. Such a good cause in harmony with LDS church values.
Teresa DavisJanuary 22, 2024
Thank you, I really enjoyed everything you say, I feel inspired and now more knowledgeable in my understanding of The Book of Mormon. You are amazing.
Teresa DavisJanuary 22, 2024
Thank you, I really enjoyed everything you say, I feel inspired and now more knowledgeable in my understanding of The Book of Mormon. You are amazing.
Robert LeifsonJanuary 21, 2024
Thank you for sharing your experiences! My son is serving in the Puerto Rico Mission and I personally appreciate your service to the missionaries. Your witness and testimony of gathering the House of Israel from both sides of the veil is powerful. Hearing the miracles that are happening since the dedication of the temple in San Juan is inspiring. May God bless you in your service.
HelenCJanuary 21, 2024
Interesting. I was afraid to speak up when my sister’s vicar told me he knew the church he worked for was not the true Church and he believed it wasn’t currently on the earth. I did email him after I had returned to the US to tell him it WAS here but I never heard back.
Pattie SkousenJanuary 20, 2024
Puerto Rico was a wonderful trip for us. We went right after Covid. The people were so nice and accommodating. Enjoy your time there
GusleyJanuary 20, 2024
Thank you so much for your insights. Years ago, while on a YSA trip, a young man walked into a room where I was privately engaged in my morning scripture study and approached me, laughing. He asked how long I had been home from my mission, and I replied that it had been about five months. He laughed again and said, "Don't worry. You'll get over that habit soon enough." I am saddened by how ashamed I felt. Had I made a show of scripture study - sitting self-righteously right in the middle of the main room, displaying my scriptures with an air of "look at me!" - I might have understood his mockery. But I was separated from the group, in a solitary corner of an empty room, early in the morning. He walked all the way into an otherwise empty room to find and make fun of me. However, that experience shaped my future. I have thought of his comment almost daily for the past 25 years; every day when I open my scriptures, I remind myself that this is a habit I never want to get over.
Bill HurfordJanuary 20, 2024
Unfortunately no mention is made of being a healthy person by building your immunity. Typically I use Vitamins D and C regularly and up the dose when a cold or flu looks like to happen.I also use Zinc. Great results and only real issue is sore throat
Melissa DarbyJanuary 19, 2024
Margret, I am glad you are still writing, I love seeing your name in print! This analogy about football and the mission resonated. It resonates with life as well. A slog with high points in between. Good seeing you in Oct. at the football game. All the love!!
MTJanuary 19, 2024
Unfortunately, "being in the world, but not of the world" usually means that LDS generally only socialize with other LDS. Holding membership or leadership position in a civic organization that would take away from your church calling is usually discouraged. Youth sports/activities that conflict with church youth activities are frowned upon. Real missionary work happens when true examples of Christ-like behavior are contrasted against lost hope, despair, and results of sin. Not at the Rameumptom on the first Sunday of the month...
AnnaJanuary 19, 2024
Geoff, your articles are getting better and better with time. This is a good one.
Corey D.January 19, 2024
I served my mission in the 70's, one of my companions who was also a convert and from California had worked in law enforcement before serving his mission, he once told me about a study that had been done in California (which would certainly not happen in today's social environment), the study looked at which ethnic groups were most or least involved in crime, at the time, those from Asian backgrounds particularly Chinese families were the least likely to be involved in crime and that was attributed to the strong parent, grandparent structure and the importance of honoring the family name and respecting the elders of the family. The comment in the article about the increase/rise of listed mental illnesses and correlating that to higher numbers of Therapists and differences in Therapists is way more true than expressed in the article.
RosieJanuary 18, 2024
Sounds fun, but why do we not allow a creative twist to these songs, while still bringing the spirit when it's sung. I personally dislike syncopation (I think it takes away from the song and focuses on the singer). Others would disagree. I've taken a few hymns, changed melody from a 19th century tune to a more current tune that emphasizes the meaning of the lyrics, and while not meant for Sacrament mtg. would be effective in an informal setting. Ex: "Does the Journey Seem Long", and "Come unto Him" - originally titled interestingly "I Wander thru the Stilly Night" or similar. Anyway, just a thought
Patty ListonJanuary 18, 2024
Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful and sacred experiences with so many of us who read meridian. May you be blessed in all that you do.
SusanJanuary 18, 2024
You've always had a beautiful way with words and your missionary stories are blessed by that. I look forward every week to your inspiring messages and feel touched to do more temple work. Thank you so much for sharing!
Joy LundbergJanuary 18, 2024
I loved this article. So tender, so inspiring, so encouraging. Thank you!!!
Jan NielsenJanuary 17, 2024
I too am on a path that is not one of my choosing and it gives me strength to hear the counsel of seeing how gratitude can help me carry on. I know all comes from our God, but focusing more on those blessing will be something I can do to feel his love for my through his beloved son, Jesus Christ. Thank you both for your testimonies of the role gratitude has helped you.
WallyJanuary 17, 2024
What an inspiring story! Thank you, Ron and Bonnie! Wally Goddard
MaryannJanuary 17, 2024
I have felt the Spirit of the Lord so profoundly as I read the Book of Mormon. It is divine miracle to me that reading the Book of Mormon opens the door to personal revelation. It is so much more than written words on a page. I love having the Holy Ghost witness to me over and over again the truthfulness of the Savior's divine mission, the truths of His gospel and the plan of salvation. Reading the very same scriptures at different times in our lives can bring new answers and new interpretations, depending on what we need at the time. The Holy Ghost will teach us what we need to know and feel. I am so grateful to have the Book of Mormon and I have a testimony that the Book of Mormon IS TRUE.
Doug YanceyJanuary 17, 2024
Great story! Becca and I try to do that in our ward here in Decatur. Those verses in Matthew have always been my favorite.
Nathan BoyceJanuary 17, 2024
@Ron Barnes: I appreciate your perspective and openness about your struggle.
MaryannJanuary 17, 2024
Joni, you have just done what is often impossible! You have encouraged us to press forward in Christ, without the guilt for being imperfect.
MaryannJanuary 17, 2024
If we refuse to compare ourselves to others, the problem of mocking might just take care of itself. We can train ourselves to become quickly aware of when we are making comparisons, and stop those thoughts before they escalate. Most of us have an automatic "beeper" warning go off in our heads when an unclean thought enters. We kick that thought out! We can develop the same mental self-warning when we are tempted to make comparisons between ourselves and others.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 17, 2024
In 1989 I suffered a severe motorcycle accident in San Diego, California. I broke both bones in my right leg in 30 places. The accident could have, and should have been fatal. The recovery took one year. During that time I heard that Irvine Stake President Jack Rushton broke his neck while body surfing in the ocean with his son, at the same time as my accident. I later heard he and his wife speak at BYU Education Week in Provo, Utah. I introduced myself to him, and told him of my accident. His comment to me was, "It looks like you survived much better than I did?!" Jack later passed away from his injuries. I am also aware of Shawn Bradley, the BYU basketball star that played in the NBA, who was paralyzed in an accident while riding his bicycle in St. George, Utah. The young wife that was horribly burned and scarred in a private airplane crash. The young returned-missionary that was paralyzed in a car crash, that wrote the book, "Unstoppable". The widow who's husband was the Mayor of Ogden, Utah, who was killed in Iraq, a week before he was scheduled to return home to his wife and seven young children. The captured hostages and many victims of the wars in Ukraine and Israel! These are the tragedies of mortality that cause many to doubt the existence of God? Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and everyone who is struggling and suffering with similar challenges. Steadfast, and Semper Fi! ✋
Patricia WintersJanuary 17, 2024
You are mispronouncing "sheikh." It is pronounced like "shake."
Carol AnnJanuary 17, 2024
Always good reminders. Thanks, Carolyn!
Laurie PollardJanuary 17, 2024
Bonnie and Ron, your words carry the power of the Spirit into our hearts. We feel the depth and genuineness of your faith and testimony of the loving promises God has offered to all. We know this witness has been marvelously magnified in the midst of your excruciating pain and suffering. We are grateful you are sharing your journey and the blessings of covenants and revelation that comes through seeking the Lord and heeding his voice delivered through the Holy Ghost. You are a gift and a light to us all. You are loved and appreciated beyond our ability of expression. May you thrive in the joy of the Lord's companionship as you continue to fulfill your grand mission in mortality! Your influence for good is incalculable!
LeeAnn HemmingJanuary 17, 2024
Your story is beautifully written. I loved reading of your search and desire for truth. I am impressed with your diligence and for not giving up. I love your testimony of the Book of Mormon, it inspires me to want to share your story and my love for this book with others. Thank you!
Mel HiscockJanuary 17, 2024
Excellent, insightful consideration of a sobering topic of a commonly passed over scripture.
Nathan BoyceJanuary 17, 2024
@HelenC: thanks for sharing that experience. I hope that you telling her that was a blessing for both of you.
Denise ChristensenJanuary 17, 2024
Bonnie and Ron...thank you for sharing your story and your testimonies of the power of prayer, the priesthood and gratitude. You are both a beautiful example of Christ-like love and faith and an inspiration to all those who struggle. We have many fond memories of our travels with you and you have been in our thoughts and prayers over the past several years since the accident. Know that we will continue to pray for continued miracles in your life. thank you for showing us that love and faith in our Savior can conquer all trials that may befall us. We love you and wish you the best.
Ron BarnesJanuary 17, 2024
I also see how I fit into that building, but from another prospective. My problem is pride. I am not a humble man. Too often I pride myself on my own abilities, not remembering how the Lord has guided me to develop them. Pride can keep me from following the commandments as well as I should. Sometimes I realize that I'm relying on my own "wisdom", rather than the wisdom of the Lord. Overcoming my pride will probably be a lifelong struggle.
CubbyJanuary 17, 2024
Great story. I like the way you reframed the inspectors from irritants to safety people.
JeffreyJanuary 16, 2024
Thank you for writing and sharing your personal conversion story and testimony of God's Plan and the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
KatherineJanuary 16, 2024
Your insight and wisdom continues to bless my life. Thank you Becky.
Withheld once again..January 16, 2024
I do not expect it to happen, but wouldn't it be wonderful if it did! We must each do our part to include everyone. We must teach our children the importance of doing this, and they must see us living our lives that way. I have never expected to have special treatment, but I have expected Christ like behavior from my fellow ward members. Oh how I feel the sister's pain and frustration that her husband has been a project. It is hard for active members to understand that not everyone feels dissatisfied with their lives in the matter of religion. Unlike so many who sincerely testify that "something was missing" before they found the Gospel, many, my husband included, do not feel that way. He is an excellent husband and father who is very supportive of callings that have taken much time away from my being home, as Primary President, serving in YW & Relief Society Presidencies, temple attendance. The best "ministering brothers" have been the "ministering friends."
LewisJanuary 16, 2024
What a beautiful story! It is one of those wonderful stories that demands that you examine your own heart, to distinguish between knowing about and truly knowing. It was a very timely reminder for me as we start our new year and plan the type of person we wish to become. Thank you for sharing your gift with us.
Richard GarrisonJanuary 16, 2024
Sis. Douglas, you never cease to inspire me and motivate me! The Lord works in mysterious ways...I literally just retold that very special spiritual experience several weeks ago as I had the honor of being the concluding speaker in our Orlando Stake's YSA Ward. Truly one of the most spiritual experiences of my life. I carry that same envelop, given to me those years ago by that trusting child of our Heavenly Father, in my Church briefcase. When I feel myself "drifting" in any way, I pull it out and ask myself "Do I KNOW God?" And thank YOU for all you do! "Former" Bishop Richard Garrison
HelenCJanuary 16, 2024
I have recently been disturbed by a dear friend’s negative opinion about Joseph Smith and the revelation on plural marriage. I have been struggling for days (mostly nights, actually) to find a way to correct her thinking. I knew that it was something only personal revelation to her could address but I really wanted to “fix” her thinking. Then I realized this morning that my only obligation as a friend is to love her unconditionally and to tell her so. So I did. My own personal revelation, perhaps?
KalaiJanuary 16, 2024
Such a beautifully written article. I love the visual of light spilling from the pages of the scriptures! I feel the same way but can’t write it as well as you do. The words of the song are 5x more powerful when combined with the music! It’s a must listen!! Thank you for sharing your talents in words and music!
Toni LyonsJanuary 16, 2024
My husband used to be a little afraid of helping someone with disabilities for some reason. We recently had a brother move into the ward who really had a hard time struggling with his stand-up walker. My husband was determined to be his friend. He calls on him often and spends hours visiting and helping where needed. The brother's wife has struggled as well over the years taking care of her husband and serving him and it is such a relief when my husband is able to be there as a support when she needs a relief. A wonderful change has come over my husband and it has been a great blessing to him as well as he sees how loving others has brought him closer to the Lord.
Liz RJanuary 16, 2024
McClellin's misspelling of his own name may be him replicating its misspelling by the mob in, say, a posted notice offering a reward for McLellin's capture.
Michael RooyakkersJanuary 15, 2024
Oh Christy, your lifelong endeavour to find truth is only beginning. That’s the beauty of this gospel of Jesus Christ. We learn every day as we seek for more understanding, line upon line, precept upon precept. Sometimes in the temple, I have such very profound and simple truths witnessed to me. How wonderful it is that you shared your frustrations and joys, so poignantly with us in your quest for coming to terms with, the true nature and character of God and Hs love for us. I’m sure your message will inspire doubtless many people who are going through the exact things now that you went through. I absolutely loved how well written your piece was. It spoke to my heart instantly and confirmed those truths that I hold so dear and near. Thank you, thank you, thank you for bravely and faithfully sharing your story!. I know you will be blessed, and perhaps even your family will one day as they watch you excel in your own personal worship of God.
EudociaJanuary 15, 2024
Not one word about his mother. She is still very much alive. Curious he didn’t mention her.
Daniel SloanJanuary 15, 2024
This is a fantastic perspective. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this. It seems I need to do my own internal audit to correct my same bad habits.
Alicia JensenJanuary 14, 2024
This is precious! You touched on somethings I had never thought about; how God was just dealing with us because his chosen people had forsaken him, but then via the BOM realizing that’s not the case. He love all people and make way for all to hear him and take part in his love. Such a revelation to read your thoughts and insights- well done!
Ben CrookJanuary 14, 2024
It is inspiring to hear (read) your testimony again. Thank you for being there and may the Lord bless you.
Ariane CJanuary 14, 2024
Is this still available to see? Where is it located? East Side Gallery?
Bob TaylorJanuary 14, 2024
many years ago on my mission, i had a similar experience. we were teaching a young couple, the husband was not active but because of his wife- who was not a member- he was being brought into activity. the very old lessons, the 5th discussion was all the commandments, and was often a stumbling block for investigators. we went in with a prayer in our hearts. every commandment, the wife nodded and committed to living the commandment. we finished the lesson and said, well, Sister ___, do you have any questions. she said yes, just one question. you can imagine how our hearts jumped at this ::)) what is it? well, she said, is that all there is to it? what a relief! no, that was not all, but for her this was the starting point.
Dee MillarJanuary 13, 2024
I have been married twice and widowed twice both to nonmembers. . Active LDS all my life Grew up in a small town. Only member here in this small town for over 30 years until recently. Drive an hour to church.in bigger town .invite nonmembers friends to church Active in community. Organizations Lots of friends
Tamra DodgeJanuary 13, 2024
Been there. I was married to a non-member for 14 years. He was a good man, with a gentle spirit. We had two sons together. He would attend church with us on occasion, but finely opted to attend his childhood church with his parents. The boys would alternate between churches, which had to be confusing for them. What I took from my experience, was the absolute ‘project’ making of my husband, and it appeared there was a competition as to whom would be the one to get him ‘dunked.’ He had the missionaries. Was invited to golf. Went with the Scouts on outings. Helped families move with the Elders Quorum. There was lots of fellowshipping, but with an underlying intention. For every step we would make forward, we would take two steps back because of something said or done. My husband was the focus of ‘recruitment’ in his own words. The marriage had taken a toll, and ended after a two and a half year court battle. My sons finely received permission to be baptized, through a series of unexpected events, and years of waiting. Their father and his family were not pleased with the event, as miraculous as it was. I had fully believed this man would accept the gospel, and integrate into my world with ease. His families traditions were very strong, and didn’t include the open mind or heart, that truth was out there. I appreciate this Sisters experience. She is an island. Fits into both worlds, but not at home in either. It wasn’t until I remarried, that I was invited to do couple things with fellow members. It’s hard. Uncomfortable for them, hard for me. I felt very much alone amidst my brothers and sisters.
WithheldJanuary 12, 2024
Your advice is sound, but in my experience of the last 50 years in a similar situation in my marriage, not realistic. I have found that active church members are so judgemental and have no or very little desire to develop friendships who do not meet "their standard " They make it hard for our children, making them. accountable for their parent's actions...."Where is your father?" Why doesn't he come to church?" Why didn't he baptize you?" " I hope our lesson on Temple Marriage didn't make you feel uncomfortable today." Please, can't we accept everyone for the place they are currently in? Heavenly Father loves all of his children. He wants us all to come home to him...everyone will in his or her own time....eternal progression! Please ward leadership, have patience and empathy for those in your stewardship...we need your support and help to feel part of the ward family, especially our young children and teenagers. If you don't, " the world" will. I have lost children because of their experiences in church.
Sally SmithJanuary 12, 2024
Well said. This is a clear message as to why we must trust and understand the Lord's timing on our lives. To teach us to trust in the Lord's timing especially when we don't get what we want when we want it.
Elder Ed SimonsJanuary 12, 2024
I love your mission updates! My wife snd I are Mental Health Advisors living in Argentina and this quote really resonated with me when you said "The younger generation is much better than you may have ever imagined." This generation of young adults are such precious valiant souls and I feel so privileged to serve them and the Lord as we serve them.
O SmithJanuary 12, 2024
The Latter-day Saint woman's comments are spot on! As a woman who has been a part-member family for 40 years, I have experenced every part of what she said. But your magazine story headline isn't really the right question. She wasn't asking how does she make friends -- she's made the effort to make friends. The real question is why church members don't respond in kind? I've done everytlhing you've suggested and yet, unless I initiate contact nothing much happens. There's an exception here or there, but in general members are cordial but they don't really include us in their lives. And yes, my husband has had some pretty rude baptism-ready type questions thrown at him just like your reader. As a church we just don't know how to deal with non-member families. We don't expect non-members to come into our building or activites. I've had my husband at empty nester activities and members who don't know us just assume he's a member and have made comments about non-members as a whole in front of him -- and then die with embarassment when they find out he's also not a member. And then they avoid us. I don't see a solution. And after 40 years it's exhausting to keep trying. Instead of counseling her about what she should do, there should have been more discussion about what the OTHERS should do when confronted with part member families in their wards. How do they become more inclusive? That's the issue we have to address.
Andrea VeraJanuary 12, 2024
Se que tu testimonio es muy grande y tienes toda mi admiración y cariño, he sido miembro de la iglesia por mucho tiempo y he tenido grandes experiencias, pero conocerte y verte ser tan fuerte ante tanta adversidad y refugiarte en las escrituras como siempre lo has hecho te ha llevado hasta este momento, se que vendrán más bendiciones, milagros, tribulaciones y experiencias que te harán crecer aún más, Se que Dios te ama como me ama a mi también... Muchas gracias por tu gran valor y por tu gran testimonio. Sabes que te amo con todo mi corazón mi hermosa hija...
Rick KlompJanuary 12, 2024
Christy--Thank you for sharing your powerful affirmation of the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon and the Savior's love for each and every one of Heavenly Father's children. The truthfulness of your words was confirmed to me by the Holy Ghost when I read them.
Roxann FJanuary 12, 2024
Christy thank you for this beautifully written testimony of The Savior and The Book of Mormon. I’m sure there are others who needed to read your story for their own struggles and others who can relate to their own conversion in a similar testimony of its truthfulness. I pray it uplifts the souls of those seeking truth and those confused about the path their on to finding Christ.
Harvey HiggsJanuary 12, 2024
The Sister wishing members would be more sociable outside of church activities should be aware she is not receiving special treatment being excluded any more than active members. Most ward members I know don't socialize outside of church activities. Outside of church and family activities socializing doesn't happen.It seldom happen and I do not expect it to happen.
Romulo C Lakip JrJanuary 12, 2024
Love your story!
Jack StapleyJanuary 12, 2024
I loved his article. Thank you for it. I think you are spot on. I have travelled with you to Oman, and have seen the type of location where they lived another 4 years or so after their arrival in Bountiful. A total of 12 years or so out of Jerusalem. May we all be more Nephi-ish in our attitude and relationship with our God. Life would be so much more enjoyable.
Jenny SvendsenJanuary 12, 2024
WOW! What a pwerful article, powerful testimony, thank you so much!
RaLee HallJanuary 12, 2024
Thank you for sharing your powerful testimony.
Roger DavidsonJanuary 12, 2024
Thank you so very, very much for you inspiring story of gaining a witness of the Book of Mormon. I am totally inspired from your story. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Later day saints I to am trying to find out my standing before my Father-in-heaven. Your story instilled in me a strong desire to keep pushing forward. Thank you so very much for taking the time to share your story.
JeanetteJanuary 11, 2024
What a wonderfully amazing article this is. You explained the importance of Mary so powerfully!
Elaine BarnettJanuary 11, 2024
Joni I loved your thoughts. You are an accomplished teacher! Thank you for your trust in the Llrd. Elaine Barnett
JuliannJanuary 11, 2024
Excellent article. Thank you.
LoraJanuary 11, 2024
A few years ago, I prayed a prayer that I had never prayed before: "Father, I cannot change. Please change me." I had tried and failed so many times to control my emotional eating habit. Books, gyms, clubs, support groups, none of them changed me for long. I recognized that I had an addiction, and followed the 12 steps, including surrendering to my Higher Power--my Heavenly Father and my Savior. It took a long time, and it wasn't without setbacks, but He has changed me. He took away a compulsion that I've had for 60 years. Now the results are obvious. I might write a book called "Lose 60 Pounds in 60 Years" but I don't think it will be a bestseller. Everyone wants a faster solution. For the first time in my life, I have confidence to get rid of my big clothes ("just in case"), and expect my current clothes to fit next year. What I realized in this process was that I can't just come unto Him one time. I have to come to Him every day.
Linda StricklandJanuary 10, 2024
Thank you to this author for this insight. So many times we experience what we think is failure. However, this article is a great reminder to have faith and patience.
Bob WJanuary 10, 2024
An Observer & H North—The brother was some years older than the daughter and died three months before she was born. I’ve not had, nor do I know anyone who has had a near death experience, but once while very ill, alone in an ICU a few hours from home, I saw and received a priesthood blessing from my deceased father accompanied by my also deceased mother and others whom I didn’t recognize. I already believed and had a testimony of the afterlife—now I know.
Abbie VianesJanuary 10, 2024
Potatoes, which could save starving French peasants, were not taking on. So the king had them planted in the royal garden and set his royal guard to protect the garden. Word got out and the royal guard turned the other way wnen peasants snuck in to steal potatoes. That is how potatoes went mainstream in France
Wanless SouthwickJanuary 9, 2024
It is very likely that the introductory summary for the First Book of Nephi was written by Mormon not Nephi. Mormon used introductory summaries to briefly describe the content, source, and authorship of each major section of the abridgement he was making of his people’s historical records. When Mormon found the Small Plates of Nephi among his library records, he appended it to his abridgement and logically followed his practice of adding an introductory summary to it. In the first sentence of the Small Plates of Nephi, Nephi personally declared his authorship by writing "I Nephi,... make a record of my proceedings in my days" (1 Nephi 1:1). Mormon’s introductory summary testifies to that authorship by simply paraphrasing Nephi’s words: “This is according to the account of Nephi; or in other words, I, Nephi, wrote this record.” (1 Nephi Preface:Heading)
CharlotteJanuary 9, 2024
While the things on your self test factor into happiness I was surprised that, Relationship with the Lord", wasn't listed. To me this is critical to genuine happiness.
GTOJanuary 9, 2024
I work at publishing online material to help people increase their testimonies in the gospel. We try to address controversies among the membership when they come up and are just now seeing the hue and cry from angry members regarding a quote from our prophet in General Conference: “Your choices today will determine three things: where you will live throughout all eternity, the kind of body with which you will be resurrected, and those with whom you will live forever.” Are they searching the scriptures and praying to understand eternal concepts designed by God? Or are they angry that the little we know about Eternal Life doesn't fit the concept they've gleaned from their earthly experiences and feelings? This article addresses this exactly. Humility and gratitude are keys to increasing our understanding. Nephi was humble, teachable, and willing to do anything for the Lord. Thank you for this eloquent, profound insight.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2024
The title of your article was enough to draw me in! Having just watch the Angel Studies film, “His Only Son”, about the faith of father Abraham, I have a new understanding of “a future only God can see”.
HelenCJanuary 9, 2024
I’m not single but I do still have dreams! My husband is an ex-member RM and my three surviving children are decidedly less-active. I’m also struggling to find clients for my Grief Coaching business which, at age 72, sometimes seems like “too little, too late. In grateful for your kind, hope-filled words, today. Thank you.
Debbie RaymondJanuary 8, 2024
We experienced our elders teaching the exact same “commandments lesson” to our friend MaryLu. I could NOT believe it. It was her third lesson! She was humble as she nodded yes and yes and so on. I prayed then, and I continue to pray for our friend to be blessed and for me to have the kind of faith the young missionaries have. (Senior missions are so good for us seniors!)
NealJanuary 8, 2024
What a far different story we would have if Lehi had just told them, OK, go back to Jerusalem and do the best you can; we will go on".
CubbyJanuary 8, 2024
The words that connected with me were"This family cannot continue to be held hostage by his threats." People I have worked with often do not understand that they are the hostages.
carolynJanuary 7, 2024
Oh gosh Steve how did I miss that? Thanks
David Newbold, PhDJanuary 6, 2024
What an absolutely brilliant and insightful piece of writing, the likes of which I have rarely encountered. You have identified the core problem that these two men suffered from. They truly suffered loss and pain, not because they were separated from their riches, although they believed that to be the cause of their unhappiness, they did not place God at their center. Obtaining riches and amassing power on earth has no positive effect on our eternal progress, on the contrary, these earthly desires undermine and, in many cases, bring eternal progression to a screeching halt. Yes, gold and power and dominion can be used in ways that build the Kingdom of God, but only if the person with an abundance of money and influence has amassed those gifts with an eye single to the Glory of God and has successfully removed selfishness out of their life. I have already begun to share this article with some of the patients in my practice of psychology. Thier reading of your thoughts and insights will most certainly assist them in improving their lives. Thank you again.
ShaunaJanuary 6, 2024
Thank you for this heartfelt, constructive article on the role of BYU. I have a BA and an MA from BYU and then attended 2 other private universities for further graduate study. There is NO comparison in terms of the quality of my academic education at BYU, the facilities, including the Harold B Lee Library, the grounds, the caliber of students, the emphasis on undergraduate teaching....and of course, and most importantly, the spiritual framework that BYU provides. And thanks to tithing funds, the cost is comparatively, incredibly low. Both of my kids attend BYU, and while it's not perfect, I am thrilled for them to be there and am encouraged by President Reese's passionate commitment to making BYU into what prophets have said it needs to become. I also love BYU Br. Thayne. It has played a huge role in my life
Cindy HuffakerJanuary 6, 2024
I think that Laman and Lemuel were very accustomed to the world and its ways. They didn't believe in God, didn't even WANT to believe in God. Even when there was evidence and testimony that persuaded them, they soon forgot, because they were not "grounded" in their own spiritual foundation through experiences - prayer, etc. A real testimony of God, Jesus Christ, is sincerely sought for.
Tracy TippettsJanuary 6, 2024
Thank you. In the postwar 1950's my father worked at UCLA to help design and construct other campuses in Santa Barbara and Riverside. He was personally recruited by Earnest Wilkinson to go to BYU, and help transform it into the beautiful and large university it is today. The student housing complexes of Heritage Halls, Hellman Halls, the Harris Fine Arts Center, and moving the football stadium from it's former location on lower campus, where the current buildings are located, to the distant location where the current stadium is, were some of his accomplishments and legacy. Unfortunately, he had a very liberal and unsympathetic attitude toward the Church, its members and doctrine, and for those reasons he was dismissed from his position after two years. Because of residual bitterness, he forbid his four children to ever attend there as students. But because my older sister received a full, four-year scholarship to attend, he relented and allowed her to do so. That opened the door for all of us to attend and graduate from BYU. Two us us with Master's degrees. Both my sisters met their husbands there, who both served full-time missions, as did my twin brother and myself. The opportunity and experience to attend BYU was the most significant and transformative experience of my life, and my siblings could each say the same. I consider the campus and environment there to be sacred and holy ground. I don't think it's impact and influence on hundreds of thousands lives can be overstated. It is very special and unique.
Donna McCownJanuary 5, 2024
Laman and Lemuel did not realize they were not in charge. God was and Nephi figured that out. Our prisons are full of people who refused to believe they were not in charge.
ChuckJanuary 5, 2024
I never fail to find application from the Book of Mormon in my life. Your article put some of my thoughts in to wonderful words. Thank you
F BoothJanuary 5, 2024
There is another character in the story. His name is Sam. He was older than Nephi but younger than L & L. He chose to side with Nephi. Yet, we learn very little about him. Did Nephi sleight him or was it simply that his story was outside the purpose of the Book of Mormon? He experienced everything his three brothers experienced, but his reaction is not recorded. Too bad!
JaneJanuary 5, 2024
This is beautifully said! It really resonated with me. Thank you!
WilJanuary 5, 2024
You reported many scriptures written by Oliver Cowdery that were part of the instruction Moroni gave to Joseph. I see the sources for the most of those verses from the Messenger and Advocate Feb and April 1835. But I cant find the sources for the last few. Matt 19 and Rev 6. Where can I find the source material for those verses being used by Moroni? Thanks
Jim BrownJanuary 5, 2024
Thank you for an inspired commentary that "hits the nail on the head" with regard to commitment to the Savior as the key to happiness in this life and as our "nail in the sure place" with regard to gaining eternal life.
Mary NooseJanuary 5, 2024
I love this article! It was exactly what I needed to hear, and confirms some things that the Holy Spirit has been telling me. Thank you!
Mike PerkinsJanuary 5, 2024
Love this. Have ye inquired of the Lord? Do you know the dealings of God? You are in a difficult situation - can you turn to the Lord and ask him to teach you and help you?
HelenCJanuary 5, 2024
It is so hard watching those I love struggle as Laman and Lemuel did! Love is challenging enough WITH Faith; it must be immeasurably dark without it! I keep praying for my husband’s return to at least the place where he again acknowledges what he used to call, “Helen’s little miracles”. I know Father has His arms ready to receive him but he is the one who must turn around, as I once did. Oh, the Joy that awaits him! I will keep Laman and Lemuel vs. Nephi in my mind throughout the year, watching and waiting for opportunities to add touches of light to our journey together.
Adrian MartinJanuary 5, 2024
Great message! Great lesson! Thank you!
Jennifer SJanuary 4, 2024
I've never struggled with the desire to wear the holy garment but I have daughters who do struggle. I grew up being taught that the garment represented modesty in women and so naturally taught that to my children. Now we understand the true symbolism of the temple garment and how it represents the Savior and our covenant to remember Him. I've tried to share these insights with my daughters. Sadly they view the garment as a sign of male partriarchy (old men in Salt Lake telling women what kind of underwear they should wear and how to dress). They are tired of hearing that they are responsible for men's thoughts and actions. I spoke to our Stake Young Women's president and begged her to encourage leaders to stop linking the garment to modesty in women and to instead teach what it truly symbolizes. Imagine if our women enter the temple for the first time and leave armed with the power of God and a tangible reminder of the Savior and the covenant they have made to follow Him?
Randal WagnerJanuary 4, 2024
What about tithing on benefits? Healthcare, employer-paid social security, matching 401K contributions, parking spots, etc.? I need to do some praying about this. If I get an answer that I should be paying tithing on those things, I have a lot of back-tithings to pay. I am leaning toward paying tithing on my full SS ck and hope I live long enough to pay the debt. Very good response from Martin.
Steve DoneganJanuary 4, 2024
Not a criticism, just something I noticed... Numbers 36 and 41 are the same.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 4, 2024
This is an amazing list. Thank you! Just last Sunday at church we had a class on emergency preparedness. In my area, we are prone to earthquakes and are long overdue for a big one. However, given the events of recent years, we need to remember that emergencies can also be personal. We may not face a catastrophic event, but we may face illness, unemployment, a financial crisis, etc. Some preparedness is better than none, and we can always improve.
DaveJanuary 3, 2024
the often reported battlefield instance of dying soldiers calling "Mother"... could it be that their own mothers are indeed visiting them in such a terrible time to comfort them going beyond? how is that possible if their mothers are still living and hoping for their return home? as supposed by CS Lewis, God is not limited by what we experience as linear time... so might He not send/allow such as these mothers from where they are in Heaven yrs/decades hence to return through time to comfort their children of this life in the most extreme trials?
Corey D.January 3, 2024
Good article, after 66 yrs of life, 45 yrs of marriage we have a lot of stuff, some is even from parents and grandparents, it's hard to part with some things, some of it has value though like family history stuff or heirlooms. I do worry though what's going to happen to some of it because my children are not very sentimental about things plus in some cases they have no room for things. I wonder if it's a generational thing, my generation is the last that had parents and grandparents who went through the depression and war and were taught and in turn taught us not to waste anything and appreciate our heritage, so we keep things.
Corey D.January 3, 2024
I served as the branch president when the veterans home was built and opened in our area, I tried to visit several times a week besides Sunday and especially when I knew one of those good veterans was close to moving on from this life I tried to visit as much as I could. I could tell you all kinds of interesting stories about those from the other side being seen by those close to death and even conversing with those from the other side. I would imagine the care center staff, aides, nurses and even doctors probably could write volumes about near death experiences of patients.
ObserverJanuary 3, 2024
Elder Packer touched upon this to in his Conference talk titled 'The Mystery of Life'. https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1983/10/the-mystery-of-life?lang=eng
An ObserverJanuary 3, 2024
@H North, It said the brother DIED three months before the other was BORN. Not two births; one death, one birth. No credibility problem.
Helmut A. WorleJanuary 3, 2024
On our mission in Germany there was young man, early twenties, who had a testimony of the Book of Mormon and all else the sister missionaries taught him, but he could no overcome his cigarette addiction, no matter how hard he tried. Finally, one of the Sisters had an idea. She reminded him of the story of the Anti-Nephi-Lehis and challenged him to make a covenant with Heavenly Father, complete with a ceremony in which he buried all his tobacco utensils and last cigarette pack along with a covenental prayer. It worked! He has never smoked since, was baptized and is a stalwart Saint to this day..
Ken WrightJanuary 3, 2024
My sister is a retired Nun. When we go to visit at the retirement facility, it seems there are more statues, pictures. writings and prayers involving Mary then there are of the Savior. Your presentation is an eye opener that brings new thoughts and insights. I will certainly see Mary (and Joseph) more appreciatively in future visits. Thank you.
Diane ChatwinJanuary 3, 2024
This last pod of the year was a wonderful ending of the New Testament and at the same time a beautiful introduction the the Book of Mormon. It was the perfect segue from one year to the next. Your discussion of the Accuser helped me SO much this week . . . thank you, thank you. I was one of the very fortunate folks who were able to see Jordan and Jerusalem with you last year. What a phenomenal blessing!!! Blessings to you on your mission.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenJanuary 3, 2024
Thank you for that spiritually uplifting and consoling article. My mother died twice, declared clinically dead, and on one of these occasions she did go beyond the veil, she told me she was herself, but no more pain, a gentle voice told her she had to go back and tell people of life after death, so when the missionaries cam and taught us the plan of Salvation, both she and I as a 10 year young girl, knew that it was true. Fast forward, to when our adult son passed, the night we found out, he came to me and reassured me that he was happy and at peace, he later gave a message to his dad, through someone else, that was very personal. I do look forward to meeting him, ht told that his grandmother was there to greet him, and that was my mom, as his dad's mom was still living. These experiences are very sacred to me and confirms that our departed are just as alive as were are here on the earth, just in a different place
Adrian MartinJanuary 3, 2024
Long before I joined the Church in 1976, I had read books by Elizabeth Kuebler-Ross on Life after Life. Daniel's article is excellent and I, too, love the words of that hymn with which he finished his remarks. Thank you!
Charles KrautJanuary 3, 2024
There is an old Shirley Temple movie entitled The Blue Bird that includes a fairly lengthy scene in the pre-mortal spirit world. It is well worth watching, if you can find it.
SueJanuary 2, 2024
Thank you! Absolutely beautiful. I will definitely share this.
CubbyJanuary 2, 2024
Always enjoy the jokes, thanks for magnifying your talents and blessing us with your creativity.
Richard and Marie JukesJanuary 2, 2024
Thank you for the inspiring insights into the wearing of the name of our Savior! Our love and prayers are with you daily!
BillieJanuary 2, 2024
know they felt a special need to warn, but let us not forget that many are holding fast to the iron rod and obtaining their exaltation despite all the hazards along the way.
MaryannJanuary 2, 2024
Since this deception continued for MONTHS, I would be very hesitant about marrying this man. She was waiting all that time, and he had not even submitted the papers? It is also very troubling that he is more concerned about his children's feelings than her's. I see red flags all over this situation, and I hope she will think very carefully before continuing in this relationship. If his concerns for his adult children are greater than his loyalty to her, there are all sorts of problems looming on the horizon.
David MohrJanuary 2, 2024
There is no discussion of the meaning of the word sojourn. I usually see sojourn as meaning staying. Add the definition of wilderness as a place without civilization's influence and you can easily say they were eight years travelling from Jerusalem to leaving Bountiful or even from Jerusalem to the new world,where they established a new civilization. As put forth in the essay, we need to expand our thinking to include the many tasks glossed over by Nephi.
Charles DikeJanuary 2, 2024
This article precludes the possibility that the 600-year prophecy was based on an intercalated lunar/solar calendar. Randall Spackman's 12-lunar month calendar fits reasonably snuggly if the prophecy began when the Nephites set sail. Interesting.
Charles DikeJanuary 1, 2024
Nice article! I note that this supports Randall Spackman's 12 lunar month calendar and precludes an intercalated calendar for the 600-year prophecy. If we accept that the reign of Zedekiah began in 597 BC and Christ was born a year prior to Herod's death before the Passover of 4 BC, then we have 592 solar years. Subtracting 8 years in the wilderness allows 584 solar years for the 600-year prophecy. that leaves less than 602 lunar years in which to place the prophecy. Interesting.
Brad LDecember 30, 2023
Excellent article. I'll look forward to reading your more detailed Interpreter article. You've laid out in a very convincing manner what so many of us have thought regarding the 8 years in the 'wilderness': that most of that time had to have been spent in Khor Kharfot building the ship. Thank you!
R. FlynnDecember 29, 2023
I am active LDS. I just saw "The Oath". I was very disappointed. This was NOT a good movie portrayal of Moroni and the Book of Mormon. To me, this was an ego trip of Darin Scott. Scott took way too much artistic license in creating his own version that would feature Darin Scott, Darin Scott, and, oh yeah, some more of Darin Scott. This was a missed opportunity. I very much hope someone else will put their ego aside, and create a Moroni-based story/movie with a focus on Moroni, Mormon, and the events leading up to the plates being deposited in the Hill Cumorah.
Warren AstonDecember 29, 2023
When Godfrey Ellis's original paper appeared in the Interpreter journal (vol. 57) a few months ago, I posted a comment that this truly seminal step forward in our understanding of Nephi's account already sheds new light on aspects of Bountiful and gave a couple of examples. For those of us who believe this all took place in the real world and involved real people, being able to visualize the journey accurately is foundational. I'm glad to see this shortened version appear!
Single Man in Virginia, late 50'sDecember 29, 2023
Here I am reading this over ten years later. As newly-single man in my late 50's, reading this article -- but most especially these comments -- has been very interesting. I wonder what, if anything, has changed in these past 10 years. What have ward, stake, and church leaders tried. What is working? What is helping? I don't know whether I'll re-marry or not. For now I'll just keep doing my best to live the gospel, and seek the Lord's guidance. I will be open to meeting new people and making friends. With the gospel in my life, I have plenty to be thankful for.
RobynDecember 29, 2023
Love it! Thx for all the laughs Kevin. Happy New Years!
Lynne JensenDecember 29, 2023
Fascinating, and logical, article. When one considers the details involved in those eight years, your presentation makes very good, and logical, sense. Thank you.
JAMES P FOLEYDecember 29, 2023
Good; thanks.
DoraDecember 29, 2023
I never thought it other than what emerged in this article. I am glad I was correct in my understanding. Wildernesd to me us anywhere where there is no civilisation or settlements. The 8 years were the total time from leaving to sailing the ship. Joseph and Jacob on the ship were still very young so probably were born in Bountiful and less than 6 years old. I am grateful for the Loed to make me able to nderstand correctly the story. All the best for the New Year 2024!
Paul RobertsDecember 29, 2023
The wood drying process would have been avoided if the chosen trees would have been girdled and left to dry out naturally and drain out water and sugars. Recommended as the best way to harvest structural timber. Ribs would have been made from curved and or forked trees.
ArletteDecember 29, 2023
All I can say is Thank you ,
Craig PetersenDecember 28, 2023
Great insights. Simultaneously, He has the power to save and the love to comfort. Especially liked the “spiritual oxymorons”.
Lauren HausmanDecember 28, 2023
My daughter is Hermana Hausman. She was so excited to go to your house for Christmas brunch! Thank you so much for making it a special day for her and the other missionaries! She loved it!
GerryDecember 28, 2023
They should NOT plan a wedding and set a date until the sealing has been dissolved. That issue causes too much stress and emotional upset. Take the time to do it right. If it is right, it will stand the test of time.
Lorna LundDecember 28, 2023
Reading this was very emotional for me! We were going to go with the Proctor’s to Israel before the outbreak of War in Israel. We were to go in May. Of course, the trip was canceled. Reading about their missionary service in Puerto Rico was so beautiful. I shed many tears reading it and realizing the good they are doing in serving others. It made me realize that we are all God’s Hands. This article was so beautifully written. I am sending it to my grandson, Cooper, who is serving in the Dallas West Texas mission. They are invited in to eat at so many homes — but no one wants to hear about the gospel or wants a copy of the Book of Mormon. He gets discouraged — but, like the Proctors, he is out there every day serving. Thank you for this beautifully written article.
Gary and Joy LundbergDecember 28, 2023
It was inspiring to read this article about your mission and the challenges you face as you try to serve the Lord. Your light shines bright and reflects the Lord's face. People will see that and be led to him in many ways as they watch you. You are an example of faith and cheerfulness wherever you are. You are in our prayers. We love you both.
DavidDecember 28, 2023
Thanks for sharing your missionary service experiences. It is certainly a leap of faith to immerse yourselves into a culture where you don’t know the language very well yet you have proven than you can do much good by diving into the work and letting God guide your actions.
SallyDecember 27, 2023
I would like to correct a misleading translation that happens everytime any other translation is used besides KJV or the original texts, which causes chaos. You stated that the Bible states," He was despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief; and we hid as it were our faces from Him; He was despised, and we esteemed GIM NOT." Surely he hath borne OUR griefs, and carried OUR sorrows, yet we esteemed Him Stricken, smitten OF God, and afflicted. This last part is explained in Matthew 8:17 and the following verses in Isaiah 53. Look at V. 8 and 10-12. People with sin, do not like their sins exposed so they tend to hide, especially from the one who is going to bare and die for those sins. Remember, that God willingly gave His only and most precious sinless Son as an offering of sacrifice to the world so that we may be saved as He too loved us, but unlike Christ, we didn't deserve His love, but He loved us anyway, enough to allow His Son to endure the cruelty of man. Thank you and God Bless you!
Corey D.December 27, 2023
I heard Elder Marvin J Ashton tell a story once about being called into President Benson's office and being given a somewhat challenging assignment, when President Benson finished talking to him about it he said to President Benson, "I'll do it President", to which President Benson replied " I know you will Marvin, we trust you". Elder Ashton then said something I have not forgotten, he said "I would rather be trusted than loved".
MaryannDecember 27, 2023
Great principles here! However, I must say that some of us just are not made to be early morning people. Ever since I was a teen, morning just has not been a great time for me, physically or emotionally, Some of us have to move around a bit before we become clear minded, and that's o.k. A prayer offered at 10 a.m. is just as valuable as a prayer at 6 a.m. The important thing is to have sincere daily personal prayer and scripture study. Let's not become too rigid here.
Laurie Claeys BoydDecember 27, 2023
Beautiful, timely article! Thank you so much for this.
JillDecember 27, 2023
How kind is our God! I've suffered a lot in the past several years. There is only one who redeems, saves, and loves us unfailingly! Jesus is the answer to all of our tribulations in this mortal life. Let us return to Him every moment of every day! We are blessed with òur testimony of Our Lord and His wonderful Atonement.
Blake GarsideDecember 27, 2023
From my early days growing up in Granger, Utah and reading 2 Nephi 3, I have often wondered, what did Joseph Smith do in the Pre-existence to distinguish himself so well? Particularly, to usher in the last dispensation and be the prophet of the restoration? In addition, what was Joseph’s first reaction when he translated 2 Nephi 3, oh I wished I could have witnessed his reaction!! I love the prophet Joseph for being the instrument of restoring the Priesthood whereby sacred & exalted Ordinances can be performed in our sacred Temples
Blake GarsideDecember 27, 2023
From my early days growing up in Granger, Utah and reading 2 Nephi 3, I have often wondered, what did Joseph Smith do in the Pre-existence to distinguish himself so well? Particularly, to usher in the last dispensation and be the prophet of the restoration? In addition, what was Joseph’s first reaction when he translated 2 Nephi 3, oh I wished I could have witnessed his reaction!! I love the prophet Joseph for being the instrument of restoring Priesthood whereby sacred & exalted Ordinances can be performed in our sacred Temples
PaulineDecember 25, 2023
Where are the additional 44 symbols you mentioned are in your podcast notes?
C SavageDecember 25, 2023
Well said! Beautiful! Thank you for sharing your dream with us. Your testimony is precious.
Lynne JensenDecember 24, 2023
Outstanding article. Thank you so much.
Corey D.December 24, 2023
My father-in-law who was about the nicest guy you could ever meet, was serving as the Bishop in his ward and was encouraging the ward members to sing in the ward choir decided he needed to be an example so he went choir practice, after choir practice he was told, " Bishop, we know you have so much to do and we have enough in the choir, you really don't have to participate". He knew they were politely asking him not to sing.
Corey D.December 24, 2023
Thank you Sister Christofferson for the excellent, needed, timely and might I add brave article. I like many others can share stories of the physical protection sometimes even miraculous protection from wearing garments but I have come to know the greatest benefit is the spiritual protection. When I was younger and my mother was still alive, when visiting her I would ask how an old friend or neighbor was doing, she would respond with what she knew about them and occasionally would say "well, they aren't wearing their garments", some would say that was judgemental or why would she even notice that or know about it but I have found over the years what she implied or meant by that response has never been wrong, it was and in my personal observations has always been an indicator for a person going into inactivity, leaving the church or breaking the commandments
Judy ParnellDecember 24, 2023
Thank you, as always, for your thoughtful reverent message which leads my soul to worship anew in gratitude this Holy Christmas Eve.
Mark W MinerDecember 23, 2023
Inspired and beautiful writing! Thank you for expressing a number of important and balanced ponderings and observations. Merry Christmas!
John RedfordDecember 23, 2023
It would be interesting to know which branch of Joseph. No one is from the tribe of Joseph only. Joseph was given a double portion by way of the birthright.
AliceDecember 23, 2023
I cried all the way through these. Good tears.
MaryannDecember 22, 2023
You have been remarkably patient, but I would have greatly limited my contact with the in-laws long ago. Your energies should be primarily spent on your spouse and children, and your in-laws are draining you. The time to say "Enough!" has come, and you can do that by setting some strict boundaries. When the in-laws speak to you disrespectfully, you can immediately leave their presence, or tell them you need to hang up. Do this EVERY time, without exception. If they continue to be abusive, and this is abuse, you don't need to be around them. The fact that you are related to someone does not mean you have to go to their home (or have them in yours) and get repeatedly kicked.
MaryannDecember 22, 2023
I hope everyone who has a depressed family member or friend will read this. While suffering from serious depression, I found a good Psychiatrist who was also a Bishop. He helped me find the tools that have changed my life dramatically, and I have so much more joy. The depressed husband in this article is probably not able to think clearly right now, but his wife CAN have faith that he will become well again. It will help her to remember that depression can temporarily rob a person of any joy, and some even become numb. Deep inside, he still loves her, but is unable to cope with much right now because depression can completely drain you of energy to give to a relationship. Even small things will be completely overwhelming for him. I hope she, and others in this situation, will carefully follow Brother Steurer's excellent advice. There IS life and happiness still to come. It is especially important that she have a trusted friend or family member to talk with. A couple of visits with a therapist on her own would also help her learn how to take care of herself and to understand what her husband is experiencing.
JoeyDecember 22, 2023
You forgot Hobby-Lobby, it made me cry!
Leonard BoydellDecember 22, 2023
I love you article. I have said many ties in the past that I could never be a general authority because I have no middle name. Now that I has been blown out of the water (not that there aren't other reasons why I won't be called). A friend also commented that Elder Keiran is a convert, which has not happen for a great many years. Also he is English, probably the first English man since John Taylor, although many previous Apostles have roots going back to the UK.
Carol MaskDecember 22, 2023
THANK YOU! I had a similar dream only not the part where I literally decided to stand by Him in gratitude. I was just so excited that He came forth saying Here Am I. Send me; so excited I could hardly contain my joy. It wasn’t a quiet, humble joy, with head bowed and eyes closed. It was a jump up and down, clap your hands and SHOUT forJOY! So happy and grateful! It helps me to get through the hard times. And I love that you looked upon every one you met here on earth, knowing they too chose Jesus! Maybe they jumped up and down too.
HelenCDecember 22, 2023
Such clarity and scholarship! I have saved the link to this article until I can preserve the text on my computer. I also sent it to a friend who has developed issues with unfounded stories of Brother Joseph. It seems the powers of darkness that attacked him in his lifetime are still at work. I am forever grateful to know that Truth will prevail and that scholars like yourself will continue to expose it.
HelenCDecember 21, 2023
The knowledge that He did this for me gives me so much Peace. The knowledge that everyone I meet once knew it, too, gives me Hope and frees me to love them unconditionally, as Father and Christ do.
EdgarDecember 21, 2023
Wow! A very compelling article. Powerful enough that helped me to abide with my post as a loving husband.
LaWrenDecember 21, 2023
Thank you for sharing all these remarkable uplifting experiences. … beautiful!
Lorena HolmsteadDecember 20, 2023
Lora - you can still pay on Venmo without knowing the last four digits of his phone number. Just press “Pay without Confirming” at the bottom, and the payment will go through. Thank you for the invitation to help our, Brother Goddard!.
Wally GoddardDecember 20, 2023
Thank you for your interest in donating! You are welcome to send a check to 37 Shadow Mtn Dr, Logan, UT 84321 if you do not have Venmo. If you have Venmo and they ask for my phone, you can give 2724 or you can skip the step and pay anyway. Blessings to you! Wally
MaryannDecember 20, 2023
In the midst of painful grieving, none of us want to hear trite phrases, no matter how well meant they are. We need to be aware that we cannot "fix," or try to change what someone is feeling at the death of a loved one. We can keep our loving comments brief and to the point. No one wants a lecture at this time. Sometimes a hug and just being present, sitting with the person, will help them to express their feelings without us asking a lot of questions. When we lost our daughter five hours after birth, a member of the church responded by saying enthusiastically, "Isn't that just WONDERFUL! You will have her in the next life, and be able to raise her." His tone of voice was ridiculously congratulatory, as if we should have a big party. It was very insensitive and offensive.
BarbaraDecember 20, 2023
I also tried to donate but it asked me for the last four digits of Wallace's phone number.
MaryannDecember 20, 2023
I can picture the lord lovingly clothing Adam and Eve to protect them before they left the Garden of Eden. When we wear our garment, it is a reminder that the Lord has lovingly clothed US as a reminder of the Savior and the covenants we have made. While the garment will not always protect us from physical harm, it help strengthen us in our resolve to keep our covenants. There are great promises from the Lord to covenant keepers. The garment is sacred and called the garment of the Holy Priesthood. Like our nation's flag, it should not touch the ground, or be treated casually.
Carol NorthcottDecember 20, 2023
One of my favorite quotes about grief describes the experience the way I feel it: “GRIEF IS A POWERFUL RIVER in flood. It cannot be argued or reasoned or wrestled down to an insignificant trickle. You must let it take you where it is going. When it pulls you under, all you can do is keep your eyes open for rocks and fallen trees, try not to panic, and stay face up so you will know where the sky is. You will need that information later. Eventually, its waters calm and you will be on a shore far from where you began, raw and sore, but clean and as close to whole as you will ever be again.” From: The Enchanted Life of Adam Hope: A Novel by Rhonda Riley
ShaunaDecember 20, 2023
Brilliant! love it
James O Brown IIDecember 20, 2023
How can we donate if we do not do Venmo?
JeffDecember 20, 2023
I literally feel naked without my Garments on my rather aging body. I haven’t always felt that way. It was the same feeling, or lack of, I experienced while taking the Sacrament. I did not fully understand until my loving wife pointed out my mistake and lack of scriptural learning. My only excuse, I didn’t have the background or experience, being raised a non member. Now I’ve been a member for 55 years. As mentioned in another comment, being patient and long-suffering is the key. Early on I found ways to not wear the Garments, sports, Summer heat, etc. Now, I don’t feel I could ever not wear them. Just yesterday, Tuesday, I spent the best part of my day in the Payson Temple. PS: I’m doing this on my cellphone
HelenCDecember 20, 2023
Have a blessed, Joy-filled Christmas, my friend.
LoraDecember 20, 2023
I tried to make a donation, but Venmo asked me for the last 4 digits of your phone number to complete the transaction.
Steven SwarthoutDecember 20, 2023
Don’t know Venmo, how about Zelle?
Robert StarlingDecember 19, 2023
It's very simple. I made a promise in the temple to wear the garment "night and day", and I try to be a man of my word. Also, it can truly be a protection physically. Once my father was welding when the torch slipped to his leg. His pants were burned away, but not his temple garment. And his leg was unharmed.
Robert StarlingDecember 19, 2023
The people of Puerto Rico are blessed to have the Proctors as ambassadors of Christ in their midst. And the other missionaries are blessed to have them as fellow servants.
Anita CallDecember 19, 2023
This is one of the more powerful articles that Becky Douglas has shared with readers of Meridian. My experience has confirmed that sincere acts of service bring joy that strengthens our relationships with our fellow beings and especially with our Heavenly Father and His Son, our Savior, Jesus Christ. Thank you, Becky! Anita Call
Karla BurkhartDecember 19, 2023
So good to hear from you. You will do well.
Joni HiltonDecember 19, 2023
Can't think of anyone better to teach these wonderful young elders and sisters!
Marilynne LinfordDecember 19, 2023
Yes. The lessons are called BookofMormon4us. The last lesson is at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwBPz5gOgdI&t=7s. I think you can access the others from there.
JonathanDecember 19, 2023
Wonderful material. I think there is room to explore more on the topic of how to respond to those that actually don't desire to show a strong sign to their God that they desire to be connected to Him. For some, it may just be a matter of education on what the garment wearing truly means. But what about those that in fact understand the ideas, but they simply aren't at a place in life where those ideas are important to them. Do we encourage those people to not wear the garment at all if they aren't going to wear it with full dedication? Do we encourage those people to not go to the temple in the first place? This really is about how do we respond to those with lukewarm commitment to God, besides trying to re-educate them. What other tools do we have? I'm not saying I have the answers, (though I would suggest patience and love are among them). I just think there is room for discovery on what - if anything - we can do more besides teach more about the doctrine.
RuthDecember 19, 2023
Thank you so much. Love your podcasts
NealDecember 18, 2023
Quite simply, you make a covenant in the Temple to wear the garment always and for the rest of your life.
ShaunaDecember 18, 2023
Absolutely--thanks for the article. I love my garments and am so grateful for the way they help me to remember the Savior and that as an endowed member of the Savior's Church, I am set apart from the world. They have become more and more meaningful to me as the years have passed; and our temple ordinances, including the initiatory and the endowment, remind us of their importance and of the blessings associated with wearing them
ScottHDecember 18, 2023
A discussion with a friend who is a runner caused me to reflect on my choice to remove the temple garment while exercising. He expressed how his love of what the garment represents makes him want to wear it anytime he reasonably can. Sure, the garment may get sweaty during a workout, but that's a small thing compared to the joy of cherishing the Lord and our covenants with Him that are symbolized by the garment. Changing my exercise wardrobe to support the garment has felt right and I am grateful to my friend for sharing his personal insights.
ElaineDecember 18, 2023
Thank you for this much needed message and reminder of all that is right and good about our temple garment.
HelenCDecember 18, 2023
While I agree the garments themselves are not “magical”, I felt the physical power that comes with them when my covenants were restored and I was able to wear them again after losing the privilege. I awoke in the middle of the night that first night to feel as though a soft sheet was being draped over me. I knew then that Father was aware of my return.
E. TaylorDecember 18, 2023
My favorite book What Seek Ye. I have listened to it twice and listening for a 3rd time
Linda WestoverDecember 18, 2023
Amen to everything you said! As a temple ordinance worker, I have been appalled by the number of "mothers of the bride" who tuck and pin the garment to make it conform to the neck/sleeve line of the wedding dress. How do they dare tp teach their precious daughters to "adjust" their obedience to meet the fashion of our day? Certainly we are free to choose for ourselves, but there is also the responsibility to teach correct principles! Thanks for speaking up!
Rochelle HaleDecember 18, 2023
Thank you for this timely article. We recently helped an elderly friend who went to the temple for the first time. Though he took the temple preparation course, and we helped him shop for his temple clothing, he was still very confused. A day or show after receiving his endowment he shared that he thought that temple garments were only part of the ceremonial clothing. We will share this article with him.
Linda VanCottDecember 18, 2023
Beautiful thoughts. While I've worn them constantly since I received my endowments in 1971 before my mission, this reaffirmed my reasons, added insight, increased my awareness of their symbolism and importance, and deepend my love for these sacred garments. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Gail McHardyDecember 18, 2023
Yes it would take a whole book to tell the reasons why I always wear my garments. They have been a major blessing since my first temple experience. A constant reminder of the Saviour's promises, protection love.
Kerry FarrDecember 18, 2023
Hello Elder and Sister Proctor. This is Kerry Farr and Karen Murphy. I am Kerry ,long time reader of Meridian Magazine. We are on Dominica Island, in your mission Was happy to see you had come to our mission❣️ we are serving a humanitarian “ mini mission” for 3 months with Anxiously Engaged Alliance. We can relate with so much of what you are experiencing ❣️ Karen has even had Dengue! Doing well now. The people are so friendly and helpful. We help the busy Elders with visits - and food and treats for them. We love the members and investigators in our small half a Branch. Ya man, no problem, no mean mugging… We miss going to the temple. You are very blessed to have one so close. Best wishes and God bless you in all you are doing ❤️
Corey D.December 17, 2023
DIY rules. That's not only an inspirational story but humorous.
Corey D.December 17, 2023
There are those in society who have been warning us for decades about what has been going on in the education system, particularly in higher education, including many church leaders, President Benson in particular. President McKay who was an educator by choice and by profession warned about the evils of socialism and how it was being advanced under the guise of fairness, equality and even patriotism. A prophets voice and warning isn't just for moral or religious things.
Shelby B.December 17, 2023
Not a Mormon, but the themes of tyranny, oppression, slavery and evil were certainly well explored in this movie. Moroni showed the compassion of Christ throughout. What an amazing love story also! Only wish it could have been longer. The Southam family is due much credit for this movie! One of the best movies ever, loved it with the same heart I loved Gladiator and 300. If you can't catch it in the theater, catch it any way you can, it is beautiful, well acted, and a vision I hope will keep going.
Corey D.December 17, 2023
What a wonderful article, interesting how the spirit works and knows all things, so much inspiration in this story and outside of the story. Just this week my daughter in law sent out a text saying that she and my son had decided to separate and file for divorce, this same son came home early from his mission many years ago, as I contemplated and thought about this son and how would he cope with divorce and life, the thought came to me that he needs to get involved in service to others and then I read this article and it was a confirmation of my thoughts, I know it came from the spirit, service is always the answer.
Ron StandageDecember 16, 2023
It can be found by searching on YouTube for BookofMormon4us.
KarenDecember 16, 2023
Thanks for reminding me what it’s all about… Faith in Him!!!
GailDecember 15, 2023
I love hearing of your missionary adventures in P.R. I have been there 3 times to see our son and can identify with what you are experiencing. I also love temple and family history work. I joined a genealogy class the Sunday after I was baptized on 19 February 1966. Back then, there were only 13 temples in the world. So grateful for my testimony of this Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 15, 2023
Thanks for asking. Yes. The lessons are still on YouTube. The last lesson is at https://youtu.be/UwBPz5gOgdI?si=_18U-2zYoZp-pUQA. I think once you are in you can access the others at links to previous classes. I can also access the lessons at YouTube BookofMormon4us Marilynne Linford. Remember, I am not a professional!
NancyDecember 15, 2023
This is the most beautiful & inspiring article. I love it so much! Thank you so much to all who contributed to the writing of this story. I love reading about “conversion” stories. When hearts & souls are changed & become more like our Savior. Thank you so much! ♥️
Nancy HDecember 15, 2023
Wow. Excellent article. I'll be sharing it with others.
Diane AndersonDecember 15, 2023
Loved reading this article last night. The mission president was very wise in his counsel to the struggling missionary. Having our focus on others and their needs always is the right way to go.
HelenCDecember 15, 2023
How I wish I had thought of this while my less active daughter was living with us for the past 3 years! She did rescue a wonderful dog while she was here and caring for Tsuki has definitely impacted her life and anxiety issues. Now she’s three hours away again but I will see if I can direct her to some charity work from here. Thank you!
Gainell and Mark RogersDecember 15, 2023
It was great to hear about your early experiences in the mission. Keep up the good work. May you be blessed with good heath and strength. Feliz Navidad!!
Ann-Marie JensenDecember 14, 2023
I loved this insightful commentary on these words and concepts. I find words to be so important and am often intrigued by how particular words are used so carefully in some of the scriptures. Thanks for sharing your unique growth experience. And a thanks to Becky for knowing how to receive revelation.
HelenCDecember 14, 2023
So inspiring! Is your Book of Mormon YouTube channel still up and available to us?
Andrea (Osinchak) BartleyDecember 14, 2023
I am loving your mission letters! I've read Meridian Magazine for years however there is really something special about your mission experiences to date. Perhaps its because I'm a professional family history consultant, and Director of our FSC, and love helping people, especially the new members. We have a similar process to get new members to the temple doing ancestral baptisms in our stake here in Columbia, SC. I give out FS.org pass along cards all the time and hope people are using it. As I'm reading your experiences I'm thinking about a high school friend who passed away and I'd need permission to do her ordinances but there are no parents, siblings, children or spouse to get permission from. Her sister was born in San Juan, Puerto Rico 19 Sep 1959 and died in the US in 2021. Her mother was born in Puerto Rico and her name was Laura Padro but I have no dates or place. She married Jack Kosharek probably around 1953. I believe Laura died in Puerto Rico as Laura Kosharek. If I could get this back just one more generation and come to know Laura's parents I could do some research and submit my high school friends family even though I can't submit her. Any chance you might have some ideas for me how to find something out about Laura Padro? Jack was born in 1927 in Penna but I don't know if they married in Puerto Rico. I just felt while reading your article I should at least write and ask. If there are no ideas that is just fine, but I just want to follow my prompting to ask. Heaven's blessings on your both! By the way we used to live in the same stake many years ago - Annandale, VA. What great memories there!
LoraDecember 14, 2023
Is it possible to watch those Book of Mormon lessons on YouTube?
Linda WestoverDecember 13, 2023
What a sweet experience! Too many of us fail to "have eyes that see and ears that hear." How disappointing is must be to the Lord when He sends us miracles and they go unnoticed. Thanks for the reminder to put our faith to work!
Mark MathesonDecember 13, 2023
Gary Lawrence has a fresh view of how we should do missionary work. I wish more people followed his advice. Thanks for the practical wisdom.
Carol StephensDecember 12, 2023
I think it sets them apart from other people with the same first and last name. It’s easier to identify which person, with that status, is being talked about.
LanaDecember 12, 2023
Hi will you please send the first page that goes with the nativity scene in the article about Christmas resources? Thank you.... one can't do the activity without page one
KathleenDecember 12, 2023
Thank you for including us in your daily experiences. May the Lord continue to bless you in this great work and wonderful opportunity of your lives.
HelenCDecember 12, 2023
Thank you for reminding me that my glacial journey towards comforting “those who mourn” as a Grief Coach is a sacred journey that is in His hands.
Ken HazelbakerDecember 12, 2023
My wife developed a program in Sacramento in 2010 for the 17 stakes of N. CA mission called "tell me about your family". Great success where missionaries used the line at door approach, get contact to fill out as much info as could recall, then family history consultant would do research, prepare a folder and return with missionaries to present and explain and nurture relationship. Members started to ask nonmember friends too! Easier for many than handing out Bof M! She trained mission and stakes on how to do it. A win win for all. She could help if you need. (She's a miraculous 4 yr survivor of cancer that gave her just 6 months! Miracles still happen!! We live in Cedar Hills!
MaryannDecember 11, 2023
I, like so many other church members, dearly love President Holland. I m sure there are a multitude of prayers that have gone up along with my own. How I love this man! I am glad the Lord has spared him and hope he will continue to be with us for a long while. Of course, this is in the Lord's hands and he knows what is best. I feel a little selfish because I am sure Elder Holland would love to be with his beloved wife, Pat, but he is also leaving it in the Lord's hands.
HelenCDecember 11, 2023
I recently spent time with my cousin who only knows of the Church through her contact with my mother and me. Believe it it not, the common ground we found was “secret combinations” which she believes is driving most of the evil in today’s world. I told her she could find the Book of Mormon online if she wanted to know more.
Ruth JamiesonDecember 11, 2023
I absolutely loved this movie for so many reasons. It keeps me pondering over the beauty of the messages it portrayed. So glad movies like this are being made.
RuthDecember 11, 2023
I am 80 years old and am very frustrated that I could not hear MOST of what was said!! Sometimes I could hear words, then their voices would get more and more soft until I could not hear anything at all!! Please be more considerate of us old folks and speak up!!! Your messages are wonderful, but most is lost!
Corey D.December 10, 2023
I really struggle sometimes with being positive or seeing the youth in a positive light in society, including in the church. They are pretty good for the most part, including many going on missions or at least starting missions but it just seems to me so many of the young adults are struggling that it makes it hard to be positive about the youth when I wonder so often, will they remain true and faithful.
Ilyan Kei LavanwayDecember 9, 2023
The Oath, by Darin Scott left me speechless in silent reverence. A true American cinematic miracle! It was so good, I watched it twice in a row the same night! Nothing out there compares to this film. Nothing even comes close! It just has to be experienced. There is so much rich symbolism woven into the story, you need to see it multiple times to fully appreciate it. Darin Scott is a true pioneer in the film industry! Go watch this film!
Joanne KalppDecember 8, 2023
The message is so tenderly Christlike - Angelic singing
Laura TDecember 8, 2023
Maurine, your article was just what I needed to hear.! “Doing my best looks different here” you know I find myself with Cancer & 7 kids & I too, thrive on efficiency & planning, to feel good about my day. I too, find myself in a “new frontier of learning & responding.” & I definitely feel like a child in this new world I’ve stepped into with my health. Thank you for your beautiful reminder to trust the Lord, let go of what I think things should look like, move forward with faith that He is guiding me, and let Him orchestrate His work I so desperately want to be a part of. Love you guys!
AprilDecember 8, 2023
Lovely!
Newell WrightDecember 7, 2023
Here is the link to the Neal A. Maxwell article from the last line of the article: https://rsc.byu.edu/voice-my-servants/book-mormon-great-answer-great-question
Dewey AllenDecember 7, 2023
Very interesting article, lead me to this paper: https://janes.scholasticahq.com/article/75249-the-altar-at-tel-dothan-a-trace-of-josiah-s-reform, which says something indirectly related to Lehi's altar. Page 8, only full paragraph, has the comments about priests from these removed sites and their legitimate but illegal activities (they weren't executed).
Robert StarlingDecember 7, 2023
One year in my hometown of Columbus, Georgia a missionary booth was set up at the county fair. One young woman named Brenda stopped by the booth, became interested, and soon joined the Church. Later she met and married Mike, who became our Bishop. They are now and forever our best friends for life.
Janice HiestandDecember 7, 2023
I have not been able to print this off, I love to read and re-read these lessons, marking them, and adding my own observations. ,
TerriDecember 7, 2023
Thank you for sharing your journey! Hello to the Larsen's from friends in Wyoming!
Carol AnnDecember 6, 2023
When we were teaching about water storage a few years ago, we discovered Water Bricks each of which hold 3 1/2 gallons of water, have a handle for transporting, a pour spout, and they stack nicely. They are a little pricey, but we think well worth it!
Denise ChristensenDecember 6, 2023
Oh my, Maureen! What a lot of challenges in such a short period of time! If anyone can overcome the hurdle, you two certainly can!ove reading your articles and enjoy all the pictures. Probably makes you really appreciate that luxury cruise in Croatia! Keep the faith, girl! You’re a strong and faithful disciple!
Sherry ReimersDecember 6, 2023
Oh how I love this message! Tears are streaming down my face. I will share this with my family and friends . Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
KateDecember 5, 2023
I needed this. I’m a mom of one toddler, who miscarried at 6 and twelve twice this year, and is a temple worker, relief society counselor, temple worker, etc and I’m soooo burnt out. Then our couples get away mini vaca might get cancelled due to a grandparent dearth. I understand that I can’t keep doing this, my kids need me.
MaryannDecember 5, 2023
YES! We need to implement this concept that love is the key to apply to ALL of our callings, or work. And, fun! I appreciate that you taught the children the difference between singing a some songs reverently and singing others boisterously. One of the greatest testimonies we can share with others, especially with children, is living the gospel with joy and love.
GailDecember 5, 2023
Loved reading of your adventures and miracles. My son is in Metro Ward so I have been to P.R. for visits. I can visualize your house with cinder block interior walls. I met you in 2018 @ Rootstech. Scott recorded my testimony of the joy of family history, so I wholeheartedly encourage using family questions. We all love our families. I will be following you.
R C CopelandDecember 5, 2023
It"s "a third part". You know the other two?
Craig FrogleyDecember 5, 2023
This brings back so many memories from Africa and Paris. You are such powerful instruments with such a huge tool box of options Father can use to open doors and hearts. I am anxious to follow your adventures in that island kingdom. Thank you for sharing them to graphically.
Annie JensenDecember 5, 2023
Gotta love that iKea miracle!
Terri CherpeskiDecember 5, 2023
My Husband Vince and I were on one of your tours of Church History sites several years ago. We loved it so much! We have been excited about your mission I am anxious to follow as you
DeNile WilliamsDecember 5, 2023
I simply love and look forward to the report that the Proctors so graciously provide to us from their mission. Thank you both.
Duane BoyceDecember 5, 2023
A fantastic post, as always. I love reading about your mission! Thank you SO much.
ayseDecember 5, 2023
This article was not just delightful to read but very profound for our day and age. Too many people today talk about fairness but what they really mean is they want things their way. Life isn't suppose to be fair. We are suppose to learn to react to the unfairness as Jesus would. I hope the kids enjoyed the candy cane in spite of the tears.
Steve AdamsDecember 5, 2023
The last three verses were left out of your post: We see our children bleeding; We see our sons go wrong; We sense our own soul's weakness And pray to be made strong. And so when the holly reddens, And the white on the brown earth lies, And Christmas cheer is in the air, The mother in us cries: O Son of beautiful Mary, O JESUS of Galilee, Let her spirit pure in our hearts outpour That our babes may grow like Thee!
LoraDecember 4, 2023
An additional aspect of women's past reality is caring for the sick. When I read Lucy Hale Smith's book about Joseph Smith, I was surprised at how much time she spent caring for people who were ill. When I was a child in the late 50's, early 60's, there was always a kid out with measles, mumps, or chicken pox. Every mother dreaded the possibility of their child getting polio. There were people in iron lungs, and at least two people in my school with braces on their legs because of polio. Vaccination has changed the playing field for women in a big way.
Mary Alice CrowtherDecember 2, 2023
The ability to serve a Senior Service Mission with FamilySearch from home via the computer and internet. And to be able to access records from all over the world from my computer at home in order to grow my family tree and be able to do temple work for my ancestors.
LoraDecember 1, 2023
All of my children have lived to adulthood. None of them died of measles, cholera, or whooping cough. None of them got polio or tuberculosis. In the past, 1/4 of the population had TB, which they called "consumption". The pandemic was so common that no one thought it was remarkable. My daughters-in-law and I have all survived childbirth. Every single one of us. During WWI, more women died in childbirth than the men who died in the war, but it was so common that no one thought it was remarkable. My premature grandchildren are alive and growing toward adulthood. President Kennedy's premature son Patrick only lived for a couple of days, but because of him, medical science began to pursue neonatology to help premature infants survive.
Mark MathesonDecember 1, 2023
Great comment Lora! You went beyond Joni's insightful article and added to our understanding. Thank you!
MaryannDecember 1, 2023
Reference for that scripture: D&C 90:24 in my post.
MaryannDecember 1, 2023
Love, loved, loved this article! I think the bottom line is trusting in the Lord and remembering we only see a tiny part of the puzzle. He knows the end from the beginning. He has promised us that "..all things shall work together for your good..." if we are sincerely seeking Him and keeping our covenants to Him. ALL things will work together for our good! We can hold on to that promise, even when we feel our prayers go unanswered. We can trust that the final outcome will be joy beyond our greatest hopes.
MaryannDecember 1, 2023
Great advice from Brother Steurer! Silence is golden! This is also true about other relationships. People like this woman will see any response from you as an opportunity to continue to engage. When you don't give people any ammunition, they can't fire back. Do not even respond if she starts a "I'm just sorry for what happened," approach. Pretend she just isn't there, and she will probably back off. Also, be very careful about obsessing about the situation. Fill your lives and minds with positive actions and thoughts and don't allow her to destroy your peace.
VBDecember 1, 2023
Block her phone number and email on all your devices.
LoraNovember 30, 2023
James 4:3 and 2 Nephi 4:35 warn us against asking amiss. President Nelson recently told us not to turn our prayers into shopping lists. I've finally learned to stop asking for anything. Instead, I thank Him in advance for blessings not yet received. It feels more like asking in faith because I'm treating it as if it's already happened. After all, God called Eve "the mother of all living" before she had a honeymoon, much less a baby. He called Abraham "the father of many nations" before he had any children at all. Time is irrelevant to the Lord. We mortals get impatient because we have limited time and limited memories. We forget that the Lord knows all things from the beginning, and He is going to WIN. He says He can save us, and our loved ones, and He will. He's known them for a long, long time. When I stopped praying for outcomes, and instead started giving thanks for all that I have received, I feel heard and answered in prayer.
Peggy WardNovember 30, 2023
Thank you so much for this! So revelatory to me. I've been so frustrated around current conversations and not being able to put into thought or words the place of principles in our modern efforts at being accepting. (Loved the codependence and hell relationship! Clever and painfully honest)
MNovember 30, 2023
Thank you for this article! It puts in understandable terms the problem of our society (and with my parenting) and the fallacy of Satan’s argument. Thank you for bringing this to light for me! This is truly life-changing.
Joye WhitakerNovember 30, 2023
Finally an article that makes sense and answers questions that I silently ask all the time.
Peggy StallingsNovember 28, 2023
I have been enjoying all of your mission posts, but I Loved this one! Thanks for recording the missionaries singing with the added noises and gestures! It brought a huge smile to my face and heart. What a wonderful adventure you are on. Thanks for sharing it with all of us.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenNovember 28, 2023
You are so blessed to be able to go on a mission together, and I love what you share! It is so inspiring! I know the Lord will bless you!
Kerry FarrNovember 28, 2023
Welcome to the mission, Elder and Sister Proctor❣️ My name is Kerry Farr. I’ve been a Meridian fan for several years. My friend Karen and I are serving on Portsmouth on Dominica Island for 3 months with Anxiously Engaged Alliance, helping in any way we can. We discovered this opportunity through an ad in LDS Living mag. Our favorite thing is to help the great missionaries, Elders Flynn and Namulauti with visits to homebound members and investigators. We bake and share a lot of cookies I was excited to see that “ our mission” is where you will serve. We could sure use clones of you in Dominica! Your backgrounds, brilliance, and firm testimonies will be so valuable‼️ God bless you in all your missionary days❤️
Denise ChristensenNovember 28, 2023
Oh Scot and Maurine...what a beautiful introduction to Puerto Rico and your welcome to the island and to the mission. The videos were so touching and the stories so inspiring! You are in our thoughts and prayers and we appreciate your willingness to share your experience with us and the world! May God bless and watch over you as you serve those wonderful people!
Claudia Henderson SmithNovember 28, 2023
I’ve been enjoying the articles about your mission. Love the pictures, too.
Steve FennNovember 27, 2023
We just celebrated our sweet "Downsie" daughter, Christine's, 50th birthday. She was also our second child, born when my wife was 23. All the characteristics you described have been part of the last 50 years of our lives. Her hugs are legendary and her usual greeting to both friends and strangers is "I love you." We're all still trying to be Christlike, like Christine.
karell binghamNovember 27, 2023
I loved this article to tears!
KathyNovember 27, 2023
As a widow of almost 2 years, ALL 20 reasons to think and talk more about death resonated resoundingly with me! Thank your son and thank you!
Corey D.November 26, 2023
Saw a bumper sticker recently that said "Too Blessed to be Stressed".
Corey D.November 26, 2023
I'm a DIY type of guy, small town raised, can figure it out, do it myself most of the time but that takes the cake, bordering on insanity. That's Fail Army worthy all by itself !
Brad AndersonNovember 24, 2023
Plan ahead, no story. I prefer the story:)
Supportive HusbandNovember 24, 2023
Very beautiful answer. My wife has recently had an unknown step-sister contact her. After some questions and some research my wife has decided that they are in fact related, and getting to know her had been a blessing in our life. I was happy to give her positive support through this, and because of it I have a new sister-in-law that I am proud to know.
LisaNovember 24, 2023
Elaine, I'm wondering how many adopted people you have been close to? I have three adopted children, and I can say that the pull to know one's biological family is overwhelmingly strong. When I first adopted, I did not want to believe that this connection could be what we'd call "primal", but years of parenting have shown me differently. Ironically, it has been the strongest for my child that has most been denied the opportunity. It has been a core theme of her life and her development, and there is no turning that off. I'm grateful she's had the opportunity to meet them now, and I can say with certainty that to be rejected by them would have had life-long implications for her. She already struggled enough just from being adopted in and of itself. My son met his birthmother a few years ago, and the happy reunion was almost thwarted by his birthmother's husband, who was jealous and couldn't cope with the idea that his wife had a child who wasn't his. (He knew about my son and the adoption before they were ever married.) My son is not a threat. He's an amazing young man who brings positive things into the lives of everyone who knows him. It was so sad to me that this man would choose to make his wife lose her child all over again rather than be willing to face his own issues. I hope the woman in this article is able to get over her initial shock at this news and open herself up to this new relationship , because if handled with care and openness there is a good chance it can be a beautiful thing for everyone involved. Of course if the relationship turns out to be problematic, boundaries can be set as needed. But refusing to accept this new connection is a form of denial, and it doesn't change the face that this man does in fact have a child he doesn't share with his wife. I don't believe there is any doctrine teaching that we choose our specific circumstances here on earth, only that we choose to come to earth. I know some people believe we choose our parents, but this is speculation or maybe, in certain circumstances, personal revelation given to specific individuals. Even if we were given all the knowledge about everything we'd be facing on earth, that veil placed over our eyes at birth is awfully thick. Also, if this girl did choose to enter mortality in this circumstance, that circumstance includes her biological connection to her first family.
Anonymous by choice.November 22, 2023
That is what my condition is! I’ve felt this way since I was 8. I’m in my late 60’s now. Not wanting to be a hypocrite, I’ve tried and worked my callings to show my worthiness for what spiritual gifts the Lord may grant. But was never satisfied with my efforts made the “gifts” discountable. I never felt worthy of the blessings. And that, of course, made more blessings less likely. I’ve got A LOT to ponder
Rob McGhieNovember 22, 2023
A very inspiring article but I am confused at the title "Imposter". You state "Maybe we doubt we are “celestial material” and are apprehensive about our chances of making it back to God’s presence." It could be that a person who feels this way is being brutally honest with themselves. but your article is reassuring.
vickieNovember 22, 2023
WHO WAS IT AGAIN...LARRY.....DEATH TO LARRY....LOL....THERE ARE PIANO MOVERS...he should have had that in place...hoiwever many people dont want others to know where their safe is...even though they could never carry it out or break into it...good story....
NealNovember 22, 2023
Been there, done that. You really need to think ahead on projects like this. Paying for professional help may well be the best solution.
Debrah RoundyNovember 22, 2023
WE bought a beautiful upright piano with a full sounding board and after getting it down the steps, similar story but we had to replace a huge hole in the wall, we vowed we would well the house with the piano still in it and that is exactly what we did almost 40 years and many, many practice sessions later.
Debrah RoundyNovember 22, 2023
You really ought to one day put together pictures taken at the MTC. YOurs are a lot more lovely than mine. In the future, at different times of year, it would be awesome. Maybe a calendar would be fun.
Marilyn ThompsonNovember 22, 2023
Beautiful
Matt BeecherNovember 22, 2023
Wow - this is such an important, timely thought-provoking piece... It is SO easy to think that I am the one who has to figure out how I fill all the gaps that feel so glaringly and painfully obvious...the things that make me feel like I'm an imposter--and so far away from the ideal. I love love this simple truth in this piece, "God offers us a partnership with the only One who was not an imposter." Amen.
MikeNovember 21, 2023
Did I miss seeing something in the article? Where can our youth go to view the videos? Thanks.
Janene ZimmermanNovember 21, 2023
Thank you for this thoughtful prose on Thanksgiving and which fork or path it can lead us on.
Marilynne LinfordNovember 20, 2023
Somehow the numbers for the final list of the top eleven hymns printed incorrectly. I don't know whether to blame A.I., autocorrect, or simply moving one document into another. The numbers should be in reverse order, starting with number 11 and going to number 1, which is the top hymn.
Doris WilliamsNovember 20, 2023
Love these precious stories, Mariah. Keep them coming.
Rodger Dean DuncanNovember 20, 2023
I love this article. We need to pay more attention to the uplifting messages in our hymns.
Jim DorigattiNovember 20, 2023
I, too, like "How Wondrous and Great". I also like another old hymn which used to be in our hymnal, but for some reason was omitted from the 1985 book: "Though In the Outward Church Below", attributed to Mozart. I liked it because of the cool bass part in the chorus. On my mission, I found that the German Saints also liked this one!
Joy LundbergNovember 20, 2023
I love this article! I watch for Lynne's articles every month. What a gift she has for writing and coming up with just the right inspiring message. Well done once again, Lynne. Thank you!
Kandra WilliamsNovember 19, 2023
I would love to get a copy of the sheet music that includes the Bridge with harmonies, where would I be able to get that! I want to sing it with my girls at our priesthood/temple Preview..
tfNovember 17, 2023
I suggest that folks in this situation read a personal example related by Robert Fulghum (author of "Everything I really need to Know I learned In Kindergarten"), in another of his books "From Beginning to End" pgs 70-78; titled "Adoption". It's a great point of view.
Doris WilliamsNovember 17, 2023
Geoff, I am so grateful for your articles each Friday. It's just so comforting to read your thoughtful, reasoned, educated responses to so many really difficult problems people are faced with. What comfort in this day of division, impatience, condemning in the world to listen to the quiet voice of truth. It strengthens all who read and share in your wisdom. Thank you so much for sharing with us.
ElaineNovember 17, 2023
I disagree. There is a biological relationship but no family relationship. That is a choice that can be made either way. Yes to have one or no to not. I am afraid for me this is a no. And as a Latter Day Saint, I take exception with the idea no choice was made by this girl. Did she not decide to enter mortality in this circumstance?
LewisNovember 16, 2023
What an extraordinary story. I am grateful for the solace and peace that comes through the gospel and its principles. You have a wonderful gift. Please keep using it to inspire us to be better.
JeaNette Goates SmithNovember 16, 2023
Suicide is never the fault of someone else, whether the person who commits suicide is LGBT, trans or simply depressed. Threatening to commit suicide if someone doesn't comply with one's wishes is the ultimate manipulation.
BarbaraNovember 15, 2023
I always read your articles. I find them very inspirational. Thank you.
Mary JurgaitisNovember 14, 2023
You did such a great job of bringing back all of the memories we experienced in the MTC. The building with the murals was just being completed. It wasn't fully opened yet, but we were able to go in (with a guide) to see the beautiful murals. Loved eating with the young missionaries. Oh, so much more. Thanks for the memories. Great blessings to you on your mission!
Linda ShubinNovember 14, 2023
Our son, Clay Shubin, and his wife, Kelly, are in your district at the MTC and both of them have commented on how incredible the spirit is at the MTC to prepare them to go out and serve the Lord once again. Thank you for this article as you described so beautifully the purpose of the MTC and the spirit that is there. May you all be blessed to go forth to serve and teach others about the abiding and strengthening spirit of our Lord Jesus Christ and that we are first and foremost literally children of our Heavenly Father. What an incredible knowledge. May you continue to be blessed in all you do as you are in service to our Lord.
Laurie Claeys BoydNovember 14, 2023
Thank you both for this incredible look into the first few days of a senior couple mission experience at the Provo MTC! We too are planning to serve a mission together after my husband retires and finishes his service as bishop of the most wonderful ward of YSA members and after I finish my family history service mission. We love serving the Lord, we live our family, and we love you two! You invite the Spirit of the Lord everywhere you go, and we are delighted that you're documenting your main experience with us!
Laurie Claeys BoydNovember 14, 2023
Thank you so very much for sharing this incredible experience with us! My husband and I, who are avid podcast listeners and who holds you both in the highest regard, are planning to serve another mission after he finishes his service as bishop and after I complete my senior service mission with the family history department. We love you both and can't wait to read your next beautifully written mission "journal entry"!
SamanthaNovember 13, 2023
Just wondering if you two are part of the 144,000 senior couples who will perform the final sweep of the earth?
Kenneth R CoburnNovember 13, 2023
Thank you so much for these last two articles. They were informative, thought provoking and well done. I'm constantly wondering why the "Church" isn't more forcefully involved in political/social debates and these articles give me some reasons to ponder the true mission of the Lord's work. Thank you for writing about these potentially highly charged topics. Keep it up as I look forward to reading more of your articles
Kenneth R CoburnNovember 13, 2023
My heart is filled with joy as I read this story. I'm reminded of all the wonderful missionaries who have influenced my life and of the twin daughters of my best friend who are now serving in Japan. The gospel is beautiful and true and reading this story excites me to continue to share it. May the Lord bless you and all those with you there to continue to enrich your lives in the gospel. Stay safe and enjoy every moment
Jan Mulvay StrongNovember 13, 2023
Praying for your success as missionaries and wishing you all the best! A mission is the best thing my husband and I ever did! We deepened our relationship and commitment to our Savior. We treasure our time with Alaska YSA, the Institute and the Temple there. What a blessing you will be! Godspeed. Love Jan
HelenCNovember 13, 2023
So exciting! My husband left the Church after his mission to South Africa from 1979-81 so I can’t duplicate this experience - yet. I’m looking for ways to serve on my own in our Stake and will share a bit of this story to see what he remembers of his time at the MTC. I invite the missionaries over from time to time and make sure he shares some of his memories with them. You keep writing; I’ll keep reading. Who knows? Maybe by the time you’re finished he may well be back in his Savior’s arms.
Ann PapwortNovember 13, 2023
Didn't realize I was signing up again! I'm already on your list. I just wanted to comment and wish the Proctors well--we all know they will be amazing!! Have loved following them for years and have sent many others their way.
Kare HaeringNovember 13, 2023
I so loved reading this, I’m so excited for you both! I know you and your family will be taken care of as you serve. I would love to be added to your family email list, I think you have it from past communications together. My thoughts and prayers go with you and someday…. I too will join the ranks of Senior missionaries!
Helen H.November 13, 2023
Thank you both for such a beautiful recording of your first few days in the MTC. Filled my heart with joy and gratitude. God bless you both and the other senior missionaries joyfully serving.
Tracy TippettsNovember 13, 2023
Wonderful! Thank you. I can feel the strong spirit of love, joy, service, and sacred calling of your experience just by reading the words and seeing the photos! I especially liked the list of your seven children, and where they served. I am reminded of the parting scene when Elder Groberg left his Polynesian companion on the dock, in the movie "The Other Side of Heaven", with the joyous shout, "Hurrah for Israel!" Also the Latin motto of the 2002 Winter Olympic Games in Salt Lakes City, "Citius. Altius. Fortius". "May the Force be with you!" (Spirit). I don't know how anyone can resist your positive, glowing spirit and energy!?
Barbara L WhiteNovember 13, 2023
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. It is such a joy to read what to expect and how it has affected you.
Patty ListonNovember 13, 2023
Thank you for this deeply enlightening article. There is so much truth to unpack in every paragraph. I am keeping this paper so I may refer to it often. find that I glean more from the spirit and truth of your words as I read and reread and reread. I do believe that our time of sitting comfortably, ideally, on the sidelines as the great and terrible days approach, is nearing its end. There is only so much darkness that can be stayed by merely lifting a hand. The times are and will require the full armor of God and all the power that comes with it.
Wendy LanderNovember 13, 2023
Ha ha! Good one!
Rebecca WalkerNovember 13, 2023
Thank you for this. We have been contemplating a mission and this is very helpful! I know that you will do great things on your mission. We have a young sister missionary from our ward that is at the MTC right now and she also sang in the 800 voice choir. Love from us to you!
Corey D.November 12, 2023
Excellent article, very well said and certainly thought provoking. Seems like everyday in all the different forms of media something is being said or commented on about how " contentious" public and political discourse has become. Many religious leaders from various churches have brought it up, certainly has been a subject in recent general conferences. The article subtly mentions it but here is what the difference is between now and any other time, what is going on in society, politics, education, even in churches/religions is not just a difference of political, social, economic views, etc., it is a total change of moral values and that always has and is and will cause problems, particularly for good Christians who believe there is a god given mandate to stand up for what is morally correct, no matter the price one has to pay. And certainly for members of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints that is considered a sacred duty.
Corey D.November 12, 2023
I'm 66 yrs old so I've had a reasonable bit of life experience. I think about the things Brother Wilcox mentions in his article all the time, particularly vulgarity and how it has become so common place and so accepted. Certain words were not tolerated or accepted in public discourse years ago and are now openly used in news interviews, public debate, classrooms, etc. To me one of the root causes for the incivility is societies tolerance and acceptance of vulgarity and profanity.
Corey D.November 12, 2023
Actually it is a moral issue, spending money you don't have or taking or shifting money from savings accounts meant for different purposes unless it's an emergency is not right. Money/Financial issues is one of the major causes for divorce, it's also from what I have observed in my lifetime a driving factor or root cause for inactivity in the church or worse leaving the church altogether. Not only that this man's habits and feeling of entitlement so often lead to dishonest obtaining of money (as a number of recent news articles have shown). I feel for this poor sister, most likely not going to end well.
AnonymousNovember 11, 2023
There are only two men named 'James' in the New Testament. 'James, the less' is just the name of James, the brother of Jesus, named thus to differentiate between James Boanerges, John's brother, who was in the presidency of the Twelve. James Boanerges was the 'greater' and James, the brother of Jesus, was the 'less'. Simple.
Kathleen AndersonNovember 11, 2023
Thank you so much for your insights into the verses of the book of James that you discussed this week. You gave me so much to think about and remember.
EricNovember 10, 2023
Regarding loneliness, it's instructive to think of what the word "telestial" means. The prefix tele- means distant. Telestial glory is compared to the stars, and stars are light-years away from each other. The behaviors of those who inherit the telestial kingdom (lying, adultery, etc.) are the sort of behaviors that drive others away. Another thing about loneliness is that solitary confinement is considered a form of torture.
MaryannNovember 10, 2023
Thank you for a wonderful article on a timely subject. However, I do not believe this is Satan's greatest lie. I believe his greatest current lie is his pollution of the word "love." He tells us that "love" justifies every form of unrepentant sin. He tells us that when we teach principles of chastity, and that marriage is a divine institution between a man and a woman only, that we are "hateful" and without love. He tells us that love and compassion for those in difficult situations justifies continuing in serious sin, including the the sin of abortion. He tells the world that when the principles of truth prick their consciences, that those who speak truth are unloving. How many have left the church because they feel that if we truly love one another, we will accept every form of "marriage," or "relationship?" We truly live in the prophesied day when "evil" is called "good," and "good" is called "evil." He tells us that in order to be loving, we must not only accept, but support every form of behavior with loud and demanding voices. Satan's distorted doctrine of "love" makes every behavior "good." Unfortunately, he is very successful because believing these things causes people to feel an false sense of compassion, and lays the foundation for them to feel superior to those who cling to truth.
MaryannNovember 10, 2023
Whatever the cause, this is an addiction. It is neither normal nor healthy behavior. This woman needs support, since she is not getting any cooperation from her husband, and he refuses to change. Counsel from a Bishop and a referral to LDS Social Services counselling are essential. If he won't go with her, she should go alone to learn how she can protect herself and her children financially, and for emotional support to learn how to deal with this situation. This is NOT disloyal. It is necessary.
Kandace HardenNovember 9, 2023
Perhaps that wrapping has changed, but the underlying temptations are the same as they were 30-40 years ago. At that time I was collateral damage in a relationship where the husband decided "He needed to be happy", at the expense of this family. No cell phones involved and no online porn, just old-fashion lust. It might seem comforting to think well, "that person gets their due." But actually he has had a very successful and happy life. The bottom line is that many of us will be collateral damage, but if we have a strong relationship with the Lord and a good understanding of what He expects from us, I think we will all benefit from these buffetings of Satan. It really is part of the plan. I wish I had taught this lesson with more completness to my children. Teach and love one another, put the Lord first in your life and it really doesn't matter what trick Satan is up to.
Kathryn StonehockerNovember 9, 2023
Thank you for this beautiful, hopeful, glorious essay!! It touched my heart deeply, and I sincerely appreciate you taking the time and heart to be a conduit for the Lord. Truly a precious gift, Brother Goddard.
JanNovember 9, 2023
This is a thought provoking and very timely article and I totally agree with every point. The last part about loneliness is startling and is just what will help me continue to try to reach out to others and show more love and caring than my shyness often prevents. We all need to study this great list of Satan's lies and strengthen our defenses!
Gary OliverNovember 9, 2023
Very well said, Joni.
Steve DoneganNovember 9, 2023
There's a contemporary Christian song that has the singer asking, "God why don't You do something!" after noticing the bad in the world. The answer from God is, "I created you." Brother Goddard, I'm glad God created you. I'm thankful for the creations you share with us. Thank you for your thoughtful reading of the scriptures. Thank you for interpreting the word of God for us...who "wallow in it."
KathleenNovember 9, 2023
Engaging, as always!
Ralph HancockNovember 8, 2023
Thank you, Jacob, for beautiful reflections, both personal and doctrinal. I confess I was reluctant to read this, since I didn't want to confront the challenges and perplexities you face, or be reminded of different ones that affect my family. But you made it worth it to try to travel just a bit with you in your journey.
DRobNovember 8, 2023
Would like to see your citations (Madison's Federalist 51 and Tocqueville's Democracy in America, etc.). There may have possibly been one visible as "18" near the end of Part One. I appreciate your thoughts about a very critical topic for our day.
RalphNovember 8, 2023
Great article! Thought it was foreshadowing the 2024 election, then I saw the comments. Hoping the nation doesn't make the same mistake as we did in 2016.
RandyNovember 8, 2023
I do not understand how anyone could think that this was an article on politics. If anything it was helping to keep you away from the political arena. I remember working in Seattle in the late 60s when there was a lot of racial unrest. People were bussed in to cause problems because there wasn't any before they showed up. When it starts it is like a wild fire and if you are not ready you could be in a lot trouble.
CarolNovember 8, 2023
I love your ability to tell a story and keep me engrossed the entire time. We flew a private plane to get to the temple and for our honeymoon. Lots of misadventures on a Memorial Day weekend with no reservations . back in 1965.
BeckyNovember 8, 2023
Thank you for sharing this. It's really concerning that so many are beginning to embrace violence and reject peace, but we've been warned that there will be no peace or safety in the world in the days leading up to the Lord's return. Even the righteous may be affected at times. These are some good common sense precautions so that we will be more prepared, having more presence of mind with less fear, in the case of unexpected danger.
Meijken BooneNovember 8, 2023
What a beautiful story, it tickled my heart. I have witnessed many miracles large and small that could only come from a loving, personal God! My favorite primary song is The Miracle. He truly is a God of miracles and he knows us personally! Thank you for sharing this story with us.
Sarah HinzeNovember 8, 2023
Thank you for your inspiring story about your ancestors. It brought tears to my eyes as I felt the spirit of the Lord. My husband and I served a mission at the London England Temple. It was one of the highlights of our life. Our unity and our love together grew by leaps and bounds. There are blessings that have come to us in the years afterwards that are spiritual. God bless you. I look forward to following your posts!
ChrisNovember 7, 2023
So often the focus has been on the iron rod...we even have the song about it...and as a result we lose focus on what's most important. The Tree. The Love of the Savior. We know that Lehi didn't use the iron rod to get to the Tree, but maybe he simply didn't need to. He was a prophet, after all. But what if we changed the focus from the rod to the Tree, and taught the Love of Christ first and foremost? A Love not earned in any way. A Love that cannot be diminished in any way. A Love that leads to real joy in this life...now.
Fan for yearsNovember 7, 2023
You will be missed. "May the Lord bless you and keep you and the devil miss you." Pres. Ezra Taft Benson. God bless you that all your experiences will bring you and those you serve closer to our Savior Jesus and His restored church.
Stephen W. GibsonNovember 7, 2023
Great! You are going on a full time mission when you are both young and in good health. I believe, however, that you have been on a mission for the Lord for decades with your great magazine. On a personal note, if you find that you need some great curriculum to help the poor start their own little businesses, feel free to reach out to me. The Academy for Creating Enterprise has 25 rules of thumb for MicroEnterprise Success we would love to share, for free, of course, to help those those in Puerto Rico find their way out of poverty. You two will be great in what ever and wherever you serve the Lord.
ReNae WoolseyNovember 7, 2023
My husband and I are avid weekly followers of your wonderful podcast. We have also served a senior couple mission in Germany. It was amazing and we encourage senior couples to serve however they can. You will not regret following the spirit which encouraged you to go on this mission to Puerto Rico. God bless you in all you do!
Joy LundbergNovember 7, 2023
Well done. This poem "Late Autumn" paints a vivid picture that penetrates all the senses. Thank you for sharing!
JaneNovember 7, 2023
Thank you for all your have done for us with your podcast and articles. You will be wonderful missionaries. Enjoy!!! May the Lord bless you!!
LoraNovember 7, 2023
The irony of all of this is that most of the universities in America began as institutions for divinity instruction, to educate ministers of religion. Their understanding of God and the intelligent design of the universe was the foundation of the now-secular science we know today.
Eunice RobertsonNovember 7, 2023
That is so evocative. I can see perfectly well, but the change of the seasons is an absolute pleasure for me as natures colours change.The remind me of our Saviour's mortal life Autumn reminds me of his tribulation in the days before his crucifixion, Winter, his time in the tomb, Spring, his resurrection. He is in the details of our lives.
Sasha KwapinskiNovember 6, 2023
Marriage is either a moral construct with a moral definition or, for all practical purposes, it become a non-construct with no definition -- basically just a random lifestyle option among many. Moral standards are, by definition, discriminatory, differentiating between various patterns of choice, action, and behavior. To remove the moral definition from marriage is essentially to confuse love with relativism.
Carol BriwnNovember 6, 2023
I love how you both support each other in your podcast. You will be wonderful supports to each other in your mission.Congratulations on your mission call!
TJNovember 6, 2023
It is actually worse than this. In a conversation with a friend who lives in Northern California, she told me her neighbor had assured her that Hitler had needed to kill the Jews because they were persecuting him. This had been hidden from us, but she could read about it. I was stunned. Bad enough to deny the Holocaust. Unbelievable to tell people the Jews caused it and Hitler was protecting himself from persecution
Sandra FyffeNovember 6, 2023
Thank you Protors for your willingness to serve a mission in Puerto Rico! Grateful for your faithfulness! I read this article today, Monday, November 2023...the day you entered the MTC...much success! Blessing be with you both as well as your family at home!
Boanerges RubalcavaNovember 6, 2023
I am at home with my wife and my three children, and after praying we went to sleep. At around 2 am we heard a noise, I went downstairs and see two masked tugs putting as much as they can in a big bag. From here I can think in two possible situations. One, I do not have any weapon and told them to leave my home; they come to me and force me to go into my bedroom and start abusing my wife. I cannot tolerate that and sent myself again one of them while the other using his weapon kill me. The second situation, I have a gun and when I saw them told them to leave my home immediately one of them use his gun against me and fail and then I use mine ant hit him, the other one left my home through a window. I use my gun two more times hitting a van that is leaving the neighborhood at great speed. Next day we found out that a child was inside the van that was with many other weapons. I was accused of murdering the poor child and that I am worse than the thieves, since besides of killing one of them I also murder a child.
Chuck NielsenNovember 6, 2023
“every generation has its tests and its chance to stand and prove itself“ This quote by President Ezra Taft Benson that Duane included is, in my opinion, the clarion call to all followers of Christ to stand up, speak up and lovingly declare the only way to fight evil is to establish homes where the Master can reside. As the family goes so goes humanity. Thank you Duane for addressing one of the biggest criticisms the Church has right now. The war on families is real and that war has landed on the shores of the Latter Day Saints.
Wendy LanderNovember 6, 2023
There is wrong and there is right on both sides. There is only one answer - our Saviour will come and wipe away the tears from all our eyes. In the meantime, we can only live the way he and his prophets teach us and love all of our sisters and brothers.
Fay & Layne CroxfordNovember 5, 2023
You two will be amazing missionaries! You have already been serving and bringing people to the Savior through your tireless work on Meridian Magazine and your podcast! Best wishes! We are headed to Illinois Church Historic sites in early March, humbled but willing and SO excited!
Dianne Letsch ThompsonNovember 5, 2023
What a blessing for you and for the ones whom you will serve! Warm wishes and may you receive God’s best blessings on your mission to Puerto Rico!!! Dianne Letsch Thompson
Michael and Diane LoveridgeNovember 5, 2023
God bless you! My wife and I are in our fifth year as Senior Missionaries (Salt Lake Inner-city Mission), assigned (willingly!) to an Hispanic Ward. We feel so blessed and are trying to perfect our Spanish. A suggestion: As soon as possible, "forget" English and speak as much Spanish to each other as possible. use the wonderful translator smart phone apps and learn the phrases that are useful in daily life. Also, practice listening, listening, and listening. Best wishes!
Jill AntuarNovember 5, 2023
What you have done with Meridian over many years has seemed like a self-appointed mission! You've had plenty of practice and now will do marvellous things, being formally set apart in His service. Speaking from personal experience, serving a senior mission is a wonderful, life-changing opportunity.
Rae GreenstreetNovember 5, 2023
Thank you for sharing the next chapter in your lives. Having served many missions (and still serving one now) has been a blessing to those we have left behind. We are wearing out our lives with joy. "When you rest, you rust".
Karen Walker McMinnNovember 5, 2023
We just came home from our 4th mission and we miss it already. Such joy and gratitude we have in serving. You will, at the end of your mission, find out why the Lord has sent you to that mission. May you be blessed in all you do.
Anna FeatherstoneNovember 5, 2023
i was hoping you were going to say you were coming to New Zealand!! Your great grandparents have a touching story. You would have had big hugs from me had you been on your way here to Aotearoa! I love all our senior missionaries who come to serve in our Stake. they are exemplary. You guys will have a ball! Best wishes!
Cecile ScribnerNovember 4, 2023
Congratulations! Doug and I served in New Zealand between 2004 and 2006, and loved every minute of it. And our family was greatly blessed while we were gone. We came home to six new grandchildren!
JPB SwainNovember 4, 2023
Congratulations and safe travels!
Kathy SandersNovember 3, 2023
Can’t wait to hear your experiences and can’t wait to have some of our own two from Box B. Love you both and God bless you!
Ana Belen SierraNovember 3, 2023
Welcome to our paradise. The enchanted island.
P & T HarrisNovember 3, 2023
Happy to hear of your call. My husband and I returned from our mission to DC South 10 years ago this October. There are many ways for seniors to serve missions. We are glad we served.
Val JonesNovember 3, 2023
Thank you for your example. I am glad you have capable children and staff to carry on at Meridian. And I am glad we will get to read of your adventures. May God be with you.
Eduardo MelendezNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations for your mission calling and for your willingness to respond to our prophet's invitation to join to the Lord's army. I wish you the best during this time of service and sacrifice as our Savior Jesus Christ representatives. I have no doubt you will impact many lives in an amazing way. Hurrah!
CAROL THOMASNovember 3, 2023
FABULOUS!!! So proud of you...so happy for you. We love senior couples...they are the glue that holds a mission together. Ray and I have been on several senior missions...we only wish we could go again! HURRAH FOR ISRAEL!!!
Lorrie B ThomanNovember 3, 2023
I so Love your Podcast each week it truly builds my Testimony I have come to Love you both and your sweet family. Love your history and how you met and how dedicated you both are to the Savior. You will both be dearly missed and we pray your Mission will be a huge success you will both turn many hearts and souls to their Savior they may not even know yet. You are very Loved sending lots of prayers
JulieNovember 3, 2023
What an amazing story from your ancestors. Wow. And that you can read it and know of it. So incredible. Congratulations on your mission call!! Excited for you two. Best wishes!
Alisi Iongi FiliagaNovember 3, 2023
The stories you share brought tears to my eyes, and the encouragement to serve a mission together with my eternal companion. Thanks for sharing I shall never forget of mail from Box B.
Linda A SmithNovember 3, 2023
Beautifiul story. I always wanted to serve a senior mission but my husband didn't. Instead we got called to serve in the Spanish Branch for 5 years and in a way my wish was granted.
VaLoye & Dean OlsonNovember 3, 2023
You are needed. You will love serving and the missionaries and locals will love you. Have a wonderful time even when exhausted. We loved our four senior missions which included being Mission President in Norway.
NicolaNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations!! And I live in Invercargill, we have a ward here and our stake centre is 3hrs away. Your family created that!! Nicola in NZ
Ken & Yvonne CottrellNovember 3, 2023
Hooray for you and Godspeed! We will miss your Come Follow Me broadcasts but I’m sure you have that taken care of.
Paul HNovember 3, 2023
Bless you as you go serve. If you follow the advice Bryant Hinckley gave to his young missionary son, Gordon, you will be successful: "Forget yourself and go to work." While I enjoy Meridian Magazine immensely, I hope it isn't a distraction to you in doing what you have been called to do. My wife and I served for 21 months in Texas and because all we concentrated on was the Lord's work, we were blessed beyond our greatest dreams. We helped bless te lives of others in our mission during that time. A similar experience happened again as I served in a Utah mission office for a year post Covid. Good luck.
Karen CasosNovember 3, 2023
Have a great time. It can be challenging but just so the rewards are great.
Sharon SmithNovember 3, 2023
You will be such great missionaries as you share your testimonies and teach the people of Puerto Rico. What an exciting time! May the Lord continue to bless you in your righteous works.
LindaNovember 3, 2023
Best of luck. My husband and I served a mission for the church and it is truly the best and most special thing we have done as a couple. I am sure you will love your mission, your people and giving to the Lord 100% of your time.
Rochelle HaleNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations! You will be wonderful missionaries.
Lawrence RookhuyzenNovember 3, 2023
I had a premonition a few weeks ago that you would be called on a mission--so no big surprise. You'll be great missionaries. Larry & Kay Rookhuyzen
HelenCNovember 3, 2023
Thank you for this story and your dedication to the Work. Blessings upon you and your mission. I’m sure grandpa is smoking down on you.
Gayle WNovember 3, 2023
Wonderful! You both are great witnesses for Jesus Christ. The people in Puerto Rico will love you, as you love them! I'm so pleased for you!
ValNovember 3, 2023
This is so exciting!! The story of your grandparents made me cry. I, too, am in profound awe of the Saints who came before us. Their sacrifices were deep. My husband and I hope to join the ranks of other Senior missionaries in the next couple of years. Thank you for all you do. You bless the lives of so many!!
Charleen FeltNovember 3, 2023
you will love it and even though somethings will be difficult the memories of the wonderful people you serve will remain with you forever. We have served two and are considering a third one. The Lord will lead you and bless you so much as you serve. Congratulations.
Gale BoydNovember 3, 2023
We love this story of sacrifice and conviction and will love yours too!
Breck EnglandNovember 3, 2023
Mis mejores deseos en tu misión!
Gaye WillisNovember 3, 2023
What an amazing example you have from these faithful ancestors! I wept as I read their story. And what an amazing example WE have in both of you! Thank you for your service, testimony, and faith. Thank you for Meridian Magazine and the podcasts, which have been such a blessing to so many. God bless you and your family through you service, just as I know you will bless the people of Puerto Rico.
Michael S. KartchnerNovember 3, 2023
How exciting! Thanks for sharing!
Audrey YanNovember 3, 2023
I don’t know you personally but have enjoyed your come follow me podcast for the last 4 years. My husband and I had been on two senior missions, in fact just returned from a 2 years service in Cambodia; so glad you have decided to serve and it is true, you are in for an adventure! Can’t wait to hear or read about your experiences!
Michael SCRIMSHERNovember 3, 2023
I served in New Zealand in the late 70s. And yes, even to invercargill in the dead of winter which there is in July. I can relate to those wet, damp winters there. The Proctors have rich heritage. What a legacy and example to follow.
Susan NielsonNovember 3, 2023
That is so wonderful and exciting. I’m so thrilled you found a way to make it work. And I’m glad I won’t have to go without Meridian Magazine. Best wishes! Susan
Ron KjarNovember 3, 2023
I served in Puerto Rico 40 years ago. It was the foundation of my life and I love the Island and the people more than I can express. You will love it there!
Shannon HillNovember 3, 2023
Thank you for this beautiful story and for choosing to serve a mission. Hopefully soon, my husband and I will be able to serve. Your daughter Micheala was my daughter's HEFY counselor in Fiji and her example of missionary service influenced my daughter to serve a mission. May you continue to be blessed as you serve the Lord.
Lynn GardnerNovember 3, 2023
One of the best decisions you ever made! You’ll be awesome, but you’ll also love it more than you can ever imagine!!
Donna ColyarNovember 3, 2023
We are delighted for you. We have served two family history missions. You’ll never regret it! Buena suerte!
Becky S.November 3, 2023
Congratulations on this new chapter and keep working on the language! We will pray for your success as you share the near and dear things of the gospel in a foreign country! Thank you for Meridian Magazine all these years and the insightful podcast for come follow me!
RonyaNovember 3, 2023
So proud of you for your willingness to serve. I too have many ancestors that sacrificed all for the building up of God's Kingdom here on earth. God speed and keep you and your family safe. You will be so blessed. My parents loved their time on their mission. Our family was so blessed by their service.
Cynthia CNovember 3, 2023
So exciting! So glad that you are able to serve! You will be great missionaries and everyone who meets you will have new friends!
Vera DooleyNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations on receiving your call to Puerto Rico! I love reading all your articles in the Meridan! We lived in Ferron, Utah for almost 25 years! We knew the Steven's family who lived there. Thank you for sharing that part of your family history!
Joyce GlaettliNovember 3, 2023
God bless you both as you begin this mission. Thank you for all you have done with Meridian Magazine. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Laurie Claeys BoydNovember 3, 2023
Oh Scot and Maureen, I am soooo happy for you and excited for the people in Puerto Rico who you'll be serving! I can't imagine my life without you two and your incredible podcast and Meridian Magazine. THANK YOU for blessing my life and my family's life with your time and faith-filled, positive perspective. You are the personification of D&C 50:22. I wish you the very best as you begin this new chapter of miracles! Thank you for sharing this moving story about your grandparents. Wow. Their faith!!!
Claudia Henderson SmithNovember 3, 2023
Congratulations on your mission call! That’s where Camille Helmick went on her mission. You guys are going to be great!! Put me on your email list.
Rebecca WalkerNovember 3, 2023
What an inspiring story! Wishing you all the best on your newest adventure! May you be greatly blessed as you bless the lives of all you serve! Love you guys!!
Joel MarksNovember 3, 2023
God Bless the Proctors. Thanks for all your teachings and wisdom! God be with you ‘till we meet again! Pray for Israel…. and Israel
TiredNovember 2, 2023
There's no support for an abused husband in this church. I know from experience. The general leaders make their inspired statements, but the local leaders are the ones who have to implement it, and too many of them still believe women are above reproach and if there's a problem in the home it is definitely the man's fault. I'm getting ready to not only leave the home but leave the church because I'm so tired of my leaders telling me that it's all my fault simply because I'm a man. "If you were a 'real' man you wouldn't allow it to go on, therefore it's your fault.' - as if a man has the authority to 'control' his wife. My children have each promised me a bedroom, for which I am thankful. I won't lose my testimony, but I can't stay in the toxic environment local leaders make for an abused husband.
K. GuffeyNovember 2, 2023
The iron rod was always explained as the truths of the gospel and the liahona as a guide to follow truth (1Nephi 8:30 continually holding fast = means never letting go of truth) so I've always felt that the two were joined together to keep us safe in God's love and God's truths.
SteveNovember 2, 2023
Nice article, many good points. Of course, we also want to know what the limit population would be and how to distribute food to the whole world equitably. Any suggestions?
Michael SessionsNovember 2, 2023
My wife's maiden name is Boyce (Father was Dan Boyce) descendant of John Boyce. Are you a cousin?
Lynn ChattertonNovember 2, 2023
John chapter 1 says that in the beginning was the Word...and the Word was God. Christ is the Iron Rod. He is the Word of God. If we are converted to Him we will never fall or fail.
MarkNovember 2, 2023
For me, they both are simply symbols of Christ. No more, no less.
Marlee MeyersNovember 2, 2023
Another dimension of the Iron Rod is the word of God: John 1. Jesus Christ is the Word. It is to Him we must hold fast to reach the Tree of Life. Then, the Liahona is a tool for hearing the Word thru the Spirit of God
Boanerges RubalcavaNovember 2, 2023
The argument that the Church (The Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ) is unfair to those who cannot get married in the Temple, and consequently cannot obtain Eternal Life, is absurd, since the Lord and His Apostles clearly told us (all of us) that sin is not accepted with a minimum of allowance. Sexual sins, adultery and fornication, unless there is a repentance, exclude any one doing them to enter the Temple. But, this is exactly the same for everybody, men, women, heterosexual or homosexual ones. Therefore, ALL of us no matter our assumed conditions, must stop sinning, and repent. And the situation is the same for those NOT committing the acts mentioned, when for whatever reasons they were unable to find the eternal companion, if they remain in the Gospel keeping the commandments, and with a since repentance when the did not do, our Loving Father in Heaven and His Son Jesus Christ will provide a way for them to enter Eternal Life.
Stefanie EskanderNovember 1, 2023
Such a touching story. I truly believe that many receive messages of the Spirit through the arts- music, artwork, dance, etc.
Debbi M.November 1, 2023
I had never heard this song, and it is so beautiful! Thanks for this article and your previous one. Stirring and joyful and worshipful! I love this phrase--Signal fire of grace. Your articles WERE a signal Fire of grace for me! And left me in tears...
Elder Russell Rich CannonNovember 1, 2023
As Service Mission Leaders we frequently work with young men and women who “transfer” from teaching missions to service missions. Many are returning home to parents where they remain as service missionaries for the remainder of their missions. I like to think of my deceased loved ones as “transfers” who complete their earthly missions and “transfer” home to their Heavenly Parents” for their heavenly mission assignments. Just like with our service missionaries, it is a step forward, not a step back. Enjoyed the article and the discussion with my siblings about this topic.
Carlos RoundyNovember 1, 2023
I like the word commenced, like going to a commencement, a new beginning .
Laurel DraperNovember 1, 2023
This was a wonderful article! At a time when I am still trying to figure out how to not only survive, but thrive, in this still-new to me empty nester reality I'm facing, this gave me some good food for thought. Maybe my life isn't really "over," (*wink) and I can still find ways to be a blessing and valuable contributor to my children and those around me. For ME, it continues to be challenging to find my place now that I am no longer a full-time mom to my kids, who have created families of their own. I want to find ways to still be a teacher, an example, a blessing and to play an important role in the lives of my grandlittles.
MaryannOctober 31, 2023
Do you really want to keep living like this? Not only has your husband betrayed you over MANY years, but then he places an additional burden on you by blaming you for not trusting him! There is a better life waiting for you---go find it. A good therapist will help you move forward with your life (WITHOUT your husband), and also help you to rebuild your self esteem. You have been carrying this heavy load on your shoulders for far too long and if you continue, it will manifest itself in your physical, emotional, and mental health. You already sound completely exhausted and depleted. Anyone who has suffered this kind of abuse, and it IS abuse, from a man who refuses to change needs to end the marriage as quickly as possible.
Michele SOctober 31, 2023
I imagine it breaks Heavenly Father's heart to see some of his children pursuing relationships here in mortality that he cannot make eternal. He too is bound by Eternal law.
Rob McGhieOctober 31, 2023
I look forward to the day when the Proclamation on the Family is included as a section in the Doctrine and Covenants.
Bob KernsOctober 31, 2023
Thank you for sharing this much needed article.
James O Brown IIOctober 31, 2023
If a person has a problem with The Proclamation on the Family, they do not have a problem with church leaders. They have a problem with the Lord.
Richard HillsOctober 31, 2023
Of course we all sincerely accept that the very truths and principles revealed by our Prophets that our Father has established for our happiness can be changed from time to time by our Prophets upon receiving more revelation.
Rochelle HaleOctober 31, 2023
What we sometimes forget is that the Family Proclamation was inspired through the Lord's Prophet and apostles. Perhaps a comparison would be the Word of Wisdom (D&C 89). CBD, green tea, vaping, and a plethora of alcoholic beverages did not exist (or not in the same forms) in Joseph Smith's time. Nevertheless, we cannot justify our desire to experiment, follow worldly enticements, or altar what the Lord has ordained for us. However, the Atonement of Jesus Christ applies to all of us to help us overcome our sins, addictions, loneliness, mourning, heartaches, illnesses, and all things that are challenges to us. Our Heavenly Father is more loving than we can comprehend.
Jim AndersonOctober 31, 2023
Amen, Amen, and Amen! We are on a path to return to a Loving Father in Heaven. The very essence of love is that He has shined many lights on the covenant path that will lead us there. The tares are living among the wheat in our very wards and families. How painful it is to witness the reality that many we love will not bear fruit. At least not in the moment. Eternity is a very long time and God and Christ are merciful. That does not mean that we can simply look the other way and allow the good fruit to be spoiled by popular ideology. To love another person is to help them heal and walk in the light. The light will always illuminate the tares as well as the wheat. It will show the net is full of fish. Some will be kept and some will be tossed back. We as faithful LDS will adjust it to illuminate the Pearl of Great Price that we have sacrifices for and our ancestors have paved the way for us to have.
Cynthia COctober 31, 2023
Very compassionate and well-written article. Thank you!
Mary TarbetOctober 31, 2023
MANY THANKS for reinforcing that what ever thwarts the Lord’s plan of salvation is what Satan will advocate. I remember when the Proclamation was first introduced to the women, we all said “of course”. I continue to follow the Lord’s prophet and His apostles in His Church, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
Chip SnowOctober 31, 2023
when the proclamation first came out, my first thought was "Duh". I was a kid. little did I know what the Prophet and Apostles were seeing. that was the last time I did a figurative eye roll at something they've said.
Debbi M.October 30, 2023
LOVED this article! I moved this article to my Pinterest and called it--Life After Life. Seemed appropriate, as well as "graduated."I love feeling my graduated loved ones around me, and often think of them and what they would advise me. And I tell them how much I miss them, even knowing that they are still around and watching out for me.
David KendallOctober 30, 2023
You inspired me to write a poem, I hope you like it! Out of Sight, Never Out of Mind Family, friends and loved ones Having lived there lives on Earth, Still touch our hearts by spirit Ever from their days of birth. They continue as guardian angels From the other side of the veil, Having graduated from mortality And in God's presence now dwell. They are forever trying to help us For joy and peace on earth to find, And ask to be remembered fondly As only out of sight, never ever out of mind.
RaLee HallOctober 30, 2023
Thank you, thank you for your thoughts and insights.this truly is an inspirational article.
LoraOctober 30, 2023
Since they are more alive than we are, since we are mortal and they are not, I suggest that we call them "immortal". "The immortals" describes them better than "the dead".
Rochelle HaleOctober 30, 2023
Why don't we call our departed the "reunited ones?" I recall reading an article recently where we were reminded that, even as we mourn, our loved ones are greeting their own parents, grandparents, or even some of their own children who departed mortality before them. We should be happy for them. Some friends of other faiths teach that "believers" go directly into the arms of God or Jesus. So "reunited one" would be applicable across many religions.
Abbie VianesOctober 30, 2023
Thank you for a lovely article. Im So glad the language in the temple no longer uses the term dead. I have thought for 10 years now that they ought to change that because those who have passed on are VERY much alive and, according to Joseph Smith, enjoy the same degree of sociality as we do here. Im.sure they find the word "dead" to be a bit insulting.
Sherree LounsberyOctober 30, 2023
I favor the term 'passed on' Additionally, I always strive to refer to my family and friends in the present tense, as in "she's beautiful" or "he's brilliant" because they still are!
Jackson PembertonOctober 30, 2023
Loved this explication! How about "moved up"?
Chris HowellOctober 30, 2023
I have fought calling my mother dead for years. I never refer to her as dead today or speak of her in past tense. I think "graduated" or "transitioned" to the next stage of life says it for me. When she graduated it was unexpected and sudden. My coworkers accused me of denial and that I would go through a serious depression later. Later I had the impression in prayer that she had completed her experience her and was granted to transition. (she suffered from arthritis)
Ronald BarnesOctober 30, 2023
I don't understand this reluctance to use the word "dead" The word refers to the temporary separation of the body and the spirit. Any other terms that we may use have the same meaning. The fact that the dead move among us does not change the fact that they do so as spirits that are separated from their bodies,
Lynne BarryOctober 30, 2023
What about relocated?
Corey D.October 28, 2023
My heart goes out to the Hess family and to all who have experienced the loss of loved ones, especially seemingly untimely or unexpected. Where would we be in such difficult times without the hope our savior brings.
JeffreyOctober 28, 2023
Thank you for sharing this poignant and difficult family experience with us.
JuliannOctober 27, 2023
My heartfelt condolences. No parent ever want to bury a child. Emma is well and whole and you now have an angel in heaven. She thanks you for your love, and sacrifices, and faith. Now it’s her turn to watch over all of you. And she will.
Gale BoydOctober 27, 2023
Thank you, Jacob, for sharing this. It's inspiring, beautiful, and helpful in all the best ways.
AnnaOctober 27, 2023
A thousand blessings to the author and his family.
EveOctober 27, 2023
I'm truly sorry for your loss! And I'm truly grateful that we, as Meridian readers, get to read such precious truths. It's inspired me in the trials I'm facing at the moment. Thank you!
Carol MaskOctober 27, 2023
What a beautiful perspective. I believe it w all my heart.
TanaOctober 27, 2023
Thank you so very much for sharing this sacred family moment with your extended family of brothers and sisters! Your great faith and knowledge of the Savior is an example for us all. He does Live and because He does, your sweet Emma lives! What a perfect plan! Prayers and continued peace to your sweet family and friends as you mourn all that is missing right now.
Steve DoneganOctober 27, 2023
I write this after wiping the multitude of tears from my face... Thank you for putting into words what many of us cannot find words for. Thank you for sharing your outlook with us who suffer and can't see as far forward as you have. Our love to your family and supportive friends.
LaNae ShawOctober 27, 2023
Thank you for sharing this incredible journey you have been on - our 20 month old grandson passed away last year unexpectedly and our daughter has had such a hard time - she has been so angry that they didn’t get the miracle. She has finally come to realize that the miracle is that Heavenly Father and Jesus mourns with us. We do not understand why these things have to happen but we have to trust in His Plan and know that we will be with them again. I could not go on without that knowledge. So grateful for a loving Heavenly Father and Jesus who love us all so much and will wipe away all tears and all things will be made right!!! Thanks again for sharing.
ShaunaOctober 27, 2023
I am a better, stronger person, even filled with more light because I read your story. I tasted the goodness and truth of it all. Your writing is so beautiful and your testimonies were a feast. Thank you so much for sharing.
Kathy SandersOctober 27, 2023
Jacob I have eagerly followed anything you write when I find it as your gifts and inspiration have lifted and helped me so much. Thank you for sharing the tenderest feelings of your heart and yours and Monique’s beautiful faith in Jesus Christ and his tender mercies. I feel a oneness with you all and pray for your family as you miss sweet Emma. A oneness in Christ who is our hope and our salvation. Thank you for sharing and blessing us all with your story. Thank you Emma for the blessing of your life that lives on.
Ben PackOctober 27, 2023
Thank you Jacob for you and your wife’s beautiful words and for your faith. Thank you for helping me see and feel deeper. I’m grateful for God’s plan of happiness and progression. That he gives us experiences and relationships to make us like his Son. I loved your comments on Jesus in Gethsemane and Golgotha and the reason for his and our suffering. Thanks be to God for his Holy Son in bringing us a glorious tomorrow.
ChristineOctober 27, 2023
Brother and Sister Hess, your testimonies have blessed me today (and many times before). May God continue to bear you up. Through my own dark nights and days of grief, I also received comfort, peace, and hope, and I testify of the truth of your beautiful words. God does love us, and those we love who have passed through that quiet veil, are close, and you will feel their love, their light, their peace, and their joy in the days and years ahead. Glorious truth, beautiful hope, peaceful light, divine love.
Elizabeth LeBlancOctober 26, 2023
I just love your articles. They are so full of personal, faith filled, examples. I'm glad that you remember them with exactness and how they impacted your soul; because, it's as if I get to live that same experience too. Those feelings are as real to me as they are to you. I just love you. Thank you for bringing unity of faith to the Church:)
MarkOctober 26, 2023
I cringe when the youth or anyone else bear a testimony saying they know the church is true and never mention the name Jesus except at the end when they close in His name. The church is only true because of Christ. The prophets are only prophets because of Christ. The Gospel is only true because it is the Good News of Christ. Seems to me we kinda get it backward when we testify of the things instead of the person, Jesus, who is the reason for all of it. I go back to President Nelson’s talk of the Atonement of Christ. The Atonement is the thing, but without the connection to the power of Christ, it is ineffectual.
Harold RustOctober 24, 2023
This inspiring story is one that my brother while living in Heber has been able to follow---and actively participate in for the last several years. His enthusiasm for and encouragement of this project have been matched by dozens of other leaders in the Heber valley. Thanks for this descriptive summary of how the location came to be finally finalized. It has been an inspiration for all who became part of the large team.
MaryannOctober 23, 2023
The only reason I can think of for divorced people to maintain contact after they have married someone else is if the divorced couple have minor children. In those cases, the divorced couple should have an amicable relationship for the sake of their children. If the children are grown, in most cases, I would think the current spouse would be very uncomfortable if contact was continued with the Ex-spouse.
Paul HOctober 23, 2023
Where is this statuary park located? (The article asking for donations doesn't say.)
Scot ProctorOctober 23, 2023
The links have now been updated to the correct campaign. Thank you!
Scot ProctorOctober 23, 2023
The links have now been updated to the correct campaign. Thank you!
Scot ProctorOctober 23, 2023
The links have now been updated to the correct campaign. Thank you!
Jeff BellOctober 23, 2023
This sounds like a worthwhile endeavor. Where will the ten acre park be located, is there an entrance fee, how does one know the administration costs associated with such a large project? Where can one mail a check? Does it go to Dr Neal or Meridian? The article should include all of this information plus the projected date. PS: I loved the video
Joe HopkinsOctober 23, 2023
Thank you Kay Wiemer Gerke for stating so clearly what so many are condemning as CRT. Yes there are marvelous parts to our history and people who have stood tall. But there are also those who have cheated, lied, and destroyed. We need to know their motivations so we can avoid them. The positive needs to be enshrined but to avoid teaching the negative Is foolhardy.
Gary KohlOctober 23, 2023
The GoFundMe site that this link directs us to is from 2021 and says it is no longer accepting donations.
Sherrie RaynorOctober 23, 2023
Can you check the link? On 10/23 it was no longer active.
Teri N.October 23, 2023
I went to the fundraiser on GoFundMe and it states it has been DEACTIVATED. HELP PLEASE. How can we donate? I so much wish to donate to this.
Ed RehderOctober 22, 2023
As always; Good Stuff!!
Joan G. SmithOctober 20, 2023
A basic truth, long ignored, asserts that the purpose of education is to teach a student how to THINK. It appears that the "Fathom the Good" curriculum may well provide the way to accomplish that goal. I've sent a link for this article to my wonderful home-schooling daughter.
Kay Wiemer GerkeOctober 20, 2023
I am surprised that Meridian would print this Op-Ed. I have enjoyed Meridian for many years and have always counted on it for informative and inspirational reading. It plays an important role in spreading the Gospel in its unique way. John C. Hancock's opinions are very concerning to me. He has latched on to sound-bite catchphrases that are inflammatory and not fully accurate. CRT, Critical Race Theory, is NOT taught in general education. It is a subject that has been inaccurately vilified and is misleading. CRT is a curriculum that is taught at a graduate school level, not in elementary schools. The danger of this overreaction can lead to omitting vital historical truths regarding our country's past which has created a climate of racism that still exists today. We cannot change history but we should learn from it to not repeat its mistakes. America’s racial past is not only about the horrific treatment of many people of color, it also includes accounts of good people standing up for what was right and fighting against bigotry and hatred. Valuable learning can occur in classrooms when these topics are discussed with accuracy and truth. Students can learn to evaluate society’s mistakes from the past and make informed choices to commit to do better. I have had the unique opportunity of substitute teaching for 20 years in public high school and middle schools. I have seen, first-hand, what curriculum is taught and I have grown close to the faculty and staff from these schools. It is very rare that I have ever felt concerns about the information that my co-workers are teaching. My own children grew up in this school district and I began subbing after our youngest graduated from high school. I have been extremely involved with our educational system for 41 years. Yes, there are some things that are taught that are not consistent with our belief systems, but that is life, that is living in the world. My husband and I always felt that our job was to stay close to our kids and have frank discussions at home about what they learned at school. This way we helped guide them through life’s challenges as they went along and as they faced controversial ideas, on their own level. We empowered them with a feeling that they could handle whatever the world threw at them without fearing it. They were able to develop confidence in knowing that they were strong enough to withstand the confusing influences of the adversary through discernment. Their protective armor was based on gospel principles giving them insight and strength to make good choices as they looked to Heavenly Father for help. Personally, I am a supporter of public schooling with home support and I have really enjoyed the opportunity to be a substitute teacher. It has allowed me to really get to know the youth of our community for decades and hopefully be an influence for good in their lives.
Dawn BrysonOctober 20, 2023
I took American Heritage from your Father, Ralph Hancock, at Brigham Young University in 1994. He made history so applicable to us. I looked forward to his lectures as each lecture was interesting and engaging. I learned to think more critically too. Honestly, one of my favorite classes. I look forward to learning more.Thank you!
Brad OatesOctober 19, 2023
I have followed V.H. Cassler thought leadership articles for multiple years, and appreciate her brilliant insights. She has a gift for seeing the non-obvious…and, the obvious in non-obvious ways. I agree with her assessment that we have reached a cultural tipping point. It would seem that 2020 was such a year with 4 “Super Shocks” of a global pandemic, global recession, worldwide social justice protests, and divisive election cycle. But, in my opinion, 1968 is likely the tipping point year that defined the pervasive cultural erosion we are now experiencing…a “scattering” as prophesied that 2020 accelerated. For me, this is the big picture context that gives meaning and purpose to the “gathering” theme that has been emphasized by Latter-Day Prophets. Thank you Valerie.
Kent BrooksbyOctober 19, 2023
AMEN!
SageOctober 19, 2023
I appreciate your wise words and courageous attempt to educate. I will be sharing this everywhere I can.
MistyOctober 18, 2023
Surrogacy?! That’s a weird one to lump in there. So many families and people in general have been blessed because of someone else’s love and sacrifice through surrogacy!
Sue AntuarOctober 18, 2023
In a quiet moment this morning I noticed your article and decided to read. I read words that I needed to hear and words that have resonated with me. Words that have brought me great peace and comfort. I lost my husband last week and had his funeral yesterday. Even though this has been a life altering, heartbreaking whirlwind in time, I have absolutely felt and feel my Savior's peace and love and strengthening power by submitting to HIS will. Hard days will come but I absolutely know he will continue to protect and strengthen me in my storm.
Tim FlahertyOctober 18, 2023
I'm afraid I am not familiar with this Bianca Palmieri Lisonbee, 1953-2023, for whom this article was dedicated.
Jamie QuistOctober 18, 2023
Thank you for the backstory and history of these areas. It's like, "Oh, wow, that makes so much more sense." How can a lay person access this kind of information?
JulesOctober 16, 2023
Great analogy and food for introspection. How refreshing it would be to attend a RS where the sisters felt they could be honest and would actually validate each other. Way too much competitiveness in my association with women. How easy it is to give a compliment or a hug, but too often reserved and withheld by those who have not yet learned that their sense of worth comes from God and he gives freely.
MarkOctober 16, 2023
Thank you for sharing this! What a great analogy
KerryOctober 16, 2023
Thank you! I am also a widow who watches a K drama at the end of a busy day - sometimes feeling guilty. I am careful to do the “ clean” ones. They are delightful and so well cast. Now I can feel ok about it. Excellent article otherwise also.
LBOctober 14, 2023
You need to see a marriage counselor.
KathleenOctober 13, 2023
That's all it takes!
SandraOctober 13, 2023
Finally! An update on this production. I donated to the work back in August, 2022 and have heard no more. I'm pleased to learn its moving along.
JuliannOctober 13, 2023
Good cartoon. It only takes one. Thanks for all the chuckles.
Ann A.October 13, 2023
Hi name must be Calvin!
Jeff DrakeOctober 13, 2023
Thank God for small nurseries! Our oldest two are 15 months apart, so our daughter was too young for nursery when our son was born. Since the nurses in our ward was only about ten kids, the Nursery Leader invited our daughter to join them a bit early. It was an incredible blessing for our family.
GinaOctober 12, 2023
We can also learn that your mortal life can be over in a minute. And look at what tha Palestinians in the Gaza Strip are once again having reinforced. Water can stop coming out of our taps. The ability to purchase food can be curtailed. The power can go out. We need supplies as well as faith.
Debbie KentOctober 12, 2023
Excellent article. Thank you.
Wendy ManwaringOctober 12, 2023
I appreciate the thoughts and scriptures associated with this story. Thank you. There is a lot of truth in it. I wish it was not associated with a product or sales of any kind. When I listen to general conference, I never go away with fear in any way. Things that insight fear, I shy away from. Just a feeling that comes to me as I read articles similar this one. I appreciate the topic written of here, being prepared, and I am grateful we have Jesus Christ leading and guiding us through prophet, seers and revelators. President Nelson counseled us this last General Conference to "Think Celestial." Included in his counsel were these words, "Seek guidance from voices you can trust—from prophets, seers, and revelators and from the whisperings of the Holy Ghost, who “will show unto you all things what ye should do.” Please do the spiritual work to increase your capacity to receive personal revelation."
LewisOctober 11, 2023
Bless you, and bless the children, for this beautiful story of faith.
Jim ThorleyOctober 11, 2023
What a great story! And what a great lesson to be learned. How do I get all in my Elders Quorum to read this?
HelenCOctober 11, 2023
Well research and crafted examination of scripture. Thank you.
KathleenOctober 10, 2023
AMEN, Sister!
Lola B.October 10, 2023
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. I too have had a spiritual experience years ago that I consider very sacred and have not shared, but I do feel the need to, for the benefit of future generations. "Indeed, you can have sacred, revelatory, profoundly instructive experiences with the Lord in the most miserable experiences of your life—in the worst settings, while enduring the most painful injustices, when facing the most insurmountable odds and opposition you have ever faced" - Elder Jeffrey R.Holland
Douglas NadybalOctober 10, 2023
It is well thought out article exploring what a balanced prosperity looks like. Even more remarkable is that is was done without invoking the tried, tested and overused mantra "seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things will be added to you", which I sometimes tire of hearing over and over again.
Harold RustOctober 10, 2023
Thank you! The impact of personal stories is a theme I've been actively encouraging my ward members to collect for many years. I remind them that although there may be only a limited few stories recorded somewhere for great grandparents, there should be more for grandparents and definitely more you can find regarding your parents. And then, with regard to your immediate family......the sky is the limit! The key is to record them; big and small, seemingly trivial as well as monumentally pivotal.
Chip WhitmerOctober 9, 2023
Always worth pointing out that Helaman only had two brothers: Shiblon and Corianton. The phrase "Helaman and his brethren" necessarily includes Corianton, who apparently got his act together and became a great leader in spite of his youthful transgressions. There is hope for all of us!
Colleen CorbridgeOctober 9, 2023
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing this inspiring story.
HelenCOctober 9, 2023
Bless them all! And bless you for being there for them. An awesome reminder that some things only come about “save by fasting and by prayer” Matt 17:21
sdgOctober 9, 2023
I'm so grateful to hear that Rising Star can continue. I've been able to support one child for a few years after learning about your great work through my niece. Thank you for sharing this miracle. I look forward to reading about those other two miracles. God is amazing.
Sarah HinzeOctober 9, 2023
Thank you so much for your inspiring article. Thank you for the courage to share your testimony. I have been taught deeply by your tender experiences.
Greg SmithOctober 8, 2023
Well said. Thank you.
HeidiOctober 2, 2023
It's amazing the things that stand out to us! I saw a lot of invitations to let the Holy Spirit guide us to truth. Truth was a big theme through many talks. In a world where truth is hard to find we need discernment to make good choices.
Jim ThorntonOctober 2, 2023
I don't know about anybody else, but I think I have said "think Celestial" about 10 times today. What a wonderful, simple, two words that encompasses President Nelson's entire address. I have come to the conclusion that thinking Celestial may be the only way someone like me will make it back to Heavenly Father.
Roger DavidsonOctober 2, 2023
President Nelson talking about focusing on celestial. When confronted with temptations or whatever comes into our lives that takes our focus off of the Savior then think Celestial. Is it just me or has anyone else noticed in the last few years the talks have been more centered on Jesus Christ. And coming to him, because it is only through him we gain our salvation. I would love to hear others thoughts regarding more emphasis on Jesus Christ. President Nelson, during his talk I felt something while he was speaking, that maybe I need to make my prayers more conversational than a check list "Ok I have said my prayer like I am supposed or I have read from the book of Mormon like I am supposed to. Again, what a wonderfjul conference.
Lynette J MilliganOctober 2, 2023
The themes that stood out, and which our family discussed afterwards, were those of preparation, both temporally and more importantly, spiritually, for the degree of glory you want to achieve. Several Apostles talked about this topic, as did our Dear Prophet. Several talks spoke of the 10 Virgins and their model of preparation, both temporal and spiritual. We all agreed that the overarching theme was Coming to Christ and how we do that by, beginning with the end in mind, and obedience to His commandments, including providing assistance to those in need. What a fantastic Conference it was! We all felt so richly blessed to receive such instruction and wisdom from those whom the Lord has prepared to lead and guide us. We are so grateful to have access to them and the treasures of the gospel library and Church website.
Pat BluthOctober 2, 2023
Thank you, Mariah!
Erika PechacekOctober 2, 2023
This Conference was significant because all the speakers reminded us to come unto Jesus Christ and grow spiritually. We have to prepare ourselves and the coming generations for the coming of the Lord and without that preparation we will not be able to stand that event. The world is in commotion right now and if we imagine how much worse it will get, without spiritual preparation and centering our lives on Jesus Christ, we will not be able to stand. May we all take this serious and be always ready to welcome our Lord and Savior!
Lisa ReisingOctober 2, 2023
One of the strong themes I heard was about the power in and need for creating communities of Christ, where we feel accepted, needed, heard, peaceful, and some protection from the onslaught of the world. Many of the gathering messages contained the plea to learn how to love each other more completely - all part of Zion building.
Patricia LambOctober 2, 2023
President Nelson used the word MORTALITY, which was important to me. Mortality is a master class in learning to choose the things of greatest eternal import. Far too many people live as though this life is all there is. However, your choices today will determine three things: where you will live throughout eternity, the kind of body with which you will be resurrected, and those with whom you will live forever. So, think celestial. When you make choices, I invite you to take the long view—an eternal view. Put Jesus Christ first, because your eternal life is dependent upon your faith in Him and in His Atonement. It is also dependent upon your obedience to His laws. Obedience paves the way for a joyful life for you today and a grand, eternal reward tomorrow. When you are confronted with a dilemma, think celestial! When tested by temptation, think celestial! When life or loved ones let you down, think celestial! When someone dies “prematurely,” think celestial. When someone lingers with a devastating illness, think celestial. When the pressures of life crowd in upon you, think celestial! As you recover from an accident or injury, think celestial!
Iclea Megre LannesOctober 2, 2023
Thank you for sharing those thoughts. I started my day thinkng about the theme that stands out in the conference talks, then I was blassed with your words.
TeriSeptember 30, 2023
I love you President Nielsen as I help those who read and listen to the conference. Love Jesus and our heavenly Father. Prayers for blessings are headed your way by so many of our congregations. I pray that thou will feel them and that they will help you to heal as quickly as possible. Thank you for all you do and your service and ministry.
CarolSeptember 29, 2023
Get a physical exam and check for blood sugar, autoimmune, mental decline or mental illness issues. Sometimes that can cause a change.
MaryannSeptember 29, 2023
Good advice! I would also suggest a focus on constantly looking for the good in one another and voicing many sincere complements. We have been married for 53 years and I have found it is best to bite my tongue when I am tempted to say something critical, or to give too much advice. I feel like my Spirit is working at disciplining the "natural woman," and overcoming mortal tendencies and weaknesses. It doesn't really matter if we feel our spouse is being too sensitive. What matters is our willingness to change ourselves and our approach. It doesn't feel stifling, it feels like victory! I am grateful for the Lord's Spirit to enable me to do this.
vickieSeptember 29, 2023
also, when two people were married that long and then retire...that changes everything. the husband now stays home all the time. where he was in charge at work he wants to be that way at home and when the wife tries to have input husband doesnt take it well because hey he is the one in charge...actually the woman ruled the roost and has been for years...suddenly she has no say.....believe me....its mainly the husbands issue that he has to deal with ...wife has to realize this is what is going on....he wants to lead at home..but home is more a womanly work....sharing tasks is the best ...but only if they share it and no one rules over it all...
CW2 DoneganSeptember 28, 2023
I read because I want to see if someone else’s perspective can change my own. Your using the second act of plays changes my way of processing how to speak about preexistance to others. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
KathleenSeptember 27, 2023
All's well that ends well!
Sherrie BurdickSeptember 27, 2023
Thank you for this wonderful article. I couldn't help but compare Washington with the leadership our country is experiencing today...Actually, there is no comparison.
M. M. HansenSeptember 27, 2023
I'm very disappointed in your article. I'll give one example. You said the teenager wearing a maga hat.... It was a Catholic student coming for a March to Life rally not a Trump rally as you imply. You said they had a stand off. Actually I've watched all the many hours of video and Sandman was minding his own business when the guy came up to him banging on his drum. Sandman was trying hard not to do anything or say anything to diffuse the situation. He exhibited great restraint. So it was NOT a stand off. The guy was a jerk. Your final sentence was completely false and would lead people to believe that the right was as bad as the left was for making up a story that the media portrayed Sandman bad. The media did indeed do just that and his name was ruined in the press for what? Showing restraint? So yes because he was standing for the unborn and had a maga hat on the media DID attack him viciously. So much so that he lost scholarships. He eventually won many lawsuits against the media. The right did not craft a new narrative. It WAS the narrative. The media smeared and innocent kid because he rallied against abortion and they have done it to many people besides him.
Katrina DonaheySeptember 27, 2023
Daris, I always enjoy your stories. Thank you for them. I love the messages they convey.
Kay RookhuyzenSeptember 27, 2023
I needed a good cry today! I so enjoyed this "serial" storytelling! Thank you so much!!
JessicaSeptember 27, 2023
So sorry for the separation of your mother. I hope you are finding that peace that passes all understanding. I always look forward to your articles! They have just the right amount of humor in them. But I especially enjoyed reading about your mother’s adventures with Old Bob. What sweet and tender stories. Thank you so much for sharing them. I really hope that I can meet Bob one day.
Barbara RukaSeptember 27, 2023
I have enjoyed reading these stories of Bob and Joyce. I looked forward to every installment. I'm sad that it ended. Beautiful writing. Thank you!
JanelSeptember 26, 2023
Why did Chad Daybell not make the list of fallen heroes? He definitely had a following and disappointed said followers.
Lynne FlakeSeptember 26, 2023
My husband's ancestor, Samuel Flake, was among the Regulators at the Battle of Alamance. After the battle, he was forced to take an oath to not fight against the Crown ever again. When the American Revolution began, he sent his sons to fight on the American side. We have visited the site of the Battle of Alamance and consider Samuel a great patriot.
Robin Isley BickfordSeptember 26, 2023
Very well written! I, too, am a descendent of Capt. Merrill (mother's side), a native North Carolinian, and a Latter-day Saint. I have visited Alamance Battleground and Hillsborough several times - these places are indeed Sacred Ground! What a great Patriot he was!
BarbaraSeptember 26, 2023
In addition to these excellent suggestions for coping with grief or fighting depression from other causes, I would add two: 1. find something creative to do. This helps absorb your mental energies into something positive. 2. Do regular service. It can be as easy as using Familysearch to find names of people waiting to have their temple work done or going to the temple and doing ordinance. Or it could be serving someone in your family, neighborhood, or ward. And, as I write this, another thought comes to mind. Make sure you are not isolating yourself. In the suggestions that Jeff made or that I have made, make sure some of the things you do require interaction with others.
Robin Isley BickfordSeptember 26, 2023
Thank you so much for writing about Capt. Merrill! I am also a direct descendent on my mother's side, a native North Carolinian (parents & ancestors from Alamance County), and a Latter-day Saint. I, too, discovered his story several years ago and have visited the Hillsborough site several times. I also grew up near the Alamance Battlefield. These sites are indeed sacred ground. It is also great to know that I have relatives in Utah, where our daughter is attending University of Utah. Feel free to email me. It would be awesome to hear from you or connect in Utah or NC! ❤️❤️
dan douglassSeptember 26, 2023
great advice,we are all weak...i look at the good tim did for thousand of children,maybe somewhere on his journey he slipped up, i will still vote for him as long as his sin doesnt involve a child..maybe somewhere along the line some woman pressered him,got in a bad situation..didnt want to blow his cover ect..ect..also leave the church out of it ,we got enough enemies..forgive..look at the good
Teresa DavisSeptember 26, 2023
Over the years I have loved ALL your stories and insights. I especially love the story of Bob, the dog and Joyce. It teaches even if a person comes from a rough abusive background, one can be rise above all that to emerge as a virtuous, strong, loyal, hard-working character. How he blessed the life of Joyce's family! We can do the same. These are the stories we need back into our schools.
TreyeshuaSeptember 26, 2023
Luke 6:22 Blessed are ye, when men shall hate you, and when they shall separate you from their company, and shall reproach you, and cast out your name as evil, for the Son of man’s sake. 23 Rejoice ye in that day, and leap for joy: for, behold, your reward is great in heaven: for in the like manner did their fathers unto the prophets. Tim Ballard appears to me to be yet another of the falsely accused. Jesus said that will happen to true saints.
Charles McClellandSeptember 25, 2023
Thank you for this informative, thoughtful and well written article.
MaryannSeptember 25, 2023
You wrote, regarding the Tim Ballard story: "For a still developing story, withholding judgement can be appropriate." So, why are you jumping the gun and including it in your article NOW?
Ned SvarisbrickSeptember 25, 2023
Ah, guilt the gift that keeps on giving. Let me pose a question. When the Savior performed His atoning sacrifice how many of our sins were in the future? ALL of them right up to and including the final second at the final judgement. Once you decide to put your trust in the ever living God your life will change forever. Life then becomes a relationship that grows us up in Godliness and sin over time fades into the dust and follows us no more.
CASSeptember 25, 2023
I have listened in person to Tim Ballard explain his role in OUR many times. Most were at the peril of his own life! I believe that he is innocent of these charges and encourage people not to rush to condemn him on public opinion. I believe that Tim is a good and honorable man!
JuliannSeptember 25, 2023
Great follow up to a great conference talk. Elder Holland shared a similar story but without a happy ending. A young man sinned, repented, became a wonderful husband, father and successful businessman, but upon moving back to his hometown found that others would not let him forget his past. I don’t believe we , as individuals, forget our transgressions, because remembering helps to keep us from repeating and also helps us to empathize with and teach others. But we can be released from the guilt and shame. Which brings up another point: guilt is a gift from god to make us aware of when we need to repent. Shame is always Satanic. Guilt is ,”I did something bad,I need to repent ,and change”. Shame is “I am a bad person. I will always be a bad person.” It is not our place to guilt or shame another. It is our place to let God do His work. If we do not condemn others, we shall not be condemned by others — hopefully.
Paralee EckmanSeptember 20, 2023
I donated to OUR several years and was proud of it. I stopped only because of financial reasons. I totally support Tim Ballard, and will vote for him if he runs for the Senate ! I hope you will notify him of my admiration for publicly expressing his support and testimony of our Church!
JeffSeptember 19, 2023
Excellent points and thoughts. I think the elimination of former YM and YW presidencies and the calling of younger bishops has lead to a lack of shepherding among adult members. The ideal of the EQ and RS presidents counseling adults is not reality. Meanwhile the older adults languish without someone they trust. Good points on Come Follow Me and other items. MP quorums are definitely struggling with ministering and in their class time. Somehow the Church needs to be a safe place for all who come regardless of where one is on the faith journey. Our meetings need to allow for others with difficult questions. If f not, people will gather with like minded on forums and avoid the ward family.
KatrinaSeptember 19, 2023
Craig, I loved your candid honesty manifest in this article. I LOVED your point about the rameumptom becoming our small devices now in our world. That was brilliantly on point. Thank you for your observations and thoughts on making your powerful point that unity does not require sameness. Well written! Thank you.
karell binghamSeptember 19, 2023
I still kind of wish there was more doctrine taught in gospel doctrine. More ideas.
Lawrence M. Barry Chaplain, Colonel, US Army (Ret)September 18, 2023
Thank you for your insightful and informative article. As a lifelong member of the Church and a retired LDS Army chaplain I sometimes cringe at the loud opposition voices. Your article is sorely needed. Thank you.
Bryan StinocherSeptember 18, 2023
Exactly on point. I have long held the belief that once I have paid my tithings and offerings I have fulfilled my end. I believe I will be blessed for that act of faith and obedience. If the Brethren then misuse the funds that is on them and not me. I don't have the ability to decide if the church 'needs' the money. Tithings and offerings have NEVER been about money. It is all about faith and obedience. I echo the sentiment in this article that most of us have little to no concerns about how the church spends its money. But the media loves an agitator and someone who can casts aspersions on anyone, particularly a religion.
Richard G F TophamSeptember 18, 2023
Thank you for a very informative article and the thoughts of every day Latter Day Saints. My thoughts entirely. I have friends that are very much on the edge at the moment and need to read this article and to be able to put things in perspective.Truth Will Prevail.
Sally SmithSeptember 18, 2023
This was an excellent commentary and rebuttal against the Washington Post article. I don't usually spend time looking at articles such as the one written in the Post because,inherently. I know it will be filled with slander, lies and misinformation.
David ShafferSeptember 18, 2023
Well said, and politely. Thank you.
Joel MarksSeptember 16, 2023
At this moment in American history many citizens who are not members of the Restored church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints are ready to bear up the Constitution of these states united. Thank you Tad Callister for your many articles concerning our original constitutional democratic republic which members of the holy Priesthood are not quite ready to bear off. It is now time to ready ourselves to defend and protect that which is governmentally sacred and profound. Watch and pray as He cometh quickly to save what the framers and founders created by the hand of Divine Providence!
Robert StarlingSeptember 15, 2023
Amen, and Amen. Thank you Elder Callister for compiling these wonderful thoughts and quotes in support of our divinely-inspired Constitution. I think we can all agree that it is indeed now hanging by a "brittle thread", and we all must do everythng in our power to support it and defend it. For most of us, that means campaigning and voting for elected officials who will support the Constitution rather than trying to supplant it.
Jamie QuistSeptember 15, 2023
Amen!
KathleenSeptember 14, 2023
So well worded and supported with 'real' life experiences, ancient and modern.
Cathy Rowe MarlerSeptember 13, 2023
A few years back I made bug out bags for our two vehicles, plus each of our three adult children and their spouses. I sleep better knowing they are somewhat prepared for emergency situations. I highly recommend Jeff Motes’ series, Once Upon An Apocalypse. He has included the necessary elements to sustain and protect you in a serious event.
MarciaSeptember 13, 2023
Excellent article, Nicholeen! My husband has often stated: One of the most important skills a person must learn in life is to develop the ability to tell themself "no." The consequences of not learning that skill can be very dire - while developing the skill is empowerment. Perfectly explained, Nicholeen. Thank you.
KatrinaSeptember 13, 2023
Wally, You are on my favorite authors! I ALWAYS learn SO much from you. Thank you for this beautiful article. Thank you for detailing the deep meaning of a covenant relationship with Deity so beautifully. You are truly wonderful.
DoreenSeptember 13, 2023
Thank you for sharing these inspiring comments.
MicheleSeptember 13, 2023
I look forward to every episode about this courageous dog! So glad he made it home in this one. Thank you for sharing his amazing story.
Edna A Zurcher MaySeptember 13, 2023
Thank Thee Lord for the faith & courage that many showed in this beautiful story! Thank Thee for Thy guidence, for the privilege to recently meet Josh & his family & for the privilege of participating on the filming of his story.
Ben JonesSeptember 12, 2023
Alan Turing said that if. you could communicate with a computer for an extended period and not be able to tell you weren't talking to a human, artificial intelligence would have been achieved. I don't believe that mainly because computers are programmed by humans and those humans try really hard to make the computer seem human. Any good author can create characters that seem more real than the real people we know.
Karen HeathSeptember 12, 2023
If we do not teach our children and grandchildren to think and reason AND recognize the voice of the Spirit in helping them distinguish between good and evils, true and false, then this could well lead to Harari‘s conclusion. How important it will be for us as well as future generations to understand the power of God in our lives! Perhaps this is part of the reason President Nelson has been emphasizing how to “hear Him”. To emphasize our ability not to be deceived by what AI may try to tell us in the future.
Mark MathesonSeptember 12, 2023
What a BEE-utah-ful story! Thank you for all the service you have given all over this Earth.
LyndaSeptember 12, 2023
Thank you for this article. I have been feeling lately that I am a religious person, but questioning if I am a righteous person. I love the perspective of religion vs relationship and considering that must have been what I have been feeling. I am for certain going to improve all my checklist daily practices with this new mindset.
JulieSeptember 11, 2023
Elder Russell M. Nelson, in the February 2003 Ensign, said, "While divine love can be called perfect, infinite, enduring, and universal, it cannot correctly be characterized as unconditional." I learned a lot from studying his article. I had originally thought God's love was unconditional, but there are many scriptures that he quotes that say otherwise.
Jennifer SchowSeptember 11, 2023
As always, I appreciate your insights and testimony. An in-depth reading of The Book of Mormon, combined with a desire to learn and build faith, leaves no doubt that Joseph Smith was not the author. I look forward to reading some of the other books and resources you have shared.
MLarsonSeptember 11, 2023
Great Article! Just a thought to further document this and provice evidence for this view comes pretty strongly from the Book of Mormon. In it we find multiple examples of teachers that promote life without consequence for action. Alma 18:5, 30:17 Are two examples of a teaching that there is no sin. In Helaman 14:30-31, consequences are clearly taught as an element of of Agency. Consequences are essential to agency. Alma 1:4, 21:6, 2N. 28:8, Alma 11:34-37, Helaman 5:10, All taught saved IN sin. This idea of being saved without reference to works is a dangerous concept.
Julie MckinneySeptember 11, 2023
Thank you so much for this special opportunity to read about our dear prophet, President Nelson. You did a beautiful job of research on him and his special talks to lift, inspire and lead us onto the path to home in heaven. I enjoyed this very much and feel the spirit with me strongly. Thank you Happy Birthday President Nelson and May the Lord continue His blessings upon you.
James ScottSeptember 11, 2023
Thanx for the heads up on Book of Mormon proofs.I especially liked the Midgley anecdote. Often the oppositional characters make chargesnot against the doctrinal revelations of the Book of Mormon but the characteristics of those presenting it . The charges of errant activities of today’s leaders,be they teachers or bishops when they sin and their sins become public it casts aspersions upon the whole including the Book.
James Stuart BrownSeptember 11, 2023
President Nelson has kept open the channels of communication with Heaven since childhood. His insights and discoveries as a physician revolutionized the field of cardiothoracic surgery and heeding the words of our Savior through him can have even more impact on the world. God knew whom He could trust him to speak His words and we are blessed by having him as our Prophet, Seer, and Revelator. Come Follow Me and being less contentious have blessed me and my family. There is more to follow.
JillSeptember 11, 2023
I'm so glad this wonderful apostle of The Lord is home from the hospital He has endured much pain in all respects. I hope he recuperates unhurriedly, but I look forward to hearing from him when he can. I love President Holland, his direct teachings, and his gentle empathy! I have prayed continually for him. I hope he has the best care possible over the coming days and bless all those who have the blessing of serving him at this time.
Aileen HamptonSeptember 10, 2023
How edifying this article is! And yet I knew before reading that God is in control and can oversee the direction that AI takes, that we each can discern truth through the Holy Ghost, and that it is not in God's plan for AI to overtake and control humankind. We, as humans, have ways to know the things we need to know by connecting with God, our Heavenly Father.
Michael ColemanSeptember 9, 2023
God’s love for his children is unconditional however he does not always approve of what we do or bless us unconditionally.
DianaSeptember 9, 2023
How positive and uplifting! I appreciate the deep thinking that fostered this commentary and forces us to reread it several times to grasp its hopeful message.
KathleenSeptember 8, 2023
I'm so glad that what goes around for you, comes around 'sometimes'. You are some of the most giving people I've ever watched. Although I reluctantly use the phrase, "you deserve this" tender mercy, I'm so glad that the Lord chose to bless you with what was needed.
kcSeptember 8, 2023
The belief AI somehow will control the world and each individual in it is well founded to the extent those who provide our goods and services and governments fully adopt it. However, the actual downward spiral of society and regular natural disasters cause disruption of goods and services which includes electricity and internet. Once we are "unplugged" by choice or circumstance, there is no AI for us. Sure the whole world will not be unplugged at the same time but it will be an eye opener while we are lucky enough to "endure" it. Our self-sufficiency and willingness to follow the prophet--and KNOW we are not following a fake through the Spirit is key to enduring well.
Nerita Flake PetersonSeptember 8, 2023
Wonderful, intuitive and encouraging. Thanks so much for your thoughtful and encouraging article.
GTOSeptember 8, 2023
I would add that this discussion or future discussions could turn financial. There's a red flag in the daughter-in-law's anger that money went to lawyer's fees and not to her. This is an added wrinkle that could cause all sorts of problems in addition to those on an emotional level. Maybe decide ahead of time what you would be willing to do financially moving forward.
Bob SpielSeptember 7, 2023
Love these ideas. Years ago an inspired institute teacher taught me to 1) read slowly, 2) ask questions and 3) keep a journal of what I was asking and learning. Those three simple steps changed everything in the scriptures. They suddenly came alive and the greatest thing was the spirit then became the teacher — of even things that weren’t on the page. Thank you for these great examples of these skills.
Wally GoddardSeptember 7, 2023
Beautiful writing and lovely insight! Thank you, Mariah!
KathleenSeptember 6, 2023
Many truths
WeezieSeptember 6, 2023
Oh man! I needed this article 25 years ago! So good! I have been in those moments so many times like you were when your husband told you he was going on a fun trip. Such different lives. But it all changed. Like now for me the kids are all in school and I can do whatever I want, even though I don’t do many fun things because of habit. I’m curious if your husband didn’t go on the trip because he saw your face when he told you. ;)
CSeptember 6, 2023
Thank you so much for this! This hits too close to home for me. I will try to keep this perspective from now on.
Valiant K. JonesSeptember 5, 2023
Thank you for spreading a deeper understanding of this important temple covenant, the Law of the Gospel. I like the way you have shown the need to use this law as a long-term transformation process rather than just a one-time event. Your link to the first and second great commandments is also insightful.
Jake MartinSeptember 4, 2023
Also, none of these were "jewish" laws!!!! The word of God was the laws of the HEBREW people, later the laws of Israel.
HelenCSeptember 4, 2023
Thank you (again!) for your willingness to share inspiring stores. As I continue to strive to coach those who grieve I have found myself worrying about the continued lack of paying clients. I am newly committed to helping all who ask, whether they “sign up here” or not.
Mark DonaldsonAugust 30, 2023
The thoughts found in this WHO document may appear to be obvious and open and thus, not be characterized as a secret combination. However, there is no explanation as to the 'INTENT' of those who published this document. Therefore, in my opinion, this is very much a secret combination. Secret combinations don't have to materialize immediately such as a chief judge being murdered on the judgement seat. A secret combination can be incited and carried out over many years. Thus, this secret combination in it's 'INTENT' would appear to desensitize and break down even the most alarmed among us...over a number of years. How the 'Woke' line of thinking will effect the United States and the world at large may not be seen today or tomorrow. But, 10 years from now we may realize that the 'INTENT' was the secret combination all along and has brought nothing but moral destruction.
BeatriceAugust 30, 2023
I feel the title of this article is very misleading. The WHO in my opinion, is a corrupt entity. And yes! Their ‘instruction’ is perfect for groomers!
TomAugust 29, 2023
Transcript for those who are deaf?
Bonnie HoltAugust 29, 2023
This is the most poignant beautiful prose--poetry--hymn of the heart I have ever read! So many of us are losing children to the world! I have been in the depts of grief over one child who has absolutely cut our entire family off--from grandchildren and cousins who we love with all our heart. None of us has heard anything from them for the last two years as we've agonized--how did this happen, what did we do wrong? With no contact it is as though they are dead! From your Hymn, I relate so completely to this honest poignant line from your hymn "I ask myself, was that it? Was that the moment I failed her?" And so my husband and I ask, was it this thing? Or that time, or another moment we can't even remember? We have the promise and have felt the peace from prayer that all will be right one day and pray that she will come to herself and "forgive!" We love the Lord with all our heart and thank Him for His amazing atonement daily, when again and again the waves of grief come.Thank you for this lovely reminder of His promise and grace! May He bless you for sharing your wonderful talent! You have a gift and I want to hear more from you!!!!!
Robert StarlingAugust 29, 2023
Well said, Brother Wallace! Your article, combined with Dan Peterson's "Fearfully and Wonderfully Made", gives us a faith-filled and delightful perspective on our Heavenly Father's amazing creation. It is indeed a "marvelous work and a wonder".
Robert StarlingAugust 29, 2023
Perhaps it is unusual to comment on my own article, but as I read it here online, it occured to me that the Oliver Wendell Holmes quote contains an interesting word play: He wrote: "we should be eternally vigilant against attempts to -check- the expression of opinions that we loathe". His usage of "check" means "stop", as when a hockey player "checks" another player by blocking his path. We should not do that, but we should indeed fact-check not only "opinions that we loathe", but especially our own opinions as well.
Tanya NeiderAugust 29, 2023
Absolutely stunning and serene!
Anne WilkinsonAugust 28, 2023
Even though everyone needs to be local is it possible to use different accents - it is so nice to hear an English accent and others might feel the same about their accents
tfAugust 28, 2023
Do we have a publication date yet for the new Hymnbook?
Donna Nelson TalbotAugust 28, 2023
The Kent, the Thomas and the Luce familes are my husband's mother's people. She comes through Martin Washburn Thomas who was the son of Nathaniel Thomas and Susan Luce Thomas.. Nathaniel sold his farm and paid for wagons and supplies for several of the Saints so that they could come to ZION. They buried a daughter in New York while traveling through. Another daughter died in Nauvoo. Then Nathaniel died in Nauvoo ,nine days after the Prophet Joseph Smith was killed by a mob. His wife was expecting her last child when Nathaniel died and the baby girl died also. So, she buried her last baby girl ,along with her husband and the girl who died earlier, in the old Nauvoo Cemetery and took her two remaining boys to Utah with her. Martin Washburn Thomas was one of those two boys.
Lorne FersterAugust 27, 2023
The Gospel according to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints lets us know what is expected for us to be able achieve Celestial Glory as the Lord would want us to. I remember thinking to myself one day many moons ago: " The Gospel does not tell me how to do it." Then it occurred to me:" How blessed I am to have been involved with the "Addiction Recovery Program" for it provides step by step instructions and information to achieve the Humility required to please the Lord to a greater degree and of course this is a life long Program, not just for a specific problem or weakness for we all have many. Unfortunately "natural man" has many weaknesses and usually is reluctant to face them honestly so the Program is not as fully utilized as it could be. I would like to suggest that as many individuals that would attend the Recovery Program and gain the understanding it provides, the Saints would have a deeper understanding of the Gospel and it's Principles which would unify them to a greater degree because of a bigger understanding. At least, this makes sense to me. But it takes courage for people to face the truth about themselves and their weaknesses, hence not many take up the Program. The word Addiction also scares a lot of people. Also, it is important to realise that people are at various levels of understanding at any given time and we need to be prepared to love and forgive each other unitedly. Thanks for the opportunity to comment.
Corey D.August 26, 2023
That whole scenario probably describes more marriages than you think. My personal belief is that commitment is more important than love. But having said that, this situation and the words she uses sounds like an affair waiting to happen.
Teri N.August 26, 2023
I see this page hasn't been updated. The last CFM lesson is #24, but we are now beginning #33 (Aug 24). Are you going to update this page any longer? I love following along so that I can snag quotes from the podcast. I miss that.
Sue AndrewsAugust 26, 2023
I feel so sorry for her husband. His feelings should matter as much as hers. I wonder if he even realizes that she doesn’t love him?
Alex BarclayAugust 26, 2023
A comprehensive review of this incident. It did indeed "confirm and even inflame the murderous determination of the enemies of Jesus." Not content with merely determining to kill Jesus, they even decided to kill Lazarus as well in order to do away with the undeniable evidence of this, arguably the mightiest of Jesus' miracles. Such sheer wickedness is breathtaking.
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 26, 2023
Outstanding! Thank you for sharing the incredible lessons you learned. Well done.
Robert BaileyAugust 25, 2023
What a beautiful story and testimony! Your hard experiences are a witness that Heavenly Father iknows the end from the beginning and all things work together for those who love the Lord. Thank you so much for sharing your odyssey.
Bob KernsAugust 24, 2023
I love the painting of the Savior in the Celestial Room. Almost as if He's saying "Welcome Home".
JeanAugust 23, 2023
Beautifully written article. Just yesterday I was visiting with my neighbors and their adult daughter. The daughter asked me what I thought of the upcoming political debate that evening and I tried to be as non committal as possible. I so want to be informed on the things I need to know but without the contention that goes with so many issues. Thank you for publishing Meridian Magazine and helping me stay informed. By the way, my neighbors are top notch people.
Dean FisherAugust 23, 2023
In 1972 or 73 a then-junior apostle Thomas S. Monson visited our mission in central Germany. Afterward, he was to visit Turkey to speak with officials about official recognition for the church - a daunting assignment in that muslim country. He told us he was "concerned, but not worried."
Paul HAugust 23, 2023
I am going to suggest the Lord has given us the answer to being unified and unfortunately His answer is often diluted by taking it out of context by only reading one verse. In Doctrine & Covenants, Section 38, we often hear that if we are not "one" we are not the Lo0rd's. We interpret that as needing to be the same, thinking the same, having the same culture, politics, education, spiritual understanding, etc. The real lesson is given starting in verse 24, then it is re-stated by the Lord again! He explains that He has given us a parable (contained in the next few verses) so we may undferstand the principle he is teaching. It is not very similar to what social scientists and those who are popular say about the subject. It's very easy and to the point and if we read and incorporate the parable into our lives, divisiness will evaporate. Thanks for this article. It caused me to reflect on Section 38, which when taken in context, I find to be very instrumental in addressing the topic.
Jacob CrapoAugust 23, 2023
D H: Exactly right. Building temples brings an incredible opportunity for the construction workers in an area. I remember on worker on the Dallas temple (if I remember that right) who was a Baptist and said that the temple was his Masterpiece, the project he is most proud of. I think one thing that we can’t forget is the potential to change lives. A man I taught on my mission once said “The Freemasons make good men great but the Mormons make good men Saints.” That happens lately in the temple, and those Saints make promises to live better lives and build a better world.
Heber FrankAugust 23, 2023
Excellent,. However, to be more accurate about the last point made, consider this: : “...to whom I have committed the keys of the ***RECORD*** of the stick of Ephraim;” --D&C 27:5 The Book of Mormon is NOT the Stick of Ephraim according to this verse. It is the RECORD of the stick of Ephraim. So the stick is Ephraim and those tribes that went with Ephraim at the time of the division. Likewise, the stick of Judah is the tribes of Judah and Benjamin and many of Levi,. And the Bible is the RECORD of the stick of Judah. The prophecy in Ezekiel 37:15-22 is talking about the unification of the tribes again. But when the tribes are united the sacred RECORDS they kept will also be united. So the unification of the Book of Mormon and the Bible is implicated in this prophecy just as Mormons have been saying.
ChrisAugust 23, 2023
Awesome article! We were told the same thing in a presentation at church on suicide and suicide prevention. And yet, all the group discussion was about our youth. Most people don't know these statistics or don't believe them. Men are under attack in our country, and are portrayed in media as idiots or as unfeeling oppressors. I believe a small part of the answer is the availability of small men's groups who meet on a regular basis in which they can discuss both spiritual/gospel topics and just share what's going on in their lives. We have a group like that meeting once a month in our LDS ward..."Battle For Your Heart Men's Discussion Group. Also, weekend retreats such as Warrior Heart Boot Camp, and others are amazing opportunities for men to bond, to learn, and to get very real about their lives and their stories. Promisekeepers is also a great Christian resource for men... It's great that there are so many programs, etc., which support women (and there should be) such as "Time Out For Women" or BYU Women's Conference in the LDS community, and others elsewhere, but so very little for men. Once again, thank you for a very needed article.
Karen L.August 23, 2023
AMEN. Thank you so much for this article. I have been saying it for years, there is an on-going war on men to devalue them in society. We women, mothers, wives, sisters, etc better start speaking out and standing up for the men of this generation. I have five boys and I fear for them and their futures. This world is out to destroy them and enough is enough. We must have courage and make right for all of God's children, not just the ones that suit our political narrative.
CarnenAugust 22, 2023
I feel that most of the comments miss the point. Barbie is a child's world. Seeing yourself as beautiful with pretty clothes, dates to all parties, with a beautiful place to live, surrounded by other little girls. The ending is little girls choosing the real world, with all that includes, the good and bad. Mature body, sexuality, real challenges. While the opening was disturbing if you did not realize it was partially black humor, it reflected a real choice most girls want, to focus for a time on her own wants and needs, not the future role responsibilities of adulthood. We never criticize young men for playing soldier or astronaut. Why do we limit young girls in their trying on their dreams by playwriting them? Why would we insist little girls must playback motherhood but not insist little boys playback the responsibilities of fatherhood?
Shantil M RandolphAugust 22, 2023
It sounds like you had a very special mother as I was blessed to have. I, too, lost my mother. She passed in 2020 from an aggressive cancer. Her influence has been real and palpable in her touch at one time, her words to me when my dad remarried, and in a dream that helped me tremendously. Angels are all around if we are worthy to feel them near.
Tamra DodgeAugust 22, 2023
The opening scene was disturbing. Little girls portraying mothers, are suddenly dissatisfied after seeing ‘the perfect woman’ … then smash and destroy their baby dolls. That was dark, and uncalled for. The opening scene in BarbieLand was every little girls imagination come to life. Remember, these are dolls. After we left the theater, I asked my husband how he would have changed the storyline. How do you write a storyline for toys, that holds interest, involves characters, has a goal to accomplish, while staying true to the subject? The problem was that Mattel didn’t integrate their toys to portray a family. They were sold separately. It was up to each child to turn them into families… We played dating; friends; weddings and babies arriving. That, was what we knew to be real in life. This storyline was confusing, and disturbing. I didn’t like that the Kens were not important to the Barbies, or that the Barbies were so in love with being perfect. The ‘Ugly Barbie’ seemed to be the problem solver, perhaps because she’s been through a ‘non-perfect experience’ at the hands of her Child owner. In the Toy Story series, some toys are abused and forgotten. The human element in the Barbie movie were sad, bumbling depictions of people. Over-the-top in portraying real life. That was obviously a fantasy within the fantasy. The expectation from the public was high! People dressed up as Barbies to attend. What a let-down. Overall, I wouldn’t take a child to see this movie. It could have been so much better. More like how we actually played with these toys, and had a happy ending, that didn’t conclude with a gynecologist.
DeidreAugust 21, 2023
I think you are seriously lacking a sense of humor. I loved this movie. Unfortunately, the empowered Ken's reminded me of every bad date I ever had in an LDS Singles Ward. Kens, wanting women content to spend hours just sitting there admiring them. Ever been invited to go on a date that turns out to be a man playing video games for hours while he wants you to watch him? Or a man inviting you to sit around the ward building alone for three hours so you can be in the audience while he gives a talk? And he dumped you three months ago without a word after dating for seven months. But Mr. Narcissist still wants you to fulfill your assigned role of admirer and audience member. The Kens, once they see themselves as being in charge. The director nailed it. I highly recommend this movie.
Linda HawkeAugust 21, 2023
I agree this is not a movie for young children. I took my 16 year old granddaughter to see it, though, and she understood just fine. The story I got from it was that neither the "girls' night every night" Barbie nor "mojo dojo casa house" Ken was good, but that they would learn to integrate - share - compromise, whatever. I found it to be an amusing timeline caricature of attitudes, a funny and enjoyable movie for teens and adults. Sure we can and should discuss the ideas and portrayals, but we don't need to turn every movie into a deep dark depressing psychological drama with hidden motives. Ah, maybe I'm just tired.
RLRAugust 21, 2023
This is all true about the Atonement as far as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints teaches. However, on the Church's own website, under "murder", one of the scriptures is: He that kills shall not have forgiveness, D&C 42:18. So as the above comment asks, how does that fit? I was always taught in seminary and in the temple that the two sins that could not be reconciled/forgiven were: denial of the Holy Ghost, and murder. Please explain, as I would like to understand.
JuliannAugust 21, 2023
Parenting, the only real way to know God. Thank you to all the commentators for your honesty. Thank you to the author who voiced our regrets, our repentance and our restitution. Thank you Jesus for saving us from ourselves. Thank you for the healing you have brought to my kids. And thank you for making me a much better grandparent .
HelenCAugust 21, 2023
In other words, we need to trust ourselves and our God more.
Jenny Madsen SvendsenAugust 21, 2023
Thank yuou for your very insightful article about the Barbie movie, and examples of what happens in the movie. I live on an island in British Columbia, Canada, our 99 person Movie Theatre owner just posted that the tickets are sold out an hour before show time. He also posted, thank goodness, that they are in the proccess of getting the digital verison of Sound of Freedom, that is a movie I've seen, and will tell all my friends about it.
Susan RoylanceAugust 21, 2023
Thank you Nicholeen for alerting parents to the problems of this movie, and the negative impact it can have on the girls of today. Negative presentations of girls as mothers is very dangerous, and is contributing to the seriously reduced attitude toward motherhood. We need more women like you to stand up and speak out about the value of marriage a d motherhood.
Adela MusgraveAugust 21, 2023
I am happy to have read this article. I completely agree with the author. My 28 year old grand daughter saw the movie, and thought the movie had a great message for women, that the modern woman is expected to work full time, have children, run a home, etc, instead of being her own self and pursuing her dreams and not being enslaved by marriage and motherhood.
MaryannAugust 21, 2023
Wow! I didn't see the Barbie movie, so I had no idea about the contents. My children are grown, so I certainly was not taking them to this movie. Thank you for shedding a light on the false and dangerous concepts portrayed in this film. I certainly hope moms with young children will heed your warnings.
Judy PetersonAugust 21, 2023
This definitely is not how I saw the Barbie movie,, but then I didn’t think it was for kids. To me it was a very strong message of one of the unfortunate impact of the Barbie doll and what it has done to our culture. It painted a very negative view of feminism, and the fact that the feminism that has been so influential in our culture, has been destructive in many ways to both men and women. I got the message that fundamentally the family is the source of true happiness, and everything else that had gone on in the movie was a sham and a poor imitation. Maybe we see what we want to see? One thing, I will definitely agree with — this is not a movie for children! And with that agreement, it is apparently a movie for discussion in our families, if any of us choose to see it. I’m glad I did. Greta Gehrwig is not a shallow movie maker. Maybe we mothers could be better informed.
Ben JonesAugust 21, 2023
CS Lewis once said that arguing about whether faith or works is more important is like arguing about which half of a pair of scissors does the cutting.
Mark W MinerAugust 20, 2023
So powerful! More poetry than prose, a soul-song that captures so well my own inadequacies, which are more than matched by our Savior's redeeming grace and love. Truly with Him, all is well!
Sally SmithAugust 20, 2023
After I felt that regret for so long and I repented and apologized, I finally said I have done all I can do it is now up to them.
CarolynnAugust 20, 2023
Oh my goodness! This was raw and moving and vulnerable and poetic. Absolutely beautiful. Thank you!
Ellie GoodareAugust 20, 2023
I just read this to my family, and I could barely read the words for the power of them. Kimberley, thank you for bringing such sacred feelings to the surface. What a gift you have.
Jane NelsonAugust 20, 2023
I keep coming back to this poem that reaches the deepest places in my heart and offers healing. Thank you so much for articulating what so many of us are feeling and for sharing it with us. What a beautiful talent you have.
Pam BlairAugust 19, 2023
This was about ME. That is until I got to the last verse about the Savior and forgiveness for my long-held shame at the myriad mistakes that caused damage to my children. - damage that has lingered into their adult lives. Until now - over 70 years later - am I able to realize that the atonement covers EVEN THIS!
Rosalie Erekson StoneAugust 19, 2023
When my husband and I saw the magnificent carved woodwork in the temple in Cochabamba, Bolivia, my first thoughts were similar to those you described when you wrote, "the temples of the Church may well be the most beautiful buildings [the local members] are ever permitted to enter—and, yes, a harbinger of the blessings awaiting the faithful in the world to come."
PaulineAugust 19, 2023
Amazing grace! How can God patiently work with all of us? It’s incomprehensible. Only He knows the personal investment He has in each of us. We only need to listen to the Spirit fir we are saved by grace after all we can do. So well spoken sister!!!!!
Kerry HarperAugust 19, 2023
Great story, but the dog in the picture has a long tail. He sure is scroungy looking though.
JulieAugust 19, 2023
I can’t remember if it was Alma the Younger or Paul that made me realize this—the joy of the atonement is not just that we can be forgiven ourselves, but that all the damage we did and the hurt we caused can be healed through that same power, by that same person. What relief!
KayeAugust 18, 2023
SO BEAUTIFUL!!! WOW!!! The despair, the regret, the poignant sadness of our failures all covered by the hope, the redemption, and the love of our Savior. As a Mother, I really LOVED this hymn!! Thank you for sharing!❤️
GJJAugust 18, 2023
Tears are flowing as I read this. How many times I have beat myself up for not being the Mother I wanted to be? I am now almost 87 years old and finally allowing myself to be Forgiven and accepting the Mercy he offers. Thank you for this beautiful offering
SharonAugust 18, 2023
My tears are making it so hard to read! Yes! All of this! Yes! Thank you so much for helping me to see “ the Hand reaching out.” Thank you!
Gloria JohnsonAugust 18, 2023
Oh my did you ever hit the nail on the head. Thank you for this penetrating and poignant piece. Tears of regret, tears of joy, tears of gratitude. You said it all.
CathyAugust 18, 2023
Thank you
Bill WrigleyAugust 18, 2023
Brilliant. We need more from this woman!
HelenCAugust 18, 2023
Perfect! Thank you.
MaryannAugust 18, 2023
I agree that a desire to serve with love and commitment to our Savior is the highest form of "works." However, this article is a little bit too "all or nothing." Sometimes people approach an opportunity to serve with what might be called a bad attitude. BUT, after they become involved their hearts are softened and they begin to feel that love. We have often heard the phrase: "If you want to learn to love someone, serve them." This is a great example of the love coming AFTER service rendered. Regarding the example in this article of the woman who complained about serving at a wedding: Instead of assuming that her faith is dead, why didn't someone put their arm around her and say something like this--"It sounds like you are feeling stressed out and overburdened. I am so sorry. Is there something I can do to help?" It should also be remembered that just showing up can be a step in the right direction. We need to be very cautious about judging the quality of someone else's faith. I am grateful that the Lord's plan allows for us to develop faith in different ways. It doesn't really matter whether the faith, or love, or the works come first. What matters is that we continue to grow in love for Him and for His children.
CarolineAugust 18, 2023
My husband retired five years ago and is not really interested in doing anything but yard work. But I like to be out of the house and doing something. I started taking pottery, which I love! I joined a book club. I also started volunteering for a local food pantry, and after a few months, he started going with me too. I'd advise you to find what you love to do or have always wanted to do, and just do it! (I also told him I'd buy him stuff he could make for lunch, but I wasn't going to be cooking or serving another meal post-retirement!)
Kerry FarrAugust 18, 2023
My feelings put into words. Beautiful, true, poetic words. Thank you❤️
BarbaraAugust 18, 2023
Thank you. Thank you. How often we forget the greatness of that atonement for all of our inadequacies. So beautifully expressed.
Steve DoneganAugust 18, 2023
What a powerful message. I sit here in tears knowing I am no longer alone in the hurt I caused my children. You’ve moved my heart. I thank you…
Anna FeatherstoneAugust 18, 2023
Thank you, you have touched my truth. I have tears....
Judy PetersonAugust 17, 2023
I once asked my mother why she never bore her testimony. I knew she had one--a very strong one, which she lived. Her reply? "Because I know I'll cry, and I don't want anyone to see me cry." She also stoically endured life's inevitable pain because she didn't want to expose her emotions. What a shame! I admit I kind of shudder when speakers apologize for crying--or almost crying! It seems to be a deep imprint in our culture. Hurrah for this article! Thank you!
David InnesAugust 17, 2023
My wife was a very kind person. Her favorite expression was quote attributed to Ralph Waldo Emerson which said, “ You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.
MaryannAugust 17, 2023
If you can afford it, make arrangements to stay somewhere else nearby. OR--it really is ok just to shorten your trip. Obviously you want to be there for the wedding, but you don't have to stay for the entire trip.
Rochelle HaleAugust 16, 2023
Often, in the examples you have given, we don’t exercise our faith beforehand. I take my turn to clean the church, hoping I wipe away all of the call dust or clean the fingerprints off the windows. I don’t think I ever hoped for faith to fulfill that assignment, but I usually pause while I’m in the building and hope the Lord is pleased with my efforts. I don’t recall exercising faith to prepare a meal for someone, only that I have ingredients on hand and can help with whatever is needed. Many decades ago as a young woman I was taught to make certain decisions ahead of time. That is the nature of faith as well. As we constantly build our reserves, then we can “work” in some situations without having to again ponder our abilities or intentions. We just go and do.
KeithAugust 16, 2023
Not so fast....please read https://rsc.byu.edu/joseph-smith-prophet-man/joseph-smith-translator
KeithAugust 16, 2023
I really like Skousen's work on the JSP, but when it comes to how he depicts the translation process, I am skeptical. It dismisses Joseph and Olivers own testimony about with the Urim and Thummim and raises the teleprompter in the hat to the forefront. I believe Josrph and Oliver
KathleenAugust 16, 2023
The audio does not come in this week. We have the transcript but hitting the arrow with a green line through it to start the podcast, does nothing. There is a message that says the audio is playing, but it's not.
Merlyn de la MelenaAugust 16, 2023
Excellent article and so easy to apply to our every day lives!!!
PatAugust 16, 2023
What delightful insights to a 'true story'. I have seldom noticed stories about faith and works and this is one I will surely share with others. Understanding comes with faith so maybe this one will be effective. Hmmm! Thank you very much.
craigAugust 16, 2023
Couldn't agree more. A lot of people don't realize that faith without works is dead , and works without faith is dead as well
Arlene WelkerAugust 16, 2023
Super sweet, feel good story. Thank you for sharing it. That dog saved her life! That's no little thing.
KalEl Anakin SkywalkerAugust 16, 2023
Thank you for that True Grace Empowered article. Faith anciently meant - allegiance, commitment, confidence, dedication, devotion, discipleship, faithfulness, fidelity, follower, loyalty. obedience, trust and in the scriptural context it was meant to be to the person and work of Christ Jesus on our behalf. True if one is doing all these works not for Christ Jesus they are empty, null, void. Even in one of the protestant father of the reformation, Martin Luther's writing's he basically said the same as you did. Thank you again. The Atonement, It Is The Central Doctrine, In His Eternal Debt/Grace, Accessing His Grace By Faith, Washing My Garment In His Blood, He Died To Make Man Holy, Its Not Just 6 Words To A Song, They Have Eternal Meaning, Salvation Comes In And Through His Atoning, Blood An In No Other Way.
Kal El Anakin SkywalkerAugust 16, 2023
Thank you for that True Grace Empowered Article. Faith in Greek is pistis which meant Anciently - Allegiance, Commitment, Confidence, Dedication, Devotion, Discipleship, Faithfulness, Fidelity, Follower, Loyalty, Obedience. Trust and in the scriptural context it is to the person and work of Christ Jesus on our behalf. Anciently Faith was a covenant word of action like in a marriage. So, you are 100% correct that if you are not doing these works of Faith for Christ Jesus, they are empty, null, void in his eyes. I have even read that even the Father of the protestant Reformation Martin Luther in one of his writings stated that same as you did. Thank you once again. The Atonement, It Is The Central Doctrine, In His Eternal Debt/Grace, Accessing His Grace By Faith, Washing My Garment In His Blood, He Died To Make Man Holy, Its Not Just 6 Words To A Song They Have Eternal Meaning, Salvation Comes In And Through His Atoning Blood And In No Other Way. Amen, Amen, Amen.
BettyAugust 16, 2023
I hope it does continue. I have been disappointed when I can’t find the rest of the story in future days…love hearing about Bob.
MichaelAugust 15, 2023
What are ways that FamilySearch / Family Tree accounts can be accessed or transferred when a family member passes on? Is there a chance that a lifetime of valuable research could unintentionally find its way to computer outer darkness?
Virginia RockwellAugust 15, 2023
What a beautiful article. Thank you.
Marsha NewmanAugust 15, 2023
Thanks for sharing this essay on “Grace”! I have many friends of other faiths who have a narrow understanding of the meaning of the word. In actuality, our church with emphasis on salvation for the dead is perhaps most “gracious “ of all. We understand that the Atonement is for every soul who has ever lived on this earth- a gift of supreme Grace by a supreme Creator!
KatrinaAugust 14, 2023
As always, you delivered another exceptional article. I love your articles. Thanks for your wisdom, honesty, and inspiring stories.
ShaunaAugust 14, 2023
Thank you so much. I thoroughly enjoyed your thoughts and focus. And I appreciate the admonition to reflect more intently and personally, about the role of a temples in our lives, if we are getting a new one. I am in that situation. I have attended the workhorse temple, Jordan River, for years now. And have come to love it. But when the Taylorsville temple is dedicated it will be my new temple. I think we'll focus on your message for FHE tonight to motivate us and get us in the right mind set of gratitude for a new temple
Claudia Henderson SmithAugust 14, 2023
Great article, Mariah. I feel the same way about our new Richmond temple where my husband and I work every Wednesday evening. I loved this - Temples are indeed the intersections where heaven and earth meet and where the Lord can dwell with us.
Richard EyreAugust 13, 2023
I love Maurine for this great article and for the dialogue it is starting right here. These are marvelous comments and I hope they keep on coming! The book suggests that just reading its essays will not be much of a solution. But discussing the essays with others, and examining ourselves and opening up to friends and associates will begin to move us toward the kind of unity that we want (and that the Lord wants.) If you liked Maurine's article here in Meridian as much as I did, just wait until you read her longer essay in the book! And then wait until you read the other 13 essays! The amazing (guided) thing is that each essayist brought such a unique and different slant on this subject of unity and diversity, and helped me to realize that no one writer has enough perspective to write a book on unity--but perhaps fourteen writers do!
Lynette MillsAugust 13, 2023
This will be an ever more important topic as we get closer to the second coming I think. I look forward to reading and learning more about how to become more focused on Unity.
Corey D.August 13, 2023
I have a son who came home early from his mission, he no longer goes to church, in fact most I know at least in my ward and stake who came home early are not active in the church, it would be interesting and helpful to know more about the young man you mention in your story and more in depth of his story to remain faithful.
Corey D.August 13, 2023
I had a co-worker some years ago had serious OCD, at that time those things were just starting to get recognized. His wife eventually left him and took the kids and ultimately it cost him his job. I wondered how he kept his home and someone told me they thought his family was paying his mortgage because they didn't want him back. He got in trouble with the law I heard, shoplifting or something like that which is fairly common with people like that. Here's the thing, he didn't think he had a problem. I have a younger brother, he just turned 60, he's been in and out of jail/prison most of his adult life, substance abuse has been a big part of that but he also has ADHD/ADD but refuses to admit he has a problem, will not take medication and will not go to any substance abuse programs. You can't help people who don't want to be helped or won't recognize there is a problem.
BaldyAugust 12, 2023
2 Nephi 30:10 the time speedily cometh that the Lord will cause a great division among the people…one cannot compromise with or play nice with or give a nod and a wink to evil. It must simply be defeated.
Carol ButlerAugust 12, 2023
Rita, a partial answer to your question for me is that loving our enemies does not include submitting to their harmful actions. We can love and pray for our enemies without agreeing with them or even being near them. The key for me is staying close to the Spirit, or striving to do so. The Spirit can guide us in our individual circumstances and efforts to both love our enemies and protect ourselves and our family.
Rita winmillAugust 12, 2023
My question is this, why was Nephi commanded to leave his evil brothers, if loving our enemies is a law?
aussiebobAugust 11, 2023
what you have said here is so true.People including my own children do not really want the Church to be true for if it is then they have a need to change their habits and that is something they do not want to do. it is is not easy being a member but it is truly worth it.Keep loving them.
Kent BrooksbyAugust 11, 2023
Whenever I think of the Celestial Kingdom, I am reminded of C. S. Lewis' book The Great Divorce, in which he clearly describes those elements that will keep us out of God's presence. They are, simply, those things that divide us on earth; the little differences and irritations that we are not willing to part with, even for a life of greater joy. I look forward to reading the book.
Jen BiberstonAugust 11, 2023
This seems to fit right into what Dr. Miller was saying on the "Follow Him" podcast, that to love God, love your neighbor, and love your enemies is THE LAW. Love is the law, not the reward for our actions or achievements. We are not commanded to become lovable or worthy of love; we are already loved by God and are commanded to do the same with others. Through the lens of unity, if we stopped running around trying to be understood or agreeable (depending on our emotional wants) and focused on loving others regardless of their views, how much more unity would we have?
HelenCAugust 11, 2023
“. . neither were there Lamanites, nor any manner of -ites; but they were in one, the children of Christ, and heirs to the kingdom of God.“ 4 Nephi 1:17 I have often wondered how I might better remove the “ites” and “isms” from my life. It started when I chose to be a “female” rather than a “feminist” But it had to go broader and deeper than that. I have a long way to go and an well aware it took the physical arrival of the Savior for the ancients to get there.
Becca HowardAugust 11, 2023
What a timely article. Did you discuss technology? As much as we value our technical devices, using them can still cause problems. A relative texted me last night to try to clear up an earlier miscommunication, and texting, in my opinion, made the situation even worse. A phone call or in-person visit might have spared the miscommunication and more easily resolved the issue. I was on my way to the temple, and this bothered me for a good portion of the session until I could finally focus, pray to be calm, and pray to find answers in what was being taught.
KathleenAugust 11, 2023
How vast and varied have been your experiences. Thank you for sharing and turning them into modern day parables.
MaryannAugust 10, 2023
Thanks so much for continuing to post Darla's articles. I am sure she is continuing to teach and enlighten others in the Spirit World. I am especially thankful for her topic regarding change. Change has always been especially difficult for me, and I found some real gems in this article to help me more fully embrace whatever comes, and to learn to live with joy in changing circumstances.
erikpeterhansenAugust 10, 2023
Good article! We can think of other churches as partly true and a preparation to be saved or the first steps for some to be brought to the full truth. No matter what one's faith is, that person who follows the Light of Christ can be brought to maturity and receive the fullness of the Gospel in the Spirit World. Even Latter-Day Saints will need to be more mature and receive a full knowledge there. Joseph Smith said that a man cannot be saved faster than he receives knowledge. If there was no continued missionary work in the Spirit World we would have a very small family of people sealed to each other at the end of the Plan of Salvation. There would be limited joy not fullness of joy. And in the end the One True Church of Christ will be full of joy.
Paul SmithAugust 10, 2023
Consider three workers all engaged in roughly similar tasks. One might say, “I lay bricks.” Another doing the same job might say, “I am constructing a building.” And the third, likewise engaged in the same basic work, might say, “I am building a house of God.” The first describes a job; the second describes a career; the third describes a calling. All three work with bricks and mortar, but the third works with vision and even heavenly purpose as well. -Identify the larger, longer purpose of behaviors and choices. -Keep the big picture in mind for vision and motivation. -Do more than simply go through the motions. -Don’t give up too soon. Go the whole distance. I’ve been dearly needing to reconnect with my eye for eternity. I need the bigger picture, because the small picture is just too hard. If your husband would like to talk, feel free to reach out to me by email and we can connect. I give Scott & Maurine Proctor permission to share my email address with you. And if you’re in Utah, I have a group that I call the Guild of Striving Brothers, where we offer support to one another through these kinds of challenges.
Kandi GuffeyAugust 10, 2023
Wonderful insights and wonderful analogies to problems that everyone faces in life! Thank you, for sharing your wisdom, Sister Clayton.
LAWRENCE HIGGINSONAugust 10, 2023
Thank you Sister Clayton for your inspired thoughts.
Mary TarbetAugust 10, 2023
Thank you for standing for truth. We pray for you and your success continually!
ChrisAugust 9, 2023
As a life-long member of the church who struggled with the disease of addiction to pornography and unwanted sexual behaviors for some 50 years, and who is now serving with my wife as ARP missionaries leading a weekly couples group, I love your willingness to support and to love your husband, even in the midst of his struggles in continuing recovery. It is so important to understand that sobriety is not recovery. It's certainly an important part, but even though there are slips and maybe relapses (not the same thing) recovery can and will continue...if he chooses it. My wife and I share our story often both publicly and privately because there is great power in our stories...every person's story...and sharing them is what gives a 12 step meeting it's power and spirit. It's time to let go of the shame, the guilt, and the embarrassment and to get very open and very real about this addiction, which statistically is a problem for 70% of the men in all Christian churches, including ours. Maybe being in the temple, even when he may not feel worthy, is exactly what your husband needs! Repentance and change are necessary for each of us, and most recovering addicts understand that more than most people...in a very real way.
Boanerges RubalcavaAugust 9, 2023
The more people does not mean more problems, but more hands to produce. Production is the distinctive characteristic of the free market. The free Market in association with a kind of government like the one designed in the USA Constitution, and the use of FOSSIL FUELS, will bring enough food to feed not only the 8 billion people now, but many more billion in the future. Of course if we go against these three conditions, we will have more problems. We must try to bring down the pollution due to the combustion of fuels, but NEVER to ban them, since for sure CO2, no matter what those who want to starve the world and reduce its population IS NOT causing the awful problems attributed to the use of fossil fuels. The opposite is true, we need constantly CO2 to feed the world, but without the fossil fuels, millions will die due to hunger, and the few surviving will be very clean.
John R CarpenterAugust 9, 2023
Excellent article. Satan since the Grand Council in Heaven wanted to save everyone collectively so that none would be lost. When we choose the plan having Jesus as out Christ, Satan rebelled and we lost a third of the host of heaven. Anyone that says we need a collective salvation before any personal salvation denies the plan of God and that Jesus is the Christ and savior of Mankind. Those that deny this are Anti-Christs by following the collective salvation wanted by Satan. Imagine an earth run like the Star Trek Borg collective. "Resistance is futile." You will be collectively saved because we will force you. That would give you an idea want Satan wants for mankind. We do know from the scriptures this authoritarian collective approach is evil and we need to chose God over Evil. We really need to teach our youth about the alarmist myths, propaganda and the evil in the world.
JenniferAugust 8, 2023
Reply to @Author, thank you so much for your clarification and thoughtful response. That’s helpful to me in understanding the article better, to know you wrote under a pseudonym, and have your husband’s approval to share. I’m so grateful strong, faithful women such as yourself are sharing your stories and your journey in dealing with porn addiction in your family. These are things that were never talked about when I was a younger woman, so I’m very grateful things have changed. I have a few dear friends and family members who will benefit greatly from the wisdom you share, so I’ll be sharing your article with them. Much love and blessings to you and your family.
AuthorAugust 8, 2023
Reply to @Jennifer. I definitely agree that is should be kept private--or at least that the terms of disclosure should be his, not mine. This article is published under a pseudonym for just that reason. Sometimes these things need to be kept private though, and sometimes people need to be able to hear that someone else is experiencing this process too and they are not alone. If you keep too many things private for too long, you start to wither in isolation, not realizing that the person next to you in Church is struggling in exactly the same way. I discussed it with him and we felt comfortable sharing now as we had the two other times I've written here.
Not givenAugust 8, 2023
Thank you so very much for the article. I went to talk to my bishop about somethings and didn't feel worthy to go to the temple. During the course of our discussion the bishop has received inspiration from the Lord that I needed to be in the temple. So I have committed to go to the temple at least once a week. Sometimes I make it and sometimes I don't. I go without my wife because she doesn't have a recommend and won't or refuses to get one. So I really appreciate your thoughtful article. It's not always a male that can't or won't go to the temple.
DanAugust 8, 2023
There is another side to this. My wife was an alcoholic and I had to go to the temple alone. She would put a card in my temple bag promising to be worthy to go "next time". She died inebriated. I still have those cards in my bag, and when I go, I hope she is there, now that she is sober.
WithheldAugust 8, 2023
Thank you for this article of wonderful and insightful perspectives. I continue to feel those same feelings of occasional loneliness when I attend the temple alone. I waited 28 years to receive temple covenants and blessings because the idea of going alone was overwhelming for me. As I listened to, and followed powerful spiritual promptings to receive the blessings of the temple, I was reassured by the Spirit that feelings of loneliness would be tempered and I would instead, feel peace. This certainly has come to.pass. I am continually humbled by the love and peace I find in the temple. I too, feel that everything will one day work out for the good of my husband and I and our children. Heavenly Father wants us all to come home to Him, and I have a strong testimony of eternal progression for ALL. I also so appreciate the comments made to this article. You too, are wise and loving sisters in the Gospel. Thank you.
JenniferAugust 8, 2023
Thank you for sharing this important and beautiful message about temple attendance. As a single sister until I was in my 40’s, going to the temple alone was my norm. I’m now happily married to a wonderful man who is a member of another faith, so I still attend the temple alone. I also have the privilege of serving as a weekly temple worker, and there are many on my shift who attend the temple alone. . There are many in the church who are in your situation, and your example will help others, so thank you dear sister. Speaking with love as one older sister to a younger sister, I would ask you to consider not publicly sharing your husband’s reasons for not currently attending the temple, and not publicly sharing about his current struggles with a particular sin. I say this because I know for myself, it would be humiliating and debilitating to have my spouse publicly share my sins and my struggles. Repentance is a sacred, personal process and best managed within your marriage and with your Bishop. It’s for me to decide when and to whom I’ll confess my sins—not my spouse. I believe it would make it so much harder for me to feel the courage and strength to repent if he posted my personal struggles on the internet or shared them with our friends. I’m not advocating an unhealthy secrecy which can sometimes allow sin to continue, but I feel strongly we must always be wary of publicly sharing the sins of our loved ones. It is no one’s business as to why your husband isn’t attending the temple at this time, except the two of you and your Bishop. Bless you for attending anyway. Your family will be blessed through your continued attendance.
AnonymousAugust 8, 2023
This is such an important message for so many. I was also in a marriage where pornography was impacting temple attendance.... unknowingly. Number one, it is a great blessing that your husband is being honest and transparent - and his behavior indicates he truly is working recovery. That is beautiful to me, honestly! Number two: when I finally did learn enough to realize what was going on and how often I had likely missed going because I was waiting to go with my husband, I was very sad - because I love the temple. I made a firm resolve then that I would never again wait for anyone else to go to the temple. I would go as often as I wanted to, alone when that is how it worked out. That was one of the best decisions I ever made for myself and my children! And the truth is, I actually enjoy going "alone" as much as I do going with others, because I never actually feel alone and have had beautiful spiritual experiences, such as the one you describe in the article. And I can stay in the celestial room for as long as I want. I really do feel that I come away armed with literal power and greater light and peace for my life. I am a second witness of what was shared here - only I have 15 years of testimony as to how this will bless your life!!
HelenCAugust 8, 2023
Since my second husband left the Church before we married, 29 years ago, going to the Temple alone has been my only option. There have been times when he has expressed concern over the cost of the three-hour drive but generally he doesn’t mind. When I said I needed to go a week ago to the Medford, Oregon Temple because Portland was closed, he said it was better than having to sell our house to go as those who lived in South Africa, where he served his mission, had to. We don’t do it for them but they notice.
Anonymous Brother in CaliforniaAugust 8, 2023
It’s not just Sisters that have this experience. I waited several years before I went to the temple by myself. I had always taken my children for temple, baptisms, etc. But I had felt like I wanted to wait to do an endowment session until my then wife was ready to go. It was several years. When she left me, I started going. The things I learned were many, varied, and just what I needed. What strength of the temple gives to us!
SusanAugust 8, 2023
There are so many sisters, who feel reluctant to do Temple work by themselves. as you so beautifully pointed out, they and their families are missing much-needed blessings. I have a 54-year-old marriage and I’ve been attending the temple alone quite regularly for 53 of those years. My spouse will not say why he will not go to the temple, and I cannot see anything in his life holding him back. Just the last couple of years we have been reading the Scriptures together, which has brought a much needed closeness. There are many years when resentment, pity and disappointment blocked my spiritual insight, but I kept going. More recently my heart is filled with hope, and I have a much more eternal outlook on this man I married forever. There is no animosity, and spiritual growth and insight continues. I still feel a great longing to be one of those handholding, smiling couples who enter and perform ordinances together in the temple. I feel quite certain that someday my dream will be realized of being present there with my husband. But I also feel peace that perhaps if that day does not come somehow it will all be OK. The Lord knows my efforts and our family has been greatly blessed, I hope in some part through my devotion to keeping and practicing my temple covenants.
WithheldAugust 8, 2023
So beautifully written, lovely thoughts and inspiring article. I served as a Sister’s-only Support Group Leader in the ARP program for years, with the most tender, extraordinary women I will ever meet. They also are active sister, smiling, ready to serve, yet hiding broken, lonely hearts whose husbands also struggle. They’re walking wounded through life — and need to read this powerful article! I can’t wait to forward this article on to them.
MaryannAugust 8, 2023
I am so glad you have found such joy in returning to the temple. It will not only be a blessing for you, but for your husband, even when he doesn't go with you. The temple is a house of prayer and you can offer up your silent prayers for him in the temple, and also put his name on the prayer roll. I feel strongly that when we attend the temple, we receive blessings not only for ourselves, but our families are blessed as well. All of us have differing circumstances, but President Nelson has asked us to go as often as we can. I am so grateful to find refuge in that holy house, to renew covenants, and to feel a special relationship with those on the other side as we do their work that they cannot do for themselves. The very best part of the temple is the renewed closeness and relationship I feel with my Savior.
Rochelle HaleAugust 7, 2023
I believe that Wilford Woodruff has some of the most interesting experiences in church history, beginning with his own conversion. Jonathan Harriman Hale is my husband's 3rd great-grandfather.
Lori TippetsAugust 6, 2023
Sis. Douglas-Once again your monthly letter has touched my heart. I have lots of opportunities to speak and with your permission would like to use this story when I speak on service. Thank you for all you do and for your insightful and inspiring stories. With love, Lori Tippets (Jared’s mom)
CynthiaAugust 5, 2023
So true, Joni. I had to set boundaries with some family members, in a legal situation. I wrote each of them two letters. The first letter outlined what I recalled happened, what their responses were, and my apologies if I misunderstood and my desire to understand what they viewed as important to them personally through this experience. Next I sent a letter expounding my love for each of them individually, expressing my feelings of gratitude for so many blessings and the accompanying joy that we experienced together in the past, and how I was finding strength through the current situation, which was also a shared experience and one in which we were each reacting differently, for various reasons. In one case this smoothed things over. I'm not sure about the other case yet.
Janna Stout MorrellAugust 5, 2023
Maurine, I’ve always admired your great thinking and writing but here, you have now skyrocketed to new heights. This article is so needed, even within the Church as many have been taken in, or have even preached leftist ideas in the name of love and tolerance. We need to speak out in truth AND love… not one, exclusive of the other. Thank you, thank you for this well-thought, well written piece!
KathleenAugust 5, 2023
True blue!
Daniel BakerAugust 4, 2023
A truly wonderful article. And such a beautiful voice. There are of course many wonderful and inspiring LDS musicians. And good music has such great value to the mind, to the spirit. I want to contribute two bits: Some wonderful performers just sort of fade from attention. I got reacquainted with Lex de Azevedo a few years ago, and I think it's sad that knowledge of his works has faded since I became aware of it in about '75. One here: https://youtu.be/7OdUBvB3Ots
Cindy AtkinAugust 4, 2023
The temple is a symbol of the love we have for God and the love He has for us. Why would we want to give anything less than our best? God gave us His best. What an honor for every person that gets to express their talents in its construction and beauty. When I walk around its gardens and through its halls, every part of it seems to be singing praises to God. No matter our economic circumstances, I cant imagine wanting anything less.
Lyric LadyAugust 4, 2023
I am so glad I decided to read this article about Cherie, a long time friendly associate in the LDS Music world. I've been off Social Media for months and had no idea Ron Simpson had passed away. I second and third every wonderful thing said about Ron. I never was blessed to take a BYU music class with him, though he offered to let me as a non-BYU student but for complicated reasons I couldn't attend. I was so blessed to work with him on the Faith Centered Music Assoc. committee back in the early 2000's. He was so gracious and good with each and every musician and songwriters like me, who went to every workshop they could attend but couldn't attend BYU. Prayers of comfort for his family. What a tremendous legacy he has left us all with. Cherie is amazing and as a fellow songwriter has inspired me on many levels through the years.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
The sad fact is that sometimes people put off having children, only to find that they are unable to have them later. We should not take this great gift for granted. We have been counselled not to procrastinate starting our families. I can say from firsthand experience that child rearing requires a LOT of energy, which we generally have more of when we are still relatively young.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
While we know we are not required to condone the harm that has been done to us or to pretend it didn't hurt, I think it is helpful to remember that we have only seen a tiny fraction of who that person is and what they have experienced. So many times they are acting out of their own fears and pain. No, that doesn't make their harmful actions ok. But it might help us to be a little more understanding about their behavior. We can also be thankful for the fact that our pain caused by others can help us appreciate all the Savior suffered for us. He was completely innocent, yet continually persecuted, and he forgave.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
Our temples glorify God and our Savior, Jesus Christ. The bottom line for me on this subject is that temples are built under the direction of our Prophet. I am not going to put myself in a position to second guess him about WHERE they should be built, or HOW they should be built. Questions by people who are troubled with doubt about various issues could be easily solved through trusting our divinely appointed leaders. This is not blind faith. It is an opportunity for us to humble ourselves and acknowledge the Lord's hand guiding the building of these sacred edifices, and directing the affairs of HIS church.
MaryannAugust 4, 2023
The writer mentions that her husband "can't let go of stupid things from the past." However, she doesn't say what those things are. There may be some key issues here that she is not addressing. However, good advice from Brother Steurer. I think this is a valuable learning experience for people reading this that it's never a good idea to be separated for so many months. I hope this couple can come together again, but if he continues to blow her off, she can't save the marriage all by herself.
LorraineQAugust 4, 2023
This touched my heart today. Thank you for putting these thoughts into words.
Claudia Henderson SmithAugust 4, 2023
I don't think our temples are more lavish that the Catholic and Episcopal temples I've seen around the world. Our temples have beautiful stained glass, furnishings, and chandeliers; but that is because it's the House of the Lord. We would want it to be special. As the writer said, it's like being in a realm where God and Jesus are available and we may feel serene. I love our temples!!
WallyAugust 4, 2023
Thank you, Joni!
Debbie McClureAugust 4, 2023
This is a well thought out commentary on the beauty and design of temples. My thought is that the temple provides to the world patrons who have covenanted to sacrifice and consecrate. Indeed, a royal army leaves the temple with covenants to serve the Lord and fellow man. The value of eager and willing saints to give because they have been given much, have a sincere love of Christ, and are under covenant to represent Him, to me, cannot be calculated. This is higher and holier than throwing money to the poor.
Cyndi HaddockAugust 3, 2023
I'm so grateful for Brother Daniel C. Peterson and the years of careful research and scholarship, along with many essays, books and articles he's written, that beautifully explain the restored gospel of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and our faith in the Savior. Thank you for your lifetime of efforts in defending our faith.
BarbaraAugust 3, 2023
I served as a temple missionary in the Dominican Republic. One of the other senior missionaries wondered how we could build such a lavish building when there were so many poor in the country. I computed that if all of the poor of that country were given an equal portion of the cost of the temple, they would each receive approximately $5 each. If they received a portion of what it cost to maintain the temple, they would each receive maybe $.50/month. In other words, hardly enough to make any difference at all in their lives. On the other hand, the poorest of the poor of that country could enter that temple and be treated as honored guests of God on high. That inevitably did immeasurable good towards telling them that they are persons of great value.
CarolAugust 3, 2023
I love your stories - even the serious ones. I too have a favorite teacher, Mrs. Troutman, and as an adult I happened to run into in a store and got to thank her for being a teacher who made learning fun and exciting!
Duane BoyceAugust 3, 2023
Welcome news! He is SO deserving.
D H HamillAugust 3, 2023
When I hear complaints about the monies spent building temples, or other buildings for that matter, I think that the laborers, manufacturers, earth movers, machinists, architects, engineering, and numerous others involved in the construction process. They are grateful for the work and income earned in order to help support their families. They, in turn, can use their earnings to purchase goods & services that benefit others. Thus, many people are provided the means of preventing poverty.
Pattie SkousenAugust 3, 2023
Our family’s heart goes out to this young missionary’s family. May they find peace in our Heavenly Father’s love for them.
HelenCAugust 3, 2023
Well done “Dr. Dan”!
HelenCAugust 3, 2023
I heard this objection from a co-worker after she toured the Portland, Oregon Temple during its open house. I thought it strange coming from a Catholic and having seen their beautiful and, no doubt to some, extravagantly adorned cathedrals.
MaryAugust 3, 2023
What a beautiful insight … I love serving in the temple and appreciate the inspiration to seek for holiness while there.
Robert D StarlingAugust 3, 2023
You go girl! (I can say that, right?) Wonderful article, and much needed. We must stand for truth. Count me in with the 38% who love America. In the beginning was the Word . . .
LexaGraemeAugust 3, 2023
God bless teachers. Thank you for sharing.
LexaGraemeAugust 3, 2023
I look forward to seeing this film. Brigham, as Dr Hugh Nibley once wrote, challenges many of us Saints.
KathleenAugust 2, 2023
Heartwarming and inspiring, again!
Cornelia MadsenAugust 2, 2023
The young Holland couple moved into our Oak Hills Third Ward with their three very young children. They would file in and take their seats in the middle of the ward chapel. On a fast Sunday the mother, Patricia Holland, bore her testimony and said, "Here we sit with this wonderful group of people; but I want to go out with my husband and family to do much more, because I know we can!"
TiffaniAugust 2, 2023
What a beautiful and amazing blessing for those girls to have each other. Thank you for sharing this sweet story and your insights. As a mother who has lost a child, I must say that, although we did not get the same result Tori did, I still believe my prayers were heard and answered. I’m grateful Tori’s family’s answer was that they got to keep their daughter. I’m sorry yours and my answers were that we had to say goodbye (for now). I absolutely believe every prayer offered for Madi was heard and answered… just maybe not the answer that was hoped for. I know the Lord will make up for all the grief and pain caused by her early departure from mortality.
Suzanne PalmerAugust 2, 2023
Having our own 5 year old grand daughter that has been going through chemo for Leukemia for one year this story resonates more deeply than this Summer day I am living. Words cannot express our personal pain for these sweet, innocent and tender children who have to go through these very hard things. We, too, as a family, have experienced the kindest acts of service for our sweet little one. We are so thankful and so touched by what has been done for her and for what has been done by and for your sweet little Mad,i and her angel, Tori. I know that there is a very special place in heaven preserved for these angels that are earthbound and those that are in heaven that have, or are, experiencing these things.
ShaunaAugust 2, 2023
a wonderful reminder that each of us has the chance to make amazing differences, by small and simple acts, for those in our circle of influence. thank you
Mark MathesonAugust 1, 2023
Don't forget to tell people that the cost for a mission outside the US requires the purchase of health insurance that is roughly twice the cost of Medicare. I foresee the time that the Church will subsidize this extra cost down to the US Medicare rate.
Adrian MartinAugust 1, 2023
Great message! Inwardly digested and passed along to others!
Glen GibbJuly 31, 2023
Although I certainly agree that our language has eroded, especially where the term "inclusive" is used, I urge caution with your claim about COVID. It was not a conspiracy to rob anyone of freedom. I no longer have two friends who died from the disease. They left widows and children.
Leslie P. ReesJuly 31, 2023
The author obviously is not acquainted with Tim Ballard. Tim is one of the most honest, courageous, caring men one could know. He is “for real.” “Fictionalized”? Tim has admitted that a few things in the movie were not perfectly re-enacted. That is not possible in portraying events that took a rather long time, squeezed into a two-hour movie. However, those involved all admit the major events are very much a true-to-life account in every thing that matters. Tim did lose his job, put his life and the livelihood of his family in danger, and was able to rescue not only a young boy, but the boy's young sister, who had been sold to terrible men. In doing so, he rescued many other such children. And that was just one such event in a long string of remarkable rescues where Ballard and those who work with him have put their lives on the line-repeatedly- to rescue children from a life of horrific abuse and slavery. I do wonder how it can be claimed “The Sound of Freedom” eclipses the need for putting a stop to child sexual exploitation. Most viewers I have talked to have claimed it awakened them to the problem, and left them with a desire to, in some way, help put it to a stop. Is it really just a political divide between those who think selling and abusing children must be stopped as soon as possible - against those who first want to address poverty and drug addiction which often results in such behavior? Would not saving the life of a child take precedence over sincere, but often contentious, efforts to address the causes? Seems to me a lot of children might be destroyed if we delayed their rescue in order to debate solutions which can be the cause of such abominations. Both matter-but rescued children should take priority. Is it wrong to punish such offenders because they have such personal problems? “But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.” (Matthew 18:6) Sounds to me like the children's safety came first in His concern and judgment. I believe we all owe Tim Ballard and those who work with him a huge debt of gratitude. And surely recommend the movie.
Nerita Flake PetersonJuly 31, 2023
I appreciate so much your clear thinking and expression of truth, you are a brave woman!
Rochelle HaleJuly 31, 2023
Many years ago, when my husband was a graduate student, he taught Institute classes alongside Jeffrey Holland. He met Sister Holland a few times. After graduating, he would try to keep in touch with Elder Hollard on occasion. One summer we made several trips to Utah for family and business reasons. We made an appointment to visit Elder Holland, but he had to cancel when a foreign assignment came up. A few weeks later, we were in Salt Lake again and stopped by the Church office building without an appointment. Elder Holland's secretary was about to inform us that we could not see him, but his door was ajar and he recognized my husband's voice. We visited for just a short while. As we were leaving, he shook my husband's hand, then surprisingly embraced me. My husband said I "floated" out of the building after having been hugged by an apostle. I never had the privilege of meeting Sister Holland, but her example and testimony will live on from the many talks she has given and in the examples of the wonderful family she has raised.
RobertJuly 31, 2023
Yes, that is right. "Overcoming polarization" between God and satan "is no easy task: it demands time, effort, and a collective commitment to empathetic understanding." This is a continuation of the war in heaven. Pick your side!
Mary TarbetJuly 30, 2023
Thank you … eternally thankful for her example of a life of love for her eternal companion and devotion to our Savior.
DorisJuly 29, 2023
Wow, We can always trust you Maurine, to put into words what so many of us are thinking. Your thoughtful, well-chosen words are so appreciated. I am sharing them with all my family. Please take care of yourself. We need you where you are!
Jared RosequistJuly 29, 2023
What a fascinating article! Thank you so much for the research and insights.
Rosemarie BailleulJuly 29, 2023
I would NEVER ask my only single daughter to stay around just because I am in poor health (which I am), and could use her help. I have told her many times to follow her own path, and to go where she feels directed to go. Of course I would miss her if she did decide to move, but I'd never want to hold her back for my own purposes. I find it interesting that this lady is the one who has always been around for her dad, while her sisters have moved away, and yet she's being called selfish for wanting to be around her own children and grandchildren now. The heart wants what the heart wants; is say she needs to follow her dad's counsel - she'll know what to do. I definitely don't think that she should ever agree to stay out of guilt; she has to follow her own heart and the Lord's guidance, otherwise she'll have guilt on other levels.
Harold RustJuly 29, 2023
Thank you. The most dangerous part of the leftist push of language/debate/expression limitations is that their ultimate goal is to make it socially unacceptable and dangerous to do the very thing you accurately pursue in this article: discuss how they are attacking freedom of speech and genuine liberty itself---the very fundamentals of our God-given rights for mortal experiences that can lead us back to Him. "They" will be happy only when no one can publicly refer to our Father in Heaven as a father.
CorrynJuly 29, 2023
SPOT ON!! Thank you so much for bravely writing this article! I have shared it with friends and family ! You are absolutely right!
CorrynJuly 29, 2023
SPOT ON!! Thank you so much for bravely writing this article! I have shared it with friends and family ! You are absolutely right!
ElizabethJuly 28, 2023
Thank you for articulating the challenges we face in this nation. r I will share this with our children and grandchildren for discussion.
Ned SvarisbrickJuly 28, 2023
I thought that our country sang a song that said, "Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,. And this be our motto - "In God is our trust,". And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave."
Pattie SkousenJuly 28, 2023
“2Nephi 15:20 Wo unto them that call evil good, and good evil, that put darkness for light, and light for darkness, that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!” And then in 21 “ Wo unto the wise in their own eyes and prudent in their own sight! 22 Wo unto the mighty to drink wine, and men of strength to mingle strong drink; 23 Who justify the wicked for reward, and take away the righteousness of the righteous from him!” These verses are exactly what is going on now. Thanks for the wonderful article
KathleenJuly 28, 2023
Leaves one breathless, indeed!
An Old Man With a Patriotic HeartJuly 28, 2023
WOW!! That is a pretty brave piece you have presented. I wonder how many hate groups you have offended by telling the truth like that. Thank you for standing up for what is right, and not defending that which is politically correct.
Grant W. "Bill" P. MorrisonJuly 28, 2023
One of the best articles I have read on the subject. Extremely well done!
Vicki CrumJuly 28, 2023
This an excellent article and perfectly on point. You have described, in very succinct terms, exactly what we, as a society, are going through right now. And it is beyond terrifying. I worry that most of the most of the counsel coming from the church is "Be kind, be nice, have faith". Of course, we must maintain our faith as strongly as we ever have, but there comes a time when being nice and not making waves will only assist the and enable the adversary to take us over. I, for one, refuse to give up my freedoms and liberties and free will that easily. There comes a time when one must fight with whatever weapons are at our disposal. Now is that time. This is, most likely, our final and most important battle against Satan and we cannot, must not, lose.
Susan RatherJuly 28, 2023
I think your article is right on target, Maurine. Thank you for expressing your thoughts so precisely and powerfully.
Paul JonesJuly 28, 2023
I needed this article to help me refocus on my words. Words are so important to God. He can communicate to us in our words but he frequently quotes scripture to do so. Why? Scripture preserves the meaning of gospel language. That's why President Packer wanted us to use scripture, not just translate everything into current everyday language.
MikeJuly 28, 2023
I am more dense than most. I get this intellectually but cannot figure out how to apply it practically in my life. My weak things are still weak and I seem to be stuck there.
Ed RehderJuly 28, 2023
Well done! And so necessary to be aware of. Building Zion is hard work but takes the fear out of all this nonsense. Keep up your good works!
Cynthia CarlsonJuly 28, 2023
Excellent, pertinent, critical article. Thank you, Maureen, for sharing these thoughts with all of us.
MikeJuly 28, 2023
A very accurate and thought-provoking article....but one that will be lost on most people because newspeak is already working. It is very frustrating to watch it happen in front of your eyes and not be able to do anything about it. I lose my job if I don't comply. My bank accounts are seized. I'm cast into a FEMA reeducation camp. I'd like to see more articles like this on Meridian. This is first time I have even seen a hint that Covid was just another staged effort to limit freedom.
JamesJuly 28, 2023
Outstanding! Written perfectly and in a way for everyone to comprehend. I only wish more people thought this way. Thank you thank you.
QuinceJuly 28, 2023
Thank you for opening our eyes, to what is happening now and to its highly risky impact in the future of our beloved country..
SfischJuly 28, 2023
Spot on Maurine. We are certainly living in the last days in an ever delusional world. That your for your insight,
J. GreyJuly 27, 2023
Thank you for sharing your insights and for all the studying you did to gain those insights. You have explained and compared the three approaches clearly and completely. I am inspired to study and ponder your thoughts further, along with the scriptures, so that I can better overcome my weaknesses, one step at a time.
HeatherJuly 26, 2023
I loved this article and the desire and intention behind it. Patricia Holland served in the YW General Presidency from 1984 until April of 1986 when she was released. Her Ensign article quoted above was published in October of 1987, after she was released, and therefore should not include her prior calling title. I hope to see that corrected!
LoraJuly 26, 2023
I finally figured out that when Jesus says "come unto me" He means Every. Single. Day. I turned to Him and said, "Lord, I can't change. Please change me." Every single day. I ask Him to keep my desires, appetites and passions within the bounds that He has set. He has changed my desires, appetites, and passions in ways that I could not do by myself. It has been slow but steady, and I've lost 60 pounds so far. Best of all, I'm not obsessed with weight loss the way I was when I tried to do it in my own strength. When we rely on His strength, He makes weak things strong unto us.
Jane NelsonJuly 26, 2023
This is an absolutely wonderful and accessible guide to true repentance. Thank you for sharing these thoughts. This is going in my "hall of fame" folder.
tfJuly 24, 2023
Both worthwhile and entertaining stories, thanks for sharing. Maybe uplifting is a better word than entertaining in this case.
JoanJuly 24, 2023
It is enough?? I pray the inactive children will come back and receive all the blessings that the Lord has in store for them.
HelenCJuly 20, 2023
Once again the Lord has given me a message through this amazing online resource. It is exactly what I need for my day TODAY. Thank you.
PhoebeJuly 20, 2023
I’m inspired by your enthusiasm and candor. Thank you for a great article.
Beth TJuly 18, 2023
Thank you for sharing these beautiful connections between Peter & Paul's callings from God. The research & answers you found have deep & rich meaning. Your "feasting on the scriptures" has helped my hunger for truth feel satisfied through your words. I feel Father's love through these treasures of connection.
Paul HJuly 17, 2023
Larry S, I think you missed my point. Yes, the roof was flat. A great example of the types of house appears in the book "Lehi's Jerusalem" where they are described in detail. The important point is that the Lord's Chief Apostle was "praying" in a place of privacy and that he was ""an hungered." That suggests the likelihood of it being Fast Sunday is probable. My post is now 4 years old and I still don't think the fact the vision was a "sheet" had anything to do with the lesson or instruction. Rather it was that the sheet contained "unclean animals" and Peter was commanded to kill one of them and eat, which was against the customs and Mosaic Law. It's more similar to when Jesus was hungry after fasting and was offered bread by Satan. Of course as Chapter 10 in Acts develops we learn what the real lesson was: The Gospel was supposed to go to the gentiles as well. And the fact that the Holy Ghost descended upon them when Cornelias and his family were baptized, surprised those Jewish brethren accompanying Peter and was a cause of consternation among the. Church. Peter finally addressed the lack of need for new converts to be circumcized. This had very little if anything to do with Paul's vision and occupation, in my view..
James ScottJuly 17, 2023
A worthy comparison, I’ve often wondered at Paul’s citizenship as a Roman, his home town claim of Antioch, his close relationship to the Jewish leadership and Sanhedrin, maybe even membership, for which he would have had a wife and believing children I Corinthians aside, and his claim to have been from Benjamin in ascendancy. I wonder at your assumption or assertion that he and his family were wealthy Citizenship would have been purchased or awarded for some notable deed by some progenitor yet to be discovered. I just don’t see that his family was wealthy . His belonging to the school of Gamaliel may indicate some familial wealth as having been sent to Jerusalem for Jewish training. At any rate I’m curious how it was determined he or his family were wealthy or even well off.
CodyJuly 15, 2023
Thank you
Doug YanceyJuly 15, 2023
We are thankful for eternal families and fact that we will all be reunited with all our loved ones. Becca sends her love.
BETTY W JOHNSONJuly 14, 2023
Becky, thank you for sharing this. I knew from my time spent in India that you had lost a little granddaughter. I did not know her story until now. She looked just like her Grandma Douglas! I too, have lost a little granddaughter. Daisy was born with a severe heart defect and given a heart transplant when she was only 3 months old. That transplant bought her six precious years with her family. She passed away just one month away from celebrating her sixth birthday. Like your family, we are grateful for Daisy's short life and we all look forward to being with her again some day. Thanks again for sharing Madi's story. Peace to you and yours.
LewisJuly 14, 2023
What an incredibly beautiful story! The faith and powerful testimonies of your son and daughter-in-law were so powerful. I could not hold back the tears. Thank you for sharing this sacred experience with us all. We must all go through trials. I can only hope that if I were to suffer such a trial, I could do so with the grace and love exhibited in this touching article.
KathyJuly 14, 2023
So beautiful and inspirational! Thank you for sharing such personal and heartfelt feelings and journal entries. This is so helpful to others struggling with grief.
J. BlanchardJuly 14, 2023
Thank you for sharing this heart-wrenching, spirit-filled, faith-promoting story. My young son was diagnosed with cancer and I can identify with so much of what was shared about faith, prayer, gratitude and love. No matter our outcome, my belief and faith in a Savior and loving Heavenly Parents remain. Our Heavenly Father can create beauty and joy out of any situation; may we be willing to see it and experience it.
HelenCJuly 14, 2023
My youngest son was 24 when his astrocytoma begins a glioblastoma and took him Home after 5 years of treatments. Eight years later hours older sister joined him from metastatic breast cancer. Each was given a blessing. George’s was that he would be healed according to his faith and the will of the Lord. There was nothing wrong with his faith. Larissa had moved to a different Faith but was still very spiritual. Her blessing was not that she would be healed but that she would heal. Dozens of her friends felt that healing and now I reach out to hundreds, hopefully thousands. As a Grief coach. “But if not” goes with me everywhere.
Father of sixJuly 13, 2023
China's one child policy: how well has that been working for them ?
Debbi M.July 12, 2023
I was a freshman in college, and read Zero Population also. I questioned many things about this book vs. the Lord's' commandments, and I also had to wonder in my mind to what I saw as two diverging opinions. We had five children, even though people look askance at our family. Interesting to now see our dwindling population in nearly all "civilized" countries. This was a great article, and the author's experiences were worse than mine!
KatrinaJuly 12, 2023
This is a wonderfully written article. Thank you for it. I, too, believe in babies, and I, too, believe in fidelity within marriage and abstinence before marriage. Thank you for boldly declaring the truth! As one who has wanted a baby all her life and has never been able to conceive, I mourn my heart out for our precious little ones who are aborted. A society that kills their unborn is in real trouble. God help us!
Steven HuntJuly 12, 2023
My wife (and sometimes me) was also the brunt of misinformed activists back in the 1970's as she and I started our family giving birth to 5 boys from 1974 - 1980. We now have 7 children and 30 grandchildren. We lived then in Southern California. She was regularly ridiculed in public with unthinkable "solutions" to her "problem" (pregnancy). Thank you for this powerful retrospective on an evil dogma that arose many years ago. It is a strong lesson for us today as other popular philosophies appear.
Boanerges RubalcavaJuly 12, 2023
Once, somebody asked me, how many children do you have? SIX, was my answer. Then he told me, so, you did not planned them? Of course I planned them but I failed, was my remark, I planned 12 but I only had SIX
MahonriMJuly 12, 2023
Several years ago, a friend who had several children had her home picketed by Planned Parenthood.
Beth TJuly 12, 2023
I had not heard of this book and am deeply grateful for your exps & firm faith in the Lord’s plan for His children. Thank you!!!
Rochelle HaleJuly 11, 2023
These are interesting accounts. I'd like to know more about the brother who said he would rather go to Scandinavia than prison. Some good friends of ours passed away several years ago, but the husband was one of the last married missionaries to be called (early 1950s) He ended up serving for three years and returned to a toddler son he had never met. When I was prompted to serve a mission, my family was not supportive. I told my bishop that I would have the funds if I worked just a few more months. He wanted me to submit my papers immediately and told me that generous ward members would help me. From the time I first thought about serving to my arrival in the mission field was about four months. Through the kindness of friends and wonderful miracles from the Lord, I came home with surplus funds that I returned to my bishop to help another missionary.
erikpeterhansenJuly 10, 2023
Outstanding... and much needed article.
Ann-MarieJuly 10, 2023
He's always in the details, isn't He? Great share.
JodiJuly 10, 2023
Why are his "quirks" being noticed only now when he is in college?
H NorthJuly 10, 2023
The fourth paragraph from the end of this article speaks the truth. Attempting to make peace with those whose ultimate goal is to kill you is suicidal.
David ShafferJuly 10, 2023
Thank you for a well reasoned article. Every point is clear and I hope all who read it heed it. I agree with you and will try even harder to be a peacemaker, and to see others as loved by Father and Jesus. It will not be easy, but the Lord requires it of me and everyone else. It is easy to criticize and judge. It is harder to follow the Golden Rule. But the eternal reward is exaltation.
Corey DJuly 9, 2023
Wonderful story, stories like this restore my faith in the youth.
JeanetteJuly 9, 2023
Maurine was brave enough to write it. Are we brave enough to forward it?
Joyce GlaettliJuly 9, 2023
So sweet!
D. SowardsJuly 8, 2023
This was so helpful in preparing for my Primary Class. Thank you for sharing your work and knowledge.
Kay RookhuyzenJuly 8, 2023
The movie shocking,insprationl and educational! It was awful but so good! I had no idea that the U.S. was the biggest user of child sex slaves. I cried through half the film but found it wonderful despite. I love hearing about modern-day HEROES!!!
BeckyJuly 8, 2023
A film that REALLY makes you realize how blessed you life has been. EVERYONE needs to see this film!
Howard CollettJuly 7, 2023
Well done, Dan. Thank you for a concise summary. Having visited with Latter-day Saints all over the world, I have yet to come across "a cadaverous visage; greenish-colored eyes; thick, protuberant lips; or the low forehead" among them. Obviously, spin commentary was alive and well in the 1800s.
L.JayJuly 7, 2023
I have always wondered why when the mountain meadows massacre is brought up that their is not the same fervor for the haun's mill massacre or the mistreatment and persecution of the saints in Missouri or Illinois. These people were Americans and were protected by the same constitutional rights as anyone else including freedom of worship. Tell me has the states of Missouri and Illinois erected monuments to remember the saints' mistreatment at their hands. I'm just saying.
JaneJuly 6, 2023
This movie is a MUST SEE! It is informative and extremely powerful. Who knew this was occurring at this level in our own backyards. Absolutely mind-boggling! Click on the link to the full article and watch the interview with Jim Caviezel and Tim Ballard - you'll learn even more! Help to get rid of this evil by educating yourself and providing opportunities for others to see the film as well.
Mark MathesonJuly 6, 2023
Sister Clayton, You have so many good stories. Thank you for adding your voice to Meridian!
Mark BJuly 6, 2023
Thank you for writing this article about questions! It was quite insightful and I will work on asking better questions.
DMJuly 5, 2023
Have you ever considered this for an on the road workshop? Would love to see you in Las Vegas!
CarolJuly 4, 2023
These stories are a great idea! They are a good reminder that all the little and big things we do to spread the Savior's love and caring make a huge difference in other's lives.
Pat HealyJuly 2, 2023
Thank you Maureen!!!! I hope your words are read by millions. I thank you and honor you for speaking out against things that are clearly evil.
WeezieJuly 2, 2023
Incredible! Thank you for speaking truth. It’s been such a long, difficult month enduring rainbow flags and their destructive agenda. God bless America. May we be as brave as our forefathers were.
MLJuly 2, 2023
Thanks for being brave enough to stand for truth and righteousness.
JocelynJuly 2, 2023
Robert Manookin, who was one of my music theory professors at BYU in 1978, was a part of that gathering. One day during class he told us the story of his gathering missionaries from train stations on his mission. He said he whistled, Come, Come Ye Saints.
Kathy GibbleJuly 2, 2023
I really appreciate you standing up for what America was created for. Thank you for your boldness to speaking out about true liberty for all. This country was established by God so all can be free, and not for some to judge and oppress others. I pray for our country and the freedoms we have to be protected. As we celebrate the 4th of July, let us be grateful for our freedoms and liberty for all. God bless America.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJuly 1, 2023
Well written. I so agree.
Judy ShumwayJuly 1, 2023
great and true article thanks for sharing our country is becoming a sad sad country
Andrew GiffordJuly 1, 2023
Wow! Absolutely well written! You just expressed what I’ve been thinking this whole last month spot on. Thank you.
JulieJuly 1, 2023
Amen and a million thanks for this articulate article.
Sandie MixaJune 30, 2023
Fantastic advice and acronym! I was with you in the Joy School days and now am in the grand parenting role. Thank you so much!
ShaunaJune 30, 2023
thank you.
Louise WoodsJune 30, 2023
I agree 100% with everything you have said. I'm grateful that someone has said it and will defend what we believe and stand for as a nation. We must rally around our flag before it's no longer our flag. Thank you!!
DRobJune 30, 2023
A well written piece that does a great job covering the spectrum of issues that are becoming more and more "in your face" and gaining in "acceptability" with each passing day. Thank you for speaking out!
CarolJune 30, 2023
Thank you for writing such a great article about what is happening to our wonderful country We love the red, white, and blue. May God give us courage to keep it.
Patty HurtJune 30, 2023
Such a well written essay. I feel for this nation whose cicle of pride is almost whole. I’m from Chile, & I was an adolescent when socialism took over in the 70s. It didn’t take long for the likes of Fidel Castro coming to rally the people. Little by little we lost freedoms. Everything was chaos. No food either. We had to buy in the black market. I was 13 waiting on a long line to buy some bread when a coup took over. They brought peace at a great cost of blood. Nothing good happens in a land that forgets God. I only look forward to the Second Coming of the Lord, the New Jerusalem, & having Zion in the Americas. There will be no nations run by corrupted leaders. I’m sorry to say things won’t get better until then. Stay strong in the Gospel. Miracles will happen.
LindaJune 30, 2023
Thank you for a well written truthful article!! This country is in TROUBLE. W e must not let evil take over!
Mark LawsJune 30, 2023
Awesome article Maureen. I hope the good guys wake up and pit their shoulder to the wheel before it is too late.
Barry HansenJune 30, 2023
Well said, Maurine. We can be brave and hold to the truth.
Susan S MorrisJune 30, 2023
Amen to that. An excellent synopsis of our current cultural and political state. Great to share with those whose common sense and moral decency tells them something is amiss but who don't necessarily have the background and knowledge to articulate it.
Ken RichmondJune 30, 2023
Think of the heyday C. S. Lewis would have had with The Screwtape Letters in today's happenings.
Diane BlakelyJune 30, 2023
Magnificent!!! You expressed it so well.
Curtis ArringtonJune 30, 2023
Well stated and well-written.
Paul HJune 30, 2023
The American Flag (Stars and Stripes) flies at our home 24/7/365 and is lighted at night (sunset to sunrise). Our ancestors fought to gain this freedom and we will ALWAYS appreciate it. We consider this land a "choice land" and are thankful to be living here, the way the country was founded by divine providence upon just and holy principles contained in the US Constitution and the Bill of Rights. Let freedom ring!!
Duane BoyceJune 30, 2023
Amen! So true and so well stated. Wonderful article. I am with you 100%.
JuliannJune 30, 2023
AMEN! Beautifully and powerfully written. Stand up don’t stand down. Our future is at stake.
PamJune 30, 2023
Thank you for saying what needs to be said.
JoanJune 30, 2023
Bold and true!!
Lee HillJune 29, 2023
I love your stories! They are humorous, touching, instructive, and entertaining all at the same time. I wonder if you have a compilation of your stories and anecdote - something like the James Herriot books. Your articles are every bit as entertaining as any I've ever read. Thank you for brightening my day!
Mariah Proctor (author)June 28, 2023
@LC, So much depends on the maturity of the child. It's rated PG-13 and they do a really good job of doing things by implication instead of ever showing anything, but it is obviously still a very hard subject. I think 13 or so is probably a good age, so if she's a mature 12, so could probably see it.
LCJune 28, 2023
How old do you think is the minimum age for viewing? Would it be too traumatic for my 12 yo daughter, do you think?
LexaGraemeJune 28, 2023
Ha ha! Another enjoyable story!
S.K.June 28, 2023
Thanks for telling about this important story, Mariah. Tim Ballard is my hero. He's a true hero. I love that he's a member of my church. My spirit wouldn't be able to handle watching this story, so I paid it forward for someone else to see.
Toni LyonsJune 28, 2023
Thank you so much for doing this article. I've met Tim several times and even read his books on early American History and was on a cruise with him and his children. He is an amazing person and I put clips of the movie on FB all the time trying to get the word out.
Helen GreenstreetJune 27, 2023
B. U. S. Y. Being Under Satan's Yoke
Richard HillsJune 24, 2023
We hear a lot of categorical claims that scientists in the 1970's predicted that significant global cooling would soon occur. A few of 'em did but of climate analysis scientific papers published from 1965 to 1979 only about 10% predicted global cooling whereas 62% of papers predicted global warming and 28% made no prediction (Peterson et al. 2008). Nowadays 97% of working climate scientists agree with the view that human beings are causing global warming.
LORNAJune 24, 2023
He should read The Hitler Dilemma while Max Adam is still alive. A German citizen he was forced into Hitler Yourh and then into Hitler s army. There is a huge miracle that isn’t in the book. He needs to hear it from Max. He lives in Reunion Village beside the Jordan River Temple. He is so proud to fly his American flag every day. Max is 95…. Better hurry and at least do an interview. There is even a follow up movie with trapped in East Germany, which is his wife story during the Russians occupation of Dresden. She has passed though. Terrific books.
Kent & Jan BrooksbyJune 24, 2023
We were a part of this tour to Croatia. What a wonderful experience, meeting the Croatian people. They are so warm and friendly, and the Saints in Zadar were amazing. The entire experience was a blessing in our lives, making friends from around the country. Highly recommended trip.
JuliannJune 24, 2023
It’s Paul Wuthrich, not Peter. Wonderful actor. He portrayed Joseph Smith beautifully in The Witnesses.
Latter Day SongwriterJune 23, 2023
I've watched these brothers grow as artists over the years and they just keep getting better and better. Terrific songwriting Ben.
EricJune 20, 2023
One thing not mentioned here is teachers and leaders serving in twos or more. My dad was a scoutmaster back in the early 1990s when stories of abusive scoutmasters first started hitting the news, and policies were quickly updated to always require two men present at scout activities. I still remember when Primary classes only had one teacher, but roughly 20 years ago it became policy to always have two per class. Sadly, that doesn't eliminate all opportunities for abuse, but having two leaders or teachers, each acting as a check on the other, helps considerably.
Rochelle HaleJune 20, 2023
This article is helpful if someone is experiencing depression or other issues and is willing to talk about their challenges. Suicide takes many forms, but is often in the spur of the moment as a reaction to an overwhelming condition. An older relative took his life shortly after returning from the hospital because he didn't want to be a burden for whatever time he had left. Another was a loving mother, suffering from depression, who excused herself from a family gathering and was later found dead just a few rooms away. Still, another was someone who drove to a town where he was unknown, parked his vehicle in a remote area, and was not found until many days later. Another was a teenager who didn't have the means to cope when she and her parents didn't see eye-to-eye about something. I hope that through sincere friendships, expert professionals, and prevention therapy that many of these tragic situations can be avoided.
DH HamillJune 19, 2023
I remember the late Elder Loren C. Dunn of the Seventy using a very similar example (with a long string stretched out across the room) while presiding at a stake conference sometime in the 1980s. It's a good reminder that our time here is but a small moment in eternity and that the choices we make here are so very important to our future life.
Pamela SmithJune 19, 2023
This response is absolute gold.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 19, 2023
...And even wiser then the "scientists" than now are telling us that we will be destroyed by the tiny amounts of CO2 produced by the burning of the fossil fuels, that is the cause of global warming.
Allison DunlapJune 19, 2023
Great article! Only one funny inconsistency. You quote at the end a Black LDS man as saying 'til death do us part" but it's part of the LDS doctrine that marriages sealed in temples under the Holy Spirit of Promise last for time and all eternity, not just for this life only. Did you really talk to him to get that quote?!
MickeyJune 18, 2023
Please protect yourself and your children from your abusive mother. She sounds very unsafe and quite harmful to you and your children. I also suggest Al-anon and looking up narcissistic abuse.
tfJune 16, 2023
Just please excuse your mother, because of mental illness; that's what you describe.
JohnnaJune 16, 2023
Thank you to the individual who asked this question a d to Mr Streuer for his insight. This is very timely for me and much needed counsel.
MaryannJune 12, 2023
What, only one picture? I want to see the inside!
Tyler KJune 12, 2023
Very interestimg design. My only concern is the PVC envelope on the concrete. If it's in the outside wont it break down fairly quickly in the sun? PVC becomes brittle and weak. It may not be long before it starts to chip away... otherwise I'm very intrigued.
EricJune 12, 2023
This reminds me of something my brother told me from when he served a mission in Scotland. There was a legend some of the people shared with him there about how Jesus had visited Great Britain, during that gap of time between ages 12 and 30, to sit on the Stone of Destiny that has been a feature of the British coronation chair--the throne of David.
Ronald BarnesJune 12, 2023
In his book, “The United States and Britian in Prophecy”, Herbert W Armstrong of the World Wide Church of God, presents an interest theory. Using scripture, history, and mythology, he claimed that, after the kingdom of Judah was conquered by the Babylonians, Jeremiah and a daughter of King Hezekiah immigrated to Ireland. There she married the king’s son. This royal family later became the royal house of Scotland and later, the royal house of England. Also, in Hebrew, “brit” is “covenant” and “ish” is “man”. The word “British” literally means “Covenant Man.”
Mark W MinerJune 10, 2023
What a beautiful witness! Thank you for sharing your precious truth. May the Lord continue to bless your every endeavor.
Corey D.June 10, 2023
She needs to drop this guy like a hot potato !
mom of 9June 10, 2023
What are you opinions on the "Gentle Parenting" movement? I've seen a lot of conflicting information.
Jen SmithJune 9, 2023
Thank you for sharing this story. We never know at times that we think that we need his help the most, that is when he turns it around and helps us focus on others and when we do that not only are they blessed but we are blessed. The fact that you were willing to listen to the spirit and go do something so simple, yet the impact of what you did, and your willingness to continue to foster the relationship and keep learning the language went so much further, than you thought it did.
J HopkinsJune 9, 2023
He asks us to trust him and yet our human experience tells us there is no way for our desired result to come about. If we will trust, if we will believe, even when it seems impossible miracles will happen. His hand will then be seen. The sad part for me is that faith and trust is so much like the tides of the ocean, there is a real ebb and flow to the amount of faith and trust that I have. Thank you for sharing. What you experienced resonates so loudly to me.
Mark MathesonJune 9, 2023
What an article! Thank you Sister Clayton. I see miracles as things that should not have happened in the normal routine of life. Those two songs should not have been sung and thus God's hand is revealed to help grieving people.
Cynthia CarlsonJune 9, 2023
Thank you for sharing this experience, Alexa. You touched my heart. You will be an amazing doctor! Doctors need curiosity, determination, wisdom and the help of God.
Mamie JacksonJune 9, 2023
Thank you for sharing this! What a remarkable story. We served in Malaysia and we were sent home because of Covid but we’re able to go back and finish up. We were very moved by this story and LOVE the Malaysian people.
MaryannJune 9, 2023
I don't think this situation is "complicated" at all. I would tell this woman to RUN. A man who continues to speak with a woman he had an affair with while married is not trustworthy. True repentance would be to abandon that relationship completely. She should start looking for a partner who takes fidelity seriously.
Lowell SteeleJune 9, 2023
Thank you, Mark, for sharing that very touching story with it's several tender-mercy moments. What if you had never made that trip?
Deb MackJune 8, 2023
What a wonderful article. Made my own heart sing this morning.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 8, 2023
I agree with the author. We cannot support people in their ways, if those ways are not what we believe (WE KNOW) are the right ones. We support them by loving them but not becoming like them since we cannot be like them, since we KNOW the Way, the Truth, the Life. Yes we MUST love them, independently of what they are or are trying to be, but we cannot go against our principles, our, I would say, our six truths: 1. We know God lives, 2. We know Jesus is the Christ, He lives, He resurrected from the dead and He is our savior, 3. The Holy Ghost is real, and is there for us to help us to maintain ourselves in the right path to Eternal Life, 4. Joseph Smith saw God and Jesus Christ that morning of 1820, 5. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is God's Church on Earth, and 6. Russel M. Nelson is a prophet of God.
Melany W.June 8, 2023
Absolutely love this! Truly Jesus is the answer to everything. If we really love those on the margins of society like Christ does, we will point them to the living source of peace, joy and comfort namely Jesus himself. Thanks for being the example that so many need in this day and age. I just wish people would see that choosing Christ, regardless of your temptations or weakness, is the happiest way. Every time.
Shauna SandbergJune 8, 2023
Thank you for a heartfelt and well thought through article. And for reminding us , that as President Nelson said in April conference:"Whatever questions or problems you have, the answer is always found in the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. Learn more about His Atonement, His love, His mercy, His doctrine, and His restored gospel of healing and progression. Turn to Him! Follow Him!
Jenny Madsen SvendsenJune 8, 2023
My mom had been very ill all my life, and before (I am #6 of 8 children), she was always in excruciating pain, but when she received a Priesthood blessing she was pain free for a few days. One time our Branch President asked us to fast before she received a blessing, I though why should I? I know heavenly Father can give her a respite from the pain. Twice she blessing resulted in nothing, so the 3rd. time I fasted (I was a teenager), and mom was pain free for a few days, what a testimony to me of the power of Fasting!
DavidJune 8, 2023
Wow, thank you for sharing this.
JimJune 8, 2023
Thank You! Yes. Those of us that follow Christ and share his doctrine with others are not haters and judges that should be scorned. The doctrine is the doctrine. We can do as Christ instructed his disciples and simply preach the doctrines and if not received, we shake the dust from our feet and move on to those that will find comfort in the gospel and follow the Doctrine of Christ.
Corey D.June 8, 2023
I'll have to admit when I saw the title of this article my immediate reaction was negative but when I went through it, it is well presented. For the most part, the whole LGBTQ+ movement has become radicalized, even some who are part of it are saying now that things have gone to far especially when it comes to children.
Corey D.June 8, 2023
Not sleeping together is more common than you might think and it's not just older couples and the reasons vary but snoring is a big one but sleep is important to one's overall health. Not having physical/sexual intimacy is a huge problem, if you believe all the survey's and what therapists are saying. Probably more so with older or middle aged couples but again not exclusive to those groups.
DJJune 7, 2023
Brought tears to my eyes as sharing these experiences with the spirit has renewed a rememberance of those sacred moments when I've had a special wittness too.
MaryannJune 7, 2023
I have full confidence in our First Presidency. My testimony that they are God's chosen servants to guide and counsel me brings me incredible peace. No matter what is occurring in the world, I can look to them for direction. WONDERFUL!
MaryannJune 7, 2023
Ear plugs.
WeezieJune 5, 2023
Absolutely golden material and so timely with the current “climate”. The three examples were so powerful to me and my family. 1. Excerpt from Narnia. 2. Steven Covey’s example of where true north is and 3. Wanting and needing to save people from jumping in hot boiling pools in Yellowstone. These visuals I pray will always stay in my back pocket, for a time I will need them. I struggle putting words to my thoughts, but these examples were incredible true and clear. Thank you!!!!
Walden BarneyJune 5, 2023
If you enjoyed this topic, take a look at the following article from the Belfast Telegraph. It appeared a long time ago, but is a really great article! https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/opinion/columnists/eamonn-mccann-what-if-mormons-are-right-and-catholics-and-protestants-wrong/28532064.html
Ken RichmondMay 31, 2023
I think it’s more accurate to view traits or qualities on a continuum, rather than have it or not, since we all have some level of what we might consider to be a strength or weakness. That way we we can choose which ones we want to improve on, which is consistent with the gospel of repentance, change, and progression.
Corey D.May 28, 2023
Constantly amazed but I guess in some ways not surprised by the questions presented for this column. As to this particular sister she said something that is key in all of this, she says she has taken control of her life, that is good. After watching these scenarios play out and so many 2nd or 3rd or more marriages fail I would say to this sister, go slow with the dating, enjoy life, go on vacation by yourself or with a friend or child or grandchild. Serve as a temple worker or service missionary or do community service. And here's one that might seem counterintuitive at first thought, don't limit your socialization to just members of the church. I can relate several stories of sisters I know, one in particular and this is a happy but sad story at same time, a woman I know, good faithful member of the church, her husband also a member of the church but who cheated on her multiple times, finally in her fifties (her own children had been telling her to divorce their dad) ended her marriage. She met a former classmate from high school at a reunion, he was not a member of the church, they ended up getting married and in her own words "he treated her like a queen". Here's the sad part but also a good part, one day they were at the dinner table when he slumped over, he had had a massive heart attack and died, can you imagine going through that ! But here is the blessing in disguise, when I talked to her several months after this, she was getting everything ready to do his temple ordinances and I'm pretty sure intended to be sealed to him.
JeanMay 26, 2023
I followed American Idol this year and was a huge fan of Iam Tongi. Besides having a smooth voice I could listen to forever, he brought such love to this contest. Iam mentioned how much he loved his friends and how hard it was for him when they had to leave the contest. I was so impressed when a fellow contestant, Oliver Stone, had a father who was in the hospital with a stroke during the contest. He reported that Iam talked with his father in the hospital. I've watched almost all the seasons of American Idol, but I've never seen a season like this one that showed such a love and friendship for each other.
AlanMay 26, 2023
My second wife told me of troublesome experiences dating as an older person. There are some fine older men out there but there is a reason some men are divorced. Don't be in a hurry and seek guidance from the Spirit before making a commitment.
Kristen DMay 22, 2023
Thank you for saying this. Those types of comments always make me cringe. The negativity is very sad.
Belinda BrownMay 22, 2023
I consider this article to be a great one because this very habit is eating deep into the lives of some of our members. This is not happening in the United States only, but it is also happening in my ward, here in Nigeria. I have heard some members say things like ''I ran away from picking up the call when I realized it was the stake president calling'' They are bold enough to say it at the pulpit, especially when they want to bear their testimony. their running away becomes a topic for their testimony. The Lord and the world need willing men and women who will wear the worker's seal. And not some who will stand idly looking, for this need to STOP.
Teri N.May 21, 2023
Thank you very much, Mariah. Such a great and contemplative article. Very well said. Point very well made. Insights very much inspired. Counsel very much needed by all of us, I think. Not a human being doesn't fall into these traps at some point. Your "surprise ending" wasn't really a surprise after all, once the entirety of the article is considered. I have always respected and loved your parent's social media presence and their staying true & faithful to the prophets and apostles, and I see this apple didn't fall far from the Good tree. Thank you for making the choices that have made you, you, because now you are sharing eternal insights that are inspiring the rest of us, just as your parents before you. Loved this article!
Joe BrightMay 20, 2023
Great article. I do not find it in myself to criticize how others deal with their challenges as these encompass so many things. Yet I agree that a deeper understanding of our blessings that come through these challenges and opportunities is hopefully before us and a deeper appreciation for them as well.
Kayleen A HunsakerMay 20, 2023
Thank you for this article Mariah... I SO needed to hear this and contemplate these words. I feel they are inspired for not just me, but so many!
SARMay 20, 2023
Beautiful message! I'm speaking on church on Sunday on this exact theme. Reading this article was a srong confirmation this was a message the Lord wants us to know. Thank you for your testimony and willingness to know and do.
Dave GrandyMay 19, 2023
Good essay. Telling these little stories and making these little apologies sets the wrong tone and becomes tiresome after a while. Sure, some of us are nervous, but often it seems the speaker feels this is how a talk is supposed to start out.
Rochelle HaleMay 19, 2023
I, too, am bothered by those who introduce their talks with excuses or poor jokes. I have only known a few people who were truly terrified about giving a talk or prayer in public. Others, who seemed somewhat reluctant, gave terrific messages. They may not have been as articulate or scripture-based as some, but they were meaningful and heartfelt. Others are polished and well-meaning, but perhaps their messages go above the heads of many. We should find joy in service, whether it be a regular calling or a short assignment or sacrament talk. Unfortunately, the procrastination about preparing or the bad jokes do get passed on to the next generation. However, I have seen some of our Primary children and Youth give amazing talks.
BrynnMay 19, 2023
I would add another consideration. What if there is a new visitor attending Sacrament Meeting and the first thing that person hears from the pulpit is someone suggesting they don’t want to be there? It sounds like we don’t value discussing the gospel of Jesus Christ, that we are forced into participating in the meeting, and that the speaker doesn’t think he or she has anything of worth to offer. Visitors might end up wondering why they even came to Sacrament Meeting. If we hope to share the gospel and invite others to join us, we need to remember that we only have one chance to make a first impression. That first impression needs to be our love for the Savior and His gospel, rather than implying that we don't want to be a part of the worship service.
Britt FranklinMay 17, 2023
I've heard it said that the reason Jesus waited as long as he did to return to Bethany is because there was a tradition among the Jews that the spirit of a deceased person would stay around the corpse for as long as three days before moving on. If Lazarus had been resurrected within the first three days the tradition would have been credited rather than the Savior. Interesting thought.
ShaunaMay 8, 2023
Thank you for sharing this excruciating and harrowing experience! And I am with you 100% on my faith in the Gospel and how I desperately need those blessings in my life. So pathetic that Satan has made unbelief seem "cool" and "smart." Life without faith in God and in His son Jesus Christ is like trying to walk through a maze blindfolded. I choose to have faith and open my eyes so that I can truly "see."
GTOMay 8, 2023
I'm surprised not to see comments on this article. Your eloquent and compelling account of this terribly difficult experience and your spiritual lessons really reached deep into my own soul with inspiration and gratitude. Thank you.
Ann-Marie JensenMay 7, 2023
What an experience! Thank you for sharing all the good side effects. Your Relief Society sisters were true disciples and your husband was an example of living ready to receive revelation.
