My wife and I have been married for almost 30 years. We have struggled in our relationship nearly since day one. To use the world’s terms, I feel like I care for her and love her but I’m not “in love” with her, even though I would like to be. With so much water under the bridge, do you think it is truly possible to go beyond a token relationship for the kids and duty sake and to rebuild the trust and bonds of true love and affection in our relationship?