The following letter from the Council of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles is being read in Church meetings across the United States and Canada beginning Sunday, July 5. (The Church issued this brief public statement immediately after the court’s decision on June 26, 2015.)
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Full introductory letter, statement and background material below:
Dear Brethren and Sisters:
Enclosed is a statement by the Council of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve in response to the recent Supreme Court decision legalizing same-sex marriage in the United States. The statement also pertains to the situation in Canada. Local leaders are asked to meet with all adults, young men, and young women on either July 5 or July 12 in a setting other than sacrament meeting and read to them the entire statement.
Also included is background material which may be helpful in answering questions that arise.
Stake presidents are asked to see that bishops receive copies of this letter and the enclosures.
Sincerely yours,
Thomas S. Monson
Henry B. Eyring
Dieter F. Uchtdorf
Marriage between a man and a woman was instituted by God and is central to His plan for His children and for the wellâbeing of society. âGod created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earthâ (Genesis 1:27â28). âTherefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one fleshâ (Genesis 2:24). Strong families, guided by a loving mother and father, serve as the fundamental institution for nurturing children, instilling faith, and transmitting to future generations the moral strengths and values that are important to civilization and vital to eternal salvation.
A family built on marriage of a man and a woman is the best setting for Godâs plan of happiness to thrive. That is why communities and nations generally have encouraged and protected marriage between a man and a woman, and the family that results from their union, as privileged institutions. Sexual relations outside of such a marriage are contrary to the laws of God pertaining to morality.
Changes in the civil law do not, indeed cannot, change the moral law that God has established. God expects us to uphold and keep His commandments regardless of divergent opinions or trends in society. His law of chastity is clear: sexual relations are proper only between a man and a woman who are legally and lawfully wedded as husband and wife. We invite all to review and understand the doctrine contained in âThe Family: A Proclamation to the World.â
Consistent with our fundamental beliefs, Church officers will not employ their ecclesiastical authority to perform marriages between two people of the same sex, and the Church does not permit its meetinghouses or other properties to be used for ceremonies, receptions, or other activities associated with sameâsex marriages. Nevertheless, all visitors are welcome to our chapels and premises so long as they respect our standards of conduct while there.
The gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us to love and treat all people with kindness and civilityâeven when we disagree. We affirm that those who avail themselves of laws or court rulings authorizing sameâsex marriage should not be treated disrespectfully. Indeed, the Church has advocated for rights of sameâsex couples in matters of hospitalization and medical care, fair housing and employment, and probate, so long as these do not infringe on the integrity of the traditional family or the constitutional rights of churches.
The Church insists on its leadersâ and membersâ right to express and advocate religious convictions on marriage, family, and morality free from retaliation or retribution. The Church is also entitled to maintain its standards of moral conduct and good standing for members.
As members of the Church, we are responsible to teach the gospel of Jesus Christ and to illuminate the great blessings that flow from heeding Godâs commandments as well as the inevitable consequences of ignoring them. We invite all to pray that people everywhere will have their hearts softened to the truths God established in the beginning, and that wisdom will be granted to those who are called upon to decide issues critical to societyâs future.
For much of human history, civil laws have generally been compatible with Godâs laws. Unfortunately, there have been notable exceptions to that pattern. For example, it is legal in the United States to perform an abortion on an unborn fetus. However, this practice is not morally acceptable before God. (See Handbook 1, 17.3). The consumption of alcohol, while contrary to Godâs law, is legal in most nations of the world, but the physical and social toll for doing so is a painful matter of record. So, too, with issues of unchaste sexual behavior, whether it be heterosexual or homosexual in its orientation. As the First Presidency has previously said and as this current response affirms, âChanges in the civil law do not, indeed cannot, change the moral law that God has established. God expects us to uphold and keep His commandments regardless of divergent opinions or trends in societyâ (First Presidency letter on âSameâ Sex Marriage,â January 9, 2014).
What is the Churchâs Policy on Homosexual Relations?