BETTY W JOHNSONMay 5, 2023
Becky, since leaving the Church nearly ten years ago, I have avoided reading articles good or bad, about the Church. In your case, I read every single article you send to my inbox. Your strength of spirit and your great gifts are an inspiration to so many, regardless of their stations in life. Thank you for sharing your remarkable life.
PatMay 5, 2023
What a lovely and strengthening story, each and every bit of it. God's miracles cannot be denied.
LewisMay 5, 2023
This is an incredibly powerful story, but the lesson it teaches is even more profound. We can’t let things, regardless of the nature of those things, stand between us and the blessings of the Savior and the gospel. Thank you for your continual efforts to nudge us closer to our Heavenly Father through your powerful stories.
DanielaMay 5, 2023
Thanks for sharing your story and testimony. What an example of faith! I do share particularly your thoughts at the end of the article.You could not have said it better.
Barbara MattatallApril 30, 2023
What has happened to the text copy of the podcasts? Listening to it does not help me to retain what is said. I lose quite a bit when I cannot follow along with the printed copy.
Lucie Kayleen LoweApril 29, 2023
I love, love your podcast. Spiritual, informative, gentle, and easy to understand. I feel your testimonies as you are teaching. Each week when I listen to it, I also take notes from the transcript that you usually provide. I didn't see them with this week's lesson. I am just wondering if this is going to be the new format. I understand if it is. Again, thank you for all the time and effort you put into this podcast. It is absolutely wonderful.
Mona PronkApril 28, 2023
Is there a transcript for this podcast 16, I really wanted to keep it for a personal reference. Thanks.
Thijs DorenboschApril 24, 2023
Please attach a transcript to this podcast. I translate or for a group of Dutch saints who don 't onderstand english.
Myntillae NashApril 17, 2023
Lovely!
Liz AthansApril 16, 2023
Loved them from their very first song!
Mary JaneApril 14, 2023
One of my favorite LDS duos! Their voices harmonize so well and they have a pure tone and wonderful range. I look forward to many more of their videos and selections....
Ken ButlerApril 14, 2023
It isn't mentioned but some are trapped due to financial needs. A single person with insufficient income to live independently traps a person. If there are solutions to this, those escape routes should be addressed.
Lorena HolmsteadApril 13, 2023
This is brilliant! I absolutely love this idea. I have been doing some of that this very week. Thank you for sharing!
H NorthApril 13, 2023
John saw a symbol in his vision of the Arabic declaration of "There is no god but allah", which very closely resembles the Greek letters for "666", and was mistranslated as such. The "false prophet" is the caliph of the resurrected caliphate that will attack Israel in the near future. Today, Turkish president Erdogan is trying to do just that, though it may end up being someone else that finishes the task and becomes the new caliph.
JKApril 13, 2023
My prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to the family of this beloved Sister Missionary. May the comfort of the Holy Spirit rest upon them as they grieve her loss. I'm heartbroken with you. God bless.
MaryannApril 13, 2023
I loved this! How wonderful to know that the Lord answers our prayers in more ways than we might expect! He gives us what we need beyond what we ask for. Beautiful!
MaryannApril 13, 2023
There is nothing like the joy we feel when we search out our dead and perform their ordinances in the temple. I didn't start doing family history until I was in my 40s because I thought it was too hard and I just didn't feel up to it. A friend went with me to the Family History Center in our stake and her support gave me courage. The family history workers were so helpful and I was soon caught up in this glorious, joyful work. I learned how to begin my family tree on the church's Family Search website. I learned how to find records and how to search them. When we do this work, the Lord will accept our offerings, however small. I have been amazed at how much progress has been made to assist us in finding names. As more and more people engage in this holy work, the family lines are being revealed and the work is just exploding! People can begin in simple ways, such as writing down all the information they have about their parents and grandparents. Don't wait to ask your grandparents questions until they are dead. Contact all your living relatives and get as much information that you can. This will be an invaluable springboard for you to continue in the work. I can feel the Spirit of Elijah and I am so thankful to be a part of this sacred work.
Rochelle HaleApril 13, 2023
I remember this unbelievable event. We lived south of downtown, but we still filled sandbags in our neighborhood as a precaution. I was pregnant, but my husband headed out to help with whatever was needed. Our son was born later in the year and was blessed on a day when winter snow came early, a precursor to a cold, wet winter for 1983-84 as well.
SunnyApril 13, 2023
Bless you, Bless you Joni! Outstanding thoughts and quotes that truly reached my heart. Saying that your thoughts were answers to my prayer is a Godwink for sure! Keep up the good works and words, as so many people need to have hope and trust in God. AMEN - FRIEND
SusanApril 13, 2023
Thank you for this article. It came at the right time for me.
Carol AnnApril 13, 2023
Thanks for the very timely advice, Carolyn. It's time to update all our emergency supplies. Food becomes rancid over time in our kits and needs to be replaced. Water as well. Our Grab 'n Go binder/bag also needs refreshing with passwords, and up-to-date information and documents.
Kayleen A HunsakerApril 12, 2023
I agree with Elizabeth's comment. I had many tears as I read this and thought about those who I might 'tend to' or just love 'no matter what'! I loved reading this...it gave me tremendous hope; which to me = Our Savior Jesus Christ!!!
SusanApril 12, 2023
Thank you. Perfect message for the perfect moment.
Diane RogersApril 12, 2023
That was a beautiful story with thoughts on how to proceed with obtaining permission. I loved it!!!
Elizabeth RichardsonApril 12, 2023
This was no bland, boring, "we should all do better" piece. This was engaging and even exciting. I love the feelings it awoke in me! Thanks, Br. Goddard!
MaryannApril 11, 2023
I am really surprised at the counsel given here. It strongly suggests having a conversation with the Granddaughter that will lead her to believing that a compromise can be made. There is no compromise to supporting immoral behavior under your own roof. There is no compromise when your purpose is to maintain a good example for younger children. Moral cleanliness is a very serious issue and should not be trifled with by inviting a long, drawn out conversation. A simple, kind and honest statement suffices: "I care about you and your feelings, and I look forward to having this opportunity to spend time together and draw closer. Because of my personal beliefs, no one will be sharing bedrooms on our vacation unless they are married."
MaryannApril 11, 2023
When we are speaking of Jesus Christ we are speaking of the God of the Old Testament. We are speaking of the one who organized the worlds and everything in them. Christ ruled with power and authority long before he was ever born. I find it difficult to believe that he had to wait until his birth to be anointed or to receive the Holy Priesthood. It was the premortal Christ who parted the Red Sea, miraculously provided manna in the Israelite's wilderness journey, revealed himself to the brother of Jared and touched the stones to provide light for the Jaredite's crossing BEFORE he ever came to earth. If he did not have the Holy Priesthood, by what power and authority did he do all these things and much, much more?
TomApril 11, 2023
To see all interior views of the Saratoga Springs Temple released by the Church, and a magnificent video with additional interior views, see The Church News article and links: https://www.thechurchnews.com/temples/2023/4/10/23676921/see-interior-exterior-photos-saratoga-springs-utah-temple
Beth TApril 11, 2023
I have read Elders Scott’s account of his experience being called to the 12 apostles. I thank you so much for Sharing your insights and helping me anchor his experience more fully in my heart. Oh how we love the prophets and apostles! I know they lead us in righteousness.
steven payneApril 10, 2023
He is my personal favorite apostle who resonates with my soul in a very deep way. May the Lord watch over Elder Holland and Pat and the rest of their family. His way with words has stirred my soul on more than one occasion. Until me meet again at the Lords feet.
Karla MenhennetApril 9, 2023
What a life changing story. This story truly opened my eyes to the expanse of our Lord's infinite atonement like never before. My understanding of Christ's atonement has blossomed after this very personal story of a beautiful miracle. Thank you for blessing my Easter!
Corey DApril 8, 2023
Becky, you are the LDS version of Mother Teresa, someday when you pass from this life they will only need to put three words on your headstone, "Heart of Gold".
Sherry EthridgeApril 7, 2023
Thank you Becky!
John SnijderApril 7, 2023
A great story, but how does it fit in with Doctrine and Covenants 42:18 And now, behold, I speak unto the church. Thou shalt not kill; and he that kills shall not have forgiveness in this world, nor in the world to come.
Joe WApril 7, 2023
I am grateful that I read your article today; it has reminded me of just how important Christ’s redemptive powers are for each one of us. Your time and example have lifted many burdens carried by those who have committed grievous crimes and sins but is also a reminder to all of us that our sins may be forgiven and that our Savior loves each one of us. We, too, are able to be healed when we forgive others their sins and trespasses and leave it to the Lord. I am grateful for my Savior and Redeemer Jesus Christ and for His love and patience with each of us as we strive to overcome our own weaknesses.
NatJDApril 7, 2023
If you could encourage him to tell the family where her body is, that would mean the world to them
MelanieApril 7, 2023
Thank you so much for this beautiful article and for being willing to leave your comfort zone to do this wonderful work with these prisoners. I had a family member in prison once, and although I have been able to forgive him, it hasn't been easy for me or others to understand how some things can be forgiven. This really helped me have a greater understanding of how infinite the Savior's atonement is. Thanks for sharing
LewisApril 7, 2023
What a beautiful story, and a powerful reminder of the universality and power of the atonement. Thank you!
MaryannApril 6, 2023
Oh, how I love Elder Holland! I will certainly join my prayers with millions of other church members for a complete recovery for he and his wife, Pat.
Merlyn de la MelenaApril 6, 2023
This is one of the most inspiring beautiful stories I've ever read! It starts as a simple truth of God's law and has exploded into a far-reaching group of our brothers who are learning about God's Atonement for all of us. Thanks you for sharing it with us!
Kay RookhuyzenApril 6, 2023
I think everyone has had experience with thinking they can never be forgiven. This article hit home with me. No, I haven't done anything horrific but thinking of my past sins is not a happy experience. They say forgive and forget but I heard the saying you can forgive yourself but forgetting is impossible...but you can eventually remeber back with PEACE.
Heather SmurthwaiteApril 6, 2023
Beautiful. So simply and elegantly explained. A passionately testified truth -- God never gives up on any one of us -- We are His children.
Nerita Flake PetersonApril 6, 2023
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this redemptive, inspiring story.
ColinApril 6, 2023
That was a beautiful illustration of the power of Christ's Atonement on hearts.
Nerita Flake PetersonApril 6, 2023
Thank you for this soil expanding experience
Peggy StallingsApril 6, 2023
Becky, I'm continually amazed at how Christlike you are, and how humbly you serve all who the Lord places in your path - from all over the world. Thank you for sharing your testimony in action through your experiences.
Dave HansenApril 6, 2023
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for that *sermon*, Becky. I will never forget it. God Bless You!
AshleyApril 4, 2023
Thank you! I love these great reminders. Just what I needed today!
Lorraine QApril 4, 2023
Thank you. Thank you for the reminder of the promises.
JeanApril 3, 2023
This podcast so resonated with me. I was deeply comforted as I listened to Lincoln share his experiences. Thank you, Thank you.
Peri BennionApril 3, 2023
Thank you for your honest comments. I too suffer from anxiety and depression and feel like the heavens are closed much of the time. I have come to many of the same conclusions Brother Watkins has - it is wonderful to have another person vocalize these things. It will help me continue in faith.
MaryannApril 1, 2023
It is not unusual for Bishops to refer people to trained therapists or psychiatrists. I was very blessed to have a therapist who was also a Bishop (in another ward) so he understood my foundation in the gospel. It's not always possible to find someone like this, but there are also some good therapists who are not members of the church. I highly recommend it. You may not hit on the right one for you the first time, but keep looking until you find someone who can help. It is essential that they understand your moral foundation, so be clear with them about that.
Corey D.April 1, 2023
As a General Authority Seventy who came to our stake some years ago said in leadership meeting, "I don't know where or why members get the idea that Bishops are marriage counselors". Having said that I know it's natural for many members to seek counsel from their Bishop because they recognize or feel that mantel that the Bishop has or they have been taught that's who you go to. Certainly there has been good advice and comfort given by many Bishops in regards to marriage or life problems but their main responsibility is spiritual. But that also doesn't mean a trained counselor or therapist always has answers and may even say things that are contrary to gospel standards or may make things worse.
Greg DonovanMarch 31, 2023
thanks for the message I hope we are receiving it loud and clear!
Becca HowardMarch 31, 2023
Years ago my then-husband and I had a question we needed our bishop's help to resolve. The ensuing discussion led us off-topic and into areas that we had not planned on discussing. My ex came away totally angry and surely thinking that our bishop had no insight or inspiration. I tried to reassure him. Bishops lead their own lives and are not experts on everything that might come up. Of course, we want them to be considerate of our needs and to give spiritual guidance, but sometimes they may have to refer to the Church Handbook for guidance or accurate policy as well. My ex saw that as a weakness in our bishop. For a number of reasons, we divorced a year or so later. I became a single mother, and it was not easy. In my new ward, a close friend received much support and assistance from our bishop. Though I felt the bishop knew my situation, I felt I had to figure many things out on my own. I believe the Lord knew my strengths and what I could handle, and I (and my child) survived those difficult years.
Shirley KingMarch 31, 2023
This song touched my heart with both singers. It was beautiful & enlightening
BryanMarch 31, 2023
Some highlights that I appreciated from this article: - Speak clearly about the direct impact their [the bishops'] words and actions have on those they serve ... say something directly to him. - “Good inspiration is based upon good information,” which “includes your own thoughts, feelings, and experiences.” - “there’s no requirement for you to counsel with your bishop … if … trust isn’t earned … it’s okay to move on and seek other support” - “you have the right to discern if … counsel is helpful” - “be clear with yourself about your expectations of the bishop” I have had overwhelmingly positive experiences with the many bishops I have encountered and with whom I have served, but I know people who have had negative ones as well, so I appreciate this informative article. Bishops are people, and every, single person born into this world has been imperfect, with one Exception. We grow because of and in spite of one another, bishops included. I am grateful that the atonement of our Savior ultimately applies to everyone, including bishops :)
David MohrMarch 29, 2023
I have just married after a seven year long distance relationship (Canada/Phillipines) yes there are things to work out now that we are together but it is a happy relationship we have.
Karell BinghamMarch 28, 2023
To me, this is how it should have read, considering translation problems: You search the scriptures, for in them ye think ye have eternal life, and they are they which testify of me, but ye will not come to me that ye might have life!
MaryannMarch 27, 2023
People do NOT leave the church over doctrine or issues that bother them. They leave because they do not have a deep testimony that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is truly the Lord's church, directed by him. If they really believed that, issues that disturb them would be set aside because of their faith. We don't have the right to demand all the answers right now, or even to understand all things right now. The Lord has revealed to us that his thoughts and ways are higher than our's. Only He has all the facts. "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding." This is not blind obedience. It is trusting that the Lord reveals the truth to his servants who have been called to give us his word and to direct the church, as revealed by our Savior. It requires humility to dismiss doubt and to cleave to the Lord, by following the counsel of his Prophets and Apostles.
MaryannMarch 27, 2023
I am wondering if there is something missing in this man's request for help. He refers to "betrayed wives" and a "double life." I realize these terms are often (and correctly) used for substance abuse and covering it up.. However, I am wondering if there was also an issue of sexual infidelity. The wife's continued unyielding response would make more sense if this is the case. If so, that kind of betrayal takes a long time to heal. If not, I hope, in light of the man's recovery, she will be able to trust him again.
RozyMarch 27, 2023
I learned this on my mission (1979-80) from hearing a talk by Elder Marion D. Hanks. This truth has influenced my study of the scriptures and words of modern prophets ever since. It's so important to see how they are pointing us to the Savior!
Ruth MartinMarch 26, 2023
Over the years Nauvoo has been known by seven different names. Gideon, Quashquema, Venus, Commerce, Nauvoo, City of Joseph, Cornerstone of Zion.
RoxanneMarch 25, 2023
Hi I had watched three of your podcast on the bright and moving star finding and following Christ in the book of revelation. I can't seem to find the sight to continue. Can you help me with this. Thanks
RussMarch 25, 2023
Amazing! Thank you!
Irene BlackMarch 24, 2023
This article really touched me as I have just experienced losing a sweetheart of 55 years to a terrible disease. The savior is the answer to our grief. Maureen your gift is in touching others with your writing. Thank you!
Irene BlackMarch 24, 2023
One of the best articles ever on the atonement. You helped me understand why my husband had to suffer so much during his battle with Parkinson’s disease . You have helped me through the grief of his passing. Our Savior is the answer to our pain. Thank you Sister Procter. You have a gift to touch others through your words.
Brynly RichMarch 24, 2023
This is such an insightful article!! Thank you for providing such great suggestions to better apply those principles taught in For the Strength of Youth!
Jeanette Goates smithMarch 24, 2023
In that day they drank wine for safety’s sake. Water was often full of contaminants that would make one sick. The metaphors here are profound
JeddMarch 23, 2023
Great article!! Well written. The changes to the For the Strength of Youth program will not only help youth, but help their parents as well.
TamiMarch 23, 2023
Such a great article! I love the notebook(s) that you're referring to and I have purchased multiple copies of them! They were created by our friend, Becky Higgins. The notebooks are such good quality and are the perfect size to carry with you and jot down things on the go! We farm for a living so your article really resonated with me as I have documented something very similarly in our personal modern-day family history. Thank you for sharing your insight on "cultivating" :)
JeddMarch 23, 2023
Excellent! Love the article and explanations on the changes to the For the Strength of Youth.
Diane IrwinMarch 23, 2023
Ditto what Jim Thorley said!
Corey D.March 20, 2023
That's nice of course and to be expected because the church goes to great efforts to keep a positive public image and we should all do our part to conserve. Last year I tore out my park strip and tried to put as much of the yard as I could on drip but this idea and huge media campaign the last 6 months or so about saving the Great Salt Lake and if we don't it will be an ecological disaster is for the most part scare tactics. There is no data to back up these claims because its never happened before, the Great Salt Lake is the result of a natural disaster and the whole Wasatch Front is living on an old lake bed, we have had huge dust storms for years. It also doesn't take into account that both humans and nature adapt to change. There is some historical evidence that it has been this low before but mostly, especially for those of religious belief it leaves out the fact that ultimately all of this and particularly the weather is in God's hands.
Corey D.March 20, 2023
Just more evidence about the damage that pornography does and a necessary article and an important study, especially since there are those in the Counseling Profession, including some who are LDS and one well known former member therapist who are now saying that pornography isn't all that bad and in fact encourage the use of erotic material (code for porn) in relationships. A friend who was the police chief in our community for 25 yrs can tell you all about the damage and what pornography does to people that he has seen in his career.
MaryannMarch 20, 2023
It is difficult to see how this advice will help, when the Grandmother is already repeatedly reaching out and communicating love with no response from her daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law is using the power play of silence to try and control her mother-in-law. It is time to put the ball back in the daughter-in-law's court: "I love you all very much, and I am saddened by your choice not to communicate with me. I don't wish to cause you any pain, so I will honor your wishes and wait until you let me know you are ready to have a loving relationship." Then, wait.
Patricia Cerisano March 20, 2023March 20, 2023
Wonderful article. I love and appreciate our leaders even more and will always remember them in my prayers.
TreyeshuaMarch 20, 2023
Thank you for this amazing post. So true then, so true today.
CaroleMarch 19, 2023
So so beautiful! Thank you so much for sharing the thoughts and the exquisite song!
B. OlsenMarch 17, 2023
Those three wishes are wonderful but the first two can only be accomplished in a covenant relationship with God in and through the church. God loves us no matter what we do but reserves the blessings of covenantal love for those who are faithful. That is the part that will be missed by those who leave the church. Yes, thankfully there is yet time.
tfMarch 16, 2023
Ah, Stanford students: Free speech for everyone (except you)
MikeMarch 15, 2023
Brigham Young was an amazing prophet and leader. He led the church through very difficult times, and literally led the physical gathering of Israel in the last days. But as you point out, he was not perfect - no one is, not even prophets. This is why the principle of Councils is so important. Yes, President Nelson has started and led may changes over the past 5 years, but none of them would not have been implemented without 15 senior church leaders, from various backgrounds and experiences and opinions, UNANIMOUSLY AGREEING to the changes. Obviously Joseph Smith could not have followed this principle from 1820-1835 because there were no apostles. And even up to Brigham Young's time, due to physical separation and physical hardships, the 15 apostles couldn't or didn't regularly meet, it may not have been very formalized and consistent yet. So yes when Brigham Young stated some of these theories that we do not currently agree with, he was following his own opinion, not doctrine approved by 15 apostles. I personally believe the same thing happened with the priesthood restriction. I believe Brigham Young may have been overly influenced by the times and by racist and/or slaveholding members of the church, and political ambition, when he made his racist remarks, did not want blacks to have the right to vote in Utah, and started the priesthood restriction. We have no documentation that states the 15 apostles at the time agreed to the restriction. Perhaps they would have agreed and consented. But perhaps at least one or two or five of them would have quoted the book of Mormon about the gospel being for black and white, male and female, and the fact that Joseph Smith approved black men to receive the priesthood. And the motion might have been killed or tabled. We will never know, but it does make a strong point to how councils are wise and protective for everyone, whether you are a mom and dad leading a family, or the Lord's prophet leading His Church.
Rochelle HaleMarch 15, 2023
I played Geneopardy with my limited family tree. It was so much fun, especially since I got most of the answers correct.
Michael D. FryeMarch 15, 2023
I was amazed to find in your article today an illustration of a Mari Investiture panel from Old Babylon showing the purported goddess, Ishtar, with a lion under her foot. The illustration was striking, as just yesterday I came across a similar representation of 15th century A.D. Piers Gerard, Esq. standing on a very similar looking lion. Who could imagine such a coincidence, or might there be some medieval connection with the old Babylonian rite? (See: “The monumental Brasses of Lancashire and Cheshire,” by Thornely, James L, p.65. https://www.google.com/books/edition/A_Genealogical_and_Heraldic_History_of_t/LKIKAAAAYAAJ?q=&gbpv=1#f=false ).
Gary AndersonMarch 14, 2023
Wonderful article! Thanks for writing it!
John WMarch 14, 2023
I would add C. Terry Warner’s Bonds that Make Us Free
Joe CarlsonMarch 13, 2023
Thanks so much for your article i am in a situation that has driven me to some very Un Christ like behavior and have struggled to forgive and have unconditional Love!
Ann SiggardMarch 13, 2023
I love Sherri Holloman! We served together in China and she is one of God's brightest stars whom I have been privileged to know and love! She has been a light to me in my own trials! Her story is all of our stories! Faith to endure and faith in Jesus Christ and his miraculous Atonement!
Lisa ReisingMarch 13, 2023
This is an amazing article - really opens up temple symbols, connecting us to the past as well as highlighting the recent additions to our modern ceremony. God (and HIs Plan) is the same yesterday, today and forever. Thank you!!
a sister in zionMarch 12, 2023
I think the advice to try to grow closer to the mother is wise. She may simply need listening ear and voice of empathy to make it through her own experience as a mother. She also may need more help than others sense. For reasons still unclear to me, i have had multiple people nearby but at times no support for very rhavy burdens. One of my ministering teachers told me no when I finally reached out for help. Some women carry silent heavy burdens and wounds unseen. I personally have four autoimmune disease and struggle daily with my calling supporting my husband and caring for my family. Perhaps as you get to know her you will be inspired if you simply need to emotionally support her or advocate with you son and others if her needs are being unmet. You could also perhaps potentially provide physical assistance even thkgih you live far away. Arrange to read to the childrne when she need help or to do something they would interrupt, send s gift card with money for dinner, mail her paper plates cups napkins and disposable silverware with a note for dish duty after dinner. There are lots of ways to support young mothers and I am sure you will be inspired to find a way to reconnect.
R. JensenMarch 12, 2023
Where is the son in all this? Could he possibly explain to his mother why his wife is cutting off communication?
RobMarch 11, 2023
Really all we can do in these situations is to keep sending letters and texts of love. Eventually the grandchildren will want contact. I've seen this happen many times in my area with family and neighbors over the decades. The sad fact is once a person has realized they were too controlling... is because they face the same problem with their grown up children.
Mark W MinerMarch 10, 2023
Incredibly moving, thank you for sharing both of these stories. Forgiveness is truly the Atonement of Jesus Christ in action.
LewisMarch 10, 2023
This is an extraordinarily difficult principle to live, but you teach it so powerfully. I am grateful for the Savior’s example of forgiveness, and the serenity and peace associated with true forgiveness. We tend to hold on to our bitterness, even to the point where it begins to corrode our souls. If we can just see fit to let it go, I think we will find the peace and joy you speak of.
SMarch 10, 2023
Why is there absolutely no mention of this woman's son who is the father of those grandchildren? He's really allowing this to go on? As if he agrees that they should be calling the shots on where grandma lives? Ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous.
GTOMarch 10, 2023
Two heart-rending, life-changing stories. Thank you so much for sharing these with us. I feel overwhelmed by how these situations were turned around. Endowed with hope.
MMarch 10, 2023
Enlightening and thoughful.
WeezieMarch 10, 2023
I’ve always loved her! She has such a beautiful, tender, yet powerful style. She has been an influence on me in writing music too. I love how real she is. Going through a divorce must have been so hard. She’s my hero. My fav song she’s done besides this one (this is the Christ) was she put the music in me. I have a connection with her on that. My mom also put the music in me. Thanks for highlighting her!
KateMarch 10, 2023
This is excellent advise, and I hope that this woman can rebuild her relationship with her DIL, but it seems very curious that her son was barely mentioned.She's a DIL, not an ex-DIL, so one assumes the son is still a part of this family. It seems very odd that he goes along with this treatment of his mom (especially for the reasons indicated), and surely HE should be part of this renegotiation of this relationship. Either some very pertinent info has been left out of this question and answer, or we are left to think that the husband has no responsibility at all in this situation. Why does he get to be the silent partner?
Marcela StaceyMarch 10, 2023
Great article - thank you. One question: in the story where the young girl is in Africa, what would forgiveness have looked like if they only would have badly beaten her and hurt her, but not killed her. Would forgiveness require that she go back to risk possible further injury? The parents went back at risk of injury - should the girl have gone back too if she hadn’t died?
MMarch 7, 2023
Very interesting.
MMarch 7, 2023
Love this!
AnonymousMarch 7, 2023
Lovely. Thanks.
Myntillae NashMarch 7, 2023
Great!
Myntillae NashFebruary 14, 2023
This is great!
RussFebruary 4, 2023
So, so true! Thank you!
RussFebruary 4, 2023
Yes!! Thank you!
RussFebruary 4, 2023
Nice!! Thank you!
MaryannFebruary 3, 2023
What a beautiful way to honor your birth mother and also the sacrifice she made to place you in better circumstances than she could provide. While she is obviously not your "real" mother, she did give you life and cared enough to seek out the best life for you. That must have been a very joyful experience for you and I'm sure she will embrace you with thanks one day.
MaryannFebruary 3, 2023
How often we are instructed in the scriptures to "remember." Every one of us can choose to remember that the Lord loves us, and that we can fully TRUST him to grant our righteous desires when the time is right for us. We may feel frustrated, but we must never believe that he has forgotten us. The Lord ALWAYS keeps his promises. No blessings will be permanently denied if we sincerely seek to follow Him. In the meantime, there is great comfort in counting our blessings, building our relationships with family and friends, and serving. These things will help us keep a true perspective and bring us joy.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 3, 2023
I believe the Lord's miracles (including personal revelation and inspiration) are all around us. Too often, however, we find ourselves waiting for the "big" things. Several years ago I was assigned to minister to an elderly friend. I already knew her and her adult children with whom she lived, but she had suffered an impairment of some kind and I was deeply concerned about communicating with her. I telephoned and we had a delightful conversation. We could both clearly hear and understand one another. Just this week I had to have some old dental work re-done. The procedure with the endodontist was pretty trying, but when I went to my dentist for my final filling I was in and out of his office within fifteen minutes after a quick, no-numbing-required procedure. In both of these situations, so many prayers were answered.
LisaFebruary 3, 2023
My great-great grandparents, Charles Clark and Sarah Sloat Burr, were among the Brooklyn passengers, so I've grown up hearing the stories of these saints and am now telling them to my own children. The Burrs were one of the families who buried a child at sea during the early part of the voyage and John Atlantic Burr, mentioned in the article as being born on the ship, was their son. He has gained fame of his own as being the one whom the Burr Trail in the Grand Staircase Escalante of southwestern Utah is named for. Charles and Sarah were among the 1/3 of the Brooklyn saints who pressed on to Utah, eventually founding the town of Burrville in Sevier County, where my mother spent her childhood. My mother's maiden name is Burr.
Hockey MomFebruary 2, 2023
Hanks is a mental lightweight and dime store therapist. When affirmation is the basis of your therapy, you’re doing it wrong. The profession has gone off the rails taking this approach. And her inconsistent positions are the fruits of it.
MaryannFebruary 2, 2023
I was disappointed that this article didn't provide us with more specific ways that enabled people to overcame their depression.
BoBFebruary 1, 2023
The section "That's from God" makes a whole lot of things make sense. All those times I wonder, "why don't y'all understand this."
KCFebruary 1, 2023
Thank you so very much for helping me to see. So many times we expect the Spirit to "feel" a certain way while it's happening. Often, it's the process, like a bible story, of the eventual outcomes that we can look back on to see God's hand and Spirit in it all. Thank you for the reminders.
KathyFebruary 1, 2023
I always love your insightful articles. So inspirational and so uplifting. Thank you Anne!
Rochelle HaleJanuary 31, 2023
As we wait we should never hinder our progress. When I married at the very old age of almost 25, I thought I was way behind many of my friends and that I had, somehow, missed the boat. However, I reflected on what I had done prior to my wedding. I had gone to college, I had served a mission, I had traveled, and experienced other things. Again waiting came when motherhood was delayed, but I moved ahead as best I could "mothering" nieces and nephews and the children of friends, seeking the best medical care, and adoption or other resources to bring children into our home. The Lord has many blessings in store for us, many much greater than we can hope for. Years ago, probably at a college devotional, we were counseled that it is ok to dream and maybe even buy a wedding dress, but don't get so stuck on what is not happening that we diminish the personal growth of our talents and testimonies, and opportunities to serve others.
LoraJanuary 31, 2023
Norman Vincent Peale counseled a wife whose husband was in a war zone to thank the Lord in advance for her husband's safe return. That is good counsel. We can thank the Lord for blessings not yet received. This reassures us that He's working on it. He's holding it in reserve. It helps us to be patient while we're waiting, and helps us to be grateful for the blessings that we do have now.
JoanJanuary 31, 2023
In referring to Sister Kapp, you said she was "denied" motherhood in this life. She was not denied, she chose to wait, for her own reasons. She had freedom of choice. She certainly will be a wonderful Celestial mother. I am a mother of four, grandmother of 14, and great-grandmother of 7, because after 5 years of "waiting", God placed our babies in our home through adoption. They are sealed to us and are our own for eternity...depending on our righteousness, as is always the case.
Becky DouglasJanuary 30, 2023
I absolutely loved this insight into the story of Peter's call to be one of Jesus's Apostles. What a humbling thought for all of us to contemplate. Thank you!
AnnaJanuary 30, 2023
The law of sacrifice and consecration can be tested when our nets are full. However, I know people who accept church callings, because they have been told to “never say No”, and then do nothing to magnify that calling, not showing up to commitments, claiming no responsibility and making other excuses. There are times when the test is to be honest with the Lord, the Bishop, and ourselves and to let go of that calling rather than bring condemnation upon ourselves by not fulfilling the calling.
Marla SmakaJanuary 30, 2023
I never understand the need some adoptees have to search out a biological parent. I am an adoptee, as are all of my siblings. One day my brother, Scott, said he wanted to know if I could give him copies of pictures I have of him as a child growing up so he could share them with his sister. The absolute kick in the gut. Foolishly I assumed he felt I felt he and I were brother and sister. In his mind the women he was planning to meet was his sister. I gave him the pictures and he shared them with his birth sister. My brother is now deceased. At the end of the funeral a woman came to me and introduced herself as Scott's sister. To my knowledge, this woman had physically been my brother's presence one time. I am 14 years older than Scott. He came into our home when he was just two days of age. I was present in the Mesa Arizona Temple when Scott was sealed to our parents. Does anyone feel my pain? In the current time, it seems the accepted thing to do is gush with joy over adoptees seeking their biological families. The other accepted attitude is basically to say thanks for the relationship, but I need my real family. I advise my childless friends to adopt a cocker spaniel unless they have hearts of cast iron so they can face the moment when their loved one says they want to find their real family.
RachelJanuary 29, 2023
I bought an Alexa for my husband for his birthday so he could easily listen to his music (he is disabled). A couple of months ago, a friend came over with a new gadget to show my husband. We never looked online for any information regarding this gadget. It was only the conversation between my husband and his friend that contained any interest in the gadget. The next day in my FaceBook feed and Amazon advertisements, there were all kinds of testimonials and advertisements regarding this gadget. I'm convinced Alexa was listening to the conversation. Otherwise, why would this have happend?
Corey D.January 29, 2023
As scared as she is of being lonely or affecting the family she needs to divorce this guy and when any family members ask her why, she needs to concisely and honestly tell them why. He needs to be shown to the family what he really is, a serial adulterer, dishonest and a liar. A one time honest mistake with sincere repentance is a whole different thing than what this guy has done. No one can blame another for breaking their covenants. Being in a sexless or non-adventurous or non-affectionate marriage, which is what the comment by H North is implying does not justify infidelity or breaking ones covenants.
EmJanuary 29, 2023
I can understand that therapists like Dr. Hanks, when walking with someone one-on-one, may need to find ways to meet them where they are. I've experienced this in some of my ministering experiences. Each person's journey is unique, and since I believe God meets us where we are, I think we can model that in one-on-one situations. But as the saying goes, God never leaves us where we are. And when it comes to public positions, I think the risk of doing harm by undermining doctrine and commandments is very real. "Christlike love is the greatest need we have on this planet in part because righteousness was always supposed to accompany it. So if love is to be our watchword, as it must be, then by the word of Him who is love personified, we must forsake transgression and any hint of advocacy for it in others. Jesus clearly understood what many in our modern culture seem to forget: that there is a crucial difference between the commandment to forgive sin (which He had an infinite capacity to do) and the warning against condoning it (which He never ever did even once)." -Elder Jeffrey R. Holland
Don LJanuary 29, 2023
It's not news to learn we are living in the final days of the last days. If I were the adversary, I'd be blurring the lines between light and darkness, good and evil, truth and lies, and how we can safely navigate these perilous waters. Elder Boyd K. Packer once warned the youth that they are being raised in enemy territory, and it is no less true for each of us than it is for our youth. My concern about Julie's podcasts and social media posts is that in her attempt to position herself as a helpful social counselor, she is part of the blurring that is taking place. The gray area in the middle of questions becomes enlarged and more murky. There are no moral absolutes. I am not her judge and I do not know what is in her heart. I understand she is a popular speaker and social media presence. I'm sure she helps a lot of people with complex problems. But she cannot be both a mainstream secular counselor and a faithful spiritual one at the same time. And although I hope I'm wrong, it seems to me that she's trying to do exactly that.
MeaganJanuary 28, 2023
Very well done. Thank you! A few years ago I started following her Instagram account, but it ended shortly after because I quickly realized it was not a place for me to grow as a disciple of Christ. Her posts just left me with very negative feelings. I officially unfollowed her when she said the Family Proclamation wasn't doctrine, when it clearly is.
CassidyJanuary 28, 2023
As a convert of just over 5 years, coming from a non-religious family, Dr Hanks has made me feel truly seen in dealing with more complicated issues of faith, culture and family that I have not been able to get from a typical religious-background family that is most often found in bishops and church leadership. I have wondered often if I truly do fit in with the church, but when I see a community such as Dr Hanks, I realize that humans are beautifully and deeply complex, and feeling less alone on the edges of the church has helped me to stay. If you cannot relate, you simply CANNOT RELATE and that is the whole point. There are different people with different backgrounds and they all should have a place in the lords church. My question to these authors is, if you have never had experience or wrestling with many of these issues presented, do you realize that criticizing and disregarding or discouraging these things will actually nudge more people AWAY from the church? Do you realize that marginalized members are being saved by this more open minded, nuanced thinking? When I see this article, it again makes me wonder if I’m truly not as welcome as I’d hoped. And perhaps I do need to find a place that my whole self, nuance and complicated background and all, can feel I have a space. Dr Hanks is creating a safety net for people who need one. If you are asking her to cut the net, you will lose cherished brothers and sisters in this church. I hope you can ponder and pray and find the softness in your heart for these kinds of members, members like myself.
CherieJanuary 28, 2023
It’s really so bizarre to ask questions to Julie and then answer all of them yourselves. It’s pretty revealing that you never meant to listen to her responses if she had agreed to be interviewed. So many of her critics want her to be a church leader instead of a therapist. The whole mid section of your article was disparaging psychologists as having ulterior motives. But it’s actually very dangerous to tell people that therapists are all suspicious and that you can only trust your bishop. Some people genuinely need mental health services and if your bishop is a farmer or an accountant, he’s not going to be of much help with mental health issues no matter how much priesthood he holds. I’ve actually seen pretty neutral responses from Julie when people try to get “permission” from her to do something contrary to church commandments. (Not something she claims any authority to grant to people) One time a person asked her about whether or not drinking coffee is a big deal. She simply answered that the word of wisdom is on the temple recommend interview and you won’t be able to get a recommend if you drink coffee. The person had to choose for themselves what to do next. That’s classic therapist. If you want her to dictate to people exactly what to do in every situation, a bishop might do that, but it is not how a therapist would work. The questions you’ve asked her are all ones she has answered repeatedly in several different settings. Again, it seems pretty odd, and misleading to publish this as a conversation with her when it is clearly just a chance for you to use her name and photo(!) to pontificate your own views. For example, if you believe women should only aspire to be mothers and not seek out any other work outside the home unless it’s an emergency, just say it instead of shuffling around some strange pseudo question to Julie that she isn’t even here to answer. I was surprised to see such a weird hit piece like this on Meridian.
HuguetteJanuary 28, 2023
I love Julie Hanks and the work she is doing on internet ! She helped me feel less alone in my views and understanding of church related issues and has played an important role in the fact that I feel there is a place for me in this church. It seems to me that the people who wrote this article are also very biased even though they write that their questions are just " sincere questions", you can easily see their own opinions and despite the efforts they are making to look "nuanced" they really seem annoyed by what Julie Hanks is doing and saying. It doesn't seem that they have understood the messages Julie Hanks is trying to convey, which are deep and based on psychological knowledge of the human mind. To me her work shows great respect, understanding and trust for people. She helps people connect with God and value this aspect more than the relationship we Can have with an imperfect institution and with imperfect leaders. What a blessing it is, it helped me reinforce my personal relationship with God and pushed me to connect more with the divine. Overall I feel a better disciple of Christ, a more loving and compassionate person. Isn't it what it's all about ?
Judy PetersonJanuary 28, 2023
This is an excellent article which gives hope. However, I assumed there would be some hint as to what people have done to permanently overcome their depression. This was a teaser without anything that could really help me or give me direction towards healing. Is that coming after years of addition research? It was hollow hope for me.
KristynnJanuary 28, 2023
Such a well written article and one that is informative.
EricaJanuary 28, 2023
These points are very needed. Thank you for putting this together.
RebeccaJanuary 28, 2023
Thank you, thank you, thank you for addressing this. It's just a bonus that you did so in a very thoughtful and sensitive manner. Now I have something to share with friends and family that fully explains the concerns I have had over her ideology.
JulieJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you!!
AnneJanuary 27, 2023
Excellent article. Thank you for doing your homework and asking questions that require answers and discussion. Julie has a huge following and it’s too bad she wouldn’t weigh in on these questions herself.
EveJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Marie RJanuary 27, 2023
I'm not sure you are adequately addressing the membership of the church as a whole. There are members on a wide spectrum. The idea seems to be posed that following one's personal internal thoughts and feelings about what is best for them and their life is wrong, and I see that causing more harm on member's mental health than good. Just a different perspective. There's a place for everyone in the world and we're all children of God with unique needs and life maps.
BobJanuary 27, 2023
My, my, my said the spider to the fly. . . Thanks for the needed, probing, considerate, spot-on discussion.
Karell BinghamJanuary 27, 2023
I love that whenever God the Father introduces His son, he says, "This is my BELOVED SON!" Not this is my Son. My BELOVED SON! How the Father must love this being that sacrificed so much for the rest of his children. He is indeed Beloved!
CindyJanuary 27, 2023
H North's comment is disgusting! Don't blame the victim. Even if his statement were true, lack of affection, or anything else a wife may or may not do, does not give a husband the right to cheat nor excuse his behavior. There are many ways to handle an unhappy marriage and cheating is never ok.
KateJanuary 27, 2023
Oh my, H North's answer is the classic spiel of an adulterer--it's always the wife's fault: "I couldn't help myself, you weren't meeting my needs!" What a bunch of self-serving baloney. I wonder if he (and i'm 99% sure H. North is a he) is aware of how clearly and obviously he outed himself? I sincerely hope there is not still a MRS. H North. Yikes.
DianeJanuary 27, 2023
I'd love for Julie Hanks to explain her pro-abortion stance
S. HillJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you to Meridian Magazine for publishing such an important and needful article and for whomever took time to transcribe all of these Instagram or Podcast videos. It's extremely useful to see exact quotes. Every bishop, stake president and stake and ward RS/YW/Primary presiency needs to read this article.
Shelley RhoadsJanuary 27, 2023
Loved the article and how it balances views on many important aspects of Julie’s social topics. I’ve often felt there are more nuances to the issues being discussed than Julie powerfully asserts. When people are struggling with these important values & decisions, it’s human nature (natural man) to want someone who is credentialed and socially supported to advocate for the inclined path of the individual(s) facing that challenge. As a Church member, I know I came to earth to be tested in many ways, to choose the sometimes less inclined path, at times to be offended, to be judged & scorned as I am offered the opportunity to choose repeatedly to validate my faith and develop my divine greater self. I value that Julie brings hard topics about faith, sociality and the church for open discussion. I’ve often wondered about her testimony and commitment to gather Israel as we covenant to contribute to. At times I feel her over validation (as you put it) of one viewpoint thoroughly & drastically omits the various other viewpoints - especially for individuals who are not only developing their faith, but also their intellect and emotional maturity. The boundaries topic is an excellent example of this. I’ve seen & heard individuals leverage this as a way to avoid important discussions that should remain open within family or other valued relationships (sans abuse or coercion). There are ways to set boundaries around how we talk about topics versus if we talk about them at all. I’ve often thought Julie (perhaps inadvertently) usurps parental and other roles to eliminate the various influence options individuals can have at their disposal to exercise their agency in making personal decisions and choices. Thanks for asking some hard questions.
Kerry FarrJanuary 27, 2023
GREAT article. Thank you!
Nina EJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you for this. As a former YW President, I had followed Dr. Hanks, but started feeling uncomfortable with the things she was posting. Your questions to her and explanations are valid and worth asking.
Marilyn HaddJanuary 27, 2023
What an awesome insightful response to a most painful question. Bless you, dear sister. Heal.
Ann-Marie JensenJanuary 27, 2023
Thank you for this thought-provoking article. I especially appreciate your kind approach to asking excellent and vital questions and for sharing your own thoughts in a positive way.
JulieJanuary 26, 2023
By virtue of His moral life, as well as the Atonement which he wrought at its end, he was able to know how to succor us I just wonder if this sentence has a meaning for moral life over mortal life?
Kerry FarrJanuary 26, 2023
Such good thoughts! I have been telling grands how amazing they are. Now I see it differently. They are receiving Heavenly help. Praise belongs to God !
LynnJanuary 26, 2023
Alexa helps with everyday tasks. Turns on or off lights without getting out of bed, Turns on/off fans and opens/closes my driveway gate. Reads me daily verses from the Book of Mormon every morning, completing it every year. (done it for several years now). Gives me a "Flash Briefing" weather and national news from CNN, FOX and Public Broadcast Radio while I'm getting dressed and shaving. Indispensable!
LexaGraemeJanuary 26, 2023
Thank you, Brother Hess. Thank you to those who have opened up and shared their experiences. My heart alternately wept and soared.
LexaGraemeJanuary 26, 2023
Thank you.
Mimi WJanuary 25, 2023
A brilliant analogy. We must first learn obedience in order to progress. Thank you so much Kimberly for making the connection and sharing the wisdom you learned.
JJJanuary 25, 2023
I think ministering can be important, but we also need to do better about respecting peoples boundaries and not visiting if they don't want us to do so. I've heard numerous talks where the speaker shares a story about how they continued to visit someone who clearly wasn't interested and didn't want them there. Its always framed as being a feel good story, (like they should be patted on the back for repeatedly ignoring this persons wishes), but its really not! It always makes me cringe. Showing up at someone's house when they don't want you to is actually really inconsiderate. If someone asks you not to visit or says they are too busy, LISTEN to them and respect that! Otherwise you will just irritate and drive them away. We are all different and have different needs.
MaryannJanuary 25, 2023
I don't believe I could ever make it back home to my Heavenly Father without the support of the Church, Prophets, Seers, and Revelators, and my ward family. The church and the temple are a refuge from the world, and we are enabled with power from Jesus Christ through our covenants to overcome our weaknesses and the storms of life. We cannot do it alone.
MaryannJanuary 25, 2023
Great analogy. There are people who have been seriously injured or even lost their lives because someone did not train their aggressive dogs. We, too, can suffer spiritual injury or even lose an exalted, Eternal Life if we do not submit to the Savior reigning us in.
MaryannJanuary 25, 2023
I can't wait to get Alexa. I am not worrying about somone discovering my secrets. I certainly won't be discussing account numbers, etc. AND--you can always turn her off.
Diane IrwinJanuary 25, 2023
I totally agree! Too creepy.
CynthiaCJanuary 25, 2023
Amazing and thoughtful analogy to our life experience!
AnonymousJanuary 25, 2023
I was at a friend's house who had recently bought a couple Alexas for the house. A few minutes after I arrived, another friend arrived. She came in exuberant and laughing and the Alexa immediately says "I love when (name of the friend) comes so I can record her laughing". It was insanely creepy and we asked if somebody from another room had told the Alexa to say it, but they said they didn't.
Sally SmithJanuary 25, 2023
WOW. What a comparison. There are times when I felt the Lord wasn't listening or I didn't deserve a blessing. This article gives me a whole new understanding. I will not complain.
Donald CyrJanuary 25, 2023
So many thoughts can be said and written with an infinite use of words and arrangements like music and songs for the enchantment of our whole soul's... I really appreciate this inspiring idea and comparison about "Breed ", responsibilities and patience that are required : to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man. (Moses 1:39)
Paul HJanuary 21, 2023
Here's two more witnesses: Paul (See I Corinthians 15 as he lists several others bedides himself) Joseph Smith's account of the First Vision
Boanerges RubalcavaJanuary 21, 2023
Although I enjoyed discussion like this, and it is important all the data shown, to tell us if the Jesus of Nazareth is the Christ, what anybody really wanting to know it, just follow the admonition from James: "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed."
Jennifer ChurchillJanuary 20, 2023
Thank you for such a well-thought-out and laid-out article. I was intrigued from beginning to end. I have not reached a conclusion yet on Legend. While it is true, I am not sure that I want to throw Christ out with the like of Marvel Legends and Heroes. That is my drawback and such a modern one at that. For if you take it in the context that you have given it really is not an issue. Thus, why I have no conclusion currently.
HelenCJanuary 20, 2023
Wow, wow and WOW! Thank you, Dr. Peterson, for such confident illumination! I’m keeping this article for future reference.
DavidDJanuary 20, 2023
"Jesus and the Dead Sea Scrolls" (John Bergsma 2019) is an extremely interesting and well-documented book in which the non-LDS author argues convincingly that recent analysis of the Dead Sea Scrolls -- written contemporaneously with the life of Christ -- undermines the argument that the Gospel of John was written long after Christ's ministry.
Julie MajorJanuary 18, 2023
I appreciated your willingness to share the struggles you have experienced with ministering. As a RS president, my sisters will often share with me similar struggles with ministering. But I have truly learned the importance and blessing of ministering. Thank you for this story!
CynthiaJanuary 17, 2023
I LOVED this article. I am preparing a talk for this Sunday and have felt prompted to speak about ministering. This popped up in my in box today and it was perfect to complement my message. Thanks so very much for your message. I also leaned the importance of ministering aka visiting teaching years ago when I was serving as the Relief Society president. I knew the bishop couldn't possibly keep up with everyone in the ward and I calculated that between visiting teachers and home teachers there were many who would be available to help any one family. It was a real eye opener. Such a gift to members of the church to have this blessing in our lives.
Lee HillJanuary 17, 2023
Wonderful article, thank you!! I just got a new ministering companion who is young enough to be my son. He is inexperienced and I am physically handicapped, but together we have had some wonderful experiences with the families we minister to. Just like missionary work, consistently praying and seeking for inspiration has been critical in our ministering service.
Arne HedbergJanuary 17, 2023
Very insightsfull and helpful. It inspires me in my duties. Your words also makes me thankful that there are people like you who respond to the Spirit in challenging matters. Thank you!
Becca HowardJanuary 17, 2023
No matter what you call it, I have a very difficult time ministering by assignment. I am so much better at being spontaneous, for example taking a meal to a friend who posts on social media that she is overwhelmed with her children’s activities, or calling or sending a note to someone who is ill. My partner and her husband are the “ministering couple” to two or three of my assigned sisters, so these ladies are mostly off my radar, while I spend quite a bit of time helping a sister and neighbor who is disabled. Though I do a lot I still feel guilty for all that I don’t do or could be doing for those to whom I am assigned.
Kay RookhuyzenJanuary 16, 2023
My brother instructed us docremation due to his size and it was a blessing.
KCJanuary 15, 2023
Thank you! Love this perspective. One minute little change I would make, that is just "semantics". I would change the "Why? Because They want us to have what They have." to "be". Too many of us mortals want our children to "have" stuff or opportunities or lifestyles. If we're honest, we really want them to "be" more like the best parts of ourselves and the things we also aspire to. Having means you can also have not. Being is something that becomes a part of you never to be taken away.
Becky S.January 15, 2023
That was long, but worth the read, in fact it kept getting better each new point that was made. The eternal perspective and staying on a covenant path really does help us understand Gods love and will for all mankind.
Richard EyreJanuary 14, 2023
Several have asked for discussion questions for this article so that it can be discussed in study groups or book clubs. So I am providing those below. Also, I would welcome your comments directly to me since I know that this is a sensitive subject and you may not wish to comment publicly on Meridian. You are welcome to email me at [email protected] (this is the most private email that I have.) Discussion questions: 1. Does your current perception of what the Church is match better with Paradigm 1 or with Paradigm 2. 2. Do you agree that one who views the Church as a "means" rather than an "end" would be less susceptable to faith crisis? 3. Does thinking of the Church as a "means" rather than ad "end" raise or lower the importance of the Church in your mind? 4. Did you find yourself in agreement with the bullet points about what the Paradigm 2 causes both within our minds and within the Church? 5. Was the article helpful in better understanding the relationship between families and the Church? Please send any other questions or comments to me at the email at the top of this message. Thans for reading, and thinking, and perhaps commenting, Best, Richard Eyre
Amy PetersenJanuary 14, 2023
I would love and appreciate an article that doesn’t assume that the “staying” family member isn’t still striving to love and accept, despite the very real heartache and pain of another “walking”away. An article that validates that very deep sorrow in the present. Yes ultimately all things will work for good in God’s great Covenant plan and Love, but it is incredibly difficult to deal with unkindness, hurt, and angry accusations from the family members who “walk no more with” the words of eternal life. Who feel it’s ok to persecute and mock the believer. I’d be so grateful for help on this because it happens. Yes be loving and patient and listen thoughtfully to those who leave, but some who leave are at least unkind, at most verbally and emotionally abusive. It’s no easy thing to “just love them”and deal with this for so many. I see many articles about loving those who leave, few about the very real pain for those who stay. Sometimes that feels painfully invalidating.
Dave MyersJanuary 13, 2023
Thank you for this! A really helpful way to see the evolving circumstances of not just family members, but also dear friends. A companion paradigm that has helped me is the realization that it's not my job to try to 'fix' things because that usually makes things worse. My job is to love, without judging.
Maureen GaleJanuary 13, 2023
The Eyres can always be counted on for a fresh, enlightening viewpoint that explains, enriches, and is timeless in it's perspective.
MaryannJanuary 12, 2023
Brother Goddard--I love your suggestion of validating the feelings of each child and then asking compassionate questions to help our children think about what the other person wants or is feeling. Blaming only makes everyone defensive and strengthens the barriers that already exist. Helping our children to learn to get along by inviting them to take an active part in solving their differences is a golden key. Sometimes we are too quick to deal out punishment, rather than to use these situations as learning experiences.
MaryannJanuary 12, 2023
All of us have a need for words and gestures of love and reassurance. However, if we are in constant need of reassurance because we don't love ourselves, or because of deep insecurities, there may be other issues we need to address. Our spouses will become drained very quickly if they are the only source we have for feeling good about ourselves. We each need to gain a sense of our own self-worth. Understanding our relationship to our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ, is a giant step in that direction. If we often feel anxious about our worth and need constant reassurance from others, a good therapist can help.
MaryannJanuary 12, 2023
Yes! AND--loving "humanity" begins at home. Running around to political rallies or screaming our heads off on social media will never even approach the importance of loving, being kind to, and serving the people living right under our own roof, or in our neighborhoods. It seems to me that some people measure their "goodness" by how angry they are about their pet issues. We need to refocus on what is really important in life.
Randal GibbJanuary 12, 2023
Dear Steve, Thank you for sharing this Mental Health Minute! I have been blessed by many of them in our shared service in Africa! God bless you!
Earl ParksJanuary 12, 2023
Lots of depth. Well done.
ShaunaJanuary 12, 2023
Excellent article, thank you. It reminds me of why it's so important to have relationships, ideally in a family setting, where all our ideals meet reality. It is another of Satan's ploys to suggest that the most important lessons of life can be learned another way.i.e. by becoming an activist, or just having a group of friends instead of marrying, and getting a dog or pet instead of having children. None of these things are bad in and of themselves, but they are a poor substitute for forming a family
SageJanuary 12, 2023
Thanks for this insightful article. You reminded me why The Brothers Karamazov is one of my favorite books.
Charles McClellandJanuary 12, 2023
Excellent and very timely article.
Corey D.January 11, 2023
It's all summed up in that great revelation we know as Hymn 195 "How Great the Wisdom and the Love", verse 3, " by "strict obedience Jesus won", something really hard for most of us, at least it is for me. In today's world the word strict more often than not is seen as negative but so important.
Kay RookhuyzenJanuary 11, 2023
SO TRUE!!! A wonder narrative about an important principle.
DaveJanuary 11, 2023
Excellent article. Motivated by King Benjamin, I decided as a young father to also implement a zero tolerance for contention with our children. My technique for handling quarrels was to put both children on chairs in the middle of the living room and tell them they had to stay there until they came up with a solution to their problem that was satisfactory to each child. It worked magic. But, a word of caution - for this technique to be successful, you have to have a reputation with your children that they know you absolutely mean what you say, otherwise they will wait you out until you give up and let them go without solving the problem.
ShaunaJanuary 11, 2023
Terrific. what a great example of personal scripture study using a specific focus or lens. This method can yield great fruit. I love your focus on Lehi and Sariah and their family, including the rarely mentioned sisters. Truly this study yields clues as to how we can be more faithful and "steadfast," which is the word I studied in my personal scritpure study today:)
RebeccaJanuary 10, 2023
Yes, it's possible to have a *mostly* conflict-free home. I've found it begins with an adjustment in mindset on the part of parents. Many parents feel conflict between siblings is inevitable and unavoidable. High expectations and consistent follow through, along with thoughtful teaching, bears fruit eventually.
FrankJanuary 10, 2023
I was married for over 30 years when I became a widower. After a bit I remarried, and my new wife asked me to write my autobiography so that she would have a better idea of what the 55+ years before I met her were like. She suggested that I make a file for each year of my life and write a bit about my memories of each year. When I remembered something, I wrote a few paragraphs about that event and filed it by date. A bit at a time, memory by memory I succeeded in preparing a book of a little over 300 pages. Arranging to have it printed at a vanity press was easy, and it took care of Christmas presents for the year.
AnonymousJanuary 10, 2023
I really enjoyed this podcast and it was exactly what I needed to hear after a few hard years. In the past few years I have wondered if God was there or if He had forgotten about me. Hearing the honesty and rawness of emotion in this podcast reminded me that sometimes you just have to keep pushing through dark times to understand the meaning behind it. Thanks for sharing Becky!
TimJanuary 10, 2023
Thanks for this wonderful article. For me death is nothing to be afraid of. I am grateful that I know the plan of salvation. I know what waits for me behind the veil. So I am not afraid of death. But I am very afraid of dying. I refer to the process of going from life to death. I am afraid of the physical challenges. The fear. The pain and everything that is associated with death on the physical level. So there is indeed a big difference between being afraid of death and being afraid of dying.
Boanerges RubalcavaJanuary 10, 2023
No, he was not joking, He was right, he was not saying "zero tolerance" (although that also should be a parental teaching) but teaching the right things to do or not to do, and then proceed to help the children. If we follow your approach (judging you as you judged King Benjamin) then our children interpretation would be that they can do whatever they want, and then no other help will reach them and we will have what is happening in this hedonistic world where everything is valid and this brings the unfortunately thought of Today and bring the consequences that evil is good and good is evil.
George PembertonJanuary 10, 2023
Thirty years ago we wrote two unpublished volumes entitled "Peaceful Parenting" that fully addressed this subject. We ended up giving each of our eleven children the two for Christmas. Vol. 1: Peaceful Parenting, the Way God Probably Intended It. Vol. 2: Peaceful Parenting Resources. All was based on Scripture and statements of latter-day prophets as we two parents tried to apply "correct principles" with our children.
LoraJanuary 10, 2023
I have often used this quote (reading it from The Book of Mormon) to my sons and visiting grandchildren. ("Do you want to serve the devil?") I often reminded them that "Grandma's house is the happiest place on earth! Now get happy!' When my sons were little and fighting, I didn't ask "who", I just knew "what". I sent them each to a separate corner and they couldn't come out until the other one set them free. Peace restored. As for balls inside the house, that was forbidden. Balls are for outside, which can prevent plenty of conflict, not to mention breaking things. I've heard of fathers quoting the section about "not suffering your children to go naked" to daughters who wished to be scantily clad.
Marsha LangJanuary 6, 2023
My sister and I had an "angel" experience shortly after I joined the church.He actually rode in the car with us.
Kayleen A HunsakerJanuary 4, 2023
Thank you for this Podcast with Roger Connors. I try to read scriptures & uplifting talks & other things every day. My sweet husband of 36 years died in June of 2022 & staying close to the spirit & attending the Temple every week, gives me joy in the journey. The comment about God being in the details of our lives [even though I know that] has inspired me one more day!
John H. BurtgonJanuary 4, 2023
Pres. Connors was my Stake Pres. and I had the privilege of working with him. I remember one night I was in my office and feeling quite distressed over matters when he came walking by and stopped and asked if I needed a blessing? He gave me one and then went on his way. It was just what I needed at the time and I am so grateful for the blessing of the Lord through His servants
Diane IrwinJanuary 4, 2023
I have truly enjoyed this episode! It has increased my testimony that God is in the details. Thank you for all you do!
LoraJanuary 4, 2023
There's a reason why we women speak like this. With other women, if we make a direct statement about what we want, we are seen as offensive and demanding. We learn to drop hints in order to get along with our mothers and other girls. As a wife, and the mother of three sons, I finally realized that dropping hints is too confusing. I learned to be more clear and direct. This habit has gotten me into trouble with other women, but at least I'm getting along better with the men in my life. (Saw an example at church. Sister: "Is there a wastebasket near you?" Brother: "Yes." Every woman there knew that she wanted him to hand her the wastebasket so she could throw something away. He answered the question he was asked.)
Ron BarnesJanuary 4, 2023
My wife used to do that, and it drove me crazy. For example, she would never ask me to mow the lawn. She would say that if I wanted to mow the lawn, she would help. Several times I told her that, if she wanted something, to say so instead of asking me if I wanted it. Instead of doing that, she just started doing what she wanted without asking me. She was an impulse buyer, so that created some minor problems, but nothing major.
Ann SiggardJanuary 3, 2023
Roger Connors was our Stake President in Murrieta, CA. When my son was sent home from his mission due to depression (in 2000, he was out 5 months), I will never forget what he said to him a he was released: ":You have completed a faithful mission ( he baptized a family there) and you are honorably released. That statement changed my son's heart and gave him hope after such discouragement of thinking he had failed his mission. Thank you, President Connors.
LoriJanuary 3, 2023
Hi. I am interested in this podcast however, I am deaf and prefer a transcript of this please. I am sure there are many hard of hearing and deaf people wanting to read it also. Let me know when you post the transcript.
Shelley S.January 3, 2023
Will this become available on Apple Podcasts?
Scot ProctorJanuary 3, 2023
Debrah, This is a new podcast which is in addition to the Come Follow Me podcast we do. We will continue to do Come Follow Me each week and have the How I Know podcast as well to strengthen faith and inspire our readers. Blessings.
DebrahJanuary 3, 2023
I think I answered my own question. I just found this week’s podcast. The holidays were ery. Busy for this grandma and I had no time for anything but grandkids and more grandkids. I did not even look for the podcasts, ,barely got the church lessons in. Time to join the world again!
DebrahJanuary 3, 2023
Will this replace your weekly Come Follow Me Podcasts?
Robert David StarlingDecember 30, 2022
WOW! Thanks VERY much for this list. It's great to see what interests other readers the most, and I'd missed a number of these great articles that I can now go back and read.
JuliannDecember 30, 2022
Thank you for sharing your Christmas journey and helping me reflect on daily blessings. Good job with adjusting your expectations and making the most of a very frustrating adventure.
Michele SundstromDecember 27, 2022
Loved this peek into the church in Croatia! We were a part of this trip and felt it a privilege to meet these faithful saints. What an incredible example of dedication and faith. Highly recommend this trip! Cruising along the Croatian coast and exploring her islands brought many unanticipated delights! It was the adventure of a lifetime!
Diane IrwinDecember 27, 2022
Scot, my heart ached as I read such a powerful, personal story. The atonement is real. I am so grateful for your testimony, and sharing it with the world.
Tracy TippettsDecember 25, 2022
Today is Christmas day. I am in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. Yesterday I read the story about the terrible accident while rafting the river in Idaho. Today I read the story about fire on the farm. Both stories very dramatic and powerful, with inspiring spiritual message. I had a similar experience with a forest fire in San Diego, California in 1989. I was in the hospital recovering from a recent motorcycle accident, when the Elders Quorum president called to inform me that a large fire swept through the area where my home was located, and it was gone! I thought of my two dogs that were there. My two cars. All my clothes and belongings. The fire consumed 400 acres. It burned the poles that were supporting power lines. It was a painful night in the hospital, thinking about all that I had lost. The next day the president called back to say that my house was spared. My dogs were safe and alive. My cars were covered with chemical fire retardant dropped from the aerial tankers that flew overhead. The agony and then relief from escaping a very unpleasant outcome. I was impressed that your father took time to say a family prayer, in the middle of such an urgent crisis and panic situation, and then the resulting miracle that followed. It obviously made a profound impression and experience to an eight-year-old boy! Thank you for sharing it. I will now forward the Spanish translation to 30 members of the Church here.
Harold RustDecember 24, 2022
Having experienced several harrowing moments while rafting, I deeply felt the emotion and anguish and...deliverance from this personal story. Thanks, Scot, for sharing such a powerful reminder of what really matters.
Rochelle HaleDecember 23, 2022
I served back in the dark ages when we could not call home or get packages because of sketchy mail service. When our youngest son served we learned that some missionaries never receive gifts from home because their parents are not supportive or because they can’t afford it, so we always sent extra things for our son’s companions. In our mission we have contributed when missionaries won’t be getting packages from home (somehow the mission president knows), we have contributed gently used clothing to the mission office rather than donating to charities, and we always fill a stocking for our ward missionaries who visit or share a meal with us on Christmas Eve. When I write to missionaries I tell them to forget the traditions of home and what they may be missing. They should make memories with the Christmas or two ( and birthdays or other occasions) that they are away. They may learn some new traditions or eat foods that they want to incorporate into their own families someday.0
David DDecember 22, 2022
For those who have had "bad" surprises that never (at least on earth) seem to evolve into "good" surprises, the heavenly explanation may be a tough one to accept.
JamesDecember 22, 2022
Thanx for your service and caring. And thanks for sharing your testimony in what must be a life caring, sacrifice and loneliness. May your hours, days and weeks grow your soul and sustain your service.
Ed RehderDecember 21, 2022
Thank you, a wonderful story, a sacred event.
Dave HansenDecember 21, 2022
Since they've become *woke* in the recent past, I've stopped watching Hallmark altogether. Instead, I've found Great American Family (GAF) to be more to my liking.
Robyn JensenDecember 20, 2022
I looked up my district's SEL policy. What a load of BS--nice sounding words with very little meaning. When they started talking about equity is when the alarm bells started ringing. I do not understand how a district in the lowest quintile in a state near the bottom in terms or student accomplishment can spend time, money and resources on such drivel.
Becca HowardDecember 20, 2022
I'm a combination viewer and look forward to new films all year, not just during the holidays. Some storylines are very predictable, yet some catch glimpses of other well-known films, and it's fun to see the new interpretations using familiar quotes or even music. I do have some concerns about films that may be less friendly to all families. If a questionable character is a neighbor or best friend and not a major character, then I am not as concerned (I have them in my circle as well), but when a non-traditional family is not the focus, I tend to not watch.
MaryannDecember 20, 2022
I love the Hallmark Christmas movies because they are a light in the often dark world of media. They are simple in a world that is complicated. They are sweet in a world that is sometimes bitter. They teach that people really can have happy relationships, despite some bumps in the road. They focus on family unity. They often portray characters who are willing to put someone else before themselves. What more could we ask for?
DaleDecember 20, 2022
I am not pleased when they add LGBTQ relationships into the shows. It ruins family values.
James ScottDecember 20, 2022
It seems those in education go to great lengths to keep curricula confidential, that “they know how to instruct the kids but don’t want parental intrusion. Yet there so many that don’t come away knowing how to read or do simple arithmetic.
CarolynDecember 16, 2022
What a wonderful memory. It made me tear up, thinking of those kind, thoughtful people who treated you like family.
HelenCDecember 16, 2022
So much love. Thank you.
KathyDecember 16, 2022
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story.
Dave HansenDecember 14, 2022
I found this to be a compelling story of how we need to love all of our brothers & sisters, even though we may disagree with their decisions in life.
CrystalDecember 14, 2022
Thank you for this. One of the best you have done in a while. So wonderfully said!
GwendolynDecember 12, 2022
Thank you for this wonderful message. During our studies on this lesson, we looked for a Book of Mormon scripture to round out our understanding of holiness and came across a fascinating one in 2 Nephi 2:11 where Lehi places holiness in polarity to misery: “For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so…righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad.” Truly holiness is happiness.
WallyDecember 12, 2022
Beautiful and inspiring!
DebrahDecember 12, 2022
Thanks for sharing. That was amazing, and yet so much typical of the Lord.
HelenCDecember 12, 2022
Once again I receive what I need to hear. I’m Kevin’s to visit my disabled sister in England for the first time in years and everything send to be visiting against my going. My husband is violently ill and my daughter’s flight home was canceled yesterday so she has to find another way home to get to work and take care of her dog before her stepfather is well enough to leave town for his job. He has told me to go, anyway. This article is reminding me of the protection I am entitled to for my entire non-member and less active family because my 10%covers them all. Thank you.
Juan CandiaDecember 12, 2022
Por qué no está la transcripción?,hace mucha falta ,por favor . Gracias
MaryannDecember 12, 2022
I am 71 years old and have been blessed with many callings and opportunities to serve in the church. Above all else, seeking out my ancestors and doing their temple work has been one of the most satisfying and spiritual experiences of my life. There is just nothing like it! The more I go to the temple, the more I want to go. I am so grateful that the Lord has given us this marvelous work to do. It is both humbling and exalting to be a part of such a glorious work. If you have been apprehensive or fearful about getting involved, visit your Family History Center. The workers there will help you so much! Remember that you are not alone, and you CAN learn how to do this work and to rejoice in it.
MaryannDecember 12, 2022
I am so grateful to be engaged in the holy work of the temple by seeking out my dead and performing their ordinances vicariously. What a blessing to have this marvelous opportunity to serve the Lord and to love His children. My experience has been that the more I attend the temple and seek for greater knowledge regarding the temple experience, the more I love the temple and understand the purposes of these holy ordinances. I have grown in my understanding that we are truly endowed with power in the Lord's holy house that will enable us to become a holier people.
MaryannDecember 12, 2022
When I am asked to do something I'm not sure I want to do, I find it really helps to say, "I need to call you back this afternoon," or "I'll get back to you about this tomorrow." Then I have time to make a decision without feeling pressured. If it is something I KNOW is not going to work for me, it's better just to say no at the outset, rather than deal with the stress of procrastinating my "no." Also, when people say, "I need to ask you a favor," avoid giving an answer like "sure!" before they tell you what the "favor" is. We are under no obligation to anyone to agree to anything without first knowing what we are committing to.
JuliannDecember 11, 2022
Your story is certainly not too late. Thank you for the amazing person you are and for the amazing people you work with and help.
DeloresDecember 10, 2022
For me, the decision is clear. If the influencer begins to criticize the church, or the leaders of it, or to rationalize why they don’t have to follow the prophet’s counsel, I stop following them. There is one particular Youtuber that I initially liked, but over time I have felt his pride get in the way and he has begun to criticize church policies, general conference talks, and prophetic guidance. I’m done following him. There are many better choices of influencers
Lisa CorcoranDecember 9, 2022
Becky, a wonderful story. So glad we are a part of Rising Star. You do amazing work. Lisa
ShaunaDecember 9, 2022
excellent, insightful article, on so many points. I find that the scripture to not judge, is rarely quoted in its entirety--i.e. the injunction to "judge righteous judgement." We have to judge--actions at least, or as you say, "the fruits" which I like. And the gift of "discernment" is another gift we receive from the Holy Ghost and from living our temple covenants. Thus, surely there is a need for it and we should use it
Kerry FarrDecember 9, 2022
This still confuses me at age 75. Didn’t Christ teach that the needs of others DO come first. And especially the will of God comes before our own will to be righteous??
Neal ChristensenDecember 6, 2022
If faculty will not uphold the ideals and teaching methods of the school, fire them and replace them with someone who will.
ShaunaDecember 6, 2022
Thank you Br. Hancock. as a BYU alumni and the parent of 2 BYU students (currently on missions) I applaud and welcome your assessment and critique of the current academic culture at BYU and especially for your determination to take the prophets and apostles seriously and to start a conversation about what a "Gospel methodology" might look like. Wouldn't that be exciting to see where the Spirit can actually lead professors and students as they study and learn about true "intelligence" which is the glory of God-- and what other ideas, theories etc might be added to the world of thought, as they incorporated the basic tenets of the gospel, including the natural, nuclear family and the resistance to labels other than Child of God, Child of the covenant and disciple of Christ in their research, and teaching? I am passionate about BYU and it's mission and am so grateful for Elder Holland's clarion call back to BYU's unique mission, articulated earlier by President Kimball. I welcome your brave and crucial lead on these issues and look forward to further analysis and suggestions. If BYU cannot be unique and reflect the values and tenets of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints, in my opinion, it can no longer justify its existence. I pray for the way forward that you suggest
Rick JeppesenDecember 6, 2022
Very nice article; thank you! I love your use of the story of Joseph for the topic of faith. My wife and I wrote a song called "Remember the Story of Joseph of Old". What a remarkable story to always trust in God. https://www.facebook.com/rickj59/videos/977777708975012
Wally GoddardDecember 6, 2022
Good counsel! Thanks, Jeff.
SageDecember 6, 2022
Br. Goddard, thank you for this uplifting article. I look forward to what you write as it always brightens my day.
MaryannDecember 6, 2022
I love, love, love this article. How absolutely essential it is that we embrace the light in every possible way. Searching the scriptures, praying, enjoying the company of uplifting people, and avoiding dark influences around us will bring more light into our souls. In the midst of a very dark world, we all need to be so aware of our thoughts and to reject the angry, contentious influences in our current society. I am so often strengthened by the positive attitudes of our Prophets, Seers and Revelators. They radiate a calm attitude filled with hope for a glorious future.
John SowaDecember 4, 2022
Thank you for sharing your painful and sacred experiences. They are resonant to me. When we talk about coming to earth to obtain a body, I believe that it is sometimes viewed too simplistically. Check, I've done that. Yet, to be a soul is so much more than just being born. To come to know who we are and in whom we've trusted, truly does require experiences that allow us to come to understand more completely how we function. Thank you again for sharing one of yours.
DebrahDecember 4, 2022
I have had friends who had Shingles and I felt sorry for them, but now, even sadder. Aweful! I did not like my shingles vaccine, but now I think it just might have been a good decision. Years ago I had what was supposed to be minor surgery, a subcutaneous cyst. It wasn’t. It was a ganglion wrapped tightly around the main nerve in my wrist. The doctor had to scrap if off, and the myalin sheath below it. Without general anesthesia. It took6 weeks to heal, used no pain meds, and found out I could fall to sleep while keeping my hand and arm high up on the wall, the only way I could ease the pain. Some years later I needed a hysterectomy. Afterwards I was put on self administered Demerol. I prayed, telling the Lord I was willing to suffer, but if it would be allowable, would he take the pain away. He reminded me of the earlier time where I experienced such pain, the same nerve that had been pierced and torn in his hands. Then told me that I had suffered the pain I needed to and that it would be removed. The next day the doctor came in and I asked if they would take the Demerol thing out as I did not need it. The nurse jumped in and said, “no, you need this.” The doctor looked at the machine and says, she has only had two doses yesterday, and gone all night without. She doesn’t need it. He pulled it. That is only a small part of the story as the Lord supported me through it. But I learned something. Pain is a part of our earth test. Each person gets his own prescription. He did not lift my pain for the scrapped and battered nerve in my wrist, but I learned what I needed from it and needed no more, if I had the faith to ask.
Ann-Marie JensenDecember 4, 2022
Thank you so much for sharing how you changed your prayer for help. A very valuable example for us all.
Kathy SandersDecember 4, 2022
How I love you and your choosing Christ in every conscious minute of your life. The power of those choices magnified over time allows you to witness for Christ in amazing and influential ways. I thank God for you and your example of faith in my life. I’m so sorry for the trial you have gone through and rejoice in the discoveries you made about the nature of God. Thank you for sharing this intimate story. I too have come to know Christ because of intense pain. I marvel that that kind of overwhelming pain can reside at the same time with overwhelming joy in Christ. How that happens I do not know but I know it to be true.
Brad LDecember 3, 2022
You might want to look into getting a D-Dimer test, which can detect micro clots when methods used to detect normal clotting fail. If they were happening in brain, perhaps the cause of the immense head pain you were experiencing. There is evidence micro clots can appear in a high percentage of those who have had the mRNA shots and boosters. And the shingles point to an activated viral infection, which maybe exacerbated by the same shots.
Darwin DavsDecember 3, 2022
You are a hero. Thank you.
Linda Starr WinansDecember 3, 2022
Hey, Maureen. I am so sorry you had to go through that ordeal. I truly appreciate your tender insights and your positive response. What a blessing that you have come out of this trial as you have. I can tell you have lost some weight over it --hopefully you feel as good as you look . May you enjoy God's richest blessings for both you and Scot!!!
Kristin KleinDecember 3, 2022
Such a poignant and tender testimony of the goodness of Light, and a loving Heavenly Father and Savior. I’m so grateful for women like yourself who can articulate these mercies and share with so many. Thank you!!
Koni hunterDecember 3, 2022
Sweet Maurine, As I was reading this, I had two thoughts come to me. 1- you told a story on a podcast episode when your daughter was injured and far from home. You knelt to pray. The only words that came were “help”. A few months ago, I was in a similar situation and as I knelt to pray in my bitter agony, I thought of you. Through my tears, I could only utter “help me”. That day, I experienced a miracle. Help came through a very inspired bishop. 2- As scot prayed specifically to know why you were passing through this agony, he was given a specific answer. I remembered the time our bus broke down and you said the most fervent prayer. After, you said to all of us on the bus “I’ve learned that specific prayers receive specific answers”. You continue to teach me and inspire me. I adore you! You are a rock and a pillar of faith!
Tom ObenchainDecember 2, 2022
Thank you for sharing your story Maurine. I love the reminder that no matter our circumstances our ability to choose, to choose Him, is never taken from us.
JanDecember 2, 2022
Maurine, so very sorry to hear about this terrible affliction. I offer you this: While on our mission in New Zealand, I was in the Hamilton temple to perform proxy initiatory ordinances. There was no initiatory waiting room in the temple, so I was invited to sit in the workers' preparation room. Two lovely workers were chatting there about a mutual acquaintance who had been suffering with shingles. One remarked that the suffering sister had found no relief in western medicine, so she went to a the traditional Maori healers for help. The healer told her to apply balsamic vinegar to the eruptions, and her relief had been immediate. I have mentioned this to a few shingles patients here in the states. They confirm the balsamic vinegar was very beneficial, but one cautioned he'd learned the hard way not to use it on any mucous membranes, just the outer skin. It can't hurt to try it on a little patch. Worst case, you'll just smell like a salad.
AimeeDecember 2, 2022
Thank you. Thank you so much for sharing this. I cried through the entire article. I have been through my own versions of this experience, and I can say with certainty, yes. It is refining and redefining. I have often wondered how I could ever possibly fully express to someone how unshakeable my testimony is. But I know it became so unshakeable *because of* the pain and suffering I've gone through. There is no way to explain it and have it fully understood, like you said about redefining your pain threshhold. But when you have been through the fire, and chosen the Lord through it, you know. It changes you forever. And there is no going back. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me, a complete stranger, who both cannot understand what you went through and yet can completely understand what it meant to you and the way it redefined your relationship with your Savior. Thank you for touching my heart and helping me feel more understood.
Breck EnglandDecember 2, 2022
I agree completely with Brother Steurer. I want to go further, though. How to deal with family members and friends who are clearly under the spell of views that are not only questionable but outright lies? These fraudulent ideas are in a good many cases causing them intense anxiety--I worry about their health and even their sanity. When a total lack of critical thinking endangers their families and their health, what is my responsibility?
ShaunaDecember 2, 2022
Bless you for all you do and for your example. I am a pain wimp and don't knot that I could have endured what you have. So grateful for your absolute steadfastness to remain true to God and to not murmur. You are a special person and witness of God's goodness. Thank you for sharing your ordeal and prayers that you'll recover from shingles quickly
Laurie PollardDecember 2, 2022
Wow, Maurine! Every article you write is powerful, but this is phenomenal. What a poignant lesson and inspiring trust in the Lord you have shared with us. I can only imagine the depth of pain you have endured, and I am saddened you suffered so...but is seems the more intense the trial--as we turn to God humbly as you have done--the more potent the sanctifying effect it may work in us. You comprehend the Atonement of Jesus Christ on a deeper personal level than ever before. Thank you for blessing us with your gratitude and penetrating insights. You and Scot are stalwart disciples and your devotion to do the Lord's work blesses untold souls. I'm thankful to be one of them!
Craig FrogleyDecember 2, 2022
I am so very sorry for your suffering even knowing that it is refining. Some people just already seem refined so their suffering seems redundant. But even the Sons of Mosiah were called to suffer that they might be examples to those they would influence! (Alma 17:11 be patient in long-suffering and afflictions, that ye may show forth good examples unto them in me, and I will make an instrument of thee in my hands unto the salvation of many souls.
MaryannDecember 2, 2022
I am a little confused about exactly what Mike Lee's amendment entailed. What specifically did it add to, or take away from, the Respect for Marriage Act? This is not a criticism--I really admire the man.
LoraDecember 2, 2022
Decades ago, when I was a young teen, my mother and uncle got into a heated political argument at Thanksgiving that seemed to go on for hours. We never went to Thanksgiving at grandma's house again. And what for? Nobody changed their minds. A while ago, my brother asked me a direct political question, which I answered, and he yelled, "ARE YOU KIDDING ME?" I responded calmly, "You can out-yell me, but it probably won't change my mind. But what matters here is not my opinion, but that we love each other. What matters more to me than anything happening in current events is our family." That calmed him down, because we share this value: family is more important than anything political. We don't have to agree with each other to love each other. There is so much name-calling in politics. I like the "Tell Me More" approach--where you seek clarity over agreement. If we ask questions seeking to understand Why people think what they do, we will at least gain understanding. I recognize that my opinions are not gospel truth. I've even been known to change my opinions. Opinions are not eternal. When we can love each other, no matter what, there will be peace on earth.
Sandy GatesDecember 2, 2022
Maurine, I’m so sorry that you had to go through this. I know your pain. I too suffered this same pain in a very similar experience which left me with temporary paralyzation for over 6 months, slight hearing loss and minor permanent nerve damage on the right side of my head. It was an experience I will never forget. It drew me closer to my Savior than ever before and the experience that I had with Him was so sacred. I too know that these things are not thrust upon us by Heavenly Father or our Elder Brother, but they can be used for our growth and to draw us closer to them. If you would like to know more about my experience, I can share through email. Take care Maurine. You are doing a great work and are infinitely loved!!!
MaryannDecember 2, 2022
The best way to solve the problem of contention regarding political opinions is to make a mutual agreement that you will not discuss politics or make any political comments in the presence of one another. This is often the ONLY way to avoid contention regarding political viewpoints. I have also pulled back on reading so much about politics. It's like an ongoing soap opera, and it can become an obsession. Much of the reporting is designed to stir people up and to promote contention. I, too, have had a very difficult time understanding why some members of the church support political agendas that are in direct opposition to gospel principles. However, when we are engaged in scripture study, prayer, enjoying uplifting friendships, using our talents, and service, we will be much less likely to be stirred up in rage over politics. Our minds will be on a higher purposes. We CAN learn to CHOOSE to focus on more positive thoughts and to overcome unbridled anger.
KimDecember 2, 2022
Maurine* Names are important.
Kim EggintonDecember 2, 2022
Oh, dear, sweet Maureen... my whole being sorrows and joys for you!
DougieDecember 2, 2022
Excellent! Part of His work might be the inspiration your story gives to readers who are suffering, and gain power to go on because of your experience.
Beth TDecember 2, 2022
So grateful to God that he and his angels were at the ready to help you, your family and the doctors discover the true problem of your pain. And how beautiful that through questions we can find the answers we need from our beloved father in heaven. Thank you for sharing! Grateful you are healed!
vickieDecember 2, 2022
i have had many times of agony from pain or mental illness. depression so hard it brought my body down that my skin hung on my body. i took no meds and was taking care of my 4 of 5 children at that time. i also was helping a family stay in our home. the anxiety i had was so awful i cant describe it...well, we moved from england bk to the usa. my baby fell from a slide on the playground ...when we got bk to the states all my kids broke out in blisters on their skin and no dr knew what was going on..they figured it was the move from england to the usa and they had some virus. also i had pain after a hysterectomy. not with the surgery but being allergic to premarin a harmone and no doctor would listen something was wrong. i went through months. many times in my life i was bedridden. i had seizures starting at 46yrs old and went through things i cant describe. all along i trusted in the Lord and reminded myself of gethsemane that Christ knew what i was going through. i have no idea what im being prepared for, but i trust in the Lord as He knows best....
SFISCHDecember 2, 2022
I stand all amazed at your ability to share your experience and illustrate your true devotion to the Savior during your recent time of stress. We love to follow your weekly Come Follow Me podcast. Thank you for your insight and faithfulness. One question? When did you have your shingle shot? Many would be interested why you ended up getting such a painful shingle episode after your vaccine.
KJBDecember 2, 2022
Let me guess, the person being written in about is a Democrat who thinks Biden is doing a good job...
Tiffany GoodwinDecember 2, 2022
What a beautiful story that testifies of our loving Savior and Father being with us always. I know of His love and being with me in the mental/emotional pain of loss and anguish. This story reminded me of things I knew and needed to be reminded. Thanks you Maurine!
R AlldredgeDecember 2, 2022
This is such an inspiring experience for you to share with us. Tender, personal and inspiring. Thank you for your testimony. It really struck me to think of the hard trials going on around us are the very experienced we need to prepare us to meet Christ. I needed this insight. Thank you. Bless you and prayers for your recovery.
Lorraine QuillonDecember 2, 2022
Exquisite.
KarlaDecember 2, 2022
Thank you for sharing your story, it has answered my prayer.
Buffie BarkdullDecember 2, 2022
Oh, dear Maurine. Thank you for this gift that came at such a high cost. Through your talent of writing and expression, you have put into words the deepest desires of my heart. To be called a friend of God. You have earned that title. I will strive to remember your experience and declaration of allegiance to God in your extremities as I soldier on in my life.
Doc FullerDecember 1, 2022
My personal research shows that Americans will cohabit without marriage at the rate of over 70%, sometime during their lifetimes. Google it yourself! While 'Homosexuality' is at a rate of no more than 2-3% max. Do you get my obvious point? Please focus on the 70% and not on the 3%. Society is not threatened or endangered in its morality by the 3%! It's a smoke screen by the adversary. Far too many waste 100% of their efforts worrying about the 3%, instead of the real threat of 70% = playing right into the plans and schemes of Satan. We don't see the real threats until it's too late.
BillDecember 1, 2022
In the year 2000, our beloved prophet Gordon B. Hinckley wrote a wonderful book entitled “Standing for Something”. In its epilogue entitled “The Loneliness of Moral Leadership” President Hinckley stated: What we desperately need today on all fronts—in our homes and communities, in schoolrooms and boardrooms, and certainly throughout society at large—are leaders, men and women who are willing to stand for something. We need people who are honest; who are willing to stand up for decency, truth, integrity, morality, and law and order; who respond to their consciences even when it is unpopular to do so—perhaps especially when it is unpopular to do so. That is the job of the leaders in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Its not to be politically correct. It is to speak eternal truth, to stand up for the gospel of Jesus Christ, no matter the cost. That is important not only so the world knows where we as a Church stand, but also so that the people of the Church know where their leaders stand. On November 15, 2022 the Church announced its support for the so-called “Respect for Marriage Act”. In that announcement the Church reiterated that “The doctrine of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints related to marriage between a man and a woman is well known and will remain unchanged,” while also stating that the Act “includes appropriate religious freedom protections while respecting the law and preserving the rights of our LGBTQ brothers and sisters.” Senator Mike Lee of Utah , an attorney and constitutional scholar, indicated that those religious liberty protections touted by the Church “can only be described as severely anemic." His proposed amendment to shore up those religious liberty protections were never taken into consideration before the Senate passed the bill. For more information on the problems with this Act see and excellent article by Roger Severino on the Heritage Foundations website entitled “Fact-Checking 7 Claims by Defenders of Democrats' Same-Sex Marriage Bill”. I note in the final part of the Family Proclamation, “We CALL UPON responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.” Apparently, not only does the Church no longer call upon officers of government to protect the family, they are no longer willing to do it themselves. In my opinion, the Church should have stood with its convictions and denounced the measure. It would have been a strong and welcome message to the world, our other religious allies and to Church members that we stand for the principals and doctrines outlined in the Family Proclamation. I note that this approach may, to some, seem like Abinadi bulldozing into the city. However, as shown in Mosiah 12:1, the Lord commanded Abinadi to go into the city and to prophesy, and that Abinadi went into the city in disguise, that they knew him not. No bulldozer there. But when he was captured and brought before King Noah, he then boldly taught and testified. He was Standing for Something. Sometimes you do have to stand up and let the chips fall where they may, then trust upon the Lord to see His eternal purposes fulfilled.
KathleenNovember 30, 2022
Touching article, as always. Loved the seemingly effortless sacrifice in the name of music, when it certainly had to have been a hardship.
JenNovember 30, 2022
I've noticed in the OT, and footnote references to other scripture, that Ephraim is too proud. What I understand to be the US/promised land will be given to Manasseh next. The "remnant" of the sons of Jacob will be the ones to build the New Jerusalem after the proud (even church members) are no more. The temples will then be theirs to care take and work in. Your article makes me wonder if prior to that time those of us in the US will, at some point, have to choose to go abroad to temples if ours will be closed for a time. Like many temples in various areas closing for safety sake, we're not above them. Violence comes in many forms, like even digitally.
BoBNovember 30, 2022
Very well said.
JuliannNovember 30, 2022
Beautiful examples of following the promptings of the spirit. My biggest regrets in life have come from not following those promptings. I am so grateful that God is willing and wanting to help us if we will just listen and obey.
CubbyNovember 30, 2022
Thanks for posting that article. I have thought and posted exactly the same thought, Ceaser’s coins. It is powerful. But you went beyond to examples where he made different choices. I appreciate your wisdom. These perilous times really give us opportunity to read the scriptures and reference them over and over! Thanks!
Tacey BurnhamNovember 30, 2022
A careful reading of the wording of the church statement will show that it was not a statement of support for a very flawed bill, but another call for honoring religious freedom. What the leaders were supporting were the efforts of those working to "include appropriate religious freedoms protections" in the bill. Amendments which, by the way, were voted against by the majority of the senate (including Mitt Romney) and not included in the bill. The wording "we believe this is the way forward" is in reference to working together to allow the LGBTQ+ community their ever-expanding rights without negating the protection of religious liberty guaranteed in the constitution.
Roberta CamargoNovember 29, 2022
A muito tempo atrás senti o desejo urgente de visitar uma pessoa da família, o espírito praticamente me empurrou para ir No outro dia essa pessoa faleceu Vários membros da igreja também tiveram essa impressão e o visitaram, foi como uma despedida , foi a última vez que o veríamos com vida
WM CALVIN HUGHESNovember 29, 2022
So wonderful! Love that when we frequently, intentionally and thoughtfully ponder on spiritual things, our thoughts and insights and wisdom 'multiply exceedingly'. Truly a gift of the spirit! Always look forward to your writings! What a blessing!
Kary NelsonNovember 29, 2022
I was there at Group that night too!! It was Br. Gee who told that story and it has stuck with me ever since as well! I was a freshman at BYU, a non-member who had grown up in a very liberal part of the San Fernando Valley in Los Angeles, and who was wondering why I had ever thought that Ernest L. Wilkinson's BYU was the place for me to attend college when my roommate and I were invited to attend Group. It was in Group that I learned the gospel, where I felt free to ask questions (in my BofM class, not so much), and where I met the man who ultimately baptized me and who has been my husband for nearly 50 years. It's so fun to see Br. Peterson to also remember such a pivotal moment in my testimony growth. Obviously, I did not make this up!
JimNovember 28, 2022
Bodascious! An outstanding article! I wish that the last book by Brother Larry would be published so that I could more easily refer and reread it. Awesome.
ShaunaNovember 28, 2022
Thank you. I appreciate the quotes about covenants you referenced. I am so grateful for the recent increased attention that covenants are receiving in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. We must move beyond the superficial idea that covenants are "a promise between ourselves and God." And while I am positive that God is more loving and merciful than I can imagine, and that He will do everything He can to bring us back to HIm...He won't violate our agency. "The covenant path is all about our relationship with God—our hesed relationship with Him. When we enter a covenant with God, we have made a covenant with Him who will always keep His word. He will do everything He can, without infringing on our agency, to help us keep ours." President Nelson, "The Everlasting Covenant" October Liahona, 2022 also an important article to reference acknowledging the tension between agency and covenants of parents regarding wayward children is found in the March 2014 Ensign by Elder Bednar https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2014/03/faithful-parents-and-wayward-children-sustaining-hope-while-overcoming-misunderstanding?lang=eng
Chris HowellNovember 28, 2022
Fits nicely w Bushop Causse GC talk
Jeri E GilstrapNovember 27, 2022
Thank you Holly for your book recommendations for children. I give my younger grandchildren a Christmas book every year. I wait until I see your book reviews before deciding, Thanks again.
Debrah RoundyNovember 27, 2022
Another request for the "script"
Corey D.November 27, 2022
A well written and needed commentary, I know a lot of members of the church and non members who see announcements like this and do feel confused or let down or troubled but as is pointed out, the way the media present these things is most often very skewed. It's so important to be or get informed because the media is exceptionally biased anymore and just because the church makes a public statement doesn't make it doctrinal.
Bonnie Lee DanielNovember 26, 2022
When I did my DNA Ancestry check I discovered that my 9th great-grandfather was Resolved White. I am eternally grateful that God saved him through the difficult times he and his family endured during the first few years here in America. I hope to meet him some day.
Colleen StoutNovember 26, 2022
I Just read this older book and loved it! I am so glad you are featuring it on Meridian. We all need to read it and apply these Christlike ideals.
ShareeNovember 25, 2022
Thank you for sharing this. It is one of my favorite Josh Groban pieces and Vocal Point did a great job with it. I had goosebumps and tears
Corey D.November 24, 2022
I have picked up hitchhikers since I was a teenager and I keep $40 in fives in my wallet for the homeless, I don't give all the time because some of them I recognize as regulars but if they have a dog with them I always give just can turn down those with dogs.
Micky BowersNovember 24, 2022
Love the ending!… But then again, I love all of your stories…they make my heart smile. Keep them coming!
Anna HargreavesNovember 24, 2022
Love Jody Moore! How to manage and have a healthy relationship with your brain and your emotions. They don't teach this in schools! Thanks @jodymore.com for filling this void and showing the world how!
LexaGraemeNovember 23, 2022
What a lovely story! Part of me is horrified that her children felt the way they did about the cookie jar. In my family, it might be the item we would fight over afterwards. Thank you for this.
Luana Mallett (then Holzworth)November 23, 2022
Thank you Brother Goddard. Always remember a small encounter with you and your wife in Australia some many years ago. Maybe 2003/4. That I will never forget your kindness. And discovering your written work. Amazing!
Jim BrownNovember 23, 2022
The most important takeaway from this article is that the Pilgrims were chosen and truly inspired by God to set the stage for the restoration of the Gospel. "Thanks be to God!"
KathrynNovember 23, 2022
I respectfully disagree with the previous commenter. There are hugs... and then there are hugs. It's very different for a woman to give a guy a quick arms-around-shoulders-hug versus an arms-around-the-waist-and-head-on-his-chest embrace that lasts for a few moments. I agree with the husband who wrote the question that this type of physical contact isn't appropriate for people who aren't married to each other. It's likely to stir up or increase inappropriate feelings. It's so much better for everyone to stay on the safe side of the line.
MaryannNovember 22, 2022
I have had trust in the Hallmark channel, and this is very disappointing. I haven't seen any of this departure from traditional family values yet, but it is obviously coming. I will have to look into how to watch the GAC Family channel. Maybe some of us need to speak up and write to the Hallmark officials! Three cheers for Candace for standing up for her principles! I have LOVED watching her "Aurora Teagarden" series.
MaryannNovember 22, 2022
I think this has been a great lesson for all of us. DO NOT get your news about statements from the church by reading newspapers, the internet, or outside sources. If you want to know what the Brethren actually said when they release a statement, read it on the church's website. The statement was so simple and, for me, it just reiterates the fact that we respect the basic rights of all people, AND sexual relationships outside of marriage are STILL immoral. The media has been creating a "tempest in a teacup" over this issue, and members of the church need to avoid being deceived by the false interpretations and incorrect conclusions that have been published by them.
MaryannNovember 22, 2022
I am fully expecting my beloved dogs who have passed on to be waiting for me with tails a'wagging when I cross over. If you listen carefully in the temple, you will also hear about God's divine plan for our animals.
PatNovember 22, 2022
Beautiful, painful, understandable, helpful, and necessarily important for believers and others.
tfNovember 22, 2022
No, there are hugs, and then there are HUGS!
Margaret B. YoungNovember 22, 2022
Wonderful report! The DRC is on its way to becoming a haven of peace rather than a land of war. Church growth there is miraculous.
Gordon J HensleyNovember 22, 2022
I have had dogs, cats, mice, birds, frogs, turtles, ants, fish, and hamsters share my sphere. People I know keep horses, pigs, opossums, monkeys, snakes, and chickens. Each of these animals serve as pets and/or food in various human cultures around the world. Humans sometimes serve as food for animals, (including worms.) Will we all live together as companions once again? No more surf and turf?
Ronald H SnyderNovember 22, 2022
There were Church members (including an apostle) who didn't believe that we should abandon "The Principle" when Wilford Woodruff released the "Manifesto". And members who hated that Bruce McConkie had to withdraw his assertion (in Mormon Doctrine, original edition) that the Catholic Church was the church of the devil. There were those who thought President Kimball had lost it when he gave us the revelation on priesthood. It is not easy for old men to embrace change. I respect the "Brethren" so much for their willingness and ability to see beyond the fray and embrace correct principles like being unified and granting respect to those whose beliefs and practices are different from our own. By doing so, they obtained a similar respect from those others.
Rick RutkowskiNovember 22, 2022
Mariah, I was very touched by your Nov. 21st article on "Where Does the Dog I Lost Fit Into the Plan of Salvation?" I am sorry about the loss of your dog Scout. My wife and I recently lost our dog Pepper, but had 18 wonderful joyous years of companionship with her. We have had similar feelings and questions that you expressed in your article. We take comfort that there is a Plan of Salvation, and although we don't know all the answers of eternity, we know that we have a kind and wise Heavenly Father who will make all things right, including our dogs.
H NorthNovember 22, 2022
"We have NO obligation to reconcile with the children of the Devil." - Bruce R. McConkie
Connie SchraderNovember 22, 2022
Thank you for this comforting article. My sweet dog is getting elderly. I had a most interesting experience a few years ago. I rescued a beautiful Steller Jay who was injured and hiding in the shrubs in our yard. It was late in the day so I put her in a large box and took her in the house. My plan was to take her to a bird rehab center in Ogden the next morning. I checked on her several times. The last time, as I opened the box I could see she had died but the most amazing thing happened. As I looked at her lifeless body I "felt" her spirit fly past me. It was beautiful to experience that sensation. I am grateful to have been allowed to feel her leaving.
MeganNovember 22, 2022
This beautiful article made me cry. Our family adopted an older Maine Coon cat years ago named Hermione Granger, and she was the delight of our lives--the most gentle, patient, dog-like little soul. Two summers ago I herniated a disc in my neck and was in such agonizing pain I couldn't sleep. One night I was writhing in bed, sobbing and praying for the Lord to just help me find rest in the midst of searing pain when I felt Hermione's little footfalls on my comforter and felt her lay down in the crook of my arm and nestle against my body. I thought to myself, "Hermione's here--I can sleep now," and fell into a restful sleep for the first time in a long while. Hermione had been dead for over a year--we'd lost her two Christmases before. I knew Heavenly Father had sent her to me when no other comfort was in reach. I have absolute confidence that our beloved furry companions will greet us in the next life and we'll have a loving friendship that exceeds even the joys in this life. Hugs to you and your family.
StephanieNovember 22, 2022
For some reason this week has been especially difficult regarding the own traumatic and unexpected passing of my doggies a few years ago. I couldn't eat eat or sleep for days after they we're gone. It is true grief. This article was so timely and I'm so thankful for these small moments in our life where we see evidences of our heartaches being known to our Heavenly Father. I wanted to share with you a speech given by Elder Marlin K Jensen where he talks about having our pets with us after this life. Thank you for your sweet and comforting words that were so needed and timely. https://speeches.byu.edu/talks/marlin-k-jensen/living-manner-of-happiness/
Paul HNovember 21, 2022
This "journalistic spin" is no surprise. That has happened for two centuries now regarding Church doctrine. The next item they will take on will be abortion. The Book of Mormon refers to people calling good evil and evil good. The media embodies such an approach.
Maureen GaleNovember 21, 2022
Very well stated! I like the (paraphrased) thinking: "If God is willing to fight our battles, perhaps we should let him pick them, too".
Heber Blake Garside Jr.November 20, 2022
What a PROFOUND essay on HOW Faith empowers us with the promise of Restoring that which we have lost through the Restitution of all things. I try to ask myself through my trials, what is the lesson that the Lord wants to learn through this experience? That knowledge does not often come immediately but through increments of time and the process of experience!! So much here to appreciate and ponder. THANK YOU!!
Martha PillingNovember 20, 2022
This is perfect for teaching about apostasy today in my youth Sunday School class. Wilford Woodruff's journey to the gospel has always fascinated me, and I didn't know he had a brother that fell away. Thank you for your time researching and preparing this article, and for sharing it with us.
Sherry EthridgeNovember 19, 2022
Please have the audio printed so we can follow better
LCBNovember 19, 2022
It’s gotten harder and harder to find the texts of the podcasts. Now it’s impossible. I guess those of us that are hearing impaired will just not be able to enjoy them anymore. Thanks for those in the past.
ShareeNovember 18, 2022
For heaven's sake, it was a hug! I hug my friends, male and female, all the time. i think something else is going on with this guy if he is upset because his wife gives a male friend a hug.
AnnaMaeNovember 17, 2022
I am grateful for Candace Cameron Bure and her strength in standing up for what she believes! I love her movies and I will be watching GAC Family. I, too, wish to watch faith and family based movies and I'm so happy to have found a channel on TV where those beliefs are important.
Jaynie BrowderNovember 17, 2022
How can I get the transcript for this podcast?
Ronald SmithNovember 17, 2022
We have loved watching Ms. Bure on Hallmark for many years. We were sad to read she was leaving. However we are also sad and dismayed that Hallmark has chosen to abandon their largely Christian based viewers to follow the "woke" crowd. We are one of a large number of previous Hallmark viewers who will happily follow Ms. Bure to her new home and are anxious to see the results of her influences there. Bye bye Hallmark.
Tammy lindstromNovember 17, 2022
Loved this!!!
vickieNovember 17, 2022
this is very hard. i raised 5 kids. all are married ...my youngest is gay and is married to his partner. i went to his wedding. it was odd. however, i love my son and i know that he wanted a companion. someone to love and be loved by. im a member and believe the same thing the church does that marriage is between a man and a woman. i also have a nephew who is married to his partner for many years. i also have a cousin who has been married for 30 or 40yrs...or were together that long and then got married. they believe in marriage and i think that when they get married its to make sure that they do not go for another partner. this way they are not having many partners. my children are old people now...i just love them and pray for them.
HeatherNovember 16, 2022
Such a relatable struggle, oh how we all long to be set free. I find Atlas a comfortable friend. We are fellow travelers, both seeking relief from our bondage. So grateful Jesus Christ is my patient and skilled sculptor. I weary of this work, but He never does.
Lorene E. WalkerNovember 16, 2022
I, too, have been inspired and uplifted by hymns that have come at a time when I really needed them. I am our ward chorister and have the opportunity to choose they hymns for Sacrament Meeting each week. I always pray before choosing the hymns for each month, and there have been several times when a particular hymn touched either mine or another person's soul. I love your suggestion about singing a hymn before praying. Thank you for sharing your story!
Becca HowardNovember 16, 2022
There is often confusion that "respecting" means condoning the actions or behaviors of others. We would not accomplish any missionary work if we looked askance at those who drink, live together before marriage, have tattoos, or experience same-gender attractions. All of God's children were given the great gift of agency. Our job is to embrace and be examples of His teachings, whether or not we approve of those who (for now) may live differently.
George AngerbauerNovember 16, 2022
This is beautiful. As I read, I have a desire to strive to be born again daily, and not be that man I was yesterday. I also relate more to Atlas, and think he, rather than the "perfect" David, ought to be our focus for ourselves as well as how we see others. Thank you!
GTONovember 16, 2022
My mother had Narcissistic Personality Disorder and abused both my father and her second husband, both men forgiving her daily. It was my mother who filed for divorce from my father since people with NPD cannot see that anything is their fault. I asked my father how he felt after the divorce, and he said, "Like I've been released from a concentration camp."
Debrah RoundyNovember 16, 2022
I like the clip you have of of President Nelson. He looks vibrant. This, and every podcast is so good and I sure do appreciate them. Thanks
ElaineNovember 16, 2022
The issue of narcissism wasn't addressed in this article. It's the worst form of abuse. I have a son and grandson who are victims of this awful abuse. This article is totally correct that men are victims of abuse, too.
Edward M.November 16, 2022
Abuse doesn't have to be physical, many times our spouses use mental abuse. Men are "fixers" and women are "nurturers". Each plays a vital role in the family. That is the way Heavenly Father set it up. I have found that Women like the mind-controlling approach. "You hold the Priesthood and this is what I want you to do" attitude. Heavenly Father set the standard of walking side by side and helping one another and neither shall walk ahead or behind the other. In all the cases I have seen, Women think that they have to have the upper hand and be in control. Men give in because of love.
Annette AtwoodNovember 16, 2022
Love this article. There’s so much I relate to. Thank you for sharing these stories.
LewisNovember 16, 2022
I continue to be grateful for your ability to turn simple stories into profound insights. Thank you for sharing your gifts with us!
karell binghamNovember 15, 2022
When I read President Nelson's talks I come away with insights that I have never had before, even though I study and study. I pray for him every night! We need him so deeply in these days!
JohnNovember 15, 2022
My first experience with girls in my ward was in 5th grade, when one of them told me (with no provocation or previous interaction) that I was ugly, she hated me, and I'd never have a girlfriend. And of course she was the popular girl who had lots of influence over the other girls. So my "all or nothing" choice was "nothing". This created a poisonous atmosphere between boys and girls that persisted through our YM/YW years. None of the leaders noticed it, and if they did they didn't know what to do about it. One YW President's answer was to try to force the boys to ask the girls in the ward to prom. You can imagine how that went over with the boys. Myself and many of the other boys grew up socially stunted and even severely damaged due to bullying from this group of girls. It affects my life to this day, and I've never had a desire to date or marry. It doesn't feel safe to me.
Annette AntonelliNovember 14, 2022
Thank you for inspiring me to study the things this man taught. I’m looking very forward to learning.
KarenNovember 14, 2022
Not only is this article beautiful and inspiring, it is motivating! I desperately needed this message, and find that after years of emotional apathy, I am ready to “focus on forgiveness.” I know “I can do all things through Christ, which strengtheneth me”, but haven’t yet cared enough to be proactive. After reading another well-written article by you, Sister Pratt, I feel grateful for your inspiration and encouragement to turn to Christ. Thank you!
Mark ChildNovember 14, 2022
So true John, so true! How wonderful to read your article this morning and feel a connection to home. Thank you!
Corey D.November 13, 2022
My heart goes out to this woman, almost incomprehensible circumstances to go through especially at the same time. Even almost as incomprehensible is that the atonement of Jesus Christ applies and is for exactly these types of trials, he knows exactly what this woman had gone through.
Kerry BlairNovember 12, 2022
What wonderful ideas! A couple of years ago I put together a family recipe book with all the stories and genealogy behind the food traditions we'd had all our lives. I included pictures and memorabilia then had it professionally printed with spiral binding. Total success!
SallyNovember 12, 2022
This article pierced my heart! How glad I am that I am striving to live on the covenant path and strive to hear him. The consequences are huge when. I don't.
MaryannNovember 11, 2022
Beautiful counsel here. I, too, hope this woman will be kind and gentle with herself. She experienced two major events that would devastate anyone. I agree that our Heavenly Father and our Savior need to be the foundation of our lives for support, and I also hope this woman will seek for a good relationship with a friend who will be there for her. If her husband hasn't made any attempt to change in this past year, I hope she can find a good therapist who can help her cope with his betrayal. She can also attend the Spouse and Family Support Group sponsored by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It is an amazing program to help people who have family members struggling with addictions.
HelenCNovember 11, 2022
I wept when I read the words, “Father, I paid for her.”
Frank Webster JrNovember 11, 2022
There are some wonderful ideas here for us to contemplate this Christmas season. I have been working on my personal history for several years as our daughter wants me to have it printed up for her and our other loved ones. I've compiled my stories and pictures in hopes of soon having it printed. Our Stake Patriarch has already compiled and had printed two books on his life and it was a wonderful story to read. Please consider doing so, as you're the best source of this information before it becomes lost
Loren DaltonNovember 10, 2022
What a beautiful story and message! Thank you for sharing it!!
LorieNovember 10, 2022
Sending our love this Thanksgiving!
PamNovember 10, 2022
Thank you Brother Grenny. I do so much enjoy your perspective in this an other articles you have written. So needed to read this today- it was a "rescue" article in many ways. l'll read it again, then again. And again.
SteveNovember 10, 2022
I love this story. I sing in our Stake Choir and it is my favourite part of my Sunday worship.
Lawrence N.November 10, 2022
I saw this report on You Tube. The slant was totally biased. No interviews from other side of the story. Half truths galore. Good part of the interview given by a former member who appears to be overly self absorbed. "Tax Laws are followed, and because they are followed the Church steals money from the people of Australia." Talk to your legislature about that. If that is your argument every tax deduction you take is also cheating the people of Australia. Satan is having fun with half-truths.
R. JensenNovember 10, 2022
About five years ago, I bought up frame ornaments after Christmas and started putting photographs of living family and ancestors in them. It was quite a project, as I needed to resize several pics and it was a trial and error process. I had to go through boxes of pics and scan the best. FamilySearch trees were a good source of pictures of my husband's LDS ancestors, and we also added pics of newly deceased individuals to their database.. Now I have over eighty pics and have my family around for Christmas season. It is an opportunity to tell my children and grandchildren about them.
Cynthia CarlsonNovember 10, 2022
Thank you for sharing this inspiring story! Prayer and hymns do seem to go hand in hand.
Valiant JonesNovember 10, 2022
You are spot on! Pres. Benson frequently taught that we are under condemnation for neglecting the Book of Mormon (see D&C 84:57). Near the end of President Benson’s life, then Elder Oaks, summarized all of President Benson’s sermons and writings about the Book of Mormon and concluded, “The subject I believe we have neglected is the Book of Mormon’s witness of the divinity and mission of Jesus Christ and our covenant relationship to him.”
Annette AtwoodNovember 6, 2022
I am an active Member of my LDS Faith however, I have struggled some with the Christ I have been taught, I've always felt like I could never measure up. After watching The Chosen I gained a new relationship with Christ where I KNOW I measure up and I am loved as I am. This had renewed my faith and desire to love, learn and grow. I also learned how to love and accept Gods love for me through and amazing program called Heart of a Woman ( for women) or a Warriors Heart ( for men). I highly recommend both. Thank you Dallas for showing a side of Christ more people can relate to.
MickeyjNovember 6, 2022
I was thinking trauma too, before it was even mentioned in the question. The book The Body Keeps The Score would be an excellent read for this brother. EMDR and some forms of massage can be extremely effective at helping to resolve trauma.
T PaceNovember 5, 2022
Very well said!
Gail BowmanNovember 5, 2022
I’m a 42 yr member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints and I LOVE THE CHOSEN!!! My whole family loves The Chosen!! I believe it has brought me closer to Christ in different ways and I Love the Spirit it brings into our home! And because we believe in it so much we have “put our money where our mouth is” and have donated/gifted $1000’s of dollars to the work! I am prepared that at some point there may be a difference of opinion for me as a Latter-day Saint, (though it hasn’t really happened ye)t, however the over all message of Christ, His Love and His mission is so powerful in bringing people to Christ that it doesn’t matter! Dallas truly is sharing Jesus Christ with the WORLD!! Atheist’s are believing the message! How can we squabble over that if we truly love the Lord? It makes me sad that some of our Christian brothers and sisters questions Dallas’ motives and give him such a hard time in fear that he is “too close” to Our Faith! I would hope that we could all just see the Big Picture as Dallas and his team have and just rejoice in the fact that he is taking a Personal Loving Savior to the world and he’s making a difference in peoples lives!! Heavenly Father needs ALL Believers on deck in this crazy world we live in and we should unite and not let the adversary attempt to weaken us by dividing us, one of his favorite tactics. Let’s help in the work to bring the Light of the World to the world in what ever way possible! I Praise the Lord for it all!
Stephanie BillingsleyNovember 5, 2022
Amen! Been LOVING The Chosen for years and it, just like any of our 'tools' (prayer, scripture, church, temple, etc) points or connects us to JESUS. My husband and I firmly believe JESUS wants his sincere believers everywhere to come together, which should be easy, since we agree on the most important thing - JESUS the CHRIST alone is our Savior. I think it's ignorant to believe any one group of believers has the monopoly on all truth - as if man has all knowledge God could bestow. Wherever truth is found, there God is (truth is one great whole, and He is the Father) and we all have much good (of God) to offer. I think it would benefit all of us members of The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter-day Saints to focus more on being converted unto (changed by) JESUS rather than testimonies of the ancillaries - the Church itself being the vehicle for delivering the good news of JESUS CHRIST. "When we put God first, everything else falls into it's proper place..." I cherish my covenant relationship with my JESUS, and I do not dismiss, rather learn much from the beautiful relationship those of other faith traditions have with their Savior as well.
AnonymousNovember 5, 2022
Biggest problem there is in marriages, even President Kimball said something to that effect, hence the proliferation of books, articles, blogs, etc about sexual intimacy especially in the LDS and Christian realm. I'm no expert other than having been married for 45 yrs but I would say to this brother sounds like his wife may very possibly be depressed, unfortunately most often the fix for depression is medication, which makes the problem worse because most medication prescribed for depression kills sexual desire or libido, especially in women. It also sounds like there are cultural, social issues of abuse which has probably left her with low self esteem. I'm sure many including the columnist would recommend counseling for her or both but it may or may not help, in our case it made things worse.
Pam BundersonNovember 4, 2022
I grew up in a protestant faith and learned to love Jesus as my Savior and redeemer. When I was 21, I took time to investigate the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I learned that Jesus is still my savior and redeemer as well as my exemplar and teacher. I am grateful to have the opportunity daily to seek to know him better. The Chosen has given me an opportunity to see Christ in a realistic setting as a man on earth who God sent to teach us and bring us closer to our Father in Heaven. I find that he is still the same Jesus who loves each of us and wants us to guide us back to our heavenly home.
LindaNovember 4, 2022
Thank you!
KayNovember 4, 2022
A mother who cannot have physical relationship with her child--hugging, cuddling, being physically close--will do serious damage to her child. This is more than the husband's problem, it is a problem for her children as well. I hope she will agree to seek professional help.
Haze KompelienNovember 4, 2022
I feel The Chosen has been a gift to the world. Whether it is 100% biblically accurate or not, it has served its purpose well by bringing Jesus into conversations and hearts. It is not intended to replace LDS church videos. It is not intended to be 100% verbatim words of Christ. It IS, from my perspective, intended to encourage viewers to develop an understanding of the time He lived on earth and His human relationships to others. The staff of The Chosen pray that their efforts will encourage viewers to go to their scriptures and believe in Jesus Christ as Savior and the son of God. I hope more people watch their efforts. I pray people will be less critical and derisive.
MeganNovember 4, 2022
I have loved the portrayal of Jesus in The Chosen. I grew up in the Catholic Church with a Methodist-raised mom and grandparents, and joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints with my family when I was a teen. I have always loved the LDS portrayals of Jesus in film, and I've always appreciated their careful adherence to scripture when giving the actors portraying Christ opportunities to speak. But there is something so intimate and personal about Christ's portrayal in The Chosen, an intimacy more familiar to Protestant faiths than to ours, that has really drawn me in. I don't have to contend with potential doctrinal differences because I know and have a testimony of what our Church teaches. But I believe Dallas Jenkins' creation is truly a gift to the world, led by what I believe is the visitation of Holy Ghost (having experienced it myself as a nonmember), and I'm very excited to see what good it will do as the seasons roll forth. He is coming! And He has faithful followers doing His work throughout the world!
Toni LyonsNovember 4, 2022
I absolutely love The Chosen. I love to share it on social media along with The Book of Mormon movies. I love my Savior and anything that draws me closer to Him is alright with me!
Linda WinansNovember 4, 2022
Perfect article!!! AMEN!'
Chris CNovember 3, 2022
I read this book recently and thoroughly enjoyed it! LC Lewis did an excellent job expressing Michelle Naget's "voice" as a child and young woman! I fell in love with her and her remarkable family. Their love for each other, as well as their resilience, is breathtaking. At the heart of this story is the Christlike service of the Naget family, which extended well beyond their immediate family to include others in their community. Despite the unbearable conditions they were forced to endure, the Nagets never failed to live as they believed This story is astonishing and humbling!
Liz G.November 3, 2022
Thank you for this beautiful article. It really touched and moved me.
Stephen FennNovember 3, 2022
Susan, while I was on my way from Peru to Uruguay to serve my mission, I stopped in Tucuman to visit my family that was serving there as construction missionaries. John, at the time, was in the North Argentine Mission under President Richard G. Scott, serving in the city of San Juan. I hadn't seen him for almost a year and a half, and knew I wouldn't for another couple of years, so I took a 19 hour bus ride to visit him. Early in the trip, the question came to my mind, "what would I do if I I saw that a head on accident was about to occur during the bus ride". I decided the best thing to do would be to lie down quickly onto the adjacent seat so I would have the seat in front of me to absorb the impact. I arrived without incident and didn't think about it further. After an enjoyable couple of days visiting with John, I boarded the bus for the return trip. At about 6:00 am the next morning I had awakened and was looking forward as we were driving on a narrow road. I saw a dump truck approaching, which was unconcerning, but suddenly the truck swerved directly into our path. Instinctively, I flopped over onto the vacant seat next to me just seconds before the impact. Exactly as imagined, I bounced up against the seat in front of me and was not injured. Many on the bus were injured, thankfully not seriously. God's miracles don't need to be like the classic biblical ones to make us appreciate His loving hand in our lives.
HelenCNovember 3, 2022
I am struggling with doubt over my decision to “comfort the weary” by becoming a Grief Coach to women who have lost a child to cancer. This morning’s reading has caused me to think on the miracles in my life that pointed me in this direction in the first place. Just last Saturday I was at a luncheon with breast cancer survivors when we sang a song together and I felt my beautiful oldest daughter, who succumbed to this disease, standing behind me, singing with all her might as my own voice faded to tears. Father sent her, and she agreed, to strengthen me for today and tomorrow.
HelenCNovember 3, 2022
Thanks again, Dr. Dan, for enlightening my confused mind which was drifting away from its purpose this morning. Fear and confusion are NOT Heavenly Fathers tracing tools!
LoraNovember 3, 2022
I don't think that this prompting "went awry". The effort was to bless her daughter, and it did. I think that we need to be careful about equating "answered prayers" with "wishes granted". I believe that all of our prayers are answered, even when our wishes don't come true. One person fasts and prays for a miracle and gets it, and another person, just as faithful, fasts and prays for a miracle and doesn't. The Lord is in the character-building business, and characters aren't built by having easy lives. What's nice about this story is that Mom followed the prompting, and Daughter felt supported and loved. Clearly, the message inside the package was inspired! It would not have gone over well if she'd written something like, "I'm so sorry. It will work out next time." No, she must have written something like, "I believe in you. I love you." You can never go awry with a message like that.
NED WINFIELD SCARISBRICKNovember 2, 2022
I have yet to hear an explanation of what constitutes "worthiness." At what point do we become worthy and unworthy.
Marsha NewmanNovember 2, 2022
I love this discussion on the apostles and prophets. It is so carefully worded and contains many gentle cautions about “judging “ them from our own personal bias. The youth of the church are often hasty and highly influenced by social norms of our day. Many times only the perspective of years sheds light on the truthfulness of prophetic teachings. The Proclamation on the Family is one of those instances. Thanks for carrying this excellent article!
Sherrie AnthonyNovember 2, 2022
Steve what a great article. This is the perfect month for us to find even greater happiness by being grateful. Thank you.
Becca HowardNovember 2, 2022
It is a sad day indeed when parents must “opt out” on what is being taught in school. When I was young, parents had to “OPT IN” by signing permission slips for sex Ed, immunizations to be given at school, field trips, or anything else that was outside of the normal curriculum or schedule. Parental teachings, especially anything of a religious or moral nature, should come first. Schools need to return to teaching academics.
ChrisNovember 1, 2022
Great, great article. Thank you! We all know someone who is not "happy" unless they are suffering in some way...and have something to complain about. Of course suffering can be very real, but much of the time we suffer because we make up a story in our mind about the unfairness of it all, we live in the past and worry about the future. You're right...living in the present, letting go of the past, and choosing to "live in the grace of the day" works so much better...
LoraNovember 1, 2022
This article came at the right time! I sent it to my granddaughter who just started working at a hospital and has rejected the church. Since this is scientific, rather than religious, I hope that she will be able to deal with the inevitable life and death that goes on around her in her new job. My mother-in-law was raised as a secular Jewish woman, and now that her husband has died, she's having to face her thoughts about life after death. I've sent it to her, too. It may open the door to some deeper conversations. Thank you for writing this. I like David D's comments, too.
CherylNovember 1, 2022
Anita... I would love to hear more about how you did the scavenger hunt. I'm planning a family activity in Nov 2022 and that would be fun to include. Cheryl
AvaNovember 1, 2022
Not by chance, my prayers this morning were to help me overcome the constant disappointment and hurt I feel from my family. It's been a lifelong experience. I am grateful in all things. I have found much joy since my conversion of the church. I serve and love and give yet this this one thing just hurts. Yet I know it's not my fault. And I know there's nothing I can do about it but love them just as the Lord loves us. I always read your articles, Annie, because they're wonderful. And I appreciate so much your insights. Your wrist suggestions give me more to chew on, pray about, think about and hopefully accomplish. Thank you
Kathleen N JonesNovember 1, 2022
I am 74 years old. When I was 7 years old and in very bad health (heart) I left and visited Heaven and sat upon the Lord's lap upon His throne. I so plainly to this day can I still see his face, as I placed my hand on his cheek and looked into his un-describable blue eyes. There is of course more to the beginning and end except to say I returned and later left the hospital without any clue to the doctors how I had healed completely. I have also been privileged to witness other events of seeing others enter Heaven more than once. My "job" is not done but I cannot wait to go. No, I do not share this much, but now may be the time.
TanyaOctober 31, 2022
We hosted a youth activity using Dia de los Muertos as our underlying theme. We had three stations in the cultural hall where the rotated three groups through. Using the Family Tree Memories App. Why Family Stories? What is Dia de los Muertos. Each station was interactive. The final station was in the RS room where everyone gathered together. We created an Ofrenda where youth and leaders could place photos of their ancestors. Our Stake Patriarch talked about the importance of gathering Israel on both sides of the veil, and the importance of doing the temple work for our ancestors. It was a wonderful activity.
Gary AndersonOctober 31, 2022
Wonderful message! Thank you!
PhilOctober 31, 2022
Thank you, Daniel, for this interesting article. I am very interested in that book now and will order a copy of it. Regarding the skeptics, I'm convinced they will disbelieve in the afterlife no matter how much positive evidence there is, aside from having a NDE of their own.
MaryannOctober 31, 2022
Shortly before they died, both my great-grandmother and also my father had visitations of their loved ones on the other side. My great-grandmother said she could see her husband "waiting for her at the gate." My father had conversations with my mother. He also said that his father had come to him. My husband's grandfather also told us of family members who had visited him shortly before his death. I don't think this is unusual and perhaps is the loving preparation of our Heavenly Father to help us pass from one realm to another.
DavidDOctober 31, 2022
An extremely interesting, comprehensive, scientific and current study of "near death" experiences was reported earlier this year by the New York Academy of Sciences. Their goal was not to prove or disprove life after death, but rather to be able to help medical professionals better anticipate and address the experiences that many patients are likely to have as our medical technology continually advances in being able to "bring back" individuals who would traditionally be considered dead. https://nyaspubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/nyas.14740 One portion of the study has been summarized by a commentator as follows: "The recalled experiences surrounding death are not consistent with hallucinations, illusions, or psychedelic drug–induced experiences, according to several previously published studies. Instead, they follow a specific narrative arc involving a perception of (a) separation from the body with a heightened, vast sense of consciousness and recognition of death; (b) travel to a destination; (c) a meaningful and purposeful review of life, involving a critical analysis of all actions, intentions, and thoughts towards others; a perception of (d) being in a place that feels like “home”; and (e) a return back to life." https://nyulangone.org/news/recalled-experiences-surrounding-death-more-hallucinations
Corey D.October 27, 2022
The article mentioned Ms. Meloni the new Italian premier, almost the second she was elected the liberal establishment and media were criticising her, calling her right wing, biased, etc. I read her remarks and thought they were wonderful and excellent, I did not see one word of hate or bias or anything like that in her remarks, in fact half of what she said sounds like it was pulled from the Proclamation on the Family, just goes to show Satan will oppose anything good whether from religious sources or political. If she was a US citizen and lived here in the US I would vote for her in a heartbeat.
Becca HowardOctober 27, 2022
My husband and I raised our children with the traditional dos and don’ts, and I’m sure we heard plenty of the “lists” in our classes. We had to meet the challenges of business trips or visits to relatives of other faiths who wanted to eat out on Sunday. As empty nesters, we believe we are pretty good about doing the right things. For me the joy comes when I turn off a Hallmark movie or a BYU program and devote more time to Come, Follow Me or family history. A recent study challenge given at our stake conference has especially helped me feel an extra spiritual boost on the Sabbath and that I am spending my time well.
Beth TOctober 27, 2022
Thank You for strengthening our faith & testimonies in Sabbath day worship. My heart is FULL!!!
HelenCOctober 26, 2022
Thank you for encouraging me to press forward with Faith that Father knows my gifts and how best to use them. His will be done is all that matters to me.
MaryannOctober 25, 2022
This is very disturbing--how can any member of the church support a political party that clamors for abortion? And, I don't even need to say WHICH party it is, do I?
Harold RustOctober 25, 2022
Thanks to you and to other brave heroes who are speaking out as a thoughtful professional in addressing issues which are very pertinent for our society. I have been spared that bullying because I’m still just learning about the landscape.
HalOctober 24, 2022
Thank you for this thoughtful and insightful article. I have some Facebook "friends" who seem to thrive on regurgitating unfounded, undocumented, vitriolic rhetoric against some of my most deeply held beliefs. I usually choose to ignore their posts and scroll past them. Unfortunately, they can't seem to give me the same respect when I post some deeply held belief. These "friends" seem compelled to respond to my posts with a bitterness that far exceeds the loving intent of my original post. It is hard not to respond, so I try to just try to assure my detractors that I meant no offense, (and include them in my prayers), but I still stand firm on what I had written.
ChristineOctober 24, 2022
I am so sorry that you (or anyone) has to face this silencing tactic. Not only is this incredibly unkind and unfair, but to try to silence another's opinion through manipulation and deceit is a very slippery slope to anarchy. I love to read your thoughtful comments, and while I don't always agree with everything you (or ANY one in the public discourse) says, I learn so much and gain a greater understanding for all opinions. If it is any comfort, your book The Power of Stillness has been such a profound blessing to me! I especially loved your narration!! Thank you and keep writing and keep challenging our thinking!
Jan NielsenOctober 24, 2022
Yeah for you. I cheer you on! Thank you for your courage.
Jill CleaverOctober 20, 2022
I love this article. Thank you Anne!
David Lee SalyerOctober 20, 2022
Jesus Christ and His gospel are the only true remedies for any temporal malady. "Mental Health" has usurped this jurisdiction at the peril, trauma, and tragedy of those who rejected His scriptural admonitions to "Come unto me". We are told within a single verse in the Book of Mormon the simple, obvious cause and resolution for all that "mental health" attempts to address. It is obvious, but has just as obviously been overlooked, greeted with unbelief, and under-utilized, to our collective demise. It is this verse: "And if ye have no hope ye must needs be in despair; and despair cometh because of iniquity. Moroni 10:22 We need to stop looking beyond the mark. Only then can we become clean and experience the miracles the gospel promises us we will obtain through simple obedience and repentance. We should stop behaving as one of the Israelites who refused to simply look and be healed. I testify this principle is true!
Renee HardingOctober 20, 2022
Wow, great insights. Loved these gems of wisdom.
MaryannOctober 17, 2022
I highly recommend the Spouse and Family Support Meetings which are part of the Addiction and Recovery Program of the church. The principles taught there would have helped this woman recognize the false things she was being told. She would have learned divine principles that would have greatly helped her in a very difficult situation, and also gained support from the group leaders and other participants. This is a divinely inspired program and mental health specialists have helped to design it, as approved by church leaders. I hope everyone who has a family member with any kind of addiction will speak to their Bishop about attending these meetings. They are strictly confidential.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryOctober 14, 2022
This is so fascinating. It is amazing what has been discovered. Thank you for sharing.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryOctober 13, 2022
Very well written with good quotes and explanations. We constantly must be aware of Satan's tactics to keep us from staying on the covenant path. We have much greater power than he has because we have Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ on our side. Satan will never win.
Paralee EckmanOctober 13, 2022
This is such a timely article, that it should be read by all people -- not just members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints! It a person doesn't believe in the power and intentions of Satan, they can't even believe the truths in the Temple Ceremony! It is basic, and something we fought for in our pre-existence life! Thank you for writing this!
shaunaOctober 13, 2022
Well done. Thanks for the many references to talks and scripture. Surely, the Book of Mormon is the most powerful "witness' of Satan and lists many of his traps, snares, false arguments etc. I am grateful for the inclusion of the anti-christs, Korihor, Nehor and Sherem for instance, and the recounting of their false philosophies, so that they can be identified and avoided. He never has anyone best's interests at heart and will abandon any who follow him.
Ron StandageOctober 13, 2022
An excellent explanation of why we must understand Satan so we can be successful in becoming who we must be to live with Father eternally. Thank you very much!
HelenCOctober 13, 2022
I renege clearly the day a friend of mine told me, almost 50 years ago, that she and her mother had both decided there was no such being as Satan. Within six months they had left the Church. He’s THAT good (at his job, of course!). I recently came to the decision that, while I despise his chosen profession, I will put him but not hate him. Hate only damages me and he hasn’t earned that right.
RyanOctober 12, 2022
Nothing like taking time to enjoy life at the beach! Great reminder as to the importance of storytelling and reflection.
CindyOctober 12, 2022
Beautiful! I might share it with my college composition class!
KathleenOctober 12, 2022
Welcome back, I've missed reading your articles unless they've been printed and I haven't seen them. I find your logic and adept ability to express yourself, refreshing. There would be a lot less conflict and hurt if the adage, "is it true, is it kind, is it necessary?", preceded our words.
SarahOctober 11, 2022
Talk only via those court approved aps. Record any phone conversations, not that it'll help, as they will say u manipilulated the recording but for your own sanity! Go no contact, except via the ap. Don't engage, explain, defend or personalise. See them as 9 Yr olds baiting you for a fight, don't take the bait. Don't validate your feelings, they don't care. Save your breath. Answer with 'whatever' and walk away/hang up. You are their feed, give them nothing
GenOctober 10, 2022
Beautiful. I too have had my understanding enlarged through the Come, Follow Me study of Isaiah. What a gift these last few weeks have been!
LewisOctober 10, 2022
Two words: "simply extraordinary." You have such a gift for wrapping divine principles into meaningful and memorable stories. Please keep this up. And I hope someone helps you put these extraordinary articles into a book.
HelenCOctober 10, 2022
Thank you, dear friend in Christ, for showing me the PERFECT way to launch my Grief Relief Support business. I trust I will hear His voice in the help that He requires of me.
R. StarkOctober 5, 2022
As an former educator, I know that writing is such an important part of learning and thinking. I am wondering if our digital world will cause this important aspect to become obsolete.
RaLee HallOctober 5, 2022
This is excellent advise. Thank you.
HelenCOctober 5, 2022
Just what I needed as I get ready for my first webinar tonight on dealing with the loss of a child. Thank you!
Jim LimOctober 4, 2022
Thirty five years age I got a bible (Old and New Testimony) on microfiche. It was 2"x2".
Kathy SandersOctober 4, 2022
I felt an overwhelming theme was the importance of developing an ever deepening relationship with Christ. To live with Him as our daily companion, counselor, friend, and savior. I want to learn how to BE in that intense relationship with such a perfect friend more faithfully and trustingly. I was struck by the urgency to make and keep covenants with God. This is our only hope of surviving the days before us. And lastly for me was the sweet blessings our dear prophet bestowed upon us in his Sunday morning and afternoon talks. I want to claim each one of them and I love the power and authority he has to give us those blessings straight from God.
Dave HansenOctober 4, 2022
OK......I like this idea! When can I go to Deseret Book and buy one....??? :-)
MaryannOctober 3, 2022
LOVED the poem you shared. Beautiful!
MaryannOctober 3, 2022
I loved President Nelson's continued encouragement to focus on the temple in ways that we never have before. He has repeatedly stressed this in his past addresses as well. He gave a great PROMISE to all of us in his final talk on Sunday that increased time in the temple will bless our lives in ways that nothing else can. This promise has already been fulfilled in my life. I have focused much more on the temple, studied about the temple, increased my temple attendance, prayed and read the scriptures in the temple, and prepared myself with prayer before attending. I have also searched for my ancestors and received the ordinances for my own ancestors in the temple. As a result, my understanding of the temple has unfolded like a beautiful rose. I have felt close to my Savior, and also greater love and appreciation for the reality of His atonement for me. I feel that I know Him better and have sensed that I have access to his continuous power and strength. I continue to have new impressions and to gain more knowledge, faith, trust in, and commitment to my Savior.
Paul HOctober 3, 2022
God is always aware of us and desires to help us because He loves each of us as an individual and distinct son or daughter.
Doris WilliamsOctober 3, 2022
Wow! These are so beautiful. Almost makes me want to be back on Facebook so I could share them...but at 89 and still busy with family and temple work, I can't keep up with all the technology. Just don't have the words to express my gratitude for conference, for the counsel, for our blessed leaders, for this precious church.
KarenOctober 3, 2022
Build your relationship with Christ. He is the answer to everything
TJOctober 3, 2022
What has stood out to me is the way God shows his great love for us. Broadcast ability to reach the world. Translators to allow all to hear in their own language. Messages of instruction to restore hope. Love on display.
CodgerOctober 1, 2022
At your age it really doesn't matter. Take it out of his inheritance. In some cases he is going to have to pony up the money to pay for your care at a retirement home and that costs more than children. If you are still pretty healthy and live long enough, your grand children might be in a place to care for you. Think of that as a high risk, long term investment and do the best you can to stay in the game for them.
RobbSeptember 30, 2022
We have the opposite problem. My daughter and son-in-law refuse to accept any gifts we spontaneously select for our 3 grandchildren. For birthdays and Christmas, my son-in-law texts us the name of the one gift we may order for the children. They live across the country and we only see them every other year. We think the grandchildren will remember us as being ungenerous because of their father's restrictions on this matter.
Dave BallSeptember 30, 2022
Thank you, Scott! I'm using the statistics about most-referenced scriptures in my Seminary class this morning, as we focus on General Conference. We'll look at each of them and talk about why they might be so often referenced.
Wendy RojasSeptember 29, 2022
Beautiful and insightful writing. Thank you for sharing your perspective of healed old wounds through Jesus Christ.
StephSeptember 29, 2022
I enjoyed reading. :) <3 (warm-hearted smiles) ^v (God is greater than the highs & lows)
BrentSeptember 29, 2022
Enjoyed reading of your meaningful thoughts/memories. Welcome home!
Taylor StonelySeptember 29, 2022
What a profound story! I have been thinking a lot about returning home to where I grew up in the East Millcreek area and this touched me as I too recalled many memories of my childhood. Your larger point of how the Savior’s Atonement can heal all wounds is so true! Thank you for sharing your experience and putting life in context of past, present, and future…
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
Jeff Bradshaw has written two articles on these chapters that will appear in Meridian this week. He may include the Jewish story there, or you can contact him.
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
We do not have transcripts when we have a guest, but we will not have guests very many more times this year, and will resume with the transcripts.
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
We only have transcripts when we do not have a guest with us. Most of the rest of the year, we will have transcripts.
Maurine Jensen ProctorSeptember 26, 2022
We do not have a transcript for this podcast, but we will be publishing two back-to-back articles by Jeffrey Bradshaw on Meridian this week, so you can watch for them.
JudySeptember 25, 2022
I love this episode, Isaiah 50-57, as well as the many, many others that I have learned from this passed while and was wondering if there is a transcript of this podcast? I have the opportunity to speak in Sacrament Meeting and would like to use some quotes from the podcast.
Marjorie BaileySeptember 25, 2022
I also miss the written transcripts. I do not have a phone and rely on my computer. The written word makes it possible for me to take notes for further reference. I am very hard of hearing and miss so much of the audio. could you please consider returning to the previous way? Thank you for all that you do to allow us insight into the scriptures.
Corey D.September 25, 2022
Excellent, excellent article. What you are saying would have been almost universally agreed upon years ago but sadly no longer is and even sadder and I know others who feel the same, I feel like there is no hope that it will change.
Gordon J HensleySeptember 25, 2022
This concept never occurred to me until I read this article: The fields are burned after the harvest, not to punish the fields or the straw, but to prepare the fields for next season's planting. Likewise, the burning of the earth at the coming of the Lord is not to punish the earth or the people on it, but to prepare earth for it's next season. (Paradisiacal glory.)
marytarbetSeptember 24, 2022
I can’t say thank you enough for educating us and being willing to read books that have such offensive language and graphic content. You are a saint!
LupineSeptember 24, 2022
Unfortunately, not all abusers were victims of abuse themselves. Those who were, obviously need some attempts to help them. But some abusers are mentally ill in other ways and attempts to help them fail. Others are just evil. My husband learned about sex from the brothels of Havana, Cuba when the US Navy used to put in there for "R&R". Then he went home to Indiana and married the neighborhood slut who continued to cheat on him and he on her. Obviously, they ended up divorced. And then he wondered why I didn't act like a prostitute in our marriage and the abuse began.
Nathan DemersSeptember 24, 2022
11 of 17 prophets and additional apostles have clearly stated that fish is a healthy option and should be utilized. Brigham Young made a statement that people were confusing the subject and made an attempt to simplify it. Brigham Young “…But we can eat fish…Fish is as healthy a food as we can eat, if we except vegetables and fruit, and with them will become a very wholesome diet. What hinders us from surrounding ourselves with an abundance of those various articles of food which will promote health and produce longevity? If it is anything, it is our own neglect; or, in other words, which will answer my purpose better, the want of knowing how.” - Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses Vol. 12 Necessity of obeying counsel, April 6, 1868 Position: President of the church
Emma McKenzieSeptember 24, 2022
I, too, have appreciated and taken for granted the wonderful transcripts that come with the lesson each week. I copied them weekly and sent them to my husband, who is in prison. He has been in prison 4 years and still has 4 more to go. Your lessons are filled with the spirit and inspiration he and I both need to get through each week. Your lessons are wonderful. I hope all is well with your family. You're in my prayers.
CarolSeptember 23, 2022
Is there any way to get a copy of Jeff Bradshaw's Jewish friend's testimony when he read Isaiah 53? Or, a book where it is written. Very powerful.
MaryannSeptember 23, 2022
When we focus only on the trial, we will be swallowed up by it. When we continue to recognize the beauty around us and spend more time focusing on our blessings, the scriptures, and the many witnesses in our lives of God's eternal, ever present love, we will have more peace. We can also remember President Hinckley's counsel that things WILL work out. We may be tired of waiting for that to occur, but we can choose to place our faith in our Savior and use that faith to remember that He is with us and will help us get through the hard times. We can humble ourselves and ask others for the help we need, instead of shouldering our burdens alone. We can remove great weights from our bodies and spirits by accepting the fact that we cannot solve the problems of others. As we continue to show love for family members, sometimes we just need to let go of trying to change things and, in faith, let our Heavenly Father take our burdens.
HalSeptember 23, 2022
Great article, thank you! It is amazing how devious people try to sneak destructive material into our children's minds under the guise of "inclusion" or even "art."
Steve GattenSeptember 23, 2022
It’s always interesting ready convoluted reasoning by therapists. While this article touches on some realities it pushes aside one of the obvious explanations. That is that the accusations we totally and intentionally made. I personally believe that is the case here as it was in all the other examples the author pointed out. There was motive and many, including Duke have in the end ignored the truth.
ElizabethSeptember 23, 2022
Excellent article. Thanks for taking the time to be so thorough and specific.
CASSeptember 23, 2022
This was very well written! Thank you for your time to put this crucial and detailed matter together. Informed families: take action!
MSeptember 23, 2022
Don’t forget this is in a context where public libraries in the US are also being targeted and forced to remove books about LGBTQI characters and by LGBTQI authors. I’m sure the situation is complex, but it is disingenuous to suggest that it’s just schools that this is happening in. Hopefully that is the case in Utah, but it is easy to see why people are becoming concerned about outright censorship in public and schools libraries in the US. There should also be discussion of options such as restriction by age or parental permission rather than by complete removal.
CarolSeptember 22, 2022
This is also the night of a marvelous heavenly manifestation of armies marching across the sky that was seen by Heber C. Kimball and family, Brigham Young, and others in Mendon, NY.
Kristen OpenshawSeptember 22, 2022
I posted this video two years ago during the Covid mandates. Funny how it seems to be making a comeback now, but I'm not sure that people view it the way I did then and do now.
Paul HSeptember 22, 2022
It is my belief and experience that God uses Priesthood Blessings to help us understand His will, and that through that means He does not test our faith, but rather He reinforces our faith. I've had similar experiences to the ones in this article. They also increase our focus on God's love for each of us.
Joy LundbergSeptember 22, 2022
I really enjoyed this article. It brings comfort and peace. Thanks again for another great article, full of meaning and insight. Your writing always uplifts me.
HalSeptember 22, 2022
This story reminds me of our honeymoon 37 years ago. We spent the first two nights in a nice, reasonably priced hotel in a quiet little town with amazing scenery right outside the door. My wife was very frugal (a good attribute) and decided the hotel we were staying in was too expensive and suggested we could get a cheaper one in the next (larger) town up the road. I reluctantly cancelled our remaining three nights in the nice hotel and packed up to head to the next town. Upon entering the town, we found a string of "No Vacancy" signs at each hotel we drove by. The hotel room we finally got at the edge of town was indeed cheaper. It also reeked of cigarette smoke and alcohol. We also noticed that the parking lot began to fill up as the day wore on and realized it was the first day of the elk hunt in that state. We were awakened at 4:00 a.m. the next morning to the sound of 4-wheel-drive pickups starting up, headlights shining through our window, the loud clomping of hunting boots on the wood walkway outside our room, and loud voices shouting out "Hey Jake, you got the beer?" Short story, after two nights of this we decided to cut our honeymoon short and just go home. We look back on this event and laugh, but it wasn't very amusing at the time.
GaleSeptember 22, 2022
Another wonderful event is the giving of the keys of the restoration to Joseph Smith (with Oliver Cowdery present) in the Kirtland Temple on Sunday, April 3rd, 1836. The brethren saw the Christ and received keys from Elijah, Moses, and Elias. This day was the Jewish holiday of Bikkurim, or first fruits (Bikkurim refers to "honored son"). This wave offering occurs during Passover week and is meant to guarantee a perfect harvest for the coming year. This is the day that Christ rose from the dead!
ObserverSeptember 21, 2022
I appreciate these stories. It seems faith is very rare to be found these days.. sometimes even amongst many church members. Faith is real and the FIRST principle of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
CarolSeptember 21, 2022
Yikes!!! That was a funny story - I hope it wasn't true!!! It's a great lesson in cheapest is not always the best choice!!
ShaunaSeptember 21, 2022
Fantastic--thank you for this even handed, eye opening, wise article about raising children in an increasingly secular world--and some of the "woke" terms used were new to me. My kids are now college age and on missions, but I think young adulthood is also a time of incredible challenge as they strive to be adults and feel wise in their own eyes and are excited by new ideas etc. and are still so influenced by their peers. We have found that the Church's emphasis on having pre missionaries become ordinance workers in the temple, is an incredible foundation to ground them. I love the author's distinction between rejecting ideas but not rejecting people and for her belief that our kids are not here by accident at this time and in this place
LOSeptember 19, 2022
Your photo shows the signing of the Declaration, not the Constitution
Jo Ann McVey OkelberrySeptember 19, 2022
I agree with this article.
HalSeptember 19, 2022
Great article, thank you! I have long feared that our inspired Constitution is only a single administration away from "hanging by a thread."
Ben JonesSeptember 19, 2022
Winston Churchill once said that "Democracy is the worst form of government except for all the others." One of the things I admire about our country is that we do try to make up for past mistakes from time to time. Sometimes, people get impatient and wish that a slight majority ought to be able to do what it wants but then all it takes to undo it is a slight majority in the other direction. Then again, sometimes a lop-sided majority will do the wrong thing in the heat of the moment and then see things go awry. Constant course correction is needed.
Corey D.September 18, 2022
This first thing that should have tipped people off that something was wrong was the fact that it was "women's volleyball" , people who go to women's sports and/or volleyball are not troublemakers or people who say those kind of things. Second, it was at a BYU event, while BYU students and fans are not perfect they are not the kind of people who would say those things or tolerate it being said.
RASeptember 18, 2022
This story could have been about our son and his soon to be ex-wife. All we could do was stand helplessly by and support our son while he decided on his own when he had enough of her controlling personality. What is missing in this story of controlling spouses, that the control in one form or another still goes on even after the marrige splits up. When there are children involved. Truly the patience of Job is involved with these relationships.
WendySeptember 18, 2022
So sorry for the pain you have suffered. I’m glad you are healing and that you have stayed with the gospel. Thank you for helping others who have had the same dreadful experience.
PhilSeptember 17, 2022
The victims need to start suing these newspapers for slander and blatantly sloppy reporting. That's the only way to make this nonsense stop.
Vira Ann JohnsonSeptember 16, 2022
I can get the full podcast with writing on my phone but not on my computer. I am deaf and so need to see the written work. I love what you do and like to run them off so I can digest them more. Thank you
LoraSeptember 16, 2022
I've greatly missed the transcripts to these podcasts, so I want to express my gratitude for them in the past. Without the transcripts, I've been motivated to purchase Dr. Muhlestein's book, Learning to Love Isaiah, and it has been very helpful in my understanding of the scriptures. I recommend it highly. Thank you to those who have provided the transcripts in the past. We miss you, and we hope you are in good health. We look forward to your return.
vickieSeptember 16, 2022
when ever someone is like this daughter in law its because of fear and things that happened in her life and doesnt want to happen again. so i think the mother does need to develope that close relationship with the daughter in law which i think will ease her fears.
Patsy SwinsonSeptember 15, 2022
I think a main problem is that most people just don't want to believe that such atrocities are happening to people they know, and being committed by people they know. They block it out and sometimes won't believe it even when told about it. It's time to stop assuming that just because someone seems to be such a nice person that they are incapable of horrible behavior behind closed doors.
Rebecca PinegarSeptember 15, 2022
Yours is a heartbreaking story. Thank you for sharing and adding such a faithful and enlightening message of hope. Life is very complicated and the answers often are even more complicated. Blessings to you and hopefully countless others who may learn from your helpful and loving counsel.
Beth TSeptember 15, 2022
Thank you so very much for your insightful and encouraging words. I speak peace and truth to my heart. I pray they may do the same for others.
V HamiltonSeptember 15, 2022
Thank you for this article. I'm a victim of abuse but strongly disagree with the lynch mob mentality against offenders as I believe they too were abused and never received the help they needed. They too can repent and heal through the atonement of our Saviour. I choose to forgive lest I be judged the same.
Rob McGhieSeptember 14, 2022
The spirit children of Heavenly Father were given their first chance at exaltation in the pre- existence, the second chance came in this earth and most of them will get a third.chance is the post mortal Spirit World. How many chances do you want to give them? Unlimited? Where’s the justice in that. Just like the mortal law “Three strikes and you’re out”.
Becca HowardSeptember 14, 2022
Your travel tips are so important. Years ago our flight was diverted to another state due to weather, but our luggage was in limbo. My husband had to be on a job site at 7 a.m. We got a car and arrived at our hotel, and were lucky to find a 24-hour Walmart where he could get work clothes. I had enough to get by in my carry-on until our luggage was delivered. Another time we sat on our flight for several hours before they closed the airport due to snow. Fortunately, we were able to get our luggage, but we couldn't get another flight out for two days. Fortunately, we were able to get a hotel. Every bit of preparedness helps.
Cyndi H.September 14, 2022
Thank you for your insights. I agree with you. Our time of probation here on this Earth and in the Spirit World ends at the time of our resurrection with either a telestial, terrestrial, or celestial body. We receive the body for the glory that we feel most comfortable with. Yes, I believe that we can all eternally learn and grow. However, I believe those opportunities reside in each of those kingdoms and that’s where they stay.
brettSeptember 14, 2022
I have given a lot of thought about this over the years and the comments in this article make sense. What I struggle with reconciling is the family situations. An enormous focus is put on uniting families forever and I can see the real possibility that earthly families would be in different kingdoms after a final judgment. In my limited earthly view I don't see how I could enjoy a celestial life while loved family members are in a different kingdon.
John CrowderSeptember 14, 2022
Thanks for sharing that update. I totally agree with your son's question about how can we be so passive about such a tragedy and how important it is to keep that memory alive. Kudos to him for his efforts.
HalSeptember 14, 2022
What a wonderful, thought-provoking article! Prior to my reading this article, I have harbored some very unkind thoughts toward those who initiated and perpetuate false accusations. I am beginning to see now that their actions may have been based on some very real prior injuries. I will likely continue to stand up for myself when I feel I'm being attacked, but I will try to do so in a way that takes into consideration what the other person may be feeling.
John PetersenSeptember 14, 2022
Excellent article Jeff! From the beginning of this incident I thought both sides were too quick to rush to judgment, but the BYU response was what our society demands now. I feel bad for the poor guy wrongly accused. I hope they offer him season tickets as reparations. I especially liked your explanation that Rachel really believes she heard what she said. And I know from personal experience that people can hear what was never said. People hear what they want to hear.
BoBSeptember 14, 2022
I believe there is a lot of truth in what you are saying. I do not believe that everything you are saying is necessarily true. It is possible, I believe probable, for the parent(s) to provide to their children what they need and what they merit without providing everything they could have received. There are too many scriptures and revelations to simply say, "you will get everything that will make you the happiest forever." I do not believe that. I am not Presbyterian; I do not believe some are simply created for this glory and some for that. I believe, as a child of God, each has divine potential. We will become what we choose, not what we are. Yes all of the Kingdoms of Glory are for joy, but not all will receive a fullness of joy and they will be aware of that. Everything to the left of the Celestial Kingdom is a degree (we Latter-Day Saints teach and believe in degrees) of damnation; everything to the right of outer darkness is a degree of Salvation. Yes they will have joy, but yes there will be some sorrow as well.
IanSeptember 14, 2022
Let me add that NO ONE will arrive at the resurrection with anything less than an absolutely full understanding of the kingdoms and what they entail. If someone chooses the Telestial or Terrestrial (or even one of the lower levels of the Celestial), it is because they have no desire for anything else. If someone has an honest desire to become Celestial, then they will achieve their goal BEFORE the resurrection, no matter how long it takes or how much repentance it requires. It is, after all, an infinite Atonement. In other words, no one in a lower kingdom will desire to go to a higher kingdom because they already made their permanent, full and open, all information included, no deception or misunderstanding involved choice.
Boanerges RubalcavaSeptember 14, 2022
Very good article, for helping us as individuals. However, for us as a nation, it does not help, since as we can see from ms. Richardson, she as well as many people in this country are constantly bombarded by what the author is telling us: "we are all racists" not only that, I believe the worst is that because society trying to repair one evil (racism) creates even more and more damaging situations. For instance since we want "diversity" they now have most if not all the public environment (films, commercial, press, tv, etc) full of the "past oppressed" and none of the "past oppressors", and this is the "diversity" they the "saviors" of those maligned in the past, has given us: the rest of the nation. From this comes the "lynching" of the police man who put his knee in the neck of the "oppressed" who was intoxicated with 3 (or maybe more) lethal doses of a toxic substance that causes his death (according with the initial forensic reports), and this independently of the (for sure) police brutality shown by the police man. This is al over the nation, "diversity" or that matter "racism or anti-racism" is rampant and therefore, more and more, lack of love is shown everywhere. This is sad, very sad.
Boanerges RubalcavaSeptember 14, 2022
I think the author is setting limits to ETERNITY. Of course, we do not know if there are really progression from one glory to other, but, the mortal examples he uses are by far less important than the ETERNAL PROGRESSION and of course the immense love of God for His children. After all, I strongly believe that although "...this is my work and my glory to bring to pass immortality and eternal life for man.", due to His eternal love for us actually I believe He wants Eternal Life for all His children, unfortunately many of us did not appreciate it and simple accept the other glories. But still I think He wants Eternal Life for all, and as a matter of fact He has been helping us throughout our mortal existence (and very likely after it) to gain precisely Eternal Life.
Herm OlsenSeptember 14, 2022
Bro. Goddard offers a wonderful insight into a perplexing question. I can take a deeper, more relaxing breath on the issue based on his observations. Thank you much for these insights. You’re amazing!
MarySeptember 14, 2022
I think this is a nice thought, but since there hasn't been a lot reveled I think it is safer to say that we just don't know. I personally lean more towards that there will be mobility between kingdoms. I think a loving God will give his children as many chances as he can to have them back. I once was stressed about being at the " celestial" level that God was by the time the final judgement came I then had a thought that maybe God didn't just become God over night, but through progressing throughout time which took away my anxiety. So I like to think about the eternities of one of constance growing and progressing.
Becky L RoseSeptember 14, 2022
I have never believed this is possible.
KcSeptember 14, 2022
If we are the same people and enjoy the same socialites I believe we will deal with regrets that we might have chosen better. That’s likely true if we’re missing family members in other kingdoms. If you’re in say terrestrial then you can be visited by a celestial family member. A terrestrial family member can visit a telestial. Visiting isn’t the same as living together and working for common goals. Spouses who love each other but weren’t valiant enough for exaltation might be celestial but not exalted as husband and wife. Despite the happiness of working to fulfill our eternal selves there will be regrets by those not exalted—they will wish they had the powers others have. There will even be sorrow on the part of exalted beings that people they love aren’t anywhere near, just like our Heavenly Father has for us. I have a friend who said she’s perfectly content being an angel to a god. Yet she’s so intensely invested in the work of her family, esp wayward family. Why not shoot for the moon so you can have power within yourself to effect change in their behalf?
Craig FrogleySeptember 13, 2022
One of your very best...insightful and touching!!
Michael GoodmanSeptember 12, 2022
"Vice is a monster of so frightful mien As to be hated needs but to be seen; Yet seen too oft, familiar with her face, We first endure, then pity, then embrace." Alexander Pope Too many people it seems are at the pity/embrace stage. When the robbers of Gadianton came among the Lamanites, they cast them out, so the robbers went to the Nephites and corrupted the whole nation. When shall we stand up and remove unrepentant corrupters from our institutions? Hopefully soon, or we will lose a generation.
Ed GayhartSeptember 12, 2022
What do you expect from the sources mentioned - fairness, integrity and honesty? Those items have not been seen at CNN, ABC for 30 years.
DanSeptember 12, 2022
The evidence would show this is like a Jesse Smolet claim, or like the Duke LaCross rape accusation, You cannot bury the truth, put all the facts out there. This Media group are known liers. False accusations only make race relations more dificult. It destroys trust
Kristen OpenshawSeptember 12, 2022
This whole episode is troubling. "Innocent until proven guilty" has been abandoned, even by BYU's athletic department and Utah's governor.
Maralyn DotsonSeptember 12, 2022
Oh Wow! Thankyou so much for capturing thoughts that are so hard to define and to express! Putting them together in this article makes them shareable. I love your insight and depth! Thankyou!
Susan MarkhamSeptember 9, 2022
Thank you Maurine. You learned from your wonderful father and mother and have lifted all around you!
Becca HowardSeptember 8, 2022
There have been many modifications in women's temple dresses, and many styles available, including skirts and blouses, from many distributors. As an ordinance I sometimes chuckle that we "are the same, all dressed in white" when I see the fashion show of so many styles of white dresses. However, there is something for everyone. It is wonderful that many types of shoes are allowed, as a simple white slipper did not support the feet of many sisters. I even have a pair of heels that I sometimes wear on my shift because one of my dresses is on the long side. My sadness comes when observing how sacred clothing has been cared for by not ironing or by carelessness in packing in temple bags.
JimSeptember 8, 2022
I LOVE how you think! Thank you for yet another uplifting article.
Fellow workerSeptember 8, 2022
In the Raleigh Temple, in North Carolina, one of the workers wears a bow tie. I'm a bit jealous since I don't have the first clue how to tie one.
Gale BoydSeptember 7, 2022
Interestingly, during the first Gulf War, when we were living in Israel, the code word for incoming missiles was, in Hebrew, "fiery, flying serpents," and we heard the quote from Isaiah 14:29 often, with the cockatrice used to typify Saddam Hussein--"Rejoice not thou, whole Palestina, because the rod of him that smote thee is broken: for out of the serpent’s root shall come forth a cockatrice, and his fruit shall be a fiery flying serpent."
Rosa IngramSeptember 7, 2022
Like the author, I was a tomboy and loved hunting, fishing, climbing trees, wearing blue jeans and flannel shirts. I was envious of the boys because of all they good do, that I couldn't do. At times even wishing I was a boy! I am so glad that I was allowed to go through puberty and become the woman I am today. I eventually grew curves and wasn't sure I liked them. But those curves enabled me to bear children and become a mother and receive blessings beyond measure.
HelenCSeptember 7, 2022
Perfect timing as usual from these articles. Thank you.
vickieSeptember 7, 2022
IM glad this is being dealt with. i think there must be a difference between people who are homosexual then people who have gender dysphoria. i have a homosexual son and he doesnt want to change his body into a girls. neither does his partner. i myself believe that it all is a disorder in the body itself. that somehow in the genetic make up while the child is in utero, something happens. my son started exhibiting his homosexuality when very young. he didnt know it but his brothers and sister noticed it. then when puberty hit he noticed it and had to live with it. he didnt come out until he was in his 30's but he told us he knew when he hit about 11yrs old. i wish there was more investigation into a physical disorder that causes any of these things.
Robert StarlingSeptember 6, 2022
Thanks to Jeff for highlighting some of the strongest logical evidences of the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon. Of course the strongest and most impresive is the witness of the Holy Spirit, but for those unwilling to humble themselves yet and ask God if it's true, these are good building blocks to construct a jumping-off point for that leap of faith. I provided some of these and other evidences in the Meridian article published in January of 2020 called "10 Things the Devil Does Not Want You to Know About the Book of Mormon". To find it, just type the first few words of that title into the search box at the top of the Meridian Magazine main page.
Lorene E. WalkerSeptember 6, 2022
Very interesting! I hope to be able to read some of the sources cited.
JemezblueSeptember 6, 2022
Thank you for this article. It is sad to see so much worldly activism in the Lord's university. I am a grad student at another university in the Southwest. My university has a LGBT Resource Center with some activities during the school year, but I do not see this type of activism that was reported above in my university neighborhood. This is disturbing. Please do not let this get a hold of BYU.
Carlos RoundySeptember 6, 2022
Joseph Smith simply did not have the capacity to write the Book of Morman on his own. He could not have written one chapter of the book of mormon. He was a transmitter not a translator. He said, by the gift and power of God, it was accomplished.
Lawrence RookhuyzenSeptember 6, 2022
Great article but the best "test" will always be the one found in Moroni 10:4-5.
MaryannSeptember 6, 2022
Wow--who knew? I thought all I had to do was sincerely read it and then ask our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ if the Book of Mormon was true. I was promised by Moroni, that great Book of Mormon Prophet, that if I would ask with a sincere heart and with real intent, having faith in Christ, that the truthfulness of the Book of Mormon would be manifested to me by the power of the Holy Ghost. If a person does not take those steps, no amount of information will convince them and, sadly, A genuine testimony will always be beyond their reach.
MaryannSeptember 6, 2022
Unless EVERYONE who had ANY involvement in the creating and distribution of this pamphlet to BYU students is promptly expelled from BYU, this disgusting behavior will continue. There are MANY young people just waiting to step in, obey the rules, and enjoy an education at BYU with GRATITUDE! Looks like the administration is going to have to RAISE the standard for those who wish to attend, and Bishops are going to have to be very searching in their interviews with prospective students.
Jenifer OylerSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for this article! Thank you for bringing this sleaze into the light. Anything that persuades people to live contrary to the commandments is not helping but harming others.
Judy ShumwaySeptember 5, 2022
thank you for sharing we MUST stand for the teaching of our Lord Jesus Christ and not follow the world. thanks keep on
Rob McGhieSeptember 5, 2022
I am a littlest confused. How can this exist in a church school. We have standards, we have revealed truth. These anarchists Should not be tolerated at BYU. There are many other liberal universities that they can attend if they want to express these outrageous beliefs. If student cannot adhere to Gospel standards they should be asked to leave. Enough is enough.
JeniferSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for this very informative article! It is absolutely horrifying and disturbing to see these young adults get sucked into these lies! Thank you for exposing this pamphlet and the groups behind it for what they really are.
Sue HaberSeptember 5, 2022
Excellent article. Thank you for sharing this information. Needs to be shared with others.
Robert StarlingSeptember 5, 2022
Only one commenter has mentioned the silver lining underneath this "rainbow" topic (pun intended). When the issue was brought to the attention of the BYU administration, they STOPPED the distribution of this insidious pamphlet. Yes, BYU needs to be more vigilent in "defending truth and right", so the that the "youth of Zion" do not "falter", and yes, the activists need to be escorted to the edge of campus and invited to find an educational institution better suited to their preferences and their world view. But lest we throw out the baby with the filthy bathwater, remember that my beloved Alma Mater is still the Lord's University (NOT the activists', although they claim it is theirs). And having attended another college back East for two years before going to BYU, believe me, it is still a MUCH better alternative.
Barry HSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you, Cassandra, for providing the details, photos, screen shots and research that the major news outlets should have provided. And thank you, Meridian, for featuring Cassandra's article. I figured BYU had good reasons for removing the pamphlet from the welcome packet. Now I know exactly what they were. Too bad it got as far as it did. But there are devious people around who manage to get past the safeguards sometimes. Thankfully some good folks at BYU caught it before it went to more freshmen.
SSSSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for your work
Duane BoyceSeptember 5, 2022
A great article about a tragic reality--and Hedelius had to do what others, in the actual news business, either couldn't do or wouldn't do. On multiple levels, the entire situation is sad beyond words.
SylviaSeptember 5, 2022
Amen! This needs to be sent to church leaders! I do not want my tithing to be used to pay people who seek to destroy my child's faith.
LindaSeptember 5, 2022
This is disgusting and outrageous. Kick those nasty groups out of BYU!
Harold RustSeptember 5, 2022
It is truly sad that the LGBTQ community are willing to resort to such "bait" tactics for supposedly pursuing broader respect among all elements of society. It seems obvious to me they have learned the smart, clever tactic of delivering sensational headlines that are snapped up by media reporters eager to overcome the dwindling number of readers or watchers of their news. As such, they prey on the most vulnerable element of our religious culture: our desire to love others and always reach out to help the lost sheep. Consequently, they draw in some of our youth to become antagonistic against the Church because they now think we don't love and respect others different from us---especially those not following the commandments of God. Somehow, through this morass of devilish deception, we Church members have to be more "compassionately clever" and take a firm but well-thought-out response that can expose what is really going on. Only then will some of these youth who have been drawn away see more clearly where the truth actually lies. I hope we can find a way to be as "socially smart and clever" as the other side is while still retaining our faith in our prophet and Church leaders.
Paul HSeptember 5, 2022
The powers of darkness never rest whwen it comes to the youth, our families, or even ourselves. It is disgusting to hear what is happening on the fringes at BYU. Hopefully is gets rooted out and never becomes mainstream. I simply cannot feel anything of value or light in a drag show and those who do would qualify as confusing good and eveil. Baalam indeed.
JoshSeptember 5, 2022
To the credit of BYU, they tried to stop this when they found out.
JoshSeptember 5, 2022
The is disturbing and sickening. BYU has some cleanup to do…starting with faculty or administrators who support and encourage students to participate in this garbage. This is so sad. Why is Deseret News defending this? With the current political climate, those who see this are afraid to speak up for fear of being fired or labeled racists homophobes. This has NO place whatsoever and a church sponsored institution.
JimSeptember 5, 2022
They certainly love to use the word "pride" a lot. As the Good Book says, "Pride goeth before destruction..." Not only the LGBTQ+ community, but there are reports of many BYU professors who are preaching false doctrines, setting themselves up as authorities, or as the Book of Mormon calls it, "priestcrafts". I'm glad none of my children chose to attend the Y, if this is where this Church-owned school is heading.
JacklynSeptember 5, 2022
Carol: I 100% agree with your comment!
ElizabethSeptember 5, 2022
To borrow the author's word, this step-up in gay and transgender activism at BYU (and the Church-owned Deseret News) is "horrifying." Thanks to the author for doing the unpleasant work necessary to make this public.
LindaSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for your thorough analysis. For us folks not aware of BYUs actions due to distance from Utah, we appreciate the info do we can respond to queries accordingly. We also do not want our tithing to support such trash activities and deceptive communications. What is going on at BYU??? Someone(s) needs to be held accountable!!!!!
Jan ChilsonSeptember 5, 2022
I totally agree! Both my children have attended "Church" schools before this was a big thing, but the adjustments etc. even at that time (20 years ago) were sometimes overwhelming. I cannot imagine adding all these "causes" to the adjustment. I do believe we need to be loving and understanding of people who accept this kind of life, but WE do not need to accept it. Plus, I do not accept my tithing supporting this movement!!
Gail HeathSeptember 5, 2022
All of those groups who were promoting the lies should be kicked out of BYU. How long are we going to be tolerantt and understanding of lies??
Gail HeathSeptember 5, 2022
All of those groups who were promoting the lies should be kicked out of BYU. How long are we going to be tersnt and understanding of lies??
SylviaSeptember 5, 2022
Amen to Carol's comment!!
Gary LindnerSeptember 5, 2022
I wonder how many of the ‘resources’ in the pamphlet were detransitioning support and information. Thousands regret transitioning and the UK, which was ‘Ahead if the Curve’ on trans treatment just closed their largest trans facility. I weep for the poor children at the school where I teach who are pursuing this damaging attempt to find happiness.
Pamela BiggerSeptember 5, 2022
Thank you for writing a very informative article….i appreciate your courage to write and share the truth about about these groups that are trying to destroy good peoples lives with lies and deception…i can only hope that these truths will be brought to light and that the Board of Trustees will do more in their power to stop this disinformation and be more courageous in protecting their students and defending true gospel principles
CarolSeptember 5, 2022
I hope someone on BYU's Board of Trustees gets this info. This is very disturbing, and I’m one who does NOT want my tithing money used for pro-LGBTQ causes at BYU.
L NielsonSeptember 4, 2022
Have you permanently done away with the transcripts of your podcast. They make it so much easier to find thoughts I want to share with others
MlbsSeptember 4, 2022
Where is the full transcript? I like to use it to refer to later.
Megan T.September 2, 2022
My fabulous RS president had us put together neighborhood clubs at a Relief Society activity. There's a hiking club, an exercise club, a playgroup club, a dinner-or-movie club, a book club, and a learn-new-skills club. So far, in the skills club, I've taught or been taught breadmaking, emergency preparedness, gardening, and earring making, and a class on at-home manicures is coming up. It's open to everyone--ward members and neighbors alike. And sometimes a class is held both during the day and in the evening to catch sisters with different schedules. It's been really fun and has brought us closer together.
HamiltonSeptember 2, 2022
Wow. Great insight. I've learned something valuable from every one of this writer's articles. I'm so happy she has joined the Meridian crew!
LoraSeptember 2, 2022
I want to offer my thanks to the dedicated person/people who have made the transcripts possible in the past. Now that it isn't there, I can appreciate how blessed we have been. I hope that the person/people who did the transcribing is in good health or will be, and that we can be blessed by the transcripts again in the future.
Lanny SheaSeptember 1, 2022
I love how you put this story in reality. We are all trying to work through our grown children. If we are smart we never compare them to anyone else’s children because each family has a different style than another’s and each child has a different style of receiving what ever the parent is giving. With grown children they are living their lives as they have been taught and with their own little twist. Some have sorrows that can not be healed with a hug and a kiss but with patience and unconditional love. As parents we are there to help and always be in the wings sending out love and kindness at all times. We will never not be parents that is a role we were given when that first child was placed in our arms and every child after that. We don’t have to hover over them if we know we have taught them well, just be there.
Craig FrogleyAugust 31, 2022
In light of this excellent and insightful assessment of our cultural change, we need to do a better job of teaching agency including self-governance, than we do. We are inclined to do all we can as parents to control and limit choices rather than helping our children understand choice, accountability and consequence.
LexaGraemeAugust 31, 2022
I have seen dogs react tenderly to the elderly and infirm. I am looking forward to reading what this precious dog does next.
PattieAugust 31, 2022
Grandparenting is an art that is very hard to learn. One would think after 25 years with our first grandchild it would be easier but it isn’t. Sometimes as a grandparent we had emergency situations that called us to do difficult things. (Not life and death situations but was spiritual life and death). Helping and knowing when NOT to help has been a challenge.
Larry NielsenAugust 30, 2022
There are beautiful spiders and beautiful butterflies. For the most part, both beasties do a wonderful job of fulfilling the measure of their creation. I hope that as Children of God, we are doing as well as both these creatures do in fulfilling the measure of our creation. By the way, both spiders and butterflies come in varieties that eat disgusting things and are vicious is their actions.
Noel JensenAugust 30, 2022
Joseph Smith taught, "It is the first principle of the Gospel to know for a certainty the character of God," and it seems to me that knowing how He feels about His children is a vital part of that knowledge. It's also no accident that the Restoration Proclamation begins with the proclamation that, "God loves His children in every nation of the world." Thanks for sharing this new analogy that expresses a positive that God might view us as we are while at the same time seeing what we might become.
KimAugust 30, 2022
Enjoyed your message
ConnieAugust 28, 2022
Is there a full transcript available for this podcast?
MlbsAugust 28, 2022
Where is the full transcript? I can only find the first paragraph.
Corey D.August 28, 2022
This is one of the best, most insightful and I would say inspired articles I have ever read in church related literature. Every member especially the youth and young adults should read this. A lot of people I know who no longer go to church should read this. The author has learned something so very few have learned or realize. God bless you for your heartfelt thoughts, feelings and testimony.
JulieAugust 28, 2022
Such a timely and relevant reminder to claim ownership of our spirituality, and to reject the temptations of victimhood and blame. Made me look forward to General Conference, where we’ll be reminded AGAIN to turn to Jesus.
Phoebe HallAugust 28, 2022
This sister’s perspective is beautiful and so true. The Church and its wonderfully flawed members have been the vehicle for me to know Christ and how the Atonement and covenants work in my daily life. While turmoil and heartbreak surrounds me, I have found peace and comfort in my relationship with God. He is the only one who truly knows what I am going through and how to comfort me.
KathyAugust 27, 2022
Thank you for your insights! This is wonderful to remember.
MaryannAugust 26, 2022
WOW! I wish everyone could read this. Have you considered submitting it to the Liahona church magazine? When we say "the church let me down" we are usually really saying that an individual let us down. As you pointed out, members of the church are often not trained to deal perfectly with every one of our problems. Often we ask for help from "the church" when we need to turn to the Savior first. Trusted family members or friends can also be resources for us. There are certainly times when we need to counsel with our Bishop, but we should not expect him to perfectly "solve" all our problems. As far as children and our youth are concerned, this article is a reminder that we should be observant regarding their moods, behavior and needs. We need to keep our eyes open and report any abuse to the proper authorities.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryAugust 26, 2022
Everyone should read this. I have had sorrow for not understanding someone's problem, but I did pray and encourage and support others.
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 26, 2022
Excellent! Thank you for clarifying the purpose of the Church.We all know too many lovely Saints who have left, disillusioned because their expectations were not met.
HalAugust 26, 2022
Thank you for your wonderful insight. I, too, have felt let down when following the counsel of leaders did not have the desired effect in my life. I was promised things like "if you read scriptures and have family prayer daily, your children will never go astray and your marriage will never end in divorce." Despite faithfully following that counsel, my first marriage ended in divorce and only one of my four children has embraced the gospel (to date). Still, the gospel of Jesus Christ continued to bless my life in other ways - most of which were completely unanticipated. While mortals often fail us, the Lord never will. I have seen His love manifest in my life over and over again.
John SowaAugust 26, 2022
Thank you for your perspective.
JJAugust 26, 2022
I completely agree with the article. Its not the church's job to solve all our problems. In my twenties I was struggling with a number of overwhelming trials, and my mom kept urging me to go talk to the bishop about it. Over the years I talked with three different bishops and all of them were completely and totally unhelpful. One in particular seemed really burnt out and like he couldn't care less. Later, after reflecting on this, I realized it had been silly for me to expect these men to be able to help me. They had absolutely zero training and experience with the trials I was struggling with. As for the bishop with a negative attitude, I can't blame him. Imagine being a bishop and having everyone in the ward coming to you, expecting you to magically have all the answers! Since then I have never gone to the bishop for anything, instead I seek out people who are actually qualified and able to help. I go directly to Heavenly Father when it comes to spiritual matters, and I have been much better off for it.
Harold RustAugust 26, 2022
This article is a very uplifting and positive reminder of the fundamental sources we should rely on while working our way through challenges and experiences requiring decisions and actions on our part. Thanks for the lift.
Kate MerrillAugust 26, 2022
Incredibly well said as too often the purpose and expectations of the church are erroneously believed to be our refuge, our fail-safe from all troubles, our answers to all questions. As an adult convert, I started my spiritual awakening and search by reaching out to a God I was not sure existed. When His loving kindness brought me relief, light, and answers I realized this new source of direct and personal guidance, correction, and care needed forever nurturing. The church is my school, my hospital, and my access to Priesthood powers to guide me home. Heavenly Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost are the counselors, Savior, and conscious needed to make that happen.
PennieAugust 26, 2022
Amen Sister
JOHNAugust 26, 2022
As a person who has served in multiple callings which required me to meet and counsel people, I am sure I "let them down" on occasion. There were times when I didn't feel the Spirit as I should have even though I had prayed and sought counsel prior to the encounter. I often felt inadequate to address the issues at hand and that was always a difficult time for me. I appreciate this perspective because even though it is not what people want to hear, or what I expected of myself in those situations, it is the reality of life. I am a fallen person and frequently didn't have the answers someone was seeking. I am also very thankful that for the most part, those whom I talked with recognized my fallibility and lack of expertise, took what advice I had to give, and then approached the Lord for the best guidance. I believe that we all let each other down on occasion, but like some many things in this life, it encourages us to seek answers and grow.
RD CarpenterAugust 26, 2022
Excellent article. Very wise and insightful. For someone who writes about not having received the counsel she needed, she gives great counsel here that we all need!.
Barbara WalkerAugust 22, 2022
I loved this article. I couldn't help but think, "I know who the Gadiantons are" and also thinking that someone I know and love is also saying the same thing, however their Gadiantons are on the other side of my Gadiantons. Yes, we need to study our leaders carefully, to see who the real Gadiantons are. Thank you.
LindAAugust 22, 2022
This article is right on! Be careful who you vote for!
Julie SavilleAugust 22, 2022
Awesome! Brad, this is Julie Saville, formerly of Topeka. I was surprised to see your name as the author of this great article. I just ordered your book. I would love to hear about your family... Where do you live now, etc... Please give Jan my love, and reconnect.
David PerryAugust 20, 2022
The urge to serve is foreign to our natural man and woman instincts, but your loving, spiritual insights are marvelous in motivating! Thank you. We love you and appreciate your example of service and your thoughtful words teaching us how to serve more like the Master Servant.
Helmut A. WorleAugust 19, 2022
Explain this: When you have a servant's heart you serve even when it is "unpleasant". How an it be unpleasant when it is supposed to be "a pleasure to serve Thee"?
Boanerges RubalcavaAugust 19, 2022
Very good article. We must study read, and comment about our REPUBLIC and the Founding Fathers. How the Constitution allow us to be defended from The government! This is of the utmost importance, and we must watch not only the Supreme Court when they begin to legislate from the bench, but also the other two branches to ask them to follow the great Constitution of the USA.
AnnieAugust 19, 2022
Thanks for the clarification of the boundaries of The Supreme Court.
Kayleen A HunsakerAugust 19, 2022
My husband died a couple months ago...and I have been SO blessed by SO many during the entire time before & since his death. Those around me have truly had a "servant's heart"!
Mark W MinerAugust 18, 2022
So grateful to read this and feel the spirit of service, which is truly the Spirit of our Savior. My heart is full.
Joy LundbergAugust 18, 2022
I love this article. Thanks for theses inspiring examples. They inspires me to do more for others. I feel so blessed by all the love and service that friends and family have shown to me. Because of their countenance I sense it is a pleasure for them, that they truly love serving me and so many others. I feel surrounded by people with "servant's hearts".
Herm OlsenAugust 18, 2022
Excellent suggestions. I’m surprised you didn’t include “Since Cumorah” by Hugh Nibley.
Ornella BrennaAugust 17, 2022
REFLECT the image of Christ
UrszulaAugust 16, 2022
Righteousness
Cheryl BurtonAugust 16, 2022
"R" could stand for "Receive". When we put the Lord first in our lives we are not only thankful for the Lord's Atonement but actively use His Atonement and receive those blessings. Receive His peace. Receive His comfort. Receive His countenance in our image. Receive His tender mercies and miracles that fortifies our FAITH. Receive His revelation so we know how to be an INSTRUMENT in His hands. Receive strength beyond our own so we can endure.
John LakerAugust 16, 2022
My Acronym for faith is Father Always Invites Trusting Him
TiffanyAugust 16, 2022
Wonderful beginning to the acronym you began! The next word should be the word Receive.
KAndersonAugust 13, 2022
I am in the middle of my sixth miscarriage, preparing to deliver my lost angel this week. I knew when I saw the email from Meridian that there would be something in there for me, and there was your article. Thank you for sharing your story and for your beautiful insight about reacting in trials.
Terry MontagueAugust 12, 2022
Thanks, Brother Goddard. That was a great message for anyone at any time in our lives.
Laurel DraperAugust 12, 2022
Wonderful perspectives. I ALWAYS enjoy Bro. Goddard's articles. This is another insightful gem to remember and keep in my heart as I face adversity and the many challenges of life. Thanks also for the reminder about the books written! I think I will go avail myself of one of them right now. Thank you, Bro. Goddard for sharing your wisdom and love of His Gospel.
DrewAugust 12, 2022
Thank you for your very insightful article, Wallace. My heart was touched as I read it, and I feel more able to continue on the path before me.
PamelaAugust 12, 2022
That was so uplifting and insightful! Thank you!!
PamAugust 12, 2022
I always enjoy your articles Brother Goddard and I especially enjoyed this one. I too, read and watched while preparing to teach to 12-15 year olds. Especially challenging to make it applicable to their lives. Thank you for your insights! Ofttimes, we can feel alone in our trials- or not handling them well enough or I wouldn't feel this way but the human experience of fallen earth life is, well, very "human." I'll work on trusting more. Thank you so very much.
Becca HowardAugust 12, 2022
I also teach Sunday School. Our general consensus was that none of us has experienced anything close to the trials of Job. I reflect on challenges I have had, and how they were made sweeter because I chose to walk hand-in-hand with the Lord. My pain and anxiety were not immediately removed, nor were my problems solved swiftly. I look back now with gratitude for those things that helped me grow stronger and helped me grow closer to my Heavenly Father. My heart breaks for those who turn from the Lord during times of duress, then find that their problems and pain seem to increase rather than diminish. Now, when I try to recall very difficult experiences, I am blessed to hardly remember the heartbreak and pain, but I do recall how the Lord walked me through every step.
MaryannAugust 12, 2022
Thank you so much for your enlightening comments, especially emphasizing turning to Christ for comfort and trusting him. He has helped me so much in my own struggles and I am so grateful. Sometimes I wonder if we focus too much on our trials and not enough on the comfort we can receive from the Savior, our families, and also our ward family. It is good to know we are NOT The Church of Adversity--we are the Church of Jesus Christ.
AprilAugust 11, 2022
Great advice as usual Joni! And I always welcome the humor!
Shane SmithAugust 11, 2022
I STUDY the scriptures daily not just read them. I am finding thoughts and understanding coming to my mind as I study. I KNOW Heavenly Father hears my prayers as I have seen and heard about them being answered. One goal is attending the Temple more regularly with my wife. I KNOW I have to work daily on my testimony and conversion as the adversary loves to pull our Fathers children down to his level.
WallyAugust 11, 2022
Lovely and insightful article!
Becca HowardAugust 11, 2022
As parents of a son, a returned missionary, whose pull towards same-sex attraction was stronger than his testimony, I commend Ben for making the "non-dating" choice. We tried to explain to our child that many people never marry, and even in marriage, sexual intimacy may not be possible for very many reasons, nor is intimacy the only foundation of a marriage. We are all on a path where our future is not always clear yet we pray that our LGBTQ brothers and sisters can stay focused on the eternal promises of our Savior.
Sharon LynnAugust 11, 2022
I’m following President Eyring’s counsel from a few years ago to write down, at the end of the day, answers to the question: “How have I seen the hand of God in the lives of my family or my life today?”
MistyAugust 11, 2022
Thank you for this article. I think many parents, myself included, fear the growing trend of homosexuality for the children, not out of bigotry and hate, but because we don’t feel knowledgeable of how to help them navigate the struggles safely while still promoting gospel principles and Christ’s teachings. Yes we can and always will love them, but when they’ve got questions we may not have the answers to it creates fear that they’ll find those answers in dark places. I appreciate Ben Schilaty for writing his story as it gives not only people who share similarities with him, but also similarities with his parents, hope and guidance.
jaredAugust 10, 2022
Thank you for writing this article! So true!! Even as memebers of the church, we take this for granted. So many of us are moving away from these true principles slowly because the world is now moving so quickly in that direction.
Karell BinghamAugust 10, 2022
So perfect for these strange days!
MaryannAugust 9, 2022
The nine tips Maurine listed are golden, and I hope they will help these young adults. I am extremely curious to know HOW these drastic changes regarding meeting people and dating have come about. It was all so much more simple when I was dating. Some of the comments made by the students in this article reflect more of a high school age perspective.
Rochelle HaleAugust 9, 2022
I still remember this angst almost 50 years ago. I met my first husband through our singles' ward FHE group, but I had my eye on someone else. I began dating my soon-to-be husband, and my other friend spotted us in the jewelry store before we could break the news to anyone (or before other guy could ask me out). My fiance and I had our ups and downs, but it was confirmed to me by the spirit that we should marry. Nevertheless, some years later we ended up divorcing. My current and forever husband and I have now been together almost 33 years. We also met when we were older, and hopefully much wiser, singles.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryAugust 9, 2022
I could have written this article myself. I also can remember sitting there as the Proclamation on the Family was read and wondering why it was necessary for a proclamation when everything that was said was common sense. I am amazed at how many of my friends and I sensed that something was coming when the Come Follow Me program was introduced to the members of the Church. Now we know why.
Ruth JamiesonAugust 9, 2022
This article was so good and so sad. But the date that it was issued was very interesting. Sept. 21, 22,23 have so much meaning, so much history attached to those days.
Carla PattonAugust 9, 2022
Beautifully stated.
GTOAugust 9, 2022
High school graduate of 1964 here. It's sad to see this happening now. We dated constantly and had a blast! I never did have a list except for something vague in my mind and expected help from the Spirit to get me through, which worked very well. Depending on the Spirit meant to feel promptings as I dated and that means you have to date and date certain people way more than once or twice. I think group service projects are a good way nowadays to just get people together while avoiding the current dating conundrum.
MaryAugust 9, 2022
Having gone to Byu I wish the emphasis on the ward was not to date, but to focus on Christ and serve others. I feel like the church thought that marriage would keep people in the church, but I don't think that is the case. Marriage won't, but having a testimony and relationship with Christ will. Also, there are more women than men and men think they can get women who are 10 when they are only a 5 so that results in only a few girls getting asked out and then they cry that no one is saying yes to them
Lexie StatonAugust 9, 2022
Fantastic summary of the state of affairs - as well as a wonderful testimony to the inspired nature of the Proclamation. Thank you!!
Lorie WaltersAugust 8, 2022
This truly hits home! Thank you so much!!! Sending LOVE!
CCAugust 8, 2022
I hope there are changes being made. I was told I would go to hell if I left the abuser who was abusing both me and my children. Counseling was done, but he told lies to the counselor. After leaving The Bishop's office just outside the door he took my arm and twisted me till I was flat on the floor I yelled but bishop didn't hear. Other times police were called about the abuse but he would good old boy them, and they didn't file a report. After separating, I also got a protective order and a restraining order, but when I went to church activities he would come and nobody in charge would remove him so I would leave and go home. Unfortunately I've talked to other women who have had the same issues more recently.
SusanAugust 8, 2022
What a fantastic article! Teaches the lesson, drives home the point, relates to readers on a personal level, and makes it pretty much impossible to walk away after reading it without wanting to become a better person and follower of our Savior.
Helmut A. WorleAugust 8, 2022
Everybody agrees that helping the abused and preventing further abuse must be the primary concern. But ecclesiastic leaders have no legal standing to bring this about against unwilling perpetrators. Only the legal authorities have the power to remove children from a home in order to end the abuse. How does an entity such as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints "do everything it can" to prevent further abuse? Only a government agency can do that.
MistyAugust 8, 2022
This article is one of the top articles I’ve ever read anywhere that has caused me to stop and reflect. Thank you!
RC89August 5, 2022
I really enjoyed reading this post! Thank you so much!
ALISON HERRONAugust 5, 2022
I was thrilled to read this article. It felt to me as if my thoughts and feelings about the principles of quantum physics being connected to eternal gospel truths regarding the power of faith were well-founded. Divine love and light from God really are the forces that holds the universe together.
HelenCAugust 5, 2022
Amen!
Jennifer BrownAugust 5, 2022
Excellent parable and article! Thank you for sharing!
Jennifer BrownAugust 5, 2022
Such a thoughtful and well-written article and a great parable in reminding us that there are always ways to be the Lord's hands without being asked. It reminds me of the hymn, Have I Done Any Good. Thank you so much for sharing!
Merlin FreiAugust 4, 2022
I loved this article Sister Clayton. Thank you so much. We became acquainted with one of your daughter's, who served in the Canary Islands as a missionary. We came to love and respect her very much. Thank you again for such a well-written article.
Diane MortensenAugust 4, 2022
I thoroughly enjoyed your teaching and writing. Thank you so much for sharing.
Mark W MinerAugust 3, 2022
A couple of inspiring stories here, with some wonderful insights. Thank you for sharing!
Cindy SteenblikAugust 3, 2022
Beautifully written!
Jana DeardenAugust 3, 2022
The comments are interesting. Because when I saw the photo, I thought, yes that is Joseph! He has the piercing gaze that they talk about. He seems confident and humble. I feel a great love emanating from him. Life was much harder at that time to survive, I also see trials overcome.
HelenCAugust 3, 2022
A much needed reminder that there is a need for the path I have chosen as a Grief Coach. Thank you.
Valiant JonesAugust 3, 2022
Thank you for sharing all these descriptions of the Prophet. What a wonderful resource to have in one place, irrespective of the question of the photo.
Valiant JonesAugust 3, 2022
This article is full of so much good wisdom. Thank you. I have never seen reprimands from Church leaders have a positive long-term effect.
Debbie KentAugust 3, 2022
Wonderful article and observations. Thank you for sharing your talents of teaching, observations and story telling.
Debra PeckAugust 3, 2022
What a great article. Thank you!
Yves ValenAugust 2, 2022
Looking at the death mask of Joseph Smith, I don't think that this photograph represents him. Many descriptions mention a rather thick upper lip, which seems to corroborate with what we can see on the death mask ... but not on this picture. On the contrary, I would tend to see more resemblance between this photo and Hyrum's death mask, In any event, what matters most is to have a testimony of the restored gospel.
GEOFFREY DUNNINGAugust 2, 2022
I certainly does not look anything like the death mask of Joseph. It does very much resemble Hyrum's death mask. I think it is very likely Hyrum.
GloriaAugust 2, 2022
Faith in Redeemer starts today (and every day)
David KingAugust 2, 2022
No it isn't. It doesn't even look close to the portrait of Joseph Smith nor the death mask. This is just wishful thinking
Wayne AAugust 2, 2022
This looks much more like I would expect Hyrum to look, not Joseph, and in fact that was my first impression, this is Hyrum. Furthermore, this looks nothing like the features of Joseph's death mask, particularly the mouth, nose, chin, or eye shape. Additionally, when I look deep into this man's face, it does not feel like the face of a man who has "seen" God, nor his Savior, face to face, and had that experience engrained into his every fiber & countenance. Therefore, I do NOT feel this is Joseph.
LauraAugust 1, 2022
I loved reading the descriptions of Joseph Smith. However, I think this photograph is not him but maybe an older relative. The eyes droop a little on the outside edges. This person could be easily about 50 years old.
Catherine DoddsAugust 1, 2022
This is the testimony and observation of my own great great grandfather, George Spilsbury, who met and knew the Prophet Joseph Smith: "The question may be asked by some of my grandchildren, "Did you feel disappointed when you saw him the first time?" I will tell you. All my troubles, and privations of leaving my father and mother, brothers, sisters and my native land seemed nothing compared with the joy of my experience when I first saw and heard him, the Prophet Joseph Smith preach. I felt greatly blessed of the Lord in having such a glorious privilege. The first Sunday after we arrived we went to a meeting on the first floor of the Nauvoo Temple. The walls of the building were about half-way up, and loose boards were laid on the joists and home-made benches to sit on, for it was a day of small things. We were early in our seats, and so the leading men of the Church began to arrive. It was no trouble to tell which was the Prophet, not because of his fine clothes, but there was something grand and noble and innocent about his appearance. His very eyes seemed to look right through you. His very countenance beamed with intelligence. He was as bold as a lion, but as humble as a child. He knew no fear." This experience and others from the life of my great great grandfather has had an important impact on my life. Whether the photo is actually of Joseph Smith is not important to my testimony that he is the Prophet of the Restoration. But, I like the photo and it looks like what has been described by other who knew him.
ShannonAugust 1, 2022
That can't be Joseph Smith. He's too old.
LoisAugust 1, 2022
These are wonderful descriptions and to me, fit the newly discovered photograph very well. When I saw it, my feeling was "Yes, this looks much more like I would think of Brother Joseph," especially the eyes.
Rochelle HaleAugust 1, 2022
As I have been studying Job and preparing my Sunday School lesson, I think of the great faith that he was able to maintain in spite of losing so much and facing so many obstacles. In Chapter 19:28 he considers the "root of the matter," and does not blame God. Yes, many of our afflictions are not of our own making, but it is our choice to follow the Lord when faced with adversities. I would much prefer to walk with God during my adversities than walk away from Him and still face the challenges and/or consequences.
MaryannAugust 1, 2022
I love reading comments by people who actually saw and knew the prophet, Joseph Smith. I don't think we will ever know if this is an actual photograph of him until we meet him one day. My first gut reaction when I saw the photo was "This is NOT the prophet, Joseph Smith." Talking with my husband later, he told me he had the same response.
AnnJuly 25, 2022
One word I have noticed pronounced by many speakers in Utah is ‘Brothren’ for ‘Brethren’. Is that pronunciation peculiar to Utahns or do all Americans say it that way? I am from New Zealand.
H NorthJuly 25, 2022
Race only matters to racists. So much for "healing"...
Bob TaylorJuly 25, 2022
i agree with the article- common definitions matter. the bigger problem is getting people to agree on a common terms - and how to you engage someone who does not want to have common terms?
HeatherJuly 24, 2022
My husband has been living with depression most of his life and for over 25 years has been treated for it. A little over a year ago he had a blessing and felt it was time to go off his medications. He was on quite a mix and been taking many of them for 20 years. He had some physical side effects and as I researched them I found that many of these medicines were only meant for short term. When he was taking them he had kidney stones almost every month. He talked with the family doctor and he thought he must have an STD! No real answers! Since stopping the medications he has had maybe one or two kidney stones in over a year. Emotionally he has found a new therapist and been discovering childhood trauma that has been covered up. The road to healing isn't over but I feel we are making more progress than ever. The therapist he saw just last year (before the one we have now) told him that because he had been diagnosed with bipolar in the past she wouldn't treat him unless he was on medication, that it was ethically wrong to withhold medication from him. I agree that there is a time and place for medications. I'm sure it saved his life in the past, but doctors that shove more and more pills to those seeking help are not helping! Thank you for seeing this and sharing.
Corey D.July 24, 2022
I retired a year ago after 43 yrs at a major Defense and Aerospace Company, in those 43 yrs the original company was bought, sold, spun off or merged 7 times, ultimately becoming part of the 2nd largest Defense company in the nation, over those 43 yrs I witnessed and experienced a lot of management changes and philosophies both at the corporate level and the local level, many different "purpose" or "mission" statements as they like to call them. Most over the years were about providing the best quality product at the best value to the customer (which was mostly the US government), thereby hoping to contribute to National Defense and also contribute to the local economy by providing jobs and provide a good return/value for the stockholders (used to be the main purpose of most businesses/company's).That was the overall goal of the "purpose" of the company, that is until the last merger. That is not now the goal or main purpose, the company's "mission" now is to be part of the "Great Social Reset", with hiring practices and employee goals, etc., not to be on getting the best and most qualified people who want to work in the Defense and Aerospace Industry and rewarding employees for hard work, creative ideas leading to better and innovative products at the most value laden price but whether they are supportive of and meet the social and environmental goals of company management. Anybody who reads this article should go the Heartland Institutes website and read their editorials on ESG.
MaryAJuly 24, 2022
Simply acknowledging the past for what it was isn't being "woke" nor is it wrong. Jefferson and Madison did great things, but also were involved in horrible and unjust things as well. It isn't right (or accurate) to pretend they were saints who never did wrong. We need to acknowledge both sides and stop throwing hissy fits when unpleasant facts are brought up about their lives. There is much to learn from their mistakes. As the saying goes, if we don't learn from the past we are doomed to repeat it. I wonder, if your ancestors were among those kept as slaves, would you still feel this information should be swept under the rug just so the leaders involved wouldn't look bad?
Ayse KOCHJuly 24, 2022
The spirit was so strong as I read this article; all the truths that you related were so crystal clear through the allegories and through your personal experiences with troubled souls. Thank you for sharing this knowledge. It is an article I know a few people who speak other languages would want to read. I will try my best to translate it for them if it is ok with you.
MickeyJuly 24, 2022
Excellent advice! Something that got missed is the husband’s lack of loyalty to his wife by defending his parents, and therefore their abuse, instead of giving his wife the emotional support she needs and deserves.
KathyJuly 24, 2022
Anti-depressants saved my life.
Colin Van OrmanJuly 23, 2022
I never saw a response to the questions regarding a recording of this fireside. Was a recording made and can it be viewed?
FrankJuly 22, 2022
A good story with a moral about changing other people's mind about yourself, and caring about their opinion too much is Guy de Maupassant's short story, "A Piece of String". Don't defend yourself, your real friends will do so for you.
Lowell SteeleJuly 22, 2022
Powerful, consequential stuff! I was led to this area of study 10 years ago in an intriguing series of events, which culminated in a poem on the topic which I treasure for the truths it teaches. Perhaps we'll get a chance to discuss in more depth as we sail the Adriatic next month.
HalJuly 21, 2022
Thank you for your insight. More than once I recall promises from church leaders assuring us that if we had daily family prayer and scripture reading, faithfully held family home evening, attended church, and served faithfully in our callings, that our marriages would never end in divorce and our children would never go astray. Despite following that counsel as best I could, my first marriage ended in divorce and three of my four children have disassociated themselves from the church. Fortunately, I realized that faithfulness does not guarantee a trouble-free life and even the most stalwart prophets had difficulties in their own families. When troubles arose, I redoubled my personal efforts to "hold to the rod" and serve as faithfully as I can. I am remarried to a wonderful woman and I still have hope for all my children that some day they will "come to themselves" and return to the fold. In the meantime, I see the Lord's tremendous blessings poured out on my family and me every day.
MarenJuly 21, 2022
This is intriguing information. We were having a discussion about mental health in Relief Society recently. One sister commented that she needed to be on medication to be able to function day to day with her small children, but that it made her less able to feel the Spirit. I’ve noticed that when I have taken medication in the past, that I feel less overall. I care less overall. I’ve wondered if that is the reason behind some medications leading to an increased risk of suicide - because if you don’t care about anything, why would you stay? Relationships and connection seem to be the answer, but if medications remove the need for those things, could that be a reason why long term outcomes aren’t as good?
Michael LawrenceJuly 21, 2022
The use of a few Ketamine treatment sessions has been shown to be highly effective for treatment-resistant depression.
Pam BlairJuly 20, 2022
A TRUE BREATH OF FRESH AIR!!! Thank you SO MUCH for giving me 'permission' to not store what I would never use just because a "list" says I must do so - and store lots of it, to boot!
Lee HillJuly 20, 2022
Thank you for this article. I was severely injured a little over a year ago and, while I have undergone a miraculous recovery, I still lack the strength and agility to serve as I used to. It has been discouraging for me to not be able to participate in helping people move or engage in other activities that require physical strength. However, I get little whisperings now and then reassuring me that contributions I make, however meager in my own eyes, are acceptable to the Lord.
RebeccaJuly 20, 2022
This article and your previous one, "Are We Losing" have been a balm to my soul. I sent the link of "Are We Losing" to my husband, who loved it, and to a friend who sent it to her family members. They all said it was just what they needed. Thank you for writing about your experiences with a perspective so many of us need!
Helmut A. WorleJuly 20, 2022
There are hymns in our hymnbook that express the same thought. Hymn 169, in the second verse says: With hands now pledged to do thy work we take the sacrament. There are others I can't think of right now, but a faint memory remains.
Karell BinghamJuly 20, 2022
I always wondered if lifting hands during a prayer indicated "surrender". As in movies, they always have someone raise their hands when surrendering.
MaryannJuly 19, 2022
My husband and I will be celebrating our 52nd wedding anniversary next week. As we look forward to this special day, we are so grateful that we found each other early, that we were both committed to the gospel when we married, and still are, and that we were taught about temple marriage and the sacred nature of marriage while we were young. The joy and peace that comes to a married couple who are committed to the Lord, as well as to one another, is the greatest of all joys. Buying into Satan's distorted version of "love," including living together outside of marriage, or sexual promiscuity will NEVER bring the precious joy found in a marriage that is sacred.
SBellJuly 19, 2022
What is the title of this book and can we preorder it somewhere?
cateJuly 17, 2022
Harsh truths beautifully said. Sadly, I'm seeing more and more friends uncomfortable with the Family Proclamation; as if present "wisdom" is somehow superior to thousands of years of experience and learning. Our modern perspective is actually naive and short-sighted. We somehow have confused compassion with narcissism and ingratitude.
MaryannJuly 17, 2022
The security, comfort, and peace I feel in the counsel of our Prophets, Seers, and Revelators would be lost to me if I demanded a proclamation of "Thus saith the Lord." Choosing this course of disobedience is simply a rationalization for "doing your own thing." I am filled with gratitude for the Spirit of the Lord, which so firmly declares to me and millions of my fellow saints: "Follow the prophet." We have this sure, true light to guide us through the most difficult circumstances and a darkening world. I am reminded of the Prophet Elijah's words in our recent "Come Follow Me" lesson: "How long halt ye between two opinions? If the Lord be God, follow him." (I Kings 18:21) Every one of us can accept with all our hearts these words from the Lord: "...my word shall not pass away, but shall all be fulfilled, whether by mine own voice or the voice of my servants, IT IS THE SAME." (D&C 1:38) If we refuse to embrace this essential truth, we are left to ourselves, ever "halting between two opinions," and never finding the deep peace that comes through choosing to follow our prophets.
stevie maireid mckennaJuly 15, 2022
Interesting article however, I'm not sure why you chose to use Evangelical preachers as an example of prophets. They do not even have the restored gospel and are preaching from their own flawed understanding of the scriptures. I don't know if they even think of themselves as prophets, per se. As we know true prophets are called in a very specific manner within the Lords church. You don't just assume such a position. I would use examples of true prophets who gave direction but the members were not wholly onboard to follow their directives. One example was when Joseph Smith had the vision of the three degrees of glory. There were many members who were shocked and had a hard time believing it because they were raised with a background of a heaven/hell teaching from other churches. Also, when Brigham Young stated that the Salt Lake Valley was the place the Saints should settle there were factions that thought California was a better choice. This was because of the lure of the gold rush that was going on at that time. There are many examples from Church history that show division among the members on many questions, especially today with regard to wearing the mask as protection from covid. Some bulked at the idea even when the first presidency sent out the directive to wear the mask. Many within the church didn't want to wear it because they thought it was politically motivated. Absurd to think that but people are imperfect.
HelenCJuly 15, 2022
As relevant as it is deep. I appreciate Flannery’s observation tag pushing ourselves fully aside takes Divine assistance.
JiJuly 14, 2022
Already looking forward to the book!
Jay SessionsJuly 14, 2022
You bring so much Cheer to everyone. Your new seminary students will be cheering you. You are a cheerleader!!!
HelenCJuly 14, 2022
And for me it seems to come to my Inbox (although I, too, am most definitely a talker)! From another article on todays Meridian Magazine I got this: “ There is another kind of faith, rare indeed. This is the kind of faith that causes things to happen. It is the kind of faith that is worthy and prepared and unyielding, and it calls forth things that otherwise would not be. It is the kind of faith that moves people. It is the kind of faith that sometimes moves things. Few men possess it. It comes by gradual growth. It is a marvelous, even a transcendent, power, a power as real and as invisible as electricity. Directed and channeled, it has great effect…. “ Boyd K Packer
HelenCJuly 14, 2022
Once again my prayers have dropped into my Inbox. Thank you!
EveJuly 14, 2022
I am eagerly looking forward to next week's article. I have loved everything Larry Barkdull has written, and this is something I have been particularly pondering lately. Thank you for publishing this!!!
Cathy FinchumJuly 14, 2022
Such a good article and the Scripture perfect thank you..
vickieJuly 13, 2022
something i have noticed mainly because i watch UTUBE...a lot...is animals getting along ...dogs and cats and other types of animals that we would never think of getting along do. i got to see this up close. maybe God is preparing us all for the Second Comming.
LewisJuly 13, 2022
These are extraordinary stories! You are such a gifted storyteller, I can’t wait to read your articles. We are all wounded. The reliance on the love of our Savior can both heal our wounds, and allow us to be instruments in His hands to help heal others. Thank you for your insights.
HalJuly 13, 2022
I love dog stories, even though I know how they are going to end. Thanks you!
Tracey GJuly 13, 2022
Thank you for this clarifying article on abortion.
Karell BinghamJuly 13, 2022
How come when we speak of abortion we never speak of accountability and responsibility. Those two traits are seemingly disappearing in our society. We have choices before we get pregnant, but after we have chosen to ignore the choice, we then have responsibility. This rule applies to so many things today. Why is it never mentioned? Men, there are condoms out there, use them or be responsible. Women, if you must have sex, insist on condoms or accept the responsibility! Please! For the sake of the baby and the sake of society!
Rob McGhieJuly 12, 2022
Thank you for this article. I wish it could be read from the rooftops for all the world to hear. I personally hate profanity and crude language. Consequently my repertoire of acceptable TV shows is very limited. But I would rather watch reruns of old (clean) shows multiple times than watch newer offerings that would drive the Spirit out of our home.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJuly 12, 2022
I so totally agree with this article. I am so sick of the vulgarity and bad language that abound on the radio, TV, books, etc. I feel that people do not know how to write or talk anymore and use swearing and vulgarity as a way to hide their inadequacies.
JimJuly 12, 2022
It all comes down to what is taught at home at a early age and parents reinforcing it along the way with also teaching them good manners. I am old 86 and was taught by a wonderful mother whose grandparents came from England good manners. She came to me when I was about 14 or 15 when she heard me say a word PO and told me how bad that hurt her and asked if I would promise not to say that word again and I honor that promise today. And also it helped all of us boys and girls from the same branch ran around together all through are school years together and held the same values. Them were the days they gave there teacher a apple now it is just a free for all. Sad but true.
Carlos RoundyJuly 12, 2022
Yes we actually sign contracts and promise to do certain things in this life, because each of us have different talents and abilities developed in the pre mortal life there is a great variety of paths that can be taken in this life.
Patricia WintersJuly 12, 2022
Decimated means reduced by one tenth. If the Assyrians were decimated, only18,500 Assyrians would have been dead corpses.
HelenCJuly 12, 2022
Thank you for the reminder! A recent convention that I did not attend was reported as being a “swear fest” as the speakers, mostly women, many with advanced education, declared their success in business largely through their freedom to use whatever language they chose. Sad.
CASJuly 11, 2022
Thank you for not mincing words in describing abortion and what it means for the defenseless unborn child whose right to life is denied! One detail not mentioned is the very lucrative business of selling these aborted baby parts on the black market for medical use.
TraceyGJuly 11, 2022
Waiting on the Lord can be excruciating when our own children are at stake. We pray, we stress, we pray some more, and sometimes we do more than will be good for them. I am learning to hold back and wait for God to do his work with them. Thank you for bringing into perspective the joy that will eventually come because we finally learn to wait and see the miracles.
Doris WilliamsJuly 11, 2022
Oh my goodness, what an upper this is. Thank you so much to Josh for putting together this inspirational video. It just melts my heart to hear a young teenager express his gratitude for his blessings and Brody is a stellar example of a beautiful voice put to a beautiful use of reminding us all of our Savior and what is right in this mixed-up world today.
KJBJuly 11, 2022
A ten year old girl was raped in Ohio and was forced to go to Indiana to get the medical care she desperately needed (and which will probably be illegal there as well by the end of the month.) Tell me how this is okay. Please. (Source: https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2022/jul/03/ohio-indiana-abortion-rape-victim )
Sarah HinzeJuly 10, 2022
I am not sure if this answers your question Richard, but through our research, it does appear that some miscarried children may return to their mothers in a later pregnancy. That is determined because of encounters the mother reports, such as dreams and other experiences where the previous child/spirit lost in a miscarriage returns. I report this in The Announcing Dream as well as in a previous Meridian article:https://latterdaysaintmag.com/remembering-heaven-a-documentary-film-and-my-personal-testimony-of-premortality/
Dr. Craig R. FrogleyJuly 10, 2022
I have loved everything that you have written but this is the best, most skillfully crafted, and spiritually touching of all. Thank you for both the article and the mission you have undertaken!
PhilJuly 10, 2022
Along with all who have commented, I thank you for this wonderful, life-changing article. I needed it so much. It confirms the hope I have had that the Lord knows what He is doing and when is the best time to do it. Thank you.
Rochelle HaleJuly 9, 2022
I will have to re-read this article several times. As parents, we have seen one child struggle immensely due to turning away from the Church. He was not anti-church, but the lure of the world won out until finally devastation and tragedy brought him to his knees with nowhere else to turn but the Lord for the ultimate peace he was seeking. He is a changed and happy man today. Sadly, another son succumbed to traps he tried diligently to avoid to the point he abandoned the gospel and his family because "we were to blame." Our children are on loan to us from a loving and wise Heavenly Father who has given us all the great gift of agency. Our hearts are full of love, compassion, and concern as we pray daily for those who have lost to, once again, enjoy God's full measure of blessings in this life and forever.
JeNee HutchinsonJuly 9, 2022
What a beautiful article about the Lord's anointed and their great sacrifices to bring us the truths of the restored gospel. Blessed be the names of Joseph, Hyrum, John Taylor and Wilford Woodruff, and the prophets, seers and revelators of the Restoration! God be thanked for His love and the devotion of His prophets that bless us so much today! #GiveThanks
BelindaJuly 9, 2022
When the "transcript" only contains a small part of what the podcast says, it is very difficult to keep track of where you are and what is being said. Some of us need to read as we listen to get it all. I enjoy your podcasts but get aggravated when they aren't actually "transcribed" so I can understand everything said. I thought you should know about this problem.
Carol CrosbyJuly 9, 2022
Beautifully sung!! What an amazing voice this handsome 13 year old has! Keep singing please!
Stephanie BillingsleyJuly 9, 2022
Amen! Thank you for your courage to be bold. There is a difference in loving one another and sanctioning, encouraging, celebrating evil influences and lifestyles. I am thankful for all willing to publicly easily identify the real & true root causes of society's problems...Come Lord JESUS, come!
Linda SmithJuly 9, 2022
EXCELLENT!!! Absolutely wonderful perspective on how Heavenly Father and Christ teach us. Patience is SO important!!
JeanJuly 9, 2022
I don’t see where in Luke 19 it says that Jesus climbed up into the tree. Where did you get that idea from? Luke 19 says Jesus went to the spot, looked up, and called for him to come down.
MickeyJuly 9, 2022
I think there’s something more going on here. The author doesn’t want him around his kids—perhaps he’s not safe or not a good influence. That’s very different from the brother just being hard to be around. This is what I would be exploring.
Corey D.July 9, 2022
Good article but with one possibly mis-leading, misunderstood point. Olena is correct, the demise of America will come from within, we know that from history, both secular and non-secular and particularly as members of the church familiar with the Book of Mormon we understand that or should. The writings of great church members/patriots such as President Benson and Cleon Skousen teach that and anyone who has read Solzhenitzen's writings should understand how Communism/Marxism/Socialism progresses but I'm going to assume Olena is maybe referring to Jan 6th since that is probably what she is familiar with because that will be all she has seen in the news and that media portrayal is a very biased, one sided affair.
AllisonJuly 9, 2022
Video of Hymn to America for those asking for a copy. Could not find where to buy it, but maybe this will help. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MFdVMYxDTjI
AnnetteJuly 9, 2022
That was simply amazing! I will never read Jacob 5 the same ever again! Thank you!
DKEJuly 9, 2022
Thank you for this! I have a daughter who left the Church some years ago and is a lesbian. We love her so much and we've been as supportive as we can. The pain we feel has been so hard. Your article gives us hope.
Teri N.July 9, 2022
We have been enduring some excruciating trials with our oldest, who left the Church, the Family, all that was good and turned to some evil practices, the Wiccan ways, and identifies as non-binary queer. She seems to delight in taking "jabs" at us, and her emotional and mental stability we question, as her yo-yo life continues. The Spirit has guided us, but one thing He told me, in particular, 11 years ago was to "let her go completely", just stand back and have nothing to do with her. Well, in today's society most well-intentioned folks (the few we shared it with) all encourage me to hang in there, don't lose hope and "make sure" to keep the door open and extend that hand and keep contact. I felt guilty if I didn't do that. So I did. Just about 3 months ago, the Lord took matters into His own hands, and she has broken off all contact. (Mind you, this includes no contact with our grandchildren too.) And I know it's ok. It's what He told me to do 11 years ago, but my mother's heart found it too hard. Now it's happening. This week, in particular was hard, as some things resurfaced. I've been praying for patience and understanding. This article came just 1 day after our latest 'fiasco.' And I cannot tell you how grateful I am for it. It is perfect timing, and exactly the answer to my prayers and the yearnings of my heart that I've been asking for. This is for me, as much as it is for our daughter, too. Thank you for writing this. You have helped greatly. By the way, about 2.5 years ago, we looked into The Other Side Academy as a possible place for my alcoholic brother to go to, as we searched for rehabs and programs after rehabs where he could attend. He's not ready yet. I will continue to wait in patience for both my daughter and brother, as the Lord helps prepare them for the digging, pruning and dunging.
Joy SchmidtJuly 8, 2022
The insights, perceptions, experiences, scriptural interpretations, and spirit of this article have buoyed me up in a way I so needed. Hope has been brightened, faith bolstered, and confidence in the truth that charity never faileth refreshed. I can actually claim joy in my promises which have seemed so impossible. The temptation to believe I just haven't persuaded well enough, lived perfect enough, has made me weary. I am 84 and waiting to claim the promised desire of my heart as the fractured nature of my family keeps assuring me its just a pipedream. I love seeing the parable of the Oive Tree in this new way that encourages me to wait on the Lord with faith in His timing as I dig, prune, and nourish where I can and as I am directed. Thank you thank you thank you.
Mary-Rose McMullinJuly 8, 2022
What a mature voice and a beautiful song! Thank you so much for all the work that has gone into this!
Tanya NeiderJuly 8, 2022
Inspiring! I loved it!
KathyJuly 8, 2022
Beautiful message of hope and patience. Thank you.
ChrisJuly 8, 2022
Awesome insights! Thank you so much... As a recovering addict and now an ARP missionary I know through experience everything you've written is true. It's never too late and we're never too far away from His grace...
Lisa CorcoranJuly 8, 2022
Absolutely beautiful.
Janna MorrellJuly 8, 2022
Absolutely a must-read for every member of the church and for those who may have lost hope. I am renewed in my conviction to “Wait upon the Lord”.
Gale BoydJuly 8, 2022
This is a masterpiece and something I really needed to hear. Thank you so much.
LuettaJuly 8, 2022
Reading this article was my opportunity to experience the lessons of the Olive Tree when I needed the reminder that God is in charge. I must learn the value of patience. Thank you.
Lawrence BarryJuly 8, 2022
Thank you so much for your wisdom, insights, and testimony. 3 of my 5 children and all of their children have wandered off the covenant path. After reading your article, the Holy Spirit confirmed that God is not finished with my family nor will He ever be.
Ronald BarnesJuly 8, 2022
One of my favorite success stories is that of Eldridge Cleaver. He did some very wicked things, but God turned him around and put him on the straight and narrow path. You can look him up on Wikipedia.
Amy LeachJuly 8, 2022
Brother Grenny, thank you for this amazing article! The Spirit was with you, my friend, when you were authoring this. I wholeheartedly agree with your words! Being given the chance to use my free agency to fail and grow and learn is how my testimony has been born. There is NO other way while we are in this mortal life, that one can obtain that 'personal' knowledge for themselves- unless it be through that God-given agency. May Heavenly Father bless you and your family! You have much great work to do!
DBJuly 8, 2022
Thank you for this beautiful sermon of truth. As the mother of four faithful and four who have left the path and wounded us deeply, this was medicine to my soul. I have had eyes rolled at me when I say that I know the Lord will turn their hearts back to our family and to the covenant path. I feel it in my bones and I'm grateful for a gospel that gives us faith in His relentless redemptiveness. I would have learned that no other way than to walk the path of a worried mother.
JulesJuly 8, 2022
Beautiful!!
AshleyJuly 8, 2022
What a beautifully inspiring article. This is just what I needed to hear today. Thank you.
Rochelle HaleJuly 8, 2022
My family and lived through the Y2K experience. We had always had some storage items, but we ended up buying a package deal which did not include all quality ingredients. We found some products mislabeled. The company moved three times, but we tracked them down to get the remaining items we had paid for. We learned and modified our preparedness plan after this experience. Fast forward twenty years. We had toilet paper (and other food and non-food items) stocked. We didn’t have to endure the Covid-frenzy. Because of our previous preparation we had the luxury of restocking as TP, yeast, meat, and other items went on sale or became available.
Rita MillerJuly 8, 2022
Thank you for this different perspective on two of my favorite stories in the Book of Mormon. They are usually presented as having a national, collective warning and meaning, and I had not seen the intensely personal, individual side before.
MaryannJuly 7, 2022
There is so little information given by the writer of this question that it's very difficult to know what is really going on. His statement that he doesn't like having his wife's brother around his kids raises all kinds of questions. Essential info missing on this one.
Shauna McConkieJuly 7, 2022
I always enjoy anything written by Kathy Clayton! Thank you Kathy!
Rochelle HaleJuly 7, 2022
We have had several family members and friends leave for various reasons ranging from questions of testimony or preferred lifestyle or Church doctrine, etc. One relative was very vocal when another family member decided to attend another "generic" church, but we maintained our relationship through our common testimony and belief in Jesus Christ, though not necessarily agreeing on details of doctrine. We try to "love, share, and invite" while respecting our friends and family who are not of our faith, so why wouldn't we do the same with those who have departed? Of course, we may be sad or disappointed, but continued love and example will prevail in the long run.
HeidiJuly 6, 2022
Such a wonderful article. I have a hard time keeping my kids accountable for not cleaning their bathroom and owing me money if they don’t do it. What brave parents to do what they did. I’m dying to know what happened to their son. Thanks for the beautiful example in the scriptures that I’ve never thought of in that way before. It takes so much courage to let the consequence follow. Thank you.
RozyJuly 6, 2022
The Pilgrims of the 1620's had to learn the same lesson. Socialism or collectivism just doesn't work. Individual liberty and property rights does. May we vote out of office those who don't believe in the Constitution of the USA and the principles of the Declaration of Independence. May we retain our liberties and prosper to worship the God of this Land, Jesus Christ.
Ed GayhartJuly 6, 2022
Kudos to the Chinese for the good they have brought to the world but their current circumstances are due mainly to three items: Chinese leaders recognizing that capitalism is a superior business model to their communism that could not feed their own people Our preference in the west (specifically leadership in the US) to have cheap stuff rather than jobs for our kids. One could also call it mindlessly praying at the alter of free trade Chinas’s shameless stealing of any technology they are allowed to see. (Take it from me, I worked for a company that was thus violated).
Richard HillsJuly 6, 2022
It's rare but not uncommon for expectant mothers to lose babies during pregnancy. Do we have any insight as to the role of choice here that would console them? Are all babies lost before birth automatically saved in the Celestial Kingdom?
Allison Parker DunlapJuly 6, 2022
As a young 14 year old, I was cast as a bratty child in the short--lived run of Threads of Glory in 1976. I listened to my LP of Lex's inspired music every year around the 4th of July until it warped and then many years later, I found a tape cassette for $20.00 of it which then I then had transferred to a cd. (Very poor sound quality but I loved the music so much, it was better than nothing! ) The message of this play was so ahead of it's time, this was pre-President Benson. The Book of Mormon and the Pride Cycle played heavily into the climax. I am now a 60 year old woman and I just listened once again to the Hymn To America this year along with Freedom Has A Price, This Is My Country, and many others, all of them beautiful and soul stirring. Thank you Lex, to share the back story, it was no surprise to me you were inspired on these songs!
MaryannJuly 6, 2022
As a mom of 7, I can relate to this article. We need to be gentle with ourselves and recognize that we are doing Heavenly Father's most important work--taking care of his children, loving them, teaching them. Having said that, I find it hard to accept the idea that mothers don't have time to pray or read scriptures. I just don't buy it. How about nap times? Most children do NOT need 100% of your attention all day long. Most kids spend some play time on the floor with toys. Sit down in a chair in the same room and read the scriptures--sure, you may be interrupted, but that's ok. Same thing with prayer. It is great for our children to SEE US do these things. Perhaps we need to let go of the false idea that we need to pray or read the scriptures "perfectly." But there IS time to do it.
MaryannJuly 6, 2022
Grocery shopping online can save you a LOT of money--no impulse shopping! I just go and pick up my groceries--don't even need to get out of the car. My store often doesn't charge me for this service, and even if they did, it would be worth the savings. Impulse shopping is probably the number one reason people spend too much.
MaryannJuly 6, 2022
It sounds like this couple has spent enough time talking and going around in circles already. The time to see a counselor is now, especially since the wife describes her husband as needing to be more kind and fair. Sounds like there may be some individual past issues that need healing; perhaps his father was harsh and he is mirroring that. I have personally seen that happen.
ColinJuly 6, 2022
Amen to that, Olena.
Bob TaylorJuly 6, 2022
thank you for sharing your research. you may not be aware of this book - Tilly, by Frank Peretti - short, 128 pages, it was first published in 1988. very moving story about abortion, and the consequences.
MikeJuly 6, 2022
This is an amazing article. We demonize China and anyone else who does not accept the U.S. role as sole superpower. Our press is corrupt so articles such as this are so refreshing.
LisJuly 6, 2022
This is something I have struggled with in my children. They are young, and I am still learning. I am so glad I read your article. I fear that my own selfish feelings of bait wanting to watch them suffer makes them suffer more in the long term as they aren’t learning from their mistakes. Thank you for helping me to find a better path as a parent! I think it will have great future outcomes!
Cathy McGreevyJuly 5, 2022
All my life I've heard the two types of priesthood referred to as "the Melchizedek priesthood" and "the Aaronic priesthood." Why is "the" omitted when referencing them in this article? Just wondering if there has been some change I'm not aware of.
Rob McGhieJuly 5, 2022
Thank you for this very informative article. I wouls slightly caution against comparing Aaron as a presiding Bishop or Mises, Aaron and Hur as a First Presidency. These things are indeed presages of the restoration of all things. Similarly, in my research, i have found at least three of the tokens given in the temple today were presaged by rituals in the ancient temple, but not the same. Even in the meridian of time in Christ’s church they did not have the fullness of the restored Gospel.
C MinerJuly 5, 2022
Interesting. Where did John the Baptist come into play, as he was the one who restored the Aaronic Priesthood to Joseph Smith? Do we know how he got it? I ask sincerely. Thanks for the great article.
Vivian M AdamsJuly 5, 2022
Thank you for the research on this wonderful article.
SKJuly 5, 2022
First, I am sorry about your son. You didn't write if those consequences helped him. It's none of our business, but I hope he did turn his life around. I have a brother who actually did, once my parents realized he needed to get out of the house and take care of himself. It was a long, long road, but he did it. Second, bringing up Captain Moroni made me think of our country today. Consequences have been removed from dangerous actions and given mercy where it is not deserved. The prophecies of good being called evil and evil good are results of not giving or accepting consequences. In this way, our own government has withheld justice for much too long. I hope and pray our country (government) will turn around soon and see that bad choices that hurt the nation need to be punished, rather than showing mercy to the criminal. And by not doling out punishment where deserved, we do, indeed, take away agency from the criminals. They are unable to see the light of their ways. Thank you for your insight. I have been thinking about justice and mercy and how it's turned around right now. You've written my thoughts beautifully and I understand so much better.
Julie A. IsmaelJuly 5, 2022
Thank you.
Harold RustJuly 4, 2022
I appreciated the careful explanations of why the common theme of abortion being safer than childbirth is not only incorrect but probably a complete reverse of the actual facts. I will say, though, that when I did a google search using the name of Reardon study on death by abortion, his study was number one on the list. Thus, it wasn't as "censored" as would be implied in this article. I came away feeling that, at least this time, Google led me to the most pertinent and accurate of all responses to my search criteria.
Gene JJuly 4, 2022
According to part of the article... If one is forgiven of their sins, they will never know the consequence of their actions...
WendyJuly 4, 2022
Dear Brother De Azevedo, You’ve written some of my favorite music. For years I have tried, unsuccessfully, to obtain the written music to Messengers of Light II, or even a recorded copy, tape, CD, LP—anything—that would allow me to share with my children the music of my youth that helped shape my testimony. Could you please direct me where I might find your work? I’d be forever grateful.
RossJuly 4, 2022
Just finished listening to the book on Audible - fascinating, especially for Latter-day Saints, but much more than just an LDS book!
Laura BodreroJuly 4, 2022
Beautifully written article Patrick Degn! I couldn’t pass up this link when I saw the Liberty Bell photo reminding me of my Church history adventure last July; and then I saw the author and couldn’t pass up reading from a favorite author, tour guide, & teacher from last summer’s tour as well!♥️ Happy 4th of July!!
Nancy Lofgren AllredJuly 4, 2022
I was blessed to be in the orchestra at then Ricks College when this work was done. I can still sin gf the words to the song “America”. At each performance, the audience was so moved by it and felt the sacredness of it. It B always took them a few seconds to clap….everyone was in tears. Elder L. Tom Perry came for one of our performances. Listening to this on this Fourth of July reminds me that our nation will rise again and be great once more.
Corey D.July 3, 2022
One of Paul Harvey's favorite quotes was, it's not always what we say that counts but how we say it.
Corey D.July 3, 2022
You have no idea what an excellent article this is and so many who never fully grasp the principles you discuss, especially now with all the emphasis and attention given to suicide, so many people can't let the loved ones in their lives learn from the consequences of their actions or choices because they are afraid that individual may take his own life and in some cases there are those who use it as a threat to get what they want.
Harold RustJuly 2, 2022
thanks for the important insight into a view of this conflict as seen from a distant star. The lesson we learned with Germany was that, unfortunately, many "good people" could be led to do very bad things when they felt cornered. When we open doors to freedom and respect and cooperation, we are at our best in fighting Communism, Nazis, and persistent socialists. To do that, however, we have to be strong, clever, and consistent. Our current commander in chief is, sadly, none of those. Maybe if enough good people like we read about in this article can come together, there just might arise opportunities to find friends among the Russian population.
MichelleJuly 2, 2022
I have also heard/felt shouts of joy after sealing family members. I was surprised at the thought that it was more a moment of celebration than of quiet reverence
Doris H CrockettJuly 2, 2022
This man is fantastic and surely has "true grit." Way to go, good luck in all the future activities you have planned. You are amazing!
Jennifer HansenJuly 2, 2022
I think it would have been Griswold v. Connecticut (1965) of which Rex E. Lee spoke approvingly as having established the right to privacy – not Roe v. Wade as claimed in a previous comment.
Tim CurtissJuly 1, 2022
This guy and his rafts should be in your Hall of Fame. I got a copy of his book and it is remarkable.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJuly 1, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. This has given us positive and informative knowledge about the impact of having an abortion has upon women. I am grateful that I was never taught that a fetus is not human and just a blob of cells. I am ever so grateful that I was never faced with even thinking about an abortion.
Gary AndersonJuly 1, 2022
Thank you so much for writing this article! It is very informative!
Leo LewisJuly 1, 2022
Lex was my first missionary companion in Brazil. Even at that age he was an amazing musician. I have admired and looked up to him all my life. He is a true patriot with god-given skills and abilities that he has developed over the years. This was a very inspirational tribute to our wonderful country and the ideals for which it stands. May we each do what we can to sustain it during these tumultuous and troubled times.
Jeff LindsayJuly 1, 2022
I have updated the original paper to discuss what Dr. Reardon points out about the complex issue of the cause for the increased deaths. Violence is an important contributor, but does not account for all the increase in deaths. Reardon suggests that the women most at risk for the suite of adverse health effects related to mental health might be those who are coerced into abortion. I also observe that in spite of the China study, the preponderance of evidence does not support a significant increased cancer risk due to abortion. The updated also gives the specific citations for the 11 studies considered in the Reardon meta-analysis.
HelenCJuly 1, 2022
Thank you, Bro. De Azevedo, for all you have done to lighten MY life, not just with your music but with this sacred counsel. I shall look for the light more carefully from this moment on, especially as I seek the path He would have me follow.
Steven GattenJune 30, 2022
I enjoy your article. We lost a wonderful son to addiction at 34 years of age. Co dependence, enabling and other subjects related to anyones association with an addict are important subjects that take all of us a long time to learn. However there are times when mercy and compassion are important and necessary. Getting your son into a safe place like a warming shelter or recovery program falls into that catagory. We had to find other alternatives at times than our home. The sad sad fact however is that 90%+ never recover from the disease of addiction. And agency no longer is in play. No more than someone with a terminal case of cancer. Agency plays no part. So I personally appreciate the lessons in the Book of Mormon you point out. But they really aren’t the same. My personal take on addiction is that agency gets one there but once there agency is lost in most cases. So prevention in the form of education and helping people see better alternatives.
MaryannJune 30, 2022
Love this! It's so nice to read things on the lighter side. We need lots more smiles.
Debbi M.June 30, 2022
This is so powerful. I had tears as I read this article. We had a wayward child that we had to ask to leave--the most painful thing we ever went through. This article is spot on! We worried for some time that we were choosing the correct balance between enabling at her expense vs. what we were really teaching our other children. DShe continued on a self=destructive path for many years, alternating periods of ups and downs. We always told her we loved her, despite herself!
NancyJune 30, 2022
I watched your story on Saints Unscripted. WHERE IS YOUR IRISH ACCENT? I heard it slip through ever so slightly in a couple words. But why are you speaking American English?
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 30, 2022
I think allowing consequences is one of the hardest things we have to do with people. I always want to help, but many times helping just causes more bad consequences. Thank you for writing this column.
Jerome CaniddaJune 30, 2022
In cases of rape and so forth a friend pointed out to me that no woman that is raped is going to wait 2 months to see, ...they are going to take the morning after pill. Even the states recognize this issue and almost all have adapted exceptions for all the concerns. We will always see extremes on both sides but I'm certainly more sensitive to laws that end life. Barbaric is the word I can muster right now.
HalJune 30, 2022
Thank you, Joseph. We currently have a particularly difficult situation with one of our children and this series of articles has convinced us to stay our course of "tough love" and continue to hold our child responsible for her actions.
I. Blaine QuarnstromJune 30, 2022
Very INTERESTING & INFORMATIVE article.
Diane IrwinJune 30, 2022
Of COURSE angels have deep feelings! They once were humans who lived on this earth. Thanks, Anne for this thought-provoking article. You are amazing...keep them coming~~
DebrahJune 29, 2022
That was the best story, absolutely. Those strong youthful angels did not even know what angels they were! Best laugh I've had in a long time. Love your stories.
Winslow KJune 29, 2022
Thank you for sharing your experience and pointing out that, when taken to heart, the gospel of Jesus Christ is meant to make men (and women) good to the core. The best men are those who understand a woman’s worth in the eyes of God and treat each woman with respect and kindness. Thank you also for shedding light on the self-proclaimed “advocates” that do more harm than good by loudly “speaking for” those they don’t even represent or understand.
MaryannJune 28, 2022
The full statement is so brief that I am disappointed the entire text was not posted here. It is good to review the doctrine of the church on the subject of abortion. The reasons given that MIGHT possibly justify an abortion are very rare. The vast majority of the millions and millions of abortions that have occurred are performed as a result of irresponsible adults attempting to escape the consequences of their poor choices.
MaryannJune 28, 2022
I absolutely love the counsel given in this article. I am so glad the author reminded the woman that she does not deserve a sense of entitlement, nor should she put pressure on her husband, or try to make demands that she be accepted by his children. She is the one who made choices that have brought about hurtful results. She needs to respect the adult children of her husband and stay in the background. She wanted another woman's husband and she got him. She did NOT get his family, too! A woman who has had any part in destroying a marriage certainly does not have the right to expect the be considered family by his children. To recognize her in any way as a "grandparent" would be extremely disrespectful to the real grandmother. This situation is a good reminder about how costly and hurtful adultery is--even for generations.
CindyJune 28, 2022
I agree with all of the previous commenters, except for one thing: Their father is just as guilty of wrecking their family as she is. Why are the adult children now willing to have their father in their lives but not his wife? They are equally to blame. I dislike when I see women referred to as "homewreckers." The men are at least active participants and need to be held equally accountable.
HalJune 28, 2022
I very much appreciate these articles that clarify and debunk allegations of what the Prophet Joseph Smith or the other early brethren of the Church allegedly taught. I look forward to the day when all truth will come to light and we will all see, eye-to-eye, things as they really are.
Carlos.June 28, 2022
What a beautiful and powerful article. Thank you for reminding us, and for pointing out to men what we must be.
HalJune 28, 2022
This was a tremendous article, thank you! I have tried my entire adult life to honor and protect the women in my life. It is wonderful to see an opinion of a sister who appreciates the positive influence the Gospel of Jesus Christ has on men and boys. I agree that there are many noble and virtuous men outside of the Church with like values. I would venture to say that there is a strong correlation between good men and strong religious values.
JulieJune 28, 2022
Thank you very much for sharing your experience and knowledge. It helped me.
Julie TreadwellJune 28, 2022
I appreciate this perspective from the author. Her life experience gives her a clarity on this topic that many of us lack. I have been raised in the church my whole life and have seen cultural changes for good in many ways. It has changed in the US culture as well. (I recently was part of a conversation regarding our experiences over jobs lost and blatantly unequal pay due to gender preference. There has been vast improvement from the outset of our careers compared to now.). I fear that there will always be the selfish and sexually driven underbelly of society, within and without the church, that will perpetuate the horrific treatment of others. And while the upper elements of society at large has more improving to do, it’s nice to remember that Good changes have occurred! Sometimes in our journey, we see the effort of the climb ahead and forget to acknowledge how far our efforts have brought us. Sometimes, being only on the INSIDE of a thing limits one’s views, understanding and experience. That often enhances the flaws and makes them feel unbearable. It may take help from OUTSIDE the thing to see the relative difference. Sometimes that “outside help” makes things seem worse. It’s refreshing when it helps us recognize how, as a whole, things are better than we realized. And reminds us that there are solid reasons why that is. I am grateful the author pointed out that the church culture isn’t the gospel. The church’s purpose is to help bring us to Christ. He will heal us. He will help us. He will improve us. WE are better when we, as men and women, want that for ourselves, and are willing to “do the work” necessary to obtain it.
LisaJune 28, 2022
Thank you for the heartfelt sharing of your story.
MichelleJune 28, 2022
My childhood had some similarities to yours though not as difficult. Due to some early abuse, I was left with a lot of confusion, guilt (tho I had done nothing wrong) and pain. I was painfully shy and afraid of everything. The boundaries and standards taught were a lifesaver for me. and the activities, dances and youth conferences gave me a window at least of what I could be. The sweet elders on my mission showed such a humility and respect for priesthood power that it was what was engraved in my heart instead of the pain and abuse. I am 52 and just now seeing the mission God has for me. Because of what I experienced I can relate to a very wide range of people. I have found that power comes in sitting with individuals and listening to them, hearing their story, loving them where they are. As in the Book of Mormon, society is trying to push people into categories, groups and getting them to dig in and scream opinions and condemnations. No matter how right or justified a certain viewpoint is, it doesn't matter if it is not delivered with the love and space and patience required to let that principle be received. Love truly does conquer all. As we love, God will work out the details.
PaulineJune 28, 2022
What noble aspirations! May you blessed in your search for peace and happiness as you serve as the Savior does.
LincolnJune 28, 2022
Here’s another bit of essential reading brought to us by MERIDIAN. My thanks to the editorial staff and the eloquent writer for creating and disseminating this thoughtful, insightful, sometimes heart-wrenching document. In addition to her personal story, the writer’s observations about our larger culture are true, revealing, and cautionary. Thanks to all.
SageJune 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your insights. I agree with your assessment of how the church shapes men. I am Daily blessed by a man who takes his priesthood seriously who can clearly show it was the church's influence that made him who he is.
Taylor StonelyJune 28, 2022
Thank you for the courage to tell your story, and what an incredible perspective you offer. I appreciate you taking the time to provide a valuable counter-argument to the vicious attacks made by those who wish to harm the Church and its teachings of Jesus Christ. While none of us is perfect, it is important to know and to describe the path that we should all be walking, toward heaven, instead of pointing fingers and mocking those who are clinging to the iron rod.
Sasha KwapinskiJune 27, 2022
I also contribute in support of National Right to Life (NRLC), as well as 40 Days for Life, Lifenews, and other pro life organizations. I also appreciate and support the broadening out or diversification in the pro life movement in recent decades. This is reflected in such organizations as Secular Pro Life (SPL), Democrats for Life of America (DFLA), and Pro Life Alliance of Gays and Lesbians (PLAGAL).
Margaret BourneJune 27, 2022
Thank you for this article and the amazing video. Whilst I do not live in the USA I know that this momentous and brave decision will affect lives everywhere. I have often wondered why we don't recognise a child's right to life as well as a woman's right to govern her own body. Who will stand up for the unborn if their mothers don't? All I can hope for now is that the States see sense as well. Of course there are valid reasons for abortion but these are very few and far between.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 27, 2022
Thank you for your courageous article. I have been so amazed at the number of active members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have posted on Facebook that women should have the right to have an abortion. How can these people forget that lives are eternal and decisions now can effect our eternal lives. Babies are so precious. it feels as if Satan is rampaging with such strength throughout the world to destroy the eternal lives of God's children. I pray that we can be strong against him.
Kathy SandersJune 27, 2022
Thank you for this fine article and the historical context you’ve given. It defies reason how anyone can approve the.barbaric culture of abortion and justify it in any way. Satan has done an amazing job to desensitize so many to their own humanity. I’m so thankful for the thousands of good people who have kept up the good fight for life these last 49 years and never gave up. Thanks for urging all to speak up and get involved. We can make a difference!
Rob McGhieJune 27, 2022
Although i am against abortion in most caaes, there has to be exceptions for rape, incest and the health of the mother. Also, have we ever stopped to consider how Heavenly Father feels about sending a beloved child to a mother who doesn’t want the child, who may be a lousy parent, who might be condemning that child to a life of drugs, crime or gangs? We are sometimes obsessed with just the birth but not the social problems that child will have to endure.
DavidDJune 27, 2022
As former BYU President and U.S. Solicitor General Rex Lee observed years ago, Roe v. Wade did something that was very crucial. It established a Right of Privacy that is found nowhere else in the Constitution. Without this Right of Privacy, there is absolutely zero to prevent Congress from enacting laws setting limits on how many children a couple can have, requiring couples to engage in oral intercourse, requiring couples to get government permission even to have sexual relations, prohibiting spouses from sleeping in the same room together, on and on. And by the way, even the Church recognizes that the lives of unborn fetuses are not equal to the lives of living humans. If there were total equality, the Church would not condone abortion in cases of rape.
JulieJune 27, 2022
Alliance defending Freedom https://adflegal.org/
vickieJune 27, 2022
i wouldnt accept abortion in the case of rape or incest...a baby is a baby...unless it make take the life of the mother...adoption is the answer if the mother doesnt want the baby...
EmilyJune 26, 2022
It sounds from your letter like you feel that you have done enough over the years to mend fences, and by now your husband's children should be adjusted and forgiving and kind. Divorce is like a death, though, especially when there's been infidelity, and grief is cyclical. It surges up again at tender and vulnerable moments. Your stepdaughter's grief is likely to surge again with this new birth. Please set aside your own feelings here. I've never experienced anything harder and more raw than new motherhood. Don't make your stepdaughter have to deal with this drama when she's adjusting to being a mom. Eventually that may change, but only if you're able to sincerely put her needs before your own.
MadisonJune 26, 2022
This only happens when the child is going to die soon after birth. The parents would rather hold their baby till God takes them than have doctors put tubes into the baby in order to try to resuscitate a child that will die.
Cristy NewcombJune 26, 2022
Why can’t your wonderful lessons be printed as before? I love to read them but it’s just not the same without your personal feelings/experiences included. Thank you.
Robert SteverJune 26, 2022
The responses would be more useful if they where divided gender. Because so far, it looks as if the women think I am porn/video game addict rather than the Engineer that I really am.
Rob BarnettJune 25, 2022
More covid deaths for 5 and under than flu deaths, even if compared to really bad flu years.
Lizzie GirlJune 25, 2022
Accept the fact that nobody over there will ever like you or want to see you, and allow them complete access to their father without clamoring to be part of it. You will always be the person that wrecked their family. Your "good marriage" will have to be reward enough. They may well have forgiven you in the sense of allowing the Lord to be the judge, but they will never want to hang out with you so stop trying to insinuate yourself into the mix. This is never going to change. You have nothing to offer them except the reminder of what you did. Be cool. Be humble. Stop with the neediness.
EmilyJune 25, 2022
His children treat you as the other woman because you are the other woman. If you actually regretted having an affair, you would get a divorce. This baby is not your grandchild and never will be Get over yourself and your rights. You have none here.
RobJune 24, 2022
More covid deaths 0-5 than flu deaths, even compared to worst flu years
Debbi M.June 24, 2022
Wonderful and honest advice. Divorce is such an unfair situation, as you said, especially with infidelity. Spot on for telling this sister she has no right to entitlement, and should not make her husband choose. I take it she did not have children from her previous spouse? Maybe she would understand more?
Debbi M.June 24, 2022
What a story! The Lord's hand is manifest once again. Bless all the family members here to get through this trial and press forward. The gospel is true!
BeckyJune 24, 2022
I love this story. I know that we had relationships in our pre-earth life. What a beautiful testimony of listening to and following the spirit.
vickieJune 24, 2022
OH MY GOSH, THIS STORY WAS SO BEAUTIFUL AND SAD AT THE SAME TIME. i do believe that the spirit in a person knows and recognizes things from our life with God before we come to earth. i had this experience once and wrote about it regarding seeing the conference before i joined the church. while seeing it on tv way back in the mid 70's i felt as though i heard it before. i told my husband who was reading the newspaper...that what was being said seemed like something my parents told me....but then i said....its not exactly like my parents telling me this....it confused me...now i know it was my heavenly parents telling me these things...i recognized it..
Judith GrantJune 24, 2022
I love this answer. Not being pushy and understanding what you have done in the past has caused this to happen and showing understanding, will do a lot more to create harmony than being offended or hurt bc you’re not included. Be the grownup!
Janet WiseJune 24, 2022
Adam, it is indeed a beautiful story! The strength of family beyond the veil! How wonderful that family is forever, and that the Lord has a loving way of micromanaging our relationships. I wish your sister and her brood much love and blessings--until you are all united again,
Julie CooperJune 24, 2022
I needed this perspective. I feel lifted. Thank you.
DonJune 24, 2022
The reason you are being treated like the "other woman" is that you ARE the other woman. You helped break up her family. You aren't entitled to the forgiveness you seem to demand.
HelenCJune 24, 2022
Thank you. As I complain about being the only active member in my and my husband’s families I shall now remember Elijah’s aloneness and count myself blessed to be where Father wants me to be, striving to be who He wants me to be. After all, I have yet to be fed by ravens. :-)
WendiJune 24, 2022
Sorry, lady. You don’t get to decide “boundaries” when you were intrusive to “boundaries” that were set to protect a marriage commitment. You don’t get to decide how his children feel about you. You don’t get to decide to be welcome in their lives, especially during the joyous time of his new grandchild (not yours). How dare you use the birth of his daughter’s baby to intrude into her life again and demand to be “respected.” You won—you have the man you both wrecked homes to be together—and this is The prize of your “victory.” Leave his children alone. You have no place in their world just because you became his wife. Deal with it. Leave your husband alone about wanting him to take a stand for you with his children. This is a consequence of your atrocious decision to wreck this daughter’s home to steal her dad. You made your bed nine years ago, now go and sleep in it.
Lisa MurphyJune 24, 2022
1. F Friendship with God/Faith 2.. I. Interest in goals or Intimate Communion with God. 3. R. Remember or Read or Repent 4. S. Serve or Seek to make His will your will, 5. T. Treat everyone you meet like a Son or Daughter of God or Tidy
MistyJune 23, 2022
This is a wonderful article to prompt self reflection with our testimony. I haven’t given much thought to the rest of the letters but my first impression for F was Father… which goes long who your F.aith refers to. A & I have me currently stumped but I think T would be together, representing not just our own family but how God desires all of His children to help each other return together. H for me is easy… Home… with Him is our ultimate goal & desire.
Kay RookhuyzenJune 23, 2022
This moral has been pointed out to me by others uncounted times during my life. It is so true!
Lana JohnsonJune 23, 2022
Faith was I first thought as well.... I had no idea of all of the faith names of our Heavenly Father and Jesus. I knew all of the characteristics but not what they were called! Thank you so much for sharing this!!
LoraJune 23, 2022
As a young woman, I heard the acronym SOAP: Scriptures, Obedience, Appreciation and Prayer. The idea was that every time you use soap, it would remind you to read scriptures, obey the commandments, show gratitude to Heavenly Father, and pray to communicate that gratitude to Him.
CHuckJune 23, 2022
"The outbreaks have been attributed to an increasing number of Americans who choose not to vaccinate themselves or their children." Or, dare I say, attributable to an increasing number of illegal immigrants from around the world who have brought those diseases with them without being vetted, as happened at Staten Island formerly. Has anyone done a study on this factor?
Kathy DouglasJune 23, 2022
1. Faith 2. Inspiration-personal revelation 3. Repentance 4. Stay on the covenant path, or submit my will to HIS 5.Trust in the Lord
KathleenJune 23, 2022
It takes courage to allow consequences. Thanks for showing by example that it's worth it.
M SmithJune 22, 2022
Thank you, Meridian, for publishing this article. We need to be able to hear both sides and make our own decisions.
JSJune 22, 2022
Now it’s time we apply that same logic to all of the childhood vaccines- especially the dozens added in the last 30 years. Is what we’ve been told by the FDA and CDC similarly skewed data and information regarding other childhood diseases? I don’t think that blindly trusting the three letter government organizations regarding our health and well-being is a wise choice & more digging into the recommendations is definitely worth the time and energy spent finding truthful answers.
David Watson,DDSJune 22, 2022
Vaccines are not and never have been 100%. They are an adjunct to medical help. People should be free to decide for themselves how they want to protect themselves. I agree we are trusting too many people and agencies to make our decisions for them.
Bob MartinJune 22, 2022
Australia regularly immunizes {vacinates} young children,ie infants for all manner of diseases including hooping cough, measles, polio etc. I am surprised if other countries do not do this.
Diane IrwinJune 21, 2022
WoW! I have enJOYed your articles over the years, and this one hits it right out of the park! I can't wait to share it with my daughter-in-law. (It has been a blessing that we are so close!)
Bonnie LiversidgeJune 21, 2022
What a gathering of traditions combined with wisdom and pure truth of the Heavens brought together in thought, deed and actions. Brilliant!.
JAMES P FOLEYJune 20, 2022
Most mortals possess a longing for order that seems strange in the world of chaos. How could we long for something we never knew existed? Order is an eternal principal that feels like home and is part of what we knew in our premortal existence. THUS I CONSIDER THE LONGING FOR ORDER THAT MOST OF US EXPERIENCE A FORM OF HOMESICKNESS.] [Sherri Mills Johnson, “The Restoration of the New and Everlasting Covenant of Marriage,” in Joseph Smith and the Doctrinal Restoration: the 34th Annual Sidney B. Sperry Symposium, Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 2005, p240]
Dale E. Breckon, U.S Army (Retired)June 20, 2022
Sentinels at the U.S. Tomb of the Unknown Soldier are Soldiers from the U.S. Army 3rd Infantry Regiment, and always have been since 1948. Members of the U.S. Marine Corps do not serve as Sentinels at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.
BonnieJune 20, 2022
Have enjoyed so much the transcripts of your podcasts. Now we seem to only be getting the notes from it. Will we again be able to see the transcripts?
DeniseJune 19, 2022
Excellent article and insights! Well done, Lynne!
Aleesa SolbergJune 19, 2022
How can I get the portion of transcript of ‘We have enough women of …. We need women of ….?
TreverJune 19, 2022
One thing that greatly helped our family to work towards acceptance and understanding was to all read Carol Turtle’s book It’s Just My Nature. It was a game changer for us, and especially my wife who is a pre-planner/get it done type of person too.
KathleenJune 18, 2022
. . . and what an incredible golden lifetime it becomes! Thanks for another uplifting, thought provoking article.
Becky L RoseJune 10, 2022
One of my favorite books is confronting the myth of self-esteem. It's LDS and talks about abasing ourselves. That is scriptural.
Tom BaxterJune 10, 2022
As a retried professional having dealt with SSA issues in the past, I also have been disappointed with the imbalance with which this issue has been celebrated by the media, including Church-owned media outlets. Some have deliberately or unintentionally promoted the love and acceptance side without addressing the doctrinal and moral realities.. I also compliment Brother Bennion's courage, ,especially in light of his unique and valid personal perspective. He effectively articulated the disconnect between how reporting has been handled and the fundamental doctrines of the Church. As an emeritus general authority repeated to me, "God's truth, God's laws and God's justice will never be man's truth, laws and justice." I recall the then Elder Oaks being interviewed by a CBS reporter who was seeking to characterize the Church as discriminatory towards members dealing with homosexuality. When the reporter tried to challenge the church's position, Elder Oaks repeatedly said, "Sex outside of marriage is a sin". At that time there were no gay marriages. The position now includes defining marriage as only being between a man and a woman. It is imperative that parents make the home the primary source in promoting gospel principles. The evidence is clear that children coming from such homes are much more clear, less deceived and better grounded in God's ways as to what is moral and immoral as contrasted with the world's ways. Parents cannot rely on outside sources to instruct their children. God's laws and commandments regarding what chastity and identity really is must be taught and exemplified in the home. .
Rob McGhieJune 10, 2022
I remember Bro. Keith Wilcox came to the Miami stake center in 1974 or 1975 to give a presentation on the Washington DC Temple at a fireside. I remember him saying that the mindset he had when designing this temple was “Enlightenment “. It was just before I went to the temple with my wife and children to be sealed for all eternity.
GoingTo100June 10, 2022
Great article - thanks for the thorough analysis of all the lies and malicious deceits depicted in the series. I only disagree with the last premise concerning the loss the series may cause to the Church, its members, and other individuals in search of truth. As the article states: "In the eyes of the law,... when libel or slander leads to serious material loss..." then it counts as "illegal defamation". The church will not experience any material loss from the series free-for-all malicious attack. The people who will resonate with the series are the apostates and the those who hate organized religion especially the LDS religion. Anyone with some degree of the light of Christ will see through the deceit and the hypocrisy of the apostates and religion haters involved with this series. Some may be fooled for a time, but in the end the Church will be strengthened, not weekend by this series.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 10, 2022
This is so uplifting and beautiful. I am so grateful for their sharing of such great talents.
JoJune 10, 2022
Beautiful, brings me peace this morning.
DavidDJune 10, 2022
How does it work to "embrace conflict" when one segment of society seems to not only embrace but militantly support lies? Lies about events. Lies about science. Unless and until those people become more committed to truth, how can I possibly come together with them? Embrace their lies?
GingerJune 10, 2022
Absolutely gorgeous!!!!
SfischJune 10, 2022
I loved hearing this story. What a marvelous opportunity to be part of the Lord’s design team. What an honor-what a blessing! I believe Brother Wilcox daughter was in my college of family living. -specifically - Interior Environments at BYU.
T. EarlJune 9, 2022
Thank you! THANK YOU!! I have to admit that moving from the San Francisco Bay Area to Utah I’ve been surprised that the rhetoric and the rainbow flag seems to be even stronger in the Salt Lake Valley. As a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints I admit that I have been left confused at times on where my leaders, sunday instructors and fellow members stand as we often attempt to straddle the line so we don’t offend. But instead we are leaving so many confused and swimming in the grey! The church media hasn’t helped. What is happening at BYU in Provo is alarming. I do agree that posting the rainbow banner does seems to be a symbol of announcing that “I’m not a hater“ instead of standing up and saying” I am a believer” in loving all my brothers and sisters while doing our best to support The Proclamation to the world on the doctrine of The Family. We would do better to raise a banner the would unite all (instead of divide us) “in the name of our God, country and our families!” Thank you for this well written plea to seek out those who live with same sex attraction and strive to keep their covenants and also the reminder that we can love one another but also to keep our footing in the doctrines and expectations of God.
MaryKaren SolomonJune 9, 2022
Br. Bennion, thank you defending what is an unfortunately unpopular stand right now. We need to love our LGBT brothers and sisters, and accept them into fellowship. However, I know from my own experience the following the covenant path will help keep a couple together. I married a bisexual man when I was young; we had been counseled by church authorities to trust each other and get married if we loved each other. We both received testimonies that we should marry each other, and we did, in the temple. For the first few years , we remained very active in the LDS Church, and things went well. We had a daughter together, and three years later, a son. At that time, my husband started experiencing same-sex attraction and was in faithful to me. Our bishop counseled my spouse and worked with him regularly. It was a great help to him! Then we moved to South Carolina and I became pregnant again, and my husband had worries and concerns that caused him to act out on same-sex feelings again. This time our bishop was not supportive; he scheduled a church court, and my husband was disfellowshipped. I was at the court as a witness for my husband, and I do not feel it was a court of love. I feel it was a court of disgust, and I think he felt the same way, because he then became inactive and fell away from the church. He became interested in Christian science and we attended the LDS church one week and Christian science church the next. Our lives begin to fall apart and in three years he was out of the church, and we were divorced. I raised the children on my own, and they were not close to him, even though we made efforts to see him every year. He lived a gay life, and it was a lonely one. I can't help but feel it would've been a much more fulfilling life for him, had he stayed faithful to his covenants and resisted same-sex temptations. I greatly appreciate your taking the Church's stance seriously, because I feel it is the only pathway that can help marriages to work and keep families together.
MarcieJune 9, 2022
Thank you for your words. They are one more puzzle piece in my quest to "always remember Him"
CASJune 9, 2022
There are some strong opinions cited here. I share mine. I believe and adhere to the Proclamaition of the Family and all that it promotes. I believe that God created man and woman for the purpose of bringing children in the world and creating a family unit within the confines of matrimony and building that man and woman's healthy sexuality which binds them together. I believe in the covenants that we renew in the temple every time we attend. Today there are too many ideas out there today that want to destroy the family unit. That's Satan's plan. This is very disturbing to me. And, Susan, a possible response to your granddaughter could be: The only flag we fly is the Stars and Stripes for the United States of America to which we adhere!
John PetersenJune 9, 2022
Excellent, excellent thinking and reasoning and explaining. As you wrote, "There is more than one way to foster inclusion and compassion." I have struggled with my own experience in loving and accepting LGBTQ people, although I have family members who struggle with same sex attraction and I have no problem loving them. But I could never plant a rainbow flag in my yard or march in a Gay Pride parade. I loved the way you encouraged more acceptance of the Proclamation on the Family than the societal river currents of LGBTQ acceptance. Well thought out and so well explained.
CarolJune 9, 2022
I have written to personnel at the Deseret News regarding their allowing attacks on the Church and their support of policies that the Church opposes. I have gotten no response. If Church-owned media does not support the doctrines of the Church, why do they even exist? We need a supportive media voice, not another Expositor or Tribune. Everyone needs to listen to Elder Holland's talk to BYU faculty again. We cannot let "love" and "tolerance" be mistaken for approval of ideologies that oppose God's plan.
ShaunaJune 9, 2022
Thank you Br. Bennion, for your steadfast commitment to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. You are inspiring and so brave. Your voice is SO needed in this conversation and I am hopeful that the dominant, monolithic narrative surrounding either "choosing the Church, or choosing to be LGBTQ--or 'authentic'" can be expanded and challenged, as you demonstrate. Thanks for as Paul says, "fighting the good fight and for keeping the faith."
BennyJune 9, 2022
A really outstanding article and analysis of the tropic. As a church member who is experiencing same sex attraction myself I can affirm every sentence in this article. I have nothing in common with the LGBTQ movement. But I have a lot in common with people who are also struggling with same-sex attraction. And especially as a member of our church it is hard to have same sex attractions. I know the covenant path. I know the plan of happiness. As somebody who has been experiencing same sex attractions his whole life I know that certain things like a marriage are highly unlikely for me to ever experience in my mortal life. Of course I know what apostles and prophets have said. I know that ultimately no blessings will be kept from me. But as with so many others who are also experiencing same-sex attractions that does not help all the time. So showing me a rainbow flag will not help in any way. It does however show me that the person who is showing this flag to me should maybe invest a little bit more time in searching out what this flag and its movement is really all about. So yes it is well meant. But it is not good. What does indeed help is showing affection, showing love, and showing interest. This is best done in a personal way and not by showing off some symbols. Everybody has his own burdens. But knowing that the one thing that is so important in the plan of happiness cannot be reached in my mortal life is a very, very, very heavy burden. Every day in my life I am thinking about whether or not my Heavenly Father loves me. Because one of the most central parts of the plan of happiness is kept from me. So I would appreciate if other members of our church recognize the struggle and sympathize with it. If somebody is doing this most certainly love and understanding will come out of it.
J.T. McKayJune 9, 2022
Thank you for the reminder that the "covenant path" is the path of happiness -- for everyone, regardless of orientation. Love and kindness are essential, but any response that leads away from the covenant path will always dilute our happiness -- both in this life and in the next. Your efforts to point this out are deeply appreciated.
DavidJune 9, 2022
Tithing is paid with faith, not money.
Harold RustJune 9, 2022
Thank you for such a heart-felt and well-expressed view on a subject that is so often pressed down to a simple "are you a good person or not" rather than "I will respect you but I also have fundamental teachings I believe are sacred and true". The waving of a pride flag or the displaying of a "I love..." sign may to some seem like an appropriate way to support others. I see it as more likely an indicator the individual is trying to "prove" how kind and wonderful they are and it smacks of self-centered marketing of "rightenous") . For example, what if all of a sudden a large percentage of the U.S. population saw a great advantage in showing they were great supporters of "Mormons" and started displaying signs our their lawn that read , "I love Mormons. If you don't, you have something wrong with you". Would we feel better about our membership in the Church and would this show of support lead us to believe they really did understand us and were genuinely interested in our spiritual welfare? Or would it highlight a sense of opportunism on their part because they sensed the wind was blowing in the direction of helping themselves look better if they showed "love" of Mormons? Something to think about for those who want to gush over the 'brave souls' now coming out of the closet. Be respectful and understanding, but be thoughtful about how to display that respect.
