Dating, relationships, and marriage aren’t quite what they used to be, Dr. Stanley said while speaking to students, faculty, and alumni on the BYU campus in Provo, Utah, on Thursday, February 7. Looking back 40 years ago or so, there were pretty clear steps or stages that signaled where a couple was in their relationship with one another. By contrast, today’s dating culture has become one of fear, anxiety, and unrealistic expectations. So, how can we overcome these things?