âHomosexual behavior violates the commandments of God, is contrary to the purposes of human sexuality, and deprives people of the blessings that can be found in family life and in the saving ordinances of the gospel. Those who persist in such behavior or who influence others to do so are subject to Church discipline. Homosexual behavior can be forgiven through sincere repentance. âIf members engage in homosexual behavior, Church leaders should help them have a clear understanding of faith in Jesus Christ, the process of repentance, and the purpose of life on earth.
âWhile opposing homosexual behavior, the Church reaches out with understanding and respect to individuals who are attracted to those of the same gender. âIf members feel sameâgender attraction but do not engage in any homosexual behavior, leaders should support and encourage them in their resolve to live the law of chastity and to control unrighteous thoughts. These members may receive Church callings. If they are worthy and qualified in every other way, they may also hold temple recommends and receive temple ordinancesâ (Handbook 2, 21.4.6).
Does the authorization of sameâsex marriage affect my right to religious freedom?
Our individual right to religious freedom is protected by the First Amendment to the United Statesâ Constitution and by the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms. As we exercise that right, we must also exercise tolerance and respect toward othersâ rights but do so without condoning behavior that goes contrary to the laws of God. âWhile we strive for the virtue of tolerance, other commendable qualities need not be lost. Tolerance does not require the surrender of noble purpose or of individual identity. The Lord gave instruction to leaders of His restored Church to establish and maintain institutional integrityââthat the Church may stand independentâ (D&C 78:14)â (Elder Russell M. Nelson, âTeach Us Tolerance and Love,â April 1994 general conference). How do I respond respectfully to those who consider the Churchâs position on this matter unchristian? Our objection to sameâsex marriage is not based on animosity toward anyone, but on our understanding of Godâs purposes for His children. For us, the issues are not simply âtoleranceâ and âequality.â The issues are the nature of marriage and the consequences of redefining a divinely established institution. In addition, redefining marriage in the law can have profound consequences for society, particularly for children. Mothers and fathers matter, and they are not interchangeable. âOn the subject of public discourse, we should all follow the gospel teachings to love our neighbor and avoid contention. Followers of Christ should be examples of civility. We should . . . be good listeners and show concern for the sincere belief [of others.] Though we may disagree, we should not be disagreeable. We should be wise in explaining our position and, in doing so, ask that others not be offended by our sincere religious beliefs and the free exercise of our religionâ (Elder Dallin H. Oaks, âLoving Others and Living with Differences,â October 2014 general conference).
What if I have reservations of my own regarding the Churchâs position on this subject?
âMembers who . . . have doctrinal questions should make a diligent effort, including earnest prayer and scripture study, to find solutions and answers themselves. Church members are encouraged to seek guidance from the Holy Ghost to help them in their personal lives and in family and Church responsibilities.
âIf members still need help, they should counsel first with their bishop. If necessary, he may refer them to the stake president. â. . . Stake presidents who need clarification about doctrinal or other Church matters may write in behalf of their members to the First Presidencyâ (Handbook 2, 21.1.24).
DarlaJuly 2, 2015
Those were my thoughts, too, Ann. Even the very elect will be deceived. Church members are not exempt from holding opinions that lean more towards Mammon than God. I think part of the difficulty of explaining to the portion of the church that has their eyes on the Great and Spacious Building why homosexual behaviors are wrong in today's world, though the desires may be part of one's nature, is that far too many of us have allowed ourselves to be steeped in the "If it 'feels' good or right, it must be ok" mentality. They aren't looking at such a thing as a thorn in the flesh to be endured or to overcome through sexual abstinance, but instead as something to be embraced. Homosexual desires are difficult to understand, but no less so than why a child may be born with Down Syndrome or Sickle Cell, or in 3rd world poverty, or with abusive parents. We've lost sight of this life being a challenge with nature's to be conquered.
AnnJuly 1, 2015
I agree with Trudy that it is scary even though we know from Matthew that even the very elect will be deceived. I like the Church's statement: disagree without being disagreeable. Gay relationships are contrary to the whole eternal plan. They cannot procreate! When the Family Proclamation was given to us 20 years ago, I thought it was a no-brainer....but now that society has fallen so much, I am so thankful for the wisdom and guidance it contains.