G. Randall in IDJune 9, 2022
The word “gunman”, itself’, conjures up in the mind images similar to those of recent events. It implies malicious intent. A “man doing target practice” (in the story) is NOT the same as a “GUNMAN” (in the headline). I am becoming increasingly wary of headlines in the media, as they seek to sensationalize stories just to raise our heart rate and hopefully get more clicks. I expected better from Meridian Mag.
Trish NordstromJune 9, 2022
It's a very long article and at the end I still don't know what is expected of "straights" in relation to "gays." So many of us "feel damned if we do and damned if we don't" in our behavior. It's exhausting.
BrookeJune 9, 2022
Thank you for being brave enough to be this voice. I am deeply moved. God bless you and strengthen on your journey.
ScottJune 9, 2022
I found this article to be very refreshing as I have been confused by much of the LDS media, while still feeling that there was a conflict between true doctrine and permissiveness in the name love. The author has put into words what I have only had in unexpressed thoughts. Thank you. As an aside I would say that it is unfortunate that this was not published far enough ahead of the North Star Conference to bring attention to it before the day that it began.
LindaJune 9, 2022
4thanks for a great article!
BruceJune 9, 2022
Finally a voice of well thought-out reason in a wasteland of misinformation and distortion.
Michael ChandlerJune 9, 2022
A well reasoned article that explains the tyranny of so-called ‘progressive’ politics, that does not allow for different beliefs and perspectives. Jeff’s focuses on sexuality, but the same can be said for any of the social controversies in our culture; abortion, homelessness, critical race theory, etc. All of our current social maladies have been enhanced by ‘progressive’ solutions that fail to see problems truthfully and obstruct fair discussion of the problems. It is the great a spacious building occupants pointing their fingers and deriding the seekers of truth, and too often the lovers of truth get embarrassed and turn away from the truth. Better that we give them no heed.
Momof6June 9, 2022
I read your article and it really is how I feel about the whole situation. I have two daughters who have found an aspect of the church unrelated to denounce and therefore condone their lifestyle choice because the church “couldn’t possibly be true”. That’s a different story than yours completely but hearing your story gives me hope that things could turn out someday. The one thing that I would suggest editing out is the name of specific people and pointing out why their way of choosing to live the lifestyle doesn’t work. I think it would be fine to list specific examples of issues that may make it hard to stay a faithful church member, but naming people outright is inappropriate. Thank you for your article. I do like your perspective and admire how you are trying to be faithful in the church teachings.
Mardonne NeimanJune 9, 2022
Thank you dear brother for your clear and thoughtful message, and shared with us as one who stands for the doctrine of the church and strives to keep his covenants. Elder Bednar has shown us how to answer questions by quoting doctrine. His pattern has made a clear and simple pattern for faithful members to follow. When asked at the National Press Club, Can you envision a day when LGBTQ Church members can marry and be sealed within the Church? He quoted the proclamation. “We believe that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God, and that the family is central to the Father’s plan for the eternal destiny and happiness of his children.” Whether single, married, divorced, widowed, LGBQT+, we "further declare that God has commanded that the sacred powers of procreation are to be employed only between man and woman, lawfully wedded as husband and wife." We believe in the promises that we can overcome the world through the atonement of Jesus Christ and receive eternal life.
LindaJune 9, 2022
Wow! What an outstanding, well written article with a refreshing perspective. I haven't delved deeply enough into this subject to recognize the communication complexities involved. Thank you for your enlightening us to a better way of approaching and viewing this tender topic. I believe so many of us have family or friends that are same gender attracted that we have become so focused on accepting them that we inadvertently abandoned our own highly valued principles. What a delema! I shall continue to ponder your well expressed thoughts and suggestions. THANK YOU!!!
Susan RoylanceJune 9, 2022
I am grateful for this article, for Jeff's willingness to speak out in a very helpful way. When children ask (as did my 9 yr old granddaughter), what is "pride" -- and why don't we want a rainbow flag in our yard -- what do we say? Are we teaching the children that becoming gay or lesbian, or choosing to be transgender, is OK? That choosing to not have children, or promoting physical changes to a body, to change the appearance of a different sex, and taking dangerous medicines, will assure that that person will not have biological children. It's the ultimate effort by Satan to destroy the family unit.
Virginia GowerJune 9, 2022
Jeff is right on target about Deseret News, Deseret Book and KSL. Is there anyone who we could contact to complain about the rubbish these 3 come up with. And it's not just about LGBT - also their political views and commentary on other subjects. I'm over 70 years old and I'm not alone. I only get online to read the Church News because you can't believe what you read in the Deseret News and KSL.
BryanJune 9, 2022
Bravo, bravo, bravo! The DNews and other LDS owned media left the reservation long ago. Just as ‘white guilt’ affects people’s actions towards blacks and other peoples of color, so ‘heterosexual guilt’ makes people think they need to show acceptance of behavior directly in opposition to divinely revealed gospel principles. Too many in the church think they are being Christlike in advocating for or supporting homosexual behavior. Instead they are being deceived by Satan and dragging others down with them.
Neill MarriottJune 8, 2022
Kathy, Thank you for the relatable and profound examples in your article. Your mastery of words made it a delight to read. I am going to include the Savior more in my daily work, thanks to your insightful testimony.
KalliopeJune 8, 2022
Just need to know if this is based on a true story, or a figment of imagination.
MaryannJune 8, 2022
Ah, yes--there are a lot of women out there who can relate to this story, including me. Thanks for the chuckle.
Janet ChristensenJune 8, 2022
Excellent article! These inspired words ring true for anyone with political, philosophical or religious differences. I have close family that are not on speaking terms - they can't handle ideas that are different from their firm - "how dare you think I'm not right" - ideas.
DenieseJune 8, 2022
I very much enjoyed this story. It got my day started. We all need to remember that the Lord is/will be with us if we just learn to recognize His presence.
Susan D’AndreaJune 8, 2022
Mom’s irises: Purple irises were my mother’s favorite flower. After she and my father passed away, my sister Lynn dug up the iris bulbs and planted them in her garden. The next year when they bloomed, my sister took pictures and sent each of my parents’ six children an 8x10” print to frame and hang in our homes. It has been almost 20 years, and Mom’s irises are still blooming in Lynn’s garden. Each June she texts us a picture.
Sasha KwapinskiJune 7, 2022
I submit that a good part of the issue is understanding the difference or distinction between love and relativism -- a distinction that many in today's society seem to have a problem with.
Rochelle HaleJune 7, 2022
We will always be at odds with those who oppose us or have differing opinions. One prefers yellow; another blue. One eats meat; another is vegetarian. One is a couch potato while the other is an extreme exerciser. One of the great issues regarding sexual preference is that Latter-day Saints (Catholics, and many others) believe that intimacy is only appropriate within the bounds of marriage. They are NOT our rules; they are God's. Nevertheless, just as we embrace those who enjoy different hobbies or foods, we can embrace our fellow beings who feel differently about sexuality outside of traditional marriage. That, then, is the conundrum, because often those living opposing lifestyles don't want our love or even our association unless we can totally condone and support them. The interpretation then becomes that we "hate them" rather than respecting that we can love and leave any judgment to God.
GaleJune 7, 2022
Thank you for this. I am of Jewish descent and have a special connection to Ruth. This was really enlightening.
Ronald BarnesJune 7, 2022
At the age of 67, I’ve thought about those things, too. Of course, I want to stay as young as possible for as long as possible. Only time will tell. I would love to leave some kind of lasting legacy, but I know that I won’t. I’ll be satisfied to be remember in a hundred years. Of course, I want safe and successful lives for all of my descendants. I just doubt that I’ll have much influence on that. As for being surrounded by loved ones: My children and grandchildren have their own lives to live. I would love to see them as often as feasibly possible, but they have more to do with their lives than being overly concerned about me. I will have lived my life and I want them to have the same privilege. Let them live it while they can.
JillJune 7, 2022
That upsets me. I married late. I had one child, who identifies as gay and does not want children. Grandparenting will likely never be a reality for me.
ColinJune 6, 2022
I'm with you, Wally, in being concerned by well-meaning efforts to reduce everything to self-esteem—especially because if that's the problem, then the solution looks like increasing self-esteem and this leads to terribly misguided efforts like giving hollow praise and trophies for everything. Loving God and feeling loved by Him are a lot closer to core solutions. I've often heard people claim that the second great command, "Love thy neighbor as thyself," is somehow a command to love ourselves. If that's what Jesus meant, it's surprising that the parable he told to illustrate the principle described a man, the Samaritan, who never once that of himself. Not for a moment.
MaryannJune 6, 2022
I love your statement: "Self-affirmation must not replace heavenly attestation." As a bookseller for many years, I noticed so many books being released that present alternate routes for achieving happiness, peace, and self-esteem, INSTEAD OF trusting in the Lord and following HIS path. It seems that every month new books are released claiming to be the magic formula for "feeling good" about ourselves and our lives. As you stated, In order to have true peace and joy, we must combine our understanding of our divine worth with a spirit of humility, a willingness to repent, and deep gratitude to the Lord for enabling us to accomplish good things. When our motivation is to please our Heavenly Father and our Savior, we will feel that divine attestation from the Spirit that we are on the right path. There is no greater joy.
Tom BaxterJune 6, 2022
In King Benjamin’s profound and life-changing sermon to the Nephites, the power of the Holy Ghost bore witness of his words and brought about a change of heart in his listeners. Mosiah 4:3 tells us they experienced a “peace of conscience “ “3 And it came to pass that after they had spoken these words the Spirit of the Lord came upon them, and they were filled with joy, having received a remission of their sins, and having peace of conscience, because of the exceeding faith which they had in Jesus Christ who should come, according to the words which king Benjamin had spoken unto them.” In my opinion this is God’s definition of the non- scriptural term self esteem.
Andrew J CurrieJune 6, 2022
I've always thought D&C121:45 is the best explanation of self-esteem and how to obtain it. It has no hint of self-concern or, even, self-awareness: "Let thy bowels ... be full of charity towards all men … and let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God....” What better description of meaningful self-esteem than 'being confident in the presence of Deity'?
Bonnie MJune 6, 2022
This article is amazing. Such clarification that is so important. Thank you so much! Bonnie
Joy PorterJune 6, 2022
This is an interesting article and has some thoughtful interpretations of self-esteem. However I disagree on some level with the idea of denying ourselves the ability to reprogram the negative beliefs that we have received from our childhood. As a member of the church's 12-step Addiction Recovery Program, I have learned that we can do nothing without the grace of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Addictions and negative beliefs cannot be changed without His intervention and help. As was mentioned in the article... it is true that we are nothing when it comes to making changes in ourselves. However as Professor Sandberg, at BYU, so beautifully put it: change really takes courage + action + Grace. https://magazine.byu.edu/article/healing-courage-action-grace/ For myself, I have learned that I have spoken so critically to myself for the last 65 years that there must be some reprogramming of my mind. So, every morning and evening I tell myself that I am a beautiful child of God. That I am worthy of love and respect. That I am a fallible human being who makes mistakes but I'm a worthwhile and lovable human being. Many of us carry terrible "stinkin thinkin" which sadly lies to us, telling us we are not worthy of our Saviors grace, love and atonement. This is where the action step of reprogramming my mind has made a great difference. I have felt more worthy to approach My Savior, to ask him to change my very heart, to turn my life completely over to him and trust that he can do more with me than I can do with myself. I've seen literal miracles using this approach. I think there's room for both in this negative, critical world we live in.
Donald CyrJune 6, 2022
What's a revelation ! This article bring me to a profound re-evaluation of the concept of self esteem that I am fighting for so many years... It's a relief to understand this principle in a different perspective for now on... Thanks for this enlightenment in your today publication.
Bera SautuJune 5, 2022
Great article! Inspiring too. Thank you.
LaceyJune 5, 2022
"self-centered charitable giving" If you are paying tithing because you believe you will receive blessing from it, THAT is self-centered charitable giving. Your 'fire insurance's money is about you rather than about others.
MaryannJune 4, 2022
The #1 way to solve our water shortage? Repent and call upon Heavenly Father for the rain needed.
Connie MurdochJune 4, 2022
I loved this article. It gives me great hope and has broadened my faith. As I increase my service in helping to gather Israel, I have every expectation that God, who is very good at His job, will be assisting me with that which I so desperately pray about. Thank you for this very informative message.
Amanda PerkinsJune 3, 2022
It was a year ago tomorrow that the Proctors stopped on their walk in the Poppies by their home to hear my daughter Naomi Perkins and Jacob Parson singing "Your Hands" one of Josh Sales Christian Cover Official songs. The kids performed and they took a picture with them, and learned of this amazing service that Josh does to help bring others to Christ through music! We have become friends with a girl in the Philippines that has joined the church, making contact with me and my daughter after hearing her Christian Cover. The powere of good music is amazing. https://youtu.be/Npn1ejbn30Q
OwenJune 3, 2022
Simply put, God has commanded us to pay tithing to Him through His church. My wife and I do so. Blessings truly come as we keep this commandment, leaving us in a position to pay Fast Offerings and other donations to church causes AND donate to charities of our choice. So thankful that God keeps His promises!!!!
IndaJune 3, 2022
I believe someone should sue these movie producers for lies and slander.
JuliannJune 3, 2022
I went to school with three of the younger Lafferty brothers. They were leaders, intelligent and accomplished. Good looking too. I can’t imagine how painful it must be for their families to have this painful period portrayed in such a twisted manner. Persecution toward the Church has always originated from apostate members. History may repeat itself.
MarciaJune 3, 2022
Singer provides great enunciation to the wonderful words.
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryJune 2, 2022
This article was very well written and easy to understand. Thank you for the great effort and time that all of you spent to write this. I haven't watched this production because I am tired of seeing and reading what those who have left the Church have to say since I know they are not saying my truth.
MaryannJune 2, 2022
Thank you for this article. I think it is so important to remember that no one truly knows what goes on in a marriage other than the two people in the marriage. Speculation and side-taking are hurtful forms of unrighteous judgement. I hope your words will help others to offer love and support for those who divorce.
MaryannJune 2, 2022
Thank you so much, Joni. As I am growing older, I am feeling the sting of being labeled as "old." Sometimes when I am conversing with someone, it becomes very apparent they don't see me and they are not talking to ME. They are talking to and "old" person. I think we sometimes shrug off labeling, gossip, and criticism as minor sins. They are not. They destroy love and unity, and create contention, which the Savior condemned. If we are to be a Zion people who are prepared to meet the Lord, we must rid ourselves of these divisive practices. One of the great blessings of having the Spirit with us is that we discern the strengths in one another and rejoice in them.
CaryJune 2, 2022
Did I read that correctly? That the character played by Andrew Garfield is entirely fictional and does not exist anywhere but this televised series. That in itself would entirely invalidate this series as credible. Especially when presented without any artistic or other context as such. What were they thinking? What was Garfield thinking?
Phillip SmithJune 2, 2022
It makes me sad that those with hatred or animosity toward the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints attack those of us who believe in it. The leader of the Church, the Lord Jesus Christ, said the following (Matthew 5:11-12) Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.
Helen CondonJune 2, 2022
And missionary work goes on being the veil, too! We had had my father’s work done in 2000 when I visited my mother in Australia. They were divorced in the 1960s and dad had remarried. We had him sealed to both of his wives. In 2010, when my 24 year old son died from brain cancer, the only active member among my five children, I felt his presence in Sacrament meeting a few weeks later. My father was with him and he was telling my dad not to worry about being in “that Mormon Church” but to come and listen to his little girl sing.
vickieJune 2, 2022
i didnt read all of this. i joined the church in 1977. i worked on myself for over a year to stop cussing. i wanted to go to the temple. by changing my life and life style i did say heavenly Father and called everyone brother and sister but also used their last name instead of mr and mrs. i will not appologize for this and feel it is okay to do. i remember people better that way by using their last name and that they are either my sister or brother in faith. when someone chooses to make fun of what i do or my church does. ...i remember one thing....i choose to be other than of this world....to act and believe outside of this world. i dont want to be like all the other worldly people. i want to be like Christ. i dont wear pioneer dresses...i do believe they were trying to make fun of the church....and trying to make fun of how we think and feel. what matters more to me ...is what i believe ....and that is in Christ. we have to expect that this is going to happen. what it makes me wonder is ...is it going to be because another mormon is going to come forth to be involved in this countries governance. and the devil is working hard to defame and create a false narative in peoples minds about latter day saints. i will be watching...
vickieJune 2, 2022
i joined the church in 1977 with my husband. we attended the temple when we could because there werent that many temples back then. we had to travel far. we went to the temple off and on and lived near one where we became the special couple. i loved it. then down the road husband had cancer surgery to remove his prostate. they nicked a nerve and he is now totally incontinent and cant go. when he rises from sitting it flows everywhere. im in continent in a different way. its amazing how we are like this and together. anyway i feel such an urge to do online temple work. i do things like grave work on finding graves and other websites and also on family search. i love it. there are many ways one can do temple work. i feel the presence of angels or family when doing these things.
RebeccaJune 2, 2022
This article was full of grace and understanding, which is very needed for parents today. It clearly offered hope to many. At the same time, I wish there was more of an emphasis on what we CAN do to fight for our children. I don't think the Lord's people really understand what we are up against, and we are not doing enough to stem the tide. What has worked for past generations is NOT enough today. Godly parenting needs to be completely revamped. Perhaps that was simply not the scope of this article. But let's not give up. We are at war, and we need to armor up and get on the battlefield.
NJune 2, 2022
America imports only 15% of its food. This crisis is man-made by our corrupt government and the world elites. Please reread the constitution, know your rights and stand up for them- It’s time to wake up! REPENT-PREPAREand PRAY
Howard & Rosalie Madsen PiersonJune 1, 2022
Definitely Not a read aloud story! Couldn't stop laughing!
DebrahJune 1, 2022
I have found when I pay my tithing I always seem to have a little extra at the end of the month to give to a charitable cause of my choosing. The Lord stretches my money to meet my needs and to consider an occasional want, too. Faith! How many times has the Lord feed me, clothed me, found me a bike for my child that I could afford, put shoes on me as a child because my parents paid tithing? I should write a book! I have been blessed with adequate for my needs and to donate to others, if I pay my tithing.
Sally SmithJune 1, 2022
I have been watching the signs for quite sometime. I have been preparing by obtain ing food, clothing , shelter, and water. Don't have enough water. Thank you for this article.
Doris WilliamsJune 1, 2022
Elder Bednar really hit it out of the park with this address to the press. My heart just swelled with his perfect answers to difficult questions, leaving no doubt as to the church's position and the reality that Jesus Christ is the head of the church. Mr Courageous, Mr. Articulate, A true Apostle of Jesus Christ.
Wendy H WoodJune 1, 2022
How can I say, "This is God's only true church," and say, "but I don't trust His representatives to do what's right?" I am among those who think that financial reserves are a good thing, and that the "rainy day fund" may be able to ease the coming deluge, which has already started.
Adam from OhioJune 1, 2022
I've started paying on my surplus properties as it says in the scripture. As I am still in debt for my education and my home that equals zero dollars. I do not have a surplus. Change my mind.
Cindy BJune 1, 2022
Jules Verne's "Around the World in Eighty Days" also had a very misinformed segment about "Mormons" when they were crossing America. As much as that book is fun, its inaccuracy is misleading and disappointing. A lesson we can learn is perhaps we shouldn't believe all we read about others cultures or beliefs until we use reliable sources, not sensationalized snippets.
Richard NelsonJune 1, 2022
This sounds like the story of Cain and Able. Cains sacrifice was rejected because it was not precisely what the Lord commanded.. it was this act that began his apostasy from God.
PatrickJune 1, 2022
There are some months I pay up to 12%, just to be sure. I love the blessings I receive and the feeling I get when I pay tithing.
Michael WidemanJune 1, 2022
Our offering (tithing) is laid upon the Lord's altar. He determines and directs its use through His called agents. What we give and what remains was already His and was His gift to us. What we give, He gives to us again "...good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over..."
Paul HMay 31, 2022
Many years ago President Spencer Kimball told of a man that had spent his "tithing money" on something other than tithing, all of which were good things, and then asked "What do you think of that?", to which President Kimball replied, "I'd say you were very generous with someone else's money." Good luck keeping the admonition to attend the temple regularly if you aren't a full tithe payer as that's a requirement to hold a current, valid recommend. . This also suggests an arrogant attitude that you know better than the Lord's servants where the funds should be allocated.
MaryannMay 31, 2022
I had not heard of this "trendy tithing" practice and I'm pretty shocked. Thank you for the reminder of the necessity and also great blessings of paying tithing in the Lord's way. I guess that's what it all boils down to--are we going to keep the commandments in the Lord's way? OR-- or are we going to trust in the "arm of flesh," accepting false doctrines, and then justifying ourselves in our own reasoning and rationalization? I am reminded of President Nelson's counsel to "Let God prevail" in our lives. There are no alternate routes to God's presence, other than the straight and narrow path. Thank you for your insights.
Neal ChristensenMay 31, 2022
Sounds like Trendy apostacy.
Ronald H SnyderMay 31, 2022
While I had never heard of this idea, the article certainly points out the flaws in the logic. I would say, in defense of the "national columnist" (whoever it is), that the people who do this were not likely to pay tithing to the Church anyway and therefore, encouraging them to give a similar amount to worthwhile charities is certainly a good idea, To presume that I am better suited to determine how the Lord's funds should be allocated is the height of effrontery. God already had sufficient resources, financial and otherwise, before instituting the law of tithing. That does not exempt us from proving our faithfulness and devotion by complying with a straightforward commandment.
Megan PickettMay 31, 2022
Well written article that expounds perfectly on the reason tithing is necessary and why people may think that trendy tithing is the way to go, but it’s not! Great job!
CallieMay 31, 2022
I think of my tithing as the Lord's money. I do not choose what the Lord does with His money.
SherylMay 31, 2022
The sifting continues. I can testify wholeheartedly to the blessings that come when you pay full and honest tithing.
Barbara ReedyMay 31, 2022
The widows mite was a true a kitchen amount but Christ did not give her the ok to use it for what or who she chose. Also it says bring all of your tithes into the Bishops warehouse. Will not be your choice if its for the poor in our wards, overseas for food, meds, water, The is a place for every dime, here or abroad.
ShaunaMay 31, 2022
I was not aware of this trend. what next??? Such thinking brought to mind a quote from President Hinkley that he gave in 1995 when introducing "The Family, a Proclamation to the world.": “With so much of sophistry that is passed off as truth, with so much of deception concerning standards and values, with so much of allurement and enticement to take on the slow stain of the world, we have felt to warn and forewarn." "Trendy" tithing, is flat out sophistry,, and deception." It also reminds me of a pattern I see in the Book of Mormon...that it is the "dissenters" of the Nephites who are the cause of much wickedness. Truly a house divided against itself cannot stand. The most pernicious attacks on our faith are those who pretend to share it
Keith WilsonMay 31, 2022
Very well stated, Joel. Some of my research of other religions has taken me to study the path of the RLDS, now Community of Christ. Recently, their leadership has bought into this trendy tithing practice and now any charitable contributions that their members make to any organization can be counted as their tithing. It is sad to see how their church currently has really been struggling financially to make up some serious shortfalls in tithing donations. Tithing blesses thrice. Once when we pay it, twice when the Church receives it, and thrice when the Church uses it for good purposes.
James LittlejohnMay 31, 2022
I find it troubling, to say the least, that there is a voice proclaiming "trendy tithing". Have we not been admonished both by the living Prophets in recent times and scripture that the concept of tithes and offerings is one given to us by a loving Heavenly ZFather so we may be allowed to participate in the blessing of Israel in these the latter days? I would no more fail to adhere to the wishes and commandments of Father than to deny my testimony of the Lord., nor deny His mercy.
HalMay 31, 2022
Great article, thank you! I'm reminded of a statement I heard years ago (I forget who said it), wherein someone told a friend that he contributed his "tithing" to causes he deemed worthy. When he asked his friend his thoughts, the reply was: "I think you are being very generous with the Lord's money." Personally, I get great satisfaction in contributing to worthy, charitable causes. However, I don't ever use the Lord's money for such contributions. I love the blessings I receive from paying tithes and other offerings. Being obedient sometimes is its own reward.
Rochelle HaleMay 31, 2022
My late stepsister was a good Christian woman who believed in tithing, but she followed this trend long before it was "trendy" and would pay percentages to people or causes of her own determination. My late mother-in-law was scrupulous in paying her tithing to the Church through the Lord's program, but she "spent our inheritance" by giving to many worthy causes as well. No matter the accolades of the world, nothing can compare with the spiritual (and sometimes material) blessings that the Lord will give us as we tithe to Him.
Ann CMay 31, 2022
Many years ago, a friend told President Kimball that instead of paying tithing to the church, he gave 10% of his income to groups or individuals who he felt needed it more. He asked President Kimball what he thought about that. President Kimball's reply was "I think you are very generous - with THE LORD'S MONEY." Enough said. If you want to donate to these causes - please feel free to do so, but do it with your own money, not that which belongs to the Lord.
Ronald BarnesMay 31, 2022
Our tithing does not belong to us to do with whatever we please, it belongs to God to do with whatever He pleases. If we give our tithing allotted money to other causes, we are doing what we please with God’s money. We are determining for Him, how His money is to be spent. We would not be pleased if someone else decided how our money is to be spent. Why would God be any different? As we sing in church: We give thee but thy own, Whate’er the gift may be, For all we have is thine alone, A trust, O Lord, from thee.
JimMay 31, 2022
I hadn't yet heard of this trend; very disturbing. Reminds me of the story of a general authority (wish I could remember who) who was approached by a wealthy member who basically said, "Want to know how I pay tithing? I put that money in a special savings account, then when someone in the ward needs some help I use that account to help them. What do you think of that?" And this general authority's wise reply: "I think you're being very generous with the Lord's money."
ShareeMay 31, 2022
I'm sure there are a lot of people throughout the world who have been very happy that the Church has had a lot of money socked away for a rainy day.
HelenCMay 31, 2022
Wow! I’m so sorry this has to even be discussed! The Law of Tithing has nothing to do with the Church’s financial standing and everything to do with the Law of Obedience and Sacrifice! It was the Pharisees who ignored the widow and her mite. It was the Savior who applauded her. It’s not about the money, people!
Andrew CurrieMay 31, 2022
In a General Conference talk way back in the 1970s (I was new in the Church, so it really stuck with me), President Kimball shared a story of a friend who explained that he "tiithed" by giving 10% of his income to charities of his own choosing. When the friend asked President Kimball what he thought about his approach to tithing, President Kimball' candidly replied, "I think you are very generous with somebody else's money." It's the Lord's money; and He has already designated how tithing is gathered and distributed (i.e., The Council on the Distrbution of the Tithes).
Dr Lynn D JohnsonMay 31, 2022
It is not their money, it belongs to God. Glad to know about the latest version of apostasy.
Tom ShawMay 31, 2022
When people comment on the wealth of the church do they understand the massive commitment that the church is required t to fulfill in building up the kingdom of God on the earth? Do they understand that there will be a new city of Zion requiring to be built on the American continent. Imagine building a city for say 10-15m people with the housing, utilities & transport network. This will cost billions when it happens.
JulieMay 31, 2022
Throughout reading this article it seems those professing this new way to pay tithes have actually missed that fast offerings are the funds the church receives for the described misdirected funds. . Many years ago I was asked to donate to a specific charity through my work. At that time I made the choice to allow the leaders of my church to decide which international charities should receive my funds, because they had a much wider view of what areas of the world needed the help over my tunnel vision of the small area of the world view I could see. And I knew 100% of my donation went to better the world not someone’s salary.
LouAnne JohnsonMay 30, 2022
Josh, you are awesome! I admire your example to all of us in following the Spirit. The far reaching effects of your work will be felt by many. Your generosity will change lives. The gift you are giving is so precious. I agree, the Lord does not act randomly. He goes to great lengths to reach all of his children. What joy you must feel to be a part of the rescue. Thank You, Brother
JuliannMay 30, 2022
Wonderful article, got chills reading about this great young man and how he is using his gifts and talents. I prefer listening to Christian music and I’m 69 years old. The passion and testimony that comes through the sincere lyrics and the uplifting orchestration/beat never fails to calm my troubled heart. I hope you find great success Josh. I believe you will.
MaryMay 30, 2022
Thank you, Josh! I felt the Spirit so strongly while reading your story and listening to and watching this video! Everything about it stirred my soul! Thank you! The song is extremely powerful! I love everything about it! You and the artists are so talented! I needed this so much!
Richard HillsMay 29, 2022
NEAR DEATH EXPERIENCES All my life I’ve had wild dreams. As a kid, I’d holler at top of my voice while asleep. I don’t understand how my mind manufactures these bizarre or scary dreams even after doing some readings in oneirology where interviews and measurements on brain electrical activity have accumulated .vast amounts of data and developed impressive theories. Oneirology seems to show that we have dreams without getting any signals from outside our own minds. So it’s completely reasonable to me that NDE’s could be a completely natural phenomena that doesn’t require miraculous explanations. Good science must of course try to eliminate bias, eagerness to find or dismiss evidence for the existence of a spirit world. If faith is required beyond science, I note that faith is something you have to have to believe in something you wouldn't believe in if you didn't have it.
Christian V MinerMay 28, 2022
Your thoughts are spot on, Kim. Excellent insight and I love the parallels you made. For me, this is a perfect assessment of the differences between the power of the priesthood and the stuff made up by Simon Magus. Brava. Thank you for your enlightening article.
TracyMay 28, 2022
I am going to think back on this when my hope lessens and remember that others are experiencing similar things and Our God is mindful of us and is Our Help. Nothing has helped me so much, comiyfrom the perspective of great hope and circumstances we are sharing together.
Allison BinghamMay 27, 2022
Yep. It is very important to follow the latest power grab by WHO which a small unelected body is amending the 2005 treaty and pushing perhaps the greatest power grab yet. These International Health Regulation Amendments dissolve our national sovereignty, our US Constitution and is positioned to over ride state and county governance. 1) https://worldcouncilforhealth.org/campaigns/stop-the-who/2022/05/stopthewho-oppose-international-health-regulation-amendments/73799/ 2) https://shabnampalesamohamed.substack.com/p/tedros-mentions-growing-resistance?s=r
Joe BrightMay 27, 2022
"Centralized Planning", in short, centralization of authority, authoritarianism and collectivism are the most dangerous of ideolgies the world has come to know. This mindset is responsible for the greatest death tolls in that history. It is mutually exclusive with "capitalism", or true free market economies, and with liberty and life itself. Why does man repeatedly return to, appeal to, and embrace, concepts of "supreme authoriy" to solve his problems? Is it an easier solution than taking accountability himself? Does the temptation to relinquish accountability, individual volition, agency, for a "guaranteed outcome" ring familiar? Liberty is essential to the eternal progress of man. There is no compromise to liberty that is not tyranny. And all tyranny must be met with resistance.
MaryannMay 26, 2022
I have come to accept the fact that the doctrine of plural marriage is just something I will never fully understand in this life. Because I have a testimony, it doesn't matter. I am committed to Jesus Christ, His gospel, and His church. I don't need to understand everything in order to treasure my testimony. I hold fast to what I understand and love. Joseph Smith was a valiant prophet of God. He translated the Book of Mormon by the gift and power of God. He was valiant and endured to the end, and I owe him so much. In the midst of so much light and truth, it would be a mistake for me to focus on my confusion regarding the principle of plural marriage. "Let us all press on!"
Jo Ann McVey OkelberryMay 26, 2022
Thank you for simply stating the facts. One of my childhood friends married at age 12 around 1955. My parents and others thought that 12 was way too young to be married, but it was legal. One of my classmates in 8th grade was married and expecting a baby. I am glad I did not choose that path. I had too much fun as a teenager and enjoyed being a teen.
JackMay 26, 2022
Didn't the Prophet just say something about treating those who leave with respect? My spouse has left the church because of issues she feels strongly about and I dont believe in any way it was to sin or anything suggested here. This is perpetuating the idea that there aren't any problems in the church or its history and that those who leave are somehow immoral.
NateMay 26, 2022
Interesting article. I don't know you so why should I give your thoughts about Joseph Smith any more weight as someone else's thoughts about Joseph Smith out there on the Internet? I was wondering, if one reason for polygamy was to "raise up seed", why didn't Joseph Smith have children with any of his polygamist wives? Where does agency come into play when an angel with a sword appeared to Joseph Smith and commanding him to practice polygamy or be destroyed? I just read about this in the church essay on polygamy, excerpt below. "During the third and final appearance, the angel came with a drawn sword, threatening Joseph with destruction unless he went forward and obeyed the commandment fully." Seems to me that the principle of agency, which Satan wanted to remove as part of his plan, was for some reason superseded by the requirements for polygamy to be restored.
DavidDMay 26, 2022
If Joseph didn't have offspring with any of his 30 to 40 additional wives, then clearly his purpose was not to have "seed." And if Joseph's purpose was to give support and welfare to single women, then wouldn't he have limited his new wives to older women? Do we really think that teenage girls needed support and welfare? I honestly don't think Joseph was a pedophile. But I also don't believe for a second that an angel would have really slayed Joseph with a sword.
S. PorterMay 26, 2022
The correct link for the Hales' website: https://josephsmithspolygamy.org/
Claudia Henderson SmithMay 26, 2022
Great information.
KathleenMay 25, 2022
Harmonious in voice and purpose!
Ann MullenMay 24, 2022
The similarities are so close that it took me several readings to understand the differences between religion one magic. Great article. Thank you.
Susan MorrisMay 24, 2022
"A 'magical' society doesn’t care about morality, kindness, or compassion, but only cares about outward behavior." An accurate description of the thoroughly corrupted ruling class of Pharisees and Sadducees during the earthly ministry of Christ. They--like the child-sacrificers of former times--maliciously slew the innocent Lamb of God in an attempt to maintain their ritualistic power over the people of occupied Israel. Thanks to the author for the thought-provoking insights.
Dave B SmithMay 24, 2022
Kim, Very well said!
JanMay 20, 2022
Love your words, love JBP. Love it all. Thanks for the reminder of the purpose of parenthood.
G K MarksMay 20, 2022
Just beautiful!! What a powerfully useful way of looking at our choices. I have been pondering this ever since I read it today.
Sandra Baird PattonMay 20, 2022
What an outstanding "read". Thank you for sharing about the grandson and then going on to quote scripture, etc. Everything you said is so true. I enjoyed reading the first article you wrote for Meridian and this one.
WallyMay 19, 2022
It is not clear to me what a parent should do as a result of the ideas in this article. It would be much stronger if it cited good parenting research and God's counsel on the subject.
HalMay 19, 2022
This is the best! I can relate to how hungry you get doing farm work. I don't recall complaining much about what we had for meals because I was always hungry after working all day. (In fact, my dad routinely said, "If you don't work, you don't eat." We knew he meant it.) I'm now in my sixties, but I still try things I know I don't like. My wife loves Brussel sprouts and makes them regularly. I always take two, eat them and think "Yep, still as nasty as they were 50 years ago." My wife and I routinely let our kids go without eating. When they complained about being hungry, we replied, "Well, you can eat what we have on the table or the next meal is breakfast (lunch, or dinner) and you can decide then if you want to eat." They were typically hungry enough to eat the next meal and none of our children ever died from missing a meal.
Laurie WhiteMay 19, 2022
I love this article! My children are raised, and I can honestly say it was a good experience. There were frustrating days. There were HARD days. The overall experience, however, was wonderful and a growing experience for both of us as parents, and for our children. I would have liked to have seen examples of fatherhood in this article, as well -- especially since the example in the beginning was an exasperating tweet from a father. Parenting is a partnership. If I had not had the support of my husband, it would have been quite a different experience. I've often said that I don't know how single parents do it. Fathers, we love you!
DavidDMay 19, 2022
For casual readers of the second edition of The Earliest Text, it would be great to have a "redline" version, showing in-context changes to the official double column version of the Book of Mormon. Any chance of that?
JayMay 19, 2022
in order for someone to even consider having an abortion for any of the reasons above... it actually needs to be legal so that it can be performed by competent doctors
C MinerMay 18, 2022
I sustain both the church's stance on abortion in the handbook, as well as giving money to whomever the First Presidency and Quorum of the 12 apostles deems worthy of it's funding. This is all about discernment. The Spirit whispers to those holders of the keys of the priesthood when it is necessary. In the Book of Mormon, the Prophet Nephi was commanded to kill Laban for God's purposes. It is no different in my mind.
Kathleen SchadeMay 18, 2022
You've done it again, Lynne. I always enjoy your articles, and this is no exception. Thanks for sharing your gifts!
LAMBMay 18, 2022
A lot of teen girls don't want to go out with their dads anymore just like some teen boys don't want to go out alone with their mom anymore. If she feels uncomfortable being out alone with an older man, it should be family going out, not alone with dad anymore. Teens start separating themselves to become individuals.
MaryannMay 18, 2022
Elder Bednar's conference talk about not heeding mocking or false reports against the church lightens the load we may sometimes feel when we hear of these things. Because we love the gospel so much, our first impulse may be to become defensive or argumentative. I love that we can "heed not what the wicked may say." Our best course of action is to live the gospel and love one another, so that people have so many reasons to respect members of the church that they dismiss false information.
MaryannMay 18, 2022
I think one of the funniest things I ever read was Dave Barry's comment that we all know brussell sprouts are really the severed heads of martians. I think there can be a fine line between encouraging our children to eat healthful foods, or becoming fanatical about it. We have enough eating disorders without being too forceful about kids eating foods they truly hate. Sometimes kids hate foods because they are actually allergic to them. Of course. cutting out junk food snacks is a good idea. But, If a child consistently hates peas, wouldn't a good alternative to offer another green vegetable? Would an adult want someone to insist they eat something they dislike?
MaryannMay 18, 2022
All I had to do was read the first 3 words: "Should I force...?" No matter what the problem or subject matter is, the answer is "no." You cannot force anyone to do anything, nor should we try. The greatest influence is love.
H NorthMay 18, 2022
"Members must not submit to, perform, arrange for, pay for, consent to, or encourage an abortion." However, it's apparently completely okay to donate millions to pro-abortion organizations like the UN and the NAACP...
stevie maireid mckennaMay 18, 2022
The repelling of the advancing Russian troops was due to the army of the Ukrainians, which was aided by NATO weaponry, not the citizens totting guns with a "cowboy" mentality to shoot em' up like we find in the US.
Doris WilliamsMay 18, 2022
The heavenly combination of Dallyn Bayles, Jenny Oaks Baker and that wonderful orchestra brings to life the inspired words of Orson F. Whitney. So grateful for our resident scholar, Daniel Peterson, who brought the complete experience to us.
AXLMay 18, 2022
This was so beautifully and eloquently taught. I love the examples and simplicity. Thank you for helping soften my heart.
CarolMay 18, 2022
This is a topic I've wondered about for a long time - how many nudges have I missed because I am too "busy" to hear. Your article has inspired me to listen better and actually follow through on my nudges. Thanks!
tfMay 18, 2022
A fine article, and the link to the musical presentation was a beautiful illustration. Jennie Oaks Baker always presents something nice. One thing that was missing was credit to the composer of the musical score, which is Rob Gardner. I've been sharing this article with friends.
CarolMay 18, 2022
Love your articles whatever they are about! This one brought back lots of memories. Another thing to try when introducing new foods is to only give a very small portion - sometimes only a bite. A kid will be more likely to eat 1 bite than a whole pile of something. It worked in our family along with all the other suggestions you gave. Love your daughter's inventiveness of putting the green beans in your sleeve. :)
CarolMay 18, 2022
Thank your for this video it truly shares the feeling of family history work and the blessings in the temple. Taking a family name to the temple is the best feeling ever!
zeke abramsMay 18, 2022
My Heavenly Father gave me talents and abilities to use for the Glory of the Kingdom of God during my probation on Earth. In 1994 I became a member of His Church; in 2001 I moved to Brasil where I have been ever since. In the twenty-one years, I've been here, I have never learned the Portuguese language. Instead, I spent nineteen years teaching English to professional men and woment, the lessons for whom I composed myself. I did not teach from the available books and texts which propound the British English; nay, I taught American English, which is a bastardized replication of the True English language from Britain. I am a teacher; I was called to teach in 1972 while sitting in the car, waiting for my wife to leave her floor as a nursing assistant, to let me take her home. The Lord spoke to me so clearly as I patiently waited in the car. "You're going to teach. Get an education in the Scriptures." I sort of did that... but now, the value of that calling on my life is a reality. But I need to learn the language of this people, in whose midst, I expect to see the last day of my life on planet Earth. The testimony I read in Lynne Perry Christofferson's short message is a true inspiration for me to get off my duff and learn Portuguese, that I may offer something to the Ward of Believers here in Assis, a medium-sized community of farming and industry, in the countryside of Sao Paulo state. Thank you, Lynne...
Alexander PowellMay 17, 2022
This fear of an approaching nationwide abortion ban is all the Dem's have going for them at this point. Every policy of Biden's has been an abject failure and yes, there's a global recession coming brought on by Jo printing money like it's toilet paper to meet a pandemic shortage. Given there is nothing polling for the Dem's other than this fear, this won't go away before November mid-terms. Hmm, the Chinese can see all the munitions, howitzers and assorted equipment flowing to Ukraine and you can bet they will strike Taiwan while *the USA doesn't have the weapons to fight another conflict*, It's all coming together now, forming like a perfect storm...
Howard & Rosalie Madsen PiersonMay 17, 2022
So beautiful! Thanks for the back story, too. The setting is perfect!
Annie JensenMay 17, 2022
Thanks for the reminder of what the Supreme Court’s role truly is.
JuneMay 16, 2022
Thank you so much for this article! The Lord knew exactly that I needed to read this. I appreciate the peace, insight, clarity, and comfort this article has bought me. Thank you again!
Naida koellikerMay 16, 2022
Love this. Thanks
Annette MillerMay 16, 2022
Beyond marvelous. Stirring. Lovely. Thank you most ardently.
MickeyMay 15, 2022
So many red flags here. The dad wants to repair his relationship with the child by forcing her to engage in activities HE likes, and that kids should please adults. He sounds emotionally empty and self serving. I think the mom needs to protect her daughter from her father. He doesn’t sound safe. I would not require my child be alone with him at all.
Angela MannMay 15, 2022
I can’t love this article enough. This is exactly what my heart and soul know as truth. Ya know when you’re in the ocean at the beach, and the water isn’t very clear and something bumps up against you and you get that icky feeling like you need to get out of the water now….the lack of gospel doctrine truths being taught or supported in church and at home feels a lot like that.
Robert StarlingMay 14, 2022
I value greatly not only spiritual inspiration, but also reason and logic. This author has combined both in a masterful essay, that in my humble opinion should be required reading (and required discussing) for all Christians, and especially all Latter-day Saints. We sing "We Thank Thee O God for a Prophet", but what is the value if we are not valiant in obeying and teaching to our children and to others the truths that God has revealed through our prophets? Our Father has given us revelatory guidance for our happiness and our benefit, that we might not be "tossed to and fro with every wind of doctrine." Copy and forward this message to parents and others, everywhere. Amen, and Amen.
ElizabethMay 14, 2022
“Should I force my daughter to do activities with her dad?” Are you joking? Why would anyone do such a thing? You must be aware that your daughter may have very good—-even self-protective—-reasons for avoiding him. Why, then, would you force her into a potentially harmful situation?
Kristene LindorfMay 13, 2022
Wow... I love it. Where do I sign up?
Kate PiersantiMay 13, 2022
I was recently challenged about teaching my children the whole gospel as they grew up. Why didn't I expose them to other philosophies as they grew? This article is so timely and one I will share with all that think I am brainwashing my children, when I know I am doing what is my responsibility as a parent.
Claudia Henderson SmithMay 13, 2022
Very interesting article and great logical conclusions!! Good job, Scot.
Duane BoyceMay 13, 2022
Amen. A wonderful article.
Web TasarımMay 13, 2022
I just like the helpful information you provide in your articles
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 11, 2022
Thank you for making me feel better. Four of my seven children have left the Church, and I always beat myself up by assuming all responsibility for not teaching my children correctly. Now I do feel better.
Craig FrogleyMay 11, 2022
You always say it with power and truth. Thank you, once again. What you have written is TRUE!! At ONE ment!
Candy Lee HuntMay 11, 2022
Excellent, hopeful, insightful and inspiring article, from a parent who has been there. Thank you! I have already shared it with friends.
katyMay 11, 2022
This is brilliant. Thank you!
Rebecca BMay 11, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. Despite all we know in the gospel, it’s so hard for my spouse and I to not blame ourselves. Were we too strict? If we hadn’t pushed so hard to get them to go to church, etc… This article gave me both comfort and perspective. Well done!
HalMay 11, 2022
Thank you for this article, Joseph! This is a tremendous help to my wife and me as we navigate the varying levels of apostacy of our beloved children, siblings, nieces / nephews, etc. We determined long ago to stay the course regardless of the choices our other family members make and have found joy in knowing we have the Greatest Power in the universe who is aware of our struggles and is helping us on a daily basis.
KarenMay 11, 2022
I loved this article! Spot on for me, it rings true.
LaurieMay 11, 2022
Thank you for writing and sharing this. These topics have been on my mind frequently for years and I appreciate this perspective on Atonement and the the insights that came to me while reading it.
Chuck DeWittMay 11, 2022
Great article but,,, BYU has a few teachers pushing Critical Race Theory and other junk. Be cautious. They are trying to clean things up but quite a few parents have been devasted. What happened to Elder Holland last year after his talk. Cwik on youtube is informative.
John R CarpenterMay 11, 2022
The reality of mortal life is that it is not easy. It was never designed to be easy. It was designed to help us experience mortal existence and how to over come things based on FAITH in Our God and His Son, Our Savior. "And if we should die before our journey is through, Happy Day! All is Well!"
CPMay 11, 2022
Profound and important points, written with an enlightened perspective Thank you for sharing your experiences and thoughts with us.
MarieMay 11, 2022
I can't tell you how much I needed this! Thank you. Nothing has touched my heart for a long time like this article has. You've helped me. You've done Atonement work.
PennieMay 11, 2022
Amen! This war is real and at times viscous. But it's true, Christ is with us, so what or who can be against us. Twenty plus years of prayers and pleading for a lost son, resulted in a terrible injury that left him disabled, but finally humbled. In the intervening years he has done so much good. When the day came that I walked through the temple doors with him, I could hardly believe it. If the Savior can redeem this lost soul, He can redeem anyone. They need faithful parents who are determined to follow Christ no matter what.
Linda Van CottMay 11, 2022
An AMAZING article for bringing peace to so many hurting families. I felt hopeless before, but now see things differently--in a way that helps me move on with hope and comfort. Thank you for these empowering insights.
Kimball RasmussenMay 11, 2022
Brother Grenny, This is excellent and so very well articulated. Thank you. One particular line of your words inspired me to write this short stanza: Life is our school, And pain is our teacher, With much better sermons, Than we get from a preacher! I also liked your perspective on “The Plan.” It is helpful to recognize that “The Plan” is associated with “Happiness” only twice in the scriptures; yet, “The Plan” is associated with “Redemption” ten times! Faith in the redemption of Christ comes first.
Lexie StatonMay 11, 2022
Thank you Brother Grenny. There is nothing more important to me than the gospel and building an eternal family. What you wrote has helped me to continue to change my perspective. I have had some personal experiences similar to yours that have helped me find peace and clarity amid disappointments experienced within our family; your article helped me to clarify some things and receive a boost, which is always welcome.
Tom TomenyMay 11, 2022
Wow, what a great article. I needed this, today, and every day, and I suspect everyone else does as well!
JuliannMay 9, 2022
Love the analogy. Powerful and humbling. Thank you. The day after Mother’s Day is the perfect time to post and read and share.
MaryMay 9, 2022
Thank you for this reminder. I laughed and cried at the truth of your descriptions. Watching my daughter recently enter motherhood for the first time, I had a shiver of trepidation for the life of servitude and labor that lies ahead. But there is no greater or more worthwhile labor. Your words add a reminder of the spiritual value of our maternal efforts.
ShayMay 9, 2022
Tremendous article. Thank you!
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 6, 2022
This article makes me appreciate my own mother and my Heavenly Mother even more. Thank you for sharing your story. I am sure your mom is smiling and proud of you.
Mary janeMay 6, 2022
Love you
lindaMay 5, 2022
Heartbreaking and heartwarming.
KathleenMay 5, 2022
Refreshing to highlight the positive!
G WyneMay 4, 2022
Thank you for this! Understanding and believing the doctrine of a Heavenly Mother has been essential for me personally to feel the depth of God's love. I am so grateful to know of Her existence, and that She loves me!
Vivian McConkie AdamsMay 4, 2022
Very funny. Always love your column.
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 4, 2022
This article is so fascinating. I learned so much. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and understanding with us.
Linda LMay 4, 2022
Thank you, for this beautiful article. It is precisely what I needed at this particular time. While I am a strong believer in miracles, your article gave me a clarity and inspiration that will expand and direct my faith experiences in more effective directions. My random discovery of your article has been a miracle to me this very day.
RozyMay 4, 2022
Is there any other way to buy your book? I refuse to purchase through Amazon, but would like to have a copy.
Julie Coulter BellonMay 4, 2022
Thank you so much for the recommendation, Patti! I will definitely check it out.
Sarah HinzeMay 3, 2022
Our ticket app is working now at www.rememberingheavenmovie.com
BillMay 3, 2022
Interesting article if your a middle aged divorcee. What have you got for a widowed senior citizen?
Grant NicholasMay 3, 2022
I have noticed, particularly with widows and widowers, that if the wife dies first, it's tougher on the man. He is in a sense a loner except for his partner. If the man dies first the wife quickly grasps onto her network of friends. They all sit together at church
Ronald BarnesMay 3, 2022
Almost your entire article was about being single after divorce. That is not my case. I am 67 years old and have been married for 45 years. Within a few years I will also be single again; not because of divorce, but because my wife is dying of a terminal disease. I went from high school to the mission field to marriage two months later. I have never lived alone either and I do not look forward to it. While I can relate to some of the things you mentioned, many others I can’t. Maybe you, or another contributor, will someday post an article addressing us (or in my case, future) old widows/widowers.
HelenCMay 2, 2022
I recently felt the power of this change when I responded to a thread from an evangelical friend suggesting I would be safer as a “true Christian” by stating I was convinced that The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints was precisely that. The conversation ended with no further argument.
MatthewMay 1, 2022
This is pretty common in lots of marriages. 50% of which end in divorce for the same reason. They don’t know how to communicate. I’d reference a serious study of Ammon in the BoM and the movie “Fireproof”. If you understand these principles, you’ll heal your marriage or end it. Either way, you’ll learn a lesson and have better results going forward. I’m rooting for you saving the marriage though
DarrelApril 30, 2022
Will it be made into a DVD to buy?
Susan GraceApril 29, 2022
how and where can Californians see this movie?
Susan GraceApril 29, 2022
Oh this sounds like a wonderful movie. I have several people who would benefit from seeing it and a grandson that needs to see it. But we live in California. How to see it?
DWBApril 29, 2022
Ticket purchase app doesn’t work properly
Connie ComptonApril 29, 2022
I’ve always been conscious of the Lord’s tender mercies, but your expression of “Love Notes” truly warms my heart. It seems to pinpoint exactly what my heart feels towards my Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ as I remember they know my name…and my heart. Thank you for the reminder.
Erika PechacekApril 29, 2022
I know that these experiences are real. When I had a deadly form of cancer, I experienced my arrival in the Spirit World. A large number of people, all dressed in white, were dancing and celebrating my arrival. One lady came up to me and said "finally, finally you are here to teach us. We have been waiting so long already". Then my grandfather came and said "Not so fast, you know that we have to have permission first". With that he took me somewhere and then talked to someone, came back and said "sorry, but it is not your time yet. You have to go back to earth to do some important work".With that I recognized my environment again and lived (now 5 years) after that experience.
Rebecca WardApril 29, 2022
For those of us not on Utah, any plans to put this out on DVD?
PattiApril 29, 2022
I have some of your books and love the stories. I wish I lived in Utah to be able to see this movie. When will it play elsewhere or pay online for viewing?
Beverly Barnt MooreApril 29, 2022
Yes last week I received a love message from my Lord in a strange form. I awoke to find the tiny diamond birthstone missing from my mother's ring. I was heartbroken. My daughter gave me the ring with my birthstone and mother's and her and her brothers over 30 years ago. Later I noticed something on the bathroom floor and picked it up but without glasses I wasn't sure it was even more than cat litter. Later I went back with glasses on and looked again.......yes? maybe? I taped it to a paper and took it and the ring to a jeweler who confirmed it was my tiny diamond. Now if that isn't a message of love I just don't know what is. HE also answers my prayers for more time to do family history every time I get sick. I KNOW HE LOVES ME!
Bette R HarpApril 29, 2022
When can I buy this? I'm nowhere near Utah. Please, my family needs to see it!
HalApril 29, 2022
I loved this article, especially the story about little Alan. Many years ago my friend told me a similar story about his adopted son. Once when they were having a family home evening lesson on temples, my friend showed a photo of the celestial room in the Salt Lake Temple. He asked his then 5-year-old son if he knew what the picture was. His son answered, "Yes, that's where you and mom got married." My friend was startled because neither he nor his wife had ever had this discussion with their young son before. My friend said, "That's right! How did you know that?" His son pointed to a window in the picture and said, "Because I was standing right there and watched you." I have had similar experiences with my own children. I have no doubt that we have memories of our heavenly home buried deep in our souls.
Debra M.April 29, 2022
Loved this! The idea of a love note is so special. I had an experience maybe 4 years ago that stands out--I have a granddaughter that was due to receive her Young Womanhood award in her sacrament meeting, Her mom was not active, and I was told to meet her at the building--she had a ride with a neighbor. I got there, and no granddaughter. The meeting started and she had been told by the bishop he would give the award before the sacrament. I saw him looking at the doors watching for her. The sacrament had just finished when she walked in , almost in tears. Her ride had been late, and she was sure it was too late. I was about in tears also, because this award meant so much to her, and she had persevered to get it despite the difficulties in always needing rides to meetings and activities. I just keep looking at the bishop, willing him in my mind to call Zoe up and praying mightily that he would see her. After the speakers were done he called her up to the podium and gave her the award--then I really did cry with relief and gratitude that there was a bishop who listened to promptings and our hearts. My granddaughter and I had a private joke whenever we witness these tender mercies--"The Church is true!" and that was the first thing she said when she sat down after receiving her award. Maybe a small thing, but to us it was great! It was a witness to us that Heavenly Father knows us so well.
Dorrie KeithApril 28, 2022
I feel compelled to share a couple of "love notes from the Lord. It was morning, I had hit rock bottom, emotionally. After watching my husband's mind dwindle away from dementia, going through the Paradise fire in a very intense way, being isolated because of the covid pandemic, being a full-time caretaker and then widowed after nearly 70 years of marriage, I had reached the end of my endurance. I tearfully and desperately prayed for some relief, something to pull me out of the despair I was sinking into. Soon, the phone rang, and it was a representative from Social Security telling me she had cut through the red tape and obtained my survivor's benefits plus back pay. I had been struggling with them for several weeks and had almost given up. Of course, that brightened my spirits considerably but within an hour I could feel myself sinking again. I glanced out the window and right in front of it was a wild tom turkey, looking up at me with his scrawny neck stretched out. He was trying to figure out if a real person was there, so I stood very still. Along came his hen and four adolescent poults, acting like typical teenagers. The family then put on such a comedy act that I dissolved into tears...of laughter. What strange angels the Lord sends sometimes to do His work!
Loren DaltonApril 28, 2022
Great article! Thanks for reminding us all just how much God is aware of us and that He is constantly sending us these little reminders and you have done a wonderful job of reminding of these little things that we may otherwise overlook are really messages from Him to us!
Taylor StonelyApril 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your experiences! I laughed and I cried, because I can totally relate to how the desires of my heart were seemingly crushed, only to have the Lord intervene with his love note to me.
Elaine MathewsApril 28, 2022
Your article made me smile all the way through! I now know what to call the little but amazing personal reminders that tell me my hopes and thoughts are known to the Lord. Just as you said- they’re not earth-shattering, desperate pleadings but more ‘if only I could, wouldn’t it be lovely’ musings that when they come to pass, feel like a warm hug from home that remind me I’m loved. I also feel that in acknowledging and thanking Him for sweet treasures enables me to see His hand each day more clearly.
ColinApril 27, 2022
This is beautiful and rings with truth. Thank you.
Ronald BarnesApril 27, 2022
I have read and heard many near death experiences. One of the most profound, was a woman who had been born blind, but who was able to see what was happening around her body during her experience.
Mariam KitchenApril 27, 2022
Thank you!
Marjohna MadsenApril 27, 2022
Thank you for being willing to share and help. Some traumas are long, slow corrosive patterns of aloneness, abandonment or negative relationships. There is hope in Christ’s message of worth to each soul. He atoned first each one.
Linda SpoonerApril 26, 2022
How about an article regarding the men/women that are left behind after many years of marriage. A stage that many of us have never gone thru before of being alone.
Paul HApril 26, 2022
With plural wives being a celestial principle and the diversity we see among the races of our Heavenly Father's children, is it not possible that there are Heavenly Mothers, and not just one from which all our spirits sprang? The scriptures teach there was a spiritual creation before a physical one and children look like their parents. This concept strengthens my faith; it does not offend it.
KathleenApril 26, 2022
Very well told and thank you for sharing. It's the same time in my life that I found the gospel, 50 years previously. Sure glad that I said, "Yes," to being baptized! It's made all the difference to my blessed and rich life on the Gospel/Covenant Path.
CarolineApril 26, 2022
This is excellent. And truth be told we don’t really know that much more about Heavenly Father and it is enough. What we know we can love , and we can trust that we have all eternity to become reacquainted with our Parents. .
Roger ConnorsApril 26, 2022
Seth, thanks for the comment and reference to Gospel Principles--one of the best and most reliable sources, ever! I have a chapter devoted to "why" we obey and you hit the nail on the head--the love of God.
Roger ConnorsApril 26, 2022
Hello, Ann! Yes, one in the same. Thank you for your comment!
Kimberly AnneApril 26, 2022
Great article and profound thoughts! God’s timetable is divine and perfect - we just need to be willing to have faith that the right things will happen in His timing.
Beccah GerberApril 26, 2022
Thank you for this beautifully written article! I love the inspiring truths you shared about Heavenly Mother.
Seth ConnorsApril 26, 2022
Great article. While we can’t forget the Lord loves effort, we also need to remember that our efforts don’t work in the “cosmic vending machine” way. It’s no wonder Gospel Principles proposes the obedience motivation hierarchy as 3- Fear of Punishment 2- Want of Blessings 1-Love of God. Often external punishment and blessings come far after the effort has been given which might demotivate the obeyer. But internal love of god is a source that doesn’t go out nor need immediate results.
Richard ScottApril 26, 2022
Jessica, thank you for your wonderful article. I’m sitting in a cafe in Lisbon, Portugal casually thumbing through my emails when the title of your article caught my eye. I am a lifetime church member from “pioneer stock” and to your point have never fully considered or pondered the wonderful doctrine you have written about. It truly is a great thing to ponder upon our Mother in Heaven. You raise many points that have heightened my perspective and broadened my horizon. I knew the Gospel Topics essay was there, but until now have never read and pondered it. Thank you for your gentle encouragement to give this doctrine the attention it deserves!
Laurie PollardApril 25, 2022
This is a very inspiring article. I was thrilled to learn more about the life and heart of Wilford Woodruff. I was overcome by the Spirit while reading it. Thank you for sharing your valuable research on this extraordinary man of God.
JeanieApril 25, 2022
Ideas on how to act, based on general church teachings might include getting ready by drawing closer to the Savior, being kind, and remembering that everyone on this earth made the right decision in the pre-existence, and deserves the chance to hear the truth taught, humbly and lovingly.
Laura BeauchampApril 23, 2022
Thanks, Dr. Peterson. Your insight and advice are always right on!
NicoleApril 23, 2022
Thank you for this beautifully written article. I've been praying for a way to help someone I love, this information is an answer to that prayer.
DebiApril 23, 2022
Thanks for justifying my life. 52 years in virtually the same situation. Your advice was healing for me.
MaryannApril 22, 2022
I appreciate the spirit and message of this article, but I wish the author had expanded a little more on his suggestion that we should be prepared and that we should act. Suggestions on HOW to do this would be helpful.
MaryannApril 22, 2022
I think this woman has answered her own question regarding whether she can have a happy, rewarding life in her loveless marriage. She obviously does NOT have a happy life, or she wouldn't be asking the question. There is a huge difference between having a happy life as a single, widowed, or divorced person and having a happy life in a marriage where she states there is no emotional intimacy, NOR any effort on her husband's part to have a close, loving marriage. The children are grown, so the fact that he is a "good father" doesn't seem applicable to keeping the marriage going. I feel sad that this woman doesn't end this marriage and seek for companionship with someone who cherishes her. Living in these conditions would be hell on earth for many.
AshleyApril 22, 2022
This is exactly what I needed. So hopeful and inspiring! Thank you for always sharing such a real, relatable message!
Carbine WilliamsApril 22, 2022
As always it's best to just ignore the advances of the adversary, past history has shown that anything anti LDS just strengthens our position and allows the opposite forces to just whither and die. On the day of Judgement those that wrongly persecuted the Church will gain their eternal rewards.
Gloria BarrettApril 22, 2022
It sounds like this might be something worth taking a look at. Possibly foster opportunities to do some missionary work.
RaLee HallApril 21, 2022
Thank you for this touching, well thought out article. I appreciate the time and effort you put into it.
MelodyApril 21, 2022
Beautiful singing & great msg.
BertApril 21, 2022
The message of this article was exactly what I needed today. Thank you Anne.
Diane IrwinApril 21, 2022
This quote from Jeffrey R. Holland really spoke to me, followed by your closing remarks. This article is very empowering!!!
KathleenApril 21, 2022
Talk about "all's well that ends well" and "happily ever after." Thank you for continuing this story to the end. Love your down to earth writing style.
KathleenApril 20, 2022
How incredibly timely and filled with symbolism was your experience. Thank you for sharing the story through words, pictures and testimony.
Ann SiggardApril 20, 2022
Is this the Roger Connors who was Stake President of Murrieta? I love this explanation of divine compensation! I also love to see the many patterns in the scriptures of God's dealings with his children. Thank you for your article.
HalApril 20, 2022
What a great story with a "Hallmark" ending! I loved this mini-trilogy and all the other stories you tell. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Hans S.April 20, 2022
Brother Bradshaw, I truly hope that the absence of comments to your article is not an indication that it wasn't read. I am astounded as to the volume of notes and sources you used and amazed at the time it must have taken you to put this all together. Very interesting and scholarly, to say the least. Thank you for your dedication in presenting this. For me, it was time well spent.
JaneApril 20, 2022
I find it interesting that the year 2020 ( 20+20=40)
Karell BinghamApril 20, 2022
Beautiful and tender! Thank you for your amazing understanding of the love of God!
Amy Ludwig VanDerwaterApril 20, 2022
Thank you so much for including our new IF THIS BIRD HAD POCKETS on your wonderful list! I welcome your readers to visit me at my blog, The Poem Farm, where I have been sharing poems and writing ideas for young writers since 2010. This month (April 2022), I am sharing a new poem inspired by a popular proverb each day. Happy National Poetry Month! Peace, Amy LV
Kathleen N JonesApril 19, 2022
I know for sure we have a Heavenly Mother, my second daughter when only almost 4 years old, asked me a question as to why I didn't do a certain thing, "like my other mother." When I replied I was her mother, she corrected me saying "No, my mother in heaven she use to . . . . all the time." I have left out what it was she did in respect of such holy things. That daughter is now 48 years old.
Patti HouseholderApril 19, 2022
If you really like this book, then you should listen to her Podcast, Sunday on Monday, at LDS Magazine. I have listened each week for a year and a half as she and two guests discuss the Come Follow Me lesson for that week. Since she's studied Hebrew, she brings new light into the meaning of many Old Testament scriptures.
BonnieApril 18, 2022
This is such a phenomenal idea and I really love it. Just one question. Is it too late if our 10 grandchildren range in age from 14-23? We have good long-distance relationships but want to learn & do more.
Barbara MattatallApril 17, 2022
I am responding again. I was asked to participate in our Easter Sacrament Meeting today chosing any subject concerning Easter. Elder Hafen's podcast was great fodder for my presentation. I would not have been able to do this without the written word. He gave me much to think about and research for my presentation. Thank you.
SherryApril 16, 2022
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Having the transcripts back is wonderful!
Mary DobbsApril 16, 2022
For hearing impaired, transcripts are such a blessing. Very few podcasts are available to us. It was a blessing to have a transcript.
Peter F SchlegelApril 16, 2022
Wally - thank you for being so open and brutally honest. Not only that, but also reminding each of us who to turn to and how. I too served as a bishop and had that same experience- more than once! I truly enjoy your thoughts and experiences and firmly believe they are a great help to many.
Jim TerryApril 16, 2022
To me the real question is “our there Heavenly Mothers.” If a man can be sealed to multiple wives on earth, it would make sense that God would also have multiple wives and that our spirits didn’t all come from the same mother. Just a thought.
Marsha NewmanApril 16, 2022
Thank you for this excellent piece of history and for being to my awareness the spiritual quest of General Gordon. I know that God values humility and simplicity and I feel certain He would have wanted the sacred tomb of resurrection to be a quiet, simple place for spiritual reflection. I thoroughly enjoyed this Easter offering!
DavidApril 16, 2022
Thank you brother Peterson. I can never get enough of the witnesses of our Savior. How glad I am for those who honor our Lord and defend truth under any circumstances.
KathleenApril 16, 2022
Too true! Probably heard a lot of, "Are we there yet?", as well.
OscarApril 15, 2022
I couldn't stop clicking.....the photos and essay are very profound and provoking. Muchas Gracias
Murray ChristmanApril 15, 2022
Hello, A friend of mine recalls his father using a medicine for bronchitis and on the bottle was an image of Brigham Young. He can't recall the name of the product. Can you shed light on this? thank you
JosephApril 15, 2022
As you so eloquently stated, " our mortal landscape is littered with gems". We seem to pass them by focusing on the dross, when our treasures are left aside forgotten or unnoticed when they are accessible and for the taking.
Beth TeeplesApril 15, 2022
I accept! Thank you so much.
MaryannApril 15, 2022
In some instances, maybe it would be helpful for this couple to speak privately together before disciplining. This wouldn't be possible all the time, but if they could come to an agreement BEFORE disciplining, they could show a united front. They might even say to their children, "Your mom (or dad) and I need to talk about this." This allows time to cool off and shows unity. Carefully Avoid words that make the other parent the "bad guy" or one to be feared.
Marion PomeroyApril 15, 2022
I once heard a recording of a talk by President Kimball's doctor who had accompanied the prophet in a later visit to the Holy Land. When the party was standing outside the Gatden Tomb a photgrapher wanted to take a picture of President Kimball alone in that setting. As the others in the group were moving away from the prophet, and noticing the unevenness of the ground, Arthur Haycock, President Kimball's secretary said, "Be careful, President!" The prophet replied, "It's OK, Arthur. I'm used to walking on holy ground."
KBApril 14, 2022
Oh, my goodness. I’ve been in this man’s shoes and nearly threw away my marriage over a work infatuation. It was a huge eye-opener to me about my coping mechanisms, weaknesses, and faults. My husband and I were working odd shifts and rarely saw each other. He was in law enforcement and was often tired and worn out when had a moment together. I was in an auxiliary presidency and the responsibilities were taxing and often deprived my husband of my attention. I allowed boredom and loneliness to invade my marriage when a man paid me intense interest at work. At first it was just familiarity; then it became flirtation and fixation. I resented my husband and his minor faults and relished the compliments and attraction from a man I had nothing in common with and who would not have crossed my mind or my heart in any other circumstance. I finally realized it had to stop and asked for help from my bishop and my husband. We began working on improving the trust in our relationship and I began to actively avoid any and all situations where temptation was present. I left my job. I recommitted not just my heart but also my mind to my husband and shut down my tendency to fantasize about anyone else, ever. My husband got a different job, somewhat miraculously, that allowed us much more time together. Out of the ashes we have built a much more positive, loving, trusting relationship. And that began when I asked God to help me want to repent and to recognize my inherent weaknesses, then got to work on changing my mental and emotional habits. Also, I understand depression and anxiety - deeply. Your wife needs more help with her mental health than she is getting, and she won’t be able to be there for you until she is healthier. Make her health a priority and actively pursue it.
Amy FoxApril 14, 2022
I was deeply moved by your article. We have children who suffer from mental illness, including bipolar. It's a vicious disease and I'm so thankful that you have honored your daughter and helped bring meaning to her life. Thank you for sharing that there can be beauty, even in darkness.
Judy PetersonApril 14, 2022
This is so exciting! I’m grateful that good people of the world are sharing and appreciating the light that our Father has given to all nations according to His wisdom!
BonnieApril 14, 2022
I enjoyed the analogy! Wonderfully written and a message to remember! Thank you!
Carlos RoundyApril 14, 2022
The perfect model of Heavenly Mother is Mother Eve, the mother of all living. Joseph Smith always referred to Eve as glorious Eve. He saw Adam and Eve in vision. He said Adam was a perfect man and Eve was a glorious woman.
HelenCApril 14, 2022
A powerful parable! Thank you.
Robert HalesApril 13, 2022
Thanks for the transcript. This message helped to confirm and reinforce my recent thoughts on the atonement.
maryApril 13, 2022
Our Lord and Savior taught with simplicity using parables to reach everyone. But I am always so impressed by the vocabulary and command of language when I read the words of those who have come before us....what a beautiful way to defend our disciples and hopefully we will defend them too. I thank you for your inspiring message.
Kathie CudeApril 13, 2022
Thank you for sharing! I needed this today and this is such an important message for us all to keep in the back of our minds.
Boanerge RubalcavaApril 13, 2022
I do not want to write of the electrical cars, that for sure will be good for all of us, as well as many other things, but believe me we can go to those things with the help of the fossil fuels, and we will NEVER accomplish anything in that sense if we insist in the idiocy of blaming the CO2 (fossil fuels) and banning their use. Please, stop for a moment, read, think, ponder and act accordingly without IGNORANCE AND WITHOUT FEAR. Blame if you want of being a little bit malicious if I tell you: if you want to stop the global warming, just TURN THE SUN OFF. ADDENDUM What follows are examples to show the absurdity of putting the blame in the CO2 For 128 years the temperatures in different cities of the world have been measured; these are the data for three od those cities: New York, Albany and West Point. In New York in those 128 years the temperature increased in 5 degrees Fahrenheit In Albany NY, the temperature decreased in 0.5 degrees Fahrenheit In West Point the temperature DID NOT change. Albany is 140 miles from New York, West Point is in the middle. If it is a global warming, and the CO2 is in the atmosphere equally distributed, how come New York increased its warming, Albany decreased it and West Point did not change? A football court is made of 100 yards. Think about the gases’ concentrations in the atmosphere (the football court). With just the Nitrogen and Oxygen we would reach the 99 yard, leaving the last yard mainly for Argon (O.8 yard) and the rest of the gases among them CO2, only in the painted line. Actually, the CO2 would be just 3/8 of an inch, and its increase in more than 60 years, 1/8 of an inch.
Roberta HarrisApril 13, 2022
Another beautifully written article by Becky. Yes... those small things done can be like small stones flung into a pond that results in ever enlarging rings of water going on and on. That is how good is spread. Thank you Becky.
RoZann BakerApril 13, 2022
Thanks for these beautiful insights! I enjoy all your articles but don't let you know how much I appreciate them and learn from them. Happy Easter Brother Peterson!
LewisApril 13, 2022
In many ways, your thoughtful and beautiful articles are small things that have created tremendous ripples in the lives of others. I am grateful that you take the time to share your experiences and insights with us. Bless you for the good you do.
PaulineApril 12, 2022
I agree. I copy it for highlighting. Love your insights and Bruce Hafen is a favorite of mine!
Margaret DomanApril 12, 2022
Becky, your article inspired me to re-read a similar sentiment that my beloved father had posted on his closet door: KINDNESS. … I shall pass through this world but once. If, there be any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do, let me do it now. Let me not defer it or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again. Love and admiration from your Rotary friend and Rising Star Outreach volunteer.
Gloria PopeApril 12, 2022
Becky, beautiful article. Thanks for reminding us of the "ripple effect". Bless you!
Marcia MorganApril 12, 2022
Nice article. Also, Tauyna is great and I love hearing her testimony alongside yours.
Doug GouldApril 12, 2022
Thanks, Robert, for this insightful article. I was one of your aficionados that bought your "Nothing Down" book, and admired you in more than one of your seminars. Though I'm sorry for what you went through when you lost your Sundance home, it's good to know how well you recovered as you worked through that tragedy with your hand in the Lord's.
Haze KompelienApril 12, 2022
I join with many others, thank you for the transcript returning.
StefanieApril 12, 2022
Thank you so much for listening to your readers and putting the written transcript back!!! It’s WONDERFUL!!!
GrannyApril 12, 2022
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and Bro. Hafen's thoughts. And THANK YOU ffor the transcript. Your column is one of my favorites--so insight filled-- and I've mourned not being able to read it.
HelenCApril 12, 2022
Your indictment of modern exposure to death is well justified. As I study the grieving process I realize its impact on modern mental health. One question. Are you referring to “pseudo-Clement” or Barnabas as the elusive witness?
Enlightened one.April 12, 2022
I really wish LDS people would stop using the word "Easter" which is a version of "Oestre" the pagan goddess of fertility. Easter is pagan! Bunnies and eggs are part of the pagan celebrations used for centuries. Time to call it what it is...Resurrection Day!
Barbara MattatallApril 12, 2022
Thank you. It is so much more meaningful when I can read it and ponder the contents.
Barbara FApril 11, 2022
How beautiful and inspiring.
JeanApril 11, 2022
I so totally enjoy any article written by Becky Douglas. I was about to close without writing anything but then felt I could do "that small thing." Thank you for your articles!
HalApril 11, 2022
Thank you for this insightful article. I have never given a second thought as to how my donations to the Church were spent. If anything, I have occasionally felt the Church was overly-generous. I have sometimes been guilty of un-Christ-like judgement of those who received Church assistance. Especially (in some cases) where the recipients appeared not only ungrateful, but even critical of the assistance they had received. I am grateful for Church leaders' financial wisdom in receiving and dispensing sacred funds.
Linda JaffaApril 11, 2022
I have loved listening to your podcast so much. They are inspiring and enlightening. I just went to your website and am shocked that I can't print out some quotes to use as I am teaching my class! I am really disappointed....
Joni HiltonApril 11, 2022
I absolutely love this article-- the far-reaching effects of that one idea to play the violin! Becky, you are such an example to all-- you have been through great trials but have turned your life into an instrument of good (no pun intended).
Beth CampbellApril 11, 2022
Out of Small Things
Meagan AndersonApril 11, 2022
Meagan, I know how much you love the painting hung over your fireplace and it's message. I thought of all the sweet things you do to make a difference in the lives of your kids, husband, neighbors, friends, both old and new, students and ward members and me. I know you will love this article. Mom
Patricia WintersApril 11, 2022
This article was so beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
Helen HederApril 10, 2022
Why can' I see the printed parts of the podcast?
DenApril 10, 2022
I believe that those on the other side of the veil watch over and comfort us. I had a dream of my mother and aunt (sisters) many years ago. We we're in my aunts living room and it was so real I actually asked them if I had died and were we in heaven. I still remember the feelings of love that washed over me. It was a hard time and their love and support really comforted me.
JocieApril 10, 2022
Advice about not running around and gossiping is EXCELLENT, but wondering why on earth you didn't recommend him to tell his friend's wife? Seems pretty brutal to me to leave her in the dark.
YvonneApril 10, 2022
This movie idea is such a fun missionary tool! I would love to get information on how to get started with this.
Anete JohnsApril 9, 2022
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! Enjoyed READING your great message. Always appreciate your testimonies.
AdamApril 9, 2022
Agree with the above. Wonderful podcasts, but please bring back the transcripts! They really help to go back and focus more on segments that catch your attention while listening. Thanks for considering.
KathleenApril 9, 2022
Indeed He IS great! Thank you for sharing that testimony through song.
Robert HalesApril 8, 2022
I use both. Only audio or only the transcript usually ends up with a nap. I listen to the audio and there is enough activity reading the transcript to stay awake. Even with my hearing aid, I miss words but catch them in the transcript.
Rochelle HaleApril 8, 2022
Thank you, thank you. I’m going through my storage now. Even dry tomato powder is in bulging cans. Who knew???!!!
Patricia WintersApril 8, 2022
That was lovely! Thank you!
Patricia WintersApril 8, 2022
Thank you a hundred times for printing the transcript! I never would have been able to sit and listen to the podcast! I gained so much from reading it!
Pat ThomasApril 8, 2022
It’s difficult to stop and write notes on the audio presentation and then start the audio again. The written transcript makes it easier to ponder without losing my place. Please provide the written transcript. You bring in wonderful people with so much to share.
Melinda TalleyApril 8, 2022
I feel that among all His miracles, this may well be the most significant. In my moments of fearing I or those I love may never overcome our weaknesses, knowing that the Savior has the power to change our very natures drives that fear away.
Corey D.April 5, 2022
On one hand a very good and insightful article but a few things that were said left me wondering if it was also a subtle political message ?
Heather SmurthwaiteApril 5, 2022
Maureen, this was so well written! I'm an avid reader of your articles -- impressed not only by the beautiful quality of your writing, but even more by the depth of understanding and insight that they offer. Thank you.
MaryannApril 5, 2022
While it is interesting to consider what our Savior may have looked like on earth, or what he looks like today, the most important factor to me is that he was literally and physically Heavenly Father's Son. Because of this, we really don't know what he looked like. I take comments that he was not attractive with a grain of salt. Beliefs about what is or is not beautiful are subjective, and opinions on beauty change drastically throughout different periods of history and cultures. I appreciate Mariah's comments that she is not trying to convince us of anything, simply giving us some things to think about. I absolutely believe that when we see the Savior we will see that he looks very much like his Father. He will be gloriously beautiful in every sense of the word.
RaLee HallApril 5, 2022
Thank you for this article. After I read it I said, "Wow! This so pertains to our day.
WallyApril 5, 2022
Very wise! Thank you, Jeff.
Toni VanWormerApril 5, 2022
This article is an immediate answer to to my prayers this day. Thank you!
Marilyn MeinzerApril 5, 2022
I love to READ your podcasts each week and often copy parts of the transcripts to save and refer back to - can't do that with audio!! Without transcripts I don't have time to listen to the audio!!
Brent A OlsenApril 5, 2022
Excellent article! Puts a different meaning on the word FEAR! Enjoyed this very much. Thank you!
Robert RieckhoffApril 5, 2022
I must admit that I do appreciate the text copy of the podcast. I can read faster and also take notes and lt allow me to ponder the point longer.
KathleenApril 4, 2022
We too like having the transcripts but have very much enjoyed the recent discussions with guests. Thank you for sharing by both formats and expanding resources.
Gary LawrenceApril 4, 2022
A very good selection of insights and advice from our leaders relating to today's dynamics. When hearing or reading an address, we should remember not only what was said but also analyze why it was said. Yes, difficult times will continue, but magnificent times also await us. Thanks for your good work, Maurine.
Janice GoimaracApril 4, 2022
When we lived in a ward with high turnover, we learned to say "I haven't met you yet," instead of, "Are you new?" That way, one avoids the awkwardness of asking a person who has been in the ward for two years, "Are you new?"
Jeanette WithersApril 4, 2022
My husband was on a co-ed soccer team one year. A woman was accidently kicked by one of the men on the opposing team. I was on the other side of the field and heard her leg bone break that far away. It was a terrible incident for both teams to deal with.
JanetApril 4, 2022
Thank you. My current goal is to cherish the gift of repentance and change something every day. Your article provided some clear understanding and motivation. I really appreciate your insights.
Colleen McDonaldApril 4, 2022
I am hearing impaired and therefore I read much better than I hear! Please go back to giving us a transcript that I can read! I would appreciate that so much!!
HalApril 4, 2022
Thank you for this article. I, too, am perplexed at detractors who defame the Prophet and yet cannot explain how a largely uneducated farm boy could produce such marvelous revelations that are consistent in their narrative and doctrine. They claim Joseph Smith to be merely a man, and so he is. However, his detractors fail to recognize that they and their sources are merely men as well, and far less inspired.
Julie Coulter BellonApril 4, 2022
Thank you so much for your comments everyone! You are so sweet. It's wonderful to meet more book people to chat with! You are my kind of people. *waves*
MimmieApril 4, 2022
I couldn’t agree more with the above comments. I feel the exact same way and would again request that you would reconsider posting a transcript of your Podcasts.
Kathleen KimballApril 3, 2022
Very astute and timely comments and suggestions. Thank you!
Howard HillApril 3, 2022
There are accounts written by Pontius Pilate and others who describe Him as having golden hair and blue eyes. The descriptions can be easily found using an inter net search.
DBNormanApril 3, 2022
Just as Bob Martin related, we indeed need to keep in mind that Jesus said, if you have seen me you have seen the Father. Jesus’s father was not Joseph, so Jesus would have some characteristics inherited from Mary, but equally from God the father, So unless God the father was Jewish, Jesus would indeed be unique among other men of his time, and maybe even have red hair.
DBNApril 3, 2022
Just as Bob Martin related, we indeed need to keep in mind that Jesus said, if you have seen me you have seen the Father. Jesus’s father was not Joseph, so Jesus would have some characteristics inherited from Mary, but equally from God the father, So unless God the father was Jewish, Jesus would indeed be unique among other men of his time, and maybe even have red hair.
LoraApril 3, 2022
I remember Jack Anderson, and I lived on the East Coast. Thanks for this fascinating account of history.
Lisa J NemrowApril 3, 2022
I don't even bother to listen to the podcast since you don't put it in text. I enjoy reading it and contemplating it. The recording goes by too fast and find it difficult to go back to a part that I wanted to make sure I understood it correctly as well as to think more about it. Could you PLEASE go back to printing it out? I love the things you have to share and have learned so much from you.
Carol NApril 2, 2022
The painting of Jesus that speaks to me, is "Prince of Peace" by, Akiane. https://akiane.com/product/prince-of-peace/ The first time I saw it, I felt like he was looking into my soul... and it feels that way every time.
ShaliApril 2, 2022
I appreciate the way this advice was given, caring and without judgment. I chose to step away from a situation exactly like this, not because I didn't love him but because I couldn't see myself spending the rest of my life with someone who thought it was ok to not share something so important. I hope whatever decision you make, it will turn out to be the best one for you.
Douglas E NadybalApril 2, 2022
As bad as the "boyfriend" lying is, he is also an adulterer. Assuming the relationship did not devolve into illicit acts, the only eternal consequence in this situation is the state of this mans soul should this behavior go un-repented, he will eventually suffer the judgment outlined in the bible. If this reality is not enough to prompt the victim into dealing with reality, going back to him would then become a willful transgression. He is an adulterer. She should know that the pain in going back into this would be far worse than the first because she could no longer claim ignorance.
DougieApril 1, 2022
Third one of these in a row with no transcript. This podcast is 46 minutes long! Who has that kind of time? I can read the transcript in 10 minutes. What the heck?
Pam PurnellApril 1, 2022
The Historian Josephus gives an account of what the Savior looked like. I am surprised that you did not reference his account.
AnnaApril 1, 2022
Jesus dressed and was groomed like a Roman of the day. Everyone in the Roman empire adopted the Roman look, from the English Isles to Africa, meaning short hair, roman toga and the sandals, along with that roman robe without seam( meaning a circular robe) the roman soldiers at the crucifixion scene were gambling over. These circular robes could hide a dagger, like the one Peter suddenly pulled out to cut off an ear. There have been 1st century christian churches unearthed in northern Africa whose frescoes consistently depict Jesus as a dark haired baby faced very fair skinned man who is slight and somewhat short statured. If this depiction is ball park accurate it would an an HORRIFIC dimension to the pains he endured in Gethsemane and the cross, and could explain why he couldn't carry the cross and had to be nailed to it in the wrist as well as the hand for fear the hand would tear through.
KA MillerApril 1, 2022
His wife deserves to know how deeply her husband has disrespected her so she has all the information she needs to know regarding how to proceed in her life. No one deserves to have a lie of this magnitude withheld from them.
Paul HApril 1, 2022
Pardon another comment, but Jesus wouldn't look like a 1st Century Jewish Peasant. His father was not Joseph. Trying to convince others that he should look like Jewish peasants is false doctrine---He was the "only begotten of the Father" and looked so much like him that He stated that whoever had seen him had seen the Father also. It was like Seth and Adam. I've known fathers and sons that looked identical except for their age difference. Art is speculative at best and in this case, likely far from being accurate. Every painting has Him with bare feet or sandals, too, and clothing wrapped around Him like a bed sheet. They had shoes back in Old Testament times and John the Baptists talks about loosing the latchet of the shoes on His feet.
AnnApril 1, 2022
She has been put in a difficult position and surely has many conflicting emotions. The counsel to let the head prevail is wise. She should get as far away from him as possible and cut off all contact. I found myself in a similar situation many years ago when I was single, although not nearly as much time had elapsed. Nothing good can come of continuing in a relationship based on dishonesty. Following Gospel principles will always keep us safe.
Duane BoyceApril 1, 2022
An outstanding interview and a thoughtful and thorough statement. By comparison, various other statements, news reports, and published opinions appear incomplete and shallow. A very valuable contrast.
HalApril 1, 2022
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this interview / article. The media has not been very forthcoming in providing all views concerning this issue and have fueled even more rancor and malevolence by not reporting the full story. Thank you to Rep. Birkeland for her dedication to doing what is right and thanks to the author for conducting the interview in a skillful way that covers every issue.
RobynApril 1, 2022
I couldn't reply better than Barry Hansen who already expressed my thoughts so well. Thanks to all AND Meridian for publishing this.
Mary-Rose McMullinApril 1, 2022
My heart goes out to Rep. Birkeland and her family. Thank you for setting such an example of standing for truth despite persecution. Thank you!
Mariah (author)April 1, 2022
@Marlund, that is a good point about them being transplants in Nazareth. As far as I know though, Mary was born in Nazareth and they returned to Bethlehem because Joseph's family was from there, not necessarily Mary's. (I might be mistaken on that). The two places are only 19 miles apart so it's interesting to wonder how much contrast or distinction that would create in the development of physical characteristics.
MicheleApril 1, 2022
Thank you Geoff for your comments to this writer. Events softening my heart and leading up to my baptism years ago were similar. Although I knew he was separated, I equated separation with available. I didn't have the gospel standards yet. I found out he'd gone back to her while still having me in his life. It's been validating to read this; but mostly I want to echo your advice and pray this person is able to access it and follow the Spirit. It's a painful experience no matter what she chooses, but the Spirit will never lead us astray.
Haze KompelienApril 1, 2022
What percentage of your audience are upset at the lack of transcripts? I fear you are loosing a bunch of us/ I am very sad and really do miss your insights. No, I won't listen to the podcasts instead, as I am NOT an auditory learner.
RozyApril 1, 2022
Of course Jesus would look different after resurrection with a perfected body! Except for being way too old, I like the look and manner of the Jesus in The Chosen. We do tend to forget that He was a young man, much like we forget that Joseph Smith was also a very young man.
Paul HApril 1, 2022
Brother Coltrin's comments indicate if he "looked like His Father" as the New Testament says, he would have blue eyes. Only one artist has ever depicted Him thusly and it was in a painting in a Church magazine. Based upon that, the popular paintings of Him used throughout the Church are less than accurate, not to mention all those used by others with halo's etc surrounding His person. If you really want to know get the information from the Prophets and Apostles who have seen Him; no one ever seems to want to check with them. They are "eyewitnesses of His majesty." The last point, is that it doesn't really matter exactly what He looks like for us to embrace His gospel and follow His commandments.
Paul HemingwayApril 1, 2022
I was in Promised Valley with him. I was picked to sing the short "This is the Place" solo. Right after the show was over, Pat Davis picked me to play Rolph in The Sound of Music. Broadway. Then I have been in over a dozen musicals across the country. Yesterday at my credit union. I met a girl who Robert & his wife babysat. He gave her singing lessons as a small girl. She since gas been in many musicals on and off broadway. I wish I had gotten the girls name.
Ted CrowtherApril 1, 2022
I think the reason Joseph Smith described Jesus as with fiery eyes and white hair is: Have you ever taken a picture of a face with the sun shining into the camera. the whole picture is changed like a white out. Everything is so bright that the face has white hair and fiery eyes. You can not tell the color of His eyes and his hair is white as the light is so blinding. The Savior always appears in brightness like that.
Marlund HaleApril 1, 2022
To me it seems odd that we would compare Jesus to a Galilean when Joseph and Mary had to return to Bethlehem in Judea (area of their birth and ancestry?) to pay their Roman taxes and where Jesus was born. He would certainly have been influenced by speech and mannerisms in the area he grew up in, but his physical appearance would seen to have been determined more by his parentage, including being the son of a celestial father.
Claudia Henderson SmithApril 1, 2022
Mariah, I loved your article. I had read that Jesus wasn't "comely," but I think the sheherd/actor in your Dad's picture is! So, I hope Jesus does look like him. Of course, not everyone is beautiful on the outside. It's what's on the inside that counts, right?
DBNApril 1, 2022
I was told a story about Elder Spencer W Kimball staying with a family as he was assigned to conduct a stake conference. While in that home a young girl with red hair climbed up on his lap. She asked him "Have you seen Jesus?" He answered "Yes I have." She asked "What does he look like?" He answered, "He has hair a lot like yours." This of course was shared many times before it was told to me. Perhaps someone who reads this knows first hand. I have four children with red hair and like to think of Jesus with reddish hair but I suppose it goes against what this article implicates. Perhaps Elder Kimball was referring to her curls and not the color. Were their any people of that time and place that had reddish hair?
Ann PriceApril 1, 2022
These are the same people who save turtle eggs, beached whales, elephants, homeless pets, stately trees. Where is the heart when it comes to a human life? Why is there not an ammendment to take the live baby to a hospital for nourishment and offered up for adoption?
Robert StarlingApril 1, 2022
As you say, we don't have to know what our Savior looked like physically in mortality to recognize him when he comes in glory. But the question does present a challenge for artists and filmmakers. I like the person cast as Jesus in "The Chosen", because he is probably the closest anyone has come to portraying him as he was then. When I was doing research on the screenplay for the film "In Search of Historic Jesus", I studied the Shroud of Turin, which many believe shows the image of the face of Christ, singed into the surface fibers of the linen cloth that covered his body, by a brief flash of light or energy that may have accompanied the resurrection. That process is known as "flash photolysis". According to forensic scientists, the image on the shroud portrays the face of a Sephardic Jew who was about 5'11", weighing about 175 lbs. There are marks on the face consistent with being beaten and wearing a crown of thorns. Some of the specific marks are included in artistic representations going back to the 6th century AD as seen in many Byzantine paintings. This may be faith-affirming to some, if the singeing effect that put the image on the cloth was indeed caused by some sort of burst of light or energy, since that sort of thing does not normally happen to a dead body.
Boanerges RubalcavaApril 1, 2022
I believe that the Jesus or any other person saw in these latter days, is different than the one when he was on earth in Palestine, since the former was a resurrected being.
Bob MartinApril 1, 2022
I am now 77 years old and I distinctly remember being called into my 3 year old's bedroom, Daddy,she said solemnly, Jesus came to see me last night and He sat on my bed and talked to me.Thinking that she had a dream I said. Emily, that is wonderful. What did Jesus look like? I expected a description not unlike those in Primary but she astounded me with her reply. Daddy, He looks like His Father. I was lost for words. Out of the mouths of babes.
Barry HansenApril 1, 2022
Thank you to the author for providing the details and background behind this legislation. And thank you to Rep. Birkeland for her careful, thoughtful research and courageous efforts over two years to stand up for Utah’s girls while still respecting the rights of transgender athletes to be involved in activities in a way that doesn’t harm girls.
MaryannMarch 31, 2022
When you stated that "the new barbarians currently control the executive branch of government," you said it all. Trampling on legal immigration laws that help to protect American citizens from deadly drugs coming across the border (as well as convicted barbaric felons), supporting millions of brutal abortions, encouraging and normalizing the mutilation of our bodies and erasing natural gender, blurring and confusing the roles of fathers and mothers, husbands and wives--These are just a few of the "barbaric" practices of our day, many of which are supported and promoted by some government officials. But the most barbaric evil of all is the brainwashing of our children--filling their minds with misinformation and enlisting them in "causes" that they are not ready to shoulder. Instead of letting them be children, we heap burdens upon their backs to promote our own personal, politically correct or philosophical agendas. Hitler did this with the young in Germany. Evidently, we haven't learned our lesson.
MaryannMarch 31, 2022
If we want to focus a spotlight on the corruption in government, there is so much of it going on in the here and now. We can't do anything about what Nixon and his cohorts did 50 years ago, but we can speak out about the corruption in our government officials today, and choose candidates, and uphold laws, that will help to cleanse our nation of these current evils. I am much more concerned about the laws and political party that support millions of abortions in our nation, and also President Biden's and Hillary Clinton's evil actions TODAY, than I am about what Nixon did 50 years ago.
MaryannMarch 31, 2022
I really love your suggestions of using humor and taking the opportunity to laugh and reach out with fun conversation. Joni, you are not on a "pretend mission." It is very real, and I appreciate you sharing it so that we can use your examples to inspire us to do likewise.
Jo Ann OkelberryMarch 31, 2022
I love "godly becomings." Thank you for this lively and encouraging article.
Janie BrayMarch 31, 2022
So agree with what you have said. I had a talk with a friend the other day about not serving a mission. We talked about how we were serving missions as visiting teachers (sorry I’m still old school) , in our ward callings, helping the missionaries when we could (not just in their dinners) , and when we see opportunities to help someone (families, friends and others).
CarolMarch 31, 2022
I love your use of humor to break the ice with people - most people love laugh and feel more connected instantly. I have been on the secret mission of greeting strangers. I've been serving in a YSA ward for almost 3 years and am now back in my home ward so most everyone looks like a new person to me so I get to introduce myself a lot!
Rochelle HaleMarch 31, 2022
Though I teach Gospel Doctrine, it is often difficult for me to engage in one-on-one conversations. A few years ago, however, I had one of the best missionary moments because I listened to the little angel on my shoulder reminding me that I promised to greet new people. My new friends turned out to be a raised-in-the-church-as-a child-only sister and her non-member husband. Soon they were both active and he was baptized, and within a year they brought other relatives into the gospel. We also help a handicapped sister who lives down the street. "Oh, no, please don't assign her to me just because she's my neighbor," were my first anxious thoughts, but she has become a dear friend and a delight to serve.
Dave HansenMarch 31, 2022
Thanx for sharing such a good idea.......I REALLY like that kind of thinking, Joni!!! :-)
Erik HansenMarch 30, 2022
I'm so glad the Spirit led him to the truth and gave him fervor enough to push forward against the power hungry in our government. The Lord hedged up the way for his enemies. I'm glad for his family. So many scriptures reflect the sincerity of The Lord to protect his people from death by their enemies. I'm sure these things happen today, and I'm not surprised there is such corruption in the US government though I'm saddened. The Lord continues in helping good people overcome their awful circumstances and protect them from death by their enemies, until they have finished their work - although we may not have awful things removed entirely. (What will happen to the people of the USA if we don't pull down the super-rich, proud and power hungry?)
vickieMarch 28, 2022
wow, i never knew that president nixon was involved in so many bad things. i lauded him later for coming back and helping out with china. he didnt give up. i had no idea that he was that scheming.
James RawsonMarch 27, 2022
Never thought I’d see the day that the Lord’s university would require such an office! I don’t know whether I should shout for joy, weep or be angry at such a need already found in state run schools! Sign of the times!
James RawsonMarch 27, 2022
Touched my heart deeply! Thank you!
thou tranMarch 27, 2022
hi have authentic piece 1ichby 1.5ich gold plate I believer from king Daris. is it worth anything?
TMMarch 27, 2022
It sounds cliche, but it is possible that the pattern of infatuations that has plagued his marriage speaks to a deeper pattern of coping formed when young because of not getting the quality and quantity of love he needed from his own mother. Was his mother emotionally distant? Was she known as a mean mom? Did he get punished a lot? Was there any abuse? Did she have her own mental health issues she struggled with? One way to assess this could be to see when the pattern of infatuations started. My hunch is it began well before he was married.
Rae GreenstreetMarch 26, 2022
To Arthur Cornett, to "fold" the whipped eggs "until fluffy" means to stir or mix them into the batter slowly or gently.
KathleenMarch 26, 2022
Heart warming. You'll have the rest of your lives to remember this and build upon the experience. May the Lord bless and keep you.
T. DorenboschMarch 26, 2022
For those who wonder why there is no transcript, this is what Scot answered me: Dear Thijs, First of all: Thanks for the service you've been doing for that group of Dutch members. We've done some interviews without pre-written scripts to accommodate our upcoming travel schedule of leading tours in the Middle East and Europe. We're going to try to use some Ai programs (starting tomorrow) to see if we can get a reasonable script from the audio. If we can do it, we will publish it as soon as possible. Blessings, Scot.
tfMarch 25, 2022
From what this man has written, i don't think he is actually temple worthy. But it sounds like this type of thing has happened several times in his life. I wish a talk by Carlfred Broderick entitled "It came out of the Blue, Like a Scheduled Airline" that was available on tape, could be re-issued on CD. It could help in this type of situation.
SarahMarch 25, 2022
You hired her/she got a job with you less than a year ago. Because of covid you don't work in an office, but at home but you can travel with her? Correct? You talk on the phone a lot when you aren't travelling, and each night and on weekends your wife hides in her room... Are you in seperated rooms? All your married life you have been infatuated with someone... But not your wife. You travel a lot, so are hardly there and when you are, your wife is hiding!? Your wife is depressed because of the above, which started when you put a ring on it. If you love your wife, start kissing her! Invite her out of the room.. To travel with you, if she can a few times a month. At 22yrs married your kids can maybe fend for themselves a few nights. If your wife works, then do things on the weekends with her. Stop this hiding cycle, by helping her trust you and your thoughts. Change your behaviour, and then help her change to trust and love you. If you are not bothered, then let her go, so she can get well and thrive. This is not a way to exist.
Travus AllenMarch 25, 2022
I enjoy all of your articles. I read them all. I really really enjoyed this one. Very good insight and counsel. Thanks again.
BKMarch 25, 2022
Hopefully a transcript WILL be available for future podcasts. I count on them!
LoraMarch 23, 2022
Did something happen to the person who transcribes your podcasts? I hope that you will be able to get another transcriber soon. I miss the written transcripts!
Arthur CornettMarch 23, 2022
Excuse my ignorance, I don’t mean to “fritter” away anyone’s time. In step 4 of the 2nd recipe, what does it mean to “fold” the egg whites into the batter?
Annette BellMarch 23, 2022
Thank you for this article. I am a Master Gardener assigned to volunteer at the Pioneer Herb Garden here at our learning garden in Beaverton, Oregon. I have been studying pioneer ways of growing, obtaining and fixing food. It's great to have this insight into Emma's role in this huge undertaking.
Janice HiestandMarch 23, 2022
I can' t underline, write comments, scribble thoughts in the margins of a podcast. Is there a reason for this, if so why?
Sherry EthridgeMarch 23, 2022
The oats are not listed in the instructions. Are they added with the vanilla?
SusanMarch 23, 2022
I, too, like to read the transcript. I listen to the podcast, then read the words. Please put the written word back to be enjoyed.
Dave MorganMarch 23, 2022
Helaman 8:18 fits in nicely to your article, any thoughts on that.
LindaMarch 23, 2022
Where is the transcript for this week?
Steve LombardMarch 23, 2022
Every week my wife and I read the transcript to help us understand the lesson and it helps very much. Why no transcript this time? Has this site been hacked?
AllanMarch 23, 2022
Thank you for sharing these stories. Truly inspiring. Just what I needed to hear today.
KathleenMarch 23, 2022
Such truth in these words and beautiful music.
MaureenMarch 22, 2022
Yes, please bring back the transcript, for those of us who learn visually (the vast majority, BTW).
AlexMarch 22, 2022
Please add transcript. Thank you.
JoyceMarch 22, 2022
good article, but what about divorced parents? how does a mother help her child learn about love between a mother and father if it doesn't exist?
LibertyMarch 22, 2022
Beautifully written
Jayne JohnsonMarch 22, 2022
Thank You Kathy. As I read your article, I was impressed with the thought that a person doesn't need to travel far away to do what you did on your assignments with your husband. We each can receive that inspiration right where we are. Thank you for the reminder that we are the Lord's hands and voice. God bless you!
Patricia WintersMarch 22, 2022
In my noisy home, I seldom can find a quiet time to listen to podcasts. If I can read the transcripts, I can understand and feel the message being sent. Please make transcripts available for all your podcasts.
Charmaine McKaskleMarch 22, 2022
I prefer to read the podcast. I hope you will make it available again.
Kimberlee RottweilerMarch 22, 2022
I’d rather read the transcript than listen as well
B. DolbergMarch 22, 2022
Yes, PLEASE add the transcript. We read them together every week and discuss them as we go along.
vickieMarch 22, 2022
my son went to west point and grad in 1995. he later worked there and i went to baby sit my grandkids. what a wonderful place. so historic. i loved west point. i took my gkids to church and there wasnt a dedicated chapel then. i am so glad that there is one now and its a long time coming. praise the Lord and Amen...
Marilynne LinfordMarch 21, 2022
I wrote a book on the Pearl of Great Price that I have not punished. I send it in manuscript form to anyone who asks. If you feel comfortable, send me your email address through columnists on the Meridian cite.
T. DorenboschMarch 20, 2022
I miss the transcript of this lesson. Every week I translate the transcript for friends here in Holland who do not speak English to understand. Please help!!
Cristy NewcombMarch 20, 2022
I'd rather read then listen. Why can’t I get to written word like every other week?
Deborah BatesMarch 20, 2022
We have Ukrainian friends and some of them have parents still in Kyiv. We have been to Ukraine and spent a week in Kyiv. . We are heartsick about what is happening.
Corey D.March 20, 2022
When the George A Whalen Veterans Home was first opened I was called to be the branch president, I tried to be more than just their church leader, I also wanted the residents/veterans to know I was their friend. I would try to visit at least once a week other than Sunday with one of my counselors and I would go often by myself to visit and sometimes with my wife, heard lots of interesting stories, not just about war but also about life, many times inspirational, sometimes humorous. One of those inspirational stories shared with me was Brother Jay Bachman a retired Air Force Colonel, wonderful, humble, spiritual man, who I got the impression from had not always been active in the church. He was serving in Vietnam when Elder Spencer W. Kimball came to visit and I think this may have been when Brother Bachman may not have been fully active in the church. Anyway and I don't remember all the details ( my one regret about my service at the Veteran's Home is not keeping a journal of stories and experiences), Brother Bachman said that after meeting with the LDS servicemen and what few members there were, Elder Kimball asked if there was some place they could go where there might be some privacy, they ended up on the rooftop of a building where Elder Kimball proceeded to dedicate the land of Vietnam to the preaching of the gospel. Brother Bachman said it was an amazing experience and he was honored to be asked to be there, if I remember what he told me there was just maybe 4 or 5 people there. If I remember correctly what I've read over the years I'm pretty sure Vietnam and the other southeastern Asian countries have been dedicated since then but the 1st time would have been during the Vietnam War by Elder Spencer W. Kimball.
Renn CrumpMarch 19, 2022
I would love to see your entire list of favorite topics in the Pearl of Great Price. I completely agree that the PofGP is not emphasized nearly enough in our gospel study. Thank you for this article.
Tanya NeiderMarch 19, 2022
Abby Christensen, Thank you for the simple outline and printable sheets!
KathleenMarch 18, 2022
BOTH!
CarolMarch 18, 2022
For some of the older readers. I have been giving my granddaughters a "Heritages Box" containing a few of my special items from our home that I want to pass on to them now not after my death. I write a letter letting them know where the item came from, why it is important to me and a family group sheet showing where they fit in the line These have been so very special for me to prepare.
Robert StarlingMarch 18, 2022
Thanks for this article. I would love to read the rest of it. Will the ending be published? I had never heard of the Ukrainian holocaust. Many tears and prayers for those brave and suffering people.
MaryannMarch 18, 2022
My husband served a mission to Ireland in the late 1960s when the conflicts and violence taking place there were extremely serious. When Londonderry was burning, he was assigned to get the missionaries out of the city. Preaching the gospel there was like walking uphill through mollassis. The people were warned by religious leaders to avoid the "Mormon Missionaries." It would have been easy to feel that very little progress was being made. However, when we visited the country many years later together, we witnessed the growth of the church there, and the wonderful changes that had taken place. One of the areas we visited had a new chapel and the people were thrilled. It was very humble--nothing like the buildings we have in the U.S., but they were so very grateful. It was a lesson to remember that where seeds of the gospel are sowed, growth takes place.
Peter CrosbyMarch 17, 2022
This is disgusting, how can this be allowed!
BarbaraMarch 15, 2022
I received my patriarchal blessing when I was 12. There was one paragraph that just did not make sense--until I was divorced and remarried.
Mary Ann KershisnikMarch 15, 2022
Thank you, Sister Linford! This article is beautiful and inspiring!!!!!
LewisMarch 15, 2022
I find your example of love and openness more than inspiring. I think of Victor Hugo's Les Miserables, where the pastor took Jean Valjean into his home, and showed incredible love and compassion even after the theft of his silver. Yes, there are risks with bringing people into your home. Yes, some people will take advantage of you. Yes, there will be experiences that will not be positive. But yes, yes and yes again, we are commanded to love, not judge. The Savior opened his arms to all, even those that reviled, abused and crucified him. We don't all have to bring strangers into our home. I don't think that is the point of your story. But I think the lesson you are teaching is that we all can do something to live the law of the fast as Isaiah has explained it so beautifully by reaching out to help our brothers and sisters here on the earth. I am so grateful for your gift of telling compelling stories that can bring us closer to Heavenly Father.
Myrna LiddellMarch 15, 2022
Thank you for this insightful glimpse. Thank you for your efforts and Thanks be to God for the other incredible volunteers both the named and un-named.
Sharen BerryMarch 15, 2022
My husband and I have been married 32 years. We are so much more now then we could have been if we stayed in our first marriages.
Becky L RoseMarch 15, 2022
My patriarchal blessing mentions before leaving I talked with my heavenly mother and she reminded me to come back and tell her how I gained my testimony.
Jim WinebrennerMarch 14, 2022
Thank you so much for an honest and thus naturally disgusted response to the abhorrent changes that are being pushed on so many of the states, and certainly the whole country at the federal level. I'm happy on every (albeit too rare) occasion that I find an article on one of the Church news Web sites that actually demonstrates clarity of mind. Thank you!!
Linda MecklerMarch 14, 2022
No No No No No. This baby after birth is a individual person.
KCMarch 14, 2022
If statistics hold true, at least 10% or more of those holding signs up offering a place to stay were human traffickers who prey upon refugees. I wish there were a way to keep tabs on those who accept the kindness of strangers. Some way to vouch for the host and track the guest. If someone could come up with a solution like that, it not only would be a deterrent for traffickers but help keep refugees on their toes, out of harms way, or provide an avenue of rescue from bad situations. Unfortunately the fog of war makes that difficult but if even one life were saved from that horror, it would be worth it. Maybe those who haven't found their niche in the humanitarian realm might be "watchers", angels on earth taking notes and checking in.
JuliannMarch 14, 2022
My husband and I took in a woman and her four children, who had been living in their Suburban, when my husband managed a Bishops Storehouse. We arranged missionary lessons, found her an apartment and the Stake members furnished the apartment, paid her utilities and found her employment. She lied, stole, was kicked out of the apartment and within a short time was back living in the Suburban. Her son beat up my daughter and the mother taught my 10 year old daughter to smoke. We learned to follow Gods plan for taking care of the poor and needy. Not venturing out on our own. Over the years we did, through a government program, open our home to 10 youth addicts and unwed mothers. Those experiences were mostly positive. You put forth a worthy principle, but it needs to be entered into with a great deal of prayer, preparation and caution.
SherriMarch 14, 2022
Wow, Becky! I’m truly amazed at all you have done in your lives to take in poor and weary travelers. Thank you for your article and challenge to invite others into our homes.
Dave HansenMarch 14, 2022
WOW! These folks are not just Saints......they are ANGELS!!! God bless them for their love of others in need.
MickeyMarch 12, 2022
Nothing is going to change here until the husband stops reacting to the ex wife and daughter’s manipulations. I don’t agree that something is better than nothing here. Their behavior is abusive and he doesn’t have an obligation to tolerate it. If dad stops reacting and allows daughter to fully experience mom’s behavior, perhaps something would change.
HelenCMarch 11, 2022
My husband and I have been married almost 28 years, now, and my ex-husband still believes her is the one who broke up the marriage. However, over time he and our children have accepted that we are happy together. Each of my children has come to me and expressed past frustration along with present acknowledgement that he is a good man and I am happy. While it is easy to fall into the trap of needing validation for ourselves and our choices, the truth is we owe our happiness to no-one but ourselves. As the late psychologist Wayne Dyer put it, “Your opinion of me is none of my business”.
Martha ScottMarch 11, 2022
Appalling
tfMarch 11, 2022
Geoff: I'm surprised that you didn't mention that the ex-wife is obviously mentally ill. The troubles described seem to be a clear indication of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, if I am not mistaken.
ShawnyMarch 9, 2022
Thank you, Brother Peterson, for this wonderful article. Truly the closeness we feel to God here on earth is based on the reality of His ability to feel close to us. We feel His love and experience it personally in so many precious and sacred ways. We truly have a FATHER in Heaven, and we are truly bound in love to His Son.
Kay RookhuyzenMarch 9, 2022
This was just a lovely read that brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing!
Nerita PetersonMarch 9, 2022
Lovely story.... Eternal life is too good not to be true!
Carol AnnMarch 9, 2022
These wise words are more pertinent today than ever.
Karell BinghamMarch 9, 2022
It is the first time I have read your amazing and touching testimony! Thank you for your deep insights!
HelenCMarch 9, 2022
Two of my five children have preceded me Home. I render feeling (and still feel) that greeting the Savior will be wonderful, but being hugged by George, and now also by Larissa, will be Heavenly, indeed.
HelenCMarch 9, 2022
Spot on! And yet so many non-Latter Day Saint Christians insist on “solar scriptura”, claiming that the only truth we can abide by is in the written word presented to us in the Bible as it now stands. If they cannot accept God has feelings, how accurate can their philosophy be?
LoraMarch 9, 2022
When I was a teenager in the 1970's, "sex-change operation" meant that the lower half of the body was surgically altered to match the chosen sex. A person making the transition was required to undergo a year of therapy to prepare for the change. Now it appears that an individual only has to "identify" as the opposite sex, take some hormones, change the hair and clothing style, and we're all supposed to believe that now he is a woman and she is a man. And yet, if you ask the question as Matt Walsh recently did, "What is a woman?" none of the transactivists can answer. In our open-mindedness, women are losing their very definition. The puberty blockers that they use on children are the same drugs used in chemical castration of sex offenders. Apparently, those drugs are "cruel and unusual punishment" for criminals, but perfectly acceptable for minors with a clear psychological problem. If "Full Disclosure" was practiced, trans individuals would be required to read the Trans Regret website to hear the stories of people who regret making the transition. Transition can render the person sterilized, with irreversible damage. If men and women are so equal, why is it that we never hear about transmen trying to get into men's sports? A transwoman in boxing can nearly kill the biological female opponent. Transwomen swimmers and runners leave biological women way behind. When it comes to sports, people with XY chromosomes are just plain better, stronger, with more upper body strength and better hips and knees for forward propulsion. While I have compassion for people who feel like strangers in their own bodies, I am concerned that they will find that the problem doesn't go away with transitioning to the opposite sex. For transwomen who want to occupy the women's locker room, I challenge them to really be "one of the girls" and have the male genitalia removed. Why is it that a man exposing himself in public is a crime, but if he identifies as a woman, it's acceptable in a women's locker room? Or in a women's prison? Is it acceptable for women to go to prison with biological men? It's a good thing that I am retired, because these sentiments of mine would get me fired from my employment. None of this is good for women.
Sage GallagherMarch 9, 2022
Great article, Dan. Thank you. What a difference to our human hearts it makes to see God as a caring father! The choice of turning to an emotionless entity versus looking to a loving Father seems pretty clear.
Diane PetersonMarch 9, 2022
Beautiful! How grateful I am for our God of feelings, emotions, and love. Brother Peterson, your work is always brilliant and inspiring. Please continue to share your incredible insights!
Ed RehderMarch 8, 2022
Thank you for this article. I'm a 70 year old that barely missed being drafted into service for the Vietnam war. Something didn't seem right to us in those days but many of my friends had to go. Now to hear these details about that war as well as the others things start to make sense, and am not surprised somehow. Thank goodness for the Book of Mormon and it's warnings to us. Thanks again for your work on this.
JoeMarch 8, 2022
Thank you for your clear vision. There are many who will not agree with this. So many want to draw a line between Russia and Ukraine/US when the "sides", the line should be drawn, between people and government. The people of Russia are not our enemy except for the single feature, they have allowed their tyrannical government to exist and to continue. But are we not guilty of the same? Upon serious introspection of the genocide delivered at the hands of our own government a rational person must recognize this truth. The best thing we could do would be to focus on cleaning our own house. It is our greatest responsibility.
BevMarch 8, 2022
We are so devastated to see the Leaders f many countries being unable to see that Putin will never stop and the war is already declared war n all of us eventually!
SandraMarch 8, 2022
Thank you for the thought provoking and pertinent information.
Paula GermondMarch 8, 2022
I'm not sure how you characterize "mid-singles" but that status surely is a faith-building position and can be a sweet communion with our Lord. Thus we are loved and esteemed beyond measure BUT. due to the focus on the ideal family structure within the church, I think there is an unavoidable feeling of "otherness." When we enter the church family, no matter how much we are loved, if we are placed in the guest room instead of the heart of the home, will it ever feel like a main course Instead of left overs? I think perhaps it seems more like a side dish! My only solution is to become and remain as close to the Lord as possible on a personal level.- to love and serve those around you from your unique life. Not everyone is called to wear the mantle of singlehood so trust the Lord to have your best interest at heart while He is trusting you to carry that mantle for whatever His unseen purposes are can be pure dessert!. Blessings to each..
Linda AyreMarch 8, 2022
I am very grateful for this article which articulates and validates concerns that have been growing in me for decades. It is disheartening that so many people will not even question the narrative being blasted at us from every mainstream news source. Thank you, Brother Lindsay. I always appreciate your articles.
DougMarch 8, 2022
Thanks! Just found this. It should probably be noted that the overwhelming majority of the plates were actually written by Moroni--if you count the sealed portion (Ether 5:1). Just an interesting fact that he did more writing than any of the other authors, including his father before him.
LBMarch 8, 2022
You are about to become an "untrusted source". Thank you for stating clearly some of the vital problems Americans and Church members face. We have been lied to and betrayed by those we trust.
Debra WellingMarch 8, 2022
AMEN to both previous comments!
ElizabethMarch 8, 2022
Heroic work, Millers, Sheltons, Max and Masha. What a Providential sequence of connections! Thanks to Lisa Badger and Meridian Magazine for getting the word out with such specific info. about we can help. Bravo!
William R ToftMarch 8, 2022
Excellent article. When he mentioned his mistrust of medical authority one name came to my mind, Anthony Fauci.
NinaMarch 8, 2022
Thank you so much for your article. I can relate to so many of your experiences. I agree with every issue of your article. My parents lived in eastern Europe during WWII. Experiences that they shared with me taught me to always ask questions. Things are far more complicated then what we are told in the "one liner" headline. We should never stop asking questions.
SandraMarch 8, 2022
Wow! I’ve learned so much. Thank you
Geoff BiddulphMarch 8, 2022
Jeff, great post. We need more calls for peace at this time when so many people seem to be anxious for war. Will we not heed the warnings of the Book of Mormon? We truly seem to be a war-like people after all.
A. BinghamMarch 8, 2022
Weighing in from many government and private sectors, and from different countries, insiders are crying out that the US, as well as global governing bodies, are NOT trying high-level diplomacy to end the armed conflict in Ukraine. Those of us with foreign diplomatic experience see only too well, there is a complete dearth of committed and competent statesmen and women in the public eye. This is looking more and more like what we just went through, deception and betrayal, with so much damage. Perhaps behind the scenes, but in the public's eye, it has been a shameful spectacle. Complete silence from our own state department. Where are they?
Ken and Lynne HeinholdMarch 7, 2022
Our Granddaughter-in-law is Inna Timm, and she is from Ukraine and lives in SLC with her husband Jake Timm. This is a tense time for her and all of our family as we are fasting, praying, and hoping for the safe journey of her sister and family who are at this time traveling from Poltava, Ukraine to Poland. They are very frightened, but hopeful of starting a new life in SLC, Utah, USA. So, we join with all of you in prayer for the safety and welfare of these many good people in Ukraine.
Vickie SmithMarch 7, 2022
Fun things to put on my reading list! I love clean historical romance! But of course I love so many kinds of books... basically I'm addicted!
Amanda PurnellMarch 7, 2022
Thanks for this article! Super helpful! My family will be rotating our kits twice yearly, during General Conference weekends! I heard that a friend's family does this successfully and wanted to share the idea.
Heather B. MooreMarch 7, 2022
Thanks for reviewing! I'm excited for future reviews as well :-)
Harold RustMarch 7, 2022
Oh that we could all join in their worship service and show them personally our respect for their efforts to remain free and our willingness to help support them in whatever way we can best do.
Pania HeimuliMarch 7, 2022
Absolutely beautiful!
Jean GenteroneMarch 7, 2022
When there is no peace on earth...... there will always be peace in Christ .
JodiMarch 7, 2022
I’m looking forward to reading both of these books! Good reviews!
K R HofhiensMarch 7, 2022
Hello Julie, I enjoyed your review and the podcast too. I wrote a book series for kids about the Mound Builders of Ohio being a part of the Book of Mormon people. It isn't a time travel book like Chris Heimerdinger wrote. The story lines only touch through the artifacts found in the kids' backyard. If you are ever interested, I would love to do a pod cast with you. Sincerely, K R Hofhiens
Jim WinebrennerMarch 7, 2022
I certainly agree with John R Carpenter's comment. I'd also like to pose a question: Are you sure the attack was unprovoked? Are you really sure about that? (That's one question, just repeated for emphasis.)
DonnaMarch 7, 2022
Beautiful and heart rending. We are praying for you, our dear brothers and sisters across the world. Never fear.
Jim WinebrennerMarch 7, 2022
Combine the content if this article, which starts off extremely well even though the ending tries to take away much of the real power, combine this content with the scriptures that talk about faith, and you'll begin to see the real meaning and application of true faith, and its real power.
MaryMarch 7, 2022
I am so excited to add these to my TBR list! I love hearing about good recommendations, and look forward to more that Julie has to offer.
Andrew SilskiMarch 7, 2022
It's great to pray for our brothers and sisters, but what are we going to DO for them? I've signed up online to sponsor a family, but that might take months. Is the Church or an LDS-affiliated NGO doing something to facilitate placement of these families in other LDS homes and families?
Gisele MarsanMarch 7, 2022
Thank you so much for writing about this legend. The story really touched my heart. I have often wondered if other countries had similar experiences after Christ's crucifixion. Very interesting
MandJMarch 7, 2022
Video and message brought tears to my eyes. Ukraine has been in our thoughts and prayers daily. We watch everything coming in on the news and feel heartbreak for them as they go through this, it is all so shocking. We pray for peace for them, their country and leaders and know the Lord is aware of this miserable and terrible trial and especially pray it will end.
John R CarpenterMarch 7, 2022
Condoleezza Rice is an amazing person. If she had run for President, I would have voted for her. She however saw the rat's nest in the Washington swamp and wisely avoided that mess. Now she teaches and educates hearts and minds. Her talents and impact on others contine to grow and influence others positively.
Richard D LoosliMarch 7, 2022
I am sure there are countless prayers for this country. I pray that this unprovoked attack will soon be over and peace will prevail.
HalMarch 7, 2022
Thank you for this article. I have always been a fan of both Sister Baker and Condoleezza Rice. As a side note, I wish Condi Rice would run for president. She is an amazing woman.
Leslie NighMarch 7, 2022
I did fast for the Ukrainian saints yesterday. I know that our bishop did as well, as he spoke of it in his testimony. May God bless and keep us all in His capable hands.
Jesse WilsonMarch 7, 2022
Just beautiful!
ShaunaMarch 7, 2022
Thanks for sharing this. It made me cry. My heart and prayers are absolutely with you and it was a privilege to fast on your behalf yesterday. God bless the Ukraine and the world. I know the Lord sees you and is working behind the scenes
Miriam CottamMarch 7, 2022
Just to clarify, this video is of the BYU Singers, the BYU Slavic Choir, and Ukrainian RM's (my son is in this group). They are singing in Ukrainian to show love and support for Ukraine but are not Ukrainian refugees in Germany.
MGBrooksMarch 7, 2022
That is the combined BYU choirs singing in Provo Utah as a tribute to the Ukrainian Saints. :-)
A.L. CastroMarch 7, 2022
This beautiful video is members of the BYU choirs and “other friends of Ukraine” and was filmed in Provo on the BYU campus. I saw it several days ago on the BYU Singers’ Facebook page. I thought you might want to correctly label this video.
SAGEMarch 7, 2022
Last Sunday and yesterday I have fasted and prayed for them. Their song will play in my mind throughout the week. Such a hard time.
MicaMarch 6, 2022
This is really interesting. I liked it! By the way, I found this Facebook page named Honeymoon Mindset Academy which is similar to your content. If you want to know more about this one, please check this link. https://www.facebook.com/Honeymoon-Mindset-Academy-106444181073192/ Thank you.
Corey D.March 6, 2022
I'm sure the family and others know this but it was no accident that no one was home.
Terry ManningMarch 6, 2022
Absolutely love this.
DorisMarch 5, 2022
Thank you for these reminders on finding answers to our concerns! We've all had times we needed help, including prayers. Haven't we had answers to our concerns during Conference. scriptures, or Sacrament meetings. Thank you for your suggestions!
JoshMarch 4, 2022
Exceptionally well written article. To my brothers and sister who suffer this pain I would like to add something. I cannot share the amazing spiritual experience that leads me to saying this but I know it to be true. Children lost, no matter when they are lost, are still a part of your eternal family. I know I will see my mother and grandmother again, both have passed in the past few years, but I also know that with them I will get to see my older sister, who passed in the womb, and learn who she is. I know that while my mortal eyes have not seen her, that her face is familiar to my spirit and I look forward to that reunion greatly. It is a driving force to keep my on the righteous path, amongst many others. You will also get to see the children that you were not permitted to raise in the flesh. No one can say that they understand your pain, except Christ, but I hope you find those that can comfort you while you recover.
KateMarch 4, 2022
I have also experienced miscarriage, and while the spiritual experience that accompanied it is too sacred to share on the internet, I'll give my opinion that when the body that spirit intended to use was not viable, there will be another body provided which will give him or her the opportunity to have a mortal experience. I cannot imagine our Heavenly Parents saying, "whoops, sorry, your body was miscarried (or your parents decided to terminate the pregnancy or your mom was in a car accident and your body died or whatever) so you are out of luck! No further progression for you!" Obviously not. I'm sure that every spirit that is slated to come to earth will come, and in a situation that will give them the experience that they need. Maybe even to you in a future pregnancy.
Melissa MarkhamMarch 4, 2022
I'm so sorry to read about your loss. It was sweet to read about the love you felt already for the baby. It's true that there is no official doctrine on the status of babies who have been miscarried. While I used to see this as frustrating, a friend helped me see it in a different way that has been comforting. I hope you don't mind my sharing this. Perhaps the spirit, itself, has a choice in whether to accept that mortal experience and family heritage or not. Some may opt to try again for a mortal body while some may go on into the eternities. I believe that the parents can receive guidance and know how to understand their individual experiences. My husband and I have felt strongly that at least one of the babies I miscarried has accepted his place in our family and passed into the eternities. We have felt his presence profoundly at times and eagerly await our reunion with him. During other miscarriages, I have tried to connect with the spirit and form a similar bond, only to come up empty. I see these as "chemical pregnancies" not necessarily associated with a spirit. I hope none of that comes off as awkward or contrary to church teaching. The important part to me is that a loving Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ want to comfort us and help us understand. They know where our babies are! As I've been reassured in many blessings, they are intimately concerned with sending spirits to the earth and will help us work through emotions, questions, and anything else the experience brings. May they be with you now.
AnonymousMarch 4, 2022
I know that, if it is His will for you, you can receive personal revelation about this, and know whatever details He sees fit to grant you. It will come in His own time and way for you, but you can come to know His beautiful truths about your own family in this regard. We have seen it happen.
TammyMarch 3, 2022
Thank you so much for your insights. I have loved studying about Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. I feel so connected to them, and I feel so grateful for the covenants we have that connect us to God.
MistyMarch 3, 2022
A very beautiful song with a simple but powerful message of our Savior’s love for us! Thank you for sharing their video with us!
Harold RustMarch 3, 2022
A most inspiring and insightful article. Many thanks for the details between those details which I already knew. Other than one mis-typed date (1834 is when he first met Brigham), this is a true keeper for all of us members who need to more fully follow WIlford's example of seeking deeply for the truth.
Lisa SottileMarch 3, 2022
Beautiful!! Thank you for sharing your talents and the wonderful message of this song!
CarrieMarch 2, 2022
Absolutely inspiring. Thank you for this masterpiece.
DougieMarch 2, 2022
Hard to identify with Elder C facing financial “ruin” and getting a “no” when asking Heavenly Father for help. We need specifics. How bad was it? Was he on Church welfare? Had he moved into his parent’s basement? Was he living on his food storage? Did he file bankruptcy? For some people a financial crisis is actually quite mild, but they think it’s really bad. Some of us know and have experienced what “back to the wall” really means. Add Stage 4 cancer for a spouse to the mix, lose your job and health insurance, and then let’s talk.
John R CarpenterMarch 2, 2022
In March of 2005, a twenty pound 105mm artillery shell used for avalanche control hit the backyard of a house in Pleasant Grove, Utah. It missed its target by over 3 miles. A young child who was watching TV excaped harm despite being covered with debris. See story at: https://www.deseret.com/2005/3/29/19883755/shell-shocked-errant-avalanche-bomb-rips-pleasant-grove-home
SayshaMarch 2, 2022
The legend also states that "the spirits of long-dead Gaels appeared to the terror-stricken assembly." So fascinating! Thank you for sharing!
LisaMarch 1, 2022
My heart echoes what others have said they felt in reading this beautiful story and testimony. Thank you SO much for lifting our spirits today. Very well written!
Rochelle HaleMarch 1, 2022
I can't tell you how many times I have started journals, then let them gather dust. I love making digital photo albums for our family each year, and these have become our memoirs as well, as I highlight key events, people, etc. I have also found the "memories" section of FamilySearch invaluable to record family stories (not the entire elephant) and some sacred experiences. The privacy settings allow me to determine when and with whom to share.
Debra McCrackenMarch 1, 2022
TY for sharing this "Irish conversion story! I married into the McCrackens in CA, and so love hearing of Irish myths and legends, as I am "adopted Irish!" I love hearing how adults come to the gospel, having been a life-long member. I often wonder if I would have been wise enough to recognize truth.
NiallMarch 1, 2022
❤️ Fantastic Stephen
HalMarch 1, 2022
Wonderful article, thank you!! Even in Utah County our children are being bombarded with propaganda that their confused emotions during adolescence are likely because of gender confusion. Our own daughter was troubled by this for about two years. Fortunately, with maturity, she is realizing her roiling feelings and emotions during adolescence were a normal part of maturation and that mastering her passions during that time rather than giving into them helped her to realize that she really was attracted to young men. She is now embracing her femininity. The difference is night and day - she is now so much happier than she was when she was allowing society to convince her that she was the wrong gender.
Ken HazelbakerMarch 1, 2022
My wife suggested I just take some islands of time and just list bullets - whenever they occurred. It's the capture that is so important. Another time just take one - put the flesh on that skeleton and at another time, do it again. I can take care of order or other details later. She showed me how my smart phone will convert my talking into text!! Wow, it doesn't get any easier than that! (It took some time to learn how to talk slower for better text conversion accuracy - but what a miracle!)
Robert D. BellMarch 1, 2022
I feel this article is RIGHT ON TARGET! Thank you, thank you for your conscientious wording and citing of applicable scripture.
Sally WibleMarch 1, 2022
Why do your life stories have to be woven together? For the past nine years (minus 2 Covid years) I have hosted a group ladies where we write our Life Story in short stories. We read our stories and discuss them - we learn from one another. Many of us are now doing StoryWorth - so our stories will be in book form. Much more interesting to read a short story than one long Life Story. Thank you for your article, very good, need more like it to prompt people to write their Life Stories
HalMarch 1, 2022
This is painful for so many parents. While I think the advice given is good, I think maybe there is too much blame placed on the parents and we need to understand that the child bears some responsibility as well. Despite our continuous efforts to reach out to him, out oldest son cut us out of his life over ten years ago, but his younger brother and his family remain close to us. We also adopted two girls. Again, our oldest daughter rebelled against everything we tried to teach her. Her younger sister, however, embraced our family values and we have a wonderful relationship. Our two children who have distanced themselves from us love to use catch-phrases similar to "Toxic Positivity" to excuse their behavior. I'm sorry, but such phrases smack of "junk" psychology and seem to be a convenient way to avoid taking responsibility for one's own actions. Parents make mistakes, no doubt about that. However, I think we sometimes blame parents (and parents blame themselves) for ALL the problems in a family and forget that the children also play a huge role in family dynamics - especially as they grow to adulthood. The scriptures provide similar examples - Cain and Able, Esau and Jacob, Laman/Lemuel and Sam/Nephi/Jacob/Joseph. I'm sure Adam and Eve, Isaac and Rebekah, Lehi and Sariah loved all their children but some choose to abandon their families and there's not much we can do about it except to continue to love them, pray for them, and keep reaching out to them. Beating ourselves up, however, will never make the relationship better.
Annette MillerMarch 1, 2022
Wallace Goddard you are heaven-sent. You always hit the nail on the head. I love how you love and show us the wY.
MaryannFebruary 28, 2022
I really appreciate Brother Steurer's comments about allowing others to experience what they are really feeling, instead of trying to gloss it over. When someone immediately begins with "positive" preaching in these situations, I feel like the reality of my painful situation is being denied. Instead of trying to "fix" me, I just need to be understood and to feel someone's compassion for my unhappy feelings.
Russ ParkerFebruary 28, 2022
Great Story Stephen, I served my mission in Ireland in the mid 70's and never heard that story. Given what happened there at the death of Christ it would indicate that The Irish are of lost Israel - no surprise to me or any others who served there. I too miss that rainy green Island (I don't miss the cold rainy winters in Dublin though - I shiver just thinking about it)
Kathleen BirdFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for this beautiful story that resonates in my Irish heart. I've always wondered where are the cultural stories of the earth's upheaval 2000 years ago. Now I know Irelands story because of you.
TimFebruary 28, 2022
Regardless of where one stands religiously or politically, it is unconscionable to allow a child to be killed who is capable of being born alive. What makes such a killing less objectionable just because the child has not drawn a breath?
Jo Ann OkelberryFebruary 28, 2022
This was so delightful, uplifting, and spiritual. Thank you so much for sharing your life and this beautiful story.
Marie H.February 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your faith journey, conversion and your testimony! I traveled to Ireland in 2019 to meet relatives my mother found in the late 1970s so I love reading anything about that beautiful country.
HmomFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing such an inspiring conversion story!
Debbi BaileyFebruary 28, 2022
I truly loved your article today. “The One” is so important to the Lord… and He will miraculously micro-manage ways to bring souls to Him. My ancestors are from Ireland and I was touched by your beautiful story of your life growing up and your conversion to the Gospel of Jesus Christ because of your reading the Book of Mormon. Thank you again.
Ovala ToiaivaoFebruary 28, 2022
What an amazing article! Quite a testimony to the truthfulness of the BoM and Joseph Smith's role as a prophet. I mean how on earth could a young and poor farm boy in New York knew such things unless of course it was revealed to him by an angel of the Lord as he claimed? Amazing, truly amazing!!!
Leslie Pearson ReesFebruary 28, 2022
I love that you shared the story of King Conor and the signs of the Savior's death given to the people of Ireland! It truly does give testimony of the fulfillment of prophecies in 1 Nephi 19. A number of years ago when I published my book on the "Lost" tribes of Israel, I included that account because it touched me deeply. Thanks for sharing your story!
RosieBFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for this thoughtful article. My sister has been having a horrible time dealing with the fact that her only son hasn't spoken to her for the past 2 years. She & I were raised in a family that practiced toxic positivity & gaslighting. We both became single mothers at age 18. It's difficult to change family patterns when you're in survival mode. Just being honest with my children, instead of defensive, has kept our communication open. I'm praying for healing for my sister & my nephew.
PaulineFebruary 28, 2022
Oh this is such a wonderful and beautiful story! Inspiring! Thank you for sharing!
Priscilla J OwenFebruary 28, 2022
I loved reading this article, and as I was reading, I felt the whisperings of the spirit confirming to me of my own testimony concerning Joseph Smith and his ministry. I am so grateful to be a part of this great gathering... I loved the tale of this great Irish King. Thank you
RhondaFebruary 28, 2022
Thank you for sharing your wonderful conversion story. It touched my heart!
brian stubbsFebruary 28, 2022
Very inspiring Stephen. I greatly appreciate hearing your account--the legend, your story, open-mindedness, and diligence in seeking truth--all too often lacking in today's great-and-spacious-building derisions instead of diligently digging into details.
James ScottFebruary 28, 2022
Having an Irish ancestry I was intrigued by the “olde” stories and legends my grandfather related of faerie circles, the little people , the battles of kings and the bravery of the heroes and how God was such an important part of their lives. What a wonderful narrative of your life and the connection of your early life and how the Book of Mormon connected to your early church lessons.
Alex WrightFebruary 28, 2022
Stephen, you truly have the story teller’s gift. Thank you for sharing. I absolutely love this story you experienced. My family and I lived in Dublin for 2 years and we read many fairy tales. We never heard of this one, but now we have and will read it together. Cheers.
Dora, SloveniaFebruary 28, 2022
Beautiful testimony, thank you!
John C. GreeneFebruary 28, 2022
I am also an Irishman (born in America) who was a Catholic and was baptized a member of the Church at age 32. Because of my love of and interest in Ireland, many years ago I started reading "The Story of the Irish Race" by Seamus MacManus. When I read the story of the death of Conor Mac Nessa on pages 26 and 27, I immediately recognized that it paralleled the account of the prophet Zenos in 1 Nephi 19:12 "The God of Nature suffers." I highlighted and cross-referenced the two books. There is also a footnote to that story which says that an Irishman, Conal Cearnach, was in Jerusalem and witnessed the Crucifixion. "A representative of every race of mankind," says the legend, "was on the Hill of Calvary at the dreadful hour."
Terry Montague Rupert IdahoFebruary 27, 2022
Thank you, Jennie.
Jeanette Goates SmithFebruary 27, 2022
What a gift you have given so many for so long. Hope to stay in touch.
Rex LoweFebruary 27, 2022
Really movingly similar to several strengthening experiences I’ve had, which have come at times when I needed them most. Thanks for your writings, you’ve got the talent to write so that at times you hit the soft spot & I get a little testy eyed.
Nada WilliamsFebruary 27, 2022
I Love your reviews and I am also a Clair Poulson fan. I think I have read everyone of his books. It's been a great ride so far. Enjoy these next years. Also, I love your own books!!
JanieFebruary 27, 2022
Lol. Loved it
Corey D.February 27, 2022
Thanks Meridian for having the courage to reprint articles like this. It's pretty much the end of democracy in Canada and I don't think people realize how far along this same path we are here in the US.
Melinda ScottFebruary 26, 2022
Thank you for sharing your wonderful insight! I will look forward with curiosity! :)
Gwen G KrumpermanFebruary 26, 2022
Thank you for your reviews over the years. I value your recommendations. Best wishes in your future adventrues!
John R CarpenterFebruary 26, 2022
There shall be wars and rumors of war ...
Susan HansenFebruary 26, 2022
Thanks for you dedication to sharing literature!
Rochelle HaleFebruary 25, 2022
Thank you for a beautiful article. I wish I had had this much insight forty years ago. Thankfully, I was able to maintain my faith during a long emotional and physical struggle, after which one child miraculously came into our family. My middle name is Rebecca, my sister's is Rachel, and had I a daughter she would have been called Sarah Elizabeth. These are remarkable women whose examples we can look to for how they dealt with a number of challenges.
MicheleFebruary 25, 2022
I applaud the writer for reaching out to this wonderful resource. Geoff has such healthy advice. My daughter cut me off without much information; interactions were indeed painful. I chose to give her the space she clearly wanted, wrote her a letter of love and support. She eventually moved through it.
LoriFebruary 25, 2022
Oh Thank you, Thank you for your beautiful article!! Yes, I have cried my face off, and sooo get the other emotions and inquiries you have shared. Thank you for so eloquently reminding us of the gift of motherhood that is ours, even if we have not born children.
JimFebruary 25, 2022
Thank you for addressing this. I'm the father that had a temper at home, and have two sons that won't talk to me, despite repeated efforts to reach out to them. Both have withdrawn from other members of the family (including siblings and both parents - divorced now)
P.L. WhitmanFebruary 24, 2022
Thank you for 20 years of wonderful reviews! i have often purchased books based on your recommendations. You will be missed!
Marti ScottFebruary 24, 2022
I always looked forward to your reviews. I will really miss you and them.
Sharee HughesFebruary 24, 2022
I am also a Poulson fan and read this book some months ago. Great story. I am sorry you will not be reviewing any more. While I don't always agree with your reviews, especially of romance novels, which I tend to dislike, You have led me to some great reads. I was thinking of sending you one of my books to read. I hope Meridian gets a new reviewer.
James ScottFebruary 24, 2022
Congratulations and good luck for your future. Thanks for your commentary and evaluations and the encouragement to be reading.
Mariam KitchenFebruary 24, 2022
Thanks for your wonderful reviews! Good luck with your future!
Teri N.February 23, 2022
Would you might be able to please list the nutrition information for this recipe? It looks delicious, but my we have some diabetics in our family and I'm interested in knowing the fiber, sugar, and carb content. Thank you!
Scot ProctorFebruary 22, 2022
The new podcast episodes are always added to the podcast page at latterdaysaintmag.com/podcast and also available by clicking on "Come Follow Me" button on the gray categories bar at the top of the page.
AnnaFebruary 22, 2022
You nailed it again! Thank you.
Ed GayhartFebruary 22, 2022
Must be another one of those conspiracy theories!
R. BiddulphFebruary 22, 2022
No one would have believed that the Government's chief immunologist would have been funding the Wuhan virus. Half the U.S. would have not believed that the losing 2020 presidential candidate would have funded a seditious conspiracy to overthrow the winner.
Gary BealFebruary 22, 2022
Hess: I love your balanced and thoughtful manner in handling such a sensitive topic as secret combinations. Thanks for your effort in publishing this. May more of us read and integrate the counsel you put forth!
Ronald BarnesFebruary 22, 2022
I'm glad that you mentioned Isaac's age at the time of the sacrifice, although Josephus gives it as 25. In either case, when people tell the story they always mention the faith of Abraham but neglect the faith of Isaac. He was not a child as he is often depicted to be. He was an adult who could have refused to go along with it. According to Josephus, after Abraham explained the situation, "So he went immediately to the alter to be sacrificed." Abraham's faith was great, but Isaac's faith may have been even greater.
Helen A HederFebruary 21, 2022
Why is it so hard to find the latest podcasts? I have not been able to fine the podcast for Genius 24 - 27. Podcast 9
MaryannFebruary 21, 2022
Please know you are not alone. Thousands of us are experiencing the sorrow of having our children decide to leave the church. It broke our hearts when my son took this course, but we continue to pray for him and I know that the prayers of parents for their children are very powerful. I also pray for him when I attend the temple. I believe the Lord will keep calling after his children, and when I am sorrowful I can find some peace by trusting Him.
ChrisFebruary 21, 2022
Thank you Joni...honest discussions about sexual addiction and recovery unfortunately are rare in our wards and stakes. Some leaders get it but most don't, and we need more training, more discussion, and certainly more understanding in the church. I'm a recovering addict and with my wife serve as ARP missionaries, specifically in a couples' meeting. It's the best meeting in the church. Why? Because everyone is open, honest, and vulnerable. There's no hiding our problems or pain, and there's so much understanding and love. And there's awesome celebration in recovery! Grace is real, the Atonement works!
HelenFebruary 21, 2022
I never realized how little we read of him. It is comforting to know that our “smaller” lives are no less honorable than the “greater” ones around us.
Alisi Iongi FiliagaFebruary 20, 2022
Cannot thank you enough for this podcast. Weekly I would cut and paste the transcript and save it to a weekly file. If in case my week is so hectic I did not want to miss out. It would be a quiet moment of the week to re-read and dig deep. I am blessed thank you for sharing your podcast. Light receive on this end remarkable!
MikeFebruary 19, 2022
Geoff, why aren't you telling this lady to get out of this relationship? This kind of behavior on the part of the husband is NOT excusable under ANY circumstances. Twenty years of this behavior should make any sane person realize he's NOT going to change unless something drastic happens. Maybe her leaving him will make him wake up, but either way she shouldn't have to put up with this. Definitely get legal counsel and make a plan. You deserve better!!
judy fosterFebruary 19, 2022
Thank you so much!!! This is exactly what I needed to read today and want to reread later!!!
Kathleen WoodburyFebruary 19, 2022
What about Helaman chapter 4?
Charlene HeatonFebruary 19, 2022
I love the colored picture of Abraham about to be sacrificed. Can I get a copy? Also, are there color renditions of the other two hieroglyphics? I love the insights and knowledge you share in your podcasts. Sincerely, Charlene
DeborahFebruary 18, 2022
Bless you Sister Linford for sharing your insight and testimony refined through your experiences. You have added a drop of oil to my lamp.
Cynthia NielsenFebruary 18, 2022
Many thanks for this remarkable gathering of Abrahamic sources to bring to the eye a beautiful portrait of an eminently honorable man. His life has truly blessed the whole earth!
Susan DuttonFebruary 18, 2022
Great in-depth article. Thank you for your careful research and thoughtful discussion
Ron BarnesFebruary 18, 2022
I knew my wife was ‘the one’ from our first date. We are not ‘perfect for each other’. We are not ‘soul mates’. We both have things that we would change about each other. I’m sure that we have both given the other reasons for divorce. In our day to day living, I seldom get those ‘loving feelings’. However, every once in a while, something happens that bring those feelings to the surface and out into the open. Even when I don’t feel them, I know that they are there. We’ve been married 45 years.
Jewel AdamsFebruary 18, 2022
I know you think that participating in this is a good thing, but truthfully, to me, as a black woman, this month is always very degrading and actually makes things worse than better.
JanelFebruary 18, 2022
Thank you for sharing these stories and your testimony of gratitude. I can’t wait to share this with my family, especially my three teenagers. Perspective and gratitude are everything!
Dave HansenFebruary 18, 2022
Brother Halvorsen has set an example of Christian behavior that will forever be remembered!
Ronald PolsleyFebruary 18, 2022
Satan is breathing down our necks, can't you smell the sulfur? We must fight or it is over, me, you not someone else.
Kathleen AnnaFebruary 17, 2022
I was reminded again recently by a brother in his Sacrament meeting talk, that we are not here 'to fix' people but to love them and never give up hope.
PattyFebruary 17, 2022
This article is enlightening and motivating. Thank you!
Scot ProctorFebruary 17, 2022
The article has been updated to reflect the answer to your question.
KathleenFebruary 17, 2022
Our first experience with ARP was perhaps 14 years ago when my husband provided transportation and support for a ward member, to meetings. My husband returned home saying how incredible the program was and that it would help anyone with any problem. Seven years ago we were called as Addiction Recovery Missionaries and were so impressed with the spirit of the program, as well as the steps and process. Thank you to the Church for providing not only spiritual direction but hands on, practical, nuts and bolts tools such as ARP and the Self Reliance Programs.
Steve KittelsonFebruary 17, 2022
Great article! As a professional counselor and former leader of an Addiction Recovery group, I encourage everyone struggling with addiction to let go of shame. That comes from the adversary. Recovery is possible! Addiction does rewire the brain, but studies have shown that the brain has a quality described as "neuroplasticity" and it can rewire the brain back into a healthy state. And, of course, the cleansing and healing power of the atonement of Jesus Christ works miracles! With Him, there is always hope!
RuthFebruary 17, 2022
I signed up and really wanted to participate in this but when I tried to get in Zoom I was told it was full and I could only participate if someone left the site. I was not late! Are you going to present a summary of that meeting???
KathrynFebruary 17, 2022
Thanks so much for helping expose the myth of the "gospel according to Disney." When we see couples with lasting marriages who truly adore each other (Richard G. Scott and his wife Jeanene come to mind) we tend to assume they found "the magic." But I suspect they'd be the first to say that their happy marriage came about through following Christ and making the choice to love each other and nurture their relationship every day.
Leo WinegarFebruary 17, 2022
I also experienced a crisis of faith, but I've found a way to reconstruct my beliefs and I'm once again a happy and active member of the Church. For anyone who is looking for additional support, please check out Uplift Community of Faith on Facebook. We provide a loving community and resources for those who question, and also for church members who are trying to minister to questioning loved ones.
KathleenFebruary 17, 2022
This article could not have been more timely. Just yesterday in a phone conversation with my youngest daughter, she informed me that she never going back to church. Although she has been inactive for a while, she and her husband have allowed the missionaries to visit on occasion. The pain in my heart is excruciating, and the sorrow is deep. But I know the Lord is in charge and I have to depend on his timing.
John R CarpenterFebruary 17, 2022
OH! I forgot to mention that some other states allow hunting to start on private land a few days ahead of the public land hunting season. This targets nuisance animals and drives others away from private lands and increases yields on public lands. Again none of this is new! Just a new generation rediscovering old knowledge using "new" technology!
John R CarpenterFebruary 17, 2022
I find it strange that this information is seen as unusual. Hunters have known the last several hundred years that firearm use announces to prey animals that a deadly hunter has arrived. And the smart animals move away from the noise. For experienced hunters and older researchers, this is seen as common sense. Previous studies such as in the American Hunter or American Rifleman documented this behavior in the 1950s and those articles referenced even earlier works. Hunters learn that prey animals generally dislike sudden increases in other things like an increase in people noise and vehicle traffic. Over time, the normal use of the land, without harm to prey animals, allow those animals get used to that level of “noise.” But, a sudden increase of “noise” makes them nervous and many move away from such disruptions. Again this is nothing new! My guess is that this study is nothing more than a re-discovery of behavior seen repeatedly over time. But sadly, non-hunters and those ignorant politicians and intellectuals will likely miss use such a new study for anti-hunting or anti-gun purposes.
Andre J. MostertFebruary 17, 2022
My wife and I live in the Dutch Fields area of Midway, Utah. Each year we see an increasing number of deer and moose moving into our and adjoining yards during the hunting season. We love to have them. So far, we have not seen any elk in this settled area.
ShaunaFebruary 17, 2022
Thank you--clearly Abraham understood, as the Savior did, that obedience is the first law of heaven." And thank you for sharing your personal story. It takes great courage to be vulnerable. loved the definition of priority
PattieFebruary 17, 2022
Thank you for your thoughtful, well-written from your heart, and love for God and family, experience.
Debbi BaileyFebruary 17, 2022
Thank you for your beautiful insights and wisdom!
Thank you!!February 16, 2022
I sent this to Jacob, the author. Jacob, thank you for being a direct answer to prayer. I tend to want to find ways to enhance my marriage but in the end I end up getting disappointed from the way things turn out. I compare what the media portrays a relationship to look like and think it always needs to be that way or there’s something wrong with me. I asked God to speak to me and help me sort out my feelings and the next day, you publish this. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Your words were his for me. Thank you! I’ve always enjoyed your articles, but this one was phenomenal for me.
VaLoye OlsonFebruary 16, 2022
Would have loved to watch the meeting but the Zoom connection said the meeting was full. I hope it was recorded and that it can be watched sometime soon. (Zoom on my phone said that there were a total of 100 allowed. I don't believe that.)
ThanksFebruary 16, 2022
Jacob, thank you for being a direct answer to prayer. I tend to want to find ways to enhance my marriage but in the end I end up getting disappointed from the way things turn out. I compare what the media portrays a relationship to look like and think it always needs to be that way or there’s something wrong with me. I asked God to speak to me and help me sort out my feelings and the next day, you publish this. It was exactly what I needed to hear. Your words were his for me. Thank you! I’ve always enjoyed your articles, but this one was phenomenal for me.
JoJean LoflinFebruary 16, 2022
Is it possible to watch a recorded version of this?
Phillip C. SmithFebruary 16, 2022
A very thoughtful article worthy of serious consideration
Becky S.February 16, 2022
That was an article full of interesting ideas that just make sense when looking at relationships. Thank you. I have three marriageable ages children and one is getting married and the other two are just stuck in this idea of the perfect person. They can’t get past the first steps in a relationship and I wish they would see beyond Disney happily ever after and Hallmark movie love. It takes time and effort to be with someone. It is worth all the ups and downs for a deeper connections we don’t see in Hollywood portrayal of relationships.
C. PetersonFebruary 16, 2022
"Anyone who imagines that bliss is normal is going to waste a lot of time running around shouting that he's been robbed. The fact is that most putts don't drop. Most beef is tough. Most children grow up to be just ordinary people. Most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration. Most jobs are more often dull than otherwise. . . . "Life is like an old-time rail journey—delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders, and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed. The trick is to thank the Lord for letting you have the ride." —Gordon B. Hinckley
Peggy WardFebruary 16, 2022
Love your insight. I know your article isn't meant to cover all aspects of "being in love" but I'd like to add that I personally have to choose to love, pray to love, work at being loving - always. Of course that's with those who are not abusing me or pushing boundaries or harming my well-being in some way. Another critical issue I have discovered in not having that "wow" loving feeling is plain ol' stress in life, also, hormones, tiredness, too many demands, too much of anything. With enough effort, I can have sparks and warmth and desire. And it's worth the effort.
ColleenFebruary 16, 2022
Infatuation fades, love is a decision,serve one another.
Ivor HoldenFebruary 16, 2022
Will this be recorded so those who are unable to join the presentstion tonight might be able to watch it at a later date? Many thanks
Ron KjarFebruary 16, 2022
As the great Clint Black wrote and sang: Love isn't someplace that we fall It's something that we do
KathleenFebruary 15, 2022
Good reminders of our human sides and experiences - put to music so beautifully.
KathleenFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you for presenting the facts about membership with the musical groups. I'm often asked about the process. Kudos to this sweet African Sister who opens our gratitude perspective.
JamesFebruary 15, 2022
People can't say whatever they want and then blame others for "getting offended" Even Christ says that in Matt 12:37.
Martha ClantonFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you so much for this wonderful teaching about gratitude. It has helped me to see just how the Lord is guiding me through similar struggles. When I feel myself drifting through the treacherous shoals of depression and anxiety, He prompts some of the wonderful women in my life to reach out to me even after they have moved far away. Their loving kindness buoys my spirit and helps me paddle just a little farther each day. With their help, I can feel my Savior reaching out to me. He has the Holy Spirit guide me toward safer waters. I may not see the way my path turns, but He dies. With His help, I know I will get there eventually.
SimplicioFebruary 15, 2022
When I was single, I seldom found dating advice useful—except for this, which transformed my experience: "You can be 'right,' or you can be effective." Too often we focus too much on the former, often in the form of, "I shouldn't have to...." That's probably 'right.' But is it effective?
RaLee HallFebruary 15, 2022
I loved this! Thank you.
RaLee HallFebruary 15, 2022
I loved this article. Thank you for taking the time to post it.
Amy FoxFebruary 15, 2022
What a wonderful story of gratitude! Thank you for sharing this.
Jacque BrownFebruary 15, 2022
This isn’t just good, it’s great! I hope this team continues to work together and produce more beautiful music.
LewisFebruary 15, 2022
There are so many wonderful lessons here, not just about gratitude. As I ponder the story of the hotel owner, I think about how rich and full his life became as he opened his mind and heart to a group despised and hated. As we seem to live in a time when spite and hatred of those "not like us" is so rampant, we too should open our hearts and minds. It is, after all, one of the great lessons we glean from the life of the Savior. I, for one, am extremely grateful that you share your wonderful gift of telling meaningful stories with us all.
Robert SpeakmanFebruary 15, 2022
Looked him up on FamilySearch. There are 2 Jason Macks in FamilySearch which appear to be the same person. Neither is sealed to a spouse and both indicate that SS is unavailable. Where did you get your sealing information?
HalFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you for this article! I had to take a hard look at myself and realize I am often guilty of this foible. I catch myself wanting others to accept my opinions as their own and being miffed when they don't. I will try harder to step outside myself and try to observe such conversations as a third party to see if I can become more aware of how my words and actions might be affecting the person I'm communicating with. Thanks again!
Jervae HornungFebruary 15, 2022
Amazingly wonderful story of true love! With God nothing is impossible!
Jervae HornungFebruary 15, 2022
What a wonderful reminder to be grateful for every situation we find ourselves in during this life. Thank you so much for sharing- I needed this today!
HollyFebruary 15, 2022
Thank you for preparing and sharing this. I didn't know I needed to read this today, but I did.
IreneFebruary 14, 2022
I LOVE this story!
Kathy ThatcherFebruary 14, 2022
Loved reading your thoughts and becoming lost in the beautiful quotes. Great read for Valentine’s Day. I’m in awe that that great kid of long ago who frequented our home has become such a romantic. Did living around fireworks have anything to do with this outcome?
Sarah HinzeFebruary 14, 2022
This is a powerful and sad story but I love that they are sealed and are together in the eternities. They were tricked out of being together on earth and yet God did prevail in bringing them together at last.
JoWoFebruary 14, 2022
Thanks for sharing this. I’d never heard this story. I love how Lucy Smith wrote of the broken hearts and how you followed up and learned that wonders never cease.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 14, 2022
This is such beautiful doctrine, thank you for putting together all the quotes and thoughts about the great work we all have opportunity to participate in!!
LexaGraemeFebruary 14, 2022
Thank you for this. I love finding chiasm in the scriptures, and this seems to have been hidden in plain sight. Wonderful! As for the chiasm not blending perfectly, there are a couple in the Book of Mormon that fit that description, too.
Corey D.February 13, 2022
I appreciate Meridians willingness to publish these articles. I haven't read this ladies book but I recommend to everyone who read or reads this article to read two other books, "The Economic Theory of Sex, Industrialism, Feminism and the Disintegration of the Family" and "Sex Scandal the Drive to Abolish Male and Female". Satan's attacks always are directed two ways, getting us to misuse our agency and our physical bodies, two things he does not have and what better and clever way than to confuse people especially the young about gender.
Sherry EthridgeFebruary 13, 2022
What is the reference for Wendy Ulrich’s statement please? We so enjoy these lessons. Thank you!
Deb LIeningFebruary 13, 2022
I appreciate this article very much and the comment by K. Chin. This issue of emotional resilience and maturity comes up frequently in the mission health councils where we serve. I was thrilled to hear your YSA sons have completed the inspired Emotional Resilience course prior to serving. This idea was floated as something that might be helpful mission preparation in one meeting recently. <3
CorinaFebruary 13, 2022
Una clase superior, gracias.
Merlin FreiFebruary 12, 2022
Thank you for an inspiring article about Wilford Woodruff. Zerah Pulsipher is my Grandmother Cramer's Great Grandfather. We are pleased with Zerah's efforts to leave for a mission and be guided to the Woodruff home. It is another story of how the Lord guides his people who rely on inspiration and revelation.
Rosalie Madsen PiersonFebruary 12, 2022
We are envious that you will be able to take your tour to Petra! The tour we took a few years back (with another business) did not include this site of the " New Wonders of the World"! I will google that to see them! You always have amazing photos, Scot & Maureen, even in the ads!!
GrannyFebruary 12, 2022
Elder Carlos Godoy visiting our stake related a story about Elder Eying. They were in the church building cafeteria eating lunch and someone asked Elder Eyring who he though thought would win the presidential election. Elder Eyring's response: It doesn't matter. The things in list 1 strike me as Martha Worries. Some are not important in the long run, some feel important but we don't know the answer to. Better to choose the better part and focus on list 2, keep the two great commandments, and wait on the Lord.
L.N.February 12, 2022
I agree with the author of this article. I have had multiple encounters with BYU Grad students at a major University, whose feelings were hurt by me while teaching a Gospel Doctrine Class. Instead of just walking out, we had to hear about their tender feelings unable to live with my comments. If they were my kid (I have Grandkids their age) I would have verbally straighten them and taken away their cell phone for a year. What self centered babies are being raised and educated these days.
L.N.February 12, 2022
I live in a town with a major university, we get a dozen or two BYU grad students move here to finish their degrees. What doctrines of the gospel are they being taught at BYU? Besides their educational arrogance, they bring with them a gospel learning that is mixed with the theories of men. In discussions, their arrogance leads them to override us who have less formal education. I am seeing Satan's teachings mixed with gospel truth's everywhere with these 'kids'. Are the Brethren aware of this?
Andrew CurrieFebruary 12, 2022
Sounds to me that at BYU we might be seeing the tares separating themselves from the wheat. Also, we're witnessing the fulfillment of Elder Ezra Taft Benson's prophesy that the day would come when a college education was worthless.
Carol BridgesFebruary 12, 2022
I don't know who first said it, but only a fool takes offense where none is intended. That is very true. My question is what does that make those who embrace the current tendency to look for excuses to be offended?
SimplicioFebruary 11, 2022
Good piece! "Outrage Masquerading as Virtue" was the technique used by the Lamanite kings and most of the other anti-heroes in the Book of Mormon to stir up the people unto anger and conflict. "Now when king Noah had heard of the words which Abinadi had spoken unto the people, he was also wroth; and he said: Who is Abinadi, that I and my people should be judged of him, or who is the Lord, that shall bring upon my people such great affliction? I command you to bring Abinadi hither, that I may slay him, for he has said these things that he might stir up my people to anger one with another, and to raise contentions among my people [Abinadi is being 'divisive!']; therefore I will slay him." Mosiah 11:27-28
Robert BellFebruary 11, 2022
Remember, His Church is an international church (not just a Utah or USA church), and my informal conversations show that many LDS members outside the USA view our politics as ridiculous, unbelievable toward the fair treatment of people and not very Matthew 25-like. We in the USA should re-focus our daily behaviors to match the Big Ten Commandments and the many related Christian (and human) virtues and quite worrying about one-up-man-ship, inhumane treatment of others, contentions, and divisions among us (read the BofM). If we are not being Christlike minute-by-minute, then we have yet a lot to learn in this mortal probation.
John R CarpenterFebruary 11, 2022
In the beginning, “… an angel of God who was in authority in the presence of God, who rebelled against the Only Begotten Son whom the Father loved and who was in the bosom of the Father, was thrust down from the presence of God and the Son, And was called Perdition, for the heavens wept over him—he was Lucifer, a son of the morning. Doctrine and Covenants 76:25-26 Lucifer, aka Satan, wanted all to be save al collectively and the glory of such would be given to him. Since the beginning of earth’s time, he has pursued this agenda in Heaven and on the Earth. “Our individual salvation depends on collective salvation.” This is what Satan, the Devil, teaches to man. Those that profess this are Anti-Christs denying the individual salvation of the only begotten son of our Father in Heaven. Many members have voted for and supported such believers of collective salvation. Christ Jesus teaches, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6 In the Last days before our Savior’s second coming “…there shall arise false Christs, and false prophets, and shall shew great signs and wonders; insomuch that, if it were possible, they shall deceive the very elect. Matthew 24:24 King James Version Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints “…are called to bring to pass the gathering of mine elect; for mine elect hear my voice and harden not their hearts;” Doctrine and Covenants 29:7 But not all members of the Church of Jesus Christ will be saved in these last days. They will seek other paths like collective salvation before individual salvation. Collective salvation is a quasi-contract religious concept that is the antithesis of individual or personal salvation. It is a mandate of social justice which projects rights not normally given by the laws of a country or state. Its premises are based on dialogue, not accepted doctrine. It supports the perpetual Marxist class struggle for the self-claimed “divine plan of a socialist nirvana under the concept of progressive millennialism. Those that believe in collective salvation often claim Christianity and other religions as their base religion, but see all religions as one of many paths toward salvation. They stress that any form of salvation must be first a collective action of society becoming one in equality by overturning the past sins of human society and the pillage of the environment.
RandyFebruary 11, 2022
The Earth does not need another Savior. D&C 104:17 For the earth is full, and there is enough and to spare; yea, I prepared all things, and have given unto the children of men to be agents unto themselves. We did not create the earth. We cannot destroy the earth. The earth will serve God's purpose regardless of what we do. The scriptures are full of instructions on how to behave and where to look for guidance. When the questions have already been answered in the scriptures' why do you keep asking hoping to receive another answer? Are you occupied with unprofitable meats? Hebrews13:1-9 1 Let brotherly love continue. 2 Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. 3 Remember them that are in bonds, as bound with them; and them which suffer adversity, as being yourselves also in the body. 4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. 5 Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. 6 So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me. 7 Remember them which have the rule over you, who have spoken unto you the word of God: whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation. 8 Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever. 9 Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein. Follow the Prophet: 11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; 12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: 13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ: 14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive; Conspiring Men and Women are all around you. Follow the prophet. D&C89:4 Behold, verily, thus saith the Lord unto you: In consequence of evils and designs which do and will exist in the hearts of conspiring men in the last days, I have warned you, and forewarn you, by giving unto you this word of wisdom by revelation Learn to follow God's plan for you rather than expecting God to embrace your plan.
Stewart LangFebruary 11, 2022
Things can be so simple - but we make things so HARD! The Prophet Joseph Smith said “We teach Correct principles and our people govern themselves. Our Primary children learn a wonderful song “Follow the Prophet and don’t go astray. Personally our family “follows the Prophets” and we don’t have anything close to your lists -it’s quite easy actually! I have been a convert of the Church since 1971 and I wavered ONCE when it comes to Church history, doctrine and conflict. A wiser older member at the time gave me some excellent counsel to me when questions came up: “for those of us that don’t believe in revelation, there is no adequate explanation and for those of us that do believe in revelation we stand by until the Lord speaks!” We have found this excellent counsel time and time again. .
Dennis HorneFebruary 11, 2022
There are some intriguing thoughts expressed in this piece. I think it largely accurate. And there is no question that this world's/society's values and beliefs are largely corrupt and is corrupting LDS youth. I do disagree with one minor matter. I do not think transgender surgeries and social transitions or people that have done those things should be "supported" in that area. It is a matter of supporting and tolerating and accepting a lie they have told themselves and that has been told to them. God has never made the mistake of putting a male spirit in a female body or a female spirit in a male body. The relevant scriptures state: D&C 93:24: "And truth is knowledge of things as they are, and as they were, and as they are to come." “The Spirit speaketh the truth and lieth not. Wherefore, it speaketh of things as they really are, and of things as they really will be; wherefore, these things are manifested unto us plainly, for the salvation of our souls” (Jacob 4:13) To go along with someone living a lie is to me to buy into that lie and support it. Men are men and women are women. This is another reason for the gift of discernment. So I disagree with the author on that point. Otherwise, some excellent food for thought. I have a daughter that the internet activists and her school peers ruined in the same way as one person described in the article. Wrapped down her chest until she could afford the elective surgery to have it removed; takes hormone shots; has a low voice; dresses like a man. She also breaks most every commandment in the scriptures but murder. Her life is a disaster zone. As Elder Badnar said: When any of Heavenly Father’s children misuse their physical tabernacles by violating the law of chastity, by using drugs and addictive substances, by disfiguring or defacing themselves, or by worshipping the false idol of body image, whether their own or that of others, Satan is delighted. To those of us who know and understand the plan of salvation, any defiling of the body is rebellion and a denial of our true identity as sons and daughters of God. https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2010/06/things-as-they-really-are?lang=eng
Ocean AnsleighFebruary 11, 2022
I loved hearing about the choir audition process. I'm thankful for all of those volunteers. We listen every Sunday from the other side of the country.
H Christman HowellFebruary 11, 2022
I can relate to many of your statements. We've been trained to see and know right from wrong, so it's easy to line up with those ideas that make up what we believe to be our core values. The counsel to focus on the realization that most of us are family centered is a great help. The other help is to focus on the bigger picture of mortal life and our eternal life. A lot less time consuming the headlines and more time in the Book of Mormon has been the greatest relief to this distraction.
KarenFebruary 10, 2022
My three year old brother, George, was prepared for his death by an angel. She came to him several times before our house burned down and he died in the fire. The night before he died he told me that she had visited him and told him she was going to take him to Heaven. He had been there a few months earlier when he drowned, but was brought back by an older brother giving him CPR. The night before he died in the fire, he talked to me about what Heaven was like and that he had his own white horse there. He had told others in our family of his angel, "Maralee - you know, the one who sings so pretty."
Kay MitchellFebruary 10, 2022
What an amazing journey you have taken us on. I have always felt a special spirit each time I visit Hawaii from either Australia or New Zealand (lived in both) & definitely my heart is there. I went to university when I was 60 & incorporated an Hawaiian project as part of my curriculum. Of course this project reflected in depth of the Hawaiian History. I was so saddened to learn how the Queen was treated. But didn't she have such a positive attitude. I love how you wrote about the events of her asking President Cannon for a blessing. What a humble moment for them both. Every time I think of Hawaii my heart becomes full. Thank you so much for the warmth you shared as you wrote about this treasured history. Aloha.
Wayne KalamaFebruary 10, 2022
Bro. Peterson, your well written articles on the Middle East have always been informative and inspiring to me. I am from Laie. When I was born our family lived on Moana street where the road from the Temple now runs uninterrupted to the sea. Thank you for your informative article. It brought back wonderful memories from that almost forgotten time and place.
Stephen J, KelseyFebruary 10, 2022
Thank you for this. My great grandfather, Hyrum Smith Woolley, went on a mission the then Sandwich Islands in 1873 and while there re-built the boilers for the sugar factory. His account of his experiences is fascinating.
Karell BinghamFebruary 10, 2022
Best Yet! Everything seems clear now! Blessing on you!!!1 Love karell
MaryannFebruary 10, 2022
Joni, thank you so much for the reminder that we need to seek after humility and avoid any feelings or expressions of superiority. I am wondering, though, about the example you gave of the word game. I love word games and It is common to hear someone say: "Oh, I don't know if you guys are going to be able to get this." I think it often means that it is a difficult word for the clue-giver and they are doubtful about whether they can come up with good clues. Of course, I wasn't there and did not see facial expressions or body language. I do think it is beneficial to give people the benefit of a doubt regarding their intent. I know there are times when I have made comments and realized later that I may have given a false impression of what I really meant. Perhaps, along with avoiding pride, we can also be charitable about how we interpret what is being said.
BrookeFebruary 10, 2022
Beautiful description. They are a special group!
GemmaFebruary 10, 2022
I agree completely. Get outta there.
LexaGraemeFebruary 9, 2022
This is funny, adorable and oh-so-believable. Thank you!
Curtis RasmussenFebruary 9, 2022
Beautiful. Thank you for bringing to light such heart-warming and refreshing insights. I could feel the love and faith of the Queen who knew there was real Power in the Priesthood. (And now I have the theme of Hawaii 5-0 playing in the back of my head!)
Nerita Flake PetersonFebruary 9, 2022
I enjoyed you humble and honest perspective
F. SidneyFebruary 9, 2022
Great article, and I totally agree too. As a therapist I once worked with a teen girl who felt unhappy as a girl, did internet searches and came out with the grand idea that she must be Lesbian. She then met up with highly motivated school people who convinced her she is actually trans. She started to constrict her breasts and wanted people to address her using all those fancy pronouns. Her mum asked if I could help her gain clarity. During the session it turned out that since she was young, this girl had family issues that resulted in her losing confidence, and at school she had repeatedly been told not to run, be loud, jump, and to make noises in the bus to school 'because she is a GIRL and only boys CAN do these things'. She had built the false belief that only by being a boy she would be free to be energetic.... And yet she was super depressed as a trans. Once the session was over she was starting to put thing together...I will say no more but may we open out eyes to what the movement is doing to our precious children. We need to let them be children.
DorrieFebruary 8, 2022
How grateful I am to have not grown up in this generation! Since I'm pushing 90, I was able to be what they called a "tomboy" I played football with the neighborhood boys, climbed trees and used my dolls for target practice. I never identified myself as a boy, I just thought they had more fun. I still do but managed to fall in love, get married at 17, bear 4 sons and enjoy playing football and climbing trees with them.
Jacki HunlowFebruary 8, 2022
Thank you for this well written fact filled article. I am sharing it far and wide!
JFebruary 8, 2022
I appreciate your approach to this topic, it's so terrible to see that medicine and even the truth has become politicized. I'm saddened that many physicians no longer take their oath seriously. No doctor would go along with the delusions experienced by a patient with schizophrenia, yet everyone should go along with a delusion a child is experiencing that is most certainly related to a mental illness? It just doesn't make sense, nor is it healthy for that to happen. It's the ultimate act of arguing against reality.
James ScottFebruary 8, 2022
A most remarkable treatise on the publishing of the Book of Abraham. It appears from the text that Wilford Woodruff carved the woodcuts of the facsimiles under the Prophet’s tutelage. As a teenager I wondered at the facsimiles and how they were reproduced for publishing. I wonder today if these wood blocks are in possession of the Church of Jesus Christ or if any of the printers prep pages are still extant?
Rita in TexasFebruary 8, 2022
My 7th great grandfather, Pauline Weaver, would have known James Ferguson very well. He was hired in Santa Fe to be the Battalion's guide to the West Coast. Not a member of the Church, Pauline left his wife and young daughters to take the "Mormons" to California, then stayed there to build a new life in Sacramento. He never came back to Santa Fe.
K. Chin, Modesto, CA North StakeFebruary 8, 2022
Thank you for your article! I am very glad for the new Emotional Resilience course that is now available through the Self-Reliance program. (Talk about an “inspiration” to develop this!) My YSA sons are just finishing their 10-week course in our stake.They have appreciated it, felt it is useful, and have gladly looked forward to their weekly group meetings! It has helped them, each, overcome some emotional hurdles and hesitations to serving missions. (They both received their mission calls last week!) Their group facilitator has been wonderful! I am looking forward to joining a new Emotional Resilience group at our stake’s next Self-Reliance kickoff meeting on March 6th. I’ve often wondered if the scriptural predictions of “…men’s hearts [failing] them…” in the last days is more about various mental and emotional challenges and illness—now facing millions of people on earth—rather than actual heart diseases? (Of course, many skilled and brilliant doctors surgeons, scientists…have made huge strides in the treatment of heart diseases and malfunctions—President Nelson included!) Perhaps, the latter day “failing hearts” are due to the complexities and emotional toll of our modern lives, and Satan’s overwhelming attack on individuals by attacking families? Without an understanding that comes from the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ (and sometimes even with it) our hearts can metaphorically “fail” as things get worse before our Savior Jesus Christ returns to earth. Again, thank you for your very timely article—and especially for the resources and “helps” you include!
KathleenFebruary 8, 2022
Clever and affective.
H PelessFebruary 7, 2022
I'm not sure why you claim women never sit in ward councils. In every ward I've served in, women have sat in council, led the important discussions, and often took lead in solving problems. I can't imagine I've been that lucky to be in unique wards. There is no way, I as a man, can do all the Lord's work without the compassion and empathy and sheer abilities of the women I am called to serve with and around. I gr up i n home were Mother was truly a Help Meet for Father and was every bit as important in our wards. Her example and service have been proof women are a vital component to everything we do as a Church. You sisters have more power than you realize, and more Christ-like attributes than most men could hope to gain. I doubt my experiences are unique, or that I've been in perfect wards. The contrary, many of the wards I've been in are small, struggling, and full of single mothers or only the woman is a member families. These women have been rock stars of service and leadership.
Jo Ann OkelberryFebruary 7, 2022
Thank you for this article. I just wish I were younger and could do more to persuade others that we are all children of God and should be treated as such. I think these medical and mental things that are done to children are a form of child abuse.
MaryannFebruary 7, 2022
It is truly a tragedy that this poor woman has endured abuse for the entire 20 years of her marriage. Her husband's abuse also extends to emotional adultery for their entire marriage. Yes, this woman needs counselling, but she also needs to go to a lawyer TODAY and find out what her rights are, and how to secure them. Then she needs to move out before the abuse escalates. She may have to stay with family or friends before she can live on her own, but this is an extreme case, and requires extreme measures. Since the husband has demonstrated for 20 years that he cares nothing for his wife's feelings, it is highly unlikely that he is going to change. It sounds like he has been physically abusive, so she also needs to file for a restraining order when she moves out. I hope she will find the strength and courage to take these needed actions. There is a better life waiting for her when she frees herself from her husband, gets counselling to heal her low self-esteem, and begins a new life. This situation needs to be taken seriously.
Harold RustFebruary 7, 2022
Thank you for your insight, for your very respectful approach, for your clear delineation of what is truth and what is a dangerous lie. I appreciate you reminded all of us to be respectful and supportive of transexuals while standing up to the movement pushing young people toward a very dangerous and bitter path.
Harold RustFebruary 7, 2022
Incredible and so genuine! His first letter is just 35 days after the Bear rebellion in Sonoma and two weeks before the Brooklyn arrived with 240 Saints into Yerba Buena (6 months later it became San Francisco). His vision of what was really the purpose of the Mormon Battalion is clearly laid out at this very early date. This one letter explains more that dozens of articles I've read about really were expectations for the Battalion. Thanks for an original artifact with real context.
SQJFebruary 7, 2022
Thanks you thank you thank you!!!. This will get the conversation going in LDS circles. LDS people are too scared to talk about this. It needs to be exposed so that people can get APPROPRIATE support and help and not affirmation. Keep talking!!
Annette BEllFebruary 7, 2022
Thank you for publishing this informative article
Robert StarlingFebruary 7, 2022
Beautiful Joni, just beautiful! I love your enthusiasm about sharing the gospel. Indeed, there is nothing more exciting or satisfying that we can do than participate in the glorious gathering of israel.
Sherry BrownFebruary 7, 2022
James Ferguson is my husband's 2nd great-grandfather. James had 4 wives total. Jane ended up being his 3rd wife (and rumored to be his favorite). My husband's grandmother was James' first wife Lucy, who he married in San Francisco in 1847. They had 7 children. He married Margaretta in 1849 (divorced in 1852, 0 children). He and Jane were married in 1851 in Salt Lake (5 children), and he married Phyllis in 1857 in SLC (2 children).
Paul EbbsFebruary 7, 2022
Every single point being advanced by this BLM action are what we were warned about in the Proclamation Of the Family. The tearing down enduring institutions has become commonplace in today’s wold. “ For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers having, having itchy ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned to fables.”
Louise smithFebruary 6, 2022
Do not purchase anything from a company that contributes to BLM.
Tammy LindstromFebruary 6, 2022
Loved this, especially the references you used that are from Middle East tradition, Jewish & Muslim. I learned a lot. Thank you.
Tony and Jeanette Ford, Nottingham EnglandFebruary 6, 2022
Every week we come home from church and listen to, and talk about, your podcast. It has become a part of our Sabbath day and we are so grateful for it. Thank you.
DJFebruary 5, 2022
Thanks for your wonderful insights on the interrelatedness of the 3 books of scripture. I have printed your article to refer to again in my future studies.
Romney BiddulphFebruary 4, 2022
Sacred clothing from New Testament times were different, but related to that mentioned in the Old Testament: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7rV6gUipBu0&ab_channel=FAIR-FaithfulAnswers%2CInformedResponse
Dallas EricksonFebruary 4, 2022
The fact that our youth are addicted to social media and that so much of it is evil makes me think we are worse off than they were in the time of Noah when their thoughts were evil continually. The availability of media, especially for our youth, concerns me and makes me feel the Lord's return is near. Come Thou Oh King of Kings!!
Kay HamiltonFebruary 4, 2022
I absolutely agree that the goal is Heavenly Parents. However, when we have been running a car with only half the wheels, we need the other set of wheels in order to work optimally. It is not affirmative action to fully embrace holistic doctrine.
Reese JohnsonFebruary 4, 2022
The Old Testament does NOT exaggerate its numbers! It is true that some numbers are symbolic, but there is no evidence of exaggeration! None whatsoever. I noticed that the author failed to mention several others on the matter of the ages of the patriarchs, including Josephus, Elder Bruce R. McConkie, and several Protestant scholars.
Corey D.February 4, 2022
I understand what is trying to be said here and it's interesting and I know the author is attempting to show how faith and science can be reconciled in this instance to help those who might be struggling with this or other potential dichotomies in the scriptures particularly the Old Testament but we never should forget that God has all power, confounding the languages all at once while appearing unbelievable or even unreasonable to us is completely possible to God.
Douglas EideFebruary 3, 2022
I thought the article was well thought out and reasoned, but has any Apostle ever hinted that the numbers in the Bible were exaggeration for effect?
Corey DinsdaleFebruary 3, 2022
It's all part of "calling good evil and evil good". One of Satan's tools is semantics, pro-abortion became pro-choice or the newest version, " reproductive freedom". Pornography became adult material, gay marriage became marriage equality and many more examples, all of the latter terms have a much nicer sound or appeal than the former descriptions. Just like Euthanasia now usually referred to as Death with Dignity.
Erik HansenFebruary 3, 2022
Thanks--Well studied and of course there are all kinds of hidden secrets in the history, culture and language of ancient writings that quick reading never tell. So there are those who try to protect the idea that they get the all meanings immediately and it's all literal, etc. Or the people who really don't read but listen to others and modern cultural interpretations. BUT trying to disprove Old Testament dates, events and characters like this is biased to making it comfortable for everyone... easy to explain to modern people. There is no reason we need to grasp at straws to be apologetic for studying and believing in a kind of world that was much different. We also have to feast on modern man's science and spit out certain theories to make some things work out.
HalFebruary 3, 2022
Wow! Loved this article - it was just what I needed today.
RandyFebruary 3, 2022
Another excellent perspective article!
Michele JuniorFebruary 3, 2022
I loved this comment/article so much. As a 76-year-old woman I sometimes feel frustrated that I have such a difficult time to stay awake during the session. But, I’ve worked hard to stay awake also. I have hadConfirmation that it is important for me to be there and that my relatives appreciative of the effort. Thank you so much!
Doris CrockettFebruary 3, 2022
You have made very many good points. Thank you for keeping us aware of what we should be doing. It isn't going to let up for quite a while.
KenFebruary 3, 2022
If the shedding of blood is death, what does the body represent?
HalFebruary 3, 2022
Thank you for this kind, but direct, response to an issue that keeps coming up despite counsel from inspired leaders that the doctrine of eternal marriage between a man and a woman will never change. As mentioned in the article, I was always taught that the Priesthood would eventually be available to every worthy male. I rejoiced when on my mission, we received word that this blessed day had arrived. In contrast, I have never been taught that marriage would ever divert from the divine union of a man and a woman in the House of the Lord by the appropriate authority. True happiness lies in embracing the truth.
HalFebruary 3, 2022
I also love reading the Old Testament. The symbolism, imagery, and the powerful prophecies touch me every day - especially when I see those prophecies being fulfilled. For example, Isaiah warned against the prevailing trend of today of finding fault with someone for making an innocent comment that can be twisted out of context. "That make a man an offender for a word, and lay a snare for him that reproveth in the gate, and turn aside the just for a thing of nought." (Isaiah 29:21). Or Isaiah 5:20 - "Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter!" There are score of examples of this every day. The Old Testament is full of sound doctrinal advice to help us detect and avoid evil and prepare for the Coming of the Savior.
HMCFebruary 2, 2022
there is no such thing as "the" Ukraine ... it's just "Ukraine"
Bonnie M.February 2, 2022
Thank you so much for this. My husband and I have been talking about this as we have seen more and more empty shelves. We have a lot stored but are interested in investigating and implementing your suggestions.
DaveFebruary 2, 2022
How long before we stop this group!!
Jo Ellen NymanFebruary 2, 2022
Considering the Church stand on marriage, the Family Proclamation, and our understanding of our Father's plan--has anyone entertained the possibility that same gender attraction is only a mortal phenomenon?
JFebruary 1, 2022
This is such a difficult subject to navigate because there are so many feelings involved, but one thing that I see that is not always acknowledged is the very likely possibility that the feelings of same sex romantic attraction is a condition of mortality and that those feelings may not continue on in a perfected body when we are no longer living in a fallen world.
MusicFebruary 1, 2022
You have proved that goal setting is what everyone needs to succeed in this life. Thank you for your outstanding achievements not only in soccer but also for our love for the Savior, Jesus Christ so we may return to live with him someday.
Sandy DildineJanuary 31, 2022
It is possible, even essential that there are real facts in the Old Testament along with the rich symbolism. There has to be a real framework for the symbolism to rest on. The symbolic numbers of multiples of 12 and 40 etc., can be true as well as the prophets of old actually living longer before the flood than after it. Not all numbers are symbolic in the scriptures. Jacob did really have 12 sons; they were named. I have been taught that God was giving the people before the flood time to repent. Also, that the earth was baptized and that would necessitate a full immersion. I don't think it is necessary to have all symbolism or no symbolism.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 31, 2022
This was really interesting and informative. I do like the idea of the Hawaiians buying grain from the Egyptians. I love your humor.
BoBJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you Jeffrey. I have loved 1 and 2 Enoch, and since reading your articles, I have loved learning about Manichaeism. The religion itself reminds me of an apocryphal book; there are wonderful gems inside as well as interpolations. I see them as an attempt to stitch back together isolated truths that had been scattered. Now, Mani was not the prophet of the restoration, and I believe that some of his assumptions or premises are definitely incorrect, but watching him/them attempting to patch back together what had been scattered is very interesting. Obviously they were able to preserve some pearls that otherwise had been vaguely remembered but discarded.
rex infangerJanuary 31, 2022
I am kind of wondering if the earth was baptized at the time of the flood seems like that interpretation would have to be literal. Plus it is hard to get an ark from the new world to the old world if you don't have a literal flood.
Katrina DonaheyJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. I learned a lot and appreciate the insights shared. It was super helpful in expanding my understanding of the importance of contextual, historical, and cultural understanding as we read the Old Testament. Well written, well supported article. THANK YOU!
LexaGraemeJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you, Dr. Peterson. I am happy to say that I am a Latter-day Saint that has loved the Old Testament from my high school seminary days, and continue to love it more and more as I continue to study and teach it. You have laid forth points that I never consciously thought of, but truly appreciate now that I have.
Michael ScrimsherJanuary 31, 2022
For the flooded house scenario, all that stress and damage and hassle could have been 100% avoided if the home owner had turned off the main incoming water supply whenever they leave the home for a vacation or extended time. Any wise home owner does this to simply and easily avoid the exact scenario that you described. Most homeowners insurance companies encourage a wise homeowner to do this as it saves both parties a big hassle if pipes freeze, burst, or etc.
LexaGraemeJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you for this! It goes along with another article posted on Meridian; the Bible was not written for our day, and we have to understand where the writers were coming from in order to understand it completely. When I teach Isaiah, for example, I will be sharing with them the different styles of poetry used at the time. Explaining numbers and their significance is the same.
Lisa CroftJanuary 31, 2022
If there are huge losses and the insurance company says you don’t have coverage, I recommend a consultation with a lawyer experienced in such cases. Sometimes state law supersedes the terms of the policy. Also, the insurance company has a duty to explain the coverage options. What the insurance company says, isn’t always the end of the story.
craigJanuary 31, 2022
Thank You! More people need to understand scripture better, and that means knowing that the people of A.N.E. didn't see the world as we do. Much of scripture is symbolism or allegory, not the simple recording of facts.
Jeanne GuinnJanuary 31, 2022
OH WOW! Amen.Very well put.There has to be enough of us to see the missile in order to save this country.
Lexie StatonJanuary 31, 2022
Thank you Carolyn for your article! The information was helpful as were the real life examples. I'll be passing this along to my grown kids.
Oakley EatonJanuary 31, 2022
Thanks for sharing this valuable information. We experienced a flood in our home when the water source to the frig ice maker broke and flooded the kitchen, dining, family room and most of the basement. We have USAA insurance and carpet and sheet rock were replaced mostly, but upstairs they only dried the carpet. There was a mold smell downstairs for a couple of years after. I’m definitely going to review our coverage. Luckily we only paid a $500 deductible, but I will be more assertive if there’s ever a next time.
BryanJanuary 31, 2022
Thanks for sharing! I didn't know of that cultural aspect of numerical exaggeration. I'll be interested to find out, when not limited by mortal misunderstanding, what really happened with a lot of the seeming inconsistencies. I like to point out that the Hebrew "yom" may be interpreted as "day" or "time." Some think that the Creation consisted of 7 24-hour periods. I think that view doesn't take into account that the Creation narrative itself talks about the invention of the 24-hour day, which doesn't happen at the beginning, and that "yom" doesn't have to mean "day."
Debrah RoundyJanuary 30, 2022
That snowballed Bishop was delightful!
Debra M.January 30, 2022
I love your articles, and the quotes from Camilla Kimbell and Patricia Holland! You are such a breath of fresh air for me, and also you bring such comfort and assurance about our Heavenly Mother.
Corey DinsdaleJanuary 30, 2022
One of my Pandemic discoveries is Meridian Magazine online and in particular your stories, the first of which I read several months back and now have been going back through the archives of your stories. They gladden my heart and cheer me up. This story in particular made me smile and reminds me of a lot of similar stories, little kids are great, especially grandkids, wished I could have seen more humor when my own kids were little. Thanks for your stories, you are what I would call the spiritual Patrick McManus or the LDS version of Robert Fulghum.
Corey DinsdaleJanuary 30, 2022
First a comment about why longevity changed after flood, my wife will say "environmental contaminates", I say mold and mildew which introduced disease, but that's conjecture. Secondly your comment in the heading for today's discussion about increasing wickedness and are we recognizing it or not. Years ago a co-worker who was retired military went to a lecture that was giving by a former POW from Vietnam, he had been shot down in the early days of Vietnam and was in captivity longer than almost any other, I believe he was also a member of the church. My co-worker shared the following, he said after the lecture he and several others who had all been to Vietnam went up to talk to this guy, he looked at the group and said, " I'm going to share something that I think this group will understand, I'm a modern day version of Rip Van Winkel". He then explained what he meant, he said that he was basically cut off from the world for 10 yrs, knew nothing about what was going on in society. He said he had been back in the States about a week and decided to turn the TV on, said he was shocked by what he saw and heard and what was being allowed on TV and said "and you all don't even realize the change because it's all been gradual for you but for me it's all at once and I can recognize it". Pretty strong and telling statement.
CindyJanuary 29, 2022
Since when does the "Government" produce anything of quality????
Helen KlannJanuary 29, 2022
This story (or parable) is profound. I'm looking for a ceramic pig to paint purple and give to my grandchildren along with the story and your beautifully written article. Thank you so very much!!!! Such a timely piece.
AnnaJanuary 28, 2022
I so appreciate your efforts and words. I’m really struggling with why the church structure/policies are not making more adjustments to reflect this. Why are we still stuck in complementarianism and can’t move into egalitarianism? I am struggling with wanting to stay in a church where I don’t feel good raising my daughter here. I’m curious your thoughts on this. Thank you!
Patricia WintersJanuary 28, 2022
Thank you so much for the transcript! I would not be able to have this instruction without it!
Debrah RoundyJanuary 27, 2022
SPOT ON!
Peter vdGJanuary 27, 2022
I have always been so uncomfortable with those devices and services that take out objectionable material from movies. 1) You're supporting those who create such things; 2) You can still see their lips mouthing the words and the mind fills it in; 3) They take you to the bedroom, then cut away-where is your mind going? I say "leave it alone."
John R CarpenterJanuary 27, 2022
We teach our children a little here and there. The world teaches our children everytime they go out into it. A little here and a little there over time makes a big difference.
John R CarpenterJanuary 27, 2022
ANYTHING with Federal money attached requires such day cares to support the Federal Ageneda like teaching Critical Race Theory and other Non-Reiligious teachings. Teach a child when they are young ...
BZJanuary 27, 2022
This is all well and good. However a piece that is missing is the relationship piece. Family are not “items”. When children make choices quite inconsistent with the Gospel, this would suggest we “move on” or past that since they don’t meet our standards. While I do not agree in the least with my children’s choices- no matter that we didn’t miss an fhe or church meeting or etc etc- this is their mortality. Their time to choose. They are not inanimate objects. Let us not forgot if we choose to only be around “perfect” acting people, we miss so many opportunities to be blessed and bless others who are not so “perfect” in their actions. The Savior strode among the sinners. As we are all sinners....
Richard GrowJanuary 26, 2022
I agree that having one or both parents or possibly relatives provide child care is the ideal situation for everyone!! But some parents don’t have that luxury, either because of being single parents or because there some situations where both parents must both work part or full time. The child care in the legislation is designed to supplement the child care that parents are able to provide!!
Sharlene CorbridgeJanuary 26, 2022
The plan sounds a lot like a program to take the children away from parents to Indocement them in policies that would be harmful to society.
Kandace HardenJanuary 26, 2022
In a perfect world kids would stay home with a parent until school age. However, nearly 50% of families have only one parent- how does that work? Our economy is built on 2 working parents at this point. The Child Credit that just expired helped address this issue by giving parents a large enough tax credit that one parent could stay home - at least part time. But now that is gone and Sen Machín is afraid it encouraged people not to work. Really? Staying home with children is work! There is so much hypocrisy in the political arena that it is almost comical. Sen Romney’s plan to pay family members to care for kids is certainly one to explore. However, there are many many families out there with no extended family around them. So doesn’t having good quality child care with licensed teachers make sense for them? And let’s pay those teachers what they are worth - thus we need some subsidy from the government to cover the $1200-$1500 it costs per child in good child care. Over and over I see statistics that show a decline in the US birth rate , a decline in the LDS birth rate. Our economy is built on new workers entering the work force - we need more babies born here. Sen Lee pointed that out on the senate floor a few years ago. But the government doesn’t what to help out families as other first world countries do with financial incentives. Providing quality day care is not PUSHING kids out the door. It’s providing a safe healthy place for them to go when parents go to work.
KA MillerJanuary 25, 2022
In the many Ward Councils I have recently attended, the Women who are present dominate the dialog, and propose most of the actions to be taken. And, this has been the case for a number of years through three different Bishoprics and three different Stake Presidencies. Am I living in an unusual place?
Sasha W KwapinskiJanuary 25, 2022
One factor which helps me to better understand this matter is the fact that the LDS priesthood is a priesthood of the laity. This is rather obvious actually, but many observers seem to miss it. In most other denominations which have a Priesthood, it is a comparatively small, select body of men, who are separate and distinct from the laity by years of theological and seminary training. In our church, however, being ordained to the priesthood does not separate one out from the laity. An LDS priesthood holder is, and remains, a layman. As a single father who raised my children alone during most of their growing up years, I can testify to the importance and value of women, partly from the active welcoming, care and involvement which my children received from many of the women in my ward.
LaFonda MerrickJanuary 25, 2022
I don't know if "women are more spiritually minded than men" is true. It's really not for me to say, but I am grateful I have always known of my Father in Heaven's love for me as his daughter. As a strong female business leader, I am often asked about my "not having the priesthood" and have tried to explain many of the same reasoning in this article. Women are different, not less. Men are different, not less. We all have something to learn on earth. Great article.
Joe BrightJanuary 25, 2022
This is one of the most powerful articles I have ever read, clear, based on fact and solid reason in a great time of need. We may not have all the answers but we do have enough. We know that our heavenly father is one of absolute love. He loves his children and has an absolutely special place in his heart for his daughters, who mirror his mate, and so should we. If we as men do not embrace this fully we fall short. This is enough for me. I will do everything I can to promote this confidence and the care it instills in me for my sisters and brothers. The pain in the world is the enemy to our peace. Let us take refuge in the love of our father. Thank you!
Colleen AndersonJanuary 25, 2022
Thank you for posting this article.
Kate PhoenixJanuary 25, 2022
Excellent article! Well spoken. This has been a hot topic the past 18 years of my life as I have researched and studied what my Priestesshood means to me. I believe that this mortal life started with a woman (Eve) and will end with us women coming to the knowledge that our church culture is just that, a skewed version of personal beliefs, rather than actual the doctrine of Elohim's Priesthood (Their Priesthood).
Sandy DildineJanuary 25, 2022
This was a great article that opened my eyes to the problem that the younger generation of women has with church leadership issues. It is a product of the current culture and women's own feelings of inadequacy that take confidence to overcome. I am a female temple ordinance worker and agree that women have Priesthood Power. There is work enough to do for everyone in God's kingdom and women tend to step up and do it. Men having a different role than women is not because women aren't capable. Women have the role of nurturing and teaching and leading also in many capacities. Wanting the spotlight is very different than wanting to serve...
John R CarpenterJanuary 25, 2022
This article is something that all members of the Chruch need to read or to be aware of. I will reccomend the principles of this subject be taught in Priesthood and leadership meetings.
ClarkJanuary 25, 2022
Many years ago, we were on a cruise that included a Church group and were invited to attend their Sacrament Meeting. They had not brought any trays, but the cruise line had provided dinner plates to be used for the bread, and small paper cups to hold the water. The paper cups were obtained from the coffee bar, and were imprinted with the message "Seattle's Best Coffee." So it was memorable for more than one reason.
Carol KendallJanuary 25, 2022
Wow! I have NEVER seen this issue expressed so clearly - and from a position of faith! I have faced these concerns since my marriage in the mid-‘70s, relying solely upon my faith in the Restoration. I’m so glad my daughters and friends can be strengthened by your perspectives.
Harold RustJanuary 25, 2022
It is always helpful to be guided through the process of gaining insight into the perspectives that another individual may have regarding an experience that can look very different to them than it does to you. Thank you for that insight. As a male priesthood holder, I developed my own explanation for why men only hold priesthood keys: I simply visualized what the Church would be like if men didn't feel a special need to attend Church, to visit other members, and to stand in front of the Congregation each Sunday and administer the Sacrament: from my perspective and limited experience, the result would be a Church with women doing all the work and most of the men out enjoying a game of golf or out fishing. Women seem to be more spiritually inclined on their own while men need others expecting them to be spiritual before they rise to that full involvement. Whether my view is actually correct or not, it has always been my guide to recognize a Priesthood calling is given to me to make me a better person than I would otherwise be while women seem far more inclined to do that without being called. When my wife asks for a Priesthood blessing, it boosts my spiritual awareness so that it just might approach the level of her faith. I think she also feels that.
T. LarsenJanuary 25, 2022
This is an excellent article. I have been pondering how I can contribute to creating feelings of equality and inclusion for sisters in the church. Small ideas have come, like thanking God in public prayers for the service of relief society and other female presidencies instead of always thanking Him for the bishopric and other male leaders. Your article has given me great additional food for thought. Thank you!
Ricki GibbonsJanuary 25, 2022
This article was not just for the men. I have had difficulty understanding why some women struggle with the things this article discusses. It was “not my baby”. I intend to print this off and refer to it and study it. Thank you!
RobertJanuary 25, 2022
This is a wonderful article. My wife and I went through a somewhat similar child story, other than ours began shortly after we where married. I’m not sure if it is common as it used to be, however it became rather stressful and depressing to my wife. We would often get the question of when are you going to have children. I found it quite unsettling as when we first attended church together shortly after we began dating. Many of the comments upon introducing her, and yes, you probably guessed it had something to do with tying the knot. I’m sure many have gone through it before. “When, where, how”, or one that would really irritate me was the “Are You going to get married.” The times it was the first thing out of someone’s lips, I should of introduced her as my sister or cousin. We did get married about two and a half years later. Like I said my wife would get depressed when asked about children, especially as it was a few years before we had a child as my wife had severe endometriosis which can narrow the chance to have children for some. She struggled with her emotional mentality as the years went by trying to have another especially when her sisters or she would see others with newborns. When someone would ask about having more was even worse than before our daughter was born. It was about 14 years later when she became pregnant again. We were so happy, especially my daughter as she was excited to have a baby brother or sister. Then came the day she miscarried. It just about destroyed her. She eventually would have to have a hysterectomy to get rid of the endometriosis. Today it’s still difficult to look back sometimes, Her patriarchal blessing states she would bare and raise more children and we accept that as knowing that we still have an opportunity during the millennium to still have and raise more and hopefully get the chance to meet and be with our son. I say son as my daughter really wanted a brother and my wife, daughter, and I hold onto the faith and believe it. I realize the questions about marriage or children may not affect others as much even if that at all, however they are still questions I myself may hesitate or attempt to ask someone right off the bat or at least choose how and when is the right way or time or if it is a question that is really necessary to ask or possibly even know at all.
MaryannJanuary 24, 2022
Love your sense of humor--thank you so much for sharing it with us. A good laugh is much needed in our society today to help us put things into perspective.
MaryannJanuary 24, 2022
Oh, yes, those of us with children have all experienced moments of embarrassment, and not just on the telephone. I remember one evening when the missionaries came for dinner and my young daughter burst forth with the exclamation that the salad bowl we were serving from was our "barf bowl." Parenthood is NOT for the faint-hearted!
LexaGraemeJanuary 24, 2022
Yes, they are. Thank you.
maryJanuary 23, 2022
I am grateful to have these books exposed for parents who are trying to protect their children at such a very young and impressionable age. These books target children at a vulnerable age when they need to be free from subliminal yet powerful suggestions that lead them to believe that their sexuality is something they need to be aware of. I feel like the plan of salvation is being thwarted when we embrace teachings.
Corey D.January 23, 2022
not long after I got home from my mission many years ago, the elders quorum instructor, who was in banking, shared an interesting story, he said he had been to a conference and one of the lecturers who was not LDS made the following comment, "you Mormons have this built in way to teach your kids about money and budgeting, this tithing thing I think you call it", it was an interesting observation, usually peoples reactions to tithing, at least in my experience is negative.
James ScottJanuary 20, 2022
An illuminating treatise, congratulations on a encompassing subject. I’ve always wondered at the comment regarding the language given to Enoch that the very elements gave attention. This is the language of creation. I also enjoyed your list of 31 words never before used and can help but wonder where and what concordance you used for this research. Transgression and righteous are words used throughout the canon, how did you so discreetly divine your list?
I'm a believer!January 20, 2022
When you wrote in Oct. 2019 about the pandemic, my husband and I went out and bought more medications and a supply of food that's easily eaten for us and our four kids, to add to our large food storage. We were NOT sorry! I listen to you and take your advice on everything now!
Cynthia M. MoorheadJanuary 20, 2022
In Dr. Parry's article he says there was no baptism for the dead in the ancient temple. But the Apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 15:29 (a verse we often quote to investigators), he makes it clear that baptism for the dead was not something new--he expected the Corinthians to be familiar with it. Did baptism for the dead then start immediately after the Lord's death and resurrection? We know the ancient Jews were familiar with baptism -- when John the Baptist was baptizing in the Jordan, they all knew and understood what baptism was. Did the early Christians baptize for the dead, perhaps outside the temple?
Michele NoelJanuary 20, 2022
Clarity, yet again! Thank you Vivian!
Christine BerryJanuary 19, 2022
The UK might have problems with waiting lists for planned surgeries but are well known for their excellent emergency care. Sometimes anecdotal accounts can screw reality.
Harrison Bryant.January 19, 2022
I have heard information like this before. Never has it meant so much to me as now. And mg heavenly father takes time out to listen and help me on my needs. I cant just love him now. The is the most wonderful father I have ever known
Kristen OpenshawJanuary 19, 2022
Satire, yes, but thank goodness he and his wife are both "double vaxxed." I wouldn't feel safe reading this otherwise.
LolaJanuary 19, 2022
If you don't like the books, don't read them to your kids. And in the meantime get to know people with gender dysphagia and educate yourselves (for example there is not just xx and xy).
Amanda PerkinsJanuary 19, 2022
I'd say to these moms...then don't read these books to your kids. It's wonderful to have these books for kids that are transgender. They need to feel accepted and acknowledged. And if you have a family member or neighbor where this is the case, then these books can help teach so there is compassion, kindness and understanding.
Robert van BruggenJanuary 19, 2022
I agree with much of your article about socialism and communism. The way farmers and other business receive assistance in the US from the government it appears we are well on our way to a socialist society. There are two areas where a social system benefits all of society, that is education and health. A well educated nation will be a successful nation. And regarding health care Mr Stoddard, please take some time to read up on US vs, Canadian health care. You will find many similarities and many differences. Do not overlook the fact that Canadians do have a longer life expectancy than US citizens. While it is true that there are wait times for some non essential procedures, Heath Care in Canada is available to all and no one has ever lost their home or had a bankruptcy due to medical debt. Nor have Canadians ever had to borrow money from relatives to pay medical debt. When health care is available to everyone regardless of their income, the US will likely be a healthier nation. It may be that US health care corporations and doctors raking in billions of dollars are resisting a change to universal health care system for all,thereby neglecting the poor and middle income earners. The US health care system is sick and only works well for the wealthy and those with employment that will cover their health care insurance.
Bob LJanuary 19, 2022
Brilliant! Our first natural reaction to the Tribune suggestions is disbelief and anger, but responding with satire and ridicule is much more effective. Nothing infuriates totalitarians like being laughed at and their ideas ridiculed, and the Tribune deserves that label. Bravo!
Diane QuustJanuary 19, 2022
I’m excited to study the OT. - to get the big picture of the Twelve Tribes etc. it’s our beginnings. It’s where we come from.
E M RedelfsJanuary 19, 2022
Thank you for this magnificent and faith promoting perspective, once again I stand all amazed at the majesty of our God!
Thomas Y Jesus TomenyJanuary 19, 2022
What an inspiring article, to put forth all of our motivators so succinctly. Thank you!
KathleenJanuary 19, 2022
MARVELOUS! If there is a way to bring forth this message of truth OUR missionaries can and will DO IT!!
MaryannJanuary 18, 2022
The voter fraud taking place in our nation is outrageous and I am deeply disappointed that the government has been so slow to take drastic measures to put a stop to it. It is not good for the morale of a nation to feel their vote doesn't matter when it is so easy for fraud to take place. I agree with requiring a picture, but sometimes people don't look much like their pictures (if I really look like my driver's license picture, I may have to kill myself!) I think everyone should be required to be fingerprinted and their fingerprints should be scanned before they vote and then marked with indelible ink. And, for heaven's sake, abolish absentee voting, except for the military and disqualify all votes that are late. It saddens me to have to say this--it seems like common sense to me, but NO ONE who is not a legal American citizen should be allowed to vote under ANY circumstances.
MaryannJanuary 18, 2022
Thank you so much for some much needed humor on a touchy subject. Although, like you, I had both vaccines, I certainly do not condone suggestions that we persecute or shame people who choose not to be vaccinated. These diseases are very tricky--I know that people who have been vaccinated still get the disease. The other mystery is that vaccinated members of the same household get it, and other family members living with them do not. This happened in my own family, as well as countless others. I believe it is wise to be vaccinated and, if you can't maintain a safe distance, to wear a mask. But, I sometimes wonder if you're going to get it, you are going to get if, and if you're not, you're not. There doesn't seem to be any logic, but better to be safe, than sorry.
Sylvia MilnerJanuary 18, 2022
Anne, I remember your mother telling me of an experience she had in researching her family. Your mother had spent the day researching and felt like she had completed a family for sealing. When she went to bed that night, your mother could not sleep. The mother of the family she had researched was not content and happy. Your mother finally got up and reviewed her research work. She found an infant daughter that she had overlooked. Your mother added the baby girl to the family record for sealing to the family. When your mother finally retired in the wee hours, she felt the mother's joy and peace that her whole family would be together.
DAVID GIANFREDIJanuary 18, 2022
Rachel, with this video sharing your life view, you are fulfilling just one of the many reasons why you came here to be with us. You are a beacon of light to those still in darkness. Much Love
FrankJanuary 18, 2022
I am not in the health profession. I can fix an engine; I can build one. But my judgement of heath affairs is small. I trust Pr. Nelson not as a doctor, but as a prophet. If he set an example for us of being vaccinated, it should be because Heavenly Father told him to do so. If he set such an example without being commanded of God, then on his head be the responsibility for those of us who followed him, being likewise vaccinated and then contracted COVID. My wife and I both have had it since obeying that example. I am sure that there is a reason that we will understand at some point. In the meantime, I just scratch my head and keep following.
MelJanuary 18, 2022
I blame ignorant people for the article. Perhaps living in an actual totalitarian country would be a good “re-education” experience.
Gary LawrenceJanuary 18, 2022
Well done, Jeff. Just the right touch of ridicule.
RichardJanuary 18, 2022
Excellent article and discussion. I couldn't agree with you more concerning the need to be "transparent with our assumptions" regardless of which side of the discussion and theory of thought they may fall. Thank you!
Phil MacLennanJanuary 18, 2022
Two points I would add that may influence the widespread acceptance of the notion that vax is the right thing to do is that firstly, when you have many people with a wide variety of opinions, rigorously debating, there can be a need felt to finally arrive at plan of action, otherwise there is endless analysis paralysis, which can be tiring and costly. Perhaps the vaccine is strongly pushed, because it allows us to think we are finally doing something to control or fight back and reduce risk in response to a raging pandemic, and after all, it vax does no harm. (or so we are told) Also, out of empathy for the front line health care workers and not wanting to contribute to their burden if we become hospitalized. Secondly, there was a recent gen conf quote (that I couldn't find) that said something to the effect that the doctrine is proclaimed by the unanimous voice of the Brethren, and not from any one particular statement from one single individual. Perhaps we follow this line of reasoning, and feel more comfortable doing so, when accepting professional advice from a wide range of experts, such as with accepting the COVID vaccine.
Richard TarinelliJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you for an astounding peek into our most astounding physical realities. Most impressive is the manner that these facts do not intimidate our personal realm, but supports discipleship and faith in God's love.
Katrina DonaheyJanuary 17, 2022
Becky Douglas, I love you. From India to Idaho (where I live), you are about the business of blessing lives. God be thanked for you! Like you, I have discovered the transforming power of gratitude. My life is so much sweeter and so much more meaningful because of choosing daily gratitude. Thank you dear sister in Christ for another beautiful article.
Margaret BourneJanuary 17, 2022
We have a copy of Joseph Smith's Translation of Genesis 5:5 relating to the death of Adam and it doesn't vary with the King James Version "And all the days that Adam lived were 930 years and he died." See also Moses 6:12. Can you give us any reference to this revelation that says he died at 1000 years old please?
Katrina DonaheyJanuary 17, 2022
Another winner, Jacob! Your points are powerful. Collectively, we are not well positioned. Oh Father, please help us!
BillJanuary 17, 2022
A great way to teach kids about money is https://busykid.com/ check it out, it really works.
DianeJanuary 17, 2022
You are beautiful and an inspiration to all women. What a great response! I can't begin to imagine why someone would say anything different or to hurt another person. No one deserves that. Thank you for your beautiful insight, your humility and gratitude.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 17, 2022
I enjoyed reading this, but I felt a bit overwhelmed. I have trouble just keeping up with my own family. I cannot even visualize keeping up with billions of people, of stars, of planets, and eternities.
KatJanuary 17, 2022
I love this podcast! Such a wealth of information and insight. I wanted to read the articles that were mentioned in the podcast but when I read the transcripts I wish that the articles were linked so that I could just click on them and read them to continue my learning. If that is possible it would save lots of time copying and pasting to try and find the articles mentioned. Thanks for all the work you put into this!
Dan ShewellJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you! What marvelous insights on many levels! I see this malfunction in our national discourse as just another example of the subtlety employed by Satan to subvert, deceive and distract us into ignoring what the real questions need to be and the direction in which the real answers might be found.
Anne PrattJanuary 17, 2022
Oh yes!, It is wonderful- to be everything- to Him... Beautiful reminder of who we are and who He is!
ChrisJanuary 17, 2022
Great article Jacob. You don't have to be a conspiracy theorist to see what's been happening in this country in science, healthcare, and government...you only have to be logical. But very few people are. It continues to be amazing how fear can drive most of an entire society to abandon many of our core values and principles...simply asking honest questions is no longer allowed. Both crazy and scary...
ChrisJanuary 17, 2022
Great article...and so true! I read an article a couple of weeks ago about a massive explosion the Hubble telescope recorded that was 57 million light years away. That's mind blowing! Traveling at the speed of light we could see that "happen" 57 million years later. God's creations are unexplainable to us...
M SmithJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you! That is all many of us are asking for. Please just listen to and hear both sides. Stop the censoring. Listen to our fears of losing our freedoms. Listen to doctors and scientists on both sides of the issues. Allow discussion so that it doesn't have to divide us but can help us to find solutions. The Savior's return is nigh. Don't let this destroy testimonies. God bless all!
Mary SchmittJanuary 17, 2022
Awesome!
Theodore BrandleyJanuary 17, 2022
When a political or financial agenda is the primary concern, truth is usually irrelevant or detrimental. Ten days after receiving the second Pfizer COVID shot, I was hit with debilitating Rheumatoid Arthritis, which continues 11 months later. Recently I asked my Rheumatologist if I should take a booster shot? He went over the pros and cons and then said, “That would have to be your decision.” If my doctor cannot advise me whether to take the vaccine how can the government presume to know what is best for me?
Albert SchindlerJanuary 17, 2022
What a wonderful and inspiring article! I have had three so-called Near-death experiences and during my experiences have witnessed many of the things you mention in this article. Yes, stand in awe — not worship: but in total, tear-inducing, speechless wonder at Creation!
Harold RustJanuary 17, 2022
A very awe-inspiring vision of the majesty of our Father in Heaven and of the infinite depth of what there is yet to learn about life and God's creations! This life is but step one in preparing us to be able to comprehend God's wonders; it will be step two to begin the creation process ourselves. Most of us are simply unaware of this potential as we wander from day to day. Thanks for nudging us from our sleep.
Janna MorrellJanuary 17, 2022
Such a beautiful and awe-inspiring article! Thank you!!
JeffJanuary 17, 2022
Fabulous read! My mind is blown! Just once again humbles me and here I sit “All Amazed” !! Thank you!
Almandos Aristides IRIGOYENJanuary 17, 2022
I read the book Visions of Glory. I think it is amazing. To have an open mind is essential. Do not forget the testimonies at the end of the book referred to similar events. I am not afraid of new perspectives, I want them and I did not find anything that offend me. 100 points to this book
Mary TarbetJanuary 17, 2022
Thank you a trillion times ! Thank you for this amazing perspective to strengthen my knowledge and understanding. Wow!
DennisJanuary 16, 2022
I am one of them who was COVID free until I received the vaccine. I consider myself healthy, with good eating habits and regular exercise. I avoided the vaccine until we were urged to get it. I am not going through a faith crisis because of it, but I discovered for myself that the vaccine was not the answer for me. I beat the sickness with ivermectin and prayer. I only wish we can listen to the voices of dissent without judgment.
Karla MenhennetJanuary 16, 2022
Thank you for sharing. My Mother had dementia for 5 years and it taught me so much. She endured terrible abuse as a child and I firmly believe that affected her deeply during her life. I put her on a natural drink called memory matrix and it helped her, but soon, I could no longer get it. The nurses were amazed how much it helped. I pray a cure can be found!
Corey D.January 16, 2022
I just now I'm seeing this story/video, it's the 16th of Jan and my immediate answer to this question is, yes ! I doubted that at one time or questioned how it could happen here in America but the last couple of years has changed my view and understanding but if there is any doubt in anybody's mind about the possibility, what has happened the last few years with covid especially in liberal run areas should erase that doubt and all doubt should be erased with what the Salt Lake Tribune Editorial Board just published today or yesterday. Trump doesn't worry me (I do hope someone else is the candidate though), the Jan 6th so-called riot doesn't worry me, a lot of things that are in the news don't worry me, what worries me is that there are people like the Tribune editorial board and people who think like they do.
Corey D.January 16, 2022
I served as the Branch President when the George Whalen Veterans home was first opened here in my area. During one of my monthly interviews with the stake president he once asked, "I hear you say when asked that it's a wonderful calling and experience, what makes it so great " ? I replied "because there is such a spirit of gratitude there, the veterans are grateful, their families thank us, the youth and their leaders who come to do Sacrament Meeting thank us, I've even had some of the staff thank us for what we do and they are the ones who should be thanked, those who work in those facilities are underpaid and underappreciated". Never met anyone who had a true deep testimony of the gospel and also wasn't a grateful person.
Linda CovellJanuary 15, 2022
Thank you for standing up in a Christlike manner. We all need to be kind to others & to ourselves.
Karla MenhennetJanuary 15, 2022
You are beautiful inside and out! Kindness is so easy and does so much for the giver and receiver. Thank you so much for showing us the way. May Every blessing be yours!
PaulineJanuary 14, 2022
What do you think of using Dr. Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication techniques or strategy for overcoming walls?
Kathy BlosilJanuary 14, 2022
This is an absolutely inspiring life story. A friend of mine who served with President Poecker sent me the link to this article. These stories will long remain a source of faith for me. FYI...Walter Kindt's FamilySearch profile includes his personal history broken down into chapters.
Tanya NeiderJanuary 14, 2022
Thank you, Matt! I am working on those dispelling fear and seeking truth. I appreciate your insights.
Fiona RogersJanuary 14, 2022
Whoever made that comment about you should be so lucky to be as beautiful as you. Unfortunately for them it would only be in the outside ! May you live to be as old as can be and continue to share your beauty inside and out .
KathleenJanuary 13, 2022
Your stories continue to inspire me. I have put into motion my mother's work, who passed away a year ago. (Baptism/Confirmation in Seattle Temple last weekend, our son baptizing one of our daughters, and tonight I did the initiatory work in Pocatello Temple. It will all be complete, shortly. What a joy to participate in this great work.
Margaret Y. DyalJanuary 13, 2022
I can't wait to get my copies of this great book. I saw some of the pages and I am so impressed with it. Hope that it hurries to my home.
Gwen LeglerJanuary 13, 2022
You have astounding wisdom and insight as a result of what you have experienced. I hope many women read or hear what you had to say, then they will accept others for who they really are!
Marilyn JackmanJanuary 13, 2022
Absolutely not! How can an ordinary citizen help with this effort?
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 13, 2022
It is hard to believe that someone would write something so cruel to another child of God, but she handled it beautifully and in a Christ-like way. The world seems to have forgotten how to be nice and kind and sweet and gentle. There is so much body-shaming in today's society. We need to love ourselves even if our bodies aren't perfect.
jJanuary 13, 2022
You're beautiful! Thank you for being okay with who you are and not bending to worldly ways! Shame on the person who said that.
Diana BinghamJanuary 13, 2022
You are a rock star and amazing. If only; if only we could all love ourselves the way we should; the way God does and they way He commanded. Bless you.
D. HillJanuary 13, 2022
Thank you Rachel for your personal story of triumph over self. You are a shining beacon to women everywhere to love and accept themselves for the beauty and light God has given them. Thank you for showing what a good husband, father and help-meet can be. We all need to encourage, lift, and inspire each other and remember we are made in our Heavenly Parents image and have inherited their characteristics.
Travus AllenJanuary 13, 2022
She is a great person with a great message. I will try to be a better man.
Jan H NielsenJanuary 13, 2022
Amen and hallelujah! Thank you for the wise and true words.
KathieJanuary 13, 2022
What a beautiful story of courage, faith, truth and wisdom. And what a beautiful daughter of Our heavenly Father you are. I am 75 and have felt like a misfit my entire life, having been bullied from Kindergarten all through high school just because I was painfully shy. Thank you for helping women see what really matters. What a great example.
Priscilla OwenJanuary 13, 2022
Fabulous...well done you. You are inspirational, an absolute gatherer.... thank you.
Jeff JohnsonJanuary 13, 2022
What a beautiful and intelligent young lady! God had a unique “recipe” when he made you! Thank you and your husband!
Susan LeggieriJanuary 13, 2022
Wow! Thanks so much for sharing your story, your words of wisdom, and your example! I believe you are blessing many lives in what you are doing. You are as beautiful as they come, inside and out. Keep being “that person”!
Scott BevanJanuary 13, 2022
What a powerful response! You are exemplary with beauty inside and out. Thank you for sharing.
StaceyJanuary 13, 2022
Love, Love, Love her!!! Thank you for being real! Thank you for being vulnerable! You are beautiful!
Patricia Hernandez ArnazziJanuary 13, 2022
You are an absolutely gorgeous young woman, with a beautiful face, hair and body, but most of all a beautiful spirit, wisdom and keen intellect which helps you very charismatically express your sentiments. Thank you for your example of tolerance, humility and forgiveness. You Rock!
Mary Ann McConkieJanuary 12, 2022
For any women who feel "less than", your article clearly illuminates the divine role of women. Thank you, Vivian.
Katherine FagerstenJanuary 12, 2022
You continue to be a light to me and a blessing. Thank you for your example, faith and light. My life is forever changed because of you. I am grateful.
MattJanuary 12, 2022
To your list of wonderful ways to find peace and hope and overcome the darkness caused by Covid, may I add these two: Dispel fear and seek truth, they will set you free.
tfJanuary 12, 2022
I think we need to start mentioning the possibility of Heavenly Mother in these types of articles and discussions.
Shawny LeeJanuary 12, 2022
Brother Harper, I think I understand that God created all things out of matter and intelligence that already existed, and that these cannot be created or made, but did God organize intelligence to create our spirits, as in "God is the Father of our spirits. We are the offspring of God." Something in your wonderful article sounded like spirits always existed. We you equating intelligence with a spirit? Did I misread something? Certainly, for me the hardest thing to comprehend is where all this began, but I love Joseph's teachings, and his invitation to come to know God, REALLY know him. I appreciated your article so much. Thank you.
Dan ShewellJanuary 11, 2022
I sure appreciated your insights! My own thought have led me to similar observations and conclusions but I am not nearly as adept at putting those ideas into words. Thank you.
MaryannJanuary 11, 2022
Love this, but I wanted it to be longer! Thank you.
Harold RustJanuary 11, 2022
Great article...but I felt it was just a prelude to what I had hoped to read regarding the biblical reflections on the broader purpose of human sexuality and why our identity is first of all that of a child of God rather than I see myself as male or as female or as something else. When that identity of our relationship with God is firm in our beliefs and our perspectives, then everything else is tied to following the commandments which God has given for all mortals regarding the fundamental purpose of procreation and family.
Colleen StoutJanuary 11, 2022
Dear Vivian, I read the other article first, and it reminded me of reading a mystery novel. You know that everything will turn out all right, but nevertheless you close the blinds and turn on all the lights. The semantics of it left me feeling dark and unsettled. Then I read yours, and I came away feeling joyful and light. Thank you, Colleen
Michele NoelJanuary 11, 2022
Thank you, Vivian! I have been following your work for thirty years and been uplifted and blessed by it. The timing of this article could not be more glorious. Just as recent TV programs, garnered as ‘doctrinal’, intimate that the origin of man can easily be embraced in the theories of Darwinism, we are gifted with clarity about our first parents here. Well done Vivian and thank you, Meridian Magazine!!!
LewisJanuary 10, 2022
What a beautiful, thought-provoking article. It requires you to think deeply about the Lord's plans for us. Surely His ways are higher than our ways. I am grateful that you take the time to share your thoughts and experiences with us.
Kay RookhuyzenJanuary 10, 2022
I found this article extremely interesting and educational! Thanks for sharing.
Jan JohnsonJanuary 10, 2022
I’ve been through a series of repeated surgeries, making life quite difficult at times… and currently. I’ve learned to be grateful that I understand God has a plan for me, and if this is His plan for me, why would I want it to be any different?
ColinJanuary 10, 2022
This was a deeply inspiring funeral service. Imagine the missionary opportunity of having current and former presidents and other government leaders hear the testimony of an Apostle and feel the Spirit in the meeting!
Helen CJanuary 10, 2022
I sent this to my non-believing husband in hopes he will discuss it with me. He loves science but sustains religion as, among other things, an excuse for war and an emotional crutch. You never know what will turn on the lights. Your Oregon friend.
Marsha AndersonJanuary 10, 2022
This has made a profound impact on me! The other things you have published here have also touched my heart. You are such a great example of a Christ-like person. Thank you!
Anita EJanuary 10, 2022
What a lovely article. Thank you for sharing and for giving greater insight into gratitude.
vickieJanuary 10, 2022
this writing is complicated to read. it sort of goes round and round. i have one son who is homosexual and married another man. yes it was hard for me when this happened. i have four other children who are not homosexual and are married to the opposite sex. my one son who is, knows that we love him but we do not understand how this can happen. i believe what God says and the family proclamation as to what is right but i also believe that a person has to make their own choices. all we feel we can do because we dont understand how this can be is love my son. to just enjoy him for his character or personhood. He is a son of God as his partner is. i respect that.
Mark StoneJanuary 9, 2022
Thanks so much! This is great. I guess I still don’t understand thought how the creation is a temple text..? Can someone explain or point me to additional resources so I can better understand??
RoxanneJanuary 9, 2022
thank you for sharing your knowledge. i have had questions answered and learnt much from this pod cast.
Jose M CapellaJanuary 8, 2022
Hello, Scot and Maurine. I have been a listener of your podcast almost since the start of Come, Follow Me, and have thoroughly enjoyed your many insights as I study the scriptures. However, I feel the need to comment on a few points in last week's discussion on the Creation. With all due respect to Hugh Nibley, he uses a rather simplistic interpretation of entropy. A wise college professor taught me that it is in fact through the amalgamation of ever more complex structures that the universe manages to catalyze its matter at an ever greater pace. The immortal Gods may have ultimate power over entropy, but they have no need to micromanage the development of the life that they nurture. Another often overwrought notion is trying to create a cosmological model with too literal an interpretation of the Biblical creation story. To imagine God personally igniting the light in the universe, then placing Earth in the Solar System, as well as the lights in the firmament, is again defining Him as a micromanager. An enlightened astronomer could easily see that the Earth and other planets would have already begun to accrete before the sun they orbited shone brightly on them. A migratory period eventually cleared dust and debris, finally settling us into a stable orbit. And from the surface of our planet, only after a very long time would the thick clouds finally part sufficiently to reveal the sun, moon and stars. I actually came to that understanding while watching the newer temple videos - go figure! Then there is the notion of fine-tuning. While a pretty sentiment, it is unfortunately used by people of little faith as "proof" of intelligent design. It reminds me of the Anthropic Principle, which is often misinterpreted to say that only a “designed” universe could have the perfect parameters for life. In fact this is meant to convey the idea that ONLY in the rare corner of the multiverse that allows life to exist can there be anyone present to wonder if it was made just for them. Those minor points aside, thank you for your commitment to helping people understand the scriptures more thoroughly. I look forward to continuing to hear from you. Also, please don't ever change your theme music, as Come Thou Fount is one of my favorites, and hearing this arrangement always fills me with anticipation and a surety that I'm about to learn something new. Take care and have a wonderful 2022.
BobJanuary 8, 2022
Don't show up at their house if there is an emergency.
Corey DJanuary 8, 2022
Excellent. Reminds me of the story a college professor told our class one evening, seems an employee at a large company wanted to prove the point that nobody paid any attention to the constant stream of memos, announcements, policy changes, etc, especially the ones filled with acronyms that flowed down from upper management and that vice versa was true that management never paid attention to reports, memos, etc that flowed up. This employee proceeded to write a totally made up memo really embellished it, seems it made it all the way to the President before anybody questioned anything in it.
MaryannJanuary 8, 2022
I am wondering what you have said to your parents to make them believe you feel they "have gone down the road of fanaticism." Sounds like there is criticism going on here on both sides. I am wondering if it would help heal these "troubled waters" if you show forth an increase of love for your parents and come to an agreement that this is just not a subject that you want to discuss. Then change the subject and talk about something you think they would be interested in.
MayJanuary 8, 2022
Fantastic response to a common question. Thank you!
Gregg LukeJanuary 8, 2022
THANK YOU SO MUCH, Jennie. I am overjoyed you liked Red Cicada. Being more of a discovery writer than a hard-core plotter, it was a thrill to write. Thank you for the great review!
L RawlinsonJanuary 7, 2022
Do you have the first hand account of Warren Foote from his journal? He and his father visited Joseph Smith, saw the mummies and saw the papyri and gave a limited description of the writing.
Boyd TuttleJanuary 7, 2022
I want to say this was excellent. Well-written, interesting, and remarkably well-researched article. Thanks for all those insights, Brother Bradshaw. This treatise has enhanced, for me, this year's study in the Old Testament immeasurably.
Shirley GriffinJanuary 7, 2022
He also mentioned "worlds without number" that were created--at a time when that concept was not even considered by men of science.
Ron BarnesJanuary 7, 2022
Part of the reason some Americans think socialism is so good is because they mistake social programs for socialism. All governments have social programs in some form or another, but socialism is something totally different. They need to be educated as to what socialism actually is. I noticed, while reading the comments, the only disagreements concerned health care. While our system has its problems, it does have advantages that other systems don't.
Pennie KnottJanuary 7, 2022
Thank you for your research, books and articles on this subject. I have never been able to figure out what all the fuss was about regarding the Book of Abraham. A real tempest in a teapot.
Ann-Marie JensenJanuary 7, 2022
Thank you for such excellent and helpful clarification.
Emily Jensen PorfiriJanuary 6, 2022
Amen. My experience (Romania, Poland, Italy, et.al.) has shown me the same thing.
Theodore BrandleyJanuary 6, 2022
To paraphrase one of Euclid’s geometry axioms, things equal to the same thing are equal to each other. If we are all in tune with the Holy Ghost, we will all be in tune with each other.
SpanishbakerJanuary 6, 2022
Inspiring. From personal experience, I know that if we sincerely ask Heaven what that “unity” looks like, Heaven will show us. We don’t have to compromise our identities when our values/perceptions conflict. Heaven WANTS to teach us how a Zion people behaves. We have to be willing to submit.
Darlene NelsonJanuary 6, 2022
I am a Canadian and have been served well by our socialized medical plan. Your example from two friends didn’t give the true story of the Canadian Health Care system. I’m not saying it’s perfect, but our family would have been bankrupted dealing with my health care issues had I been a resident of the USA. Using that example doesn’t give credence to your article.
John R CarpenterJanuary 6, 2022
More inhumanity to man, since 1918, has been done in the name of Socialism than any other cause. Socialism is NOT Freedom, it is control of the people.
George NielsenJanuary 6, 2022
Thank you for confirming the conclusion I reached independently about the character for Righteousness. I often contemplate this character as I look at my CTR ring that uses it to represent choosing the right. It deepens my understanding of Christ's atonement and how the Lamb of God can overcome my natural, defensive, nature. I served in Taiwan from 1966 through 1968.
George NielsenJanuary 6, 2022
Thank you so much for confirming the conclusion I came to independently many years ago about "Righteousness." I often contemplate the meaning of this character as I look at my CTR ring that uses it to represent Choosing the Right. It deepens my understanding of Christ's atonement. I served in Taiwan from 1966 through 1968.
Laurel Lee PedersenJanuary 6, 2022
Powerful lesson on these concepts, Diana! I'm keeping a pdf copy to study again. Thanks so much!
RitaJanuary 6, 2022
This gives a new context for "a new heart", found in Ezekiel and other OT verses. When God creates in us a new heart and spirit, He is bringing order to disorder, making a temple fit for His presence. I never thought about it that way before.
John WaitingJanuary 6, 2022
Thank you Mark for an interesting look at these topics
Sally SmithJanuary 6, 2022
After reading this article, I can feel the love of Bro Goddard as he writes this. I knew him when I lived in the North Little Rock Stake. This is the eternal answer to my divine identity. I am so happy to better understand who I really am.
Roberta HarrisJanuary 6, 2022
As a Canadian I can assure you I have never had to wait for any medical services and that goes for ALL of my family and friends over all of my adult years!! We have excellent doctors all over our country. I am disappointed at the slant your article took on our health care system.
Gary SmithJanuary 6, 2022
I am curious about the Canadian hospital shut down in 1993. I was living in Canada then and live in Canada now and do not remember that "Canada closed all hospitals". In fact that doesn't make sense, since each province runs its own health system. Perhaps one of the provinces temporarily cut back services at their hospitals but I don't remember it happening. Wait times for some surgeries are a problem and some provinces have more difficulties than others. On the other hand, I have never had to wait, here in Canada, more than 15 minutes after the appointment time for the doctor to see me. In fact, just this last monday, the doctor was ready for me 15 minutes before the appointment time. When living in Provo, my wife routinely would have to wait 30 to 90 minutes past the appointment time to see the doctor. Of course these are just anecdotes and don't paint the whole picture.
Karell BinghamJanuary 6, 2022
Such a great article! A real eye opener! Thank you so much, I love you both!
RobertJanuary 6, 2022
When discussing socialism/communism it is important to mention the deaths that are the result of the implementation of those systems of "government." Under Hitler's National Socialists in Germany/Hungary, etc, my father-in-law had his entire family murdered in the concentration camps. I knew a man who lost all his relatives in the Ukraine under the direction of Stalin. If in the United States, if we continue to permit our march towards socialism/communism, I think we will see similar results.
Iam Con CernedJanuary 6, 2022
This article seems so logical, but in fact, it isn't what people want to hear. Today, people want to hear how someone else (the government) should provide everything they thought they need FOR them: Health care? Should be a right, not something you buy. Opposing opinions? Should be regulated lest someone disagree. Gun ownership? Should only be in the hands of the police or military, not, heaven-forbid, my next-door neighbor. Morality and LGBTQ issues. Should be that no one judges anyone for we're all equal and there is no wrong. And the list goes on-and-on, seemingly so very logical and desirable on the outside, but fraught with difficulties as Brother Stoddard so aptly represents. I am concerned that in our rush to not be judgmental, we have forgotten that we must, --absolutely must-- judge and make judgments each and every day lest we fall for perverse and unethical scoundrels who are more than happy to lead the foolish and whomever else along.
John PearceJanuary 6, 2022
While I agree with the overall statements in this article I question how good the health system is in the USA The cost is enormous High cost, not highest quality. Despite spending far more on healthcare than other high-income nations, the US scores poorly on many key health measures, including life expectancy, preventable hospital admissions, suicide, and maternal mortality. And for all that expense, satisfaction with the current healthcare system is relatively low in the US. People can be bankrupted by the cost of health issues and many people order their medications from over countries because of the high cost here. My own daughter even though she was insured is still paying off for her surgery many years later.
Maria ClaytonJanuary 6, 2022
I have met many in the church who tell me that living in a communist country has its benefits… Sorry to burst their bubble but if you have never lived in a communist country you have no idea… The sacrifices each individual goes through everyday to survive for even a line to receive a loaf of bread… And much more Thank You for your article Hospitals that look so amazing is for those in the regime… But for the everyday people it is not… They only show the best when you are visiting but go to the real areas in different neighborhoods you will have a rude awakening… Our Parents left Cuba for The United States of America the Land of the Free!!! I still remember how we were treated when we were leaving Cuba My Parents were treated horribly they would throw rocks eggs etc. by the committee in our neighborhood, they had 6 of the Regime come to our home to take inventory because they tell you everything belongs to the Country as well 2 were waiting at the car 2 at the front of our home and 2 came in our home we had 2 luggage and when one of the guards saw the second he said only one luggage you are allowed to take they took my parents wedding rings and said that belongs to the country they took my doll and took it apart looking for jewelry which the doll was empty they did not care they took inventory of everything in our home then the drove us to the actual stairs of the Airplane (Freedom Flights 1970) I still remember the Pilot going around the Cuban Island and my Father reading in his broken English the Constitution of the United States of America The Land of the Free Never take Freedom for granted!!! This is Gods country Cherish it and do not allow no one to destroy it by any ideology…
Robert CowartJanuary 6, 2022
Thanks for the LIGHT. Great job.
Mark MathesonJanuary 3, 2022
I like the idea I heard recently that too often we mislabel anxiety. What is just the normal stress of life we too quickly call it out as anxiety.
DeAnn JensonJanuary 3, 2022
I love your podcasts for content and spirit. So informative and so well spoken. But, partly and importantly, I like to make a printed copy o f the script to study and underline important contributions so that I can refer back at times to refresh my memory. I have four binders each one for a year of Come Follow Me lessons. But, today, to my dismay, when I printed this podcast, eacg page was covered by a picture of the Old Testament Calendar rendering the page unreadable. I am a subscribing member and hope this can be remedied.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 3, 2022
Thank you so much for this article. My husband had dementia, and he wasn't as difficult as you describe your mother, he really had become a different person or persons. I am sending this article to a friend whose husband has dementia. Perhaps it will help her.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 3, 2022
I really learned a lot from this article. Thank you.
Helmut WorleJanuary 3, 2022
This is extremely valuable (and new to me; after membership in the Church for well over 50 years). I had often wondered in my younger years why the temple endowment spends so much time retelling a story with which we are all very familiar. Similarly, I had puzzled over a statement supposedly made by president McKay toward the end of his life indicating that he was only just beginning to understand the temple ceremonies. Thank you for clearing some things up. I've just celebrated my 74th birthday and I believe I may just be beginning to get a glimpse of understanding the temple and the scriptures a little more. Thank heavens that there is indeed an eternity before me to grow and learn.
Craig FrogleyJanuary 3, 2022
Excellent, true, and most significant. Thank you!!
Becky L RoseJanuary 3, 2022
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ShaunaJanuary 3, 2022
Thank you Br. Degn. I still don't understand all of what you said but it helped shift my paradigm, or ideological or cultural lens as you call it, for understanding the Creation narratives. I'm excited to begin our study of the Pearl of Great Price, Old Testament this year, and of course this pertains to understanding Temple experiences.
Linda Starr WinansJanuary 3, 2022
Great job expounding valuable concepts. Your approach was thorough and well thought out. This is a great article to share with others, especially those of different faiths! Thanks!!!
Gary ArnellJanuary 3, 2022
Great read. Thank you!
Alan Forbes FlemingJanuary 2, 2022
Enjoyed your article. How coincidental for I just finished reading "Leadership in War from Lincoln to Churchill" by Correlli Barnett, and have just started reading a comparative biography of "Lincoln & Churchill" by Lewis E. Lehrman. My office/study has apart from pictures of my family, the Saviour, Joseph Smith, and Pres. Nelson, my only other pictures are of Lincoln, Churchill, and Don Bradman. All studies in leadership. (ps I had lunch with Don Bradman and he signed the photo, that's why he's there! Also, because he was the world's greatest cricketer).
KathleenJanuary 1, 2022
INCREDIBLE!
watkahJanuary 1, 2022
Isn't it interesting that every plan to harm the Church by the Adversary is turned upon him. The transparency issue brought up at the time of these forgeries perhaps informed the Church to be especially open and transparent about the Joseph Smith History project.
Nancy NewmanDecember 31, 2021
It seems every week i have trouble finding the written script for the podcast. Is there some way you can connect it to the week before so we can click on a arrow, picrture, date something to go straight to the lesson. We love the lessons and we three sisters in 3 different states read them together. Help
Chuck SanfordDecember 31, 2021
I thank you for your podcast, and for the work you both do on your website. This is one of the ways I try to keep on top of things. My precious `15-yo grand-daughter was recently diagnosed with Leukemia[; that is where my focus is right now.. Again, thanks.
Sarah HinzeDecember 31, 2021
Thanks for the inspiring article!
Kay RookhuyzenDecember 30, 2021
We have listened to your podcasts for the previous two years. This was indeed a rip roaring beginning of our study of this wondrous group of scripture! Thank you so much!
frankieboyDecember 30, 2021
at my daughters Catholic elementary school in southern CA they did an event for the 5th grade class "Taste of America", where each kid had to bring a dish from the state they were assigned. All the kids who were assigned Utah brought Jello dishes. I guess stereotypes die hard :)
Kay RookhuyzenDecember 30, 2021
As usual your writing inspires me and makes me want to BE BETTER. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I LOVE your column.
Carolyn MadsonDecember 30, 2021
Thank you for the reminder of another year of wonderful articles that added clarity to a world of confusing and sometimes harsh commentary. I look forward to once again reading them.
MargaretDecember 30, 2021
Thank you for these words it has helped to see things about i have not considered before
KathleenDecember 29, 2021
Thank you for good reminders through great examples and in an inspiring way.
Patty BrightDecember 29, 2021
Thank you for sharing! This info motivates me.
KathleenDecember 29, 2021
Kudos to 'Santa!'
Old AbeDecember 29, 2021
Let's see. Ronald P. Millett thinks Christ was born on a passover in the BoM year 92. That would have been the 14th of Nisan, the year being 14 days old. Since the Nephites kept the law of Moses, proper dating was important. Nonetheless Jesus Christ died on the forth day of Nisan according to 3 Nephi 8:5. So the Nephite calender somehow was 10 days off. How is that possible using a lunisolar calendar? Differing one day is possible, but 10 days is not. In any case - if Christ was born on 14th Nisan, everything that is written about in 3 Nephi 1:4-13 happened in thirteen days. Aw, come on!
Jo Ann OkelberryDecember 29, 2021
This is a very informative and powerful article. I have never thought abortion was right, and this article really backs up my belief. Thank you.
Jo Ann OkelberryDecember 29, 2021
You have written some great one-liners. I especially liked, "Satan likes to masquerade as God."
Ben JonesDecember 29, 2021
A few days before Christmas, my wife got a call from a friend at Church who had to go to the emergency room and was worried about her 93-year-old mother, whom she had been taking care of. My wife organized a number of Sisters to help her accomplish the thankless task of dealing with a 93-year-old with dementia, exhausting herself in the process for several days. I exclaimed, "There are those who complain, 'Why doesn't the church help out?' They don't realize, the Church is YOU !" Which is to say that all those who are encouraged and organized by the Church to go about doing good, are the Church.
CarolDecember 29, 2021
Thank you for writing such great stories, I never miss reading your stories even when I pass on all the others! You never preach, just always have a point that touches my heart and helps me come unto Christ.
KathleenDecember 28, 2021
Thank you for that rip roaring start. I was having trouble transitioning from the Doctrine and Covenants. Now we're off and running!
Ann SiggardDecember 28, 2021
When I was in Qingdao, China teaching English with the BYU China Teachers Program, one day during the Christmas season my co-teacher and I went shopping at the mall and there were Christmas trees and lights everywhere and over the the loud speaker, in English, was the hymn "O Holy Night"! And...there was snow falling, which was also rare. It was a magical moment in a country that did not allow us to proseletyze and we were allowed to feel the magic and Spirit there!
HelenDecember 28, 2021
Merry Christmas and a FANTASTIC New Year, Doctor Dan!
Leah ThompsonDecember 27, 2021
This is an excellent article. I have been thinking lately about fence laws and principles and these thoughts have helped me better understand the how to use principles to help me live the gospel better. I love how you clarify that Pharisaical thinking is focused on how they can excuse their own disobedience and lower standards for themselves NOT hold others to a higher and holier way of living.
Troy WilliamsDecember 27, 2021
This is very well written! I read multiple articles last week about Mr. Green and his departure from the church. Each of them, as you mentioned, were so one-sided. But isn’t that typical for the majority of today’s media. I’m grateful that more truth was shared through your article. People need to see that the church and more importantly the people within the church are doing good things around the world. We are not perfect… But neither is anyone else. Merry Christmas
al barrettDecember 27, 2021
Excellent article. Scatter radar is more accurate and less susceptible to weather and technical issues than gps.
DJDecember 27, 2021
Beautiful arrangement beautifully sung and put together! Thanks for sharing your talents and message!
DonnaDecember 27, 2021
What a wonderful collection of Nativities Sam and Carol Raines accumulated! Thanks for sharing this event. Even though Sam is "gone", his goodness and sharing will go on and on blessing those who will see his nativities. Thanks for posting!
Don McClureDecember 27, 2021
Is climate change having a significant impact on the icebergs?
MJ Darnel IIDecember 26, 2021
Some parts of this may provide some possible perspective, but remember this cuts both ways. The husband could actually be a controlling, narcissistic momma’s boy. And that would deem be considered abusive. And as a marriage counselor only see similar behaviors get worse over time. Verbal and psychological abuse can weigh a heavy burden for a spouse to carry by themselves. Yes the red flags as another commentedsuch as “ he will miss me” as an excuse stands out. ‘
Douglas E NadybalDecember 26, 2021
Suicides amongst males in the United States is triple the rate of females and that is not atypical for the rest of the world. Any article that fails to shine light on this gender disparity is of no more worth than a review of a restaurant that glosses over the quality of the food on the menu. To talk about the altitude as a causative factor deftly takes the reader around the issue while giving cover Utah and the Church. How about we discuss what on earth we are doing to our male populations?
ConcernedDecember 26, 2021
I enjoyed this well written article in response to Mr. Green’s public leaving of the Church. I really hate it when folks leave the Church; I worry for their souls and the souls of their posterity and friends. They know not what they do. Years ago I read this little booklet written by Truman Madsen entitled,”Christ and the Inner Life”. In it he tells the story of when he was a bishop and a recent RM announces to him he is leaving the Church. Bishop Madsen then follows with an probing quick list of questions to the RM. “Do you feel the spirit when you partake of the sacrament? Do you feel the spirit as you study the Book of Mormon? Do you feel the spirit when you pray? Do you feel the spirit when you go and ponder in the Celestial room after an endowment session? Etc etc” The RM answers no to all of the questions and actually states he does not read the Book of Mormon nor go to the temple or come to Church. Bishop Madsen then tells him he never was “in” the Church to which the RM complains and reports that he had served in all these callings as a YM and had served a mission. To which Bishop Madsen pointed out that he (Bishop Madsen) always felt the spirit when doing those things and worked to feel the spirit. Well, he challenges (can we say that?) the RM to read the Book of Mormon every day, pray and go to Church and seek the spirit. He does and he changes. Beethoven commented he wished he could be like Mozart and be “drenched” in music. When we are baptized we are drenched.
Deeper seekerDecember 25, 2021
I recently learned of another exciting insight to add to this beautiful article. I may have some of the details a tad off, so correct and forgive my errors, but as I understood it, the shepherds would have been the shepherds that cared for the sheep that were used for the temple sacrifices in Jerusalem. They would take the first born male lambs and clean them off in a manger with special swaddling cloths given them by the temple priests. Those special lambs were for passover. Jesus IS the passover lamb. When the shepherds saw Jesus in a manger (it would have been stone) wrapped in swaddling clothes used for sacrificial lambs prepared for sacrifice, that was how they knew HE, the baby, was the fulfillment of Isaiah 53. That is why it was a sign to them.
AJ CurrieDecember 25, 2021
As Elder Bruce R. McConkie sais in one of his most famous General Conference talks, "...the caravan moves on."
Craig WoodfordDecember 24, 2021
I have learned, through sad experience, that the adversary chooses this traditionally festive time of year to distract us from celebrating the birth of our saviour, Jesus Christ's. The devil and those who follow him are bitter, petty creatures because they know their story ends in misery and woe. They strive to make all miserable like unto themselves. Let's not make their story ours. Let us rather look to Christ, learn of him and do his works in blessing the lives of all around us.
BonnieDecember 24, 2021
Excellent!
DonnaDecember 24, 2021
We LOVE your nativities! I wish we could see them all. We too have traveled and collected a few precious nativities that bring joy when we get them out. Consider showing us more of your nativities in a future addition! Thank you for the gift of your newsletter all year, which reminds me, it's time to contribute. Merry Christmas!
Sasha W KwapinskiDecember 24, 2021
It's interesting how those who believe that the LDS Church should become "politically correct" have apparently forgotten that those religious denominations which have gone the politically correct route are the ones which have been declining the fastest (not only in percentages, but in actual numbers ranging up into the millions) for well over half a century. I was around during the 1960's to see the beginnings of that trend, and I was a part of that "out-migration."
Denise Blackburn ChristensenDecember 24, 2021
oh how I loved looking at your Nativities! Thanks so much for sharing. They are beautiful and the one from Germany brings back memories of our recent trip and watching you and Maurine joyfully purchasing gifts for your children and grandchildren. Merry Christmas!
Raymond Takashi SwensonDecember 24, 2021
How in the world does this non-event qualify as "news"? The only reason for news media to publicize his statement is that they worship the wealthy. They are publicists for the expensively dressed great and spacious building crowd that ridicules the humble followers of Jesus Christ. Their actions demonstrate their fear of the effectiveness of millions of Latter-day Saint Christians who demonstrate daily that there is a powerful alternative to the self-appointed elites who denigrate the intelligence and integrity of those who do not worship the rich and influential. They do not believe in actual democracy, but use the word hypocritically like Lenin and Stalin to justify their control of the allegedly ignorant masses of people.
KathleenDecember 24, 2021
Thank you for bringing it all closer through your beautiful sound.
LindaDecember 23, 2021
From the book Beloved Bridegroom by Donna Nielson: Meanwhile, the bride was also busy making preparations for her future and the new life she would share with her husband. There was wedding clothing to prepare, including much elaborate colorful embroidery. Swaddling bands were also to be embroidered with symbols indicating family history and genealogy. According to ancient and modern custom, the embroidery, to be acceptable, must be exactly the same on both sides. This was a type showing that the outward life and the inner life were the same-they were never to have a "wrong side" to their character. Under the wedding canopy, these decorated bands would be tied around the clasped right hands on the bride and groom; hence the saying, "They tied the knot." These bands would later be used to fasten the swaddling clothes of their children. Nielsen, DOnna. Beloved Bridegroom . Onyx Press. Kindle Edition. Location 551
JonDecember 23, 2021
I love this article. Made me think of teaming up with my ancestors. Kind of like missionary companions helping each other out on both sides of the veil.
CASDecember 23, 2021
This was absolutely delightful.
Paul HDecember 23, 2021
And yet how many artists paint the new-born infant naked? Even the painting for this story has Him with bare shoulders and chest. And of course the Wise Men never appeared at the manger either, but that's a whole different subject. Thanks for the information in this article.
AEatonDecember 23, 2021
Great article and a much needed voice to break through the confusion of the day.
Irene BlackDecember 23, 2021
Wonderful article!! Thanks for your insights and stories. I am alone this Christmas and you touched me deeply. Merry Christmas.
James ScottDecember 23, 2021
Yours is a very interesting and maybe significant essay. Certainly a good study. I wouldn’t wonder that in preparation for the birth Mary may have decorated some of the swaddling strips with embroidery or symbols of the tribe of Judah or even woven with Judah’s colors for certain wrapping positions, the head piece for example. A Star of David may have been too bold but she knew he was David’s heir. Today’s receiving blankets seem to be for the same purpose and are colored for the gender, blue and pink. We think white, but linen would have been a poor cloth for warmth, more likely wool therefore earth colors. Thanks again for your thoughtful contribution.
Pennie knottDecember 23, 2021
Mr. Green is so annoying. If he thinks his money makes him smarter or more special than the rest of us, he is wrong. What sets him apart is his purposeful effort to harm the work of the Lord. If he thinks he and his billions can do that he is wrong again. It’s a sad thing to kick against the pricks and pit yourself against the Almighty. I would not want to be him.
Patricia WintersDecember 23, 2021
Thank you so very much for this article, and for printing the transcript! It is very early in the morning now, and I don't want to wake my husband, who has health issues and is asleep a few feet from me. Being able to receive the content of this article without sound is a great blessing. I'm sure that Deaf persons appreciate this as well.
ObserverDecember 22, 2021
Phenomenal! Carry on!
MaryannDecember 22, 2021
Love it! Definitely the FIRST ONE!
LynnDecember 22, 2021
Beautiful article Mariah! Your perspective reinforces that God's ways are not man's ways. God seems to love a paradox--and there are so many examples in His plan.
karell binghamDecember 22, 2021
I absolutely loved the insights from "The Trill of Hope...! There is one scripture that kept coming to mind, one that I just love: "He telleth the number of the stars: he calleth them all by their names." I always think to myself when I read that, "If he even knows the name of all those stars, surely he knows his children, even me. I might have come across that scripture by reading one of your tremendous editorials, but I sure love what it implies!
T. BarrettDecember 22, 2021
Thank you, Brother Givens. Your words are always like rain in a desert to my soul.
EveDecember 21, 2021
Very thought provoking. Thank you!
Taressa E.December 21, 2021
I am again inspired by your words. Thank you Brother Callister!! The world would like us to think that being compassionate is to lower our expectations, give people a break, not put demands on others or reduce requirements for select groups. Thank you for reminding us that it is truly LOVE, COMPASSION and RESPECT for others when expections are set, the bar remains high, and we believe in their alitities to succeed! I am grateful for parents, leaders, teachers and friends that helped me achieve hard things and didn't make it easier but supported and believed in me! That is love. That is compassion.
Susan RatherDecember 21, 2021
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Reid EverettDecember 21, 2021
Very interesting and stimulating thoughts. Perhaps in the modern church, the familial or surname is more important than the given name when blessing infants. My familial name has generations of honor and goodwill attached to it that I have tried to grow into, support and sustain.
Pennie knottDecember 21, 2021
Very well said. I have her book. She is to be admired for her courage.
Patty ListonDecember 21, 2021
I am in awe of the truth and beauty of your words. Thank you for affirming the great gift of a name and the profound Joy of being able to take upon us His.
Deana BradenDecember 20, 2021
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
David CormackDecember 20, 2021
Great article! I have another thought on the Crown of Thorns. It was a sign of Christ breaking the curse set in Garden of Eden so the earth will be renewed and receive its paradisiacal glory.
Kent PorterDecember 20, 2021
I appreciate the insights and also thought of the shepherds who watched the flocks of sheep. I understand a protective ring of thorn bushes (thorns) would be made to protect the flock from the wolves or other predators that may try to get at them during the dark hours of night or rest. It came to me we might look at thorns as being "protective" as we learn of their potential with life's experiences and can use such lesson to avoid the many "predators"trying to get at us as we continue the "good race". It's good to know both edges of the sword in order to avoid being "cut" too deeply.
Sonja ErvinDecember 20, 2021
The lovely song was beautifully sung! Such a pleasure to hear it and yes, it definitely brightened my day! Thank you for sharing your talents.
AllisonDecember 20, 2021
Since Passover was and is celebrated in the spring, the leaves would be freshly opened on the crown of thorns tree.
karell binghamDecember 20, 2021
Perhaps one could say that the thorns were a symbol of the fall of man. That being said the crown of thorns that the Savior had on his head could very well mean that He took upon him our mortality as well as our sins.
Oakley EatonDecember 20, 2021
Beautiful Christmas rendition of ‘Far Away’ It makes the Savior feel so close. Thank you Elders and Sisters. Love this!
J. DicksonDecember 20, 2021
The myrrh tree may very well have been the source for the crown of thorns. Googling “myrrh” will result in images of the tree’s cruelty thorny branches. If so, this would make yet another gift of the wise men extremely symbolic and prophetic.
JobDecember 19, 2021
Thank you Brother McCallaster for this excellent article! Have a great day.
Anna PowellDecember 19, 2021
Lovely, just lovely, thank you!
BeraDecember 19, 2021
Very inspiring article. The Lord indeed will not forsake us, even in our times of trial and affliction. Thank you for reminding us.
Maryann TaylorDecember 18, 2021
What beautiful advice! This is applicable for everyone beyond the subject of infidelity. We can allow our sad emotions and thoughts to flow past us without vigorously fighting them. We can call upon our Savior to help us put them in proper perspective and to let them go.
Cyndi H.December 17, 2021
Excellent article! We have the divine abilities to become as our Heavenly Father and Mother, but, we need to rise to our capacity and potential. Expecting less doesn't help anyone in this life or the next!
Gary OliverDecember 17, 2021
Geoff, having experienced a very similar thing in my life (for over 40 years) I am amazed at how inciteful and helpful is your counsel. "Loose ends" are most difficult to endure and resolve while grieving. Please continue to "lift the hands and [heads] that hang down" and dry as many tears as you can.
Marla SmakaDecember 17, 2021
I totally agree with everything in this piece. There have been many, many articles written in the old Ensign, and I remember only one article that spoke of the absolute joy of children receiving material gifts at Christmas.
WendyDecember 17, 2021
This is so totally appropriate in the USA today. I want to exceed my own expectations after reading it, and I’m 74!
BlueDecember 16, 2021
Your mind and spirit are so beautiful. Thank you for the example of both these traits that you exhibit so consistently.
Maryann TaylorDecember 15, 2021
My husband is certain that we were close before coming to earth and that our marriage was decided there. I would like to believe that--however, there are just too many variables. People die in accidents or wars who never had the chance to marry. People marry and divorce, then marry and divorce again. There is just too much human error, and also events we cannot control, for me to believe that EVERY relationship was foreordained. On the other hand, I think we did have SOME choice about the family relationships that would be formed here, especially children and parents. Then again, some people may have chosen to have 5 children in the premortal realm and when faced with limited resources only had 3. Those other two children have to go somewhere, right? Again--too many human variables. I DO very much look forward to being reunited with all my friends and the people I was close to in my premortal life. I won't be surprised at all to find I interacted with them both in the premortal world and on earth.
HalDecember 15, 2021
Thank you for this article! I have often felt I knew someone the instant I met them. My hope is I can look at each person I meet and think "I may have known this person in my pre-mortal life."
RPDecember 15, 2021
I have always known that this is the case. More recently I have come to understand that we had close siblings in the Pre-earth life. When I was seventeen I became good friends with someone through seminary. Then we went our separate ways to college and then marriage. I didn't talk to her for 30 years. Then she came back into my life and ended up being a Personal Care Attendant for a couple of my disabled children. Having her at my house nearly every day has been a total joy. The really funny thing was that right from the beginning, even after 30 years, we had similar quirks. We could tell what the other one was thinking and our opinions on most everything were the same. It drives our children a bit crazy when we are together. We prayed about it and both received a confirmation that not only were we siblings in the same household, but that we were twin spirits - sent to separate households on earth to help the people in those families. Heavenly Father brought us back together at a time when we both desperately needed each others support.
Ron BarnesDecember 15, 2021
Ever since I was rather young, I always knew that there was one woman that I was destined to marry. When I asked my future wife for a date, I wasn't really interested in her, I just needed a date. The day after that first date I began telling people that I had found the girl I was destined to marry. We were both 17. I have always honestly believed that we arranged it before we were born.
Maryann TaylorDecember 14, 2021
My husband's humor has saved me from feeling weighed down on many occasions. Laughing together has brought so much joy to our marriage. It is so easy to take ourselves too seriously. Humor dispels gloom and gives us a fresh perspective. We focus so much on the topic of adversity in church discussions---sometimes I think it is overkill. We need to lift up our hearts and rejoice more.
Linda WillisDecember 14, 2021
Speaking of gifts, thank you for this thought provoking article that rings so true to those stumbling along the path to exaltation. The vision you share and the honesty in which you reveal yourself gives us seekers of Jesus some additional light. Love your sense of humor, your mind, and your heart. Your words have touched my soul.
MaryannDecember 14, 2021
One of my favorite scriptures is 2 Ne 2:2 where Lehi reassures his son, Jacob. "...thou knowest the greatness of God; and he shall consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain." No matter how difficult our challenges may be, our Heavenly Father can bring about miracles to bless us. As so many of us are seeing some of our children wandering away from the gospel path, we can have a hope in Christ that he will continue to call after them and that miracles can occur to help them return.
C. SavageDecember 14, 2021
Well said Brother Teichert. It is good to read articles like this one, reminding us that when we walk through the valleys of heartache and disappointment, we are still walking, moving forward. The valleys are temporary. Your insight reminds us to keep our eternal perspective in all things. Thank you.
LewisDecember 14, 2021
What beautiful thoughts! As I reflect on the life of the Savior, it was a life of giving, of service and of love. Sometimes I think we can get all wrapped up in the minutia of doctrine, or law, or tradition, and lose sight of the purity and beauty of his life. Thank you for reminding us.
Kay CoxDecember 14, 2021
I enjoyed this article and loved the comparison of pacemaker and peacemaker. I do enjoy all of your articles. You have a unique perspective that causes me to ponder and ask questions. Thank you for your insights.
PatDecember 14, 2021
While you are very much an earthling, your words are very much heavenly. This article is beyond beautiful, just as those you have previously written wor Meridian Magazine. Thank you so much.
JulieDecember 14, 2021
I really really like this. I have found it to be oh so true in my life. Thank you for sharing.
Joy LundbergDecember 13, 2021
Thank you for this inspiring article. Bless you for all the good you bring into the world. My prayers are with you and all those who serve others in need. You are not "trying to be like Jesus", you ARE being like Jesus.
Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 13, 2021
This is a wonderful article with lots of great quotations from General Authorities. We're having a problem with a child who wants to change gender, and it's been very difficult for us. However, we love her even though we do not accept her decision to change. Thanks for sharing this with us.
Richard EastwoodDecember 13, 2021
Finding a copy of Don Aslett's "Clutter's Last Stand" may be worthwhile: Adams Media, 57 Littlefield Street, Avon, MA 02322, available at Amazon for around $10.
Claudia Henderson SmithDecember 13, 2021
Wonderful article. The book by Arduini must be very interesting. I wonder if it's been translated into English. Thanks so much for sharing your knowledge with us.
Ron BarnesDecember 13, 2021
The more knowledge a person has, the greater their capacity for finding humor. Having ultimate knowledge, exalted beings would have an ultimate sense of humor. They would laugh at things that we don't, and they would not laugh at things that we do.
Elizabeth SmithDecember 13, 2021
Thanks, Gary. I needed a chuckle today.
KCDecember 12, 2021
Yes, it would make things much cheaper and easier, more convenient and I believe the young would feel more understood. The elderly may have a more difficult time w/it because learning a new language late in life is tougher. I've observed over the years the deaf community is fiercely protective of itself. I've been told by deaf persons that they are a unique group, one that doesn't let in outsiders. The understanding was they are not disintegrated from society at large. They said because of their condition they understand the world so very differently than the rest of us, they would not want to be integrated and lose what makes them special--their unique way of experiencing/processing the world. I've lived with deaf individuals and taken ASL classes, I applaud the efforts but I know some deaf persons who might balk at them.
MaryannDecember 12, 2021
I am confused as to how he is hoarding if he won't "spend a dime."?? However, I agree with Bro. Steurer that hoarding is difficult to treat. We have acquaintances who ended their marriage because of this issue. I hope this woman will think long and hard before committing herself.
Rosalie E. StoneDecember 12, 2021
The way that you developed the idea of "The Articles of Faith" being a call to action as well as a statement of beliefs is so beautifully energizing! I'm grateful that I can use daily repentance to help me follow the practical suggestions you offered for each one––because I know I will often fall short. But I will persevere, feeling certain that those suggestions will help me to be more sensitive to spiritual promptings that can bring blessings those around me as well as myself. Thank you for this inspiring Sunday school lesson!
MarkDecember 11, 2021
Some of the comments to this story are so clueless it is painful to read them. Reducing women to body parts? How about just recognizing that breasts, legs, and derrieres are visually stimulating to men. Remember, we didn't wake up one morning and think to ourselves, boy, I'd sure think it would be great to involuntarily give a significant chunk of my self-control to any reasonably attractive woman who wants to dress immodestly. Our visual sex drive came from Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother but that doesn't matter to modern women because they really aren't into reality, they think they can make things be what they want them to be. So, men are supposed to learn how to see female immodesty and still have self-control. Great, but forget about getting married--yes, most men aren't getting married if their sex drive doesn't push them to it. What children and a husband to help raise those children. Then be glad men have a visually based sex drive. It is a kindness to men who are interested in chastity to dress modestly and to do otherwise is proud, arrogant, and shows that you don't care what God thinks about it all. Yes, men can control their thoughts--but for most of us, that consists of avoiding women who are dressed immodestly. Typically, if a man can avoid being aroused to one degree or another by an immodest woman, it is because he consumes pornography on a regular basis and has difficulty being aroused in a normal manner.
MaureenDecember 11, 2021
Good answers and advice Jeff. I live with and next door to hoarders, both of whom have, because of those they live with, learned to curb, or at least partition their "stuff" to their own space. If he's really got lots of money, too, a separate storage or even apartment, just for his accumulations ought to be easy enough to arrange. But it's probably the bigger issues of OCD, etc. that aren't as easily tucked away and may cause friction in closer, longer interaction. Good chance, at this age, the emotional/mental issues underlying the hoarding aren't going away, even if the clutter gets managed. I'd check out the veracity of the vast wealth, too. Somehow, I doubt it.
Harold RustDecember 11, 2021
This newspaper clipping is a reminder that there are so many "stories behind the story" regarding those who lived several generations ago. Imagine the details of such a situation where the rumors were so rampant and vicious that Alvin's father would feel compelled to exhume his grave and personally check the status of his body in the casket. One does not do that unless there is overpowering evidence that someone might have done such a dastardly deed. This is the environment the entire Smith family endured for their decade living in Palmyra following Joseph's vision from God.
BobDecember 11, 2021
Gave it a try and couldn’t finish it. Just too cliche and kind of dumb. And no magic among the leading characters.
Debbi M.December 10, 2021
Wonderful and thoughtful article. TY for sharing. We all need to be aware of women in this scary position and learn how to direct them to real help and support.
tfDecember 10, 2021
Reading the title chapter of "Andy Warhol was a Hoarder" by Claudia Kalb (subtitled "Inside the Minds of History's Great Personalities") may be an interesting exercise. I'm sure there are many other things out there on the subject. She probably doesn't want to marry this guy.
BrynnDecember 10, 2021
I would add an additional thought… You said this man has millions but “won’t spend a dime”. A friend of mine married a man who also fit that description. While she knew about this tendency when they were dating, she had not fully thought through what it would mean during their marriage. It has become highly challenging for her as he has refused to spend any money, not only on things she might hope for, but also for things she needs. Even though she works and has an income of her own, he is always arguing with her about issues like why she can’t get less expensive lenses for her glasses than what her eye doctor recommended or why they need to replace household fixtures that are broken (even though they can afford it). It has caused her to feel she isn’t important to him and he doesn’t perceive her to be a full partner in the marriage. And constantly dealing with different perspectives of how to use their financial resources has been emotionally draining and harmful to their relationship. Be aware that while this might seem to be merely a tendency towards thriftiness or a personal quirk while dating, if he has a drive to “hoard money”, that has the potential for becoming a much deeper issue if you marry and view the use of financial resources very differently. And as Geoff describes if he has a mental drive to "hoard" money, that will likely not be easy to change.
LexaGraemeDecember 9, 2021
I also add my thanks for this article.
Pam RoderDecember 9, 2021
This article was most informative and I very much appreciate Dan Peterson for writing it. I learned a great deal from his research and thankful he took the time to write for Meridian Magazine. Thanks so much Daniel. I've learned so much from you.
Mark R BischoffDecember 9, 2021
I am the great-grandson of Mariner Wood Merrill and I have never heard this story before. There are other very interesting stories about him that have been shared and passed down in the family but I'm a bit shocked that this hasn't been one of them. What a fantastic experience. Thank you for printing this!
Paralee EckmanDecember 9, 2021
This is an especially fascinating article, and I am thankful to Daniel Peterson for preparing it, and Meridian for printing it.
Dixie BarlowDecember 9, 2021
Thank you for these ways to enlarge the Christmas Spirit in our families.
Harold RustDecember 9, 2021
A tender story regarding faith, trust, and challenging relationships. A very interesting parallel story can be found in the Autobiography of Mary Woolley Chamberlain (my grandmother's sister) who also married a man who had wives and children still living. In Mary's case, however, she was married a decade after the Manifesto rather than a decade before it was declared. Her testimony of the Gospel and of the principle of plural marriage as well as her praise and respect for her husband are a wonderful post-script to the words of Lorena Larsen. Both examples highlight the deeper purpose of such an Abrahamic sacrifice.
KristenDecember 9, 2021
This is a well-written, beautiful compilation of quotes and testimonies of the importance of eternal family ties. Thank you.
Lisa G.December 8, 2021
Lorena Larsen is my great-great-grandmother. I stumbled upon her autobiography in college while browsing books in the library at BYU. Often I wanted to share her story when discussions of plural marriage came up online, but I received impressions not to do so because I could not guarantee that her story would be used for good. Later, when the Church shared her story in Saints, Vol. 2, I understood why I had felt impressed to wait until her story could be shared in the right way. I was also pleasantly surprised to see this article in Meridian Magazine. To the commenter previous who wanted to know "the rest of the story", if you click the link in the footnotes to Lorena's autobiography, you can read in her own words everything that happened afterward.
Linda WillisDecember 8, 2021
Thank you Brother Thayne for an article filled with truth and compassion. It seems like we are all being given an abundance of opportunities to search our hearts, stretch our minds and call into the action the gift of discernment to understand all gender issues. We have the tools if we choose to listen carefully and read constantly the words of our leaders. It is never wise to get in front of them while claiming to follow them.
Nancy H.December 8, 2021
My mother always pieced together quilts for her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She then hand quilted them. This article brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing.
13th a of fDecember 8, 2021
This movie creates a new category- COMrom! So much comedy with the romance! We laughed all through it! Every time you watch it, you catch more funny moments! A MUST see.
HalDecember 8, 2021
Thank you for your courage and for this thought-provoking and compassionate message.
TandartDecember 8, 2021
Excellent message! I am convinced that self-pity is our most negative and destructive emotion. We are here to act, not be acted upon. Dealing with depression for much of my 75 years has blessed me in ways I could not have otherwise have received.
PennieDecember 8, 2021
Thank you for so much clarity on a subject that is confusing to many. I would wish we all could comprehend and apply what you have expressed here.
Douglas NadybalDecember 8, 2021
Yes He is unscripted and unpredictable...or so it seems to us. To one, he beckons to come unto Him, to another He says "go and sin no more." We should just content ourselves in being happy to understand His commands and forget about trying to thing we have Him figured out. Man cannot comprehend God.
KathleenDecember 7, 2021
Thanks for the reminder. It's been a lot of years and I forgot the scene and it being used in President Monson's talk. We all have situations to rectify.
Ed GayhartDecember 7, 2021
Wow The Good News of the Savior never fails!
JANEEN FULLERDecember 7, 2021
this is one of my favorite christmas hymns...this is a job well done and I am sure that the Lord is well pleases with his ambassadors
Kenny MazzantiDecember 7, 2021
Another good reason that having Americans who will exercise their right to keep and bear arms is appropriate inside of our church buildings. Three years ago a member in Fallon Nevada murdered another member during Sacrament Meeting while other members watched helplessly. I prevented an armed robbery in my own ward 10 years ago because the robbers did not want to deal with an armed member who stood up to them. They simply left the building when confronted. No harm was allowed to be done.
Carlos RoundyDecember 7, 2021
Jesus took the Holy Spirit for his guide, he led a unscripted life, he did what the spirit told him to do.
Jo Ann OkelberryDecember 7, 2021
This rendition is so touching and inspiring. Love those missionaries.
MickeyDecember 7, 2021
Why does everything have to be about losing weight? Being fat is not a medical condition! And In fact BMI 27 has the longest longevity. Our bodies are programmed to gain over time as we age; this is actually how our bodies were made by Heavenly Father. Healthy bodies can happen at many sizes. This push to be losing weight at all times is contributing to a huge problem with deadly eating disorders. You do not need to be “less” to be a worthwhile and valuable child of God.
karell binghamDecember 7, 2021
I love the spirit that I have felt reading this great essay! Thank you so much for your time and effort! May you have great blessings because of your testimonies!
Douglas E NadybalDecember 6, 2021
This is a wonderful instruction on what to do for and specifically how to pray for and on behalf of those in our circle upon which the Lord has made His decision to take something precious away. Be it marriage or even death, our comfort is ultimately that Person in the Godhead entitled, The Comforter. That said, and I am a bit surprised that such an accomplished scholar and editor would omit the rest of the story, and leave us to wonder what ever happened to Lorena Larsen after her marriage was forcefully terminated. Was she indeed cast out as was Hagar? Did anyone help her and her children? Did the Church do anything for her and others like her?
Gary AndersonDecember 6, 2021
Thank you Brother Harper! I come from plural marriage pioneers who traveled to Utah in the 1800s on both sides of my family and without them, I wouldn't be here. I love them all so much. They were extremely brave and obedient to Heavenly Father's will.
James ScottDecember 6, 2021
I read many accounts of such separations, including that of my own gig other with sadness and disappointment. I’ve never read an account save one of how these women coped with being cut off or how the father related to his children of the abandoned families. Did they visit, did they provide for them? I do know many refused the government edict and the Manifesto and continued in their course of polygamy and the Endowment House had to be raised. Are there reports of the fate of these women that abandoned the practice and remarried?
BeckyDecember 5, 2021
This is an incredibly vulnerable question and I appreciate you recognizing that there is potential for things to go too far.
David SampsonDecember 5, 2021
Very inspiring and enlightening. Thank you so much for taking the time to dig into the details of this topic. As a side comment... just for your understanding... there are several areas where your use of pronouns is confusing about whom you are speaking. For example, when you spoke of President Nelson's ancestors I often didn't know to which relative "his" was referring.
LoraDecember 5, 2021
When my children were in public school, I came up with mental health days for their sake. They needed a break from the relentless pressure of crowd control, daily homework, certain bad teachers, and the over all chaos. Meanwhile, I considered longer-term solutions. We ended up leaving public school and that has made all the difference. I shudder to think of what children are being exposed to these days. Parents need to be aware and responsive. If your vacation is merely a run-away-from-life, then it will do little for you on any level. But many vacations can be very different from that: enrichment, not denial. Purpose- in education, in vacation, anywhere- makes the difference.
Maryann TaylorDecember 4, 2021
Wow! What great articles. We so often struggle, looking beyond the mark, when some of our suffering can be lightened by applying the basic principles of the Word of Wisdom. As one who has suffered from varying degrees of depression for most of my life, I recognize that I need to get to bed earlier, eat a more healthy diet and get more exercise. I appreciate your gentleness in urging that we can start with small steps and work from there. Otherwise, it becomes overwhelming and just another way of feeding the depression. I have found great strength and power in meditating on the scriptures and attending the temple. We need to bring as much light into our being as possible. I have felt the Savior carrying my burdens and I am so grateful for him and his power manifested in my life. My depression is not gone, but it so much better than it was.
RaLee HallDecember 4, 2021
Thank you, Jacob Hess, for all of your articles. I learn so much from them and have sent some of your thoughts and ideas to a son who suffers from depression. Your articles are always worthwhile reading
WallyDecember 3, 2021
Wise counsel, Geoff.
Lorena HolmsteadDecember 3, 2021
This is one of the most valuable resources for healing (mental, physical, emotional and spritiual) that I have ever come across. The resources shared, the insight, the compassion, the truth - all of it - deeply moving. I will share far and wide, because this is a deep-seated passion for me too. Thank you, Jacob!
vickieDecember 3, 2021
i understand what david is talking about. i have a son who is gay and got married to a partner and forgoing the church. he was a missionary and he knows the truth, but what i saw was him searching for love. he was 35 when he came out. the only thing i can do is pray for him and his partner. but i love him very much and will continue to love him that much. his father feels the same way. so i am sypathetic to the LGBTQ group because to me that would be the hardest thing in the world to cope with.
zCatLadyDecember 3, 2021
Thank you for insightful articles that are filled with hope and honesty. I have suffered with mental illness for almost 50 years without hope of getting better. I am learning to accept that I won't truly be whole until the next life, yet now I see that I can make improvement in this life.
HeatherDecember 2, 2021
Such a wake up call! It’s so easy to be complacent when our own needs are met and we have enough to eat ourselves! Thank you for the invitation to think more of those who are suffering♥️
pam roderDecember 2, 2021
I will echo Joy Baird's praise. Thank you, thank you.
A.S.H.December 2, 2021
Emma Somerville was my 3rd great-grandmother and her story is incredible. Oftentimes, learning about her life has been a source of faith, and hope for me. I'm so grateful that I know this story, and that I can try to apply it to my own life and I know that by serving others I am serving Christ. Thank you for sharing this.
Rita MillerDecember 2, 2021
I, too, have Pilgrim ancestors, through Capt. Myles Standish and John Alden. The fact that tens of millions of other Americans have similar ancestry is somehow very comforting. The troubles we are currently going through will not defeat us; our family ties bind us, even if we aren't currently aware of them. Those on the other side of the veil are always with us, cheering us on.
KJBDecember 2, 2021
There's a simple test for those who claim that they're "advocating for life": If Roe is thrown out next year, then you should immediately insist that any fetus is conceived during a calendar year is now tax-deductible. The instant a woman becomes pregnant, she can declare a new dependent and reap the benefits on her next return. If an unborn child is really "alive", this should be a no brainer. Put your money where your mouth is, guys...
Joy BairdDecember 2, 2021
Thank you, thank you ,thank you for this outstanding article! I will share this with many and watch for more information coming.
Maryann TaylorDecember 1, 2021
Thank you for confirming my thoughts that one of the reasons that Emma stayed in Nauvoo was probably because the Prophet's mother, Lucy, was not strong enough for the journey. I hope that none of us are ever critical of Emma for any reason. We cannot begin to really understand all that she endured. Perhaps, through her many great sacrifices and obedience, she had already secured her exaltation. Perhaps it was better for her to remain with Lucy and she was not required by the Lord to go to the Salt Lake Valley. Whatever the case, I believe she is still "An Elect Lady," as recorded in D&C 25:3, "Behold, thy sins are forgiven thee, and thou art an elect lady, whom I have called."
Carlos RoundyDecember 1, 2021
Joseph and Emma also baried 4 or 5 children in the Nauvoo area.
Candace J BarrowsDecember 1, 2021
This tender story has really touched my heart, We need to be reminded often of our Heavenly Father's love for us
Herm OlsenDecember 1, 2021
Excellent article. In my youth, it was common practice in the Church to criticize Emma (which reflected the Brigham Young interpretation of life). But I was always cautious about any such criticism, because I knew how passionately devoted Joseph was to Emma. And I feared I would have to face Joseph one day to answer for any criticism I might have otherwise made. I still believe that, and am pleased that the Church has taken a rather more sympathetic view of Emma in recent decades.
Anna Louise HetzelNovember 30, 2021
Thank you, Vivian, for a wonderfully written article, with much to ponder.
KathleenNovember 30, 2021
Thank you for sharing such tender things. They enlarged my heart.
Spencer McConkieNovember 30, 2021
Thank you for this beautifully written article.
RC H.November 29, 2021
“Boundaries” has become such a trigger word. How about greater focus on love-based bridges as the first resort?!
Maryann TaylorNovember 29, 2021
It is a very small world!!! I am also a descendant of William White, through his son, Peregrine, the first baby to be born from the Mayflower party in America. It is so exciting to read of our ancestors, and their strength and endurance help to bolster my courage. It also enlarges my gratitude to our Heavenly Father for giving us this great, choice land, and for all the comforts we enjoy that our ancestors did not.
Mark Deppe, descendant of Thomas Winward buried in Nauvoo.November 29, 2021
Wonderful pictures and family history content. How could I get a copy of this original article?
Rochelle HaleNovember 29, 2021
Congratulations on your bead piece being accepted into the art competition. My hoped-for dancing and singing talents were side-lined a number of years ago due to age and surgery, though I still hope for some opportunity. Now my creativity mostly comes through writing. I was recently asked to write a Christmas story that will be the theme of our church holiday dinner. Talk about weight on my shoulders!!! Nevertheless, in one afternoon, through the inspiration of the Spirit (and maybe Heavenly Mother?) I was able to knock off a draft, then polish it up within the week. I don't usually pat myself on the back, but when I read this piece I can hardly believe I wrote it. I know it came through inspiration.
DennisNovember 28, 2021
My daughter started raising chickens a few years ago. They all became members of the family. She named them after her favorite Beatles songs. Lucy, black bird, Elinor, Prudence, etc. As Soon as they get into their new house she's going back into the chicken business. She loves her girls!
Karyl MorganNovember 28, 2021
I feel this virus, vaccine, masks, etc is about the journey you all have taken not about your destination. Maybe it's not about taking a vaccine but about growing closer to the Lord by following counsel to read scripture, pray, fast ponder, etc to find the answer that works for your body. No one on this earth is 100 percent following the prophet. We all need to reassess ourselves about our daily gospel "habits." Everyone needs repentance daily. Perhaps the Lord wants us to learn to make our own spiritual decisions and not judge or persecute others who make different decisions. We are all God's children and his love for the billion plus people who have taken or are now taking their earthly journey now is unconditional.
Grandma GigiNovember 27, 2021
I believe boundaries are what people with “control” issues seem to need. The Scriptures don’t show the Savior “controlling” people. You also won’t find the words “toxic”, “dysfunctional” or other nonsense spoken of in General Conference. My daughter-in-law uses these terms all the time. Her parents are both Psychologists. It’s always awkward to be around them and experience the manipulating behaviors.
Vivian M AdamsNovember 26, 2021
Thank you for a beautiful article on The Vision of the Redemption of the Dead.
JONATHAN ATKINSONNovember 26, 2021
Why??? Americans entered the war in 1917 by declaring war on Germany. This was due to the attack on Lusitania, the unrestricted submarine warfare on American ships heading to Britain, and Germany encouraging Mexico to attack the USA. A British passenger ship that was sunk by a German U-Boat on May 7, 1915.
Pat HarkerNovember 26, 2021
Wonderful article; thank you!
KatrinaNovember 26, 2021
My maiden name is Holden. Alot of my dads family are from Manchester, England.
Scott BrownNovember 25, 2021
D. Herrin - Thank you. I would like to work with the LDS Citation Index and contacted them two years ago. At that time, they told me that there was no one actively working on the project and thus no one for me to work with. I remain interested in collaborating with them.
Stephanie tollerNovember 25, 2021
Thanks for the article. I just read Tim Ballard’s book and it is excellent. I know we all look to the Mayflower passengers as the ultimate American pedigree but I also love those that came on the Fortune in 1621 and the Anne in 1623. They stayed behind to help raise more money and make more preparations. They were needed reinforcements for those that went on the Mayflower. We have ancestors that were on all three and I stand in awe with a heart full of gratitude for who they were and the sacrifices that they made. Happy Thanksgiving!!
GrannyNovember 25, 2021
Thank you for the article! I'm grateful for Meridian Magazine and people who write. A lot to THINK about and give THANKS for today and everyday. Wishing you a blessed and joyful day.
Justin MNovember 24, 2021
I thoroughly enjoyed "The Pilgrim Hypothesis". Full of things to think about and ponder. Many areas to be thankful for.
SHARLENE CORBRIDGENovember 24, 2021
I really enjoy reading Daris Howard's articles, both here in tthe Meridian and my local news paper. They are always fun.
JenniferNovember 24, 2021
While this is good general advice, it is not always true. Especially if your family member has a severe mental illness or personality disorder. Sometimes they are trying to destroy your life. You are not required to stay married to an abuser. You are not required to have them to your holiday celebrations. You are not required to let them have you arrested. If you think this is not happening, get some divorced friends.
HalNovember 22, 2021
Thank you for this powerful and informative article. I am still astounded by the number of people, even today, who think the persecution of the early Saints was solely due to opposition to plural marriage. Because the Constitution and the Bill of Rights were not firmly entrenched in the still young nation, it was easy for mobs to form to enforce their idea of "freedom" by violence. Sadly, we have seen this recently as well as a method of forcing ideas of racial equality without due process. I believe the Civil War was a direct consequence of the general populace of the nation refusing to uphold the rights of individuals regarding religion and slavery. I hope we don't relive that horror, but it looks like we are headed down that road.
CDNovember 22, 2021
His wanting sex more than her sounds like a normal guy and her response sounds about normal for a woman, particularly an older woman with a religious background. What troubles me about this, especially from a guys viewpoint is that he doesn't seem to be doing anything else but asking for sex or waiting around thinking about it. Not helping with the yard work or around the house or having any activities or hobbies is not normal or healthy, even more so if he's not doing it because he's not getting sex. He needs to talk to counselor and/or a doctor. For her I would recommend reading Sister Laura Brotherson's book or the book Real Intimacy or The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands and any of Sheila Wray Greg life's articles or books.
Beverly Barnt MooreNovember 22, 2021
I was an only child living most of my young life in the country with no neighbor children to interact with so I learned from early on how to entertain myself and my own happiness. I was married and first widowed at 18 and then after another marriage and he left me I finally ended up of retirement age alone and now over 30 years alone I had learned how to be happy alone so the pandemic "stay at home" time was no big deal for me. No loneliness, no depression, no anxious times. Just peace and joy to be healthy and alive and loved even when the family couldn't come to visit. So my take on good mental health is to love yourself and learn to enjoy life alone.
Wendy EllisNovember 22, 2021
Thanks for the "thorns" story. We all need to be reminded that it takes challenges in order for us to grow. Happy Thanksgiving!
Anonymous for obvious reasonsNovember 22, 2021
It is unfortunate that more people do not understand the physiological effects of chronic aging and disease on the act of intimacy on both men and women. To be brief, when sexual difficulties are encountered, a man will become hypersexual attempting to "burn" through and fix the problem where a woman will become hyposexual and retreat from the problem. I realize that this description is a generalization and that situations outside the norm are a given. I returned from my mission, got married and soon developed acute prostatitis that soon developed into a deep chronic infection that made completion of intimacy painful. I too, became hypersexual making excessive demands on my wife. Diabetes, injuries with neurological damage, an improper circumcision, hypertension, hormonal disorders are some of the things that can affect sexual sensation that is experienced. Love, consideration, care and understanding are needed by both husband and wife in such situations. Such things are experienced by both sexes as we age and as "opposition in all things" is experienced. Again, it is indeed unfortunate that such things are not understood because if they were, I know that much frustration and unhappiness in this mortal existence could be avoided.
MichelleNovember 21, 2021
That’s some amazing breakdowns—thank you so much for taking the time to share your insights. I’ve often wished I could index my family history journals the same way. I’d love to see the pattens and themes in my ancestors lives as well.
Debra AlticeNovember 21, 2021
H North ... I understand your frustration however if you listen carefully to the principles in his address... President Oakes address was NOT about abandoning any values. If anyone has a right to speak about where lines should be drawn... it is this senior apostle of the Lord and he was not asking us to reconcile sin at all! But he was advocating for loving our fellow men and being willing to sit down together to work out issues as peacefully as we can. God Himself has a right to be as extreme as he wants when he sees the need but not us. We do not have the right to get on our self righteous "high horse" and turn to vigilantism in the name of religion but neither do those who see differently than us or are non religious have a right to impinge our basic religious freedoms which are God given and enthroned in our Constitution. He was calling both sides to come to the table and negotiate peacefully where possible. In this imperfect world there must be some level of compromise in order to live together peacefully.
Jessica WhitakerNovember 21, 2021
Sounds like the husband may be viewing pornography, have a history of sexual abuse, and/or lack developmental maturity. The wife may be wisely stearing clear of any creepy encounters.
Jill A.November 21, 2021
Wow I wish I could have had this counsel when I was married and several different counselors recommended committing to sex three times a week, which I did, and of course didn't help. This counsel makes so much sense. Thank you
MickeyNovember 21, 2021
This man sounds extremely selfish and like he is addicted to pornography.
ClaudiaNovember 21, 2021
Beautiful voice and beautiful song. This calms my soul.
Anonymous for obvious reasonsNovember 20, 2021
I would like to add this…. As a man feels like his sexual stamina if waining, he may behave is ways to desperately to stave off the inevitable decline. Trust me on this. As I have aged, I have felt increased desire for sexual fulfillment just to prove to myself that “I am as good as I ever was.” (To borrow a line from Toby Keith.) I would recommend that along with Mr. Steurer’s recommendations, you compliment him on his love-making as well as other things even when you are not going to fulfill his desires. Reassure him that he is fine, loved, and desirable whether or not you are having sex.. So those occasions that you do not of cannot meet his needs, he doesn’t take is as an affront or a rejection. My wife has done this and we enjoy healthy intimate relationship both sexually and emotionally, with a lot of love and laughter. And it’s okay as I age. It isn’t like it was. But I am literally head over heels devoted to her and the attention she can and does give me.
tfNovember 20, 2021
Is he addicted to porn?
Linda WillisNovember 20, 2021
It's unfortunate that a world-wide pandemic (health issue) has morphed into a political/ my freedom protest. As a health educator I have supported mandatory safety belt use, a variety of legislation limiting tobacco use, and laws against drunk driving and vaccines to protect children from small pox and polio. When a private choice has a public consequence, then legislation is needed to protect the population. Compassion requires that we protect each other and replace our "rights" with our responsibility to be good world citizens.
D. HerrinNovember 20, 2021
Nice work. I am curious why you weren’t able to use like data out of the LDS Citation Index curated by the team at BYU? Appears to be a major duplication of effort. Thanks.
Myrna LiddellNovember 20, 2021
We have enjoyed everything from Thrive as do our friends who introduced the products to us. This recipe sounds and look yummy and who knew it only uses "1/4" cup of Water! Remember drinking water is your number one item for storing! Some folks seem to think it will magically appear...when we need it? (It is the easiest to store, in the USA at least.)
Carlos RoundyNovember 19, 2021
There is progress on the other side. There are many examples of people who have dreams of relatives who request that there temple work be done so that they can progress on the other side of the veil. Those who have passed away still are able to seek light and knowledge beyond the veil. Progress is eternal.
Cecilie LundgreenNovember 19, 2021
HAPPY THANKFUL GREETINGS!! In response to a number of enquiries, for cash donations… 1. Checks are to be made out to ‘Charity Vision’ (with EYES4ZIMBABWE written in the bottom left corner of the check). 2. Charity Vision is a 501(c)(3) organization and are deductible for U.S. income tax filing. 3. Please be sure to include your postal address in order to receive a tax receipt. 4. Please either give the check to Cecilie Lundgreen (CC) at the ‘LDS Humanitarian Center’….OR…Mail the check to: Cecilie Lundgreen, c/o Ronda Goodell, 1540 East Millbrook Way, Bountiful, Utah 84010 We are HAPPY to answer any additional questions that you might have As we say in Zimbabwe…TATENDA or THANK-YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR KINDNESS!!!
JacobNovember 18, 2021
Thanks RaLee!
Reeve Nield EYES4ZIMBABWENovember 18, 2021
As we say in Zimbabwe...TATENDA!!! TATENDA!!! TATENDA!!! (THANK-YOU SO MUCH!!!) We are VERY, VERY GRATEFUL!!!
LoraNovember 18, 2021
For those of us who do not live in Utah, is there some way that we can contribute monetarily to this worthy cause?
Ellen D. LovettNovember 18, 2021
What a tender message. I am delighted to read it and sent a small donation. My husband and I served an 18 month mission in Liberia and Sierra Leone in 1990-91 and I have seen the poverty you talk about. I am so thrilled that a temple is in Ghana, but wonder how the members even can get garments. Bless you for your efforts to help those beautiful people.
Geri CampbellNovember 18, 2021
I am reading this story in Australia but I come from - and joined the Church in - South Africa many years ago. Why does the above story assume that only people in America will read the story and respond appropriately? Meridian is received all around the world. Why cannot provision be made for people everywhere to respond?
Gaye WillisNovember 18, 2021
What a wonderful story! What a great mission these sisters are accomplishing and how many people they are blessing! Can you please clarify the address if we would like to mail a donation to help with this? Is the address listed in the story just the physical address to participate or is that a mailing address that could receive checks? Thank you!
Judy GibsonNovember 17, 2021
Thank you for this excellent article! I have begun a Gratitude Journal at the end of my regular journal since the beginning of this month. It's amazing the thoughts and memories of God's goodness that have come back to me in remembering my blessings.
RaLee HallNovember 17, 2021
I always learn so much from you articles. Thank you for taking the time to post them.
H NorthNovember 17, 2021
How far does one have to bend over backwards to compromise one's values before it constitutes an abandonment of those values? Where is the line? Was God "extremist" when He destroyed Sodom and Gomorra? "We have NO obligation to reconcile with the children of the Devil." - Bruce R. McConkie
carolyn nicolaysenNovember 17, 2021
Maryann, I love that. Do you have a picture you could share with me? I'm trying to get photos of great ideas to share on the Totally Ready website and facebook page. You can contact me at [email protected]. Great reminder about hot air rising too!
Steven Adams GoodwinNovember 17, 2021
Thanks Vivian for the reminder and the subtlety of how God's plan unfolds by the small and simple things that the world holds in contempt.
RmcNovember 17, 2021
It shocks me to realize, as some of these comments prove, that there are still many who believe that being vaccinated stops the spread of Covid. The evidence is in. The studies are published, most recently in The Lancet, that one has nearly the same chance of contracting Covid from a vaccinated person as an unvaccinated. The CDC has conceded the fact, and now (with the evidence too overwhelming to ignore) Dr. Fauci is conceding this, as well as waning effectiveness. To condemn the unvaccinated, to call them selfish and petulant, to blame them for a child contracting Covid is just so wrong in so many ways. Some obviously didn’t read the article, preferring to stay ignorant as to the evidence plainly laid out herein.
Mark StoddardNovember 16, 2021
Kathy, Thank you for your thoughts. I love discussing the Gospel. You are so right. I was quoting Christ and his terse conversation with the "lawyers" trying to trap him. Marriage is certainly ordinance happening in this life and during the Millennium. Not sure after that where it fits. Either way, the Restored Gospel amazingly accounts for every broken heart, every effort that doesn't pan out, for whatever reason. So beautiful in its comprehensive Plan of Salvation.
LGNovember 16, 2021
I’ve felt strongly our family should memorize The Proclamation to the Family. There are so many anchoring doctrines that help kids understand truths about these topics!
Alan WildNovember 16, 2021
Very good article
Gordon J HensleyNovember 16, 2021
Well said, brother.
E SmithNovember 16, 2021
Thanks, Maryann Taylor, for adding that. I was thinking of elder Bednar’s talk all the way through Givens’ article.
Melia Rios-LazoNovember 16, 2021
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LindaNovember 16, 2021
Parents definitely need to concern themselves with their children's education. It is a more difficult thing to do in blue states. Don't allow this trash in schools or homes!! Even if it means you have to home school.
Sonya WashburnNovember 16, 2021
This article was so well stated...I appreciate you taking time to lay this argument out. I have highest regard for those that are standing for God given freedom, they are pledging their lives, their fortunes and their sacred honor...God bless us to humble ourselves and seek His help as we do all we can to preserve our freedoms.
Boaneges RibalcavaNovember 16, 2021
Why I am not hearing anything about one of the facts that have been known since the first quarter of 2020, that healthy children WILL NOT die due to this virus? For that matter, that although it is true about the lethality of the virus, it is mainly in a specific group: people over 60 years and/or with some underlying conditions. If this is correct, and the data from all countries even the CDC here, confirm this, why are they mandating children to get vaccinated, since they are NOT TO DIE due to the virus, and exposing them to unknown risks, that even if rare, this risk is greater than the virus itself.
WallyNovember 16, 2021
Disappointing. Compassion is vital. But we must have compassion for the COVID-vulnerable as well as the vaccine-reluctant. And, along with the scientific evidence in favor of vaccination, the strong encouragement of the Brethren is decisive for me.
Marla SmakaNovember 16, 2021
I agree that we must treat all people with compassion. However, my view is that a person who will not accept vaccination is lacking compassion for those who cannot be vaccinated. Yes, it is a matter of choice to accept vaccination, but what about the little children who become ill with Covid, contracted from people who will not accept vaccination? My fellow ward member is asking for prayers on behalf of her 8-year-old granddaughter who is literally fighting for her life due to Covid infection. The granddaughter's family who are elligible have been fully vaccinated. The child likely contracted Covid from nonvaccinated people. Whether one accepts the opinion of Russell M. Nelson as a prophet, seer and revelator may not be relevant. But the opinion of Russell M. Nelson, M.D, world-renown physician and surgeon should be relevant. This gentleman strongly urges vaccination. Would such a person, whether prophet or physician, ask another human being to accept something harmful? Central to tenets of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is freedom to choose. However, when one chooses, there is no escape from the consequences. A person who opts out of vaccination is opting in to possibly cause premature death of himself or herself, as well as friends, loved ones, and unknown contacts. I read an article in the Deseret News about an emergency room physician in St. George, Utah. He talked about how those who refused vaccination are burdened with intense guilt when they discover someone they care about has been afflicted with Covid and/or death from Covid. Those same people realize these deaths and times of extreme sickness were ever so preventable. So I will be polite to all, try to extend charity to all. But my belief is that those who rejection in vaccination are swathed in the selfishness of the our culture of "being true to my authentic self."
MarkNovember 16, 2021
If one does a word search in the scriptures of “earn” or “earned” you will not find them. There is zero reference to “earning” one’s Salvation. Salvation is a gift. But, one has the choice, the agency to accept or reject that Gift. Once accepted thoughts, desires, and actions turn to Christ, who is the Giver of that Gift.
Becky S.November 16, 2021
I was surprised at some of the books my children had in their Utah school library too. The intense descriptions of sexual acts of minors in books for children was shocking. “These sources violate Utah obscenity laws found in criminal code and health education code.” They sure do and the first step is knowing what your child is reading and visit your library. Speak up, we don’t want our children being exposed to this illegal filth because someone else thinks it is appropriate for educating the young minds of our children. It is wrong and my children are precious to me as a parent. I don’t want them reading or being exposed to pornography. These books are against the law in Utah.
KJBNovember 16, 2021
I'd rather save my compassion for the vulnerable people who caught COVID thanks to the petulant crybabies who refuse to think of anybody but themselves. I love how the people who normally insist that the discussion is over after the Prophet has spoken are now trying to justify disobeying him. Anything to own the libs, right? Mah Freedom!!!!!
RobertNovember 16, 2021
I hope church members follow the urging of a prophet of God, regardless of the outcome. Our pioneer ancestors were asked to cross the plains and some suffered greatly for it, even cost some their lives. Will they be blessed for their decision to follow the prophet? Absolutely, for God is good. We still ought to be kind to those who choose not to follow though. Compassion is required of us just as faith and hope are. Thanks for the insights in the article.
C.November 16, 2021
Thank you for the work, research and effort you put into this article. This is a perspective that is so needed right now. I pray more people will lead out with compassion and not judgment for someone else’s circumstances.
Jeff LindsayNovember 16, 2021
When I read about porn being promoted pn some of the databases you mentioned, I was skeptical. But using Duckduckgo to search, I searched for "Follett Destiny Discover parental complaints pornography" (without quotes) and quickly found an article from Nov. 11, 2021 in the Tennessee Star where a parental complaint at a school board meeting indicated that the Destiny Discover app, at least as set up for her child's school, was giving kids a list of recommended books that were highly inappropriate. The first page of recommendations or books near the top of the list were sources of great concern. It wasn't like there was a hidden book somewhere that a child would have to actively seek to get exposed to risque material, but rather, the databases seems to be pursuing an ugly agenda or promoting material that would be damaging to children. See https://tennesseestar.com/2021/11/11/spotsylvania-county-school-board-passes-motion-to-remove-sexually-explicit-material-from-libraries/. Parents need to be alert and not naively assume that reasonable adults are in charge of what their child will be exposed to. Thank you for this valuable article!
JAmesNovember 16, 2021
My ancestor practiced plural marriage, but she was the third wife. Who am I going to lose in my family line? My forefather or foremother? Who is going to be kicked out into another family and no longer able to associate by choice and marriage whom they chose in this life? My forefather and 4 foremothers loved each other and were happy. They were sealed by authority with the promise that the ordinance was "bound on earth and in heaven." You are suggesting, even if they choose each other willingly in this and the next life, that they do not get each other, and in fact the sealing power here on earth is null and void on a grand scale in the eternities. Also polygamy is not a term the scripture uses. You use the term as though polygamy itself is a type of marriage order, "an exception." In reality, all marriage takes the exact same order. Every single marriage is between one and and one woman. Every marriage can only be consummated between one man and one woman. Anything else is biologically impossible. Hence the term plural marriage, which is a term denoting the plurality of monogamous marriages. Three wives = three marriages. So I think the idea that polygamy is a sacrificial exception outside the eternal order of God is a big stretch. And you have overlooked the nature of the sealing power on earth tied to heaven and overlooked God honoring those agents who desire their plural marriages to continue as was promised in the authorized marriage ceremony.
Jann BradfordNovember 15, 2021
As a frrshman at the U. Of U. I was privileged to be in the chorus of Madam Butterfly with Ariel Bybee in the lead role. I had never seen/heard an opera before and her extraordinary voice and powerful performance brought me to tears. And to my amazement, backstage she was so kind; humble and approachable. I have never forgotten that experience. It was one of the highlights of my young life.
Maryann TaylorNovember 15, 2021
There is probably not a ward or branch in the church where parents are not struggling with the heartache of rebellious children. I agree with all the sentiments expressed here about continuing to love and to express that love. There are few things that are more powerful in softening a child's heart. However, if your daughter decides not to respect the rules you set down in your home--especially if she brings drugs or other harmful substances into your home after you have made your rules clear, you have an obligation to protect your younger children. If that means she must leave, then she has made that choice. There is no such thing as agency without accountability and consequences.
Maryann TaylorNovember 15, 2021
Elder David A. Bednar, of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles gives us great enlightenment on this subject in his address: FAITHFUL PARENTS AND WAYWARD CHILDREN. He writes: "The statements of Joseph Smith and Orson F. Whitney are construed by some members of the Church to mean that wayward children unconditionally receive the blessings of salvation because of and through the faithfulness of parents. However, this interpretation is moderated by the fact that the most complete account of the Prophet's sermon was not available to Church historians...In the more complete set of notes recorded by Howard and Martha Coray, Joseph Smith is shown to have qualified his statement to make the promised blessings conditional upon the obedience of the children: 'When a father and mother of a family have [been sealed], their children WHO HAVE NOT TRANSGRESSED are secured by the seal wherewith the parents have been sealed.' "This clarification is more consistent doctrinally...the concept of unconditional salvation for disobedient children would contradict many foundational teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, including the second article of faith that 'men will be punished for their own sins.' Elder Bednar goes on to affirm the powerful influence of righteous parents in the lives of their children, however, he also states "Mercy will not rob justice, and the sealing power of faithful parents will only claim wayward children upon the condition of their repentance and Christ's atonement. Repentant wayward children will enjoy salvation and all the blessings that go with it, but exaltation is much more. It must be fully earned. The question as to who will be exalted must be left to the Lord in his mercy." A thorough reading of Elder Bednar's article is very illuminating on this subject.
Maryann TaylorNovember 15, 2021
Thank you SO MUCH for doing this--it is going to help me a lot in teaching my Gospel Doctrine class. This is truly the most thrilling event we will ever experience on this earth!
Becky DouglasNovember 15, 2021
Dear Katrina, Of course! Let's all spread the joy of Gratitude with others. Thanks for all you are doing! Becky
amaryNovember 15, 2021
I think its important to not blow this out of proportion. What they described sounds pretty tame compared to other things she could be doing. I also went to a church school, and let me tell you this is extremely common. Way more common than people think. Especially with kids who grew up in very strict households where they felt constantly controlled. Once they are living on their own and finally have some freedom they go a little overboard. They just don't usually tell their parents, which makes me wonder how they found out and if she told them as a bid for attention or to rile them up. Who knows. When interacting with the daughter, just act with love and compassion. Resist the urge to lecture or guilt trip, this will just push her further away. Her feeling unconditionally loved and maintaining positive connections with family will make a big difference in her future choices. She already knows the parents stance on the matter, there is no need to keep repeating it. As for the younger children, maybe have a discussion as to why we try to abstain from drugs, alcohol, and other things. Explain what the negative consequences could be if they make certain choices. Some times we focus so much on the "Don't do that!" that we provide little information on the reasons behind it. Also resist the urge to become more controlling with the younger kids in an attempt to keep them from making similar choices. Often the more controlling and overzealous we become with religious matters, we cause the opposite effect than intended. I wouldn't worry about the younger kids too much. I had older siblings and friends that made poor choices but I felt no need to follow in their footsteps.
ShaunaNovember 15, 2021
This incident has left me heartsick and concerned. My daughter just arrived in Mexico a week ago to serve her mission, and although she's not in the mission where this occurred, this crime hit close to home. I know that missionaries are in the Lord's Hands, but I also know that bad things happen to missionaries sometimes. Having served a mission myself, I know that missionaries are sometimes in areas they would never be in otherwise, at times of night etc., but this was in a Chapel with 70 missionaries and their mission President. One would assume that they were safe. I just pray that God will compensate those there and pray that the Spirit was with them during the ordeal, and that somehow this incident will become a rallying cry for their mission and will serve to strengthen them overall. God is good and He is in charge
Patricia WintersNovember 15, 2021
When videos and podcasts are posted, it would be beneficial to me, and I am sure some others, if a transcript could be included. For several reasons, it is difficult for me to sit and listen to a subject, but I can read the same matter with ease. Having a transcript would allow me to obtain the information without problems.
Tami TaylorNovember 14, 2021
This is by far the most beautiful, insightful article I have ever read. I have struggled, oh how I have struggled with polygamy. Fearing that God really did not love me and would ask something so heartwrenching and so wrong of me goes against everything I have known and felt about him..This talk brought so much peace. I feel happy and hopeful and like my greatest dreams and desires really can be realized. So many women struggle with this. So many. Are we just lesser people in God's eyes that he does not care for our sorrow and dreams? I can not believe that. It can not be true. 3 Ye cannot behold with your natural eyes, for the present time, the design of your God concerning those things which shall come hereafter, and the glory which shall follow after much tribulation. 4 For after much tribulation come the blessings I think all those who sacrificed so much will receive a hundredfold of blessings, the greatest being they will be sealed to one man and one man only.
Mary Ann T McConkieNovember 14, 2021
Vivian, thanks ever so much for weaving our kitchen tables with many of our most effective learnings. I have fought for the dinner hour, because rarely do families eat meals together in our face-paced society. You say it so well and as I listen to your children teach and expound, I know you and Carlos provided what you have described above. You've passed the baton and the race will be won!
MikkoNovember 14, 2021
I for one am very grateful someone had the courage to tell me about my wife and her affair. I was the one who had no idea and tried to defend her. The truth came out. So glad I am no longer living in that false sense of reality.
Kathy McFarlandNovember 14, 2021
Haven’t our leaders always taught that those who do not have the opportunity to marry in this life will be given that blessing in the next life? Just wondering about your comment that marrying only takes place in this life.
Anita B. AnonymousNovember 13, 2021
I rarely make comments of any kind to any sort of article. But this article has impacted my life and my eternal destiny. I am a convert of 4 years. I grew up with an abusive, violent, misogynistic father and I survived an abusive husband. Being completely fed up with men, and still needing a primary relationship, I married a Lesbian woman. That marriage too, ended in disaster. I concluded that if there was any love at all on this earth, it had to be coming from a Divine Source- humans are just too messed up and life is just too hard for love to survive here. An honest look at my life led me to admit that I had indeed seen and felt evidence of love. Therefore, there had to be some kind of “Source of Love” somewhere. And I was determined to find it or die trying. I was shocked and surprised when my quest led me to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Here, I found more peace, joy, hope, and love than I had thought possible. I was baptized, confirmed, & endowed. A year after my endowment, I was blessed to be sealed in a Temple marriage with a wonderful, loving, righteous man. When I encountered beliefs of Latter-Day Saints around the issue of polygamy in the Celestial Kingdom, my trust in God as well as my joy and peace, began to crumble. I had actually believed all that stuff about marriage partners being equally yoked; polygamy in the Celestial Kingdom is NOT being equally yoked. I had believed that Heavenly Father loves all his children equally. How is it that a man sealed in the Temple can be commanded to take on 50 more wives? Would God command my husband to take on 50 more wives in the Celestial Kingdom? As a result, I would spend a day with my husband to do this? What kind of God does that? That doesn’t sound like Heaven- that sounds like hell. So it must be true- “women are “less than”, dirty, unworthy creatures and they are allowed in heaven only because they provide sexual pleasure to men and produce babies. I am not a beloved daughter of God after all, I am a piece of dirt. My destiny is to be in a harem and spend the eternities changing diapers and burping a billion babies. I want to be destroyed. I don’t want to be a woman. I want to be broken down into the basic elements and be obliterated. Even the sons of perdition are entitled to this escape. Can’t I have the same out? I was in dangerous territory and sinking fast. I was a mess. My relationship to the Godhead, my relationship to my husband, and my relationship to all things Spiritual was crumbling. With anguish I prayed and relentlessly searched scripture for greater Light and Wisdom on this matter. I had just a spark of hope that maybe, just maybe, my understanding was faulty and incomplete. Maybe my perceptions and understanding were colored by my childhood in the brutal earthly culture of Satan, coupled with incorrect teachings of imperfect (but well meaning) mortals. I continued going to the Temple and beseeched the Godhead for further Light and Wisdom. For a long time, I spoke to no one about the heavy darkness and gnawing fear inside me. Then with our “Come Follow Me” studies on D&C 132 this week, I confided my feelings and fears to my husband. While he was kind, loving, and patient, I remained enveloped in fear and darkness. We prayed together and individually. I saw no reprieve. This article was like the first light following a brutal dark arctic winter. It brought a glimmer of light and hope. The heavy darkness has begun to recede and I feel trust in Heavenly Father, hope in Jesus Christ, and joy in the Restored Gospel beginning to return. I want to thank you for this carefully researched, well thought out, logically constructed article. It has played a crucial role in the process of restoring peace and trust in my relationship to the Godhead, my husband, and all things Spiritual.
Ronald BarnesNovember 13, 2021
Ever since I was rather young, I had always felt that there was one person who I was destined to marry. It had already been arranged in the pre-mortal existence. My future wife and I had our first date when we were 17 years old. The next day I began telling people that I had found the girl I was going to marry. That was 50 years ago. After all of that it would be devastating to me to spend eternity without her. It’s a great comfort to me to know that our marital relationship will not die when one of us does.
HMCNovember 13, 2021
While the scriptures teach that we are ... • “free to choose” (2 Nephi 2:27), and • “free to act” (2 Nephi 10:23), and • “free [to] act for [ourselves]” (Helaman 14:30) ... some mistakenly believe that have something called “free agency.” You will NOT find the term “free agency” anywhere in the scriptures. HOWEVER .. in D&C 101:78 you WILL find the term “moral agency.” AND ... there is a significant difference between these two terms. I invite you to go to the Gospel Library App to investigate this subject ... just search for “moral agency.”
CC WilliamsNovember 12, 2021
Thank you for this! I truly appreciate the understanding this treatise on obedience and sacrifice. I couldn't help reflecting on how this discussion might, in some way, apply to what took place in Eden
TrudyNovember 12, 2021
We are going through his with two of our children. You can make a choice to love them or ostracise them. We choose to love. How else will they learn that we as parents and church members are Christlike. It’s been 13 yrs for our daughter but now she has a partner and 3 children of her own and we notice her softening each year and it’s wonderful! Everyone has their own conversion, and time to learn. Some learn by faith and faster than others. Some learn very slowly and the hard way… and that’s painful but their way of learning. Also on the flip side this has been a refining process for us as parents, we have had to learn to respect the process and love our children - and sometimes loving them is hard when you are being treated poorly. But we need to dig deep and remember that as parents we need to continue to set the example and just continue to keep the channels open and LOVE. Continue to fast and pray. We have lessons to learn as parents and this is as much a learning curve for us as it is for them. I look at my parents who had 7 children, all very different and they survived the trials of raring a family :) so it must be possible ♥️♥️
Sandra WhiteNovember 12, 2021
My oldest teen son was a rebel during high school years along with friends used drugs, etc. His 3 siblings knew what he was doing and realized it was not for them but his behavior did cause problems even to the point I had to call the police as he was cursing & destroying furniture....they found drugs hidden in a cut out in a book and he spent the night in jail. Was not easy for me as a single mother but had to be done. Eventually i had to have him leave the house but told him I loved him and if ever he needed anything I would be there for him.....he struggled but eventually found Christ and turned his life around. He is now 62 and has lived a life for Christ and I am proud of him. Suggest this mother not be too concerned about the siblings as they too can see what she is doing is wrong and if she just loves her wayward daughter, they will not follow in her path.
Rebecca M PinegarNovember 12, 2021
So incredibly beautiful and well written. Such a flood of memories. I stepped back to that place of total security. Thank you for so beautifully weaving in the profound blessings of such a setting. I want to go back, sit again, listen better, marvel at what my mother did and was so gifted at. A job that sometimes overwhelms me, yet I never heard or saw any reason to believe that it wasn't just effortless for her, though it could not have been. Then the discussions, and the horrible music that we still try to mimic and wonder why no one understands, and why it is so unspeakably funny. You have transported me to a place I pray I have created at least a sliver of in my own home. A place, I believe we will once again sit at, only with even grander implications. So priceless!
SimplicioNovember 12, 2021
The ultimate purpose of the Restored Gospel is not to leave us "as the angels which are in heaven." (Matthew 22:30) "But to which of the angels hath He said at any time, 'Sit thou on my right hand, till I make thine enemies the footstool of thy feet?' Are they not all ministering spirits, sent forth to do service for the sake of them that shall inherit salvation?" (Hebrews 1:13-14)
MaryNovember 12, 2021
Excellent article, very well thought out and backed up with logic and actual scripture. The idea of polygamy and that I may be forced to live it at some point tormented me for years, ever since I was a girl. Its only been in recent years that I have found a little peace on the matter after the spirit reassured me. I know many women who still are tormented by this idea, its pretty common. I find that the conversations and rationalizing surrounding polygamy always seem to involve warped and sexist thinking. Hopefully as a people we can begin to evolve and view things with more logic and clarity, like in this article. If you truly believe that God loves his daughters and sons equally and wants them all to be happy and saved in the eternities, the old ways of looking at it fall apart. This article gives me hope for my ancestors that practiced polygamy, I always mourned the unfairness of it all and how much pain it caused the women back then.
James W ScottNovember 12, 2021
I’ve read with interest your essays on polygamy and commend your views and conclusions on the three mystery versus in D&C 132. I tend to agree with your conclusions re the somewhat obscure meaning of the tenets taught in these versus. I’d like to offer a few comments on the idea that motherhood and child bearing are a sacrifice of similar import as the atonement. The Lord’s sacrifice and even Abraham’s obedience are horrendously more horrific than the sacrifice of having children. (And I’m certainly in awe of my own wife’s suffering 5 times for our children.) In the vernacular of today’s attitudes toward child bearing it seems, at least in America that anyone having more than two children are the exception and in some cases an imposition on the resources of society and that the woman that has children is making an enormous sacrifice of opportunity and beauty. Many women in the 19th century gave birth to 12 or more and seemingly forgot Eve's ‘curse’, the pain and acceptance of 18 or more years of responsibility. The separation of the sex act and having children has become a major issue. President Spencer W Kimball complained the “veneration of the orgasm” (Conf Report, Nov 1974) has replaced the intimacy of giving birth to and caring for and bringing children to ‘the joy and happiness of a posterity’. ‘Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward” Ps 127:3. In taking umbrage to that sacrificial view can I point out that Eve after hearing the curse of child bearing testified that were it not for her transgression they would not have had children and she gloried in that ‘curse’, that sorrows would multiply AND conception. In fact not having children became a major stumbling block for many in the scriptures: Rachel and Leah, and their handmaids, entered into a major competition to see who could provide the most offspring, even to prostituting Jacob over some mandrake stems. Hannah plead with the Lord for Samuel over the shame of not having any children while her wife mate did. The struggling of single women in Isa 4:1 where seven women vied for a husband’s name and attendant child bearing. Tamar prostituted herself with Judah for children when he refused to marry her to his son Er. Even Emma had trouble having and keeping her offspring alive and healthy. Mrs. Thomas Kane, the peacemaker, in their journey to Salt Lake to defuse the US Army’s entry into the SL valley overnighted in a polygamous household. She wrote that while she was outraged over the idea of polygamy commented that there was no animosity between wives and that they got along well and the household was run in a wonderfully efficient and peaceful manner.
Judy PetersonNovember 12, 2021
Wow! This is SO GOOD! “Mormon myths” abound, particularly in my generation (I’m 80 yrs old) of lifelong active members. I have come to many of these truths on my own, of course under the guidance of the Spirit) and it’s so encouraging to see them in public print. Thank you !
Lorie N DavisNovember 12, 2021
I've just read that article on the sacrifice of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar, and found it wonderfully intelligent, analytical, logical, and uplifting. One thing did bother me slightly, though, how come the "sacrifice" of polygamy is more attributed to men, when it is actually the women who suffer the most? Simply in a physical sense, in the pioneer days of polygamy, the women often had to support themselves and their children with little aid from the father, who was usually on a mission or tending to his other families. It doesn't seem such a sacrifice to men to have multiple sexual partners (which has always been billes as a thrill for men), or very many children born to them (unless the worry to men is about how they can support such a huge number of persons financially and emotionally). On the other hand, actually living with a number of wives may be confusing to men in trying to adjust daily or weekly to all the differing personalities of the wives -- since men claim they can never understand an individual woman in the first place. I'll bet there is a lot about the sacrifice of Sarah that remains unrecorded, since it is men who write the scriptures. What were HER revelations from God? Yes, she wanted children for her beloved husband, but to GIVE him another wife to be the mother of his children? HOW UTTERLY WRENCHING if (as I believe) the Lord spoke to Sarah and actually commanded her to give Hagar to Abraham! Might that not have been a sacrifice to Sarah, equal to Abraham's command to sacrifice his son? And what were the humiliations of Hagar, handed over like a bought brood-are to an old man? Was she, too, commanded by revelation to accept this sacrifice? Interesting, too, that Sarah's sacrifice was commanded YEARS before Abraham's sacrifice was commanded. But Sarah met the command, sacrificed her sacred, intimate relationship with her husband to give him another woman as a sexual partner, AND for that other woman to be the first mother to her beloved Abraham's promised seed. Talk about a double, agonizing sacrifice! You and I might appreciate the depth of that sacrifice, but could ANY MAN understand what two such sacrifices would mean to an loving and faithful wife? I do not think so. Someday we will be able to view all these scriptural stories from the woman's point of view, physically and emotionally. It will be a final assuaging of all women's painful dismissal in men-written scriptures, and a COLOSSAL eye-opener for all the men in the world!
gary bealNovember 12, 2021
My wife and I read both of these articles and were greatly blessed and uplifted. We completely “bought” the interpretation and reasoning of the first article and found it sound and doctrinal. I do have a couple of issues to raise with the “implications” put forth in the second article, though in general concurrence with its logic and conclusion. On the topic of a “sex ratio” in the afterlife, I’m not sure I agree with the assertion that there is no doctrinal basis for assuming more women than men. If we assume that in the pre-existence the sex ratio was 1 to 1, what happened to that ratio when the Sons of Perdition were cast out? Some posit that this portion was as many as one-third of God’s spirits who were cast out of heaven. They were not “sons and daughters” of Perdition, but only sons. And after this life, only men will be assigned to outer darkness. Brigham held this view, as do many (but not) all of the brethren who have spoken on the topic since then. In our Temple endowment, women are pronounced clean in ways that men are not; it doesn’t seem reasonable that all men will overcome their uncleanness in this life. These doctrinal observations argue against the 1 to 1 sex ratio in the resurrection. The article states that if one believes polygamy is “ubiquitous” in the celestial kingdom, there must be at least twice as many women as men. In the history of the church 1840-1890, polygamy was “ubiquitous” (everywhere present) yet only about 3% of the men practiced polygamy. It didn’t require that there be twice as many women for it to work. For me, the logic of that position just doesn’t hold up, nor comport with early church experience. The third area that raises questions is in the arena of a man in this life, who after his wife dies, marries another wife “for time and all eternity.” Whether this constitutes a sacrifice or not for the 2nd wife, she nevertheless freely enters that covenant without being commanded. You point out that the brethren anticipate consequences of Temple covenants in the hereafter by not requiring a child of faithless parent(s) to be sealed again. If plural marriage is always a sacrifice akin to Abraham’s, why would the brethren not facilitate stopping that unnecessary sacrifice? I have read (not nearly as much as the author[s] of these articles) about some of the experiences of polygamous wives in the early days of the church. My observation is that not all of them saw or experienced polygamy as a painful, singular Abrahamic-type sacrifice. I fully agree that many (perhaps even most?) saw polygamy that way, but the interpretation published seems to allow little room for actual participating women to see it as something other than sacrificial. Lastly, the second article seems to allow no need or requirement for ever requiring a woman in the hereafter to live “the Law of Sarah” (D&C132:65). My understanding is that God never gives a law or commandment that is strictly temporal or worldly. For reasons that are too sacred to be discussed here, it is my belief that polygamy does have a role to play in our eternal progression, but perhaps in a situation similar in context to the one the author so beautifully explains in the first article. Please know that nothing I have written above should detract from the beautiful and profound discussion of polygamy in the first article, but only perhaps quibbles with some of the implications of these profound insights in the second article.
JudyNovember 12, 2021
I agree with the advice about always honoring agency. I feel the most important thing is to let the child know of your love and NEVER GIVE UP! Our family experienced a situation like this, but our child eventually came back and is a strong member and an example to many.
Catrina GarnerNovember 12, 2021
Thank you for your article! I 100% agree! Could I possibly share your article on Facebook with others? I am currently posting daily gratitude quotes every day and will for the month of November and I would love to share your article on Thanksgiving Day with your name of course credited to the article. But if this isn’t allowed I understand. Thank you
JeanNovember 12, 2021
I love the advice you gave to this concerned mother. I love how "agency" is part of the gospel plan. It was so important that God chose it over Satan's plan of forced obedience. I also love the knowledge that we have a Heavenly Father and a Heavenly Mother who is more concerned about our children than we are. I had an experience with one of my children when he was a teenager. He got into some serious trouble and had to have a probation officer. I was so upset with him and ready to read the riot act to him. However, I decided to go to the temple first. For me, the veil is very thin in the celestial room. It was there that I prayed fervently for this child and asked Heavenly Father to give me revelation for him. I felt impressed to show him an increase of love. This was opposite to how I felt. He did turn his life around and after many years has come back to the gospel. I know every child is unique but I highly recommend asking Heavenly Father, who loves your child deeply, for revelation on how to treat your situation.
Colleen StoutNovember 12, 2021
Thank you Vivian for the wonderful analogy and reminder about tables in scriptures, and our own lives. When our large family talks of where they would like to be once again, it would be around our family table. We would not leave in a hurry, as it was too much fun to stay and talk and enjoy one another. No other place in our home could qualify for that special bonding. Colleen Stout
Michele NoelNovember 12, 2021
Thank you, Vivian, for a refreshing view of our need for familial connectedness as a strengthening paradigm about our place in the plan of salvation. Beautiful! I have followed your written and audio work for decades and shared them with my family endlessly. We are still waiting for your book on the garden story. God Watches!
Harold RustNovember 11, 2021
Thank you for a lengthy, carefully referenced, deeply thoughtful, and powerfully emotional discussion of the most universal of all social relationships on earth that just happens to be so greatly misunderstood by many. I look forward to the "continued" discussion because the over-riding question in today's world where lots of different arrangements between men and women are socially acceptable is: "If a man can have more than one wife, why not the reverse?" I have formulated what for me is an answer consistent with all other doctrine of the Church but which I have not seen written or spoken anywhere in scriptures or by the prophets. I'll therefore be interested in what author Cassler has as an answer.
Kay Wiemer GerkeNovember 11, 2021
Beautifully written and inspiring article. Thank you for sharing this.
Judy PetersonNovember 11, 2021
This article effectively supports the idea that we have A Mother in Heaven, not an assortment of mothers, an idea which I’ve heard expressed by some people recently as we’ve started having discussions about our Mother. I’ve seen several other sources saying the law of marriage is a man and a woman. As the author points out, this does not preclude an alternate interpretation, but i think the Lord intends to be clear on key doctrines and would be explicit if plural marriage were the law of Heaven. I think that’s a misconception left over from “the old days:” Policies regarding sealing of deceased couples with multiple spouses has changed over the years. It would be helpful to know more about the principles behind our current policy of sharing every possible combination of spouses, as well as living men sealed to both deceased and living spouses.
Sophia McLaughlinNovember 11, 2021
I'd like to make another clarification. "Only if we acquit ourselves well in the roles of spouse and parent in this probationary state are we entitled to perpetuate those roles in an eternal marriage state in the hereafter." Omit the "only", and I'll agree with you fully. According to modern-day prophets, marriage in the hereafter will also be made available to righteous men and women who lived under circumstances that prevented them from receiving this blessing in mortality.
Sophia McLaughlinNovember 11, 2021
I'd like to make a correction. You say that tv ose who do not qualify for the fullness of the celestial kingdom will remain single. Perhaps you meant "fullness" to stand for exaltation, and in that case we do agree. I did want to point out that there will be those who inherit the celestial kingdom singly, marrriage is only required for exaltation within the celestial kingdom, but it is not required to enjoy living with the Father and the fullness of his company.
Phillip C. SmithyNovember 11, 2021
Very thoughtful and insightful. Thank you.
karell binghamNovember 11, 2021
Abraham was to be the great head of a chosen nation. Would he obey? He had been given the promise that his posterity would be as the sands of the sea. Did he have enough faith to believe beyond mortal understanding that the Lord would keep his word, even if he killed his only son? That is why the Abrahamic test is often called the test of incongruity. A test that flies in the face of what has been understood. To my feeling, polygamy was this kind of test for Joseph. He truly was a great man of God! Thanks for your help in understanding this sometimes troubling commandment!
James ScottNovember 11, 2021
I enjoyed your exposition and illumination of D&C 132 re polygamy, and I’m looking forward to the continuation. Commenting on Abraham’s sacrifice of Isaac. This represention of the Lord’s own sacrifice, (Jacob 4: which is a similitude of God and his Only Begotten Son.) is horror filled and mortifying in its conception as was the crucifixion of the Lord. Could I point out that the faith of Abraham was strengthened by the teaching that he knew the promises could be fulfilled by Isaac being raised from the dead. The lecture on faith in Hebrews 11 show his expectation. 17 By faith Abraham, when he was tried, offered up Isaac: and he that had received the promises offered up his only begotten son, 18 Of whom it was said, That in Isaac shall thy seed be called: 19 Accounting that God was able to raise him up, even from the dead; from whence also he received him in a figure. The same figure Jacob understood. He had to have understood the doctrine of resurrection and glory to have had the faith that God could raise Isaac from the dead to fulfill the promises. Hagar and Ishmael: the promises given to Abraham apply equally to Ishmael and Abraham saw to the welfare of his son. Ishmael helped and attended the burial of his father, (Gen 25:8,9). Moreover, Ishmael had twelve sons mirroring the heritage of Jacob’s twelve sons. However, Abraham knew that Isaac was the son of promise, (Gen 17, Gal 4,5)
Michele NoelNovember 11, 2021
Fantastic! Worth the read! Thank you Valerie.
Maryann TaylorNovember 11, 2021
This is beautiful. I have always known that my marriage isn't just between two people, but that the Savior is an essential third partner with us. Thank you for reminding us of the symbolic meaning of the altars in the temple.
AJ CurrieNovember 10, 2021
I can think of no better definition of self-esteem than D&C 121:45. And, that verse even explains the one sure way to obtain true self-esteem: "Let thy bowels also be full of charity towards all men, and to the household of faith, and let virtue garnish thy thoughts unceasingly; then shall thy confidence wax strong in the presence of God;...." How could anyone have more self-esteem than to be confident standing before God?
brooks sNovember 10, 2021
Wow. Would love for you to write another book. Let me know when your next one is published. Love your writing style.
Jeff LindsayNovember 10, 2021
Thank you for this valuable information and for your informed perspective. It seems that it's increasingly important for parents to pay attention to what is happening with their kids at school. I think you made a wise move to turn to homeschooling for the beginning of your child's education.
Sandy KerrNovember 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing this inspiring story and brightening my day!
Maryann TaylorNovember 10, 2021
My husband installed shelves on the inside of my pantry door. I didn't think there was enough room to do this and still be able to close the door. Oh, boy, was I wrong! I can't believe how much I can store on these shelves. I like the reminder of how much room is between the tops of kitchen cabinets and the ceiling in many homes--dead space that can hold a lot---keep in mind that it will be warm up there, so store things that you rotate more often.
Gail KNovember 10, 2021
Wonderful story of a good man. Thank you for sharing this, it reminds us during tough times, that there are other's who have it tougher. God bless this man, I would give him my last $5.00 to feed his daughter. This has opened my eyes to be more aware of those around us, and look for that sadden eye that is waiting for God's blessing that I can assist him with. May I be God's hands to bless others.
Scot ProctorNovember 10, 2021
The film is available on DVD from Seagull Book. We've now added that information above, thank you for asking!
Ronya SimmonsNovember 10, 2021
Will this film be screened outside of Utah? Can it be ordered on DVD or is it available through live streaming or some other media?
Pam RoderNovember 9, 2021
Always grand to hear/read Patrick Degn. Brilliant mind that causes me to smile agree and wish I could say things as well as he. Thank you for the wonderful insight from our paltry human view of God and His "Alpha and Omega" perspective. Thank you Patrick.
BoBNovember 9, 2021
I offended an investigator recently who used this, where's the blood question, for his pretext to not put any serious effort into examining the Book of Mormon or its claims. I offended him because I just could not understand what the problem was. We do not have a detailed step by step drawn out picture of the precise events of that evening. By the way, the Book of Mormon is a book of doctrine not court room minutes. Nephi is explaining God's instructions and reasoning for why and how they were to proceed. He is not performing a dramatic reenactment. If you read the pertinent verses in 1 Nephi 4 you should realize this was not a thirty second mugging. Nephi spent time there with drunken Laban and with the Lord. He took time to ponder, pray, respond, deliberate. What verse 19 does not say is I cut off Laban's head and then proceeded to remove his clothing ( Wow. I really did this in the wrong order. Gosh. That was stupid.) What it does say is after I cut off his head, I took his clothes and put them on. Why was Nephi holding Laban's sword prior to having any thought about killing him. The most logical/reasonable answer is he was removing drunken Laban's clothing. Remember the mission is to get the plates. This is simple (I really don't mean to be a jerk, but) pretty obvious, and based on the fragments of information concerning what happened that evening, the most logical and rational idea concerning how Nephi proceeded. There was lots of blood. Of course there was, but not on Laban's clothes. They had been removed. This is far more economical than saying when Nephi says, 'I picked him up by the hair of his head and cut it off.' that he doesn't mean 'I cut it off'. No, Nephi cut off Laban's head and put on his clothes, just as the passage relates. My investigator friend was troubled that I would insinuate Nephi took his clothes off first. "The passage doesn't say that." Neither does it say he took them off after the head smiting." It also doesn't say he put on his sandals in the morning and ate his mush, but I bet he did. It also doesn't say he dragged Laban to a dark nearby area so as not to be seen, but I bet he did. If someone rejects the BOM because of 'where is the blood?' They really aren't very interested anyway or have other issues with the BOM or the Church or our religion because frankly that's just pretty weak.
Doris WilliamsNovember 9, 2021
Made me laugh out loud! Loved it. Thank you
PaulaNovember 9, 2021
Thank you so much for expressing/validating the feelings I've had for 40 years. Your thorough, well-thought-out and articulate essay will give others pause for thought.
Dan EllsworthNovember 9, 2021
I'm glad this article was helpful for you, friends. MAbernethy, yours is a good question, and I'm not sure why we don't have specific instructions for exorcism. I performed two on my mission, and I basically did what I heard other missionaries and members had done: raise the right arm to the square and command it to leave in the name of Christ. But I personally think a simple command in the name of Christ is sufficient. As to why we don't see more open manifestations of possession? It's very common in other parts of the world; in Western societies, Satan seems to want to leave us with the impression that he doesn't even exist.
Todd RNovember 9, 2021
I found more scriptural support for why Nephi was justified in killing Laban in Doctrine and Covenants section 98:23-38. It says in effect don't react to your enemy when they "smite you" two times, and if you spare them after the third time you and your posterity would have eternal rewards, "31 Nevertheless, thine enemy IS IN THINE HANDS; and if thou rewardest him according to his works thou art justified; IF HE HAS SOUGHT THY LIFE, AND THY LIFE IS ENDARGERED BY HIM, thine enemy IS IN THINE HANDS AND THOUGH ART JUSTIFIED. 32 Behold, THIS IS THE LAW I GAVE UNTO MY SERVANT NEPHI, and thy fathers, Joseph, and Jacob, and Isaac, and Abraham, and all mine ancient prophets and apostles. Nephi's account explicitly lists two times that Laban tried to kill them, and we can easily deduce that as and "elder of the Jews", Laban had tried to kill his father, just like the elders of the Jews killed the Savior. (No wonder, Laban and Lemuel said "it was a hard thing" to ask them to go back and face Laban when he had already tried to kill their father) Nephi stated twice that "Behold THE LORD HATH DELIVERED HIM INTO THY HANDS" which is the same wording as the D&C. Nephi wrote this account approximately 30 years after it happened and due to the difficulty of writing on plates, it is not surprising that he would not give every little detail of what the spirit may have told him, but what he did write is absolutely consistent with the law in the D&C, and the Lord told Joseph Smith that this was the law that he taught Nephi.
LewisNovember 9, 2021
You know what I am grateful for? Your articles! They bring such joy and happiness into my life. Please keep writing. You have such wonderful insights, and tell such beautiful stories.
Bradley J. KramerNovember 9, 2021
Along these lines, I think of the sealing altar as the modern ark of the covenant--the sealing room being an extension of the celestial room (or holy of holies) and the participants being the cheribim on opposite sides of the altar leaning over the altar with their faces towards each other (Exo. 25:9-20). Our sealings, therefore, reflect the everlasting "marriage" covenant God made with Israel and show how integrally involved he is with them (Lev. 26:9-13; Isa. 54:4-6; etc.)
Maxine McCoyNovember 8, 2021
This was one of the best articles I’ve read for a very long time. Well written and the wisdom it contains is so needed for our times. Good job!
ElaineNovember 8, 2021
That was a beautiful meaningful story. Thanks for the reminder to let our lights shine:)
Wally GoddardNovember 8, 2021
Excellent insights! It is worth noting that the scientific community turned squarely against self-esteem in 1983 with Susan Harter's review of research. Any continuing enthusiasm for self-esteem is primarily driven by pop psychology.
Haze KompelienNovember 8, 2021
"If He is the Alpha and Omega, doesn’t that suggest a beginning and an end, or are those words also gateways to more iconoclastic shenanigans?" Smiled so much at this line! And I think I would really love your mom, after reading "One of the many gems she dropped on me was, “Look, son, the church comforts the disturbed and disturbs the comfortable.”
Maryann TaylorNovember 8, 2021
This is a great reminder for people who are dating to really check out their potential dates. An acquaintance of mine was dating through a website for church members. They soon discovered that some of the potential dates were involved in divorce proceedings that were not yet final. Unfortunately, people need to be extremely cautious and get as much information as possible about potential dates. As to the question of whether to alert the woman who has a husband that is straying? I would certainly want someone to tell me!
S LambertNovember 8, 2021
I really enjoyed your article. Just FYI, the correct attribution for the "old time rail journey" quote is the Unitarian Minister Jenkin Lloyd Jones as quoted by President Gordon B. Hinckley. https://latterdaysaintmag.com/8-things-the-prophets-didnt-say/
Cynthia DeckerNovember 8, 2021
Love the post...had to look up some of the Latin but it was a pleasure. Thank you.
Sandy KerrNovember 8, 2021
Great insight, beautifully expressed! Thank you...
LexaGraemeNovember 8, 2021
Marvelous read! Thank you very much. I love the Chesterton quotes.
Will KimlingerNovember 8, 2021
Well said!
GTONovember 8, 2021
President Hinckley was quoting Jenkin Lloyd Jones. Great article! Thanks.
Breck EnglandNovember 8, 2021
Heather, you are right. I had a feeling I should include this point and failed to do so. As you say, the plan of God applies to every stage of life, premortal, mortal, and postmortal. It is a plan of mercy for everyone. I should also have added that God deals with every one of his children separately and individually. In his omniscience He takes every one of their circumstances into account in determining the degree of glory to which they will attain. This concept is particularly important for those who for one reason or another don't seem to "fit" into the eternal pattern of exaltation. We are in no position to judge the eternal destiny of anyone. That is our Savior's job.
Ray CooperNovember 8, 2021
Honestly, one of the best posts I have read. You absolutely nailed me to a tee. Thank-you for your thoughts.
Ken ButlerNovember 8, 2021
My this way that way thoughts too, but exceptionally well expressed. Kudos. .
Lisa CroftNovember 8, 2021
Amen!
Jacob HessNovember 8, 2021
Two other responses I've received: (1) Thanks for this analysis. I work in the pharmaceutical field, but not in Drug Product, in which this gene therapy jab is associated. I’m also not a bio or pharmacology specialist. But I still get questions from many people. I have been advising everyone who has asked, and my entire family, that they should not have this shot administered to any children (18 and under) unless that child has severe health issues that are likely to result in severe reaction to the Covid infection. The World Health Organization still has the official position that, since children almost never have any significant symptoms, and almost none who don’t have other huge health issues have died, there is no justification for subjecting them to higher risk by administering the so-call vaccine. I am appalled that the CDC, the FDA and the manufacturers have by-passed all the protocols that have been required for many decades for a drug to be approved. I was able to accept “emergency authorization” for adults, especially those in high risk situations. The rest is just plain irresponsible. I can only assume the following: some have great delusions of power and are now addicted to that; some feel compelled to take this position in order to maintain their positions and jobs (giving in to peer pressure); or greed for the money involved. Remember that reportedly 20 to 25% of medical professionals have not received the jab. Most of those will be or are already out of a job because of their own ethics. If anyone, as a parent, has even an inkling that perhaps his or her child should be administered this vaccine, please fast and pray after as much study of the test results (not just what is touted by the FDA, CDC, and medical establishment). ************* (2) Given what was presented in this post (and it seems to have been done in a fairly even handed manner) I would agree the studies were too small, and the time periods involved too short. Additional clinical studies seem to be justified/needed. I think one point the government administrators and the companies seem to be avoiding is that the main benefit to be derived from vaccinating millions of children is the herd immunity aspect of the process. It needs to be well proven that we wouldn’t be putting those millions of children at an unnecessary level of risk to obtain that benefit – I agree the submitted studies are not rigorous enough to prove that no significant harm is being done.
Lynette NicollNovember 8, 2021
Bravo!! I’m so grateful for this article!!! Thank you! I will be using this information again and again!
Frank E MerrillNovember 8, 2021
Far too many people are willing to serve God in an advisory capacity.
Gordon ManvilleNovember 7, 2021
I have been touched lately as I have found 5 second and third cousins that were imprisoned In Auschwitz. They were wonderful people. One was a first world war veteran. He and his wife volunteered to drive ambulance for the French army until that army fell. They were put to death at Auschwitz within 24 hours of arrival. The other family was a mother and her adult son and adult granddaughter. They were Jewish. Another one was trnsferred to Bergen Belsen and lived ot be liverated.
Leroy HaleNovember 7, 2021
I have experience many times the blessings of prayer. We as a heavenly family are so tied to our Father in Heaven. Praying in the name of Jesus Christ is so important. Sometimes individuals will rush when closing their prayer and not realizing how important the closing in THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST is.
Bonnie CaldwellNovember 7, 2021
Beautiful article! Thanks for sharing!
Becky WilliamsNovember 7, 2021
I am trying to find out when the church first introduced the concept of a year's supply. I would love to read what was said at the time. Did it start out as a general principle and then get more detailed? I did find this article in 1976 but would like to go back further: https://abn.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/1976/04/food-storage?lang=eng&abVersion=V00&abName=GLOB88
Debra HessNovember 6, 2021
No Shots for children, that would be risking their lives for too many unknowns.... many deaths have occurred and many teens now have life long heart problems after getting it. Why risk your children's health when the recovery of the virus is almost 100 %! Thank you for the article, and for NOT following the lies from the CDC and from Fauci....it's not about safe guarding the children, it's all about making billions for the drug companies and for those tied into them.
BoBNovember 6, 2021
Wow. Thank you.
Jacob HessNovember 6, 2021
Megan – you’re right to be concerned about this. I have too – and any faithful Saint should be. You’re right that prophetic counsel will increasingly “break from what the noisy, contentious world tells us is true.” In this case, of course, prophets have agreed with what the world is saying. Regardless, it hasn’t been easy for many to follow. You’re right they have encouraged members embrace vaccination for many things, including COVID-19. But it’s also the case, as they state in their message, that this is predicated on the vaccine being truly “safe and effective.” They simply wouldn’t advise the course if they weren’t assured it was – hence the relevance of this due diligence inquiry. My primary concern throughout this has been its impact on our faith and unity – and I’ve written about it elsewhere extensively: https://www.millennialstar.org/to-those-who-love-the-prophet-but-not-the-vaccine/ https://publicsquaremag.org/health/covid-19-vaccination-as-an-abrahamic-test/ (In my experience, Meridian Magazine editors and contributors constantly speak of sustaining the prophet). Clod Doc – I’m sorry to hear about the health issues you’re having post-vaccination. I do think you’re right we need to have a more transparent, forthright public conversation about that – as Senator Mike Lee and others have called for. Hoping the Lord can lead you to healing. B. H. Murray – in the very same moment you lay out these stats, others will quote official sources saying “no deaths have been officially connected to the vaccines.” Who is to be believed? Even the post-vaccine deaths and injuries are subject to competing interpretive frameworks and narratives. It’s downright confusing! But post-treatment confusion is something others have explored in great depth (see “Is it me or my medicine” by Boston sociologist David Karp. I’m working on another piece on exactly this – would love to hear what you think. Tandart – The purpose of this is not simply to spread doubt, but to raise honest questions about data on which millions of parents will not only get their children vaccinated, but likely be forced to. If there were ever a public issue worth critically examining fully, this would be it! Alan –The financial incentives are obvious. But I do think it’s going too far to say it’s “not about saving the children.” I believe most people on all sides of this really do want to keep people healthy – young and old – they just have very different beliefs about the best way to pursue it. Really important question, Kevin. It’s true that what we’ve almost always heard is if we don’t act quickly to vaccinate, that failure will *allow* the virus to mutate. The other line of thinking (that you don’t hear as often, but which deserves a lot more consideration) is that it’s precisely when a virus runs into a mass vaccine barricade, that it’s forced to mutate. From the latter view, it’s the mass vaccination itself that prompts escalating mutations – rather than being the key to stop them.
RanaeNovember 6, 2021
The vaccine is what forces the virus to mutate into something the vaccine does not protect against. Natural immunity appears to be protective against all forms of the virus. Without natural herd immunity, the strains that bypass the vaccine are the ones that survive to spread throughout the population.
SandyNovember 6, 2021
The Prophet has "urged" adults to get the vaccine but he has also told us that we need to "hear Him". I think that is what we are being encouraged to do --get our own revelation for ourselves and our family. In order to "study it out in our minds and then ask" we need to have facts such as these presented to us.
RoseAnn BensonNovember 6, 2021
Diane-I loved the context and lessons you drew out of this!
Ronald PolsleyNovember 6, 2021
It must be understood that members of the CDC staff resigned in protest over giving this jab to children. Thousands of nurses that insist you get the flu vaccine say no thanks to this truly unproven new system, they are not ignorant and they are not sheep. We are commanded to not blindly follow anyone.
Linda WillisNovember 5, 2021
Few doctrines make more perfect sense than the fact that we have Parents in Heaven. The use of the term Heavenly Parents in General Conference the past 10 years far exceeds all previous conferences. President Ballard referred to Moses 1:39 (most frequently quoted Conference scripture) by saying, "For behold this is 'their' work and 'their' glory..." Hallelujah!
Clod DocNovember 5, 2021
After having the shots, I now have Atrial fibrillation. I have never had heart problems before and when I went to the doctor and suggested that my problem might have been caused by the vaccine he replied that sh*t happens. I don't like that answer and the medications I have to take to prevent a stroke or death. I may just be the 1% that are affected this way, but my quality of life matters. Since then my wife, immuno-compromised and unvaccinated, tested positive for Covid. She was miserable for a couple of weeks, but survived. I had cold symptoms for 3-4 days. Did the shots prevent me from worse symptoms?? Who knows, but I'm concerned about my grandchildren being forced to take the shots.
Lawrence J SteimleNovember 5, 2021
Glad to see this article and the comments supporting skepticism. And to Tandart, there are experts on both/all sides of this issue. How do you choose an expert? I would rather get the virus than the shot.
Steve DoneganNovember 5, 2021
We have a sign that says: Satan knows your name, but calls you by your sin. God knows your sin, but calls you by your name.
Heather RiemanNovember 5, 2021
While I understand the purpose of your article to focus our attention on eternal progression the way it is presented missed one very important teaching from many general authorities. There are many who do not have the opportunity in mortality to make the covenant associated with eternal marriage. Those people have been promised that they will be given that opportunity after they leave mortality. I feel like you missed the opportunity to point out that the order of progression will extend after we leave mortality.
Lexie StatonNovember 5, 2021
After watching the Nov. 2 roundtable discussion about vaccine injuries and mandates led by Senator Ron Johnson, and hearing the testimony of Stephanie de Garay regarding the life altering health consequences her 12 year old daughter Maddie experienced by participating in a Pfizer vaccine trial for 12-15 year olds and the lack of reporting/coverup of these incidents by those who conducted the trial, I was left seriously doubting the integrity of the data we are given regarding the efficacy and safety of these vaccines. Additionally, Dr. Suneel Dhand has a video on YouTube detailing disturbing issues in how the Pfizer trials are conducted in some places, and again, I was left with the feeling that these people cannot be trusted. VIGILANCE is needed when it comes to our children and grandchildren.
MeganNovember 5, 2021
My biggest concern is that the prophet himself to us to get this vaccine. I don't see that mentioned here. The counsel we received from the prophet will increasingly break from what the noisy, contentious world tells us is true. And it won't be easy to follow. I wish we heard more of the prophet's counsel from Meridian Magazine.
TerriNovember 5, 2021
This is a beautifully sculpted essay on a subject that is extremely valuable to know about and understand in our day to day routines. Demonic reign is everywhere. once it is recognized, with a clear understanding of their multiple tactics and their motivations, their power and influence can be drastically reduced in our lives. So thank you for sharing your wisdom.
David SampsonNovember 5, 2021
I agree with the analysis although nothing is said about the possibility that the woman's motive may be anger and retaliation on this man. Motives are seldom simple and she may have many aspects to her reason for wanting to tell the wife, but if part of her motive is to retaliate against him, hoping to hurt him back then, in my opinion, that would indicate to me that she should walk away and work on her own need for repentance.
GregNovember 5, 2021
Fauci has obfuscated on so many levels, he is untrustworthy. Big Pharma is in it for the money, can we trust them? Do I have to even mention politicians? You do you and I will do me.
HalNovember 5, 2021
I wonder if there are any studies to determine how well children are taught to deal with the inevitable disappointments in life and the effect that has on suicidal thoughts. When I majored in psychology some 40 years ago, there seemed to be a lot of evidence to indicate that children who were protected from disappointment, hardship, and struggles in childhood never learned to cope with these normal life events. When these protected children were later faced with unpleasant situations during their adolescent years, (that the parents could not shield them from), these children were overwhelmed to the point of attempting suicide because they had no experience in coping with the normal stresses of life. The case that stood out to me was a young girl whose parents made sure she was never disappointed. If it rained the day of a planned picnic, they took her to a movie. They did everything they could to protect her from any and all events that might make her sad or anxious. When this girl reached her mid-teens, she became romantically involved with a boy who later rejected her. This was a disappointment her parents could not protect her from and, because she had never learned to deal with disappointment in her childhood, she was devastated and attempted to take her own life. This may be an over-simplified example, but I believe children need to be taught to deal with unpleasant events throughout their lives. Doing so makes them resilient and better able to cope with the "slings and arrows" that inevitably come in life.
B. H. MurrayNovember 5, 2021
We hear that the Covid vaccines are SAFE and EFFECTIVE. How effective? We were told that the Pfizer vaccine was 95% effective. Now scientific studies from Israel are telling us the Pfizer vaccine is only 42% effective. People are asked to take two vaccines. Then they found out that those who are fully vaccinated can still get Covid and can still spread Covid, and they are still required to wear masks. Now we are also told we will need to get booster shots every 4-6 months. For how many years will we be asked to take boosters every 4-6 months? Do you call that EFFECTIVE? Now let's talk about how SAFE these covid shots are. Between December 14, 2020 and October 15, 2021, there have been 818,044 adverse events reported to VAERS (an arm of the CDC for reporting adverse effects and deaths from the covid vaccines.) There have been 17,128 deaths. 117,399 of the adverse events were serious injuries. VAERS only reports 1% of actual vaccine effects. There were 1,200 cases of myocarditis and pericarditis in 16-24-year olds. The highest rates are in the youngest kids according to Dr. Meryl Nass. Does that sound SAFE to you? Maybe these numbers are considered statistically safe, based on how many millions of doses have been given out, but when little children have a statistical chance of 0% of dying from Covid, why would anyone want to take any kind of a chance on these vaccines? It is impossible to know what their long term effects will be in many areas, including fertility which will matter to these kids in the future.
JessNovember 5, 2021
I think also honest enough is a valid question- the pharmaceutical company making many of these vaccines has just been caught (again) lying about trial safety data. That’s a hard thing to trust when all of the pharmaceutical companies have paid out billions of dollars in criminal fines and settlements because they were intentionally dishonest and bribed doctors, hid or destroyed critical information from safety trials multiple times. That kind of trust once broken is hard to win back- but here again, there is evidence of dishonesty in the all of the clinical safety trials- but especially the pediatric trials. How can we trust not only our health but our children to serial offenders?
Dale TerryNovember 5, 2021
Thank you for publishing an article that asks questions that many parents have about the data and how it is used. Seems like anyone could take the same data sample and justify any result they are looking for.
Lynn JohnsonNovember 5, 2021
I disagree with the analysis. The question is, what would the young woman want if positions were reversed? Would she want to know? If she decides the answer is yes, then she has a moral duty to approach the wife, and try to figure out what the wife wants. So if it were me, I would want to know and so I would approach the wife and at least offer information.
TandartNovember 5, 2021
I'm not sure what the purpose of this doubting opinion is. It sounds like a group of penguins who know a sea leopard is out there, but I won't be the first one into the water. So they wait until one of the community falls or is pushed into the water. Then they know whether the predator is there or not.Or maybe one is there but just not hungry at the moment. When I hire an expert to give me an opinion, I plan on taking that expert's advice. Get the shot or get the virus.
Alan WildNovember 5, 2021
The key thing here is what Fauci said, "Even though the chances of (a child) getting sick and seriously ill are small," This isn't about saving the children. It is about making additional billions for those purveying these troublesome shots, including Fauci himself. It is time to push back.
KevinNovember 5, 2021
I understand what you are saying. And thank you for the article. But could you address the issue of viral mutation if millions of children are allowed to naturally get the virus and build immunity? Aren't we risking this virus mutating into something that the vaccine no longer protects against?
Mary StosichNovember 4, 2021
After reading this article, I feel I have brushed against genius. It is easier to see the demonic in myself and race to visualize the patheticism of my state. Only then am I able to change. Thank you for an interesting and motivating article.
Ronald BarnesNovember 4, 2021
Without going into details, I have had direct confrontations with demons so I have first-hand knowledge of their existence.
lucy casablancaNovember 4, 2021
great article, thanks. I had always heard-read that the freezer method was to freeze 72 hours but you say 2 weeks. can you please clarify? What do you do to avoid food sweatting afterwards and going bad?
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2021
What a great article! However, I certainly don't "forget to turn" to the Lord or the scriptures for strength and guidance in family matters, and I have a hard time believing other saints "forget" as well. In fact, I think most of us are praying for our families, relationships, and problems on a regular basis! I have noticed that a lot of Meridian articles have titles that take a somewhat "finger-pointing" approach. It would be nice to have a more positive approach instead of titles that introduce the article with the idea that "You have fallen short here, and it's my job to set you straight!" Instead, let's have faith that most of the Saints are already trying to keep the commandments and to build their faith. The articles in Meridian are very valuable in strengthening that resolve and teaching gospel truths without the assumption that we are always failing.
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2021
This is so very timely right now! I believe that discouragement is probably the number #1 way that Satan sneaks into the minds of Latter-day Saints who are truly trying to be righteous. It is ironic that he uses the very gospel that will save us by twisting our perspective into believing the gospel is too hard-- that it is our burden to endure, instead of OUR HOPE! The healing key for me is feeling the love and deep compassion of Christ, manifested to me by the power of the Holy Ghost. It has been revealed to me through reading the Book of Mormon. We can be richly blessed through praying to feel the love of Christ in our hearts.
HelenNovember 4, 2021
A powerful, thought-provoking essay. Thank you.
Patricia WintersNovember 4, 2021
Beautiful!
MAbernethyNovember 4, 2021
Excellent. So many thoughts I had never considered. I have one question, why was the casting out of evil spirits such a common part of Jesus' and the apostles' experience and not ours, or as you mention, that of the Book of Mormon peoples? Casting out evil spirits is something we never discuss with regard to our use of the priesthood, neither is there any reference to it in the Handbook of Instructions or previous Priesthood manuals that I'm aware.
KathleenNovember 3, 2021
. . . If I only had a brain!
LexaGraemeNovember 3, 2021
Good story. It must have looked like a parade!
HalNovember 3, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful insight. I, too, have had many "stings" in my life that resulted in wonderful blessings. Some of these "stings'" were so emotionally painful, I thought I would never recover. It is wonderful to have a testimony that we have a loving Father who knows what is best for us even if it is painful and may temporarily leave us wondering why we have to go through such a trial.
Vivian M AdamsNovember 3, 2021
This was a wonderful and instructive article. Thank you so much.
TerryNovember 3, 2021
I feel this article really portrayed those who were interviewed. It was a second witness both of my own struggle and how Heavenly Father spoke to me through it. Even through all the pressure around me, I felt peaceful and knew Heavenly Father gave me time to seek His will and come to understand more fully. It has been a significant, spiritual experience which i will draw on and cherish. I believe in and experience personal revelation and other's right to it as well. What a blessing it is for us to have a prophet who leads us and a Savior who died for us that we may repent and come to know Him better and be like Him!
Beth TeeplesNovember 3, 2021
Thank You for your description of Daniel & Nebuchadnezzar‘s dream. My heart was truly touched. I am so grateful for your insights for they’ve increased my desire to improve the tension I feel between truth and love. You’ve articulated the thoughts I’ve had for many years yet could not put down on paper. You are a fine and brilliant son of God!
Robert CowartNovember 2, 2021
I was baptized in Newport News Virginia in 1961 while serving in the USAF at Langley AFB. A few months later on a Sunday evening at the Sacrament meeting I was sitting in the back of the chapel and for the first time I was singing the words to "Oh My Father".When we came to" in the heavens are parents single,no the thought makes reason stare truth is reason truth eternal tells me I've a Mother there." I was not a person who cries easily but I was so overcome with that truth I started crying and could not stop until the meeting ended. I shall never forget that experience. Robert Cowart
Shauna PetersonNovember 2, 2021
Oh how I wish every Primary child (girls and boys alike) could be taught and internalize this doctrine so that for the next generation of Latter-day-Saints it is not some fringe, hushed doctrine, but an inclusive, valued and implemented culture where all can feel of their divine nature and worth as a child of God(s).
Annie JensenNovember 2, 2021
Nice, thanks.
stevie maireid mckennaNovember 2, 2021
That was a great article and a topic that should be more openly taught in Church. I joined the church when I was 14 and knew it was all true, everything that I learned. However, I began to feel this taboo about speaking of Heavenly Mother. I heard crazy non-sensible reasons why this idea developed. One was that she is so holy that Heavenly Father wanted to shield her from the knowledge of the sins that Her children were committing on earth. That implied that she was such an emotional weakling that knowledge of the sins we commit on earth would devastate her. That isn't a perfect being. There were others just as ludicrous. The fact remains, as you stated, that God or Elohim is the plural form. God is the exaltation of two beings Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother. Thanks for writing about this truth.
RitaNovember 2, 2021
My favorite memory of Halloween was the year my mom and I went to see Disney's "Fantasia". The "Night on Bald Mountain" piece, with its massive demon being overcome and subdued by Christianity, in the form of a line of lantern-bearing priests, the sacred music, and coming of dawn (the Light of Christ), made a huge impression on a 10 year old girl. We were Lutherans at the time, but I don't remember my parents mentioning anything about the Reformation. I left that church a few years later, hunting and searching for the answers neither it, nor any other church I looked at, could provide. When I found the CJCLDS, I again remembered the impressions I'd had as a child. 45 years later, I still love Halloween (I was a wood elf this year), but have an adult's understanding of just how that demon was conquered.
Charles (Russ) NickelNovember 2, 2021
For years I have been talking about Faith vs. Fear. I created sort of a meme where FEAR is an acronym for False Evidence Appearing Real and FAITH is an acronym for Full Acceptance In The Heart. I may not be original in this but I think I am. I'm happy to see your comments.
Bonnie A. CaldwellNovember 2, 2021
I loved this article, McArthur. Thank you for writing and researching this needed perspective. Loved meeting you in Chiang Mai!
Debbi M.November 2, 2021
TY once again for a beautiful and enlightening article! Truth resonates here, and clarifies so many of my thoughts and feelings. I am so thankful that you are willing to speak up and de-mystify so many concepts that our church culture (vs. the Gospel) has muddied. You go, girl! I cannot wait for further truths to be revealed about our Heavenly Mother.
Bonnie CaldwellNovember 2, 2021
Thank you for this article, McArther. It needed to be written!! Loved meeting you in Chiang Mai!!
CBroNovember 2, 2021
Heavenly Mother was essential to bring into existence the First Born, Jehovah, our Savior Jesus Christ. For that first birth there were only the three; Jehovah, Our Heavenly Father, and Our Heavenly Mother. After that I don't know how long it took for all of the rest of the inhabitants the earth to be born. We are all children of our Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother born to them in the same manner as their First Born.
Rita MillerNovember 2, 2021
A beautiful way of thinking. It appears reasonable and right to us, but to the rest of the Christian world, it's a rank h heresy. I have many friends, Baptists, Methodists, and others, who are quite averse to even the thought of God being both male and female. They see it as pagan Goddess worship, especially those who believe in "sola scriptura". Are there any books or articles that address their concerns?
Concerned MemberNovember 2, 2021
Point 1: When this comes up most members are really concerned about the reverence that needs to be shown to all our heavenly relatives. God the Father and Christ have been mocked and denigrated in speech and art for years. It’s not some secret we have a Heavenly Mother or that she has a role. What is more concerning is that members are using this Mother in Heaven approach in other mediums to justify praying and worshiping Heavenly Mother. Several members of my stake are actively praying to Her against the council from modern prophets and Christ himself who taught us how to pray. Additionally it is being used by some more progressive members as a way to say Heavenly Mother sides with me and Heavenly Father is just “Patriarchal”. People are trying a bottoms up approach to revelation and are trying to use this as a hidden catalyst to move members to justify other progressive ideologies. Most members who push this agenda want to change the definition of marriage and have issues with our binary gender construct. Point 2: This is life eternal is to know God the Father and Jesus Christ John 17:3. We barely even know much about God the Father. Our focus should be on Him and His Son. I think 600 references is a stretch as I have read most of the work on this and think writers are using confirmation bias. There are also over 500 references to Bread and 500 references to the Rivers. It doesn’t mean we need to be focusing more attention as a church on Bread and Rivers. We all acknowledge Her existence and believe She has an important role. Exactly what that role is has not been revealed. Heavenly Grandparents and Uncles and Aunts may also play a role. Point 3: Our relationship with Christ should be the focus in this life. Most everything else is a distraction. With all of the “references” you cite we really don’t know much let alone how many Heavenly Mothers we have and that we all derive from the same one. What are Her physical characteristics what does her voice sound like, what is Her role in the Heavens? Is She a member of the Godhead or something else? We really don’t even understand at this point all the implications and details of what God is and the Godhead. Our Mother may play a more intimate role in our lives in the next life but in this life our purpose is to get to know The Father and the Son.
Warren AstonNovember 2, 2021
THANK YOU Meridian Magazine for publishing this excellent reminder of the "other half of Heaven," the Mother of all our spirits, and thank you McArthur for expressing these neglected but infinitely eternal truths so beautifully! My grandchildren have your books introducing our Mother in Heaven at a child's level, but we adults need to keep her in mind every bit as much.
Happy grandmaNovember 2, 2021
Most of us don't live close to our grandchildren, to do such wonderful things. Yes, we have cell phones and texting, but one has to find the time for these events. Not easy when we see them so seldom -- even in the same state. And, their families are so busy, it is hard to find any alone time.
vickieNovember 1, 2021
i didnt read the entire thing but i disagree with conclusions that come to blaming religion for depression. any religion that is. before i ever joined the church i went through my first episode of major depression and anxiety disorder. it was painful and i didnt take medication. i joined the church a few years later. i found that being a member of the church helped me through my depression episodes. i havent had any in a long time. my depression comes from my genetic makeup. my mother had it and i had it and my daughter had it. my mother was a catholic and i know that being a catholic didnt cause her depression. maybe people who suffer from depression are more sensitive and that sensitivity is a good thing because it humbles you to be able to be comforted by the HOly Spirit. My Faith is what sustained me. i thank God every day for being a member of the church.
Laurie PinegarNovember 1, 2021
Great article Diana! Loved this one!
DonnaNovember 1, 2021
Thanks for dispelling this old and inaccurate myth. I only read the article because of the headline. I DID believe Utahns were more depressed, based on that very old and inaccurate info. This is a very encouraging article, and I especially agree with the list of 10 near the end. Thank you!! Very relevant!
Theodore BrandleyNovember 1, 2021
Although there are some reasonable arguments for Christ being married during his mortal ministry I don’t find any of them compelling. What I do find compelling is the following: “The Son can do nothing of himself, but what he seeth the Father do: for what things soever he doeth, these also doeth the Son likewise.” (John 5:19) Jesus was “the only begotten son” of the Father (see John 3:16), so the Father obviously did not have any offspring while He was in mortality. Therefore the Son would not have done so either. Also for the following reasons I do not believe that Jesus was married in mortality: It would have been irresponsible for Him to have done so because He had no home and knew that He would not be around to support His wife nor to raise His children. Jesus was sired by the Father and therefore had the seeds of immortality within him. He gave up His own life, no one took it from Him (John 10:17-18). If Jesus had children in mortality would some of them carry this “immortality gene?” No, that would not happen. On the cross he asked John to take care of His mother but said nothing about a wife or child, who would have been His first responsibility. Jesus obviously was or will be married, but I believe that it was or would be after His resurrection. Perhaps He was sealed to Mary Magdalen during the 40 days He was on the earth subsequent to His resurrection?
James ScottNovember 1, 2021
While I can agree Jesus was married, Jewish custom usually require young men to marry typically arranged by parents. However the idea that there are quarter children of God on the Earth doesn’t make sense. The declaration of generations is covered in Mosiah 15: 10 And now I say unto you, who shall declare his generation? Behold, I say unto you, that when his soul has been made an offering for sin he shall see his seed. And now what say ye? And who shall be his seed? 11 Behold I say unto you, that whosoever has heard the words of the prophets, yea, all the holy prophets who have prophesied concerning the coming of the Lord—I say unto you, that all those who have hearkened unto their words, and believed that the Lord would redeem his people, and have looked forward to that day for a remission of their sins, I say unto you, that these are his seed, or they are the heirs of the kingdom of God. This verse indicates his generation will be AFTER the atoning sacrifice. Having blood children by resurrected individuals is not possible. His children therefore are those believing and worthy followers and covenant keepers and not blood relatives.
Scot ProctorOctober 31, 2021
See the response to the comment above.
Scot ProctorOctober 31, 2021
This is the title from a Non-Latter-day Saint publication.
ChrisOctober 31, 2021
Thank you for sharing this article. We read and hear that His grace is sufficient, but so many of us really don't believe it. But it's true...His grace is sufficient. It's enough, no matter how huge or how small our mistakes and poor choices might be. There is a reason the Savior is referred to as our Healer.. it's because only He can heal our wounds and our brokenness, and He is always willing to do that if only we are willing to allow it.
EneffceeOctober 30, 2021
Amazing! Your question sounds as if I had written it myself. Obviously Dr. Steurer has a stable and working marriage and relationship with his wife and hasn’t experienced the loneliness that develops over years of this type of treatment. I have tried kindness, patience, suggestions and communicating skills for so many years that yes, I finally do feel unloved and unlovable (53 years of marriage) and have given up on having a fulfilling commitment together. My testimony is solid that I am worthwhile in the Savior’s eyes, but it doesn’t preclude the need for human validation and attention from my mate on this side of the veil. At this stage in life I am praying for endurance and long-suffering and a better suited, more compatible partner for the eternities. The Savior’s comfort attends me daily—that’s all I can hope for for now, and am grateful and blessed for that.
Pam BlairOctober 29, 2021
Oh, to have been able to film it all --- alas! Cell phone cameras were still in the future. I laughed - even as I read it for the third time!!! Sugar beets- must have been in my area of Idaho...
Sherelyn CuretonOctober 29, 2021
Thank you both for sharing this great message about this beautiful Temple. I just love listening each week to your Podcasts. They fill my heart with gladness.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 29, 2021
Thank you for this article. It was very interesting and informative.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 29, 2021
This was so delightful to read. What a family memory!
Maryann TaylorOctober 29, 2021
What a great story--especially for this time of year. My husband I and love walking through cemeteries. As we read the markers, great stories unfold. I think about their experiences, their heartaches, their family ties. Often parents outlived their children. Sometimes it is obvious from the death dates that an epidemic must have raged through the community. Recently we visited a cemetery where many graves were arranged along a circular path. It was a memorial to many men who had lost their lives in fighting a huge fire in that area. Cemeteries are sacred places to us--where people are honored and remembered.
Maryann TaylorOctober 29, 2021
I think you meant "Why are so many of the most influential moms on the internet members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints?" Right?
Kary NelsonOctober 29, 2021
Are you serious?!? She asked how to reestablish connection to her self-absorbed husband, and your answer was, "improve your relationship with Jesus Christ and everything will magically fall into place"? What if her self-worth is just fine, what if she already has a strong relationship with Jesus and her Heavenly Parents? Then what? I have read your column for years and generally agree with or learn from your answers, but this one is not helpful at all. It sounds like victim-blaming, and gives NO counsel for connecting with her spouse beyond a vague 'I'm sure you'll figure it out....'
Valerie LuntOctober 29, 2021
I met Jerry in 2009 at the Books for Young Readers Symposium at BYU. Upon hearing of his passing, I got out and hugged my autographed copy of Sam and the Tigers, a wonderful retelling of an old folk tale. He was funny, creative, personable, and definitely nice! So grateful for the opportunity to meet and chat with him.
AdinaOctober 29, 2021
Just a friendly reminder that we are asked to remove "Mormon" from our identity as a church! An interesting article for sure, thank you!!!
Greg RicksOctober 29, 2021
"Clearly, we must work, but what we work for determines if the work is telestial or celestial." This is the best comment in the whole article!
Diane QuistOctober 29, 2021
That’s a funny story. I love how it was written.
SarahOctober 29, 2021
Check out Dr ramani on you tube, she may also help you see if this is the type of relationship you are in and give you some tools.
Celeste TipianiOctober 29, 2021
That was an interesting article you wrote. Thank you for sharing your experiences. Wow, I bet that was incredibly painful when you got stung by that stingray. I had a similar situation with the housing situation and we bid on this house and so hopeful we would get it, but that did not happen. I was so disappointed when our bid was turned down. But we ended up building our home and that turned out to be the best thing we did. This was 28 years ago and I am grateful we did not get that original house that we wanted. Sometimes greater blessings come if we just be patient!
Maryann TaylorOctober 28, 2021
I LOVE the Harry Potter books and there are so MANY good lessons in them--love and loyalty to friends, importance of family relationships, the quest for learning and growing, personal sacrifices to bless others, and on and on. I highly recommend them.
Maryann TaylorOctober 28, 2021
I would be less concerned about stepping on the ex-husband's toes and more concerned about what strong actions to take to protect the children from his possible continued addiction to pornography. It would be a very good idea for the wife to consult a lawyer regarding what legal actions she can take IF the ex is still engaging in this kind of behavior. She might also seek out professional counsel regarding how to engage her children in conversation regarding this subject so that they will be able to open up and tell her what goes on at dad's house.
Helmut Worle (native of Germany; adopted, by naturalization, U.S. citizen)October 28, 2021
I realize this may sound petty, but I must offer a small correction: One can adopt a country for the purpose of citizenship, but one cannot adopt a country to become a native of it. The word native means the place you were born. You can be a native Swede, but if you were not born in Sweden no amount of love or affinity will make you a native of that country. It would violate grammar.
JON COOPEROctober 28, 2021
Ty, Thank you for a tremendous insight into this topic and situation. A key word you used to help understand each of these positions is 'empathy'. This is an incredibly difficult emotion to develop since it requires the individual to do what you suggested: try to understand where the other person is coming from to then better show forth greater love. All this without sacrificing truth. I feel this is obtainable through the influence of the Holy Ghost as we try to love and serve one another. Thank you for a great article.
Melanee PhillipsOctober 28, 2021
I've always loved Jerry Pinkney's beautiful books...his kindness makes it even better.
Carol AnnOctober 28, 2021
Where and what time will you be in Herriman, UT, on Nov. 9th? What exactly will you be addressing?
SharOctober 28, 2021
I agree with Kenny. It's truly an attack the closer you get to Salt Lake. I appreciate the deep dive into the data. I do feel Utah has a preoccupation with body image-which is unfortunate. I never felt it was the teachings of the church about women but rather the increase of problems with pornography. If I remember correctly a few years back Utah declared pornography a health crisis or something like that. Even though the cause of pornography use or addiction isn't due to inadequate appearances of husbands/wives/significant others Satan's war is to try to convince us otherwise. I see the attacks of Satan when I drive the freeway in Salt Lake. I appreciate this post but still have such a heart for those (including myself) who struggle with body image.
CarolOctober 28, 2021
I would love to have the phrase: " Well done, thou good and faithful servant". Matt25:21 used for my funeral.
MeridenOctober 28, 2021
Will Deseret Book be carrying this book?
Michele NoelOctober 28, 2021
This is a well thought out article yet the statement that ‘sexual addiction is rare’ is completely out of line. I have been highly involved with LDS Addiction Recovery for a decade. The resources referenced on that issue defy reality. In the trenches of this work we do a terrible disservice to addicts and those who love them when we minimize the realities of this plague. Bishops and Stake Presidents are being overwhelmed by the volume of need for COMPETENT 12 step groups and professional counselors. See Elder Hollands 2016 address to the Utah Coalition Against Pornography. The ideas regarding developing a shame-free environment in our homes is right on and we would do well to employ them in our wards and stakes. Please a see Dr. Donald L. Hilton Jr. fantastic book He Restoreth My Soul.
CoreyOctober 27, 2021
I appreciate your well written article and your emphasis on being Christ like no matter the situation. I personally received the vaccine but only because the Pfizer was available, I have a brother who has not had it and his company which is also the same company I just retired from has given them until the 1st week of December, so 35 yrs of service may just get thrown out the door for him but he believes the principle is greater to stand up for. I have great concerns about the vaccine for anybody under twelve, there is just not enough long term data. Can you imagine the outcry if schools/universities required testing for venereal disease or AIDS or required HPV vaccinations even though statistically they could show a need. Federal Law prohibits any employer from not only discriminating because of religion but they can't even bring it up but they are able now because of Covid to ask for a document which basically shows your religion ?
CoreyOctober 27, 2021
There are more plastic surgeons per capita along the Wasatch Front than anywhere else in the nation.
James RawsonOctober 27, 2021
I enjoyed your article on repentance! Reminds me of the three years I worked with prisoners at the Utah State prison! At that time I was teaching 20 of them all former LDS who were serving time for murder! We were all involved in the family history research program called name extraction and this group extracted hundreds of thousands of names of our black brothers and sisters! One prisoner with whom I worked was in for life! One night he received a dream from one of his ancestors that his temple work needed to be done. Over a period of time he compiled the names I’ve nearly 45,000 of his ancestors and submitted them for temple work! One day when President Kimball and his counselor who was over all of the prisons housing LDS and former LDS members was visiting with him and he asked the prophet will the Lord ever forgive me and his answer to this good man was you have been and are a Savior on Mount Zion for your ancestors! To me personally, There is no doubt in my mind that the Lord forgives all who truly repent of their sins no matter the gravity!
KaryOctober 27, 2021
I would suggest reading the book, "Jacob, a brief theological introduction", by Deidre Nicole Green (published by the Neal A. Maxwell Institute). In chapter 3 she discusses Jacob and Sherem and has a different take on this topic, which, honestly, I find far more inspirational and in keeping with Jacob's Christlike personality. Highly recommend this book--and all of the books in this series! They are very insightful..
Kenny MazzantiOctober 27, 2021
Drive north or south on I.15 in the Salt Lake City area, and you will see more billboards advertising various forms of body sculpting, surgical enhancements of female body parts, facelifts, and "youthful" regeneration than on the rest of the entirety of I.15 in CA, NV, ID or MT.
MaryOctober 27, 2021
Thank you for this thoughtful and well articulated response to a perpetuation of a stereotype. And let’s continue our individual and collective journey to honor our divine natures in creating love, truth and beauty in all dimensions of our lives as Latter-day Saint women.
SHOctober 27, 2021
I am not from Utah but do have family there. I do always feel bombarded when I enter Utah --the closer to Salt Lake I get the more bombarded I get with billboards promoting plastic surgery. I appreciate the breakdown of data here. But I have always assumed Utah had a bigger problem. My assumption (which is just that: an assumption) has always been not that teachings of women in the church lead to this infatuation with appearance, but the increase in problems with pornography. I do think these two things are related. While a husband/ viewing pornography does not have anything to do with a woman's appearance or "lack" in any way, women can still feel as though that's the case. Satan can lead women astray with the implications that they are not enough.
conOctober 27, 2021
one of the culprits resulting in osteoporosis is refined foods, especially 'healthy' vegetable oils, probably worse than candy. "eat foods as close to the way God made them as possible." Ezra Taft Benson
KathyOctober 27, 2021
I love labeling life's disappointments as 'stings' that often bring forth greater blessings.
Sally SmithOctober 26, 2021
I was thrilled when I heard the announcement if a temple in Ephraim. Being from Manti I was also somewhat surprised. But then I said to myself, "The Lord has great things in store for these two historical towns in the bosom of the great state of Utah
Margaret TOctober 26, 2021
When Bishop Causse talked in our stake conference recently, he said something to the effect: "When we keep our covenants, the Lord will bring to pass His plan for us--not necessarily our plan, but His plan." I couldn't help but think of that when reading your insightful article. Thank you for sharing.
Linda WillisOctober 26, 2021
I have read this article 3 times and appreciated the fact that both Meridian Magazine and LDS Living posted it. I have also listened to Ty's podcast on the same topic. It strikes the balance of truth and love and calls upon all of us to do better and be better. It brings comfort to my soul to know that Doctrine and Love can live together in our minds, hearts, and lives perfectly.
Paul l ChappellOctober 26, 2021
I have always cherished and honored Christopher Columbus. Sad that others don't believe the truth. One fact that is missing, that helped restore the gospel, is he didn't rely on a sexton and the stars, but his compass. Magnetic north back then and increasingly now, isn't aligned with true north. If he had sailed due west, he'd have landed on the eastern seaboard of the US. He ended up sailing in a more south westerly direction, I feel, so that English law could be established here, not the civil or Roman law of the Spaniards. Because of his discovery, more people who used a sexton, from the UK, claimed and settled what became the US and Canada.
Robert D StarlingOctober 26, 2021
Thanks Mariah, for these inspired insights. My wife tripped and did a "face plant" on concrete last year which was quite painful, but the X-rays taken in the ER revealed a dime-sized cancerous tumor in her lungs that surgery removed. It could have easily grown undetected without that "sting". And 25 years ago I lost a great job in Los Angeles, but that loss made me "available" for a much better job in Utah so we could "escape" from LA. Indeed, as the title of a book that my daughter helped write says, "God's gifts to us sometimes come wrapped in sandpaper". And as Garth Brooks' song says, "sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers".
PattiOctober 26, 2021
Oh yes our loving God,after descending below All things stands with us,in our trials and our pain to give us His grace to be healed,lifted and to be above where we were! Oh Praise and Gratitude to our all powerful, yet gracious, Savior and King!
Linda WOctober 26, 2021
Very insightful! Thank you for sharing your experiences so that others can learn.
Mauga TuiotiOctober 26, 2021
Thank you, I love reading articles from your site, always appreciate what I learn from your megazine
JustinOctober 26, 2021
The FDA knew of a large number of adverse side effects of the vaccine BEFORE approval as shown in a presentation given Oct 22, 2020. Look on youtube for a presentation called "Vaccines and Related Biological Products Advisory Committee - 10/22/2020" Go to 2:33:40 (2 hours 33 minutes and 35 seconds.... the slide will go by in less than a half a second at the 40 second mark). There are 22 separate bulleted items.
Kat ColtonOctober 25, 2021
Thank you so much for your meaningful and helpful analysis. I think you are really on to a critical thought here that helps me to step out of much of the confusion around this topic swirling in my head and see how I can do better to balance this tension between love and law.
C ShielddOctober 25, 2021
As an incesr survivor, myself, I understand her initial disdain and feelings of betrayal. It took thousands of dollars and hours of various forms of therapy, but after 10 years, I was blessed with the miracle of forgiveness. The vitriol I harbored for my perpetrator wasn't doing anything to him, but was literakly destroying me. Once that burden was lifted, I got my Self back and felt so much freer and lighter! Forgiveness is a the ultimate gift for the forgiver....
Kerry FarrOctober 25, 2021
Thank you so much Ty. This is the best article I have ever read on this subject. I feel I have a much better understanding of what is going on and how to react to it.
Rhoda AndersonOctober 25, 2021
Excellent points to ponder-- thank you for these words!
Dave HansenOctober 25, 2021
I've always been curious why Christians believe baptism for the dead is a heretical principle. They have come up with dozens of reasons that it is not of God in order to protect their beliefs. I wonder if they think those early people who Paul said practiced it were Christians, or heathens???
MaureenOctober 25, 2021
Interesting article. My brother swears by pickle juice for nighttime leg cramping. The role of vitamin K, however, is not to prevent blood clotting but to promote it. Big diff.
MargieOctober 25, 2021
Seek a sealing cancellation as soon as your divorce is final. If you are turned down, insist on meeting personally with higher priesthood leaders. If necessary, seek a meeting with the president of the church. Too often, men in this situation try to spin the story to their children, keeping false hopes alive. Too often they use the continued existence of the sealing to try to exercise unrighteous dominion in the lives of their ex-wives. Insist on actual freedom from all ties to him. Do not feel you need to be civil to your former friend. She is a scumbag and you owe her nothing. And she can be told that. I found the longer I exercised restraint, the more my ex-husband's new wife felt she had done nothing wrong. Sometimes sin needs to be labeled and called out.
Stephen AllredOctober 24, 2021
Excellent, authoritative, highly educational article. Thank you for sharing.
Corey dinsdaleOctober 24, 2021
That's almost a Patrick McManus story. Loved it. I grew up in a small town and can relate to this story. In fact the farmer who we borrowed his tractor more than once and long since passed away was President Nelson's first wife Danzel's brother.
Mary J BellOctober 24, 2021
Thanks so much Pattie. Isn't it wonderful to know this?! We are truly never alone.
DJOctober 23, 2021
Thanks for your thoughtful analysis on current research of both COVID vaccine and some general history of medical treatments and protocols of the past. I remain cautiously optimistic and received both doses of COVID vaccine, but understand others hesitancy for themselves and/or for their children.
A. BinghamOctober 23, 2021
I would extend this excellent, very well thought out and rational argument to ALL healthy individuals considering the jab or who are considering boosters. Not just small children.
Darla MillerOctober 23, 2021
Wow--what an amazing story. My testimony & love for the Lord has increased. Thank you.
Fishing PharmacistOctober 23, 2021
As a retired pharmacist, the points the author makes about Prozac and other drugs are accurate. We are still receiving updated information about whether or not to use aspirin, which has been with us longer than anyone now alive. However and though I am no vaccine expert either, polio vaccine came out when I was in elementary school, and I am grateful my parents and the school made sure I was vaccinated. I have a friend who still suffers from childhood polio as have multitudes of other children who were infected during my childhood years. My inclination is to advise that my grandchildren receive the Covid-19 vaccine when it is approved. In this case, I have greater faith in the scientists and epidemiologists than the anti-vaccers.
Robin R. FosterOctober 22, 2021
I was drawn to this article. I can testify that our Father wants more from us. His Son as paved the way. I know that prayer is important. It has been brought to me many blessings, but from reading your article, prayer if done right opens us up to all our Father has for us.
DougieOctober 22, 2021
She was hurt and did well to forgive. But her daughter? The one who was actually abused? No mention of her. Let’s hear the “rest of the story”.
AwakeOctober 22, 2021
In the 80's there was plenty of youth and adults coming out and they were not committing suicide in or out of the church or any other community to the degree it's happening now. Why? This has far more to do with social media and the disconnect it has caused everyone in familial and community relationships. There is an anger out there, between progressives and conservatives, that can not be squelched as each side blames the other for the massive problems in society and our youth today. Both sides of the issue have valid arguments. There is so much more going on, that can not be seen or discerned, than anything to do with the LGBQ community or LDS community or any other community. This is a spiritual war like no other we've encountered in our lifetimes and the battle is for souls and it's real.
Love your neighborOctober 22, 2021
The thing that frustrated many about those who refuse to be vaccinated is that they also refuse to wear a mask or do anything that would protect others and prevent the spread. I would have no problem if those who are not vaccinated were doing their part to limit the spread but generally they are not. I caught Covid in February before I was eligible to be vaccinated. I was being extremely careful but the person I caught it from was being less careful and those around him were not careful at all. We had the chance to choose to help each other and beat this but instead we had division and personal rights above personal responsibility or love of neighbor. When the public chooses to not be responsible it is the job of public health to protect the vulnerable. We had our chance to beat it together, but by our own selfish choices now we get mandates.
CarmaOctober 22, 2021
So was Dorothy sealed to her former partner or was he sealed to someone else? If she wasn’t sealed to him, did she remarry?
Penelope JohnsonOctober 21, 2021
When we covered that story of the prophesied meeting and laying of the cornerstone last week in Institute we were taken back in memory and spirit to that time when you recounted the story on our family history trip and once more were moved by those circumstances. Thank you. Penelope and Kent Johnson
Robert S. PrinceOctober 21, 2021
I was greatly blessed to serve I’m the Central German Mission (Düsseldorf) under President Walter H. Kindt in 1979-72. He was, and remains, a tremendous influence in my life. Those of us who served under President Kindt grew to love and deeply respect President and Sister Kindt. We also forged a wonderful brotherhood that continues to this day. Thanks for publishing this short account of some of the many faith-building events of President Kindt’s life. Much, much more could be written. Walter Kindt truly was a remarkable, inspired servant of the Lord and a valiant leader who gave his entire life to build the Kingdom of God on the earth.
LexaGraemeOctober 21, 2021
Um, yeah. That'll wake you up!
LetThereBeLoveOctober 20, 2021
Thank You! Especially your last paragraph. . . THANK YOU!
John R CarpenterOctober 20, 2021
Fascinating and intriguing leading to suggestion of the possibility.
AnonymousOctober 20, 2021
I appreciate your points while believing you are missing much in the education of those who are refusing the vaccine. I have not nor will ever get it. There is MUCH that is sinister about this politically derived issue as well as the medical powers that be.
Susan RowlandOctober 19, 2021
Really liked the statement, “ he had firmly placed his feet on the pathway of discovery , connection, and preservation.
KathleenOctober 18, 2021
You always deliver truth through entertaining stories!
Danna MabeyOctober 17, 2021
Loved reading about this faithful missionary on this quiet Sunday evening.
M. JayOctober 17, 2021
I grew up when Christopher Columbus was still honored and revered. My questions are: How and why has the revisionist version been allowed to flourish unchallenged all these years, with hardly a noticeable rebuttal? Where did all the real historians go? And how did revisionism take over in the schools? It's still happening!
David BellOctober 17, 2021
Wonderful story. What a courageous faithful man!
Julie ScottOctober 15, 2021
How blessed I was, as a youth, to listen to Br. Kindt many, many times. What a powerful testimony! I remember hanging on to every word and wishing he would speak even longer. What a kind, humble servant of the Lord. The Lord truly used him as an instrument to bless countless lives!
Tom WoodOctober 15, 2021
Another great lesson, Breck. I enjoyed that you pointed out that our sacrifices and positive efforts are counted to our good even if we ultimately don't achieve a final success in what we are engaged. You also make a clear and convincing case for paying our tithes. Thanks for another uplifting and insightful lesson.
MarkOctober 15, 2021
I've found that when I don't fight my unwanted thoughts but don't feed them either, I quickly overcome them. When intrusive thoughts come you can mentally look at them without indulging them. I've found that when I do that they just go away after a few seconds. Maybe your over-concern and self-condemnation about this are what keeps you locked in on these thoughts you really don't want to have.
Shirley BradfordOctober 15, 2021
Thank you for this article telling of what they do with money donated to the humanitarian aid. I give each month to it, along with my tithing, but never hear of where it goes or what good it does..
Lynette SmithOctober 15, 2021
Thank you so much for this beautiful story of the life of my mission president. I served in the Central German Mission (Dusseldorf) mission from 1970 - 1972. Elder Rudolf Poecker, who is also mentioned became the mission president after Pres. Kindt was released.
Connie SchraderOctober 15, 2021
Thank you for writing about this truly amazing man. It is inspiring and so uplifting to read about his courage and faith.
JeanOctober 15, 2021
Thank you for sharing Walter Kindt's story. It was amazing and faith stirring. My testimony is increased just reading about the times that the Lord came and helped him.
Truth will shineOctober 15, 2021
Great article. I would add that not all gloominess is because we don’t have the spirit. “ Remember that gloominess does not come from God; it is evidence that we are not hearing His voice.” It’s actually a very sad thing to teach people. Depressed people feel gloomy sometimes and it’s not because they are not “hearing his voice”. Please study into depression and be more educated about it.
RobynOctober 15, 2021
Kevin Thanks for your cleverness in a world that is becoming so dour.
Jim ScottOctober 15, 2021
Not many of us understand the kind of fear Brother Kindt has experienced. Thank you for sharing your testimony and the faith in the Lord. God bless you.
Nancy JolleyOctober 15, 2021
This would make a great movie! What a wonderful man!!
Jan HathawayOctober 14, 2021
CTR also means Current Temple Recommend❣
John WaitingOctober 14, 2021
A wonderful, heart warming article Thank you for letting us know about the Saints in Russia. Hope all is well with the Stoddard families
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 14, 2021
This is such a positive and uplifting article.
Daphne KessingerOctober 14, 2021
This was such an outstanding & warm telling of Russian Stake president, Boris Leostrin's pathway to the gospel, spiritual experiences & church service & leadership...making Russia not so foreign to me anymore. Thank you, dear cousin,, Mark
Dick K NantoOctober 13, 2021
Is cooking the same for steel cut oats?
Drexel GuzyOctober 13, 2021
Thank you for this outstanding article. I've done research on this myself, and reached the same conclusions, but your summary is much better than mine. I'm grateful this is in a format I can share with others and help them know the real Columbus, too.
CASOctober 13, 2021
Carolyn, This is very timely and wise counsel. The question is as always: Who will heed it?
Shelley T MerrillOctober 13, 2021
Such a timely article! Thank you so very much!
LewisOctober 12, 2021
What a beautiful way to bring conference to life. I am always so touched by your insights and perspective. I feel grateful for every article!
Debbi M.October 12, 2021
This article brought me to tears. It moved me to ponder on my daughter, Amber's, death nearly one year ago, from metastatic breast cancer. I had spent that last morning with her at the hospital arranging hospice care because she wanted to go home so badly. Covid at that time limited visitors to one at a time, and our family/friends had a schedule, by the hour, as to who would go and keep her company. She had decided the night before that she could no longer tolerate any more chemotherapy, it no longer worked, and she was in much pain. She asked me how long I thought it would take for her to go, and I had no answer, but told her it should be soon. I didn't tell her I was watching all the signs of imminent death--the feverish head but cold extremities, yet she was still conscious, which amazed me. She fought to the very end. I had to leave--I knew her sister was waiting in the RER for me to leave so she could come up and I had been there a few hours. Within 10 minutes of me getting home, her sister called and said the nurses were frantically rushing around Amber. Amber took one last breath, and was gone. At least her baby sister was with her. The part of this article that resonated with me was the word, sanctification. I truly felt my time with Amber that morning was sanctified. I could do nothing for her but to love her and be with her, and it was holy, as it was when all of us were in her room after her passing--her parents, her four siblings, her two children and her fiancé. We were allowed in, despite the Covid scare, and it was a time that I will always remember.
Lisa RhodesOctober 12, 2021
How truly and simply expressed and illustrated, Becky. We learn lessons in different ways, in different places, through different relationships but the message of love and forgiveness and redemption are the common thread. Thank you for this sweet lesson!
Sherri WilcoxOctober 12, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. So touching!
Debbie MoldenhauerOctober 12, 2021
Your tender experience of going the extra mile even in the dark while not safe has touched my heart. Sacrifice has so much power and must be taught as a true sanctifier, Thank you for sharing this divine example of pure love given so willingly! When we can strive to live this law willingly and longingly we will all change and become HIS! Your example is inspiring and is a powerful reminder of small and simple things we can do daily that will perpetuate great things coming to pass!
Kay RookhuyzenOctober 12, 2021
Your story made me cry with joy at your simple offering of love and how it affected those who received it. Really made me thinkg. Thank you!!
Ron HansenOctober 12, 2021
An essential truth, without which we will not progress. "Mother Teresa had expressed an eternal truth. It truly didn’t matter how much we did. It was the love that was the healing power!" And what a touching story to illustrate that. Thank you for sharing your insight and love of what can be done in any and every part of the world.
Ted D.October 12, 2021
A wonderful example of living the second great commandment. Forgive me if I paraphrase the wrong author, but I think it was Sis. Eubanks that said serving others is the very DNA of what it means to be a member of Christ’s church.
JaLeen ColeOctober 12, 2021
So so beautiful. Thanks for your example to this beautiful experience. I am so touched by the story and what you have shared.
DJOctober 11, 2021
Thanks for sharing this account of a faithful leader and his wife. It's given me a clearer insight into their trials and faith.
E. RobinsonOctober 11, 2021
yes, I would also like a copy of the book
Marlene Hinton, PhDOctober 10, 2021
Excellent scholarship in a profoundly confused world. Many of Columbus' truly remarkable diaries/letters are available on the internet as are his son's journals. As a history teacher I share portions of Columbus' own writings in hopes that students will learn truth. I appreciate this refreshingly accurate view of a great and noble soul. Thank you.
Allison TullisOctober 10, 2021
Thank you, thank you, thank you! I’m a history major and wrote my final paper on Columbus so I have studied him at great length and I found the same things you did. It makes me sick how revisionist historians have tainted his image. His day has also been renamed to be more politically correct, which is wrong. I hope more people read this and see the true man.
RonOctober 10, 2021
Thank you for your research and offering your findings to help unveil truth and light!
Chuck McClureOctober 10, 2021
I have always honored Christopher Columbus as a great and God honoring man. Over the years I have witnessed the changes being made to denigrate, using presentism, the heroes of my youth. Thank you for this wonderful article and for adding such details that I had not previously heard. This is an amazing presentation!
Beth PowellOctober 9, 2021
I was bewildered by quotes from sources used by revisionist historians and the vehemence of arguments offered by some loved ones vilifying Christopher Columbus. I am grateful that Brother Callister did the research and provided actual history and correct view of Columbus as a deeply inspired disciple of Jesus Christ. I am also grateful for the Book of Mormon reference and the quote from President Hinckley. It is so sad that many in the rising generation believe what is increasingly taught in universities and colleges and even in the elementary grades, revisionist history and falsehoods contained in it.
BeraOctober 9, 2021
The Lord really does choose men and women to further His work in spite of their weaknesses. I thoroughly enjoyed this article and am inspired. Thank you.
Mary JaneOctober 9, 2021
Wonderful article! so glad to read many of the testimonies and facts about Columbus and his true character. I grow weary at times with presentism and revisionists in our society...people in general don't take the time to study and research the truth.
Howard & Rosalie Madsen PiersonOctober 9, 2021
Thank you, Bro. Callister, for this timely article on the Real Christopher Columbus! (Columbus Day Oct 12) We appreciate your research into the real events and inspiration of his travels.
John R CarpenterOctober 9, 2021
A nicely done and well cited article!
MaryOctober 9, 2021
Are primary sources from the natives available? Would be interesting know their perspective
Sonya WashburnOctober 8, 2021
Thank you for teaching us the truth about Columbus...what a great man. We need to defend him and teach our children the truth. Instead of allowing character assassination to thrive.
Gary AndersonOctober 8, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article! I appreciate knowing the truth about the character of Christopher Columbus.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 8, 2021
Thank you so much for this article. It is so informative and interesting. Always follow the sources.
JanOctober 8, 2021
I have read some of the history that revisionist have written and so appreciate this article that disclaims their writings of Christopher Columbus. Thank you for this insightful and true article. I can see why some would try to rewrite history of Christopher Columbus . Perhaps the validation of their narrative views gives them more public exposure to discount those who try to follow what God would have them do. May we all have courage to stand up and recognizeTruth.
JONATHAN ATKINSONOctober 8, 2021
No body ever mentions Joseph's dog! an English Bull Mastiff that was there with him. When he slept the dog remained awake and visa versa. Old Major a white English Bull Mastiff was given to him in Zions camp. A professor has written an essay about evidently. God bless Joseph and Old Major.
Michael FryeOctober 8, 2021
In 1977 Peter Marshall and David Manuel published an inspiring work, "The Light and the Glory," with the first two chapters devoted to Columbus. Since that time I have always retained the blessed memory of Christopher Columbus and am grateful for another confirming voice of this great man.
John R CarpenterOctober 8, 2021
Those who view the past with only "modern" perceptions of thier culture and ethnicity are naive. Those revisionaist historians who for profit or political reasons do the same thing a true racist and bigotted people. We must see and understand the past from their eyes and their artififacts. Only then can we see the truth and learn the lessons of the past. This to prevent making the same mistakes they made unintenionally or not.
Theodore BrandleyOctober 8, 2021
To the revisionist, the object of converting the natives to Christianity would be as bad or worse than enslaving them.
Dave MOctober 8, 2021
Thanks for this thoughtful and much needed article. One can only wonder how different the world would be if, after finishing his work in the Americas, Columbus had been able to turn his attention to the Middle East and Asia.
Rochelle HaleOctober 8, 2021
Thank you. I hope many people on "both" sides of opinion will read your timely, and well-researched article. In our world of presentism, we must be careful about applying today's standards to change what did or didn't happen long ago.
ShaunaOctober 8, 2021
Wonderful--thank you
Rob RackerOctober 8, 2021
I Anyone reading this article would enjoy a book written about Christopher Columbus entitled “Man Among the Gentiles”, by Clark Hinckley. While Clark and his wife Kathy were serving as Mission President in Spain several years ago, they became very interested to do extensive research and learned how CC was an instrument in God’s hands in being inspired to go against prevailing superstition and fear in sailing west to find the orient. CC was a spiritual and visionary man and not a conqueror or aggressive administrator, as he is currently portrayed by politically correct and revisionist historians as Bro. Callister has pointed out. I’ve read Clark’s book twice and it is an easy, inspiring read, by a well educated man who, while not a historian (which is a good thing, given the leftist bias and prejudice prevalent in that field of the humanities) and would appeal to most Latter Day Saints, who accept the divinity of the Book of Mormon’s origin and message. Obviously I highly recommend it.
Gale E PhillipsOctober 8, 2021
I very much enjoyed this excellent article. As a high school US history teacher, I found that almost without exception, students came to me believing the revisionist view of Columbus. They had acquired it both in elementary and secondary school from teachers who had also learned it in school and college. Columbus, is sadly, just one of many historical figures who have been maligned by history.
HalOctober 8, 2021
Thank you so much for this insightful article. In years past, my children had school teachers (one in particular) who consistently and persistently maligned Christopher Columbus (as well as our nation's founding fathers). I complained to this teacher and the principal that the things the teacher was presenting to the students was unfair and decidedly biased against Columbus. I had enough historical ammunition to support my arguments, but I wish I had the details of this article at the time. I am grateful for anyone with the courage to stand up for these good people who did so much for the founding of our nation.
Nate wixomOctober 8, 2021
Thank you for your research which appears honest, balanced and accurately depicts an imperfect yet honorable Columbus. #AbolishCancelCulture
Fawnette BaldwinOctober 8, 2021
This article is wonderful. I learned so much more about Columbus than I ever knew before. He was a great and good man. Thank you for making this story possible.
JAN NIELSENOctober 6, 2021
Thanks you for your thoughtful article. It helped me understand the conflict that seems to be happening at BYU. Grateful for Elder Holland and his love for all and for his concern for BYU's future.
Jo Ann OkelberryOctober 6, 2021
This is a very thoughtful and well written article. I listened to Elder Holland's talk, and I agree with him. I know that he spent hours praying about what he was to say, and I know that the Lord backs him. There are those who are attracted to children. Are those people also waiting for a revelation saying that it is in God's Plan of Salvation for their attraction to children be inclusive and all right? We all have challenges in our lives. We are here to overcome them.
BrookeOctober 6, 2021
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I read the transcript of the Faith Matters podcast after seeing much positive buzz surrounding that particular discussion, but I have been unable to adequately articulate my thoughts about it. You have done it here for me, and I am grateful for your gift. Thank you again.
PennieOctober 6, 2021
Thank you for a well thought out article on this subject and the Faith Matters Podcast. I was disturbed when I first listened to it, and my discomfort has not lessened. Korihor comes to mind. These people are teaching false doctrine just as surely as he did.
Caroline againOctober 6, 2021
I made a comment on Faith Matters after this podcast saying that I thought it was a wee bit too much trying to please God without offending the devil.
CarolineOctober 6, 2021
I appreciate this article and am going to read it more carefully. I'm preparing to teach Relief Society this week--the topic is Elder Gong's April Conference talk-- "Room in the Inn" which addresses "making a place of grace and space" and "we come to the Inn (the Church) as we are". It occurred to me that, while the Church is indeed welcoming and invites ALL to come unto Christ, we have a responsibility, as "guests" to behave ourselves in Someone else's Home--to respect our Host (I'm capitalizing these words deliberately) and the "rules of the house", and to not be a picky eater when the Host has prepared His very best for us.
Candy Lee HuntOctober 6, 2021
So well said. Thank you for the time you took to delineate in words the troubling feelings I also felt when I listened to this podcast.
Alan WildOctober 6, 2021
This interview is what caused me to stop listening to Faith Matters podcasts. Elder Holland was very gentle in quietly correcting certain matters at BYU. Of course the LGBTQ group is having a huge negative reaction. To me part of what I heard in that podcast is that LGBTQ is a reasonable alternative lifestyle, rather than being wrong. That will never be true. Kindly allowing for those unfortunate leanings in one thing-accepting that behavior as acceptable is quite another. So no, Elder Holland was not in error in anything he said.
Barry MooreOctober 5, 2021
Had a similar impact on me when I first read it years ago. Piece of trivia for you-- the book played a supporting role in the 2017 movie "The Case for Christ."
JuliannOctober 5, 2021
That is incredible!
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
This May just be my favorite story of yours, out of years of favorite stories. As someone whose life has been directly touched by war, this touches me, too. Thank you.
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
“ she gradually drove through, out of Egypt, to the promised land of open highway”—what great imagery. And the rest of it, as well. In his mouth?! Oh no!
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
Marvelous! I am sharing this one with my students. Thank you for your wonderful stories.
LexaGraemeOctober 5, 2021
Dr Peterson, thank you. I found this very interesting. You have inspired me to look up Habermas’ writings. I will bookmark this for a time when I will teach about the Resurrection, as well.
BlakeOctober 5, 2021
Thank you for writing this article. It was very well done. I actually had grappled with getting the Vaccine all along and had made the decision not to. There was a distinct moment during conference when I felt the Spirit say to me, it's time to do it. It was a sure witness to me. So I made the appointment and got it on Monday afternoon. Then I saw this article a few hours later, and it reassured me that I wasn't pressured or wishy washy by doing it. I followed a sure prompting to do it even though I had previously decided otherwise. I appreciate seeking and receiving inspiration for ones self, and an article encouraging that.
JoJean LoflinOctober 4, 2021
I’m fearful that “reconstruction” of the Provo Temple wii mean that they plan to ogdenify it. That would be heartbreaking. The Provo Temple is wonderfully unique.
JoeyOctober 4, 2021
The announcement of new temples is always a thrill for Latter Day Saints everywhere. I hope I live long enough to hear the prophet announce a temple in Dublin, Ireland. We are working so hard to prepare Irish names. I would love to know the work could be done in an Irish temple.
Linda WillisOctober 4, 2021
Maurine, Thank you for so quickly linking the various bold and not so subtle messages of the Brethren pleading with us to stay the course and even up our game! You and Scot are such fine examples of teaching pure doctrine and helping others on the path.
Ann StruthersOctober 4, 2021
Oh my goodness, I got goosebumps!! What a beautiful song and voice.
Mark J. StoddardOctober 4, 2021
A very flowing and interesting summation of General Conference. Highlights are tough to do but you did it! Read it several times. So much to absorb.
Mary-Rose McMullinOctober 4, 2021
If love to use these, but these links aren't live.
CarolOctober 4, 2021
True in sports and in life!
CarolOctober 4, 2021
Thank you for posting these, they are such a great way to share the gospel messages of Conference in beautiful way.
Sydney WheadonOctober 4, 2021
Beautiful in message and music! Thank you for this!
leeOctober 2, 2021
Works are fruits of your faith. You are saved ONLY by faith through grace alone.
RhianOctober 2, 2021
Those were, indeed, memorable, meaningful stories. Thanks for your sharing!
RustyOctober 1, 2021
I read this somewhere but know it is true. There is only one Truth - all the rest is perception
WaltSeptember 30, 2021
I have not had covid. I've not taken any of the vaccines, and am not planning to get vaccinated. I realize Heavenly Father is in charge. Recently, it's reported on the Medicare website that about 50,000 of those on Medicare have died within 14 days after being vaccinated. The natural death rate of covid is about 1/2 of 1%, very small. While I'm not ready to leave this world, I'm not in charge--God is. So I'll obviously go when He wants me to. I don't want to be pushed by the drug pushers.
Bob TaylorSeptember 30, 2021
nice article. there are other groups working to identify Lost Tribe peoples - here's one https://www.jewishvoice.org/learn/who-are-lost-tribes-israel.
David TryonSeptember 30, 2021
If God tells you NO once you should not keep asking and demanding a yes. Brother Joseph learned that lesson the hard way and shared it in the D&C. And you should respect the feelings and personal revelations of others.
Debra MSeptember 30, 2021
A very thoughtful article- but I did have one point that stuck me--the part about two people sitting in the temple and both being worthy. Since I have been vaccinated as a protection to myself and others, I am not sure I would be comfortable sitting to someone I knew to be unvaccinated. Maybe with masks and social distancing? I have been back to the temple and we wore masks, but still sat next to each other. I knew (it was a family group) that we were vaccinated. I do feel like folks have the right to decide about the vaccination, but still worry that they could be infecting me. Delta has shown itself to be pretty infectious and there are breakthroughs even amongst the vaccinated. I guess I think we as a church body have been too quick to drop mask-wearing and social distancing inside our facilities. It has been a wearying experience for us all. So my husband and I still stay away from most indoor activities that cannot be social distanced, and pray for the day this will pass.
JaredSeptember 30, 2021
As one who readily followed President Nelson's urging to get the vaccine--I got it just as soon as I could (despite being afraid of needles)--I gained some helpful perspective from reading this article. However, the vaccine-hesitant seem to be focused almost entirely on potential side effects of the vaccine on themselves; "My body, my choice" is the mantra. What about the rest of society? Might the prophet's urging have as much to do with quelling the pandemic for everyone as with preventing harm to the individuals who heed his counsel? If enough people had accepted the vaccine early on, the virus may not have been able to mutate and spread so widely. Unfortunately, we're too late for that, and society is paying the price. Healthcare workers are inhumanely overworked due to the unvaccinated. I have a cousin who is a respiratory therapist at a regional hospital. His career has largely been in the NICU, but the pandemic has forced him into the adult ICU. There were only two days during August that he didn't go to work; he's been working 60-96 hours per week for months, and almost all of his patients are unvaccinated. The hospital has postponed needed surgeries because they have no more room for patients. Again, getting vaccinated may be a personal choice, but we don't have the luxury to pretend that the implications of that choice are only personal.
Michelle SchooleySeptember 30, 2021
I think this is a great article. I think it's important to remember that Abraham's test was to put his will on the alter and he was stopped before actually doing the sacrifice. You would have to continually be listening to the Spirit up to the moment of injection to be sure to move forward or know if you should stop.
Debbie HSeptember 30, 2021
Very helpful article. I took president Nelson’s first counsel to seek the counsel of your medical professional for vaccine info. I have done that and I am confident in that. I did what he asked me to do even though I had already had covid. My medical council was different than my husbands and we are ok with that for now. The test of faith has been gut wrenching! And that is ok too.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 30, 2021
I hear ya, Joni! Family support and love cannot be overemphasized. However, I have a HUGE extended family. It is good to show love as much as we can, but I give myself a giant brownie button for just keeping up with my children and grandchildren's birthdays, etc! I also love writing and receiving letters from my grandchildren and encouraging them. We need to be realistic about what we can do in our super-large extended families, or we may end up neglecting those closest to us and burning out by attempting the impossible.
William R ToftSeptember 30, 2021
My wife and I had concerns about the vaccine before the First Presidency's counsel "urging" vaccination. This counsel only heightened our concerns as we re-evaluated what we knew about the vaccine, our own health situations (both of us are over 70), and previous prophetic counsel that personal revelation will be critical to navigating the last day. After much study, pondering, discussion with each other and close friends in the church we did NOT get a change in our feelings. We still felt getting the vaccine was wrong for us. During Labor Day week we both came down with COVID. We had fevers, aches, extreme fatigue, brain fog, long bouts of sleep, sleep and more sleep. After about 5 days the fevers and aches abated. Today marks 3 weeks since I first had COVID symptoms (my wife was 2 days behind me). The only lingering effects are tiredness after very little effort doing household chores or running errands. Others tell us that for them some symptoms lasted months before they were back to full strength. We feel vindicated that we made the right choice for us. We have another relative over 30 yrs younger than us who was unvaccinated, came down with COVID, and has been in and out of the hospital ICU for over 2 weeks.... survival still not assured. It goes to show that everyone needs personal revelation as to the course to take regarding COVID and the vaccines. We now have natural immunity, and from the sources I've been reading this immunity should endure the remainder of our lives... including for any COVID variants that are spawned in the future. In answering those who challenge my faithfulness to prophetic counsel I say that President Nelson, himself a doctor, would never write a one-size-fits-all prescription for every member of the church. Just like the scriptures we don't just blindly use one scripture and draw a firm conclusion. In our case we took President Nelson's "urging" to get vaccinated and combined it with his urging to increase our capacity for personal revelation. Together we came to the conclusion we did, for us only, and allow others to follow the same process to reach their own decisions on how to act in this matter.
BobSeptember 30, 2021
COVID-19 vaccination is not an Abrahamic test. The Lord has offered us the Holy Ghost so that we can confirm the truth of all things. I sustain the brethren. I continue to serve faithfully in leadership callings. I have not decided to get the vaccine. It is not something I wrestle mightily with. The Lord has corrected me before when I've been sure of the answer and was trying to follow church guidance, so I know he can tell me if what I'm doing is right or wrong. As well written as this article is, it is very one-sided (mostly focusing on people who decided to get the vaccine and downplaying those who still have not).
A McCuneSeptember 30, 2021
Thank you so much for this beautiful, thoughtful, and love-filled article. A message we all need, no matter where we stand on this issue.
Steven Meredith GarmonSeptember 30, 2021
The line about boys love baseball and girls love horses and Lucas loved airplanes more than if my friend Flicka won the world series: That was quite a memorable line for me -- I don't know why. Yeah, it's kinda dated, and sexist and untrue, but I still love that line and miss it from the abridgement
stevie mckennaSeptember 30, 2021
Excellent article. In many cases following the prophet is an Abrahamic test. I don't think that President Nelson would make such an announcement without the counsel of others. I'm sure when all the information was evaluated his impression was to make this strong urge to all church members to get vaccinated. The cheap jab about Biden forcing people to get vaccinated was very inappropriate for part of a response. President Biden wants to get a handle on this illness just as everyone else does and isn't forcing anyone. The virus is not a political issue, it is a medical one. People should understand that.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 30, 2021
Many years ago during my interview with a member of our stake presidency, we came to the final question, and I answered, "I think so," or some more humble answer than a definite "YES!!!!," The counselor asked me again, and I repeated my answer. Then he instructed that this was a yes or no answer, and I answered, "yes." This same topic came up in our Stake Conference just last weekend. If we have answered all of the other questions appropriately, then we are worthy. There is no shame or lack of humility in responding yes and affirming that we are living up to our covenants and are intent on doing all that the Lord asks of us.
Coral C. WeaverSeptember 30, 2021
Thank you! I think you covered it well and hope that we will treat each person’s decision with love and respect.
Mark HopkinsSeptember 30, 2021
I suffered an experience with GBS years ago as a result of a flu shot. It’s a rare reaction that can result from flu vaccinations and viruses. I won’t go into details, but it’s worth a look on google. I used to get vaccinated every year for the flu until my adverse reaction so, I’ve also struggled with the decision whether to get the COVID shot. I’ve gotten the opinion of 4 different doctors. 1 advised me not to get it and 2 advised me to get it. The forth doctor told me to get an antibody test first to see if I’ve had it before I risked the shot. I did and I do have antibodies. I’m not sure when I had COVID I’m in my late 60’s, but needless to say, I’m not going to get the shot now. I’ve struggled with this debate since the shot was made available and when President Nelson urged all members to get it. I studied it out extensively and was about to take my decision to God for conformation, but was given a gift of relief when the forth doctor gave me the guidance to take a more informed approach. My own understanding about the urging the Prophet gave makes sense to me. It’s time to get back into the business of living and enjoying the fellowship of family, the Saints, and friends. Put in your due diligence. Be patient and understanding of all who are struggling with this decision.
BobSeptember 30, 2021
I pray. I study. I serve. My desire is to serve my heavenly father and my fellows. I sustain the brethren. I do not consider vaccination an Abrahamic Test. I don't feel fiercely about it. I believe I'll be OK either way. I haven't gotten vaccinated. I haven't agonized over it. I understand that Pres. Nelson has urged church members to get the vaccine. If and when I feel the time is right, I'll get vaccinated. When I face my final judge, I don't expect him to ask me about vaccination, even if I meet him sooner rather than later because of (or lack of) the vaccine. Unless translated, all men and women die. I'm at peace for now. The Lord can tell me otherwise. He's guided me before and I trust he will do so again. I'm surprised that this is being turned into a test of obedience. I don't think President Nelson or the other brethren intend that. Maybe I'll hear differently at this general conference. I WANT the spirit to guide me, but I don't think this is the issue that will determine my salvation or exaltation. It is not a litmus test for me.
Kathleen N JonesSeptember 30, 2021
While spending 3 years in an Inuit village many years ago, I was taught by one of them that through out their history (oral) from the older Elders, that they came in boats from the south to their land. They also said that the belief of a land bridge between Russia and Alaska was not true. This was told to me in the knowledge that I respected their people and would hold this knowledge scared. I was told this while a person of Inuit decent was saying people say they came from China across a bridge, and I simply said "No." To which the person stopped and asked me what I thought. I replied," Your people came from way south, in boats." In shock she asked "How do you Know that? Only we know." I told her from the Book of Mormon, and related how it told of those who left in boats to the north not to be heard of again." From then on, I had many others who came to me to tell me more about them. For me I hold these dear to my heart and thank the Lord for what they shared with me. I have also lived with the Blackfeet and Navaho and have learned much from all of them.
Christine FosterSeptember 30, 2021
We have a split family relating to the vaccination. We've talked openly about it but not harangued each other. Many of us have had covid and we cant see that the vaccination has made much difference except in the length of time spent being sick. I loved the story because it presented all views with thoughtfulness. I am surprised that it isnt good enough for the media and social warriors that people have been sick with covid. They have no trust in our antibodies and seem to want to force us to do their will. Hmm, wasn't that the plan of another being?
shaunaSeptember 30, 2021
Thank you for this sweet story. I too have had experiences where I couldn't deny the Lord's hand in my life. It's good to remember and reflect on those experiences. It strengthens my faith
RebeccaSeptember 30, 2021
So well written!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you! I can relate to everything the interviewees shared. This article is an answer to our prayers and pleadings. Again, THANK YOU!
Lennea GasserSeptember 30, 2021
Thanks for that excellent article. It was very helpful for me!
KJBSeptember 30, 2021
So the same people who bellow THE PROPHET HAS SPOKEN!!!!!! whenever the leadership says something that confirms their right-wing bias are suddenly sensitive little snowflakes who we need to just understand and be more tolerant of. Never mind that hospitals are filled with people who "did their own research." Never mind that they're prolonging a deadly pandemic and putting other people at risk for no better reason than I DON'T WANNA!!!!! (And I got a sore arm after my first Moderna shot and have flu-like symptoms for about a day after my second. Am I still glad I got it? Absolutely, because I'm not a selfish crybaby...)
Corey DinsdaleSeptember 30, 2021
It was an excellent article except for the references to our democracy, we live in a republic, history teaches us that all Democracy's have eventually failed. John's comments to the article are more anti-Trump rhetoric and mis-leading and he implies that the riot in the Capitol was due to Trump. I know a number of people both members of the church and nonmembers who interpreted Pres. Oaks talk as a repudiation of Trump, he said no such thing. Trump has an awful personality but at least he is supportive of religious freedom and certainly not part of the liberal, woke, PC culture that is ruining the country. Too many view what happened at the Capitol with a very shallow understanding or based solely on the visual scenes the media reported. With the exception of a few troublemakers those who were at the Capitol are patriotic people who love their country and the Constitution and were there because they see the country going to hell in a handbasket, which the last 9 months has been more than ample proof of that. I personally wonder if Pres. Oaks may have changed a few things in his talk if it was given today and not last April based on what has happened in the interim. Pres. Oaks said in his talk he doesn't believe the Lord will let the Constitution fail, I wish I had his optimism, free agency will always prevail for good or bad.
Cynthia M. MoorheadSeptember 30, 2021
We would all be at much higher risk of getting Covid-19 and even dying if a majority of the population had decided not to be vaccinated. The same is true of all vaccinations, which have saved countless lives. I agree that the government should not mandate vaccination -- there are some people whose health is compromised to the point where it would be risky for them. But for most of us it is the right thing to do, both for ourselves and to avoid passing on the virus to others. The vast majority of those who are dying from the new variants of the virus are those who are not vaccinated. D&C 5:19 and 97:22-26 really struck me as I have been studying the prophecies relating to the Second Coming of the Lord. Could this "scourge" that continues to be poured out be the coronavirus? There is a reason why the Lord chose a medical doctor to be His prophet at this time.
Taylor StonelySeptember 30, 2021
What a well thought out article this was! I appreciated the depth and breath of the issues mentioned and the personal interviews conducted. The approach to finding an answer about whether or not to get vaccinated is a personal one. Thank you!
LisaSeptember 30, 2021
It’s 4:30 AM and I can’t tell you how much I needed this article. It made me cry because I’ve experienced all those feelings and I’m still in the process of making a decision. We have been very much against the vaccine even though we’re not totally anti-VAX. My husband shocked me by doing a 180 even though he was very upset with the prophet when he first came out with a statement. He had to go through his own spiritual journey. I’m still in the process and have not yet received a yes answer. I am earnestly seeking and it helps to know I’m not alone. We can be faithful members of the church, yet still be struggling with this decision. Thank you so much for writing this.
John WaitingSeptember 30, 2021
Another fine article from Mark
vickieSeptember 29, 2021
OKAY YOU got me on this one. i screamed when i read the boy put that spider in his mouth. oh my goodness..i post many of your articles on my facebook to teach some of my relatives who arent members of the church about our church. many of them were teachers so i know they will love this story. thank you very much.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 29, 2021
I think this is a good example of how quotes or stories we read can be misunderstood. If we come to a conclusion that is out of harmony with the scriptures and what our Prophet teaches, we need to stop and rethink our interpretation. We also need to be careful about passing on stories or quotes that seem questionable. As Latter-day-Saints we must not be gullible. Always check out sources. Beware of stories that begin with: "My neighbor's sister said, " etc.
Theodore BrandleySeptember 29, 2021
I have been interested in this Russian Ten Tribes hypothesis since 1973 when I read Canadian author, Farley Mowat’s, " Sibir: My Discovery of Siberia". The indigenous tribes of Siberia were isolated from world history until the Cossacks breached the Ural Mountains and raped and pillaged them for “soft gold,” the Sable Mink, at about the same time that the Conquistadores were doing the same thing to the American Natives for hard gold. Some of these Siberian Tribes are white-skinned, blond and blue eyed. The Yakut tribe has a legend that long ago their leader, a chief named Elai, led his people from middle-Asia until they reached the banks of the Lena river. Elai carried with him the maxims of their people engraved on a stone tablet. When he saw the flowing water of the Lena he flung in the tablet and gave the order that this is where they were to stay (Sibir: My Discovery of Siberia, Farley Mowat, 1973, page 172). “26 And they who are in the north countries shall come in remembrance before the Lord; and their prophets shall hear his voice, and shall no longer stay themselves; and they shall smite the rocks, and the ice shall flow down at their presence.” (D&C 133:26) As this revelation was given from the Lord in 1831, we may safely conclude that “they who are in the north countries,” were still mostly there at that time. Notice that “the ice shall flow down at their presence.” This means that they are in an area of considerable ice, perhaps a normally permanent ice, or permafrost, that miraculously melts at that time. Going north and east the Tribes would have entered the Siberian Basin which is a huge bowl, larger than the United States, surrounded by the Ural Mountains on the west and the Steppes and the Sayan Mountains on the south. Back to D&C 133, notice that the Tribes from the North are to come to America before they return to Jerusalem. 27 And an ahighway shall be cast up in the midst of the great deep. 28 Their enemies shall become a prey unto them, 29 And in the abarren deserts there shall come forth pools of bliving water; and the parched ground shall no longer be a thirsty land. 30 And they shall bring forth their rich atreasures unto the children of Ephraim, my servants. 31 And the boundaries of the everlasting ahills shall tremble at their presence. 32 And there shall they fall down and be acrowned with glory, even in Zion, by the hands of the servants of the Lord, even the children of bEphraim. (D&C 133:27:32) There is only one body of water on the planet that could rightly be referred to as the “Great Deep” and that is the Pacific Ocean. A highway, or a land bridge is to be cast up for them to come to boundaries of the everlasting hills, or Rocky Mountains, and receive their Temple Ordinances under the hands of Ephraim. The only way this can work is if they come out of Siberia and therefore, we may conclude that is where many of them are. It is probable that the Mongols, just south of Siberia are also a remnant of the Lost Tribes.
Alan FlemingSeptember 29, 2021
A great point you make. In the April 2020, Gen. Conf. as the Covid pandemic was beginning President Nelson gave a talk in which he made 4 promises. Three of those promises, which we should read and ponder on, were in relation to this statement, "What will happen as you more intentionally hear, hearken, and heed what the Savior has said and what He is saying now through His prophets?" Yet many latter-day saints following April 2020 have chosen not to hear, hearken, and heed what Pres. Nelson has urged us to do. Our choice.
Jo Ann OkelberrySeptember 29, 2021
I so agree with this article. Children deserve a mother and a father who are married and love their children. Children shouldn't have to be the parents.
Vivian M AdamsSeptember 29, 2021
Good laugh!
Todd GalbraithSeptember 29, 2021
A heart-breaking topic, fairly and compassionately addressed. Thank you.
ObserverSeptember 29, 2021
There is an historical tradition that Christ visited the Lake Baikal region of Russia also. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lake_Baikal#Historical_traditions
Dorica Glassford Robertson (born Fras)September 29, 2021
I am of the House of Dan and come from Slovenia.
JozsSeptember 29, 2021
I have 4 now adult siblings adopted from Eastern Europe. Patriarchal blessings say they were adopted into Ephraim. One son says he has two tribes- Dan and Ephraim. He acts quite differently in his home country compared to USA home. Quite remarkable. 3/4 Russian lines.
J.L. GuinnSeptember 29, 2021
Really loved your article and agree that our young people must be prepared so they can stand firm. In a Sunday School lesson I was teaching recently I was instructing my young teens about going on a mission. I was telling them that they can't wait to the last minute to prepare and was citing the different areas that they must learn about and practice. One of them was learning the Bible because most of the people they would encounter would have questions about that book and would probably have not read the Book of Mormon. Go prepared to face the world by learning as much as you can to stand on your beliefs. Knowledge is power.
LexaGraemeSeptember 28, 2021
Thank you. I appreciate when folklore is debunked.
Debra AlmacheSeptember 28, 2021
Out of the mouth of 2 or 3 witnesses shall ever word be established. The prophet is the first witness, the Holy Ghost is the second, and you are then a witness too.
Joanne KappSeptember 27, 2021
In complete agreement. So thankful someone with clout is speaking up.
Douglas E NadybalSeptember 27, 2021
The writer is arguing both for pedagogy more inclusive of differing world views while at the same time advocating for more exposure to material more typically LDS. You see, you can either go to the gas station and fill the tank and then drive, or you can drive and then stop at the gas station, but you can't do both at the same time!
Jill PalmerSeptember 27, 2021
At BYU in 1968, my first Book of Mormon class taught by Dr Glen Pearson was a real eye-opener and I wondered what had struck me! This class and another, "Teachings of the living prophets", were so valuable in opening my eyes to socialism and communism and the differences between them and the United Order/Law of Consecration. Today, I feel for Church members who do not know the difference. I agree with you that BYU has a valuable role in arming students against worldly philosophies and practices.
Elizabeth SSeptember 27, 2021
Great essay. I received bachelors and Masters degrees in English from BYU, but found that with one exception all my teachers tended to avoid analyzing literature through an LDS lens. When I got to law school at another university, I wished that I had had some comparative analysis of modern and postmodern philosophies that could easily have occurred when I studied literature.
DavidSeptember 27, 2021
I totally agree with this article. I’d like to see the church clean house at BYU. There is definitely no shame in enforcing its curriculum and it’s ideology. I think the gospel should be central to every course. BYU is it’s flagship school. I was there over 30 years ago. It wasn’t fighting so hard against political correctness and moral relativism back then. But it is one of the churches most known entities and I believe it should do better at preparing its alumni to face these challenges going forward.
DavidSeptember 27, 2021
It seems to me that there are many professors that are doing an excellent job of exposing BYU students to many -isms. But unfortunately instead of teaching them so as to be able to arm them to be able to argue against them effectively they are taught to them as truth. The Church needs to clean house or rid itself of BYU which is headed rapidly to becoming just another secular university.
Kelton ToblerSeptember 27, 2021
I agree that exposure to viewpoints in competition with secular and religious truths—with a view to affirming those truths and aiding their defense—can be a valuable component of an academically and spiritually edifying undergraduate education at BYU. The best time to learn something about Christian and specifically Latter-day-Saint apologetics may not be while under surprise attack in post-college years. BYU professors are ideally as intelligently faithful as they are highly educated. It can help students to hear how their teachers' faith has come through the refiner's fire of opposition.
SaraLyn BaxterSeptember 27, 2021
I agree completely! It seems like the perfect balance. We have such a unique opportunity at church schools— unique especially in this day— to examine more religious content through a scholarly and restored gospel lens, and to help develop thinking that can explore and argue against false ideologies popular in our day. Thank you for this thoughtful article.
Gary LawrenceSeptember 27, 2021
Spot on, Daniel. Thank you.
MeSeptember 27, 2021
There are plenty of professors there that teach against capitalism and for socialism.
Harold RustSeptember 27, 2021
Well, I'm 78 years old and started substitute teaching in our local school district four years ago---and I love it. For "old folks like me", your example is one of several that keeps us going. Your reflections have a fresh and youthful touch that does keep them relevant and inspiring. So...continue stirring the pot and we'll continue watching your example.
Duane BoyceSeptember 27, 2021
Amen. Very true and very well said, Dan.
Cynthia M. MoorheadSeptember 27, 2021
Be grateful you are old, because you and I are among the lucky ones who know what it is like to live in relative freedom. BYU is a great school, but too many there stand in awe of Harvard and other institutions that promote Marxism. Too many of our children are fans of the socialist/Marxist left and have become "for themselves." They will suffer for it. So will we.
Katherine CrapoSeptember 26, 2021
I think if I were in that situation I would consider adopting the children. Being a part-time caregiver i think would be more difficult than being completely in charge and being able to creatively provide a loving, structured, consistent environment for these children. Sometimes the seemingly harder path turns out to be the most fulfilling and in the end easier one. If your brother-in-law or husband balks, your offer would only serve to awaken them to the heavy responsibility it is to care for a family.
Linda in TexasSeptember 25, 2021
Since immunity from having the disease is many times more powerful than the vaccinations, where does that come in the calculations?
Bob AillerySeptember 25, 2021
I appreciate the insights this story gives us. Even though my wife and I haven't the exact same challenge this good Sister has, I learned through this article the basic marital struggles they have are perhaps common to all of us. Thank you for this.
Doris WilliamsSeptember 25, 2021
I look forward to Geoff's article each week so much. I really admire his insights into human behavior and he really blows me away by his empathy and suggestions to help in really difficult situations. The world would be a much better, loving place if we could clone him!!! Thank you Geoff for sharing some of your "cases" with us. I'm sure it gives us all increased understanding and the desire to improve our own interpersonal skills.
CBSeptember 24, 2021
Excellent as always! Thank you
Jean PetersenSeptember 24, 2021
It was over 50 years ago I was introduced to a book and a course called "Fascinating Womanhood" by Helen B. Andelin. I can say that the principles she taught were correct and nothing else will be as effective in helping a marriage as learning to be fascinating to your husband. Living all of the principles of the gospel are vital to this success. We have been married 56 years now. My husband and I have had many challenges in life. We adore each other and look forward to being together throughout eternity. Aubrey Andelin wrote a book called "Man of Steel and Velvet" teaching correct principles for a man to know what he can do to be admired by his wife. A woman's greatest desire in life is to be loved, a man's is to be admired.
LMSeptember 24, 2021
The comments warranted reading more than the article, which was a too-typical example of beating around the stats without actually answering important questions such as: "How do you ethically justify your position when the hospitalization rates of fully vaccinated people in countries such as Israel (or even read the CDC's own admission of 74% in their article below) show that vaccination does not prevent infection with COVID?" https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/70/wr/mm7031e2.htm
Maryann TaylorSeptember 24, 2021
One of the best methods of strengthening yourself is to be aware of your thoughts. When you notice you are thinking negative thoughts about yourself, or your life--HANG UP! Just like you would if someone called you on your phone every 5 minutes and told you something negative about yourself. Then choose a simple positive thought to hold in your heart, such as : "The Lord always loves me, even when I make mistakes." "The Lord is helping to carry this infirmity that I suffer with." "The Lord feels my pain and He has great compassion for me." "The Lord knows EVERYTHING about me and understands." Choose your positive thought and, as you hold one simple positive thought in your mind, notice how you feel. Even if you don't believe the positive thought, you will usually feel a warm feeling. Keep telling yourself these positive things--it doesn't matter whether you believe it right now. Just hold that thought in your heart.
Ruth J.September 24, 2021
When my daughter was about 3 years old we had just finished an addition to our home. She would now have her own bedroom instead of sharing one with a sibling. Now in her own room, night after night she would wake up scared at now being alone. She would come into our room and wake me up saying, "Mommy I am scared." I would take her back into her room and say a prayer with her that she would feel safe and sleep well. This went on for weeks. Then one morning I realized that the night before she hadn't woken up scared. I said, "Wow, you didn't wake up last night. I am so proud of you staying in your room." She just casually as could be responded, "I woke up and I was scared last night. I just said my own prayer and then Jesus came and gave me a hug. Jesus protected me and made me feel safe." I was so struck by her comment I didn't know what to say for a moment. I paused, and then asked her, "What did he look like?" She said, "He was dressed in white and had white hair and blue eyes." That gave me tingles. I knew that what she said was true. Jesus had come to her last night. He had given her a hug and made her feel safe. We had never talked to her or shown her pictures of Jesus with white hair. But in the scriptures the resurrected Jesus is described as having white hair and brilliant blue eyes. In the temple Jesus is also shown this way. I knew that the only way she could know this is that she did actually see him. It touched my heart so much. Jesus loves his little ones so dearly that he will come to them to bring comfort.
Sasha KwapinskiSeptember 24, 2021
Since church critics keep bringing up the name of Oliver Granger, then perhaps we can say that this is one way in which the prophecy (of his name being remembered) is being fulfilled.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 24, 2021
One of the ways I prepare for general conf is to pray for our Prophet and all who will be speaking or participating in any way. I pray that they will be strengthened physically and spiritually. I also pray for their families. This is an important way for me to uphold our leaders through my faith. I believe it also strengthens me in being willing to receive and follow their counsel.
CubbySeptember 24, 2021
Samoa did much the same, praying for protection from Covid in March 2020. The entire nation was invited to join. As a missionary, I choose to join them in unity and faith. The islands of Samoa are Covid free, and so am I. For me it has been an incredible experience as I have not only been protected, but the Lord has guided me in assisting my family who has gone through the experience of covid. I was inspired to make covid kits and deliver them, one two days before the entire family came down with it. They had just moved and thought they had nothing until they opened the box. For one person who had it, I was inspired to purchase an air filter. I was even inspired as to exactly which air cleaner I was to purchase. As I brought it home, I wondered why. There was no need for it. Then about a week later the fires hit both Idaho and Utah. Compromised lungs for my family were blessed and I knew why the prompting. When the vaccines came out I prayed yes, or no. For me, the answer was yes. Then I prayed asking which of the three in the USA was available. I signed up for one, but again a small miracle as a different one was presented, the feeling was strong and we took it. I do not tell which one because I believe different people’s bodies respond best. To different vaccines and encourage all to pray. This week Samoa had two special days where everyone stayed home and the medical people went to everyone’s homes who still needed a vaccination. Given my experience, Imam sue French Polynesia will also experience many wonderful small events telling them quietly that the Lord heard them and is at their side.
KathySeptember 24, 2021
He is simply a sperm donor with no intent to create a family, nothing more than a one night stand. I see no reason to develop a relationship and upset his marriage of45 years.
Gary LawrenceSeptember 23, 2021
To Dianna J. Currie: Email me at [email protected] and let me see if I can help.
AJ CurrieSeptember 23, 2021
Unfortunately, the 'breakdown of the family' is not the core problem. If one were to ask why families are 'breaking down', the answer would have to do with their loss of gospel truths due to godlessness (maybe caused by the loss of fundamental truths taught by Jesus Christ). At any rate, if a fix for any modern-day woe does not include fidelity to the teachings of Jesus Christ, you know it is not 'the solution' to the problem. It might make the problem less, but it will not cure the problem.
Karl FarnsworthSeptember 23, 2021
I remember the name of Oliver Granger very well. A young Elder by that same name was one of my Assistants when I was serving as the Mission President in the California Los Angeles Mission in 1993. He was a decendent of the Oliver Granger of whom this article refers to and was an outstanding missionary and servant of the Lord. His only desire was to serve in the same fashion as his name sake.
LexaGraemeSeptember 23, 2021
I'm horrified and laughing at the same time. Can't wait for Part 3!
L GoldadeSeptember 23, 2021
I’m diabetic and unfortunately had my two children in the car with me when I drove off the road with low blood sugar. An ambulance took me to the hospital and a friend driving behind me on the road took my children with her to the hospital. Later, my 3 year old son, Garrett, said to me: “Mom I did just what Jesus told me to do”. When I asked him what Jesus said, he told me: “Jesus told met to stand right next to the car and stay off the road”. How could I doubt my son? Jesus was there to make sure our children were safe!
dCylSeptember 23, 2021
"Further, an EUA cannot be allowed if a safe and effective treatment is already available. Many doctors claim there is such a protocol. So what is really going on?" Those doctors aren't being honest with you.
Martha ClantonSeptember 23, 2021
This was just what I needed to read this morning. Thank you so very much for all that you do to bring us such uplifting material.
RMBSeptember 23, 2021
6 months pregnant, an apendectomy and a serious infection and I left the hospital room to visit with Him. He showed me my baby girl and told me I had to go back and that I had lots of work still to do. I will never forget that amazing experience. Thank you for the stories of the children with Jesus. He loves us all so very much.
Kristen KriegSeptember 23, 2021
A recent plan for a 'greener' meetinghouse was named after Oliver Granger. Hence, there are "Granger" style meetinghouses in various places now. I think the first one was built in Farmington, UT. It was inspired that this meetinghouse plan should carry Oliver Granger's name!
John R CarpenterSeptember 23, 2021
FamilySearch has accomplished an amazing task. It is much improved over its humble beginnings on line. Now if only they can straighten out all the copyright and use issues. And improve its search engine so the "public" at home can have access to ALL of those microfilms that have been digitized.
Helen CondonSeptember 23, 2021
Thank you for this insight into Father’s personal relationship with each one of us. My name is registered not only on the records of His Son’s Church, but also in my patriarchal blessing. While neither of these sources are exactly canonized, they are certainly sacred, at least to me. I recently testified that just as everyone at an old friend’s funeral declared themselves his best friend, so are each and every one of us friends to our Father and our Savior.
Diane IrwinSeptember 23, 2021
Anne, these stories are so tender! What a wonderful testimony that Jesus LIVES!!! Thanks so much for sharing.
Herm OlsenSeptember 23, 2021
Amen and Amen! Thank you, Brethren!
DebbieSeptember 22, 2021
I have enjoyed reading every article you have written. This one is my favorite. I am one who has propagated the idea that brain chemistry is to blame for depression. I will no longer dispense that falsehood. I have suffered from depression since I was 4 years old. After a pregnancy I spent 13 years in bed with suicidal ideation. The Lord finally took away my Suicidal Thoughts but I still struggle today and assumed that could never change. Thank you for such a thoughtful, informative, and compassionate letter. It makes me want to try again to h e a l.
John R. HillSeptember 22, 2021
Elder Callister's article on the Constitution, as well as the last General Conference talk by President Dallin Oaks on the same subject, are sorely needed in our culture at a time when our democratic principles and norms are under assault. We have seen recently a former president of the United States go to extraordinary and extra-legal lengths to overturn the results of the 2020 election---thereby trashing the Constitution and the very nation he had vowed to make great again. He has pursued this course---not with the support of the judiciary or the military, but with the support of his party's base of loyal voters and supporters. Whatever happened to the democratic principle of accepting peacefully the results of elections? I love how Elder Callister ended his poignant article. Quoting President Benson's statement that the in the latter days, the Constitution "will be saved by enlightened members of this Church---men and women who will subscribe to and abide the principles of the Constitution"---Elder Callister hopes that includes you and me.
JenSeptember 22, 2021
“Pro-choice” is a misnomer! “Pro-murder” is the correct name.
MikeSeptember 22, 2021
I am going to disagree. My sainted grandmother graduated from nursing school a year before the Spanish influenza. She saved many lives and helped many more into their transition to the next life, including both of her parents. She raised her children during the Great Depression. When grandfather had a stroke and couldn't work as hard, they lost the dairy farm. They moved into the little rock house up in the mountains in a climate about like Sundance Ski resort. They had 5 rocky acres and grew quite a bit of their food. They raised chickens, cows and a pig. Her sons poached an occasional deer when their was no meat left. The 3 room rock house was the size of a one car garage with 2 bedrooms and a kitchen. They had no electricity, and heated it with a wood/coal stove. They had a spring right outside the door and the privy was a short walk away. They raised their 9 children there. The little ones slept in the same room with the parents and up to 5 girls in one bed in the other room. The boys slept outside on the back porch. When grandma's sister was killed, the grieving louse of a husband left their 6 poorly disciplined children with grandma and ran off to a life of adventure in California. Her 2 oldest daughters married young. One to a drunk who beat her. She moved back to the rock house with her 2 children and her ex-husband's illegitimate child from a 15 year old girl. One teenage daughter got pregnant by a soldier home on leave at a similar age and eventually they married after the war, but she lived in the rock house, with a baby. Grandma's 4 sons and 4 sons-in-law fought in WWII. Her oldest son was missing in action for 3 years and came home with severe shell-shock after spending the time hiding in the jungle and as a prisoner of war. He never fully recovered. Her second son was wounded in the battle of the bulge. One son-in-law lost his legs in Italy and another lost an eye and his hearing. Her youngest, the smallest and scrappiest of the boys, was 1 of only 3 out of a group of about 50 guys in his unit to make it home alive, with terrible scars on his face. A group of 3 pregnant Japanese women were hiding nearby in the mountains because they did not want to have their babies in a prison camp. Grandma gave them food and firewood and delivered their babies. She got other ladies in the tiny town to help them. One day she went to visit them and found them all dead. She got blamed for "poisoning the japs," but was never prosecuted for it. When I came along, life had improved. They had a better house, financed by the soldiers pay the 8 boys had saved. I knew all of these people and the next generation were my cousins. I got the impression that the years in the rock house were the happiest times of their lives. I guess bad experiences do make for great memories. When it comes to children, especially close kin, there are no self-focused boundaries and no legalistic excuses. If the original parents can't cut it (or won't) people like my grandmother have to step in. Else the problems get magnified each generation. A few of my cousins went on to do great things. Most are living normal lives. One became a gangster, killed and raped people, and died in a shoot-out. A couple struggled and eventually overcame alcohol or drug abuse. A handful got pregnant before marriage. Most but not all of the boys served missions. A few had divorces. Grandma made a huge difference, down to the 3rd and 4th generation. These numbers would have been markedly skewed the other direction without her sacrifice. This challenge is an opportunity for you to be, not just a good person, but a saint. The children will pay you back for your efforts, one way or another. Image being there for their graduation, from school or prison, the birth of their children, into a loving marriage or into desperate conditions. Take the long view; not weeks and months, but decades and generations.
Jim ScottSeptember 22, 2021
The numbers are enormous and victims are hurt and seeking retribution. I keep thinking the vultures are gathering. How many victims are opportunists, how many lawyers are opportunists. Class actions are way too flimsy in their character and not all cases are as egregious as others. Proofs can’t be investigated as thoroughly as they might be were the numbers smaller. I can see where actions in court will last until the last piece of furniture is sold the last pencil is gone to exact the full measure of punishment meted out. Justice seems a long way away from exacting punishment of the perpetrators. Does $10,000 assuage my crippled conscience? Is my claim so valid is my hate so huge as to jeopardize any future good. The BSA lead thousands to achieve to grow to anchor to contribute to succeed that a few would destroy the sum of contribution. Winnow the claim, get past the inner anger and cling to the good given by membership.
KristenSeptember 22, 2021
Good question from Lawrence. We can't help but wonder what is really going on, when we know there are affordable, effective, and safe treatments out there.
craigSeptember 22, 2021
The chances the Supreme Court overturn Roe v Wade are slim to none. They established the right to abortion in Roe, and upheld Roe as constitutional precedent in Casey v Planned Parenthood. The leftists judges of Kagan, Breyer, Sotomayor, will never vote to overturn Roe. Chief Justice Roberts will probably agree with them in order to prevent attacks on the court that could lead to court packing. It's also likely that justice Gorsuch will go along under the philosophy of stare decesis. That leaves only justices Kavanaugh, Barret, Thomas, and Alito. So based on this assessment the challenge to Roe will fail 5-4. And truth be told many pro lifers would prefer this. After if Roe were to be overturned they'd be out of work. Roe's existence fuels their fundraising and keeps them politically relevant.
Jim ScottSeptember 22, 2021
If you had a cold, I’d recommend aspirin, liquids, rest and sleep, if you were bleeding, I’d see to a cold compress or even a hospital, if you arm or leg were broken I’d see to your comfort and care at a facility, if you were cold I’d find a way to warm you, if you needed to be somewhere I’d arrange for transport. But, I can’t “see” mental illness, where’s the blood, the crooked arm or leg, where’s the touch point to comfort, where’s the place to which you need transport. I take personal any that can’t cope, have difficulties moving or reacting. Helpless I’d try to encourage or reach out but find myself at a loss for words so come up with bland generalities and never reach the point of cure. So, forgive my clumsiness my seeming lack of caring or my ignorance of your plight and only know each life is valuable to someone, even when alone. God is in his heaven and loves each of us. That you may find that vessel of care and coping is in my heart and prayer.
Jim McEwenSeptember 22, 2021
An interesting and well organized article. Another very telling story would be one where it is reported how much money the attorneys personally gain from the settlements. Collectively and individually. Then compare that to what each victim will receive.
Charles DEFRANCHISeptember 22, 2021
Some members of my family have been plagued with various forms of depression across generations. Positive mental attitude won't do for chemically-induced depression, and some patients, especially bipolar ones, may have to rely on lithium-based medicine, in order to retain their sanity. Popular LDS writer and former Mission President Brent Top, who experienced depression in his own life, insisted that his depressed missionaries take their prescription drugs in order to respect the Word of Wisdom. Further, the science of depression has made significant progress in recent years, with better tools for diagnosis and better remedies. Let's never underestimate that in order to find balance and serenity into our own lives or that of affected relatives.
Susan ZmolekSeptember 22, 2021
Thank you for answering the very questions on my mind, in this complicated mess. God's eventual justice is certain, the damage to those abused is real, and at least my church is offering to do its fair share to compensate victims. Although it is beyond the scope of this essay, the Church can also be commended for its clear and direct efforts to prevent all future instances of victimization by responsibly requiring double-manning at every level of youth programs -- from the youngest Sunday school class up to teen camping activities. Vigilance and changes in culture will accomplish even more than the compensation to victims of abuse.
Ann-Marie JensenSeptember 21, 2021
The House of Representatives is to represent the people, not fight the people.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 21, 2021
While I heartily agree that we need to reach out in love and include others, I rarely read anything about the effort that needs to take place on the part of the person who feels "left out." Don't we each have accountability for our own happiness---for reaching out ourselves instead of always expecting others to continuously draw us in? I have heard all too often the complaint that: "The ward just isn't friendly," or "No one spoke to me today." The obvious question is: "Did YOU speak to them?" Did YOU look around for someone who might need YOUR fellowship?" Seems to me this is a two-way street. If you feel you don't belong, maybe it's time to stop thinking about yourself and reach out to others.
JaniceSeptember 21, 2021
Excellent. Thank you. I feel a FHE lesson coming on!
JeannieSeptember 21, 2021
Take control of this situation! Instead of agreeing to babysit at anytime, tell your husband and brother in law both of the weekends you are available for the next 6 months--that might be one weekend, or more--but you set the calendar. If the brother in law needs help during a time when you are not available, then your husband can watch the children or the brother in law will have to make other arrangements. You also probably know this, but the brother in law is not your major issue here--it is the lack of respect and consideration from your husband. I am guessing that there are other issues in your marriage with your husband besides being taken advantage of by the brother in law. You are in charge of you and you and your husband need to work some things out. God bless you in your charity--but don't put your own health at risk. Take charge of this situation. You can do this and set your own boundaries!
Hal LillywhiteSeptember 21, 2021
But don't forget that during much of Brother Brigham's life, the typical treatment a doctor would provide was to bleed the patient. They believed that helped, but we have to suspect that draining a pint or two (maybe more) of badly needed blood did not help the patient. Modern allotropic medicine was in its infancy.
JaneSeptember 21, 2021
This is fascinating and insightful. Gave me a lot of food for thought. No surprise that it came from FAIR!
Dianna J. CurrieSeptember 21, 2021
Being a convert (joined at 30 years old) I wish I had been given this so I could have expressed my thinking in an easy manner. I love this concept, I want to know how to use it, I haven't figured that out yet. I will figure it out! I have family, and friends I want to share this with.
A. BinghamSeptember 21, 2021
THANK YOU for this rational, logical and evidence-based rebuttal. Dr. Park's piece was yet another hit propaganda, sloppy at best, was only meant to divide. And certainly below the standard of academic prowess the good Dr. prides himself on. It was terribly sloppy and Dr. Park will continue to embarrass himself if he continues to claim this was a sound academic/scientific piece. Frankly this is on the order of a D rated movie or poor attempt to craft a fictitious article on the order of your average gossip magazine. It is sad Dr. Park has sunk this low. Of course those who enjoy and drink this type of emotional, venomous frontal attack without even basic logic and importantly sound evidence, have drunk the koolaid and enjoy fomenting contention without merit.
Aleisa EatonSeptember 21, 2021
So well written! Thank you for your research and gift of writing.
Ken NoelSeptember 21, 2021
Yes, I would like the opportunity to buy a copy of the book. The realization that I truly am a son the the Eternal Father helps me be optimistic while facing the frustrations and pains of mortality.
Tristen SmithSeptember 21, 2021
Wonderful article. Thank you for sharing the data, which disproves Park's claims.
Carolyn R LeeSeptember 21, 2021
Whenever I see Tad Callister's name, I know it will be worthwhile to read. This article should be in the Liahona so that every member of the Church would see and read it. I'm sending it to my grandchildren to help them know how to better defend the history of our country and the inspired documents of the founding, Thank you, Brother Callister!
Lawrence J SteimleSeptember 21, 2021
" if we don’t actively seek and obtain good information and use our minds to their full capacity, then “false information flourishes”..." Here is some good information... https://rumble.com/vlpecw-the-story-of-ivermectin.html Perhaps the best I've seen.
Des BromilowSeptember 21, 2021
hats off to your father for introducing you to Tom Lehrer!!!! I would love to be as observant and eloquent in showing how the world is... but in Tom's own words, it's a moot point in this current day and age.
AJ CurrieSeptember 20, 2021
Wonderfully written article discussing a complex, emotionally-charged topic with tangled legal responsibilities. I think the author has done a wonderfully even-handed job of explaining things to we who are not schooled in the law. The only clear issue in this case is the morally repugnant, criminal behavior or the perps. It is wonderful to know that despite the heartaches and troubles created by the perpetrators, the Savior will eventually heal all the victims and any repentant perps.
Douglas E NadybalSeptember 20, 2021
This to me is like the Articles of Faith but in the form of a multi choice test. Another way is to simply hand the person a list of statements of belief and vote yes or no. The risk of course is that if one scores low there would be a tendency to dismiss the LDS faith is viable for them. But the essence of being converted is that we allow our view to change, and this does nothing to achieve that. Simple, but how effective really?
ChrisSeptember 20, 2021
Beautifully articulate
Douglas E NadybalSeptember 20, 2021
My first take away from this fine article is that my take away is probably based on my pre-existing world view and therefore is probably wrong. That said, I am comforted by having read all 13 pages and look forward to part two. It seems to me that most everybody having the non mormon world view has found that they can get away with bashing mormon culture. Doing so won't get you kicked out as opposed to the more direct attacks on Church policy, leaders, etc. But attacking Mormon culture really affects me more, because it is personal, and opposed to theoretical or what is another persons ideas. So, now I have a short rebuttal to defend myself and ourselves with... maybe there is nothing wrong with Mormon culture, maybe something is wrong with your world view of Mormon culture. Let them stew on that.
C> M HowserSeptember 20, 2021
Wonderful to read - thank you for reminding us of the beautiful constitution and how fortunate we are to live today under the umbrella of such guidance.
Jo Ann OkelberrySeptember 20, 2021
Thank you for this very informative article. Child abuse is such a terrible sin.
Lawrence J SteimleSeptember 20, 2021
There is a great deal of information online that questions the safety and efficacy of these experimental inoculations. When they are promoted under an Emergency Use Authorization (EUA) and the manufacturers are given protection against lawsuits for any adverse reactions, it gives one pause. Further, an EUA cannot be allowed if a safe and effective treatment is already available. Many doctors claim there is such a protocol. So what is really going on?
Jill AndrewsSeptember 20, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have been interested in better understanding what a world view is and how it affects our beliefs and choices and this has done it in a way that explains so much! Thank you very very much- I will be thinking and learning much more on this. Thank you in advance for part two!
carolSeptember 20, 2021
You can make all the laws or statements you want to help the marginalized but what it really comes down to is the individual - we each have to love our brothers and sisters as God does - and you can't make that a law. Lets all step up and truly be a child of God and love our brothers and sisters as we love ourselves and Him.
Emily M.September 19, 2021
I'm adding in my strong support that the wife needs to set boundaries with her husband, and they both need to set boundaries with the brother-in-law. I have been discussing this with my own therapist. She told me to think of all the times in the temple where God sets boundaries. It's actually pretty stunning, everything from boundaries on when the world is created, to getting to stay in Eden, to casting out evil. God is a God of boundaries. And, as His children, He is setting an example for us to place and hold our boundaries as well. I have since started reading the Book of Mormon through the lens of how God sets boundaries and it's very, very illuminating. This appears in the Book of Mormon too, where King Benjamin tells his people that they need to serve others but do so in wisdom and in order, and not run faster than they have strength. Wisdom and order means that it's okay and important to set boundaries on service. I completely agree that this is no longer a situation of acute need. It's chronic. The husband and the brother-in-law may resist setting boundaries, but that is still what needs to happen here. What's a realistic amount that their family can be involved with the children and not burn out? This is a hard situation since the wife does not have the kind of support she needs from her husband. I hope that he reads this and realizes that, while his heart has been in the right place, with a desire to serve, it's simply not right to place his brother above his wife in her divine need to set and hold boundaries here.
DJSeptember 18, 2021
This is great non-threatening way to encourage curiosity about religious thought and the gospel. Is there a way to make it more sharable for social media?
Pauline HarrySeptember 17, 2021
Interesting isn’t it?
LindaSeptember 17, 2021
It's easy. Stop being a doormat, and tell him NO.
MaureenSeptember 17, 2021
Great article, reminding us to think about how we come to think about the questions we have and why those are our particular questions in this time and place. After 74 years of absorbing the culture(s) I live in and/or have seen or read about, it's still not always evident the way these assumed values morph over time, nor how very different they may be among God's children across the earth. Good to be reminded now and then.
Diane IrwinSeptember 17, 2021
This is fantastic! I just copied the URL of the website and posted it to my Facebook page, with a comment asking folks to comment on it!!
Mary ColemereSeptember 17, 2021
Lynne, as usual you are right on! Thank you for posting this article. It is time for everyone posting on facebook (including myself) to think hard about whether it is advisable to post a strongly worded, abusive opinion. We should think about who, or what group of people, it could possibly offend. Thank you!!
Janna Stout MorrellSeptember 17, 2021
Such an Excellent and well-thought article! As I began reading, several things occurred to me. Firstly, I loved how this author states that really only being truly converted will enable us to prioritize our thinking and perhaps reorder our worldview using the lens of the Gospel. I think of the people mocking and pointing fingers from the “great and spacious building” of Lehi’s Dream. Many adopt a worldview because of the loud voices or shame which confuse or blur our lens. Our worldview is influenced by the culture of the community where we grow up. Our friends, school mates, teachers, and eventually our marriage partners and their family’s views can have so much influence on how we think. It underscores the importance of choosing wisely our closest associations. Most importantly, good parental examples and intentional Gospel teaching will make all the difference in In our children’s lives, helping them form their worldview according to the teachings of Jesus Christ.
kim mossSeptember 17, 2021
This a great thing, well done. I do have a question about the two web sites included in the article. Neither of them work. Or am I doing something wrong? Thanks, Kim Moss
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 17, 2021
Very good article. We're experiencing the LGBT+ problem in our family, and it is not easy. Can't wait to read Part 2.
CarolSeptember 17, 2021
This sounds so very interesting and such a great way to find out, without pressure, the truth about the LDS faith. It may bring up things you would not think of or feel comfortable in asking friends or missionaries.
Ayse KOCHSeptember 17, 2021
Thses articles have given me much to think about and peruse in myself... we all may take part in several world views just to get along in society. Thank you for presenting the various worldviews which conflict with our Gospel view. I believe that should be our priority in every aspect of what we think, do and act. IYet, i seems to me being cognizant that other views may be other people's priority can help to be more compassionate and understanding with them.
Ed JesseeSeptember 17, 2021
Great concept, article and approach for introducing basic Gospel Principles to others.
FelicitySeptember 17, 2021
I think that it's very unfair of the brother-in-law to expect his family to watch his children. This is his lot in life to take care of his children and yes, granted neither he nor the children asked for the wife and mom to pass away. This dear sister's husband is just as selfish as his brother expecting his wife to take care of the children. It has already built up resentment and her needs, like so many sisters, are not taken into account. I don't know if her question has been adequately answered considering that she suffers from mental fatigue which is what I would call it. Telling her to put her foot down and discuss this with her husband to find a solution means that all the responsibility and the stress falls on her which is unfair considering that she is the one who is left with the children. Personally, I would pack up my children and move to one of her family members for a little while so that her husband and his brother can sort things out. Why are men so selfish and demanding and yes, this is a broad statement as I know some are exceptionally kind and supportive.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
I LOVED your statement that we define marriage as between a man and a woman because that is what GOD IS. We want to be like our Heavenly parents. I am sure one of the reasons we shouted for joy in our pre-mortal life at the prospect of coming to earth is because we would have the opportunity to be married and have children, thereby following the pattern set by God himself. Everything that we are asked to do by our Savior is with the single purpose of helping us to become more like our Heavenly Father and to enjoy the kind of life he lives. Beautiful!
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
This is the best article I have read on this subject. Making our sexuality the most important facet of who we ARE is divisive, and also detracts from the fact that we are, first and foremost, children of God. When we embrace the gospel of Christ, we covenant to give up anything and everything that is not in harmony with his divine plan. For single men and women, whether they are gay or straight, that means complete celibacy.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
I believe many leave the church because they are overwhelmed and stressed out by what they mistakenly believe is required of them. Instead of using the gospel for support, they carry it on their backs until they wear out. People who suffer from depression or have unrealistic expectations of themselves are especially vulnerable to this kind of burn-out. It is better to go without having a calling for a time than to leave the church. Satan loves to engage us in rigid "black & white" or "all or nothing" thinking. As members, we can help one another by avoiding this kind of teaching. We would all be a lot happier if we stopped comparing ourselves with others. We also need to let go of worrying about what others think of us and focus more on having a loving relationship with the Savior. He is patient. He is kind. He is happy with every small effort we make. When we do what we can reasonably do, he will make up the difference for us. We need to accept his gift.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
It is best to stay away from reading OR posting contentious social media posts altogether. Even if you don't add your own venom to the mix, the angry posts of others are going into your mind and planting ugly seeds there.
Maryann TaylorSeptember 17, 2021
The husband does not have the right to say "yes" to his brother regarding work that will actually be done by his wife. He seems to be more concerned about his brother than the health and well-being of his own wife. Since the brother has the means to provide childcare for his children, he is taking advantage of his brother and wife. This is especially troubling since some of his trips are for pleasure. It is not surprising that the brother had a falling out with other family members who previously cared for his children. Since the wife has already told her husband it is too much for her, she needs to be more assertive. The next time the husband says his wife will care for his brother's children, she might respond with, "Sorry, I am NOT taking care of the children. YOU will have to make other arrangements since YOU are the one who agreed." Sounds like this husband is guilt-driven, which has absolutely nothing to do with living the gospel of Jesus Christ.
KathleenSeptember 16, 2021
Both were BEAUTIFUL and spiritual
NED WINFIELD SCARISBRICKSeptember 16, 2021
Well said of our value systems in this life. A question...in the Church we are ask to be "worthy" of various activities. We are to partake of the sacrament worthily. We are to lives our so as to be worthy of the inspiration of the Holy Ghost and so forth. However we are not given the definition of constitutes being worthy. At what point to we become worthy and when do we become unworthy? Are we constantly moving from worthy to unworthy in the matter of minutes, days or some unknown amount of time. Is being worthy before God the same as being worthy in the Lord's Church and how is this defined?
Erik HansenSeptember 16, 2021
Well done study and address. It's great to see the doctrines of the Gospel further explained and defended in the real world --- Of course the application is what counts. I see that there are real people's problems, interpretations and actual events that are left out of the big educational explanations and intellectualism. Here are the things I hear in my world: "I am righteous. How can I show kindness or give to a person committing these serious sins. It's not right if I do." "In today's world the most money is given to rich and corrupt men. I want to see the poor receive." "Abortion is murder and no abortion is right regardless of circumstance." "I will always be stern with people to let them know that I disagree with their actions." "Am I a good Christian because of the politics in my life?" No one seems to think to, en masse, correct or encourage the many specific interpretations all around. It's too messy. To say "Follow the Spirit" isn't always helpful. It's easy to show doctrine in theory. It's hard to deal with real-life interpreting.
Leigh Ann SmithSeptember 16, 2021
I totally agree with Geoff's suggestion. We had custody of our three grandchildren for 4.5 years during our sons bittter divorce. His wife was an alcoholic/drug addict. she falsely accused our son of abuse and there was no evidence, and went to jail for a second dui, and lost their house due to prostitution after the judge awarded it to her. However, she left the state and her family helped her get a house and an attorney and she got the kids. We haven't spoken to the girls in almost 5 years. They wre 2,5 & 10 when we got them and almost 7, 11 and 15 when we lost them. The oldest, our grandson, was abused the worst because he openly wanted to leave and come back and he eventually ran away successfully and finally got an interview with the judge at 16 and never has to see her again. But those two girls have been raised by their sick, disfunctional mother and we have no right to even speak with them. It is better to show the tough love to the grown children when you have to and save the next generation. We don't regret for one minute anything we did in those 5 years we took care of those kids and never will, even though the court system failed them and us.
MarySeptember 16, 2021
A question I have often had is what about the women and men who have never had the opportunity to marry...they continue to date - always seeking for but never finding the person they wanted to marry? Or what about women and men who have lost their spouses to death or divorce. Surely they have a desire for the same serious relationship with someone again. Are they exempt from continuing to make moral decisions to remain celibate? I know many people who fall into these two categories who have chosen to live moral lives, choosing chasitity and waiting for the blessings that come and more that will come when staying close to the Savior. They live happy and productive and joyous lives. They don't feel denied any opportunity to move forward in the gospel plan. When a choice is made to justify the same gender path, it thwarts the Plan of Salvation and the Plan of Happiness...which are named thus for very specific reasons. To know that it can bring the peace and joy and comfort that comes when following the Savior's plan - to be redeemed from this mortal and imperfect being... and protect us and help us return to our Him. We all just keep trying no matter what our earthly trials are!
GinnySeptember 16, 2021
I love this article! After reading so many comments on social media that are less than kind, I have no desire to express an opinion. There is ALWAYS someone who will take exception to it and usually it not done kindly.
Kay RookhuyzenSeptember 16, 2021
This was a well thought post and I 100% agree. It is sad to see people--even my own sisters!--go crazy about political or COVID or vaccination stuff. They thing I'm crazy because they don't think I care. I do. I just don't let my feelings affect others, just not comfortable in case they don't agree. I'm tired of being told how I should feel!
Yves ValenSeptember 16, 2021
Excellent article.
Lee HillSeptember 16, 2021
Terrific article, Lynne! It made me realize I haven't always been very Christ-like in my social media posts. I have resolved more than once to either be more gentle in my posts / response to posts or just pass by offending posts without comment. I usually do well but could obviously do better. Thank you!
All the single ladiesSeptember 16, 2021
Re the comment “ A man who has no sexual attraction to women is not going to want to marry a women whether they could or could not do so in the temple under covenant. The same is true of a women who is not attracted physically to men. I don't believe the church policy encourages you to do that regardless just so you can be married in the temple. I believe the reason most gay and lesbian people leave the church is because they want an intimate serious relationship with someone of the same sex. The church does not condone this.” Consider for a moment the array of celibate heterosexual people in the church who wait decades looking for a spouse, some of whom never marry. They also do not marry or have fulfilling sex lives, but they exist and they make their choices based on their values. Many may quite correctly identify that a barrier to them finding a partner is their insistence on chastity in a world where this is not the norm. Just worth noting.
Sharee HughesSeptember 16, 2021
I went onto Amazon to order the ebook version of Heather's book, but it was about $20. To pay just a few dollars less for an ebook than a hardback is ridiculous I don't know if it's Heather who sets the price or Shadow Mountain, but that price needs to be reconsidered.
Bradley J. KramerSeptember 16, 2021
Excellent points and analysis. The Sermon on the Mount is often seen as advocating unconditional love. However, the point of removing impediments from one's vision of others is so that we can see them more clearly and help them repent, not simply accept them as they are. As Matthew 7:5 reads, "first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye."
KathleenSeptember 16, 2021
In theory, these ideas seem nice, but are wholly unrealistic, and frankly, they miss the reality of life as an LGBTQ+ member of the Church. No one is saying that a person's sexuality or gender identity is their whole identity. But it is also ludicrous to deny that it is an essential part of a person's identity. Being able to enjoy both full membership blessings while also having a deeply felt, intimate love relationship with the person of your choice is not a possibility for people who are only attracted to the same sex they are. This is a deep human need. THIS is why LGBTQ+ members are leaving the faith. It makes me so sad, and I don't have any answers, except that I know our Heavenly Father has it all figured out.
K. Chin, Modesto, CASeptember 15, 2021
I’ve often thought, why must one’s sexuality be the core component of one’s life, here, in Mortality? (I know of no doctrine that teaches our “sexuality” is THE MOST important component of what makes us mortal—and by “sexuality” I mean our individual preferences and “likes” in what, when, where, why, and how we choose to enjoy, express, and share ourselves sexually.) Could it be that in placing our sexuality BEFORE every other component of “who” we are…we “may” have inadvertently allowed Satan’s carefully laid plans (promoted over the earth’s millennia—and even before our pre-mortal existence) to have lead us to accomplish his selfish desire? Satan—through his agency—has removed himself from our Heavenly Parents’ love. We are taught, his ONLY desire is to make us, each, as miserable as he is. In manipulating us to make our “sexuality” so important, Satan has gotten us to turn our focus from the purpose of the Plan of Salvation, from its divine source, and our core identity…into bitter, painful contention and divisiveness about “how” we use our divine agency to express ourselves sexually. Here’s a news flash…sex is NOT the most important thing! Satan has redirected humankind’s energy, attention, focus…away from LOVE and gotten humankind to become obsessed with the who, what, when, where, why, and how of “sex.” We are spiritual and mortal beings capable of divine, infinite, and Christlike LOVE! Does not this thought—and knowledge—fill one with hope?! (I’ll leave it to the reader of my comments to substitute the word “sex” for LOVE. I find that doing so minimizes the divine purpose of The Plan of Salvation, our Savior’s Atonement, and our Father in Heaven’s infinite regard for each of His children.)
Penelope A. JonesSeptember 15, 2021
Wonderful insightful discussion on this so very current topic! Thank You Brother Mckenna. Of course this is all fulfilling so many prophecies about the latter days and so much "turmoil" and confusion. And I don't think you have glossed over anything but the previous comment seems rather myopic in that there are so many that make temple covenants and are not sealed to a spouse in this life. Or many who have been sealed only to have a spouse unworthy to go. And then there are our wonderful Sisters and Brothers that DON'T "Come- Out" and lead productive lives serving in the Church because as this article points out it not their most important identity. It's really pretty basic: the Lord put Adam and Eve and all of us their "off-spring" here to "multipy and replenish" and provide bodies for the Spirits he created and anything that attempts to thwart that plan is of Satan. So he is really happy at all those big marches and rallies especially the ones in UT. and at BYU. Just sayin" "the signs of the times".
AngNSeptember 15, 2021
This is a wonderful article! Thank you!
Valiant JonesSeptember 15, 2021
"People do have a choice in the matter— not in terms of their immediate feelings sexually … but in the story they adopt about what those feelings mean." I believe that within that concept there could be a path for some people with SSA to experience some degree of moderation of their attractions and find fulfilment in a mixed gender marriage. At least that appears to be what some members of NorthStar seem to have achieved. I would love to read more about that.
Boanerges RubalcavaSeptember 15, 2021
Beautiful article. This is what we are, and we love to be that way. Thanks.
MelSeptember 15, 2021
It's likely the many of tbe neighbors who you miss so much are still in your neighborhood. People who are no longer members don't fall of the face of the earth. If you miss them so much why not just spend time with them?
stevie mckennaSeptember 15, 2021
I understand what you are trying to focus on however, you have glossed over something important that isn't easy to acknowledge. A man who has no sexual attraction to women is not going to want to marry a women whether they could or could not do so in the temple under covenant. The same is true of a women who is not attracted physically to men. I don't believe the church policy encourages you to do that regardless just so you can be married in the temple. I believe the reason most gay and lesbian people leave the church is because they want an intimate serious relationship with someone of the same sex. The church does not condone this. That is the bottom line which you are not addressing no matter how you sugar coat the rest. Knowing you are a child of Heavenly Parent is great but that doesn't mean you can have the temple marriage to a same sex partner. Some people may marry opposite sexed partners but I doubt that they are gay, probably bi-sexual and that is more anecdotal evidence that it may work sometimes.
ScottSeptember 14, 2021
Profoundly beautiful; both your article and the doctrine of Heavenly Parents
Linda WSeptember 14, 2021
Very well thought out and expressed. I gratefully shared it with a dear member. Thank you for taking the time to write this!!!
DougieSeptember 14, 2021
Excellent article! Generations unborn will hang in the balance based on this decision.
PennieSeptember 14, 2021
I wish I could be so articulate. Amen to everything
Mark DonaldsonSeptember 14, 2021
Great article! I am going to save this as a favorite in my browser. I will share it when I come across those who may be questioning their faith and thinking of checking out...forever! Thanks!
MikeSeptember 14, 2021
This is a great article! I love the comparison you made to the early Saints leaving and returning to what we are experiencing now. Returning is very possible! We all must remain vigilant to weather the storm and as we do can help others come back into the fold
ScottSeptember 14, 2021
Thank you for a wonderful article. Helped me understand some of my fears/doubts about the church.
Lisa Simonsen PowellSeptember 14, 2021
This is so awesome. We don't get away with breaking the commandments no matter who we are or what our decisions look like. Thank you!
Sarah HinzeSeptember 12, 2021
These are wonderful inspiring stories. Thanks so much for sharing. Love Sarah Hinze
KwestSeptember 12, 2021
Love it, beautifully stated. Thank you for taking the time to write this article.
FrancesSeptember 12, 2021
I'm wondering if her other children could become involved in the children's lives and relieve this good woman of their everyday care so she can concentrate on her terminally ill husband and herself to some degree. At her pace, she may wear out physically as well. Where would they be then?
Corey D.September 12, 2021
Thanks for publishing that article, she says in such an eloquently spiritual way what is in my mind and heart but that I am unable to express in a coherent and concise manner and I'm sure others feel the same.
Victor LundquistSeptember 12, 2021
Thank you for the in-depth reasoning of what it means, as a teacher, to follow the teachings and example of Jesus Christ. Hopefully all of your colleagues at Church sponsored teaching entities will see the wisdom of this piece and understand what Elder Holland meant about pride flags being decisive. Thank you for writing and posting this.
Ornella Maria BrennaSeptember 11, 2021
Thank you for your clear and decisive exposition of what is right and what is not. The Lord loves us as we are, but lovingly urges us to be better than what we are, possibly "the best", that is, daughters aware of his love for him and eager to be as he is. As well reported in Helaman 12: 27 He shows us our weaknesses so that we can be humble, and if we are humble and have faith in Him, our weaknesses are transformed into strengths for us. Whatever our weaknesses are.
Randal AllredSeptember 11, 2021
I think Dr. Peterson hit the nail on the head. His comments on what certain advocacy groups have said would indicate that perhaps a lot of Elder Holland's critics inside the Church have taken their ideas and rhetoric from these outside groups, rather than their own reading, sense of fairness, and seeking the Spirit and revelation to know the import of Holland's remarks. Elder Holland is not the enemy of gay Latter-day Saints. And he is the last person among the Brethren to use words carelessly, as some of my dear friends and former students have asserted.
SimplicioSeptember 10, 2021
"Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. "Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. "Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you." -Matt 5:10-12
Newell HarwardSeptember 9, 2021
Beautifully stated. Great article.
ShaunaSeptember 9, 2021
Fantastic--thank you so much for taking time to articulate some complicated, but well reasoned, pointed but loving thoughts. I would love to be in your class and would love to have my 2 BYU college students sit in with you as well Satan is the master of false dichotomies, false premises and therefore false arguments. Thank you for taking aim at some of those swirling around the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the LGBT community. as you say, it should go without saying, but as Elder Holland pointed out, hasn't always, that if one is a disciple of Christ then one loves everyone--not necessarily their behavior, standards, opinions (including mine) etc, but loves each person as a Child of God. That premise should lead to true "safety" and light
Ann StruthersSeptember 9, 2021
This was a wonderful, well written article. I loved it and pray that we may all follow these principles and ideas. Thank you for using your teaching skills in the Lord's way.
ShaneSeptember 9, 2021
Absolutely beautifully said! These are the feelings of my heart! As a previous Bishop in my ward, these are the feelings I felt and I hope every member knew. That they were safe and I was there to love them and teach them. I still feel that way towards all I come in contact with. It hurts me when I am accused of being something I am not, yet I am not offended but grateful for a loving Heavenly Father and His Son Jesus Christ. If we pray to see others as they do, we will be so much the better for it. Thank you for this and for this Teachers great courage and faith!
Haze K.September 9, 2021
Love this article. The ideas of "you are safe" vs I will teach and push you intellectually are great. As a Latter-day Saint with several gay co-workers that I care about, the explanation about displaying the pride flag or not is perfect. To me, the pride flag is very divisive. If I don't display it, I must be someone who hates LGBT+ people. This is not true. I can love people without agreeing with their choices. I can be a conservative politically with liberal friends. I can be friends with exercise fanatics, but prefer a good book and snacks for myself. Thanks for putting into words some of my feelings.
Harold RustSeptember 9, 2021
Well written. As I pass by numerous "I Believe" banners along my street every day I find myself asking the question: Why is it that my neighbors feel the need to post a sign stating to the world that in their eyes they are a good person? Is that what it takes to prove you are a good person--a sign stating that? I like all my neighbors (well, one of them has treated me quite rudely---but he is not one posting a sign anyway) but I've never felt it would help them realize that by my putting up a sign to say, "I like each of you neighbors". The only genuine way to do that is to rake up leaves along our street well beyond my own front yard or take over a treat when I learn one has just moved in or helping fix a front gate. Do that enough and no sign is ever needed; do that never and no sign is sufficient to genuinely convince them you really do like them.
Duane BoyceSeptember 9, 2021
Very well said. It's the kind of statement every CES faculty member should be able to make. I devoutly hope they can.
Barry H.September 9, 2021
Excellent article. Well said; both courageous and kind at the same time.
Eunice RobertsonSeptember 9, 2021
Happy birthday President Nelson. May it be a day filled with happiness and precious memories.
James RawsonSeptember 8, 2021
Always well reviewed and understood with your obvious clarifications of what was truly said by elder Holland! Thank you Dan! Jim Rawson
ScottHSeptember 8, 2021
Elder Holland's talk is about 40 minutes long, so it requires commitment to read or watch. Like Dr. Peterson, I encourage everyone to watch the talk with a sincere heart. Having done so myself, I believe that it is impossible to come away from that beautiful and edifying experience with the worldly conclusion that Elder Holland spoke out of anything other than love. Many who have twisted this apostle's loving words have based their well-intentioned indignation on out-of-context sound bites. We must be careful not to "take the advantage of one because of his words" or to dig a pit for our neighbor (2 Nephi 28:8). It is sad that some who have unfortunately been on the receiving end of such treatment have unleashed such vile treatment on others.
LexaGraemeSeptember 8, 2021
Bravo. I will add my Amen to this. In college, I was a customer service rep for a high-end ceiling fan company. I could receive up to 100 calls a day. On one particular call, I went absolutely above and beyond what I was authorized to do, and was still cursed at. My supervisor said, "I don't think we need him as a customer." I appreciated her standing up for me, and have tried in the years since to not ever be *that* customer.
ShaunaSeptember 8, 2021
I encourage all to actually listen to Elder Holland's talk--he is incredibly passionate and emotional, about everything he says and I don't think anyone could actually misunderstand his love for both BYU and LGBT individuals, after listening to it....unless they want to Personally, I loved it and welcomed his clarion call for BYU,faculty, staff, and administration, the intended audience, to completely align themselves with the Gospel of Jesus Christ. they can get secular ideas at almost any other university, but at BYU, those ideas should be viewed through a gospel lens. As a BYU alumnus and the parent of 2 current students, I vigorously endorse and applaud Elder Holland's direction and am so grateful for his deep love for BYU. It is a gift to all who attend
GregSeptember 8, 2021
I love Elder Holland, he has always been my favorite, and I knew the intent of his heart when he gave this talk. People who are making it into something it is not are simply wrong. However, the metaphor of a musket probably should not have been used. A sword or spear would have been much better because of the political overtones associated with guns. The church and its members tend to be viewed as Republicans/Conservatives, clearly the majority are. But there are plenty of LDS people who feel strongly about the volatility of guns, not to say "anti-gun", but that there should be much more control and regulation for safety sake. So if you even speak out on safety as it relates to gun rights, you are labeled a communist, you are pro-abortion, you are advocate the LGBTQ lifestyle, etc. So because of the use of the musket metaphor, Elder Holland's words came across as more pro-Republican, which among many other innuendos takes a very anti-LGBTQ stand. I had always considered myself a Republican but with the rising of Trump, I can't even say that I recognize what a Republican is any more. I know that I am not what he espouses, and have been told that I am therefore a Democrat. Initially I argued this, but I find that I identify with Democrats way more than the Republican of today so I suppose it is true. I did not take Elder's Hollands to suggest that he is pro-Trump or pro-Republican, but I know many people will and that is especially embarrassing to me, to think that my faith is being likened to that school of thought. I personally am struggling with being a member of a church that appears to be affiliated with that party. Regarding the person's ideas that you heartily agree with, they claim to be pro-family suggesting that LGBTQ people can't have a family, which is kind of short-sighted, because they can and do. It may not be the traditional family that we identify with, but we have been taught that our BYU family home evening groups are family, so I struggle with the notion that a family is just a father, mother and children. I think the key is that we have to avoid even the appearance of hate, in any form, and embrace charity at all cost. I think Elder Holland is the embodiment of charity, at least in the mortal realm that we live in.
Harold RustSeptember 8, 2021
As always, your words are carefully chosen to reflect calm, reassuring reflections on reality through a spiritual perspective. I find it amazingly humbling for all of us in these "modern" times that distortions and convoluted perceptions can promulgate so quickly and deeply; definitely faster than they did among the uneducated centuries ago and more deeply than one could have ever expected among well educated folks who have the benefit of centuries of learned experiences by mankind plus the digital age of communication/distribution that should enable everyone to see for themselves what was true---and not be hood-winked by someone else telling you what they claim was said. Just read or listen to Elder Holland's talk and you will be able to see for yourself it was about love, respect, and....defending truth by means of love and respect.
Mark DonaldsonSeptember 8, 2021
Elder Holland is spot on! We love the imperfect...as we the imperfect hope to be loved. But our God is the lawgiver...not us. Elder Holland said it perfectly when he said, "As near as I can tell, Christ never once withheld His love from anyone, but He also never once said to anyone, “Because I love you, you are exempt from keeping my commandments.” We are tasked with trying to strike that same sensitive, demanding balance in our lives.” Amen!
HalSeptember 8, 2021
Good article! There are other reasons to "fire" a customer. Some are flat out dishonest and constantly try to get something for nothing. We don't need or want customers that intentionally try to rob us.
CBSeptember 8, 2021
Excellent excellent Bro Peterson! Thank You for saying it so well!!
Kit G.September 8, 2021
Well said, and appreciated! Standing for principles of the true gospel of Jesus Christ will continue to be more polarizing, even within the Church as members try to have one hand on the rod and the other opening the door to the great and spacious building. Elder Holland did a wonderful job articulating his points, as did you.
Loretta SmithSeptember 8, 2021
Such a well written and thoughtful article! Thank you!
Kevin KrauseSeptember 8, 2021
Thank you for these heartfelt words. You really helped me understand much more about what Elder Holland was trying to convey. And more importantly thank you for your parting words. Stop the polarization from both sides. I can't stand it. Where did love and understanding go? Civility has truly become a lost virtue.
Claudia Henderson SmithSeptember 8, 2021
What a great article! It’s so well said. It’s hard for some of us who have a child with this challenge. I, too, am not anti-gay. I’m pro family and pro the Church.
John C. GreeneSeptember 8, 2021
I have often thought that if we Latter-day Saints aspire to the First Resurrection - which is also referred to as the Resurrection of the Just - then perhaps we had better be just ourselves. If we fail to be truly just, how can we aspire to the Resurrection of the Just? Twisting the truth - as Laman and Lemuel did, for example - is not just. Twisting Elder Holland's words is also unjust. Brother Peterson's analysis and defense of Elder Holland's words is both truthful and just.
Noel JensenSeptember 8, 2021
Amen, Br. Peterson, I appreciate this response to Elder Holland's remarks.
EHSeptember 8, 2021
Thank you for your thoughts and intent. I came across a broad spectrum of responses to this talk among my personal connections, and I knew I lacked context, but even after reading the talk a couple of times, I decided to just put it on a shelf for a couple weeks. I think his words as written lacked a tone of compassion, and since most people read the talk without hearing his voice, it's easy to misunderstand. People who are very concerned about how the Church responds to their LGBTQ+ members are more likely to find concerning statements, whether or not that was Elder Holland's intent. I think a reference to weapons of any kind right now might be alarming since weapons signify violence rather than defense for many people. So I appreciate your insights. I think I found an appropriate place in my brain to file this talk:)
LouiseSeptember 7, 2021
great example how we can be helped from the other side of the vail. She didn't pray for the help of this lady but just asked if possible to help.
Debbi M.September 7, 2021
I loved this story, and had no idea about her background. Sure loved watching her films in the "olden days!" Thanks for sharing and informing.
David HallSeptember 7, 2021
In Pres. Nelson's biography it mentions that when he visited Mongolia, he learned that there is also a tradition there that Christ visited a people there, too, after his resurrection.
Richard ChristensenSeptember 7, 2021
She is my dad's second cousin if I remember right.
Robert StarlingSeptember 7, 2021
Correction (my mistake): It was the Westwood Ward that Rhonda tried to contact about her husband's funeral arrangements, not the Wilshire Ward. I've wondered how her later life might have been different if the ward building's landline had been forwarded on weekdays to the home number of the Bishop or some other member. (a suggestion to Church HQ?) However the Wilshire Ward has its own "Hollywood Connection". In the 1940's several LDS celebrities including Laraine Day and the King Sisters formed a theater group called "The Wilshire Ward Players" that performed plays at the ward meetinghouse (built in the 1930's, with unique architecture that resembles a cathedral). A non-LDS member of that group was the young Ray Bradbury.
Helga SilskiSeptember 7, 2021
Oh come on dear brother David, have you truly listened and read all of the Conference talks? There have been countless messages from our beloved leaders encouraging us, reminding us that no one has reached perfection yet. Repentance is real, necessary and even beautiful, it is part of earth life but each of us, all of us are given the opportunity to climb up and out of the hole to reach the summit.
DianeSeptember 7, 2021
BYU has world class art restoration which allowed the Carl Bloch collection to be brought to Utah for restoration and the opportunity for many to witness their greatness. What about the Church getting involved with the restoration of the "Holy Russia" so it could be brought over here for more Americans and members of the Church to see. I have thought about this painting so much since it was brought to my attention a few years ago through Meridian. What a fantastic opportunity to cruise through Russia and view this inspired piece of art! Bucket list!
Rochelle HaleSeptember 6, 2021
Wow! What a story. We are so familiar with those landmarks as we have several clients in the Century City area and serve in the Los Angeles LDS temple. When my father was dying, my mother (non-member) was totally on board with having the local ward assist, even though my stepfather had not attended church in many years. It was our relatives of other faiths who refused to attend the funeral if it was held at the "Mormon" church. The bishop, however, was more than helpful and told us that funerals take priority over weddings or ward activities. It is too bad that the Wilshire Ward wasn't more accomodating to Sister Fleming's needs.
David BellSeptember 6, 2021
Wonderful story about a beautiful daughter of God. It goes to show that what is important is what is going on between us and Heavenly Father. Even good can come out of Hollywood!
Tora Sue KniselySeptember 5, 2021
Please accept my condolences in the passing of your Husband and father. I am sure he is busy on the other side of the veil.
Valiant JonesSeptember 5, 2021
This is one of the best temple prep resources I have seen. Thank you for creating it. As a branch president, I will be using it to prepare members for the temple.
Corey D.September 5, 2021
I just retired after 40+ years with one of the countries/worlds largest defense contractors. About a year ago my co-worker was on the computer checking his email when he said come look at this. It was a Corporate memo which said and I'm paraphrasing a little but in essence it said "we will no longer be hiring from BYU because their stance on LGBTQ issues does not fit in with our company values". A week or so later we tried to find the memo but it had been deleted from the archive. Interestingly about that same time period one of the new VP's at our division was a BYU graduate, whether that had anything to do with the memo quietly going away I don't know. There have been plenty of reasons given for why the Boy Scouts was dropped by the church and others but the truth of the matter is the Boy Scouts was killed by corporate America. Corporate America has shifted from being generally family oriented and supporting conservative values to being quite liberal, especially Big Tech and they are getting more politically involved. Too me that is one of the greatest threats if not the biggest threat in the country right now because when you have control over jobs and peoples livelihoods you hold the ultimate influence and power.
Corey D.September 5, 2021
Well written and heartfully expressed. I personally have very strong, and for lack of a better description, very conservative views on the whole LGBTQ+ thing. Personally I believe there is a small, very small percentage that may have some actual biological, chemical, mental reason for their leanings/choices but for the most part it is social conditioning and the influence of Satan who is the master psychologist and deceiver. But, I try to treat everyone including LGBTQ family members and others with courtesy, respect and love.
Richard D. HanksSeptember 4, 2021
Thank you. I too love Elder Holland and support him.
E PooleSeptember 4, 2021
Thank you for your well thought out account of your journey. It does not sound like it was an easy one, but your willingness to persevere and endure until you found answers is very inspiring. Thank you for your wonderful example and testimony.
Ben JonesSeptember 3, 2021
The thing I found interesting when I joined this Church is that it didn't make me feel bad about all the wonderful experiences I had with people of other faiths. In fact, I gained my testimony of Jesus Christ while attending the Episcopal Church. One of the sweetest experiences I had after joining was that my mother who was a lifelong Christian felt the spirit in our services.
Allison DunlapSeptember 3, 2021
This was completely mind blowing! I was awestruck as I began connecting the dots Brother Frogley illustrated so well! Thank you for this enlightenment! It has changed my paradigm.
Fay KlinglerSeptember 3, 2021
I say amen to the conclusion of this article. Well done.
vandmeliSeptember 3, 2021
Thank you for the reminder that we and our children are fighting for our spiritual lives every day. I feel a renewed commitment to adequately arm them by teaching and by example. And though the enemy is real, fear not, for the Lord is on our side!
Nihla W. JuddSeptember 2, 2021
Positively Perfect. Thank you very much. Service is a real healer.
David DurfeeSeptember 2, 2021
I agree entirely. The problem is that so many of the Scriptures, so many Conference talks, intentionally or unintentionally drill relentlessly into us how imperfect we are. When was the last time you heard a speaker in Conference say "hang in there and keep plugging along and you'll get to the Celestial Kingdom"?
T LarsenSeptember 2, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful account of part of your faith journey. As someone whose personal concerns over this issue have been mild by comparison, it is helpful to be reminded that Church member don't just fall into "support the Church's teachings" and "don't support the Church's teachings". There is a lot of room on the spectrum between those positions, and it is the direction our faith is pointing us that matters the most.
Ovala F ToiaivaoSeptember 2, 2021
Wow, what a beautiful testimony of faith! Thank your for sharing this powerful account of your personal experiences wrestling with this heart wrenching topic as a new convert. This very issue is one of the main reason why our family has broken apart as 7 of our 8 children have literally left the church over it. Thanks again for sharing!
vickieSeptember 1, 2021
I am a mother of 5 kids, one girl and four boys. my last child is now a homosexual married to his best friend or another man. i never suspected i would have a child who had this kind of issue. we always think its other people that go through these things. i love all my children. this young man was a good kid, he always did the right thing, and he was great in school and went to college and went on a misison. his brothers and sister noticed things before i ever suspected anything. when he was a little guy he would put a towel on his head and pretend it was long hair. he wanted to immitate his sister. he was very aloof and as he grew older he became a sort of angry young guy. he was gifted with voice and playing the piano and acting. he came out later when he was about 34 and let me know he was engaged. i went to his wedding. i love my son and will always support him. i believe in what the prophets say and the family proclemation. when i first heard my son was gay i nearly went nuts. it was my husband who kept his head and said i love him and he is my son. that woke me up. i reaized thorugh my crying and grief i loved my son so much and the pain i felt was that of worry over what would happen to him. we do read about how others see them and sometimes torture them or they commit suicide. i never spoke to him regarding it but i might send this article to him because being a pc mother here on earth means never confronting him or letting him know what i think about it and that i love him. his mater is a great guy as well. he made his choice and i have no idea as to what to do. he will be or is 36 now. he never contacts me but he was always kind of like that anyway. aloof. i actually dont know what to do. i think he knows what he is doing and what it means. i also wonder if he knows what to do about it or which way to go. he has commited himself to another person. that person i dont think has any belief. my son had a wonderful patriarchal blessing wherein it said that the Lord would have His hand on my sons head. so, now i am praying and wondering. i think his teen anger was over how his brothers would joke abt LGBT issues and people and felt we all felt that way, and we probably did. you dont know what to feel until it is standing on your doorstep. all i know is that i love the Lord and will continue to pray fo rmy son and his mate. i know that there are many moms and dads like me.
LauraSeptember 1, 2021
What a beautiful expression of faith! Your journey shows what it looks like to strive to align our views with God's -- and it takes humility. I hope that those struggling with the same (and other) issues can similarly cling fast to their testimonies as they pray to change their own understanding, not the Lord's.
Randall M SmithSeptember 1, 2021
This is so well written, applicable to every controversial doctrine in the Church. A must read for everyone.
Gordon J HensleySeptember 1, 2021
Even though I don’t have a perfect knowledge of the way things work in the worlds beyond the veil, I can’t help but think that the laws of physics will still apply. Eternal families are created the same way they are here on Earth, with a man and a woman providing a physical body for a spirit child. In an eternal world where there is no war, death, adultery, broken marriages, or poverty, and therefore no orphaned children, where would a functionally sterile celestial couple go to find children to “adopt” into a celestial family? There will undoubtedly be many good people participating in long term friendships and relationships in the lesser kingdoms, but unless you follow the commandments and complete the ordinances that “unlock the bonus level” of the Celestial Kingdom, you won’t be able to enjoy the full work and glory of eternal life.
JosephSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you Daniel for such detailed and very well written account on your efforts and patience during your personal search for the truth on this polemic issue. May The Lord continue blessing your life with the kind of light you deserve to keep your faith healthy and strong.
Jo Ann OkelberrySeptember 1, 2021
I am so grateful that you have taken the time to write this beautiful article. You have given us a great lesson on how to deal with things that disappoint or anger us. I am so glad that we have our Heavenly Father who welcomes us and our prayers and gives us peace.
MakeliSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for this thoughtful and vunerable account of your conversion. What a beautiful sentiment to choose humility first. I can tell you're a good guy. Thank you.
Pat StreeperSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for your beautiful testimony!
SaraSeptember 1, 2021
I don’t think you give yourself enough credit for the effort you put forth to come to the conclusion that you have. You were humble enough to realize that your views may not be correct, even though you held them close. You did exactly as we are counseled to do both in scripture and by Church leaders, and that is the most inspiring part of this whole story to me. Thank you for sharing it.
Ruth JamiesonSeptember 1, 2021
Your story is a wonderful journey of faith and perseverance. Thank you for your example of hope.
Sasha KwapinskiSeptember 1, 2021
As one who was personally involved in California's Proposition 8 campaign (and contributed some of the money behind it) I welcome and support the church leaders' efforts to be inclusive, loving, and supportive toward LGBT members as children of God. I try to practice these principles in my own behavior and relationships. At the same time, I appreciate being a member of a denomination which recognizes the distinction between love and relativism. Marriage is ultimately a moral construct with a moral definition, or it essentially becomes a non-construct with no definition -- just a matter of random lifestyle choices or the latest public opinion poll.
Bob TaylorSeptember 1, 2021
thank you for sharing your story. i tried to pm you, but the link was not working for me - a question, if you don't mind sharing. many years ago, i had a classmate in elementary school whose name was Jim Ortner (La Jolla, CA) - any relation?
EveSeptember 1, 2021
I'm so impressed with your story. We all struggle with pride, but you were able to stay humble and open to revelation. What a wonderful example! Thank you!
Dennis HorneSeptember 1, 2021
Sometimes the Lord has to (figuratively) pull people kicking and screaming out of the philosophies of the world/society, into the light of the gospel and the scriptures/teachings of prophets. Anyone imbued with modern societies views could have various amounts of trouble making the transition. It used to be that the world and the church weren't that far off in many things, including morality. Now that is no longer the case at all. There is a divide people must cross to become fully converted and fully sustain the Brethren.
PamSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I hope they help others who are struggling.
Rochelle HaleSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for sharing your journey and testimony. The problem with the worldview is that it wants to contradict God. Rather than being hateful or less tolerant, Latter-Day Saints should even more greatly express love to those whom we know to be our spiritual brothers and sisters. We all chose the plan to be here. Nevertheless, the Lord has given his counsel. A friend of another faith once questioned me about the Word of Wisdom. Her response was, "Why would God care what we eat, etc.?" As a loving Heavenly Father, why would he not???!!!! We do not worship a vengeful God, but one who loves us more than we can possibly know and wants to bless all of His children.
K RoundySeptember 1, 2021
I love this. I agree that "we are NOT on the wrong side of history, because we are on the Lord's side"; and He cannot be coerced, threatened, or convinced to change his mind on the matter.
PennieSeptember 1, 2021
I fully support Elder Holland. If the apostles and prophets bend to social pressure, we will be lost. I feel very secure knowing that they will stand up to the secular teachings of our day. Each member of this church is going to have to decide where they stand and with whom they stand. I stand with the First Presidency and the Twelve. God never gave a commandment that was not for our eternal benefit. I believe firmly that there is no gayness in eternity. It's a mortal challenge
AnonymousSeptember 1, 2021
Daniel, thank you for this beautiful account. I appreciate your testimony and your personal experiences that have doubtlessly prepared you to write about this topic.
Chuck DeWittSeptember 1, 2021
I am so grateful that I was willing to question my presumptions, pray to God in faith, wrestle with my concern, and ultimately be transformed by the spirit. This sentence shows the way to truth. Love your story and never forgetting the original testimony from Heaven.
Duane BoyceSeptember 1, 2021
Excellent. Thank you for sharing your experience. Wonderful in every way.
MistySeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experience of wrestling with questions and doubts about some of the Church’s teachings. I don’t think there are enough stories out there like this and so many are left with the misconception that everyone is fine with everything or perhaps everyone is just a blind sheep. I hope more stories like this will help others realize it’s ok (as the Brethren have continually taught) to have questions and concerns! But as Brother Holland has also taught, “doubt your doubts” before doubting your testimony.
Harold RustSeptember 1, 2021
Thanks for this personal journey you were willing to share. For some of us who have been members all our lives, the Family Proclamation seemed so obvious we weren't sure why the Church leadership had felt the need to have it published and highlighted. Little did we realize that within just a decade there would be a significant numbers of Americans (and others outside the U.S.) who would push against the fundamentals and then gradually become very dogmatic in their rejection of what had been a "non-issue" for several centuries. To me the proclamation was a statement of love and positive confirmation about the purpose of life. Just as we are taught to be "Christ-like" toward those not members of the Church, likewise the Church's message has always been to be respective and loving toward those who may not believe as we do or want to live according to the declarations in the Family Proclamation. That becomes more difficult when those "on the other side" become very public in their accusations and very violently vocal in their attacks on our beliefs. Thus, I feel those who don't agree with Elder Holland should at least follow his approach in how to disagree....through thoughtful and non-contentious discussion meant to share deeply-held feelings in a kind and loving way.
Annie JensenSeptember 1, 2021
Thank you for your thoughtful remarks and for sharing your persistent search for truth.
Jane HalesAugust 31, 2021
As always your program is an educational delight!! I loved the story of the Kirtland Temple. Thank you for adding so much to my gospel and church history knowledge these past years. You are truly a blessing our lives!
Ron SnyderAugust 31, 2021
I had no preparation or warning about what to expect at the temple. My first time was the week I entered the mission home in SLC. It was traumatic for me, and quite shocking. I had spent my life believing up to that point that the Catholics were into rituals but we were not. I wish someone had offered me a resource like this so I could have been better prepared for the experience.
SherryAugust 31, 2021
The Pocatello Temple open house is fast approaching also, from Saturday, 18 September 2021 to Saturday, 23 October 2021. The dedication is set for Sunday, 7 November 2021. I can't wait!
Wendi EricksonAugust 31, 2021
This is a time of separation. It's a tragedy to those of us who have lost loved ones to this or any other reason they find to leave. Our heart aches when our grown children refuse to even come on mothers day. Our ward has recently seen a wave of our brothers and sisters leave our ward family. Thankyou for writing this. Perhaps it will be just what someone needs to hear. The Lord has promised me that in His time and His way all 4 of them will return. I pray for them and others who left. The fact remains that there are 2 churches only. All will find themselves aligning with one or the other. The scriptures are clear about this. As we settle into 2 apposite camps, I feel that there will be a lot of shuffling back and forth for many of us. I pleas with you all to join me in prayer for 1 ourselves to not be caught by surprise. For us to have the faith sufficient to be firmly planted in the restored gospel and 2 for those who have turned away for any reason to have whatever experiences they must in order to find their way back to the fold of God. This is His promise to our loved ones as we are true and faithful to our covenants. 3 lastly pray to see Hos hand in their lives so we see that they are not really lost to heavenly Father. And in closing the undying gratitude for the pure love that is the atonement of Jesus Christ.
Jan KuesterAugust 31, 2021
I loved this video and am so grateful for it. I grew up determined to become closer and closer to our Father and our Savior- and to become a veterinarian. God had a better plan. Through circumstances, fasting and prayer, instead of a vet I became both a registered nurse and a Navy Nurse Corps officer. I am so blessed to have had the opportunities this gave me to grow in faith, see more deeply into the lives and needs of my fellow man, and to, imperfectly so, serve the one as our Savior does. This video reminds me to focus less on myself and more on what others might need. Thank you❤️
Jonathan StreeterAugust 30, 2021
This was an excellent article that really got to the heart of the matter. The best part of your article is that it has universal application. It should be distributed to defenders of many different faiths - Jehovahs witnesses, Christian Science and Many other faiths also have apostates who try to tear down faith by creating a big lie that their church is deceiving them. This post reveals the true deception at the heart of these deceivers. Thank you for your eloquence and faithfulness!
BeccaAugust 30, 2021
Great article. One common thing I see as people buy into the negative things they are being taught is that they eventually end up where they no longer believe in God. Seems like this attack on the Church is simply using church history as a stepping stone to draw people away from God. And the influencers are making a lot of money doing what they are doing.
CBAugust 30, 2021
Fortunately, and I consider it a miracle, even though I had no preparation ( other than some negative comments from my parents doubting my worthiness) I had deep in my heart that whatever the endowment was all about it was from God, and it was His way of teaching. From the moment I stepped into Initiatory I was inspired in ways that I remember to this day. I’ve been a faithful Temple worshipper and worker ever since and when I’m in the Temple I don’t overthink— I just let myself feel His love. This is a good article and video. I don’t know if I wish I’d had it 50 years ago or not. Everyone is different. I’ve taught temple prep classes and I do think this would have been helpful. Still, the most important thing in preparation is love for the Lord and trusting in Him.
HalAugust 30, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article. I have several friends and family members who have succumbed to this "Biggist Lie." Sadly, I have watched them transition from faith-filled, happy people to cynical, perpetually angry, and contentious souls where the darkness of hopelessness has replaced the light that once filled them with happiness. All I can do is pray for them and encourage them whenever I can.
Alan FlemingAugust 30, 2021
If the church was a business I would have resigned a long time ago, but it is not a business but the Church of Jesus Christ. In the early days of the Church all the apostles were converts, none of them were raised in the Church. Six of the original Twelve Apostles selected were excommunicated. Even the Three Witnesses to the Book of Mormon left the Church. Three of Joseph Smith’s counselors fell — one even helped plot his death. However, all the Presidents of the Church since Joseph Smith have served in the Quorum of the Twelve before they are called to be the Church President. They are well qualified having been trained and tested beforehand
Gary GarnerAugust 30, 2021
It's amazing to me that we have a prophet and we talk about following the prophet but then either don't or feel that we need to fact check him.. We fast and pray for a vaccine and then when we are blessed with it in record time (a miracle) we feel that it may be ok for you but not for me. I think that there are lessons that can be drawn from the Parable of the 10 Virgins here.
Maryann TaylorAugust 30, 2021
No one leaves the church because of any events in church history. That is simply an excuse. People leave because they have not built a strong testimony. Anyone who keeps their testimony alive by continuous prayer, scripture study, and enjoying the companionship of the Holy Ghost will not be bothered by incomplete and subjective accounts. I would trust that about as much as I trust news reporters and commentators today. How many contradictory "facts" do we hear about the same story??? Attempting to render a complete judgement of people by going back into history, whether it is the history of the church, or American history, is tricky business. I would certainly hate to have my life judged by people 100+ years from now based only on what they can dig up from the written word. We can read the MANY accounts from faithful saints who knew the Prophet, Joseph Smith, very well and who walked and talked with him, who repeatedly bore witness of his goodness, and the divinity of his calling--Or we can rely on varied and confused accounts, based on partial and limited understanding of what actually happened. We may find ourselves with some unanswered questions. So what? We can KNOW that the Book of Mormon is true, that it is a sacred witness of Jesus Christ, and that Joseph Smith translated it by the gift and power of God. If we know that, nothing else really matters.
LizAugust 30, 2021
Thank you for this very well written article and for standing up in ways many won’t.
Dennis HorneAugust 30, 2021
These are certainly very fine and uplifting faith-affirming experiences shared. However, I caution that while the author is right that the temple is a place of precious personal revelation, it is not the only place, nor a place of "higher" revelation. While I have also enjoyed the powerful flow of revelation in the temple, the two most spiritual experiences of my life took place in a missionary apartment and in a chapel. Others in a bedroom, living room, etc. Revelation can be received most anywhere needed if the member with the gift of the Holy Ghost is worthy and exercises faith and is not in a bad/wicked place. Mountain tops and groves have substituted for temples when none were available. Still, thanks for a nice article with edifying content.
Tom GlassAugust 30, 2021
We have a past bishop doing the same on his podcast,his feelings were hurt so he went on a rampage against the Church.Pride took him away,with his whole family!
Zen FeatherstoneAugust 30, 2021
The great tragedy I have seen with my family is children who have no faith or hope because they left The Church of Jesus Christ and don't have any place to go. If the truth about God and Jesus Christ is not in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, then it is nowhere. They have an understanding of the apostacy and the need for a restoration. If the truth was not restored, then they feel it is nowhere. So they are "free" to do whatever they think is right. The laws and commandments of God that make us truly free and happy when we live them, are ignored and the true peace that comes to our souls cannot be found in worldly interpretation of the rules of life.
EveAugust 30, 2021
I found this to be very touching.
Wendy LanderAugust 30, 2021
This is a wonderful resource. Thank you so much!
Deb H.August 30, 2021
The whole problem with all of this is you have two choices, take the shot or don't. Once you make the choice, you are labeled by people who have no idea what you are going through.
Norma J EntrekinAugust 30, 2021
Interesting article. But the main point should have been stated clearly in the first paragraph. Period- Thanks
Douglas MarkAugust 30, 2021
Jacob: just ask these disaffected friends what they will say to Nephi or Mormon when they meet them after death. Ask them if you can keep their patriarchal blessing and their temple garments and their scriptures in a safe place for them while they wander in the desert for awhile. Ask which of their kids they want “unsealed” while they are at it, or maybe it will be their spouse they are willing to cast off.
WeezieAugust 30, 2021
Thank you Jacob for using you talents in writing to illuminate the truth. You gave such great reasons and things to carefully and prayerfully consider. I love the part about peace. That is absolutely something absent from all those who believe they’ve been lied too by people who are anything but full of peace. If only every member of the church could read this article before they make their infamous Facebook post on how leaving the church is the best decision for them.
Carma MirabalAugust 30, 2021
This is a very good video to watch to help all of us understand the temple. I teach temple prep and will use it in my class. Hopefully it will help those going through for the first time and open their hearts to being regular temple attenders. Thank you for making this video!
Harold RustAugust 30, 2021
Great presentation of an important perspective that is vital if we want to avoid the trap of being drawn in to persistent pernicious pounding against the fundamental fruits provided by all the prophets.
stevie maireid mckennaAugust 30, 2021
Thank you so much for that excellent article. It speaks the truth and needed to be said.
vickieAugust 30, 2021
there are and there have been so many negative comments regarding the church that use to shock me but over time i realized that these are truely ignorant people they believe what their preachers tell them and then spread the negativity to others. i always say to some who believe the wrong things abt our church, that we dont spend time in church downgrading any other religion. we dont have time for this. God doesnt teach negativity in church and esp about other beliefs. we only concentrate on the truth and what God teaches us.
DavidAugust 29, 2021
Amen to this article. I know and love Elder Holland and I know no one that is more loving of all people regardless of any circimstances. When I served a mission a few years ago, Elder Holland called to discuss sending a missionary with same sex tendencies to our mission to serve. He told me of his love for this young man and how grateful he was that he wanted to serve and how much faith and confidence he had in him. We cried on the phone together as we discovered that this young man was from my home stake and that I already had a great love and admiration for him. That missionary was one of the best that I served with. I was so impressed and grateful to see the deep and true love that Elder Holland showed for this young missionary. They continue to be very close friends. I pray that we can all take a deep breath and pray for clarity on the goodness and Christlike love of this man and Apostle of Jesus Christ. Let us not be deceived into calling good evil... for he is not.
Richard ChristensenAugust 29, 2021
My dad introduced me to the books of Arvin Gibson. He used to be the CEO of Utah Power and Light, if I remember rightly. He intervwied people who had NDE. It was insightfull to see how these experience didn't destroy the person's agency. Even the non-christians had NDEs, but did not necessarily see Chirst. One of the "doctor" books showed that ~20% of the people who have had NDE can't wear watches. They just break. No explanation for it. Really interesting stuff.
Kim GarrettAugust 29, 2021
Levi Hancock is my 5th great-grandfather. I have searched and searched to find reference to him building the room used for the School of the Prophets. Can you tell me where you got that information? I'd love to share it with my family.
BeckyAugust 28, 2021
So beautifully said!
EveAugust 28, 2021
Joan - you've been truly blessed!!!
Kenny MazzantiAugust 28, 2021
Kids fight, especially siblings. Have you never watched lion cubs fight? Doing so strengthens them. I fought with my brother until I left on a mission. My brother and I loved each other and I would have given my life for him. Don't be helicopter parents trying to save your children from that which is of no consequence. Let them work it out and learn from it.
Marilyn JonesAugust 28, 2021
What a beautiful song and beautiful girls! I love hearing new music that builds up the role and purpose of women when the world around us tries to discount our worth. Thank You!
Susan CurtisAugust 28, 2021
Thank you for weighing in on the other side of this. It is interesting to me to note that this was not a talk given to the entire membership of the church, nor to the studentbody of BYU, but an instructional talk to faculty and staff of BYU, communicating to a very specific group on what is appropriate, and perhaps more importantly, what is not appropriate, in carrying out their duties as employees of a church-owned university. In a day when teachers take it upon themselves to teach their own philosophies and put forward many agendas, it is imperative that it is made clear to the faculty and staff that their teachings need to be in compliance with the gospel teachings. I have seen what happens when rogue teachers are allowed to go unchallenged in the things they espouse from their podiums. Thank you for reminding us of the Elder Holland we all know and love.
JulieAugust 28, 2021
I don't need to know Elder Holland personally to know that he is a great servant of God and loves us all. I love him. He is an incredible disciple of Christ and the gospel. His words in his talks and his actions speak volumes about the man of God that he is. His talks have helped through many a hard time. He loves us all, as Christ does.
Harold RustAugust 28, 2021
Thanks for this very uplifting support of a good (actually a very, very good) man. It is sad, but the natural man has an inclination to speak badly of others if he feels surrounded by a fan club of listeners. How many times have we seen someone willing to chime in with a biting negative comment regarding another person when they are with friends who are willing to listen and not refute their unkind remarks? That is what can happen even more easily now when social media encourages someone to blast out with blatantly hateful diatribes just so they can attempt to catch attention and puff their own ego? This article is one that needs to be repeated in the presence of any out there who even think of casting stones at an Apostle who is demonstrating love along with sharing fundamental principles of Gospel living. Surround these purveyors of hateful attacks with reasonable folks ready to discuss this issue calmly but thoughtfully and they will shrink in cowardice as they see that their words were worse than worthless. Thanks again for the uplifting words by this author.
Shauna PloegerAugust 28, 2021
Thank you for sharing your personal experience with Elder Holland and your personal faithfulness! The church being crystal clear on its doctrine on the family is the most compassionate path forward for those struggling with SSA. It's unfortunate that some members misunderstand the difference between a church policy (which can change) and doctrine of the Gospel of Christ (which is eternal and will not change). While it is clear, the brethren have a deep empathy (which I felt from Elder Holland in his talk), they cannot change eternal truths, which stand apart from men and their desires, no matter how good or right they might appear from the outside. God is at the helm of this church and the apostles do His bidding. I sincerely hope those with SSA stay in the church. We need you!! You have so much to give the church body at large. Your sexuality is not your only defining trait and not the only thing you can contribute in the Kingdom of God. We love you and are saddened by the trials that must accompany faithful membership in this church, but we applaud you for staying, for being faithful, for showing others the way forward.
SueAugust 28, 2021
Elder Holland's talk was timely and significant. It helped me feel more love and concern for gay people. I don't know how you could get upset when someone tears up and says how much he and the other apostles have prayed and cried over this topic. How much they love and care for all of us and how we should do the same. It is best to look at ourselves rather than throw darts at others
Matthew GlosengerAugust 28, 2021
Elder Holland, IMO, exemplified exactly what the priesthood of God is. LOVE. Brother Bennion is pretty close to that level himself. We can all learn great lessons from these two Men of God.
AnnetteAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experiences with Elder Holland, Jeff. I have never met him personally but have found him to be one of the most endearing of church leaders as I've heard him speak in conferences and read his writings over the years. It is evident to me that he is a true servant of the Lord. I recently graduated from BYU-Idaho and was disappointed to learn during my course of study there that Marxism has infiltrated their English department as it has nearly every institution of higher learning in America, and in the American Foundations course, worldly academia's definition of Conservatism is taught. (I've known many Conservatives in my life, and none of them fit that definition.) So yay for Elder Holland for making it clear that church colleges and universities are not to take the world as their guide. I think the world is "too much with us" at our church campuses, most likely. This cannot be pleasing to the Lord.
MelAugust 27, 2021
There is no reason for conflict nor judgement amongst the members of the church concerning the recent announcement. If we adhere to the direction given on this matter from the official church handbook we would not be dealing with so much divisiveness with our membership : Official Handbook of the Church: 38.7.13 Vaccinations "Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination. Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost." As someone who has sought counsel with multiple competent medical professionals and also sought the guidance of the Holy Ghost as per direction from the First Presidency, the instruction I have received is different from many, but right for me. Could this be an opportunity for the members of the church to consider the uncut direction in the handbook concerning vaccines and have the confidence each of us will do the work of researching and receiving spiritual guidance, and then show respect for each other even if our answers might look different?
Jo Ann OkelberryAugust 27, 2021
I watched this speech and listened to it. I thought it was a great talk. I have been concerned about how so many religious institutions are becoming so secular. I do not want to see the Church universities become secularized in order to gain favor of the few. I am a BYU graduate, and I have always been so proud that gospel principles were taught in so many of my classes. There are so many who would like to attend BYU, and I think that if people do not want to abide by the principles and rules of the university, they should let those who will take their places. I love Elder Holland. He speaks for millions of people.
Minerva MillerAugust 27, 2021
When Elder Holland was sustained as an apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ in 1994, I was watching the proceedings of that General Conference in a small Church classroom at the Stake Center in Berlin, Germany, through a small TV monitor receiving the transmission in English. But even in such a setting, I had this conviction in my heart then that he was truly called of God. That conviction has stayed with me--even all the more strengthened through the years, as I have studied and listened to his inspired messages and teachings. His most recent clarion call for the BYU to be unique, like President Kimball did decades ago, is nothing short of inspiration and expression of love but also concern. He lived up to the calling of an apostle of our Savior Jesus Christ by declaring the standards of the gospel fearlessly "amidst a tumult of opinions." Yet, he conveyed his message with kindness and compassion, I only felt further motivated to continue to show love, consideration and understanding to my fellow travelers on the road regardless of their gender orientation. I sustain Elder Holland with all my heart. God be thanked for such an exemplary leader in His Kingdom at this point in time!
BeccaAugust 27, 2021
I LOVE Elder Holland! I have had two friends have interactions with him, one where he invited them to his office to visit with them after their sister died by suicide and the other where he sweetly answered the letter from a first grade student. The LOVE he has for all of us is incalculable! Thank you Elder Holland for your service as the Lord’s representative, you truly follow His lead with love and compassion!!
Robert D StarlingAugust 27, 2021
To those critics who would be so foolhardy as to cast virtual stones at the Lord's anointed servant, I would repeat the words of our Savior to the woman who was caught in the act of sexual sin . . . go and sin no more.
CASAugust 27, 2021
Anyone who could find offense with the wonderful counsel of Elder Hollard's timely talk, needs to take a look in the mirror to see the real offender!
Michael SheaAugust 27, 2021
Expressions of outrage seem to have become the new American cultural norm. But outrage attracts an evil spirit like a shark is attracted by blood in turbulent water. Whenever I hear stories of this sort, I am reminded of a passage from Isaiah (29:18-21): “And in that day… the terrible one is brought to nought, and the scorner is consumed, and all that watch for iniquity are cut off: that make a man an offender for a word… and turn aside the just for a thing of nought.”. Fault-finding is a very dangerous habit.
ShaunaAugust 27, 2021
I love Elder Holland and am personally very grateful for his recent clarion call for BYU to embrace it's mission and purpose. I LOVED reading the whole talk and welcomed all of his counsel. I am so grateful for his passion for this great institution, that I also love, and where my children are currently attending. BYU must be different than other universities and align with the Gospel of Jesus Christ, or it can't justify it's existence. There are too many members of the Church, clamoring for an education there, who are paying tithes and offerings, which support that institution, who will never set foot on campus, for BYU to align with the world. Note this searing quote from a BYUI devotional Elder Bednar delivered on January 26th, 2016 (as a past president of BYU-I and apostle), which is also true for BYU Provo students:“In the authority of the holy Apostleship, I now raise a voice of warning, and I make a solemn promise. If the day ever were to come that intellectual arrogance, a lack of appreciation, and a spirit of demanding entitlement take root on this campus — among the students, the faculty, the employees, the administration or within the community of Rexburg — then in that day the Spirit of Ricks will be well on the way to being extinguished. And the heavenly influence and blessings that have prospered this institution and the people associated with it will be withdrawn,” Bednar warned. “Conversely, as long as intellectual modesty, humility, gratitude, obedience, and frugality continue to characterize those who learn and serve at Brigham Young University-Idaho, then this university will shine forth ever brighter as a beacon of righteousness and of inspired educational innovation.” I have attended 3 private universities and repeat, that BYU must be fully aligned with the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and its leaders, or risk discontinuation, or irrelevancy. So sad, but typical, that so many who are attacking him, didn't read his full talk in context. It is a brave, compassionate, piercing and prophetic call for BYU to remain true to it's mission, as outlined by President Kimball and others. I welcome it
Sasha KwapinskiAugust 27, 2021
It is difficult, in today's society, to recognize the difference and strike the balance between love and relativism. For many in today's world, "love" is thought of and equated to little more than the absence of moral standards. James 1:27 states concisely this "twin call" of exercising love and maintaining behavioral standards. "Pure religion and undefiled" consists in practicing both halves of that equation -- "visiting the orphans and widows" (reaching out in love to others), while remaining "unstained from the world" (maintaining standards of behavior and morality. As for me, I am proud to be a member of a denomination which understands that distinction (between love and relativism).
Kathleen Dalton WoodburyAugust 27, 2021
I was not a BYU student, but I tried to be a student of Hugh Nibley through his published works. They have had a great influence on how I study and learn from the scriptures to this day. I heard him speak at a Salt Lake Institute devotional when I was in college and was amazed to notice that he appeared to be taking notes as he was speaking - at least he was busy writing something during his own talk. I met him once and mentioned that I enjoyed reading science fiction and fantasy (he wasn't impressed by science fiction because he felt it idealized scientists), and he told me that he enjoyed fantasy, too. A very interesting and insightful mind that more people need to be influenced by.
Leslie MadsenAugust 27, 2021
I was so impressed with Elder Holland’s thoughtful and sensitive remarks at BYU. He expressed compassion and understanding for those struggling with issues in life but reiterated the importance of this campus standing as a light to the rest of the academic world by staying true to the standards of the Church of Jesus Christ. Leslie Madsen
Patty WalserAugust 27, 2021
Beautiful song with a beautiful message! Thanks for sharing with us!
Anna DurfeeAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for your perspective and your defense of a true man of God. It's so unsettling what some took away from his BYU address. I took away a much different message. A friend of mine bristled at the musket analogy for some reason. Here was my response to him: The analogy first comes from Neal A. Maxwell. Holland chooses to emphasize it for BYU and its path forward, specifically for those in the classroom. Holland says as he quotes a letter sent to him, "But I would hope that BYU professors would be bridging those gaps between faith and intellect.." Then he goes into Maxwell's musket AND trowel analogy. Early church members did not have the luxury of being left alone as they built the church with their trowels. I would imagine, begrudgingly, they had to keep the muskets close. Maxwell uses that to liken it to the difficult situation many BYU, and other CES school professors can find themselves in. It comes up for a lot of my colleagues in the sciences a bit more often. There are times when it will APPEAR that new discoveries are in direct contrast with church doctrine. What do you do then? Or it will seem that current interpretations of social science studies are in contrast to church doctrine and resulting policies. Each professor has to ask themselves what will happen then. Maxwell's quote says, “In a way[,] [Latter-day Saint] scholars at BYU and elsewhere are a little bit like the builders of the temple in Nauvoo, who worked with a trowel in one hand and a musket in the other. Today scholars building the temple of learning must also pause on occasion to defend the kingdom." Oaks later asks, using the original Maxwell analogy, to hear more musket fire, meaning that perhaps too many professors who can see the link between the secular and the spiritual are instead backing down and not saying anything for fear of whatever may come of that. Back in the early church, the musket may have been just as necessary as the trowel to build up the church. Perhaps the message is that today that same is true. Since engaging in the conversation with you, Brian, which I have really loved doing so thank you for keeping the dialogue open, I've been thinking about peace. How do we get peace? I just listened to the Saturday session of last conference where Elder Holland's talk is on peace. As he spoke, I thought, well, you could get peace through war. That's not fun. No one wants that. But there are times when the enemy won't relent, won't stop trying to harm you and threaten your existence and so you have to fight. Then there is peace you get because everyone has learned to love each other, even when they disagree. That's the ideal right there. Unfortunately, another way to get peace, or pseudo peace, is to back down or to give up. It's like in movies where the enemy promises the other side that they'll stop if the other side joins the enemy. If the other side joins the enemy, the conflict ends and there is a sort of peace, but the peace came with too many concessions and compromises, leaving the other side probably without much of what they wanted. So where you see a problem bringing up the concept of the musket and musket fire as a poor way to illustrate the difficulties and challenges ahead, I see, perhaps, a better way to understand how to gain, gradually, the ideal type of peace. By defending our doctrine, the very gospel of our Lord and Savior, we will, undoubtedly, cause some discord. That's unfortunate. It's unfortunate that someone can bring upon themselves hate and vitriol because they wish to defend the gospel just like it's unfortunate that someone can bring upon themselves hate for defending the rights of LGBTQ people or people of color. But should we or, in the audience's case, scholars at the Lord's universities, choose to gain peace through throwing up the white flag and conceding the entire ground of the gospel, then we gain a frail, weak, mirage of true peace. Just as those fighting for equality could just give up and go home and therefore gain a certain mirage of peace because well, they just stopped fighting. The thing I like about Holland's talk is the call for more understanding and earnest intentionality in how we reconcile our faith with secular knowledge because THAT might eventually lead to the kind of peace where everyone has just learned to love each other despite disagreement. Scholars or church members who have studied the doctrine and have learned to live it with exactness will become the kind that can communicate their genuine love for others despite disagreement. This might help those that disagree with us about our doctrine learn to love us too even though they disagree. Then you get real peace. Christ had to contend with others, sometimes quite frequently, in order for Him to teach the gospel which He knew would eventually lead to the kind of eternal peace we all want. Peace is a process and parts of the process include defending ourselves and the truths we have a testimony of and doing it in a way that might aid understanding."
Joan BennionAugust 27, 2021
In full disclosure, Jeff is my son. I know of no one who tries to live a more Christ-like life and I have been blessed to be on his journey with him. Watching him take some darts along the way has been painful as his mother but I so appreciate his spiritual insight and courage to live his truth. I know his heart and his love & compassion for his fellow travelers. I have also been gratified to know of those souls he has helped & encouraged. We can all do better in replacing hate & misunderstanding with love and understanding for all of God’s children. Our journeys are not all the same but we must anchor ourselves to God’s principles and love for each of us and try always to share it with others no matter where we are in our journey. I love my LGBTQ friends one and all. And thank you Jeff, with whom I share a great love for Elder Holland and for sharing tender thoughts and feelings in this article. They are mine as well, I love you both.
LindaAugust 27, 2021
Apostasy begins with criticizing out church leaders. That's just what Satan wants.
Kerry ClarkAugust 27, 2021
In 1998 on a Sunday, our family was in the Lobby of LDS Hospital waiting for an elevator. We were on our way to see my mother who was a patient in the hospital. While waiting, Elder Holland walked in hurriedly. I quickly said while pointing to my 12 year old son "Elder Holland, meet the newest Deacon in The Church". Elder Holland congratulated my son and gave him a side hug and a little "noogie" - probably because my son is a red head. Sadly this son passed nearly 4 years ago from a drug and alcohol overdose. I have always been grateful for the brief interaction my son had with Elder Holland.
E. L.August 27, 2021
I woke up this morning to see a post on my Facebook feed by my very bitter, hate-filled adult child about Elder Holland and his talk at BYU. Rather than responding to the vitriol he is claiming to be "true", I searched out the actual talk and wasn't surprised to read a loving talk taken incredibly out of context. Almost immediately after, I found this article. Thank you. I've tried to teach my children to go to the source before doing, saying, or even believing anything. Unfortunately I don't think it would have mattered in this case. This child is just so full of hate and contention and it's best to ignore things like this. I love Elder Holland and wish I could have the opportunity to sit with him and discuss the many talks he's given that have felt specifically for me over the years.
Dennis HorneAugust 27, 2021
I have had no personal interactions with Elder Holland but I still know him to be an apostle and special witness of the Lord Jesus Christ and that is good enough for me to sustain him completely and follow his counsel.
Ben ArkellAugust 27, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing this! We are so grateful for everything Meridian does. A true light in the darkness!
Carol RadmallAugust 27, 2021
I personally love Elder Hollands talks, he oozes love, kindness, caring, spiritualness above measure! He pours his heart and soul out in his talks! I don't understand how anyone could be offended by his words! He is truly inspired and a man of God. The prophets throughout history have been stoned whenever they have heard anything that they didn't agree with! Society has been becoming very angry! I feel if the Savior gave the talk he couldn't have said it any better than Elder Holland ~ the fact is that God's laws do not change! They never will! We will never be exempt from keeping the commandments!
Herm OlsenAugust 27, 2021
Great message about an even greater man!
A. BinghamAugust 27, 2021
We are witnessing the virtual stoning of an apostle who speaks the truth by very cruel people using weaponized social media tactics.
MichelleAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for this perspective. Come Follow Me manual suggested Pres Eyring’s April 2019 talk: The Power of Sustaining Faith. Every member needs to review it and give an honest introspective look at him/herself. George Q. Cannon’s warning, that he quoted, was powerful. Criticism of the Lord’s chosen leaders leads us into darkness.
Duane BoyceAugust 27, 2021
A saddening but wonderful article. Personally, I do not feel worthy of Elder Holland. That he is undergoing criticism demonstrates that some can find something to criticize in anyone and anything. Elder Holland's greatness of soul should be obvious, and that alone should exempt him from such treatment. Apparently--sadly--it is not so. That is a pity that nothing can justify.
Jill AndrewsAugust 27, 2021
Thank you for sharing your experiences Jeff as a testament to the words and deeds that should at the very least count as evidence of how we can interpret Elder Holland's remarks. My heart breaks with yours that such an outpouring of love could be so utterly misunderstood. Experience has also taught me the truth you included re: the scriptures speaking of “the wicked are like the troubled sea, when it cannot rest, whose waters cast up mire and dirt.” Satan enjoys bringing additional misery and woe to those already bearing the burden of same sex attraction by whatever means necessary including "stirring their hearts up to anger" because that's who he is. Let us not be a reflection of that!
Steve SwappAugust 27, 2021
I can only echo and say amen to this Gospel-based perspective offered by Jeff Bennion. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, who I have met and corresponded with on a variety of occasions, and the other Apostles of the Lord leading His Restored Church have spent much time in prayer, study, conversations, and apostolic consultation to design loving and encouraging responses to the concerns surrounding the various types of sexual attraction God's children experience during this sometimes troubling mortal existence on Earth as well as toward the sexual orientations and self-labeling that individuals have been adopting to try to understand and describe their sexual attractions and related characteristics. The leaders of the Lord's Church, after carefully considering the many interpretations and viewpoints that people have developed in recent decades, the first thing they did was to create a website and a booklet to reassure those who experience sexual attractions and feelings about their gender that don't seem to align easily with the clear teachings of the Church regarding the proper use of our sexuality, and these materials focused almost exclusively on reassuring affected people and teaching the general Church membership that Christian discipleship requires us to develop understanding, love, and empathy for our brothers and sisters who face these special challenges and any others in this mortal life. Nothing in their words has indicated that it is proper to distance ourselves from same-gender attracted Saints or those facing the doubts and anxieties that come with gender dysphoria. Quite the opposite! We have been called to repentance for our lacking love and support for the people around us facing these challenges, and happily many Latter-day Saints are realizing that these are people we need to love and encourage, just as we need to do for all people on the Earth. To be a consecrated disciple of the Christ while at the same time experiencing such confusing sexual and identity feelings is one of this life's more difficult challenges, perhaps in our age even more than in centuries past because of the philosophies and assumptions that have been built up and popularized and are partially based on truths but contain many mistaken conclusions. Many good people in and out of the Church have adopted certain beliefs that are not really true, and it has led sincere people battling with these challenges as well as many family members and friends away from the truths of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and even to have doubts about the important teachings the Lord is having His apostles instill in our hearts. So without getting into the many details and questions for which millions of Saints and other Christians and others need better understanding and the unshakable witness from the Holy Spirit, let me just say this to keep this complex issue simple for the moment: Voices of the world (in this case those supporting various tenets of what we can call "gay philosophy") and voices from the anointed leadership of the Church of Jesus Christ often sound like opposing clarion calls. Sometimes it's a matter of seeing things from a different perspective, and sometimes it really is satanic forces spreading easy-to-believe lies about the teachings of the Church and the path to true and lasting happiness. My heartfelt advice is for us who desire to be faithful disciples of the Christ to lean towards the answers and guidance provided to us by the wise, prayerful, and inspired leaders of the Church rather than automatically interpreting everything through worldly lenses, which are partially true and to a great degree misleading. Truly, we need to be able to perceive the full palette of truths on the subject in order to understand what the leaders in the LGBTQIA community have right and what they have erred in. We believe in being honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous, and in doing good to all men... We hope to be able to endure all things. If there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report or praiseworthy, we seek after these things.
RebeccaAugust 27, 2021
Amen to this great article!!
Ann-Marie JensenAugust 27, 2021
I’m always appreciative of the insights shared by Geoff.
ChristineAugust 26, 2021
Thank you so much. As one who has loved Elder Holland and his powerful messages of peace and love and hope and faith in Jesus Christ for all of my adult life, I thank you for your beautiful words. He has been a beacon to me and blessed my life in ways I cannot even begin to articulate. Thank you for your words in defense of a very good man and servant of the Lord. May God bless you and your family.
KCAugust 26, 2021
Thank you! Too many of us sisters equate “niceness” with passivity. In D&C 93 the Lord starts out by talking about light & truth that creates worlds AND created and gives life to US then at the end he reminds us to “make haste” & pray always then “keep my sayings” & “you shall not be confounded in this world”. You have a perfect examples of how our actively choosing the light, and shining the light in darkness makes us feel better & we are promised not to be confounded. No reason for passivity.
Patricia WintersAugust 26, 2021
"Let’s all commit to raising our sites and speaking up." This should be "raising our sights."
KLTAugust 26, 2021
Well written and well stated. In this time of ever increasing distractions, it is time to turn to the Lord and His prophet, to read the scriptures and pray with real intent. Having the Spirit was never more important than now.
Ronald BarnesAugust 26, 2021
I did not start wearing a mask until I was required to do so. Because of conflicting information, I resisted getting the vaccine. It was not the Prophet's words that cause me to finally get the shot, it was his example. Learning that he got shot himself, I decided that if anyone on earth knew the right thing to do, it would be the Prophet of God.
Sandy DildineAugust 26, 2021
There is so much of the radical, Marxist agenda on campuses in this country. An institution that teaches truth, not propaganda is needed more than ever! So many qualified people want to teach at BYU; let the indoctrinated professors go so that the cycle does not continue. Parents should be able to trust that their children will be strengthened in their testimonies and not led astray by the people who's salaries are paid for by them and by faithful Saints tithing dollars!
Milton NodackerAugust 26, 2021
One of the things that attracted me to the Church as a investigator is the principle that the founding documents of the United States, the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution, are considered inspired by God and held sacred by this Church. I have always felt a deep reverence for these documents and the divine principles enumerated in them. I was distressed when the latest revision to the Handbook ripped out and shredded the Second Article of the Bill of Rights, apparently in the service of "political correctness". I found Elder Holland's reference to the building of the Nauvoo Temple requiring trowels and muskets instructive. Under current Church policy the builders would have had to defend the construction with trowels alone, since the muskets would have been prohibited on a Church property.
brian stubbsAugust 26, 2021
Adding my own miniscule associations with Hugh Nibley, I took Middle Egyptian from him 1971-72. Thirty students started the class, five finished the first semester; three of us finished the second semester. I told him of my plans to also learn Hebrew and other things. He gave me some advice: take Modern Hebrew, not Biblical Hebrew, and you'll read circles around the Biblical Hebrew students. I took his advice and he was right. He later took a keen interest in my linguistic research in Uto-Aztecan, following it closely and encouragingly. He was not only a great man and mind, but also very kind. I loved him like a second father.
Kathryn GrantAugust 26, 2021
When Moroni visited Joseph Smith, he echoed Malachi's words that if the hearts of the children don't turn to their fathers, the whole earth will be utterly wasted at the Lord's coming (see Doctrine and Covenants 2). Could this be why Satan is trying so hard to turn the hearts of the children *against* their fathers?
Nihla W. JuddAugust 25, 2021
It is so refreshing to our heavy laden souls to hear truth shouted from the page - finally. Thank you, Elder Holland, for loudly proclaiming the truth when we thought hope was sinking rapidly below the surface. I have grandchildren attending BYU, and as a result, their stance on correct principles is not at all what we thought it would be when we trustingly sent them there. Something has gone awry. The influence of a "teacher" is so all encompassing that he who bears that title must sense the responsibility that goes along with it. "Rabbi" / teacher. We must emulate and follow the teachings of Christ so that we do not offend "the little ones" and bear the consequences of leading them astray from revealed truth. Thank you for standing tall and proclaiming loudly true and correct principles. Thanks for restoring hope in the hearts of parents who have been devastated of late. We are so very grateful for your clear, concise, loud exclamations on weighty matters i.e., the spiritual lives of our posterity who were trustingly placed in the arms of Brigham Young University. Thanks for calling out the wolves in sheep's clothing. God bless your for it - "Do we not have a prophet in the land?" Let's return Brigham Young University to its greatness. "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." We love you again and again.
Jill PalmerAugust 25, 2021
I am tremendously grateful for my years as a student at BYU,1968-75. Each of my teachers in many fields helped my testimony of the gospel increase. In particular, my first Book of Mormon class was an eye-opener to me with warnings about social and other issues to beware of in the latter-days. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. I hope that Elder Holland's magnificent talk is taken to heart by all.
brian stubbsAugust 25, 2021
Three cheers for Elder Holland! Make that 27 cheers!! Some of my children and grandchildren have said similarly, that some BYU professors push worldly philosophy and not even mingled with much scripture. Especially irksome are how many BYU professors seem to think the Book of Mormon is "inspired fiction" or less and did not happen in ancient America, counter to evidences like the discovery of Nahom written in stone, no less, and hundreds of other such supports. Those into such wayward non-wisdom need to keep those opinions to themselves, be retired early, or fired. And that question should be posed to every future prospective professor, as well.
Jill PalmerAugust 25, 2021
I am up to page 250 of this book and do not want it to end! Hugh Nibley has been a rock in Latter-day Saint scholarship, entirely necessary in confirming the Book of Mormon in its cultural and religious settings. I enjoy his witty style of taking down critics. He has helped my testimony of the gospel expand, for which I am grateful.
Andre J MostertAugust 25, 2021
I miss Hugh Nibley. Our family: my father, mother, my sister and I moved into the Manavu Ward in Provo shortly after Bro. and Sis. Nibley moved across Fourth East from Ward Chapel. In fact Hugh was one of the Gospel Doctrine teachers. I was 13 years old. My folks attended his class that first Sunday. The first thing my dad said as they walked in our house was "I don't understand that man at all." So, from then on Mother attended Hugh's class and my dad went to the other class. That was our introduction to Hugh. When he found out they actually lived in the 9th Ward's area, he went looking for a house within the Manavu Ward boundary:Three doors west of us on 7th North. My mother and Phyllis became great friends. Finding out that my dad was a carpenter, Hugh asked him to come to their home and see if he could build an office space for him. Dad visited with Hugh and checked out the number of books Hugh had in his library. Hugh had an old carriage house on his property and after checking the floor, my dad explained that the ton of books Hugh had meant that he would have to shore up the floor first. As for me, Hugh was a teacher that was a delight to try and follow his teaching. One day as I walked past his classroom in the old Joseph Smith Building, the door opened and the student poured out, all of them looking totally amaze. I asked a friend, what had happened? He laughed and said Hugh did it again. "What?" He was nearing the end of class and he started teaching in some language none of us recognized. I often walked home from school the same time as Hugh. I would walk behind him as I could see he was reading a book. AS we got to the split where to the right you would cross 8th North to go down Third East on the west side and to the east said. More than once, I jogged ahead and slowed down traffic, while Hugh crossed without ever looking up. During my graduate school days, Hugh's son Alex would often baby sit our two boys. One day my Finnish-born wife asked if we could go talk to Hugh. Which we did. She was braver than me and took along one of the several of his books we owned. As we talked about how many languages he knew, he thought for a moment and then said "15 or 16. I can read and write two or three others, but I don't consider that I know them. Then he signed my wife's book "Since Cumorah" with the brief comment: "Greetings to the Mosterts from Hugh Nibley." We loved that man and his family.
Jan RifeAugust 25, 2021
I love Elder Holland. My mom worked with him when she taught seminary in Seattle, he has slways been my favotite. 4 out of 5 of my siblings went there in the 70s. My son graduated 10 years ago and I was so shocked at how it has changed. It's about time for this speach and I'm glad it came from my favorite. I hope all the professors that teach contrary to the gospel principles are let go. Please return it to the Lord's university
Dennis HorneAugust 25, 2021
I recommend this book to all. Studying Nibley is a profound experience in gaining knowledge and humility.
Barbara BlackburnAugust 25, 2021
I was, and am an avid fan of Hugh Nibley and have many of his books I recorded all of his television lessons. I was young and admired him in so many ways. He said it like it was. He has been a stalwart in my growth and I appreciate all I gained from him. My children and grandchildren have also been his fans. We are so grateful to have been enlightened by his intelligence and determination.
Dennis HorneAugust 25, 2021
I certainly do not know all things, or even many things I would like to know, so I don't know if "justification" of the past is the best word to use or context to ponder the subject in, but I do defend the doctrine and policies and procedures of past prophets in their proper historical context. I have done so with this subject on my blog: http://www.truthwillprevail.xyz/2021/02/apostles-prophets-and-gods-former.html and for a soul-edifying and uplifting detailed account of the receipt of the revelation itself, see: https://www.fairlatterdaysaints.org/blog/2018/05/31/elder-bruce-r-mcconkies-witness-of-the-1978-revelation-on-the-priesthood
Barbie MeyersAugust 25, 2021
Thank you to Elder Holland for addressing the issues found within BYU. I have found much coming from there very discomforting. I hope and pray that the faculty will realign themselves with truth and light. I hope and pray that the student body will seek for truth and light.
LoraAugust 25, 2021
Bruce R McConkie, CES conference Aug 1978 quoted in Sermons and Writings of Bruce R. McConkie: “Forget everything that I have said, or what President Brigham Young or President George Q. Cannon or whoever has said in days past that is contrary to the present revelation. We spoke with a limited understanding and without the light and knowledge that has now come into the world. We get our truth line upon line and precept upon precept. We have now had added a new flood of intelligence and light on this particular subject, and it erases all the darkness and all the views and all the thoughts of the past. They don’t matter anymore . . . It doesn’t make a particle of difference what anybody ever said about the Negro matter before the first day of June of this year (1978). It is a new day and a new arrangement, and the Lord has now given the revelation that sheds light into the world on this subject.”
Farol E HunterAugust 25, 2021
That brought tears to my eyes. He is an amazing man and I honor him. I still, to this day, remember hearing the announcement that "all worthy males will be able to receive the priesthood" and feeling thrilled for that decision.
PamAugust 25, 2021
I am so grateful for Elder Holland's speech. I attended BYU in the 70s, and returned to Provo recently after having lived in other places in between. I was surprised at the changes I have seen at BYU since returning. I have been disappointed in hearing about radical ideas of some faculty members at BYU, about very vocal promotion of alternate lifestyles. There was a house on my street occupied by several members of the football team, who had inappropriate parties every weekend involving alcohol, tobacco, and likely other substances. I see athletes for BYU and other students whose dress and hair do not reflect the honor code. I am so glad that Elder Holland addressed some of the issues affecting BYU at this time. I hope BYU will uphold its unique mission and not yield to the voices that are pulling it away from that mission.
Rosie BAugust 25, 2021
I was a young single working mother in 1982 when I converted to the Church. I had a strong testimony of the Book of Mormon, but there was a lot about Church culture that I found confusing & discouraging. I discovered Hugh Nibley's works and his fascinating insights helped me see more of the big eternal picture. I hope for a revival of interest in his work.
JuliannAugust 25, 2021
Everyone has a story, a life, struggles and successes to share. And people are hungry to talk, but they have become cynical and jaded that anyone really cares to listen. I can strike up a conversation with just about anyone because I take the time to do so, because I ask the right questions, and because I sincerely am interested in who they are. Plus I’m not out to give advice, diminish feelings or “fix” others. There is an art to listening, and it can be learned, but it takes patience, desire, and two ears, one mouth.
Sydney WheadonAugust 25, 2021
I enjoy all of your comments, but this one was very relevant and important in our world.
Bill EnglishAugust 25, 2021
You mean like "today most scholars agree that the best option is a river valley called Wadi Tayyib al-Ism, discovered in 1995 by Latter-day Saint explorers George Potter and Craig Thorsted." in the text of the article. Or, "According to Warren Aston, who has carefully explored the surrounding regions..." Or the list of several books and articles listed in the notes and bibliography?
DanAugust 25, 2021
Very good and thought provoking
Maryann TaylorAugust 24, 2021
I just read this address today and I am so glad you also posted it on Meridian. Elder Holland makes it clear that BYU professors have a sacred trust to teach according to the light and truth of the gospel. I am so happy Elder Holland gave this address at a time when there is confusion for some about the subject of same-sex relationships. I think my favorite part of the address was his comment that: "..Christ never ONCE withheld his love from anyone, but he also never once said to anyone, 'Because I love you, you are exempt from keeping my commandments.' " I think that says it all.
CurtisAugust 24, 2021
This is exactly something I am researching and am writing on right now. This is a fantastic article and I quote several of the same things you do!
Kelly P.August 24, 2021
My own son's testimony was shredded and shattered by the teachings and opinions of an admired BYU professor over 26 years ago. My son, a faithful returned missionary, was so proud and thankful to attend BYU, where he earned his Bachelor's degree. We were thankful that he could attend BYU, and entrusted him to that great institution. But we never expected him to be spiritually wounded by a professor and mentor who should have been strengthening his faith and building his testimony. I hope the faculty and leaders of BYU will listen to Elder Holland, and work hard to stay within the light and truths of the gospel of Jesus Christ and teach them. They have an extremely important responsibility to do so.
R McCaskillAugust 24, 2021
I graduate from BYU and was impressed and loved how it was not only a secular institution but also a religious one. I enjoyed my gospel doctrine classes and know the mission of BYU was inspired. I had to go through an interview with my Bishop and agree to uphold the standard of the church, I hope the professors are asked to do the same and are held accountable if they don't. If I didn't uphold those standards I risked getting expelled, I would expect the professors should be held to the same criteria.
Jo Ann OkelberryAugust 24, 2021
This situation is so incredibly sad. My heart aches and cries for all those people, especially the women and girls, who will be back in bondage. We all feel so helpless. May God ease their burdens.
Jan KuesterAugust 24, 2021
Thank you for a very revealing article. I agree completely and watch with a heavy heart, the effects of the beliefs and errant claims which so many people in our modern, self-deluding society ascribe to. Thank you for the call and warning to each of us. I have a firm testimony that we are led by prophets, seers and revelatory who are here to teach, testify and encourage all mankind that we must look to the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ for salvation and peace.
Jennetta BiberstonAugust 24, 2021
I read the "Kiterunner" and it made me sick knowing how many adults and children had suffered like that and even worse. I pray for your people, for our people, as we should all be brothers and sisters.
Carl OlsenAugust 24, 2021
Very early on when the various vaccines began distribution, I vowed that I would not be vaccinated because I did not trust that they were safe. As time went on I became even more firm in my decision. But when I heard President Nelson's recommendation, I made it a matter of prayer during evening prayers with my wife. Almost immediately after that prayer, I distinctly heard a "still small voice" repeatedly speak the phrase "Follow the Prophet" resounding in my mind. I immediately scheduled an appointment to get the vaccine.
CASAugust 24, 2021
As a BYU graduate of many years ago and avid BYU supporter, I honestly think it is time to play "hardball" with these issues! I propose that any teacher/professor violating the high standards of teaching at Brigham Young University which are outside the boundaries set by the Church of Latter-day Saints and the teachings therein, should be put on academic probation with a follow-up interview by an Apostle in person. The claims against that person should be clear and substantiated by students or faculty. (The video clip by a Lehi High student the first week of school of the offense he/she saw and heard from a teacher was conclusive in the dismissal of that offending teacher!). If the concerns are substantiated, the instructor should be terminated immediately! Period! This is MY university also, and I think high standards of teaching should be expected and demanded!
Laurin RackhamAugust 24, 2021
Yesterday my daughter and I 'intstalled' her gay son and his sister in the dorms at the Y. Both have ever been treated with the utmost courtesy and dignity at the Y. They are some of my 32 offspring (and grand-offspring) who have been there. Afterwards, shopping for food for them, my daughter met Sister Susan Easton Black, also shopping, and expressed profound gratitude for her teaching there. "That class is where I gained my testimony of the Prophet Joseph Smith." That you Elder Doctor Holland and Sister Doctor Black so very much for all you do for all of us.
JaneAugust 24, 2021
I don't know anyone there and I'm sick as well. All those women and girls driven back into the dark ages because our leaders don't have the courage to do the right thing. Not only that, but US leaders are preventing others from doing the right thing. God help the Afghans. I trust that God will demand justice from US leaders sentencing Afghans to death, if they're lucky. I pray with all my might for our sisters and brothers there descending into darkness because we abandoned them. Only the Lord can help them now.
Dennis HorneAugust 24, 2021
This was a superb and inspired address from an Apostle of the Lord Jesus Christ. I see from online content that many are taking issue with it and therefore showing where they stand. Some are slandering this Special Witness who told the truth he knew some would find upsetting or unpopular or contrary to their personal views. Such is Elder Holland's calling and duty before God. I entertain slight hope that the offending parties at BYU that Elder Holland was speaking to will correct their ways. These people, as Elder Holland noted, are activists and advocates; hence the "tragic" friendly fire aimed at the Brethren/Church he spoke of. No matter the philosophies of the world, the scriptures and doctrine will not change and BYU needs to harmonize or either cease to exist or something else drastic--as Elder Holland, Pres. Nelson, and Pres. Oaks were all quoted as saying. We must love all (including LGBT) but NOT "condone" the sinful behavior or activism.
John R CarpenterAugust 24, 2021
"... After having served a full-time mission and marrying her husband in the temple, a friend of mine recently left the church. In her graduation statement on a social media post, she credited [such and such a BYU program and its faculty] with the radicalizing of her attitudes and the destruction of her faith.’” I know of 3 people who have left the Church because of what they learned at BYU - including my daughter.
John R CarpenterAugust 24, 2021
A comment regarding the left and right political image followed by another image of the Restored Gospel on the left and the Apostasy on the right. The Restored Gospel is neither left-wing nor right-wing of the political spectrum. It is a God centered way of life that can, through Jesus the Christ, lead to eternal salvation and to the full Glory of God. And anyone claiming or thinking that these two images in the article support left-wing politics and religion “that” is like the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ is wrong. And anyone thinking or claiming that the primary colors representing the left & right wing politics relate somehow to the image of the Restored Gospel or Apostasy is also wrong. The two images are separate and independent from each other. Any association other to the undecided being drawn one way or the other would be incorrect. The top image represents the pull of the left & right wing politics and their religions of man trying to influence the undecided. The bottom image conveys that the undecided need to choose between the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ and the Apostasy of popular emotional and so religions fixations.
Sonya WashburnAugust 24, 2021
I think we all need to remember not to judge people, some people's health will not allow them to be vaccinated. Also I find that when people wear a mask they feel safe and come too close and touch and hug and mess with their masks, and get germs all over their hands, spreading virus everywhere. Trying to understanding a person wearing a mask is more difficult so people come closer to be heard or understood...I say stop keep your distance, take the mask off so I can understand what you are saying..I prefer social distancing.
Sonya WashburnAugust 24, 2021
Thank you Elder Holland for addressing this issue. I too have felt to stop contributing to BYU if its professors are going to teach contrary to gospel principles. This has been going on for quite some time and there should be a way to weed out these unbelieving professors that are doing damage to our trusting children.
PatriceAugust 24, 2021
So glad that someone has said something. Bravo to Elder Holland. He is able to put his thoughts across in such a beautiful & spiritual way. What's been going on at BYU for the past several years and how it has accelerated to such a rapid pace is scary, to say the least.
SfischAugust 24, 2021
Amen and amen! Philosophies of men-so thankful for a living oracle to guide us in our fallen world. I love Elder Holland-he proclaimed the truth and corrected the mistakes in a way/manner that most only hope they could.
Elizabeth SAugust 24, 2021
Thanks for covering this talk in detail. I've written the Board of Trustees and admin at BYU 3 times in the past year about particular curricula and faculty attitudes at BYU. I am glad for this evidence that they are listening. Now I guess we'll see if this makes a difference with the boots on the ground.
Paralee M. EckmanAugust 24, 2021
I have known Elder Jeffrey R. Holland since he was a child in the same ward I grew up in. We met and visited briefly several times as he visited his beloved St. George. We treasure his wisdom and insight, and I am so glad he gave this address at BYU! I have heard from people who have had children who lost their testimony at BYU, and that is a tragedy! When a student attends BYU, you expect them to be strengthened in Gospel principles, and not hear messages against Church teachings. I went to BYU in 1954-55, and it was very Church centered. It needs to be now, and in the future!
William ToftAugust 24, 2021
Wearing masks is easy, even if you don't want to be vaccinated. It wasn't too long ago the prophet advised us to seek personal revelation. On this matter my wife and I (both in our 70s) have counseled together, pondered and prayed ....and continue to do so about the matter. Thus far, we feel the vaccine is not right for us. It may be for most people but we are avoiding the vaccine as we continue to be open to promptings to do otherwise.
ShaunaAugust 24, 2021
thank you Elder Holland. I love you and you will always be "President Holland" to me, as you were President of BYU when I was there. I thank God for you and your passion for BYU. I had a daughter there last year who is soon leaving on a mission and deliver another daughter there tomorrow. I have attended 2 other private universities for graduate training and there is nothing like BYU. But I am also aware that not all faculty are on board completely with the Gospel, and in fact, in receiving a masters degree there, many years ago, was also indoctrinated, and believed for a time, some ideologies that are not in complete harmony with the Gospel. Students can get the philosophies of the world anywhere, but BYU is one of the few places where they can learn those philosophies through the lens of the gospel. It seems to me that the Lord has a vested and continuing interest in education--i.e. D&C 88 and 93, but it also seems striking to me, that 4 of 15 current apostles have been either Presidents of BYU-I or BYU. I believe you when you say that the Lord planted a love for BYU early on in your heart, and I am so grateful that the flame is still burning. May God continue to lead this great university to be a "house of learning and a house of faith."
P SkousenAugust 24, 2021
In my life I attended BYU and helped my husband through this magnificent university. I have always been grateful for that opportunity. My brother and my youngest daughter graduated from BYU and my middle daughter graduated from BYU-I. The standards and wisdom received from the remarkable professors who stood for truth and righteousness was always a testimony to the truthfulness of the gospel of Jesus Christ to myself and to my family. Thank you Elder Holland for your perfect words of wisdom.
James WarrAugust 24, 2021
It would be nice if you gave credit to those who originally discovered this place instead of giving the impression that you made the discovery.
WeezieAugust 24, 2021
Thank you so very much for giving me some new and true perspective I had never thought of before. It really helped soften my heart. You are a phenomenal writer to be able to do what you did. I’m at peace now, thanks to you!
chris howellAugust 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing. As a parent with three BYU grads and son in law part of the faculty, I pray that Elder Holland's admonishment will be heeded without reservation.
JustinAugust 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing this message. Too many are swept along with "politically correct" messages, and forget the love of our Heavenly Father and His desire for happiness and love for all. Sometimes that means taking a stand, and aligning yourself with Him. His ways are not our ways.
LindaAugust 24, 2021
BYU needs to "let go" those instructors who teach this trash to students. As professors of BYU, they are actually going against the code of BYU just as much as any student who dresses or acts inappropriately.
SamAugust 24, 2021
I think there is another division that I do often read with Deseret News. Trump has caused great division almost Anarchy. Many in the Church feel you must be for Trump or your not going to the Celestial Kingdom. That you must be a Republican. I have concerns about both parties. Please address this. Our country is in a major pandemic and many thousands have needlessly died because of the word , Hoax. Please address this! Thank you
Colleen MoellerAugust 24, 2021
I love this article, and am so glad that Elder Holland spoke to this point. Having attended BYU a few decades ago, and having watched it closely as a place to recommend to my own children, I have been disappointed in more recent years from the public messages that seem to come from faculty and students. Thank you Elder Holland for making it clear that BYU, it’s faculty and students should always be loyal first to gospel principles and the messages of the restored gospel.
SageAugust 24, 2021
My heart breaks for the people of Afghanistan. I will continue to pray and donate for them. So sorry our pres couldn't keep 2500 soldiers there. Such a shame.
Alan BylundAugust 23, 2021
We need to keep in mind that God is good at choosing his battles. He allows us to believe certain cultural false assumptions in order to not distract from the more important messages. It is also important to understand that this is a world wide church trying to persuade leaders of nations that the church is always supportive of the governments of the countries they are allowed to participate in. Think of the message they need to send to all the leaders of all those nations. We also need to remember that the church wanted all members to feel safe at church. Those of us who are aware of the bigger picture can deal with a little inconvenience to make those less informed feel safe and avoid a major controversy which would be counterproductive to the church's mission.
Alan FlemingAugust 23, 2021
The best way to understand the sacrament is to partake of it. The best way to understand the temple is to attend it. While we can study with faith the scriptures and books by good writers, the temple is best understood by attendance in the temple itself. When we understand the atonement we will come to the sacrament table with tears of repentance and hope. When the understand the plan of salvation we will participate in temple covenant-ordinances with humilty and service. During the sacrament and in the temple we will receive revelation as we participate worthily.
Lex KAugust 23, 2021
Ever since the prophet came out with the letter encouraging getting the vaccine, people have been treating it , and seem to keep insinuating that this was a revelation and so we should all follow. No where has it been said that this is a revelation. It is a suggestion from the presidency. You are still a member in good standing if you choose not to get the vaccine.
Maryann TaylorAugust 23, 2021
In order to see a full picture here, I think bullying needs to be addressed. While there is some great advice in this article, there are times when accepting aggressive behavior is wrong. Also, whether the parent gets involved really depends on the age of the child. Sometimes parental intervention is necessary, especially if there are repeated offences. I believe it is much better for the PARENT to remain calm and to show a little empathy for the child (not dramatic coddling), rather than to immediately tell the child to "calm down." When someone tells me to "calm down," it feels like what they are really saying is, "I don't really care that you are upset, and your feelings don't really matter."
Pat DraweAugust 23, 2021
Your article is a wonderful help and reminder for believers. I believe the law of agency is so essential that careless drivers or intentional evil doers are not blocked from causing hurt or disaster, except in unusual circumstances. Have you written or would you consider writing an article about the intersection of man’s free agency and the Lord’s protection that we pray for?
Pam RoderAugust 23, 2021
I will add my voice with that of Charles McClelland. He stated my opinion exactly.
Bonnie MattsonAugust 23, 2021
Excellent article! Thank you for taking the time to share these thoughts. I love the Temple and will be glad to get back when the restrictions are lifted and my health improves.
Wally GoddardAugust 23, 2021
Good ideas. I recommend that every reader consider the five steps in emotion coaching described by John Gottman in Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child (chapter 3).
J. RossAugust 23, 2021
Excellent article. I like the author's willingness to question his own personal beliefs. I believe most of us have had a time when we disagreed with a church issue. Sometimes it is the politically liberal among us, now it seem to be the conservatives.The point is none of us has a perfect view.If we think we know more than the prophets, we will be left on the outside.
T. BarrettAugust 23, 2021
One thing that has made the temple more meaningful to me is to take a family name through all the ordinances myself (not all on the same day). I feel a more personal connection to this ancestor and to the ordinances myself. Thank you for your article. I feel that I love the temple, but I don't love going there as much as would like to.
Joyce YoungAugust 23, 2021
I enjoyed your article. I remember the first time I went to the temple years ago, I was surprised things were so ceremonial, with lots of symbols and clothing. I didn't understand the symbols and actions so I was confused. I thought you just sat in white clothing and listened to a presentation and raised your hand to make covenants. I later learned what all the symbolism means, that it helps us remember what is said and done better than just listening. You learn al lot about the purpose of earth life and the eternities if you listen and try to feel the spirit of it all. Thanks
PamelaAugust 23, 2021
A couple years back after a RS meeting I told a sister in the ward that I wanted to gain a testimony of the temple like she had. So I went once a week for a couple months but still didn’t grasp what the big deal was. The Spirit prompted me to attend every morning. That is when I started to gain my testimony of the temple and I looked forward to communicating with the Lord each day. Now I know for myself why people love to go to the temple !
cameron steinbuschAugust 23, 2021
I live in an area that has a temple built but not dedicated yet due to covid. Some people have been in it though and the universal message is, if your claustrophobic you won't like it. I am very claustrophobic and the size of the building or room doesn't matter, you could be claustrophobic anywhere. That is my big worry that I would have a panic attack or anxiety attack there, which I have had before in the temple, elsewhere though.
Terry RichAugust 22, 2021
Thank you for your insights. The beauty of wise authors and prophets give balm to my soul.
LisaAugust 22, 2021
It is fun to see all the different ties the missionaries wear. I think it is a source of entertainment for all.
Dianne DemikAugust 21, 2021
Brother Peterson, I'm afraid I can't articulate well enough how blessed I have been by your writing and speaking over the years. This article has been so helpful to me as I finally turned off the television showing the anguish of many children of God in Afghanistan and Haiti. Thank you.
DebraAugust 21, 2021
Beautifully said!
Helen CondonAugust 20, 2021
I long ago decided that I will add 2 scripture references to my son’s gravestone: Job 1:21 and 1 Samuel 1:28 All will, indeed, be made well.
Carlos RoundyAugust 20, 2021
Through the atonement of Jesus Christ all suffering has purpose, with out the atonement, nothing in life has purpose.
SusanAugust 20, 2021
What a wonderful article filled with comfort and strength for the present and hope for the future! Thank you for this.
Candace WashburnAugust 20, 2021
What a powerful testimony of our Savior! Thank you!
CarolAugust 18, 2021
I love the quote at the end by Abraham Lincoln! And this story just proves had stupid and foolish war is!!!
Papa PotterAugust 18, 2021
Wow -- gospel truths beautifully written and very timely for me. THANKS
DonnaAugust 18, 2021
Thank you for a much-needed article! This is a fantastic wealth of information that poses the question of why so many people are pushing this agenda so quickly on our vulnerable youth. People need to hear both sides of the story, and this is the other side that is too often silenced. I hope this is circulated far and wide.
Vardell TaylorAugust 18, 2021
"It is in turning to Jesus and calling on His goodness that we are saved." Yes! just as it is in all the examples: Benjamins people, Enos, Alma, Lamoni, his father, the Lamanites in Helaman 5. We can be forgiven for all our sins, and be saved - be confident that Christ has promised us exaltation. And it can happen as we are right now; forgiveness is not dependent on a long list of performances and ordinances. Why don't we have people announcing, like Alma, I have been born again, redeemed, changed from the carnal man to a state of righteousness?
Michelle VincilAugust 18, 2021
This is such a heartbreaking struggle. It is particularly scary for a parent when you feel, while you are trying to figure things out, that you have the needs of your child, the voices of society and possible conflicts with school and public administrations that you are dealing wtih. I haven't had this exact situation but some very "modern" situations with my children. It was most helpful to realize that 1. i needed to find calm somehow so I could really talk w God and hear His voice. 2. pay attn and realize when I am moving based on fear or imagined timelines. 3 just because a voice is the loudest doesn't mean it is the correct one. Often, people who have the same questions, and would support you while you figure things out, are often the ones trying to be respectful of your "space" and don't say anything. There is a way to give love and support without pushing expectations. Finally, it was so important to shut out everybody else and make sure my child knew i loved them, was truly listening, and had the confidence that there were answers. Some of the things I dealt with took several years but as soon as I quit forcing my chosen result on my child and listened nonjudgmentally and LOVED them, things started to open up and we found a way thru. SATAN USES CONTENTION no matter the situation TO KEEP PEOPLE FROM HEARING EACH OTHER, LOVING EACH OTHER AND SUPPORTING EACH OTHER. God bless us all. He is good all the time.
AnonymousAugust 18, 2021
THANK YOU! I am so grateful to see information on the alternatives and regret of transitioning. I feel like I’ve been fighting a lost battle against common sense as Mental health professionals and the world seem to tell me to let my child do whatever they want. I 100% agree with watchful waiting and getting the child busy and involved in life. How can we get information like this out to the youth who are being fed social media that is harmful?
Herm OlsenAugust 18, 2021
Bro. Goddard has again hit the nail on the head! This is a thoughtful, gentle and merciful reminder that, in God’s eyes, we are all and each of us Pearls of Great Price. Thank you for the insights. Thank you for the kindness!
Karla SAugust 17, 2021
I made the decision to be vaccinated, due to age and comorbidities. I'm a nurse and I'm well aware of the debate, on both sides. Most of the articles you cited are not new to me and there are a lot of questions left unanswered in most of these, and other articles I have read, or with experts I have listened to. This issue is NOT settled even among the experts. I am generally pro vaccine, with a few exceptions. As with all vaccines, these Covid 19 vaccines should also be taken with INFORMED CONSENT, not MANDATED. That is the biggest issue I see among "CPDs" I know, including myself. After all, these vaccines are still "experimental" and there appears to be risks in taking them. As for mask usage, it's not 100%, whether due to using them incorrectly, or wearing ineffective cloth masks. Generally speaking, if someone has real concerns about catching Covid 19, that person should really keep that fact in mind, and limit exposure to crowds of any kind, including church services. I know most Wards are continuing Zoom access to meetings. I don't feel the Prophet is telling us NOT to be informed and not to use this information to evaluate our particular circumstances. I do agree that he is trying to help us look at those around us with compassion and empathy. Wheter "CPD" or not, we should NOT allow this virus to tear us apart as members of the Lord's Kingdom.
ReluctantAugust 17, 2021
There is very real concern about the vaccine. I had the first shot, then I got Covid. I recovered from Covid. I was feeling fine. Then I got the second shot and I have not recovered my health and it has been months since that happened. There is a problem with the vaccine for some people and I don’t believe our government is honest about it. Just because it didn’t cause problems for everyone doesn’t mean it is safe for all and we should be able to choose without creating contention.
Rita in TexasAugust 17, 2021
David M., your comments embody the article's critique of those who dismiss, harass and otherwise abuse those who have chosen to allow logic, reason and knowledge to inform their actions. Did nothing the author wrote sink in? Covid policy doubters are not heartless monsters willing to kill little children; we are thoughtful, faithful Saints who have serious questions that few want to hear, much less answer. I am unable to wear a mask or take the jab, both for medical reasons. Going to worship with my ward family has been impossible for months, and just recently I've been able to attend. Now, it looks like it will be taken away again. Even with the delta variant, children are largely immune from the kinds of problems that the elderly and those with co-morbidities generally have. Parents with medically-fragile children usually keep them at home. There are several people in my ward who haven't been able to attend church or the temple, and some of them are considering leaving the Church altogether, because of the unkind words coming from erstwhile friends and leaders. This is a complicated situation, made more so by the constantly changing narrative coming from the government and its minions. Please don't make it worse.
Patrick McLaneAugust 17, 2021
It's not about pros and cons. It's about truth vs lies. Good vs evil.
HalAugust 17, 2021
Wow! What a great article! Thank you! I have often said we are wrong to judge previous generations by present-day mores. I shudder to think how future generations may judge our current society. It gives me comfort to know that in thousands of years of human history, with millions of different cultures, and tens of billions of individuals who have lived through their own mortal experience, that there is One who is qualified to know my heart and be merciful in His judgement.
MadelineAugust 17, 2021
I love this! Awesome way to appeal to young Latter Day Saints like me :)
David BlackburnAugust 17, 2021
Thanks Duane, you have always had such a thoughtful approach, and serving with you before I know first hand of your loving concerns to present all the facts in a non- judge mental thorough way that meets the approval of the Lord. What a wonderful article, and wider perspective that can help heal divisions and feelings. The Lords ways are always higher than our own, and it’s wonderful to have our living General Authorities to guide us and lead us in these Latter Days.
Karl MillerAugust 17, 2021
Wikipedia and NPR are biased sources of information, and to cite them at the start gives an unsettling foundation to this article.
JimAugust 17, 2021
I agree the Church can advise its members to get vaccinated but I disagree that the shot is safe and effective. If it is effective why are they now saying you will need to get a booster shot every 8 months. Why are people still getting covid who have had the shot? Second, how can they say it is safe? Do they have proof that in 2 years there are no serious side effects? In 5 years? 10 years? They can't. What if there is. How will members feel then about the First Presidency statement? How many may leave the Church because of it?
RBAugust 17, 2021
It's worth noting the fact that President Nelson spent many years as a successful, brilliant cardiac surgeon. And a humble one, which isn't the norm for cardiac surgeons. He helped develop the heart/lung bypass machine, without which millions of people around the world would have died. He knows more about the workings of the human body & health than those who suddenly became infectious disease experts last year thanks to the Internet. He has a vast store of knowledge, in addition to the presence of the Spirit. I am completely fed up with those who are putting their biases as their god. This month in fast & testimony meeting, a brother stood up & basically told us all that the First Presidency are false prophets because of what they recommend regarding COVID. And this was before the latest letter. He & his wife have always been rabid anti-vaxxers. So apparently this is the hill they choose to die on. I'm all for agency, if they choose to leave the Church they should go. But I feel really sorry for their children.
Curt BassettAugust 17, 2021
Long time Duane! Your article tracks with my thinking about the need to protect the church from destruction politically. I've been thinking of the concept of the Lord commanding his prophets in the scriptures to employ stratagem. Abraham saying Sarah is his sister. Elijah leading blinded syrians to Samaria. Stratagem in Book of Mormon wars. Captain Moroni said deceit, decoys and trickery not a sin in war. Alma 43:30. Could 1st Pres be employing stratagem in our war against Secret Combination here? Flattering Caesar to misdirect and preserve Church's 501c3 status and privileges in spreading gospel? Don't have your new phone#. My old contact info is still good. Please give me a call to discuss/catch up.
AbbieAugust 17, 2021
While I can appreciate the tone and very thoughtful written article. I think the overall view should be, I am allowed to have my agency. I am allowed to make decisions for me and my family and that should be respected by all people as I respect your rights to make decisions for yourself and your family, ones that I may not agree with. The constitution was written too so that I may have that right as well, and yes slowly it has eroded, been taught incorrectly and they have over stepped their authority. The Lord highly values our agency. He will force no one and I think we all should follow his example. Name calling pointing finger, They are immature and selfish on Both sides of this debate. Trying to find common ground and actually having a real debate would be more helpful, but with dishonest reporting and too many differing expert opinions do not help and with social medial and news media censoring information it does help foster those honest debates to happen.
MelAugust 17, 2021
Thank you for your article. It has been the most diplomatic, church related piece I have read concerning COVID policies. From the official church handbook: 38.7.13 Vaccinations "Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination. Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost." As someone who has sought counsel with multiple competent medical professionals and also sought the guidance of the Holy Ghost as per direction from the First Presidency, the instruction I have received is different from many but right for me. Could this be an opportunity for the members of the church to have confidence in each other for doing the work of research and receiving spiritual guidance and show respect for each other even if our answers might look different?
JanAugust 17, 2021
Most thoughtful comments on history and our current society and how it treats history that I have ever heard. Presented in a meaningful way and tone. I for one plan on being more thoughtful of those from our past and the contributions they made.
Gaylinn ThompsonAugust 17, 2021
I appreciate the points and examples used in this article. Very well-written. Very illuminating and grounding. Thank you.
Ed RehderAugust 17, 2021
Thank you. A voice of reason in this world of wokeness.
Julie ArcherAugust 17, 2021
This is a wonderful article. My concern is not with members decisions to get the vaccine or not, but of how they treat those who choose differently than they do. We see in the Book of Mormon over and over that contentions arose among members because of pride. This is what we are seeing. The love of God is not in many of our hearts instead we have pride and judgment against those who believe and choose different. Our opinion matter more than love for our neighbor. Especially concerning the prophets current statement. You even see it in these comments. In such a critical time that we should humble ourselves and all unite in our faith in Christ despite little disputations Instead we are seeing contention and separation among His flock.
Kathy SandersAugust 17, 2021
Jacob, thank you for this article (and all your articles). I have five children who have left the church over such Ethnocentric ways of looking at history, both political world history and church history. It is certainly the "popular" thing to do these days and I only have one word for looking back at anyone's lives with such a certainty that they have an extra lens of understanding others missed: Arrogance. Oh that we would all humbly take Moroni's plea with the same humility he offered it and be merciful and curious, not arrogant and certain of things we can't possibly really know as we weren't there. Thank you.
Jan PetersonAugust 17, 2021
This article and some of the comments intimate that the prophet has given us a commandment, but he hasn't. He has encouraged us in one direction while leaving the opposite direction open and trusted our personal revelation and agency. Just like not getting the vaccine because of fear is the wrong choice, getting it "because the prophet did" is also spiritually and physically irresponsible. We are to seek revelation for ourselves and our stewardships.
ScottAugust 17, 2021
From my perspective, the Lord has been assisting us. Global pandemic, yet people have been inspired to create the technology over the last few decades to effectively and safely address it, just when it's needed most. And just when there's a global pandemic, who has the Lord called as His prophet? A medical doctor.
Margaret E. BatesAugust 17, 2021
This is a wonderful article and echoes all of my feelings on Covid mitigation in particular, and on following the Prophet and the Brethren as a whole regardless of the issue, in general. How can we call ourselves good Latter-day Saints in Jesus Christ's church and do less?
CricketAugust 17, 2021
First of all, you are building a straw man by saying the CDC has proven to be unreliable, then quote from it to show that it is. As long as the data fits. Soooo...I ask: why the PUSH for a vaccine (that has, according to the CDC, a 90% effective rate) for a viral infection that has a 99% recovery rate, with lifetime immunity? A vaccine is going to require boosters. I also ask why alternative treatments are not even discussed? As I understand agency, information is needed to make an unfettered choice. So why the one-sided push?
Timothy D. JohnsonAugust 16, 2021
Consider the following: D&C 84:64 And these signs shall follow those who believe- D&C 84:71 And if any man shall administer poison unto them it shall not hurt them; I am considered to be medically fragile. I have been in the hospital for surgery twice and to multiple medical facilities since the pandemic began. I am blessed with a good immune system and am seldom bothered by colds of flu. So far I have been blessed to have been protected the Covid virus other than losing my sense of taste and a few snuffles for a couple of days. Getting any of the vaccines fills me with terror as I've viewed articles that reveal what is in them or the conditions that some are manufactured in. But I cannot deny the words of Scripture. I must follow the prophet and have faith in what the Savior has promised.
T GrantAugust 16, 2021
I don't understand the controversy. Do or Do Not. Live with it.
D. MackeyAugust 16, 2021
I have always appreciated counsel from our prophets who have warned members against accepting anything taught by them on blind faith. Rather, we have been counseled to make their teachings a matter of serious study and prayer. Then be open to the personal revelation that will come by the power and influence of the Holy Ghost directing how we are to individually respond. Agency comes down to individuals who must act according to the light and knowledge they receive for themselves in their particular circumstances and within their own spheres of stewardship.
Kim MAugust 16, 2021
I wonder how many people put following the Lord first? Because if you asked Him in prayer and received an answer...no matter what that answer was...you'd follow that direction...not man
Bruce T ForbesAugust 16, 2021
Many years ago I was in a stake conference in Arizona in which Elder Mark E. Peterson was speaking. He told stories of how the leaders agonize over wording in letters such as the one last week. He said when a letter says "We recommend", then all they're doing is recommending, nothing more and nothing less. Last week's letter "urged" us to do something; it did not "command" us. Take that letter with you into your private prayers and let the Holy Spirit guide you; that's what I did. The Spirit instructed me on what to do, and even though it's not what I want to do, I know better than to not follow the Spirit - or the prophet.
Lawrence NielsenAugust 16, 2021
Thank you. When one believes that we are lead by a living prophet, to stay on the covenant path means acceptance of counsel and obedience. I find it a complement when I am classed with the"sheeple" by the anti-maskers and anti-vacsers because I follow the the counsel of our leaders.
Heather SmurthwaiteAugust 16, 2021
This truly resonated light with my mind and heart! I appreciate it so much!
Helga SilskiAugust 16, 2021
I was very happy to read so many wonderful, positive responses. For the life of me I cannot understand how anybody that claims to be a member of the Church speaks negatively about the First Presidencies encouraging message to wear a mask and get vaccinated. If we only prayed about this subject earnestly, we would get an answer from the spirit in the affirmative. It is a great blessing to have a living Prophet on earth in these troubling times, the Lord has not forsaken us and left us in the dark, the Prophet is His mouthpiece on the earth and so are his counselors and the Quorum of the Twelve. I love, honor and sustain these brethren and I thank the Lord for them daily. Thank you Meridian Magazine for your uplifting articles, you are part of my life as are the scriptures. Thank you for spreading light and truth. God bless and continue to shower you with inspiration. Great big thank you to Duane Boyce for an excellent and lovingly presented message!
Paul HAugust 16, 2021
I'm certain there were many who thought Moses had gone loopy when he held up the brazen serpent and so they refused to gaze upon it, which was exercising their God-given agency to not follow the prophet, and we all know what happened to the "anti-gazers" don't we? I remember President Faust saying how much we would jump at the opportunity to work on the rebuilding of the Nauvoo Temple, but then asked if we would simply perform our home teaching duty. I'm at a loss as to why the extremely simple wearing of a mask or getting a vaccine (that the Prophet says was a literal God-send) would be so controversial and why anyone would believe information on the internet or social media over their own doctor's advice. But people refused to gaze at the brazen serpent, too, so I guess we're not all that different from the ancient Children of Israel, are we?
Jessica WhitakerAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for helping me reorient. I am ashamed of myself and will get vacinnated right away. Waiting for Novavax might come too late. Stubborness and pride have always been my achilles heel and throw in health, patriotism, civics, and all my cherished values and it is a perfect test. Some will be tried for wearing masks and others for not! Commit your body to Almighty God.
MKTAugust 16, 2021
From the official church handbook: 38.7.13 Vaccinations "Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination. Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost." This article is thought provoking for sure and presents insights that had not occurred to me before. However as someone who has sought counsel with multiple competent medical professionals and also sought the guidance of the Holy Ghost as per direction from the First Presidency, the instruction I have received is different from many but right for me. Could this be an opportunity for the members of the church to have confidence in each other for doing the work of research and receiving spiritual guidance and show respect each other even if our answers might look different?
Gary AndersonAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this inspired article! I didn't know which way to go about wearing a mask again, but this article helped me to decide to always obey the brethren and get my own confirmation as well. I have now gotten it.
Maryann TaylorAugust 16, 2021
Oh, how I wish this article had been posted sooner!!! Just taught this lesson on Sunday in the Gospel Doctrine class.
Maryann TaylorAugust 16, 2021
This letter is absolutely mind boggling. I cannot conceive of someone worrying about their own "needs" after betraying their spouse in the worst possible way. His attitude is pouring salt into her wounds. When he can be more concerned about HER feelings and recognize what he has done to her, MAYBE he will be at a STARTING point to receive her forgiveness.
Maryann TaylorAugust 16, 2021
Having a hard time figuring out what the big deal is here. President Nelson did NOT say we have to wear face masks everywhere. He counseled us to wear them in public meetings where safe distancing is not possible. Also, he has been encouraging us to get immunized for a long time--nothing new here.
David MAugust 16, 2021
The other article in today's Meridian Magazine has dozens of reader comments. This one has none. I think that's because it's too long and confusing for the average reader who's just trying to do the right thing for his family, and not trying to justify or disprove all the conspiracy theories. My advice to ward leaders and CPD's is different than this article proposes - I'd say, act with an abundance of caution. Don't take any chances with other people's health. If you don't want to get vaccinated and wear a mask and social distance, then stay home and watch the meeting broadcast. You will never be able to live with the horror of possibly being responsible for the infection or death of an innocent child.
B CharlesAugust 16, 2021
Masking has been shown through peer-reviewed research to reduce transmission even if people don’t understand the scientific review process. The brethren shut down in-person worship before the government did. Vaccines are safe and effective as the First Presidency stated in their recent communication. There are copious amounts of data saying that this is so. What makes this announcement so confusing? If we want temples to be open we need to do whatever we can and masking and vaccination are our best tools in this war with COVID
Robert E JonesAugust 16, 2021
It is my firm belief that the General Authorities knew over 2 years ago that the pendemic or some other major problem would affect the intire world and make church meetings hard to have or even impossible. As a result they made the change to our Sunday services and made the Church of Jesus Christ a "home centered religion." While many churches faltered ours continued agains all ods. I firmly believe that more problems for the Church are coming and that the First Prisidency knows what lies ahead and is working diligenty to position the Church to be prepared to face whatever comes. If you have doubts do what we have been told time and again "not to accept a position of the First Presidency "whole cloth" but seek your own aceptance by prayer and Personal revolation.
David MAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this article and the many insightful reader comments, most of which express gratitude for the wonderful inspired leadership of the First Presidency. I wonder if there's another lesson we need to learn through this pandemic experience - we seem to have lost the ability to rationally and calmly discuss things with each other, and wonder why everyone else seems to be so confused. One of the discussion points in this last week's 'Come Follow Me' was that Jesus Christ is the source of all light and truth. If we find ourselves needing to listen to a particular network or commentator or politician to find out what we believe about a particular issue, then maybe we've fallen prey to 'conspiring men' who distort things for their political or financial gain, and we need to reconsider our sources. This time it may only have mortal consequences, but next time it may be everlasting.
Sarah JonesAugust 16, 2021
I have been studying the Light of Christ for a few years and have come to the same understanding of what you’ve written here. I absolutely love how you’ve described everything it takes to shine with Christ’s Light. I’ve come to also understand the Light of Christ, which is different than the gifts of the Holy Ghost, is our intuition, or the small daily impressions we receive to help us know good from evil. Literally, Jesus guides us with His Light on our path of mortality as we learn to align our will with God; as we learn to have an eye single to His glory. I also like to think of the Light of Christ as Jesus’ gift to the children of God comparable in love, insight, direction, and correction as the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost is a gift given by our Father in Heaven when we covenant with Him to take upon us the name of Christ in baptism. Sincerely, thank you again for writing and sharing this piece. I’m going to share this article with everyone I know!
ScottHAugust 16, 2021
Thanks for the in-depth viewpoint. To me the benefits of being vaccinated seem self-evident. Yet the bad and inconsistent actions of government and media actors also seem obvious. President Nelson clearly regards the vaccines as answers to the faithful prayers and fasting of millions. This suggests that the Lord is able to use deeply flawed and even corrupt entities to work miracles. It is possible to be both in favor of the vaccines and opposed to political overreach.
tfAugust 16, 2021
Thank you Meridian for re-publishing this!
tfAugust 16, 2021
Perhaps Pres Nelson doesn't want to have to close the temples again?
Gaylinn ThompsonAugust 16, 2021
So well written. Excellent points and examples. Thank you for your insight.
Sandra KharaziAugust 16, 2021
Great read, very well written. I for one got the shots when the General Presidency got theirs at the beginning of all this. I felt like if they were doing it, that was enough for me.
Larry MascoAugust 16, 2021
President Benson’s 7th Fundamental in Following the Prophet: The prophet tells us what we need to know, not always what we want to know. “Thou hast declared unto us hard things, more than we are able to bear,” complained Nephi’s brethren. But Nephi answered by saying, “the guilty taketh the truth to be hard, for it cutteth them to the very center” (1 Nephi 16:1, 3). Or, to put it in another prophet’s words, “Hit pigeons flutter.” Said President Harold B. Lee: You may not like what comes from the authority of the Church. It may contradict your political views. It may contradict your social views. It may interfere with some of your social life. . . . Your safety and ours depends upon whether or not we follow. . . . Let’s keep our eye on the President of the Church. [In Conference Report, October 1970, p. 152-153] But it is the living prophet who really upsets the world. “Even in the Church,” said President Kimball, “many are prone to garnish the sepulchers of yesterday’s prophets and mentally stone the living ones” (Instructor, 95:257). Why? Because the living prophet gets at what we need to know now, and the world prefers that prophets either be dead or mind their own business. Some so-called experts of political science want the prophet to keep still on politics. .... And so the list goes on and on. How we respond to the words of a living prophet when he tells us what we need to know, but would rather not hear, is a test of our faithfulness.
Richard TrippAugust 16, 2021
Good article Duane, but I think we need the Lord’s work to continue and expand which it can’t do while Covid 19 is spreading and killing so many people. Temple and missionary work nearly stopped during the early stages of the pandemic and now with vaccines both are returning to normal. I am glad we have a prophet to guide us through this pandemic.
MikeAugust 16, 2021
"Follow the Prophet, he knows the way"
JemezblueAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this article. For many reasons, I have been rebelling quietly against mask mandates and other violations of our freedoms during Covid lockdowns. So when my Bishop read the letter from the First Presidency yesterday, I was still rebelling. I had to tell myself over and over why the First Presidency would ask us to do this. My reasoning included many of the above things mentioned in the article and I concluded that the Lord would not lead us wrong. If I believed in the church and our prophet, then I could do anything that is required. So, if a little thing like wearing a mask is involved and I did not want to obey that, then how can I be expected to obey the big things? This personal questioning was hard, especially when I was masked shamed from a fellow church member the previous week for not wearing a mask after our area seventy let us know that it was okay for us not to. I just kept thinking that the Lord would not lead us astray, so I put the mask on, but this little effort has been one of my hardest battles. It turns out that for me, it is not about fighting for our freedoms, but fighting against Satan who is striving to get all of us to rebel against our Lord. Actively obeying what the Prophet is tell us, and our Lord's representatives, is among our greatest fights for our freedoms here on earth. I felt a great peace throughout the rest of my Sunday knowing that I am obeying the Lord, even if it is a small thing like wearing a mask that our prophet asked us to wear.
Judy PetersonAugust 16, 2021
This is an excellent article. Although this isn’t one of my hot buttons—I believe the rapid vaccine development was one of the answers to our world-wide fast last year—I have faithful family members who continue to resist the vaccine and masking on political and even scientific bases. I have considered these principles on other issues that concerned me in the past, and the bottom line is always “Follow the Prophet.” Sometimes there has eventually been obvious validation. Other counsel still requires faith. “I thank Thee, Oh God, for a Prophet!”
L Norman PoulsenAugust 16, 2021
How do we console to the tens of thousands who have died from an experimental vaccine side effects when there are proven functional health protocols that drastically reduce deaths more so than the CDC protocols from all over the USA that are being censored by our "trusted" government health officials
L Norman PoulsenAugust 16, 2021
Hugh B. Brown: Official statements of the First Presidency that have not been submitted to the membership of the church for its approval are matters of temporary policy only. Under present conditions, for example, the First Presidency may say, ‘We recommend this or that.’ But conditions may subsequently change, and when they do the First Presidency may wish to make a statement which may not be in complete harmony with a former statement. We have to keep our theology up to date by submitting everything that is intended to become a permanent part of the gospel to those whose right and privilege it is to so interpret and then by having it sustained by the people as a definite rule of the church so that all things may be done by common consent. (An Abundant Life: The Memoirs of Hugh B. Brown, ed. Edwin B. Firmage [Salt Lake City: Signature Books, 1999], 124-125)
ColinAugust 16, 2021
This is a great big-picture discussion that stays out of the political muck and focuses on principles.
RICHARD BURKLUNDAugust 16, 2021
Excellent article. Others may wish to read the BYU Devotional talk by Elder Ezra Taft Benson (February 26, 1980) on "Fourteen Fundamentals to Following the Prophet.
Robert H. SainsburyAugust 16, 2021
I believe the work of salvation must continue on both sides of the veil. President Nelson and his counselors have shown us the way to accomplish this. Wearing a mask and getting vaccinated is a small price to pay to keep the temple open and performing ordinances for both the living and the dead.
ReyLain BloxhamAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for this insightful article. It’s nice to know I'm not the only one with these questions as I want to support and be guided by the Lords authorities on earth but feel I was/am directed to "go north". There are so many ways to feel like an outcast at church and now this is one more way. The narrative that "going north" means you are endangering those around you is exactly how this is playing out. I appreciate your supportive and informative words as I strive to "survive spiritually" through the influence of the Holy Ghost and feel I am doing the spiritual work to hear that Voice frequently and more clearly. I sure didn't expect to need it about a church "policy".
Sharee HughesAugust 16, 2021
Did I miss something? All I thought they said was to get vaccinated if you hadn't done so already, which they had already advised previously, and to wear masks in public or large gatherings, even if you have been vaccinated. With this extremely contagious delta variant, that's just common sense, so what are people upset about? I don't particularly like wearing a mask, but it sure beats getting COVID.
James ThomasAugust 16, 2021
What a great commentary about following the Brethren even when we do not always understand the why behind some of the direction. I am so grateful for the wonderful gift of living prophets and Apostles. The Lord knows better than I do what lies ahead and therefore is perfectly qualified to lead me according to what is best. When I follow the prophet I follow the Lord.
Susan NielsonAugust 16, 2021
Thank you Brother Boyce, Those are pertinent points, that we as a church have to exist within our host societies, and the Lord is not choosing this hill to die on. I have to say I felt super uncomfortable yesterday wearing a mask at church, with all the feelings swirling around my head of hating masks, not trusting corrupt government leaders, not wanting to appear as “virtue signaling” better than others. But I do want to follow the prophet. I do believe he is directed by God. So I put the stupid thing on. And I appreciate your calm, rational treatment of the facts, and your offering of new thoughts I had not considered.
Ronald BarnesAugust 16, 2021
I did not start wearing a mask until it became mandatory. I resisted the vaccine at first because of the many negative things I had heard about it. When I learned that the prophet and the apostles got the shot, I decided that they would know if it is as dangerous as I had heard. So, I got it. I still believe that the issue is more political than it is medical. We have been told that a prophet is entitled to his own opinion on any subject that the Lord has not revealed the truth concerning. We have also been told that the Lord will never allow His prophet to lead us astray. I accept that the prophet can, at times, express what is just his own opinion. However, whenever the church issues a statement signed by all three members of the First Presidency, I take notice. If we believe that these three men, especially the president, are prophets, seers, and revelators, then we need to heed what they say. No matter what the controversy may be, when they speak as a group, the controversy is over.
Kenny MazzantiAugust 16, 2021
As a missionary in Norway from 1966 to 1968, we passed out a pamphlet entitled, "A Church for all The World". President Nelson leads that church for all of the world and must consider, with the Lord's direction, all of the places the Church must further the work of Salvation. We must also individually live our religion. That includes Article of faith 12 which says, “We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law.” Recommending vaccination does not interfere with my personal agency. I still have my choice on the matter. But, it does further the work of the Lord by respecting all the various governments worldwide. The work will roll forth to every nation, kindred, tongue and people with or without us.
Blaine D WilcoxAugust 16, 2021
Powerful true message Duane! Thanks! Smile :-)
Barbara B.August 16, 2021
Thank you for this. It has helped me remember a lot of what I had forgotten. The Lord is in charge and is guiding us through our prophet. I sustain him, his counselors and the Quorum of the 12 at each conference, it's past time I remember that and what it means to ",sustain". Again, thank you for this article.
SmilyAugust 16, 2021
I am reminded of a story where a man is stranded on his roof in a flood and prays for God to save him. God sends multiple ways of help his way including a boat and a helicopter. He refuses because he’s waiting for God to save him. When he drowns, he asks God why his prayer wasn’t answered. God explains that he sent him help (boat and helicopter, etc.) Are we taking advantage of the lifesaving methods God has inspired men with? The leaders in the church have reaffirmed that these are the methods that will save lives. If you go back and listen, this isn’t the first time they’ve mentioned that masks will save lives, etc. they also set the example earlier in the year by publicly getting their vaccinations. (Follow the Prophet) I am so excited about the mRNA technology in the vaccines. They have been working on it for years and it is said the technology could lead to even a vaccine for MS eventually. A disease which I have. God inspires men and directs them in our lives whether they belong to our church or not. Look at all of the technology we’ve been given to better our lives. Do you think it was just invented by chance? Then the masks. What a simple thing to save lives. Take charge of your own life and grab onto these methods that the Lord has provided us with. I just got my third booster shot two days ago since I am immunocompromised. I am so thankful to God for providing these ways for me to choose to grab hold of in order to save my own life and the lives of those around me.
MistyAugust 16, 2021
Thank you for the additional hindsight and perspective to consider. The Lord’s work has always been about the bigger eternal picture than the thoughts and mindset of the individual(s). I’ll continue to pray for my own confirmation one way or another.
MerriwynAugust 16, 2021
I am surprised that anyone was worried by that announcement. We prayed as a people for quick development of vaccines and were rewarded with miracles. It would be churlish not to accept the miracles that the Lord has granted us.
Charles McClellandAugust 16, 2021
Excellent, timely article that I hope will be read by those who are struggling with this decision by the General Authorities.
BIHAugust 16, 2021
I am absolutely at a loss to see how President Nelson and the rest of the First Presidency asking Church members to get vaccinated, wear masks, and socially distance is a BAD thing! This is to assist in curtailing the spread of a deadly virus and its variants all over the world. Why on earth would a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints protest this? This seems like insanity to me to be against protecting our family, neighbors, and the nation/world at large. And the cry of "personal freedom" is a strawman when it comes to a worldwide health crisis. Do we claim "personal freedom" when it comes to speed limits, seat belts, etc.?
KathleenAugust 15, 2021
They would be my support, as well! Kind of sad, yet realistically funny.
Elizabeth Colyer GoodwinAugust 15, 2021
I’m pretty sure that this article was written in response to my sister, as the female apostate quoted on Facebook. If the words quoted in the article weren’t written by her, I will be shocked. I’ve been grieving and wondering if there will ever be anything that I can say, when she is ready, to turn her heart back to the Savior. Thank you, Maurine, for giving me eyes to see how that could be done. I loved your inspired, Christ-centered thoughts on the matter.
Gloy JorgensenAugust 15, 2021
A most touching and loving story. We all have to let people go at some point and the loss is always difficult regardless of the age or manner of death.
Harold RustAugust 15, 2021
I have learned that before we judge another person’s willingness to help, we should recognize almost every member would want to help and they will eagerly be ready to help if…… they understand the need is genuine, they have resources or ability to help, and that by helping they are committed long term for more than they can handle.
Nicole ClementAugust 14, 2021
Thank you so much for this article. I have that destructive voice in my head too, all the time; and I didn't really realize where it was coming from. I always feel guilty for not doing enough, even though in reality I am doing a lot and doing the best I can do. This was a very enlightening article. Thank you for helping me understand this new viewpoint.
Mark MathesonAugust 14, 2021
Jen will do wonders at Care For Life. Follow and support her exploits there.
Mark DonaldsonAugust 14, 2021
Thank you for taking what is sometimes a very hard topic to understand (Light) and wording it with such clarity that it can be easily understood!
Sandy MAugust 13, 2021
This is wonderful .. thank you so much
Richard JukesAugust 13, 2021
Wonderful article! Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights.
Matthew HawsAugust 13, 2021
Thanks for this article. Sometimes I feel that we in the church don't give enough attention to this doctrine/idea/concept. Light has a far greater impact on us and the universe around us than we think.
DonAugust 13, 2021
When you cheat on your wife, you should have no expectation that she will do anything other than demand you move out, dump you, divorce you, request a cancellation of sealing, etc. Anything else is on her terms. YOU ARE THE ADULTERER. You can't whine your way out of the situation you behaved your way into.
ReaderAugust 13, 2021
Wow! This is amazing! I was thrilled in studying D&C 88 this week and how the Light of Christ is the glue/power behind all things in the universe, big and small, and your insights open up new vistas for me. Thank you for pondering and sharing.
Trinity OlsenAugust 13, 2021
Thank you so much for being inspired to write this article! I have been trying to explain to a son of mine how science and truth and light are an integral part of Heavenly Father’s being and that we have access to that same power and knowledge. I have prayed for a way to explain these truths to him. Your article has hit the nail on the head for me and answered my prayer. I’m going to share this with my son and pray that he is receptive to the message in your words.
Colleen HarrisonAugust 13, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful article. It was a great blessing to read it.
@WalkinghandinhandwithgodAugust 13, 2021
Thank you for this! I have so much compassion for betrayers, they really are victims in their own right, but it is on them to grow in the ways they have failed to develop over the years. Yes growing hurts, yes, it means learning not to rely on others for validation and a sense of self, yes it means increasing your level of tolerance for discomfort and vulnerability, it means becoming less selfish and more caring, it means relying on the Lord to help you deal with your hurts, to see her anger for what it is—pain and fear, and to be able to offer compassion, comfort, reassurance, and love unfeigned.
Isaac C "Ike" FergusonAugust 13, 2021
Wow!!! Brother Franklin's treatise on light was both insightful and compelling. Thank you for sharing your intellectual understanding of light scientifically, and the applying it so neatly doctrinally and in practicality. A great piece I shall keep as a reminder of light and truth, which comes by "hardening not your heart" and having a willing mind. Bless you for your insights.
NolaAugust 13, 2021
Thank you for this enlightening article.
Kathy Sutton (Please do not print my name for the comment)August 12, 2021
I am disappointed that you did not mention the use of sign language. Many of us who are deaf cannot depend on hearing aids to understand what s being said.
MaureenAugust 12, 2021
I had a deaf sister in one of the wards that I lived in and anytime that I gave a talk in church I would always print out a copy of it and give it to her so that she could read it and get an idea of the content that I would be using in my talk. She told me that she was very appreciative that I would do that for her, and that I was the only one that did that for her.
CoreyAugust 12, 2021
Excellent article, well written and explained. I think I'm no different than most active, faithful members/Christians, if you were to ask I would tell you that I keep the commandments but I struggle with total obedience or what the scriptures refer to as 'obedience in all things'. There is a verse in the Doctrine and Covenants that has always been interesting to me, it say's referring to the Lord communicating to Joseph Smith, 'and gave unto him commandments which inspired him', every time I read that I think to myself, am I inspired by the commandments ? I think we also tend to categorize things, at least I do, we label some things commandments and some things rules and place more emphasis on one than the other. We also label things as inspired or coming from God and those things that come from man and again give importance or priority to one over the other. Certainly the commandments are of supreme importance because of their eternal significance but I think to become like the Savior we have to be humble and obedient even in the small things and that's a challenge at least for me because like you mention or infer we don't like to be told what to do.
No nameAugust 12, 2021
Mask wearing completely deletes ability to have a conversation for hard of hearing. We have to read your lips. It is a struggle to attend church meetings now.
Maryann TaylorAugust 12, 2021
This article is also a reminder to keep all medications, including those in purses out of the reach of children.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I absolutely agree that none of us should be labeling others as selfish for deciding not to get the vaccine. There is a LOT of conflicting information out there regarding EVERYTHING about COVID, and also the vaccine. I just read that it was recently discovered that the reported number of people with the disease in Florida alone was inflated by almost 13,000 above the actual number! I decided for myself to receive the vaccine as soon as I could because of President Nelson's encouragement and example. However, I do NOT in any way judge or condemn those who choose not to get it. The disease is bad enough without adding spiritual warfare. AND---we need to put things into perspective by remembering we are much more statistically likely to die from many other things.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I wonder if the visit was the result of the Priesthood blessing. I have a strong testimony of Priesthood blessings and perhaps sending Amber to comfort her friend was the best way to fulfill it. This is such a very heartbreaking story, but I am glad your family has the gospel and faith in Heavenly Father to sustain you.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I had to chuckle when you mentioned your frustration at the places in our scriptures where we are informed that the writer cannot tell us all he knows or saw. I want to know! I trust the Lord to reveal the sealed portion of the Book of Mormon when we are ready to receive it, but I can't help longing for it now. I want to read Adam's record in the Plates of Brass and everything else we don't yet have. Ok--I KNOW--Patience! I just keep hoping that if we spend more time studying what we DO have, the Lord will reveal the rest.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I appreciate your comment about avoiding competition between the sexes. I am also tired of television and movies that promote enmity between men and women. It has become very popular to portray women as tough and rude, and men as dumb and weak. I think it would be great for husbands and wives to discuss ways they can communicate to their children, by example and word, the importance of unity and cooperation between the sexes.
Maryann TaylorAugust 11, 2021
I have extremely poor hearing and, although hearing aids help, I still have a hard time hearing in Relief Society. I finally stopped attending and leave after Sacrament Meeting. It is just too frustrating. I know that many leaders and teachers don't want to use microphones, but that would be one simple way of helping people with this problem. I know there are many other members who feel the same way I do. It seems ironic to teach lessons about serving and meeting the needs of others, while at the same time ignoring the hard of hearing.
Scot ProctorAugust 11, 2021
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LaRae F KerrAugust 11, 2021
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Debbi M.August 11, 2021
“to be more appreciative of what other human beings can do and more patient with what they cannot do” So profound! What wisdom is in this sentence...I only pray I can incorporate this into my daily routine as I struggle to be patient with erring children and grandchildren that I love so dearly. We all have our own journey through this life.
carolyn nicolaysenAugust 11, 2021
The Church's self-reliance program includes several classes meant to help people care for their own needs no matter what their circumstances. I have facilitated the personal finance and starting and growing your own business classes and they are great. The church also offers a class on finding a job, getting an education and emotional resiliance and they have piloted one for teens as well. I too wish they would talk more about emergencies and preparing specifically for them, but since they aren't I guess that is our job to share what we know.
carolyn nicolaysenAugust 11, 2021
Jill, What a challenge. Can you eat freeze dried or dehydrated? I don't usually recommend storing those except for some ingredients because you need so much water to reconstitute. In your case it may be an answer. You can freeze many foods like eggs, which few understand.
Monte MortensenAugust 11, 2021
Becky, as always you express yourself in such openness and truth. These experiences were so heartrending and yet I have observed how your beautiful faith has grown and sustained you and those in your path. You are a blessing to so many.
Diane CowleyAugust 11, 2021
Excellent article. I have to wonder if part of the reason for so much anxiety and depression is the dissonance between what the world teaches and what our spirits know is true. Internally, is there a war being waged? I seem to feel it all the time.
Diane JonesAugust 11, 2021
I like these suggestions, but one important suggestion is lacking, I feel. The importance of teaching daughters of their connection to God, who loves them, and to continually---every day, do the little things that exercise those spiritual connections and attributes. That strength will help them become that woman they want to become.
SharonAugust 11, 2021
This is the best article on women! I want to shout it from the rooftops! Good job!
christina archibaldAugust 10, 2021
I cant imagine how difficult these years were for your family. Thank you for sharing and God bless all of you for enduring to the eventual 'new way of living' through unimaginable loss.
Helen CondonAugust 10, 2021
Timely for me! I was up past my working-well bedtime last night holding and comforting my youngest daughter, more aged 31, who struggles with acute anxiety and depression and has developed thought habits of low self-esteem. She, too, finds no purpose in the Church that could, if she chose, fill her loneliness with loving friends. She still believes in Christ but has not yet claimed His redeeming power. Holding her, loving her is so easy. Watching and waiting for her to choose her own path, essential to her salvation as it is, is excruciating.
CatAugust 10, 2021
It is getting more & more extremely common ( & damaging to the children) It the MOTHERS that are degrading the worthy, noble, righteous, loving Father’s. From cradle to adulthood….. a women should refer to being “ valued more than rubies” In all her actions, words & deeds. When raising a family “ it’s NOT about her wants, her ideas, her control “
rexAugust 10, 2021
While I haven't had children stay from the Gospel, I have had family members and other loved ones who have sought a different path. As I ponder that, I have a glimps of what our Father in Heaven must have experienced in the pre-existence with 1/3 of his children decided to take a different path. He did not "change the rules" in order to keep everyone, but allowed his children to use their agency to make a decision that had the most eternal consequences of any decision we could ever make.
Scot ProctorAugust 9, 2021
The bottom portion of the article is from Becky's adopted daughter Jolanta's point of view.
DO'LearyAugust 9, 2021
Becky, as I read, it sounded like Amber was your daughter and yet you didn't know about her bi-polar.....you said you were 12 years old when Amber died. I'm confused, if you were married, etc. This must be a typo.
Chip WhitmerAugust 9, 2021
Can we learn to apply the model of Helaman and the people of Ammon, from Alma 53:13-15 and 56:6-8? In this story a minority of the population had taken upon themselves a moral obligation that put them at odds with the prevailing cultural norms. Helaman recognized the moral dilemma in which they found themselves, and went to great lengths to accommodate their moral obligation -- even accepting the increased risk to society brought on by allowing them to fulfill their commitment. Can we accept that many people today have made a similar moral commitment: that they will not participate in any way with the totalitarian and authoritarian schemes that are consuming our society? And like Helaman, can we find a way to honor and accommodate that commitment, regardless of whether we happen to agree with it ourselves?
Debbi M.August 9, 2021
Amazing and heart-rending story! I am amazed at the author’s strength and resiliency. Life can be so difficult and hard to understand in its seeming unfairness. Thank you for sharing your experiences. It gave me a renewed appreciation and love for suffering brothers and sisters, as well as how H.F. intercedes.
Jake D.August 9, 2021
This article is so real. I'm struggling with my own crisis and it's so nice to hear such a candid example of a messy life and how God is still involved in horrendous circumstances. Thank you for sharing.
Mary HAugust 8, 2021
People can believe anything they wish. But behaving irresponsibly towards the health of others is selfish. If you do not want to vaccinate I am okay with that. But stay home. Stop assuming you are welcome unmasked in' public. You are not. I am not responsible to provide your herd immunity I personally believe the US should ship all our vaccine to countries that would desperately love it. The opportunities to get it in the US are closed.
WandaAugust 8, 2021
I am all for personal freedom. For anyone who wishes medical treatment for covid who is not vaccinated, please just stay home and treat yourself. My medical skills, my choice. I am tired. If you do not wish to be vaccinated, fine. But please die at home if you get sick. You do not have the right to put me at risk anymore.
HenryAugust 8, 2021
Part of the problem is that many of the unvaccinated seem to have bought wholeheartedly into what some of us consider nutcase conspiracy theories. I was told recently by one that they know that over 5,000 people have died from the vaccine. I honestly did not know how to answer that. I refuse to accept that all the media in the US except their obscure website are hiding the truth from us, lying to us to convince us to risk our lives by being vaccinated. So is it wrong to ask these people to stay away. They are welcome to choose liberty and possible death for themselves, but not for me. They are welcome to isolate mask free at home, but not in church or restaurants or on planes with me. My life, my choice.
FrancineAugust 8, 2021
It is not just a voice in our heads. Too often I have heard these false teachings directed at the members in lessons and from local leaders, far too often bishops. And, if I may say so, directed more at the women than the men. I feel some men exercise unrighteous dominion toward the women in an attempt to control them, to shape them into Stepford wives. I realize much has changed in recent years, but the church this woman left is the same one I still live in. People judging others and trying to control them. Thank you Maurine for this important piece. Add in the truths about how spiritual gifts were prepared by God to help us to overcome our weaknesses and it would be perfect, meaning complete
Maryann TaylorAugust 8, 2021
The question is no longer "Is there going to be an emergency I need to prepare for?" The question is: "When an emergency strikes, will I be ready?" We tend to picture some looming disaster in the future, but those disasters continue to occur NOW. People in economic straits are using their food storage NOW. People who have been displaced by fires need financial resources NOW. Tornadoes, hurricanes, earthquakes, wind storms, fires, and economic problems will continue to occur. Our Prophets have warned us for many years to be ready. If we think the government is going to swoop in and solve our problems we are going to be woefully disappointed.
Anja Walter-RisAugust 8, 2021
That´s a wonderful article! I really enjoyed it! Just was missing the song "That´s Life" as it describes to me very offhand the Up and Down of entrepreneurial life (if you don´t have the system in place yet that you need to have a real company... as Michael E Gerber teaches in his E-Myth books / trainings). I would love to re-publish your article (in English or maybe even in German, translated by me, if you agree) on my blog. Best wishes, Anja (PS, we currently have trouble with a Wordpress plugin, so my worpress website/blog is currently offline unfortunately, but we will be online soon again... as I said "That´s Life" got to be in there... ;-)).
Ed GayhartAugust 7, 2021
Let’s be real. A decision to get a vaccine is a personal one. Why would someone with natural acquired immunity want to get a vaccine and why would someone be adamant that he do so. Live and let live and mind your own business.
Merle RumseyAugust 7, 2021
I really enjoyed reading this. When we visited the John Adams home in Quincy, Emma Smith's Book of Mormon, was in the library of their home.. Joseph had given it to Adam's grandson
Sasha KwapinskiAugust 7, 2021
The guilt tripping, the feeling that you are inherently "worthless" or just a miserable sinner, or that everything we do is just "filthy rags," this is the very teaching that I encountered among Fundamentalist Protestants. It is NOT the gospel of the Latter-day Saints! This kind of teaching was a major factor that alienated me and turned me away from religion altogether during my late teens. It was not until several years later that I came to learn of the Restored Gospel, and came to have a clear, helpful understanding of humility, grace, and forgiveness, and of our eternal worth.
William ToftAugust 6, 2021
I am determined to do as much work for our dead as possible before the next lockdown occurs.
SuzetteAugust 6, 2021
As close family members share strongly their views against my views on all this, I simple Respond, “my body my choice. Please respect my religious views, my political views and I will 100% respect yours. That usually end the conversation.
Alan FlemingAugust 6, 2021
I often say to myself "You are a failure". Then I have to remind myself "Failure is an event, not a person". It is then I realize and say within myself "I can always do better" which is true and a driving force to improve. But the most important change occurs along with this thought when I accept that each experience (good and bad) is but a small step in my progression. Joseph Smith made many errors along the way but as I learn about his life I see his progression from a young boy to a young man to a prophet of God. He felt he had failed and wondered about his standing before God. In answer to his prayer seeking forgiveness, he learned that God is forgiving when we humbly confess and recognize our weaknesses and failings. It is like any parent, God is loving and wants us to try again, and again. He would be saddened if we choose to give in.
Judy JohnsonAugust 6, 2021
I have a dear friend who I was privileged to mentor as she learned the Gospel and joined the church. On numerous occasions when she was doubting and wanting to back away, I was prompted to say, "Whose voice are you listening to?" It is so "black and white" and so logical that it has kept her grounded and moving continually forward. Both of our testimonies have grown as we have learned to distinguish the difference and recognize the correct voice to follow. Thank you for your insight!
Haze KompelienAugust 6, 2021
I love helping people. It brings me joy. But I really loved your article. Thoughts I hadn't considered before. ~Exit strategy. ~A ‘train the trainer’ model is key to continuation without dependence. ~The cause of the cause? ~A family systems approach? ~Project based or people based? I need to take off my cape and step back, to make better judgements in my helping efforts.
DavidAugust 6, 2021
I haven’t decided yet if I will be vaccinated or not. The condemnation pretty much comes from one side. You want to wear a mask…knock yourself out, there will be no condemnation from me. Took the vaccine…great…still no condemnation. Believe that the government has been forthright with Covid information…that’s your right and you’ll not be condemned by me. I’m not offered the same courtesy if I believe differently.
AEatonAugust 6, 2021
Very well written and great points. I pray we can all learn how to disagree with civility on this and other difficult issues.
KateAugust 6, 2021
I agree wholeheartedly with your message, and I think that we LDS need to recognize how much of our LDS culture comes not from the revelations of the Restoration, but from the Calvinist protestantism that most of the early saints had grown up with. The sense of shame and never being good enough is part of the false teachings that the Restoration was meant to wipe away--but we've clung to them. We need to think this through. Many LDS are basically evangelical Christians, albeit with a Mormon-ish slant. Even (dare I say it?!) there are talks given in GC that reflect more of "conservative Christian" mindset than restoration theology. Once we understand that our Heavenly Parents LOVE every. single. one. of. us and want nothing more that each of us return to be with Them forever, and that that goal is Their work and Their glory--well, then the vengeful god of Luther and Calvin and all the rest will fade and we will see clearly the amazing beauty of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
ChrisAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for a wonderful and insightful article. The root cause of almost any addiction, as well as much of our pain, distress, and anxiety in this life is the story we continually tell ourselves..."I'm not good enough." And yet the core message of the gospel of Jesus Christ is the we are MORE than good enough. We are literal children of a God who loves us without condition...we cannot earn His love and we cannot do anything to cause Him to love us less. There are really only two commandments...love God and love people. Everything we do in our gospel living, whether it's attending church, fulfilling callings, temple attendance, tithing...everything...should be done as a result of living commandment #1 or #2. The gospel is not a to-do list. It's not onerous or heavy or difficult. It's light, joy, and peace. If we are willing to really live it as it's intended it will in fact make life much easier, not more difficult.
Nina HawkinsAugust 6, 2021
Thank you so much for your article. It's to bad that those of a different opinion are labeled as "reckless, selfish...." . There is more to it for those that choose not to get vaccinated or choose to wait a little longer. No one wants to hear an opposing view. So hysteria seems to be taking charge and freedom of speech is labeled as conspiracy if you don't agree with "their" narrative.
GaleAugust 6, 2021
I have never met anyone who has left the Church who hasn't misunderstood how God and the atonement work in our lives. As a Jewish convert, I've repeatedly given firesides about Christ's invitation to be perfect. Note He didn't elaborate on what that actually means, because His audience already knew that to be perfect (whole, complete) means to have the seven attributes of God: Love, Justice, Mercy, Kingship, Priesthood, Prophecy, and endurance to the end. This has nothing to do with the lists we use to beat ourselves up with. At the end of the day we only need to ask ourselves a few questions. Today, was I loving, was I fair, was I merciful, am I close to the Spirit, am I keeping my covenants. Try that, and you'll find it's much gentler to the soul than engaging in damaging self-talk or allowing Satan to beat us down.
Doris WilliamsAugust 6, 2021
Oh, thank you Maureen for pulling together all these wonderful thoughts and words of encouragement for those thinking of leaving the church because of feelings of guilt and discouragement over sins and weaknesses. I would ask these dear folks to picture our Savior in the garden of Gethsemane, suffering unrelenting, unforgiving pain causing extrusion of blood from every pore as he willingly paid the price exacted by justice for OUR sins so we wouldn't have to suffer for them at the day of judgment. Doesn't this sound like a Father who loves us without measure? In return, all He wants us to do is to accept Him as our Savior and to keep trying to follow the path He has laid out for us. He knew we will make mistakes, countless mistakes. He will forgive us as often as we ask Him to. All we have to do is ASK and keep trying to do a little better and if we forgive those who have hurt, disappointed or offended us. He is there to strengthen us to be able to bear the burdens we have in this second estate and promises us joy in this life and greater joy in the life to come. I pray for all who would give up this church with its history of the appearance of the Father and the Son to Joseph, the priesthood restored by John the Baptist and Peter, James and John, the appearance of Elijah, Moses and Elias who restored the priesthood keys of sealing, gathering of Israel and the blessings of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. The world has nothing to offer in exchange for these priceless blessings and the promise of living with our loved ones, free from death and suffering, forever.
PamelaAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for writing this Maurine. It is a timely article! I loved your insights and have printed the article for myself and will re-read and study it to further assimilate your words of comfort and reassurance. With much appreciation!!
Dave CrosbyAugust 6, 2021
Recommend reading Givens "All Things New". Wonderful read and answer to many questions. Very thought provoking.
Sara GrovesAugust 6, 2021
Amazing truths to be learned as I have read this article! Powerful message. I wish Eberle would take time to read this wonderful message of truth and hope! Thank you, Maurice, thank you!
Marsha WhiteAugust 6, 2021
This is a great article. I have been thinking of late "what would the country/world be like if a campaign for applying religion in our lives would be equal to that of the campaign for the COVID vaccine? Can you imagine all of the Atheist's or Agnostic's or the I don't believe in God people, who would be infuriated to have "religion shoved down their throats" If you put it in those terms, one can see how people are feeling like their liberty to be free thinkers, doers and self governing rights are being bullied away from them. Teach people correct principles and let them govern themselves. Speak truth about what is in a product and let people decide if it is something they want to take into their own bodies. God lets us choose so why do we feel likes it's our responsibility to take others choices from them?
GeneseeAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for this message! I have a son who is always hard on himself and I am going to share this with him and other family members. It is what we all need to hear often!
Susan ChristiansenAugust 6, 2021
In my 20s I used to make long checklist of goals and things that I felt were important for me to do. I would check off daily things like reading my scriptures and praying and going to the temple often and writing in my journal and having family family home evening and family prayer and scriptures and on and on. After years of doing this I was surprised that I found lost the spirit of the Lord in my life. I thought doing these would help me to have his spirit to be with me. I pondered this for months and couldn’t understand why. One day as I was reading an Ensign article it spoke about our Saviors atonement. It said that our dependence needs to be on Jesus Christ not on our own abilities or the natural man. This article pierced my heart deeply and I realized that I had been depending on myself for salvation and not turning to him in all humility and trusting in Him and His ability to save me. That started me on my journey to turn to Him and and to cling to Him on my journey back to my Heavenly Father. Great article- thank you. I pray we all may be perfected through Him as He leads us along - keeping our focus on the glory of God and His merciful and loving plan
David GAugust 6, 2021
Wow, some great thoughts on the subject. This should be given at Conference.
joAnne RiveraAugust 6, 2021
Thank you. This is such a beautiful article/response to people who feel like this. I have learned these truths myself on my journey through life, and I have never stopped learning because it really is a process of becoming and experiencing. It is so true that the discouraging voice within our head is our own, or Satan’s. God is good, all-loving, omniscient, and omnipotent. He also can be omnipresent in our lives, if we are willing and able to receive Him. And there’s the key. Our own thoughts and feelings, and interpretations can discourage us and even cause us to reject the hand that reaches out for us. This is where clinging to the iron rod - Jesus Christ - the Word of God, the true principles and doctrine revealed to us—can help us. Pure intelligence and understanding of truth, not the committee of critics in our head, can help us to stay in the safety of The arms of Jesus. Again, thank you for such a well expressed article, telling the truth like it is, and dispelling fables and foibles.
JeanAugust 6, 2021
Thank-you so much, Maurine — so very much.
Dean in Saratoga Springs, UTAugust 6, 2021
Thank you for these inspiring thoughts. Keeping the atonement foremost in our thoughts is of immeasurable comfort. I love the thought that Scot had that the Lord is not angry with him. Our God is not an angry God.
Lori Finlay HamiltonAugust 6, 2021
WOW, thank you Maurine for your powerful testimony of truth!! I'm saddened by so many that are hearing Satan's lies lower that our Savior's welcome invitation to "Come Unto Him". Years ago as I was in a curriculum studying male and female character traits, we discussed competition, or "I'm not good enough" that plaques women so often. As you know, it is Satan voice. While I was preparing our home to host a baby shower for a young new mom, I was stressed that the rugs on the floor were not perfect. My dear wise friend said "alright Lucy"! It stopped me right in my tracks. I was letting Lucifer dictate my worth by how clean my home was. I remembered that what the dear sisters needed was me and my warmth and welcome heart, NOT a clean house. Ever since that day, when I hear the nasty tone on my shoulder I tell Lucy (Lucifer's sister;) to stop! Being aware of the voice has changed me. And of course, being more in tune, pondering on His attributes daily has supported in quieting that voice! thank you agin for your powerful discourse to support us remembering who we really are!!
Lark GalleyAugust 6, 2021
Maurine, So well written. I am saddened to see many friends who leave the church so they can finally feel free when in reality it is the gospel that sets us free. I do not feel repressed or less than because of it. I am filled with hope that God loves me and wants me to return to Him. He is my anchor in this uncertain world.
MaryAugust 6, 2021
Why can't he just say "it really hurts me when you say things like that about mom"?
KarinaAugust 6, 2021
Thanks for this perspective, Maurine. I too have heard friends describe it as a relief to leave the church, only to end up in a full-blown identity crisis, seeking anything they can find to fill the void that was once their relationship with Father in Heaven. I also think if a person believes the church and the gospel are all about shaming, they don’t understand or have a relationship with Christ, and I feel for them, because my relationship with Christ brings me much joy and peace, not shame and a feeling of worthlessness.
Charles McClellandAugust 6, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for this insightful and comforting message.
Robert D StarlingAugust 6, 2021
The real "relief" we should feel is to learn that we are NOT "sinners in the hand of an angry God" - an error that was taught to the Christian world in the days before Joseph Smith. The Restoration teaches us that while we are indeed sinners, God is a loving father who is constantly cheering us on, and who gave his Only Begotten Son that we might not perish but have eternal life. To leave a church who teaches that is to abandon hope and turn to the despair of the world. Not a good choice.
ShaunaAugust 4, 2021
Thank you--this was helpful.. I look to the Lord for guidance on how to help others, as I do in all things. Love studying the Doctrine and Covenants on the law of consecration etc.. But sometimes it's hard to know how to channel all that goodwill and good intentions that so many have--at least short term
SoniaAugust 4, 2021
Love this. Thank you.
Jill WilliamsAugust 4, 2021
I am on two very restrictive medical diets, due to kidney disease. I have been freezing my food because I am allowed only fresh or frozen, except for fruit.I cannot use any kind of prepared items. I am concerned, of course, when we have no electricity...what will I do then ? What should people like us do to prepare? I bought can goods for years and then had to throw them out and buy again stuff that I couldn't consume. HELP ME!!!
Julie ArcherAugust 4, 2021
Thank you for revealing terminology and concepts that shed light on this “spotlight humanitarian” trend. I have tried to form discussions concerning this, but always fell short of educating and came across more as judging. You present a constructive understanding of the difference and effects of leadership vs self proclaimed super heroism.
Helen CondonAugust 4, 2021
Such a timely reminder to get us back to worshipping in His houses, multiplied in number across the earth to enable this glorious work to resume. Thank you.
H NorthAugust 4, 2021
"Think self-reliance not emergency preparation." This is fine, as long as one is NOT thinking of the LDS Church's Self-Reliance program, which is simply the new name for its welfare program, and has very little to do with emergency preparedness. This re-wording has cased a lot of confusion among members.
win broadhurstAugust 3, 2021
What happened to the remaining four. Articles in the series of 12?
Hans SchippersAugust 3, 2021
How incredibly sad that no one in the ward even offered to help. Complacency seemed to have taken over and the good folks of the word were "carefully led down to hell". It looks like progress was made with the roof but how about the rest? Flooring? Paint? New windows? Insulation? Heating, etc? God bless you for stepping up with your own funds.
Boanerges RubalcavaAugust 3, 2021
I found this article, both good, fair, and at the same time not so good and unfair. It is commendable the efforts this man have done in the benefit of "Larry", and it is fair to call our attention to the fact that we are feeling fine just to take our fast offering to the Bishop but not thinking further how we can help other people in greater needs than ours. On the other hand it is wrong to point out the finger against people not knowing what those people either are just "thinking" or actually doing something but not saying anything about it. This brings to my mind a great lesson I received many years ago while living in what I thought was the wealthiest ward in the Church: Chevy Chase ward in Bethesda Maryland. I had arrived there in 1971 with a scholarship of $12,500/year withy wife and 4 children, to do my post doctoral training in National Institutes of Health, coming from Mexico City where I used to be until my moving the Bishop of a ward surrounded by a very poor neighborhood. because I my calling I was at 33 years old a High Priest, and began to meet with that group in the Priesthood meeting in the ward, and I had at my side (for unknown reason we always seated in the same place every Sunday), behind and everywhere millionaires. One Sunday the group leader asked us that the Bishop needed a wheelchair for a lady in great need. I, the poor in the group, did not have a wheelchair and I did not know anybody with a wheelchair, so I erased from my mind the whole thing; but could not help but observe my millionaire at my left side, to take a yellow card from his shirt pocket and wrote "wheelchair". The following Sunday by coincidence (?) I was in the Bishop's office when somebody knock at the door; I opened it and there was my fellow millionaire at my left side every Sunday with a wheelchair; he asked, "where do I put it?" left the chair and left. I couldn't help but to think in the young rich man when he asked the Lord: "what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" We all know this teaching that ends with these words from the Lord: "How hardly shall they that have riches to enter into the Kingdom of God! For it is easier for a camel to go through a needle's eye, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God". I believe that almost if not everybody in this world know this scripture and have said internally: "poor the rich men, they will not make it, that's good I am poor (or not rich)". We can see the "rich" and "poor" are relative terms, although for sure they could be absolute also. In my case I was poor in Bethesda, but I was rich from the place I came from, but at that moment I knew that I was "the rich man" the Lord was talking about. During the week I never thought about the lady in need, but the millionaire did it. The cynics and the skeptic people would say "what is a wheelchair for a millionaire" but they would miss the point. and the lesson that I learned that day coming from that "rich" man J. W. Marriott the founder of Marriott Corporation. My point is that there are many people in this world and in this Church that this lesson is well learned, and they are trying hard to "reach Zion", and it is difficult for anybody to know who and where they are.
Larry RookhuyzenAugust 3, 2021
Yes--Proof of Heaven and Embraced by the Light are two of my favorite NDE books
Lisa Bolin HawkindAugust 3, 2021
Amen, Wally.
JuliannAugust 3, 2021
This should be published in the Liahona. There is so much in the Gospel about taking care of the poor and needy. We make covenants to sacrifice and consecrate in order to establish Zion. But I’m afraid we are more concerned with cruises and cabins and creating our own mansions here on earth and taking care of our own creature comforts to even consider others lack. It is understandable, with all the government “welfare”, to question how so many fall between the cracks. However, we aren’t commanded to judge the situation, we are commanded to “think of others like unto yourself” and to Care. I felt my own need to improve and thank Brother Goddard for his example.
Harry JonesAugust 3, 2021
I appreciate this article and believe we (I) are far from Zion but trying to head in the correct direction. Two observations: 1. Temple work with and for the disadvantaged is humbling and blesses those that serve as well as the congregation as a whole. 2. I find that when we compare what we have to what we see others need and then desire for them to have what we have, our minds and hearts are softened and enlightened.
David G.August 3, 2021
I hope the supreme court upholds religious rights. The teacher in question would rather tear down the institution, rather than go find a more suitable secular position.
GTOAugust 2, 2021
I especially liked Proof of Heaven by Eben Alexander MD. He is a neurosurgeon who suffered a brain infection that rendered him brain dead. His account of his experiences in heaven is stunning.
Jen SchowAugust 2, 2021
I have never found wearing the garment to be a burden. I wouldn't know how to not wear them! But a word of caution. There are many, especially in the younger generation, who find them burdensome at times. Our judgement might push them further away. I was waiting for my husband at the temple one evening. I noticed several women with, what felt to me, dresses too short for garments. I was quickly called to repentance by the Spirit. I knew that Heavenly Father was pleased that they were worthy to enter the temple and He was happy they were there. I'm thankful that garment styles have been updated, an evidence that our leaders do seek to listen and act. I pray that those who struggle with garments will find a way to incorporate them into their lives in a joyful manner.
Jo Ann OkelberryAugust 2, 2021
Thank you for sharing this very positive story.
Vivian M AdamsAugust 2, 2021
I loved this article and the research that went into it. I wrote saying so, but my comment was attached to the article on Eliza Graham which is a story I was very familiar with. And though I appreciated reading about Eliza Graham, I want to note particularly that this article on the American Elite visiting Nauvoo touched me. It reminded me how much I love the Prophet Joseph Smith. Thank you for all that went into it.
Vivian M AdamsAugust 2, 2021
Thank you for a really wonderful article. Wonderful research.
CarolAugust 2, 2021
Cheers for Appleton and the Fox Valley, I lived in a southern part of the Fox Valley, Batavia, Il!!! They are to be applauded for honoring the commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves. And congratulations to all the immigrants who face very hard challenges in learning a new culture and a new religion too! It will all be worth it!!!
James R. BrownAugust 2, 2021
Very well written and insightful about the character of the prophet and why he was both loved and hated at that momentous time of his life.
MomofawarriorAugust 2, 2021
I agree that it's damaging to label as addicts all young people who have problems with pornography. One of my sons was labeled a sex addict by a therapist, which was too harsh in my opinion. He was already beating hiself up emotionally & that just added another layer of rejection.
DavidAugust 2, 2021
I have been reading about NDE's since the 70's. When you could bearly find anything on the subject. In 1997 I had an OBE which testified of the truth of the afterlife.
EmilyAugust 1, 2021
Thank you for this timely lesson.
Charles DefranchiAugust 1, 2021
One characteristic of the Adversary is to claim that all he wants is a "little improvement" to the current situation. But like the camel who is begging his master to get his nose in the tent during a sandstorm: first the nose, then the eyes, then the head, then the front legs, then the whole body, till the nomad gets kicked out of the tent.
Barbara BohanAugust 1, 2021
I love this! BEAUTIFUL!
David RoquemoreAugust 1, 2021
I have often replied to those who would say that modesty is "being a prude" with the idea of modesty being an understanding, a respect, for the power a person's body has. You know when you see a person waving around a gun and proclaiming, "Lookee here at my gun! Ain't it cool?", that person is not somebody who respects that weapon. Same with modesty: showing off shows no respect, or enjoyment, of one's body.
Still StrivingJuly 31, 2021
Definitions would have been helpful: "Princess Culture" = the "Disney-style" princess characters - more recently showing greater self-efficacy (e.g., Mulan, Moana, etc.). "Toxic Masculinity" = strict presumptions of male dominance in relationships, as opposed to shared and complementary roles. With these in mind, the author (Coyne) elsewhere advised parents to use the princess characters as teaching tools, to “focus on the humanity behind each princess, not just their appearance." Seems important and meaningful.
Kristen OpenshawJuly 31, 2021
Agree, agree, agree with the COMMENTS, not the article. Good grief, BYU.
Lorraine QuillonJuly 31, 2021
Thank you for publishing this interesting piece. What a delightful insight into a complex interaction!
Cary HolmquistJuly 30, 2021
Hilarious! In most of the rest of the world, we promote 24th of July as Pioneer Day, as we do in Montana and Alberta. So this is mostly a Utah problem.... But the cartoon does bring up the consciousness that all our ancestors are worthy of big celebrations! We owe them just about everything!
Marilyn ThomsenJuly 30, 2021
In the last days, when the power of the destroyer in increasing, we need all the help we can get. The promises made to those who are true and faith filled are powerful. I remember the beautiful sisters in Guatemala whose faith shone in their faces as they wore garments when it was both hot and humid too. (Sorry Arizona you just don't know how bad it can get.) Thanks for talking about not casting off our faith and covenants when things get less pleasant.
Jo Ann OkelberryJuly 30, 2021
I so enjoyed reading this article. Thank you so much for all the information.
Allison TullisJuly 30, 2021
On my first time back to the temple since reopening, I took a family name that I had meant to do long before Covid but had kept putting off. I was so happy to finally do her work and had felt so guilty they she had to wait so long. While I was receiving the new name, I felt her presence so strongly and heard the words, “thank you!” I could feel her happiness that she was finally receiving her endowment which took away my guilt and caused me such happiness, too!
Anne PrattJuly 30, 2021
Today's podcast was extra special. Thanks for your research and inspiring us with it.
Maryann TaylorJuly 30, 2021
We are so blessed to have an addiction and recovery program in our church. Run, don't walk, and get the details from your Bishop. It is a loving, encouraging program that will help both you and your wife.
Maryann TaylorJuly 30, 2021
I think Rebecca is a wonderful example for all of us as a reminder that we need to bear our testimonies of the Book of Mormon. If you don't have a testimony yet, read it with a sincere heart, pray about it, and you will know that it is true. Read the promise in Moroni 10:4&5 before you begin. Once you have that witness and continue to read it, the critical comments that will continue to be aimed at the church will not shake you. You will not be deceived.
Amanda FreebairnJuly 30, 2021
Thank you for all the kind comments. I’m glad my experiences have resonated with so many of you.
Maryann TaylorJuly 30, 2021
You are like an oasis in the midst of a world that is oh-so-serious and negative. Thank you for making my day happier!
Erik HansenJuly 30, 2021
From all his own words and from descriptions given by many I feel that I know how Joseph was, and know his unique personality of confidence in the Lord. When I finally meet him (if my life can be straight enough to stand with him in paradise) I hope the time will be first after my own father. (I'm sure many, many others feel the same way.)
Kristen FJuly 30, 2021
Thank you for sharing this wonderful story of a strong, courageous young woman. What a great example to the young women of today to stand strong in the gospel of Jesus Christ. I am grateful for my pioneer ancestors and their sacrifice and strength. Such a great example of standing for truth no matter what the consequence.
Richard JukesJuly 30, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for preparing and posting this wonderful article. We always appreciate the things you've taught us and continue to exemplify.
JenniferJuly 30, 2021
I followed the counsel of our Prophet, consulted with my health care professional, and got the vaccine. I got my 13 year old vaccinated, as well. I have my fingers crossed that my 10 year old won't get sick (I'm not afraid of him dying but I am concerned about long COVID in kids) and trusting that people in his life will make decisions to keep him, and others who cannot be vaccinated for medical reasons like Earl upthread, safe. I pray that this trust is not misplaced.
KathleenJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for helping me feel like a warrior in the Lord's army. What a wonderful badge to show we're with the Lord.
KathleenJuly 29, 2021
I did not read the NY Times article, but I concur with your comments or response. Well put. It bothers me when worldly means and ways are used to express spiritual questions/complaints.
Rochelle HaleJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for your article. I was surprised by the comments in the NY Times. Sadly, I think it was another excuse for some members to make their voices heard, which may result in negative views of the church, and certainly a lack of understanding of something very sacred. Years ago a young woman phoned into a syndicated radio program to talk about her upcoming temple marriage. Her parents would be excluded because they weren't members. She then proceeded to ask questions of the host. Why didn't she go to her bishop or relief society president with her questions, or even call the temple??!! When we put our faith and commitment first, then the wearing of sacred temple garments becomes easier. We should be looking for reasons why and how we show our obedience rather than justifying all of the reasons we can't.
Jo Ann OkelberryJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for writing this. I treasure my garments because they do remind me of my covenants and of my blessings. We have a wide variety of fabrics, and I found some that I like better than others. If women have concerns, they should write their concerns to the temple garment division and express their concerns and suggestions.
PaulineJuly 29, 2021
I received a triple bonus by reading and watching the links! Very helpful and insightful. I’ve had a lot of time in the expectations trap..painful learning to deal with my own emotions. How does this relate to Nonviolent Communication; rewards and “consequences” could be manipulative as well.
Elder Calvin GarvinJuly 29, 2021
As an MLS Missionary look forward to Part 2.
SeekingtohearHimdailyandcourageouslyactJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for so eloquently expressing my feelings. Thank you for sharing the thoughts of Many of us who happily wear our garments everyday despite the worlds ever changing views on modesty, body image, beauty, and fashion trends. We are grateful for our own personal revelation and testimony of the sacred and powerful blessings that are tied to our obedience to the covenants we made.
KristenJuly 29, 2021
I didn't read the article you are referencing here, but I agree with all of your sentiments about wearing the holy garment. It is not always convenient, but it is always a blessing to have that added layer of spiritual protection and a constant reminder of my love for God and His love for me.
Rita in TexasJuly 29, 2021
I've worn the garments since 1985, when I first went to the Chicago Temple. I was a 23 year old convert in 1976, when I was baptized, and it took a while for me to be able to go. But the covenants I made then have been the source of massive blessings for me and for my family, most of whom are either not active or not members. My wearing the 'magic underwear' (as my uncle insisted on calling it) has been a constant reminder of my duties and opportunities, a source of protection against evil, and a sign of my membership in the Church of the Firstborn. Southcentral Texas, where I live, gets really hot as well as humid, but I've been blessed to feel comfortable most of the time. My choices have been influenced in good ways because of my first choice to follow my Savior. I wouldn't change a thing.
Robert D StarlingJuly 29, 2021
Good thoughts. Perhaps after answering someone's question, the best "no pressure" response might be, "Thanks for asking. I'd be happy to answer any other questions you might have. Just let me know." Then wait. Tip: Since none of us knows the answer to every question, we should all become familiar with some good resources for answers. Among these are the Church's Gospel Topics website, fairlatterdaysaints.org, bookofmormoncentral.org, InterpreterFoundation.org, etc.
Lee HillJuly 29, 2021
Wonderful article! I never thought of myself in this way. I always regretted not having had the opportunity to serve in the military and this has helped to assuage those feeling of regret. In fact, I remember an incident some 44 years ago when my missionary companion and I spoke with an older gentleman who castigated us for being missionaries instead of serving in the military at that time in our lives. I remember my companion being inspired to reply, "We preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ and, if everyone listened to and applied our message in their lives, there would be no need for ANYONE to serve in the military." What an inspired perspective!
Diane IrwinJuly 29, 2021
Amen and Amen!! This is so well written, and is a great rebuttal to last week's article. I like the way you explained the WHY of wearing garments, as well as the part about sacrifice. I often long to wear sleeveless tops and dresses in the summer (not tank tops) and then I remember the WHY!
PaulineJuly 29, 2021
Thoughtful article and much appreciated!
VeraJean SchowJuly 29, 2021
Thank you, so much, for adding this important information.
Patricia ByrneJuly 29, 2021
Excellent article. Thank you for expressing MY feelings so well.
Margery HuntJuly 29, 2021
Thank you. I felt your article was informational, specific and edifying. I personally feel safer by wearing the temple garments because of the covenants made to me by a loving God. Even when it is hot, I would feel more uncomfortable not wearing them because they are a gift.
BeckyJuly 29, 2021
I LOVE this article so much! I hope it reaches the masses. It really is beautiful. Thank you!
Clarissa SmithJuly 29, 2021
Thank you for sharing.
Marla SmakaJuly 29, 2021
Well said. My daughter and I have had several conversations about the article regarding wearing of garments. I am in complete agreement that wearing the garment has never been a burden, and I also agree that I prefer some styles over others.
Kay RookhuyzenJuly 29, 2021
Your thoughts and feelings mirror mine very well. I made a promise just as you did. Very well put!
Julie archerJuly 29, 2021
The garment is also a type of the garment we wore in Heaven. Hugh Nibley said we had to remove our garment, we loved so much, in order to come to earth. And the most agonizing thing we will face if, we don’t make it back, is not being able to wear it again. All of the powers and truth we obtained through our tutelage in the pre- existence is housed in that garment. Since our earthly garment is a type, we actually draw upon our heavenly garments powers while wearing it, if we are keeping our covenants. Keeping our covenants unlocks the door to it. This understanding has made the garment a privilege to wear instead of a burden. This is why Isaiah councils us to “awake and put on thy beautiful garment.”
KellieJuly 28, 2021
I took my three daughters, 8, 13, and 16 to the movie premiere and we all loved it!
Patricia S PerryJuly 28, 2021
Love the article!
CarolJuly 28, 2021
Thank you for your stories they always make me laugh!! And everyone needs a good laugh.
CathyJuly 28, 2021
I look forward to every week to reading your stories every week.. Am never disappointed!
MartaJuly 28, 2021
Let him know you will leave him if he is unwilling to grow up. Betrayal in a marriage is not some easily rectified error. He will need to act in trustworthy ways for the rest of his life. And boo hoo. He is not getting access to sex. It is not his decision. He is on probation, with the loss of his eternal family at stake. Sex is not just a physical release. It is sharing your eternal soul with another. Why would his wife wish to share her soul with this man at this time.
Karell BinghamJuly 28, 2021
Dress to honor God
Ellen BaggaleyJuly 27, 2021
I have eight good sons. I do not like the term “toxic masculinity”. I also do not want my daughters to be “progressive”. I don’t care for the words used in this article.
Maryann TaylorJuly 27, 2021
If we consistently study the scriptures and the words of living Prophets, pray every day, and sincerely strive to live to have the Holy Ghost with us we will not be deceived. If we stop reading and praying we will begin to lose the spirit of discernment and it will be easy for us to be confused.
vickieJuly 27, 2021
I DONT KNOW about this princess culture......it sounds more like a scientific test or children ...which it is....but im scepticle about these so called different cultures....esp when they have to do with gender.
ScottHJuly 27, 2021
In modern parlance, the word "masculinity" is almost never used without the modifier "toxic." While the intent may be to squelch harmful behaviors and attitudes, the unfortunate side effect is that all forms of masculinity are maligned. Boys are growing up in a culture that constantly tells them that they are bad because of their sex. Latter-day Saints should be at the forefront of rejecting harmful anti-masculine messages rather than parroting the world's 'toxic' terminology.
Harold RustJuly 27, 2021
Thanks for the video! Great reminder of why it required faith to settle in Salt Lake and how that faith has been rewarded.
Wayne FrancomJuly 26, 2021
This article was well worth the read. It is inspiring to know the thoughts and feelings of some of the refugees from Nauvoo. Having just recently been there I can only imagine the restraint and resilience of the early "Saints". It is interesting to note the so called "Trail of Tears" has now been renamed "The Trail of Hope" again defining the possibilities that lay ahead.
ElissaJuly 26, 2021
Great reminders. I think citing references would be helpful here. I was especially wondering about this one: "Over 90% of the survivors of lightning strikes end up divorcing because of the mental problems caused by brain injuries when electricity passes through the body." I'm interested in seeing the source for this claim. A brief Google search brought up this dissertation: https://ecommons.luc.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1694&context=luc_diss
Maryann TaylorJuly 26, 2021
It sounds as if this husband is unaware that trust must be earned and that takes time. After hurting her so deeply, rushing her to trust him again indicates he is not willing to pay the price to regain her trust. His impatience also suggests that he doesn't really understand how much he hurt her by betraying her trust in the first place. Sounds like some good counseling needs to take place.
Maryann TaylorJuly 26, 2021
Thank you so much for mentioning the power of hymns in our lives. Other than renewing my Sacrament covenants, the hymns are often my greatest spiritual nourishment in our meeting. I often recognize new meanings in phrases that I have simply sung without thinking about what I was singing. The enlightenment never ends!
Doris WilliamsJuly 26, 2021
Thank you Nicholeen for sharing your experiences with us. What an example you are. We have all gained valuable insights from your remarkable interactions with your foster children. Loved the confirming value of hugs you shared.
Anne PrattJuly 26, 2021
What a sweet and inspiring story. Thanks for sharing it.
Pau8l ChappellJuly 25, 2021
I lost a grandmother (dad's) and an uncle (mom's brother) before I was born. While my dad's mother has people who've written about her, no one had done so prior to my efforts for my uncle. My uncle Emil lives on because of my efforts to interview people years ago, who are now dead. Personal history is mighty important for future generations so that people know them as people, not just a name or dates.
JakeJuly 25, 2021
Wonderful article! Thank you! I have thought this way for a long time but finally made the decision to go for it. I am not condemning anyone for their choices but my interpretation for me is that I should not eat meat. If anyone has health concerns watch the movie forks over knives. There are a lot of plant based movies. Many are sensational and over the top. Forks over knives is science based and very well done. It looks like the science shows that the lord was right a long time ago.
Richard JukesJuly 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing these poignant memories of some of our dear ancestors. My heart always goes out to them with gratitude for the sacrifices from which my family has inherited so many inspiring examples of faith and follow-through!
Vivian M AdamsJuly 24, 2021
This was beautifully done. So worth reading.
Christine BJuly 24, 2021
I have found that just the pure and sincere “act” of pulling out your scriptures and opening them up for even just a very few minutes each day will bring blessings. Just opening them. There are times when our life can just be spinning with business or we may be so tired for months but I think even during those hectic months a simple minute or two can help propel us forward and keep or start a sacred habit that will get easier because we have made the initial most difficult step of at least starting.
Cynthia SavageJuly 24, 2021
Incredible recount of the great exodus from Nauvoo with countless examples of faith and courage in every footstep. Very humbling. Thank you for sharing.
Harold RustJuly 24, 2021
One of my ancestors I most look forward to meeting on the other side is a 3rd great grandfather, Isaac Goodwin, who lost his wife during the storm when the ship was aiming for Valpariso. His wife was buried on Robinson Crusoe Island and he and his six children traveled on to California without her. Isaac had to "farm out" his children for months at a time while doing masonry work in 1847 through 1850 but eventually brought most of them with him to San Bernardino in 1853 and then moved again to Utah in 1857. Each of those major disruptions came when he had settled and was doing very well financially; he chose each time to respond to what he knew the Lord required of him. He even succeeded in acquiring some gold in "Mormon Island" near Sutter's Fort, but still moved on instead of dedicating more time to acquiring the easy pickings in those earlier years of the gold rush.
Claudette RaylJuly 24, 2021
My great-great-great grandfather Daniel Stark was a passenger on the Ship Brooklyn, too. His son, John Daniel Stark, my great-great grandfather, was only about 1 year old at the time of the voyage. Thank you for adding some details of this historic voyage for my family history.
BruceJuly 23, 2021
Very good advise; thank you for this.
tfJuly 23, 2021
The most obvious thing that needs trust is to participate in marital intimacy again, but believe it or not, withholding is the chief way to drive him away. Maybe someone who has been through it can give better advise, I'm surprised that mine is the first comment.
Linda PatalonJuly 23, 2021
These podcasts bring me back from the brink every time I listen to one. You are truly doing the Lord's work. May God continue to bless you to open the scriptures to me and strenghthen my faith. Holiness to the Lord.
DuaneJuly 23, 2021
I’ve known of Eliza Jane Graham because John Pack is my ancestor and know if the divorce. However, I just recently heard this story. She was a brave woman - the kind of woman it took to be a pioneer. John should have respected her.
DTJuly 22, 2021
Why hasn't this girl been a heroine in the Church long before this? Shameful to concentrate on the men, and ignore the very brave women. It's about time. Long past.
Tom WoodJuly 22, 2021
Beautiful lesson and a beautiful tribute to your friend. Your lesson has reminded and encouraged me to try and provide some service to a relative in a very difficult situation. It might be very uncomfortable and require me to reach out in a delicate manner, but your lesson has inspired me to do it. Thanks for not only a wonderful lesson, but for the encouragement to attempt service for a needy soul.
James ScottJuly 22, 2021
Moses’ priesthood lineage has always interested me. As you point out Abraham received the priesthood from Melchizedek Moses’ line came thru Jethro, Caleb, Elijah, Jeremy, Gad, Esaias. But, Esaias received it under the hand of God. While Esaias lived in Abraham’s day and was blessed by him, his priesthood didn’t come thru the fathers but from God. Who was Esaias, what did he do, who were his people, what positions did he hold that he should have the singular relationship with God?. Or, Maybe the recorder erred? I’ve always wondered about this person.
brian stubbsJuly 22, 2021
Amazing young lady. It is good for us to know of these lesser-known heroes, as I'm sure many more exist than we are aware of. Bless Eliza Graham and her posterity forever! I'm looking forward to meeting her, and I'm sure she has been well received and honored by the early saints in yonder spheres, where we might hope for something comparable if we do / live comparably.
Andrew KJuly 22, 2021
The story of the trial was dramatized in a great stage play available on DVD called "Hancock County". I highly recommend it.
kateJuly 22, 2021
Excellent story--it's always wonderful to learn more of the story! Not only was she a woman of principle, she made what I'm sure was a socially difficult decision to divorce an abusive husband and move on with her life. Thank you for sharing Eliza's story.
NicoleJuly 22, 2021
If you’re in UT, watch out! The largest district in the state is teaching CRT and pushing these “social emotional programs” on our children. Give. Cox is bought and paid for by the teachers unions. They’ve given him at least $75,000. He is their puppet and does their bidding.
HALJuly 22, 2021
Great article, thank you! I was seriously hurt a few months ago and counting my blessings helped me to keep my spirits up and heal in record time.
LindaJuly 21, 2021
This is truly an eye-opener! I'm thankful I live in a conservative city within a conservative state. So far, we don't have liberal leaning leaders trying to teach CRT or any of that other nonsense. Be careful, parents! Make sure you know what your child is being taught, etc.
PatriciaJuly 21, 2021
My favorite stories are the ones that bring tears to my eyes. This was one such story, as have been many of his before. I am so glad you will be publishing his stories in the future. Know that I appreciate Meridian Magazine for its honest and faithful pleasure. I hardly jokingly repeat my ancestry to others as being a descendant of Job. Now, in actuality, wouldn't that be just dandy!
Cary HolmquistJuly 21, 2021
Thanks for sharing these experiences of ‘putting flesh on bones’ family history. It is very heartwarming and inspiring.
Terry ManningJuly 21, 2021
Do not ignore those prompting. People with the answers you need die. Then you have to shift through endless documents trying to locate a piece of information you just could have asked for.
Joyce B.July 21, 2021
This article was so amazing! I am very grateful for wonderful brothers and sisters who teach me eternal truths I would not have gleaned from studying them myself. It is a profound concept that I will not only apply myself, but teach my family as well!
Elmer GuevarraJuly 21, 2021
Another A-1 article You are one of my favorites here in Meridian Magazine. I am always on the lookout for your contribution. Thank you, Mr. Daris Howard
LexaGraemeJuly 21, 2021
Goodness. Thank you for another excellent story.
James ScottJuly 20, 2021
Bones of history fleshed out! Your essay has the flavor of an adventure novel or a movie noir. Congratulations and here’s hoping you find and feel the Spirit of Elijah from your family.
Dennis HorneJuly 19, 2021
I recommend everyone with interest in Latter-day Saint scripture, doctrine, and history, obtain and read this superb book.
JenniferJuly 19, 2021
I deeply appreciate the insights shared in this article. They are gratifying in their metaphorical and literal natures.
Lee HillJuly 18, 2021
Thank you, Lynn. This was very powerful. I will be looking for more / different ways to share the scriptures with my children who are still struggling to "get it."
HalJuly 18, 2021
Thank you for this article. My dad was not very forthcoming about his childhood or his war experiences (he was both a WW2 and Korean War veteran). Most of what I found out about my dad came from his younger brother who was a tremendous story teller. I'm trying to go through my own life experiences to see what I can pass on to my grandchildren.
Maryann TaylorJuly 17, 2021
I appreciate the suggestions given here to make scripture study more enjoyable. I have learned that if I try to read when I am tired that it is hard to enjoy what I read. I also find if I SLOW DOWN it helps me to understand a beautiful insight I would have missed if I was just reading quickly to finish a chapter. It is a wonderful experience to sit quietly and ponder a single verse that has special meaning for you personally. I LOVE the scriptures and I find that the more I read them, the more I love and appreciate them.
James William Hollister IIJuly 16, 2021
The world needs a little more self-less than self-ish, I think.
WeezieJuly 15, 2021
Wow! That was amazing. I really needed this. I know what I should be doing but what I’ve been doing isn’t working great. These are wonderful ideas I plan on sharing with my kids. Thanks for such great new ways to study and receive the light the Lord intends us to have.
Kay RookhuyzenJuly 15, 2021
This article was fantastic! I stumbled on my best way to read the scrips accidentally. One day I decided to listen WHILE I read along. It changed my thoughts and feelings about scripture study! It keeps me focused so much better.
Steve DoneganJuly 15, 2021
Ever since reading Elder Bruce R. McConkie’s works on teaching I’ve been hooked on apperceptions. Your tying in the terra cotta warriors to scripture study was a wonderful example. Thank you for sharing.
BTJuly 15, 2021
I read this article with great interest because there was a time when I didn't love the scriptures. Over time as I have learned how to better study scriptures, my love for them has grown and continues to grow. Now what I struggle with, am embarrassed to admit, and would love to see an article about is, "What if I don't love the temple?" I do feel the spirit and a peace in the temple that is not found anywhere else, but I don't feel as much love for the temple as I feel I should. When friends talk about how much they love going to the temple, I feel like I'm missing something that they get.
BrigitteJuly 15, 2021
Thank you for this article. This is timely for me as someone who has ADHD and have felt strongly lately that I've been failing because I'm not doing it "right". I can't help but wonder how many would feel more secure in their faith if they didn't feel like they had to do a "one size fits all" study. Thank you again- this was an answer to prayer.
C. NielsenJuly 15, 2021
Thanks for the insights! You might want to add that temple learning is another approach to gospel understanding that can open the scriptures.
Diana TJuly 14, 2021
Thank you so much for this beautiful article! We will be studying and discussing this for FHE.
Ruth JamiesonJuly 14, 2021
So sad. I hope they feel the Saviors love at this tender time. So hard to lose loved ones.
David DurfeeJuly 14, 2021
Interestingly, I was also in the USSR in 1984. Moscow, Leningrad, Kiev and Minsk. I was with a couple of other LDS attorneys. We brought in with us a few bibles and BofMs, in Russian, that we had picked up in New York. We had a marvelous experience in a Baptist Church on a Sunday in Minsk, including a soul rending and powerful hymn by the Church's choir that we were sure had been rehearsed just for us and that brought us to tears. We learned from the pastor after the meeting that they were not able to buy bibles. So we returned to our hotel, wrote our testimonies in Russian in the bibles and the BofMs that we had brought with us the best that we could (1 semester of Russian in night school at ASU before our trip was immensely helpful), and one of our number took them all to the church the next day. The pastor was overwhelmed. It was one of the best experiences of my life.
PattieJuly 14, 2021
It is truly a blessing to have our Nana’s live close and be a part of our lives. I too respect and honor my GM (she always wanted to be called) and know she and my mother are watching out for my family on the other side.
Julie CookJuly 14, 2021
What an inspiring article. Isaiah 61:1-3 has always been my favorite scripture. The description of His mission always lifts me....yet I had never even pondered how in my efforts to become more Christlike, I might give beauty from ashes! These words touched me, inspired and lifted me. Thank you for this profound insight!
JuliJuly 14, 2021
I liked this article. It answers alot of questions about the different markets and how supply and demand work in a free market society. Thanks for writing it.
PaulineJuly 13, 2021
When a nation cannot control its economy it has no sovereignty because of global free trade policies run by international banking cartels. This was the whole point of Hamilton banking. We need Glass Steagall to separate investment and commercial banking as well as a fixed exchange rate. We have no medical freedom either.
Ruth JamiesonJuly 13, 2021
Can't wait! I loved Once I was a Beehive!
Mandi MilesJuly 13, 2021
So inspiring! I love your response to your sister-in-law, “just trying my darndest to be a good Disciple of Christ.”
LewisJuly 12, 2021
What a sweet story. In a real way we are all lost and damaged souls. Having someone to hang on to in our darkest hours is perhaps the greatest blessing. How wonderful that these two could help each other. They are examples to all of us - no matter the demons we must fight in our own lives, we can help others as they slay their own.
L VelardJuly 12, 2021
I believe that "give to Ceasar what is Ceasar's" is a close meaning to the gospel of politics, and therefore, shouldn't be exempt from taxation. While "give to God what is God's" is a Gospel of Spiritual salvation categories to religion which gives from Ceasar tax exemptions. Is this debatable and start to marvel at what is in Mark 17:12?
Bradley J. KramerJuly 12, 2021
Nope. Sorry. All of my relatives and recent ancestors lived in Cincinnati.
Jo Ellen NymanJuly 12, 2021
I too lost a son to suicide some years ago. I have always had a strong knowledge of the plan, and have had wonderful spiritual experiences as a result. But grief was long and hard regardless. The worst pain I have ever experienced in my life was constant. I had priesthood blessings, continued to serve and never lost my testimony. But one thing I realized I had not done for many years after was to ask Him to carry that pain for me. After finally tenderly surrendering this sorrow, I truly learned of the Savior's healing power. He CAN carry our sorrows. His healing power is real.
Corey DinsdaleJuly 11, 2021
Many years ago while teaching Elders Quorum and I don't remember the topic but one of the elders just kind of thinking out loud said, "I just wish we could get like an occasional report card or something so I could know how I am doing", the room went silent and there were a lot of nods in agreement, finally another one of the elders spoke up and said " we do get one, it's called a Temple Recommend". I thought about that remark and thought it was a good response but as the years went by and I got older had more experience in life and in the church and got somewhat wiser and more knowledgeable with doctrine and people I realized a Temple Recommend is a good start but there is more to it. My father gave a talk when I was a teenager that I have never forgotten one part of and it comes right from section 76, those who inherit the Celestial Kingdom are those who are "valiant" in their testimony of Jesus, plain and simple, no if, ands or buts, no middle of the road. I believe in mercy and I believe Our Father in Heaven and our Savior do and will extend mercy but I think to many rely solely on that and not on trying to be valiant.
Rochelle HaleJuly 10, 2021
Bro. Kramer, By any chance do you have relatives or ancestors by the names of Marcus Kramer, Henrietta (Marks) Kramer, Joseph Kramer, or Cecile Kramer from NY and possibly Chicago?
Erik HansenJuly 10, 2021
People wonder by saying, "should I love myself first or my fellow man?" If one is full of love they are one with the Father and they are then one with the Son. If you are one with them you are full of love for yourself and your fellow man. I don't think you can't separate these things or split real Christlike love (which is what we must have) to pieces.
BarbaraJuly 9, 2021
How quick you are to dismiss our responsibilities to our brothers and sisters in North Korea. Attach the word "benighted" to their country and we no longer bear responsibility toward them. Isn't labeling always the way we refuse to accept our responsibilities? Have you considered dubbing the film Witnesses in Korean, posting it on the internet and seeing how far it will travel?
Maryann TaylorJuly 9, 2021
One of the most important ways we can strengthen our nation is to get involved in the schools. In the midst of false ideas our children are being indoctrinated with in our schools, a friend of mine is running for a place on the school board. As members of the church our influence MUST be felt.
PaulineJuly 9, 2021
Love this! Great idea which I’m putting to use right now! Thanks Joni
Haze KompelienJuly 9, 2021
"Last, I want you to try an experiment...find a private bathroom with a mirror. Look at your reflection, see the real you inside, and ask, “How can I help?”" I love this part. So many of us love others and dislike ourselves. So many of us forgive others with mercy and continue to judge ourselves harshly. Self-acceptance and self-love is not the same as selfishness or being self-centered. It is necessary for happiness and fulfillment. Thank you.
Paul MouritsenJuly 8, 2021
One way to preach the gospel to remote peoples is through family history. For example, Familysearch is sending teams of interviewers into remote African villages and interviewing tribal leaders to capture extensive oral genealogies and meke them available on line and in print. Perhaps the spirit of Elijah will stir the hearts of these people and their descendants to join the church and seek the blessings of the temple. Here is a really inspiring presentation from the recent RootsTech Connect conference: https://www.familysearch.org/rootstech/rtc2021/session/voices-from-africa-familysearch-oral-genealogy
Toni VanWormerJuly 8, 2021
Your 4 magic words have really opened doors for me as the Just Serve community volunteer. When I say it to any non-profit organization they can't believe their ears! They are all overwhelmed and need all kinds of help so when someone says those magic words they can't believe thier ears. I loved your article. It was perfectly said. I really liked the application to prayer too. Hugs, from Evansville IN
CDJuly 8, 2021
This is such great advice! Thanks Joni, I love your insights and articles!
Mark DonaldsonJuly 8, 2021
We are taught in the scriptures that God knows all things past, present, and future. This means that he has a crystal clear vision of what the future holds for every person that comes to earth. This being true, then it is pre-supposed that even before we are born into mortality, God already knows when we will die. It is my belief that children who die before becoming accountable are exalted...because God knew in the pre-earth life that the child had already reached a level of perfection in the spirit world that qualified that child for the Celestial Kingdom. The age that child would die was known by God before the child was born. Some will argue and say that it's not fair that a child who dies before becoming accountable is exalted while the rest of us have to be tested by living long lives. I have even heard it said that little children who die before becoming accountable will have to be tested at a later date. That's all hogwash! God knew when each of us would die. There is never a child that dies before becoming accountable that didn't already prove themselves worthy of the Celestial Kingdom in the pre-earth life. With God's foreknowledge every child is born exactly into the right place at the right time. If the child dies before the age of accountability you can rest assured that God already knew the day and the time.
Mark J. StoddardJuly 8, 2021
Accurate history. Well written and definitely factual. Add to that, at the debate before July 4, 1776, the northern states were thrilled with Jefferson's language condemning King George for the slave trade. Interesting denunciation in that they profited from the slave trade with their ships in the infamous triangle. But rather than this condemning them, it should inspire everyone that these were men of principle willing to sacrifice the shilling for the abolition of slavery. The only reason that denunciation of King George's slave trade was taken out is that was the price of the slave states in the south agreeing to participate in the rebellion and sign on to the Declaration of Independence. Ben Franklin started the first abolition society and John Adams was a fiery opponent of slavery. It was a bitter pill to swallow but they figured it was best to create the First nation in the world that would then freely, by the voice of the people, abolish slavery. And, as this article so expertly shows, they did just that. One other point. Russian Tsar Alexander II was anxious to abolish slavery in Russia (called serfdom or being a serf -- a gentler word than slave). He was inspired by the American Revolution of 1776 and used that to abolish serfdom in 1861, freeing more than 23 million people. (Those white serfs would have found the notion of "white privilege" bizarre. Slavery and repression of any sort is evil.) It should also be noted that the first European slave traders were the beneficiaries of the existing slave trade among African tribes. Wrong is wrong no matter where. For thousands of years across the world people have been enslaved by each other regardless of race. America has blessed the world a 1,000 times over and a 1,000 times more than any damage it has done -- real or imagined.
Jim WinebrennerJuly 8, 2021
Thank you!! Finally, an article that tells the truth of the matter, instead of pandering to those suffering the confusions and delusions of the CRT scheme toward communism. We need more people with, and more articles encouraging this understanding of truth.
JaneJuly 7, 2021
This article was very informative! I would like to add that I was literally panicked to have my children AFTER age 35 because of all the “statistics” that show decline in fertility and rise in birth defects after age 35. I think the emphasis on these “statistics” is another unspoken factor for women having fewer babies. My mother had 3 healthy babies after age 37 and her mother had a healthy baby at age 47! I would have liked to have other children but I was too scared by the “after age 35” statistics. If you look back in history women commonly bore children from age 20-45; resulting in large families. If couples could only realize what a joy parenting really is in the long run, I believe many couples would be willing to have more children due to the deep satisfaction and meaning they bring to life in all the stages!
Maryann TaylorJuly 7, 2021
This beautiful article really touched my heart and and makes me want to reflect the light of the Savior in my life. One day years ago Elder Dallin Oaks visited my ward and I had the opportunity to speak with him briefly as he came up the aisle. After he had passed by, I felt I had spoken to the Savior. We all truly can reflect the love and light of Jesus Christ to others as we seek to have the Holy Ghost with us and also to keep love in our hearts.
Helen CondonJuly 7, 2021
At last! A glimpse of possibility into my own, largely self-thwarted, dreams of being “called to serve”.
Doug WhitingJuly 7, 2021
I respectfully disagree that we have a duty to preach the Gospel in areas where that would be a violation of the law. For example, I understand that Church members in several Muslim countries place their membership at risk if they violate the law by attempting to share the message with their friends -- even if their friends are not Muslims. In the long run, our requirement to abide by the law will be more likely to allow for us to begin to send in missionaries after the course of time, as we have already experienced in a number of countries.
craigJuly 6, 2021
I'm skeptical of the claim that women are having fewer children than they would like. This is because actions speak louder than words. If they wanted more children, really wanted them, they would have them. No one is stopping them. I feel like the data in such studies is much like the data in religious surveys when a person answers that they attend church at least once a month when, in fact, they only attend twice a year. Perhaps they feel guilty in not having more children and say they want more even if they have no intention of having them. Much like the person who lies about church attendance does so out of feeling guilty that they are not there on Sunday, even if they have no intention of going. I honestly don't see this as much of a problem. I believe that this is a natural self correction. The decline will plateau and human society will adjust.
RebeccaJuly 6, 2021
This beautiful sister exudes goodness in the "before" pictures as well as the "after". It's sad, even tragic, that she felt she was "polluted" and unfit for the Spirit when she was heavy. As many of us know who carry this particular "thorn in the flesh", keeping weight off is much more difficult than losing it. I hope that if she gains weight or doesn't follow her eating plan with perfection, she knows she is still beloved and precious. Although caring for our mortal tabernacles is good, I believe it is an earthly doctrine that encourages us to feel unworthy unless we meet a certain standard. Surely there are many, many worse acts than eating cheeseburgers.
Stephanie BillingsleyJuly 6, 2021
Yep! Well said. It would be wonderful if everyone felt the same PEACE, HOPE, and JOY some of us find in our SAVIOR and REDEEMER, JESUS the CHRIST. I have long been blessed with this and never doubt that I will inherit Celestial glory, because I am confident in His ability to take me HOME. So excited! The testimony of Jesus - both ours of Him and HIS of US will be of utmost importance. We all - in and out of The Church - need more of this teaching. We need to be more excited about JESUS and His role in His work! Thank you.
ColinJuly 6, 2021
I appreciate the sentiments, and I love my country too. But hope mixed with facing reality is always a good combination. Saying there are systemic problems—which there clearly are—is not slam on the Constitution, which is inspired by God and a model for the whole world. The Constitution isn't the only system at work in our country. And as we've seen in the past year, the Constitution itself is not all-powerful. It depends on the integrity of the people who have sworn to defend it, in state governments as well as federal. I keep hoping that when the Constitution is hanging by a thread, members of the Church will be protecting it instead of swinging at it with scimitars.
Steve DoneganJuly 6, 2021
While in the US Army I attended a class taught by an Army chaplain. When I walked in I saw he’d written on the board: KISS OFF. He explained it stood for: Keep It Simple Silly Or Face Frustration. When I or others around me get bogged down in doctrine or culture, I remember that chaplain and the simplifying message on the board.
David and CarolineJuly 6, 2021
Just bought it! It’d better be good ;)
LexaGraemeJuly 6, 2021
Clarification. The “Constitutional Convention” met in 1787. The Constitution was ratified by enough states to make it the law of the land in 1789.
ANJuly 6, 2021
What is your role in the future of USA, and your answer is to be the cheer squad. Had the insurection succeeded in January, America would no longer be a democracy, and most of the readers here voted for trump knowing he would not accept the result unless he won.Do you accept responsibility? I would think part of your role would be to acknowledge that was wrong and make sure that never happens again.
J. Britt FranklinJuly 5, 2021
Wonderful story! Amazing family. Hope we will hear ongoing mission reports. Love and best wishes to the family.
JD BasileJuly 5, 2021
Such an inspiring story! Hard work pays off!! Congrats Janice!
PjalJuly 5, 2021
Her feelings are mostly due to her husband’s insensitivity by his still present admiration of his ex-wife. I am not a jealous person, but I would think much less of my husband because of his callousness.
Tammy TaylorJuly 4, 2021
Thank you for a rational article about this topic. I also agree with many of the previous comments. Talking about race seems to be the wrong place to focus our attention. Let’s move on. Let’s work together to improve life for everyone in this country. I agree that the continued poverty for many blacks is concerning, but There are also many who seem to have broken this cycle. I feel that the biggest factor in the poverty cycle is the terrible education systems in inner city districts. This is more of a political problem than race as one party has run those cities for years. There must be change in the policies of elected officials and there must be choice through vouchers and charter schools available for these families. Competition is the quickest way to make change in these horrible schools. I like he idea of enterprise zones in inner cities to help with the economies and employment for those who live in those areas. There are many ways to begin to help those who are stuck in these areas. Shouting, and shaming and trying to throw out our country’s history and traditions is not going to get us there. Respect and love for everyone are the answers
Corey DinsdaleJuly 4, 2021
Everybody should read the following books, 'Sex Scandal: The Drive to Abolish Male and Female' and 'The Economic Theory of Sex: Industrialism, Feminism and the Disintegration of the Family'. We need to be informed and understand the basis and foundation of what's being taught in order to fight it and counter it.
Linda ChristieJuly 3, 2021
Congratulations to a former Sooner from Norman, OK! I knew you and your family as you were growing up. Who knew you would turn out some really poignant and beautiful music about the Prophet Joseph, Emma, and the Savior. The rest of us LDS Sooners are really proud of you! Keep the faith, and keep sharing the truth! God bless you and your group! (And say hello to your mom and dad! I know they are proud of you!)
ChuckJuly 3, 2021
To answer the question in this articles' title, absolutely yes---but that doesn't mean you must be best buddies with someone who betrayed you. Our Savior commanded us to forgive everyone, but that principle is for us, not the other person; it's so WE can become a better person in a miserable situation. The other person is the responsibility of our Lord, not us.
LynnJuly 3, 2021
Bravo! Thank you for such a positive and uplifting essay!
Maryann TaylorJuly 2, 2021
Kenny's comments reflect the feelings of so many of us, probably millions. He asks some valuable questions at the end of his comment which deserve our consideration. I would add that as long as people keep pointing the finger and accusing people of racism simply because they are white, racism will remain alive.
Maryann TaylorJuly 2, 2021
I don't think the REAL issue here is about over-rating beauty or being jealous of the first wife. This woman is suffering because she is starving for physical affection from her husband, and also a real need for his verbal feedback that she is desirable and beautiful to him. The fact that her husband refers to his first wife's beauty "with a twinkle in his eye" would be a dagger to any wife's heart! If this woman felt truly loved by her husband, I think the conflict would be resolved. I see a lot of pain here, and hope this couple gets some good counselling because they need help to communicate their needs and suffering so that they can help one another.
SarahJuly 2, 2021
The twinkle in the eye... That's the problem. Get rid of that, and you will feel closer to him. Not sure how!?!
Vivian M AdamsJuly 2, 2021
Thank you for this important and inspired article. Thank you for the beauty of your heart and soul.
Robert D StarlingJuly 2, 2021
Thank you, Sister Linford, for this stirring reminder of what the 4th of July celebrates. I read it with tears in my eyes. Perhaps we have to spend some time in other countries to really appreciate what it means to live underneath the Stars and Stripes. I'm from Georgia, and some of my ancestors fought against the Union at places like Gettysburg and Bull Run. They believed (rightly or wrongly) that they were fighting for the states' rights guaranteed in the Constitution. Thankfully the Union was preserved, and America has flourished. Some of Lincoln's words at Gettysburg still challenge us to determine if "that nation, or any nation so conceived and so dedicated, can long endure." We know that these latter days are "perilous times" and that there is much we must endure before the Savior returns. Hopefully we can stand for righteousness until He comes. God bless the USA!
Erik HansenJuly 2, 2021
According to the Book of Mormon, time and time again through it's pages, secret combinations in their greatest power and degree fight to destroy liberty. In this country the secret combinations are hitting the Constitution and the people at every level. They change the minds of the people over generations. Ultimately the only cure is and has been the preaching and adherence of Jesus Christ's principles. They are not received well in this Country even among "Christians". Only those principles will protect the liberty of the people.
Nancy AbbottJuly 2, 2021
This is a wonderful article. I totally agree with your sentiments. I love our nation..... warts and all! I’m so grateful that we , through revelation, know the final chapter for our nation. Much darkness will come, but then the glorious light of the millennial day! God bless America!
rydamyJuly 2, 2021
t is important for her husband to also seek medical evaluation of his health. Not only is sexual dysfunction a possible indicator of other significant health problems, but it can often be treated and improved. In addition there are adaptive ways be close, and these can help him meaningfully show care and affection for her. Just suggesting.
rydamyJuly 2, 2021
It is important for her husband to also seek medical evaluation of his health. Not only is sexual dysfunction a possible indicator of other significant health problems, but it can often be treated and improved. In addition there are adaptive ways be close, and these can help him meaningfully show care and affection for her. Just suggesting.
Mark DonaldsonJuly 2, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful reminder! God Bless America!
BeraJuly 2, 2021
Very inspiring article. Thank you for sharing this with us.
David ShafferJuly 2, 2021
Amen! And, thank you.
Taylor StonelyJuly 2, 2021
What a stirring reminder of the fragility of our freedom! Your story about your daughter standing and reciting the Star Spangled Banner brought tears to my eyes! Thank you for sharing!
BrianJuly 1, 2021
Is there a particular reason this article seems to presuppose that the betrayer is a man?
James ScottJuly 1, 2021
I’ve always taken interest in the Lord’s Prayer where in Matthew 6:9 the Lord uses the locational plea: WHICH, while in 3 Nephi 13:9 the Lord uses the personal WHO. Does this change mean He felt the Nephites were closer than the Jews or maybe Matthew’s translators erred in their work. I like the personal Who as I feel closer to the Lord in that use and that I’m actual conversing with The Father.
Larry HuntJuly 1, 2021
The Nashville tribute band. One of my favorite bands of all time!
Carol AnnJuly 1, 2021
What a cool "behind the scenes look" at this media production team for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I will watch General Conference with new appreciation from now on because of the dedication of these very special and inspired people. Thanks for sharing!
Barbara BrewerJuly 1, 2021
This article must have been written especially for me!
James scottJune 30, 2021
It’s really easy to stop investigation when we find info that buttresses our own opinions.
Maryann TaylorJune 30, 2021
Is anyone else out there sick to death of this subject???? Seems to me the more we talk about it, the worse it gets. How about if we just start from today--the present, right NOW. Be kind and get on with it.
Maryann TaylorJune 30, 2021
This is Satan's very transparent attempt to normalize and to promote sin. It is a weapon he has wielded from his deadly arsenal since time began--the deceptive belief that: "Everyone is doing it." One of the ways Satan promotes sin is to keep our focus on it as much as possible. He also tries to make us believe that we are being "compassionate" when we accept sin. We are being saturated with references to homosexual behavior in books, television programs, radio, magazines, and in the news more and more frequently. Even some Latter-day Saints are preoccupied with the subject. It is WAY past time to change our focus.
LexaGraemeJune 30, 2021
That sounds about right. Poor Sally.
James HarveyJune 30, 2021
Chinese in Mexico were expelled, Crimean Tatars were expropriated by Stalin, Roma people are hated throughout Europe, and xenophobia pervades in South Africa. Even MLK Jr's inspiration Walter Rauschenbusch despised Eastern European immigrants as reducing good "Teutonic stock" in America. Racism cannot be reduced to a question of ideology, but how political power is exercised, and that is missing from the analysis,
Marti ScottJune 30, 2021
I didn't get an e-mail about the Jordan River Temple reopening.
Kara A DunkelJune 30, 2021
Thoroughly enjoy your insights ❤️
Debra MackJune 29, 2021
What a great nugget of wisdom. Thank you Bro Marsh
Aeryn S.June 29, 2021
While I appreciate the authors' attempt to be fair and balanced, the fact remains that CRT is a poisonous ideology that even many blacks and other minorities find abhorrent (for instance, the Chinese American Citizens Alliance Greater New York who recently did a press release denouncing CRT as racist, J. Kenneth Blackwell (former mayor of Cincinnati) who condemned CRT in his essay: Critical Race Theory Cynically Undermines Racial Harmony; Jon McWhorter (who says, “You are not a racist to criticize CRT,” and who is a vocal opponent of CRT being taught in school); Shelby Steele (who says, “. . . Critical Race Theory . . . has no other meaning than . . . to once again accuse whites of racism.”); and many other minorities who have spoken vocally against CRT). Every American should read Dr. Carol Swain’s essay at 1776 Unites titled Critical Race Theory’s Toxic, Destructive Impact on America. Yes, we should be able to have thoughtful, civil discussions about race and our history, and explore positive ways to elevate all of God’s children. But it can’t be done through CRT. Ironical, many of our black brothers and sisters are silenced if they speak out against CRT. If we truly want to start positive dialogues, I suggest becoming more aware of conservative and libertarian black thinkers, activists, speakers, and writers, including the wonderful Walter E. Williams, whom we recently lost, Thomas Sowell, Shelby Steele, Jon McWhorter, and Carol Swain, among others.
Cameron DyckJune 29, 2021
Personally I wold think that the 3 most important relationships are: self, family, and God. It is impossible to have a positive relationship with spouse/children/family and God without having a positive relationship with your self.
Marie CrollJune 29, 2021
I, too, would love to have this concert available on line. I hope you will make it possible.
Ed GayhartJune 28, 2021
No, we really don’t need to talk about race. CRT was hatched to divide and conquer. Are there bad people? Sure are - of all colors. Are people hated and mistreated. Have been throughout history. CRT wants to put everyone in their proper box and then teach them to resent each other - nothing more. We are individual children of Heavenly Parents - not a color.
Debi-Ann Ward CaseJune 28, 2021
Kenny Mazzanti brings up valid points. I have often wondered if black people in our country are even aware that they are not the only ones who suffered the debilitating effects of slavery. The Jews were slaves to the Egyptian pharaohs for approximately two hundred years. They were slaves/captives in Babylonia for about seventy years, and then they were under brutal Roman rule. This is in addition to the various slaveries mentioned by Mr. Mazzanti.
Sasha KwapinskiJune 28, 2021
People of different minorities and constituencies have a legitimate need to "see themselves" represented in our nation's history. As the article points out. this can be done without disregarding and discounting the overall main themes and trends. Members of the LDS community (one a many religious "minorities" in the US) see themselves represented in this manner when we learn about (for example) the Mormon Battalion, the voyage of the Brooklyn, or the early LDS settlement of San Bernardino.
ShaunaJune 28, 2021
cogent, thought provoking and insightful. Thank you for a measured and helpful analysis. well done and wonderfully even handed
EveJune 28, 2021
Very thought provoking. Thank you!
Michael EdwardsJune 28, 2021
the truth is out ther. fox mulder
Haze KompelienJune 28, 2021
I'm a 69 yr old White woman who, in her youth, didn't think she was racist at all. Gradually, over the years, I have been lovingly educated by dear Black friends on many aspects of their day-to-day lives that I was completely ignorant about. Simple things like little girls wishing for a doll that looked like them to complex things like having to give "The Talk" to your Black children about how to act in public to keep yourself safe. I am learning. I must also highly recommend the article the author provided a link to called "Being Black in America is Exhausting". Please do read it and your eyes will be opened to how different the lives of our Black sisters and brothers can be. https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2021/04/17/being-black-america-is-exhausting/
Susan NielsonJune 28, 2021
I’m so relieved to read a rational, thoughtful discussion about race, after so many months of shouting, shaming and hatred. I realize that I have much to learn but it has been so difficult to know where to turn for calm, reasoned knowledge. I truly want to know what I should do, and what I can do to show love to all around me. Thank you for your instructions; they are so much appreciated.
Kenny MazzantiJune 28, 2021
Let us also remember that the enslavement of African peoples was done in great degree by their own people who sold them off to Muslim slave traders. Slavery was not unique to the American colonies, but was a worldwide occurrence. When Spanish and Portuguese explorers conquered aboriginal people on the north and south American continents, they enslaved them by the thousands, and the Catholic Church forced "Christianity" upon them as slaves building their missions. The Spanish settlers enslaved native Americans, native Americans enslaved the Spanish, the Mexicans and each other. Native Americas commonly enslaved women and children when warring with other bands. At the time of the Civil War, there were more non-African slaves in north America than there were African slaves in the United States. So, why is it that your focus is exclusively on African slaves when many more people of various ethnicities were victimized by slavery? What makes you so special that we all need to dredge up the horrors of the past? Why is it that we cannot focus on a future without division? Why is it that we cannot see a future simply as God's children one and all?
Carolyn MadsonJune 27, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful essay of photographs Scott. It is especially touching today, being June 27th. These photos bring back wonderful memories of feeling the Spirit there at Carthage with you and Maurine several years ago during the last day of our Church History Tour with you. You continue to inspire! .Carolyn and Scott Madson
Lorraine DayJune 27, 2021
Fabulous! You’ve straitened a confused subject for me. FAITH is a huge word for me and you have broken it down to a simple understanding. Thank you!!! I would love my own personal copy of your words.
MikeJune 27, 2021
The next big false flag hoax could easily be an alien invasion. We have proven to be easily duped and it's another great excuse to confine us to our houses, destroy the economy, and take away our liberty.
PaeaJune 27, 2021
Great conversion story....thank you for sharing it!!!
Doris WilliamsJune 27, 2021
Oh, thank you Scot for putting this up again...it's a blessed reminder, coloring our study in Come Follow Me and the D&C. You have done so many inspiring photo essays....especially about Nauvoo. They are a blessing to all of us. Thank you so much.
Diane KriloffJune 27, 2021
What a powerful presentation! Thank you Elder Johnson for sharing your story. It was remarkably inspiring!
Joshua HarmonJune 26, 2021
Thanks for this article! As Latter-Day Saints, in addition to possessing canonized scripture affirming the existence of children of God begotten on worlds without number, our faith was built on the testimonies of credible witnesses of “marvelous” experiences that transcend our current scientific knowledge. We should stay humble and open about experiences with which we may not have first-hand knowledge, which are nevertheless true for those who experienced them. Articles of Faith 9 and 13 celebrate a hope for new and true light and knowledge. I’m excited to belong to a faith that isn't afraid to admit we don’t know everything about the universe. I'd love to see more articles on this topic from a Latter-Day perspective.
Maryann TaylorJune 26, 2021
Yes, it is true that there is very little revealed about our Heavenly Mother. Maybe that should tell us something.
Maryann TaylorJune 26, 2021
If there are people from other planets close enough for us to encounter pictures of them in space, why aren't they coming for a visit? Isn't that the first thing we would do if we found a planet with people like ourselves? Because of all the false "sightings," I am hesitant to take this very seriously. I am a lot more interested in improving life right here on earth.
Maryann TaylorJune 26, 2021
If our wayward children are adults who received a genuine testimony by the power of the Holy Ghost, how can "being deceived" be an excuse? The scriptures repeatedly teach us how to avoid deception. We also cannot claim being offended as an excuse for falling away. No one leaves the church because they were offended. They leave because they have not built a strong testimony of Jesus Christ. The power of a strong testimony overcomes any offense. I continue to have great hopes, prayers, and tears for those who have wandered away from the path. However, the answer to that problem is most often repentance. The Doctrine & Covenants speaks of those who will inherit the Terrestrial Kingdom as those "who were blinded by the craftiness of men" (D&C 76:75). We all experience good and evil influences every day. We all have the light of Christ. We are here to learn to choose the light. Only the Lord can judge each of us, but let's not make the mistake of accepting any doctrine that replaces genuine repentance with the excuse of "being deceived."
BarbaraJune 26, 2021
How exciting! I was driving into town one evening when I looked up and thought I saw an airplane (I was close to our local airport) when it suddenly took off faster than a shooting star and disappeared. I was and still am a UFO believer and figure why not....as you pointed out "worlds without number".
BenJune 26, 2021
Thank you for publishing this well-written piece about this phenomenon. To me, it's a head scratcher that other LDS-centric publications don't seem to have an interest in the topic of UAPs and how it fits into a theological discussion. This need not be a paradigm-shattering topic to discuss.
BriaJune 26, 2021
“If men do not comprehend the character of God, they do not comprehend themselves..." If the veil were rent today, and the great God who holds the world in its orbit, and who upholds all worlds and all things by His power, was to make Himself visible, - I say, if you were to see Him today, you would see Him like a man in form - like yourself in all the person, image, and very form as a man.” ― Joseph Smith So let me get this straight woman dont matter much in the LDS church? According to the Prophet who restored the gospel to the earth he said to “If men do not comprehend the character of God, they do not comprehend themselves..." I believe Heavenly Mother should not be ignored but embraced, I know it would break my heart if my children ignored my existence.
MaryaJune 25, 2021
I'm always impressed by the thoughtfulness and wisdom in Geoff's responses. I'm glad this boy has a loving, non judgmental mother that recognizes a bishop wouldn't know what to do in this matter. It sounds like the dad won't be much help.
Gerald G. FullerJune 25, 2021
I don't understand how his attraction to those characters became identified as sexual attraction. Did I miss something?
TJJune 25, 2021
Dried or freeze dried food might be the only food storage that works for us. I am single and live in an apartment. I have no place to garden and found I would not eat canned vegetables except corn and green beans. So, instead of pretending I was going to eat that can of carrots or spinach, I purchased some freeze dried vegetables that I can add to my canned soups in the event of a prolonged emergency. But for health, I use frozen or fresh vegetables for my regular vegetable consumption. That way I am covered but do not waste money on canned goods I found I would not eat, no matter what.
GinaJune 25, 2021
As someone who was once this angry wife, may I tell you what I did one time when the anger I felt toward the other woman and toward the way my husband's mother was treating me overcame me. I thought of the people they cared about most. I contacted his children and told them the truth about their mother. Not something I am proud of, but something that can happen to you. You must remove yourself and your marriage to another place. Get off social media. Forever, because the anger can last decades. And anyone can go on to your Facebook page and post the details for all to read. I know because I did. This is anger that may not die for decades.
Theodore BrandleyJune 25, 2021
Hello Warren, It is true that God has created “worlds without number (Moses 1:23), and the inhabitants thereof are begotten sons and daughters unto God (D&C 76:24). However, “there are no angels who minister to this earth but those who do belong or have belonged to it.” (D&C 130:5) Therefore, assuming the craft are real technology designed and controlled by intelligent beings, they are most likely translated beings of the cities of Enoch and Melchizedek. It was a “chariot of fire” that was observed in the translation of Elijah into heaven (2 Kings 2:11).
HalJune 25, 2021
Interesting article until it mentioned that former Senator Harry Reid was trying to get information released. Mr. Reid has zero credibility in my book. He deliberately lied in the 2012 election cycle when he claimed Mitt Romney had not paid any income taxes for the prior decade. Mr. Reid was challenged on this claim when Mr. Romney released his tax records showing that he had, indeed, paid his taxes. When pressed about continuing to defend a statement that is not true (after the election), Reid responded, "Romney didn't win, did he?"
RaLee HallJune 25, 2021
Thank you for your story. It was beautiful.
Gayle WalkerJune 25, 2021
Thank you so very much for these beautiful pictures and information of these brethren's last days. Words cannot express my feelings for Joseph and Hyrum. I know they were and are God's prophets, seers and revelators for the Final Dispensation of Times.. I appreciate your love for them and learned much from your piece.
Mary WilsonJune 25, 2021
I love this cartoon. I love Donny Osmond. Can I still buy a copy of the magazine?
Ronald BarnesJune 25, 2021
I live under a flight path and have seen all kinds of aircraft at different altitudes. I have seen UFOs on two occasions. The second time I was with others. To us they appeared to be a precession of small, red lights that seemed to appear, travel a distance, and then to disappear. The first time I was alone. I saw what appeared to be a large craft no more than a few hundred feet in the air. There were four long, horizonal lights on its side. It was banking to the right and I did not see wings or a tail. It was moving much slower than an airplane, darker than the night sky and totally silent. I believe that earthly governments have technologies far more advanced that the populace realizes. It could be that these crafts are scouts sent by the Ten Tribes or the City of Enoch. I actually have more radical ideas than those. Of course, I don’t know and can only speculate.
ShaunaJune 25, 2021
I would just add that agency is paramount. Sometimes I think we teach that wayward children will return no matter what. How can that be? I do not doubt the Savior's ability, mission, and purpose to "save," but surely we cannot be "saved" against our will. Clearly there are things we don't yet understand, and I appreciate adding in premortal choices, but we are also told that even though we can repent in the next life, that it is easier to do so now--in the body; "that this life is the time to prepare to meet God," and that the personality traits, characteristics, desires, habits, priorities etc., that we have developed in this life, will be with us on the other side. The prophet Amulek taught, “That same spirit which doth possess your bodies at the time that ye go out of this life, that same spirit will have power to possess your body in that eternal world” (Alma 34:34). As a result, when persons leave this life and go on to the next, “they who are righteous shall be righteous still” (2 Ne. 9:16), and “whatever principle of intelligence we attain unto in this life … will rise with us in the resurrection” (D&C 130:18). I know that the Lord is the perfect judge and that we will all agree that his judgments are just. But agency must be accounted for
LexaGraemeJune 24, 2021
Yyyessss!
Laurel Lee PedersenJune 24, 2021
I love the way our missionaries are learning to teach the gospel. We live in the Willamette Valley of Oregon and most of the people our missionaries are teaching are coming from social media. They are doing service activities in the community and helping with ward activities, etc., as well. It's a joy to have evening devotionals with them, as well as prepare food for them several days a week. Thanks again, Diana, for these beautiful insights to these D&C sections.
WendyJune 24, 2021
I have enjoyed reading your articles on our parental God,. Was wondering how the polygamy paradigm fits into this.
LaurieJune 24, 2021
I found this article so helpful. Thank you. Rethinking is always spoke of, but you gave great examples snd, the bottom line is, we know we, n and of ourselves fo not have al the answers; that’s wher effort is appreciated to listen, ponder, pray snd exercise faith by action! Sincere thanks.
Carlos RoundyJune 24, 2021
If Christ and his atonement happened , than everything in existence has meaning, on the other hand, if Christ and the atonement did not happen, then everything will just be ashes. Thanks for the wonderful article.
Michael SheaJune 24, 2021
Thank you. I suppose it can reasonably be said that the ignorant have no difficulty justifying themselves to the ignorant.
Rodney L RiversJune 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing this thoroughly enjoyable and enlightening article. I will peruse the other mentioned articles on the subject of evidences on the authenticity of biblical characters.
JarediteStoresJune 24, 2021
Will these books eventually be sold at Deseret Bookstore? And, available on Bookshelf Plus?
Harold RustJune 24, 2021
As always, thanks for an inspiring insight. Your article let me to reflect on a related perspective. The more I study this parallel relationship, the closer I come to getting a feel of why prophets and recipients of heavenly insight simply cannot convey the full message of that visit to the spiritual realm. Just as a child could become enthralled with a graphic design made by using imaginary numbers and yet be limited in describing just how the math works to others, so too are prophets limited in conveying the full dimension of what they have been shown.They can use earthly examples to help us obtain some insight and guidance, but only as we become familiar with the spiritual dimension will we begin to "see the light" ....and gain the wherewithal to apply imaginary numbers to create our own graphic designs.
AnnaJune 23, 2021
As I struggle emotionally with the loss of two adult children within five months, it has been too easy to languish in sadness and self-doubt. Thank you for helping me today as i try to re-frame my feelings and memories.
Joseph L.June 23, 2021
You make some wonderful points in this article. Thank you so much. I have chose a different path for my food storage. We rotate a 3 month supply pantry and have an additional 9 months of dehydrated beans/grains and some freeze dried meals. You mention that this is not wise, because where will the water come from? If I have water to drink, then I have water to cook with. If I have no water to drink, then I won't live long. I think an important aspect of being prepared is knowing how to procure and make water safe to use. I don't think having beans, rice and other dehyrdated and freeze dried meals is a bad thing. For some of us, it makes food storage easier.
HallJune 23, 2021
Loved this story! Goes to show you should listen to the whole story before forming an opinion that will make you look foolish.
Haze KompelienJune 23, 2021
Looking forward to column #9. Hope it will be out soon. Very interesting series.
CarolJune 23, 2021
Please don't ever stop writing your column - you make my day!!!
JKJune 23, 2021
Thank you for this timely article. I agree that food storage needs to be well rounded. It is something I've struggled with for years, but after living in the mid-west for three decades I now live in an area that not a year goes by when a major disaster hits of some kind. Food storage is essential in those times. Now that Northern Utah finally recognizes they can indeed be struck by a large earthquake at anytime, I hope they are taking food prep more seriously. People keep thinking they need food storage for natural disasters, but unemployment is a huge problem right now and having food on hand is huge to get you through.
Angie MannJune 23, 2021
I can’t love this enough. It’s such a peaceful feeling when you realize you’ve just read the answer to a prayer you’ve had. Thank you.
Mary JaneJune 22, 2021
Thank you so much...I needed to read this and hear this counsel today. It is so easy for us to feel burdened by our challenges in every day life. These are great reminders to keep the faith and move forward, remembering the Lord is always with us, loves us and will consecrate our afflictions for our gain....
Steve DoneganJune 22, 2021
Thank you for plain speech about a difficult and complicated topic.
Cary HolmquistJune 22, 2021
Really branching out there, kiddo.
P. WintersJune 22, 2021
This is an enlightening article. I can use many things that were mentioned. However, in number four, the word "from" is used twice. This makes the sentence lose its meaning.
Neil CJune 22, 2021
Labelling a person without seeking to understand the core problem is guaranteed to prevent forgiveness, healing and even strengthening the marriage which can happen when the core problem is understood and addressed. The Saviour message of hope to the adulteress makes clear that even adultery can be fully recovered from. The adultress wasn't immediately forgiven as she needed to take part in the process of repentance. To "go and sin no more" was the start. Those who participate in an act of betrayal are able to fully repent and gain forgiveness of self and by the affected wife/husband. Those who are affected by the betrayal can also be healed - provided the reasons for the betrayal are understood. Adam was commanded to "cleave unto Eve" i.e.: to sever any and every relationship, hobby, interest, work - anything that would prevent him from being completely united with Eve. Of course, we can have all of those things, so long as Eve remained the priority. Adultery can be added to that list. To not forgive places us in the same company as those seeking to stone the Adulteress. That in no way diminishes the anger, hurt and devastation that is experienced! When the core (non-sexual) basis of the betrayal is understood, it can be addressed. Affairs are often a crisis of identity, a desire for an alternate reality in which the 'betrayer' can reimagine and reinvent themselves. Unfulfilled expectations, unspoken resentments, and unmet longings, feeling important, feeling desired, all play a part. Affairs are not about the other person, they are about being a new you, an escape from being the person you have become or the situation you are in. It is not about leaving the person you are with (Abusive relationships excluded). Sex is usually the medium, but it is not what is being sought. The commandment to love others wasn't conditional. The very real feelings of being hurt, betrayed and devastated will take time to heal, but they can heal. Here again, the Saviour showed us the way to forgive, when he asked Heavenly Father to, "Forgive them for they no not what they do". In a similar way, those that commit adultery, don't fully realise what they are seeking as it is an emotional course of action.
Neil CJune 21, 2021
There are few topics more raw and devastating than infidelity. There is a clip on YouTube by Esther Perel that I would recommend viewing where infidelity is addressed, recognising and addressing the reasons for infidelity without excusing it. Most importantly, on how to heal from it and how a marriage can actually become stronger despite it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmiKAoAmYSg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2AUat93a8Q
Maryann TaylorJune 21, 2021
The author here is giving great advice. I would take it one step further--You may need to move. I know that is extreme, but it is probably very painful for your husband to still have these people in living in your area, and having the wife at your work is going to be a long term reminder of what happened.
LBJune 21, 2021
I'm the same way--going back to hiding in my basement during game six of the 1998 Finals as a twenty-something! I just get too emotionally involved and it's painful even though I tell myself every time--whether it's the Jazz or my Aggies (and even BYU)--this outcome doesn't matter in the eternal scheme of things, not one bit. But oh, how we love our sports teams and want for them to succeed! I've learned to adapt and even pivot as I've gotten older. Still emotionally attached caring about the outcome BUT instead of watching the games anymore (waiting until the final buzzer to check the score to put off that agitation), I spend those game nights doing something that matters more of an eternal nature: I focus on serving other people by indexing for FamilySearch. It's something I love just as much as (at times more than) I love the Jazz or Aggies but brings me more peace, joy and satisfaction, I think. :)
JoJune 21, 2021
Perhaps the impression you give is not accurate, but you sound rather selfish. I think you do owe it to this wronged woman to humbly put up with her anger toward you. You deserve it. She did not deserve what you did to her. Be flippant about it and all the women who know you will not trust you.
KateJune 20, 2021
Please, all of you commenters that are recycling the tired old saw that "Heavenly Mother is just too sacred to speak of", please just STOP. That is condescending and insulting, not just to our Heavenly Mother (who is a powerful God, co-equal with our Father in Heaven, and certainly plenty strong enough to withstand such nonsense), but also to women in general. We do not need to be protected; we are capable, intelligent beings. Kindly stop the Victorian practice of treating us like children. It does not reflect well on those who do so. Also, thank you, Br. Eyre, for such an insightful article! I very much appreciate your thoughtfulness on this important topic.
EJune 20, 2021
Beautiful article. Thank you for publishing this, it's a breath of fresh air.
Corey D.June 20, 2021
I have not seen the movie but will probably order it and share it with my family, in particular because one of my children and their spouse has stepped away from the church, the spouse has lots of struggles with lots of things, personal, family and church. Church wise this individual struggles with church history one of those being about blacks. My second comment, I came home from my mission in the spring of 1978 and went to work for a bricklayer/contractor, one of the brick layers was a man named Howard Kennedy who was black. On the day the church made public the announcement one of the guys came around to the side of the house where I and a couple others were working and excitedly said the church had just made the announcement that blacks could receive the priesthood at which point one of the other brick layers said "well that will make Howard's mom happy", I said " why is that" and he replied that Howard's mom was a member of the church. Many years later I went to visit an old neighbor who was in the hospital, as I entered the room there was his wife and an elderly black woman who was introduced to me as a Mrs. Kennedy, I said "nice to meet you" and then said I had worked with a Howard Kennedy some years before and did she know him. She said Howard was her son. I came to learn she was one of the first, maybe the first, don't remember all the details, but one of the first blacks to join the church in the Ogden/Northern Utah area. She has since passed away I believe but certainly her story/conversion should be part of the black history in the church.
Corey D.June 20, 2021
One Sunday in Priesthood meeting, pre-pandemic, the discussion was on the Proclamation on the Family, one of the brothers said, " when I first read that I thought to myself, this is common sense, doesn't everybody think this way" and then he said "hasn't that turned out to be prophetic". Sex, sexuality and everything that goes along with it is one area were Satan has done a masterful job of deceiving people. We are a society driven by technology and science and that technology provides instant and enormous amounts of information and opinion, too many, including members of the church get caught up in that and get persuaded by the information and opinions especially if there is PhD that follows the name. Too many view the church as a societal organization or a democratic institution where things are put to the vote and change based on the majority vote or society's acceptance or none acceptance of something. There are some truths that are eternal and unchanging.
MelbaJune 19, 2021
I loved the courage and decency of Jack Anderson. I never met him but admired his work. Also, my father had a personal story about him from an experience of seeing him in Ogden, Utah on leave from the military during World War II. You are lucky he was your father. A great and a good man.
KellieJune 19, 2021
I believe you are seriously underestimating the anger and hatred this woman has for you and rightfully so. Your behavior was disgraceful. You might consider some serious remorse and acknowledgement of the wrongfulness of your behavior and the long-lasting damage it has done to her life. This is something that may haunt the rest of your life. There will be other people whom she tells, or her husband does, or her sister or mother or best friend. Someday it will probably get back to your family, your friends, your children. The cost has just begun to be paid. I wish you the best, but have you considered moving across country where you can start afresh?
JowoJune 19, 2021
Jack Anderson was a household name when I was growing up. It’s nice to hear it mentioned again.
Q. Wayne ThorntonJune 19, 2021
I would just add a clear difference between sexual preference and one’s race: sexual proclivity is a choice and race is determined by DNA. Sure, a person may be born with same sex attraction just as one may be predisposed towards alcoholism. However, the person of color had/has no power to choose that component of their being. As with all impulses, we have our agency and are responsible for the choices we make.
Iesus SimbalJune 19, 2021
Just as men reject Charity so do they reject the true language, being without the Spirit of kindness, and unwilling to treat others by the same Law God has ordained. Men do not hear true Prophets, for they speak in a Language that adapts to the ear which hears it. Many will say, 'Lord, Lord', having no mercy for those they have stepped upon. Matthew 25 makes clear what will happen to these many.
MarciaJune 18, 2021
YOU started the problem, you need to end it. GET ANOTHER JOB! Seeing you on a daily basis will keep her from being able to deal with her husband. Seeing you will never stop being a daily constant reminder of his betrayal. no matter if you can't find another job or one as good a your current one... that is the price you pay for what you have done. GET ANOTHER JOB! You are torturing her with her having to see you on a daily basis. She did nothing wrong, YOU did...part of your restitution in your repentance process is to not make it worse for her even if it inconviences you. GET ANOTHER JOB! It's the least you can do to begin making amends so she can begin to heal. I cannot stress this enough! GET ANOTHER JOB! Show that you are really sorrowful for your terrible actions that is causing her world to have shattered! Take responsibility for what damage you have caused! GET ANOTHER JOB!
K. B. HardingJune 18, 2021
He a fascinating man and I was honored to have gotten to know him. I buy every copy of his book, "Peace, War, and Politics : An Eyewitness Account" whenever I find one on Ebay.
BonnieJune 18, 2021
I believe! I am raising my grandson and he once asked, "Why are there so many angels around the temple?' It was in Manti during the week of the pageant. As we talked about the angels and what they were doing, I asked him what he knew about angels. He said, "The ones dressed in white surround me when the ones dressed in black are near by." And before I could ask him any more about it, he ran off to play with the dog. Tears of gratitude and love still fill my eyes.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 18, 2021
There are many people in this world that can say that Jack Anderson was their friend, because, for sure he had may friends. Jack was my dear friend, and he was because I always knew that he loved me. I met him when I was living close to his home in Bethesda Maryland during the Nixon years; we were members of the Chevy Chase ward, and I being the younger, and the newcomer I needed friends in this new environment when with my family came to work in National Institutes of Health. On top of that, I was a foreigner, like many of my coworkers in NIH, and soon they, my coworkers found out that I was behaving differently like if I was already adapted sooner than them. What was the reason? Of course, the church and many of the people in the ward, but among them was Jack who always gave his unconditional friendship with a great deal of love. He always told me that I was very special, and I felt special due to this great loving man. We had many great discussions in the Presidential campaign with McGovern and Nixon, and he was very respectful, but at the same time gave the reasons the president must be surrounded by good people. About the Vietnam war, he told me that those young men fighting the draft to avoid to be in the war, although he was sympathetic with them, he said that for sure that they had all the right to fight against that, but that there were laws and tribunals and the Constitution, and he said that if he would be one of them, he would fight with all his strength in the legal ways, but that if at the end he would not win the legal battle, he would go to Vietnam. He helped many in many ways, and the way it put it when he told me that the family that was living in his farm he had in some place nearby, actually, they were helping him taking care of the place, when the real thing is that they did not have any other place to live. I love Jack and Olivia, they were wonderful people, mainly because they loved people. I will never forget them. I will see you soon my dearest Jack.
Marilyn GoodworthJune 18, 2021
Thank you. Now I know why I read his columns regularly and learned.
Sarah HinzeJune 18, 2021
Years ago I had the great privilege to talk to Jack Anderson concerning my books and my mission as a writer. He gave me invaluable advice that became the core of my mission statement. He was a great man who took time for someone like me who was a budding writer and a bit of a dreamer. Thank you so much Jack for your kindness and wise counsel!
Jim HarrisJune 18, 2021
Sister Hilton, thank you for your insights. I am fairly well versed in Church history and doctrine and usually am prepared to answer a question if needed. The challenge I sometimes encounter is the attitude of the questioner. If the question is asked in a condescending or snide way, I will not say anything because I wish to avoid contention (see 3 Nephi 11:28-30 and Doctrine and Covenants 10:63). The problem with doing nothing is that I leave other class members vulnerable who may have lingering doubts. A second issue with some questioners is that once you answer one question it opens a litany of subsequent questions, some which cannot be easily answered. I wish I could find a way for them to ponder on the one answer they were given and seek the confirmation of the Spirit. In a sense they are “Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth” (2 Timothy 3:7). For me, our goal is for each of us to become a better disciple of Jesus Christ. I want to do what I can to help myself and others to become better disciples of the Savior. One challenge for me is to find a better way to deal with those who ask questions in a less than pleasant way. As the Savior said, “And whosoever doth not bear his cross, and come after me, cannot be my disciple. Wherefore, settle this in your hearts, that ye will do the things which I shall teach, and command you” (JST 14:27-28). It is refreshing when the questioner is in a good spirit and the people providing assistance are all in the right spirit, and all "are edified and rejoice together" (doctrine and Covenants 50:21-22).
Daniel BakerJune 18, 2021
What a pleasant reflection. Way back before I became aware that there is more to religious significance than simple "being saved", I enjoyed his reasoned writing. Way back before good balanced discussion was destroyed by writing of simple divisive statements in memes. I cannot remember a single writing of his, I only remember that they were very reasoned and made me think through issues; whatever position he had, the reason was clear. Interesting that he could elaborate on both sides of an issue. We need more like that again. He joined the likes of Jim French and Lloyd Cooney - remember them???
Mtutuzeli NyokaJune 18, 2021
Thank you Tanya for your touching recollections of your dad. We salute our fathers for the many sacrifices they make for us their children.
Diane MortensenJune 18, 2021
What a loving tribute to your father. I didn't know him, but as a result of your article, I want to.
Harold RustJune 18, 2021
I remember attending a Church fireside in the Washington area when Jack was the speaker. Ten minutes into the intended start time and Jack was still not there. I was sitting on the side front aisle when suddenly the side door opened and Jack came in and sat beside me. He mumbled something like "They certainly didn't give good directions to this chapel!" He was not in a happy mood. However, when he went up to speak after being introduced, no one else there in the meeting would have guessed he was upset or angry; he just moved on into a very uplifting talk that inspired all those who were there.
Kathy ThatcherJune 18, 2021
I’d like to know how the story ends with Sheila. I loved the mother and Timmy and the young man but am not too crazy about the self concerned Sheila.
Ken BergJune 18, 2021
Pres. Nixon and the Vietnam War are indelible memories from my teenage and young man years. I would have been drafted if I hadn't gone on my mission. Watergate and the beginning of the Vietnam pull-out happened during my mission. And Jack's column, I think, was published by the Deseret News, because I remember seeing it in that paper. Thanks, Tanya, for sharing those personal insights about your Dad.
KIM BOSLERJune 17, 2021
Beautiful article. I hope you never underestimate the power of the service of your gifts you so willingly share, Lynne. You've touched thousands of souls through your music and writings when some might just idle away their time or say, "someday." How I love your music and your voice! And the way you can write and stir our souls. Thank you for being humble too. What a beautiful woman you are in every way. Love, Kim Woolf Bosler
Linda WillisJune 17, 2021
All of your articles are excellent! This one reminds all of us that the only way to live the gospel is to venture out of our comfort zones consistently. Living it is the natural outcome of loving it and takes more energy and faith.. Great analogy on the differences clams make.
David DurfeeJune 17, 2021
To Susan - the fullness of God's DOCTRINE -- that is, truth -- cannot change. Of course. But how and when God reveals the completeness of His doctrine -- all truth -- is totally at His discretion. I think we err when we put limits on what God may or may not reveal down the road. Ask Bruce McConkie if he was surprised and humbled by any particular revelation given to President Kimball in 1968.
Diane L AndersonJune 17, 2021
Excellent article. Indeed, loving and living the Gospel go hand in hand. Thanks for the reminder!
Janet DoiJune 17, 2021
This sounds like a fantastic patriotic concert for all of us to see. I would love to be there, but I live near Austin, TX. No way for us to be able to see such a great event to give meaning to the coming Independence Day celebrations that, thankfully we can still celebrate at present. May I suggest some kind of filming or video being made of the concert for those of us who live far from Draper, Utah to join in this festivity. I would be willing to pay for such a film or video, and I am sure others would too. I am not sure if in some places, July 4th parades will even be seen during these times in which we live today. Thank you for reading my comment, and I hope someone will be able to grant my wish.
GTOJune 17, 2021
Someone who reads these wonderful accounts will have a child who was NOT saved by angels and was killed, wounded, or passed away from some infirmity. I heard a phrase once, "Some He warns, some He comforts." God is ALWAYS with us in some way, in His wisdom. Sometimes He rescues us and sometimes He comforts us after a devastating loss. By using the Holy Spirit, we must discern what His gift to us was.
Christine B.June 17, 2021
Beautiful insight. As I listen to and read general conference messages, my mind fills with inspiration and insight but I find myself reflecting, “but now what … how will I actually move forward and implement these things.” I agree with your message that the application of these things is where we will find satisfaction.
SherryJune 17, 2021
My grandson was playing on the window ledge in his second story bedroom when the screen gave way. He was 4 at the time and told me the white birdies caught him just before he landed on the concrete driveway, a fall of about 20 feet. Not being raised with religion, he didn’t know what angels are.
Seeker of TruthJune 16, 2021
There is a music video called "So Many Sisters", that came out the end of March this year. You can find it on YouTube. It was written to celebrate all women of the church around the time of Mother's Day. One of the writers, I happen to know very well, felt a great impression to add a line about "Heavenly Mother". It is a beautiful insight, I believe, into part of the nature of our Heavenly Mother. However, until we as a church and society stop the sick and twisted use of God's name in vain, and the utter mockery of our Savior and Father in Heaven, we can be sure that further light and knowledge, of our Heavenly Mother will be restricted among the masses, and left to only those ready to receive who can be trusted. She is too special, too beautiful and too sacred...she is the living edifice of our Sacred temples.
HalJune 16, 2021
Thank you for this article. I am also concerned with the number of people using these new, false definitions of "Bravery" and "Courage" to hide a myriad of self-destructive behaviors. I know several young people who are embracing non-traditional lifestyles (that, incidentally, benefit no-one but themselves) who are using their "brave" declarations as an excuse to avoid responsibility. In many cases I'm aware of, these people who so bravely declare their "true selves" fail to mention that they are also declaring their freedom from responsibility. Many have dropped out of school, are chronically unemployed, and are using their new labels for themselves to justify their actions and portray themselves as "victims" of prejudice. They're not kidding anyone but themselves.
Maryann TaylorJune 16, 2021
This story has softened a lot of hearts today, including my own. Thank you so much for the insightful reminder to replace judging others with an increased awareness of how we can help.
Maryann TaylorJune 16, 2021
Our scriptures can take on a whole new meaning when we focus specifically on applying them in marriage. For example: "..be not weary in well-doing, for ye are laying the foundation of a great work. And out of small things proceedeth that which is great." ( D&C 64:33) How might our marriages be strengthened if we read the scriptures for a whole month with the entire focus being only on how to use those teachings in our marriage? "Small things" can be little love notes, unexpected texts of love to a spouse at work, sincere compliments, greeting your spouse with a hug and smile, expressing gratitude--the list is as endless as your imagination. I have found these "small things" truly DO bring about "that which is great" in marriage.
Alfredo VegaJune 16, 2021
This is a beautiful story. I lived in Chile at that time, so I met the Bolivar family and was deeply moved by the fact that doctor Nelson (now president Nelson) had been an instrument in restoring brother Bolivar's health. My family and I were also blessed by the missionary service from elder Lebaron and his companion.
JillJune 16, 2021
Really interesting discussion. I recognised a lot of the topics that occured in my marriage. I wonder what your take is on reclaiming sexuality after becoming widowed? It is difficult to be a single adult again after being married for nearly a quarter of a century!
SusanJune 15, 2021
To David Durfee---The DOCTRINE of the gospel will never change. The PROGRAMS for how the doctrine is implemented do change as appropriate, and when the Lord reveals it so. Listen to what the prophets are saying, and you will find that it is not doctrine that is changing, but rather the policy by which the gospel for all mankind is to be implemented.
CubbyJune 15, 2021
What a beautiful, wonderful story. The Lord was sure in charge on that on!
Maryann TaylorJune 15, 2021
I know that forgiving others is required by our Savior, and the sooner we can do so, the sooner we will experience relief. However, to counsel a woman has been sexually abused by her father to ask him for HIS forgiveness for her hard feelings toward him is extreme, to say the least. Sexual abuse can take years, even a lifetime, for healing. Complete forgiveness is also often a process that takes time, depending on the seriousness of the abuse. A letter to him to let him know she had forgiven him would have sufficed, but to ask HIS forgiveness for the time she needed and deserved to work through this nightmare? NO!
HalJune 15, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have been saying the same thing for years. Furthermore, in our current society we seem to be confusing sex for love. I've heard many people struggling to maintain their sexual purity (both hetero and homo sexual) say something to the effect of " I'm being persecuted because I love someone." We should all understand that love and sex are mutually exclusive. While it is true that intimacy can and should be a sacred expression of love between husband and wife, it more common to love someone deeply and never have sex with them. On the opposite end of the spectrum, it is possible to have sex with someone and have no feelings of affection whatsoever. God's plan is, indeed, the plan of happiness. Again, having sex with someone does not necessarily imply love for that person. Keeping God's commandments regarding sexual purity will bring greater joy to His children than disregarding those laws.
Richard EyreJune 15, 2021
Thank you all (including those who commented to me directly and privately at the link provided at the end of the article. Please go back to the first of the article and read the "AUTHOR'S CLARIFICATION" that I added a few hours after this article was published. I want to be sure everyone knows unequivocally that I know that Christ is the God of this world and our advocate with the Father...and I don't want anything I say to detract or distract from that!
MichelleJune 15, 2021
Why could there not be only One Mother in Heaven? Adam and Eve alone, during their life time, populated this earth with thousands of children and this was done with earthly limitations. Why then, could it not be possible for our Heavenly Parents, (just the 2 of them), who have no Earthly limitations, to create trillions upon trillions of spirit children to populate this earth. Also, look at Noah and his small family who entered the Ark and were saved from the destruction of the flood. How did such a small group of people re- populate the earth? And again they had limitations given them by the earth... I think it's possible to have One Heavenly Father and One Heavenly Mother who created every human spirit that has ever lived and ever will live on this earth. Food for thought....
Gerald J LeBaronJune 15, 2021
I love this family so much. What an incredible blessing to have been in Chile and meet them. They are Chilean Pioneers. My heart is continually tied to them as to many others in the beautiful nation of Chile
Gerald J LeBaronJune 15, 2021
From my missionary journal, June 18th, 1979: Tonight, we had a beautiful Family Home Evening with a remarkable family that we have been teaching. They are all progressing towards baptism, and I have every confidence that they will become a very strong family in the Lord's kingdom. For our FHE treat, Sister (Eleanora del Carmen) Bolivar (Riquelme) made a superb cake. Very delicious! (It seems to me that all the many Chilean women that I have met are fabulous cooks!) We played some fun games, laughed, sang songs, and cracked some excellent jokes. (I'm still learning about humor in the Spanish language) I feel that we have labored particularly hard with this family, because they have been a very devoted Christian family in the Catholic faith. The Spirit has been working with them miraculously. In a very short time, they have read much of the Book of Mormon, and received a witness of its truth. Despite some lingering anxiousness, if all goes well, they will be baptized Sunday (June 24th, 1979) as a family. I feel that the adversary does not want them to be baptized, because they will become such strong members of the church. Brother Bolivar and Silvana wanted to be baptized almost from the moment we began teaching them. Corina and her mother were at first a bit more hesitant for baptism. In fact Corina had been giving serious consideration to becoming a nun in the Catholic church. June 24th: A most beautiful baptismal service. The Bolivar family along with Sister Maria Soledad Calderon were all baptized members of "La Iglesia de Jesucristo de los Santos de los Ultimos dias." What joy! What a blessing! I of myself take no credit. It is the Spirit and the prayers of the family that allowed them to arrive at this point. It was the testimony gained through intently reading the Book of Mormon. Two days earlier I had pled with Corina and her mother that they prayerfully consider being baptized with Silvana and her father. They agreed to do so. At the waters of baptism, there were some emotional moments, but they all got there, and it was wonderful to see all of the family dressed in white. This is a grand day on earth and in heaven!
PaulineJune 15, 2021
I have read two near-death accounts from women who saw Heavenly Mother and in one case, her heavenly mother. Beautiful descriptions beyond measure! One said she could gaze upon the heavenly scene forever. Maybe we need to be present in this sphere and not longing to go home.
PaulineJune 15, 2021
Good for you!
Carlos RoundyJune 15, 2021
I believe that Eve is the great prototype of the heavenly mother. Joseph Smith saw Adam and Eve in open vision. Joseph always referred to Eve as glorious Eve. She is a resurrected glorified daughter of God, just like our heavenly mother.
Boanerges RubalcavaJune 15, 2021
The question raised by your granddaughter are valid, and I appreciated your answers. However, I felt that as a sign of our times, in some way, we are trying to be "politically correct" in many aspects, and this is one of them. I do not like to be politically correct, and I do not like The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints to be either. However, I am nobody to correct the trends, but at the same time I am somebody with some intelligence to have opinions. For instance the author left aside the answer that apparently had been around and is that Our Heavenly Father has our Heavenly Mother is such respect, as we must have our own wife, that He simply doesn't want She to be exposed to the evils of this world. This is, of course, a kind of "protection" given by Him to Her, and that, is NOW "NOT politically correct"; nevertheless, I strongly believe that this could be the real answer, together with the one that the mysteries of God have been revealed step by step. The Apostle Paul speaks of "mysteries" among the important one Christ himself, who came to be known only in the Meridian of Times, and not to all men. In the same way that mystery of our Heavenly Mother would come step by step until we (although not all) would know Her. Meanwhile, we will continue to be poisoned with "politically correctness", "wokeness", "Critical Race Theory" the non-accepted "binary gender" the eradication of our own culture, the hate of the USA Republic-Free Market, Religion itself, of course the no use for "family" and many other stupidities, that of course, there is no time (our time) for the great majority of people in this world and even in the Church to simple discuss Her existence and I for one, do not like to hear anybody (who are nobodies) to speak disrespectfully not only about Her, but in the way we often hear about Our Dear Heavenly Father and Christ.
DaveJune 15, 2021
While understanding the Eternal nature of the family and the reality of Heavenly Parents is crucial to the Gospel Plan, I wonder whether the discussion of Heavenly Mother's role is productive, or whether it's a diversion - like 'looking beyond the mark' or speculating about answers to questions that we don't need answers to, and when we do need answers, they will be given to the Prophet. When I was much younger I thought a lot about 'the signs of the times' or the location of the Lost Ten Tribes. Now, many years later, I have come to realize that when I next come face-to-face with Diety will be on that not-too-distant day when I die - the signs won't have mattered, and studying them will have been a mere academic exercise. My time would have been better spent focussing on relationships and learning to love God and my neighbor as fully as I should. I don't think my Heavenly Parents will care whether I said 'brothers and sisters' or 'sisters and brothers,' but They will care how I kept the commandments and how I treated other people. They will care if I 'always remember Him' and 'always have His Spirit' to be with me. Let that be my focus.
HrothiusJune 15, 2021
To LexaGraeme: The territory of Wyoming enacted women’s suffrage in December 1869, but because of the timing of elections, women in Utah were the first to actually go to the polls, having received that right two months later in February 1870. So it depends on how you state the facts as to whether Wyoming or Utah was the first to allow women to vote. This article is not incorrect. It is important to note that Utah women had their right to vote taken away in 1877 by the Edmunds-Tucker Act, which was passed by Congress and disincorporated the church, changed marriage and inheritance laws and revoked all Utah women’s voting rights. www [dot] washingtonpost [dot] com [/] outlook [/] 2020 [/] 02 [/] 14 [/] utah-women-had-right-vote-long-before-others-and-then-had-it-taken-away/
Judy PetersonJune 15, 2021
This is a very thoughtful article and it has generated some useful pondering and consideration. Thank you. While we know very little about our Mother in Heaven, there may be some erroneous assumptions in these comments. There are numerous spiritual as well as secular reasons why men have been sealed to more than one woman, none of which suggest that specific relationship will be eternal. In a change from previous policy we now seal deceased ancestors to all spouses. I suggest we view sealings in a broader spiritual context in order to understand this principle. Deceased wives may be sealed to multiple husbands. We know that isn’t an eternal model, so there must be something else about the value and purpose of the sealing ordinance. The Proclamation on the Family defines marriage as between “one man, one woman.” While that can be construed to fit a man with multiple families, we have no reason to do so since we have been given all the requirements for celestial marriage that apply to everyone. The truth is we don’t really know. And that’s the point. Just my thoughts.
J. Bayard MyersJune 15, 2021
I loved this article and the comments it has generated. I believe that our Heavenly Mother is "hiding in plain sight"! She (they) is (are) revealed to us via the gift of the Holy Ghost! Think of one of the Holy Ghost's main roles: that of a witness of both the Father and the Son. Only a wife and a mother knows for sure who the father of her son is, and of course, a mother is uniquely qualified to identify her own son. If there were ever a perfect representative of the Divine Feminine, she is the Holy Ghost! (And there may be more than one: even the word "feminine" contains the number "9", an important number in history.)
Maryann TaylorJune 15, 2021
I attended a class on the subject of repentance at BYU education week years ago. The teacher stated that his class would be one of the least attended, and this article beautifully explains why. Repentance is often associated ONLY with deep shame, humiliation, failures and hopelessness. I appreciate the reminders in this article that Repentance is FIRST about our relationship with our loving Savior, and trusting that He will enable us through His own power and grace to repent and become more like Him.
David DurfeeJune 15, 2021
In the Church, we know that things will never change -- until they do. And arguing that something won't change is just as creepy as arguing that it will. I think the best bet is to follow with all our heart a living Prophet and what he says today and not give in to a desire to speculate about what he may or may not say tomorrow.
Randall M SmithJune 15, 2021
I am very intrigued with the idea of multiple Mothers-In-Heaven. The Dispensation of the Fulness of Times is the dispensation in which all things (all gospel principles) will be restored. Polygamy is no doubt the most controversial principle to be part of this dispensation. It seems to have done more harm than good in gathering Israel. But Heavenly Father insisted that it be part of this dispensation, albeit temporarily. I feel it was needed to teach us about the fulness of exaltation - our own ability to create and populate worlds without end. When God authorized polygamy at various times throughout history, it was for the purpose of raising righteous seed unto Him. Likewise, I believe that polygamy is necessary to birth innumerable spirit children to 'fill the measure of creation', worlds without end.
Camille CornabyJune 15, 2021
I really appreciate all that you have expressed. I know there is an ongoing restoration and that we will shortly learn so much more. I have also learned much my own self on this subject. I have been given insight, revelation, and at least four of my priesthood blessings mention Heavenly Mother and her role in my life. This knowledge is very sacred to me. I know there is much we can know if we ask in faith and are willing to receive.
Harold RustJune 15, 2021
This series of articles is particularly uplifting by raising important questions, offering possible explanations, emphasizing those few fundamental truths we do know, and then reminding us of what we probably will not know or comprehend while still in a mortal state. We have a natural desire to describe all heavenly relationships in terms and interconnections we experience here on earth; however, there will certainly be a fourth dimension--and maybe a fifth and a sixth--that will seem very natural then but is completely invisible to us now in this state. Somewhat akin to imaginary numbers which really are "real".....but only when viewed from that additional dimension. All in all, a very rewarding series dealing with sacred gifts within the doctrine of Christ's restored Church.
Joan HayesJune 15, 2021
The questions surrounding "Mother in Heaven" have perplexed me for many years. One conclusion I reached, and satisfies me, is we don't talk much about "Mother in Heaven" because there are Many. We know in the Celestial Kingdom, Polygamy will be practiced. Why would God ask us to practice a principle that He does not live? Therefore, we don't simply have a Mother in Heaven, but many Mother's in Heaven! However, this has led to a further question, is there one Mother in Heaven for each world, or many Mothers for each world? I love the scriptures, but they can cause many thoughtful years of questions that have no answers. It's simply about Fatih and Obedience.
Been ThereJune 15, 2021
With what little that we know of this story, it appears that the wife is so wrapped up with her thoughts and feelings that she may be totally unaware of HIS thoughts and feelings. She needs to get to the point that they can both share thoughts and feelings and needs and feel as if the other heard them. Then they can work on meeting their shared needs. She may need a therapist to help her sort out and examine her thoughts, but it would be a worthwhile journey for her.
Pete Pasquali IVJune 15, 2021
My guess is that she actually has much to do with the heavenly realm and not so much this one. I also suppose that Heavenly Father hasn't spoken about her very much to us because we already take his name in vain - and he doesn't want his children disrespecting our Heavenly mother in that fashion.
John R CarpenterJune 15, 2021
“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. “But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.” James 1:5–6 Like the Pharisees of old, men argued that faith must be like case law. One ruling influences other judgements until case by case conforms to the wishes of men. Modern Pharisees ought to “render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s.” Mark 12
ShaunaJune 15, 2021
Thank you for this sound analysis. Race and sexuality cannot be conflated. I guess it would be instructive for all of us to ask "Am I listening to what the prophet says in revealing the Lord's will, or am I just waiting for the Lord to change His will via His prophet?" We live in a society that has become dangerously enamored of controlling things through "crowds," crowd funding, viral posts etc and seem to expect that the Lord can be controlled the same way. As President Nelson says, we need to learn how to 'hear HIm," and stop listening so closely to the voices of the world.
Trinity OlsenJune 15, 2021
Doesn’t it stand to reason that since we, should we attain the highest glory of the celestial kingdom and become gods and goddesses of our own world, would also be expected to live the celestial law of plural marriage? And would it not also stand to reason that if we are created in the image of our godly parents, one woman alone would have a difficult time populating said world in a timely manner being the only woman? It would literally take forever. God would not give us an eternal law if He himself were not living it. So while we may all have the same Heavenly Father, we do not all share the same Heavenly Mother. Yes, thousands upon thousands of us do, but not all of us. My Heavenly Mother is more than likely not the same as yours. One woman would not be appearing to us all as our shared Father does.
LexaGraemeJune 15, 2021
Three things. First, Utah was not the first state or territory in the United States to give women the vote; Wyoming was. https://constitutioncenter.org/timeline/html/cw08_12159.html Second, Another theory. Maybe there is more than one Heavenly Mother. Third, “day” is *not* capitalized in “The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints”. https://newsroom.churchofjesuschrist.org/style-guide There is/was a church with “Day” capitalized—it was an offshoot sect informally known as the Strangites. Thank you for the article; I add my bits in the hope that it will help future articles.
MaureenJune 15, 2021
As always, your thoughtful, thought-provoking insights are appreciated and enjoyed (our family used the Joy School curriculum through two generations, too). I couldn't help wanting to add to the flip side of polygamy, too, though. It should be remembered that during the time of the restoration, unaccompanied or unattached women were very limited in their social and economic opportunities. There were apparently more converts among women than men, so the practice of polygamy was often practical as much as spiritual and benefited many. Of course, there were abuses and uncomfortable realities, too, but it certainly wasn't a net negative overall, we can hope.
RexJune 15, 2021
As I have pondered the question of a Heavenly Mother, I have come to the distinct possibility that while we all have a Heavenly Mother, we may not all have the same Heavenly Mother. This would easily explain why she/they have not revealed themselves. My belief in this scenario is the fact that men can be sealed to more than one woman (e.g., President Nelson and President Oaks).
Mark DonaldsonJune 15, 2021
Though polygamy is often a sore and controversial topic, I have wondered if couples have the freedom to choose whether or not they will live in monogamist or polygamist relationships in eternity. My wife and I have already made the decision that if given the choice, we would choose monogamy. However, if sanctioned by God, certainly there would be no judgement placed on a couple for making the choice to live in eternity in a polygamist relationship. That being the possible case, could it be that there is more than one Mother in Heaven? Nothing wrong with this thought, as it could explain the reason for a singular Mother's name not having been revealed. The full truth and understanding of this topic will be revealed during the Millennium. I enjoyed this article very much! Particularly the possible definition of churches as those who are family oriented versus those who are not. Insightful!
vickieJune 15, 2021
when i think deeply about my Heavenly Mother, i realize a few things. since she is in heaven with Her Husband our Father...she is part of the Godhead. i remember being told that when we die and when the Savior comes back and those of us who are resurected shall be part of the Godhead with our husbands. so to me our Heavenly Mother is part of the God head but as far as what he job is i dont know because we havent been taught and God has chosen for us not to know everything yet...
Camille McCauslandJune 15, 2021
Thank you so much for this insightful and thoughtful article! Your granddaughter is very blessed to have a grandfather who is willing to take the time to ponder such a deep question and give such a measured and thought-filled response. Your answer to her has blessed us all.
Lexie StatonJune 15, 2021
Thank you for that wonderful story. It helps me to remember that even when it feels like Heavenly Father isn't aware of what is going on with us personally, He always is. This is a great story of faith and how it can affect generations.
Jim WinebrennerJune 14, 2021
Truly great article!! Thank you for publishing this!! We deeply, desperately need more people like Ben Shapiro and Candace Owens. We seriously, desperately need people in the Church (of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) to stand up like them, and make a clear difference in no uncertain terms.
Jim WinebrennerJune 14, 2021
While I understand the apparent superiority of always taking a loving, gentle approach, I cannot understand how to deal with people such as Becerra, that refuse truth, common sense, logic, or any other basis for actual reasoning. Obvious even in the exchange provided in the article (Thank you very much for the article, by the way!), is the fact that he has not even the slightest willingness to reason through it in the first place. He simply evades the questions about the text that he has ostensibly written himself. Even if he did not write it himself, there's clearly no need to review anything prior to answering the intelligent questions posed by the Senator James Lankford. While we are commanded to respect the position, it is surely impossible to respect a lot of the individuals that hold those positions today. It's high time that we all stand up and say, "NO MORE!!! Take back common sense and truth; throw out the lies and ludicrous stupidity!!!" We cannot just keep thinking that anything so idiotic as this surely cannot continue. It WILL continue until we stop it.
Patty BrightJune 14, 2021
Thank you for sharing Mjones. I get what you are saying.
MjonesJune 14, 2021
I have endured many difficult things in my life including making the decision to remove my 2 year old daughter from life support and then hold her while she took her last breath and that wasn’t even the most difficult thing I have done. While this article does a good job of discussing solutions for normal anxiety it lacks understanding of pathological anxiety. Of all the challenges I have dealt with in my life the anxiety and panic attacks that hit me after the death of my daughter have been the worst. Even though I have battled depression for most of my life, I never understood how someone could consider suicide until I had chronic panic attacks. The hardest thing about anxiety is the way it comes on you for no reason leaving you feeling totally out of control in addition to the feelings of panic. My attacks would wake me from a sound sleep. What people need to understand is that’s these severe anxiety issues are largely from physical causes just like most diseases. If we put koolaid in our cars we wouldn’t expect them to work well. Considering how much more complex the brain and human biology are than a motor we shouldn’t be surprised when children raised on a processed food diet don’t have properly functioning brains. The human mind and spirit are indomitable by nature. If we give our children a healthy unprocessed diet along with a loving spiritual home anxiety would largely be a nonissue. Changing my diet was key to my own recovery from chronic anxiety.
John R CarpenterJune 14, 2021
Good article! I found the FamilySearch wiki article on Reunions helpful also. See: https://www.familysearch.org/wiki/en/Family_Reunions
Julie archerJune 14, 2021
This is wonderful refreshing truth. Thank you for writing this article.
Tanya NeiderJune 14, 2021
Thank you, Marilynne. I love the analogy and the simple, yet direct counsel.
MaureenJune 14, 2021
Is it recorded anywhere what is supposed to have happened to the stone box and flat-bottomed boulder cover where the plates and other items were held? Surely by now these have been located. Will there be a trail and marker to this location, as well?
Rawlen RawlinsJune 14, 2021
An important truth that needs to be exposed is there is no such thing as race. Biologically we are all the same race; the Human race. Race as discussed here is strictly a social construction. In Ibram Kendi’s book “How to be an Antiracist” he acknowledges this but then goes on to say that that biology doesn’t matter. It does matter! There is no race so the term should be dropped. The CRT is built on totally false premise. What it is about is the social structure of our society. We must not stick our heads in the sand, our society has prejudice and unfair policies. What needs to be done is remove the term race and replace it with correct term bigotry no matter what their skin color. If our skin color was all the same this battle would still rage on because the “the natural human” wants rule over others. CRT should be replaced with Critical Bigotry Theory, CBT and stop claiming there is a some innate difference between all of us. We are all the same, the human race, God’s children trying to all get along.
Ronald BarnesJune 14, 2021
Perfect timing. This coming Saturday will be my mother’s family reunion. This has been happening for about 50 years. Only two of her sisters survive from her generation. All of my siblings will all be there this year from up to 2,000 miles away. As a surprise to them, I have compiled what I can remember from our father’s war stories and have assembled them into a booklet. Each of them will get a copy.
BertieJune 14, 2021
It doesn't change the fact that there are places where racism happens and goes unchecked. These aren't subtle, benign, and ambiguous like "Where are you from?" Or "What's that you're eating?" But are instead specific and persistent moments like the ones detailed in the NBC article from members of this community. How would you respond if your children were at the recieving end of those experiences? Shut down whatever harmful "ideologies" you see running contrary to belief, but don't ignore the legitimate hurt and actual racism that is occurring, and if you don’t like how they proposed to address those instances of racism, that's fine. But let's talk about other ways.
Walden BarneyJune 13, 2021
Hello - I make this comment hoping that perhaps bro. Daniel C. Peterson will run across it, and might take note. Some time back, I read somewhere that that at present there are now more Spanish speaking members of the church than English speaking members. If this is true, and knowing that a substantial portion of those Spanish speaking members are, as we currently understand things, also descendants of the Book of Mormon peoples, I would like to admonish brother Peterson and the others involved in this project to consider also working on making a version of this movie (and any future ones as well) available in Spanish! I have numerous friends from Mexico and other parts of the Hispanic/latin american world who I would dearly love to be able to share this with, but all I can do is comment to them about it; most of them aren't fluent in English, and at present are therefore unable to truly experience this for themselves! We need a version done in Spanish voice! I hope you will consider doing this! Thanks for considering it.... Walden Barney (currently residing in the Salt Lake City area)
Tora Sue KniselyJune 13, 2021
I find it offensive to remove the word Mother in reference to those who have the ability to give birth.It is an offence to ALL mothers by not using the word Mother. Can men give birth? Their plumbing is different from women's for good reason.
Blake GarsideJune 13, 2021
Along with the Rawson's (Richard and Carol) we saw the Witnesses in our local Harkings theatre here in Gilbert this week. We joined many in the theatre clapping at the conclusion. Very well done Dan !! The actors did a great job, especially with Joseph Smith. My favorite part of the movie is at the end when Martin Harris said, "It is enough" after receiving confirmation he was loved by the Lord." NOW, what's next? You can't stop now, bring us more light and truth!!
TMJune 13, 2021
No, nothing like this is being implemented at BYU-Idaho.
Bera SautuJune 12, 2021
What an Inspiring story of courage!
Viola Joyce MilesJune 12, 2021
As a mother who could not "give Birth" to my four adopted children, I have found this change in wording very offensive.... Joyce
George WingJune 12, 2021
I certainly appreciated your efforts in helping us understand the blessings and energy needed for repentance to be practiced for our personal relief. One of the "R"s was titled "Recite" or confess to our Heavently Father and to those who have been affected. . . From my former days as serving as a "judge in Israel", I recalled that one of the more challenging of the necessities of repenting was the encouragement to confess (recite) our sins to those we have wronged. One particular challenging admonishment was to a young man who committed adultery with a member of his extended family. His wife knew nothing of this encounter. You can only imagine the ramifications that might occur with the acknowledgement of this sin and the expectation that "reciting" the sin to ones most offended by this transgression would not be done without trepidation. I have often reflected on the counsel I gave to this repented sinner and occasionally wonder why I don’t hear more about the requirement to confess (recite) our sins to those we have affected. By making other people aware of our weaknesses we can add their assistance in helping us understand how to be on guard and avoid temptation.
Dave MyersJune 12, 2021
I appreciate the fact that this article identifies specific policies and procedures that are undesirable or potentially harmful. That is fair and helpful. But it also falls into the trap of generalizing and using labels to discredit an entire movement that has elements that are also fair and helpful. Labels like Marxist, Woke, Socialist, Cancel Culture, Critical Race Theory, etc. carry such bias that they can lead to book burning or throwing the baby out with the bath water. I think we're better off sticking to ideas for discussion instead of name-calling. For example, my American History class textbooks (many years ago) were written by and are mainly from the perspective of the winners (white northern European men) - nothing from the perspective of Native Americans or slaves or Chinese railroad workers or southern European explorers, etc., and very little about women. That's just plain incomplete. Let's start with things both sides can agree on, avoid the labels, and try to have a fair, constructive and productive conversation. Let's set an example for our children that we're trying to educate. Give them a chance to be better than we were. They might surprise us with the world they create.
Pamela SmithJune 12, 2021
Many people, even in the Church, confuse the concept of Critical Race Theory (CRT) with basic efforts to decrease racism in our society. They are two very different things. CRT, in reality, promotes racism. CRT teaches that whites are biologically flawed toward racism, cannot be redeemed, and are responsible for all injustice throughout the world. CRT is an attempt to create MORE divisions in society rather than unite all God’s children. BYU is NOT “implementing CRT” but is examining their own long-held policies to be certain they are fair to all students.
Raymond Takashi SwensonJune 11, 2021
No disrespect to Paul H, but Moroni's promise is conditional.on the reader actually reading the Book of Mormon, and wanting to know whether it is true or not. Understanding the reality of things the witnesses attested to can motivate people to get on the path so they qualify themselves to hear the still small voice of the Holy Ghost. Including to know that Moroni, the prophet who made that promise, is a real resurrected being who was seen by the Three Witnesses.
Stephanie GJune 11, 2021
This is beyond sense and compassion for all people. What amazes me is that this can happen without the vote of the people, what does democracy mean these days!!
ShirleyJune 11, 2021
1. CRT is trying fix long-standing problems in society but is going about it all wrong, and of course, has its own Marxist agenda. They originally pitted class against class but today it's race against race. 2. Ample documented evidence exists to prove white people have indeed been the oppressors and minorities are still the oppressed. Both sides are now the pawns of Extremist groups at both ends of the spectrum. Visit https://www.americanbar.org/groups/diversity/resources/equal_opportunity/ You don't need to be a member to take the 21-Day Civil Rights Challenge. Also, see https://www.americanbar.org/groups/diversity/resources/equal_opportunity1/ for oppression of Asian and Pacific Islander groups. 3. People are still being "marginalized," even if some of us prefer different terminology. Just ask the LGBTQ+ community, who finally made themselves more visible. 4. If we're going to use less-common words in Comments, let's make sure we're using the correct version of two or more that only sound the same. 5. California has already mandated that CRT now be taught in even the youngest school grades. So "fireworks" are pending if parents truly want to fight it. They'd probably all move to Utah, except that you don't want any of us there!
Robert D StarlingJune 11, 2021
Thank you Maureen VERY much for this excellent "call to arms", and the resource links that you provide. This is a "Captain Moroni" moment in our society, and we must be willing to get out of our comfort zone and enter the fray as Hanna has done. We must hoist our own Title of Liberty in our communities ... "And it came to pass that he rent his coat; and he took a piece thereof, and wrote upon it—In memory of our God, our religion, and freedom, and our peace, our wives, AND OUR CHILDREN —and he fastened it upon the end of a pole. This is the only way to defeat the "secret combinations" of the Adversary.
Alece ReynoldsJune 11, 2021
This kind of fight needs to be fought at BYU where CRT is being implemented -- under the direction of the President of the University and the rest of the administration. CRT has NO place in the Lord's university! Since it is being implemented there; I wouldn't be surprised if it isn't also being implemented at BYU Idaho and BYU Hawaii!
Jenee LindnerJune 11, 2021
Maurine, Great article and timely. I am adding myself to the mix from Fairfax in an Opinion piece that was published yesterday in the Sun Gazette News. Please feel free to use it here in comments or as a separate article (adjust as necessary). I called it - The Hand That Rocks the Cradle Rules the World. They called it “Parents are the Final Arbiters of Education, no Matter What Leaders of FCPS (Fairfax County Public Schools) Might Believe” Pg 6. https://sungazette.news/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/Fairfax-6-10-21.pdf?utm_source=mailpoet&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Weekly+editions+posted The Hand that Rocks the Cradle Rules the World In the response to the Opinion piece on “Marxist Propaganda has no place in FCPS” by Ed Wenzel on May 27, the author received a rebuttal on June 3 called “Telling Our Whole History Benefits Everyone” by Tom Carrier. Some points I agreed with, especially teaching the whole story, but some I did not. I could not help but notice that in the excitement surrounding educating our children, there was no mention of the role of parents, grandparents or other significant people in their young lives. Who is really in charge of their education? Parents! A wise theologian Jeffrey Holland said this recently: We must not pull away from our children. We must keep trying, keep reaching, keep praying, keep listening. We must keep them “within the clasp of our arms.” Parents need to be involved instead of after the fact. This new racial curriculum has been served on a platter without them knowing what it is really until their children started coming home with assignments or a school administrator announced it. This has been dumped on them in the name of equity. What happened to equality? I am confused. Concrete examples are much better than slogan’s or catch phrases. Banning classics, introducing concepts before they are maturely ready, only offering one viewpoint, concerns me. And I will go so far to say, the way it has been introduced is a Marxist approach. (They do not believe in the family structure. Running it by parents is not in their vernacular). And yes, I agree, as the rebuttal spoke, bless the children. As we teach the next generation life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, be mindful of the parents. I personally believe the greatest role in all the world is to be a mother because we are raising the next generation. My world for many years was to get my kids to school every day and to all their activities, homework support, doctor appointments, etc., they needed. I was the chief chauffeur. With a MA in Education from Stanford University to teach history, this was not what I planned for. I remember traffic, task accomplishments and arriving from point A to point B. My (now, grown) kids see it differently. I was surprised to realize their favorite memories were riding around in the car with me. They remember the journey of going and seeing the world outside in the safety of our car window. No distractions. Living, discussing, and teaching about life lessons was discussed in that moving fortress. Both my husband and I had them listen to books on tape, explained to them “my generation’s music”(my husband was good at that as a trivia Rock and Roll king!) and a hundred other things. I implore the school board to have conversations with people like me before you decide exactly what needs to be done in such a consequential manner. I am all in for the conversation. Do not dictate to me how to teach race theory to my kids. You say you are an expert, but so am I. I am living it. We just celebrated the 100th anniversary of the passage of the Women’s Right to Vote. The 19th Amendment would not have been ratified if a Tennessee State Representative, the youngest at 24, named Henry Burn, had not changed his vote in favor of ratification. He was asked why? He stated he received a letter from his widowed mother, one of the most capable women he knew, was in favor. So, he voted. As he said, “Remember your mother.”
Loran BloodJune 11, 2021
One quibble: no one is presently being "marginalized," and no one has, as a group, for generations. Secondly, please stop using the Left's ideologically weighted meta-language and vocabulary. There is no such thing as a "person of color" as a discreet demographic group. The term is a tautology, like "water of liquid." All of us are "people of color" to one degree or the other. Its also bad English, but politicized language has little need of such conventions.
TraceyJune 11, 2021
Your first paragraph. Unfortunately while people weren't looking, warning shots were indeed fired across the bow. Those who did so, were called "crazy conspiracy theorists" and all sorts of other names and labels meant to shut them up. This happens both outside and often within and by The Church. When I read about "secret combinations" in one of our most important books of scripture, I wonder how this can happen. I am dumbfounded by it. Thank you for a very well written article on one of the most serious issues of these latter days.
James ScottJune 11, 2021
When competent and favorite instructors are being replaced because the school is heading in a new direction it is a sign of the accumulation of power by proletariat wanna bees. An examination of the NEA need to be concluded and their power curtailed by the state legislatures. Let’s reclaim the schools!
Vicki CrumJune 11, 2021
This insanity is being pushed, of course, by Satan. We know this, but there are far too many people willing to go along with it. And those people who play into Satan's hands are liberals aka Democrats. You would never find a conservative or a Republican agreeing with this insidious nonsense. Who you vote for matters. Sadly, the Democrat Party does NOT reflect our Christian values in any way, shape or form. Actions speak louder than words in this, as in everything else. Liberals work for Satan, period.
PaulineJune 11, 2021
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Kathy SandersJune 11, 2021
Thank you Maurine for bringing this great article to us. I appreciate warriors like you in the fight for truth, families, and moral society. Thanks for the links at the bottom. I'm excited to have them. I've been feeling I really need to get involved with the school board and these links will be a great help to do that.
Shep KuesterJune 11, 2021
Silencing opposition and discussion violates the Constitution. Open honest discussions about differences, about similarities, and helping each other to succeed is what this country needs. CRT not only shuts down discussion, it instills fear of expressing an opinion. Evaluating each other based on skin color will not fix anything. Evaluating each other on character, as espoused by Dr. King, will bring us to a better society. Many students in inner city schools are failing. If we put more effort into fixing that, we would be on a better path. Education is liberating. A good education leads to better jobs, stable families, and gives the gift of critical comparative thinking. CRT is specifically designed to eliminate all that, instead instilling a Marxist hive mind attitude.
Karen BellistonJune 11, 2021
Thank you for publicizing this governmental change. (Yes, it is ridiculous.) We need to fight this type of action taken by the Left and stand up for what is right.
Allison TullisJune 11, 2021
This just makes me sick to my stomach. The devil is definitely at work here trying to destroy the family but we can’t let him.
Doris WilliamsJune 11, 2021
Geoff's article each week is one that I look forward to. I am simply blown away by his compassionate mountain of knowledge and his insightful, kind way of offering it. Just wish he could be duplicated somehow into thousands to help all the suffering brothers and sisters who profit from his advice and the help he gives us all just to read about it.
JuliannJune 11, 2021
Very good counsel, thank you. I am tactile and love to touch things to feel texture or just discover how an object feels. One day I automatically reached up to feel a friends beard. My son quickly chastised me, “ Mom, you didn’t ask permission. You don’t touch someone without permission”. He was right. I had not meant to be inappropriate, but I was.
CASJune 11, 2021
When I first read this account, my first thought was, "Now they are trying to throw common sense out the window!" This whole notion of dissolving the words Mother, Father, Family, etc. is a leftist movement. It lines right up there with taking, "In God we Trust!" out. We must fight back from this "woke" ideology that is, frankly, insane!
Dana WelchJune 11, 2021
We are not drowning in knowledge, Futurist Alvin Toffler wrote, " We are drowning in information but starved for knowledge." Information has a shelflife. Applied knowledge begets wisdom. Knowledge may be cross-collateralized. Knowledge has permanent value, to one degree or another. Moreover, present knowledge may be transcended.
LincolnJune 11, 2021
I have met Ms Smith once or twice, and I am generally familiar with her professional accomplishments. She is a national treasure. Texas should thank it’s lucky Lone Star that she moved there — and just in time, too. I do not know where she gets the energy to accomplish her daily tasks, but I thank her and her family for making it all possible.
CASJune 11, 2021
I hope this is one of MANY articles on the extreme dangers of implementing CRT (Critical Race Theory) in our schools, businesses, and society. This is wholly a movement to divide and pit one race against the other and divide families. It's Marxist in fact! The more articles we can have like this one to educate people the better!
ShayJune 11, 2021
What a wonderful article and model for so many of us parents who are simply aghast at what is happening in our schools. Thank you for these resources at the end.
StephanieJune 11, 2021
Amazing. Hannah was a person who was in the right place at the right time. Please keep up the good fight the country depends on men and women like Hannah.
Paul HJune 11, 2021
"We care if there were witnesses" because we live in a secular world where proofs are critical to resolving important questions. Regarding the Book of Mormon, the strongest witness we can have, however, is from God. The Lord said in the Doctrine and Covenants that the Book of Mormon is true. (See D & C 17:6.) The Book of Mormon itself invites the reader to ask God if it is true. (See Moroni 10:4.) I have never heard a single person testify that they knew the Book of Mormon was true because of their reading of the written accounts from either the Three Witnesses or the Eight Witnesses, as important as their written testimonies are, because a greater witness no one can have than from God. (See D & C 6:23.) Church History is fascinating; it perks interest for certain, both positive and unfortunately also negative at times, but the strongest witness is from God through the Holy Ghost. That is the rock of revelation that is unique to the Restoration and sets it distinctly apart from secular scholarship.
ChrisJune 10, 2021
Don't miss the point of the article...repentance is about relationship with the Savior...a way of life and an attitude of self awareness, introspection, honesty, and humility. We're asked to "become a new creature"...to become as a little child, and to experience a change of heart. It's not a four step one-and-done event...it's a life long process to develop a real partnership with Jesus. Great article!
Kenny MazzantiJune 10, 2021
My wife and I have had a very "successful" 52 years of marriage. We share all of the blessings and benefits of that relationship. We don't have any separate bank accounts, vehicles or home ownership. Our names are both on everything we own. We have equal access to everything. However, I do not want to be "equally yoked" with her. That analogy is troubling to me. I really don't want my dear wife to have to shoulder some of the burdens, problems, troubles and difficulties of mortality that I may be able to spare her of bearing if it is at all possible. I have capabilities that she simply does not have just like I do not have the motherly nurturing capabilities that she uniquely possesses in our relationship. Her artistic talents are something I envy because mine are absent. I can cook but she creates. I have tried to be a good dad, but that does not make me a good mom. The jobs are different. God created men and women for a reason. We are different. We are not the same. I do not want to be equally burdened with her. I want to carry as much of the "load" as possible so that she does not have to. I believe that is a reflection of how much I cherish her. So, this whole modernistic approach of men and women being the same is a falsehood that undermines the true elevated nature of men and women, and their role in life and marriage, not only now, but in the eternities. So, I am not going to concern myself with Heavenly Mother(s), her/their job descriptions or how they fit into the big picture. When I am "promoted" from mortality to the spirit world and eventually to a resurrected being one day, they can let me know what I need to know about her/them in that stage of my progression. In the mean time, I will continue to enjoy mortality with my beloved wife.
CASJune 10, 2021
Thank you, Carolyn! This information is timely and helpful...ONLY if we heed it and prepare!
CASJune 10, 2021
We have seen the film, "Witnesses!" It was indeed wonderful and very moving! We loved the choice of actors, especially Joseph Smith and Martin Harris. They were outstanding and very believable, especially Joseph. This is no glossed-over account! Its profound message has stayed with me for days! It follows Church History quite accurately. The photography is gorgeous! Thanks to all who made this film possible. We, as members of the Church, need to support this film! I have spread the word to all my family and friends!
Mary Ann KershisnikJune 10, 2021
I loved the beautiful movie, and appreciate your fine work!
Nina EJune 10, 2021
Cheering you on Chelsea!! Grateful for your courage to stand up for this fight.
Starlyn PetersonJune 10, 2021
I appreciated the many insightful thoughts expressed in this article. I find it difficult to know correct boundaries in discussing Her openly. I look to our leaders' examples and since they have not frequently spoken outwardly about our Heavenly Mother, I feel it is wise to follow that pattern. If and when that pattern changes I will excitedly go along with it. But for now, it does not stop me from thinking about Her and acknowledging in my mind that She is as constantly aware of me--loving, guiding, and helping me--as my Heavenly Father is. I am only comfortable praying directly to God, our Eternal Father. I address Him in prayer as my Heavenly Father. I feel strongly that we need to carefully and intentionally follow the pattern of prayer established by our Savior by praying only and directly to our Father alone, both in the verbal words we choose to address Him by, and in our thought processes while we are praying. If Heavenly Father wanted it otherwise I believe He would have included our Mother in Joseph Smith's First Vision. She knows of our prayers without a doubt. Those are just my personal feelings. Thank you so much for your thoughts!
Reuben DietzJune 10, 2021
I’m listening and received a direct answer from the spirit…
Newell HarwardJune 10, 2021
We saw the film. Very well done. I plan to see it again. So much packed in an hour or so. Need to see several times to fully appreciate its significance. Thank you for making these historical events available for the public.
Timothy D. JohnsonJune 10, 2021
This good sister is right. The prophets have spoken and the words of the Lord will be fulfilled. Do everything that you can to prepare. Even if you can only affordto buy a few extra cans of food each time you go to the store. Do all this you can as quickly as you can. I have purposely kept canned good for years to see how long they would last in the Phoenix area when kept in temperatures realistic for an average house with air conditioning. I am using canned chicken and beef stored since 2010 and upon opening it, it looks brand new and tastes perfect. Canned chili does very well also with an eight year plus life. Canned potatoes and corn last for several years also. But do not worry about long term items at this time. Work on your three month supply of things that you use on a daily basis. The Lord is being very merciful to His children who heed His voice by shortening the days for the elects sake. Do not forget you longer term storage once you have that three months supply built up. Food first then every other needful thing as mentioned in the above article. Do not let anyone deceive you by saying to concentrate on the spiritual first, that food storage is temporal. In D&C 29:34, the Lord states the He has never given a command that is temporal. Again, fellow Saints, do not delay in obedience to this commandment! You want to be among the wise virgins as illustrated in the Lord's parable.
Mary ScannellJune 10, 2021
Really loving this series! I will say that it makes absolutely no sense to only be "allowed" to pray to one heavenly parent. This is not directed at the author, just stating the obvious. At least, it really feels like it should be obvious. I like the idea of addressing our prayers to "God in Heaven" or something along those lines to take in both of our Heavenly Parents.
Duane BoyceJune 10, 2021
The film is both cinematically and spiritually stupendous. It is a highly significant and impressive accomplishment, and everyone who sees it will love it. I believe "Witnesses" is a genuine "must-see" for all Latter-day Saints and I fervently hope that many others will see it as well. Don't miss it!
DianeJune 10, 2021
LOVE this! It is so true! Thank you.
tfJune 10, 2021
I suspect, after the last vacation together, a jealous ex-wife said "no more", if you see him and your (blank step mother again) you're out of here. (Home, support, me). and he made a choice.
Jim WinebrennerJune 9, 2021
People need simply to stop pretending that living beings have "gender" in the first place. Sex is the word to refer to your being either male or female, every individual is either one or the other, and certainly not as a result of their own choice. There is no such thing as a "trans" woman or a "trans" man. There are only men and women, in spite of the tragically unfortunate fact that some men and women like to pretend they are the other. Everyone needs to stop patronizing the confusion.
Jim WinebrennerJune 9, 2021
Thank you very much for such an insightful article, and perspective on several points. One of the points I personally appreciate in particular is the point (you implied without stating directly) you cannot achieve a better balance by indulging the opposite extreme for a time. I speak of course, in reference to the idea of focusing on Heavenly Mother to make up for lost time of focus on Her. When mortal beings discover that they've been indulging an extreme, they too often want to attempt a balance by indulging the opposite extreme. Of course, it may turn out all right in the end, if, like a pendulum, they gradually stop being quite as extreme in either direction until they finally settle in the middle with the actual, proper balance. It would make more sense though, simply to focus immediately and always on the actual balance, or in other words to stop swinging from extreme to extreme and instead follow the divine guidance, "Be still."
Valiant JonesJune 9, 2021
The rest of the class would not have come to Trevor's aid if he had not allowed you to share part of his story. For me, the key lesson here is the value in being vulnerable enough to share our personal challenges. That openness blesses others others with empathy, kindness, and understanding. Everyone benefits.
H NorthJune 9, 2021
One cannot claim to worship God and yet, promote what God condemns and calls an abomination. “If God doesn’t judge America, he owes Sodom and Gomorrah an apology.” – Ruth (Bell) Graham, the wife of Rev. Billy Graham
DeniseJune 9, 2021
This touched my heart, and I shed tears. Another poignant reminder of the importance to not judge. Perhaps this will encourage us all, not only not to be so quick to judge, but to seek the spirit to guide us as we look for opportunities to gently inquire and possibly help our wounded and struggling brother and sisters. Thank you for sharing.
JulieJune 9, 2021
I have often thought that what we refer to as the "steps" of repentance should be more accurately called the "fruits" of repentance.
Charles McClellandJune 9, 2021
Thanks, Daris, for this touching story about how we need to be less judgmental. I will try to be more empathic today.
Becky DouglasJune 9, 2021
Dear Doris, thanks for pointing out the typo in our address. The correct address is www.RisingStarOutreach.org. A special thanks for your willingness to help!
Arlo H JuddJune 9, 2021
"God moves in Mysterious Ways, His Wonders to Perform'' From your picture, I would guess that Chandler is now married to a beautiful lady.. Sometimes we don't know when our ancestors or familyon Paradise, are hoping the spirits of our loved ones would return to be with them..
Gary StrobleJune 8, 2021
Nice article, but it is mischaracterized as breaking news. Repentance and the Atonement are not new.
Lee ArscottJune 8, 2021
We have a very similar situation in our family. I love this estranged family member deeply. To not have this person active in our family circle leaves a tremendous gaping hole. We pray every day for this person to have a softening of the heart and the courage to reach out to our family again. And of course, we pray for his protection. We love and miss this family member dearly
Erik HansenJune 8, 2021
I like "repugnant". I'm anxiously awaiting the day I can say to myself, "I now find any type of sin repugnant no matter how much I loved it." - and then say that to The Lord. What a joyous day that will be! Currently I just seek to have “...virtue garnish my thoughts unceasingly.” And that’s hard enough!
Erik HansenJune 8, 2021
How long before our country experiences such things? When the times of the Gentiles are fulfilled. Our leadership is currently not turning out too well. The majority of our Christians in our leading nation are losing their Christianity. The work of missionaries is slow to convert Evangelicals who are the majority. Violence is on the lips of the Christians. D. & C. 49: 30-33 That "overflowing scourge... desolating sickness" is coming in some form as this Nation, that leads the world, becomes crippled Christians. Much of it is about the worship of politics and men who want power just like in the BOM. Then we are done AND WE WILL HAVE TO START PRACTICALLY FROM SCRATCH TO BUILD THE CITIES OF ZION. Christ Himself is the only power to create a safe society. Are we worthy yet? Or do we need to become sicker first?
David and CarolineJune 8, 2021
We do agree with this article. The only R of repentance we really need to know is that it is REDEMPTIVE!
Wayne LarsenJune 8, 2021
Beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.
GJune 8, 2021
Thank you for sharing this beautiful, miraculous story which is so close to your heart. Praise God for the healing that He so liberally gives to us!
Jean ShifrinJune 8, 2021
Wow, thanks Becky for sharing this information. I knew Covid would be devastating for India, but you really put the situation into perspective - especially how it affects the leprosy colonies.This is not news we will get from regular media. The work that you and others at RSO are doing to help the people in the colonies is incredible. Thanks for sharing this story and for all you and RSO are doing. I'm going to hit 'Donate' now...
Gerrit SmithJune 8, 2021
A very touching story of God's tender mercies. The rest of the story...what about Chandler and his medical problem? How is he doing?
Marie AndersonJune 8, 2021
Oh my Scot….we are cousins! It's that whole 6 degrees of separation thing, that in the church is like two! The story you related about your grandfather and swimming in the Gulf of Mexico really touched me. Imagine my surprise and delight when you mentioned your grandmother’s name…Martha Holbrook. I am a direct descendant of Joseph Holbrook from his first wife Nancy and their first child Sara Lucretia….and, if I am following the genealogy correctly, your grandmother was josephs granddaughter from his third wife Caroline Frances Angell. I have been pouring over Joseph’s journal and aligning it with what we are reading in D&C so he has been ever present in my mind of late. I have been a listener of your podcasts since the New Testament series and I very much enjoy yours and Maureens insights and thoughts and stories. I wish I could join one of your tours….I think it would be a tremendous experience. Thank you for all that you do and share! Sincerely Marie Anderson williamsburg va
Boanerge RubalcavaJune 8, 2021
This article is very good dealing with the great importance of our Lord Jesus Christ in our lives. However, I 'd like to call your attention to the 4th Article of Faith of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints that dealing with the first principles and ordinances of the Church summarizes it as follows: 1. Faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, 2. Repentance, 3. Baptism (meaning forgiveness thru the atonement of the Lord) and 4, The Gift of the Holy Ghost. The author, I think trying to emphasize the atonement, deals with the way that many people use to help themselves with the second principle, repentance, using the 4 Rs: 1. Recognize 2. Remorse, 3. Resolution to NOT repeat the same wrongdoing, and 4. Restitution (as far as it is possible) or with some other variants but with the same meaning, that the author tried to dismiss with 67 additional Rs. As I said many people use these Rs o maybe 100 others to help themselves to really repent, but it is important to note that FAITH in the Lord Jesus comes first, then a true and complete repentance in order to be forgiven of the wrongdoing through the atonement of the Lord to be ready to have the companionship of the Holy Ghost. This can happen many times in our lives, as a matter of fact we have this opportunity to exercise (after baptism) the whole circle (Faith, Repentance, Forgiveness and the Holy Ghost) at least once a week by partaking of the bread and water. I believe that all of us do these circle trying to convert it in a spiral to gain more and more faith every week until we achieve the goal to have a "perfect faith in the Holy One of Israel". As I said, repeating the mention that the author did from Elder Christofferson's, of using the 4 Rs, is a way for many to help with the wonderful principle of repentance; but we have to repeat that repentance is not an easy principle to comply with, and using this or any other method to help ourselves is valid if the person is trying the many Rs the author is (wrongly) adding, but that must have the same meaning than the one expressed above, when that person has real intent. Remember that the Lord himself told the woman caught in sin, "go and SIN NO MORE"; He knew that she needed to repent (sin no more, i.e. [R]esolution) for the atonement to take effect in her life to be forgiven and later on receive the companionship of the Holy Ghost. To dismiss this way of achieving Repentance is NOT fair for those who are truly trying to repent, and to add 67 Rs without really taking seriously that the person(s) is sincere in his desire to receive forgiveness I think is tremendously incorrect.
LewisJune 8, 2021
It is to my mind another sign of the times in which we live. I think Moroni truly saw our day, and described the tumult and turmoil we are experiencing. It calls upon all of us to give and serve. I am grateful for all you are doing and the example you are setting, and hope it inspires each of us to find ways to help our brothers and sisters, wherever they may be.
Nikki SlavenJune 8, 2021
Thank you, Carolyn, for your very insightful article about the role that vitamin D can and should play in our lives! We could conclude that vitamin D is essential to life and health. Perhaps you covered this aspect of vitamin D, but if not, here is something else very important to know. This comes from a government site, but many alternative health sites concur. ABSTRACT: Evidence from observational studies is accumulating, suggesting that the majority of deaths due to SARS-CoV-2 infections are statistically attributable to vitamin D insufficiency and could potentially be prevented by vitamin D supplementation [...]. (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33260798/)
GTOJune 8, 2021
I bawled all the way through this and can't stop. I learned long ago to wear waterproof makeup. It served me well today. What a precious, positive outcome. Thank you for sharing this miraculous journey.
Mandy KimballJune 8, 2021
Laura- what an amazing (and horrific) journey to go on! Such a blessing to receive those dreams and understand how the Lord knows you, your family, and your every situation. Even to the tiny detail of losing the blood results! Thank you for sharing this with us. Truly amazing!
Kay RookhuyzenJune 8, 2021
We viewed this movie just last night and I give it 5 stars. It was moving, it was well-acted, cinematography was outstanding! Obviously the topic was special to me and I know these were true.
Amanda PerkinsJune 8, 2021
Thank you Proctors! We loved meeting you, and felt there are no coincidences in us filming just at that time when you were on your morning walk! Naomi's guitar teacher is always asking her what she wants to learn next, and at times I've made suggestions. Naomi came to me, and said how the Anne LeBlanc cover of JJ Heller's Your Hands was what she wanted to learn. It spoke to her, and When I heard JJ Heller have a beautiful harmony added, I asked Christian Covers Official if they would like to do another sister/missionary duet (Josh Sales had filmed The Affleck Family singing I'm Trying To Be Like Jesus with their missionary). Then my son got to return to Cote d'Ivoire so her friend Jacob from RUCC stepped in beautifully! Check out all the other uplifting songs Christian Covers Official has produced and subscribe! We are very grateful to them, and all the other helpers in making this video happen!
Doris WilliamsJune 8, 2021
When you click on the Rising Star outreach in this article (to donate), the site can't be reached and I think it is because there is a comma instead of a period in their website. I will type their name in with Google as I want to help. It's just agonizing to know of their intense suffering.
Janie BrayJune 8, 2021
Oh my goodness. Such a miracle. Tears as I was reading this. Thanks for sharing. In spite of the challenges in our lives, this story proves that our Heavenly Father loves us and is aware of us
C. WeissJune 8, 2021
I went last night with my wife and teenage daughter. Everyone was affected by the strength of the story. It was very well done. The acting was strong, but not over the top as in some church based films. It really shows some of the struggles of the 3 witnesses and what they were confronted with in the infancy stage of the Church. I truly respect and honor their testimonies and the integrity with which they kept their covenant to be witnesses. It inspires me to strive to stand as a better witness myself. Beautifully shot and directed.
GeneseeJune 8, 2021
My husband and I saw Witnesses and loved it! The movie had me teary many times! I am sorry to hear about the reviews on rotten tomatoes and the no doubt false ratings. I am not one to go off of other peoples ratings of movies. I review them for myself. Thank you for making Witnesses! I learned a few things I didn’t know!
Steve DoneganJune 8, 2021
I’ve always said I am too lazy. Working towards repentance takes too much effort. So what do I do? Just not sin...
Patty BrightJune 7, 2021
Thank you for sharing this marvelous true story.
Meridene LindseyJune 7, 2021
Incredible movie—Transported us to the time & place & people in a very moving experience. Not to be missed ! You will leave the theater understanding & having compassion for these incredible men & their wives & will be inspired by their faith & courage.
JordynJune 7, 2021
This is absolutely beautiful! It brought me to tears. I need to read more stories like this as they boost my faith and inspire. I truly believe there are more miracles taking place around us than we even remotely realize, and if we share them when prompted, we will be filling our world with even more light, faith, joy and peace.
PeggyJune 7, 2021
Thank you for sharing your beautiful, tender mercies and healing. We don't always get healing, but it is wonderful when some do. The Lord loves us all, and has different plans for each of His children.
MimiJune 7, 2021
I appreciated reading your article and am glad you want to start a dialogue about this issue. I think just realizing we all need to do better when it comes to race is a start. I think it is important to acknowledge their pain. (Mourn with and comfort) Self reflection in ways that oneself may be prejudice, for example, do I automatically dismiss their anger, do I think about what it would be like to walk in their shoes? Read and study black history. I remember listening to a black professor speak about how negro spiritual music came from the sadness in their souls but also expressed their hope in the resurrection. Throughout history increased racism seems to go in cycles. For example, even though I didn't vote for Obama, when he was elected, I felt like it sent a message to the world that race wasn't an issue in our nation. It gave many minorities hope to be able to serve in higher positions. Unfortunately, we have had a setback and more people feel comfortable with expressing racist sentiments. For me it has been a wake up call. I worry that too many members feel they are the chosen ones and look down on minorities. My mother in-law acknowledged that while growing up in the 50s it was just understood that blacks were second class and that is the way it was. She knows that is wrong now. We even see racism in the Book of Mormon. I think it is part of the natural man that we will always have to fight. Critical Race theory is just that, a theory, and I believe it should be studied in higher education. As a school teacher I have never been urged to discuss theories with my students. We need to stop making excuses and follow Christ's teachings to love one another. It should be that simple.
Kent LarsonJune 7, 2021
Daniel, you need to read Galatians 4:16
Becky DouglasJune 7, 2021
Dear Laura, Thank you for sharing this beautiful story with us! I'm so happy for your whole family for the tender mercies granted by God for both Chandler and Canyon. Thanks for sharing your family's picture. So beautiful! Becky Douglas
Douglas ThompsonJune 7, 2021
Unfortunately, there are people out there that are truly negative. You can find them in all industries (I'm in hospitality) and I have found that what they post says MUCH more about themselves than about the item they are reviewing. Keys for discerning folk would be if the review is balanced. One can ALWAYS find good/bad in anything. Another key would be timing - as you said, it's not likely that a number of people independently "Dis" you at the same time (I've had reviews of 1 out of 10 but they can't back up allegations and I can legally prove reasons why they are 86'd from my establishment). These "very bad" reviews usually come from folk looking for a free stay - and you can find them here and there among numerous reviews with a "10" rating and other balanced reviews listing real problems that can be addressed - compliments - and additional suggestions which they feel may be beneficial to the business (these reviews are usually in the 6-9 range). While I have not yet seen "Witnesses", I now have it on my radar for a viewing in the near future. Don't let the haters get you down.
Kay YeamanJune 7, 2021
Enjoyed your article, but the general premise is wrong right off the bat. You and I might be interested in unity and reconciliation, but the proponents of CRT are not. Just a cursory glance shows that CRT is about anger, bitterness and revenge. Even supporters of Martin Luther King are derided. CRT can only further the divide and bring about more hatred and mistrust - not less. The fact the BYU professors couldn't add there names for fear of retribution tells us all we need to know. How red do the flags need to be? Call me simple minded, but wouldn't encouraging an environment of acceptance and mutual respect be much more positive?
Earlene McDonaldJune 7, 2021
I cried my way through this story. Our son had a similar experience and it was like reliving it. If this disease doesn't strike before age 8 it occurs between 12 and 14. Our youngest son was 13 and had several symptoms. It too was a nightmare until that final test eliminated adrenoleukodystrophy. We too were so blessed to have priesthoood blessings and a path opening up to find what was causing his problems. He is in his 40's now, excelling at a good job and is the father of two wonderful children. Jesus is so good and so generous with his blessings!
DianeJune 7, 2021
Wow, just wow! What a beautiful story of God’s love and grace! Of course, not everyone is healed, but we know our loving Father is aware of each of us.
Sherry BrownJune 7, 2021
We saw the movie on Saturday. It was well worth the 2 hour drive to the nearest movie theater. I'd go see it again tomorrow...
DarylJune 7, 2021
Any parent in this situation should humbly search their own soul to see if there is something they might have done to trigger this alienation. What seems inexplicable may not be. The parable notwithstanding, there is rarely only one side to such a story. I was that niece whom an uncle turned to for end-of-life care and estate management. The hardest part was dealing with the pain of the broken relationship between father and son. Apologies all around are a good beginning.
Patricia L HatchJune 7, 2021
Whoa! What a story. I am so happy that your son was healed.
Doris WilliamsJune 7, 2021
Oh my goodness, Laura. Your story was so difficult to read, but I had your assurance that things would turn out, so I continued. Just how you got through this time in your life when so MANY things were going on at once is a confirmation of the strength you received from the Savior, and the true miracle of healing of Canyon and Chandler are a real upper for all who were aware of your struggle. Your husband, Derek (sounds like an amazing father) and you have been greatly blessed. I rejoice in your well-being and I'm grateful too, for all those who supported you along the way. Thank you so much for sharing.
Victoria KrommenhoekJune 7, 2021
Not only is the author a wonderful writer, but a light to so many of us as to how to handle the wilderness we are in. Her strength, perseverance, and faith in her Savior is a wonderful example to us all.
Adrian MartinJune 7, 2021
As a grandfather to 2 autistic grandsons, I rejoice in the miracle the doctors said not to expect. I hope Chandler regains full health. What an inspiring experience it has been to learn of your trials and tribulations and the miracle wrought by our Saviour!!
Charles McClureJune 7, 2021
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story! What an incredible experience and blessing this is for all who read it!
Frank MerrillJune 7, 2021
Thank you for your report. I look forward to viewing the film when it becomes available in my area. With regard to your observations about what people post in various online forums, I'll add that I do not choose to visit social media systems because I learned several years ago that such places are not my friend, do not provide useful content to me, and do not uplift my spirit. That said, I will continue to defend a person's right to visit and participate in social media should they choose to exercise their agency to do so but it is similarly my right to choose to avoid it.
David ShafferJune 7, 2021
"In God’s universe, there are no coincidences." Amen!
Jennifer MackleyJune 7, 2021
@Steve Donegan Thank you for commenting on the sentence regarding Wilford's revelation about who could help him complete the proxy ordinances for his ancestors. It is difficult to provide the complete story in a short article, and this is a very brief overview of four decades that led up to Wilford's service in the St. George Temple. To ease the mind of any reader about whether or not Wilford, as President of the St. George Temple, was acting with the approval of and under the direction of Brigham Young, as President of the Church, I would like to add another quote from Wilford Woodruff's March 1, 1877 journal: "I have never taken this Course without consulting President Young. When this thing was manifest to me I said to some of the sisters that I would like to have them Come on my Birthday and make me a present by getting Endowments for some of my dead, and as a testimony to me all were willing. When I saw the magnitude of this I spoke to President Young about it." Thank you again for your comment and the opportunity to clarify that sentence in the article!
K. ScottJune 6, 2021
Can we as Saints of God start a new trend in how we write and read The Things of God? For far too long the Truths and Principles in Scriptures are minimalized and full glory neglected by using the "world's" Rules of Grammar. Can we not seek to change how we write (my suggestion): The Law of Christ The Gospel The Holy Temple The Lord..... If it is a key PRINICPLE Truth, Person Place Ought we not to finally give those things people and Places the same attention regard and consideration we do to The names of historical Figures, Countries States and Cities ??? We should be writing The Holy Priesthood not in lower case EVER ! The Lord needs the 'T' in the to be Capitalized - for us Jesus Christ is Principle unique and there is ONE of Him. Can we not give Him The due respect and holy consideration by actually use initial Caps?? Please give this some thought and prayer. Our Scriptures given are printed by people trained in the world's schools - following the world's grammar traditions. We in The Church have learned The Mysteries of Godliness in The Restored Church- finding that 'Religion' is the philosophies of men mingled with Scriptures. Can we not now -- elevate our consideration of TRUTH and never ever again refer The LDS Faith or Church as a 'Religion' ?? It is not a philosophy of man (and certainly not of Satan) mingled with portions of The HOLY Scriptures !!! Ergo can we not use this same effort of justified honor and name our Church as The True Faith or The True Church or The Lord's True Church. I hope this conveys in part- my thoughts and desires that we start Treating that which is Eternal and Holy and Beautiful with the regard in our printing and writing - that would please both The Father; His Beloved Son; and open a pathway for The Holy Ghost to act in His Holy Position to plant Truth inside us and apply The Powers of The Infinite Eternal Atonement and The Godhead into our lives. Thank you for your patience and consideration of my suggestion yours truly p.s. Try using your pencil or post-it and insert notes to show the following: 2 Nephi 26:1 1 And after Christ shall have arisen from The Dead He shall show Himself unto you, my children, and my beloved brethren; ((all of us)) and The Words which He Shall Speak unto You of Christ Shall Be The Law ^ which Ye Shall Do. We Need to SEE "The Law of Christ" come into our minds each time we see such references. And each and every time that we see the word GOSPEL we would be well served to read in our mind "The Law of Christ" /// PLUS /// we call the Priesthood of Christ the Melchizedek Priesthood but in our minds we need to hear the resounding beauty of "The Holy Priesthood After The Order of The Son" Dear ones, we have The Fullness set before us can we not aspire to live unto that Fullness in preparation for The Savior's Return - so we can be a part of His Work and Glory in the body as well as in the realm of The Spirits
JuliannJune 6, 2021
Paul Wuthrich portrays Joseph Smith better than anyone has ever done. His demeanor, his focus, his facial and body expressions , and the sincerity in his eyes, all truly bring Joseph Smith to life. I hope he has future opportunities to portray Br. Joseph. The Paul who portrays the Senior David Whitmer is also to be commended.
LKTJune 5, 2021
There are no showings anywhere in Missouri. As a group of senior missionaries , we’d love to see it come to the Liberty, or Kansas City area!
A. MannJune 5, 2021
What a fascinating deep dive into the personal relationships of the early church leaders/members. It’s good to have these as an example for today, as I see some division ripping through our Lord’s church.
Maryann TaylorJune 4, 2021
Pray that his heart will be softened toward you. I did this and the results were amazing. The family member actually reached out to me to make restitution for his coldness, and it was clear the Holy Ghost had pleaded my cause with him. Sadly, this is not always the result because people have their agency to choose. However, it is certainly worth the effort to try.
Erica BentonJune 4, 2021
Try using a burner phone to call. He won’t recognize the number. This worked for me once when a different family member worked to sabotage a relationship and we were able to reestablish communication after talking it out and hearing what was going on in their half of the relationship. There is injustice and hurt in this old world, sometimes lies cannot be undone no matter how illogical. I’d give it a try. Then what I do repeatedly is sending all of the love and goodness I feel thwarted in giving out into the universe in some symbolic form. Create an image and send it out with all the love and kindness and compassion in your heart. It honors your heart and instead of staying inside you causing pain, just extend it out with open arms and a heart that can still love. Easier said than done,but it helps me. I do this repeatedly, once was not enough for me. Best wishes to the writer of the letter.
CASJune 4, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful review. I wasn't sure I wanted to see this film when it was first advertised. However, after studying "Come, Follow Me" and especially the YouTube "Follow Him" Doctrine & Covenants series with Hank Smith and John Bytheway this year and learning more about these early leaders during this period of time, I most assuredly will be going to see this film. Thank you again!
Betty Lou MannJune 4, 2021
Thank you for a good chuckle before facing my day of, "old age." Accurate description of the aging process. Never the less, life is good and I thank Heavenly Father for each day.
John Charles PearceJune 4, 2021
My LatterDay Movie Club hosted this movie last night to a large socially distant audiance in a private screening ahead of the public release today. In my opinion "Witnesses is the best movie ever made about the history of the founding events of the church. The acting was superb. I was very impressed with Paul Wuthrich portrayal of Joseph Smith as well all the great support of all the cast members. It was at times raw and displayed the humanness of Joseph and the three witnesses. I think it captured the loneliness that Joseph felt before the witnesses were shown the plates. I highly recommend this movie for all Latter-day Saints and their friends.
JulieJune 4, 2021
Go see him in person and find out why he is turning his back on you. Express to him face to face your love for him and all you have done to try to be a good father to him. Stop and LIsten to him and what he tells you. You may find out you have not been the father you think you have been or you may be able to clear up misconceptions on his part. Never let your child go without giving it your all.
essayJune 4, 2021
Unfortunately, the film is not showing in my area, but I'll be among the first when it's available for purchase.
James ScottJune 4, 2021
These acts of casting bread upon the water are the true test of faith and hope.may the spirit find ways to bless these lives.
Kathleen N JonesJune 4, 2021
I also had an adult child "disown" me for over 10 years! I was grateful when I sent notes telling her I was sorry for what it was I had offended her with and I loved her dearly. Nothing more, nothing less and I prayed for her and that Heavenly Father would do what need be done. I always kept the faith that I knew one day she would return and kept praying and never once when speaking of my family ever exclude her. Then just a little less than 5 years ago, I received a message to contact her. I did. As she answered the phone, we both said at the same time I love you. As I said I have missed you so much, she returned with I have too. Now we keep in touch and what the problem was that began all this is "erased" as if it never happened. I truly thank the Lord for the faith He gave me. In fact I had my other 2 children also walk away from me (due to divorce), but I knew in my heart I had taught them all I could and put my faith in the Lord even though many told me they would never return I knew they would and it wasn't very long that now they have all returned. Please keep the faith. The Lord will take care.
Allison DunlapJune 4, 2021
My heart goes out to this man as his experience mirrors my own. I too was shunned by two daughters nearly 7 years ago in a divorce situation. Your words of wisdom to him still apply to me. It has been a grieving process but the best thing I finally did was place the burden at the Lord's feet and ask Him to carry it for me. This gave me the ability to carry on and have a happy life and disposition. I do have faith that the Lord can repair the splintered branches of our family tree and I am comforted by His promise that all losses will be made up if we stay faithful to him. Nothing about these situations are fair, but with strength from God, we can endure infuriating unfairness.
Robert D. BellJune 4, 2021
Thank you very much for this “right on” article and counsel to ensure that our loving arms stay wide open until an estranged child returns to a loving father.
PattieJune 3, 2021
I was the worried gardener always wanting/wishing perfection from my children. It wasn’t until I listened to General Conference talk after General Conference talk year after year and finally gave it all to the Lord. Love of children and plants are basically the same. Some grow in good soil and others don’t grow as well. They are still nourished. Love this valuable lesson.
Masked MikeJune 3, 2021
Get a dog. Seriously, they are more reliable and less trouble than most men. After acquiring this companion, take the dog walking where other people do the same. Use common interest in pets to expand your social circle. You might meet some one who is great for you. Or do something else that forces you to meet new people.
Robin PrestonJune 3, 2021
Very insightful. I appreciate the remeinders that coming to Christ is a continual life long search. Discouragement is really waiting in line to tear us down. Thank you for your thoughts. By the way, I thought it was interesting that you used the term "taking pride" following President Benson's quote. Perhaps the term "taking courage" would have been more apropo...?
TiredJune 3, 2021
It's good to laugh at your self some times. I'm not sure if this wants to make me laugh or cry right now though as I am living this with my mother and myself and it is hard plus having a painful autoimmune disorder and still raising my last and helping raise 2 grands because their parents are on the autism spectrum.
Jennifer MackleyJune 2, 2021
@Marie H. I am not a descendant of Wilford Woodruff. My best connection is my 3rd great grandfather Theodore Turley who served as one of Wilford Woodruff's mission companions in England in 1840.
Jennifer MackleyJune 2, 2021
Thank you @Steve Donegan for your comment. You are absolutely correct in pointing out that "only the president of the Church can set down prophecy for the Church." That sentence could be misconstrued out of context. The entry in his journal for March 1, 1877 includes this explanation: "I have never taken this Course without consulting President Young. When this thing was manifest to me I said to some of the sisters that I would like to have them Come on my Birth day and make me a present by getting Endowments for some of my dead, and as a testimony to me all were willing. When I saw the magnitude of this I spoke to President Young about it." Brigham Young, as President of the Church, and Wilford Woodruff, as President of the St. George Temple, worked together almost every day to record the temple ceremonies and refine the temple practices from January to April 1877. There is much more of the story to share!
JAMES P FOLEYJune 2, 2021
The miracle of turning water into wine could possibly be Jesus’ greatest scientific miracle. In healing the sick, the body just re-organizes / re-orders itself. In raising the dead, the lifeless body is simply brought back to life. In killing the fig tree, it’s the opposite... no great scientific changes have occurred. But consider Cana: It is estimated there are from 800 to 1,000 different organic chemical compounds in wine. And yet, water consists of no organic compounds and just one inorganic compound: two-parts hydrogen to one-part oxygen. The scientific miracle, then, was “Just how did that plain ol’ inorganic water become 800-1000 organic compounds?" That’s pretty neat!
Steve DoneganJune 2, 2021
Simply perfect. Well written. Oh the gems we find when we look with spiritual eyes...
Andrew J. CurrieJune 2, 2021
He didn't purify the water. If that is all He did, it would still have been water--one hydrogen molecule and two oxygen molecules--pure, but merely water nonetheless. What Christ did was change the very nature of the liquid. He did not merely make the water into wine, but into the best wine at the feast! He promises to replace our 'stony hearts' with hearts of flesh--hearts like His. Through His Atonement our very natures will be changed into something unlike what we are today.
Z CoxJune 2, 2021
Hilarious! Getting old is not as fun as it used to be!
James ScottJune 2, 2021
The JST certainly adds an important element of explanation to a rather cryptic group of verses. Furthermore, the listing oft the Savior’s assistance and relations with women is illuminating. Every human is a child of God.
Harold RustJune 2, 2021
Thanks for sharing these wonderful insights. In a monetary world, these well-honed truths so carefully organized would be worth millions or billions; instead, they are worth the full value of a soul.
Doris WilliamsJune 2, 2021
So hilarious! And a nice break from all the news of the day. Thank you for sharing this story!
Helen CondonJune 2, 2021
Thank you but the illustration of my style being turned from water into wine by my Savior. It truly is His work and His glory.
Diane StonehockerJune 2, 2021
With all due respect to Brother Howard, including in your daily offerings humorously-meant articles that reinforce all of the negative stereotypes of aging is not helpful to anyone. Fear of aging is the primary factor that feeds ageism in our world along with all of the devastation that it causes. Please seek out articles that promote positive aging just as your other articles promote positive gospel living. Thank you.
RitaJune 2, 2021
My grandmother lived a very long time, and her biggest complaint at her 100th birthday was not being able to hear or see the party we held for her. Losing her senses of sight and hearing left her unable to participate in daily life, and, at her death 5 years later, she was so grateful to be finally leaving to rejoin her husband. Grandpa had passed 40 years before. Old age is not for the weak, but for those strong enough to endure heartache, loss and physical/mental decline after a lifetime of work. At 68 myself, I am beginning to understand.
Blake GarsideJune 1, 2021
Jennifer, I can't thank you enough for this incredible and insightful look into HOW Temple doctrine developed and is realized for us today. Some of this information I knew about but so much that I didn't. I NOW have a great love and a greater appreciation for Wilford Woodruff's immense work for the dead and for us living today. As was the pattern in the early days of the Restoration, the NEED came about by INQUIRING of the Lord, PONDERING with FAITH then the Revelation was given. As we are pushed out of our Comfort Zones we are thankfully thrust into Growth Zones. For there is little comfort in growth zones and very little growth in comfort zones !! Looking forward to your Parts 2 & 3 for further light and knowledge.
RebeccaJune 1, 2021
We don't condone killing of toddlers or teenagers or elderly people who are inconvenient, or expensive. Why are babies different?
Steve DoneganJune 1, 2021
I’m concerned about this sentence, “ It is noteworthy that this revelation came to Wilford – one of the apostles – rather than Brigham Young, who was the Prophet and President of the Church.” The statement could remove from the mind of a reader the earlier statement that this was done with Brigham Young’s approval. The Bible Dictionary definition of “prophet” includes the idea that all of us can be prophets, but ... Only the president of the Church can set down prophecy for the Church. I would hate for someone to misconstrue the one sentence to believe Woodruff could set policy.
Marie HJune 1, 2021
How interesting. Is the author also a descendant of the Prophet Wilford Woodruff.
Harold RustJune 1, 2021
A most revealing historical account that connects each phase of restoring the Lord's way of uniting families through all generations. This story should be told more frequently by families to their children and by ward members to each other. A very unifying message regarding the fundamental purpose of life: prepare of to live eternally with our Father in Heaven. Thank you.
Beth CampbellJune 1, 2021
When I first read the heading, I thought that "more honest" was a ridiculous term. You are either honest or not. You know a half lie is still a lie. But as I listened to the podcast I realized that we all live in the grey area and that it's important to evaluate and make changes until we can honestly say we are less grey and walking towards a bright white.
Ronald BarnesJune 1, 2021
I have been a temple worker for 24 years. During that time, I have witnessed several adjustments to the ordinances and to temple procedures. I recently informed our Temple President that I will not be returning when our temple reopens. My wife’s health is declining and I felt inspired that I need to stay home with her. Not only do I encourage members to attend the temple, I also encourage them to become temple workers themselves..
Michael ColleyJune 1, 2021
Looking forward to reading more about this servant of God. Very inspiring.
David ShafferJune 1, 2021
Beautiful. And thought provoking. Thank you.
David Earl PerryMay 31, 2021
Frances and I believe, Lynne, that your gift from Heavenly Father is a blessing to us all. Thank you. May we all strive to have the image of purest love on our countenances.
Pattie SMay 31, 2021
I love love these stories. They are so inspiring.
Kerry FarrMay 31, 2021
A few years ago I was very anxious and depressed. One of my sons started sending me a joke every morning. At first I thought it was dumb, After a few days, I chuckled just a little. Pretty soon I was allowing myself to laugh out loud! A lot of things helped me, but this was one of the best
KathleenMay 30, 2021
Good summary of the past year+, and conclusions. We reap the benefits and peace of what we feed and how we choose to serve.
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 30, 2021
I was so interested reading about your Grandfather Facer in Texas. My father-in-law served in the Central States Mission from 1912-1914 or 15. He was also in the Houston area and especially Galveston. His name was David Cleveland Okelberry. I wonder if they knew each other.
Kari BurrMay 30, 2021
My husband and I enjoy your podcasts weekly. This one was particularly poignant, as we are all working on that purity of heart, bringing Zion into our personal realm. It's not easy! Elder Maxwell's talk was worth listening to, and I'd also especially love to find Pres. Oaks' talk, which was not easy--can you help me? Thank you for your insights. They always bless us immensely. So glad you followed that inspiration to put Meridian Magazine online....so many years ago!!!
Mary Ann TaylorMay 30, 2021
A grandson just expressed interest in Buddhism, and I recently heard a lecture that helped me explain the concepts you used above. And my stake is just south of the area where the two missionaries were killed in Texas. The interconnectedness of everything always amazes me.
JeanMay 30, 2021
You need to move on from hoping he will change and bring your life peace and joy. You've listed many reasons that this relationship is not healthy for you or your family. It seems like you are choosing misery and a companion. I hope you find the strength to be happy and single. Appreciate that you've invested years and keep the good memories, but move on towards creating new and healthy memories for your future without the pain he brings into your life. You can do this!
RoMay 30, 2021
I have been pondering on this very principle--that to love is to suffer; But love is also the catalyst to joy. Perhaps one of the most defining attributes of Divinity is the ability to absorb pain with those who suffer. I am in awe with how our Heavenly Parents must anguish with each of their children!
Bonnie CaldwellMay 30, 2021
It would be good to get the Palestinian perspective from someone like Saher Qumsiyeh, who teaches at BYU-I. Her book, Peace for a Palestinian, is an excellent read. We met her, as I’m sure you have as well, when we visited the Jerusalem center and also attended the Bethlehem “twig”.
Kenneth Stevens, MDMay 29, 2021
The word "galaxy" comes from "galacto" which means "milk". The Greek origin is "galaxias". Milky way Galaxy uses "milky" twice.
Mark DonaldsonMay 29, 2021
As members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, we of all people should recognize the turmoil caused by those who hate Jews and Israel as a sign that we are truly living in the latter times. We know the Savior will one day return and set his foot again on the Mount of Olives and ultimately recognize the Jews (Judah) as a chosen people...along with the other tribes of Israel. When I place my support for Israel and the Jewish people, I believe that I am standing up for a people who have been bullied and picked on unjustly for centuries. Last, I also hold that if I support the political party in America that supports Israel and the Jews, then I belong to the right party.
Ann-Marie JensenMay 28, 2021
Thank you for sharing your personal knowledge on this topic. I especially appreciate your quoting of Hamas’ charter.
Erik HansenMay 28, 2021
I'll say plainly and simply, "Good Job Brother Hess". From my experience this article is plain and correct and it was nice to meet your friend and see his accomplishment.
Jacque BrownMay 28, 2021
I enjoyed this article so much! It filled in the blanks of my knowledge of Brother Cowdery. My love for him has grown from our study of the Doctrine and Covenants this year, and this article really served to increase my knowledge in a way that brings me joy.
Blake GarsideMay 28, 2021
Thank you Maurine for your article. For 2 weeks, I trained in Migdal Haemek for an Israeli company where I worked and got to know my fellow associates in a very personal way. Their concerns and fears became my own for those 2 weeks and they even got to know all about my LDS faith, I was adopted into their culture especially when they found out my first name was Heber a real Jewish bibical name. I become pretty emotional when I hear Washington lawmakers use hate speech against God's chosen people and I see the faces of those I came to love and respect. I take comfort in Isaiah's words, Isaiah 49:13-17 THANK YOU MAURINE !!! . . .
Maryann TaylorMay 28, 2021
The mistake commonly made regarding our Heavenly Mother is the same mistake we make regarding the roles of men and women on earth. Their roles are NOT the same. Yes, they are one in purpose and their goals are identical. However, male and female roles are both very sacred, but different. Our Heavenly Mother is very engaged in bringing forth Spirit Children and preparing them for earth. I am sure she is also involved in MANY other sacred creative works as well. I have absolutely no doubt that she loves us and looks forward to our return (which to her is less than a day's length in time). However, we have been counseled by our leaders that we do not pray to her. The scriptures and our living prophets could not be any more consistently clear in their counsel that we pray ONLY to our Heavenly FATHER in the name of Jesus Christ. This clear pattern of prayer was repeatedly given to us by our Savior.
Maryann TaylorMay 28, 2021
I think there is a great lesson in this account. Don't enter into serious relationships with people that you are not compatible with. You may be actually shutting the door on the opportunity to find someone that you can truly love. I hope this woman can end the relationship and find someone she can find happiness with.
Michael Shea, MDMay 28, 2021
Having studied and practiced Buddhism (Theravada) as a lay person for years before returning to the Church, I firmly believe that the doctrine of non-attachment is not understood and not properly taught by many Western practitioners. In fact, Buddhists believe very strongly in love, compassion, empathy, and so on, and if one has those characteristics, grief is almost inevitable. The doctrine of non-attachment is more akin to the teaching of Paul, “Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: every where and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need.” (Phillippians 4:11-12, etc.)
Laura KellerMay 28, 2021
Thank you for being brave enough to speak truth and share your knowledge, experiences, and insight into this sad situation.
Barry HMay 28, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for your clear and sensible defense of Israel, Jews, and peaceful Palestinians from your perspective of much experience and many friends in the area. I have forwarded it on to others.
Karell BinghamMay 28, 2021
Some say that God rules the earth, and Satan rules the waters. This is ludicrous. God rules the world, the whole world, even the very dust of the earth and all the oceans and seas. Every drop of water is under his authority.
PjalMay 28, 2021
I think that tbe best option for both of you is to just be friends. Also, from someone who learned the hard way, if in doubt, don't.
Karell BinghamMay 28, 2021
I fear that President Nelson is right: "There are emissaries of Lucifer implanted among the people!" Is it just me or are there more emissaries than usual lately?
Teri K JohnstonMay 27, 2021
Excellent- thank you!
Maryann TaylorMay 27, 2021
The decision to no longer perform marriages for time only in our temples makes so much sense to me. I never could understand why it was done because our temples are places for eternal covenants.
Maryann TaylorMay 27, 2021
I closed my facebook account several months ago and have significantly limited my listening to, or viewing of, news or political programs. I am enjoying listening to more music, and I am feeling so much more peace. It is wonderful to be free from the constant drama in news and the clashing, raging opinions that change from one day to the next.
TamraMay 27, 2021
Thanks for sharing the numerous great things that many charity related organizations are doing to help so many people throughout the world. I might also add that a local charity organization, Hearts Knit Together provides many donated items to Domestic Abuse Shelters here in Utah.
Chuck SanfordMay 27, 2021
A few years ago, I held this calling in my stake: Addiction Recovery and Healing. I met some wonderful people in my class. Addiction to many physical and emotional things is the reality for many people. I am so very grateful to my Lord for helping people to endure and overcome these addictions, if they truly want to. For those who haven't reached that point yet, please turn to our Savior and keep at it. I so appreciate this account by this great guy, about him and his wife.
KerryMay 27, 2021
More likely the candy bar was named after the galaxy
PollyMay 27, 2021
Doing good. How are we furthering the New World Order agenda through COVID and vaccines? This is very ambiguous to me because it seems like a guise of humanitarianism. Through the COVID trauma they have made much progress in mind control. Are we upholding secret combinations? Why didn’t we donate life saving drugs like Ivermectin or hydroxcloroquine?
Richard SkousenMay 27, 2021
A delightful story! Thanks for sharing.
Marchia MariaMay 26, 2021
Pro Choice not Pro Abortion - an intended choice of words no doubt. All anti abortion legislation should insure that all avenues have been made available to women to receive assistance from youth to adulthood, education, medical and financial, to insure all pregnancies are cared for both mother and baby, and that all babies might come to full term should be the goal.
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 26, 2021
This is a very powerful story. It makes me even more appreciative and grateful for the Atonement of Jesus Christ and to know that we have Heavenly Parents who love us and care for us and rooting for us.
RealityMay 26, 2021
Only in America is this a political issue. In the rest of the first world it is between a woma n and her doctor. And it is so much more complex than you mako out, but it is good that you are not throwing stones or calling people baby killers. For example 70% of abortions in America are to women who are living below the poverty line, which means they can't afford birth control. 40% are morning after pill. There are about 600,000 abortions in America a year, but there are 248 million abortions in third world. When republicans are in power they cut funding to family planning services (aid) in third world countries. When democrats are in the fund this aid for birth control, which saves 48 million abortions a year. The best way to reduce abortions is by providing sex education, and affordable birth control. There are countries that have one third the rate Americas. They have universal healthcare, which provides free birth control. So America could reduce its number of Abortions from 600,000 to 200,000 a year with universal healthcare, and respect for and support of women.
JAMES P FOLEYMay 26, 2021
Another source is Donald Q. Cannon, "Latter-day Visions of the Savior," in Hearken, O Ye People: 1984 Sperry Symposium, Sandy, UT: Randall Book Co., 1984, pp119-131, where 22 people are named.
John B HewlettMay 26, 2021
Karl , you are such a blessing to the Kingdom. Thank you for sharing the miracles of Kirtland for the past 5 decades with members and others alike. It is a MOST significant part of the RESTORATION, and truthfulness of the RESTORED GOSPEL. Thank you
Frank MerrillMay 26, 2021
Our interpretation of GEM is "Give Everyone more." When our youngest son was about 9 years old he started a lemonade stand alongside a popular walking and biking trail in our area. He intentionally mixed the lemonade a little bit stronger than usual for extra flavor and froze a batch of mixed lemonade to make ice for the next day so the resulting lemonade wouldn't get watered down. He made a big sign that said something like "Best Mix on the Trail!" and sold his lemonade for 25 cents for a larger-than-normal 10 oz. cup. He also had a large rubbish bin nearby with a "recycle your cup here" sign. He kept a big transparent plastic jar on his table, "salted" with various coins and a few bills, that read "tip jar." As you might have guessed, his business was very popular, and he made more from tips than lemonade.
MaryMay 25, 2021
I love that as members of the LDS church we view life and the ability to create life as sacred. I do however wish that we as a community would take it a step further and be active in helping prevent abortions. There are things such as sex education, health care, and the reduction of poverty- all which reduce abortions. I feel like we have the understanding part down, maybe now we can get the action.
Deborah SummersMay 25, 2021
Great podcast ... enjoyed it very much.
Peter F SchlegelMay 25, 2021
Apparently the folks responding to this have NOT read the bill completely through- do not understand the constitution or both. It would totally destroy any bit of states rights we have left. Maybe read the articles of confederation and the amendments to the constitution. Too bad no of this is taught in a civics or govt class these days
D.L. AndersonMay 25, 2021
I firmly believe that its many of the Gary Wilsons in mortality who are more capable at times to get a point across because they are perceived as folks without any agenda but the truth of a subject/cause. I'm quite sure Gary received that embrace, enjoyed that parade, and indeed is being filled in on the things he missed out on in mortality
Kevin TheriotMay 25, 2021
Jacob, Thanks for posting this, and thank you for your excellent work as well! BFF Kevin Theriot PhD
Karell BinghamMay 25, 2021
I agree with what you have written, it was wonderful. I also might add that Adam (and all of us) were created in the image of God. Not only physically, but with the indication that we should live our lives that we indeed might grow into becoming the express image of (a) God, just like the Father and Mother!
Geoff SteurerMay 25, 2021
Thank you, Jacob, for this powerful and much-needed tribute for Gary. His work has had a huge influence on my thinking as well.
Helen CondonMay 25, 2021
As you may recall, I have lost 2 children to cancer. As I continue my journey towards becoming a Grief Life Coach I see so much material here. Thank you.
Kathleen N JonesMay 25, 2021
Thank you for acknowledgment that Oneness Relationships can be obtained in certain earthly marriages. I find I believe I had such a marriage. Many expressed how my husband and I were such a couple that truly expressed all aspects of teamwork and work separately equally together. The love and mutual respect and regard for one another was amazing. He now has gone ahead and I am still here learning, yet I feel his presence when needed. Yes, we do have heavenly parents. My question is why are we seeking more knowledge of them just now?
Sally SmithMay 24, 2021
An article to deeply reflect upon and to gain knew insight about eternal life. Thank you
AnnaMay 24, 2021
Thank you for articulating the major lesson we are to learn in this life-- to love even when it hurts. When I saw the article this morning, I, didn't know that by the time I read it, my firstborn would have left this life, our second child to die in five months. Grief is the price of having loved. May we live well and abide in faith until those tears are dried and hearts are healed. .
BeccaMay 24, 2021
What a beautifully written and passionate article. Thank you for enlightenment!
Dave RMay 24, 2021
"God, the Father of us all, uses the men of the earth, especially good men, to accomplish his purposes. It has been true in the past, it is true today, it will be true in the future." - Elder Ezra Taft Benson, General Conference April 1972 Elder Ezra Taft Benson "Civic Standards for the Faithful Saints", Ensign, July 1972, p. 59 where he quoted Elder Orson F. Whitney from a conference address delivered in 1928: "Perhaps the Lord needs such men on the outside of His Church to help it along. They are among its auxiliaries, and can do more good for the cause where the Lord has placed them, than anywhere else. . . . Hence, some are drawn into the fold and receive a testimony of the truth; while others remain unconverted, . . . the beauties and glories of the gospel being veiled temporarily from their view, for a wise purpose. The Lord will open their eyes in his own due time. God is using more than one people for the accomplishment of His great and marvelous work. The Latter-day Saints cannot do it all. It is too arduous for any one people . . . We have no quarrel with the Gentiles. They are our partners in a certain sense." (Conference Report, April 1928, p. 59.)
Helen CondonMay 24, 2021
Thank you for shining a light on a most remarkable man. I didn't even know he existed until today. I should tell you my own daughter left the Church when she was 18 & ended her life as a practicing pagan when she died from cancer 3 years ago. After her passing, one of her friends came to me & said she had dreamt of Larissa & wanted to give me the message that she understood me, now. So Gary understands you, now. :-)
LauraMay 24, 2021
Carolyn, Thank you for this excellent reminder, of something I’ve known but had trouble with “making myself” drink enough water. I wanted to share a recent simple discovery that has made it very easy for me to drink more than enough water. This is to drink warm water, not just room temperature. I heat the water up in the morning, put it in insulated containers (with a straw) so it stays warm all day. It’s amazing how much my body loves and craves this. Everything in my body is functioning better, including my eye sight!
Herm OlsenMay 24, 2021
One of my favorite all-time songs - beautifully done! But PLEASE also read the book ‘Amazing Grace’ by Eric Metaxis. Thanks for your great talents!!
Joyce WoolfMay 24, 2021
Thank you for this article. I too had a sorrow-filled week. I learned of the sudden passing of my wonderful cousin, Dave Babbel, a tremendous professor and mission president, and of the passing of Lynn and Perry Carter’s grandson. My sister, Cheryl, introduced the gospel to Lynn when they were in high school. I’d been pondering the pain that comes with caring. I appreciate your insights.
JaneMay 24, 2021
Well said, Brother Hess. Thank you for your beautiful tribute to a well-deserved soul and for allowing the rest of us to "meet" Gary Wilson and his great work.
Ronald BarnesMay 24, 2021
I once had a conversation with a non-member friend about "the rapture". I told him that, when the time comes, there will be many Christians standing on the ground watching their non-Christians neighbors being taken up; and wondering why.
Barbara FallickMay 23, 2021
Love is the great equalizer in life. Whether rich or poor, from any country, in any circumstance, we can all choose to love.
RebeccaMay 23, 2021
"I’m an enormous mountain of good with a few bad pebbles." It takes a lot of self-confidence to state something like that.
AlexMay 23, 2021
My thought is she believes you are valuing something more than her or not listening to her enough. Perhaps you should work on understanding her instead of judging her. Ask her what she needs and fulfill those needs and hopefully she'll return to a loving person.
Sirpa GriersonMay 23, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article. The center does hold and Christ is at the center. I was moved by your thoughts and grateful for your scholarship and commentary on this great and dreadful time that we are blessed to experience.
Pamela L RehderMay 22, 2021
Excellent article Mary, lest we forget or get lost in what we truly should be about.
CathrynMay 22, 2021
This study makes a case to never again enact lockdowns! I've often thought that many of the covid deaths that occurred in nursing homes could have been avoided with a family advocate and support for many patients. Already anxiety prone, alzheimer's & dementia patients were denied visits from loved ones, which likely caused greater anxiety, contributing to additional deaths. The Lord created us to need human connection spiritually, emotionallly, and physically. It is cruel to have kept loved ones apart this long time.
Greg HobbsMay 22, 2021
Thx you for your God inspired sermon on what it means to always remember Him. What a Supernal gift from a Loving Father.
Lana.WellsMay 22, 2021
Thank you so much for enlightening this person of little doctrinal knowledge.Tomorrow's Sacrament will be different. Now I truly have food for thought.
Dr. Trina Boice (Movie Review Mom)May 21, 2021
Yay! I'm so glad to hear you enjoyed it! It's one of those hidden gems on Netflix. Thanks for your comments!
Cap CresapMay 21, 2021
To remember someone you must know him or her first. To truly remember the Savior Alma 37:9 is a requirement. Strangely this scripture about knowing the Savior is never quoted or refered to except in the 4th article of faith.
Helen MeekMay 21, 2021
As my "remembering surges and wanes, I appreciate your article to ponder about my relationship with My Saviour. Thankyou
Loraine WhettenMay 21, 2021
In addition to Wendy Nelson, who would you invite to speak at UVU Campus? Just asking.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
I feel bad for this brother. He doesn't give us very much information, and it would be interesting to hear his wife's point of view. If she is truly unwilling to work on the marriage, I can't help but wonder why he chooses to stay. It seems like self-inflicted unhappiness for the rest of his life. Somewhere out there is a good single woman who would truly love him.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
YES! We are here to learn to love. There is an even higher law of love for our fellowman than "Love they neighbor as thyself." The highest law of love that Jesus gave to love one another is: "Love one another, AS I HAVE LOVED YOU."
RFMay 21, 2021
One of my favorite quotes related to this topic comes from a talk by C. Terry Warner. He said something like this..."Satan does not need to overpower us to win the war, he just needs to get us to adopt his way of fighting it."
LindaMay 21, 2021
CRT is being taught in schools almost everywhere, except in red states. Even then, it can creep in by liberals. Don't think it's not taught at BYU because it certainly is by some professors. Open your eyes, people!
Joanne KappMay 21, 2021
In the last few years, I have been more deeply yearning to "Remember Him" and to "Hear Him". I have struggled with that because I felt as though I wasn't finding the success I wanted. This article, Brother and Sister Frogley, gave me a completely different perspective. I thought to myself, "I can do that". Thank you.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
HA! Oh, how true! I need Him EVERY second!
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
Thank you so much for your great courage and humility in being willing to share this with us! You are a beautiful example that the Lord has power to change every one of us and we should never give up. Thank you for reminding us that we are ALL of great worth--more than we can even fully comprehend in this life.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
Your words reflect the great yearning in my heart, and the hearts of many, to be more like our Savior and to reflect his light and love. It gives me great comfort when I am so aware of my own imperfections and weaknesses, to know that the Savior IS perfect and I can draw from HIS perfection and HIS great power and strength.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
I think the phrase "that in patience ye may possess your souls" is an interesting one to contemplate. To me, it also suggests that as we seek to follow our Savior, we must also be patient with ourselves and our weaknesses, while continuing to strive for improvement. I am comforted by the fact that the Sacrament prayer speaks of being "willing," not perfect: "..that they are willing to take upon them the name of thy son, and always remember him and keep his commandments which he has given them..." (D&C 20:77) As we repent and prepare to partake of the sacrament, it is encouraging to know that there is a different between worthiness to partake and absolute perfection.
Maryann TaylorMay 21, 2021
Sweet story---anyone who would be so patient with a cranky Grandma sounds like a real winner. I hope the future holds great things for them!
LauraMay 21, 2021
Thank you Scot and Maurine for this rich and encouraging discussion. I am so grateful for the archetypes that we have access to—of language, history and example—in our restored gospel tradition, that truly show us the Way to go. O Zion, dear Zion. My heart is inspired by your discussion to keep repenting and purifying myself, so I can be of some small service in the building of Zion right where I stand.
CJB againMay 21, 2021
I’m pondering the beautiful example of not having the heart to engage in the conversation because of your tender concern for your daughter.
Terry DickensMay 21, 2021
What a wonderful article. Likening our memories of our earthly father is most helpful in understanding a little better "remembering Him." Thank you for this thought provoking and powerful article.
Karell BinghamMay 21, 2021
I just love you two! I have thought lately that Zion is a Holy City filled with a holy people. The definition of holy is, "set apart for a sacred purpose." That seems to help me align my path: If am worthy to live in Zion, I am set apart for a sacred purpose: God's purpose. Now if I could just keep that in mind in my daily life! Thanks!
Karl FarnsworthMay 20, 2021
I think that I shall never see A poem lovely as a tree. A tree whose hungry mouth is pressed againgt the earth's sweet flowing breast ; A tree that looks at God all day And lifts her leafy arms to pray; A tree that may in summer wear A nest of robins in her hair; Upon whose bosom snow has lain; who intimately lives with rain. Poems are made by fools (men) like me, But only God can make a tree. (Joyce Kilmer)
EthelMay 20, 2021
Thank you so much for your testimony. God loves us no matter where we are or who we are. I wish you the best. It is great that you were brave enough and had the courage to share with us all. Only until you want in someone else's shoes do you really know what it is like... thank you
Wendy J BrownMay 20, 2021
Thank you for creating such a beautiful piece of music - and for making it able to be downloaded. A copy is now sitting on our piano - and the music is filling our hearts (on this snowy day in May!) - reminding me to keep an eternal perspective - and to try to reflect His image in my countenance. Thank you. Our lives are enriched by you, your gift and your sharing of this gift!
cdMay 20, 2021
Love her wisdom and example. Thank you for sharing!
Diane L AndersonMay 20, 2021
One of my first reads this morning was this wonderful article My heart resonated with the author and all she had experienced. Indeed, being in the midst of nature brings one into the presence of God feeling His joy, power and love. Thank you~
PaulineMay 20, 2021
So sad Martha, and Washington state passed it as mandatory; so sad.
Linda WetoverMay 20, 2021
What a lovely new hymn! I have long enjoyed your music, but this one really touches a chord deep in my heart. Thank you so much for sharing your gift to bless the lives of others!!
ChrisMay 19, 2021
I'm excited for this series of articles. I learned late in life that my belief in Heavenly Parents didn't change the way I lived my life until I finally had experiences with them. Experience changed my heart and changed me... This belief is the most basic and foundational of the restoration, but it seems that so many of us don't live our lives like we really believe it. We can't understand God, we can only experience Him...and we can know that "God is love". Most of the time that's good enough.
Alece ReynoldsMay 19, 2021
Amen, Martha. I have been appalled to learn about BYU administrators and professors — including the President of the University—adopting principles of CRT at the Lord’s University. CRT is Marxist and replaces class with race in order to divide populations and cause chaos.
tfMay 19, 2021
Somebody's just making this one up, right?
Louis MidgleyMay 19, 2021
Professor Peterson's careful attention to the work of R. Lanier (Lanny) Britsch makes certain that his comments are based on solid scholarship. Lanny is the leading expert on the Church of Jesus Christ in Hawaii. and also on the the places in the Pacific where there are Latter-day Saints, including also Australia and New Zealand.
APRIL FEARMay 19, 2021
Communist countries always want to get the children away from their parents as early as possible, because beliefs and behaviors are instilled during the first 5 years of life. If the government controls the child's beliefs, parental authority and religion can be stomped out.
ShaunaMay 19, 2021
Thank you for your courage in sharing your story. Agency is sacred to our Heavenly parents but so is accountability what an amazing dream/revelation you had.
Anna KeoghMay 19, 2021
Thank you, thank you for every sincere word you wrote that went right into my heart.
Chuck SanfordMay 19, 2021
I'm very glad this sister has turned her life around by becoming closer to her Heavenly Father. Sometimes church members in this situation don't change, and remain locked in destructive behavior cycles. I was a home teacher for three men incarcerated in a federal prison. Despite the efforts of our Heavenly Father (and my efforts), they did not change, although one guy was starting to change when he was transferred from prison in Texas to prison in California. I truly hope he repented and made the change.
PamelaMay 19, 2021
Loved this article!! She described the truths that we all need to come to understand in our life’s journey.
JRyMay 19, 2021
Thanks you for sharing your experiences. I kept thinking of what God tells us. That all these experiences shall be for your good. I am sure he will use your experiences and you can help many people. I have an aunt who went to prison. She could have helped others. Instead, she lives a very solitary life. How much better it is too help other people by sharing! Thank you.
Helen CondonMay 19, 2021
Fascinating! Scott and I knew a man named Clayton Kalaenuimanomano Woolley in Portland. He was my Bishop at the time and his youngest son was our Best Man. I wonder if he was related to the Woolley mentored in this story?
TraceyMay 18, 2021
Maryann Taylor-----I'm fairly sure she used her clothing to help drive home her point. I don't think it was a random choice from her closet. I took a class once on rhetorical techniques and I remember color usage as being one of them. It's been quite a while. We had to write essays on how color was used in visual presentations, movies, videos, music videos, commercials, etc. It's quite interesting to notice it and analyze what they are trying to say, non-verbally.
DaveyMay 18, 2021
Excellent article. We must fight against CRT, and idea that most likely came from the adversary given its potential to seriously harm our nation.
Vivian M AdamsMay 18, 2021
An amazing, well thought out piece of work. Thank you for your study and inspiration.
Tom SchumannMay 18, 2021
Critical Race Theory is a Marxist inspired doctrine, which has been deliberately injected into our society to set people against each other. The point is to lead to the societa division and chaos necessary for communist takeover to be successful, much as 'agrarian reform was successfully used in China.. Add to this the 1619 project, which teaches that the founding of this nation was based on slavery rather than on freedom, create in our youth loathing of rather than love of our country and its founding princess. These are both elements of the 'unrestricted warfare' launched against this country by those who seek its overthrow.
vickieMay 18, 2021
wow what a read. thank you. i have to share this that i have noticed. i have seen a sort of tribalism coming about where people who are of like cultures even and especially in America want to band together. instead of becoming American and united they want to separate themselves off from the rest of the population. when i speak of cultures i speak of many different cultures i see doing this. i remember going to germany as a child and to england as an adult. in germany the language separated us. in england the language was the same but the culture was different. in both cases the americans sent there for military duty banded together whether they were black or white or hispanic or anything else. as long as they were sent form america we were united. in america however, we are not united these days. we are so divided, each one fighting for their own culture declaring racism as their reason for doing so. i wish it werent so, but it is and its happening more and more.
Andrew R.May 18, 2021
I await the series with anticipation. However, the underlying belief appears to be that there is one Heavenly Father and one Heavenly Mother for planet Earth. Whilst this may very well be true, it does not have to be. How would it change things if there was more than one?
DMTMay 17, 2021
I love this true story! I love how this young woman felt the Spirit and went with it, instead of questioning and doubting, and putting off what turned out to be life changing opportunities. I love how an American family sponsored and helped this eager and enthusiastic young woman! Americans have so much more than most in the world. As 3 times ex-pats, we love getting to know people around the world. Thanks for this uplifting article!
DaveyMay 17, 2021
Very insightful article. CRT will only increase race-based contention between people. It is such a bad idea on so many levels that I am surprised that certain politicians think it is a good idea. I honestly think Satan is putting this idea into people's minds -> broad sweeping bad ideas that are viewed as 'good' usually come from the adversary.
SherriMay 17, 2021
This is fantastic! I love it so much! My granddaughter loved the first video and can’t wait to watch more!
StephanieMay 17, 2021
Great story. Very inspirational. Where is Irina today?
Martha GutierrezMay 17, 2021
This is such a good article but it’s contradictory to what BYU is adopting for their standards. I just read their CRT adoption policy and their desire for equity. It’s almost like a a double standard don’t you think? I’m a BYU alumni and I can’t understand what’s really happening with this CRT theory. We need to stand up for more Christ love and not conform to the theories of the world.
AyseMay 17, 2021
This is such an inspiring story at this time of history. With all the negative news, this one is not and a thrill to read. Thank you.
Helen CondonMay 17, 2021
So much “wisdom born of pain.” (Helen Reddy, “I Am Woman”)
ToriMay 17, 2021
Amen, Nicholeen. Thank you for pointing out the immediate harm this ideology has on our children and on our society.
Helen CondonMay 17, 2021
As I seem to pursue my own dreams of beginning a grief Coach these are the words I needed this morning, “if it was right, her Heavenly Father provide.” Thank you.
Pauline HarryMay 16, 2021
Wow Seattle! We live in Kent. Great hearing your story and jealous about the Jerusalem opportunity. Inspiring though and very happy for you and yours!
Maryann TaylorMay 15, 2021
This was so sweet and beautiful. I have to chuckle a bit--I wonder if she thought about the fact that she was wearing black and white?
MaryMay 15, 2021
Great article, thanks for sharing! I have so much respect for this woman.
Pauline Bennion HarryMay 14, 2021
We need to be "wise as serpents, harmless as doves."
Maryann TaylorMay 14, 2021
The fact that the husband admits he still has feelings for his old flame is the deal breaker here in establishing a relationship with her daughter, who is now an adult. This man needs to concentrate on his own wife and children. Period. Most likely this woman knew the man was married and she may try and use her daughter to get to him. NO WAY!
CCMay 14, 2021
Right on. Someone who pursues someone else's husband or wife will not give up easily, and so the responses to her have to be firm and strong and then block her phone numbers and emails.
RuthMay 14, 2021
This story really touched me. How amazing that such an awful day could turn out to be one of the best, with a shift in perspective. Also, I love that Becky had homeopathic medicines to help with the diarrhea!
Julie ArcherMay 14, 2021
Thank you for all of these inspiring articles! They have been incredibly thought provoking and are priceless wisdom treasure for our day.
Catherine GardnerMay 14, 2021
Alarm bells are screaming in my head at this request from an old fiancé. The advice given is absolutely spot on. This lady is not reconnecting for a passing nod and a wave. She has blatantly stated she wants to meet up and renew the relationship she had with your husband. Of course both he and she won't look the same but it only takes one determined person to wreck your marriage. If your husband cannot accept the past is the past then you have a fight on your hands.
Dennis the MenaceMay 13, 2021
Perhaps it would be helpful for those of us passing judgement on those who have or have not had the Covid shot to read and ponder Doctrine and Covenants Section 64 verse 9.
L. PetersonMay 13, 2021
Thank you for the wonderful article!
Linda WillisMay 13, 2021
It's unfortunate that Dr. Nelson was rejected for who she is rather than the content of her address. How ironic that a beautiful message on avoiding contention in our personal and public lives was not heard by those in need of it.
PatMay 13, 2021
Narrow minded people do not like anyone’s opinion except theirs. We can only get to know each other better if we listen to others. We DON’T have to always agree with them.
LindaMay 13, 2021
So the "left" is in favor of identification proving that a person has been vaccinated? Hmmm. What about voter i.d.? That's even more important a d they won't stand for it!!! Hypocrites.
Michele BaerMay 13, 2021
Very well written. The calm discussion to appreciate all sides of differing views is the path to bring succes and happiness. Thank you for expressing this so eloquently.
Maureen GaleMay 13, 2021
That is the most compelling, cohesive, and persuasive article I've read in a long time. Let's be for shedding full light on each argument (or better stated, point of view) and see where it leads. Jesus never shied away from letting His truths be known, even when it led to martyrdom. He only stopped lovingly persuading when he knew no hearts would be softened.
Elizabeth SmithMay 13, 2021
I'm a picky reader--former English teacher and editor. This is a powerful series. Four months after finishing it, I still find it helpful and hopeful. It fleshes out some scripture, is consistent with prophecy, is deftly written.
DanielleMay 13, 2021
I have enjoyed these articles so much and reread each of them several times. Becky and Jolanta are both truly extraordinary! (I look forward to learning more about Thomas n future articles too.) Thank you so much for sharing with us!
David DurfeeMay 13, 2021
Extraordinarily interesting. That same council would have probably excommunicated Emma Smith. It was a difficult and uncertain time for everyone, and no one was perfect.
Karell BinghamMay 13, 2021
Scott and Marine, you always inspire me, I would love to meet you some day! Here is one little thought that I have about kneeling across the altar. The altar symbolizes sacrifice. This perhaps indicates that those who are being sealed across the altar of sacrifice are to remember that they are expected to sacrifice for each other. AND when a sacrifice is made for the other, she or he needs to recognize that sacrifice with gratitude!
LewisMay 13, 2021
I continue to be incredibly impressed by Jolanta and her courage. To be taken from the life you have known and be uprooted, carried to a strange country with strange people must have been terrifying. She is an example to all of us. As are you, Becky. You didn’t have to do any of this, but you answered the promptings of the spirit. May God bless your life, as you have blessed the lives of so many.
Becky DouglasMay 13, 2021
Thank you for your kind words, Robert! Anyone with nine little ones is a hero of mine! I think I can personally vouch for how challenging that is, and also, for how rewarding that is! You have a good eye. Thomas, Jolanta's brother is, indeed, the second from the right in the picture. We've been focusing on Jolanta's experience in these past few articles. One more article on Jolanta, and then we will focus on Thomas's experience, which in many ways was the polar opposite. Just making sure that we never got bored . . ..
HarrietMay 13, 2021
This is a well thought out perspective. Thank you for writing it. I agree with the article, we need to come back to the time when ideas can be freely expressed. It is amazing what we can learn from one another when we are willing.
Frank MerrillMay 13, 2021
Perhaps my life is too simple. If someone whose opinion I don't wish to hear is speaking at an event, I don't attend the event. Should I decide to attend the event anyway, perhaps in the interest of widening my horizon, my reaction to that event is purely my own and I have no responsibility or prerogative to express my own reaction to anyone else. Continuing that simplicity and exercising my agency, I may decide to watch another film or television program in the event I do not choose to view or hear any more of the event I had been viewing, but exercising that agency does not authorize me to express my decision to anyone else.
John BerenyiMay 13, 2021
What a great article. I learned much from this. Thank you!
AnonymousMay 12, 2021
When your spouse takes joy in causing you pain then it's time to quit. Told my soon to be ex that he hurt my feelings and he laughed in my face. Video games and porn very much killed my marriage.
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Jason is an amazing teacher. I have great memories of him teaching our small group of songwriters, at our local chapter of NSAI (Nashville Songwriters Assoc. International) , a couple of times. His work with Nashville Tribute has been a blessing in my life.
PatMay 12, 2021
It is always special for me to read of remarkedly good events as well as to read and feel the writers' emotions pertaining to stories like this one. By the same token, testimonies are always welcome to my mind. Knowledge of the gospel has given me the opportunity to smile, cry, wonder, as well as enjoy its truthfulness. Thank you for this example of strength and fortitude.
Timothy D JohnsonMay 12, 2021
When Brigham Young fist announced the food storage program, he said "seven years food storage". In my grandfather's time is was three years. In the 70's, one year good two years better. In the 90's, one year. Then in the early part of this century we were told to reduce it to three months but still keep working on the one year supply. Where else in the scriptures did God keep lowering the standards before He finally sent the "kaboom" down. I worry that He has given us reduced amounts out of patience. But patience only goes so far when so many members of the Church who have the means to obtain their food storage dismiss it as unimportant. One man argued that we need to concentrate of spiritual things rather than temporal things. But remember it says in the D&C that all His commandments are spiritual. In closing, Brigham Young also said "even if we do it half right we will have enough bread to feed ourselves and all the gentiles who come to us". Quotes from Brigham Young are from Discourses of Brigham Young
Linda WillisMay 12, 2021
This article is packed full of wisdom from on high and can be a game changer for many. I have read Wally's articles for years and everyone has been a winner. This one is a home run!
Allison TullisMay 12, 2021
I hapoen to work for Head Start as a preschool teacher. We are a high-quality preschool program, not a daycare. This has always been a misconception about Head Start. And to say it is a failure is not at all accurate. The good we do to help our families, as well as our children, is the definition of success, not failure. I would like to know where you came up with calling our program a failure.
Nancy Holley JolleyMay 12, 2021
My Great Grandfather was also part of the same Hunt Company. The sacrifices they made strengthen me today...I can do hard things! Grateful for those who kept journals and strengthen us.
DaniMay 12, 2021
First, thank you to those that are willing to give kind, loving care to those children whose parents do not have the option of having at least one parent able to stay home. I was blessed to be able to be a "stay at home mom" for a number of years. Instead of using these huge amounts of money to push children out of the home, why not use it to enable one parent the option to stay home and raise their children in a loving, caring environment. This makes future generations who are a positive influence for their communities and society in general. Selfishness and greed have become increasingly the norm and therefore encouraged behavior. It was truly irritating and disappointing that if I sent my children to daycare there was a tax break, however in choosing to be at home with my children there was no additional tax advantage. Yes, it was a struggle financially, but I was there. No one will love your children as much as you. A "basic income" would be more useful than pushing children out of their homes. Again I know all too well the struggle for single parent homes, and homes where both parents are forced to work, just to make ends meet-- sometimes even that is a terrible struggle. So again, I am so grateful to those loving souls who are truly CARING for the children who need them while parents are unable to be there. Thank you and so much gratitude. I pray we can come together and push for families to have the ability to care for and nurture their children. I pray for them and for those who willingly and compassionately step up to help those who sincerely need that extra help and support.
SebMay 12, 2021
Another contributor to the increased inflation has not been mentioned in the article: The printing of trillions of dollars. The FED has printed more than $10 trillion in the last twelve months. Guess how inflation is defined. It’s not an increase in consumer prices but an increase in the supply of money.
John R CarpenterMay 12, 2021
"Educate and arm yourself and your children with the truth. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “There comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but he must take it because conscience tells him it is right.” It’s time to call out critical race theory for what it is, employ every means possible to end its use, and model the true rejection of racism by building “bonds of genuine friendship” through love and service to all." AMEN AND AMEN!
Gaye Jones WillisMay 12, 2021
Clark, thank you for this wonderful article. Mary was an amazing example to all and her posterity need the world. I hope you and your family are well.
StephaniMay 12, 2021
This movie was hilarious! My kids have watched it every day since we watched it as a family. My husband and I laughed through the whole thing. At the end, I appreciate that they weren't in your face about her being a lesbian. Just a brief mention of a potential girlfriend. Most kids won't even catch it. Mine certainly didn't.
David BarkdullMay 12, 2021
Br Hinkley, enjoyed your story. I come from a very similar heritage. My great great grandparents, Thomas and Ann Oakey were baptized by Wilfford Woodruff, emmigrated in 1856 and travelled with the Willie company. Their 11 year old daughter was the last to die in that company the night before they entered the valley. As yours is, their story too is humbling for all that they went through. Like you, in 2006, my father, brother and I honored their names by spending 4 days out on the trail hiking between the Ice Slough and Rock Creek Hollow on the days, 150 years later that they did. It was an amazing experience and mother nature did not disappoint us providing an ice cold snow filled night with straight line winds. Even though we camped in our tent, we had a gas heater and plenty of extra wool blankets and good food. Like yours, It was an experience we will always remember. I have also just finished my own book, 428 pages of my Oakey ancestors and their trip to Utah and Idaho and their lifes here. I was the logical lead for three stake treks in the past 12 years and know that stretch of the pioneer trail well. One year Jolene Alphin arranged for some of your Pace relatives, two sisters to Margerie (and their names slip me now) came to our stake and spoke to our youth about their family's experiences on the trail. They even brought a large visual display object for everyone to see. It was quite a memorable evening. Thank you for sharing your family's story. It is nice to read about others who share the same passion and convictions.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
Beautiful article about the depth of our Heavenly Father's love for each of us. The more messed up our lives are, the more He wants to help us! How sad when we withdraw from Him because of embarrassment or guilt. I have come to sense who my Heavenly Father is through the Holy Ghost as I read the scriptures and pray. I also feel His love reflected through the love and kindness of others. I feel his love when I ponder the beauties of nature and all that He has provided for us. Every breath I take is a gift from Him. He is constantly proclaiming His love for us every day if we have eyes to see and ears to hear.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
Great advice! As we learned in the pandemic, it doesn't take long for shelves to empty. We need to be prepared--especially with food and water. It is very comforting to know that in the event of a disaster, you will not go hungry or suffer from thirst. The Lord has given us counsel to prepare and we need to act.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
I realize some woman have no choice--they must work to support their families. I respect and admire them for the heavy burden they carry. However, those who do not really need to work are missing out on so much. It breaks my heart to think of so many little ones spending long hours every day away from home. NO ONE can love or care for children the way a mother can. When our children were growing up, we often were stretching to make ends meet, but I am so grateful I was able to care for my children at home. Looking back, it gives me peace and great satisfaction to know I was able to put my children first. I was the one to see them take their first steps and say their first words. I was the one who was there for them when they were afraid, sick, or just needing a mom's touch. What a blessing.
Maryann TaylorMay 12, 2021
My husband and I have been married almost 51 years. Yesterday he sent me a text: "I love thinking about you." Little things like this melt a woman's heart! I believe that continually expressing love and appreciation is a key to a happy marriage. I also loved the advice here in this article about having your notebook ready during prayer to write down inspiration for your marriage. This is in harmony with President Nelson's counsel. One of the great truths I have learned over the years is that it is not my job to "fix" my husband. My job is to love him, encourage him, and overlook his weaknesses.
Donald E.May 11, 2021
The First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles have received the COVID-19 vaccine. The church is spending sacred funds to help other nations afford the vaccine for their populations. The church encourages vaccinations per the Handbook: Vaccinations administered by competent medical professionals protect health and preserve life. Members of the Church are encouraged to safeguard themselves, their children, and their communities through vaccination. Ultimately, individuals are responsible to make their own decisions about vaccination. If members have concerns, they should counsel with competent medical professionals and also seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost. I've followed the Prophet's example on this one. People who are willing to put the health of so many others at risk for their own political views do not get my sympathy when they are called out for it.
Earl P Chantrill (Please withhold my name)May 11, 2021
I and several of my family members have not been vaccinated for COVID because of an inherited medical condition. I resent being told that I am a "holdout" and putting others a risk. We have taken this action because of medical advice. We have no reason to believe that we have been exposed to COVID.
SherryMay 11, 2021
You can not base the effects of childcare solely on Quebec’s experiences. There’s is vastly different than BC where we have excellent childcare enabling Mother’s and Father’s to go to work confident their children are safe. The problem lies in qualified child care... one must have the qualifications, and the facility must meet requirements. My daughter ran a childcare and those children grew up well established. She had to meet federal guidelines and expectations... my niece also runs one... childcare is often the only way a family can work. To label childcare centres breeding grounds for ill behaved children or children with social issues is so unfair. I’m assuming you chose Quebec because it met the criteria for your article. Had you chosen to truly investigate you would see that BC is vastly different on all levels... in Quebec children with special needs are not allowed in public school... here they are and are given aides to help them. Had this been the rule for my hearing impaired child, he would had to have gone to s Special school and not known how to interstate with regular society nor would other children know how to form friendships with him. He now has a very good job and you would never know he was hearing impaired. Had he gone to a Special School I truly believe he would be on Federal Aide... even our healthcare is far better than Quebec. So please if your going to write an article on childcare look into more than one example... I always value the articles here but this one disappoints seriously... Mom’s and Dad’s especially single need our help. What would you expect them to do? Leave their kids alone at home? Employers won’t pay for childcare... nor should they...those of us who can afford to pay the taxes to help out those who struggle are doing exactly what the Saviour asks us to do!! What you should be suggesting is making sure this money isn’t squandered, and misused. Not condemning the children who need it to a life that by your view is doomed. I’m so very disappointed. Why don’t you come and inspect the childcare system here in BC? Then rewrite your article.
David DurfeeMay 11, 2021
If anti-vaxxers were putting only their own health and lives at risk, it would be one thing. But they are not. It is truly the same as someone who, despite gentle rhetoric and kind encouragement, steadfastly insists on having the freedom to drive while drunk around my family members and friends. Tell me again how I'm supposed to respond. After orchestrating worldwide fasting and prayers for God to help in the effort against Covid, President Nelson got vaccinated. I'm following the example of a true and living Prophet of God.
PamMay 11, 2021
I have chosen at this time to wait to receive the vaccine. I had Covid in January and it was just a mild cold for me. 1) I have had 2 heart Ablations to cure heart arrhythmia, so that makes me very hesitant to risk taking a vaccine with that side affect. 2) I have Multiple Sclerosis that is in remission. For me the risk of an immune changing vaccine is not worth it. Would you risk being paralyzed to avoid a cold? I do not get flu shots or pneumonia shots because of the risk of my MS going out of remission. We need to not judge others when we do not know all their issues.
Karell BinghamMay 11, 2021
I just remember reading once of a daycare teacher who sat the little ones in a circle around her. She then asked each of them their favorite place to go. The most unanimous answer given: home.
Branna ParkMay 11, 2021
I agree that abstaining from getting the vaccine for political reasons would be foolish. However, EVERY person I have spoken to who has refused the vaccine or is waiting to get it is doing so based on science, not politics. I know both liberals and conservatives who are not getting the vaccine. (And I know both liberals and conservatives who have.) Many (most?) of the unvaccinated have spent months following the research, studying the science, learning all they can about this vaccine. I'd like to add, too, that a vaccine itself can create a breeding ground for mutations. The unvaccinated will always be blamed for outbreaks and mutations, but so often it is the vaccinated that is at fault. Most people have absolutely no understanding of this, however, and simply trust the narrative rather than doing the research. And I don't fault them for that, because they simply don't know that there is an alternative narrative to research. I like to compare it to missionary work. The investigator says, "I know the Book of Mormon isn't true." "How do you know? Have you read it?" "No, I don't have to read it. I just know." Well, you don't just know, and you'll never know the truth unless you actually read it. Some people might say that their pastor tells them it's not true. Well, how many pastors have actually read it? And here is where it gets a little touchy. People trust their pastors, just like people trust their doctors. But what most people don't realize is that most doctors haven't studied vaccine safety and efficacy. They, also, are simply quoting the narrative. One has to actually question the narrative and do the research before he'll get any real answers to the question.
Ed GayhartMay 11, 2021
Pretty simple. People running a kiddy kennel don’t love your kids.
MaryMay 11, 2021
Some women don't have a choice but to work so I would see Bidens proposal benefiting them. As much as I would love to believe in a perfect world where where life works out perfectly, for some that just isn't the case. Life can be convoluted and messy. As for Josh Hawley, I would be interested in an article where you do present some of his policies.
Robert W CowartMay 10, 2021
Becky as the father of nine little ones I find it hard to find the right words to express my admiration for your Christ like love and action for Yolanta and her brother. I know there will be some special times later when as a family on the other side you all reflect on these mortal experiences.I have to ask is that Yolantas brother in the middle of the 2 bigger boys. He looks like her.
Edi WinbergMay 10, 2021
What a beautiful story. Thanks so much for sharing. What a beautiful family you have and what a blessing you and your husband are in their lives. I pray that the Lord will continue to bless you and your family.
DorrieMay 10, 2021
I did ordinance work for an aunt who had been the "black sheep" of her family-rebellion, alcoholism, you name it. In doing her initiatory work, I felt her spirit there, joyful and full of gratitude. The veil is very thin but not only in the temple. I lost a son when he was 47. He was the "go to" guy who could fix, build or invent just about anything. and his hand was always extended to help others. There have been times when I've been stymied by a mechanical or technical problem and I've said" Son, this would be so easy for you, could you give me a little help?" And, somehow things would go together. Did I pray to him? Of course not, I just said what I would have if he were still here. Did I worship him? Absolutely not! He's just another of the Lord's angels who has always been willing to do His work.
Jackson BartonMay 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing. My heart has been filled with overwhelming love and compassion. Brave w omen!
Terry MahaffeyMay 10, 2021
Thank you for the thoughtful article. People can be hateful when not agreed with. As one who has decided to wait to learn what the long term consequences of the "vaccine" turn out to be I am grateful for your reasoned approach to the discussion of the pros and cons of the "vaccine". The general public has been brainwashed by the lack of clarity on what they are really putting into their bodies.
P HMay 10, 2021
I'd like to say, from a perspective of having had two serious virus infections in my life, one causing effects over 66 years (and to which only the resurrection will ultimately resolve the issues inflicted) that there is another reason not mentioned. That is, if people have been vaccinated against the mumps, measles, small pox, polio, shingles, and any other number of diseases and their resistance to the Covid vaccine is due solely to political ramifications (because they took their que from politicians rather than medical professionals), then they are not really selfish---they are foolish. When Moses held up the Brazen Serpent people refused to look at it at their own peril. It's easy to think they were foolish and I can't help but feel this is similar. It's their choice and I would never force any action upon them, but that doesn't mean they have chosen wisely in making their decision. Those (like me) who know of personal friends that have perished from Covid have a difficult time seeing the prevention efforts being ignored in favor of some assumptions that are political in nature. That's the nature of personal freedom, though. Defensiveness isn't necessary on either side to try and convince the non-convincible. It is what it is..
JessMay 10, 2021
It’s strange how the people who feel like this- that people who are hesitant about the vaccine won’t acknowledge the why behind the hesitation. The fact that the pharmaceutical companies have each been fined what adds up to Billions of dollars for fraud and covering up adverse clinical trial results in order to get a drug to market- then later been sued (and lost) because of the harm the drug caused and this same scenario has played out multiple times- so they’re repeat offenders & clearly not remorseful of the the lives that were affected or taken by the blatant dishonesty, doesn’t inspire a lot of confidence in a vaccine. Especially when they would now not be held liable for any harm or deaths caused by this vaccine. The lack of honesty and accountability should give everyone pause to consider- even if they eventually chose to receive a vaccine, but it is something that should be taken into consideration.
KarinaMay 10, 2021
I love this story!!! Thank you so much for sharing. Wow!!! and to think about how many times I've complained about doing chores around the house and taking care of children. I have no troubles at all after reading your story. Thank you for being a great example of Christ-like love! Blessings for you and your family.
JustinMay 10, 2021
Thank you for posting this here! I've seen the level of this vitriol in comments made in more liberal publications, and was just STUNNED at how we've gotten to this point. I have not been vaccinated, after having looked hard at the science relating COVID and not seeing any benefit to myself or others over my contracting and fighting it naturally, and having seen a politicization of (and freedom of liability from) the vaccine. More concerning is the effort to squelch the negative side effects of the vaccines, minimal as they may be in numbers, which paints a rosy picture, diminishes honest research into the vaccine, and tosses aside any consideration for long-term effects. We are the human trials. We should give some consideration for the "control group". And nobody is professionally allowed to point out that the vaccine does not prevent you from getting COVID, or that it doesn't cover mutations - akin to a flu situation. I fear that "fear" has taken hold, and is being exploited politically and emotionally.
JowoMay 10, 2021
So much hatred, anger and vitriol over a shot. And what about the next plague and the next one and....Satan is clever, very very clever. Part of the concept of infinity is an infinite number of ways to attack agency. Thank you for this article.
PaulineMay 10, 2021
I guess I can deal with what I have to deal with. Thanks for the story.
Michael EdwardsMay 10, 2021
based on his column there certainly seems to me to be a fair number of church members cheating on their spouses. after all how many spouses who have been cheated on aren't writing in.? so again i think that there are a lot of church members who cheat on their spouse simply based upon how many of his columns center on that issue.
ShaunaMay 10, 2021
It all goes so fast--enjoy it. These are such precious years My 17 and 18 year olds still aren't quite at the thanking me stage. It's more of a separation time for them from me. It's all good
CherylMay 10, 2021
This really helped me to see many more of my spiritual gifts, thank you!
Lawrence HigginsonMay 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing. You all are special examples of God like pure love and charity❤️
Lori Finlay HamiltonMay 10, 2021
Excellent!! Thanks Carolyn :) I actually surprised my 90 year old mother yesterday with a visit this week. I looked around her little addition to my sisters home and saw enough "stuff" and things "she loves" to fill 4 homes!!! Marie Kondo would have a Hey Day!! I asked her if she would consider going through some things so that it's not quite a burden when she does go, and unfortunately she said "nope, that' my sister's job. I am going to enjoy all of my pretty little things for as long as I can". Really? We've just downsized and I've already begun to get rid of stuff, so our kids do not have too. I totally agree- our tastes are different. They may keep some things, or may donate of whatever. I'm grateful for your list of things to consider!! I'll start working on the rest of the list. Certainly staying as healthy as possible is one gift I'm passionate about, too
Cindy MartineMay 9, 2021
Marilyn (a.k.a. Sister Taggert), little did I know while we served together, that you had talents as a writer. In my defense, we didn't really know each other for very long. You have a wonderful talent and skill. Your writing reminds me a little of Erma Bombeck. Though I am not married, I can still relate to the spring cleaning recital. It comes every year and you would think we would get use to the routine and do everything we could to avoid the messes that have to be cleaned up; but no, we seem to be caught in the web of endless spring cleaning. Great article.
CherilynMay 9, 2021
A theory that is based in degrading one race to promote another is not coming from the Creator of us all. In fact it is of the adversary. As a teacher in a California performing arts public charter school, CRT and using everyone's preferred pronouns and honoring diversity are the main themes. None of it coming from any place of forgiveness. It's got a "revenge" edge to it. A BYU professor delivered a recent devotional about racism, which was in a very positive tone and in keeping with Gospel principles. But when he explained that we must all atone for the sins of others in the past, as the Savior did, with reparations, it took a detour doctrinally. First, it was the Savior's singular fore-ordained role to be the Savior of the World and to atone for us. We are Saviors on Mount Zion by being temple worthy and redeeming the dead with saving temple ordinances. The Second Article of Faith declares that we are not punished for other's (Adam's) transgression but only for our own sins. Moreover, my ancestors fought in the Civil War for the North. They opposed slavery. I cannot find any logic in the argument that I'm guilty of systemic racism. If we truly believe we are all children of God, then we will follow the Lord's simple commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves, to follow the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. No law or government mandate can change the hearts of people, and is more often the cause of increased discord. Being examples of the Lord's way and promoting those ideals in the public square in non-religious language will go a long way to help our brothers and sisters understand and model our examples of that better way as we go forward.
Truman ProctorMay 8, 2021
Being a father of 2 kiddos, one now 3 years old (son) and the other about 14 months (daughter), I identify with your sentiments so much. On Saturday mornings when I usually get up with kiddos so my wife can sleep in a bit (after having gotten up with them every morning during the week so I could get in the shower to get ready for work), I find more and more how extraordinary Mother's really are, and that sometimes there's just some comforts that Dad's can't provide and that's OK! I also believe I can work on improving my responses to my kiddos reactions to little things that really don't matter much in the grand scheme of things (i.e. Brother took my toy from me), but much more applicable is those teaching moments (me to my kids) and learning moments (my kids to me). On to another wonderful day! Bless you, Mom's...everywhere.
Margaret B. YoungMay 8, 2021
My husband and I saw it yesterday. I was glad to see a good audience--maybe 35 people. The first story (which is also the fourth) moved me most deeply. Because we know the hard path of addiction in my family, I was grateful to see it so realistically addressed.
Margaret B. YoungMay 8, 2021
My husband and I were looking at opportunities to serve in the DR-Congo two days ago, and found that only missions in the USA were listed. Nice to know that the world is open again.
Laura M. Brotherson, LMFT, CSTMay 8, 2021
Well said Jeff!! As a fellow all-in member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints myself and a certified sex therapist I would have said much of this myself!! Thanks for spelling out so many important points here!
Laura M. Brotherson, LMFT, CSTMay 8, 2021
Just a quick response to Michael Edward's question - We don't really know for sure that "a lot" of members are having affairs, but a few reasons people do is that they don't carefully nourish their marriage (i.e. making each other a priority with date night, daily couple time, attending to each other's love language, etc.). That leaves marriages vulnerable to external influences and temptations. This is not unique to members of our church. My "infidelity formula" can apply to anyone: Vulnerability + Opportunity + One Dumb Decision = Slippery Slope to Disaster (Infidelity) And well done Geoff as usual!! Sure appreciate all your great insights on marriage and family issues!
MarieMay 8, 2021
Beautiful story of true love, thank you!
WeezieMay 7, 2021
My guess on why there are so many affairs are: porn, social media secret accounts, and terrible boundaries with anyone of the opposite sex. You should never engage in relationships with them, no matter how harmless they may seem at first. It never turns out positive. Your spouse needs to the the one and only person in your life.
CharlieBrown2292May 7, 2021
Wonderful article! The power of the Adversary has been indeed unleashed like never before, and only being diligent in seeking the power of the atonement into our lives can save us from this terrible evil. Latter-Day Saint pioneers were faced with persecution and having to cross the plains under harsh conditions. Our fights against adversity may not be physical but spiritual, but just about as intense.
Old GuyMay 7, 2021
She says that she knows her husband is being faithful and yet still has such severe triggers. This dear sister has insecurity issues that have probably never been addressed and need addressing before she can progress..
LauraMay 7, 2021
Childlessness in a family-centered church is indeed difficult. But you can find comfort in the emotional, spiritual, physical, and financial support of your husband – something that thousands of single women do not have, in addition to being childless.
stevie maireid mckennaMay 7, 2021
Excellent subject. I think both mothers and fathers should address this with their sons but also their daughters as well. Fathers may have a stronger influence with this subject than mothers would as they can relate from their own experiences when they were an adolescent boy. Also, a boy may feel more comfortable discussing this subject with dad and a little uncomfortable with talking about it with mom.
Barbara BlackburnMay 7, 2021
High Nibley influenced my life profoundly. I watched FARMS diligently and read, I think, all but three of his books. My understanding of the gospel has soared because of Hugh Nibley and Abraham Gileadi..
Alisa HallMay 7, 2021
Thank you for your vulnerability! This is a topic that needs more light and open discussions especially regarding how to respond and love unconditionally those close to us who struggle with pornography. One of the best books a therapist suggested I read regarding pornography is titled “The Language of Recovery” by Gordon S.Bruin M.A., L.P.C. (Amazon) His book helps you understand the “why” and how to relearn your responses to loved ones in a compassionate and hopeful way. I also feel we need to be very careful throwing the word “Addiction” around when someone is struggling with pornography. Most individuals who struggle are not addicted based on the psychological definition.
Linda WestoverMay 7, 2021
You have beautifully expressed a truth about mother/child relationships that we tend to overlook. Mother is our anchor, our "safe place." Even now as I approach my 79th birthday, I often call out in my heart for my sweet mother to help and comfort me in the hard times -- and the wonderful thing is that the help and comfort come!
Michael EdwardsMay 7, 2021
there sure are a lot of members of the church having affairs. why is that? anyone brave enough to have an opinion on that?
Kristen OpenshawMay 7, 2021
I resonate more with some of the comments here than I do with the article. I also wonder why this and a few Come Follow Me podcasts I've listened to gloss over D&C 42:43-44: "And whosoever among you are sick, and have not faith to be healed, but believe, shall be nourished with all tenderness, with herbs and mild food, and that not by the hand of an enemy. And the elders of the church, two or more, shall be called, and shall pray for and lay their hands upon them in my name; and if they die they shall die unto me, and if they live they shall live unto me." With as much physical and emotional trouble I've had wearing a mask when I needed to, I can't imagine the effect a vaccine like this may have. "One size fits all remedies" do not fit all, and that's okay.
ChrisMay 6, 2021
I sometimes ask Heavenly Father to allow my ancestors to help answer a specific need I may have, if it be His will. I have found and performed temple ordinances for hundreds of my and my husband's relatives, and know that they have been allowed to assist me and my family on occasion.
Kristen OpenshawMay 6, 2021
I'm not offended or worried about the examples of asking those on the other side of the veil for help. I don't think Timmie Lynn prayed to Matilda, she communicated with her. She posed a question and received help through the power of the Holy Ghost, surely authorized by the Lord, in my opinion!
EPHMay 6, 2021
My fight covered several decades. I've had in my life a lot of circumstances that have made the fight almost impossible. Mental health can be a big component. But it all has kept me more humble before the Lord and in a state of continual gratitude for His mercy. Surprisingly this article already addresses most of the things I could talk about. Good job!
MaryMay 6, 2021
I don't think the stories shared in the article came across as "praying" in the traditional sense or is an example of idol worshiping. I read it as having a conversation with them. If they do indeed feel their actual presence there in the temple and like in some of the example we can hear actually voices, than I see no reason why they wouldn't be able to understand our thoughts and feelings (even if they are non-vocal). To say that it is form of prayer or idol worshiping is ridiculous! Also, If we needed help and were to ask someone who was physically with us, I don't think it different than what they are doing and no one would condemn others for it.
Michael HogganMay 6, 2021
Mothers also need to be self-aware about any women's magazines, clothing catalogues and "romance" novels they might have in the house. Do they watch soap operas? I suspect many women have a double standard about risque material. They only object to risque material targeted at men.
Timothy D JohnsonMay 6, 2021
I have explained to my female friends that, for a man, it becomes a hunger that drives to be fulfilled. Not many women can understand this but it is the method that drives us to unite ourselves in marriage. Otherwise why would a man want to take the responsibility for a wife and children (from an old missionary discussion, "j", I think) ? That is why a woman should be sympathetic to her husbands needs. Another thing that is not widely understood yet is that women have much more Oxytocin, the hormone that create bonding and love. It has been proven that the only time a man gets a surge in his Oxytocin is when he has an orgasm through intercourse. Hence because of that he bonds with his wife and love grows between them. Deny him this and tragic circumstance may follow. But as Priesthood holders, we need to learn how to practice self control as is dictated in the Scriptures and be courteous to our wives also!
Yves ValenMay 6, 2021
Excellent article. Something every father, mother, and Church leaders should read. The description she makes of the world in which we live is so accurate. But there is hope, absolute hope in the rescueing power of the Lord to help all of His children overcome temptations. That is the reason why He asked His disciples (which all of us are) to pray always in order to overcome them.
ShaunaMay 6, 2021
Thank you so much for this gutsy, brave and enlightening article. It does indeed seem that young men in our society are being attacked from every side. I am raising girls and just pray that there are some worthy young men out there for them to date and marry someday. You have helped me at least understand what those young men (and now frequently, women) are up against.
StevenMay 6, 2021
I am a former bishop, and have seen the effects of pornography on individuals and families. How remarkable to hear a woman express what every normal mortal human male since Adam has experienced! This is as significant as if a man had experienced, hormonally, what it is like to be pregnant. It is almost unbelievable, yet her descriptions of the raging hormonal torrent are right on the money. Every male I have ever known is tossed into the river at puberty and remains there until disease or geriatric decay pushes him into the eddies and slower side currents. No one I know has ever actually gotten out of the river. Society has always just expected us to "bridle your passions" and learn how to body surf in the rapids. This article is wonderful for mothers of sons. What might it mean for wives of husbands?
Wayne LarsenMay 6, 2021
Terrific article! I hope many others read it.
Barbara MattatallMay 6, 2021
This exact thing happen to me in March only it was my phone, not the lap top. The results were exactly the same. Thanks for sharing. Now I know I am not the only one who does something like this. And in fact, I am teaching the Relief Society class this Sunday on "I Am A God of Miracles" and this will be an excellent lead into the class. I had completely forgotten about my own experience.
Maryann TaylorMay 6, 2021
I have never felt a yearning or great need to know more about my Heavenly Mother. I am content that the Lord has revealed, and continues to reveal to me, what I need to know. I do not feel any less validated in my worth because there is not more information about her--- because I am secure in the knowledge that I am a daughter of Heavenly Parents. I have also noticed there is a growing trend among some women suggesting we should pray to our Heavenly Mother, even though the scriptures are very clear that we pray ONLY to our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ. Prophets have also openly discouraged this practice.
Maryann TaylorMay 6, 2021
I, too, have felt the beautiful spirit that comes when performing temple ordinances for my family. My blessings have come in the knowledge that I am doing the Lord's work, opportunities and inspiration to find information, and the increased love I feel for my family. This is the second article I have read where people have requested favors from those on the other side of the veil. There is a thin line between doing this sacred work and ancestor worship. Making requests of our ancestors is nothing less than praying to them. Doing so cuts our Heavenly Father out of the equation. We make our requests known to him, and him only. We also do not take it upon ourselves to make assignments to those on the other side of the veil. That, also, is the Lord's right.
Name WithheldMay 6, 2021
This essay is important and perhaps essential. Thanks to MERIDIAN for regularly publishing articles on sex, by which I mean passion and sometimes sin. Hooray for the editorial policy. Few topics are more timely and important, and silence is not the answer. The author deserves a gold medal . In the mean time, she has my thanks. The YM general presidency should find out who she is and put her on their board. (No, not the YW.) Whoever she is, she had to take time and energy and courage to produce her article, and I, for one, am grateful, both personally and because I think she has performed a moral service to the Saints.
BecMay 6, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have had boys that struggled with this and I felt terrible for them. I know it is so tough for them. You brought out some really good points.
Jan KingMay 6, 2021
This article this morning is truly an answer to my prayers! My adult son who lives with us, who served an honorable mission, married in the temple, has done a great deal of family history research work, and who has wandered in and out of the church for a number of years, no longer believes the Joseph Smith story. He apparently has read some stories such as the one described here, and his belief has faltered. This article confirms for me that one cannot take such stories and allegations at face value without investigating and reading farther. There's always "more to the story"!!
Jim ScottMay 6, 2021
I’ve always felt prayers can only be to God and that appeals to others beside God is on the cusp of idolatry vid a vis the Catholic habit of prayers to Mary. Yet here are examples of spiritual communication outside the approved method. How do we categorize such prayers and appeals.
A. BinghamMay 6, 2021
A hearty effort to lay out a case for vaccination at this point in the COVID-19 pandemic. But sadly, these gene therapies are not one size fits all. Some people simply cannot tolerate this type of therapy and risk outweighs the benefits. Unfortunately you did not address a growing evidence base globally on the effectiveness of therapeutics in the prevention and early treatment of COVID like symptoms, and, efforts by scientists and practitioners to refine protocols that are currently being used in hospitals globally, endorsed by governments, globally and used extensively and successfully by practitioners. A one sided discussion. Many people are not able to take these gene therapies as the risk for adverse events and side effects simply outweigh the benefits. Therapeutics have far fewer adverse reactions and may be the safer option for some people. Thank you. https://covid19criticalcare.com/covid-19-protocols/i-mask-plus-protocol/
LaurieMay 6, 2021
Thank you for this enlightening video. I'm so grateful for this discussion about the first spiritual gift mentioned in Section 46. Surely that must be the key to being able to recognize and obtain our personal spiritual gifts and then learn how to use them to bless the lives of others as well as our own.
E.PetersonMay 6, 2021
I appreciate that this void is being revealed. I wonder how many invisible females with great influence have been veiled in scripture. Your article was timely, appropriate, that many women have identified with. May our daughters & sons get to realize their total divinity going back & moving forward in the Gospel.
MarkMay 6, 2021
Talking about racism and it’s impact on our fellow brothers and sisters brings it to light so that it can done away with. History is full of examples of using religious teachings in a way that perpetuates racist systems. We would be wise to seek to understand those whose lives are impacted by racism. We would be wise to listen to the President Nelson and follow his example in taking the lead in ending racism.
JaneMay 5, 2021
Congrats! This sounds like such an innovative program and you'll be great!
Boanerges RubalcavaMay 5, 2021
Few months go I posted a comment saying that the reason Heavenly Father seldom refers to Her is because He is protecting her for the stupidity of man. somebody here felt that "protect" was a kind of chauvinist expression that denigrates Her. I am sorry but it is a principle for me to protect my wife from anything in this world because I LOVE HER. It is very likely that she also feels that she needs to protect me because she loves me.
HeidiMay 5, 2021
Thank you. Your article has given me a lot to think about as I am trying to change my perspective on my trials. I also find myself questioning whether I have really been forgiven of certain sins and your experience helps me work on that also.
Christine PartnaMay 5, 2021
Ok. This is a lovely depiction of true love. However, who chose the photo that accompanies this story? The woman described was younger than 60. The photo clearly depicts a woman much older than that.
Karell BinghamMay 5, 2021
The Book of Mormon stands on its own as a witness of truth to those who take the time to read and study it. It is an amazing complex study of a civilization as well as a testimony that God lives. I find it quite amusing what folks come up with to try to dissuade others of its veracity and of the knowledge that Joseph Smith was who he said he was!
ScottHMay 5, 2021
Thank you for this article. We live in a time a great fear and mistrust. While the vaccines may seem like a godsend to some, others regard them with great suspicion. There are good reasons for this. Many of the institutions involved (big government, big pharma, big media, etc.) have trustworthiness issues due to power differentials, deliberate misinformation, demonstrated incompetence, and conflicting incentives. Many are also concerned about the long-term effects of the vaccines, which cannot be studied until enough time has passed. Institutions opposing the vaccine also have ulterior motives. Fortunately, we have living prophets who speak for the Lord, and we have access to the Holy Spirit to help us make decisions, even in the face of imperfect information and perverse incentives. Being vaccinated when moved to do so by divine counsel and whisperings of the Spirit does not have to mean that one trusts untrustworthy institutions; it only has to mean that one trusts God. The Lord can use any means at his disposal to work miracles, including corrupt and imperfect institutions.
vickieMay 5, 2021
in reading this i find that the story abt martin harris is just that a story. martin harris believed in the book of mormon and the devil had to discredit him so no one would believe the book of mormon existed.
Jim WinebrennerMay 5, 2021
Thank you very much for addressing this extremely timely and important issue. Thank you very much also addressing (at least slightly) some of the aspects of it that cause great concern to anyone paying attention to the real state of things. Unfortunately, there are also other issues desperately needing to be addressed that you did not, and I've yet to find anyone addressing them at all within the framework of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Namely, the facts that there has never been any virus-based epidemic anywhere, let alone a pandemic; there was no need for any vaccine in the first place for a "disease" that amounts at most to a seasonal flu; we know that governments and non-government organizations and individuals are simply using this propaganda in an attempt to generate enough fear to get people to relinquish their freedoms, as is in fact happening already to a great degree; and so on, and so on. Someone needs to address these issues and explain why the Church is not only ignoring the real problem, but the leaders themselves are actually getting unnecessarily vaccinated and encouraging others to do the same. I, for one, am desperately seeking an understanding of this, and have yet to receive any explanation from anyone.
Wally & Nancy GoddardMay 5, 2021
Beautiful! Often we don't recognize the miracles God delivers through familiar means. Thank you for your faith and your insight.
Michael DetrickMay 5, 2021
Very one-sided argument, totally ignoring the fact that there are thousands of medical doctors all over the world being censored as they attempt to educate us on safer methods of attacking the C0VlD pandemic. Too bad you chose to ignore all those doctors. See AmericasFrontLineDoctors dot org
Boanerges RubalcavaMay 5, 2021
"Anti Americanism" is greatly overused, but in the case of Critical Race Theory, is needed with great urgency. We must be aware of what is happening all over the Country destroying our PRINCIPLES, OUR VALUES, and eventually the USA REPUBLIC/FREE MARKET.
Andrew J. CurrieMay 5, 2021
Reverend Clark’s unnamed “gentleman” has all the earmarks of a NYT, WaPo, CNN exclusive story.
L. J. BrowerMay 5, 2021
This saddens my heart. If these pholosophies are being taught and espoused at BYU, where can we send our children to avoid these damaging philosophies of men? I hope the classes these woke professors teach are not required. It feels like they are trying to weaken the fibre of the doctrine of Christ.
Ted WinderMay 5, 2021
What a sensible approach to receiving the COVID-19 vaccine. I've been surprised and disappointed to hear some of my family and friends who feel vaccination doesn't apply to them, violates their rights or that it is a hoax. Thank you Dr. Bates for your thoughtful approach to this important and life-saving issue.
E SmithMay 5, 2021
Perceptive, clear, and brave article. Thank you.
ElizabethMay 5, 2021
Excellent and brave article. I wrote a letter last fall to president Worthen and the board of trustees regarding critical race theory and BYU, but did not get a response. I realize they are busy people and do not control all the details of the various departments, but I am saddened and alarmed that CRT has been so widely adopted at the department level across the University.
Kathleen JonesMay 5, 2021
Covid did not take my husband in August, but it did keep us apart for over two months before he came home in hospice. During that time, we were only able to speak with one another perhaps once a week. When he came home, it was only for a week before he left to his heavenly journey, but during that time he expressed his deep love for me and how glad he was to have me. As I sat next to him cradling him as he began his journey I made sure he heard me tell him how much I loved him, that it was okay to go we would be ok and we loved him. He did leave and I was so thankful I had found him, and that he knew it also. He watches over me I know along with our faithful dog we had to put to rest a month before his leaving. I have that love always and yes it was hard, but I committed for it for him as long as I could. Not sorry just thankful to the Lord.
Bruce FelixMay 5, 2021
I am wondering how you take into account "D&C 84:97 And plagues shall go forth, and they shall not be taken from the earth until I have completed my work, which shall be cut short in righteousness---" ?
David DurfeeMay 5, 2021
It took us as a Church 126 years to overcome certain racial assumptions and views and be ready to accept people of color as having full Priesthood rights and responsibilities. It has taken a similar period of time for our Church to overcome the traditional but wrong Christian view that the Godhood is comprised of 3 male members only. It's hard not to wonder what if anything else we are getting wrong.
ColinMay 4, 2021
Hear, hear!
Frank StarkMay 4, 2021
More confusingly, If Ryan Gabriel is allowed to preach something that is against Church Doctrine at BYU how do we know what to believe or do? This is when we need the Board of Directors to either fire him or endorse him. “For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle?" This is when we pray for guidance and an example from our leaders.
Morgan SolomonMay 4, 2021
This is lovely. It is difficult to grow up in the church with a personal testimony of my divine nature but not have and meaningful acknowledgment of our Heavenly Mother, a divine women. It makes you rethink your potential for divinity at times. Wish we spoke of Her more to better show the equality of men and women in eternity and here on earth.
LFPMay 4, 2021
Yes, it's great we are beginning to have open conversations about Her. Wouldn't it be great if men also found more worth and value by recognizing they are sons of a Heavenly Mother?
Sue ParkerMay 4, 2021
Hello Marilyn, That you for writing this oh so humorous article. The spring cleaning of our garage in Pocatello also included lots of dirt and gravel from the snowy and icy roads. I’m thankful for a clean garage where we can hang our extra artwork! Love to both of you, The Parkers
Jo Ann OkelberryMay 4, 2021
I have been reading a lot about the Critical Race Theory. It seems to be in opposition to learning about the divinity and potential of each and every person. We should learn to value all people as Children of God and as our sisters and brothers. It seems as though Critical Race Theory wants to bring out the worst in people rather than the best.
Barbara BlackburnMay 4, 2021
Eve was taken from the rib of Adam. A mother in heaven has come about in recent years. We don't know all, so much is yet to be learned. Mary was enveloped....I don:t understand that full meaning, but she was a virgin. When we get more records it may tell us for sure. Logically, we think in terms of a man and a woman creating because that is how we create a child. We will find out eventually, but in the meantime I am satisfied in my role as a woman and helpmate.
AnonymousMay 4, 2021
As a Latter Day Saint therapist I was so sad to read about the difficulties fellow members have had. However, I would have preferred to read a more balanced article. I am in private practice and don’t work for LDS Services, but I find myself bearing testimony so frequently in sessions, I have come to view my profession is a sacred privilege. I know many therapists who feel the same. I pray daily that my clients of all persuasions will feel Christ’s love through me and have a desire to seek Him, knowing He can heal them. I would suggest that any member seeking therapy ask neighbors and friends for a referral. They should also make their beliefs known in the first session, along with their desire to prioritize spirituality as a tool for healing. Ask if your therapist agrees with ALL Church teachings. If you feel the relationship is not a fit, it is appropriate to say so and ask if the therapist knows someone who may be a better fit. Remember, when you are paying for a service, you are the boss. If you find yourself in a situation where the spirit cannot speak to you, either inside or outside the therapy room, LEAVE. Much love and happy healing. ❤️
ShaunaMay 4, 2021
Wonderful--thank you for this brave and informative article. As a BYU grad, and someone who has a student there and one on the way next year, I can attest that BYU is not immune from worldly ideas and philosphies. The Gospel absolutely must be the lens through which all manmade ideas are viewed and not the other way around. I love BYU and I love that the authors of this article are fighting to keep BYU unique. Bravo
Daryl GibsonMay 4, 2021
Thank you for tactfully calling out the mistaken notion that our Heavenly Mother is too fragile to be exposed to her children. Can you imagine your earthly mother hiding from you to avoid possible insult? My Mother in Heaven is powerful, resilient and, above all, eager to be known.
Karell BinghamMay 4, 2021
As usual, very enlightening. Thank you so much for your amazing ability to teach us!
Diane IrwinMay 4, 2021
I can soooooo relate to this article!! You would think that I wrote it, except the 'evil eye'. Thanks for bringing a sense of familiarity and humor to my day!
Gale E PhillipsMay 4, 2021
This is a very well-articulated explanation of Critical Race Theory and it's dangers. It is disturbing to know that Critical Race Theory, along with other critical theories, are being taught in our universities, including some universities where you might not expect it.
Michael ChandlerMay 3, 2021
Thank you for your intelligently thoughtful explanation. While skin color will always be a factor dividing some people, the bigger factor is the difference in culture and values. While different cultures can be valued for their good aspects, not all cultures are equal in value in contributing to improving happiness and the human condition. It is NOT. wrong to place higher value on those cultural qualities that improve happiness.
Mark TurnerMay 3, 2021
As one who has been subjected to the attempted brain-washing associated with attendance at mandatory diversity training provided by my employer, I can attest to the veracity of the descriptions and warnings provided in this article. I praise these individuals for taking the time to work out their arguments and for the courage to state them publicly. We are entering another dangerous time in the history of this country and I hope an pray that many will have their eyes opened soon to the reality of these dangers, that we may avoid them and continue to live free.
liaMay 3, 2021
Intrusive thoughts are a hallmark of obsessive compulsive disorder. It is treatable.
CarolMay 3, 2021
Wow! The last thing I want is for my tithing money to support the evil of critical race theory. For an eye-opening explanation of the theory, watch the PragerU video on the topic.
A.M. WestMay 3, 2021
Your article reminded me of something I read in the Recommendations Section of View of the Hebrews (1823): “One of the impressions which this work is calculated to make is, the awful guilt and danger contracted by a rejection of Jesus Christ as our atoning Saviour." [Christian Watchman, published in Boston] I believe there is a common theme in your article. Interestingly, my sister has had that painting of the Second Coming (featured in your article) in her living room for 40 years. When I first expressed some doubts about The Church, she read Alma 1:24-25 to me. (I think this scripture would go well in your article). She read this scripture to me, I believe to shame me because I was starting to question things. But she wouldn't allow me to share the definition of three words with her: 1) Bias 2) Indoctrination 3) Uncritically Regards, A 64 year-old member struggling with faith, and being alienated by the the five people closest to me: My wife, two sisters, a brother-in-law, and a close friend of 40 years. (Their treatment of me does not reflect a Christianity I understand).
Karell BinghamMay 3, 2021
Well I guess! If we can't get it right on this campus, where can we get it right on any campus? Let us pray.
JULIE DAVISMay 3, 2021
It sounds like you may be going through a mid-life crisis. I would get a thorough physical exam and make sure your hormones and vitamin levels are normal. Certain vitamin deficiencies cause anxiety and intrusive thoughts. Plus, hormone imbalances at mid-life can cause many issues especially anxiety and insomnia. God Bless you and don't give up your family you will regret it.
Peggy McFarlandMay 3, 2021
Thank you so much for this timely and vital article.
Scott GardnerMay 3, 2021
This is an intriguing article. I'm struck by the authors opposing the quote from Kendi, "As Kendi states, “One either believes problems are rooted in groups of people, as a racist, or locates the roots of problems in power and policies, as an antiracist … There is no in-between safe space of ‘not racist.’” That quote sure does seem to make a complex issue into a false dilemma. Perhaps in the spirit of the week we should remind ourselves that "Only a Sith deals in absolutes." Where does culture fit in? If there are aspects of my culture that are not in harmony with the gospel, is it racism to encourage me to change those parts of my culture?
A. LeeMay 3, 2021
The application of Critical Race Theory is just one tool the Adversary uses to force all individuals to think and act in one forced modality. Personal responsibility and choice is ignored. Manipulating and forcing individuals was Satan's plan in the pre-existence and continues plague all of us as we live our life on Earth.
Suzanne BowenMay 2, 2021
So well said and straight to the point...stop making excuses and start making covenants. Thank you.
MLBMay 2, 2021
I at one time had thoughts that really bothered me which were as disconcerting as yours and considerably more dangerous to myself and others. I have found one thing that I got from a TED Talk (of course I can't find it) that really helps me. It's this--when unwanted thoughts come I don't fight them, I just mentally stand back and look at them without judging them and without engaging. I find that after a short while the thought goes away. Eventually, they don't come back. The fear and the disgust you feel because of your thoughts keep you engaged with them. Remember that you are not your thoughts. Remember to quit judging yourself for these things because that judgement creates the fear that keeps them lodged in your brain. Hope this helps!
Bruce ForbesMay 2, 2021
Thank you for this article!
BeraMay 2, 2021
Wonderful article. The Lord’s standard is the only sure foundation in changing world and it’s philosophies.
BeraMay 2, 2021
Wonderful work on the well loved scholar Hugh Nibley. Love his works and will fondly remeber his great contributions to gospel scholarship.
RichMay 1, 2021
As Elder Oaks recently said, "Black Lives Matter" is a fundamental truth. We can eliminate racism in our society while not becoming Marxist. I worry that this article is so bent on conflating the two.
TerryMay 1, 2021
Is it correct to call Mark Hoffmana "fellow" prisoner? Doesn't that imply Hugh Nibley was a criminal ?
JoyMay 1, 2021
I feel the same way in my marriage of 35 years! I wish we could talk. Maybe the similarities of our experience would uncover the tormenting source.
JoyMay 1, 2021
I feel EXACTLY the same way in my marriage of 35 years! I wish we could talk. Maybe the similarities of our experience would uncover the tormenting source.
laverl wilhelmMay 1, 2021
It's an amazing account of a young boy who simply knelt in prayer to ask how he could achieve forgiveness of sins!
AnnaMay 1, 2021
I went through a hard time a few years ago. In pure desperation I spent every available waking moment reading scripture, singing hymns (Peace in Christ on repeat", and praying. I felt very neurotic and stressed but I just kept my head down and prayed and prayed. After a few weeks of this, I had a beautiful spiritual experience that brought spiritual peace. My mind quieted down significantly. My body still felt stressed but I was ok. I could keep going. These feelings won't last forever. Get a blessing. Confess to a bishop. Do whatever you need to do. It is possible to heal.
Doris WilliamsMay 1, 2021
Geoff Steurer is a godsend. I have to read his counsel every weekend. His advice this week hits it out of the park (as he always does). I hope this dear sister heeds his inspired advice and holds her husband and kids close as she heals. She will come to understand that the dear Lord's forgiveness is for us too...whatever she feels she has done wrong...heartfelt prayer, asking for His guidance is so important; and I pray that she may be able to find a counselor who can help her through this trying time so she can find the joy she so desperately desires. Bless them all.
Abbie VianesMay 1, 2021
As an adult convert to the Church, i learned of Hugh Nibley through many missionaries - who had lived in my missionary apartment - talk about classes they later took with him at BYU. So I began purchasing all the FARMS articles I could find at BYU by him and purchasing his books. I quickly understood the GREAT gift to the Church and the world that Hugh Nibley is. He learned all the ancient languages we never could and read all the ancient manuscripts we never could and then opened them up to us. He gave us access to a world I would /could never have known. It built my testimony tremendously. Remember his beautiful translation of the ancient Hymn of the Pearl? I am so thankful for his mind, his intellect, his will to learn and to share, his dedicating his life to enlightening us. Hugh Nibley concentrated on the essential questions - those of eternity. Soooo what did Plato and Aristotle do to be remembered so long - that Hugh Nibley did not?
Tom WoodApril 30, 2021
This is a very fine lesson, Breck, especially for those that become fearful of the coming signs. You have shown how the Lord can defuse those fears if we remember the promises we've made with Him. I very much like how you've focused on those aspects of Section 45 instead of amplifying the darkness and unsureness that may lurk in the future as warnings. Good lesson, my friend!
Sandra HalesApril 30, 2021
Well spoken and spot on! Thanks Bro Lawrence
Bonnie CaldwellApril 30, 2021
Thank you for your excellent article abd for sharing your feelings!! I relate and empathize as I have been there too!!
Lane WolfleyApril 30, 2021
I enjoyed the article. I feel you're quite confused, hough. This article concerned Joseph's charisma, not his character. The two have nothing to do with each other. Thanks for your thoughts, though.
CandyApril 30, 2021
Great job Sydney. We are not alone!
Maryann TaylorApril 30, 2021
What beautiful advice! I loved being reminded that just because our minds tell us something, that does NOT mean it is true. In fact, we have many thoughts we need to dismiss as false. One of my prayers is that the Lord will help me discern between the true and false thoughts that come into my mind. I believe reading the scriptures helps. The sister who wrote this letter needs to find the right therapist to help her get to the root of her problems. I really don't think it has anything to do with her marriage. It sounds like she has an inner unsolved conflict, and is suffering from self-abuse through her self condemning thoughts.
Still StrivingApril 30, 2021
Thank you for a message we all need to hear!
ShannaApril 30, 2021
Thank you for sharing your story, Sydney! You are absolutely not alone and are actually part of a prestigious club of amazing women! I am 12 years into marriage and in my 40s with no kiddos, so I get it. You beautifully outlined what it is like. Join us at Childless Sisters of the restored Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints if you're on Facebook!
AnnaApril 30, 2021
I once went through a difficult time. I was st the end of my rope and felt like I was hanging by my fingernails. I chose to spend every waking moment reading scriptures and singing hymns and prayed nonstop for help and relief. I felt crazy and I sounded crazy but I was attempting to keep my mind focused on God. It took several weeks of living in pure adrenaline and desperation but relief did indeed come in a spiritual form. I still went through many struggles and when that time ended I grieved for a year from the loss and pain. But because Christ came and supported me through that time my love of God and my testimony of his goodness grew leaps and bounds. Now that the pain has ended it is almost a cherished time. The song Peace in Christ on repeat may help. Blessings may help. Repentance and confession to your bishop may help. I'll pray for you too.
Michael HogganApril 30, 2021
My mission president once told me that Satan would put any thought into my head thst he could. I've reflected on that wisdom many times.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
No, you don't have to spend time around your daughter's affair-partner. Just stay close to HER. She may be in a swinging-door mentality and this new guy may be gone soon. Love her, and wait. Forgiving someone does NOT mean they have to become a part of your life.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
This is very disturbing, however, I do NOT believe the vast majority of LDS therapists would give counsel that is not in harmony with the doctrines of the church. Suffering from depression, I was very fortunate to find a Psychiatrist who was a member of the church and also a Bishop. I went to him because I needed to be able to trust that any counsel I received would not be in conflict with gospel principles. He was such a blessing and helped me greatly. We must be spiritually self-reliant so that we immediately recognize when someone is teaching us something that is not harmonious with the gospel. There are many wonderful therapists who are devoted members of the church. Keep looking until you find the right one.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
It is time for members of the church to stop smiling bravely when ignorant people ask them about when they are going to have children. We are only encouraging this unbelievable rudeness to continue when we pretend it is alright for them to ask such questions. The best response is to look at them with shock and ask: "Oh, My! Why would you ask me such a personal question?!" If enough people start doing this, maybe we can stop this kind of rude behavior.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
I am so glad you commented on the twisted focus on "diversity." We have become a nation that seems to place diversity on a pedestal and worship it. It is wonderful that we are each unique, but we are far more alike than different. The fact that we are ALL children of a loving Heavenly Father is what will unify us--NOT the obsession with the ways we are different.
Maryann TaylorApril 29, 2021
When we stop believing it is our job to "fix" our husbands, a great burden drops from our shoulders. Our job is to love and encourage. It is the job of the Holy Ghost to correct and guide them. What a relief!
Kari MoultonApril 29, 2021
What a well written article! I really loved it. I have been married for 21 years 19 of them childless. We adopted our baby girl in 2019. I really wish people would never ask child related questions to people. Just ask them to tell you about themselves, and let them share what they want. The trial of infertility is really painful and 1 in 4 women have it. I hope that through articles like these it can help others see our pain and find ways to include us and support us. For so so so so many years I felt on the outside looking in. I really felt like people where not befriending us / including us. As soon as I adopted suddenly we were included. Also, please don’t tell adoptive parents that now that they have adopted they will get pregnant easily and have their “real” children. Can’t tell you how many times people actually said that..... I was floored!
Lawrence James NielsenApril 29, 2021
Thank you for writing this. For many of us who have already spoken out on the great lie that is critical race theory and have been silenced and marginalized on social media, we lack a forum for speaking out and exposing the false Marxist Dogmas and "New Speak" of this growing evil.
Amanda DuPontApril 29, 2021
With no known cause, my husband and I went almost 10 years with bearing children. We then decided to adopt a son, and a year later another son, and our joy was complete. Later in life, we began taking in troubled children through Family Services and Family Court and always had a houseful. When that stage of our lives ended and we turned to serving missions, we counted up and realized we had helped to raise 34 children. We then felt that that was Heavenly Father's plan for us.
Keith WilsonApril 29, 2021
Thanks for a very poignant read. I loved reading about those things that anchor your soul in times of uncertainty or discouragement. I just hope that more of us can develop greater sensitivities to each other's burdens and challenges. We need each other in order to go forward in His work..
CathyApril 29, 2021
Thank you for explaining it so well. I did not realize it was being "taught in schools". I knew the pendulum had swung to people of color, I did not see the Marxist aspect. I hope others will become more aware. "Evil triumphs when good men do nothing" Thank you again for doing your part to end this!!
Sasha KwapinskiApril 29, 2021
Critical race theory could be described as a modern-day, updated version of the Doctrine of Original Sin. Like Original Sin, it assigns collective inherent guilt for alleged events and actions over which a person had no influence or control - thus denying people their right to be judged by their respective character and attributes. We believe, as is stated in A of F No. 2, that men are punished for their own sins and not for Adam's transgression, Likewise, we are accountable for our own actions and not for a fictional, imaginary concept of guilt which is attributed to one's race or ethnicity.
Laurie ConlinApril 29, 2021
Hello Brother Anderson, I was a part of a BYU Nauvoo travel study group that came to Kirtland in 1997. You were our tour guide around the area, as I see you have done for so many others. I just wanted to thank you for sharing your love of the Savior and teaching about these significant years. I have held a deep love for Kirtland and all the miraculous and marvelous events because of your willingness to spend the day teaching us. Thank you for your faithfulness and devotion. (I still remember loving your delightful laugh!)
RhianApril 29, 2021
Thank you for the beauty of your message!
KatieApril 29, 2021
Oh my darling sister. You and I share a very similar story. I have now been married for 20 years- with no babies. Being a member of this gospel is sometimes hard when you're not a mother. But you'll find your place. And when you find that place, my darling- you will not only fly, but you will soar. You will change the world. And you have the power- as a childless woman- to influence SO MANY and to love SO BIG. Tap into that power and change the world. That's the only way to survive this trial. Keep the faith in the hard times and love bigger than you ever thought you could. It won't make it easier or better- but it will change your heart. I promise.
Richard SkousenApril 29, 2021
This makes my heart ache for my county. May God bless us each to stand up against these evil combinations in our day! I love the author's suggestion of using the "Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits public institutions from discriminating on the basis of race." Anyone who pre-judges me by the color of my skin, no matter what color that is, and who assumes that I have racist attitudes simply because of the color of my skin, is in violation of the law.
ChrisApril 29, 2021
Great article. My confusion rests in institutions that understand the true value of America and why they continue to say that Democrats (who support and push this agenda) should be a valuable and legitimate party to vote for. IF this Marxist ideology truly is as dangerous as you portray it to be, and I believe it is, then why don't churches who espouse the value of America and the protection of free religion, speak out against the Democratic party and this Marxist regime? Has this Marxist ideology infiltrated strong conservative religious organizations???
ShaunaApril 29, 2021
I"m absolutely with you on every point. as a former academic, I have seen these theories pulled out of academia and turned into public policy. It's chilling. And now it's here in my small school District in Murray, starting in the elementary schools of all places. we absolutely must stand up--parents in particular--and make it clear that our children are not guinea pigs for this pseudo Marxist indoctrination. The goal with critical race theory, is an inversion of power--not harmony or unity or learning to all get along. The time for naivete is over
CASApril 28, 2021
As always...great ideas! Thanks Carolyn for always being on top of it! I struggle with rotating older foods out of my emergency kits. I am such a procrastinator!
vickieApril 28, 2021
this is so true. the way i learned to embrace the hit when i saw it coming or was heading straight for it, was to remind myself that God was watching me and He knew it was going to happen, so why should i worry. relax and dont strain so much, trust in Him which means i am not alone.
ChelsApril 28, 2021
I could have written this question myself. Every detail, down to the near 15 years of marriage, multiple children, whispers of “it’s not right”, first terrible few months of marriage spent crying, apply to my situation with my husband. I feel lost and alone most of the time, and my husband’s dedication is to his work. I feel for you sweet sister, and although I’m sorry to hear that you are in the same boat as me, I’m glad to know I’m not alone. I wish I could talk to you.
Diane IrwinApril 28, 2021
This is sooooooooo unsettling! I am having a hard time wrapping my head around such ideas. How can this be stopped???!!!???
Scot ProctorApril 28, 2021
Gina, Karl's first book is: Joseph Smith's Kirtland. Here is a link to buy it: https://deseretbook.com/p/joseph-smiths-kirtland-karl-ricks-anderson-14830?queryID=e46e229b0a585d43a0762556607cc13f&variant_id=93865-paperback Karl's second book on Kirtland, The Savior in Kirtland can be purchased here: https://deseretbook.com/p/savior-kirtland-karl-ricks-anderson-84510?queryID=e46e229b0a585d43a0762556607cc13f&variant_id=12036-paperback
KathrynApril 28, 2021
TRUE Gospel Message! Many of us spend our entire lives in "natural man mode" by trying to correct family members. We RARELY realize that the Myth is keeping us from living the more critical parts of the Gospel by demanding "I am RIGHT! Change and do it my way!" I"m in my 70s; that message is "just dawning" on me. Thanks Br. Goddard!
AliceApril 28, 2021
Hear, hear!
JaneApril 28, 2021
I think this is a great conversation to have. I realize that you gave reasons for why people think they should see an LDS therapist, but I think those reasons are not as important as the quality of the therapist. I saw a non-LDS therapist for years, and in all that time, she never imposed her own values on our conversations. In fact, she did that so effectively that I didn't know what her religion was (if any), her political beliefs, or even whether she was in a relationship. That's how I think it should work, and if done well it doesn't matter what the therapist's religion is.
DorisApril 28, 2021
Way to go, Carly. You truly blessed many lives, and I'm sure this is just the beginning!
R CApril 28, 2021
Outstanding and right on!
Chris HowellApril 28, 2021
What a wonderful story of kindness and generosity. Clearly this is the kind of service and "hear him" that we need to all be about.
Linda HaywardApril 28, 2021
I have known this sweet girl since she was little. Giving her “Ellen “ car to help someone else doesn’t surprise me at all. Carly is a beautiful girl inside and out. She is a great example of Christ like actions and love.
Deborah SummersApril 27, 2021
I enjoy your podcasts very much. I am a little confused about this episode. Quoting from the podcast: "Pieces and parts of the JST are added as an addendum to the scriptures or can be found in your gospel library under Study Helps ... and then "At that point, at the conclusion of his studies, the JST was put back into our scriptures in the appendix." So do we have ALL the JST revisions SOMEWHERE in our current scriptures? Or is there more somewhere else? Thanks.
ScottHApril 27, 2021
My dad grew up in Nazi Germany. The approaches the author describes are chillingly similar to the tales Dad told of school and public life in Germany during those years. I know this post validates Godwin's Law, but in this case it is factual.
Virginia RockwellApril 27, 2021
Wow. I thought we were the only ones with a bad experience with a chauvinist LDS therapist. This is very sad.
AmyApril 27, 2021
In response to Spencer: Parents have a responsibility to educate their children in love and wisdom. The author of a recent article I read shared their opinion that the difference between indoctrination and education is that "education points out that there are different solutions, often to the same problem. Indoctrination poses the belief that there is only one solution to a problem." Because children are taught to learn how to receive inspiration from God in how they should conduct their lives and how they can approach any difficulty they might face, I can't think of a better example for true education than primary and church.
ToddApril 27, 2021
Having had experience with psychology classes (yes in a Utah university), been through multiple types of therapy, had family members and friends share their experiences of therapy, and personally know several therapists. There have been both good and bad, but based on my personal experience at least 80% of these "active" LDS therapists defaulted to "the philosophies of men" (the standard practice of their profession) rather than use the gospel doctrine and principles to guide their therapy practice. There was a "we've now learned more and understand better than God how to fix this" attitude and one BYU psychology professor actually admitted that he did not believe the church or the gospel, but he did what he needed to do to keep his recommend so that he didn't loose his job. It may anger a lot of LDS psychologists, especially in Utah, that I say this (and it's not limited to psychologists, but in other professions as well) but, many keep up the appearances of church membership and activity because they use their church membership as a bridge of trust to their business clientele, and they are afraid of loosing business if they showed their true colors.
ShaunaApril 27, 2021
thanks for bringing this to my attention. I have had no qualms about persons seeking out a therapist, but I see that this is complicated. Sad to think that so many who advertise as members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, don't see the need to fit their training into the Gospel lens, but instead see the Gospel through their "professional" lens, and feel therefore, empowered to leave Gospel principles out if they seem inconvenient or contradictory. Christ says "I am the way, the way, the truth and the life." I believe Him
Dennis ThompsonApril 27, 2021
In 1975 I served as a missionary in and around Kirtland. Back then there were no Church history sites open to the public, except the Temple. I firmly believe it is holy ground as I experienced the most holy experience of my life in "the land of Kirtland."
SpencerApril 27, 2021
Indoctrination and brainwashing are awful. We need to firmly put our kids in situations where they aren't told what to think and what is truth. Places like Primary and Church.
Name WithheldApril 27, 2021
Thank you for this very timely article! It has helped me understand the confusion I felt for many years after my husband and I received marital counseling from a well-intentioned LDS therapist. My initial hopes soon turned into dread for those three-way visits because I knew I had to be careful of what I said, fearing repercussions from him later. However, I trusted that she would eventually recognize the dynamic of our dominant-submissive relationship because of her training. Thankfully, those exhausting (for me) sessions came to an end within the year because of our cross-country move for my husband's new job assignment. Our therapist's final advice to us was that I begin treatment (and antidepressants) from her colleague, a well-respected but non-LDS psychiatrist who practiced near our new hometown. We both agreed -- my husband with triumphant enthusiasm and I with a hopeless sigh of last resort... Dr. T's office visit began with an in-depth interview and ended with a wake-up call: "You aren't depressed and you don't need antidepressants. You have been gas-lit!" He did not send me home with any pills that day, but his "diagnosis" was far more empowering than anything I had felt for a long time, and our follow-up visit two months later helped launch me in my journey toward healing and dealing with my husband's narcissism. (For that part I am grateful to our LDS therapist.)
Mrs. Noah FenceApril 27, 2021
We have to remember that Heavenly Father does NOT interfere with man's/woman's/children's free agency to choose. When they abuse us, or trials prevail over us, or accidents happen that take away a life, it has nothing to do with Heavenly Father "making" it happen. The individual's choice was there, and they chose. Then the consequences of their choice follows, no matter who it affects, or how many it affects. BUT...He is right there with us, before it, through it and after it. That is WHY we CAN trust Him. Great article! We have to remember the City of Enoch--completely and totally anti-gospel, but then totally and completely turned themselves around and became SO strong in their faith/trust/actions of living it, they were taken into Heaven! That's what we all need to be focusing on and doing in order to establish the City of Zion! Stop treating ward members (and non-ward) like criminals and apostates over masks and vax because it "appears" they aren't following the Prophet and the medical profession. We've been through this before, many times since 1830ish, without the intensity of the past year's events changing our life styles and economy in modern-day times, but we've always bounced back before. We've got the unity and anti-discrimination going in the right direction, so let's not let Satan destroy what we're building.
jgerberApril 27, 2021
I would like to know who signed the letter. Is there a way to find out?
ColinApril 27, 2021
“No one is arguing against reasonable actions for cleanliness, careful management, and proper use of resources.” I see that happening every day in the conservative press. Every day.
kathy FlinnApril 27, 2021
This article is correct. There are "therapist" practicing today that teach false doctrine. There are latter-day saints that religiously follow the "therapist", instead of church doctrine.
NicoleApril 27, 2021
I do managed care for a bunch of therapists in UT and a few other states. We regularly talk to bishops who are helping ward members get help for various reasons - sexual addiction, infidelity, marriage problems, etc. These bishops pay for the sessions with fast offerings, in many cases. They seek out LDS therapists, as do other clients who are LDS. This article made me sad to think that some of these therapists are leading people astray spiritually. As someone who speaks daily to the clients seeking help, I hear their struggles in short form, and I ache for them. I have even prayed for some of them. I want them to get the help they're seeking, and I trust that these therapists are helping them heal and have healthier, happier lives. In many cases they do, but I wish they would read this article to be more aware of the great influence they can have for good or bad in a client's life, specifically when it comes to their spiritual safety.
Harold StuartApril 27, 2021
This is a much-needed article and I commend Brother Cunningham for publishing it. Sadly, more than one friend of mine has been sent to hell by a "therapist". One of them ended up committing jaw-dropping heinous acts because of a therapist's encouragement to leave gospel values behind. I would ask those who signed the letter a simple question: are you sure that you are right? Encouraging your brother or sister to sin is in and of itself a serious sin. Do you worship God or your so-called "professional ethics?" We should fear God more than man.
Charles DefranchiApril 27, 2021
There is no contradiction between gospel ideals and mental health. The only issue is acquiring the correct understanding of what they stand for and helping others in developing the same understanding. Latter-Day Saint therapists who see a gap between the gospel and the way they should provide their patients with help have given a significant portion of their faith and testimony to worldly ideas and the science of men, in opposition to that of God.
GGApril 27, 2021
This is very insightful. I have tried to find a list of the therapists who signed the letter you refer to but although I can find the letter itself, they don’t have their names attached to it. Does anyone have a link to the letter with the actual therapists names who signed it so we know who, in therapy, would advocate for behaviors opposed to church teachings?
Tracey GrowApril 27, 2021
Perhaps if all parents pulled their children from school a message would come across loud and clear. Perhaps, instead parents need to storm the school with objections to this kind of horrid nonsense and insist that the school administrations stop this. They work or US. We pay them to teach our children. Do we want to watch America go down the path to communism? Stand up and shout STOP!
Beth TApril 27, 2021
Thank you Breck! Your insights and questions feel my soul reading and studying section 45. I feel lifted!
Michael HogganApril 27, 2021
As a paranoid schizophrenic, I need a therapist who will encourage me to avoid self-destructive behaviors. It deeply concerns me that any therapist, who is presumably being paid for their time, would view that as "not their job". For the therapist in question to be a self-identifying Latter-Day-Saint is only more disturbing.
StefanApril 27, 2021
It’s great that you shared all of the experiences of people who have had poor outcomes related to therapy with LDS therapists, but why don’t you share any of the thousands of other experiences that people have had with these same LDS therapists, myself included. I can tell you first hand that I have been to therapists who are not LDS, therapists who are LDS from LDS Family Services and are required to stick to strict LDS standard therapy and a therapist who is LDS but allowed thoughts that some LDS people think may push the boundaries. By far, the third option was the one who kept me in the church, not pushed me away. This is the case for MANY members of the LDS church. These therapists often push boundaries related to cultural norms within the church that are harmful and not doctrinal. This article is simply poor journalism.
Michael JonesApril 27, 2021
There is an interesting note here with regard to Father declaring the work of each day as "good". There is one day, with the situation of the waters, where there is no reference or comment about it being good.
Gina McDougallApril 27, 2021
What a wonderful article. I had no idea that Kirtland was so sacred. Where may I get a copy of Karl Ricks Anderson's book about Kirtland? Thanks for this article, it has been an eye opener and has made me more determined to pay closer attention to our CFM lessons this year.
K LApril 26, 2021
Sounds like Nazi Germany coming to our shores. I fear for the future of our grandchildren.
Paralee EckmanApril 26, 2021
I'm sorry to say it isn't just in New York! I live in Utah and from what I hear, children even in youngest grades are being indoctrinated in many other ideas we don't want them exposed to. I am a great grandmother, and if I now had a school age children, I would do whatever I had to , to home school them!
JEMApril 26, 2021
I visited Kirkland in 1983 and very much want to go again now that the church has built it up so much. I just finished Brother Anderson’s book on the Christology of Kirtland. I would recommend it to everyone. It was an in depth and very well written book of the education of the Saints as they gathered in Kirtland on the Divinity of Christ and the difference between fact and generations of fiction.
Rosie BApril 26, 2021
Thank you Sarah! It's so important to share this message with the world at this time. There is a lack of knowledge of the pre-earth life among those who consider themselves Christians, and we need to educate everyone.
Pamela BiggerApril 26, 2021
I thank you for your courage ...oh what a world that we live in today.. it is just shameful what is happening to our society and freedom to use our intelligence...
DMTApril 26, 2021
Thank you for such a glorious article. Thank you for bringing all this very pertinent and amazing info to our attention, at just the right time, of our reading and study in the Doctrine and Covenants and the Come Follow Me program. This is so much appreciated!
JillApril 26, 2021
It's time for ALL parents to either continue to home school or begin immediately! Thanks for the warning!
Ronald BarnesApril 26, 2021
I'm intrigued by the use of vinegar on feet. I wonder if it would work on toe nail fungus also.
Helen CondonApril 26, 2021
As I have struggled to understand a dear friend who denies all messages not contained in the pages of it current version of the Holy Bible I find myself increasingly in aware that God would allow me, a sinner with a decided predilection for rebellion, to witness His Grandeur at several pivotal moments in my life. What a glorious privilege! Thank you.
Doug ShumwayApril 26, 2021
It sounds like a wonderful chance to interact with Elder Andersen, President Bingham, and Sister Eubank. Each is a powerhouse example of faith we can learn much from! I noted that President Bingham was recognized as Relief Society President in the introductory paragraph but was otherwise referred to as "Sister Bingham". I find it confusing, but wonder if there might be official usage guidance that you can direct me to. Thank you!
Rita in TexasApril 26, 2021
In the 1990s, I lived in southeast Michigan, and our ward Relief Society would sponsor trips to Kirtland. I went on two of those trips, and on one of them, had the signal honor of singing in our choir during a meeting in the temple. The RLDS Church, as it was then called, graciously gave us permission to be in that sacred edifice. I have never before or since been so aware of angels surrounding us, singing with us "The Spirit of God". It is a precious memory.
PaulineApril 25, 2021
I agree with you G. Rutter
PaulineApril 25, 2021
Why not treat with the known drugs to stop it and save lives?
Grant HarrisApril 25, 2021
Thank you for the courage to share first hand the brainwashing in schools. This suppression of free thought, shaming tactics, and indoctrination of our youth happening throughout our schools is concerning.
RobynApril 25, 2021
What a scary situation for you, your students, and society as a whole. There are many very valid concerns about racism that need to be addressed but silencing questions, thoughts, and dissent is a very dangerous slippery slope.
RebeccaApril 25, 2021
What strange times we live in. Races must tip-toe around one another, fearful of saying the wrong thing, stereotyped by the self-righteous "woke". What does this artificially-created animosity do for race relations? Who does this help?
LindaApril 25, 2021
That is outrageous! Communism. Brain-washing our students. Not allowing free thought and punishing those who disagree. I would never allow my children to be abused in school in that way,, or any other way.. Shame on that school and any other liberal thinking institution!
LorettaApril 25, 2021
Thank you for your courage and for your determination to protect your students in your calling as a teacher. We need more teachers like you. My family will be praying for you.
MatthewApril 25, 2021
I came across this lady, Helfer, in social media. I found it, immediately, destructive to anyone who struggles...with anything really. I am glad there are faithful therapists that save lives and families using the principles of love and understanding as taught in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. In such a time as we live, it’s important to understand that a good therapist can also give us great tools to deal with the world around us in a variety of spaces. Bringing us back from the edge of insanity.
Donna LeavittApril 25, 2021
She is amazing and an inspiration to all of us.
Helga SilskiApril 24, 2021
Throughout our life we experience so many different layers of understanding. Our individual and intellectual growth and development changes our perspectives, it is just little by little or one by one we come to comprehend purity and truth that will lead us eventually to the throne of God and with Christ's help of polishing us only will we make it. Faith and complete trust in God is the finest act of complete love and total surrender. Thank you Brother Peterson, always admire and love your messages and perspective.
Grant HarrisApril 24, 2021
Thank you for the courage to share first hand the brainwashing in schools. This suppression of free thought, shaming tactics, and indoctrination of our youth happening throughout our schools is concerning. This is truly alarming, and is reminiscent of "re-education" camps in history that focused on brainwashing the youth.
Informed citizenApril 24, 2021
A great example of the pervasivel attempt to sofen this country for overthrow by communism. What nonsense! These children are all spirit offspring of a heavenly father who loves them all equally and without respect of persons, as should we all. Read or reread Ezra Taft Bensons 1969 book "An Enemy Hath Done This" to understand what is going on here, and why.
Grant HarrisApril 24, 2021
Thank you for the courage to share first hand the suppression of free thought, shaming tactics, and indoctrination of our youth happening throughout our schools. This is truly alarming and is reminiscent of "re-education" camps in history that focused on brainwashing the youth.
Carl StephaniApril 24, 2021
Martin Luther King had a great vision for this nation. To the contrary, many of our current leaders seem to "have a dream that ... children will one day live in a nation where they will ... be judged by the color of their skin NOT by the content of their character."
DJApril 24, 2021
Tough situation. Stay strong.
FellowWrongThinkerApril 24, 2021
Thank you for your bravery good sir! I'm continually stunned by the quick adoption of punishment and banning attitudes for people guilty of 'wrongthink'. This is not an American value Americans should be espousing. It's frankly frightening and becoming ubiquitous. I think that conservative thinkers believe that those they disagree with are simply misguided and mistaken...we live and let live...however, what do you do when those you disagree with think you are pure evil. Would you want to share ideas and discuss with 'pure evil' ? Would you want to entertain and find 'common ground' with 'pure evil'? That's those of us who dare to think for ourselves are labeled and dismissed and cancelled. Keep up the good work!
AApril 24, 2021
Thank you for shrining this story. We all need to be educated in critical race theory going on in schools and society. How can we fight it?
Sheryl ParsonsApril 24, 2021
Thank you for speaking out. We wonder why so many youth and young adults struggle with their self worth, and yet the answer is right here, in the indoctrination they receive at schools.
LindaApril 24, 2021
You are SO CORRECT in your beliefs and observations. It is horrible what the children are being taught in school about racism, being told not to speak proper English as it makes others feel badly, that they should not listen to their white parents, only black parents. We are in Wisconsin and these conversations have been heard by adults as the Zoom calls go on. Children are NOT happy with the information they are receiving and are very confused. It is just plain WRONG. If people don't start standing up for what is right and STOP this actual discrimination from going on, we are going to end up in one huge internal war between good people who are being lead astray. And that is exactly the goal of these awful curriculum pushers! Parents - pay attention, close attention to the critical race theory, etc. that is being taught to your vulnerable children! PLEASE!
Herr Todd KnauppApril 24, 2021
There's nothing like looking at a beautifully colored, dialogue boxes to help follow the flow of the story, pick it up in your hands over & over, read wherever you want, in whatever room, whatever position you're comfortable in, comic-graphic book. I've enjoyed mine for many months now, not only in front of a PC monitor.
JuliaApril 24, 2021
I can hardly believe what I am reading! Could this really be happening in the land of the free?!
Kay YeamanApril 23, 2021
I would never in a million years let my child be exposed to this poison. Parents beware - this is coming to a school near you.
vickieApril 23, 2021
i didnt notice if they had children. i would presume if she was 29 yrs old that she might have. the way she did what she did was so evil and unsuspecting by both her parents and her husband. i would have shamed her if she were my daughter. if i had to forgive her then it would take a long long time. she sinned and knew what she was doing. she chose to do it. she more than likely planned it. if i were the dad i would still be in contact with the ex son in law and let him know how this hurt him as well. they were all a family once. divorcing like that gets my blood boiling. i know there i a God and only He can judge but the father in this case was hurt by this. and he has a right to his own feelings. and can say how he feels about it to her.
Mark MathesonApril 23, 2021
Thanks for always giving us great new insights!
CarolApril 23, 2021
This is appalling. I'm glad I was able to retire from teaching last year. I admire the author's courage, and suspect that before long, teachers with Christian values will not be able to teach in most of this country's schools.
Maureen GaleApril 23, 2021
That is just horrifying! I can't understand how this kind of repression and thought control can be part of an educational institution's basic framework of going forward... especially in today's environment, not because of it! Open and honest discussions are the only way any real change can be made. Why does this all remind me somehow of "Animal Farm" and even a little "1984"?
Kay RookhuyzenApril 23, 2021
This was a fascinating article. I believe all I have read. We know we were somewhere else before our birth and we will go elsewhere after e die. I wish I remembered.
Mike GriffithApril 23, 2021
This anti-religious freedom lawsuit is being spearheaded by the Religious Exemption Accountability Project, a far-left group that views many religious practices as "bigotry" and "intolerance." The vast majority of the group's members are Democrats or liberal independents.
Robyn GeantilApril 23, 2021
This is the 'Cultural Revolution' of America. Read what Mao did to his population and how he indoctrinated the youth, especially to turn in their parents.
PaniaApril 23, 2021
Thank you for your courage and influence on our future leaders!
Anne H PrattApril 23, 2021
Such wonderful stories. Thanks so much for sharing! Our little people are often our greatest teachers...
Norma PellettApril 23, 2021
Thank you for standing against this programming of your students. I really don't understand how this totalitarian philosophy is being swallowed whole. This is very reminiscent of the indoctrination of students that was carried out by the Nazi brown shirts. People are not stamped out like cookies. To label any group as completely homogeneous dehumanizes the whole group. That is the very basis for racism.
VelineApril 23, 2021
Thank you for writing this and exposing the Orwellian agenda of your school and others like it. It is truly terrifying to contemplate the future of our nation when the youth are being thus indoctrinated.
Harold RustApril 23, 2021
Thank you. It always helps those of us who know very little about the technical aspects of a profession to receive insight from someone who does and who can explain in calm, deliberate explanation the shortcomings in those whose application of those technical skills have thrown away logic and sacred foundations in the name of publicity and self-aggrandizement.
Ronald BarnesApril 23, 2021
Many years ago I bought your book Life Before Life. (I remember that story about Grandpa Robert) By the time I was reading the fifth story I could hardly see because of the tears in my eyes. I was especially touched by the stories about adoption, because my wife was adopted. Had her mother not given her for adoption, I might never have met her. We also had experiences about or with our children before they were born. If you send me an e-mail, I'll be glad to share them.
CASApril 23, 2021
We need more brave teachers in our school systems like you to speak out on the damage that is being done today to young people in our society. Free speech is still a guaranteed right! Thank you!
JonApril 23, 2021
3 Wherefore, because that Satan rebelled against me, and sought to destroy the agency of man, which I, the Lord God, had given him, and also, that I should give unto him mine own power; by the power of mine Only Begotten, I caused that he should be cast down; 4 And he became Satan, yea, even the devil, the father of all lies, to deceive and to blind men, and to lead them captive at his will, even as many as would not hearken unto my voice. - Moses 4:3-4, Pearl of Great Price Make no mistake, this tyrannical social “justice” dogma is just the latest battle in Satan’s war against God and the Lamb. It seeks to destroy the agency of man by separating him into oppressor/victim groups based solely on immutable characteristics: all whites are irredeemably racist, while all blacks are forever their victims; all men are misogynists, while all women are victims of the patriarchy, etc. Thus, everyone is denied their agency. Satan’s divide and conquer strategy is as cheap as it is effective. Sooner or later, we all must choose a side in this war – just as we did in the premortal world. There never will be – and never has been – a middle ground.
kathy FlinnApril 23, 2021
It seems this father easily excuses his daughter...... She is as guilty as the guy she did the adultery with!
SandyApril 23, 2021
Thank you very much for writing this article. It’s true that we are living in strange times, where evil appears to be good and good appears to be evil. The oppression openly shown by the administration at this school, and in many other halls of education as well as city councils, etc, is frightening. Where is freedom of speech? Thank you for not allowing your voice to be shut down, and for being an example of standing for the right to your students, and all of us reading your article. If possible, I plan to share your insightful message.
Phillip WeyersApril 23, 2021
Very well thought out and explained. Seems some agendas are only motivated by atheistic intolerance and bias. All power to you in these difficult times. As someone who has experienced these challenges in life before I found God, I can fully agree with your observations. An important part of life is self control or mastery over our failings, it's how we grow. Self indulgence never was happiness.
Bob TaylorApril 23, 2021
this is a truly difficult and heart breaking situation for the father. i have never been placed in this sort of situation. each person has to make - as you say - their own path thru this process, independent of the path others in the situation choose to do - easier said than done,and as you and the prophets have told us, this can only be healed and softened by the Atonement of Jesus Christ. that said - i know this is possible, my sister in law has been divorced 2x, and she has been blessed to be able to remain good friends with her former spouses and their families - perhaps pretty unique in todays world, but she has been able to do this. you get to field some pretty tough problems, and i appreciate your keeping the answers provided by the Restored Gospel at the top of the list for answering questions. keep up the good work.
GrandpaApril 23, 2021
Forgiving the daughter while being angry with the man she slept with is a double standard. She is equally guilty; you should be as angry at her as with the man. Or as forgiving. I think it would be a long time before I let either one of them in my house, and when I did it would be when I could let both of them in.
WeezieApril 22, 2021
Hear hear!!! This author is a brilliant writer. Such wonderful, concrete and complete truth. Thank you for using your talents to defend the Word of God
vinelionApril 22, 2021
Lynn Vinilus - some may not know that if there is active disciplinary action going on for someone, they are not allowed to move their membership records. So even though she moved to Utah, her records remained in KS until she followed through on prior discipline actions. Receiving a letter to a disciplinary council is not ever the first step taken but happens after people have had many chances to stop doing what they are doing that is harmful.
RitaApril 22, 2021
My grandad used to say, "Everything is more complicated than it looks at first. " Building a solar system appears to be something like rearranging the tiles in a puzzle tray or a rubiks cube; each piece has to move repeatedly in a set pattern before the final picture emerges. The moves look random until it starts to fall into place. I love how Father put all these clues out there for us, out of sight until we're ready for them.
Pete Pasquali IVApril 22, 2021
Unfortunately, they created a new religion in this global warming thing and a vast amount of people are so deeply entrenched in believing it that they filter the gospel through science rather than the other way around (including many who call themselves Latter-day Saints). The whole "science", so-called (an excellent example of what is referenced in 1 Timothy 6:20) has removed people from recognizing that the earth is in her elderly years and her passing away and resurrection is nigh. Instead, they have led people to believe that it is mankind's fault and that the answer is to throw tragically vast amounts of money at it - preferably in their direction..
RaLee HallApril 22, 2021
Amen! Thank you for sharing your insights.
Andrew J. CurrieApril 22, 2021
This is a well written and thorough article. I like it; and would sum it up thusly: 'Be really careful choosing a therapist, because most of them are godless, thus devoid of divinely inspired insights.' One might ask how being godless would diminish a therapist's effectiveness? The author gives the first clue when he wrote "Therapists are trained to believe our clients. We accept the stories they tell us because those narratives have immense power over their lives." Christ's disciple John said this about those who have and share such stories: "He that saith, I know him (i.e., Christ), and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him." (1 John 2:4) So the first thing a therapist--especially and LDS therapist--should understand about what they are hearing is that no matter how strongly the patient believes what he is saying, it's a lie. If a therapist truly believes in believing lies, it will be very difficult, if not impossible, to help a sinful person. It's even more difficult for anyone (e.g., a spouse, a parent, a friend) to help a sinful person when one chooses to 'participate' in their lie. I also find alarming his observation that "The goal of therapists aligned with this point of view (i,e., AASECT) isn’t to change these behaviors, but rather to reduce shame and increase acceptance, both among the clients themselves, and society at large." That sounds like the LGBQT+ organization's sole purpose, and we are seeing the detrimental effects all around us. It was less than a generation ago that homosexuality was deemed a mental health problem, not a favored character trait.
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
Your article is a stark reminder that the things of God are only understood by the Spirit of God. Sadly, there are still those who are ever learning, but never coming to a knowledge of the truth. The word of God through His Prophets and through the scriptures is so clear. When we abandon truth for the popular and ever-changing philosophies of the day, the results are confusion and darkness.
John R CarpenterApril 22, 2021
AMEN & AMEN especially to the following ... Third, beware of those who attribute all climate problems to man’s improper actions. Climate-change activism uses scary apocalyptical predictions to rally people to contribute time and money to advance a political agenda. Be suspicious. As President Russell M. Nelson expressed it in last month’s General Conference, “It takes faith to follow prophets rather than pundits and popular opinion.”
JFApril 22, 2021
Thank you for your positive advocacy for the counseling with faith.
Doug YoungApril 22, 2021
Belittling the accuracy of climate science is not helpful to solving the problems that we as a species are creating. We should be good stewards of our planet and do all we can to take care of it.
BOBApril 22, 2021
Extremely well thought and written. Thank you very much. What kind of contrarion joins an organization with no desire to adhere to the organizational standards but only wants to destroy those standards? Also, using masturbation to treat behavioral and psychological issues is like using bloodletting to treat arthritis and influenza.
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
I have an acquaintance who had an interesting dream that taught her about her self-worth. She dreamed she was purchasing something to drink, and that she was going to become the drink as she swallowed it. She was terrified of the darkness she would discover inside herself. However, to her great surprise, she discovered she was full of beautiful light!
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
Amen! These prognosticators have been wrong for centuries. We need to spend more time looking inside ourselves for the changes we need to make, rather than obsessing about the changes in the earth.
Maryann TaylorApril 22, 2021
Your song beautifully reflects the deep emotions in the heart of every parent when their children leave home. WHERE did the time go?
M ScottApril 22, 2021
Thank you so much for speaking out and clarifying these important issues.
AnnaApril 22, 2021
Great explanation of a complex issue. Thanks for sharing.
HelenApril 22, 2021
Clear and insightful. Scary, And of Days stuff, too! Thank you
Carol GrossApril 22, 2021
I agree with and appreciate how you addressed this difficult problem. I am licensed as both a mental health professional and as a behavior analyst and have been doing work in both fields as an active member of the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and have felt supported by and have supported the leadership of our faith for many years. There is no joy in unrighteousness because we all have a divine nature and it is so easy to become blind to who we truly are and lose our way . Thanks for not only what you are doing but also for the way you are behaving and sharing.
Jervae HornungApril 22, 2021
Thank you for having the courage to write this piece! Stand steady!
Mary Elizabeth HollettApril 22, 2021
This was incredibly beautiful. Thank you for expressing, for many of us who do not have the eloquent words, what we feel. Counselors have a great deal of power, and can better, or ruin, a life. Thank God for inspired standards, and thank God for counselors like you who can help support therapy that is really beneficial.
L J BrowerApril 22, 2021
Excellent, thoughtful and courageous article.
PjalApril 22, 2021
What Helfer fails to understand is the very practical wisdom of repentance and how wonderful it makes you feel. Following God’s advice creates a peaceful, happy feeling about yourself. Your self esteem rises and conflicts with conscience disappear! To get rid of shame, stop doing shameful things. That’s the solution.
Michael DenosApril 22, 2021
Thank you to this opinion author for clarifying and expressing of support to orthodox LDS beliefs. Points made can be applied in many of the constantly drifting man-made theories we are constantly living with and seeing. My own adult life experiences noting the radical changes in the Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) over the past several decades has been rather shocking. Again, thanks for the time to state your well founded thoughts.
JanApril 22, 2021
I loved this. Thank you for addressing it so thoroughly.
Bruce ForbesApril 22, 2021
Excellent article. As the spouse of an LCSW, I see great wisdom in the article.
Ivy SadApril 21, 2021
Let's say I despise myself, as a hypothetical situation. How am I now going to love anyone?
Bob HiattApril 21, 2021
Thank you. What a beautiful song for a wedding dance!
MUMApril 21, 2021
Truly beautiful! Thanks for sharing.
Lynn VinilusApril 21, 2021
I agree with what you say here but the issue I don’t understand is why leaders from the stake she left a year and a half are the ones calling her in. Also, why was she required to travel to Kansas with 1 week notice. All of that seems a bit strange to me.
Laurie PollardApril 21, 2021
Absolutely perfect, Jason. This will be a cherished song for many! Thank you for blessing the world with your talents!
BOBApril 21, 2021
"They may be the ones doing 'spiritual violence.'" Meanwhile, in secular society, Those who keep the peace are called violent. Those who foment violence are called peaceful. All the while, criminals are called victims.
Jo Ann OkelberryApril 21, 2021
So very sweet and touching. As I am now a grandmother and even great grandmother, I often ask myself, "Where did the time go?"
Charlene RhodesApril 21, 2021
I live in Round Rock, Texas, north of Austin.
Rosalie M. PiersonApril 21, 2021
Such honesty and integrity from our favorite "teacher": Daris Howard!! Thank you for another outstanding story/example!
David Clarke Pruden, Sr.April 21, 2021
It is always unfortunate when any individual's personal life choices, which could have remained private, become fodder for public debate. However, in an age when social media is a daily vehicle for such discussions - often at the behest of the individual themselves - a reasoned response is sometimes required. Thank you to the authors for providing some balance on this challenging subject and may we feel prompted to exercise compassion and consideration for all involved.
Enn EfceeApril 21, 2021
To the bishop whose comments tend to glorify the husband through making excuses that he has a bad habit rather than an addiction problem, perhaps he needs to educate himself on what constitutes a sexual addiction and how the brain is adversely affected by pornography, in order to counsel both wife and husband in that situation. His never having been on the receiving end of the lies, abuse, broken trust and disrespect a wife is dealt, he can’t possibly know or understand the damage and havoc those behaviors wreak on a woman’s self respect, worth and trust. It truly is a traumatic and far-reaching experience that takes thoughtful and delicate help in order to achieve proper healing. It is a very evil, ugly component in a marriage which can and will totally destroy without proper counsel and follow through. And yes, it is a sin next to murder—it murders the spirit and the Eternal covenant of marriage if not addressed and eradicated.
Su,anneApril 21, 2021
Beautiful! Where are the kleenex?
Andrew J. CurrieApril 21, 2021
Thanks for a wonderfully thorough discourse on the need for and nature of church councils. Well done! I'm always fascinated people who proclaim that, before taking any course of action, we should ask "What would Jesus do?" always conclude Jesus would tolerate any form of sin. After all, didn't He accept the woman taken in adultery? They can never reconcile His violence towards the money changers in the temple or the violence of the god of the Old Testament (e.g., The Flood, the Canaanites, the priests of Baal, the Egyptians at the Red Sea, et.al.). In his succinct declaration, Elder Richard G. Scott explained Jesus's different behaviors and taught the first question one should in determining "what would Jesus do?" He declared, "The Lord sees weakness differently than rebellion". That is the crux of the matter. If one is merely "weak", they will repent when their membership is on the line. If they are "rebellious", they are apt to go public in their search for validation. Of course, determining whether one is merely "weak" or "rebellious" requires a spirit of discernment, hence, the caution to not judge unrighteously. It has been my experience as a clerk and as a judge in these councils that the person for whom the council was convened always makes that decision very simple. In her case any "spiritual violence" that might have taken place occurred when she tore herself away from the Holy Ghost.
ShaneApril 21, 2021
One thing that is so important to understand about excommunication, is that sometimes it’s the most merciful thing to happen to a person who is not keeping their covenants. When we are baptized we make a covenant with God. When we receive our endowment we make additional covenants with God. When excommunication occurs, those covenants are removed from the individual. They are no longer bound by the covenants. This is merciful! Because they are no longer breaking the covenant, they are not as condemned in the eternal perspective. If they are continually breaking the covenants, what a relief to no longer be bound by the covenants. Church discipline is a blessing and an experience of pure love of God. Sometimes the best way to show that love is excommunication.
Daryl GibsonApril 21, 2021
I found it telling that at the end of the Washington Post story, this LDS therapist refers to Church members as "they, " not ,"we."
Janelle C. BatesApril 21, 2021
Would't accommodations for those without a religious affiliation also be unconstitutional?
TDApril 21, 2021
Social justice warriors must encounter “conflict and suppression” in order to advance the activist agenda of forced conformity where it presently doesn’t exist—there should be no mistaking that much of this is planned, coordinated, and well funded to advance the rights of a few over the silent majority. This is the era we live in. I agree with the above sentiment—religious schools like BYU need to put greater priority on gauging the strength of an applicants testimony and affiliation with the religion than they do secular parameters. BYU has been turning away a significant and growing percentage of applicants for years. Time to overhaul the admissions requirements before those being admitted Trojan horse these institutions.
LexaGraemeApril 21, 2021
Very good.
DeeAnn CheathamApril 21, 2021
As a homeschooling mom who will "retire" in a few years as my last child graduates, I agree with everything you have said. As I look back on the difficulties and sacrifices made to homeschool, they pale in comparison to the blessings that have come. I feel no regrets for the decision we made to homeschool and lots of gratitude that we were able to do so. It took us a few years to figure out what we were doing, but figure it out we did, with the help of the Lord. I can't agree more with the statement that the Lord will guide you in what/how to teach your children. I will greatly miss homeschooling when we are done and I'm already telling my kids if they want to homeschool their kids, I'm volunteering to help. :-) And I will keep on learning, as homeschooling has taught me that learning never ends.
JanessaApril 21, 2021
My husband really needs this. I do too, because don’t all?? Thank you for saying what many cannot articulate. Your words are a brilliant reminder of how God continuously gives and gives and gives some more when we honestly and earnestly seek Him. Thank you!’
LoraApril 20, 2021
This is an interesting article, and I'd like to add some more encouraging words. My aunt is a certified teacher, and for years she homeschooled her 8 children (6 boys and 2 girls). Years later I learned that it wasn't her--it was her husband. He only spent 2 hours a day at it. His secret was to follow the interests of the children. They are all grown now, and they've gone to college and done well. It doesn't take as long to home school as it does in a government school. I love to see this trend toward home schooling.
vickieApril 20, 2021
I AGREE WITH ''JESS....on this....if a person or parent wants a school to not have these particulars dont go or send the student to that school. we have loads of colleges. My only son in law said ...who is a MD by the way that he went to small colleges and finished up in the military and he is still an MD...radiologist. you can get your learning and degree in many colleges not just the prestigious or religious colleges. dont cause problems for those who want to go there and are willing to do what is required.
DJApril 20, 2021
Beautiful performance of beautiful song and beautifully produced. Thanks for sharing your testimony and talents!
LawrenceApril 20, 2021
To echo Rochelle Hale's comment above, this article seems to ignore the second great commandment, 'love thy neighbor as thyself'. If I'm loving my neighbor as myself and I don't love myself then I won't be able to love my neighbor either. Loving God is obviously significant (first and greatest) but to ignore and/or dismiss the second great commandment which this article seems to do is very short sighted and not very helpful
April WallaceApril 20, 2021
Yahosh! His voice is like BUTTER. So easy on the ears and I just love his rhythm. AND this song is timeless. You go Elder Dansie... way to bring the spirit!
FrankApril 20, 2021
The line in the sand, what set off the war, was when the government attempted to disarm the citizens and render them powerless to defend themselves. When a government or a thug attempts to disarm some or or some group, it always ends badly for those disarmed. Those patriots knew that was when they had to resist.
CASApril 20, 2021
I understand that BYU and BYUI require a Bishop's recommendation and signature to even be able to be admitted to these schools. Maybe those brethren need to scrutinize the applicants more closely, same as they would if those applying were going on a mission. These schools are NOT for those teens whose parents are hoping for a miracle to change their child's character or lifestyle. I agree; youth, don't apply to one of these schools if you cannot abide by the Honor Code. If you sign it, then live up to it or go somewhere else!
Jill PalmerApril 20, 2021
Thank you so much Brother Peterson. I always admire your insightful writings, common sense and faithfulness to the Gospel.
Heather RiemanApril 20, 2021
Thank you for your insights. I too was drawn to President Nelson's talk. I am intrigued by another word for faith being trust. My mortal life experiences of bullying, emotional abuse, infidelity, and personal failure has led to a profound lack of trust. Yet, through it all the Lord has taken care of my every need and has been closest in the darkest of times. Knowing this you would think giving Him my trust would be an easy thing. It isn't. Over the last year I have pondered this issue in my life. I have tearfully prayed about it. I have made it a matter of study. And one tiny step at a time the Lord is revealing His love, mercy, and grace in my life. I have taken President Nelson's counsel seriously and hope over the next year to either climb the mountain of distrust, with the helping hand of the Lord, or have the mountain removed entirely. Whatever happens I am putting my trust in Him to heal me from the consequences of every mortal experience which destroyed my trust in people, myself, and Him.
Gary AndersonApril 20, 2021
Thanks Brother Peterson!
JulieApril 20, 2021
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing!
RebeccaApril 20, 2021
Thank you for this insight.
Barbara MattatallApril 20, 2021
Thanks for sharing, enjoyed the performance
okcmomApril 20, 2021
This song has been a favorite of mine since Mercy Me released it. The songwriter made a movie by the same name of the story of the song, which is a beautiful story of forgiveness, reconciliation and redemption. Most of the movie was filmed right here in Oklahoma. Have a box of tissues nearby-it’s a beautiful story!
JessApril 20, 2021
It seems that the simplest and in this case most reasonable solution would be for those offended by these policies is to choose to attend a non-religious school. It's ok if there isn't agreement on what religious classes should or shouldn't be required, or whether dorms should be separate, students have plenty of schools to choose from that if one finds those rules intolerable there is always another choice. It's so strange that the "live and let live" applies to everything but religious institutions.
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
I cannot even begin to express how needful this article is for me at this particular time in my life. I am committed to the gospel of Jesus Christ, to His church, and I have a firm testimony of the Book of Mormon. Unfortunately, I recently watched a podcast by a well known speaker and author regarding alleged events in early church history that shook me to the core. It addressed a subject that has always been painful for me, and I was vulnerable to the speaker's comments, which planted doubts into my mind regarding certain issues. This has been a time of tears and unanswered questions and your article has helped me greatly. I, too, was especially impressed during conference in President Nelson's counsel to CHOOSE to believe. Thank you so much for your inspired words. You have helped me more than you will ever know.
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
Argggg! The bull-puckie that is being slung becomes so tiresome. It sounds like BYU needs to be even tougher on admittance restrictions. Only those with very sound testimonies and religious convictions should be admitted. I realize people can change in their loyalties, but I think it would help cut back on these attacks by former students.
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
Oh, how I want to shout out a BIG cheer for this mom!!! As a bookseller, I have sold many books to homeschooling moms, and it makes me so happy to see this trend growing. Barnes & Noble gives a discount for materials used in homeschooling, so be sure and check that out if you are a homeschooling mom. All you need to do is fill out a simple form and provide one of your lesson plans as evidence that you are homeschooling. You do NOT need to be a certified teacher. I believe you are doing the greatest work of your life---what a blessing for your children!
Maryann TaylorApril 20, 2021
The mother in this account doesn't say whether her daughter is receiving therapy, which she desperately needs. Obviously, she cannot force her to seek that kind of help, but she can certainly suggest it, and perhaps even meet with her daughter with the rest of the family in an intervention. As a mother of grown children, I know there is a fine line between being supportive and carrying our children's problems until they deplete and exhaust us. For our own health we need to set boundaries. When attempted suicide has been an issue this greatly complicates the situation, but NO ONE is responsible for someone else's attempted suicide. Our actions should not be based on the false belief that we can somehow control that sad choice. It can be very difficult for a mother to accept that her children are responsible for their own choices and the consequences that follow. I hope this mom will follow the advice given and continue to love and reach out to her daughter, while at the same time protecting herself from becoming overly involved, constantly trying to save her daughter, or carrying her problems.
James ScottApril 20, 2021
I fail to see a problem with these exstudents. With the number of available colleges and universities they could have chosen any they felt fulfilled their needs. Freedom of choice in all aspects of life doesn’t require “your” choices to be observed by everyone else.
Oliver JApril 20, 2021
My personal observations (plural) when Bishop, High Council, and other leadership- Husbands tend to forgive their wives; Wives turn to multi-year husband contempt, making severely defeated/empty priesthood holders. Again, just many unscientific views from good flock shepherding. Honestly, I think addiction is a poor word for compulsion or habit... and sins contrary to Law of Chastity aren't the sin next to murder (which sex crime is).
Steven SwarthoutApril 20, 2021
Nicely said. Thanks
margie stewartApril 20, 2021
Profoundly written and so inspiring! Thank you for this beautiful summary of things so many Americans know so little about...which is the tragedy that will be our downfall. This should be the lesson in every American student's history class today.
HelenApril 20, 2021
Thank for clarifying such a beautiful doctrine as taught by the Prophet. It gave me pause then and does so again, now. I find myself astonished at how little I exercise the faith I claim to have, particularly as “a principle of power”.
PattieApril 20, 2021
This IS our time to learn to exercise faith. We learned to exercise faith as a child when we learned to walk, ride a bike, swim, and trust in our parents. It is the same principle to learn trust in faith in God the Eternal Father and his son Jesus Christ. It takes faith to repent from our sins that have plagued us for years and recognize we can do better. Our prophet has been our stalwart leader to help us repent and choose to have faith. Thank you for your insights and poignant view that helps me remember my dedication to my Lord and King Jesus Christ.
SYDNEY H WHEADONApril 20, 2021
So beautiful! I loved it.
BPApril 20, 2021
Duh, don't apply to a religious school with which you disagree! Plenty of education options out there.
Sue MelserApril 20, 2021
Absolutely beautiful way to start my day!!! Thank you for sharing your talents.
Mark DonaldsonApril 20, 2021
Well said! Thank You!
Robert CowartApril 19, 2021
Thanks ,Becky for a heartwarming story. You left out one part though. The need for tissues. My eyes just got a good washing.
RONALD L BASSETTApril 19, 2021
Sudbury, Mass., home of many of the "minute men" that are buried in a special graveyard. Several years ago we visited that sacred place and walked past headstone after headstone bearing the names of those families we are descended from. As a retired military veteran I more than just remember their service, I honor each that put their lives on the line for freedom for future generations.
RebeccaApril 19, 2021
What a wonderful reminder and beautiful examples! I find my large journal with endless blank pages overwhelming, but also would love to record these mercies every day. Can you share with us where you get your five-line dated journal? I can't seem to find one.
Beth T.April 19, 2021
Thank you for sharing this with us. It is Marvelous!!!
Vivian AdamsApril 19, 2021
Superbly done. Every member of the Church should read and contemplate this beautifully researched and wonderfully written article. It is a masterpiece, and a vital telling of this prelude to the Restoration.
Stewart LangApril 19, 2021
Thank you Maurine - just a great read. I am Canadian and I was interesting to see some of the comments when President Ballard spoke about the American Constitution at General Conference - like many - at first I was thinking - hmm why would he speak about this at General Conference but that thought only lasted a few seconds as the spirit spoke to me - because it set the stage for the Restoration of the Gospel! So besides April 19th being my wife Joy's and I 46th wedding anniversary I have now learned a new piece of your wonderful history. There are so many within both the U.S. and Canada that are tearing down our history instead of learning from it - it really is so sad. We all need to learn and be reminded of our history because in most cases we have continued to remove forward because of the sacrifices of others! I found your recap of this historic day so penetrating that we all depend on God our Heavenly Father and HIS son Jesus Christ and when we hear our brethren remind us to "HEAR HIM" it really means something. Thank you again for writing this - I have sent out to many of our friends today.
Susan GApril 19, 2021
Stirring! Having read The Washington Hypothesis by Timothy Ballard, I am more aware than ever before of all the "tender mercies" and miracles that helped this country come into being. What we need right now is a movie that portrays the spiritual component of our founding, so that ALL Americans could be reminded of God's interventions.
Patsy WagstaffApril 19, 2021
This is wonderful. We need to hold strong to God. To pray to him. Need to not forget our history what our forefathers stood for and fought for. The constitution tells it all.
Jan ParkerApril 19, 2021
Today on my very own birthday of April 19th I'm moved to tears to recollect the power of God and the sacrifice of lives lost to preserve the liberty I today enjoy. May we all continue to pray for our country.
Michael EdwardsApril 19, 2021
yeah. Texas is very much in the west.
JOHN RICHARD HILLApril 19, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for this very interesting and touching article---and for reminding us of Elder Ballard's admonition that we should pray consistently for our nation. As I read your article this morning, I felt that we must also put some action to our prayers. Yes---America has many strengths, but also some serious sickness, including the never-ending gun violence and mass-killings in our schools, churches, stores and workplaces. Is this on-going destruction of human-kind consistent with the God-inspired revolution you so eloquently wrote about? Americans, including many LDS Church members, believe that we have the right to bear arms (like our early American patriots) , but we seem unable---perhaps, even unwilling---to take the necessary political steps to manage and control our pathetic gun culture. Why would foreign countries see the hand of the Lord in America's destiny when the daily news coverage is dominated by mass-killings of innocent people? Yes, we need prayers! We also need a citizenry that is willing to be "reasonably governed"!
Sara GrovesApril 19, 2021
This is a great article! I feel inspired and wish that I had paid more attention to history when I was in school. As I read the article, I felt proud to be an American, but more importantly, humbled to see the hand of the Lord with those defenders of religion and country! And the message for today is as important ro heed aff it was for those defenders of Good and country! April 19 has for many years been a significant day in my life and now I know April 19, 1775, a significant day in this country's life... that made it possible for my April 19 significant day! Thank you for that powerful article!
Kimberly KirschbaumApril 19, 2021
Perfect timing! Great message! Thank you!! Karate Kid was on last night. Though I've seen the movie many times since I graduated in 1984...and have been a martial artist ...this part of the movie, that you liken to Scripture, for the first time ever...caught my attention last night. I dozed off soon after that part. What a blessing to wake up to the magazine article email today ..to see the title linking the Karate Kid..and Gospel commitment. I think anywhere a person is with their walk with God..it should be acted upon...not middle of the road and "Squish"!! I've been squished..and walking on my own for a long time. I visit the church from time to time...that middle of the road. And have visited other churches. I've gone from being firmly on the one side...or the other...and I have to say...it sure beats middle of the road "Squish!" Though my beliefs have changed...and I'm no longer a member...the message is powerful in our relationship with God!! Your message has touched me. I will be reflecting on it for a long time. Thank you! Kim in Kentucky
Richard JukesApril 19, 2021
Thank you, Maurine, for reminding us of the solemn spirit Marie and I felt as we stood on Lexington Square, visited the nearby old cemetery, and the inn. We stayed in Lexington for about a week and were impressed with the significance of that day, centuries ago, that brought our ancestors into the fray for freedom. Thanks for the stunning photos and memories. They remind me of our special time in China.
Debra L.April 19, 2021
Very inspiring, Maureen -- thank you. Mr. Gragg's comments RE: America in its weakness, youth, lack of experience was made strong by trust in the Lord -- a truly resonant insight. I wonder if you can give me the citation for the quote RE: Liberty as "the daughter of God, excepting His Son, the first-born of heaven"? Thank you again!
FranzApril 19, 2021
Great work! The actual spelling is Velluto....
RichardApril 18, 2021
Surely the idea that there's a "third implied commandment: to love thyself" is an encouragement for the narcissist and another burden for the depressed.
AnnaApril 18, 2021
I think this was a very good response. And helpful to all parents no matter the circumstance.
Marsha WilsonApril 17, 2021
We are all children of our Heavenly Father. Even though this man was a German he had his prayer answered and he kept his word to God. All wars are horrible but each person who is drafted has to do as their country asks. I agree the people that fought back to try and win there freedom are heroes too and also children of God.
DorisApril 16, 2021
This is so wonderful, and it was great to read that so many organizations in the area have suggested working together. For you Texans, you will love having a DI in your area!
LewisApril 16, 2021
An amazing story of courage. You must be very proud of Jolanta. We can never quite know the burdens others have to bear. I was touched by her first tentative steps out of her protective shell and by the sweet way she tells her own story.
Le/Roy SoderquistApril 16, 2021
What a wonderful, positive article. I have often observed to others who complained about how bad life was that it was their own fault for not being happy. I suggest to them that they spend to much time worrying about the things they don't have and not enough time enjoying the good things they do have. Having the right attitude sure helps.
Diana BinghamApril 16, 2021
I loved everything about your story and the hardships everyone went through to help these children is heartbreaking. Bless you. I especially loved your statement “When we reach out to serve God’s children, He opens the windows of heaven to us.” How true this is. A lesson I have also learned first hand. May your children continue to blossom.
Nicola in nzApril 16, 2021
Wow, just wow! No words... But thanks for sharing. Amazing
Chuck SanfordApril 16, 2021
I thank both of you for posting this. The horror the precious children went through, and the trials the adults went through, touch my heart and those of many others who read this. It is so wonderful that Heavenly Father is involved in your lives, and always has been; His time table is not always easy, but it is always there.
Mary J BellApril 15, 2021
I love this. Thank you so much for sharing!!
BusybeeBeccaApril 15, 2021
What about your driver’s license? Where does the mark of the beast begin? Why did the vaccination, all of the sudden, start the marking?
Jo Ann OkelberryApril 15, 2021
I am so glad I read this. Sometimes I find myself questioning, and I have to correct myself. We can find help and direction from the trials of others.
Kay RookhuyzenApril 15, 2021
This story had a HUGE impact on me. I cried while reading it. I have known people like that lamb that were beaten down by other people's comments, left out of games, not invited, etc. My mom used to make me invite then over to play, watch a movie or something. I always laughingly say I'm not a real kind person but this story made look deep inside my soul and decide to PURPOSELY be kinder. NOW. TODAY. Thank you for rocking my world!
Julie FApril 15, 2021
Thank you Brother Goddard! In response to some comments, I would say that sometimes loving ourselves means being self-centered and prideful, as Brother Goddard indicates. Other times we might use the same phrase, as was mentioned that Elder Gifford did in General Conference, but mean accepting our identity and purpose, and the Lord's love for us, which is quite different from the myth Brother Goddard was referring to. I personally don't think most anyone needs to work at loving themselves in order to know how they'd like to be treated; that comes quite naturally to the natural man. The hard part is to look beyond ourselves, loving God and others, to know how to treat them!
Marie CellaApril 15, 2021
Your story made my day. So beautifully written. I felt like I was right there with you. You spoke great truth and wisdom. Thank you.
Evelyn UzzoApril 15, 2021
Vaccine passports may not seem like the mark of the beast, however, this will most likely morphe into the very mark that is prophesied in the book of Revelation.
SueApril 15, 2021
Why are we so willing to give up our rights? Why is it so difficult to believe that all our leaders do not have our best interests at heart when it has happened throughout history time and again? D&C 121:39--" We have learned by sad experience that it is the anature and disposition of almost all men, as soon as they get a little bauthority, as they suppose, they will immediately begin to exercise cunrighteous dominion." Believe it!
tfApril 15, 2021
What happened to his Cambelite membership and leadership, is that just included in Baptist at this point?
GregApril 15, 2021
Good morning. Love your articles. However, I would prefer that if an article includes cursing, that you just blank out the entire text. Including characters (even with XXXX for most of the text) that lead us to speak the curse word in our head is not what I expect when I read an article in MM. Might be a little prudish perhaps, but it caught me off guard. I expect it in mainstream news articles but not here. Thanks again for your great articles.
Alicia DavisApril 15, 2021
Elder S. Gifford Nielsen said it best: “Our Heavenly Father wants us to love ourselves—not to become prideful or self-centered, but to see ourselves as He sees us: we are His cherished children. When this truth sinks deep into our hearts, our love for God grows. When we view ourselves with sincere respect, our hearts are open to treat others that way too.” We love God because he first loved us. When we know he loves us, we naturally start to love ourselves more, and then turn our feelings of acceptance, peace, and joy to serving others. Genuinely loving and serving others comes because we love ourselves, since God loved us first.
Carolyn A.April 15, 2021
What a lovely, tender story. My heart aches for Carol Ann, who is all of us at different points of our lives. And for Lucky, who once again, is all of us when we forget, or don't allow, the Savior's Atonement that facilitates our ability to forgive and progress past the pain incurred by others. Thank you! I am blessed by this powerful and important reminder of what I can do today, and every day, to be kind.
Buffie BarkdullApril 15, 2021
Your article spoke to my soul. I was reminded of the Lord’s opening statement when He describes the holiest kind of love. “Charity suffereth long and is kind.”
Jan KingApril 15, 2021
I have lamented the lost opportunity to thank a wonderfully kind nurse who took me into her home and cared for me about 76 years ago after I was released from 2 weeks in the hospital when our home burned down. I sustained bad burns on my legs, but my mother's burns were much more severe, requiring grafting and a 6 week hospitalization. I had no clothing and I remember the beautiful little dresses this stranger sewed for me. Thank you for enabling me to realize that I WILL get to see her again, as well as others who came to my aid during that time!
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
I am really excited to hear about this book. I was counselled in a blessing that I should study the life of the Prophet, Joseph Smith, and I especially enjoyed the one by Truman Madsen. I look forward to reading this new book with updated information from the Joseph Smith Papers. Thank you for the info!
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
I think the key to staying positive is to always be aware of your thoughts. When you repeatedly tell yourself how hopeless things are, your brain believes it. When you remind yourself that the Lord loves you, and will enable you to face challenges with courage and faith, you feel greater peace and hope. We all need to practice holding positive "faith thoughts" in our minds and hearts. That is one of the reasons we are counselled to read our scriptures. We must constantly let the light into our minds and hearts.
MEBApril 15, 2021
Thank you! This is a wonderful testimony that we need not doubt but continue in faith, while doing our part. We know Heavenly Father will do His, and I, for one, will not weary him further, by asking for confirmation of that which I already know to be true. I appreciate this reminder.
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
Is someone in my life hungry for kindness? Yes! Every single one of them. There isn't a person we pass by in our everyday lives who doesn't need to be lifted by kindness. Every heart carries some sorrow.
Maryann TaylorApril 15, 2021
I appreciate this very real and down-to-earth article. I am also reminded of President Nelson's talk in conference regarding faith. He taught that we can CHOOSE to believe. I love that.
AubreyApril 14, 2021
That is beautiful, thank you.
DJApril 14, 2021
Thank you for your efforts and sharing your experiences.
David GrossApril 14, 2021
Many years ago, our then 18-month-old daughter tumbled down a flight of stairs ending on the concrete floor in the basement. It was obvious (listless and pupils pulsing between large and small) that she had severely injured her brain. I blessed her and after a trip to the hospital, where they checked her and found no treatment was needed. In summary, she was fine a couple of hours after the accident and is now 35.
Mary J BellApril 14, 2021
Thank-you for this inspirational story Kim-so sorry about the challenges-but you came through them with your family and even stronger for them. Wow!
Kelly AllenApril 14, 2021
This was great information! It was helpful to hear the lessons learned from people who experienced the Texas freeze. Thank you for sharing such important tips to getting totally ready for emergencies.
AnnaApril 14, 2021
Loving yourself is a feminist psychofad that some have tried to elevate to scriptural status with the commandment to love others as you love yourself. President Monson made it clear that there is no such thing as self love. He said the source of love is God not yourself. The love of God is pure, unselfish, never self seeking, and the more selfless you become, the more this love can flow through you to others.
D.L. AndersonApril 14, 2021
When my mom went into the care facility (she had dementia), I began writing to her on Sundays so she'd get the letter mid-week and then I'd visit on Saturday mornings. Even when she could no longer truly read or comprehend, the folks at the care facility would hand her her 1 piece of mail that she'd clutch on to. I don't know what she "read", but I know she knew she was alive, remembered, and loved. Glad the seed catalogues do the trick!
Dennis SchleicherApril 14, 2021
I think this article is much needed. As an LGBT convert, author, and fireside speaker for our church. I can see the triangular moral dilemma of both sides. This shares the psychological ramifications that we often forget about. I.e. being boisterous, prideful, etc. Thank you, Dennis Schleicher @DenSchleicher
Debra JonesApril 14, 2021
I love this article. After reading all this woman went through, I can imagine I would have a LOT of doubts about the church too! Her decision to quit questioning after receiving numerous assurances helps me to look at my questions as well. Maybe it's time I put those questions to rest too!
CarolineApril 14, 2021
I’m grateful for this article. I think we could be good friends! I’ve been studying mercy too, and highly recommend Mark Wrathall’s contribution to the Maxwell Institute’s series
CarolineApril 14, 2021
I posted a link to this on my IG and sent it to friends and family. Spiritual growth is slow, thoughtful and very personal but the Lord always remembers us and keeps His covenants. And looking back I imagine she is grateful for the stolen groceries and laundry, as I am for my “hardships” from my vantage point of old age. Well done article!!
Richard PedersenApril 14, 2021
I felt a little uncomfortable when I heard these words in the last General Conference, "I don’t know about you, but when I read these two great commandments, I detect a third implied commandment: to love thyself. Have you ever thought of loving yourself as a commandment? Can we truly love God and love His children if we don’t love ourselves?" I may have mistakenly taken these words out of context or missed the point of the talk. It does feel awkward or contradictory from what I believe and what this excellent article teaches. Perhaps there is another learning opportunity or perspective that I don't understand?
LexaGraemeApril 14, 2021
Thank you for this.
Kay RookhuyzenApril 14, 2021
WOW! Your experiences were mind boggling! But you survived, became stronger and by sharing your experience and the knowledge gained also strengthened me! THANK YOU!!
AnnaApril 14, 2021
Very helpful. This has been on my mind lately too.
Davod C HobsonApril 14, 2021
Could the mark of the beast refer to placing chips like they currently do with dogs and cats? It would be sold as a "convenience" but would allow easy tracking of individuals by commercial or government agencies who might require it as a condition of doing business?
AnnieApril 14, 2021
Excellent!
Susan MorrisApril 14, 2021
Well said. The question is not whether the Lord is true and faithful but whether we are. The restored gospel is not on trial as some assert: we are.
Pennie KnottApril 14, 2021
Amen Sister! I made a personal promise many years ago to follow Christ, be an active Church member, and follow the prophet. Never revisited that decision. I have been richly blessed and mentored by the Lord, no matter the challenges, for the last 50 years
AnnaApril 14, 2021
I liked this story very much. Thank you!
Penni C BrownApril 14, 2021
All great advise, thank you! We live in earthquake and fire country. I will add the following: -> Purchase and keep a large fire extinguisher charged and ready. Schedule the maintenance to make sure it is ready if you need it. Read how to use it and have each member of the family learn where it is stored and how to use it properly, practice using it at least once to get the feel of what to expect when using it during a panic situation. -> Make sure you have the tools to shut off your utilities (if needed) where they are shut off. No one should waste precious minutes searching for that shut off wrench! Get a small clip and chain and tether it the wrench to the shut off valve handle. -> Buy a water storage bag that fits inside your tub that can be filled/inflated with fresh water as soon as you think you may need to save water for a short time. Using a water safe bag keeps that tub water clean from other contaminates (from flushing toilets, pest, etc.), "Water Bob" is one brand to search, I am sure there are others. -> If you are currently storing water or worry that available water might not be the best, get a water filtration pitcher and store an extra filter or two. If you have available water but just want better taste, this is a much more economical source for clean water than cases of bottled water. -> Toilet paper takes up a LOT of storage room, and during the pandemic the cost and availability made it extremely rare. Instead, store small personal hand held water bottle bidets, flushable wipes and doggy doo bags. Use the bidets *if* you have the water. Wipes take up less storage space, and the dog bags are for placing them in after use, as most sewers and septic systems recommend not flushing them in the first place. Wait before flushing, sounds gross, flushing after a BM only! -don't waste precious water flushing what can be easily and hygienically done otherwise. *If* absolutely necessary, you can use a bucket lined with heavy duty trash bags and rimmed with a cut and slit to fit pool noodle as a toilet, not fun, certainly not choice number one, however it will save water and still be useful -channel your inner ancestors. Keep baby wipes *and* hand sanitizer on hand as well to wash hands, again, saving water. Any personal hygiene wipes can be refreshed if they dry out with a very small amount of water. Keep Lysol or other non bleach *sanitizing* wipes in your storage for cleaning. If these wipes dry out, you can refresh them with and liquid disinfectant cleaner to restore -do not mix bleach with *any* other chemical cleaners. And a final warning about using gas, flame, wood, cookers, certain heaters, fire places, coal, oil, and many other things as a heat source: *Make sure* you have ventilation when doing so other wise you run the very real risk of carbon monoxide poisoning which can damage your organs in the least and cause death within a matter of an hour or two.
Nihla JuddApril 14, 2021
Does not a vaccine passport absolutely strip conscientious objectors of their God given right to agency - over which the war in Heaven was fought?
Anita EApril 14, 2021
What a series of unfortunate events. Oh my. Thank you for this wonderful article about your life and how you found a way to turn things around in your relationship with the church and Heavenly Father.
Gaye WillisApril 14, 2021
Thank you for sharing your powerful experience, which is a great reminder to hold fast to our faith. I was very inspired by it.
Meg H.April 14, 2021
To many people self-love means allowing themselves to feel God's love for them. It is not selfish, self-centered, or narcissistic. On the contrary, it is an act of faith, humility, and surrender. To me Jesus is the greatest example of that kind of self-love.
Rochelle HaleApril 13, 2021
What happened to the second great commandment, love thy neighbor as thyself (Matthew 22:39)? When did this become a Latter-Day or an American myth? The golden rule is found in most cultures. If we understand how we want to be treated (love ourselves), then we will be more inclined to love and respect others and desire good for them. Loving and respecting ourselves is not selfish. It is a key to loving our neighbors as God would have us, and shows our love for Him as well.
Gary WitteApril 13, 2021
Thank you immensely. If we were more interactive with prayer our motivation would raise to a higher level. I liked what Jared Halverson said (See Matt 22:36 - 39), that loving ourselves should be the third great commandment. I loved the spirit and poignant spirit of your article.
Marcia SmootApril 13, 2021
Thank you, Bro. Goddard, for addressing this topic. I have never been comfortable when I've heard taught the myth that we must love ourselves before we can love others. I prefer to consider the glorious truth that I am a daughter of a Heavenly Father who loves me, and it is my duty to spend my life striving to become more like His Son.
Sally SmithApril 13, 2021
Sally Smith Such an all encompassing message about consecration. Thank you for sharing it. It brought me new insight and joy.
Geoff SteurerApril 13, 2021
Thank you, Wally, for not only reminding us of these important truths, but also living a life that illustrates these principles.
JessicaApril 13, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful insight! It is exactly what I needed to hear today!
Valiant JonesApril 13, 2021
This is so good. Thank you for setting aright a philosophy of the world that has, as you say, inverted God’s well-being pyramid and stood it on its head. Amen.
Reed FinlaysonApril 13, 2021
Excellent article. I would add, however, that my experience with working with victims of abuse for 30 years is that some struggle desperately to find anything of worth in themselves to even feel they can approach God. Especially one that did not seem to be around when the abuse was happening.They need a little push in the form of learning to see their strengths in order to feel that maybe they have enough worth for God to care about them. In that sense, they do need to love themselves. I have always interpreted that scripture from that perspective.
Kerry FarrApril 13, 2021
Thank you Brother Goddard❣️ This is one of the most enlightening articles I’ve read in my 73 years. I have really enjoyed your previous articles also. You have a fine mind, inspired by the Lord to share truth with us.
Frederick SmithApril 12, 2021
The individuals who sabotaged the aircraft were most likely prisoners of war, abducted foreign citizens or ethic minorities that were used as slave laborers. The Germans used these people across all industries. These were the real heroes in this story. The war criminals are those that enslaved them. 15 million slaves make up 20% of the labor force at its peak during the war. There was great heroism in their efforts to fight the enslavers. They also prayed to stay alive.
Lois MiddletonApril 12, 2021
This story is fantastic!! It is reminiscent of the stories that my brother-in-law told about his time in the army spent in Germany during WW 2!
Kathleen FulmerApril 12, 2021
WOW! Indeed, the Lord DOES keep his promises.
Grace Christophersen ChumleyApril 12, 2021
When this fire happened, my sister who has not gone to church since high school, let me know about it. I was worried along with her and others because this was the camp of our youth in the 70's. So many memories. For three sisters from an inactive family this camp was our introduction to many gospel principles. I never heard the out come of what happened to Camp Liahona but was reminded about it today and did a search. I was so glad to come across this article. Thank you for sharing your experience.
Rochelle HaleApril 12, 2021
Thank you, thank you Elder Holland for saying that you "dabble" in your Book of Mormon reading. It is difficult to keep up with our Come, Follow Me studies, Conference talks, etc., and regularly study this precious book. I am thankful for audio capabilities and all of the resources made available through the Gospel Library. Thank you for your example.
TiffinyApril 12, 2021
Mine also said the email was invalid. I had used the auto. I typed it in manually and it worked. I hope this helps.
Michael BrashearApril 12, 2021
I am always uplifted by stories of faith and answered prayers in the lives of all of God's children, regardless of faith, circumstances or worthiness. If it were not the case I fear we would all go with prayers unanswered. God is eager to bless all His children. His request is that we go about doing good.
Corey D.April 11, 2021
Well written and well said and I agree, courageous from someone as young as he. I am about to retire after 42 years at the 2nd largest defense and aerospace contractor in the nation. Just before Christmas my coworker who is a young returned missionary was on the company Intranet said to me "come look at this", somewhat hidden in the announcements for the day was a corporate policy stating that they would no longer be hiring from BYU because BYU did not foster a climate of being supportive of LGBTQ+ rights, policies and teachings. We have not been able to find that since so possibly it was deleted, there are a number of executive positions at my division that are held by people who are BYU graduates and hopefully they stood up to that. Our church leaders and others not of our faith have warned about what has been going on in academia, particularly at the university level for many years. All that is now coming into play but the real danger is that corporate America has become part of that and when you yield influence over peoples jobs, their livelihoods, how they support their families you have real power.
Chuck SanfordApril 10, 2021
And I'm right there with YOU, Martha. The were 13 temples when I was baptized in March, 1971.
Ronald BarnesApril 9, 2021
When I was on my mission in 1974, we used pictures in our discussions. One picture showed all 16 temples at the time. This included the, yet to be dedicated, Washington DC Temple; of which was an artist rendition, not a photograph.
Bonnie HamiltonApril 9, 2021
I, too, wonder what diet is best to avoid AD. I've always thought the Keto Diet to be unhealthy with it's concentration on animal products, especially fat and its avoidance of healthy fruit, vegatables and whole grains. It seems like it's the opposite of a Word of Wisdom diet. (Please understand I'm not criticizing tor judging those who think it's wonderful.). I mostly follow a whole food plant based diet, but, since I love a good dessert, I think I eat too much sugar. Is sugar the real culprit here? If so, for sake of brain health as I age, I can cut out sugar!
RitaApril 9, 2021
When I joined the Church in 1976, there were 16 temples around the world. I decided I would visit every temple once my children were grown. Yea, the best laid plans....I've worked at/visited a total of 6 temples, all in the US, and at this rate, I'll have to visit the rest as a spirit.
Donna MaxApril 9, 2021
Wow - I am so impressed with this article and with all of you who responded upholding righteous principles.! Its people like you who give uks all hope that there are truly others out there who are willing to actually speak out against wickedness and perversion and put your names to it!! God bless you al!l
Martha ClantonApril 9, 2021
I'm right there with you.
Carlos RoundyApril 9, 2021
Life is tailored for each of us. In the premortal life we each agreed to experience our trials and difficulties, for our personal growth.
Lisa Simonsen PowellApril 9, 2021
I love this article. It makes so many things more clear. I have always wondered why I have had to suffer so at the hands of abusive parents who profoundly affected my life in so many ways. However, I have learned so many lessons on compassion and self love that I wouldn't have learned any other way. I want to turn that horrible abuse into helping others who have suffered as well.
Carlos RoundyApril 9, 2021
Elder Holland is a fine example of finding light and truth in many places, and with a variety of other good people.
Steven SwarthoutApril 9, 2021
The only thing I would add is to focus on reinforcing the son's positive behaviors. I really enjoy and admire this column.
LexaGraemeApril 9, 2021
This reminds me of the cowboy story of the cook who made a lovely pie, using moose or cow instead of rabbit. Thank you. Hubby and I enjoyed it.
Carol NApril 8, 2021
I was actually quite stunned when I heard this announcement.
Gary LawrenceApril 8, 2021
Well done. Stay strong.
HelenApril 8, 2021
Thank you! During my engagement to my first husband I was excommunicated, striving for rebaptism. During one moment of agony I asked Father why he didn’t take me home before I did more damage and heard the distinct “thought”, “Because your children want you to be there.”
Maryann TaylorApril 8, 2021
Interesting! I had never thought of our national debt in this context, but yes, I can see how Satan would use this to divide generations.
vickieApril 8, 2021
i enjoyed reading this. i will use it for a lesson on sunday. since we are homebound i will teach this to my husband. my kids are all grown and gone. reading this gives me a sense of power. that sense of power is how unimportant our diseases are compared to the glory of God. How we can over come and not have whatever we go through be so important over anything else. and whatever our trials are, we chose them knowing we would suffer which lightens our burdens.
Jon SpencerApril 8, 2021
This is an articulate and well written article. The LGBTQ+ group gains adherents by scooping up those who lack self confidence, are lonely and who feel, rightly or wrongly, that they exist in a different world than the rest of their group (in this case, BYU students). I don't think these new members actually believe the rhetoric that their leader espouses, but they go along because they are now members of a gang where they feel welcomed. The Marxist groups in America (including at least one major political party) seek to separate people into victim groups, because while in one of these groups, in one of these gangs, individuals can be indoctrinated, can be controlled. So, is Jesus indeed transgender? That statement is so insipid, so devoid of any rational arguments, it makes reason stare. Do all members of the BYU LGBTQ+ gang really believe this? I sincerely doubt it. And this is the hook by which some, maybe many, of the "victims" can be brought back to reality, and into fellowship with the rest of the campus. This approach is nothing more than servant fellowshipping and ministering by the rest of the campus. The goal of the BYU campus should be to become one with each other (and that goes for every community). I pray that every member of the BYU community will seek to find common ground with every other member of that community.
Anna G PowellApril 8, 2021
Thank you for writing this.
Lisa M CroftApril 8, 2021
Thank you for your courage to speak up. I’m concerned how Satan’s plan of forced compliance with virtue signaling movements has permeated BYU. You may add Professor Ryan Gabriel’s speech at BYU and his introduction of critical race theory to the list of BYU Marxist movements. Professor Gabriel proposes that I am sinful because I am white and deserve to pay for the sins of people I never knew and to whom I am not related. Alternatively, my ancestors fought against slavery. America’s “original sin” of slavery is to be heaped upon my shoulders because I was born white. This, while BYU won’t allow a pro-life club on campus because it would be “too divisive.” I am saddened at how President Worthen passively allows atheist doctrine to permeate the campus.
Kirsten SchwendimanApril 8, 2021
Wow, that was a good one. Somehow I feel better now...thanks!
Andrew J, CurrieApril 8, 2021
I don't know what is going on at BYU, but to understand something is seriously awry one only need to read Elder Ezra Taft Benson's General Conference address of 4 Apr 1969 "To the Humble Followers of Christ". Among several grave warnings about post high school education, he said, "The precepts of man have gone so far in subverting our educational system that in many cases a higher degree today, in the so called social sciences, can be tantamount to a major investment in error..... President Joseph F. Smith was right when he said that false educational ideas would be one of the three threats to the Church from within." As noted recently in the local news, a 26 year old BYU senior was arrested for several molestations on Campus. At the time I wondered why the Church was underwriting the education of a 26 year old undergraduate! If he graduated from high school at 18, served a two-year mission, and took five years to get a bachelors degree, he'd only be 25. Instead, we are paying to continue the education of a 26 year old pervert? Is something seriously wrong at BYU? Elder Benson further observes: "Now hear this test proposed by President George Q. Cannon: If the breach is daily widening between ourselves and the world...we may be assured that our progress is certain, however slow. On the opposite hand, if our feelings and affections, our appetites and desires, are in unison with the world around us and freely fraternize with them...we should do well to examine ourselves." Today we have on BYU an LGBTQ+ proudly advocating other than seeking the Lord's help in changing? Elder Benson concludes by saying, "To repeat again from the Book of Mormon, "...they have all gone astray, save it be a few, who are the humble followers of Christ; nevertheless, they are led, that in many instances they do err because they are taught by the precepts of men.(2 Ne 28:14)."
Harold RustApril 8, 2021
I appreciate your willingness to discuss the ramifications of a general tendency for even our own grandchildren who want to be "kind and understanding" of those who are different. After all, that trait of compassion is at the heart of being a member of the Church. Consequently, if we speak out against someone or some group who "claim" they are being charitable we can be looked down upon. However, giving in to someone else's demands is often not charitable if what they seek counters basic freedoms or goodness for others. I have learned through all this the value of basing all my conversations with grandchildren on fundamental truths and objective goals which they can agree to. That way when we talk specifics about the purpose of a particular "peaceful protest" of the posting of signs that basically say "I respect science and so don't you dare say anything against my view of whether a man is a woman or factors besides carbon dioxide influence climate." When they understand the basic truth, then they are generally open to hear concerns about why someone who is demanding compassion might really be demanding subservience to their ideas instead.
ShaunaApril 8, 2021
Good for you Sheaums. I am a BYU alum with a daughter there now and one admitted for next year. Ironically, about 30 years ago, while pursuing a Master degree in English at BYU, I learned about postmodernism, Marxism etc. as part of literary theory criticism. I worked on a Ph.D. elsewhere, where I learned more--including some Gay Studies theories. It is absolutely stunning and horrifying to me, to see that these "theories" are now driving public policy and have become widely accepted as "truth." They are ideologies with a capital "I" and need to be dissected, examined and rebutted like every other theory out there. I read about the lighting of the "Y" but was not familiar with the social media comments of it's leader etc. From his tone, it seems he's headed for a fall, as we all are when we become puffed up with pride. I pray for you, my daughter, and all BYU students who are seeking a broad based education within the context of the Gospel, that you'll be able to get an education that aligns you with the mission of the Lord's Church. Thanks for being bold in standing for truth and righteousness
A. BinghamApril 8, 2021
This article highlights the massive brainwashing campaigns that Americans are being subjected to in which Satan so craftily orchestrates. This is also a call to the importance of staying spiritually in tune. We need to pay much more attention to the little personal warnings and promptings that come to us and our children through the spirit if we are going to raise up a new generation worthy of the blessings of continued liberty. And if we can't turn around a majority of people, which is unlikely given their downward moral trajectory, at least we must be prepared to raise up a remnant of righteous people willing to stand together and resist what is coming. So many people and institutions have succumbed to this brainwashing, political correctness, and rarely take a stand anymore on the core issues that are causing this precipitous decline in morality and enlightenment in America. More and more of us are 'awakening to the awfulness of our situation'. As a graduate of BYU, I continually shake my head in disbelief and with increasing sadness at the path the institution is taking. Being in tune with Still Small Voice of Conscience is ever so critical in these times.
AnneApril 8, 2021
Very astute observations articulated by a brave young man. Let’s hope he won’t incur the wrath of the mob for speaking truth. Kindness and compassion do not have to be used as a disguise for Marxism.
Leah Jane BrowerApril 8, 2021
Thank you for this timely article. You have articulated the uneasy feelings many of us have but are increasingly afraid to express for fear of being labeled intolerant. There will probably be responses challenging you, but I for one appreciate your refreshing frankness.
MelanieApril 8, 2021
Thank you for your courage to bring our attention to this. I have seen this coming to BYU over the years, and sometimes even among LDS congregations--a buyin to liberal, marxist culture under the guise of love.
Lora KinderApril 8, 2021
My mother was afflicted with Rheumatoid arthritis that flared up greatly after her last child was born. The medications led to osteoporosis which led to a broken hip, which left her bedridden the rest of her life. (She had a hip replacement, but the other hip broke and she wasn't strong enough to endure another surgery.) She spent 20 years managing her pain with various medications with devastating side effects, until she died of a massive heart attack at the age of 60. During that time, I came across the story of an early Latter-day Saint man who had a vision of the pre-earth life, and how he had chosen his own life of pain for the sake of greater glory in the hereafter. I shared it with my mother, which helped her to see that what she was enduring wasn't wasted. In fact, she did make good use of the time. She monitored the emergency channel on the CB radio, and saved at least one life. (This was back before cell phones were invented.) A baseball coach needed her to call for an ambulance for one of his players who was hit in the head. He couldn't leave the other kids, and all he had was his CB radio. "Thank God you were there, lady. Thank God you were there!" As I look back on that time, Mom had no strength, but she could lift your spirit. I could count on her to be there to listen and advise. Just "being there" was enough for her life's mission.
LoraApril 8, 2021
I'm a grandmother who is actually afraid of what my grandchildren will be learning at American universities in the last days. I've seen them go from places where free speech is encouraged to places where only one viewpoint is tolerated and all others are considered evil and dangerous. I remember when the Marxists were willing to brainwash our youth for free. Now we get to pay for the privilege. Sending your son or daughter to college now is playing Russian roulette with their values. I hope that BYU can resist this trend.
Marcia AndersonApril 8, 2021
Bravo for your well-researched thoughts and analysis. I too have faith that BYU (my school decades ago) will not lose its “lighthouse in the storm” status over all this going on as you so eloquently describe.
Michael DenisonApril 8, 2021
Thank you for posting this. While I have never struggled with feelings of homosexual attraction or other letters in the LGBTQ+ etc, I do know the feelings of being ostracized all too well, and some of my closest friends wear the neon-rainbow. I suppose I exist on "both sides" of this issue, and I hope that I can reconcile the two, pointing to what is right and true.
Bruce ForbesApril 8, 2021
Well said; thank you for writing.
KathleenApril 7, 2021
Wow! Beauty and talent come naturally in this family.
Pamela JacksonApril 7, 2021
So, its been five years (some including covid). What happened? Where are the final results? I can't seem to find anything on this subject that has a later date.
DoreenApril 7, 2021
I miss the connection that we enjoyed before this pandemic hit. I feel that we should be happy and practice smiling more and greeting everyone with interest and love!
J. Matthew PhippsApril 7, 2021
Then now is the time to make the major step. Ditch the name of the racist the school is named after. Ditch the name of the man who perpetuated the LIE about the sons of Caine and the mark.
Kay RookhuyzenApril 7, 2021
I'm with you! I hate self checkout. We are already distanced enough physically on a daily basis. I crave small connections hen I get out!
LexaGraemeApril 7, 2021
I took Dr. Nibley's Book of Mormon class in 1990. The first day was certainly something else. As was the rest of the term.
LexaGraemeApril 7, 2021
My mother's neurologist recommends a plant-based diet. He has been saying this for the four years she has been seeing him. He understands that not everyone can follow this, but recommends low-fat cheese, minimal pasta (his family would rebel if that got cut out) and sugar.
LexaGraemeApril 7, 2021
Agreed. Thank you.
DianeApril 7, 2021
This was a timely and excellent devotional!
ShaunaApril 7, 2021
Thank you--I agree. Covid has brought so much fear into our society--so that we're literally afraid of each other. I have refused to conduct myself that way. And I always greet people--to me it is a recognition of our common humanity
ShaunaApril 7, 2021
Thank you--I found this really helpful. wish I would have done this much earlier with my kids
Ruth JamiesonApril 7, 2021
So sweet! What a wonderful way to start my day! Thankyou!!
RochelleApril 7, 2021
This is already coming about with the EGS. Our credit score will be based on our actions politically instead of our payment history etc. It is wise to stay informed but at this point I see no alternatives being offered by anyone.
Russell HembrowApril 6, 2021
I am happy to accept the word of a Prophet and celebrate April 6th, whether it was exactly 1830 years to the day is not of any consequence to me though, I am happy with April 6th; but did you know 'Our Calendars Skipped 11 Days in 1752'. Yes, that is right, Six and a half million Britons went to bed on September 2, 1752 and woke up on September 14. The reason? The Calendar (New Style) Act of 1750, you don't believe me, just 'Google' it; we did it to catch up with Europe who for hundreds of years had already caught up their callender, Only Russia remained behind and fixed it by skipping days in 1918. So, it is a bit moot in my opinion, it also means the Sabbath is not really on the Sabbath if you are stickler for 7 days, but we can celebrate Christ's Atonement on any day, can't we?
GoogleApril 6, 2021
Wonderful story, reckoned we could combine a number of unrelated data, nevertheless really really worth taking a look, whoa did one particular study about Mid East has got much more problerms too.
Wes BrewerApril 6, 2021
I like President Nelson stating the "likelihood" of Christ's birth but not declaring it as for certain and absolute. The D&C scripture as I read it is not specific enough to declare that day as Christs birthday, but referencing the general year known and accepted by mankind. This is a good example of a revelation coming through men with limited knowledge and that limitation being included in revelations. It does look like April 6th is a "commemorative date" but I am not seeing a certainty enough through scripture or prophetic revelations to draw that Christs birthday is on April 6th. I'm not seeing that any of the prophets are confirming it is that date. There comments seem more "general reference of dates.." To me, this idea of April 6th seems more plausible but isn't at this time doctrinal. Which I think is what the author is exploring.. maybe I'm seeing this wrong.. ?
Calvni GarvinApril 6, 2021
Being a fan of history, read/learned (forget where) that if you were an early Christian and celebrated Christ's birth on his actual birthdate, the Romans would send you to the Circus (kill you). But during the Feast of Saturnalia, which was the last two weeks of December, you could openly celebrate Christ and the Romans wouldn't bother you. Thus Christmas evolved into Dec 25th. To celebrate otherwise makes you a fool, the orgins of April Fool.
Melissa FeldApril 6, 2021
Jesus most likely was born in the spring, since that is when Shepherds gathered sheep. However, D & C 20: 1 was originally a preface written by Joseph Smith's scribe Oliver Cowdery; it was later added as verse one in D & C 20. And "the day of our Lord" was a formal way of saying what year it was. It could have been the day Jesus was born, but we cannot conclude for sure that it was, since it wasn't dictated by Joseph Smith directly.
Joan LeachApril 6, 2021
An ancient stele in Central America gives Christ’s birthdate as April 6. My former bishop, David Handy, and his brother annually search the jungle ruins and he presents slides and a talk about their explorations. Bishop Handy is an attorney in Orem.
Joan LeachApril 6, 2021
David Handy and his brother can show you the photos of a stele in Guatemala dating hundreds of years old that give Christ’s birth date—as April 6. My former bishop and an attorney in Soren, these brothers have for years searched the jungle ruins in Central America every summer. I’ve watched Bishop Handy’s presentation twice and have come away in awe both times. I especially love the one that shows three “picture representations” of God with the one picturing the Holy Ghost as blank!
Yvonne AstonApril 6, 2021
Interesting study. If this hypothesis is correct then eating to prevent brain malfunction needs to start early on in life.
Ray CongerApril 6, 2021
A shout out to my long ago friend at BYU in about '88, John Devitry-Smith. Hi John!
Harvey HiggsApril 5, 2021
I read articles similar to this article and find the research interesting. However whether Christ was born in December or April makes little or no difference compared to the fact that Christ was born and died for our sins.
Maryann TaylorApril 5, 2021
Wow--total temples in operation and those announced--251. We are certainly living in glorious times of fulfilled prophecy! I am so excited and hope we will all work harder to prepare our ancestor's names for ordinances. My experience has been that performing the temple ordinances for them is the most joyful and satisfying work in the church. What a loving reunion we will have one day with all of them.
Maryann TaylorApril 5, 2021
Amen to Susan G.s comment!
WhatToEat?April 5, 2021
Based on this, what kind of a diet should be recommended for those who have a genetic predisposition for Alzheimer's?
KathyApril 5, 2021
This is really fascinating to me, because a couple of my grandparents had AD before their death. What's your bottom line for prevention and reversal? Will your recommendations also improve brain clarity and function?
Nancy M. SmithApril 5, 2021
It says my email is invalid
Cleve AlldredgeApril 4, 2021
I tried to leave my email for the app, but it said its not valid.
Jacob HessApril 3, 2021
Thank you for the kind comments, everyone. These are challenging questions, and whatever we decide, I hope we can remain united as brothers and sisters seeking the Lord. To Dr. Lynn D Johnson's question, I sent my draft to Sally Linford prior to publication. So, it's not true she would have been shocked, because she was very encouraging of my moving forward. The woman on Facebook whose post prompted this piece (and who I kept anonymous on purpose) expressed concern that she had been portrayed as angry. Despite her contention that she was not motivated by anger, I maintain that her post and comments she and others made throughout the thread functioned to stir up people in opposition, suspicion and enmity towards our presiding leaders. Call it what you want, it's something I raise concern about without apology.
charles casbionApril 3, 2021
when you are going through times in your life , its always good to know our heavenly parents are near us ,and our brother jesus christ and angels of our heavenly father, they are always by our side and never leave us , even in the storms of life
JenApril 3, 2021
I feel a major theme was anti-racism am quite disappointed you did. It mention that at all. That is much more specific than just unity. The prophet gave us a call to lead out against prejudice and racism... and his talk was not the only talk to address it.
LindaApril 2, 2021
Love this. Such a great reminder!
Ann S PapworthApril 2, 2021
I too agree that these are lovely traditions. Wish I'd had some of these for my 7 children but hopefully I can pass them on to some young grandchildren!! I may try a couple of these although now alone. Thanks
Marsha NewmanApril 2, 2021
Excellent article! All the missionary experiences - old and modern - were inspiring. I have a missionary grandson working in Iowa with the spanish speaking people. He's very new, but full of the spirit and so anxious to find a really good "golden contact." I'll be sending him encouraging quotes from this article. Thank you.
Lana JohnsonApril 2, 2021
The new app says my email is invalid so please please please sign me up!!!!!
Sandra W RawlinsApril 2, 2021
This is full of such passion, adoration, love and testimony!! I am drawn to come back and listen over and over. I shed tears of wonder and joy!! Thank you David!!
ShariApril 2, 2021
Is thus app available for android? I am having issues signing up for it.
Sharon L. MayApril 2, 2021
Darned funny--and perceptive. I expect miracles from President Nelson everytime he speaks to the Church. Can't wait for Saturday morning. Hang on!!!!
John R CarpenterApril 2, 2021
There is nothing more consistent in life than change. In heaven, Love and Consistency is a standard.
Matthew GlosengerApril 2, 2021
Please keep the personal political agendas out of this space. Many members of the church DO NOT agree that racism was any part of the riots. You saying it was, doesn’t make it a reality. At NO time, from ANY speaker, did we hear counsel on the riots and racism. The messages of unity would have been completely nullified had they connected actions to motivations. Using the term “racism” automatically separates groups into value positions of being “LESS THAN”. We should shun that word as deeply as we shun any position that classifies Gods Children, collectively, as being less worthy.
David R JacksonApril 2, 2021
Will I be able to add it to my iphone via a download from the Apple istore?
Joan TurnerApril 2, 2021
Thank you loved this article from Hosanna to Hallelujah of Holy Week followed readings and ideas everyday
Helga SilskiApril 1, 2021
Dear friends, let us not knock Facebook or other Social Platforms, if we add what we know to be true, sharing our testimony born by the Holy Spirit, then even there truth and beauty can be found. The Spirit will always lead the honest in heart to see, hear, understand what is truth. We must be selective yes, but it also is up to us to present the positive and good for better understanding and clarity to the masses.
Susan G.April 1, 2021
Who cares and why is this important? Actions speak louder than words or other people's thoughts on the subject!
Christy RutherfordApril 1, 2021
When I attempt to sign up for the app, I get a message when I put in my email address that says, "email" is not a valid email address, even though I am putting in my regular gmail address.
LindaApril 1, 2021
The man is a total jerk, plain and simple.
Joyce TerryApril 1, 2021
Your app is saying my email address is not valid
PeneApril 1, 2021
This is such a beautiful podcast...thank you both for being such devoted disciples of our Lord Jesus Christ and for your heartfelt testimonies. Love you and thank you for all you do.
Mary HillApril 1, 2021
FYI - the app is not appearing yet in the App Store. The Meridian app that is there is Meridiani Magazine which is NOT what we are looking forward to getting.
Judy PerryApril 1, 2021
Brilliant article, Diana. I consumed literally every word. Thank you.
Judi EnglishApril 1, 2021
A beautiful talk that spoke peace and hope to me. Thank you
Carlos RoundyApril 1, 2021
The same question could be asked of each of us. How religious am I? Am I willing to forsake the world for a better world? Am I willing to lose my life, and follow Christ?
Harold StuartApril 1, 2021
There need to be severe penalties for people who file frivolous lawsuits. The courts need to be left open for those with legitimate complaints.
Maryann TaylorApril 1, 2021
Thanks for the chuckle!
Mary-Rose McMullinMarch 31, 2021
I always smile when science catches up with revelation! I'm looking forward to your articles.
MikeMarch 31, 2021
The only flaw I see in this balanced article is the assumption on his part that the intentions are noble of those developing and distributing the vaccine. If so, then things are much less risky. But, most have a proven track record of deception and immoral pursuit of wealth. We won't know for years the real effects of this medical experiment.
Karell BinghamMarch 31, 2021
Good job Mariah! wonderful insights that I had never before thought of! I love to read your articles!
Chris HowellMarch 31, 2021
This article seemed somewhat meaningless unless it substantiates that those that like the President believe he is God fearing and those that don't don't. I think the true measure of religiosity is how closely ones actions squares with the 10 commandments.
Kathy Hall SpransyMarch 31, 2021
Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your talent of vocal music with such a PRECIOUS song!! This BEAUTIFUL HARMONY and heartfelt message is just what was needed in my life today, and THANK YOU AGAIN for sharing!!!
Linnell FowersMarch 30, 2021
Yay! Thanks:) I’m a family studies major and although I’m not employed in the field, I love it. I’m excited to hear about good research backing Gospel principles.
Robert GatesMarch 30, 2021
Sadly, it sounds like he "excommunicated himself" (quoting a Prophet) and has deliberately gone over to the try life in the Great and Spacious building for at least a while.. Lesson for us. Whether its masks, vaccines, wealth of this world or other don't go wondering off towards the Great and Spacious building. Even though it may seem right, worthwhile, titillating and exciting In the end you lose . Its truly a fools errand!
CHARLES DEFRANCHIMarch 30, 2021
I was going to suggest you provide us with examples on how popular culture can be misleading when it comes to solving marital relationship issues, and I am looking forward to reading your inspired advice. Always very grateful having you sharing your wisdom and experience with the Latter-Day Saint community.
ScottHMarch 30, 2021
Good food for thought. I am fine with people having differing ideas and opinions, even on serious issues. I become concerned when people begin using coercive measures to attempt to force those with whom they disagree to behave as they demand.
southern mamaMarch 30, 2021
Our own family is being torn apart by the divisive and polarizing politics of the day. Our adult children have called us white supremacists and have told us they are ashamed of us--and our only "crime" was voting differently for president than they did. We stopped discussing politics or any other potentially controversial subjects for years before this election, knowing that there could be disagreements. There was no discussion or warning--when the terrible events happened at our nation's capital in January, we were somehow responsible in their view. We weren't even there and have never condoned or supported any kind of violence! We are devastated by the breakdown of our family--and these are temple recommend holding adults who have done this!! We pray daily for hearts to be softened and that our relationships can somehow heal. I am praying daily that the brethren will address the contention and evil tearing everyone apart.
Autumn CookMarch 30, 2021
Great article! Very balanced, very thoughtful. The Lord can and does lead people to do opposite things, because He knows our needs and we're all different. We must be patient with those who see things differently and not expect that following the prophet looks the same for everyone. The prophet's role is to lead people to Jesus Christ. Those who listen to the prophet will have heard him tell us repeatedly that personal revelation is crucial in these confusing times. Boy, are we seeing that! It seems a huge part of the "big test" is whether we can love others who see things differently when so much is at stake - life and liberty.
Kathy SandersMarch 30, 2021
I look forward very much to reading your articles on this subject. I am constantly amazed (I shouldn't be) at how eternal principles and truth always shine through any field of research or endeavor if we keep the foundational truths in the scriptures as the base camp. Thank you for all your articles.
Doris WilliamsMarch 30, 2021
SOOOOO beautiful. I share Sonja's feelings as the tears just come with hearing these incredible voices speak His name in music. Thank you, thank you, guys. Your spirit and harmonies just make the world a better place.
Kerri DavenportMarch 30, 2021
Thank you for inviting readers to what looks to be an exciting study!
Carol N.March 30, 2021
This is just a stunning rendition of Hillsong's message of praise and worship. I have loved this song for years and now have this arrangement, featuring David Archuletta and Vocal Point, to love, too. Thank you!!
Blake GarsideMarch 30, 2021
Unfortunately, the Source for many has become Facebook, Google and other Social Platforms, etc. How about the New Mormon Google being LDS.ORG OR even better PERSONAL PRAYER for answers and guidance !!
ScottMarch 30, 2021
I believe the Lord's hand is helping us during this pandemic. For the first time ever, we have a prominent medical doctor who is our prophet, giving us counsel. We have next generation vaccines, which have been in development for 25 years, ready now just when needed most.
April CarolMarch 30, 2021
Might I suggest that we leave mental illness out of the picture. Just because someone has negative feelings and exhibits retribution against a person does not mean they have a mental health issue. People sometimes hold a grudge when they are offended and there are any number of other causes. Blaming terrible things that happen in society on people with mental illness is unjustified and simply inaccurate. Discrimination, stigmatism, physical abuse, isolation, and a serious lack of accessibility to medical treatment (let alone knowledge) all contribute to the intense burden of a demographic greatly misunderstood. Mass shootings seem to be the fault of people with undiagnosed and untreated mental illness. It's time to face the facts - some people are vindictive and some are simply evil.
Karell BinghamMarch 30, 2021
I am very interested in hearing what you have to offer! Thanks for your insights!
prbMarch 29, 2021
When truth cannot be ascertained and extensive evidence is not available and conflicting voices clamor for support, where do I put my trust and faith? What does it mean to have “confidence in leaders” and a “testimony of a living prophet”? For me, it means follow their example. How often will my personal revelation conflict with the recommendations of my prophet? For me, the common good is more important than personal beliefs. Love your neighbor is high on the list of commandments. Humility doesn’t capture the essence of the solution, but responsibility and civility are good choices. I agree with Dave Myers.
Sister Clarisse TateMarch 29, 2021
This is such a beautiful article! Thank you for sharing your experiences & providing some wonderful ideas to create meaningful Easter traditions & lessons about our Savior.
D. MackeyMarch 29, 2021
The murals are already well preserved and much appreciated in the most appropriate of places--one of the Lord's holy temples! What would be wrong with their remaining in the context and setting for which, under Heaven's inspiration, these works of art were created?
Sherelyn CuretonMarch 29, 2021
I would love a picture of that lighted stairwell. Thank you for sharing this podcast each week. I anxiously await for them!! I cry when you share an experience that just touches my soul.
Sonja ErvinMarch 29, 2021
All I could do was weep...it was SO beautiful! Amazingly spiritual and moving. Thank you for sharing it with the world.
Jo Ann OkelberryMarch 29, 2021
When I saw a picture of President Nelson wearing a mask, I had a very strong feeling that I should follow. It was the same way when I saw the picture of him getting vaccinated. I pray all the time to know what to do, and I follow those strong feelings I receive to "follow the Prophet."
MeagenMarch 29, 2021
Hello! Can you please share the picture of the open door with the stone staircase? If you still have it? Thank you!
ShaunaMarch 29, 2021
I really appreciated this article. This has been a difficult time for me with lots of questions and conflicting ideas. This gave me some new ideas to think about how I can approach how I’m feeling. Thank you so much!!
JimMarch 29, 2021
I appreciate this article very much. I never thought about it being an act of humility. I just thought it was common sense and good manners. For those who feel that doctors have all the answers they should read "Confessions of a Medical Heretic".
Synthia C.March 29, 2021
Thank you for this well thought out and much needed article! I have been troubled over this vaccine issue and am not convinced it is something I should do. However, I feel pressure from many around me demanding conformity. And I have gently pushed back so that I have room to continue to gather information and think things through. In the process, my husband and I have had to caution ourselves from falling into the contention that surrounds this issue. Contention is clearly a weapon of the adversary; we need to keep his purpose clear in our sight and not get blindsided. He has cast fear for our physical well-being into our midst and we need to take care that we don’t jeopardize our spiritual well-being in exchange. And through this all, we should exercise grace and humility one with another.
Lona MillerMarch 29, 2021
Bro Hess, THANK YOU!!! So well said.
TaraMarch 29, 2021
Thank you. These are much needed words in the world today and especially for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. This is from a marginalized and persecuted non-mask wearer and reluctant vaccination patient that has had to regularly self-reflect and repent for returning judgement with judgement, anger with anger and prejudice with prejudice. The peace and joy that comes from humbling myself before the Lord, hearing Him and then forgiving myself and others has been my refuge. Every. Time.
Blake GarsideMarch 29, 2021
Thank you Jacob for taking a sensible and rational approach to what has become a very polarizing issue. Down here in Arizona, the border crossing of thousands being released into small border towns has many feeling very uncomfortable. The local news is reporting as high as 50% infection rates among those who crossed. Unfortunately, they are dispersing across Arizona with Zero tracking, etc. I definitely, respect those who wear a mask and those who do not, those who have been vaccinated and those who have not. One thing I'm definitely sure of is, Satan's influence is taking its toll on individuals and families. Oh, do we need this week to focus on the Savior's atonement and to hear inspired counsel from the Brethren !!
Rita in TexasMarch 29, 2021
As a senior citizen who's been in the Church a good long time, I've had many opportunities to argue about the pros and cons of many issues. My takeaway has been "be patient until there is clarity". All of us are mostly blind on virtually every subject, no matter how much we think we know. The biggest problem is that we don't know what we don't know, and tend to misunderstand what we do know. I had the virus a year ago, came through it unscathed, and will not consider getting the vaccine until after the Pfizer trials are complete, on January 31st, 2023. I will make a decision then. But your results may vary, and I will not presume to dictate what anyone else should do. What you want to do is none of my business. I chose long ago to not live in fear of anything but displeasing my God. He is the source of clarity.
Dave MyersMarch 29, 2021
I think the answer goes a step further than you have described. I've been vaccinated and I wear a mask because I think it's the right thing to do to help stop the spread of the virus. I understand how some people may have questions about the safety of the vaccine, but that doesn't absolve them of our common responsibility to help stop the spread of the virus. So what can they do? Stay home, wear a mask, stay distanced, have groceries delivered, attend church on Zoom, etc. We pay fast offerings because some other people need the help. It may not always be convenient, but we are in this together and we need each other to be able to get out of it. It won't work if everyone doesn't do something to help. Objecting and complaining won't help, and being civil (or humble) isn't enough.
Maryann TaylorMarch 29, 2021
My baby died just 5 hours after she was born. The teachings of the gospel are so comforting regarding our infants and little children. I have one friend who joined the church because her LDS doctor shared gospel truths with her after the death of her baby. What a great blessing to know that little children are saved in the Celestial Kingdom and that we will have the gift of raising them and loving them. How great is our God! How great is our Savior!
Maryann TaylorMarch 29, 2021
Beautiful! It is so obvious these men love the Savior and express it so beautifully through this wonderful song. Love David!!!
Maryann TaylorMarch 29, 2021
I can understand the resentment of many toward government officials because of their actions to usurp our freedoms. Elder Bednar's recent article regarding protecting our religious freedoms in the midst of COVID addressed this subject beautifully. However, we must never allow ourselves to lose our faith and trust in our Prophet or other general authorities of the church. I just read recently in the Doctrine & Covenants 107:22 about the specific ways we support our chosen leaders: "...upheld by the CONFIDENCE, faith, and prayer of the church..." This scripture is so timely. It is essential that we hold fast the iron rod right now, consistently feeding our spirit with truth so that we will not be deceived by having a rebellious spirit. Satan is doing everything he can to divide us--especially from our Prophets and Apostles. We MUST NOT allow the storms around us of doubts, confusion, or angry debates to shake our confidence in the Lord's chosen leaders. Everything within me revolted from getting the COVID immunizations. However, when I saw pictures of President Nelson and other general authorities receiving it, and when I read his counsel for us to also get the immunization I followed that counsel as an act of faith.
David DurfeeMarch 29, 2021
I like the take of the Givens in "All Things New," that the importance of Christ's shedding of his blood and the Atonement goes beyond just paying some price for sin in a business transaction. But it enables and encourages a healing from our sins.
Dr Lynn D JohnsonMarch 29, 2021
Jacob, I sent your link to Sally Linford; she was shocked to see you feature her comments. Since I quit Facebook 2 years ago, she must bear the burden of defense of the anointed while I remain in blissful ignorance. Some seeds fall on good ground, and some fall on rocky soil where they fail to put forth roots. That's the way it's always been and always will be.
Judy PerryMarch 29, 2021
Wow! Thank you for this article and addressing my pain over this issue. As I have studied food and nutrition my whole life, I have observed that what is recommended in one period is totally reversed in another and then reversed again. My peace is in the hands of the Lord that ultimately he is in charge and all truth will be revealed in time. Whether anyone chooses vaccine or not chooses vaccine I have no need to be militant about it. I have had to make peace with death and dying and conclude that there are worse things than death. We will all die when it is our time. I just want to be ready when it is my turn.
Kate PiersantiMarch 29, 2021
This is an excellent article. I see this issue about the vaccine a way Satan can use us to do his will. If it comes to determined arguing it makes him happy. He knows our weaknesses and he is playing on them. We need to back up and simply share opinions and respect one another. "Beauty for ashes."
Carol WhitecarMarch 29, 2021
I believe in personal revelation that we have for ourselves and our immediate family. I love that the Presidency has given us an example we can follow or not on vaccines. We can feel safe to know he has chosen that and we can follow- or if we have complications like pregnancy or other health compromises we can choose to not get the vaccine. I believe he is showing us the way for personal agency on the vaccine. Whether or not we get it has NOTHING to do with church DOCTRINE. The prophet is still our Prophet and the church is still true! We need to make that distinction and not be caught up making mountains out of molehills.
AnnaMarch 29, 2021
Very worthwhile for us to read and consider. Thank you.
Roberta PalmerMarch 29, 2021
Thank you for this article! Beautifully written. Agency, which was fought for in the war in heaven, will never be taken from us. Only with humility can one be respectful of others “choices” or “opinions”. It is the peace that comes to the heart which matters most. Once received, it should not matter what others may think...a very personal relationship with the SAVIOR - who gives that peace - is the most important goal in this life and for eternity.
Kathleen JonesMarch 29, 2021
I am older, with health concerns, yet I have lived a very hard life, but with no regrets. When the decision to have or no to have arose, I decided to talk to the one person here on earth who would have the last choice--myself. Knowing that the good Lord would also be attending. As I presented cases for and against having the shot, it was finally decide that, I trust more in the Lord, but also know He is sending knowledge so it was decided. I took the shot. Whether or not it is good or not, I really still cannot say. I know President Nelson did it, and if he trusted in it and surely in the Lord, so can I. My hard life is such that I know the Lord has also helped me through it and allowed easier times in also. No, I don't like masks, but I'll error on both sides.
DorothyMarch 29, 2021
Thank you for this reasonable message. It pains me to read of others willing to villify our Prophet or consider leaving Church membership over things where we have agency to believe what we will . Our Prophet and membership are worth so much more than the complaints listed. I feel our Prophet knows more than I do, so I am going to follow the Prophet.
Jane NelsonMarch 29, 2021
So beautifully written. Why don't we see this for the test that it is? Pride rears it's ugly head in times like these and divides us from one another and from our God. I especially love your final point. Our spiritual well-being is our chief concern here. Thank you for bringing clarity to this confusing topic.
Philip LeaningMarch 28, 2021
I read Jennifer Mackley's book a couple of years ago and found it absolutely fascinating.
Scot ProctorMarch 28, 2021
The sources are hyperlinked in the article. Click through for the link. For example "As Elder Neal A. Maxwell put it" is clickable and it will take you to talk where the quote comes from.
Aaron BaileyMarch 27, 2021
The earliest reference to authentic Christianity as a ‘cult’ that I know of comes from Tacitus, who lived in the first Century. That’s how real Christianity looks from the outside. A real Christian gets called a cultist and just smiles, remembering the Beatitudes (Mathew 5). If you are doing the religious persecution, you are outside Orthodox Christianity.
Christine JohnsonMarch 27, 2021
Please site your sources for quotes!
Debi-Ann CaseMarch 27, 2021
My husband is at extreme risk for dying from Covid-19 if he gets it. He can't breathe with a mask on. He barely breathes easily without a mask. He practices social distancing, which is the best and most he can do. We both take natural food-based supplements, including Vitamin D. We grocery shop in-store, go to meetings with others in our senior age category, and thank God, despite his CML leukemia, he is doing very well. A little common sense goes a long way toward staying healthy.
T. GilbertMarch 27, 2021
When I've seen something like this before: the illogical, rambling, excessively long letter of baseless accusations, written in anger..., it was due to the beginning stages of mental illness, which quickly got worse, thus proving itself to everyone. Just a thought.
Sasha KwapinskiMarch 26, 2021
The term "cult," for all practical purposes, has come to mean whatever anybody wants it to mean.
SusanMarch 26, 2021
Over many years of nursing and during those years dealing with healing as Sister Marshall expressed, I learned that immediately after trauma is seldom the best time to force ones self to deal with painful memories. My suggestion is to download all those images onto some form of external storage device. Put this together with other tokens of the relationship ( wedding ring, special gifts, etc) and store them together in a box or perhaps a safety deposit box. This requires intentional discovery. There will come a time ( for me it took many years) to come to an emotional place that I could revisit my memories and I was thankful I had preserved them for that experience. Healing takes it own course for each of us as we deal with loss in our lives. It is a universal teacher.
tfMarch 26, 2021
I had info on a thumb drive go bad in just 2 years. burn a dvd also. in 30+ years of working with PC's, I've seen numerous back-up media abandoned, the media may still be good, but try finding a drive that will run it. A hard drive is least preferable, for long term storage. The Cloud hasn't been around long enough to know how it will turn out. I would trust Family Search to keep stuff forever, or at least until the mellinium!
Cary HolmquistMarch 26, 2021
Kevin: you really nailed it with this one! And the church foyer setting—classic! This is a keeper!
GrandpaMarch 26, 2021
This gentleman needs to put all those photos on to a thumb drive or an exterior hard drive, label it, and then put it in a drawer where it is out of view and out of mind. Years from now, he will rediscover it and just maybe have some fond memories.
Shane HatchMarch 26, 2021
Amen!
Karen CasosMarch 26, 2021
The photos are a memory for you not just for your ex wife. There is no need to get rid of them. Enjoying seeing them by remembering the good times, days, friends and family .
Theron LarsenMarch 26, 2021
I feel sad for the late father Jon Huntsmans to now have his name to be drug thriugh the mud by a son when his father is not here to defend his good name !! As for him leaving the church it will go on as it alwasys has to complete it's mission here on earth till the Savior comes again !!
Maryann TaylorMarch 26, 2021
Truly beautiful advice regarding the healing process. I wonder if it might help this brother to put the photos away and wait for some time to pass before going through them. Right now he is very raw and time will help, although it doesn't feel like that right now. I have always loved the scripture Brother Steurer quoted from Lehi to his son, Jacob: "..The Lord will consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain." I find that so comforting. The Lord can, and DOES, work miracles in our lives, even in our suffering.
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
When people make untrue comments about the church it is an excellent opportunity to gently teach the truth. I think the best way we can do this is to share our personal feelings about our Savior and how much we have learned about Him and FROM Him in the Book of Mormon. The Holy Ghost will attend us if we do this and help people to feel the spirit.
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
I am glad for this happy ending, however, we need to remember that we do not EVER pray to anyone other than our Heavenly Father.
Kevin LeeMarch 25, 2021
Actually, the prayer reads "O God, the Eternal Father, we ask thee in the name of thy Son, Jesus Christ, to bless and sanctify this water to the souls of all THOSE who drink of it," not SOULS."
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
Thank you for this Joni. I treasure our sacrament covenants, and the sacred reminder that the Lord certainly did shed his blood for me. However, I doubt if very many of us "take it for granted!"
Maryann TaylorMarch 25, 2021
Wow--does he also want his blessings returned to the Lord?????
Ayse KOCHMarch 25, 2021
this is such a sweet song with powerful truths. thank you for sharing. I hope we canning it all together some day.
HN GwynMarch 25, 2021
I noticed that Bob must have read it wrong the first time when he added words not in the prayer. He said in reading the prayer that "to the souls of all the souls who drink of it". It should have been "to the souls of all those who drink of it." Just saying!
Ron BarnesMarch 25, 2021
When reading the prayer the way he wrote it, I did not see what was left out. It wasn't until I recited it in my head, without reading it, that it became obvious. His point is well received.
Ron BarnesMarch 25, 2021
A protestant friend once told me that many Christians consider us to be a cult. I told him that the word "cult" is used by one group as an excuse to persecute another. By usage, a "cult" would be any religion that you don't accept.
Tim ErnstMarch 25, 2021
I love the concept of preserving the works of Wilford Woodruff. If after the end of our lives, we, too, have been diligent in keeping the journals and records of our lives, but we see that nothing has been done to preserve the writings of someone as important as President Woodruff, then what reason should we continue with our own record keeping? But inasmuch as something is being done, then it gives validation to our own individual efforts and regardless that we are not Prophets, Apostles but barely just Elders and members, our efforts are, indeed, acceptable to the Lord.
Jeanne GuinnMarch 25, 2021
Thank you for this article. It reaffirms an experience I had. When I was 21 yrs. old my husband was shot and killed in front of me. As he lay dying I distinctly felt arms around me, comforting me. I don't know if it was my dying husband's spirit or an angel but 50 yrs later I can still vividly remember the experience. I have learned much since then from the teachings of the church to understand what the experience was. I will be ever grateful to my Heavenly Father for his loving kindness in my grief. I am just sorry that my daughter (who I was pregnant with at the time) did not know her father. She has also felt him near when needed.
Robert CowartMarch 25, 2021
Anne as always I appreciate and thank you for your time and effort in sharing with us these inspiring experiences. I think I told you about my wife who passed away after 53 years of marriage on August 12 2020. She had her first stroke on Aug 12 2012 and left mortality exactly 8 years later. I am certain this is not just a very unusual coincidence but as yet have no explanation for it. Maybe one of your readers does,
C.J. ZIEGLERMarch 24, 2021
Thanks for providing an opportunity to read this timely article. I believe that this virus that has not been isolated, has been the opportunity of a few individuals, with evil intent, wating on the sidelines, to get the power and control that they crave.
Tamara ZanderMarch 24, 2021
my eyes are FULL of tears and my heart is FULL. of emotion and gratitude! I too served in Peru and got head lice in my long hair. I LOVE the faith of this mother!! what an incredible story of asking for help and trusting. thank you so much for sharing this special experience with us.
vickieMarch 24, 2021
when one pays tithing its a donation. donations should not be returnable. no matter what the money was used for, in his heart he was paying tithing. God was watching him pay his tithing at that time. its tithing a law consecrated by God. He needs to complain in prayer to the Lord
Jeanene LeBaronMarch 24, 2021
I, too just love her articles and never miss reading them. In fact, I look for them! I am grateful for her depth and wisdom ~ I always feel blessed after reading.
t. b.March 24, 2021
Interesting story, but you obviously didn't get to choose the picture that accompanied the feature :)
Linda HaningMarch 24, 2021
On the side line point about DC becoming a state. My understanding is that the current proposal is to give the citizens of the district a voice and not to give the federal government a voice in both entities. Any further information would be welcome on this.
James ScottMarch 24, 2021
I can envision a man whose business is financial trouble, as film distribution business’ have been eroded by streaming, is looking for a quick source of cash. He may be strapped for cash, he gave, and that’s the watchword freely, and wants to choose how tithing offering is spent. For behold, if a man being evil giveth a gift, he doeth it grudgingly; wherefore it is counted unto him the same as if he had retained the gift, wherefore he is counted evil before God. Moroni 7:8.
MaryMarch 24, 2021
Thank you for sharing this inspiration happening and giving us hope that others xan come to our rescue
Guy WilcoxMarch 24, 2021
Love every one in the Bonner family. they came to our 55+ Residential apartments in Riverton a few years ago and did a personal concert for us! they have endeared themselves to us all!
Debra L.March 24, 2021
Thank you for the interesting perspective. As someone with a life-long interest in politics and civics who has served as a legislative board member for a professional organization at the local and state level, I've come to believe that the most important politics happens closer to home. Local and state leaders are more accessible, and your voice is more likely to be heard.
Gary LawrenceMarch 23, 2021
To Alisa Dunn: Good question. I can only say that we will then work to replace them or make sure they don't become a majority. To Patty Bright and D. Herrin: Thanks for your interest. Will continue to address related topics as they become visible.
Pam RoderMarch 23, 2021
I always love to read Sister Isackson's articles. I'm so happy you all are still sharing these with us. Thanks you for that. Keep them coming please.
Robbi LarsonMarch 23, 2021
Phenomenal - albeit scary - article. This needs to be spread worldwide.
David DurfeeMarch 23, 2021
With few (and maybe no) exceptions, federal, state and local governments throughout our nation install stop signs at intersections and impose laws restricting our freedom to drive past those signs without stopping, even when there is no other vehicle in the vicinity. But in my entire life I have never heard of a single person, let alone an academic, protesting the government's encroachment on our divine freedoms with such signs and laws. But in a health crisis that has taken the lives of over a half million of our citizens in the past one year alone, we criticize our governments for trying to stop the carnage if it means requiring masks? Why not tell the government to take down all the stop signs and let individual drivers decide if they are going to stop at intersections or not, especially if no other cars are coming?
Jo Ann OkelberryMarch 23, 2021
I love the Bonner Family. I met them at a performance in Los Angeles several years ago. They sing so beautifully and radiated love for all.
JoannaMarch 23, 2021
Thank you for this article. As someone from the UK , our rights and freedoms have already gone. We are not allowed to protest freely and our government is passing laws left right and centre without debate while Covid19 emergency powers hide what is going on. We have not be able to attend church for over a year. We are praying.
D. HerrinMarch 23, 2021
I would be very interested in hearing more about your remaining twelve possibilities. One might suspect issues on many concurrent fronts.
Karell BinghamMarch 23, 2021
I love you all!!!! Thank you!
Patty BrightMarch 23, 2021
Thank you for this powerful information and encouragement.
James ScottMarch 23, 2021
I’ve always considered the rainbow as the end of creation, that while the plants were watered from the mist that rose from the ground it had never rained. Never had the sun refracted to moisture in the air, but that this was the occasion for the Lord to reveal this wonder as the covenant of his promise to Adam and Eve.
Patty BrightMarch 23, 2021
This is thought provoking. Thank you for sharing.
Alisa S DunnMarch 23, 2021
I find this very interesting. My question is what if those leaders, for example in the state of Utah DON'T support the Constitution?
Dr. Craig R. FrogleyMarch 22, 2021
Thank you, Doctor. Bravo. Finally a scientist speaking scientifically!
LauraMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for your thoughtful and comprehensive reminder of the true symbolism of rainbows. I look forward to a time when the real meaning replaces the worldly perversion. By the way, the expression is a "friend of Dorothy," not Judy.
Tony RossMarch 22, 2021
In Australia, we went early and hard with lock down. With some exceptions it has worked. Our compliance rate has been very high and we have had few deaths and within our bubble we have enjoyed a near normal life style for most of the last year. We are only just starting a voluntary immunization program but there is no panic. We had an election in our state of Western Australia and the existing government swept the polls because of their management of the pandemic. There is only a very small number who oppose how things have been managed here in Australia
Merrill SellersMarch 22, 2021
Thank you Dr Atlas, for your article. The only question I would have is , do you believe the cov-19 vaccines are safe? There are videos made by scientists that tell a story of dna / rna issues with 5G.
Arlene WildeMarch 22, 2021
I find this article a bit disturbing as it doesn't mesh with my personal experience. I live in Alberta, Canada, and there has been a very definite correlation between government mandated restrictions and lowering of cases, hospitalizations, and deaths. Our government leaders tried encouraging citizens to act in accordance with recommendations without imposing restrictions, but far too many people say "If it's legal I can do it." Even with mandated restrictions there are a few who refuse, but enough complied to make the restrictions effective. As far as masking goes, I have never understood why this would be considered a violation of rights and freedoms. I have family in health care, including a front line ER doctor, and I think it is a pretty established truth in medicine that wearing a mask helps prevent the spread of a lot of things. Do you really want a surgeon working on your body with the entire medical team unmasked? I realize different people have different experiences, but the "facts" presented in this article definitely do not align with my lived experiences.
Carl StephaniMarch 22, 2021
This is a very important article clearly and concisely written. Everyone should read and think about it..
Tom PrittMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for this richly informative and inspiring essay! So true, all things do denote the glory of God.
JimMarch 22, 2021
I love that Gods symbol is all inclusive of His children and not exclusive like man's symbol.
minda lubbenMarch 22, 2021
Mr. Scott W. Atlas, sir I am so thankful for your article. I agree with you 100%+ I am so glad to see article like this in the Meridian Magazine. My husband and I do not comply with this none sense mandatory. America is in the verge of losing the freedom that we cherish in this land of the free and the brave. Where are those brave men and women? Thank you so much sir, reading this article of yours made my day. I will post this on face book. God bless you Sir.
DanaMarch 22, 2021
I love the rainbow as a sign of God's love toward all of his people. There are many in the LDS community who also belong under the LGBT rainbow and are God's people. People who were biologically born with LGBT tendencies or intersex, etc. I have a child with a genetic deletion who falls into this category. There are so many more than you think. For others who need support and love while remaining in the church, please contact NorthStarLDS.
Rey LainMarch 22, 2021
Will truth prevail? I dont have those credentials but have felt this way from the beginning. I dont feel the mask issue was completely explained. Is a cloth mask of whatever material really a safety precaution, whatever the circumstance? Meridian-thank you for this scientist's expert coverage.
WilsonMarch 22, 2021
Excellent article. It takes real courage to tell the truth these days, in the face of the critics of any views countering the established and enforced media controlled "official" dogma. Our country is on the brink of losing free speech.
DeAnna MurphyMarch 22, 2021
You have hit the nail on the head with this article! THANK YOU! I have a sweet disable daughter who reminds us all the time that we can "see with our hearts" what our eyes cannot see. A recent talk she gave suggested that we can "see the Savior with our hearts" and it can be as real as though it had happened with our eyes. I have a sense that she knows! D&C 67:10 also reminds us that “… it is your privilege, and a promise I give unto you … that inasmuch as you strip yourselves from jealousies and fear … the veil shall be rent, and you shall see me and know that I am – not with the natural mind, but with the spiritual.” I know this is true!
PaulineMarch 22, 2021
Interesting thought and opinion he shares. The number of deaths and efficacy of vaccinating I believe are false however.
Jan KingMarch 22, 2021
I'm especially grateful for this podcast today and the technology to receive it as I'm traveling in Costa Rica and didn't have access to a church meeting yesterday. It's been a blessing to make it part of my study today!
Carma HuggardMarch 22, 2021
Excellent perspective. Thank you.
Michele NoelMarch 22, 2021
Finally! Clarity and intelligence! Thank you!
G RutterMarch 22, 2021
From a non scientific, but highly educated practitioner in my own field.....too many so called experts giving differing opinions. Politicians either banging their own drum or trying to juggle conflicting opinions while trying to keep their respective economies going. TOTALLY insane conspiracy theories.....(thanks for sharing the love America.)...and a media on both sides of the pond seemingly doing their utmost to muddy the water and frightening the life out of people in the process! Just what, exactly are people supposed to think? Totally unprecedented times, there is NO textbook on this! A plague on all your houses!
Chris A.March 22, 2021
Thank you for having the courage to share this article. Our civil liberties are crumbling and we need to wake up. Freedom is the essence of our existence - it's what we fought for during the war in heaven.
Tim FosterMarch 22, 2021
Dr. Atlas, you are a ray of light in a darkened world. Most of the people that I am able (during the shutdown of America) associate with agree with your science and comments. Rationality and civil discourse has been limited and supplanted by politics and crowd hysteria. It is, unfortunately, history repeating itself. We must labor to save this nation and the freedoms which have been so costly to achieve.
Joy BairdMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for expressing what many of us have felt for months now.
Garfield CookMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for your insightful article and reminder of the covenant God made with Enoch and Noah. In addition to the promise made to Noah, the semi-circular rainbow is a visual reminder of the promise made to Enoch that as his city was taken up from the earth before the flood of Noah so shall it return to earth in the last days. Thank you for taking the time to prepare this article. Garfield Cook
Paula RomrellMarch 22, 2021
Thank you for printing this article and showing a fair and unbiased approach.
Michael HogganMarch 22, 2021
I'm glad my old college buddy, Brian Shirts, is involved in tthis.
Bill CoulamMarch 21, 2021
I am glad the JST meaning of the rainbow from Genesis 9 was highlighted here. So few know that it was originally given as a promise that the city of Enoch would return and Zion would be built. Can't help but wonder if elements of Norse mythology (bifrost - rainbow bridge with Asgard and the realm of the gods at the other end, YggdrasilI - kind of like the tree of life) originated with truths the ten tribes carried with them to the north countries.
Ann-MarieMarch 21, 2021
What a strengthening personal example of the need to call upon those angels who are near us and waiting and wanting to help!
Gordon J HensleyMarch 21, 2021
The token of the rainbow was placed in the sky after the survivors of the flood disembarked. Animals and humans, they had one thing in common: they were all reproductively fertile matched couples. If you were on the ark, and you were not paired, you were food. It is odd that someone not in this category would adopt that symbol. But then again, the early Christian church adopted a torture device for theirs.
ShannonMarch 20, 2021
For me this was such an insightful and well-written article!!! I really love the symbolism of the covenant, and that God has not forgotten his children.
DJMarch 20, 2021
Great insight and perspective. Thanks for your article.
LexaGraemeMarch 20, 2021
Thank you for a beautiful article.
Kerry FarrMarch 20, 2021
Thank you! How wonderful and enlightening. Was not aware of much of this information.
Robert D StarlingMarch 19, 2021
Thank you for this thoughtful and eloquent reminder of the real meaning of the rainbow. It is lamentable that this symbol of God's love for man has been co-opted by those who center their lives on man's love for man (and women's love for women) instead of centering on Christ and his doctrine, and the blessings of eternal marriage and family life that are Heavenly Father's gift and plan for ALL of us. Jesus said it all, when he told the woman found in sexual transgression - - "Go and sin no more."
Maryann TaylorMarch 19, 2021
Thank you so much for the reminders of the sacred covenant symbolism of the rainbow. Satan is so obvious in his attempt to thumb his nose at our Heavenly Father by seeking to pervert and twist the meaning of this sacred covenant symbol for his own evil purposes.
D DrakeMarch 19, 2021
I, too, have seen a round rainbow while flying. I thought it was incredible.
Diane BlakelyMarch 19, 2021
About 1987 I was driving through the Virgin River Gorge in Utah and drove through the end of a rainbow. It felt like a blessing.
Tyna WoodsMarch 19, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article this morning!
MBakerMarch 19, 2021
Thank you for this informative, inspired article! I was not familiar with the origins of the gay-pride rainbow. After having learned more about the moral conditions of the world during the time of Noah, I have felt like the gay-pride movement taking on the symbol of the rainbow was a mockery of God and the covenant He made with His people.
BMarch 18, 2021
This is so beautiful! I love the painting, I love the temple experience, I love your inspired song. Thank you for sharing.
Sally SmithMarch 18, 2021
Shawn I know you have True Grit and tenacity. Most of all the Lord is with you and your wife. So when the rehab gets tough and the tears start to flow, remember He is always with you.
Mary-Rose McMullinMarch 18, 2021
Thank you, this is beautiful! Who is the artist of the "Unity" painting?
Pat HarkerMarch 18, 2021
Beautiful thoughts and music. Thank you!
Chris CalkinsMarch 18, 2021
Your observations make me want to do better! Thank you for your thoughts and encouragement to do so. And thank you for the lovely song!
Marina SpenceMarch 18, 2021
How much I appreciate the depth of your article and the richness of its invitation for us to unite as our Heavenly Father's daughters in blessing and helping one another. And your inspired music is now filling my mind with its beauty. Thank you for sharing your light with us today.
Melissa AndersonMarch 18, 2021
Great article! Thank you for sharing not only Shawn's current circumstances, but also much of his past experiences, good works, attitude, and faith. It helped me have hope for Shawn and inspired me in my own personal challenges.
Juliann BradshawMarch 18, 2021
I don’t follow sports but Shawn sounds like a great man. The question “Why” comes to my mind, but life presents so many unanswered questions. My prayers are with Shawn and his family. This will be a great challenge; lost ability, lost expectations. May they experience miracles and may they stand amazed with new doors of opportunity.
Heather GriffinMarch 18, 2021
Love the tender stories of strong women going about doing good. Their individual & collective efforts remind me that God has a mighty work for us to do. There is undeniable power that emanates from a devoted woman serving in Christlike ways.
Susan SchumacherMarch 18, 2021
Revelation comes in many ways. Heavenly father blesses us in our talents where we are and this is truly a gift of revelation. To sister Christofferson I express heartfelt gratitude for sharing your gifts and giving voice to this eternal truth. I especially appreciate your examples of women Who have made the effort to educate themselves politically so they can be a faithful force in declaring righteousness without being combative. That is a true gift indeed. I look forward to hearing this beautiful hymn become popular as it is performed in holy settings giving both men and women more insight into the relationship between heaven and earth.
CarolMarch 17, 2021
You are missing the point! The regulation of elections is given to the states. This bill is completely un-constitutional
SteveMarch 17, 2021
I agree with Mary & Victoria. I think we should try to get as many votes as possible. Apparently this bill, in contrast to what the biases National Review has to say, it to allow more people to vote which is part of our heritage. It would be nice to see an unbiased review of this bill.
JimMarch 17, 2021
According to another source (Cecil E. McGavin, "Historical Background of the Doctrine and Covenants"), Hiram Page did not destroy his seer stone, but it was kept as a souvenir in the Whitmer family, handed down through generations until it is now in the possession of the Reorganized Church (Community of Christ, as they now are known).
StarlynMarch 17, 2021
Thank you for your wonderful insights. This is so well thought--out and expressed. I couldn't agree more about the importance of making sure we love the Savior not only because He can make us more comfortable and happy physically and temporally, but more importantly because of the love and power He has to bring us spiritual joy regardless of our physical or temporal contentment or discomfort.
ShaunaMarch 17, 2021
Thank you for this article with additional information on the life of Hiram Page. I"m reminded of a quote from Anthony Sweat, " Church history is full of mortals, and no mortal (individually or as a group) are either perfectly good or perfectly bad, flawless heroes or devilish villains." (from interview with LDS Living)
David SylvesterMarch 17, 2021
I am thrilled beyond words that this project is under way. I have been fascinated with President Woodruff since I learned of him in home study Seminary back in about 1978. I was so intrigued by his driven desire to record his journals. When I finally saw one of them open, in a glass case in a Church Library while visiting Salt Lake one time, I could hardly believe I was looking at his own writing. I couldn't take my eyes off of it. The tiny writing to save paper I guess and the meticulous way in which he wrote! I wondered then why they weren't published and now, a dream is coming true for me. This will truly be an asset beyond description for the Church and for the World to read these writings of a truly amazing man and prophet. I wish I could help!
Sydney WheadonMarch 17, 2021
I really enjoy your stories. They bring a smile to my face. Thank you for sharing.
BeccaMarch 17, 2021
I completely agree with the other two comments below. We have to look beyond the extensive politicking and see the real issue of voting as a basic human right, offering it to every American citizen.I signed up twice for my vaccine because a closer spot was available and I received several calls until they confirmed my agreement to cancel the repeated first shot. I was impressed with how thorough they were in learning my intent and seeking my ok to cancel it. Thank you state of Utah! :0)
DeeMarch 17, 2021
This article reminded me of a lesson I have learnt from the COVID legislation changes to how we run church activities and classes around food. It became clear to me what an opportunity we had to focus on the true bread of life in our activity, instruction and classes. I noted the stress that some leaders felt when they couldn't pad out an activity or lesson with food. They didn't know how to connect, inspire and validate those in their care without food. My thought was, how wonderful. This situation will provide an opportunity of growth. However, that hope was short-lived when methods were used to try and re-introduce food into activity and classes as quick as possible. I look forward to the day when we can come together and be satisfied with the true Bread of Life and Living Water.
CoriMarch 17, 2021
What a great family history story to preserve for posterity. Thanks for sharing.
Douglas E NadybalMarch 16, 2021
It is a great article but at the same time I worry that many people would view this type of spiritual communication with the dead as a form of necromancy. I think we need to be careful in telling of our experiences that these type of communications are a by product of doing family history that just happen usually according to our need at the time.
Nancy GoddardMarch 16, 2021
So beautifully and wisely said. I know it is true! We need our ancestors and they need us!
Carol KendallMarch 16, 2021
Utah is now on DAYLIGHT time.
Maryann TaylorMarch 16, 2021
Love this message! I truly believe that if we study the scriptures daily, and pray sincerely daily, that we will not be deceived. If we keep the Holy Ghost with us, Satan cannot deceive us. The truth will be written in our hearts and we will clearly recognize falsehood.
Maryann TaylorMarch 16, 2021
Sadly, continued misrepresentation of the church will be even greater as we approach the second coming of our Savior, and persecutions will increase. I appreciate your review of this program. The goal of the producers was an obvious attempt to cast a shadow on the church with the media's consistent "Drama-Queen" approach. While it is good to shine a light on these twisted and false portrayals of the church, I am often reminded of Lehi's statement regarding those who were mocking from the large and spacious building. He said, "We heeded them not." Those who criticize the church will blow away like chaff in the wind. There are so many, even in recent times, who have come out in open defiance against the church and most people cannot even remember their names. Kate WHO???
Maryann TaylorMarch 16, 2021
The key issue here is the safety of the children and they are NOT safe in this environment. I hope this man will follow the advice given and get help NOW. Her violence is a very serious issue. How does he know she is not inflicting violence on the children when he is not present? I would also contact a lawyer and seek full custody of these children with a restraining order until this woman seeks professional help and is recovered from her violent tendencies.
Anne O'BrienMarch 16, 2021
That reminds me of the article by Hugh Nibley ; A Strange Thing in the Land: The Return of the Book of Enoch, Part 8 https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/1976/12/a-strange-thing-in-the-land-the-return-of-the-book-of-enoch-part-8?lang=eng
Win BroadhurstMarch 16, 2021
And? So? Is that all you have? Am I missing something???
Nancy LeeMarch 16, 2021
These truths speak to my spirit! Thank you so much for sharing.
StkabuMarch 16, 2021
"This documentary is almost less about Hofmann than it is about Mormonism and not in an even-handed or even educational way. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which is a minority religion in the United States, has been targeted and misrepresented too many times already" ...Couldn't have said it better myself. I'm so tired of the cringe-inducing portrayals of my religion. I'm so disappointed in Jared Hess. His talent is wasted. For someone who likes to be original, he took the easy road on this one.
Christopher CardenasMarch 16, 2021
Satan is subtle with these biased, misleading documentaries. The Lord's work will prevail as we speak up articulately. Thanks for this little article.
NanMarch 16, 2021
Your lifetime of study and travel is proving to be such a blessing to me and all those who read or listen to your "Come Follow Me" podcasts. I always learn something new and fascinating that I had never heard before. Thank you for your service.
Norma OlsenMarch 16, 2021
Thanks Wally. So many good thoughts to enlighten and inspire. This pandemic has made lots of people reevaluate how we use our time. Your message fits with many of the inspirations I have received, perhaps from family angels, to write my stories and never again take a nearby temple for granted.
Diane IrwinMarch 16, 2021
Wow! This blew me away! Well done; the music and the video clips were perfect. Thank you.
G HarrisonMarch 16, 2021
I agree with the article. I was surprised at the tone of the documentary and not sure what they were really trying to achieve. I remember the events well and it was interesting to look up the people being interviewed....come to your own conclusions when you have done that! Not an over reaction, it’s a fair comment about a disappointing documentary. I’m quite calm by the way....
Senior citizenMarch 15, 2021
Talk about your over-reactions! Almost every sentence sounds like a hysterical cry for pity. I saw the whole thing and learned a lot I did not know. I never suspected the leaders did anything wrong--and I still don't. Calm down!
Sherelyn CuretonMarch 15, 2021
I eagerly await your Podcast each week. It fills me with love. Thank you for teaching me these sacred scriptures along with your experiences that fills my heart. I have keep tissues handy because tears will flow.
Susan StoddardMarch 15, 2021
I would love to see Israel but want a longer trip - 2-3 weeks. Do you ever do a longer trip? I was on your Church History tour in October 2019. I would love to do a longer tour of the Holy Land with you.
PeggyMarch 15, 2021
Soup is delicious, we decided to leave it chunky and not blend it. Thanks.
Dave HallMarch 15, 2021
Pres. Kimball, in his BYU address, "Peter, My Brother" nowhere suggested that the Savior commanded Peter to deny him. Rather, he suggested that Peter, in his mind, may have been worried about what would happen to the church if something happened to him. The idea that Peter was commanded or inspired to deny Christ doesn't square with the intense remorse he felt over the incident.
Oscar MuñozMarch 15, 2021
The Savior was aware of discerning who and who not to trust when He gave instructions to his Apostles as they went preaching the gospel. He said: Matthew 10:16 16 ¶Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves. It’s a balance we all need to learn.
MaryMarch 15, 2021
I have a question about the need for lengthy/expensive detoxes. When you get a colonoscopy, you get completely cleaned out the night before pretty easily. I don't get the need for ongoing detox products.
Heather BMarch 15, 2021
My husband and I saw Lamb of God this past weekend. It was beautiful in every sense. I was familiar with the music but to see it performed by these incredible vocalists and musicians up so close was truly wonderful. Like having a front row seat to a concert. Even more, the way the music makes you feel is almost unearthly. My husband and I couldn’t control our emotions. Only 90 minutes and certainly appropriate for children who can sit that long. If you want to experience what Easter is all about, don’t miss it!
Kathy SandersMarch 15, 2021
We saw Lamb of God on Friday at the theater and it was WONDERFUL! Please don't miss this moving and profoundly beautiful concert. Thank you to Rob Gardner and all who performed. Such inspired music that touches the soul.
Laura ClaytonMarch 15, 2021
I hope you share this opportunity several times, for those who aren't able to attend tomorrow evening or were too late to be one of the 100! What a wonderful opportunity to be able to help Jimmy!
VictoriaMarch 14, 2021
I agree with Mary...comment above. I just don’t see all the problems you do with voting rights. Why, with something as basic to America as voting rights would you make it more difficult for people to vote. Very wrong. These are things that would set us back over 50 years! Does not pass the smell test.
Charles D McClureMarch 14, 2021
As soon as I saw her picture I wanted to hear her story! It was completely different from what I was expecting! I knew it would be amazing but it was much more amazing then I could imagine. Thank you for your sweet testimony!
Janet DoiMarch 14, 2021
Brother and Sister Proctor, My husband and I do so enjoy your weekly podcasts that you have been giving us here on Meridian Magazine. The knowledge and inspiration coming from your unique insights are invaluable to we Church members, who are older, and unable to travel anymore--due to health or the COVID pestilence. My husband is 80 and I am 75. We, as many others, have always had a desire to visit Israel and see the wonderful sites where our Saviour walked. Besides age and lack of funds. We will not see this beautiful country in our lifetime. Having said that, may I suggest something that you could do to fill that gap for elder Church members. During this coming tour, could you take a film crew with you to film the places to will visit? And, the audio of the inspirational remarks you give to those with you at each site? You could make DVD's. One for each place and sell them to the public (Church members), I'm sure. It would be a blessing for us to purchase such wonderful depictions of the Holy Land. I look forward to your response to my message. Thank you for reading my comments.
LeahMarch 14, 2021
Thank you for teaching us about Emma this week. Could you share the sources for all of the information about Emma that you used? I would love to learn more about her.
MaryMarch 14, 2021
I don't see the issue with some of the problems you listed. Changing information yes,but same day registration no. I think the goal is to get as many people to vote and to make it easier. I also don't see a problem with registering online and if states are not smart enough to provide through that process safeguards than maybe they do need to be regulated. This is 2021 not 1950.
Michael PetersonMarch 14, 2021
How much verbal and physical abuse should one person take from another? Two years ago I made a solid resolve that if a person, any person, treats me in an insulting or demeaning manner, I would let them know immediately that it is NOT all right and that I would not tolerate it. I’m so glad I did! How much abuse should one person tolerate from another? NONE!
GTOMarch 13, 2021
You are not a narcissist. My mother was a narcissist and behaved like your wife. I don't know if she is a narcissist, but you definitely are not. The fact that you are examining your own motives and behaviors proves that. I hope you're able to extricate yourself and your children from this situation.
Bette HarpMarch 13, 2021
Hold on a minute! I was in the same situation. I stayed. I don't regret it. My husband is a good person, worked every day, remained faithful and did the best he knew how. He still has problems that he brought into our marriage. He never was and never will be the guy that I felt that I needed. I decided that my husband isn't responsibly for my happiness. That's a choice that I make. I chose to surround myself with good friends and to turn my problems over to God, who has greatly sustained me. Have you considered that you may never find this person that you long for , that many men wouldn't take on four children of another man, that single mothers are far more likely to end up in poverty? Maybe you believe in fairy tales, as I did for a long time. As President Uctdorf said, a lot happens between Once Upon a Time and Happily Ever After. Don't give up on your marriage. Hold on. It may work out, as mine did. By the way, we just celebrated our 63rd anniversary.
Sheri KowalMarch 12, 2021
This is beautiful , thanks so much for sharing!
Michael MartinezMarch 12, 2021
What a great and inspiring story! It is so good to listen to someone who is so intelligent and put the BOM to the test. Those of us who, in our own trials, did the same in adult life, completely understand this beautiful ladies' conversion to the Gospel of Jesus Christ! All that is needed is to have a open mind and a need for something better, and question and listen to the Spirit as you study the Book of Mormon! Thank you for sharing this story!
PamMarch 12, 2021
She sounds like she needs counseling and/or psychiatric intervention.
KathrineMarch 12, 2021
This is one of my favorite episodes becasue of your portrayal of Emma Smith. It carefully and beautifully captured her essence, showing us her struggles and strength, making her more relatable. Thank you for your examples to help us honor Emma.
BradMarch 12, 2021
Nothing brings more joy than to discover that your Heavenly Father loves you and cares deeply about you. I see this again, when I see see you give that same love to these precious kids at the time they most needed it. Such a dark place to come back from. Thank you for sharing such a tender time for your family with all of us.
Marcia SmootMarch 12, 2021
I can't get into Peter's head but I, too, believe Peter was no coward. I feel it is entirely possible that he was commanded to deny the Christ that he would be preserved to lead the Savior's flock following our Lord's atoning sacrifice.
I grew up this way . . .March 12, 2021
I grew up with an abusive mother--screaming, blaming, manipulating, hitting--and in 5th grade started asking my dad why we didn't leave her. He didn't want to break his covenants, but as a kid I really didn't want to be around her anymore. It would have been better for me as a child to be in a different home. "Staying together for the sake of the kids" can be far worse than removing them from a dangerous, mentally ill mother (and she sounds mentally ill).
Shannon Norgord, Mountain Shadows Ward, Colorado Springs, COMarch 12, 2021
Dear Sister Webb, I teach an online Come Follow Me for Individuals and Families meeting. I wanted to thank you for your through lesson regarding D&C 23-26. I used several references from your article and feel that I gave my best lesson ever. I have been praying for additional resources to liven up my lessons and I was so very grateful for your article. Thank you! Warmest regards, Sister Shannon N.
Robert D StarlingMarch 11, 2021
Those extreme corporate giants need to be sent a message in the only language they understand - money! In the few months left while we still have a conservative (?) majority in the US Supreme Court, those whose businesses have been attacked by the left should bring as many multi-million-dollar lawsuits as possible. This is the way we fight for our freedoms in the world today. Many conservative legal aid organizations will support that effort. They will be paid well when they win in court, just as Earnest L. Wilkinson earned 10% of the $200 million settlement he won for a native American tribe.as a young lawyer.
D. PetersonMarch 11, 2021
Will there be a live performance this year?
LewisMarch 11, 2021
You know, this is an incredible story, both of your love and patience, but of those brave children. With so many things stacked against them, they ventured forth into a very challenging world. We should never underestimate how difficult the transition was for them. I know you must be incredibly proud of them!
Harold RustMarch 11, 2021
Thanks. The first question to be addressed should be: "What is our goal---to change some actions, laws, rules, or regulations which have been harmful to one or more minorities (whether that group is of one race or just one particular common interest) or is it to change attitudes and belief systems? These are two completely different approaches. In the former we can recognize many past laws and social actions which discriminated in ways that were very hurtful--and both parties knew it. Gradually, the laws, rules, and actions have been improved significantly. With regard to attitudes, however, I believe the only real improvement comes when we show people a better way. In classrooms as a sub teacher I have learned I never change attitudes by showing a student what they are doing wrong--whether it is their attitude toward a math problem or their attitude of defiance when asked to turn off their phone. When I can show them something they are doing RIGHT or WELL (I carry many puzzles or interesting questions which, through hints, they always ultimately accomplish and then can be complimented) I create a setting where their attitude and mine both change for the good. Show me a story of some white man who found a sincere and meaningful way to help a black youth and I'll show you an improvement in my attitude. If the news never reported anything but positive experiences between racial groups you would see a far greater change in attitudes, laws, and actions than will ever come from protests up and down the street demanding change. That's because we are all of the same human race.
Lincoln WhiteMarch 10, 2021
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful message. I would really like more information about the 56 different angels in 86 visits. Do you have more resources available that I could study?
JacquelineMarch 10, 2021
Jolanta, your words were deeply moving and I’m in awe of your strength and courage. Thank you for sharing this part of your life with us; I think you are incredible and am certain Heavenly Father likewise stands in awe and tenderly watches over you and Thomas.
KatieMarch 10, 2021
Jolanta, Thank you for your bravery in sharing your story. I hope we can all follow your example and internalize your 3x5 card truths.
Nicole SheppardMarch 10, 2021
Jolanta, thank you for sharing your remarkable story— how courageous!! So inspiring to learn about all you have overcame, how you have adapted, and how you continue to grow!! Can’t wait to see how you continue to bless the world!
LexaGraemeMarch 10, 2021
Bravo, Barbara!
SKMarch 10, 2021
I am so saddened that the Hill Cumorah Pageant is gone forever. My family had plans to attend in 2020, flight booked, and ready to book hotels in the area, when it was cancelled. My family participated in the 2000 pageant, and it would have been our 20th anniversary. We live all across the U.S. now, and it would have been a family reunion for us. We were planning to attend in 2021 as consolation. I don't know why this pageant is forever cancelled because it brought in up to 10,000 people every night, all prospective investigators, and gave attendees the chance to visit the Sacred Grove, Smith homestead, and Palmyra. When I lived in Pennsylvania, we attended every year from 1982, when we joined the church. I know it's probably the cost. I am just so devastated that the pageant is nevermore.
Been there and Living itMarch 10, 2021
I just now saw this today. I am sooo sorry for your pain and I can honestly say I have felt exactly the same way. I was considering writing, but then saw your letter. I have been (re)married for 6 years. There is a lot I can't fully explain here, however I have often felt (and expressed) that I am on a shelf and just get taken down when he wants something. He spends all day on the internet (interspersed with working) and continues on the computer until 2,3 4,sometimes 5 am only sleeping 2-4 hours. He often chats with people online and posts a lot of commentary on our neighborhood site. Has even messaged women his phone number so he can "counsel" them about their "spirituality" or something else related to something he has posted or come about in online conversation. I am definitely not a top priority. I'm not even in the top 5. I often get yelled at over insignificant things. It is draining trying to avoid and navigate the hostility. He often acts like nothing happened minutes later. I am not an argumentative person and don't like who I am becoming in this marriage. I try not to engage, but when I do, in defense of myself, I don't feel any better. I usually feel worse. He has had a history of very poor boundaries with women and when I try to talk about how I feel about certain situations he created, he will yell at me and tell me that he can talk to whomever he wants and he doesn't care how I feel about it. He also says he won't live his life in fear worrying about how something looks or what "may" happen. He tells me I am not rational. It leaves me feeling very insignificant and used. I left a previously abusive relationship quickly, after 4 months although it took almost 2 years to stop him from contacting me at all. I guess this one has been harder for me because I am older now, almost 60 and not sure how I will make it financially among other silly things, like, I'm really embarrassed about it and don't really want to let my family in on the drama. He knows he has mental health issues but will only state he has anxiety & depression caused by ADHD. He is not proactive in getting medical help. He has a family history of Bipolar disorder and denies he has it. It is very frustrating, but for many reasons I have not been able to leave, although deep down I really want to. I do a lot of avoiding conversation just trying to keep the peace. I'm in survival mode.
MikeMarch 10, 2021
The text of President Kimball's talk can be found here: https://rsc.byu.edu/ministry-peter-chief-apostle/appendix-peter-my-brother
SGHMarch 10, 2021
https://troygparker.wordpress.com/2011/07/29/peters-denial-prediction-or-command/ There is another theory to the “why” of Peter’s denial. In order to protect the Chief Apostle, Christ himself commanded Peter to deny knowing Him. When we read the account in Matthew, what we perceive as a prophecy could, in fact, be a command.
CatherineMarch 10, 2021
I never believed he denied in the way he was always betrayed. And later years ago is saw in old institute Manuel in the appendix was article that Spencer w Kimball. . expressed a different perspective . that I agreed with . lets look at different perspective. We need to look from the beginning. Not be going in detail. There is too much To point out Here is a few . Peter was going to be the Prophet. He risked his life cutting the soldiers ear. They could of right than and there be killed . we need reread the whole conversation at the Passover. And how does the commanments start Thou shalt.? just another way to see the whole picture. . I appreciate your thought. I personally believe he was told to deny.him. and the type of man Peter is ...is a disservice to his testimony .
Lisa ReisingMarch 10, 2021
This is awesome! Thanks for giving me something to smile about and agree with wholeheartedly. Simple analysis usually hits home in ways we can't deny.
christineMarch 10, 2021
This is wonderful! Our ward has been encouraging our ward members to make a monthly home temple day a priority by dedicating the time we normally spend in the temple to learning about temples, participating in family search research and indexing, and turning our hearts to our ancestors. We encourage them to dress in Sunday clothes, pray as they begin and invite the spirit of Elijah into their homes and lives in an intentional way. There are so many beautiful promises for those who will participate in gathering Israel.
Tom BaxterMarch 10, 2021
i once had a conversation with an emeritus General Authority who emphatically declared "God's truth, justice and laws will never be man's truth, justice and laws". President Nelson in his September 2019 devotional at BYU reiterated the same point. "Some things are simply true. The arbiter of truth is God—not your favorite social media news feed, not Google, and certainly not those who are disaffected from the Church". Living in these times, my sense is that many of our parents - member and nonmembers alike - are derelict in their efforts to teach their children what God's truth, laws and justice really are. The pushback that President Nelson received is evidence of that. President Nelson went on to remind us that "God loves every one of us with perfect love and there is a strong connection between God’s love and His laws." That being said the recommendations of a diversity committee must be founded enough in the Gospel that these correct principles prevail in whatever recommendations they make for change. Can we do better? Yes, but we must never forget our unique mission statement as an institution, "To assist individuals in their quest for perfection and eternal life.That assistance should provide a period of intensive learning in a stimulating setting where a commitment to excellence is expected and the full realization of human potential is pursued." In the end we are all 100% responsible to make choices and use our agency in ways consistent with that mission. Personal morality comes from within, not to be dictated from without.
Rochelle HaleMarch 10, 2021
My husband and I were serving as ordinance workers when Covid began. As the pandemic progressed, my most cherished time was spent working on family history or studying and preparing for my Come, Follow Me lessons. Although I organized cupboards and found other much-needed projects during lockdown, nothing was more rewarding than seeking spiritual things daily. A certain website has recently come out with a feature that gives movement to old portraits. Many find this creepy, but I found a deeper connection to those who I know are “still living.”
Kay RookhuyzenMarch 10, 2021
I love your real life stories and have used them for years to help students learn English. I started tutoring on my couple mission to Tokyo and found their realism easy for students to understand and learn from. I continue to send your articles to former students still! Keep up the great stories.
Susan GillmoreMarch 10, 2021
I believe it was President Spencer W. Kimball who proposed that Peter denied knowing Jesus because Jesus asked him to. Peter was to become the head of the Church. It was important that Peter not be arrested and killed with the Savior. Having to deny knowing Jesus went against Peter's character and testimony. Perhaps this is why he wept so bitterly when he had fulfilled this commandment given him by Jesus.
Dave MyersMarch 10, 2021
Nice article Stephen, thanks. As to your political concerns, I think the key is when you say "giving up individual rights and letting someone else pack our lunch." You don't have to give up your rights and let someone else pack your lunch. You don't have to take those drugs or checks, but it seems rather harsh to deprive others of the help they need just because you don't need it. For example, we have decided as a society that it's worth providing 'free' education to everyone up through high school, but there are some who choose to send their kids to a private school and pay the tuition themselves. Good for them. But many of us can't make that choice and so for the good of society, free education is available for the rest of us. And we pack our lunch.
kim mossMarch 10, 2021
I personally like to think of that night as President Kimball did as he proclaimed while giving an address at BYU. I believe the address was titled "My brother Peter" or "Peter my brother?" "He said that Peter was no coward. This is the bold man that was a scrapper and ready to fight and protect the Savior at any moment regardless of the consequences. Peter was the one that would take over the Church following the Saviors crucifixion. He needed to be there to take over and if he admitted to being with the savior he would have suffered the same fate. Therefore Christ gave Peter a commandment, "Thou shalt" deny me thrice!. In other words, "Peter you had better deny even knowing me or you will be killed as well and all will be lost." He then obeyed the command and battling against every fighting instinct he had, he obeyed his orders.
Cynthia CarlsonMarch 10, 2021
Incredibly eye-opening! Inspired! Thank you for sharing this amazing story of the power of Christ-like love.
Howard CollettMarch 10, 2021
More than 20 years ago I had lunch with Stephen Gibson. I was at a crossroads. I had several middling talents and was trying to discover what I should do for the rest of my life. Steve helped me discover my passion--in essence changing what I had for lunch. Thank you, Steve!
Mark BishopMarch 10, 2021
One of the problems with establishing an office of diversity and appointing someone over diversity is that it puts the problem into a corner and absolves responsibility in general. Treating everyone of every ethnicity or race in a Christ-like manner is everyone's responsibility and can't or shouldn't be given to any one person. That being said, the discomfort that people of color feel on Church campuses is likely based on the fact that whites are the predominant race there. I have extensive experience with Church education and I have never witnessed intentional discrimination or unkindness towards anyone. However, I think it might get difficult to live in a place that is somewhat foreign to one's self. And there will always be a few people with strong (and wrong) opinions who are unkind to others. That said, these things will happen anywhere and cannot be erased by an "office of diversity". The Gospel of Jesus Christ is the only way to address these things.
Mark BishopMarch 10, 2021
I sure hope the Church provides mission presidents with very good life insurance. It would be very bad in many ways if his wife were to be left without needed resources because of him dying during their service.
BryanMarch 10, 2021
I had never thought of the parallel between the three denials and the three affirmations, but you led up to it beautifully and I was there with you right before you said it.
Gary LawrenceMarch 9, 2021
To Steve L: Thanks for your interest. Hope to address the questions you ask, plus similar ones, in future articles. I feel a lot is about to happen.
Maryann TaylorMarch 9, 2021
I have learned through experience many times, and especially as a seminary teacher, that less is more when teaching the gospel. Keep it simple. The gospel is not complicated. When you focus on too many principles, the core truths of the gospel can be watered down. People also have their attention scattered and cannot retain what you teach. Always, always, make Christ the center of your teaching. If you are not teaching Jesus Christ in every lesson, you are not teaching the gospel.
Maryann TaylorMarch 9, 2021
Great advice! Taking this conversation OUT of the bedroom and conversing in a different setting is key here. Taking a walk or sitting on a bench in a beautiful setting would be very helpful. Nature is a calming influence and helps restore perspective.
Julie Ann TreadwellMarch 9, 2021
So grateful there are people and families in the world who are making a difference to these kids. Just so incredible and pure. And so grateful for the inspiration you received and acted upon to turn this around for Jolanta! Huzzah!!! May God continue to bless you all!!!
Steve LMarch 9, 2021
I really like this article and feel we would do well to remember it in our trying to understand our voting responsibilities. I would also be curious as to how you, personally, or others think how our just past and current presidents are affecting such policy? (Especially in relation to Problem 1) Where do we seem to be headed, what we do about it? Thanks
JaredMarch 9, 2021
What an amazing, wonderful story! I appreciate your willingness to share it, realizing that others will be blessed by it. I hope you write the book! I'm looking forward to seeing what these wonderful kids accomplish!
Kathryn AmesMarch 9, 2021
Have seen and sung in choir in local presentations. LOVE listening! Have tickets for the 16th in Lehi UT
LexaGraemeMarch 9, 2021
Heartbreaking, and the joyous. Thank you for being willing to share your vulnerabilities with us. May I remember the ways people can be wounded, and do what I can to heal.
Sheila LiddleMarch 9, 2021
I loved the Lamb Of God. I've seen it performed 3 times. I bought the cd. I hope the movie will be in my area.
Kathy ThatcherMarch 9, 2021
Such a sweet story of love and constancy. Love to Jolanta and to the family who saw her as who she was and loved her so dearly. It is a reminder to us all to love and lift and be careful to to crush those around us. Much love to you for not giving up and fir turning to the ultimate source of love and understanding fir direction.
LexaGraemeMarch 9, 2021
Thank you for this article. The documentary, overall, was well done, but there were some dangling threads that should have been resolved. This article helps with that resolution.
Harold RustMarch 9, 2021
Thank you, thank you....for some power and yet simple examples of how to speak to someone's heart and soul rather than to what we assume is their need.
Ruth JamiesonMarch 9, 2021
I cannot wait to see this film! It looks and sounds so beautiful!! So so so grateful for this kind of entertainment. There's a bunch of family friends seeing it opening night in Layton Utah. Thank you thank you for Sharing your gifts and talents in strengthening us in our testimony of Jesus Christ and for sharing your testimony of the Savior as well.
.CHARLES DEFRANCHIMarch 9, 2021
I never read such a sobering story, a least in Meridian Magazine, a Helen Kellerlike story that SHOULD be made the object of a book, because he could tive hope to so many people and change so many lives. Please write the book! And thank you for your incredible example of faith, love and perseverance in the face of adversity. This made me realize that even people in reasonably good physical and mental shape such as me, born from "goodly parents", do have wounds to hear from, but so do also so many around me that I should not judge negatively.
Janet Lee WiseMarch 8, 2021
Joseph stated that future events would prove him right (about the truth of the Book of Mormon). These correlations are wonderful to hear of, but not as powerful as the testimony of the Holy Ghost. May we have faith to withstand the slew of mocking and criticism we will continually face until Christ Himself will come and set the record straight.
Carol KendallMarch 8, 2021
I discovered yesterday (5/7) while preparing for Sunday School that D&C 20 follows the classic Covenant outline! Not having found ANY mention of that anywhere, I've written it up on a blog post: https://carolscommentary.wordpress.com/2021/03/08/mans-relationship-with-god-is-built-on-covenants/
Sharon SMarch 8, 2021
Isn't this long overdue? How many children's mental and emotional health issues could have been helped or avoided altogether if we had lawmakers with more backbone willing to defend what we know is a growing addiction in our young and older population as well. Such a shame we have let it go on for so long! You say, "Well, everyone has a choice!" How many men and women, let alone children who can avoid this temptation when it's right in their hand. Shame on us as a state and as a nation! So sad
Scot ProctorMarch 8, 2021
All of the Book of Mormon episodes are listed here: https://latterdaysaintmag.com/bom-podcast. Most if not all of the links include transcripts.
Harold RustMarch 8, 2021
This article is a "must read" for anyone who plans to watch or who has already watched the NetFlix documentary. I agree with the author because I had the same feelings when I watched the movie: first, I knew the Church was fully transparent in every one of these transactions and so why would the movie "hint" otherwise? ; Second, why would the producers allow to go without context that statement by an investigator that the Church made it hard for them? The Church being careful about opening their files is far different from an organization that closes all doors that could embarrass them.
Pauline IsaksenMarch 8, 2021
One of the best rebuttals of the lies surrounding the Church's involvement with Hofmann is the talk by Elder Dallin H. Oaks given at Brigham Young University, 6 August 1987, entitled, "Recent Events Involving Church History and Forged Documents".
prbMarch 8, 2021
What a sad day…becoming so easily offended by a drawing in a children’s book that we think we should change it or correct it or cancel it. Do our “brethren” promote censorship? Dr. Seuss stories, rhymes and illustrations are treasures of creativity. For me, they contain great messages and are not offensive. When I was a teenager, an artist drew my caricature at my request. It’s a prized possession that I can smile at.
Sarah HinzeMarch 8, 2021
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Nancy WillisMarch 8, 2021
Thank you for your beautiful commentary and stories regarding Emma Smith! She has been greatly misunderstood over the years. Your podcast will help many to see her more clearly. She is an amazing woman who endured much. I look forward to meeting her one day!
Michael BrashearMarch 8, 2021
Thank you for posting this story. I remember these events but had no idea how prolific a fraud he was, nor was I aware of his fraud against other entities, including the United States. All that genius wasted.
rcook52March 8, 2021
I wonder what the distinction is between physically killing the Prophet Joseph Smith and killing through forgery the Message of the Prophet Joseph Smith. I also wonder whether Mark Hoffman was actually trying to damage the Church or simply trying to make himself famous and rich? Either way the result of his choices has had the effect of damaging Joseph's claims in the eyes of some people. Even Alma laments: Yea, and I had [murdered] many of his children, or rather led them away unto destruction . . . Mark Hoffman also [murdered] many. How complicit is the new media and Producers of this movie that only wants to perpetuate the fantastic claims of the original albeit forged documents?
Ron KjarMarch 8, 2021
What a great summary! I still see that great lie—that the Church is somehow hiding something—having a huge impact in the world, and among my own family today. Once a lie has been perpetuated, it takes on a life of its own and is difficult, if not impossible, to callback.
NancyMarch 8, 2021
As a rebellious post-teenager, I left home thinking the world had to be better than my parent's religious views. However, my mother visited me with a Book of Mormon and instructions to read and pray it! With a terrible attitude, I did. Later, on my knees, I asked the Lord to tell me the book was NOT true. His shocking answer, "It's true!" I continued, "It can't be! Tell me it's NOT true" ... three times the spirit whispered, "It's true!!" ...and I added, "What do you want me to do about it?" The reply, "Go back to church!" Though reluctant, I did as directed -- and that has made all the difference in my devoted life.
MistyMarch 8, 2021
This is wonderful news! I hope other states, if not all, will follow this heroic action in defending children.
Becky WilliamsMarch 8, 2021
And I descended from Zeus! But there must be something to some of these legends
MjMarch 8, 2021
Is there a way to help this Elder’s family?
Sherry McMullinMarch 7, 2021
Every week brings a blessing from you. How can I get text from last year's Book of Mormon podcasts? I hunt in vain, and need several. Thanks
AnonymousMarch 7, 2021
I believe some of the advice given here was good and some missed the mark. I asked my husband how he knew to be a generous lover and he said that he gets pleasure from my pleasure. He said it’s important to not be selfish in intimacy. He also stated that he has worked on being considerate and open to asking me what I like. “That will increase competence and confidence.” I will only add that he is conditioning his wife on what to expect each time he touches her and it is imperative that he takes the time, and effort to make it a wonderful experience for her. Then she will have a hard time turning it down because why would she. They should see a sex therapist. Or at least read books about it together.
Steve BrownMarch 7, 2021
So disheartening! Without any knowledge of Dr. Seuss, his history or intentions, I can only say, that his innovative way of teaching tolerance and affection has charmed and influenced my family for good and I am certain that will continue to be passed on to their future generations. Perfectly suited for entertaining young children and keeping their attention while introducing them to a world of differences, his fanciful stories demonstrate how alike we all are below the surface.
Bonnie lu ZoBellMarch 7, 2021
Interesting about yams or sweet potatoes. I really do need to know which someone is serving because I am allergic to sweet potatoes --causes hives--while yams do not. Great article on listening and not having to be right--especially to keep peace and that is more important in the eternal perspective.
MickeyMarch 7, 2021
This sounds like abuse.
Joel WhiteMarch 7, 2021
As one who is seriously doubtful about the integrity of the election system these days, all I want is the truth. No court has looked at lots of evidence, that perhaps could be disproven to support election fraud. But the unwillingness to explore that, gives me an increased level of distrust. Let's seek truth, and not shut down that quest!
Tammy LindstromMarch 7, 2021
Loved this, Breck. I find more and more, that it is hard for people to see the need for organized church, and it’s hard for people to see the need to minister to others. But we are so empty without both. We can become inspired at church and as we minister we put what we learn into action.
Chelsea SpilsburyMarch 7, 2021
Beautiful! Sarah, you are a part of God's work that is so important I can feel it in my bones. Babies are one of his most precious gifts. Thanks for all you are doing to protect them! You and Brent are reminding the world of our spiritual heritage. It brings me great comfort to know we can align our hearts with our Father in Heaven through the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. I have felt the presence of heavenly messengers and leaned upon the gifts of the spirit throughout my life. I love the knowledge that we each have unique assignments and missions to fulfill that help guide each other safely home. I am so very touched by your words tonight. Love your family so much. Biggest hugs to you guys.
Kristen OpenshawMarch 6, 2021
I find it disturbing that comments here are attacking Donald Trump's character and calling names. It does nothing to promote or validate the main point of the article, which everyone should be able to agree with.
Andrew J. CurrieMarch 6, 2021
Like every other Trump hating commenter that I read, there's the unsupported claim he is a liar, but no fact or example is given. And these opinionated political lightweights act as if any politicians they support is not also a liar. Heaven help us! It would be nice to hear an intelligently supported opinion rather than merely the venom of a angry, emotional person. Your dislike of the man does not make him a liar, but your comments are an insight into your souls.
Geoff-AusMarch 6, 2021
Jim, Has it occured to you that removing discrimination so that one group has the same rights as others, is very different from giving them rights no one else has. It was illegal to be gay in Utah before 2003. Do they now have priveledges you dont?
Ron BarnesMarch 5, 2021
According to Family Search, my wife is descended from King Arthur, a man who's existence cannot even be proven.
JanieMarch 5, 2021
After reading this wonderful book, I feel I understand covenants, their meaning, and importance, in a way that I have not understood before, and that makes beautiful sense. As President Nelson has asked us to study the blessings promised to covenant Israel, this is the perfect book for that study. I can't recommend it highly enough!
A. BinghamMarch 5, 2021
Thank you for posting this. The amount of dis-information being passed as fact or truth is stunning and at a premiere university even more tragic..the lives that were destroyed because of one person's dishonesty is also a tragedy. That this dis-information hasn't been detracted from the media is also tragic. I find it very disheartening that some readers are choosing to use this post as a way to personally attack Meridian magazine creators. A cheap attack. Appreciate the magazine and the thoughtful news postings.
dave hicksMarch 5, 2021
After forty plus years with the same women and by talking with other couples I've concluded that intimacy between husband and wife is somebody's idea of a bad joke. Cheers
Kristen KMarch 5, 2021
Is that 7pm Eastern Time? Mountain Time? I don' t want to miss this!!
Wayne B CrawleyMarch 5, 2021
Wow I am really surprised by the 2 comments. A person does not have to think very hard to understand how the election stolen. House of Representatives passed HR 1 so that the whole country will have the same voting laws as California. HR1 is unconstitutional and a clear grabe for Power. And Georgia made new voting laws to fix the problem it had. The problem with so called liberals is they rather us name calling such as comparing Donald Trump to the devil "the father of lies" it all about feelings then logic
LindaMarch 4, 2021
"revising what they thought they knew" is one of my favorite lines in your article! Which was such a good reminder to continue on the path of trying to be humble and teachable. Thanks for the boost.
George CarmenMarch 4, 2021
Wow, I find it so interesting that you spew hate upon someone you likely have not or will not ever meet. It is interesting how many people allow the person that has no influence in their lives to take them over because of their own focus on him or whoever. To let anyone control you is sad.
CBDBMarch 4, 2021
Thank you Bother and Sister Givens for all of your books, articles, and intelligent, insightful, reverent and joyful teachings. We share your love for the Restoration and for our dear gentle Jesus, and The New and Everlasting Covenant — we just don’t know how to articulate it all as well as you— so we appreciate your words. ( you seem to have found a way out of the ‘prison’ of words!)
Arlene C WelkerMarch 4, 2021
I saw a sign on a billboard once that said, "Never miss the chance to shut up." Works great!
Ovala F ToiaivaoMarch 4, 2021
I have thoroughly enjoyed your podcasts and look forward to it every week. Thank you so much for taking the time to prepare and share these with us. I too would love to have a copy of your 43 Faith Scriptures to memorize if it's still available.
David DurfeeMarch 4, 2021
The Givens are among my favorite LDS authors. And their new book -- like this article -- is wonderful, well thought out, and full of hope.
JimMarch 4, 2021
Our national debt is now $28 trillion. 28 trillion seconds is 887,266 years. It would take light traveling at 186,000 miles per second approximately 4.8 YEARS to travel 28 trillion miles. This is longer than it would take light to reach Earth's nearest star, Proxima Centauri, which is 4.2 light years away.
Gramma CrowfootMarch 4, 2021
Oh please. Everyone makes mistakes and isn’t it nice when someone cares enough about our memory/legacy to help correct it? In this case, Dr. Suess can’t so his organization has acted proactively (just as the church has stopped publishing things from ‘a time before’ because they ‘were not aware’ or had been ‘insensitive toward’ or had ‘misinterpreted’ something previously. The loss of these books does nothing to undercut the gifts of Dr. Suess and will most likely open up a wider market of readers (whereas before MANY had GOOD reason to question his intentions based on these titles alone). I don’t understand what is so hard/offensive for mainstream to change some of the cultural landscape that perpetuates division, especially when better/safer/kinder/more appropriate & sensitive options & gestures are possible. Nostalgia is no reason to perpetuate hurt/pain/offence. To quote the brethren, “when we know better we must DO better.”
Robert D StarlingMarch 4, 2021
Thanks Joni, for reminding us all that "Nobody like a smart alec" (or is it "smart alek"?) - Dilbert
John PearceMarch 4, 2021
While this is an interesting story I think that there is a more relevant story involving lying and that is "The Big Lie" of former President Donald Trump. His lying has damage the Republican party, the confidence of voters in US elections and the international standing of the US as an example of democracy. This is a lie that has been rejected by over sixty courts and every state official but many Republican politicians are still promoting this untruth. For me the saddest concequence is that many millions of people still believe that the 2020 election was stolen including many of my church member friends.
SRMarch 4, 2021
I feel completely blessed that my child who is a graduating high school senior this year. Has changed their mind about attending BYU and is now choosing a different school. Equity and social justice are part of liberation theology and Marxism. They have no place in the gospel of Jesus Christ nor in an education from a private church school paid for by our collective tithing. BYU has been were we wanted all of our children to attend. We wanted them to have the best education taught with the power and majesty of God’s holy gospel. Were they could see the importance of all things through the lense of the plan of salvation and where the Holy Ghost is sought after to be in each class so that truths of the lessons could be testified of. Sadly each day we are learning that this is no longer the type of education being obtained at BYU. We are a bi-racial family and find this study disheartening, disturbing and wrong. We are all children of God. None of us were able to choose our sex , nor our race. No one is better than anyone else or more deserving. We are all less than the dust of this earth. Yet Christ came to this earth and lived for us all and then suffered all things for all of us so that we could return to him and our Heavenly Father. What are we doing to each other. We are being created and morphed into each other’s enemies. For what ? For the color of our skin, for the places where we were born. We had no part of that and can own none of it. For the way we think. We have been taught this past year to look at others as viruses as someone with a diseased body whose very breath is wrong and that they may kill you if you get to close. We are being taught that if you are white you were born evil and racist and there is literally nothing you can do about it. We are being taught that to be a woman is meaningless because gender is meaningless. And if you want to be a woman all you need to do is believe that you are one. And the world is desperately trying to teach that if you are a person of color (whatever that means because we are all made up of multiple colors )That you are victim. My children are not victims. They were fearfully and wonderfully made by God Almighty. As were each of us. Let us stand for no more of this nonsense and return to God. Please this is all becoming almost to much to bear. And studies like this are doing more harm than good.
Jared ChristensenMarch 4, 2021
Very good article and information! Thank you for sharing this I have always felt it was a dangerous addiction that anyone can get hooked on. I have intentionally chosen not to play video games because I have seen how addictive it can become.
BobMarch 4, 2021
No place says "one third". It says "a third part".
LexaGraemeMarch 4, 2021
Bravo to them all for making the best of an unfortunate situation, and finding the humor in it, too!
Bradd C HayesMarch 4, 2021
While I agree facts (and truth) matter in the news, I find it astonishing that Meridian Magazine, which openly supported Trump, the father of lies, has the audacity to demonstrate moral outrage on this subject.
RaNae ShoafMarch 4, 2021
I love this! So true and so right. Sometimes I talk myself into staying silent (for instance when my husband is telling a story and getting the details wrong, at least to my memory, which of course is "right" haha), is to realize that if I wasn't there at that moment, the story would stand as told, and no one would be hurt by it.
JoanMarch 3, 2021
I was married for 15 years in a destructive relationship. I determined to stay in the marriage until my children reached age 18, wanting to give them a stable family and at least the illusion of a happy family. I stuffed my unhappiness, I thought successfully until my 11-year-old told me that it was time to get a divorce. Later he was angry with me because, he said, I had waited too long to leave and if I had divorced his father sooner, he could have believed that his father was a good man but now he knew how bad he was. Both of my sons have suffered more than the divorce with the concept of what it takes to be a real man, a good man. They’ve tried out being the abused and the abuser, believing that sons should learn to be men from their fathers. They still struggle decades later in determining their role. I meant to help my children by staying in an emotionally destructive relationship, and staying was the worst decision I could have made, not only for me but for my children. How many times do women stay for the children and cause more pain and confusion than they could imagine. Children hear and see and know much more than we think.
Been thereMarch 3, 2021
Could he be on the autism spectrum?
KenMarch 3, 2021
The goal for a court hearing to to determine if law was broken, not to celebrate diversity.
AmyMarch 3, 2021
How is this article related to the LDS church?
ayseMarch 3, 2021
This is such a inspiring exercise! Thank you for sharing how to start.
Diane JarmanMarch 3, 2021
Thank you for approaching this subject and for the link to find help for video game addicts. Very informative article.
Mom of manyMarch 3, 2021
I feel completely blessed that my child who is a graduating high school senior this year. Has changed their mind about attending BYU and is now choosing a different school. Equity and social justice are part of liberation theology and Marxism. They have no place in the gospel of Jesus Christ nor in an education from a private church school paid for by our collective tithing. BYU has been were we wanted all of our children to attend. We wanted them to have the best education taught with the power and majesty of God’s holy gospel. Were they could see the importance of all things through the lense of the plan of salvation and where the Holy Ghost is sought after to be in each class so that truths of the lessons could be testified of. Sadly each day we are learning that this is no longer the type of education being obtained at BYU. We are a bi-racial family and find this study disheartening, disturbing and wrong. We are all children of God. None of us were able to choose our sex , nor our race. No one is better than anyone else or more deserving. We are all less than the dust of this earth. Yet Christ came to this earth and lived for us all and then suffered all things for all of us so that we could return to him and our Heavenly Father. What are we doing to each other. We are slowly turning each of us into enemies. For what ? For the color of our skin, for the places where we were born. We had no part of that and can own none of it. We have been taught this past year to look at others as viruses as someone with a diseased body whose very breath is wrong and that they may kill you if you get to close. We are being taught that if you are white you were born evil and racist and there is literally nothing you can do about it. We are being taught that to be a woman is meaningless because gender is meaningless. And if you want to be a woman all you need to do is believe that you are one. And the world is desperately trying to teach that if you are a person of color (whatever that means because we are all made up of multiple colors )That you are victim. My children are not victims. They were fearfully and wonderfully made by God Almighty. As were each of us. Let us stand for no more of this nonsense and return to God. Please this is all becoming almost to much to bear. And studies like this are doing more harm than good.
Kate B.March 3, 2021
YES!
Maryann TaylorMarch 3, 2021
This is almost as troubling as the addiction of so many adults to their smart phones. Instead of communicating in restaurants, so many couples are glued to cell phones, completely oblivious to their companions. Perhaps we need to consider curbing our own addictions as we seek to help our young people do so.
CynthihahMarch 3, 2021
We the people of the United States need to stop blaming everything on our government and step up and take responsibility for our own freedom. May I propose the way to do this is to "clean up our own back yards." When was the last time you read the United States Constitution, and do you know what it actually says and means? Freedom is only as free as we make it. We the people make America great!
Jane HalesMarch 3, 2021
Glad to hear Scot sounding like himself!!
Juliann BradshawMarch 3, 2021
Geoff, I usually enjoy your counsel but this time it was vague and unhelpful. “Man [woman] is that ‘she’ might have joy”. This dear sister has been miserable from her wedding day. I can’t imagine that the children are faring any better. Since the husband is obviously taking care of himself, he will continue to do so quite nicely. This female slave needs to break free. She is obviously capable, and the dark cloud she currently lives under could dissolve into sunshine. This relationship will not be sealed in heaven. Dear sister, recognize your mistake, accept responsibility, stop being a martyr and move on.
JoanMarch 3, 2021
I was married for 15 years in a destructive relationship. I determined to stay in the marriage until my children reached age 18, wanting to give them a stable family and at least the illusion of a happy family. I stuffed my unhappiness, I thought successfully until my 11-year-old told me that it was time to get a divorce. Later he was angry with me because, he said, I had waited too long to leave and if I had divorced his father sooner, he could have believed that his father was a good man but now he knew how bad he was. Both of my sons have suffered more than the divorce with the concept of what it takes to be a real man, a good man. They’ve tried out being the abused and the abuser, believing that sons should learn to be men from their fathers. They still struggle decades later in determining their role. I meant to help my children by staying in an emotionally destructive relationship, and staying was the worst decision I could have made, not only for me but for my children. How many times do women stay for the children and cause more pain and confusion than they could imagine. Children hear and see and know much more than we think.
RebeccaMarch 3, 2021
Hate it when I get sick & start talking with the deep tones of a man (it's disconcerting for a woman )
Karell BinghamMarch 3, 2021
Cancel Dr. Seuss? Tip over the statue of George Washington? Part of the nation is losing its historical bindings! Enough is enough! Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss, oh, by the way we are cancelling 6 of your books. Brother!
CASMarch 3, 2021
One blessing for us during this pandemic has been not shopping so much in person. Often times, trips to a store will include items that we did not intend to purchase. Online shopping has also been curtailed. As a result, we find ourselves with more cash on hand for emergencies. An unexpected brake replacement on our vehicle last week was easily met because we had the money in our bank account instead of adding it on our credit card. Also, we have a rule to only charge on our ONE credit card with the commitment that we can pay the balance off in full every month! This saves a LOT of money in finance charges! We have learned this by the "school of hard knocks!"
Chip WhitmerMarch 3, 2021
The idea that "I will be your God, and ye shall be my people" is indeed the core of the Covenant, repeated frequently in Scripture, including twice at the end of John's Revelation. In this passage, the promise is first expressed in general language: "Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be with them, and be their God." (Rev 21:3) Then it is reiterated in language that is very personal and individual: "He that overcometh shall inherit all things; and I will be his God, and he shall be my son." (Rev 21:7) This is the culmination of the Covenant, for those who are faithful.
D OnnaMarch 3, 2021
A stellar article ! My Eternal Thanks for giving voice to this unfoldment of His Truth. I have come into the Church for 'such a time as this'.
AnonymousMarch 2, 2021
A commenter was rather negative about the expense of the beautiful displays created by the author. However, the trivia games and family activities take no money and modest amounts of time. Our family has been researching and writing histories for years and shari g them as Christmas presents. Trivia games sound like a wonderful addition.
Maryann TaylorMarch 2, 2021
The key words in this statement are "protection of people and institutions of faith." We do NOT support the so-called "rights" of gay or transgender people when it imperils religious freedom.
MHNMarch 2, 2021
Have you even considered how the non-member white kids feel? What is being done to help them with belonging?
Larry TippettsMarch 2, 2021
Thanks so much for focusing on the power of writing. I like to use my journal as a means of helping me develop Jesus' qualities of character. I pray for inspiration. As it comes I record it in my journal, along with specific plans for improvement. I reread my journals regularly and write about my growth (and my lapses). It's a powerful tool for recording personal revelation and then acting on it.
CamMarch 1, 2021
@Billy-Our gay brothers and sisters have been persecuted much longer than members of the church have. I hope you aren't saying that the LGBTQ community can't be an average American citizen or a believer in God. Someday the church will realize the damage ghey have done and things will change, if the church wants to maintain any sense of relevancy anymore.Can you even name how our church is being legally discriminated against?
Without a home . . .March 1, 2021
On one hand, this is sweet and delightful to watch. On the other, it's hard and sad to watch, because people like me have no "home." My parents were immigrants and I've never been to their home towns, which were bombed into oblivion during WWII. My husband and I have had to move around so much for work and family needs that six states in this country have been "home" yet none of them feel like it. We wander, without roots, wishing we had places to take our children back to yet having no place, then also again realizing it was God who sent us wandering and has assured us, "Wherever you worship me shall be your home."
Jennifer MackleyMarch 1, 2021
@T Rawlinson. Yes, children were first sealed to parents in the Nauvoo Temple. Some were sealed to living parents and some by proxy to a deceased parent. Sealing of children to parents was then suspended until the St. George Temple was completed in 1877. However, the focus of adoption into priesthood lineage (rather than generational family sealings) continued until Wilford Woodruff received the revelation in 1894 to end the practice of adoption. (A timeline of temple ordinances is on pages 372-373 in Wilford Woodruff's Witness: The Development of Temple Doctrine. The law of adoption is explained in more detail in Chapter 16.)
TafiatMarch 1, 2021
Speaking of sealing cords, Bednar has said, "However, righteous parental influence (1) does not replace in the life of an individual the need for the redeeming and strengthening power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, (2) does not overrule the consequences of the unrighteous exercise of moral agency, and (3) does not negate the responsibility of an individual as an agent “to act … and not to be acted upon (2 Nephi 2:26)." March Ensign 2014 https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2014/03/faithful-parents-and-wayward-children-sustaining-hope-while-overcoming-misunderstanding?lang=eng
Lois TuckerMarch 1, 2021
Last week lesson was so amazing. The worth of a soul. My heart was touched, softened. I loved your story about the airport with Michael. I couldn’t stop crying, I was over come with the spirit. Thank you for that. I love your podcast.
Arty JMarch 1, 2021
"But I know, that once the kids are gone, if life continues this way, we will end up divorced anyways and I will have lived another 15 years unhappy." That line says it all. I think deep down, this woman already knows the husband wont change and that divorce is only a matter of time. She has spent 13 years pouring more and more effort in and getting nothing back. She has already very clearly discussed her unhappiness with the spouse, and they have even gone to counseling. He changed nothing, which tells her everything she needs to know. If you tell someone that their behavior is hurting you and needs to change, and they don't do anything about it, they don't respect you or value your relationship. And they definitely aren't a good person. PERIOD. It takes two people to make a marriage work. The woman says she wants to keep her marriage covenants, which is honorable. But she seems to be ignoring the fact that if she continues this course and makes it to the celestial kingdom, this guy definitely wont be there because he is incredibly selfish and not a good person. So she wont have an eternal marriage anyway, and will need to find someone else to make that happen. It takes both partners honoring their covenants and being good people to achieve a celestial marriage. Its time for this woman to leave and find a good man who will reciprocate her efforts, love, and appreciate her.
T RawlinsonMarch 1, 2021
It has been recently stated in a podcast that children not born in the covenant were not sealed to their parents until AFTER 1894. I would like to have additional information as my 2 grgrandparents went to SG temple (only temple available) from SL and were sealed. They had some of their younger children with them, but none of their 10 children were sealed to them in the late 1870's. One child was born after, which is BIC. This article states children were sealed before 1894. What exactly does it say in Wilford Woodruff's journal. Our ancestors are also those of an Apostle and the explanation was that children were not sealed (unless BIC) until 1894. This article appears to be contradicting our family explanation of events.
Jim ScottMarch 1, 2021
Giving any recognition to any other than being a citizen is to make that person, group or belief given super citizenship. Laws fashioned to favor one over another reduces the value of those not in the vale. The claim of being Irish, for example, or red headed, or left handed all could claim some especial consideration. There are only political favors by elected officials to be re-elected rather than recognizing the ramifications of such legislation.
BillyMarch 1, 2021
Just another protected class to divide the country more. It appears every fringe group has a protection act. The average American citizens and Christians are the only groups that can be legally discriminated against.
Jennifer MackleyMarch 1, 2021
The colored images of Wilford Woodruff featured in this article are the creative work of Josh Christensen. The original images were made by Lucian R. Foster in Nauvoo, Illinois in 1844 and Charles W. Carter in Salt Lake City, Utah in the 1880s.
ChrisFebruary 27, 2021
I love this new book by the Givens, and love their other writings as well. As I read some of these comments, they seem to indicate that all members of the church "get it"...and understand God's love and the Savior's Grace. But they don't. Growing up in this church I was taught repeatedly to "work out my own salvation" and to put my shoulder to the wheel...that somehow the atonement would just make up the difference between how I finally ended up and "perfection". All of that helped to make a mess of my life... I have learned that my Father, Mother, and Savior love me...and each of us...equally and more than we can possibly understand, and that their love can only be experienced, not explained. I've learned that "salvation" doesn't happen in a vacuum, only in a family and community, and I can partner with Jesus every day...I never have to go it alone. I do not ever, and cannot, earn Their love. And I cannot do anything to make them love me less, nor can I run away from Their love (I tried). I've learned guilt and shame don't work, and the Savior always "invites", and that the commandments are Their boundaries to keep me safe and to help me choose joy. Realky, there are only two commandments...love God and love people. If I can successfully live those two, everything falls into place, and it's easy to live inside the boundaries. Living in fear of God, of some eternal punishment, or of disappointing God doesn't work, and it never has. God is love...literally. If we are to have joy, even while "losing" our life helping others, we must quit trying to be "perfect"...and we wonder why so many young people are leaving the church. As the Givens say, it is always our choice, and as we choose Jesus every day life is so much better! And yes, we are wounded...programmed by parents, teachers, friends, church leaders, social media, and many others...and above all else, the Savior is our Healer.
Old GuyFebruary 27, 2021
The writer of this letter could probably learn from my friend. I have a good friend who is into 40+ years of a marriage to a woman who is exactly like the husband described in this letter. He is the loneliest man I know. Even when he had major surgery, his wife took care of his body, but there was no emotional support. No sympathy or compassion. He has held on and hoped all these years that she might come around, but in truth as his body gets older and he can't do as much for her as she requires, she is turning away from him even more. When I ask him if he ever wishes he'd got out of the relationship while the was still "time". All he says is that there won't be another major surgery because he could not do that again without emotional support and someone to care about him. He will die never knowing the unconditional love and charity that is supposed to happen in marriage.
KristenFebruary 27, 2021
I'm sorry - but this husband is *not* a "nice person", and that needs to be exposed. Look at the substance of his behaviors towards his wife, not the surface. "Wolf in sheep's clothing" as a simile comes to mind. Nice guys don't demand their wives do everything to please them (re: treat them like a servant), while they do nothing to please their wife. Based upon his "substance" - I would urge this wife to learn about narcissistic spouses. There is a LDS narcissistic abuse survivors FB page she might find very enlightening, and support that only comes from those who've "been there" because we understand how these "nice" people - really aren't. (and just how vicious they can become to their immediate family members - while appearing such a "nice" person to outsiders.)
Maryann TaylorFebruary 26, 2021
This advice was so vague that I don't think it's very helpful. A few suggestions or ideas about HOW to "change patterns" that are destroying her happiness would have been more productive for this sister.
Penny LFebruary 26, 2021
Any ideas on how to stay cool when the weather is 110 degrees and no power? found the article to bring back lots of memories of living off a generator for 11 days following Hurricane Juan. Keeping food cold in the fridge and freezer was the hardest part, along with tolerating the noisy generator. It kept my nerves on edge.
Bruce YoungFebruary 26, 2021
"Heart of Africa 2: Companions" is now in theaters, starting Friday, February 26. You can see it at several Megaplex theaters in Utah: Geneva, Thanksgiving Point, Jordan Commons, The District, Legacy Crossing, and The Junction.
Corina bolivafFebruary 26, 2021
Scott y Marine, nos han hecho llorar a mi esposo y a mi con su hermosa y emocionante clase. Desde Chile, saludos. Corina y Marco
Nicola MillsFebruary 26, 2021
Great answer!
JennFebruary 26, 2021
Leave him. He's a narcissist. He isn't concerned about you and probably never will be. Eternity isn't some distant future, it is now. If you can't imagine eternity with him then you should leave him.
K PonderFebruary 26, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful article. I too have come to understand the importance of seeking a higher level of spirituality through our spiritual eyes, We truly can see him everywhere.
Ben GiffordFebruary 26, 2021
Thank you
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 26, 2021
This article shows one aspect of the times we are living. However, a very important one is missing, i.e the preparation for marriage. It has been said that one of every two marriages end in divorce, but this is not true, when the preparation for marriage is in the family since the very beginning of life for those to be married. When this happened the divorce is seldom the result. Not only that, the lives of those children born of that "perfect" marriage are completely different than those coming either from divorced "fathers" "mothers" or "couples". In turn these children for sure will have a greater chance to have themselves happy marriages with happy children.So Families are the important aspect that must be stressed since the birth of all of us.
Charles HarperFebruary 25, 2021
Years ago our stake established a prison branch. I and a few others were privileged to be called to serve there. Those of us involved were greatly blessed by our service in this capacity. We enjoyed great spiritual experiences and I know that Heavenly Father loves all His children.
JulieFebruary 25, 2021
What a lovely and uplifting article. Thanks for making my day better by reminding me I can find God even when it's dark.
Helen CondonFebruary 25, 2021
My brief experiences with His touch can never be denied. The reminder of them Jerrod me going through the vicissitudes and doubts that come with life.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
Sometimes our trust in God can be inconsistent--we trust him when things are going fine, but when problems arise we question whether we can trust him. Trusting God does not mean our problems will all be solved, that he will protect us from every injury, or and he will remove all our pain. It helps us to trust God when we remember Lehi's promise to his son, Jacob. Jacob had "suffered afflictions and much sorrow, because of the rudeness of thy brethren. Nevertheless...thou knowest the greatness of God; and he shall consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain." (2 NE. 2:1-2) If we are striving to follow our Savior, God has the power to consecrate all that we experience for our good. This wonderful promised miracle to each of us is something that we can hold onto during hard times.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
I love this truth that we DO see the face of God. The Doctrine and Covenants speaks of the beautiful creations of God in the heavens--the planets, sun, moon and stars. "Behold, all these are kingdoms, and any man who hath seen any of the least of these hath seen God moving in his majesty and power. " (D&C 88:47). I do see God everywhere--in plants, animals, and especially in people. He reveals himself to us every day if we have eyes to see and ears to hear.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
What a beautiful experience and a reminder we can all be part of lovely relationships with those who need us. How essential it is to listen to the promptings of the Spirit!
Maryann TaylorFebruary 25, 2021
Kenny's comments are excellent, especially this statement: "Do not confuse legal, lawful, and moral defense with personal animosity." I am tired of the simplistic approach that we just need to listen. No--I do not need to listen to people in the media nor in person who want to talk about promoting abortion, or supporting more and more blatant attempts to make laws limiting our freedoms. Areas of gray have, indeed, become starkly black and white. I am not going to listen to evil ideologies and smile sweetly, thereby compromising the very principles of the Lord.
DL AndersonFebruary 25, 2021
Thank you for this. I'm sure I'm not the only one who now understands just HOW much I've already "seen" our Heavenly Father's and Jesus' face.
Kay YFebruary 25, 2021
Lovely story. Thank you for sharing.
Kay yFebruary 25, 2021
Lovely story. Thank you for sgaring.
KarlSFebruary 25, 2021
While this article brings up some important points, let’s not lose sight of the more influential picture, stated by renowned family advocates Linda and Richard Eyre in the Deseret News 7/28/2015: “The percentage of the U.S. population that is gay at between 2 and 4 percent. Meanwhile, among the 96 to 98 percent of heterosexuals, most seem to be devaluing or completely disregarding the value of marriage…less than half of cohabiting relationships last five or more years, and the divorce rates of women who cohabit are nearly 80 percent higher than for those who do not… The largest threat to our society and to our economy is not the way people define marriage, but how enthusiastically and committedly they participate in it. Sadly, and particularly among the millennial generation, fewer and fewer get married while more and more choose the lower-commitment option of cohabitation. And that huge threat it is being largely obscured and ignored because of the debate over same-sex marriage. …People vigorously fighting same-sex marriage but doing little or nothing to advocate or promote traditional marriage are like a defense with no offense. But whatever our personal position, each of us should ask the question of what we should be most concerned about — the emergence of same-sex marriage or the disappearance of traditional marriage.” http://deseretnews.com/article/865633013/What-defenders-of-traditional-marriage-may-be-forgetting.html
Ben JonesFebruary 25, 2021
As an adoptive father of 3, a natural father of 3, a widower, and a step-father of 3, I am personally aware of disruptions to the natural order of things caused by divorce and death not to mention disruptions caused by war, disease, and man's inhumanity to man. The ideal is certainly to be desired but the reality is that we all have challenges in life and I don't think there is anything to be gained by stigmatizing certain groups of people who are trying to do their best with the hands they were dealt in life. We can all strive to be the best children, parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, mentors, surrogates, etc. that we can be.
MICKIFebruary 25, 2021
Thank you for posting this wonderful story - gave me goosebumps! Sometimes we never know why we're drawn to someone - sometimes we get to find out why...and the miracles behind the why.
Margaret Hafen Archibald (another Knight descendant)February 25, 2021
That cane was donated to the Family History Library from members of the Knight family on May 29, 2009.
vickieFebruary 25, 2021
I LOVED this story. thank you for telling it or sharing it with me and many others.
Chuck SanfordFebruary 25, 2021
Back in the mid-1990s I was a home teacher for three men incarcerated in a federal prison. Within the narrow confines of imprisonment, I was able to do some good, because far and above anything I did, my Lord was involved, whether they believed that or not. Good people are needed to rescue these folks, and show them someone cares, to assist them in recognizing that God truly loves them.
JoanFebruary 24, 2021
This is an interesting situation. Although she is his sister, she is actually a stranger. However, she is a stranger that he is supposed to love because she is actually a family member. He would have a hard time processing what his reaction to her should be. There would be excitement because of finding each other, but it would be as a man and woman getting to know each other as adults who were sharing thoughts and feelings. Maybe both would find this appealing and new after being married for a long time. It is more on a romantic level since they have no history of growing up together as brother and sister. It is sad that they don't have the maturity to see it for what it is, and recognize that their first responsibility and loyalty should be towards the one that they have promised to love and cherish forever, and who has stood by them all these years. Joan
Jo Ann OkelberryFebruary 24, 2021
This is an excellent article. I listen to a lot of podcasts while I sew, quilt, clean, etc. I have listened to several podcasts given by men and women who proclaim that our earth gets better and better as we do better with farming, organizing, building, etc. One of their prime concerns is that people are not having enough children to replace deaths. I have seven children, and I am grateful for everyone of them. They have served me, my deceased husband, and others and given much help and support.
JamesFebruary 24, 2021
The Freedom of Speech is just that...Free and Protected, and also freedom from the consequences of that speech, with a few exceptions. The 'woke' community wants consequences, censorship and the complete and total loss of livelihoods as punishment for any (to them) disagreeable speech, and they are getting away with this nonsense by using non-government entities to do it! I really hope that the courts will see this and extend the unconstitutionality of censorship to any organization that allows speech, especially social media and allows for people to sue for a clear violation of their Civil Rights. I also hope that the bills, that are being proposed around the country, that puts being fired from a job for disagreeable speech, up there with all other forms of discrimination are passed and become enforceable law. However, I really hope the Second Coming of the Savior will happen soon and that He can put a definitive stop to it for good.
Michael ChandlerFebruary 24, 2021
It is also important to note the great bet made by Erlich and the economist Julian Simon in the 80’s. Simon bet that certain commodities would decline in cost over the period of a year, while Erlich claimed they would rise in cost over the same period, because of increasing scarcity. Simon won the bet. His mantra, the most valuable commodity is the human spirit. Time continues to vindicate that belief.
Margaret CorkranFebruary 24, 2021
Thank you. We all need to be reminded how much we are loved.
Susan SpearFebruary 24, 2021
Thanks for this thoughtfully considered article that not only includes personal experience and historical context but also RELEVANT DATA that debunks popular dogma. I especially appreciate the chart that clearly illustrates famine mortality rate and world population. I am a nutrition professor and will use this chart in my next course (in two weeks) as we discuss hunger and food issues. Beautifully done and easily understood. Another great resource that I'd like to recommend - and use in my course - to discusses the "real" cause of famine or insufficient food today (which is political unrest and the subsequent inequitable food distribution) is contained in the forward written by esteemed nutrition professor, Marion Nestle, in the beautiful photo book, Hungry Planet, by Peter Menzel. The picture documentary book about how the world eats is fascinating! Children and adults relate immediately - highly recommend.
TimFebruary 24, 2021
Not heard of the movie Heart of Africa before. Glad to say that I have tracked down a DVD copy
MHolmesFebruary 24, 2021
I hope and pray people start to wake up to the reality of this, which is that this is the long sought after result of careful planning and patience by those who desire to overthrow Christianity to replace it with communism. Deconstruction of the family is one of the central tenets of communism. Communism cannot exist while the people are bound together in family unity and love of God because the two "ideologies" are polar opposites. We need to recognize that communists have been effectively distracting us with the irrelevancy of party politics when in fact, we are facing a battle of freedom vs bondage, good vs evil, the right to exist and worship Almighty God as we see fit vs living under a tyrannical and oppressive government regime who sees it's people only as cogs in a giant machine. Yet many people seem to be content to plunge their heads into the sand and pretend that what's happening, isn't happening. When Prop 8 failed to pass and was later overturned by an activist "Supreme Court" under the O administration, the deconstruction of the traditional nuclear family as the central building block of society rapidly accelerated and it's only getting worse. This is just one of many of the consequences. What is it going to take to wake people up?
Name WithheldFebruary 24, 2021
My daughter had an experience with many parallels. She was adopted through LDS Family Services as a baby. With encouragement from both my wife and I, she found her birth parents. To make a long story short, she became very enamored with her birth father and moved in with him and his family a week after meeting him/them. They were everything to her and she started to treat us like we were someone she used to know. I found out through a relative that there is a thing called genetic attraction. It can be sexual or not sexual, and it can be a slippery slope. Fortunately, her birth father's family was going under a lot of changes due to building a new home, living with another family, extended family drama, etc., that there was no privacy and her birth father and birth step-mother had a good marriage. There was a lot of conflict over the whole situation and my daughter wouldn't speak to me for a year. After that, she wouldn't speak to my wife for six months. For a long time, I felt like the father's version of "my wife dumped me for another man." Only, my version was "my daughter dumped me for another dad." Another long story short, over several years things finally settled down and we have a much better relationship with her. I'd suggest that you check out Genetic Attraction or Genetic Sexual attraction to see what it's about, and if there is a support group online, it would be a good place to learn more about it. I'm so sorry for what you and your husband are going through. It's very painful and can be enormously heartbreaking. Approach this very prayerfully and if your husband refuses to go to counseling, you go by yourself so you can learn how to handle this. God bless you! I will be praying for you.
Linda WestoverFebruary 24, 2021
What a refreshing outlook! "And it came to pass..." has long been one of my favorite Book of Mormon scriptures.
Ronald BarnesFebruary 24, 2021
This is from a personal study. With a population of 7.5 million, if every man, woman, and child on Earth was given one acre of land, which is a population density of 640 people per square mile, the entire population could live in an area the size of the continent of Africa. That's only 6 percent of Earth's land mass.
Jason PetersonFebruary 23, 2021
Don't accept the premise of those who argue mankind is destroying the planet. We are not. The world is getting richer and cleaner, life span and quality of life are improving. Those who wish to control others and limit choices have been around since Lucifer sought to force upon all of us the outcomes he wished. Seek out facts, not emotional reactions to hyperbole of those claim we are destroying this world.
Kathleen ChinFebruary 23, 2021
I agree with you 100%! Also, we can choose NOT to take offense as easily as we can CHOOSE to take offense. Here’s another challenge...when I’ve tried to apologize for giving offense, yet the other person does not accept—or even acknowledge—my apology. Over the years, when this happens (which fortunately isn’t too often) I’ve learned to find my peace in the Atonement of Jesus Christ. These types of situations used to eat away at me. Then, one day, I realized it was my own lack of faith in our Savior’s Atonement that was keeping me from finding “...the peace which passeth understanding....” K. Chin, Modesto, CA
Allison TullisFebruary 23, 2021
I was recently diagnosed with cancer and have so many feelings going through my mind every day. But I have also had so many tender mercies this past month that I know the Lord is aware of me and loves me. But it’s still hard. Thank you for your words and insight It was exactly what I needed!
LauraFebruary 23, 2021
What a great scholarly article written in such a clever engaging way! I appreciate the writer’s fresh approach and her non-apologetic style. It is clear. God’s commandments time and again prove to be for our benefit. They are the path to eternal happiness.
LaVerl WilhelmFebruary 23, 2021
Orson Pratt’s report on the Prophet Joseph Smith’s explanation of learning to use the “gift” of translation without needing any mechanical means goes a long way in helping us understand how he translated most of the Book of Mormon without ever even opening the gold plates and translating the scroll writings of Abraham without ever having an actual hard copy in front of him. If we as mere mortals can send copies of manuscripts in a certain language all the way around the world and in seconds have the reader see it written in a different language, surely the Spirit of God can do as much and more!
Pat HarkerFebruary 23, 2021
Wonderful podcast, thank you so much!
PaulineFebruary 23, 2021
Really great article and good for thought. Easier said than done. Takes practice right?
Michael JonesFebruary 23, 2021
What destroys me is the costs involved in being able to experience these things. In the Country where I live, if I want to get involved in seeing these things or reading books written by people, I have to take the dollar price and multiply it by 17 to get the price in my local currency. Where I live this is an extraordinary amount of money. Not everyone has the privilege of transacting with the US Dollar and so I and my fellow travellers lose out.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
Joni--we have ALL done it--many times not even realizing until the words are out of our mouths how inappropriate they were. I agree we need to lighten up and forgive one another. HOWEVER, you brought up one comment that needs to be nipped in the bud among church members. Members of the church should NEVER, and I mean NEVER, ask someone when they are going to start a family. This is an extremely personal question and is sometimes asked in a manner that suggests the people are really failing or sinning because they don't have children yet! This needs to be unacceptable, and if that means replying with, "Oh, my! Why would you ask me that?! That is an extremely personal question." Sometimes people DO need to be corrected.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
I feel uncomfortable when people share detailed accounts of unusual sacred experiences. I am sure the General Authorities of the church have had many sacred experiences, but they do not often share the details of these experiences because they are so sacred. They do share their experiences and testimonies to strengthen us, but they don't generally speak of detailed grand visions they have had. In sharing so much detail about something that was given privately, there is also a danger of sensationalizing personal, sacred experiences. I have also been unable to accept some of the details in the many books that have become popular in bookstores around the country in the last several years regarding near death experiences. Some of them clearly contradict gospel principles. I think these accounts need to be read with caution and with the discernment of the Spirit. I have a testimony of our premortal life because the Lord has taught me this doctrine through the scriptures and the words of modern day Prophets.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
As a very emotional person myself, I really appreciate the points you made that we have a choice to stop our emotions from getting out of control and, instead, try to remain calm. In fact, when I have been able to remain calm in heated situations, it is a sign to me that I have the Spirit with me. I love these words from the great Prophet, Isaiah, "Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth thee." (IS 26:3) If I focus on my Savior, He will help me to be calm. However, I am very disappointed that when you spoke of CHOOSING various emotions, you casually threw depression into the mix. Certainly, learning to guide our thoughts and emotions will help in the battle with depression. However, the leaders of the church have been working diligently to teach us that depression is often a clinical illness, just like diabetes or other diseases. People do not CHOOSE to have chemical imbalances in their systems. They also did not CHOOSE the complicated and difficult experiences they have had as children that may contribute to depression. It would be simplistic and unrealistic to believe that we can just dismiss clinical depression. It is far more complicated than that, and deserves the proper treatment, care, and compassion that we give to other diseases of the body.
Margaret BourneFebruary 22, 2021
All this is well and good - if you have the money for it. Many of our members are low income or on a benefit of some kind. May I suggest for those who cannot afford sometimes even the necessities of life, that we can at least follow the Prophets' advice and have a picture of the Temple and of the First Presidency (which are both free) in our homes, then if and when we can afford more, maybe we can add to our collection.
RANAE C SHOAFFebruary 22, 2021
What a wonderful topic and I hope to get to see it when it is finished!
MaryFebruary 22, 2021
Sometimes before my neices and nephews are born I would have dreams about them. They are always around age two and they look exactly how they do in my dreams when they get to that age. I always know when one of my siblings is going to announce a pregnancy.
FredFebruary 22, 2021
I belong to a local gym and during this COVID crisis they have established a policy whereby each member who uses any apparatus must wipe it down with supplied antiseptic wipes. I mean all machines, free weights, bikes, etc. Members have taken this seriously and willfully have committed to adhering to this policy. I support the meaning and intent of the cartoon "No Unclean Thing" but for the sake of precious time being used between speakers to have someone come up and do this task, who better to do this but the speaker themselves is in my opinion a better solution. Oh by the way lets not skip wiping down the microphone as well.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
My husband and I made these for our emergency storage. We were so glad we had them when we experienced a severe windstorm. It was winter, very cold, and our power was out for several days. These little "heaters" were such a blessing. If you buy the small paint cans, they come with a paint can lid so you can seal them, and you can reseal them when you are finished for later use. We taped a quarter on the bottom of the paint cans to open the lid. Perfect! If you have children, you CANNOT leave these unattended ever. Obviously, care needs to be taken to light them in a very open space without any curtains near or anything else that could ignite. They need to be extinguished before you go to bed, of course. Some of the comments here reflect unnecessary fears. They are very safe to use indoors.
Duane BoyceFebruary 22, 2021
Terrific! I look forward to seeing this.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 22, 2021
I think the statement Geoff made that your husband cannot love you with all of his heart if he is giving her his deepest affections and affirmations is so true. I can understand your husband's excitement about finding his long lost sister. However, his behavior is extremely inappropriate. If he continues to refuse to go to therapy with you, I would tell him you cannot continue in the relationship as it is. Even if he stops his disloyal conversations with her, there is something very wrong in his mind, and he definitely needs counseling. His problems began long before his sister came into it.
CraigFebruary 22, 2021
Every. Single. Day. I often don't realize I have said something that was stupid, crass, or uncaring until after I had spoken the words out loud. Because it always sounds more funny, thoughtful, logical, or inspiring in my head, but somewhere in that vast distance from my brain to my mouth, it gets lost in translation and comes out cringeworthy. We are all human and making our way down the path like everyone else, only some of us trip on our feet more often than others and that is just fine.
JacobFebruary 22, 2021
Wow! Fascinating article. I am curious to see where Romney goes after this.
Margaret B. YoungFebruary 22, 2021
So eager to see this, Sarah!
Jacob B.February 22, 2021
What a fascinating article. I am curious to see where Romney goes after this term.
Marilynn LJ ChongFebruary 22, 2021
What happened to your husband?
E. RedelfsFebruary 22, 2021
Yes, there is room for all of us to disagree, but the truth is that there is nothing refreshing for Mitt Romney to try to impeach a former president.
Barbara FallickFebruary 22, 2021
Just read your excellent and inspiring story. My daughter just had a still-birth at 31 weeks. It has become a very spiritual experience for the whole family. I dreamed of this baby about the time he was conceived. That being said, there is a god who is so small he can dwell in our pockets and so large, he (or it) fills the universe and we almost all worship it universally. We call it the internet.
Wendy KillpackFebruary 22, 2021
I was very excited to read about this documentary. From the time I was a young child I have had spiritual longings and have come to realize that I was homesick for heaven. My fifth child appeared to me in the temple and let me know that he was anxious to come to Earth. I saw him wrapped in a blue shawl that I had used for each of my other children.it was a beautiful and humbling experience for me.
Julianne HamillFebruary 21, 2021
We had a similar experience during a cruise in 2019 at Christmastime. We went on an excursion on the island of Hawaii and sat next to a gay couple. We had a great time and when we were getting off the bus, I had an overwhelming desire to give one of these young men a big hug. He seemed surprised, but was receptive. Later, on the cruise ship (which was huge) we ran into them two more times - what are the chances??? The young men told me about how much he missed his mother and my husband and I both knew that was the reason for the desire to hug him. We communicated after the cruise and I told him that I really believed that the hug I gave him was from his mother, so that he knew how much she loved him.
LisabeeFebruary 21, 2021
Romney is the only reason I am still a republican. I salute someone who stands up for what is right. Our political system needs to change if members of congress will only vote along party lines instead of what is right and wrong.
Vicki RobbinsFebruary 21, 2021
Thank you Lynne for your wonderful words. So glad Brad is doing good.
Susan D. Whitiker M.D.February 21, 2021
I think that while Romney has every reason to disagree and voice his own opinions, he should not be able or ethically enabled to contradict himself year after year depending on which way the wind is blowing in the political arena. Its distasteful.
David S.February 21, 2021
Interesting read!
E M RedelfsFebruary 21, 2021
There is nothing refreshing for Mr. Romney to vote to convict a former president, to act against constitutional guidance and further more to align himself with house managers that stated that Mr. Trump had no first amendment protection and a long list of other unconstitutional maleficence. Mr. Romney had the right to vote against former president Trump but at what cost? Indeed there is nothing refreshing about his actions.
ReeneeFebruary 21, 2021
I love these short insights! Thank you.
B SmithFebruary 21, 2021
Romney is an embarrassment and I regret voting for him as president. Maybe his age is the reason he votes against Trump. He is a classic RINO.
Ann Blake-TracyFebruary 21, 2021
Good for you in knowing to turn to the Savior for the answers you needed! Too many do not. I went through something similar as a child but did not have answers for decades later. My younger sisters would talk aboit our mother as such a wonderful & kind mother. And I would wonder who they could possibly been talking about! Why would they think that when the mother I had was so mean? Could this be the same woman I overheard laughing with our neighbor over a scheme they hatched to call the pound on each others dogs while us kids searched & searched for our best fruend? (Only one of many similar things.) But then after my mission I came home to discover I had some very serious health issues & the doctors in "treating" me almost killed me. From there i learned to study health on my own to recover & became an expert in cases involving the use of prescription drugs. Because of the extensive knowledge I gained I began asking questions & learned my mother had been given steroids by a doctor when I was young but came off them before giving birth to my much younger sisters. I knew that steroids were invented at the request of Hitler who wanted to turn his troops into "lean, mean killing machines"! And that is how my mother was transformed into this woman I could not stand to be around. The doctor's prescription had destroyed my relationship with my mother, robbing us of happy years & memories, while my 2 sisters shared with her many happy years along with loving memories. Sad but it has helped me to be more compassionate with thise I work with going through the same. And it certainly has helped me forgive my mother. Yes what she did caused a lot of pain but had she been told the truth about the drugs given to her that were supposed to help would she have ever taken them? I do not believe she would have! She made the mistake of placing her trust in the Arm of Flesh rather than the Savior, just as I had done when I almost lost my life doing so! We were told the whole world would be decieved by prescription drugs in our day Rev 18. We need to know far more about them to survive this!
Ann Blake-TracyFebruary 20, 2021
What you describe rings a bell for me as one of the Facebook group i head is called Antidepressant-induced Divorce Epidemic & we deal with some extremely bizarre situations where couples after being happily married for many years suddenly split due to bizarre situations forming quickly in their lives after being on an antidepressant even a short time. I watched Utah go from the lowest divorce rate in the nation to over the national average of divorce in 7 years after the introduction of the first SSRI antidepressant. One couple from Idaho reported to me in the late 90's being in an LDS marriage group for counseling where each of the nine couples were highly encouraged to go on one of these drugs. This couple refused & they were the only couple out of that group of nine to remain married! Then LDS Singles wanted me to come & lecture for them because they had noticed that those on these drugs were in what they called their "Revolving Door" group where they would join, find a mate, marry & come right back in no time divorced & ready to go through the same process all over again & again & again! The drugs change who you are. They are mind altering & can produce psychosis. Even Osama Bin Laden's son, Omar, has been diagnosed with Antidepressant-induced Schizophrenia. So I do believe it is important to make sure he is not on any "medication" that could produce this type of behavior. And if so you may want to read through this warning from the Apostle John about prescription drugs in our day, but keep in mind that the warnings to NEVER EVER change the dose of these drugs abruptly whether increasing or decreasing. Generally half the time spent on these drugs is what time is needed to withdraw safely. They say heroin withdrawal is nothing in comparison! : Drugawareness.org/spirituality-and-sorcery
GaryFebruary 20, 2021
The flash point of isopropyl alcohol or any alcohol is so low that in my opinion this is a very dangerous use of the product. Your fire department and homeowners insurance would probably never approve of this.
C BargerFebruary 20, 2021
What a wonderful article to leave me really “thinking” about how I can be a more Christlike disciple as I seek to serve in the brick and mortar church of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Such thoughtful insight. I love a “thinking” article. Thank you.
ChristineFebruary 20, 2021
I always love your insightful messages that are so well written and woven with the spirit of faith and doctrine.
pamFebruary 20, 2021
Having seen the concert in person in AZ, and have listened to the oratorio more than 1,000 times, not an exaggeration, I'm thrilled to see this film. This music is stunning in scope and importance. Thank you Rob Gardner.
pamFebruary 20, 2021
Thank you for this article. I will read it a couple of times since the content is very pertinent to me! At least I'm not alone in all my blunders. Pam
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Erica BarbosaFebruary 20, 2021
Thank you for sharing your insight. Life is so much more pleasant when we assume that other people's intentions are usually good.
Diane K.February 19, 2021
I have seen this in a live concert. Magnificent! Can't wait!
JaniceFebruary 19, 2021
Great comment by Kenny M. The last 2 sentences really resonated with me. Thanks.
Bob PowelsonFebruary 19, 2021
There are some differences that a beyond "being nice and understanding" about. The is nothing to debate, I would not want such in my home or any where near me, including some relatives in serious intentional apostacy.
Harold RustFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you. I've always felt the best response to "Black Lives Matter" is not just "All Lives Matter", but rather "The most important race to respect above all others is the Human Race". Only when we stop singling out specific races to be treated better (which is very different from focusing on eliminating laws with negative consequences that single out specific races) will we be continuing the great improvements regarding Blacks and other minorities that have been made since World War II. It is the very highlighting of differences between races that eats away at what most of us really want to see: a society in which it is one's actions and not one's appearance which are evaluated on their own merits which are appropriate measures of how one should perceive others around them. The BLM movement is based solely on pushing an elevation of one race; it excludes Asians, Latinos, Indians, and so forth and wants everyone to pledge their support of those who are "Black". Not a healthy theme.
Roger KentFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you for this article in particular but also for the other many inspiring articles. Wish I knew how to get this to the youth. All they hear from the propaganda machines is negativity and hate.
Lynne ChristoffersonFebruary 19, 2021
Since people have asked about my husband's recovery, I'm happy to report that he is recovering nicely and will hopefully be back to full strength within a few weeks. We feel very blessed.
Linda PatalonFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you for this article! I have been so full of fear and anxiety. This was just the reminder I needed.
Joyce Hathaway BairdFebruary 19, 2021
I found this article to be very helpful. Thank you
Janet Lee WiseFebruary 19, 2021
Thank you so much for your recommendations. As a researcher in Liberation Psychology, I recently remembered a quote from the Persian poet and Sufi Master Rumi, who said, "You think because you understand 'one,' you understand 'two,' because 'one and one is two.' But you don't understand 'and.' "Good grief!" I thought. "If we don't understand 'and,' how can we possibly wrap our heads around 'equal'?!" So here's to reading and teaching our children (and ourselves) how to understand "and," in the hope that it will help us to understand "equal!"
WeezieFebruary 19, 2021
Clap clap clap! Thank you for addressing the true motive of BLM. They are very sneaky. It’s not what they want you to think it is. Of course we agree Black Lives Matter, as well as ALL other lives. But they are doing more damage to divide and to promote racism than to help it.
RonFebruary 19, 2021
Any flame that glows yellow is evidence of incomplete combustion resulting in carbon monoxide creation. As evidence, place the blade of a metal table knife in the flame for a few seconds and remove it. Note the unburned carbon deposited on the blade as black soot. With complete combustion, the flame is be quite a bit less bright and will form carbon dioxide. Just be safe!
KEFFebruary 19, 2021
Nothing refreshing about his article at all. Like Trump says, Romney needs to lash out at the Democrats which he has never done, rather than at the leader of the GOP which he belongs. It is very evident that Romney cannot get over his disdain for Trump and he has to vote against him each chance he can to show it. I agree with Lawrence, Romney is in the wrong party and needs to man up and change. I would have more respect for him doing that than pretending to be a Republican.
JeannineFebruary 19, 2021
WOW! Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. What a great reminder! And I sincerely hope your husband has recovered. God Bless!
EdFebruary 19, 2021
PLEASE no lit liquid fuel in any open spillable container. THINK, THINK, THINK.
J. HamiltonFebruary 19, 2021
Excellent response. I ALWAYS enjoy reading Geoff's insights and suggestions. While the situations each time may not apply to me, I learn so much and have great "take aways" that are enlightening in my life and relationships. Thank you.
Helen CondonFebruary 19, 2021
After losing two of my five children to cancer, I was recently reading through my old blog when I found this: Found my old diary; opened to a random page and got this from April 4th, 2010: ". . . the thought came to me that Heavenly Father doesn't always ask us to do what we think we can, sometimes He asks us to do what we know we can't. That's how He gets to touch and strengthen our lives."
carolynFebruary 19, 2021
Doris, Yes some cities have restrictions on the amount of fuel you can store. If this is the case you can store the allowed amount of several forms. Store charcoal, wood, propane, gasoline, candles (yes they can provide heat) and even rubbing alcohol for a paint can heater. Charcoal, wood and propane can be used for cooking in a fire pit or barbecue. Remember propane and charcoal should not be used inside your home and wood only in the fireplace with the flue open. Thanks for the reminder.Thanks for the reminder.
Lisa TompkinsFebruary 19, 2021
I've been taking Cardio Miracle now for almost over a year. I will be 54 very soon, and I honestly can say I feel like I'm 30. I am very active, work out 5 days a week, and I feel strong when I DO my workouts. It doesn't hurt. I sleep better, and I definitely don't have issues with memory. When I was around 50, I was a mess and it took a while to figure out what I was lacking. I love this product, and would recommend it to anyone struggling with "aging issues " Sometimes we need to remember we are NOT 20 anymore, and our bodies need to be handled a bit differently. And it's okay!! The longer I am on Cardio Miracle, the more I feel it's benefits.
Sydney WheadonFebruary 19, 2021
Our deacons do this job so happily and efficiently!
Annette WilkesFebruary 19, 2021
This is a lovely brain-based way of approaching a heart-breaking topic. I would like to propose that what needs changing most are hearts (including mine). Here are some thoughts to consider that move from thoughts to opening up the heart to greater levels of trust. They are from The Colossian Forum. "He is before all things, and in him all things hold together." Colossians 1:17 (NIV and other versions of the KJV of the Bible) "Conflict is the discipleship gift you've been waiting for -- not the disruption you've been dreading." Some Christians (including me) are either terrified of conflict or hate it. We are often the ones who shut down and fail to stand for what we believe. Others are so outspoken that they alienate others. Each of us can go either way at different times. More commitment to Christ and his ways is needed. How do we gain that greater commitment, allowing what is going on around us politically to actually spur it? This is a question I have. Political division is only going to grow in America in the days before the Savior's return. We need the skills to become true Christians now more than ever. https://colossianforum.org This website brought me great peace one Sunday when political rhetoric entered a church meeting I attended, leaving me sad and feeling discouraged (and a bit frightened, truthfully). This can happen to someone at any time in any church where there is a diversity of thought. Speaking for myself, I need to embrace the thought "Conflict is the discipleship gift you've been waiting for -- not the disruption you've been dreading." I trust that the Lord is going to keep it all together; I need to trust I can.
Arlene C WelkerFebruary 19, 2021
Beautifully written. Thank you. I would like to know for sure that your husband is ok? It always comes to the point of your article. Trust in the Lord. Elder Richard G Scott's talk called "Trust in the Lord"....Ensign November 1995 (October 1995 General Conference) is still my favorite talk ever. I highly recommended it. Elder Scott details why adversity and how the Lord takes us through it. I've never heard a better explanation than this talk.
Jan KuesterFebruary 18, 2021
This was a very informative article and tremendously appreciated. To prevent misinformation from being promulgated about solar power and the batteries being used/charged, I would humbly share the following couple of points I suspect that the friend who had a disastrous but blessed week must not have had a solar power system designed with an adequate charge controller/inverter and also perhaps had solar panels which were receiving minimal solar gain on a daily basis. As one who has had quite a bit of experience with living with solar power in very cold and snowy north central Washington state and who lived 100% off grid in a very modern 2200 sq ft home with an average family size of 5, I want to reassure all readers that a well designed solar power can be easily lived with and indeed, that the batteries can deliver power for household use while they are also being charged. For the past 18 months my dear husband and I have been (and will continue to be) full time RVers with a wonderful off grid solar system Because we are mobile, we must be careful to avoid parking under shade trees - a very different experience from living in a house! Bless you Carolyn for all you do and all you share. <3
calFebruary 18, 2021
Crucial Conversations is one of the most beneficial training that I have had at work. Equally valuable are the principles taught by the Arbinger Institute, especially the Anatomy of Peace and the Outward Mindset. I encourage all who are not familiar with the principles taught by these books to add them to Crucial Conversations.
Maurine Jensen ProctorFebruary 18, 2021
This article is not about whether one agrees or disagrees with either senator. It is that in this angry world, where people are canceled and denigrated, there is room for us to disagree. We have to stand by that freedom.
Haze KompelienFebruary 18, 2021
Thank you for the "reminder" in this article. I love the intellectual learning part of Gospel study. You know, the historical background, the meaning of words in Hebrew, Greek, Latin, etc., the chiasmus, the poetry. So much so that I sometimes get caught up in the STUDY of the Gospel and not the MEDITATING on the Word of God.
Angelle LordFebruary 18, 2021
Appreciate this, Joni! We are Louisianians and know all about hurricane prep but this Feb 2021 arctic weather is new. We need some skills!
Joni HiltonFebruary 18, 2021
I’d like to add that it’s always smart to make sure you are in a large, ventilated room with any flame. Although it’s a tiny amount, any flame can create carbon monoxide.
Joni HiltonFebruary 18, 2021
This heater will burn for over an hour. It is safe in a home, but like any flame uses oxygen so I wouldn’t use it in a small tent, for example. It does not create carbon monoxide at all. And it should be placed on flameproof surface, such as tile, stone, brick, or metal.
WayneFebruary 18, 2021
This heater should NEVER be used indoors! Carbon monoxide is an odorless killer and families are dying in Texas because they are using open flame heaters indoors. There is nothing worse that going to sleep and never waking up.
Lawrence RookhuyzenFebruary 18, 2021
"Utah's Refreshing Message After Lee and Romney Vote Separate Ways" Nice spin job--but it's not refreshing when the two senators belong to the President's party. Unfortuately Mitt got his feelings hurt and ego bruised by Trump years ago and never got over it. We all thought Mitt had thicker skin. There is just no justification for him voting to convict the President: no evidence in the first trial and unconstitutional in the second. If Mitt wants to be "refreshing" we encourage him to try running as a Democrat in the next election.
DorisFebruary 18, 2021
In our small town of 12,000, we are only allowed to store 10 gal. total of any fuel. Even if it's for lawnmowers, snow blowers, grill, etc. I think probably you can't store fuel in the amounts you said you used unless you were in a more rural area. Everyone needs to check their city codes. My neighbor had a propane tank blow up a few years ago and the blast was felt a block away!
SteveFebruary 18, 2021
As a sealer in the temple, I have always recognized that I am pronouncing and sealing upon the couple the blessings of the Abrahamic Covenant, the ultimate promise being exaltation itself. In fact, Elder Bateman taught that in the sealing ordinance, our exaltation is sealed upon us five times. More recently, I have come to appreciate and believe that the Patriarchal Blessings I am privileged to pronounce on members of my stake are also a declaration of the same promises and obligations of that great covenant. Every one of the saving priesthood ordinances we receive seem to be a restatement of God’s promise to bring us back into His presence and our part in seeing that promise is fulfilled for us and all our brothers and sisters.
Linda BrownFebruary 18, 2021
How long will this burn?
CASFebruary 18, 2021
Since this method of heating uses oxygen in the room, it's important to point out that this heater must have proper ventilation from the outside to avoid carbon monoxide poisoning as one tries to provide heat inside.
PaulineFebruary 18, 2021
I find it helpful to listen for what the other person needs based upon their feelings. If I’m uncertain I ask questions like, “You feel angry because you need...?” Sometimes I guess in order to get clarification, listen actively, find common ground, or to figure out what they want. Blame, shame, guilt, fear provoked, I back up. NVC
PeggyFebruary 18, 2021
Thank you Joni for sharing this. How long would one TP roll last as the wick? How often would you refill the alcohol? I'm trying to figure out how much to purchase. I noticed that you have a granite countertop. I don't. What other surfaces would you recommend putting the can on to prevent burning?
Kenny MazzantiFebruary 18, 2021
Rattlesnakes are a beautiful member of God's creations that most folks are not fond of, but they are part of the balance of nature. I don't put my hand in their face because I know what will happen. That does not imply that I dislike them or don't respect their place in the creation. While a law enforcement officer for 30 years, I was assaulted many times and several people tried to kill me. Threats were made to burn down my home with me and my family in it. I never once hated any of those people, but I did defend myself from their attacks. God inspired the Declaration of Independence and the Constitution of the United States of America so that the Gospel of Jesus Christ could be spread throughout the world and God's children worldwide could all enjoy liberty and freedom from oppression. Today, there are the equivalent of Gadianton Robbers in our land actively trying to fulfil Satan's plan to dethrone God and enslave His children. I don't hate those people but I am going to defend my liberty to my last breath against their attack. There are members of public and members of this church who are on the wrong side of God's Plan of happiness. I would never judge them morally, but I will defend myself and my family from their actions. Do not confuse legal, lawful, and moral defense with personal animosity. They are separate issues. One can hate the sin without hating the sinner. That applies to strangers as well as family members.
Myrna LiddellFebruary 18, 2021
Remember the surface under the alcohol heater needs to be protected. Joni shows her heater being lit on a granite? Surface Formica might not be so forgiving?
Pat BluthFebruary 18, 2021
Thanks Maurine and Ron! Good reminders. Helps me to take a deep breath too.
Elmer GuevarraFebruary 18, 2021
Mr. Daris Howard, Sir: I am always looking forward to reading your article. You are my favorite writer here. I especially like the wit you are putting in every article that you made.
Doug YoungFebruary 18, 2021
Won't the flame produce carbon monoxide? Will it be safe to use indoors?
JeanFebruary 18, 2021
Thank you for the tip on the diy heater. How long would that last.
H NorthFebruary 18, 2021
"Blind conformity" doesn't justify being wrong. One senator voted correctly, and the other did not.
LexaGraemeFebruary 17, 2021
Well, my room just got dusty. Thank you for sharing, and thank you for making this story possible.
HalFebruary 17, 2021
Fantastic article, thank you!
A ChipmanFebruary 17, 2021
If shopping for a generator, it is my experience that an inverter generator is best for running and protecting electronic equipment. Resistance-type equipment fares best when using common generators, whereas electronic equipment may be damaged by common generators.
BradFebruary 17, 2021
The other option we should push for to change Big Tech, is the right to privacy of our own data. Tech companies should not be allowed to gather and sell all our data without explicitly opting in. They should also have the details spelled out on what they collect that is not an 80 page legal document.
GBFebruary 17, 2021
Thank you for your article tackling a very complex issue. One thought on just one item. Adoption. Statistics show that more women are keeping their babies, so there are fewer available for adoption. Unfortunately, adoption has become big business and the cost is astronomical for young couples who cannot conceive. One of the big reasons for higher costs is unscrupulous scammers on the internet preying on couples desperate for a child. Couples are forced to go through an adoption agency to avoid the scams. It needs to be less complicated and far less expensive to adopt a child a mother can not or does not want to raise.
LeAnnFebruary 17, 2021
That was full of excellent advice and gave me several ideas of things to check on with our ow preparations.
Lori Finlay HamiltonFebruary 17, 2021
thank you Carolyn for this timing, informative article!
RachaelFebruary 16, 2021
I like this article. I think that what we put on our walls and in our homes design is incredibly important and can have a powerful influence on our children and others. Interestingly enough, I had an interior design related business for about 25 years. I was in all types of homes and in some very expensive homes. One particular client lived in a very exclusive and expensive area; they have homes in various places around the country. I was involved in designing their entire home in a neighboring city. I did not find out until after the job was completed that the family was LDS. There was NOT ONE SINGLE THING in that home that indicated that they had any affiliation with any organized religion or that they had any faith whatever. It was profoundly illuminating. Their faith/allegiance to the Restored Gospel was extraordinarily difficult to discern. It gave me pause to ponder then and since. While we have not used the family heritage approach to our interior design as much as the author, but we have words and design elements in every room that proclaim our faith. I think we are blessed by that evert single day.
HappilyMarriedFebruary 16, 2021
Loved the article. I have found what you said to be true with my own experience. I enjoyed the use of fairytale characters to get the point across. Their use added a familiarity that made it fun to read. Keep writing. The world needs more of your ideas and comments.
MaryFebruary 16, 2021
Why is it ok to give companies tax breaks, but when it comes to giving help to people during a pandemic- no we can't have that. Why do people pay fast offerings and say it is ok for the church to financially help people. I live in a stake where the church is starting to feel the burden of people seeking help. Maybe some live life of privlage and are unaware of what is happening to those around them or they just decide to close their eyes. If we are going to complain against government spending let's start with the tax write-offs for executives lunches that were given or the billions of dollars that is given to the military or the lack of spending given to education.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 16, 2021
Joni--you are such an example of faith to me! I LOVE the song and it expressed the feelings of my own heart, about how blessed I am to have found my wonderful husband. When you speak of humor, it made me recall a day when my Mom and I laughed together about all the things she could get out of doing by just saying, "Sorry, I can't do that because I have cancer." We thought of so many silly examples and the laughter was healing. She is gone now, but my love for her continues and I can't wait to see her. Thank you for giving us an eternal perspective regarding the heart wrenching subject of Cancer.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 16, 2021
It is disheartening to hear that 70% of couples live together before they marry. Satan has certainly planted a great deal of fear in the hearts of these people, and somehow convinced them they will be saved from pain by not marrying. The decision to live together before marriage screams out: "I am not really committed," or "I am afraid you are not really committed." The ironic fact is that living together without being married greatly weakens the relationship because God cannot be part of it. When we marry, we make a covenant with our spouse AND with God. We must continually strengthen the foundation of marriage by committing our lives to living his commandments and striving to make Christlike love the very heart of marriage.
Janet PreeceFebruary 16, 2021
I also reverend my ancestors so have some of their treasures diplayed: a great grandfather's oak sideboard, a hand made flower arrangement by his wife in a globe on the sideboard, another grandma's rocking chair with my needlepoint coverings, all near the Al Rounds picture of old SLC at the corner of So Temple and State St. I love my ancestor's corner in my home. Ron, I tended your kids many years ago in Emerson Ward.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
Jennifer - gay marriage is not the issue here. We do have a child who recently announced she was gay. We did not express shock, judgement or anger. We were "supportive" by reminding her that, while we all have our challenges, to achieve true happiness we are all required to keep Heavenly Father's commandments regardless of our weaknesses. One of those commandments is sexual purity. The plan of happiness is so named because it is, indeed, the plan that - if followed - will bring us the greatest joy both in this life and in the eternities. Sometimes that includes sacrificing our greatest desires. We told our daughter that we love her with all our hearts and that is why we expressed our sincere belief that keeping the law of chastity would bless her life more than giving in to physical drives that would likely prove to be destructive.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
This obviously cuts both ways. My precious wife lost interest in intimacy some years ago (we are not anywhere near 70). She was still responsive to my overtures until about a year ago when intimacy became increasingly painful for her. We tried a variety of remedies (lubricants, positions, etc.) to no avail. She is still willing to try other options even though her drive is non-existent. For all that, I feel very loved by my wife because of her deep consideration for my feelings. She loves me in many other ways that do not involve intimacy, so this is not a deal-breaker for either of us.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
Wow! Thank you for this article! I was a health science major over 40 years ago and it still amazes me some of the nonsense regarding diet and exercise that has been put forth by "experts" over the years. I've always held that, if you eat sensibly by listening to your body, keep the Word of Wisdom as written (and interpreted by prophets), and don't do anything stupid, you'll live a good life as long as the Lord sees fit to let you hang around.
Gary BealFebruary 16, 2021
I have read the Givens' previous books (though not this new one) and find their perspective insightful, relevant, and comforting. However, like Bro. Hancock, sometimes it feels like they stray too far in re-framing what the scriptures say about the nature of sin and man's proclivities to go contrary to God's commands. For instance, in previous books they seem to downplay the distinctions regarding being "saved" in the Telestial kingdom, or the Terrestrial kingdom, versus being "saved" in the Celestial kingdom. I haven't decided for myself if this is a trivial or fundamental concern about their theology, but I do credit them with helping me to understand better the traditional Western Christian paradigm of guilt and depravity that does (wrongly) influence some of the ways that otherwise faithful Latter-Day Saints misapply the Gospel of Christ.
HalFebruary 16, 2021
Thank you for this article. Despite the current trend to demonize our founding fathers - including Thomas Jefferson - I believe they were truly inspired in the founding of this nation and will share in the glory of exaltation.
Sandy ReddishFebruary 16, 2021
Thank you for clarifying the difference about contention versus other negative emotions that is very important to understand. I am afraid I sometimes have judged what is happening too harshly but will try to do better. I appreciate the suggestions so much as a mom of five there is a lot of drama and arguing in our home.
Dennis HorneFebruary 16, 2021
As I read the Doctrine and Covenants and Pearl of Great Prince and study the teachings of the prophets, I find in them more than sufficient and glorious teachings about what the Restoration is and means. It is a return to the Church that Jesus and His apostles set up, and to the Abrahamic Covenant. I see in these teachings sufficient and complete vocabulary--scriptural vocabulary--for any and all true and edifying gospel purposes. When we speak from the scriptures, we get our doctrine right. My scriptures, the standard works, and the teachings of the prophets that I read, tell me that the core of the atonement of Jesus Christ is repentance from sin, whereby my guilt is washed away by the blood of Christ. As for love, in a recent Conference address President Oaks taught: “The kingdom of glory to which we are assigned in the Final Judgment is not determined by love but by the law that God has given us.” There is no such thing as universal exaltation, while any church can deliver salvation (immortality) in the Telestial or Terrestrial Kingdoms of glory. So also taught Pres. Oaks. A multitude of reasons convince me to get my doctrine from the prophets instead of these authors. I don't believe the Church needs a course correction (steadying of the ark) unless it comes from Jesus, who is the head of the Church, through Russell M. Nelson who is its current mortal president and director. He tells me to repent of my sins, not ignore guilt or heal "woundedness." I am so glad I have prophets to look to instead of academics whose views I can't square with the scriptures.
Marti ScottFebruary 16, 2021
The problem with the relief bills is all the other things they add to them like gender studies in Pakistan. This time it's funded abortions. I'm sure there's a lot of other things as well.
anonymouseFebruary 16, 2021
Thank you for this compelling, enlightening article. I will say though, I highly discourage people from tackling dragons. The tried and true approach to slaying dragons together is to go to the top of a tall tower that hasn't already been burned down by the dragon's fire, then have one person stand straight up (assuming they're the proper height, otherwise they might have to squat, or get a stool) and use their shoulder to support a large 6 foot black metal arrow, while the other person pulls back the bowstring that's been previously detached from their bow. They wait until the precise moment, and launch the arrow into the dragon's underbelly, and then pray desperately they survive the fall when the dragon's dying body knocks over the tower they were just standing on.
Britt FranklinFebruary 16, 2021
Fascinating! Unfortunately, the Gadianton robbers are alive and well in 2021, with a significant number of people--especially in America--giving them support and seeking to profit from their depredations on society.
Sonya WashburnFebruary 16, 2021
Excellent article. Thanks for bringing to light more truths. I love the quotes from Thomas Jefferson and Napoleon, and the latter-day Prophets. Thank you thank you!!
I've needed thisFebruary 16, 2021
@Boanergest Rubalcava--congratulations on "getting" it! But for many members, myself included, the Givens' book promises to be a fantastic guide for those of us who are subject to Augustinian tendencies, who are members but sucked in by the Protestant ideas and don't even realize it. Their book is meant to be liberating and consoling for those members who can't quite delineate between true and counter gospel. I look forward to reading the full text. It's an answer to prayers.
CubbyFebruary 16, 2021
I always enjoy reading Jeff's posts. His attention to small details is fascinating. Thanks, Jeff.
Gary A GarvinFebruary 16, 2021
wow
KJBFebruary 16, 2021
Funny, I must have missed the article you guys published when Trump and the Republicans blew a two trillion dollar hole in the budget for the sake of tax cuts...
Harold RustFebruary 16, 2021
I agree with Boanerges Rubalcsvs that this article stretched out in repetitive intellectualism what to many members of the Church is a very simple summary of our relationship with God: He wants us to follow the Savior and become perfect. While it is within our agency to either keep working toward that goal or quitting at some point, He will patiently support us as long as it takes if we do keep trying. He won’t take away our responsibility to repent fully; but the atonement is that final step in perfection when we have proven a willingness to keep changing in all respects until completely aligned with our Savior.
Pat HarkerFebruary 15, 2021
Fascinating! Thank you.
Gaye WillisFebruary 15, 2021
Wonderful insights! Thank you!
Boanerges RubalcavaFebruary 15, 2021
I do not understand the worries either of the Givens or of the author of this article. The restored gospel is very simple and clear, we are here because of love not because of fear.I and I would say most of the converted people to the restored gospel understand it perfectly and we do not need to fill so many pages with "intellectual" repetitions of what Joseph Smith taught us since 200 years ago. The best part of this article is the last statement: "And better not give undue place to taste for intellectual innovation..." I strongly believe in : "This is my work and my glory to bring to pass immortality and Eternal life of man". Actually I strongly believe that They, Heavenly Father and our Lord Jesus Christ want for us ALL Their children not "immortality" but ETERNAL LIFE.
dave hicksFebruary 15, 2021
For what it's worth, I don't have a problem with marriage. My problem is living together. Can you think of a more distasteful activity for two people to do than living together? Cheers
VivianFebruary 15, 2021
Thank you for the beautiful song. My husband had a stroke Jan. 25 and is slowly recovering. Your song expresses my feelings so well.
Marsha NewmanFebruary 14, 2021
I love these podcasts! They are so well researched and presented with great reverence and tenderness. Thank you so much for your analysis and insights. Marsha Newman
Corey D.February 14, 2021
I am a deeply patriotic individual who loves his country very much. I generally have not agreed with a lot of Mark Cuban's political comments but this is one where I do, the simplest way to put these athletic protests to rest, is stop playing the national anthem. We don't do the national anthem at plays or concerts or movies or any other large public gathering, why do athletic events seem to have the corner on the market so to speak ? The National Anthem should be sung at political events or military events, once in a while at church or some type of community event but lets stop at any other, especially sports events.
Nobody SpecialFebruary 14, 2021
3 Nephi 9: 19-20 19 And ye shall offer up unto me no more the shedding of blood; yea, your sacrifices and your burnt offerings shall be done away, for I will accept none of your sacrifices and your burnt offerings. 20 And ye shall offer for a sacrifice unto me a broken heart and a contrite spirit. And whoso cometh unto me with a broken heart and a contrite spirit, him will I baptize with fire and with the Holy Ghost, even as the Lamanites, because of their faith in me at the time of their conversion, were baptized with fire and with the Holy Ghost, and they knew it not.
LoriFebruary 14, 2021
Also watch "The Social Dilemma" on Netflix. Former employees of big tech admit that these companies are influencing and manipulating people's thoughts.
MaryFebruary 14, 2021
These articles have been very interesting. I think many pro life advocates echo all that was said in this article. I would be interested in seeing your views of other actions we can take as a whole in society such as sex education, affordable health care, and the reduction of poverty- all which have been proven to reduce abortion numbers. Also, there is a lot of discussion specifically surrounding women, but if agency like you said does play a role I would be interested to know your thoughts about the role of fathers and what role they play and how they fit into this picture.
LindaFebruary 13, 2021
Newsom is a non-believer and therefore despises religious liberties . It is scary to think what is going to happen to our country now that liberals are in charge. Keep the faith and trust God!
Ronald SandersFebruary 13, 2021
We just watched a great program on Netfilx called "The Social Dilemma". It was very similar to the information that you have published. Thank you for your very informative article!
joeFebruary 13, 2021
Many questions, the first being how many of those now happy in marriage are in their second or third go around and so is my wife. We enter marriage with such rose colored filters that failure is almost guaranteed. Yes if we change and don't do any of the common errors our marriage is more likely to succeed, but then we will not be being as most of us are.
DanilaFebruary 13, 2021
Excellent article. Thank you.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
Thank you for a very well thought out article! We live in a world where many perpetuate the idea that exercising your freedom of "choice" means doing what you want without any consequences. There is no such thing as using our God-given agency without the God-given consequences that eventually follow. I also do not consider supporting pro-life as taking a "position." It is a commandment from God. Truth is truth.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
I don't know which phrase is the biggest lie perpetuated to excuse murdering the unborn--"Family Planning," or "Women's Reproductive Health." What Bunk served up by proponents for abortion! Thank you for a great article.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
Thank you so much for the encouraging information! It is hard to understand why someone would make disparaging remarks about marriage, even in jest. Certainly these negative comments fall in the category of "light mindedness." I loved the comment you made that bad marriages can also go good! I heard someone give a very touching personal account of making a bad marriage into a wonderful one. The key was developing true love and applying Christlike characteristics in the marriage. I heartily agree with the truth that a happy marriage is a grand key to a happy life.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 12, 2021
What wonderful, compassionate advice from Brother Steurer! It helps so much to remember our limitations, and to remember that God is mindful of every person and their suffering. He truly will minister to those who, tragically, decide to end their lives, and healing does take place on the other side of the veil. In the meantime, we can give love and compassion to those in need, but God has not given us the power to take away their agency to make very sad choices. This situation reminds me of President Nelsons counsel to see the big picture. In the end, all will be healed, and we can hold fast to that hope in Christ.
ScottHFebruary 12, 2021
In the run-up to and during the American Revolution, people who failed to share the prevailing opinion in any given area (and this shifted throughout the war) were often compelled to silence, often by the overt or subvert threat of violence. Following the war, many who had supported the British were obligated to flee to Great Britain, a place that had never been their home. The cancel culture phenomenon Brother Hess describes is not new to our times. The natural man within us is prone to tribalism that, without proper control, can lead us to do very inhumane things under the guise of doing right.
P PetersonFebruary 12, 2021
Thanks for this insight to the three witnesses. I found the background and detail very touching.
craigFebruary 12, 2021
MGTOW all the way.
SharonFebruary 12, 2021
Amen The family is the most important “group “ we can belong to. This is where we learn to work through our problems, how to treat others, & love others and love ourselves. It all begins in the family Prayers to you
LoriFebruary 12, 2021
What a beautiful reminder about the power of righteous routines in our home. When kids are crying and dishes pile up in the sink it’s hard to recognize the fruits of our daily efforts. Thanks for reminding us that that these daily attempts add up and bless our home... even when we can’t always see it! :)
EmilyFebruary 12, 2021
Can you make this shareable on pinterest?
Harold RustFebruary 12, 2021
It is fun ...really fun...to read such an uplifting message from someone from the "Young Married" generation. I have learned again and again through life that when I go out of my way to do something special for others that only a portion of them will express some tangible thanks at the time----but every now and again it can make a big difference in their life, whether they happen to thank me or not. And those few cases of where it really helps them far outweigh any of the others that maybe didn't really make much of an impact. So, let's all keep giving out valentines.
Herm OlsenFebruary 12, 2021
Tender account beautifully told. Thanks so much for sharing recollections of this Great Man. Oh that we had more Lincolns . . . .
RitaFebruary 12, 2021
If you add Pete's 34 years of time between Christ's visit and complete Nephite unity and peace to the time of our founding (1776), that takes us to 1810. Not much happened historically that year in the US (we acquired Florida), but the young Joseph Smith, Jr. turned 5 that year. Having survived infancy, Joseph's survival to adulthood was much more probable. The nascent life of the Lord's Prophet was the biggest event in world history since Christ's birth.
Lisa ReisingFebruary 12, 2021
There is so much to be learned from this account - thank you for sharing it here today. Happy Birthday President Lincoln, a true respecter of all mankind! I admire his humility, his gentle powers of discernment and logical thought and expression.
Kristine BrownFebruary 12, 2021
Sweetest article!
Penelope Anne JohnsonFebruary 12, 2021
I was so moved by this account - it brought a ray of sunshine into my day. Thank you.
Sylvia Spicer WardFebruary 12, 2021
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this video! It is so motivating and inspirational for us as we travel through this earthly experience. So many beautiful life lessons taught here. Thanks for sharing.
ScottFebruary 12, 2021
Lincoln and Washington, our greatest presidents. I always love to hear and read the stories about the "little moments" that show the greatness of these men.
S. EllisFebruary 12, 2021
Great Article. Thank you. I also agree with G. Johnson’s comments about schools and our children. In the early 90s I had to put my foot down (so to speak) on school teachings for my daughter. I told the school to accept my daughter’s decision to leave the class when sex education was taught. I felt is was my responsibility to do so. I even refused to send her to school with a calculator. Thankfully my daughter supported my concerns, as young as she was then. Today she is grateful for our choices and is raising her children with the same awareness. We see shoppers in the grocery stores with calculators when rounding up to the nearest dollar and mental tallying would suffice. Without a cash register or calculator or exact payment at fruit stands or such places, the money collector is stressed in making change. I appreciate our learnings and standards of the past. Learn from the past and, with the Lord’s guidance, we can live in the present and face the future.
Charles McClellandFebruary 12, 2021
Thank you, Maureen for sharing this beautiful and touching story from the life of Sojourner Truth and Abraham Lincoln.
JaniceFebruary 11, 2021
How are we going to take control back? My question, exactly. All I am hearing is complaints about the way every thing is being destroyed that relates to our democratic rights. Who and when will there be a committee or government entity that will get together and push back on all the extreme programs that are being initiated? As a senior citizen I'd like to help, but don't know what to do. Any ideas?
James GreenFebruary 11, 2021
Excellent advice!
JoAnnFebruary 11, 2021
What a beautiful song! I can’t wait to hear more! So sorry about the cancers you and your husband are fighting. I’ll pray for peace and healing for both of you.
Jonathan WoodFebruary 11, 2021
Big Tech manipulates not only political thought but religious thought as well. President Nelson was prescient when he warned: "In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost." Revelation for the Church, Revelation for Our Lives
Barbara WalkerFebruary 11, 2021
I don't think I have a fear of speaking my mind, I don't comment on what I consider left wing hate speech because I don't want to add fire to the discussion. It's Thumper's mothers advice "if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all". By disagreeing, it opens the door to further rhetoric that I disagree with and on and on it would go. No one changing their minds but building their wall higher each time. It's good to analyze the other view point though, just in case I'm wrong in mine.
Pete PetersonFebruary 11, 2021
244 years is an interesting comparison, but I'm not sure it applies in this case. It was 34 years from the sign of Christ's birth until the Nephite society turned completely from wickedness. I would think 210 years would be the better number.
DorisFebruary 11, 2021
Beautiful story. I wish I had known this to do on Valentines when my children were growing up. Thank you for your wonderful example of taking care of the other children.
SaraLynFebruary 11, 2021
Thank you for all you do, even while sick!!! Is there any way to get the source of some of these comments? I’ve always been curious about Jewish baptism. Thanks!
MEBFebruary 10, 2021
In my dealings with members, face to face, I compartmentalize that relationship apart from dissenting opinions I know they hold on a variety of issues, and instead love them as brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ.
JenniferFebruary 10, 2021
Michelle, what are your views on gay marriage? How would you feel if one of your sons or daughter came out to you? Would you be supportive? I hope so!
SherryFebruary 10, 2021
Thanks so much! We love the Spirit we feel in your lessons
Sherry ScoffieldFebruary 10, 2021
How very much this article was needed and appreciated....for such a time as this when there is so much evil around us. It surely lifted me up.
Cornelia MadsenFebruary 10, 2021
Thank you for your examples of ways to better use our time and energies. Also, as we are helping we will be guided in ways that are more helpful.
Cornelia MadsenFebruary 10, 2021
Thank you for continuing to encourage us with messages that are giving us more than hope; our faith is strengthened with history and current spiritual helps!
Suzan BruceFebruary 10, 2021
If the towns people waited, maybe the Marauders would have passed them by and they would be safe!
DFRDFebruary 10, 2021
In humble tears, touched to the core! We are so blessed to be a part of this beautiful Gospel of Jesus Christ. May our light ever shine, as this father’s and his household of children who not only knew they WERE loved, but followed their parents’ examples, by accepting and loving of themselves, their friends in need, welcoming them in love and in the charity of the Savior their goodly parents had taught them with. Beautiful beacons on a hill we should all strive to be!
HannahFebruary 10, 2021
What a beautiful and honest story about the change of heart that the Savior offers to us.
ShaunaFebruary 10, 2021
Wonderful--I love Doctrine and Covenants Central and am grateful to Meridian for pointing this out. What a blessing the Knight family was to Joseph and the Restoration. Surely, they were placed in Joseph's path by God to help sustain him. The food, paper etc were clearly invaluable but I can't help think that the friendship and loyalty to Joseph, for the duration, meant more to him than anything
Juliann BradshawFebruary 10, 2021
I wish there were thousands more just like you. What great people you and your wife are. Wonderful story.
Glen S. HopkinsonFebruary 10, 2021
As an artist who has often depicted scenes of Church History and the Restoration it seems that recent depictions by artists is to portray John the Baptist as ordaining Joseph and Oliver separately as seen in the Church History Museum and some publications. Joseph Smith states about the messenger from heaven (John); “and having laid his hands upon us, he ordained us , saying: ‘Upon you my fellow servants...’ “. That has always indicated to me that John the Baptist laid his hands upon Joseph and Oliver simultaneously. The more recent painting depicting laying on of hands individually is a nice painting but do you know if there has been a change from earlier art work depicting John laying his hands on their heads at the same time? And if so, why?
Suzanne Turnbull AlderFebruary 10, 2021
How amazing you are Becky!
ScottHFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you for this article. I have found that the more I care about individuals, the less my political differences with them matter. The differences still exist; it is even OK for us to advocate for different sides of issues and opposing candidates. A small dose of humility goes a long way too. The more experience I gain in political matters, the less certain I am that my views are as universally correct as I had previously imagined. I have much to learn from those with differing views. But I learn those things best when I interface with them in nonpolitical venues such as church classes and service projects.
MashaFebruary 9, 2021
I had so many thoughts while reading this article. The biggest, overarching one was, "This is me. Such different circumstances, but this is me." This article isn't an Answer, though many people who have read it seem to feel it is being presented as such. It's more like a friend saying, "This is where I am in my mental health journey, these are my thoughts and experiences, maybe they can help you?" Doctors are not omniscient beings, they can help, they can guide, but they are not the source of complete truth. Don't leave the decisions entirely up to your doctor without giving any thought to them yourself. The understanding and treatment of things pertaining to mental health is constantly changing.
Ronald BarnesFebruary 9, 2021
My sister was recovering from jaw surgery and her jaw was hurting severely. She prayed for relief. Three men appeared and gave her a blessing. The spokesman was our father, who had died many years before. The pain left her immediately.
G. JohnsonFebruary 9, 2021
I agree with A.BINGHAM's comment but would like to add that we must be equally vigilant regarding what is taught to our children in their schools. This lies basic to the radical/progressive agendas of the Left. Some would call it indoctrination of our youth when programs and subjects are openly taught in schools that should remain the province of only parents and guardians of our children. Legally, our "children" remain as such until their legal age of majority and under our care. Of note also, is that school boards are often the seed-bed of future politicians who utilize their board seats to launch careers in politics from which they continue to foment an agenda contrary to our God-given and Constitutional rights.
Tori BlackFebruary 9, 2021
Amen.
Chris HowellFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you, Anne. I know that those that are with us are more than those that are with them, but it's a powerful witness to cite examples.....thank you, thank you.
Diane IrwinFebruary 9, 2021
Michelle - Excellent article! I especially liked the paragraph about giving differences too much power. Thank you for teaching me.
Diane IrwinFebruary 9, 2021
Anne, you continue to amaze me! I completely skipped over the story about Rhonda Hair the first time I read this!! It is so delightful that she had the ability to see what was going on, and God prevailed!
Carlie ArntsenFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you but I always wonder about the “errand of angels” and why scriptural angels are never women?
Miguel SanchezFebruary 9, 2021
Thank you for posting this video!!
Juliann BradshawFebruary 9, 2021
Currently studying the Book of Revelations and with so many challenging things ahead it is comforting to be reminded that those that are with us are greater than those that be against us. Many from the heavenly realms are and will be helping us. Thank you for this great insight.
LisaFebruary 8, 2021
What great counsel and advice!
Juliann BradshawFebruary 8, 2021
I will not be led as a sheep to the slaughter willingly. I am polite but refuse to be intimidated or silenced. I feel no need to force my opinion on anyone but if the opportunity presents itself I speak up. As long as we still have first amendment rights I will exercise them respectfully. Excellent article. Needful and timely.
A. BinghamFebruary 8, 2021
I mostly agree with the contents of this article. Problematic are those well-sourced pieces of information that are truthful and disturbing - not edifying but awaken us to the reality of our situation. Life is not always edifying, nor are events of the day that are troubling or meant to deceive. It is also our duty to face sometimes well-sourced and troubling truths and share information that impacts our lives even though it may not be edifying. I cite an example of the prevalence of child/sex trafficking in our communities and the awareness that all people should have of these practices in order to protect our children and communities.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 8, 2021
I have given up on trying to "discuss" important issues with people who are members of a different political party from mine. Unfortunately, it only engenders animosity. I was very Interested in the high percentage you gave indicating so many Republicans are afraid to vocalize their beliefs. That is very telling regarding the persecution encouraged by the extreme left media, and also the "shaming" by corrupt government officials.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 8, 2021
Thank you! Biden showed his true colors long before the election. None of us should be surprised at this sexual identify fiasco.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 8, 2021
When I was young, I used to think people over 70 lost interest in sex. Now that I am approaching 70 this year, I have a whole new attitude! Older couples can and DO enjoy sexual intimacy. I think the advice in this article is excellent, but there is another important avenue for you to explore: VIAGRA!!! Encourage your husband to get a complete physical and ask your Dr. about it. Don't give up. You do NOT have to sacrifice this important part of your relationship.
Bob SFebruary 8, 2021
Excellent essay! Well-put! Thank you
Claudia GassinFebruary 8, 2021
Two living angels held me and comforted me in the parking lot of the Provo temple at BYU graduation in 2011. I would love to learn their names and contact them.
C. T. H.February 8, 2021
I agree with your article. There are far too many of us who don't speak up out of fear and I believe that in society today many of us are not taught how to speak up or respect someone else's opinion. However, I found myself wishing that your article had focused more on what we should do instead of what the problem is. Many of us are witnessing the problem and wishing that there was some way that we could address this problem. The most common advice seems to be "learn to speak up" or "be brave". If you have spent your whole life not speaking up, that advice is like getting your very first smartphone and having no prior knowledge on how it works. While eventually you might figure it out, you might be doing everything the hard way.
WeezieFebruary 8, 2021
I was interested in this subject and was intrigued how it would read? Thank you for putting words to how I feel. I hate conflict and I’m scared to death to say what I believe for fear of being verbally attacked. Although, lately my husband and I are realizing if we want to hold onto our freedoms we no longer can fear man, only God. He is all that matters. And when things go against Him and His plan, that’s when we will come alive. We have to. Or all we have will be taken away.
PaulineFebruary 8, 2021
So good, so true. Thank you for speaking up, for speaking the truth!
CarolFebruary 8, 2021
I'll add my desire to all the others for the rest of the story about both the children and their new family!
Russ WilsonFebruary 8, 2021
Great Article! Thank You
Kathy CouchFebruary 7, 2021
Wow Becky, for as long as I’ve know you and John and the kids, I’ve never heard this story. We love y’all so much! Thanks for sharing.
Pam BlairFebruary 7, 2021
I would love to hear the story of how BOTH children fared after their adoption.
Susan RoylanceFebruary 7, 2021
Great article Tori -- to show what is happening with the new "sex" definitions. It will drastically alter our society, and make it difficult for our children to move through the many anti-family actions.
Chuck and Gail McClureFebruary 7, 2021
I would also love to hear the rest of this story! My wife and I wept with humility and awe as we read this amazing account! We laughed out loud when John held up 2 fingers! We wept uncontrollably when you shared Mother Teresa's story!
Gail GrovesFebruary 7, 2021
Just go into Meridian Magazine & click on Come Follow Me Heading at top of page & podcasts 1-5 are listed. Easy to find & enjoy!
Ken and Pattie SkousenFebruary 7, 2021
Thanks for all the time and energy you and your staff spend putting together this wonderful podcast. My husband and I always feel your spirit as you present the gospel material in a reverent manner. We feel your love and witness that you too have trials that have been overwhelming. Maureen’s bicycle accident and Scot’s COVID, the loss of family members. We all have trials that are for our learning. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us. May you have the healing of our Savior so you may carry on.
Nate GarrisonFebruary 7, 2021
Becky you are amazing!!!!
Sage GallagherFebruary 6, 2021
Such an example of selfless love. Thanks for sharing your change of heart. It went from so good to golden. I'm grateful to be involved with Rising Star. I hope volunteers will be allowed to go again.
CubbyFebruary 6, 2021
Oh, what a wonderful story. You are amazing. The picture of your Jolanta today is beautiful. I hope there is a continuation of this story. Her beautiful smile tells me there were many trying things you were able to overcome. I am sure glad the doctor had a bit of inspiration. You sure needed it.
DavidFebruary 6, 2021
I want to know what happened to both children. The story just got good then i was cut off knowing what happened.
LexaGraemeFebruary 6, 2021
What a beautiful gift to give a little girl. Bless you and your family.
LindaFebruary 6, 2021
Thank you for this article. This President is truly a divisive non compromising president and is out to destroy this country. We need to stay faithful and trust in the Lord or we will get sucked in to this liberal nonsense.
Jewel DoxeyFebruary 6, 2021
How can I hear podcast 1-5
JanieFebruary 6, 2021
This article was a gift to me today. I have been struggling with some things, but nothing like Sister Douglas. After reading this article I've learned to not give up, that Jesus' love for us is unconditional and that we should be unconditional in our love for others too.
Kathy SandersFebruary 6, 2021
This talk was something I've been thinking about a lot lately...living in the spirit and how to do that better...How thankful I am for Elder Bednar and his powerful teaching gifts and for living the things he then teaches. Thank you Meridian for your great work.
Bonita RottweilerFebruary 5, 2021
So thrilled to see this come to life. Can't wait to take my family and friends to witness the witnesses. Thank you so much!!! We will give you all the help you need to get this out.
Kristin MannFebruary 5, 2021
Wow! I really needed to read this today. Thank you for sharing this tender story.
Gaye WillisFebruary 5, 2021
Becky, I am so inspired by your life. You are my Mother Teresa, my example of Christ upon the Earth. Thank you for all you are and all you have done. Thank you for sharing your story. You have blessed my life.
Gaye WillisFebruary 5, 2021
I think I have listened to eight podcasts on these sections so far. and I learned things from you I didn't get any other place. Thank you for your willingness to share all that you know. I was praying for you, Scot, and didn't know Maureen was sick too or I would have been praying for her. I'm so grateful you're doing better and are out of the hospital. Bless you both for all that you do.
happy wife at 70February 5, 2021
My husband had surgery to remove a prostate because of cancer about 12 years ago. No more erections unfortunately but NOT the end of our sex life. Bless his heart he tried everything pump, injections, pills that gave him massive headaches. Nothing worked so we accepted our limitations and decided to work with what we had....our love and desire for each other. I don't want to be inappropriate here but I want to help...we both still reach satisfaction but it is done manually.
Karen DavisFebruary 5, 2021
Such a touching story, Becky! But I would love the rest of the story,. How are Jolanta and Thomas doing today?
KarenFebruary 5, 2021
Thank you very much for the ideas. I hope to do several of them this coming week.
Lana JohnsonFebruary 5, 2021
I LOVE everything Joni Hilton ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
MistyFebruary 5, 2021
Thank you for sharing this with us. My current experience isn’t even remotely close to the extreme circumstances you lived through, but I’ve had similar feelings of just not wanting to deal with it anymore. I’ve tried a few times to pep talk myself into just living and serving as the Savior would, but it clearly hasn’t lasted long. But perhaps if I were to change positions wi to them, not viewing myself as the Savior serving, but instead serving the Savior, I would hopefully indeed change my attitude regarding what I’ve been asked to do and willingly said I would do. Thank you for the change of perspective.
Doris WilliamsFebruary 5, 2021
Oh my goodness, if there ever was a story that could put our own challenges in perspective, it is this one. I have always thought that a change of heart is the greatest miracle we can experience, and Becky Douglas's response and action is light years beyond anything I ever imagined. So inspiring...it stirs us all to greater efforts in serving the Savior by serving His children. Thank you for sharing, Becky. Makes me think I would like to grab your heels as you go up to heaven!
Karell BinghamFebruary 5, 2021
It is inspiring to read about women women with such amazing grace and courage!
DawnFebruary 5, 2021
Beautiful story!
RitaFebruary 5, 2021
The Oracle didn't say "do nothing"; it said "do nothing for one month". The bridge could still be built, but after the peril (that the villagers had no clue about) had passed. We are also given counsel to wait sometimes, to work other times. The important thing is that we obey, not only the spirit, but the letter of the counsel. We work when the Lord commands, and wait at the same command. Taking things into our own hands, with our limited sight, generally results in pain and suffering, no matter how good our intentions.
Rich BeckFebruary 5, 2021
"Come on Man!" Did anyone really expect unity with this party in power?
Jon SpencerFebruary 5, 2021
What can one say to a story like this? How can one express in simple words how one has been touched by the love and strength and power of this woman and her dedication to what she knows is true. This is why years ago I decided our family needed to take a very small step and help Rising Star support just one child, then two. But I have cleaned up the bathroom at the infusion center where my father was being treated for end stage lung cancer, s as nd denied him a cigarette he craved do strongly on his last intake to Thad hospital. I remember the last hug I gave him that day and his settled response to me. I believe that if we try Er can conjure up the strength to love someone enough to see Christ in our arms. We can only do the best we can do and for Christ that is more than enough. Our own heroic moments are more than enough.
Wayne ThorntonFebruary 5, 2021
You, Sister, are a true example of the believers. Reading this accounting was akin to reading scriptures. I am grateful for examples like you that inspire the weak like me. Thank You!
Old GuyFebruary 5, 2021
Ouch! The word "perform" should be outlawed when talking about intimacy between husband and wife! It denotes to many that he is putting on a "performance," as opposed to jointly participating in an intimate activity in which both persons involved are actively expressing their love for each other. A husband who is expected to "perform" is usually a man who has been demoted down to the same social standing as a well-trained family dog who does tricks, or even the family cat who spends hours chasing a laser light for the family's amusement. Respectfully, the one worried about their husband's "performance" should perhaps be evaluating her own "performance" or lack of. Perhaps her "performance" needs to be updated in such a way that it will motivate him to rejoin the circus and once again "perform."
Juliann BradshawFebruary 5, 2021
You are a Mother Teresa too. Thank you for sharing every painful detail of a sacrifice few can imagine. I would like to say, “May God bless you for your service”, but I know He is exalting you. You are a savior on Mt Zion.
D. T.February 5, 2021
I appreciated your article on how Biden’s executive order will, in fact, affect us in America on the whole, and how it abolishes a safety net for people believing in traditional views on gender, as outlined in the scriptures. It doesn’t allow for anyone to have beliefs other than an extreme few, which is speedily taking control over all of America, as well as a global agenda. Our whole world is being turned upside down, with especially the inability to maintain freedom of speech and expressing ones views, without being called homophobic, or racist, or whatever the issues surrounding these topics. I am horrified that anyone could support leaders who want to also. support abortIng more babies, as well as having American citizens being forced to accept and pay for abortions in America, as well as other countries, etc. Without freedom of thought and speech, to be able to speak out freely without fear of ridicule & prosecution, we have set the foundation for a world such as Hitler. Communism will become the new rule of law. When this becomes global rule, there will be no place to flee to, we will only be thrown into jails or camps, set up for “trouble- makers” who don’t agree. If anyone only listens to the lies & distortions of the mainstream media, they will never see the horror of what lies ahead. Already there is condoned book burning, etc.
FrankFebruary 4, 2021
y my reading of D&C Sec. 8/9, in April 1829 Oliver Cowdrey was given the opportunity to translate a portion of the Book of Mormon. He failed, but my question is this: In order to translate, didn't he need to see the plates at this time? That would mean that he was allowed to see the plates before the incident that resulted in the "Testimony of Three Witnesses". Does my supposition that Oliver saw them previously make sense? Thank you.
Sandra CoxFebruary 4, 2021
I would like to comment on the supposed Capitol attack. Unfortunately you are believing the propaganda. There was no attack on the capitol. A few people were ushered in by police. Photo ops were staged. Unfortunately you can't believe the main stream media.
Earl ChantrrillFebruary 4, 2021
I believe that we have people among us inside and outside of our government who have no respect for our constitution or the Judeo-Christian foundations of it as described in the Federalist Papers and letters between the founders and their correspondents. This government was established by God for the purpose of establishing the Church and spreading the Gospel of Christ throughout the world. Satan is diametrically opposed to all of these things and has been working to establish his counter-religion during this same period of time. Communism and its analogous organizations such as Nazism, Fascism, etc. that have been conquering governments and spreading their false doctrines based on lies. One of the major parties in the United States is preaching and practicing those false doctrines and using practices of oppression both through official and unofficial organizations and through extra-governmental organizations and businesses to subvert the will of the majority of the people and to make it very difficult for individuals who oppose their tactics to make their voices heard. This is corrupt.
Ann CFebruary 4, 2021
Your article is fear mongering and your example of the poor girl athletes having to compete against boys is really lame. Is that really your greatest fear? I don’t think so.
Bob SFebruary 4, 2021
Terrible!
Maryann TaylorFebruary 4, 2021
I wholeheartedly agree that we must follow our Prophets and Apostles for our direction, especially in current conditions where the world has drifted so far away from truth. However, I have a problem with the title of your column. My politics have EVERYTHING to do with gospel teachings. You cannot separate them. We do not "check our religion at the door" of the voting booth. Because I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I do NOT support laws that promote or support abortion. I do NOT support many of the inappropriate government "handouts" that cripple self-reliance, where the need is not genuine, thereby creating welfare families for generations. I do NOT support breaking current immigration laws, thereby putting American citizens at risk for drug and human trafficking, and disease. I do NOT support any attempts to destroy the constitution or the Bill of Rights. I do NOT support evil endeavors that apply the absurd term of "separation of church and state" in order to thwart religious freedom. I do NOT support today's current mindset that puts the "rights" of any minority or special interest group above the good of all. I do NOT support any law that promotes or supports in any way the belief that gender is a "choice." A reading of the Doctrine & Covenants and the Book of Mormon make it clear that we have a responsibility to preserve laws that are in harmony with God's laws--unless we want to be "swept off' the land. I don't know how the Lord can make it any more clear.
Chad & Judy HamiltonFebruary 4, 2021
Thank you for sharing another magnificent Podcast. We look forward to studying with you each week. So sorry you have both been hit by the Covid. We will add you to our prayer list. .
CarlosFebruary 4, 2021
In the Book of Mormon, the Savior said and they knew it not, referring to the Lamanities, who had the Holy Ghost,but knew it not. Or it became common place.
Kevin FFebruary 4, 2021
It seems we now have a new discrimination that is openly being practiced by corporations and governments. That is political party affiliation. If you are a Republican, your speech should be stifled, you should not be able to work where you want, you should be put on a black list and your opinion is automatically wrong and not worth listening to.....to me, that discrimination is just as bad as others.
Barbara JohnsonFebruary 4, 2021
This article was inspiring. It made me want to be more of an angel to those with whom I have been placed here on this earth, and to my ancestors, those who are not here on earth. I also gained a greater understanding of the big picture; the purpose of the temple in our own salvation, the salvation of others, and the work and glory of Heavenly Father.
PeterFebruary 4, 2021
The Neal A. Maxwell quote is wrong. Elder Maxwell is quoted in the conference talked by Elder Oaks that was earlier quoted, “Desire,” General Conference, April 2011. The quote “To achieve our eternal destiny..." is not Elder Maxwell, but President Oaks. The Maxwell quote terminates in the preceding paragraph.
Denise CottrellFebruary 4, 2021
Our thoughts and prayers are for you all and especially Scot. It was our joy to get to know you as we traveled with you in Europe. This was a wonderful podcast. Until the next one, be safe and God Bless.
JOHN RICHARD HILLFebruary 4, 2021
To be frank, I have been greatly disappointed in the community response to Mr. Trump's efforts to overturn his election loss. Clearly, he had the right to challenge improper voting in the courts, but when that failed, he turned to efforts that undermined our democratic norms and values, including being impeached for inciting insurrection when he followers attacked the Capitol. During the post-election assault on our Constitution, my community (neighbors, FB friends, relatives, ward members, etc.) remained remarkably silent---not even publicly expressing outrage about the Jan. 6th assault on the Capitol. That might be explained by the fact that I live in Utah County, where (according to official data) two-thirds of the votes were cast in favor of Mr. Trump. So, I ask myself just who will speak up in defense of our Constitution? Apparently not the "silent majority" in my community!.
Rosie BFebruary 4, 2021
I love this parable. I'm also grateful that we are studying the Doctrine & Covenants this year. What was going on in the background all during the time that the original revelations were received? Mob violence as a result of evil and designing men with a hidden agenda based on greed. What will be the result of refusing to see our neighbors, including the ones that disagree with us, as children of our Heavenly Father? According to the Book of Mormon, endless wars even to the point of annihilation.
Di CowleyFebruary 4, 2021
I wish you would put a disclaimer at the top of the article that you are endorsing a product. The information is good and worthy of the read. However, the question as to whether you will received financial remuneration from readers going through your "affiliate" site is uncomfortable. Please let us know ahead of time you are encouraging a specific product.
Sasha KwapinskiFebruary 4, 2021
The concept of giving to others presumes that we do, in fact, have something to give. We hold up the Good Samaritan as an example of virtuous service or giving, but we tend to forget that he came from the perspective of having some substance and capacity to give.
CarolynFebruary 4, 2021
Van, again canned foods after good long beyond the expiration dates. companies that produce foods and medications are required to keep a stock of items they produce in case a recall should be necessary. these products are tested and can not be discarded until the pull date leaving cases of product in a warehouse. You can see why they prefer a short best buy date. So do the test, no dents, no rust, no bulging, no strange smell and they should be good.
CarolFebruary 4, 2021
All people need some to talk to that will listen, it's the best 'medicine' ever!
Rochelle HaleFebruary 4, 2021
In Mosiah we read, "I would that ye say in your hearts that: I give not because I have not, but if I had I would give." I believe anyone who is sensitive to others will want to give even if their offerings are meager. Of course, we can grow into sharing greater time and means as our circumstances improve. On my church mission, we gave service to an elderly couple who lived in a corrugated shack with little creature comforts. While we read scriptures to the blind husband (no Braille at that time), the wife would go to the small store a block or so away and spend her hard-earned earnings on treats to express her gratitude to us.
MarcFebruary 4, 2021
If you have ever split wood or used a chainsaw, you will know that an afternoon of cutting, lifting, and stacking firewood can be exhausting. The Smith family would have been doing that (minus the chainsaw) for hours, day-in and day-out. Lifting 45 pounds is not impossible. How many moms pick up their young kids at that weight? Joseph Smith with his size and strength could have done that easily. Keeping the plates safe: The original CrossFit!
CarolynFebruary 4, 2021
Van, again canned foods after good long beyond the expiration dates. companies that produce foods and medications are required to keep a stock of items they produce in case a recall should be necessary. these products are tested and can not be discarded until the pull date leaving cases of product in a warehouse. You can see why they prefer a short best buy date. So do the test, no dents, no rust, no bulging, no strange smell and they should be good.
Karell BinghamFebruary 4, 2021
I never thought of revelation in this light, thank you!!
Byron JespersenFebruary 3, 2021
I love your podcast and all the insights you share. It's a wonderful addition to my personal study. I would like to offer a clarification to your explanation of the date of the revelation contained in D&C 10. According to Dr. J.B. Haws, Associate Dean of Religious Education at BYU, after much research in the Joseph Smith Papers, the Church has updated the heading to D&C 10 and corrected the date in the current edition, indicating that it was received in April 1829, although some portions may have been received as early as Summer 1828.
Rusty TaylorFebruary 3, 2021
Some of us have been studying the Hebrew covenants and the 7 festivals for years. They all tie into what we understand of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and our temple ordinances and scriptures. The Lord has not forgotten His sacred calendar. And understanding what He gave the ancient Hebrews really enhances our modern covenants, especially the temple. Very nice article.
Michael VanhilleFebruary 3, 2021
Why did you pick this issue for "disuity"? What about the former President's inspiring insurrection? What about a current US Rep espousing the assassination of other government leaders? Don't those issues seem more critical right now???
Mary TarbetFebruary 3, 2021
Thank you for this very important information on this issue which most people do not understand the far reaching consequences
Katelon GilbertFebruary 3, 2021
Amen to what @Tedfullerton and @pakundo said! There has never been a more important time to stand fast in the liberty by which we have been made free!
RachFebruary 3, 2021
@TedFullerton, I think WHAT the oracle said in this story is of minor importance. It was a just a story element to help present a point. The point of the story is how people interpreted what the Oracle told them, and that they each claimed that their misinterpretation was what the Oracle wanted, when it actually wasn’t. There are problems with both political parties in our country.
Karen GreeneFebruary 3, 2021
Ted Fullerton, have you heard of Cleon and Joel Skousen. Look them up and their books. Cleon is deceased. Joel has podcasts and briefings. Some free , some pay for subscription. Talks about very things you are referring to. I think you will find these things informative. They are also members of the Church.
CarolynFebruary 3, 2021
Remember best buy dates are just for the convenience of the producer. Canned goods are safe for years beyond the date unless the cans are bulging, dented, rusted or the food smells stranger.
Robert D StarlingFebruary 3, 2021
I love this analogy. It reinforces God's word when he said in Isaiah 55, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts." We are SO blessed in these "perilous times" to have a living prophet who can tell us what the Lord's "higher thoughts" are for our time. And whether he says we should wait with patience as Alma was told in Mosiah 24, or whether we should act as Helaman and the stripling warriors, our best guide is - - FTP - Follow The Prophet.
MSJonesFebruary 3, 2021
I just need to vent my disappointment and frustration. I was very excited on inauguration day, relishing in the feelings of peace and unity that filled the day. Now I feel betrayed by a president who says what he thinks the people want to hear and follows with systematically ignoring everyone except those who agree with him. So, so disappointed and sad for our country.
Mary E PettyFebruary 3, 2021
This was a very thought provoking article, including the comments. They led me to review the prophecies and Latter-day Saints’ responsibilities related to the US Constitution. I recommend the following readings to all interested in our prophetic role in civil society. 1. Conference Report of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 94th Semi-Annual Conference October 1923, accessed 2/3/2021 on archive.org: Oct. 6, 1923 Morning Session talk given by Presiding Bishop of The Church, Bishop Charles W Nibley, pp 58-62; 2. Conference Report of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 94th Semi-Annual Conference October 1923, accessed 2/3/2021 on archive.org: Oct. 6, 1923 Morning Session talk given by Elder Stephen L Richards, pp 44-48;). 3. www.churchofjesuschrist.org › ensignWeb resultsDid Joseph Smith say that the Constitution would hang by a ... 4. Elder David A Bednar spoke June 17, 2020 at the Religious Freedom Annual Review, hosted by the Brigham Young University Law School. From 32:27Elder David A. Bednar begins speaking
Sally SmothFebruary 3, 2021
The prophet speaks to his saints ok n a regular and rightnow is is saying to trust in the Savior, hear him, which means we follow him in all we do. The Prophet and his apostles are our oracles. They are the only ones we can trust.
pakundoFebruary 3, 2021
The headline is misleading: politics and the gospel are intertwined, because they both concern how we live our lives. One cannot be separated from the other and be true to both.
Kelly H.February 3, 2021
Just to be clear, there is a distinct and powerfully backed difference between our opinion and a revelatory experience from God. This is for any mortal, of any station. I think of Nephi. I don’t think this article makes sense unless that distinction is made.
Robert E JonesFebruary 3, 2021
When the Prophet changed Sunday services from 3 hours to 2 hours how many understood that the change was from a "church centered concept" to a "home center concept and what it meant for the future.." How many thought that a pendemic was in the future and all church services would be stoped but our "home center" services would continue without a problem. What lies in the future? I don't know but I think I will relie on what our general authorties have to say of the future "as for me I will follow the prophets." Bob Jones
Denton L KimballFebruary 3, 2021
There is a real easy solution to this problem of males competing against females. Where it is recognized in a given competition, ALL females refuse to compete. If this is done everywhere, then the problem will be fixed. A male desiring to compete against females will look pretty silly if he is the only one on the track.
pakundoFebruary 3, 2021
How does this article align with the previous one titled, "Your Politics Are Not the Gospel"? Seems to be a disconnect there...
Shep KuesterFebruary 3, 2021
As the whirlwind roars around us, we are to remain at peace. The Natural Man within me wants to react to this legal action with anger. However, that won’t fix anything, just make it worse. So, what am I supposed to do? I don’t have a perfect answer. I’m going to put down my anger and listen to the First Presidency. I’m going to pray mightily for guidance. As for those caught in the middle of all this, the people, especially youth, who are going through gender confusion, I’m going to love them. I firmly believe that Heavenly Father makes no mistakes, but for these people, it’s very hard to remember that. Don’t turn them out. Don’t forget, we are all imperfect in so many ways. Actively supporting candidates who you agree with, and urging people to vote, can make a difference. People who refuse to get involved or vote have put us where we are today. We need to change that. At the same time, we must give the affected people our love. We live in the Last Days. This is, as promised in the scriptures, no picnic! We need to keep our eye on the objective, follow the prophet, and encourage as many as we can to join us. I want to be angry, but that is not the Spiritual Man I need to be.
Maria Luisa TorresFebruary 3, 2021
I was guided by the words of President Oaks last October Conference, right before the election.” We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law” (Articles of Faith 1:12). This does not mean that we agree with all that is done with the force of law. It means that we obey the current law and use peaceful means to change it. It also means that we peacefully accept the results of elections. We will not participate in the violence threatened by those disappointed with the outcome. In a democratic society we always have the opportunity and the duty to persist peacefully until the next election.” Those Church members who participated in the Washington insurrection and support those endeavors, DID Not heed the council of our oracles from God.
Gail GrovesFebruary 3, 2021
Thank you for this amazing podcast and particularly the part about the "fiery darts of Satan" that he uses to darken our mind and hearts. I really needed help on this today and found help in your podcast. I feel your pain as my husband and I also got hit with covid. Wishing you both a speedy recovery with prayers for you! Thank you for all you do to enlighten us with truth and your testimonies!
Joan Girvin SmithFebruary 3, 2021
In my opinion, the author was simply relaying a pre-existing story which made a point... "Listen to the Prophet" and don't rely upon your particular bias. Even Christ's parables were not intended to be extended beyond the apparent lesson.
M J BlackFebruary 3, 2021
I have sent 1 email and one IM to people I have special feelings for, but haven't connected with in a good while. Their response was so amazing. I really should just do this ALL year! Good idea!
Patty K.February 3, 2021
The parable is not about whether to take action or do nothing, but about listening to the Prophet and following his council as opposed to following the dictates of ones political party.
CASFebruary 3, 2021
I have a permanent marker handy and mark the month/year of the purchase date on the top of every canned good, bottle, or box of food before placing anything on my shelves after shopping. This helps me use and rotate older items first. Once in a while I find expired canned items in my storage. These are actually still good for years after the recommended expiration date, I have found. Use the smell/look test before using.
Michael HousemanFebruary 3, 2021
The warnings from our "oracles" have been blatantly plain. Ezra Taft Benson warned us of the evils of communism and we now have members of Congress espousing these diabolical principles openly. Listen to "Stand Up for Freedom" and it will be abundantly clear that the Constitution and the ideology of communism cannot stand together. Communism is Christianity stripped of God, while the Constitution is based on "Christian principles" and the two can't exist equally together. If we adopt what our prophets have warned us against then we will reap the whirlwind. It is folly to believe they can coexist. No communist country has ever allowed Christians to live in peace. We should listen to our "oracles" and we have been warned.
E SmithFebruary 3, 2021
Great idea. I copied your calendar suggestions. Thanks
Jane NFebruary 3, 2021
I am interested to know if a whole food, plant-based diet is sufficient to keep our glutathione levels high enough. I am a firm believer that Heavenly Father placed everything our bodies need to be healthy into the plants He provided for us. All of the manmade foods and substances are what are not healthy for us. I have been eating WFPB nutrition for over three years and have not even had a cold. I am 67 and am the healthiest I have ever been.
Juliann BradshawFebruary 3, 2021
Someone who sincerely listens too.
Ronald KjarFebruary 3, 2021
Ted, the article simply said to follow the living oracle or prophets. That's it. I didn't see that it said that there was a particular position that was either correct or incorrect. Just follow the prophet. What a great analogy!
DavidDFebruary 3, 2021
There's a lot of "Satan this" and "Satan that" in these posts. As Jennifer so eloquently and compassionately reminds us, LOTS of people are born with and cannot change their same gender attraction. Scientists have now identified specific genes that contribute to the condition. For Jennifer's son and others who are born with this, it has nothing at all to do with Satan. This is not the 1600s in Salem, Massachusetts. Show some love and tenderness.
Eugene BergmannFebruary 3, 2021
Bravo! I am thrilled to see a serious production on this subject. Thank you all for efforts.
Juliann BradshawFebruary 3, 2021
I believe the authors intent can be summarized with President Nelson’s story about his family member being “myopic”. Don’t read the parable with an agenda. Just read it with an open heart. My own current conflict is the “vaccination” being encouraged in order to be good citizens. But there was also agency allowed, and I know my body, my medical history and past reactions to vaccines. What I don’t know are the ways and mind of God concerning the future, an unpredictable government and the hearts of evil and conspiring men. God always knows. I do know that we have a prophet, seer, and revelator.
Rochelle HaleFebruary 3, 2021
My husband and I both brought food storage into our marriage, but we were "old school" - wheat, powdered milk, etc. Over the years we added freeze-dried items plus regular canned goods. The Coronavirus pandemic gave us another reason to assess our preparedness. As we were able, we stocked up on meat for the freezer, added additional and perhaps hard-to-get items such as extra yeast and flour, plus extra sanitation supplies and otc meds. My kitchen pantry is very small, but one of my quarantine projects was to organize it in a new way. I now know exactly where to find things such as cooking oil or condiments, how much I have on hand, and which to use first. We routinely rotate our "storage" into our daily meals, and leftovers are almost always planned for lunch or a freezer meal for the future.
Van B CutletFebruary 3, 2021
What do you recommend when can foods best used dates expire? Most canned goods only have a shelf life of 1-2 years.
Tammy LindstromFebruary 3, 2021
Loved this. I loved the messages we had during October conference. We just need to live what we were taught by our leaders.
Ted FullertonFebruary 3, 2021
I think thats a wonderful parable and has some valuable lesson or application we have seen played out in history before. I am confused by the title and how it specifically applies to our situation today. Did I miss a warning somewhere by our Prophet that says do nothing? The way I understand our Oracles, defending the Constitution is the very essence of the Gospel. The Book of Mormon practically shouting at us, trying to warn us of our awful situation when we see the Secret Combinations that would be among us in the last days. Modern Apostles and Prophets like Charles Nibley, David O McKay, and others: Conference Report Charles W. Nibley October 1923 "Brethren and sisters, let me say in closing that we have it of record, that the prophet Joseph Smith said the time would come when, through secret organizations taking the law into their own hands, not being governed by law or by due process of law, but becoming a law unto themselves, when, by those disintegrating activities, the Constitution of the United States would be so torn and rent asunder, and life and property and peace and security would be held of so little value, that the Constitution would, as it were, hang by a thread. But he never said, so far as I have heard, that that thread would be cut. I believe, with Elder Richards, that this Constitution will be preserved, but it will be preserved very largely in consequence of what the Lord has revealed and what this people, through listening to the Lord and being obedient, will help to bring about, to stabilize and give permanency and effect to the Constitution itself. THAT IS ALSO OUR MISSION. That also is what we are here for. I glory in it. I praise God with all my heart and soul that I am a member of it." (almost 100 years ago) I have not verified this account with the actual record of that session of General Conference, however, I have seen other quotes by David O McKay who also said defending the Constitution is almost as much a duty of the Saints as preaching the Gospel (just as Elder Nibley did). Presidents Eisenhower and Kennedy both warned boldly, plainly, in great detail, of the dangers of secret organizations that they said were among us in their day and were a serious threat to our freedom. President Benson spoke as plainly as can possible be plain and was seen as an embarrassment by many of the Saints with his "Conspiracy Theories.". So, again I am confused by the title of this parable. Our Oracles that come to my mind have said it is the Gospel to be politically astute and aware of our awful situation and to take action. What am I missing? Do we have an Oracle who is saying to do nothing? If so I have missed that.
Little_NauvooFebruary 3, 2021
Unfortunately items on sale are often nearing their best before date. I always grab items from the back of the shelf to check use by dates.
Maryann TaylorFebruary 3, 2021
Finding good, wholesome books is a challenge sometimes! I wish we could have more book reviews on this website. I really enjoyed the recommendation of The Paper Daughters of Chinatown. Wonderful!
Maryann TaylorFebruary 3, 2021
The big push in society today is to "normalize" everything. Although people who are attracted to the same sex are a small percentage of our population, I am noticing them showing up increasingly in books, television and conversations. The more Satan can entice us to focus on abnormal behavior, the more accepting we become. I realize that there is a huge difference between someone with same sex attraction who is keeping the Lord's law of chastity, and someone who is acting on it. However, PLEASE let us not join the world in normalizing the behavior.
Harold RustFebruary 2, 2021
Such a powerful and yet simple recipe for lifting up others. I was reminded of a situation in our community just a year ago when the city opened up their yearly invite to nominate someone for a "Hero Award". My neighbor had lost his wife a few years earlier and had put in lots of volunteer time since then to help folks looking for employment. I wrote up the nomination and he was selected along with one other person. The day of the awards in city hall, I noticed in the audience a woman who volunteered for a variety of "dirty jobs" at the local elementary school where I had substituted one time. I had been so impressed by what she did that I mentioned to the staff at end of the day my impression that they should find some way to honor her. Wouldn't you know...the other person called up as a hero for the year was that woman! It made my day.
JenniferFebruary 2, 2021
When my son came out to me as gay I was so very sad, especially for the challenge it would pose to him throughout his life. One of the first things I did was to schedule an appointment with a therapist. He shared with me numbers from his personal therapy practice. He said that 25% of those experiencing same-sex attraction struggle because of childhood abuse which has skewed their feelings. Another 25% have viewed same-sex pornography. This is a group that he sometimes can help overcome their same-sex attraction. The other 50% truly are born with those feelings and nothing can change that. There are those who successfully marry but they are the exception, not the rule. There are many stories of those who attempt to marry someone of the opposite success and it leads to deep heartache. This therapist said that dealing with same-sex attraction is second only to schizophrenia in difficulty among his patients. The point I want to make is that those of us who don't have these feelings haven't the slightest idea of what it is like. Instead of judgement, perhaps we should extend kindness and compassion. "Mourn with those that mourn, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort." My son is one of the kindest and most service-oriented people I know. He is bright and talented. He is also struggling to find his place in the church he grew up loving and served a mission teaching others about. There are those that say that these people should just live their lives alone. For many that is not a healthy option due to depression. I don't know what path my son will take but he will always have a loving place to come home to. I would remind us all of the words of the Savior, "He that is without sin, let him cast the first stone." Let's worry about keeping our own covenants and the commandment to "love our neighbor as ourselves."
Rich HoganFebruary 2, 2021
Thanks Norm for that very thoughtful review and discussion. You do a great job outlining the challenges, opportunities and some real keys to success that not only missionaries but all of us can have holding meetings and interacting with each other remotely. Your writing here is worth not only reading, but practicing over time . . . these can be happily used and critical skills going forward, worth the cost to develop.
DbcbFebruary 2, 2021
We’re signing up! Bravo and prayers!!
Lincoln B.February 2, 2021
Thank you Dan for all you do! I agree that in today’s Age of doubt the testimony provided by the three witnesses is both compelling and powerful. I look forward with anticipation to seeing the film when it comes out.
NicoleFebruary 2, 2021
Thank you so much for this article! It was an answer to a prayer. I've been teaching classes on Zoom for my church callings, and I know firsthand how people (including me) struggle with this new way of doing things. Thank you for your sharing your experience and insights, it sheds a whole new light on the topic of suffering through new technology.
SusanFebruary 2, 2021
I love this encouraging council. I would love to share it with my family and I will pray for inspiration to bring “what are your desires?” up in conversation. I think the vision Rawlston had was simply remarkable. Another example that the Lord can do anything.
David HallFebruary 2, 2021
I agree with Richard Eyre in his criticism of the article and of the lack of a display of faith in that article. However, I depart from the criticisms expressed in one respect, in that I feel that the article did much good, especially considering the audience for which he was writing in The Atlantic. I think it helped soften the feelings of many in that audience toward the Church, and for that I applaud Coppins. I feel that The Atlantic would not have published an article that bore fervent testimony of the gospel. For those inclined to criticize, remember that it was the apostasy, with its easy-to-swallow doctrine, that enabled Christianity to spread as far as it did and which paved the way for the acceptance of the restoration of the gospel.
Helen CondonFebruary 2, 2021
Clarity above all, as always. Let’s hope our central Oregon peeps will weigh in in the viewing. Glad you’re both championing this cause. As you say, the beginning is the jet to everything that follows.
Duane BoyceFebruary 2, 2021
Outstanding! Dan Peterson is a treasure.
Rachel OliphantFebruary 1, 2021
I think Brother Eyre missed the point of Coppins' piece. I've followed Coppins for several years so I may have a better idea of his "motives" and I find him a highly respectable and wise voice. I also understand the need to discuss the nuanced parallels between the "Mormon" and "American" ideal. Among my middle-aged LDS contemporaries, there is an awakening/realization that as much as we can desire and strive for the "ideal", it is becoming harder and harder to achieve.
Val HFebruary 1, 2021
I’m sorry to hear about this missionary passing. I have a son serving his mission so far away from me and I pray a lot for his health and protection. May Elder Dortilus family be comforted by the knowledge of eternal families. Deep thoughts of sympathy to you.
Concerned MemberFebruary 1, 2021
This is a nice sentiment that on the surface sounds nice to people...but it is not Christlike to love unconditionally. Our own prophet said in his address called "Divine Love" - "While divine love can be called perfect, infinite, enduring, and universal, it cannot correctly be characterized as unconditional. The word does not appear in the scriptures. On the other hand, many verses affirm that the higher levels of love the Father and the Son feel for each of us—and certain divine blessings stemming from that love—are conditional." God has NEVER instructed us to love unconditionally, he doesn't either...If God loved unconditionally why the need to send his only begotten son? Does he not love us enough to save us outright 'no matter what'? Why have the 3 kingdoms of glory....why have outer darkness. We are expected and commanded to love but never unconditionally. Then Elder Nelson also said : "Understanding that divine love and blessings are not truly "unconditional" can defend us against common fallacies such as these: "Since God’s love is unconditional, He will love me regardless..."; or "Since 'God is love,' He will love me unconditionally, regardless..." These arguments are used by anti-Christs to woo people with deception." D. Todd Christofferson said : "At another level, however, the question might be, “Can’t God do whatever He wants and save us just because He loves us, without the need for a Savior?” Phrased this way, quite a few people in today’s world would share that question. They believe in God and a postmortal existence but assume that because God loves us, it doesn’t matter so much what we do or don’t do; He just takes care of things." One orthodox Jew Dennis Prager says : "The source of my understanding of God, the Hebrew Bible, which originated the idea of a loving God, does not hold that whether we are the torturer or the torturer's victim, God loves us the same. Indeed, it implies that God's love is conditional (see, for example, Exodus 19:5, where God's love of His people is conditioned up on their keeping His covenant). I believe therefore that even with regard to God, we must try to grow into adulthood. God's love of us is immense and forgiving (if we repent) but not unconditional. In fact, I would have a difficult time loving a God who loved everyone equally. It would mean that God's love was unmoved by anything we do, and I cannot love that which cannot be moved." and finally he said these wise words : "Moreover, unconditional love stymies growth into mature adulthood. If we will be loved no matter how we act, why should we act in a way that earns love?"
Janet KuesterFebruary 1, 2021
What a beautiful and meaningful article. Thank you for it. I wear a special necklace to remind me that I am a daughter of our loving Heavenly Father and love He, our Savior and the holy Scriptures. <3 I do want to say, in the most genuine and loving way possible that Dr Emoto’s “research” is pseudoscience and has never been able to be duplicated. It is a lovely story and certainly fits in with our understanding of all things being created spiritually but that is all it is so I hope people will not take it as fact. https://www.irishtimes.com/news/science/the-pseudoscience-of-creating-beautiful-or-ugly-water-1.574583?mode=amp
Linda PatalonFebruary 1, 2021
Thank you for your diligence. I am alone when I study and your insights have made me so much less lonely. I am grateful for you.
LarissaFebruary 1, 2021
To those who are saying being gay or transgender is “not normal”,or “not the way that Heavenly Father intended them to be”. Please consider the viewpoint that being gay is separate from having a physical relationship with someone of the same sex. There is more to being gay than romantic relationships to the same sex. For example, My feminine qualities as a straight woman influence more than my physical attraction to the opposite sex, my feminine qualities also include being organized, nurturing and compassionate. Please take some time to attempt to see things from a LGBTQ persons framework, they are as much a child of God and worthy of His love as you are. I would recommend the book, Without The Mask by Charlie Bird for a unique religious LDS perspective on being gay. Even if it doesn’t change your views it makes you better informed and thus more qualified to interpret the complexities of the challenges of being LGBTQ.
RobynFebruary 1, 2021
Waiting in store checkout lines is a good time to watch for people next to you that might need a little friendly conversation. Listen to the Spirit for a topic. It can be so simple but that person will feel noticed. It is a bit harder with masks & distancing, but it can still be done. I have seen peoples' whole personas brighten up dramatically. Hopefully, it carries through their day.
JaNaeFebruary 1, 2021
I'm so sorry for the loss of this missionary. I pray the Holy Ghost will comfort his family and loved ones.
Patricia CarrFebruary 1, 2021
Sending prayers for Scott's complete and speedy recovery! And how is your recovery coming after your horrific accident of last year?
DavidDFebruary 1, 2021
Is it "normal" for someone to be born blind or missing a limb? If the answer is no, do we shun and persecute them? We know that for many people who are gay, it's truly not a choice any more than being born blind is a choice. So, if a person is born blind or with same gender attraction, did God make a mistake?
Ruth JamiesonFebruary 1, 2021
We're so happy you stayed. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message of hope.
Jim AFebruary 1, 2021
3rd Attempt to post. Is there a problem? I have enjoyed Geoff's column in the past and the topics have sparked good conversations. This is a case where he should have been more careful in his reply. To jump to the conclusion that the boyfriend is cruel, harsh, and dehumanizing is just wrong. I would be curious how Geoff would have responded if it had been the boyfriend asking if he should marry someone who is not committed to raising children to walk the covenant path and honor the doctrines of the gospel. Or, my girlfriend wont allow us to hang "The Family a Proclamation" in our home. Being loving and kind does not mean being accepting of immorality, adultery, and indulgent sexual practices. This was two people having a discussion of basic feelings and doctrines. The boyfriend wasn't in anyone's face. Geoff omits the fact that as loving and kind the Savior was, he always called those he taught to repentance. The first principles of the gospel are faith-repentance. They go together. In this case, it is best to remember that "the study of doctrine does more to change behavior, then the study of behavior changes behavior".-BK Packer While there may be things to iron out between these two in their path towards marriage, it is a two way street, the boyfriend has some legitimate concerns as well. A lesson to all members of the church during these cancel culture, amoral, and a-religious times is to hold to the doctrines and follow the prophet to the temple and to gathering Israel by teaching that happiness comes through walking the covenant path. Future generations deserve our commitment to stand firm and immovable.
Winona and Stephen ElliottFebruary 1, 2021
We're so happy that Scot is out of the hospital and wish you both a speedy recovery. We thank you for the diligent and hard work you do to enhance our weekly scripture study. We much appreciate it.
Lana JohnsonFebruary 1, 2021
This is an answer to prayers! I have been longing to serve others and now you have given me a way!!! Thank you so much for your insights and suggestions, I Love, Love,Love this challenge!!❤❤❤
Jeff HillFebruary 1, 2021
What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful family! I am sure that in the Spirit World they are grateful someone is remembering them, and still learning from their example. I am emulating your example by having a weekly family story time on Zoom with my 34 grandchildren!
LauraFebruary 1, 2021
This is a beautiful way to deepen the holiday of love, and enliven what can feel like a dreary month that drags on a bit. Thank you for the thoughtful inspiration!
BillJanuary 31, 2021
Transgender and gay is not normal. Satan wants to destroy families. We can be civil to them but saying it is normal is dilusional.
Jack RossJanuary 31, 2021
I believe Eyre and those who have commented here have missed the point. Copping was not writing an article for a church magazine or Meridian. He was writing for a secular magazine. We can’t expect him to say the things he would say if he did write for a church magazine. The article wasn’t perfect, but for the venue he was using, he did a decent job. I’m sure it was a struggle for him. Any of us, including Richard Eyre, would struggle to do as well if given the opportunity.
Janet GundryJanuary 31, 2021
It always saddens me to hear of a missionary passing on while serving his or her mission. Prayers and love in behalf of the family of Elder Dortlus.
Mike GriffithJanuary 31, 2021
Homosexual conduct is not normal. The apostle Paul called it "unnatural." It is also physically unhealthy conduct. However, the boyfriend's statement that if any of his kids told him they were gay he would cut them out of his life is going to an unhealthy extreme. "Love the sinner, hate the sin" is a wise saying. We should also consider the fact that liberals have been using gay rights to launch a frontal assault on religious freedom. Gay rights groups and their allies have filed numerous lawsuits to try to force private religious schools to abandon their moral codes. They have also tried to get private religious schools stripped of their eligibility to receive federal education dollars in the form of Pell Grants and federal student loans. In addition, they have filed lawsuits to try to force churches to hire gays as clergy and to force them to perform gay weddings against their will.
Bonnie HoltJanuary 31, 2021
You expressed my feelings exactly. The author missed a wonderful opportunity by being afraid (in my estimation) to stand tall for Jesus Christ and His prophets and correctly state their motivation! I fear he is straddling the world view versus the church with his employment as a journalist needing to please his employer. He should have declined the assignment. Sad.
Julie Carling DeGrawJanuary 31, 2021
I love reading these comments from fellow descendants! My dad told us the story of the oxen and the temple dont our whole lives. It is a special and sacred story. I am a descendant of John Carling through his son Isaac V, and through his son John Henry. What a wonderful example he was for us all.
CorinaJanuary 31, 2021
Desde Chile estamos orando por ustedes. Nuestra familia sigue regularmente sus enseñanzas inspiradas. Muchisimas gracias.
VictoriaJanuary 30, 2021
Great ideas I will share with our ward’s teachers. I would like to add that as missionaries listen carefully as each investigator shares his or her concern, they include them by name and concern in their prayer, thus, creating a spiritual connection.
Victoria GroskreutzJanuary 30, 2021
Praying for Scot’s recovery. You are a much-needed, special family
Rochelle HaleJanuary 30, 2021
This was very encouraging. As a temple worker on pause, I have been spending many covid-restriction hours working on family history. We have some relatives with special concerns, so I will gladly welcome (and have prayed for) any help that the Lord might send from the other side.
New EnglanderJanuary 30, 2021
McKay doesn't like Trump and hasn't since Trump first ran for president. He apparently had a rather ill-fated trip to Mar-a-Lago during the 2016 election that I don't think he'll ever forgive Trump for. His political bias was apparent (and irrelevant) in the article--way too much politics, and way too much of a focus on approval. Why? Because that's what gets the clicks, I guess. These things are secondary to what really matters. Jesus Christ was very much missing from most of the article, as was President Nelson. But that's what The Atlantic and its readers would have wanted. BTW, I knew McKay when he was young and am friends with his parents.
Linda Lambert MelvilleJanuary 30, 2021
My mother spoke often of her first cousin, Bessie Louise Johnson Bailey, who along with two young sons, Glen Elwin Bailey and George Haren Bailey, died in October and November 1918 of the 1918 Spanish Flu. They were living in Blackfoot, Bingham, Idaho, United States at that time. The mother, Bessie, was 32 and her sons were 3 and 7 years old. It was so tragic for their families.
JulieJanuary 30, 2021
People who think they're gay aren't the way Heavenly Father intends His children to be. But I believe they can be treated the same way as straight single for life people. We can encourage them to be the best aunt or uncle there is, put their all into their calling and their job. It doesn't have to mean that they can't do good things still. And live the law of chastity. There are people in my stake who consider themselves gay and just keep living the Gospel because that's what's most important to them.
Tamara A. EvansJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you so much for another great podcast. It was nice to hear from Mariah. I do hope that Scot is recovering. My prayers will certainly be with him, and with all your family.
Geoff-AusJanuary 29, 2021
I would be wanting to know his attitude to his wife achieving her potential as a human being equal to him. If he is enthusiastic about discriminating against lgbti children, that is often part of a package of beliefs, that will manifest in other areas.
Ed GayhartJanuary 29, 2021
I don’t get it. Being gay or transgendered is not normal. No amount of political correctness or cancelling changes that eternal truth. I ask - how do you teach children being gay is normal without teaching them the behavior is acceptable? You must teach children to love every one and still instill in them eternal morals, principles and perspectives.
Ruth TautuaaJanuary 29, 2021
I agree. I read the article and thought he was still trying to fit in with friends or co-workers. It took him a while to even introduce the correct name of the church, let alone use it properly. He kept saying 'Mormon' throughout the article, when he should have known the prophet has emphasized that we need to use the proper church name. If WE don't use it, how can we expect others to use it? It was generally positive, but in my view, lacking conviction. Instead of inspiring me, it left me disappointed.
AndrewJanuary 29, 2021
My heart goes out to all those that loved him and I am so sorry for his families loss.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 29, 2021
I agree heartily with your comment about the dangers of our society "catering to every person's feelings and desires." Many have built their very feelings into an idol. Some have their "feelings hurt" when they are taught truths that force them to reevaluate their lives and their choices. Others have their "feelings hurt" when not everyone agrees with them. The real problem often arises when inappropriate demands are made to appease their "feelings", or even to "pay for" what was done to their ancestors long ago! Our feelings are not weapons to use for selfish purposes. It is interesting that the Lord told us he would reveal truth to our hearts AND our minds. Emotions are tricky and can be deceiving. The Lord has given us safety net by instructing us to use the knowledge he has given us in our MINDS, along with the feelings of our hearts to keep a spiritual balance in our lives. One of the reasons we are taught to read the words of our living Prophets, and also the scriptures daily, is to keep us from making decisions that are based ONLY on our feelings or emotions.
Joline WalgamottJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you for this beautiful article. It is one that I will print out and save for future reference and strive to adopt the attributes outlined myself!
Penelope Anne JohnsonJanuary 29, 2021
It is my understanding that any attempts to be accepted into our communities and to gain credibility is so that we can more effectively serve those communities, particularly with our unique ability to respond in emergency situations.
LeeJanuary 29, 2021
I read the article in the "Atlantic" and was quite interested in reading an article about the church, knowing that Mr. Coppin was both a member of the church as well as a journalist for the well respected magazine, the "Atlantic". I was disappointed in the direction the article took, with our so-called drive to "fit in". If anything, we have never been encouraged to "fit in", but to do things that will have an impact for good. It's never been about "fitting in". Perhaps it's his goal though. Disappointing article.
LexaGraemeJanuary 29, 2021
Awwwww. Good for her. Good for him.
LexaGraemeJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you for posting Dr. Peterson's comments and remarks. I learn something each time I read them, even if it's a new perspective on a story I've heard before.
BrendaJanuary 29, 2021
We are so sorry to hear that Scot has been hospitalized for Covid-19. We will pray mightily for a speedy recovery. We are grateful for your Come Follow Me Podcasts. Thank you for the constant inspiration you give us.
LoRie ThomsenJanuary 29, 2021
Thank you Maurine & Mariah for getting this podcast to us in spite of the love and concern you have for your Scot. I hope his recovery is quick and complete. Thank you for your time and effort to help all of us
DCJanuary 29, 2021
I thought I was the only one who didn't like the article! After reading all the comments, I am glad to have company!
Robyn GeantilJanuary 29, 2021
Many years ago we had a relative managing an apartment complex for us in Arizona. We always had the tape from the ten key (ancient adding machine) attached to the list of rents in the bank deposit. I discovered one rent which was listed but not added into the total (you could put it with a # next to it). That rent had not been added in for several months. When we confronted the relative she promptly moved out. The next day the tenants of that apartment were arrested for running drugs through the apartment.
Laurie PollardJanuary 29, 2021
Excellent response!!!
CharlieBrown2292January 29, 2021
For a variety of reasons I married someone out of the faith, but who was committed to invetigating the gospel with me and for raising our children as Latter-Day Saints. But when one my sons engaged into a pre-marital relationship with his girlfriend,at 18 she was adamant that his behavior was acceptable and that I should go along with it, including allowing her to stay overnight with him, which I refused. This happened 24 years after we were married, and it came as a surprise to me that all she had learned about the gospel and its blessings did not necessarily change her views about premarital sex...so beware, because as much as people may be nice and good-willing, change over time is never guaranteed!
Bob PowelsonJanuary 29, 2021
The young lady who is worried about the attitude of her boyfriend on LGBT people related that the boyfriend did not think such people were "normal". She then added that his idea on raising their potential children in a hardline way to believe the same. I have a similar view to the boyfriend. Such people are not normal, that is a simple fact. The teachings of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints are all about moral and good and evil. That does not mean we persecute them but it does not mean that we accept conduct as normal. As evidence of that is the divine creation of God's people. Put very simply; "male and female, created he them". The boyfriend's desire to teach and "insulate" your future children from that conduct is a good thing.
Boyfriend sounds afraidJanuary 29, 2021
Great advice. The boyfriend also sounds scared. Some men seem to have a deep-seated fear about gays and try desperately to find ways to make sure nothing like this happens in their families, believing it's caused somehow. If you "fight" enough, it stays away. How does he treat his girlfriend's sister? That would be telling.
vickieJanuary 29, 2021
sometimes in doing our missionary duties i think we work at trying to attract people to the church by trying to appear every day and regular. we are not every day nor regular. We believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ and in that realm it makes us different. i believe we need to attract people to the Gospel of Jesus Christ.....and if their soul is ready and aided by the Holy Spirit ...they will go that way....and then they will be different.
KenJanuary 29, 2021
This one I have some disagreements with. I too believe Trans or Gay is not normal. Neither of these can reproduce and continuation of the species is normal. If he's young, life experiences can change him. The same goes for her. Why does she believe he is deficient and that she is not? If he has rough edges (as we all do), he will have experiences to polish those edges. Agreed, how he reacts to others matters, but opinions can be held while treating others kindly.
Lincoln!January 28, 2021
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you!
CarolJanuary 28, 2021
I was disappointed in the article by Coppins. I thought it had "attitude," and not in a positive way. I thought Coppins was trying to pander to journalist colleagues and an elitist audience.
Kathy WilsonJanuary 28, 2021
Coppins’ article left me uncomfortable and your response articulated the reasons why. Thank you!
RalphJanuary 28, 2021
Don't feel bad Penny O. Meridian never publish my comments. Maybe one has to pay money to them to have their comments published. Oh well, That is their loss.
Sasha KwapinskiJanuary 28, 2021
If the main purpose or intent of our faith is to accommodate ourselves to the socio-cultural trends of the day, then I would suggest that there are several "mainline" denominations which have already been following that route. Interestingly, these are the same denominations which have been declining, not only in percentages, but in actual numbers ranging up into the millions, since the mid-1960's. Could this be an example of the salt losing its savor, or the trumpet giving an uncertain sound?
Gail J FoutzJanuary 28, 2021
Herm Olsen, Scot is in the hospital with Covid. I'm impressed that this Podcast has happened at all. I hope you received more "light" from it than your comment would suggest.
VickiJanuary 28, 2021
Thanks for another great article. I always look forward to reading what you have written.
Allen AJanuary 28, 2021
Like others who have commented, I was struck by the lack of introspection that lead Coppins to assume that the Church of Jesus Christ is somehow an "American" church. The Church is lead by Jesus, through His prophets. It really has no nationality. Most Catholics don't regard their faith as an Italian church, so why would the author of the Atlantic article say that the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints must be "American" and strive to be accepted under American social and political norms?
TeresaJanuary 28, 2021
To be honest, I didn't know what to think about it, but the further I read the more I didn't feel good about it. Like mentioned above, whether Coppin really believes these things or was just writing for his audience, he missed the mark for me. Thanks Elder Eyre for pointing these things out.
ScottHJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you for your extensive and thoughtful review of the Coppins article. While I share many of your concerns, I believe it is important to consider where it was published (who paid for it) and its target audience. The typical reader of The Atlantic would likely fail to identify with many of the implied suggestions for improvement. While The Atlantic gave Brother Coppins a free hand, I suspect managers would have required many changes had the article been written as many faithful Latter-day Saints would like. And while the article focuses on "lesser" matters, more than a handful of faithful saints have at least found these issues worth contemplating. Perhaps those who are most displeased with the article are setting the bar too high for an arguably Left leaning national publication. Frankly, we should probably be grateful the article was much better than a great deal of stuff written about the Church.
Juli BoydJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you. This was perfect for today.
Barbara MattatallJanuary 28, 2021
I did NOT care for his first article. I found it offensive. I thought it would be something good in promoting the image of the Church but as I read, I felt so many negative vibes I had to stop reading it.
Cyndi H.January 28, 2021
Thank you for this response to his article. That was my feeling as I read his article, that he was trying to figure out how the Church fit into the world and that our goal was to assimilate and be accepted. I felt exactly as you, as that has never been the goal of our Church. Our goal is to follow Christ and do what He would have us do. Now, do we want to be good neighbors? Yes. Do we recognize and offer humanitarian aid around the world to help our brother and sisters? Yes. Do we support loving others the way that Christ loves us? Yes. And the best way we can love others is to help them come to Christ and feel His love by being an example and helping them find their path to His restored Church.
Jan NielsenJanuary 28, 2021
After reading Mr. Copplin's article I also came a way with the same feelings your expressed in your article.
Elaine LaytonJanuary 28, 2021
Very good information.
R C CopelandJanuary 28, 2021
Nailed it, Richard! Nailed it! All except the gurp about Mutt Romney....
Gary LawrenceJanuary 28, 2021
Very good insights, Rick. Thank you.
Penny OJanuary 28, 2021
I wonder why my comment was not published. Narcissism is much different than Pride. Once you have been targeted by a Narrsisst, then you know the difference. It is not just about promoting themselves. It is about controlling others. They talk about you to everyone, to destroy your character. I learned about this from 'Surviving Narcissism'. Look it up. It saved me after being targeted by a Narrsisst. One of the hardest trials of my life.
David MJanuary 28, 2021
"It is always dangerous, and by definition judgmental, to make assumptions about motives—." Are you talking about Coppins, or your commentary? But thank you for raising an interesting point for discussion. While your assessment of what drives the Church is ideally correct, we can't deny that most of us individually long to be accepted by friends, neighbors and society, and that drives some behaviors (such as Pres. Hinckley's Mike Wallace interviews, or us happily inviting neighbors to the ward halloween party, but avoiding inviting them to sacrament meeting or to meet with the missionaries). There's nothing wrong with that. It's ok if what motivates our public behaviors is less aggressive than what drives our private worship (you know, milk before meat). I think what Coppins described is what many non-LDS Americans would perceive (if they care). I'm not offended by that because I believe that my closest non-LDS friends over the years would judge my behaviors to be driven by my desire to follow the Savior. I think that's what matters most to me and to them. 'All politics are local.'
BrianJanuary 28, 2021
Rather than presenting us with a thoughtful, reflective, and honest commentary of McKay’s piece, the author has given us knee-jerk reactions that were obviously taken from a critical reading of the article. It seems plans were laid out to argue against each point rather than reading and reflecting. For me, credibility was lost in the first point against the author when referencing our prophet’s message on gratitude, which were given to us months after the interview occurred on “a gray spring morning”. This article misses the undercurrent of the original that a once rejected population of “peculiar people” now emulates what America has lost and so desperately needs.
MickiJanuary 28, 2021
We all have adversity in life and I really appreciate the perspective change this has caused me to think about - thank you so much for this uplifting article.
ShannonJanuary 28, 2021
I so needed this exact message today. Thank you for this reminder and the things you shared. I ALWAYS love and appreciate your articles.
Herm OlsenJanuary 28, 2021
Why do you perpetuate false impressions by using that painting of Joseph and Oliver in translation? That doesn’t depict the reality, and you shouldn’t imply false information.
Dick HerrinJanuary 28, 2021
Sadly true. Coppins had the opportunity to say important things and share insights about the church and the gospel, but he missed it. His perspective that the Church seeks to be a part of the mainstream can only become more perilous as that mainstream moves further away from the values and principles that are heart of the gospel that members work hard to live each day. That gap will widen and we simply can’t go there with him or anyone else.
MaryJanuary 28, 2021
When did Jesus focus on the perfect family? If He were to come and walk on earth today as he did 2000 years ago, I see him comforting the outliers. Those who feel alienated in the church because they don't fit that perfect family mold. I see him comforting the homosexuals and the transgenders and the single and divorced because the church makes them feel less than due to their fixation on the idea of the perfect family. You resent the author's accusations of the church's motives and then you accuse the author of less than honorable motives, instead of just disagreeing with his conclusions.
Duane BoyceJanuary 28, 2021
This perfectly captures at least part of my reaction to the article. Very well said and very much appreciated.
MaureenJanuary 28, 2021
Well stated, Bro. Eyre, and I might add an observance of mine after 73 years of membership in both the LDS Church and American society:. I've watched with gleeful surprise as entertainment swung noticeably in the direction of family values following, not preceding, LDS public statements and positions. Likewise, the trend toward use of "gosh" rather than its previous common sacrilegious exclamation. Who is following whom when spirits and conscience kick in? We must never lose sight of our real goals and stick firmly by the Savior's standards.
steven gaisfordJanuary 28, 2021
I appreciate your take on Brother Coppin's article. I was raised in the church and taught to strive to be like the Savior, not to strive to fit in. We are taught to be in the world but not of the world.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you. I needed a laugh. Plus your great stories motivate me to search out my own scoundrels.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 28, 2021
I have to conclude that it is Coppins who is auditioning—for full acceptance into his secular brand of modern journalism I felt the same way. I did not find the article edifying or uplifting and perhaps that was because it felt self serving. He had the audience and the opportunity. It could have been so much more.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 28, 2021
Beautiful article . Hindsight is a wonderful teacher of how God has used every trial to stretch me and use me to bless others and therefore myself. And his timing is impeccable. But what happens when you get tired of constantly being challenged? When you’re just plain tired? When you just want to curl up in a ball and say “No more.”
Candy HuntJanuary 28, 2021
Well said. I was not impressed with the article, having read it before all the commentaries came out. In addition to your accurate perspective, I thought it was meandering and that it trivialized sacred things.
SarahJanuary 28, 2021
Thanks for sharing...I agree completely.
PennieJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you. That was my gut reaction as well. I was somewhat appalled that he made himself a voice for the Church. He is really out in left field
Linda HardyJanuary 28, 2021
This reminds me of an experience from twenty years ago. My daughter was taking an American History class in college, where the students had to write a weekly short essay. one week my daughter wrote about the reasons the Latter-day Saints left Nauvoo and crossed the plains. Her teacher said that she was wrong about the reasons. Religious persecution was not a valid reason. Apparently, all history has been about economic reasons. I guess we all have blind spots and tunnel vision about something.
KCJanuary 28, 2021
As a member of a stake Communications Committee, formerly public affairs, we are such a small part of the function of the church. However, the Church was tasked early on by the Lord to reach out to those in positions of influence as well as befriend those of all stations. Fulfilling our duty as a church to take care of the needy, spread the gospel, safeguard our families and freedoms, etc requires a massive effort to partner with individuals and organizations, governments and businesses. This happens on individual, family auxiliary/quorum, ward, stake, regional, and church wide levels. Every one of us makes inroads and impressions. We’re not going to make many friends by trying to “look hip” as they used to say, or even just “fit in”. We must “reflect righteousness and articulateness” and be “seen as distinct and different [from]the world. “ Our goodness and reflection of Christ draws people and comes from the same Spirit, but how each of us acts and who we reach is unique. Collectively that may have looked Rockwellian in contrast to the world, but we shouldn’t allow stereotypes, or labels—even “Mormon”. We are a peculiar people because we are His.
AnnetteJanuary 28, 2021
Bingo!
Patricia (Floyd ESM) SchellJanuary 28, 2021
Good job Elder Eyre. I hope his article wasn't "editorialized" by someone making it fit the magazine. I'm hoping we can stop being concerned by how we look and BE who we are.
LoraJanuary 28, 2021
Thank you! The many good points of that article melted away as I considered the underlying misinformation. I don't know if Coppin truly believes these things or was just 'writing for his audience', but his work was terribly misleading. I'm glad you have taken the time to point these issues out. Our modern media will require greater and more careful discernment for processing it as we move forward in this dispensation.
KathleenJanuary 28, 2021
The continuous question - Why do bad things happen to good people? Answer - because they do. Amazing things come out of adversity. Thanks for the reminder.
Craig BounousJanuary 27, 2021
Thank you for writing this article. I have had many of the same struggles and, in a round-about way, came to the same conclusions you did about them. It was meaningful to me to see that I was not alone in those conclusions. I used many parts of your article as inspiration for a talk I gave in sacrament meeting last Sunday on Finding Joy in Christ. Thanks again
JaNae NaumannJanuary 27, 2021
Thank you Brother Goddard. I always enjoy reading your articles.
LisaJanuary 27, 2021
Reading this article was like receiving some life-giving water after the thoughts and feelings that arose in my mind from the Atlantic article. I felt it was a shallow perspective, even though good and honest intent was evident. I couldn't put my finger on what was lacking. It was - as pointed out by Hancock - the larger perspective of a prophet of God, and that it is Him we want to please and serve. It is the WHY. The words of President Nelson were there to contemplate - thank you for pointing that out! I purposely waited to see what some of the comments to this article would be, and am so heartened by the thoughtful ways members of the church (represented by these few) consider the words of others and express their thoughts compassionately. Thank you to all who responded! It is validating to know my thinking is in line with people of faith.
Gary BikmanJanuary 27, 2021
Thanks. Love this, as I do all your essays. I'm trying to share memories in similar ways.
CarolineJanuary 27, 2021
Wonderful article. We as a people do shy away from vocalizing scriptures such as “washed in the blood of the Lamb” and yet, it’s very clear in the Sacrament prayers, and in the Temple , that remembering Him includes remembering the blood that He shed on the cross. The official image for everything the Church publishes is the image of the Living Christ with His holy wounds very much in evidence.
Tammy MartinJanuary 27, 2021
We are loving Audiobiography books for this ❤️ we get to hear the stories anytime we want to and are able to share them so family and friends can get a first account telling from the voice of our loved ones
DanielaJanuary 26, 2021
Thanks for this excellent article and for being able to eloquently give voice to my thoughts on the article by McKay Coppins.When I first read it I felt like it started well but then the author took a definite detour. The point is that when we try to rationalize the church and our faith the result often sounds grotesque, the spirit leaves and the outcome is almost a caricature of the initial portrait. Thanks for putting things into the right perspective.
Charlie ChanJanuary 26, 2021
I am a member from Singapore. I don't understand why the restored Church must always be viewed from an American lens? In God's divine scheme of things, I am not sure if He has intended the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to be an American church.
Irene BlackJanuary 26, 2021
Maureen you were inspired to write this insightful article. There are so much treasure in the Book of Mormon. ..so many lessons for us today. Thank you! Love Meridian. Magazine.
Joel MarksJanuary 26, 2021
The Second coming will surely come but only AFTER the confligrations previous. 2Nephi 25-29 and Daniel 7-12 plus much else must take place first.
CAJanuary 26, 2021
The 1776 Project was created to tell the authentic story of the history of our country as opposed to the fabricated and distorted version of the 1619 project promoted by The New York Times and the Left. We need to be able to speak out now about any misinformation about our great country which would be put in the history books for our children in school. I strongly supported the 1776 Project and still do! It was wiped out by a recent "presidential" regulation. Our nation is now seriously at risk!
Jenine SnarrJanuary 26, 2021
This is probably my favorite of all of your articles! Thank you for your valuable insights. We all need to remember to choose moral leaders because when we don't God will no longer protect us.
ChrisJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you. While I was generally pleased with the fairly uncritical reporting in Brother Coppin's article, I appreciate your thoughtful analysis ! I, too was struck with how little there was of President Nelson and how much there was of the author and others - especially since it was "billed" as an interview with the Prophet. I, myself, am, guilty (from time-to-time) of being pleased when we are "liked" by contemporary society, but I don't believe that desire is the driving force in my view of myself, or the Doctrines of the Gospel. The journalist seemed to imply that mindset throughout his article. The Mormon he described, wasn't the Mormon I know. Most of us are too busy trying to be like Jesus, to be bothered by what the world thinks of us.
Cynthia NielsenJanuary 26, 2021
We are so sorry to hear about Scot! He is in our prayers!
Melanie SteinJanuary 26, 2021
Very thoughtful commentary. Thank you for taking the time to think and write deeply, not superficially, about the article in The Atlantic. The Atlantic article was a "feel good" article, but as Bro. Hancock helped me see, we should consider our religion more deeply--how it fits in God's grand design, not how it fits in the design of social progressivism. I could go on, but Bro. Hancock says it far better than I.
Lynn BennionJanuary 26, 2021
This was a great insight into the Atlantic article. I so appreciate the way I was pointed toward Pres. Nelson's view that The Lord's Church has a purpose - and being popular, accepted in a modern, messed-up America or the World, for that matter, isn't it.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 26, 2021
Having read Coppins article I believe Mr. Hancock has done a masterful job of reviewing honestly and truthfully what was written. Thank you, I would encourage you, Mr. Hancock , to use as open and analytical an eye to really evaluate what happened on January 6th. It has not been honestly and truthfully portrayed.
Marsha NewmanJanuary 26, 2021
I believe our church leaders are refraining from political issues because they do not want to give our enemies ANY reason to close down our temples or meeting places. We have no idea the thin line the church is walking in order to “fly under the radar.” God gave us all the information we need years ago when our President Benson warned us that the enemies of democracy were already infiltrating our government. He was scorned by many members of the church. Hang on tight - bumpy roads ahead! Don’t lose faith in our leaders.
Mike SheehanJanuary 26, 2021
I wholeheartedly agree with the proposition that Coppins' article is was undertaken from a politically progressive mindset. There seemed to be more focus on the needs of "natural man" vs. a person's spiritual and eternal needs.
Linda HardyJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you! I read the article at the time and came away confused by what I saw as “snark”. It almost felt like the writer was slyly mocking the church. Sometimes we need to control our sense of humor. (I share that problem.). At the same time, really explaining our thoughts clearly can be HARD! I appreciate your helping me better understand why the article bothered me, and why I should be less critical of the author.
Shelley StevensJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you so much for this wonderful podcast! I really needed to hear all that you shared. So many times I have felt like President Dalton's missionaries! I am trying hard to recognize and understand when I receive personal revelation. I received a lot of clarity in your podcast and even had a couple of "Bing" moments! Thank you! Prayers for a speedy recovery for Scot!
TammyJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you for publishing this article. I came away from reading Coppins article very unsatisfied and feeling that our entire faith had been reduced to nothing but a quest for popularity. I do not feel that he represented my feelings and beliefs in his article and wished for a more genuine review of the “Marvelous Work and Wonder” that this gospel is.
Alexander LarkinJanuary 26, 2021
Thank you, Lincoln! Your beautiful talk and testimony lifted me this morning and I am sure your words will help many others who have, and many continue to struggle. Alex
AnnaJanuary 26, 2021
Thanks for such an excellent article, for which I have been hoping since Coppins' article appeared. Framing the majesty of divine work in human and sociological terms may be good journalism, but leaves one spiritually thirsty.
BenJanuary 26, 2021
This is absolutely fascinating. I’m sorry I’m just reading this now.
FrankJanuary 25, 2021
As long as two good, active members of the Church can feel that they are inspired to vote for two different parties and political philosophies, where is the unity? We get little advise on the matter from our leaders, due in part to the tax setup that is designed to reduce religious leaders from speaking out on politics, not to mention that in a world-wide church advice that is good in one country may be illegal in another. Nontheless, I miss Pres. MacKay's, Smith's and Benson's outspoken clear speaking.
Maryellen JenningsJanuary 25, 2021
I will use my free agency to refuse the vaccine. Since the fatality rate of the virus is just 0.26%., while the adverse effects are 2.79%. In 1948 the United States signed the Nuremberg Code where we are given informed consent. This means they cannot force something that is still an experimental vaccine.
Lani LarkinJanuary 25, 2021
PRIDE - destroys societies! 'PRIDE GOES BEFORE THE FALL'. But most of all (to me) destroys the individual. I try to wrap my head around Narcissism and the damage to the individual and to society. Seems they are closely related like the article educates about pride vs narcissism but certainly much more intrusive to relationships - therefore society? Seems as I watch leaders among us we have a lot of Narcissists in control.
Ronald BarnesJanuary 25, 2021
Their numbers are few, compared to the whole, but many Jews have accepted Jesus as their Messiah. Some of them have joined the church. Still, it appears to me, that most of them will not accept him until he returns.
ShaunaJanuary 25, 2021
thank you--wonderful comforting words, with a great perspective from my great, great grandfather:) We must put our lives in order and realize that God is ultimately in charge
SueJanuary 25, 2021
If you were the adversary, and you wanted to stop the rescue on earth and in heaven, what would you do? Isn't it interesting how the pandemic scare has led to Temple closures, masking, social distancing and fear? If there is any place on earth where faith and deliverance are manifest, it is in the Temples of God. Are we lacking in sufficient faith to defy the arm of flesh (the government) and flock to the Temples to engage in the work of salvation and deliverance for our ancestors? Are we lacking in sufficient faith to trust that God has the power to cleanse His House from any pathogen and make it a safe place for His children to come and participate in His work? Thanks for a very thought provoking article.
Wayne R.January 24, 2021
In additional to food storage, we have been counseled repeatedly to get out of debt and stay that way. If you lose your job, how long before you lose your car? We are near an economic peak and the bubble could burst at any time in the next year or two.
carolynJanuary 24, 2021
Thank goodness there is a better plan now. Those would sustain life but not very happily. We have much better methods of preserving food now to last much longer and our knowledge of nutrition is also much improved. Much more fun to have a supply with variety. On the TotallyReady facebook page we began the year with a program to post a food to store each week and the first week was dessert! A not so appealing meal is made so much better when you know dessert is coming!
John ChaseJanuary 24, 2021
The fate of the nation has already been sealed and the Lord knows the outcome. What we are called to do and should do is assist or be the angels in gathering the wheat from the tares. I do not like the decline of the moral fabric of our nation, which I fought for. However, I realize that the treasure laid up in Heaven is the work we do for the Lord. While Mormon and his son, Moroni, saw the decline of the Nephite nation they looked for souls to save from a field nearly overrun with tares.
Mike GriffithJanuary 24, 2021
You can put a parental control program on his phone that will keep record of any website he accesses on his phone. Some such programs will also block inappropriate content, based on the settings you choose. The worst mistake I've seen some parents make is to refrain from using anti-porn software for fear of "offending" their kids and for fear of "making them feel like we don't trust them." Trust has nothing to do with it. You are protecting them from a deadly poison.
Frankie LimJanuary 24, 2021
I really love this article. It has increased and strengthened my faith and will treasure it for life. Thank you so much.
LyndaJanuary 23, 2021
There is an amazing group of parents and professionals that are a blessing and a resource (personal experience with one of my boys brought me to them theuna referral from our Bishop to an LDS therapist). Check out Sons Of Helamon. They support parents and youth.
StefanieJanuary 23, 2021
To Janine Snarr- as the 2nd coming draws nigh, you will see a sifting take place. Those members that want to “ leave the church” will find any excuse. It’s depressing the wheat & the tares.
Debra WoodsJanuary 23, 2021
Loved this article and LOVED the book, by the author, that it came from. I highly recommend it!
Ken ButlerJanuary 22, 2021
The pendulum of thought swings right then left. Rarely does it stop in the middle. But we should work to see that it does. It helps to ask about policies or proposals this question. Is this ok, or is it discrimination in reverse?
TamJanuary 22, 2021
I disagree with Pam. The video is not demeaning and accusatory. It simply states facts about what the Illinois school curriculum is and what it seeks to achieve. What is demeaning is the assumption that everyone who is white is racist. It is demeaning to be judged by someone to be racist because of my skin color. The fact that this type of indoctrination is acceptable in the most racially fair country on earth is demeaning. I do not accept the idea that I have held racist attitudes. I have always tried to live the gospel of Jesus Christ wherein I treat people with respect and kindness no matter what their skin color. If I have fallen short it is not intentionally. I will continue to do my best to live as Jesus Christ taught. The school curriculum described in this video does not allow people to do this.
Joyce TerryJanuary 22, 2021
We were advised in the 60's to put away wheat, honey, powdered milk, salt, rice, corn. We had a ton of wheat put away. We were to have a two year supply so we would share with others.
Diane IrwinJanuary 22, 2021
FASCINATING!!!
PamJanuary 22, 2021
Thank you! I agree with Alece. Fearing for his life and on such an important errand from the Lord, he would definitely have the strength to do such a feat.
Jenine SnarrJanuary 22, 2021
I was hoping for an article that could really help with the political contention happening within LDS wards that is causing people to stop attending meetings. I would also like you address the issue some people have about the Prophet advising us to wear masks. Some people are leaving the church over it. In my eye, that's a medical issue which our prophet is very competent to advise on. He's just wanting us to stay healthy.
GordonJanuary 22, 2021
Emily,I loved the article. I understand so much about you and appreciate you even more. Continue the work.
Ronald BarnesJanuary 22, 2021
Another interesting fact: During Passover, the Jews set aside a cup of wine for Elijah. They expect him to arrive during Passover in preparation for the coming of the Messiah. It was on the 2nd day of Passover in 1836 that Elijah appeared to Joseph and Oliver in the Kirtland Temple.
Elaine LitsterJanuary 22, 2021
What a marvelous researched article. For seven years I taught at a private school associated with Church of the Living Word. (a relatively new Christian Church) They celebrated Biblical festivals and I vividly recall the day long activities wherein the children were divided into tribes for the Feast of the Tabernacles and spent their day in their family tent. I look forward to sharing this article with them!
AngieJanuary 22, 2021
Thank you for putting this down in writing, powerful ideologies that need to be made aware. Also enjoyed the comment by ‘Shauna’- spoken like someone with first hand experience.
Gary LawrenceJanuary 21, 2021
Were Alma and Amulek evil for pointing out the pride of the followers of Nehor?
N. AndertonJanuary 21, 2021
I consider myself a fairly educated person, having a politacal science degree from BYU with a 3.9 GPA, an avid reader and a life-long desire to always expanding my learning - and yet I could not understand most of what was said in this article! I am 76 years old, and perhaps I have just not kept up with the changing language of the times? It would help if you could remember the broad background of your audience so the average Latter-day Saint member could relate these important concepts in a manner that we could help! I do believe we need to all we can to teach our children at home as much as possible - it was newrly impossible when my children were growing up and often illegal unless you had a teaching certificate - but it seems quite common now in some of the wards I have lived in where parents band together so they can contribute their different areas of expertise and the students can have the socialization that was often lacking in the earlier home-schooling period. If you have followed some of the more radical political goals of the newly-elected administration, they propose it being illegal to have private schools or for any chile to not attend their public schools, and their curriculum will include de-programming. It will be more important than ever to know what the children are being taught in school and to counteract by whatever means feasible outside of a possibly forced school setting. And pray a lot for the Lord's assistance!
Joanne S KappJanuary 21, 2021
Loved this article. Especially related to the Primary/RS - RS/Primary experience. As I look back on my life, I realize more and more the richness added to my life through the association with my fellow ward members. A treasure to me.
ShaunaJanuary 21, 2021
Thanks for the heads up. I grew up in Illinois and am currently living in Utah, where some of these same issues are surfacing in my school District and I'm alarmed to say the least. I studied these theories as a Ph. D candidate in the late 90'--they are ideas and philosophies--theories, full of academic speak. But to see that they are now becoming public policy has been surreal to me. Make no mistake about it-- this is a zero sum game narrative, complete with "villains, " and "heroes," There is no attempt for reconciliation or harmony. Influenced by Marxist theory, there is the Bourgeoisie or the ruling class and the Proletartiat or the working class--the aim is simply inverting those 2 groups. Feminist, racial and gay studies and theory also each have a 'winner' and a loser: women over men, black or color over white, homosexual over heterosexual and eventually the complete dismantling of gender, positing that all of these categories are "socially" constructed. It is a lie that these are attempts to promote "equality" or "equity" in our society--the narrative is based on a power struggle framework and seeks to take power from one group and give it to another. We desperately need alternate ways of thinking to this dogma. As a disciple of Jesus Christ, I am seeking ideas that promote "unity amid diversity." --not diversity over unity
John SowaJanuary 21, 2021
I appreciated how you cited President Nelson saying that one could grow into the principle of revelation (Jan 2021 Liahona). As I understand it, this comes from the following Joseph Smith quote. “A person may profit by noticing the first intimation of the spirit of revelation; for instance, when you feel pure intelligence flowing into you, it may give you sudden strokes of ideas, so that by noticing it, you may find it fulfilled the same day or soon; (i.e.) those things that were presented unto your minds by the Spirit of God, will come to pass; and thus by learning the Spirit of God and understanding it, you may grow into the principle of revelation, until you become perfect in Christ Jesus.” https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/teachings-joseph-smith/chapter-10?lang=eng
Elaine LaytonJanuary 21, 2021
I am old and I do not remember the prophet who said this, however I remember it very clearly. He said: The day will come when it will be necessary to teach your children at home. This is not an actual quote but how I remember it. I don't believe this was meaning the time of COVID 19. I did at one time teach one of my children from home for a few years. I ordered what I felt like were good books and taught from them. It was a positive experience for both me and the child.
JeanneJanuary 21, 2021
Great article with this summary it is easy to share this hope with other people in this day and time people are actually coming to hear words of hope
Michael RobertsJanuary 21, 2021
A lovely article, but I would add that it is important to keep a sense of balance and proportionality. For example, seeing all of politics strictly through the Book of Mormon can lead to some odd and inappropriate applications of Captain Moroni.
Karell BinghamJanuary 21, 2021
Most importantly: Ordinances. That which offers a ratification of the blessing promised!
A. BinghamJanuary 21, 2021
I enjoyed reading this article. Interestingly, just after reading this, I flipped over to Quillette, a writer's blog site I follow, and this article was just posted. The writer provides an indepth literary analysis of the growing Birthstrike Movement that is sweeping across Europe and among the 20 somethings' here in the US. It is real and is/will transform our society, economically, socially, and politically, at all levels. https://quillette.com/2021/01/20/birthstrike-the-movement-to-end-all-movements/
SteveJanuary 21, 2021
As an independent with moderate leanings to the right, I am a bit concerned by the force of your arguments. Surely you recognize that bias and racism exist in our society; and that we need to strive towards the constitutional ideal of "all men are created equal." Obviously we are not there yet in "racism, sexism, homophobia, unearned privilege, Eurocentrism.” While I do not advocate dire mechanisms to get there, I firmly believe that, as God's children, we desire to improve in these areas. We should be involved in offering alternatives that lead us in the right direction without being radical. I don't know how to make progress on systemic racism without some work toward addressing: "The new Illinois standards also mandate that teachers embrace ideas like 'systemic racism'.” Please offer ideas on what we can do effectively without becoming radical on either side. Thanks.
Colleen FreebornJanuary 21, 2021
Absolutely loved your article. The Blessings are real. I just wish all Wards did as much as others.
Candace NielsenJanuary 21, 2021
As always, Lynne, wonderful ideas, beautifully expressed.
Jane doeJanuary 21, 2021
Please write an article about how singles have learned to deal with life without "the church ".... it doesn't mean singles don't have a testimony or they don't live their Savior or they don't keep covenants but the reality is there are No callings ( especially for elderly single women) ministering is done over the phone,getting priesthood blessings is done over the phone, studying come follow me is done alone( maybe over the phone if someone let's you in on zoom) singles don't feel a need for church other than getting the sacrament .... could you get a different perspective on how one does or doesn't need the church?
Harold StuartJanuary 21, 2021
This article is a somber reminder to not believe everything you read, especially when it comes from anti-mormon literature. There is too much at stake.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
Perhaps one of the greatest evils of pride is labeling OTHERS as prideful. Worse yet is pointing it out in our conversations. Regardless of what we see or hear, the reading of another's heart should be left to the Lord. I like SPW's comment: "Let us always look at ourselves first before pointing fingers elsewhere." I would add to that--if we really feel the need to shine a spotlight on pride, let's use examples of our OWN pride, rather than someone else's. The only pride we need concern ourselves with is the pride in our own hearts.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
I was a little reluctant to return to our Sacrament Meetings at church because I had been enjoying the wonderful spirit of our home worship meetings so much. I was also frustrated because the speakers wear masks, even though there is a plexi barrier around the pulpit. Because I have a hearing loss, this makes it impossible to hear very much at all. However, I have found that it is such a blessing just to be WITH THE SAINTS! I am also able to enjoy the music and the renewing of my Sacrament covenants. I love pondering the words of our hymns. I am so grateful to be part of a congregation who love the Lord and want to follow Him. I continuously find that joining with the Saints every Sunday and covenanting with the Savior is a great strength to my soul.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
Even though I know it isn't possible, my heart always yearns for a different ending every time I read the Book of Mormon. It hurts when I read of a people who had been given so many choice blessings, and yet they fell into such deep sin and eventual self-destruction. As we witness many today who are turning away from God's laws, I am seeing a spiritual numbness taking place. True followers of Jesus Christ need to be a shining, positive influence more now than ever. Those who are seeking the light will be drawn to what we have when we live the gospel and reach out in love and kindness. Our light will shine even brighter in contrast to a darkening world. I am so grateful for the counsel of our Prophets and Apostles, and also the assurances we have that the Church will stand, and there will be a righteous people prepared to receive the Savior when he comes again. Consistently reading the Book of Mormon is essential to help us press forward in fulfilling the great responsibilities the Lord has given o us to prepare ourselves and those around us for this great event.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
I just recently read a scripture about judging that touched my heart so much. It is D&C 82:23 "Leave judgement alone with me, for it is mine...Peace be with you; my blessings continue with you." This verse makes it so clear that our Savior wants us to have the peace that comes when we are kind and withhold judgement. He doesn't want us to experience the heaviness that comes with judging another. He is taking care of a righteous judgement, and He has relieved us of carrying that burden! What a gift and blessing! I completely agree with you, Joni, about the energy that comes from kindness. When I do something kind, even if it's just a phone call, I feel spiritually lifted and energized.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 21, 2021
I will be 70 this year and have struggled with fear about being immunized with the COVID vaccine. This article really helps me have the courage to go ahead with it. Thank you so much for this message from President Nelson!
Brent BartonJanuary 20, 2021
Maureen, what a wonderful and inspired article! Your message as well as the summary are spot on for us today and especially for me. I also followed your link and enjoyed listening to the entire talk from Neal A Maxwell which was truly prophetic and timely even back in 1978 but really for us today. His remarks in the same talk on foreordination were also important words for us all to hear and remember especially today. Thank you!
SPWJanuary 20, 2021
Pride can show up in many ways and affects all of us. Let us always look at ourselves first before pointing fingers elsewhere.
Angela MannJanuary 20, 2021
Your words speak to my soul! This article and the one you wrote for Independence Day, have reached inside of me and shaken me. Your website has been instrumental in helping me to focus through that scriptural lens spoken of, to Follow the Savior and to commit to building a Zion society, starting in my own home.
Laurie SomesJanuary 20, 2021
I want to be as smart and as inspired as you when I grow up.
JoJanuary 20, 2021
Judge not for ye shall be judged
Sue PrueJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you McKay for the wonderful reminder of the truthfulness of the Restoration and what a blessing it is to be the recipients through so much sacrifice.
Elder OJanuary 20, 2021
This great man was my mission president in the California San Jose Mission. I was not aware that he had these issues. He was always so upbeat and positive and encouraging to us Senior Missionaries. He was so much of an influence on the young missionaries as well. I am grateful for the fact that through all his troubles, he was a driving force in that mission and did so much for everyone he touched. I am blessed to know him and his awesome wife.
Lois MiddletonJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you for sharing these important truth, Sister Maurine!! It is so sad to me to see what is happening in our country. Thank Heavens for the Missionaries and for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints!!
Karla MenhennetJanuary 20, 2021
This hits the truth 100%. I had not been focused on the right things, so now, I am off of social media and most news. I realized that this world is temporary and what is truly important to me is Eternal. So grateful for the Gospel, that steers my life. Blessings!
CMJanuary 20, 2021
Love this article. I can relate- I had awful anxiety for the better part of 15 years. I was never really medicated but as a way to control the anxiety I would not allow myself to feel much of anything. I used physical tension, situation avoidance and many distractions as a way to avoid feeling any emotion that was intense. This led to even more anxiety and more efforts to block it. Unfortunately I didn’t realize that’s what I was doing- and also unfortunately, if you don’t allow yourself to feel emotions, it’s much harder to feel the Spirit. Fortunately, the Spirit was able to break thru my haze a few times to help me understand that “my problem was not anxiety...I was afraid to feel.” In hindsight, I know that my crazy struggle with anxiety was all part of some hands on experience for some much needed lessons. Feelings are important. Our thoughts create our feelings (subconscious thoughts included) and knowing exactly what is going on in our minds is vitally important. Many of us are carrying around literal emotional baggage in the form of unprocessed emotions, false beliefs and negative thinking patterns that are affecting us in ways we aren’t even aware of. Uncovering this stuff is incredibly freeing and it has solidified my belief that God is fully aware of us and loves us so much. Though we can’t see the full picture, these painful experiences are ultimately for our good. Don’t give up!
Karell BinghamJanuary 20, 2021
Also, by Sommerset Maughan If a nation values anything more than freedom, he will lose his freedom. And the irony of the matter is, if it o is wealth that it values more, it will lose them too!
Excellent article with profound truths.January 20, 2021
Excellent article with profound truths.
KarenJanuary 20, 2021
I found your statement "People who experience depression and anxiety have a hard time feeling the Spirit" to be an answer to me in how to understand myself better and my inactive daughter. I now have an idea of how to approach her! Thank you!!
Deanna SasserJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you so much for your insight and thoughtful wisdom. We don’t know what to pray for anymore—just blessings that our freedom will be preserved!!
Diane MortensenJanuary 20, 2021
Maureen, what a great article! We are fighting for righteous principles. When, we, as a nation no longer support God and his laws. When we fail to elect those who value God's laws. When we divide ourselves and teach hatred of any kind. When we are religiously intolerant. When we silence voices who disagree with us. That pretty much sums up a nation ready for destruction.
Ruth JamiesonJanuary 20, 2021
So true! Wonderful words.
James ScottJanuary 20, 2021
First response: exasperation! Then I thot, she could have had a wonderful wry response about how well he acted but that she had failed in her communication and also that the exhausted but accomplished ice ballet dancer obeyed his sweetheart so well.
RobertJanuary 20, 2021
I call it "Boasting by Posting"
KJBJanuary 20, 2021
You've described Trump to a tee. Kudos.
PrestonJanuary 20, 2021
This is such a great reminder full of Book of Mormon examples. How blessed we are to know/remember these things! Neal A Maxwell has some prophetic insight speaking back in 1978. Wow, he describes our day in which we live 40 years previously. There is no doubt in my mind of the truthfulness of the Lords Prophets and Apostles. This article was really well written.
CarolineJanuary 20, 2021
Thank you for this article. It speaks so much to my life too. I call the past experiences I have had where I have KNOWN God was with me and heard my prayers my Ebenezars and remember during times of darkness to "raise my Ebenezers." My best to you in the future!
CHARLES DEFRANCHIJanuary 20, 2021
Dear Anne, Oh how comforting this reading was to me! May the Lord bless you for relating such stories. Those are troubled times and it helps so much being able to "see beyond the veil". May you be greatly blessed for your stories.
Juliann BradshawJanuary 20, 2021
You nailed it. I am amazed at good Latter-day Saints who will not liken scriptures unto our day. We must awaken to our awful situation because the Book of Mormon gives us the blueprint for our future if we do not see things as they truly are. Thank you for a great resource in helping others to see.,
CHARLES DEFRANCHIJanuary 20, 2021
So true, and one of the most remarkable speeches on the subject was, "Are Ye Stripped of Pride" by Elder Kim B. Clark. Now I wonder what is meant by, "we have seen a recent example". Who are we talking about? Or would this be left to readers to figure? Thanks!
vickieJanuary 19, 2021
I didnt read the entire thing..i didnt have to. i suffered from major depression and anxiety disorder. i didnt take medication for many years until i had a hysterectomy and was put on a tricyclic antidepressant. this antidepressant helped me with sleep and eating. without taking medcine for so long i had to watch myself constantly not to get too anxious or take on too much. when i was put on the medcine low and behold i discovered i had really bad social anxiety ..because it took it away. i was able to do more that i was never able to do ...like go to college at 38yrs old..i actually felt normal and could feel the spirit...the reason i didnt take meds for so long was because i didnt want anything to control me or my feelings. well, it didnt...i actually felt normal...i stayed on. until i was told i dont need to take that ...when i tried to get off i had seizures. i tried several times and each time i had seizures. so now im on seizure meds...that scared me too. now im on the newer drugs ..which helps mainly anxiety disorder. i feel normal....how fortunate i am to have something that helps me to feel like myself and to have the spirit with me...it didnt take that away from me...there are some meds that can cause problems and you have to realize that and try another. i did learn that spending time suffering for so long with no help isnt worth it...i also did talk therapy...when its genetic inborn....its different then being depressed over something...i actually dont have a problem with that...i have learned its good to have a good doctor...and the right medication and sometimes talk therapy....and prayer is always at the start guiding one to the correct treatment. im so happy that most of the stigma is going away..so people can get the help they need. I thank the Lord for every moment in my life He has helped me. i am a mother of 5 kids and a husband who was airforce.
HeidiJanuary 19, 2021
I have also had the experience of not being able to feel the spirit while being medicated. I am so glad to know others have had that same experience.... meaning, I'm glad to know I am not the only one. It is true. Medication can help and hinder us. I appreciate your article. I thought I might be going crazy because I couldn't feel the spirit... no one talks about this. I am glad to see this finally addressed!
Shauna StephensonJanuary 19, 2021
We need to be very careful about what we say, making sure our words are correct and truthful. While it has been widely reported that the House has forbidden the use of gender specific terms, such as Mother, Father, Sister, brother, instead using gender neutral terms such as Parent or Sibling, that is not true, even though it comes from a partial nugget of truth. At the beginning of each session of the House, a document of rules is drawn up. It is true that this document uses only gender neutral terms. It applies to THIS DOCUMENT ONLY. It would have no bearing on the continued ability of House members to use gender-specific language in drafting legislation and resolutions, making speeches, or conducting a debate. While it is regrettable that the leadership of the House found this necessary to do, and it may forecast more restrictive rules in the future, let us not be guilty of spreading hysteria and and divisiveness unnecessarily. Let us choose words carefully that convey the truth. The General Handbook of Instructions (38.8.45) titled “ Seeking Information from Reliable Sources” cautions us: “In today’s world, information is easy to access and share. This can be a great blessing for those seeking to be educated and informed. However, many sources of information are unreliable and do not edify. Some sources seek to promote anger, contention, fear, or baseless conspiracy theories (see 3 Nephi 11:30; Mosiah 2:32). Therefore, it is important that Church members be wise as they seek truth. Members of the Church should seek out and share only credible, reliable, and factual sources of information. They should avoid sources that are speculative or founded on rumor. The guidance of the Holy Ghost, along with careful study, can help members discern between truth and error (see Doctrine and Covenants 11:12; 45:57). In matters of doctrine and Church policy, the authoritative sources are the scriptures, the teachings of the living prophets, and the General Handbook.”
PamJanuary 19, 2021
I would suggest anyone who watches this reread President's Oaks conference talk Oct 2020: Just a portion: "In public actions and in our personal attitudes, we have had racism and related grievances... “racism thrives on hatred, oppression, collusion, passivity, indifference and silence.” As citizens and as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we must do better to help root out racism." Please notice the words "indifference and silence". As Latter-day Saints, we cannot remain indifferent or silent on this issue - this applies to schools. President Oaks has asked us to "do better" We need to do everything we can to change the climate of racism that exists in our country. If the way they are going about it in your school, then bring influence for good and follow the counsel of President Oaks and President Nelson. They spoke boldy to us about what we need to be doing as members of the church - LOVE and RESPECT for everyone came out clear and strong. We need to model that in our words and actions. This video does not reflect this attitude. Instead of giving suggestions for accomplishing what has been asked of us, it is very accusatory and demeaning.
Lana WellsJanuary 19, 2021
I, thankfully do not suffer from depression, however I do have many acquaintances that do. I find myself so concerned about them and their spiritual well-being, but not able to truly help them. Through your article I now, at least, can more fully understand what they are experiencing and in tiny ways help them to know that although they may not be feeling the Spirit, the Spirits is still abiding with them and ready to help.
Harold RustJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you. As illustrated in this article, recording a special spiritual experience is, indeed, an important source for retaining the spirit. The first time I felt the heavens open in a genuine and sweet way for me, I assumed such an experience would now be fairly common. And yet only one other time in my life have I felt that all-powerful direct connection to the spirit world. I've felt inspired many times, but only twice when I knew it was a distinct window into spiritual communication. I'm glad I wrote those experiences down at the time because I can feel again that influence when reading them later.
JamesJanuary 19, 2021
I suffer from depression too. This article brought to light some of the issues I have had where it felt as though the Spirit had stopped talking to me despite my pleadings for communication. Those were also the most darkest times of my life and it came to the point of either I got stronger medicine (for the worsening depression) or did something drastic like checking out of life. After I had what used to be called a 'nervous breakdown' my Doctor felt like I should switch to a completely different type of medication (used to mainly treat anxiety). Within a few days it felt like the light was turned back on in my life and the depression began to fade. Because of this article I realize, looking back, it was the medication. I am grateful that the Lord heard my plea and inspired my Doctor to know what help I needed to treat the depression, but most of all, to help me hear him once more. It is amazing how I was blocked from hearing him, but had no problem hearing the adversary. Through all of this, even though I was struggling to hear the Lord, I still kept my faith, still went to Church, and still kept my covenants. I went through the motions and although I felt many times that I should just walk away because my testimony was waning, I stayed. God still heard my prayers even though I couldn't hear the answers.
NanJanuary 19, 2021
Scot and Maurine Thank you so much for these podcasts. We love studying with you each week. Your background and experiences have added a rich historical and geographical dimension to the scriptures. We are especially enjoying this new year, where the podcasts have been void of advertisements of products for sale. As much as we have loved the podcasts and your insights into the scriptures, we haven't felt that we could recommend them to our friends and family, for that one reason. If this continues, we will stand on the rooftops and tell everyone. Could those products be advertised on the website instead?
PamJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you for your timely article. As a sufferer of depression and anxiety, it was good to read your comment about the difficulty of feeling the Spirit while on medications for these things. One can sit through a meeting and feel pretty much nothing. It's very discouraging so I was very pleased to read your words! Thank you, thank you. This will be printed and re-read!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 19, 2021
Without any doubt, the transgender ideology is a blatant attack by Satan on the family, and also a deceptive ploy to confuse people regarding their identity. I love President Nelson's address "Let God Prevail" from our most recent general conference. He said "Satan is no longer even trying to hide his attacks on God's plan. Emboldened evil abounds." He then counselled us to "let God prevail in our lives." In the midst of so much deception in our world today, our only hope is to consistently seek the Spirit, and to make sure that the influence of the Holy Ghost in our lives PREVAILS over every other influence. The scriptures promise that as we take the Holy Spirit for our guide, we will not be deceived.
Stewart LangJanuary 19, 2021
My wife made the comment that try carrying a 10lb -20lb baby along with a car seat and getting from point A to B and opening doors!!! LOL P.S. Our oldest of 4 was 9lb 15oz at birth and she is 5ft too - check those arms on our young mothers!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 19, 2021
The truths in this article are needed desperately right now in our time of unique trials. I especially appreciate the validation for my struggle that it is sometimes hard to feel the spirit when you are depressed. I agree that reviewing our lives can help us see our blessings and remind us of the times we HAVE felt the spirit. I find keeping a journal is invaluable for this. When we feel the Spirit, we need to write down our experience! It will strengthen us on the days we are struggling.
IngridJanuary 19, 2021
Beautifully written and gives me hope for the future, knowing that today’s young people are wise and kind.
WandaJanuary 19, 2021
Excellent message! There are so many questions that I don't know how to answer...but there are far more answers than I'm fully able to comprehend. Trying to implement what I do know is a joyous journey!
Haze K.January 19, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing your experiences of having difficulty feeling The Spirit. I thought I was the only active, believing member who has this difficulty. Your description is perfect: "I suffer from depression and take medication so that I can have a decent quality of life. Sometimes I feel pretty good, other times I just close my eyes and try to survive the day, hoping that after the long night, the sun will rise and tomorrow will be better." I become frustrated when others describe "quick" inspiration and I feel numb and out of touch with The Spirit. I hold on tightly to the times when I do feel the Spirit testifying to me. Cherished moments. Some say, don't take your psych meds and you will feel the Spirit more easily. Perhaps this would be true. But I've tried that. I become unable to work, deal with daily life. It isn't a realistic option for me. As I said, thank you for courageously sharing your story. So relieved to know I am not alone.
CarolJanuary 19, 2021
Are brown, black and any color people racist? It sure sounds like it!
CarolJanuary 19, 2021
I have copied your article and will read and reread it. I never knew that depression and taking meds was the reason that I have such a hard time feeling the Spirit. I thought it was me and my hard heart. Thank you for your insight you have lighten my soul!
Susan CarterJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you for being so candid!! I have mild depression and anxiety. I struggle to recognize the spirit. BUT I know even though', that God loves me and helps me!
Linda NeubauerJanuary 19, 2021
Thank you for sharing this message. It helped me understand and bolstered my faith. I printed it so that I could refer to it again and again.
GinaJanuary 18, 2021
It’s just like picking up my 6 year old to play with him or carry him around. 45-60 isn’t that much, esp with adrenaline going, and momentum (he was running downhill, after all).
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 18, 2021
My husband could have done all that with little effort. He was farm boy. He used to carry heavy bales of hay and throw them on the hay truck. He carried 100 pound sacks of potatoes. When we served a mission, the missionaries were so astonished at his strength. Not one of his students could ever beat him in arm wrestling. Of course, Joseph could do all that heavy lifting and running. He was farm boy.
Alece ReynoldsJanuary 18, 2021
I remember a set of young male missionaries who were helping our daughter move. They repeatedly carried packed, Rubbermaid 18 gallon tubs -- one under each arm -- up a set of stairs -- while nearly running up those stairs. The rest of us were gobsmacked watching them as we had trouble carrying one tub at a time up those stairs at a walking pace! The Bishop who had been watching this chalked it up to bottled up testosterone run amok! I think that fearing for his life would have given a very strong young Joesph Smith enough adrenalin to get the job done!
Judy BrooksJanuary 18, 2021
Ken Mazzanti, thank you for your comment! I agree wholeheartedly. I well remember President Ezra Taft Benson in general conference, telling us to "study the Constitution". It was so odd to me at the time...Our ...Watchman on the tower delivered such an amazing message, as he so prophetcally foresaw this day and time!
Sasha KwapinskiJanuary 18, 2021
by migrating out west in 1846/47, the saints essentially removed themselves or got themselves out of the way of the fury which was to soon vex the nation. That fury certainly did vex the nation just over a decade later .
Corey D.January 18, 2021
excellent article, I have heard some interesting and maybe almost horrifiying stories recently about people losing businesses or business opportunities or getting death threats or their family being threatened or scholarships being pulled because of political or social opinions they have voiced or in one case somebody found something in a high school yearbook from way back and posted it and it destroyed the individuals business. Cancel Culture/Political Correctness is most prominent right now with politics but it has a part that is very specific to religion, particularly to Christian religions which also includes the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, especially those who follow scriptural teachings on morality, especially marriage. A personal example, just a month or two ago a co-worker said, "come look at this". It was a policy announcement on the company's intranet site that said they would no longer be hiring from BYU because BYU did not have an LGBT+ policy that fit their company policy. There are quite a few BYU graduates, some pretty high up in my division, I had to wonder if any replied to this or they just let it go.This is a very large company, a multinational company who's work is mostly with the government, a direct violation of the 1st amendment, but people are scared for their jobs and the Cancel Culture know this and they wield tremendous influence in corporate America right now. Like one of my co-workers said one day, it was corporate America that killed the Boy Scouts.There is also a Cancel Culture specific to the LDS church, there is a concerted effort (guess you could say renewed) that has been going on for a couple of years now, aided by the internet, it seeks to discredit Joseph Smith and some other leaders of the church, notably Brigham Young, Spencer W. Kimball, Ezra Taft Benson, Bruce R. McKonkie and a few others. There is a reason the leaders of the church have been emphasizing strong personal testimonies for a some years now and encouraging family and home study and President Nelson emphasizing personal revelation and the church posting essays etc. We need to diligently and correctly study it all out.
Harold RustJanuary 18, 2021
Thanks. This article professionally and methodically reviews the unknowns for those taking the vaccination. Society as a whole has a larger issue to sort out: when we take into account what we "know" about the vaccine and what we "know" about consequences of continuing our current social distancing and disengagement, at what stage do we allow more local freedom of movement and individual choice/discretion? If we place far more emphasis on waiting to "know" more about the vaccination than we place on moving ahead to minimize the negative aspect of distancing, then we have lost our sense of balance. At some point General Washington concluded he needed to go ahead and vaccinate his soldiers in the winter of 1775 despite the reality some just might die from that process. His decision saved the army and our country.
David BoardmanJanuary 18, 2021
I really appreciate this article. In a lot of ways I feel that our out going President has been treated much the same way as the Prophet Joseph Smith. The forces of evil and deception have been combined to destroy him and the so many good things that have been accomplished and as the young boy Joseph was silenced in the Grove so to has our President been silenced in the media. So many parallels in our society by the government to the Book of Mormon are being played out before our very eyes of power and corruption.
Ken MazzantiJanuary 18, 2021
It is evident from the very Declaration of Independence that after seeking a redress of grievances, there comes a time when the yoke of bondage and repression must be thrown off. Our Founding Fathers did not have the benefit of a living prophet to signal when that time might be, but they did have the Light of Christ to guide their conscience and their actions. I have that same light. I have the gift of The Holy Ghost. I will defend my God given liberty against all oppression. I, for one, will not be in bondage to anyone or any government. I will die on my feet before I live on my knees. If you want to be a sheep, that is your privilege, but I am a sheepdog. I will protect and defend the flock.
Laurie SomesJanuary 18, 2021
Thank you for your insights Maurine. I really needed this article to help me with my "going forward attitude".
Lora KinderJanuary 18, 2021
We might add that God DID punish the nation. Just two decades later, the United States experienced a terrible civil war that affected nearly every family in the country. The battle deaths were on Book of Mormon levels. Abraham Lincoln came to realize that "God wills this contest" and urged the nation to hold days of prayer and repentance. If we look at the civil war in scriptural language, it could look like this: "For behold, they did murder the prophet, they did drive out the righteous from among them, the temple of God they did destroy, and they did grind the faces of the poor (slavery)." When Abraham Lincoln gave his Gettysburg address, he might very well have been concerned that government of the people, by the people, and for the people might very well perish from the earth. Had they not repented, God might very well have swept this nation from the earth as He did the Jaredites and the Nephites.
Russell Rich CannonJanuary 18, 2021
This critical time in Church History is so relevant to our times right now in the United States. Thank you Maurine for putting in words the thoughts that I have had as I sadly watch anarchy in the streets of Washington. We can all learn from Brother Joseph and how the Lord directed his prophet to respond to the outrageous Extermination Order. What an important time to be studying the Doctrine & Covenants and Church History!
KelJanuary 18, 2021
Great timely article!! Thank you.
KathleenJanuary 17, 2021
Thank you - refreshing, positive, thought provoking, with great documentation and quotes.
Linda WillisJanuary 17, 2021
This was a brilliant article packed with thought provoking comments that rang true. I will share it with many friends.
Jeanette S. PaulJanuary 17, 2021
My husband and I faithfully listen to your excellent podcasts every Sunday. I always learn something new (and take lots of screenshots to review when I have some down time). I'm always drawn to your very informative (and sometimes life-changing) articles. Thank you for your great work!
Nadine AndertonJanuary 17, 2021
There are many things that can be said about the events on Jan.6 ay the Capital. Most, if not all, is one-sided from the main-stream news outlets, which speak with one voice. The voice of one side is mostly silenced. Have you noticed that? Thankfully we will always have the voice of the Lord through our Prophet and other church leaders whom we can rely on and should always follow. We also have our scriptures. Can we look at this from a non-partisan viewpoint? We just finished a year of intensively studying the Book of Mormon. We learn that America was designated as a "Promised Land" which was reserved for those who served the Savior, and we read of times that even the formerly righteous became so wicked that they were utterly destroyed. We know that that we have been blessed with a sacred Constitution which was written by men inspired by the Lord himself to preserve the agency and freedoms that we were blessed to have if we kept coovenants and commandments that came with having this Promised Land. We have been told of a time when this Constitution would be endangered by the followers of Satan and we were charged with protecting it. I have been reading and watching old addresses by former Prophets and Apostles and other church leaders about Communism (and Socialism, which is the same) and the dangers it presents to us. So to simplify this a little, because it is a very complicated story, we have on one hand a party whose leader loves America and the Constitution, who has taken great steps to strengthen our country in many ways (and like many Book of Mormon leaders, at no salary!) On the other hand, we have a party whose leaders have strong ties with the leading Communist country in the worl at the present time (which has profesed intentions to rule the entire world and bring down America) and these leaders have plans which would destroy the very freedoms we have covenanted to protect. Of course every member of either party is not committed to that party's goals. No one is claiming that. Back briefly to the election. Forget about whether or not election fraud can be proven. The opposition on Jan.6 came down to whether the Constitution was violated. The US constitution stated that ONLY the legislators of each individual state could make the rules as to how their elections could be conducted, and in every questionable state, at least, the rulesn had been changed illegally, which made fraud possible and impossible to determine. That was what was being contested, not who actually won. One side wanted to protect America, the other side wanted to radically transform it. Each of us should seek, through much sincere prayer and through following the counsel of our Prophet, to receive a testimony of the Holy Ghost how we should conduct ourselves. We should not make a blanket judgment on the actions of others based on what the "winning" side says, or on what the media says. I'm sure you realize that a lot of members voted for the "losing" candidate? Even he said supported the peaceful transference of power and condemned the violence (which he did not incite, if you actually look at his speech and that it was given hours before the break-in occurred). No, I have not made up my mind. I am still praying to know. But "by their fruits ye shall know them."
pamJanuary 17, 2021
Thank you for sharing these beautiful experiences with the readers to lift us and remind us how think the veil can be! I have "felt" my own grandmother come to me and knew she was near and watching out for me. It was a remarkable experience. Thank you for the uplift today Anne.
PamJanuary 17, 2021
I loved your article! Thank you for taking the time to write it. It's welcome for us to look inwardly and be a cause for peace, not discord. There is enough political discord isn't there. We shouldn't bring it to "church" if you will. I have printed a copy and it will be re-read and highlighted. Thank you.
DON WATKINSJanuary 17, 2021
Grant you live what you preach! What you preach is the plan and love of God. Thank You.
CB DouglassJanuary 17, 2021
The Davidic Servant is a person who will be raised out of David's lineage and will inherit David's throne, and blessings. The Marvelous Work and a Wonder is not really a reference to the BoM per se, it is a reference to the end-time gathering of Israel.
Wayne R.January 17, 2021
Thank You for your review and recognition that their are unknown risks along with the potential benefits. After your thoughtful review, will you be getting the vaccine?
Kate B.January 16, 2021
It seems it should be noted that Dr. Arthur Henry King passed away 21 years ago, on January 15, 2000. I admired him very much.
JessJanuary 16, 2021
This is a well thought and written article. It's so hard to know if the vaccine is actually able to do what is hoped for, and do it safely, especially when the vaccine makers are habitual and repeat offenders when it comes to illegal and corrupt marketing practices and suppressing adverse trial results- and have been criminally convicted of and fined over 3 billion dollars for doing so.
DianeJanuary 16, 2021
I love your description of the spring forest! I'd love to see pictures! Thank you.
ColinJanuary 16, 2021
Amen and amen!
Melanee PhillipsJanuary 16, 2021
Hahaha....now your making me feel old!
SautuJanuary 16, 2021
Very inspiring! This is a very timely reminder about what matters most.
Gene F. DanforthJanuary 15, 2021
Thank you very much I have noticed that when I expel any feeling of contention in my heart and mind, I feel a warm glow come over me. A feeling of peace.
Jan HathawayJanuary 15, 2021
Wonderful comments about this great puzzle. We purchased it and now it is hanging on our wall downstairs. It is such a delight and so very interesting. We are still wondering what significance the whale has - lower left side of the puzzle. We are puzzled? We would like to know!!
Rodney Wells MDJanuary 15, 2021
Thanks for your perspective. As a physician who has worked with Covid patients and knowing many people who have been infected, I think the more we all know the better. There is still much unknown about this viral infection, especially about its long-term consequences, but we have learned much in the past year. I for one am thankful for the rapid development of a vaccine which, as your article points out, substantially reduces the risk of becoming ill from SARS-CoV-2. I had the jab when it became available and have had my second as well. For me (n=1), a sore arm for a day was the only side effect so far. I admit to being an unabashed pro-vaccine advocate. I think most well informed individuals will choose to be vaccinated as well. Time will tell.
Diane AndersonJanuary 15, 2021
What a wonderful idea. Loved hearing these children recite what they had memorized. That will stay with them for the rest of their lives.
ron reedJanuary 15, 2021
Thank you for the effort put into this article. I very much needed it today
Scot ProctorJanuary 15, 2021
You can email your question to him at [email protected]
FriedaFreudaJanuary 15, 2021
How do I reach you to ask a question?
JoannaJanuary 15, 2021
I normally really like your articles but take great offense at your characterization of the patriots attending the Trump rally in Jan. 6th. It was NOT them that attacked the police or stormed the capitol but the same ilk who participated in the riots all summer long in cities like Portland Seattle SF Minneapolis that no one seems to remember happening now. Unfortunately I couldn’t stomach reading the rest of your article knowing the slant you have taken on this unfortunate event. Maybe I’ll go back and read it later. I could go on about the about the loss of our freedom and liberty and AGENCY and the rise of socialism /communism that will occur with this new administration.,but I won’t because half the country has neither eyes to see nor ears to hear the truth about what is really happening.
Charles HarperJanuary 15, 2021
Thanks Anne. I am reminded of the time my two sons and I gave my mother a blessing before her cancer surgery. Afterward, my oldest son, whose hands were the last placed on her head commented that he felt as if other hands were on too of his. My father,who had passed away earlier, had assisted in the blessing. The surgery was successful and mom lived a long life.
Anita EJanuary 15, 2021
This was awesome! I loved what she did and said about her dear grandma never letting a moment pass her by. We could all use a little more fun in our lives right now. Yay Elizabeth!
Erek EreksonJanuary 15, 2021
I agree with Lynn Chapman. We, as disciples of Christ, have a higher standard. We have to look beyond those who would stir us up to controversy, division, and riotings. The question is not which side started what violence. The better question is "Have we always been this divided?" If not, who sent us down the road to division? In Book of Mormon times Alma and Amulek were up against a group of people who "did stir up the people to riotings, and all manner of disturbances...that they might have more employ, that they might get money..." (Alma 11:20) In their day it was lawyers. In our day who is it? Might it include the news media? I think that the news media is driving a wedge between people today. They are stirring up controversies to get more people to watch, and thus get more gain. For example, George Floyd died while in direct contact with a police officer. True. But did the news media give equal coverage to his autopsy that showed that he had 3 times a lethal dose of Fentanyl? Or would that have calmed the controversy? After election night, the media covered the fact that President Trump did not concede. Fair enough. But after election night, did they also cover the fact that before the election Mrs. Hillary Clinton admonished Joe Biden never to concede. If not conceding was good for one side, why was it wrong for the other side? Or did they just want to keep controversy alive? I could go on and on. Here is something to think about: "But my disciples shall stand in holy places, and shall not be moved; but among the wicked, men shall lift up their voices and curse God and die.” (D&C 45:32) We should be looking for truth, and not controversy, for truth and not who to blame. We should be looking to be one and stand in holy places.
Anita EJanuary 15, 2021
Thanks for your thought provoking article. Very informative for our current circumstances!
A. Denise HeathJanuary 15, 2021
I love how missionaries have become so creative . An Elder from The Chorley ward in the London England Mission creates videos on gospel principle which led to two young ladies in South Africa getting baptised . Awesome .,
Wendy HillJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you for these beautiful stories. Our families are closer than we know.
Lazy MikeJanuary 14, 2021
If my wife refused to wash my cloths I'd just keep wearing them dirty. I've worn the same cloths while backpacking for 3 weeks. Pioneers wore the same set of cloths for 6 months. If she didn't wash her cloths he might sooner notice. This wife could ask him to move the washing machine out on the driveway next to the trunk.I would be more apt to do that than carry small boxes. Another option is to squirt a bunch of dish washing soap in the washing machine with his cloths. This will cause it to make too many suds and it will flood. Then lazy husband can clean up that mess while rooster-pecking his wife for not helping. Role reversal is an option. Call the home teachers to come over and carry the laundry box into the house. If more people had done this more often, it might have saved that inspired program. a
Jill CleaverJanuary 14, 2021
Yes! I love these words! Thank you, Mary.
Rochelle HaleJanuary 14, 2021
You may fret about those plastic grapes forever, but in the end you were married, and hopefully, you can be sealed soon. My first marriage was in the temple with my husband's parents and a few friends, but our reception was hundreds of miles away with my non-member family. No internet, Pinterest, or Zoom in those days. Suffice it to say, my mother did her best, but the cultural hall decor and refreshments were definitely not what I had in mind. Even my musicians canceled last minute. Most distressing was the photographer (family friend) took awful pictures. My dream of a large family photo like my cousin had was totally dashed to pieces. The physical trappings of a dream wedding weren't there, but when I was sealed to my second husband we had some amazing spiritual experiences, confirmed by some of his relatives who were in attendance. On a daily basis, we hope it is the covenants we've made and why that sustains us.
Linda MastersJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you, Mary. This is such an inspiring article and a great reminder that we can find peace as we listen and “Hear Him.”
Ronald BarnesJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you for sharing my story. Last year, my sister was recovering from jaw surgery and traveling away from home. One night, her jaw began hurting until it was almost unbearable. After praying for relief, three spirits appeared to give her a blessing. The spokesman was our father, who had died many years before. Her pain disappeared immediately.
CaroleJanuary 14, 2021
Thank you Anne. Your inspired articles seem to come at the time I need them. They are beautiful, uplifting, and a blessing to my life.
L WestoverJanuary 14, 2021
Lovely article! Our oldest daughter is single, with single adult daughters. Yet she is unquestionably the favorite aunt of most of our 22 grandchildren -- because she is so engaged with them. She would rather be with the kids than with their parents. Her life may be hard, but she finds joy as she "plays" with the children. What a blessing that joy goes two ways!
Tom KunzJanuary 14, 2021
Such a wonderful and genuine article about how to the gospel Virtually. Thank you Br Hill for Taking the time to put this together!
Lani LarkinJanuary 14, 2021
I love your writings Diana. You teach us much and your personal experiences are so interesting. I can see how the Lord has prepared you to teach and especially influence many with the understanding you have because you know the gospel of Jesus Christ. You love God and His son you know so well. Thank you ... Lani
JustinJanuary 14, 2021
Your husband invited our family to a Sunday dinner with your family in 1996 (Iowa) when traveling across the country with 4 kids under 8. I've been grateful for that simple act of kindness decades ago. You two are truly special people! We live a few short miles away from you, and are thrilled you both bless our area with your influence and service.
Jo Ann OkelberryJanuary 13, 2021
This article is much needed by the world. I don't even read some articles in the newspaper because they are so contentious. The contention in our nation upsets my whole system. It especially sad when I see members of the Church being contentious on Facebook and other media.
Becky DouglasJanuary 13, 2021
You can find it at Amazon. Put in Gross National Happiness, by Arthur C. Brooks. (Oops!) Lana--I'm astounded at your 900 hours of volunteer service a year. You go, girl!!
tom glassJanuary 13, 2021
PBS,CNN?I think you need some different networks of information!
Merlyn T de la MelenaJanuary 13, 2021
This article describes clearly to to start connecting with our ancestor! Thanks for sharing this article and your feelings and how you became engaged with your ancestors.!! It's a good prompting for us to do likewise.
Saundra GatesJanuary 13, 2021
Awesome article Bro. Goddard! It was just what I needed today as I was fasting and thinking heavily about family history. I look forward to your coming articles.
AlisaJanuary 13, 2021
Contentious vs. Competitive? Interesting. I don't like either one! I suppose when it comes to sports one is competing.. I love the thoughts expressed here about avoiding contention though!
Patricia G. SchellJanuary 13, 2021
I especially love the idea if tuning out by turning off any "entertainment" that brings contention on any form into my home. I live alone. I'm 78. I've found myself doing that automatically when suddenly something that appeared to be pleasant, turned into a "drive the Spirit out". There's no one to be contentious with so it sits like a brick in my heart and the contention is within. So, off it goes.
Herm OlsenJanuary 13, 2021
As always, an excellent reminder. My less-active brother has been FOCUSED and COMMITTED to our ancestry, despite his lack of interest in the Gospel. I’ll use some of these suggestions to further encourage him. Thanks so much!
AnnaJanuary 13, 2021
It is too bad that in a church where marraige has been placed on the highest of all platforms, many churchmembers do not see marraige as anything but a worldly arrangement that they can reject whenever they are unhappy and disappointed. Like the rest of the world, we put individual happiness ahead the relationship on which the rest of society is based, In my opinion, the husband shouldn't have left for any reason, but neither should the wife be so ready to dump him because of it. My hope is that at least one of them gets committed to the marraige and tries to salvage it.
Laurie PollardJanuary 13, 2021
Thank you for this wonderful article, Mary! You already are "one of those people"--there is not a contentious cell in your soul. I have always appreciated the integrity you exhibit between your inspiring writing and your uplifting behavior.
K. PiersantiJanuary 13, 2021
How can you say the group at the capital dispersed with little or no violence People were killed and many had to go to the hospital. Also, they were rallied on by the president. This was not just a demonstration, it was an attack on our democracy--on my capital! I felt like I was watching a newsreel from South Amermica! It was domestic terrorism and should be dealt with as such!
ShaunaJanuary 13, 2021
thank you for these additional insights from additional sources. Do you have a citation for the Kent P Jackson article? sorry if it's in plain sight in the article
LAJanuary 13, 2021
I understand peacefully doing things. But should we not work to protect our rights?
Geoff TJanuary 13, 2021
Wonderful, reasoned article from a very well educated person - impressive. As an "older" person, I was also encouraged to see that Arthur King did not join the Church until he was 56 years of age - there's time for me yet!!
Joanne VorkinkJanuary 13, 2021
I thoroughly enjoyed this article! Its timeless message motivates me to do better, recording stories from my parents and relatives as well as my own. Many thanks!
pamela RoderJanuary 12, 2021
I am so sad to read of Darla's passing. I have loved reading her articles as they are full of insight and wisdom. Thank you Proctor's for sharing and I hope you continue to do so.
J. JensenJanuary 12, 2021
"Blessed are the peacemakers" is an injunction straight from the Savior. I pray that we will each examine our own role in the polarization that led to so much disrespect of one citizen to another and to the representative government outlined by the Constitution. It is our country, defined by laws. Let us stand for peace and work to make positive changes through the rule of law as counseled by President Oaks. Thank you for reminding us of the parallel to the destruction of the Jaredites should we continue down this road.
Ed GayhartJanuary 12, 2021
Our leaders tell us violence is not the way. Unfortunately bad guys do not follow our leaders and will do whatever works for them. Satan doesn’t follow rules. We know how this will end but it will be sad to witness the injustice and the downfall of this once great country.
LewisJanuary 12, 2021
I love this article. There is so much wisdom in these stories. As I reflect on the Savior's life, i see a life of love and service. You have captured the essence of "pure religion and undefiled." Thank you so much for sharing these wonderful words.
Erika P.January 12, 2021
I believe that Elder Smith was needed on the other side of the veil and was welcomed with open arms. Maybe he has to teach some family members that passed on and did not know anything about the Church. Four years ago I had a deadly form of cancer and was between life and death when I had a dream when I found myself in the Spirit World where a very large crowd of relatives waited for me. One lady came up to me and said "finally you are here to teach us" then my grandfather came up and said "not so fast - you know that we have to have permission first. He took me away and asked for it, but did not get it. I was told that I had to return to earth because some important work needed to be finished here. I woke up after this and felt great. I can see Elder Smith having to do something similar. May the Lord bless his Family.
MicheleJanuary 12, 2021
Addenda to my prior comment. In further support of this writer, my limited understanding is the Savior will return when he has a righteous enough people, not when wickedness grows so out of control He has to step in.
Patricia MerrickJanuary 12, 2021
It is such a pleasure to read the analysis of Joseph Smith’s vision in this unique way, from a literary aspect.
MicheleJanuary 12, 2021
I also watched PBS and was surprised later by the cries of violence. I think there were many social media pictures which came later, posted by the people inside the capitol themselves, which demonstrated their intent. It is a crime to simply have gone inside, with no legitimate reason to be there. There were some who indeed intended violence. However, aside from my opinions on the event, I had the same reaction as I read Ether; all that occurred in this book is and will continue to play itself out. The author uses the capitol event for comparison, but the deeper issue he attempts to make us aware of is how we personally will serve the Lord and his purposes by our own actions.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 12, 2021
I am so happy that you continue to run Darla's articles. They are so timely and she has such wonderful insight. It was our loss when she passed, but a blessing to still have her writing.
Merilee CummingsJanuary 12, 2021
Thank you, Lynn. Though you didn't exactly spell out how we will let God prevail in our lives, we know how to get personal revelation and that will guide us. Revelation happens in moments of peace, so we should be able to distinguish those moments from times when we are stirred up in turmoil and anger. Cooler heads (not passive, though) make better decisions. That needs to become our mantra.
Pattie SkousenJanuary 12, 2021
The Book of Mormon is a second testament of our beloved Savior Jesus Christ. I testify it is true. Thanks for your article. I, too, know studying the Book of Mormon at this time is inspired from our Prophet.
SherryJanuary 12, 2021
I loved this article!
John PearceJanuary 12, 2021
Trump certainly must bear some responsiblity for what happened. If he hadn't made false claims about the election being rigged this would not have happened. After more than sixty court cases being lost, William Barr saying there was no evidence to change the results of the election, Chris Krebs saying this election was the most secure in US history and many other Republicans such as Chris Christie saying he lost he still continues to say falsely that he won.
Patricia WintersJanuary 12, 2021
I saw a rioter bearing the Title of Liberty! The man with his feet on Nancy Pelosi's desk was a returned missionary! How is this going to affect investigators and those already disillusioned with the Church. None of the members who joined the rioters were following President Nelsons advice of a few weeks back. I am so disappointed!
DJJanuary 12, 2021
A very good article! I think in our comments we need to be careful of who we are condemning of having insatiable desire for power. Both parties have fault here & certainly so does the media, but if this election had not been labeled rigged & stolen, then there probably wouldn't have been anyone protesting.
Kaylene ReddJanuary 12, 2021
Excellent, inspired article. An answer to prayers. I look forward to future articles in this series. Thank you, Brother Goddard!
GBJanuary 12, 2021
I am sad and confused. Many well meaning members of the LDS church read counsel by the church leaders and then interpret it to justify the actions at the capitol on January 6th. How can the words of the church leaders who advocate love, patience, peace and unity be applied this way? To quote Elder Oaks: “This does not mean that we agree with all that is done with the force of law. It means that we obey the current law and use peaceful means to change it. It also means that we peacefully accept the results of elections. We will not participate in the violence threatened by those disappointed with the outcome.” It's called Generous Civic Engagement. Please. Let's try it. .
Rochelle HaleJanuary 12, 2021
I wish my "child" would know that he is loved no matter what. Agency plays such a huge role in our lives, and I totally respect the decisions or perspectives of others, though they might not be my own. Nevertheless, love--especially a mother's love--endures forever.
David PearceJanuary 12, 2021
I think the author stated his position when he began this opinion piece by his description of one news source. It’s possible “slant” could be debated. That opening was completely unnecessary to the point he may have been trying to make. However, the author made a very significant observation that may have been missed by some readers. Trump supporters vs Democrats. Comparing an organization with millions of members from all walks of life and faiths vs one individual as though no one in the Republican Party-also with millions of members from all walks of life and faith-was completely absent. We are down the very wrong path when one individual has so much unaccountable power. Those who committed those terrible act at the nation’s capital should be held accountable for their actions but those also (maybe according to the author one) should be held accountable who created the web of lies and encouragement that led to those actions and for other lawlessness currently being threatened. Yes, we seem to be a nation on the brink and it is time for unity. But that does not absolve the most accountable from the consequences of their actions. With out responsibility we truly do descend into anarchy and eventually destruction as the author points out.
Marcela Riveros StaceyJanuary 12, 2021
Elder Gong in his fireside this last Sunday made reference to a Netflix documentary called “The Social Dilemma.” There’s much information in the documentary that describes one of the most likely drivers behind our political discord and growing polarization. Elder Gong’s fireside and the documentary have added so much more depth to the Book of Ether and its relevance to these latter days. I would encourage everyone to watch both.
JulietJanuary 12, 2021
On our wall we have a sign that says "Forever, For Always and No Matter What". I always tell my children, "I love you forever, for always and no matter what!" Even when they get into trouble I make sure to tell them that I love them...they may be loosing privileges or are grounded but I make sure they know that I still love them and give lots of hugs and snuggles. Even as my children get older I think it is important to give them the verbal messages as well as the physical messages of love.
Michael GJanuary 12, 2021
Lynn Chapman was my Stake President back in the day. I always appreciated his council. His council and recommendation to "Let God Prevail", "Generous Civic Engagement', and "Remain Hopeful" is also appreciated.
ScottJanuary 12, 2021
Newly married couples are going to miss that reflecting pool for pictures.
Mary SukerJanuary 12, 2021
Cancel culture is fundamentally about condemning someone because of behaviors “they” consider unforgiveable or unacceptable. This has been going on forever but now has a catchy name to make it seem new and relevant. Think of the widow who spends her life hating the drunk driver who killed her spouse. The child who forever hates his alcoholic parent. I hope that those who believe in cancelling others will one day come to know Jesus Christ and how He can set us free-with forgiveness- through a kind and loving heart. Because He has forgiven us of all our wrongs, we cannot, rightfully, harbor an unforgiving heart against anyone. It’s helpful to remember that everyone is imperfect. The cancel culture is Satan's work. It is mean, unforgiving, and full of hate.
Denise ChristensenJanuary 11, 2021
This photo essay is a perfect compliment to last week's Come Follow Me Podcast! Thank you Scot for that long drive to capture such stunning photographs. I felt like I was there! And thanks to both you and Maurine for our weekly podcasts. We look forward to our time listening and studying with you each Sunday!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 11, 2021
I think we need to be very careful about defining who this group WAS that erupted into violent actions. They were small in number compared to the VAST peace loving crowd who were present. Neither President Trump, nor anyone else, is responsible for their actions. ONLY the people who committed those actions are responsible. The whole event has been maliciously twisted and manipulated beyond all truth by the media and Democrat officials, attempting to satisfy their own insatiable desire for power.
V. BriggsJanuary 11, 2021
To access the beautiful photos on the Sacred Grove, run your cursor upward toward the cabin, and over the right edge of the screen and an ARROW should pop up indicating to click and "go" to the next photo.
LARRY KENT ANDERSONJanuary 11, 2021
Wish everyone could read your article. Trump talked about false news and many condemed him for it. He is right there is much false news and secret combinations. Faith will guide us. Thanks for your article.
Richard GarrisonJanuary 11, 2021
Becky, thanks for sharing these wonderful thoughts, stories and challenge for 2021! You always inspire me!
Carla BarnumJanuary 11, 2021
Beautiful photos! Thank you for sharing.
Merlyn de la MelenaJanuary 11, 2021
This is an excellent read, again, about the experiences of Joseph Smith. Thanks for taking it in sections, making it easy for us to remember and understand.
Barb McDonoughJanuary 11, 2021
The Rod of Aaron?? Why has this artifact not been mentioned before? How did it get to the New World? Joseph received the Gold plates but left all the other sacred items in the box? Just a few questions.
Merlyn T de la MelenaJanuary 11, 2021
What a fabulous article!!! Thanks for sharing your family story about India and your beautiful daughter.
Kate NobleJanuary 11, 2021
I've been interested to read the comments regarding this situation, different angles on the scenario. Whatever went on with the husband it was strong enough for him to leave and then have no contact. I've been married for 50 years and my guess was an affair. Now that's burned out and he's back apparently thinking he can just go on as normal. In the meantime, the wife has been t-boned and left as a wreck on the side of the road. I've seen this several times in my life, believe it or not. The reality is that it will take FIVE good years for him to get himself straightened out to the point where she can actually trust him again, and that's IF he can do the work needed. Legal counsel is essential for utmost protection as well as counseling for her own mental health, and without prayer and guidance from the Spirit the road is steep indeed.
Tom ThorkelsonJanuary 11, 2021
The Savior taught us that in losing our lives in the service of others we will find joy. Thanks for this uplifting message!!
Patti WhitmanJanuary 11, 2021
Stunning photographs and so Spirit-filled. Thank you so much!
Chuck SanfordJanuary 11, 2021
You cannot trust this man. Whatever his positive traits are, he is still a dishonest liar---and will remain so, unless and until sincere repentance takes place. Please don't make decisions about this without involving your bishop. And his repentance does not mean you should take him back---it merely means he has taken a vital step for himself---not for you. You deserve happiness, too.
KJBJanuary 11, 2021
Five people died due to the siege on the Capitol (Six if you count the officer who has committed suicide since.) "Little to no violence"? Really? Armed insurrectionists attempted to overthrow the duly elected government of the United States of America. If that's not domestic terrorism, I don't know what is.
L RasmussenJanuary 11, 2021
So good! Will definitely be sharing this. Thank you!
JulieJanuary 11, 2021
Wonderful article. I can’t seem to find the book you cited. Could you tell me where to find it?
Lana JohnsonJanuary 11, 2021
This is why I volunteer 900 hours a year! I'm a member of Americorp and have found much needed joy and love in serving. I'm addicted to finding the greatest need and putting forth my greatest effort to fulfilling that need.... I'm elderly and alone but serving helps solves any issues.
Elmer GuevarraJanuary 11, 2021
from the Philippines
SistaGirlJanuary 10, 2021
To Sissy: My blessing tells me the same exact thing. That I will live to see that day. I'm the same age as you are. My family mocks me about it. But that's OK, it's not their blessing. It's mine.
MikaelJanuary 10, 2021
I have been in this same situation but as a Man. To say that Men never change is incorrect. It can be both sexes. In my case it was affairs that she had after 25 years of marriage. I am so sorry for what you are going through. Only you know what you have to do to protect yourself. Don't stay if it will be unsafe for you. Get lots of help. Know you are not alone. Trust is very hard to earn back.
Marta HarrisJanuary 10, 2021
How do I access the photo essay? I only got the explanation of their access to the sites and how spiritual it was to be at those sites.
Geoff-AusJanuary 9, 2021
I'm with David above. Most of the quotes given, are telling us to be better people. I find it amusing that "the sound of a trump" is required. Though I am rather concerned that how we have responded to donald trump might be a sheep and goats sifting/moral judgement time.
JeannieJanuary 9, 2021
Without having more details, it appears this marriage was over before he left--a spouse does not walk out of a healthy covenant marriage and have no contact for 6 months out of the blue. There must have been other red flags showing that he can't be trusted before this. Him leaving is the end. I would also advise her to work with her lawyer, continue on the path to divorce and carve out some happiness for herself. If she stays in this marriage there will be more heartache heaped upon the trust that is already destroyed. I hope she has the courage to move on and that she knows she deserves better and can find happiness with her own healthy choices.
Lincoln HoppeJanuary 9, 2021
I am so glad to be a part of this film. Playing Martin Harris was eye opening in a way i could not have imagined. I feel like i was able to understand Harris on a different level and have a greater respect for him that i didn’t have before. We went to great lengths to preserve authenticity and i think it will show on screen in an inspiring way.
GrandpaJanuary 9, 2021
I'm going to express the thought that everyone is going to disagree with. None of us know what went on behind the closed doors of this marriage. Yes, he left, but was he driven out? Did he leave to protect his sanity? Sometimes God-fearing men have to protect themselves, too. Did he claim midlife issues simply to keep the peace? We as readers do not know. Yes, this woman needs to protect her interests, but there is still too much we as readers do not know. I do hope and pray there is some serious marriage counseling going on!
Sheila WallJanuary 8, 2021
THANK YOU Maurine and Scot X 1000 for sharing one of Darla's articles. This one is timely for many reasons. I am grateful for the wisdom she left behind.
SteveJanuary 8, 2021
I'm not sure what the author of this article is implying we should think when (s)he posted this article. At the time of Pres. Ballard's statement that we needed prayer was because of the lack of truth coming from our national leaders at that time.
SissyJanuary 8, 2021
My Patriarchal Blessing states I will LIVE to see the day when Christ returns to the earth in great glory to rule and reign. Many people are skeptical when I share this, even my own daughter-in-law, but I feel it is true. I'm 60.
Marilynne LinfordJanuary 8, 2021
To Betty Lou Mann, Yes. I just posted it on Facebook or you can email me at [email protected]
BarbaraJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you for your article. Rather than look at our spouse for his/her shortcomings in the marriage, we should first examine our part in it. I find I read something and think "so & so really needs to read this" when in fact I need to study it deeper and implement it in my own life. Thank you again.
Wendy BentleyJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you for examining the words of the prophets in connection with the second coming. This has been on my mind a lot as we have observed the happenings of the last few days. I appreciate your insight. It is comforting to know that as we follow the words of our prophet and learn to listen to the voice of the Lord all will be well.
Betty Lou MannJanuary 8, 2021
A dear friend emailed me of how frightened she is with all the commotion that is going on in our country and in the world. Sending her your article, "What Prophets Have Said Recently" may comfort her and strengthen her faith. May I please have a copy to send to her? Thank you.
DL AndersonJanuary 8, 2021
There are many who are...unintentional "fear mongers". You, I'm pleased to say, are NOT one of them. Sensible. I LOVE your Mom's advice to you when you were young. Appropriate and timely no matter "what time" it is. And I loved how you mentioned we'll see the Lord's return "in real time" and not on a recorded loop. Again, thank you for this calm and uplifting (& sensible) message.
David DurfeeJanuary 8, 2021
Just one observation. Everything that we should be doing to prepare for the Second Coming is exactly what we should be doing without regard to whether the Second Coming is near or distant.
Melanee PhillipsJanuary 8, 2021
Hahaha....I don't feel old, but I am turning 58 and you bet I know what a muumuu is ! They are also refered to as house dresses or morning robes. Walmart does still carry them in the pajama section.My grandma wore them all the time after her rheumatoid arthritis got bad. Every time I walk by them I think of her...I think I'll take the bunny outfit though!
John R CarpenterJanuary 8, 2021
My patriarchal blessing given many decades ago clearly states that I shall not see the Second Coming in this mortal life. But, if I remain worthy to the covenants that I have made in the Holy Temple, then I shall return with Him at his Second Coming. The key is to remain faithful and to do what is right. Then endure to the end of this mortal probation. It is not easy, but it will prepare us for to be more like He is.
Ken MazzantiJanuary 8, 2021
I heard Elder Holland answer the question by stating the "We will be closer to the Second Coming when there is a Stake in Pakistan." The Gospel must yet be preached to, and established in, all the world. The world is certainly wicked enough, but we do not have enough worthy Priesthood holders to govern the world wide church that will exist in the Millenium.
Dora Glassford RobertsonJanuary 8, 2021
I feel he needs to explain himself on a much deeper depth than midlife crisis. If that means he left you for a younger woman and now she kicked him out, let him stew in his own juice. I certainly would not trust him again. I have experienced in my life that men never change. Only the gospel can change them if they sincerely repent. But if he was a God fearing man before, he would never have abandoned you in the first place. Of course it all depends how he behaves if you put him on probation for 6 months. I would certainly not buy him anything or let him in my house. He owes you lots... you don't owe him anything. An act like that would mean you forgive him just because he is back. I don't think he deserves forgiveness so easy. And of course, ask Heavenly Father.! My best wishes! Dora ❤❤❤
ShaunaJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you so much for doing all this legwork for me and for your synopsis but most importantly, your testimony. I try to fill my soul, day and life with the glorious truths of the Gospel--but I also must live them. How grateful I am for prophets and apostles living on the earth today
Bob PowelsonJanuary 8, 2021
I hope it comes sooner rather than later. I am well over 80 and have been expecting it for better than 60 years. At my age about all I get to do is watch it, and trust I won't get in the way of more needy than I.
Deanna SasserJanuary 8, 2021
Thank you for this great article that brought clarity to this topic of the Lord’s Second Coming. It helped me to desire to read the conference talks more carefully and to look and learn His word for me.
CfJanuary 8, 2021
This song has been a comfort to me in so many situations. For me, it has always been the Lord that I’m pleading to “stay with me.” From a mysterious illness on a mission in a far away land to caring for a mother with Alzheimer’s disease, it has given me hope and faith that the Lord will truly stay with me. So many of Michael McLean’s songs have spoken to my heart and helped me feel that I am truly “not alone.” So grateful that he has magnified his talents and shared them.
Allison DunlapJanuary 8, 2021
The admonitions and warnings were there for those with ears to hear. Thank you for summarizing all that our leaders have said. I'm quite amazed when some say they heard the same old messages. As for me and my house, we are hearing them loud and clear and we are preparing for His coming by fleeing Babylon and letting God prevail.
Chris HowellJanuary 8, 2021
Marilynne, thank you for providing a concise summary of the words of our prophets from the latest conference to put the signs of the second coming into context and giving us clear directions.
Larry GuntherJanuary 8, 2021
Wonderful article to put it all together--sort of a "cliff notes" of the October General Conference. I enjoyed the review of these profetic statements distilled down to such an easy-to-read understanding. Thanks!!
RaNae ShoafJanuary 8, 2021
Absolutely beautiful summary. This really clarifies a vital theme of this conference. We're awake and need to arise! Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
RobertJanuary 8, 2021
Danielle, cancel culture is not about stopping bad behavior. It is about shaming unpopular behavior with no chance of redemption. If it was about stopping bad behavior then abortion would be a target, but since abortion is popular in the cancel culture it’s permissible and even applauded. This isn’t about creating a more civil society. Cancel culture has one goal: speak only what is popular and lie about the rest or risk being shamed for life. That is antithetical to our values as a country and is edging closer to Orwell’s 1984.
Deborah SummersJanuary 8, 2021
I appreciate this article very much ... just what I need because I'm not doing so well in this area lately. It makes me sad and disappointed in myself or in my husband. This article is spot on with really great advice and lots of wisdom. I always sit up and take notice with your articles. Thanks so much.
Maryann TaylorJanuary 8, 2021
Oh, this is such a great story! I LOVED that she recovered, and I LOVED the bunny outfit. This story was just too good to keep, and I am so glad he gave you permission to share it. We need more smiles in these dark days of winter, Covid, and other upheavals. THANK YOU!!!
Maryann TaylorJanuary 8, 2021
I hope this woman will immediately take the advice in this article to see a lawyer NOW. She needs to protect herself financially and find out what her options are. Her husband's comment that his abandonment of her was a "midlife crisis" is a very poor excuse for his behavior, and suggests he feels no remorse or personal accountability for his extreme cruelty to her. It would be very difficult for me to take back a spouse who had completely cut me off for 6 months. That is a very long time to abandon your spouse and to make absolutely no attempt to make contact. I hope she will get the emotional support she needs and prepare herself for the very real possibility of this marriage ending.
Victor MillerJanuary 7, 2021
Thank you for putting this in writing! I, for one, believe the truth and personal responsibility do matter. This "modern" trend to minimize the value of truth is part of the evil one's plan to lead souls away from their Father's Plan.
David H.January 7, 2021
Wow...in reading these comments from the women in this thread makes me happy I am not married to any of them. Yikes...lots of judgement and thinking they are perfect. Too much in this culture of the husband is lazy and always in the wrong...things go both ways.
Chuck SanfordJanuary 7, 2021
Back in the mid-1990s, I was a home teacher for several men incarcerated in a federal prison. They, and probably most of the men imprisoned with them, believed heavily in situational ethics, and not concrete, unchangeable Godly laws of behavior---probably why they were in prison.
TeriJanuary 7, 2021
The reason that we should treat our spouses with compassion is not because we love them. At times they will give us many reasons not to, and our feelings of affection will wane. We should do it because we love God.
Jane E BrayJanuary 7, 2021
Sadly, it's what we're living in and experiencing today.
Doreen WadsworthJanuary 7, 2021
It makes a lot of sense. We are told we just don't want to believe it can happen in our life time. Thank you for this article.
MaryJanuary 7, 2021
I did not misunderstand what the point of the article. If the guy was dealing with underlying mental issues I would be more understanding with his choices,but I still stand with my original statement. There are some people who through time develope being lazy and there are some people the attribute had always been there. If laundry detergent man is the first,then the advice that was given should absolutely be followed. If the second, then we should teach people not to marry lazy people in the first place. My dad happened to fall in the second category so I couldn't help but jump to my original statement.
Kenny MazzantiJanuary 7, 2021
It is not the peaceful transition of power that I am concerned about. Whichever way the November election we were going to see some angry outbursts. What I am concerned about is the turn to Marxism in our House, Senate, courts and Presidency. We are now surrounded by the Gadianton Robbers of our own day who will lie, cheat ,steal and murder to have their way. They are now infiltrated into our government, our courts, our justice department, the FBI, the CIA, the NSA, etc. This nation has voted, or submitted, its way into Marxism. This nation will now have to fight its way out to once again experience liberty. Where is Captain Moroni when we need him the most?
TerryJanuary 7, 2021
I know you excluded the truly abusive but may I open your eyes to the reality that some of the truly abusive are mentally ill. I do not recommend personal intervention but could we care enough as a society to seek better medications?
MichaelJanuary 7, 2021
Abraham Lincoln's win of the 1860 election caused the immediate secession of several states and escalating events which developed into the American Civil War. Southern states viewed Lincoln's election as a strengthening of Federal government and erosion of states' rights to govern themselves.
ShaneJanuary 7, 2021
Amen! Great and true article! Very well done! Thank you
Eric M ChaseJanuary 7, 2021
Thanks for stating concisely the way Satan carefully leads us down to hell. We must guard against these philosophies creeping into our way of thinking and cling to the truths of the gospel.
SpencerJanuary 7, 2021
Terrific insights and exactly correct.
Virginia RockwellJanuary 7, 2021
Thank you for your wise warning.
PG PrattJanuary 7, 2021
Blessed is Elder Iseh who have passed away in the service of the Lord Jesus Christ, his name and priesthood will be honoured until the end of time and into the eternities. Sincerest condolences at this sad time to family and friends.
FayeJanuary 6, 2021
I love that she went out and got what she needed and did not inable him to avoid his responsibility. I would have added, "You carry this baby and I'll bring in the detergent."
JillJanuary 6, 2021
As a caregiver coach, spouses often reach out to me when they're ready to throw in the towel. They may judge their loved ones as not "adulting" or as being lazy, mean, not "emotionally available," or any number of things. I appreciate your advice to be compassionate and loving no matter what. "Adulting" can also mean being responsible for your own emotions instead of letting someone less capable dictate them for you. And it's usually work to flip your interpretation of your spouse's "lazy" behavior and get in their shoes for a minute. Everyone in every story is doing their best. D&C112:10
DianeJanuary 6, 2021
While I agree with Becky and Mary, if you find yourself in such a marriage, this advice is excellent. I have learned to think before I speak, and choose words carefully. It has avoided a lot of contention. Your heart must be at peace toward your spouse for the best results. Thank you for this article.
Grandma GigiJanuary 6, 2021
This just makes me sad, especially considering she is pregnant. She could have done his laundry too. If he feels “nagged” (hen-pecked is what MY father called it), then maybe he should try a little harder. My father laid around drinking beer every week end. My mom would ask for help. He refused to do much after his 5-day workweek. Women don’t get a day off or help unless the husband really cares.
JoanneJanuary 6, 2021
I loved this article. You shared great wisdom. All marriage partners would do well to humble themselves and apply the steps you suggested. Thank you
CharlieJanuary 6, 2021
Not sure, but I think Mary and Becky missed the whole point of the article.
LesJanuary 6, 2021
It is quite evident that the qualities of the Savior are missing. It is also quite evident that the Lord did not have a hand in the marriage. My two first wives passed on due to terminal illnesses, and my present wife is just as great...the Lord had His hand in putting us together. Harmony should be expected from each spouse, a celestial attribute!
Erik HansenJanuary 6, 2021
Mental illness and severe dysfunction, sometimes from abuse in peoples' childhood, does exist in the families of Latter-day Saints. This was my situation. We separated through divorce though we were resistant to that. The Lord wanted us to move away from each other's situation and become healthy. We have come back to each other in a more limited way, we ARE sealed and consider each other not just loved ones or friends but husband and wife of the future!
Helen KlannJanuary 6, 2021
Absolutely beautiful and filled with the Spirit! Thank you for sharing your gift of photography and knowledge and testimony!
BeckyJanuary 6, 2021
No one should walk on eggshells or have to cajole their (adult?) spouse to carry in a heavy box of laundry detergent in the example given. It is absurd to have to remind an adult of what they have agreed to do. Choices have consequences...And we are talking about choices, not "distractions." Adults don't need to be reminded, children might. "We teach people how to treat us by what we are willing to accept." What is the popular phrase these days? I believe it's called "adulting." It should be embraced, not avoided.
MaryJanuary 6, 2021
The laundry detergent guy sounds lazy. Maybe step one is to not marry a lazy guy in the first place
CarolJanuary 6, 2021
I love your stories!!! The usually make me laugh and there is often a great lesson in them too. Not so much lesson in this one but a great laugh. The wife was a good sport and she gave a lot of people some to laugh about that day!!!!
Geoff SteurerJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you, Wally, for organizing these eternal truths into actionable steps for struggling marriages. I'm so grateful for your hard-earned wisdom gained from years of dedicated study and application.
JamieJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you so much for this article! I have been struggling with a crisis of faith for many years. Articles like these are so helpful in knowing that this is a real thing and I’m not broken or being rejected by God. It’s also so comforting to know that I’m not the only one who is going through something like this. I’d like to learn more about dealing with faith crises, does anyone know of any resources on the topic? I’m having a hard time finding any relevant information.
Deanna SasserJanuary 6, 2021
I went through a very difficult time in my marriage and the book that helped me the most to take a better look at myself and to change myself was Wally Goddard's little book on marriage. I have come to appreciate all his articles for Meridian Magazine and want to express my gratitude to him for his love of our Savior and for his wise words of wisdom. (And to his wife who has helped to shape him, as he gives her so much credit!). Thank you!!
Janet WiseJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you so much for sharing this stunning photography! Keep sharing your temple photos, as I love to Pin them and reflect on their beauty and the glory of Temples!
Sydney WheadonJanuary 6, 2021
This is hilarious! Thanks so much for sharing!
Amey ZeiglerJanuary 6, 2021
Thank you as always for your reviews!!
RebeccaJanuary 5, 2021
I wonder if Jimmy Galligan is condemning the rappers/musicians who continually use the ‘n’ word as swiftly as he did with Mimi Groves?
JemezblueJanuary 5, 2021
How ironic that people allow Cancel Cultural bullying as a way to make people behave the way they want, but call it "psychological abuse" when a marriage partner or parent does it in their family. If you don't like psychological abuse in a marriage, then don't accept it in regular society. BTW, as a student at a local university I am already lying about my political beliefs because I am afraid that my graduate work will get canceled if I do so. AND other university students assume that my political beliefs coincide with theirs. I just change the subject.
Ronnie BootheJanuary 5, 2021
I lost a grandson to suicide a few years ago. I felt that I could have reached him and helped him if I was not so far away. I felt that I had failed him. Your article was a tremendous help in my journey to forgiving myself, thank-you for sharing a baring your soul.
Tracey L. CarpenterJanuary 5, 2021
Excellent points.
LorettaJanuary 5, 2021
I am over 70 years of age. And even as a young teen I knew that saying the "n"word was offensive and wrong. Mimi can't excuse herself because of her age and not knowing. We are all born with the light of Christ that will let us know that something we are doing is wrong.
Vicky YeatesJanuary 5, 2021
How do you answer the critics who claim that there were not horses at the Book of Mormon time?
Jan KuesterJanuary 5, 2021
Amen!! I agree wholeheartedly. Many years ago, having gone through a short but emotionally brutal marriage, I had a period in my young life where I proudly proclaimed “A woman within a man is like a fish without a bicycle.” Fortunately that chapter of my life was a short one as I met some missionaries, had a quick, profound tutelage from the Holy Ghost and came to love and embrace the truth of the restored Gospel. I am the only member in my extended family and am grateful that none of my family or friends have ever used my foolish, ignorant proclamation against me, especially when I testify to them of the sanctity of marriage, the meaning of temple ordinances and so forth.
KJBJanuary 5, 2021
And how many times have conservatives called for bans and boycotts? Ah, the hypocrisy...
DanielleJanuary 5, 2021
I have to sit a moment to savor what was written. I noticed this piece alluded cancel culture was reserved for those of power, but now that everyday individuals have this power to use it, it is considered dangerous from the viewpoint of the author. Maybe the author meant it was also dangerous in the hands of those who are with power or belong to the elite and maybe the practice should not belong in those hands either. I do appreciate how the article points to the need for forgiveness in certain situations can be hard to do when someone is feeling the sense of shame for a set action(s). I think the way the article, maybe unintentionally, is written validates errant behavior as culture. Behavior that lacks taste, respect, and choses to denigrate is simply bad behavior and should not be confused with culture. I am sure Adolf Hitler wouldn’t have been moved into the direction of leadership that he took on if someone did shame him into the basic concepts of love and respect for one’s neighbor that are found in the Bible, Torah, and many other religious traditions and sacred works. Instead, many decided not to challenge his actions and words that sought to divide people by race, physical handicaps and abilities, and religion. Should the punishment be proportionate to the crime supported by context, by all means yes. However, one should never give a platform for bad behavior.
Suzanne GriffinJanuary 4, 2021
VERY BEAUTIFUL! THANK YOU!
TomJanuary 4, 2021
I too am a grandson of 'Ok Port and have long tried to find solid information about him. I honor him and respect him. Heck, i became a notorious lawman too. Thank you John for writing this and greetings from Nauvoo.
CoreyJanuary 4, 2021
I have read pretty much everything President Benson has written and have found nothing racist, ultra right wing or conspiratorial in his writings. Nothing but love for God, church and family and a great love and respect for the US constitution and a warning of things to come which has proven prophetic. But most of all and most important is that the Holy Spirit has confirmed to me that he was a chosen servant of god, witnessed and strengthened one day as I was traveling to Star Valley Wyoming shortly after President Benson died, as we were approaching Preston where the turnoff to Whitney is we could see flowers everywhere and my wife said lets stop and see Pres. Benson's grave, so we turned of the highway and went to the cemetery in Whitney, there were literally hundreds if not thousands of flower memorials and other things but as we got out of the car and approached the gravesite the spirit that was their was unbelievable, one of the most powerful spiritual experiences, feelings of my life and I knew that he was a man of god.
Harold RustJanuary 4, 2021
It seems to me that a better solution would be a two-fold approach: First, every person or group posting comments or photos of any kind be clearly identified. This would be that all subscribers/contributors have some unique identity that ties the content directly to them. Even if it is a group response, one or more specific individuals must be identified. The consequences would be that the person submitting the information would be personally liable just like they are now if they write in a book or say something on radio or TV which causes grave harm to someone else. In other words, this would be a distinct form of accountability for everything on the internet without imposing liability on the site itself. In conjunction with this would be some form of civil fine (via arbitration) in which repeated offenses by a contributor could be taken to court of some kind. Anything that could make those who post pornography or outlandish statements would be held accountable and fined if they can't defend accuracy and truth of what they said. The second step would require the platforms to allow all material except for very specific descriptions of offensive material that is clearly offensive to a reasonable person. This would reduce the nit-picky and biased selections they now make in blocking content because one small group of people don't like what is being said. The key is accountability for both what content is included by contributors and also what content is eliminated by the platform organization. The second step
LarryJanuary 4, 2021
This was a well reasoned article that looked at both sides. One aspect of social media that wasn't addressed is the control the platforms exert on what information gets shared and what gets suppressed. The last election was a great example of this. The social media companies, two in particular, were clearly hostile to the conservative portion of their customers and exercised blatant censorship. Much has been written, by academics who have studied it and insiders who help reate it, about the power that social media exerts on attitudes and even behavior.
Jerel DoxeyJanuary 4, 2021
Beautiful, amazing photography. Thank you.
DJJanuary 4, 2021
After reading your article, I dug out my (grown) children's copy of The Long Winter, which lead me back to the original "Little House in the Big Woods". It's been a great way to spend my blah days while contending with COVID symptoms. Just
Elaine LaytonJanuary 4, 2021
I also thank him for his service. I am sure he will have the opportunity to again serve in the spirit world. I am thankful for all those who have this wonderful opportunity.
Grandma JaneJanuary 4, 2021
Thank you for your interesting and thought provoking program. I love your idea for studying the D&C. It will be a treat to find the one liners!
KathleenJanuary 4, 2021
This was most informative! I have read news articles about this, but wondered about all the implications. Thank you for this!
DawnJanuary 4, 2021
This made me laugh! I was wondering what the author would receive from his mother. I was not expecting that. Happy New Year!
CubbyJanuary 4, 2021
FINDING A NEEDED/USEFUL GIFT was hilarious. Love your articles!
Garfield CookJanuary 4, 2021
My wife and I remember Michael when he first started his career. We had him over to our home to perform at a Christmas gathering with our company executives. His talent was obvious from the beginning and he has only gotten better. We knew he would accomplish much and so he has. He has blessed the lives of many for good. May the Lord continue to bless him. Garfield Cook
Alysann CollotziJanuary 4, 2021
Hi Brother Stariing! This is Alysann Collotzi, in your ward. I just discovered this today. I loved it and will share it with my children!
Nada - January 3, 2021January 3, 2021
Beautiful! I have never heard this song done so beautifully. Thank you for sharing.
pamelaJanuary 3, 2021
Thank you so much Sister Isackson for this article. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son and the inevitable pain it has caused. You wrote things I myself feel everyday of holding onto pain, anger, resentment over things from the past. I feel many of us do, so I appreciate your candidness in writing about a difficult subject. It helped me very much and I will now re-read and try to overcome my own faults in this area. I love how your write. Thank you so much.
Mary JaneJanuary 3, 2021
Excellent article and so true for many of us! I am going to share this with my daughters....thank you for your insights.
tfJanuary 2, 2021
Tell him you are about to have a nervous breakdown, and he will have to take care of them all himself. (Maybe a note from your doctor to that effect) Ask his MIL to come and help?
Jeff LindsayJanuary 2, 2021
Does the existence of the Mona Lisa point to an artist? The more I learn from science, the more stunned I am that life and the universe was even possible. It is so breathtaking, so complex, so elegant, so artistic, from the folding of proteins and the endlessly marvelous machinery of our cells (ATP synthase and the spliceosome for starters) to the bizarrely balanced fundamental forces that keep the stars so delicately poised on the knife's edge between collapse into oblivion from their own gravity and catastrophic explosion from the massive nuclear forces raging within -- and more than just surviving to give life to planets, they are also tuned with a remarkable mathematical coincidence built into the nature of matter that allows them to be highly productive engines of creation, cranking out carbon and heavier elements that allow solar systems to abound in much more than mere hydrogen and helium. So much brilliance and beauty. Just figuring out how some of the endless inventions around us work earns scientists fame and Nobel Prizes, but woe unto those who say such marvels are anything but meaningless random coincidences.
Win BroadhurstJanuary 2, 2021
Beautiful! Truth masterfully written! Sweet encouragement in times of spiritual need for strength! Thank You!!
Dennis LisonbeeJanuary 1, 2021
This insightful article comes from the president of Hillsdale College, a Christian school. The Brigham Young University/Alpine School District Partnership, was responsible for spearheading the movement in Utah that took these Jefferson principles out of K12 curriculum. Thus, our children in Utah have become ignorant. And now Utahans have to go to an Eastern Christian school to gain this information.
Denise CottrellJanuary 1, 2021
would you be so kind as to send me a pdf file? [email protected]
pamela Morgan roderJanuary 1, 2021
I will echo the previous comments. Thank you for sharing this article. You used the word "authentic" and is a perfect word in contrast to the blasting Christmas music in the stores saying "its the hap happiest season of all..." Well, not to everyone, no. I will print this article and re-read to remind myself many of us struggle at this time of year. It's about Christ and what He brought to all of us. Thank you so much.
Linda WillisJanuary 1, 2021
This is a must read for all! Brilliant analogy and makes me smile and cringe at the same time.
GrandpaJanuary 1, 2021
May I gently suggest getting a quorum leader or even the bishop involved in teaching this man his duties and responibilites.
DorisJanuary 1, 2021
I wish you would have given some actual conversation ideas -- to not bring on more argumentative stances. The only thing I can think of is, "Okay......Okay......Okay.
LexaGraemeJanuary 1, 2021
Happy New Year.
KateDecember 31, 2020
Excellent advise. I would also strongly encourage this woman to follow Dr. Julie Hanks (drjuliehanks on instagram) who addresses this very topic often in her posts and teaches a class on Creating a Partnership Family, which would be very helpful.
Bob SDecember 31, 2020
A good piece. You touched on several very important topics.
Bruce BelnapDecember 31, 2020
The light of Christmas is in this woman's eyes and the spirit of Christmas is in her heart 365 days a year. One of the choice gifts that has been given to so many of us is Marilyn Hadd.
Rochelle HaleDecember 31, 2020
I like your raisin analogy. Often my husband and I recount the stagecoach story, where the safest driver is the one who hugs the mountain instead of seeing how close to the edge he can get. Sadly, I think too often people get offended by others or possibly question a point of doctrine, and they forget that God is the author. They may seek out ways to justify their actions, rather than strengthening their faith and seeking proper direction or answers to their concerns.
Maryann TaylorDecember 31, 2020
People do not leave the church because someone hurt their feelings. They leave because they don't have a strong testimony. Someone who is close to the Savior and committed to living the gospel does not stay home from church because of something someone else did. While it is true that we need to fellowship, serve, and show love for another, each of us, hopefully sooner than later, is accountable for our own commitment to the Savior.
Maryann TaylorDecember 31, 2020
Although I have compassion for this woman, I think she is in deep denial. "Good husbands" do not habitually verbally abuse their children, nor do they continuously "pout" and refuse to be supportive to their wives. I am disappointed in some of the advice given here because this wife has ALREADY tried discussing these issues with her husband and he isn't listening. She definitely needs outside support and should counsel with her Bishop, especially regarding the verbal abuse. I think this situation is also a wake-up call for all young women who are yet unmarried. Before you marry, discuss with your potential spouse how they feel about sharing COMPLETELY in caring for their children and make sure they really WANT children. Then invite them to babysit with you and observe their behavior. Men are not doing women a "favor" when they care for their children. They have an equal responsibility, which goes far beyond bringing home a paycheck.
Kathy GibbDecember 31, 2020
I study multiple venues of the Come Follow Me study and yours never disappoints. It always gives more depth and understanding. I appreciate the personal experiences you share, they add real life to my study and often times bring back poignant experiences I’ve had in my own life’s journey. I look forward to another year at the well, I’ll be drinking deeply.
Jill WilliamsDecember 31, 2020
Thank you Sister Proctor, for this excellent article. I some how missed it before. I will copy this and send this to others.
Melissa MarkhamDecember 31, 2020
I feel silly adding to this already great advice. But, girl, I HEAR YOU!!! I wish we could meet at a park and let our toddlers play while we kvetch about entertaining small children during a worldwide pandemic--while everyone else binge watches tv shows and takes up new hobbies. (Ok, no one has had it that easy. But still...) Even with a supportive husband, I've been pushed to my limit so many times these past months! The big thing for my husband and me has been communication, honestly telling each other our needs and seeking to understand the others' needs. A wise friend gave me marriage advice once--don't be a martyr in your marriage! We're really trying to balance standing our ground when our needs are not being met, but also sacrificing so that the others' needs can be met. I can't help but wonder if your husband sees the difficulty of having small children during a pandemic and is fleeing--in his own way. Rather than wade into the muck, he rationalizes that it's your mud puddle and you need to deal with it. It helps to break it down into small, do-able steps. With my husband and I, what worked was to schedule specific times when he would have the kids. For us, it works for him to entertain the kids after work while I make dinner. He's also able to get most Friday afternoons free, so we alternate Friday afternoons. He may take our older son out for some "man time" while I may go get a pedicure or do some shopping on my own. It hasn't been perfect and there are still some fights, tears, and yelling at kids. But there's far more appreciation, love, family outings, games of hide and go seek with the kids, and peace! I hope you and your husband are able to work through this because I know you'll be closer than before. I hope he's able to see the joy of fatherhood and not just the burden. Wishing you success...
Elizabeth LeeDecember 31, 2020
Thank you!
AyseDecember 31, 2020
Thank you for sharing your insights with such simple clarity. I love your articles! Happy New Year
ShareeDecember 31, 2020
I think this woman should show her husband this article. He may not even realize what he is doing.
AyseDecember 30, 2020
I get your point but how do you explain our bill of “rights”. I believe as good followers of Christ we do indeed have rights and responsibilities. Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. And our responsibilities are to tend to the weak and needy not just our family, fellow church members and friends. As a society it is apparent we are not unified and are not ready to care for all in some way, Maybe we need a larger entity to fill that gap. And you are right that someone will have to pay. Are we ready to pay higher taxes? I’m ok with that because the ripples any individual can make with any help they may provide for others isn’t enough for the problems we have in this country. I think that we should at least try the experiment that has worked already in countries like Germany, Denmark et al where citizens do not just talk of caring for others but set up ways to actually help the poor without taking away their dignity; we can always improve on the good foundations already established and build from that. The characteristics of those wicked leaders you mentioned from the Book of Mormon we’ve had a good taste of today : of their deceptions, lies, lack of concern for their fellow man and their self-serving justifications not to mention nepotism. Amalikiah, King Noah pre-shadow uncomfortably some political leaders we see today. The pretense of believing in the constitution yet systematically trying to destroy our democracy has been encouraged by many who follow like sheep the loud raucous voices. Wasn’t it Mosish who warned us of “how much iniquity doth one wicked king cause to be committed “. I hear in the Book of Mormon of being warned against political leaders who lie, desire power at all costs, who incite fear, further conspiracies and basically desire to have a kingdom of one party. Before we already judge too early of the in coming administration maybe we should encourage our politicians to work more together to raise a true title of liberty for all.
Kim BDecember 30, 2020
I didn’t read every comment here so I’m sorry if I am repeating. There is a difference between a value and a policy, and the Church makes a distinction between doctrines and policies. In the article I didn’t see any mention of when a political party opposes a church doctrine - such as the sanctity of life while endorsing abortions. There are others. How do church members reconcile their support for a political party whose actions contradict doctrine?
Garfield CookDecember 30, 2020
David Reimann asks why is the universe expanding if the Steady State Theory is correct. Because it would be pulsating, expanding and contracting. The universe seems to be a pulsating one, with the overall process being adiabatic and isentropic as in all stationary state systems.
Gene RobertsDecember 30, 2020
Thank you for a thought provoking article. I did notice every example used was a country outside the United States, when will people realize that our "Government" is as guilty of these acts as anyone else Groupthink is here and now
Julie Driggs KiserDecember 30, 2020
I am so grateful to have grown up with you “Tag”. Wonderful friends and amazing women have blessed my life and I count you as an extra special influence for me. Thank you for sharing this experience with me and others. My heart has been touched as I listened and reconnected with your beautiful soul these past few moments. Love always.
Andrew J. CurrieDecember 30, 2020
Hallelujah, Bro Fogley! I, too, for decades have searched for a scholarly or inspired explanation of Moroni's curious wording of that all important invitation to know if The Book of Mormon is "not true". It is wonderful to have your thorough and insightful explanation that ties the entire chapter together so well. I had contented myself to conclude: The Lord encourages people to trust Him and experiment on His word; and just prior to Moroni's closing is the injunction "...for ye receive no witness until after the trial of your faith" (Ether 12:6). Hence, when the Lord does not clearly reveal The Book of Mormon is untrue, the investigator is obligated to act upon the book's teachings as if they are true. In doing so, the investigator opens himself to the gifts of the Spirit and will shortly receive a positive confirmation that The Book of Mormon is a divinely inspired guide to bringing us back to Heavenly Father's presence through the grace of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. Thank you again for sharing your scholarly endeavors.
Ken MazzantiDecember 30, 2020
To the author: Regarding the phrase "if these things are not true" The words in the entire book are those of Joseph Smith as he spoke in his own day. Joseph used the French language term "adieu" to bid farewell because it was in common usage in his day. The entire book is a direct transliteration from the reformed Egyptian that changed over 1,000 years of usage to the English language of his time. Imagine trying to communicate with an Englishman in the year 1020? Regarding the term in question, try stating the phrase with the emphasis on 'true' rather than on 'not'. Hence, "If these things are not TRUE" and it makes better sense in our time.
David ReimannDecember 29, 2020
From an astronomy class I took in college in 1967, another theory was presented: The Steady State Theory. In essence, this theory states the universe has always existed. From a Gospel perspective, that makes the most sense. The problem with the Big Bang Theory, is where did the huge mass of matter come from, and what happened before that? The only true logical explanation is that the universe has always existed. Why is it expanding? I don't know, but I can deal with that easier than trying to figure out where a gigantic mass of matter came from some 13 billion years ago.
DorisDecember 29, 2020
Wonderful and touching story. Special are the people in it and the way you told their story. So very touching.... Thank you so very much.
DorisDecember 29, 2020
Thank you for great and simple recommendations. Our city only allows 10 gallons of gas storage, so it makes it hard to justify a generator -- even though I would love one!! Your reminders are great and got my mind going again. Seems we get all excited, purchase, and then let things drop. I need to do better!
Lynne HessDecember 29, 2020
This is an incredible woman. I feel blessed to know her. I wish I had known her when she did this. She truly is one of the Lord's greatest accomplishments!
Stephanie ClarkDecember 29, 2020
I always loved attending this production. Thanks for sharing your experience. I wish the Stake would put this play on again. It always brought the true meaning of Christmas.
John R CarpenterDecember 29, 2020
For anyone who has faced death in the military, as a peace officer or who has rock bottomed on a dependency issue. There is Faith, Hope and Prayer even though one is scared of death both physically and spiritually. Psalm 23:4 King James Version 4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. I have felt and faced great evil too many times when I was in the military, as a peace officer and those inner fears where everything seemed to fall apart. Every single time, I knew I could die, for I knew that no one will leave these mortal life alive. I saw people dying and the dead and at times life seemed hopeless that all I could do was cry with the hollowness echoing within. I resolved to myself to do my duty first to God, then Country and my family. I knew that I all of this would be for my own good whether I died then or at some later time. I gave my soul to God and my Savior and went through the motions that I needed to do. And when the danger or evil was past, I thanked Them for surviving to fight another day. It was never easy and no doubt there will challenges ahead until I die the final death of mortality.
Amanda Crane ScottDecember 29, 2020
I remember attending and watching it. It was beautiful. I wish our stake continued this tradition.
Robert D StarlingDecember 29, 2020
As usual, Daniel has created an eloquent explanation of eternal truths. I'm going to print out this article and give it to a family member who is struggling with his faith. But I wonder if some readers might confuse the Big Bang with an ex nihilo "creation"? That is, the springing into existence of something out of nothing? Just as Daniel "created" his article from existing words and quotes, the universe was "created" from pre-existing element, even if that element was in the form of spirit or energy in a "finer" state. (the following is from the Encyclopedia of Mormonism article on "Matter") Addressing the issue of creation ex nihilo, Joseph Smith asserted in one of his final sermons: "Now, the word 'create'; does not mean to create out of nothing; it means to organize; the same as a man would organize materials and build a ship. Hence, we infer that God had materials to organize the world out of chaos-chaotic matter, which is element. Element had an existence from the time [God] had. The pure principles of element are principles which can never be destroyed; they may be organized and reorganized, but not destroyed. They had no beginning and can have no end" (HC 6:308-309). Thus should the Big Bang be described as the Big Organization of physical "matter" out of eternal "element"?
Robert D StarlingDecember 29, 2020
Thank you Michael, for this insight into your soul and your songs. Yes, Jesus came to "claim" us. As I read your article I thought about the word Alma the Younger used, that he was "snatched" by Christ from the jaws of hell and from the "exquisite" spiritual pain that he was suffering. I've often wondered about his use of that term "snatched". I believe our beloved Savior is always waiting and looking for the opportunity to "snatch" us to his bosom. All we have to do is (as you wrote) "let Him in."
Ginger DurbinDecember 29, 2020
Scot and Maurine, Thank you for giving me some excitement about the Doctrine and Covanents. I must confess, this is my least-looked-forward-to book in the study of the scriptures, but I’m hoping to turn over a new leaf this year.
Robert D StarlingDecember 28, 2020
Yes, thank you for re-publishing this article here at Meridian. It is so unfortunate that most young people today have never even heard of "1984" and the warnings that it contains. The older 1956 movie version has been colorized and can be seen here for free: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wl4kt4kUE88 Watch it with your children and discuss how we can protect our freedoms.
Barbara ParkerDecember 28, 2020
Is it possible, or has anyone studied the idea that the Three Wise Men could have been sent from the Lost 10 Tribes? Clearly, they would have been looking for the Messiah, have their own scripture, and be from an obscure origin as well.
Ken MazzantiDecember 28, 2020
I applaud your inclusion of this article from Imprimus. Our nation is under attack by those who deny God, encourage totalitarianism, and the enslavement of humanity-basically, Satan's plan from the beginning of time. We older folks know the meaning of liberty and love of country. Many younger parents do not for they have been schooled in 'groupthink' by our education system, and are passing that same destructive ideology, many times unknowingly, to their children because they simply don't know any better. Perhaps these ideas will stir their thoughts and rekindle the concepts of liberty and love of this great country.
Maryann TaylorDecember 28, 2020
Great article, however, loving someone does not mean you must engage in a political conversation with them. It's my home and I expect the people in it to respect a gentle request that there will be no political discussion. The fact that someone would actually argue about whether you will discuss politics in your home is a surefire sign that if the conversation were to take place, they are not going to be respectful. We live in a day when shades of gray have become very black and white in politics. There is no way to "discuss" issues such as abortion, socialism, or attempts to destroy the basic principles of the constitution, with people who have closed their minds. Better to talk about a multitude of other topics available for discussion that will not engender contention.
Deniese DrakeDecember 28, 2020
There is no doubt the Lord sends the right missionaries to the right place for the right reason.
PaulineDecember 28, 2020
Along with writing things down as you suggest (to find the “story” we are telling ourselves) I find Nonviolent Communication to be very helpful. Feeling angry, frustrated, or annoyed signals an unmet need. Once that has been identified we can ask for what we need without attachment and attend to it ourselves.
Helen CDecember 28, 2020
Thank you for this illuminating exposition on analyzing our minds. It adds a depth to the thought work I am currently studying through Brooke Castillo’s “Model”. Very useful! Regards,
Virginia RockwellDecember 28, 2020
Thank you very much for this thoughtful and informative article. It is so true. I am 75 and I mourn the country in which I grew up. I will send this to my family and post it on Facebook in hopes that others will read and be enlightened or reminded.
RhianDecember 28, 2020
Excellent!
Maryann TaylorDecember 27, 2020
WOW! Beautiful. Thanks so much for sharing this!
BillDecember 27, 2020
Something to consider about Heavenly Father's spirit children, is that "a third-part" chose to follow Satan. To me that doesn't mean 1/3 followed Satan, but a third-part. They are not the same.
Elizabeth W AthansDecember 27, 2020
You have a great gift of sharing your experiences! This was magical! Thanks for sharing! Liz and Steve Athans
Linda BurnsDecember 27, 2020
I just discovered you!!!! I love your writing! I've only read two articles--the one about the long hard winter and this one BUT I love your talent and thank you for developing it and sharing it! May our Father Heaven bless you and yours..
Bobbi ChandlerDecember 26, 2020
We make a cranberry jello salad ever since I made it for a ward dinner as a teenager. The ward supplied the recipe. It is 1 large box raspberry jello 1 can crushed pineapple u drained 1 can whole cranberries 1 heaping tablespoon tang 1 cup chopped walnuts 1 1/4 c boiling water 3/4 7up Combine boiling water and jello and stir u til dissolved Add the rest of the ingredients and stir, breaking up the whole cranberries. Chill until set. Combine 8 ounces Philadelphia cream cheese, softened and 8 oz sour cream with a hand mixer until smooth. Spread over top of set jello. Enjoy!!!
Woodsinger57December 25, 2020
I have long believed that the wise men from the East were priests/Rabbis living in Babylon. A small percentage of the Jews returned after the Babylonian captivity and right up until the 20th century their was a thriving authoritative Jewish community living in what was the remnants of the Babylonian empire - now Iraq. It would make sense to me that God would send simple shepherds to witness the birth of his son as well as spiritual leaders in the "eastern" community to bring the word back to the people in that part of his kingdom. The fact that we hear little about "eastern" Judaism in the new testament doesn't mean that righteous witnesses were not available there
EveDecember 25, 2020
Gorgeous!
KarinDecember 25, 2020
Thank you very much for helping to turn a challenging experience into a an opportunity to learn and grow. How easily we judge ourselves for struggling in those difficult experiences instead of seeing in them the love of the Lord in allowing us to grow and learn
Sally SmithDecember 25, 2020
It is 4:18 am Christmas morning and I am feeling down. I picked Meridian Magazine to lift my spirits and found this article. It is a miracle !! It has lifted me up. Thank you.
Jane doeDecember 24, 2020
This is so beautiful to read...such a beautiful comparison to our situation in 2020. Thank you so very much for your insights... this article gave me hope
Jane doeDecember 24, 2020
So grateful for this message!! I'm sitting here all alone on Christmas Eve thinking and praying that I can be with family next year... Plus my mom passed away December 1st 2020, I'm just in the midst of sorrow. Reading this message just now has given me hope and a moment of peace with my Savior. Thank you.
Betty TownsendDecember 24, 2020
Wow! What a beautiful reminder of the Lord's birth and the irony of it being on a wall which was the antithesis of love. Thanks for this great painting.
Anna-Sophia McLaughlinDecember 24, 2020
Thankyou for your astute observations in this timely article! I whole-heartedly agree. Let's just focus on the Savior, proclaim the good news and celebrate!
Dave GrandyDecember 24, 2020
Thanks, Marilyn. I can imagine the play there in the Montpelier tabernacle.
SKDecember 24, 2020
This daddy-daughter duo is a blessing that came from the pandemic. They have blessed my life so much in 2020.
James RawsonDecember 24, 2020
Gary, you’re spot on as usual! Everyone who wishes me Happy Holidays, I always wish them a Very Merry Christmas!
Ken MazzantiDecember 24, 2020
There are many stars in the sky, but they do not lead us anyplace in particular. It is our earth that is rotating round and round. The new star of Bethlehem is mentioned on the night of the Savior's birth. It was proximate enough to lead the shepherds to the place where the baby Jesus was laying in a manger. Our sun is a star locaterd 93 million miles away, but we really don't want that star too close or the consequences would not be good for us. However, the Star of Bethlehem stayed there long enough for the Magi to follow it from the east using visual navigation, and it first led them to Jerusalem where they met with Herod, the Great. The Magi then had to make inquiry sufficient to lead them to the town of Bethlehem to kneel before the Christ Child and present their gifts. As our earth rotates, most stars appear to 'move' in the heavens, but it is this earth that is really rotating and not the stars. The "North Star" is stable enough for navigational purposes, but the wise men came from the east traveling the direction of the rotation of the earth. So, how did the Magi stay on course for those weeks, months, or possibly years following a star in the heavens? God can make the earth stop it's rotation as he did for Joshua (this stoppage is actually taken into consideration by astrophysicists in making celestial calculations). He can make the earth reverse it's rotation as he did in the days of Enoch just prior to the flood. The people of the Book of Mormon experienced a day and a night and a day of light, but did the people of Jerusalem? Why was it not dark for 3 days in Jerusalem following the Crucifixion. That is where the Savior actually died. The people of the New World were wicked enough to have their land completely torn apart with whole cities buried, burned or flooded with millions killed. And yet, the people of Jerusalem, who actually killed the Son of God, were spared those consequences for 40 years. There are so many questions.
ClaudiaDecember 24, 2020
You have helped me in the perfect way. Your suffering has been consecrated for good, as He promised.
JeanDecember 24, 2020
That was beautiful!!! Their voices are so pure. This Christmas hymn is one of my favorites. It has a great message. This rendition was soul stirring. Thank you!
Donna MalanDecember 24, 2020
While Linus was reciting the Christmas story, his security blanket was not In his hand,, but dropped to the ground beside him. While focused on Christ, he did not need his blanket. There is a message there for each of us.
Lisa ReisingDecember 24, 2020
Thank you for sharing these poignant thoughts - I needed to read this today. Perspective is everything. Remembering the things pointed out - key! Comparisons to the experiences of others: poison.
Carol AnnDecember 24, 2020
We need more of the "silent majority" especially in today's world to speak up for truth and light in so many ways! Yes, it was a beautiful thing to return 4 years ago to the greeting from the White House, a sincere Merry Christmas! I pray that we will never again settle again as a country for the secular...happy holidays. Merry Christmas! as we celebrate Christ's birth, and may God bless us, every one!
AnonymousDecember 23, 2020
Thank you for this article! It's exactly what I needed. As a divorced woman whose kids are grown, a temple ordinance worker who is no longer allowed to serve because only a select few are chosen to do so, I'm feeling very alone and forgotten and unvalued. Thank you for this reminder that Christmas is really about the Savior who can heal my hurts and dry my tears.
MargaretDecember 23, 2020
What a sweet reminder!
Keith WilsonDecember 23, 2020
Nicely done, Br. Marsh. I suspect that one reason for your article is because you too have been blessed with a cheery disposition. This coming from one who knows you fairly well. Br. Keith Wilson
SherryDecember 23, 2020
Thank you so much for all you do to testify of Christ and share with so many. May His choicest blessings be yours this Christmas season and always ❤️
Elizabeth SmithDecember 23, 2020
Timely re-read from one of my favorite authors.
Colleen StoutDecember 23, 2020
Dear Brother Marsh, as I read this, I could feel Joseph's hand reaching out to mine. I hope we are all feeling touched by his love and example. Merry Christmas!! You are lighting the world with this article.
Maryann TaylorDecember 23, 2020
I believe that Joseph's cheerful disposition was a sacred gift from God to help him through his trials. Oh, how I pray I will be worthy to meet this amazing Prophet of God one day!
Maryann TaylorDecember 23, 2020
It should be remembered that the prophet's mother, Lucy, was not able to make the trip West and that may be another reason that Emma did not go with the saints. Emma also had a great sense of humor---one time some politicians stopped over to stay in her inn and she served something similar to popovers. She commented that she had decided to call these popovers "candidates" because they were puffed up and full of hot air.
Delores HughesDecember 23, 2020
What a beautiful story. God makes miracles happen.
JuliannaDecember 23, 2020
Loved this. Thanks for the story of your courageous Grandma.
Harrison BryantDecember 23, 2020
This story is great. Many events like this have happened and people still do not believe that there is a GOD. I testify that our father watches over us and h did send his son. In the name of Jesus Christ amen!
Jacqueline RichardsDecember 23, 2020
Happy Christmas Gary! From a very soggy and locked down UK!! I like 'Happy Christmas' because 'Merry'makes me think of people getting tiddly! But 'Merry Christmas' is definitely preferable to that silly 'Happy Holidays'. Keep safe in this very dangerous world and God Bless. Jackie
Steve LawranceDecember 23, 2020
Are Samuel the Lamanite and others from the New World possible candidates for the Wise Men?
Ann RobinsonDecember 22, 2020
I agree with this previous commentator, I was very disappointed in this article which I thought would be about the church and our prophet. Instead it was more of Coppins whining about how he hates Trump. A good opportunity was missed. But I guess I should have expected that, it was,afterall, the Atlantic Magazine. What should we have expected.
HeatherDecember 22, 2020
What an amazing and inspiring man. Where can I purchase a copy of one of the paintings?
Susan D'AndreaDecember 22, 2020
Excellent article, Mariah. There is a wonderful article in the August 1992 Ensign magazine, "My Great Great Grandmother, Emma Hale Smith" by Gracia M. Jones. Her books "Emma and Joseph" and "Emma and Lucy" are great too.
Lynn D JohnsonDecember 22, 2020
Wonderful to read the team, Peterson plus the late Hamblin. Always a joy. The wise men were certainly Nephi, Lehi, and Samuel, all of whom disappear before the sign given of the birth of Jesus. They knew when He would be born. There was reasonable sources of gold and silver in the land of Nephi and around Zarahemla, so it would be logical they took some with them. They could easily buy what they needed. They spoke a version of Hebrew, so it would have been easy for them to master the language and communicate with the folks in Palestine. Who else would it be? IMHO.
SpencerDecember 22, 2020
This was a very inspiring article. Thank you Wally
Charles McClellandDecember 22, 2020
Thank you, Mariah, for this well written and informative article on Emma Smith. I appreciate her more now than ever.
Ron BarnesDecember 22, 2020
Who could blame Emma for staying behind when the Saints went west. She had suffered enough in her life. A man like Joseph needed a woman like Emma to help him endure what he needed to endure. Her own endurance was equal to his, and in some ways it was greater. They made a great team.
Chuck SanfordDecember 21, 2020
Many years ago, I watched an episode on TV about this time. Their friend, made it to their cabin (half-dead from the cold) and gave the girls a small piece of candy cane, so they would have something for Christmas. It was very touching, especially now, as we do things that follow what our Savior would do.
Gladys OwensDecember 21, 2020
Wonderful Article!
Margaret BourneDecember 21, 2020
I can't remember if it was President Kimball or President Hinckley that said, when asked, that we would receive the rest of the gold plates when we had sufficiently read what we already have. In other words, if we don't read what we have, why would we be given the rest? Good point!
Maryann TaylorDecember 21, 2020
I have found that when I cut way back on sugar intake that the natural sweetness and full flavors of fruits and vegetables are much more pronounced. Real food tastes so much better when our taste buds haven't been overwhelmed with sugar or junk food.
AnonymousDecember 21, 2020
I honestly thought this article missed the mark. I was excited at first to read about his interview with President Nelson. However, it consisted of only a few lines at the beginning and the end. Most of this article was a personal reflection on the author's own experience with his religion, "Mormonism," as he referred to it. Even at that, in some places, he straddled the line with his own opinions instead of facts. I personally was offended by his political swipe of President Trump. His liberal politics then exposed himself further with continued "fawning" over his fellow New Englander, Romney. I was left with an unsettled feeling about the true motive of this article which could have been really good, but fell flat!
Arlene BascomDecember 21, 2020
Great advice, Carolyn. This is one of many inspirational ideas I have gained from your articles. Thank you so much for sharing your life and wonderful ideas with us. I love the fact that your ideas are all so practical and usable, but that you always add the spiritual dimension as well. You are a true inspiration to me!
GayeDecember 21, 2020
I really enjoyed this article, but I believe you made one mistake. It was Cap Garland who went with Almanzo, not Almanzo's brother Royal. As this is a story of real people and really events, Cap needs to to be remembered and honored for his sacrifice for the town. I love your suggestion to read this story as a way to teach and build resilience. Family history stories can do the same thing. Thank you for your insights.
Ann SDecember 21, 2020
Scot & Maurine, What a special Christmas podcast. My heart is full, my love and appreciation for all you do to lift and inspire is overflowing at this time. Please have a wonderful and very Merry Christmas and a blessed 2021!!
Mark W MinerDecember 20, 2020
Yes, THIS truly is what the Temple and the Gospel are all about. Thank you for recording such a touching experience, a bright reminder of the Son during the painful losses of mortality.
Ron TitusDecember 20, 2020
His journals and stories like this should be uploaded to FamilySearch.org. I checked and only found 4 pictures, but NO STORIES!
Duane and Chris HallDecember 20, 2020
Scot and Maurine - Oh, how we loved this beautiful Christmas podcast. Each word, each story was so carefully chosen and along with the stunning music in the background, touched us and filled our hearts with joy. We feel so blessed to have had you share your knowledge and testimonies of the Book of Mormon with us this past year. Your generous hearts and pure love of Christ continually teach us. May your home be filled to overflowing this Christmas with the same joy and love that you continually share with us
JaredDecember 20, 2020
Definitely not an endorsement and I believe this is an effort to safeguard our freedom to believe.
Rosalie & Howard PiersonDecember 19, 2020
Thank you for another life lesson! How to enjoy the simple things, especially oranges and nuts! We are laughing with your wife about her stretched stocking! Love your stories!
cdDecember 17, 2020
Beautiful! Thank you for pointing us to Christ our Redeemer.
MaryAnnDecember 17, 2020
I do lots of large puzzles. ‘‘Tis is one of the hardest I have ever done. Definitely not for children. We bought it to do with the grand children, but didn’t have the time while visiting. I did it and it’s nowglued and waiting to be framed. I certainly don’t want to do It again.
Gladys OwensDecember 17, 2020
Beautiful!
Wanda NovakDecember 17, 2020
My journal arrived today. It is more beautiful than I expected. My one vIsit to Nauvoo years ago needs to be repeated. What an amazing place. While I love journals and planners, the theme of this one pulled at my heart. One of our daughters and her family recently moved to Nauvoo. The hour drive we have enjoyed for the past five years to visit them has stretched to a day and a half. Now each day when I look at this beautiful book I will think of them and imagine them in those very streets and buildings portrayed in the inspiring photos. Thank you for this precious gift.
Marilynne LinfordDecember 17, 2020
If the link doesn’t work, email me and I will send you a pdf. My email is: [email protected]. Thanks for your interest.
KathleenDecember 17, 2020
Beautifully worded as usual and once again my heart swells in longing to return to these sacred edifices.
Billie NicholsonDecember 16, 2020
Thank you for all your efforts this year. These podcasts have touched my life and enlarged my understanding.
SusanDecember 16, 2020
You could have stepped through those choices in another order and eliminated the surrogacy leaving no good options, which is what the Catholic church's dignitas humanae says
Holly DudleyDecember 16, 2020
Thank you so much for this great gift & for your spiritual insights. Unfortunately I have had no luck in downloading. Would you mind sending me some instructions. I get as far as the page to manage blogs but when I paste in the link you gave it still does not come up. Thank you so much.
M MansellDecember 16, 2020
On the Christmas Eve that was two months after my mother’s passing, I was retiring to bed and feeling peace and joy about the next day. I felt ready. All things were prepared but I was also realizing it was my first Christmas without my mother. Soon after I was comfortably in bed and pondering, a vision came of my mother and she was standing in the air in glory. She was whole and complete in her temple clothes but without a veil. In her last months of life, she had had her left leg amputated just below the knee due to diabetic complications. Now she was in a most whole and glorious state with bright light all around her and a radiant smile. She did not speak but I received a message of her love for her family. I arose, after the vision closed, and typed up a letter of her love to my children, made copies and rolled them up with a ribbon around them and placed them in each sock to be read Christmas morning.It was also wonderful to relate this experience to my siblings and help them feel at peace with her passing and to rejoice in her graduation to a much better life.
JannaDecember 16, 2020
Thank you. What a delightful party.
Beth TDecember 16, 2020
Thank You!!! I was touched by your gratitude “ I thank Heavenly Father for giving me an exciting idea that produced a tangible positive. ” Grateful He sustained you through your illness & blessed us all through your writings. Fabulous!!!
Dianna PotterDecember 16, 2020
I have a sister in law say " I've never seen a family with a work ethic like your family". My brother, sister and I learned by example and chores all our lives. We were required to have our beds made before we left our rooms by school age. Do I regret these lessons? No, now over 5 decades later that lesson remains. Now my granddaughter at 6 knows grandma's expectation and we do it together.
David ChristiansenDecember 16, 2020
When I was in the LTM (yes, I'm that old) in Hawaii, Cleon Skousen spoke. He suggested the reason we do not have the sealed portion of the plates is that we are not yet good enough students of what we already have. He also suggested that if we had that portion then we would be held accountable for that as well. Where much is given........
Edi WinbergDecember 15, 2020
What a beautiful story. I feel your pain. I moved from Southern California to Alberta Canada. i still haven't warmed up.. Our daughter lives in Virginia and the weather was very nice. Merry Christmas to you and your family.
MarJean LewisDecember 15, 2020
We have so enjoyed your podcasts this year. You have helped us love the Book of Mormon more and more. Thank you for your willingness to share your experiences.
JaimeDecember 15, 2020
So grateful it is Taipei. With Hong Kong closed, we desperately need a temple to perform ordinances where Chinese characters can be read. Grateful familysearch is working on a system to turn these characters into western pronunciations so we can continue if we had to. Pray for the people in Taiwan. China is threatening.
Janna Stout MorrellDecember 15, 2020
This was such a beautiful article and just what I needed today! Also, it is fantastic that you would give away such a book! I’m excited to read it! Thank you, Thank you, thank you!
Linda Starr WinansDecember 15, 2020
AMEN! Strangers no more.... What a marvelous story. THANKS for sharing! Merry Christmas to you both from snowy Wisconsin!
michael edwardsDecember 15, 2020
stop washing their clothes, cooking whatever they want at meal time, and driving them wherever they want to go and then see how quickly they get their little behinds in gear. honestly the parents of today are a joke.
CherieDecember 15, 2020
Thank your for your insightful words, your optimism, and for the free book. I look forward to reading it! I’m grateful for your positive contribution to my day!
Tanya NeiderDecember 14, 2020
For those of you who wish to obtain a pdf version of the flyers/infographs, please message me on Facebook (Tanya Anderson Neider).
C M RonaldDecember 14, 2020
Hi there. I really liked the article. I have one question... Jared, Alma, Amulek were all in the Old Testament. When Jesus Christ came, He taught us how to pray with 'The Lord's Prayer' for example... So I guess I'm a bit confused as to why pray after B.C/Old Testament examples...
LexaGraemeDecember 14, 2020
Readers, please know that not all children of adoption go through some type of devastating primal loss. There are children of adoption that understand their birth parents just might have loved them so much and knew they deserved something better than what they could provide. Their adopted family IS their family. This is the case in my family.
Mike GriffithDecember 14, 2020
More intolerance and exclusion from the crowd that preaches "tolerance and inclusion" to everyone else.
Jennifer L ChurchillDecember 14, 2020
Cindy, Thank you for your beautiful description of what life can be like when the torrential rain and wind seem to be tearing you apart and then the sweet, sweet, comfort of our Savior and loved ones who form this united covering to strengthen and unify and hold you up when all else seems to fail. Despite months ahead of my husband's passing, in which, I prepared myself for this eventuality, you are never actually prepared when the moment happens. In the months that would follow I was again unprepared to lose my apartment and the financial assistance, I had been receiving. I was broke and homeless..Then again this month I have found myself in the same predicament. Through all this, the one thing that never wavered was the love and support of my family. I am blessed with five other siblings and my love for them has grown by leaps and bounds and they have pulled that "canopy" of support and understanding around me. I have chosen to stay close to our Heavenly Father and Savior. I have not once walked alone through this even if at times as I cried myself to sleep over the loss of my dearest companion. I know this is long, but thank you for allowing me to share this with you.
Jeff and Wendy HerbertDecember 14, 2020
It is with great joy I read Elder Dube’s prayer. We were taught the Gospel of Jesus Christ by Reg Nield shortly before leaving Zimbabwe 42 years ago. I will never forget the beautiful Spirit I felt standing for the first time on that Chapel site in Highlands It comes as no surprise a Temple will built there.
Anita EDecember 14, 2020
Loved your article. I also served in Brazil and know exactly what you meant!
LewisDecember 14, 2020
In many ways, Christmas is the hardest holiday for me to celebrate, because joy of the Savior is far too often lost in the materialism of our hustle and bustle to celebrate in just the "right" way. Your story allows us to refocus our efforts and lift our vision a bit higher. When we studied this week in Moroni about charity, I was reminded once again of the pure love of Christ that must accompany all that we do. Thank you for sharing this gift with us. May all of our Christmas seasons be filled with that pure love of Christ as well.
MichelleDecember 14, 2020
This article brought me a lot of peace and a course correction today. Im dealing w a difficult situation that i cant see being resolved anytime soon and my heart hurts. God does know and love us all. Thank you for these reminders.
ChappDecember 13, 2020
All fiat money fails. Simple as that. If you think that the church can use current money to start a bank, when that money fails, you are dreaming. This article is spot on, but the solution isn't the church. The solution is having real money and real skills that will be in demand. Very good article and timely. Had no idea it was this bad.
Detective Christopher LeGrow--Omaha Police Department.December 13, 2020
I was a missionary in Columbus, Ohio from 1980-1982. Columbus was a cluster city for Cambodian Refugees. We helped them with cars, apartments, clothes. They came to Ohio in winter. Horrible experience for people that have never been cold in their lives. Their stories at first were unbelievable but when the same stories were told by different people the magnitude of their horrific experience became clear. They were a sweet and humble people. Is there some way I can help? Donation etc.
pornpicsDecember 13, 2020
Wish You All The Best In 2021!
KimDecember 12, 2020
Loved this. The sensitivity and tenderness in the authors response, validating and encouraging those in this situation was beautifully done.
Cary HolmquistDecember 11, 2020
That’s what we would all like/need—whether from Santa or someone else on the other side of the veil, the gift would be most welcome. What a great wish from a heart which has turned to her fathers and mothers!
Mark BishopDecember 11, 2020
I truly feel my fallen nature, even as a struggle to be kind and faithful. Didn't Jesus say that only one was good, even our Father in Heaven? I pray for His mercy for myself and everyone else in this world of disappointment and struggle. It is only through the merits of Jesus Christ that any of us have any chance at all.
Becky OttesonDecember 11, 2020
Thankful to Sister Webb for this thoughtful, and thought provoking lesson.
Jane E BrayDecember 11, 2020
Thanks so much for this uplifting and inspiring story of a new way to not only look at, but celebrate Christmas!!! HUGS Kindness matters more than monetary things.
MJSDecember 11, 2020
This is not an easy road. But it can be a consecrating road. My experience is different in origin, but the lessons may be parallel. Her disabilities, and inabilities, whatever they are exactly, are not eternal. How does she show her husband that she loves him? What daily actions or responses demonstrate her heart? Is there substance there, and can he see the eternal future in the joy of that day when all these mortal handicaps fall away? I was just rereading 2Corinthians 4:17 this morning: "For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory." We feel the affliction is not 'light' now that we're living it, but before we came to this earth we saw and understood the 'glory' as we cannot on this side of the veil. That was a powerful insight to me at a point of need. Who is your wife as a daughter of God who will have all losses restored in that glory which is to come? Can you learn to place the burdens of those present losses at the Savior's feet, and through the power of his love and presence find lightness of heart? Ask and keep asking to be able to see her as the Savior sees her. Create, use, and recognize a support system. Get care for yourself, get medical or counseling support grounded in the gospel, remember that your own needs matter--don't just subsume them in being a caretaker, that's unsustainable and not what God requires of you or wants for you--but there may be a path of happiness here still. Prayers and hope go with you.
MatDecember 11, 2020
I'm not sure how Mark Skousen, presumably a relative of Cleon Skousen, is considered an unbiased reviewer. Cleon Skousen's and Ezra Taft Benson's political views have a lot of overlap. Cleon Skousen's politics are something Matthew Harris discusses, not entirely favorably. I appreciate the exhaustive research Matt Harris has done and plan to purchase this book. It is helpful to understand what went on behind the scenes in church leadership and the efforts of Apostle Benson's senior leaders to reign in his political activism which was often done over the pulpit. A recognition that not all church leaders were in agreement helps free me up to develop my own moral frameworks as an active member of the church who sometimes sees political issues differently than some of the church leaders. When we work to create a voting block among church members, creating a cultural attitude that only certain right-wing political views are considered acceptable, we end up losing some of our valued young people, among other valued members. I wish for a big tent within the church where we welcome people with different views and different backgrounds. Matthew Harris points out that church leaders such as Spencer Kimball and many others recognized the importance of remaining politically neutral, allowing church members to consider varied political viewpoints and that this was crucial to the growth of the church. The more the church becomes exclusively aligned with one political viewpoint we alienate members and prospective members.
Debbi M.December 10, 2020
To Patricia: I can only image your pain. You can still be healed--it does not take renewing a negative relationship to do that. You sound much better off without the hurt of that relationship. You are not less because you choose not to be with that man anymore. Be kind to yourself. You are the one in charge of your own happiness, and not a damaged vessel. Be free and positive!
Debbi M.December 10, 2020
I love this! How simple and profound. You have sparked me!
Lynnette BatesDecember 10, 2020
Is there a place where we can actually read or download the handouts (flyers) for the virtual youth temple trip, the "Let's go Family History" and the Kinston Stake Family History challenge? It would be great to be able to see what the activities entailed and how they could be adapted to our ward or stake. Thank you.
TaceyDecember 10, 2020
I don't think this article is a "paranoid conspiracy theory" considering that the entire latter half of the Book of Mormon addresses the devastating effects of conspiracy. What do you think a secret combination is? The Nephite and Lamanite societies were both destroyed by governmental and societal conspiracy. Since the Book of Mormon was written for our day and to help us navigate our modern world is it really so paranoid to consider that this author might have a point? We are told not to be naive. We are told to be wise as foxes. What this author is writing about may not happen, but it will not hurt us to be prepared for it. When ye are prepared, ye shall not fear.
vickieDecember 9, 2020
what can one say. i myself dont believe in doing this...giving your embryo's to a place that freezes them and you never use them..or maybe people who have hysterectomys ..the hospital can take those embryo's and save them..and then later put them into a womb to be born....to me its playing God....needless to say i dont think its right....but that would be my opinion for me....
Peter SchlegelDecember 9, 2020
Thank you for your excellent counsel on prayer Br Goddard.i too have had times where I feel my prayers were so lacking and I was just not connecting with my Father in Heaven. Being responsible for many souls at given times he always made His will known but I often felt there could be a much stronger connection. My life has often been a "mess" and it's good to know others have struggled along with me. Your insights and plain speaking are a true blessing to me. Thank you!
Janeen BurkeDecember 9, 2020
I didn’t get the feeling that the author was telling the Church what to do, but I would have liked to have felt more faith in the leadership as prophets, seers and revelators. I have no doubt that the leaders are well aware of this and the greater persecution coming. I truly believe that Christ Himself directs the Church and no doubt they are being prepared and it’s just a matter of time when we receive further instruction. Personal revelation is so important and the Book of Mormon spells out very clearly of the secret combination that will bring an end of all nations and that it will happen before the second coming. Then you have the very clear warnings from several leaders, but especially President Nelson that the second coming is near. He even told us to “repent and do it now, time is running out.” Can’t get much clearer than that! They have been warning us for decades and they have been preparing us spiritually for the law of consecration, which I feel is coming soon. We will be called upon that law just as we have been called upon for the law of tithing as a preparation of the higher law. This is all very important that we should be prepared for and remember if we are prepared, then we “shall not fear”.
Lori ThorntonDecember 9, 2020
Such great insights and food for thought! However, I dont' want to be too quick to throw out the "standard" formula for prayer. Showing true gratitude for what we have first very often changes the rest of the prayer. Sometimes we truly forget about all of the great things we have! It's very hubling to be reminded of all the luxuries of life that we often don't even think about (utilities, clean water, heating and air conditioning, a warm bed, etc). I've been humbled many, many times to tears in this first part of the standard prayer formula. It sets the tone for great humility for the remainder of the prayer, and puts me in awe of His love for me!
A happy wife in recoveryDecember 9, 2020
This was good to listen to now. I bought the book 10 years ago when it first came out. It was scary and painful then. I am so much farther down the road of healing. I just want wives to know that healing is possible through the Atonement of the Lord Jesus Christ. I can't saw where my husband is in his journey, since he is still not ready to share his thoughts, feelings or experiences with me. I have always stuck with him, since we are married for time and eternity. I still have hope for him to change and be happy!. I found that I couldn't change him; I could only change myselt to be a happy person. I have grown closer to the Savior and my husband by accepting him, forgiving him and love HIM, NOT his behavior. Once I could separate the two, I could heal.. Thank you for the book and the podcast. You guys are wonderful!
LexaGraemeDecember 9, 2020
Bravo
LexaGraemeDecember 9, 2020
Haha!
PaniaDecember 9, 2020
This treasured memory made me smile! I remember those video rental and pizza stores, and I think everyone can relate to having to go back in and face the same employees! Great times. Thanks so much for sharing.
Dan HammondDecember 9, 2020
Thank you Richard for an insightful description of the Restored Gospel. It was very well written and interesting. I really valued the description of the 12 gifts of the Restoration. We met several years ago on a Book of Mormon cruise. You and Linda were our teachers.! so, I feel like I know you better as a writer. Thanks again!
Tom WoodDecember 8, 2020
A timely and stirring lesson, Breck. As you advised, despite the political morass we find ourselves confronted with these days, we can never go wrong by involving charity as we deal with the issues (or anything in life for that matter).
Patricia G. SchellDecember 8, 2020
Sadly, I do not want to heal, to renew the relationship. Forgiving is enough. I can not put myself in that place again. One of trust that was betrayed not just through pornography but so many little instances over 43 years, that I didn't begin to put together until the meaness became unbearable and extended to our grown children. Do I still care? As for a former friend. I still worry but not to the point of putting myself at further risk and pain. Too many years of broken trust, because I so much wanted to trust. To believe. It's very lonely. A different kind of pain, but still pain.
Mark StephanDecember 8, 2020
I don't find this to be paranoid in the least, or some sort of right wing crazy talk either, as has been suggested. This is all very credible and well researched. Much of what we suspect might happen, has been documented as already happening. And further, the prophets have been preparing us for decades (at least) to be ready for this. Not only is this a subject worth discussing, but it needs to be applied as part of our preparedness efforts. My wife and I have been paying down our debt as hard as we can go, but based on this, I think it's time we start diverting a percentage of our efforts into cash-on-hand as well. Thank you for your research and your well written article.
Maryann TaylorDecember 8, 2020
At the mention of suicide I would have gotten this relative out of that house immediately. It is unlikely the abusive parents are going to change from "talking to them." There is time for counselling and reconciliation later, but the abused individual need to be out of that house, as in yesterday! She is an adult and certainly does not need to explain why she is leaving, nor do her extended family members need to make excuses if she comes to live with them, or if they help her in other ways.
Maryann TaylorDecember 8, 2020
Beautiful, Joni! You have a wonderful Christmas, too! I am going to use your experience as a pattern to open up conversations with others. I loved the simplicity of it.
Maryann TaylorDecember 8, 2020
There is some good advice here, however, #2 troubles me. I do no consider myself "a mess" and I think it would offend Heavenly Father to describe myself in this way. I am also not "evil continually." Heavenly Father know we are weak and that we will make mistakes. There is a difference between genuine repentance and self-flogging.
Gary PrinceDecember 8, 2020
One commenter referred to this article as a conspiracy theory. It is not a theory. The UN secretary-general, António Guterres, recently advocated for all UN members to change to a system where all property is owned by the government. John Kerry has openly spoken of a 're-set' of the economic and financial systems in the world and speaks of a one-world order. These people are advocating that all people's bank accounts and real property be confiscated and redistributed as the elites determine. These goals are being touted to be accomplished by 2030. These are not conspiracies. These groups who advocate these changes are no longer shy about their intents. I believe the author brings up some very valid points. However, it would be necessary for the church to belong to a coordinating organization in order for it to be effective. Since most religions in this scenario would be persecuted, one would have to align all those religions into a cooperative type system and hope they have the ability to communicate. If censorship created an inability to use digital communication, then it would be difficult to establish such a system on a large scale. My recommendation is to follow the prophets' council and teachings. Have food storage and, most important, learn to hear the Spirit's voice and receive revelations. The day may come that most communication within the church and among the righteous will be done through the spirit and through revelation because man's creations will not be available!
Craig R. FrogleyDecember 8, 2020
Thank you for this entire series of powerful insight and edifying examples. All that I have read from your and Linda's pen has been of this same quality and has blessed our lives as a family.
Ruth AllenDecember 8, 2020
I am very familiar with the signs of the times and also that God is in charge of everything. He will expose all evil and destroy them. Each one. We must believe in the loving guidance of our beloved Savior, Jesus Christ and follow the individual promptings that come when we pray for them. Following our Prophet and apostles and the Holy Ghost is the only way to navigate through these times. Fear is not the way to make decisions. Love and trust in our Savior is!!
DDecember 8, 2020
I think this article is very timely. I think there is a distinct possibility this very scenario IS going to happen. Thank you, Meridien, for publishing thought provoking comment.
LorraineDecember 8, 2020
This is not "right wing conspiracy"". It is happening in China. If you think we are immune to conspiracy and bad things happening, look no further than the Book of Mormon.. We habe been told more than once that we will be persecuted in the last days.
WilsonDecember 8, 2020
I can see it coming, although we would all like to disbelieve it. I think there really is no doubt that right wing thought, including religious and patriotic expression, will be suppressed, as it currently is, but it will greatly worsen under a leftist regime.
Richard EyreDecember 8, 2020
Thanks to all for reading and thinking about the incalculable doctrinal blessings of the Restoration. May gratitude reign! Let's stay in touch!
J. HamiltonDecember 8, 2020
Great article. What the author is touching on also has another name-Mindfulness. If this strikes a chord with you, I suggest you read "The Power of Stillness: Mindful Living for Latter-day Saints"; also "Transformations of Faith" with Thomas Wirthlin McConkie. Prayer is such an amazing conduit and during these times of increased revelation (Priesthood, Home based church, etc.) the heavens are truly opened.
DebiDecember 8, 2020
Interesting perspective. Maybe this will bring us all to "have all things in common" where we support each other.
Robert D StarlingDecember 8, 2020
This article has given me pause for thought. We live in a world that seems on the one hand to worship at the altar of "diversity" and "inclusion", while at the same time is quite ready to "cancel" someone with a diversity of thought or speech if it reflects a difference of opinion with which it does not agree. Certainly the Latter-day Saints have suffered terrible persecutions, including un-Constitutional government assaults from the Missouri extinction order to the Edmunds-Tucker Act and beyond. But it seems to me that the examples given in this article of corporate persecution have clear remedies (at least in the US) in the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and followup legislation that prohibits discrimination by anyone (including banks, Google, etc) on the basis of many things, including religion as "sincerely held beliefs". It seems to me that the people who have been wronged should get lawyers and sue the heck out of the banks, etc. who have cancelled them. Or am I missing something?
DayDecember 8, 2020
This is an amazing and well thought out article. Anyone who actually studies the persecutions and events to happen before the second coming from the Bible know about those who will or won’t be allowed to buy and sell. One political party’s leader here in the US. has already labeled and sought to classify religious groups as safe harbors for hate. It has already begun. It doesn’t take a genius to see where that kind of label and subsequent policies will go. Brilliant and prophetic article that offers hope in a solution. Anyone who feels this is paranoid or right wing needs to study their scriptures and awaken.
Of the news channels and social media who are afraid to share anything of this sort. Blessings to youDecember 8, 2020
Thank you for your research AND courage to share. No doubt you will be getting many who do not like to hear this kind of thing but when we start to have experiences ourselves and friends also having experiences with the banking system not being able to use cash Etc, it’s concerning. I don’t think this is fear mongering at all as some may say. It’s simply warning and getting informed. The more information we have the better apt we are to making decisions. When we are prepared we won’t fear. Thank you so much for this extensive research and your time taken to write this. And thank you meridian magazine for your willingness to share this. Please do not take it down please do not be like the restOf the news channels and social media who are afraid to share anything of this sort. Blessings to you!
RenaeDecember 8, 2020
Where is the concern for how current banking practices impact the poor? This piece is conjecture. Pay day loans and tax refund advance and lines of credit geared to those unsophisticated enough to be lured in are current reality. Interest rates on these loans, when added to application fees close in on 50%. Tax preparation companies lure in clients, who pay exhoribant amounts for simple tax returns, with promises of zero interest loans that usually get them $500 two to three weeks earlier than they would have. But the cost of the return is $500, so the client actually loses much of the refund amount to tax preparation fees. Legal, yes. Moral, no. But Utah is right in there with its pro-business culture demanding the legislature not act to protect the poor. We do not want Zion. How could the rich get and stay righ without the right to exploit the poor?
TerryDecember 8, 2020
Very happy to hear. Wish more countries were in a position to open. My temple list is long and I will need great help to finish the work. I pray God will send us help.
TerryDecember 8, 2020
Very happy to hear. Wish more countries were in a position to open. My temple list is long and I will need great help to finish the work. I pray Hod will send us help.
essayDecember 8, 2020
I'm not as concerned about the banking issues in this article (people will always find ways to take your money) as I am about the censorship issues. We now live in an era of censorship by those that think they know what's ethically correct and other viewpoints are labeled "harmful," society must not tolerate them and must be "canceled." No one has given them the authority, but wield it they do.
Ronald L. McKimDecember 7, 2020
We already are living in the "days of cancel culture"! Anyone naïve enough to think they are immune, try making a comment on social media, or stating your religious believes publicly, or maybe in a work situation mention that you are Christian/Conservative. Better yet, wear a MAGA hat! Just be prepared for the "Social Brown Shirts" to show up to shame you, cancel you, and shut you up. And yes, they will deny your rights as Big Tech is now doing. This article is spot on, good job!
Andrew ArnottDecember 7, 2020
Digital currency already completely solves this as it eliminates the bank entirely. But most merchants don't take it yet:(
LKDecember 7, 2020
I absolutely don't believe this is premature, paranoid, or inappropriate. On the contrary, what do the scriptures and prophecies warn and where do you stand in your commitment? I've lived in enough university towns with many members who prided themselves on being 'above' risking any appearance of not fitting in with the larger culture. It doesn't surprise me some posters are of this sentiment. I feel a glint of hope reading this article, hope for our futures and that of our children. Thank you and prayers for us all.
RussDecember 7, 2020
Far from being extreme, to have an alternative to the current financial system will be a wise and practical decision. In addition to dealing with discrimination against traditional Christian/LDS values that are rapidly building, there is the "Great Economic Reset" that is coming as well. Many aspects of a social credit score system as seen in China, as noted, are already starting to evolve. To have an alternative and not lose the value of your hard-earned savings is wise. It is not a question of if, but of when the props that have kept our economy going will fail. However, it will be an extremely difficult path to take with opposition every step of the way from the "establishment." Those who think that such events as being described will not happen are seriously mistaken and to not even try to make proactive measures is extremely short-sighted. .
Susan D MarxDecember 7, 2020
I tried to post this to my private family Facebook group it just goes to my kids by pushing on the Facebook button associated with this article and it immediately told me that my Facebook was locked because of suspicious activity. I have never ever had my Facebook locked because of suspicious activity, it's never been locked for any reason. this is crazy bizarre.
NannaDecember 7, 2020
This is so scary to me I am trembling! Please tell me this is unlikely to happen to good honest people. I think this information would come from the prophet. Why would you publish this type of material. Not uplifting at all. If this is a scare tactic it worked.
VAL C. LEWISDecember 7, 2020
Very timely and important article. Thank You!
vickieDecember 7, 2020
I WANT TO KNOW about these things happening in the world ...because these things move along around the world....we and our children are going to have to ever be on watch.....notice what is happening in our own country.....just do what the Lord wants us to do.....prepare...
Scott PugsleyDecember 7, 2020
This I a bad sign - Meridian getting involved in extreme right-wing advocacy of what the Church should do. I urge Meridian to stay on the path and avoid this kind of advocacy.
Pam BiggerDecember 7, 2020
Oh my... sounds possible...sounds a little scary...hope people do not panic....time will tell how it all works out...really glad to know that someday the Savior will be in charge and evil will be bound etc...
Rick ChaddertonDecember 7, 2020
This is a well thought out and researched article and looks to our future when we can no longer "buy or sell" without the mark of the beast, according to John. I am not persuaded however that the Church can create a banking entity to skirt the various bullying (payment) entities that you quote in your article. Even if the Church were to set up a bank of sorts, there are utility service providers that could still cut off the infrastructure needed to run a bank (broadband, power etc). Therefore what? The other side of the coin is even though you have identified that Churches such as ours could quickly be identified as a "hate group" and have bank accounts etc cut off - what about organized crime who survive and use bank accounts to grow their business despite AML laws worldwide. Then there are more nefarious users like Pornhub that Governments and banks seem unwilling to ban.
Glen ODecember 7, 2020
This is an interesting read and offers items that individuals and families should consider. That said, I have no doubt that the church leaders either already are or were at least 20 years ahead of the issues developed here. They have been counseling us to get out of debt and to pay off our mortgages for well more than 100 years. These are probably the best things we can do. We have been asked to store necessary items to sustain life and President Hinckley said on more than one occasion to have a little money set aside at home in case you couldn't access it at the bank. Follow the brethren and the spirit and we will be able to withstand these challenges.
Claudia WilsonDecember 7, 2020
Well said my friend. Thank you for taking a strong stand and sharing it with others!
JimDecember 7, 2020
There are a few credit unions that their field of membership is the Chruch of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Just find one of them and you will not have a problem with your account or getting loans.
GWDecember 7, 2020
If these forces and de-person individuals, can't/won't they all do that to an financial institution trying to skirt their punishment. Will it do any good to have financial access through say a "Zion's" bank if no other bank will work with them? This article is concerning, but I'm not sure the solution would make any difference.
Alan WildDecember 7, 2020
This is a very timely article. Church members will surely face this banking issue one day and now is the time to prepare.
Terry StephensDecember 7, 2020
I have had a growing concern about this very situation. I believe this to be exactly what we will see in the very near future. It fits with prophesy and scriptural descriptions of the final days before Christ returns. It would be wonderful to have a totally independent financial system not just for church members, but for all who cherish faith and freedom. We must also have an independent social networking and communications platform. The church has the basic foundations in place for adaptation and expansion. I hope it is being discussed seriously in the highest councils of the church.
VaDecember 7, 2020
Right on! To keep our money from supporting The Great Reset via the Big Banks would be effective. There seems to be every indication that social censoring is happening and Will become more anti-Christian.
ShaunaDecember 7, 2020
Wonderful--thanks for sharing! so glad you got to go! I cannot imagine a mission without being endowed. And thank you for the "one by one" reminder. My parents are in assisted living and have been in quarantine for over 3 weeks. I NEED to know that the Lord is aware of them
LexaGraemeDecember 7, 2020
Beautiful message. Beautiful photos. Thank you.
George NolanDecember 7, 2020
Wonderful uplifting story, thank you for sharing it.
Edward Rehder IIIDecember 7, 2020
Great article! We need to keep our finger on this pulse. Good ideas as well. Thanks
EDecember 7, 2020
This is incredibly paranoid and I don't think it's helpful to feed that kind of thinking.
RitaDecember 7, 2020
When I first read this article in SquareTwo, I thought about the references in Revelation to the "mark of the beast". We usually think of it as a physical mark, like a tattoo. But in our digital age, it may be a "virtual" mark. The counsel from the prophets to get out of debt, have useful skills, and develop spiritual strength ring louder now than ever.
Valori Foster TreftDecember 6, 2020
Breck, Thank you for this great article . You’ve lifted my spirit today as I have pondered your words and those of the Prophet and Book of Mormon. I engage in political discussion with my grandson. He exemplifies this teaching. No matter how much we disagree no voice is raised in anger, no heart hurt and all ends in love and appreciation for each other. I’ve shared your article with him and other members of my family. Thanks again for sharing your knowledge and spirit.
AngieDecember 6, 2020
Empty ourselves of ourselves and let God flood in; I love this.
TMDecember 5, 2020
Mr. Hill, as the saying goes, those who would trade freedom for security deserve neither. Voluntarily compliance with requested and reasonable measures to minimize risk is acceptable yet maintains our freedoms, but accepting unconstitutional government mandates is mere acquiescence.
CHARLES DEFRANCHIDecember 5, 2020
I am always grateful for Brother Goddard's inspiring comments, but was somewhat troubled by Madeline's comments. Many changes took place in Temple ordinances over the last few decades, but I found them enlightening and empowering at all times. It may just be, as for the Law of Moses, that what is right for one period of time may not be such for another one, and this is why we need constant revelation.
LewisDecember 5, 2020
I sent a comment earlier but it seems not to have been posted, so I will repeat it. I love this story. It shows how small acts of kindness ripple throughout our world, touching the lives of so many more than we can possibly imagine. And I hope this small gift you have given us of this precious story will multiply and touch the lives of more than you can possibly imagine. Thank you for this precious gift you have so generously shared with us.
Carole ManleyDecember 5, 2020
Thank you
Lawrence James NielsenDecember 5, 2020
Thank you. I believe that you are spot on.
JOHN RICHARD HILLDecember 5, 2020
After the 9/11 terrorist attack and the initial preparations for a military response, Pres. Hinckley delivered his landmark October 2001 General Conference address, "The Times in Which We Live". He reminded us that we must do our duty, that peace may be denied us for a season, that we may be inconvenienced, and that---some of our liberties may be curtailed. Today, the world is gripped in a different crisis---the COVID-19 pandemic. Church services and activities, including temple worship, have been curtailed as a reasonable and responsible effort to stem the spread and carnage of the disease---not because government is conspiring to take away our freedom to worship. Let us all be part of the pandemic solution---despite the temporary inconvenience.
Mary-Rose McMullinDecember 5, 2020
Such a great experience! I was so touched by this movie. Just wanted to let everyone know that it is also available on DVD here: https://forgottencarols.com/store/
KathleenDecember 5, 2020
PRICELESS!
KathleenDecember 4, 2020
Thank you. Very well thought out, documented and written.
Lanaia RobertsonDecember 4, 2020
Thank you for a beautifully written article. This country was created for the people, by the people - who are not perfect, but try to do their best. We have learned a lot and have a lot yet to learn. This can be done only if we respect each other and listen to each other and work to solve our problems amicably. God bless us that we will be able to do that.
Jay SDecember 4, 2020
As usual great thoughts and advice See the was something you could....write this timely piece
Denise CottrellDecember 4, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing this article. It is just what needed to read today.
MicheleDecember 4, 2020
I think it's more helpful to focus on emotional abuse than on diagnostic labels, since we can't diagnose people ourselves, but the label seems to be a current favorite. I truly admire this wonderfully compassionate writer wanting to assist her young niece.
Newell HarwardDecember 4, 2020
Great article. Thank you. Needed it this morning.
Karen RaffertyDecember 4, 2020
It is true that the inception and foundational documents for the United States of America were inspired; however, the country has strayed from its divine commission. You cannot lock up immigrant children in cages or kill with drones and overlook "collateral damage," read non-combatants. God led the Israelites, the Nephites, and the Jaredites into promised lands, but they all lost their status as exceptional when they flagrantly employed the practices of the Gadiantons.
LewisDecember 4, 2020
What a beautiful story of how small gifts are multiplied! I hope this small gift you have given us will be multiplied many times over during this Christmas season. Thank you so much for sharing, both in the Dominican Republic and now.
MikeDecember 3, 2020
I always enjoy Sister Pratts stories
Jenny PuckettDecember 3, 2020
The story of the Pilgrims is being rewritten to be secular, as is much of US history.
Gale E PhillipsDecember 3, 2020
The common perception of the Pilgrims being intolerant of other religions within their colony is true, but the story is more complex than that. They came to establish their own settlement where they could worship according to their specific beliefs and felt that people of different religious beliefs in their settlement would not only dilute their purpose, but also open the settlement up to contention, which they wanted to avoid as this had been part of the old world they were leaving. They didn't come to create a religious democracy. Their idea was that people of other religious convictions should establish their own settlement. I have thought of it as people creating a chess club and then other people join and want to change it into a checkers club.
richard aw smithDecember 3, 2020
I prefer to think of the Reformation as working the soil which implies that God was involved (not just a man-driven effort) but of course not in the specific way as planting the seeds of His Gospel and Priesthood, where this could only be accomplished by God-driven means. Thanks for your efforts to produce these articles, I am excited to read them!
Gale E PhillipsDecember 3, 2020
This is what happens when the people start to see the government as their caretaker.
Win BroadhurstDecember 3, 2020
If the Book of Mormon is the “most correct book ever written, and the D&C is revelation, why then do we not do many things in them and have changed many others. Now, if your answer is, “modern prophets have received revelation to make these changes”, then revelation is scripture, and why has that scripture not been recorder and given to the membership if this is the true and Living gospel?
Michelle OrndorffDecember 3, 2020
Where can I find this video to save (as your articles are deleted quickly). It’s not on YouTube, that I could find.
Jared SommerDecember 3, 2020
Thank you for writing this article! I have really enjoyed writings of the Catherine Thomas. I wish I knew about her earlier as it would have save me from a lot of wandering. I've never heard of Henri Nouwen until you mentioned him in the list of other authors that you've enjoyed reading. Now I'm hooked on him! Thanks again. These are people who really can change inner spiritual lives because of their own personal integrity.
Lynn HartmanDecember 3, 2020
Thank you. I really enjoyed this article.
Shelli DimigDecember 3, 2020
Anne, thank you for this incredibly valuable and touching article! I can't wait to share it with my family :) I'm grateful that you share people's precious and sacred stories in your articles! Merry Christmas!
Ann De FrancisDecember 3, 2020
This series has been such a blessing to me. Thank you! I have loved the books you and Linda have written since first introduced to them when our family was young. We are close in age and circumstance and have implemented many Eyre suggestions into family life, each time bringing great good. At least one miracle has occurred. I plan to print these final articles (the letters to your friend Rhodes), mark them up, add them to my journal and share them with our six grown children. I wish I could adequately express how grateful I feel that you have taken the time and effort to share your love of the gospel and your use of its power so I can be better in my efforts.
Becky DunganDecember 3, 2020
Becky, Thank you for sharing this uplifting story. "By small and simple things..." Miracles happen when we offer selfless service. We light the world with His light every time we love and care for each other.
Joseph Dee TenneyDecember 3, 2020
I could not find a source for David O McKay's quote. After searching online I found this: Let husband and wife never speak to one another in loud tones, unless the house is on fire.
PaniaDecember 2, 2020
Thank be to God for President Trump and his pro-life leadership.
Sally SmithDecember 2, 2020
I am very surprised are that members are not commenting about how our religious freedom is being challenged. We need to shout from the roof tops that we will fight for our religious liberty, our families, our very lives if need be.
Margaret E. BatesDecember 2, 2020
Wrong! Cuomo's action was an act of public health not an assault upon religion, per se! These are two completely different issues and the one has no bearing, positively or negatively, upon the other. Attending a crowded church service (or any other crowded event) is hazardous at this time. It is not to target church attendance, it is targeting being in close contact with possibly exposed people. Until people get this through their heads, we will continue to see this disease spike and spread!
Andrew J. CurrieDecember 2, 2020
It's like comparing apples to oranges to evaluate recall having witnessed a crime, accident, or some other worldly event to recall of something spiritual. Holding the gold plates from which the Book of Mormon was translated and undoubtedly discussing it with the other witnesses is not the same thing as having an accident or crime unexpectedly flash before you! The metal plates did not 'flash' past unexpectedly; they were examined and touched for a period of time. They were anticipated, not a surprise event like an accident or crime. I'm sure seeing and handling the angel-accompanied and provided plates had an indelible spiritual component. Having had spiritual witnesses myself while investigating the Restored Gospel, all the research for court-related gamesmanship is irrelevant to me. Besides, the Lord didn't intend the existence of witnesses to prove anything! The witnesses exist merely to encourage doubters, like I was, to experiment by asking Him. His witness is reliable!
LexaGraemeDecember 2, 2020
Oh no! Teach your children to do chores!! And to read labels!
Joy LundbergDecember 2, 2020
Thank you for this wonderful, insightful, and inspiring article. So well stated. A great help in teaching others of our core beliefs. Well done, Richard!
ShaunaDecember 2, 2020
thank you Gentri that made my day! and for promoting Light the Word thanks for including it Meridian
CADecember 2, 2020
Elections have consequences!
Laura Lee EdwardsDecember 2, 2020
The descendants of John Howland are numerous. The include LDS leaders, as well as political ones. Do. Google search of him for more information.
Michelle CrookDecember 2, 2020
The priesthood power represented in this video by the apostles, all dressed in white, walking down the stairs was awe inspiring! I could see the foundations of hell quaking at the feet of these men. How grateful I am for these, the Lord’s servants!
Georgi SmithDecember 1, 2020
Brother Eyre, Such an awesome message you have written. I certainly look forward to the next parts. I can tell that you were a great Mission President. Georgi
Cynthia C.December 1, 2020
I'm looking forward to the rest of this wonderful article about the gifts of the gospel - how appropriate for this time of year!
DL AndersonDecember 1, 2020
I think now many of us can see how we ourselves - when speaking about or teaching the Restored Gospel - focus more on the "wrapping" than the actual gifts. Thank you.
Anna S.December 1, 2020
I love this article and can't wait for the remainder of it. Thank you so much for saving your letters and for sharing them.
Kay RiceDecember 1, 2020
This is one of the best things I've ever read.
Karell BinghamDecember 1, 2020
Thank you so much for your article, it really adds to our ability to speak to others about what we believe! The restoration has a ring of truth all of its own. Great thoughts!
Jan DysonDecember 1, 2020
Wow! Richard Eyre has so beautifully articulated the basic doctrines of the Gospel of Jesus Christ... Is this collection of letters in book form or available anywhere yet? (I feel like it could be so helpful to those of us who have non-member/non- believing family and friends)
Nerita Flake PetersonDecember 1, 2020
Thank you for this insightful and courageous explanation of the "bare bones' of our beliefs. Your honest, skillful description of our beliefs are the reason that I believe that our doctrine is too good not to be true.
Kate MerrillDecember 1, 2020
Thank you ever so much for these articles with profound and well presented insights about our faith. As an adult convert, I was very much like your friend — desperately yearning for understanding the big picture inside the frame of this seemingly 10,000 piece jigsaw puzzle! I once wrote a note to my sister who had recently taken her own life: “The Gift Unopened”. Like your efforts to (finally!) share the gifts of The Plan of Happiness, many choose to never even open the package. May your “gift” of writing and communicating deeply reach many who are ready to open and embrace the myriad of gifts from heaven, is my prayer.
Robert BoyceNovember 30, 2020
True words always spoken by our prophets
Beth WarnickNovember 29, 2020
So very beautiful and touching. Thanks for letting us hear and watch it.
Teresa HolladayNovember 29, 2020
Direct Descendant John Howland/Elizabeth Tilley John Tilley/Joan Hurst Mr and Mrs Edward Fuller Samuel Fuller
Mary L NooseNovember 29, 2020
My husband and I both needed this, thank you so much.
Ann S PapworthNovember 28, 2020
Yes, this is just what I needed this morning--faith jumped out at me in a new manner, and I felt a need to send your article on to a couple of sisters who are struggling (as are many right??!!) This is one of those times when I am edified to a new degree. Stay Happy!
Marilyn T. HaddNovember 28, 2020
I wish all of the puzzle-lovers amongst us could form a club and exchange puzzles! We could get T-shirts, have a motto, and maybe an annual retreat! Food! Prizes! (puzzles, of course!)
CCNovember 28, 2020
Thank you so much for addressing this situation.!! Your suggestions really help me. I am married to a man who displays Covert NARCISSISM behavior and insists he is not that person so no real diagnosis has taken place. Yet divorce has been an option, even after 34 yrs. Even when I wish they're could be another way. We are empty nested also. I turn to the lord and His atonement to help me navigate the ever perplexing environment. Thank you again
MochelleNovember 28, 2020
I loved both the article and the hymn. Thank you for sharing.
EllenNovember 28, 2020
I am so glad we are finally beginning to talk openly about mental illnesses such as personality disorders. This was not the case when I was young and married to a man with borderline personality disorder. Instead, within the church it was all considered sin and Satan. No help there. Especially for the man. Wives were being taught to just follow and support their husbands. Bishops felt they were inspired to counsel for all problems. It was disastrous. I wish you better luck. I will never be able to actually respect priesthood leaders again because of the way I was treated by them.
Colleen ShieldsNovember 28, 2020
I, too, have rediscovered the love for puzzling due to the pandemic. I hadn't done one since the days of my youth over 45 years ago, and new found isolation exhumed and rekindled that desire. In fact, it seems it's all I want to do now! Housework, exercise, etc... have become foreign past times, in my quest for yet one more puzzle piece completion! Should this new fetish simply be a short-term phase, I'm going to savor every minute/piece of it! Hi, my name is Colleen, and I think I might be a puzzle-holic...?
Robert D StarlingNovember 28, 2020
Wonderful thoughts. I believe it is Covey who says the main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing. That applies to the Gospel as well. I would add a sub-question to "Is Joseph Smith a prophet?", and that is, "Is the Book of Mormon true?" There's a reason why it is the Keystone of our religion. If it is a true history of real people, then everything else is true. And if doubt starts to enter in, just to back to that truth and build from there. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on. The Book of Mormon is the knot in the end of the rope.
GTONovember 27, 2020
My mother had NPD and it was awful. She was married twice and both husbands really suffered as did her 3 children. She always deflected and blamed and criticized anyone but herself, but I watched her age to look 120 in her late 60s. Despair was killing her. She would never overtly manifest her guilt, but it just ate away at her silently. So very sad.
Jo Ann OkelberryNovember 27, 2020
This is so beautiful and uplifting.
BART BRONSONNovember 27, 2020
Direct Descendant of John Howland/Elizabeth Tilley
Judy HamiltonNovember 27, 2020
Thank you for the fabulous lesson on Faith. Do you have your lecture on Joseph Smith recorded anywhere? I would love to hear or read it.. Thank you for making "Come Follow Me" a favorite part of my week.
Joy LundbergNovember 27, 2020
Thank you for this inspiring article. Your wisdom and experiences have once again blessed my life. And the hymn is beautiful. May God bless you for blessing us with you wonderful talents.
Linda WestoverNovember 27, 2020
Thanks for sharing your gifts of beautiful music and insightful words! We all need the message of your hymn!
Richard BowermanNovember 27, 2020
What a wonderful article. And I love the song!
Charles HarperNovember 27, 2020
During a storm enroot a young servant of Governor Carver went upside for some fresh air. The ship lurched heavily in a huge swell and he fell overboard. This was John Holland, who would later inherit his master's estate, marry another passenger, Elisabeth Tilly, and have ten children. John had managed to grab a halyard from the ship and survive in the storm until someone missed him. One of his children was a direct descendent of Lucy Mack Smith, Joseph's mother.
MargieNovember 27, 2020
Beauty and power in both the words and music. Filled my heart and soul with instant comfort and peace. Thank you for sharing your talents with all of us.
Debi AndertonNovember 27, 2020
In your printed verses in the second verse you have omitted the next to the last line. Beautiful song! Thanks for your spiritual guidance.
Tanya NeiderNovember 27, 2020
Beautifully written hymn! Thank you for the music, the words, and your thoughts of discovery.
Joel MarksNovember 26, 2020
God bless the Pilgrims a chisen peoples of the Abrahamic civenant. The Pilgrims fulfill thevtruth of Mormons salient prophecies.
Jean LazaneNovember 26, 2020
Awesome!
Myrna LiddellNovember 26, 2020
Thank you for this tender message today. It touched our hearts.
Kayleen A HunsakerNovember 26, 2020
What a marvelous story!!!
Robert D StarlingNovember 25, 2020
Henry Sampson was one of those Pilgrims at the first Thanksgiving. According to Family Search, he was my 8th great-granduncle. I just learned about Henry this week, so Thanksgiving will have a new meaning for our family this year.
Ron BarnesNovember 25, 2020
I recently learned something strange about my ancestry. I am descended from a couple who came over on the Mayflower. However, I am descended from their son who did not make the voyage. He arrived decades later.
Daniel LarsonNovember 25, 2020
Of course, what is not written is that the Pilgrims, for all their virtue, were intolerant of anyone else who did not believe as they did. The history of the rest of the New England colonies is fully about those who fled their colony or were expelled by them because of their differing beliefs. Yes, we should celebrate the Pilgrims. But, yes, as well, we should know them fully, not just their mythical history.
Karen C NewsomNovember 25, 2020
After I read William Bradford's autobiography, I lightly referred to it as Book of Mormon Part Two. An incredible read.
Gary BikmanNovember 25, 2020
Great message/reminder. Striving to identify God's hand in my life each day, allows my evening prayers of gratitude to be specific and, I believe, more meaningful to Heavenly Father and to me. Recording these instances in my own journal strengthen my faith and testimony and allows me to more readily recognize "promptings" and have the courage to act on them.
AJ CurrieNovember 25, 2020
We truly are living in a day when the great question is"Where can I turn for truth?" We have 'studies' advocating for masks and isolation and ones advocating against both. We get conflicting news reports from discredited outlets about the successes or failures of countries locking down. We have so called 'scientist' flip-flopping around on their 'expert opinions'. We have politicians--whose hands and pockets are always open to whomever will give them a payday--demonizing anyone who sincerely questions their wisdom or authority to make the extreme dictates emanating from their offices. We have medical doctors who when asked give the feeble answer, "What can wearing a mask hurt?" So trite suggestions to "do our own research and decide for yourself" are really of very little value. If there has ever been a time in our history when we should not/cannot "trust in the arm of flesh," it is now. This is truly a time when one had better have developed the skill of listening to the Spirit, because we cannot trust in the arm of flesh.
Robin PrestonNovember 25, 2020
Definitely a chosen people. I wonder why they experienced so much death? Was it a cleansing? It seems that God would have protected them. Ver excited the read this book by Tim Ballard. I have already read the Washington and the Lincoln Hypotheses. They are very well researched and written.
Dirk Steenbergen, JrNovember 25, 2020
Coincidence doesnot exist ! Chances are, Joseph SMITH was assassinated, because he was a serious candidate of the Reform Party, for the presidency of the United States ! On 29 January 1844, Joseph SMITH held a meeting in the mayor's office at Nauvoo with the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles and others. It was unanimously decided that Joseph would run for president ! On 11 March 1844, Joseph SMITH organized the Council of Fifty, a deliberative political body to promote his candidacy. Sidney Rigdon, a Pennsylvanian, became his running mate. Brother Joseph favored a constitutional amendment providing for capital punishment of public officials, who refused to assist those denied their constitutional rights. He wrote, "The state rights doctrines are what feed mobs." Obviously, Robert KENNEDY was assassinated in the similitude of Joseph SMITH !!!
Maryann TaylorNovember 25, 2020
Oh, how many of us needed this article! I think it is a universal struggle for so many of us to feel discouraged and like we will never be quite good enough. Often we mistake discouraging thoughts about ourselves as messages from the Holy Ghost to whip us into shape. Thank you for reminding us that Heavenly Father and our Savior send us invitations to come to them. They do not weigh us down with discouragement or hopelessness. The Holy Ghost will uplift us and encourage us to keep going--even if we feel like we are moving at a snail's pace. I loved President Nelson's counsel to remember the positive things we have done when we take the Sacrament--not just the things we need to repent of. This will help us have a truer vision of who we are and the goodness that is in each of us.
Maryann TaylorNovember 25, 2020
I hope you will be very kind to yourself during this painful time. Don't make the mistake of overthinking what you might have done, or not done, to save your marriage. I promise you---Life WILL get better and you CAN find happiness again. It will take time, but the day will come when you will feel joy again. When you pray, try and hold the truth in your heart of how much Heavenly Father loves you. He still has a plan for your happiness and will strengthen and guide you.
Maryann TaylorNovember 25, 2020
Thank you so much for this article! I am a direct descendant Of Perregrine White who was born aboard the Mayflower as it sat near the American shore--the first baby from this group to be born in America! I hope I can somehow live up to these great people who showed such courage. I am grateful to know that the feast of that first Thanksgiving so long ago was not just a party with the American natives. It was a celebration of gratitude to God.
Carole GNovember 24, 2020
This is a totally hilarious story! Keep them coming!
Jo Ann OkelberryNovember 24, 2020
I love puzzles, and they keep me sane. My son gave me an Elvis Presley puzzle which was a lot of fun to put together. I lent to a couple in our ward. They really enjoyed putting it together, but the wife has become tired of her husband's singing Elvis songs a lot. My younger brother used to keep a piece of a puzzle in his pocket so he could always put in the last piece. His children say he still does that. I enjoyed your article very much.
Charles HarperNovember 24, 2020
"Peace be unto you."
ShaunaNovember 24, 2020
I have actually done this very puzzle, and I also get mine at thrift stores. I"m glad to hear of the many benefits. My 86 year old Mom is in assisted Living and has been in quarantine for over a week because some residents tested positive. Puzzles are keeping her sane! thanks
Richard EyreNovember 24, 2020
Thanks for reading, and for thinking with me about the greatest of all subjects--love. This is certainly the time of year to do so, and we have never needed it more! Please add to the conversation with your own comments about love.
ChrisNovember 24, 2020
Thank you, Wally. We all need to put our efforts in proper perspective and feel Fathers abiding love and mercy!
Virginia RockwellNovember 24, 2020
What a wonderful start to my day! Thank you!
Leah HawksNovember 23, 2020
Feelings and strong unusual impressions can also come that indicate someone is ready to receive the Gospel. Those feelings subside as the temple work is done.
Christine JohnsonNovember 23, 2020
Your forgotten author is Pres. Dieter F. Uchtdorf in October 2010 gen conference talk, Pride and the Priesthood, or Nov 2010 Ensign.
Elizabethe WaltonNovember 23, 2020
I don't have any social media so I am grateful to be able to post something here. I am grateful that we had twelve years to live in a beautiful home in Palmyra NY. I am grateful for the many friends I made there, for the opportunity to walk the Sacred Grove whenever we wanted, to share our home and out faith with so many guests, family, and friends over the years. I am grateful that when my husband got sick and we could no longer do that, that our loving Heavenly Father prepared a way for us to live safely and comfortably near family, and that we will be able to build a house to meet his needs. I am grateful for a wonderful husband, who was an active and talented professional photographer, and had to completely change his life in ways he really did not enjoy. But he did sayo with grace and faith and patience. His art and his photography endure as a testament to his talent and his faith. He is so good to me. I am forever grateful that Heavenly Father brought us together! Elizabethe Walton #GiveThanks
DianeNovember 23, 2020
One of the greatest things our stake president taught, was to learn to say "our church" instead of "the church" when talking to people of other faiths. I am the only member in my immediate family so I can understand how others can get offended when we make bold statements as our church is THE church. I focus more on the Gospel of Jesus Christ and share his teachings to those wanting to know more about us.
Richard OrangeNovember 23, 2020
Dear Lenet Reading, I'm pleasantly surprised to see more and more Mormons take an interest in their possible Hebrew heritage. I would like to know the primary source which stated that the Welsh called the Irish Jews. Thank you very much, it will be a great help to my personal research! God bless you.
Tina GavedNovember 22, 2020
Maureen, this Story about beginning your writing career was a true miracle. Changing the subject ... I have thought about your biking accident so much as my husband and I also rode the Hiawatha Trail. That first tunnel was frightening! I felt your emotions. I pray you have made a full recovery. I absolutely love your weekly podcasts. Thank you for sharing your talent and testimonies each week.
Scot ProctorNovember 22, 2020
PDF has now been added to the bottom of the article, thank you for bringing it to our attention.
KathyNovember 21, 2020
Please . . . where is the downloadable PDF on decluttering? Loved the article! I've known for a long time that I'm a tortoise!
Charles McClellandNovember 21, 2020
Thank you for this great article! My wife and I raised our children to understand the inclusivity of the Church, but have many times felt that we were a distinct minority among our church friends. As an adult convert to the Church, I personally know that many other denominations have wonderful truths available to them.
LexaGraemeNovember 21, 2020
Well written. Thank you. I did not know the root of his name, which makes the hope of his mother and his reality such a sad juxtaposition.
TNONovember 21, 2020
Nice job as usual Geoff. Sure enjoy reading your column, it always leaves me feeling better.
Cheya WeberNovember 21, 2020
Such a wonderful video. Loved hearing the stories and seeing the different dioramas. The story of the street sweeper was a great lesson. Thanks for sharing this, Wally.
LaDona QuixoteNovember 21, 2020
Just happened upon this film as I continue to wait out the pandemic in Alaska. What an inspiration. I will be sharing the link to the film with all those I know who need to hear its message in this time of desperation. (November 2020)
Maria AllenNovember 20, 2020
I understand the hurt, the pain, the tears, because I to experienced a divorce 13 years ago myself. I also know and don’t doubt it for a moment that our Father in Heaven is fully aware and is watching over each and every one of us every day. Please, give yourself some time to heal, especially do it for yourself so that you can be there for your family in time. Look yourself in the mirror every and remind yourself that you are loved by our Father in Heaven and you are His daughter. I promise you that in time you will have peace in your heart. Please do not beat yourself up over the “what if’s or should have done this” your Heavenly Father needs you now more than ever. It’s ok to have your tears and moments. Remember to strive to be positive even when life throws you challenges or difficulties, You can do this remain true to yourself and trust and have faith in the Lord. Honor your covenants love yourself so that you can be there for your children. The best and most precious gift that I learned and received from my Heavenly Father is the gift of being forgiving. I promise you will be alright and you will come to know this and who you truly are. Live the gospel and read and study your scriptures every day so that the Lord can speak to your heart and mind.
SaraNovember 20, 2020
OK and now what? How to deal with the constant mental and emotional pain? If a person is in enough pain to murder themselves just stopping medication and saying 'you're not broken' is somehow enough???
Vivian AdamsNovember 20, 2020
This was a wonderful article. The beautiful thing is that the Lord knew you would use this great ability to bless others for the rest of your life.
Susan MeierNovember 20, 2020
I love this family! My very shy granddaughter played her violin with them in the Temple Square program they do with the young students. My granddaughter dropped her music during a practice song and ran off the stage embarrassed. Hannah talked to her and boosted her confidence and helped so much! I sat so close on the balcony during the performance at the tabernacle and loved watching the families expressions and love for each other and these young performing kids.
SarahNovember 20, 2020
Great answer! Been there, done that, bought the t shirt. 30 yrs on, it's still sad. But the waves eventually calm down and some days I don't think of him... Amazing! When you are abandoned it's quite different to you both deciding to call it quits. The pain is unbelievable. Widowhood looks so much better.. Than this!?!! Whatever this is suppose to now be. As much as you love him, you can't bring him back or make him change his mind. Just start pretending to be happy and enjoying life, and eventually miracles will happen and you won't have to pretend anymore. You will be where you need to be. Whenever you see him, act happy even if it's the last thing you want to do... Screaming and crying at him, or being 'quiet' will not make him see what he's thrown away. May not bring him back.. But will make him see you don't need him to be happy and have joy. Even if it's a mask for a while. Fake it.. Till you make it and are feeling it in every cell of your body! Start listening to Jack Canfield, Bob proctor, Louise hay etc do some self development, become the person Christ will help you to become. And yes, it sucks!! All the best, hugs from New Zealand.
Adam TimothyNovember 20, 2020
Cheryl - thank you for your kind words and yes the editors of Meridian do an amazing work! The artist behind these pieces is Eva Koleva Timothy.
Elmer GuevarraNovember 19, 2020
1 Nep 17:35 "Behold, the Lord esteemeth all flesh in one; ( this is the INCLUSIVITY ) he that is righteous is favored of God." ( this is the EXCLUSIVITY )
Robyn HobbsNovember 19, 2020
I too am not finding the pdf to download the declutter chart.Please advise, thank youl
Beth FreemanNovember 19, 2020
I'm not finding the PDF, love the Article!!!
Cary HolmquistNovember 19, 2020
If the display of my little iPad Mini-version is giving me an accurate version of the online web page showing your sunrise photograph of the Nauvoo Temple with background of the Mississippi River and Iowa bank and skyline on the river’s west bank, it appears you have also captured the final waning moments of another atmospheric phenomenon. It is popularly known as the Belt of Venus or antitwilight arch, and often goes overlooked because it is short-lived and easily obscured or hidden by tall trees that can block the true horizon as seen from ground level. It is visible only in the twilight moments in the west before sunrises and after sunset in the east. In your photo, there is the barest hint of blue right along the west-bank skyline, if my display correctly reproduces the image, that would then qualify the moment and view as the very last remains of a Belt of Venus. Which is partly defined as a pink or yellow-orange glow band above the horizon with blue lighting both above and below the pink coloration. Perhaps it is a small distinction in the big wide world of so many phenomena in the skies. But it is one that I see also from time to time in the Big Sky Country of Montana (due in part to our vistas that often lack close-by tall trees, both east and west of the Continental Divide of the Rocky Mountains) and I am always captured, as you were, by the beauty of the contrasting and ephemeral colors. Well done and thank you, Brother Proctor. —Cary Holmquist, Frenchtown, Montana. (P.S., I am looking forward to receiving the Nauvoo Diary soon.)
Brian PalmerNovember 19, 2020
I have benefited from refering to the definition of true that is used in construction and engineering when I read D&C 1:30. Instead of a measure of the amount of truth it refers more to accuracy of position, or alignment. When a wall is perfectly true all the corner meet precisely and it is square and level. When an axle or shaft is true it spins smoothly and without vibration, in harmony. When you are constructing something you make adjustments until the thing you are making is "trued" up to the specifications, then it is "finished". I believe this is a helpful way of viewing the restored church. It is constantly being trued up by the guidance of the Lord and His prophets. Eventually it will be perfectly true, and its people will be one.
Maria AllenNovember 19, 2020
I have fun with people when they are trying to guess my age and I think it’s sweet when they think I am 10 years younger than I look. You should see the expression on their face when I finally tell them. Here’s the fun part. They then ask me how I manage to look so young. I tell them Oil of Olay and water. Now I just simply say Oil of Olay and the word of wisdom. Makes for a great missionary moment.
BrynnNovember 19, 2020
I once sat in a class with several new converts and those investigating the church. When asked if any of them had any questions about the Sacrament Meeting we had attended, one of them finally admitted, “It hurts me every time I hear someone say that he or she knows this church is ‘true’, because it sounds to me like they are saying the church I grew up in is false.” Every other newcomer immediately shook their heads in agreement and stated that phrase greatly bothered them. While that statement is meant to be an affirmation of the truthfulness of restored gospel principles and continuing revelation, reducing our testimonies to just that one-line cliché has the potential to create a perception of spiritual superiority within our congregations. And it can sound very judgmental and exclusionary to visitors. I grew up in another faith and am grateful to that faith for teaching the truth of a loving and redemptive Christ and for giving me the foundation of relationship with Him. The truth that they taught me was what prepared me to listen to the additional messages of this church. I wish we would stop using that cliché and instead bear our testimonies of our belief in Christ, in restored gospel principles, in continuing revelation through prophets, or whatever about the gospel is meaningful to us individually, instead of simplistically checking the box that we can say we know this church is “true” or teaching that phrase to our children. I agree with the article that ultimately insight and power does not come from checking the box that we, too, can make that statement. Instead, it comes from continuing to learn, yearn for, receive, discern, live and act upon the Lord’s truth wherever we find it.
Cheryl BrallierNovember 19, 2020
you guys are amazing. Thank you so much for your efforts on our behalf, and Maureen, sell me your bike!! No more accidents I would love to know who the artists are in this podcast on charity, they also would make wonderful Christmas gifts. I already have several calendars!
Scot ProctorNovember 19, 2020
Randy, I was an account holder at that bank for many years so I felt okay about borrowing the roof for a few minutes long before they were open!
Maria AllenNovember 19, 2020
Thank goodness I have a hobby that is more fulfilling than wasting my time with so called reality tv. I’ll take sewing over anything like this.
Scot Facer ProctorNovember 19, 2020
Wally, I love what you have shown us. Your example of how you love your parents and extended family is the same as how you have treated and loved us for these many years. The shadow boxes are fabulous and generated a lot of potential exciting works for me with my own parents who are both living on the other side of the veil now. Thank you again for this heart-warming, wonderful video for us in this Thanksgiving week.
Richard EyreNovember 19, 2020
Join the dialogue on this question by commenting with your "take" or questions. And thanks for reading!
Chuck SanfordNovember 19, 2020
TO: Lexa Graeme: Decades ago, right after I joined the church, I asked two women at church when each was due to have her baby. The very ICY answers I got were " I'm not pregnant." I quickly learned.
Mark MathesonNovember 19, 2020
Fine insights! I am going to go back and read your earlier material and see what nuggets I have missed!
Gaye BreillattNovember 19, 2020
Love this. So important and timely. Needs to be shouted from the rod tops.
Ron BarnesNovember 19, 2020
I often read the literature of other churches. We do not have a monopoly on truth. One of the best definitions I have found of the path to salvation came from a Protestant minister. Paraphrased: While salvation can not be earned, it must be qualified for. We do not have a monopoly on gifts if the spirit. Pope John Paul II definitely had the gift of tongues, being able to speak at least 15 languages. An uncle of mine was a protestant minister. Once he was asked to preach to a friends congregation. He felt the Spirit inspire him to call them to repentance and he came down hard on them. He later discovered that, without his friend knowing it, half of the congregation were engaging in mass immoral activities. We do not have a monopoly on miracles. This same uncle has cast out demons and raised a woman from the dead. The only thing we do have a monopoly on (in my opinion) is authority. No other religion has the authority to preform the ordinances necessary to return to The Father. I believe that this is the only thing that really sets us apart from everyone else.
Lawrence Barry Chaplain Colonel (Ret)November 19, 2020
Wonderful article! Over the years I have cringed at some members mistaken mindset that suggested that “If you ain’t Mormon, you ain’t.” Also, Pres. N. Eldon Tanner was once heard to say when hearing a member testify that “this is the only true and living church” “I wish they wouldn’t say that.”
EdNovember 19, 2020
"God is using more than one people for the accomplishment of his great and marvelous work. The Latter-day Saints cannot do it all. It is too vast, too arduous, for any one people.... Again I say, the Lord's Work has need of auxiliaries outside as well as inside, to help it along. Because of their worldly influence—which would depart if they connected themselves with the Church— many are kept where they are, where the Lord has placed them, and can best use them for the good of all." -Orson F. Whitney, 1828 Conference.
Debbi M.November 18, 2020
A BIG LOL!!
Carol AnnNovember 18, 2020
Excellent reminders. Thank you!
LexaGraemeNovember 18, 2020
Oh goodness! This reminds me of the Never-Ask-a-Woman-When-Her-Baby-is-Due. Sometimes it’s just best to keep the mouth shut!
Angie MannNovember 18, 2020
Very insightful article! Can’t wait to read the next part.
Norma J W PellettNovember 18, 2020
There was a twenty year difference in age between my husband and I. Tom and I got to spend 45 years together before he was called home. Most of the time, other people figured that Tom was ten years younger than he was and that I was ten years older than I am. It's a good thing that I always thought that to be funny.
Helen MeekNovember 18, 2020
Very interesting. I have always wondered how someone who is in the presence of God, actually choose to leave. Thanks for your insights and I am looking forward to the next instalment.
Clifford HolmesNovember 18, 2020
I always enjoy your stories! Thanks for sharing!
Diane IrwinNovember 18, 2020
I don't see the link to the pdf. I asked to join the Facebook group; is it through that?
RandyNovember 18, 2020
Excellent article and so appropriate for our present geo political conditions. Satan's reasoning has not changed. His methods have not changed because his methods still work. Giving a reward to someone who is NOT worthy of it is the same violation of agency as withholding a reward is from someone who is deserving. The Savior's role in the Plan of Salvation stands in stark contrast to Lucifer's optional plan. The Savior was willing to do our Father's will and offer Himself as The Lamb Slain Before the Foundation of the World, one Sacrifice to redeem all willing and repentant souls with our agency intact. Lucifer required every soul to sacrifice their individual agency - no choice in mortality, good or bad - would have any consequence. In addition, requiring Heavenly Father to surrender His Glory to Lucifer without any mortal experience of trial or sacrifice.
Justin HNovember 18, 2020
My wife and I are less than 6 months difference in age and when people see our wedding photos, they say my wife hasn't aged but I really have. I tell them you take 2 cats, keep one inside all its life and the other one outside for its whole life. I'm the outside cat. And 24 years in the military doesn't keep your body looking young, either. After 30 deployments it starts to show.
Steve Colin ZeiglerNovember 18, 2020
What a marvelous article! I'm looking forward to the rest of it. Great insights1
ToniNovember 18, 2020
I can’t seem to find the Clutter Buster PDF attachment? Could you point out where I should be looking? Thanks!
Phil WasdenNovember 17, 2020
Dan Bell beat me to my suggestion. The shot you got is beautiful and knowing the sacrifice you made, gives it even more meaning. Thank you!
Sue TowheyNovember 17, 2020
President Benson was sounding the alarm to prepare us for this day. He was a patriot and a defender of our Constitution and a fine example for each of us. The book's author has an agenda and isn't trying to hide it. Thankfully, we have discernment. Thank you for your article and review of this book. Faith and religion is in the cross-hairs today. We have to find the strength to hold firm to the values we have been taught, especially now.
Randy CookNovember 17, 2020
The photograph is beautiful. My Hyde and Cook ancestors lived in Nauvoo and helped to build the first temple. Their temple marriage covenants are recorded there. I visited there last in 1981 before the second temple was constructed. I stood at the large depression in the ground where the temple had stood.and felt my ancestors presence there. I hoped then that a new temple would be built. Just one question. How do the Bank building owners feel about your clandestine use of their building?
Bera SautuNovember 17, 2020
So very true and inspiring.
Pat MerrickNovember 17, 2020
I have also found that some of the greatest growth I have had is after struggling for hours after the Lord has "opened the door". Thank you for sharing all your insights.
DebbieNovember 17, 2020
This is a spectacular picture! Thank you for sharing the tender mercy that allowed it to happen. The Lord is in the details of our lives.
Marsha NewmanNovember 17, 2020
What a beautiful and timely commentary! I’m going to listen many times! Thank you, thank you!
Candice RailNovember 17, 2020
Your podcasts are wonderful. The most recent ones on Ether have changed the way that I pray, and my faith has increased. Thank you. Your language is sublime, your insights are beautiful (I often think, "I never thought of that!"), and your research is fresh to me. The spirit is wonderful and I look forward to listening every week as part of my scripture study. Thank you, again. I cannot imagine the work to create these week in and out. Love you both.
Steve LoyNovember 17, 2020
Beautiful shot! Great work and what an effort to get that shot!
Dan BellNovember 17, 2020
Beautiful shot Scot. Just a thought: have you ever considered a drone? I am getting pretty good shots from mine... At least maybe a little less risky... Keep up the good work.
Richard WinmillNovember 17, 2020
For me the story of Ezra Taft Benson is beautiful and I love it precisely because it is also a story of repentance. Skousen's most important statement Is this: "...Church counselors and colleagues eventually succeeded in softening Elder Benson’s political views when he became president of the Church in late 1985. ...the Lord guided him in a different direction; his focus as President of the Church was reading and distributing the Book of Mormon, not fighting Communism, and opening up missionary work in former Iron Curtain countries. " I love President Benson the better, because he "re -pented" or re-thought his work and we are the better for that re-thinking. I love Elder McConkie for the same reason. That these men as apostles, prophets seers and revelators were able to say: "I was wrong." blesses our lives two-fold. First in the example of reprentence and second in the beauty of their prophetic work.
Mary J BellNovember 16, 2020
Theresa, I will be a "hugger mugger" with you forever, and proud to wear the badge! Love you so much, sister of my heart!
Judy A MaldonadoNovember 16, 2020
I love these messages. I bought the puzzle for each of my children's families and I want to print these messages out for them. Do you know when 9-11 will be published? Thank you.
Dave WindsorNovember 16, 2020
We could sure use President Benson today as .more and more otherwise good .members of the church are being deceived by secret combinations who seek power by any means and seek to destroy our freedom to worship God as our conscience dictates.
MadelineNovember 16, 2020
Since we have been asked to truthfully relate our life experiences, I add this. I had to give up attending the temple for most of my adult life because of the despair I felt after attending. The doctrine taught there until recently about the relationship between men and women just could not be reconciled with what I knew to be true. I am grateful for the changes and the correction, but extremely sorry so many decades of my life passed before the truth was fully taught there. Fortunately, God has richly blessed me with the ability to feel His spirit in many places and situations outside his temple. But how sorry I am that I was made to feel unwelcome in His house.
John R. CarpenterNovember 16, 2020
Not surprisingly Matt Harris gushes overtly in his book: "Hugh B. Brown: Mormonism’s Progressive Apostle." His socialist leaning political views are becoming more and more pronounced with each class and book he produces. He is no longer even trying to be objective.
RenaeNovember 16, 2020
I have seen a decided turn to the right in Utah politics during my life. But most zi attribute to the Demicratic Party's support for abortion rights. I believe what extremism attributable to President Benson's comments remain could be better fought by more widely publishing stories of the efforts of other Church leaders counter his more extreme political beliefs. Also, to trying to educate our members as to all the beliefs we espouse, not just to a few. It is easy to ascribe secret combinations to the other political party if we are unaware of the errors in our own party. And, as current events are making clear, some education on personality disorders such as narcissistic personality disorder, would be helpful. The constitution just might hang by a thread because of the mental illness suffered by a Republican president.
MichaelNovember 16, 2020
Elder Holland's talk quoted in the podcast: https://rsc.byu.edu/voice-my-servants/rending-veil-unbelief
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
I have mixed feelings about this article, and the title bothers me. Posing a question with a negative connotation suggests a judgement of guilt. The title also invites us to be suspicious of wrong doing. I hope everyone read the entire article to understand the details of the situation. The intent of this article was obviously to give President Benson a fair "hearing." However, I wonder if it only added fuel to the fire for those who are constantly seeking to criticize the leaders of the church.
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
I am hearing the phrase often lately regarding seeking to understand another person's "point of view." Generally, that is good advice, but in our current society it is often fruitless. Can you imagine Captain Moroni sitting down to discuss "points of view" when his nation was being seriously threatened by those determined to destroy their liberty? I was stunned after my most recent study of the Book of Mormon to see so many similarities in our society regarding the usurping of our freedoms. Yes, we are commanded to love our enemies, but we must also stand boldly and courageously for truth, our constitution, and our freedoms. I liked the outcome of the story in this article, but I don't think I would have encouraged my husband to go to a potentially dangerous place where he may have ended up losing his life.
Wayne AllredNovember 16, 2020
So sad how many people vote with their feelings on their sleeves, rather than the brain given to them by God. By their fruits shall he know them. Promises made, promises kept.
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
The points made in this article are exactly why the Equal Rights Amendment was never passed. I suppose the term "feminist" may mean different things to different people, but it has most certainly been a term that does not unify women. It divides them. However the greatest danger of so-called "feminism" is that it radically divides men and women. It has become politically correct to criticize and mock all men--to paint them as the enemy. Satan would like nothing more than to create enmity between all men and women.
Maryann TaylorNovember 16, 2020
This article reminds me of one of my favorite scriptures in the Book of Mormon. The prophet, Mormon, wrote to his son, Moroni, relating the extremely sinful circumstances of the people. This was the very darkest period in the Book of Mormon, shortly before the final great battle which annihilated most of the Nephites. However, Mormon counseled his son in Moroni 9:25: "My son, be faithful in Christ; and may not the things which I have written grieve thee...but may Christ lift thee up, and may...the showing of his body unto our fathers, and his mercy and long-suffering, and the hope of his glory and eternal life, REST IN YOUR MIND FOREVER." This article is so timely because some of the most powerful "fiery darts" of the adversary are stressful, angry, discouraging, hopeless thoughts. They suck the spiritual life from us and weaken us. They fuel enmity, divide us, and hurl us into a downward spiral of negativity. We need to focus on our Savior, Jesus Christ and to commit ourselves to serve him and his children. Never has the world needed the light of faithful Latter-day Saints more than today.
Dave WindsorNovember 15, 2020
It's sad that so many good members of the church have been deceived by secret combinations. My heart aches for them and I pray to God that they will see the light before it's too late.
JoeNovember 15, 2020
The people have spoken.
Deanna SasserNovember 15, 2020
I too would like a link to Wally Goddards article in Prayer. Thank you!
WallyNovember 14, 2020
You can find Wally's original article on Meridian at: https://latterdaysaintmag.com/higher-kinds-of-prayer/
Theresa OliverNovember 14, 2020
Thank you for this lovely reminder, Mary. What a gift that you appreciate the same things that I do. Thanks for being a “hugger mugger” with me.
Maryann TaylorNovember 14, 2020
Attending the temple has been a key to an outpouring of the Spirit in my life. As we ponder and seek for further light, it is a sacred place to obtain it.
Maryann TaylorNovember 14, 2020
Until the election is certified, it is incorrect to call Biden a "winner' of anything! Unfortunately, "unkind remarks" are a hallmark of politics today. I am much more interested in the fact that President Trump keeps his promises, has strengthened peaceful negotiations in The Middle East, and has been a blessing to the American economy--we now depend on oil from NO country other than our own. I could go on-but the list of what President Trump has achieved for our nation is endless.
Melissa MarkhamNovember 14, 2020
I'm so sorry for this difficult experience. I salute and admire you for the care you take for your daughter. I don't know if this is any comfort, but I feel like your inability to see her because of the pandemic is a metaphor for our inabilities and weaknesses in this life. Just as Heavenly Father knew about those, knew they were even necessary, and provided a Savior for us, he knows about the pandemic and has provided a Savior to make up the difference after all we can do. I will pray for you and your daughter-that the Savior will be with you to comfort you and ease your burden.
LeslieNovember 14, 2020
When our hearing impaired, vision impaired mom was in assisted living and we couldn’t visit, even through an open window, my sister bought and had staff set up an Alexa Echo View. We could video call her without her having to manage a tablet or get staff to assist in opening a zoom call. We could just call in and it automatically opened for her, showed her sitting in her usual command center chair. She could see and hear us and we could see and hear her. You could read and show your daughter storybooks, let her see you making dinner at your house, share music. Thankfully we were able to bring mom home to live with us this summer, but still use video calls for grandkids to call her.
Craig FrogleyNovember 14, 2020
Thank you, Maurine...That was even more significant to me knowing that you write it while struggling with the consequences of your bike accident. You and Scott are such examples to all of us in the details of our lives.
AnnaNovember 14, 2020
Several of your well-expressed thoughts, in well-crafted sentences, met a specific need for me today. Thank you for sharing. We were a young family in Chicagoland beginning in 1979, The climate then was not warm toward our way of approaching life as women. I would love to read those articles and your insights.
Harold RustNovember 14, 2020
Absolutely beautiful, uplifting, informative, and powerfully presented as a gift to all of us whether men or women.
Allan HillsNovember 14, 2020
We really enjoy the podcast,it has changed the way we study the gospel. Unfortunately, I have heard others who have become less enthusiastic about it because of the ads for merchandise at the beginning of the podcast for calendars and appointment journals. Consider moving them to the end of the podcast as those interested can continue to listen and those who are not will stop. Web based videos allow the watcher to skip ads after a few seconds and this option would benefit your podcast. Otherwise you have produced one of the best podcasts available. Thank you for your dedication
Kevin RNovember 13, 2020
Really appreciated this article. Got me thinking about the times when the Lord intervened on my behalf.
IlaNovember 13, 2020
Of all the comments so far, I am with and agree with the very first one, from Nadine Anderton. I dislike Trumps rudeness and name calling and how much he Loves himself, but he did as he promised, he did everything for the LOVE of our Great Country !!! I sincerely hope he has learned a lesson for his loss in 2020 and will run again in 4 yrs. to try and do it right this time. !!!
Leah WNovember 13, 2020
I would love to read the article by Wally Goddard. Do you have links to all sources cited in your podcast?
Andrea BartleyNovember 13, 2020
I send my hugs and empathy to you! My husband was in an accident in July and they would not let me in the ER. then he was in surgery for hours and no one called till 4:30AM. 7 weeks in the hospital with 9 surgeries and after most of them I found out I was allowed one hour after each surgery. That helped but he was mostly sleeping during that hour. His leg was amputed in August. Finally he went to rehab and got multiple infections in the stump. Back to the hospital and then he got Covid. back to rehab and 10 days quarantine and he couldn't take it anymore. He is now home. The whole time I cried every night as all family are in other states. The travel restrictions prevented them coming to us. So what did I do? With lots of prayer and fasting (myself and others for us) I decided to march myself up to the hospital and say I wanted to see him - he had been so upset under meds and in so much pain I couldn't take it anymore. The security guy called up to talk to the head nurse of the floor that noon hour and she said "send her up." they were plain tired of dealing with him and I got to be with him for 10 hrs. Another time on the night before leaving for rehab he was once again filled with major anxiety. By then I was able to visit 2-6PM every day but when it came time to leave I just said "this is not going to work, I won't leave him like this." And they brought me in a cot. Both of those times were gifts from God - the rest of the time I just took one day at a time and felt so grateful for all the prayers and ministering moments that came my way. We also did the technology thing and got Tablets and visited by messenger. And that helped so definitely see if the hospital is providing the equipment to do that. They were at our hospital but we bought our own anyway. After my experiences, and they wouldn't let me in anymore, I begged God that He would let someone have the same experience I did and have a reprieve and visit their loved ones. Though I'll never know for sure I believe with all my heart the Lord helped others also. So many have suffered so. You are a saint and I will pray that you might have a reprieve. Hugs to you!
MarnieNovember 13, 2020
I was disappointed there is no link to Wally’s original article
Diane QuistNovember 13, 2020
President Monsen said there were no coincidences. I remember this comment whenever things come together nicely or unexpectantly. The Lord has a hand in these “coincidences”.
Lincoln C OliphantNovember 13, 2020
I'm the author. Thanks to those leaving comments, particularly the Arizonans. They show the divisions in that State and the country. If only we had a Muse of Irony! Lincoln Oliphant
KathrynNovember 13, 2020
Two other ideas in addition to the wonderful ideas that have already been shared. There is power in united prayer. I'm guessing you've been praying constantly, but what about asking family, friends, and ward members to join you in prayer? I've seen specific, united prayers bring about amazing blessings. Another idea is to make a recording of yourself talking to your daughter--video would probably be best if possible, but audio would work too. Express your love. Tell her a favorite story. If you sing or play the piano, sing her some songs she loves. Then see if the staff could play the recording from time to time on the TV in her room (if there is one) or on a tablet or other device. I'm adding you to my prayers that you and your daughter will be comforted, guided, and encouraged. We love you!
Chuck SanfordNovember 13, 2020
I agree with Bro. Craycroft---he was my Bishop when we lived in Provo in the fall of 1972 (my wife, baby girl, and I lived in the ward---the rampant immorality in these shows is also offensive)
Pauline HarryNovember 13, 2020
No long-term safety has been proven in this 2-month trial. The study reports only .02% of the study group from ALL OVER THE WORLD which doesn’t take into account how many cases are there are there, nutrition, weather, or lifestyle. And now they’re ready to start vaccinating millions! Throw tons of money at it and see if anyone sticks around?
Mary J BellNovember 13, 2020
I love that Ed. My heart goes out to him. I'm glad he knows you. Great idea!
Nadine AndertonNovember 13, 2020
Instead of party or personality or manner, if you are a follower of Jesus Christ (as are surely most of the readers of Meridian) I suggest you measure campaign promises and direction according to "which candidate is more in line with the Gospel teachings?" Yes, there are voters and candidates of both major parties and platforms, and each has the agency to choose. But the whole country has to bear the consequences of the prevailing choice. Thie election, one party stands for socialism (or outright communism), taking away agency and substituting the will of the party leaders, and many other things that I am quite certain are opposite of what Jesus taught quite clearly. I have quite lost mt respect for Mitt Romney, whom I avidly supported in his previous runs for office, for letting personal dislike for Trump get in the way of his Christianity. Yes, Trump has many flaws. But he believes in America and has done things for Americans and the country that will be done if the other side's plans are successful. I held my nose when I voted for him in 2016, but I was happy enough with his presidency to happily support him in 2020. I don't think I've slept well since election night. I fully expect to be on some blacklist, but at age 76 I don't expect it to matter to me and since there were so many other frank comments I couldn't help adding mine. I have family in Arizona, including my oldest grandson who has joined many of the Millennials in supporting Socialism. My son, and I hope the others, have followed the teachings of Jesus Christ.
Norma PellettNovember 13, 2020
Dear sister, is there a way you and your daughter can both have a tablet? There are simple ways for her to connect to you. If you ask, someone on the staff should be able to help her. Your other children, grandchildren, or someone in your ward should be able to help you set up both tablets. Call your contact person at her care center and talk to them about setting this up. Arrange a time when there will be someone available to take your daughter's tablet and help her with it. Take someone with you for support. You and your family are in my prayers.
VAL C. LEWISNovember 13, 2020
Thank you, Maurine, that was wonderful! I love hearing stories of God working in our lives. My first story like this happened in 1962 and is titled, "Walk through that building". The result was miraculous and has led to many more.
RBaconNovember 13, 2020
I really loved this article, thank you so much. Yes He has been there for me also in the details of my life and I give thanks to Him everyday.
Douglas ZimmerNovember 13, 2020
You mentioned how we can't usually 'see' this intervention at the time of occurrence. The Jewish sages say this is a shadow or type of Exodus 33:22-23: 22 And it shall come to pass, while my glory passeth by, that I will put thee in a clift of the rock, and will cover thee with my hand while I pass by: 23 And I will take away mine hand, and thou shalt see my back parts: but my face shall not be seen. The Lord 'covers' our understanding and allows us a glimpse later when we must decide if the event was coincidence. The Jews also say that calling something a coincidence is akin to blasphemy, for obviously good reason.
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
I agree that the phone call was not random nor a coincidence. You had a beautiful answer to prayer that cannot be denied. I think so many times we receive help from the Lord and we just don't recognize it at the time. Perhaps we can train ourselves to immediately offer thanks to the Lord WHENEVER ANYTHING GOOD happens by remembering we are to acknowledge the hand of the Lord in ALL things. We can also acknowledge his hand in our lives even in our disappointments or sorrows--He knows what we need.
Sharon Lee BrownNovember 13, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing this. It is wonderful. Sharon
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
I think many of the claims you mention in the article you referenced are false. For example--- the old, tired out lament about guns, but no mention of the MANY lives that have been SAVED because innocent Americans had guns to defend themselves??? I have read of many accounts of this fact, some in my own home town. These criticisms of America are not new and will continue to circulate. Yes, we have challenges--but our nation is still blessed beyond measure. It is ALWAYS a good idea to evaluate our family relationships and work at strengthening them, but the continuous criticisms of America causes much more harm than good. We live in a time when it is "politically correct" to keep up the "'ain't-it awful" rhetoric, and I believe it is a technique used by our enemies to destroy our patriotism.
Phil HarrisonNovember 13, 2020
Thank you so much for this tender story. It is such a good reminder that the Lord is always mindful of us, even when we fail to remember Him. As I look back on my life, I can see so many times the Lord directed my path, through jobs I got and jobs I didn't get, to move me around the country to put me where I needed to be to have certain experiences and meet certain people. I've been writing a personal history which I am calling "In His Hands," because I recognize that's where I have been through all seven decades of my life. Three years ago I was diagnosed with ALS, an incurable, degenerative, terminal disease. As I become more and more dependent on others, and simultaneously more dependent on Him, I asked the Lord almost constantly, what He wants me to learn from this experience. I'm sure I won't understand fully until I get to the other side and He can explain it to me face-to-face. But what an adventure in the meantime! Thank you again for sharing your story.
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
I can't think of a single reason you could not see her through the window whenever you want to. You could also draw some colorful pictures to hold up for her to see and mimic a hug. I think the day is coming when COVID is going to be just one more risk in life we are going to have to accept and go back to our normal activities. We cannot continue this way indefinitely.
PaulNovember 13, 2020
Over the last few years, thanks to Bernie Sanders' poor choice of words, Socialist Democracy has been confused with Socialism. Northern European countries are NOT socialist. I have lived there and done business there for many years. They are CAPITALIST countries with wide social safety nets. Yes, they pay higher taxes to achieve this, but apparently the people like it. And they look over in dismay at the United States, with Capitalism run amuck, where unscrupulous people at the top do everything they can to keep the bottom tier at the bottom.
DianeNovember 13, 2020
My heart breaks for this mother and daughter! Could the staff at the facility help them to connect via skype, face time, zoom, or some other platform? Even a simple phone call so the daughter could hear her mother’s voice might help.
DianeNovember 13, 2020
What a cool story! Thank you for sharing it!
Robert D StarlingNovember 13, 2020
Thanks Maurine, for reminding us all that our Heavenly Father is indeed "in the details" of our lives. If we can just recognize those "tender mercies" for the blessings they are, our lives will be filled with much more joy and happiness.
DianeNovember 13, 2020
My heart breaks for this mother and daughter! I wonder if the staff at the facility could help mother and daughter connect via skype, face time, zoom, or other format? Or maybe even a simple phone call.
MicheleNovember 13, 2020
I cannot assist, but my heart goes out completely to this dear woman. My 70 year old sister still has her youngest 29 year old down syndrome who additionally has a psychotic disorder, which only my sister recognized. I am so grateful for Geoff's tender words in this situation to this dear woman. I will be forwarding the letter to my sister, as she's looked at group homes for my niece but is very distraught about the decision.
Judi EnglishNovember 13, 2020
What an amazing miracle! Thanks for sharing.
Maryann TaylorNovember 13, 2020
No surprise here. I could have guessed this from the title of the show. Anything that says "Real Housewives" is suspect.
James ScottNovember 13, 2020
Certainly one of the most extraordinary events in the Book of Mormon I’ve always been intrigued by the truth so evident there. May I also point out the importance of Isaiah’s declaration of, “and who shall declare his generation?” Most don’t realize the significance of that question, and it’s finally answered in Abinadi’s explanation of the Savior’s mission as Father and Son. See Mosiah 15:1-11. Jesus Christ becomes our father when we become his children through our own acceptance and obedience to his commandments. We become his children and he then is Father to us, his generation fulfillment.
K HardenNovember 13, 2020
Insightful article. I also think Biden got a lift from Scott Kelly. It’s obvious many Republicans voted for him so my theory is as they were in the voting booth just went ahead and voted D all the way through. Although my state overwhelmingly carried Trump I am grateful to all the voters who were willing to stand up to the bully and send him packing.
ShareeNovember 13, 2020
Maybe the facility staff could set up Zoom meetings between the woman and her daughter.
Buffie BarkdullNovember 13, 2020
The spiritual insights you shared from your sacred life experiences spoke pure truth to my soul. Thank you for sharing your gift of writing and expression. It blessed me in a profound way today.
Sue WynneNovember 13, 2020
I understand to a certain extent. Our 29-year-old son has autism and is also living in supervised housing. We bought him an iPad and we visit every single day via FaceTime. He’s anxious for a visit, but he loves that connection. He’s not a good communicator so sometimes he just hangs out and watches while I work from home, cook or clean kitchen...sometimes we even watch a movie or video together. These are the times when we have to be creative. I would be really shocked if someone at the care facility wouldn’t be willing to help you set that up. Even a five minute daily Facetime call could make all the difference for you both. God bless
Rebecca McCauleyNovember 13, 2020
I was so touched by this article. You are a wonderful Mom! I am sure you have thought of this, but could you meet virtually on Zoom? Or FaceTime over the phone? Talk with the leaders of the facility- everyone is having to communicate differently because of Covid19. Maybe they have made accommodations that are unknown to you. You are a wonderful, strong, woman and a Mother’s love is some of the strongest in the world! You will find a way! Heavenly Father is aware of you, your daughter, and this entire situation. He loves you both. My prayers are with you! Keep trying!
Jan StrongNovember 13, 2020
I love this story! Thank you for sharing. Looking in the rear view mirror, we can clearly see the Lord guiding and leading us along, even miraculously opening that Red Sea for us. This story is a lovely reminder of the goodness and greatness of God. Thanks for the beautiful memory and timely reminder.
Deanna SasserNovember 13, 2020
Maureen, I loved this article and I know, especially as I get older, that God is in the details of my life and my family. I have learned patience and learned to be still and I am able to look back and see the struggles we have gone through and know that they helped me to grow, have more faith and trust the Lord. I still struggle but, yes, He loves me and I love my Father, His Son and the Holy Spirit that guides me. Now, I would love to read that first article that you wrote years ago if you still have it. Thank you to you and Scott for your amazing job as editors of The Meridian Magazine. You are both wonderful and I love your Podcasts that my husband and I listen to each Sunday together. May the Lord continue to bless you and your family.
K HardenNovember 13, 2020
I agree with the comment that selfishness is the root of all problems in this country. The decline of the family doesn’t lead people to build a wall on our southern boarder or deny a person health care. Recent research has brought to light in the past 50 years reviewing published literature the word ‘I’ has replaced ‘we’ significantly. Personally, I feel the ‘baby boomer’ generation of which I am a part has been a disaster as far as leadership. We are leaving our children with war, debt and abounding in crime and still no health care. Shame on us. Thank you for this article, very thought provoking. i agree that America the promised land is all of North and South America not just the USA. I also question this oft repeated quote that the Constitution will hang by a thread prophesy. The only reference I can find if that is a third hand account in a journal entry. Please enlighten me if you can find a first hand document.
SkepticalNovember 12, 2020
@Splink, what is your source on the claim that the standard of living has been generally in decline for decades? That seems like an unsubstantiated thing to say. According to economist Ed Yardeni, "I have taken deep dives into the data on standards of living and income inequality. Nowhere can I find a credible series that confirms a 30-year drought in standards of living for almost all Americans. Instead, the data show that Americans have never been better off. I’m not making a political statement, just a statement of facts (which, I acknowledge, do have political implications)." He explains his reasoning in this article: https://www.marketwatch.com/story/americans-living-standards-are-at-an-all-time-high-heres-proof-2019-05-02.
CyndiNovember 12, 2020
Neither McCain nor Flake is universally loved by many Arizona voters who feel betrayed by their willingness to change sides regardless of their campaign promises. It was so easy for them to blame their lack of loyalty on conscience. I am glad Flake left. I would never trust him again. Trump is not perfect, neither are they.
kathy FlinnNovember 12, 2020
DITTO! Richard Craycroft
MikeNovember 12, 2020
The final comment is the crux of the article. Be kind to those you pass up (and down) the greasy poll. Not many places people of different and strongly held political positions can come together in fellowship and compassion. Hopefully our church is one of them. At least 4 comments about this article seem to be leaning in that direction, but all of the votes have not been counted yet..
Harold rustNovember 12, 2020
I'm not an Arizonian and I voted for Mitt in 2016 while admiring what Jeff Flake said when he chose not to run again. That was then. Since then I have been very disappointed in each of these men who contrived a moral position that was based on personal hate of President Trump and a sense of righteous indignation when they each should have addressed the fundamentals from the standpoint of our country. Not one of Biden's principle points of planned policy will be good for the country: more severe lockdowns with government mandatory regulations; less protection of the border; more support for bad financial and political plans in blue states; wasted money spent on picking winners in the race to help our climate while many of them will turn out to be losers and it will have ignored the free market options which would probably finally come up with nuclear as the energy of the future; and finally strong support for abortion, more legislative judges, and possibly more witch hunts against anyone who disagrees with them. All because President Trump is narcissistic, blasts out at people way more than seems nice, and has gone through a lot of high level cabinet folks. I believe the Republicans can keep him from doing real harm while not one Democrat will have the courage to speak out against any Biden/Harris/Bernie/AOC wild agenda effort. Supporting your country sometimes means you've got to hire an irascible personality. And yes, President Trump brought some of this on himself....but that isn't good enough reason to turn your back on him.
KimNovember 12, 2020
I’m a native Arizonan and long time republican. For the first time in the almost four decades I’ve been eligible to vote I supported a democrat in the presidential election. Why? Donald Trump bullies, lies, manipulates, threatens, attacks, blames, belittles and rages. He consistently uses and abuses people and power narcissistically. His toxic divisive presidency has torn our nation apart and four more years of his special brand of crazy would have been disastrous. Jeff Flake and John McCain have my utmost respect and admiration.
Dave MyersNovember 12, 2020
Actually, it seems to me, the decline of the family is another symptom, and the real root cause is selfishness - the individual puts himself and his interests and desires before those of his family, his neighbor, his community and nation.
SamNovember 12, 2020
"Scripture teaches us that America is a “land of promise,” a phrase used dozens of times in the Book of Mormon." Must remember that America is not just USA. There is more to the promised land than them. Many problems have arisen in the USA. Church members need to get back to living the values of the Book Of Mormon. Humble. Repentance. Service to one another.
Wade BeaudreauNovember 12, 2020
I live in Arizona; I am a member of the same church as Jeff Flake. No one I know in AZ cares for Mr. Flake and in fact, wish he would just 'flake off' into oblivion, if you catch my drift. He has not done himself any good in his endorsing Biden. Kind of like Mitt also hasn't helped himself in recent times criticizing the President. I realize Utah Latter-day Saints are different from Arizona ones, and we all have our agency, but, 'come on, man', can't you all see the likelihood of serious societal problems once Biden/Harris get in? Can't you see the pre-Covid improvements in our country? Country over party, indeed! My choice was for the country. Thank you for listening
SplinkNovember 12, 2020
I'm a materialist. People's relationship to their material conditions determine their lives. It's inevitable. You have all of this completely backwards. This is one of the most maddening things in the church, although I know you can't acknowledge this, because then people would realize they don't need the church. The reason for the decline in marriage, and people having children in marriage, and general home stability, is that the standard of living for people has been in general decline for decades. People aren't getting married because they lack economic stability and means. People aren't having children in wedlock because they lack the means to do so. If you want the family to be strengthened, then people's economic position has to be improved. If that doesn't happen, the realities of family will continue to decline.
Richard EyreNovember 12, 2020
I would welcome your comments, questions or feedback on this article. Thanks for reading.
Pauline HarryNovember 12, 2020
Pfizer's CEO cashed out 60% of his stock on the same day the company unveiled the results of its COVID-19 vaccine trial. Could end up helping to spread the virus.
Jim PetersonNovember 12, 2020
Mark, Another wonderful and relevant article born out of the reality of universal forces that push against all of us. I miss our daily chats over lunch. I am inspired by the consecration of your spiritual gifts to helping others understand the restored gospel of Jesus Christ more deeply. Thank you for sharing the personal whisperings of sacred truths like " I will heal him... in the resurrection". Great perspective and powerful teaching!
Deanna SasserNovember 12, 2020
Just wanted to say how I enjoy your stories about children and that I share them with my grandchildren. I especially loved the “cow” story. It made us laugh for days! Thanks for the love of children that you have and for all your teaching moments. You are a great story teller!!!
Diane IrwinNovember 12, 2020
This is spot on! Truly the demise of families has been the demise of this country! "Me, me, me. It's all about ME!" is the thought process for so many. Selfishness is the heart of so many social ills.If people would forget themselves and their needs, then reach out to others, allow others in, marriages would be the majority instead of the minority and family life would flourish!
Joel MarksNovember 12, 2020
Dr Eyre is correct in his prescient evaluation of America as ‘the promised land’ and strong families as the solution. Mss Washington, Jefferson, Madison, Lincoln and Nelson would all concur. God bless America as the much prophesied Promised Land.
Steve ZeiglerNovember 12, 2020
As our love of Jesus Christ has declined, so is going the true strength of this still great nation. The love of the Lord fosters strong families while socialism requires that the government be worshiped instead of God. Look at the founding principles of BLM for example. It's estimated that 40% of Christians in this country attend church weekly. Even many Christians feel that when two men love each other, it's alright for them to marry. Many also believe in a woman's right to choose. What was wrong 2000 years ago is still wrong today, regardless of how modern society is changing. Right and wrong don't change. This country has lost its footing as we have forgotten our Lord, as Universal Law dictates its effects. In the Book of Mormon we see example after example where the Lord brings nations to their knees as they have forgotten the provider of all that is good. We are most likely entering this phase. I hope we all keep our eyes on the Lords prophets and that good people who are not yet aware of prophets will keep their eyes on God for deliverance from the trials that await us.
Edward HessNovember 12, 2020
America is in decline, not just because families are in decline, or that there are more people living out of wedlock, or that the rising generations are being dumbed down, but because belief in God is no longer the focal point of society. In my youth the majority of families attended church on Sunday, but now days only a handful of churches have more than a hundred people in attendance, and many of those old churches now stand empty. The disintegration of families and neighborhoods, the dumbing down of societies, allowing politicians, judges and lawyers to have the power to tell us what is right and what is wrong, what we can and cannot do according to the doctrines of "political correctness," rather than adhering to the laws, ordinances, and commandments of the Lord is why America is in the decline. There needs to be a call for this nation to repent, to believe in God, to believe that He is, and for each of us to become our brother's keeper, but if we continue to rely on government to be the solution to everything, then, "Yes! America will no longer be a Land of Promise, except for those who still believe in God and worship Him; and if we continue in the direction we're now going, then there will come a time, probably in the not too near future when the people will separate into tribes and each will appoint their own leaders and establish their own laws to be united against those who are corrupt and lawless." That is the promise and the prophecy concerning the fate of America when Jesus Christ is no longer worshiped or honored as the God of this land. Never in my lifetime has this country been more corrupt and more self absorbed than it is at this time, and it is just a matter of time when prophecies will be fulfilled concerning it's demise. Those who still believe in God need to rise up and to raise a clarion call for America to repent, otherwise we will continue down this path until even the earth itself will rise up and say, "Enough is Enough!" and like Sodom and Gomorrah the people will perish in their sins. Nevertheless, it will still be a "Promised Land" for the righteous, and only the righteous who will be reserved to be caught up to meet the Savior during His Second Coming. As we draw closer to the end of time as we know it, things will only grow worse; however, the Constitution will still hold, but it will hang by a thread as was prophesied. I firmly believe these things, and I say this in the name of Jesus Christ..
Wayne C FletcherNovember 12, 2020
America is still the Land of Promise by the Lord’s standards. Scriptures tell us where we are going in the near future. That is why President Nelson has given us the cautions and guidelines he has. At the present time the secret societies are in control(Ether 8:22-26). America will be cleansed as it was in 3 Nephi 8. Few living today will be then. Then with the return of the 10 tribes, Enoch and Melchizedek, the New Jerusalem will be established. There is more but that is enough.
Susan RoylanceNovember 12, 2020
Loved this article by Lincoln Oliphant -- truly, what goes around comes around.
Robert MartinNovember 12, 2020
What a thought provoking article. As I reach my middle seventies I look back to when I was a child and to my parents our nurturing was the most important thing. Mother stayed home and father worked. We forego a motor car, and the single bedrooms for each child, and an annual overseas vacation. Our welfare and education was the most important goal for most families. We have lost that now. Young couples want to move in together, sometimes marry, and buy a new home with 4 bedrooms and a study and also a media room. All new furniture and appliances. And they lose the freedom to raise a meaningful family. They are in debt for the rest of their lives and both have to work to pay off that debt. We should in the future, maybe through tax relief, allow our mothers the freedom to raise their children to be worthwhile citizens of the future. I have a large family with now 16 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren and as I reach the end of my life I realize how blessed I am and that accumulated wealth is not the goal but our treasure is tied up in our families. Good luck everyone. Have a great life.
Robyn GeantilNovember 12, 2020
I thought the same about John McCain. I lived in Arizona for 25 years and John McCain was respected and genuinely liked by the people. President Trump has learned (or maybe not) that unkind remarks are remembered. Especially about people who spend seven years of their life as a POW.
Richard CraycroftNovember 12, 2020
I avoid all "Real Houswives" shows because I don't want to actively kill brain cells.
PaulNovember 11, 2020
When talking to someone about my favorite scriptures and describing why they are so important to me I often find myself choked-up with tears.
JeannieNovember 11, 2020
Get out now. If you leave, yes the road is unknown, but you have possibilities and a chance to find someone who truly loves you. If you stay--the road is known--you know you can't trust him and you know there will be days and even years of heartache. If you leave, know you will heal and find happiness; if you stay you will not have healing or happiness until he changes. Don't expect him to change. Take control of your future. You can do this; be strong.
LARRY KENT ANDERSONNovember 11, 2020
Thank you for your post. Just before my mission call 53 years ago) I made good friends with the Holy Ghost. I had dozens of experiences there. I built some shelves in my crawl space a while ago. After getting started I was guided in how to do the complete project. Just like Nephi building the ship. I not only believe I know that he is real.
Nerita Flake PetersonNovember 11, 2020
Thanks so much for revealing your authorship of one of my favorite books. I bought it twice after )losing the first one, on purpose I fear, having found the truth of it being too painful. I love the insight in this article and am convinced that the bridle is essential to both the horse and rider.
Tawna F.November 11, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing this example of making the choice to choose to be kind, even when fear or anger might seem justified (in the rabbi's case) - a reminder of how we can choose the higher and more Christlike way. Reminds me of the scripture Alma 31:5 where the preaching of the word (in a spirit of sincere love and brotherhood) had "a more powerful effect on the minds of the people than the sword or anything else." I think that examples of kindness and love - when you can tell it is sincere,is how God helps us to change hearts. Anger and hate never help change people for the better. Thanks for sharing this timely reminder!
Jessica EricksonNovember 11, 2020
I found the music for Happy Birthday Song by Norma G. Jacobsen. It was published in The Children's Friend in January 1953. It's on page 48/60 on the PDF (page 34 in the magazine). It's in the church archives if the link doesn't work. Enjoy! https://catalog.churchofjesuschrist.org/assets?id=c849dedc-5105-4fdd-ab90-b34946a525d3&crate=0&index=47
Becky DouglasNovember 11, 2020
Richard, Aaahhh!! Your comment panicked me. We are always so grateful for readers that keep us all honest! I went to your reference to TIME Magazine but unfortunately was only able to get the first few lines, since I am not a subscriber. My husband and I tore our library apart the night I wrote this article, looking for the book of Inspirational Jewish stories that inspired it. I had literally copied the story for an Education Week talk, but unfortunately, the author’s name was cut off in the footnotes. Hopefully a reader will recognize her telling of the story and write me, allowing me to give proper credit to the real author. We also searched the internet for the name of the book I had once owned and once again, came up empty handed. I did today read the following articles and get all the same details (many of them word for word) for this story. These articles included New York Times, Lessons from a Rabbi Who Knows Hate and Forgiveness (Jan 4, 2009); another version from the Queens Gazette (Oct 29, 2008), and another from Robertglazier.com (Feb 21, 2019). The Queens Chronicle (Oct. 30, 2008) has the account of the rings story (not contained in the other articles). All elements of the story with the exception of the synagogue praying are in these versions. An entire book called, Not By the Sword, has been written by Katherine Watterson about this story. I have ordered a copy and fully expect to find the last element in this book. I have learned from doing my own interviews with the press that my words are edited tremendously by the editors. Some interviews for TV are edited down from a 30-minute interview to a 5-minute piece! Given the TIMES orientation, it is no surprise to me that the spiritual elements of this story did not make the article.
ShelleyNovember 11, 2020
Thank you for this great article. I, too, have wondered over the years about what it means to have the "constant" companionship of the Holy Ghost. This article helped clarify this for me!
Edward Rehder IIINovember 11, 2020
Great stuff Mary. I'm now thinking of a man I have been ministering to for a couple years. No Family. Few friends if any besides we ministers. And it occurs to me that he probably hasn't had a hug in forever. I wonder how one might change his perspective and attitude neither of which are very positive. Thanks for an idea.
ReidNovember 11, 2020
Excellent thoughts, simply expressed. Thank you.
Becca BirkinNovember 11, 2020
Thank you for your thoughts presented in such a beautiful way. So often the impressions I receive are small and come in a way that make it too easy to forget or question their power. Your words affirm my choice to believe that the Spirit is near us. Thank you for lifting my spirit today.
Chuck SanfordNovember 11, 2020
I am a father, a grand-father, and a great-grandfather. I very well know how precious children are. Now we have another Justice of the Supreme Court who understands this.
CharlesNovember 11, 2020
Thanks for the great podcasts. I was very interested to hear that there were actually 24 volumes of plates instead of just 24 plates. How do we know that?
Lynn D JohnsonNovember 11, 2020
Always good to hear from Bro. Goddard
Scot ProctorNovember 10, 2020
As mentioned, Dan Jones was in Carthage, but left before the mob stormed the building. Those you named were the only others left once the mob arrived.
Bruce BartonNovember 10, 2020
Nice story with a happy ending. But life isn’t always that way, and not because we don’t try. For example, remember in the story Rabbi Michael wasn’t so “nice” with Nazi Larry at first. In fact, he may never have been nice to Larry without his wife’s continuing counsel. A shout-out to good wives. But what if Larry had not changed after the rabbi was nice to him? Then what? Would the story still have a happy ending? Yes, in part. Because Rabbi Michael changed. You see, sometimes in life, to "win," you don’t always need a win-win ending. You just need to change yourself—to be a better self. Remember, we stand alone when we stand before God.
Georgi SmithNovember 10, 2020
The church website only names Willard Richards and John Taylor having been in the room with Joseph and Hyrum. Therefore I am confused. Georgi
Laurel JorgensenNovember 10, 2020
Excellent article! In trying to look good to and please our critics, we sometimes go too far. I appreciated the additional insights from the novel Elder Cook used to make his case.
RichardNovember 10, 2020
Well written article but seems to be overly embellished and miraculousized when compared with a first persons interview with Larry Trapp and Michael Weisser By Daniel S. Levy/Lincoln Monday, Feb. 17, 1992 published in Time Magazine.
Sharon LeighNovember 10, 2020
That is just beautiful. Thank you so much!
Tim ErnstNovember 10, 2020
I suspect that missionaries are not the only ones warded by angels, although I must agree that they are probably the ones most apt to be consistently guarded and probably the most apt to discern their presence, also. I cannot say that I've ever seen an angel, but I have seen evidences that they exist. Perhaps that is "good enough" for me.
Ron BarnesNovember 10, 2020
Is Mortality about a Test or about Joy? I think of mortality as a school. Being tested, and the joy that comes from passing a test, are both part of the learning process. In this school we are given lessons. Being tested shows us how well we have learned them. If we fail a test, we can learn from it and correct it. I believe that most tests are not designed, but are natural components of the school.
RobynNovember 9, 2020
I'm putting together a Book of Mormon for my son to have later in life with all kinds of visuals in the margins (Line Upon Line scriptures are AMAZING, just saying). Anyway, I'd really like to do a side by side comparison of Mormon and Joseph Smith Jr. Any chance you have one I could print out?
Tom WoodNovember 9, 2020
Another thoughtful lesson, Breck. I believe that one of the most important steps mortal man can make in order to gain salvation and earn exaltation is to establish a relationship with God through prayer and your lesson brings that importance into sharp focus. Thanks for your lesson my friend.
ChristianNovember 9, 2020
Great article. Kathy and Steve, perhaps you could love until you see evidence of your concerns. Christ asked/commanded us to love; who is telling you to hate?
Becky DouglasNovember 9, 2020
Kathy, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and for reminding us all of courageous Captain Moroni! He is one of my favorite prophets and a great source of personal inspiration. I love how he so often tried to reclaim and rehabilitate the Lamanites. I also love how Moroni, a man of impeccable honesty and unassailable morality, never vilified the Lamanites, but referred to them continually as "our brethren, the Lamanites", as a reminder to everyone in that war that they were all literally from the same parentage. This same respect was afforded to the Lamanites later in the Book of Mormon by his remarkable namesake, Moroni, the son of Mormon. This Moroni also not only often characterized the Lamanites as "our brethren", but he also spent his life trying to guard the plates, all while being hunted down by the Lamanites. He informs us that they had killed his father and all his family members. Yet, still he sacrificed greatly so that the descendants of the Lamanites, his enemies, would have the ability to learn of Jesus and His Atoning sacrifice and love for them. All this sacrifice was not for his OWN descendants, but for the descendants of those who were his enemies. Truly there has never been a book brought forth by so much personal sacrifice and love than the Book of Mormon! I completely agree with you that there are times to push back! I don't think anyone would ever think that Moroni failed to push back against evil. He choose to fight it, as his father had given his life doing. I believe there is a choice in the way we push back. I believe if we do it with love, we bring the power of the Savior into the equation. I hope one day I can look back and say that I tried my best to be like both great Moroni's in the Book of Mormon. I know I fall far, far short, but I'm so grateful for their examples that inspire me to want to be better!
LewisNovember 9, 2020
While I have heard this story before, it is a powerful message to all of us. It is particularly important now as we come together as a country to heal, unify and move forward to address real challenges. It is a gentle reminder of the Savior's admonition to "love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you, that ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven." I greatly, GREATLY, appreciate your reminding us of the importance of love, forgiveness and compassion.
RGKNovember 9, 2020
We'd been married just over a year when my husband and his ex-girlfriend began communicating with one another over the phone. He couldn't understand why it bothered me. This went on for a number of years - phone calls, then emails. How often? I’ve never had a straight answer. I was pregnant with my fourth child when I received a call from her husband asking me to ask my husband to stop contacting his wife. I thought it would finally end there, but then came cell phones and social media with other ways to secretly connect. Although he never said that he still loved her, his actions showed that she was more important to him than me. He's had one foot in our marriage and one foot always somewhere else - ex-girlfriend, his family, others. As a consequence, I have never felt safe in 29 years of marriage. I was made to feel it was all my fault - "you're so suspicious, too selfish, scared of everything and everyone, unkind, angry"; I was lied to, manipulated, and gas-lighted so often that I began to think that I was the problem, that was overreacting and must be a truly horrible, un-Christlike person. My self-esteem plummeted, confidence in myself disappeared and anxiety appeared.With Heavenly Father's help, I came to my senses a year or so ago and received counseling for myself and then we began marriage counseling together. I have chosen to stay (with incredibly strict boundaries) but I know, had I chosen to leave, Heavenly Father would stand with and support me. The heartache and insecurity from this type of infidelity is terrible to bear. If this happened to my daughter, I would counsel her to leave; to be confident in herself and in her principles, believe in and trust HER temple covenants, forget gossip and embarrassment, disappointment or judgment from others. Be strong, find a support group, know you are worthy and loved and that Heavenly Father will stand by you, whatever you choose.
Maryann TaylorNovember 9, 2020
This is so very sad---my heart goes out to this woman. Having said that, she should not have to feel like she is playing "second fiddle" to the woman her husband says he still cares about. The wife here deserves better, and if her husband doesn't love her, there are men out there who WILL love and treasure her. I hope she won't get trapped in a loveless marriage.
Peppi McIntoshNovember 9, 2020
I agree there is a time to fight, but it is only after we have done all we can. You will never change someone else's mind with retaliation or anger or hate. I have seen the powered that returning love for hate can have. It truly has the potential to turn enemies into friends. Friends are more likely to stand up for our rights and help protect them.
Maryann TaylorNovember 9, 2020
What great advice! Fear and panic only increase the obsession. Stay calm and focus on the positive things about this person that have nothing to do with sexuality.
Wendy BrownNovember 9, 2020
Thank you, Carolyn. Shall be trying these.
DebNovember 9, 2020
Profound spiritual application as well! Thanks!
kathy FlinnNovember 9, 2020
Yes, we are to love one another...…but when there are secret combinations trying to destroy our liberties, we have NO choice but to push back! SAD..... but true! Remember Moroni's title of liberty!
Stephanie GalleyNovember 9, 2020
I am also a descendant of John Carling and am so thankful for your work. I am sure he is also grateful for all you have done to help memorialize him!
Steve ZeiglerNovember 9, 2020
Eventually the Nephites acquiesced to the Gadiantons. Again, can good compromise with evil and stay good? Can we allow overt corruption to stand and assume everything will be ok because we want to get along? There is a time for people to stand up for what is right and good in our country and not give in to the temptation to get along at any price. Since this won't be printed, know that it is for you editors of your mostly wonderful organization. Wake up and help us keep our constitutional republic.
Pat ChildersNovember 9, 2020
A heartfelt compassionate and inspiring story, with pictures to boot. There are many such stories abounding; however, opposition is much more prominent. Hurrah for LOVE!
Neeltje ArdonNovember 9, 2020
Bravo!!!!!!!
DenieseNovember 9, 2020
The thought I had was that the tree sprung upright after neighbors had helped clear away the overgrowth. The friends helped and then the tree ( lost person) was then able to stand again.
Patricia G. SchellNovember 9, 2020
I served a Nauvoo mission.2006-07. My heart will always be filled with memories of my fellow missionaries and Nauvoo. I'm a convert so imagine my surprise to find I had more than one Nauvoo ancestor who left there and crossed the plains.
Janet McCulloughNovember 8, 2020
Such an inspiring message of hope; a message wth eternal perspective.This is so needed ! Thank you, both, for the way you express these truths so clearly. Truth is beautiful. Truth is freeing! We love your podcasts.
BeckyNovember 8, 2020
I know this is true. We have been promised that we could have angels to help us. I remember reading a book by Elder F.Enzio Busche that talked about how angels helped the saints so much in Germany in WWII. It was so inspiring. Though I don’t remember it, I had an experience with them as a child. This made me realize how close those who have passed on are to us and want to help us. Heavenly Father is aware of each of us. Thank you for sharing.
Maryann TaylorNovember 8, 2020
At this time there are so many of us who need to be reminded of the truths you have written here. I just keep remembering that the Lord holds us in the palm of his hands. I am also uplifted by Elder Holland's prophecy that the church WILL STAND until our Savior comes again, no matter what else is happening in the world around us. Thank you so much for your beautiful healing words at a time when we need them so much!
Shelley StevensNovember 8, 2020
I am trying to find a source that states that the Rod of Aaron was in the box but have not had success. Can you share your source?
VardellNovember 8, 2020
Brother Eyre, Thanks for your series of articles. I love that you ask for thoughts and comments. One of the reasons you don't receive more comments is because Meridian is terrible at posting them. Over the years I have noticed that maybe half of my comments ever get posted, and those are not posted quickly. So since this is not a good medium for a conversation, would you care to have an email discussion? [email protected]
CoreyNovember 8, 2020
You are going to have pain and anguish and wonder how could my prayers have been so wrong but it's not you that's the problem and don't forget that, it's your spouse who is making that decision and it's also obvious he hasn't been totally honest, cut your losses now before children are involved.
MikaelNovember 8, 2020
I was in a marriage for 25 years, when I was told she never loved me. After 2 affairs and so much gaslighting I lost over 70 pounds. I feel I am stuck here, and don't have the courage to divorce. She claims now she loves me, but still blames me for her affairs. Take care of yourself. It is better to end it now than to have years of gaslighting and betrayal. I am so sorry.
Tim WeldonNovember 8, 2020
Why do we even need new hymns? There are plenty of amazing, traditional hymns in existence that, criminally, aren't even in the current book - Lord Of All Hopefulness, The Lord's My Shepherd (Crimond), Love Divine All Loves Excelling, At The Name Of Jesus, etc, etc. I'm afraid our hymn book is in grave danger of becoming a book of camp fire songs.
Sarah HinzeNovember 7, 2020
Thank you Maurine and Scott. This is an inspired and hope filled message. What a blessing you and latterdaysaintmag.com are to all of us!!
John W DalyNovember 7, 2020
Love the picture that goes with the message. It says it all in one view
John W DalyNovember 7, 2020
One of the best messages ever to appear on Meridian! A classic and inspired reminder for us all
RochelleNovember 7, 2020
My second marriage literally began to fall apart on our honeymoon. We had married in the (LDS) temple, pledged to care for each other's children, and found a home to build our life together, but little wedges began to sneak in. I sought direction from our bishop who practically referred me to an attorney. My husband seemed to have no interest in addressing our challenges. A year and a half later I was sealed to my now husband of over thirty years.
JNovember 7, 2020
Anyone can stir up feelings if we let ourselves. Acknowledge them, acknowledge they’re wrong to act on, acknowledge what’s right, choose the right. My concern would be less with the feelings (although difficult) and more with the commitment to covenants of the marriage (which I believe would resolve much of this). Life is not a romance movie and he seems to think he has no say in what happens next.
Gordon J HensleyNovember 6, 2020
I know people who have pet snakes and I fear that my wife will not want to join me in heaven because she is afraid of snakes, including pictures of them.
Diane StewartNovember 6, 2020
I'm a huge fan of your and Maurine's work and talents. I can't wait to have my own copy of the Nauvoo calendar. It's the perfect accessory to the upcoming Doctrine and Covenants study.
Bev StoutNovember 6, 2020
We love your podcast, especially hearing your applicable personal experiences, and listen to it every week. A quick question: Please help me understand, what is Moroni's part in Mormon 7? II have always thought Chapter 7 was Mormon's conclusion to his own writings, hence the "Amen" at the end.
Heather PoelmanNovember 6, 2020
You always have such wise counsel and advise. Love your contributions. Thank you!
DianeNovember 6, 2020
IN the first months of my marriage, my husband told me that he loved his ex-girlfriend more than he loved me. My heart aches for this young wife! I think you gave her great advice, and I hope she can find peace in the decisions that lie ahead for her.
Andrew CurrieNovember 6, 2020
I think a major point has been missed in the counsel given this woman. "Invite him to open up about how he arrived at this decision. Make sure you do more listening than talking so you can really understand why he’s making this declaration." He doesn't know why he's doing this. The Bible (1 John 2:4) tells us: "He that says, I know Him, and keeps not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him." Some Bible translation describe such a person as "a liar". So what possibly could be the benefit of 'carefully listening' to his excuses to find out what he's thinking? This is a typical defect in the "counseling process". It is useless to listen to someone so deep in sin that the Spirit has no place in them! He has already revealed his heart. Cut your losses before you end-up with an STD from this unfaithful husband or you bring a child into this pathetic situation.
Maryann TaylorNovember 5, 2020
I am finding that I have to withdraw, at least for a time, from listening to or reading about political subjects. It has caused too much anxiety, anger, hopelessness, and contention in my heart. Praying and reading the scriptures give me strength and more peace. While I recognize I have a responsibility to vote for good candidates, and to support propositions that uphold the values of the church, my power is limited. Heavenly Father still holds us in the palm of his hands, and I am trusting him to protect our freedoms if we keep the commandments and trust in him. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland has promised that the Church WILL STAND until the coming of our Savior, despite what is happening in the world. That is a great comfort for me and I hold on to his promise.
Maryann TaylorNovember 5, 2020
We have two dogs we dearly love and others that have died. The grief we felt was deep, and I have been comforted by the knowledge that they will be perfectly resurrected and that we will have our pets in the next life. I believe one of the reasons Heavenly Father gave us pets is for comfort. When my husband is away, my dogs are a great comfort and company for me. Pets can also have a wonderful unifying influence in families. Hearts are softened through the love we feel for our pets, and families are united in our affection for them. I also feel gratitude to my Heavenly Father for this great gift.
Hildegard EralieNovember 5, 2020
I feel so gratified to read your article which confirms all my feelings and beliefs. i avoid the ants on the sidewalk, carry the earwig outside that happened to come in with my fruit, and love and mourn my pets past and present like the people I love. I have to change the channel when animal abuse is about to be reported, and can't stand watching anything that involves apparent suffering of animal on any kind. The older I get the more I have become aware that ALL animals, reptiles, even insects can feel love and return love. This knowledge has enriched my life, and made me more aware of the wisdom and love of all creation, and makes me so much more grateful for all living things, plants, trees, EVERYTHING.
David BrownNovember 5, 2020
A wonderful perspective. How fortunate we are that our ultimate leader is incomprehensibly great. I will ever be grateful.
Charles D McClureNovember 5, 2020
As good things often happen, I found myself studying and reading over and over Mormon 7. A peace came over me and as the election results came in I remained calm. God is in the details of our lives and this article reiterates that! Thank you for this article or rather testimony!
Cheryl BrallierNovember 5, 2020
I love your insights and have been following you from Burke to Utah. I am so glad that your injuries were not any more serious than they were. I wonder what your thoughts are on the Hopewell Mounds. I find them very intriguing
Sally SmithNovember 5, 2020
Oh our republic!!! When did we lose our sense of democracy and our belief in God. Now God is the only person who can save this nation. The people have become so indoctrinated with evil They can no longer see "the good"
Jan FlorieNovember 5, 2020
I have been feeling anxious because of this election. This helps to calm my soul. My Heavenly Father knows what will be and I just need to leave it in His hands. Thank you for this reminder.
William SnyderNovember 4, 2020
Thank you for this uplifting message! It is so good to be reminded that we can place our trust and hope in our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Mary SchiltzNovember 4, 2020
Excellent article. I recall the videos of people screaming and having fits when President Trump was elected. It was puzzling to us because we were raised in the years when we respected the Office of the Presidency and the voice of the people. We who proclaim Christ, must drop down and draw in the sand before we respond, no matter what. It's the moment of quiet which encourages a quick prayer and wisdom in dealing with others. I have been mocked, shunned and spit on for being a member of The Church of Jesus Christ. This strengthened my testimony and caused me to face forward. We will not always be happy with those who are chosen to lead us, but we need to use dignity and graciousness and work to teach others correct principles. Then we govern ourselves well.
Mary SchiltzNovember 4, 2020
Great articles. How do we deal with the fact that our older, son (anRM who has been ill for 20 years after he got parasites during his mission and now suffers from Crohn's disease) does not ever have a ministering brother, or formerly, Home teacher, visit him? How do we, who are active, older and have been ordinance workers, and have held many callings in the Church deal with the fact that we NEVER see Ministering sisters or brethren? The man who is assigned to our family is old, has had a stroke and is not very cogent; his son, his companion, suffers from severe autism. We see no one. Granted, we are under some sort of quarantine, on and off, but this has gone on for years, and we don't know why. We have approached, EQ pres, supervisors, etc, and there is no response. As we read other members' postings, we see they are visited and cared for. What to do? Even a phone call would be welcomed. Someone once told me that we shouldn't feel badly because we are so strong we don't need to be visited. Huh?
Jenee LindnerNovember 4, 2020
Judge Elias Higbee was my 3rd great uncle. Here is a story from his journey with the Prophet. We are still, at times, trying to be heard. Religious Liberty is such a precious gift to us. Taken from Journey to Washington DC: Joseph Smith, Sidney Rigdon, (Judge) Elias Higbee, Orrin P. Rockwell: On October 29, 1839, Joseph Smith, the 'Mormon Prophet,' wrote: "I left Nauvoo accompanied by Sidney Rigdon, (Judge) Elias Higbee and Orrin P. Rockwell...for the city of Washington to lay before the Congress of the United States, the grievances of the (LDS) Saints while in Missouri. While on the mountains some distance from Washington, our coachman stepped into a public house to take his grog, when the horses took fright and ran down the hill at full speed. I persuaded my fellow travelers to be quiet and retain their seats, but had to hold one woman to prevent her throwing her infant out of the coach. The passengers were exceedingly agitated, but I used every persuasion to calm their feelings: and opened the door, I secured my hold on the side of the coach the best way I could, and succeeded in placing myself in the coachman's seat, and reining up the horses, after they had run some two or three miles, and neither coach, horses, or passengers received any injury. My course was spoken of in the highest terms of commendation, as being one of the most daring and heroic deeds and no language could express the gratitude of the passengers when the found themselves safe and the horses quiet. There were some members of Congress with us, who proposed naming the incident to that body, believing they would reward such conduct by some public act: but on inquiring my name, to mention as the author of their safety, and finding it to be Joseph Smith, the 'Mormon Prophet,' as they called me, I heard no more of their praise gratitude, or reward." Joseph Smith
Diane KriloffNovember 4, 2020
I was feeling quite discouraged in watching the election results, then I came across your beautiful article. Thank you for the hope and uplift it brought to my heart.
ScottHNovember 4, 2020
It's a good thing to have our idealism about what political systems can achieve humbled to reality. When we no longer see the state as a magical fairy godmother, we can better appreciate appropriate limits on political systems and governmental power.
CHARLES DEFRANCHINovember 4, 2020
Hello Joni, now I have run into the second woman I know who has so much compassion for animals that she cannot stand seeing them suffering in a movie. The first one is my wife, who told me, shortly after we had married, that she did not enjoy the movie "Dance with the Wolves," which I thought was rather very nice, because of the wolf being shot at the end of the movie. I am grateful for your article, which I will forward to one of my childless good friend, who just lost his 10-year old dog and is grieving it as if it were his child.
Boanerges RubalcavaNovember 4, 2020
Although from the practical point of view what she has written is the important points, from the theological point of view, is his answer to the question the president asked him: what is the difference between your faith and all others? Joseph answer: the Gift of the Holy Ghost conferred by the laying of hands.
WallyNovember 4, 2020
Very consoling! Thank you Maurine and Scot!
James PelessNovember 4, 2020
Excellent! Well said and done. Thank you!
Phil HarrisonNovember 4, 2020
Thank you. Just what I needed this morning!
ShaunaNovember 4, 2020
Absolutely--I look forward to the day when the Savior will reign. But until then, I continue to put my trust in HIm and His servants, the prophets and apostles. So grateful to have His Church reorganized and the fulness of the Gospel on the earth. It's promises are glorious if we can continue to repent and endure. thanks for the beautifully written reminders
Leah Jane BrowerNovember 4, 2020
Thank you so much for this timely article. This sweet reminder makes me want to extend myself in love to those who do not share my political beliefs. All is well.
Joline WalgamottNovember 4, 2020
AMEN!
Sara GrovesNovember 4, 2020
Great article! This will be such a beautiful world to live in. And I know that I have the same road to follow, the same advantage as the next person, the same hope in Father's government as each of His children. Thank you for this wonderful explanation.
CynthiaNovember 4, 2020
This is so inspiring! Totally love this! Thank you for sharing.
Suzi FlandersNovember 4, 2020
I was just now watching the election news and felt so discouraged about how our lives could change in a matter of hours....then I found your article and it gave me hope like I’ve not had in awhile! Thank you for writing this article.....I want to print it and hang it in my home somewhere so that I can always have the feelings of hope and love this article gives me....thank you so much for writing this wonderful message....May the Lord always inspire you to write these messages of hope for those of us who really need them❤️❤️
Karen BrimhallNovember 4, 2020
This morning this article was a great comfort to me. Thank you
Chris HowellNovember 4, 2020
Praise to the man, who communed with Jehovah!
Cynthia MoorheadNovember 4, 2020
This is beautiful, and I need to remember it. Thank you.
DaphneKNovember 4, 2020
So well said! Thank you Scott & Maurine for recentering my political angst to the eternal perspective and our most loving Heavenly Father's watchful care over us all.
DTNovember 4, 2020
I giggled when I read about Tammy's experience. Exactly mine. I got up and got out earlier than usual to get the coveted toilet paper bundle at the big box members only. I was shocked to find the line to the TP at the back of the store, starting at the front door. WHAT??? And as I waited with my fellow citizens, there seemed many in line who seriously did not seem to qualify as a senior citizen. Hey, I'm a young one, and I should know. Turns out many "came along for the ride" with Mom and Dad, or Grandma, to get the coveted item. No one was getting scrutinized or turned away. The whole thing was ridiculous. By the time the store opened, there would be little TP and no disinfectant wipes left. The workers came along putting one huge multi pack of wipes in everyone's cart. I didn't know I was shopping for any or that I needed any, but decided resistance was futile and kept quiet, thinking of our self reliance stores. They soon ran out.
LadawnNovember 4, 2020
Thank you for this sweet reminder of in whom we can trust. A wonderful and timely message for today!
Sonia SmithNovember 4, 2020
I needed this today. It's comforting to my spirit knowing I live under Heavenly Father's administration. Praise His holy name!
Jackie RichardsNovember 4, 2020
Although I live in the UK I am very fond of your beautiful country and the American people. This article is so comforting, for us all, wherever we live. heavenly Father is in charge, this is His world and we are His children safe in His care. Thank you for a lovely magazine.
DesNovember 4, 2020
I would have thought the unintended consequence would have been a store full of elderly people "catching up" with their friends, and wasting too much of their senior hour talking, rather than shopping. much like how they now all congregate in the chapel foyer gasbagging and catching up with each other after months away from meeting.
David ShafferNovember 4, 2020
Thank you. This is a positive, uplifting, encouraging treatise. It lifted my spirits at a time they needed lifting.
David BrownNovember 4, 2020
Excellent! We only have so much energy for change at a given time, personally and collectively. The friction that attends such struggle must be weighed against the likely benefit. We need activities that sustain us individually and those that reinforce social cohesion. We need wisdom, courage and self-restraint.
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2020
President Gordon B. Hinckley taught the following in an address entitled "Daughters of God. "In light of the instruction we have received from the Lord himself, I regard it as inappropriate for anyone in the Church to pray to our Mother in heaven. The Lord Jesus Christ set the pattern for our prayers. I have looked in vain for any instance where any President of the Church has offered a prayer to 'Our Mother in Heaven.' I suppose those who use the expression and who try to further its use are well-meaning, but they are misguided. The fact that we do not pray to our Mother in Heaven in no way belittles or denigrates her." President Hinckley includes many scriptures in this address where the Lord instructs us to pray to our Heavenly Father. President Hinckley's counsel is clear and the scriptures are clear--We pray only to our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ. This article can be found on the church's website.
Maryann TaylorNovember 4, 2020
Several years??? I thought the plan was to have a new hymnal much sooner than that.
HarryNovember 3, 2020
This was amazing and insightful. I don't have any political or cultural "side" to belong to because I was too isolated and oblivious to absorb others' cultures or perspectives most of my life. If the walls go up completely, dividing everyone between "Us" and "them" I'll have nowhere to go. I feel very lonely very often. But I have faith that we can make it through this storm and come out the other side stronger and wiser. We just need to put in the work to make it happen.
Jo Ann OkelberryNovember 3, 2020
This article is so fascinating. I am grateful that I took the time to read it. Thank you for adding the sources to the article.
NeiceNovember 3, 2020
I was yelled at by multiple members for supporting Trump as he is not a baby killer. It goes both ways. Each was wrong. Not for their beliefs but for how they chose to express it. It is hard to turn the other cheek and I am learning just how hard it is.
Claudette TaylorNovember 3, 2020
I would like to buy a copy of the music and lyrics. Please tell me how I can.
Randall M SmithNovember 3, 2020
Nobody seems to want to argue against this. I'd say there's no argument to be made.
CANovember 3, 2020
Thank you Suerh! You expressed my exact thoughts when I read this talk in October. I also was very disturbed that Pres. Oaks said he supported Black lives matter (BLM) which are trigger words for riots, destruction, and defiance of law and order in our country at the present time.
TNovember 3, 2020
It takes more than 2 months off porn for the effects to fade.
GeorginaNovember 3, 2020
This article is so inspiring to me. Thank you!
Richard EyreNovember 3, 2020
I hope my love for the Savior shines through in this piece, and I would love to have you share your comments and feelings.
Scott SorensenNovember 3, 2020
In Mormon 7:10 Moroni says, “ ye are numbered among the people of the first covenant”. Who are those people and what is the first covenant?
Bob spielNovember 3, 2020
Your insights are always so valuable. With the modern locust we have now in the form of a virus the Lord can do the same thing as we exercise even greater faith and obedience. Zion must roll forth.
SBNovember 3, 2020
Some commenters apparently missed the point of the article and are still angry, pointing the finger at others, and pushing their own views, perceptions, and narratives. Sigh...
Scot ProctorNovember 2, 2020
I just checked the site at latterdaysaintmag.com/nauvoo and it appears to be working. It may help to clear your cache and try again. So glad you enjoy the podcast!
Toni PalmerNovember 2, 2020
I tried to pre-order your new Nauvoo diary but it wouldn't come up when I put the reference you posted. Is there another web address? And by the way, I really enjoy your podcasts!
Harold RustNovember 2, 2020
I have learned over the years that most important public policy issues raised by our children, grand children and friends are best answered by addressing what that policy will do to impact freedom of speech and liberty to act. It is as though the more free we feel, the greater the potential there is that we could be deceived into giving away some of that freedom. We must be very alert to any erosion of that freedom. Thanks for your additional alerts.
Valiant JonesNovember 2, 2020
Excellent post, Jeff. Our judicial system assumes innocence until proven guilty, erring on the side of preferring to let the guilty go free rather than wrongly imprison an innocent person. We need a similar approach on information.
Robert D StarlingNovember 2, 2020
Thank you for your eloquent -and humorous- analysis of what should be obvious, but tragically has been forgotten by many. The discussion of politics and religion has its place, but not while we're birdwatching. There is a time and a place to "let it be" and enjoy our common interests.
J. HamiltonNovember 2, 2020
I really appreciate this article Cindy. Reading about your interaction with your son makes me think: "out of the mouths of babes" great things can come. For those of you who would like to learn more about mindfulness meditation practice, I highly recommend the book "The Power of Stillness" (available at Deseret Book) and the FaceBook group "Mindful Saints." Thank you again.
Juliann BradshawNovember 2, 2020
Excellent article. I wish people would realize we have more than a two party choice. And I do not feel that in voting my conscience and voting for “the proper role of government “ that I am wasting my vote.
Mary TarbetNovember 2, 2020
Very well written. Persuasion using common sense. Einstein would agree with all you’ve written.
KJBNovember 2, 2020
You might want to tell this to the multiple members of the Church who have yelled at me on Facebook about how Biden is a senile pedophile and that CNN stands for Communist News Network. Trump has spent four years governing with threats, tantrums, and outright lies. Anyone unwilling to call him out for what he is doesn't get to tell anybody else to "keep cool."
Bernard BadeNovember 2, 2020
To have a good government requires a degree of self regulation. This is often lacking and more so in this day.
Geoff-AusNovember 2, 2020
So if you have a leader who says he will not accept the result unless he wins, as Trump has. Should you still vote for him?
Jessica WhitakerNovember 1, 2020
Inspirational and insightful, thank you!
Jessica WhitakerNovember 1, 2020
Excellent!
MJNovember 1, 2020
I wonder if the therapist this brother is currently seeing truly has the capacity to help him. What purpose does wasting time beating yourself up in search of a years-ago elusive cause, actually serve? How will that help? Perhaps he simply got exposed to pornography innocently and unfortunately became a regular user of it. Wouldn’t it be more helpful simply to say, here’s where you are now, and let’s focus on helping you claim the future you want?
J. StenquistNovember 1, 2020
This makes complete sense, I don’t think our Heavenly Mother is off cleaning Her celestial mansion while our Heavenly Father councils His children, it makes me picture both parents together, United, counciling Their child.
Ronald "Ted" LautsNovember 1, 2020
If you play in mud the dirt and water is going to get on you. Your mother didn't tell you to stay out of it simply because she didn't want the job of cleaning you up again but also to allow you to have more time to enjoy being free to enjoy the process of living, learning, making friends and being a friend, making friends of supposed enemies and gaining the skills necessary to live to a "ripe" old age as peacefully and as lovingly as possible while always being as true to yourself and family as possible.
Lisa ReisingNovember 1, 2020
I really liked this statement in the article: “Viewing the pandemic in the future from a 30,000 foot perspective, I would not be surprised if 2020 is recognized as a difficult but critical junction of the Restoration, a positive accelerant of the Second Coming.” It reminded me of what President Nelson said - that 2020 would be a “hinge-point” in the history of the church. It is important to reflect on our resilience to adversity at every stage, but the most telling perspective will be yet to come.
Lisa ReisingNovember 1, 2020
I have sometimes wondered why I am not more depressed at the tragedy that is in the story of The Book of Mormon. You’ve neatly laid out all the reasons we find hope and receive guidance and inspiration from it instead. It is a marvelous book for our time. Doesn’t the Lord always know exactly what we need!
KatNovember 1, 2020
I love this podcast. I love listening to it, and I love reading it. Ya'll do an amazing job. Each week, I learn so much from you. I feel so much as I listen or read. Just love what you do. Thank you. I am also confused by the mention of Mormon moving the records from Shim to Cumorah and then talking about a Hill Cumorah in Mexico. I likely do not know my history well enough, but will you please further explain this? Kind thanks.
GrandpaOctober 31, 2020
This is a very kind and gentle answer. I commend your thoughtfulness and gentleness.
Nancy HoytOctober 31, 2020
Perfect! You demonstrated with wonderful examples the dangers of "politicizing" and the issues facing society as a whole because of it. Thank you.
Elizabeth SextonOctober 31, 2020
I have the same question regarding Shim/Cumorah and the movement of the plates - how did they go from Mexico to New York?
Ben JonesOctober 31, 2020
There are songs that were once political that now seem like everyday folk wisdom. The song "This land is your land" is often sung by the Tabernacle Choir but it was written by Woody Guthrie, a union organizer, who used it as a social critique back during the Great Depression.
K RossOctober 31, 2020
Fantastic article! Excellent points made that readers can use to support their own efforts at avoiding the rancor that inevitably results from politicizing non-political associations.
NED SCARISBRICKOctober 30, 2020
I'm not sure how our suffering physical, mental, emotional and spiritual can make us more than wounded. Wounds can heal of course but the scars stay long after the events that caused the injury in the first place. I'm sure that Job's scares were a constant reminder of the vicissitudes in this life we call mortality. What about the wounds that Hosea suffered (Hosea 1:2) because of Gomer? What I do know is that the day will come when all the suffering will stop and our bodies, our minds, our hearts and our spirits will be healed and even the scars will disappear just as if they never had happened. The agency of mankind is a necessary part of this life and the choices we make and the consequences of our choices do lead to growth. We approved of this plan before we came to earth so are volunteers of the Father's plan of perfection. The day will come when we can see the total pattern of our mortal telestial life as the Father says, "well done my good and faithful servants." I don't remember volunteering for this life but evidently you and I did.
Richard EyreOctober 29, 2020
Just a personal thank you to all who are following this "12 Purposely Provocative Questions" series. As I mentioned in the introduction, I use "provocative" in the positive sense of provoking us to think and study harder. I feel that using our mental energy to ponder the doctrines of the Restoration is almost always a faith and testimony building effort, while using that energy to pick at odd details in Church history or look for human imperfections in our prophets can undermine our faith. The Lord said "By their fruits shall ye know them" and it is the restored doctrines are the fruits of the prophets of the Restoration. Thanks for your time and mental energy in reading this series, and please comment with your thoughts and questions.
Haze KompelienOctober 29, 2020
"You may have noticed that I like to capitalize divine pronouns" Just letting you know that I appreciate this "little" thing. I always do it. I think it demonstrates an increased level of honor and reverence. It elevates the One that the pronoun represents. When authors do NOT do this, I find myself turned off by their casualness towards Deity. I hope more will make the effort.
Maureen GaleOctober 29, 2020
What an interesting question to ponder! And I love Brother Eyre's ultimate answer. I confess I have never thought of that, yet it makes perfect sense. I find I make my best connection in prayer as I fill to tears with gratitude for this incredible world and ALL of its experiences They have given us to learn and grow from. And for the fullness of the gospel with which to make sense of it all. My top priority in prayer is for the missionaries (myself included) to be able to bless the lives of more of His children with that understanding so they can better, more happily, navigate this mortality before returning to Them.
David MillerOctober 29, 2020
God tells us "the song of the righteous is a prayer unto me, and it shall be answered with a blessing upon their heads." Interesting, isn't it, that we all are so very comforted when singing/praying: "When I leave this frail existence, When I lay this mortal by, Father, Mother, may I meet you In your royal courts on high?"
Erik HansenOctober 28, 2020
Remember the Jews and The Romans were on different sides of their political spectrum and both were terrible and were punished. Nephites and Lamanites left the Lord and again the religious side was wiped out. WE ARE ALMOST THERE!
Erik HansenOctober 28, 2020
There is obviously a wicked man on one side and a terribly worldly man on the other. One agenda is God-fearing and the other merciful and helpful in defense of good people. We seem to be unable to have it all. I will vote independently because my vote goes to neither of the corrupt sides of our current "System". Why can't LDS bring in their own candidate and system? Are we afraid to do so?
Lizzie GirlOctober 28, 2020
Here's what I don't understand. Why can't in-utero videos of the abortion process be screened? Nothing else has a hope of being as effective as a video of the ugliness actually transpiring.
Karen R.October 28, 2020
Thank you Brother Givens for a thoughtful, well researched and careful analysis of a sensitive subject. I could not agree with you more.
Ellen BaggaleyOctober 28, 2020
Thank you for expressing my feelings so well.
CJBOctober 28, 2020
Thank you for publishing this. I had read it the other day when Nathanial Givens discussed it on his blog, and, as a everything written or spoken by him and his parents, it builds understanding and faith in our loving Savior.
ShaunaOctober 28, 2020
thank you for your thorough thought and research. I am deeply troubled by feminist arguments, in particular, that continue to victimize and demean women and life, in the name of 'women's rights." I was "trained" as a feminist during my work on a Ph.D. and I can say--that while clearly there was/is a need for a women's movement, much of current feminist thought is based on faulty premises. In short, much of it is a lie.. And so many young women have bought into it:(
jemezblueOctober 28, 2020
Thank You.
SuerhOctober 28, 2020
Pres. Oaks gave an excellent talk. Unfortunately, most of what he said will take a back seat to his perceived support of black lives matter. Someone in his position should have been far more clear about standing for truth. Black lives do matter but BLM is an evil and destructive movement in complete contradiction to the Church’s doctrine on the importance of the family unit. I truly hope he clarifies this so members won’t be deceived.
Cynthia MoorheadOctober 28, 2020
Amen. Best article I have read to date on this issue. The longer abortion is accepted in this country, the longer we will be denied heaven’s blessings. We are as wicked as China, India, or any other country that sacrifices its young on the altar of inconvenience. Half the Black babies in the US are aborted, thanks in part to the ubiquitous abortion clinics that fulfill Margaret Sanger’s goal of eliminating the Black population here. Black lives do matter, and so do all babies’ lives. Use birth control, or don’t have sex! Rape and incest are the only possible excuses for abortion, and adoption is always a better choice.
Larry JensenOctober 28, 2020
Excellent article! Thank you
Irene BlackOctober 28, 2020
Thanks for the thought provoking article. We do still need to be grateful for what we have and realize we can deal with hard issues. I'm a caregiver giver and can't get out much. Being a social person myself has been challenge but I try to reflect on what my grandparents endured and press forward with faith. Love all your articles Richard and Linda!
Karell BinghamOctober 28, 2020
We have a statue of Liberty, we should have a statue of Responsibility standing next to her. Americans increasingly shy away from taking responsibility for any action they take.
Jerry R PaceOctober 28, 2020
I have never been a bishop, however I have always wondered how someone could answer question number seven on the temple recommend interview and support abortion for thee but not for me. Also it would be interesting to see how the demographics of this country would be different if only half of the abortions performed became Living sons and daughters of our heavenly father as they were intended to be.
Jaime PerezOctober 28, 2020
I have loved The Forgotten Carols since I saw my first one in 2006! This is the most wonderful story that could ever be told. Thank you Michael Maclean.
C CalkinsOctober 28, 2020
Deeply thoughtful, powerful, comprehensive! Thank you for your erudite and touching! (almost an oxymoron) explanation of what is becoming a not-so-slowly dying discussion. I will study this and arm myself for future encounters. And, I will pray for us all. As a nation, we seem to be slowly losing to "Satan's grasp".
Amy HoffmannOctober 28, 2020
Thank you for writing this article! I have been struggling to see so many of my Latter Day Saint friends saying they are Pro-choice. I have read numerous talks from President Nelson and previous Prophets that speak very clearly against abortion. It’s quit simple...follow the Prophet. We will all be help accountable on whether we actively stood against sin (the world) or if we just stood passively by while millions of babies were killed per year. Even the elect will be deceived in the last days.
Jennifer WallOctober 28, 2020
So well stated! Thank you for putting into words thoughts and reasoning behind what I believe on this issue. As an RN who works with data, quality and reporting I also appreciate the literature, statistics and data presented surrounding multiple aspects of abortion, especially the long-term effects on the women who undergo these. I am going to share and save this! Thank you again!
SKOctober 27, 2020
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this subject. I could have written it myself. I remember the day I forgave my mother freely. She related a time in her childhood when her drunken father came home, pushed my grandmother down the stairs, brandished his gun, and was threatening to shoot her. My mother was seven years old at the time, jumped on his back and screamed at him to not kill her mother. I'm sure he didn't even remember it the next day. I never knew until she told that story, what kind of childhood my mother had. People of that generation rarely spoke about unpleasant or difficult things. My mother was physically abusive to all eight of us kids, as was my father. Being the oldest, I resented all I had to do to take care of my siblings. I brought it up one time as an adult and she said, "Who do you think took care of them when you weren't around?" I knew then that I wouldn't ever get an apology, or something like, "I know it must have been hard on you too" from my mother, so I gave up. At least I tried. When I heard her childhood story for the first time, I frankly forgave her on the spot for the abuse in my childhood. She has told me several stories since. She had nothing to work with. Thankfully, I joined this church, hoping it would show me how to be a loving mother. It was the best decision I ever made. She still isn't a very loving mother, but she's my mother. We're supposed to honor our parents. My siblings have all forgiven her but one, that one needing to hear some loving concession from my mother, and still hasn't, but we all keep tabs on her now. She's in her late 80s, fiercely independent, and strong willed. That's just who she is.
Chloris MullinsOctober 27, 2020
Thank you for sharing your story and testimony! God's ways are truly not our ways, but the blessings and understanding come through His wisdom.
RyanOctober 27, 2020
Such a beautiful piece, may we all seek to unify as written so eloquently here.
AJ CurrieOctober 27, 2020
There's a political party that voted in 2012 to drop the word "God" from its party platform. It's the same one that always makes a candidate's religion a litmus test for a seat on the US Supreme Court. It is time for the adherents to that party to wake-up to the words of the Prophets in these latter-days.
J. ConklinOctober 27, 2020
There seems to be a group missing from the people discussing these questions -- those of us who are single, and even more so, those who have no family members who are also church members. I am most fortunate in having families in the ward and neighborhood who take care of my grocery shopping so that I don't have to go out in crowded situations or get up at very early hours to go when only seniors are allowed. But other than groceries, I have continued to do my shopping online, and I also find that there are items which simply aren't available in that method. I am looking at this from a "coastal" view, living in California. But I still am able to read scriptures daily with a friend in Idaho, as we have done for over six years, using FaceTime. Many of the members of our ward have moved to Utah or Idaho; our ward has been one with lots of move-ins and move-outs, but it has become much more common in the last six months.
Edward Rehder IIIOctober 27, 2020
Thank you. And thank God for prophets to lead and guide us if we have ears to hear.
Gale PhillipsOctober 27, 2020
Thank you for the quotes that take us back to the foundation and help clarify confusion. And thank you for the links to other Christian groups that are giving specific helps in condensing information.
Becky COctober 27, 2020
Thank you!! This is exactly what I needed this morning. Definitely an answer to prayer.
ShaunaOctober 27, 2020
thank you for the reminders:)
CindyOctober 27, 2020
I love this! It fills my heart with hope and love just to read these words!!! I look forward to more!!!
Sharma AndersonOctober 26, 2020
When my ex left, I celebrated my anniversary with my children. They are the best thing that came from the union. I want them to know I do not regret the marriage, the marriage gave me four children and now 2 grandchildren!
BurbidgeOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for your story. I felt like you were telling my story. For years I have been asking the Lord to help me have loving feelings towards my parents. It’s hard . At times I think I’ve done it, then A memory will resurface all my sad feelings, and I have to start forgiving all over again. You have encouraged me to keep asking, keep forgiving and keep trying
Maryann TaylorOctober 26, 2020
My sister was the youngest in our family of 7 children. She had four older brothers. When she was about 5 she decided that she wanted to be a boy. She told us we had to call her "Bobbie." (I don't know where she came up with that name.) This phase did not last long and she grew up to marry and have children. I can only imagine the undue attention this phase would have stirred up if this happened today. Children do not have the maturity or wisdom to "decide" their gender and that should be very obvious to everyone.
GTOOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. My mother had NPD, as did her mother, and both left a lot of wreckage in the family. Though I was always respectful and courteous, I had to distance myself, since she was a sinking ship. Heavenly Father did tell me she had done the best she could, and since she passed away she has been actively involved in trying to mend the damage and support the grandchildren she only cared about in principle. Miracles have happened.
LexaGraemeOctober 26, 2020
Wow. Thank you for sharing something so tender.
Pattie SOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for your heart-felt article. I, too, had a struggling relationship with my mom. She and I never really bonded and I will always feel sad about that. I bonded with my Grandmother at a very early age. There are times that I cannot see my mother in my life until 5 years of age when my mother remarried. I have come to the conclusion that her first marriage was a tremendous hardship to her. She was beat by her first husband many times. I will always be forever grateful for her making that call to my Grandmother and leaving that abusive relationship. I was only months old and my brother was 2. Mother had a breakdown and my Grandmother cared for me during the nights because mom didn't hear me even though I slept in the same bed as her. All and all, I believe we need to forgive our mother's for their imperfections for I know I have even many imperfections and need to be forgiven from my children. I love forgiveness!!!
DavidOctober 26, 2020
None of us escape childnood unscathed to at least some degree. All parents have shortcomings. As we also do as parents and spouses. Christ's wise teachings were of forgiveness rather than righteous indignation, which applies to those who are close to us as well as the stranger. Thank you for the reminder the forgiveness contains blessings for all concerned, including the forgiver!
PatriciaOctober 26, 2020
Although I think you have far more issues more important than your anniversary, the advice to spend it with your children is the right one. I'm divorced as well. My husband after 15 years of marriage decided that he had been miserable and that the Gospel and I were the problems in his life. After a few years, I was able to realize that I had a great marriage. We held temple recommends, attended regularly and I was faithful to my covenants. His issues, were not my issues. His life has spiraled out of control, and our children are the ones most effected. I still love him, but he isn't interested in that, and I've been able to make a very happy life with what I have to deal with. Eternity is a long time, and he still has the opportunity to repent and get his life back together. Will it happen in this life? Probably not, but then, I've long ago forgiven him. Next year would be our 40th anniversary, and I will spend it with my kids. They are still our children, they will be until or unless Heavenly Father decides otherwise, and it is a milestone for them in a way.
SheilaOctober 26, 2020
What a wonderful testimony to the goodness of God
pam Morgan RoderOctober 26, 2020
Your story is amazing! I cried while watching! Wow. I felt your power of being a victor. Thank you for sharing.
Juliann BradshawOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing your journey. I’m currently trying to make sense and peace with my own mother. She is deceased but the healing can still occur. You’ve given me some insights and hope. Thanks for the Light.,
Michael JonesOctober 26, 2020
My mom and me did not get along for 10 years. It all started when I was a child about 3 years old. My mom was a single mom and she eventually married a man who, as far as I was concerned, was nothing but than the adversary personified. He abused my mom, he abused me and he abused his two daughters and his son. Most of my youth was spent running away with my mom and my step-siblings to escape his drunken rages which occurred on a bi-weekly basis. I blamed my mom for what was going on but my mom could not divorce the man because she had 4 children to raise. We eventually all grew up and fled our childhood home leaving my mother on her own. She finally divorced him and ended up being thrown out of her home with the barest minimum and at the age of about 50 she had to start all over again. Then my life fell apart as I was unable to get myself going with what I had been dealt with. I finally called my mom in 2000 and she told me to come home, without hesitation, which I did thankfully. And so began the road to reconciliation. My eldest step sister ending up committing suicide in 2007 and my other two step siblings cast my mother out of their lives and wanted nothing to do with her. Then in 2014 my mother began to deliver excruciating pain, that resulted in her being unable to continue earning an income. She could not even walk anymore. I then took over her newspaper delivery business so that I could support her and sustain her. In March of 2019, in a fit of pain, my mother thanked me, in tears, for being there for her and at the age of 75, for the first time in her life, she told me that she loved me. On 30 March 2019 my mother passed away and to this day I cry, as I am right now, for her loss. I grew to love my mother and I beg everyone who has an issue with their mom, please fix things. The pain of losing your mother is something that is almost unbearable.
Marsha LangOctober 26, 2020
What a beautiful, beautiful story. Forgiveness is a MIRACULOUS thing!!! Thank you for sharing.
KipOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing this tender experience. I am sure many can relate and we always underestimate the power of forgiveness. Many times we think we have forgiven, but we haven't forgotten and President Kimball indicates that's the ultimate. Our best is all we have and we do not know what that is for others because we don't know all the circumstances. "Hearing Him" is always the answer.
Sage GallagherOctober 26, 2020
Thanks for sharing this beautiful account. We are blessed by our prophets counsel. And by the example of good friends.
JimOctober 26, 2020
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful experience in learning, accepting and forgiving. I've had smilar experiences with regards to feelings about my mother due to an abusive childhood and mental illness. I couldn't think of anything good to say about her at the funeral, and instead read "Like a Broken Vessel", pausing midway to express my desire to have a mother who was mentally there. I learned later of the abuse she suffered as a child and I slowly started to feel compassion. But I'm not as far as you are yet. I'm grateful for your sharing what that journey and destination looks like.
HeidiOctober 25, 2020
Thank you for sharing your story and process of receiving personal revelation. It’s very helpful to hear experiences like this.
Gaye WillisOctober 25, 2020
Thank you for sharing the beautiful and tender experience. This is a wonderful example to all of us and the power of healing that comes to our lives and as Hear Him. #HearHim!
Eunice S. HallettOctober 25, 2020
The Meridian Magazine is a daily read for me through the week...It "Makes my Day" and gives me something to think about on the Week-ends...I sure did miss it when it was down there for a short while. God Bless! ESH
Anthony FordOctober 25, 2020
Thank you for sharing, a moving and inspiring story that will be retold again and again as people hear it.
Maria GardinerOctober 25, 2020
I'm a little confused about the discussion about how Mormon moved the records from the Hill Shim to the Hill Cumorah in New York and then the Hill Cumorah you mentioned in Mexico. Can you explain it to me? We love listening to your Podcast every week. Thank you for all the time you spend getting it ready for your listeners.
Gary LawrenceOctober 24, 2020
To Robert K Wagstaff: Thank you for those comments. Best wishes to you as a contributor to the creativity and prosperity of capitalism.
MargaretOctober 24, 2020
This is a beautiful, important essay. Thank you. I needed to read this today.
DianeOctober 24, 2020
Thank you for sharing this. Just thank you!
J L GuinnOctober 24, 2020
Thank you so much for this article! I will be sharing it with my sister who unlike me holds resentment towards our mother. I and my siblings was raised by a stepmother who married my dad at age 19 and took on 3 stepchildren. I am now able to look objectively at what she faced but my sister has not been able to put the past in a box and leave it alone. Maybe this article can help. I am lucky enough to still have my parents at age 91 and 84 and I can look at them as people who had no handbook and did their best. I love them dearly.
Myntillae NashOctober 22, 2020
This was a great article. Thank yoU!
Arouma MatautiaOctober 22, 2020
Thank you Bro Eyre for sharing this truth..
Chris HowellOctober 22, 2020
Richard, we’ve been at odds over furniture and painting rooms. Thank you for reminding me it’s about us not me!
Chris HowellOctober 22, 2020
Ann, this is what I needed to hear today. Thank you. If all could see one another as we can become we’d live a Zion society. Thank you for the recommendations on how we can do this! I’m reminded of Paul and Zeezrom. We never know but one most wicked may be our greatest ally.
Allison DunlapOctober 22, 2020
Thank you Brother Eyre for these magnificent insights! I am in complete agreement with them and thrill at the possibilities. I feel so blessed to have a "magic" marriage, it is a 2nd marriage for both of us when our first temple marriages ended in divorce. We are so grateful for Christ's Gospel of 2nd chances!
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
Whatever you do, do NOT marry him until he has overcome his bitterness and is truly ready for a committed relationship. If he is unwilling to get some counseling, you cannot heal him, and I would move on. Otherwise, you will spend your life suffering as a result of his suffering.
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
RE: Pamela Sanders comment: Just for your interest---This is a stanza from a poem by Carol Lynn Pearson.
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
Thank you so much for continuing to post articles by Darla. She has touched my heart through her words in the past and again with this article. I am not ill, but I have friends who are and I want to pass these truths on to them. I think it will be a great comfort to be reminded that the Lord loves them, even when, or maybe ESPECIALLY when, they feel they can't "accomplish very much."
Maryann TaylorOctober 22, 2020
I LOVED this article. Thank you so much for giving us such a clear perspective regarding death and the aging of our bodies. In the resurrection we truly are all healed forever, and every promise is fulfilled. I wonder sometimes if our loved ones who have passed to the other side are feeling sorry for US and the things we still have to deal with while still alive.
Maryann TaylorOctober 21, 2020
Excellent points here. However, I do think we can do a better job of learning to find new ways, or using different scriptures, to teach the gospel. I have been a member all of my life and am now almost 70. I can tell you what scriptures are going to be used for a lesson before it even begins. There are far more than one or two scriptures for any given subject, and yet we continue to hear the same scriptures used to teach the same subjects--over and over again. Let's do some real scripture searching and try to bring a fresh approach to gospel teaching!
Melanee PhillipsOctober 21, 2020
The only unkindness I see is Mary unkindly judging this woman for wanting things to be perfect. Like when I put on my son and daughter-in-laws wedding reception because I anctiously wanted her to feel welcome to our family.
Leslie SaundersOctober 21, 2020
Looking for the story about the man who is well know and loved in Egypt that said you could use his name over there if you needed anything and then you tied it into us taking full advantage of the gift that the name of Christ is in our lives. It was an absolutely powerful way of explaining the importance of Jesus’ name for us.
Richard EureOctober 21, 2020
Thank you all for your comments! As we progress through this series, I hope you will never hesitate to comment or to ask a question or to express your feelings. This will make this experience a learning experience for all of us as we learn from and teach each other
CHARLES DEFRANCHIOctober 21, 2020
When I was six, my parents sent me away to live with my Grandparents over several months because I was badly affected with the tropical climate of the African country where my father had been assigned. I greatly suffered from the separation, and the thing that mattered most to me at the time was the doll I had been offered by one of my relatives. This never kept me from feeling like a boy, and it looks like modern society has reached another level of insanity trying to define a child's true gender.
LexaGraemeOctober 21, 2020
Lovely words. Thank you.
JackiOctober 21, 2020
Sometimes experiences are so traumatizing that what we walk away with is a combination of rage, that the people we had been taught to respect because of their positions of authority within the Church, did not protect us but instead let us down or actually caused the damage to be worse, and helplessness, because we were told to submit to abuse. And if it is God who commanded us to marry that abusive person, our entire worldview is shattered. I do not know how to proceed. Experience at what price? Loss of our faith in God's love for us?
Simon PownallOctober 21, 2020
As a person who first heard the missionary discussions at age 17, the doctrine of a Pre mortal existence more than anything else touched me. I could never be part of a church that didn’t believe in this. It was wonderful for you to confirm with me this pivotal doctrine 46 years later. Thank you.
SherryOctober 21, 2020
Thank you so much for this timely message. It’s what I needed to hear. It is a balm... there is nothing we can not overcome without our Heavenly Father, and our Saviour by our side. It’s surprising what we can live through... we may be battered and bruised... but we will survive and be made stronger.
Ken McGowanOctober 21, 2020
Good. Article. However, there is another technical point (in addition to one raised by another) and that is your statement concerning the “one third” of the spirits rejecting the Plan. Actually, the scriptures do not say that; they say, rather, “one third part.” This is a significant point. Consider a circle divided into three segments of varying degrees: one being 230d, another 90d and another 40d. Each can be described as having a “one third part” (of the circle) but containing a larger or smaller part of the whole. It is unimaginable to me that our Heavenly Parents would have lost so many as a full third of their children in their premarital existence. That there was rebellion there is no doubt but “one third” seems unreasonable to believe. Far more reasonable to believe that that the “one third part” consisted of a “kind” rather than a number. It could well be that the group who rebelled was (though large in number) was a relatively small group.
phil ShermanOctober 21, 2020
Thanks for putting this podcast together Thanks for the calendar Thanks for coming to photograph the historic homes here in Nineveh NY Take care & enjoy the ride Phil
Geri CampbellOctober 21, 2020
Nice one Daris!
Kay RiceOctober 21, 2020
That was just a bunch of warm fuzzies all in one. Good fall story; thank you.
Richard EyreOctober 21, 2020
Thank you all so much for these enlightening comments! Keep them coming! Part of the fun of this series will be this comments section and finding out how others feel about each "purposely provocative" doctrine we discuss. Feel free to ask questions in your comments as well, and chances are that other commenters will have ideas or answers. Interchange and conversation on the doctrines of the Restoration is exciting and stimulating as well as faith-promoting. And it inspires in us so much gratitude for the Prophet Joseph's ability to ask the right questions that solicited revealed answers from God.
ShaunaOctober 21, 2020
Thank you so much--I think information is power and it's important to hear both sides of an issue. I am absolutely alarmed at the emphasis put on gender as a "social construction" these days. How are kids supposed to develop healthy relationships when they don't even know if they are a boy or a girl?? And when they're encouraged to "experiment" with different sexual orientations? I used to think Satan's big plan was to attack the family, but now I think it's to attack gender, without which, there is no family. Having said that, I have a nephew whose child is going through gender dysphoria and they are currently doing the puberty blocking hormones. I cannot imagine how difficult it would be to make these decisions as parents, and my heart goes out to them. But they have also left the Church over these issues and that makes me even sadder. I only want good things for them and their family but I wish they had hung on to hear and seek counsel from the Lord and His servants. Such heart wrenching issues
Joel MarksOctober 21, 2020
I believe God as well: “All these things will give us experience.” Repentance and discipline mentally, physically and spiritually are all essential in understanding Joseph’s Liberty....and ours.
timecOctober 21, 2020
It's possible to understand the pain of people seing this temple leveled by fire. Mormon communicants were very sad. Perhaps today a new temple is completed. I'm a LDS Church member but a mainline protestant, but I find sad for this disaster.
Ron BarnesOctober 20, 2020
Our two daughters came into this world with two very different personalities. Where did these diverse personalities come from if they were not developed before birth? How could they develop so different coming from the same womb? Having a life before birth answers these questions for me.
Keith MillerOctober 20, 2020
What wonderful thoughts and insights. Thank you for sharing with all of us.
Robert K WagstaffOctober 20, 2020
I was stimulated by your comments. I am blessed to be an inventor and now have eight personal patents plus my name on several other patents that were created when I worked for various companies. I have also lived outside the US on two different occasions where I observed the effects of governments that do not allow freedom of thought nor action. We are so blessed here in the United States to be able to create and develop new ideas. I am a product of this system and am thankful for the opportunity to live here.
Robert K WagstaffOctober 20, 2020
I was interested in your treatment of the pre-existence as the number one item of the restoration. I do not disagree but compliment you on your choice. Yes, we are eternal and the implications of this are driving me to strive to find my place in the eternities. I look forward to reading your next contribution.
P. MaguraOctober 20, 2020
After reading the Book of Mormon I became a convert. Years later I was the mother of 3 children(2 boys and 1 girl). My daughter called one day. After years of marriage, she wanted to have children and "Could I pray about it?". I asked several questions in prayer about her having a child and I got positive answers... who the child would be and what the solution was to her question. I tended the little one for several years and while reading a book with her she stopped and said....".Grandma, you saved me." I didn't know what she was referring to so I asked "What was I doing?" "Oh, you were just being a grandma" she then continued...saying.."I (she) had been an angel in Heaven." She never brought the subject up again. Later, she wanted to be baptized but her father ( a Catholic) would not give permission. She attended her little cousin's baptism... and as I looked over at her, tears had filled her eyes. Her father moved them to another State and I have not heard from them for 4 years.
David BrownOctober 20, 2020
As a friend but not member of the LDS, I admire the superior morality of the concepts presented here. Many other Christian presentations have underestimated God's mercy, wisdom and patience. Thank you for your article.
Shirley TongOctober 20, 2020
Thank you for sharing these inspired thoughts and your meaningful song! You have the talent like your sweet mother!
Shirley TongOctober 20, 2020
Loved your article because as an investigator (as a high schooler), having been born of Japanese-American parents, I avidly studied the missionary pamphlets I found in the foyer of a chapel. The most important doctrine I learned of was the true understanding of the Godhead, which expanded my mind and spirit and gave birth to my testimony! For me it truly was pivotal to finally know that I have a Heavenly Father, His Son who is my Savior, and the Holy Ghost who are three separate beings but united in purpose. I felt like I had come homed, at last!! Secondly, I was privileged to meet your daughter in SLC (and your wife) the year she was selected as Mother of the Year (I was Utah's MOY in 2010.) and I have always enjoyed your articles on parenting over the years. Thanks for the good you do!
GTOOctober 20, 2020
I had the missionary lessons when I was 16, coming from a Jewish/intellectual background. When the missionaries taught this doctrine, it was the single, most wonderful thing I had ever heard. Absolutely transforming.
DoraOctober 20, 2020
I am blessed to know that I am a spirit offspring of my Heavenly Parents who sent me to this Earth to obtain a physical body, learn, improve and find my way back to Them through their Son Jesus Christ, my Saviour! This trully is the most important doctrine, that we lived with our Heavenly Parents before being born to our earthly parents, that they love us more than our earthly parents ever could and want us to return back Home one day, to live with them and our earthly families forever and become like they are! So grateful for this knowledge. Thank you for bringing this doctrine and its importance up!
Jerry CareyOctober 20, 2020
As a very young investigator of the church, I had a hard time with the concept of “The Pre-existence “. However, after a spirited discussion, I was sitting in our dorms common room which had a great view of the night sky. As I meditated and prayed concerning this new concept, I had, what was to be the first of many moments of light. With perfect clarity I could see that eternity could not just start in one point in time and go forward. It had to go eternally in the other direction also. By the way, I had one discussion on Monday and one on Wednesday, and was baptized Saturday.
John P. PrattOctober 20, 2020
Very perceptive to recognize the importance of the knowing of life before life! Loved the story of the Christian who became Hindu because of reincarnation. A version of that belief called "multiple probations" was also taught by early LDS leaders, so there is a version of Christianity with that teaching also. See http://johnpratt.com/items/docs/2019/probations.html.
ScottOctober 20, 2020
Beautifully written article. My guess of the most pivotal doctrine was God still revealing doctrine to prophets and was surprised it was the doctrine of pre-existence. But the author convinced me in a well-written fashion that made me appreciate that doctrine more.
CH (COL-Ret) Lawrence M. BarryOctober 20, 2020
Wonderful article, thank you. In my 23 years as an LDS Army chaplain, I came to realize from my many associations with people of other Christian faiths, that there is an inherent faith and belief that marriages will endure beyond the grave, similar to your comment on belief in a premortal life although there is no creedal or doctrinal support for either belief, it seems to be intuitive in most believers.
shirl s. jacksonOctober 20, 2020
Great article! One technical point: If we claim existence that goes back eternally and forward eternally, we cannot correctly speak of a pre-existence; we can of course speak confidently of a pre-mortal or pre-earthly existence. I know it is semantics but in a world where every concept and word of doctrine is judged, nuanced and challenged by those seeking a contrary foothold, we are obligated to technical clarity. Looking forward to reading your series about "What was restored?"...a much needed study. Thanks for your work. ssj.
Hildegard EralieOctober 20, 2020
Thank you for wonderful article. I am a convert to the Church (1977). Learning that we had a pre-mortal life was an exceedingly joyful/yes-moment that made me want to dance. Other such moments followed, even more spiritual, heart-expanding, and full of gratitude. They form a circle of joy: The revelation that God the Father and His Son Jesus Christ live and are "real" men with tangible bodies, the amazing, all inclusive, love-filled opportunity of the atonement, (and with that the personal revelation that He didn't "have" to do it, His Father didn't "order him", the after-life: families for ever of long ago and ever after, and the experience that we are "known" body and soul, good and bad, but loved anyway, -- and cared for every moment. I could go on, but you are better at writing than I am :-) Let me just say that the joy, and gratitude has never left me. Thank you for contributing to that joyl
EdOctober 20, 2020
This doctrine is very intuitive. I had a catholic co-worker who has two sons. He told me, unsolicited, that his sons are so different, there had to be some sort of pre-earth life for this to be so.
Sally SmithOctober 20, 2020
Dear Brother Eyre, I am thrilled to see this series of articles. The one I have just finished was so clear on the basic doctrine of premortal life. I always thought other Christian religions at least had some concept if a pre earth life. Thank you, Sally Smith
Jan KingOctober 19, 2020
Coming to the realization of the choice I made that day in the pre-mortal world, after being shown the possibilities, both good and bad, which earth life would hold, has forever removed any need to blame others or to cry, "why me? why did this happen to me??" I chose it. Confidence was high that day with my Savior and Heavenly parents standing nearby, reassuring me of the divine help which would always be available. I was surrounded by Angels all making the same commitment, some of whom became family and many who have been and are faithful friends.
Rochelle HaleOctober 19, 2020
This is article is both comforting and easily spells out gospel principles. I have lost loved ones, but I have not experienced profound grief. Perhaps it is one of my spiritual gifts. I do miss my loved ones, but not in a way that I cannot function. I miss more a living relative who has put a wedge between the family. That is a difficult loss, I suppose similar to the grief of someone who passes. To the person who commented regarding the death of a spouse and quoted C.S. Lewis, I offer this (also attributed to Mr. Lewis or his wife) “The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before. That's the deal.” I was the last family member to see my grandmother before she passed. Though difficult, it was also a sweet, tender time for me to express my love and tell her it was "ok" to go, especially knowing what she had to look forward to.
MaryOctober 19, 2020
Thank you so much for your article. I have what some call brain fog. I didn't realize until reading your article that my feeling "dumb" was because of the the fog. It has changed how I'm looking at myself.
BenOctober 19, 2020
What a beautiful and powerful article. The doctrine of the gospel of Jesus Christ is so reassuring and comforting.
Bonnie JOctober 19, 2020
Thank you so much for doing this work to help the world be a better and safer place. I live in CA and it has been a nightmare. God bless you to find huge success in your worthy endeavors!
Trish MOctober 19, 2020
The remarks of the father to the son about how God could let him have a heart attack reminded me of my doctor telling me about a diagnosis he had to give an elderly woman. Her tests came back positive for an aggressive cancer. She said, quite angrily, "I've been a member of the church my whole life and lived the Word of Wisdom! Why is God letting me get cancer?" My doctor responded, "Ma'am, you're 89 years old. How long did you think God would let you live? Something's gotta give!" Ok, he wasn't the most tactful doctor, but I always remembered that. Something's gotta give. Bodies aren't designed to live forever in the state they are in. This life is merely temporary--we've always known that. We just frequently don't choose to believe that. But all trials and separations are only temporary, and later we'll look back and realize how short those separations really were in the eternities
Kurt FrancisOctober 19, 2020
All doctrinally correct, but comfort still very hard to find with the death of a spouse after many wonderful years. The loss still seems too great for words to express. I find myself as CS Lewis expressed: "Don't come talking to me about the consolations of religion or I shall suspect you don't understand."
Cary HolmquistOctober 19, 2020
Thanks. This was reassuring to read and have cogent thoughts to express feelings that confirm truth about our mortal condition and hope and faith for immortality and nature of our immortal spirits.
David DurfeeOctober 19, 2020
Astrophysicists (e.g., Paul Davies) acknowledge that the likelihood that a "life friendly" universe such as ours could randomly pop into existence would be infinitesimally small. The only theory that scientists can come up with to avoid the conclusion that there must be an "intelligent creator" is the Multiverse Theory, which postulates that ours is simply one of an infinite number of universes. This theory itself, however, requires one to accept a number of very strange concepts -- including the notion that it is most likely that we are all just part of some gigantic computer program. So the next time Richard Dawkins or some other scientist insists that religion is just silly mythology, you can be sure that they simply do not understand how bizarre and preposterous science has to get in order to explain away God.
Barbara CasadyOctober 19, 2020
THANK You for giving us a sweet, eternal perspective.
DianeOctober 19, 2020
This is so inspiring! Thank you for sharing. One tip, though, would be to call them “burn survivors” NOT “burn victims.” Two of my children are burn survivors, and in the burn community, this is how they prefer to be called.
Sherry SimisterOctober 19, 2020
No skeptic here! Why? Because I’ve been home on 3 occasions... and while recovering from a serious fall, my hospital bed was surrounded by my Ancestors!! They stayed with me until I was out of the woods... this wasn’t the first time that they surrendered my hospital bed... yes, our family is still a part of our lives.. we just can’t see them like we use to... but they are very much part of our lives
Sherry SimisterOctober 19, 2020
Absolutely loved your article! I have been blessed with the opportunity to return home on 3 occasions and each time I was allowed to see more and more. You are so right when you say that we continue to work.. on my last return home I saw spirits being taught the gospel, and others anxiously engaged in the Lord’s work. I was also allowed to see the “Book”... it was massive.. yet while the man was writing down everything he saw on earth, you never saw a page turn. But you could see the thickness of the book. The love that awaits us in literally breathtaking! It consumes every part of you including the strands of your hair, and the tips of your nails. Also there’s no speaking.. you automatically know what the person is saying... there was so much more... going home is literally as the scriptures say.. “ when you drink of the living water you will never thirst again!” It’s exactly what happens... you automatically know... your faith becomes knowledge... there is no more choice... you just do it! Why? Because it literally changes you... So thank you for sharing your article...
Sherry SimisterOctober 19, 2020
Hi Cindy. I was intrigued with your article because I’ve had four serious brain injuries... the last of which took away everything I knew how to do... reading, writing, organization, seeing ( I use to make most of my clothes, and my granddaughters when she was little. A customer with a stolen credit card threw me 10 feet and my head slammed onto the floor in which my brain slammed into the back of my head, and then into my forehead.. the whole back of my head swelled up, and I suffered severe migraines daily for 18 months... six years ago I pleaded with Heavenly Father to help me learn to read again with the Book Of Mormon. I desperately missed reading it.. He answered my prayer and I have read it cover to cover many times. However I still struggle to remember what I just read. I suffer from short term memory loss. Long story short... through this brain injury I have learned to rely on HF, and my Saviour... they have blessed me immensely! I could not be where I am today without them by my side. So thank you for sharing your story with all of us, and I will go to your FB page... Thank you again.
LynnOctober 18, 2020
So inspiring! Thank you for sharing!
Sherry SimisterOctober 18, 2020
What an inspiring message! I love the song! Is there a way that I can download it to my music file?? I’ve passed it on to a friend who is struggling with prayer... this article is a must read for all of us!
MrShortyOctober 18, 2020
I, too, am looking forward to this series, but perhaps with a little more trepidation than others. I think it will boil down to whether the series ends up being a good foray into "the glorious doctrines of the restoration" or more of a deflection to try to distract from "The Imperfections of the Prophets". As I look at my own and others' troubled relationships with the Church, so many of the difficult issues boil down to how to understand the imperfections of prophets and apostles and the revelatory process that is so foundational to our epistemology. A series that is merely an attempt at deflection or distraction from these difficult issues is going to be a lot less useful than a series that will eventually integrate into a solid understanding of how prophets can bring forth truths (like this series wants to cover) and also present some mistakes as if they were truths. I think Ben Spackman encapsulates the concern so well in his Gospel Doctrine post on the book of Philemon. Dealing with the issue of slavery and why the Biblical authors seemed so unwilling to condemn slavery, he writes, "Scripture simply doesn’t reflect the eternal ideal, as we understand. How do we account for this? What model of scripture, revelation, and prophets allows “God’s word,” God’s prophets, and Jesus himself to do or allow something so… inhuman?"
Gwen BruingtonOctober 18, 2020
Thank you for this article. In the discussion about routing out the Gadiantons, you failed to mention that another way they were eliminated was with the help of natural disasters. When Nephi in the book of Helaman asked the Lord for a famine, the people repented and "swept away the band of Gadianton from amongst them." And of course, at the time of the Savior's death during all that incredible destruction, the wicked were all killed. Obviously, we would prefer an elimination of evil BEFORE the 2nd coming!
Harold RustOctober 17, 2020
This made my day. I really miss not mingling every Sunday with fellow members and this song made me feel right at home---like I was back to Church already. Great creativity and fabulous harmony. My Bishopric could have never done that because none of us could carry a tune, let alone harmonize.
Maryann TaylorOctober 17, 2020
This is great! Love it! We all need to lighten up a bit, and this was such a happy way to encourage us to come back into church attendance.
Robert SteedOctober 17, 2020
I know the Willams when I worked with Darrin with the State. Such a wonderful story and what a wonderful family.
Susan J GraceOctober 17, 2020
Wow! You are Joy....music to my soul in the midst of adversity! Love, love, love this. Thank you. Bishopric in my ward take note.
cHUCK mCcLUREOctober 17, 2020
It always amazes me first, that these great leaders of the church deal with the same issues I experience from time to time and second, that they are so resolute to quickly return to the path that draws them near to the Savior. I take comfort in knowing that I can do the same!
Been There!October 17, 2020
Someone who has been as damaged as this boyfriend is so busy protecting themself from further harm that they often don't have the ability to form a healthy relationship. If you accept him as he is today then he will see no reason to change. He needs help in seeing that he is passing on the damage done to him, thus making him an abuser. He needs this help before your relationship continues on, or it will be a case of "what you see is what you get." I assure you, marrying him now would be the same as signing an agreement to spend the rest of your life as an abuse victim.
Susan Harmon-PayneOctober 16, 2020
Great account! Wonderful testimony of our Lord! Thank you for sharing.
Robyn BoyleOctober 16, 2020
We served in Canada with Elder Williams and LOVED getting to know him!! When we first saw the picture of him as a future missionary assigned to our mission we noticed his physical scars but it wasn’t long before those scars were no longer a focal point because what we saw was a confident young man with a great sense of humor and a strong love for the Gospel and his Savior Jesus Christ. We love you Elder Williams!!
Judith La MontagneOctober 16, 2020
What fun! Kudos to the bishopric's should-be professionals who had such a lot of service in their hearts and a beauiful message and melody in their hearts!
Sherri HollomanOctober 16, 2020
Marilyn- Thank you for this soul- stirring story. It helps one put into Perspective the daily trials we face. Blessings, prayers, and good wishes to Amber and her son For their faith, their courage, and their examples to those who know them or who are blessed To read about them.
Joy LundbergOctober 15, 2020
What a truly inspiring article. Thank you, Lynne. And thanks for your beautiful song. You are such a blessing to Meridian readers. Keep those articles coming!
Sandy DildineOctober 15, 2020
This is thought provoking and makes sense for work product It looks like the opposite of cancel culture, but it all hinges on if all ideas are treated this way. Can people bring their religious identity with them? Will what they say or do online be used against them, especially if it is the opposite of the majority in that field?
DoraOctober 15, 2020
Awesome article. I fear we are ripening for destruction as there is pride everywhere. I am so sad! We can do better than that!❤❤
Pat ThomasOctober 15, 2020
Looking forward to this series. I have a child who no longer “believes.” My heart aches. I’m hoping I’ll have better understanding. Thank you
Becky BurtonOctober 15, 2020
Thank you for this article!
Lisa ReisingOctober 15, 2020
Beautifully conceived series - I look forward to it! It thrilled me to the core to read the comment about Joseph Smith and the quality and sincerity of his questions I have often thought how wonderful it seems that he retained throughout his short life such a childlike approach to a relationship with God - it was all about trust. And honest, sincere questions. This is the debt of gratitude we owe him. The described conversation with your daughter is likewise beautiful. Someone in our overly sophisticated society we need to discover how to trust each other with heartfelt questions again.
ReedOctober 15, 2020
The uncreative mind can spot wrong answers, but it takes a very creative mind to spot wrong questions. Anthony Jay
Alexander ForsythOctober 15, 2020
You—REALLY—only know someone after you live with them! Or, you don't know someone until you live with them!
Pamela SandersOctober 14, 2020
I know only as much of God and the world as a creature with two eyes must. What I do understand I love, what I don't understand I trust.
Dora Bingham BinghamOctober 14, 2020
What a beautiful testimony and lesson for all of us. God bless you and keep on healing you.
ShaunaOctober 14, 2020
thanks for sharing your testimony Daryl. I appreciate anyone who is open about their faith and I intentionally seek out things/people/articles, etc., that bolster mine. I'm in my late 50's and not on social media, but I must say that it has struck me as odd that people would "announce" they're leaving the Church on social media. What purpose does that serve? what kind of attention are they seeking? I know that for many, they announce everything on social media, but declaring their distance from the Church has struck me as particularly misguided and hardhearted.
Lorraine AndersonOctober 14, 2020
Elder L Tom Perry did the same thing when he visited our Stake 2 years before he stepped through the veil. After a beautiful talk, and giving the congregation an apostolic blessing, he asked the parents to bring their children to the aisle so he could shake their hands on his way out of the building. This act greatly impacted me.
Linda WardleOctober 14, 2020
You are beautiful by divine design. Thank you for sharing your very personal journey and recovery! You have great courage and are an inspiration to those that will take the time to listen to your words of hope!
Richard SkousenOctober 14, 2020
Great article! These are some good warning flags to watch out for in ourselves and our loved ones.
Diane HugginsOctober 14, 2020
I’m looking forward to these articles ! Today’s talk was a great read!!!
kim mossOctober 14, 2020
What is the coating on the calendar? Many times a pen or pencil will not write on certain coatings. Thanks
CarolOctober 14, 2020
Thank for telling your story! You have encouraged me to redouble my efforts to 'see' every person I encounter and treat them as the child of God they are and give them positive, uplifting interaction even if it's just a passing smile and looking them in the eyes.
Lucius VersusOctober 14, 2020
Sounds SO much like our little Pepper (a Morkie)! She's brought so much happiness into our lives. Its been a challenge tho having a 'baby' in our mid 70's; like being parents all over again. Patience, frustration, pride, joy, happiness and the strumming of our heartstrings in those moments of her looking up into our eyes and giving us a kiss with her little nose and petite little tongue (however wet!). Always wanting our undivided attention; bringing us sticks, rocks and the occasional dirt clod into the house to play with and clean up after her play time is finished. All creatures great and small; what a joy - what a joy.
Gail W. OckeyOctober 14, 2020
Thank you so very much for sharing your story with us. It was both heart wrenching and inspiring. Bless you for your courage in dealing with your losses and gains throughout your recovery. I am dealing with repercussions of a stroke at 85 years and your example has given me hope and energy to keep moving forward in my rehabilitation. You are inspiring to me and I will try to follow your example. You are remarkable in every way. I pray that you will continue to have the needed blessings from the Lord.
Kennen Steinagel Van WagenenOctober 14, 2020
What a beautiful example for all of us. Thank you for sharing your story of difficult trials, and then courage, resilience and faith.
DianeOctober 13, 2020
Maurine - So happy with your continued recovery and thank you for your messages of faith amidst anguish and the peace that you feel. Your writings are always an inspiration.
Maryann TaylorOctober 13, 2020
Emailing adult siblings to "warn them" that the family relationships are "toxic" is pretty extreme. The fact that those siblings have let the mom know they do NOT feel that way suggests that the extremely critical daughter is attempting to poison the rest of the family with her own disastisfaction. This daughter desperately needs counseling. At this point, I don't know if anything her Mom says would make a difference.
Maryann TaylorOctober 13, 2020
Thank you so much for reminding this woman that she doesn't need to do anything to protect her daughter's marriage or her children, and that they are capable of working out their own problems. My husband and I do not wear masks at home, and I know that the VAST majority of people who get COVID do recover, often with only mild symptoms. However, this woman's situation is different. She is not only helping her daughter and grandchildren, but she is also caring for her elderly mother. If she were to pass on the virus to her older mother, it could be a case of life or death. Perhaps if she gently reminded her daughter of the need to protect the elderly, she would soften a bit.
Herm OlsenOctober 13, 2020
LOVE Wally Goddard and his valuable insights. He is a treasure. I hope you pay him well!
Steve DoneganOctober 13, 2020
Thanks to the US Army I’ve been to Martin Luther’s church and have thought a lot about the Reformation. Your statement showing the difference between that Reformation (man) and the Restoration (God) shows your depth of thought is much deeper than my own. I will cherish the time I get to spend at your feet/side learning.
Richard EyreOctober 13, 2020
Looking forward to reactions, responses, and resulting questions as this series begins next week. Don't hesitate to comment on whatever comes to mind because there are no bad questions, and unasked ones don't do anyone any good.
MaryOctober 12, 2020
She should have just packed their food in to go boxes and called it good.
MaryOctober 12, 2020
I loved this article but some of the issues presented seemed small. Issues such as squeezing in one extra person to the table? What did the apostles expect you to do? Buy a new table? I know I don't know the person who wrote the article so I don't know what issues she deals with but she could have been a little kinder to herself. I understand wanting everything to be perfect but apostles are also people too and if they had issues with what they were eating on then she should have just broke out the paper plates and called it good. I guess I am just tired of women worring about issues that shouldn't be an issue and how basic kindness somehow deserves to be put on a pedestal.
Gale PhillipsOctober 12, 2020
Columbus called himself an "instrument" in the hands of God. He was spiritual enough to realize the Lord was using him for a divine purpose. Many who denigrate the legacy of Columbus fail to realize that the Lord uses imperfect men and women to accomplish his purposes because imperfect humans are the only type of humans he has to work with.
KathrynOctober 12, 2020
I absolutely love this video, not just for the great harmonies and clever lyrics, but especially for the look on the bishop's face when he sings to his ward members, "No other friends we'd rather be with than with you for the longest time." The message of genuine care and inclusion are, for me, the highlight of this video. Thanks, Highland 19th Ward bishopric!
Gale PhillipsOctober 12, 2020
It is great to see this insight from a young adult. So many of our young people (and older as well) have been taken in by causes and groups that they really don't understand.
Richard WinmillOctober 12, 2020
HAPPY INDIGENOUS PEOPLES DAY! It is certainly possible for someone who has been selected for a mission from God to be found with feet of clay. Saul, David and Solomon come to mind. I do not doubt that Columbus was such a man. It is not necessary to only venerate or only vilify Columbus. It is better to understand and deal with the foibles of people rather than ignore them as inconvenient to our cultural views. Foibles of people often develop in the extremities and often revolve around money. It was in fact, the "Columbian Exchange" not Columbus himself that scattered and killed the indigenous people of the Americas. The estimates of the pre-contact AmerIndian population are as high as 60 million in 1492. . In any case, the native population declined to less than six million by 1650. The cause? "Guns, Germs and Steel " in the words of Jared Diamond. https://www.history.com/.../exploration/christopher-columbus https://www.history.com/news/columbus-day-controversy It is a known fact that "Columbus’s governance of Hispaniola could be brutal and tyrannical. Native islanders who didn’t collect enough gold could have their hands cut off, and rebel Spanish colonists were executed at the gallows. Colonists complained to the monarchy about mismanagement, and a royal commissioner dispatched to Hispaniola arrested Columbus in August 1500 and brought him back to Spain in chains. Although Columbus was stripped of his governorship, King Ferdinand not only granted the explorer his freedom but subsidized a fourth voyage." It is also worth note that Columbus' four voyages took him to the Caribean island, South America, and only as far North as the Yucatan in Mexico, but never close to the contiguous United States. The promised land must therefore be the America's and not just America.
LewisOctober 12, 2020
What a beautiful, inspired story. I look forward to every one of your articles!
Darlene NelsonOctober 12, 2020
Thank you so much for this outstanding article. I am going to send it to my children and grandchildren. I have been accused of being the rose coloured glassed person and have learned to be more humble and compassionate through prayerfully seeking God’s guidance on who needs my help. Those experiences have helped me to love without judgement. All your points resonated with me and will help me as I serve others.
ShareeOctober 12, 2020
This was awesome, hilarious! Loved it!!!
Pauline HarryOctober 12, 2020
Well done!!
H NorthOctober 12, 2020
What about the spouse that betrays their partner and refuses to uphold their spousal commitments by refusing to have sex? How does one protect oneself against that?
LindaOctober 12, 2020
Exactly what I have been thinking and feeling. Thanks for articulating it so well.
Adrian MartinOctober 12, 2020
What a wonderful occasion! What a tremendous example from an Apostle of the Lord! Thank you for sharing this wonderful true story!
Margie KawamotoOctober 12, 2020
Such a day brightener! Thank you all for sharing your talents with us and creating such a fun and uplifting "welcome back!" With love and gratitude,
DanielaOctober 12, 2020
Great article! Being born and raised in Italy I prefer to call him by his Italian name, Cristoforo Colombo, rather than Cristobal Colon, which apparently was its Spanish version. Who would ever thought that today this would be such a controversial topic!
Jacob HessOctober 11, 2020
Thank you for the responses I have received since publishing. This one struck me: Laura’s story is my story, too. I tapered myself, probably too quickly, but God kept his promise to help me as I promised to take the first leap of faith against everything friends/family/medical community said to me. All were ignorant, but not as ignorant as I was to accept going on medication the first time. It’s time for the Saints to get off of their psychiatric medications. It’s time to feel sad again; it’s time to feel happy again; it’s time to just feel again.
GinaOctober 11, 2020
Thank you for adding these awesome Alexa skills! I would love to be able to ask Alexa to play talks for LDS youth (BYU ed week youth speakers, John Bytheway etc). Or another one: the Hope Works series.
Jackie RichardsOctober 11, 2020
That was beautiful guys. Thank you from the UK!!
Michael HogganOctober 11, 2020
I have pschizoaffective disorder. That condition is a reality and is a combination of paranoiz schizophrenia and clinical depression. This is a biological condition that does involve physical problems with the brain. Neurochemistry is part of it, but brain damage or miswiring in the brain are likely also factors. I don't know if this particular girl is genuinely mentally ill, but it is very dangerous to think that bipolar disorder is an illusion.
jim spensOctober 10, 2020
I worked in public education and in a 1986 a group came from Boston to tell us that in the Salt Lake area we were in pre-gang state. Measures could have been taken at that time to prevent gangs from coming , but they would have been severe. Now over 30 years later gangs are rampant in the Salt Lake area and are prime examples of the expansion of secret combinations that are literally around us. The gadiantian robbers are not in the mountains, they are here in our valleys.
jim spensOctober 10, 2020
Have you ever thought of the reasons why the Lord directed or commanded Adam to till, subdue, keep and dress the garden that he was placed in? Has that directive ever been rescinded? There is definite purpose in all of the commandments!
PaeaOctober 10, 2020
Thank you so much for this article...I think this is the answer to my problems now.
Linda HydeOctober 10, 2020
Thank you. What confuses me is that people on either side of American politics claim secret combinations in the opposite party.
PaulineOctober 10, 2020
This is an interesting story. It would also be relevant to learn about the impact of heavy metals and gut health on the brain.
GrandpaOctober 10, 2020
Good answer. I would only add that the daughter needs to understand that her mother is doing her a favor and can stop coming any time she wishes. A little more appreciation is in order. The daughter has absolutely no authority to "tell" her mother what to do.
MayOctober 10, 2020
Very compelling story. This piece touched my heart and helped me feel hope for the many I love who are facing similar challenges. I am grateful that Laura was brave enough to share her experience with 12 step processes as a part of her courageous journey. I too know the value of learning to connect to a Power Greater then myself in order to rediscover the innate Power and Wisdom within. How grateful I have been to participate, for more than 25 years now, alongside so many others who have found a similar path as Laura and have learned to - live life on life's terms. I have watched time and time again as myself, and so many others, have made a connection to a Higher Power of our Own Understanding and in so doing unlocked the secret of living -one day at a time- in acceptance of the complexities of life and with a renewed hope in the deep and abiding resilience of the human spirit. Thank you for stepping into the role of storyteller Jacob Hess. In my humble opinion... it suits you.
Crazy ClydeOctober 9, 2020
We need to think creatively. Example: Buy a large transparent umbrella and a clear plastic paint cloth, both available for under 20 and 10 bucks respectively. Cut the paint cloth to the diameter of the umbrella and about 5 wide. Attach it with file binder clips or cloths pins to the ribs of the umbrella. You will have built a bubble that you can breath in for several hours. It protects your eyes better than a face shield. Since infectious droplets don't have wings, they can't fly 5 feet up from the floor to your head. Neither can the droplets you produce. As good as social distancing many yards. You can touch high contact surfaces such as door knobs using the bubble like a glove. You express your freedom, having it both ways, safe and independent. I recommend most people over 60 and those with any serious health problems stay in their bubble while around other people. Schools could be safely opened if students and teachers stayed in bubbles. I won't go so far as to suggest your risk is zero in any situation, but it is extremely low. Women in Hong Kong where it rains torrents, and car access is inconvenient and long, modest, expensive dresses are commonly worn, use "full-length umbrellas" often which are basically what I am describing. Google it.
Joleen BrimhallOctober 9, 2020
Right on! As ward music chair, I am choosing one beautiful hymn that goes with the topic but they don't know well each week that can just be listened to. They are encouraged to read along and learn! Wish I could play prelude.
Fiona mcglashanOctober 9, 2020
This was excellent and I hope to keep this for reference over the next stages of life raising my own children. Thank you for writing this!
LexaGraemeOctober 9, 2020
Thank you.
Valiant JonesOctober 9, 2020
Scot, thank you for sharing your tithing story. What a testimony of the power of God and the power of your family keeping their covenants including the paying of tithing.
Margery HuntOctober 9, 2020
Right on, especially with the middle name.
Omar AlghaliOctober 9, 2020
A wonderful article indeed. By the number of comments I wonder how many have read it. A great number of Latter-day Saints are not awake. They are slumbering. Moroni, plead with us to awake to our awful situation. Perhaps when freedom is lost then we will awake as a people. The Lord's servants have warned us long enough. Have we given heed to their teachings concerning this matter. Nevertheless I'm very hopeful for the future. The Lord will help us win this great spiritual war.
VelineOctober 9, 2020
Thank you!!! I have been one of those organists/pianists for much of my life. I LOVE the hymns, and have been mostly grateful for all the callings and opportunities I have had to accompany. I have often felt that the music--especially prelude and postlude-- isn't even noticed by most of the congregation; so your article is very validating!!
LexaGraemeOctober 9, 2020
Growing up, my siblings and I had to spend at least one Saturday a month weeding our yards in front and back. One year, when we had a garden, that was added. I hated it at the time, but as I have grown up, the urge to get out and pull up stuff I do not want has stayed with me. I look forward to hearing the next installment of this story.
CiceroOctober 9, 2020
Because evil conspirators call evil good, and good evil, many good people naively support evil, believing what the conspirators say. This is cause for both great sadness and great alarm. Please dig more deeply and understand what is happening.
DebrahOctober 9, 2020
This was an excellent and insightful read. I especially like the advice at the end to compare using your own core values. Thanks for your work!
Michelle CoxOctober 8, 2020
who was was the national commentator comparing core values to political platforms? where can that be found
Heather GroseOctober 8, 2020
This gave me the chills. What a reality check! But basically, as she mentioned, the prophets have been giving us reality checks and warnings all along. We need to heed and pay close attention to what they are saying. Thank you very much for all of the citations and information you gave to align with the signs. Wonderful article.
CarolynOctober 8, 2020
We are not allowed to sing yet either. We don't realize how much we miss singing the words of the hymns until we are not allowed to do it in Sacrament meeting. I like to take my small hymn book with me and read the words as the pianist plays.
Martha ClantonOctober 8, 2020
Thank you for your wonderful article. It concisely identified the evidence that reinforced the whisperings of the spirit that I had not been able to convey to my children without causing them to dread the future. I believe I will be better able to convey what I am feeling to them.
CatherineOctober 8, 2020
Spot on!! Thank you!
Brenda HighOctober 8, 2020
Wow! Excellent article.
Diane MortensenOctober 8, 2020
This is an excellent analysis. Love the way the Book of Mormon illustrates our current circumstances.
RitaOctober 8, 2020
Thanks, Joni. Our musicians do put a lot of time into their work, and your article should encourage more appreciation for them.
Cyndi HaddockOctober 8, 2020
Beautifully written. I feel we are watching those secret combinations unfold in our government and judicial system. As you stated, the best way to know how to choose is to follow the values we hold dear, and ask ourselves, does the candidate follow those values? Do they uphold life, liberty, free speech and right to worship as we please? Do they uphold the Constitution or prefer judges who interpret and make or change laws, which is against the Constitution? It's critically important for us to discern - to have eyes to see, ears that hear, and a heart open to the whisperings of the Holy Ghost.
Ingrid LOctober 8, 2020
We are witnessing this exact thing--call evil good and good evil--on the national scene. It's critical that we study and seek discernment in the face of many lies and tactics to mind-control the public.
PennieOctober 8, 2020
My sentiments exactly! I hope we are all pleading for the nation in our prayers along with every good person of faith. We are indeed standing at the edge of the cliff. And following issues and all candidate, national and local closely. Thank you for the articulate article.
Elizabeth SOctober 8, 2020
Excellent article. Thank you.
Sara GrovesOctober 8, 2020
This is so straight forward and I hope eye opening! You spoke the words I have been feeling, but didn't know how to express myself! THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!
Gloria SchickOctober 8, 2020
Thank you for this wonderful rotten article!
Gary EdmondsOctober 8, 2020
Excellent evaluation. However, with wickedness so firmly entrenched in so many places, I have very little hope that it can be routed out in time to save us. I believe the only thing that will save us now is the coming of the Lord. We shall see how long the Lord allows this wickedness to prevail before he puts a stop to it.
SUE OSBORNEOctober 7, 2020
Are you sending them to other parts of the world? I am in the UK and would love one!
Diane L IrwinOctober 7, 2020
Such inspiring stories! Thank you, Anne. Your articles continue to amaze me.
ElizabetheOctober 7, 2020
My husband was hit by a drunk driver. He remembers going down and seeing the undercarriage of the car. Then his next memory is sitting on the curb with his broken leg. No one was there, but someone had pulled him from under the car before he was crushed. His leg was broken, so he didn't do it himself. Later after coming home from the hospital, he found bruised fingerprints on his arm just as if someone had grabbed him hard and dragged him. But no one was there. I know divine intervention saved him from dying.
Lemuel FigueroaOctober 7, 2020
Steven Wright was my branch president in the MTC at the end of 1980. I remember the first time we all met as an MTC branch. He asked me to speak to the missionaries about my conversion. I met with him regularly because I was the branch secretary. He also assigned me to be flight leader when the time came for my group to leave for Peru. I had very good conversations and counseling with Pres. Wright. I remember his kindness and love. I spent the holidays in the MTC (Thanksgiving and Christmas). We met his beautiful family. I remember that his kids made Christmas cards for all the missionaries. I miss those days, and this good president.
RustyOctober 6, 2020
Great Carolyn, thanks. I kind of understood longer than 72 hours way back in the 80's, so my kit would last at least 4 days except for the water! However, there is plenty more water in the cupboards ready to go. Our city council also advocates a 24 hour or thereabouts grab and go kit which I also have. I occasionally ask supermarket cashiers if they have a survival kit and so far not one has said yes. Seeing we are the "shaky isles" one would think preparation would make sense
LindseyOctober 6, 2020
Two months ago I gave birth to my sweet baby girl Élodie. Four days later I held her to my chest and cried as she slipped off to the Spirit World. It is truly the worst thing we have ever experienced as a family. I long for the temple to be open again so I can go there. The only way we are all surviving is through the grave of our Savior Jesus Christ. He is truly the way.
John TonksOctober 6, 2020
I too was touched by your story. We lost our 24 year old daughter to epilepsy. We were heartbroken beyond belief. But we know that she still lives and that we are sealed together by our temple covenants. We still miss her every day even though she has been dead seven years. So I say to you, we know that little children when they die are saved in God's celestial kingdom. Now it is up to you to live so that you can be with them once again. Please live your life lovingly and beautiful. You will be together as one eternal family in the life to come.
Rochelle HaleOctober 6, 2020
Thank you for sharing. I hope time has comforted your grief. I have been through hardships but I never felt they would rock my testimony or I would blame God. When I listened to President Nelson at Conference relate the experience of his granddaughter-in-law who was conflicted over the terminal illness of her father and her testimony, it was difficult for me to ponder that this would be an either-or situation. It taught me that even good and faithful people may experience challenges that can shake us to our core and leave us with so many questions. I know, in time, these questions and all our grief will be swallowed up in the wonderful Atonement of Jesus Christ.
Gale PhillipsOctober 6, 2020
The first 2 political parties to emerge were the Federalists and the Democratic-Republicans. The election of 1800 was a harshly contested one, with name-calling on both sides. Jefferson's Inaugural Address sought to heal those wounds and bring people together: "But every difference of opinion is not a difference of principle," he said. "We have called by different names brethren of the same principle. We are all Republicans, we are all Federalists." The same message applies today; let us learn to see ourselves as Americans and the principles of the Declaration and the Constitution as the glue that holds us together.
Mom of 10October 6, 2020
Ten years ago today I lost my 28-year-old son. No matter the age the heart is broken. I treasure the time with him....he's with me every day....October conference weekend I look forward to hope that is promised and blessings to be given. There are days with tears but there are also days with happy laughter of memories. God is good.
Sherylynne O'DwyerOctober 6, 2020
Thank you so much Terrah for sharing not only your pain, loss & grief, but also your strength, hope & testimony.
Davi CostaOctober 6, 2020
Thank you very much, for sharing this sacred experience. I pray that your family keep in peace.
PaniaOctober 6, 2020
Thank you for sharing your tender story and your (and your husband’s) examples of incredible faith.
carolynOctober 5, 2020
Rusty, We still encourage larger kits but not 72 hour, 120 hours instead. All major government agencies and first responders now agree 72 hours is not enough. A night flight kit is meant to help in case you need to exit your home quickly in the middle of the night. A 120 hour kit is great but probably would not include charging cables, prescription medications and so many of the other items in a night flight kit. If you need a list for a good 120 hour kit please visit totallyready,com and you can print off articles there.
Toni LyonsOctober 5, 2020
Thank you so much for sharing your most agonizing, exhilarating and spiritually uplifting moments. We all are indeed going through difficult times and knowing that we are being watched over by loving heavenly parents is a much needed consolation. Heavenly Father has given us this time to reflect on our blessings and helped us delve deeper into our search for what we must do to prevail. THANK YOU.
Virginia PartchOctober 5, 2020
I so looked forward to all the talks! The Women's broadcast as well as all of the talks are so important for us to hear now and I felt blessed to hear them. Thank God for T.V. and the rest of technology.
John R McMinnOctober 4, 2020
That was a tough pair you were riding with! Can you believe it's been a year already! Love all 4 of you!
GrandpaOctober 4, 2020
Excellent answer. The daughter is old enough that if she wanted a mature, adult relationship then she should be putting forth some effort in that direction.
Jeanette MOctober 3, 2020
My Parent's house was red. My dad painted one side each year so it always looked great. Was not a great big house though.
Lana JohnsonOctober 2, 2020
Sending hugs and prayers to both of you!! I love your podcasts and felt so bad when I heard about Maurine's accident. May God be with you and heal you completely. Thank you for your spiritual faith that blesses all who hear the good news from you❤
Denise ChristensenOctober 2, 2020
Maurine...you are such an inspiration to us all. This article was beautiful and such a true testimony of the power our Heavenly Father can have in our lives if we just maintain a positive perspective and trust in him. I am so thankful that you are on the road to recovery and you will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
RustyOctober 2, 2020
Whatever happened to the 72 hour survival kit? I know we are still being taught to have one organised and ready to go. Are church members falling behind in this preparation? I still have my kit, which needs inspection now for possible updating, but it would function well if needed today.
Gale BoydOctober 2, 2020
Thank you for sharing this. It will inspire many people. What a painful ordeal. You have been in my prayers.
Pattie SkousenOctober 2, 2020
How grateful we are to a most loving Heavenly Father and his Son, Jesus Christ, who loves us and knows us by name. They know our problems and they know our happy times. They are cheering us on just like our family on the other side of the veil. I feel their love and devotion as days and weeks pass through this time of stress and upheavals in our society. We are loved and cared for by the Almighty Creator. Thank you for your beautiful story. It helps strengthen all of us in this time of need.
Delia HawkinsOctober 2, 2020
I am so amazed to see this, and thrilled! My father-in-law was USMC and captured by the Japanese in the Phillipines during WWII. He was sent to the Davao Penal Colony, where he eventually escaped with several others and 2 filipinos. It was the only successful escape in that theater of war. He would be so excited to see this. He passed away in 2013 at the age of 96. Hurray for Davao!!
Harold RustOctober 2, 2020
These articles on Meridian are the spiritual energy drink I consume daily. As a great supplement to the scriptures, stories and articles like this one provide tangible and real examples of the most valuable aspects of mortal existence. Thanks for being so down-to-earth while sharing heavenly experiences.
L CurtisOctober 2, 2020
I am confused about the timing of Christ's appearance to the Nephites. Here you are saying it is clearly 50 days after the death of Jesus. However , the Book of Mormon seems to say while Christ died ".in the thirty and fourth year, in the first month, on the fourth day of the month," (3 Nephi 8:5) His appearance seems to occur in the ending of the same year: " it came to pass that in the ending of the thirty and fourth year, behold, I will show unto you that the people of Nephi who were spared... did have great favors shown unto them, and great blessings poured out upon their heads, insomuch that soon after the ascension of Christ into heaven he did truly manifest himself unto them—Showing his body unto them, and ministering unto them;" 3 Nephi 10:18-19. This seems to place Christ's coming almost a year later, in the ending of the year. How do you interpret Mormon's comment since he seems to give a clear indication of the timing of both events?
Linda Starr WinansOctober 2, 2020
Ohhhh, soooo sorry to hear, Maureen! But so grateful for good medical care, a terrific personal caregiver, and especially for your tenderly written thoughts. You are always so very insightful! It gives me great thoughts to ponder. Hoping you have a VERY speedy recovery! We are sending hugs and prayers! Enjoy conference weekend! P&L
Linda Starr WinansOctober 2, 2020
Spot on! Great read!!! Thanks for the detailed analysis. I did not realize the increase that exists. It confirms my enthusiasm and excitement to hear what our leaders have to inspire us with this coming weekend.
KathleenOctober 2, 2020
You always give me food for thought, encouragement to stay on the covenant path and in a positive way I see my need to stretch and do better/more.
Susanne DavidsonOctober 1, 2020
Onlistening toaweekly podcast by the Procter’s as we always do, I was so sad to hear of Maurines accident and felt a great sense of loss that she was not able to be in that podcast. Our prayers and thoughts were with her. Sohappy to hear her voice the next week. So thankful for these wonderful podcasts each week. We learn and feel so much.
Renate McKendryOctober 1, 2020
Thank you so much, Maureen, for sharing your testimony with us! I do love listening to your and Scott’s podcast each week. I learn something new every time! Thank you both for taking the time to do that! I hope that you have a speedy recovery, and that your arm will be as new!!
Stephen W. GibsonOctober 1, 2020
Great telling of a real calm and assurance. I had one a bit similar when I was diagnosed with melanoma cancer a couple of years ago. It is almost heard to explain. The calming seems so unnatural, yet it can not be denied by the person feeling the Holy Spirit saying it is going to be okay. Thanks so much for telling your story.
Maryann TaylorOctober 1, 2020
For those of you who are not yet married---pay attention to the behavior of your date!!! If there are signs of trouble, it won't get better after you are married.
Maryann TaylorOctober 1, 2020
Great suggestions! We had a very serious wind storm in my city a few years ago and were without power for several days. There were downed trees everywhere. The day it hit, my manager told all the employees to go home. I almost didn't make it. Power lines were shooting off sparks and fallen trees made roads impassable. Once home, we were prepared with alternative heat, food, candles and lanterns, and a way to cook. We were so grateful that we had prepared for this emergency. We thank thee, Oh God, for a Prophet!
Luana WellsOctober 1, 2020
My spouse HATES painting! He said the first four letters in the word are appropriate....rather like the last 4 letters in 'touch'. I'm sure he'll never paint the house we're in...I'm not fond of the trim color.....the house is tan/ beige/sand.
CHARLES DEFRANCHIOctober 1, 2020
Dear Maurine, Very sad to read the news about your accident. But you did turn "irritation into a pearl" that will translate into thousands of lives - including mine - being blessed through your testimony and good example. We will all pray for your recovery and resuming your wonderfully productive life.
Sandy ReddishOctober 1, 2020
This is such a beautiful article. Thank you for sharing. Our family has been through some huge medical challenges lately too. I have been listening to the new church youth music when we drive to our medical appointments and I go to work. It is helping me keep the perspective you talked about. There are few quiet moments in our chaotic family life ! I am so thankful for the resources of the church to lift us up. I hope your recovery goes well.
KelliOctober 1, 2020
Thank you for this. Sometimes we need someone else to articulate what we too are experiencing. I sought a priesthood blessing following some particularly bad news. While the healing I so desired was not promised, I have felt a peace much greater than I have felt in years. And that has been so important at this time. I had struggled following April conference to hear as we had been counseled. I could not hear because I was so conflicted. And while I still feel no direction from God, I feel able to move forward again. I too have heard Him but I needed your story to recognize that fact.
AnonymousSeptember 30, 2020
My parents had "the talk" with me when I was 8, then did their best to avoid mentioning the topic ever again. Consequently, when I had questions about sex, I went to my friends and the Internet for my information. I'm ashamed to admit that I was drawn into sexually explicit books and, gradually, pornography, in an attempt to satisfy my curiosity and confusion about sex. My parents, when they found out, made sure to lay on the shame, but never addressed my concerns or gave me any positive talks about sex. Years later, I'm still trying to figure out healthy sexuality--in a healthy relationship with my husband. I struggled trying to overcome feelings of guilt for feeling sexual urges, and I went into marriage not even knowing the proper terms for parts of anatomy--including my own anatomy! My point is, your daughter has been gaining information about sex for a while, and likely feels uncomfortable or even afraid to ask you for more information because she's picked up that sex is shameful to you. If you'd rather her get the information from you (as I wished I could have gotten it from my parents), then please be open with her and don't shame her. Remind her that sex is beautiful and creates a special, powerful bond between people, which is why Heavenly Father has commanded us to save it for marriage. It's a natural and wonderful thing. Don't be afraid of her curiosity, but help her understand that the world wants us to utilize sex outside of marriage, and often mocks its sacredness.
JLDSeptember 30, 2020
You have strained my brain, but it is interesting to consider all the points you have made. How does an ignorant person recognize humility and compassion? It seems that you called out the areas which we as a society need to improve but give us only general advice on how to address it. Be humble and compassionate. If I am rooted in the things you have presented, I may have no clue as to what your are referring. I guess you know your audience, so some will understand, but I know for some of my friends that you just walked right over their heads.
CarolSeptember 30, 2020
I love your stories!! I always read them even if I don't read anything else, they always make me smile. And I agree about painting. The prep work is the worst especially if scrapping and caulking are involved.
KateSeptember 30, 2020
One serious problem with this concept is that plenty of people work VERY hard and are still hungry, and some people work hardly at all and grow fat from the work of those hungry people. Unfettered capitalism is as much of a problem as unfettered socialism. Capitalism focuses the individual on the self and undermines community, socialism encourages community but can diminish the individual. There has to be a way to ensure that people are not starving or homeless but still preserve the creativity and hard work of the individual. That is what we should be working to figure out.
ShaunaSeptember 30, 2020
Thank you--absolutely crucial. Gratitude for freedom and our Consitution are key. Recently I heard a teenager telling her younger siblings that there was absolutely nothing special about this country. I wanted to say, "well then why have so many other countries tried to adopt our Constitution?"
Barbara MattatallSeptember 30, 2020
My husband and I attended that dedication of the Nauvoo Temple and also sat in the seats alongside President Hinckley and the Apostles. His family was directly across the aisle from us. And yes, it was just as you said. The Spirit was so strong, the choir so beautiful and powerful, as if the Angels of Heaven were with us. And we also felt as you described it, an experience never to be forgotten.
Richard TarinelliSeptember 29, 2020
Thank you for very novel and useful insights into crisis and understanding and a novel repentant mindset than I, myself would ever have connected. Once again there is a wholeness greater than disparate conditions on this earth.
Robert StarlingSeptember 29, 2020
BRILLIANT! Nice summary that anyone can understand. Except the "more intelligent" intellectuals, as you say.
NDHSeptember 29, 2020
Yes, we need to use our resources wisely and conservatively, but there is a lot of false information in this article. The earth is not dying. And what everyone keeps calling "Global warming" is a natural swing that has been going on through the entire history of the world. The fires are severe because of the mismanagement of land and the misinformation of those who espouse to be environmentalist, but really do not understand what they are doing.
Elizabeth SmithSeptember 29, 2020
Gary links socialism and loss of agency is a clear and powerful way. Great article, great book.
cdSeptember 29, 2020
Beautiful and inspiring, thank you!
ESeptember 29, 2020
What a great article, thank you!
Zon EllefsenSeptember 28, 2020
This is the most beautifully written and heart felt explanation of this hard and not well understood principle! I have been trying to unlock resentment etc, and could closely identify with these “senerios”. I could feel the spirit teaching me as I read these precious words! Thank you for this, I will keep this close and re read this many more times!❤️
JoJean LoflinSeptember 28, 2020
Another "Frankly pathetic," attempt to explain away the Book of Mormon, to quote Elder Holland.
Gale PhillipsSeptember 28, 2020
Although I am not a fan of some of the SC rulings that she supported, her friendship with the late Justice Antonin Scalia should demonstrate to us that disagreements in policy/politics should not make us enemies. In the current age of social media, we hear of family and friends cancelling/ unfriending each other over differing political/social views. Ginsberg and Scalia showed us a better way to disagree.
T BlackSeptember 28, 2020
Grateful for a little snarky humor. Thank you.
Rita in TexasSeptember 28, 2020
An exhaustive (and exhausting!) intro to Joseph Smith's brilliant ability to plagiarize the most arcane and obscure sources. His dizzying intellect has been totally overlooked by his naysayers. 'Tis a pity Toponce wasted so much effort on such thin gruel. Thank you for the vigorous exercise this afternoon!
G.HatchSeptember 28, 2020
Also, I’d recommend Dr. Weiss “Intimacy Anorexia” book and workbook. There’s activities for each of you to do alone and with your spouse. Just wonderful.
PhilSeptember 28, 2020
Good article. I think that it is sometimes just as hard to be humble enough to seek forgiveness from someone that we've hurt in some way.
Mark BishopSeptember 27, 2020
Yes, David, things have never been perfect and many advances have been made over time. However, to me, it seems that there is a move away from decency, civility, brotherhood, and God that has made people unhappier. Until we, as a society, repent and come unto Christ we will never achieve the society for which so many people yearn.
Jacob R.September 27, 2020
This was a fun piece. The scary part is you see more and more people choosing a biden because he seems nicer, or choosing Anyone but trump rather than truly voting for policies they care about. Economy, Taxes, Immigration, abortion, public education, redistribution of wealth, national security, privacy laws, etc... there are hundreds of areas you can be concerned about. How you order their importance should dictate who you vote for, not someone's smile on camera.
Bonnie ThomasSeptember 26, 2020
The only thing I disagree with in this article is the depiction of the 2 political parties. One party’s platform is exactly the same. Not one thing is different from the fifties or sixties. The other party has radicalized beyond description and is responsible for destroying our institutions, our moral code, and nearly everything I hold dear. All this in the name of social justice. These 2 words make me shudder. Our constitution guarantees equal justice to all its citizens. It does not guarantee a different justice because of the color of your skin or your identity group, perceived or otherwise.
I D BasoahSeptember 26, 2020
After reading your article, I pray that I’ll be susceptible to the whispering of the still small voice. Thanks for the experiences.
KaySeptember 25, 2020
Having been married to a man for 32 years and years of counseling, I could no longer ignore what type of person I had become. At the end of our marriage I asked our counselor if it was possible that my husband was on the autism spectrum. The counselor said that he had known for quite awhile that my ex showed classic signs. He didn't feel that my ex should know because it would give him an excuse for his behavior. By that time I knew that things were over and that I had done every possible thing to make the marriage work. But it was at a huge expense for me emotionally and mentally. Thirty two years of severe depression and anxiety which have still carried over since we divorced. No one addressed the real issue. Although early on it may not have been diagnosed it is my belief that it may have been suspected during the last 20 years of our marriage. I also believe that it was a huge disservice to both of us not to discuss it.
Lora KinderSeptember 25, 2020
I like your answer. I'd like to encourage the wife to think about why she married him in the first place. Maybe she liked the way he was able to handle difficult situations without falling apart. Maybe she thought he was a good (quiet) listener. There must have been something she didn't think she could live without. As for him, he may have been attracted to her easily expressed emotions, which no one in his family seemed to be able to do. If she can remember why she fell for him (even if those qualities are annoying now), she'll be more motivated. When I learned to accept my husband the way he is and not expect him to change, we both got a lot happier and connected.
C. SinclaireSeptember 25, 2020
An article both distressing and encouraging. It provides a lot to think about. I wish those who cause pain and damage in the world could know and embrace the concept that they are hurting the world -- the Earth -- itself emotionally as well as physically (odd as that would sound to them). -- If possible, please share the title of the book where "Spencer" is the protagonist.
Tired and WearySeptember 25, 2020
I am left wondering if the husband in this letter has the same issues as my wife. Twenty-five years ago my wife was receiving therapy for her childhood. When her memory recalled the extent of the abuse she'd endured, her emotions and feelings shut down. Every physical, affectionate, and intimate thing a couple could do suddenly carried abusive memories, and she rejected ever doing such things again. She left therapy when she got to the point of forgiving her abusers, but she sees no need to get past the rest and begin having a married relationship again. Today our hugs consist of one arm around a shoulder and sort of bouncing off each other. Kissing is barely allowed. She will give me no compassion or emotional support – not even through heart surgery. And, she literally pushes me away when I try to give her comfort or support. The only emotion she will show is anger. We have initiated couples counseling in the past, but she feels she is doing nothing wrong and cancels it. She is also a mental health professional and believes that receiving counseling would ruin her reputation. She claims that I should not be weak enough so as to need help. And now she wants to get a dog so that someone/something will be giving her affection. The affection she has not allowed me to show her for twenty-five years. Again, I am left wondering about the husband in this letter; wondering if he has a past as terrible as my wife's past. Is there a trusted counselor who could get him to open up?
HalSeptember 25, 2020
Great article, thanks! Our family has been astounded in our daily reading from Alma, Helaman, and Third Nephi. The situation in many parts of our country seems to parallel what was happening in this hemisphere in the years just prior to the Savior appearing to the people in Bountiful. A little scary, but mostly exciting!
Bob JonesSeptember 25, 2020
I was raised during the depression, spent 20+ years in the military, and dearly love this country with all it problems but with hope for its future. During President Obama's run for the president he said "If elected I will fundamentally change this country" and so he did. Now can we find someone who can fundamentally change it back?
Nicole MSeptember 25, 2020
This article perfectly sums up my own scattered thoughts on this topic. I have notes scribbled in my scriptures next to the verses about burning at the end of the world that draw a parallel to the secular version of that story - climate change. Someone once said to me, "The best lie is the one that's closest to the truth." And in this case, I think Satan is the best liar. He knows how to use truth to twist us in a different direction, one that will turn us away from God and towards him. The people suffering from "climate despair" are proof of that. Great article!
Gale PhillipsSeptember 25, 2020
This article gives hope to those whose children have been indoctrinated in our universities. Tragically, this post modernist relativism is common on most campuses. Parents must give their children a framework of understanding in correct principles and a forewarning of what they will encounter, so that they can recognize and resist these false teachings when they are sent off to college.
PattieSeptember 25, 2020
What an interesting question, I had the same one myself many years ago. My husband and I have been married over 45 years and I have felt like a robot too. (Amazing analogy). Just last year my husband brought home a framed picture with the words, “I have found the one whom my soul loves.” Never in our married life have I found any kind of emotional deep ness from him. He didn’t like to say I love you and he didn’t like to hold hands in public. My expectations must have been too high for him to reach and so my needs had to be adjusted. Now at this point in our lives, I feel like we have been connected all along, just in different ways.
PattieSeptember 25, 2020
Thank you for so eloquently telling us the truth. We, as a people, continually are being lied to about climate change and unfortunately some are believing the distorted way of thinking. It saddens me that some feel they are doomed to suicide. I am grateful for President Nelson and his continual smile and encouragement to hang on.
ColleenSeptember 25, 2020
My Bishop suggested we call it Global Warning
SheilaSeptember 25, 2020
So interesting-thoughtful and SPOT ON! Thank you for your insight!
Gina McDougallSeptember 25, 2020
Thank you very much for your article. I have never been sure whether or not global warming was a real thing or whether the world has always experienced these weather patterns as told of in the Scriptures. I know that the Earth is a living thing and that she too is dying, but I hadn't realised until in recent years just how much man has been the cause of so much destruction. I am grateful therefore for the knowledge that I have received through this article. Thank you.
Geoff - AusSeptember 25, 2020
If you put this scripture in the context of the preceding verses, they are all about loving our fellow man/woman. We are being encouraged by the saviour to live the commandments to love God by loving our fellow man..
SiouxSeptember 25, 2020
Ellis: my white son was shot in the face and killed at a traffic stop by an arrogant, incompetent cop. Please stop thinking that it only happens to black guys. The cop claimed it was an accident, so he had immunity from punishment.
Anna S.September 24, 2020
I just listened to "The Profile of a Prophet" in Hugh B. Brown's own voice and it touched me to my very soul!! I am so grateful for him and all the church leaders who have shared their testimony of The Book of Mormon, Joseph Smith and the restoration. It's true.
Anne H PrattSeptember 24, 2020
Lovely article! I love the after-joy of repentance! Burdens light and filled with the Spirit.
HalSeptember 24, 2020
Really enjoyed this series, thank you! I will be forever grateful to my parents who gave me tedious, difficult tasks to do on our little dirt farm in Montana. I cussed my dad many times, but my siblings and I have never been out of a job for long and we have all become successful adults with happy families.
HalSeptember 24, 2020
Thank you so much for this article. I am hoping one of our children will find your thoughts on repentance to be illuminating.
Gale PhillipsSeptember 24, 2020
Communications from the Spirit may come to us in many ways. It is part of our responsibility as we journey through life to learn to 'hear' in any way that the Spirit may chose to communicate with us.
Leigh Ann SmithSeptember 23, 2020
I thought to myself, how fortunate that those little girls are so close in age and can be together often and are sisters!! It appears that they have been together often all their lives and they would likely be lonely if they didn't see each other very much. I married my current husband and had a 3 & 1 year old son already and he & I raised them and our 4 sons that came after with no differences by ourselves. 41 years later, they are all married and we expect our 22 grandchild in Dec. If the husband works full time, & mom is home, then he will not be there after school as much and at other times, but he should not be off "with the guys" on his weekends unless it is activities the family will enjoy with him. Since the girls are only children and sisters, I think all possible efforts should be made to help them spend as much time as possible together. That would be my major goal, for their present and future happiness.
Roxanne dupliseaSeptember 23, 2020
Get well soon Maurine Scot thank you for sharing how you hear the spirit.
Harold RustSeptember 23, 2020
Our family has completed TWO puzzles....well, I completed the first 80% of two different puzzles and then at two different family gatherings, my grandchildren helped complete the last 20%. I did find that for the last 100 pieces, family excitement and eagerness to spend time searching for a match gradually drew in young kids, teens, and even parents and visitors. I suggest to all that they keep that in mind and don't let difficulty of the first 80% restrain you from pursuing the puzzle. With regard to this description of a youth with conviction, I appreciated the depth of the discussion around such a challenge for Joseph or any young teen. We hope each of our descendants can build up the same reservoir of conviction. It's not even too late for us to do the same!
Ron BarnesSeptember 23, 2020
September 12, 1974. I was serving my mission in Ireland. While teaching a discussion, our investigator had a friend who was sitting in. The friend stated that all churches change their doctrine over time and that ours would too. I told him that he was wrong, because ours was led by a true prophet of God. At that moment, I was given pure knowledge that what I had just told him was absolutely true. It came with such power that I, too, can never deny it.
ShareeSeptember 23, 2020
I used to usher at venues in Salt Lake city where some of the performances were dance concerts featuring young girls. I and several of my fellow ushers were appaled at the overtly sexual movements in these dances. It is not good. Thanks for this article. I know I won't be watching Cuties and I hope Netflix loses lots ore subscriptions over their showing of it. They should be ashamed.
Joshua EricksonSeptember 23, 2020
An excellent article! I am persuaded that Rosh Hashanah is a better setting for the timing of Lehi's departure than my previous assumption, which was Passover. One interesting clue perhaps, which I just noticed, is that they reach the Land Bountiful 8 years after leaving Jerusalem (1 Ne 17:4). This could be understood as exactly 8 years (or nearly exactly). If they left Jerusalem around Rosh Hashanah, this would put them arriving at Bountiful around then too. This is an intriguing possibility because the next verse mentions fruit and honey! Shana Tovah!
David DurfeeSeptember 23, 2020
Interesting. Here's the America I knew when I was a kid. Black kids had different drinking fountains and couldn't eat in the same restaurants that I could. On the sitcom the Honeymooners, Jackie Gleason would clench his fist, raise it in a striking position and say to his wife, "I oughta knock you to the moon." And everyone would laugh. Pedophilia by clergy was common and accepted. The crime rate was much higher than it is now. The rate of illegitimate births was higher than it is now.
Richard SkousenSeptember 23, 2020
Great story! Thanks for sharing.
John R. CarpenterSeptember 23, 2020
YES! With all my heart, mind and soul. Let us keep our American Mission Statements in front of us as an example for us as Citizens of the USA. Let us teach, show and live them to our family, to our neighbors and demand that our educators and politicians uphold those American Mission Statements. Mission Statements of the United States of America We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. Declaration of Independence 1776 We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America. Constitution of the USA 1789
Gale PhillipsSeptember 23, 2020
"America is one of the greatest 'ideas' in history...the idea that you and I are created equal...the idea that life is not meant to be endured, but enjoyed...this country was the first to claw it way out of darkness and put that on paper..." from Bono's Georgetown speech. The fact that America/Americans have not always lived up to the ideals on which the nation was founded does not disparage the ideals, but attests to the frailties of mankind. Many who view America through the lens of negativity have not travelled to other countries and seen the abject poverty, oppression, brutality and hopelessness endured by our fellow human beings. America has never been and will never be perfect, but freedom has given us the power to work to do better. Gratitude will grant us the ability to appreciate what we take for granted.
Vardell TaylorSeptember 22, 2020
Thanks for the article Brother Frogley. We seldom hear lessons that tackle justification and sanctification. Would you be interested in having a conversation about those subjects? If so please email me. [email protected]
Gale PhillipsSeptember 22, 2020
Socialism has always been a ideology of force, violating the core of LDS faith. With the use of Orwellian language, it is made to sound appealing as a way to help those who are in need. In reality, it institutionalizes a rigid caste system in which the ruling elite prosper and the citizens suffer. In that sense, everyone is then equal; equally miserable. Churchill said of socialism, "there can be no doubt that Socialism is inseparably interwoven with Totalitarianism" and that it involves the "equal sharing of misery". Many well-intentioned people who support socialism, fail to see where it leads
James D WynderSeptember 22, 2020
What a beautiful a